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>>331392Thread for:
>dommes>femdom images and media>femdom fantasies>female subs interested in women>advice and storiesSome things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?>What is your ideal sub like?>What experiences have you had?>What advice do you have for new dommes?>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?Femdom ficrecs:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1AoUJpYaE2g6FMCWuyo4p96Q3OBJi5D7Czm23nzOO8uM/edit#gid=0 No. 418642
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We could use this thread to post op image ideas and then make a new VI thread with the farmhands blessing.
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>>418655I absolutely despise cooking so I always wanted a cute anime twunk bf who is constantly cooking yummy dishes for me to try. I even want him to wear a chef hat and apron. I want a chef bf and a butler bf.
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>>418655I'm trying to exclude sissy tranny fetish "boywife" moids and lazy NEETS who think they can continue NEETing as a "househusband" but can't even clean their own rooms.
By realistic possibility, I mean both in finding a moid who actually wants to be a househusband and will be good at cooking and cleaning, and is also pretty (not worth it if he's ugly lmao); and in economically supporting a househusband as sole breadwinner.
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>Ex would let me spank, grope, and fondle him whenever I wanted to without protest
>Mfw I’ll never get to experience this again
Why is finding men like this so hard?
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>>418667nta, but I like the idea of having a broke house husband who, when needing his allowance, RPs being a prostitute or pole dances for me to get some cash
No. 418795
>>418651Since being a housewife is seen as submissive in society, yes.
Having someone rely on you financially and be homeless and completely fucked without you is an absurd amount of power.
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>>418642obligatory kaneoya sachiko post
No. 418861
>>418857ma'am, dear, honey, godess
mistress to me screams mainstream "femdom" porn consumption
>>418859I like it but normies ruined it for me with "short king/tall queen" talk and similar stuff
No. 418864
>>418857Miss, Ma'am, Madame, Mistress, Goddess
I used to like Princess until I started reading the Shayna threads kek
No. 418912
>>418808>she doesn't have it in her to financially and emotionally terrorize her malewifeOkay. Don't project that onto us.
>>418857Ma'am is magical.
No. 418967
>>418864nayrt but (Arch)Duchess, Empress, Baroness, Despotess, Chieftainess, Matriarch, Viscountess, Principala, Baronetess, Gentlewoman, Vicereine, Marchioness, Abbess, Prioress and Your Excellency as well.
No. 419003
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>>418859Her Holiness the most Imminent Magnanimous Grand Daemon Sultan Azathot.
No. 419206
>>418857Your Excellency is my fave, works in a historical larp also.
>>418967Based.
No. 419292
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Anons funnier than me remake this so it’s not so faggy pretty please?
No. 419681
>>418857Ms [your name here]
So Ms Emma in my case. I like it because it's denotes a sense of superiority without being overtly so, because it's also something you commonly receive.
No. 420092
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I think the only way I could explore any attraction I might have towards men would be through a relationship like this. But I am also:
>hella babyfaced
>short and scrawny
>just sort of goofy overall, in personality and in body language
I can scarcely picture myself doing even half the things described in these threads because of this. I just don't think I'm a domineering or intimidating woman, and I doubt I could attract someone who's looking for one.
So is there any hope for me? Thoughts, advice, condolences, etc.?
No. 420104
>>420092Honestly, just grow a pair of ovaries and acquire better self-esteem. Being short or goofy doesn't exclude being dominant or
having a submissive partner. You absolutely don't have to be a stereotypical domme, actually better if you aren't, because playing into the traditional domme aesthetic and stereotypes usually just attracts degens.
No. 420153
>>420092You don't have to change your personality or anything, I'm goofy myself and it works its way into the bedroom. If anything it would be more cringe and contrived for us to be acting serious the whole time instead of letting each other giggle sometimes.
You also might be surprised by how the right person can bring the power out of you.
Working on yourself outside of sex also helps with confidence. And I cannot recommend dating younger men enough. Even if you're "babyfaced" there's a certain respect and power dynamic present.
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>>420092nona you don't have to be a stereotypical dominatrix. in fact the contrast between the first impression you give off and what you're
actually like makes it more fun. an average woman is still going to be shorter and weaker than an average man, so what does it matter? as other anons itt said just grow some ovaries and woman up. also look up awkward x awkward by aeritea i feel like you'd be into it
No. 420239
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I'm watching the c drama The Double and this cute princess is an absolute psycho who forces her boyfriend to kneel, pours boiling water on men's hands and makes them fight to death for a court postion. Just some inspiration for those who think you must look a certain way to be dominant.
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i say we post moar pics to exceed post limit sooner so we don't have to see this dumbass threadpic anymore
No. 420931
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>>420928let me post dammit
No. 420933
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>>420931ok that's all sachiko stuff i have. let's move on
love the doodle of the artist herself in the corner
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>>420933for the few pegging fans out there (not my thing but you do you)
btw these are not OCs. this artist draws herself and her boyfriend like this a lot which is so stacy of her imo
No. 420975
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>>420947Lol try it. You’re making such a cute expression.
Then I beat him some more.
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>>420926Good idea. I wonder how many images our collective folders could add up to?
No. 420979
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>>420977There is a lot I can't post though because it's too explicit.
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>>420979NTA but same lol I gotta dig in the folder for the least fucked up ones
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No. 421091
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>>421020pretend to go down on him then bite it full force
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>>421141>Flood detectedI'M FLOOOOODING
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>>421143>>421033moid POV. bad pic
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>>421149let me post its been 30 seconds
No. 421158
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Bite marks are so fucking hot
No. 421166
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>>421150Casually molesting and generally treating him like meat>>>>
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>>421100The correct answer.
>>421091Also a correct answer
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No. 421318
>>421259ntayrt but thank you so much
nonnie i finally found a circle of DOL artists to quench this thirst
No. 421321
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>>421318samefag, very nice
No. 421322
>>421321you're welcome
nonnie ♥ i love me some submissive kylar
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>>421322agreed, i hope i find similar art of Sydney(The Fallen) too, it'd be nice to see just the most outrageous violent things happen to him bc i just know he'd love it, also i wish there'd be art of Syd getting corrupted not through the player but getting mindbroken instead.
No. 421341
>>421336Nta but why do you sound so offended kek. Some people just don't have a good idea of what actual femdom is because of how unfortunately male oriented mainstream femdom is. Hell, I didn't even realize I was a dom until this year because of how strong my misconception of femdom was.
>>421333As for you, prioritize your own pleasure. Femdom isn't about pleasing your man, it's about pleasing you. Make sure you make that very clear with him. If he even tries to redirect your pleasure to his, punish him for it.
No. 421342
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Less pics of people posing like they're femdom, more actual femdom
No. 421392
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>he’s eating your pussy
>you start moaning and saying “oh yes like that”
>he immediately switches to different tempo and position
How do you correct this dumb dog’s behavior?
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>>421333Look through the threads and decide what TRULY turns you on. Not “hot bc I think a man will find it hot”, or even “the general scenario is porny therefore hot”, it has to be hot because it makes your stomach feel funny and your thighs clench! Don’t thinking about anything else except your pursuit of that pleasure. And then you can think about what he needs to do to get you there. All that “um acktually domming is actually a sub’s taking reign” is pure scroteshit justification for being misogynist.
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Is this ok
No. 421530
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>>421384>>421395Great pics, I love Leon.
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Can we get some 3D in here too!
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No. 421594
>>421559Clip some hot scenes for us
nonny the girls are starving
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>>421594IDK how to do that but you can see the dungeon stabbing in the beginning of this episode.
https://dramacool.taxi/watch-video/the-double-2024/33/ No. 421815
>>421809damn, that's really disappointing even though you're most likely right. I think that eliminates almost every potential sub tbh, even the most masculine ones I encountered got off to being feminized. I want nonnas like
>>421397>>418782 to be right and I do agree moid sexuality is so broken it's easily manipulated by anything, but I feel like there's a huge gap between "guy who will let you get away with a few spankings and light CBT" vs "actual sub who will let you go to extremes and love it"… I don't want a normie guy who will just "put up" with some of my degeneracy, I want someone who shares it and is genuinely committed to being a slave, normies guys are bound to get turned off when things go beyond muh gentle femdom
No. 421821
>>421814Depends what you mean by "feminine." By "masculine" I didn't mean hairy ugly roidpig. But if you want a man who acts performatively feminine, ie. wearing women's clothes, wants you to provide for him, wants you to treat him like a girl, you'll only find men who aren't comfortable being men and that's what leads them to troon out.
>>421815>even the most masculine ones I encountered got off to being feminized. I want nonnas like >>421397Look for a guy who is younger and a bit of a normalfag (less likely to be gooning all day). A guy who hits his mid 20s or later has already been completely indoctrinated by porn.
No. 421832
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>>421821By feminine, I mean
>slender, not muscular>takes care of skin and hair>no facial and body hair>emotional and caring>cute and happySo feminine appearance and personality. I wouldn't be totally against him being "performatively feminine", if it's like a Female Led Relationship sort of thing. Trooning out, of course, is a big no.
>>421807It's a bleak world.
No. 421835
>>421821thank you, nona, that's solid advice. I think my main issue with that would be that I hate brat taming and I love submission and obedience, so it would be kind of a chore to train a normie guy from scratch, but let's hope it'll be worth it. plus I do love the idea of getting to be the one who corrupts a normie moid, I always get the God I wish that were me.jpg when a sub tells me he was vanilla until his first gf made him kneel to kiss her feet or some shit and now he's a pervert for life kek
>>421827yeah, I agree. I saw him asking about ways he could start getting into feminization in a forum and the coomers responses were so similar to the degenerate shit you see on MTF threads that it disgusted me. "Latex, thigh high boots, vinyl, anything that makes a woman look like a minx" barf. My sub pool keeps getting smaller and smaller considering I hate forced bi and pegging too, but being into femdom in the first place means accepting most "sub" moids are just pornbrained coomers who don't give a shit about actually submitting to a woman kek
No. 421848
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Anyone else love watching UFC but only when one of the fighters has a great physical advantage over the other so it’s just 10 minutes of a guy having his brains turned into mash potato?
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>>421848Ugh fuck yeah nonna. Seeing men covered in blood beating the fuck out of each other for pennies is so hot to me
No. 422078
>>421832Then you can absolutely find someone like that. Maybe look for a guy who climbs, they tend to be lean and slender without being bulky, have nice long hair, and do skincare. I've met a few guys who match your description and I even dated one of them (but he turned out to be a psycho unfortunately)
>>421835Whether or not a man identifies as submissive doesn't mean he'll be obedient. Some normalfag men can be surprisingly sweet. He doesn't need to be a turbo normalfag, just someone who takes care of himself and isn't gooning at his PC all day. Men who are online too much are no good and unfortunately that applies to a lot of submissive men.
No. 422105
>>421558would love source on this
I absolutely hate most 3D femdom porn it feels like the majority of it is fat ugly guys wearing facemasks getting cucked, so so hard to find anything good.
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>>422126Hand over them codes then
nonny No. 422188
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>>421558>>421593>>422112Don't get your hopes up, it's from a total scrotal movie called The Dallas Connection (1994). There are a few seconds of nice GIFs though.
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>>422197The end
>>422199Eh? There's no cock or whatever though, just male nips
No. 422280
>>422201Thanks you for the gifs nona!
>>422204It was because you're not supposed to have a gif as OP. This is fine.
No. 422283
>>422282I swear it's
hotter than it sounds.
No. 422408
>>422406No
nonnie is eviler than a moid and that ugly perv chose to work in pornos, it's not like anyone actually wants to fuck a uggo like him. I hope he dies filming during his next shoot. Ugly little fag
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>>422282KEKK I didn't expect it to be this bad, I thought nonas were just being cutthroat as usual but
>>422274 fagnon's gotta be trolling
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No. 423089
>>423081Samefag but since it's gotten interest, I might as well follow through:
https://mcstories.com/Authors/Pariah.html Moid-written but he sexualizes his male characters at least as much as the women.
Some other stuff in that genre, less sexualized male leads:
https://mcstories.com/FactsAndLogic/index.html This one's well-written imo and actually my favorite of the bunch.
https://mcstories.com/PumpingUpPumpingDown/index.html The domme gets more sexualized physical descriptions here but the transformation is hot.
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>>423089Anon, i'm reading facts and logic right now and this is divine. I love seeing this dunning kruger misogynist moid who definitely thinks he's a top fold instantly having a conversation with a woman he's attracted to. The irony of having someone who thinks women are innately less intelligent than men being outwitted by one is sublime and I had the smuggest grin the entire time. I am so unbelievably wet it's unreal. Looking forward to reading even more of this
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>>422410should've spoilered that
No. 423299
>>423200You're welcome!
>>423208Yeah, that's why I put it in the "not really related to the question but same genre for people interested in that" category. It's not like the girl is actually that sexualized and the story is all about her objectifying him, but he's barely described.
Pariah's writing can be a little porn-y, but the great parts are why I linked. If you're into the type of meathead moid he writes about, a big "if" for the yaoi fangirl audience here but I can find it hot, the male sexualization is off the charts. I think he may be closeted bi but that's just a hunch, I know one domme in that fetish community who knows him and he says he's straight.
No. 423329
>>423288i wish
nonny. i stole this from some retarded mommy dommy gimmick account
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>>423299For a while now, I've been categorically excluding works by men when it comes to erotic material because it's almost never good enough to justify the time I spent watching or reading it, but "Career Advancement" is pretty alright. I'm tempted to let the autism flow and make an edit of it where I remove/alter the parts I like least for rereads and I've only ever previously wanted to do that with women's works.
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speaking of which, I wish there was something like this (femdom moid correction) with the BAP type faggots of incel twitter like pic related. They clearly have nothing going for them besides their body so it's only fair to literally objectify them and then enslave them.
No. 423343
>>423336Same. Skinny is hot to me if it's toned, but I like a bit of muscle best. Unathletic only does it for me if the bone structure is like, naturally stocky and those don't usually look like yaoi boys.
>>423341No joke enslaving some moid like that is one of my biggest fantasies. They put all their points into becoming eye candy, okay, they can do that. The matriarchy thanks you as long as you keep your annoying mouth shut. lmao
No. 423348
>>423343Yes they don't have to be roiding monsters but I love at at least some muscles. I like like ab and hand veins too. And I also like to see them in various poses (not bodybuilding poses, but like classical paintings and statues, or moving objects)
And yes it's a huge fantasy for me too. I want to see them completely mindbroken and subservient and just sex objects and hard workers.
I bet they secretly crave it too. There's a point where extreme autistic misogyny is either veiled faggotry or some sort of fear of women mixed with huge ego and entitlement. In fact, their paranoid fantasies about gynocracy betray a deep subconscious need to submit imo.
No. 423356
>>423348Love guys in statue poses. <3
And 100% agree with this. There are a lot of rumors BAP is closeted gay but so many of these people have barely hidden femdom fantasies instead, I loved Facts and Logic because it really leans into that. It'd be better for everyone if they embraced it too, like in the hypno community it's vastly hotter than the sissy stuff 80% of moids there look for and most dommes I've spoken with have a similar ideal "type" for subs. Like, some girls just want a hot guy who does what he's told to do, thinks what he's told to think, and does manual labor around the house or something. These guys would be perfect for that if they stopped being, um, themselves.
No. 423360
>>423359Posted too early and forgot to add that I find sissy shit absolutely disgusting. It's the woman = bad = inferior = humiliating equation all over. It would be disgusting even if the scrotes involved in it were cute (which they aren't they're always horrid).
The mindless himbo idea is much more natural and even healthier. I don't know much about actual hypnosis but I tried the "hypnotic kiss" rp idea from nona's post in the last thread with my bf and I loved it though.
No. 423365
>>423359Wow, okay, maybe BAP's another one then.
>>423360Yeah, sissy stuff always reeks of sexism to me. I don't know what place it would come from psychologically other than sexism, where the himbo side of things… obviously I like it, and I can see why a guy would want a girl fawning over his looks and to make her happy if he likes her.
Actual hypnosis can only ever nudge someone in ways they're already mostly willing to be nudged. And it might just be socially agreed on RP, how it works is debated and the other idea is that people are slightly more suggestible in trance states. Either way pure RP is just as hot for me since my thing for it comes from 100% unrealistic mind control scenes in cartoons - thanks Sailor Moon, Gargoyles, Digimon.
No. 423370
>>423368Pretty much. It's not just relaxation though, it's a state of relaxed focus people often get a version of when reading, gaming, even lightly when driving if it's a familiar route. But yes to defenses being down.
Whether that's due to higher suggestibility in a trance state or just people agreeing to lower their defenses is debated, it's 100% true that you can adjust thinking in small ways (which can build over time) with it though.
>>423369Here you go, it's cool to know there are other nonas into this stuff:
>>353988 No. 423399
>>423341>>423348>>423356>There's a point where extreme autistic misogyny is either veiled faggotry or some sort of fear of women mixed with huge ego and entitlement. In fact, their paranoid fantasies about gynocracy betray a deep subconscious need to submit imo.I was thinking of bringing up this exact fantasy here. Glad i'm not alone in this…Recently i've wanted to humiliate this kind of moid by playing on retarded insecurities like not having a huge penis or not being an absolute chad, among other things.
It's just that rigid RW moids' repression and pent-up horniness elicits mindbreak fantasies. I really like the idea of a straightlaced, smug but polite man crumbling after the slightest taste of submission. The ones who aren't extremely edgy/hateful/antisocial will maintain a 'i'm normal not like these degens' facade but they still betray or subtly hint at their femdom fantasies. A man who isn't making a fool of himself with blatant coomerism is much, much more alluring than the slimy hedonist 'me want pegging' type. I love their hypocrisy kek. Ah, and the fear of women part is also a big draw.
On a completely different note, i really want to playfully wrestle with a man, then feel him getting weaker and lose on purpose because he really wants to be pinned down and dommed
No. 423404
>>423399>A man who isn't making a fool of himself with blatant coomerism is much, much more alluring than the slimy hedonist 'me want pegging' type. I love their hypocrisy kek. Ah, and the fear of women part is also a big draw.YES! Everything you just said. The 'peg me mommy' uwu types do nothing for me. I thought about it a lot and I guess it's because it would feel fake, while the type of man you described earlier would feel actual humiliation and a sense of REAL submission.
>On a completely different note, i really want to playfully wrestle with a man, then feel him getting weaker and lose on purpose because he really wants to be pinned down and dommedI personally like the idea of slightly abusing chivalry. So tickling a very ticklish guy until he's almost in pain but he does his best to remain still because if he flails around he might accidentally hurt you so all he can do is hold you. Or slap him lightly and teasing him about how he won't retaliate despite the fact that he could hurt me if he wanted to, he simply never will.
No. 423410
>>423399"Me want pegging" is an instant turn-off. Like, my style of domming is more seductress than dominatrix to begin with because it comes way more naturally to me. But thirsty slobbering male subs are gross, and usually needy and top from the bottom.
Converting some misogynistic right-wing moid into my slave feels way more like actual submission. IRL I don't think I'd want to subject myself to that for any length of time, and self-confident guys who choose to submit in a masculine way (not "peg me dommy mommy") are very attractive to me. But a fun fantasy is a fun fantasy.
No. 423414
>>423410There must be a hivemind in this thread.
I totally get you. Seducing a cute, masculine but shy and well behaved guy and seeing him try to suppress his lust ≥>>>>>>>>>>>> step on me and sissify me scrotes
No. 423428
>>423420It's both tbh. Anyone into it fantasizes about it obviously, and some people who wouldn't say it's a fetish of theirs do too, like all the sub girls turned on by vampire mind control. …or domme girls turned on by being the vampire. But there are also communities where we meet each-other and try things out, both in-person meet-ups for people
deep in the community and Discord servers for like everyone else.
Scrotes are just as gross there as elsewhere ftr, worse to be honest. When I first got into this stuff in the early 2010s it was like, normal people though with a high ratio of nerds and autism, I fit right in. Now it's infested with TiMs and people whose fantasies are gross hentai tropes. I have to carefully screen when I'm looking for new people in those communities to talk with. There are still gems though! They're rare, like 1 in 10 now so I rarely go looking anymore, but you can usually tell who's going to be weird.
No. 424023
>>423956Sadly off the top of my head most fem-POV stories I can think of in that community are femsub or F/F. Some of the femsub ones are female gaze-y, so are a small minority of F/F. With femdom the Evilena series is fem POV but very catered to the male gaze, so the closest I could think of was legitimately the bisexual moid gaze where objectification meets power fantasy. lol
Most women with hypnofetishes are either like, pro-dommes, or normies where it's an interest we come to occasionally when we're not busy with other things. Only a tiny number of writers in the community are female. I'll recommend the artist Sue-chan though, she's super old-school and popular. She draws femdom, maledom, M/M, and F/F. Her art of moids def appeals to the female gaze, of the lean anime boy variety usually.
No. 424086
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This card has many meanings but is also a perfect representation of how I see femdom.
No. 424108
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>>424094I wish we could have a farmer meetup there
and plot world domination No. 424116
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>>424091It truly is isn't it? The Marseille version conveys it even better, with the Dame effortlessly opens the lion's mouth
>>424108>>424094I've googled it and it's even better wtf. Looks like the perfect place to retire.
>>424110The video is so hot all around. Good taste on the actors they hired. I wish I lived in Domme with a handsome pet moid I could feed and that would do manual work for me in the garden shirtless. Maybe when we win we will at least one moid each to carry our cars instead of using petrol (keeps them healthy and occupied while solving pollution)
No. 424223
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What was your Femdom awakening, Nonnie?
Mine was watching Inuyasha.
Moids being on the mercy of yours is so hot.
No. 424269
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>>424223Mine was from playing fighting games.
No. 424271
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>>424223Pucca was definitely formative for me. Especially the fact that Pucca chases him down so often, if I can't wrangle my moid like a lost bull in the field then WHAT is the point
No. 424294
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>>424223>>424271Are you a very jealous person?
>>424256I fantasized about pic related even when I was 18.
No. 424301
>>424297I'm an F cup (yes I'm overweight and at breast cancer risk, I'm already aware and trying to get better and have a normal BMI by this winter…) and I love it too. I even tried the meme smothering on bf and he went crazy, it'a also surprisingly fun.
Although have him touch them feels great even if I wasn't into femdom, being appreciated for your femininity and see a man go crazy with need about it, being unable to focus and becoming entranced is AMAZING
No. 424305
>>424292kek I can see it, but Garu was often referred to as a guy in the show iirc
>>424294Not the inuyasha anon, but not particularly. I like the thrill of the chase and the physical act of restraining the guy, I don't so much care about keeping him to myself necessarily. In fact, in my more degen fantasies I share him with friends because I have him so well-trained kek
No. 424307
>>424305It's weird how different people are. I couldn't dream sharing my man on pain of death. If I could get away with it I'd put him inside a cage (plexiglass one) besidss ny bed so I can make sure he doesn't disappear or someone else steals him away.
I do love the physical act of restraining
No. 424318
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>>424313It's beautiful, like actually beautiful.
No. 424350
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>>424223That point in time when 'le sadism xDD' was a common thing in ecchi comedies
No. 424359
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No. 424480
>>424432My closest friend into this type of thing is Asian and she's gotten a lot of surprised reactions based on the submissive perception. It makes me feel bad whenever I hear her talk about it or see it, like "she's cute Asian waifu" is always the elephant in the room.
It's probably less bad than it could be though since like me she's not that into beating up moids, just the seductress role and play-manipulation etc.
No. 424504
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spoilered for gross coomer faggot shit, but is any woman actually into feminization? I have a hard time believing it considering how ugly and shapeless men tend to look in female clothes, and how desperate sissy fags are to push these fetishes into femdom. If there were any dommes attracted to feminization, I imagine they've long gotten turned off by it since the whole sissy shit rose in popularity. Same thing with pegging, most women I've seen "into" pegging were teens who found out about it through a meme and would never do it irl, and most actual dommes seem rightfully annoyed all "submissive" men wanna do is focus on their own anal pleasure instead of… actually being submissive. Like, what woman in her right mind would rather a faggot suck on a plastic dildo rather than her own pussy? All these "turn me into a perfect faggot sissy, mommy!" kinks are so alienated from what women actually find attractive or pleasurable it's disgusting. Yet every sissy fag I've had the displeasure of encountering has somehow had a mistress (though I'm starting to believe it's just another tranny/sissy)
No. 424505
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>>424223Batman returns did things to me… and I know it's an old ass movie, but I still can't believe the lack of batcat femdom fics, you can't tell me she wouldn't dom him
No. 424511
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>>424505She 100% would. The hypnofetish community has a lot more Ivy/Batman stuff, but we have a bit of Catwoman/Batman like picrel.
No. 424522
>>424520Same here. Though I think so much why I was kind of into feminization for a few years is that when I first really started exploring my kinks, feminization content was the easiest femdom stuff to find.
Some guys do look good androgynous and I'm not against dressing a cute moid up that way. But I hate the femininity = degradation side of feminization stuff and over time realized I'm much more comfortable on the opposite side of the domme spectrum, where I end up LARPing 1940s femme fatale and hanging out in some of the same spaces as gay guys who want submissive roidheads. My tastes aren't anything close to that extreme but I find more masc subs are more likely to actually want to submit than like, be pegged.
No. 424544
>>424535I used to be into force-fem. However, once I realized it was because I thought feminine = degrading and shed the self-hatred associated with that, I honestly find it repulsive on an instinctual level. But even when I was at the height of enjoying force fem stuff, I fucking hated "clitty" and "sissy" as terms. There was never a time where those words and the works they showed up in didn't feel inherently gross and repellant to me, ugh. I'm less optimistic about the possibility about force fem being written in such a way to appeal to women, but maybe that's just me not finding any inherent appeal in men dressed in a feminine way so long as they look appealing (as in, the clothes aren't shitty amazon egirl shit and fits the man and accentuates his figure, any makeup is tastefully applied, etc.). It can be a neutral element in an erotic context, but I think there's always some sort of degradation at work as soon as it's forced and no man into that kind of degradation actually cares about being beautiful to their domme since, in their mind, the feminization has already made them somewhat repellant.
No. 424551
>>424548A lot of zoomers and late millennials are detransitioners, but that's not why in this thread tbh. Sissification is like the most mainstream femdom thing now, it hasn't been latex and whips for like 15 years.
A few nonas in this thread have fetishes where it's extra common too, like for my main one spaces where people go to talk about it are like 1/3-1/2 TiM now.
No. 424552
>>424504>>424522>>424544Like it has been said. The only women that find it hot is due to their unconscious self-hatred. It's a purely degeneratr moid thing, mostly common with porn sellers, too.
>>424545So based. I noticed behaviours like that even irl in school. As a rule if men joke about femdom stuff, either self deprecating, sarcastic, using irony in general, they're secretly into it, at least unconsciously, they want to be dominated and they're afraid and I think it's cute.
No. 424560
File: 1723684685652.png (Spoiler Image,1.58 MB, 1722x855, demihumanboc.png)
>>424549>most of the slaves were demihuman for some reasonWell, Boc
is the ultimate sub.
No. 424579
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>>424557I honestly wasnt expecting the Wayback machine to come in handy here
No. 424630
>>424505Damn that gif is hot, are there a lot of scenes like that in the movie?
We should have a reclist of good movies and tv-series btw. Maybe books too. Finding sexy content in mainstream media is so rare.
No. 424638
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>>424504like some anons have already said, feminisation (not sissification) and 90% of "kinks" are fine in theory but have been ruined by men in practice and turned fag shit only they like
No. 424667
>>424504I'm not into forcefem, but I like twinky/pretty men in feminine lingerie because they can look appealing to me. Most male underwear just isn't sexy/aesthetic. It's nothing to do with degradation or with femininity being inherently sexual, it's just nice for a cute butt to be decorated by a frilly garment.
But as soon as the sissy shit gets involved it is an absolute turn off. Flamboyant confidence is wayyy sexier.
>peggingAlways so controversial for this thread. It's best to slowly convince a vanilla guy to try anal, then beg you to do it because it blows his mind. Ass is so delicate too. It feels powerful to have the ability to destroy his shitting abilities for life.
Maybe it isn't inherently domme but it is psychologically enjoyable.
No. 424672
>>424667I enjoy pegging a man because I find it humiliating for him to be fucked in the ass (no, not penetration in general, just anal). Most men don't even enjoy it that much physically. But there is a lot of appeal convincing a man who isn't into it at all and then slowly condition him into begging for it. It's different because you're his first exposure to it instead of porn-brained moids memeing him into liking it.
>but it is psychologically enjoyableIt's physically pleasurable for any woman who likes clit stimulation. Anyway it's important that pegging feels good for the woman; I couldn't imagine doing all that work if I didn't get pleasure out of it.
No. 424752
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>>424630There's a few, including one where she grabs his dick with her sharp knife pointed gloves (CBT ftw)
>>424638I can see why some nonas can be into feminization, but picrel still looks like pedo coomer shit to me. That looks like a 10 year old boy, not a man.
>>424672>Most men don't even enjoy it that much physicallyKek nona, you can't be serious… prostate stimulation is literally the most pleasurable activity for a moid, hence why they're constantly begging women to fuck their stinky assholes when they should be begging to eat pussy instead. I'm kind of on the fence about it because I don't find it visually attractive at all, and the hygiene aspect straight up grosses me out, but I know it's the #1 way to make a scrote sexually obsessed with you, they basically never forget their first anal orgasms. It's like taking their virginity all over again.
No. 424765
>>424752>prostate stimulation is literally the most pleasurable activity for a moidMost men can't even orgasm from it. Many people here vastly overestimate how many men can get pleasure from receiving anal, and underestimate how uncomfortable it is. My ex was obsessed with the idea of pegging until we actually did it, it was mostly uncomfortable/unpleasant for him and he never orgasmed, except for one time he did poppers. That's why it's such a popular drug for faggots, most men can't handle being fucked in the ass comfortably unless they're dissociating.
Anyway I'd understand why you'd be grossed out by it and not want to do it, but it's not really common for most men to love being fucked in the ass. It's mostly painful and awkward, but there is a loud minority of men who love being fucked and those are the ones to avoid. Even then, it's mostly psychological. For a lot of men it's the most humiliating and degenerate thing they can have happen to them so that's why they are more drawn to it
No. 424773
>>424765>Most men can't even orgasm from itnona, might've just been your ex but I'm gonna have to doubt that one. multiple men have tried to convince me to peg them telling me how it's the most intense full body orgasm a moid can have, way better than PIV, and "more similar to a female orgasm" (ew). all the fags who are desperate to bottom while treating topping like a chore can't be lying, it might take a bit for them to get used to cooming that way just like the many women who can't orgasm vaginally alone without clitoral stim, but I really don't think
most moids can't cum from their ass.
No. 424781
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>>424779And yet…
(The percentage is that high because only 25 men admitted to doing anal during the interview)
No. 424829
>>424782I don't really care, it feels good for me and I can orgasm from it and that's what matters.
>>424781>>424787So apparently 93% of women orgasm from anal? Press x to doubt. I bet clitoral and penal stimulation was involved so it doesn't count.
No. 424876
I want to write femdom smut. I'm not a good writer and even the synopsis of the intro I wrote down is full of mistakes but idc. The real deal would be in a completely different style and with way more effort.
The premise for my story is this: a young man, cute, handsome even, but insecure and shy, maybe was bullied in high school but grow up to be quite attractive and well adjusted in college, who is secretly a virgin, or had a few experiences with slutty, low quality women in the past, starts dating a very nice, confident and smart woman.
Once the first night they get intimate, the boy starts to bang away and get rough like he thought he had to from porn videos or from Andrew Tate masculinity redpill gurus.
The girl immediately stops him, and looking at him slightly disappointed, yet patient, even worried for him sternly tells him "This is not sex."
The boy is hurt in his frail, inexperienced ego. He stammers and clenches his fists, and even feels like crying but holds back. He doesn't want to look even more pathetic in her eyes! His lover gets closer and tells him to relax and that nothing is wrong. All he has to do is to listen to her and trust her, she'd show him the way. She gently caresses his body, putting him more at ease, making him feel good, moving his limbs as she wants, making him do certain poses, objectifying him. He gets hard again, even if he's still blushing from embarassment.
Then, she moves his hands and moves it over her body, where she wants him to touch her, shows him to show love and appreciation, that it's normal and good to make his partner feel good, that he only need on making her feel good. Guiding him into worshiping her properly, sternly but gently, almost effortlessly, as she notices, on top of the pleasant sensation of his warm hand over her body, every minute detail this has on him, his dilated pupils, his cheeks getting redder, how his cock somehow feels way stiffer, larger, straining against the air….
What do you think (about my idea, please don't consider style I know it's awful and it's not how I would actually write it!!!)? It's supposed to soft but I would like to add some sadism elements further down…
No. 424960
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Reposting gold from the past thread.
No. 425286
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>>425285He is kind of famous for his grunting.
No. 425300
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I'm so obsessed with the idea of hypnosis now. Has anyone seriously tried it with their boyfriends? I said a bunch of random stuff to my boyfriend before he fell asleep, and it was so much fun. He woke up remembering, saying what I wanted him to ("I'm nonna's perfectly obedient slave.") and acting even more submissive and obedient than usual. I'm sure he's playing it up for me because he knew I really enjoyed it. Any tips or decent guides on how to get started for real?
No. 425365
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>>424638>tfw no short cute bf to cosplay 9s>>421293This would be a really hot doujin plot if the guy is actually cute and not an ugly roid pig bastard
No. 425404
>>425338Same for DJs really. There must be some, but don't know them.
>>425331Interesting. I'd day the ones who decide to come in willingly would have the harshest immigration screening ever, to make sure they respect certain standards of beauty and of behaviour (only cute scrotes who are naturally submissive but also stable and not fetishists).
I was thinking that each year after 18, a moid will progressively lose more and more rights to incentivie them to find an owner before they're ran through, even if it might them desperate enough to sell themselves to slavery (the money goes to the state in that case then, to use for healthcare and whatnot).
I agree that free market for slavery would also ensure only girlbosses are in the country.
No. 425446
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>>421293This is basically the plot of Sadistic Beauty. Minho's scenes were so fucking hot. I love how he started off as a bratty misogynist, rude to the MC, and then spiraled into a mess.
No. 425451
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>>425447I'm not sure if it constitutes as NTR but the domme makes her two boy toys fuck in front of her near the end. Which is what
>>425450 is referencing. But that happens near the end, there's a lot of good content before that if you want to avoid that kind of thing.
No. 425499
>>425450ngl, I adored the spinoff. I wish it could have been similarly fucked up with straight couple, but this beggar is not gonna be a chooser. I love the scene in the main story where
Duna treats Minho like a whore, sprinkles money on the floor, and says he can have whatever money sticks to his naked body since he's so desperate for rent/a place to stay. I need more stories where men are financially and sexually abused like that
No. 425676
>>425639Seconding this
>>425643? Bored ? Not even going to question the other thing. Low self esteem response.
No. 425682
>>425677>>425676I was just prodding you to see a reaction. I would never get bored of it either.
>>425680It happend to my moid too. It's so cute, even if he gets incredibly ashamed afterwards and keeps apologizing
No. 425837
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I want to abuse a moid, but he has to be loveable enough for me to do so and I'm too sensitive and cowardly to hurt someone I love in the ways I'd want to. I need to get rid of the intrusive thoughts.
No. 426035
>>418857My title translated to english is valkyrie master/owner lol and he is my roman slave.
>>420092Im a skelly dwarf and I can perfectly abuse any man. As long as he lets you and/or as long as you have the drive to do so your biology isn't a problem. Like other anons pointed, its a matter of attitude.
>>420308>>420934And even better when he cherish something nasty like a spit, a punch or a kick.
No. 426091
>>426035What is the title in your own language?
I'm Scandi and want inspo Also based. Roman scrotes needed to know their place.
No. 426097
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>>426091>>426041>>426035what's it with Roman moids?
No. 426144
>>426041We were e-friends over insta, bounded over talking about art, fashion, music, literature, politics, philosophy, spirituality, our perspectives and life experiences. He was always super polite and transparent, and I actually made the first moves and he was receptive. When we met in person the first time I also took the power and he just submited since then.
>>426091Srry anon I'm not scandi, only part of my heritage, the original title is "Mi Ama/Dueña Valkiria". And yesss roman scrotes are build for use and abuse.
>>426097It's because of his latin name and her mediterranean heritage lol and because we are huge nerds.
No. 426210
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Bless the nonas who recommended this because I finally listened to it and now I'm depressed that there's nothing else like it.
No. 426214
>>426212https://www.dlsite.com/girls/work/=/product_id/RJ01160792.htmlBe forewarned, it's brutal. Basically, "you"
torture men who've wronged you and they develop Stockholm Syndrome. I can give more details if any nonas are curious.
Nanbe's scenario was my favorite and the most applicable to this thread, but all of them were good.
No. 426332
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still would ngl
No. 426673
>>426646>small penis humiliation>talking to him in the most condescending way possible>calling him a pervert, reminding him of his most shameful fantasies (personal favorite)>having him repeat statements about his inferiority/subservience (unoriginal, but good filler)I wish i had more ideas kek, i hate dirty talk
>>426391Cute…
No. 426695
>>425528Decided to read it because of this thread (I’d already seen Sadistic Beauty). It starts when Minho’s (sexist arrogant guy, one of the male leads in Sadistic Beauty) life is over, he’s broke in debt and has no job. He almost goes through killing himself, but then decides to go to Cha (rich pervert bifag who was behind ruining Minho’s life because he wanted him for himself) willing to sell his body for money. Anyway, Cha beats Minho, breaks his ankle, rapes him a bunch, then keeps him chained in his apartment.
There’s no good story to speak of, but basically Cha keeps raping Minho every day and pays off Minho’s debt. Minho resists a lot in the beginning and even tried to run away when they went to the mall (just to get tased and caught by Cha). At some point he tries to work from home so that he can pay back what he feels he owes Cha and set himself free, but Cha hates that he’s paying more attention to some job than to him so he shoots down the whole thing. At that point Minho’s lost hope, becoming inconsolably depressed, unable to stand living if he’s not drunk.
Also there’s some insight into Cha’s family. Apparently he’s a bastard son whose mom is very demanding as well as wanting him to become the next CEO of his father’s company, but he’s too invested with Minho so he doesn’t attend some important meetings which damages his reputation.
Cha notices Minho’s situation and slowly gives him more liberties. Eventually they go to a bar together where they smoke weed and some other yuppies gather around Minho (one of them also gives him a secret phone), which Cha doesn’t like. As Cha gets more busy trying to secure himself as the company’s successor, he sees Minho less and lets him go out by himself if he wants to.
Minho meets up with the yuppies at the bar but they figure he’s selling himself to Cha so they rape him. Cha catches them and beats them up. When they get home, Minho straight up tells Cha that he is no better than those guys as he’s also a rapist; Cha hits him over the head with a wine bottle, so he has to get stitches at the hospital.
Minho’s mental health declines and he starts drinking more and more, until he hangs himself. He’s in a coma, where he dreams he’s with Duna (Sadistic Beauty fl), they live together, he’s successful professionally, and she takes care of the home. In this dream she never published her best-seller because of his harsh criticisms. He hates himself for it, she disappears, he wakes up in a hospital bed besides a disheveled Cha who says that after he recovers he can leave for good. There’s an argument between Cha and his mom because he hasn’t been paying attention to the company during the two weeks Minho was in a coma.
Minho recovers, Cha reluctantly lets him leave. He goes out and thinks to himself about how he has nowhere to go, nothing, no one, when Cha shows up and asks him to go back home. He does. The end.
Tbh, I didn’t like it at all, although I enjoyed SB. Maybe it’s because I don’t usually do bl, but really I didn’t find anything appealing about it. It’s a whole mess and overkill with the constant rape and physical abuse.
No. 426823
>>425300>>425303I'm the hypno-nona. Well, I guess there are a few, but I'm the one who started a discussion on it recently. I've done it with a few partners.
There's no way to actually take his free will away obvs, but whether it's biology or power of suggestion, people are a bit more suggestible than usual in trance. You can find videos on YouTube by professionals and hobbyists for learning good trance technique. You can also try an ad in the server I mentioned above, r/HypnoHookup, and I recently found r/EroticHypnosis' one too. I have to warn you only like 1/8 of responses there will be good though, they're infested by sissies and pornbrained people. But we still have normies holding the fort, so it's useful if you can be a bit patient.
Some specific pointers I'll give: some people, especially moids, need visual focuses to help them enter trance. A flickering candle can come in handy, or a good spiral, Nimja has nice ones - pocket watches are fun but keeping the swing steady takes technique. Also be sure to look up tutorials on fractionation, it's a technique for deepening trances that works off how the body finds it easier to enter trance the more it's done. It's like, grinding trances to get someone as blank as possible as quick as you can.
Once they're hypnotized, and preferably in more than a light trance, then you can plant your suggestions. Start small and build up from there, you can get pretty impressive long-term results that way.
No. 426824
>>426823Samefagging but I missed one last pointer, what I get for posting this right after waking up lmao. Don't overload your boyfriend with suggestions in a single session. You can give a few, but the more you give the less likely follow-through is. If you have any big goals in mind besides like, just seeing him hypnotized, build slowly over multiple sessions over the course of a few weeks.
Anyway, hope that helped, and have fun!
No. 426831
>>426824>>426823NTA but it would be avisable to start with one
trigger or suggestion at the time right? So for example get him to relax the first time and explaining he hasn't to do anything besides listening to me and do as I say (which are innocent suggestions like breathing anyway), then at a later session, a trance
trigger, then enforcing it through fractionation in more sessions, then once he falls into trance easily, some suggestions to feel good when I say a certain word, etc… right? Basically escalating slowly, training his mind that it's totally ok and normal to accept my suggestions
No. 426833
>>426831Seems pretty close.
Triggers have to be regularly reinforced though, they fade from disuse and even with regular use the effectiveness will probs weaken over weeks unless you restate what the
trigger does. On the other hand they'll probably be in a deeper trance state when you give the
trigger the second time too, lessening extra work talking them down after.
You can also do multiple suggestions in a session, but I'd avoid giving more than like, three small ones and that's pushing it. It works better if they're related. Keeping the amount and scope as small as possible is good advice because if your brain is juggling five things, it'll probably forget one or two.
No. 426837
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>>426673It really is cute isn't it? The interesting thing is that female hyenas aren't even larger than males. There's basically zero sexual dimorphism. Usually female hyenas are stronger because… they get to eat better food. They have a dominance system based on friendship and collaboration, so the matriarch is the one who manages to scheme and charm other hyenas the most. Kinda like an otome game villainess.
Female hyenas are physically impossible to rape due to the shape of their reproductive organs which might explain why their society evolved like this (only submissive moids are allowed to reproduce).
Pic relate is a moid hyena assuming a submissive posture. He's literally bowing down
No. 426904
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>>426391Reject modernity, return to hyenas. Bring back the coliseum, bring back jousting. Fine men must fight for the right to serve her ladyship.
No. 426914
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>>426904Been thinking about this a lot lately. I mentioned it in the other thread but chivalric literature had a lot of femdom undertones.
Also hyenas confirmed that if men would be unable to rape they'd default to be the submissive sex.
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>>426940I've heard there was a similar sitution in ancient Sumeria. The male king was the military ruler but he had to be approved by and had to obey the priestesses. Even the myth of Gilgamesh had the virgin wild man Enkidu becoming civilized by submitting to women through sex.
Although my favourite femdom historical fantasy is ancient Crete. I want an handsome young athletic virgin boy blush and lower his head while bringing me wine and doin sexy dances for my entertainment.
No. 426969
>>426966Mhm, the association of women with religion and placing religion above military power was very common in ancient societies. Tfw we're more trad than the trad LARPers. The stereotypical pro-domme physically dominant role isn't, it was more like social power within feminine roles, but I get the impression half the nonas here do things that look more like that than the stereotypical image anyway.
Crete is a good choice btw. I like Roman matron and her gladiator fuckbuddy, Rome fits a little weirdly as a very patriarchal society but class was more important and there's evidence some upper-class women used gladiators as sex slaves. Ovid has like, incel rants about it and it was common in rumors against rival houses.
No. 426972
>>426969The thing with Rome is that it lasted 1000 years. So it had times of almost Athenian levels of oppression, or even mass rapes like for the Sabines… to periods much later of equality and protection afforded by law. I've read moid authors complain about it as you mentioned.
>Mhm, the association of women with religion and placing religion above military power was very common in ancient societies. Tfw we're more trad than the trad LARPers. The stereotypical pro-domme physically dominant role isn't, it was more like social power within feminine roles, but I get the impression half the nonas here do things that look more like that than the stereotypical image anyway.Agree on everything. From men being the naturally obedient sex to most nonas including me finding prodommes cringe and even a bit gross.
I was reading on the Canary Islands indigenous people recently and it goes even further beyond. Apparently their society was completely /femdom/. Men were warriors and their king was a warrior king, but women had basically all the power and it was considered a serious legal offense for an armed (adult, proper) man to insult a woman.
European visitors and colonizers even claimed that men and women of the island were absurdly beautiful.
No. 427024
>>426972Even during the Empire I'd argue Rome was very patriarchal, not compared to Athens or the Hebrews but compared to the info we have on most of the tribes Rome conquered in Europe and parts of the Near East. Those types of societies always have things that go against the overall trend though, like how elite women had tons of rights. Or another example, the LARPy adultery-cleansed revival of chivalric tropes in the 19th century while the cult of domesticity was strong which gave Victorian women like, an almost schizo hyper-domesticated but honored position.
The Canary Islands stuff sounds interesting, sounds like an extreme version of these trends we're talking about. Good to talk with a history buff into this stuff btw!
No. 427028
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>>426966>MinoansFuck yeah. I love how the men are all painted wearing tight little girdles, doing manual labour and having long pretty hair. They must have been incredibly handsome in real life. And used to female authority.
>>426969>Ovid has like, incel rants about it Kek, where can I read this?
>>426972>Canary IslandsAwesome, can you link us to some more info?
No. 427136
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does anyone have any good recs of a webtoon or book about a FL with a devoted servant (knight, butler, etc)? I prefer nice musculature, handsomely masculine with a sense of honor/duty/servitude with a personality like Eclot Pace from I Fell Into a Reverse Harem Game (picrel). if only this guy had actual smut scenes and a love arc with the FL, ugh.
No. 427159
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>>427028>Canary IslandsThe original people of the Canary islands were berbers. Look up the Guanches on Wikipedia. See below for more on that and how yes, we have a long tradition of pretty strong female leaders.
>anyone of European or Middle Eastern descent probs has some Roman ancestryA lot of people in north Africa have been mixed with them. Algeria was pretty much the grain and olive oil cellar of the roman empire. We still use the Roman calendar (Yeneyer is the name of the first month, which derives from the latin Januar) and you can find ruins of ancient Rome in Algeria such as Tipasa. Berbers have given two Roman emperors, one Pharao (iirc), several of their deities were used by the ancient Egyptians and Romans too. One of our Queen, Dihya, (called Kahina [the witch] by the arabs) was a renowned terrifying warlady who is said to have executed her annoying husband who thought he could just control her (she beheaded him - problem solved). Legend or the oral tradition has it the arabs needed ten men to capture her - hence her surname. Long tradition of very strong women such as her and lala fatma n'soumer (picrel - who fought French colonisers) among amazigh (berbers).
No. 427389
>>427365Wow, i appreciate Guanches even more than i did before.
This discussion reminds me of a fic about a strong nomadic mongolian (?) female warrior getting a young qt monk from russia as a war spoil. He goes on to become her servant/boytoy, i liked how the author depicted the monk's process of warming up to his master. I'll try to find it, i'm such a sucker for historical femdom and this one was a little fantastical yet well written enough for it to feel plausible somehow.
No. 427454
>>427042Ovid says he dislikes sex where either partner fails to orgasm
>he has a book of PUA tipsYes, but he wrote advice for women as well as men
Don't insult Ovid. He's like my second favorite Roman poet.
No. 427499
>>427165Yeah that's a follow up documentary, also not available sadly. But I found another one on Youtube. It's recent and shows that their culture has become westernized and the men have gotten uglier and wear more western clothes. The women work hard on domestic tasks, but are still in charge though.
39:03
>this ethnic group considers man to be an incomplete being (and can become evils spirits when they die)>women on the other hand, are born perfect Based. I hope their culture can survive.
No. 427626
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No. 427745
>>427627Then men should advocate for male
victims and make spaces to talk about it IDGAF. Scrotes like to talk about women raping men when it’s a woman telling her story or when a woman is calling out rapists to the point that I can now say that I don’t give a fucking fuck. It’s just a tactic to silence women, because the same men ridicule men who do get raped or downplay it. It’s not women’s responsibility to advocate for them, they can fuck off.
I care about women first, given that the majority of
victims are female.
No. 427936
>>427911Make your toes look nice , add some nail polish too, and clean them with soap before asking. I don’t particularly like feet , but if they’re presentable I have no problem massaging them.
If he has a foot fetish you could actually play into it by putting your feet on his lap and ask for a massage while you stroke him.
No. 428280
>>428042>>427944>uhhhh female roles, like1/10 tranfiction
>>428259The very best kind of femdom
No. 428332
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>>428327
Hope this helps
No. 428339
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Men into femdom are disgusting, they are all into fendom because they see women as lesser and there is a 90% chance they will troon out. Its better to take some bratty guy who wants to dom and break him into a submissive.
No. 428340
>>428339True. I think all men are secretly submissive though. Sweet vanilla men are good too.
There are some rare good openly submissive men but they must have no fetishes besides serving you.
No. 428404
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>>428401Nta but posted without comment. Well, I guess there's also the old trope of the stacy taming the beast.
No. 428449
>>427944Fake as fuck and/or written by a tranny. Women don't hatefuck moids we genuinely hate and find disgusting. I'd beat up a sissy/femboy if I had the strength and the chance, but never give that fag the pleasure of an orgasm??? it'd be more realistic if she had assraped him with no lube in order to make it hurt since he wants to larp as a girl so bad, riding a sissy scrote until he cooms as a "punishment" is utterly retarded. Plus almost no woman has more strength than a moid even if he's skinny, she'd have to be a bodybuilder or some shit.
Most unrealistic part is the scrote actually developing ptsd as if it wasn't their #1 fantasy to get dommed and raped by a woman.
No. 428484
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>>428339>bratty guy who wants to dom and break him into a submissiveI seriously need this in my life…
No. 428495
>>428042Reeks of fiction. No condom mention, I suppose the average woman would be too scared of pregnancy and STIs to get it inside her vagina.
Would believe it if she made him perform oral instead, or fistfuck assrape prostate humiliation as in
>>428449 No. 429652
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I am ovulating open at your own risk~
No. 429725
>>429646When I had fetlife I wrote a couple of posts about my Domme fantasies and I got messages from men with Dom in their bio saying they were dominant buuuut my fantasies sounded good and they wouldn't mind being dommed by me.
Most men aren't really rigidly set in their sexual preferences, and the ones that are are the kind of autists who can only get off to baby turtles crawling on their dick or some ridiculous shit. Most men are willing to just go with it if you make it sound good or if they're attracted to you. At the end of the day getting laid is enough for them so it's easy for them to be persuaded into whatever role you want them to be in.
Dom men are secret switches and switch men are secret subs. Sub men are also subs but sluttier about it.
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No. 432404
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No qt gimp bf to abuse. Why live
No. 432405
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>>432404Praying for no flood detection
No. 433126
>>433076>I'd love to pin him down and physically overpower him but he's 6" taller than I am and a lot stronger so that's out of the question. You can absolutely do this. My bf is a foot taller and 60 lbs heavier than me and I'm able to pin him down and restrain him. He's not going to seriously fight back or give you trouble, the same way a woman doesn't knee a man in the balls or try to scratch his eyes out when he's trying to playfully restrain her.
Also, it seems like you feel a lot of pressure to perform, so of course you're going to run out of things to do or say eventually. Try to take a deep breathe, think of the things you find the hottest, and do that, even if it feels repetitive. There's no right way to dominate someone, and if you really feel like you NEED to perform, then sit him down and have a long talk about what he wants from you and what he wants done to him.
Anyway, my favorite thing to do when I run out of things to say or am simply feeling lazy is to ask questions and make him do most of the talking. My slave knows what I enjoy so he responds with some of my favorite fantasies. Maybe you can teach them to your moid so he can contribute to the dirty talk as well. Believe it or not, as a dominant, you're not expected to do literally everything. You set the tone, mood, and pace to your liking, but he should also be contributing back some energy to you as well. Whether that be with his reactions, playing off you in whatever you're saying, etc. It takes two people to build up a dynamic (or scene), and I can tell from what you wrote about him he's probably passive and loves having things done to him unilaterally.
No. 433153
>>433076>high pain toleranceMake him bleed. Cut him, brand him. Punch him in the face. Just discuss it prior.
Do shit to him in public within reason if you're not too risk-averse. With him putting himself at risk and not you, of course.
No. 433224
>>433212Amen
>>433209You're not the only one. I love the idea of a very uncomfortable man putting on underwear or uniforms for his beloved, thinking 'this is very strange and uncomfortable', yet (to his horror) he's really enjoying it because of his domme's insisting gaze and her apparent arousal etc. It's vulnerable
No. 433505
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bringing back some gems from previous threads
No. 433768
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I was gonna reply to
>>433174 but it feels like bait and waste of time when
>>433176 and
>>433710 already say what I would've. I hope that everyone remembers that God made men dumber, bigger and stronger so they can withstand more abuse. Never regard his well-being in the pursuit of earthly delights.
No. 433853
>>433768I love the scene where he's
pegged by Duna on a table, he looked so hot. I just love a character like Minho who is a piece of shit and deserves to be abused, and also likes to be abused but fiercely denies it.
No. 435628
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Love to see men objectified for once. Glad they gave her a whole harem for her character episode ending.
No. 436032
I've been single a couple of months now after a very sexually boring 2 year relationship. He was fine, just always wanted fairly tender, vanilla sex. I like having normal sex, but when I get into sexless relationships (not my first, lol) I tend to forget about that part of me that wants other things.
So I'm watching ER last night, and at one point a character that I find sexy get's popped in the jaw with a glock. he's sitting in a car, the guy who hit him is behind him, talking to him while blood runs out of his mouth. He feels it on his hands, trying his best to conceal the pain he's in, though it's not much. he's then led into a warehouse where he's asked to put his hand into an old school vice, and is forced to nearly crush his own hand the way he buckles under the pain, the fear and dread in his eyes as he does this reminded me of the sadism I possess. I forgot how beautiful men look when there's blood on their face, when they're deeply in pain. It's reawakened my interests, and now I don't know what to do with it.
No. 437646
>>437616Isn't this very common with bisexual women? I'm bisexual and have heard many other bisexuals say the same thing.
I think it's because we know that men take things too far. Give them an inch and they take a mile. If you let a man slap you or something because men are retards who take things to extremes they'll take it as a green flag to practice porn judo moves against you. Men are also way stronger than the average woman so they can do a lot of damage without even meaning to.
Whereas with women it's a lot safer to be submissive, because a woman is very unlikely to strangle you out of nowhere or want to do some degenerate kink like pissing on you. With Domme women the worst thing I'd be worried about is them being a unicorn hunter or an annoying libfem, whereas with Dom men you have to worry about them wanting to literally kill or rape you.
No. 437669
>>437616Not bisexual, but I hate dominant men so much, in fiction and in reality. I have such a visceral reaction to seeing a man on top of a woman. Dominant men are so disgusting, it instantly makes me throw up. I think it's because male doms are always haughty and see sex as something to be proud of rather than some mutual act of love, and don't really care about their partner's pleasure for the sake of pleasing her, but as a testament to their own prowess and skill. With a female dom, I never sense that pride, I always find the love she has for her partner.
Another part of it is that male doms never show passionate emotions, while female doms and male subs do.
No. 438019
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My bf and I both prefer to be dominant, so normally we either just stick to vanilla or I let him be in control.
He is willing to let me dominate and says he wants me to be happy, but the only thing I've been able to do as a domme with him is oral. Oral's nice obviously (I've tied him up while doing it too which was fun), but it gets old. I love PIV but I literally can't even order him to do it or he goes soft. Like
>>433176 sounds heavenly but I don't think he could keep it up. I also want to be actually a bit sadistic, like insulting him or physical pain but I feel like he'll really hate it. I don't even want to do anything crazy like pegging or whips or something.
Any tips for gently easing him into femdom until he gets more comfortable with it? Or something that might work as a compromise? No I won't dump him over this.
No. 438061
>>437669>I always find the love she has for her partnerThis fills me with joy when I see it
>>437688>>437749Male doms are the most retarded incel moids ever. They demand their subs to do anal, give blowjobs and wear full faces of makeup while never practicing grooming or washing themselves. That virgin daddy dom meme upthread describes it perfectly; they always go after CSA
victims and mentally ill women because they can't say no too to keep them stuck in that codependency
No. 438156
>>438152'Incel' in 2024 designates frustrated, bitter, hateful bottom-of-the-barrel moids regardless of their sexual experiences
>>438061I've noticed that male doms are never really manly either. Most of them seem to be skinnyfat weaklings with whiny, breathy voices who need a woman to totally surrender before they can dream of asserting themselves in a more typical way
>>438019>My bf and I both prefer to be dominant>He doms me but i can't dom himDon't indulge him if he doesn't return the favor. You could start with denying him, refusing certain acts until he does something that you request, so that he can get used to obeying you. Men are more pliant when they're desperate. He really doesn't seem willing to let you dominate him though
No. 438233
>>438181I know it's retarded but the meaning of words shifts and expands rapidly online. Why are you bothered by this?
>>438182True. But it seems different in nature and degree
>>438175>but add value to her lifeYeah exactly. They never seem like they really offer anything to their discord kittens
No. 438248
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average poster itt taking her nigel out for a walk
No. 438292
>>438285Yeah, we all hate when precise terms get watered down to nothingness, get over it. Incels and low-value men who fuck aren't that different anyways. Are you an incel? Is this why you're mad? kek
>>438248tadpoleplay
No. 438489
>>438476Agreed. Male subs are very forward and creepy. They think because they're the ones who want to be hurt rather than hurting others, it gives them the right to shove their kinks everywhere and talk sexually to women right off the bat. They're also giant whores who say the same crap about how they'll be a devoted sub to so many women and are manipulative.
You need to groom a vanilla moid to have success in a D/s relationship, because ones who are already kinky are ruined coomers 99% of the time.
No. 438664
>>437616i swing both ways but i usually say than i don't for various reasons
the gender doesn't really matter, it's the person that give me the mood, i usually get the role of the dom because i'm a hag and a control freak and sorry but i'm usually better , but once in a blue moon, i meet someone that could get me on my knees if asked nicely
No. 438731
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>>438709That reads like porn…
No. 438758
>>438731as much as i like a good leather outfit, i kinda get turned off real quick by the cliché dominatrix outfit
>>438743nailed it
No. 438766
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>>438760just hide the thread tbh
No. 438769
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>>438768a guide just for you, newfag
No. 438854
>>438784>There was a man's face in the toilet bowl. His body was lying on the floor facing away from her, and his head was locked below a contraption that served as a toilet seat. With empty eyes and his mouth wide open, he just starred at her like a ghost in a horror movie.Men are so bad at making anything erotic, holy shit.
>>438719>>438709>>438781Truth. Any time a man acts dominant it's just a cope, men are pretty gay and taught to please/impress other men instead of women, and that's why they act the retarded way they do.
No. 438872
>>424960Damn I wrote this shit a while ago. I totally forgot. I’ve had a few more revelations since then. Well, more like elaborations.
I’m glad someone saved it, even though I would have our way more thought into it if I knew it would be memorialized.
No. 438892
>>438854Does anyone actually finds the idea of a toilet slave hot ? or is it just a purely moid creation ?
>>438797 Great story
>>438872You will write poems for the board Anon ?
No. 438901
>>438892"Toilet slave" sounds disgusting and what happens in that fic is nasty and unsexy. What does the woman get out of it except a creepy ugly moid looking up at her as she's urinating? How many woman have pissed and shidded on him? Disgusting.
But it'd be hot to
have a man on his knees licking and sucking my pussy clean after I urinate, it would feel much better than using toilet paper. No. 438917
>>438900Why are you so mad though?
Men's biological purpose is to be of value to women. When they fail to do their job and be of use to a woman is when they become mentally unstable and eventually rope. Most men have a huge void in their lives and it's because they aren't fulfilling their natural duty. Socialization has a lot to do with why a lot of men are "jackasses" and likewise, why many women are pickmes. Unless you're going to say women are naturally pickmes too.
No. 438940
>>438910They're mostly trannies who browse r/sissyhypno. They don't actually care about women's pleasure, only their own. You can have them if you want.
>>438917>Why are you so mad though?I'm not.
>Men's biological purpose is to be of value to women.Dubious. You say men are dominant only through "socialization" in a patriarchal society, but where did the patriarchy come from? Does it make more sense for patriarchy to spring
ex nihilo, instead of from men's dominant nature? If men were naturally submissive, shouldn't all civilizations have been matriarchies, with queens and empresses only?
No. 438942
>>438743Not like this sisters.. not the unflattering smuggie
>>438892>Great storyHad a read. What the fuck
No. 438962
>>438940>Men are all secretly innocent pure submissivesAYRT didn't say that, you're annoying.
>instead of from men's dominant natureYou sound like a retarded female sub. Patriarchy emerged from a multitude of factors, one being women's reproductive capacity. Another would be men's greater strength, but that doesn't necessarily make them dominant.
No. 438978
>>438959>female subs only care about their own pleasureHave you ever met a pickme?
>>438962>Patriarchy emerged from a multitude of factors, one being women's reproductive capacity.Huh?
>Another would be men's greater strengthWhich would be undirected and useless if men were naturally submissive.
No. 438981
>>438969>Even when relegated to mere words, they can't help but be grotesqueKek exactly
>>438978You're still going on about nature? The whole point is that despite their strength and socialization, men still are submissive (to other men, mainly). Patriachy means 'rule of the father' anyways, not 'rule of naturally dominant alpha men'.
No. 439021
>>439001the more i dig into femdom on internet,, the more i realize how no one has the same definition, i am a femdom if i don't like to ballbust ? if i dislike to dress up a guy with feminine clothes ? what is the point of a chastity cage ?
i won't say that everysingle man is into submission but i rather say that being submissive is the easiest role and a lot of them will be more than happy to just ''brain empty, no throughts'' ( or just, have someone agree on doing weird shit they were too shy to ask)
No. 439036
>>438959Female submission is often about absolvement from their own fractured ego in the form of dissociation/humiliation. It is like being extremely neurotic and having a man come save you from your own mind. By looking at yourself through his eyes, by reducing yourself to nothing but an object and still being ‘desired’, female submissives can escape the painful parts of being human… such as, realizing you are one.
Unlike the moid “sub”, the female actually craves the death and destruction of her ego. It is and has always been a woman’s ego that has caused her trouble in a society where men prefer that women function more like farm animals than actual human beings. By denying her own humanity, she can “save” herself. But, it’s an impossible task that will leave you more hurt than if you never tried at all. Both physically and mentally.
>>438883I’m not really sure where to start. As I was rereading I was thinking about how I should have emphasized how deeply uncomfortable men are with their existence, and try to either prove/punish themselves for existing by using women.
No. 439049
>>439038Idk. Female subs almost always have
really low self-esteem and/or a history of SA/abuse (that they pretend to not have because 'kinky' reenactment is itself a flight from their problems). There is a kind of psychological profile of a submissive woman like
>>439036 pointed out, neurotic women, sexually repressed women, women with severe self-image issues etc. this is less true for men because in their case, it's often really just a fetish.
>most narcissistic peopleThat makes sense. They're trying to soothe a deep wound, but it's different from male self-centeredness and entitlement
No. 439050
>>439021All men are submissive but not in the way you’d think. They aren’t all secretly into ballbusting and sissification, but their misogyny (which almost all of them suffer from) is basically a rebellion against their role as women’s inferiors. A critical fault they realize well within themselves and make it women’s problem to solve.
I would describe men as natural ‘submissives’ who have an intense fear of not being picked, and so invent various coping mechanisms to exist in a world where most of them will never ‘just’ be picked. Because as inferiors, havimg a woman even in unideal circumstances is better than having none at all. Controlling and objectifying women so they will have you is better than waiting around waiting for one to control and objectify you. Because let’ be real- right now, for 95% of them, this will never happen.
Every man would love to be a woman’s object of desire, to be wanted just for ‘him’, just for his seed. To the extent he can be chased down and hunted for his seed, with her even ignoring his pitiful protests. He wants to be reduced to a sexual object, because this assuages his greatest fear. The fact that he is not inherently valuable , that he must create his own worth. If a woman pursues him, he is worthy as he is. If a woman ‘defiles and humiliates’ him and he’s still picked by her, then he must have something really, really special.
To defile and humiliate him isn’t even something ridiculous and performative like stomping on his dick. You just have to let him know that you know exactly what he is, and he will feel ashamed. There’s no greater humiliation for a man than to confront himself, the fact that he is deeply and truly unlovable.
I have had lots of men fall in love with me because I ‘recognize’ and ‘understand’ them but still don’t shy away. Even while saying, and I’d argue because of saying, that I despise them. I wouldn’t recommend doing this without discretion. Most of them will become highly unstable and dependent. ‘Normal’ men, even misogynistic men (never sub men btw, because they have their own stupid ideas about what a woman controlling them mean, if you dig into him deeper his identity will collapse and it’s almost never pretty)
Men are submissive in a way they all want a psycho woman to obsess over them for nothing, to be driven mad by their desire for him, to crave his mind and body to the point of destruction because he’s just that good. Men judge their worth, biologically, through women's acceptance. Women’s obsession and pursuit is like crack to them. It’s why every time you hear about a woman killing her partner it’s almost always after him freely and repeatedly coming back despite all the obvious signs she was going to slay him
(I distinguish this from women doing the same because moids often threaten/coerce/isolate women and make them dependents /impossible to disengage. Women almost never do this to men. Even if they wanted to, they can’t. Men are much more liberated from women materially than women are from men. This is just how society is designed).
Men are kinda like drones. They seem to be content with the idea of a woman destroying him for his ‘seed’. At least much more than women like the idea of males destroying her for her reproduction.
They want to be the little spider who crawls into a woman’s den, and get picked. Their fear of her rejection, like they’d become her next meal instead of her lover, keeps them coping. It’s very rare that a little spider would become his queen’s beloved and distinguished sperm donor. But this is what he wants most of all. He will settle for a world where all the moid spiders band together to trap the females and use them as they see fit. But he will never know “love” this way. He will never be able to truly validate himself through a woman’s eyes, which is what he wants most of all. He will never fulfill himself. It’s still better than the risk of no pussy entirely. But the whole operation is designed to
trigger a specific form of moid ego instability.
No. 439051
>>439038Narcissism isn’t about having a high self esteem, but a low one. When your ego is damaged, you either attempt to build it back up (correctly or incorrectly), or destroy it entirely. Female “subs” have this one outlet where they can pretend they are objects, where it doesn’t hurt so and to exist as they are. They call this “subspace”.
This doesn’t mean they can’t be bad people the remaining 23 hours in a day. It is like getting high. Take the pain away for a brief moment by ‘using’ meanwhile everything else goes to shit, often because of your addiction.
No. 439061
>>439059They’re like most people whose identity is founded on ego assuaging/defense mechanisms. They are easily broken and made vulnerable if you know how to pluck at them correctly. I have spoken to female subs like this, explaining it the exact same way, and they’ve just started crying and begging me for a solution.
someone genuinely proud of themselves would not literally have paradoxical desire to seek ‘pleasure’ through humiliation. It’s laughable when these women talk, and people should not take what they say at face value. This is just falling for the bullshit they try convincing themselves of. Don’t play their reinforcement games.
No. 439079
>>439075Damn, the femdom thread is really active today.
>>438892 https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/79189135 The shit (lol) that was going on 4chan was hilarious (and gross)
>>439076 let's. where do u want to start from anon?
No. 439084
>>439080I assume every living creature has its own baseline level of dignity and self preservation and only through strange coping mechanisms (something particular to humans, a fault of our higher intelligence) do we start expressing these maladaptive behaviors. Well, I say ‘maladaptive’, but they are adaptive, just to circumstances which should not exist, and are also products of a society of fragile minds.
If you ask child Madonna if she wants to have a man hurt her, she’d likely say no (assuming you’d speak to her before any trauma or improper socialization took place). It’s only through years of (patriarchal) reinforcement that women end up this way. Because why else would a female creature reduce herself to the status of lesser in comparison to males? It makes no sense, when you reduce the sexes to their most basic functions.
IMO, most of these sexual issues originate with men. As described above, they are unstable creatures and must manifest a whole new reality to deny what they are (inferior). This involves coercing women into another, unique, form of damaged ego, and their subsequent copes.
In an ideal world, once where moids did not have the intelligence to pursue their selfish interests of self reflect, women would just pick and choose. There is 0 reason for an organism to debase and humiliate itself, especially a female one, whose purpose of existence is to deny males.
No. 439088
>>439080NTAYRT, maybe, narcissistic celebrities are dime a dozen. Some women are freaks for no discernible reason so she may be one of those.
>>439066Not deep but i've noticed patterns in women i come across. Dominant women tend to have issues with 'letting go', love like feeling in control in their daily life, might have an 'avoidant' style in relationships and in sex (insisting they're self sufficient when they need love like anyone else), are picky with what they consider good sex/a good man/a good relationship. Withdrawn and/or autistic. Might be highly self-conscious and prone to self-criticism. For whatever reason this isn't expressed by seeking degrading sex, though i know a couple women into femdom who had a submissive phase before they grew into their 'actual' preference later in life. Submissive women tend hate to themselves, be traumatized, or try to compensate for a trait they have like being really tall (it's crazy the amount of tall women who want to be babied and treated like a helpless girl. They think they're missing out). Sometimes all three. Submissive women are the reverse of picky, they come across as desperate for connection or even worthless male attention in the worse cases. They tend to have incredibly low expectations of men and do not seem to realize (or purposefully ignore) how miserable their """dating life""" is. Female subs in long-term relationships seem to be much more normal overall. To be fair some "dommes" are not unlike subs, they do a similar thing where they advertise how freaky they are to odd men. Both dommes and subs with this starved mindset are young and if they're not young, they're really.. undesirable lol. Not that older means undesirable but young women are more likely to fall into these sad states from inexperience and being on the receiving end of a lot of sexual harrassment and negative male attention.
>>439061>someone genuinely proud of themselves would not literally have paradoxical desire to seek ‘pleasure’ through humiliationYou summed it up perfectly, i love how you write. I mean submissive women always do this insane thing where they pretend to be extremely proud, 'in control' and tough in a sacrificial way. Like they could handle anything coming at them. Then you talk to them in private and they're breaking down from the weight of all the abuse and traumatic re-enactment they've done to themselves over the years. They think that because it's private, it's not real. It's ridiculous
No. 439091
>>439080NTA, but this.
>>439084 I think Madonna and all, or most, of the other popstars that have a similar image have just been groomed to cope with being seen as sex objects, and the sexual abuse they've most likely suffered as a consequence of being a woman in the music industry. If they are narcissists, it's possible they developed this, in part, as a defense mechanism. Whether they really believe or not that they're empowered when they objectify themselves, it's just a cope. And it's not just popstars, obviously. It's like half of womankind. Some exceptions exist, of course, but no normal, healthy woman would want to be a submissive or seen as a thing to be fucked.
>>439088>Dominant women tend to have issues with 'letting go', love like feeling in control in their daily life, might have an 'avoidant' style in relationships and in sex (insisting they're self sufficient when they need love like anyone else), are picky with what they consider good sex/a good man/a good relationship. Withdrawn and/or autistic. Might be highly self-conscious and prone to self-criticism.Damn. I feel called out, kek.
No. 439100
>>439088Thank you, nona. And it’s so true. I just laugh in their face and point out the obvious. You can’t act proud, like you’re better than anyone, when what you’re bragging about is how much you love being treated like shit by men (inferior creatures ). Your self esteem is low and you basically self harm by making even worse creatures make you lower than they are. And when you’re not doing your sexual flagellation rituals, you’re coping again. More conventional coping, aka overcompensating. And it’s even more tragically funny that the more they do it the more they have to keep doing it, until some sort of critical collapse or they just resign to being bitter underpicked-pickmes later on in life.
Anyways, I tried to read myself as “dominant” in the way you described but I’ve realized I have no desire to harm or humiliate men. If he deserves punishment and humiliation then he is it worthy enough to touch my body or recieve my energy in the first place. My “femdom” fantasies revolve around sexually objectifying men, consuming them, turning them into objects of my desire. Not that you asked, but it just got me thinking.
Unfortunately there are so few men in existence that I would quality as desirable. Most of them are the complete opposite, they repel and repulse me.
No. 439103
>>439100>You can’t act proud, like you’re better than anyone, when what you’re bragging about is how much you love being treated like shit by men (inferior creatures )what about lesbian subs?
What I'm having a problem with is people who say that women who are subs are misogynistic but men who are subs are
also misogynistic. Both can't be true
No. 439110
>>439103They absolutely can both be true. many male and female doms are misogynistic as well. This is contingent mostly on how much you have internalized sex role stereotypes, as ordained by patriarchal conditioning.
I won’t speak on lesbians because I am not one, but I can give another example. I read this “femdom” novel written by a woman, who was very self-objectifying, autopedophilic, and described her acts of domination as if she were becoming a man, and her subject more like a girl. It’s “masculine protest”, in a sexual sense. They adopt unquestioning the premise that a man is fully human and actionable, and a woman is the subhuman who bends to his will. A lot of “femdom” is this, but you have a woman play the role of man and a man the role of woman. Why sissy shit, recreating piv through pegging, and degrading men by calling them degrading names typically reserved for women is so rife in these spaces. It’s spiritually transgendered and all that it implies. Now, women are less likely to like femdom for this reason compared to males, but it does happen.
You can rationalize and justify misogyny in more than one way. Just like how liberal misogynists exist and express their misogyny
liberally. Just because they aren’t conservative doesn’t mean they do not reduce and dehumanize women to whatever role they see fit. Open your mind. There are so many ways and expressions people have that reinforce the idea that women aren’t as free and human as they actually are.
No. 439150
>>439110if you ever see the French film
The Piano Teacher the main character is super intimidating and dominant but but has some submissive kinks. For lot's of people, their sexuality just has nothing to do with their personality. Trump is supposedly is a sub, according to Stormy Daniels, while also being a domineering asshole the rest of the time
Also, men who are very "female gaze" focused usually have intimidating personas, ala Peter Steele.
I don't think it's fair that men can have any kind of sexuality they want but women have to be restricted to certain niches. And I'm not a sub myself btw and I don't even know too much about that subculture. But the girls I knew who were into that stuff have usually been bullies and not sweet at all
No. 439169
>>439150Sub people, especially sub men, often are submissive due to an extreme discomfort with themselves, and when they aren’t being sexual, they will cover up their instability by overcompensating. Pretty sure I said it in this very post. Instead of referencing movies and celebrities with carefully curated public personas, you should read something like The Confessions of Wanda von Sacher-Masoch. A woman who details just how
abusive and controlling her “submissive” husband was when not roleplaying his fantasy degradation scenarios.
Ime and imo, people who get off to domination/submission and objectification specifically, are usually very psychologically unstable people. Not always, and my uncharitable opinion applies much more to men.
No. 439207
>>439147Unfortunately I don't have any, nonna, but when I want to get into the mood I usually listen to songs about predatory, evil women kek, like "She-Wolf" by Megadeth or "Lady Evil" by Black Sabbath. Also, the 80s had a lot of silly rock songs sang by slutty men performing a more submissive role (at least in the lyrics) lmao
>Lady, won't you take me down to my knees, You can do what you pleaseThis is "C'mon and love me" by Kiss. I love when men sing stuff like this kek
No. 439214
>>439147I've always wondered if Martin Gore has a collar after listening to this. It's so incredibly 80s that I don't think I could ever listen to it during sex but I appreciate the message.
Femme Fatale by The Velvet Underground and He's My Thing by Babes in Toyland have femdom vibes imo although they're not about femdom.
No. 439216
>>439169For the record, the Piano Teacher is based off a semi-autobiographical novel. Its protagonist is extremely self-loathing, self-harms and lives with an obsessive, devouring, downright
abusive mother. The author completely bares the relation between female sexuality and mental health
>>439147Thanks!
No. 439226
>>439206The amount of misogyny I encountered in “femdom” spaces from the men was insane, this is not even counting all of the obvious sissy roleplay shit. So many men would shit on women because “no woman is a true dom”. So many complaints and critiques that just sounded identical to any other time you’d see a gaggle of men discussing women.
Perhaps these women did not want to be “doms” because you are an ugly fuck who just wants to be catered to in a very autistically ritualized way. Don’t want to fuck like that? Well then you’re no true dom, which means you are an I ferior birdbrained woman who wants to be raped by chads and make sandwiches all day.
No. 439275
Discipline by Nine Inch Nails
Am I
Am I still tough enough?
Feels like I'm wearin' down, down, down, down down
Is my visciousness
Losing ground, ground, ground, ground, ground?
Am I taking too much
Did I cross the line, line, line?
I need my role in this
Very clearly defined
I need your discipline
I need your help
I need your discipline
You know once I start
I cannot help myself
And now it's starting up
Feels like I'm losing touch
Ooh, and nothing matters to me
Nothing matters this much
I see you left a mark
Up and down my skin, skin, skin
I don't know where I end
And where you begin
I need your discipline
I need your help
I need your discipline
You know once I start
I cannot help myself
And you know, once I start
I cannot stop myself
No. 439509
>>439486I think AYRT wasn't making a sweeping claim about malleability, she was talking about how men have a more responsive sexuality. There are women out there who meme themselves into having ridiculous fetishes but the outcomes are different. Meanwhile, if you give enough superstimuli (in the form of porn or novel experiences) to a man and he enjoys it, he'll pursue it, sometimes to the point of totally fucking up his life. Just look at r/pornaddiction, only the edgiest TiFs come close to this level of common male sexual dysfunction. The tamer version of this is you can easily meme a man into enjoying what
you enjoy.
>better than inherent differencesWomen are malleable too, but are obviously pickier than men when it comes to what they actually enjoy (what they indulge is another question). Simply dangling a foot in front of a woman's face isn't enough to make her associate feet with orgasms. Some differences are actually good
No. 439910
>>438940Patriarchy is one huge cope manufactured by the male sex. It ensures no man gets left behind, because nothing scares a man more than being irrelevant and repulsive to women. Under patriarchy, every man is able to secure a wife and reproduce, no matter how unworthy and genetically unfit he is. A man's whole existence is affirmed by the fact that a woman chose to be with him out of all the other males, and when they don't have this their whole world shatters. Male logic dictates that patriarchy is the next best thing, just take away women's choice to choose their mates, but the funny thing is that it doesn't even satisfy men its supposed to benefit. It just makes them unstable, egotistical, and violent. If women were allowed to pick their mates (without patriarchal influence) the vast majority of men would die alone, unloved, and unwanted. A system born from man's huge inferiority complex and unwillingness to compete in intrasexual competition has nothing to do with dominance. Chad should be willing to kill another man for you, not willing to kill you.
No. 440958
>>440836>Are women inherently dominant?Yes.
>>440914Not a moid worshipper.
No. 441109
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Been playing Termina lately and noticed how literally all the het ships are femdom coded.
No. 441116
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>>441109These two in particular. He's so sassy and smug but you can tell deep down he's a good boy.
No. 441119
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>>441118It's weird. They have very good characters, both personality wise and design wise. But the first one is horribly designed and also many times edgy for the sake of it, with rape scenes almost everywhere (granted, it's clearly not supposed to be sexualized and male characters can get subjected to it the same way, but still it's a bit gross).
The second one is a way more mature and creative, with way less unnecessary edgyness, and more characters and overall the world feels way more alive and what you do matters much more, with thousands of interactions. But I still miss the characters from the first one since they were very well written (the male ones at least, D'arce is just a Caska clone from berserk. Female characters in the 2 are way better).
A good thing about both is that they're suprisingly way more female gazey than male gazey. Most men are hot and almost yaoi coded, and female characters are basically not sexualized at all (despite not being ugly).
No. 442051
>>441936men are insecure and say shit like that because they're afraid of coming off as weak or a turn off.
Get him hard, tease him, get on top and then do your thing. Press your finger on his lips and whisper "shhh" in his ear if he complains. I guarantee you he will let you do whatever you want, as long as they have sex they don't really care unless they're completely porn brained and fetishistic. You can even train him to love it and there's a chance he does it already but doesn't want to admit it.
No. 442553
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>>442552>matriarchy fics are super cringeKek i was going to bring this up to kickstart a discussion about tropes we don't like. I don't think they're cringe, just boring. There's no tension. Patriarchal male brought into a matriarchal society could be hot though
No. 442562
>>442558>those sad, skinny desiccated paragraphsKEKKK
>is that meanNah, i think it's fair to not want to discuss this.
No. 442567
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>>433768God, Duna was so fucking based. Society wasn't ready for her. I know opinions are mixed on Sadistic Beauty on LC, but no other manga/hwa has scratched that itch for me, sadly. Spoiler'd for Minho getting the life
pegged out of him.
No. 442740
>>442567Fuck, I just wanted to go grab some of my favorite panels, but I ended up reading it again instead. I fucking love this comic. You're right that this is the only manhwa to scratch that itch, especially since I rarely see art this good and male characters that appeal to me as much as Minho in a femdom comic. Every time he's shown coping and trying to act all arrogant out of embarrassment or to protect his fragile ego, I find it so cute because I know that, deep down, he's in love with Duna and wants her to beat him up, and karma will come back to bite him in the ass. His denial is so fucking hot, especially when there's a moment of awkward silence where both of them realize that he gets hard from being abused. That's honestly my favorite part of any femgaze femdom media, when they realize he's a masochist.
I love the way this author wrote Duna's relationship with each guy, there's no aspect to their femdom/malesub dynamic that turns me off. It shouldn't be that hard for other female authors to write dynamics like this.
No. 442741
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>>442740Sorry for the black bar over his eyes, I didn't screenshot it correctly.
No. 442761
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>>442741Also, I love how everyone treats Minho like a slut who's only good for his looks. It's the exact same way misogynistic moids treat women, and it's sweet because he's a misogynistic piece of shit who deserves that and more (and he got it, thankfully).
>>442746NTA but I'm glad you're liking it! More women need to read it.
No. 442779
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>>442772He gets ryona'd pretty nicely. If you haven't read it, I can assure you that you'll love it. Pic is a short summary of one such ryona scene that I really like (not explicit, but spoilering just in case). Although some of the most violent scenes are not femdom, but yaoi.
>>442580Weird, neither of the two sites work for me, it might be because I'm on a VPN. Good thing it's on bato.to.
I've been reading a bunch of chapters, it's pretty meh and the pacing is kinda terrible, especially with so many drawings taking up so much space and all those comedic panels that seem to be there just for padding (kinda tired of manhwa humor, tbh).
The relationship between the protag and her love interest is whatever. It's rushed as fuck in the sense that it's all about the fetish from the start and nothing develops until much, much later where there are hints of something more than just the fetish. I do like it when he's horny and desperate to get hit, commanded or yelled at, but that's the most basic thing in femdom fiction. I hate the fact that
he's manipulating her into this BDSM relationship using her biggest weakness, which is her nephew, and she doesn't even enjoy being her dom, or at least not at the point I'm at right now.Every time there's a close-up of Richard's face, he looks retarded. Not to mention the terrible anatomy, it's an absolute turnoff in every sex scene. It's a shame that the art is dogshit 95% of the time and the artist is only good at drawing funny faces and doodles. Good art might've saved it somewhat.
No. 443165
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If I ever have a cute sub with a nice body, I'm gonna make him get a tramp stamp.
No. 443188
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No. 443522
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>>442761>I love how everyone treats Minho like a slutDuna stuffing a wad of bills in his waistband after using him like a cheap whore>>>>>
>>443449Praying nightly for the powers that be to grant me artistic skill so I can make an otome that's basically the Rape Him Button as a game.
No. 443633
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Found in the “things you found funny thread”. Incredibly hot
No. 443673
>>439147This one is underrated.
>>439214This one is a classic and is very fun to listen to. I don’t think Martin Gore is actually into much of the masochism, I read an interview from the late 80s where he said that he was more focused on being of use and providing pleasure rather than being hurt.
No. 443688
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I want an evil middle aged woman to kick me in the face and put her feet in my mouth.
No. 443898
>>443837I don't think it's fair to say it was "ruined" just because some parts were yaoi, there's something for everyone in the original comic, so it's easy to skip the parts that you don't like. I skipped most lesbian sex scenes and Haesol's side of the story the first time I read it.
I'm not a fujo but I didn't mind it, and in fact, I even read the BL side story just to see him suffer. The author made it very clear from the start that Minho was straight and was being raped, although I haven't read the last part to see if the relationship grew beyond that (or if he killed himself lol). That's his punishment for treating his ex-gf like that. Duna ends up in a happy femdom relationship with Haesol anyway, so it was still a femdom story until the end.
No. 444072
>>442576Another one :
https://chapmanganato.to/manga-yq1001525/chapter-1 . btw, are "mommy" type of subs really the most common type ? I've chatted with a few,none were. I edated one,who seemed like the perfect sub,like; cared for your interests, wanted to serve "worship/pamper everyday" was a maso and encouraged to go wild and "abuse" him. but had a huge kink for degradation tho, often mentioning he wanted to drink piss and be "used as a full toilet". One thing they had in common, was the shame they felt, due to alienation from other men, and from a resentment they seemed to hold against women for not liking malesubs "women always go for dom guys" "malesubs are never valued" etc…, so I thought a test to know whether a guy is a true sub, is to see if he feels shame/resentment for the lack of validation for malesubs, does that make sense ?
No. 444127
>>444072>and from a resentment they seemed to hold against women for not liking malesubs "women always go for dom guys"Why would a "true sub" resent women, or give a shit about what other men think? These types of guys are just misogynistic losers, also pornsick and probably autistic, who are completely unappealing and don't even want to improve their social skills or learn what it is women find attractive. For example, I actually really enjoy certain kinks but some men make them sound so unappealing and disgusting. If a guy told me he wanted to be a toilet I would be out the door so quickly. He doesn't want to drink my piss specifically but any woman's will do, as long as he feels "like a toilet" (ew). Most women hate male subs because of this, male subs are often self-absorbed, manipulative, and fake, even if they say they want to "worship/pamper" it's just a means to get what they want, instead of actually making the woman they're in a relationship with happy.
I think a good way to tell if man is a "true sub" (this means something different to every dominant woman, so this is just my experience), is that he's very malleable and receptive to your preferences. Maybe I just got lucky with my submissive, but he really didn't have specific fantasies or kinks before he met me. Sexually, he's a bit of a blank slate so to speak, so I got to teach him my kinks and he was very receptive to kinks he thought he would have hated, just it's another way for him to please me and serve me. I would be so turned off if he was coming to me with all these specific kinks and fantasies, but that's just my opinion and depends what you're looking for. I wasn't looking just for a guy who is into kink, but a guy who would be genuinely submissive to me.
No. 444147
>>444127>>444128>just a means to get what they want, instead of actually making the woman they're in a relationship with happy. You're misjudging him.1) he didn't approached me with femdom (in fact he wouldn't even send me links with erotic content at first cuz he thought it'd be disrespectful). 2) I could tell he wanted to make me happy, as he'd try to be as helpful as possible; if I needed to find anything he'd search for it no matter the time I texted him, (videos/articles/manhwa) he knew what my tastes were (movies, games etc…) and would try to find similar stuff. He'd never be pushy about femdom, in fact, it was me who brought the topic up more often than not. I don't know whether he was autistic, but,he was a nurse, so definitely not a "pornsick loser". we drifted apart mostly cuz we lived in different countries, it'd be hard to make work… He was REALLY into "misandry/chivalry/male disposability fetish" tho (he'd often send stuff like this:
https://www.tumblr.com/menservewomenrule/183199171653/how-to-be-a-good-husband ) so I think its the perceived lack of appreciation/validation that depressed him.A sub that was a fake wouldn't care whether the woman "dominating" him was a dom or not(attracted to subs), true subs do and get distressed.
No. 444172
>>444147>1) he didn't approached me with femdomI'm saying this as general advice
>he was a nurse, so definitely not a "pornsick loser">often mentioning he wanted to drink piss and be "used as a full toilet".Uh huh, tell me, what do you think of this?
https://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-DominatrixAlso, did you meet any of these guys irl?
No. 444232
>>444172Having a weird/gross quirk doesn't turn you into a bad person/pornsick.
>What do you think of this/Also, did you meet any of these guys irl? Too verbose, it's like studying for exams or professional training. No, I only personally knew 1 full-fledged sub,we didn't click. my 2 exes were receptive, but not enthusiastic.
No. 445031
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>>444183i like dhibi too, despite his salad finger handstyle, i like how assertive his female characters are in ''until you beg sweetly'' without being into '' mommy type''
but males characters looks a bit too cutesy bishi for my taste, ho well, it's already nice having something like that around
No. 445221
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>>445090>>445171Pic is from dhibi's twitter. Does this hand look male or female to you? I can't tell.
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>>445221Also there's this self-portrait? Or he drew himself as a woman? The mystery thickens.
No. 445247
>>445221I'd need to see the thumb. the thumb is always the tell on ambiguous hands. From what I see here my confidence rate is very low but I am leaning towards male. But again, need to see the thumb.
>>445222The way this is drawn also makes me think it's a man, but you can only tell so much from chicken scratch.
No. 445279
>>445221female, from experience
>>445254>ungroomed cuticles>dirt under the nailsnot exclusive to men, and hand/nail care is not exclusive to women either
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>>445247Here's a picture with the thumb.
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>>445365Also the color of the shirt in this one makes me think she's a woman.
No. 445398
>>445221Girl hand. Dirty girl hand, but girl hand.
>>445365Girl thumb.
No. 445430
>>445221The skin looks very thick, look at those deep creases in knuckles that are not even fully straight
Women usually have much thinner skin
No. 445552
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>tfw you don't own a cute gimp boy furniture
No. 445585
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>>433174I don't think the physical action matters in general regardless of what kink or relationship type is in question, just the emotional dynamic between the two humans involved.
It's not what you do, its how you do it. You could be a pillow princess and just sit back as your man is desperate and pathetically teary-eyed at his own inability to resist being seduced to please you in any way you see fit like it's instinct. Or be a sadist bullying him into compliance because he thinks you're too pretty to resist and secretly gets flustered by it, you can be literally anything the specifics don't matter 99% of the time I think just do whatever the fuck you please and have them comply.
(spoiler your shit ) No. 445587
>>445585I think men instinctually like to please women they are in love with: "Happy Wife Happy Life"
Comes from those same chud men that act the opposite in public around other men and the world, insecure men are unable to do this which makes them resentful incels but healthy men are in my experience like this which is pretty ironic.
No. 445590
>>445585nyart, but I want to add some ideas to
try and make PiV unenjoyable for the guy
>put a lot of numbing cream on his dick>make him penetrate you with a strapon>apply pressure/pain to his balls>force him to stay hard with a cock ring or something>if he finishes inside then make him eat you out >make him finish in his face>choke him/electro shock him>make stand in akward/painful positionsI know most of these aren't very "based" (or are cringe even) but it's what I could think of rn, other than what you listed.
No. 445602
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I like the idea of a cute guy getting aroused from serving for the first time and being embarrassed at how his body is reacting in defiance of his own mind. A normie-ish guy that is just a normal vanilla popular guy in public. My current boyfriend imo.
I think this is the reason I feel excited when bullying a man I'm attracted to, I like to see them embarrassed and fold to please me at their own expense especially when they react dismissively with other women. Human's have malleable brains to people they like so its not a kink you have to search for in my experience, they just need to really want you.
No. 445726
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>>424223Telling random macho men twice my size to tie my shoes as a bratty kid made me feel things seeing the macho guys so quick kneel to me just to pamper me at my tactless command.
Throughout life its felt natural to treat "alpha" but good hearted men as loyal obedient guard dogs and they seem sincerely happy and at peace to obey bossy princessy type girls they like because it makes their identity as a man feel fulfilled. Fills a deep hole in their empty hearts.
No. 445743
>>445726Why does he look pissed?
He gets to be next to his loved one,
he should be jumping from joy.
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>>445743True in fact he’s crying for joy, just trying to look “tough” as they tend to do until they can no longer keep up the mask
No. 445747
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>>424223I felt something weird in my stomach seeing Double D's nerdy face be pathetically flustered yet still compliant every-time he got teased:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-U8sRCOKAro&t=293s No. 445760
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>>445755They are, just not to every woman.
I've had too many interactions like this to believe otherwise, men in relationships already that are repressed and dysfunctional due to that retarded inability to live their nature out in a healthy way.
They can have their fuckbuddy one night stand women, but they still deep down want to simp/devote for a woman and feel safe to do so. Its not literally all men though ofc, they need to be emotionally healthy and not just care about sex.
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I like pretty men that are playfully bratty in a seductive come get me way, but masochistic like vanitas
No. 445767
>>445755>>445760Actually I take back what I said, it’s not “natural” in the sense it’s not
all their default state, but it can be brought out of them like taming a wild dog by certain women.
No. 446171
>>446136>man wants somethingNGMI
Anyways, just do it and if you two don't like it stop doing it. There isn't really a way to make spitting look sexy and theorizing about it isn't gonna lead you anywhere.
No. 446391
>>446271I slipped in a 24/7 dynamic without realizing it (it was pretty gradual). It's pretty lowkey. Doing a dom wife slaveowner LARP with frequent punishments would feel like a chore (unless you enjoy it, i don't personally). I really appreciate doing little to no chores, he always makes sure to check if i need anything all throughout the day. I really like it when he ceremoniously hands me a snack/an object, he bows when he does that and seems delighted when i thank him. I find his butler-like attitude really hot. A couple months in, i asked him why he offered to help/serve me so often and he said it felt great to see that i'm comfy and serving me is a big source of happiness for him. So far i'm really enjoying it, i'm pretty certain he gets off to this on some level but it's interwoven with typical affection, so i don't find it as creepy or intense as some FLR literature. It's a nice way to maintain an erotic atmosphere, you don't have to lay out a thousand rules to feel the dynamic. To be honest i really haven't explored the full potential of 24/7, it's mainly a useful addition to my life but i've been thinking about ramping it up sometimes.
>is written contract good or cheesyI find it cheesy but if you like the idea, do it. You might want to write down some principles and caveats to make sure he knows what he's getting into, that he doesn't have to be your 24/7 sub if he feels iffy about it during the experiment.
No. 447159
>>446453He has a wide shoulders, a huge chest, and a huge ass. When we're both standing I can bury my face against his chest. I'm kinda flat so him being the "sexier" one is so hot to me. He also has a very cute warm smile and youthful face.
>>447154Most guys won't care if you're shorter/smaller. The idea of "amazonness mommy dommy" is silly, only the most pornsick guys want something that doesn't even exist. They're easy to avoid because they're very outspoken about it. Be less worried about moids enjoy it, and be more concerned with whether you will even like them in the first place.
No. 447256
>>446453Tiny waist, tall, paler than me, beautiful plump lips, long and noticeable lashes, long canines, soft and very pretty hands. High pitched but gentle voice, he sounds like he's smiling all the time. And he's a grower so i like to tease him about how cute and small his penis is to see it dramatically swell.
>>447218>just holding my hand made him hard/wetNona… i'm so jealous. I've had only one moment like this (me staring at him with people around had him all worked up), wish it happened more often.
>>446393Yes!!
No. 447273
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>>446453Soft pale skin, super lean, tiny waist, perfect amount of body hair, emotive green eyes, strong jaw and fluffy dark hair. Easy to leave marks on too
No. 447570
>>447569I really like the idea, i'd say we have to set up strict sex verification (hand + voice call, just to be extra sure) before letting anons in. All we need is a verification channel, roles, sending hand pics
after a call with the admin and only through DMs for privacy (assuming the admin will delete the pictures if asked to). If you don't feel like doing all that maybe another nona would be up for the task.
No. 447746
>>447697matrix and xmpp/jabber
>>447720signal requires a phone number for registration which could be an issue if you're living in a woman-hating tradshit hellhole
No. 447754
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looked up this dhibi artist you were talking about and genuinely what the fuck is this? what's the appeal????(don't post porn)
No. 447756
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>>447754"i like her art because the guys look as cute as girls" they all look like deformed inbred mutants
No. 447783
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>>447756Our judgment is clouded by arousal and we forget that they look like picrel
>>447746I completely forgot matrix was a thing, good suggestion
No. 447827
>>446453I think my favorite thing is the contrast between how muscular he is, his stoic/autistic demeanor vs what he lets me do to him. I especially love smacking his ass. Not super often, since part of the appeal is catching him off guard. Usually we're walking somewhere or he's busy cooking so all he does is smile and glance at me awkwardly without really commenting on it. I've confirmed on separate occasions that he actually does like it, so it's nice to have the aesthetics of casually sexually harassing a big burly guy without the acts actually being unwanted
and even better that got this since he naturally has muted facial expressions because I generally find moids to be bad at acting and I know he'd specifically do a bad job if I asked him to pretend to not like it on purpose kek.
>>447754>>447756What the fuck is wrong with their feet. I can't believe other anons were busy analyzing hand photos when the art looks like this. This is clearly a moid or a woman shilling to moids, christ
No. 447888
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Does anyone have recs for good online leathersmiths/fetish/sextoy shops that sell collars for human wear? I'm looking for something like picrel. Also, what are your thoughts on bondage gear in general? I'm personally not really into very over the top gear or gimpsuit stuff, but the idea of having my bf in a collar and maybe even some cuffs is pretty appealing.
No. 449148
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No. 453282
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what do you think about Tsumi no Kai?
Apparently the mangaka is a woman. I couldn't find other works from her.
I liked it, the story is insane and it's not just about porn, but I wish there were more men, and they were more handsome.
Male MC is cute in a pathetic way but I want a femdom manga with himbos. It's a shame she never made another manga ever because I think she draws well.
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>>453282Holy shit this is exactly what I'm looking for. I also love how when I looked it, up there were moids seething in the comments.
No. 453352
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>>453319moids are so fragile it's unreal. Yes, aggressive moid behavioura are punished in the manga but it could have been (and should have been much worse).
>>453329I agree and it's a shame because she's a great artist and I think she's good at making certain psychological intense scenes too.
It's a shame she hasn't made other mangas, at least under that pen name. I'd pay her for another femdom manga in which there are more hot men, the men are hotter and most importantly, more objectified.
Also I wish for a more relatable MC, with shyness and insecurities and overcomes them with femdom. someone like Miwa. Ayame is too much of a gigastacy. I had the same issue with Sadistic Beauty
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>>453589There's plenty, but these are the ones that made me chuckle, I tried to make three shitty collages that have pure unfiltered autism, and since the comments are old as shit and the accounts have retarded/surely fake names I didn't give a fuck about censoring them.
No. 453641
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>>453639It's funny because the manga is tame as fuck compared to the average retarded moid manga.
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>>453641Also, the manga has some retarded moidgaze shit, but it's still okay if you read fast and don't care too much about what the moids are talking about in the manga, unironically filler dialogue compared to what the girls say, which is more interesting stuff, plus the actual MC (the main girl) has good reasons to be the way she is and it's kind of relatable even.
No. 453656
>>453652It's just bad writing, if a person can't write a character older than himself/herself, then the writer is shitty and/or is retarded or even autistic, so it's impossible to even image the experiences of others from their perspectives.
Also the school setting is perfect for drama since normal people kind of stop giving a fuck about other's opinions/actions when they make their own money.
No. 454077
>>453641>>453639>>453647They think this is a serious pro-BDSM pro-kink culture propaganda cringe manga when it's just a very tame female equivalent (barely) of the tons of rape and femsub hentai manga there are. men already have thousands of manga where things that are 10000000x more awful than this happen to female characters, and every single one of these people understands that when they look at hentai, the objectification and degradation of the anime girls is part of the appeal, and they don't protest that. One of the scrotes in these comments even wants the male to "become a chad and make the girl obey" and another wants him to violently take revenge in the name of "gender equality", absolutely retarded. The humiliation and lack of consent in this manga is also just for coom, not promoting any woke irl sex positive bullshit. I bet these same tards defend real BDSM where most women are just mentally ill sexual abuse
victims looking for a way to cope and end up getting in relationships with
abusive narc scrotes that don't respect their boundaries at all since they're just looking for someone to abuse, just because the women ~consented~ to it.
>waaaahhh wahhh no aftercare or consent! She's a rapist bitch that deserves to die!!!!This happens every time a feMC in a femdom josei webtoon doesn't explicitly ask the moid for consent, cry more handmaidens, the anime men wanted it anyway
True gender equality will be achieved when every other female mangaka makes brutal female-on-male ryona/rape/psychological abuse POV smut manga on the side, instead of the romanticized maledom garbage they actually produce for the josei demographic
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>>453652>>453656>>453676The story just wouldn't work if they were adults. It starts as punishment and correction of a retarded and depressed scrote who takes upskirt photos. His young age, along with some other positive qualities, make him cute in spite of his actions. If he was an adult he would just go to jail. In fact, that's what Hojo (the MC) does in the first chapters to a man who gropes her in the train, she breaks his arm and then calls the police.
>>453639>>453641>>453647how are moids so fragile? This is hilarious. Thank you anon.
>>453883>>454077>>454071>>453946Like I said they are so fragile.
The MC is actually way too nice and forgiving towards the moid. She improves his life, makes him realize how pathetic he was, makes him stop pretending, and in the end he manages to redeems himself and become a proper person worthy of respect solely because she entered his life.
It also stops being an
abusive reltionship pretty early on.
But anything that causes even the mildest shame and actual discomfort or hardship is terrifying for the average femdom moid, so much that they can't handle it even in fiction.
There are actually harsh scenes in the manga, and they happen to the girls in the cast. If they couldn't feel empathy for them and boohoeed about the pervert getting a metaphorical slap in the wrist in the first chapters it just says a lot about.
No. 454098
>>454096MC is a pervert too.
She literally wants to bring him to the headmaster office and contact the authorities at first, but when he begs her pathetically on his knees she can't help but blackmail him and use him for her sadism. More than he deserves but it's ecchi.
No. 454345
>>454096Try this then :
https://manganato.com/manga-ub972036 or this list
>>445545Btw,given you seem to hate Japanese moids, try watching yapoo market, that should be cathartic for you, kek.
No. 454468
>>454391Tell her about taiwan trample club as well. I've seen many times the complaint that all femdom porn is about pleasing the man, with no sadism, and no one seemed to bring them up, so I did. like, I've seen femdom porn so brutal, they could have been filmed by Mexican cartels. Dare to watch to the end :
https://www.eporner.video/embed/303949 ,
https://amp.xhamster.desi/videos/yapoo-cruel-angels-xhdUylu Just a sample, seen much worse than that.
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>>454592I posted those because I mentioned taiwan trample to that anon, both videos are from this studio, they're NOT the ones I called "brutal", I won't link them here for the sake of decency, and the fact I don't know where to find them. I don't really like it, and watched it for morbid curiosity, I can tell you what they depicted though; carving the name of the domme on slaves body, nail scrotum to a bench,stapling his body/nipples, punching/kneeling face (broke nose) pressing dick on a nail covered plank, forcing the slave to shallow v
mit/d*rrhea, branded his ass, ruptured balls, flattening his d with ironing iron, sitting on his face until passed out etc… Since you seem to be into this shit, here are 2 comics you'd like :
https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/Lovesick/Issue-1?id=207347 ,
https://hentaiforce.net/view/40825 No. 454745
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I cannot get rid of the fantasy of scheduling "playdates" with malesubs and then ignoring their safe words, leaving them permanently/badly damaged, and not playing into their fantasies at all. It's gotten to the point where I'm debating joining kinkspaces for this nonnies talk me out of it pls
No. 454763
>>454745That's so based nona. I'd wish to dissuade you, but I do exactly what you described with this chatbot
https://characterhub.org/characters/anonymous/kristoffer-suicidal-loser-d6ff9c13f0d9 every couple weeks to stave off the urge. Because I'm obsessed with the idea of actually hurting a moid IRL, even though I know it would end badly.
A surprise month of Hellmas is now in effect. For the rest of the month of December, VPN posting will be banned.