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Right now i pretty much look like Gemma Ward's "after"-body.
I'm not extremely overweight, but definitely very much out of shape.
I can no longer dress like normal girls, but most tips i found online are only for a lot heavier girls and i'm somewhat in between, so what could i do? I don't want to only dress in wie stuff like maxi desses to try and hide everything, but i'm also not confident enough to say fuck it and wear crop tops, like often suggested.
My face also looks likes it belongs to a very obese person, it clearly shows that i wasn't born fat, i often see people who weigh a lot more with perfectly slim faces.
No matter what i try to do with my hair it always makes me feel insecure, since i always feel better when hiding my face…
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I have a similar body to Iskra Lawrence (although with an a-cup chest and I'm shorter, so no long legs), I guess I'm lucky to be one of the pear shaped ladies. Not even a humblebrag, I'm just grateful.
When I was younger I really wanted to wear oversized sweaters/loose dresses/draping clothes but it made me look enormous because my waist disappeared and my thunder thighs were highlighted. Plus, I had short hair during this time. (I think long hair benefits all chubbier girls, regardless of body shape)
Clothes that highlight the waist are what works for me (like wrap dresses, pencil skirts, shirt dresses with belts, etc.), and I never wear jeans. I find jeans, no matter what, make my legs look monstrous.
And if you can't lose fat because diet, putting on some muscle underneath the fat may improve the look of your body a bit. Plus you'll be powerful AND heavy. Good luck fighting you.
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My upper body is a bit slimmer than hers but other than that pretty similar.
I don't own any dresses or skirts at all lol
She does look pretty cute in jeans too and i noticed that she wears them nearly all the time in combination with short(er) tops
why? this is a chubby thread and i am chubby. i can't realte to those girls because i have a small frame but then a huge gut and big flabby legs. i kind of look like the girl in ops pic (sucking in)
i try to conceal my fat by wearing high waisted boyfriend fit jeans so they squeeze my gut for me ;_;
Finding jeans if you're a pear is such a pain in the ass though.
I know a women that has probably the same type as you and she always wears a bit looser blouses and short skirts all year long, so showing off your legs might work be best.
Now that you mention it, it may just be the tops I wore since the last time I wore a lot of jeans I used to pair them with the aforementioned chunky sweaters. And admittedly I had some dysmorphia back then.
(I also have hip dips, sadly, but I'm working on filling them in with muscle.)
I have violin hips too and love handles. But i'm always scared of doing exercises that work on my obliques, since that might gets a more square waist which i obviously don't want, so no idea what to do against that.>>78138
I only called it Chubby Thread because it sounds nicer lol
But i get what you mean, my BMI is a bit above 26 which means i can't wear the same stuff as normal/slim girls, but i obviously also still look very different from people who are obese with BMI of over 30 and so i'm not as limited as them.
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>>78142>(I also have hip dips, sadly, but I'm working on filling them in with muscle.)
I don't think you can do that unfortunately. Aren't these violin hips? I doubt Kiki Vhyce forgets to build the area.
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Chubby farmer here. I’ve spent a lot of my life dealing with EDs (binge eating/bulimia/compulsive fasting), and I’m at a point where I’m working on putting my mental health first. I personally find flattering clothes to be helpful for my mental state. I feel less anxious about my size when I know I look my best for my current size. </blogpost>
I’ve found skater dresses to be the most flattering item for my body type (hourglass/pear). They define my waist but are loose enough to hide my tummy. I usually pair them with black tights. It’s really easy to dress them up or down. In general, I wear a lot of dark colors since they’re slimming as well. I don’t often wear heels since I usually dress pretty casually, but when I do, I find that they elongate my legs and slim them even more when they match my pantyhose or pants. Also, I abuse the shit out of Spanx when need be lmao. Structured items help to make me look less round, so something like a nice cropped blazer with just a bit of shoulder padding helps a lot.
As for hair and makeup, I’m lucky in that I don’t carry really weight on my face. I still contour my face (cheekbones and chin) to appear slimmer, and don’t get haircuts that make my face look any rounder like blunt bangs.
For me it was exactly the same. It's been nearly 10 years since i first starved myself and i spend the last 7 of them with gaining weight, half assed attempts at losing again in the most unhealthiest manners and most importantly simply hating myself. I've neglected myself for so long and always thought losing weight would solve all my probelms (even worse, my mother encouraged that too), but it never worked out and afterall i cant spend my whole life thinking "if
i lose weight, then i'll be happy".
I think that the girl you posted looks super cute, but i can't help but feel that wearing such dresses makes you simply look like what you are, an overweight person trying to hide their fat and makes you stand out even more, especially in comparison to your average college girl that just wears some tight jean shorts in summer…
I'm the OP and I think I mentioned this before: I struggled with anorexia for years, so it's not like I lack discipline, I simply can't find a healthy middle ground.
Anyways, I made that thread 3 months ago and I haven't managed to get comfortable with looking like this, so in 8 days I'm going to have summer holidays for over 2 months and then I'll try tackling losing weight again.
I feel so dirty after recognizing that girl from pic related.
I'm a chubby girl and I want to lose weight, yet work and studies aren't allowing me to be healthier and it sucks. Wish I could do more.
I'm pretty chubby (I'm the anon who related my body to Iskra ealier ITT, although I have lost a little bit of fat since then due to exercising 4x a week and cutting out sugar)
and would honestly be happy with a partner who prefers girls with my body type. I'm not sure why so many chubby women are upset when men have a thing for us, it's good when your partner finds you attractive! Especially if it's something you don't plan on changing.
But I also have a thing for very thin (and usually short) men, so perhaps it's just fine for me because I can relate. Also, lucky for me it seems sticc boys do seem to end up with girls my size from what I've seen irl.
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Back on topic— Tbh, you gotta look for somone that has vaguely the same shape as you and take notes. Generally though, high waist pants/dressy leggings are nice cool because they do double the work as fashion and control top to give you a little more form/shape/keep all the jiggly bits in place, bangs seem to be good because you get more power to control the frame of your face and highlight the good,my personal opinion is that long hair on bigger girls looks gross (Myself included, I can never go past shoulder length) rather than like some renaissance full figure moon goddess a lot of girls seem to kid themselves into thinking they look like, if you're extreme enough you can also contour any extra chins with makeup to minimize them, flared skirt dresses are kind to most chubby girls, the faux thigh high stockings have been a LIFE SAVER because I love thigh highs but dotn always want to wear garters or have them roll down on account of chub rub, and finally, I think that excessive belting of outfits can be a hit or miss. Sometimes it genuinely improves an outfit, sometimes it just makes you look even chunkier and messy.
>>88584>I struggled with anorexia for years, so it's not like I lack discipline
Anorexia has nothing to do with discipline. Starving yourself because you think you're fat when you aren't or because you don't want curves is because of a mental issue, not a discipline issue. Discipline is doing something difficult, tedious or time consuming (or in the case of major life changes, take a long time and lots of effort to stick to) despite not wanting to, or feeling like theres no point or payoff.
I'll say it again: if you want to lose weight, put less food in your mouth hole, get on your feet and move/sweat more often. There is no magic, no trick to losing weight. You get chubby/fat by developing bad eating habits and a sedentary lifestyle that you dont want to change because it might burst your familiar comfort bubble. Stop eating junk, and stop lying to yourself and others that you're too busy with work or school to eat better or move more. If you have time to browse lolcow, you have time to go for a brisk walk or do some basic in-place exercises in your room. As for food, it's more expensive in the long run to buy nutritionally bland convenience junk than it is to buy fruits, veggies and staples like rice, eggs, milk, and chicken. Lear some basic broke-ass college student recipes and make your own food, and if you truly don't have time for that, rhen just buy healthier snacks. Fruit cups, those cheese/nut/meat protein packs, a yogurt smoothie. And above all stop esting to get full- you don't need to feel full every time you eat, just eat until you aren't hungry anymore and can easily focus on something else. This can help you avoid comfort eating.
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what is the cutoff for chubby and fat? i lost weight but i still call myself chubby, but i'm not sure if i am actually chubby or just lolcow chubby. is there a certain bmi point that is always considered chubby or is it down to weight distribution?
i'm not too sure about that, i know BMI isn't a good indicator about body fat, but i also personally have both an "overweight" BMI and a higher than average % of body fat. that being said, my friends don't think i'm fat cause i carry my weight well so i'm not sure…
i'm pear body type so my hips, butt and thighs are big, and i have fairly big calves/legs in general, but small upper body and medium tummy.
it definitely depends a bit on how your weight is distributed. if you're built like a fridge, you're always going to look fatter than a girl of the same weight with better proportions.
and i have no idea what it's like in other places so i'm not speaking for the entirety of the world but where i live the cutoff for being considered fat is around 120-130 lbs, unless you're tall.
She (and you as well) just come across as incredibly condescending.
Op already said that she hasn't given up and will start dieting in a couple of days and didn't ask for advice; she could have just left her alone.
But no, instead she had to jump in and tell her once again that anon is just lazy and lacks discipline. "Just eat less, healthy and move more" isn't any groundbreaking advice, I'm sure that somebody who had an ED already knows everything about calories and nutrition anyways.
And that you had to add>Just because anon is not babying her for being sick and feeling sorry for her 'laughing my ass of'
is in quite poor taste
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I am not overweight but on the border of a healthy BMI (24). I have really big hip dips and I hate it. I always wear skater dresses or flared skirt with a tee. I don't wear a lot of pant anymore but when I do it are always skinny jeans so my hips will be contained.
When I do wear dresses or skirts I always pair them with leggings or thighs. But now that it's summer I recommend safety shorts! My thighs never hurt when I wear these. The biggest issue is finding one that don't ride up and that are also not too long they stick out under the skirt or dress. The ones I buy are usually from aliexpress or wish so it's a hit or miss.
The only time sweats are fashionable is when the girl's body is making it look so tbh. They're athletic wear, if you're not athletic they do look frumpy.
I don't think they're a great alternative to skirts, when I gain weight my first choice is always longer dresses. They're flattering and great for hot weather, you don't need leggings with them.
No one wants to get your damaged brain ana chan.
Even if you're a mega fatty don't go starving yourself, you need to keep yourself healthy before anything.
That doesn’t make it a good idea.
If farmers want to lose weight, that can easily recuse calories without fasting. That’s just dumb.
Don't fucking fast. I've done it twice and it had no permanent weight loss. The only way to lose weight is to slightly cut your daily calories, and then eat that same calorie amount every day forever. You can eat whatever you want within that calorie limit. It should be ideally around 1200 a day unless you're very short where you may be able to do 1000. Less than 800 will send your body into starvation mode
I'm not that anon but I often do fasting that goes from between 3 - 7 dats.
The reason I commit to fasting is not due to weightloss but because I feel better.
I wouldn't recommend anyone to do week fastings, perhaps a consultation with a doctor beforehand, however a week of fasting isn't necessarily going to harm the person.
In fact, I think that people should learn that they don't have to eat a lot, they don't even need to eat 3 meals per day unless they're going to work a physically intensive labor.
I'd also add I never had drastic weight gain or problems with weight. It could be just me…
If anything an intermittent of 14 hours should be encouraged which should be doable.
It's not blogging if it can add perspective. You act as if fasting is going to wreck every person.
I think most people would benefit from realizing that they don't need to stuff themselves with food every so often.
Saw this thread and wanted to contribute! Before I start, I do have a bias toward business casual fashion so I'm sorry if that's not your thing. Maybe this will be unhelpful or something you've heard a million times but the best tip to looking good while being chubby or plus size is being aware of your body shape, being aware of your size, and buying clothes that FIT.
The one thing I see among chubby girls (I even did this at one point) that is the least flattering is clothes so tight they look like they're gonna burst at the seams, all because they can't accept the fact they're not a size M or L. There is nothing wrong with being an XL, or even XXL for that matter. Accept it and dress your size. You will look 10x thinner if you're a XL wearing an XL than being an XL wearing a M.
You shouldn't have to spend 20 minutes putting on jeans. You shouldn't have a problem with your shirt getting over your belly. Your clothes should fit comfortable.
Another thing that is my holy grail as a chubby girls is spanx and things like it. A common mistake when buying spanx is getting a smaller size so it holds in more. DO NOT DO THIS.You WILL have a bad time.
Fabrics you should avoid at ALL costs is thin tight fabrics especially on the legs. It can be alright on your top half sometimes. They expose all your cellulite and rolls and it's just not a look.
Dressing to flatter yourself as a chubby girls still depends on body type though. Ofc the most flattering is dresses that cinch the waist and flare out, which looks good on pretty much any chubby girl. But as for everything else:
Chubby body types:
Pear (large bottom half, small upper half): For pear shapes, you should go for something to slim your bottom half, so compression leggings (because thin ones show cellulite and it's not cute) are really good. Fitted slacks are a more dressy option. Things like pencil skirts can also look cute. I reccomend most of the stuff you wear on your lower half to be dark colors because they're slimming. On your top, stuff like cardigans, blazers, sweaters, etc can be cute and make your top half look more proportionate. Also, loose tops are cute.
Ideal outfit for this body type: A blazer with a not fitted (but not baggy) button down underneath, paired with fitted slacks.
Apple (small bottom half, large top half): The most flattering things are skirts that flare out. Long flared skirts that are made of a stiff fabric (so they hold their shape)are defintely a look. Straight leg pants and slacks are flattering. For your top half, simple stuff like stretchy (mock) turtlenecks, fitted button downs, t shirts, long sleeve shirts, etc. You don't wanna draw attention so avoid jackets if you can.
Ideal outfit for this body type: A fitted button down tucked into a flared knee length skirt
Hourglass (large bottom half, small waist, proportionate bottom half): really, a lot of things will look good on this body type. If you wear something that draws attention to your top half, wear something that equally draws attention to your bottom half (don't wear a blazer with a pair of skinny jeans for example).
Ideal outfit for this body type: Open Cardigan with fitted V-neck shirt, paired with high rise slacks
Column (straight figure with little shape): Making the waist appear smaller is key. Waist cincing skirts, dresses, and pants are flattering. Something like tying your shirt at your waist is cute. High waisted anything is flattering. Belts also bring attention to the waist and make it appear smaller.
Ideal outfit for this body type: Open jacket with button down tuck into a pair of high waisted pants, paired with a snazzy belt.
If this is recieved well, I could write another whole essay on hair and beauty stuff. Sorry again if I wrote too much
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hope this doesnt sound too rude or like i hate fatties because as long as they arent those bitter ones who act superior i really dont care or judge them for their weight. i just want to understand better this mentality of caring about fashion while 'chubby'
i understand a lot of overweight people believe they cant lose weight/its too hard and maybe in some cases slightly overweight is just natural for you just like slightly underweight is natural for many. but more than slightly overweight is laziness, mental illness, gluttony, health problems, etc.
why not work towards a genuinely attractive body? even if you cant stop eating at least maybe stop long enough to go to the gym often and make yourself an attractive form of thick. if you could be thin enough you wouldnt need fashion/makeup just to not look ugly, thin girls can look cute without effort if their face isnt deformed
Some may just like fashion, not for presentation's sake but for the fun of it. Or if it is for presentation, it may make them feel less insecure about their laziness in one aspect if they look less lazy in another.
For me it's a mix of both. I'm trying to lose a bit of weight now (I'm a little smaller than Ashley) by lifting 3x a week and have cut 500calories from my usual diet, but still want to wear nice clothes while doing it. And when I'm thinner I'll still want to e regularly fashionable. It's just enjoyable.
that actually makes more sense to me now, thanks
i just thought especially about shopping for clothes and spending lots of money while really big, if you got thinner it would look better but you wouldnt fit your old clothes, etc
nothing compared to actual chubby girls but i gained a bit of weight one year and bought lots of new skirts to comfort myself, i have to safety pin them all the time now.
its great youre trying to lose weight especially in such a healthy way anon! makes sense you want to look nice while doing so, i guess if you dress 'fat' you wont be in the right mentality for success
>>90090>hope this doesnt sound too rude or like i hate fatties because as long as they arent those bitter ones who act superior i really dont care or judge them for their weight.
The fact that you had to write "fatties" and add a "as long as they…" makes me doubt that…
As for your question, I had an ED for so long that whenever I try to eat just a little less/healthier I immediately revert back to my old sick habits and overdo it. And I never want to have to relive that period of my life again.
people generally call fat people that and dislike the Kelly Jean Drinkwater types. i dont see any reason to sugarcoat stuff on an anon site
i have also struggled with an ED in the past and ED behaviors since then so i do understand at least a bit. i especially know what its like to binge eat because i went through a period of that, but after the first 5 pounds were gained i was so determined to not get average/chubby that i stayed out of the house almost all day exercising as much as i could and made sure my parents stopped buying any of my junk food, so i didnt gain much in the end despite eating every second i could. i guess because of that is why i feel like its possible for anyone to not just eat and eat even though its so fucking hard its not even close to impossible for anyone. there's surgical options, therapy to help with ED habits, and you can even just stop buying unhealthy foods and try to get yourself to prefer healthier foods so thats what youre constantly eating without thinking about it much. smoothies are the shit and you can put in some unhealthy ingredients to make them taste better and its still infinitely better than fast food or whatever
Congrats, you dieted to stop yourself from becoming "average" and succeeded. But why are you telling us this?
This is not a weight loss thread, nobody is interested in your personal life story.
If one single fattie thread on lolcow triggers
you so much that you can't leave it alone, then you might need to hide it. That's my advice for you.
You should really take this to one of the weight loss threads. You can try to tighten up the muscles in that area but spot reduction really is a myth. Sound like you're probably an apple shape, the worst shape to be as a chub. I know because I'm also an apple.
If you really want to get rid of stomach fat get /fit/ and any leftover fat can be lipoed out.
it is true. you can only do things to reduce your overall bodyfat. but the good news is, if your tummy is the place you have the most fat, it might be the first place you lose fat. you can do ab exercises to strengthen your abs, but again, this won't actually cause you to lose fat there more than anything else.
i really like lifting weights for muscle growth to increase my metabolism for fat loss, but if that's not your thing, really anything that gets your heart rate in your target range for 20+ minutes will increase your metabolism if you do it regularly, and thus reduce bodyfat. i bought a fitbit knockoff and i'm lazy so sometimes i walk/run where i'll run for as long as i can stand and then walk until my heart rate starts to go down again, then run again, and my heart rate stays in optimal range.
If you have excess fat on your body you literally cannot starve.
>No one wants to get your damaged brain ana chan.
And no one wants to get your cloggied arteries and atrophied brain. Don't pretend you're any healthier than ana-chans.>>89827
You missed my point. The point of a week-long fasting isn't for weight loss in and of itself, rather to you rid yourself of the idea that something about your body is preventing you from losing weight which so many overweight people tend to have. It's specifically intended for people have trouble losing weight "normally" – who think they're eating correctly and the problem lies with their metabolism or something. It's NOT intended for people who are already sucessful losing weight on a normal diet.(derailing)
Yeah obviously if you have diabetes and blood sugar problems consult your doctor before you make ANY drastic changes to your diet. Does this really need to be stated? People who have these health conditions would already know this. But I imagine most lolcow users are (relatively) young that their bodies haven't caught up to their habits yet. Penn jillette, who has these kinds of health conditions consulted his doctor and did a potato fast for 2 weeks and nothing happened to him.
I stand corrected. Still doesn't change the fact that people saying one week of fasting will hurt you long term is just find excuses.
But what do I even eat?
I will look up the diet. I'm slightly worried as I've read a post by dietician who claims it's meme and unhealty. It does not seem that low but I don't know shit about healthy eating lol. >>92631
Sorry for bringing depressing stuff here. Might have missed a weight loss thread if it exists.
I meant more as in recipes that are not complicated as fuck, but I think that a trip to dietician will do me better than trying to figure stuff myself… For now I will stop eating trash, as this is an obvious first step to changing.
Thanks for your imput though.
Happy and successful sure but not healthy, this is just being delusional.
There is plenty of scientific documentation on the health disadvantages from being overweight.
This is the chubby thread, not the obese thread.
Being in the upper half of normal or the lower half of the overweight category actually IS healthier than being lolcow's beloved ~uwu skinny~.https://www.sciencealert.com/the-healthiest-weight-might-actually-be-overweight-massive-study-finds>A study spanning almost four decades and involving more than 100,000 adults in Denmark has found that those with an ‘overweight' body mass index (or BMI) were more likely to live longer than those in the 'healthy', 'underweight', and 'obese' categories.
Besides, it's not that you care about those people anyways, so fuck off with your fake concern.
Do y'all even realize some people can be chubby and not obese? Ashley Graham and Iskra Lawrence are def chubby, call any of them obese to my face and i'll be sure you're anachan.
Some people are just naturally inclined to be chubby (muh genetics is a thing, it just doesn't apply to hambeasts). Some people are just naturally inclined to be skinny (again, muh genetics, just doesn't apply to anachan spoops).
did you know anon? some people have bigger problems than being suicidal over not being an xs size, wild!
you sound underage, go starve so you can get all the girls in your class jealous
samefag but you're also conflating having a normal attitude towards weight with being extremely confident and accepting of yourself. this is a false dichotomy and another way that you're trying to convince yourself that you have no other choice.
like, i don't like being chubby. i don't like the way it looks, i don't like the way it feels on my body, i don't like how clothes fit. i much prefer the look of pretty low body fat. but i would never sacrifice my emotional well being, energy levels, happiness etc for it. so, when i'm willing and able to be thin by exercise and healthy but filling food, i do so, and when i'm not willing and able, i start to get fat. that's it. it's not strong. it's incredibly common. the average chubster is not some unattainable confident queen divorced from societal influence.
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theres technically medically overweight, and then there is subjectively fat.
Depending on your genetics, build and fat distribution, some people can look better with a bit more weight, while others look significantly worse
>>100807>There’s no special difference just for aesthetics.
yes there is, thats why I made the distinction
there are some ana chans on here who will call anyone over 90 lbs a fatty.
And they are objectively wrong in calling a 90lbs person fat.
Fat is fat. Medically overweight is not categorised as “not fat” because they carry it well. You can invent all sorts of nonsense to cater to spergy Ana-chaos and haes lumps but that doesn’t make them valid.
Overweight is fat.
Did you post these two as examples of one being better than the other?
Is one supposedly “less fat” that the other because it’s in her thighs not her gut? Is this what you think carrying weight well is?
I agree with this, I recently started wearing 40s reminiscent clothes/styling and I feel it suits me well. I'm comfy with my body though (female version of builtfat if you will) and don't feel like changing it too much. Aside from getting more built.
It's especially nice if you're pear or hourglass shaped since most of the dresses highlight the waist.
im not >>100805
but i was always told that people who carry weight in their thighs as opposed to their gut have a lower risk of complications due to obesity. i dont know how true this is though lmfao.
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i guess they really go all out with the photoshop these days
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sometimes thats the case, and sometimes people just inherit the genetic traits of their parents.
i dont see what there is to be triggered
about, everyone knows curvy/thick are just softer/positive words for overweight/fat since fat is a dirty word and usually used in a derogatory way.
also when did this become a fat hate thread? post styling tips or get out
i dont see what there is to be triggered
about, everyone knows curvy/thick are just softer/positive words for overweight/fat since fat is a dirty word and usually used in a derogatory way.
also when did this become a fat hate thread? post styling tips or get out
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you've never been to a porn board, guys get into giant flamewars about people posting apples in "thicc" threads and where the line is between thicc and fat.
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Curvy isn't a different word for fat. It just became that way when fatties started calling themselves that because they can't face the truth.
Curvy is when you have a lot of rounds like Gloria from modern family (pic related)
Also you won't loose your curves unless you drop to an unhealthy weight, unlike fatties who lose their "curves"
No, don’t loose weight. If you can help it that is (maybe you get very nauseated and throw up a lot)
Just don’t gain as much as a normal weight pregnant woman would.
Talk to your doctor
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Curvy or Thick is simply describing someone who is fat but still aesthetically pleasing to the eye.
If you say someone is just fat, usually it means they just look fat, nothing went to the right places.
Like when people say "Bear" they don't just mean a fat guy. They usually mean the type of guy that carries his weight pretty evenly. Guys can get the same terrible genetics that make fat go to all the wrong places.
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sorry but no, that's just what fatties want everyone to believe.
Actually a bear is a man who has both muscles and fat. A man who is fat is just fat.
Would you call >>101210
or Beyonce fat then? Because those are actual curvy women.
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Beyonce did get fat tho. Even in pic related she is sculpted and sucked into oblivion so it's not even her true form
Inb4 b-buh the twinz… the point still stands
>>101221>sorry but no, that's just what fatties want everyone to believe
Lol, why are there posters here who always talk like there's a covert hivemind of fat people who are trying to trick you into thinking whatever the fuck you want?
It's not a conspiracy. Nobody cares what you believe.
The fact still stands that descriptors like "curvy" or "thicc" are used by people to describe fat distributions that they find aesthetically pleasing and that is absolutely subjective.
What's ""thicc"" to one person might be considered morbidly obese to you.
Stop gatekeeping meaningless shit.
I'm not even fat and this is just a driveby comment but you're making obvious false equivalences. Being a bit overweight (or underweight) isn't ideal or healthy, but it's not as inherently, overtly harmful as self harm or full blown eating disorders.
And it's just plain nasty and wrong to say 'you're not cute so don't even try'. Should ugly people not bother trying to dress nicely either? Or people with deformities? Old people? None of those things are biologically designed to be attractive. Fashion is not that unforgiving, people can dress in ways that do make a less than perfect body look more flattered and it's absurd to just give up because being overweight isn't attractive. A fat person is fat whether they dress in conventionally cute outfits or live in sweatpants, there's no reason to dress frumpy and make themselves look even worse if they don't want to.
Just hide the thread, dude.
Let us be unfuckable to you in peace.
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Yeah looks like a pear
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Bumping this thread just in case
Same. I'm not drastically underweight or anything, but it seriously feels like I carry all of my weight in my face. The only time in my life this wasn't the case was when I went paleo for about five months and had virtually no body fat, but I looked super unhealthy at that point and wouldn't go back to it.
I've accepted my cheeks at this point. What bothers me is that I've got a slight double chin despite being fairly thin otherwise.
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I'm 5'9" and I believe I'm somewhere between inverted triangle and hourglass (though it's hard to tell what my bones actually look like because I've basically been kinda chubby ever since hitting puberty rip) with really defined hip dips. I find that jumpsuits with tie waists look really flattering on me, since I can nip things in a little. I also like anything with a bardot neckline, I think they look really feminine and pretty on plus size ladies. Maybe they create the illusion of a smaller neck or waist?
Pic is of Stefania Ferrario, a plus size model. And also my body goals, to be honest.
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That's plus size? That waist looks narrow
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Genetics but also good photography angles.
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Dealing with real life here, no filters
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Ronald McDonald hair>>171863
Bitch is too old to have a Harry Potter pillow on her couch
Are you just stealing pics of chubby normies now? That's kinda weird ngl
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Everyday people who try to dress better and style themselves are better for comparisons and ideas
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Not all women are built like sticks and have the same fat distribution so they can adjust their dresses accordingly
Good looking style beats frumpy anyway
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At a healthy weight range
Because posts like this >>172018
are pure trash that only a scrote could admire
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How do we feel about pinafore dresses? I think they're really cute, but they usually get paired with unflattering mock neck tops. Like picrel would look better with just a crew neck in my opinion. And different shoes.
>>171848>looks like she has no ass
She definitely has a pretty big rear.
Just because someone doesn't have a huge bubble butt doesn't mean they're negative mass kek.
You sound like a scrote but tbf so many farmers say a girl has no ass when they clearly do. It's just not Kim K's surgical exaggeration of one.
The photo is unflattering tho.
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Are black dresses really slimming?
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>>172273>But a fat body is still going to look fat is a black dress.
Going for the black baggy look is a bad idea then?
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I'm not sure a little pudge can be considered "fat" or "obese"
Anon that's not 'a little pudge', >>172308
these are all at least overweight if not clinically obese for some of them. Your idea of what fat is, is way skewed.
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Would you go more about body shape or about BMI to classify "fat", "obese", and "chubby"?
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Here's how I see it:
Higher end of healthy BMI is chubby
BMI 25+ is fat
Nta, but for me personally the face trade-off when losing weight isn't worth it for me. I've yo-yo'd all over the place and I gotta say my face after losing weight easily ages me by like 10 years.
The extra fluff on my face I get from carrying an extra 15-20 lbs really acts like facial fillers. I prefer it tbh.
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These are all between 21 and 24
And in any case: healthy doesn't always equate with "good looking". You can "look healthy" and "be healthy" which are different things. Proper body composition is another thing: an obese person and a super skinny person are unhealthy.
Probably not the thread to talk about this…
Then BMI is a thing which is more about numbers and not the mirror, the adjective chubby is more about appearance
A muscular girl with a high BMI is most likely not chubby