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I'm just going to leave this here.
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Does anyone have problems with.. uhh.. their vaginal depth? My vag is like, 3-4 inches deep. I can barely fit my small dildo in there, let alone a full size one. This frustrates me to no end because I LOVE sex toys. I never understood how could some girls fit 8 inches or more up there.
Is this common?
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I feel like the sanic of masturbation.
I can get myself off in under 3 minutes with no heavy equipment and it does the job, but it's more of a pressure release rather than something I do for pleasure. Yet I don't like sex because it's so fucking fussy and takes too long, and I never get anything out of it. After a while I just get bored and shoo my bf off.
I don't know how to make myself enjoy it and I don't know what's wrong. Everyone's talking about it being this thing that feels super good and there's also the 'better than sex' saying but I feel so whatever towards it yet I have major FOMO.
I've been going back and forth on buying this for almost a yearhttps://www.vibease.com/
Anyone have an opinion on whether or not I should go for it?
So I had this problem until I got a partner who was very very gentle. Try:
-telling him to be gentle as possible, then even more gentle than that. like feather strokes. tell him your clit is more sensitive than his eyeball.
-wearing satin panties and stroking over the top
-putting the whole of his hand over your vulva and pressing or moving very gently
Lol, it's called an investment in quality. I'd rather buy something expensive once and use it for a long time rather than cheap out on something that's not going to last or is going to gobble up batteries. Considering all the shit this thing does, the price is definitely warranted.>>49205
As long as reviews are solid, I would say go for it, especially since there's a discount right now.
Glad that there's nothing wrong with me! Haha. >>49208
Brilliant advice anon, thanks! Tbh I think it's a combination of that and patience.
I can confirm it's real, did it once when I was younger but never managed to do it again.
Also I assume all of you orgasm via the clit? That's how I orgasm 100% of the time but there was a time when I was able to orgasm inside my vagina. Can't for the life of me figure out how I did it now. I've looked up tutorials and the sensation just makes me feel like I need to pee now…which is awful.
Sorry for this being totally unhelpful but I had never in my life orgasmed from vaginal stimulation until my current boyfriend.
For me it admittedly does kind of feel like I have to pee but according to him (and some blogs I've read) that's kind of the beginning of squirting. I've never squirted before but maybe the time you squirted was when you still had vaginal orgasms?
Tbh I don't think I could vaginally orgasm just while masturbating though because I wouldn't be able to get past that kind of feeling of having to pee as well as I don't think I could keep up the pressure because when I start to get close vaginally my body gets kind of weak ah haha. Any position that has my boyfriend hitting the front of my vagina is when I orgasm without touching my clit.
It doesn't feel like much when I try to uh…pleasure myself from the inside. For me it's definitely something that only a partner can do.
An ex gave me an internal massage once. It didn't feel particularly good while he was stretching me out with his fingers, but afterward when he slipped his dick in…good God it was amazing, I almost came just from that.
Another time, my date was especially good at fingering and almost got me off through that. He had the right place and perfect pressure. But he got tired so no climax for me lol.
I've heard that's what it feels like when you're beginning to squirt too but it definitely didn't feel like that when I managed it years ago. Like it feels bad so idk why anyone would be motivated to continue? >>49220
Wow that's really interesting… Maybe it's just about finding the right area. I've read countless tutorials online with no success. Sounds like a little project for when we have some time on our hands haha.
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Look at this roastie getting toastie
Vice is trash and this video is no exception.
However it's interesting to note how they mention the male dolls have more customizeable options, the ability to make them imperfect, as that's what their clients want. I think that really shows one of the differences the two sexes generally have when looking for a partner. Additionally, shows just how removed from reality bots&cels are when they cry online about roasties.
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11/10 would recommend
they actually modeled him into a realistic looking man
with sex dolls they model them after women who look like they underwent 50 plastic surgery procedures but the male one looks… normal
I never had actual sex (as in breaking my hymen) and probably never will.
Maybe because I'm not attracted to boys/only want to be with a girl but the idea of putting something down there (other than maybe the tip of a dildo at most) is a no no for me, it's really tight too and putting even a finger feels…weird. I can watch vaginal penetration and feel slightly turned on somehow but it's just weird to me and uncomfy) and I can only come from clit stimulation.
I feel like a weirdo sometimes.
Also I only had sex once and cannot manage to do it if i don't love the person/completely trust her. I'll fantasize about many kinky things (like tentacles) even though i'm mostly vanilla but in real life i'm so nervous and shy when it comes down to it.>>65362
Are you me? I used to have that too! It just kinda went away with the years, I feel kinda ashamed and if my birb is in the same room I just can't do it because I feel like he might be judging me (which is stupid)
I read fics and sometimes watch hentai, i'm kinda picky, same for 3D porn.
I like to imagine I'm being molested, I'm gross.
>you can have "actual sex" without vaginal penetration.
no you cant. she knows this intuitively, you have to delude yourself to think otherwise. proof enough.
>don't get brainwashed into thinking only putting shit up inside you is the only true way to have sex, it ain't.
you are doing the brainwashing, and yes it is.
Go away robot, penetrative sex is not the end-all. Lots of people find it meh at best. >>65392
It took years of trying for me to be able to have penetrative sex comfortably. It's not a lost cause but don't focus on it if there are other things you like more, it shouldn't be a chore.
Ho ho, you like buff guys don't you?
>tfw dolls can't hug you or pat your head
That's legit all I want. Maybe getting my butt squeezed too
Hey, me too!
I've been thinking of fingering a little more and trying to geta 2n finger in with lots of wetness/lube. Maybe that'll make the first time having dick up there hurt less?
Same here. I could only get a finger in two times in my life, but only because I spent more time relaxing and using a lot of lube. While usually I can't bother to spend all that time and just go for clit stimulation, lol.
So, when the time will come, make sure you have lube and do a lot of foreplay. Maybe it's just psychological and after doing it we will feel more "loose"
>>49097>sanic of masturbation>that image
But I understand anon! I only use my hands and I cum so quickly. I'm kinda scared of sex (despite being 22) but god, I fantasize about so many things (sometimes even fucked up, like tentacles) and I get myself off so quickly. I do multiple orgasms in general (two or even three sometimes) but I feel kinda ashamed to cum so fast
yeah me too. Though in most cases, I just masturbate to put myself to sleep or release stress. Like when I have a deadline or a stressful project.
But I only ever needed my imagination and fingers.
, I was in your shoes, anon. I'm not one to finger myself either and go for pads but for the first time, sex didn't hurt me because of lots and lots foreplay and lube. The only time sex did hurt me was when I slept with some other guy who decided just flicking my nipples would be enough for stimulation for sex and god that was the most painful experience ever, couldn't even really get it in.
i second this. i got a gigi on sale. for anyone who might actually want sex toy tips, lelo toys are really expensive but worth it. i started out with the mia. coming from a wand, it felt like i wasted money lol. but slowly and surely i regained sensitivity and even though it takes longer to climax, the orgasms are 10000000% better. but with the mia, it would only last maybe two or three uses. three is pushing it. the gigi lasts me days, which is so surprising. if you're considering a lelo toy i'd really recommend a gigi!>>65281
what's funny? ? the gigi is amazing
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>mfw nothing at all feels good
>clitoral stimulation feels bad no matter what I do
>fingering feels like nothing
>vibrators just feel weird/unpleasant
Dunno what I'm doing wrong but everything sucks.
how are you stimulating it?
When i first started i would just rub it, but it kind of hurts like that. try lightly pressing down and just wiggling your finger in circles, without actually "Rubbing" if that makes sense? also make sure you're not rubing it dry, if you're not naturally lubricated try using some lube to start
Ever crack your back when you fart or poop? Majestic shit that is.
Anyway I just bought this https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072NYX872/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
and fuckig love it. If you're on a massive budget and hate buying batteries this one is a good one. It doesn't have a super strong clit vibe (all the vibration comes from the base) so I was disappointed at first but now I don't care, it does just enough and the vibration patterns can be fun to cycle through to warm up before you settle on the one you like
it comes from the strong stimulation on the nerves and i think the sudden relaxation of muscles. to be honest, im not too sure what it really is, because I know I once squirted drops and thought that was more accurate, but sometimes it just comes out like a waterfall and I just cant imagine where else would be so much fluid stored in my lower body but the bladder.
you can only avoid it by going slower or tensing up your pelvic muscles more.
Other solutions: start masturbating lying in the empty bathtub or buy latex bed sheets.
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There are a few BD models that I like.
But my preference goes to Exotic Erotics as they do absolutely gorgeous pours with their surprise and custom options.
I'm definitely getting one of their Orc models
No but I'm gonna try this. I've only ever managed to squirt once and can't seem to do it since. I had drunk a lot of water throughout the day and was really horny and more and more liquid kept gushing out as I was touching my g-spot.
Anyone have any tips on how to squirt, or know any good toys? I know you are supposed to stimulate your g-spot, but clearly people can gush just from stroking their clit, and I want to see if that's possible for me.
The proble is that I've felt like I "had to squirt" while being fingered before, so now I just refuse guys to finger me even though I really like it.>>67035
I can do it from both ways, what I do is when I stimulate my clit, I make sure to be a little aggressive right before I come (turn it on max, or move it around more). Once you're actually coming, just keep rubbing it a lot, hold it and hold it there and see if it helps. It doesn't always work for me but usually it does. If I stop rubbing when I come, it never happens though, so you just gotta keep going (it should happen right after your initial orgasm).
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I can only orgasm if I use my left hand's pointer finger to flick at the right side of my clit (has to do with the angle). Not even joking. Even doing that barely works.
I didn't say anything about penetration, though. That's always gross to me. I rarely do that and I always feel like absolute shit after. Like I raped myself. lol>>68317
Damn, good to hear. The only way I can really get off is frottage with clothes on and it's not that great either so I don't really bother normally.
Same here. It's shocking to see how many girls don't orgasm or even like penetration but are tricked into thinking its the one and only way to be truly intimate (unless they gay). I really thought I was the only one in the world who hated it. Its so relieving to know I'm not the only one.
On a similar note, does anyone know if there are any guys who don't like vaginal penetration? I've only known one person who said that it was "meh" compared to getting a bj. I'm guessing this is like finding a needle in a haystack though…
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I've been on antidepressants for about half my life. In the last 10 years, I've had maybe about 6 orgasms. I haven't had an orgasm in the past year. Toys, partners, hands, nothing will do it. If I go off of antidepressants, I get paranoid and depressed. On them, my sex life is shitty. I don't even want to get into a serious relationship right now because of my sexual dysfunction.
I try to masturbate pretty much every day and I never get anywhere. I always get bored and stop.
Clit stimulation, penetration and g-spot stimulation feel good, but it's never enough.
Been thinking about getting the Womanizer because I've had pretty shitty results with vibrators and it works completely differently.
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not exactly what you were asking for anon, but i travel a lot and instead of dragging my hitachi with me i use this. i can have it in my bags and no one cares, water proof, i pop the scrub attachment part off and go to town. vibrates crazy well and works perfect for me personally
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I got a Satisfyer Penguin. It's actually pretty good, but I wish the head was larger so it could fit a little more of the surrounding area. It's great for the price, and the higher settings are rather powerful. It has 8 settings, which go from very light/slow to very fast. Since you kind of hold it in the same place the whole time, it's not a great couple's toy. Unlike a traditional vibrator, you can't really do much teasing by moving it around.
Does anyone know if OP pic is safe? I read somebody boiled another pink toy from that company and the water turned red and now I'm afraid to use mine.>>72822
The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.
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Speaking of which, I fucking love glass dildos and plugs. I've never actually tried any on myself as of now (only on my bf, according to him it feels good tho) but I love the look of them, I'd love to have a collection eventually.
Glass can be colored unsafely, retard. If it's glazed or painted and improperly sealed instead of the dye being integrated into the glass, it can flake off or leech out into the body, and companies that lazy will use the cheapest, most dangerous dyes to do it. Even glass with no dye can contain lead or cadmium if it's low quality.
There's no real way to tell if a cheap glass toy is going to give you cunt cancer, just throw it out and buy a better one next time.
lead glass is extremely rare in cheap toys because it's expensive and fragile
also take a look athttp://dangerouslilly.com/2016/05/glass-sex-toy-safety/
Yes i contract and it feels good. My clitoris jumps while it is happe ing as well>>73166
I get wet after normally
No, it's not. If this is new, see a doctor about it, as something could be wrong.>>73226
That is an orgasm. If you find it underwhelming, know that not all orgasms are created equally. Among other things, the amount of build-up prior to orgasm can make an orgasm better or more mediocre. If it seems like it's not as good as you'd like, try letting it build up for a longer period of time. This can take a while to figure out, so it's good to be patient with yourself.>>73273
Is there only pain when it's an intense orgasm? Try masturbating the way you used to and see if the pain is still there. If so, something might be wrong. If not, it could be that the better orgasm comes with a harsher refractory period. Is your clitoris sensitive to the touch during and after orgasm, or does the pain persist even if you stop touching it?
No, now the pain always happens, no matter how I masturbate. Clitoris is sensitive, "responsive", it doesn't hurt after, only with an orgasm. It's like someone pinched, held, and released when the orgasm is gone.
Maybe I hurt it somehow? I'm never "brutal" though
Is that it? Was there any difference because that's fucking small. I noticed his belly more than his stubby thumb of a dick. I'd feel so emasculated and embarrassed if I were him recording That. Everyone now knows how small of a dick you have. Congratulations, that thing wouldn't even tickle the vaginal lips.
No wonder there's a thread dedicated to dildos on lolcow rather than mens' dick. The only one who thinks their dick is big is the man whom it's attached to.
I have that too althought it's not too bad so it doesn't hurt too much.
I have no advice except avoiding vaginal sex I guess… At least I know how it's called now so thanks.
But if it's really painful maybe you can get surgery on it.
It's good to take your time, especially if you're anxious or nervous in any way. My hymen was either really thick or my bf is big (he's pretty big) so it took us a while to get to PIV sex. We would try, get frustrated and go back to oral which was basically all we did this whole fall and winter. His parents were away so I was staying over, and we were on the bathroom floor next to the tub (we had just taken a bath) and finally I was just like fuck it, go for it, this is taking forever and I'm not waiting anymore, lol. It felt a little bit like being reamed out with a broom handle even though I was super wet and we had lots of lube, but it got significantly better right after that, so much so that I got a bad case of what they used to call honeymoon cystitis, i.e. a uti brought on by a lot of newbie fucking in a short span of time. Now I fuck constantly and it's great. All the oral we did while we couldn't actually have sex is a nice thing to fall back on, he's super good at it and I love sucking cock.
As for vibrators, I bought myself a Hitachi and it's worth it. I heard that after a while of using vibrators your clit can become insensitive tho, so I'm paranoid about using it too often even though I love it. Anyone have any idea if that's true or not?
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Said, it’s glass and it’s part of Icicles by Pipedream. I had this toy and it’s nice, but they have another tentacle-looking dildo that’s slimmer, ribbed, smooth and longer (pic). The “suction cups” on OP were kind of bumpy and annoying to me, I preferred the G spot stimulation of the long pink tentacle.
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Try the Eroscillator (+ Soft Finger tip, pictured). It’s nice and gentle and honed-in to one spot instead of the massive head of a Magic Wand or Hitachi. It’s a great rec for vibe beginners . I’ve tried a few vibes and it is by far my favorite, the only downside is it’s fucking expensive.
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Sorry for samefagging but I’m >>74174
and I read up on some DangerousLilly stuff and…yeah. Forget I recommended that to you.
The risk of buying a counterfeited item made with toxic materials.
It's ok if you're buying from a brand shop but you have to be aware that a lot of imitations are sold on Amazon (an you don't want to put an imitation Hitachi or Lelo in your precious couchie)
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i need it
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wtf thanks for sharing this. it's too good. led me to these bullet vibes that are like $16 on amazon with surprisingly good reviews. i think i'm just gonna do it. my favorite vibe isn't dead but it's getting a little sketchy so m-might as well get a backup right?
torn between devil ho and snake ho
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I want to buy my first toy. What is better - a dildo or a vibrator? A dildo appeals to me because it's more like a dick, and fantasizing is important in my play, but at the same time vib can give you more pleasure and you can use it as a dildo, yes? Or is a dildo superior with internal penetration?
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Seeing the Tokidoki ones on here made me buy this cheaper, smaller vibe to start as my first sex toy. It's adorable and has a lot of power for being only like $8. Can't wait to try it.
Fingering used to make me kind of squeamish too anon, you should get a small dildo to start with, and then you'll get more comfortable with insertion over time. Play some music you like and make sure you're relaxed, and enjoy yourself most of all. Try focusing on clitoral stimulation until you're loosened up a bit.
(A hairbrush handle also works if you don't want to buy a toy, but make sure there are no sharp edges)
i literally fucking love anal
for me sex is equally great-feeling in different ways both PIV and anal
but when getting off by myself anal is better (or I fancy DP sometimes lel)
I've done this a lot but always put a condom on whatever it is I'm using lol
But if you're a virgin, I recommend using your fingers. You'll want to feel both the pleasure from the penetration and "where you're going" with your fingers to make sure you don't hurt yourself. >>75468
I really like anal and DP as well, I have a small butt plug that is a godsent, I stick it in then finger myself. As much as people here like to say there's no anal pleasure without a prostate, I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazing.
>>75623>I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazing
This! thank you. i'm sure it's a different feeling from prostate pleasure and maybe not as intense, but if you get past the pain and are into the concept, it can be a lot of fun for that reason. it's just definitely not for everyone.
also i swear if i have at least a plug in during vaginal penetration or clit stimulation, it can make the feeling in my vagina and clit even more intense
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So, after months of bitching at my workaholic boyfriend about how little time we spend together (and therefore the lack of sex), I bought my first ever toy. Pic related - the Lelo Iris. Gone will be me angsting when my bf isn't around! Gone will be me angsting when he spends the night and falls asleep before fucking me!
It's a beautiful toy. I bought it because Lelo's products always look nice and unintimidating for a n00b like me. The varying pulses seem good for starting out soft and working up. I like the textured design as I'm a girl who doesn't like clitoral stimulation but adores penetration.
The soft pink colour is very attractive and the toy is quite smooth. It came with a packet of water-based lube but I also purchased a small bottle for later use.
I'm quite excited to try it out and glad that instead of being horny all the time I'll be able to start getting myself off - whenever I so please!
>>73116>The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.
I was >>72822
and while the toy works for me for one orgasm, I can't get two with it. Normally I can have at least 3. It's not a bad toy per se, but it's not universally great, either.
omg it makes me rage inside when people say that. like yeah if you fall in love with a person the way they look doesn't always matter, but that also applies to men and it certainly doesn't mean we don't care about looks when we're just trying to fap. it's just a shitty excuse made by presumptuous men who don't listen to women telling us what we like and don't like.
nothing turns me on more than hot guys who are my type and aren't afraid to objectify themselves to impress women honestly. like you said, it's so rare to find this that many of us don't even realize that's what we were missing and buy the line that women's attraction to men must "not be visual."
I wish I had reccs but in my case it wasn't a porno that gave me this realization it was danzig and type o negative music videos from the 90s
have the toy in ops pic and i really like it
its a lot of fun especially if you like tentacle stuff would recommend also its super cute
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I cannot recommend the Lelo smart wand more, it’s amazing and well worth the price, has a setting that changes the speed with the pressure you use!
I've read that peeled cucumber is fine with no condoms, actually, and is good for your vag. https://www.ohackers.com/article/put-peeled-cucumber-vagina/
I read it from a different source, but here's one that I found with a technique she uses included.
get in a place you can relax. Maybe try foria’s Hemp lube https://www.foriawellness.com/products/foria-awaken?variant=33410676675
And experiment. Don’t force anything. You need to be comfortable.
When I was having issues with pain it was just because I was uncomfortable. It helped me to get a little tipsy so I wasn’t really bothered with anything. I stopped associating it with pain and everything’s fine for me now.
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I just got one of these babies, and maybe I'm just inexperienced (this is my first vibrator that's not an electric toothbrush) but it is blowing my mind. The vibrations are powerful but not overwhelming, the size is reasonable (it hurts a little going in for me, and I am a very tight virgin), and it's very easy to clean. Also the price was pretty reasonable for the quality.
If you have trouble coming from clitoral stimulation, I would really recommend a rabbit-type like this one.https://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/waterproof-silicone-big-g
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I do this thing where i lay on my side and just squeeze my upper thighs together and can come in a few minutes, handsfree. I don't know if it is a real orgasm though because I've never had one during sex.
Whenever I mention the thigh thing people think it's really weird, I've only found one other girl who can do it.
Rubbing my clit is OK but it gets a little boring and I can never finish that way, same with fingering.
If any of you guys also use the thigh technique please let me know I feel like a weirdo.
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dude!!! i used to do that all the time before i had a vibrator because i kinda hate using my hands. i couldn't believe it "worked" and it felt like some sort of life hack. it's definitely not as pleasurable and full bodied as a regular orgasm but it's satisfying enough so i usually did it when i was distractingly horny and just wanted some relief.
i forgot about it for a while after i got my vibrator but i tried it recently and it still works.
evidently we aren't the only ones so why tf do we never hear about it?
Thank you!! I'm glad there's more of us lol
I wonder why some girls can do it and others can't. Maybe it's because of stronger thigh muscles or narrow hips?
nah I do it and I know a girl who does it too, she actually gave me an idea lol.
For me, I just sometimes do it while peeing (the more you need to pee, the better). I think of some quick fantasy and release the muscles, but before the pee gets out I tighten them and hold and achieve the pressure you're talking about. It's not quite like an orgasm for me, more like… very intense butterflies. It's definitely pleasurable, but I don't get off on it
that's the way i learned to masturbate too and it was the only way i ever got off until i went to uni. there i was forced to resort to my fingers due to the shitty hall showers lol. it took like 30 minutes and felt very underwhelming and hopeless the first few times but on like 5th attempt it started to get good and take less time. maybe just try to keep at it?? good luck!
altho stream of water is still my preffered method, warm water just feels so nice esp when on period.
Try reading erotica. Literotica.com, subreddits where people write their fantasies, fanfic, novels, etc
Or you could try audio porn. gonewildaudio, literotica's audio section, sexy audio threads from /soc/
with a good vibrator you genuinely dont have to think about anything
experiment with different ones, different positions etc and you should be good soon enough
I never watched porn or got off to porn, but I see a lot of "it's boring" from people who have quit. I probably won't ever really understand, but fantasizing is pretty easy and works well for me. Your brain might be wired for external stimulus from all those years and you probably haven't used the neuron groups associated with fantasizing to the point of having to reteach yourself.
Learn how to use your imagination again. You also don't have to fap all the time, either. Give your body a break. Fap when the feeling is upon you, and don't mirror the same habits you used when watching porn. Get used to interacting with your body, not just your clit, and familiarize yourself with how those sensations feel with the absence of an external stimulus overloading your brain.
Hope that helps, at least a bit.
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Yeah, mainly because I'm physically my type when it comes to women. Not conventionally 10/10 or anything, but I'd be dtf myself.
I also dabble in visual arts and mainly depict women with a similar build. I admit that's bordering on being a narc, but I also realize others wouldn't like my body so I'm actually very insecure in public.
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Can someone give me advice please?
>can't get off by my own fingers anymore, even after trashing my vibrators
>can only get aroused to extreme fantasy
>don't look at porn, however i do think about sex all day
I've tried nofap and it doesn't fix my inability to cum by hand. I get more and more frustrated until I eventually have a wet dream.
have you started a relatively new (as in the last year) birth control or medication?
i started taking orsithia in 2017 and completely lost my sex drive
even after not being on it since march of this year, i still havent gotten it back and have no desire to masturbate at all, and when i try im just numb basically and the orgasms, if i can have them, are basically nothing in intensity and really not worth the time
Try going off of the shower head for a while, then use rapid motions with your hands maybe? That's the motion that gets me off the most.
Regardless becoming accustomed to vibrations will just make it even more difficult in the long run. From what I've heard it's basically death grip for women lol.
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Anyone here tried a Louviva? I want to buy this one but I want to read honest reviews first.
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Their website looks like if someone was having an orgasm while making it
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i'm about to drop 1,300 bucks on a fucking sybian
sliquid slippery stuff isn't oily and is more gooey, but it's a bit watery and i find i'll need to reapply. it's my go-to, though
if you're really looking for that nasty, creamy lube tho, maybe check out the cum lube from bad dragon. i have no experience with it, but from what i've heard, it's thick
Nah it's more like a washing machine that you don't have to put your sneakers in.
Some of the heads don't even penetrate from what I've seen.
it's gonna be here on monday. i'm beyond excited, and still a little woozy from dropping that much cash. it'll be my most expensive sex toy, but cumulatively, i've spent more than 1300 on all the varying toys i've gathered through the years.>>111206
it's likely THE most powerful personal vibrator on the market right now. it does more that vibrate tho, some of the attachments rotate (like someone swirling their finger around inside you, but at 6000+ rpm lmao)
OK, i've used it a few times now, but it's pretty unwieldy and i'm still getting used positioning it best for my body. this thing is heavy, huge, and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.
once i can relax into it though, holy shit - my vision blurs and my legs turn to jelly. this machine has taken me to new heights.
but, no matter how good an orgasm i get from this thing, there's gonna be a little voice in my head afterwards saying "yea, but was it a 1300 dollar orgasm?" to which the answer is always gonna be "no"
i can't say i'd recommend buying it, but if you ever find yourself in the room with it, i really urge you to sit on it.
>>111516>and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.
Oh my. They should fix that on something so expensive.
Can you tell us more about how it works?
I had antibiotic treatment (sorry don't know what it's called in English) few weeks ago and my pussy has been acting out since then. My labia is painfully dry and masturbating is way less satisfying. I hate having to use lube. >>111160
Does anyone know if there's more affordable options with same idea? I know Sybian is a legend but I simply can't spend 1,300 bucks on sex toy.
Maybe when I'm old rich domme with a personal sex dungeon but not as a student.
Actually, antibiotics in itself shouldn’t affect your hormone levels. However, since it does affect your intestinal bacteria and enteric flora, and the health of your intestines does affect hormone levels, there might be a correlation.
Maybe read up on how to rehabilitate your intestines after taking antibiotics. Probiotics can be helpful.
Other than that… are you sure it‘s from the antibiotics? What did you get them for? Can you rule out a yeast infection (although idk how that would affect your libido)?
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Anons, I would like to find a good toy for beginners. Thing is, that i feel alot more pleasure when it comes to clitorious so it would be good to find some good vibrator…?
I really want to try out Lush / Lush 2 because the controlling idea sounds quite exciting to me. Anyone had experience with this one? Would you recommend it?
My bf bought this for me (without consulting me first so I couldn't veto it). It has known issues with connecting to your phone via blue tooth, which we observed. also, to charge it you have to pierce the silicone to get the cord in and that isn't hygienic at all. Germs will accumulate there over time in a part of the toy that will go inside your body.
I don't recommend it at all.
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I bought one of these “no touch” vibrators and it’s blown my mind. I need pretty strong vibrations to get off, but this one uses a really gentle suction and it feels like someone’s eating you out. I can usually only get off once in a sitting but this gets me twice every time. 12/10 and not very expensive, I think amazon has one type
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I have one of those and didn’t like it. I’m not huge fan of receiving oral sex, though.
Where do you guys find female-gazey porn/pics? To be honest I miss tumblr for it’s porn. Especially gifs because there is room for imagination.
I don't know what I expected to see but that picture wasn't it
But seconded, I feel like the destruction of spaces where you can express your sexuality contextualised within normal personal posts or share "soft" porn, like instagram and Tumblr, will lead to our options being either an underwear catalog or hard-core painal gangbangs on pornhub
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This. I want to enter an address into a browser and not see an ad for incest or fidget spinner buttplug porns thrown in my face, I miss tumblr for that.
Thanks for being the devil on my shoulder nonnie
, I'm always so tempted but i only want to blow the money if its gonna practically vibrate me out of my skin
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Not to blogpost but my mother recently found my dildo. I was embarrassed and all but it pissed me off when she told my father over the phone about it and they are DIVORCED! for 11 years! For what purpose???
I only fap late at night when my mom's already asleep.
She understands people have needs.
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Escalate. Next time she comes over, have something even more dramatic for her to find.
On a serious note, remember that it's totally fine and okay, and your mother had no right to look through your things.
Breaking news for your mother: you are grown woman. It’s her own fault that she was digging your stuff.
I mean, it’s not sex dungeon in your hidden basement.
When I found lube in my parent’s bath room I was happy that they are having sex=not divorcing more likely.
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visiting home and omg I forgot how much I love the water pressure here. I can come easily and good with fingers but the showerhead is like a whole nother level. just had a cheeky lil sesh and my legs are still shaking lmao (and I have toweled off, lotioned up and made this OC since then)
og anon, idk I think it depends? I used to masturbate exclusively with a showerhead from ages 9-18, then I had to switch to fingers (bc mounted showerhead in new place) and it took me like two weeks or so to adjust to that (but then again, I had never done it with fingers so there was def a learning curve included). however, ever since I did figure out how to get off with fingers I have had no problem switching around whenever. nothing will ever
beat period and showerhead combo though!
h-h-how do you think you can insert a showerhead
up your vagina?
by off chance you're not trolling, you stimulate your clit with both of the methods, in case of showerhead by pointing the water to it either like it is or by removing the showerhead so it's just the stream; in case of toothbrush by pressing the backside of the brush to the clit.
idk about that regret thing, I only feel like that when I've used "unconventional" things for it, have never used a pritt stick tho kek. the shame of grinding on a highlighter like some sort of retarded primate in heat you know
You can say clitoris. It's okay.
Also, try buying a real dildo so you don't feel so weird about it.
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can anyone rec some gay male porn with really nice moaning? that gets me off like no other, but a lot of times if you specifically search for it you'll get a lot of fake pornstar-y noises. i prefer amateur.
Can't really compare it, I don't particularly like or use vibrators and have also never used a hitachi and the satisfyer isn't a vibrator (although they do have models with vibration), it uses what they call pressure wave stimulation iirk. Some people compare the sensation to oral so imagine someone sucking on your clit over and over and over again. I ended up using it again that same night within like 10 mins and I couldn't even get past the 4th setting level (it has 11) without feeling like I was gonna lose my mind and it definitely gives amazing orgasms. I'd have to be home alone with a pillow over my face to ever be able to use it at the higher settings because shit gets INTENSE and there's no way I'd be able to stay quiet.
There is a learning curve to figuring out how to work it and position it the right way but I'm excited to use it again. Its worth looking into if it piques your interest though!
I've tried both. The Satisfyer is subtle good for a few orgasms, It's not really suitable for partnered activities. You just kind of hold it still. The Hitachi is not subtle. It's good for use with a partner and they can get it to work by putting it in the general direction of your clitoris. It's best to move it around or the vibrations can numb you out for a few minutes. You can pretty much keep going with orgasms for 20 minutes (when it needs to be turned off to cool down) if that's what you want to do.
One thing to note is that the Satisfyer doesn't have the largest "nozzle" so it might be a little bit difficult to get situated, depending on your anatomy.
I think it overall depends on the person and their anatomy but hard agree. I used to struggle to get off once per day even though I was aroused, with that bad boy I can finish AT LEAST once a day, sometimes twice which is impossible with a regular vibe for me.
I do think when I place it wrong it doesn’t feel the best, and I also don’t like the feeling of penetration with it going, dildo or fingers or anything. Usually I do a bullet vib + dildo combo but with the satisfier (I think I have an offnbrand one) I can go from unaroused to orgasm in less than 10 min
How was it and can you link?
I have a rabbit type that has a hard ridge at the head so it just sits stuck in you, it works well but I want something that is easy to move in and out.
It's really weird, I think maybe it just feels too good so I end up overstimulating myself out of lack of self-control. Somehow I've never gotten oversensitive after my bf rubs me, maybe I'll ask him to try it with me.
Do you just orgasm and keep going without stopping at all? At the same intensity?
Can’t say what it’s supposed
to be like, if there’s such thing, but to me it usually feels good the entire time.
Sometimes, when I’m only slightly horny but not really in the mood it’s a bit like you’re describing it, but I’ll also need a lot more pressure/vibration to come in general, so idk.
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I have nowhere else to share this for…obvious reasons, but, I masturbated for the first time!(I'm 20 btw) Like properly, I've done pillow humping like once or twice but it did not compare to what I tried last night. I got one of those magic wand vibe things. I accidently switched it to the highest setting first on accident though and that was…not pleasant lol. Though using the lower setting I think I almost had an orgasm? Maybe? My stomach muscles started like moving on their own and my head felt all light. But just as I thought I got 'there' it was too much and I had to stop myself. Is this normal? Do I need to just force myself to keep going or get a vibe with a lower setting? I'm going to try again tonight though, regardless.
>>118800>it was too much
Sounds like you got right to the edge and stopped before you orgasmed. Try to keep going next time, you'll definitely
know when it hits.
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Keep the vibe on that low gentle setting, you're comfortable with. You'll cum.
I've seen a few videos where the orgasm liquid that comes out is stringy and thick
would that be as close to squirting/cumming as girls get or would that just be because of some untreated infection?
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I bought my first dildo/vibe. It'll be here in a week. Kinda fell in love with this one because it's sleek and doesn't come in a gaudy neon color. I spent quite a bit because the cheaper ones on amazon have mixed reviews of either being wonderful or straight up not charging out of the box. I didn't want to take the chance.
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Slightly off topic, but I was looking at vibes and saw this in the reviews and I can't stop fucking laughing.
Late to the party, but just incase it's useful:
My bf bought the Lush 2 after checking with me to see if I was into it. It's a great toy, with powerful vibrations. The silicone is a lovely texture and it feels well-made. It's well-balanced and easily stays in while walking around. I'd recommend it, but not for you. The top part doesn't vibrate at all; it's just an antenna and on/off button. It's a really nice toy, but it really only does g-spot and other internal stimulation.
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If you guys ever wanted to get fisted by Thanos, there's a dildo for it
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It's about the size of a small woman's fist. You'd be surprised how many people buy this sort of thing. On amazon, they sell massive butt plugs that are meant more as a novelty, but there are gay men in the reviews who actually used them.
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Pic related is said "butt plug"
How big is it and is it soft? I have a rabbit but would like a more flexible version.>>119586
A sign of being very healthy, it's just the little death.
I'm 30 and I rarely go a day without my solo-time. Been like that since my teens and have only ever noticed a decrease when I struggled with depression or took meds for that
If it's not interfering with relationships or taking up too much time I would see it as healthy
If there's a too often, is there a not often enough? I do it about once a week, maybe even less than that, but every other month I go through a phase for like a week where I do it every day and sometimes twice.
I don't think there is a definite "normal" but more of a "what's normal for you" kind of thing, but I don't know.
There's definitely no reason to think that you should be masturbating more
You shouldn't stop yourself if you feel the need/want to (assuming you're in private at home), but not masturbating more isn't really an issue
Sounds like you're bi and like the majority of couples, lose that initial horny spark that can be short or long lived.
Sounds like you just trust your toys more.
yeah I've been stuck between thinking I'm bi because in terms of porn or looking at people I go both ways but then If I'm honest I don't want any contact with a person, it's more just visually appreciating someone.
I've had sex in relationships cos it felt like an expectation and one relationship I had for 4 years he never pushed it so we never had sex once.
I'm at a point where no matter what my label technically is I need to probably only date asexuals because I don't want to repeat having sex out of 'duty'
Sites like eBay and Amazon have alot of cheap knockoffs of branded toys or unsafe toy materials from China etc. A site like lovehoney would be better. Lots of product reviews on site and a plain brown box for packaging
The return address on their parcels is usually 'LH Trading' too so even that is discreet
My advice would be to to stick to safe materials like silicone and get something rechargeable if you want power
I buy from Eden Fantasy's it always ships in a plain brown box and doesn't say anything explicit on the billing statement.
They always seem to be having sales too.
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I'm someone who is hunting for toys with a more organic feel. I bought this one that is meant to feel a bit like oral sex. It's pretty nice but it's sides are not as soft as they should be and uncomfortable. Why can't sex toy companies make something that is comfortable and soft and still firm enough for stimulation?
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I have the Eroscillator and the "marshmallow" tip is honestly the best. I wasted money getting the other 3 attachments because this one is so perfect and squishy.
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Seems nice. I have also wanted to try one of Tenga Iroha's squishy products, anyone tried them?
If it makes you feel better anon, I relate to all of this in my own way. I've been attracted to both men and women, although the sexual "spark" is rare and I don't really have a drive to act on it, and I don't feel much downstairs anyway. Romantically, I love both sexes, but because sex seems like an obligation, and the other person loses interest eventually anyway, I've just given up on relationships entirely. If I ever meet an asexual person, where sex is rare and only when both of us really want it, or not at all, that'd be perfect, but I'm not going out of my way to look for it anymore.
It can't be made of silicone if it has a smell, no silicone toy will have a smell
Rubber/TPE/TPR all have smells and are all porous materials that don't ever wash completely because of this porous quality
Reminder to everyone ITT to stay the fuck away from porous materials like jelly toys. They aren't safe to use. http://dangerouslilly.com/2010/10/yes-jelly-sex-toys-can-be-dangerous/
Stay safe, fapping farmers.
Oh wow Dangerous Lilly has been the lil lolcow of sex toy reviewing blogs for about a decade, she's always been into bitchy subtweeting other smaller reviewers and chased a few away from doing what they enjoyed. She never shuts up about her manic episodes and the worlds 'fatphobia' towards her. Takes turns between bullying people and having personal crises
Do stick to safe materials like medical grade silicone though, or glass. Half the sex toys out there are made of materials that have no place going inside a body
Ooh, is there a thread about her?
I just noticed and copied this link from earlier in this thread. It's message is important to repeat. I had no idea that jelly toys were dangerous, myself.
The sex toy reviewing community is full of lil lolcows, super woke people that have daily tweets about all the transphobia and fatphobia that they are assaulted with everywhere they go.. that and they're constantly losing their day jobs and setting up gofundmes claiming they face homelessness..high rates of mental illness, always the victim
etc..none of them have enough of a following to get onto here though
I think most of us sadly start out with a jelly toy cos the the translucent look (and the price) appeals. I've had jelly toys literally melt and stick to each other before I switched to all silicone
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A bit OT I found her twitter. She will never lose weight because she gets injured, gals.
Yeah that’s normal for some. I‘ve never had one of those and am pretty sure it’s sadly just not a thing that my body does.
But yeah, heard a few women describe things like that.
Yeah lovehoney is good, they still sell a few jelly and rubber toys which I hate to see but have higher ratios of safe material toys compared to many sites.
I'd love to see a day when jelly toys are banned for being a health risk, prob won't happen though
Is it bad for you or just unnecessary? >>123247
All that shit should be banned at least from websites who don't want to give their costumers vag cancer or whatever. There is so much talks bout the harms of chemicals in plastic and beauty products these days so there should be more spotlight on stuff like this that people actually put inside their bodies.
i know this is like 2 months old, but wtf, I do produce a sticky-like mucus substance that its clear and has no color, kinda like egg white, like >>119204
describes but wtf, does that come out from your urethra??? I'd swear it comes out of my vagina instead. And apart from that, there is the usual quantity of pussy juice my vaggo produces when it's aroused oc. Also it doesn't feel like I "squirt it out".
Idk, more opinions on this?? I don't think that's squirting at all but kek, I'm curious on other people's experiences. I always assumed that was what comes out of all vaginas when you come.