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No. 224539

How to spot a Cool Girl and stop her in her tracks before she sabotages your social life, steals your boyfriend and slanders you behind your back

>warning signs and physical attributes of these snakes in the grass


>strategies to call out the inconsistencies and superficiality of the "one of the boys" attitude


> ways to turn the mirror on them, expose the bias and the misogynistic undertones


> how to prevent her from employing all kinds of underhanded tactics to turn your friends against you


> how to tell if your boyfriend's clingy cool female friend's intentions are not as pure as she thinks they seem and let it be known that you're well aware


> how to stand your ground, stay true to yourself and your individuality and not be seen as a stuck up "Karen" in comparison

No. 224545

just ignore her and leave your shitty boyfriend if he's that easy to steal

No. 224553

>>224545
This and if a man falls for pick me behavior, he is not worth dating at all.

No. 224555

This high-key looks like a list Cady's friends would have written in their quest to expose Regina George. Irl you just shut off people like that, simple as that.

>>224545
>>224553
Based

No. 224601

You should look inwards to find out why you are a weak willed doormat

No. 224606

Never date a guy who has female friends. He wants to fuck all of them or has fucked them in the past. Men can not be friends to women.

Source: have never had a male friend who didn't try to fuck me.

No. 224613


No. 224618

>>224539
Thank her for stealing your shitty boyfriend before you get married and have him fuck you over/cheat on you.

No. 224633

OP speaking, a cool girl never stole my boyfriend although I have noticed they have a tendency to fall into the type of situation I described and, well, this thread is meant to be a comprehensive guide to deal with these so might as well cover all the scenarios.

No. 224634

>>224633
lmao clown

No. 224635

>>224606
Imo, casual female friends are fine, bonus points if he has friends who are lesbians and he is well-liked by them. It allows you to observe how he treats women that he doesn't want to get a relationship out of. Female best friends are a no-go, though. There's always feelings there, either one way or both. You should be the most important non-blood woman in his life.

No. 224636

>>224633
I like your thread OP, don't let the cool-girls shit all over you because they are offended. I assume a large portion of users identifies as "I'm not like other girls, I'm one of the boys!"

>>224635
No. No female friends, like I said, males are incapable of being friends to women. Even lesbians, yes they want to fuck you too.

No. 224641

>>224539
Google the "gray rock" method. Literally ignore her completely, those kinds of bitches live off of the attention.
My crush at the time (now bf) had this pick me friend that was blatantly in love with him.
His other friends told me that she had sneaked into his friend group by dating the loser neet friend of the group, but it was an "open relationship", so she would still try to flirt with my crush everyday.
Even though we weren't even dating yet, I got my crush to first set strong boundaries with his pick me friend, then to stop hanging out with that friend group once we started dating (I didn't specifically forbid him but I made lots of plans all the time inviting some of his friends, and then we moved in together, and then covid happened), then eventually to stop ever talking to her altogether.
I never entertained her shit and grayrocked her all the way.
I should say, it helped a lot that the more we ignored her the more desperate she became, she started doing crazier and crazier shit.
She ended up dumping the neet friend, we went back to hanging out with his friends, and him and the bitch are basically strangers now.

No. 224643

Cool girls/pick me women all wind up getting their karma eventually. It’s sad but when you’re actively fighting against other women for some mediocre man that’s just pathetic. I had one swoop up my ex because we had freshly broken up and she had a thing for him, obviously she was into him when we were dating and she went as far to call me crazy to groups of mutual friends afterward even though she was now dating the guy who manipulated and raped me because I was a virgin so yeah that made me guarded against women for a long time after. Other times I had similar things happen where guys would hang out with me and my friends would spread rumors because they were jealous and it’s like I can’t fucking win on either side. I just hope they grow the fuck up, I’d rather mind my own fucking business than get salty putting others down and act possessive at the hopes of some Reddit tier moid relationship.

No. 224646

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Hello i am cool girl

No. 224648

If your boyfriend is so retarded and disloyal that you have to come up with tactics just to stop him from cheating on you with any random woman, then why are you even dating him?

No. 224652

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>>224646
hello get away from my bf

No. 224656

lol wtf is this shitty misogynistic thread

No. 224657

>>224648
Well put. No boyfriend that can be "stolen" was worth keeping in the first place. It's not the other girl's fault if your man is a cheating retard.

No. 224658

>>224636
I mean there's nothing wrong with you or anyone having that boundary but a man not being able to be friendly with women at all seems like a red flag. I have male friends that have never tried to fuck me because there was an appropriate distance but they were good and respectful friends to me and now they're good partners to their gfs. We aren't "best friends" and never were. Our friend group was like half men and half women with not much dating between us though that would have been crazy if they couldn't get along with the women in the group.

No. 224661

>steals your boyfriend
stop being a simp (sucker idolizing mediocre penis)

No. 224663

>>224646
that dog is neither fat nor threatening. i want my money back.

No. 224664


No. 224667

>>224606
I would never date a male with no female friends. If another woman doesn’t want to be around him, why would I be? Lucky enough I am not a teenager anymore and hangout only with proper people.

No. 224678

>>224648
I'm >>224641
I agree, except sometimes the guy isn't interested and even so these bitches will try to make your life miserable. This bitch had been trying to flirt with my bf for over a year before we had even met, to no avail. But instead of getting the hint, the moment I came into the picture she became more aggressive.
She would make up lies behind my back to try to pin ppl against me. The more I ignored her the crazier she went, she started discreetly pushing me or hitting me when no one was looking, she would steal items from us, etc. And then she would act super sweet to everyone else.
At the time we started dating I knew other 4 girls that were into my bf too (no wonder since he's super tall and attractive and sweet). But these women were normal and sane so they backed off and moved on, and I became friends with some of them after that (and I like them a lot).
But you're kidding yourself if you think each and every woman in the world is nice and normal, every once in a while you'll run into a full-blown cow.

No. 224774

>>224664
Putting other women down based on physical appearance on a thread about pick mes…
See the irony?

No. 225175

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I didn’t know there was a name for this but my ex was definitely stolen by a “cool girl.” He’s majoring in computer science and runs a very male-centric discord server that she’s a massive user on. I got along fine with his classmates, but they acted absolutely pathetic towards her. They seemed in awe that she was a skilled programmer that was also just “one of the guys” who liked anime and internet humour. They’d all simp for her and would jokingly “ship” themselves with her, and of course she’d play along with it.
At one point I met her in person when my ex invited me to hang out with his classmates. I remember she seemed oddly annoyed that I was there and would only ask about my relationship with my ex when interacting with me.
In the weeks after I met her I found out that she was flirting with him behind my back. They were even spending days out together without me knowing. She also had a boyfriend during all this but they devised to dump their partners on the same night so that they could date instead. The real kicker is that all of my ex’s classmates witnessed this cheating happening and played along with it. Some even gave their approval that he should dump me for her.

Anyways, I wish I knew this was a thing before it happened to me, but he probably wasn’t much of a loss anyways. He’s been reaching out to me again and telling me how much he misses me and regrets what he did.. so lame

No. 225255

>>225175
I hope your're leaving him on read nonny.

No. 225258

>>225175
Never date comp sci or any male oriented career men. Also men's male friends support their cheating, hurting their wives/gfs, etc so it's not that much of a shock they supported him.
You should either ghost him or mock him for example tell him you aren't interested in manchildren whose personality is watching Japanese cartoons.
These cool girls fr steal away the shittiest men. Imagine what would've happened if you married this weeb and his friends supported him cheating or emotionally abusing you behind your back. He's the one who lost, these cool girls never settle down, their hobby is stealing men away to feed for their ego and men only realize that once they're dumped.

No. 225262

>>224658
>a man not being able to be friendly with women at all seems like a red flag
All men are like that, you just can't see through it because you're retarded

>I have male friends that have never tried to fuck me because there was an appropriate distance but they were good and respectful friends to me

Try offering sex to them and watch absolutely every single one of them accept the offer. Its up to the woman to set the boundaries, men have none. They all would fuck you.
The reason they don't actively try is because you or them are im relationships, otherwise they would. Or maybe you are just too naive to see it.

Men are never "friends" to women they find unattractive because if sex is not a possibility there is no point to the relationship for them

No. 225264

>>225258
OMG my ex was an engineer and he invited me on one work night and his "work wife" kept fucking elbowing me lol. He also had exes in his DMs constantly shit talking me and him going along with it. His friends were totally on board with his cheating, recruiting him as a wing man constantly even when they had gfs. I told one gf she had been cheated on cause my ex got drunk and confessed. Everyone was so mad at me my ex was like twisted in pain, hands up over his ears going "whyyy?!" saying I broke up a family. I didn't sleep with anyone else, couldn't be me.

No. 225284

>>225264
>>225175
I hate men so fucking much

No. 225319

>>225264
I'm the anon you replied to and I have a similar story. Engineering student flirted with me all the time, this other girl who I assume was his gf got mad and literally attacked me, threw my shit all over the floor. I started ignoring the dude afterwards but he'd come over and literally hit or smack any men I talked to.
Do not ever date engineers. They're either gonna cheat or full on tranny out on you.

No. 225470

>>225262
>Try offering sex
Then they wouldnt be the ones trying to fuck you, you are trying to fuck them. Not to mention, you can be friends with someone while being attracted to them. What, do you think gay guys cant have male friends either?

No. 225475

>>225470
Tbh those anons sound really psychotic to me.
I wanted to fuck badly some of my male friends but once they got into relationships or rejected me (no, I’m not ugly at all, they weren’t just into me because, surprise, men can have tastes and if you stop going out with apes you’ll notice), I stopped pursuing anything more than a friendship.
Just stop being paranoid over some other girl or men.

No. 225478

>>225475
You're either very overweight, underweight or again very unattractive. I've known tons of men, had a lot of close male friends and never saw them turn a girl down unless she was very unattractive. I'm sorry but you kind of have to realize men aren't picky at all but women are. That's why men can ask out 10 women to get a date and women reject most men that ask them out. It's only natural for the women to do the choosing when it comes to partners as most men will be willing to be with her.
>>225470
Considering how most gay men fetishize straight men, it would be quite hard. Even online you can see gay men writing about hopeless crushes on their straight buddies. It's kind of sad honestly.

No. 225481

>>225478
Ntayrt but wow, you really are sounding like a scrote

No. 225483

>>225478
>you kind of have to realize men aren't picky at all but women are
We are not talking whether men are picky or not, but about being able to have male-female friendships. Which self evidently you can, on account of such friendships existing, and being quite common. You need to be a complete shut in who doesnt interact with people outside of internet to think otherwise.

No. 225484

One of my close friends qualifies as a “cool girl” she recently had a phase of sleeping around with a bunch of guys and I noticed she adjusts her personality/interests according to them. An example I can think of is she started sleeping with this guy who was super into classic rock which she has alway disliked and whenever I played it around her she would jokingly poke fun at me and call me old etc. But all of a sudden she started sending me classic rock songs and stuff? And when i asked she was like “Oh X is into it so i’m checking it out”. I don’t date at the moment but when we were younger she ended up sexting a guy I was interested in, we had a falling out but eventually got back together. I do have this irrational fear in the back of my mind that if I ever started dating again and they met her she would probably try to sabotage the relationship but I feel bad for even thinking that and wouldn’t want to lose a friend over a potential and paranoid “what if”. I also feel like she resents me at times because the only guy she could never “get with” and I became really close friends at one point.

No. 225485

>>225484
samefag, she also calls herself bi but I only ever see her do stuff like this for male attention and she’s mostly with men. She’s been with a few women but she never does the whole “altering entire personality” shit for them.

No. 225487

>>225478
So let me understand, men can’t be friends with women they find unattractive but I am despite having several male friends? They find me unattractive or fat or anachan yet they are my friends? Uuuhhh… How do they say… oh yes, cope, seethe, dilate and touch grass I guess.

No. 225488

>>225478
damn I always had this at the back of my mind. I'd like to think my face is quite average but I'm indeed too skinny. Years of romantic rejection and never managed to have male friendships, always got the vibe they can't be bothered to even talk to me because they don't consider me fuckable. I really do think for a man to become friends with a woman, most of the time he needs to find her attractive. Men are offended by the mere presence of a woman that they don't find hot

No. 225489

>>225483
I'm not the one who said male female friendships are impossible. I just find it hard to believe anon actually asked out her male friends and got rejected because I've never seen that scenerio play our irl. Hell someone made a fake account for am average girl and asked out every guy in my college, none of them rejected her. Men don't really have as high standards or any specific types as they pretend they do.
>>225481
Eh. Most scrotes pretend to have high standards and act like they're picky as hell when in reality they're desperate to be with someone, that's why I found it hard to believe anon get turned down.

No. 225490

>>225489
Idk Anon, maybe I am just good at weeding out male that are worth being friends with? The moment I understand they would stick it in whoever I cut them out. Probably it’s a single digit percentage, or maybe because I am in a social context that allows it but not all scrote are mentally incapacitated.

No. 225491

>>225488
I'm the anon you're replying to and by too skinny I meant ana-chan levels. Unless you have a very disproportionate weight or facial disfigurement there will be some men who will find you attractive. I'm very sorry if it sounded harsh, I didn't mean to insult anyone, my point was that men don't reject women easily and if they knew any of their female friends were into them, they'd want to be with them.

No. 225492

>>225490
You may be right. I live in a muslim country where most men are really desperate and only see women as objects. It's probably just my experience.

No. 225493

>>225492
No problem Nonnie, I was also a bit too quick to action, it might be the board kek.
Yeah, I can see why your experience is different from mine, I live in a very young and filled with social activism city. We talk a lot about sexuality and feminism, and one of their gfs are the most angey feminist I know of, lol.
That’s why I say that men are capable of friendship with attractive women, but it takes a lot of effort from society and them, and that’s the reason I cut out men incapable of being friends with women. If they don’t know how to be close to a cute/beautiful girl without trying to get into her pants, I don’t want them near me ever. I don’t need male friends, as much as I need female friends. I need friends that stay close because we have similar views on life, hobbies and how to respectfully treat other human beings.
Pickmes and fuckboys can go sniff chlorine gas elsewhere, tbh.

No. 225496

>>225493
nta but if they're male feminists they're most certainly sticking their dicks in everything. most of them get outed as predators eventually.

No. 225498

>>225496
Oh my god the paranoia. I get your worries, but I know them and I trust my gut. Predators are most probably not hanging out with women their age (28) and have a completely different social circles.
I know predators just like you describe and they are incapable of having female friends past 23.

No. 225501

>>225493
doesn't
>very young and filled with social activism city
typically translate to "prostitution is good actually and trannies are mentally sound" tho

No. 225515

>>225501
Speaking of mental soundness, take your BPD medication you freak.

No. 225517

>>225515
How is her post BPD

No. 225518

>>225515
so you're not going to deny it kek

No. 225523

>>225501
I love you nonnies but sometimes you’re really tiring to be around.

No. 225531

>>225493
Sorry but you sound incredibly young and naive. Male feminists are the absolute worst. I get it, you live in some pozzed college town where people have poly relationships, everyone is trans and bisexual and BLM posters and fagflags hang on every building. All the men pretend to be woke and tuned in to societal issues, they are super #progressive and #believeAllWomen. Those men are actually the worst fucking predators that you can possibly meet. Male feminists have figured out how to get women to trust them and think that they are safe to be around, they are wolves in sheeps clothes that have mastered the art of seeming unthreatening and "on your side". But in reality they think like all other men do, they just pretend to be different because they have figured out it's a much easier way to get that libfem pussy if they pretend to agree with everything you say. They will still cheat, rape and watch disgusting porn. They just hide it better.

No. 225532

>>225498
>Predators are most probably not hanging out with women their age
You really are stupid. Most women are raped by people they know. Men they are friends with, not strangers. You are completely delusional about your male "friends" and I assume you will one day learn your lesson. I really thought you were younger than 28 tho, you must have grown up extremely sheltered.

No. 225560

>>225532
And you sound like someone who never went outside of their social circle and spends all day bitching about how everyone else is a covered sociopath. No wonders why you’re so worried about “cool girls”. I’d rather be one than hang out with such depressive and closed people like you.

No. 225563

>>225501
They hated Jesus because She told them the truth.

No. 225601

>>225560
"I'd rather ignore the warning signs and let men take advantage of me than be a freaking meanie like you"
Lol groomed by moids

No. 225603

>>225532
>You are completely delusional about your male "friends" and I assume you will one day learn your lesson
Why would you wish anon such fate? psychopath, you aren't any better than moids

No. 246292

I’m just using this space to vent. I don’t really agree with most things OP created this thread for, but it fits.
I’m a bisexual woman. My boyfriend is friends with other bisexual women (who are in relationships.) These women are extremely open with their sex lives and have told him about their experiences with bringing unicorns into their relationships.
I used to be unsure where I stood with the possibility of bringing in a unicorn, but leaned towards uncomfortable but wanting to give my bf the experience. He always made it clear that my opinion came first, and if I weren’t comfortable, we just simply wouldn’t do it and he’d be just as satisfied with just me. So the possibility of finding a unicorn has been on the table for a while, but the next time he asks, I’ll simply tell him that it wouldn’t be for me.
I just hope he doesn’t subconsciously compare me to these cool girls. I would be more interested in an MMF threesome, but he shut that down (which I understand,) so I think I reserve the right to do the same. I wonder how many of these cool girls’ boyfriends would be open to MMF.

No. 246294

>>246292
People who have threesomes aren't in good relationships if you ask me. Nobody who loves their partner wants to watch them fuck someone else. I'd honestly break up if my boyfriend even asked to have a threesome. You should ask him to set some proper boundaries with those women who overshare their sexual lives because it's incredibly inappropriate.

No. 246298

>>246292
i am bi and married to a man and he's said before that if i wanted to mess around with women on the side in the future, he'd be ok with it and wouldn't consider it cheating. and i told him that yeah for him he probably does feel like me being with women would be 'lesser' and that the heterosexual pairing would win out so it's not so threatening, but for me being with a woman would just be straight up cheating. because i'm bisexual, i'm not a straight woman just playing around.

No. 246300

>>246292
sorry samefag but i meant to also say that threesomes are weird and you arent required to do that for your boyfriend just because you're attracted to women too.

No. 246312

>>246298
you're married to his ass? it also sounds like he fetishizes lesbian sex like many men because of porn, ew.

No. 246315

>>246298
oh god, every man seems to be like this. insane how many women i met who's husbands were okay with their wife fucking a woman. no man though! only a woman. because they see lesbians as just a porn category and not actual human relationships. i went out with this older woman on a date and she hit me with a 'my husband gave me permission for this', come on… could've at least told me this before i wasted my time meeting you. sorry for the weird anecdote, how did your husband react to what you told him?

No. 246316

>>246294
I absolutely have to agree here. I think there's a huge difference in say, looking at another peson and thinking "oh they're attractive" that's pretty normal and happens even in great relationships.
But wanting to have sex with other people even more so with your partner included is just weird. I'm sorry, I just don't get it and it makes no sense to me. Every relationship I've seen or heard of where they've introduced threesomes or a 'poly' element has either been utter trash in the first place or they've just found ways to fuck other people because neither person has the spine to break up with the other.

>>246298
This is also a very common thing with men. Any man who considers it 'lesser' or 'not real' for a woman to cheat with a woman has spent way too much time watching porn. They don't even view lesbian relationships or sex as real connections, just some sort of hot fantasy to fetishize or trivialize. Not trying to justify cheating in any sense of the word of course, but it irks me when men treat it as just some sexy little pillowfight or something kek.

No. 246377

>>246315
it was actually a really good discussion, he did watch porn while growing up (find a millenial man who didnt, i'll wait) but says he stopped watching it in the past few years and i believe him. he said that i was right, and he did automatically think that if i was involved with a woman it would be 'lesser' but he saw the flaw in that opinion, and could see how from my perspective that was ridiculous. i also told him that he may think he'd be ok with it, but if i actually did go out with a woman he probably wouldn't be very chill about it, and he said i had a good point about that too. overall a good talk. we've been married less than a year so we are still figuring things out and having foundational talks like this.

No. 246683

One of my close friends had her shitty scrote stolen by his cool best friend. Honestly she's better off for it, anyone who can be stolen isn't someone you want to begin with.

I have only one male friend and I highly suspect he is gay. He's the only moid I actively allow around me even though I usually mesh better with groups of men than women because of similar interests. When I was younger I was a die hard defender of the idea that men and women can be friends. Then one of my closest friends (or so I thought) of 5 years had a meltdown when I came out as a lesbian because it meant he didn't get to fuck me so he had "wasted" these years of what I had considered to be an important friendship. After that I believe that unless he's gay men can't be friends with women. If there's even the slightest risk of them wanting to fuck you, you're not gonna be able to have a full friendship with them.



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