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No. 60284
>>60278>>60279I noticed lack of sensitivity after starting to use a vibrator too. I took a total break for a few weeks, and now I masturbate only once a week (for around an hour, sometimes more because I prefer multiple orgasm sessions too).
I also try to avoid putting the vibe on high settings, at least for most of the time. I press it down a lot on my clit on a low/medium setting so it stimulates it a lot without having to use the high setting, which I was previously accustomed to. I don't have sensitivity issues anymore now!
No. 60294
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i can never bring myself to climax like everyone else. i sort of stop like maybe a fourth of the way through (i think? idk) because the feeling is too intense for me and my vagina starts twitching like crazy. it doesnt help that right after it starts feeling really good, for some reason all sexual desires drop in less than a second and i can't continue. all i can get is a measly penny sized wet spot if im lucky.
does anyone else have this problem?
i only rub up against things to masturbate since im too scared to stick anything in my vagina which i feel embarrassed about. i think i just dont want to hurt myself somehow and the thought of feeling the insides of an organ isnt appealing to me either.
No. 60300
>>60294having to stop because it's too intense + twitching + drop in desire = really probably an orgasm.
but you can try masturbating in different ways to make orgasms different or better.
No. 60311
>>60300>>60302damn, really? thanks guys. it happens so fast and easily then. i want to kick myself for expecting something grander but like you said, i'll have to experiment for different results.
i'm sorry being a clueless n00b.
No. 61477
>>60363 >>60294I had this for years too I would barely feel turned then it would slowly build before I would just twitch a bit and lose all libido. I finally have good orgasms after 6 years of sex. I don't know if it was my body maturing or if it was that I stopped chasing orgasms and got a mature boyfriend who wanted to spend time exploring my body tenderly rather than sticking his dick in it. I still sometimes have crap premature orgasms but it's cool because I will just have a good one later.
>>60405Why not watch tv or something? You should be honest with him about the way sex feels for you, because faking it and forcing yourself to do it is really bad for your psyche even if it doesn't feel that way. But if he cares and watching tv at the same time would make you feel more relaxed then he would want that too
No. 61520
>>61503>girthhow would you be able to measure that
>>61496i have the europe version of that, it's amazing.
No. 61540
>>61520You can get a reasonable idea from holding it in your hand, and/or comparing that size to your wrist/forearm.
For instance with the biggest dick I've ever encountered, I couldn't touch my middle finger to my thumb around it, and comparing it to my forearm that means it was 7" around.
It was also as long as my whole face, which means it was about 8" long, which he confirmed. Yes I was sore.
No. 61619
>>61574It was ok, he was never able to get it all the way in and he had to be really careful. So, not the most fun I've ever had.
I know there are some size queens out there who love literal forearm-sized cock but it's honestly not practical. Don't feel bad for not wanting to or being able to take ridiculous sized dick.
No. 61636
>>61496oh my god same on the thigh squeezing
what is this and why
No. 61637
>>61629i did this. i am a size queen. bf has a big ol girthy dick (<3)
still have a super tight vag and require lots of play. if you go too fast without lubrication it does burn but as someone who fucks a massive D regularly, it's nothing foreplay won't get you into. get a big dildo though for sure. you'll love it. dicks and dildos have their pros and cons, a big dildo and a normal dick will feel different but if you want a big toy no point in holding out on it :)
No. 61700
>>61627Right? The husband is fucking fiiiiiiine.
Only problrm I have is that im not used to reading korean manwha so I keep forgetting their names, also Ive noticed they have a word for senpai too but other words I have no idea what they mean. Oh well. it still does it job nicely lol
No. 61715
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Has anyone here ever had an orgasm during an orgasm?
I dunno if it is a weird question and I am not joking, I will try to explain, so bear with me if you want.
I am 28, I am sexually active and I've masturbated since my teens. when I masturbate I usually rub my clit, so I get a clit orgasm. I cannot get a vaginal orgasm by itself (which is common) unless I stimulate my clit as well, but if I do them both, I get some pretty decent Os.
Last year I got myself a nice vibrator (pic related). It has motion on both the main part and the clit bud. It also has several different vibrations, but I usually use the first level, which is a regular buzz. The way it is shaped, it can find the g-spot very easily, and it can usually give me a nice mixed orgasm (clit and vag) that lasts around 5-7 seconds. it has also helped me achieve multiple orgasms (I've tried up to three)
So, I use it today, I have my first one, reach resolution stage stage and then continue because I wanted to achieve the second one. At some point, by mistake, I turn it to the 3rd level vibration which is a very strong one. Normally I would have turned it down but I say what the hell and keep it up, so after a while, and while using the vibrations both vaginally and on my clit, I start orgasming like normal, but instead of going to resolution stage, the orgasm keeps going for what I am guessing was almost a minute (at which point I am getting freaked out)and then I get a much stronger orgasm ON TOP of it, as if I wasn't in an orgasm already. It had me litterally screaming and lasted for an aditional 5 seconds I think. I got to resolution stage after that, and now I feel like a fucking zombie. I actually feel like I am half drugged now.
I couldn't actually find anything similar when I googled it, so I thought I'd ask here
No. 61826
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>finally have a dildo
>cant orgasm vaginally
No. 61863
>>61838Is the hood long, or the clitoris quite short/small？ That might give some impression that it's not pulled properly.
But yeah, like
>>61862 said, more likely to be phimosis
No. 61878
>>61863my hood definitely looks longer than normal. i'm not sure if my clitoris is short or small since i've never seen it lol
but thank you and
>>61862, i will definitely look into this more and hopefully i can get it fixed
No. 61891
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I'm so desensitized to everything that it's hard to get off now, even though my libido is high as fuck.
Anyone else have this problem? I already tried to give up porn to see if it helped, but it didn't in the long run.
No. 62059
>>62055true, I'm just rlly paranoid of the worst case scenario
I actually wanted to buy a super cheap one off wish, but I already know their packaging isn't discreet
No. 62061
>>62052i don't go outside too much, but ill be keeping an eye out for those shops thx anon
(although since i live on an island I'm worried of running into ppl i might know there) just gotta b brave i guess
No. 62073
>>62068Asian lesbian porn. The girls are just too cute and sometimes they wear really cute lingerie too, its the best. I dont watch any porn with men in it.
The funny thing is I consider myself pretty hetero and im in a hetero relationship too. Any other girls out there who are like this?
No. 62091
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I haven't bother to read the site rules so I'm probably b& after this but I'm not planing to "join" this site so ehhhhh.
And maybe this helps someone.
>>60338She has not broken this one after near daily use for 8months so far, and it's cheap+water resistant (to both her mess and showers/short baths).
It's long enough to fill, curved enough to hit things, and not stupid girthy. Also the "chin" is deep enough to get to her clit while she has it inside. Run time and decent and charge time is something like every minute of charge is two minutes of run.
I know you said you don't have money to waste but maybe this one can fit in a budget somewhere. If I tried to buy this in a store here I'd be looking at over $60 so this is quite a bit more budget friendly.
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/CRDC-2016-Hot-25-Speeds-Vibrator-Waterproof-Clit-Adult-Vibrators-Massager-Sex-Toys-for-Women-100/32736541448.html>>61715Anytime I feel like teasing GF and not stopping/slowing when she starts cumming. I think I've managed to stack 3-4 at most "at once" and her hips won't listen to her after it happens either.
She quite a bit easier to do this too but I've had partners before where this has happened or where they want this to happen on the regular.
No. 62101
just bought the cheapo knockoff version of
>>61715 and fuck, I came so hard, at least like 5 times.
The last time I came I fucking pissed everywhere. No regrets tho it felt amazing
No. 62114
>>62101I don't know if you care, so disregard me if you don't, but:
Take a piss beforehand if you're concerned about smelly, yellow urine getting on anything. That way whatever comes out when ya "squirt" should be clear and odorless because it's not been in your bladder very long. The smell of urine is what I find most gross about it, so this takes the ew factor out of it for me.
No. 62123
>>62116pretty sure theres quite a few articles about how straight women are the ones who gravitate towards lesbian porn
although I've also read theories that women r more likely to be bisexual just b/c they don't have to worry about their masculinity being affected like men
No. 62140
>>62116Spoiler: its time for you to go to summer camp
Straight women watch lesbian porn. You don't have to be bisexual to get off on people having sex.
No. 64344
>>63684Try "massage," or "sensual" as
>>64276 said. If you don't mind it, there's a lot more lesbian stuff in this vein, too.
No. 64576
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I just bough my first vibrator (Picobong Zizo)! Can't wait till it gets here. I've wanted to try toys as long as I can remember but was always too embarrassed to buy them.
Do you guys have any fun toys?
No. 64653
>>61715Is it possible what you're describing is the true definition of multiple orgasms?
I remember reading some dumb cosmo article talking about having consecutive orgasms and how to achieve them, and thinking so what? Most women are capable of having multiple orgasms during one session.
Then I started thinking if it's so common for women to have 3-5 orgasms in one session, maybe what they were actually referring to was 'an orgasm during an orgasm' that lasts for minutes instead of seconds? That would make more sense and explain what the fuss is all about. I've never experienced such a long orgasm and I think if I did I'd be a little scared I'd end up like that woman who went into orgasm contractions for like 3 hours and had to go to the emergency room to get some anti spasmodic meds lol.
No. 64727
>>61715You had multiple consecutive orgasms. As in another orgasm starts before the current one is over. This is easier (for me) with two kind of stimulation.
>>61826Try exploring your g-spot, if you haven't already. It might also work best when you're at your horniest part in your cycle. If you only orgasm clitorally, it's not the end of the world.
>>61838Masturbate until your clit is engorged and grab a mirror.
>>61880Yes. It's normal. I use my hand to show my partner where/how to touch me. They don't seem to mind, and like to hear "just like that."
>>64576I'm torn on whether I want this. Looks so nice, but I also don't know if I need to really redirect this much sexual energy, as I do have a partner who is always down for spoiling me, and I should probably just keep taking advantage of that.
No. 64729
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>>61737Use it directly on yourself, without clothing. Use lube and a silicone attachment. There are a lot of attachments available for Hitachi wands, so look around and find something that looks good to you.
No. 64831
>>64816Iirc, they have an "orgasm guarantee" so if you hate it, you can return it. Please keep us updated.
>>64819It's not a stupid question and there is nothing wrong with you. Needing clitoral stimulation for orgasm is common and fine. I like oral too, but don't orgasm from that alone.
No. 65129
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>23
>Bought my first dildo today
I'm sort of nervous but I ordered a 6.7 inch realistic dildo with a suction. I don't imagine I will orgasm internally from it since I was born with MRKH and got vaginoplasty, but I wanted something more real feeling and to dilate with so sex won't hurt as much with my bf. I'm tired of using cold, hard, plastic dildoes.
No. 65131
>>65129>that pickek
Good luck anon!
No. 65156
>>65148lmao i would die of embarrassment. i cant
>>65154the dream
No. 65194
>>65186i dropped out of school at 15 for health reasons, therefore couldnt attain my license at 16 like everyone else (in the US) and my family is quite poor so even if I did have a license, I still wouldn't have a car. ive worked at multiple places, in case you were worried about me being autistic or something. sorry im not "adult" enough for you.
super sage for blogpost.