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No. 546886
>>546871All of this. If he is generally a selfish inconsiderate deadbeat than you should cut him off and enjoy your new peace.
>Perhaps you can use him as a practice bf considering you are probably young yourself.If a moid acts like this he doesn't even deserve that much proximity to you. If you're young explore new places and grow your life, don't waste it on a half assed excuse of a """man"""
No. 546920
>>546871>never traveled anywhere for an extended period or lived anywhere else.>He eats junk foodI don't think these are bad, most people eat junk food to some extent unless someone is constantly eating it well that's a dif story; and lack of moving or traveling could be caused by outside factors. Everything else rings true, especially
>He doesn't have any hobbies or interests.I have no idea how people like this exist and function and they freak me out. What do you mean you don't have hobbies
No. 547155
>sympathizing with porn addicts/pedophiles as if they can be reasoned with
>being easily influenced by others with no strong convictions of their own
>Being a hardcore rightoid, enlightened centrist, or a tankie
>following Mizkif, Hasan, Ethan, Asmon, or twitchthots in general
>Being a TRA
>Being a slavaboo
>Being a Palestinefag
>Taking news they read online at a surface level and not diversifying their sources
>Defending TikTok or being a Tiktok fag, especially by claiming it's an unbiased source that shows videos that MSM tries to hide, even though it's a fucking algorithm with almost zero verifiable sources that pushes content that it wants you to see, as if websites other than TikTok don't exist
>Lacking critical thinking
>When presented with solid evidence that contradicts their prior held beliefs, doubles down and gets indignant instead of considering that they might be wrong or mistaken
>Caring more about being seen as morally superior rather than being correct in their judgments
No. 547415
>gets weirdly and very excited from having interactions with you, even though it had no sexual undertones and was an innocent activityIt's gross, the person has the hots for you and doesn't know how to self regulate, sign of low self awareness, probably will never make a move on you but thinks they are hiding it well, just makes everyone involved uncomfortable and this will escalate into other issues in the future.
>>547351Stop shitting up the thread with obvious stuff that has already been posted a few times, it's not helpful. This thread is about red flags which are related to specific behaviors to look out for, being male is not a behavior and it's not specific enough to be used as a red flag. It is also very obvious that someone is male so it cannot be overlooked when moving forward building a relationshit. You can take out your anger on males in many other places on this board and everyone here is already aware of this viewpoint anyway so you're not saying anything new.
No. 548018
> talking about women who wear lots of makeup, dress up etc “oh anon but I love how natural you are!” (Gag)
> having a bad relationship with their mother, deadbeat dad that they worship for some reason
> talks shit about their sister in a way you sense there’s more than normal sibling resentment.
> only suggests sexual stuff that they ant to do, stops showing interest when you’re in the mood and avoids you, makes you feel bad for having a normal libido
> calls you narcissistic, crazy, vain etc for doing something you enjoy
> randomly criticizes people around you (“oh Anon her dress is way too tight, ew”)
> speaks about themselves like they’re super fragile, apologizes constantly, “I guess I’m just too sensitive”, overemphasis on their hyper empathy
> says disgusting and shocking things and looks at you as if to read your reaction
No. 563454
>>563284>dislikes animalsSo true. Goes for friends aswell, if they're indifferent or hostile to animals in general it's
really bad
No. 563940
>>563770>>563775If he's insistent about paying for everything, usually he's very controlling and will feel entitled, like you owe him (usually sexual favors).
>money is directly tired to masculinity and powerI don't get it. Isn't that something you want to avoid? Who wants some jackass macho moid?
No. 564010
>>563395Please… Don't do this. This causes the other person so much confusion and pain in exchange for your temporary comfort of not setting boundaries and displaced responsibily. After being on the receiving end of this for a few years I never knew where I was standing with my self proclaimed "best friend" and the friendship went to -100 for me, while she was convinced everything was alright and we were on good terms because she didn't confront me. Even when I brought something up, she would never admit to it being a problem but I obviously felt something was wrong. I also lost all respect for her and I was constantly worried and exhausted from wondering if I am overstepping her invisible boundaries by doing completely normal things.
>Uses words to create a fake reality in the beginning of getting to know eachother, and later.Words like "I want us to be good friends" when you are literally seeing this person for the first or second time in your life. Or telling you things about you in a statement manner even though they don't know that much about you, like a command for you to behave or be in a certain way that they are pushing onto you, like a mold.
>I know a good person when I see one. These are pretty easy to spot manipulations but equally easy to take them as a compliment. These are not compliments.
No. 564681
>>564010I also do this (and also grew up in a home where I wasn't allowed to complain) and I'm struggling right now not to do this because a friend with severe mental health issues (and who still has to live at home) is not being a good friend. But I don't know how to confront her about it.
>>563974'edgy' music or humour is a good one it's reflective of a desire for constant attention and when you can't constantly make them feel good they'll start acting out to punish you / make you feel bad and get negative attention and control instead
No. 567288
>>566925I'll have to play devil's advocate and say that it probably isn't, like, if your moid is currently playing Mai in SF6, is it really because he's an AGP troon or is it because Mai is one of the most retarded strong gorilla carry characters in the entire game right now?
If the female character he's playing isn't top tier then maybe he just played her in a previous game and doesn't want to let that skill he built go to waste, this is particularly common in a game like Tekken where characters play nearly the exact same every game and most characters that people play tend to be 20+ years old in terms of how long they've been playable (Xiaoyu, Nina, Anna, Lili, Asuka, Julia).
Or maybe he just likes their specific function, I don't know, there are so many reasons why one would pick a main in a fighter that troonism isn't the first or third thing that comes to mind.
If we were talking about RPGs or MMOs and he made female avatars exclusively then that's a different story, I'd say that would be a pretty significant red flag.
No. 567341
>>567328>DOAThe main issue is that DOA fully embraces coom, if he's a big fan he's probably a coomer who is in for the sexy female characters.
>other sexy female characters in fighting games?If he ever only plays sexy female characters in every game he plays and deliberately avoids male characters then he's probably a degenerate, honestly I'd just ask him why he likes them, if he's shameless enough to let you know he plays those characters he probably won't have qualms telling you it's because he thinks they're sexy.
There's also the issue that most female characters in fighting games are designed to be sexy or cute by default so picking female characters and picking sexy female characters ends up being the same thing.
No. 567997
>>566925As an ex-FGC tard I agree with
>>567288 , if it's a FGC faggot who's playing female characters for minmaxing framerate bullshit or something because they tend to be more dexterous it's probably just garden variety autism (questionably a red flag in itself) but if they actively simp or skinwalk the characters then you should run. However
>>567532 is right too, I would never date anyone from the fighting game circuit period because they're irreversibly infested with sex pestism.
No. 577037
>>574594I think it's more of a matter of what the previous nonna said, as well as how MANY exes. I don't see it as a red flag if they were with someone who was the
toxic person (although men can lie about who was in the wrong). Things happen, and people might date someone before realizing they're not good for them. If they have a lot of exes though, then that's definitely a them problem.