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No. 434936

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No. 434949

Need to vent. I asked for the HPV vaccine when I was in my mid-teens and my retarded scrote doctor said no, they "didn't give it to girls who were likely to have been sexually active already" (I was a virgin!! but they didn't care or believe me). I found out today about 10 years later that I have a high risk strain of HPV and I will have to get cervical smear tests done every year because my immune system can't seem to clear it. And my risk of cervical cancer is significantly increased. Why does the medical profession hate women so much?

No. 435093

>>434949
Huh, what a strange behavior from your doctor. I guess he was misinformed and thought only young teens can have it.

No. 435348

>>434949
My retarded mom didn't give us the vaccine. Now I have HPV too.

No. 435390

>>435348
>>434949
Feel bad for you both. My mom didn't want me getting it but the doctor managed to convince her

No. 435402

>>435390
I got it because where I grew up it was mandated for everyone once we reached a certain age, I remember having to get it at school. But I also remember it very negatively because I was confused about what was happening and I got a dodgy vague and assumptive response like "you need this because at your age you're going to start having lots of sex soon" and it made me feel genuinely insecure about not even coming close to having any sexual experience because they presented it as this "everyone does it" thing. Even though it would've been much weirder and more screwed up for me to actually been having frequent sex at 11-12ish. I don't get why even when they do something right medical professionals have to be weird and judgmental about women's health

No. 435788

How do you people even have piv sex whenever I put something in my vagina that is bigger than my index finger it just feels like I need to poop and it hurts. I'm already 25 and at this point I have given up on ever having real sex because it's just not possible. The d doesn't fit and whenever I try it just hurts no matter how much lube I use. I don't think this will ever be or feel enjoyable it is the least pleasant thing on the planet and just hurts or is uncomfortable. My long term bf even broke up with me because we weren't able to have piv sex and he got fed up because of me. Idk if it is even worth trying anymore. I can masturbate while lying on my stomach and humping my hand and a pillow but nothing else does it for me.

No. 435807

>>435788
That's not normal. You either have vulvodynia if the pain is in the vulva or vaginismus if the pain in inside the vagina.

No. 435832

Really, extremely, stupid question. But does anyone else get that "throbbing" sensation in their clit when they're turned on by women, but get a throbbing sensation in their vaginal opening when turned on by men? Am I retarded?

No. 435836

>>435788
Just don't do it then. PIV sex isn't that pleasurable for most women even when it doesn't hurt. It's not worth the pregnancy scares and anxiety.

No. 435839

>>435832
I think you're retarded, my pussy throbs the same for men and women

No. 435840

>>435788
Don't pressure yourself because of your boyfriend, but it's worth exploring if there's anything medical going on just because I feel like every woman should get to experience how awesome penetrative masturbation feels.

No. 435894

>>435348
My mom wouldn't let me get it as a teen but when I went for my smear earlier this year the doctor told me I was still eligible for the next 6 months and I could have it if I wanted. I'm extremely lucky my smear test came back completely clear and I was able to get the vaccination at 24

No. 435932

does anyone have tips for orgasming more than once? i feel like after the first one i basically lose interest and it doesn't feel that good to be touched.

No. 436360

anyone use vaginal weights or ben wa balls and could say how to choose them properly?

No. 436445

Should I donate my vaginal bacteria to a study? I could get money for it. I just hope I'm healthy enough. Anyone have experience?

No. 436450

all the discussion on the hpv vaccine is making me wonder if i should get mine, at school i had an anti-vax parent so never got it. is it worth it? being raised this way has made me a bit paranoid. nonas should i?

No. 436453

>>436445
Is this for the BV study? It sounds like it could help lots of women, I'd do it.

>>436450
Yes you should. It decreases your chances of getting cervical cancer. Literally no reason not to do it.

No. 436454

>>435932
I think it’s something you’re built for or you’re not. I’m someone who can have basically limitless orgasms, and I know we are built different because I don’t feel the way you describe after an orgasm. Maybe for like a minute tops, but then I’m already itching for the next one. I never really am fully satisfied, I just become too physically exhausted to continue. It used to frustrate me when I was a teenager but I guess I’ve just gotten used to it.

No. 436478

>>436453
Okay great, I will! Yes I think that was what it was for. Enrollment ends next July and my next gyno visit is Dec, so I want to make sure I'm good to go. Do you know if the requirements are just to simply not have BV yourself?

No. 436547

>>435932
Are you overstimulating yourself? I find I can have multiple orgasms if I stimulate myself gently as I'm orgasming, as in barely a light touch. But any more pressure than that and I'm completely done and don't want to be touched anymore.

No. 436866

>>436547
I’ll try this next time. I get way too sensitive after orgasming , but I wish I could experience back to back orgasms kek.

No. 436867

>>436450
Yes nonna. Get it. It will protect you from the strains that are commonly associated with cervical cancer.
The HPV vaccine is honestly a life saver, all women should get it, given that checking for HPV is tricky , it’s a very common infection that many have without even knowing it and that you specifically have to ask for it in order to check. Be proactive nonna.

No. 437521

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A couple months ago I had a real bad yeast infection, and it's come back twice now - both times right before ovulation. These flare ups aren't nearly as bad as the first round but still unpleasant and I sure would like them to stop.
Since it seems to be linked to my cycle and I have a decent idea of when it's going to come back, is there anything preventative I can do rather than wait until I'm suffering?
I'm wary of overmedicating by using a proper antifungal when I don't have symptoms, but would something gentler like picrel be worth trying?

No. 437523

>>437521
Beware of homeopathy nonnie, there's literally no active ingredients in that. If you really wanna do all natural, search for boric acid suppositories instead

No. 437527

>>437521
Unsweetened yoghurt can be used, both esting and smeaeing in on your vag, as well as cutting down on sugar intake when you know you're susceptible to get yeast infections.

No. 437563

Should I get a HPV vaccine if I am a virgin? Im already 20.

No. 437577

>>437521
I use Indian turmeric soap to wash my folds and clit with room temperature water. Maybe try that? It's antibacterial and safe with no added fragrance. But it has coconut oil if you're allergic to that. And a is a bit drying to the skin. Best advise is to just give up and go see a doctor.

No. 437581

>>437577
>using indian hygiene products
lmfao

No. 437672

>>434949
I’m so sorry anon. I was in the same situation where I was deemed too old and therefore too likely to have already been sexually active to get it through the usual channels, so I ended up paying out of pocket for it. It was like €200 or something, but it was the exact same thing they gave to girls 2-3 years younger than me so the doctor was fine with it. However the doctor’s assistant kept acting like I was spending €200 just to prove to my parents I was still a virgin.

No. 437823

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>>437563
yes, it helps prevent HPV strains/cervical cancer.
picrel - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7579832/

No. 437829

>>437563
everyone, go get the HPV vaccine. if you're a virgin, it's great that you'll be vaccinated before any risk of encounter with HPV. if you're not a virgin and even if you've already had HPV, you should absolutely still get it. just like how there are different strains of covid and flu viruses, there are different strains of HPV, and even if you've contracted HPV already, an HPV vaccine can protect you against strains you don't already have. none of the vaccines are 100% effective against every single strain out there, but the vaccines target the strains responsible for most cases of HPV-related cancer and most cases of genital warts. even if you only sleep with women, genital warts can be easily spread through sexual contact that isn't PIV, please everyone get your HPV vaccines.

No. 438093

>>437829
What is the reason doctors only want to administer the HPV vaccine to women who are not sexually active? Is that because otherwise you might already have an active HPV infection and the vaccination could make it worse somehow? It would be good to know their reasoning for this…

No. 438102

>>437521
What's your hygiene like? You shouldn't get a yeast infection every month. Either you're doing something wrong or you need to see a doctor

No. 438104

>>438102
My hygiene is A) good and B) unchanged. Daily showers, clean underwear, etc. I'm not prefect, like I don't change my towels every three days like you're supposed to but I'm washing them as frequently as I always have and until three months ago I'd never had a yeasty in my life.
First doctor I spoke to was completely unphased, ran some tests to confirm there was nothing more to it and just told me to keep using the same antifungal whenever it comes back.
I went to a different doctor today who was also very "yeah this happens sometimes" when I told her it was three months in a row but at least prescribed me some fluconazole for the next 6 weeks to hopefully flush it out properly.

No. 438108

>>437563
I'd get it. I was too old for it to be offered when I was still a virgin. I had 2 partners by the time I got a hpv screening and they found one of the bad strains and I had cervical cell changes that they graded a bit like how they grade cancer stages. I was shitting it. The amount of stress/appts I had in the following 2 years. And had it hanging over my head all that time till I got goods news. There's always the big pap smear conspiracy anons that pop up when stuff like this is asked.

No. 438111

>>438104
Get your blood sugar checked, you may have diabetes/be pre diabetic. And no you don't have to be fat to get diabetes.

No. 438252

>>438093
ayrt, I actually don't know, but that's a good question. I always assumed it was just about not 'wasting' the vaccine on people who had a chance to already be exposed, or to avoid confusing people who thought it could cure you or who would get angry that they got the vaccine and had HPV anyway. You're right though, there could be another reason.

No. 438317

Tomorrow I'm getting a biopsy done. I'm super nervous.

No. 438369

anytime anons demean a cow's vagina for having a small clit makes me feel kinda sad because i'm seeing even women say that's undesirable when i've had moids be kinda mean about mine being that way. it's not my fault i was born that way/developed that way and i thought vaginas being different was something we are supposed to celebrate or something. i try to tell myself it's just because it's a cow but i've even had nonnies from the friend finder thread demean a vagina trait i happen to have and i just didn't say anything but felt like that's cruel you don't even know/need to know what mine looks like yet felt the need to point out how this trait you have is totes awesome and also point out how this trait is super weird but you don't even know i have that trait. and i didn't even ask her what she thought about x trait, she just brought it up. it just feels mean when we all know we have different vaginas yet you feel emboldened to play the insult lottery on my vagina by randomly saying x type vaginas are ugly and weird. come on.

No. 438398

>>438369
fwiw I'm a lesbian and the relative clit size of my partners has literally never been anything I register as important. Every woman's vagina looks different, like flowers in a garden. Anyone who cares is weird.

No. 438400

>>438369
Insulting vaginas is so weird to me. I’m never going to understand.

No. 438439

>>438369
dude WHAT? Stop reading what incels and femcels say . I have NEVER EVER heard anyone talking about clit size in a demeaning way. Well except when the clits are as big as little penises… but small clits? Never.

No. 438523

>>438369
Imma be real people demean others for having a big clit too. Or for having “roast beef.”
Bitches be miserable, don’t let it get to you nonna your bits are fine

No. 438929

Is it normal that you don't feel anything inside of your vagina? I had sex today for the first time and other than an unpleasant stinging feeling at the start there was literally nothing else except for a slightly uncomfy feeling? I sat on top of him and the guy is completely normal sized and I couldn't feel anything inside, I didn't even realize that it was completely inside me at first. People always rave that sex feels oh so good but it was rather underwhelming and there is literally no pleasant feelings inside the vagina?

No. 438931

>>438523
I never really understood what the hell roast beef was.

No. 438934

>>438929
Yes it's common. My first time was also underwhelming. You could try exploring yourself with your fingers in private while you are thoroughly aroused, that's how I figured it out. I have several erogenous spots inside my vagina, enjoy piv and prefer piv orgasm. Obligatory disclaimer that some women don't orgasm from penetration tho and that's ok bla bla

No. 438944

>>438929
It differs from one person to another. I understand what you mean with the stinging sensation, that happens to me when I'm not aroused or wet enough. I masturbate only with my fingers and never had sex, but I know the sensation you're talking about because that's when it happens. But when I'm really horny and into it after my period is finished and during the time leading up to ovulation, I get super aroused and the stinging disappears completely and I can fit more fingers and it feels so good from start to finish, even the opening itself getting anything touching it is pleasurable. Inside my vagina, I find it most pleasurable when I angle my finger upwards towards my abdomen whether a bit further inside or in the beginning of the canal, and raising my hips upwards really helps tightening it in a pleasurable way and it feels so intense, it's a bit overwhelming at times, so I still haven't orgasmed from it because I chickened out and gave up half way through leading up to an orgasm, lol. But I know that if I keep doing it that way and get used to it, it will be amazing.

No. 439082

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Can a nona recommend some masturbation strategies? I only know how to masturbate by flexing my lower body really hard and tbh it’s not that good and hardly worth the effort. I’m a virgin but I worry that once I have sex I won’t be able to enjoy it because I just do not understand my anatomy. I stuck a finger up my vagina once out of curiosity. I barely got past the first knuckle, and it was painful.

I don’t really get horny except in my sleep. I only really get off sexually while dreaming. I blame this on not having the right man in my life but idk. Anyone relate? Is something wrong with me

No. 439809

>>439082
I can’t put anything inside me either nonna. I just masturbate on the outside and I do get pretty good orgasms so I’m satisfied kek. I managed to have sex the only time I did it, but I can’t put anything in on my own and when I got fingered I didn’t really like it that much.

Anyway relax yourself on your bed and just be patient, spread your legs and caress your thighs. You can either use lobe or spit if you aren’t wet enough and then just caress and play with yourself slowly, starting from the outside and then slowly reach for your clit and just rub it from side to side or in a circular motion. You just need to be patient. When you’re close you can also stop and resume again , more than once, it’s more satisfying when you end up orgasming that way.

No. 439811

>>439809
But strangely enough I really did enjoy PIV when I did it, I was even surprised at the way I was moaning kek. So maybe I just don’t like fingers?

No. 440647

i’ve had a recurring yeast infection for like almost a year now that will go away for about 3 weeks after i take some flucan and then come right back, usually either when i’m ovulating or if i have sex with my bf. i have changed all my habits to try to avoid it but nothing is working! i don’t take baths, i got a ph balanced, unscented soap to wash my vulva with, i stopped letting my bf finish in me, make him wash his hands and brush his teeth before we do anything, and we’re barely doing anything beyond kissing at this point because i’m so anxious about getting another infection so i don’t think it’s his fault, only wear cotton underwear, and i’ve been using boric acid and probiotic suppositories. nothing is working and i am losing my mind and it also feels like it can’t be healthy to be taking an antifungal medication this often, like i’m scared i’m creating some fucked up evil super-yeast.

i’ve never had this happen before, the only time i’ve gotten yeast infections in the past is from taking antibiotics but those always cleared up quickly and easily but then last year my ex cheated on me and i think gave me bv and ever since then my microbiome has been FUCKED. i have a doctors appointment with my gp in a couple weeks and i’m going to ask him to run some bloodwork because i’m worried i could be pre-diabetic or something as uncontrolled blood sugar is the only thing my gynecologist has suggested could be the cause but as far as i’m aware my blood sugar has always been normal. i’m just reaching the end of my rope tbh, i can’t even enjoy sex anymore because i’m so stressed out about getting another infection that my head is somewhere else the whole time and i just want my bf to eat me out in peace goddammit

No. 440677

>>440647

Nonna my friend had a similar issue and was put on loads of different treatments for thrush and bv with no change, but it was actually vaginal atrophy from perimenopause. She needed estrogen patches. I'm glad you're seeing your GP, but just something to be aware of that it might not turn out to just be your microbiome.

No. 440776

I need advice. I was giving my girlfriend oral pleasure, and while doing so, I noticed a hard, round lump on her labia minora. I thought it was an ingrown hair or a pimple, but she didn't seem to be in any pain when touched, and looking later proved that it's neither bc something under her skin. I haven't said anything cause her sister died of uterine cancer like, 5 months ago, and I don't want to scare her like this late at night. How should I break this to her. I'm not a gyno and I've never had this stuff happen before to me. I'm worried it's something serious

No. 440798

>>440776
It's probably just a subcutaneous cyst. Nothing to worry about, really. It's probably still in your best interest to bring it up somehow, but how you should do it really depends on you and your gf's relationship.

No. 440800

>>440647
try gentian violet tampons, worth a shot

No. 441242

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Found a great in-depth resource on how much vaginas can differ externally, thought it'd be worth sharing here https://maipdf.com/old/?e=d17207277627

No. 441294

Found a bit of blood in my mucus after cycling? Is this something to be concerned about? It’s obviously not menstrual fluid.

No. 441494

Just took an extended look a my vulva for the first time as a 25 year old and realised that I haven't been cleaning under my clitoral hood properly. I know I'm a retard for this but I also have a pretty small clit/hood so I have to really get in there to clean it. Has anyone got some tips to share. Also I've always been self concuous about having an "outie" but today I realised that I have a really cute vagina, I still don't totally love how she looks from the front but idk that feels like I'm just nitpicking and looking for a reason to be self concious

No. 441580

>>441494
I glide the hood back and wash with the shower head

No. 441711

has anyone ever got chlamydia before despite being a lesbian? I got it and have since recovered, probably from shared sex toys? what are the chances it comes back?

No. 441724

>>440798
Seconding this, I've had one before and it felt like a hard round ball inside of the labia minora skin, scared the hell out of me. I ended up using a hot washcloth on it until it sort of ended up "popping" like a zit and it hasn't happened again.

No. 441725

are pap smears as bad as people describe it? im going for my first one in a few weeks and im a little scared

No. 441726

>>441294
Are you ovulating? Spotting can happen during ovulation sometimes

No. 441727

>>441725
Not to give you false hopes, but it's got to vary from person to person because mine are always 100% painless.

No. 441803

does anyone have any good home remedies for yeast infections? i have a raging yeast infection right now

No. 441809

>>441725
It depends on the person, but my pap smears have been more uncomfortable than painful. The feeling passed as soon as I dressed myself again.

No. 441816

>>441725
After I got mine done I thought "that's it?" because some women describe it as torture. The worst part was honestly waiting forever in that gown.

No. 441863

>>441803
Please nona don’t fuck around with this shit and just find the nearest pharmacy with a self checkout and get a real treatment. The embarrassment is less than the discomfort. The 1 day ones can burn a lot so avoid those, the 7 day ones can take a long time but I think they still provide relief relatively quickly in the treatment iirc so I go with 3 day but I think 7 day is fine, you want the ones where the medicine comes in a suppository pill form as opposed to just cream so it stays inside and doesn’t come out and burn you, but definitely apply the little cream that is designed for the labia thoroughly to the exterior. Also I assume you know the difference between BV and yeast but if you don’t, see a doctor

No. 441872

>>441725
Varies so there's no set 'heres what yours will be like' answer but I've had pap smears and a colposcopy too and never felt pain or discomfort from either of them.

No. 441891

>>441242
Why didn't they take pics of the clitoris with the hoods lifted?

No. 441893

>>441803
You take medicine, we don’t live in the 1500 anymore.

No. 441895

>>441725
I had my first one a few months ago and the only really uncomfortable part was when they put that lube stuff on your vagina, the feeling is just a bit gross IMO but there was literally no pain at all throughout the entire process but again ymmv.

No. 441906

>>441803
Buy Monistat and your yeast infection will be gone. Just don't get the 1 day treatment, never in my life had I felt such intense burning. It did cure my infection though.

No. 442264

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I had a rough time today.. Today was the day I was supposed to change my copper IUD for the second time in my life. I knew the pain would be excruciating, but I was mentally prepared and ready for what was to come. The very nice midwife starts the procedure and SHE COULDN'T GET IT OUT!! The threads were visible but it wouldn't budge, she even called in a second person to try but still nothing.. She referred me to a gynecologist at the hospital who's gonna try and remove it with the help of ultrasound in 2 weeks. I have no doubt in my mind I'm in for the worst pain of my life and I'm super fucking scared.

No. 442291

>>442264
You don't have to be in pain. Advocate for yourself and demand that they give you something for the pain. There are things they can give you. https://www.ohsu.edu/womens-health/closing-gender-pain-gap-your-gynecologist-has-pain-control-options

No. 444471

Nonners, it's been around three months i think, I have been having long cuts behind both my labia minora, deep enough to bleed and also bruising my clitoral hood when i masturbate. I can't go to the gynecologist atm because im unemployed and when i searched for it nothing came out. I don't have any other symptoms in my vulva other than these that are actually fucking hell on its own. Any nonna have any experience with this? Does any nonna have an idea of what it could be?

No. 444472

>>444471
Forgot to mention that the cuts itches and my bruised clit hood does too. Shower daily, virgin, no panties at home.

No. 444594

>>444471
I think this could be a sign of an infection. You should check the vulvodynia subreddit, I've seen several posts about having cuts in the vulva.

No. 444607

>>444594
Samefag, I just remembered it could also be vulvar lichen sclerosis. The LS subreddit is also helpful.

No. 444617

>>444607
thank you nonny, i will look into it, just having some sort of light as to why this is happening is very helpful already, thanks!

No. 445875

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sorry nonas if this sounds retarded but do these brightening soaps actually work? i’ve always been insecure about my vagina (specifically the hyperpigmentation around it) and i’m just looking through options.

No. 445876

>>445875
No, they're a waste of money at best and a really dumb way to cause yourself skin damage at worst.

No. 445877

>>439082
Im in the same boat the masturbation method I use is just touching the exterior part (and I used to masturbate only with panties/clothes on because I felt uncomfy) but today I tried to put my finger inside my vagina and it was a different experience, I have vaginismus and this feels like progress honestly.
Was any nonna able to cure this at home? I think going to the gyno could be worse because they apparently stick metal things up vag and I don't want that

No. 445883

>>445875
Hyperpigmentation is hot, don’t put chemicals on your pussy.

No. 445911

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>>445883
this made me giggle thank you nona

No. 446131

>>445875
Fuck all this shit honestly , even the surgery that cuts your labia. If someone is turned off by my vagina they can walk through the exit door. I have a huge birthmark that takes hall my inner leg and goes from my inner thighs up to my butt, I used to hate it but I got over it because it’s not that deep. I’ll keep my black hyperpigmentated pussy kek, I kind of like it. I would look weird with a pink pussy since I’m black.


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