No. 1294560
Not my relationship, but my BFF had a deadbeat bf in Uni. He was 25 when she was 20, and he was still taking second year classes.. (he later managed to finish Uni in a total of ten years)
He was,
- Financially abusive: my friend is from a well off family, and money has never been a problem with her. He took advantage of her generosity and guilt tripped her to give him money, while the money she spent on him mostly went to alcohol and cigarettes
- He was emotionally abusive: He was spending her money and still had the audacity to call her fat, call her too dark, told her to wear contact lenses, dye her hair etc. her self confidence dropped below zero during this time. She was miserable and there were no role models on the internet calling out toxic relationships
- He raped her after their breakup
I was silent but showed support until the rape, but I went mad after that and called him names when I found out about the rape. He tried to gaslight our friends that I was the reason they broke up, but luckily they all knew he was shit so most of them were happy that he wasn’t part of the group anymore.
Except two girls.
He went on to date one of these girls. My BFF was genuinely concerned for her safety (because of the rape) and although she was still very freshly traumatized she wanted to arrange a meeting. She invited me too, because she didn’t want to be alone and tbh she was crying multiple times a day and she needed someone to be there for her.
This bitch listened to her traumatic story and offered her fake sympathy. One week later we found out the Rapist and this girl was dating.
She was later dumped and gained tons of weight, idk what happened to her but I don’t care. Pickme’s just won’t listen.