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I like my boobs fine but bras are just the worst and I struggle so hard to find good ones. Even reading through stuff like >>135409
, using calculators and measuring tape, getting professionally fitted, etc. The only bras I've ever liked are random shitty kmart ones that are ugly but happen to be comfortable. And that's a crapshoot, I'll buy the same size in a different style and it will fit badly. But the time I got professionally fitted and bought a bunch of expensive bras at their recommendation, they were all uncomfortable and poorly fitted. It was such a waste of money I can't bring myself to try anything but cheap bras.
I think the problem is I have a wide ribcage with small boobs and I must be particularly sensitive to tightness in that area. It's the same with sports bras, it feels like it's always too tight, even if I go up multiple sizes. I also feel like straps are often too short and don't extend long enough to sit comfortable.
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Am kinda happy with my tits but they have rather puffy areolas and when I bend down they look like pic related. Not a concern in my daily virginal life kek but makes me kinda embarrassed thinking about any future partners ever seeing them from that angle. They get less like that when I put on weight but I am like smack dab the middle of BMI so I would rather the fuck not.
Overall I spent many years hating my tits and wishing they were smaller because they developed early and I wanted to reject the notion of me being female (read: sexism and objectification) but I have grown to accept them over the years. Besides the nipples/thing above.
Same anon, I feel you
I even feel kinda guilty when taking my bra off before sex, they're not prepared for the disappointement.
I couldn't care less about the size, I just want a decent boob shape
I thought about getting reduction surgery but my mom had to get her breasts removed and then build up again with implants due to health reasons and it didn't turn out well at all, she's super unhappy about it. Plus I'm still a student, so atm I wouldn't have the money for it.
In my country if they're really big, so that you've get back pain, they might grant you surgery for free, but that's certainly not the case for me.
Has anybody had surgery already? Are there good clinics for especially that?>>135486
Damn, I'm jealous, that's exactly what I would want.
Having large ones just always makes you look like a bimbo if you attempt to wear something that's not completely baggy.
They’re perky and even. The nipple on my left is a little oddly shapen, but I don’t mind it any more. I hate how my chest is veiny.
Can I ask you a couple of questions? How old were you when you got it done? What size were you before and after? And how much did it cost?
I know that some people would tell me being a D is still okay, and it's not like I have any pain whatsoever, so I'm a bit worried that a surgeon would just tell me off.
If I got skinnier I might could go back to a C cup but a B like in my earlier teens is probably pretty much impossible.
Yeah, and they're quite dark. Yeah, a guy would notice but if he gives you shit about it then he wasn't worth undressing for.
I pluck them sometimes but they just grow back
I'm exactly the same anon, it's comforting to know somebody else is in the same boat. The only boobs I've ever really seen that look like mine have been early transition trans women.
I started smoking when I was 14 and also had a brief sort-of eating disorder around the same age, I always wonder if either of those things sort of stunted their growth?
I'm a DD and I go braless mostly in the winter months. I have back issues that get worse in the cold but I take advantage of having multiple layers on and go braless whenever I have hoodies or a jacket on anyway.
I feel too exposed doing it in just a t-shirt or single layer.
Literally same! I didn't even know there's anything wrong with my boobs until I came across it online one day when looking up something unrelated.
I kinda accepted they will never look "nice" as I would never get breast surgery. I cringe at the thought of having fillers there.
Sorry for doubleposting, I'm the anon from >>135744
If it makes anyone feel better 99% of men will not notice shit. I have never gotten a single comment and all of them were just happy to play with them idk
I am not sure how that would work with women but I can't imagine anyone minding much tbh if they're a decent human being.
My mom had a lump checked out at our local family planning centre (probably the equivalent to say planned parenthood in the us?) sadly it did turn out to be cancer and her diagnosis was pretty swift after an exam led to a quick referral to hospital. At no point did they pester her go get a gyno exam. If you have a clear concern over a lump or change in breast tissue they will concentrate on that issue.
Are you overdue for a smear test and worried because of that?
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my tits have started sagging noticeably. i'm 27 and they look like pic related. is this tragic or is this normal as you get into your late twenties?
they were perfect when i was 20, i considered them my best physical attribute. now they're kind of sad.
mine are saggier and smaller than the picture and im 21 lmao
I am sure yours are really great anon!
I feel so much less alone now!! I get a decent amount of hair around my nipples too but it's pretty unnoticeable except a few strands, which always end up ingrown. I've had scarring to at least some extent for around two years because it's a never-ending cycle of healing them, getting bothered by the ugly ingrown dots when they grow back, plucking, and repeat. I'm planning on getting laser hair removal once the corona bullshit blows off because I think it'd be a worthwhile investment.
Otherwise, I like my boobs tbh. They're small but perky and getting nipple piercings has helped me feel like they can actually be ~sexy~.
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Anybody here get insecure about their areolae? Mine are quite large and my sister used to call them “burger nipples”.
I have many reasons for not wanting kids but maintaining the structural integrity of my vag/boobs is near top of the list. I don't want to fuck them up and I don't want surgery, I can't stand the thought of permanent changes to my body.
I thought big boobs held up better after breastfeeding compared to small boobs though, I have small ones and don't wanna end up looking like gimpgirl.
I think it depends on genetics. I have two kids (different ages), breastfed them until they were 15 months, and my boobs are as perky as they were before. I went from a 34b to 34F (while breastfeeding) and then down to a 34c. I have just a couple of stretchmarks on each boob but that's it.
My sister had the same results (except her boobs were smaller so after she was done with her kid she got implants).
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Ever since i read about tubular breasts I got anxious to see if mine were. I’m not really sure what my breast shape is tbh since Ive grown up fat all my life but I’m sure that they were meant to be small
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Hairy nip girls, does it ever go away? Have any of you plucked, shaved, waxed, lasered your titty hairs and they STAY gone? I'm just getting real tired of plucking and hoping one day they will be too weak and brittle to even grow back, but this has been going on for some years now…
Plucked mine from my teens til my late twenties and it made no difference here. Always grew back the same.
I leave em alone now, just happy that my body hair stopped bothering me after all those years of obsessing over it
what was your size before and after the reduction? how saggy were they compared to now? was it just a reduction, or reduction + lift?
i've thought about it but all the before/after pics i find have had a lift and/or implants…
Really? Well then I must have naturally anti-gravity boobs. Which one is more likely?
Jokes aside, the most important part, not having kids, has nothing to do with gravity. I admit the rest could just be lucky genetics, but working out and not having them hang loose surely benefited at least a bit.
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Has anyone had a breast lift? I had kids stupidly young and now I'm 23 with super saggy boobs (they look like grade 3) I've worked hard to get in shape but my boobs make it all seem pointless. I want to get a breast lift but I'm nervous about it and would like to hear from people who either have really saggy boobs or had them but got them fixed. Any advice on making them look perkier is super welcome.
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guess mine are around 75cm
what about you anons
I just realized that's a SC chart HAH.
I am Tira.>>137214
It's tempting anon but really think about it because the scars are pretty bad. Momokun got it and I can see her lollipop scars every now and then even thru her shoop because she redid her areola too.
Note that if you have significant sagging it is impossible to do the breast lift without redoing your areola.
Imo unless you're personally affected because you don't have gravity-defying boobs, no one else cares about the sagging. I've literally had guys tell me it's just because my tits are big. Basically the sagging is expected, anyone who isn't a porn-addicted cumbrain understands how volume and gravity work.
I feel like mine is the last one, they're saggy but my nipples aren't low or pointing downwards…? What causes that?
Also, does anybody else have the problem that their tits sit low in general, like not even sagging, they just naturally grew too low on your ribcage?
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some of you guys need to go look at the types of nudes guys share between each other. Everyones got their own preferences. There is no "perfect ideal"
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anon mine are grade 3 too! kinda look like pic related.
I've thought about getting a lift too, but I'd be afraid of them being botched and ending up looking like Himeka/Angela's. Doesn't seem worth it in the end.>>137303
I mean I was under the impression that most people don't care. Most decent people anyway.
How were they ruining your life, they sounded like a blessing?>>135505
Large breasts causing back pain is mostly a myth. Back pain is one of them most common ailments for both men and women and it's usually caused by a mixture of poor posture, pinched nerves, not working on flexibility, and obesity. Getting a breast reduction just for the potential of getting back pain in the future is misguided.
I have most possibly the ugliest breasts in existence and I still need to find a woman with similar ones.
They're a D/E cup, saggy as hell, and big. (think >>137314
but more triangular in shape)
However the breast tissue starts under my armpits. I thought with losing weight it would go down but nah, they still start under there.
I can put my whole hand in between my tits, to the point where even if i wear a cute bra and a tight shirt I still have a big ass gap in between them. Even if I squish them together there's still a gap there.
Oh and to end it all, i have pancake nipples.
Even my mother admits my tits are tragic.
I can't wait to get them done.
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My boobs are probably my biggest insecurity. Last time I got them measured they were D cups, but they look pretty average sized. It’s their shape that bothers me, they seem really low-set so there’s this unflattering area of flatness at the top of my chest, and then beneath that my boobs bulge out. My nipples are low on the boob, not facing downwards but kind of outwards, it’s like two water balloons coming off my chest. One of them is a little lower than the other as well. I just wish they were rounder and fuller — actually, I’d rather just be flat. It’s weird how much it bothers me, knowing if it was on another girl I’d see no problem at all.
Hey it's me you're looking for! Exact same description lol, including the the distance between them and the massive hideous areolas. Fuck my entire life honestly, I have never been able to undress with a partner without feeling unbearable shame, and even on my own I'm repulsed if I see myself in the mirror. It sucks the joy out of getting fit or finding cute clothes, what's even the point when no one would ever find me genuinely hot without clothes.
I'm also going to get a lift. I already tried getting the areolas reduced, which was a really quick operation under local analgesia, and it did make them perky enough because so much skin was removed, but who would've guessed it, in a few months they had stretched back to the original size. I stg I'm going to fix them, I don't want to feel like this anymore.
Hey, I'm just a nobody (straight female to boot lol).
But at least that image isn't as bad as you guys seem to make it to be.
I think the ones pictured has some beauty to them, just like many other breasts out there.
Any boy- or girlfriend worth their salt shouldn't complain imo.
I'm OP coming with an update cause why not.
Do you girls both also have the "boob starting under armpit" thing too?
Cause it's being my nightmare right now.
They reopened shops here so my mother and I quickly went looking for clothes, I needed new bras. To my surprise I'm a full E cup, not a D. (I didnt gain weight I just forgot lmao) In my country it's very hard to find cute E bras..
However, what is making my shopping journey impossible right now is the under-arm boobs. I hate the fat deposit there. Every bra looks EXTREMELY bad on me unless it has additional vertical underwire on the straps.
My mother even looked confused at me and asked:"Wait why do you have fat there??" out of frustration as everything looked bad on me.
Thanks mother.. I'm build like this. Whatever.
I'm 23 btw I'm just close with her and we like shopping together.
To add, since first anon said she hates her big areolas and got them done: I don't hate mine per se, I think the shape of my boobs and unfortunate structure is far worse than the big areolas. When I talk boob job, I talk a whole re-shaping.. which would probably cost me a fortune :(
I also recently got a small-boobed gf and I already feel like dying at the thought of undressing in front of her.
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Do shallow 28D cup breasts 'look' closer to A-cups or B-cups?
Fuck I can relate so much. Thank you for making me feel not alone dear anons. I couldn't care less about size, but fuck the deflated sag and huge and wrinkly areolas. They have been like that since earliest development. On top I have such a veiny chest, so I look like a map. I have an hourglass figure, a nice face, but my boobs look like shit, in every position. I hate taking my clothes off, I even look stupid in most bras, I can't find a well looking bikini and push ups don't work for me at all.
I have always felt like I'm the only young person with sad saggers and I've been self conscious for decades now.
I really want surgery but am afraid and poor. fml
Ugh you're not the only one, I always looked like that from the time my breasts developed and I waited for them to become pretty but turns out that's not how it works.
I feel like shit reading the replies to support threads where women with small breasts talk about their insecurities, which are also very valid
of course, just the responses are always like "many guys like small breasts, all boobs are great to us so don't worry we're just happy if we get to play with boobs haha! And at least small breasts aren't saggy, that's much worse, saggy boobs are so disgusting and gross and I had an ex whose ugly boobs looked like two oven mitts and I was so revolted. So don't worry, your breasts are good, all boobs are so nice and women stress about this way too much!!!"
I've been saving a bunch of money and will get surgery after this corona shit is over. I hate seeing the moment of hidden disappointment even in kind guys who want to make me feel confident, I just want to enjoy being intimate without all this shame and stress. It makes me cry tears of joy to think it doesn't have to be this way if I get in a relationship again. I've gotten so much stronger and leaner too during quarantine, I would actually love my body so much, finally.
Samefag from above, I totally feel you anon, could've written this myself.
> Tears of you joy to think it doesn't have to be this way
I hate waking up naked just to make sure my own bf doesn't see an inch of my breasts in broad daylight.
I hope your surgery goes well and that you can enjoy your new found self-love. I too will save up because honestly, all the scarring and debt couldn't be uglier than what I have now. I've tried so long to love myself and accept my body as it is but I just can't and it's about time to feel secure in my own skin.
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I know most breasts are asymmetrical but mine bothers me so much. I think my right was is super nice and I like the way it looks, but my left one sags significantly more. Right is all cute and perky and the left goes almost underneath itself.
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the right side of my face is my good side but my left tit is the better tit
The term would be breast tissue which I mentioned already.
And it's not easy to tell. There are far more fakebois and FtMs than fitgirls (and fitgirls can get flat). So all the search engine results for getting a flatter chest just point to surgery or FtM stuff.
I didn't like them when I was growing them and I still don't like them, it doesn't mean I want to take hormones or graft a sausage made out of my arm skin onto my crotch.
Going to have to question "desperate" or any negative connotation. I find exercise as a healthier way of going about this than going under the knife, or trying to convince myself that I'm the opposite gender and something "wrong" happened just because I'd be androgynous.
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Anyone else have axillary/accessory breast tissue? Mine looks like pic related but a bit less noticeable. I went and got it checked out earlier this year because it was a sore lump, and I thought it could be a swollen lymph node or worse. Nope, the doctor told me that during fetal development, we have vestigial mammary stem cells along the "milk line", which runs down each side of the torso like where cat/dog/etc nipples are. Usually these go away leaving only our 2 human breasts but sometimes the process gets fucked up and leaves a patch of breast tissue behind. This is also apparently how some people have 3rd nipples. Mine changes size slightly with my menstrual cycle along with my normal breast tissue.
I'm wondering if anyone has experience with this, did their tissue change size when they gained weight? I don't mind how mine looks now, it is a bit asymmetrical but not enough that I want surgery, but it does get sore and tender often and if it got much bigger it would start to be a problem aesthetically. Have you had any other problems with it?
That's the exact amount of weight I lost. Obviously it's different for everyone, but mine got significantly smaller, like down 3 cup sizes. They're not as full as they were, but not necessarily saggy either. The biggest bummer is the tiny stretch marks I had there got much more noticeable. Turns out you get stretch marks not only from gaining weight, but from losing it too. Ive still gotten compliments on them, so it can't be that bad I guess.
I've heard microneedling is good for stretch marks, but I'm scared to do that on my tits. Does anybody know anything about that?
I've been arguing with the shitty anons over their nasty posts about Kiwi specifically thinking of posts like >>142822
, your reaction is exactly what I was worried about.
Do they really think their words have no impact on anyone other than the person they're criticizing? When you call them out on it, they have every excuse in the book. Like oh, she deserves it because she's a bad person, she deserves it because she's naked on the internet, it's her job to have a perfect body. But that's not how reality works, anyone who looks similar will feel insulted. And the dumbest part is… she has a great body and nice boobs. It's totally unwarranted and I honestly just think they're jealous. They really can't stand girls getting attention from men for any reason and have a knee jerk reaction to pick on anything they possibly can. And since she's got a nice body, they have to go for her nipples.
Ah yes I think I saw you on there
Ya know it’s hypocritical cuz I obviously am on this website, but there is a lot of nasty vibes coming off of some farmers.
There’s a lot of girls who self admittedly like to cause negativity and arguments on the threads, and on top of that imageboard culture thrives on internalized misogyny.
That kiwi chick is cute as hell, she seems annoying but wtf so does everyone else on the Internet. I feel like the people tearing apart her image are feuding for what shoes going through, even though they hate her
anon and I also read the Kiwi nitpick >>143052
mentioned. I wanted to post in here again but whatever, it seems to be a moot point. It's not that I'm not nitpicky myself sometimes, but usually it's about stuff that people could fix. Never about stuff like stretchmarks, cellulite or how someone is built. You can't perk up saggy boobs. There are slim girls with saggy breasts and big nipples. It really makes me sad and I just think that I'm right and no other young person looks like me and can relate. Those boobs are just not seen anywhere. I guess I will just have to spend thousands of dollars to look ok.
It's unnecessary and should be banned imo. The kinds of people that go on and on about a cow's parts (esp vagina and breasts) are doing nothing but clog threads and spread shitty incel tier body image. I don't doubt the people that talk shit have body image issues themselves but it's better to take away their ability to vomit their brain-damage out at everyone. Maybe if they stop being able to nitpick cows, they will learn that nitpicking isn't fruitful to anybody.
Legitimate cows have qualities besides being sort of ugly so it won't degrade board quality to ban these people on-sight.
Mine are pierced, does that count?
I have to admit that I find erect nipples kind of nicer than inverted ones.
So it can relate to being horny. The more you know.
Glad I'm not alone!>>143260
I guess it counts. Perky is perky.
Yeah, they look nice but somehow I still got insecure because I feel different.
Google 'nipple close up' and you will see lots of variation, but also some gross stuff.
I have no pleasurable feeling in mine either and know a friend with the same, maybe you will feel something in them one day but maybe not. It's up to you if you want to keep trying to feel something there but just never waste your time by lying about it or forcing yourself to put up with something you don't enjoy.
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I found this weird scar/blister on my right tit after taking off my shirt to shower. It originally had dark, dead skin over it until I accidentally removed it then it started hurting, I haven’t touched it since then and now it looks infected or something.
I have no idea what’s going on but I hope it’s not breast cancer.
It’s been like that for a few days, please help!
Just a blister; keep it clean and let it scab over- try wear things that won't rub against it.
So far it looks very sore so expect to wait a few days for it to heal.
thanks, im still recovering. i feel better in my body though :) totally recommend!
don't touch them. I pulled out one niphair when I was a teen and the hair that came back was dark. A decade later and I still have one dark hair poking out even though the rest is blonde and I keep pulling it out
also it's normal
Similarly, I can always tell when a disgusting male is writing a script because in movies, small breasted women will get made fun of by women with bigger boobs which just… doesn't happen??? Not that I've seen in real life ever.
"Itty Bitty Titty Committee" was probably invented by a man. Then make writers inserted it into female dialogue.
That's because your hair gets darker as you get older, not because you plucked it. Shaving or waxing does not make your hair grow back thicker or darker, that is a myth.
Hormonal changes are the reason this happens, also when you shave your hair the ends are blunt instead of pointed, which makes the hair that grows back appear thicker.
I’ve always had small boobs imo and used to be really insecure about it (tbf, I’m really tiny with a small frame so like, now I know d-cups would look absolutely ridiculous on me) but I’ve had partners tell me I had big/perfect tits. It’s one of those things where it’s like, to each their own, I’m not gonna get triggered
by girls with big tits cause they’re hot and we just have different looks & different guys will appreciate different things. Being insecure past the age of 19 is so passé lol.
I wasn't talking about that movie.
Itty Bitty Titty Committee is a phrase that came before the movie. And I'm saying, I think a dude probably invented that phrase.
Additionally, the movie is satirical LGBT movie and the plot doesn't involve women making fun of other smaller breasted women.
Mine are grade 3 since they popped up during puberty.
Truly disgusting and with big areolas too.
i'm gonna keep it real with u; surgery is the only solution if you want to make them less saggy. i had a reduction a couple of months after i turned 18. my boobs were well past grade 3 and i felt so terrible about them, they almost reached my belly button. for almost two years (from age 15-17) i desperately looked for natural ways to change them, but there aren't any if your breasts are that saggy. my best advice is to either learn how to accept & love them or to get surgery.
i got a reduction + a lift 6.5 years ago. i do have some light scarring, but i don't mind. i was past an H cup pre-surgery i think (it's long ago and i don't think i ever found the right bra size), now I use C/D (i have a very wide ribcage btw). my breasts weren't only saggy, they were also way too huge compared to the rest of my body and were a legitimate health issue as they fucked my back up. i got everything covered (except the post-surgery bra lol, that was like $35). however, i would 100% have saved up for the surgery if i had to.
because i was so young when getting a breast reduction (my surgery was like, 3-4 weeks after my consultation) i didn't really have time to think about the risks, i was more focused on my final exams tbh. a part under my nipple on my right breast (where the scar goes straight down) is numb, but i don't mind. my nipples became more sensitive after the surgery, but i have heard that some can lose the feeling in their nipples. i had the "anchor" method done, but know there are other methods that don't leave as much scarring.
truthfully i'm 100% satisfied with my breasts atm, the surgery changed my life for the better.
What is your actual size, anon?
If they really are small and it's not just your own perception tricking you, maybe consider surgery? I'd usually never recommend this but it sounds like it's a huge deal for your confidence so getting them surgically enhanced might be a game changer in how you feel about yourself.
yea, went from a 34B to a 32C
but apparently those are "sister sizes"
i'm dumb. wtf is a sister size?
theyre the same "circumference"
just different ratio of cup size to band size. in that example, 32c is smaller band size and increased cup size, but still the same bust size altogether as 34 b
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AaH i hate how much smaller my left boob is compared to my right. My bras dont even fit correctly because of it, its like almost 2 cups of difference (well i didnt actually measure it but it feels and seems like it). I hope so much that maybe my left breast will grow a bit bigger so that the difference isnt that bad. Im thinking of doing some exercise for my left breast but im not sure if it will help much.
Decided to lose 15 kilos and get a breast lift and make them even too.
gl on your weight loss, you can do it anon! I hope your surgery goes well to!
Idk how i feel about surgery myself, i just think its annoying that i most bras dont fit properly. I'm hoping that i wont have to get surgery to make the difference smaller. I know most women have different sized breast but i feel like my difference is bigger then most women. I'm also 19 so if i do get surgery it will probably be 10 years later kek.
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I hate how consuming porn in my preteen and early teen years has made me hate my breasts for the longest time. I never saw anyone IRL or even in porn have the same breast/nipple shape and it made me feel so insecure.
They look like something between >>136108
and pic rel and I feel like they're really saggy for my age (I'm almost 20). My nipples are almost always puffy and spherical with big areolas, even more than pic rel. My partner likes them and thinks they're "unique", but god, I would much rather be normal.
What helped me immensely with hating my terrible nipples was getting them pierced, so anons, if your pain tolerance allows for that, I can't recommend that enough. I love how the piercings look on me and they actually made my puffy nipples look a lot more "normal".
…these are not saggy boobs at all.
No offense but some of you need to be slapped lmao.
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Those are perfectly normal and attractive boobs. All natural breasts even on the youngest women have a "slope" to them (unless they're quite small) due to gravity. And I promise, guys aren't picky. Fake and real, large and small, most are into all of them lol. Personally I think the common porn image of balloon tits that don't move and are just kinda mountains stacked on top of a chest look stupid, so I'm glad you realize that stuff isn't typical. And I don't want to link out to it here, but I can assure you there is also a lot of porn with women who have natural breasts.
You sound fine. I have huge areolas for what that might matter, so you'd think I should have extra reactive nipples, but nothing. I touch myself and I can feel the pressure but there's nothing arousing about it and even the actual touch sensation is minimal. Boyfriend does the same, touches with fingers, tongue, also nothing. Barely feel it even if he literally bites them.
I've actually found that very light, sort of ticklish touching along the sides of my breasts feels nice, so you might need to experiment more or it may be that your breasts just aren't a very sensitive area for you. Nothing wrong with that.
Nta, but I can answer the other two questions:
>Also, are they uncomfortable in bras?
No, you won't notice them at all once the initial pain and sensitivity is gone
>Are there any particular cons?
It takes a year for them to heal and there's always a chance of them getting snagged on stuff if you're not careful, other than that there are really none>>148275
Some dudes have really sensitive nipples, wonder if that's maybe where it came from?
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>can you elaborate how piercings changed your nipples?
Of course! Like I said before, I have really puffy nipples 90% of the time. IDK how to explain it better, but before I got the piercings, there would be absolutely no definition between where the nipple part ends and where the areola begins, it felt like the areola was kind of… flowing over into the nipple area? It was just sphere-shaped like in pic related.
After the piercing there's now a noticeable definition between the nipple and areola and if I go braless, my nipples look "normal" through my shirt. Does wonders for my confidence, ngl.
Other than that, what anon in >>148289
says is pretty much true, but I'll elaborate a bit more-
>Are there any particular cons?
The piercing hurt only a little, it feels like someone pinches your nips and that's it. They were a bit sore for like 1-2 weeks after the procedure, though. It hurt when I accidentally slept on them, but other than that, I can't recommend it enough! You gotta avoid swimming in unknown water until they're healed, though. I didn't even let them touch pool water until about 6 months in, and even then, I wore waterproof bandages. You gotta take care of them like a baby!!
>Also, are they uncomfortable in bras?
I can't really say, anon, I didn't really wear bras to begin with (they gave me terrible backaches) and I stopped wearing them completely for the healing process. I'm slowly starting to wear them again for workout reasons (don't like my titties flapping around in the wind), and I don't even notice the piercings being there unless I've snagged them on something. Hope that answers your questions hehe
Nta, but nothing really changes>>148394
I even wear low cut shirts now without a bra (but tuck them in so nothing can accidentally show). If you're worried about nips showing you can get pasties
thank you boo <3
Damn Im a 32E. My whole life I thought I was a 34B/ C.
tfw live in japan and theres NO way they'll have that cup size, anywhere.
Please dont take this in a rude way anon, but could you just have a fetish for extremely large breasts? A quick google on macromastia and it looks incredibly painful and sad to live through.
It is mostly grass is greener. I wish a had smaller cute breasts because you can get really cute bra options.
I don't think it's a fetish since I have no actual sexual feelings towards breasts, just a fascination with large ones. And I don't want them to be unmanageably huge, just maybe 3-4 cup sizes bigger. Anything that interferes with daily life sounds horrific. I've tried nearly every avenue short of surgery. Suppliments, herbal treatments, strength training my pectorals.
As for bras, I've never had much of a problem with the selection for me. Actually finding my band + cup is a challenge (and expensive) but I have no desire to have especially cute or fancy underwear.
Kek my mom did this shit too, only she has large breasts and would constantly disparage any woman with small tits. Any time she got in an argument or didn't like some random woman (including any female relative), she'd always say they were just jealous of her big boobs.
After I went through puberty, she'd make unsolicited jabs about my breasts, how they're "not really that
big," and humblebrag about big boob problems, but "you're only a C cup, so you don't really get it." Weird as hell.
My grandma always brings up how big a woman's boobs are, like if we're out shopping or she sees someone on the TV. I find it so weird and unnecessary. And she even says it with young teenage girls, like there'd be one on TV and she'd comment on how big her boobs already are and it's just so inappropriate >>149384
Fucking sucks you had to go through that anon, I hope you're in a happier place
Does she think she's paying you the best compliment ever cos big boobs are so desirable in her eyes?
My weird memory is when I had grown some c cups and I knew it was time to get a bra. I had to wear my heavy school jumper (school had a uniform) during the summer because my breasts would show through the light coloured shirts that we wore underneath. Other girls could wear just the shirt because they were all wearing bras well before me despite being the same or behind me in terms of development.
I had to ask my mom, she made me strip in front of her to prove I had breasts (you could see I had them even in clothes, I was underweight around the waist and then had these pokey shaped c cup breasts) Only then did she agree and buy me the most childish training bras that you see actual kids wearing. I don't know why she was so reluctant. Looking back I had bigger breasts at that time than half my friends have as adults, there was no need to strip to prove it and no need to get a training bra instead of an actual bra.
When I got my period the same happened, no prep, no giving me products in advance and I had to prove that I had bled in order to get that pack of towels. Then I wasn't allowed try tampons.. I think she wanted to keep me young.
All the time I wish I never developed so early, the psychological damage was pretty bad, and it took a long time before I finally understood none of it was my fault. My mom would treat me really badly and yell at me a lot, accusing me of strange things I didn’t understand because I was only 11-14 and just wanted to play with my friends. My stepdad would peep on me in the bathroom. I started restricting a lot by 12, tried the whole “chewing and spitting” thing before I became a fullblown bulimic at late 13. It didn’t matter how thin my body got, the breasts and hips were still there and it made me feel disgusting. I stopped wearing shorts and shorts sleeves and wore sweatshirts even when it was hot outside. The way you’re treated as a little girl with breast development can be really scary, I hope that doesn’t sound dramatic but it’s very true, but I guess it varies by what you look like and where you live. Anyways looking back as an adult a lot of things I couldn’t process or understand now make sense and they’re all horrifying lol. I’m angry for the child I was and I don’t think I will ever be able to get back the parts of me that were stolen so early, even now I try my best to rationalise everything but it still makes me sad. I see girls lamenting over being flat and I’m extremely jealous, being sexualised when I didn’t even know anything about sex was really detrimental to me. I recovered from my eating disorder in my early 20s but it’s really hard to reconcile with the self loathing, I still hate that people talk about my chest and I hate the way men look at it. It isn’t complimentary to me because I don’t find the attention flattering, it just makes me feel bad. Idk.
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Yeah I definitely think there’s a link between being sexually objectified as a kid and eating disorders. Relevant research paper:https://www.apa.org/education/ce/sexual-objectification.pdf
Nta but Jesus this shit pisses me off
Hope it gets better for anons out there struggling.
Thank you! I'm sick of internet media/society/culture only valuing small breasts on smol ppl like fuck you? I'm tall with broad shoulders and no (basically 0) boobs but not tall or ana enough to be a supermodel so apparently I'm a "fridge" just really rustled my jimmies>>149848
I hope you find a decent dr my friend only needed a letter from a therapist no hormones or anything (well cause she's cis) she just wanted a reduction. Fishy how you dont need Jack shit for silicone balloons
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My boobs used to look like first pic when I was around 18-21, now I'm 25 and they look more like second pic. They've dropped a lot. I gained and lost 10 kg since then (haven't had kids, though I was pregnant until week 12 once and they were swollen af already) but I think it's mostly genetic, my mom has huge saggy boobs too and she's been at her ideal weight her entire life.
I feel so weird about it. I used to really like my boobs and now I don't even recognise them when I look in the mirror. It happened so fast, too. I just feel like a mountain of flubber, especially when I sit down without a bra. I can fit and carry around a whole ass remote control under my boobs.
My boyfriend tells me they're perfect and like his dream boobs, thank god he isn't a coomer. Is this worth considering surgery for? I've read that chest excercise doing wonders for your boobs is a myth.
I'm so scared of what will happen if I ever have children, I don't want them to sag down to my belly button.
Both boobs in the picture are beautiful. I really don't see whats wrong with the second picture. Everyone I know 25+ has those saggier boobs unless they're an A-cup.
I may be biased though as a bisexual.
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Just like in pic, for the first time ever when I’m massaging my tiddies I can see the axillary nodes really clearly… losing my marbles over this
I have the same issues except they are large and starting to sag due to the cup size. Completely know what you mean re: big areola - if I could just reposition them a little higher or somehow shrink them I’d almost not want the whole breast to be lifted. However I also hate having big boobs so am saving for a reduction/uplift
It’s a big decision to make and you could use the time you spend saving for research. I know YouTube is full of sensationalist storytimes but I do recommend watching Nelly London’s video about her breast surgery. Her surgery went very wrong but it’s informative and not just ‘pity me’. Her body rejected the stitches which messed up her healing massively - that’s a risk you’ll have to consider
Also look at average women’s breasts (online unless you have that kind of access irl lol). It’s a minefield as even then, you get a skewed perspective of women confident enough to share their photos. Even though I don’t follow celebrities, I found that I was basically comparing my body to Barbie and doing that made me guaranteed to find flaws. Get some perspective
Also most guys don’t really care - boobs are boobs. Sure there are some guys with very high standards out there (usually the ones who put fuck all effort in themselves) but if a guy is fucking you, he thinks you’re hot. Forget their feelings and focus on how your boobs make YOU feel
Mine are similar but bigger, always been saggy and wide set too (so I can’t wear anything with cleavage). I’ve had one friend make a mean comment about it once but it didn’t affect me, it says more about her bitchiness than about me. Though I am a bit more careful about turning my back when changing now. No one I’ve slept with ever had a problem with my boobs either, but maybe I have the size going for me in that regard so I don’t know if that’s helpful.
Anon if I may give some unasked for advice - you can always decide to get the surgery later. Please don’t let plastic surgery stand in the way of other, more important life goals in terms of money.
Here's a gallery that features some natural boobs of different shapes and sizes.
This is why I hate titpicking. I'm all for calling out cows for their cowish behaviours but the nitpicking of their boobs is just… too much. Especially considering that boob size and shape is largely genetic, it's not like you have much of a choice.
>you can always decide to get the surgery later. Please don’t let plastic surgery stand in the way of other, more important life goals in terms of money
Also seconding this
Thanks for your feedback. As for the areola, honestly they’re not the biggest but if they were posted here I’d never hear the end of it, kinda like Kiwi’s or a bit bigger? But yeah when I lift my breasts by myself, I’m totally ok with their size suddenly. I realised that they just make my tits saggier compared to gals that have very small areola and same placement.
I know they’re totally normal and healthy boobs, albeit not the best looking out there (not the worst looking either). It sucks that I live in a city where people often re-do their tits, and lots of Brazilians girls live here too. Never seen as many tit jobs before I moved. Even a few friends had one and I think they healed nicely.>>150442
Forgot to add but they’re ALSO wide set ahah. Like they’ll never have that cleavage line effect unless I wear a push-up bra. But honestly I don’t mind that issue personally, it’s one of the least offensive trait to me.>>150443
Totally agree on the sentiment.
I also know that tits come in a variety of shapes and looks, but honestly as a bi girl, I don’t especially find mine attractive and I’m not sure I’d be attracted if someone had super tubular tits for example.
That makes me even more self-conscious when I’m flirting with women than men. I had one woman call them squishy lovingly (?) but it just made me feel more conscious of them.
They do, just go to Bradelis instead of cheaping out at somewhere like Peach John. They can do really professional, in-depth fittings too.
I swear some English speakers in this country need to learn how to do a proper google search in jp. Just because most cheap shit fast fashion clothes don’t fit doesn’t mean bigger/properly sized options don’t exist.
Yea i go braless at home. I've heard about it helping too but honestly i'm confused since some people and articles say gravity is the culprit, too strong support is bad and an unsupportive bra is bad too, i don't know anymore.
Should my bra allow for some bounce or something? What is the truth here
i got one a year ago and it was the best decision ive made>Im a C cup but I pretty small framed, would a doctor agree to give me an A cup, or even an AA?
that entirely depends on your body structure and the surgeon them self, i wanted to be an A cup (was a F before + with a small frame) but my doctor took me to a B and mentioned that was as small as he could go; some people with the same proportions have gone done to an AA
i recommend checking out r/reduction on reddit since there are lots of commonly asked questions/concerns that others have experienced and addressed there (+ before/after pictures that can be helpful)
There are different bra styles that are suited for certain shapes though. Examples, balconette and demi bras I think are best suited for boobs that are fuller on the bottom. And some push up bras can help wide set boobs look closer.
Unless you’re talking about the overall shape that bras turn boobs into, because that’s all going to be the same unless you want vintage conical boobs.
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32 is too loose and my tits fall out through the bottom. And teen/petite sizes have really small cup volumes.
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I know I already shilled it to another anon earlier in the thread, but if you’re a burger you can try checking out Bradelis
i have weird wide set boobs that look like they hate each other, ill definitely check this out, thank you anon. wish it wasnt so expensive though>>152454
you can cut the band on the 32c to make it smaller and re-sew it into a 28 band size. it kind of sucks to do but it helps a lot
Ok fam, have you had any success with beautifying boob treatments? I'm really unhappy with my sagging mess, I tried exercises, bodylotions, oils, massages, nothing seems to really work. I wouldn't even want more in size, just a little less sagging or more volume in the top part of the breast for it not to look like a pudding-filled sock. I know there's a lot of tipps online, but did anything really work for you personally? If so, what was it and what did you achieve? I'm really considering changing my birth control/hormones to get more volume or even surgery, but I'm afraid of having implants in my body
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I am >>152454
and I ended up buying a few things from Amazon.
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i don't know my measurements, as ive never had the need for them kek, but i'd say my boobs look like pic above.
my boobs have gotten both bigger and smaller while braless, but it had to do more with losing and gaining weight than not wearing a bra. their shape has remained the same though, and i'd say they are tougher if anything, like they act more like muscle than fat. obviously i wont run or jump around braless, but i dont feel like my boobs are floppin around when using the stairs or walking around. when i wore bras, my aereolas were way bigger and i remember it being uncomfortable for a while. either they got smaller or my breasts got bigger, idk. don't know the studies between being braless versus wearing a bra, but if you are on the smaller side i definitely recommend it as much as possible. could be an anxiety thing but i feel like i can actually breathe normally without having a band around my chest. i also like the toughness my nipples have attained, im not bothered by most tshirt materials and barely deal with any dryness or chaffing which is a godsend.
they’re pretty normal to have at any point in life. even men have them, and nipple size is not indicative of how many you will get. they’re just oil glands on the areola and appear as small bumps. i wouldn’t be too concerned, they probably popped up during puberty and there’s not much you can do to get rid of them. i would be more concerned if they suddenly started looking like a whitehead or become inflamed, usually means the gland has been blocked and is infected.
if you’re really worried about the state of your nipples, i’d see a doctor. there’s nothing they can do to reduce the appearance or number, but an examination can ease your nerves if you’re super worried. on the plus side if you ever decide to have children, women with more nodules are shown to have healthier, faster growing babies compared to women who do not.
Not a question, I just need to vent. I really, really, hate my small breasts. I'm an A cup. I've never had a bra fit me, and I shop at the preteen section. I can't help but cringe when I remember my past sexual partners teasing my breasts and the memory makes me want to tear them off. To remember that other people touched my breasts, makes me want to vomit from shame.
I can't shower or look at myself in the mirror without hating myself. I became addicted to porn as a preteen so that made my insecurities worse.
To top it off, my boyfriend likes to grab my boob and say how i'm "not an adult yet" because i'm flat. (i'm 19)
Someone on this thread talked about how ridiculous it is to compare yourself to and judge other women because of breast size. But honestly, i'm guilty. All my friends are so well endowed and i'm over here looking like a 10 year old.
I felt at home at r/smallboobproblems until I found out it was ran by a man with a boob envy fetish. Great…
Embrace your flatness anon. Small breasts are more convenient, depending on your body type they make you look more slim, elegant and you can enjoy braless life.
I had the same thoughts as you did when I was a teen, I tried buying overpadded a cup bras that barely fit me, was always depressed I couldn't have cleavage, was porn addicted and obsessed with breast centric porn but suddenly as I aged I started giving less of a shit when it came to what people think about me and now I'm content. Idk how it happened but it did and I'm glad. I hope you go through the same.
ntayrt but for me it was basically to make my breasts seem bigger. Nowadays I'm braless most of the time or just wear bralettes if I don't want my nipples to be too visible and that's it.
I think small breasted girls sometimes don't realize how much of a blessing it is, grass is greener on the other side etc.
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WHY HAS NO ONE TOLD ME ABOUT THIS
THIS COULD SOLVE ALL MY BOOB PROBLEMS
i have the smallest tits ever and i would love to be able to switch between big and small tits. this is an amazing invention. d'you think it's realistic? it might only look god for photos which would be a shame but i wonder if i got it in silicone and could be blended well it might work fo IRL too, or maybe for use under dresses and such.
nooo anon they will look awful. also really heavy too, I've seen those flung around on the drag race tv show and they look like they weigh a tonne. not worth it>>155426
I have them but they're not super dark. I do get one thick dark one like grows now and then and I pluck it out. don't feel disgusting anon! it's totally normal, it's such a small area I'd just pluck if you really don't like them. I imagine the areola/nipple would be a very sensitive place for laser too
Can only pass on advice as I am currently in the same position as you, but in my country there are very commercial clinics that put out adverts and are popular with the women who like the obvious plastic surgery look. Then there are clinics which are more… medical? More expensive and boring looking. If this is the same where you are, then the second bet is better. The first type are used to everyone wanting the same boobs (normally as X celebrity) so will give you the bolt on look. The second will pay more attention to what is achievable with your body type, what will look best, they will advise against something you like if they don’t think it’ll work.
Check the realself website for specific surgeons results. Have consultations with several before choosing. Make sure they listen to you and understand what you want. Check the surgeons register and research their name to check if they have been involved in any controversies.
Hope someone with real experience comes along soon. Good luck!
Does anyone else have small breasts that hurt all the time, and if so have you ever seen a doctor about it? Does anyone have any pain relief tips? I have wanted to see a doctor about it for a long time but corona
For me it is in both and gets worse with my cycle but never fully goes away so I think it is probably Fibrocystic breasts, which are just lumpy sore breasts. Fortunately I don't have any discharge but on the down side my all searching has turned up that all I can do is need take pain killers until maybe one day goes away. Also to avoid caffeine, which is never going to happen.
I wonder if this anons tits ever calmed down>>137188>>137213
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because it looks kind of weird and men are mean about it.
In terms of lifting the breast tissue, have you done any weight lifting at all? Pushups and bench presses might help simply by strengthening the muscles under and above them. Additionally stuff like posture really helps overall appearance, so don't forget ones to strengthen your back muscles like flys and, you know, simpler stuff by rolling your shoulders back while sitting. I know this comes off as frivolous but it's simple enough that anyone can do it and less expensive than surgery etc. etc. As for the overall appearance, though, I think that's normal and not even bad? Don't let hypersexualized media get you down anon>>136847
I feel so awkward about those random strays, but I usually just pluck them. I tried sugaring once but for lack of better terminology that shit hurted>>136936
From what I've read, a lot of bras that boast support/reshaping (think VS Bombshell Bra types) are actually bad and slowly degrade or destroy the connective tissue. I wear sports bras while working out and that's about it.
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Be proud of your cute nips and give up and wear these hookless babies. They're all I wear now, they're so comfy and the SO loves them
Ok, so first off are you on medication that could cause it? I smell awful when I take my Adderall. Second, look into witchhazel pads first, then applying deodorant. Or even glycolic acid in an extremely low percentage. From what I've read, there's a lot that has to do with the ph of the skin's surface and how bacteria thrives in higher alkaline environments for some people, making deodorant less effective.
Ok, I just now thought about this, but my husband is actually from Eastern Europe too and I remember when he first came here he would soak spots on the bed that smelled like straight up diluted vinegar of some kind while he was sleeping. It took a long time for it to stop too, over a year. I don't know what that means for you, but I thought that I might mention it
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All of the women I know use this cream including myself, I live in Australia and this gets me through 40 degree heat, it's called 3B cream and I bet you could find it online somewhere
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I have this problem that is hard to describe. I'm not sure if it's actually a problem but my chest/breast shape makes me really insecure. They are small, but normally I find women with small breasts cute. However, above my breasts is rather bony and has a weird shape. It's super hard to put to words so I tried to draw it in the pic. It's not part of the boob itself, but my chest has this angle to it I'm not sure is normal. You can see it when I turn sideways a bit, even in clothes. As you can hopefully tell, my breasts are small so they start under that area.
I was worried I have pectus excavatum or something at first. I have this strange memory of a doctor saying I did, but never doing anything about it. However, I looked up pics on females and I don't look like that. There is no real indent that I can tell like it's carved out, so either I don't have it or it's very slight. That worry may be completely unrelated but I thought I'd mention in case. thanks for reading I hope someone knows if this is normal
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you should try balconette bras, they don't have the triangle area at the top so nothing to puff out
Same, I just have a big rib cage with low set breasts and also lose weight on my chest first. It's probably nothing to worry about, just different bodies.
It's one of those things I doubt anyone really notices but you.
thanks, I hope there are ones that are not the uncomfortable "lingerie" style but they're hard to find>>162774
makes sense thank you. I'll google it but I'm still kind of wondering if i have mild pectus excavatum after all. maybe can ask a doctor
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Any anons struggling with chest acne, I just wanted to give a shout-out to Tretinoin 0.05%. I used to have spots all over my cleavage and after 5 months of using this it’s completely clear.>>152380
I’m a 30D and I wear Aerie, Freya and Lepel, they all carry 28 & 30 band sizes. I usually buy from figleaves because they have always had a huge selection of those “rare” sizes. They’re becoming more common everywhere though, I work for a fashion retailer and their lingerie label recently added 30 bands to their lineup. Have hope anon
Anon, any masses or lump? Any changes on your skin? Any fever recently? Any swelling around your armpits? Currently breastfeeding? Any recent abnormal US or mammogram?
If none to that and size changes with menses, it’s probably benign fibrocystic changes. See your doctor when you can so they can keep track of it. It’s probably benign.
Anon, this month was the same for me. 2 weeks of rock hard swollen breasts, it felt horrible. Now my period came and passed and the they're not swollen anymore. It's normal for my breasts to swell when I'm pmsing, that's how I know I'm getting my period and i like that but this month was insanely painful for me too.
Sadly I don't have any advice to give you but I would appreciate if any anons know remedies for this stuff because wow, my breasts felt like they would burst out of my skin kek
Anon, same advice I gave for the other anon. There’s a wide range of breast conditions that can causes cyclical breast pain. Thing that need to be rule out is malignancy. If it’s not, then here are the following things you can try:
1●Support garments – A well-fitting brassiere to better support the breast is the best. Avoid bra with steel underwire if you have pendulous breasts. Sport bra for exercise can reduce pain related to breast movement. Wearing a soft, supportive bra at nighthelps you sleep better. If you asymmetric breasts, find special bra that accommodate yours.
2●Compresses – Some get relief from warm compresses or ice packs or gentle massage.
3.Acetaminophen or NSAID or topical NSAID.
Try 1, 2, 3 for 6 months. If that doesn’t work time to escalate treatment with your doctor help.
Try tamoxifen > danazol. These are hormonal therapy that comes with some nasty side effects. Avoid them if you can. Other treatments which are not clearly proven like OCP and progestin are sometimes used. The rationale is to prevent the burst of estrogen during your cycles.
Maybe I should open a thread for these medical problems so that I filter for problems I can give advice.
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I’m 19, never had a baby (lol), and my breasts are so fucked up due to poor posture, genetics, and weight fluctuations. Drew an outline of what they actually look like. They look and feel horrible, the sagging makes it sore and uncomfortable when I’m not wearing a bra i often have to tuck my shirt under the shirt sag fold just to reduce the pain. It really sucks. My bf has no idea they’re even like this because i wear lingerie when we have sex. Saving up for a breast lift and reduction, just want them gone
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Are most people's nipples inverted most of the time? I find mine stay pretty flat (like you can't see them through a shirt) but pop out randomly
I have 'perky' B's but they are wide set so I never have cleavage at all, unless I absolutely smash them together and it looks atrocious. I am sure your boobs are just fine anon.>>168438
Mine aren't inverted but are always flat unless it's cold/they have been touched. It makes my tits look a bit of a different shape. It's like they change shape entirely depending on what my nipples are deciding to do.
Well, let me offer my opinion. There are some possibilities. You could have benign cyst or recurring fibroadenoma. Both can cause cyclical pain due to the surge in the estrogen. I do not have your record so can’t comment on what the heck they saw in the US.
There are some ways to treat it. First try supportive care with bra. NSAID like ibuprofen is second line. OCP is next if that doesn’t work. I’ll leave some other fun medication to your doc if you find no relief with current treatment.
Considering your age and no hx of breast cancer from your family (I assumed), these pain should go away on its own.
You mentioned about plugged duct. Well, it’s a possibility, but it’s unlikely. Considering you are not breast feeding and have no interesting pathology like prolactinoma, it’s unlikely.
There’s no chest muscle sprain. The closer alternative is costochondritis aka inflammation at junction between your rib and the joint. Could it be the cause? Only your doctor who did physical exam on you know. Sorry to bust your bubble but the treatment for costochondritis is simply NSAID. I prefer the topical one. Again, this is unlikely based on your history.
tldr: try supportive bra, give it a few weeks -> try topical nsaid, give it a few week -> try OCP long term. -> ask your doctor for an extensive work (MRI). -> if that doesn’t work, maybe you’re one of the “special” that benefit from having a psychiatrist.
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Why do I get back/neck pains from wearing bras? The bras used to be just fine and my boobs havent changed size. I wore the same brand of sports bras for years, replacing them when they got too loose. I actually like going braless most of the time, but I would prefer to wear a bra with some of my shirts, and bikini tops hurt as well.
it might be because you are wearing too tight of a bra in straps and band. I would suggest trying other sizes out and measuring yourself. When you measure give yourself an inch wiggle room.
If you don't think it is that, try bralettes and cloth bras over sport and normal bras.
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LADIES MY TITS STARTED FUCKING LEAKING WHITE LIQUID STUFF IM NOT PREGNANT AND IM SCARED IT COULD BE breast cancer related stuff because our family has a history of it…….what's happeniing to my breasts help
>>171449>thyroid problems in the family >breast leakage
Call your usual doctor, ask for a referral to an endocrinologist, tell them what's happening
You are probably fine
Felt this, I can never go braless and it was so horrible to live during "free the nipple" era.
I hate my breasts so much.
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>>171639>wanting to look abnormal because a body part doesn't feel much
You don't see me trying to remove my elbows.>>172840
Boobs can get bigger at any age due to weight and exercise. Make sure to regularly self-check for breast cancer!
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These fucking 'ptosis' charts make me wanna die ngl. I swear most boobs above a certain size just do not look like the 'normal' examples
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I have grade 4 pseudoptosis, it's terminal and I can't afford treatment. Time to start writing my will I guess
we all should
just lop off every tit and throw them on the tit pile
pick yourself out a new pair from the tit pile, mix n match if you want, sew em on how ever, take a little off the bottom
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Does anyone else have chunks of crust on their nips? I don't mean on the areola, like right in the middle of the nipple? It looks similar to pic related. I've had them for like 15 years without much changing. I guess the chunks aren't as big anymore? Just kind of small flaky pieces.
This. Omg. I came here to say the same thing. My boyfriend loves them, lost weight from a big C (almost D) and now I barely fill B-cups because the fat in my upper chest has depleted so much. I feel so ugly, but my boyfriend always says he lovese, boobs are boobs, but it sure feels bad when he never looks at girls with tits like mine. He really loves big, juicy tits, fake or not. He loves the cleavage (which my saggy tits look embarrassing trying to create since they are also wide set) and the plumpness. I'm over here barely with any bottom tit plump anymore too. Surgery scares me. My mom has had 3 jobs, and as you are its very clear you can't avoid the thinning of skin that makes the implant look like shit. Its so hard to believe that when I turn to the side and I look flat. Wearing pushup bras constantly is so painful, I hate the advice people give about just "wear different clothes". It's not that easy because out of the clothes, I look horrible. It's been such a horrifying BDD that I've never had before to the point I've started cutting my upper thighs to cope. I dint want surgery, but I hate how I look. I dint know what to do..
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wanted to have some body positivity but apparently we can't have nice things. fuck you insta
Lucky you, anon. Sounds perfect.
I have saggy B cups with huge nipples (huge and deflated when soft, too large oval pyramid when hard) and a third boob would fit between my boobs. Even with a push up bra, I don't gain much volume in the upper chest part. It has been like this since I was a teenager and my weight never fluctuated much. I feel so ugly, I don't want to wear tanktops or bathing suits, I never want to have sex naked or in broad daylight. I hate my boobs so much and I really want to get surgery. Even a botchered boobjob would be better than this mess.
I'm coming to like my boobs. I've committed the monumentally faggot act of going out of my way to learn self love. A lot of things I hated about myself are started to look cute.
I started looking at more natural looking women on social media. It's kind of sad that it's only now aged 21 do I see that boobs are supposed to have variety. The space between my breasts bothers me a lot less and the fact they're not on my collar bones doesn't upset me
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Can you not shorten bra straps? You could also do upper chest exercises. I posted pic related before but here you go>>178245
Yes. it strengthens the area pulling up your boobs because it doesn't have a crutch anymore. The "not-wearing bra makes your boobs saggy, just look at village African women" thing is a myth, the main reason boobs get saggy like that is because of getting pregnant and breastfeeding kids
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how to stop feeling insecure of literal mosquito bite boobs and being 5ft? i just want to feel like a woman.
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I really love dresses like picrel but I hate wearing them. I feel like after a certain size it’s not possible to wear dresses and tops like these with bigger breasts. At least not without having to order larger sizes and get them tailored. Every dress like this that would normally be my size ends with a giant seem in the middle of my chest squishing me and I can’t go braless because they’ll just misshape the bust portion of the dress and eventually fall out. Probably because the dress doesn’t have as much support as a bra or something? I don’t fucking know. I don’t really like my boobs and the unfortunate dress situation just makes me upset. I want a reduction for christmas.
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Wrap dresses and v necks usually fit better and are more comfortable. Sweetheart necklines can be fine but for the perfect fit you'd probably have to get them tailored unless they have shirring in the back or side panels.
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I'm no expert but I know women get a boob job after having breasts fully removed because of cancer, why then wouldnt tiny titted anon be able to do the same with her body? Would be even easier since the nipple is already there, and 1-2 sizes up wouldnt be too much of a stretch.
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Ayrt, you're right! I googled a little for micromastia implants earlier and found stuff like pic rel. I'm not good at judging how realistic boob jobs look, but pic doesn't look uncomfortable or anything. I just wasn't sure if mosquito bite boobs would be able to handle implants. >>178781
Maybe it's a tattoo?
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Does anyone have advice on how to make bandana tops work if you’re top heavy? They usually tie with string in the back, and sometimes go over the shoulder with support straps. But my boobs are kind of just free falling and it’s painful and unflattering. Do you think if I added a reinforcement stitch to where underwires would be it would help? I don’t know how it’s stop my boobs from popping out on the sides but my strapless bra is probably the wrong size which is why there’s so much spillage(the stores clerk told me it was the right size though.)
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Also thank you >>178774
for this but I hate v necks at the moment, I bought a dress with a deep v neck and had to stitch it up because it can’t be worn with a bra and athletic tape hurts. I would try pasties and SKIMS body tape but it’s all sold out.
I know this is more challenging, but if you have any advice on how to wear this kind of top without your breasts completely controlling them it’d be appreciated greatly! I feel like I should accept this but there really is no point. I guess it could work like a strapless bra that closes in the front? Basically another DIY/tailor job. Fucking hell.
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it is, indeed, a tattoo! there are tattoo artists that specialize in hyper-realistic nipple tattoos for breast cancer survivors. pretty interesting stuff. https://www.health.com/condition/breast-cancer/realistic-nipple-tattoo-breast-cancer
If it's not a gender thing, do you hate your breasts because men stare at them? Or because they make you more attractive to them?
I understand it sucks but if you don't have any physical pains, I don't know if it's wise to have surgery just because scrotes are shitty. Fuck them.
, this happens to majority of girls and women if not all
has a breast gallery.
It doesn't look as if they have a dedicated post-pregnancy section, but some women have stated in their bio whether they have breastfed or not.
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To what extent is it normal to not have feeling in your breast? When I look up “numbness” it’s associated with tingling, but I mean close to no feeling in the skin at all. I can pinch a lot of my breast skin (like 1/6th - 1/4th) at my underboob really, really hard to where my hand is actually shaking and feel practically nothing. I assume it related to my period because that’s what my doctor and google said, and it’s not like I’ve regularly pinched my skin long enough to know when it does end up hurting.
I figure the lack of feeling in my breasts isn’t too much to worry about since the nipples and areolae still feel, but if I do get a breast reduction I feel like my boobs will be even more fucked regarding sensation. At this point I could get stabbed in my breast and barely notice it. I worry that this is potentially dangerous.
At least the scrote saved you the headache of dating a retard.>>188397
Also seeking a before and after gallery.
Sorry to necro but I 100% believe that 'ptosis' is what natural breasts look like and the medical industry is marketing it knowing that the condition is more common than not, with the goal of making as many women feel insecure as possible. Everyone's boobs will look like extreme cases of ptosis when you're past a certain age due to aging so it's guilting ALL women into feeling we have to get their boobs done. Not to mention that there's no actual downsides to having saggy boobs other than aesthetics and inconveniences with clothing. Imo this is so fucked up considering some implants have been proven to be correlated with cancer.
Breasts aren't even supposed to be sexually attractive in the first place. I remember an anthropologist on tiktok saying that this is observable in isolated tribal villages in which the female villagers have their boobs out with no issue. The same villagers couldn't even imagine boobs as a 'turn on' or in a sexual capacity bc they see boobs as being used explicitly for feeding babies. His assertion was that the only visual that is supposed to turn humans on is actual sexual intercourse itself–everything else, including boobs & ass in clothes and women's bodies in general, was invented by men and conditioned into all of us.>>177722
I have the same issue. I wonder if the arousal that others have might be a symptom of birth control, PMS, or a symptom of hormones in general? I used to have different PMS symptoms before I tried birth control and one of them was nipple and boob sensitivity. Ever since I came off birth control and my PMS symptoms changed (now I have cramps), my boobs have barely any feeling–even when I'm horny. I get off more visually by the sight of a guy kissing/fondling my boobs than turned on by the actual sensation.
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Are my boobs sagging? I’m really concerned about it especially as I’m only 18, whenever I see women’s breasts in movies or whatever they seem much firmer, rounder and higher up than mine, like when I lie on my back my boobs sort of flop to the sides but in other women they stay in place. I’ve fluctuated in weight a lot especially in the past couple of years and I’m afraid I’ve done permanent damage to them. Please don’t give me bodyposi cope just tell it to me straight. Pic is my boobs from the side idk what stage of ptosis I am.
Noo anon delete this asap, don't post yourself here.
But to answer you quickly, breasts have a natural drop. Don't worry about it, you seriously look normal
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My boobs don't seem to have a defined areolas?? Like my skin tone literally fades into my nipples. I've never seen anyone else that has this irl. I'm pretty pale so maybe it's just extremely subtle but it looks weird to me. I only notice a slight change in color when I'm really warm.
Your boobs look perfectly normal. Not particularly saggy at all. You look really nice, honestly.
Just to add since you mentioned boobs flopping to the sides when you're on the back instead of "staying in place" I have a small handful myself that are very perky and my boobs will still flop to the sides when I lie on my back. I think when they don't flop while laying down breast implants are usually involved.
I'm so happy that I wasn't this stupid at 18>>198886
Ok now I'm curious what tf they look like cuz that sounds insane
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Now why did this bitch post herself on here
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Recently i bought this shitty 8 euro bralette in H&M and it's by far the best bra I had in my 30 years of life. Feels like nothing (no hook closure) but also doesn't roll up anywhere like most soft bras and actually holds shape. It has removable padding and though usually I remove pads cause they never sit well with my boobs these for some reason don't cause weird squishing. Probably not a great option if you still have a bigger cup size but for my floppy conical tits this is a godsent.
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im really sorry nonny
, i feel your pain. i had the same situation (maybe even two cup size difference and tuberous basically like picrel) but hated the larger one as i prefer a flatchested look with my frame. my parents helped me cover the costs and i was able to get a breast reduction on my larger breast in a cheap state and it has helped a lot because i had the same issues with pain and discomfort pre-op. i'm still not happy with how i look topless and am insecure about it for other reasons but i'm thankful regardless. i feel like it should be covered by insurance because it honestly causes real pain and feels mentally debilitating at times (especially when i had to wear bathing suits around people etc). anyway i hope you are able to get a procedure done sometime in the future and have a better go of things. just wanted you to know you're not alone. interestingly enough my mother also had the same problem but not as severe. must be a genetic thing.
I have saggy breasts too but I’m really really hesitant about getting a breast lift. The scars are very ugly and they cut your nips off and reattach them. There’s some other techniques available with less scarring like the internal bra lift, but very few surgeons are willing to perform those because they risk complications and also they have to attack these kinds of biomesh threads/straps and anchor them in place by screwing them to your ribs. It’s risky for infection so a lot of surgeons simply wont do it. It also doesn’t lift as fully as the traditional anchor scar breast lift. It’s also twice as expensive. Idk, maybe you should just learn to love them and find someone who loves big saggy tits, a lot of people do actually.
I also can’t find any good doctors whose work I am pleased with. If anyone knows or has had a breast lift and can recommend a good doctor I would be interested in hearing about it.
How have surgeons not come up with a surefire safe way to do these surgeries yet? Fucking hell, people have been getting them for a long time now.
Thank you for the response anon, I think none of those risks are worth it and I'll just have to suck it up. It's my biggest insecurity but I feel like it'll only make me feel worse if I get a lift and the nipples/scarring end up looking botched
Yes it’s annoying as fuck that surgeons haven’t come up with a way to lift the breasts but without those big lollipop/anchor shape scars. They look ok in pictures but under harsh lighting I think they would look pretty gnarly.
I also want my nipples a bit smaller as they are pretty huge from the stretch and weight of my boobs, and I thought there was a way of doing that with lasers, but apparently the only way doctors can really do it is to physically cut them suture the nipple back on, so there would always be a scar. I know how you feel, I’m also insecure about my saggy boobs and am frustrated there aren’t more options apart from developing frankentitties. If your sagging is really really bad and the weight is hurting your back. Then a traditional breast lift might be worth it, scars and all.
considered putting an implant in to stretch out the excess and just going for massive boobs, but the surgeon told me that if the nipple is dropping too low then they need to do the lift as well, they can’t just stick an implant in there or it makes it even heavier and droopier. Super annoying.
me too! my left one is a cup size bigger. they're both small so i can get away with wearing no bras, but literally only bralettes feel comfortable to me. swimsuits are my biggest insecurity
i want to get them evened out one day but i'm afraid they're not big enough to get a breast reduction. i also heard stories of nipples falling off after that procedure, but i absolutely don't want to make the other one bigger. not sure if i will ever get them fixed
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I'm only not even 25 and I've got mild sagging according to this. I can't stand to look at my boobs. I haven't even lost large amounts of weight to warrant this. How do people deal with sagging?
same boat– my breasts grew in saggy. i don't love the way they look, but i'm ~at peace with their appearance. there really isn't much you can do aside from acceptance or surgery. you can fake perkiness with bras or tape for when you can't wear a bra. if you're worried about partners judging your breasts when you're naked, then they're not the right partner for you anyway.
i am going to start looking into lifts, not because of bullshit aesthetic reasons but more so because i cannot keep dealing with perpetual bra fitting problems and constant underboob rash. >>200384
is right, though. eventually all breasts will sag to some degree, even if you get a lift. so acceptance is something that you can either focus on now or later, depending on your own personal reasons. >>199936
i'm also worried about scarring, but i've come to terms with the fact that i'll never have "ideal" breasts, which is a nonexistent thing anyway. either my breasts will sag or they will have scars. i think my comfort (less rashes) and the ability to go braless without my breasts hanging uncomfortably will make it worth it for me.
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Artist here. There is nothing wrong with any of these breasts. In fact, I definitely recall seeing paintings of nude women with "grade 1" breasts. Nobody cares, trust me.
Autoimmune or melanoma
Birthmarks don't appear like that
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anons i'm 29, recently lost 100lbs, and my breasts look like picrel. are they really really bad? i don't see a lot of natural ones, i just want another woman to tell me straight please.
Congratulation on your weight loss, nonny
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i hate my breasts. the two partners i've had didn't care and said they liked them (though the first one did jokingly point out that they sagged even worse before i found a properly fitting bra for the first time). i can't tell if it's just me being mentally ill or if i should get a lift. i hate going braless, the feeling of them hanging disgusts me. the right one is a lot worse than the left, i don't want perfect perky tits, i think i'd be satisfied if they were at least the same height and size. it bothers me so, so much. can i get some honest opinions? picrel is a stupid trace i did.
It is possible, and if the difference between your breasts is severe enough it may even be covered (at least, it was for a woman in my family, this might be different depending on where you are).
That said there's nothing wrong with your breasts, asymmetry is perfectly normal! I second trying to embrace yourself and your body before jumping to solutions like surgery.
how did that work? were they causing her pain or anything? mine don't cause any physical problems so i don't know if that would be covered. did she get implants? is she happy with the result? how different were they?>>201673
how do i work on my self-esteem about them in particular though? i've started taking better care of myself and working out and it's helped my general self-esteem but i still honestly hate them so much. when i was younger and heard about trans shit i thought i had to not be a girl because i hated them THAT much. i'm mostly fine with everything else but my breasts cause me so much distress, i really do cry often over them
sorry to be so dramatic i'm venting a bit
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Wishing you luck anon, the vast majority of these things turn out to be benign but still better to play it safe.
I lost my mom to breast cancer when she had some seriously big warning signs and ignored them, her nipple inverted, started to ooze a foul smelling liquid and then the skin around it puckered and had an orange peel texture to it. I look back and I know she was scared of intimate exams but she ignored so many alarming symptoms. Her cancer was advanced but never created a lump because it was a flat shaped tumour that had sprouted tentacles into the surrounding areas (there's names for this stuff but I can't remember all these years later) Those are some symptoms to never ignore if anyone here ever gets them. Not all tumours create a lump.
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Hello, I am relatively new to this site, I have been reading the threads for two years and just now I dare to comment on the page since this particular topic made me interesting.
I know many people online and offline who have complexes about their breasts because of the most ridiculous things that exist, and I have not come here to define myself as a special case and worse than the rest, I know that we all feel the same here. Just to vent..
So, in short, I have tuberous breasts (i could add a photo of a case that I find on the internet exactly the same as mine, but I'm not sure how to do it, heh) and a slight pectus excavatum that makes one look very noticeably bigger than the other. They are horrible af (in my opinion) and every time I see them I just want to cut my neck with an electric saw. Lately I am a bit receptive to them since I do not have a partner and because looking at them from the front does not show the deformity too much, but it also causes me a lot of insecurity and I do not know other cases besides mine. As if that were not enough, the only way to fix all my chest and breasts is with surgery, but I fear even of syringes and I'm ridiculously poor, so I'm not really interested in that, besides they are so small and irregulars that they don't fit harmoniously into a 32A at least (yeah, I don't wear a bra and actually hate it since I like lingerie). I just agree to live with it, sadly, and I guess without a partner for life lol.Therefore, if at any time remembering that this condition exists or my personal case makes you feel better about your breasts, you're welcome!
I've had them since like I was like 12, doesn't everyone have them? >>202547
I have a ton too, and nobody has ever said anything, I didn't even know it was a negative thing, I thought everyone had them. All nipples I have seen have had them I think?
Ohhh man do I feel this post anon. I wanted to get a lift and still might at some point. I keep thinking about the relief I would feel afterwards, how the years of shame and disgust would finally be over and I could just forget all that and be fully present, fun, and confident. I don't care about scars, I can't imagine they would be worse than two floppy mittens with huge areolas. One half of my sex life has always revolved around shame and worry about how my breasts look, praying that my partner doesn't want me to undress completely, and if naked, always managing my posture and position to minimize how awful they look. I never got any mean comments (some thoughtless ones though, ouch) and my exes mostly acted normal, but it's hard to believe it's sincere when someone wants to touch or see them, I just hate them so much myself and can't find myself sexy or attractive while naked. 2 out of 4 of my exes never even saw them, I just got so tired of the process.
On the other hand, I feel a bit better these days after finding the right partner. It took me weeks to take my bra off but since then he has always been consistent about how much he wishes I wouldn't worry, he loves my breasts and everything about my body. He can't keep his hands off me and understands that undressing during sex is sometimes overwhelming to me, but always reassures me that I have no reason to feel that way.
It's rarer in guys, but I guess for some emotionally stable, well-adjusted, and non-pornsick ones, most of the sexual attraction comes from how much they love you instead of direct visual input. So if you find a guy like this, your physical flaws will just not be salient to him at all, he will just see your body as perfect. I still find it hard to not be self-conscious, but some part of it is sinking in, and I found some well fitting sexy bras for when I want to hide a bit more. He proposed this summer and we got a dog instead of me saving for surgery lol, tbh life can be pretty good even with saggy boobs.
I'm so happy for you! Your bf sounds lovely, I hope you enjoy raising your dog together.
Oh man I feel you nonette.
I keep getting tempted to get a breast lift but it cost about 10k and damn that’s a lot of tattoo money.
Same as you I never got any mean comments on it, but had a few “nice” comments around it like describing my boobs a squishy (I lost weight and they have this squishy, part empty feel).
In the end, I don’t think I can justify spending 10k on a boob job that might not even look that good. I know a woman who also lost a ton of weight and it’s pretty obvious that she had a lift + implant, it doesn’t look too bad per se, but it has that “random ball” on her chest look.
I recently had them pierced, which was a major step to me to basically be naked and lie on my back in front of a stranger, but I gotta say they look way cuter and cost less than surgery. If you’re not against piercings and can tolerate a bit of pain, I’d recommend it to love your body a bit more.
I admittedly have a pretty relaxed attitude towards body hair lately but I just snip mine short and remind myself that realistically most women do have some hair there. Nipples aren't an area where I want to risk scarring or an infection from constantly regrowing hairs.
I have a lil white and dimpled piece of scar tissue on my crotch, like right in the centre of my mound from an ingrown hair that got real hard to dig out years ago. It looks like someone put a cigarette out on my crotch lol
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I absolutely ruined my boobs with fakeboi binding as a teenager. I smashed my perfectly normal breasts down into pancakes every single morning of my freshman year of high school. If there is anything I regret in life, it's this. The feeling of sitting down without a bra on makes me feel like a disgusting ogre and I have come full circle from detransitioning back to female to now just wanting them cut off sometimes. I try to look at a lot of body positive stuff regarding boobs, but it never makes me feel better. I've come to love my face, body, skin color, hair, wholeheartedly, but my boobs feel doomed to dysphoric hatred. I honestly can't even look at them when I bend over without feeling devastating grief, and I know that is dramatic and stupid. I've been pretty opposed to getting plastic surgery because it has always seemed sad to me, but I think I'm going to have to do it. Also as a side note, the ""saggy"" breasts in this thread I would (and probably will) pay $10,000 to have.
I semi-binded my chest for about 2 years as an adult. The thing that probably saved me was me having a back problem. I have scoliosis so I couldn't go nuts with the tightness of binders or wear them for too long either.
I've seen some detrans women who went ahead and had them removed (even after detransitioning) purely because they knew their breasts had been so badly changed that for them removing still made sense. It's a rough spot to be in. I've seen testosterone use cause less permanent damage than binding caused.
Plastic surgery on healthy body parts is just as much, if not worse molestation with many risks and consequences.
Leave them alone.
I sure did. She said>but I think I'm going to have to do it
I told her to quit it.
Her only reason against surgery was she thought "it was sad". No mention of concern for her health at all.
Idk what your reason for trying to silence me is or for the adverse reaction. But I bet it's personal.
It's mostly genetics, motherhood, and age. Tits can
sag from bras because they weaken the muscle that keeps your boobs up from disuse, but I don't think it's to the extent you're thinking of.
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I have big saggy boobs my bf doesn’t seem to mind but when we have sex, and I am on top leaning over him and kissing him he’s always trying to whip them out. I’ve come to terms with how floppy they are when my back is straight but leaning forward they look like tube socks stuffed with mashed potatoes how do anons with saggy boobs go bra less and have sex?
Same boob situation lol. On top I'm sitting straight up or even leaning slightly back, or I'm laying over him with my boobs touching his chest. It's the bent over, but not making contact angle that's not exactly flattering, not just being on top or being braless in general. But idk, my boobs have changed a lot so I am sad that they're not as round and full as they used to be, but eh, they're still boobs and boobs are hot so it doesn't really bother me that much.
And don't worry about him judging you nonita, he's having sex with a hot woman, he couldn't pull enough brain cells together to count to five at that point
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The ill-fitting bra? Well kinda? I think it was the muscle rounding and filling them out more than the bra. I did eventually gained a little more weight/muscle and the bra started to temporarily shape my boobs into Michael Angelo boobs lololol
>>209082>like a young woman's "should" be
I think your expectations are unrealistic anon. I do know what you mean, I’ve never had perky breasts either, but it sounds like you’re being way too hard on yourself. Even as a younger teenager, my body basically developed over night and I went from a training bra to D cups (that definitely
needed a bra) and stretch marks on my thighs. I was a normal weight throughout my teenage years, no major weight fluctuations, but everyone’s body is different. I used to think I had saggy breasts too until I met someone who was crazy about my body and constantly complimenting my breasts, it kind of opened my eyes to how ridiculous I was being. There is no “standard” body for a young woman, having slightly lower set breasts doesn’t make you haggard or whatever. I’m sure you look great anon.
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Are these little bumps around the nipple normal? I'm nearly thirty and not pregnant, but I'm really concious of them. I think they appeared in the last half year.
Spoilered for photo but I hope it's okay to share. Genuinely wasn't sure if I should worry though.
Check for hormonal issues but I'm in a similar situation as you, I was a B-C all throughout high school, became a D cup after high school and I'm 22 now with a full I cup, with little to no weight gain
bigger doesn't mean better though, I'd honestly take my B cup appearance without a bra any day of the week, my boobs aren't even saggy or anything, I just prefer how small boobs look
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There’s a pretty wide variety of nipple balms for nursing mothers that would probably do the job. Personally, I’ve always been curious about udder balm (they also use it on cows!)
I'm not in the USA so I'll have to see how that works with my GP first, and I'll ask her where I can get a mammogram. I have no idea how long it can be to get an appointment but I hope it's not too long.>>211739
Your best friend seems to have what my big sister has too. I talked about it with my mother yesterday and she told me that apparently it's hereditary in our case and that's why she's not too worried about me. My big sister never had her tumor removed according to her.
>>212511>you're either not attracted to me or don't even care
If you've already come to that realization, why are you still with your bf who causes you discomfort..
Rough titplay is a sign he's getting his ideas about what women like from watching porn, not from communicating with his female bed partners.
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I'm not sure if this is the right thread since I couldn't find any piercing related threads on /g/ but since its breast related, im thinking about getting some nipple piercings done. any nonas here who got them as well? tips? advice?
Yea, what do you want to know?
General advice: do some research on the piercer, get straight implant grade titanium bars, use only saline spray and water to clean them no soap or other shit, don't touch them, no swimming or nipple play for a few months, they take up to a year to heal no not anytime sooner, get them downsized on time and the bar should NOT go through the areola
You can wear whatever you want to the appointment, after getting them done wear whatever feels comfortable for you - bra or no bra
There is no universal answer for pain. For me it was: left 7/10, right 8/10. The second one usually hurts more.
It would be fine just don't squeez them with it and don't wear it 24/7 in case you'll bleed or sweat through the day, let them breath a bit lol
I only got one pierced, I knew the healing time was long and I wanted one untouched nipple in case it was a rough heal or in case my sensitivity was affected or lost. I was sexually active and didn't want two nipples off the plate at once.
I'm tatted and pierced in lots of places and ime the pain level was up there. Out of all my piercings it was number one for pain. Didn't exactly have a rough time healing it but I just remember I didn't want someone putting their mouth near it during that time. I was scared of shit getting caught up in it. I'm well used to having percings but this one if anything negatively affected my sex life because I was scared of anything going near it. And that was with just a bar in. I took it out pretty soon after it would've been healed anyway. I do have increased sensitivity in it now since it's been retired?? It's my good nipple now that the bar is out. In a roundabout way there was technically a net gain then I guess..but only in the very long run and only because I retired it lol
Aerie makes nice soft no padding no underwire bras you should invest in if you're gonna pierce the girls. I did mine at like 21 but between the bars always falling out and my toxic ex whining about how only whores have nipple rings
I ended up letting the holes close. The pain I'd say was like 6ish. And I only say that because it's fast, it hurt like hell to get them done the first time. And that's also the only reason I wouldn't do it again. I used to soak them in warm salt water to clean the hole. (Use a shot glass lmao)
You can work out the same day if it doesn't hurt, just spray them with saline after and rinse in the shower>>213460
Soaking is actually outdated advice not trying to be rude, just fyi
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oh so i should just spray the new piercing instead?
also pic related is what the piercer i asked recommended for aftercare. im not from america and stuff like neilmed is expensive and scarce here. she told me its medical grade saline solution that i can buy from drug stores
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Apologizes for porn drawing but is this what you mean by tittyfucking? Like most sex acts it's more for a show and not supposed to be pleasurable. I'm a handful (so like a C?) and I'm usually lazy so I'll let men titty fucking me, most of them get off very quick and on that alone so it's always my go-to if I just wanna gtfo or something so it' a good move to use if you aren't enjoying yourself and don't want him to fuck you
Would boob size even matter? I feel like as long as if you can wrap your boobs around the dick then it's fine? I feel like tissue density would matter more since denser/firmer tissue would create a more tight feeling
it was specifically mentioned that they were quickies. the notion of it being a normal thing to do in any healthy relationship applies both ways, why do you think I would give any scrote a pass for it? you don't have to tell me twice that most scrotes just want to use women and have trouble even fingering or eating out their gf without any strings attached. I'm defending the relationships in where that doesn't exist and where two people just want to make the other feel better.
that's the only kind of romance I can have, because otherwise I don't want to deal with some selfish moidchild that has no interest in my body feeling good/bad.
for what it's worth I do agree that it can make women miserable, but only if they continuously pursue something with a bf that couldn't give less of a shit about them getting off over himself.