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No. 64181
>>64136Talk to him and let him know this is something you want to try to achieve. He'll obviously be down to help you. Then lay on your back on the bed and let your head rest on the edge. This is the easiest way to angle him in or if he's laying try leaning in from above rather than below. Like sitting by his shoulders not between his legs. Definitely try the bed thing first.
Okay so the bed position should help a lot. Then you have to relax yourself around him and try to find the right angle. Don't push too hard if you want to take it easy but it helps to get excited. Touch yourself or wrap your arms around him. Make it happen. Your throat can take it. It's your choice whether you want to elevate your sex life. Go for it, it's worth it. I'm not confident about much but I love knowing I'm secretly dynamic in bed.
Have fun with it and be aware if he's got a curve you'll need to angle for that. You'll sometimes hit the wall if it's not right but you'll learn what it feels like and how to guide it.
No. 64216
>>64199I've heard that most women don't like receiving oral.
Is that just because most women have low sex drives (compared to men) so it doesn't feel good, or because they're just so self-conscious?
I assume it also has something to do with most guys not having "pretty" faces, they have facial hair, look masculine, etc. I think most women would prefer another woman or a boy for getting oral.
No. 64220
>>64184It takes me around that time as well. I think it's normal.
Anyway I gave a blowjob to 3 different guys and I only mastered it with my current bf. I could never make a guy cum before, it was awful.
My current partner is pretty big (7inch) I cant deep throat him for shit so I just stroke his penis as I go up and down with my mouth. Seems to be working perfectly. I want to deep throat him without gagging one day though
No. 64227
>>64216not sure that's true at all…sounds more like women are just self-conscious tbh. the girls i know who are more open/wild talk often enough about wanting guys to eat them out. think your theory about wanting a boy/another woman is off unless you're not talking about straight women.
not a virgin but same
>>64221 i picture sitting on my bf's face or grinding on it a lot.
>>64220imo it's dependent on the guy as well. i'm pretty good at giving blowjobs (all of the guys i dated couldn't get enough) but couldn't make my ex or current bf cum with just my mouth, they need a lot of stroking/friction.
No. 64228
>>64216I haven't met a girl that hasn't liked oral! We LOVE oral. It's much harder for a man to fuck it up as opposed to finger clit massages.
When I was in high school I heard that men hated giving oral, but I have yet to meet one that actual does hate it. My experience is that they usually brag about it, like "i loove this i could do this all the time"
All in all, i think men like licking pussy because its the easiest way to make a girl moan and theyre all secretly scared that they cant pleasure a woman
No. 64231
>>64216… and whats this shit about not wanting normal men going down on you?
no way youre a woman
No. 64236
>>64228>>64231Nope. Nope. Nope.
Whenever a guy has tried to give me oral, they always stretch out the skin around my clit, can hardly find my clit to begin with, then their big noses and scruffy faces are awkwardly grinding against the area which irritates the fuck out it and takes away from any pleasure they can manage.
No. 64238
>>64236sage because I hit post too early
Wanted to mention i'm in my twenties and have had 3 different partners who otherwise were great in bed, they all told me I was the only girl who had these issues with receiving oral though so idk.
I figured I just have an awkwardly shaped clit area that doesn't fit well with people's faces kek.
No. 64241
>>64236>they always stretch out the skin around my clit, can hardly find my clit to begin withWhat a nightmare holy shit
>>64216>I think most women would prefer another woman or a boy for getting oralWhy? I'd like to hear your reasoning.
I do know I was the first person to ever make my bi friends who hadn't been with women before come from oral, but I assume that's because a girl would be better at eating pussy than a guy, not because of my face
No. 64268
>>64236>they always stretch out the skin around my clitWhat? Tell them not to.
>can hardly find my clit to begin withShow them. Use your hands to guide their hands.
No. 64272
Urgh I feel you OP
My fiance's dick is 8 inches and girth to boot. You'd think that'd be fantastic but it's a nightmare even trying to fit it in, let alone fellatio.
I have a small mouth and an easily tickled gag reflect. I can only fit about a quarter of his cock in, and the girth makes teeth an issue too which is a mood killer to say the least.
>>64216Oral in a lady usually feels fantastic, it's just bypassing the insecurity and self-conscious mindset.
Even I'm afraid because I don't think my partner will enjoy it.
The trouble is finding the clit, doing it too fast or just not doing it right.
It's a total killjoy.
No. 64290
>>64282I'm the same exact way, I'm very sensitive and it doesn't take much to make me orgasm. I'd rather grind against my partner to climax than get eaten out. It makes me feel like I gotta pee
Semen also taste really gross(I've heard it varies guy to guy but my bfs smells/taste like bleach.
No. 64300
>>64294He's well aware, I think we tried that in the past and it didn't help much. He also tried this whole recipe to make his cum thicker/better tasting but he reported it didn't work at all.
It sucks when you want to be a huge cum slut but the taste is unbearable. I have to hold myself back from throwing up sometimes when I swallow.
>>64298You're telling me you don't just spell out the alphabet with your tongue? Kidding, do you have any tips on what to do to make it better? I've only been eaten out by one person so I've never had better.
No. 64316
>>64313Do you tuck your teeth under your lip?
>>64294Unfortunately, bleach-tasting cum isn't that uncommon. Idk why but I've noticed it and I've heard from other girls that they can taste it too.
No. 64466
>>64328Has anyone found any way to mask the flavor?
I read that chewing mint gum helps but I've yet to read first hand accounts if that's true or not.
No. 64518
>>64282>>64236I have a problem with too much focused pressure. Tongue needs to be flat, it's awful when they do that thing where you, like, clench your tongue? So it's harder and pointier, for lack of a better description.
There's a really delicate balance between gentle/medium pressure and so light it fucking tickles.
Anyhow, it's cliché to say, but it really is important to communicate. Even if it's just one word like "more," "higher," "lower," etc. Anything helps. They'll never learn if you never say anything.
No. 64521
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I feel terrible for the girls who aren't getting eaten out right/struggling with blowjobs. It's honestly about relaxing and doing what feels right to you. I had an okay experience the first few times with different guys but I was also self conscious/in my own head instead of focusing on the experience. Get to know and be comfortable with your body and don't be afraid to coach. (It also helps to experience more partners but no everyone is a cumslut like I am) Semen tastes meh most of the time probably because I've eaten nasty health shit but I've only had one day where a dudes semen made me gag. But I'd take awful tasting semen over semen in the nose or eye any day.
For me blowjobs with deep throat is all about breathing technique. If you aren't breathing out as the head hits the back of your throat and breathing in as the head and shaft are being pulled away you're going to have a bad time. The trouble is when you master this guys get really into I and naturally want to thrust to make it go deeper so your rhythm gets fucked up. For instant gratification go to the sex shop and buy yourself some throat numbing spray. It usually comes in different flavors and you can deep throat just about anything, even you boyfriend up to his balls ;D
No. 64573
>>64562Some people just aren't into it and that's perfectly fine, if a partner sees it as a dealbreaker that's their own problem. Giving doesn't entitle you to jack shit.
I don't care for oral, giving or receiving. I've had both men and women go down on me and eh. I'm bored. And blowjobs are weird, my ex really loved the idea and I had already managed to deepthroat another ex (he was like, half the other ex's size though) and it had been a meh experience for me, but then I saw how huge he was and I was like "LOL" because he thought I'd just go full porn star and deep throat him and he'd cum in 3 minutes.
So I was reluctant because I wasn't looking forward to gagging everywhere but I briefly tried a few times, got like halfway through and he was way less responsive so I felt self conscious even though I knew he wasn't as responsive in general (my other ex shuddered when I even touched the tip, this one barely blinked, probably because he jacked off like 4 times a day) and he was barely moaning and I knew I was in for more than a few minutes of vague dick smell and possible gagging for him to possibly not even cum so I just said fuck that and did other shit with him.
No. 65195
>>64562When I was with my first boyfriend I used to HATE giving blowjobs, and I refused to give blowjobs to like hookups after we broke up. But I think that was because I wasn't actually very sexually attracted to him/them. Used to feign stomach aches a lot to avoid sex. Now I'm with someone I genuinely love I'm much happier giving blowjobs/doing things I found unsavoury before. It's fun to pleasure someone you genuinely love, even if it doesn't personally get you off
Sorry for blog
No. 65517
>>65195This, it plays a BIG part. One partner, I was actually looking forward to give it all the time, he made me horny af.
The next partner, an 'accident' (piss) happened and I pretty much stopped giving head to him because I couldn't even try without shuddering with disgust.
No. 65527
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I ate pussy twice now but that was two years ago when I had a gf. She patted me on the head and told me I did good especially for a first time but I want to become better for my future girlfriend.
I kinda get how to breathe in a way, to avoid smelling the fishy smell, so there's that, but I have a small tongue so I can't really put it in like she did to me (she had a pretty big tongue though).
No. 65531
>>65527oh no anon
i know everybody tastes different and everybody also smells different things but there should absolutely not be a fishy smell
No. 66548
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>>66523>>66516Not sure if trolling or not. A pussy that taste like curry is like, dream for many men and women.
Imagine if you had some Pizza, too. Oh, the possibilities are endless!