No. 37308
Source :
https://substack.com/home/post/p-149034490Moral of the story :
> Never give up your financial autonomy for marriage and children> Never assume that your man is never going to cheat, or use protection while cheating> Never have sex without protection with your partner, no matter how long you've been together> If you end up a homemaker, find side hustles to help you accumulate money on the side No. 38505
I am kind of a trad wife I guess, but it wasn't an active decision, it was a 'natural' process, idk. Before, I had a job and not that much money, but still, it was mine. Now, I have no money of my own, no job and a gap in my CV of many years of not being working. Thank God I have my children whom I adore with all my heart, but I cannot get out of this marriage. If I tried to divorce or separate, I would not be able to have the kids by myself, since I'm not going to earn enough to even rent a house in the area we live and I cannot remove the kids from their school. Also, I know he would hire the best attorney and my children's life would be miserable in the process. I'm completely trapped here.