/g/ - girl talk

>>545748
I'm 25 and both are disgusting but if I had to choose it's going to be Barra Tit's Barry on the right. I fucking hate muscles but I refuse to be gaslit into thinking faggots are hot

>>545748
I'm 25 and I would like them both and >>546208 to gangbang me raw

>>547498
Threesome was my first thought when I saw that post. Sandwhich the shit out of me raw, left and right. Left's gorgeous little wiener goes behind. Foursome with >>546208 too

>>547154
They both look like gay faggots to me, just different subsets. Twink vs bear/bottom vs top

>>545748
Left if he wasn't posed like a faggot

Nonnas how do I convince my friend not to embarrass herself further?
>left her relationship with her high school boyfriend
She cheated on him multiple times (granted it was just kissing other men at the club) and he forgave her. He had a good job and told her that he would eventually want to marry her once she finished uni, they were in a long distance relationship since he remained back home to work (7h train distance), but he would come to visit often and also send her gifts. But anyway, not important, feelings can fizzle out, especially when you are in a long term relationship and you are young.
>she has been attracted to this other guy of our course, with whom we are friends with.
>She almost had an affair (can you even call it that kek?) with him a year and a half ago, she even went on a date with him
>she distanced herself only to rekindle this year.
She made out with him at the club and then invited him back to her place, from what she told me he ate her out , slapped her butt but couldn’t do more because his dick didn’t get hard, probably because he was pissed drunk. She confessed to her boyfriend since she can’t keep secrets and she broke up with him herself.
Anyway fast forward to now, it has been three months and she has literally been begging this scrote to come back to her’s to have sex with her, teasing him by saying that she’ll show him her new tattoo in her secret place , etc other than messaging him everyday in a not sexual way. The scrote has refused her three times already and she even got mad at him and called him out about how she’s in a difficult time and how he’s not been understanding and sending mixed signals. He replied by saying that he was going through a difficult period and that she wasn’t really anyone to expect anything from him and that his relationship with her isn’t the same as the one she has with me and that she was being too pushy.
I just feel embarrassed for her. I think it’s just pathetic to beg for cock as a woman. I told her to cut her losses but she says she “can’t”.

>>547344
Her need for male validation is clearly indicative of a much bigger issue, self esteem related. There's not much you can do here as it sounds like she is pretty stuck in her ways. I guess all you can do is wait for to realise it herself, and to do that she will probably have to humiliate herself further.

>>547435
Yeah me too. At this point I feel like she just wants to conquer him as a way to stroke her ego and as a way to justify her break up since the catalyst of it was this guy.
It’s kind of funny because look wise she doesn’t even seem like a pick me, she is even based because she doesn’t wear make up and bras (which in contrast I both do and being friends with her helped me doing it less too)but it just stops there, anything else is just meh when it comes to men.
I would slap myself if a made a dinner date with my friend group and one of the people I invited wrote me a message saying “by the way, I am not coming to your place after, I am going back home” because you have been pestering him for sex. It’s humiliating. I would respect her more if she went on Tinder kek.

I am genuinely considering modelling as a legit career. I have only ever worked as an assistant after getting a social science degree. I am 29 years old and I am starting to think seriously about saving $$ and putting money away in a 401k. I have been scouted/ told to model since I was like 14 but I always had firm grip on reality/ never tried to pursue it. Does anyone know how the post COVID modelling environment is like? Can I model for the gap/ jcrew and make like 100k? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Do I confront my husband on this? I posted this in a question thread but it's probably better here

I had a stalker ex, he was stalking me for 3+ years after we broke up. We all swam in the same circles online, which I didn't realise.
Found a girls discord server, made friends with a few girls there.
Turns out one girl knew my ex, was using an alt to talk to be my friend and gather dozing info on me, gave my location etc to my ex which. She knew about the things he did to me, she was laughing with my ex on her main account about how scared of him I was.
When I found out I was telling my husband her main user name and cried about how I thought she was a genuine friend but she was doing this the whole time.

Anyway turns out my husband had an online sexual relationship with her, I found this out by snooping. They stopped talking 4ish months before him and I got together.

He either knew her usernsme and kept quiet or had forgotten her username.
I had no idea they knew eachother.
Hindsight it makes more sense that she was nasty to me since she knew my husband? Do I ask him wtf? I had no idea we were all that intertwined

>>545344
I find this pretty relatable so far, but the art style is lacking and a bit bland… i'm kind of hoping someone else takes the idea, and tweaks/refines it with better art. Thankful for the rec though!

>>547770
The short humblebragging anons literally started it. They saw tall and their minds couldn't handle not saying they are short. Once again it's like if someone complained about not being born with legs were letting their grievances out and some came by and said that life is also hard with legs. Not incorrect but completely tone deaf and insensitive.

>>547790
I don't think it genuinely was humblebragging though, and it certainly didn't justify an a-log. It's inevitable that some traits that people hate about themselves would be more preferable to certain others and vice versa. Grass is always greener and all that. I see nonas trying to point to the possible downsides of certain desirable traits with the intent to maybe be helpful in a way, but I agree that saying "well if you had this thing you might have to worry about this instead" does the opposite, despite its intention. Although definitely the "look at this outlier woman whom isn't all that and how successful she is despite it" because, she is her, we are not her, and the same circumstances don't apply to everyone. Plus, it's harder in the modern age with the standards having been artificially inflated with editing apps, access to plastic surgery, AI, etc. I've gotten told, "well imagine how bad it would feel if you were a burn victim" before as if that's supposed to make me feel better lol… sigh

>>547790
No… they literally didn't. You saw someone mention their height in a comment that was meant to commiserate on fellow ugliness and shared dislike of their own height with you and went ballistic on her for no reason… because you seem to genuinely think anyone who says "I hate being short" is trying to brag and/or insult you personally. Reevaluate yourself, because you are making yourself look insane.

>>547831
She was insensitive and didn't consider that nobody asked about her experience compared to mine. If am anon wants to vent about being short idc but don't try to emphasize with someone who specifically wants those traits due to their experience. The suffering women who look like me go through is hell compared to being a but ugly in the face.

>>547832
would

>>547822
I swear it’s like I can feel the drops on my own scalp, how relaxing

>>547830
I never understood why people get so mad about people who don't even know or care if they exist having relationships

>>547832
shitter content.

>>547832
Still hotter than 99% moids.

>>547692
based husbando choice. stampede vash looks like such a fag i absolutely hate his redesign he deserves to get cucked for his fuckboy hairstyle
this actually reminds me of a memory i had back when i was younger and was watching the 98 anime. they had a scene of meryl and milly walking in on vash being shirtless after getting out of the shower, and i very distinctly remember feeling my heart skip a beat when i saw him. i wasn't into husbandofagging yet at that time, hell i hadn't even really had any memory of ever having feelings for fictional characters before, but that shot just really did something to me that i could never forget kek

I preordered a Dan Heng Imbibiter Lunae figure last year. Double checked that it's shipping from JP and not China because of tariffs. I love my husband so much, he's gonna be a 13.5 inch figure with his hot ass and a dragon coiled around him

Blew so much money to get him in-game. Cute official holographic pin badge merch cuz he's chained up and shirtless. Unbelievably eatable and I'd dom him if the world didnt keep him as a fictional being

>>547715
respectfully disagree. Stampede Vash is hot but in a virginal way. I think he's only going to get hotter and more insane in the second season.
I love that in every canon iteration he's embarrassed by being seen shirtless. that scene in the 98 anime reminded me that he actually has a smoking hot body underneath the goofy dumbass personality so I get why you'd feel something when you saw it. sometimes I get the feeling that he's written for female consumption, at least that's what I like to believe

>>546823
I'm gonna be lazy and say missionary. Since I always imagine us fucking in basic positions, having non-penetrative sex or whatever makes me hornier at that moment (and him enjoying it), I haven't thought about his preferences during sex. Don't know how to even begin headcanoning that.

>>547641
I'd scream a little and then laugh because I know it was just an accident, and then enjoy his cute, guilty, worried self in the days it takes my clit to recover.

>>547306
>probably submissive
Definitely submissive

>>547692
oh my god i was getting dunked on irl for calling vash husbando tier, i feel so vindicated rn

>>522223
I don't have much experience, but my Nigel is a fan of micorodosing shrooms for his anxiety. I've microdosed a few times before and I would say I have positive experiences with it, though I didn't really need medication in the first place. This is based on 0 studies and 90% on just winging it, so read up on actual scientific literature if you want to know that kind of stuff. Overall my experience is positive with Md'ing, but it's not permanent therapy. It's useful for getting insights on your life and being open-minded enough to welcome different changes into it. After my
First of all, it's not something you can take on a constant basis. You will eventually have to either take a tolerance break or up your dosage, since your tolerance increases. I don't remember exactly what the schedule is, but you either take a dose 1x every 3 days (take a dose mon and take a break tues-wed), or 5x every seven days (take a dose mon-fri, weekends off + nootropics), until you reach a months or six weeks, then you stop taking them to let the effects sort of stabilize. Just look up Paul Stamets protocol and James Fadiman protocol (which uses acid, not shrooms). Make sure to pay attention to how you're feeling, even on off days. My bf took 1x per 3 days and it worked out for him, he even started a hobby that he now enjoys a lot. But as i have said, it's not a permanent thing, though you can take several courses per year. I would take a break for about a month before i'd start taking them again.
As for the dosage, you might want to buy a jewellery scale (one is sensitive enough to measure 0.01 grams at least) to measure your dose, to know that you're taking the same amount every day. I would start with 0.2 grams, personally. But that still doesn't guarantee an exact dose of psilocybin, since it can e dispersed differently throughout the mushroom. Point is, you don't want to take too much, otherwise it's not even microdosing anymore. Though, again, I eyeballed my dose and i would take either 5-7 mm of a dried stem or half of a dried cap. The worst that happened was I got too nervous at work and had to take a 10 min break, because i overestimated.
Second, if you can drive to Colorado, it should be piss easy to source shrooms themselves. Spores are legal there, but i would not recommend growing them, it's pretty tricky and you don't want to get sick from Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>522223
I grew my own once, it was so easy. You can buy sterile sealed growth medium online and you can separately buy a syringe full of the spores "to look at in a microscope". Inject, put the bag in a box in a closet, wait.

>>522335
Maybe I should do it that way if it's that easy. I was reading the non-kit DIY guide on /r/microdose and it seems pretty involved and easy to screw up. I'd definitely be up for it if I was in a better mental state, but if I was in a better mental state I wouldn't need to be exploring this in the first place.
>>522264
Thanks for the info. I poked around those sites for a while and they seem more than happy to describe every aspect of the process in extreme detail, except they're complete crickets on the part where you actually get the stuff unless you make it yourself. Which is understandable, but still frustrating. I don't know any darknet sites and my social circle is super straight-laced. I could go to my one smoke shop in town but for some reason that risk makes me more nervous than the risk of ordering online from a stranger.
My state health department is doing a pilot program to explore legalizing shrooms for medical purposes, so I could probably find a legal avenue no problem 5 years from now, but I can't afford to be this debilitated for the next 5 years. My therapist wants me to do TMS, but I'm averse to the idea of giving myself selective brain damage and am disillusioned with the overall psychiatric industry after so many years. Also I went to the site of the company she recommended and right on the homepage it started spouting off about "depression is caused by chemical imbalances in the brain," which modern academics now acknowledge was a bunk, unfounded theory from the beginning.

>>522376
ayrt. I assume you live in the US. If so, I can say that having an irl plug for shrooms is safer than ordering drugs online by mail, plus, it's much less involved. If you're talking to a gal that works in a headshop, I can't stress how much more likely she is to have a shroom connect than turning you in for just asking. The worst that could happen is she would say she can't tell because of store policy or something. This is probably the best, simplest option if you want an irl plug. The other easier way to find a plug organically is asking random people at music festivals. But obviously that method is not the most accessible.
If you want to go the darknet route, it takes a fair amount of preparation and investment, besides it isn't hard to fuck up and get in legal trouble if you aren't careful enough. Read Dread, it's a forum basically similar to reddit, just on the dark net. Try r/onions for links to the site. The forum's a little dead but you can probably find a board on there that will help. Most people will probably advertise their stores, though. You can ask for shroom sources there. If you're not familiar with accessing the dark web, look up some tutorials. You will have to set up a bitcoin wallet as well if you're dead set on buying on there.
Just remember to be smart and be safe!

>>522223
As nonna above described too, I also think finding a local plug is a good idea. But depends if you have any friends who know them. Mine is getting expensive so I've been doing research on growing my own. But you can also find a website called shroomery? Reddit also works. A nice forum of shroom enthusiasts who describe in detail different ways to grow on your own.

It's "illegal" to own or sell. But it's legal to buy a syringe of spores or spore prints for research purposes. No one is required to tell the vendors you're doing it for recreational purposes. Also I think if you use the code the forum gives you, the vendors provide an extra syringe. Then a trip to Home Depot for a jar or bucket and some medium. Apparently contamination is possible and mold could kill off the shrooms, so you gotta disinfect. You could use petri dishes if you don't want to repeat the process until you get a successful batch. Someone did a tally and it should be $50-60 max for infinite future supply. Worth the effort I think

>>546358
kek i can hardly be literate sorry. also my period is en route so expecting my levels to drop even more, waste of supplements

>>457070
Update to this: I'm okay, but I will still get routinely checked anyway.

>>546237
>>546089
>>546093
Thanks for your responses. Interesting some of you mention temperature regulation, I'm actually an excessive sweater, so the heat drenches me, and I'm allergic to my own sweat (which has been diagnosed).
I've never been properly assessed but myself and everyone close to me is fairly certain I'm autistic. Would it help to get assessed for that with the diagnostic process?
I'll start checking my temp more often, and see if that shows anything. Thank you for your insights!

>>546171
Ah, glad you won't have to deal with all the bs I mentioned then. You might need a nightguard yeah, it's good you've been able to fix some of it yourself. I would hold off on that until you see the dentist though, because trying to do a cheap otc one yourself might make the issue worse. In the meantime, there are facial/jaw massages for tmj that help a lot, especially if you apply heat (use a towel dipped in hot water, it's annoying but effective.) Try to use just hands because "facial massagers for tmj" are often just rebranded sex toys and can fuck things up by being too strong.

Why does the thyroid area of my neck constantly feel swollen recently (to the point where it's affecting my breathing) even though visibly it's not?

>>545920
I have no problem with kpop as a fantasy outlet or just appreciating the cute aesthetics and music. But I cringe so hard when black women worship Korea and treat it like it's paradise. Do they not realize their kpop oppars view them as subhumans? And dont get me started on those thirsty ass videos where some kpop moid says something like 'I prefer women who have a slight tan' and then the black kpop girlies go wild over it and start screaming that it's proof he loves black women lol. Or when BW get perved on by a couple horny dudes in Seoul who want to 'try a black girl one time', and think that's flattering somehow or that they should be grateful to receive that kind of interest because they're black women. It makes my skin crawl. They dont realize that men can hate and despise you but still want to fuck you.

>>547681
There are some decently sized gay communities in some cities in my state, probably more gay guys than lesbians but there are a bit of black lesbians here. The problem is that the state I live in is Florida. If you're fine with that, stick to cities like Orlando and St. Pete I do not recommend small towns.

speaking of kpop…if black kpop fans spent more energy supporting the one black chick in kpop (Fatou) and less time begging kpop idols to be less insensitive, that'd be great. it's weird that they let her group flop so hard after begging kpop companies for years to debut someone black instead of making asians be black cosplayers. they think it's a more productive use of their time to gather on a tiktok live for a whole hour to scold a grown ass Asian-American man like a 12 yo for mouthing the n-word in a song. The message BW are sending kpop companies is that they'd rather be rewarded for "sacrificing" and tolerating disrespect from Asians (like they try to get black men to do and fail) than support another BW. Same mental issues, different race.

>>547777
I agree with you mostly but their latest song(Gnarly) was absolute dogwater. Most of their fans are either outright saying it's shit or psyopping themselves into liking it. At least they're doing better than That One Group.

>>547726
Colorism is more than that. People are kinder to you if you are pale. Its easier to find makeup and fashion that suits you. It's easier to assimilate if you are pale. You are judged less harshly as a light-skinned person than as a dark-skinned person. If I could easily and permanently change my looks from Kelly Rowland in color to a Vanessa Willaims, I would. All this SJW, confidence talk is cope for something that can't be changed easily. I just want an easier life.

>>547026
I started after covid kek, I'd spend several hours a day for months on end hunting in order to find anything I liked at a reasonable price.

>>547332
This is just my personal experience, but as someone who wears both classic and Boz style EGA I don't actually have a problem with long lengths generally. I just think the way classic brands have been executing them lately is really ugly. The Boz dress still has a nice shape to it and looks tailored and flattering as opposed to new VM and IW that looks baggy and sloppy even on the models. Even if the dresses were a foot shorter they would still look bad. I think what a lot of us classics actually miss is the tailored silhouette that these brands used to consistently make, such as picrel which is still longer than typical lolita length but isn't sloppy. It is simple but fits nicely and is very elegant. I know long lengths aren't for everyone but they are far from the reason I am uninterested in most new classic releases.

>>547636
AYRT, that makes a ton of sense! I've noticed clsssic brands like IW are sort of going back to Pink House style silhouettes but like, without the finesse Pink House executed them with. So I can totally see why you'd be annoyed about that, no matter what length they're coming in. That style basically only looks good on Misako Aoki and can definitely come across less refined/elegant.

>>547652
>Pink House style silhouettes
This is the way to describe it that was escaping me. I can see why people like Misako and those who have a similar body type and features to her would like it, and that's who these brands are catering to. Unlike Misako who has soft features and still looks good in sweet, I have sharper features and like accentuating my waist so stuff like >>547461 is pretty but doesn't work for me. The last few new releases I bought from classic brands I ended up selling because they didn't suit me. If it suits other anons and they love it more power to them, but it's not what I personally want to wear or feel good in and I don't want to force myself to keep up with new trends.
Most of my classic wardrobe is darker and slightly gothic leaning anyway so I do actually find myself looking at brands like Boz for inspo, funnily enough.

>>547185
>>547194
I'm so happy to see Herhum love in an english speaking space. Their blouses are also well made and comfortable. It's my favorite brand for simple basics for lolita and normie clothes.