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No. 52602
>>52601 READ BEFORE REQUESTINGAbout: This is a safe group, you are welcome to post whatever you want as long at its appropriate (underage littles and doms are here.) I am an underage little and I thinks it's important for us to keep other underage littles and doms safe too, and teach them.
Expectation: When you are new I would like for you to post your age and maybe a little about yourself, just for me to get to know you a little better. Nothing too personal. AND YOU'LL MUST HAVE TO HAVE YOUR FACE AS YOUR PROFILE PICTURE OTHERWISE YOU WON'T BE ADDED.
Rules:
•No asking for nudes
•No selfharm pictures or posts of suicide
•No shaming underage littles
•No shaming at all
•YOU MUST ASK FOR PERMISSION TO SHARE GROUPS
• Ask before adding
•13-25
• Please no excessive posting looking for a hookup
==
Those ^ are the supposed rules for the group but still I think this is plain wrong. I'd love to hear your guys' opinions
No. 52605
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fucked up
No. 52613
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>>52609I don't mind since I don't really use my Facebook for much.
>>52610I just got added in less than 3 minutes and don't have my face as my profile pic, so maybe it's not really a big deal.
No. 52617
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oh yeah bby, let me be your daddy.
No. 52622
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>>52619drink every time one of them has a kid.
No. 52630
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>13
>actual children saying "my fetish is roleplaying that I'm a child"
You… are a child…
No. 52631
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Do you think this dd/lg shit is going to disappear completely in 10-20 years? I don't want to have kids while this stuff is around
No. 52632
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Apparently there has been some debating about the age range for the group
No. 52633
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Seriously though, seeing a lot of 14-16 year olds posting in here. I don't think I've seen anyone younger than that out rightly looking.
No. 52634
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Another minor and her daddy
No. 52635
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Keep reporting it. This is just a masked grooming ring for old men to creep on girls. Sure its got the tumblr kids "modding" but this is disgusting.
DDLG I dont agree with at all but they are mainly made of older woman/men. This newfound tumblr/nymphet shit is dangerous as hell and teaching kids like these the wrong idea about sexuality and "kinks". Kids here are going to believe this is normal, they are smarter than the nurses teaching them sex ed, this isn't paedophilia but a normal relationship.
No. 52638
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>>52635Pretty much, yeah. Here's some older dude looking for a little. Says he's 23 but he looks way older.
No. 52647
>>52638He looks like a crackhead.
The thing that makes me so mad about the adults in there is that they seem to be totally clueless about how dangerous this is for young girls. 3 of the admins are adults, right? Well, what are they thinking? I know that expecting a person into dd/lg to actually act like a mature, well adjusted individual is laughable at best, but this is just so irresponsible that gets them on the same level of the creepy pedos who are in there to groom victims.
Maybe in the end they're all into dd/lg because they
are in fact part children. Their brain surely is that of a brat.
No. 52651
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So inappropriate and gross
No. 52652
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I hope this isn't going to far. I blocked out all of their faces so they not immortalized on here but I didn't block out their name so you can go confirm for yourselves.
The top two I've confirmed are 15 or 16 years old and the two on the bottom look very young, but I couldn't confirm their age for sure. If you'd like me to delete this and block out their last names as well I'd be happy to, I just think this is a bit concerning since it only took me about clicking on 10 profiles to gather these screen caps.
No. 52654
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>>52653He's probably the only one considering this is one of the latest posts.
"Let's show all the minors out there that they don't have to be scared of us predators" is basically all I'm hearing.
No. 52655
>>52652Fuck.
Report to any noting figure on facebook or push comes to shove
Email the schools
No. 52663
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>>52662"In review" means by a physical human being, right?
No. 52664
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Let's meet our "25 or below" daddies.
1/3
No. 52670
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>>52669That's really weird that they won't accept your invite, even though they accepted mine.
I'm always around, but there's nothing too interesting here. Mostly just selfies and mindless posting.
I did run across this though.
No. 52671
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The 25 age cap is probably to accommodate this crusty admin lol
No. 52672
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Well, maybe I spoke too soon. This is really disgusting, especially posting it online.
No. 52677
>>52672Jfc, is that her kid? She needs to be reported to CPS.
>>52674Seems that way doesn't it? Goddamned degenerate. Even if she isn't abusing the kid it's like she's advertising her to all the other pedos.
No. 52724
>>52667I found the answer.
>However, the company is keen to stress that every single report of abuse is read and acted upon by a human being, not a computer – a fact that might surprise most users. The system is constantly monitored by staff based across four time zones in California, Texas, Dublin and Hyderabad in India, so there is never a “night shift” with fewer staff on hand.
>When a user clicks "report", it is graded for its severity and guided to the right team. “If there’s a risk of real-world harm – someone who is clearly cutting themselves, or bullying, anything touching child safety in general, any credible threat would be prioritised above everything else,” says Julie de Bailliencourt, Facebook’s safety policy manager for Europe, the Middle East and Africa.http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/features/what-happens-when-you-report-abuse-the-secretive-facebook-censors-who-decide-what-is-and-what-isnt-10045437.html No. 52727
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>>52663Well, Facebook responded.
No. 52728
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>>52727Faceberg confirmed for pedo sympathizers. Maybe try reporting this next?
>>52672 No. 52806
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>>52638This dude is shady as fuck, but can't find proof that he's not indeed 23. He says he uses heroin, so it's no wonder if he just looks old.
http://ask.fm/Edmundo21 No. 52810
>>52808I thought it would, but apparently not.
>>52809Thanks, anon! I'll try that instead. Mainly, I wanted for an actual human being to see.
No. 52814
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Here's one that really bothers me. I'll post the gross comments to this post as well.
No. 52815
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>>52814The first two guys are at least 21, as they both have completed/have been in college, according to their Facebook profiles.
No. 52817
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>>52816No problem. Just hope I'm able to do something.
I followed
>>52809 advice and left a detailed message about what DDLG is and why the group should be removed from Facebook. I provided a few links as well to posts where girls specifically state being minors and where the comments clearly show them being approached by adult men.
I know a few of you have tried already to report the group for sexual content without success, but I went ahead and did that as well, simply because you can apparently give feedback if/when they deny your request.
I guess it's just a matter of waiting and seeing what happens.
No. 52818
>>52817Wasted effort. Facebook isn't going to do anything, afaik there's an algorhytm deciding. There's nothing explicit in there, so Facebook won't delete anything.
A mass reporting maybe would do, but I'm talking about a number of people reporting bigger than the number of members in the group.
No. 52820
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>>52818Yeah, that's honestly my own thoughts. We all saw what happened with Twitter when all those CP accounts came to light and Twitter just banned anyone to spoke out about it and exposed people.
Just figured I don't have anything better to do right now and couldn't hurt to try one more time.
>>52819There are a lot more special snowflakes in this group than I figured there'd be. Not sure why I'm so surprised though. I guess I just can't believe this is what some teens are into nowadays.
No. 52821
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Here's some minor posting pics of her actually being tied up. I don't feel comfortable posting one of the other pics she uploaded, but she said her master/dom did it for her and took the pics.
I actually reported this post specifically, but who the hell knows if they'll even do anything about it.
No. 52823
>>52822My bad, you're right. I forgot all about that honestly.
I'm done anyway. I doubt Facebook will do anything, so it's up to someone else now, if they want.
No. 52827
>>52826
So my boy friend and I practice dd/lg. First off, I'm 21 and he is in his late 20s. We both met as adults and had a six or so month relationship before becoming sexual. Neither of us were into dd/lg at the time, but we both liked bondage.
I found out about dd/lg and thought it was disgusting. I thought, who wants to imagine having sex with their dad/child?
Fast forward to me doing a lot kg research, watching videos, just simply reading up about it. I began to realize a lot of typical traits of a little, I possessed. I got scared, but also was curious enough to ask my boyfriend if we could try. We ended up enjoying the dynamic. We now practice the life style and it's very rewarding. Someone is always praising or uplifting the other. It feels good to do something like the dishes or laundry and be told good job and to feel appreciated.
When I do go into little space, which is a head space much like actors do, my life age can be anywhere between six or into early teens. Sometimes non-verbal.
It consists of colouring, having mac and cheese or grilled cheese, watching Disney movies, drinking juice boxes or from a straw. Just being a kid, carefree. It doesn't have to be sexual. Having little friends is great because we just forget adult stresses.
Of course I adult when I have to. I'm still capable, it's just a nice little escape for a few hours.
I think it's sad these kids are trying to get into this because they're still children. I'm not sure what else they gain from it unless they're only in it for the kink. And liking it for the kink is fine if you're a legal consenting adult. But they're not and it worries me.
I think it's deplorable of the men in that community to be talking to young children. I personally think someone failed these children. I didn't know about dd/lg until recently and it disturbs me that these children not only know about it but participate in it.
Unfortunately, the ages they're at is a time of sexual awakening. It's fine to be into what you're into. I just wish it was safer.
Also it's a branch of bdsm and no children should ever be involved in bdsm.
Sorry this is so long. I just want you to hear the point of view from a practising adult.
No. 52829
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>>52827Fucking disgusting.
youre still just an adult making a fetish out of children. No. 52830
>>52829I was abused as a child and I do believe my mental growth got stunted at 14 or so. I don't necessarily partake in age-play though. We're into the life style. Daddy has just become a nickname for my boyfriend like anything else. Hubby, sweetie, sweetheart, etc.
Our relationship is super loving and we're really happy.
I still disagree with children taking part in bdsm dynamic.
No. 52837
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Just a fun little tidbit I came across this morning, felt it perhaps holds some relevance here. Obviously it's not a blanket application.
No. 52838
>>52837I'm dd/lg anon and I sort of agree with this.
I do know I was abused by another female when I was four. I always remembered it though. As an adult now who is in therapy and other programs, my doctor thinks more may have happened when I was even younger that I have blocked out.
I also used to wake up in bruises or with my underwear missing as a child. I remember the bruises and missing undies, but I don't recall any abuse.
The first type of porn I really ever saw was bdsm in nature and it was an accident when I was 12. I knew it was bad so I didn't look at it again but it clearly never left me.
That being said, I use dd/lg as a stress reliever. I have to adult all day, I struggle with anxiety and depression. My childhood was kind of cut short by events and I had to grow up very quickly.
So me reverting to a younger consciousness isn't about the kink or sex. It's about having someone care about me and me being able to kind of get what I didn't.
No. 52839
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What I am most scared for these children is they will be super quick to trust anyone who comes in their livees. Sure these "daddys" might come across nice and kind over messenger but your always talking to a screen. Your talking to a persona that is constantly fixed to a few emotions and they can present any personality they want. Meeting irl for them will most likely end in abuse,especially with the older ones on the younger "littles". They will see this as normal however because this is a kink yeah? This is what I form my sexual preferences around and youve constantly got some old man telling you this is the correct way to feel, because they are so easy to influence at such a young age. Sure youve got the white knights/tumblr chicks lurking to "keep them in line" but what can they do after theyve possibly shared contact info, block them from this shitty group? ugh.
>>52838This is the psychological side of ddlg I can sort of understand. If its not sexualized/roleplaying paedophilia then not alot can be done and you seem to keep it in private. What these kids think is ddlg is the tumblr ddlg, is strictly sexual and are those shitty kids on tumblr who add gross comments about daddy spanking them when naughty and doing good deeds for the "rewards". I dont agree with ddlg but its a fucking weird subject. What these children have as their "kink" is vastly different to your definition though.
Their school sex ed nurses must fucking hate them.
No. 52840
>>52839You honestly said it really well! Kids just plain and simple shouldn't belong in a kink. There's no way around it.
> They will see this as normal however because this is a kink yeah?Yes! I was actually groomed when I was younger by a pedophile (I have a lot of trauma, thus the therapy lmao)
I didn't know what was happening was wrong because my only reference point was abuse. When you're that young and that's all you know, you think it's normal.
It's up to the adults in the community to keep children safe. There is no reason adults should be talking to children in a group based around a fetish.
>What these kids think is ddlg is the tumblr ddlg, is strictly sexual Exactly. Like, you're already a kid. You are a child. Right now. You are actively a child, please let yourself be a child. They jump to the sexual kink because they're already doing things considered "little." Like, you're not a "little," you're just still a child. Let yourself be a child.
>I dont agree with ddlg but its a fucking weird subject.I'm certainly not here to change anyone's opinion or even really try to validate it, but I do want to put information out there. It is weird, and like I said I was genuinely scared when I realized I might like it. I mean I cried when I tried to tell my boyfriend because I was so scared. It's really a decent reason to break up with someone if you ask me. Like if he was seriously not okay with it then I couldn't be mad if he left me. I'm very lucky to have someone so caring and understanding of my abuse and childhood.
If you guys have any questions, I'll do my best to answer them.
~dd/lg anon
No. 52841
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>>52833Not that anon but one thing is looking at/getting interested in it, another different thing is actively seeking contact with grown ass perverted men to reenact what they see on the internet.
No. 52846
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>>52827STOP
FETISHISING
CHILDREN
No. 52980
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http://m.spiegel.de/international/zeitgeist/a-702679-2.htmlA good read if you want to know what this eventually leads to.
No. 52981
>>52980That article was pretty interesting, but it seems like a different ballpark entirely, anon.
This is a literal commune kids were raised in and systemically abused from babyhood, while this shit is a matter of teens/preteens on the cusp of puberty not being supervised when they use the internet and ending up falling into bad situations with predatory adults because dd/lg (and, additionally, the concept of not being an adult and "failing at adulting xD") is becoming normalized thanks to wo/manchildren on Dumblr.
I doubt the sort of people in that FB group will ever manage to have kids, let alone lead a counterculture politically-driven community where they have the chance to make baby rape seem "progressive". They're too juvenile and retarded to ever be considered "intellectual" and "groundbreaking" (see "daddies" like
>>52638 lmao).
No. 52986
>>52983I don't pretend to be a toddler. I age regress because my childhood was cut short when I was 14. I just want to go back sometimes to when it was simple and just be a kid. I give myself that childhood again. Lmao most people who haven't gone through some sort of abuse or trauma at a young age don't use age regression.
It isn't normal and I know that. You'd have to not be normal for this type of thing to occur.
>>52984Oh yeah of course people, anyone, can do these things for stress relief but they don't all age regress. That's the main difference. I simply go back to my childhood before it got rocked by events. I like how simple it was and easy and without the stress. Anyone can do what's considered "little activities" without being little. But I actually age regress.
~dd/lg anon
No. 52992
>>52989Easy, I don't want children.
>>52991No, not really. Dd/lg isn't rare it anything.
>>52990Different people handle things differently. I do my business in the privacy of my own home.
>>52988I mean, you have the problem with it, not me.
You absolutely don't have to agree with me or do what I do. It doesn't affect me. I know my reasons behind what I do and I think that's important.
No. 52995
>>52994>>52993stop being
triggered by degenerate-chan. at least they aren't telling us about diaper play.
No. 53003
>>52986I have nothing against your lifestyle, it seems you're practicing things consensually and not shoving it in anyone's faces, but like other anons I want to know why do these things need to be totally infantilised rather than just relaxing and why does it need to all tie together to make a lifestyle?
Not judging but curious why you just be adults that enjoy disney and have a caring cuddly relationship where you guys praise each other but also indulge in bdsm? Why does it need to have the ritualistic aesthetic buzzwords to link it all together? I completely understand stuff like tuning out when you get home to watch cartoons while eating alphabetti spagetti, I just don't get why it needs to be "little space"ified, if it makes any sense. Ddlg culture feels really forced, in the same way that bdsm or furry lifestyles can get cringey.
>>52832So naive anon. I can't have been the only kid who sought all sorts of dark things out on my own at a young age, starting with grimms fairy tales until it was full on bdsm porn. Kids with the internet now will fall down the slope so much faster, but it's not always the internet that starts it off. Not all perverts will have bad home lives or traumatic events.
I do agree that things like chan boards and access to hardcore porn do make things worse and desensitize people to horrible things but in some people it originates from the person themselves.
No. 53005
>>53003>why do these things need to be totally infantilisedPeople were overly critical about these things and refer to them as kid activities in the first place. If you're an adult and like to have a pacifier for comfort, people are going to call you a child. These behaviours are considered child-like in nature. I've just come to accept it. Many embraced it, which becomes being little at heart so the term "little" came.
>why does it need to all tie together to make a lifestyle?It is going to be a long term practice for my boyfriend and I. It's a life style choice. I don't know how else to explain it.
>why you just be adults that enjoy disney and have a caring cuddly relationship where you guys praise each other but also indulge in bdsm? Because it's a sub genre of bdsm culture. Like the way there are different types of Lolita style, there are different types of bdsm. We participate and use dd/lg lifestyle. Not all bdsm is the same.
>Why does it need to have the ritualistic aesthetic buzzwords to link it all together?I don't have an answer for this because I don't participate in nymphette or Lolita (the novel/book) ideology. But for the routine part, or as you put it, ritualistic, I like routine. I like rules. I have very bad anxiety and having a set list of things helps keep me in order. When I have too many choices, I become overwhelmed. This is just me personally.
>I just don't get why it needs to be "little space"ifiedBecause it's a head space. I do what I need to do all day as an adult, I do adult things. I can't spend all day in this little headspace and be able to function.
So when I get home and can let go and can relax and let myself become little and give up certain adult duties because I know I have someone who is there and going to take care of me. I'm allowed to be little. It's an aspect of my personality that I have to conceal because it isn't appropriate to be that way 24/7. I also wouldn't want to be little all the time. I enjoy drinking with friends and hanging out with family. I don't want to be at a dance club with a sippy cup you know what I mean?
Anyone can do things that are considered little activities without being a little. It's all about head space.
>Ddlg culture feels really forced, in the same way that bdsm or furry lifestyles can get cringey.It's been grossly glorified and made more accessible for younger and younger people, which I'm against.
These young girls are playing into a fetish where they will end up abused and think it's just a normal relationship. I feel bad that it's over run the way it is.
And because it's a lifestyle choice, it isn't for everyone and you are allowed to be disgusted by it. It doesn't really bother me. Everyone has their opinion and their right to say it. Plus, I'm putting myself out here so I don't mind.
There are definitely some bad eggs out there.
No. 53006
>>53005You sound like an okay person but it's still weird.
Also do you only browse lolcow when being "adult"?
No. 53007
>>53006Yes.
But even if I am in little space, I find the "uwu pwetty pwincess" typing style cringey.
No. 53011
>>53010I've answered this before, it's a head space. You can do these things without being a little. These are also things traditionally associated with children, so you let yourself revert to that young head space. It's entirely up to the person.
>>53009It's fucked up, they're definitely risking minors safety. Minors should not be involved in adult kink play ever. Their brains aren't matured enough to understand. They're easy targets. Pedophiles use dd/lg as a guise to go after real children. Those are the 40 year olds you're referring to.
I am 21 and my boyfriend is in his late 20s, but we met when I was an adult (not teen). We have a reasonable age gap between adults.
However, I think once you reach 20, you are free to date up as high as you'd like. That's just personal opinion.
No. 53013
>>52601Thank you anon who has started this thread.
I was judging parents of this children very harshly and, I admit, had good laugh thanks to them. But now I looked up into the whole case and discovered that my younger cousin is in these group. She is 12 years old, not even 13. Thanks to makeup and filters she looks a bit older but her face still screams "child". As soon as I get home I will call her parents and possibly contact admins of the group? Idk. I would never suspect that, she was never abused or neglected.
No. 53015
>>53012You don't do anything. If you don't understand it, you won't understand it. I'm not trying to be mean, but it's either something that clicks or doesn't.
I realise I am absolutely still a 21 year old, giving my responsibilities (some anyways) to another person. I don't know how to describe it other than a head space, if you don't get it you won't get it.
Actors have to get into head spaces to play certain characters and that is the closest thing I can compare it to. I feel as though you may have not read everything I've posted and are stuck on the head space thing.
No one really into dd/lg is stupid. We understand we are still our ages. But we give up those responsibilities for a little while. Then we go back to being adults.
I can't make you understand, especially if you're not open to understanding, which considering the tone of your post, seems to be the case.
>>53013I'm sorry you found out that way. Before contacting her parents, who likely have zero understanding in what dd/lg is, you should have a talk with her and explain to her why it's so dangerous.
No. 53016
>>53015Plz stop comparing it to being an actor its stupid and even tho people didnt take you seriously to begin with, they sure as fuck wont now.
Furthermore, youre 'acting' as somebody who still has an underdeveloped brain so in its essence youre just an adult 'acting' like a retard
Its also still majorly fucked up bringing child related shit into bdsm, sexual or not.
Youre just making it ok to fetishize media meant for children wether you mean to or not.
If you were coping with abuse hbu actually strive for a happy and productive adult life instead of making your life revolve around
acting like some handicapped mouth breather.
Like just try watching a disney movie in your pj's while eating mac n cheese without behaving like an autistic prick and see how chill it is.
Insane i know! Doing fun stuff without having to put on an obnoxious personality?
Must be magic.
No. 53017
>>53016>Plz stop comparing it to being an actorActors get in a head space to act. Being little is also a head space. It's the closest comparison.
>youre 'acting' as somebody who still has an underdeveloped brain so in its essence youre just an adult 'acting' like a retardReconnecting to your inner child is not the same as having mental retardation. These are completely separate things.
>majorly fucked up bringing child related shit into bdsmThere's a fetish for everything, that's a mental battle you will have to get over yourself.
>Youre just making it ok to fetishize media meant for children wether you mean to or not.100% your opinion.
>If you were coping with abuse hbu actually strive for a happy and productive adult lifeEveryone copes differently and it isn't up to you to deem a right or wrong way. No one is being harmed by what I do alone with my significant other.
>instead of making your life revolve around acting like some handicapped mouth breather.100% your opinion. My life is happy and productive. I work a full time job. Again, what I do in the privacy of my home is kept private.
>Like just try watching a disney movie in your pj's while eating mac n cheese without behaving like an autistic prick and see how chill it is.Me being little is an aspect of my personality. I have no reason to not like that aspect out while I'm in my own home. Again, I'm not harming anyone. You have a misguided outlook on what being little details. But you're not open to other opinions so I won't waste my time to explain.
>Doing fun stuff without having to put on an obnoxious personality?It's absolutely stunning that what I do in the comfort of my own home upsets you so much. Hope you can work things out.
No. 53019
>>53018I am not apart of any communities.
I'm strongly against children being involved in any bdsm related activities. I think pedophiles use dd/lg as a guise to groom underaged teens. They're disgusting.
No. 54089
>>53019I think a lot of us are concerned about the 13 year old girls getting into this on tumblr and the like. Some of these girls may be vulnerable due to neglectful or absent parents or past sexual abuse. They might be seeking out a parental figure not realising that they could be abused or even killed. To me these communities seem to like they may end up cloistering such relationships to keep their fetish from being seen in a bad light by the general public. And it's already seen as very weird by a lot of people.
I think there is an issue here with people getting a little too vocal and public with their fetishes in an attempt to normalize them. This opens the floodgates for a lot of unsavory perverts to prey on vulnerable people, especially vulnerable minors. Some of this fetishists have no shame is posting really specific details of what they are doing all over tumblr. And while this means that we can watch out for perverts better it also makes those perverts feel more normalized. And that isn't favorable at all.
No. 54094
>>54089>I think a lot of us are concerned about the 13 year old girls getting into thisI agree. Children should be kept out of bdsm and fetishes.
I think it can be a little scary to feel like you're alone because you're scared or ashamed as a teen, so I think research is okay (to figure out what you like, what you don't) as a teen is okay. But you shouldn't be apart of adult themed communities.
>To me these communities seem to like they may end up cloistering such relationships to keep their fetish from being seen in a bad light by the general public.The fetish and age-play itself isn't bad. It's the bad guys (that can occur in all communities) using it to groom children. But it will never be not bad. The implications of the name itself that someone who doesn't know what it entails is going to give it a bad rep.
>little too vocal and public with their fetishes in an attempt to normalize them.I'm not here to normalize or convince anyone, but to try to educate, inform, answer questions, and keep kids protected. I still feel like the pictures of minor posted here need to be removed. Especially because now it links them to an adult bdsm fetish.
>opens the floodgates for a lot of unsavory pervertsI agree, but dangerous people are everywhere, too.
>fetishists have no shame is posting really specific details of what they are doing all over tumblr.We can't censor the internet, unfortunately. This is just one of those, "you don't want to see it, don't look," moments. I still think these things need adult content warnings, but kids will always find a way, like lying about their age or getting around a block.
>it also makes those perverts feel more normalized.I don't think so, I think these people know they are doing something bad but they use the guise of a fetish to get what they want.
No. 54104
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>>52602HAHAHAHA
Oh I know a certain blogging platform where you fit right in