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No. 438946

There are some "rules":

>Can be extended family (not just parents/siblings/grandparents/etc.)

>Can't be a super old occurrence: ("My ancestors killed people.")

No. 438969

Not entirely sure if this counts so I apologize if it doesn't.
My great aunt (this was in the 1920s) ended up with a litter of kittens she didn't want to take care of so she put them in a bag to throw them in the river and drown them.
However, she didnt think to tie the bag shut, so the kittens started crawling out of the river…. She ended up deciding to keep them.

No. 438975

Lots of family drama. Sister poured water all over my laptop. Dad shit on the floor while high/drunk, so I had to clean it up. Dad also tried to steal from a stand at a baseball game when I was like 10 or so. The security came up and questioned him. I was super confused. Really bad situation, ended in drunken fights between my parents. Idk it’s all a blur

No. 439003

>>438969
That's fucking cute

My dad had an affair with my friends mum whom I sat next to in class and it gave me a breakdown and I had to leave the school and it was freaking awful

No. 439015

Kinda long, sorry but it's a lot of drama.

>my great-grandmother (87) owns a house that's been in our family for about 60+ years

>she lets some of my cousins and aunts live there, all she asks is that they pay a small amount of rent
>they treat her like shit and refuse to pay rent, ignore her phone calls so she can't contact them, will ignore her even though they live in the same building
>demand she fixes any problem with the house, when she points out she can't afford to fix it because they don't pay her rent they just get angry and annoyed
>they keep trying to force her out the home that SHE owns

Fast forward a few months

>My great grandmother moves in into a new place with my cousin (her granddaughter)

>After awhile my great grandmother's debit card starts getting declined when she goes to buy her medicine for her health issues;she mysteriously has significantly less money in her account than she thought she did
>My mom does some investigating, turns out my cousin was stealing from my great grandmother
>Cousin was taking advantage of her in order to pay for new furniture, buy things for her ridiculously expensive wedding, fund her business, and just overall buy stuff she couldn't afford on her own
>My mom confronts her and she cries and apologizes and promises to stop
>Now that she no longer has access to my great-grandmother's funds, she starts treating her like crap and eventually kicks her out
>My great grandmother moves back into the family home, my cousins and aunts are pissed, take my cousin's side and tell my great grandmother that she isn't welcomed in HER OWN HOME because she's "causing drama"

Now no one will talk to my mom because she's defending my great grandmother, and there's been some really intense arguments going on. I used to think my family was cool but seeing the disgusting way they treat the woman who has helped raise and take care of them is so awful. It's obvious that they wish she'd just drop dead already so she's no longer a burden and they can get her money.

No. 439016

My dad tried to convince my mother to fuck her boss for his money. He also had an affair with a waitress and would bring home takeout bags with messages from her obviously written on them. shit's fucked.

No. 439025

my mom kicked me out before i was 18 for being gay but it turns out she kicked out all of my other siblings before 18 too (except one, he got an apartment first i think) and they were forced to live with other people like friends families so that she could run away with her bf

No. 439050

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This is just a constant occurrence but my mom is convinced that every woman on the block is trying to seduce my dad lmao. She's very insecure. I guess she's worried my dad might run away with some rando. My dad isn't cute btw and they're both in their late 50s. She's obsessed with watching the neighbors anytime they come out. My mom has never once talked to these women but knows so much about them just from watching them. She's been asking me to buy her binoculars on amazon ffs. If my dad is out in front washing the cars, she's there by the window watching to see if he'll acknowledge the lady neighbors. If he does, she chews him out about it and they argue.I think my dad has probably done some shady stuff in the past but he wont admit it to my mom. I love them both but their relationship is ridiculous and I can't wait to move out.

Related:
Had an uncle catch herpes from a prostitute after he got remarried.
My grandpa would constantly cheat on my grandma so my dad might have half siblings running around somewhere.
My grandma would always cry when she was drunk because she knew my grandpa was doing this.

No. 439051

My mother stole all my vidya consoles and sold them for drug money and then got arrested for selling heroin when I was 14

stillfeelsbadman, I had a really cool limited edition 3dsxl and they're worth a lot of money now

No. 439055

My sister falsely accused my dad of physical and emotional abuse when I was only still a teenager and she was a young adult, taking him to jail and making us bail him out. All because she wanted to move in with a slightly predatory ""friend"" of hers that my dad felt wary of. She feels no guilt about it now and thinks what she did was right. The charges were dismissed and our family is fine, albeit a bit hurt.

She disowned the rest of the family just because she wanted to be with a friend in a big city, and fucked herself over big time. She now lives in a group home working at a fast food place, and doesn't know how to drive or have any useful skills.

No. 439058

My dad is a physically and emotionally abusive asshole, has beaten and choked my mom, dislocated my sister's shoulder. Would tell my mom he'd kill her if she left him. Used to pick on me about my weight until I got unhealthily skinny.


I haven't lived at home in years but I'm still terrified of him and other men.

No. 439063

my dad molested his half sister, a cousin, another half sister and I think he molested me too.

No. 439064

When i was like 9 or 10 i was being awarded with some academic excellency thingy which was a whole event with kids from all over the state, and i was in line to receive the medal from the major itself, waiting with my mom until she had to leave in a rush, leaving me there and go running to bail my dad because he got into a fist fight with some guy he worked with and police was going to take him away, he didn´t get locked up (not really sure what happened really, probably they all calmed down and no charges were pressed) but my dad lost his job which was awful for the family finances and no one was there to see me get the medal or take my picture, had to wait like a couple hours after everyone had left so they would come pick me up and everyone was in the worst mood. What a shitty day.

My dad is not such a bad guy, he just had the stupidest fucking temper that burned him so many bridges and ended so many friendships and opportunities is insane. Everyone in mu family is kinda like that, short fused, easily frustated, even me, it sucks.

No. 439067

My mom fell in love with a crackhead when I was 16 and he pimped her out, drained her bank accounts, broke into our home, threatened to rape my brother and I, beat the shit out of my mom… etc etc. Glad that part of our lives is fucking over.

No. 439068

>>439065
Omg Anon I'm so sorry, my mom did this too with my artwork. And whatever she didn't throw away she made sure to tell me was disturbing and shit. I don't really make art anymore either.

No. 439147

My dad brought his favourite prostitute to a family dinner with my in-laws.

No. 439906

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My actual grandpa spent all my grandma's money on his impulse buys and short-sighted dreams, cheated on her, beat my mom and then one day fucked off to his affair in france and left my grandma alone with my mother. As soon as she found out, my grandma changed the doorlock and called it a day. For years they told me that he died of cancer shortly after. Until one day when my grandma corrected me, said "Actually, he supposedly killed himself" and then explained how he not only took all her money, cheated on her, beat his kid and left her alone but also had debts he was most likely running from (she knew because those people showed up several times at their house when he still lived with her and asked for him) and very likely got killed by the ones he lent it from.
She remarried my now-grandpa who my mom heavily implies she got molested by.

No. 439998

My dad attended my important church confirmation thing not only hungover as fuck, but he was drinking there from a flask. In a fucking church. I'm not religious, it's just a custom here to go through this shit so you get money and shit, but I was mortified. Not the worst thing he did, but it was in a way the most hurtful. The drunk manbitch also tried to shoot me (twice), is a narc and a drunk who has threatened to kill himself so many times with police having to take away his guns. I nearly had a breakdown at the church tho, having to see that drunk fuck in the damn pew in the middle of my friends' families and like??? why the fuck can't you be normal for a one fucking day? He didn't do this to my other siblings because things weren't as bad back then, so I am still so resentful over everything. He also flushed a tankful of fishes i loved. Good riddance, oldfuck, hope you die alone.

No. 440030

>>439147

I beg the fuck your pardon

anon pls, we need this story

No. 440045

(1/3)
>be me
>be 8 and on a trip to the US with my mum + aunt and her kids + grandma
>we go to a public pool
>mum goes to the toilet
>I’m chilling in the water and freeze up when I notice I’m surrounded by strangers
>where is my family?
>scared, frightened, look around for a life guard but see none at this foreign US weirdo pool so awkwardly float around on my own for 10 minutes until I see them come back
>remember feeling very small so as not to attract strangers’ questions because I was shy as fuck as a kid

My mum told me when this happened she noticed her sister walked into the bathroom without me and was furious at what this indicated because her sister is too smart to have left me alone out there by accident.

On the same trip:
>aunt lures me over to a door at some building, we’re not at the hotel, this could be fucking anywhere
>lets the door close on me
>thank god mum spots me in time and calls me over before the door closes on me

>be me, be 11 now

>visit aunt because my mum keeps trying and failing 4d chess to improve the entire family as a unit when it’s clear none of her brothers and sisters care about her or each other
>aunt offers me a drink with her other children
>mum kept an eye the whole time and tells me not to.
>I don’t get why, she won’t explain
>years later she brings it up, that drink was left there for hours and was not poured for me
>mfw the sheer spite and oddness and shit that makes no sense to me?????

Other aunt stories:
>mum’s memories of this sister are of a greedy little girl who ate, played and did no chores, was spoilt
>in this 3rd world war torn country (thanks America) my retarded grandparents put all the burden on my mum to cook and clean/look for food/survive shit while the other siblings got away with doing nothing because they skived out or explicitly didn’t have to
>as an adult this sister never helps my mum, financially or otherwise
>let my maternal grandparents split because grandmother would conveniently be living with her to babysit the kids
>even though my mum is a single parents and needed the babysitting much more as we lived on our own with 0 other income (meanwhile the sister has her husband, her brothers and lots of social connections to get handouts and favours)

>aunt LITERALLY turned up at our doorstep, UNINVITED, with a complete stranger who was a friend only she knew with that woman’s own children.

>basically forcing my mother to accomodate her, grandma, my 2 cousins, the stranger woman and her 2 kids for a few days because…..??? definitely no benefit to my mother.

>only drag me + mum on that fucking pointless US trip because SHE wants to hang out with family friends who are like… idk 6 removed cousins. Basically I don’t know them, and this bitch almost made me a lost child twice over, the demon.

No. 440048

mom used to strangle me for fun

No. 440055

Anons I'm sorry you've dealt with such disgusting garbage people and hope you all distance yourselves and live better lives without them. Love you all.

No. 440060

>>440045
Fuck me, I should clarify, that aunt wasn’t just being a spoilt greedy fatty as a kid, this is one child who is getting most of the food at a time and place where dinner is rations and her parents spoil her with it because ????

(2/3)
This week:
>aunt texts my mum out of the blue asking if we want to go to and visit the third sister. We say no, we’re working that day.
>a few days later, she texts her asking to stay over
>mum deduces she’s using this place as a pit stop on her way to visit the third sister, that’s why she texted
> OF COURSE, BED AND BREAKFAST WILL BE PROVIDED FOR FREE. She’s not going to say thank you.
>yet another example of my aunt using my mum’s generosity and only contacting her when there’s something to be gained. No, for some insane reason I can’t argue, we can’t tell her "no".

I really hope my psycho aunt isn’t bringing my cousin over because this bastard:
>creepy nerd type. I think it’s God’s sick joke that we happen to share uncanny interests in bands and hobbies.
>rude, no manners, antagonistic, casually insults me during general conversation
>I made a single joke at his expense when I was 11 and watched him visibly force himself into a tantrum to get the adult attention to be placated.
>He did a lot of things to me or my stuff and I couldn’t fucking cry about it because nobody ever came to my rescue, only mum the saint who could only tell me "just ignore it and they’ll go away".
>my mum watched him, as a 5 year old, chew and rip up his lip until it bled, then wiped his face all over the carpet crying "auntie hit me!" Anyone who knows my mum would know she’d never do that, except for grandma because she’s servile beyond sense.
>autistically into weapons and got himself into serious shit for saying things about black people, despite living in a fucking majority black area. How stupid is that? He doesn’t even believe it, he just said it at the time because he "doesn’t care" and I think he thought their reactions were funny. He’s done other stupid things that have attracted police attention.
I have traumatic dreams when I’m extremely stressed and feel threatened or wronged by someone irl. In those dreams I beat him as he tantrums to near death out of sheer rage, desperation and vengeance even though he has nothing to do with the scenario stressing me irl, I just loathed him as a child that much. It’s not a mystery at all and that makes it all the more disturbing to me. I feel even more undermined knowing I couldn’t even attempt that now because he’s a grown adult male and not a pudgy manipulative little shit machine. Considering how he is now I think he could actually kill me if he wanted to if I tried picking a fight.

No. 440061

My Russian grandmother married a penpal prison mate who beat her half to death in front of my mother. Also my father has 3 children by 3 different women (myself included) and moved to another country to avoid being tracked down for child support. Yup.

No. 440071

My mom called me once and told me how voices told her all my limbs had been cut off and I'd been continuously raped and my cat skinned, seriously that shit still keeps me up at night. She was high on meth.

No. 440109

>>439906
Remembered more things and now I can't decide which is the worst.
My Great-Grandfather was a raging Nazi in the 30s and never actually changed (which is funny cause I'm mixed lel). He died of testicle cancer before I was born.

Years later when my mom had me, my father did the exact same thing my grandpa did to my grandma, minus the beating and dying.

When I was 13, I tried to run from home after a fight but my mom then had a nervous breakdown and locked me in my room for almost two days without responding to me.

No. 440149

A man in my family molested my step sister when she was 10 and another girl in the family who was about 11. No one did anything and I was 4 at the time. My mom never left him see me alone but she couldn't get him arrested or anything because the kid's mother didn't want to file a report. She dind't want to ruin the girl's reputation because it's a small town and shit.

No. 441091

>>440060
So the cousin came and went and he’s a total creep, he keeps bragging about being ‘borderline’, pretending to be schizo to scare his sister, boasting about his ‘psychotic’ tendencies and dreams about killing everyone ‘because it’s the most logical outcome’, ‘I feel nothing’ what a fucking edgelord. He thinks we’re friends because I’ve entertained his brag stories and now he wants us to be roommates. Yeah, no.

(3/3)
>be my dad
>decide to go out for cigarettes before the kid is born, cigarettes are on another landmass
>hang around anyway and drop into the home, unwelcome, and lift the kiddo away from incompetent grandma who lets this happen because we’re a patriarchal race. Mum sadly has to work and has no idea of the routine kidnappings at the time and can’t do anything about it even if she does. Telling grandma ‘no’ doesn’t work because she yields every time. She’s not retarded, she just won’t listen.
>routinely take kid anon around to show off to his own family to look good and attract girls who like ‘men who are good with kids’, then dumps me back when he’s done.
>His dad (my paternal grandfather) gave us his blessing and 3k for family things which he pocketed in front of my mother who never saw a penny of it, or any kind of formal childcare costs
>turn up at kiddo’s fourth(!) birthday party uninvited because lulz
>attempt start a fight with the other men
>kid’s mum sees the glass bottle in hand and tries to swipe it
>hit her instead
>pretend to be drunk to police when they arrive

Yeah. But wait, there’s more!

>be me, have memories of going upstairs in the aftermath.

>Aunts and uncles left, nutcase cousin is crying and my grandma is comforting him. You know, instead of looking for me, currently wandering around confused and unattended in the aftermath?
>remember going back downstairs and the exact pink cardigan my mum wore with the spots of blood on it from her forehead where she was hit.
>she tells me "it’s okay, don’t be scared" over and over
>I couldn’t cry and felt more distantly aware that "ouch, that looks painful, this is what bleeding looks like".
>years later I bring it up and my mum told me everyone promptly gtfo and nobody helped her and she was left sweeping up the broken glass on her own while dealing with a head injury she needed stitches for
>This is supposed to be my birthday party

Bitch where the fuck is my samurai sword because I deserve to be the heroine of a Kill Bill spin off. If I don’t get justice just give me this blogpost.

No. 441106

I have a lot but I'll limit myself so it's not too identifying.

About 21-22 years ago my mum let my older sister stay in her house while she was away overseas for a few years (sister was probably 25 at this stage? idk). My sister then had someone impersonate my mum and forge her signature to "give her" the house my mum owned while she was out of the country.

My mum was gravely ill in a hospital for two months only a few miles away while all this was happening (got better thankfully).

My sister then sold the house within a few months for about £170k and did fuck knows what with the money. Almost no solicitor would take the case and the one that did "lost" the paperwork my mum gave him and immediately cut contact with her.

It was really, really fucked up. The only contact I've had with my sister since the age of 3 is once when she somehow got my mobile number and threatened to kidnap me from school when I was 12.

There's a load of fucked up shit in my family but this one probably had the biggest long-term impact because mum had always intended to go back to her neighbourhood and friends but never could.

No. 441122

my mom murdered her friend out of negligence. said friend had serious heart issues and my mom nagged her into going to a sauna/steam room. even after the friend said she wasn't feeling well, my mom ignored it and pressured her to stay longer. Later that night she had a heart attack and died. my mother has always been kind of a scumbag but she just straight up killed someone this time.

No. 441145

This might not be as shitty as some other things in this thread, but it happened like yesterday and i have to went about it

>Dad takes the family car, our dog and some clothes

>Says he's gonna go to the garden and water some plants
>Writes a message to my mom that he needs some time for himslef and won't come for dinner
>Blocks her
>Brother asks him wtf is going on
>He says he met the woman of his life and won't come back

Fucker didn't even have the balls to say goodbye to his children, how pathetic can you get

No. 441160

>>441145
what a fuckin coward.

No. 441161

>>441145
Don't let your mom take him back anon. You all deserve better.

No. 441178

>>438946
>Can't be a super old occurrence: ("My ancestors killed people.")
I don't get this rule, surely knowing you have murderer DNA affects your life?

My tinfoil is that this whole thread is just a plant to expose how farmers are psychos because we all have daddy issues or whatever. It wouldn't bother me if it was just called something like 'family issues general', we already have a narc parent thread anyway, but this thread is too specific in just asking farmers to blog.

No. 441211

>>441178
I think they are talking generations back, like "my 12th great geandfather kidnapped slaves in the 1700s" because that happened so long ago that everyone probably has ancestors like that somewhere along the line.

No. 441264

>>441178
OP here. Not trying to expose anyone. The reason it's so specific is because I'm just curious as I've had some fucked up family things happen myself. Also what >>441211 said is correct.

No. 441269

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My dad murdered someone then got away with other felonies because of the new Clinton law imposed back in the 90s. He then tried to sell my sisters & I out to random older men when we hit puberty. Not only has he impregnated a number of women & then bailing away, but he's still doing it to this day. He thinks he's lived an honest life all because he has never hit our mother, but has emotionally abused her & assaulted my sister. I was also molested by a cousin, my godfather, & my step-brother. My father knew about it & did nothing, but say it was my fault for wearing skirts from ages 3 - 9. I wasn't raised by my mother, she was in prison most of the time or psych wards for drug addiction & schizophrenia. So I had to deal with a lot being raised by a single dad. The single worst thing though, is when my father forced my step-brother to perform a sex act on my younger brother at gunpoint because he thought it would be funny while making us watch. He's dead now. I don't know how or why, don't care to find out.

No. 441271

>>441269
Let me correct myself, he did it till he died, but if he was alive it would be the latter.

No. 441284

We're not close at all to my Dad's side of the family. His father had multiple children with multiple women, and my Dad never bothered to get to know his brothers because of this.

So imagine our surprise when it turns out my father's half-brother is a murderer and a rapist, and was convicted in the 70s for it.

No. 441322

>>441091
>we’re a patriarchal race
sorry if this is offensive, but what race?
human race or is it like a culture thing?

No. 441346

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My dads got two younger brothers, one full blood brother and one half brother that came from the woman my grandpa married after his divorce from my bio grandma. Judging from the stories I hear from my dad and my uncle, she was a horrible woman who treated my dad just alright and treated my uncle (who couldn’t have been older than 5 or 6 at the time) like you see in those typical stepmother stories where their bio kids can do no wrong and the step kids are all horrible failures with no manners. There was one instance where my uncle was about 5 years old and was plying with my dad and some if their cousins, apprently the steo brother (who was still a baby) was laid out on a blanket on the floor and my uncle accidentally steps on the baby. The step mom grabs him by the neck and screams “You l step on my baby and I’ll fucking stomp on you” . There were other accounts of her verbally abusing him over typical kid things like throwing up in the middle of the night and forcing him to sleep in the bathtub without any pillows or bedding.

Flash forward to sometime in the 90s, the half brother is a drug addict who fucks around with the law. He gets caught with fraud or something along those lines, and by the time the police come for him he has already construed the whole plan to steal my uncles identity and forge his hame on everything and thus run out and hide when the police come looking for my uncle. My uncle spent a year in prison for a crime he didn’t commit, all while losing the respect of his own father and even my dad (who had no idea of the situation other than his little brother being jailed for fraud charges). Half brother comes clean after some other truths are dug up and he can’t come out of the story as clean as he thought he could. He gets caught and locked up in jail, all while getting mommy and daddies sympathy and support. Uncle gets along with life as if nothing ever happened. His dad acts as if this part of his life never happened. Half brother goes on to do more drugs, have a stint in the military only to run away and go awol, and have have a few kids with random women all with the supoort of grandpas money.

my dad and uncle always talked shit about the ‘golden child’ who can do no wrong and gets all of their dad’s attention. Their dad sees them and their families at best once a year, while seeing the step brother and his kids multiple times. Hell, grandpa ended up divorcing half brothers mom way back and married my dads step mom in the 80s. Even THEN he sees and supports her kids and grandkids more than he’s seen our family or my uncles family.

No. 441406

My relatives used to own an apartment in Vienna, so every once in a while they went there for holidays and invited the rest of the family to visit. They inherited it from an aunt who married some rich guy who used to own jewellery store (and several others). Their only son died young (killed himself? idk), so they had no direct descendants. It was a really nice place, plenty of antiques, paintings and old photos. It was also located very close to St. Stephen's Cathedral, and let me tell you, maybe it was because I was a kid back then and everything was new to me, but Vienna is all around creepy and there was something subtly wrong with this apartment too.

Eventually my relatives ended up selling it, because it was getting too expensive to keep. Anyways, several years ago I learned that the aunt's husband was an Austrian SS-man deployed to Eastern front during the WWII. After the war he avoided denazification and got rich off of the looted goods from eastern Untermenschen. I find it kinda ironic he ended up marrying a dirty Slav who passed everything to her dirty Slav relatives.

Also my parents didn't call an ambulance when I tried to kill myself via drug and alcohol mix and to this day I wonder what were they thinking. I vomited some of it back and later ended up hospitalized in an institution, but they still act like my diagnosed depression is some sort of a child's made-up story. And those are educated, well-off people, mind you.

My father also smothered me with a pillow at least once. He wasn't trying to kill me, it was just a punishment, I think.

My mother had some crazy moments too, but I can kinda excuse it, since she was terminally ill and constantly stressed. There's something seriously mentally wrong with my stepmother tho, and I just hope I'll be away when menopause hits her, because she's gonna get twice as unhinged.

No. 441407

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hello daddy issues

memories of him watching porn channels with me on his lap.

was molested by someone else and kept it a secret for years, when i came out with it he said it was my fault. i was 10.

kicked me onto the streets when i was 15 because i stood up to him when he was yelling at my mom. i defended her and she told me to pack my things and get out, too.

saw facebook chats between him and my two older siblings where he called me a worthless pig. they agreed.

sister posted benign underaged pics of me on her ageplay/daddy kink tumblr.

anytime i bring something up to try and get closure, every family member denies it/says i'm being overdramatic/don't deserve an apology. nothing heinous has happened with them lately because i'm on track for a successful career and i'm their little money machine. fuck me.

No. 441409

>>441407
that's really upsetting anon, I'm sorry you had to go through that. you deserve so much better. maybe try seeing a therapist if you can

No. 441452

>>441407
DUMP
THEIR
ASSES

No. 441457

>>441407
jesus, how is it possible for everyone in your family to be this huge of stinky, smelly turd? that's just bad luck on your part.

No. 441588

>>441409
thanks for your empathy anon, actually seeing a therapist regularly and she was the one who made me realize what's normal in my family is 100% fucked
>>441452
they won't see a cent from me. i'm literally the only person in my family who's gone (going) to uni and has a chance at moving up a bracket. i'm going to estrange myself and live a kickass life once i start my job
>>441457
yeah they're all fucked in the head, my dad is a shitty narcissist and it rubbed off on everyone else. p sure they all just hate me because i don't buy into his bullshit

No. 442540

>>440030
Nothing that bad happened. I'd met this prostitute a few times before because my dad has been one of her punters for about three years. She's always been nice to me. My in-laws know what my parents are like at this point and to be honest this isn't the worst thing they've witnessed. It's usually my alcoholic mother that turns any family event into a guaranteed car crash but on this occasion she was outdone by my dad.

>my parents arrive late

>my mother is already so drunk she needs my husband to princess carry her into the house
>prostitute says thank you to me for inviting her
>wtf? Why would I invite my dad's whore for Sunday dinner?
>then I felt bad for thinking that because my dad had obviously told her something different and I don't hate her for what she does or anything
>set another place at the table before she notices
>sit down for dinner
>try and tuck some kitchen roll into my mother's top so she doesn't make too much mess and she tells me to kill myself
>polite conversation starts
>my sister and I make an effort to include the prostitute and make her feel welcome
>in-laws are whispering amongst themselves about who this other woman is
>My mother-in-law asks the prostitute about herself and what her job is
>prostitute says what she is, credit to her for being honest I guess
>awkward silence because my in-laws then realised why she was there
>my dad thinks admitting that he's known her for a few years and we've already met is an appropriate response
>my mother-in-law sighs, my father in law starts laughing, my brother-in-law and his girlfriend look at each other
>while this is happening my sister is trying to help my mother feed herself. She has nerve damage from being an alcoholic for 20 years and has difficulty using a knife and fork
>my mother tells my sister she wishes she'd aborted her
>my mother-in-law warns her that if she doesn't behave she will make her sit in the conservatory by herself
>normal conversation starts up again
>my mother falls asleep and wets herself
>after dinner we go into the front room for tea and coffee
>my dad and the prostitute start telling my in-laws about the times they've met up in expensive hotels and restaurants
>I knew where this was going because my dad likes retelling the story of the time he and this prostitute got caught having sex in a hotel jacuzzi
>I left the room because I do not want to hear that
>I took my mother out of the kitchen and into the bathroom so I could wash her off and change her clothes
>as my in-laws are leaving my mother-in-law puts her arms around me and tells that I'm an amazing woman for putting up with so much shit from my parents and that she's proud to have me as her daughter-in-law
>my parents get ready to leave
>I help my sister force my mother to take a travel sickness tablet so she doesn't vomit in the back of my dad's Jaguar
>prostitute thanks me again for inviting her, compliments my cooking and says she had a good time
>after everyone was gone my husband looks at me and says "just holy fucking shit"
>later I find out that my brother-in-law's girlfriend had put what happened on instagram

No. 445642

>>442540
I would be an abusive alcoholic too if my worthless ex husband was proudly showing off a sex trafficked woman to everyone

No. 445672

>>442540
Why do you even still associate with these people? I've cut family members out of my life for much less. Life is short. Fuck having to deal with that absolute, grade A bullshit.

No. 445683

>>442540
Damn anon, that was a wild ride.

No. 445684

I have a cousin that went to prison for 25 years for murder. She's a lesbian and it had to do with her lover being in a bad relationship, but it turned out to be a set up or something. I don't know all the specifics because it's not a topic we want to talk about when we see her, obviously. She's really nice, but thinking about what she did makes me feel really strange.

Also, a different shade of fucked up: my dad left me in a crack den when I was a baby to go find drugs and get high. My mom had to drive several hours from another state to try and find me in the middle of the night. She only told me about this when I was an adult and after my dad had been clean for a few years.

No. 445728

>>442540
your dad is a disgusting piece of shit. i hope he encounters much misery. i feel so sorry for your mom.

No. 445735

My great uncle accidentally shot one of his sons in the heart and killed him.

No. 445769

Had an auntie say that the people in the Pulse shooting deserved to die, and that they had it coming and will all burn in hell. Said the shooter had done a good deed, and she said this all with me in the backseat; her lesbian niece.

No. 445777

>>445769
And I assume she thinks she belongs in heaven. How angelic of her, wishing eternal torture upon people after being shot at. Heaven sounds like such a lovely place if it's full of people like this lady /s

No. 445781

>>438946
My aunt killed her son (my cousin) by leaving a burning cigarette in their trailer while he was sleeping. After his death and the investigation was over, she came back to the site, unfazed, and pulled out scrap metal from the burnt down trailer to recycle for drug money. Keep in mind, her son's dead ashes were on them.

I had another great aunt who killed someone while drunk driving, and managed to pin it on someone else who was also in the vehicle because they both fled the scene. Someone else is being charged with her reckless behavior.

My great uncle raped my mom.

My great grandfather prostituted out his daughters as young as 13, and put his only son up for adoption, to feed his alcohol problem.

My uncle beat two of his dogs to death because they were "barking too loud." These were both on separate occasions. He pushed one of his sons to attempt suicide by stalking him.

When I came out to my mother with my suicidal thoughts, she handed me a knife and told me to"stop being so dramatic and kill myself already."

I have way more stories than this. I can't even pick one.

No. 445800

>>439015
Make sure they get 1$ on the will so they can’t arguw she didn’t include them because she forgot

No. 445825

My family is made up of scumbags so here we go.

My dad walked out on his heavily pregnant girlfriend. Then never spoke to them again, until his daughter (my half sister) was like 20 and pregnant? He never paid child support or anything like that.

My Cousin has 3 young children. She got into a relationship with a convicted peado. She then stood by him as he got sent back to prison for committing more crimes. It has never been confirmed that he raped/molested her kids, but I think it's pretty fucking obvious it happened.

My parents are super fucking awful people, but I think the most fucked up thing is that they always told me I should feel lucky cos they've never sexually abused me. That and the fact that I have had PTSD my entire fucking life. I have had documented symptoms since the age of 4. I lament the person I could have been.

No. 445827

>>441406 double posting oops. This reminds of the time I took £400 worths of xannies in order to kill myself. My parents ended up coming home from work like 5 hours early and found me. My mum refused to call an ambulance, even though I was barely conscious. My dad had to physically fight her off in order to call an ambulance. She has always told me she hates me and wants me dead, but I can't believe she wanted to actually watch me die.

No. 445829

for some of you with many incidents:

has your family always been this dysfunctional? I mean family up to and including your ancestors. like, especially to the really fucked up abusive ones, did they have a history of being abused?

No. 445833

>>445829 As far as I am aware, my parents were not abused. My mum is the one who is more abuse. She resents her dad for working a lot, and her mum for being a stay at home mum. That's clearly not abuse, and a very normal set up for a family in the 60s. My auntie has a bunch of children with different men, when is why I think my cousins are kinda fucked up.

No. 445842

My aunt's family is fucked up

>aunt is depressed and suicidal

>uncle is an abusive piece of shit that got her pregnant really young
>oldest son killed himself
>one daughter dated a man who would beat her
>other daughter dated a drug dealer in his forties who had a son as old as her; she's diagnosed retarded and has the intelligence of a 13 yr old, is now an alcoholic

>uncle chose to live in a boy's home rather than with my grandparents and has been a shitty person for always


>one aunt with anorexia

>one aunt who's bipolar and eating herself to death – also married an abusive man

And this is all my mom's family, and she's an abusive cunt as well

My grandparents were mild-mannered people who loved to serve others and I wonder why ALL of their kids were fucked and they weren't, and if there was something messed up with them that will never be revealed

My mom once put a litter of baby bunnies in a plastic bag to suffocate and kill them rather than just mow around the nest they made in the yard

No. 445855

My paternal grandfather raped my grandmother when they were in their 20's.

That same grandmother did nothing when my dad told her he was raped by their priest and told him to never discuss it again.

She also told her daughter to intentionally get pregnant to trap her boyfriend into marraige, just like she did. It failed and the boyfriend abandoned my aunt and cousin. They told my cousin he died in a car crash before she was born. She didn't find out the truth until her 20's.

Then the rest of my family are basically just white trash bingo cards. Hard drug addictions, kids they had as teenagers or barely any older, DUIs, etc.

No. 445858

>>445842
>My mom once put a litter of baby bunnies in a plastic bag to suffocate and kill them rather than just mow around the nest they made in the yard
JFC that is wretched. My brother in law did something similar. Drowned a litter of kittens his cat had because his girlfriend didn't want the inconvienience of finding them a home.

No. 445859

amidst mental illness and domestic violence I’ll mention a few. My mom used to punch me in the head if she thought I wasnt listening to her nonsensical rants. she pissed on and slashed apart a few of our couches, and destroyed furniture and our apartments because they were all “too cheap”. My mom also used to make me go with her to spy on her “crushes” homes and workplaces for hours into the night. I had a feral kitten that I was trying hard to socialize and get healthy so I could find a good home. she was finally comfortable around people, but my dad got irritated by the cat and I watched him throttle her into a duffle bag, throw it into the car (where it hit the window with force) and left to “drop it off somewhere else”. when I told my family that my cousin had molested me, nothing changed. he’s looked at like a “cool bro” and we still get forced to hang out during family gatherings. I still havent told my parents about sexual assaults by someone else, at this point it’s useless. my mom would just have more reason to treat me like shit.

No. 445872

My estranged father convinced me to go live with his sister in the middle of nowhere because I was briefly homeless. They both promised me that I’d be able to get back on my feet, learn to drive, go to school, etc. What actually happened was I learned her and her husband were horrible alcoholics! I was emotionally/verbally abused every day, living somewhere I could not leave without help and I knew nobody. The internet was shit and the only phone I could use was the house phone. Once I tried calling my mom to beg for help getting out and my aunt was listening on the other line, which led to verbal abuse so bad I started fearing for my physical safety. My dad did not believe me when I told him what was happening and insisted I stay. My aunt’s favorite thing was to call me a whore/slut and claim I was manipulating my dad into letting me live for free. When I tried to get a job, she told me I couldn’t because it’d be “too much” to drive me into town every day. She said the same thing when I asked about going to school. Eventually I found a way out, but it’s safe to say I cut off that side of my family for good. They were doomed from the start though, their mom was horrible. Like my aunt and dad were fed psychedelic mushroom when they were 5-8 and taken to nudist camps regularly. They had to help their mother cut up lines of coke/crack before school because she’d be too fucked up to do it themselves. They moved out together in high school and were gifted a KILO of uncut cocaine by their uncle, to do whatever the fuck they wanted. When my aunt was in her early 20s, she decided she wanted a baby so bad, she went and fucked a ton of dudes until she got pregnant.

No. 445880

Both of my parents are complete assholes, but my biological father was married the entire time he was with my mother (4 years), has 2 kids by her and then when she found out he claimed neither of us were his even after signing our birth certificates and refused a DNA test for 20 years (surprise, we’re his!)
When his father died he hid his body in his house for a week, stole everything of value and then blamed his two younger siblings. They haven’t spoken after that at all. He also abandoned the children he had with his wife and quit his cushy state job and moved to bumfuck USA just to avoid paying child support.

Never met the man but he just died so men

No. 445881

>>445880

*Kek. Not men.

No. 445890

My dad used mine, my brother's, and elder sister's inheritance from our grandmother's death to fund IVF for his new wife because she wanted a mixed race (hispanic/white american) child.

No. 445901

My grandpa used to cut pitbull puppies ears for whatever reason
And my grandpa used to throw boiling water on anthills and put living frogs inside plastig bags and throw them in the trash

No. 446117

>>445858
The nonchalance that comes with actions like that is terrifying isn't it ugghhh

No. 446120

>>445901
like docking them? docking and cat claw removal are so unnecessary (unless it's the kind of dog that will whap their tail bloody against something and does need it removed)



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