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No. 49046
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>>87394
please stop
No. 49067
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I'm just going to leave this here.
No. 49075
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Does anyone have problems with.. uhh.. their vaginal depth? My vag is like, 3-4 inches deep. I can barely fit my small dildo in there, let alone a full size one. This frustrates me to no end because I LOVE sex toys. I never understood how could some girls fit 8 inches or more up there.
Is this common?
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>>119878
Psshh
>skinny fat
Swivel(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
No. 49097
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I feel like the sanic of masturbation.
I can get myself off in under 3 minutes with no heavy equipment and it does the job, but it's more of a pressure release rather than something I do for pleasure. Yet I don't like sex because it's so fucking fussy and takes too long, and I never get anything out of it. After a while I just get bored and shoo my bf off.
I don't know how to make myself enjoy it and I don't know what's wrong. Everyone's talking about it being this thing that feels super good and there's also the 'better than sex' saying but I feel so whatever towards it yet I have major FOMO.
No. 49205
I've been going back and forth on buying this for almost a year
https://www.vibease.com/Anyone have an opinion on whether or not I should go for it?
No. 49208
>>49103So I had this problem until I got a partner who was very very gentle. Try:
-telling him to be gentle as possible, then even more gentle than that. like feather strokes. tell him your clit is more sensitive than his eyeball.
-wearing satin panties and stroking over the top
-putting the whole of his hand over your vulva and pressing or moving very gently
No. 49212
>>49211Lol, it's called an investment in quality. I'd rather buy something expensive once and use it for a long time rather than cheap out on something that's not going to last or is going to gobble up batteries. Considering all the shit this thing does, the price is definitely warranted.
>>49205As long as reviews are solid, I would say go for it, especially since there's a discount right now.
No. 49215
>>49104>>49107>>49108Glad that there's nothing wrong with me! Haha.
>>49208Brilliant advice anon, thanks! Tbh I think it's a combination of that and patience.
No. 49216
>>49214I can confirm it's real, did it once when I was younger but never managed to do it again.
Also I assume all of you orgasm via the clit? That's how I orgasm 100% of the time but there was a time when I was able to orgasm inside my vagina. Can't for the life of me figure out how I did it now. I've looked up tutorials and the sensation just makes me feel like I need to pee now…which is awful.
No. 49218
>>49216Sorry for this being totally unhelpful but I had never in my life orgasmed from vaginal stimulation until my current boyfriend.
For me it admittedly does kind of feel like I have to pee but according to him (and some blogs I've read) that's kind of the beginning of squirting. I've never squirted before but maybe the time you squirted was when you still had vaginal orgasms?
Tbh I don't think I could vaginally orgasm just while masturbating though because I wouldn't be able to get past that kind of feeling of having to pee as well as I don't think I could keep up the pressure because when I start to get close vaginally my body gets kind of weak ah haha. Any position that has my boyfriend hitting the front of my vagina is when I orgasm without touching my clit.
No. 49220
>>49216It doesn't feel like much when I try to uh…pleasure myself from the inside. For me it's definitely something that only a partner can do.
An ex gave me an internal massage once. It didn't feel particularly good while he was stretching me out with his fingers, but afterward when he slipped his dick in…good God it was amazing, I almost came just from that.
Another time, my date was especially good at fingering and almost got me off through that. He had the right place and perfect pressure. But he got tired so no climax for me lol.
No. 49221
>>49218I've heard that's what it feels like when you're beginning to squirt too but it definitely didn't feel like that when I managed it years ago. Like it feels bad so idk why anyone would be motivated to continue?
>>49220Wow that's really interesting… Maybe it's just about finding the right area. I've read countless tutorials online with no success. Sounds like a little project for when we have some time on our hands haha.
No. 49325
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>>179151Look at this roastie getting toastie
No. 49327
>>49316Vice is trash and this video is no exception.
However it's interesting to note how they mention the male dolls have more customizeable options, the ability to make them imperfect, as that's what their clients want. I think that really shows one of the differences the two sexes generally have when looking for a partner. Additionally, shows just how removed from reality bots&cels are when they cry online about roasties.
No. 55093
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11/10 would recommend
No. 65286
>>49316they actually modeled him into a realistic looking man
with sex dolls they model them after women who look like they underwent 50 plastic surgery procedures but the male one looks… normal
No. 65392
I never had actual sex (as in breaking my hymen) and probably never will.
Maybe because I'm not attracted to boys/only want to be with a girl but the idea of putting something down there (other than maybe the tip of a dildo at most) is a no no for me, it's really tight too and putting even a finger feels…weird. I can watch vaginal penetration and feel slightly turned on somehow but it's just weird to me and uncomfy) and I can only come from clit stimulation.
I feel like a weirdo sometimes.
Also I only had sex once and cannot manage to do it if i don't love the person/completely trust her. I'll fantasize about many kinky things (like tentacles) even though i'm mostly vanilla but in real life i'm so nervous and shy when it comes down to it.
>>65362Are you me? I used to have that too! It just kinda went away with the years, I feel kinda ashamed and if my birb is in the same room I just can't do it because I feel like he might be judging me (which is stupid)
No. 65417
>>65393I read fics and sometimes watch hentai, i'm kinda picky, same for 3D porn.
I like to imagine I'm being molested, I'm gross.
No. 65434
>>65395
>you can have "actual sex" without vaginal penetration.no you cant. she knows this intuitively, you have to delude yourself to think otherwise. proof enough.
>don't get brainwashed into thinking only putting shit up inside you is the only true way to have sex, it ain't.you are doing the brainwashing, and yes it is.
No. 65438
>>65434Go away robot, penetrative sex is not the end-all. Lots of people find it meh at best.
>>65392It took years of trying for me to be able to have penetrative sex comfortably. It's not a lost cause but don't focus on it if there are other things you like more, it shouldn't be a chore.
No. 65453
>>65450Ho ho, you like buff guys don't you?
>tfw dolls can't hug you or pat your headThat's legit all I want. Maybe getting my butt squeezed too
No. 65491
>>65482Hey, me too!
I've been thinking of fingering a little more and trying to geta 2n finger in with lots of wetness/lube. Maybe that'll make the first time having dick up there hurt less?
No. 65495
>>65482Same here. I could only get a finger in two times in my life, but only because I spent more time relaxing and using a lot of lube. While usually I can't bother to spend all that time and just go for clit stimulation, lol.
So, when the time will come, make sure you have lube and do a lot of foreplay. Maybe it's just psychological and after doing it we will feel more "loose"
No. 65497
>>49097>sanic of masturbation>that imagei chuckled.
But I understand anon! I only use my hands and I cum so quickly. I'm kinda scared of sex (despite being 22) but god, I fantasize about so many things (sometimes even fucked up, like tentacles) and I get myself off so quickly. I do multiple orgasms in general (two or even three sometimes) but I feel kinda ashamed to cum so fast
No. 65522
>>65497yeah me too. Though in most cases, I just masturbate to put myself to sleep or release stress. Like when I have a deadline or a stressful project.
But I only ever needed my imagination and fingers.
No. 65585
>>65482Seconding
>>65495, I was in your shoes, anon. I'm not one to finger myself either and go for pads but for the first time, sex didn't hurt me because of lots and lots foreplay and lube. The only time sex did hurt me was when I slept with some other guy who decided just flicking my nipples would be enough for stimulation for sex and god that was the most painful experience ever, couldn't even really get it in.
No. 66147
>>55093i second this. i got a gigi on sale. for anyone who might actually want sex toy tips, lelo toys are really expensive but worth it. i started out with the mia. coming from a wand, it felt like i wasted money lol. but slowly and surely i regained sensitivity and even though it takes longer to climax, the orgasms are 10000000% better. but with the mia, it would only last maybe two or three uses. three is pushing it. the gigi lasts me days, which is so surprising. if you're considering a lelo toy i'd really recommend a gigi!
>>65281what's funny? ? the gigi is amazing
No. 66160
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>mfw nothing at all feels good
>clitoral stimulation feels bad no matter what I do
>fingering feels like nothing
>vibrators just feel weird/unpleasant
Dunno what I'm doing wrong but everything sucks.
No. 66196
>>66160how are you stimulating it?
When i first started i would just rub it, but it kind of hurts like that. try lightly pressing down and just wiggling your finger in circles, without actually "Rubbing" if that makes sense? also make sure you're not rubing it dry, if you're not naturally lubricated try using some lube to start
No. 66697
>>66623Ever crack your back when you fart or poop? Majestic shit that is.
Anyway I just bought this
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072NYX872/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 and fuckig love it. If you're on a massive budget and hate buying batteries this one is a good one. It doesn't have a super strong clit vibe (all the vibration comes from the base) so I was disappointed at first but now I don't care, it does just enough and the vibration patterns can be fun to cycle through to warm up before you settle on the one you like
No. 67004
>>66810it comes from the strong stimulation on the nerves and i think the sudden relaxation of muscles. to be honest, im not too sure what it really is, because I know I once squirted drops and thought that was more accurate, but sometimes it just comes out like a waterfall and I just cant imagine where else would be so much fluid stored in my lower body but the bladder.
you can only avoid it by going slower or tensing up your pelvic muscles more.
Other solutions: start masturbating lying in the empty bathtub or buy latex bed sheets.
No. 67034
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>>67007There are a few BD models that I like.
But my preference goes to Exotic Erotics as they do absolutely gorgeous pours with their surprise and custom options.
I'm definitely getting one of their Orc models
No. 67035
>>66810No but I'm gonna try this. I've only ever managed to squirt once and can't seem to do it since. I had drunk a lot of water throughout the day and was really horny and more and more liquid kept gushing out as I was touching my g-spot.
Anyone have any tips on how to squirt, or know any good toys? I know you are supposed to stimulate your g-spot, but clearly people can gush just from stroking their clit, and I want to see if that's possible for me.
No. 67069
>>67004The proble is that I've felt like I "had to squirt" while being fingered before, so now I just refuse guys to finger me even though I really like it.
>>67035I can do it from both ways, what I do is when I stimulate my clit, I make sure to be a little aggressive right before I come (turn it on max, or move it around more). Once you're actually coming, just keep rubbing it a lot, hold it and hold it there and see if it helps. It doesn't always work for me but usually it does. If I stop rubbing when I come, it never happens though, so you just gotta keep going (it should happen right after your initial orgasm).
No. 68162
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I can only orgasm if I use my left hand's pointer finger to flick at the right side of my clit (has to do with the angle). Not even joking. Even doing that barely works.
No. 68339
>>68316I didn't say anything about penetration, though. That's always gross to me. I rarely do that and I always feel like absolute shit after. Like I raped myself. lol
>>68317Damn, good to hear. The only way I can really get off is frottage with clothes on and it's not that great either so I don't really bother normally.
No. 68353
>>68349Same here. It's shocking to see how many girls don't orgasm or even like penetration but are tricked into thinking its the one and only way to be truly intimate (unless they gay). I really thought I was the only one in the world who hated it. Its so relieving to know I'm not the only one.
On a similar note, does anyone know if there are any guys who don't like vaginal penetration? I've only known one person who said that it was "meh" compared to getting a bj. I'm guessing this is like finding a needle in a haystack though…
No. 69098
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I've been on antidepressants for about half my life. In the last 10 years, I've had maybe about 6 orgasms. I haven't had an orgasm in the past year. Toys, partners, hands, nothing will do it. If I go off of antidepressants, I get paranoid and depressed. On them, my sex life is shitty. I don't even want to get into a serious relationship right now because of my sexual dysfunction.
I try to masturbate pretty much every day and I never get anywhere. I always get bored and stop.
Clit stimulation, penetration and g-spot stimulation feel good, but it's never enough.
Been thinking about getting the Womanizer because I've had pretty shitty results with vibrators and it works completely differently.
No. 71579
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>>71576not exactly what you were asking for anon, but i travel a lot and instead of dragging my hitachi with me i use this. i can have it in my bags and no one cares, water proof, i pop the scrub attachment part off and go to town. vibrates crazy well and works perfect for me personally
No. 72822
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I got a Satisfyer Penguin. It's actually pretty good, but I wish the head was larger so it could fit a little more of the surrounding area. It's great for the price, and the higher settings are rather powerful. It has 8 settings, which go from very light/slow to very fast. Since you kind of hold it in the same place the whole time, it's not a great couple's toy. Unlike a traditional vibrator, you can't really do much teasing by moving it around.
No. 73116
>>48662Does anyone know if OP pic is safe? I read somebody boiled another pink toy from that company and the water turned red and now I'm afraid to use mine.
>>72822The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.
No. 73144
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>>73141Speaking of which, I fucking love glass dildos and plugs. I've never actually tried any on myself as of now (only on my bf, according to him it feels good tho) but I love the look of them, I'd love to have a collection eventually.
No. 73148
>>73141Glass can be colored unsafely, retard. If it's glazed or painted and improperly sealed instead of the dye being integrated into the glass, it can flake off or leech out into the body, and companies that lazy will use the cheapest, most dangerous dyes to do it. Even glass with no dye can contain lead or cadmium if it's low quality.
There's no real way to tell if a cheap glass toy is going to give you cunt cancer, just throw it out and buy a better one next time.
No. 73197
>>73148lead glass is extremely rare in cheap toys because it's expensive and fragile
also take a look at
http://dangerouslilly.com/2016/05/glass-sex-toy-safety/ No. 73226
>>73134Yes i contract and it feels good. My clitoris jumps while it is happe ing as well
>>73166I get wet after normally
No. 73282
>>73180No, it's not. If this is new, see a doctor about it, as something could be wrong.
>>73226That is an orgasm. If you find it underwhelming, know that not all orgasms are created equally. Among other things, the amount of build-up prior to orgasm can make an orgasm better or more mediocre. If it seems like it's not as good as you'd like, try letting it build up for a longer period of time. This can take a while to figure out, so it's good to be patient with yourself.
>>73273Is there only pain when it's an intense orgasm? Try masturbating the way you used to and see if the pain is still there. If so, something might be wrong. If not, it could be that the better orgasm comes with a harsher refractory period. Is your clitoris sensitive to the touch during and after orgasm, or does the pain persist even if you stop touching it?
No. 73289
>>73282No, now the pain always happens, no matter how I masturbate. Clitoris is sensitive, "responsive", it doesn't hurt after, only with an orgasm. It's like someone pinched, held, and released when the orgasm is gone.
Maybe I hurt it somehow? I'm never "brutal" though
No. 73755
>>49067Is that it? Was there any difference because that's fucking small. I noticed his belly more than his stubby thumb of a dick. I'd feel so emasculated and embarrassed if I were him recording That. Everyone now knows how small of a dick you have. Congratulations, that thing wouldn't even tickle the vaginal lips.
No wonder there's a thread dedicated to dildos on lolcow rather than mens' dick. The only one who thinks their dick is big is the man whom it's attached to.
No. 74041
>>74006>>74014I have that too althought it's not too bad so it doesn't hurt too much.
I have no advice except avoiding vaginal sex I guess… At least I know how it's called now so thanks.
But if it's really painful maybe you can get surgery on it.
No. 74104
>>65482It's good to take your time, especially if you're anxious or nervous in any way. My hymen was either really thick or my bf is big (he's pretty big) so it took us a while to get to PIV sex. We would try, get frustrated and go back to oral which was basically all we did this whole fall and winter. His parents were away so I was staying over, and we were on the bathroom floor next to the tub (we had just taken a bath) and finally I was just like fuck it, go for it, this is taking forever and I'm not waiting anymore, lol. It felt a little bit like being reamed out with a broom handle even though I was super wet and we had lots of lube, but it got significantly better right after that, so much so that I got a bad case of what they used to call honeymoon cystitis, i.e. a uti brought on by a lot of newbie fucking in a short span of time. Now I fuck constantly and it's great. All the oral we did while we couldn't actually have sex is a nice thing to fall back on, he's super good at it and I love sucking cock.
As for vibrators, I bought myself a Hitachi and it's worth it. I heard that after a while of using vibrators your clit can become insensitive tho, so I'm paranoid about using it too often even though I love it. Anyone have any idea if that's true or not?
No. 74174
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Like
>>73141Said, it’s glass and it’s part of Icicles by Pipedream. I had this toy and it’s nice, but they have another tentacle-looking dildo that’s slimmer, ribbed, smooth and longer (pic). The “suction cups” on OP were kind of bumpy and annoying to me, I preferred the G spot stimulation of the long pink tentacle.
No. 74175
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>>74037Try the Eroscillator (+ Soft Finger tip, pictured). It’s nice and gentle and honed-in to one spot instead of the massive head of a Magic Wand or Hitachi. It’s a great rec for vibe beginners . I’ve tried a few vibes and it is by far my favorite, the only downside is it’s fucking expensive.
No. 74179
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Sorry for samefagging but I’m
>>74174 and I read up on some DangerousLilly stuff and…yeah. Forget I recommended that to you.
No. 74191
>>74187The risk of buying a counterfeited item made with toxic materials.
It's ok if you're buying from a brand shop but you have to be aware that a lot of imitations are sold on Amazon (an you don't want to put an imitation Hitachi or Lelo in your precious couchie)
No. 74954
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jesus
fucking
christ
i need it
No. 75020
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>>74954wtf thanks for sharing this. it's too good. led me to these bullet vibes that are like $16 on amazon with surprisingly good reviews. i think i'm just gonna do it. my favorite vibe isn't dead but it's getting a little sketchy so m-might as well get a backup right?
torn between devil ho and snake ho
No. 75197
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I want to buy my first toy. What is better - a dildo or a vibrator? A dildo appeals to me because it's more like a dick, and fantasizing is important in my play, but at the same time vib can give you more pleasure and you can use it as a dildo, yes? Or is a dildo superior with internal penetration?
No. 75344
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Seeing the Tokidoki ones on here made me buy this cheaper, smaller vibe to start as my first sex toy. It's adorable and has a lot of power for being only like $8. Can't wait to try it.
No. 75480
>>75468Fingering used to make me kind of squeamish too anon, you should get a small dildo to start with, and then you'll get more comfortable with insertion over time. Play some music you like and make sure you're relaxed, and enjoy yourself most of all. Try focusing on clitoral stimulation until you're loosened up a bit.
(A hairbrush handle also works if you don't want to buy a toy, but make sure there are no sharp edges)
No. 75613
>>75468i literally fucking love anal
for me sex is equally great-feeling in different ways both PIV and anal
but when getting off by myself anal is better (or I fancy DP sometimes lel)
No. 75623
>>75549I've done this a lot but always put a condom on whatever it is I'm using lol
But if you're a virgin, I recommend using your fingers. You'll want to feel both the pleasure from the penetration and "where you're going" with your fingers to make sure you don't hurt yourself.
>>75468Like
>>75613 I really like anal and DP as well, I have a small butt plug that is a godsent, I stick it in then finger myself. As much as people here like to say there's no anal pleasure without a prostate, I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazing.
No. 75686
>>75623>I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazingThis! thank you. i'm sure it's a different feeling from prostate pleasure and maybe not as intense, but if you get past the pain and are into the concept, it can be a lot of fun for that reason. it's just definitely not for everyone.
also i swear if i have at least a plug in during vaginal penetration or clit stimulation, it can make the feeling in my vagina and clit even more intense
No. 76111
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So, after months of bitching at my workaholic boyfriend about how little time we spend together (and therefore the lack of sex), I bought my first ever toy. Pic related - the Lelo Iris. Gone will be me angsting when my bf isn't around! Gone will be me angsting when he spends the night and falls asleep before fucking me!
It's a beautiful toy. I bought it because Lelo's products always look nice and unintimidating for a n00b like me. The varying pulses seem good for starting out soft and working up. I like the textured design as I'm a girl who doesn't like clitoral stimulation but adores penetration.
The soft pink colour is very attractive and the toy is quite smooth. It came with a packet of water-based lube but I also purchased a small bottle for later use.
I'm quite excited to try it out and glad that instead of being horny all the time I'll be able to start getting myself off - whenever I so please!
No. 82532
>>73116>The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.I was
>>72822 and while the toy works for me for one orgasm, I can't get two with it. Normally I can have at least 3. It's not a bad toy per se, but it's not universally great, either.
No. 82543
>>77313omg it makes me rage inside when people say that. like yeah if you fall in love with a person the way they look doesn't always matter, but that also applies to men and it certainly doesn't mean we don't care about looks when we're just trying to fap. it's just a shitty excuse made by presumptuous men who don't listen to women telling us what we like and don't like.
nothing turns me on more than hot guys who are my type and aren't afraid to objectify themselves to impress women honestly. like you said, it's so rare to find this that many of us don't even realize that's what we were missing and buy the line that women's attraction to men must "not be visual."
I wish I had reccs but in my case it wasn't a porno that gave me this realization it was
danzig and type o negative music videos from the 90s ha
No. 82600
>>48662have the toy in ops pic and i really like it
its a lot of fun especially if you like tentacle stuff would recommend also its super cute
No. 82601
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I cannot recommend the Lelo smart wand more, it’s amazing and well worth the price, has a setting that changes the speed with the pressure you use!
No. 83874
>>83847I've read that peeled cucumber is fine with no condoms, actually, and is good for your vag.
https://www.ohackers.com/article/put-peeled-cucumber-vagina/I read it from a different source, but here's one that I found with a technique she uses included.
No. 83991
>>83960get in a place you can relax. Maybe try foria’s Hemp lube
https://www.foriawellness.com/products/foria-awaken?variant=33410676675And experiment. Don’t force anything. You need to be comfortable.
When I was having issues with pain it was just because I was uncomfortable. It helped me to get a little tipsy so I wasn’t really bothered with anything. I stopped associating it with pain and everything’s fine for me now.
No. 90353
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I just got one of these babies, and maybe I'm just inexperienced (this is my first vibrator that's not an electric toothbrush) but it is blowing my mind. The vibrations are powerful but not overwhelming, the size is reasonable (it hurts a little going in for me, and I am a very tight virgin), and it's very easy to clean. Also the price was pretty reasonable for the quality.
If you have trouble coming from clitoral stimulation, I would really recommend a rabbit-type like this one.
https://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/waterproof-silicone-big-g No. 92883
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I do this thing where i lay on my side and just squeeze my upper thighs together and can come in a few minutes, handsfree. I don't know if it is a real orgasm though because I've never had one during sex.
Whenever I mention the thigh thing people think it's really weird, I've only found one other girl who can do it.
Rubbing my clit is OK but it gets a little boring and I can never finish that way, same with fingering.
If any of you guys also use the thigh technique please let me know I feel like a weirdo.
No. 92884
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>>92883dude!!! i used to do that all the time before i had a vibrator because i kinda hate using my hands. i couldn't believe it "worked" and it felt like some sort of life hack. it's definitely not as pleasurable and full bodied as a regular orgasm but it's satisfying enough so i usually did it when i was distractingly horny and just wanted some relief.
i forgot about it for a while after i got my vibrator but i tried it recently and it still works.
evidently we aren't the only ones so why tf do we never hear about it?
No. 92904
>>92884Thank you!! I'm glad there's more of us lol
I wonder why some girls can do it and others can't. Maybe it's because of stronger thigh muscles or narrow hips?
No. 92946
>>92921nah I do it and I know a girl who does it too, she actually gave me an idea lol.
For me, I just sometimes do it while peeing (the more you need to pee, the better). I think of some quick fantasy and release the muscles, but before the pee gets out I tighten them and hold and achieve the pressure you're talking about. It's not quite like an orgasm for me, more like… very intense butterflies. It's definitely pleasurable, but I don't get off on it
No. 93085
>>93062that's the way i learned to masturbate too and it was the only way i ever got off until i went to uni. there i was forced to resort to my fingers due to the shitty hall showers lol. it took like 30 minutes and felt very underwhelming and hopeless the first few times but on like 5th attempt it started to get good and take less time. maybe just try to keep at it?? good luck!
altho stream of water is still my preffered method, warm water just feels so nice esp when on period.
No. 98134
>>98133Try reading erotica. Literotica.com, subreddits where people write their fantasies, fanfic, novels, etc
Or you could try audio porn. gonewildaudio, literotica's audio section, sexy audio threads from /soc/
No. 98148
>>98135this
with a good vibrator you genuinely dont have to think about anything
experiment with different ones, different positions etc and you should be good soon enough
No. 98425
>>98133I never watched porn or got off to porn, but I see a lot of "it's boring" from people who have quit. I probably won't ever really understand, but fantasizing is pretty easy and works well for me. Your brain might be wired for external stimulus from all those years and you probably haven't used the neuron groups associated with fantasizing to the point of having to reteach yourself.
Learn how to use your imagination again. You also don't have to fap all the time, either. Give your body a break. Fap when the feeling is upon you, and don't mirror the same habits you used when watching porn. Get used to interacting with your body, not just your clit, and familiarize yourself with how those sensations feel with the absence of an external stimulus overloading your brain.
Hope that helps, at least a bit.
No. 98810
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>>98789Yeah, mainly because I'm physically my type when it comes to women. Not conventionally 10/10 or anything, but I'd be dtf myself.
I also dabble in visual arts and mainly depict women with a similar build. I admit that's bordering on being a narc, but I also realize others wouldn't like my body so I'm actually very insecure in public.
No. 99002
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Can someone give me advice please?
>can't get off by my own fingers anymore, even after trashing my vibrators
>can only get aroused to extreme fantasy
>don't look at porn, however i do think about sex all day
I've tried nofap and it doesn't fix my inability to cum by hand. I get more and more frustrated until I eventually have a wet dream.
No. 99032
>>99002have you started a relatively new (as in the last year) birth control or medication?
i started taking orsithia in 2017 and completely lost my sex drive
even after not being on it since march of this year, i still havent gotten it back and have no desire to masturbate at all, and when i try im just numb basically and the orgasms, if i can have them, are basically nothing in intensity and really not worth the time
No. 105111
>>105090Try going off of the shower head for a while, then use rapid motions with your hands maybe? That's the motion that gets me off the most.
Regardless becoming accustomed to vibrations will just make it even more difficult in the long run. From what I've heard it's basically death grip for women lol.
No. 109296
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Anyone here tried a Louviva? I want to buy this one but I want to read honest reviews first.
No. 109302
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>>109296Their website looks like if someone was having an orgasm while making it
No. 111160
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i'm about to drop 1,300 bucks on a fucking sybian
No. 111163
>>111161sliquid slippery stuff isn't oily and is more gooey, but it's a bit watery and i find i'll need to reapply. it's my go-to, though
if you're really looking for that nasty, creamy lube tho, maybe check out the cum lube from bad dragon. i have no experience with it, but from what i've heard, it's thick
No. 111206
>>111190Nah it's more like a washing machine that you don't have to put your sneakers in.
Some of the heads don't even penetrate from what I've seen.
No. 111208
>>111183it's gonna be here on monday. i'm beyond excited, and still a little woozy from dropping that much cash. it'll be my most expensive sex toy, but cumulatively, i've spent more than 1300 on all the varying toys i've gathered through the years.
>>111206it's likely THE most powerful personal vibrator on the market right now. it does more that vibrate tho, some of the attachments rotate (like someone swirling their finger around inside you, but at 6000+ rpm lmao)
No. 111516
>>111495OK, i've used it a few times now, but it's pretty unwieldy and i'm still getting used positioning it best for my body. this thing is heavy, huge, and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.
once i can relax into it though, holy shit - my vision blurs and my legs turn to jelly. this machine has taken me to new heights.
but, no matter how good an orgasm i get from this thing, there's gonna be a little voice in my head afterwards saying "yea, but was it a 1300 dollar orgasm?" to which the answer is always gonna be "no"
i can't say i'd recommend buying it, but if you ever find yourself in the room with it, i really urge you to sit on it.
No. 111518
>>111516>and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.Oh my. They should fix that on something so expensive.
Can you tell us more about how it works?
No. 111658
I had antibiotic treatment (sorry don't know what it's called in English) few weeks ago and my pussy has been acting out since then. My labia is painfully dry and masturbating is way less satisfying. I hate having to use lube.
>>111160Does anyone know if there's more affordable options with same idea? I know Sybian is a legend but I simply can't spend 1,300 bucks on sex toy.
Maybe when I'm old rich domme with a personal sex dungeon but not as a student.
No. 111661
>>111658Actually, antibiotics in itself shouldn’t affect your hormone levels. However, since it does affect your intestinal bacteria and enteric flora, and the health of your intestines does affect hormone levels, there might be a correlation.
Maybe read up on how to rehabilitate your intestines after taking antibiotics. Probiotics can be helpful.
Other than that… are you sure it‘s from the antibiotics? What did you get them for? Can you rule out a yeast infection (although idk how that would affect your libido)?
No. 111816
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Anons, I would like to find a good toy for beginners. Thing is, that i feel alot more pleasure when it comes to clitorious so it would be good to find some good vibrator…?
I really want to try out Lush / Lush 2 because the controlling idea sounds quite exciting to me. Anyone had experience with this one? Would you recommend it?
No. 112076
>>111816My bf bought this for me (without consulting me first so I couldn't veto it). It has known issues with connecting to your phone via blue tooth, which we observed. also, to charge it you have to pierce the silicone to get the cord in and that isn't hygienic at all. Germs will accumulate there over time in a part of the toy that will go inside your body.
I don't recommend it at all.
No. 112240
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I bought one of these “no touch” vibrators and it’s blown my mind. I need pretty strong vibrations to get off, but this one uses a really gentle suction and it feels like someone’s eating you out. I can usually only get off once in a sitting but this gets me twice every time. 12/10 and not very expensive, I think amazon has one type
No. 113920
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>>112240I have one of those and didn’t like it. I’m not huge fan of receiving oral sex, though.
Where do you guys find female-gazey porn/pics? To be honest I miss tumblr for it’s porn. Especially gifs because there is room for imagination.
No. 113923
>>113920I don't know what I expected to see but that picture wasn't it
But seconded, I feel like the destruction of spaces where you can express your sexuality contextualised within normal personal posts or share "soft" porn, like instagram and Tumblr, will lead to our options being either an underwear catalog or hard-core painal gangbangs on pornhub
No. 113943
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>>113920This. I want to enter an address into a browser and not see an ad for incest or fidget spinner buttplug porns thrown in my face, I miss tumblr for that.
Pic unrelated
No. 114413
>>114412Thanks for being the devil on my shoulder
nonnie, I'm always so tempted but i only want to blow the money if its gonna practically vibrate me out of my skin
No. 114446
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Not to blogpost but my mother recently found my dildo. I was embarrassed and all but it pissed me off when she told my father over the phone about it and they are DIVORCED! for 11 years! For what purpose???
No. 114457
>>114454I only fap late at night when my mom's already asleep.
She understands people have needs.
No. 114477
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>>114463Escalate. Next time she comes over, have something even more dramatic for her to find.
On a serious note, remember that it's totally fine and okay, and your mother had no right to look through your things.
No. 114599
>>114446Breaking news for your mother: you are grown woman. It’s her own fault that she was digging your stuff.
I mean, it’s not sex dungeon in your hidden basement.
When I found lube in my parent’s bath room I was happy that they are having sex=not divorcing more likely.
No. 115745
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visiting home and omg I forgot how much I love the water pressure here. I can come easily and good with fingers but the showerhead is like a whole nother level. just had a cheeky lil sesh and my legs are still shaking lmao (and I have toweled off, lotioned up and made this OC since then)
No. 115797
>>115782og anon, idk I think it depends? I used to masturbate exclusively with a showerhead from ages 9-18, then I had to switch to fingers (bc mounted showerhead in new place) and it took me like two weeks or so to adjust to that (but then again, I had never done it with fingers so there was def a learning curve included). however, ever since I did figure out how to get off with fingers I have had no problem switching around whenever. nothing will
ever beat period and showerhead combo though!
No. 115843
>>115837h-h-how do you think you can insert
a showerhead up your vagina?
by off chance you're not trolling, you stimulate your clit with both of the methods, in case of showerhead by pointing the water to it either like it is or by removing the showerhead so it's just the stream; in case of toothbrush by pressing the backside of the brush to the clit.
idk about that regret thing, I only feel like that when I've used "unconventional" things for it, have never used a pritt stick tho kek. the shame of grinding on a highlighter like some sort of retarded primate in heat you know
No. 116019
>>115837>love-buttonYou can say clitoris. It's okay.
Also, try buying a real dildo so you don't feel so weird about it.
No. 116240
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can anyone rec some gay male porn with really nice moaning? that gets me off like no other, but a lot of times if you specifically search for it you'll get a lot of fake pornstar-y noises. i prefer amateur.
No. 116253
>>116224Can't really compare it, I don't particularly like or use vibrators and have also never used a hitachi and the satisfyer isn't a vibrator (although they do have models with vibration), it uses what they call pressure wave stimulation iirk. Some people compare the sensation to oral so imagine someone sucking on your clit over and over and over again. I ended up using it again that same night within like 10 mins and I couldn't even get past the 4th setting level (it has 11) without feeling like I was gonna lose my mind and it definitely gives amazing orgasms. I'd have to be home alone with a pillow over my face to ever be able to use it at the higher settings because shit gets INTENSE and there's no way I'd be able to stay quiet.
There is a learning curve to figuring out how to work it and position it the right way but I'm excited to use it again. Its worth looking into if it piques your interest though!
No. 116410
>>116224I've tried both. The Satisfyer is subtle good for a few orgasms, It's not really suitable for partnered activities. You just kind of hold it still. The Hitachi is not subtle. It's good for use with a partner and they can get it to work by putting it in the general direction of your clitoris. It's best to move it around or the vibrations can numb you out for a few minutes. You can pretty much keep going with orgasms for 20 minutes (when it needs to be turned off to cool down) if that's what you want to do.
One thing to note is that the Satisfyer doesn't have the largest "nozzle" so it might be a little bit difficult to get situated, depending on your anatomy.
No. 116414
>>116222I think it overall depends on the person and their anatomy but hard agree. I used to struggle to get off once per day even though I was aroused, with that bad boy I can finish AT LEAST once a day, sometimes twice which is impossible with a regular vibe for me.
I do think when I place it wrong it doesn’t feel the best, and I also don’t like the feeling of penetration with it going, dildo or fingers or anything. Usually I do a bullet vib + dildo combo but with the satisfier (I think I have an offnbrand one) I can go from unaroused to orgasm in less than 10 min
No. 117430
>>117406How was it and can you link?
I have a rabbit type that has a hard ridge at the head so it just sits stuck in you, it works well but I want something that is easy to move in and out.
No. 117825
>>117805It's really weird, I think maybe it just feels too good so I end up overstimulating myself out of lack of self-control. Somehow I've never gotten oversensitive after my bf rubs me, maybe I'll ask him to try it with me.
Do you just orgasm and keep going without stopping at all? At the same intensity?
No. 117873
>>117646Can’t say what it’s
supposed to be like, if there’s such thing, but to me it usually feels good the entire time.
Sometimes, when I’m only slightly horny but not really in the mood it’s a bit like you’re describing it, but I’ll also need a lot more pressure/vibration to come in general, so idk.
No. 118800
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I have nowhere else to share this for…obvious reasons, but, I masturbated for the first time!(I'm 20 btw) Like properly, I've done pillow humping like once or twice but it did not compare to what I tried last night. I got one of those magic wand vibe things. I accidently switched it to the highest setting first on accident though and that was…not pleasant lol. Though using the lower setting I think I almost had an orgasm? Maybe? My stomach muscles started like moving on their own and my head felt all light. But just as I thought I got 'there' it was too much and I had to stop myself. Is this normal? Do I need to just force myself to keep going or get a vibe with a lower setting? I'm going to try again tonight though, regardless.
No. 118843
>>118800>it was too muchSounds like you got right to the edge and stopped before you orgasmed. Try to keep going next time, you'll
definitely know when it hits.
No. 118847
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>>118800Keep the vibe on that low gentle setting, you're comfortable with. You'll cum.
No. 119001
>>118991I've seen a few videos where the orgasm liquid that comes out is stringy and thick
would that be as close to squirting/cumming as girls get or would that just be because of some untreated infection?
No. 119164
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I bought my first dildo/vibe. It'll be here in a week. Kinda fell in love with this one because it's sleek and doesn't come in a gaudy neon color. I spent quite a bit because the cheaper ones on amazon have mixed reviews of either being wonderful or straight up not charging out of the box. I didn't want to take the chance.
No. 119186
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Slightly off topic, but I was looking at vibes and saw this in the reviews and I can't stop fucking laughing.
No. 119207
>>111816Late to the party, but just incase it's useful:
My bf bought the Lush 2 after checking with me to see if I was into it. It's a great toy, with powerful vibrations. The silicone is a lovely texture and it feels well-made. It's well-balanced and easily stays in while walking around. I'd recommend it, but not for you. The top part doesn't vibrate at all; it's just an antenna and on/off button. It's a really nice toy, but it really only does g-spot and other internal stimulation.
No. 119434
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If you guys ever wanted to get fisted by Thanos, there's a dildo for it
No. 119439
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>>119437It's about the size of a small woman's fist. You'd be surprised how many people buy this sort of thing. On amazon, they sell massive butt plugs that are meant more as a novelty, but there are gay men in the reviews who actually used them.
No. 119440
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>>119437>>119439Pic related is said "butt plug"
No. 119768
>>119754How big is it and is it soft? I have a rabbit but would like a more flexible version.
>>119586A sign of being very healthy, it's just the little death.
No. 121244
>>121235I'm 30 and I rarely go a day without my solo-time. Been like that since my teens and have only ever noticed a decrease when I struggled with depression or took meds for that
If it's not interfering with relationships or taking up too much time I would see it as healthy
No. 121253
>>121235If there's a too often, is there a not often enough? I do it about once a week, maybe even less than that, but every other month I go through a phase for like a week where I do it every day and sometimes twice.
I don't think there is a definite "normal" but more of a "what's normal for you" kind of thing, but I don't know.
No. 121291
>>121253There's definitely no reason to think that you should be masturbating more
You shouldn't stop yourself if you feel the need/want to (assuming you're in private at home), but not masturbating more isn't really an issue
No. 121684
>>121677Sounds like you're bi and like the majority of couples, lose that initial horny spark that can be short or long lived.
Sounds like you just trust your toys more.
No. 121692
>>121684yeah I've been stuck between thinking I'm bi because in terms of porn or looking at people I go both ways but then If I'm honest I don't want any contact with a person, it's more just visually appreciating someone.
I've had sex in relationships cos it felt like an expectation and one relationship I had for 4 years he never pushed it so we never had sex once.
I'm at a point where no matter what my label technically is I need to probably only date asexuals because I don't want to repeat having sex out of 'duty'
No. 121802
>>121799Sites like eBay and Amazon have alot of cheap knockoffs of branded toys or unsafe toy materials from China etc. A site like lovehoney would be better. Lots of product reviews on site and a plain brown box for packaging
The return address on their parcels is usually 'LH Trading' too so even that is discreet
My advice would be to to stick to safe materials like silicone and get something rechargeable if you want power
No. 121818
>>121799I buy from Eden Fantasy's it always ships in a plain brown box and doesn't say anything explicit on the billing statement.
They always seem to be having sales too.
No. 122137
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I'm someone who is hunting for toys with a more organic feel. I bought this one that is meant to feel a bit like oral sex. It's pretty nice but it's sides are not as soft as they should be and uncomfortable. Why can't sex toy companies make something that is comfortable and soft and still firm enough for stimulation?
No. 122193
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>>122137I have the Eroscillator and the "marshmallow" tip is honestly the best. I wasted money getting the other 3 attachments because this one is so perfect and squishy.
No. 122212
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>>122193Seems nice. I have also wanted to try one of Tenga Iroha's squishy products, anyone tried them?
No. 122232
>>121692If it makes you feel better anon, I relate to all of this in my own way. I've been attracted to both men and women, although the sexual "spark" is rare and I don't really have a drive to act on it, and I don't feel much downstairs anyway. Romantically, I love both sexes, but because sex seems like an obligation, and the other person loses interest eventually anyway, I've just given up on relationships entirely. If I ever meet an asexual person, where sex is rare and only when both of us really want it, or not at all, that'd be perfect, but I'm not going out of my way to look for it anymore.
No. 122268
>>122217It can't be made of silicone if it has a smell, no silicone toy will have a smell
Rubber/TPE/TPR all have smells and are all porous materials that don't ever wash completely because of this porous quality
No. 122273
>>122268>porous materialsReminder to everyone ITT to stay the fuck away from porous materials like jelly toys. They aren't safe to use.
http://dangerouslilly.com/2010/10/yes-jelly-sex-toys-can-be-dangerous/Stay safe, fapping farmers.
No. 122277
>>122273Oh wow Dangerous Lilly has been the lil lolcow of sex toy reviewing blogs for about a decade, she's always been into bitchy subtweeting other smaller reviewers and chased a few away from doing what they enjoyed. She never shuts up about her manic episodes and the worlds 'fatphobia' towards her. Takes turns between bullying people and having personal crises
Do stick to safe materials like medical grade silicone though, or glass. Half the sex toys out there are made of materials that have no place going inside a body
No. 122278
>>122277Ooh, is there a thread about her?
I just noticed and copied this link from earlier in this thread. It's message is important to repeat. I had no idea that jelly toys were dangerous, myself.
No. 122280
>>122278The sex toy reviewing community is full of lil lolcows, super woke people that have daily tweets about all the transphobia and fatphobia that they are assaulted with everywhere they go.. that and they're constantly losing their day jobs and setting up gofundmes claiming they face homelessness..high rates of mental illness, always the
victim etc..none of them have enough of a following to get onto here though
I think most of us sadly start out with a jelly toy cos the the translucent look (and the price) appeals. I've had jelly toys literally melt and stick to each other before I switched to all silicone
No. 122281
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>>122277A bit OT I found her twitter. She will never lose weight because she gets injured, gals.
No. 123142
>>123129Yeah that’s normal for some. I‘ve never had one of those and am pretty sure it’s sadly just not a thing that my body does.
But yeah, heard a few women describe things like that.
No. 123247
>>123164Yeah lovehoney is good, they still sell a few jelly and rubber toys which I hate to see but have higher ratios of safe material toys compared to many sites.
I'd love to see a day when jelly toys are banned for being a health risk, prob won't happen though
No. 123251
>>123164>toy cleanerIs it bad for you or just unnecessary?
>>123247All that shit should be banned at least from websites who don't want to give their costumers vag cancer or whatever. There is so much talks bout the harms of chemicals in plastic and beauty products these days so there should be more spotlight on stuff like this that people actually put inside their bodies.
No. 123715
>>118991i know this is like 2 months old, but wtf, I do produce a sticky-like mucus substance that its clear and has no color, kinda like egg white, like
>>119204 describes but wtf, does that come out from your urethra??? I'd swear it comes out of my vagina instead. And apart from that, there is the usual quantity of pussy juice my vaggo produces when it's aroused oc. Also it doesn't feel like I "squirt it out".
Idk, more opinions on this?? I don't think that's squirting at all but kek, I'm curious on other people's experiences. I always assumed that was what comes out of all vaginas when you come.
No. 125121
>>125116Always go by the insertable length when buying toys, decent sites will always make an effort to give accurate measurements like that
Most toys have either a flared base or realistic toys have (ugly ass) fake balls so when a toy claims to be 8 inches on the packaging it can really be 6. I usually buy from a site called lovehoney and they list all measurements quite thoroughly cos the companies manufacturing toys often don't bother or they exaggerate
No. 125146
>>125116Comparing the picture on the site to a measure?
Because depending on the scale of your monitor and other settings it's not real life accurate.
No. 125309
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Here's a review of pic related. I got this years ago and although I adore how it looks, I realize that I'm not very compatible with this toy. It's got 5.5 inches of insertable length, but I can never fully push it all the way inside. I usually make it like half way through the second "bulb" before it's uncomfortable to try to push farther and I stop. That being said, I have had really good sex with a partner who I'm sure is more than 5.5 inches, so this puzzles me. Although I can use this toy to get off, it makes for an awkward position when half of this stiff heavy thing is sticking out of me and needs to be supported. If you like glass and length and you want this, I got it from shevibe (but I'm sure it's sold for cheaper somewhere else).
No. 125479
>>125476I discovered toys before losing mine too. I've had plenty of sexual partners since then but I could happily go the rest of my life without having PIV sex again
As long as I have a dildo I'm good
No. 125568
>>125538have you seen yourbrainonporn.com? I've seen it recommended here before. it might help with tips with how to deprogram.
could you look into other ways to get turned on? I listen to audios on r/gonewildaudio. I like them because it allows me to use my imagination and there are so many to choose from. my favourites audios are from r/HanksHouseOfIllRepute if you wanted a recommendation. might not be the one for you but there are so many users on GWA. you could also try reading erotic stories. good stories are hard to come by but there's always literotica. I find fanfic to be the best kind though haha.
I hope you manage to get turned on by less fucked up things, wishing you luck anon!
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I bought a rabbit vibe at 21 and the first time I used it, I kind of 'stretched myself out' for want of a better word. it was uncomfortable but not painful. I have no idea if I had a hymen but I think if I did this is when it was stretched. years later I got a bigger toy, this time a dildo and again with first time use I felt a stretch/tear but now I use with without discomfort.
I've mentioned this online before and someone asked why I would do that instead of waiting for a man to 'stretch me' out. but I see it as a good thing? it feels like one less thing to worry about once I do have sex for the first time.
did anyone else here use dildos before sex? or use dildos as a virgin?
No. 126940
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when I was a young teenager before I ever got any toys I used to use the handle of a hairbrush as a kind of makeshift dildo. it had a strange handle that was kind of like a shoehorn (pic related) and used to hit my gspot perfectly (though I didn't know that was what was happening at the time). I've never been able to find a sex toy with a similar shape. I've searched and there is nothing. I wish I had that old hairbrush back (lmao) but I threw it away long ago. that shit was better than any expensive dildo I've tried since. sigh
No. 127662
>>127659I think it's completely normal.
I like to masturbate and fantasize, but the thought of having sex with someone else just grosses me out.
No. 127869
>>127771I love the feeling of having something inside me as well and I sometimes use dildos or vibrators. But I genuinely can’t move them or I won’t be able to get off. So it’s more like a vag-plug.
I mean, it works this way for masturbation, I guess, but it sucks for actual PIV sex. And I would also like to actually mimic some sort of thrusting and still feel something. It’s just frustrating.
I also feel like the orgasms tend to be way less intense when I insert something very early on instead of when I’m already super close.
I don’t know. I feel like my vagina is super weird because of it.
No. 129398
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I just ordered a satisfyer pro 2 and I really hope it’s as good as people say lol. One of my friends has it and she looooves it, I just want a different kind of stimulation cause my vibrators feel sort of.. repetitive now. Also considering buying one of those toys that has a ‘sucking’ feature because I love when guys suck on me during oral lol
No. 129924
>>129814i meant ring size was 3.25-3.5, not length. your first joint from the tip? or you mean the middle joint? it's absolutely not reachable to me whether or not i'm aroused, by just going in as far as the first joint from the tip, or even to the middle joint. i need to use my whole finger to reach it, and even then, it's not very well stimulated. it appears to vary in how many inches in it is. from what i'm reading, sources seem to say it's either 2-3 inches, or 2.5-3 inches in. i am inclined to believe mine is closer to 2.5-3 inches in, because my finger is bit under 2.5 inches in length and if i really reach in i can reach the beginning of it, but it's nowhere near as stimulated as when using something longer to reach it. it seems to vary, but i definitely cannot reach it from tip to first joint. i can't feel anything there.
No. 130036
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Does anyone actually use those dongs that you can stick on walls and the floor? They seem a bit pointless since there is no vibration, but I'm interested in the hands-free aspect.
No. 130043
>>130026No, but it’s not supposed to! It’s more like a thuddy pressurized feeling? It’s unique and pretty amazing tbh, kind of hard to explain. I’ve been looking at the nu sensuelle trinitii for an actual sucking toy…. so maybe when I buy that, I’ll post about it here too.
>>130036Almost all my dildos have a suction cup because they can fit in a harness… they do make some that vibrate and have the suction cup on them! I think they’re mostly ‘realistic’ looking tho
No. 130051
>>121692Replying to an old post but I know they're probably seeing it anyways,
Why do you think dating an asexual out of all people is the only route to happiness in a relationship for you?
I am not asexual since I don't like those snowflake labels, I would say that most humans to me look disgusting though and I'm not sexually attracted to any of them unless they look exceptionally good, and even then they're actually "meh" to me, I have at most once every three months "sex" and with sex I mean half assed masturbation because I force myself to do it to unasexualize myself since I want to get married.
I'm younger than you and I'm a virgin freak, you're in your 30s too, I'm speculating that at a certain age you just get a sexual deathbed if you had a lot of sex since it gets boring. Maybe take a break from it all (including masturbating) and then see if you like it?
Maybe you're just low drive like most sane people and the people you sleep with are high drive? Most couples I know of do not have more than once a week sex, Idk if that's healthy or goals or not.
Date an ace if you'd be ok with them not finding you sexually attractive tho lol.
No. 130072
>>130043>nu sensuelle trinitii I saw someone describe it as a "small hard alien tongue" which sounds a bit shit. I am interested in the Sqweel 2,
seen mixed reviews about the function but a lot of women saying it actually feels like oral.
No. 130491
>>130074MAD NERVELET DETECTED
>>130064it might depend on the angle you're doing it at, putting a pillow under you might help. lying down and trying to touch it doesn't work but sitting up I can usually hit it.
No. 130496
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i've been tempted to buy this since i saw it go viral a couple of months ago, but i'm a brokefag.
does anyone know if its worth the dosh?
if it im going to save up for it kek
No. 130508
>>130045No that's not safe. Try at least putting a condom over the whole thing.
>>130064If I do it for myself it's useless. When my partner does it, he has better angle and longer fingers so it's great.>>130045
>>130496Amazon is not a great place to buy sex toys, because there are a lot of fakes.
No. 130521
>>130505Takes a while to learn.
Maybe you're part of the small hooded clit gang? if so- I believe in you!
Just rub the top of your vagina (where the clit should be) for 45 minutes and see if the sensation changes any. Use lube or copious amounts of saliva. Good luck!
No. 130634
Me and my partner broke up a few weeks ago. He's the only person I've had sex with, and I feel incredibly attached to him sexually (and romantically, but not the thread for that).
In short, I really miss him.
I've tried masturbating with what used to be my favourite vibrator (we didn't masturbate at all while together, didn't need to, so much sex) twice since we split, both times I end up stopping, crying and just feeling awful. But I also feel this huge sexual frustration that I want to let go of. I feel so stuck.
I don't know if this is the right thread, so I'm sorry if there's a better place for it. I just feel so broken right now, I want to feel good, I want to orgasm. I just want to enjoy my own company and let go. Any suggestions?
No. 130660
>>130654tbh it is god tier as far as masurbating methods go.
>perfectly clean and hygienic before, during and after>total privacy because everyone knows you don't go into the bathroom if the shower is on>no need for lubricant because nothing even touches your body>discrete, doesn't involve hiding toys or feeling awkward purchasing it in the first place>super quick and effective in general as long as the water pressure is goodOnly downside for me is that I'm really fussy with the settings and take a while to get it just right. Also wasting water.
No. 130831
>>130637Oh my god, thank you so much! I didn't think of him once while doing it, squirted twice and had the most amazing orgasm.
I can't believe I managed to finish without having him around!! God bless detachable showerheads!!!
No. 130834
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If you’re really into masturbating in the tub lithos one brand lovability cake out with a toy that basically redirects the water from your faucet so you don’t have to use the shower head. Kinda wanna try it.
No. 130835
>>130831yw anon, glad you could finally come! fuck that poopoohead, showerhead is the new bf.
>>130834kinda whack how they're charging that much for half of a pvc pipe lmao but i see how it could be useful if your bath taps are short and you aren't allowed to change them.
No. 130945
>>130940It's pretty much an invention by males, you found it - it is that spot near the entrance but it's no different than any other part of that area to me.
Women's sexuality and the public (male) opinion of women's sexuality are vastly different beasts.
No. 130959
>>130941OK, first of all, please God, Christ in heaven, never buy any kind of sex toy from eBay or Amazon.
I got mine from Lovehoney, I think they ship internationally.
Here you go:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21487 No. 131417
>>131410Toys are not easy to come by where I live, but I have tried sticking my fingers in. I get a little freaked out because I don't feel like I'm wet enough to handle it. I can only stick in two fingers and not deeply at all. You might be onto something, though, because my orgasms are stronger when my fingers are in…
>>131413Wow anon, a macaron vibrator sounds so adorable! lol I may have to improvise and buy an electric toothbrush. It probably won't be strong enough, but it's something. It could be that using my own fingers is predictable and my brain doesn't let me enjoy the sensations.
I just checked and I think that blog is gone now. I've read r18 doujins but never had the urge to touch myself while reading. I guess I could try that.
Thanks lovely anons!
No. 131454
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After wasting money on 3 different g-spot vibrators I’ve found my personal holy grail.
I first saw it at an online Black Friday sale but it was sold out. The shape and the fact that it’s by satisfyer had me curious since I’m a huge fan of the regular satisfyer pro.
I read a bit into it and watched some reviews. The extra strong vibration at the head really made me want to try it. Eventually my bf got it for me as a belated Christmas gift and - holy shit.
I’m one of those women that won’t come from penetration alone. I do with this 9/10 times though. The vibration is really intense. It’s amazing.
The only ‘downside’ is that it’s quite huge. It’s the only toy I absolutely have to use lube with and after I came it almost hurts a little because of how thick it is.
But either way 10/10 would definitely buy again. It’s honestly my new favorite toy.
No. 131873
>>131722are you aroused? i think the vagina expands or something when you are. just go slow, wait for the pain to still then slowly push further and lay with it in (dont start thrusting like a madman lmao) im assuming youre a virgin so go slow, to get used to it, i was surprised at the physical difference in feeling between my fingers and a toy.
>>131871do you have your own paypal? i mean the biggest issue is probably when it comes to your door, i wanted one since like 12 didnt get one until i was 20 since i was so afraid lmao, i guess it just depends how nosy your parents are and if you can get the package before they do, only get silicone or glass material, none of that pvc or jelly shit that shits poison and not worth the price tag. also youre gonna need somewhere to hide it lmao
No. 131886
>>131875I wish sex toy stores would be a bit better with discretion. Even at 30 and living alone I worry as the mailman is my neighbor and this is a small backwards town. Love ordering toys and having 'MASSAGER' written on the customs declaration…as if the mailman doesn't know exactly what that means lol
I try to use companies that send via courier instead but alot of sites don't even tell you what delivery method they use. I suppose the worry around ordering them never fully goes away. I once had a toy arrive in such a damaged box that the contents were visible
No. 132398
>>132371idk if this helps but i used to be really, really scared of penetration. couldn't even do it myself, i always just grinded on stuff. i wouldn't say i've been sexually abused, but i did have some bad experiences that gave me some hangups about sex/men in general.
when i got with my current bf, i told him i wanted to take it slow, because of my fear of penetration. he was very understanding, and would stop me if he felt i wasn't ready/was pushing myself (since i DID want to, i just couldn't… "let him in" when the time came). i did reach a point where i felt secure enough and was able to relax.
if your bf pushes it after you explain, i'd consider that a red flag. if it's going to happen it needs to be with someone who understands your hesitation, as you need to be able to relax, physically and mentally.
i hope things work out for you, anon. if things don't get better i'd try talking to a therapist or something
No. 132430
>>131925for fucks sake. for the last time. amazon. does. not. test. products. anything that's shipped and sold by amazon isn't tested. it's the same shit from the 3rd party seller, amazon has just bought out the stock wholesale from the seller so they can resell, they do this with many popular items. there are no safety or ingredient checks required in the USA for
anything not covered by the FDA. companies simply do them as a way to avoid lawsuits.
No. 132699
>>132607>>132400honestly a guy should respect your boundaries. you can date someone and care for them without the sex implication, and there's other ways to express sexual desire without going straight to intercourse.
but it's an important aspect to some people, so if it's important to one party but the other party isn't ready for it, then a breakup isn't the worst thing in the world. feeling pressured to do something you're not ready for is, however.
No. 132718
>>132684This happens to me from time to time lol and even though I shouldn't I end up forcing myself to and tbh I end up having pretty nice orgasms in the end but the trip isn't good because as you said, it feels sweaty and gross. Also I waste like 1 or 2 hours I could be sleeping by other means…
>>132706This seems good advice, I think I'll try to do this the next time I'm restless.
No. 132767
>>132764Oh my god, same. Except, not while having sex (because I'm not having any sex) but when I try to masturbate by penetration, I always tear at the entrance or something and bleed and have a scab there for a day. I don't really do much penetration so it's not really a problem for me.
But if your vagina tears at the entrance (maybe at the thin skin near the entrance I forgot what it's called) then I think using loads of lube might help you out.
As for if thr blood comes out from the inside of the vagina then I'm not really sure. I can see how it would be daunting to tell your sexual partners about it.
Hope it works out for you, anon.
No. 132790
>>132764i often get a spot of bright red blood after penetration so i look at my vulva with a hand mirror and it's always a small tear on my perenium in the same spot. if i take a break from penetration and put neosporin on it goes away so I guess it's fine and I just have delicate skin there.
how much are you bleeding usually? more than a small spot when you wipe?
No. 132843
>>132790It's enough blood that it gives the appearance of my period starting. I do think it's period blood too (rather than a tear) because it happens more in the days before my period and it doesn't happen with shallow penetration.
Sucks because the few days before my period are the only time of the month that my sex drive actually kicks in.
No. 132971
>>132843Same anon, got a new toy over the weekend. My period ended a few days ago but every time I use the toy I bleed as if I'm still on it. Only for it to immediately stop afterwards.
I'm getting really fed up. I've already stayed away from sex for 18 months because of this, now even masturbation seems gross and not worth the mess. I'm about to give up on penetration full stop.
No. 132994
>>132976I've had scans and smear tests done and doc says I'm fine. It's been happening for 5 years and I've chased it up multiple times only to meet a dead end where no cause is being found.
I did have precancer cells on my cervix at one point but my last two smear tests were fine.
No. 133090
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>>133079the obvious answer though is she sends you the money for the toy and you send it to her in a different box. if shes STILL worried about her parents finding out (why do they care so much, how old is this girl?) you can mail it to her friends house or legit just ask the local post office to hold it for her and she can pick it up. again again, her taking out cash and visiting a physical sex shop also makes sense and leaves zero trail. Yet here I am again, with ANOTHER option that may surprise you, there are electric dog nail filers that have a large guard around the file that vibrate IMMENSELY, to the great joy of my young dog owning self growing up. if anyone asks questions she can say she wanted to try it on a friends dog or her own nails for lols, nobodys gonna look too deep.
No. 133109
>>133079 > her parents are nosy, snoop on her credit card history etcWhy should parents care if their adult daughter masturbates? Are they going to kill her for masturbating?
My dad would go through my stuff as an adult and tbh I just collected sex toys in a drawer and I know full well he probably found them at some point. If anything that should help send the message that adults deserve some privacy
No. 133121
>>133113I mean my dad would've beat the shit out of me if I was having sex in his house at 18/19 too. He kicked my brother out for that exact reason.
But what'd be the logic behind objecting to someone masturbating?
No. 133125
>>133079She's using the bristle side? You're supposed to take bristles off or use the back of the brush part so the bristles face outwards.
I highly recommend a detachable shower head. Usually there will be different water pressure settings that are good for masturbating but also for getting every part of you really clean or blasting away any aches and pains with hot water. Showering without one just is not the same. Everyone should have a detachable shower head. They're pretty inexpensive as well and I doubt parents will think anything of it.
No. 133158
>>133121>>133109it's the confrontation, her parents dont seem like nut jobs that would get bent out of shape over their daughter masturbating, and ive suggested pretty much everything already brought up before and then some to her.
ive walked out of Spencer's with vibrators in my purse before, my parents have straight up found my dildo by accident and they dont care, neither do i, and I'm usually an anxious mess; i guess it just goes to show that it's really not that hard to pull off.
oh well, it might not be as bothersome as she's described if shes still not willing to take at least some risk to get herself something actually meant to be used as a vibe. i would just take her to an adult shop and get her one, but yknow. LDR
No. 133937
>>133936Thank you so much anon, I really needed to read this, and I'm glad that I'm not alone… I just feel really frustrated with my self! Since I dropped the birth control, I feel like I'm often horny, and I don't wanna hook up with some random dude, so I try to masturbate to satisfy my needs but… well, I just end up being bored and frustrated because I can't manage to take care of myself lol.
I have never tried sex toys, I think I might get a vibrator for starters maybe? Doesn't it make too much noise? Thank you again for your answers, and sorry for venting like this
No. 133992
>>133927all i can say is: get yourself a shower head with an adjustable stream. take a bath. enjoy.
i had the same ''problem'' as you and my shower head showed me the promised land on a rainy afternoon
No. 134089
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I bought pic related (We-Vibe rave) as my first internal vibrator, hoping not to have to buy another. But I really dislike it - The shape feels really odd and too big to me, and I'm not sure if I have a G-spot but if I do I think it's a little further in (as I keep wanting to push it in further than it goes).
What can I buy to see if I can explore myself inside a little more? I'm thinking of a dildo or one of fun factory's thrusters/pulsators (because that sensation is really pleasuravle during sex), but those are very expensive and also really girthy to me. Wjat is it that I'm looking for? Should I get an affordable-ish dildo first? How do I know which dimensions to pick?
No. 134093
I've spent the last while in a cycle of buying stupidly expensive toys and not liking them. I really can't afford this cycle. I ran a sex toy review site years ago and now I'm back to square one trying to find a toy I love. Found out my ex used my toys on someone else while having an affair so I left them all behind when I moved and I don't want to buy the same toys again cos.. gross memories.
Tried a cheaper toy this week and ta-da. Think I've found my goldilocks toy.
I know amazon is risky for fake toys but I've owned and reviewed enough toys to confidently say this turned out to be genuine quality silicone
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B078763XBV It has a platic core that gives it weight and keeps it fairly firm. Again I don't generally recommend amazon for toys but can personally attest this is silicone. Someone might find the recommendation helpful
No. 134096
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>>134089I thought this was the lelo ella when I saw it, it's a similar shape. is the straight lines that feel odd? the ella has this blunt head which is meant to hit the g spot. maybe it could be a better option for you? it's just a dildo though, no vibration.
lel do a vibrating g spot vibe called the gigi that is meant to be good. there's also the lelo mona which is similar but without the blunt head. I hate that sex toys are so expensive, our bodies are all so different and you could easily spend thousands just looking for 'the one'.
>fun factory's thrusters/pulsatorsthat sounds great tbh
I guess going for cheaper dildos is an option, but don't go too cheap, keep with the medical grade silicone. for dimensions (girth in this case?) the we-vibe rave looks to be 1.5 in (3.8 cm) so maybe go smaller than that? I don't know what country you're in but lovehoney has some nice smaller silicone dildos
No. 134371
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sage for blogpost but I got to lower my anti-depressants dosage and I'm looking forward to trying for satisfying orgasms again!
I've not had a decent orgasm in literal years. masturbating is fun and feels good and I can get super turned on but my orgasms usually feel just like I hit a slight peak and then feel finished/too sensitive for more. so disappointing. in the past I've edged for so long just to prevent having a measly orgasm cause the build up feels so much better
when I've lowered my meds dosage before my orgasms have gotten better so wish me luck anons!
No. 135186
>>135157For me it hasn't cut unless I go full coomer for days on end. (so like, more than 3 or so orgasms per day using bristle side) If you're gonna go heavy duty for the love of god don't scrub it on your clit. You should be lightly pressing it against it after softening the bristles with water (important, should be done even on regular days). If it starts to hurt, stop.
Also, for the love of god I'm not a doctor. I just drink borderline unhealthy amounts of water, so I've never gotten an UTI before. You could get hurt doing this so please pay attention, and also look into getting a proper vibe or safer options like
>>135176 said.
If it does get cut or scratched: Don't mess with your clit or the area around it for a while or until the pain ceases. Lightly wash the area with clean water (again, not a doctor. this is just what has worked for me. This is probably not the right way to treat this type of injury) Drink lots of water and pay attention to your body. If the pain persists for more than a few days, or it starts to hurt more, see a doctor. If it's bleeding a lot (never happened to me) also immediately go see a doctor
No. 135323
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i partially enjoy fingering myself since the stretch feels nice other than that fingering myself gets boring and i stop and just rub my clit. i want to feel a vaginal orgasm just once and ill never complain again
No. 135335
Has anyone tried on of those dildos that have a thrusting function?
Like this one or other brands:
https://us.funfactory.com/en/pulsators/stronic-real/ I don't see social distancing due to the pandemic going away anytime soon so I thought I'd splurge on one. Buying sex toys is always a gamble though because you can't try before you buy.
No. 135337
>>135335I got one for free years ago, not that exact model but the same brand and I wouldn't pay that price tag for what it does. Nothing short of an actual sex machine can really thrust hard enough.
That and fun factory toys have a matte finish that requires alot of lube and uses up lube very easily. I experienced these short, weak thrusts and then irritaton/dryness from the type of silicone they use.
No. 135426
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i only generally masturbate like once or twice every two weeks (sometimes more often and sometimes not at all for much longer) but when i do it with a vibrator specifically it’s kind of bizarre. i orgasm once and then masturbate another bunch of times in a row and sometimes i’ll be doing that for nearly an hour. i also go in stages of intensity, like if i decided to watch porn first then i have to go and look at videos of people i’m actually attracted to (like actors in scenes i find hot or cringey thirst videos that people make lol) or listen to audios/sexual asmr so that i actually properly get into/enjoy it, then i’ll just sit and just fantasise about stuff for however long i carry on for. is that even remotely normal or is it my low functioning autistic brain making things weird?
i also only ever want something inside me after i’ve finished masturbating/orgasming six times in a row even though i have little to no interest in sex
pls no bully anons i’m sensitive
No. 135590
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i want to use a dildo but im afraid of becoming "loose"
No. 135592
>>135590Lol why?
And please learn more about anatomy.
No. 135997
>>135969I hate to tell you this but any toy with a strong smell like that isn't safe for use. What material is it listed as being?
Sex toys aren't regulated like they should be and common toy materials like rubber, jelly, TPE and TPR are not safe. They can lead to all sorts of problems don't there and the general rule is the stronger it smells the worse it is for your vagina.
No. 136016
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>>135997Oh fuck me, did I waste my money? It says it's pvc
No. 136021
>>136016This was one of my first toys years ago. Nice beginners shape.. bad material. The kind where you might go to use it one day and find it has 'melted' in your drawer.
Silicone costs a bit more but if you're getting a toy the same size as this it shouldn't be too expensive.
No. 136096
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The COVID business is driving me mental so I splurged on this crazy-looking thruster anyway. Hope it's worth it.
No. 136113
>>136098Damn those colorful things look like so much fun actually!
They're temporarily not open for orders though, which is kind of good since I don't need to financially ruin myself with a weird dildo purchase spree.
No. 136190
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Got a satisfier pro 2 I no longer need a boyfriend it finishes me off in like 3 mins and it’s better than oral.
Less messy and I don’t need to shove anything inside of me
No. 136227
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I'm debating whether I should get a satisfier pro 2, hitachi wand or one of the bad dragon dildos… The first 2 seem less messy while also being cheaper, but the novelty of having a fun looking dildo could be entertaining.
>>65393For me it's either reading hentai or fanfics. Videos don't do anything for me and I can't support the porn industry (to the point where I wouldn't go out with a person if they did)
No. 136242
>>136231wat
hentai doesn't have to include loli or shota characters, there are a lot of categories and tags for a reason, just like any creative community. Please educate yourself before trying to start shit.
>>136230Just looked up the reptile website drama, and apparently the owner took it down. Either way, thanks for letting me know. I'm looking at alternatives and the ones that come close to BD designs/quality are twice as expensive :( But I'll keep an eye out
No. 136275
>>136261Ntayrt, but no, anime faces don't look like children's faces (aside from the aforementioned loli/shota, which is not the majority), never understood that argument.
I don't like 3DPD porn either, I'm sticking to hentai because I prefer the situations and I'm not grossed out by the sex in it (believe it or not the genre is extremely varied, there's even hentai made by and for women).
No. 136293
>>136272You're still supporting misogyny. I never said it was as bad as real porn but it certainly isn't healthy still.
>>136275>no, anime faces don't look like children's faces (aside from the aforementioned loli/shota, which is not the majority), never understood that argumentBro literally what? They all have the same exact face. Big moe eyes, no nose, and like no mouth either. THAT'S what makes them look childish, not always the body. There's no difference and I like how neither of you have anything real to say back because you know it's true. Denying that they don't have same face is retarded. I have eyes and can see, anon.
I don't want to derail, but you can easily find my post in the unpopular thread in /ot/ if you want to @ me there.
(infighting) No. 136297
>>136295I know I'm right. They can't even have a discussion without throwing insults around and one of them is for sure a dude who's just stirring the pot.
>>136296Then stop your bitching and go back to 4chan.
(infighting) No. 136312
>>136250Oh yeah, that's the main reason why I don't watch it. Hentai in anime form turns me off completely, whereas you get more options if you decide to read it. Wider variety when it comes to both the art style and stories/characters.
I tend to gravitate towards ones that have been created by women (or have tags that could be populated by them).
No. 136400
>>136393Not often, but it's happened, usually at the peak of my ovulation phase. I feel physical fatigue but my mind won't shut down til I have a quickie, else I won't stop rolling over in my bed (reminds me everytime of that Seinfeld episode).
A bit unrelated, but since lockdown and the loss of my regular schedule, I too have had trouble sleeping, but since I've been exercising every day, I feel and sleep much better, I'd recommend that.
No. 136746
>>136096OK ladies, I have now recieved and tested this weird robot dildo.
The shape is rather awkward. But the various thrusting patterns feel damn good, and you don't have to do anything but hold it in place. Definitely good quarantine entertainment. Not a waste of money. Phew.
No. 136748
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>>136747It's obviously good if you enjoy internal stimulation but it can also be used on the vulva.
Next up: The Satisfyer pro kek
No. 136751
>>136750It's Fun Factory's Stronic drei.
It kinda sounds like a quiet little washing machine lol. So there is some noise.
No. 136837
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Seconding this anon
>>136190, what a damn good purchase! I admit I was a bit skeptical but I love it, I thought I would have trouble because my clitoris is tiny but nah. Same experience, got off in under a few minutes. Very enjoyable. No mess, no dicks. I don't even want to buy another dildo.
Not that it matters, but the box cover was pretty neat.
No. 136846
>>136840I'm
>>136837. It makes this puttering hum but it's not noisy.
Though if you're asking if someone could hear it in the same room, probably.
No. 136933
>>136190I have one and it's fast, but it doesn't really do much for me, and doesn't lend itself to edging or multiples. Fortunately I can just have my boyfriend do whatever I need most times. I'm glad to have it for when we're separated for a few days.
>>136227I have a bad dragon and honestly I never use it solo. It's not bad, but I'd say get the wand or the satisfyer. If you get the wand, get the cordless one, because the head is non-porous.
No. 137673
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I've never masturbated despite being in my mid twenties, and I worry that I might have vaginismus – I've tried to be be vaginally examined (for endo) and it was too painful, even when I tried different gynos/had them use tiny speculums/had them warm it and stuff/etc.
Does anyone have any recs for toys or idk… methods for someone in my situation to try?
No. 137791
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My Satisfyer Pro 2 arrived today!
I was sick of using anything dick related cause I only get off on clit stimulation, so I decide to try it out thanks to the recommendation of
>>136837 It was weird to figure out at first but after a while on like the 3rd-4th setting I had the longest orgasm, it was pretty great
No. 137893
>>137712Nope, can't seem to accomplish anything with just my fingers
But I don't know if I could handle anything that has any kind of penetration either
No. 137895
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Final review on the satisfyer 10/10 wouldn’t buy any other toy, throwing out my dildo today
No. 137927
>>137905I saw, you think the pro 2 would be best? That's the one everyone was talking about yeah?
Thanks for spoonfeeding me lol
No. 138285
>>138273You can empathise with a woman's pleasure so i think it is pretty normal, don't let anons
(
>>138280 ) convince you otherwise
No. 138286
>>138285What? Don't let her ask herself if she's truly into women irl or not? That's bs.
Ponder away, anon.
No. 138313
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Someone here suggested getting a toy before doing penetrative sex for the first time and I finally got it, so I'm gonna ramble a bit. Tried it in and out today. I thought I won't get that damned thing in, but I managed to, my hymen had to stretch more than usual and tbh I'm glad I did it by myself, would be awkward with a dick.
So, the vibrations, especially on clit, are SO STRONG. Do you also, like… vibrate yourself? It's funny. I shiver as if I'm super cold. It was also the first time I cried during pleasuring myself. The feeling was just so intense it squeezed tears out of my eyes. It's so weird, the orgasm itself was so overwhelming yet it wasn't the most pleasurable I've had. Hard to explain. It's probably the intense stimulation of the nerves in general, more than the plasure clit nerves I can hit in half a minute by masturbating with hands. If that makes sense.
No. 138316
>>138315yes! "ruined" describes it perfectly. It's like, you feel the need to do it again "your way", the way you know will be satisfying the most. Sometimes when I get a "ruined" orgasm I wait a bit until I cool off and do it again then, instead of masturbating again immediately. This way it feels like first orgasm rather than a second one.
>power being up too high or me pressing it too hard against myselfOkay thanks, that's helpful, I will try to ease it up a bit next time. Got to excited to try it out.
No. 138326
>>138313try it with your panties on. the vibrations won't feel as intense.
>>138315i see this. although it's more fun/easier to use a vibrator, i usually get the best orgasms from just rubbing myself. sometimes with a vibrator you get that intense feeling for a second, after that it's just sensitivity rather than continuing the orgasm.
No. 138545
Reading this thread makes me realize that women are disgusting creatures that would rather have sex with a vibrator than with men.
Any kind of relationships with women are based on monetary support and procreation only.
More men should read this kind of threads and find out what girls really think of them.
No. 138552
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>>138545I know this is bait but it genuinely made me laugh for like five minutes. Imagine being this pressed about rubber dongs.
No. 138553
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>imagine paying thousands of dollars for an orgasm machine when most men will fuck you for freeOnce again brandishing their inferior intellect. Smh, tbh fam.
No. 138566
>>138565I would only have sex with a man who is willing to please me as much as I please him. It's hard to know what a man will be like in bed, most of them just jackhammer, nut and go to sleep.
I won't go down on a man if he doesn't go down on me, I won't help him cum if he won't make me cum, I will think of other guys while masturbating if he's thinking of other girls while fapping.
I want a guy who will be compatible with this. Otherwise I'm content with masturbating.
No. 138568
>>138567i've heard bisexual guys are more likely to be better at sex than straight guys. i feel like they'd have more of a tendency to be anal obsessed but if they weren't i could give it a try.
it's hilarious straight men are so bad at pleasing women kek if you're so threatened by vibrators step up your game then
No. 138626
>>138598Try buying a really cheap toy. You don't have to ever use your hands per se.
Make a small investment to see what else is out there.
No. 138627
>>138570someone explain pegging? I could see why some guys would be into it, but why would a female partner be into it?
Maybe with a feeldo, but I don't really understand the point if both partners aren't getting pleasure
No. 138713
>>138682it's the same clitoral stimulation, you rub clit on something - nothing groundbreaking, it just takes longer. I would masturbate like that as a kid, when I didn't know female anatomy yet lol. I think a lot of girls start like this because the sex ed is mostly shit and because of the shame around touching yourself.
I think it's not worth it if you can do it in different ways. For me though it's a good get-horny method. Same as penetration with a toy, won't get a good orgasm from it but it's nice to imagine it's dick of someone I fancy
No. 138719
>>138682I grind on something soft like a pillow till i cum with clothes on, it's usually how I masturbate
I don't feel comfortable with direct stimulation, maybe it would be comfortable if I had lube
I imagine it would be more enjoyable if someone else was rubbing or licking me, I hope I don't have trouble getting comfortable during sex because I feel too sensitive with direct touch
No. 138993
>>138992I have
>>138313 this one, Pretty Love Alston, it's for g-spot and so far I really like it both for penetration and clit. I'm eurofag so I don't know much it would cost you, probably around your price range. I bought it very cheaply, like 25$ but I've found a nice cheap shop.
Generally be sure to choose somethig silicone, I only know about silicone and glass being totally safe materials for toys. I think silicone is too costly for vibrator to be some bad knock off so you should be fine
No. 139185
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Is it just me or is the Satisfyer/Womanizer extremely overrated? I think the design is extremely impractical (too big and clunky) and I don't think that it feels as good as everyone claims either. I've tried all kinds of fancy toys but I just prefer a small bullet vibrator or a rabbit.
No. 139272
>>139270I didn't really get the fuss around masturbation til I had my first orgasm. Before that I just found it frustrating cos I'd get so close but just couldn't tip over the edge. I remember using a vibrating 'facial massager' to get there for the first time. It was pretty incredible after all that build up! I relied on that method for months before learning how to get there manually.
>sexually frustrated since he wasn't having sex with me (the last time we had sex was 7 months before we broke upDid he give a reason why?
No. 139275
>>139271ah I wish i had a partner like that, I have one guy friend who's really good at fingering but hes too self conscious to have sex because of his small size (he wanted to date me but this was right after i broke up with my ex and i felt not ready for it). I also have another guy friend who loves to have sex with me but i never got that "exciting build up" (i do love having sex with him and he's someone i had a crush on but he's too busy…)
>>139272>Did he give a reason why?well he said it was mainly because of stress with his family and i think his depression too…
I did one time pay for him to travel into one of the main cities I live close to (he lives 4 hours away), paid for a concert and booked a hotel for me and him to stay in (so we can spend time alone together and at least have sex) but because he stayed up the night before he fell asleep by the time we got to the hotel and we had to leave the next day… i was so upset but at the same time he was tired… it was just that the hotel and everything was pretty expensive… I wasted too much money on him
No. 139313
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Satisfyer Magic bunny is awesome for me because its not super long, but quite thick. I mostly use it externally only but sometimes its super nice to have inside while the ears stimulate the clit at the same time. I recommend it!!! Great first toy
No. 139314
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This one has a pleasant material but I dont use it too much, mosly to train my ass lol because im into that. I havent really found a great technique to orgasm with it and even though it is size medium it is really big… I guess I have to keep trying but it's quite dissapointing I havent found my way around non vibrating dildos yet
No. 139319
>>138719>something soft like a pillowOut of curiosity has anyone else got used to hump on "tougher" surfaces instead as a child? I got used to hump my chair (lel) when I was a kid and the horny sensation at some point got strong enough to attempt to rub my bottom with something, I was surprised when I learned most "humpers" hump pillows instead. Rubbing your vulva against a chair or something like that seems like more instinctive to me if you have 0 sex ed and you don't know what to do with that rather than grabbing your pillow and riding it… That sort of feels like you are trying to mimic the sex act and a clueless kid just wants to get off.
maybe it was just me that was a horny kid and started masturbating young, but it seems so weird for a young girl to attempt fully riding something out of nowhere>>138682I hump too but in my case only works while i'm sitting in a particular position where I can move the way I like to, I guess it's because the vulva makes contact with whatever I'm humping in a way it makes it feel pretty nice. Also my case it's the complete opposite, I can't just get off by touching my clit lol. My guess is what gets me off is the pressure against my clit more than just rubbing it.
No. 139421
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Finally got myself a womanizer liberty as my first toy, and I don't really know what to say. I tried it while totally not horny and I was dripping wet so fast, the build up was amazing, I felt intense pricklings in my arms and my ears were ringing after the orgasm (which was longer than usual but not mind blowing). Usually, I masturbate with my fingers while reading hentai, so it takes me some effort to come, but it's always very rewarding, which I did not feel at all with the vibrator, it felt almost lazy since I did not do anything special. I think I need to practice a bit to figure out how to use it to its full potential, but I don't think I'll use it everytime, don't want to ruin my nerves.
No. 139428
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Has anyone not really had any luck with masturbating? It feels like nothing when I try it and I’ve never orgasmed before either. I barely ever feel aroused either. Would a toy help? I’m pessimistic lol.
No. 139479
>>139428>>139452How old are you two? I experienced a pretty late sexual awakening myself. Didn't masturbate til my late teens (though antidepressants likely played a role in that) and didn't really get full enjoyment from sex/masturbation for another decade after that. Then something changed at about 29.
They say women reach their sexual peak from their late twenties onwards so it could change for you just with age. I felt weird til I started looking into 'sexual peak for women' and we typcially experience our highest libido and greatest satisfaction from 30 onwards. So we're sexualised the most at around 20 but actually enjoy sex and masturbation significantly more in the decade after that.
No. 140061
>>140027Give it time and try a few different toys out if you haven't already
Some women need to be in the right headspace, you can't make yourself cum if you're not cumfortable
No. 140081
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How do you know when you're climaxing? I few times I've been masturbating in the shower, and I get to a point where my feet tingle, my hands shake, and I get really wet (like it completely covers my hands. Usually lasts for several seconds. Am I experiencing orgasms?
No. 140684
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Any good recs for a wearable finger vibrator?
I've found doing my research that it can even be a cock ring, as long as the ring circumference is small/stretches a bit. For instance I found pic related that"s like 1" in diameter, and presumably stretches a bit to fit a penis? But I just need it for a large finger lmao
No. 140958
>>140933Genital numbness can be a side-effect of some medication, SSRIs being the most common culprit. Are you on any medication?
If not, are you sure you're familiar with your own anatomy? Do you know where your clit is and if it's hooded (if it is, pull back the clitoral hoor)? Are you sufficiently aroused when you masturbate? Are you using your fingers or toys or? Some women need a specific type of stimulation to come! Look into the satisfyer pro 2 discussed earlier in the thread, it's pretty good for women who have trouble achieving orgasms.
No. 140978
>>140933The entrance and first couple inches are meant to be the most sensitive compared to the rest of the depth of your vagina so maybe a short but heavily textured toy could help you find stimulation from it?
There's always clit stim if you just don't enjoy penetration. It's not all that unusual to find penetration a bit meh.
No. 141005
>>141001First masturbated at 16.
Bought my first toy at 24.
I've never been ashamed of masturbating or ashamed of having sex etc… But honestly it's just so boring, it really doesn't give me much.
No. 141067
>>141000The first time I knowingly masturbated was when I was 10 or 11. I ‘experimented’ a little when I was like 6 or 7 but never enough to orgasm and I only did it a couple of times.
And I got my first toy when I was like 19 or 20.
No. 141134
>>141000>>141102I started young enough that I don't remember what age I was, or the first time I did it, or even my first orgasm. I always feel weird when people are talking about those kinds of firsts because it's not something I'm very comfortable sharing. My parents were more open so I think I did understand that it was sexual. I wish more people talked about this. I used to think it was bad and that it meant I maybe had some sort of sexual trauma I was repressing, but now I kind of think it's more common for women than anyone thinks?
It's weird but I'm honestly grateful I started early because it gave me confidence and experience in exploring my body and sexuality. I can't imagine being a woman who has her 1st orgasm in HS/college, or doesn't know how to get herself off. No judgement, I'm just glad I didn't have to deal with that particular struggle.
No. 141144
>>141113Unfortunately it can be permanent afaik. I think the severity might vary depending on how long you were on the medication/ how high your dosage was. I was on a low dose of SSRI's for about 4 years (and other psych meds for 6 years before that) and it took me about 4 years after quitting all medication to regain some feeling. I still struggle to get an orgasm but it's getting easier and easier as more time passes. Look up "SSRI induced sexual dysfunction" on google, you'll find a ton of resources and info.
I'm sorry that you're dealing with this as well, it really sucks.
No. 141149
>>141113I was on a high dose of SSRIs from ages 12 to 15. It took three years to experience any feeling afterwards. Obviously I started meds so young that I had no previous sex or masturbation experience but looking back I didn't experience much of a sex drive throughout all of puberty and had numbness that continued for 3 years post-SSRIs.
So three years on meds and three years of still feeling numb after. I've heard others say that it tends to match the amount of time spent on them. I've gone back on meds for a few months here and there and experienced a few months of numbness afterwards so that might be a good way to estimate how long it's likely to last.
No. 143965
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>>143952
Why would you want to leave a dildo in for 7 hours?
No. 144350
>>144269what do you mean with fingers? if you mean only fingering then literally never, been rubbing my clit with my fingers since learning about it online as a horny kid and have occasionally fingered myself around the same time im close to coming (i come harder that way) nowadays i have a dildo, but solo fingering? never.
>>144270>>144292thats a-ok, literally anything you do solo to make yourself come is masturbation
No. 144811
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>>144292I'm 21 and never finger myself, I have maybe done it three times in my entire life. I personally find it very difficult and uncomfortable to get even one finger in past like 1.5", I'm a permavirgin so the lack of experience is probably to blame. It is normal to masturbate pretty much any way that brings you pleasure and an orgasm lol
I've been looking into buying a small dildo (insertable 3.25") like pic related and one of those fake lipstick vibrators. I still live with my parents, getting the package is a non issue because I'm the one who checks the mail but where the hell do you hide a fake dick?
No. 144938
>>144811Make sure you don't buy a jelly toy like that, they are bad for your intimate health and can lead to infection or other bad reactions, they can also randomly 'melt' if you store them next to other items.
Here's a silicone version of this
https://www.amazon.com/NS-Novelties-Colours-Pleasures-Purple/dp/B07HM7FBL6 I own it and would recommend, I just bought a little make up bag that I keep it in, You could always store it in a bag with menstrual products, if people open a bag and see period products on top they prob won't want to snoop further
No. 144999
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Bought kegel balls mostly to use for masturbation and also large anal beads that I'm gonna stick up my vagina instead. My horny brain is so fucking excited for new toys.
I'm sad that I'm such a size queen because bigger toys are always more expensive lol. I like to buy fantasy dildos because plain human dick is so fucking boring, plus fantasy dildos always come in fun colorways. I see some girls mention bad dragon here and pic related is one of my favorite indie fantasy dildo makers, Strange Bedfellas. Selection isn't as extensive as Bad Dragon's, but their prices are comparatively cheaper and I love the colors they offer (though they only dovery limited made-to-order dildos). 10/10 very much recommend. I have a med Tyv (it's in pastel colors and has a beautiful shimmer that can't be caught on a camera) and am planning on getting a large Fornax from them next!
No. 145007
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I wish I could give one of you girls this hand blown glass toy I won a couple years ago. (Not my pic) I've never used it because I am intimidated as fuck. I have been thinking about it more and more recently though
No. 145011
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>>144938Thank you for the pro tips, anon! I'm getting it from pinkcherry and they have 5" at the smallest, which seems fine to me for a beginner. Wish they had more colours though.
>>145010I'm jealous. You should try it out if you have no one to give it away to!
No. 145210
>>145014I think
>>145097 is right in taking a break. I don't think 2-3 times is that much per week (I used to go at it anywhere from 4-7 days at the height of it), but I think your clit could do well without any strong vibrations.
I stopped using my vibes after a while when I realized how frustratingly long it took me to get off, and sometimes I couldn't even get off at all. I forced myself to not masturbate, since getting off with my fingers is a lot easier when I'm pent up. Still takes a while though. Nowadays I try not to masturbate more than once or twice a week because my clit sensitivity will get fucked up again real fast and then I gotta reset myself by taking a whole week or two off. My main toy now is one of the satisfyers (the one with vibration option) and at first I used to only be able to get off with vibe AND with the main function on the highest setting, but now I can start on the lowest and and still feel a good subtle tease before working my way up (most days I don't even use the vibe option or I'll leave it until the very end).
Good luck anon!!
No. 145565
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Does anyone else struggle with unusual tightness? I'm the anon from
>>144811 and I have been trying to insert. It feels like I hit a wall 1" in with the dildo but I find I can put my finger in a little further. It's kind of like my vagina has a funnel shape, if that make sense. I've done some google-fu and I think I might have vaginismus? I've put in a tampon with an applicator before no problem, so penetration's not completely impossible.
If you have had this – did you have to go see a doctor/gyno for it? What kind of things can you do to help it? Did it ever go away?
No. 145583
>>145565Lube, lube, lube. Granted I was like this before, and after a few months of failure despite being very very wet I hypothesized that my body just doesn't know or recognize what penetration feels like so it's just going "wtf that doesn't go there stahp it"
I got frustrated one day and told my boyfriend at the time to just fucking do it and stab me with his dong. It hurt a lot, but then I told him to do it again kek. After the second time it started to feel okay and it's all normal now. Just relax, take your time, but also keep in mind that sometimes it's just a mental hurdle you have to get over like ripping a bandaid off
No. 146241
>>146233Just stop for a week or two to resensitize your clit, and then focus on the feeling instead of trying to force an orgasm, try to relax and "breathe down into your clit".
Personal experience from someone who has been porn and masturbation addicted since my tween years
No. 146262
>>145975I started getting orgasms in my wet dreams too as an adult. Is funny because I feel it very intensely in my dreams to the point I usually wake up but when I check I didn't even that wet at all. But the sensation was definitely there. Mind sure works in mysterious ways huh…
Anyway I certainly was surprised to learn we can cum in dreams as well lol
No. 146497
>>146477Are you due on soon?
I usually get this like the week before
No. 146532
>>146484Thanks anon I'll try and get an appointment and report back
>>146497I'm not sure, I take the pill back to back to avoid periods since theyre normally quite painful and disruptive for me
No. 146671
>>146669I’m literally asking for other suggestions. Porn where the men aren’t always ugly fucking ghouls would help.
I’m not really interested in moralizing and it’s not like I watch those videos or give the site money.
No. 146842
>>146836No it's pretty common.
I am the most multiorgasmic when I am ovulating and turn into a crazy sex beast who can't get enough, but otherwise that can happen to me too.
No. 146882
>>146868Maybe unpopular opinion but my daily driver is the Palm Power Plug-In. I hate rechargeable wands because the motors always shit out faster. I have had to repurchase the Palm Power a couple times, usually after 2-3 years but given how much I use it idrc.
The Doxy is great for plug-in, but I prefer the slimmer wands because manipulating a Magic Wand or Doxy is annoying for me. I'll use them and have fun, but 98% of the time I go for the Palm Power.
No. 146952
>>146951In my personal experience it was nearly impossible to orgasm on antidepressants. The few times I got it to happen was with a really strong vibrator on my clit.
Men are dumb and think if you haven't had an orgasm before they are definitely going to be the one to give you your first and then get upset/uncomfortable when that isn't the case. It's a sucky situation but you shouldn't have to feel embarrassed because they feel inadequate.
No. 147367
>>147347Have you thought about getting a vibrator? To me the sensation is quite similar.
Sorry idk how to help with the second point though
No. 147411
>>147367One thing I loved about using the shower hose is that it was impossible to get yourself dirty with cum because you're already showering
Any tips for keeping clean while masturbating out of the shower?
No. 147498
>>48662my masturbation sessions used to be 5-9 minutes long and now my last two has been both 30+ minutes, I don't masturbate that often and I don't even use porn except for recently because it's been hard to get turned on.
This could be prolly because of depression but those long masturbating sessions has been leaving me with sore vagina it sucks.
No. 147854
>>147390I've been on both, still no luck.
I guess I'll just have to accept that I'll never orgasm if I want to be a functioning member of society. RIP.
No. 150530
Holy crap, just used the Satisfyer Pro 2 for the first time. Okay so, the first time was good, but not amazing, i was still learning how to use it. It was nice, but I had a "that's it?" thought. But then I did it again a bit later, and holy shit, it felt like I had fire in my loins, I mean that in the best possible way. My legs were shaking and I was being sent to heaven. I was squealing and shit, like, I never do that without penetration while alone. I just kinda sat there in awe.
10/10 would recommend
No. 150684
>>150530Hah, I was just going to post about this toy. I have the travel version, which I highly recommend because it's especially discrete. I'm generally new to sex toys, and my experiences were just alright with them prior to this toy. I even bought a small Hitachi-style wand at the same time as my Satisfyer, and I still prefer it so much more despite being nearly $100 cheaper than the wand.
> It was nice, but I had a "that's it?" thought. Agreed. It feels pretty weird at first because of the negative pressure, but once you orgasm, it is absolutely mindblowing.
No. 150987
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>>150530>>150684I'm waiting for my Satisfyer Pro to be delivered, big hype to get what you girls are getting. Took the Penguin version because this design is cute AF. Did you try to include it during sex or just for solo sessions?
No. 151104
>>150987I haven't tried to use it during sex yet, it seems like it'd be difficult tbh. You have to position it just right then just keep it in the same spot, it's not really like a vibrator can be used. Which is sad but totally worth it because the orgasms are way better than from even super strong vibrators I've used.
>>151038True, about needing to hold it in place. I get why it's boring to you honestly, but the pleasure it brings just from sitting there is so insane it makes up for it for me
No. 152149
>>152148A lil different take, but my cycles are irregular and if I feel like I'm late I'll have a big masturbation session to
trigger my womb into shedding. 9/10 works most of the time.
No. 152605
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I've had this love/hate relationship with penetration for the last few years. I've never been great at taking length but I used to still love rough sex. Then a few years ago I went through a cervical cancer scare and while I'm okay now, my cervix does not like me when I use average length toys. I always get carried away in the moment and then I get this pelvic ache afterwards.
Bought this comically short dick in hopes that it'll prove better. I mean I can't exactly get carried away with this thing
No. 152615
>>152605…wait….does using longer toys and penetration increase the chances of cervical cancer??? penetration is how i mainly get off…
t. virgin coomer
No. 152773
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>am depression
>meds make it nearly impossible to come and make my sex drive disappear for weeks at a time
>live in shitty house with roommates and paper thin walls, can hear each other breathe
>finally have the perfect alignment of horniness + free time + roommates not home
>vibetime.png
>20 minutes in, getting a good thing going
>vibrator dies
why even live
No. 152885
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just gonna jump in and say that hitachis are very overrated, i have an expensive brand-name one and it hardly does anything for me except MAYBE if i turn it to the highest setting.
i can hardly get any enjoyment out of masturbation nowadays though, i want to have actual sex soooo bad but i have no one to do it with
No. 153920
>>152926You mean trying to come 2/3 per sesh? Yeah that seems about right. But everytime after the first doesn't feel as rewarding or I have to work 'harder' to get there. I go through periods of doing it a lot then taking breaks for weeks, that's okay, you don't need to be horny everyday.
>>153595I mean I don't know about internal effects but if you do it too much your clit will become sore and loose sensation for a while.
>>153911Porn is literally brain rotting.
It doesn't leave anything to the imagination and caters to particular taste that get you off fast. That's why pornsick men have so much trouble in bed, the are used to seeing everything happen quick for a quick release and no buildup. Taking things slow and imaging your own scenarios 190% better imo, and the payoff is wayyy better too.
No. 154104
>>153913i don't ever post in this thread but i get this too, regardless of where i am at in my cycle. my hormone levels are objectively fucked (i got a pap smear with a cervical tissue biopsy and everything was fine though), im guessing that might be why, for me
i just googled it and apparently it is a kind of common experience, it's called dysorgasmia and can involve pain during and/or after an orgasm. it can be caused by harmless vaginal muscle contractions during orgasm which cause cramping, so please don't get alarmed if you also google it and see all of these scary potential causes. might be worth mentioning to your gyno, though
No. 154843
>>154577I masturbate in a weird way but I might as well share it here because I'm curious if other girls do it like this as well.
I have a tiny hidden clit and directly putting my fingers on that area doesn't do much for me. So what I do is I use two fingers and kind of put my labia majora between them and I do this up and down motion to stimulate the sides of my clit. I hope that makes sense
No. 154917
>>154894>>154903I used to be like this too, I couldn't even get a finger or a tampon in, let alone a dick. It took almost 6 months of trying for my first bf and me to finally be able to have sex. After that, though, things quickly got easier and I don't have any problems with it whatsoever nowadays.
To answer the questions:
>inserting a finger in an unaroused state should be at least doable, which is why most women have no issue inserting tampons, but it takes a bit of getting used to and I wasn't able to until I lost my virginity >muscle twitches seem normal to me, I get those too, as long as they don't feel too alarming I wouldn't worry about it>the first time I was able to have penetrative sex was when I was on top, for me it helped to be in control, but several female friends told me that they find missionary much easier, so I guess it depends on the person No. 156131
>>155944I've bought some toys from amazon uk. I know it's generally not recommended but I used to work for a sex store so I buy trusted brands and I'd like to think I can spot a fake.
One thing I don't understand about amazon though is they wrap all sex toys in an opaque plastic before putting it in the cardboard box.. but on top of that plastic they put a barcode sticker with the name of the product on it like "8 inch realistic thruster dildo" removing all discretion again? The last toy that I ordered arrived in one of those cardboard sleeves where it's not even a sealed box. Wasn't impressed. My mailman (pretty small town) could've very easily checked out the contents and I'd never know. That played on my mind afterwards lol
No. 156216
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My rabbit vibrator nearly fucking exploded/set fire. While it was inside me. I spent at least 50 bucks on that thing and it was from a “trusted” online shop. Possibly traumatised out of using vibrators ever again.
No. 156232
I feel like this is a shot in the dark but has anyone ever ordered from
https://unlocktheo.com/ before? I'd love to hear from you because I've had incredibly bad luck with their customer service rep
No. 156250
>>156225It got really hot and felt electric, I took the batteries out and they were burning. I’ve had it for a little over a year now, are they meant to start malfunctioning like this after a while? I‘m not sure about leaving a review because I’d never used a vibrator before and have nothing to compare it to.
>>156236It was store brand.
No. 156252
I've never watched porn, and if I ever use any visuals other than imagination, it's usually just erotic drawings or images. So I've never really seen how other women masturbate, and even then, I'm not sure porn is all that faithful to life over just playing it up to male fantasy.
Can you guys actually come from using your hands and fingers? The only way I "taught" myself to come is using my massive thighs to put pressure on my clit when I shut them tight together and move my hips around. When I use my hands, it doesn't feel bad per se, but it's too intense, and I have no idea how to come this way.
This was a bit awkward when my ex-boyfriend asked me to show him how I masturbate for him, but my technique is not some sexy rubbing for a porn show, so I just told him I don't masturbate instead. Is it worth to reprogram myself to enjoy "schlicking" or whatever cool kids call it? I don't own a vibrator, since I still live with my parents.
No. 156263
>>156252I can but it’s pure clit action for me, no ‘schlick’ in the hole. Throughout my life I just humped things until I was in my mid-late teens and thought wanted to try using my hands because it’s to hide what I’m doing. It felt too intimate or embarrassing as first to touch myself directly but now it’s all just
whatever. I usually keep my legs together too for the same reason, doing the spread eagle thing looks like a pure porno move for the camera. If it feels bad, don’t do it.
No. 156271
>>156252My masturbation habit from my teens til now has always been just flicking the bean. No fingering like you see in so much solo porn. A lot of it isn't too representative of a womans typical session imo.
If you're just worried about it not looking sexy then I wouldn't sweat it. Masturbation is all about you so it shouldn't really matter what others think of your technique. If you want to change it up anyway, like you said it'll take time to retrain your body.
No. 156321
>>156286Same girl i wouldn’t even know how to do it with closed legs haha
However i just rub everywhere a little with my hands. As long as i can remember I’ve just been using my hands.
No. 157491
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Anons, should I buy a vibrator?
So basically these past few month I've been learning about radfems which lead me to learning how fucked up the porn industry is and I no longer want anthting to do with it, the issue is that I'm not very skilled with my hands because the porn did most of the work for me and I've always been a pillow humper.
Taking the time to imagine scenories is nice and the orgasm feel better than when I watch porn, but they are harder to achieve and some times I'm just to impatient and I don't have much privacy so don't have a good 45 minutes to really get in the mood without being interrupted so I need a faster way of getting off.
I've also heard that vibes are not good because you become to dependent on them, like how I'm dependent on porn, and getting off with a partner will become harder.
Thing is, I'm 22 and have never had sex and probably won't be getting with anyone anytime soon.
An anon in this thread mentioned Tenga vibes and I checked them out and really like the look of one, but they are pretty expensive and I don't want to waste my money.
Has anyone had one before and can give me there opinion on it?
I feel like it will probably feel good anyway because I've never used a sex toy before so I have no standereds, I'm also fairly sensitive and don't want any kind of penetration so I feel it would be a good fit.
Or does an anon have any good recommendations for me?
Should I just go for it when I can afford it?
The vibe in question > This is the
https://www.tenga.co.uk/products/iroha-midoriI'm so sexually frustrated and just need a good release, help me anons, pls.
No. 157494
>>157491Put down whatever you are doing and buy one. Do that for yourself anon.
Some cheaper stuff works just fine. I have one of theses and they’re great. Not too noisy either!
https://www.amazon.com/Rechargeable-Personal-Massager-Vibration-Multi-Speed/dp/B07FZBVKLQ/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?dchild=1&keywords=vibrator&qid=1604097085&sr=8-4 No. 157568
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>>157494>>157500Amazon mingles their stock: real stuff with third-party knockoffs. Do not buy your toy from amazon. It may not be body-safe, even if the brand is normally okay.
I bought a dildo and it hasn't been delivered after like 2 weeks. I filed a lost mail claim (online and idk if it went through?). I know that the election is going on and ballots take priority, of course, so now I'm resigned to the fact that I'm probably not going to get my purchase for another month, if ever.
I'm also really frustrated because I thought I had finally found a softer silicone toy that wasn't too long or girthy or expensive and now I don't get to use it. I need penetration but my fingers don't do it for me. My skinny silicone vibe sleeve is too hard and it hurts, and the softer dildo I got to replace it is too big despite checking measurements. I couldn't have sex with my partner after a long amount of time apart, and now I can't because he's too big and I'm not used to it any more. I got this to help me work up to him.
I know, I know "the vagina is a muscle and it can stretch to fit etc." but have you ever tried to do a split? You have to work up to it over time. You can't do a split at first even if you're warmed up at that time. Muscles need time to get used to stretches, but every resource I look for has the same "if it can give birth, it can take any peen so if you can't then you're medically broken" mantra that is completely unhelpful and quite frankly condescending.
Ugh. I don't really have anywhere else to talk about this. Sorry. There are only so many times I can vent about this to my partner before it feels like I am blaming or body-shaming him, which I do not want to do.
No. 157598
>>157568Don't worry, I meant I'm gonna go for the Tenga. I also like it because it doesn't look like a typical sex toy so if someone finds if they probably won't even know what it is.
I'm sorry about your situation anon, I can't give any advice as like I said, I have no experience but I hope you find something that works for you soon.
No. 158548
>>158426FYI, most indie toys are HUGE. It's definitely a good idea to start with getting a smaller dildo as long as it's made of safe materials- silicone, metal, or glass. Not silicon, silicone oil, jelly, or any other weird thing. Start out by finding out what you do like using your hands, and if you like penetration at all. Not every woman needs it. Some indie companies make external stimulation toys, btw.
>>157568It arrived and it's the right size and not so firm it would hurt me. I wish it wasn't penis-shaped because the whole disembodied wang thing is weird to me. I'd go for an abstract shape if anyone produced them at a starter size.
No. 158595
>>158548I found an indie local brand (one of the only in my country) who makes fantasy dildos, but their sizes seem smaller than the average Bad Dragon monstrosity, I think I'll buy from them.
I never got anything out of fingering myself, feeling my nails bothers me, I want to try once with a toy. If it doesn't make me feel anything, my loss I guess, at least I'll have a pretty dildo to stare at.
No. 158606
>>158426Like other anons pointed out most of the main makers of those toys sell way above average sized toys (main buyers seem to be men stretching their assholes to the limit) but a few etsy sellers offer more managable sizes, of course the smaller the toy the lower the price so you could get a small one without it costing much more than a regular old dildo.
Does anyone know what the deal is with bad dragon having dodgy people behind the scenes? I remember years ago there was talk of bad dragon and one other european based fantasy toy maker having actual sex offenders behind them. That and the european maker was casting dog and horse dicks off of real animals..
No. 158639
>>154821it's so hard to find good erotica. I've only found a few good things on literotica, but the way a lot of it reads feel like it was definitely written by scrotes. the majority of it grosses me out. I'd tried fanfic but I'm not really into any fandoms
people are too dependent on porn. erotica is a lost art it feels. I just wanna get horny without the guilt of supporting a disgusting industry
>>156216>>156250holy shit anon, you could've been injured. contact them and try and at least get a replacement
>>156252I've always done it the same way. my three middle fingers just rubbing my clit in circles, and I press really hard and speed up as I feel I'm about to come, 9/10 I also reach with my other hand and bunch up the covers on top of my dominant hand lol. I sometimes don't even bother with my actual vagina, just focus on the clit. when I do it because of the bunching up of the covers my vulva is hidden. our lives aren't a porn show, don't feel bad that you don't do it like porn, porn isn't reality. listen to your body and do what works for you!
>>157491>>157492do it!!!! and I recommend the tango we-vibe, can't speak for the tenga ones unfortunately. I always suggest the we-vibe because by vibe standards it's nice and quiet. it's a little bullet vibe with a few different speeds/patterns. I fucking love mine, I'm on my second one
No. 159496
>>159493I had a 3 year relationship where my sex drive was abysmal. The misery and fights that it caused and all the sex I basically forced because I felt like I owed him it… and as soon as I'm single again I could easily masturbate 3 times a day.
Are you depressed or anything like that? Still grieving for the relationship? I feel like my mood really influences my drive. If I feel pressure it dissapears and when life is uneventful and smooth sailing it kicks back in.
No. 159535
>>159519You're confused. It's not the concept of "ohhh noooo i might peeee myself~~" that I'm talking about, that shit's stupid. It's purely the physical effect a full bladder has on the feeling of penetration, as in the pressure on the inner wall of your vagina makes it feel better.
But imma stop arguing about something this idiotic, if you miss out that's on you kek
No. 160362
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masturbated to opera music in the shower yesterday; orgasmed at the crescendo. felt so classy, it's probably how the queen fingers herself honestly; i feel like an actual new woman now i cant wait to do it again
No. 160782
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>>160701That sounds like a Bartholin’s cyst. I'd see a doctor.
No. 160801
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I recently got the TOM mount for my suction cup dildo, but positioning it is kind of awkward. Does anyone know if a longer dildo would help? Suggestions are welcome.
No. 160808
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I got my first dildo! It's picrel but with different colors, it's so pretty irl. Since I haven't had PIV sex yet I wanted to test the waters with a toy, and while I haven't managed to come yet (most likely due to not really knowing what the fuck I'm doing), it still feels very good to be filled, and I'm definitely sensing some g-spot stimulation which I've never managed to do with my fingers alone. Also it really comforted be on my vaginal depth, since I regularly manage to touch the tip of my cervix I thought I had a microvag or something, here I managed to smoothly pump the entire shaft, at least I can take an average dick lol.
No. 160821
>>159451I sometimes do this before I get out of bed in a morning when my bladder is full cause it feels so good
>>159535yeah, it's not a pee kink for me either. it just feels good physically
>>160782even if it's literally as small as pinhead and disappears after a short time? also google says it's near the opening of the vagina whereas mine is right next to my clit. nowhere near my vagina. I'm not too worried about it, just curious if other anons had experiences similar, but will mention it next time I see my nurse
>>160808that looks really nice, what colour is yours? I did the same thing and got a dildo before PIV sex (still a virgin too) but I've never managed to come from using it, never had a vaginal orgasm. I think I'm probably one of the many women who can't? maybe I need to learn more about the g-spot, I'm still unsure where mine really is though. about the cervix thing, could it be you're more aroused using your toy than just your fingers? arousal can change the position of your cervix, as can other conditions like where you are in your cycle. but now I'm questioning my vag depth cause my toy is about 5" and I can only just take it all
No. 160901
>>160821I went with a marble of metallic silver, iridescent blue and flat violet, kinda the same ethereal vibe as the official pics. I've heard it's more common for not to come than come from vaginal stimulation, maybe I won't be able to do it but it at least feels extremely pleasant. The g-spot is usually located a bit below the cervix, that kinda bumpy (don't know what word to use) wall. There are some vibrators specially made for g-spot stimulation, maybe you could look into those?
I know about the cervix moving up and down during the cycle and arousal, and since I'm using a cup I thought it would have brought it down permanently, but I'm apparently average which is a relief.
No. 160931
oh nice the blue/silver/violet combo sounds pretty
>>160901>that kinda bumpy (don't know what word to use) wallyeah I've read it's the squidgy/bumpy area but for me pressing that area doesn't do much for me so I'm unsure if it is my actual g-spot. I actually have a g-spot vibe too but no luck finding it even with that which sucks
>but I'm apparently average which is a reliefyay I'm pleased for u anon. tbh I think my vag might be shorter than average, but any time I've bumped my cervix a little, it's not hurt at all. Idk maybe PIV would be different but it's all good as far as masturbating is concerned
No. 161371
>>159451Anon, no! I fucked myself up doing this! I once really needed to bathroom but someone was in there and I was actually going to piss myself so I had the idea that maybe thinking horny thoughts will shift gears and it did, I no longer needed to pee, but then after everytime I needed to pee I would feel this intense pleasure but I also couldn't hold in pee anymore and I actually kept peeing myself, idk what tf it did but it's been a long time and it's still hard for me to hold pee and my body doesn't warn me my bladder is full until it's nearly to late. It's like my body clenches to hold it in and goes to hard, gets aroused and.. Just pees?
On the only positive note it feels insanely good, like I could actually cum just from needed to pee, it's not worth it though.
I'm also way way to embarrased to go get it checked out and I hate my gp.
Be careful with that type of stuff anon.
No. 161530
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Sad that I fucking missed out on picrel when I was trying to decide on the other model I was trying to get but I guess it’s fine because I got to place an order for a custom in another colorway that I really like. I had to pay full price for the custom because they weren’t included in the BF sale but I’m trying to make myself feel better by saying that I’m supporting a small business so whatever lol. I hope I can get this colorway in the other model I was looking at sometime in the future.
No. 161531
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>>161530Picrel is gonna hopefully be what my custom looks similar to! I didn’t even attempt to buy this one because it was too big of a size.
No. 161532
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Yay, bought my first sex toy! I’m just hoping it isn’t loud as fuck.
No. 161577
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Honest question: Do you guys get off on insertion? The sex toy that's worked best for me is picrel, and while it's sometimes nice to have some pressure from the inside as well I somehow feel like it's a waste of money to buy an expensive dildo/virbator.
No. 161581
>>161577what the hell is that even supposed to be lmfao
also to answer your question, yes. i guess im the fabled reverse of the most common phenomenon in that i can't get off hardly ever with just clit stimulation, i need insertion to achieve anything satisfying. I actually kind of hate clitoral orgasms, they feel totally meh for me.
And for some reason vibrators to absolutely nothing for me. be honest anons am i a freak of nature
No. 161582
Ii..I have a hot monster guy/dragon fetish, would this actually help?
>>161530ive never tried toys before or have had actual penetration and dont live alone how dumb am i to get this
No. 161590
>>161530I love SBF's pours, the colors are beautiful, but I find their toys overdesigned, most of the time I have no idea what I'm looking at (although yours is one of the nicest ones), and the monsters' profiles on their site are so obnoxious, all of them are "uwu shy they/them".
>>161582Lol I asked the same question for the same reasons a few months ago so I'm just going to repeat what I've been told. Fantasy dildos tend to be huge, bigger than regular ones, so if you want one be very careful of the dimensions, especially if you're a virgin, a lot of them have flares or knots (or are generally very large) which are not a good beginner friendly toy. The one I bought has roughly the same sizing as the average dick in my country while still having a fantasy flair, best way to start imo.
About you not living alone, is that really a problem? I still live with my family and they don't open my parcels or snoop around my room, I've bought sex toys and hentai without any problem. Is it different for you?
No. 162618
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Anyone had one of picrel Satisfyer toys? I have seen a lot of people talking about "no touch" ones, but what about normal, new ones??
I've seen this one today and I'm really tempted to buy my very first toy.
No. 162624
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>>162618>>162621I just bought it!! Holy shit I feel the mix of guilt and excitement, but sure guilt will be gone once I get to use it.
No. 163095
>>162624don't feel guilty anon. you're allowed to have toys lol
idk if you come from a background where there was shame about sex/masturbation but I assure you you don't need to feel guilty about anything
No. 163339
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What do you guys think of buttplugs? Scrote shit or do they add to the masturbation experience?
No. 163396
>>163339basically what
>>163383 said. also, for me once its in there, it kind of makes it hard to penetrate myself vaginally. it is fun to experiment with at the very least if you are into butt play.
No. 163455
>>163454What’s attractive about this? Weirdly after the buttplug talk ITT I was thinking that the concept was especially stupid otherwise pussyplugs would exist too…
I just imagine it’ll be sore and pointless. If the idea is that you wake up and masturbate, I don’t think that would work as you’ll probably be too dry.
No. 163532
>>163308I wonder where the anon who likes Necrons is? I remember somebody posting that they're into them on the kinks that you're ashamed of-thread.
If you're out there Necron-san, I think of you from time to time, especially when my bf talks about 40k! Also, I'll be thinking of you from now on, ritual-san, kek.
No. 164626
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Bf got me pic related for christmas, I can't wait to try it. I expect it to be a total game changer since I'm going from a 9 dollar vibrator to this cute ass "clitoral massager".
No. 169662
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Can anyone weigh in on the We-Vibe Melt vs the Womanizer Premium? I'd like a larger nozzle than the Satisfyer Penguin I have, but I would love something that's app-controlled with patterns like the Lush.
>>166881I just wash it with the same soap I use for menstrual cups and my vulva. For bedside use, I have some rubbing alcohol wipes.