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No. 442699

Not trying to vent? Not annoyed? Not asking a dumb question? Post it here.

Previous thread: >>>/ot/425438

No. 442710

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anons this guy im close to is literally perfect and so kind, respectful, considerate, loyal, so funny, dislikes porn, is sympathetic to radfem views, is intelligent, charismatic, not materialistic, etc but i can't be with him and i feel like total shit that his energy is wasted on me when there are other girls that i know would be so much better for him and he's such a rare caliber of guy that really is in such high demand by other high quality women. he's such a high quality person that cares so deeply for other people. easily is the most empathetic man i've ever met. but i'm not even like a nerd and he kind of is so our interests are not there, and severely complicating circumstances prevent me from even being with a guy again and i keep unintentionally hurting him/breaking his heart and it's all for naught bc i literally know women like one of you guys would be better for him. he's suffering for no reason bc of me when i'm not what he needs and i'm literally making his life worse ffs.

i feel so terrible. idk wtf to do. i feel so guilty but like he's so much better off with someone else and i can't be that person for him and i feel so bad that i can't be.

No. 442735

My bf said I look like I'm about to cry during sex even tho I am clearly enjoying myself

No. 442750

I had to walk through pouring rain for a good 30 minutes and ankle deep water. Yey for nail fungus!

No. 442819

Major petty first world problems here, pls no booly.
My mum bought me a bag of handmade fudge while she was on holiday and I'm very grateful for them. They were supposed to be a mixed bag but whoever was putting the fudge in the bag put mostly plain pieces in. There were two chocolate and three clotted cream compared to about 15 plain. Still delicious, but I love chocolate fudge so that's a slight bummer.

No. 442825

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I'm going out with good friends tonight for dinner and we're going to get hot pot!!! It might be the middle of summer but holy fuck do I love hot pot!!! I'm so excited.

No. 442831

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i ordered a bunch of expensive salon haircare a few days ago and it just arrived today and for some reason they sent me two of everything. i even double-checked the packing list to make sure i didn't accidentally order double but apparently they just fucked up. i'm so confused but i guess it's a good start to the weekend for me?

No. 442858

I lost more than 3kg in two days but I'm not even happy about it because I know it's just water weight and not fat.

No. 442861

Not sure why I'm doing it, but I'm about to start reading Homestuck from the beginning. Wish me luck.

I used to read it when it was still coming out, but stopped sometime around act 5 I think.

No. 442866

I hate living in an apartment. I can hear the guy above me singing in the shower and it's kinda unsettling. At least his voice isn't that bad I guess.

No. 442868

please tell me about it. my upstairs neighbors are insane. they are constantly hammering stuff into the walls and last night they were actually fighting for real.

No. 442879

If you're feeling so guilty, hook me up lmao. But seriously, why do you feel like you don't deserve him? You can at least try to make it work unless you don't feel like you really like him.

No. 442886

every night I used to hear my neighbor and her boyfriend fucking extremely loudly. then one night I heard them yelling at each other. now I hear her sobbing and wailing every night. the entire life cycle of a relationship heard through my bedroom wall lmao

No. 442894

am i your upstairs neighbor?

No. 442897

yeah, i guess this's pretty common. i actually once heard a sound like someone was kicking a door and screaming and then crying. i feel really bad imagining all the things that could be going on there. it's like experiencing someone else's life for a few minutes.

No. 442923

Nice. I just dropped the best part of $100 last night on what's realistically mid-tier but to me qualifies as fancy skincare because I'm determined to finally get something approaching a real routine going. I'm rocketing into my 30s and a combination of stressful life experiences and smoking means I'm starting to look it. I started going grey at 19 and I'm not ready for these wrinkles yet.

No. 442976

I'm inventing a new chewing gum flavour, spermint, as you can guess it's spunk with a hint of mint.

No. 442982

i feel you, anon. i'm crossing over into late 20s territory and have an internal freakout every time i notice a fine line on my face. i can't even remember if i've always had them or they're new but i'm slathering about 6 products on my face daily now.

the feminist inside me wants to not care about gray hairs and wrinkles because it's all a construct to make us more appealing to men as we age, but alas, my self-esteem is still a slave to the whole system.

No. 442985

i feel you, anon. i'm crossing over into late 20s territory and have an internal freakout every time i notice a fine line on my face. i can't even remember if i've always had them or they're new but i'm slathering about 6 products on my face daily now.

the feminist inside me wants to not care about gray hairs and wrinkles because it's all a construct to make us more appealing to men as we age, but alas, my self-esteem is still a slave to the whole system.

No. 443004

I got into the shower without taking my glasses off and it threw me for a loop. I was standing there quietly freaking out wondering why suddenly everything looked so different and unfamilar. I am a dumbass lol

No. 443009

Have you ever had to pee so bad you yank you're pants down, forgetting your underwear, and pee in your underwear?
I've done it twice myself.

No. 443022

I been dating this guy for a few weeks and I looked up his name on youtube and basically found out he was a bit of a controversial figure in some game community. I went down the rabbit hole and learned some cringey stuff, like him getting banned for cheating and posting a video crying about his gf breaking up with him. It seems it happened during the early 2010s so its kinda old and he doesnt seem like that type of person now but its wild and I have to laugh

No. 443060

I finally reached an underweight BMI without being anachan, just eating whatever in small portions. I’m beaming w happiness and can’t share it with anyone or else they’ll start seeing me as disordered, and I’ve had an ED before.

Idk if this is bad, I feel guilty because everyone is telling me that i look thin and need to gain weight, and this feeling currently kind of confirms that my disorder is coming back.

No. 443078

> kind of confirms that my disorder is coming back

well if those people commenting on your weight know that you have struggled with an eating disorder they are well within their right to be concerned. youre excited about feeling spoopy again.

No. 443086

oh I rise you sitting down and starting peeing mid-air when you realise the lid is actually down

No. 443145

Man I just saw a pic of Frollo (the Disney villain) and thought his robes look kind of cool and easy to wear. Plus the hat is cool.

Luckily I end up getting shocked when my ass hits the cold toilet lid before I do that

No. 443169

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I love 4-ho-met

No. 443182

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>MRW I found out that my mom thinks that it's okay to flush tampons
>She's almost sixty
>If she didn't know, there must be other ladies her age who don't either.
>RIP plumbing

Don't flush tampons, guys. It's common sense.

Also: I fucking hate women who hover while they pee. There's literally no reason to do it- Mythbusters proved that toilet seats are clean surfaces. All it does is get piss all over the seat and floor. If you're that much of a prissy princess whose thighs can't touch the seat, then put some paper down. Don't hover and get piss all over the place.

If you think you're a "clean hoverer" you're wrong. You've fucked up and pissed on the seat, you just didn't notice.

No. 443192

I used to flush all my tampons unless there was a sign saying not to or asked otherwise, lolrip. Glad my BC stops my periods so I don't have to worry about that shit.

No. 443196

I've gotten in with my bra on so many times, also nearly turned it on when I was holding my phone directly under it

That or you don't realise the seat is up and you pretty much fall in.

No. 443209

I watched a bunch of videos from this guy discussing flops in pop artists career and honestly I feel totally burnt out on pop music lol. And don't get me wrong I love listening to it from time to time but I swear I need a long break from it because I've overheard so much (mostly bad) and it'll get on my nerves. And I'm feeling really cynical over the vapid and extremely shallow American society/entertainment I don't wanna think or interact with any of it otherwise my mood will just get more crummy.

No. 443212

>pretty much fall in.
Yes, sooo annoying.

No. 443228

Some tampons are flushable, like OB. Though that probably doesn't mean much because wet wipes that say they're flushable end up fucking up plumbing as well.

No. 443229

Yeah I know it's not very feminist of me either, but I find that making sure I wash my face and put a night cream on before bed is helping me sleep because it establishes a routine where I'm not looking at a phone screen immediately before trying to sleep. This is good for my depresso, and the idea that it's "self-care" is also a useful meme for the same reason. Self-neglect is a big part of my illness and my teeth are now starting to really suffer from the accumulated effect of poor brushing habits.

Look you need really solid self-esteem to be an uberradfem and a bitch is just very sad all the time, allow me my nice smelling potions pls am sorry

No. 443230

yeah, never flush 'em.

No. 443232

>I wash my face and put a night cream on before bed
Cmon, this is hardly something you need to defend yourself over. Taking care of our skin is for our health just as much as our vanity, we shouldn't be so afraid of aging naturally but there's also no sense in aging prematurely. There should be more pressure on men to do the same, they look like fucking garage by mid 20s because they think sunscreen is gay.

No. 443234

I don't get why or how people keep intentionally (as in not an oops baby) have kids when their life or health is in shambles. I follow a youtuber who just had her 3rd kid and is pregnant with a 4th despite having debilitating chronic health issues, both physical and mental. Why would you do that to yourself when you already admit you can't get out of bed to take care of the kids you already have?

No. 443235

Flushable just means they can be flushed. Doesn't mean nonclogging.

Flushable wipes and tampons will build up in your plumbing or the municipal plumbing clogging it eventually.

No. 443238

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I know I know, I just was raised by a very weird half NLOG half radfem-y mother who didn't teach or even talk to me about "feminine" coded things like skincare or makeup but instead left me to entirely work everything out on my own so it's still all kinda new to me. I said I was sorry anon pls

No. 443251

Usually I put paper down, but one time I tried hovering and somehow pissed on the floor by accident like a waterfall. There was someone in the stall next to me and I hoped they didn't notice although I'm sure they did. I still remember the sound of the splashing today. Not my proudest moment.

No. 443264

I like how we're using cat pictures as OP, like in this thread or the new Confessions one. It's cute.

No. 443286

one of my childhood friends had 3 sisters and they all thought it was okay to flush tampons too. fast forward to us being in high school and they literally had to tear out their entire septic system and bathroom plumbing because of it.

No. 443327

i've been on a really strict diet for the last month but it's my birthday weekend so i decided to cheat for a couple days and it feels amazing to tap into my inner fatass and eat to my heart's content before i get back to reality

No. 443333

My little brother is determined to sniff and touch a scented candle I lit despite me constantly telling him he's going to burn his face and his little fingers if he touched it

No. 443377

He sounds cute though.

No. 443383

Hacking video game consoles is super fun to me. I won't even bother looking at a console if I can't hack it tbh. Anyway I got Persona 3 on my hacked Switch and I'm so excited to play it. I've never played a Persona game before so wish me luck ladies.

No. 443386

Don't flush anything else than toilet paper PERIOD. I had a roommate who threw literally everything (Like cotton pads etc) in the toilet and flushed it down, our plumbing was constantly fucked.

No. 443453

that sounds fun. teach us how anon

No. 443457

I want my boyfriend to dick me hard. Fuck.

No. 443480

it's honestly making me depressed how the standards for female beauty keep going up, and it's not enough to just be naturally attractive anymore. every female instagrammer that I follow has gotten some type of injections (botox and/ore juvederm) and usually other surgeries, on top of wearing tons of makeup, wigs and still using filters over all that shit.

I know that I could never live up to that standard and honestly I'm beginning to wish I was a man. I'm also starting to wonder if all of these fakebois/female non-binaries are basically identifying that way to escape the pressure.

No. 443487

instagrammers look like shit irl. i live really close to a landmark that attracts that sort of crowd and its morgue lookin makeup, synthetic hair, and cheap as shit clothes everywhere. youre better off staying true to yourself.

No. 443516

Social media was, truly and honestly, a huge mistake

No. 443518

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very true.

<makes me think of this

No. 443519

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It's bizarre how you could get into a public altercation and no matter how minor, if someone decides to record it you'll have people across the world extremely invested in it to the extent that they try to ruin your life over it despite having never met you

I mean call me paranoid but I'm scared to live in the world that we've created

No. 443521

its wild. people try to reinforce stranger danger with their kids and stuff but are simultaneously okay with that kid having a facebook or twitter or whatever.

people out here listing every like or fear, geo tag everywhere they go, talk about where they work and the school they go to, list their actual name, location and birthdate and use the same handles for everything and still get mad that 'stalkers' can find out their information.

No. 443523

I don't think you're paranoid anon. I was literally thinking yesterday about how you can literally get recorded at any moment when you're in a public area, that's scary as hell to me. The fact that people bring devices everywhere they go that can record stuff and track stuff, always wanting to stay updated, always checking their notifications, just sounds psycho to me. It's why I very rarely bring my phone with me when I go out

No. 443525

I don't get it. Why do you think you need to look like that? Why even follow them if it makes you feel bad? You seem to realize yourself how daft it all is.

No. 443527

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I hate that social media encourages/even pressures people to constantly post and overshare. It makes it so easy for strangers to stalk and find you.
Might be extreme but I think parents shouldn't let their kids use the internet until they're adults or access it unsupervised. There's just too many bad things that are easily accessible. Also efame is kinda stupid and dangerous.

No. 443528


I cannot stand seeing parents upload pics of their young kids/babies on Facebook, especially embarrassing stories of them or when they're ranting about something bad they did and now they're punishing them. It's so damaging and intrusive of these kids who have no say if they wanna be on camera. And like all those Youtube channels with kids showing off toys and you just know the parents are forcing them to be their little cash cow. Young children have no place being on the internet imo. it's whack that they even have their own personal phones to begin with. The next generation of kids are doomed, no joke

No. 443531

Yes that's what i mostly hate about social media, the pressure to post everything that's on your mind and everything that you do, otherwise you'd seem out of the loop or not sociable. People would probably find me weird if i told them I don't have instagram or twitter. I just really hate this normalcy and expectation of having to keep everyone updated on the stupidest stuff, and thinking it's important to know about everything going on with a bunch of nobodies

No. 443537

oh definitely, i don't even think anyone can truly grasp on how much it's changed/damaged society and the way people behave and think. i hate being a pessimist but tbh it can only go more downhill from here

No. 443540

paper straws don’t suck as much as everyone pretends they do

No. 443545

i agree, they're fine.

No. 443561

I always feel really weird about mixing my real life identity with the internet. I think it's because I was already a heavy internet user before the social media boom so there was the stubbornness against migrating from my original hotspots and I grew up in the era where people drummed it into you to never share personal details online because of creeps, and back then having an online persona with a xXCoOl sCrEenNaMeXx and avatar was the norm. But now everyone and their mother is online and being a streamer/influencer/"content creator" bullshitter for money and clout with their faces plastered everywhere, maybe normies do ruin everything.

No. 443562

They can get a bit soggy after awhile but it's a small annoyance. I'm fine with using theme exclusively.

No. 443587


He can be a handful but honestly he's the cutest thing. Basically like every other kid lol

No. 443610

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This dog in Texas had 20 puppies.

No. 443614

a few local cafes here have switched to potato starch straws and they're exactly like plastic and still biodegradable
there's like the smallest difference in texture but you'd have to be some kind of turbo autist to be bothered by it

No. 443615

aww her little worried face. it's like she's thinking "how am i going to feed all these little bastards?"

No. 443663

‘Why was I not desexed’

No. 443672

i've been out of school for 10 years rotting my brain away doing nothing, working dead end jobs… i had a full academic scholarship to university but depression and anxiety killed it

i'm trying to learn again but it's like my brain is fried. how long does it take to get used to it again? holy shit i feel dumb

No. 443673

Whats up with all the revival/necro of self posting threads all of a sudden as if anyone gives a shit lmfao.

No. 443718

I fucking love canned beans.

No. 443742

People will also turn their entire social media profiles into being about their kids under the guise of “I’m just sharing with their extended family who don’t live nearby,” meanwhile they’re friending everybody they’ve ever met and now all those people know their child’s nicknames, favorite foods, and what part of town they go to school in.

Sage for sperging, but just because you can doesn’t mean you should.

No. 443783

I actually want to do this.

No. 443797

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i want it to be fall so i can listen to my fall music playlist! i usually put my halloween decorations up the 1st of September but im considering doing it sooner. also i want it to get dark out early again. i want the fall!!!

No. 443808

I found a credit card on the street as I was out with my sister and she took it to the local authorities and soon after she received a phonecall being thanked.even thought I didn't get the credit,it's nice to know I've done something righteous

No. 443816

Does anyone know any really good ways to get fleas off of cats? I went to visit family over the summer and my mom stayed behind so I thought my cat would be a little comfortable while I was gone but my mother told me she wasn't eating much/hiding a lot while I was gone and the fleas got worse for some reason. Oddly enough they barely attack my other cat and she's very healthy. I just want them gone as soon as possible because she scratches way too hard and is scabbed up

No. 443817

Urgh, I got followed by two accounts that post nothing but their children. It's scary, especially if you post too much about them. A pedo could see it a jerk off to their swimsuit photos, or find their school and try to kidnap them. Parents like this are so fucking stupid.

No. 443827

Dawn bath?

No. 443836

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i just love summerfags whose posts all start out with “WELL I’M XYZ, AND…”

like, listen up faggot. you’re on an imageboard. if you unironically talk about your sad autistic life in snow and pt, you deserve to be pointed and laughed at because you’re literally just another cow. there is no difference between cows who self post and anons who self post.

No. 443853

Capstar worked wonders when our cats and dog ended up with fleas. It was $25 per pill from the vet but it killed all the fleas on them in about 2 hours and it killed any fleas that tried to make a home on them afterwards. Once you give them the pill make sure you get flea powder and put it on everything in your house you can't put in the wash like rugs and sofas/chairs and the like then vacuum it off after 30 minutes or so. Or you could just buy diotomacious earth powder off amazon. It's safe if your cats walk on it them groom themselves afterwards. It took a few treatments for our house to completely get rid of the fleas but with the Capstar I didn't have to worry about them going after the animals again so I just had to worry about the house stuff.

No. 443889

Whats with art discords being a 'jack of all trades, master of none'. Like they have traditional art, writing, animation ,and sometimes sculpting. Not annoyed, but it's rare I find a serve that says 'this is for X art only'

No. 443917


That shit sounds really good. I'll see if I can pick some up then. Thanks!


I heard you can't really use Dawn on cats a lot and she's got quite a few fleas, so I think it would take a few sessions to get rid of them. I'm also trying to avoid soaps at the moment (I probably should have mentioned that) since she's got a lot a scabs/few scratch wounds and I don't want it to hurt her or dry out her skin too much.

No. 443963

I made a list of some of my fictional childhood crushes out of boredom and I just realized a lot of them were Asian? I've never even had a weeb/kboo phase, but for some reason if any media I enjoyed had an Asian character I seemed to have developed a crush on him. I guess I had a type? Yellow fever is strong kek.

No. 443965

I see this a lot, outside of art communities (since I don't participate them). I think it comes from anxiety due to the recession. It is really, really hard to want to commit yourself to one thing, because what if it doesn't pan out? The recession overstimulated back-up-plan culture, to the point where people are legit scared to specialize.

I can see how this might be so much worse in unstable fields like art.

No. 443991

It's called liking asian men and having a preference. Nothing wrong with that. I myself prefer asian dick over any other.

No. 444065

My best friend is the kindest soul on this earth and I truly don't deserve her. Things have been awful between my partner and my mental health issues for months, and yesterday she took me with her while she did her weekly shopping just to get me outside and walk around the store for a while, and let me sleep on her sofa so I wouldn't have to go home and wake up alone at my apartment. Waking up is still the hardest thing but she's so patient and kind and let me cry loads yesterday. I love her so much.

No. 444077

Thank you for your wholesome post anon, this is so cute. I'm happy you have such a good friend and I'm sure you add something good to her life as well.

No. 444179

You can prefer Asian men without being a problematic weeb/keeb. It exists in the wild but it seems rare because they are drowned out by loud proud fetishist crazies. Go get you some Asian dick anon!

No. 444205

this is probably better suited for the stupid questions thread, but we

has there ever been a story about a zombie who was a murder victim, and was specifically brought back (e.g. by government/police) to help find their murderer? because it feels very familiar but i cant find it anywhere when i search for it.

No. 444234

I think the Anita Blake series has used that subject, the protag is a necromancer and works for a zombie reanimating company.

No. 444235

…I just remembered the first book did it. She reanimated a man who was murdered to identify the killer but his brain was too damaged from abuse.

No. 444239

My dog is on another round of medication, and this time it's tablets instead of liquid. It makes it a bit easier to feed to her because I give it to her on a piece of cheese and she swallows it whole (cheese and medication) and I laugh to myself thinking "haha, you little dumdum, you just ate your medicine and didn't even know." The past two days I was wondering what would happen if I just gave her the tablets straight up with no cheese (I gave it to her between giving her piece of cheese) and she still takes it and swallows it whole like a piece of cheese because she can't tell and it makes me laugh so much. In the end, she's the real winner here because she gets to eat my good cheese (not like, super expensive good cheese, but we don't really keep cheese in the house and it's some decent, tasty gouda). I love my dog, she's so stupid sometimes.

No. 444241

thank you, i was sondering why it seemed so familiar

No. 444281

sometimes i revisit the tumblr shoplifting dox spree that happened a few years ago here and on kiwifarms because it was just so amusing.

No. 444287

I was just thinking about those threads… What ever happened to them? I stopped using lolcow for a couple years but they were really active before I left.

No. 444290

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TIL that my great grandpa was almost killed by the mafia in the 50s because his brother had committed suicide to avoid being killed by them and he owed the mafia a massive amount of debt. Just very interesting to learn. I did hear that he tended to take no shit and told everyone off who got his goat without a care in the world so I wouldn't be surprised if he told the mafia to go fuck themselves if they tried to force him to pay his brother's debt then they put a hit on him as a result.

I kind of wish I could meet him one day if time machines ever get invented.

No. 444292

it kind of just puttered out from what i have seen. it was fun while it lasted though

No. 444307

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Raging because my own mother forgot that the dog I’ve had since I was a kid died

Thanks 10/10

No. 444314

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When I was studying abroad in college, I was horribly depressed and isolated myself from my classmates as a result.

I started talking to one of my friends back at home more and more, first through text and then we started phoning each other. I brought my 3DS with me, so we started to play Animal Crossing together. We would be on the phone with each other while going on little "dates" in each other's towns and it was the closest thing I had to hanging out with any of my friends back at home. We would both wake up early/go to bed super late just to talk and play with each other. I'm no longer friends with this girl, but I often think back on those days.

I'm playing Pocket Camp a lot more these days, and I really hope they bring over a lot of the new furniture from here into New Horizones- especially the new summer festival furniture. I'd love to set up a little festival area in the summer and play with my friends. It's so lame but I love Animal Crossing so much. I feel so at peace when I play it, and it also lets me indulge in my need for new and cute things via furniture collecting.

No. 444337

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I'm only here because 8chan is down.

No. 444347


she sounds amnesic anon
is she alzheimer or smth?

No. 444348

Woah. Similar story in my family, my uncle was found hung by a tree and my grandmother always claimed the mafia got to him instead.

No. 444366

I actually managed to find a photo that some rando on eBay has for some reason (there's multiple press photos of him up for sale bc he was a well known lawyer in a big city, my family doesn't have them so I'm not 100% sure who does, but they're expensive so I don't wanna buy them, I'm wondering if I can PM the eBay lister and tell them that I'm his relative who's interested in buying a couple of them- and that I'm also a poor college student so pls give me a discount) that's got a caption on the side saying how he got shot, he was wounded by only one of three bullets after being attacked by two gunmen and the one bullet got him in the thigh. probably was the mafia if there were 2 gunmen tbh

he and his brother were both lawyers but his brother was the unsuccessful one except for his party life and his gambling which him into debt in the first place, he got my great grandpa a lot of clients tho, and brother later killed himself with a gun when he racked up a lot of debt.

I'd post pics I found but I don't wanna dox myself lol

No. 444386

Damn, I would have loved to bang Jim Morrison when he was clean shaven. His voice is like cocoa butter.

No. 444389

I don’t put it past her she used to be a skelly so it might be the lack of nutrients

No. 444391

My mother's bff was murdered at 18 in the early 80s. When I tried looking up any info, all I found was the old crime scene photo and a news clipping for sale on eBay. It's a bizarre industry.

I just took really good screenshots. Good luck.

No. 444417

that is weird. I wonder if the sellers expect the families of these people to find these things, they end up in the oddest places

No. 444465

I haven't been interested enough to play video games all summer, and I realized it's because when I have played, the time drains away so fast. I'm not coming back to the games I like until fall, even though I'm going to miss seasonal events. I've finally reached the stage where fear of missing out doesn't get to me as bad.

No. 444503

I don't really understand the "peaked in high school" meme. At first I thought it was just a new way to define the modern teen prep crowd but the qualifications (idk a better word) are so random and I dont understand how they relate to gliding thru high school with flying colors, or how HS matters to anyones personality in adulthood. You'd think college would destroy all the glittering hope that "peaks" had?

I was a bullied loser but apparently im also clueless.

No. 444525

idk how people are using that "meme" now but the term as I knew it means… anyone who you'd say "peaked in high school" basically hasn't accomplished anything since, they're just a loser or a normie at best.

Sometimes it means the really smart kid whose grades don't mean anything at age 25 where he hasn't really gotten anywhere in life because the real world doesn't care if you got an A on a pop quiz once

Other times it means that 'popular' asshole who still clings to their old 'alpha' image who will post 'nostalgic' HS moments shit on Facebook and look like a dumbass because it's been 10 years and nobody cares anymore.

People (or at least I) use this in a disparaging way and anyone who actually cares about peaking in high school is probably category B and needs to get over themselves

No. 444528

No shit venus angelic isn't a fully functioning individual and is still messed up after years with margo, the anons in her thread are mad.

Actually, almost all the threads on kawaii/idol/jap shit girls are filled with jealous crazy spergs, pull tier level. Probably all pull users too.

No. 444541

the gross borderline cp patreon that some sperg posted in /pt/ got taken down. i saw it on twit before the dumb thread. there is a god i guess.

No. 444560

People are still nitpicking her? How can they acknowledge what a horrible past she had with her batshit insane mother yet still pick apart her life any way they can? That's fucking sick.

No. 444577

Because she's "an adult" who "should know better" which is apparently shorthand for "weebs can shit on her out of jealousy as much as they want".
I don't even know what she's doing that's so scandalous, the girl's been a cringefest since she started YouTube so I don't see this as a huge surprise.

No. 444579

Does anyone else use ice packs to keep cool in the summer? I alternate between a few if I am home and am contemplating getting some sort of ice pack vest thing to do errands in lol. It's so hot, girls.

No. 444593

Venus may have issues but is far removed from where she was so I'm surprised people still shit on her the way they do.

In some respects I can't fully blame venus when I experienced abuse at the hands of a narcissistic parent who still refuses to acknowledge what she did to me to this day. I almost feel a sense of pity for her. Plus she's not really doing much milky enough to warrant outrage from me, at least.

No. 444608

Apparantly she faked being abused by margo because she loved japan so much and used manaki, has to be escorting because she wants to meet new people, and not to mention the unforgivable sin of looking like her mother. Lol, what a bunch of loonies.

No. 444635

My doctor gave me Tofisopam for stomach ulcers and I took them before running out the door for my violin class and they kicked in mid session and my coordination and brain are gone and I feel like crying and I don't know why

What the fuck is this drug and why am I taking it

No. 444640

Yeah, people are really railing on her for being "haggard" and "old like Margo". She looks fine and no shit she looks like Margo, she's her mum lmao.

No. 444645

I mean she is completely dysfunctional. But I have no idea why anyone would be jealous of venusangelic's life. She lives in a tiny apartment with a strange husband who behaves like a 13 year old boy.

No. 444646

>she's completely dysfunctional
18 years of physical and emotional abuse will do that to you, yeah.

>I have no idea why anyone would be jealous of venusangelic's life

Because weebs from PULL are loons who base their entire self-worth on whether they get to go to glorious Nippon or not.

No. 444647

I just don't see her ever getting any better in her current space. It's like a state of completely arrested development.

And are PULL users really that unironically weeaboo? Nothing about her life is enviable. She has no job, she's not a particularly popular online personality, she's not wealthy, her husband isn't attractive. Surely their entire raison d'etre isn't just living in Japan full stop right?

No. 444654

just browse a few pages of the PULL Kenna thread, tons of "if I were in Japan, I would do x" blogposting

No. 444657

The whole site was basically founded by jealous weebs who hated Dakota for making it big in glorious Nippon. They also have a passionate hatred for several weeb snowflakes and always complain about the exact same shit
>Venus is ugly and ageing like milk just like her mother lmao, she also doesn't speak any of the languages she claims to, including her native language
>Kenna is ugly, fat and too dark, she doesn't appreciate Japanese culture like I do, she doesn't deserve to live in Japan
>Dakota is ugly, racist and ageing like milk (you're noticing the pattern now), her hair is thin and she doesn't speak good Japanese as well as she claims to
>Sharla is ugly and ageing like milk, she dresses like shit and doesn't try to fit in with superiour nipponese fashion (and if she did she'd be branded a weeb like Venus)
>Taylor is OLD and a desperate sugarbaby
Etc etc.

No. 444663

I'm glad I outgrew being a weeb tbh

No. 444664

i have an average figure and sometimes wish my butt was bigger and my waist was smaller, but after seeing cows with completely square bodies i think i should be happy with what i have

No. 444785

I've lost nearly 10 pounds and no one's noticed. I don't really want them to, either? All I do is bike an hour to and from work and drink protein shakes so it's not like I'm doing any real work like fit gals in gyms. I'm content.

No. 444798

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I'm thinking about selling some video games and books I don't care about anymore or never really cared about. I feel dumb about buying games I never really played because of my lack of free time or motivation back then. I remember selling a lot of manga I liked a lot a few years ago and regretting it but now that I think about it it was a good decision because I knew I wouldn't read them again anyway. Hopefully I'll get a lot of money from that.

All of this is reminding me of how much I don't like downloading games instead of buying physical copies, it's not taking physical space so that's convenient but I don't like not being able to share, give or sell games I don't want anymore.

No. 444821

My friends from my old job invited me out next Friday and I really want to see them and hang out with them because I miss them, but holy fuck I'm such a fucking grandma compared to them. I don't have the energy or patience to go to a bar. I hate dealing with drunk people. I can't/don't drink either (alcohol, even in small amounts, just makes me really fucking sick). I don't see them very often so I know I should just suck it up, but they're also probably going to invite new people from my old job that I haven't met, and I can feel myself imploding from the combination of rowdy environment and too much social interaction.

No. 444860

I hate how girls and even grown women talk about kpop guys like they're these small innocent bunnies or whatever. Sure they look cute but they're just as disgusting as every other man. Slaying as much puss as they can just like every other male celeb.

No. 444884

Sometimes I feel so smug whenever my friend complains her Twitter feed is full SJW shit because mine is filled with nothing but the content I want to see because I don’t follow people who retweet that. I think she needs to be stricter about who she follows if it really bothers her that much but she won’t listen, so it’s kind of her own fault. Even on Tumblr my dash is just artsy photography and content, no fandom sperging or artists randomly oversharing personal thoughts idc about.

No. 444896

I hate how insecure porn makes me feel. There are so many absolutely gorgeous girls with banging bodies posting explicit content of themselves, no wonder males standards are fucked.

No. 444905

Just sitting in my room and started legit crying because I thought about this episode of Hey Arnold. It's not even anywhere near Christmas ffs…

No. 444918

Man Hey Arnold was such a good cartoon. It really had some serious life lessons for a kid show.

No. 444937

It really was a great children's show with a lot of poignant moments. I still remember the episodes about the turtle Arnold frees from the aquarium, the pigeon man, stoop kid, etc. years later. If I ever have kids I want them to watch this show, I don't care how old it is.

No. 444970

No offense, but I think it's kind of a waste of time for American colleges to demand letters of intent when they're just going to deny you if your grades are bad.
Might as well just look at the grades and go, bitch.

No. 444978

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I was trying to find an old tumblr blog of someone I followed and now I'm down the rabbit hole of my following list and found this on one of the blogs. I hate that I'm laughing but I can't stop laughing at it.

No. 445090

I'm laughing because I can relate to it. But I'm also internally cringing because I can relate to it. I think most people can, at the same time it's kind of like a kick in the ladynads when I look at my childhood selfs goals that I remember and question why I ever thought I'd be able to achieve them, before I hit my teens, bc when I hit my teens I lost almost all of my self esteem

No. 445106

Whoever made that 8chan thread here needs to go away, I don't want refugees poisoning this place. I went on 8chan's front page a few times because I wanted to find image board alternatives when I didn't understand board culture as well as I do now and it's just… confusing and weirdly hard to navigate. Not to mention all the content looks terrible at first place, it's just shitty anime things (and I like anime) and total weirdos next to loli threads and misc bottom barrel /b/ garbage. It looks like the space for losers and unhinged people who couldn't even fit in on 4chan. Doesn't it have a reputation for actual child porn? Wtf is there to 'discuss' about a place like that being shut down? Who cares.

>and nothing of value was lost

No. 445119


I'm pretty far removed from my teens anon, but I completely feel that. I'm an artfag and I remember when I was a little kid who just liked doing art for the sake of doing art.

Then when I hit my teenage years I was blindsided by crippling self-doubt that has never really gone away

No. 445126

Yeah, some people have no clue how they're supposed to use these platforms and then have the audacity to bitch about how their feed sucks. Bitch, you curated it.

This made me kek.

No. 445209

My bf and me wanted to have sex this morning, but I got my period and told him. He replied: "Oh, okay! So we should have sex tonight then, otherwise you may bleed on the sheets." We have been together for over eight years and he seems to think that the average period lasts 12 hours. Men sometimes are so clueless.

No. 445223

My sister has turned into such a fag hag after watching Queer Eye lol. She's constantly talking about gay guys and using their annoying way of talking. She also has to mention the word meme into every conversation somehow. She's older than me and I can't understand why she's so fucking immature lmao

No. 445237

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Sometimes I think about how back in the scene days people would avoid labels because " hurr labels are for soup cans", but now it's like labels are everything.
Funny how times have changed. Also scene was awful but I had a lot of fun with it when it was a thing, even the awful music that came with it kek

No. 445238

It was still about labels back then. You were supposed to look obnoxiously emo/hipster (different subculture but same rule applied) but deny that you are one because it made you more real apparently.

No. 445240

Yeah, if you tried that meant you're a "poseur"

No. 445271

And now I wanna cry. This has always been one of my favorite cartoons. It had so many wonderful messages and the characters were all three-dimensional.

No. 445272

I work for a foreign news company here in the US and all of my coworkers speak pretty damn good English despite having some accent (unavoidable, but by no means not understandable). Sometimes they'll ask me to help them with some work and I'll agree because I don't get much else to do.

Right now I'm just working on a short summary of a pretty famous artist for one of my coworkers to send off to some exhibitor because we're trying to secure an exhibit for him under us (or something? I just know he's a very famous dude and this is a big opportunity for us). I want her to look over my draft, but I'm pretty sure she's gonna skim it and then just send it off… Please, I know I'm the only other native English speaker in this office but I'm also a huge dumbass. I guess this just means I should take confidence in my work and put out only near perfect work every time as a precaution, but fuck lol. Even just an opinion of "can you shorten this/elaborate more?" is enough, but they'll take anything I give them.

No. 445310

>gets a shitty haircut
>starts taking a certain vitamin because i hear it helps hair grow faster
>hair grows but my breast randomly get bigger
>do some research, found out a side effect of the vitamin is breast growth
>tfw my back wasn't ready for all this extra titty

They aren't like HUGE but damn my back hurts so much. To all the anons with big boobs…I salute you.

No. 445312

wait, what vitamin makes your boobs grow?

No. 445314

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>hair vitamins
>breast growth

Are you sure you took vitamins?

No. 445316


It's called msm (Methylsulfonylmethane). Vitamin might be the wrong word, it's a supplement but I tend to use those words interchangeably. It's for helping with muscles/bone health, but many people say it helps hair grow ( because of the sulfur I think?) A lot of women who take it said it made their boobs bigger, it also screws up your menstrual cycle (happened to me also). I saw some forums where women talked about their experience and a lot of them said the same things.

No. 445317

Who's the artist?

No. 445332

Alex Katz

No. 445336

How much your breast get bigger? I'm using natural methods to get my breast bigger and it works quite well, but now you get me interested in that supplement.

No. 445348

I took it everyday for a little less than a month and went up one cup size (c to d), women who have taken it longer said that their breasts went up multiple sizes the longer they took it–or at the very least it made their breasts look fuller and perkier. It also depends on which form of msm you take (powder form gives the best results, people who take the pill form say it works less). Hope that helps anon!

No. 445355

do you gain a lot of weight by taking these or do they just help you gain in certain areas aka the boobs? im enticed by the prospect of my boobs looking fuller but not if it means im going to be unable to fit into my clothes so i might take this into consideration if lots of weight gain isn't a side effect

No. 445356

I've never identified as a softie but I guess I am now… Just spent some time crying over this article.


Fuck America.

No. 445374

I only gained in my boobs, the rest of me stayed the same! Based on the research I did, some people did experience small weight gain (3-5 pounds) but it was water weight. Basically if you take too high of a dosage it might cause your body to retain water, which leads to bloating. From what I can tell the people who claimed to gain weight from msm were the ones taking high dosages (3000-8000 mg). If you take the recommended amount (1000-2000 mg) then your weight shouldn't be effected (minus the boobs). The brand I used was called OptiMSM and I took 2000 mg, if that helps.

I'd recommend giving it a try, it only cost like $10! For the best results you have to take it with vitamin c (so with orange juice or a vitamin c supplement). There's only four main side effects that people who take it experience:
>Will give you a headache if you don't drink water during the day. If I didn't drink water after taking my dosage I would get a mild headache, but after drinking a few sips I was fine.
>Can give you weird dreams if you take it before bed. Some people get nightmares, but mostly it's just really vivid/realistic dreams. Should be fine if you take it earlier in the day tho.
>Can make body hair grow really fast, I found myself shaving a little more often after I started taking it.
>Can mess with your menstrual cycle; my period is normally super regular but after taking msm it came almost a week late; but it was also not as heavy and I didn't have cramps.

Obviously every body is different, but msm seems to pretty consistent in its results and i'd trust it

No. 445378

This hurts me so much. My mom is diabetic and they had some insurance issues and she was worried about how she was going to pay for her insulin. It was nowhere as much as this kid's, but still $400 a box for medication that she needs… Fuck.

No. 445381

Oh shit, the lighter period/less painful cramps has me sold. I don't want huge boobs though.

No. 445388

Sounds nice but what would happen if you stop taking it? Does your boobs shrink or stay the same?

No. 445395

for some reason i hate taking selfies now and i dunno if i'm happy about it or sad.
i used to be one of those instathots that posted selfies every day and got a high off the likes but i made some friends that roasted me for being so vain and i pretty much erased my entire online presence for about 3 solid years now. i still have instagram and post life stuff but never any pictures of myself and whenever i feel like i look cute now i will take a picture of myself and i hate it and delete it.
did i cure myself or just fuck my brain up more?

No. 445396

People that still wanna keep shit private are all fucking evil or stupid, no exceptions.

No. 445398

I think they stay the same? Had a friend who took it for hair growth months ago (her boobs grew but she didn't realize it was from msm) and it's been months since she stopped taking it and her chest is still larger. They probably won't shrink as long as your weight stays the same since weight loss can lead to smaller boobs.

No. 445408

Oh my god!!!!! I LOVE him!!! Didnt one of his paintings sell for really high at the Basel Art Fair this year? You know what, a lot of my friends my age dislike him but I think his paintings are weirdly expressive through their simplicity. We've been seeing a ressurgance of kitsch/goodtaste-badtaste (obvs through street fashion in the past 5 years but also in Fine arts in the last 3 years) and while Katz's paintings are mostly from the 70's, I feel like they have this pseudo-kitsch feel that 90s/2000s lounge era à la Sade/Gala/women wearing white tuxedos drinking wine have… Idk if any of this makes sense, I'm tipsy but like… anon, you're so lucky.

No. 445412

Damn now I feel bad for shitting on him like the uncultured piece of shit that I am on the vent thread LOL

I'm glad you like his work! I'll do my best to write the best summary of him and his work just for you anon.

No. 445414

Sounds like your friends are insecure assholes who wanted to ruin something you enjoyed, tbh. Don't let their low self esteem keep you from posting photos of yourself.

No. 445417

While I do think vanity through and obsession with social media is extremely fucked, the point of limiting/purging your social media should be to feel good about yourself without all that external validation. I feel like they made you go from one extreme to the other.

No. 445420

It doesn't cause cancer or anything like that, right? Because it kinda sounds too good to be true

No. 445428

You shouldn't feel compelled to write a good summary if you don't like him. Criticism is good for the arts and there are so many Big Artists that I hate so like, no worries. That was just me fangirling because he weirdly hits just the right spot for me.

No. 445434

From what I've read there's no extreme negative health effects, although there isn't really any long-term medical studies about its effects, so it should be used with caution. Doctors say to only take it for three months at a time though, and take breaks when using it, so it's not for long term use. Tbh I was hesitate to use it as well because it sounded like some weird miracle substance but it's really just another vitamin that helps the body as long as it's used correctly.

No. 445440

the anon who sperged about 8chan >>445337 cracks me up, mainly due to how pathetic the post is. imagine taking time out of your day to sperg about a fucking image board by essentially writing bad copypasta.

No. 445491

Hasn’t visited crystal cafe for a good min… good lord are there even any women left on there?? what a waste of an aesthetically pleasing board

No. 445493

Did you buy it online/where do you get it?
I’m so intrigued.

No. 445503

make sure to get the correct new bra, anon. not like VS DDD lol. it fixes the back pain.

No. 445505

I got mine from amazon (link if you wanna check it out:https://www.amazon.com/Kala-Health-Supplement-Inflammation-Allergies/dp/B000NPKFCA ).
I used about a teaspoon a day and it lasted for about a month. There's three forms (pill, powder, and crystal). Powder/crystal work better, and the only differences between them is that crystals dissolves in water easier which makes it easier to drink. Not gonna lie, it doesn't taste the best but it's drinkable lol. I've seen the pill form at grocery stores in the vitamin aisle, but I think the powder forms are only sold at health stores that cater to selling supplements. Not sure about other sites that sell it.

No. 445507

I have a "crazy" story I have been telling everyone. My friends, roommates, coworkers. Lol. I will post it here.

My ex, my bestie, and their friend Ben went to undergrad together. At that time, my ex was not very nice to my friend Ben. However, I didn't become friends with Ben until after I broke up with my ex and they all graduated from undergrad.

My bff and Ben had a lot in common. Naturally, Ben developed a crush on my bff. However, my bff didn't like him back and it caused a lot of problems between them.

Instead, my bff liked my ex better even though they had less things in common. This hurt Ben's feelings.

Eventually, my bff developed a crush on my ex. The kicker was that my bff isn't the type of guy my friend likes. So Ben was really jealous after that. Sad :/

No. 445510

I'm watching my parents' house while they're away and the cats have brought me three mice and a dead bird. It's a good job I'm fairly proficient at catching mice; I was always the one to catch them when I was growing up.

No. 445512

That’s better than the story where I had a crush on a guy and gushed to my best friend about him. He invited me to his place to hang out but it was a frat house so I invited my bff because I was uncomfortable. Everything goes good and we make plans to hang out again. He ghosts me immediately afterward and I lament to my bff for days. I forget about him. Months later he calls me and picks me up and tells me they had a secret relationship but he wanted to come clean to me because she cheated on him and he realized I was actually a good person. She and I aren’t friends anymore lol but this was years ago. Always like a “how could someone do this to me?” moment and I was always scared to introduce her to anyone I liked after that.

No. 445559

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does anyone have advice for building your life from the ground up after being stuck in a deeply dysfunctional and abusive household your whole life? i'm only 22 but i've missed so many milestones and haven't learned to live a responsible life, because i've been trapped in a cycle of retraumatization for over 11 years. i'm moving out soon and i just don't know where to start or how to live like an adult and everything feels overwhelming. i know im not helpless, and i have agency and responsibility over the way my life goes from here on out; i just don't know how to rebuild my life, and i don't really know anyone who's been in a similar situation who i could turn to for advice. sorry if this doesn't belong here

No. 445582

Lowkey vent, but I got offered more hours at work and I took them cause duh, money! I was supposed to focus on my last year of school because I’m bad at multitasking and lately my family has been turning every conversation we have into ”you better not quit school!!! How are your courses going???”-guiltrip and it’s really grinding my gears because they’re thinking of my best. And they’re totally right being worried. I wish I could tune it out, I don’t need the extra stress being annoyed by both work and home-life. Actually they don’t even know about the extra hours yet… I guess I gotta just step my game up and work harder to get them off my back. I’ve never worked while in school before and I’m afraid I’m setting myself up for failure. I don’t want to fail school because of a damn retail job, haha

No. 445664

anon, congrats on finding an opportunity to get out of your abusive household. have you had the chance to go to college at all or any work experience? do you have a support system of friends at all? if no to all of those questions then what i would first work on is finding an entry-level job such as retail (the holidays are coming up so that should be pretty easy) so you can at least have some money in your pocket, establish a routine, and start building your resume.
i think in your situation it will help to make a list of short-term and long-term goals and figure out what individual steps you need to take in order to achieve them. accomplishing the small steps instead of looking at the big picture can really help when you're feeling overwhelmed.
just try to take it a day at a time.

No. 445703

The leaked video of that Brooke girl hitting her Doberman really fucking upsets me, I know I shouldn't be shocked anymore but damn how could anybody do that to an innocent animal that loves you unconditionally? I'm glad at least that everyone seems to be uniting in how awful this is, I haven't seen any brainlets try to defend what she did.
The video makes me so damn uncomfortable though, I could only watch it once. The way her face would instantly change from her peppy fake camera smile to cold-blooded anger when her dog would do something that annoyed her is disturbing. It's the exact same look that my abusive family members would get before lashing out on me. I hope that poor dog gets rehomed.

No. 445704

My dad just bought me a gift randomly and I didn't have the heart to tell him it was something I already bought for myself months ago. I just pretended to be all excited. I feel like such a horrible person.

No. 445710

why feel horrible? your dad had no way of knowing that you had already purchased the gift and you're being polite by feigning excitement. honestly, this seems like a wholesome dumbass shit post, so don't worry anon!!

No. 445713

why feel horrible? your dad had no way of knowing that you had already purchased the gift and you're being polite by feigning excitement. honestly, this seems like a wholesome dumbass shit post, so don't worry anon!!

No. 445716

I've seen a lot of ~woke~ twitter folks commenting on how "white people will stay quiet while POC get beat but when it's a dog, they all freak out" but like…no, I'm sure plenty of people who get upset at a dog being beaten on camera also get upset when they see a POC get wrongfully beaten. Things aren't always black and white. What this girl did to her dog is disgusting and I'm so happy that the internet is ripping her a new one.

No. 445718

I hate when men shake my hand. It's weird and unnecessary. I get that it's a professional thing, but I feel like I would appreciate some sexism in this single instance.

No. 445720

This bitch did not train her giant dog and then has the nerve to scream at it and shit… lmao. This is why dog ownership has to come with a license, like birds of prey do.

No. 445736


I have no idea what video you guys are talking about but I hope that this stupid ass bitch gets some serious punishment for being such an abusive piece of shit.

No. 445740

She uploaded a video of her doing the plastic wrap challenge with her doberman but accidentally uploaded unedited footage. I saw it on Twitter and it made me so upset to watch. I'm glad she fucked up and uploaded the wrong footage. Imagine what goes on when the camera isn't rolling at all.

The flip between her fake ass happy persona to being fucking PISSED at her dog. Grabbing him and knocking him to the floor and spitting on him (or what sounded like spitting). She overreacted to what looked like her dog just trotting over and wanting to give his beloved over a little lick on the face. Obviously if you don't like these behaviors, you should train them out. Occasional negative reinforcement is one thing, the way she reacted is a whole other thing.

No. 445745

I hate when they waste my time with a limp handshake

No. 445751

Limp ones are the worst, but I think I just hate the "mandated by social norms" physical contact thing. I dont want strange men to touch me period. Fuck politeness. I'm barely touchy with people that I love and care about.

No. 445762

i always give men unnecessarily aggressive handshakes for this reason to establish my dominance

No. 445772

I hate how a low sex drive isn't a thing anymore. So many "asexuals" just have a low sex drive and don't particularly want to have sex all the time. My boyfriend thought there was something wrong with him for not being up for sex every day. Fuck the media for tricking people into thinking a high sex drive is a normal sex drive, and a low sex drive is super wrong. I have a low sex drive too, and it's great not having to worry about sex. I wish people would stop assuming we're either asexual or there's something wrong ~in the bedroom~ because there's not. We'd rather just cuddle. If this were a twitter post, I'd do the clapping emoji in-between "having a low sex drive is valid" or something.

No. 445790

Sometimes I have sad thoughts about my dog getting loose and running off. I had a dream once where she ran off in the middle of winter and she was curled up and shivering in a pile of snow (she was just down the block in my dream and I was watching from 3rd person perspective, not sure why I didn't just go get her lol). Yesterday it was heavily pouring rain when I was walking home, and when I got home I was snuggling her but my brain just thought "what if she was outside? what if she was just drenched and cold, stuck in the rain where there's a fuck ton of lightening and loud booming thunder?" I never actually have to worry about her running off because she never wants to veer off course during our walks and is too old to give a shit about running anywhere, but fuck, sometimes I just think sad thoughts.

No. 445850

Honestly that sounds like a cool hobby and you shouldn’t get discouraged because you might not get as many downloads. What is your new game about?

No. 445861

My bf got hard from cuddling today. He got extremely embarrassed when I teased him about it, it was the cutest thing ever. I'm super happy bc he used to look at a lot of porn and hentai before he met me so I was worried he'd be desensitized to everything. I also appreciate when he gets turned on he never pressures me into doing anything, he always waits for me to initiate if I want to and it makes me feel safe with him. When he touches me it's because he wants to make me feel good not because he expects me to reciprocate. It's just a nice and comforting feeling to be intimate with someone who truly cares about you, especially after reading all those horror stories about men that scared me away for so many years

No. 445869

Agree, my ex bought into the Tumblr asexuality thing hardcore just because of low libido. We had sex pretty regularly, like once a week, at his initiation, and he would enjoy himself and cum, but because he didn't think about sex 24/7 he thought he was ace. When I told him that was stupid he was like "not uh!!! I read asexual people can still like and have sex!!!!" (It's even funnier when you realise he used to be super pornsick.)

It's so fucking weird people put any amount of thought into such a non-issue. My husband and I have relatively low libidos but it's never even come up in conversation. We have sex when we feel like it a couple times a week but otherwise we like doing other activities together more. I'd never on my life say I was ace.

No. 445876

There is this host at my work who’s only 17 years old and constantly talks to me about sexual stuff and it makes me pretty uncomfortable. I’m not sure how she decided we were friends but like the first day I met her she was just immediately okay talking about every thought that popped into her head. And it’s not just me-she’ll have the same kinds of conversations with my other coworkers too. I’m glad I always see all the older males we’re around kinda brush her off when she starts oversharing or speaking inappropriately because I’d lose all my respect for them if they entertained it. I think she’s a sweet girl and she’s very outgoing which is cool and all but I want to say something to her and establish some boundaries without totally dismissing her or making her feel lesser for her age. Idk I’m tired of her hovering around my bar and asking me questions about drinks I’m making and seeing her try to flirt with guys in their twenties. I can kind of admire her moxie and again, she’s sweet, but I don’t want to be friends with a teenager or expose her to alcohol culture.

Minors shouldn’t be hired at bars lol.

No. 445878

I really want to try weed but it is illegal in my country and i don't want to break the law or support traffic.

No. 445888

It's not that good, please stay safe and don't break drug laws for it! If you have the funds to travel, you can always sample weed from a legal country.

No. 445889

Except it is that good less ur smoking dirt.

No. 445894

I think this is more due to people wanting labels to feel speshul.

I swear 99% of "asexuals" aren't asexual at all. Or they're weebs who masturbate and don't want real relationships.

No. 445934

lol @ me shitting my fucking brains out and on the verge of puking just because I chose to go to a shitty restaurant over a good one just because I embarrassed myself there once. fuck me and my dumbass anxiety!

No. 445940

Nope. Not for everyone. I agree with the other anon. I've had the high grade shit and it really is nothing special.

No. 445951

lmao that 3fun leak got me laffin, next ashley madison when?

No. 445954

I'm from San Francisco. I've definitely had amazing weed as far as weed goes, but it's not worth fucking your life up over. Pothead ass gatekeeping on fucking lolcow dumbass shit thread. Tf.

No. 445958

would you guys say that succeeding socially takes real effort, just like succeeding in your career, health, physical goals etc.? and that just like how some people who are born in poor health or don't get a fair start in life have to work harder than others to succeed, some people may have to work really hard to develop their social life?

No. 445966

Yep, social skills are real and some people are naturally gifted/have the easier temperament but everyone develops the skills to varying degrees throughout life.

No. 445974

Did you tell him so that he could maybe return it to get his money back?
Just be like, It's the thought that counts or something.

No. 446067

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Say what you will but I'm so glad to be a fujo because I get to spend all my time in girls only spaces, no crazy trannies or men because they're repulsed by gay stuff and even the fakeboi snowflakes and their handmaidens hate cis females so they stay away. And even the men that actually like BL are often chill fudanshis who respect women. Life is good.

No. 446079

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Honestly not sure if this belongs in this thread or the stupid questions one, but I'm putting it here because it just came out as a stupid thought in my head.

I wonder why people who buy those huge, guady looking diamond rings as an obvious flaunt of their wealth don't just buy a whole ass ring made of diamond? I found this ring, which was unveiled earlier this year and was cut from a lab grown diamond, but diamonds really aren't all that rare anyway so… Assuming someone doesn't grow at the rate that Feebz does, it's not like they would outgrow the ring, and diamonds are the hardest material blah blah shit.

I hate diamonds but now I'm sad because I think this ring actually looks cute lol

No. 446088

Shit anon this is exactly why I love being a fujo so much as well lmao.

No. 446089

I don't respect a friend of mine. While he is a perfectly fine person, I can't respect people who have no backbone, drive, passion, etc. I just realized this yesterday and I feel pretty bad

No. 446096

you can find female only spaces without fetishizing homosexuality, but whatever helps you justify your creepy fetishes to yourself

No. 446099

this is hideous. it looks like liberace's cock ring.

No. 446100

I'm happy for you, Anon. Females are programmed to be ashamed of everything so even if yaoi isn't exactly wholesome I'll take it.

No. 446106

No. 446107

don't feel bad, you can love someone but not respect them. it's not something you owe anyone. i mean, do respect their boundaries esp if you know they're bad at setting them but on a principle level you don't need to respect his personality or whatever.

No. 446108

I'm okay with your kind. Keep doing what you doing.

No. 446109

Oh no, did someone misgender you or are you just having a bad bpd day like always?

No. 446122

Same, although I don't participate in fandoms anymore or anything like that in the first place.

No. 446124

i really fucking hate sitting in the front seat when i'm a passenger in someone's car. i don't know why, i just do and it infuriates me more than anything when it's the only seat in the car not taken

No. 446132

You just made me think of something weird - I miss being a kid before I could drive and staring out the car window at everything passing by without any care about how other people are driving or how my parents drove. I miss being clueless and just enjoying the trees and buildings instead of noticing speeders or stop light runners or general arrogance of drivers. Now its all I see.

No. 446134

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Convince me that telling this guy i've consistently been talking to on discord (8 mo) i have feelings for him isnt a terrible idea. I will be seeing him irl in october but holy shit i think I'm going to get hemorrhoids from emotional constipation

No. 446146

Thanks for the bracoposting, I feel so much better now

No. 446173

I don't know how to drive and I still live like this. Sucks not having that car independence sometimes but I get anxiety even thinking about driving so no thanks.

No. 446178

This may sound weird, but growing up when I sat in the back seat my dad would stretch his arm and rest it on the back of the passenger seat. I don't know why, but I found that as some weird violation of my privacy and it made me uncomfortable.
Growing up my parents would take long drives to the beach and we ended up in a lot of 'middle of now where' places. We'd drive for and hour seeing nothing, see a k-mart headquarter, and maybe pass by a ghost town.

No. 446179

i watched a few jackie aina videos on youtube earlier and now the "jackie jackie jackie" song she sings at the beginning of her videos is stuck in my head and i keep singing it to myself over and over again. i need a compilation song of every time she does it

No. 446196

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holy shit, I read that as when you sat in the backseat, your dad would stretch his arm and rest it on the back of the backseat and I was horrified imagining this man with absolute yaoi hands

No. 446199

don't tell him until after you meet. too many stories of things not working out after the first meeting. many people are much more talkative online, for example, and are autistic as fuck irl. he could also turn out to be a creep.

for the record, I'm very wary of relationships formed online with men, after spending a couple months in threads of guys sharing tips on how to emotionally manipulate foreign women for nudes/sex under the guise of feelings/love. so this might be an overreaction.

No. 446214

I enjoy different kinds of gothic music and a lot of the aesthetics involved in it, but holy hell, the community is a dumpster fire.
It's even more autistic and messy than the Lolita community. I suspect that part of it is because there are more men involved.

No. 446227

I can't even bring myself to enjoy a game (usually rpgs) because it's always spoiled on day 1. I don't really have the luxury to always afford games on release and would often only buy during sales.

Seems like if I really want to experience that new game feel again, I have to go off the grid or something.

Also, finding myself unironically enjoying mundane games more now like a solitaire app or candy crush maybe I'm getting old.

No. 446295

I hope y'all are having a good day/had a good day and don't forget/be lazy to go drink some water. I wanna send you love through my little post and I hope you feel it in your kokoro

No. 446305

Taking this saturday to lie in the couch and watch mad men, and for you I have a pitcher filled with lemon water. Much love!

No. 446306

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wholesome post, helped me cheer up a bit i hope you have a nice day too anon

No. 446314

this is gonna sound stupid as fuck but how do you learn to cope with mortality & not be emotionally crippled by the fact that everyone you know & love is going to die one day?

No. 446322

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This is true

No. 446323

Think of it as a reason to not be complacent about the good things and people in your life and make sure to appreciate them because they won't be around forever. And also as a reason to not get down from the bad things or stress out about things getting worse, since you also can't suffer anything forever.

No. 446326

don't forget libfems are almost always subs and alt-right women are almost always childless career singletons

No. 446343

>posting my girl Aya
She's always a character that cheers me up

No. 446344

Hedonism, enjoy life while it lasts and appreciate everything

No. 446348

I miss /r9k/ tripfag drama from like, 2012 or so. It was very amusing to me!

No. 446351

I've noticed that so many alt right/white nationalist guys are also weebs and have an asian/japanese fetish, even knew a guy like that. he hated black people and arabs but worshipped japan.

exactly. lauren southern was always saying how women need to be traditional and get married in their early 20s and have babies because focusing on a career will end up making them miserable and by the time they hit 27 they will be too old to get a man (and really she was paraphrasing what jordan peterson had said). meanwhile she's pushing 25 and prioritizing her journalism career, and getting butthurt when people ask her why she's not married.

No. 446355

bring back mystery.jpg 2k20

No. 446365

yeah wait until you two have met
not even because of what the other anon said about manipulation but just wait how you get along irl
i used to have a mad crush on this girl i've known online for years but when we met there was oddly enough no attraction, we just ended up as really close friends
some things vibe differently in text and you might just interpret messages more to your liking and make him fit more into your type than he is

No. 446366

Why is someone posting a comment no one cares about a bannable offense but humblebragging, baiting, bringing shit into other threads and all kinds of stuff that starts infighting isn't?

No. 446377

I hate to be a Debbie Downer but my ex watched tons of porn & hentai and would usually still get a hard on from cuddling. It was challenging to get him off though and he always seemed bored.

No. 446379

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The MBTI stuff can be fun but I can never take it too seriously because I know this dumbass who's obsessed with being an ~INTJ~ and plasters it everywhere and talks about how super speshul she is all the time. She wants to be an edgelord so badly and it makes me laugh to think of her reading this shit about how INTJs are such cool edgy masterminds when she's airheaded as fuck, like legit one of the dumbest people I know, and flies off the handle because she has no control over her emotions and is insecure as hell.

No. 446380

Same thing for me, I usually wait for sales if I want to play a game and by then I already know everything about it because of spoilers.

No. 446433

The Area 51 Raid feels like the only appropriate way for the 2010's to end,cause this has been a dumb meme decade

No. 446435

Lmao. I think MBTI is bullshit. I would even go so far as to say astrology is more believable to me.

I've taken a bunch of different MBTI tests and gotten different answers but I still get INTJ the most, and yeah it fits me BUT every thing you read about MBTI says INTJs are ~super rare and speshul~ yet almost every female I've ever seen who has taken an MBTI test has gotten INTJ. Not to mention one of the traits of being INTJ is supposed be that you're a critical thinker yet they just buy into all this Myers-Briggs bullshit even though there is literally no scientific evidence to back it up.

No. 446439

It's my birthday in a week and I bought myself my gift this year because I had the spare money to buy myself tickets for two concerts/shows next year which I'm super excited to see. At least one good thing to be an adult and be able to buy shit for yourself that sparkles a lot of joy lol


how the fuck did this stupid joke start anyway? Wasn't it musk or pewds? I swear both of them are one of the biggest reasons why internet humor went to shit.

No. 446444

I had a dream that I was going to this candy-making place. It was like Build-A-Bear, but with desserts and sweets.
While I was walking down the street, I met Yolandi from Die Antwoord, and she randomly mocked me for "cosplaying as someone rich and important" because I wear alt clothing. She did this weird freestyle rap about it, too.
I tried to walk away at first, but then it turned out that she was going to the exact same place as me, so I said it was funny for her to say that, considering her whole aesthetic is ripping off poor people who actually have some modicum of creativity and are trying to have fun. She just pretended not to hear me, and left the building almost as soon as she came in.
There were other celebrities there, too. Mariah Carey was worried that she'd get in a fight with Nicki Minaj.
Not sure what that was all about.

No. 446449

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I wish money was no object to me so I could buy beautiful toys without a second thought.

No. 446455

My cousin does similar things and gave me such things for free. I should tell him about Etsy. He genuinely enjoys making these little wooden toys.

No. 446470

Also supposedly an INTJ and I feel the same way. For what's apparently the most rare and super special type it sure seems to be common. I'd say 50% of the women I know who take the test get INTJ.

Just seems like astrology for people who think they're smart to me.

No. 446497

My friend who's (supposedly) INTJ got me to take a test and I got INTJ too and she was overjoyed we were both super rare edgy snowflakes. It could be it's a self-selecting personality type of the self-important over-analytical individual who'd bother to take such a test in the first place. Or it's just bullshit Jung fanfiction two unqualified women put together as a writing guide.

No. 446542

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I just remembered about the Pon and Zi comics and I'm gonna lose my mind lmao

No. 446574

I hate the veins on my legs. They're thankfully not spider veins or the protruding ones, but just very visible and tbh I haven't worn shorts in years because I hate them so much. I've been lifting for a few years now and generally feel good about my body, but those damn things are my biggest insecurity.
They are also very visible on my hands and chest but somehow it doens't bother me as much there.

No. 446577

I have spider veins and one portruding one since I was like 12, my legs basically look like a granny's. fml

No. 446581

I wish I was 20 fifteen years ago instead of now. I'm thin with larger breasts and no butt/hips, but I feel ugly because I'm not "thicccc". In the 80s or 90s, I would be pretty. But today, I'm ugly because the trend is big hips. Nowadays, being thin isn't enough. Big breasts aren't enough. You have to have a big butt and wips, too. How the fuck is someone supposed to only be fat in two places and thin everywhere else? That's no how human physiology works.

It makes me really upset when people on lcf call out thin girls for having "no ass", or for being fat, or for having PS on their butt. What the fuck are people supposed to do if they're not natural perfect hourglasses? Die in a hole?

No. 446589

lol some aspects of my physique get laughed at on here too. don’t sweat it, it’s rarely actually bad and more just an easy way to nitpick a cow when all else fails.

also fuck the whole body type trend, period tbh. It’s annoying as fuck and really only matters to people seeking clout, most people don’t want/care about that super intense hourglass figure

No. 446592

my bf told me he hated how long it took me to do my hair because it's curly so i took his clippers and buzzed my hair while he's at work and i feel so emotionally weak rn

No. 446597

I wish I could get to know the crazier anons who are relentless in proving that some internet girls NEED a thread, or the anons who zoom in on selfies like they're on CSI trying to dig up any little discrepancy…and then circling nothing, lmao. I wonder if these farmers were bullied in middle school? Peaked in it? Have secret personal beef, maybe their boyfriends find the e-girls to be hot? Or just hate themselves so much that its a projection? Maybe they're still underage? I feel like as I've gotten older, I care less and less about a girls' cakey makeup or moderate photoshop. I know its all about anonymity, but it would tell us so much about user dynamic to compare the crazies irl to the normal farmers irl.

Like that girl who accidently outed herself in Momokun's thread, who turned out to be a fat dangerhair with pronouns in her bio. There's so much about people you never really see.

No. 446598

Oh no! I don't wanna bully you bc you sound positively unhinged but… pls go see a therapist bc that's not a normal reaction to being told something rude by your bf.

No. 446602

he told me that he likes it when girls look good for him but when i try to look good for him he makes derogatory remarks or points out girls he sees on insta who have perfect skin makeup bodies hair outfits it feels like i cant compete and everything i do is wrong and now that i cant do my hair itd be less of a thing to be put down for but theres so much hair in thr sink and on the floor that i dont know what to do and thinking of picking it up makes me want to puke

No. 446609

I swear "get therapy, leave him and make an appointment at a good hairdresser" should be lolcow's version of "delete the gym, Facebook up and hit the lawyer".

For fuck's sake, anon, this boy's bad news if him and his shitty attitude are making you pull a Britney. Get the hell out of that mess.

No. 446614

My mother likes to boomerpost on Facebook. She has over 4,000 friends and over 5,000 followers I believe. She gets constant thirst from the absolute nastiest guys. I looked through her photos on her phone (she lets me), and today I found memes of "feminism is cancer," "women are entitled," and all the typical shit an incel would post. She absolutely enables their behavior. I was completely dumfounded, because we always talk about how awful men are. She's the one who pinkpilled me at a young age, about the awful things men do that are just now gaining traction again, like "gender critical." We even had a discussion about it this week! She's a total pickme; all of her replies to the guys on her profile are flirtatious, and the guys honestly think they have a chance. These guys keep at it even though she says she's married, and a lot of them are married as well! Honestly, what the fuck. Ew.

No. 446622

This is scary, anon. You should never let a boyfriend have this much authority over your mental health.

No. 446623

>he told me that he likes it when girls look good for him but when i try to look good for him he makes derogatory remarks or points out girls he sees on insta who have perfect skin makeup bodies hair outfits
He does it because he thinks you'll cheat on him with any men you see if you feel good about yourself. He wants you to think you are worse than him. Males think all women are narcissistic and that we're all convinced that we're perfect 10/10 and males have to put us down constantly or else we won't respect them. I've registered on the male closed forum, they brag about bullying their GF's and wives to tears to induce low self-esteem so they won't cheat or leave them. Basically, they self project so much that according to them girls are sex-obsessed and have no empathy. No matter what you do, even if you'll look like a most beautiful instagrm model, he'll shit on you, he's unable to comprehend that you have human emotions. Just leave him, he's subhuman garbage. Get therapy, get better bf who won't abuse you.

No. 446627

This guy is absolute trash, leave him.

No. 446630

update since shaving my head

i called my sister to come over and help me with this and she told me roughly similar things as you gals >>446627

shes having me stay with her this weekend and that shes going to be talking to him but im convinced shes going to end it for me but how do i even fix what i did i look like an ugly boy now

No. 446633

I'm glad to hear that your sister is there to support you.
Buzzcuts on girls are fucking hot. Try not to look at your new haircut as an Eleven, but as a Furiosa

No. 446635

You probably don't look as bad as you think you do and you'll feel better when he's out of your life. Your hair will grow back quickly if you take good care of it anyway. Idk, if you really don't like the style there's always wigs.

No. 446643

I myself had a Britney moment years ago. It should only be a couple months before it's in the pixie phase and looks fine. If you're a tomboy it will just naturally assimilate with your look. If you want to look girlier, just compensate with ultra feminine clothes and jewelry. Really cool earrings also help make it look good.

No. 446657

If it’s any consolation anon buzzcuts look cute on girls and your hair for the next several months will take absolutely no effort to take care of and will always look good - you’ll save a ton on both products and time, especially if your hair is curly

No. 446689

thanks for the responses, anons my sister is really one of my idols for how quickly she responded to this fucking mess

i think i needed to reach a point where enough is enough and this was it for me. i just need a way to end it once and for all and get him out of my apartment & figure out what im going to do about work coming soon

No. 446708

There are guys out there who will like you even if you don't have perfect hair, clothes, etc. You don't need to stay with someone who negs you. I hope your haircut at least feels nice on the back of your neck. Think of how healthy it will be growing in fresh. Let us know his reaction later if he sees it.

No. 446716

I love eating chocolate but I can't stand having the smell on my hands, it's legitimately repulsive. That also goes for any foods with a buttery or creamy taste, something about the smell makes me start gagging

No. 446720

It's probably butyric acid. I'm assuming you're American, because the butyric acid smell is distinct to Hershey's chocolate, and a lot of competitors copy it. Apparently American milk chocolate is repulsive to people in other countries for that reason.

No. 446724

Nah I'm not American lol. But this is true for Cadbury chocolate, I hate getting it on my hands. I think I'm just turned off by the smells of really sweet or creamy foods

No. 446729

I’m getting married this fall and at first I was pretty into having a very small, silly/kitsch party to celebrate it.. maybe even having a light hearted and casual ceremony. But my best friend got married in the spring and I was part of the wedding party, it was pretty traditional ceremony honestly. Holy fuck did I hate it though. Every second of it was draining and by the end of it, I couldn’t even fake having a good time (apologies to my friend). After that, I’ve basically completely abandoned any and all wedding plans. I learned that there’s nothing about it that I’d find worth it, so a friend is gonna wed us at our house and maybe we’ll go out to eat with our families. My best friend really wanted to be in my wedding since I was in hers but she doesn’t understand why I’m suddenly not doing anything traditional. Like I can’t say I realized I hated it because of her lmao. But whatever! It’s none of her business. My fiancé and I are happy doing things super low key, not spending stupid amounts of money, and not forcing ourselves to entertain people. It’s sort of freeing in a way.

No. 446744

How does someone diligently restrict calories? Does it take a determined mindset or an organized personality or something? Does the person obsess over their calories 24/7 to meet their goals? I bet I couldn't restrict my caloric intake even if I tried my hardest. I'm too disorganized, I lack the self control, and my motivation isn't strong enough.

No. 446758

I've missed the pill for 2 days now, because it's the weekend and both doctors are on vacation so I can't get a prescription until Monday.

I'm cramping and feeling nauseous as fuck. I'm having such a fun vacation, fml.

No. 446760

use chopsticks for it anon!

No. 446814

If you download an app like my fitness pal you basically record what you eat everyday and get a rough estimate of how many calories you’re eating. As you continue using it you’ll get an idea of what impact the foods you eat have everyday, how much you’re eating, how much you have to cut out etc. It really simplifies calorie in/calorie out which IMO is the most basic method of weight loss/gain.

No. 446822

I'm disorganized and I can do it. Use the calculator on your phone to add up calories and screencap what you're up to.

No. 446825

Already posted this in the vent thread, I'll try it here too because I could really use some advice:
I have feelings for a close friend of mine (she knows about it). We talk everyday. However, this friend is going to date another girl, and it's killing me. Should I stop talking to her?
A part of me is telling me that it would be the right choice, so that I can heal and get over it since everytime she mentions the other girl it's just painful, but the other part doesn't want to, because I'm so used to having her in my life and I can't imagine not talking to her now, and it'd be weird to just stop talking to her out of the blue, we didn't argue or anything. What should I do?

No. 446840

my moms fiancée puts hot pepper in everything and I don't have the gall half the time whenever he makes food to tell him I don't like spicy shit. few times I've tried it pisses him off… but eating it makes me wanna vom

and everyone wonders why in this shitty house I don't want to eat any of their food

No. 446852

I'm proud that you still took the steps to accept your sisters help and GTFO that piece of shit relationship. You will be better, and we're rooting for you.

You can do a more emotionally available thing and talk to her about your feelings, and say that if she doesn't see the possibility of giving you a chance, you'd like to take some time away to get over your feelings so you can continue your friendship without it ruining your mental health. Let her become a part of the decisionmaking imo. If you're close friends then dumping her without an explanation is a huge blow. Let her know what is going on with you.

No. 446881

blogpost incoming, sorry for the length

I finally figured out why I have these deep issues of hating everything related to performative femininity, wearing makeup, dresses, girly stuff and activities. It's because of my mom. Maybe this should go into the confession thread instead but I feel a bit of contempt towards women and girls that are over the top feminine, waifu types, housewives, and trad types. I know this isn't healthy and I know what I'm feeling is wrong but I can't dissociate that sort of appearance and interests from my mom and certain friends that have made me deeply repulsed of being a woman.

The reason being that my mom is that sort of trad type that is an ardent anti-feminist and thinks that the world would be a better place if we went back to good old days when women were in the kitchen and were at home with the kids and men were men. I cringe even typing this. I've also met other girls with similar thoughts and opinions and it doesn't matter how much I try, I just can't stop associating femininity with vapid housewife attitude. My mom's interests are gossip, soap operas, fashion, makeup, romcoms. I cannot but judge people with the same interests as stupid and empty shells with no ability to form their own opinion. I utterly hate my mother's urge to always appease men and gain a man's approval. For example, when I complained about getting catcalled my mom told me I should be happy because when I grow older, I will regret not getting catcalled. And when once there was a topic on TV about women that are into dominating men, my mom said that all women desire being dominated because it's in our nature which resulted in me having a disturbing relationship with other men. She completely mocked the metoo movement and even think Epstein did nothing wrong.

I'm aware that it's not a nice thing to say about my mother. Sometimes we get along just fine, but sometimes, I just want to cut all the ties and never speak to her again.

In contrast, my father's pretty chill and has no such opinion of women. I have no idea how these two got together.

No. 446883

According to the zodiac, I'm not compatible with my boyfriend and for some reason it's bothering me so much.

No. 446886

Nah, that's pretty legit anon. Not the projection onto all feminine women, but disliking your mom for her shitty views. I think I'd flip if my mother held those beliefs.
If it helps at all, gender conforming women who hate men or who are at least progressive exist. I like dresses and skin care but fucking despise men at worst and want a reverse-trad FLR at best.
Ironically I went through a similar issue when I was presenting GNC myself because I thought I had to be submissive and uwu weak if I was feminine, what a joke. I used to get angry at myself for even making gestures that may be read as feminine and was always on the verge of flipping shit if I was interacting with a woman who had a high-pitched voice. Don't know if it's the same for you?
I hope you can overcome it since it is quite frustrating.
(By the way I'm not implying femininity will be your ~true form~ if you overcome this issue, that was just my personal case. Butch and stag women are based.)

No. 446889

If you've never done it before, just start out by looking at the nutritional information on the back of packets and become aware of how many calories, sugar and fat is in what you're eating. You may find that you start avoiding higher calorie foods from doing this.

About five years ago I started eating a strict keto diet because I kept getting brain fog and it was interfering with my ability to do my job as a bookkeeper. I used to write down everything I ate and then sit down at the end of the day with a calculator to work out my exact macros. It's easy enough to do once you know a few tricks. Supermarket websites will have all the nutritional information you need. The nutritional information will usually be given for 100g of product. For example if you ate 35g of chocolate, the easiest and quickest way to work out how many calories you consumed is by taking the number calories per 100g and then multiplying it by 0.35. So if 100g of chocolate contains 534 calories that multiplied by 0.35 is 186.9 and now you have the exact amount of calories you ate. If you ate 70g, you would multiply the value per 100g by 0.70. If you eat more than 100g, say 125g, the number you would need to multiply by would be 1.25. I hope that's understandable.

No. 446895

Thanks anon. I'm aware that my projection is stupid and it's embarrassing to admit it. Also, hearing that you sort of went through the same and overcame it gives me hope.

> verge of flipping shit if I was interacting with a woman who had a high-pitched voice.

yeah, same. Gestures, interests, crying too.
I still can't cry in front of others or even when I'm alone. Coincidentally, I developed anger issues that I'm working through right now.

I really appreciate what you wrote. It feels good knowing that I'm not alone. I don't think I could admit this anywhere else. And I feel like a piece of shit for writing shit about my mom but today was the last straw with the epstein bit.

No. 446896

I'd like to say that I sympathize with your situation, consider this though:
>I've also met other girls with similar thoughts and opinions and it doesn't matter how much I try, I just can't stop associating femininity with vapid housewife attitude.

This could probably be corrected by just meeting more women, specifically what you might call professionals. What you do for a living or just who you're around all day can shape this.

I also feel like the radfem take on aspects of performative feminity being instruments of the patriarchy (like heels are meant to cripple us) to be kind of bullshit. Imo it's just too much of a stretch, though I do agree with most other radfem theories.

For me, I enjoy the ritualized aspect of "making myself up", it can be therapeutic in a way. Similarly how having a skin care routine helps me wind down and relax. I see it like taking extra time to pay attention to just yourself.

Anyways, best of luck to you anon. You sound like you already have a good head on your shoulders in regards to this issue, like recognizing it as a problem, so you'll be okay.

No. 446915

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Just realized it's been at least 3 years since I begun lurking on lolcow. Probably more. I always thought it was way less.

No. 446922

Thanks anon.
> This could probably be corrected by just meeting more women, specifically what you might call professionals. What you do for a living or just who you're around all day can shape this.

True. Unfortunately, all my previous work experience has been in an office environment where women were like carbon copies of my mom. I've had great friendships with other women but they were all GNC, or at the very least, they didn't wear makeup and didn't gossip.

I'm going to move places soon but regardless, I want to change how I feel about this. I never bothered to analyze my thoughts or talk about my feelings before because I thought it was stupid.

No. 446935

don't feel stupid. when somebody has a shitty or crazy parent, it's natural to be repulsed by their offputting traits and opinions, and worry about/fear becoming like them someday. talking about it and acknowledging it is the first step towards processing it and dismantling it, so you can have a healthy view of women as a whole (not just the GNC or outspoken ones you're currently alright with). try to recognize when you're externalizing and projecting your disdain towards/resentment of your mother onto random women. i struggled with some really similar internalized misogyny due to my own mother which i projected onto women who reminded me of her. you don't have to respect or love anti feminist trad wives (or whoever else reminds you of your mom), but they're not your mother, and you may be making some snap judgements about (or applying a blanket stereotype onto) women you encounter. some of them may have hidden depths you'll never witness or experience, if you write off or dismiss all feminine women before giving them a fair chance. (not referring to redpilled pick mes, you have no obligation to give them a shot. what you see is usually what you get with those types.)

No. 446951

As an ex muslim, eid is about to make me vegan. Everyone is throwing a fit over the chinese dog eating festival, how is eid any different?

No. 446955

Happy lolcow anniversary anon. I like your picture of Toph.

No. 446956

the discourse from the chinese dog eating festival was exactly what made me vegetarian lol

No. 446965

I think it's more about the humane way to butcher animals, with the dog eaters, most of them capture stray dogs, steal family pets, torture and eat them, with farms, especially kosher farms, a lot of them feed and let the animals roam until it's time to butcher them, even then they make the butcher quick, easy and painless

No. 446984

Best girl

No. 447005

how fucked up is it when the weight of your adult life/responsibilities are putting so much pressure on you that you want to temporarily plead insanity and be put up in some kind of babysitting facility for a week just so you're not expected to deal with it all?

No. 447019

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i want to pet crystal exarch and protect him with my life
i would kill a man

No. 447073

I want to pet him too and scratch his ears

No. 447080

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i just moved to xiv from another mmo and the idea of maybe meeting other farmers made me so happy just now thank you anon

No. 447102

Watching the bpdfag sperg out in the ana thread makes me wonder if the person who caused me to stop streaming had BPD. She talked a lot in chat and hung out every day. Generally she was really nice. The channel got a little bigger, and I made some people mods, and she asked to be one, and I said sure, but once the chat gets more active and the mods can't keep up with filtering bad comments. There weren't a lot of bad comments to filter, so I thought it'd be a while.

The next day, there was around ten accounts that popped in and called me names and spammed curse words. I thought it was a freak occurrence, and everyone was doing okay with moderating, but it kept happening every day in increasing numbers. After a couple weeks of the random spamming, I was kind of anxious about it, and then one of the accounts, after insults, said something like "boy it looks like you need an actual moderator" and the girl who I promised mod to agreed in chat.

It hit me that she was making all the accounts, creating a toxic enough environment that would get her mod. I banned her quietly and told my other mods my suspicions, and waited to see what happened next.

Several "friends" of the girl, all on new accounts joined and demanded to know why she was banned, what she did wrong, why it was wrong. That I was mistaken, that it couldn't be proven. I told her friends I was disappointed in her, and that I may unban her in the future, but not right now.

Then the account attacks increased. More people joining, but this time starting or joining a conversation innocently, then landing insults that were really specific. It went on for weeks. I didn't really know what to do, so I took a break for two weeks without telling anyone. It wasn't until the break that I realized how much stress that dealing with that girl had caused me. I stopped streaming altogether.

I always wondered why it happened. It was really weird and tiring and toxic. I wasn't even a large stream to obsess over… but yeah I was just reminded of the behaviour that she exhibited. I realize it must've been mental. If not BPD then something else.

No. 447113

I'm excited to get my period, only because I really want to try out my menstrual cup. The pain and fatigue are obviously unwanted.

No. 447123

I had a dream that I got contacted because the company I applied that was very very interested. This had to be good, right. Last time I dreamt I failed an interview and I did so maybe this one will be good.

No. 447130

some people are just manipulative spergs anon tbh. i hope some day u can stream again without that issue if u liked it doing it ://
(i had a good chuckle from the bpdfag tbh. the ana chan board attracts too many of these fuckers its lowkey pathetic)

No. 447148

Any time I see people talk about kpop it makes me blast Gee by Girls Generation. It's been a decade since that song came out and I refuse to get over it. I don't even like kpop or understand a word of Korean but that song is my fucking shit.

No. 447153

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guys i still cant get over the teddy geiger thing

No. 447215

what thing. who is he

No. 447224

he's a troon now.

No. 447225

I fucking love that song, anon, thank you for reminding me of its existence.

No. 447287

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My local fruit vendor was selling avocados for a dollar each and I ended up buying two and have been making myself avocado toast for breakfast all weekend. I topped it with prosciutto the first day, but then yesterday and this morning I decided to top it off with cherry tomatoes and raw shallots.

I know avocado toast is a dumb meme but fuck, I love it so much and I'm so happy I get to eat a bunch of it without paying out the ass for it.

No. 447288

i wish i could appreciate male butts without it having me seem like a fujo

No. 447289

this sounds so good right now

No. 447292

Straight girls are all fujos or?

No. 447294

meant manga butts, esp bara type butts. but u dont see them unless its in yaoi or at least cutesy gay manga n i dont i just like the way male butts are drawn

No. 447343

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I wish I wasn't so garbage at games. My favorite game is Animal Crossing because it's so chill and I can still get a nice house and pretty town just by spending a few hours here and there working on it. I don't have to be a "super good gamer" to get all the best stuff.

I bought a Switch almost a year ago by now, but I haven't finished any of the games I bought. I first bought BoTW but I stopped shortly after picking it up because I'm so god fucking awful at fighting monsters and it stresses me out that weapons will break after some time, so it amps up my hoarding mentality to save all of my weapons. I picked it up again recently but I'm stressed about having to do the Vah Ruta dungeon because I fucking suck at fighting things. I literally spent hours just getting to the Zora domain in the first place because I didn't want to walk the main path. I kept trying to find other ways through the mountains before I eventually settled on making my way by following the path but still staying far off of it to avoid fighting. I see people do speedruns and shit but my brain is so bad at timing and pressing buttons correctly and quick enough. I know there's no point in being a "good gamer," but I'd like to just enjoy games without getting easily frustrated because I fucking suck and can't stop dying.

I just want New Horizons to come out so I can just enjoy being a basic bitch and use my switch more.

No. 447345

Why don't you look up game guides and tips? Also try just looking for shrines and not doing the main quest until you get a few under your belt. You'll get more hearts and feel a lot more comfortable. Run away from the monsters (get the stealth gear in grey hair village if you can) because all they do is break your weapons, and get more hearts through doing shrines. You'll feel better then!

No. 447350

Thank you anon, I will!

I played on my friend's switch a long while back and I had so much fun doing dumb mindless shit like climbing up every single mountain that I could find, I just wanna do that again LOL

No. 447356

Absolutely do that! Just ignore the game quests for now and climb up mountains. Once you get more stamina (which you can get as well once you get more shrines) you can climb up pretty much everything. If you have any more questions, anons can probably answer in the games thread on /m/. But just fucking around climbing shit, finding shrines, and avoiding everyone for the time-being is a great way to get more gear/hearts/travel points.

Delete and repost to say that if you find a shrine that is too hard, it can still be used as a fast travel point, so you can come back to it later and continue exploring.

No. 447367

How are you that bad at it even? Its an easy game made for babies…

No. 447372

Thanks!! I'll definitely check that thread out!

Bad at timing, bad at aiming, stress overtakes me easily so I button mash constantly when fighting with bad results. I also constantly forget which buttons do what lol

No. 447383

I move my hips left and right when taking off my pants. Always.

No. 447403

My boss wants to give me a raise at the end of the month!!

Too bad the Big Boss is a stingy creep and will never approve it but the thought is there and its sweet ~

No. 447439

Kinda wanna lose weight, kinda don’t care. I’m 5’5 and currently 140lbs, which is the most I’ve ever weighed. I’m starting to feel stressed about potentially hitting 150+ an starting to actually look fat instead of just “thick” lmao. My lowest weight was 118lbs but even when I was that small, I still felt big? So idk if losing weight would have any effect on my self image lolllll

No. 447464

Update: they brought me another mouse and while I was trying to catch it, it bit me. Guess I have to see a doctor now.

No. 447473

I was really, really poor as a kid and lived near an elementary school so once a month after all the other students and teachers had gone home I would go back and collect jackets and lunch boxes that kids had forgotten on the playground and distribute the stuff among myself and my 5 younger siblings.

No. 447474

lol anon why are you so willing to play russian roulette with mouse rabies? pet mice/rats are one thing but the wild ones are dirty and disease-ridden.

No. 447487

It's late in the day so the doctor's will be shut and it's almost a lottery on whether you can get an appointment anyway

No. 447490

Waaa why didn’t my parents force me to stay playing piano!! I could have grown to have long slender fingers. But no I have stubby baby hands that can’t even wrap around a standard guitar neck for simple chords wow

No. 447502

That's a really weird thing to blame your parents for.

No. 447504

it doesn't really help with that kek.

No. 447508

I've seen pianists with stubby ass fingers, callused too.

No. 447512

Your fingers are genetic and don't change ,much from childhood.

No. 447517

long slender fingers are prized among piano players because they relate to hand span and how many keys you can reach at once, that's all.

No. 447589

I've been annoyed with the overdrive app and wanted to leave a suggestion for a couple features but just wasn't sure where. Only tonight did my dumbass remember that app store reviews exist as more than something shitty games badger you to leave. lol

No. 447738

I ordered some diatomaceous earth off of Chewy no more than 24 hours ago yesterday. I didn't see them send the email until I got into work today, but they shipped it out last night so I figured I'd be getting it later this week. I just checked the shipping and it's arriving TODAY!!!

Holy shit I'm so astounded. Granted, it's probably because it wasn't shipped from too far away (about 2 states away), but holy shit I'm still amazed nonetheless. I want to send an email to their customer support that this is amazing because I've never had something processed, shipped out, and arrive so quickly before…

No. 447790

Do it. Those kinds of emails happen far too rarely in customer service jobs, and if you've ever worked one you'll know how useful they are.

No. 447796

Not to sound like Onision but some threads really do have a Mean Girls cafeteria layout with how diverse a crowd each cow attracts

Layla's thread had a lot of tumblrspeak edgy soundclout posters, like a table of girls who want to one-up eachother constantly so every interaction is so bitter and forced

Phoebe's threads are full of Brits who have solidarity in Brit slang

Shayna's occasionally gets bbygirl anons who type like her, they're the girls who wear bdsm collars to school

Momokun's table at one point was just Susu and Bunny drinking diet cokes thru straws while posting anonymously how cute they are lol

/g/ is entirely anons swapping skincare products and thinking the incels from the spam raid table are cute

someone draw us


No. 447804

>Momokun's table at one point was just Susu and Bunny drinking diet cokes thru straws while posting anonymously how cute they are
why is this so accurate?

No. 447816

/m/ is the cool asians vs the koreaboos, then we've got the cringy weebs, the holier than thou weebs, the closet fujos, and the one girl who likes GOT

No. 447822

What are you talking about? My parents forced me to play piano from age 7 to age 13 and my fingers are short and chubby (even tho I'm not fat myself).

No. 447826

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Is the lolcow art discord dead? I recently switched disocrd accounts and haven't bothered rejoining.

No. 447839

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Holy shit. Kids born in 2005 are turning 14 this year. Kids born in 2005 are about to enter high school. How did the time go by so damn fast?

No. 447843

I need that scrote character to be a meme

No. 447856

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i wonder why dudes come here to post their dicks. what do they get out of it? it's not like its tinder where its one on one and maybe a girl will respond. why do men?

No. 447864


I can't believe there are 400-year old animals out there, alive, doing their thing since forever. WTF.

No. 447887

Its funny how they used all of these landmark historic human events to show how wildly long this shark has lived. The shark doesnt give a shit and keeps swimming and eating while we bullshit around on land. You go, funky little fish dinosaur lady.

No. 447889

I took a course in college where our final project was to do research on a specific building or place of our choosing, like its history and whatnot. It really got me thinking more and more about the history of certain buildings, and my current interest is in the Hollister building on 5th ave in NYC. I went in there once out of curiosity and I thought the inside was so cool- not any of the Hollister stuff, but the furniture in there that obviously came with the building. There were these glass cases that made it look like it probably belonged to a jewelry store or something before and I'm trying to find what used to be there before Hollister bought it but right now I'm just shifting through vague certificates of occupancy that aren't offering much information.

It's a weird rabbit hole but I'm suddenly really excited.

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Mood, anon. Earlier today I was scrolling through old pictures of a vacation from 5 years ago and… it feels like yesterday. I was 19, now I'm 24. I can't believe it. Time goes by so fast it's scary.

No. 447911


Today at work I talked to a girl that told me that she was excited to go to Disneyland Paris, so I told her that I went there twice and she was like "wow, was it recently or…?" and I was like "Oh no, it was back as a child in 2000" and she looked at me "wow, that's the year I was born" and I sat there for sec and thought: almost all People born in 2000 are 19 years old wtf???

No. 447919

I was showing my friend photos from a trip and accidentally showed a porn gif I forgot I downloaded. she was cool about it but holy shit i'm so embarrassed.

No. 447928

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That's what I often think about trees and rocks I see outside, how many hundreds of years they've been around for, the history is all around us. Some animals are even considered immortal like pic related which just keeps alternating between sexually mature and immature phases indefinitely.

No. 447930

I feel that, it's been 5(!)years already since I graduated hs and I haven't done shit with my life. I feel so old.

No. 447951

There's some songs that I really like but I just can't enjoy them the same because I associate them with my most recent clown of an ex

No. 447956

I was born in 91 and I still feel like a teenager, but I'm nearly 30! It sucks to feel like you're getting older and everything is changing so fast you can't even understand youth culture anymore because our age group is being phased out. I don't blame boomers for hating us anymore I totally get it lol.

No. 447957

Nah bro, I was born just a year after you and I'm determined to always have an open mind towards new technology. I'm gonna do my damnedest to at least show willing to learn Neural Snapchat or whatever comes next, and keep my opinions on how technology is shaping society to myself.

I refuse to become a boomer. I refuse.

No. 447960

what are you going to do when you're 40, it feels weird to have an internet presence when you're surrounded by people half your age and younger and they make fun of you for being out of touch and cringe. I mean look at tiktok for example..

No. 447963

i don't think the generation of current 25-35 year olds really has the luxury of complacency that the original boomers did. growing up with technology, we have already had to learn, adapt and change so many times. it's just normal for us by now.

No. 447964

then just don't be out of a touch and cringe? it's not hard to stay in the loop if you even have the smallest interest in pop culture and the way it evolves.

No. 447966

Lmao you're never going to fit in with the youngins no matter how well you think you can keep up. We can however carve out our own spaces for us geriatrics out here.

No. 447969

i'm not saying anyone has to fit in with them (the zoomers are pretty cringe themselves) but just that it doesn't need to affect you that much

No. 447971

I mean its possible to keep up with the latest tech if you're not genetically prone to alzheimers or some shit but the cultural focus is always going to be on what teens like. My point is we're always being phased out and I get why older people grow bitter about it because its kind of sad.

No. 447975

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5000 iq move is to stay on the fringes of society your whole life so when you're older nothing changes that much

No. 448018

Zoomers can keep their "dabbing" and fortnite dances. I'll settle with the satisfaction that I was born into the narrow window that allowed me to enjoy a childhood before the negative presence of the internet, and still benefit from its conveniences as a teen. These dopey little shits today upload their whole lives to the internet. In 30 years time they will still be mortified at the thought the stuff they've uploaded resurfacing. Meanwhile I'll be sipping a Monster with a smug look on my face.

No. 448073

What data center do you farmers play on?

No. 448074

I just ate a whole star fruit from my tree and it was awesome and delicious and cold because it was in the fridge. Perfect for summer.

No. 448081

I'd love to grow one of those!

No. 448122

Sometimes I read a NSFW fanfic or art and suddenly this intrusive thought pops into my head: "I hate sex. I hate anything to do with it. I never want to hear about disgusting sex ever again."
Then, I get too embarrassed to keep reading or looking at the NSFW thing, and I tab out to something unrelated. I do end up going back after a bit with almost no problem, but it always happens.
Is this weird?

No. 448124

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I have been emulating a few psx games because i am stressed and kind of regressing, i had a few issues with stuttering playing Legend of mana and went on google to see if there was a fix and turns out most threads talking about it were from 2002 , 2006. Like wtf, it triggered the worst dreadful feeling on me to realize how much time has passed since i was a teenager, somehow reading the date on the posts talking about it made it more real for me, i feel like a fucking looser that wasted her life on the internet and is only good for distracting myself from how shitty i am at the real world.

No. 448129

I found out that my shitty cheap apartment complex leaves the pool unlocked at night because they are too cheap to hire someone to close it and open it. I went on a night swim from 1- 5:00 a.m. while watching a meteor shower. I went skinny dipping and had sex in the pool. I risked the infection and I don't even care how gross it was for myself or for anyone who swims next. Also great because I didn't have to worry about anyone looking at my fat cottage cheese legs. I hope I get to go again on my next weekend. Good times all around.

No. 448142

am a sanders supporter but this video still makes me cringe on Dasha's part. Dasha bothers me in general. why is this touted as a win? this is not a "win". nothing she said here was clever. this is exactly the kind of smug Brooklyn bullshit that makes me dislike and avoid young left leaning people

No. 448143

I don't know her but I'd support anyone being smug to dishonest people

No. 448144

I don't follow this podcast closely but it seems like she's at least better than Anna with her stupid contrarian takes. I agree, I can't stand this crowd of leftists.

No. 448152

She blocked me bc I liked some reply to one of her shitty takes. She's really stupid and likes to hide behind sarcasm. Trasha #2.

No. 448164

i don't dislike the viewpoints of the left. not that any could be found in the video anyways. it was shameful cringe for a few reasons: 1) her answer to "why do you like socialism?" is "i don't really want to do this" and standing around like she's owning this bottle-blonde in a poorly fitted blazer with just her presence. wow, what a burn. she couldn't even give a reason, and so it again gives the impression of young support of socialism as being seen as memetier. 2) bernie is not a socialist. bernie is not even a democratic socialist, but a social democrat. her calling him a socialist, straight up, is embarrassing. she then further humiliates the left by giving some gives a shitty answer about "eating the rich"? who is this reply meant to appeal to but smug 27 year olds living in bed-stuy or cheese-dicked leftypol faggots? god i hate new york. 3) half of venezuela is not eating rats and that's easily discredited. bernie doesn't own 3 million dollar homes, either. like she did absolutely nothing here but further cement the idea that young left leaning people are smug, latte-sipping twits and she didn't even try to say "that's not true" to any of the ludicrous claims tossed at her. the worst part of all of this is that the left congratulated her and her appearance on infowars. this video was pure cringe.

No. 448224

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Not gonna lie, whenever i remember this retarded fujo i used to be friends with up until last year i have many keks but also my day gets a little worse. Dunno what made me think that bitch was worth keeping around desu. She used to constantly beg for me to change my male OC's sexualities in chat and voice chat. She used to put this really raspy sad begging voice too.

Man, so glad i dumped all those shitty friends. They wanted me to listen when they had to vent, babble and explore their creativity, but didn't want to be there for when i wanted to. Fuckers came back crying when i left them without saying a word. Never stick with bitches who will lie to your face, but run towards you crying when you put up a defense. I'm living my best life without people that just wanna use me. Trust your gut. People who treat you like shit and only superficially support you are NOT your friends.

No. 448412

/g/ sucks

No. 448415

it can be amusing but the sad anons putting up with painful sex in the sex advice thread make me despair for this female generation.

No. 448419

I don't know, I'm more sad that there are a lot of anons in such shit relationships.

No. 448506

I feel like I've recently was slipping back into my depression, want to cry at every little thing, have felt super on edge bc of childhood fears resurfacing, and have been breaking out… then suddenly my boobs started hurting today and I realized it was just my period.

I don't bleed anymore/have occasional spotting thanks to my iud (wasn't really regular even before getting my iud so it's harder to anticipate now since spotting doesn't happen every month for me to know) but I still have to deal with everything else and every month without fail I completely forget that it's a thing that throws my whole physical and mental self in for a loop lol. At least it'll be over soon.

No. 448515

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My coworkers brought some sweets to me and I was thinking they looked familiar so I looked it up… and it's from this expensive wagashi shop in the city…

No. 448546

I have been waiting all week to have sex with my boyfriend, as time has been getting scarce between us lately. Finally got the chance last night and he came during foreplay. Ngl definitely kinda disappointing.

No. 448559

…why didnt you continue ? It's normal for a person to come before the other but that usually means you continue the intercourse. Why couldnt he go for round two ? Or finger you? idgi ??

No. 448569

I mean we tried, he fingered me for a bit before I asked him if he’d maybe be good to like, you know, have actual sex. He said he was pretty sure he was and we tried, but at that point he definitely wasn’t going to stay hard, moment was kinda gone, etc.

No. 448615

Yum! that's really nice of them, anon

No. 448631

the older man cutting my hair kept going on and on about this dumb youtuber who was unhealthily obsessed with some fringe cult. kept talking about how dumb and shady the youtuber was. it was like being on /snow/ irl.

No. 448633

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i live in the same city as momokun and somehow have managed to avoid running into her for like 10 years despite having been to the same events and even working with one of her parents, and the other day i finally saw her. she was in front of me in traffic in the part of town she lives in and i recognized her plate. my partner gets all the lolcow gossip secondhand and was like what, really? and when we got close enough to look in, it was definitely her in the passenger's seat. i recognized her fried-ass grey hair and awful acrylic talons, she was on her phone. idk who was driving, it was really quick.

made me feel a little bit like a creep, not gonna lie

No. 448640

No shame anon I got caught gawking at laineybot in the mall (not one in either of our cities but a bigger one people travel to from all around). I recognized her but it took me a while to place her face and by the time I realized who she was it was too late and she shot me the meanest look lmao

No. 448656

I know I'm probably depressed but I honestly don't want to face it. I'm not even struggling with depression super badly: I don't want to kill myself. It's affecting me, sure,life is hard to do, and I know it's serious, but so much other stuff going on in my life is so much more overwhelming… I don't want to add depression to the list. I honestly think it's better off unrecognized in therapy because I feel other issues are more pressing and I have limited time in visits.

No. 448662

i'm so glad she didn't notice me at all! that would be a nightmare to me… though at least both these cows have reasons for non-farmers to stare at them in a mixture of surprise and horror.

No. 448693

Jared Kushner or the disgusting ass Bacarat hotel owns the building now. I work in the area.

No. 448827

It is! People will leave treats for the whole office in the kitchen, and sometimes my supervisor will come back from one of his smoke breaks with a cookie! I have such a sweet tooth and I love all food, so I'm always super happy about it.

It's funny since I'm the receptionist and in the interview they said "yeah we just don't want someone who's going to be munching on food at the front desk" but the same people are occasionally giving me snacks haha! I try my best to keep it out of view and sneak bites in case a surprise guest comes in.

No. 448830

Oh shit I work in the area too lol.

There's a public database about all property sales in NYC and I shifted through that but then I realized I probably need to find information on the tenants rather than owners and I don't think that information is going to be easy to find… The NYPL listed a whole bunch of online databases but most of them don't have the info I'm looking for and it looks like there might be more info in the physical archives so maybe one of these days I'll stop into the library and take a look. It's really frustrating going around in circles but feels so satisfying.

No. 448852

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Imagine being some kid expecting another teen titans go sucks rant only to be hit in the face with this.

No. 448869

am I the only one here who doesn't browse /g/?

No. 448879

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I still cry over this random reddit post sometimes lol it helps me cope idk

No. 448976

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A little upset that my friend ended up bailing on me and I dressed a little cute today, but it's fine because that means I get to go home and have dinner with my mom, and to make up for bailing on me, my friend said he would watch this movie with me next week!! I'm excited.

No. 449013

Devil's Candy, a webcomic I loved but stopped following as closely is having it's kickstarter for the first book and I'm so excited to buy the book!! It's such a cute comic.

No. 449015

Omg, for a second I confused this with the webcomic The Devil's Panties and had a major flashback to ~15 years ago. Now that I remember the name I can finally check up on it.

No. 449056

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I used to want to be a gyaru in my teens until my mother saw my tumblr and said they look like Moria Casan. That's all I think about when I go through the gaijin gyaru thread lmao

No. 449060

I really wanna go down on my girlfriend, but she's on her period. It's been in my head (no pun intended) for most of the day.

No. 449071

Pop a tampon in? Business as usual

No. 449104

get some extra iron lol.

No. 449108

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Since I saw this zombie snail video, I've been feeling a weird mix of disgust and fear.I remembered how humans,no matter how big and andvanced they are,can be affected by something so small that has such an impact.

It frightens me that something so small could potentially fuck me up like this.It makes me feel scared and weak

Putting a spoiler because it makes me feel sick ugh

No. 449112

It will be okay, anon. It feels like an extreme and likely fear now but with time the discomfort will pass. Don’t deny or give in to the phobia- just let it be for now.

No. 449119

Great advice. Learning about zombie ants really affected me too, but now it's grown to a dull rational level of fear eventually by just not fixating but not trying to repress it either. The natural world is spooky.

No. 449121

Im tired of current pop and rap stars not being able to do any dance move but twerking. Its not that hard to dance but you telling me the only thing they could do is just shake their ass a lil bit? No wonder none of them are as fit as the stars back in the day lol

No. 449123

I'm already chilling about it annoys thank you.It was just a sudden realization of how scary nature is and we can't even see it.I'll get back to rational levels of fear soon kek

No. 449129

Read about toxoplasma and psychosis.

No. 449135

but thats not scary. Like, I know I have toxoplasmosa and I'm completely fine with it.

No. 449176

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my fashion insta keeps getting over 100 new followers a night after i hit 2k but social media is useless for me aside from playing number games

i wonder if i can do anything with it aside from being offered sponsorships by overpriced chinese resellers but prob not

No. 449185

How'd you build followers over time, anon?

No. 449257

I started talking to this guy i met on hinge like literally yesterday and so far he is really nice to talk to. Its honestly so refreshing. Most guys turn sexual or are bad at carrying a conversation once you get off the app and start texting. Hes about 4 years older than me but not really looking for a relationship (honestly what guy on dating apps are anymore) But i genuinely wouldnt mind being his friend and getting adulting advice from him. I really want a bf since im 25 and never had one before but a big reason is because i always fall for dudes that "arent looking for anything serious….but maybe wink" Ugh here's to hoping I can at least gain a friend

No. 449264

It's sad that it's seen as so impressive to go a day into chatting without weird sexual tones entering the convo. Not having a go at you, just saying that's the low standard we have now

No. 449288

I personally wouldn't bother talking to guys who have never had a ltr and or aren't looking for one now. Only guys who've had long term relationships will make a good friend to another woman and they tend to want a relationship themselves, too. Guys who sleep around or "let's see how it goes/maybe I'll x or y" are like cardboard cutouts of men. They have no personality and just say whatever is required to continue the communication with the end goal being sex 'n ghost

If you want male friends look for ones already in or previously in ltr

No. 449294

i wear lolita and i think a good portion of the followers do too! or at least are interested in jfash stuff. having a niche helps. i just post my outfits with a few relevant tags and the first 1000 built up pretty slowly, but after that each post seems to correlate to 100-200 new follows.

No. 449302

I'm stuck between looking forward to being un-sexy to men when I'm older and hating men for not keeping their age preference proportionate to their own. I'm not even pink pilled, I just loathe that they are slaves to their lizard brains and don't even try to change their ways. It's all about their dick desires.

No. 449303

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I own an exact version of that pillow that appeared in petscop. I'm paranoid for some reason now

No. 449307

Petscop makes me weirdly paranoid and anxious. I can't explain it.
Normally, I love things like it, but something about it gives me a very unpleasant feeling.

No. 449324

Azealia Banks and Emilie Autumn have the same kind of madness mixed with raw talent and strong artistic visions, but Azealia doesn't lie as often.

No. 449327

stop sucking your own dick, Azealia

No. 449332

The fuck? I was just looking through old EA shit and enjoying the old drama, and I realized her antics reminded me of AB's. Calm down.
I still want to know if she really does know about this site. I'd like to think she'd deliberately leak shit about other public figures in the celebricows thread to shit-stir and bump her own thread with fake milk for self-promo if she did.

No. 449350

i miss ea drama and ea in general. her shit was tryhard and too renfest to be anything other than trashy but she was embarassing/somewhat talented

No. 449415

god i'm glad to read that. i get so nostalgic for EA's trashy myspace edits and the weird audio quality of enchant and all her melodrama with the asylum plague rat stuff too. it's a little sad thinking that all that was weirdly meaningful to me at some point. oof.

No. 449418

what bothers me about her is that with her classical training, great education, lithe body and model face, she could've done her shtick but done it WELL, like, not having everything be totally hot topic-tier? without calling everything "crumpets", like, without all of the really bad british larping, especially because she's from fucking malibu and her well-to-do background and education should've kept her from turning into a woman with the sensibilities and tastes of a family dollar cashier? like, she could've just done a blend of genres and a blend of 'funky' and whatever, without it being so trashy and histrionic. it's too bad, because she has a nice vocal range and skill, but terrible taste.

No. 449442

I'm going to buy another weighted blanket on Amazon after the last two I got ended up leaking the glass beads. If I have any issues this time and have to lug the thing to fucking return it I'm going to lose it. I'm getting a 20lb one this time and I hope it stops me from kicking around so much without suffocating me.

No. 449518

I miss the Opheliac era so much, the music, the drama and the journals… time to give the old copy of TAFWVG a reread

No. 449533


"just take the easy way out dude, trust me, be lazy, take that semester off, gain 20 pounds, loose contact with family and friends, get a loan with shitty interest rates and forget to pay on time, i did it and it worked out great"

classic reddit advice.

No. 449567

Did your blanket come with a duvet cover? My first one didn't have one and I had the same issue.

No. 449697

My first one came with a bamboo cover, and for the second I bought a different brand cotton cover. I had a lofted bed last year when I bought them, so I'm guessing that contributed to them leaking as well.

No. 449714

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I actually love when I see some handmaiden or pick-me talking shit about women on Twitter, and then I reverse search their profile pic (usually an attractive woman) and get multiple pages of results.
Either it's a man who's too stupid to catfish well (and we know this to be common), or a pick-me who's insecure as shit (and we also know this to be common).
I sometimes consider actually using Twitter just to call these people out, but it's not really worth it.
Keep talking tough and picking at other people's appearances. You already know your own level of ugliness is so bad that it wasn't even fit for a profile picture.

No. 449739

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Shane Dawson just announced he has misophonia and it makes me worry that a bunch of his fans will read about it and be like “omggg, chewing is so annoying, i totally have misophonia too!!!” because they misunderstand that it’s a severe disorder. I don’t know if it’s dumb to care, but things like that infuriate me since having misophonia has meant that I haven’t had a meal with either of my parents for maybe 7-8yrs now and that certain noises have enraged me to the point of tears or wanting to hurt myself.

No. 449741

Holy shit I never considered that would be the case. Do you have any results that stand out? Like specific tweets where it turned out to be true?

I just came here to post something similar about how I noticed non-white gay men like to incite misogyny between women under the guise of "it's only okay because theyre white EXDEE!!!"

No. 449754

Reminds me how every so often in the conservative community a 'black conservative' is outed as a white guy LARPing.

No. 449761

I'm pretty sure there was an article exposing some "conservative traditional wife" Twitter accounts for using fake pictures and generally catfishing back in 2016 or 2017, but I can't find it anymore, rip.
I don't screencap or save specific instances I've seen in the wild, but the last one I noticed was some tard basically saying 80% of the women from my country are sluts, gold-diggers, feminists, etc. The typical incel shit.
I really, really wouldn't be surprised if it turned out that all the main shit-stirrers on Twitter who hide behind being a "minority" or a "woman" to talk shit are catfishes.

Wasn't there one that straight-up used a stock image and unironically said shit like "Don't you be tellin' me, sista!", trying their hardest to "sound black"? It was fucking cringy.
I'm Googling like mad but can't find any of this shit. It's annoying.

No. 449789

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i hope people staying hydrated this summer. its been fuckin hot. drink some mf water. dehydration no joke

No. 449797

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idk where to ask this so this is a good place as any, if anyone have a mega or drive link with occultism books in italian or spanish that they can share i would rlly appreciate it, its so easy to find them in english but i feel like there are books that probably haven't been translated and i dont wanna miss them

No. 449821

I'm so fucking tired of having migraines all the time. Kinda wanna kms

No. 449822

Is that card from a real deck, and do you know what it's called? Sorry, I can't give you relevant information. I'm just curious about the pic.

No. 449828

yep this is going in the dumb shit thread what the FUCK am i looking at here on google maps

at first i thought it was a horse coming at it from the left but when you get close to it it in no way resembles a horse
and i can clearly see a fucking human face on the back when looking at it pretty much head on from the right


No. 449829

and what makes it weirder is that back in 2011, the google street view car drove past that EXACT spot and there was a fire

No. 449833

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It's literally a horse.

No. 449834

why is it still in the same position even with the car approaching as it is when its right up on it though like it doesnt move its weird af

No. 449842

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So now instead of it "in no way resembling a horse" or "clearly having a human face" it's now too suspicious for being a stupid animal that moved too slowly for the passing google vehicle. Jesus christ anon, it's just a horse.

No. 449851

The horse is scratching its leg, how fast is it supposed to move lmao

No. 449897

The leaves have just begun falling where I live and that crisp is I'm the air… All I want to do before the summer is completely over is go out in the woods in the middle of the night and do a dance to this song around the trees..

No. 449905

Someone keeps bringing me up every now and then in threads on a 4chan board in a niche hobby thread and it's always vendettaposting and forced drama, in the style of "what do you think of anon? She's so annoying!!" or taking any discussion point to bring up how they hate me. I barely post online, never take part in drama and keep my presence very lowkey so I have no idea why someone in my hobby circles would be so fixated on hating me because I keep to myself so much and am practically a nobody. It's annoying and definitely has given me perspective on the spergy anons constantly riding some snowflake's ass for personal beef. Some people are just deranged like that.

No. 449918

canadians, how is it that you have rednecks? how is that possible? or just like, country bumpkin people that like our country music or media that's so obviously and inextricably intertwined with american culture? do they realize they're essentially posers? like, there's something to coming from a small town or farming community that can be related to across borders, i guess, but the media and crap they support is so clearly american? it freaks me out. canadians should be canadian. please tell them to stop visiting us. it's like meeting a monkey in a dress. it's weird and wrong.

No. 449931

Canadian rednecks have some semblance of their own identity.
Instead of hating mexicans, they hate natives.
They love stag and does, especially when hosted at legions.
Hockey culture.

I mean there's probably more but I (grew up in the country near a town of <5000) always thought there was a slight difference from American rednecks. I think of the Southern stereotypes first though, but we're probably pretty similar to the midwest.

It was a joke that it took 5+ years for trends to hit rural schools. Trucker hats were done in the states by the time they got popular here.

Wait maybe they are just posers.

No. 449950

I'm having a weird existential thought-trip about the internet right now lol. Like how there's a whole new reality inside something thats part of another, bigger reality. It's like how in different countries you have different cultures and communications and customs etc, the internet is like so many countries all together with their own unique style of behaving and such. But it's like an exaggerated version of the real world, everything is always slightly warped when it's online, be it relationships, pictures, personal profiles, memes etc. I don't really know what exactly I'm trying to say but does anyone else get this feeling? Like internet culture is some weird post modern thing that's a stranger copy of the real world?

No. 449966

why don't people say italiboo more often? that was a big thing people especially i think anons on this website would've picked up on it.

you remember how lady fucking gaga would always make everything about her iTaLiAn GeNeS and how italian boyzzz were the dreamiest men on earth and all that shit. what about all the boomers who are 1/16th italian and think it means they need to move back to their roots in a luxury condo in sicily/tuscany.

i'm not hating on italy but italiboos are kinda annoying and nobody calls them out for it. i've seen the term hispaniboo thrown around, there are even less of those but that term is used more often

No. 449969

because it's not a good analogy. so called italiboos are not obsessed with italian culture the same way that koreaboos are obsessed with korea or weaboos with japan. italiboos just want to use the small percentage of italian heritage to be part of their identity and make them seem more unique. the same way TONS of americans and canadians will brag about being "irish" and say things like "i'm irish and that's why i love drinking/have freckles/like potatoes!!11!" it isn't that they have an infatuation with ireland or irish culture, it's that they want to seem more unique, or special, or interesting or what ever.

No. 449985

I'm aware of the (mostly Sicilian/Southern) diaspora in the US resulting in the awful stereotypes that are Italian Americans, but I don't think it qualifies as quite the same as weebs or K-boos because usually weebs or K-boos have 0 real ethnic or cultural connection to those countries. Both phenomena are still an exercise in clawing at any sense of identity in our postmodern hellscape, but Italian Americans can at least claim to have an ancestor within the last 120 years who was logged at Ellis Island. On this note, my great grandfather did end up in America for just shy of a decade (we know he signed the immigration logs on entry) and my family have often theorised that he probably got a second wife and some illegitimate children over there before scarpering back to the homeland, and the thought that I have distant cousins in New Jersey that look like Snooki and share some of my DNA chills me to the bone.

No. 449999

Is it weird that I get irritated when someone who was kind of a dick to me enjoys something niche that I also like?
Like, fuck off. Don't try to claim it as "your" thing, dumbass.

No. 450016

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YES I'm so excited!! I've been on the hunt for a PS Vita and I just snagged a used one in good condition for a really fair price. Ugh I can't wait for it to come in the mail so I can play some good ol vidya

No. 450184

What's the name of the character with purple hair dressed in a maid costume?

No. 450188

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It's Yakui-san. She's a Nijiura Maid.

No. 450191

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from that shy.yume account posted about in the gc thread. men have literally no eyes. when able to construct the perfect cgi butt this is their ideal. it shocks me that men, even ones employees by huge companies to be blender artists, have no artistic or anatomic understanding

No. 450250

It looks botched and the hand is like a tiny child's hand too.

No. 450251

i wanted to see when i started reading here which was at the time of the marina joyce mystery, so i googled 'marina joyce missing' and the results were from this month like wtf. it's because she fucking did it again lol

No. 450359

I'm a night owl but my skin turns to shit immediately if I don't sleep early and get the full 8 hours of sleep. I hate this.

>fix sleep schedule for perfect skin

>enjoy my mf night vibes

Why must I choose… yeah I wanna pick skin bc bad skin sucks

No. 450364

That account is hilarious bad in general, all their models look like shit I did in my first few 3D modelling classes

No. 450430

Why does Britanny Venti insist she's not a sex worker and why does she make fun of so many other females that earn their money on the internet.obviously she isn't a sex worker but at the end of the day she still relies on men to pay her because I know that most of those who are donating to her on a regular basis are men since I can't imagine women giving money to Twitch streamers on a regular basis.

No. 450442

She's "not like the other girls".

No. 450464

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A couple of years ago I had something really weird happening to me.
It was late evening and I was doing something on the laptop, playing a game iirc. Then at some point it's like I lost awareness of my surroundings… then I snapped out of it, and when I did, I felt extremely confused and forgot everything I had been doing for the last hour. I kept on feeling weird, confused and scared until I went to sleep, and on the next day I had a migraine episode (I have migraine sometimes).
Someone suggested to me that it could've been a small stroke. What do you think…?

No. 450468

Tit streaming is a form of sex work and idgaf if people wanna pretend it's anyone but men giving her money for the """"content""""

No. 450469

this sounds like normal dissociation to me

No. 450475

>Why does Britanny Venti insist she's not a sex worker
>obviously she isn't a sex worker
You answered your own question.

No. 450481

>base your entire income on men being sexually attracted to you and jerking off to your appearance
>think you have the right to criticize other women for the same behavior
Doesn't add up.

No. 450484

My dog used to hate being picked up for most of her life and would even snap and bite me if I tried (I only pick her up for baths (most likely where the negative association comes from) and for when we go in/outside when the elevator isn't working (stairs were iffy for her growing up, but shes a senior dog now so it's a big no-no)). For some reason now, she doesn't really mind it and just tolerates me when I pick her up. It makes getting her in the tub and picking her up before/after a walk much easier, but sometimes I'll pick her up for a minute for two and walk around the apartment holding her because I want to hug her so bad. I know she doesn't like it so I really limit when I pick her up for no reason, but fuck, I love holding her. She's so fluffy, soft, and cute.

No. 450514


This is called a fugue, and it can be caused by a lot of different things, anon.

Possible causes:
Depression and anxiety
Drug usage

If you feel otherwise OK, I wouldn't worry about it, but if it happens regularly I would consult your doctor.

No. 450519

I actually like her videos and she stopped showing as much cleavage, but at the end of the day it's still men that pay her and I'm sure they don't pay her for her content, they just pay her because they probably fantasize about her being their troll 4chan meme girlfriend, so even if she actually puts content on the table and by content I mean commentary or whatever she does, at the end of the day she's getting paid by men that fetishize her one way or another.

No. 450560

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I saw this on my TL being made fun but god, just looking at the image makes my blood boil. I know I'm probably looking too deep into it, but the troon vibes this gives off is nauseating. As if being a woman or a lesbian is just a dream come true and it's sooo sexy and easy.

No. 450561

made fun of*

No. 450573

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If depression and trauma wouldn't have almost completely nuked my sex drive, it would be much easier to understand my sexuality. I'm jelly of people who can be so confident in theirs.

No. 450577

this is literally a troon meme

No. 450584

but it's not like all troons want to be a lesbian anyway?

No. 450587

that's the "joke", the "but" is not considered a downside by the target audience

No. 450596

I've been thinking about this so much these past few days, almost made a similar post. I'm so jealous of people that are in tune with themselves, y'know?

No. 450710

I’ve been putting off watching the Chernobyl series for so long, because I knew it was going to make me cry like a bitch, but I finally binged it yesterday and it was fantastic, as expected (and yes, I did cry like a bitch).
But then my mind went on a tangent and I remembered the nemu thread and a thought popped into my head that she’s probably somewhere out there, making gross fetish fanart of some of the most soul-crushing scenes. Like, it legit ruined my evening, fuck.

No. 450734

Kek other anons in the tv thread came to this same thought, she's affected us all forever in her own gross way

No. 450742

i love knowing peoples secrets. i have an ex that works for someone who was revealed to be connected to a scandal that started small but got really big later on with large players involved and even though it happened a while ago it still titillates me to hear other issues crop up because of it. sometimes we will talk about office politics in relation to some of that from the past and i like to tinfoil with him about other things that could be linked to it. it borders on almost sexual but im okay with that.

No. 450753

I keep having dreams about an ex (my first boyfriend) from literally 4 years ago and the interactions between me and him in my dreams have progressively been getting more and more friendly. He hurt me a lot and I'm still kinda trying to work out some shady sexual stuff that went down but I've had probably close to a dozen dreams in the last few months alone where me and him are just totally cool.

Like last night I had a dream me and him were in school again and at first I was reluctant to be around him but I wasn't able to 'sustain' being mad at him. He had the stickers leftover on his jeans after buying them and I was laughing as I was pulling them off like
>haha silly you forgot to take the sizing stickers off before wearing them

I'm certain there are no residual feelings anymore but its just so weird to me that he keeps showing up in my dreams so long after we broke up and its always platonic, like in my dreams we're just chill ass friends, like nothing bad ever happened between us. I'm sure its some weird psychological dream thing but who knows.

No. 450755

I have kinda similar issue but I have recurring dreams in which my ex is trying to get back with me. This keeps happening for over a year. What the fuck.
It's like my past self from many years back is resurfacing when I fall asleep. I hate this

No. 450790

Thin eyebrows look nice on plenty of people!!!! certain faces cannot handle thick eyebrows, people!!!

No. 450863

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oh my god anon are you me
i saw this on my TL and thought the exact same thing lmaooo. bitter bitches unite

No. 450867

My ex played mind games while we were together so in the year since splitting I still dream of his fucking games, the girl he dated before me would blow up his phone with texts in the middle of the night calling him an abusive shit… I thought she was crazy but I can see how his mind games got her.. tbh

I never turned crazy on him and he messages me every couple months almost like he wishes I would've stayed hung up on him lol

No. 450880

I hope thin brows come back at some point

No. 450928

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Someone mentioned 7cups on another thread and I logged into a really old email address yesterday and found an email about me deleting my kik and it made me remember that time I used 7cups. I didn't use any paid professional services from it, just talked to the free users. Experience was meh, but this one fucking dude really stood out.

I was going through a crazy rough time in my life, studying abroad in a foreign country (no one else from my school went that year so I was completely on my own making friends), and super depressed from the combination of loneliness from lack of friends and a stupid fuckboy that I got caught up with (pls no bully I know it was stupid and it's been like 3 years- I've learned to love myself now). I can't remember if this was before or after I started going to my school's counselor, but fuck man. I wish I had the brains to screencap all of it but I didn't. By the time my friends woke up (I was halfway across the world so 13 hour time difference) and I talked to them about it, this was the only screenshot I grabbed. I was gonna send more from the beginning but didn't realize that older messages would just be deleted or whatever. Looking back on it now I'm laughing because holy shit it's so cringey, but man was I crazy uncomfortable. He made me download kik and I sent like 3 messages tops, then reported him on 7cups, and deleted my kik (hence the email).

I'm also pretty sure I was hesitant to report him in the first place because he had crazy good reviews from a fuck ton of other people. Everyone was saying how he was so understanding and helpful to them… like uhh, did we deal with the same person? Anyway, I'll probably never go back to that site.

No. 450933

I can't decide who is worse: 30 year old disneyfags or 30 year old HP fans.

No. 450937

I'm pretty sure the majority of people using kik are using it for sexting and similar, obvs not everyone but that's what it really has a reputation for..

No. 450938

disney atleast tries to captivate their older audience. HP only seems interesting if you read the books and age up with them. in my experience, disney fans are more like horse girls, where HP fans are more like weebs.

No. 450942

I must've liked a pic of a disney plush or something lately cos Instagram keeps recommending all these disney obsessed toy collectors to me.. 30's women with hundreds of plushes, dolls.. spending a fortune and running out of space for them. I'm all for hobbies and I own a few childish things too but it's full on hoarding with some of these accounts

No. 450948

It was really popular among my peers during my highschool days so I just always associated it as another innocent messaging app, so I actually didn't know that! Wow, good to know lol. I don't remember our kik messages, but I'm pretty sure it was just more of me avoiding a real convo with him. He never got past dead responses from me thankfully.

No. 450986

No not thin please. Just natural, not filled into chocolate blocks.

No. 451058

I'm still angry about this one time I discovered my mother's mumsnet account. She made me out to be some horrible, rebellious teen even though I was being controlled by her heavily and was afraid of being kicked out. She also talked shit about my bf, made up stories about him and fantasized about us breaking up. He's the sweetest person on earth and I think she was jealous that knowing him gave me a huge level of independence from her. I couldn't believe she could be so insidious to manipulate the facts like that and present them to a bunch of other women who were of course going to agree with her and make her feel validated in hating both me and my bf.

This was years ago but I still can't believe it and when I feel like we're starting to get close, I remind myself of who she is and that telling her any kind of information means that she's going to run to the closest middle-aged woman for a gossip about me.

No. 451078

I feel like alot of reddit is full of people doing that, telling one very skewed side of a story and getting the sympathy of strangers

No. 451088

Yeah, that's exactly what it's like. That's why I'm really skeptical of what people post online now. I always start my advice with "Assuming this is true…" lol

No. 451101

Was about to try doing some petty revenge on some guy and have his phone number spammed with junk and telemarketers but remembered that I hate the feeling of being helplessly angry and that petty revenge won't actually make me feel better. Closing all the tabs and just gonna go watch some cute puppy videos. Fuck.

No. 451123

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I just discovered the aesthetic "hot guys reading books" and I couldn't be happier.

No. 451154

mmmmmm words

No. 451162

To me HPfags are just cringey like weebs, but disneyfags are fucking insane. Spending so much money to visit disneyland multiple times a year? Not even including merch? Just why???

No. 451166

The drooling emoji makes me irrationally angry.

No. 451253

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there's something about the mildly condescending contexts in which I can use emojis in that actually makes me like them

especially the party hat one for some reason

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