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No. 117469

Guy posting here because I don't know what the fuck else to do,
pls no bully
Girls don't like me and I have no idea why. I've flunked every proper
relationship with a girl I've ever had. Girls whom I didn't necessarily
want to spread my DNA over or even start a relationship with. Girls who
were genuinely interesting, whom I've genuinely liked and wanted to be
a part of my life because they shine a little light through the endless
torrents of shit and fakeness I always have to endure. Every time I
suggest meeting up, for example, they completely break contact with me.
I don't want to analyse the way I ask things, because I think it's
retarded and redundant, but I've tried analysing it anyway and couldn't
for the life of me come up with a single reason for them to completely
break off any kind of contact. I can respect it if they're not
comfortable meeting up; fuck, I'm super nervous about these things all
the time; but why completely break off contact? I'm never weird about
these suggestions, I never make a huge deal out of them, I just suggest
it regularly like I would to a man, for example. I have no problem
talking to women, I actually really like talking to them. I find that
they're much more chill and less fake than most men, at least where I
live. I just don't seem to be able to somehow make them a part of my
life. I'm not trying to have sex. I've lost my virginity at a fairly
young age, and it was fucking horrible. I felt nothing for the girl,
as if she was some kind of sex doll, a mere aid for masturbation, and
that kinda freaked me out and I've been kind of scared of sex ever
since. I don't think I'm very good looking, but I take care of myself -
I work out regularly; I groom and clean myself; I have many hobbies and
a curiosity for a lot of things; I have a stable job. I just can't
figure out this one fucking thing. I did have some social anxiety like
all of us but I've worked on it and I have no problem talking to
people, I'd like to think that I have genuine confidence (not like
RSDTyler or any of those irritating cunts), I just can't figure out
this one fucking thing.
Please be as harsh as you fucking can, I just want to be able to properly talk to girls without any bullshit(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 117489

Observe character traits and actions of "normal" people and try to include them in your behaviour. For example, format your text like a normal person instead of
like a
for some reason

and use normal ways of describing things, like "spread your DNA" is not a turn of phrase that is pleasing to the ear. It's all about observing and mimicking. It takes time but eventually you'll get to a point of seeming to be like a "normal" person. Don't expect instant results. Also you should aim for other non neurotypicals, a popular Stacey is not going to have the empathy and patience required to deal with any unusual behaviour.

I hope this was

No. 117491

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Do you ramble like this irl OP because your post nearly put me to sleep

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