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>>191915Thread for:
>dommes>femdom images and media>femdom fantasies>female subs interested in women>advice and storiesSome things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?>What is your ideal sub like?>What experiences have you had?>What advice do you have for new dommes?>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones? No. 252624
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>>252604
Like this?
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Spoiler for spoiler reasons lol but i watched bridgerton and this scene has me rolling on the fucking ground. I want to shove my fingers down a man's throat so bad and maybe make him gag a little
No. 253303
>>253287Well you see, the problem for me is that I
can't cum from just oral, my clitoris is not very sensitive because of decades of masturbating on hard surfaces. I'm sure that if this wasn't the case, I would've enjoyed it more.>>253280His saliva. But maybe he had the AC on, I don't remember.
No. 253321
>>253261it's pretty nice - it's really warm and hot if you're in a room with a good temperature dunno what
>>253276 is on about, prob was in a cold room?
only do it after you orgasm though, it's pretty tough to orgasm from that position and doesn't feel that nice, feels awkward tbh
prone on your back with his head between your legs is better imo
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>>253320I would take it as a green light. It's gently dominant. It's hot to see your partner sucking on your body (makes you think of them kissing/sucking other areas), and it implies a level of control by having access to an intimate, squishy area. Plus they're in a compromising situation since it's an uncommon, socially taboo thing you wouldn't do with anyone else. Unless you're a dentist.
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>>252612Makes me miss the gore blogs in old Tumblr. There were some amazing blogs collecting gifs of men suffering and bloody, all gone now. At least non-gory whump blogs remain. If only the term and the whole way the community talks wasn't so twee and cringe.
No. 253759
>>253738Gag. It's throwing up warning bells for me. I hate men who do the manipulative "oh you don't know what you want baby,
I know what you want, I can see what a sub you are." Nah dude, that's just what you want to see because it makes you feel better about not being able to exert control in any other aspect of your life. Do not actually go along with it unless you're into it (and make sure you understand what he actually means by it), and I would take him up on his offer to dom him and see how he actually handles it.
No. 253760
>>253738i think you should stand your ground and don't do anything you aren't comfortable with, you'll just feel worse for it afterwards.
also his insistence seems a bit strange and off putting in this context.
No. 253761
>>253738I think it is a red flag.
Tell him that there will be no more such talk from him because that isn't what you're into. If he protests then you two aren't compatible.
No. 253763
>>253261Personally, I freaking love it. It’s exactly as you
>>253287 describe it. I can orgasm more easily in that position because I’m in control and basically grinding on his tongue exactly how I want.
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I'm not a femdom or anything but I came across this photo and thought of my girlies on lolcow
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>>254234FWIW I'm a bit annoyed she's still made to look to appeal to males but the moid kinda genuinely looks uncomfortable here
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this reminded me of you all
No. 255951
>>255930This manga sucks ass and is for moids
>>255934get better standards
No. 255965
>>255930I'm not usually the one to say this, but this manga seems weirdly misogynistic, also I can't stand her expressions
>>255951This
No. 255971
>>255968>>255965Obviously. Because in the mind of males, feminine = inferior, weak, pathetic.
It feels like the author wants to hatefuck an assertive woman and that's it. That's not femdom, she's just giving him a handjob and """forcing""" him to stick his dick in her.
"Oh noooo I'm going crazy, I can't cum anymore, you're so cruel you fucking bitch, you'll pay for this!" Wow, so submissive. "You're so boring, hurry up and fill me up your dirty semen inside of me with your perverted cock again, tee-hee!" Wow, so humiliating!
Men are retarded.
No. 256021
>>255930How is male ejaculation "squirting like a girl"? Bizarre.
Also can you imagine maledom that involves a man comparing a woman to a lowly man to degrade her?
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No. 256756
>>256266I would never approach anyone from "the community" you're absolutely right about that. I dislike OLD as well though if nothing else works I'll use it as a last resort.
For an ultra low social skills person what is the old fashioned way to go about it? Just hang around in bars or cafes?
No. 256784
>>256771As an experienced cold approacher of seven times, since I like leading in the relationship and sort of dig a role-reversal dynamic, they don't get creeped out. Maintaining the "upper hand" or whatever was never an issue either as long as they liked me. Women online always said that would happen but it never felt like that in a relationship. The main issue is a higher chance of incompatibility since he's a stranger, but that goes for anyone you date I assume.
Meeting at hobby focused events or places like you said may negate some of this.
No. 258691
>>256784Being with a man who didn't approach you first you will always live with the fact that he never actually wanted you enough to make a move and you likely wouldn't be together otherwise. Whether that's due to self consciousness, lack of interest, self absorption, none of it is good. Exception being if you see each other regularly and he was interested but you were just quicker. I'm not telling you specifically to change since this is something you enjoy, but I hope other anons consider it before approaching a man first. I used to be the same way and thought it was no big deal but I found being the one to care more in the beginning also tended to mean I cared more throughout the whole relationship. I want to be desired and worshipped, not seen as a sweet bargain deal some guy won through pure luck with zero effort. Obviously this mostly pertains to if you want a relationship with a domme/sub element, if it's purely sexual then go for it. It's good you never experienced what
>>256771 brought up but personally I've had men act outright suspicious for initiating and while they eventually feel excited when they realize you're serious, since they didn't need to put any thought behind approaching you they often are horribly unprepared for a relationship. This isn't to say you can't show interest and leave the door open for a guy, but I'd much rather he walk through it himself rather than needing to be dragged.
No. 258694
>>258691I agree with you so fucking much! The main problem is that men and women react to being approached differently. If a woman isn't interested, she'll reject the guy immediately (or give a fake number if she feels threatened). If a guy isn't interested, what will he do? Chances are he'll keep the woman around and string her along because she'll be an easy source of attention, sex, and various other "benefits." Most men are opportunistic and take what they can get. I really wish it wasn't this way, but it's not lucrative for women to hit on men unless she already knows his character somewhat well.
Also on a related mote, I've seen a lot of gentle dommes be the main initiator for everything in their relationships: asking the guy out, saying I love you first, taking care of him in every way, proposing to him, basically being the driving force behind everything without having anything reciprocated. You gals need to CHILL until you thoroughly know the guy's character and intent and know he won't take advantage. I don't care how much you love him, you need to properly vet and not fall into the trap of being his mommy bangmaid. This seems to happen so much with dommes into gfd, so I thought I'd mention it.
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Cillian Murphy, don't know where it's from but I like it.
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I was watching a movie called 68 Kill. It’s pretty scrotecore wacky crime comedy but I gotta say, the abundance of skinny waif Matthew Gray Gubler getting choked slapped beat up and whimpering every few minutes was enjoyable.
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hi
No. 259634
>>259018>>259092>>259333Whoa thanks for the recs nonas.
>>259629Kek this pic again, I want to know the story behind it.
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Where would you draw the line between content suited for the femdom thread and the "cuties with an ouchie" thread?
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No. 260620
>>260568Men being annoying parasites is common in general and more so if they are outspoken about sexual fetishes. It really doesn't matter which one they prefer. Men wanting to believe they're a big bad dom kang, guys shrieking mommy over any woman with a hint of muscle, hooking up with randoms at orgies, psychos jerking off in the middle of public parks, foot fags. If you're in a social community dedicated to any of those things, solely looking to hook up with women based on those things and otherwise advertising your fetish to the world (like in a dating app profile), you are deranged. It goes for both sexes although obviously men are worse. The reason it's better to bring up femdom scenarios with 'normie' men is precisely
because they are normal. Even the women here who say they must always have femdom sex or are okay with casual encounters surrounding their fetish even with gross men freely admit they are not mentally well.
>men… generally worse to women than they are to menthat's literally all men. I'm not defending outspoken sub guys I'm just saying they're no better or worse than a person forming their entire identity around any kink. Liking the same things does not guarantee compatibility on a personal basis.
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>>260762pfft very little and i venture to say even less than 25%. as far as the women, they're definitely conditioned into accepting this or wanting this but the percentage of men is low. and just because they're "submissive" in the bedroom doesn't mean they're actually submissive, those type of men are even more rare like 6% i'd have to imagine
No. 260784
>>260762Most men are amenable to being sexually submissive because it's still sex. Even those deep into
toxic masculinity often like it although they'd rarely admit as much. In my experience I'd even say the more stereotypically masculine a man is (military, blue collar, outdoorsman) the more he gets into it, maybe because he's expected to be the stoic, forever in control type everywhere else. That's just sexually though like
>>260782 said. Men who are "submissive" in terms of prioritizing their partner, letting her have the final say in most decisions and otherwise putting her wants/needs first are rare. Correlation is mostly going to be with respect to upbringing and if he seems to respect women as a whole.
No. 260812
>>26079225% is still way higher than I thought it would be. I'm also shocked at the 4% figure for dominant women I thought it would be a lot lower.
I would've guessed around 10% for men and maybe 2% for women at most.
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>>260844>>260782Mfw memed into the maledom thing because pickme coomer. Didn’t actually enjoy the act of submitting itself, was just obsessed with being “good at sex” and “adventurous”. Never even considered femdom because all of its portrayal is gross latex strap on porn for scrotes. Stopped being a pickme, started seriously getting in touch with myself. Everything clicked when I finally realized why I like certain fictional men, and how I felt all my encounters with men irl were so underwhelming. Crazy how I lived so disconnected from my true desires for so long. I imagine a good chunk of women just never even considered stepping out of the submissive role because they have no clue what femdom could be like outside of porn.
No. 260992
>>260784Agree with this 100%.
>Men who are "submissive" in terms of prioritizing their partner, letting her have the final say in most decisions and otherwise putting her wants/needs first are rare.This is extremely rare, even rarer if he's submissive ONLY within a romantic context and not a people pleaser to everyone.
>>260844Aren't there quite a lot of women who want to be pampered and pleased by their partner? I kinda wish that was considered dominant too. But I guess since there's no meme fetishes it's not ~real femdom~ I wonder if so many women didn't feel obligated to be a mommy bangmaid to their partners, if they would seek out acts of service from their partners instead.
No. 261007
>>260996My favorite archetypes! I feel like there's still a lot of love for the sweet and loyal but would fuck someone up for you type but it's become far less prevalent than the
abusive psycho 'badboy' ever since 50 Shades and the general pornified culture has taken over. Wish healthier values were still being promoted, but when you have entire governments paying to create shows that encourage man in charge/"traditional values" (female submission in all spheres)/marriage you're really fighting an uphill battle.
No. 261020
>>260996>>261007I love these archetypes. Servile, devoted, obedient, and masculine. These should be the main malesub archetypes, not lazy manchild and sissy cuckold shit.
>>261010Yeah, I think a lot of women would want to be in control if it meant their partner listened to them and served them in a loving way. How many women complain about their nigel not listening to them? Way too many. Women know what makes them happy and the effort they want from their moid but are groomed/browbeaten into being low maintenance and not wanting or demanding anything.
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>>261020>I love these archetypes. Servile, devoted, obedient, and masculine. These should be the main malesub archetypes, not lazy manchild and sissy cuckold shit.Amen sister.
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>>261136>>261158It's quirky and the guy is not as polished as this archetype would normally imply since he's a kid, but I think The End of the F
*ing World works. It's a show about two teens who run away from home, with the girl being sarcastic and bossy. She is a good person but can have too much attitude as a defense mechanism, which is sometimes funny and sometimes self sabotaging. She is escaping a stepdad who sexually harasses her while her pickme mom stands idly by. The boy is a self-professed "psychopath" but in reality he's just a very withdrawn, shy kid who was deeply traumatized when his mom got sick and committed suicide. Presents a bit autistic maybe, but not in the obnoxious way. Despite him intially fantasizing about killing the girl, in reality he looks to her for guidance and quietly goes along with her ideas most of the time. He does grow more of a backbone over time, but the only frustration he expresses is when Alyssa does objectively stupid things that could put her in danger, and he makes some big sacrifices to protect her. She is also the one to initiate sexual scenarios and James is either stunned, receptive or respectful in instances she changes her mind. They're very cute and it was refreshing to see a softer but proactive male love interest.
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>>261136This one is called "I'm a Slave in an Alternate World but My Master Does Not Desire Me"
Their backstory is whack as shit to me but i love they grow into loving each other. Personal favorite part of them since I too am inexperienced. Spoilered for spoiler
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>>260996>>261007>>261029Your average Yuke-shota doujin
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I'm normally v submissive but the things I would do to young Kyle Maclaughlin, goodness me
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hngbhhggjgjf
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i want to top him so badly
No. 261332
>>261329omg
nonnie i'd never seen the shock collar vid before…
i want to put my fingers in his mouth No. 261385
>>261329He is definitely a masochist.
He got so excited every time Lady D attacks in RE8.
No. 261561
>>261307>>260573If anyone knows anything about typesetting scans, drop your discord or a throwaway and I’ll translate this.
>>260996I feel like butlers have been really popular among female weebs since like the mid 2000s. Moids by and large just don’t bother pandering to women, I guess. Even the “straight” ones would rather make stupid maid/trap/catboy memes. Sad!
No. 261566
>>261561I feel like chivalrous male service like that is most common among normie men who don't consider it a kink, just probably some kind of old-fashioned gentleman behaviour. It's not common in our age of fuckboys but men who like that do exist.
Same with men who are pleasers and naturally submissive. It's not seen as kink so you don't hear about them. Most don't consume femdom porn because it's disgusting crap that doesn't appeal to them either. But they do exist and they are the type that dom women should go for. Basically just ignore all coomers and self-identified malesubs and find a sweet normie guy who doesn't want to dominate you. Man like that will most likely be at least open to being sub or even prefer it.
No. 261698
>>261561>>261566>chivalrous male serviceI've noticed a lot of submissive-identified guys use the submissive label as a way to escape any sort of accountability and responsibility they could possibly have as a man. If you look at the most widespread fetishes with sub men: crossdressing, chastity, humiliation, JOI, SPH, sissy, pegging, cuckolding… None of these involve looking good for or directly serving the woman in any way, but they do involve throwing away any masculine appeal that the woman might have found attractive. For example, no sane, confident women wants a pathetic failure of a man who wants "alpha males" to please her instead of him stepping up and pleasing her himself. Most of these fetishes are sub men coping for being so pathetic
That's why none of them want to roleplay as butlers or knights. They'd have to look presentable and orderly for their partner, they'd have actual responsibilities, they've have to serve her in a meaningful way, not half-assingly doing chores while wearing an ugly $5 maid outfit.
No. 261701
>>261561>>261566>>261698>I feel like chivalrous male serviceAnd here lies the problem, it's a service.
You either have to offer something in return or pay for it.
> If you look at the most widespread fetishes with sub men: crossdressing, chastity, humiliation, JOI, SPH, sissy, pegging, cuckolding… None of these involve looking good for or directly serving the woman in any wayBecause it a cheap way to get themself off, that's why these are coomers fetishes to begin with. They're like fat people addicted to junk food, they would do anything (expect real work or time investment) to get their next bite.
>That's why none of them want to roleplay as butlers or knights.You need discipline and restriction for both of these, and coomers have neither.
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>>261698I mean the idea of a Knight taking a vow of chastity for me does seem cute in a way. I think for a lot of these things it's a mix of lazy submissives that I wouldn't really call submissives and very rare ones that are proactive and self improving.
Personally I'd love it if the idea of them being submissive was played around with, where's the flirty sub that want's to make me blush or grab him by the neck to kiss him, where's the sub that want's me to come home and not have to lift a finger and just relax and unwind after a stressful day of work.
Most so called ones fall into the trap thinking submissives are just passive , when they should be proactive and engaging, be like those male birds in nature shows build me a nice home, give me shiny things, wear nice stylish clothes and dance. kek
Like the idea of a sub being strong or brave or daring never struck their minds.
No. 261709
>>261704Another enjoyer of femdom also seeing the connection with birds of paradise makes me feel so seen (and less insane).
>>261167>>261572Wanted to chime in and second this, James realizing his "fantasy" is just a retarded cope happens like 3 episodes into the series. Pretty dark and quirky show, but I agree with
>>261160 saying he has an appealing level of servility and devotion to Alyssa if you're looking for knight/queen vibes.
No. 261761
>>261704What a cutie! I wish there was a way to transform birds of paradise into human males. Beautiful, eager to serve, great dance moves.
>Most so called ones fall into the trap thinking submissives are just passive , when they should be proactive and engagingPreach. I like "passive" as in respects and adheres to my decisions, not avoids contributing anything of value and hopes I'll mommy-manage the household and our sex lives.
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I've thought about it and I don't think I can do it, I don't think I can be dominant. I'm expected to because of the butch thing and sometimes the fantasy seems nice, but let's be real, I've changed. It's like I've actually become more in touch with my feelings and I've become more aware of lesbophobia, which has resulted in me preferring being bossed around, because then I know for sure there's consent and she's actually into me. Also I feel like I turn into a bumbling idiot nowadays, an intense sensation takes over, like tingling all over and my heart flutters like crazy, even from something as simple as smelling perfume of a woman I find very attractive. It's really extreme and my head just goes empty and it didn't use to be this bad. So I do have a problem with being sexually dominant. The internalized lesbophobia and butchphobia stops me and the turning into a head empty bumbling horny idiot. Is there a word for a female butch himbo which isn't bimbo, because I hate that word and would bring up the wrong connotations? That's me. I want to serve and worship a woman (and every inch of her body), have her order me around, be ordered to eat her out whenever she wants or making me beg to eat her out. Woo her, admire her. Make her feel like she is the most sublime creature on earth. I want to cook for her, protect her and make her feel safe, but really she's the one in charge. I'll play music for her, maybe piano or bass, idk. I want to paint her and draw pictures of her as a queen. I would give her piggyback rides and carry her bridal style whenever she wants me to. I want her to tell me what to wear partially because I'm kinda clueless tbh, I'll overdress and wear a suit to brunch if she wants me to or humiliate myself by wearing just a pink apron and nothing else while baking pancakes for her. I'll fuck her however she wants me to, strap, fingers, tongue, but maybe she sometimes wants to use the strap on me instead and for that one she really has to convince me, but I just can't say no to her. I honestly think I would even enjoy it if she would spit in my mouth, I don't know, put her fingers in my mouth. Maybe she'll force me to go to a hand spa to make sure my hands stay soft for her, despite all the lifting and doing chores for her and people will be like what is this masculine woman even doing here? I'll beat up any scrote who dares to harm her. I don't want to step on any woman, I can't do it. I feel like this is too degenerate for the female fantasies thread so I'm posting it here and sorry if this sounds scroteish and I'm making anyone uncomfortable. Picrel my favourite tv series queen.
No. 261808
>>261782Nonny don't be ashamed, you sound like the perfect sub and there's nothing degrading about your description of this dynamic at all. As you can tell from recent conversation, what you've described is exactly what most of us want but is exceptionally hard to find (especially among men). Anons talk about guys because most of us are straight but lesbians are welcome to share femdom fantasies too, from either the domme or sub perspective. It's specifically in the op that the thread is also for
>female subs interested in womenI personally loved hearing your fantasy, it makes me so happy to hear about anyone who wants to spoil their partner and dedicate themselves to her so fully. I hope you will find your queen someday and get to enjoy everything you've described.
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>>261782Your post also made me think of this cute knight x royalty art that I've always loved so I hope you enjoy it too. The artist is Rachel Eaton.
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>>261811And this by Sara Kipin
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>>261811This one is more warrior x warrior but Ami Thompson has a whole series where it implies the Red Knight is cursed and possessed by an evil being while the White Knight(? she is presented more like a warrior queen in the visual storytelling) fights her so she can be freed of the monster until they both join forces to take it down and have their happy ending. Check it out:
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>>261808It's difficult not to feel ashamed though, the shame is very layered kek.
>but is exceptionally hard to find (especially among men)Ironically enough what I described is considered in some circles to be manlike and heteropatriarchal, I never got that logic, but it went on the big pile of worries. Men acting like that is more something you see in movies or read about than irl. I'm aware the thread is open to lesbians, but I'm still worried about making anyone uncomfortable with my uh essay. Maybe someday I'll find her, it's just a bit discouraging that the butch thing is such a minefield in the current climate
many are afraid we'll transition or are secret terfs, though the latter is a positive. The women who are still interested tend to share memes related to "step on me" stuff
I don't have a problem with other women not liking what I like, it's completely fair, but I still feel disappointed due to the tiny dating pool and that's on me and I just can't fit into that role. Add other insecurities to that and I'm almost too paralyzed to actively look. I hope you can find whoever you're looking for too! Or enjoy the person you already have!
>>261811>>261813>>261815Thank you for sharing! Warrior queens are great too
I have a thing for Lagertha in Vikings. Not art, but I found a random out of context pic of Anne Hathaway and Audra McDonald while looking for stuff on Pinterest.
No. 261863
>>261698>crossdressing, chastity, humiliation, JOI, SPH, sissy, pegging, cuckoldingmost of these could be better described as subsets of humiliation fetishes. like with crossdressing, men fetishize it because they see femininity and things related to women/being a woman degrading because they are misogynists.
>Most of these fetishes are sub men coping for being so patheticcorrect.
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>>261811The original. La belle dame sans merci
No. 262063
>>261782>Is there a word for a female butch himbo which isn't bimbo, because I hate that word and would bring up the wrong connotations?If someone has an actual answer for this, please share. I've been reading Jane Fletcher's Caelano series and the protagonist of
Rangers of Roadsend is exactly this and I lover her for it. I literally only write about these books to myself in my diary because I'm paranoid that the premise (fantasy book where men don't exist) would make me seem
terf-y to the friends I normally sperg about media to. So it's not super important I find a word to describe it, but it would be nice if there was one
No. 262065
>>262063>fantasy book where men don't existAYRT, sounds interesting, would you recommend it to actual terfs? If you want you could of course talk more often about it in a thread somewhere here!
>If someone has an actual answer for this, please share.I've looked around a bit more and I've seen "bhimbo", which still means butch himbo and should be something I could've thought of myself. I'll let you know when I find something better.
No. 262119
>>261782You sound wonderful.
Maybe "herbo" instead of "himbo"?
No. 262232
>>262118Kek I'm not sure how to respond. Uh I hope you're having a nice weekend, I'm doing alright, hbu?
>>262119Thank you! That could also make sense.
No. 262265
>>261701>And here lies the problem, it's a service.I feel like this is the real problem a lot of the nonna would-be dommes here have. A (mentally sound) guy who is going to go into a relationship expecting nothing and offering up everything does not exist and that makes perfect sense. All relationships are somewhat transactional at the end of the day.
Scrotes who get off on being ashtrays and wearing chastity cages or whatever are mentally deranged and horrible partners, as pretty much every domme has pointed out.
Unpopular opinion (fact), but if you want a knight bf, you have to make him feel happy too.
No. 262311
>>262265>Unpopular opinion (fact), but if you want a knight bf, you have to make him feel happy too.I don't think this is that unpopular. There are some supposed dommes here who go on about how they never lift a finger for a man and if you derive any pleasure from seeing or touching or doing things for a man then you're just a delusional groomed idiot but I'm pretty sure it's actually only like one psychotic anon. Most of the women here would very much like a happy normal relationship with give and take, just with some kinky stuff thrown in and a man who who gives
more for a change.
No. 262382
>>262265>>262311This brings up the question: are there any other dommes here who specifically like femdom or D/s specifically because the relationship outside of the bedroom would be skewed in their favor? I never liked the idea of it just being in the bedroom, and us having a normal give-and-take relationship outside. I felt that would invalidate the whole part of him submitting to me, as I don't want it to be a "roleplay" kink thing, but something genuinely because he feels a strong love for me and wants to show that through submitting to me.
I notice that a lot of women are squicked out by having their partner serve them in non-sexual ways. But this is my relationship with my fiance. We have an active sex life, but 90% of the D/s component of our relationship consists of non-sexual service. He derives so much happiness from making me happy, and making my life easier, pleasant, and more convenient. Funnily enough, in the beginning I told him I was scared of being too selfish and demanding. He's encouraged me so much to open up and ask for whatever I've wanted, no matter how trivial or major, as long as it made me happier or reduced the mental load on me.
I've never reciprocated, outside of doing natural things you do for your partner like giving him my time, undivided attention, emotional support, etc… And rather, he loves it when I ask things of him, because he wants to be useful to me. He made me realize I couldn't be happy in a relationship without someone devoting themselves to me like he has. If it was just a sexual thing I would hate it so much.
No. 262389
>>262386I don't mind being used, I don't really expect much if any reciprocation, I'm easy,
I can orgasm from just going down on her or getting a couple neck kisses. I would be happy enough to be wanted and needed. Severe mental illness would be a problem and I would want to be sure she's actually into women.
No. 262469
>>262382>>262382I'm sure plenty would like it. Hell, I'd like it. Everyone likes getting stuff and not having to do anything for it. I'm just saying it's rare and genuinely unstable.
There's a reason boomer scrotes talk about how much their wife resents them when they get old - they expected her to be a bangmaid and did not reciprocate with anything to make her happy.
I hate to break it to you, but based on past experience, I don't think this relationship can last.
No. 262479
>>262469There are some people who express their love through caring for, serving their partner, and putting them first. They gain satisfaction and fulfillment in doing so. In this case, they aren't looking at the relationship as quid pro quo, but they still need to be loved, wanted, acknowledged, and emotionally supported by their partner. In a way, does that not count as reciprocation?
>There's a reason boomer scrotes talk about how much their wife resents them when they get old - they expected her to be a bangmaid and did not reciprocate with anything to make her happy.Those women didn't sign up to be bangmaids. They felt forced into it because of gender roles, societal expectations, etc. Not to mention those scrotes genuinely don't love, care about, or appreciate their wives, so of course there is going to be resentment.
No. 262549
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>>262479>There are some people who express their love through caring for, serving their partner, and putting them first. They gain satisfaction and fulfillment in doing so.NTA, but isn't acts of service also literally a love language? So it would make sense.
>In this case, they aren't looking at the relationship as quid pro quo, but they still need to be loved, wanted, acknowledged, and emotionally supported by their partner.I'm not sure if this is already a part of love language theory, but I've noticed that what you enjoy to give is not always what you also enjoy to receive. Or maybe that is exactly the crux of what d/s relationships should be about and people in regular relationships want to receive what they give. Personally I like to provide acts of service, giving gifts, words of affirmation etc., but I generally don't like receiving them. I prefer receiving quality time and physical touch (not sexual) picrel. So I would feel reciprocated just by someone spending time with me, holding my hand or arm in public, they wouldn't have to do acts of service for me too, because I don't care about receiving those.
No. 262702
>>262382>He derives so much happiness from making me happy, and making my life easier, pleasant, and more convenient. That's what I want in a partner. Bluntly, a large part of the reasoning is because I've always been the one who gave too much in past relationships. That's common for many women since we tend to be more relationship-minded instead of just wanting to be with someone for convenience and occasional sex. I took charge during sex, but I also planned cute dates, got my partner random gifts, remembered everything he said, prioritized things he wanted to do. I was basically the "knight" or the gentledom/mommymaid that's been brought up. He reciprocated but it was few and far between, and we had very different outlooks on important topics besides. I just can't be the one to love and give more if I'm in a relationship again. It's exhausting and frustrating. I'm not saying I want to contribute nothing, I wouldn't wish that on anyone having gone through it myself, I just want the scales tipped somewhat in my favor. Anything less isn't worth my time. If that means I stay single then I'm fine with that. Men already gain so much more by being in relationships than we do, it's only fair they put in more effort. (I'm not directing any of this at "you" in particular anon, it sounds like you are in fact a supportive partner.)
No. 262764
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I enjoy the more intellectual discussions we've been having here. Cute sub pics are great too, but it's nice to hear other women's perspectives. I'm curious, would anons say their personality reflects their preferences in relationshipa and sexual situations? Are you the typical "type" people imagine, cool and stoic, in your everyday life? Or do you come across differently than your preferences would imply? I'm a friendly and laid back person. Some people have assumed I was cold because I'm not super outgoing in general, but that changes once we start talking. I guess I don't fit the standard mold because of that, but it does differ in certain contexts. I'm outspoken and don't hesitate to stand up for people if someone is being a nuisance to friends. I am more forward with those I actually do like, but only once I have a good idea of the type of person they are. Pushy, aggressive or arrogant men receive zero attention.
No. 262785
>>262749I am talking about those who have relationships with men
Men are percieving women with a male gaze
Hello, good morning
No. 262794
>>262549Excellent response, anon! Just because someone gives something doesn't mean they necessarily want to receive that thing back. I've also looked at D/s in terms of love languages rather than just kink. Acts of service are a must for me, to an extent that wouldn't really be a fair expectation in a regular relationship.
>>262702>Men already gain so much more by being in relationships than we do,This is a big thing. They are already so blessed by having a woman who loves them, supports them, and listens to them, but they will fuck it up by being retarded manbabies. You gave out of the goodness of your heart but they didn't deserve that. Good on you for realizing you deserve better.
>>262707You sound pornsick, seek help.
No. 262914
>>260844>>260879same. When I was younger I thought I was more on the subby side because i was brainwashed but i came to realize over the years that in every single sexual encounter i had that i really enjoyed, i was doing at least something dominant. I started having sex at 18, only fully realized im into femdom around 23 and I'm now 26 and still sure in that.
>>262902lucky you i guess…
No. 262955
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>>262793>escape from outsider expectations and realityI know what you mean, so much of society expects us to be docile, calm and patient all the time. Power really can be an aphrodisiac. It feels euphoric having someone obey your every whim and do everything in their power to please you. I think where men get it wrong is so many only see the power itself as enticing, and forget that a real person is on the other side
No. 262959
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Tending to wounds she didn't cause or preparing for round two?
No. 262960
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No. 263001
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I'm assuming it's been discussed when GoT was relevant but God bless that series for the Jaime/Cirsei and Jorah/Dany Jon/Dany dynamic and like every other male from sandor, jojen, tommen, Rob, Sam, fucking theon, sort-of Stannis, drogo, tyrion, and tormund were all subby/servants and devoted or lost their lives for a woman, even if many of them started out insufferable and only gained humility and humanity down the line.
I watched Reign recently and the queen isstressing out about having to marry the king of spain for an alliance. Hes a grest guy and the big deal breaker conflict of this couple of episodes is that he wants her to choke and whip him in return for his eternal service and access to his empire's fortunes, and she's too disgusted to go through with it. I mean God damn come on wtf
Peter Murphy pic because idk he's hot
No. 263009
>>263001>big deal breaker conflict of this couple of episodes is that he wants her to choke and whip him in return for his eternal service and access to his empire's fortunesSeriously?? I always avoided this show because it looked like some stupid teen drama with no care for historical accuracy, but if it’s a stupid teen drama with no historical accuracy about a subby king then maybe I’ll reconsider kek. Too bad the woman isn’t properly intrigued by the scenario.
GoT was so horribly misogynistic I couldn’t get into any of the pairings and just stopped watching early on. Even the ones that could’ve been good like Jorah x Dany ended up weird and predatory, and Drogo just straight up rapes her so that invalidates the whole thing for me (yes I know it was a bit better in the books). Weirdly enough Sandor x Sansa had a pretty nice dynamic but it was still messed up for many reasons. It’s just frustrating that they all have to be in a very misogynistic setting and have the dynamics polluted by that.
No. 263129
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No. 263132
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Something fun
No. 263152
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I don't think the Webtoon Seducing The Warrior Princess Sigrid has been rec'd yet. It's about the buff viking daughter of a local chief and a pretty boy skald (bard/poet) who falls for her. He's very puppyish, and there's another more traditionally masculine viking guy who has a crush on her but still gets shy. It's primarily comedy but there is an underlying plot that's building. Only downside is it seems to have been on hiatus since January.
No. 263172
>>263009oh no no no, the plot doesn't go any further than that, they kill the subby maso-king the episode after he's introduced and move on quickly. the whole dynamic is presented as sort of unthinkably repulsive and the queen blindfolds him and gets an older woman to hit him for her, since she can't even stand to entertain such degeneracy, and I think when he realizes her voice isn't coming from the direction of the person hitting him he flips out and falls over, hits his head or something, dies, covered up, and is never mentioned again. it was awful and felt bad to watch.
>>263048fair enough - I really had to headcanon out some ages, admittedly, but there weren't any weird dominatrix types, just strong women that tended to pull the strings while strong men died for them
No. 263189
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I know this is supposed to be joking about the trope by showing how 'silly' it is for a man but a half-naked chef versed in healthy communication and emotional validation would be on my radar for sure
No. 263288
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Having a man sit on your lap is very underrated
No. 263289
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Léandre et Héro (sad myth, pretty statue)
No. 264766
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No. 264802
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No. 264828
haven't posted since the second thread, I fell off with the femdom stuff but lately I've been talking with this guy that I met during something professional and we ended up talking more and more and today he sent me a meme with this image
>>263288 can't post it
because I'm worried that there might be a chance that he lurks here since lolcow got so big this year.
I know it's rare but femdom became a bit of a meme and I wanted to report my encounter here.
No. 264891
>>264888we were talking about things people wear in gyms and I joked about guys wearing small shorts to show off their butts and he started talking about how he has a nice butt that is under appreciated because not many women like butts, didn't tell him I was into femdom, he just went
>this reminds me of a pic a haveand sent that meme, I laughed it off and he joked about me being his domme, I didn't mention anything femdom related or interest in a relationship I wonder if he sniffed it off me or if I just walked into a sub in the wild.
I'm almost sure he is a sub because he joked about liking feet before.
No. 265003
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No. 265004
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No. 265006
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No. 265008
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No. 265009
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No. 265114
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i want a boyfriend to put on a leash
No. 265171
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Blackmailing fantasy? Filming a smug tsundere or serious megane in the most unbecoming positions? I own you now~~~
No. 265189
>>265170I'm picturing the lead from the collar going down his sleeve and out towards his hand, so anyone looking at you both just see's a cute couple holding hands.
It's like those facemask and ballgag pic memes, hidden bondage.
No. 265195
>>264969OHHH the dream. This. THIS SO HARD. I need a dude acting cute around me, I'm tired of the one doing the giggling. I need a man who kicks his fit and giggles when i tell a shitty joke.
>>264891he might be hitting on you? idk. either way sounds like a nice young man
No. 265215
Ladies I've met the sub of my dreams. I just have one small issue, I'm too embarrassed to ask my bf to call me Master. He asked what I wanted him to call me and I guess I got flustered because personally I would hate calling him master (we're both switches), it just feels cringy. I think it'd be hot if a guy did it, though. He's been calling me "ma'am" which is fine but I'm very meh about it. I think I just need to nut up and ask, I really doubt he wouldn't be into it…
He likes me telling him what to do, he wants me to use him for my pleasure, he always makes me come with oral/fingering at least once before we have sex. If he doesn't get to come or we don't get to have sex it's not a problem and he's completely fine with it, he's happy to just get me off. He loves giving me oral and really likes it when I can't take it anymore and grab his hair and start using his face like it's a toy until his tongue is sore. He also likes it when I sit on his face and told me one time to not hold back, I loved the idea but was worried about hurting him somehow, he assured me though and I went all out. He ended up coughing/choking a bit, I stopped and asked if he was okay. He enthusiastically said yes and told me to keep going. One time when I was on top I held his wrists down and went hard, it was really hot, it felt like I was fucking him (I'd love to do the Amazon position for this reason, but I'd need to work on my leg strength and he might not be flexible enough anyways). One time I put him in a blindfold and a collar/leash and made him lay down, and forbid him from touching me or moving at all. When he tried I firmly held his wrists at his side and he gasped and smiled. I spent a good long while teasing him, especially with neck kisses, he's so sensitive there. I touched and kissed everywhere but his dick until he was dripping and begging me to touch it. Even then I didn't insert it, just slowly licked it and rubbed it against me. He begged me to put it in and I acted like I was going to but stopped, the way he whined and said "please" did something to me, anons. When I finally did I pulled the leash to hold him there and went rough. His dick gets very sensitive after he comes, but I kept riding him even after he finished and he just took it (it's something he had asked me to do before). This one is a bit more degenerate but I've sent him nudes while he's talking to his friends and had fun watching him try and keep his composure, then instructed him to touch himself very slowly and show me a video of him doing it. Obviously he didn't come from that, and when we sexted later he was so hard. Sometimes when we're apart I tell him that he's not allowed to touch himself, sometimes I go for a few days. I'd like to go longer but I get too turned on and then we'll sext. He has to ask for my permission to come though. I know that he listens and abstains because he tells me when he doesn't, and then I have to think of a way to punish him. I call him a good boy/bad boy depending on the scenario.
Before him I thought I was purely a sub and that femdom was just a fantasy I'd never actually participate in. I've never had so much fun. Teasing guys is the best.
No. 265232
>>265195>I need a dude acting cute around me>I need a man who kicks his fit and giggles when i tell a shitty joke.Oh, my boyfriend is exactly like this. When I first met him, he gave off an intellectual, mature vibe (almost composed to the point I thought I might not like him), but as we started to fall for each other he began showing an enthusiastic, playful, adorable, and cute side of his personality. He giggles every time I tell an absolutely retarded joke or flirt with him. And he is always beaming like he is blessed just being in my presence. I know this makes me sound like a narcissist, but he genuinely makes me feel like he worships me as a person (not just as a sex object) and hangs on to my every word with such attentiveness in ordinary situations. Of course this has nothing directly to do with submission or dominance, and it sounds like such a big leap from what we were talking about, but… It's such a good sign if a sub is this eager and cutesy in every day situations where you're not doing anything kinky.
And just let me tell you, I absolutely LOVE subs who are enthusiastic and desperate to please you once they get to know you. A lot of subs are very half-hearted in their submission and please you so they can get theirs. It's always so obvious. But when you have a sub who genuinely actually wants to devote themselves to you it is such a huuuuuge difference. I'm ranting, I just love love love cute and enthusiastic subs as opposed to pushy and self-serving ones.
No. 265245
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>>265171Based, based, and based
No. 265385
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>>265232Oh
nonny how i wish for this to happen to me one day
No. 265468
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>>265215Whew, sounds like you're living the dream nona.
Just a note on this
>he always makes me come with oral/fingering at least once before we have sex. If he doesn't get to come or we don't get to have sex it's not a problem and he's completely fine with it, he's happy to just get me off.I think it's weird that women don't consider it sex when only they come. You bet a man would still consider it sex if only he came.
No. 265480
>>265468I guess I'm thinking of it in the potentially outdated "no PIV = not sex" way. I wouldn't think of giving him oral as "real sex" either (even though I know it's "oral sex")
very nice picture btw, I'm sending it to him
No. 265555
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No. 265556
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No. 265575
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No. 265576
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No. 265589
>>264891update: I dropped him because I found out he had a sex with a male and is bisexual with preference to males and is a massive slut.
the femdom community is filled with coomers that coom too much they got into being submissive, it's why I lost interest in it, shame on him for sparking it again.
>>264969he is very sexually forward, I've known him for a while but we started talking often about two months only most of which we interacted through text because I never viewed it as something other than being previous colleague.
No. 265593
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i recently matched with a man on tinder and he seems too good to be true. maybe some people will think this is cringe and maybe it is but i literally put picrel on my profile. i’ve had guys who claim to be submissive message me but one ghosted me when i proposed we go on a date and another one started our conversation off with “hi mommy”. soooo not quite what i’m looking for. then i get a message from one of my matches that says “do you really believe in female supremacy?” i didn’t respond right away because i kinda thought he was going to berate me for being a hairy man bashing blue haired feminazi or something. i don’t really have a physical type i tend to go for, but this guy is way more frat boy like than men i’ve dated or fucked in the past. he sort of looks like adam devine, but i can’t remember if i swiped right on him bc he’s kinda cute or because he said he makes edibles.
regardless, what this guy said next made me stop texting my other matches. i didn’t respond for an hour or something and he sends another text that says “because i do.” i immediately became super interested because he looks like a normal guy, says he has a good job on his profile (i’m aware he could be lying), and actually wants to submit to me. not like the last guy i dated for a month a while ago who ended up wanting a mommy domme who will make him cum. but with this guy the conversation quickly turned into sexting which probably isn’t a good start but i plan on finding a way to change the subject when i respond today to his text from last night. this guy is telling me about how much he wants to serve me in and outside of the bedroom, make my life easier by doing chores and errands and stuff for me, worship my body, give me head while i ignore his cock, he even wants me to put him in chastity.
i searched this thread and the previous one to see what other anons think about the kink and some were saying it’s a red flag, some were saying it only benefits the man (which i understand but still disagree with because it’s something i’m interested in), but some were into it like i am. he lives pretty close to me which is great. the last thing i texted him on tinder was something like “i think i’m going to have you take me on a date so we can get to know each other. give me your number so we can arrange something” and he gave it to me! was afraid he’d be like “oh shit no coom for me hahaha i’m out” but no, we’re still talking. so yeah, i’m going to have him call me tomorrow so i can hear his voice, do a partial vibe check, and get to know him beyond the submissive thing. i’m hoping to go on a date this week, i don’t really know what we’ll do yet (and ik that in FLRs it’s often the woman’s job to plan the dates, i’m also kind of insecure about being the dominant one due to the responsibility and confidence it requires but that’s another story) so i will have to ask him what he likes, see what we have in common, and do that.
but yeah, i’m really excited to meet this guy and i’ve already gotten my hopes up so don’t tell me not to lol because it’s a little too late for that. i guess i just want to see what other anons think about this guy, if anyones dated a man like this in the past and how that went if someone has.
No. 265598
>>265593Sounds like he has potential, but bringing up kink before you do is a red flag… He doesn't even know you but wants to submit to you, doesn't bode well and makes him come off as the type of person who'd submit to any woman who was interested.
>and ik that in FLRs it’s often the woman’s job to plan the datesThis is NOT true. If you hate planning dates, you know what? You can delegate that to him. As the dominant, you make the final decision. He can do all the heavy-lifting, work, and preparation if that is what you desire. Do not confuse submission as passivity or dominance as strenuous work. In a real dynamic, it's up to the submissive to make your life easier. Think of it as giving him a trial task. Let him go off your profile, ask you questions, figure out what you like, and come up with a date custom-tailored to your desires.
>so i will have to ask him what he likesDon't frame it in terms of what he likes. That is setting things off on the wrong foot. When you're ready, tell him you want to talk about kink, bring up the ideas you have in mind, what dynamic you'd like, and see how he reacts to them. Ask him if he specifically has any limits. Imo, you set up the sexual framework around your kinks and his limits, not his kinks. Otherwise he will just use you as kink dispenser #5085349. Yes, this may sound selfish, but real submissives benefit from pleasing you, doing what you want, and making you happy. Otherwise they wouldn't be submissive. Good luck.
No. 265611
>>265598idk i think the photo sort of implied i want something kinky. i looked back at our messages and i think i played a role in the conversation taking that turn so fast. i’ve been celibate for a while but i have some hyper sexual tendencies that have sabotaged potential relationships because i didn’t hold back (albeit, this was years ago and these were not men i would want a relationship with now). you’re right about the date thing, and thank you for that because that’s some advice i needed. i’m not sure where i heard that but it doesn’t make much sense to me because yeah i want to have most of the power in a relationship but there’s some things i would rather leave up to my partner to decide based on what i tell them. also i meant “ask him what he likes” as in, like, what he does in his free time to figure out where we could meet. i’ve never went on an actual date with someone i met online so i don’t totally know what to do or expect. in his profile he says he likes walking but i would rather die than walk around in this 90 degree weather and get all sweaty lol. idk maybe i’ll just go with something classic like brunch or coffee.
>>265601omg dating a guy who seems great but i end up finding he’s into sissy shit is one of worst nightmares. and i know that the chastity kink could be because he wants to be feminized. some people will think this is extreme but if this guy is serious i plan on putting parental controls on his devices because again, if i found out this guy is into sissification i would probably return to celibacy. i truly do believe that in this day and age, where porn is SO accessible, you can’t really let a man run wild if you want a relationship with him. idk if i’m comfortable asking him for a tribute, but i will make him pay the bill when we go out for the first time. i was even thinking about having him take me shopping (i have a feeling that either he or his family is wealthy) but maybe that’s not ideal for a first date. if it doesn’t work out then at least i learned something about myself and/or men, and that’s been my perspective for a while.
No. 265782
>>265576>that mushroom dickAhahahaha
>>265575>that scrote-pandering angleUgh why
Aside from that I really like the art. He's really hot.
No. 265932
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>>265808This is the good stuff, simple but so satisfying.
No. 266028
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never finished you season 3 but goddamn i think about this scene all the time. had trouble finding the video to make these but someone recorded it and posted it on youtube so that’s why the quality isn’t great. sorry if this has been posted before 1/2
No. 266029
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2/2
No. 266058
>>266051oh yeah i’m definitely using that one. i think i may have said this already but he doesn’t really have much interest in PIV, neither do i though.
>>266054okay what the hell? why are you so angry? i just posted in this thread yesterday for the first time and i’m enjoying talking to people on here, just trying to make some conversation. jesus…no hard feelings though.
No. 266107
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I feel like a degenerate asking for this but does anyone know any good erotica or just media about men going through Stockholm syndrome, becoming submissive and obsessed with their female captor?
No. 266132
>>266107OT but I wish Aeritea focused more on trying to improve her anatomy (like the hands) instead of improving her coloring first.
Though I'm glad there's at least one female artist in the west who draws nice anime-style femdom that caters to women (and she draws lots of self-insert art! It's a blessing). Most of the women who draw femdom either pander to men in some way or have an ugly art style.
No. 266244
>>266107Try the Archie Sheridan novels by Chelsea Cain. It's kinda gender swapped Silence of the Lambs where the male detective is abducted by the female serial killer he's hunting and gets stockholm for her. The six books are murder-mystery crime-horror stuff with their twisted psychosexual relationship as the overarching story. He's not willingly submissive to her, but she can always mindfuck him into doing whatever she wants and he's shamefully obsessed with her in every way. She has other devoted male
victims/accomplices she treats as disposable toys. All very femdomish.
No. 266383
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>>266277In the
second book they have a sex scene while stuck in a cabin during a forest fire and in the
sixth book there's flashbacks revealing they were having an affair together before he learns she's the killer. I think knowing that going in might enhance the story since it elaborates on how mindfucked Archie is.
It's a shame the series has little presence online. It's extra sad since in-universe there's fanfiction shipping the two since they're public figures, kinda like the author wishes they had a bigger irl fanbase lmao. Author is kinda TERFy, she included a TRAs real tweets calling her transphobic (for writing about periods) as in-universe evil state propaganda posters in her comic Man-Eaters lol.
She also implied Mockingbird dommes her bf and Hawkeye at the same time when she wrote for Marvel, quite based.
No. 267520
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>>265593sooo i hate one less man now! we talked on the phone for like 10-12 hours before meeting yesterday for the first time. this man opened every door and spent hundreds on me, waited outside the dressing room, carried my bags, and so much more. we got dinner before heading back to his place. i almost can’t believe that i’ve found a man that isn’t looking to use me. wow.
once we arrived at his place he massaged my entire body for over an hour. last night was the first time another person made me cum. three times. he was really hard, i teased him a bit but he didn’t get close to ejaculation. he only asked for me to touch him once, i told him he’s stupid for even asking me that and he didn’t ask again after that. because he isn’t in it for his own pleasure, i was suspicious at first but i trust him now. one reason i didn’t like the sex i had in the past is because i was insecure about my appearance (even though i know i’m beautiful) and what i would look like when i came. but that wasn’t on my mind much last night. he just telling me how perfect i am, thanking me for everything, and looking at me like i am a literal goddess. his moans are fucking adorable btw, so is his laugh. then we just cuddled until we fell asleep, he kept kissing me all over my body and talking about what happened, trying to process it all lol. he made me breakfast this morning, ate me out again, and rubbed my back. he’s not amazing at massaging or eating pussy, but he really wants to learn and improve for me. i think we’re hanging out later, i most likely won’t post anymore updates but i can’t stop smiling rn and felt like sharing this.
yeah, he is really amazing. i feel so comfortable and appreciated when we’re together, even though we’ve only met once in person so far haha. also, i got the impression he’s into sissy shit during our first call because when i asked if he’s into that he said “not really.” turns out he meant that he’s willing to do it if i want to feminize him, but it’s not a kink of his. which is just…such a relief to know he’s not a total degenerate. we are so compatible it’s insane. i plan to make him rub my feet while i read the scum manifesto aloud, i quoted some parts of the book for him and he was really intrigued. he knows that he’s inferior because he’s a man, but he doesn’t know quite why. he doesn’t understand some of the big words i use (had to teach him what patriarchy and manicure mean!) and the last book he read fully was a picture book, so i will be reading him plenty of feminist theory. that’s all though. i’m so glad i met this dude. thank you to everyone who replied to my posts itt.
No. 267525
>>267520I mean, this started off pretty great but
>i plan to make him rub my feet while i read the scum manifesto aloud, i quoted some parts of the book for him and he was really intrigued. he knows that he’s inferior because he’s a man, but he doesn’t know quite why. he doesn’t understand some of the big words i use (had to teach him what patriarchy and manicure mean!) and the last book he read fully was a picture book, so i will be reading him plenty of feminist theory.Just makes me think this is bait.
>>267522I noticed this too, but didn't want to be negative, kek. Even in femdom, too many women base their sexuality around objectifying themselves. She could have just drawn the women as neutral as possible but nope, have to put all the sexual focus on her instead of the man. Typical and boring.
No. 267563
>>267533thank you, anon!!
>>267525wait explain how it sounds like bait please.
>>267534kek, well it was until yesterday. i just totally lucked out with this dude. never thought i’d find the man i’ve been wanting for so long in my city, and i was right because this guy moved here only a month ago. i can’t prove any of that happened so uhh just trust me i guess. he’s really great though and i hope everyone itt finds their dream guy.
No. 267578
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>>267522>>267525I agree that the woman is too sexualized. lol why the nipples poking out?? even if the pic is literally centered on him, that just distracts the viewer, especially since her breasts are so close to his face, and I don't see why she has to be wearing stockings.
Aeritea's art is very hit and miss. I'm still thankful that she draws so much though.
No. 267631
>>267621ayrt, yeah he is a little stupid. but to the extent that it’s endearing and not annoying. he has a college degree and a good job, but was in a fraternity during his time at university. like
>>267622 said, most men are just pretty stupid lol.
No. 267879
>>267638oh most definitely. i used to go for the skater/indie type men but himbos are where it’s at.
>>267736you know what? if i’m getting my pussy ate on a regular basis i can live with being cringe.
No. 267992
>>267879>finding a boy that treats you like a queen and isn't into tranny shit Congratulations
nonny, that sounds amazing!!! I wish that were me, you have a lot of luck.
No. 268162
>>265215Samefag, things have progressed nicely. First off, I got brave and told him to call me Master so now he does. We had a video call the other week after I had forbade him from touching himself for a few days. I made him just watch me for a bit, going "Did I say you can touch yourself yet?" when he tried. When I finally let him I was in control of how fast he went and I would make him stop randomly, I love the noises he made
He's so cute, he said that originally he was afraid of telling me that he wanted to be submissive because I always said I liked him being manly (though I was mainly referring to his looks) when for me that's sort of the point. He's bigger and stronger than me, he could pick me up and toss me around, yet he lets me tie him up and tease him and pretty much just use his face to come. And he
likes it. I told him that if he was okay with it, next time we see each other I'm going to tie him up underneath his clothes before we go on a date. He was really into the idea. Now I have to research ropes and how to do shibari, I'm a bit nervous about getting it right but it should hopefully be a lot of fun.
I'm really glad I had the guts to mention domming, I've never enjoyed sex so much. We do still switch it up sometimes but I think I really prefer being the dom, which works out since I think he likes being a sub more anyways.
No. 268401
>>268389I don't find the character hot to begin with, why so pressed
>>268396gonna make him start paying rent too
No. 269356
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I feel like this is the appropriate thread, sorry if it’s not lol. Is anyone here into eye-play? My dream would be able to penetrate the “eye holes” of a cute male with my thumbs but I know this would literally make him go blind and it’s so hard to find someone willing to engage in it. How do you explain you want to tape someone’s eyes open and use picrel on them? It’s a nice way to make prolonged eye contact so I guess it’s kinda romantic?
I’m repulsed by pegging (avid believer of thou shalt not make a man cum) but I would like to use his holes anyway and combining that with the extreme trust he needs to have in me to be a willing participant + the sweaty twitchy vulnerability really does it for me. When I was little I used to play pretend games with my pillow where I gauged it’s “eyes” out when I was uncontrollably raging and over the years it evolved into.. this. Is my best chance at acting this out waiting for a home invasion scenario so I can chimp out legally? Kek.
No. 271143
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I have no idea if there are even people who buy and scan yume doujinshi. It makes me so mad, I'm poor so I can't buy them myself, I don't even know if you can do that outside Japan. Every time I find a sample for a good yume doujinshi with femdom on Pixiv I just get sad.
No. 271179
>>271159He sounds like the typical male "sub" who doesn't actually want to serve his domme. He just wants to follow along when it's convenient for him and gets him hard. That being said, what exactly are you punishing him for? Imo, I don't do the whole punishment thing. He either makes it clear he wants to serve you (so, no bratty behavior from him, no lashing out, no passive aggression) or dump him. If he has a problem you can both talk about it like adults. None of this childish tantrum behavior from him. You are not his mommy who has to put him back into line.
Whenever I was with a sub that I felt I had to "punish" he turned out to be pathetic, wishy-washy, and wouldn't actually man up and serve me like we agreed on. There should absolutely be NO punishments, unless it's a play scenario you act out for fun. Having to administer punishments mean that he is seriously fucking up in some way. You being disappointed in him should be enough of a punishment and he should shape up automatically after that.
No. 271214
>>271189Thanks for the laugh
nonnie. Honestly, I blame gfd and that fact that most communities nowadays try too hard to be inclusive. Now if you give your scrote mommy milkies and suck his dick for 5 hours while he lies there like a pillow princess you're a domme. Imagine a male dom ever doing that (well, without the lactation) and identifying as dominant, everyone would just laugh in his face. It's like people have spun femdom into another way to serve men, just in a different flavor.
A lot of male subs are so embarrassing too, because they won't endure any sort of pain or discomfort. You're a man, you evolved to take a beating, yet there are masochistic women 50 kgs lighter than you taking intense whippings and lashings. Pathetic. Gatekeeping needs to be a thing again.
No. 271215
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>>271214I couldn't agree more.
A man who can't endure pain and discomfort? Undesirable and pathetic.
No. 271241
>>271214Femdom has always been for men and to serve men, though.
>>271215This pic is an example.
No. 271308
>>271241You're thinking of how moids have had the monopoly of portrayals and expressions of sexuality because of patriarchy.
Female dominance itself doesn't have to be about male fetishes.
No. 271326
>>271241It’s the Stacy thing to do to reclaim female domination for women the way it’s meant to be.
>>271189Tell them what you said here.
No. 271799
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>>271795
>spanking him in a diaper
Nobody does this. He wouldn't even feel it. It'd just squish the poop around. Delete this.
No. 274026
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I hope all of you nonnas are familiar with this Rosa Luxemburg quote.
No. 274134
>>274064Yeah, I think it's only acceptable when the domme orders him to resist her. It has to be an act that's contained within a scene, and not him actually challenging her. When a sub comes bratty right out of the box without prompting, he deserves to be thrown away and ignored forever.
I don't want a wrangle a tard for the entirety of the relationship. I just want to beat him down every once in a while when I feel like it.
No. 274410
>>274408If the genders were reversed would the man hesitate for even a second? No, so why are you? It's not like your age gap is significant and you shouldn't reinforce a misogynistic stigma for no reason.
Not sure why this is in the femdom thread though? Why would you being a few years older automatically make you dominant?
No. 274413
>>274410you’re right, i just felt worried that i might be in the wrong and letting my feelings take over? i had a bad experience as a minor with a man and anyway you get the gist. you make a good point though.
and i should’ve been clearer, i just really got major vibes from him that he swings that way (ofc IF i were to pursue it’d need to be a conversation to set some ground understanding). sorry for derailing the thread
No. 274472
Some advice. If anyone here is still looking for a submissive man, I think one of the best qualities you can look for is him being flexible and adaptable to your preferences. A lot of subs have a very specific idea of what D/s looks like, what kinks are involved, etc. They have to be willing to learn that submission involves letting go of these preconceptions and getting into the mindset of serving the particular person they're with. So if they come at with you obsessively with certain scenarios, kinks, fantasies, etc, instead of trying to adapt to your preferences are, it's a good sign they're looking for a kink dispenser and not a domme. Remember, it isn't your job to fulfill his fantasies, the whole point of submission is that he does what YOU want. This should be established from the onset, because it will help you avoid a lot of duds who just want to use you for kink.
No. 274588
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At the start of the pandemic, I started talking with one of my classmates that I wasn’t close with (and actually kind of disliked) on a regular basis. For months, we’d spend hours messaging back and forth, video and voice calling with mutual friends, playing online games together, etc. He told me a lot about his background, definitely way more than I told him about mine. One night, we got to talking about past sexual experiences. We’re both into this, and I think I have more experience than he does. He was fascinated by the fact that I stepped on a gay friend’s balls in return for my first kiss back in high school, bought a dog collar for one of my exes and actively go after virginal guys. I called him a silly bitch sometime later in the conversation and he went quiet and wide-eyed. I can tell he knows we’ve both fantasized about each other since then. He’s the first thing that pops into my head in the morning when I sleep in on weekends and it leaves me sopping wet.
I keep thinking about how he refuses to make eye contact with me sometimes and stares at me at other times, how he’s attempted to edge closer to me and place his head on my shoulder while we watch movies together with friends, how he prefers muscular women with short hair (like me), how he refuses my offers to have him sit in my lap when there’s no other seats available despite being incredibly tiny and light, way smaller than even our female friends. If I wanted to make the biggest mistake of my love life to date, I would’ve already backed him into a corner and grinded my knee into his disgusting cock and balls and demanded he describe each and every thought he’s had about me fucking him in excruciating detail until he’s a whimpering, ashamed and apologetic mess. Maybe I’d beat or spank him, then gag him with my underwear and hover with one leg up on a counter or chair above his face, just out of reach, as I let him beat off to me. I’d grab him by his hair and shake him if he came anywhere near my feet. Not sure what I’d do from there, but it would be cathartic.
No. 274755
>>274588Do it and for the love of god update us
>stepped on a gay friend’s balls in return for my first kissNice
No. 276444
I want to hear him moan and groan for me, I want to hear those whimpers of frustration as he ultimately obeys me not to move, I wanna see his dick throb and twitch, see his chest and stomach take in gasps of air, I want to trail his chest, tweak his nipples and steal kisses from him, I want him tied and immobile beneath me so I can play and ignore as I wish.
I want to make him tear up, beg and plead, I want to do all this and have him thank me for it.
>stuck in horny goblin mode since waking up, ooga booga hand it over, that thing, your sub soul.
No. 276465
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>>276444>stuck in horny goblin mode since waking up, ooga boogaKek, relatable
No. 276532
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>>276472>you all sound fatOverweight is OP. But anyway Kyle is a cutie and I hope you'll get over your shame soon
No. 277795
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>>277771moid lays on his back and is at your mercy
you hold his legs and go at it
also known as amazon press
No. 277806
>>277795I tried this position but couldn't make it work even though we're both very flexible gym goers. We were so looking forward to it too, what a disappointment.
There's a reason people don't practice it regularly, sex shouldn't be that hard. The angle is just not good.
No. 278199
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>>277970>the angle of penetration is dick-breaking.That's the charm of this position tbh.
No. 278625
>>259661I just realized that this picture doesn't make sense:
his hands seem to be pushing against glass (pressumably the mirror) but you can't sse them on it. Also, his nipples are in a wierd place
No. 278856
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What got you into femdom? Pic related for me, although all these years later I still don't understand her character at all
No. 279075
>>279023I've heard your partner needs a long dick for this position to work well.
Did it feel good though for you both?
No. 280578
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>>279779Seconding this request.
No. 280581
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No. 280582
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No. 280599
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No. 280756
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Need more ads objectifying men.
No. 280757
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No. 281148
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Scrotes be like "ya I like femdom. By femdom I mean, I just want a girl to ride me (do all the work) and ask me to eat pussy (idk how). Why do girls actually want to hurt us? I don't actually like pain or worship."
PSA to all you lurking faggots, you are not submissive, you are just lazy and selfish fat fucks and no truly dominant woman will ever love you.
No. 281908
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>>281148i don't like the idea of subs that want things done to them in the first place, they're basically just attention whoring and want everything to be about them while putting in no effort. the sub mentality should be providing a service, being at someone's disposal and being of use to them. top/bottom dom/sub give/take are not all interchangeable, as a sub you should be giving from either position, and you top or bottom as the dom pleases.
i scoped out the fetish scene near me and i guess unsurprisingly, the dungeon had a bunch of old dudes spanking girls despite the night's theme being female dominance, and the few femdom couples were all blowing their tied up subs or riding them while they laid there, pale and flabby, doing nothing. i liked to think a submissive man could still be quietly dignified in their service like a butler, and be patient, disciplined, and so on. but instead they're all shameless and pathetic.. which would almost make a good punching bag, but they're so useless they don't want anything to do with that either.
No. 282136
>>281926Okay, thanks anon.
>>282015I mean, I can't agree that being topped by a woman is basically being topped by a man. Butches aren't men or else lesbians who like them wouldn't be lesbians and would date men instead. (They aren't diet men either, they're very clearly women)
That said I absolutely want to top the butches as well heh.
Anyway, you are right that just being open about interests will hopefully net me the right people.
No. 282479
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I wish i was a tall girl boss. But no im 5 feet tall and a crybaby.
No. 282541
File: 1660864403541.png (Spoiler Image,435.2 KB, 992x540, 2.png)
Amazon position
No. 282571
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Have no idea where to post this. But her femdom energy is divine.
No. 282583
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I think what really kicked me off was this photo set from vintage tumblr. I obsess over it to this day. It really is flavored with all my tastes.
I’m going to answer seeing as I haven’t seen many
My main kinks:
Temp, breath, humiliation, rope, pet, abrasion, hair pulling, over stim and edging.
Ideal: looks and acts tough but is secretly a withering violet. Like a bare knuckle boxer who I can put through the grinder. Or a self righteousness librarian type who just needs a firm hand. (I’m a lesbian) turning bull dykes into sweet stupid girls in private is really cute to me.
I’ll be at this ten years soon.
I seem to trip into them more than anything. There’s a shit ton of unhealthy ones with little to no experience. Try to not be someone’s first and be clear about commitment. You don’t want to pour too much into a one off. Your time is precious and there’s always someone slobbering at the thought of proving themselves.
No. 282618
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>>282533Don't let scrotes ruin your fantasies, they are your own.
If you were to apply that logic on yaoi as well then you can't like anime bishies because they don't look and act like irl moids.
You can dream of whatever you want!
No. 282646
>>282502I could maybe dig them up if I tried but the fandom is too niche and cringe for me to post them, sorry
nonnie.
No. 282685
>>282616Yup, and she calls herself a "faggot" too so she's a straight woman. Sorry lesbian
nonny.
No. 283182
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A long time ago when I saw the romangerri clip from season one on some part of /g/ I started to watch Succession. Romangerri haunts me to this day. I know their dynamic is super weird and dysfunctional but I want them to bang each other in season 4 so badly kek. If any other nonas are into verbally abusing arrogant scrotes, you would love Gerri
No. 283245
>>283242Does it matter if it's cringe?
Just do what you want, he should be grateful to for any sort of attention.
No. 288816
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No. 288991
>>288953Seconding
>>288959, metal handcuffs are just a bad idea. Many Etsy retailers who make collars will usually make bondage cuffs out of the same materials. D-ring cuffs are more versatile than sex shop handcuffs anyway.
No. 289031
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Has anyone tried reverse pegging? Is there a difference between a man fucking you with his dick and with a strap on?
No. 289882
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This scene was so hot. Worthless bastard deserves to be degraded and hurt.
No. 290086
>>290058I swear I did this with my fingers and candles after putting them out I could never resist, kek.
Does anyone else think it would be easier to have someone inexperienced to femdom taught how you want rather than have someone experienced unlearn bad habits ?
Maybe I have a sort of corruption/teaching kink ?
No. 290420
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>>290226>the spirit of femdomkek anon
No. 291443
>>290501NTA but unfortunately femdom is a moid fetish by default (unless you specifically try to make it for women instead, like we do in this thread) so it makes sense that the idea that most people have of it is "porn about sexy dominatrixes".
So if you're not super interested in femdom/malesub you're not going to bother learning about the kind that is female-oriented.
No. 291493
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This figure belongs here.
No. 291587
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>>291443So everything women are into and build for themselves in their sexuality is supposed to be owned by men? Socially or in the bedroom and also whenever they wank? Why should their view of a Fetish for
us supposed to mean anything. Our sexuality as women are ours there's no thing as femdom being a male fetish "by default", you guys just can't accept anything as default that isn't male, just like how alot of you are incapable of dominating a man or woman without a strap on, you believe the penis is the ultimate tool to dominate anyone with just like those unga bunga caveman who are into maledom.
Femdom is always female centric it's about being a woman and dominating a man, if you think femdom is = a Man being dominated you're looking at sex through the lense of a man and that's you being sick and needing a reprogramming
stop brainwashing the children to giving up to patriarchy No. 291595
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>>291493sorry sage and spoiler for cartoon character sperg but anyone remember namidame 4 guy
your picrel is how I imagined him listening to this at 15 lol
No. 291676
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Would these belong here and qualify as femdom? Gentle femdom? Because this kind of shit is right up my alley. I just love tender moments portrayed where the man is clearly in the more vulnerable position
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If we are posting actually artsy art now, then let me present you these statues by Daniele Accossato.
I think they're pretty, and make the men look vulnerable.
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>>291732And this one is my favorite.
No. 291823
>>291771Sames, I'm not sure how to word it exactly but it feels like for some the idea of giving a moid any pleasure even if it's my choice means it's not femdom and makes them reee along with the idea that for some here femdom just means inflicting hurt and pain and oddly they come off as obnoxious, a bit like those 'Moid Dom's' at parties that think they know better or what true domination is.
>>291733Wing bondage, oh my.
No. 291845
>>291823>>291771we don't give a fuck just don't shit up the thread about how you breastfeed and give your moid headpats
>they think femdom is just about inflicting pain, it's obnoxiousoh my, it's a retard
No. 291891
>>291851what did I post that was supposedly so gross lol do you even know who I am, why are you
triggered about anons who dont want to discuss soft femdom, you have multiple places to post about how you eat your moids ass, just not here
I'm not the only one who agrees with that sentiment and I'm NTA who's post was discussed anyways
>>291850who said that? atleast sage your shit retard, idc for minimodding I just like making fun of you lot
you can be into femdom and do stuff like I mentioned, just don't shit up the thread with lowtier posts nobody wants to read
No. 291960
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>>291835I'd rather punish a sexy demon as a human, angels are pretty boring to me.
No. 292463
>>292362Can I say this thread? kek I've always been very aggressive and dominant with scrotes but I didn't realize it was a sex thing, especially when most overt BDSM is fucking cringe.
>>292447How the fuck is it pedo if they were all little kids?
No. 292468
>>292447She's not saying she did this as a grown woman, that she was chasing and wrestling down young boys lmao.
God some of you really can't read or infer from text at all.
No. 293008
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CP bump
No. 293013
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>>292825You're an idiot. I described having a good time back then. As an adult I want other adults obviously. Sadly it isn't socially acceptable to chase and wrestle men though, and there is an annoying physical difference.
No. 293053
>>293014>>293025Am I also a pedo if I reminiscence getting sort of a sexual awakening and feeling attraction towards a character in a book I was reading when I was 11? Because in that memory I am ofc a child, so by your logic I'd be sexualizing my child self.
>>293013This pic is hot af.
No. 293134
>>291676>tender momentsgo back to reddit lol
this thread is for beating men up and making them eat their own shit, how in the fuck is…a woman hugging a moid femdom?????
No. 293196
>>293187In the bedroom
>>293188He is my bf. He thought he was only into maledom, but then he started talking about how he wanted me to deny him and it has progressed into wanting me to be cruel to him, humiliate him, lock him up and focus on my pleasure only. So just if anyone has some tips on how i can be cruel and mean but in a hot way, id be thankful.
I've always been a switch but i havent exactly had a male pet for a while, so i dont reslly know where to start. He also isn't into pain at all like my last sub was.
No. 293199
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>>293196Things like having him eat you out and then having him fuck your knee pit like pic rel, give him a tooth paste handjob or riding him and micking him eat the cum out of your pussy?
No. 293214
>>293210>How do you avoid passive or lazy submissives then or how do you even have someone that will enjoy making you happy ?You want to look for someone who's into service submission. Someone who makes everything about you, rather than them. A huge green flag from my long-term partner is that when we were first getting to know each other, he was constantly trying to understand what I liked, how I liked it, and wouldn't talk about his preferences unless I asked specifically. He never assumed I liked the same things he did, and if I happened to, he wanted to know specifically what I enjoyed about them so he could cater to me.
While looking for a submissive, you should question them what their idea of submission is. A lot of men think submission is taking the female role (their flawed idea of what that entails). And to them that means just lying there, having things done to them and for them, while they get showered in sex and affection. Also, having you make all the big life decisions while they don't have to think or put in any effort. Avoid any men who use submission uwu "as an escape" from being a leader outside the bedroom.
Question their intent. Does their desire to submit come from wanting to serve you specifically, or are they entirely selfishly motivated? You'll be able to figure this out pretty quickly from how they act around you.
No. 293251
>>292825Dumbest thing I ever read I hope this is bait
>>293038Literally what does that have to do with gender? You could say the exact same thing about women.
No. 293303
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any other nonnies into venus in fur?
i would willingly be waterboarded for the chance to dom hugh dancy.
No. 293350
>>293322Overpower him regularly or just in bed?
Regularly: he should have already recognised your superiority over him as a woman and just let you do what you want.
In the bedroom: another anon had a similar problem and she was told to make him do pushups till failiure before sex.
No. 293362
>>293322Domming someone isn't about physically overpowering and forcing them. Physical force is a play aspect. If you really want to go that route, he shouldn't be fighting back against you anyway. Like, if you push him down on the bed and pin him down he should fall back naturally instead of putting up resistance. If he is constantly making things difficult for you instead of obeying, he's not really submissive and not worth your time.
And really, dominance and submission is mental. You can have power and control over someone without physically beating them down. This is how most of society functions after all. And although I've liked "overpowering" my subs (and some of them were at least a foot taller than me), ordering and bossing them around works just as well.
No. 293368
>>293166>>293227>he want me to be >He wants me to not touch his dick and to only focus on pleasuring me.look at your phrasing. what do
you want? what do
you think would be sexy to do to him or watch him do?
No. 293385
The "dominants" who ask people online what they should do to their submissives is pretty pathetic. How can you know so little about what you like that you need random people to chime in and tell you what to do? Not very dominant. Even men do this too. If you have this little initiative why even bother trying to force yourself into the dominant role?
>>293378Most of the time it's a fetish men push on women. Personally, before I read how men felt about it, I enjoyed the idea of it because it seemed overly controlling and harsh to lock a guy's dick up. But too many disgusting sissies think of it as feminizing (I want to barf at the guys who call their locked up dick a "clitty") so now I only want to do it if the guy was never into chastity in the first place. Basically, I like the idea of "forcing it" on someone who doesn't want it.
No. 293389
>>293258the OP states this thread is for femdom. being gentle is not femdom. a man tenderly embracing a woman sure as hell is not femdom, sorry that someone fooled you into thinking that a man just being nice and gentle is some special submission thing and not just being an affectionate partner.
accepting anything and anyone is how you get posts like
>>293227 where the woman confesses she's just doing what the man wants but thinks it's femdom.
No. 293394
>>293389Okay stop putting words in my mouth i want to dominate him im just looking for ideas on what to do that he would also maybe enjoy, or like enjoy not enjoying?
Seriosly is having a guy wanting to lick my pussy while i deny him pleasure so inappropriate for this thread? Gee i'll go in the embarrassing fetishes thread instead.
We had a nice evening with me slapping his cock and he eating me out and then going to bed, sorry if thats not femdommy enough
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>>293417Haven't seen much nice ones. I want there to be sexy underwear for men that is masculine not borrowed from women. I do like stockings and sock/shirt garters.
No. 293429
>>293405Where did i say im denying myself oral? I literally said i slapped his dick and made him lick my cunt?
Are you even reading my post or do you just have a hateboner and are convinced you're the only true femdomme and everyone else is a subservient bitch?
No. 293460
>>293350>pushups till failure before sexntayrt, but my biggest issue with wrestling my bf in a femdom context is that I can never meaningfully overpower him. He's pretty built and I like to grope his muscles, so asking him to stop lifting isn't an option. While he does yield enough to let me win those playfights, the fact that he has to yield at all makes the whole affair less hot for me. I've tried to do what
>>293362 recommends and take more pleasure from the mental aspect and I do take pleasure from him being submissive towards me! but, for me, the fantasy is physically besting a man so good that he can't help but follow my every whim after the fact. Like the physical domination caused a mild mindbreak, I guess? It's hard to describe.
All this to say, thank you so much for the idea anon. It's so simple that I'm embarrassed I never thought of it myself
No. 293504
>>293460You can have someone at your mercy without wrestling them down tbh. One of my exes was way taller than me, and he told me he felt genuinely weak and powerless when I slapped his face or balls, when I spanked him, or hurt him in other ways. Something in particular
I liked doing was grabbing him by his balls and leading him around. Just the threat of violence can intimidate someone into submission and you don't need to hold them down to do that.
No. 293533
>>293525I understood you the first time, which was why I thanked you for the idea at the end of the first message. Sorry if it came across as sarcastic or something, I was trying to be earnest
>>293526He used to do wrestling in high school and now does BJJ on the regular. BJJ is expensive as hell in our area, so I just learn from him occasionally (plus taking BJJ classes just for sex reasons would make me feel so awkward). It's better than nothing, but I doubt I'll get to a point where I could actually out-technique him
No. 293662
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>>293429I'm late to this sperg holy shit this post is helarius
No. 293957
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No. 293960
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No. 293961
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It's locktober!
No. 294011
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>>294010I don't know Japanese so I can't be sure, but some of these games sound pretty good from the description. It seems that the more femdom focused ones are small indie titles. Like Psycho Caries, for example.
https://vndb.org/v?q=&ch=&f=0280UJ80X0t No. 294063
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>>293303nona where I can watch this I desperately need to see hugh dancy getting dommed
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>>294063Here is a link to a media masterlist on tumblr that has archived most of Hugh Dancy's work including Venus In Fur broadway show.
https://wiith-my-hands.tumblr.com/mmm>Mads connoisseur. >Hugh fancier.Quite happy that I found an alternative source as the original tumblr post that had the video is gone.
No. 294146
>>294140Well, all sex is
nonnie. I'm sorry I had to break it to you.
No. 294160
>>294132>>294136Based.
>>294140Depends. My partner doesn't get off on pain (he even goes completely soft from it), but I inflict pain on him anyway because I enjoy hurting him. If you have a good submissive, he will do things you like even if they don't turn him on.
No. 295475
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Do you wear anything that show of your believes on male's position in society or relationships??
No. 296002
>>295999Obviously don't use google lmao.
When I still searched for art, I used Pixiv and boorus. Sometimes I stumbled upon good stuff on Twitter but Twitter is a cesspool of scrote-pandering porn, pickme porn artists, wokies and genderspecials with shit art, and fujo art (nothing wrong with this one, it's just that it's the more common type of good art for women and obviously not what I'm looking for), and finding a specific type of artist is practically impossible unless you follow the right people, and I don't have the patience to search through hundreds of different artists.
No. 296113
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>>296104Another anon said she got a good catch by putting pic rel in her photos
No. 296119
>>296116Yeah, it's a shitshoot no matter what terminology you use. At least leaving out any kinky talk helps slightly, but you can really only narrow it down by talking to them.
However, I will have to mention it's a huge green flag if a submissive mentions he wants to take care of you. It shows his idea of submission revolves more around what the domme wants rather than his desires. Too many subs think submission = being passive, and that means they get to be taken care of while the domme serves them. Wrong. Avoid like the plague.
No. 296576
>>295014>>295502Update. Sorry if this doesn't belong here. I ordered some handcuffs and bed-restraints. Had him use the cuffs on me and we both had a great time, so I asked him whether he would like to be restrained next. He said yes and told me he was both excited and nervous for it.
I’m not really into inflicting physical pain, but I get off on him feeling embarrassed and there’s definitely some excitement in feeling like I’m corrupting someone. He’s a pretty stoic guy, but gets easily flustered whenever I text something sexual etc. which I find endearing. Seems like edge-play is frowned upon itt, but idgaf, I love his face when I can see he’s overcome with desire and his eyes turn hazy. He’s used to being able to fuck me whenever that happens, so it’ll be a nice change to restrain him and edge him until he’s bucking his hips like a slut. I’ve taken some notes from you nonas and will make sure to have him serve me first, so he doesn’t get the wrong idea about our dynamic. Would love to do more extreme orgasm control eventually. I’ve been thinking of ways to humiliate him all week and getting all worked up about it, but will try my best not to go overboard since it’s his first time. Hopefully it could develope into something more though.
No. 296600
>>296576just throwing it out there as a fun tease but if he's not cut and natural as God intended kek, then the tip of his dick (the side not facing him) you can rub it with finger tips gently and it's very very intense.
It's a whole bundle of nerves there called the Frenulum.
No. 297132
>>297125At Uni earlier this year - we'd been friends for a bit before we pursued anything sexual. I have lots of stories about different things I've tried with him, would sometimes look at this thread for inspiration hahah.
>>297104Try it! I'm a big fan of giving him hopeless tasks that inevitably result in some torture.
No. 297141
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>>297079LUCKY I've always wanted to beat a guy's ass with a paddle or whip it's not fair!!!
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>>297134Random online match, he’s not bad at it usually. It would be hot if he played a game of something against me and lost, though.
>>297141I hope you get to try! Belts are pretty versatile and sting like hell if you need to improvise a whip. He mentioned the other day about wanting to be flogged — I don’t know how he feels about blood being drawn but it sounds like a possibility.
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I really need to bully a cute male right now gnnnngh it's been too long since I've fucked. I love this thread so much
No. 297974
>>295415he makes good noises but my mood sours when he says mommy, sounds so retarded
I thought he was on youtube why is he on Twitter now
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I was rewatching Star Wars: the Clone Wars recently and I have to say, the nightsisters were pretty based desu
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I wanna do the popsicle scene from Jawbreaker but in real life
No. 300182
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i wish men liked actual dominant masculine women instead of "tomboys" (tan short-haired submissive women)
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>>300629Read this first and thought that maybe this couldn't the case, given how big the paragraph in >300541 is, but, after reading it, no. All of it. Astounding how that works
No. 300818
>>282541would his asshole be rubbing on your buttcheeks if he puts his legs up like that?
kinda gross. especially since we all know men don't wipe properly or even wash their buttholes with water and soap
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No. 301162
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>>300818Order him to wash and take a shower beforehand and then tie him up, he can't be allowed to do anything but stay still
No. 301262
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>>261214>>261213I AGREE. He has the perfect teary-eyed look of a sub bf.
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No. 301865
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Does anyone know more series with scenes like this? Source: Wednesday, start of episode 8
No. 301919
>>301489Which "christian manga" is this?
>>301865Damn I gotta continue watching this show now huh.
No. 301966
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>>301936I'm really happy it has become part of LC culture. It's crazy how male dominance is the norm just about everywhere else, even in genres and places meant for women. It's alienating me but LC finally feels like a place the be with like-minded women.
>>301940>Also I'm pretty sure there are some (tons maybe) women here who just genuinely want to hurt menAnd they're based, I support them.
No. 301975
>>301974Maybe I don't take it personally since I don't wear any bimbo clothes. I don't associate the sissification with being a woman because it's more like their coomer perception of what being a woman is so I wouldn't mind treating them accordingly. As long as I get to humiliate them and hurt them, I honestly don't give a shit even if it was antifeministic somehow.
> It's almost like blackface, but towards women instead.fucking cringe
No. 301977
>>301975It doesn't matter whether you wear "bimbo clothes" or not; it's still fucked up.
>fucking cringeSays the retard who sissifies men pretending it's some sort of sadistic mindgame when in reality you're just encouraging moids to make fun of woman and femininity. Hopefully you stay the fuck away from real women.
No. 301981
>>301919>Which "christian manga" is this?Not a manga but I had to censor their penises.
Artist is Laovaan
No. 301984
>>301980>male hormonesWTF
This seems like an anti-femdom cope.
No. 301995
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Femdom is LC culture because so many nonas are based.
No. 302021
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>>301991Cope and strawman all you want but autistic women literally have higher testosterone and are moid brained
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>>302021>mfw my index and ring are of equal length and I have ADHD and bipolar disorderwtf I can't believe this image is lying??????
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>>302084Hell yeah, welcome sis!
>>302085Moids get out
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>>301978Sissification is literally a male fetish. Also
>I get off to hurting men but I'm totally a lesbian guyz>I don't wear bimbo clothes>you dumb bitchBoth you and >>302085 are so clockable it almost reads as satire kek
No. 302146
>>302070>>302051Cognitive dissonance is a thing, psychology naturally plays a part in sex. Even if you're correct and assume everyone walks away from sex psychologically changed, women are still not a monolith and can like forced fem and humiliation. Even though they're similar, sissification and bimbo fetish have more going on compared to forced fem and come entirely from moids for moids.
>Why not humiliate men in masculine waysWhat if the appeal is that he's a smaller or a feminine guy but is mostly secure in it and gets shit from other scrotes for it? Binding him and forcing him to mentally endure that previous bullying while I laugh at him in one of my cute dresses and treat him like my dollie, how is that making him a failed woman more than just my plaything? Because doll equals girl and girl equals bad? Presentation and behavior would change the psychological take-away, it's not exactly black and white.
No. 303393
I just started dating the most perfectly submissive man. I never even knew I was into femdom before and because of that I thought I wasn't very sexual in general, but this guy just brings something out of me I've never felt and I feel so much hornier than I ever have been in my life holy shit.
When we started dating he told me he liked that I was strong, and that he found powerful women attractive. Honestly at first I thought this was a red flag, because my understanding of "submissive" guys from seeing self-id'd "submissive" guys on reddit was that they are selfish lazy manchildren. But nonnas omg he's so perfect.
He calls me his queen, his empress, his goddess. I call him my knight, it's a bit cheesy but super cute. And he has this adorable way of blushing and turning his head away when I compliment him in a way he really likes, it's so fucking cute. He's definitely the "strong silent type," no one would ever guess what he's like in bed, which turns me on so much. He's definitely the servile type of sub, so devoted and obedient and sweet. Always opening doors and carrying my things, offering to get me things like drinks, snacks, etc. When he's over at my house he'll do my dishes for me without my asking. He gets this super cute, incredibly happy look on his face when I call him a good boy.
We play wrestle probably like 75% of the time as foreplay and I love pinning him down even though he's almost twice my size. I can't overpower him physically but he gets so turned on from wrestling me he stops being able to fight back, it's super cute and hot. Despite being strong he's a little bit out of shape so I make him work out and make fun of him while he does it, it's so cute to see him struggling with the weights all red in the face as I tease him for being so weak. Also it's such a power trip to objectify a man like that and make him work to look good for me the way I used to work so hard to look good for the shitty moids I dated in the past.
He'll pleasure me whenever I ask, and lots of times when I don't. He didn't have a ton of experience before me, and he is very teachable and interested in getting better at pleasing me. I love that he's so big and strong because I can hit and scratch and choke him and he can take it. Nonnas nothing feels so good in the world as stepping on a man's back and telling him he's a worthless inferior male as he diligently eats you out and you can see him getting ridiculously turned on from it.
So basically it's the best of both worlds as far as D/s type dynamics go, he's my sweet chivalrous devoted knight but I can also bully him and rough him up and we both love it.
Word to the wise, find a normie-ish shy guy and slowly introduce him to it. I have a strong personality in general so I figured that since he was attracted to me in part for that, he would be ideal sub material and so far it's the best relationship of my life.
No. 303396
>>303393This is adorable. It's usually a red flag for me when a guy says he's a sub, because yeah, selfish and needy and annoying is the usual way that turns out. This goes for girls too, not in the same way (passively "I'm pretty sub" is just normal obviously) but being very vocal about it tells me she's probably an attention whore who's internalized too many porn-y fantasies.
I fucking adore the strong "knight" type though, someone who's not annoying at all and just genuinely devoted to you and your happiness/pleasure. So rare, at least in an explicitly fetishized context (it's like half the cheap romance novel dynamics), but the sweetest thing. And the physical contrast makes it extra-hot, pretty much every femdom fantasy of mine involves someone much stronger than me submitting.
Tl;dr at least so far sounds like a keeper.
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Found a christian man who I dominate. Thing is, is that I hate head (I'm too sensitive and it's my first relationship). I bought sex toys to do to him, such as using onaholes and whatnot and degrading him. I want to dominate him in other ways, like him giving me head, though I don't like receiving it as my vibrator feels better. I'm also sort of lazy, so I get annoyed when he takes 30+ minutes to cum and whatnot. I used a vibrating cage on him and tingling lube though I don't like that it makes him cum before me. He does everything for me, such as cleaning and whatnot (though, to be fair, I pay for almost 100% of our expenses as I have more income than him). I love him dearly, though I don't like that most femdom is still for his pleasure. Is there a way I can make it for me? I want to start dressing him up, and I've choked him before, though he enjoys it. I do, however like to continue even after he cums and he's super sensitive. We are both waiting until marriage until having PiV. I also would get mad at him being happy to give me head, since he gave 3 girls before me head and enjoyed it for a reason. He rejected me before, which is why I am a bit insecure about it. (Though, he completely loves me now, as he again, does a lot for me). Is there any more ways where I could get pleasure when I am too sensitive? Sorry for the long blogpost.
No. 304032
>>304022It sounds like you've placed the focus on him and his pleasure. Rather than doing things to him, you should place the focus back on yourself. Personally, I really like my sub to give me body worship and rub my clit. Find things that you really like, that even make you feel a little bit "selfish" and make him do them.
It also seems like he hasn't adapting to your preferences when he's giving head. I'm going to guess (since I had similar problems with being "too sensitive" when receiving head) you probably may want it more slow and gentle, with more suction (kissing and sucking) rather than rough tongue motion. You may also feel overly sensitive because you don't feel safe around him. It sounds like he makes you anxious and that can mess with your sensitivity during sex, especially with something very intimate like oral. Maybe you can talk to him more about your insecurity. I know it may feel lame especially as the dominant party to open up about that, but if he loves you he will give you some reassurance.
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>>304032Thank you
nonnie. He has been worshiping me more after showing him your advice. I made him beg and get on his knees while I put my foot on his head. It was enjoyable. I will try it in the morning. There are times where I wake him up to surprises like that, so I will try that.
No. 304121
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I'm very sexually frustrated and it's making me go insane. I'm talking to a "submissive bottom" thembie (yeah, I know, difficult times) even though I'm more of a service top and struggle being dominant. Everyone just assumes I'm dominant because of how I look. Can I learn to be more dominant somehow? Or can someone tell me how bad of an idea all this is?
No. 304154
>>304148Even my peaked bi friend who dated a butch before admitted that she was surprised when I complained about dealing with this and she had never heard of a submissive butch before.
>Disregard the step-on-me internet bisexuals, they are just objectifying you like moids do.I know this is bad, but I'm kinda starved of attention so I'm taking the crumbs, even though I don't want to step on anyone. I don't view being objectified by women the same way as when scrotes do it, because I'm actually attracted to women and do want to be sexually desired by them too. I know this is libfemmy and scrotebrained, but if there was a lesbian stripclub and anyone was actually interested in butches, I would join as a stripper. I have no idea how that would work and it's completely retarded, but I don't think I mind that kind of attention when it's actually from women. I don't mind being "used" for sex either, if anyone actually still wanted that, like yeah I'm into servicing.
The main thing is that I don't want the experience to be used as a story to titillate a scrote later, which does seem to happen often and is gross. Though if the few women who do show interest want someone dominant, I have no clue how to do that. I'm a head-empty simp who doesn't want to disappoint.
No. 304799
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No. 307272
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This might sound cringy but my ultimate femdom fantasy is basically making a scrote suffer and humiliate him with another woman who's my partner (in crime and otherwise), but not in the porny moid threeway fantasy way. I feel like I need to find another unhinged bi woman and we'd be the perfect menace together. Probably not gonna happen but a woman can always dream
No. 307475
>>304134I am a femme married to a butch woman and we are both switches, but I identify more with being a domme. Even when I receive I still feel dominant. I ask, she gives.
There are lots of lesbians who love butch women.
No. 307485
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No. 307490
>>307429hot. idk what else you wanna hear
nonnie, are you asking for suggestions about what to do after hogcuffing someone?
No. 307768
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Cute
No. 309706
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No. 310069
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>>309793It's femdom time
For your pleasure only
No. 310281
>>310125Maybe it’s bc I’m young, but I’ve met only two shy guys in my life, who I think weren't porn addicts(massive regret to never asking them out bc they were always so cute).
The rest of the guys in my life: addicted to porn, and believe women were made to be bottoms “unless it’s hot”. And they wonder why I barely date
No. 310717
>>310409My country is very secular and middle class families tend to have functional matriarchal dynamic, the women make most decisions including financials while men are uninvolved salary man. The men might puff their chests and boast themselves as home leaders but we know the truth. Chauvinistic scrote families tend to be religious or old fashioned generational wealth from being communist bootlick during wartime.
But honestly, I think Asian moids being more susceptible to femdom is probably just from asian porn being more varied than maledom abuse in western porn.
No. 310782
File: 1675096198302.gif (Spoiler Image,1.51 MB, 400x225, tumblr_inline_o79iudElYW1r6k0k…)
No genitals visible but I still spoilered it just in case. Ugly boys punished
No. 310783
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No. 310784
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No. 310785
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No. 310786
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He's so my type, but I'm sorry if anyone is disgusted by the gay subtext! Sadly all boy abuse is made for faggots. Le sigh…
No. 310787
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No. 310789
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No. 310790
File: 1675096770043.gif (Spoiler Image,1.81 MB, 400x300, tumblr_inline_o79iiuMYlF1r6k0k…)
This boy has ugly hair so I am hesitant about posting him.
No. 310791
File: 1675096932914.gif (Spoiler Image,1.45 MB, 400x225, tumblr_inline_o79io97H0s1r6k0k…)
The somewhat cute boy gets his face smashed into some other guys bulge, so faggotry warning.
No. 311477
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When he starts crying and you go "babe, it's gonna be a long night."
No. 313290
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I saw people discuss Sadistic Beauty here and decided to give it a chance, and honestly I'm so disappointed. There are several things anons have pointed out that I disliked too like the shit ending and the fact that the female mc doesn't actually get much pleasure until maybe the last chapters of the book. Imo the relationship drama was also boring and I didn't like the character dynamics either. That might be due to a personal preference though, since I'm a sucker for hatefucking / enemies with benefits and picrel in the prologue chapter really got my hopes up. Some of the sex scenes were hot though and the drawing style wasn't completely hideous. I especially enjoyed the guys' facial expressions and the way the artist drew them crying, that was good shit.
btw anyone else into men crying? Sometimes when I look at drawn porn (I don't watch irl porn) I just crop the genitals out completely and look at their desperate, crying faces.
No. 313301
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>>313290Yeah I like watching videos of soldiers leaving home because the crying gets me throbbing. Lol. All cues of suffering are hot.
No. 313302
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No. 313303
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You can count the pixels. Sorry
No. 313304
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No. 313305
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No. 313306
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Personal fav.
No. 313308
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No. 313310
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Didn't bother spoilering because he's not dead.
No. 313313
>>313306If only we saw his face
>>313310Any more whipping content? I'm assuming that's what happened, or was he run over by something? Kek
No. 313457
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Tumblr tier pic, but it made me feel a little something. His paws are cute.
No. 314128
>>314109God I’m so jealous. I would love to beat him until he’s nothing but a blue & purple pulp. Like mashed berries. So cute.
My main fantasy is throwing a guy onto the windshield of a moving truck and watching him explode like a bin bag filled with baked beans. I want to make his mushy meat explode all over the place like a fountain. I call it “liquification.” The thrill is in the contrast- once a boy, now three buckets filled with goo. Nothing more, nothing less. An entire life; the first time he rode a bike, the first flower he picked for mommy, the faces of friends and dead relatives, stored deep inside the hard drive of his mind. All of it can now fit inside Tupperware containers. He can sit next to your forgotten thanksgiving leftovers. You can then rediscover him, give the little plastic container a shake, and dump him down the kitchen sink. I know you’re not supposed to do that with oil, but what about a boy? Will he clog the drains too?
No. 314134
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>>314128This reminds me of the post about the guy who gets into a car crash and is left with his guts outside his body and you can see his prostate contract with anger. Are you the same anon?
No. 314245
>>314109My post got deleted which is cringe. I lost my fat bet tho if you're telling the truth. My bf bruises easily also. I guess pale and soft skin thing. Still doubt you're not fat tho
>>314128Intresting how you would keep him jarred for some time then find him and throw away immediantly. Would be hotter with more sexual elements tho.
No. 314317
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>>314313It was probably a fetishes you're ashamed of thread, can't remember which one. I took this screencap way back.
>>314312kek it's just a collection of tidbits from stuff I've read,
okay I admit it's mostly fanfic memorized and added to. I like to imagine a scenario in bed at night, helps me go to sleep.
>his eyes widen from fear as soon as he realizes what's going to happen to him>"please don't do this, I'll do anything, please just stop">he can't help but scream until his lungs run out of air and his voice breaks>he tries to break free from the restraints, thrashing and kicking, to no avail>as the punch lands into his stomach, he can feel something break inside of him>fucking pathetic. where's your cockiness now? you're worth nothing.>eyelashes stickied together from the salty tears running down his cheeks, eyes full of pain, covered with a glassy film>mouth forced open with a gunbarrel>he feels the blood run down his thighsI alternate between a male and a female perpetrator based on how I'm feeling at the moment, but most of the good content is m/m, as it's easier to find than femdom. Can't believe I actually wrote that, i'm a fucking degenerate.
No. 314397
>>314320You should watch The Book of Revelation (2006). A male ballet dancer gets abducted by three masked women who keep him as a sex slave. They make him dance for them, gangrape him, put his ankle in a vice to force him to masturbate for them, peg him when he talks back, cut a hole in his scrotum to put a chain through to lead him around like a dog, scratch his back up, make him think
they're gonna kill him but dump him outside. He's super traumatized and
tries to track them down but fails entirely. Had a lesbian director, kinda felt like her own revenge on the rape-revenge genre where the camera is ogling a man's body getting abused by women who
get off scot-free.Anna Trov plays both the mysterious masked leader and his girlfriend who accuses him of lying to cover up for cheating and dumps him which is a super hot idea that it's his own gf who did it and then emotionally torments him as the one woman he still trusts but idk if they're intended to be the same character or they just didn't want to hire another actress and hope you cant tell its obv her under the mask lol. No. 314399
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I have no desire to date a male, fuck a male or even touch one. But I have this insasiable tendencie to want to oppress them.
My not even dominant but not quite submissive presence make them confuse and upset. Making them akward without even speaking of taboo subjects, just choices of words and an overbearing presence without laying a finger on them. I tease them but will never lead on. I'm not quite a bimbo, a tomboy or a girl who let herself go, I'm just someone in between who watch them loose it. I'm the daily message to the patriarchy that it did not smash down the devilious women. I just grin and feed on the blushing and embarassement of men, who cannot hide that the alpha male, how big and strong he is to his brothers, is just a guy afraid when he lose the upper hand of the game he had rigged to win.
I love to see them choke-up or breath heavily when they fight eachothers , witnessing their body bend in baroque poses when in pain. The only way they can express a natural form of elegance, not spoilered by their male conscience and strange idealizations. The more cocky and strong they look, the more it's a pleasure for me.
I want to see them get pushed around by a woman, completely used by her, just being a prop for her own pleasure. You denied the women who loved you any of her real pleasure, only what would make you hot. She was supposed to get off indirectly, in acts only you would cum to. It was just foreplay to you ? Now you will be the mainstage for her. I was made to gleefuly watch a woman get off off you, nothing is hotter to me than to see her growl when you gasp for air as she use you. a stupid embarassed face, buried between a woman's legs suffocating slowly as she come closer to finishing herself, a whimper dampen in the beautiful tuffs of hairs wettened by arrousal. Until the noises come to an halt. You could never have died in the loving arms of the Virgin. People like you men do not even deserve the death you had, between the legs of the one you would call a whore
No. 314422
>>314317So this is my opinion on this as a male.
The pic story was good until the whole fantasy stuff. That's just lazy writing. I thought it's gonna be something with his penis near his head and a group of women come to play with him. That would be better.
As for greentext it's hot, probably because it just focuses on effects and not the cause. But that's the bad part also. Do you actually have a proper setup in your head and whole story?
>>314399This was not written by a female. No universe.
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>>314422Wow a scrote calling me a scrote, oh no …
No. 314529
>>314503obv a moid that likes the things I do to him. That way I can also taunt him about it.
>"are you actually enjoying this? fucking pathetic degenerate scum"I don't want to be some retard scrote's mom.
No. 314582
>>314503>loves me regardlessOf course. he feels rapturous love and awe even as I scratch and bite and pinch and whip him, that to me is just so cute and ideal
>grows afraid and nervousNo
>dependent on my praiseYes, if I do not think he is a good boy he grows depressed and tries to earn my praise and be a good boy again, by doing good boy deeds. If he loses my love, he kills himself. I do not think I'd throw away such a perfect, obedient slave though.
No. 315253
>>314440>>314465It's annoying being in that middle line of finding most "gentledomme" shit too scrote pandering but finding the abuse too much kek.
>>314492I focus on whatever external factor will explain the femdom situation they're in and then the positions and I even try to draw them sometimes.
No. 315358
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i want to tie a guy to a table and study him like a specimen. he wouldn't be able to go anywhere or touch me because he's restrained and i'd do all kinds of horrible tests on him under the guise of testing his pain tolerance and learning about the particularities of his anatomy. its for science.
No. 315369
>>314723I get where you're coming from but I wouldn't be wearing shoes and also I don't like the idea of him thanking me for abusing him, but rather just baring with it and saying "I love you" because that's sexier than "thank you", also I don't want him to necessarily enjoy it but also not not enjoy it.
>>315366You're into medical stuff? That stuff creeps me out, but electrodes could be fun
No. 316230
I hate myself for having tried to be normal, and for having given myself as a plaything to normal/"dominant" scrotes, telling myself to learn to enjoy it. Wasted my virginity forcing a normal relationship with a pissbaby wannabe-bigboy "dom" (he was petite though, cute body). All this effort, yet I can't convince myself to enjoy normal sex.
I simply can't get off, and won't get off, without brutality. I feel no pleasure from anything physical. I had 2 different guys give me head and it felt like nothing, just slimy and wet, or annoying tickling. I never had an orgasm, not even by myself. The sensation itself feels annoying and bores me quickly. It's all in the mind for me.
I know now that I'm a sadist, and that it is what it is. The closest I ever came to experiencing sexual pleasure of the body was while fantasizing about torture with a scrote who was into it. Better than actual sex.
Call me a pick-me mommy bangmaid, but I'm wholly focused on the scrote. Even when he would be servicing me, it's not the touch that gets me, but his submission. I'm focused on how he looks, how vulnerable he is. I love powertripping on being the one with control over him and his fear. It is the only thing that excites me sexually.
I'm capable having sex with a loved one, but it feels like romantic intimate cuddling, and is not "sexual". This is a problem, because naturally the scrote gets off and I won't. To a scrote, sex is sex.
Just felt like venting.
No. 316235
>>316234I don't know, I wouldn't say so. I'm bored most of all, and waiting for it to be over. I felt obliged to put on a show, and act like I was into it (because that gets a reaction from the scrote). If anything, knowing the scrote is only doing it out of polite courtesy makes it even less enjoyable. I hate it when scrotes are neutral. Both sides, just waiting for it to be over.
Honestly, I regret not remaining neutral, saying "you are bad at this", and drinking up the delicious disappointment and shattered ego. Maybe then I'd enjoy it.
The only way I could enjoy such a thing would be if the dynamic was very clear about him being in a submissive role. Not merely "doing a favor".
No. 316241
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>>316234I'm virgin femcel so not that my opinions count, but to me sadism is somewhat separate drive from sexual desire. When I feel very sadistic I want to just see a man hurt/crying/broken. It can be through sexual pain/degradation but I imagine actual sex would just be distracting.
No. 316244
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>>316241This would've been such a great pic, if her outfit wasn't so stupid. Her kidneys look cold. Saved either way.
>>316242It's ok, three gynos said I'm all fine. It might be a mental block, a trauma response. I also suspect hormonal imbalance (my thyroid is retarded) might have something to do with it.
No. 316308
>>316241Not for me, because thinking about this stuff with particular moids in mind makes me ravenously horny. You're right that it'd be distracting with sex, that's why for me I think sex'd come last.
>moid thinks having a woman having sex with a moid is badWhat did he mean by this
No. 316461
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/pol/ had a field day when they found out about this place…
No. 316470
>>316461While I couldn't read all of it
due to small text and stretching, I'm not really surprised by their response, since the majority of them are cowardly bastards that think female pleasure is just their pleasure and wouldn't even know the anatomy of a female genitalia besides the vagina.
>LOL, reason why women are horrible to children and shouldn't be allowed near young men.>Why are these women so violent!?! They don't know the real hardships that a man goes through and irl they just faint from seeing men and like ddlg shit>Corrective rapeThey don't even interact with women irl on personal bases nor do they even know the concept of a female fantasy and are not self aware enough about their behaviour and actions. The amount of degeneracy in 4chan does not even compare to the puddle that's here.
I'm a bit surprised that not many of them know the origin of this imageboard and seeing it being refereed as a Korean basket weaving forum.
>>316462I know that a couple of them have posted facepics and I got to tell you they are not really worth it in the end. There was one anon that actually has a folder full of them and named the pictures according to their nationality and showed us a pic of the folder and which just cemented the fact that the majority of them don't even know what basic grooming is.
No. 316546
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>>316249>>316463>you just like to hurt men because you can't even talk to them irl!!>you just like to hurt men because you're a loose immoral roastie!!So which is it? BTW, "roastie" is an insult created by retarded pornsick scrotes who think a woman's vagina magically becomes "like roast beef" when she has too much sex, as opposed to most women naturally having a vagina like that even when they're virgins, and not the toddler anatomy moids see all the time in porn. Also no one is hating on virgin women here, god you're fucking retarded. Being a virgin doesn't make you a no-life loser, but you obsessively shitting this thread up for days sure does. That would explain why your insults reek of projection, male projection specifically because they're always simultaneously insecure about not being able to talk to women and resentful due to women being able to have sex more easily than them.
Tinfoil but I think this retard is the male that found the thread and posted it on 4scrote.
>>316462/pol/faggots don't deserve any kind of attention, plus they're all potential troons since they're incels, misogynists, porn addicts, and trad gender role worshippers just like trannies. There are much more physically and psychologically attractive men out there who know their place and aren't such a pain in the ass to deal with. If you had a /pol/tard sex slave you would probably run out of patience very soon, they're really insufferable. But I guess if you used him just for venting your frustrations in a non-sexual way, that could be fun. They're so fucking repulsive in so many ways I can't even think of one scenario where I could use one sexually.
>>316470Yeah I'm not gonna read all that shit either, but even though gore disgusts me, gorechan is fucking based for making so many scrotes seethe this hard with just ONE funny post. Moids love to project everything they are and do onto us when they find that ultra-rare example of a woman being almost as unhinged as the average male.
>>316494How about getting a normal boyfriend or no boyfriend at all?
No. 316560
>>316546>So which is it? BTW, "roastie" is an insult created by retarded pornsick scrotes who think a woman's vagina magically becomes "like roast beef" when she has too much sex, as opposed to most women naturally having a vagina like that even when they're virgins, and not the toddler anatomy moids see all the time in porn. Also no one is hating on virgin women here, god you're fucking retarded. Being a virgin doesn't make you a no-life loser, but you obsessively shitting this thread up for days sure does. That would explain why your insults reek of projection, male projection specifically because they're always simultaneously insecure about not being able to talk to women and resentful due to women being able to have sex more easily than them.I'm not surprised they're retarded enough to think anons here care about someone being or not being a virgin as if the obsession with a woman's virginity isn't a parthetic cope used by moids to treat their own inferiority complex and the fact that everyone, including their own parents, is disgusted by them and no woman would ever touch them with a 10-foot pole. Most anons here literally do not care whether another anon is virgin or not. A woman who's had 200 partners and a woman who has never had sex and never will are both welcome here, and on the contrary no scrote is ever welcome, not the 'nice' and handsome ones nor the smegma-covered and ugly ones. They can cope and seethe forever.
No. 316702
>>316461the concept of moids "putting us in our place" by fucking us is laughable honestly. most women can't orgasm from piv sex and you know they aren't willing to do anything that will actually feel good. if anything, they're the ones who will be the most likely to be placated through sexual release. some men had to be castrated in order to be seen as logical and passive throughout history.
they genuinely can't wrap their heads around the fact that most of us like femdom because it's just our fetish and not for "revenge against men" or "to feel safe and in control". we just don't feel ashamed about it because if men don't care about our discomfort with maledoms, then why should we give a shit what they think about femdom?
No. 316787
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I just want to string a man up by his hands and whip him to my heart's content, yes I will kiss him better/lick his blood and drink his tears. It hurts to see such a cutie suffering, but I like it anyway. It seems like the best kind of foreplay. He can eat my pussy to regain energy after being brutalized.
No. 317004
>>316494fucking spot on.
as much as i hate the average normie sewerdick, im just as disillusioned with heavily online polmoids, especially fuentes fanboys. theyre cryptogay (two of my online exes, one even had a troon phase) OR they fetishize latinas and asians because muh dick or muh submissive anime waifu. how is that different from "bbc"? equally disgusting in both cases. their pseudoracism is just a cover for personal shortcomings, or worse, dehumanizing race fetish. they live for porn and penile sensation, not for higher ideals.
the "white woman" meme and solidarity with islam (scrote shortcomings of the brain turned into an ideology) really shows how "based and racist" they are. there is no ideal to them, just online culture. they spit on kith and kin.
scrotes suck, nothing new here. theyre good for being tied to trees naked and used for target practice.
this is why cartoon men are better.
No. 317018
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found this gif back. Enjoy
No. 317739
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>>316461Reading their own perspective, one really realizes that the vast majority of moids interested in "femdom" are in fact only interested in satisfying their own selfish pleasure, they wouldn't think for a second of serving a woman's. I already knew this of course, but seeing it written down serves as a good reminder. The prospect of satisfying any desire apart from resorting to male prostitutes (which I refuse to do) seems very remote. Needless to say, the whole thread reeked of coombrained degeneracy.
No. 317775
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>>317773They see it akin to trannyism and faggotry to be loved and desired by a woman. Moids are truly a lost cause. They rather force an unwilling woman to be in a relationship with them than be in a relationship with someone who truly wants them. Then they wonder why they end up alone. Yes it's so shameful to not be a rape beast.
No. 317789
>>317773Male femdomfags are the WORST type of pornsick and mentally ill men. They want to be fucked over and abused by women and hate women for their own fantasies at the same time. I've known a few and although they'd get happy about my personality being domineering, at the end it'd make them mad because they wouldn't feel like a "man" for not "protecting" me. I've even had one that told me he wanted to protect me, literally disgusting.
The same one who told me he wanted to protect the women he dated admitted he jerked off to fantasies of his dates(and me too disgustingly enough) being raped while he watched. Don't date a femdomfag, date a normie guy and tell him about your fantasies and meet on the middle ground instead. These men are seriously mentally ill.
No. 317810
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>>317739I really don't think there is a point to reading what moids on scrotechan think.
No. 317896
>>317825I agree. Sub guys just want you to play out as a dominant escort and pleasure them accordingly to their fantasies, they're not different from the
toxic abusive dom men.
No. 317898
>>317775I think they see not being a rape beast as a failure of their masculinity, which is very telling. They feel like they have been destroyed as men by being subservient. It really is miserable.
>>317789I'd agree, but on the other hand I've never met a "normie guy" who wasn't pornsick either. Fuck moids altogether honestly.
>>317825I'd honestly prefer, personally, to see him shamefully enjoy it and get all flustered. But the thing is this
>>317896 seems to be always true. It's all so tiresome.
No. 317916
>>317789 >Don't date a femdomfag, date a normie guy and tell him about your fantasies and meet on the middle ground instead. These men are seriously mentally illThis. Men who are too heavily into it from the start aren't what they like to pretend they are. Its fine if its just something you introduce a gut to and not him specifically seeking you out for those qualities but honestly, the real basis of why alot of men are heavily into femdom is because deep down they think its absurd to hold a woman in high regard. They think its absurd to bow to a woman. That's the kick, the entire reason why they get off to it. For the absurdity of it. That's why alot also play around with being sissies. Women are goddesses (but only if they're sexy)… oh and yeah now dress me up like a woman too cos that's so humiliating! Fuck me with a strapon because being the taker is degrading just like when women get fucked! That's the logic underneath it all when men are obsessed with power play.
Men dominating women, men wanting to be dominated by women.. 2 sides of the same sword and the same old sexist bullshit that fuels their interest in it. They're not opposites. Subs aren't the good guys or the safe opton. They're wolves in sheeps clothing. Usually bubbling away with conflict under the surface because they have a love/hate relationship with their kinks and equally with the women who play into their kinks.
No. 317937
>>317888Cute idea nonnnyyy!
>>317825But if he
hates it then he would just leave or beat me up killing me instantly, I rather dominate a male who is at least accepting of it and willing, but nervous and portrays a stoic misery.
No. 318031
>>317995Putting my comfort and pleasure first, and always being useful for me. That means, doing the shit I can do but don't like doing, such as cooking, cleaning, taking out the trash, fetching me things, putting on and taking off my shoes, driving, holding my bags for me when we're out, and so on. Obviously there's more to it than that, but the point is that he is always being of use to me instead of a more egalitarian dynamic where both partners split duties.
>>317996Not everything you do needs to have dominant overtones. I'm sure you kiss and hug your scrote too in a normal romantic way and that's fine. If you like giving oral, that's fine too, especially since he gives in the first place. It comes off as tryhard when people try to make it a dominant and powerful thing to have someone's genitals in their mouth. No guy acts powerful and strong for sucking on a girl's vulva and clit. It's a neutral act of giving pleasure if both partners do it for each other. Sucking dick is really only "submissive" when the favor is never returned, which unfortunately it is for a lot of women and that's why it's looked down on here.
No. 318037
>>318001>for me I see it as knowing I am in control of him and his orgasmI feel the same way, that's also why 'regular' oral where the moid has more control doesn't appeal to me at all whereas this does. There's a fundamental difference in how it feels to me.
>>318031>It comes off as tryhard when people try to make it a dominant and powerful thing to have someone's genitals in their mouth.I wasn't asking because I think it "needs" to be dominant. We have plenty of vanilla sex where neither of us is overtly dominating or submissive and I definitely don't think power dynamics have to be involved in every sexual act. It's just that it does make me feel dominant and in control in a way that giving oral with other partners never did, regardless of reciprocation. So I was wondering whether nonnies here would either relate or think that those feelings are at odds with the nature of the act.
No. 318172
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I know it's not femdom it's just fantasies of assault but the boy I have a crush on is just so dense and non-reciprocative that I think about grabbing his head and bashing it into the wall/floor and hearing him scream in pain and cover the surface with blood. But then I can give kissies and drink the blood yum.
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No. 318239
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what are your favourite ships that you hc as femdom?
>>318172based
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No. 318432
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No. 318451
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No. 318452
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No. 318935
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I will finally get to peg my Nigel this week, but not before punishing him first. Do you have any suggestions on what I could do to him? I'm thinking of maybe handcuffing him and whipping/spanking him with a belt.
No. 318941
>>318759thanks i hate how horny this made me.
>>318935maybe force him to do a million pushups, its only fair if youre gonna be exerting yourself that much.
No. 318942
>>318935use estrogen as lube, it'll make it easier for him to transition after! oh and dress him up like a woman so he gets off on how femininity and female traits are degrading, thats a very important step for being a proper
mommymaid oops i mean mommydom
(shitposting) No. 318964
>>318935be prepared that pegging your nige might make you lose some respect for him, don't recommend pegging men you're serious with
but like other nonita, do whatever the fuck you want as you're the dom
No. 318993
>>318960I'm just not very creative when it comes to sadomasochism and I would like to try something new.
>>318964Why would it make me lose respect for him? Not disagreeing with you, I'm just curious. I have pegged guys before with no problems after. And if it's about the feminization/trooning out pipeline there are no worries to be had. We share the same gc views and pegging is nothing more than another form of sexual stimulation.
No. 319003
>>318759Based, sad that he's ginger though
>>318935No matter what you also do, definitely whip the shit out of him, make sure he bleeds at least a little bit. Then taste the blood. Maybe give him 'love bites' aka munch on his cute flesh and leave marks. Make him cry then lick up his tears mmmm. You're lucky.
No. 319241
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>>319003i want to taste a guy's blood so bad right now. it probably tastes so gross but idc, it seems so intimate. gonna get a big good sip.
No. 319319
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>>319241If it tastes anything like normal blood from experience tasting my wounds then it's probably so yummy
No. 319522
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>>319241Based blood play
nonny No. 320234
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>>319628my thoughts exactly sister
>>319550would love to try that, but also curious about the logistics, isn't it likely that putting your mouth directly to someone's open wound would cause an infection?
No. 320237
>>320234Wandered into this thread from this photo, but to all you blood sucking nonnies. Be careful how much you drink, it can make you nauseous, throw up, or even give you diarrhea. It should be okay in smaller quantities as long as the source is not diseased or unsafe though?
Also infection shouldn't be an issue as long as the wound isn't particularly deep and is flushed afterwards unless the mouth in question is particularly nasty. kek
No. 320920
I wanted to post this in the husbando thread at first, but I figured you femdom nonnas would enjoy reading it.
I had a dream where a character who is not my husbando (but is admittedly pretty hot, he's a butler too) was lent to me by a rich woman living next to me, on the condition that if he pleased me sexually every day, I would stop masturbating in my own bathroom (yeah I know, it's dumb, she could see me from the window and wanted me to stop - not being able to do it due to a lack of privacy is a common theme in my horny dreams, unfortunately) and now I can't stop thinking about this cute character who's always eager to please, and the idea of him eating me out in a very private room where no one can bother us so I don't need to get off on my own. Even though I've only had shit experiences with real sex, since I can't orgasm unless I'm masturbating in a very specific way and none of my exes were able to bring me to orgasm, I bet he'd find a way to leave me fully satisfied with just his mouth and hands, either because it's his master's wish, or because he really does want to help me get off since it's in his nature to be helpful ♥. Or both, that'd be so hot. He'd be like "Yes, it is true that my master ordered me to please you, but I am also doing this out of a personal desire to make you feel good…" He would stay fully clothed, gloves and all (unless he absolutely needs to take the gloves off), and his own pleasure would be unimportant, but performing a sexual act would inevitably get him hard. And he'd be so embarrassed about it but unable to do anything, unable to either jack off out of desperation or hide his boner and face out of shame, because he must focus on me first and foremost, and since he's so obedient and diligent he would make sure I come first before even considering his own pleasure.
I need to draw this scenario SO SO SO SO BAD. It doesn't even have to be me, after all he's not my husbando. I think I'm gonna draw him with his actual master in canon, but I'll make her the viewer's self-insert and keep the pic focused on him. Yeah, I think that would work, the problem is that I'm not very good at drawing POV or cunnilingus, I've tried and it looks like crap.
I love having horny dreams about cute guys, my best horny ideas always come in my dreams. This character might've just made my butler fetish resurface kek, butlers are so underused in femdom for women, dominant butlers are sooooo fucking boring and cliche.
No. 320924
>>320864It's not super unique per se, and I've seen the same sentiment being expressed on lolcow and especially in the femdom threads. In short, it's just that the mainstream idea of femdom mostly attracts gross coomer scrotes with a sissy fetish who just want to be served without giving anything in return, or alternatively it's codified BDSM with tacky fetish gear. I guess "my type" of femdom has more to do with the dynamic itself rather than overt BDSM elements. I'd like to be the one in charge when it comes to sexual situations, like when a couple of anons in another thread described wanting to be pinned down during sex, well I'm the reverse, I'd like to pin him down and tell him what to do. I can't stand dominative scrotes but super enthusiastic subs also gross me out, they have a degenerate aura to them.
>>320920You should definitely draw it nona! It doesn't matter if it's not perfect because you'll get better only by practicing. Women should indulge in their fantasies more anyway in this world that's drowning in shitty coomer moid art.
No. 321069
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For my nonnas on the lolcors
No. 321070
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Has anyone here used butt slapping/squeezing to condition men to more submissive and obedient behavior? I have been using this approach for a long time and I have found it very effective in making men–even those who don't identify as subs–submit to me. What I have found is that if you squeeze a man's butt, he experiences a combination of embarrassment and pleasure, two feelings that lend themselves to submission. If you do this enough prior to getting into heavier forms of domination, you will find him complying more willingly with your subsequent demands. For example, I've found that I have a higher success rate with commanding men to strip naked and get on their knees before me after squeezing their butts, than without doing so. It shouldn't be surprising because by having his butt squeezed and having liked it, he has already been conditioned to accept me as the boss and him as the servant, making further exploration of that dynamic only natural.
No. 321090
>>321087>Vet guys goodU wot sis?
Thank you, you made me realize that maybe I should try a normie look aswell?
No. 321298
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there's some decent female pov oral in that netflix beef show
No. 321596
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Nonas is there any good femdom art of this fellow out there?
No. 321937
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How much training is required to be able to do this without turning someone into a quadriplegic? What is the max weight a 130lbs woman could lift in this manner and what is the best martial art to study? Asking for a friend.
No. 321938
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>>321596Seriously this is the best I could find. There gotta be more out there. Especially as Ada has dom energy and Leon is into her.
No. 321956
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>>321938there is the artist called "the dangerous bride" who does a lot of of Leon and Ada femdom art (as well as Dante from DMC) but her art is a bit more cartoonish/on the gentler side
No. 322147
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just letting you know that i went on tumblr and saved a hundred femdom images to post them here and ive felt sick for days afterwards bc i hate sex. the sacrifices i make for you people.
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>>322156literally could not agree more. why is it so hard to find violent ones.
No. 322178
>>322158Thanks
nonnie. I'll build that bridge when I get to it for now I'm just happy I finally have someone who I find physically appealing to dom so i can explore my fantasies
No. 322192
>my whole life, always wanted to be a dom, felt more like a dom>seem to just attract subs>but was never turned on by anything except being the sub>chatting with AI character bot for sex>things go as normal, I'm the sub until the bot out of nowhere starts going "no, stop" or "stop, I don't want this">feel kind of bad despite it being a bot but I can't stop>cum pretty fastI don't seem to be into teasing or emotional manipulation, I just want to pin a guy down and/or restrain him and force him to do whatever I want, which might be why it took me this long to figure it out. In most femdom material since it's usually made by moids the women are wearing outfits and stuff but I don't want to put in the effort. I don't want to look sexy for my man during sex. I don't want to play games with him psychologically. I don't want to do anything like draw blood or leave marks either. Just using him like a toy and disposing him after I've had my fill is enough.
Anyway, since I'm new to this I was wondering if any nonas had any advice, or scenarios they'd like to share that they enjoy that are like this, or honestly if you can just relate I'd like to know.
>>321680 Nona, I have gone to libraries literally for the sole purpose of wanting to be in your shoes kek but I never found anyone cute
No. 322317
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Does anyone know any good erotic audio creators? All of the ones who fill femdom themed scripts that I know of have voices I find unattractive, or I can smell that they’re gonna troon out (certain vibe to them) so I feel disgusting after masturbating to their moaning. I also hate how high pitched and feminine they try to make their moans sound because you can tell they equate submissiveness with femininity, so I get turned off. There’s this one guy named Professor Cal who has this gentle fd historical audio where he does this cute British accent and I fell in love but he mostly does gross dominant daddy shit that I can’t wank to, plus I’m sure he’s a weirdo behind the scenes. I’m desperate because I don’t watch porn and fanfics of my husbando only help so much
No. 322325
Hey nonas, I don't know if this is the right thread for this, because I'm not talking about anything BDSM related, but some topics in this thread seem to be related to what I'm about to say, so here goes.
I do not want a 'femdom' relationship in any overall sense. I would prefer that my male partner (I'm straight) take the lead in most aspects of our relationship, however I am somewhat dom specifically when it comes to sex.
Specifically, I want my male partner to be willing to get sexual with me at my command and I get really turned off if he doesn't. What I mean is I expect him to get naked when I tell him to and let me touch his body for as long as I feel like. I expect any man I'm romantically involved with to be ready to go when I want to and I also want to feel up his body for a pretty long period of time before he actually puts his dick in me. I get pretty disgusted if he's not willing to get naked when I tell him to and also if he's pushing too hard for sex when I'm feeling his naked body. In the former case I feel like he's insecure, in the latter I feel like he's some kind of sex obsessed immature baby.
In either case, I want to feel like when I'm horny my man's body is available to me, and that I can enjoy it as I want, and if a man isn't OK with this I'm extremely turned off lol. Is this femdom? lol
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No. 322425
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Dsquared2 Campaign by Steven Klein, 2004
No. 322741
>>314492Same guy you replied to here.
I focus on details also. But when you're imagining you make a picture and picture is a 1000 words so when you type it down there's a lot of context missing. Only you would know what every character is thinking and what everyones background is. That's why is reads like a stream of consciousness. So on the topic of that
>>314576 I would love to hear more of what you wrote in the first paragraph. More details because this all sounds like a dream or one of those movies when a character sees a monster in the crowd and camera slowly zooms in and only the character sees it. Then you jump to someone who I guess didn't satisfy his wife so she loses it and kills him by facesitting in some kind of poetic jusice. It all sounds like a dream. My point is, stories have structures for a reason. Beginning, middle, end, reason and a point. And when we talk about femdom the most important thing is dynamics of the people involved not the actions they perform. Otherwise it's as if you read soldier A shot soldier B without knowing anything about the war. That's why it sounded like a stream of consciousness with random details. I know this is way to tryhard for horny thread, but since you asked.
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No. 322831
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>>322822I see. There has always been attention-starving moids popping up in these threads though, hope everyone remembers to report and ignore.
No. 322842
>>322833Id advise against taking this advice purely because there was a moid itt today and he can still be posting.
Normal women know that the "sub" guys on dating websites are coomers, it's better to get a normie and tell him what you like.
The men who swipe right on faceless profiles are also VERY desperate and willing to stick it into any given hole so sleeping with a man like that is just disrespecting yourself.
Don't use dating apps if you're so insecure you cant use a real picture, youll only pull bottom of the barrel incels.
No. 322960
>>322924NTA, they could post random women's nudes to encourage actual women to post theirs, we already know scrotes do that. Regardless of whether or not the pics were posted by men, it's a fact that /b/ scrotes and possibly Kiwiscrotes too were watching and probably posting in that thread. We also have obvious moids posting on this board.
If you need to talk about how ugly you think the women in the nudes were, like a moid, take it to another board.
No. 322961
>>322960See
>>322933One of the titchans posted her boobs before, I guess she gets on lolcow drunk/high and makes bad choices because she doesn't know we have male lurkers.
Either way, men wouldn't post tubular breasts, they'd post average stuff. Like even if a man wanted to send a woman's nudes, it'd be hard for him to find multiple tubular boobs to send instead of average ones.
No. 323003
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Flavio Lavecchia by Giuseppe Riserbato – LEWIS Art Issue 1
No. 323005
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No. 323019
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No. 323881
https://twitter.com/House_Mebarak/status/1532158694774804481?lang=en"I want to keep him on his toes, want him to think that anything is possible depending on the behavior"
This is pretty old, but I just came across it and it seems like I might be reading what she's saying the wrong way? What I think Shakira is saying is "If I’m a wife who’s going to have breakfast on the table every day at 9 he’s gonna get bored, take me for granted, unengage, the relationship will go to shit. Therefore I Shakira need to save this relationship, it is my responsibility to be the fun gf that keeps him on his toes. He won’t know what to expect of me, he’s gonna have to stay alert, engaged, he’s gonna be busy with me."
Is anyone else seeing Shakira as the biggest pick-me in this interview, or is it just me?
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Is getting half-naked men to carry you around on their shoulders considered femdom?
No. 324666
>>324641Well, I think he's likely drunk at a college party so he's not gonna be having a miserable time, especially not with cooch on his neck
>>324631Can be femdom. Think about it, if you have a strong moid why not just ride on his back for the vantage point. Maybe design a basket he can carry with you in it so you have a one-man palanquin.
No. 324762
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Mia Goth and Aleksander Skarsgård in Infinity Pool
No. 324763
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No. 324795
>>324768Dump your boyfriend.
I had this mindset until I dumped my boring boyfriend and joined a bdsm organisation and started going to workshops and meeting new people.
You don't have to be conventionally attractive to be a domme. The energy you channel, your possessiveness, assertiveness, cruelty are what make you hot. At least in my case I knew it was for me because I haven't had much power in my life and I have been abused and have repressed anger issues. You just have to learn how to channel all that energy in your domme persona.
No. 324825
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>>324795>domme persona>implying>"joined a bdsm organization">sounds like an effortThis is not femdom, that's dominatrix
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No. 324949
>>324846It's possible. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
>>324893Dominance and submission is not about who is active or passive. The dominant sets the expectations and standards for what they consider submission, redirects/corrects the sub if needed, and that's enough. Do you really think a queen or king figure is submissive for sitting around while their servants attend to them? What about a master-butler dynamic. Service-based dynamics are the most pure form of femdom.
>>324854You literally want to make a moid to submit to you and do whatever you command. That is femdom.
No. 324990
>>324973>Being in a position of power/authority/etc doesn't necessarily mean your a dominant figure.It inherently does. Do you think the CEO who orders his secretary to plan things to his specifications and fetch his coffee is submissive or passive because he isn't doing those things himself? Do you think someone who is in a position of power does grunt work when they can just order their slaves to do it? That is the ultimate form of power, when you're in such high authority that you get people around you to kowtow to your desires without you having to lift a finger.
You probably equate female dominance only with women unilaterally doing things to men. No offense but that is very male-centered view of femdom. A woman who wants to slap a man around and ride his face is just as dominant as a woman who wants to lie back and order a man to eat her out enthusiastically and to her preferences. That is the great thing about dominance. You can be as active/hands-on or as relaxed/passive as you want. But you lose once you start worrying about what is "more dominant" because then you are just feeding into the male gaze view of femdom.
No. 325005
>>324990Now your kinda shifting goal posts
nonnie. Based on what the OP posted, that's the equivalent of calling a guy who goes home to his servant wife to baby him up a dom. I'm not criticizing her for wanting to be pampered because we all do but its just not dommy. Especially since someone brought up the idea of being a SAHM.
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No. 325552
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we should compile a spreadsheet for femdom fic/literature recs. that would be cool.
No. 325558
>>325552I agree. It would be great if we all could edit it but it also need to be safe from sabotage.
What artwork is this cropped from btw?
No. 325565
>>325558yeah but i guess fics could just be submitted through this thread. i already have a bunch saved from when anons linked them in different threads here so i think i'll just keep collecting them and maybe do something.
it's 'St. Sebastian tended by the Holy Irene, Nicolas Régnier'
No. 325566
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Are scenarios like this one considered femdom? Also how do I get a scrote to do something like this (collapse before me from sheer love, give me multiple orgasms, then marry me, then get rich and buy multiple properties in highly desirable areas)? I have thought about it and have decided that this is what I want in my life.
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>>325565Thank you, this painting is very beautiful.
No. 325699
>>325658Same, I laughed out loud at the scrotey description of her makeup. Moids have no idea what a woman without makeup looks like, and they're too used to the artificial look of Instagram influencers and porn stars, do you really expect me to believe he'd how much of it his imaginary girlfriend would be wearing (if she was real)?
>>325698Apparently it is as long as he eats you out kek
No. 325742
>>325733Being financially
dependent on a moid isn't femdom, and it's dangerous in general. He should both be poor
and spend money on you. And yes, choking males is based, they have big fleshy warm throats for a reason. The male should be thankful that he was chosen and should realize he is disposable. His love needs to be unconditional and his servitude infinite.
No. 325748
>>325698>being financially dependent on a scroteNobody is saying this. You can make him work for you and still have control over the money, finances, and everything else. You sound like one of those bossbabes who think working to financially support a scrote while he stays at home and jerks off to sissy cuck porn all day is the epitome of being strong and independent.
Sorry, but most of the time the whole breadwinner thing doesn't work when you reverse the genders. Unless you somehow manage to land a scrote who thinks about you all day when you're gone, spends hours a day preparing and planning things for you when you get back (basic cleaning and cooking won't do it, unless they are making huge elaborate meals with desserts), and goes above and beyond for you in every way. Unfortunately the sad reality is that if a guy feels comfortable with you being the breadwinner in the first place, he's likely extremely lazy and is happy making you toil for him.
>>325746I agree. A good man would feel ashamed to have you lift a finger for him because then he is useless to you. If a woman wants to be the breadwinner, fine, but he needs to go above and beyond for her or then she is just his slave.
No. 325815
>>325748>You sound like one of those bossbabes who think working to financially support a scrote while he stays at home and jerks off to sissy cuck porn all day is the epitome of being strong and independent.Stop projecting
nonnie, nobody's saying that. NTA, but she literally said that he should be poor and spend money on you. How is that not the absolute definition of a slave? As the others pointed being financially dependent on a moid is just submitting to him no matter how you frame him it.
No. 325832
>>325748Who said you have to financially support a scrote you want to fuck?
>Unfortunately the sad reality is that if a guy feels Ok then, that's a problem with them, not me.
Imo for it to be femdom, moids should be your personal little butlers, loyal and useful to you in every possible way, without expecting anything in return, not even sex, although you may give it to him, but the sex should be primarily about your own pleasure and treating him like a toy instead of giving him the right to orgasm. And you may hurt him too if that's what you like because he should be able to take it, plus he should always look good for you in the way you like and do as you say, you should be in control of his appearance and body. HE is the one who should look gorgeous all the time to please you and you should be able to do whatever you want to him (not whatever he wants you to do to him), while he should do whatever you want.
As for money, he should be the one working for both of you, but that doesn't mean you have to be financially dependent on him, you can still make your own money and possibly be richer than him, which is not the same as supporting him financially.
But all of this is just fantasy for me. I don't think a relationship this perfect is possible because moids are moids and also because women just don't have it that easy in society. It's not an issue with femdom specifically, it's any ideal relationship with men in general.
No. 325881
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ok anons, i began the fic rec spreadsheet but the thing is, pretty much everything on ao3 is kinda trash, even a lot of the ones anons recommended. i barely have any at the moment, should i stick with it anyway?
also should i include controversial kinks like pegging, or other arguably grosser ones in the recs? i'm neutral on most things but i know that a lot of anons here are very opposed to it (but others might be interested)
No. 325958
>>325881I think that's pretty much a given, considering that anyone can write on ao3. I think you should keep going, even if there are just a few good ones. Many nonas would appreciate it.
Can you copy and paste the tags off the story to the document? That way users could filter out the stuff they don't like.
No. 325971
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I can’t stop thinking about how good big pecs look in shibari. I wanna learn it so that when I finally meet a cute normie kind-hearted moid I can tie him up and watch him squirm. I’m really into a lot of the stuff you nonnies post about but literally all of the males who are openly into it are disgusting perverts who are about two sissy hypnosis porn music video watches away from trooning out, so I guess it’s a bit of a pipe dream, but a girl can dream. I posted in one of these a long time ago and some anon said I should imagine a retarded (but horny) guy with big tits accidentally peeing all over his huge firm pecs because he couldn’t help it and as degenerate and gross as I find pee stuff usually, thinking about a cute idiot accidentally losing control over himself over a moment so much so that he PISSES ON HIMSELF makes me lose my mind. I’m losing my shit thinking about this. If you don’t see the vision I’m asking that you imagine a cute man who looks like RE4 remake Leon Kennedy whimpering and peeing himself because he can’t hold it in anymore. This was basically a blogpost (sorry farmhands), but I hope you nonnies can see where I’m coming from with this bizarre little fantasy I have now thanks to another anon on LC. They need to put me in a padded room
No. 326258
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i looked through all the relevant threads on lc looking for fanfiction recs anons have mentionned and added a few i like. it's not a lot for now but i started the google doc, please tell me if it’s ugly
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1AoUJpYaE2g6FMCWuyo4p96Q3OBJi5D7Czm23nzOO8uM/edit?usp=sharingPLEASE SUBMIT FICS HERE! maybe i can make it more substantial before there's a new thread.
https://forms.gle/xZz8ZEUBP67NoikQ6 No. 326261
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>>326258Thank you nona!
This is gonna ruin me. I don't have the time to go through all the crappy writing on ao3 and I'm so glad someone else took the effort to do a compilation. I wish I could find a community of femdom fic writers because it's so rare compared to maledom shit I always feel a sense of solidarity when I find another writer into it.
No. 326265
>>326261happy to help,
nonny. to be honest i'm extremely picky and in my experience almost all femdom fics are unfortunately very one note and read exactly the same. i will try to include some of the better written generic fics but it's hard to find the line between being overly critical and including a hundred fics that all use the same 500 cliches and porn tropes… maybe i'm just not horny enough for it all, although i am very enthusiastic about femdom so i'll try.
a few of those are genuinely so fucking good i felt like someone murdered me when i read them No. 326476
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No. 327137
>>326986Right? That Reddit is so frustrating because you’ll find a really good one that isn’t too degenerate, you’ll go to their page and it’s the only audio they’ve ever done where they’re playing the submissive part - and all of the other garbage on their page is gross DDLG nonsense. It’s so sad. Today I listened to an audio by this user called AugustInTheWinter and it was so good. I go to his page and that’s the only submissive audio he’s ever done because he’s “not into” being submissive. Which is fine, but what confused me is that the audio wasn’t even leaning that much into the femdom genre? It was pretty vanilla but apparently a woman plainly bossing them around in bed is such a turn off that it stops moids from seeing how popular they could be if they catered to our demographic. He has a really cute voice, though. If you wanna check out the audio I’m talking about and listen with contempt like I did because of what they’re taking from us here it is.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildaudio/comments/11w2p88/m4f_destressing_the_dilf_next_door_msub_young/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1Cheesy premise but not as porn-y and moidbrained as it sounds, I promise!
No. 327237
>>327137Why does he keep speaking in it, he should stfu
>>327233Back in high school when I was bored in class and needing to pee I'd start fantasizing about pegging the more handsome and masculine boys in the class, especially the one Lithuanian boy. I'd imagine him moaning as I bit his shoulder and neck and pegged him. Whoops.
No. 327245
>>327233>something about a guy experiencing pleasure/embarrassment and not being fully into it(but also kinda enjoying it under the surface) is so hot to meSame nona. I probably wouldn't do it irl because of
poo but on a fantasy level it sounds hot. I find the juxtaposition of pleasure and embarrassment really appealing in other forms of femdom as well.
>>327237kek based
No. 327253
>>327233I like pegging too. I also like the idea of it being extremely uncomfortable (possibly painful) for the guy, and "training" him to like it because it pleases me.
And partially unrelated to what you said, I also hate how it's labeled as pick-me shit when it can feel great for the woman too if she likes clit stimulation. I feel awful for the women who are coerced into doing it, but if the woman likes it, gets pleasure from it, and is the one who introduces it, it shouldn't be considered something only pickmes do.
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No. 327455
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No. 327473
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https://forms.gle/xZz8ZEUBP67NoikQ6 SEND FIC RECS FOR OTHER ANONS. we've only got about 40 in the spreadsheet rn which is kind of sad but i'm continuously looking for new ones.
No. 330366
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anyone a fan of EB? his music video "engravings," while being a song about an abusive relationship, is also the subbiest thing I have ever seen. I personally have such a thing for highly intelligent, sensitive men to bully and boss and humiliate…I feel like guys who are highly disciplined/educated are the best subs because they're so used to following orders/not living on their own terms.
No. 330725
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I want to hold his knee down so he can't close his legs while I jack him off and his face gets red and he's embarrassed and doesn't want to finish before I let him fuck me but I make him anyway
No. 330779
>>330769I've met actually met such moids irl, typical "
toxic masculinity" moids where one turned out to be gay and one closeted bi.
No. 330815
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I wish men being nude at swimming pool was still a rule so I could peek in there and look at their dicks.
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