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No. 182003

I'm probably going to come really salty, but I'm sick of dating men. Rellationships with them seem stuck in all these rules and gender roles. A lot of men also seem to have fucked up views of sex thanks to porn.

I am bisexual, though I have never had a relationship with a woman. It seems to me that lesbian relationships are a lot different from hetero ones.

The problem is that I have no idea where to find bi/gay women or how to flirt with them. I'm pretty shy already so that doesn't help.

Has anyone had a similar experience?

No. 182004

>>182003

I'm bi since I hit puberty, more or less, and yet I never had a proper relationship with a woman, nor gotten past foreplay (if any) so I don't feel worthy of being called bi.

Getting guys was obviously easier so I went with that. Recently I went on okc but there's barely any real bi or lesbian girls and they never like me back.

Pretty stupid but I realised I don't have any proper chance at dating because I'm not involved in any gay scene. Gay bars are usually more expensive but I guess I'll get used to it and become a regular, or attend gay oriented events.

That's my only advice so far :/

No. 182006

I'm the same OP, but it feels like having no experience with girls becomes a huge catch 22 because as soon as you let it slip, fully gay people often seem to judge me as just being a snowflake
It's so difficult to be taken seriously as bi that you might as well just start presenting as gay

Should this be in /g/?

No. 182007

Gay bars can be a good place to meet bi/gay women. Also, there are LGBT clubs in colleges and groups in many places for adults as well though of course those would basically require actually joining a group and in some cases the groups can be rather political or about activism and such rather than solely about meeting people

No. 182009

>>182006
Word. I'm bi and sometimes lesbians won't want to date you or have a proper relationship with you because they think you're going to leave for a guy eventually. I can't blame them since I know that happens a lot but still.. I'm not just sexually attracted to women, I am also interested in having a relationship with one long term and everything that comes with it so ):

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>>182007
OP here

I dislike bars, especially the music. I'm also under the impression that gay bars are like 90% gay dudes and lesbian bars aren't really a thing.

Those LGBT clubs sounds quite nice, but I'm afraid they're going to be full of tumblr and trannies.

Is that HER app any good? Tinder seems like it's mostly couples looking for a unicorn.

No. 182018

>>182017
Idk where you live but bars have different themes/ambiances so don't think bars just mean loud defeaning music. They're also usually pretty quiet until 8pm (again, not from the US so I don't know how the bar scene is)

I think you're bound to bump into SJW short-fringed tumblrinas but you don't have to associate with them, besides saying hi from time to time.

I'm a bit afraid of joining a lgbt movement because there's a loooot of drama there and I don't have the time or energy, but I guess once you get in contact with someone "from within", you'll get aquainted with their friends and start building up a lgbt network, so to say.

No. 182020

>>182017
HER is a good app. It needs some adjustments (it used to crash a lot 6 months ago when I started using it) but yeah, it's a good app. However, lots of men with fetishes who don't even try to hide they're men lurk around it (surprised? I bet you're not), so avoid those. You will find some trannies too. But the vast majority of the users are women. I met a girl on it and we hanged our a couple times IRL. Nothing happened since I don't think we connected and I wasn't attracted to her, but it was a nice experience. Give it a try.

No. 182023

>>182018
>>182018
There's just one gay bar in my town, and it's pretty much just for men. I'm looking at a picture of my university's lgbtq+ club and I swear it's 1/3 trannies. I don't want to deal with those creeps.

No. 182035

Holy shit anon are you me? This is exactly how I've felt for a long time. I've been stuck in the closet and in heterosexual relationships for so long that I have no idea how to flirt with women, and I actually feel awkward talking to them. I'm also insanely introverted and would literally never go to a bar or club. Fuck my life.

No. 182048

>>182046
Political lesbianism is a complete meme, pretty much all of the women who tried it failed. You can't make a person gay anymore than you can force a gay person straight.

No. 182064

>>182020
Downloaded it. I actually got a ton of matches by just swiping for a while, some of them are really pretty as well. Hopefully gonna get a qt3.14 gf out of this.

No. 182068

>>182035
I'm in a similar boat just I never had a relationship whatsoever. Soon I'll be 27 and never had any sexual activity of any kind. At this point I'm too afraid that other women won't like the fact I'm unexperienced. Plus all the women I've been attracted to were straight.

No. 182082

>>182068
Marry me, anon. I'm 24 and I've only been sexual with one woman. I'm bi but I haven't had sex with a guy yet. I'd actually love to have an inexperienced girlfriend and i believe many women would as well.

No. 182083

Maybe this isn't totally related but not sure where else I should ask this on lolcow, so: have you ever read about the Kinsey scale? Is it at least moderately accurate? Anyone knows?
I got a test today and I got a 50/50. I always tell myself I'm more straight than lesbian but honestly I think 50/50 makes more sense than my lies.

No. 182129

>>182083
I've seen a different numbering system, of which I'm a 2 on the scale ("Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual"). I like guys a bit more, but still find myself attracted to girls as well.

I have little dating experience unfortunately. It makes it worse that my standards seem so high/narrow that I rarely find people I'm attracted to.

No. 182138

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i think i have an issue. all of the women who call themselves 'queer' here look absolutely ridiculous. like a parody of tumblr. they put effort into their appearance but in all the wrong ways - like dying their hair pink when their haircut is ugly and they're 100 pounds overweight.
i just want a gay sporty gf that's actually qt.

No. 182142

>>182138
In my experience, they do this to exemplify their ugliness.
As in, they already have something which gives them a horse face, so they may as well go full-on neon tie-dye hair so maybe this one part of their body they're self-conscious about isn't the focal point when someone looks at them.

I have a horse face, also. But not enough of one to justify shaving my hair into a buzzcut and gnawing at the callouses on my hands until the skin starts the peel. Which is a real thing my aunt does.

No. 182167

Whats a good way of showing you're gay without dying your hair blue/wearing obnoxious rainbow/back to front cap?

For that matter, where are all the other normie gay girls? I'm just not into the "tumblrina" or even the lesbian fuccboi styles that dominate the very small gay scene there is where's I am. I just wanna settle down with a cute girl…

No. 182172

>>182167
Well for a while I had chin-length hair and after that I wore flannel fairly often and both of those worked well enough, for something non-obnoxious.

No. 182176

I've preferred women over men for as long as I can remember and I've still never had a relationship with a woman. I don't know how to approach women, because I'm too scared they'll be straight or not in to me. I'm like an awkward teen with them. It blows. I don't want to stay single forever, but I'm pretty much only attracted to feminine and docile men (outside of that I have a type) which has been hard to come by because they're usually gay or taken.

All of the lesbians/bis I know look and dress the same as straight people. Maybe that's my issue. No gaydar. Only half joking…

Oh and I live in the bible belt. So fuck me, right?

No. 182179

>>182082
If you asked me that irl I'd say yes in a heartbeat. Maybe I'll finally manage to do all of my work remotely so I'll be able to live wherever I want because there's no way that in my tiny catholic country I'll ever find a soul mate.

> I'd actually love to have an inexperienced girlfriend and i believe many women would as well.

That gives me hope, thank you for that anon. Being a virgin at my age is a bit weird, straight or not. But I just can't imagine anything more than a friendship with a guy. I'd rather become the typical crazy cat lady than lose virginity with a guy for the sake of being normal.

No. 182187

I hadn't actually ever dated anybody before, or had a significant other. I've got a lot of stares though, before I got fat ;(

No. 182193

>>182172
Thanks anon that's good advice. I'm eating my own words and looking up cute rainbow bracelets on etsy. Just had to vent. None the less, any gay spaces that are in my city are for teens or dominated by old blokes.

Do you generally find you approach other girls or the other way around?

No. 182196

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I'm bisexual but have never been with a woman, besides fooling around in my teens.

I'm in a long-term relationship with a guy right now, but I'm starting to really wonder and fantasize about being with another woman. I'm not a man hater or anything, but I'm a little tired of dating men and can't help but think being with a woman would be much nicer and not as many issues.

I'd probably date a girl if my boyfriend and I ever broke up, but I'm so shy, especially around cute girls, and have no idea how to even be "gay"; as in, figuring out if a girl is into girls too or how to flirt with them.

Plus, just from what I've seen, not a lot of gay or bisexual women are really girly/feminine? I'm not into the whole straight dynamic in gay relationships. I just want to date someone that's girly like me.

No. 182313

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The only real crush I've ever had was on a girl, who used to be a friend of mine in high school. I never dated anyone because I'm a social retard and insecure since I was very sheltered and wasn't allowed to do anything, I'm not remotely attractive, and I live with my homophobic and generally fucked-up family (not out of choice, I'm too poor to move out). I can't even date men if they're not black or north african and if they're not muslim because of my family, actually. I think I'm ok with the fact that I'll never date anyone, I'm just so used to the idea now. I feel weird saying I'm into women, I'm too used to people online saying shit about bisexuals because of people pretending they are, and if anyone knew that irl I would be in some deep shit

No. 182316

>>182313
Saying you're bi feels weird at first, but it's far better than lying to people. Just make sure to move away from your shitty family when you get the opportunity.

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>>182196
>I'm in a long-term relationship with a guy right now, but I'm starting to really wonder and fantasize about being with another woman.
>I'd probably date a girl if my boyfriend and I ever broke up

a-anon are you me…. my bf is very sweet and was also my first relationship, but I want to date a girl. I realized I was bi in high school but I've been a fat greasy weeb with no social skills for most of my life, and didn't fix it until college, so flirting with other girls wasn't an option for me…

I am extremely sexually attracted to women as well as prone to developing intense crushes on them, but I feel awful bc my bg is really nice & loves me a lot. I'd never break up with him unless something terrible happened and we weren't happy, but god. I guessed I've just missed the boat on dating women.

No. 182579

>>182559
>I've been a fat greasy weeb with no social skills for most of my life, and didn't fix it until college, so flirting with other girls wasn't an option for me…

Same here seriously. I had quite a few crushes on girls in high school but I was too much of a depressed, gross neet to even attempt to befriend any girls. It's only recently, in my late 20's, that I'm starting to be really put together and really wanting to try dating another girl, but the whole boyfriend thing and feeling like it's too late for me or something.

No. 182598

>>182579
>I had quite a few crushes on girls in high school but I was too much of a depressed, gross neet to even attempt to befriend any girls.

You weren't a NEET. Do you even know what NEET stands for?

Unbelievable how people who don't even know what NEET stands for use it like this. Do you think it's a synonym for being sad or unhygienic/gross? None of these traits are required to be a NEET.

Not in Employment Education or Training

That is all, it doesn't mean ANYTHING else about a person.

No. 182603

>>182598
NEET triggered
Go take a shower you dirty NEET weeb

No. 182604

>>182603
lmao, they're right tho.
hikikomoris would be a closer fit, i suppose.

No. 182606

>>182604
I know, but they sounded so mad I couldn't help it. It's such a common mistake too.

No. 182609

>>182048
>thread is full of ""bisexuals"" who are tired of dealing with males and want to switch to pussy, starting with OP herself
>pulls le born this way 'b-but it's impossible to BECOME GAY!' lgbt meme

You bitches are the true meme here.

No. 182634

>>182598
I'm sorry I mislabeled myself and hurt your NEET fee fees, anon.

>Do you think it's a synonym for being sad or unhygienic/gross?

Yes lol

No. 182676

>>182609

That's why "bisexual" women have such a bad rep among lesbians. They want to get with women because they're hurt, men are horrible, yadda yadda… then when they get tired or realize that their lesbian relationship "won't work because I want to get married and have kids…" (As if you still needed a man to do all of that nowadays, but still..), then they kick their gfs out of their lives and go back to the d. I've never lied to a girl about my sexuality but sometimes I wonder if I should. I want my future girlfriend to know I won't drop her simply because my "bisexuality" is a passing thing or because I'm frustrated with men

No. 182712

>>182676
OP here, fuck you. I have made out with women and I have slept with one, I'm not faking anything because I'm butthurt at men. Nor have I said anything about wanting to end up with men.

Stop projectibg your own insecurities unto others.

No. 182740

>>182712
from your op

>The problem is that I have no idea where to find bi/gay women or how to flirt with them.
>but I'm sick of dating men. Rellationships with them seem stuck in all these rules and gender roles.

you dont know how to find bi and gay women nor even how to flirt with them but still.. you've slept with a woman and made out with others? um. okay. i hope you can believe your own bullshit to make you feel better about you being oh so bi. you just come across as the typical frustrated hetero gal. don't feel offended, im just pointing out obvious facts. maybe you're not like that irl but this is what your posts have shown.

No. 182753

I am being truthfully honest here. I have always been in a relationship since I can remember, barely any breaks in between. The majority have been men although I have briefly dated a girl. 2 close female friend came close to hooking up with me but I think they just wanted to try it out or some shit. My fantasy is… (I know it's fucking weird) to have a girlfriend who will be super close to me… kind of like a twin. I want to live in a space where we exercise together, work on our bodies, eat lots of fruit and veggies, give each other facials, and try out cute outfits together. I sound shallow and girly as fuck but I want a fellow bimboish girlfriend with an arty streak eg-likes taking drugs and watching obscure art house movies and playing video games yet likes dressing up together and looking cute when we go out. I don't want her overly girly, but on the same level girly-ness as me. I am very attractive but extremely shy and constantly in male relationships because of my low esteem.The only females interested in me are butch types that tease me (make fun of me playfully in jest) but I am such a sensitive little wanker that I get my feelings hurt. Haha I think about this all the time but I have never pursued anything because I know I have problems and it's shitty to idealise a relationship and I know that a girl probably wouldn't be able to me because I am a fucking basket case but it's easy to have relationships with men because they don't care if you cry about your body/life, if you look nice they will fuck anything.

Anyway rant over, I never normally post in the ot board but it's 3:55 am where I live and I can't sleep and I have no life.

No. 182754

>>182740
We were both drunk and a lesbian friend came unto me. I don't particularly care if you believe me or not.

I'm not the one starting shit here, you are.

No. 182957

>>182753
I'll date u

Signed, another femme who only attracts butch girls

No. 183275

Look up female-exclusive bisexual.

No. 183331

I'm a bisexual woman and so far the girls I've gone out are either batshit crazy or heavily involved in radfem politics. But, the men I've dated were pretty shitty too in their own way so maybe I attract weird people.
I find flirting with women extremely hard because I don't exactly know how to approach it, do I treat them normally like I would a friend? Even if you get physically closer it can be taken as normal-female-intimacy so unless it's in a context in which I'm sure the other woman is attracted to women, I'm completely lost. It's easier with men.
I still love pussy and go after girls even though I probably look autistic as fuck.

No. 183332

I'm bisexual but I've never had sex with a woman so I don't feel justified in calling myself that.

It's going to be the biggest regret in my life.

No. 183333

>>183332
why don't you try Tinder? It's normie as fuck and it will be a bit of work but I've hooked up with a few girls in the past two months.

No. 183334

>>183333
I'm in a relationship with a guy atm :(

No. 183355

>>183334
>putting a sad face right after you say you're in a relationship

Are you sure you like him, anon?

No. 183441

>>183334

are you lainey? respect your current relationship wtf

No. 183442

>>182676

i hate bisexual women too. never actually want a long term relationship with other women, just want to kiss a girl once or twice and fangirl about ruby rose. fuck that.

No. 183443

>>183275

so………. a lesbian?

anyway

No. 183444

>>182138

in my experience those are usually the ones that say they're pansexual and have huge tumblrs

No. 183446

>>183443
no, a lesbian is homosexual.

a bisexual who chooses to only date women is just a bisexual who chooses to date women.

No. 184258

I'd say the first fuckup is trying to figure out which girls are gay or bi. You don't spend a ton of time trying to figure out if a boy you like is straight. If you started getting close to a guy and find out he's gay does it crush your existence? I don't know maybe it does.

A better strategy is to go after girls you are attracted to. Being afraid of rejection is normal but for girls there isn't a leftover of chivalry where someone is going to approach. Generally if left as is you have people waiting for people who are themselves waiting, not very conducive to things happening. I guess that's why gay guys tend to be more successful than gay girls or straight people. Yeah sure there's the whole "gender equality" thing but eventually you'll have to ask yourself if you want equality or a girlfriend.

Someone in this thread posted about worrying that being physically close with another girl can be misunderstood as regular female interaction or whatever. You should be using that to your advantage. It's practically the same edge that a gay guy has with women. Their guard is already down.
Proof:
Have you ever been alone at night and gotten worried about being raped? If so, who are you worrying about raping you? My bet is you probably aren't worrying some chick is gonna jump out of the bushes and be like "gotcha bitch!" then start shoving her fist in you. So yeah don't be worried that a girl is gonna think that about you.

So talk to the girl you are interested in. Drop SUBTLE innuendo once in a while. I don't know, ask her about her shoes, see if that works for girls too. It probably leads to conversations about clothes or shopping or whatevs.

But legit the obvious mistake here is limiting to gay or bi girls. It's glaringly obvious bc a bunch of posters here are reluctant to identify as gay or bi. I bet if you're decently attractive you can pull a "straight" girl.

Anyways as for the one with bfs you should respect your relationship really. If you don't then talk to your bf about it, if he's degenerate enough he might buy the idea that it doesn't count if you're doing it with another girl.

No. 184259

I'm bi. I've never actually dated a woman because I'm kind of a hermit but despite being a girl, I've always been attracted to the idea of being the 'male' of the two. But like in a princely way. Being overly polite, gracious, ect. It's pretty juvenile, but I just want to spoil and dress up a girl in pretty dresses and then kiss her and if I can be lewd enough, even hold her hand.

No. 184414

I live in SoCal and the girls here consist of ones with pixie cuts, "you just assumed my gender I'm trIGGERED," insta thots, and models. I am none of those things, not horribly unattractive but pretty short and definitely don't have abs or follow a vegan diet. It's pretty hard to get girls to even consider me, even with HER, and since I'm just under 21 I can't go around to lesbian bars or anything. It's rough. I just want to date a cute girl who's not going to make us go on dates to Bernie Sanders rallies, and that's pretty much the bulk of the girls online in my area.

No. 184424

>>184259
you sound magical, hmu

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>>184259
>>184424
Sounds like Utena.. yes, I'm kinda old.

No. 184440

>>184259
Oh man I'm the same way and the worst part is that I'm 5'5" and I'm pretty much solely attracted to athletic women who are taller than me. So I want to date somewhat masculine women but also be the man in the relationship lol rip.

No. 184442

>>184414
I'm in socal but the bi girls in my area are the just wanna get drunk and make out type. And lesbian girls are either too old to relate to or very bitch.

No. 184445

>>184442
Here's a protip:
Instead of going after drunk sluts that want to make out or lesbians that will get abusive, just go for normal types.
Ideally you want to get a girl who's all "I'm not into girls but we just ended up dating each other somehow.."

Basically do the regular friendly stuff and start holding hands and kissing etc.

No. 184460

Oh bo…girl, you gu…girls talking bout your fantasies here makes me dream.

I'm bi but I pretty much gave up on finding a girl because I'm not very confident in my appeal to women even though I consider myself decent-looking.. and my life is currently too much of a mess to let anyone in. And also, I'd have yet to come out and I dread that

Like many of you, I like femmes or maybe a little androgynous girls. I like butches, too, I guess, but I'd rather date a femme.

In my teens, I used to be on a screaming pink lesbian bi dating site from my country but there were too few people on there and it was basically incredibly cringy and awkward teen flirting with crappy selfies on a crappy layout lol. There were butches who liked femmes and femmes who liked butches and thirsty, pathetic het couples. That WAS IT.

(Following fantasy is heavily idealised. I'm aware that a real relationship would be much more complex)

… I'd also like to be really close with a gf. Be like, super proud of and confident about us. Be stylish together and have amazing photos taken every now and then. Look hot together. Push each other looks-wise and celebrate when we look cool. Give extremely detailed compliments and also advice. Do make-up together. Share accessoires and things. Do each other's hair (Also, I has this odd fantasy of getting shaved……….)
Have great sex and don't settle for less. Be dirty together. Be casual together and really honest. Watch shows and talk about who we'd fuck and why. Fart around each other (feels like a Rose x Rosie vid lol). Be honest about our bodies. Share a place and fight about the decoration but making it work. Share our hopes and dreams and fears, our good and bad traits and the best parts of our personalities. Have someone find out sth special about you you didn't know. Have countless inside jokes. Annihilate the notion that girls aren't funny by being each other's fav entertainer. Have pets. Be each other's rock, haven, soulmate.

Also, I have to agree with some people though. While great and exceptional female x female relationships exist, bi girls tend to idealise them sometimes (me, too) to a point where no girl can meet their standard. Compromises exist in most constellations

No. 184811

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>>184259
>I've always been attracted to the idea of being the 'male' of the two. But like in a princely way.

ahh same

No. 184815

>>184414
>>184442

whoa I'm bi and in socal too. unfortunately…yeah, that seems to be a thing with not just the ones here, but the ones I meet online too. my bff is gay and says the worst thing is all the other girls she finds are basically tumblr sjws or only have a personality consisting of "I'm gay lol."

I'm just kinda happily surprised about seeing people from the same place on this thread lol. I'm taken but it's nice seeing I'm not the only non-terrible, non-pixie cut-ed, non-insta-thot, and non-"make out and get drunk" bi chick here.

No. 184824

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>>184811
>tfw no haruka gf ;________;

No. 185297

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I'm bi, and although I had absolutely no problem pulling "straight" girls and occasionally gay girls at parties, none of them ever wanted to actually date if I talked to them after because they're liek totaLLY Str8 except when im durnk haha and the lesbian chicks just brushed me aside becuase I was younger.
Those experiences put me off trying to pick up girls irl so I turned to dating apps, and then it would just be waves of thirsty dudes crying threesome and all the girls never messaged me back, or messaged me at all

I'm now happily settled with an also bisexual boyfriend but man, I really wish I had had at least once positive lesbian relationship that I could fondly recall

No. 185455

Aw man, the threesome people are the worst. I hate it when I match with a cute girl and she messages me only to be like "actually I'm taken just looking for a 3rd for me and my bf :))))" especially when it's on apps that are specifically for women like HER.

No. 185489

>>182064
Any reports on this?

No. 185533

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>finally coming to terms with my sexuality and soft-butchness after so many years
>want a fellow gender noncomforming gf that i can connect with so badly
>waited too long and now every woman like that is either straight or a transtrender
o-oh well….it's not like i'm well adjusted enough for a relationship anyway…..

>>184824
i feel you, anon ;-;
she's my idol tbh. when i was younger i wasn't sure whether i wanted to kiss her or be her…now i realize it was totally both lmao

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>>185533
wife goals or life goals, am i right?

a qt sportsy gf is the ideal

it's so funny how sailor moon impacted me when i was a kid

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>>185533
>she's my idol tbh. when i was younger i wasn't sure whether i wanted to kiss her or be her…now i realize it was totally both lmao

same omg

>>185542
that gif tho, ugh I loved Yuga Yamato as Mamoru
The idea that a woman would play the dude absolutely fascinated me

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>>185549
yuga yamato is so princely. she looks better dressed as a dude than with long hair and a dress on.

i'm in love with her.

No. 185554

>When you're a semi-butch bi woman and more into women but want a male relationship to be more conforming to society's rules and you're deadly afraid of coming out to your parents and family
>Constantly find women more sexually desirable and have crushes on women
>Constantly find men repulsive
I just want to live a comfy life..

No. 185566

I wish I could meet a butchy anon from this thread and be happy with her. I am bi and very feminine but I like women better sexually and romantically and I think there's nothing more wonderful than a sweet butch lesbian girlfriend.
BUT WHERE ARE THEY? apparently only around lolcow as I can't find any IRL unless they're really old late 30s and beyond) compared to me.

>>185549

It makes sense that they only chose women to play the characters. Even the sailor stars who most assume are actually male (and just transform into female) are women in the manga. The 90s anime made that a bit confusing. Seiya is actually a beautiful lesbian, not just some guy who becomes a sailor scout and has a crush on usagi

No. 185576

>>185551
i am slain

"princely" women are top tier. i wish they existed irl.

No. 185602

>>184460
the last part of what you wrote made me feel really bad, Anon. damn,

No. 185694

>>184460
>I'm bi but I pretty much gave up on finding a girl because I'm not very confident in my appeal to women even though I consider myself decent-looking.. and my life is currently too much of a mess to let anyone in. And also, I'd have yet to come out and I dread that

Are you me, anon. This is literally my life right now. A stupid mess and I'm so stuck in the middle of a rut, I can't even imagine being worthy of being in any relationship, so it's better to not try at all, lol.
Though you sound like a chill girl, I-i'd totally be into those fantasies.


I can't even imagine all the retarded comments from everyone if I ever dared to date a girl. I always presented myself as hetero because I never thought it was possible that I might be bi, and surely those crushes are platonic! It sounds retarded, but I just grew up in the mindset that it's simply impossible to be bi for me. Because, that can happen to other people, but certainly not to me, right? It's just a phase, right?
Idk, and now I'm 24 and feel like the window of opportunity has passed. It just feels pathetic to come out now, and I don't know who would even want me. As said, I only recently came to terms that bisexuality exists, and I feel like if I admitted it out loud, everyone would just call me a hypocrite. Not sure if any woman would even want to date me, or if they would just see another desperate bisexual in me. Not that I would know how to properly approach a woman in the first place, ha.

Eh, long story short, life's a mess and not trying is better than ridicule and rejection, I guess

No. 186114

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>>184460
Shit anon, i had to shead a little tear at that last paragraph. I hope you find that.

No. 186173

>>182634
>>182603
you're both actually stupid.
le i'm so introverted and gross xdddd makes me a literal NEET you guizzz
e-girls smdh


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