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No. 48662

Hi! I don't know if this belongs in /g/ or here…but most of us will never have a sexual partner so here we can give masturbation tips to each other to improve our solo sex lives! DIY sex toys for those of us who still live with their parents, sex toys recommendation, rub techniques, tips and tricks for multiple orgasms, kawaii pastel sex toys, kawaii sex videos etc…

No. 48663

OP is probably a guy.

No. 48664

I just gotta say, don't use jelly toys (the ones usually found in sex stores). Only use silicone or glass, they're the safest and easily cleanable.

No. 48665

No 20 year old virgin who masturbates in the same room as her sister when she is asleep

No. 48666

Why no jelly toys?

No. 48667

OP is definitely a guy

No. 48668

You're replying to OP (me)

No. 48669

Links to kawaii sex toys would be appreciated. All the ones I've seen so far are ugly.
The one in OP is cute, but it looks scary. Has anyone used anything like that?

No. 48670

>most of us will never have a sexual partner

This thread was definitely made by a man.

No. 48671

This sentence makes no grammatical sense.

OP is still a guy.

No. 48672

Serry i was fingerin myself when i made that post and i didnt want to make my phone dirty (im fapping again)
Ok im now finished
I wish i could use a vibrator or any other sex toy but i dont want to go to a sex shop and im afraid my mum will open my package if i order it as i want it to keep it a secret. And even if i managed to keep it a secret i would never be able to use it, my sister and i share the same room. Fapping in the toilet doesnt make me wet ….

No. 48673

No. 49045

Because the materials they're made from can be toxic, and they're very porous which means you can't ever get them completely clean. Sex toys are one thing you really shouldn't cheap out on.


No. 49046

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please stop

No. 49047


No. 49048

Whats wrong with this thread? Are you underaged? We have a kink thread but we cant have a fap thread? Fuck off

No. 49049

K but nobody wants a livefeed of you masturbating though
Fuck off

No. 49050

The difference is that, last I checked, the kink thread wasn't flagrantly retarded

No. 49051

You must be 18 to post here. Fuck off.

No. 49052


No. 49053

Have you read the kink thread? There's at least one sperg who keeps derailing because they simply have to show off how intelligent and worldly they are.

That said, this thread belongs in manure.

No. 49054

9 days later I somehow have the urge to masturbate again anon. Yes im op.

No. 49055

>most of us will never have a sexual partner

hate to confirm that lovely old r9k stereotype but any female can get sex purely for being female.

I'm maybe a 4/10 on a good day and i have no issues getting guys who want to fuck. I don't do it mind you. I'm not especially cool with the idea of being used by someone who wouldn't look twice at me for anything else..but yeah. Sex is easy to get

anyway. Are the lelo toys worth the money?

No. 49056


holy moly anon. I know this is an old-ish post but thank you for the links. I'm completely captivated by this blog and I'm reading a ton of her stuff now. I honestly didnt know this about toys and I'm glad I know now !

No. 49057

Honestly though anon, you sound like someone who's assured in themselves and knows what they want. Guys are into that.
Some women really come off as autistic, isolated and unlikeable, which is why they never get laid.

No. 49058

youre a fuckign retard. kill yourself you dumb bitch

No. 49059

How? Do you just ask them? Like random guys or guys you know? Do you ever get scared someone might not be totally kosher? I'm fine with being used as I'd most likely do plenty of using myself if given the chance.

I don't use toys. They all look kinda weird to me. Plus I'm not really into penetration. It doesn't do much of anything for me. I'm 90% clit action. Mine is very prominent so maybe that's why.

No. 49060

Nah autism is hardly a turn off when it's a woman. Many men like the shy girl type

I hate to sound like a robot, but if you're using a service like tinder then even if you're 4/10 you'll be getting at least a good dozen matches a day and if you message them back you're guaranteed to get some

No. 49061

Hell that Trigglypuff chick has been on 8 dates this month according to her okcupid page

No. 49062

Men actually don't like antisocial, rude, girls with no self-awareness. Difference between somewhat shy and unbearable drag.

No. 49063

Well the difference here is that women have a lot easier time getting laid for sure, but I think women also get the shit end of the stick when it comes to dating. As a guy I get a hell of a lot less messages, usually none, on dating sites. If I do get one then it usually mean the girl is interested in getting to know me better and I probably will have a higher success rate then. I've made an account as an average looking woman and you're just absolutely flooded with messages from men who want into your pants

Anyways it's not politically correct to say, but women have to sort through the trash whereas men are trying to get past this trash filter women have by hitting on many women until they break through

No. 49064

Kinda forgot to tie this together, but even if you're rude and have zero self awareness you'll have no issue getting casual sex, but you'll definitely have a harder time getting into a relationship

No. 49065


I own the lelo g-spot vibes and i love them so much. I actually own 2 of them. I put one inside and use the other one for clit stimulation. totally worth the money

No. 49066

The whole "girls can get laid easier" thing always sidesteps that if you're going for a random who just wanted easy sex, the sex is probably going to be terrible.
Obviously not every girl is the same, some are ok with a jerk just jamming it in, finishing and then turning over, but I'm not. Just because you could theoretically get access to some dick immediately doesn't mean that you wouldn't want to shop around for someone you think might be good in bed or invested in making it good for you too.

No. 49067

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I'm just going to leave this here.

No. 49068

nice way to bump a half yeah old thread you skinny fat attention whore. what were you trying to accomplish here? what reaction were you hoping to get?

No. 49069


calm down, everything will bee okay

No. 49070

Erm, I have a partner but you're delusional if you think every couple fucks like rabbits and that there aren't going to be times, unintentional or otherwise, where you'll find you'll have to make your own pleasure.

That said, anyone know where I can get an authentic hitachi wand? ie. not a junk one from amazon.

Had a fling with some dude I met off a dating profile way back and one of the hottest things he did to me was restrain my legs and force me into orgasm with one. I have a shitty silver bullet and a jelly dildo that rotates/has a tickler but tbh I don't really like the dildo and I wind up using the bullet more often. But the bullet doesn't satisfy me as much as the wand did.

Sidenote and more related to the thread: Does anyone else have a sensitive vagina when it comes to using dildos? I don't like them because they feel really hard, even the jellies, and it feelings like the bumps/general shape scrapes me on the inside. I don'r like fingering/being fingered for the same reason because I can feel the fingernails scraping against me and it grosses me out. I've yet to find one that's as comfortable as an actual dick.

No. 49071

>oops and I just realized this was a bumped thread but my post still stands if anyone cares

No. 49072

> Does anyone else have a sensitive vagina when it comes to using dildos?

omg yes me and my ex had such a hard time with this she really loved to top but we got so many dildos and they all kind of hurt even with tons of lube.
but also i take take like a huge dick??? it doesn't hurt the same.

No. 49073

oh and sry for double post but i really like this store toydirty.com hitachi's are expensive (they are the best though) but they have bunches of things with reviews and things i've gotten that i love too. if you follow the shop owner on tumblr she has discounts like everyday

No. 49074

Anon please don't use jelly dildos, the materials used to make them are terrible and porous so you can never clean them properly.

No. 49075

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Does anyone have problems with.. uhh.. their vaginal depth? My vag is like, 3-4 inches deep. I can barely fit my small dildo in there, let alone a full size one. This frustrates me to no end because I LOVE sex toys. I never understood how could some girls fit 8 inches or more up there.

Is this common?

No. 49076

I believe it's very common (and hope it really is) because I'm just like you. If it's not common then we're both fucked, eh. Better ask that in the vagina thread if you're worried

No. 49077

Another short vag anon checking in. I made the mistake of buying a really nice first dildo only to discover I can't use it. feelsbad

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>skinny fat


No. 49079

>that sad little dakimakura
>that lumpy sausage of a body
Lmaoooo gtfo

No. 49080

I thought this was a woman's body for a second. I'd compliment your titties but they're not nice desu.

No. 49081

Let's see your bodies then

No. 49082

gg here, if you want depth then start with anal masturbation. Its a hassle but its worth the experience, just remember to prepare right.

No. 49083

Send €15k to my Paypal, then we'll talk

No. 49084

>asks for money to take her clothes off
>not a whore
Pick one

No. 49085

>whore as an insult
They make more money than you

No. 49086

Corrective rape

No. 49087

Didn't say I wasn't one, cough it up or fuck off virgo

No. 49088

Different anon but AS IF you wouldn't get fucking nuts to be called a whore by someone. It's only empowering when you call yourself one, please. Anyone else who calls you a whore you will definitely get offended because you know whores are disgusting

No. 49089

fucking gross, go away

No. 49091

anon i love you <3

No. 49092

Your boobs shouldn't hurt from showering… might want to see a doctor about that.

No. 49093

You could have a breast tissue problem, or a hormonal problem but they shouldn't be that sensitive at all. Please go see a OBGYN about it, just to make sure it's nothing bad.

No. 49094

>trashy tattoos
>type of skinnyfat that only a mum can compliment
>monkey emoji
>takes noods
You're a g4p aren't cha?

No. 49095

I honestly don't give a shit, call me whatever the fuck you want. It's just a word

No. 49096

ok hun

No. 49097

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I feel like the sanic of masturbation.
I can get myself off in under 3 minutes with no heavy equipment and it does the job, but it's more of a pressure release rather than something I do for pleasure. Yet I don't like sex because it's so fucking fussy and takes too long, and I never get anything out of it. After a while I just get bored and shoo my bf off.

I don't know how to make myself enjoy it and I don't know what's wrong. Everyone's talking about it being this thing that feels super good and there's also the 'better than sex' saying but I feel so whatever towards it yet I have major FOMO.

No. 49098


No. 49099

Slow down a little, Sanic. The build up makes it feel better. Buy a vibrator or dildo. Also I think you should watch some porn or something to get yourself in the mood, the way you describe it makes it sound like a chore.

That being said, people might be overselling it to you. Flicking the bean feels good, but it's not some kind of life changing experience. Put that FOMO to rest on this one.

No. 49100

Prob because to a lot of people, it is a chore. People run differently,

No. 49101


I used to be a sex maniac and confirm that since settling down.. it can feel like a chore. I've completely lost my libido and I'm only 21. Anyone one else experienced this?????? I'd be grateful for advice

No. 49102

Like the other anon already said, the build up is the fun part.

Sex should be fun, relationships between people with completely different sex drives ususally don't really work. Are you gettung off during sex? Do you find your bf attractive? You should really make this work if you want things to last.

No. 49103

Weird question but does anyone feel too sensitive? I started masturbating at around 12 so I'm really good at making myself orgasm (via my clit, obvs). But I've been with my boyfriend for many years and he hasn't made me orgasm once. I've guided him through everything I do but when he touches me it almost feels painful? Sex with him otherwise is great and turns me on but that's about it, I have to make myself orgasm and it's getting harder because I never regained my sex drive after I lost it on the pill earlier this year. He ends up having an orgasm before me because I take too long (and having sex with him after that is miserable because he's no longer horny).

I don't like receiving oral, I don't particularly like being fingered and I don't like him touching my clit. He doesn't really use the right pressure with toys either. Touching myself isn't always possible in every single position.

What can I do? I've heard of people online using numbing creams but jesus I'm not that bad.

No. 49104

same here, I can only get off by touching myself, I'm too sensitive even for oral and get annoyed trying to teach partners how to touch me because it hurts if the pressure isn't spread out. I come within seconds if I do touch myself though.

No. 49105

Used up at 21 kek

No. 49106

I'm 21 also, completely lost my libido. I remember a time when my boyfriend used to complain because I was horny too often! Hah.

I blame it on the pill. It stopped when I started taking it and when I came off it, it never came back. Advice to anyone: never take it, it will ruin your life. Just stick to condoms and the morning after pill if you get a scare. Far more worth it.

No. 49107

I think I might have the same problem except worse. Even trying to masturbate just feels uncomfortable/painful. Dildos and vibrators don't change anything. I don't have an SO so I guess I don't need to worry about anything really but one day I'm going to need to worry about sex and I don't think I'm going to be able to handle it.

No. 49108

Same here, except I don't (can't?) feel anything if they touch me down there. But I can make myself orgasm just fine.

No. 49109

Does this happen to others?

I used to watch a lot of crazy 4ch type porn in my tweens and teens so that fucked me up in terms of what I could get off to, and it was at the point where bfs in that time couldn't do it for me and I've had to fake orgasms or get myself off afterwards.

Skip to now and all the shit that used to get me OFF now gives a shitty weak orgasm. What gets me off now is just thinking about having sex with my LDR bf. That's it. It can be whatever kind of flavor (sweet, rough, kinda kinky, etc) but it has to be me and him.

Like shit, I adore my bf but I feel like this is too much lol.

No. 49205

I've been going back and forth on buying this for almost a year

Anyone have an opinion on whether or not I should go for it?

No. 49206


damn, i got so excited looking at that website but then i checked the price…

No. 49207


people become more and more vanilla with age tbh, nothing to worry about.

No. 49208

So I had this problem until I got a partner who was very very gentle. Try:
-telling him to be gentle as possible, then even more gentle than that. like feather strokes. tell him your clit is more sensitive than his eyeball.
-wearing satin panties and stroking over the top
-putting the whole of his hand over your vulva and pressing or moving very gently

No. 49209

Are hitachi wands as good as all the hype?

And does anyone have experience with whether it matters that much for quality if I get the real thing or some other brand??

No. 49210

well it's 40% off right now so $120 down to $70 might make it worth it to me

No. 49211

>70 bucks for a stupid fucking sextoy
this is the height of jewry

No. 49212

Lol, it's called an investment in quality. I'd rather buy something expensive once and use it for a long time rather than cheap out on something that's not going to last or is going to gobble up batteries. Considering all the shit this thing does, the price is definitely warranted.

As long as reviews are solid, I would say go for it, especially since there's a discount right now.

No. 49213


not american, so that's way too much money for me to spend and won't cover the crazy shipping i would get :( but if that's a reasonable price for you do it anon, it seems like a really cool product.

No. 49214

Is squirting real? If so I want to learn how to do it

No. 49215

Glad that there's nothing wrong with me! Haha.

Brilliant advice anon, thanks! Tbh I think it's a combination of that and patience.

No. 49216

I can confirm it's real, did it once when I was younger but never managed to do it again.

Also I assume all of you orgasm via the clit? That's how I orgasm 100% of the time but there was a time when I was able to orgasm inside my vagina. Can't for the life of me figure out how I did it now. I've looked up tutorials and the sensation just makes me feel like I need to pee now…which is awful.

No. 49218


Sorry for this being totally unhelpful but I had never in my life orgasmed from vaginal stimulation until my current boyfriend.
For me it admittedly does kind of feel like I have to pee but according to him (and some blogs I've read) that's kind of the beginning of squirting. I've never squirted before but maybe the time you squirted was when you still had vaginal orgasms?
Tbh I don't think I could vaginally orgasm just while masturbating though because I wouldn't be able to get past that kind of feeling of having to pee as well as I don't think I could keep up the pressure because when I start to get close vaginally my body gets kind of weak ah haha. Any position that has my boyfriend hitting the front of my vagina is when I orgasm without touching my clit.

No. 49219

Sorry for samefag, I reread my post and hitting makes it sound bad and painful, just positions that have him putting a lot of pressure on the front of my vagina work.

No. 49220

It doesn't feel like much when I try to uh…pleasure myself from the inside. For me it's definitely something that only a partner can do.

An ex gave me an internal massage once. It didn't feel particularly good while he was stretching me out with his fingers, but afterward when he slipped his dick in…good God it was amazing, I almost came just from that.

Another time, my date was especially good at fingering and almost got me off through that. He had the right place and perfect pressure. But he got tired so no climax for me lol.

No. 49221

I've heard that's what it feels like when you're beginning to squirt too but it definitely didn't feel like that when I managed it years ago. Like it feels bad so idk why anyone would be motivated to continue?

Wow that's really interesting… Maybe it's just about finding the right area. I've read countless tutorials online with no success. Sounds like a little project for when we have some time on our hands haha.

No. 49316

No. 49317

Is there a market for this? Sex dolls of either sex seem to be really unnecessary. Onnaholes and vibrators with good digital aids seem like a better alternative and they don't take up all your closet space.

No. 49318

That's what I was also wondering. Besides it isn't warm (heaters inside would probably solve this) and it won't fuck you doggystyle just like onaholes don't do active blowjob.

No. 49319


I would prefer vibrators than a whole doll. Unless it could actually move on it's own and be interactive it just seems like it would be a pain in the ass to deal with.

No. 49320

I would totally buy a male sex doll, assuming it looked pretty realistic like female dolls do. This is definitely the best looking one I've seen so far.

No. 49321

Me too! I wish i could afford a custom made one…

No. 49322


Sex dolls kind of baffle me. They can't talk to you, pull you into a hug, or you know, actively fuck you. They just sit there, unmoving. If I want to have sex I'd just rather do it with an actual person who I can interact with and feel their body heat/heartbeat. Dolls will never be the same thing.

No. 49323

>Sex dolls kind of baffle me. They can't talk to you, pull you into a hug, or you know, actively fuck you. They just sit there, unmoving

Exactly they're modelled after women

No. 49324

Modelled on what men expect from women, you mean. Stupid fucking robot.

No. 49325

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Look at this roastie getting toastie

No. 49326

>ugu I expect women to be like my annie may

You are getting roasted at life, buddy.

No. 49327

Vice is trash and this video is no exception.

However it's interesting to note how they mention the male dolls have more customizeable options, the ability to make them imperfect, as that's what their clients want. I think that really shows one of the differences the two sexes generally have when looking for a partner. Additionally, shows just how removed from reality bots&cels are when they cry online about roasties.

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No. 55019

why do you want one?

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11/10 would recommend

No. 55130

Does anyone know a rechargeable vibrator that's "buzzy"? I love the feeling of battery bullet vibes, but batteries are expensive.

I own a WeVibe Tango and Lelo Siri 2. Both of them are extremely rumbly which is supposed to be better…but only frustrates me.

No. 55157

Even when you're extremely aroused? I have heard that normally the vagoo stretches out when you are.

No. 65281

No. 65286

they actually modeled him into a realistic looking man

with sex dolls they model them after women who look like they underwent 50 plastic surgery procedures but the male one looks… normal

No. 65362

How do I stop feeling gross and fucked up and like a terrible person after I masturbate and fantasize about anything remotely non-vanilla? I know guys say they have "Post-Porn watching regret" but I don't watch porn and it's like a 1000x more intense and I hate myself afterwards.

I know the fantasies don't mean you're a bad person, what you fantasize about isn't what you'd actually do irl, but fuck, I feel this way even after just masturbating to imagining myself having sex doggy style. My brain doesn't get the memo and it's making me start to hate masturbating.

No. 65392

I never had actual sex (as in breaking my hymen) and probably never will.
Maybe because I'm not attracted to boys/only want to be with a girl but the idea of putting something down there (other than maybe the tip of a dildo at most) is a no no for me, it's really tight too and putting even a finger feels…weird. I can watch vaginal penetration and feel slightly turned on somehow but it's just weird to me and uncomfy) and I can only come from clit stimulation.
I feel like a weirdo sometimes.
Also I only had sex once and cannot manage to do it if i don't love the person/completely trust her. I'll fantasize about many kinky things (like tentacles) even though i'm mostly vanilla but in real life i'm so nervous and shy when it comes down to it.

Are you me? I used to have that too! It just kinda went away with the years, I feel kinda ashamed and if my birb is in the same room I just can't do it because I feel like he might be judging me (which is stupid)

No. 65393

What do you girls think about/watch/… when touching yourself?
The more precise de better, I'm just really curious about it.

No. 65395


you can have "actual sex" without vaginal penetration. don't get brainwashed into thinking only putting shit up inside you is the only true way to have sex, it ain't. if you aren't a fan of penetration, then don't force yourself to do it if you don't want to. plus you can't break the hymen, it can tear. and if your hymen tears, then either you or your partner are doing something wrong.

No. 65410

I usually fantasize about a certain guy I've slept with before. I really like calling out his name for some reason. Probably the best sex I've had so I resort to thinking of that. Rarely do I watch porn because I'm so picky.

No. 65417

I read fics and sometimes watch hentai, i'm kinda picky, same for 3D porn.
I like to imagine I'm being molested, I'm gross.

No. 65434


>you can have "actual sex" without vaginal penetration.

no you cant. she knows this intuitively, you have to delude yourself to think otherwise. proof enough.

>don't get brainwashed into thinking only putting shit up inside you is the only true way to have sex, it ain't.

you are doing the brainwashing, and yes it is.

No. 65438

Go away robot, penetrative sex is not the end-all. Lots of people find it meh at best.

It took years of trying for me to be able to have penetrative sex comfortably. It's not a lost cause but don't focus on it if there are other things you like more, it shouldn't be a chore.

No. 65444

We're the same, anon. I'm trying to figure things out too with sex, penises and my unbreakable hymen kek

No. 65450

I'd buy one. Also I love how it can be customizable. I'm thinking who'd be better to order, if Geralt, Solid Snake or Alucard from Castlevania. Too bad a doll can't doggy style

No. 65453

Ho ho, you like buff guys don't you?

>tfw dolls can't hug you or pat your head

That's legit all I want. Maybe getting my butt squeezed too

No. 65462


hope you're a robot cuz if not good luck only cumming 20% of the time kek

No. 65482

I'm worried that when I have penetrative sex it will rly hurt for me. My two other friends said that when they had sex it didn't really hurt much, but they did have a lot of experience w/ fingering, etc. I can get a finger up there but not very deep, and I also find tampons rly uncomfortable (maybe I'm putting it in wrong?) so when the time comes to have sex I'm a lil nervous

No. 65491

Hey, me too!
I've been thinking of fingering a little more and trying to geta 2n finger in with lots of wetness/lube. Maybe that'll make the first time having dick up there hurt less?

No. 65492

Yea that's what I've been trying too!! But I feel like if it's hard for me to even get a tampon in there I'm gonna have a lot of trouble later ;;

No. 65493

Its about foreplay and being comfortable with your partner, try to get in a more aroused state before you do anything

No. 65495

Same here. I could only get a finger in two times in my life, but only because I spent more time relaxing and using a lot of lube. While usually I can't bother to spend all that time and just go for clit stimulation, lol.
So, when the time will come, make sure you have lube and do a lot of foreplay. Maybe it's just psychological and after doing it we will feel more "loose"

No. 65497

>sanic of masturbation
>that image
i chuckled.
But I understand anon! I only use my hands and I cum so quickly. I'm kinda scared of sex (despite being 22) but god, I fantasize about so many things (sometimes even fucked up, like tentacles) and I get myself off so quickly. I do multiple orgasms in general (two or even three sometimes) but I feel kinda ashamed to cum so fast

No. 65522

yeah me too. Though in most cases, I just masturbate to put myself to sleep or release stress. Like when I have a deadline or a stressful project.
But I only ever needed my imagination and fingers.

No. 65540

hey idk if this is normal
but my main masturbation method is only through clitoral stimulation (which is absolute heaven for me), never had the "balls" to put a single thing up there
but a few months ago i tried to finger myself (only one finger, it was way too tight for more) and i didn't feel anything?
like, i feel my fingers up there and all, but i dont feel any pleasure?
am i maybe just doing it wrong???

No. 65542

Try more fingers at once, and go faster.

No. 65585

Seconding >>65495, I was in your shoes, anon. I'm not one to finger myself either and go for pads but for the first time, sex didn't hurt me because of lots and lots foreplay and lube. The only time sex did hurt me was when I slept with some other guy who decided just flicking my nipples would be enough for stimulation for sex and god that was the most painful experience ever, couldn't even really get it in.

No. 65597

Try curling your finger(s) and rubbing the spongy area (aka your g-spot). I don't think it's the mindblowing secret everyone says it is, but it does feel p good. I'm the same though, 99% of the time just use clit stimulation. Totally normal

No. 66147

i second this. i got a gigi on sale. for anyone who might actually want sex toy tips, lelo toys are really expensive but worth it. i started out with the mia. coming from a wand, it felt like i wasted money lol. but slowly and surely i regained sensitivity and even though it takes longer to climax, the orgasms are 10000000% better. but with the mia, it would only last maybe two or three uses. three is pushing it. the gigi lasts me days, which is so surprising. if you're considering a lelo toy i'd really recommend a gigi!
what's funny? ? the gigi is amazing

No. 66152

that's extremely normal and common. fingering myself almost always feels like either nothing or painful. i used to feel the same way about penetration in general but then i got enough experience and realized there's a certain angle and intensity that definitely feels good. what that is varies for everyone but you'll know it when you feel it and it's legitimately nice. still way easier to cum with clit stimulation tho.

No. 66153

For me nothing really feels good. I can only come by squeezing my thighs together and humping something like my hand or blankets. Not sure how to solve this.

No. 66154

and you've tried vibrators?

No. 66160

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>mfw nothing at all feels good
>clitoral stimulation feels bad no matter what I do
>fingering feels like nothing
>vibrators just feel weird/unpleasant

Dunno what I'm doing wrong but everything sucks.

No. 66196

how are you stimulating it?
When i first started i would just rub it, but it kind of hurts like that. try lightly pressing down and just wiggling your finger in circles, without actually "Rubbing" if that makes sense? also make sure you're not rubing it dry, if you're not naturally lubricated try using some lube to start

No. 66229


I don't know it's sort of how you can't tickle yourself? Being eaten out or fingered or touched feels amazing but doing it myself is… nah. I've tried everything. Only humping gets me off

No. 66256

Have you tried a toy?

No. 66482

I was masturbating yesterday and I heard a bunch of popping(?) sounds coming from around my hip and lower stomach area, it sounds kinda like when you pop a balloon but more quiet, or like a louder version of popping your fingers

is this bad? should I go to the doctor? has this ever happened to anyone before?

No. 66483

that sounds scary but this is a little vague anon! what masturbation were you doing? did it sound like anything you've had go on before like cracking your knuckles or gas in your stomach? did it hurt or was there any other kind of feeling associated with it?

No. 66484

I didn't feel anything or notice anything different, and I wasn't fingering or anything I was playing with my nipples

No. 66487

hmm. you're probably ok. just keep an ear out for if it happens again, and if it does, mention it next time you go to the doctor.

No. 66524

I got a Hitachi wand yesterday (or the JoyToy equivalent) and it really is amazing and so strong. I love using it, but I always reach this plateau where I squeeze my thighs together and rock and feel myself tending and my eyes roll back but like I have to stop myself??? Agggghhh

No. 66623

It was probably just your sacrum and/or hip joints, if you don't have any pain in your hip or lower back you're probably fine. It happens to me sometimes when I push out a fart lmao

No. 66697

Ever crack your back when you fart or poop? Majestic shit that is.

Anyway I just bought this https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072NYX872/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 and fuckig love it. If you're on a massive budget and hate buying batteries this one is a good one. It doesn't have a super strong clit vibe (all the vibration comes from the base) so I was disappointed at first but now I don't care, it does just enough and the vibration patterns can be fun to cycle through to warm up before you settle on the one you like

No. 66810

Anyone else squirt when they keep holding the vibrator on the clit while coming? Or piss, whatever you wanna call it. How do I stop that shit? why does it happen, and why does it feel so good?

No. 67004

it comes from the strong stimulation on the nerves and i think the sudden relaxation of muscles. to be honest, im not too sure what it really is, because I know I once squirted drops and thought that was more accurate, but sometimes it just comes out like a waterfall and I just cant imagine where else would be so much fluid stored in my lower body but the bladder.

you can only avoid it by going slower or tensing up your pelvic muscles more.
Other solutions: start masturbating lying in the empty bathtub or buy latex bed sheets.

No. 67007

I know bad dragon is sort of a meme, but I'm obsessed with their products. Also seems to be popular with gay men, mostly. Any girl love for bad dragon?

No. 67034

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There are a few BD models that I like.
But my preference goes to Exotic Erotics as they do absolutely gorgeous pours with their surprise and custom options.
I'm definitely getting one of their Orc models

No. 67035

No but I'm gonna try this. I've only ever managed to squirt once and can't seem to do it since. I had drunk a lot of water throughout the day and was really horny and more and more liquid kept gushing out as I was touching my g-spot.

Anyone have any tips on how to squirt, or know any good toys? I know you are supposed to stimulate your g-spot, but clearly people can gush just from stroking their clit, and I want to see if that's possible for me.

No. 67050

Is there a good toy for edging that focuses mostly on the clit?

No. 67069

The proble is that I've felt like I "had to squirt" while being fingered before, so now I just refuse guys to finger me even though I really like it.

I can do it from both ways, what I do is when I stimulate my clit, I make sure to be a little aggressive right before I come (turn it on max, or move it around more). Once you're actually coming, just keep rubbing it a lot, hold it and hold it there and see if it helps. It doesn't always work for me but usually it does. If I stop rubbing when I come, it never happens though, so you just gotta keep going (it should happen right after your initial orgasm).

No. 67105

Is it normal to feel uncomfortableness, if not outright pain, while touching directly the clit? I usually stimulate it through the panties, or veeery gently with the flat part of the index nail or the knuckle, when I suppose it's covered by the hood. In every other situation, touching it directly with the fingers gives me an unpleasant sensation similar to pain and I stop immediately. Is it normal or…?

No. 67106

Yep, that's normal! It just means you're touching a very sensitive spot. Sometimes the nerves there also do a weird thing where they decide to be extra sensitive, and it kinda hurts even if you barely touch it. It helps if you're using a vibrator instead of your hands though, because it "spreads" the stimulation more over the area instead of just one spot.

No. 68162

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I can only orgasm if I use my left hand's pointer finger to flick at the right side of my clit (has to do with the angle). Not even joking. Even doing that barely works.

No. 68257

Anxious farmer here

My boyfriend can't make me orgasm during sex

Fingering works fine but him thrusting into me doesn't ever get me to climax and I'd really like to

Any tips? Should he stim my clit at the same time how does that work?

Love from

Desperately wanting orgasm anon

No. 68262

A lot of women can't cum without clitoral stimulation, so yeah it could help. Don't feel so anxious about it it's totally normal.

No. 68263

that's like 80% of women. you can experiment with dildo and clit rubbing combos on your own to see if theres a way to do it but if not you're not even close to being in the minority. the way me and a lot of women feel is like, penetration CAN feel good but it's not the way to finish on its own. if you think about it it's quite chauvinistic to assume the way to come for males should be the exact same for females.

No. 68282

Like the anons said, you going to need some clitoral stimulation to get there. I've found the best way to achieve this, without actually having to manually stimulate it, is to be on top. You can grind on him and rub your clitoris on him while having sex.

No. 68286

I don't get how other women can get off on clit stimulation. It feels really unpleasant to me. Feels kind of similar to having my nipples touched. I get really squicked out and get this weird instant depressed feeling.

Rubbing through clothes with a flat hand or against something is ok, though.

No. 68316


I'm reverse. I hate penetration, it just feels like nothing when its not hurting.

No. 68317

I feel the exact same, including the weird depressed/gross feeling. I have no idea why.

No. 68339

I didn't say anything about penetration, though. That's always gross to me. I rarely do that and I always feel like absolute shit after. Like I raped myself. lol
Damn, good to hear. The only way I can really get off is frottage with clothes on and it's not that great either so I don't really bother normally.

No. 68349

Have to say I'm really glad about the posts in here from ladies who also get nothing from penetration. When I finally had sex I felt like such a broken freak that it wasn't doing anything for me. Eventually a drunken conversation with my friends brought out some similar experiences, but nobody ever wanted to speak up about it. That's so messed up to me.. although one of them has since managed to orgasm from sex. I guess its something that can come with age and experience? my main problem now is that even through oral and touch Its like I just switch off and get bored. I think I've been desensitised from always having the visual stimulation of porn and a fast vibrator no tounge can match.

No. 68353


Same here. It's shocking to see how many girls don't orgasm or even like penetration but are tricked into thinking its the one and only way to be truly intimate (unless they gay). I really thought I was the only one in the world who hated it. Its so relieving to know I'm not the only one.

On a similar note, does anyone know if there are any guys who don't like vaginal penetration? I've only known one person who said that it was "meh" compared to getting a bj. I'm guessing this is like finding a needle in a haystack though…

No. 68362

I just don't get it. Having a vagina shouldn't mean that you like the thought of being a human fleshlight. Being penetrated is humiliating. Most heterosexual and even gay men feel that way and only want to be the active part during sex. I'm the same, except I don't have a dick.

No. 68373

>Being penetrated is humiliating.

That's just how these sex organs work anon, sounds like you might just have an issue with your gender.

No. 68379


Yeah… Speak for yourself anon lol To me penetration is almost a must, either by finger or meat popsicle. Also, riding empowers me lmao

No. 68383

this comes across as weird to most people but i'm with you. historically w/ gay men, being the top was fine, it was only being the sub that got shamed. and it's always the receiving party getting shamed each time

No. 68431

maybe because dicks aren't really supposed to go in the butt. Nobody is saying you have to enjoy penetration but that is literally how bodies work. its a bit more odd to be actually repulsed by it.

No. 68480

I don't have an issue with my gender, I have an issue with sex. I don't need a dick, I've got a strapon. Why do I have to want to be fucked in my vagina? It grosses me out just like the thought of someone sticking their finger in my mouth or ear or whatever.

No. 68481

>I don't have an issue with my gender
>calls women "human fleshlights"

lolario. also, men can be passive as well, it's not like you have to lie there motionless and let men plow you

No. 68482

I said that men use you like one. I have an issue with men who are like that. My post makes it pretty clear that I'm into passive men, I just don't like someone sticking their body parts inside me, who gives a shit.

No. 68484

bitch, you said "Having a vagina shouldn't mean that you like the thought of being a human fleshlight. Being penetrated is humiliating."

No. 68487

no matter how you dress it up that aint normal. Are guys just being used as human dildos? sex is a normal and should be pleasant thing. you can't say you don't have some issue here

No. 68494

Well I didn't say I don't have issues. I guess I do but it's not like they're making my life harder.

No. 68502


ok drop it dude we get it. damn.

No. 68539

Try not watching porn or using a vibrator for a month. Masturbate without toys, or not at all.

No. 69098

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I've been on antidepressants for about half my life. In the last 10 years, I've had maybe about 6 orgasms. I haven't had an orgasm in the past year. Toys, partners, hands, nothing will do it. If I go off of antidepressants, I get paranoid and depressed. On them, my sex life is shitty. I don't even want to get into a serious relationship right now because of my sexual dysfunction.
I try to masturbate pretty much every day and I never get anywhere. I always get bored and stop.
Clit stimulation, penetration and g-spot stimulation feel good, but it's never enough.
Been thinking about getting the Womanizer because I've had pretty shitty results with vibrators and it works completely differently.

No. 71264

I came here because I literally just broke the head off my magic wand while grinding on it mid-orgasm and want to fucking cry lmao

No. 71274

This is my worst nightmare! RIP buzzy buddy. RIP.

No. 71280

Just use your hands.

No. 71283

jfc anon, this is no way to live. Have you at least tried Welbutrin? it's the only antidepressant I've heard of that doesn't cause sexual dysfunction.

No. 71576

There any anons here that own any one of those hidden/discrete vibrators that are disguised as something else (like lipstick, etc)? Looking for recommendations.

No. 71579

File: 1513411489810.jpg (20.31 KB, 500x375, 41i0VPxLKuL.jpg)

not exactly what you were asking for anon, but i travel a lot and instead of dragging my hitachi with me i use this. i can have it in my bags and no one cares, water proof, i pop the scrub attachment part off and go to town. vibrates crazy well and works perfect for me personally

No. 71604

one of my first was a $3 vibrating toothbrush

No. 71606

Neutrogena absolutely knows exactly what they’re doing and I love them for it.

No. 71615

File: 1513462642241.jpg (Spoiler Image,281.02 KB, 2656x1494, collection.jpg)

why not

No. 71619

How is this product when used as intended?

No. 71628

Cheaper than others and for my oily skin made a big difference. I have way better skin texture, way less black heads, and I dont get deep painful pimples at all anymore. I use it about 3 times a week! But everyone's skin is diff so cant guarantee anything lol

No. 72822

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I got a Satisfyer Penguin. It's actually pretty good, but I wish the head was larger so it could fit a little more of the surrounding area. It's great for the price, and the higher settings are rather powerful. It has 8 settings, which go from very light/slow to very fast. Since you kind of hold it in the same place the whole time, it's not a great couple's toy. Unlike a traditional vibrator, you can't really do much teasing by moving it around.

No. 72900

I have to say I have always loved the look of these. Especially the massive, thick Dragon ones and tentacles. It's weird af but I always wish I had an endless vagina lol like no cervix at the top you get Me? Like I could take unlimited dick size? I guess these kind of dildos must feel better for anal?

No. 72901

Stick to your hands. If you get addicted to vibrators and massive dildos then sex will never actually be satisfying. I have a friend who literally doesn't even try to orgasm during sex anymore because she prefers her vibrator. She literally goes home after hooking up and instantly starts using her vibrator. Shit isn't healthy imo

No. 72903

Sigh this kind of happened to me with my hitachi. I still loved sex but the hitachi brought me a different kind of self indulgent pleasure. You make a good point.

No. 72907

i got into them because i couldn't come from sex in the first place, and didn't find it pleasurable at all. i enjoy sex more now that i know what i like thnks to vibrators

No. 72915

I use mine as a special treat with my bf every couple months. It's nice and fun, but I prefer the orgasms achieved through other means. So far, I've had no issues.

No. 73035

i can't even come close to orgasm with my hands because of my medication. not all of us can be uwu pure and only 20% of women can cum via piv alone and from my experiences with men when i thought i was straight, they dont give a shit about your orgasm. my womanizer feels amazing and there's not reason for me to stop using it

No. 73040

I've never been able to orgasm with my hands at all or any kind of penetration, even while extremely aroused. I had my first orgasm on a pool jet when I was 20, so I guess that's what it takes. Though I will say, if you use strong vibrators to take extended breaks often, because the vibrator will not feel as good, and the orgasms themselves won't be as good. Or you could end up doing what I did and bruise yourself with the vibrator head after waking up horny from a wet dream.

No. 73116

Does anyone know if OP pic is safe? I read somebody boiled another pink toy from that company and the water turned red and now I'm afraid to use mine.

The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.

No. 73131

Jelly toys aren't very safe. If you want a toy you can boil, stick to medical grade silicone.

No. 73133

I touch my clitoris for about 30 seconds whike watching porn. Is that an orgasm? It is sensitive and i don't want to touch it anymore after wards, am i doin it rite? Why does it happen so fast

No. 73134

Maybe? Do you feel yourself contract internally or a head rush? Does it feel like a release of pressure?

No. 73141

it's glass you morons

No. 73144

File: 1515707342807.jpg (28.13 KB, 940x940, 47990-00.jpg)

Speaking of which, I fucking love glass dildos and plugs. I've never actually tried any on myself as of now (only on my bf, according to him it feels good tho) but I love the look of them, I'd love to have a collection eventually.

No. 73148

Glass can be colored unsafely, retard. If it's glazed or painted and improperly sealed instead of the dye being integrated into the glass, it can flake off or leech out into the body, and companies that lazy will use the cheapest, most dangerous dyes to do it. Even glass with no dye can contain lead or cadmium if it's low quality.

There's no real way to tell if a cheap glass toy is going to give you cunt cancer, just throw it out and buy a better one next time.

No. 73164

If it's glass and the water is turning red, that's even worse.

No. 73166

Do you get wet before?

No. 73171

are you the retard? she wasn't saying it was safe, just that saying it was jelly was wrong.

No. 73173

She obviously made that post because she thinks glass is always safe, otherwise she wouldn't have quoted both people. Or do you think telling someone a toy they own is glass and not jelly could be giving them new information? That's actually beyond retarded.

No. 73180

Is it normal to piss yourself a little when you're masturbating? I usually lose a few teaspoons.

No. 73197

lead glass is extremely rare in cheap toys because it's expensive and fragile
also take a look at

No. 73226

Yes i contract and it feels good. My clitoris jumps while it is happe ing as well
I get wet after normally

No. 73227

That's an orgasm then, they don't last that long

No. 73273

I masturbate regularly with clit stimulation. Recently my orgasms have been changing… From like normal ones, to VERY intense ones (this may be because I discovered my best way with hand) and now, since like a week, I feel a bit of pain when I come. It's like a slight sting along with pleasure. It doesn't feel bad but certainly worse than before, and leaves uncomfortable feeling in my clit area. I thought it's because of my period but now period is gone and the pain is still here. Will it change back or my orgasms for some reason downgraded permanently :(?

No. 73282

No, it's not. If this is new, see a doctor about it, as something could be wrong.

That is an orgasm. If you find it underwhelming, know that not all orgasms are created equally. Among other things, the amount of build-up prior to orgasm can make an orgasm better or more mediocre. If it seems like it's not as good as you'd like, try letting it build up for a longer period of time. This can take a while to figure out, so it's good to be patient with yourself.

Is there only pain when it's an intense orgasm? Try masturbating the way you used to and see if the pain is still there. If so, something might be wrong. If not, it could be that the better orgasm comes with a harsher refractory period. Is your clitoris sensitive to the touch during and after orgasm, or does the pain persist even if you stop touching it?

No. 73285

yes it is…

No. 73288

A bit late, but I have a womanizer and it works gr8 anon, even when I'm really drunk it can make me orgasm (I'm probably just a functional alcoholic tbh). It's not the best when it's been a few weeks or a month because it's just so AGGRESSIVE but if you're having issues I'd recommend it. I blew like $250 on the pro model but the 2go and base model are both around $130. I don't regret it at all, it's easily the best toy I've had.

No. 73289

No, now the pain always happens, no matter how I masturbate. Clitoris is sensitive, "responsive", it doesn't hurt after, only with an orgasm. It's like someone pinched, held, and released when the orgasm is gone.
Maybe I hurt it somehow? I'm never "brutal" though

No. 73687

Sometimes mine does the same thing for a while and then it goes back to normal after a couple days or even weeks.

No. 73697

good to know! It's back to normal now, but it's comforting to see it happens to others too.

No. 73738

It could depend on where you are in your cycle.

No. 73753

That is hot.

No. 73755

Is that it? Was there any difference because that's fucking small. I noticed his belly more than his stubby thumb of a dick. I'd feel so emasculated and embarrassed if I were him recording That. Everyone now knows how small of a dick you have. Congratulations, that thing wouldn't even tickle the vaginal lips.
No wonder there's a thread dedicated to dildos on lolcow rather than mens' dick. The only one who thinks their dick is big is the man whom it's attached to.

No. 73761

Agreed. Plus the fact he is not only taking a selfie in the mirror, but actively recording himself plus moving his penis AND all with some other guy in the background is a real turnoff (even if he actually had a sizable dick). The shitty star tattoos only add to the narcissistic douchebaggery…and this guy looks like he's at least 30. Like grow the fuck up!

No. 74006

I only noticed recently somehow but I have a small tight membrane skin stretched across the bottom of my vagina. Not like a hymen but at the bottom of the entire vaginal area essentially exactly where women get an episiotomy. It is nearly always seriously hurt during sex and even just to barely touch it is horribly uncomfortable and painful and makes me cringe. I haven't been able to find any pictures like it, can anyone advise if they know what it is?

No. 74014

Aight I continued my hours of googling and would like to add that this shit is apparently called a fourchette so I basically have a super fucking tight painful skin bridge fourchette thing if that helps

No. 74036

>The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.

Same thing happened for me. Huge waste of money.

No. 74037

I only feel pleasure when my clitoris is being touched. My own fingers get tired because it usually takes so long for me to orgasm. Are there any sex toys that make a flicking motion (and no thicker than a finger)? I've only seen those tongue-shaped ones, but it's not what I'm looking for.

No. 74038

Forgot to mention, I thought it was supposed to emulate suction, not vibration.

No. 74041

I have that too althought it's not too bad so it doesn't hurt too much.
I have no advice except avoiding vaginal sex I guess… At least I know how it's called now so thanks.

But if it's really painful maybe you can get surgery on it.

No. 74068

Are you getting a proper seal?

No. 74095

I guess, but it hurt too much that I couldn't use it. The lowest setting felt like nothing at all. Ended up throwing it in the trash a few months ago lol.

No. 74104

It's good to take your time, especially if you're anxious or nervous in any way. My hymen was either really thick or my bf is big (he's pretty big) so it took us a while to get to PIV sex. We would try, get frustrated and go back to oral which was basically all we did this whole fall and winter. His parents were away so I was staying over, and we were on the bathroom floor next to the tub (we had just taken a bath) and finally I was just like fuck it, go for it, this is taking forever and I'm not waiting anymore, lol. It felt a little bit like being reamed out with a broom handle even though I was super wet and we had lots of lube, but it got significantly better right after that, so much so that I got a bad case of what they used to call honeymoon cystitis, i.e. a uti brought on by a lot of newbie fucking in a short span of time. Now I fuck constantly and it's great. All the oral we did while we couldn't actually have sex is a nice thing to fall back on, he's super good at it and I love sucking cock.

As for vibrators, I bought myself a Hitachi and it's worth it. I heard that after a while of using vibrators your clit can become insensitive tho, so I'm paranoid about using it too often even though I love it. Anyone have any idea if that's true or not?

No. 74174

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Said, it’s glass and it’s part of Icicles by Pipedream. I had this toy and it’s nice, but they have another tentacle-looking dildo that’s slimmer, ribbed, smooth and longer (pic). The “suction cups” on OP were kind of bumpy and annoying to me, I preferred the G spot stimulation of the long pink tentacle.

No. 74175

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Try the Eroscillator (+ Soft Finger tip, pictured). It’s nice and gentle and honed-in to one spot instead of the massive head of a Magic Wand or Hitachi. It’s a great rec for vibe beginners . I’ve tried a few vibes and it is by far my favorite, the only downside is it’s fucking expensive.

No. 74179

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Sorry for samefagging but I’m >>74174 and I read up on some DangerousLilly stuff and…yeah. Forget I recommended that to you.

No. 74187

>everything from Amazon

Is there a reason for this?

No. 74191

The risk of buying a counterfeited item made with toxic materials.

It's ok if you're buying from a brand shop but you have to be aware that a lot of imitations are sold on Amazon (an you don't want to put an imitation Hitachi or Lelo in your precious couchie)

No. 74201

Ah, got it. So are there no legit sex toy brands on Amazon?

No. 74204

That looks really fun. Is it good for partner play, or is it tricky to hold correctly?

No. 74261

It’s nice and subtle so it would definitely work for partner play! Have him/her use it on your thighs, tummy, anywhere sensitive, tease, etc etc B) you could probably use it on a guy too honestly if that’s your thing

No. 74369

What does it feel like, using a clit pump? I've been wondering.

No. 74372

Darn, way too expensive for me at the moment. And I would personally want one that would do a flicking motion like a finger, not vibration.

No. 74954

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i need it

No. 74959

Yeah but is the head flexible?

No. 74960

the unicorn cover pops off and there's a normal magic wand head underneath that is.

No. 75020

File: 1518477399320.jpg (40.96 KB, 708x500, dafdafdafdf.jpg)

wtf thanks for sharing this. it's too good. led me to these bullet vibes that are like $16 on amazon with surprisingly good reviews. i think i'm just gonna do it. my favorite vibe isn't dead but it's getting a little sketchy so m-might as well get a backup right?
torn between devil ho and snake ho

No. 75035

How does this wand compare to the corded Vibratex/Hitachi wand?

No. 75175

Had no idea these existed and just ordered one on lovehoney, lol. Never had an internal toy so I'm excited to try it. Some of their collection is half off including wands, fyi.

No. 75197

File: 1518993279643.jpg (5.66 KB, 350x350, vibr.jpg)

I want to buy my first toy. What is better - a dildo or a vibrator? A dildo appeals to me because it's more like a dick, and fantasizing is important in my play, but at the same time vib can give you more pleasure and you can use it as a dildo, yes? Or is a dildo superior with internal penetration?

No. 75198

Vibrating dildo.

No. 75241

when i first got all my toys i got vibrating dildos then a few years later i got my first hitachi type vibe and i hated myself for not getting it sooner. that thing was the fuckin bombbbbbbbbbb made me cum way easier too. fairly low physical effort too so lets you focus on wandering your mind if you're into that

No. 75344

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Seeing the Tokidoki ones on here made me buy this cheaper, smaller vibe to start as my first sex toy. It's adorable and has a lot of power for being only like $8. Can't wait to try it.

No. 75408

I'm wondering if anyone else has the problem of furrowing their brows when they're masturbating. It sounds retarded to worry about but I do it often enough to where I'm developing visible muscles that make me look angry.

No. 75443

I do too, I feel like I make really dumb faces while masturbating. My gf asked me if I was angry our first time lel

No. 75468

(Apologies in advance if I format wrong or anything, I don’t usually post on boards.)

I get horny a lot and always think about sex, and I can fantasise for ages, but I’m nervous and reluctant to finger myself though I really want to try it (mixture of dysphoria and nerves, ig.) Does anyone have any tips on how to loosen up (pun not intended) and get more comfortable with the idea? I’m sick of being wet and horny but doing nothing about it!!

Also, can females get pleasure from anal? I want to try that too but again, nervous

No. 75480

Fingering used to make me kind of squeamish too anon, you should get a small dildo to start with, and then you'll get more comfortable with insertion over time. Play some music you like and make sure you're relaxed, and enjoy yourself most of all. Try focusing on clitoral stimulation until you're loosened up a bit.

(A hairbrush handle also works if you don't want to buy a toy, but make sure there are no sharp edges)

No. 75489

>hairbrush handle
ntayrt but aren't you risking infection when you use stuff like that?

No. 75549

I mean I guess it could be a risk, but I never got any infections from using it. Clean it before and after to be safe

No. 75613

i literally fucking love anal
for me sex is equally great-feeling in different ways both PIV and anal

but when getting off by myself anal is better (or I fancy DP sometimes lel)

No. 75623

I've done this a lot but always put a condom on whatever it is I'm using lol

But if you're a virgin, I recommend using your fingers. You'll want to feel both the pleasure from the penetration and "where you're going" with your fingers to make sure you don't hurt yourself.

Like >>75613 I really like anal and DP as well, I have a small butt plug that is a godsent, I stick it in then finger myself. As much as people here like to say there's no anal pleasure without a prostate, I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazing.

No. 75686

>I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazing

This! thank you. i'm sure it's a different feeling from prostate pleasure and maybe not as intense, but if you get past the pain and are into the concept, it can be a lot of fun for that reason. it's just definitely not for everyone.
also i swear if i have at least a plug in during vaginal penetration or clit stimulation, it can make the feeling in my vagina and clit even more intense

No. 75693

I'm a big fan of iroha (by Japanese brand Tenga), they're cute, the vibes in the video are rechargable (no batteries), I like the quality, and they get me off quite well. I have the sakura leaf one (not in the video). Nice for people who just want a small vibe and don't need to insert anything to get off. Unfortunately they're a bit too bulky to use during intercourse for me, but oh well.

No. 76111

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So, after months of bitching at my workaholic boyfriend about how little time we spend together (and therefore the lack of sex), I bought my first ever toy. Pic related - the Lelo Iris. Gone will be me angsting when my bf isn't around! Gone will be me angsting when he spends the night and falls asleep before fucking me!

It's a beautiful toy. I bought it because Lelo's products always look nice and unintimidating for a n00b like me. The varying pulses seem good for starting out soft and working up. I like the textured design as I'm a girl who doesn't like clitoral stimulation but adores penetration.

The soft pink colour is very attractive and the toy is quite smooth. It came with a packet of water-based lube but I also purchased a small bottle for later use.

I'm quite excited to try it out and glad that instead of being horny all the time I'll be able to start getting myself off - whenever I so please!

No. 77313

i know this is slightly ot but what the actual fuck at it being so hard to find porn with guys as hot as women in porn.

i've always been told that it's more mental for women. it's more about the romance, etc. and then i found this porn series with football players… my god. i didn't know porn could be this hot. they're even hotter than the girls they're fucking. that's what gets me. and it's not even just their incredible muscular bodies and faces. it's the way they carry themselves too. they don't need mind games to get a girl off.

if anyone has male porn star recommendations or something pls respond.

No. 82532

>The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.
I was >>72822 and while the toy works for me for one orgasm, I can't get two with it. Normally I can have at least 3. It's not a bad toy per se, but it's not universally great, either.

No. 82535

where can i watch this? is there a title?

No. 82543

omg it makes me rage inside when people say that. like yeah if you fall in love with a person the way they look doesn't always matter, but that also applies to men and it certainly doesn't mean we don't care about looks when we're just trying to fap. it's just a shitty excuse made by presumptuous men who don't listen to women telling us what we like and don't like.
nothing turns me on more than hot guys who are my type and aren't afraid to objectify themselves to impress women honestly. like you said, it's so rare to find this that many of us don't even realize that's what we were missing and buy the line that women's attraction to men must "not be visual."

I wish I had reccs but in my case it wasn't a porno that gave me this realization it was danzig and type o negative music videos from the 90s ha

No. 82545


gay porn and erotica opened my eyes

No. 82586

I never understood why I couldn't get turned on by porn until I found a bunch of straight videos focused on the incredibly sexy guys (gorgeous faces, nice bodies). I just can't get turned on watching some woman being violently pounded by a dude you can never see and when you catch a glimpse of his face he's ugly AF.

No. 82600

have the toy in ops pic and i really like it
its a lot of fun especially if you like tentacle stuff would recommend also its super cute

No. 82601

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I cannot recommend the Lelo smart wand more, it’s amazing and well worth the price, has a setting that changes the speed with the pressure you use!

No. 82602

>has a setting that changes the speed with the pressure you use!
h-how strong can it go though?

No. 82604


goes up to a very high speed and has various patterns, pretty mind blowing and surprisingly quiet!

No. 82605

this sounds really fun i may have to get one

No. 82606


If you do get the large rather than the medium, you won’t regret it!

No. 82616

Anybody have a recommendation for rabbit-style vibes if you have a shallow G-spot?

No. 83847

Hey anons, what do you use when you don't have access to dildo/sex toy? I honestly would love to use banana or cucumber (in condom, ofc), is it worth it?

No. 83874

I've read that peeled cucumber is fine with no condoms, actually, and is good for your vag.
I read it from a different source, but here's one that I found with a technique she uses included.

No. 83876


Not the other anon but this is amazing, thank you!

No. 83883

Does anybody have a recommendation for a powerful internal/rabbit-style vibe? Preference for cheaper ones.

No. 83959


I have that bad boy and it's pretty nice. Got it for free with a promo but I'd say its definitely worth the sale price. I love Eden Fantasy. Sometimes they'll have a 3 for X price and it's a hell of a deal. And if you sign up for their newsletter, you get a free toy. Some are worth 50+ bucks.

No. 83960

I'm afraid to be penetrated. Every time I try, it just hurts.


No. 83991

get in a place you can relax. Maybe try foria’s Hemp lube https://www.foriawellness.com/products/foria-awaken?variant=33410676675
And experiment. Don’t force anything. You need to be comfortable.
When I was having issues with pain it was just because I was uncomfortable. It helped me to get a little tipsy so I wasn’t really bothered with anything. I stopped associating it with pain and everything’s fine for me now.

No. 83998

Been masturbating since I was a kid. Even though I have penetrating sex with people, weirdly enough, I don't put things inside me and only rub my clit when masturbating. I tried fingers/dildo and it doesn't do anything for me. I can only come from doing it that way. Anyone else, or am I just doing it incorrectly?

No. 83999

This is totally normal! As far as I'm aware most women can only get off from clit stimulation, penetration doesn't work for everyone.

No. 85066

I'm so proud i got two fingers all the way in and three at the entrance when i was scared to even enter my pinky 5 months ago.
It feels really weird tho,i have to feel really horny (like,about to cum or right after cumming) to be completely comfy and feel any "pleasure" from it

No. 85179

For some reason I can’t cum from clitoral stimulation at all. I’ve tried a vibrator and it just doesn’t feel good. I hardly feel anything when my bf goes down on me either. Like fr I can only orgasm from penetration. Is that normal?

No. 85181

Try both at same time, have you tried a rabbit vibrator?

No. 90353

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I just got one of these babies, and maybe I'm just inexperienced (this is my first vibrator that's not an electric toothbrush) but it is blowing my mind. The vibrations are powerful but not overwhelming, the size is reasonable (it hurts a little going in for me, and I am a very tight virgin), and it's very easy to clean. Also the price was pretty reasonable for the quality.
If you have trouble coming from clitoral stimulation, I would really recommend a rabbit-type like this one.


No. 90385

tfw asexual

No. 90386


No. 90622

then go to a different thread?

No. 90624

Sounds edgy and boring. Hf w that

No. 90625

maybe boring if your life revolves around sex

No. 90668

That's called d-mer

No. 92844

>I was masturbating yesterday and I heard a bunch of popping(?) sounds coming from around my hip and lower stomach area

No. 92845

I can get off on clit stimulation by myself, but when a guy goes down on me/touches my clit I feel repulsed and it instantly turns me off. I can get off really easily from penetration though.

No. 92883

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I do this thing where i lay on my side and just squeeze my upper thighs together and can come in a few minutes, handsfree. I don't know if it is a real orgasm though because I've never had one during sex.
Whenever I mention the thigh thing people think it's really weird, I've only found one other girl who can do it.
Rubbing my clit is OK but it gets a little boring and I can never finish that way, same with fingering.

If any of you guys also use the thigh technique please let me know I feel like a weirdo.

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dude!!! i used to do that all the time before i had a vibrator because i kinda hate using my hands. i couldn't believe it "worked" and it felt like some sort of life hack. it's definitely not as pleasurable and full bodied as a regular orgasm but it's satisfying enough so i usually did it when i was distractingly horny and just wanted some relief.
i forgot about it for a while after i got my vibrator but i tried it recently and it still works.

evidently we aren't the only ones so why tf do we never hear about it?

No. 92886

I was able to do this only once. I was watching a video of a guy fucking a fleshlight lol. Havent done it since.

No. 92904

Thank you!! I'm glad there's more of us lol
I wonder why some girls can do it and others can't. Maybe it's because of stronger thigh muscles or narrow hips?

No. 92909

i thought it was thigh muscles too but someone on one of those google links said it has to do with how exposed your clit is. my labia minora are really short so that checks out

No. 92921

This is humiliating to admit, but the only way I've come close to what I assume is an orgasm via masturbation is to hold in my pee for a long duration and then, like… clench? I don't know, I end up feeling an enormous pressure, the same kind I do during sex, and it's pleasurable. I don't touch myself at all. I don't piss myself, either. Pee isn't sexy to me. It's the sensations I feel, as if I'm being stimulated in an erogenous zone, somehow. Don't know how it works. I wish I could masturbate normally (and actually get off), but my clit is only painful to the touch and I feel awkward putting anything inside of myself.

Wish I was trolling.

No. 92927

I'm the same, but in my case I get some small leakings. I try to do it not do often because, well, it's kinda gross and it can get you an infection inside your urinal canals or something

No. 92946

nah I do it and I know a girl who does it too, she actually gave me an idea lol.
For me, I just sometimes do it while peeing (the more you need to pee, the better). I think of some quick fantasy and release the muscles, but before the pee gets out I tighten them and hold and achieve the pressure you're talking about. It's not quite like an orgasm for me, more like… very intense butterflies. It's definitely pleasurable, but I don't get off on it

No. 92977

Wow, I don't feel so alone now. Second anon, you described it perfectly. I have a few premeditated fantasies on hand for when the opportunity arises.

No. 93062

The only way I am able to achieve anything close to cumming is putting a water stream at my clitoris and going around it in the shower.
Normal rubbing or pressing feels nice, but nowhere near close the intensity I need. Maybe I would benefit from a toy?

No. 93081

I hate direct contact with my clit, it feels uncomfortable and overly intense. Like many anons I can basically cum just squeezing my thighs or humping a pillow. I came once another way, the first time someone went down on me but that's it.

No. 93085

that's the way i learned to masturbate too and it was the only way i ever got off until i went to uni. there i was forced to resort to my fingers due to the shitty hall showers lol. it took like 30 minutes and felt very underwhelming and hopeless the first few times but on like 5th attempt it started to get good and take less time. maybe just try to keep at it?? good luck!

altho stream of water is still my preffered method, warm water just feels so nice esp when on period.

No. 98133

Ive given up porn thanks to radical feminism but now flicking the bean is boring and I can’t orgasm. This may sound stupid but what’s the alternatives? I don’t have a great imagination which makes fantasizing difficult.

No. 98134

Try reading erotica. Literotica.com, subreddits where people write their fantasies, fanfic, novels, etc

Or you could try audio porn. gonewildaudio, literotica's audio section, sexy audio threads from /soc/

No. 98135

try figuring out what kind of physical stuff you like to make it more interesting/stimulating. try experimenting with stuff like vibes or soft bristled brushes or stuff that generally gets everyone excited, then you won't need to really fantasize and can just focus on the feeling.

No. 98148

with a good vibrator you genuinely dont have to think about anything
experiment with different ones, different positions etc and you should be good soon enough

No. 98354

Okay, this is going to sound really weird, but it works really well for me so I'm going to share. This is actually also how I had my first orgasm.

If you reach behind yourself and hook your thumb into your vagina from the back, you can get a really good angle at the lateral fornix (g spot).

Hope I helped someone out.

No. 98425

I never watched porn or got off to porn, but I see a lot of "it's boring" from people who have quit. I probably won't ever really understand, but fantasizing is pretty easy and works well for me. Your brain might be wired for external stimulus from all those years and you probably haven't used the neuron groups associated with fantasizing to the point of having to reteach yourself.

Learn how to use your imagination again. You also don't have to fap all the time, either. Give your body a break. Fap when the feeling is upon you, and don't mirror the same habits you used when watching porn. Get used to interacting with your body, not just your clit, and familiarize yourself with how those sensations feel with the absence of an external stimulus overloading your brain.

Hope that helps, at least a bit.

No. 98433

Does any one else only masturbate externally? I can get off with toys and penetrative sex just fine, but nothing gives me a better orgasm than external clit stimulation, and no one I've slept with regardless of gender can do it well enough.

No. 98437

I think thats really normal.

No. 98438

I think thats really normal.

No. 98441

i dont like penetration or internal stimulation so yes

No. 98442

Anyone else not like vibrators at all? They are just hard plastic and gives mechanical boring sensations.
I want something nice and warm and soft on my most sensitive parts.

No. 98443

Yes. Me. I've never used one and have no interest to. They also desensitise your clit. I don't get it the point… my hand is just great.

No. 98445

Ah so I'm not alone, everyone seems to love them. I wish there was something that could properly mimic getting oral however.

No. 98447

deffs not alone.

No. 98463

I'm the opposite. Tongues feel slimy and gross and make me want to squirm away, but vibrators feel like they're massaging my soul. Wish my nerves worked the way that yours do.

No. 98689

Does anyone know any erotica literatue sites preferably written by women? I looked at literotica but its too messy and full of rape/bdsm shit that triggers me.

No. 98789

I know this will sound narcissistic lol, but has anyone tried masturbating in front of a full length mirror. I did it a few days ago, it was really awkward but also kinda hot at the same time? Like it's kinda exhibitionist in a way, even if you're the only person there, and seeing how your whole body reacts and stuff is kinda a turn on. Lol I feel really weird typing this out

No. 98804


lol yeah. I was kinda high that day and feelin myself. It was super hot lol. It actually kinda made me get over some of my body image issues. It's no where near "perfect" or conventionally attractive but
>wtf I love my body now?

No. 98805

I've tried it a few times. It's an instant turn on, idk why. A mix of shameful horniness and how embarrassing it is to see yourself looking like that. After doing it the first time I felt so weird and couldn't stop thinking about whether I did it because I'm bi or did it because I'm narcissistic, lol

No. 98806

Same anon but this just reminded me that when I was much much younger I took pics of my body on an old flip phone and got off to them, wtf??

No. 98810

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Yeah, mainly because I'm physically my type when it comes to women. Not conventionally 10/10 or anything, but I'd be dtf myself.
I also dabble in visual arts and mainly depict women with a similar build. I admit that's bordering on being a narc, but I also realize others wouldn't like my body so I'm actually very insecure in public.

No. 99002

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Can someone give me advice please?

>can't get off by my own fingers anymore, even after trashing my vibrators

>can only get aroused to extreme fantasy
>don't look at porn, however i do think about sex all day

I've tried nofap and it doesn't fix my inability to cum by hand. I get more and more frustrated until I eventually have a wet dream.

No. 99032

have you started a relatively new (as in the last year) birth control or medication?
i started taking orsithia in 2017 and completely lost my sex drive

even after not being on it since march of this year, i still havent gotten it back and have no desire to masturbate at all, and when i try im just numb basically and the orgasms, if i can have them, are basically nothing in intensity and really not worth the time

No. 99044

Yes, I just got off Junel Fe a month ago….fug. Thanks for the reply. I hope we both adjust back :(

No. 99056

I hope you do. I was on anti-depressants and got fucked up from them. Dry as Sahara or weirdly horny but it incredibly difficult to get off. Much better now that I'm not taking them. Here is to happy wanking in the future.

No. 101110

Anyone know of any lubricants that have the same exact texture as egg whites? Not gonna use actual egg whites to masturbate.

No. 105090

posted in ot but realised this is a much better place to put this question

i've never been able to masturbate with my hands, it gives me little to no pleasure. i dont have any toys so the only way i can get off is using the massage setting on my shower head and using that as a dildo, but that's really inconvenient and annoying as i can't look at porn at the same time. am i doing it wrong? is it normal to not be able to get off with fingers? does anyone have any guides or tips? i just wanna beat it to material rather than just thought.

No. 105111

Try going off of the shower head for a while, then use rapid motions with your hands maybe? That's the motion that gets me off the most.
Regardless becoming accustomed to vibrations will just make it even more difficult in the long run. From what I've heard it's basically death grip for women lol.

No. 109296

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Anyone here tried a Louviva? I want to buy this one but I want to read honest reviews first.

No. 109302

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Their website looks like if someone was having an orgasm while making it

No. 109303

>realistic testicles
>shows dick head

No. 109309

nowadays it is hard to find Voluptuous women

No. 109346

I guess you get bored of using Lorem Ipsum?

No. 109350

kek wtf this thread

No. 109375

>responding to a 3-month-old post

No. 109376

It's a bit funny how realism still matters when this looks like the confetti club edition of dildos. But it certainly looks cuter than e.g. early funfactory toys

No. 110811

>confetti club edition of dildos

god damn it anon I was going to make that joke lmao

No. 111084

Hahaha it's a serious question that I had. The lubricant I've tried was too oily

No. 111160

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i'm about to drop 1,300 bucks on a fucking sybian

No. 111161

You are 100% right anon, I also want a lube like egg whites.

No. 111163

sliquid slippery stuff isn't oily and is more gooey, but it's a bit watery and i find i'll need to reapply. it's my go-to, though

if you're really looking for that nasty, creamy lube tho, maybe check out the cum lube from bad dragon. i have no experience with it, but from what i've heard, it's thick

No. 111183

Please report back. Curious to see how it goes.

No. 111184


No. 111190

Damn that's a lot of money. These are basically just handsfree dildos right?

No. 111191

Oh, I've heard of those for years and I could only dream of spending that kind of money to get off lol. Congrats anon and please tell us if it's really all they say it is!

No. 111200

Well… it vibrates too afaik…

No. 111206

Nah it's more like a washing machine that you don't have to put your sneakers in.

Some of the heads don't even penetrate from what I've seen.

No. 111208

it's gonna be here on monday. i'm beyond excited, and still a little woozy from dropping that much cash. it'll be my most expensive sex toy, but cumulatively, i've spent more than 1300 on all the varying toys i've gathered through the years.

it's likely THE most powerful personal vibrator on the market right now. it does more that vibrate tho, some of the attachments rotate (like someone swirling their finger around inside you, but at 6000+ rpm lmao)

No. 111209

I wish there was a way to rent them in a not gross way.

No. 111217

I had my first extended orgasm the other night. It was legit 2+ minutes long and only ended bc my vibrator turned off. I was honestly amazed, never happened before and wasn't expecting it at all but was glad to know it's possible for me lol

No. 111275

oh god, sounds heavenly. i am happy for you

No. 111383

Anybody else get ridiculously jerky and spasmy when building up to orgasm? Doesn't matter if it's with my bf, masturbating or with hitachi, everything from my legs to my shoulders and stomach muscles jerk uncontrollably and it can get tense and hurt and take me back from orgasming. I have no hangups about sex, I'm able to relax but cant stop this jerking from happening and it's really fucking annoying

No. 111495

So how is it? Was it worth the price tag? You left everyone hanging, anon!

No. 111516

OK, i've used it a few times now, but it's pretty unwieldy and i'm still getting used positioning it best for my body. this thing is heavy, huge, and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.

once i can relax into it though, holy shit - my vision blurs and my legs turn to jelly. this machine has taken me to new heights.

but, no matter how good an orgasm i get from this thing, there's gonna be a little voice in my head afterwards saying "yea, but was it a 1300 dollar orgasm?" to which the answer is always gonna be "no"

i can't say i'd recommend buying it, but if you ever find yourself in the room with it, i really urge you to sit on it.

No. 111518

>and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.

Oh my. They should fix that on something so expensive.
Can you tell us more about how it works?

No. 111535

haha! congrats to you anyhow, anon. if i had 1300 to blow (ho ho ho) on a sex toy i'd do it in a heartbeat. i feel you on the lawnmower bit, though. those things have been around since the seventies, they need to get with the new millennium!

No. 111537

>"yea, but was it a 1300 dollar orgasm?" to which the answer is always gonna be "no"
no problem, just have over 130 ten-dollar orgasms and you're profiting. sounds like you'll reach that peak in no-time.

No. 111658

I had antibiotic treatment (sorry don't know what it's called in English) few weeks ago and my pussy has been acting out since then. My labia is painfully dry and masturbating is way less satisfying. I hate having to use lube.

Does anyone know if there's more affordable options with same idea? I know Sybian is a legend but I simply can't spend 1,300 bucks on sex toy.
Maybe when I'm old rich domme with a personal sex dungeon but not as a student.

No. 111660

Antibiotics fuck up your system, do you take probiotic supplements to replace the good bacteria?

No. 111661

Actually, antibiotics in itself shouldn’t affect your hormone levels. However, since it does affect your intestinal bacteria and enteric flora, and the health of your intestines does affect hormone levels, there might be a correlation.

Maybe read up on how to rehabilitate your intestines after taking antibiotics. Probiotics can be helpful.

Other than that… are you sure it‘s from the antibiotics? What did you get them for? Can you rule out a yeast infection (although idk how that would affect your libido)?

No. 111760

I've never had a vibrator until the other day because it was offered to me for free by Satisfyer. I got it in the mail and used it. I had an orgasm in under a minute. It felt great.
One thing I noticed is that it helps relieve my anxiety a ton. I usually experience dissociation when my anxiety is more intense and at times it just becomes overwhelming. Yesterday I decided to use my vibrator after a long day at work, had off and on dissociation. I gradually started to feel more grounded after my orgasm, like I could diffuse my anxiety better than before.
I guess I'm grateful for this vibrator right now lmao.

No. 111766

I heard that it's supposed to feel a bit similar to getting head, is that true? I'm looking for a toy like that.

No. 111769

Yes! It does some sort of sucking action around your clit and you just let it sit there. It definitely felt like getting oral. There's 8 different speeds on mine, but the higher ones are too intense for me.

No. 111770

Cool. I'll def get one too. Vibrators are usually not my thing, I wish there were dildos with a more realistic motion too.

No. 111816

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Anons, I would like to find a good toy for beginners. Thing is, that i feel alot more pleasure when it comes to clitorious so it would be good to find some good vibrator…?

I really want to try out Lush / Lush 2 because the controlling idea sounds quite exciting to me. Anyone had experience with this one? Would you recommend it?

No. 111817

I’ve never tried lush but it seems like it would be better for g-spot stimulation. The best orgasms I’ve ever had were with a “Womanizer” and it’s clit-only so it’s pretty intense. I think they’re either cheaper than lush or around the same price. Lush is really only special if you’re using it with someone else.

No. 111866

This is a good suggestion. I have a Satisfyer, which is a knock-off of this, and it's pretty good. My favorite toy is my Eroscillator, but it's pricey for a first toy.

No. 112076


My bf bought this for me (without consulting me first so I couldn't veto it). It has known issues with connecting to your phone via blue tooth, which we observed. also, to charge it you have to pierce the silicone to get the cord in and that isn't hygienic at all. Germs will accumulate there over time in a part of the toy that will go inside your body.

I don't recommend it at all.

No. 112240

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I bought one of these “no touch” vibrators and it’s blown my mind. I need pretty strong vibrations to get off, but this one uses a really gentle suction and it feels like someone’s eating you out. I can usually only get off once in a sitting but this gets me twice every time. 12/10 and not very expensive, I think amazon has one type

No. 112241

Oh I just scrolled up and saw people talking about it lmao. Def reccomend it

No. 112280

Might give the Sliquid stuff a try sometime. Thanks!

No. 113920

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I have one of those and didn’t like it. I’m not huge fan of receiving oral sex, though.

Where do you guys find female-gazey porn/pics? To be honest I miss tumblr for it’s porn. Especially gifs because there is room for imagination.

No. 113923

I don't know what I expected to see but that picture wasn't it
But seconded, I feel like the destruction of spaces where you can express your sexuality contextualised within normal personal posts or share "soft" porn, like instagram and Tumblr, will lead to our options being either an underwear catalog or hard-core painal gangbangs on pornhub

No. 113927

Kek, a fucking latex horse wasn't what I expected either. Tumblr was always 13+, not an 18+ site so it made sense for them to ban explicit pictures. There should be an 18+ female-focused alternative to that site. Hopefully, some techie gets frustrated enough and create it.

No. 113939

i just watch amateur gay porn for the most part.

No. 113943

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This. I want to enter an address into a browser and not see an ad for incest or fidget spinner buttplug porns thrown in my face, I miss tumblr for that.
Pic unrelated

No. 113944

There is still heaps of porn on tumblr. Literally.. that site is made of macaroni - they couldn’t get rid of it.

No. 113945

>Pic unrelated
Sure. Interesting taste, anon.

No. 113985

I know some nsfw blogs moved to newtumbl.com - navigates like tumblr, has the look of older tumblr.

No. 114233

me too. is that a real orgasm or not? i have nothing else to compare it to so i have no idea.

No. 114410

I have the cute motorhead model vibrator which, on the max intensity and with a bit of work, gives me the most fucking unreal orgasm that is so nice it practically makes me feel cozy and safe. But, I have to have it on the max and wish it went higher, and I have to really jam it as hard as possible against my clit in a really particular way, and push myself down on top of it hard, to the point I broke my last wand. Why is this? Also, can anyone recommend a fiendishly strong vibrator lol

No. 114412

Time to save up and spaff the big bucks on a mains powered Doxy for you it sounds like tb

No. 114413

Thanks for being the devil on my shoulder nonnie, I'm always so tempted but i only want to blow the money if its gonna practically vibrate me out of my skin

No. 114440

Seconding this, I bought myself a Doxy for my birthday last year after my old cheap wand broke… the orgasms are actually out of this world. It's not hands free though, but you can use bondage tape to fix it to your thigh if you want to play with your tits or ass or choke yourself or whatever while you cum. 11/10, one of the best purchases I've ever made

No. 114446

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Not to blogpost but my mother recently found my dildo. I was embarrassed and all but it pissed me off when she told my father over the phone about it and they are DIVORCED! for 11 years! For what purpose???

No. 114454

Who the fuck gets a dildo when you're still living with your parents, wtf anon? That thing vibrates too.

No. 114456

once I lost my vibrator under the bed when I was staying at my deaf grandmother's house and I couldn't find it ANYWHERE and then I left and my mom found it and wrapped it in a bag and gave it back to me and I'm like wtf wtf omg no so I feel your pain. but I walked in on her having sex with her now-ex-husband so maybe we're even

No. 114457

I only fap late at night when my mom's already asleep.
She understands people have needs.

No. 114463

My mom was staying over at my apartment while she was travelling to my side of the continent and went through my stuff for some reason. I didn’t even think to hide it more because who would expect a parent to look through your own place?

No. 114477

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Escalate. Next time she comes over, have something even more dramatic for her to find.
On a serious note, remember that it's totally fine and okay, and your mother had no right to look through your things.

No. 114498

It's one of those "oh look our child has grown so much". It's nothing bad.

No. 114516

Weird take.

No. 114582

My mom found my vibrator once and jokingly called me an "orgasmic maiden." Was embarrassing but she was cool about it.

No. 114599

Breaking news for your mother: you are grown woman. It’s her own fault that she was digging your stuff.
I mean, it’s not sex dungeon in your hidden basement.

When I found lube in my parent’s bath room I was happy that they are having sex=not divorcing more likely.

No. 114600

I just gave myself an amazing orgasm in the shower and now I'm just sitting in the towel tryna catch my breath and cool off

No. 115745

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visiting home and omg I forgot how much I love the water pressure here. I can come easily and good with fingers but the showerhead is like a whole nother level. just had a cheeky lil sesh and my legs are still shaking lmao (and I have toweled off, lotioned up and made this OC since then)

No. 115753

I feel nothing when I touch my clit, I never have my entire life. Inserting anything into my vagina feels like picking your nose, or just really weird, but not good or bad. I've tried a shower head, rubbing gently and roughly; any movement, really. Had a boyfriend who did oral on me for a very long time. I felt nothing through all of this. I had my hormones tested, they're all in a healthy range. I'm not on birth control, and wasn't on depression medications (or any meds in general). I'm not sure if this is normal. I've never experienced an orgasm, or really know what sexual attraction is even supposed to feel like. I get the feeling for brief moments once every couple of months, but nothing that would sustain interest long enough to be aroused or want to "relieve" somehow.

No. 115758

have you tried a vibrator?

No. 115780

If you don't feel sexual attraction then that's the problem. Not being turned on is like trying to force yourself to eat when you don't have an appetite. Anything you do is going to be unappealing and unsatisfying. Maybe you just have to find the person or thing that gets you going.

No. 115782

Is it true you can lose sensitivity if you do that often?

No. 115783

yes, i don't do it often with water for this reason and i don't always use a vibe either, i tend to go in cycles between vibe and hands. i will say water better approximates the feeling of sex better than a vibrator but it's still not what you want to use all the time.

No. 115797

og anon, idk I think it depends? I used to masturbate exclusively with a showerhead from ages 9-18, then I had to switch to fingers (bc mounted showerhead in new place) and it took me like two weeks or so to adjust to that (but then again, I had never done it with fingers so there was def a learning curve included). however, ever since I did figure out how to get off with fingers I have had no problem switching around whenever. nothing will ever beat period and showerhead combo though!

No. 115837

What is masturbating with a showerhead/toothbrush though? The anon saying it feels like actual sex makes me think it is inserted in the vagina…

I masturbate like a literal genius queen. I ride on a gluestick that has is round edged while I touch my love-button til I cum on my bed and it feels like I need to continue until I cum but then I just am like: Okay this feels overrated. Does anyone else has regret faps? I fap once a month but I still have them. Like penetration is just not so good but it feels necessary to make it all very wet and warm there…and most funny thing is that I just hope I can one day buy a keekweek themed sex machine and just lie down there for 20 hours to win the orgasm record not induced by some orgasm disorder.

No. 115843

h-h-how do you think you can insert a showerhead up your vagina?
by off chance you're not trolling, you stimulate your clit with both of the methods, in case of showerhead by pointing the water to it either like it is or by removing the showerhead so it's just the stream; in case of toothbrush by pressing the backside of the brush to the clit.

idk about that regret thing, I only feel like that when I've used "unconventional" things for it, have never used a pritt stick tho kek. the shame of grinding on a highlighter like some sort of retarded primate in heat you know

No. 116019

You can say clitoris. It's okay.
Also, try buying a real dildo so you don't feel so weird about it.

No. 116222

I just used the Satisfyer Pro 2 for the first time and I wanted to see how it felt before really getting into it so I didn't bother getting myself aroused just yet (still used it properly with lube though) and I shit you guys not I went from totally unaroused to having one of the strongest orgasms I've had in a LONG time within maybe 2 minutes. Still not sure if I'm totally sold on the sensation but its nice knowing I can have a fast, intense orgasm whenever I'm feeling lazy

No. 116224

how does this compare to the hitachi

No. 116240

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can anyone rec some gay male porn with really nice moaning? that gets me off like no other, but a lot of times if you specifically search for it you'll get a lot of fake pornstar-y noises. i prefer amateur.

No. 116253

Can't really compare it, I don't particularly like or use vibrators and have also never used a hitachi and the satisfyer isn't a vibrator (although they do have models with vibration), it uses what they call pressure wave stimulation iirk. Some people compare the sensation to oral so imagine someone sucking on your clit over and over and over again. I ended up using it again that same night within like 10 mins and I couldn't even get past the 4th setting level (it has 11) without feeling like I was gonna lose my mind and it definitely gives amazing orgasms. I'd have to be home alone with a pillow over my face to ever be able to use it at the higher settings because shit gets INTENSE and there's no way I'd be able to stay quiet.

There is a learning curve to figuring out how to work it and position it the right way but I'm excited to use it again. Its worth looking into if it piques your interest though!

No. 116282

I’m a virgin. I am a little used to sticking fingers up in my vag because of my menstrual cup but i want to be able to get comfortable with it. Any tips? Should I get a dildo loool Im not losing my virginity anytime soon

No. 116295

Try fingering yourself. Yes, you can get a dildo, it's best to get a silicone one imo from a repuatable source. If you're too tight start smaller.

No. 116308

Anyone else like to masturbate during their period? Idk why but I only masturbate when I’m on it because I love the smell. Maybe I’m a weirdo or some shit

No. 116410

I've tried both. The Satisfyer is subtle good for a few orgasms, It's not really suitable for partnered activities. You just kind of hold it still. The Hitachi is not subtle. It's good for use with a partner and they can get it to work by putting it in the general direction of your clitoris. It's best to move it around or the vibrations can numb you out for a few minutes. You can pretty much keep going with orgasms for 20 minutes (when it needs to be turned off to cool down) if that's what you want to do.
One thing to note is that the Satisfyer doesn't have the largest "nozzle" so it might be a little bit difficult to get situated, depending on your anatomy.

No. 116414

I think it overall depends on the person and their anatomy but hard agree. I used to struggle to get off once per day even though I was aroused, with that bad boy I can finish AT LEAST once a day, sometimes twice which is impossible with a regular vibe for me.

I do think when I place it wrong it doesn’t feel the best, and I also don’t like the feeling of penetration with it going, dildo or fingers or anything. Usually I do a bullet vib + dildo combo but with the satisfier (I think I have an offnbrand one) I can go from unaroused to orgasm in less than 10 min

No. 116415

Imo pick up a small dildo and lube. You can get a small one pretty damn cheap, it doesn’t have to be dick sized at all, it can be skinny. Lube will make it 100x more comfortable, and of course take it slow.

No. 116416

Not specifically, but if I get the urge it doesn't stop me unless it's one of my heavier days. I feel like it helps with cramps.

No. 116417

i got my first dildo and am kind of bummed out to see i'm supposed to use lube and a condom.. do any of you anons just use it dry? is natural lubrication sufficient?

No. 116423

I never used lube or condoms with my dildos. I don't share them. Just wash them before and after you use.

No. 116429

well i was impatient and horny so i decided to use it. i got super wet really quick ig just bc i was stoked to finally use a dildo. took me longer to reach orgasm but it was INTENSE. i have never came from normal PIV sex with a guy. ig i need to be the one controlling it lmao.

No. 116878

Has anyone "squirted" without having an orgasm along with it?

My bf bought me a vibrator set that includes a g-spot vibrator. I used it and squirted but didn't have any sort of pleasurable orgasm along with it. Plus it felt like I had to pee afterwards, so I went to the bathroom and didn't even have to pee. Turns out it was my "Skene's gland" so I kept using it and squirting but still had no orgasm. It was honestly a ton of work and total shit compared to actual orgasms that I can get from a bullet vibrator on my clit.

No. 117131

I can only get off by crossing my legs and tensing/squeezing them together. It feels really weird/uncomfortable touching myself with my fingers and trying to do anything with my clit kind of hurts / feels weird also.
I feel so stupid and I'm too scared to do anything. but I remember when I was raped when I was young it felt good? (yikes i know). I just wish i was ale to/had the courage to finger myself (can't really use toys/vibrators since I live in house of guys)

No. 117406

Ordered myself a rabbit with a soft and flexible shaft… I'm excited but I'm also a little nervous because what if I hate it? Guess I'll have to fuck myself with it to find out.

No. 117407

I’ve never had an orgasm + squirting happen at the same time lol. And honestly when I do squirt, I don’t even know it happens until I see the aftermath? Idk one girl I know claims she always squirts when she orgasms so I dunno what’s standard for the experience

No. 117430

How was it and can you link?
I have a rabbit type that has a hard ridge at the head so it just sits stuck in you, it works well but I want something that is easy to move in and out.

No. 117441

Hey anon, it hasn't come in yet but this is the one I got. I've only used my hands and a bullet one long before so it'll be an interesting experience.

No. 117646

Is masturbation supposed to feel good the whole time you're rubbing your clitoris? It doesn't feel like anything for a bit and then I get the build up sensation and then the orgasm (approx. like 10 seconds in total) which feel great. But other than that I don't feel much else. Is this normal?

No. 117653

I can orgasm normally in a few minutes just by rubbing my clit and it feels amazing, but afterwards it's super sensitive and almost hurts to touch. I'm wondering if it's impossible to have multiple orgasms that way? Penetration never felt good to me so if that's the only way it can happen that is somewhat unfortunate.

No. 117805

It's possible. Feeling sore/too sensitive after orgasm is common, I usually do it too but sometimes when I'm really horny I can just continue and get multiple ones. It seems to be a random thing.

No. 117825

It's really weird, I think maybe it just feels too good so I end up overstimulating myself out of lack of self-control. Somehow I've never gotten oversensitive after my bf rubs me, maybe I'll ask him to try it with me.

Do you just orgasm and keep going without stopping at all? At the same intensity?

No. 117850

Yes if it still feels good, continue as before. But you could also ask your bf to keep rubbing more gently after orgasm, that can also work.

No. 117873

Can’t say what it’s supposed to be like, if there’s such thing, but to me it usually feels good the entire time.
Sometimes, when I’m only slightly horny but not really in the mood it’s a bit like you’re describing it, but I’ll also need a lot more pressure/vibration to come in general, so idk.

No. 118800

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I have nowhere else to share this for…obvious reasons, but, I masturbated for the first time!(I'm 20 btw) Like properly, I've done pillow humping like once or twice but it did not compare to what I tried last night. I got one of those magic wand vibe things. I accidently switched it to the highest setting first on accident though and that was…not pleasant lol. Though using the lower setting I think I almost had an orgasm? Maybe? My stomach muscles started like moving on their own and my head felt all light. But just as I thought I got 'there' it was too much and I had to stop myself. Is this normal? Do I need to just force myself to keep going or get a vibe with a lower setting? I'm going to try again tonight though, regardless.

No. 118839

If you don't know if you had one or not, you didn't have one. Keep trying!

No. 118843

>it was too much
Sounds like you got right to the edge and stopped before you orgasmed. Try to keep going next time, you'll definitely know when it hits.

No. 118847

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Keep the vibe on that low gentle setting, you're comfortable with. You'll cum.

No. 118850

Am I mastrbating correctly? Just getting out of a depression, trying to regain somewhat of a libado. I don't have a problem getting stuff in, but taking things out hurts, it feels like heavy friction even when going slow. Also I don't feel fleshed out inside unless my bladder is full. The closest thing that starts feeling good to me is pressure from the sides or behind and light squeezing on my waist, but I have no idea how to get that without another person. :-(

No. 118980

this is how masturbation always ends for me too. I don't think I've ever had a real, full orgasm. I get very close and can't stand it and have to stop. sigh.

No. 118981

I feel so stupid for asking but if girls orgasm do we like cum?? if so that means that ive never had an orgasm

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No. 118989

let me be my stupid 20 year old virgin ok

No. 118990

Does masturbating make your period end faster?

No. 118991

It’s ok anon. We don’t “cum” in the same sense as men. When men cum, they ejaculate because they produce sperm. We don’t ejaculate because it’s sperm from men that makes us pregnant. We don’t produce any sort of liquid when we orgasm. (Few girls squirt, but that’s just urine).

No. 119001

I've seen a few videos where the orgasm liquid that comes out is stringy and thick
would that be as close to squirting/cumming as girls get or would that just be because of some untreated infection?

No. 119004

no but it makes the cramps and bleeding lessen (for me)

No. 119005

The only times I enjoy penetration is when someone else does it to me (penis/fingers/toys) or when my bladder is full,like you. Other than that I don't feel shit with penetration, so I just masturbate touching my clit,you might want to do the same and give up on penetration

No. 119017

>I've seen a few videos

That's the problem, don't watch porn if you want to learn anything about the female body and orgasm.

No. 119164

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I bought my first dildo/vibe. It'll be here in a week. Kinda fell in love with this one because it's sleek and doesn't come in a gaudy neon color. I spent quite a bit because the cheaper ones on amazon have mixed reviews of either being wonderful or straight up not charging out of the box. I didn't want to take the chance.

No. 119171

offtopic but this dildo looks hilarious to me. it looks like it's pointing at itself like:
> look at me
> look. at. me.
> do you think this is a joke m8

No. 119173

I thought that too a few years ago when I first saw one. Have you never seen a rabbit vibe before?

No. 119179

Holy kek I can't stop laughing, I can't believe I've never thought of that before

No. 119186

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Slightly off topic, but I was looking at vibes and saw this in the reviews and I can't stop fucking laughing.

No. 119187

That's adorable. What a good bird.

No. 119204

wrong. I'm a woman and I squirt. yes it comes out of the urethra and it's a very small amount but it's very thick and white/slimy like mucus or it sometimes looks like yogurt. not all women do.

No. 119207

Late to the party, but just incase it's useful:
My bf bought the Lush 2 after checking with me to see if I was into it. It's a great toy, with powerful vibrations. The silicone is a lovely texture and it feels well-made. It's well-balanced and easily stays in while walking around. I'd recommend it, but not for you. The top part doesn't vibrate at all; it's just an antenna and on/off button. It's a really nice toy, but it really only does g-spot and other internal stimulation.

No. 119340

tbh this makes me deeply uncomfortable

No. 119434

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If you guys ever wanted to get fisted by Thanos, there's a dildo for it

No. 119436

do you feel it… squirting out? I get the thick white/slimy goo too and the occasional large wet patch, but it's just on the bed when i'm done

No. 119437

are these the actual size of a fist or are they slimmer? can't imagine they're selling a lot of these if they're full size…

No. 119439

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It's about the size of a small woman's fist. You'd be surprised how many people buy this sort of thing. On amazon, they sell massive butt plugs that are meant more as a novelty, but there are gay men in the reviews who actually used them.

No. 119440

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Pic related is said "butt plug"

No. 119443

The base isn't flared. Imagine getting that stuck inside.

No. 119451

Fusilli Thanos. It was a million to one shot, Doc!

No. 119544

Did anyone else go through this? I've never been able to cum quickly or sometimes at all.

Suddenly I can cum several times in one day and fast. It's like I've unlocked a super power or something lmao. I'm genuinely shocked…I'm not doing anything different and I'm mid 20s.

No. 119545

Yeah, me. It's because I found some things that genuinely aroused me and started being interested in sexuality again after having almost no libido for a while thanks to anxiety. Now I climax several times a day and even managed to come by oral for the first time. I am excited for what's to come. I also changed my masturbation style and use my finger on my clit. Before, I never felt anything there and could only use a vibrator or some strange hand humping technique.

No. 119586

The weirdest thing is that I can come without thinking about anything now, as well. Am I dying?

No. 119754

It came in today; holy shit it's so cute. I think it's too big for me, lol. I checked the sizes while shopping around and made sure not to get anything ridiculous, it's not that much larger than the average sized man, but actually holding that in my hand was a shock. Oh my lord, what did I get myself into.

No. 119768

How big is it and is it soft? I have a rabbit but would like a more flexible version.
A sign of being very healthy, it's just the little death.

No. 119779

It's about 5.75 insertable length I believe. It's pretty hard; it's soft enough it can bend, but not without some effort.

No. 119845

I love masturbating by literally just humping things, especially something fuzzy like a stuffed animal. Never had sex but afraid it will be hard to have an orgasm from normal sex after conditioning my genitals to this for so long.

No. 121235

How often is too often?
I sometimes feel like I do it too much

Also, I'm not porn addicted, but if I had more active sex life or felt better about masturbating to people I know IRL, I wouldn't watch it–but it just feels better when I have something during
That's normal, right?

No. 121244


I'm 30 and I rarely go a day without my solo-time. Been like that since my teens and have only ever noticed a decrease when I struggled with depression or took meds for that

If it's not interfering with relationships or taking up too much time I would see it as healthy

No. 121245

I hope you who do this wash your teddy bears in the washing machine afterwards.

No. 121253

If there's a too often, is there a not often enough? I do it about once a week, maybe even less than that, but every other month I go through a phase for like a week where I do it every day and sometimes twice.

I don't think there is a definite "normal" but more of a "what's normal for you" kind of thing, but I don't know.

No. 121291

There's definitely no reason to think that you should be masturbating more

You shouldn't stop yourself if you feel the need/want to (assuming you're in private at home), but not masturbating more isn't really an issue

No. 121663

Does anyone else ever just get tired of masturbating?
I don't have a sex life so this is pretty much all I got going, but sometimes it takes a lot of effort for me to get started.

Not that I don't get horny, and I've definitely thought about "getting out there", but I just don't think my heart is in it to do anything but touch myself
This is probably a depression thing, but I just wish it was easier to cum

And sorry if this sounds more like a vent than a question, I just want to know if this is common with more people or if it's something just mostly affecting me

No. 121677

Question about sexuality and masturbation, asexuality etc, looking for opinions

I masturbate regularly and have been a fan of toys since turning 18, I've always felt that I could happily go the rest of my life never touching another person sexually and it wouldn't bother me

I have slept with men and a couple of women but in relationships the sex always dies out. It's a relief whenever I'm single and back to just toys again

Does this sound like asexuality? I know there are different types of ace. Currently in my 30s and still don't know what to call myself

No. 121684

Sounds like you're bi and like the majority of couples, lose that initial horny spark that can be short or long lived.

Sounds like you just trust your toys more.

No. 121692


yeah I've been stuck between thinking I'm bi because in terms of porn or looking at people I go both ways but then If I'm honest I don't want any contact with a person, it's more just visually appreciating someone.

I've had sex in relationships cos it felt like an expectation and one relationship I had for 4 years he never pushed it so we never had sex once.

I'm at a point where no matter what my label technically is I need to probably only date asexuals because I don't want to repeat having sex out of 'duty'

No. 121700

Could you buy a magic wand, anon? It's the best thing for low effort orgasms.

No. 121754

I'll look into it, thanks

No. 121789

Anyone have any recommendations for silent vibrators? I don't live by myself yet and don't want to wake them up or something.

No. 121795

I use the iroha mini! It’s really quiet, small, inexpensive, and cute. But if you need a lot of power, it’s not the one lol. It’s great for its size and the shape lets you adjust how intense it it, but my powerhouse loving friend can’t get anywhere with it.

No. 121799

have any of you ever bought a vibrator off of ebay before? ebay is my go-to for internet shopping, and I really want to buy a small vibrator but I live with my parents and I'm afraid that it will be obvious from the packaging that it's a vibrator. is there a way I can know before I buy it if the packaging will be discrete or not?

No. 121802

Sites like eBay and Amazon have alot of cheap knockoffs of branded toys or unsafe toy materials from China etc. A site like lovehoney would be better. Lots of product reviews on site and a plain brown box for packaging

The return address on their parcels is usually 'LH Trading' too so even that is discreet

My advice would be to to stick to safe materials like silicone and get something rechargeable if you want power

No. 121818

I buy from Eden Fantasy's it always ships in a plain brown box and doesn't say anything explicit on the billing statement.
They always seem to be having sales too.

No. 122137

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I'm someone who is hunting for toys with a more organic feel. I bought this one that is meant to feel a bit like oral sex. It's pretty nice but it's sides are not as soft as they should be and uncomfortable. Why can't sex toy companies make something that is comfortable and soft and still firm enough for stimulation?

No. 122163

Bruh keep going

No. 122172

Your bro posted 3 years ago, perv.

No. 122193

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I have the Eroscillator and the "marshmallow" tip is honestly the best. I wasted money getting the other 3 attachments because this one is so perfect and squishy.

No. 122212

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Seems nice. I have also wanted to try one of Tenga Iroha's squishy products, anyone tried them?

No. 122217

I own one, it's not amazing and the soft body doesn't make a difference. The silicone smell rubs off too, your pussy and underwear will smell til you wash yourself

No. 122218

>not soaking the toy to make the smell come off


No. 122222

In which way doesn't it make a difference? Does it just feel like a normal vibrator?

No. 122228

Soaking doesn't help you retard.

No. 122230

Vinegar and water really doesn't get rid of the smell?

No. 122232

If it makes you feel better anon, I relate to all of this in my own way. I've been attracted to both men and women, although the sexual "spark" is rare and I don't really have a drive to act on it, and I don't feel much downstairs anyway. Romantically, I love both sexes, but because sex seems like an obligation, and the other person loses interest eventually anyway, I've just given up on relationships entirely. If I ever meet an asexual person, where sex is rare and only when both of us really want it, or not at all, that'd be perfect, but I'm not going out of my way to look for it anymore.

No. 122268

It can't be made of silicone if it has a smell, no silicone toy will have a smell

Rubber/TPE/TPR all have smells and are all porous materials that don't ever wash completely because of this porous quality

No. 122273

>porous materials

Reminder to everyone ITT to stay the fuck away from porous materials like jelly toys. They aren't safe to use.
Stay safe, fapping farmers.

No. 122277

Oh wow Dangerous Lilly has been the lil lolcow of sex toy reviewing blogs for about a decade, she's always been into bitchy subtweeting other smaller reviewers and chased a few away from doing what they enjoyed. She never shuts up about her manic episodes and the worlds 'fatphobia' towards her. Takes turns between bullying people and having personal crises

Do stick to safe materials like medical grade silicone though, or glass. Half the sex toys out there are made of materials that have no place going inside a body

No. 122278

Ooh, is there a thread about her?

I just noticed and copied this link from earlier in this thread. It's message is important to repeat. I had no idea that jelly toys were dangerous, myself.

No. 122280

The sex toy reviewing community is full of lil lolcows, super woke people that have daily tweets about all the transphobia and fatphobia that they are assaulted with everywhere they go.. that and they're constantly losing their day jobs and setting up gofundmes claiming they face homelessness..high rates of mental illness, always the victim etc..none of them have enough of a following to get onto here though

I think most of us sadly start out with a jelly toy cos the the translucent look (and the price) appeals. I've had jelly toys literally melt and stick to each other before I switched to all silicone

No. 122281

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A bit OT I found her twitter. She will never lose weight because she gets injured, gals.

No. 122282

This is exactly the shit she's been posting for a decade, never changes. Never gains any self awareness. Super snarky about everyone else though.. and thinks she smart cos she writes about dildos and knows the difference between rubber and silicone

No. 123129

Does anyone's hips kinda start bucking and spasaming wildly after they've come? Like after a few seconds I start rubbing myself again and I literally can't control my hips, they start to thrust up like crazy

No. 123142

Yeah that’s normal for some. I‘ve never had one of those and am pretty sure it’s sadly just not a thing that my body does.
But yeah, heard a few women describe things like that.

No. 123163

Yeah, the only times I don't are when it's a dud and I wasn't really into it. I've seen guys do it too in amateur porn.

No. 123164

I will say lovehoney looks reputable but they sell unsafe toys too and like shilling 'toy cleaner'. For buying a non insert vibe though (is it a small bullet?) LH is fine and +1 their packaging is discreet

No. 123177

that's interesting, I get it but with my head and higher back. I throw my head so much I think if I orgasmed on some hard floors, I would get a concussion lol.

No. 123207

With your head? That's a little strange haha, I don't think I've heard that before. Like does your neck start shaking or your nerves there go crazy?

No. 123215

Idk if you already got a vibe but the wevibe tango is really quiet as far as vibes go. I've had a few and it's the quietest, quieter than any lelo vibe I've tried. I love my tango because it's so powerful but so quiet too.

No. 123221

same, but instead of throwing my head back I have like a nodding convulsion lol

No. 123247

Yeah lovehoney is good, they still sell a few jelly and rubber toys which I hate to see but have higher ratios of safe material toys compared to many sites.

I'd love to see a day when jelly toys are banned for being a health risk, prob won't happen though

No. 123251

>toy cleaner
Is it bad for you or just unnecessary?
All that shit should be banned at least from websites who don't want to give their costumers vag cancer or whatever. There is so much talks bout the harms of chemicals in plastic and beauty products these days so there should be more spotlight on stuff like this that people actually put inside their bodies.

No. 123715

i know this is like 2 months old, but wtf, I do produce a sticky-like mucus substance that its clear and has no color, kinda like egg white, like >>119204 describes but wtf, does that come out from your urethra??? I'd swear it comes out of my vagina instead. And apart from that, there is the usual quantity of pussy juice my vaggo produces when it's aroused oc. Also it doesn't feel like I "squirt it out".

Idk, more opinions on this?? I don't think that's squirting at all but kek, I'm curious on other people's experiences. I always assumed that was what comes out of all vaginas when you come.

No. 125067

Should I order one on amazon and ship it to my parents house ? They don’t open my packages

No. 125070

Amazon’s pretty good about noting on the listing if you can tell on the outside of the box what you’ve ordered, so as long as that’s not denoted you should be good

No. 125109

You could also do an Amazon locker.

No. 125116

How is dildo size measured?
This new toy I got does say 5.5 inches of usable length, but I thought about getting it because it says it was a larger size
when I'm comparing it to a tape measure the usable length looks more like 6–but that's just how I measure dicks

How do you measure dildos/dicks and is there a difference?

No. 125121

Always go by the insertable length when buying toys, decent sites will always make an effort to give accurate measurements like that

Most toys have either a flared base or realistic toys have (ugly ass) fake balls so when a toy claims to be 8 inches on the packaging it can really be 6. I usually buy from a site called lovehoney and they list all measurements quite thoroughly cos the companies manufacturing toys often don't bother or they exaggerate

No. 125146

Comparing the picture on the site to a measure?
Because depending on the scale of your monitor and other settings it's not real life accurate.

No. 125219

What is the wait time like on a Bad Dragon toy?

No. 125250


If you're getting a made to order one, it can be 1-2 months. However every Friday (I think) they post ready to ship toys to their sale section that will arrive in a week or less.

No. 125309

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Here's a review of pic related. I got this years ago and although I adore how it looks, I realize that I'm not very compatible with this toy. It's got 5.5 inches of insertable length, but I can never fully push it all the way inside. I usually make it like half way through the second "bulb" before it's uncomfortable to try to push farther and I stop. That being said, I have had really good sex with a partner who I'm sure is more than 5.5 inches, so this puzzles me. Although I can use this toy to get off, it makes for an awkward position when half of this stiff heavy thing is sticking out of me and needs to be supported. If you like glass and length and you want this, I got it from shevibe (but I'm sure it's sold for cheaper somewhere else).

No. 125322

I can't enjoy glass toys as they hurt my cervix, same with any toy that has a pointed or thin tip. Squishy silicone toys feel amazing without any of the pain afterwards. Solid toys just don't suit everyone

No. 125476

>started using a vibrator years before losing my virginity
>begin having a proper sex life
>discover that sex can never compare to masturbation

unironically a good way to never value a man tho

No. 125479

I discovered toys before losing mine too. I've had plenty of sexual partners since then but I could happily go the rest of my life without having PIV sex again

As long as I have a dildo I'm good

No. 125538

I got really into violent and degrading porn in my teens and early twenties, and now I'm trying to deprogram. But regular porn hasn't turned me on in a long time, and I don't know what to do…

I've been abstaining from porn completely for the past 4 months, but I also don't feel the desire to masturbate anymore. Idk what to do anons, please help me…

(ps. pls don't tell me to get some real dick pls, I'm undesirable and trying to get a man to want me just hurts me more)

No. 125568

have you seen yourbrainonporn.com? I've seen it recommended here before. it might help with tips with how to deprogram.

could you look into other ways to get turned on? I listen to audios on r/gonewildaudio. I like them because it allows me to use my imagination and there are so many to choose from. my favourites audios are from r/HanksHouseOfIllRepute if you wanted a recommendation. might not be the one for you but there are so many users on GWA. you could also try reading erotic stories. good stories are hard to come by but there's always literotica. I find fanfic to be the best kind though haha.

I hope you manage to get turned on by less fucked up things, wishing you luck anon!

No. 125570

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I bought a rabbit vibe at 21 and the first time I used it, I kind of 'stretched myself out' for want of a better word. it was uncomfortable but not painful. I have no idea if I had a hymen but I think if I did this is when it was stretched. years later I got a bigger toy, this time a dildo and again with first time use I felt a stretch/tear but now I use with without discomfort.

I've mentioned this online before and someone asked why I would do that instead of waiting for a man to 'stretch me' out. but I see it as a good thing? it feels like one less thing to worry about once I do have sex for the first time.

did anyone else here use dildos before sex? or use dildos as a virgin?

No. 125769

I use a dildo as a virgin. It some cheap vibrating one I bought on a whim because I wanted to see if penetration was even possible for me, since I can't finger myself. I can't take much and I don't really want to, I just like the feeling of being filled up whilst I rub my clit and I can't get off on penetration alone. I personally have no intentions of having proper sex anytime in the future and don't foresee being offered sex either. I don't really care, I feel like I am the only person able to satisfy my own needs anyways.

No. 126786

i've got a question regarding penetration, and it's kind of baffled me

whenever i use a dildo or otherwise penetrate myself, i always seem to end up losing sensation around my clit. it makes it difficult to orgasm, and i can't cum by vaginal stimulation alone. does anyone else experience this?

No. 126793

i share your pain. I feel like it overrides the feelings I get from clitoral stimulation and kind of numbs it out. It's very annoying because I like both internal and clitoral stim but I hate that I have to choose. I normally just focus on clit and throw in a bit of penetration when I want it. It can get annoying when using toys or having sex with my bf but it is what it is.

No. 126809

i get that sort of numbing thing too, but when i start out my clit feels too sensitive to rub without stopping so it balances out.

No. 126908

If it's something as small as a finger or two, I can still feel both just fine. Anything more than that, be it a dildo or a penis, and I also have this same sensation (or rather, lack of).

No. 126911

What are you supposed to think about when you're masturbating?

No. 126923

About how good it feels to get off.

No. 126925

Do you think there is some informal law about what you're supposed to think about?

No. 126940

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when I was a young teenager before I ever got any toys I used to use the handle of a hairbrush as a kind of makeshift dildo. it had a strange handle that was kind of like a shoehorn (pic related) and used to hit my gspot perfectly (though I didn't know that was what was happening at the time). I've never been able to find a sex toy with a similar shape. I've searched and there is nothing. I wish I had that old hairbrush back (lmao) but I threw it away long ago. that shit was better than any expensive dildo I've tried since. sigh

No. 126971

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About Jesus

No. 127659

is it normal to masturbate a lot but not want to have sex? like i really don't wanna have sex and i would say i have a low sex drive/low libido if only it weren't for the frequent masturbation.

No. 127662

I think it's completely normal.
I like to masturbate and fantasize, but the thought of having sex with someone else just grosses me out.

No. 127668

So, uh, I bought the dildo in OP's pic. 10/10. Would cum again.

No. 127680

Is it considered weird to make noise while you're masturbating? I don't make a lot of noise during it but when I cum I always get pretty loud and I have to control it so nobody hears lol. Honestly I think making noise kinda makes the act more arousing and turns me on more but I don't think it's something people usually do when they jerk off, so I kinda feel strange for doing it

No. 127681

idk if it's normal but I make a noise (by choice) too.

No. 127718


I used to be completely quiet when I masturbated, I just started moaning (by choice) when doing it, like I do when I have sex, and it get me going so much more than just being totally silent. It makes the whole deal more passionate.

No. 127721

Anyone else masturbate while they listen to music or am I weird?

No. 127726

I like to have music on for cover noise. Or something with a rhythm to move to.

No. 127744

I used to masturbate to music all the time. The pieces I would listen to all had a slow buildup towards a more "orgasmic" climax, and that worked really well as a masturbation guideline. Pressure building and getting released in music can feel very similar to the way it does with sex.

No. 127769

If anyone ever has a solution to this please share because it’s frustrating af

No. 127771

i usually get off with my clit, then i put something in. but for me whenever i get off with my clit i have a strong desire to have something inside. maybe try it tho?

No. 127842

well I sometimes make noises. I was used to trying to be quiet because I live with others. but over the last few years I kind of just allow myself to make some noise if it happens (as long as I know no one is within earshot) it does make me feel more aroused too tbh. it's not strange

No. 127869

I love the feeling of having something inside me as well and I sometimes use dildos or vibrators. But I genuinely can’t move them or I won’t be able to get off. So it’s more like a vag-plug.
I mean, it works this way for masturbation, I guess, but it sucks for actual PIV sex. And I would also like to actually mimic some sort of thrusting and still feel something. It’s just frustrating.

I also feel like the orgasms tend to be way less intense when I insert something very early on instead of when I’m already super close.

I don’t know. I feel like my vagina is super weird because of it.

No. 129398

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I just ordered a satisfyer pro 2 and I really hope it’s as good as people say lol. One of my friends has it and she looooves it, I just want a different kind of stimulation cause my vibrators feel sort of.. repetitive now. Also considering buying one of those toys that has a ‘sucking’ feature because I love when guys suck on me during oral lol

No. 129405

>but most of us will never have a sexual partner
incels actually believe this

No. 129410

I've had this thing for years and I know everyone loves and and I'm sure you're going to have a great time but it never really worked for me. I thought I'd love it because I can only come through clitoral stimulation but I must be doing something wrong because I never came with this thing. Which is really weird. I guess I'm just so used to my own fingers that nothing else will do.

No. 129413

No. 129430

It really changed my masturbation life. Once you have figured out how it works exactly, it is amazing. I also like the Satisfyer G-Spot Rabbit.

No. 129437

This was probably spoken of before, but does finger size matters for fingering? My hands are small overall and I feel literally nothing when I try fingering myself. At the same time, I know it can feel amazing because of previous experiences with an ex. I even tried doing the same movements he did but no success.

No. 129438

I think my ring size is 8 or 9 and I don't feel anything when I finger myself either.

No. 129447

I got the womanizer liberty which is supposed to be very similar. I hope it works because I've also heard good things about it and I'm sick of my cheap vibrator wand thing.

No. 129475

If you want a wand upgrade.. femme fun has a really good one and it’s not too bad price wise.

No. 129675

Am I stupid or does the womanizer not feel amazing at all? My clit is very small so maybe that has something to do with it? I was able to orgasm eventually and it was okay but nothing amazing by any means. Plus I had to get super aroused on my own to get that result.. I'm pretty puzzled on how to get a vacuum going or what intensity I should use since it feels so average. I literally had to put a mirror up to my vulva to see what I was doing too.

No. 129684

kind of, i think. i think length matters more than anything. i have short fingers so i can't really reach my g spot fully but i can reach a bit of it, and that's what feels good. i don't think girthiness matters when it comes to fingering, more the length, because i'm a 3.25-3.5 on my index finger and that doesn't really seem to detract from it. maybe your fingers are too short to reach where your g spot is, or you're not focusing on it?

No. 129814

your g-spot should be so close to the opening that you can reach it with the first joint of your finger. most women need to be somewhat aroused to feel something since the g-spot also fills with blood, though i've heard of women who never really can feel anything from there.

No. 129924

i meant ring size was 3.25-3.5, not length. your first joint from the tip? or you mean the middle joint? it's absolutely not reachable to me whether or not i'm aroused, by just going in as far as the first joint from the tip, or even to the middle joint. i need to use my whole finger to reach it, and even then, it's not very well stimulated. it appears to vary in how many inches in it is. from what i'm reading, sources seem to say it's either 2-3 inches, or 2.5-3 inches in. i am inclined to believe mine is closer to 2.5-3 inches in, because my finger is bit under 2.5 inches in length and if i really reach in i can reach the beginning of it, but it's nowhere near as stimulated as when using something longer to reach it. it seems to vary, but i definitely cannot reach it from tip to first joint. i can't feel anything there.

No. 130011

Update on my satisfyer pro 2 purchase: took a little bit to figure out how to position it and while normally I’m pretty sensitive to clitoral stimulation, I had to use a pretty high setting to actually orgasm. But! The orgasm was absolutely amazing, different than what I’m used to with vibrators. I tried to use it during sex, but that was sort of a mess so definitely strictly a masturbation toy for me.

No. 130012

can anyone recommend clitoral stimulation toys that you can controll by remote controller?

No. 130026

does it actually feel like someone sucking on your clit?

No. 130036

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Does anyone actually use those dongs that you can stick on walls and the floor? They seem a bit pointless since there is no vibration, but I'm interested in the hands-free aspect.

No. 130043

No, but it’s not supposed to! It’s more like a thuddy pressurized feeling? It’s unique and pretty amazing tbh, kind of hard to explain. I’ve been looking at the nu sensuelle trinitii for an actual sucking toy…. so maybe when I buy that, I’ll post about it here too.

Almost all my dildos have a suction cup because they can fit in a harness… they do make some that vibrate and have the suction cup on them! I think they’re mostly ‘realistic’ looking tho

No. 130045

Maybe this is stupid to ask but is it safe to masturbate using cotton balls? I had been using a cheap electric nail filer with a rubber tip but the nib wasn't soft enough so I started rubber bandig banding some cotton balls to the end of it and I really like the softness. I change them out every time but is it werid to use them? Should I get something else? ( I live at home with people so buying toys is kind of out of the question)

No. 130050


Anon wtf, don't put things in your self that could come off/come apart, the last thing you want is cotton up you that you don't know about

No. 130051

Replying to an old post but I know they're probably seeing it anyways,
Why do you think dating an asexual out of all people is the only route to happiness in a relationship for you?
I am not asexual since I don't like those snowflake labels, I would say that most humans to me look disgusting though and I'm not sexually attracted to any of them unless they look exceptionally good, and even then they're actually "meh" to me, I have at most once every three months "sex" and with sex I mean half assed masturbation because I force myself to do it to unasexualize myself since I want to get married.

I'm younger than you and I'm a virgin freak, you're in your 30s too, I'm speculating that at a certain age you just get a sexual deathbed if you had a lot of sex since it gets boring. Maybe take a break from it all (including masturbating) and then see if you like it?

Maybe you're just low drive like most sane people and the people you sleep with are high drive? Most couples I know of do not have more than once a week sex, Idk if that's healthy or goals or not.

Date an ace if you'd be ok with them not finding you sexually attractive tho lol.

No. 130064

Does anyone else not feel that much when rubbing their g spot? Even when i'm really aroused and wet and i slide my finger in there it doesn't give me this insane amazing feeling - it feels like a slight pressure, it's alright I guess but i wouldn't call it pleasurable. I'm pretty certain i'm rubbing in the correct spot because the area feels exactly like it's been described by other women. Are you supposed to only do it gently or something?

No. 130065

I think you're supposed to press on it while rubbing it gently. For me it feels very similar to rubbing my clit except that it's kinda uncomfortable imo.

No. 130072

>nu sensuelle trinitii
I saw someone describe it as a "small hard alien tongue" which sounds a bit shit. I am interested in the Sqweel 2,
seen mixed reviews about the function but a lot of women saying it actually feels like oral.

No. 130074

G spot is a meme. Only a very small percentage of women feel pleasure from it.

No. 130081

when I'm very very aroused (like, basically already about to cum) I can cum just by rubbing it really fast. The orgasm feels the same as when I stimulate my clit though. Otherwise it does nothing for me.

No. 130489

Interesting. I used the womanizer liberty during sex and it was the best orgasm I've had with that thing so far. I had to ensure the position allowed me to be on my back and the sex was slow

No. 130491


it might depend on the angle you're doing it at, putting a pillow under you might help. lying down and trying to touch it doesn't work but sitting up I can usually hit it.

No. 130493

How do you clean up after masturbation? I usually do it help with sleeping but I feel like going to bed wet just asking for a yeast infection especially if I want to go really hard

No. 130496

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i've been tempted to buy this since i saw it go viral a couple of months ago, but i'm a brokefag.
does anyone know if its worth the dosh?
if it im going to save up for it kek

No. 130505

i've literally never had an orgasm. i get horny/turned on but can never even approach orgasm, no buildup feeling etc. penetration always hurts even though i've had partners with larger than average meat popsicles. can't finger myself because the feeling grosses me out and i can't find the g-spot anyways. no matter how much i study anatomy charts i can't stimulate my clit. what do.

No. 130508

No that's not safe. Try at least putting a condom over the whole thing.

If I do it for myself it's useless. When my partner does it, he has better angle and longer fingers so it's great.>>130045

Amazon is not a great place to buy sex toys, because there are a lot of fakes.

No. 130509

Are you having trouble finding your clit? Have you tried using a hand mirror?

No. 130514

Does it feel good if you rub the top of your vagina? Try doing it when you're horny and just keep going, I orgasmed my first time just rubbing against some rolled up sheets.

No. 130521

Takes a while to learn.

Maybe you're part of the small hooded clit gang? if so- I believe in you!

Just rub the top of your vagina (where the clit should be) for 45 minutes and see if the sensation changes any. Use lube or copious amounts of saliva. Good luck!

No. 130598

w-why do you have dildos and fleshlights?

No. 130634

Me and my partner broke up a few weeks ago. He's the only person I've had sex with, and I feel incredibly attached to him sexually (and romantically, but not the thread for that).
In short, I really miss him.

I've tried masturbating with what used to be my favourite vibrator (we didn't masturbate at all while together, didn't need to, so much sex) twice since we split, both times I end up stopping, crying and just feeling awful. But I also feel this huge sexual frustration that I want to let go of. I feel so stuck.

I don't know if this is the right thread, so I'm sorry if there's a better place for it. I just feel so broken right now, I want to feel good, I want to orgasm. I just want to enjoy my own company and let go. Any suggestions?

No. 130637

do you have access to a bath tub with mixer tap or a detachable shower head? have you tried masturbating that way? because the water is hot, it also doubles as a really good relaxation moment and it overall feels so overwhelming it's kinda difficult to let your mind wander.

No. 130640

Has anyone else felt really really anxious or sad suddenly while masturbating? It really kills the mood and I have nothing to be sad about!

No. 130646

You know What, I actually masturbated like that a couple of times, I didn't think about it! I'll give it a go.

No. 130649

W-why do you respond to something that was written 2 years ago? Do you seriously expect that anon to answer?

No. 130650

I exclusively use a detachablr showerhead and it's kinda weird how much difference the temperature makes. It has to be hot water, hotter even than the rest of my body prefers and lukewarm straight up doesn't work.

No. 130654

ayart, eh, i have managed to come using lukewarm or even bit coldish water but it doesn't feel near as good, no. honestly this >>> finger masturbation just because of how warm and comfy it feels kek. like i can come just fine with fingers, quite intensely if edging, but nothing will ever be as good as nice hot tap time while on period kek, probably not even actual sex (virgin-chan here).

No. 130660

tbh it is god tier as far as masurbating methods go.
>perfectly clean and hygienic before, during and after
>total privacy because everyone knows you don't go into the bathroom if the shower is on
>no need for lubricant because nothing even touches your body
>discrete, doesn't involve hiding toys or feeling awkward purchasing it in the first place
>super quick and effective in general as long as the water pressure is good

Only downside for me is that I'm really fussy with the settings and take a while to get it just right. Also wasting water.

No. 130831

Oh my god, thank you so much! I didn't think of him once while doing it, squirted twice and had the most amazing orgasm.
I can't believe I managed to finish without having him around!! God bless detachable showerheads!!!

No. 130832

I can only use colder than body temperature water cause I'm sensitive and that hurts but yes nothing compares to shower head.

No. 130834

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If you’re really into masturbating in the tub lithos one brand lovability cake out with a toy that basically redirects the water from your faucet so you don’t have to use the shower head. Kinda wanna try it.

No. 130835

yw anon, glad you could finally come! fuck that poopoohead, showerhead is the new bf.

kinda whack how they're charging that much for half of a pvc pipe lmao but i see how it could be useful if your bath taps are short and you aren't allowed to change them.

No. 130839

Can people hear it?

No. 130843

Maybe someone could hear the change in water pressure or the way the water hits you/the shower? But you'd have to pay pretty close attention to the sound of someone showering to notice, and even then you'd never really know for sure what it is. Plausible deniability and all that.

No. 130846

I mean if someone is autistic enough to listen for the water splashing sound changes then maybe but they'd also need to know about this as a masturbation method which altogether is low odds I think. and the whole "omgg, girls take soooo long in the bathroom" meme is kinda on our side here kek.

No. 130866

are you me

No. 130871

I guess you’re also paying for the cute factor and body safe factor because breaking out a pvc pipe to masturbate in the shower isn’t as sexy I guess.

No. 130893

im not sure if this is the best thread to post this in but I''ll try here. ever since about the age of 16 I've had absolutely no sex drive, and I'm early 20s and still never do. I just don't think about it, at all. I've tried really hard to get into it, but I just really cannot get turned on or find myself even thinking about masturbation or sex. I was on a cocktail of various psych meds since around 12ish up until 18, which I think is probably the cause. I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel so alien, because I see how integral sex and masturbation is to most other peoples lives and I just feel outside of it, yknow? is there any way to get back a completely dead sex drive? I just want to feel human

No. 130901

depends on how much you're into tradies kek

No. 130927

are you still on any meds? i felt exactly like that when i was on birth control (age 15-26). i quit two years ago and gained a pretty powerful sex drive. still had to practice a lot until i learned how to enjoy masturbation. for me its only reading smut and recalling my favourite parts in the shower that does it

No. 130937

Update: there was a learning curve to learning this thing, I will admit. I find that using a wand before the womanizer works best. Now I experience the best orgasms.

No. 130939

Hey anons, I'm an autist who is new to the sex. I don't really like PiV? I mean I can't nut to it.

My bf has gotten to know my body better and I'm weaning off anti depressants so I was thinking of getting a babbys first sex toy for us. Idk anything about this stuff tho help
I prefer clitorial stimulation ofc

No. 130940

ok i’m sorry if this has been asked before anons but uhh… where the fuck is the g spot/how will i know if i’ve hit it? i swear i’ve rubbed everything inside of me and yet nothing feels like what i’ve been described. even when i’ve been extremely aroused. i’ve rubbed on something in me close to the entrance of my vagina that feels different than when i rub the rest of it, but it doesn’t feel amazing like i’ve been lead to believe, just nice. is there something i’m doing wrong? do i just not have a g spot? or is it a lie that it feels incredible to all women to have it stimulated?

No. 130941

Does anyone know where I can get a toy like the one in OP image? I tried looking it up and buying a similar one on eBay but I ended up receiving some sad aliexpress-tier garbage, nothing like the picture, so I’m wondering if that’s an actual toy from a brand or something and I’m just finding weird knockoffs.. I’m very new to sex toys

No. 130945

It's pretty much an invention by males, you found it - it is that spot near the entrance but it's no different than any other part of that area to me.

Women's sexuality and the public (male) opinion of women's sexuality are vastly different beasts.

No. 130956

i hope you don't get dogpiled, anon. people were arguing about that on /ot/ a few weeks ago.

No. 130959

OK, first of all, please God, Christ in heaven, never buy any kind of sex toy from eBay or Amazon.

I got mine from Lovehoney, I think they ship internationally.

Here you go: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21487

No. 130960

you know that the sex toys (and literally everything) from "reputable sites" are from the same places as the "knockoffs" right?

No. 130981

The point is they're lower quality so are going to have weird seams that rub at you and collect bacteria.

No. 131406

I think there's something wrong with me. I'm a virgin (waiting til marriage blah blah blah) and I've noticed over the years that I very rarely get wet or aroused, especially not on purpose. I spent two hours rubbing myself and I only got wet towards the end. I don't watch anything because visual porn is gross to me. Audio porn is boring and erotic stories can be really silly too. Nothing works for me and it makes me feel more depressed than I already do.

No. 131410

I know you're saving your virginity but have you tried penetration with toys or is that off the table too? Clit stim didn't excite me much when I was younger but my first insertable toy kind of.. opened the floodgates

No. 131413

have you tried vibrating toys? doesn't have to be an insertable one; one only for outside use is perfectly fine. (there's a ton of cute ones out there, i have one that is shaped like a macaron lol) i could never get off or even turned on enough with my fingers alone, so i always used a massager during my teen years, and only started experimenting later. i'm not sure if they are still around, but masturbationtipsforgirls at tumblr really helped. i'm not a fan of real people porn either, so i usually read r18 fanfic or read doujins at mrm.

No. 131417

Toys are not easy to come by where I live, but I have tried sticking my fingers in. I get a little freaked out because I don't feel like I'm wet enough to handle it. I can only stick in two fingers and not deeply at all. You might be onto something, though, because my orgasms are stronger when my fingers are in…

Wow anon, a macaron vibrator sounds so adorable! lol I may have to improvise and buy an electric toothbrush. It probably won't be strong enough, but it's something. It could be that using my own fingers is predictable and my brain doesn't let me enjoy the sensations.

I just checked and I think that blog is gone now. I've read r18 doujins but never had the urge to touch myself while reading. I guess I could try that.

Thanks lovely anons!

No. 131420


if you feel like you need a little extra lube to get your fingers in, coconut oil and olive oil are great, discrete options. i personally use coconut oil every time i masturbate or have sex because it’s very slippery and doesn’t dry out quick. it’s also easy to wash off yourself.

No. 131430

I can't wait to move out so I can moan as loud as I want. I feel like letting the air out of your mouth during orgasm would make a whole lot of difference than just holding it in. Is it true?

No. 131436

>I can't wait to move out so I can moan as loud as I want.

Tfw when you live in an apartment with the thinnest walls ever. I am not embarrassed to have sex but solo time makes me worried about being judged by my neighbours for some reason. I can literally hear them talk through the wall I bet they hear my vibrator. How do I deal anons?

No. 131454

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After wasting money on 3 different g-spot vibrators I’ve found my personal holy grail.
I first saw it at an online Black Friday sale but it was sold out. The shape and the fact that it’s by satisfyer had me curious since I’m a huge fan of the regular satisfyer pro.
I read a bit into it and watched some reviews. The extra strong vibration at the head really made me want to try it. Eventually my bf got it for me as a belated Christmas gift and - holy shit.

I’m one of those women that won’t come from penetration alone. I do with this 9/10 times though. The vibration is really intense. It’s amazing.
The only ‘downside’ is that it’s quite huge. It’s the only toy I absolutely have to use lube with and after I came it almost hurts a little because of how thick it is.

But either way 10/10 would definitely buy again. It’s honestly my new favorite toy.

No. 131550

Why does this look like a smug moomin

No. 131646

I live alone and own a couple of sex toys. For some reason lately I've been randomly bothered by the thought that if I suddenly died tomorrow, someone (likely my dad) would have to go through all my stuff and find my dildos while still mourning for me… I have anxiety over the weirdest things

No. 131703

just put them in a locked container marked "throw away" or something.

No. 131722

I'm kind of frustrated at how little I can insert without feeling pain or being uncomfortable. I can probably only take like 3 inches and can only use a dildo whilst on my back. Btw, I use lube.

No. 131871

Does anyone know how I can buy sex toys online without my parents finding out?

No. 131873

are you aroused? i think the vagina expands or something when you are. just go slow, wait for the pain to still then slowly push further and lay with it in (dont start thrusting like a madman lmao) im assuming youre a virgin so go slow, to get used to it, i was surprised at the physical difference in feeling between my fingers and a toy.

do you have your own paypal? i mean the biggest issue is probably when it comes to your door, i wanted one since like 12 didnt get one until i was 20 since i was so afraid lmao, i guess it just depends how nosy your parents are and if you can get the package before they do, only get silicone or glass material, none of that pvc or jelly shit that shits poison and not worth the price tag. also youre gonna need somewhere to hide it lmao

No. 131875

I do have one. I bought stuff online before and my parents don’t usually open them, but I’m afraid they're gonna. I wish there was a shop that had really discrete packaging. Like hiding the toy in something, like a teddy bear.

No. 131879


OT but you made me picture someone's teddy bear with a 7 inch dildo floping out of it and I can't stop laughing

No. 131886

I wish sex toy stores would be a bit better with discretion. Even at 30 and living alone I worry as the mailman is my neighbor and this is a small backwards town. Love ordering toys and having 'MASSAGER' written on the customs declaration…as if the mailman doesn't know exactly what that means lol

I try to use companies that send via courier instead but alot of sites don't even tell you what delivery method they use. I suppose the worry around ordering them never fully goes away. I once had a toy arrive in such a damaged box that the contents were visible

No. 131887

Just google for sex toy webshops with discreet packaging. I don't know of any discreet packaging to the level of hiding it in a teddybear but neutral packaging is more or less the standard, at least where I am.

No. 131925

If you want something well-known like a magic wand or something, I‘d recommend buying it off amazon. It always says on the product page whether or not they’re shipping through amazon and if they do, it‘ll only have amazon‘s adress on it.

No. 131955

are you in the US? as weird as it sounds Urban Outfitters sells pretty well now sex toys with discrete packaging. I got the Womanizer liberty from them and the packaging was neutral. Also Unbound has some nice ones

No. 131986

Why not just get a BBC?

No. 132007

Because it costs £160 a year and I'm not really sure why this question is relevant to this thread.

No. 132371

Is it normal to flinch and have nearly a panic attack whenever I try to finger myself? I've had this issue for so long now and never thought much of it (I kept telling myself that maybe I'm just not into penetration), but lately it's starting to become a huge deal, because my boyfriend really wants to have sex lol. Have no idea how to explain it to him and even though I don't remember many things from my childhood, I'm kinda sure that I am not some CSA victim or was touched/raped.

No. 132383

The wands on Amazon are fakes. Target is an authorized retailer

No. 132398

idk if this helps but i used to be really, really scared of penetration. couldn't even do it myself, i always just grinded on stuff. i wouldn't say i've been sexually abused, but i did have some bad experiences that gave me some hangups about sex/men in general.

when i got with my current bf, i told him i wanted to take it slow, because of my fear of penetration. he was very understanding, and would stop me if he felt i wasn't ready/was pushing myself (since i DID want to, i just couldn't… "let him in" when the time came). i did reach a point where i felt secure enough and was able to relax.

if your bf pushes it after you explain, i'd consider that a red flag. if it's going to happen it needs to be with someone who understands your hesitation, as you need to be able to relax, physically and mentally.

i hope things work out for you, anon. if things don't get better i'd try talking to a therapist or something

No. 132399

You might want to look up vaginismus. Sometimes it's linked to trauma but not always

No. 132400

>because my boyfriend really wants to have sex

Seems like he cares more about sex than you

No. 132430

for fucks sake. for the last time. amazon. does. not. test. products. anything that's shipped and sold by amazon isn't tested. it's the same shit from the 3rd party seller, amazon has just bought out the stock wholesale from the seller so they can resell, they do this with many popular items. there are no safety or ingredient checks required in the USA for anything not covered by the FDA. companies simply do them as a way to avoid lawsuits.

No. 132607

i hve a feeling that anon is underaged, but the miniscule chance she's not: what's the point of her dating someone when she's not fucking him eventually? lol

No. 132684

What do you guys do when your libido is low but you really need to masturbate? I'm trying to go to sleep but I can't make myself get tired. Usually when this happens, i masturbate and I'm good to go, but today I just can't do it. I feel like i'm just touching myself and it's uncomfortable and I just feel gross and sweaty rather than turned on. I've been trying to masturbate for like 5 minutes but it doesn't even feel that good.

No. 132698

maybe don't go straight for masturbating? maybe try imagining a scenario you find hot to get you 'worked up' before you masturbate. I'll sometimes touch my nips until I feel needy and I HAVE to touch my clit instead of just going to the clit while I'm not turned on at all. good luck anon

No. 132699

honestly a guy should respect your boundaries. you can date someone and care for them without the sex implication, and there's other ways to express sexual desire without going straight to intercourse.
but it's an important aspect to some people, so if it's important to one party but the other party isn't ready for it, then a breakup isn't the worst thing in the world. feeling pressured to do something you're not ready for is, however.

No. 132706

If it's to go to sleep and you really can't get into it, why don't you try vigorous exercise instead of forcing it? It'll probably be shitty and unsatisfying anyway if you're not into it.

No. 132718

This happens to me from time to time lol and even though I shouldn't I end up forcing myself to and tbh I end up having pretty nice orgasms in the end but the trip isn't good because as you said, it feels sweaty and gross. Also I waste like 1 or 2 hours I could be sleeping by other means…
This seems good advice, I think I'll try to do this the next time I'm restless.

No. 132764

Does anyone else experience bleeding (like bright red breakthrough bleeding) from penetration? I've mentioned this to my doctor for years and I've had smear tests and two different scans which looked fine. It tends to happen more often in the week before my period is due. I only bleed during sex/masturbation and it stops immediately afterwards.

Doc says I'm fine but.. I feel like bleeding during sex shouldn't be the norm? I dread the thought of entering a new relationship with this issue to explain

No. 132767

Oh my god, same. Except, not while having sex (because I'm not having any sex) but when I try to masturbate by penetration, I always tear at the entrance or something and bleed and have a scab there for a day. I don't really do much penetration so it's not really a problem for me.
But if your vagina tears at the entrance (maybe at the thin skin near the entrance I forgot what it's called) then I think using loads of lube might help you out.

As for if thr blood comes out from the inside of the vagina then I'm not really sure. I can see how it would be daunting to tell your sexual partners about it.

Hope it works out for you, anon.

No. 132790

i often get a spot of bright red blood after penetration so i look at my vulva with a hand mirror and it's always a small tear on my perenium in the same spot. if i take a break from penetration and put neosporin on it goes away so I guess it's fine and I just have delicate skin there.

how much are you bleeding usually? more than a small spot when you wipe?

No. 132843

It's enough blood that it gives the appearance of my period starting. I do think it's period blood too (rather than a tear) because it happens more in the days before my period and it doesn't happen with shallow penetration.

Sucks because the few days before my period are the only time of the month that my sex drive actually kicks in.

No. 132971

Same anon, got a new toy over the weekend. My period ended a few days ago but every time I use the toy I bleed as if I'm still on it. Only for it to immediately stop afterwards.

I'm getting really fed up. I've already stayed away from sex for 18 months because of this, now even masturbation seems gross and not worth the mess. I'm about to give up on penetration full stop.

No. 132976

Sounds really bad, have you seen a gyn about it?

No. 132994

I've had scans and smear tests done and doc says I'm fine. It's been happening for 5 years and I've chased it up multiple times only to meet a dead end where no cause is being found.

I did have precancer cells on my cervix at one point but my last two smear tests were fine.

No. 133053

I was recently with somebody who made me squirt EVERY TIME he fingered me and I have no idea how to get to that level during masturbation, even though it's easy for me to hit my gspot myself. Is it possible I just have to do it really hard (because he was stronger than me)? Idk does anyone have any tips

No. 133068

I guess my question is why should that level of mess be preferable for a solo session?

No. 133079

my girlfriend says shes been using an electric toothbrush for years to get off, and she says it's become difficult and painful because of the bristles and the side effects of her medication

her sensitivity has lowered a lot and says she can't use her hands any more effectively, shes nervous about buying any sort of sex toy because her parents are nosy, snoop on her credit card history etc

any advice? it sounds like it really bothers her and i just want to help my gf in some way

No. 133086

Can't she take out some cash and buy a cheap and small sex toy in store and hide it somewhere? Surely it'd be worth the risk if it's really bothering her.

No. 133088

if its the meds, its the meds, you can't make that shit better with sex toys, its super annoying and once i got off mine i was legit surprised how easy it was. i'd recommend her to take a break and then try her hands again and if it still doesn't work just buy her a small undetectable vibrator like one of those bullets that look like a lipstick. also tell her to mix up the porn she watches

No. 133090

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the obvious answer though is she sends you the money for the toy and you send it to her in a different box. if shes STILL worried about her parents finding out (why do they care so much, how old is this girl?) you can mail it to her friends house or legit just ask the local post office to hold it for her and she can pick it up. again again, her taking out cash and visiting a physical sex shop also makes sense and leaves zero trail. Yet here I am again, with ANOTHER option that may surprise you, there are electric dog nail filers that have a large guard around the file that vibrate IMMENSELY, to the great joy of my young dog owning self growing up. if anyone asks questions she can say she wanted to try it on a friends dog or her own nails for lols, nobodys gonna look too deep.

No. 133091

omfg that is so retarded, you don't use the head of the toothbrush to get off, you use it without it as a vib.

No. 133109

> her parents are nosy, snoop on her credit card history etc

Why should parents care if their adult daughter masturbates? Are they going to kill her for masturbating?

My dad would go through my stuff as an adult and tbh I just collected sex toys in a drawer and I know full well he probably found them at some point. If anything that should help send the message that adults deserve some privacy

No. 133113

You say that, but some parents are wacko as fuck. My ex's, for example, shouted at us for having protected, consensual and of-age sex. He was 19, I was 18. They found a box of condoms and my pill packet in his bedside draw. I was there when they found it, and the look on his Dad's face was ridiculous. It looked like I'd just gaped my arse hole in front of him and shat all over his shoes.

No. 133121

I mean my dad would've beat the shit out of me if I was having sex in his house at 18/19 too. He kicked my brother out for that exact reason.

But what'd be the logic behind objecting to someone masturbating?

No. 133125

She's using the bristle side? You're supposed to take bristles off or use the back of the brush part so the bristles face outwards.
I highly recommend a detachable shower head. Usually there will be different water pressure settings that are good for masturbating but also for getting every part of you really clean or blasting away any aches and pains with hot water. Showering without one just is not the same. Everyone should have a detachable shower head. They're pretty inexpensive as well and I doubt parents will think anything of it.

No. 133128

This wasn't even in his house, I was living with my ex while he was in uni and they came to visit for the day and went rooting around his stuff while I was in the room, so it's not like we were disrespecting his parents house, it was our own place.

No. 133129

That is pretty wacko

No. 133158


it's the confrontation, her parents dont seem like nut jobs that would get bent out of shape over their daughter masturbating, and ive suggested pretty much everything already brought up before and then some to her.

ive walked out of Spencer's with vibrators in my purse before, my parents have straight up found my dildo by accident and they dont care, neither do i, and I'm usually an anxious mess; i guess it just goes to show that it's really not that hard to pull off.

oh well, it might not be as bothersome as she's described if shes still not willing to take at least some risk to get herself something actually meant to be used as a vibe. i would just take her to an adult shop and get her one, but yknow. LDR

No. 133852

Question, how different are the sensations of clit suctions and clit vibrators?

No. 133858

It may also have been the arousal from fucking with someone. You can't tickle yourself, that kind of stuff.

No. 133927

I just can't find pleasure in masturbating. I do enjoy sex, but only piv. Never had an orgasm in my life. I get almost there but never climax. I don't have any problem with my sex drive, I can get turned on pretty easily. I tried to stimulate my clitoris, I feel pleasure but it's too sensitive for me. I don't enjoy fingering myself, I feel nothing. I only take pleasure when a guy fingers me, because he finds the right angles, but I can't seem to do it on my own, I feel stupid for not even knowing how to pleasure myself…. Do any of you girls have this issue? Did you find a way to find pleasure in masturbating ? I don't feel normal at all, and it bums me out….

No. 133936

This could be written by me. Never had an orgasm, always almost get there but just can’t seem to get over that treshold. I do enjoy clitoral stimulation with a vibrator though. And I love it when someone fingers me, it’s insane. You’re not abnormal! What’s helped me is just accepting that this is how I am for now and not beating myself over it. I’m hopeful I’ll get there once I’m older. If you want to, you could try getting a vibrator and using it on yourself through underwear or even a towel if you feel you’re still too sensitive. And if it still does nothing for you, it’s fine, just keep enjoying sex with a partner then! It’s great too.

No. 133937


Thank you so much anon, I really needed to read this, and I'm glad that I'm not alone… I just feel really frustrated with my self! Since I dropped the birth control, I feel like I'm often horny, and I don't wanna hook up with some random dude, so I try to masturbate to satisfy my needs but… well, I just end up being bored and frustrated because I can't manage to take care of myself lol.
I have never tried sex toys, I think I might get a vibrator for starters maybe? Doesn't it make too much noise? Thank you again for your answers, and sorry for venting like this

No. 133938

This sounds similar how I was and teaching the threshold but not tipping over etc. Get a vibrator this is how I first got myself to orgasm, and either thru underwear or something to reduce sensitivity find out where you like it. When you find the spot you like and feel the threshold coming up breath thru the intensity keep doing what you're doing and you will reach orgasm. It's like a mental block you're trying to break. I use to only feel good when guys were fingering me too, now I'm grown and can take care of myself lol

No. 133963

Try grinding on a rolled up pillow

No. 133973

Been there, done that, I feel some little sensations but that's it…

No. 133992


all i can say is: get yourself a shower head with an adjustable stream. take a bath. enjoy.

i had the same ''problem'' as you and my shower head showed me the promised land on a rainy afternoon

No. 134089

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I bought pic related (We-Vibe rave) as my first internal vibrator, hoping not to have to buy another. But I really dislike it - The shape feels really odd and too big to me, and I'm not sure if I have a G-spot but if I do I think it's a little further in (as I keep wanting to push it in further than it goes).

What can I buy to see if I can explore myself inside a little more? I'm thinking of a dildo or one of fun factory's thrusters/pulsators (because that sensation is really pleasuravle during sex), but those are very expensive and also really girthy to me. Wjat is it that I'm looking for? Should I get an affordable-ish dildo first? How do I know which dimensions to pick?

No. 134093

I've spent the last while in a cycle of buying stupidly expensive toys and not liking them. I really can't afford this cycle. I ran a sex toy review site years ago and now I'm back to square one trying to find a toy I love. Found out my ex used my toys on someone else while having an affair so I left them all behind when I moved and I don't want to buy the same toys again cos.. gross memories.

Tried a cheaper toy this week and ta-da. Think I've found my goldilocks toy.

I know amazon is risky for fake toys but I've owned and reviewed enough toys to confidently say this turned out to be genuine quality silicone


It has a platic core that gives it weight and keeps it fairly firm. Again I don't generally recommend amazon for toys but can personally attest this is silicone. Someone might find the recommendation helpful

No. 134094

>get really excited about the idea of buying some new toys
>look into buying new lingerie to feel nice too
>end up buying both and the toys are fun
>it's not like anything I imagined and seems a bit boring

I'm worried maybe I'm just trying to much and take a break from masturbating so it might feel better, like quitting alcohol for a while.

has anyone tried anything similar ?

No. 134096

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I thought this was the lelo ella when I saw it, it's a similar shape. is the straight lines that feel odd? the ella has this blunt head which is meant to hit the g spot. maybe it could be a better option for you? it's just a dildo though, no vibration.

lel do a vibrating g spot vibe called the gigi that is meant to be good. there's also the lelo mona which is similar but without the blunt head. I hate that sex toys are so expensive, our bodies are all so different and you could easily spend thousands just looking for 'the one'.

>fun factory's thrusters/pulsators

that sounds great tbh

I guess going for cheaper dildos is an option, but don't go too cheap, keep with the medical grade silicone. for dimensions (girth in this case?) the we-vibe rave looks to be 1.5 in (3.8 cm) so maybe go smaller than that? I don't know what country you're in but lovehoney has some nice smaller silicone dildos

No. 134097

whenever i'm near finishing i start crying and it ruins the mood every time and i'm not sure why this happens

No. 134103

Have you been under stress lately? It's probably just the tension being released.

No. 134105

Thank you, what a thoughtful answer anon!

No. 134106

Just seconding that lovehoney is a good site. They have uk, eu and us versons of the site now so they cover alot of countries. I like that you can filter by toy material when searching and their silicone dildos start at pretty reasonable prices.

No. 134112

Does anyone have a recommendation for an external vibrator that I can sit on? Like on a pillow? Id like clitoral and a bit of labia simulation but phallus shaped ones are too rigid and not the right shape

No. 134141

I don't know of any actual pillow vibes but these are made of a squishy silicone and designed to press against your labia too. I've tried one and the squish feels so different to any other silicone toy I own.


No. 134173

huh, didn't know Tenga made stuff for women too.

No. 134176

i have the sakura one. highly recommend. you can stick you clit or other bits right in the notch.

No. 134225

Are the iroha vibes a good shape to use during sex too? I want a gentler vibe and I like the squishiness but idk if I wanna invest.

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sage for blogpost but I got to lower my anti-depressants dosage and I'm looking forward to trying for satisfying orgasms again!

I've not had a decent orgasm in literal years. masturbating is fun and feels good and I can get super turned on but my orgasms usually feel just like I hit a slight peak and then feel finished/too sensitive for more. so disappointing. in the past I've edged for so long just to prevent having a measly orgasm cause the build up feels so much better

when I've lowered my meds dosage before my orgasms have gotten better so wish me luck anons!

No. 134372

how noisy would you say these are? compared to other vibes?

No. 134374

My fingers are a drop too short to reach my G-spot and I don't have a sex toy. Fml kek. I feel a lot of pleasure from touching my clitoris, but when I'm almost reaching climax, I become oversensitive and I stop immediately. It doesn't hurt but it's a really unpleasant sensation.

No. 134409

Ugh good luck Anon you're living my dream, hope it goes well

No. 134752

Is it normal to experience a little pain during penetration? I have a 5 inch dildo, it's not crazy thick or anything but no matter how aroused I am or how much lube I use inserting it for the first time always hurts. It's a burning pain and it goes away after about 10 seconds, and then I can use the toy fine. I was reading a sex blog and they said if it hurts to stop. I'm a virgin so I can't tell if this is normal.

No. 134753

When I used to finger myself as a virgin, I had the same problem? But when I lost my virginity and had sex a couple of times it went away. I didn't use a toy at all when I was a virgin though.

No. 134756

gave in to corona, bought a dildo. kinda hype, should get here in 3 days!

No. 134757

no matter how turned on/wet I am before I use my dildo it always hurts for a few moments before I get to used to it and my vagina kinda 'relaxes' around it. I'm a virgin too. I think the blog probably meant if it continues to hurt for an extended time to stop?? but sounds like you're like me and it's just for a moment or two before it stops. I wouldn't worry about it anon

No. 134758

yay for you anon, hope u enjoy!

No. 134785

Same! Though I think there are postal delays where I am

No. 134789

I've always had this and I've been sexually active for over a decade, I don't think it's abnormal as long it's just those few seconds of adjustment

No. 134836

Does anyone have any good recommandations for hands free clit vibrators? I usually use my fingers, but when I want to do it while reading my doujinshis, I cannot masturbate and turn the pages at the same time, it's very frustrating.

No. 134841

I know it sounds daft, but I've never had an orgasm. Ever. I think it's because I don't know what's going to happen and I don't know what to expect or I'm doing it wrong. Everytime I rub my clit, I get to a certain point where my legs start closing on their own and I can't sit still, I know this is probably normal but when I get that far I stop because of my body reacting this way. Ant tips or anything? I just want to have one. I'm completely fine with my body and I'm not self conscious or anything, I just want to feel something.

No. 134845

I masturbated 3 times because I was bored but each time I didnt feel anything when I 'came'. Why??

No. 134847

Did you have an orgasm? Sometimes after masturbating I just get up and continue my day, what way do you usually feel?

No. 134849

It's like that most of the time for me when I'm doing a routine shlicking session, buildup is there and nice, gets a small unremarkable peak and suddenly everything's gone. I get really good orgasms only when I'm horny before masturbating and if I'm using good material that I've never seen before. I don't use toys though, maybe I'd get better results if I had some.

No. 134938


So I’m 19 now, and ever since I was 14 I’ve been trying to figure out “what works for me” in terms of masturbation. I do get turned on, not that often but it happens. I never got to orgasm or “find what works” until Last year when i was reading some erotica and I kept squeezing my thighs together until BOOM, i orgasmed. I’ve been doing this along with nipple play for a while and it gets me off good.

But… it’s the only way I masturbate. I just squeeze my thighs until I come. if I touch myself I just lose the mood all together and get bored. The issue is, the whole squeezing your thighs together is getting old now and i want to masturbate like a normal person??? What do I do??

No. 134951

Maybe start off with riding a pillow or something. Sounds like it could be the logical next step since using your hands feel weird.

No. 134974

Bored at home cos of the corona situation, thought about ordering a sex toy but it took me a few days to choose the right one and place my order.. now the postal services are moving at a snails pace (corona complicating things) and my toy won't reach me until May… balls.

No. 135157

Is it actually bad if you use the bristle side of an electric toothbrush on your clit? I only do it rarely like once a month at most and the feeling is so much better than using the other side of the toothbrush, but I always see people say it's bad and you shouldn't do it

No. 135174

Seems like you could accidentally cut or scratch yourself that way

No. 135176

Sounds like it could cause irritation, if you're not in a position to order or have sex toys around you could always look for a back massager or facial massager that vibrates and has a better design for the job.

No. 135186

For me it hasn't cut unless I go full coomer for days on end. (so like, more than 3 or so orgasms per day using bristle side) If you're gonna go heavy duty for the love of god don't scrub it on your clit. You should be lightly pressing it against it after softening the bristles with water (important, should be done even on regular days). If it starts to hurt, stop.

Also, for the love of god I'm not a doctor. I just drink borderline unhealthy amounts of water, so I've never gotten an UTI before. You could get hurt doing this so please pay attention, and also look into getting a proper vibe or safer options like >>135176 said.

If it does get cut or scratched: Don't mess with your clit or the area around it for a while or until the pain ceases. Lightly wash the area with clean water (again, not a doctor. this is just what has worked for me. This is probably not the right way to treat this type of injury) Drink lots of water and pay attention to your body. If the pain persists for more than a few days, or it starts to hurt more, see a doctor. If it's bleeding a lot (never happened to me) also immediately go see a doctor

No. 135237

i think i might like anal? recently when i was masturbating i accidentally applied some pressure to my anal area (no penetration) and it made me come so fucking hard. i've tried it several times after and i love how it feels when something phallic applies pressure to that area. i still haven't tried anal penetration bc i'm way too lazy to douche just for masturbating but i might try if i feel adventurous enough. weird thing is, i never liked the idea of anal, it didn't make sense, and i thought the whole thing was a twisted male fantasy.

No. 135247

Just because you like external stimulation doesn't mean you like internal stimulation as well.

No. 135248

I like external stim there but then anal has always been.. meh. You never know til you try but it can go either way

No. 135323

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i partially enjoy fingering myself since the stretch feels nice other than that fingering myself gets boring and i stop and just rub my clit. i want to feel a vaginal orgasm just once and ill never complain again

No. 135325

> i want to feel a vaginal orgasm just once

Alot of women just don't come from penetration. You might be one of them or you might need a toy to get you there.

No. 135335

Has anyone tried on of those dildos that have a thrusting function?
Like this one or other brands: https://us.funfactory.com/en/pulsators/stronic-real/
I don't see social distancing due to the pandemic going away anytime soon so I thought I'd splurge on one. Buying sex toys is always a gamble though because you can't try before you buy.

No. 135337

I got one for free years ago, not that exact model but the same brand and I wouldn't pay that price tag for what it does. Nothing short of an actual sex machine can really thrust hard enough.

That and fun factory toys have a matte finish that requires alot of lube and uses up lube very easily. I experienced these short, weak thrusts and then irritaton/dryness from the type of silicone they use.

No. 135339

Thanks anon. It doesn't sound very good. I'm single and love piv and getting really frustrated here in lockdown fml. Is there a better toy that you recommend?

No. 135426

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i only generally masturbate like once or twice every two weeks (sometimes more often and sometimes not at all for much longer) but when i do it with a vibrator specifically it’s kind of bizarre. i orgasm once and then masturbate another bunch of times in a row and sometimes i’ll be doing that for nearly an hour. i also go in stages of intensity, like if i decided to watch porn first then i have to go and look at videos of people i’m actually attracted to (like actors in scenes i find hot or cringey thirst videos that people make lol) or listen to audios/sexual asmr so that i actually properly get into/enjoy it, then i’ll just sit and just fantasise about stuff for however long i carry on for. is that even remotely normal or is it my low functioning autistic brain making things weird?

i also only ever want something inside me after i’ve finished masturbating/orgasming six times in a row even though i have little to no interest in sex

pls no bully anons i’m sensitive

No. 135427

I'm in the same exact situation you're in, but I'm not particularly bothered by it

No. 135436

I don't understand what the problem is? What's supposed to be so terribly abnormal about that?

No. 135451


that’s why i asked if it was normal or not, i’m just not sure if it’s normal to do it in such a robotic way i guess, i figured most people just get horny, masturbate and go super quickly but i don’t think i could ever do it that way. it’s a lot more of a process than the way i described it initially but thank you for letting me know it’s normal anon

No. 135590

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i want to use a dildo but im afraid of becoming "loose"

No. 135591

Thats why we need more sex education. You can't become loose from having a lot of sexual activity. Go crazy, girl.

No. 135592

Lol why?
And please learn more about anatomy.

No. 135594

then why do people like shay's look gaping

No. 135605

IDK who you mean but it's just her anatomy? Some vaginas are small and tight some are bigger, just like penises can vary in size.

No. 135607

You're either baiting or you're too young to be on here

No. 135910

I don't know if anyone else has experienced this but it's worth a shot.
For the past three months, every time I masterbate and have an orgasm I get fucked up. Once I'm down from it, my chest tightens up and I can't breathe, my body shakes (sometimes violently) and it doesn't stop untill im able to move onto my side and I'm out of breath for awhile after. It sometimes happens when I'm just laying on my back without doing anything but most times it's after I masterbate. Every single time. I've been out of the country so I couldn't see a doctor, but now that I can I don't even know how to talk to a doctor about it.

No. 135911

Meant to bump, sorry I'm new

No. 135939


It could be your blood pressure. Just tell your doctor when it happens and get a check up.

No. 135969

I've just received the sex toy that I ordered and it has a VERY strong plastic-y smell…is there any way to safely deodorize it?

No. 135973

I am growing my fingernails long but I wanna finger myself, what do?
And no, I don't have a dildo because I live in an islamic country and it is hard to get sextoys.
I can orgasm just fine rubbing my clit though.

No. 135997

I hate to tell you this but any toy with a strong smell like that isn't safe for use. What material is it listed as being?

Sex toys aren't regulated like they should be and common toy materials like rubber, jelly, TPE and TPR are not safe. They can lead to all sorts of problems don't there and the general rule is the stronger it smells the worse it is for your vagina.

No. 136000

Gloves might help? Like latex or nitrile gloves

No. 136008

This. Get something in silicone (or glass, metal or wood if you're adventurous)

No. 136016

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Oh fuck me, did I waste my money? It says it's pvc

No. 136021

This was one of my first toys years ago. Nice beginners shape.. bad material. The kind where you might go to use it one day and find it has 'melted' in your drawer.

Silicone costs a bit more but if you're getting a toy the same size as this it shouldn't be too expensive.

No. 136096

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The COVID business is driving me mental so I splurged on this crazy-looking thruster anyway. Hope it's worth it.

No. 136098

you should look into Bad Dragon designs! I know they're catering to the anthro community but honestly, these shapes are so well thought through and diverse, if one wants to spend money on a dildo better buy something that gonna provide with different sensations than regular human penis would.

No. 136113

Damn those colorful things look like so much fun actually!
They're temporarily not open for orders though, which is kind of good since I don't need to financially ruin myself with a weird dildo purchase spree.

No. 136190

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Got a satisfier pro 2 I no longer need a boyfriend it finishes me off in like 3 mins and it’s better than oral.

Less messy and I don’t need to shove anything inside of me

No. 136191

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No. 136217

I’m quarantined in my parents’ house and god I miss my magic wand. I just don’t get orgasm with my hands.

No. 136227

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I'm debating whether I should get a satisfier pro 2, hitachi wand or one of the bad dragon dildos… The first 2 seem less messy while also being cheaper, but the novelty of having a fun looking dildo could be entertaining.

For me it's either reading hentai or fanfics. Videos don't do anything for me and I can't support the porn industry (to the point where I wouldn't go out with a person if they did)

No. 136230

Bad Dragon was funded by a literal zoophile, I really wouldn't recommend supporting this company.

No. 136231

>reading hentai
>can't support the porn industry
So….jacking off to drawings that look like literal children is better? Alright.

No. 136234

Bitch what the fuck are you talking about

No. 136242

hentai doesn't have to include loli or shota characters, there are a lot of categories and tags for a reason, just like any creative community. Please educate yourself before trying to start shit.

Just looked up the reptile website drama, and apparently the owner took it down. Either way, thanks for letting me know. I'm looking at alternatives and the ones that come close to BD designs/quality are twice as expensive :( But I'll keep an eye out

No. 136250

never seen a hentai where women aren't treated like absolute cum dumpsters, maybe that's why i don't watch it

No. 136261

Anime faces don't look like children to you? That's literally their beauty standard over there too so no shit they're drawing "women" like that. Slapping an anatomically incorrect body that looks like a blow up doll under a child's face doesn't make it look like a woman either. But sure, keep supporting that nasty shit. Just because it's drawn, doesn't make it any better. If you don't like porn, at least stick to your narrative.(infighting)

No. 136272

>Just because it's drawn, doesn't make it any better

i'm sorry but how. drawing porn doesn't require any real person to get physically harmed or prostituted or put in danger. you could say it indirectly does but you could say that about a lot of things. i don't like hentai either for all the reasons anons have mentioned, but i think claiming it's just as harmful as live action porn with real people is a little ridiculous. it's almost insulting to porn actresses.

No. 136275

Ntayrt, but no, anime faces don't look like children's faces (aside from the aforementioned loli/shota, which is not the majority), never understood that argument.

I don't like 3DPD porn either, I'm sticking to hentai because I prefer the situations and I'm not grossed out by the sex in it (believe it or not the genre is extremely varied, there's even hentai made by and for women).

No. 136277

>hentai made by and for women
share some with us then

No. 136281

God you're retarded. I don't even watch hentai.

No. 136284

nvm im actually retarded

No. 136293

You're still supporting misogyny. I never said it was as bad as real porn but it certainly isn't healthy still.

>no, anime faces don't look like children's faces (aside from the aforementioned loli/shota, which is not the majority), never understood that argument
Bro literally what? They all have the same exact face. Big moe eyes, no nose, and like no mouth either. THAT'S what makes them look childish, not always the body. There's no difference and I like how neither of you have anything real to say back because you know it's true. Denying that they don't have same face is retarded. I have eyes and can see, anon.

I don't want to derail, but you can easily find my post in the unpopular thread in /ot/ if you want to @ me there.(infighting)

No. 136294

Can't you just stay in your anti anime thread? Why do you even post on here to begin with? You think lolcow is women empowering or something? You're still a retard for thinking every weeb and otaku is a pedophile. No I'm not going to say anything back about anime girls looking like children because I have eyes as well and can see what children look like. Jesus fucking christ you're the worst anon on this entire site.

No. 136296

You’re retarded as fuck. This argument happens daily on 4chan but it’s always about actual lolis, not the entire anime existence ?? wtf. No no one is denying it because they "know it's true" you're literally the first person i've ever seen to say something so stupid

No. 136297

I know I'm right. They can't even have a discussion without throwing insults around and one of them is for sure a dude who's just stirring the pot.

Then stop your bitching and go back to 4chan.(infighting)

No. 136312

Oh yeah, that's the main reason why I don't watch it. Hentai in anime form turns me off completely, whereas you get more options if you decide to read it. Wider variety when it comes to both the art style and stories/characters.
I tend to gravitate towards ones that have been created by women (or have tags that could be populated by them).

No. 136369

is it normal to have never had an orgasm? I've tried to masturbate a lot but something in my brain just tells me to stop when I start getting close. It's almost like I feel afraid of it or guilty? has anyone here dealt with it and overcome that feeling and instinct?

No. 136372

I haven't personally experienced this, but I might have some guess as to what's going on. You think too much and there's definitely an emotional block. You need to get really horny, just escape your mind for a bit, and let go. Not sure how that can be done, but maybe if you bought a vibrator the physical sensations will help you get there more easily? Also maybe turn your feelings of guilt and shame into something exciting? You really have nothing to be ashamed of.

No. 136378

i completely agree. in order to orgasm you need to lower your inhibition and just get lost in the moment. it's hard in the beginning, especially for young women.

No. 136384

yeah you're both right. I struggle with having a voice in my head telling me that I'm disgusting or dirty whenever doing anything sexual, it's really overthinking and an emotional block. Thank you both for the advice, I will use it!

No. 136393

Anyone have to do a rub in to go to sleep?My sleep scedule has been shit since quarintine and it's been the only relaible thing to make me sleep

No. 136400

Not often, but it's happened, usually at the peak of my ovulation phase. I feel physical fatigue but my mind won't shut down til I have a quickie, else I won't stop rolling over in my bed (reminds me everytime of that Seinfeld episode).

A bit unrelated, but since lockdown and the loss of my regular schedule, I too have had trouble sleeping, but since I've been exercising every day, I feel and sleep much better, I'd recommend that.

No. 136633

Maybe you're nervous because you're experiencing something for the first time?

No. 136746

OK ladies, I have now recieved and tested this weird robot dildo.
The shape is rather awkward. But the various thrusting patterns feel damn good, and you don't have to do anything but hold it in place. Definitely good quarantine entertainment. Not a waste of money. Phew.

No. 136747

glad you came back with the review because I was curious about this one! sounds like best fit for the lazy with the variety of thrusting patterns

No. 136748

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It's obviously good if you enjoy internal stimulation but it can also be used on the vulva.

Next up: The Satisfyer pro kek

No. 136750

what is it called? also, is it loud?

No. 136751

It's Fun Factory's Stronic drei.
It kinda sounds like a quiet little washing machine lol. So there is some noise.

No. 136779

The Mia 2 was really disappointing. Waste. My first vibrator aka Oral B was much more pleasurable.

No. 136837

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Seconding this anon >>136190, what a damn good purchase! I admit I was a bit skeptical but I love it, I thought I would have trouble because my clitoris is tiny but nah. Same experience, got off in under a few minutes. Very enjoyable. No mess, no dicks. I don't even want to buy another dildo.

Not that it matters, but the box cover was pretty neat.

No. 136840

Is the Satisfyer pro 2 silent or not? The productpage says they're silent but I've also read reviews that say they make quite a lot of noise, especially on the higher settings.

No. 136843

I've tried out 3 of the different satisfier models, they're amazing (and so quick at getting the job done) but none of them are as quiet as they like to advertise

No. 136845

So I got my fat model of the Satisfyer, and it's a little noisy. It also seems completely pointless. I'm feeling something but not much, and if I use a more intense setting then it's just uncomfortable. I gave up and used my hands.

No. 136846

I'm >>136837. It makes this puttering hum but it's not noisy.
Though if you're asking if someone could hear it in the same room, probably.

No. 136894

So uh, do you all think I'm positioning it wrong or something? Any tips so I get my money's worth?

No. 136920

Ok ladies, nothing wrong with this model, I tried to hold it in place and bam, multiple orgasms in a few minutes. Didn't feel crazy good or anything but very effective.

No. 136933

I have one and it's fast, but it doesn't really do much for me, and doesn't lend itself to edging or multiples. Fortunately I can just have my boyfriend do whatever I need most times. I'm glad to have it for when we're separated for a few days.

I have a bad dragon and honestly I never use it solo. It's not bad, but I'd say get the wand or the satisfyer. If you get the wand, get the cordless one, because the head is non-porous.

No. 137219

Thanks for the tip, I'll probably go with the wand then. Besides, penetration is too messy for masturbation sessions, anyway.

No. 137673

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I've never masturbated despite being in my mid twenties, and I worry that I might have vaginismus – I've tried to be be vaginally examined (for endo) and it was too painful, even when I tried different gynos/had them use tiny speculums/had them warm it and stuff/etc.
Does anyone have any recs for toys or idk… methods for someone in my situation to try?

No. 137712

Is normal clit stimulation not working for you?

No. 137791

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My Satisfyer Pro 2 arrived today!
I was sick of using anything dick related cause I only get off on clit stimulation, so I decide to try it out thanks to the recommendation of >>136837

It was weird to figure out at first but after a while on like the 3rd-4th setting I had the longest orgasm, it was pretty great

No. 137889

Any specific thrusting dildo recommendations for a virgin? Also does anyone have a dildo on a suction cup and think it's worth it?

No. 137890

oops by thrusting i also meant vibrating

No. 137893

Nope, can't seem to accomplish anything with just my fingers
But I don't know if I could handle anything that has any kind of penetration either

No. 137895

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Final review on the satisfyer 10/10 wouldn’t buy any other toy, throwing out my dildo today

No. 137905

People are really loving the Satisfyer itt as you can see. Try it?

No. 137927

I saw, you think the pro 2 would be best? That's the one everyone was talking about yeah?
Thanks for spoonfeeding me lol

No. 137937

I just ordered the satisfyer pro 2. Seems like a must-have and the with its current price tag I won't object!

No. 137945

Ordered a dildo over two weeks ago, didn't expect the delays to be quite that bad but it arrived today after 15 days in transit. I've been losing my mind horny and particularly in the mood for penetration those last couple of weeks..all day every day I've been frustrated but making do with clit play, I can't even finger myself as I've always had a mental block about it..

So I thought I'd be using my new toy straight away but of course my two week long craving has just disappeared?? I wish I could figure out how my sex drive works exactly

No. 138273

Can you still be straight but only masturbate to lesbian porn/lesbian fantasies? I’m definitely attracted to men as all my relationships have been with them and I do definitely develop crushes on men, but I’m not sure if I’m actually attracted to girls or if I just fetishise lesbian sex if that makes sense

No. 138280

Kek that's not very straight anon. Do you like any women irl? Could you be bi?

No. 138285

You can empathise with a woman's pleasure so i think it is pretty normal, don't let anons
( >>138280 ) convince you otherwise

No. 138286

What? Don't let her ask herself if she's truly into women irl or not? That's bs.
Ponder away, anon.

No. 138292

at the same time i think you are making a fantasy out of a personal affair, you are being so desperate

No. 138297

What's that supposed to mean?

No. 138299

Weird question, but have you guys ever got an orgasm doing something non sexual? On two separate occasions I got an orgasm just by eating a spoonful of strong mustard, I did not even do it on purpose or in kinky way. While it was obviously not the same as a clitoral orgasm, I still got a similar pleasure wave and afterglow, and I couldn't help giggling exactly like after coming.

No. 138306

>couldn't help giggling exactly like after coming
You giggle after you come?

No. 138308

Bullshit. If this truly happened they could sell that mustard for an extremely high price in sex shops.

No. 138311

That's some sort of condition. I've read about people getting orgasms 1) without any stimulation (very often during the day, actually a scary thing) 2) with weird stimulus like yours. if you're interested google the topic but no, that's not something that just happens to people

No. 138313

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Someone here suggested getting a toy before doing penetrative sex for the first time and I finally got it, so I'm gonna ramble a bit. Tried it in and out today. I thought I won't get that damned thing in, but I managed to, my hymen had to stretch more than usual and tbh I'm glad I did it by myself, would be awkward with a dick.
So, the vibrations, especially on clit, are SO STRONG. Do you also, like… vibrate yourself? It's funny. I shiver as if I'm super cold. It was also the first time I cried during pleasuring myself. The feeling was just so intense it squeezed tears out of my eyes. It's so weird, the orgasm itself was so overwhelming yet it wasn't the most pleasurable I've had. Hard to explain. It's probably the intense stimulation of the nerves in general, more than the plasure clit nerves I can hit in half a minute by masturbating with hands. If that makes sense.

No. 138314

vibrators have always been way too much for me. So intense it feels like fire. I'm very, very, very sensitive down there, I can make myself cum via just rubbing my own clit in like.. a minute or less. And I can cum 5 or 6 times right after another. I dont even have to be horny (my sex drive is actually pretty low). once when I was like 14 I came in the backseat on the way to a camping trip because the car hit a bump and jostled really hard a few times. I almost feel like it's a medical condition lmao. Nothing like that has happened since but damn dude.

I still want to get a vibrator of some kind. I've wanted one that works for me for a long time. I'm scared to waste a bunch of money on ones that might be too powerful though. Are there any anons who could give me recommendations for low powered vibrators?

No. 138315

>It's so weird, the orgasm itself was so overwhelming yet it wasn't the most pleasurable I've had. Hard to explain
I think I know what you mean. I've had orgasms that feel intense but also 'ruined' at the same time? Usually from from the power being up too high or me pressing it too hard against myself

No. 138316

yes! "ruined" describes it perfectly. It's like, you feel the need to do it again "your way", the way you know will be satisfying the most. Sometimes when I get a "ruined" orgasm I wait a bit until I cool off and do it again then, instead of masturbating again immediately. This way it feels like first orgasm rather than a second one.
>power being up too high or me pressing it too hard against myself
Okay thanks, that's helpful, I will try to ease it up a bit next time. Got to excited to try it out.

No. 138326

try it with your panties on. the vibrations won't feel as intense.
i see this. although it's more fun/easier to use a vibrator, i usually get the best orgasms from just rubbing myself. sometimes with a vibrator you get that intense feeling for a second, after that it's just sensitivity rather than continuing the orgasm.

No. 138524

How do I figure out what turns me on? I’m recently single & ditched porn a couple years ago. I’ve realized my sexuality was really focused on my ex and now I don’t know what is it anymore. Whenever I try masturbating I just end up focusing on how it feels instead of fantasizing, which is getting boring quick. I ordered some sex toys which I’m hoping will help, but idk what else to do

No. 138533

It's ok to be vanilla. There's no need to change what you're doing.

No. 138534

I'm craving penetration so bad but i'm too afraid to buy a dildo because i'm scared my dad will find it. Why live.

No. 138545

Reading this thread makes me realize that women are disgusting creatures that would rather have sex with a vibrator than with men.

Any kind of relationships with women are based on monetary support and procreation only.

More men should read this kind of threads and find out what girls really think of them.

No. 138546

Women aren't really attracted to men

No. 138552

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I know this is bait but it genuinely made me laugh for like five minutes. Imagine being this pressed about rubber dongs.

No. 138553

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>imagine paying thousands of dollars for an orgasm machine when most men will fuck you for free
Once again brandishing their inferior intellect. Smh, tbh fam.

No. 138554

I am happy masturbating because I know the average straight scrote doesn't even know what a clitoris is and thinks women aren't capable of orgasm because we don't squirt out semen.

I'd rather pay hundreds of bucks on a vibrator than waste my time dealing with your average man only to end up getting jackhammered by his weak pipe thinking he's the god of sex.

If having sex with the average man is such a blessing they can just fuck each other.

No. 138555

Of course I would rather use a sex toy designed with my pleasure in mind. Imagine that.

No. 138556

How many men will be able give a woman a free orgasm though?

No. 138558

>I'd rather pay hundreds of bucks on a vibrator than waste my time dealing with your average man only to end up getting jackhammered
Nine times out of ten I just want a clitoral orgasm without any penetration but with men it always has to lead to shitty jackhammering, no thanks, not worth it.

No. 138562

Men being somehow threatened by vibrators but won't make effort to make themselves look and act appealing and won't do clitoris stimulation…smh

No. 138565

don’t get me wrong I love jerking off especially with toys more than the average person but like find better guys to fuck? straight guys are the worst but bi guys typically know how to fuck and you get to do butt stuff to them so win win

No. 138566

I would only have sex with a man who is willing to please me as much as I please him. It's hard to know what a man will be like in bed, most of them just jackhammer, nut and go to sleep.

I won't go down on a man if he doesn't go down on me, I won't help him cum if he won't make me cum, I will think of other guys while masturbating if he's thinking of other girls while fapping.

I want a guy who will be compatible with this. Otherwise I'm content with masturbating.

No. 138567

By choice I've stuck to just toys the last few years but the best fuck buddy I ever had was a bi guy that my best friend found (on fucking Grindr lol) and hooked me up with. I know alot here are judgey about bi guys and those circumstances sound strange but he's the only fuck I think back to all that fondly. He was always safe and always got me off, had great hygiene too.

No. 138568

i've heard bisexual guys are more likely to be better at sex than straight guys. i feel like they'd have more of a tendency to be anal obsessed but if they weren't i could give it a try.

it's hilarious straight men are so bad at pleasing women kek if you're so threatened by vibrators step up your game then

No. 138569

>I won't help him cum if he won't make me cum
I wish this had been my motto earlier. I dated a guy for 3 years, he made me come during our first night together.. and never did again in three years. But he got stroppy if he went three days without getting a BJ. I feel like an idiot for not speaking up about the obvious imbalance. I mean it's not like I was faking orgasms so he knew.

No. 138570

I don't know if I'm just really unlucky but my own experience with straight guys has been that I attract anal obsessed guys, as in guys that don't just try to nag me into taking anal but also giving it to them.

No. 138571

It's his fault anon, he needs to be considerate of how you feel. Your pleasure is just as important as his.

No. 138578

Does anyone else hate the feeling of curved toys? I've tried lots of them and always find the sensation unpleasant. It's not exactly a problem cos I know now to stick to straighter toys but I guess I feel odd when so many go crazy over heavily angled g-spot toys

No. 138598

Have any of you anons gotten used to masturbating by humping stuff? That's how I always get off, I can't get myself to directly stimulate myself with my hands. How do I get over this or make it comfortable? I want to be able to masturbate in more appropriate places

No. 138626

Try buying a really cheap toy. You don't have to ever use your hands per se.
Make a small investment to see what else is out there.

No. 138627

someone explain pegging? I could see why some guys would be into it, but why would a female partner be into it?
Maybe with a feeldo, but I don't really understand the point if both partners aren't getting pleasure

No. 138636

same reason people give oral?

No. 138646

being dom/feeling of power

No. 138670

Yes! It took me years to learn how to masturbate the “normal” way. First step was being able to get an orgasm from a toy and then eventually my fingers properly. I really like because it’s much easier and less involved than humping stuff, but I don’t discredit my humping experience, it trained me to orgasm really easily with men.

No. 138682

So how do you all hump yourselves to orgasm, it never did much for me.

No. 138713

it's the same clitoral stimulation, you rub clit on something - nothing groundbreaking, it just takes longer. I would masturbate like that as a kid, when I didn't know female anatomy yet lol. I think a lot of girls start like this because the sex ed is mostly shit and because of the shame around touching yourself.
I think it's not worth it if you can do it in different ways. For me though it's a good get-horny method. Same as penetration with a toy, won't get a good orgasm from it but it's nice to imagine it's dick of someone I fancy

No. 138719

I grind on something soft like a pillow till i cum with clothes on, it's usually how I masturbate
I don't feel comfortable with direct stimulation, maybe it would be comfortable if I had lube
I imagine it would be more enjoyable if someone else was rubbing or licking me, I hope I don't have trouble getting comfortable during sex because I feel too sensitive with direct touch

No. 138865

anyone here have experience with sex machines? I have been thinking about it because of my husbands incredibly low sex drive. Hes really good with pleasuring me in other ways but it honestly is not enough. Do the machines actually thrust hard enough compared to actual sex?

No. 138992

I've never seriously thought about buying a vibrator but now I think I finally want to.
Can I get any recommendations on good shops to by from? I just get nervous about shitting knock off ones with bad materials. And really nervous about a site that might seem nice but just distributing shit. Not looking for anything super special. Something for the g-spot and can be used as a dildo. $30-40?

No. 138993

I have >>138313 this one, Pretty Love Alston, it's for g-spot and so far I really like it both for penetration and clit. I'm eurofag so I don't know much it would cost you, probably around your price range. I bought it very cheaply, like 25$ but I've found a nice cheap shop.
Generally be sure to choose somethig silicone, I only know about silicone and glass being totally safe materials for toys. I think silicone is too costly for vibrator to be some bad knock off so you should be fine

No. 139013

babeland has a good price range and i've never had issues with them. they're also a brick and mortar chain so they're a little more accountable.

No. 139028

SheVibe is great. Body-safe materials and good business ethics. Very discreet shipping and billing.

No. 139185

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Is it just me or is the Satisfyer/Womanizer extremely overrated? I think the design is extremely impractical (too big and clunky) and I don't think that it feels as good as everyone claims either. I've tried all kinds of fancy toys but I just prefer a small bullet vibrator or a rabbit.

No. 139270

my ex bf put me off masturbation because of the amount of time i felt sexually frustrated with him. I didn't really masturbate much before because i don't get much time in my room alone and i felt it was uncomfortable. I slowly got into it because of my ex but like i said before he kept on getting me sexually frustrated since he wasn't having sex with me (the last time we had sex was 7 months before we broke up).

I hear from women that masturbating is much better than sex but i honestly like sex more though i feel like its because i haven't properly experienced an orgasm (I think i came close to having one but it was just a build up on feelings) does anyone have any advice?

No. 139271

I prefer sex or at least my partner taking care of me to masturbation. I really only masturbate if we're separated due to travel or if he's sick.

No. 139272

I didn't really get the fuss around masturbation til I had my first orgasm. Before that I just found it frustrating cos I'd get so close but just couldn't tip over the edge. I remember using a vibrating 'facial massager' to get there for the first time. It was pretty incredible after all that build up! I relied on that method for months before learning how to get there manually.

>sexually frustrated since he wasn't having sex with me (the last time we had sex was 7 months before we broke up

Did he give a reason why?

No. 139275

ah I wish i had a partner like that, I have one guy friend who's really good at fingering but hes too self conscious to have sex because of his small size (he wanted to date me but this was right after i broke up with my ex and i felt not ready for it). I also have another guy friend who loves to have sex with me but i never got that "exciting build up" (i do love having sex with him and he's someone i had a crush on but he's too busy…)

>Did he give a reason why?
well he said it was mainly because of stress with his family and i think his depression too…

I did one time pay for him to travel into one of the main cities I live close to (he lives 4 hours away), paid for a concert and booked a hotel for me and him to stay in (so we can spend time alone together and at least have sex) but because he stayed up the night before he fell asleep by the time we got to the hotel and we had to leave the next day… i was so upset but at the same time he was tired… it was just that the hotel and everything was pretty expensive… I wasted too much money on him

No. 139279

> pay for him to travel, paid for a concert and booked a hotel, was pretty expensive… I wasted too much money
Yeah you could buy a pretty nice vibrator for less than that

No. 139313

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Satisfyer Magic bunny is awesome for me because its not super long, but quite thick. I mostly use it externally only but sometimes its super nice to have inside while the ears stimulate the clit at the same time. I recommend it!!! Great first toy

No. 139314

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This one has a pleasant material but I dont use it too much, mosly to train my ass lol because im into that. I havent really found a great technique to orgasm with it and even though it is size medium it is really big… I guess I have to keep trying but it's quite dissapointing I havent found my way around non vibrating dildos yet

No. 139317

That looks like one those cheap chemical-filled toys. I don't get why there is a porn picture of a woman on the packaging, either.

No. 139319

>something soft like a pillow
Out of curiosity has anyone else got used to hump on "tougher" surfaces instead as a child? I got used to hump my chair (lel) when I was a kid and the horny sensation at some point got strong enough to attempt to rub my bottom with something, I was surprised when I learned most "humpers" hump pillows instead. Rubbing your vulva against a chair or something like that seems like more instinctive to me if you have 0 sex ed and you don't know what to do with that rather than grabbing your pillow and riding it… That sort of feels like you are trying to mimic the sex act and a clueless kid just wants to get off. maybe it was just me that was a horny kid and started masturbating young, but it seems so weird for a young girl to attempt fully riding something out of nowhere

I hump too but in my case only works while i'm sitting in a particular position where I can move the way I like to, I guess it's because the vulva makes contact with whatever I'm humping in a way it makes it feel pretty nice. Also my case it's the complete opposite, I can't just get off by touching my clit lol. My guess is what gets me off is the pressure against my clit more than just rubbing it.

No. 139320

Jelly toys are incredibly porous and bad for your health, porous toys and anal play…just think about that, no amount of washing actually cleans it because the material acts like a sponge. Throw it away and get a silicone replacement.

No. 139334

thanks girl, will throw away. :s

No. 139354

God, I really need to get a toy, I've been using the PS4 controller's vibrations to get off these past few days.

No. 139356

How common is it to have a "refractory period" after clitoral orgasms? I've read that some women can have multiple clitoral orgasms one after the other, but for me after I come it's really sensitive and further stimulation just hurts; I need to wait ~30 mins to an hour before going again

No. 139357

I get sensitive. One orgasm tends to satisfy me to the point where my horny mood switches off anyway. On the very odd occasion I'll power through the sensitivity and go for two.

No. 139421

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Finally got myself a womanizer liberty as my first toy, and I don't really know what to say. I tried it while totally not horny and I was dripping wet so fast, the build up was amazing, I felt intense pricklings in my arms and my ears were ringing after the orgasm (which was longer than usual but not mind blowing). Usually, I masturbate with my fingers while reading hentai, so it takes me some effort to come, but it's always very rewarding, which I did not feel at all with the vibrator, it felt almost lazy since I did not do anything special. I think I need to practice a bit to figure out how to use it to its full potential, but I don't think I'll use it everytime, don't want to ruin my nerves.

No. 139428

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Has anyone not really had any luck with masturbating? It feels like nothing when I try it and I’ve never orgasmed before either. I barely ever feel aroused either. Would a toy help? I’m pessimistic lol.

No. 139435

I'm in the same boat and toys haven't helped. Not even a hitachi can make me cum apparently.

No. 139443

I'm starting college this fall and if I get to do it on-campus(covid) I'll be having a roommate. So dooes anyone know of a vibrator that's so quiet you could use it with another person in the room?

No. 139450

I think you need to figure out what turns you on mentally first because it all starts there. I could rub all the toys in the world on my pussy but if I'm not feeling horny then it's just depressing actually.

No. 139452

I do get aroused, but I don't think I've ever orgasmed. I've tried every kind of masturbation, had all kinds of sex with many people. And still nothing. I wonder if it's a disorder or something.

No. 139468

Oh my god like please don’t masturbate when someone else is in the room, I swear your roomate will leave the room often enough for you not to resort to that. If you really need to rub one out while she’s home, go in the shower and use your hand?

No. 139471

Anorgasmia is a thing.

No. 139475

Don't use sex toys on yourself while someone else is in the room with you anon, just don't

No. 139479

How old are you two? I experienced a pretty late sexual awakening myself. Didn't masturbate til my late teens (though antidepressants likely played a role in that) and didn't really get full enjoyment from sex/masturbation for another decade after that. Then something changed at about 29.

They say women reach their sexual peak from their late twenties onwards so it could change for you just with age. I felt weird til I started looking into 'sexual peak for women' and we typcially experience our highest libido and greatest satisfaction from 30 onwards. So we're sexualised the most at around 20 but actually enjoy sex and masturbation significantly more in the decade after that.

No. 139498

I'm not either of these people but this gives me some hope, thanks.

No. 139567

No. Just no. My dumbass sister used to masturbate in our shared bedroom thinking I didn't notice and it made me want to fucking die please don't do it

No. 139572

What's the best way to keep clean?
This is gross, total legbeard, but I keep a shirt around just so I don't have to get my bed wet
Is there a better way to do this? Especially if I'm expecting to drip a lot?

No. 139574


Lay on top of a towel, lol.

No. 139583

I'm 30 so I figure I'm a lost cause by now. But thanks for the glimmer of hope

No. 139652

I’m the first anon and I’m 18. My sex drive is so low, basically nonexistent. I love things like cuddling, caressing, kissing, and intimacy but I’m just indifferent toward sex and I’m worried I’ll disappoint my partner. Am on both birth control (for acne) and antidepressants which can cause a low sex drive, but it was like this before I began taking them. I’m also autistic and I’ve heard having a low sex drive can be associated with that. I’m also depressed so it’s kind of like everything is working against me. Thank you for the hope though anon.

No. 139799

Since condoms come with silicone lube on them, does that mean I can't use them with silicone toys?

No. 140010

I usually masturbate with my panties on and I recently noticed that after I finished, they smell faintly of urine. Is this normal? Or I have a uti?

No. 140012

where's the best place to discreetly store your vibrator? had to move back in with my parents for quarantine and i was thinking about getting a little safe with a key for my "important documents" etc and keeping it in there under the bed.

No. 140019

Do you really need to lock it down? I live with my parents too and I just put mine in a drawer, they don't rummage through my stuff.

No. 140027

Is anyone else literally incapable of cumming? I've given up on ever knowing what an orgasm feels like at this point.

No. 140051

Anyone have a bullet for starters they recommend?

No. 140052

PlusOne was the first kind I ever had and it's okay.

No. 140061

Give it time and try a few different toys out if you haven't already
Some women need to be in the right headspace, you can't make yourself cum if you're not cumfortable

No. 140081

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How do you know when you're climaxing? I few times I've been masturbating in the shower, and I get to a point where my feet tingle, my hands shake, and I get really wet (like it completely covers my hands. Usually lasts for several seconds. Am I experiencing orgasms?

No. 140082

It's muscle contractions that you can see and feel, like visible pulsating. Maybe some people have really weak orgasms but from my experience… if you don't know for sure, you definitely haven't had one. It's so physically obvious it amazes me that men would ever believe a faked orgasm.

No. 140084

When you feel all that, keep going. You will know when you're done. After it happens, you'll be too sensitive to go on, unless you want to power through an try for another one. You'll know.

No. 140085

I generally can't go any further after that, though. I run out of energy and my hands shake too much.

No. 140088

For me, a sudden drop off of sensation is a sign that I'm about to climax. If you're like "wait wtf I'm not feeling anything now" when you've been getting yourself off for a while, you have to power through it until you feel it again, and the wave of orgasm is soon to follow. I think the best thing you could do is get a vibrating toy, something you can just hold on yourself long enough to finish.

No. 140089

Well get a vibrator or a detachable showerhead. It's not rocket science, it just takes time.

No. 140135

I have 3 different toys and I can get comfortable but I'm incapable of getting aroused :(

No. 140684

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Any good recs for a wearable finger vibrator?
I've found doing my research that it can even be a cock ring, as long as the ring circumference is small/stretches a bit. For instance I found pic related that"s like 1" in diameter, and presumably stretches a bit to fit a penis? But I just need it for a large finger lmao

No. 140695

IME the biggest problem with finger vibes and cock rings is that most are powered by those little watch batteries.. so they're weak as shit. If you can find a rechargeable one or one powered by N batteries they're a little better than most.

No. 140713

Ayrt and agreed. I noticed that while searching for one. Hopefully some kindly anon can suggest a good rechargeable one.

No. 140848

we-vibe tango. the very best imo

No. 140873

Any recs for a thrusting vibrator that doesn’t have a clitoral stimulation component? I prefer to use my finger on my clit. I’d like to find one on the thick side but I’m desperate at this point

No. 140933

I have no feeling in my vagina? I'm 19, and I've tried so many different things but literally nothing. Is there anything i should be doing specifically?

No. 140958

Genital numbness can be a side-effect of some medication, SSRIs being the most common culprit. Are you on any medication?
If not, are you sure you're familiar with your own anatomy? Do you know where your clit is and if it's hooded (if it is, pull back the clitoral hoor)? Are you sufficiently aroused when you masturbate? Are you using your fingers or toys or? Some women need a specific type of stimulation to come! Look into the satisfyer pro 2 discussed earlier in the thread, it's pretty good for women who have trouble achieving orgasms.

No. 140966

I think anon meant inside their vagina- and tbh I'm also numb inside.

No. 140978

The entrance and first couple inches are meant to be the most sensitive compared to the rest of the depth of your vagina so maybe a short but heavily textured toy could help you find stimulation from it?

There's always clit stim if you just don't enjoy penetration. It's not all that unusual to find penetration a bit meh.

No. 141000

How old were you when you first masturbated? How old were you when you bought your first toy?

No. 141001

The question was for everyone

No. 141005

First masturbated at 16.
Bought my first toy at 24.

I've never been ashamed of masturbating or ashamed of having sex etc… But honestly it's just so boring, it really doesn't give me much.

No. 141006

Guys, once I start, I can't stop. I'll have 10+ orgasms and still want to go at it for more and it's actually fucking annoying. It wastes so much time and I end up hornier than before. I don't use toys, I use my hand. Is there a way to just have 1 or 2 massive ones and be satisfied afterwards?

No. 141007

I was about 6 or 7. I never bought one, God gave me hands for a reason.

No. 141012

Try edging, though idk how much time that would save.

No. 141067

The first time I knowingly masturbated was when I was 10 or 11. I ‘experimented’ a little when I was like 6 or 7 but never enough to orgasm and I only did it a couple of times.

And I got my first toy when I was like 19 or 20.

No. 141102

Did anyone else start at a weirdly young age? Like 6-7? I did it literally all the time, and a lot in public too. My parents shielded me from sex/sexuality so I had not idea what I was doing until an embarrassingly late age. All I knew is that it felt good. I never even got the 'we only do that in private' talk either, just that I couldn't do it at all. Which in turn made me do it way more.

No. 141105

I did it at the same age and in public too

No. 141109

I get like this around my ovulation and the day before my period. Nothing really helps and even when I’m sore I still want to keep going.

No. 141113

Does genital numbness ever go away? Mine are still numb over 8 months after not taking SSRIs ever again :(

No. 141114

I'm sorry anon, this sounds so frustrating not being able to access a part of your whole body. i don't have experience with meds but i wanted to make sure you knew your reply was read and sympathised with

No. 141134

I started young enough that I don't remember what age I was, or the first time I did it, or even my first orgasm. I always feel weird when people are talking about those kinds of firsts because it's not something I'm very comfortable sharing. My parents were more open so I think I did understand that it was sexual. I wish more people talked about this. I used to think it was bad and that it meant I maybe had some sort of sexual trauma I was repressing, but now I kind of think it's more common for women than anyone thinks?

It's weird but I'm honestly grateful I started early because it gave me confidence and experience in exploring my body and sexuality. I can't imagine being a woman who has her 1st orgasm in HS/college, or doesn't know how to get herself off. No judgement, I'm just glad I didn't have to deal with that particular struggle.

No. 141135

Thanks. I've already lost hope on it ever coming back. All the research I've done on genital anesthesia brought back zero anecdotes of it getting better so I probably have to get used to not being able to feel anything down there anymore.

No. 141144

Unfortunately it can be permanent afaik. I think the severity might vary depending on how long you were on the medication/ how high your dosage was. I was on a low dose of SSRI's for about 4 years (and other psych meds for 6 years before that) and it took me about 4 years after quitting all medication to regain some feeling. I still struggle to get an orgasm but it's getting easier and easier as more time passes. Look up "SSRI induced sexual dysfunction" on google, you'll find a ton of resources and info.
I'm sorry that you're dealing with this as well, it really sucks.

No. 141149

I was on a high dose of SSRIs from ages 12 to 15. It took three years to experience any feeling afterwards. Obviously I started meds so young that I had no previous sex or masturbation experience but looking back I didn't experience much of a sex drive throughout all of puberty and had numbness that continued for 3 years post-SSRIs.

So three years on meds and three years of still feeling numb after. I've heard others say that it tends to match the amount of time spent on them. I've gone back on meds for a few months here and there and experienced a few months of numbness afterwards so that might be a good way to estimate how long it's likely to last.

No. 141150

honestly i think in general people underestimate how fast children can find out that touching their crotch is pleasurable. of course i can only speak from the standpoint of being a women, but i started around 4 and i kind of wish my mom better explained these things, but i only ever did at home and wasn't shamed or anything.

No. 141151

I think I was around 7 when I discovered rubbing against pillows was nice. I think my mum was just go with using respectful terms and always referring to private parts and cementing the idea of privacy around that region. Then when I learnt about sex it translated into you have to trust someone explicitly before sharing your privates lol.

No. 141159

Kinda specific question, but can you guys recommend any dildos that don't really look like penises? I'm pretty gay and not very comfortable around dicks, but I enjoy penetration so I'm in the weird spot of wanting a dildo, but lot of sites mainly offer realistic ones or semi realistic ones that just look bad. Preferably something textured, not on bad dragon size scales, and in "fantasy" colors.

No. 141161

I've been medicated for most of my life but the specific prescription that made me go numb was taken for about about 5 months? I can't remember but I've been off off the med longer than I've been on it and there's not much improvement. I can only feel something in my clit if I use a specific powerful vibrator but touching anywhere else with my hand feels like touching my leg, no pleasurable feeling at all.

No. 141171

Some sellers on Etsy make texture-heavy fantasy toys that lean away from phallic designs. Like 'SplitPeaches' does textured unicorn horn dildos in pastel rainbow designs. They're pretty cool looking.

No. 141178

They look pretty nice, I'll look into Etsy sellers. I do want to add that I don't mind phallic dildos, it's more that if it's something I could imagine being on a man it's just a turn off for me.

No. 142045

Dumb question. but is it okay to leave ice cubes inside of your vagina? And can you suck one up too far?

No. 142050

Are you a child? I think this was a trend on tiktok recently. Answer: it's water. Does that sound dangerous to you?

No. 142075

Doing things near your cervix can make the whole area hurt.

No. 142076

If you want to experiment with temperature play I'd get a glass dildo and put it in the freezer before use, the ice cube thing sounds like too much

No. 142098

Does anyone else get headache-y after using a vibrator? It doesn't happen with any other method, and I only use the vibe on the lowest setting.

No. 143850

Weird question but how normal is to lick your fingers after masturbating?

I know I sound like a virgin prude but I masturbate quite a lot and I didn't consider myself trad or anything until a few days ago, talking with a friend she casually told me she licked her fingers after and I found it kinda gross? Is this normal or I'm being too stupid about it?

No. 143853

Nah, you're not being stupid. I don't do that either. Just get up and wash my hands lol

No. 143855

I'll often wet a toy with my mouth and even that feels weird because I'm tasting my own fluids in the process, it's not that it even tastes bad but bodily fluids only appeal when you feel a lot of attraction towards the owner of them …so I don't think many women are exactly licking their own fingers afterwards. Sounds unusual irl but it is something you see porn performers doing.

No. 143876

this is a porn cliche, I think your friend watches too much Pornhub

No. 143884

i do, sometimes. im pretty gross tho.

No. 143911

I do tbh. Not a huge porn watcher but I taste pretty good and it does kinda turn me on. Not sure why though.

No. 143938

I do because I like the taste and am gross. not a porn watcher either and back when I did it was gay shit anyways.

No. 143965

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Why would you want to leave a dildo in for 7 hours?

No. 143966

To me that would be the same as thinking sucking dick or licking a vagina is gross. It's bodily fluids. If you're hygienic then it shouldn't be a problem

No. 143970

I’ve done this plenty of times, not really anymore cuz I don’t think it tastes really good, but it’s not gross either

No. 144005

Why do anything at all? To get what we want. Why do we want? How could you possibly expect me to answer that question…

No. 144012

If it's really clean, and a nonporous, body-safe material, I don't see why not. Tampons can stay in for 8 hours. Cups can stay in for 12. Dildos are designed to go in the vagina. If you experience discomfort, take it out.

No. 144231

Does anyone ever have lower abdominal soreness the day after masturbating? I feel like it must be from the muscles contracting when I cum and maybe I'm just weak and need to build up strength but I'm worried it's something bad? I've never noticed this the day after cumming with a guy, just masturbating.

No. 144234

I've done it a few times with a vibrator. Only happened after a few particularly long sessions. Did it the other night hoping to kick start my period and it worked lol

No. 144261

This happens to me sometimes, especially when I masturbate at night before sleeping then wake up and feel a little uncomfortable around my crotch for a few hours. I looked it up and it's actually quite common, some women say it's as bad as when they're on their period. Nobody knows what causes it but the muscles contracting thing is a theory. For me it doesn't only happen when I have a particularly strong orgasm though, and it really only occurs when I wake up after cumming before sleeping, idk what's up with that lol

No. 144262

How do I know if I have vaginismus? I tried fingering myself and the first time one of my finger went in smoothly and reached deeper with some force. Then I took it out and tried inserting it again and it seemed harder to thrust it in? Also I went full dry after that. I'm also a beginner at this and it never felt good until now.

No. 144268

At what age did you guys start having sexual fantasies including yourself?

Since 11 I've dreamt of attractive people/celeb fantasies. From naughty to quite socially unacceptable fantasies. (Forced rape, crazy science lab shit)

But only now (I am 18) I’m starting to have fantasies including myself. The theme is usually staying over a friend's house. Quite realistic scenarios.
Is it a good thing? When did this start happening to you?

No. 144269

What was your age when you masturbated with fingers?
Is it normal to just hump pillows when you're 18? Does that even count as masturbating?

No. 144270

it does count as masturbating. im 20 and still only masturbate by humping. I was raised religious though so maybe its just because directly touching my clit or inserting something feels wrong.

No. 144292

Same, anon, I only started fingering a year ago and I’m 25, and it really isn’t that necessary to feel good.

No. 144350

what do you mean with fingers? if you mean only fingering then literally never, been rubbing my clit with my fingers since learning about it online as a horny kid and have occasionally fingered myself around the same time im close to coming (i come harder that way) nowadays i have a dildo, but solo fingering? never.

thats a-ok, literally anything you do solo to make yourself come is masturbation

No. 144811

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I'm 21 and never finger myself, I have maybe done it three times in my entire life. I personally find it very difficult and uncomfortable to get even one finger in past like 1.5", I'm a permavirgin so the lack of experience is probably to blame. It is normal to masturbate pretty much any way that brings you pleasure and an orgasm lol

I've been looking into buying a small dildo (insertable 3.25") like pic related and one of those fake lipstick vibrators. I still live with my parents, getting the package is a non issue because I'm the one who checks the mail but where the hell do you hide a fake dick?

No. 144874

I recommend getting some lube. Sliquid h2o is great (water based). Silicone lube gives me yeast infections.

No. 144908

Will womanizer/Satisfyer type toys work for me if I have a much smaller then average clit? Like looking at the photo the hole where your clit goes is WAY WAY bigger haha.

No. 144914

I keep mine in a box full of things in my cupboard

No. 144938

Make sure you don't buy a jelly toy like that, they are bad for your intimate health and can lead to infection or other bad reactions, they can also randomly 'melt' if you store them next to other items.

Here's a silicone version of this https://www.amazon.com/NS-Novelties-Colours-Pleasures-Purple/dp/B07HM7FBL6

I own it and would recommend, I just bought a little make up bag that I keep it in, You could always store it in a bag with menstrual products, if people open a bag and see period products on top they prob won't want to snoop further

No. 144999

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Bought kegel balls mostly to use for masturbation and also large anal beads that I'm gonna stick up my vagina instead. My horny brain is so fucking excited for new toys.

I'm sad that I'm such a size queen because bigger toys are always more expensive lol. I like to buy fantasy dildos because plain human dick is so fucking boring, plus fantasy dildos always come in fun colorways. I see some girls mention bad dragon here and pic related is one of my favorite indie fantasy dildo makers, Strange Bedfellas. Selection isn't as extensive as Bad Dragon's, but their prices are comparatively cheaper and I love the colors they offer (though they only dovery limited made-to-order dildos). 10/10 very much recommend. I have a med Tyv (it's in pastel colors and has a beautiful shimmer that can't be caught on a camera) and am planning on getting a large Fornax from them next!

No. 145007

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I wish I could give one of you girls this hand blown glass toy I won a couple years ago. (Not my pic) I've never used it because I am intimidated as fuck. I have been thinking about it more and more recently though

No. 145009

Holy shit that looks cool as fuck anon!! How did you win it?

No. 145010

A blog I followed at the time was giving one away!

No. 145011

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Thank you for the pro tips, anon! I'm getting it from pinkcherry and they have 5" at the smallest, which seems fine to me for a beginner. Wish they had more colours though.

I'm jealous. You should try it out if you have no one to give it away to!

No. 145014

I think my vagina is broken. I bought one of those tracy's dog toys with the 5 star reviews (clitoral suction with internal vibrator) and it takes forever for me to get off, even on the highest setting. The vibrator doesn't even do anything for me on my clit.
For as long as I can remember I've never been able to get off using my hands or anything, only with wand-style vibrators or showerheads. I genuinely feel like I have a malfunctioning pussy.

No. 145090

How often do you masturbate?

No. 145095

2-3 times per week.

No. 145096

Just ordered my first rabbit. I’m super excited, but the size is a little intimidating because I’ve only ever used my fingers. Does anyone have a type/brand of lube they would recommend?

No. 145097

Uhh maybe this is stupid but perhaps a tolerance break would be ok to try out? I remember as a teen going at it too often with vibes and it nearly fucked up my clit sensitivity.

No. 145210

I think >>145097 is right in taking a break. I don't think 2-3 times is that much per week (I used to go at it anywhere from 4-7 days at the height of it), but I think your clit could do well without any strong vibrations.

I stopped using my vibes after a while when I realized how frustratingly long it took me to get off, and sometimes I couldn't even get off at all. I forced myself to not masturbate, since getting off with my fingers is a lot easier when I'm pent up. Still takes a while though. Nowadays I try not to masturbate more than once or twice a week because my clit sensitivity will get fucked up again real fast and then I gotta reset myself by taking a whole week or two off. My main toy now is one of the satisfyers (the one with vibration option) and at first I used to only be able to get off with vibe AND with the main function on the highest setting, but now I can start on the lowest and and still feel a good subtle tease before working my way up (most days I don't even use the vibe option or I'll leave it until the very end).

Good luck anon!!

No. 145538

Any menstrual cup users here who have ever tried masturbating while your cup’s still inside you? I don’t penetrate; mostly I just hump something. Does it feel weird or painful? Should I just take it out for the session?

No. 145542

It shouldn't interfere with any kind of external play, orgasming with it in is fine too

No. 145548

Only problem is that it might move further up during an orgasm because of the contractions. But it's not like you can't get it out.

No. 145558

I never noticed any difference, except maybe cumming a little faster than during regular sessions. My cup is on the smaller side though, so maybe there's some different sensations with a bigger model.

No. 145565

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Does anyone else struggle with unusual tightness? I'm the anon from >>144811 and I have been trying to insert. It feels like I hit a wall 1" in with the dildo but I find I can put my finger in a little further. It's kind of like my vagina has a funnel shape, if that make sense. I've done some google-fu and I think I might have vaginismus? I've put in a tampon with an applicator before no problem, so penetration's not completely impossible.
If you have had this – did you have to go see a doctor/gyno for it? What kind of things can you do to help it? Did it ever go away?

No. 145583

Lube, lube, lube. Granted I was like this before, and after a few months of failure despite being very very wet I hypothesized that my body just doesn't know or recognize what penetration feels like so it's just going "wtf that doesn't go there stahp it"

I got frustrated one day and told my boyfriend at the time to just fucking do it and stab me with his dong. It hurt a lot, but then I told him to do it again kek. After the second time it started to feel okay and it's all normal now. Just relax, take your time, but also keep in mind that sometimes it's just a mental hurdle you have to get over like ripping a bandaid off

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No. 145613

>It's kind of like my vagina has a funnel shape
I had vaginismus, and this is exactly what it felt like. Use a lot of lube and try getting used to the feeling of being penetrated

No. 145975

I'm not sure if this is a good fit here but has anyone here ever had an orgasm in their sleep? I've had several and they always wake me up.

They come from really explicit dreams. Growing up, no one ever told me that it was even a possibility for women to get them so my first one was a huge shock but I might've been 9 or 10?

No. 145982

100% anon. I feel like wet dreams are only talked about in the context of males because they leave evidence behind and female sexuality is repressed. It happens to me pretty often, especially while I'm ovulating or on my period. I'm not sure if the dreams are just so hot that they make me cum or if I end up touching myself in my sleep.

No. 145991

Yes, it happens. But I noticed that in most cases I don't even remember what I was dreaming about that caused it

No. 145994

Never happened to me but tbh I masturbate most days so it's not like I let any sexual feelings build up. Do you orgasm infrequently?

No. 145999

Nah, I usually cum twice every time I masturbate which is almost every day.

No. 146232

Do you ever just get bored of porn? I tend to watch porn when I’m feeling sick because it helps me get distracted, but not even my fantasies are getting me aroused, this actually happens to me every once and then, I find it a bit weird.

No. 146233

I feel like I have ruined my possibility of having an orgasm in any other way than a vibrator, strong water pressure or very vigorous rubbing of one side of my clit with a lot of friction. And I have stay very still and focus. I do like how vaginal penetration feels, but I just can’t cum from it. Also sucks that getting head literally feels like nothing, that wet feeling erases all sensitivity.

This is probably partly because I started watching porn and masturbating with a electric toothbrush (I did cover the bristles with a plastic bag at least) at a disturbingly young age.

Just makes me feel kinda sad, bc there is nothing ”sensual” about it. Almost sounds similar to the way men desceibe getting off.

No. 146241

Just stop for a week or two to resensitize your clit, and then focus on the feeling instead of trying to force an orgasm, try to relax and "breathe down into your clit".

Personal experience from someone who has been porn and masturbation addicted since my tween years

No. 146244

I go through phases where I watch a fair bit of porn, will crush on celebs and masturbate daily but then my drive will just switch off for long periods of time too. Porn will bore me, my crush won't excite etc. I've accepted that it seems to just be a cycle that I experience on repeat. Always sucked when I was in relationships though.

No. 146262

I started getting orgasms in my wet dreams too as an adult. Is funny because I feel it very intensely in my dreams to the point I usually wake up but when I check I didn't even that wet at all. But the sensation was definitely there. Mind sure works in mysterious ways huh…

Anyway I certainly was surprised to learn we can cum in dreams as well lol

No. 146264

>humping with a menstrual cup inside
Oof anon I don't have ovaries to try to myself. I'm paranoid in a bad movement the suction of the cup to my vaginal walls goes off and the blood inside the cup spills everywhere and out. Good luck if you try to though, please do update if the cup did go off….

No. 146267

anons… i only think about a celebrity i've been attracted to for years or my ex crushes when i masturbate. is this normal or am i too obsessive? what do you guys masturbate to_besides porn?

No. 146300

My wild and crazy imagination.

No. 146355

assuming you are virgins. Thats perfectly normal. Like the other anon said, you just have to suck it up when you lose it. Then things other than a tampon will go in. Doesn't mean you have vagismus.. fuck I was almost buying dilators myself back before I actually had sex.

No. 146433

That's completely normal. Why do you feel like changing it up?

No. 146477

Recently after masturbating ive been hit with a wave of pain similar to period cramps. Its only come on recently I'm worried its something like endometriosis does anyone get this, should I see a doctor?

No. 146484

You should go to the doctor just in case, but i also feel the same period-like pains after masturbating and when I went to my gynecologist she told me that everything was alright.

No. 146497

Are you due on soon?
I usually get this like the week before

No. 146502

Anybody else absolutely insanely horny during their dreams but nowhere close to that in daily life? I truly wish I had the sex drive and enjoyment I have in my dreams. Idk if that means something

No. 146531

Does anybody else orgasm faster when they clench their butt and squeeze their thighs together? It's great for helping me fall asleep. I learned this way when I was young. I never like to masturbate with my legs spread apartment, it just feels too sensitive.

No. 146532

Thanks anon I'll try and get an appointment and report back

I'm not sure, I take the pill back to back to avoid periods since theyre normally quite painful and disruptive for me

No. 146668

Where do you guys go for porn? I’m tired of pornhub but it’s the only one I know lol. I’ve looked up some other sites but….eh, didn’t really like what I found.

Unrelated but I had a ‘sex’ dream last night, which means I dreamed about getting undressed and almost having sex with a guy and then the dream cut off/the guy disappeared. I’ve made it to the actual sex maybe three times in my life, fucking annoying. It’s like there’s some psychological block.

No. 146669

Please don't use pornhub. They profit from child rape videos. https://traffickinghub.com/

No. 146671

I’m literally asking for other suggestions. Porn where the men aren’t always ugly fucking ghouls would help.

I’m not really interested in moralizing and it’s not like I watch those videos or give the site money.

No. 146673

>I’m not really interested in moralizing

Not me either but my limit is child trafficking. Sadly I don't know any good alternatives. I wish there porn companies run by women who only hired 10/10 men. Actually I think there was a Japanese one like that, but I forgot the name.

No. 146691

If you want porn where the men are not physically ugly, there is arr videos like the ones from hotguysfuck or whatever that site is called

No. 146692

SilkLabo. Guys are cute but fyi the action is pretty minimal, sometimes they show so little it might as well be softcore.

No. 146705

Erika Lust is an indie filmmaker that makes some nice videos, but they're mostly paywalled. She has a series on xconfessions that I discovered recently where users describe their fantasies in a forum on the xconfessions website, and every month she selects two of them to use as the premise for two short films. She makes the most beautiful hardcore pornography I've ever seen lol. Ersties is sometimes good too, but often paywalled

No. 146708

anon-chans… I want to buy a toy for clitor stimulation but never had one, should I immediately go for satisfyer / lelo or buy a magic wand?

No. 146722

Depends on what type of stimulation you like really. Satisfyer is more suction I think, magic wand is pressure +vibration. I never tried a satisfyer bc I only like the sides of my clit being touched.

No. 146775

The Satisfyer is fucking insane. I bought it earlier this year and found it disappointing. But after angling it correctly or something, Jesus H Fuck. I can come nonstop. Just orgasm after orgasm, I have to stop after like 10 because it's too surreal. Wtf.

No. 146827

This gives me hope right here. Thank goodness

No. 146836

So…I def have a refractory period and the second orgasm is always bad and takes 45 minutes if I attempt it at all. After the first one I’m good and any touch is really uncomfortable. I hear about multiple orgasms often enough I’m starting to think I’m the weird one. Am I?

No. 146838

I'm always too sensitive after, I assume it's like that for a lot of women.

No. 146842

No it's pretty common.
I am the most multiorgasmic when I am ovulating and turn into a crazy sex beast who can't get enough, but otherwise that can happen to me too.

No. 146868

Any suggestions for a good quality wand vibe that won’t die after a year? I’ve been looking for a new one after my old one started to weaken after maybe 2 years of use (rechargeable). I want something that’ll last.
Also does anyone use an actual back massager as a vibe? If so which brands do you prefer?