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Forgive me farmers for I have sinned…
previous thread: >>>/ot/573699
It’s okay, anon, at least it was involuntary. I used and sometimes I
have sexual fantasies about a religion teacher I had during high school. He was just my type.
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I have high functioning autism/aspergers and whenever I see these videos of people showing off their “stims” I actually feel disgust and extreme secondhand embarrassment. I don’t flap my arms around or have any “stims” and it really makes me feel like these people are playing it up for the camera or straight up faking it.
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Ugh, yes. I 100% agree. I actually have ADHD and am looking into diagnostic test for autism.
I saw this video on Twitter with 400k likes and was just super irritated.
I'm obviously not an expert but I'm pretty sure women with autism don't act like, any sort of way on camera. Additionally, I checked out her tiktok channel. She doesn't act this way in any of her other videos. Eyes flickering, being super nervous… I mean, look at her here: https://www.tiktok.com/@jay_will_float_too?source=h5_m
and here: https://www.tiktok.com/@jay_will_float_too?source=h5_m
She's making direct eye contact with the camera and not at all how she does it in the "i have autism" video. "Excited lil hands" Good god. She's never done that it any of her other vids and it seems like her goal is to go viral
saged because sort of off topic
Right, the point is that sensory overload isn't some cutesy little reaction and doesn't cause your eyes to flicker here and there like that while smiling like that.
It's really not a good experience at all and doesn't feel good, shown here:https://youtu.be/N32lhQBxj94
but that's besides the point.
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First thing I thought of, I don’t think she’s autistic either
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I don't want a "real job". If complete assholes who don't deserve it can make millions sitting on their ass doing nothing then I want to do the same because I also don't deserve it.
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Sometimes I just want people to pay me for existing like how some “influencers” get paid for making lame comedy videos or for taking pictures of random stuff/their face.
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Girl me too, I find them so pathetic most of the time that I don’t get offended.
Also some of the threads are really fucking funny
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I've actually thought of this before: can't you just LARP and cry for donations and see how much you rake up from people willing to part with their money with someone who they hardly know? It's quite common to see these donations that people "signal boost" on Tumblr/Twitter that always start with "I'm a gay queer trans man going through [insert situation here]".
Not saying you should but.. it's 100% something you can do and get away with.
Unfortunately, I have been blessed with a very average feminine face. Who doesn’t want a free nose job though? Lol>>595765>>595770
It’s so tempting, but if the truth got out, I’d be ruined. I work for a very liberal and progressive company, so my career would be fucked. I could say that I identify as a man that identifies as a woman… who are you to question my gender identity?!?!
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I cut my own bangs and 99% of the time i end up cutting them too short
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lol those things rev up my cum fetish. Give me all the dick pics.
Eh its an traditionally asian dog, I don’t see the issue
plus its a dog, you can name it Pickle King if you feel like it, Yosuke isn’t that worse
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I've been talking to my ex more and more because I miss him and feel like my current relationship is going to go nowhere. I'm going to be moving to where my ex lives now within the coming year and ever since I told him he's been initiating more and more contact with me. Nothing flirty or sexual, but I'd say we talk every few days about our common interest.
A few days ago he sent me something that was 100% about the nickname he used to call me when we were dating, and today I found out he has a girlfriend. I'm not really upset though, I'm just confused because in all the time we've been catching up he's never mentioned her to me once. I asked him what he's been up to lately during quarantine and he detailed a bunch of stuff about his life out there but said absolutely nothing about her. He knows about my current relationship and even congratulated me on it but when I said they looked cute together he just liked the message and changed the subject. It's shitty of me and if we ever got back together he would just hurt me again but I kind of like it when he acts weird like this.
This is the funniest thing I’ve read in this website
I currently have a really cute FWB and I’m so happy
be careful anon and stop while youre head. you get this confidence to you because its soooo fucking easy but getting caught is a reaaaal bitch.
did this shit at my job 10 years ago and after a few months they installed a pinhole camera and caught me. showed my manager the footage, got to confess in the back, fired and walked out by police.
All for some extra lunch and random things around the store.
Look, here's the plan.
1. Become fake tranny influencer
2. Take loads of makeup and ootd pics
3. Build following
4. Make "GoFundMe" transition surgery donation page
You were born with masculine features in a world where women are scrutinized for not being perfect, u deserve this hun x
But then you can't make your fundraiser!
Who the fucks gonna find out anyway? Unless you go around with your vag on display, nobody knows you could have a dick down there.
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When I see something especially dumb on reddit (which isn't often as I rarely go there) I log into this account on incognito, reply, then never check the replies. I don't interact with the account apart from replying to a post. It's not worth it, scrotes gonna scrote. Every now and then I see my message count and I laugh so hard. I will never read their whiney moid ramblings kek
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i sincerely hope you end up doing it wtf you glorious bitch
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I had the chance to e-beg recently
I actually did need some money for college supplies because my grandparents had corona and the bills kinda racked up this month, i even said im not really that poor and im not going to die or anything and i would just have to postpone this semester.
People gave me money anyways.
I literally got all the money I needed for my supplies in like two hours.
It was surreal, i just couldn't fucking believe it.
I do have a decent tumblr following of like 20k tho
And I plan on donating the surplus to an animal charity because I feel so fucking guilty
I think that’s the only way to stay sane.
Arguing with men on reddit is an automatic lose.
It paid six figures. It's called reading comprehension.>>596559
Sorry you can't find a job like a normal person.
NTA, but like, my retarded friend has applied for hundreds of jobs this week and the only thing on her resume is McDonald's. Do you really think she'll get something even WITH a degree?
Myself, I joined tons of clubs and started interning and volunteering in college because I knew just a degree wouldn't carry me.
Jobs that pay well really want to know you're not just some dead end POS with no actual ambition. You only get to network when you already have your foot in the door. It's not about sucking dick, it's about actually getting off of your lazy ass in college and doing something useful for once like >>596554
NTA, but I make a little under six figures and shitpost here as well.
Why so many autists online thinking six figures means 600,000…
Anyone can make 100,000 and fuck around on the internet
samefag but I think six figures IS hard to land. It's not that simply dummy.
I landed a 90k job immediately after graduating but it's because I was super ambitious and joined a bunch of clubs and sororities to get accolades. If someone doesn't do that, their chances shrink by like 60%
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See pic attached>>596580
Join any sort of organization that interests you, volunteer with local organizations (volunteering does count as work experience), and make sure that you join company mailing lists. Like, they'll say something like "Join our talent community" or "stay connected".
Get on LinkedIn, message recruiters with questions (even if they are meaningless question) regarding the company and the workforce, and let them know that you're interested in working there.
Add your volunteer experience and clubs/organizations to your resume.
Find alumnus from your college, see if they work at the company you're interested in, and ask them what they think of the company and if they knew of any openings.
All of this doesn't HAVE to be done. But it helps a lot. That's what networking is. Networking is not just kissing ass and being hired (unless you are in kahootz with big people), you also have to show you're ambitious.
I took computer science which was possibly a bad idea in retrospection. The stuff that pays $100,000+ requires years of experience which I don't have coming out of college and trying to get my foot in the door.
I definitely have 5 years of working on my portfolio outside of class, lmfao.
How was taking CS bad in retrospect?
I majored in CS as well. CS is not just about programming (which yeah, jobs that pay 100k require years of experience).
CS is an umbrella field with tons of tiny focuses that could get you paid really well. Software Project Managers, UX/UI design, etc.
But, it really depends on the college you go to so I suppose, yeah, you might have had better luck at a university that offered more.
I don't disagree, but you just said it yourself>if you get lucky enough
OG anon was out here acting like the reason people aren't making 6 figures straight out of college is because they're lazy. And no, I don't believe they're making 6 figures anyway, their post reeks of shitposting to me.
I wasn't thinking of just programming. So the list of doubts were:
– Much can be learned online without having to pay tuition, for example the classes that teach basic programming. So that leaves mainly the computer engineering portion worthwhile, but even in-class we worked with a circuit sim.
– At the time, A LOT of businesses were using object oriented programming, which I think the overfocus reflected in class was a detriment.
– A lot of openings involve knowing a specific framework or language for such and such years which narrows the pool I can reasonably apply to.
Overall, I think I would be better off sticking with biology and then learning programming and computer science concepts to later branch out into computational biology or bioinformatics, as opposed to switching. (Not just thinking about all the job openings from biotech companies for the current pandemic.) The degree left me best fit to work with embedded systems, which I'm not complaining, but those companies closed off their entry level positions for the time being.
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My little sister just told me she got engaged to her bf and I'm secretly worried about it. She's kind of a brat sometimes and doesn't know how to do basic shit like cook (as in, she doesn't know when meat is edible or is so raw you could get sick), how to use a washing machine, how often she's supposed to take down the trash, she never called the doctor to plan her appointments herself and always made our mother do it for her, etc. And her bf seems to be perpetually unemployed too, or maybe his situation is just unstable but still. I told her I'm happy for her but I'm actually not that happy. I'm usually not that judgmental. Then again it's just going to be a "religious" wedding and she'll get officially married a year after that, so in two years at the earliest, so who knows…
Also, there's constant family drama here so when my big sister will learn about it she'll lose her shit and get jealous again because she can't keep a bf (because she won't stop dating losers or guys who don't want to commit but who lie about it until the last minute, she's very unlucky), she'll probably try to ruin everything for my little sister. I'm almost glad I became a "failure" these past few months due to my sheer lack of luck because that means my sister will leave me alone and won't try to shit talk me as much as she shit talks our little sister anymore. And since now my little sister will probably be seen as the most "responsible" one among us maybe I won't be forced to help her with literally everything like when I had to correct her shitty essay when I was nearly dying of covid in a country at the other side of the planet so nobody could accuse me of preventing her from graduating. Actually because of the constant arguments with my family now everyone is bringing up old stuff and nobody wants to move on or admit their wrongdoings, especially my retarded, mentally ill parents. Now that I think of it it should go to the vent thread but it's something I wouldn't say to anyone else because I'd get disinherited at the speed of light.
I'm not pretending I'm not miserable lmao. Specifically, you sound cold, insensitive and pretentious. I've never known anyone with that attitude who wasn't cripplingly insecure and/or unhappy. People who aren't miserable actually act, you know, happy and upbeat. They have nice things to say about others. They're encouraging rather than disparaging. It's one thing to lose your patience with someone, but you literally came into this thread acting high and mighty and like everyone who isn't as successful as you has only themselves to blame. The tone of your post was confrontational. You were looking for a fight.
Honestly, you're only digging yourself into a deeper hole by continuing to make excuse after excuse as to why you're better/less miserable than everyone else here.
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My friend is moving abroad for a guy and they have to get married for visa reasons and I think it will end horribly just due to statistics but I can't say it or I'll seem jealous or mean. People don't understand that getting divorced can cost a surprisingly high amount of money, especailly if you're a foreigner.
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anon, what are your thoughts on her?
she keeps popping up on my YT and my immediate thought was looks like what my friend's new wife would
look like if she put an ounce of effort into her appearance. haven't actually watched her videos, though!
>>596657>So what if I'm miserable?
That's the point retard. You come in here talking blatant shit, then have the gall to try and start dishing out life advice. Why should anyone listen to you if the point of the post was just to upset people? The irony is that I'm not even poor, I'm just tired of narcissistic idiots like you using their income as a pitifully obvious cope.
But whatever. You've just admitted you're just a petty, miserable bitch like the rest of us. I guess that's all I was really looking for. Carry on now.
Mid level salaries don’t exist
Low key worried about how the job market will be affected by the ‘rona a year or two from now. What if the job market doesn’t improve? Ugh.
If you weren't so poor, you wouldn't be seething. >>596662
Yeah I'm sure you have a great personality and soooo many friends.
have you ever actually been out in the real world?>>596589
how much did mommy and daddy give you anon? and don't say nothing. I've seen attitudes like yours before. Mommy and Daddy always are bankrolling.
I'm actually not the same person with the miserable attitude that everyone is dunking on (I'm >>596589
My mom is a single mother that does therapy for a living so obviously we didn't make much. My dad was in the military and that's the only way my college was partially paid for, I still owe over 30k in student loans. Why don't you, er, shut the fuck up and lurk moar? I actually gave meaningful advice. I'm not the bitch you wanna come after.
Therapists can make bank. Plenty of them make upper middle class incomes.
Has your mom been working in community mental health all of these years?>>596674
You first. I'm not that miserable but it's great you assume everyone has to be as miserable as you.
>>596684>Therapists can make bank. Plenty of them make upper middle class incomes.
Has your mom been working in community mental health all of these years?
You're omitting the single mother part. Single mothers have to work more, spend more (especially if there are multiple children). It's not rocket science.
Yes she's always been in the mental health community but she started out as a correctional officer, then started working her way into the school system to work with kids with behavior problems and then worked her way to becoming a therapist.
She still had to take care of 2 kids while doing that AND went back to school to get her Master's degree while doing that.
She probably makes a decent amount now but this wasn't always the case and certainly not enough to give me any sort of boost.
Most she did was give me 50 dollars ever week or so in college so that I could eat.
And landing a six figure job is like soooooooo easy and people making less simply aren't trying hard enough!
What a fucking lunatic if she's not altogether braindead.
She's a hypocrite, shames women for clubbing but goes to opera after parties (which are known to get wild), tells women to dress modestly while doing the opposite her self, so a typical conservative YouTuber
I don't agree with mrsmidwest but at least she actually practices what she preaches and that itself is a step above like 80% of conservative women
Because they're lazy and think they're entitled to whatever they want>>596730
Don't forget the nudes/sex tape. Such a conservative trad lady.
To be honest, she's lucky she doesn't really resemble her brother. He's like an ugly dwarf version of her.
and tacky bolt ons
so trad uwu
You'll pay someone else's kid to take care of you with the money you've saved. I think it will take forward planning when you're still young enough, and I also think that the rise of childfree population will result in better services for old people who need an advocate.
Either way kids are no guarantee of support later in life, and I honestly don't think it's fair to demand it of them when they have their own lives to live. The irony is that if people think they need kids to take care of them when they're old, they could easily be too busy raising their own family to take care of their parents.
>>596812>who have family members who just abandoned them.
There are so many factors that can lead to this that it's really hard for me to judge anyone without knowing the full situation. Some people literally cannot afford to care for an elderly parent, or don't have space for them in their own homes/apartments, etc. Some elderly parents are also nasty and toxic
as fuck, and their children may understandably choose not to interact with them anymore. Nobody is really obligated to take care of their parents in old age, honestly, which is why federally funded nursing homes and in-home care is so important.
>>596820>Nobody is really obligated to take care of their parents in old age
What the fuck? I get if they abused you throughout your life, but otherwise this is depressing as fuck.
"You raised me, I got mine, so fuck you". My ex was Northern European and his dad just chucked his demented grandma into a nursing home and complained every time he had to go visit her. It's so heartless.
Parents choose to bring their children into this world, therefore they have obligation towards their kids and not the other way around. Raising a child well is the bare minimum when you decide to have one, not something they have to pay you back for.
Of course, providing there aren't any major issues most kids will love their parents enough to look after them in old age. My parents 100% agree with me on this, and I will still definitely take good care of them because I love them. But it's not right to go into parenthood thinking your children owe you for the basic decency of taking care of them, particularly to their own detriment (which aged care certainly can be).
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hnnng so cute anon
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You’re adorable, anon!
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I discovered I have a kink for peeing my pants and now the act of peeing just arouses me, period. It started off with just peeing my pants once a week in the comfort of my apartment. I'd pee my pants and take my pants off then I'd masturbate in my peed in panties. The first time I did this was like some kind of spiritual awakening. I'd never been so turned on in my life and legit came about 5 times. I got basically addicted to peeing my pants as a sexual thing and started doing it every day. It's become such a problem for me that I find myself needing to masturbate every time I pee, like when I go to the toilet at work or school. Problem is I don't orgasm very quickly so in order to get away with this without people asking why I'm spending so much time in the bathroom, I was carrying a little lipstick vibrator with me at all times so I can get off more quickly. I'm so fucking embarrassed about this but recently I dropped the vibrator in a toilet while masturbating at 7/11. Idk why but instead of grabbing it I just tried to flush it and it was one of those shitty low pressure toilets so it immediately clogged. I tried flushing again and it started overflowing so I just booked it out of the store. It's not a big deal and I only spent like $10 on it but point being that I don't think I'm ever going to be sexually normal again after all this. I'm still a virgin and idk where I'm gonna find a guy who is okay with all of this and will let me pee on his dick. I'm 21 btw.
I- anon you must have terrible taste in men I’m sorry >>597083
I have no idea what to say. I hope than when the nuance of your fetish kinda winds down, you can enjoy it without feeling compelled to masturbate so desperately. That can’t be fun, but the fetish, when in a safe, container environment, can still be part of your life, hopefully. Just.. best of luck to you anon, it might be rough.
yes but he doesn't like when i spend money "frivolously">>597126>>597128
thank you for your support
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i've been on a bit of a shopping bender as of late tbh. he can still go fuck himself though
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I'm not a tradwife or anything but… I really fucking love the 1950s and 1960s. Not for the social norms, but for branding, fashion, mannerisms, architecture and the music. I just wish I could go back in time for a year or so to experience it all, I'd probably want to stay.
I shop for vintage dresses and buy vintage books, I look for vintage style homes (mid century modern) and buy vintage furniture. I also watch vintage films for comfort.
Ironically, the times would not have worked in my favor, but man… can you imagine living in California 1955, being at home all day chilling and waiting for your husband to get off of work and your kids to get out of school, you could just sit around and paint your nails and get all prim and proper……. and then invite your neighbor over and have hot lesbian sex and pretend you both were baking. I do love the idea of being that happy-go-lucky caring wife.
But of course, this is all just a fantasy. I hate men and would rather work male dominated jobs and I hate getting all fancy and dressing up. Fuck it… bout to go watch mad men for the 3rd time.
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Same anon! The fashion is the main thing I love about that time period but everything else except for the obvious sexism and racism
is beautiful. The only reason I wouldn't want to live in that time is because I'm black lmao.
Have you watched The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel? It's a really great show and it kinda addresses problems during that time period without making it pandering. You need Amazon Prime to watch it legally, but I'm it's available on putlocker or something.>>597332
Do you mix/bake the ketchup in your macaroni? Or do you just dip it in?
Why are you saying this like anon doesn't already know that lmao. They literally talked about the misogyny and sexism in the 50s/60s at multiple points during that post.
The whole fantasy part of their post was literally that, a fantasy. We don't live in the 50s anymore so it's not like that could happen
I'm black too! lmao. That's exactly why I said it would be ironic for me to even want any of that stuff. I haven't seen that show but I'll check it out.>>597337
You're not shitting on my parade lmao. If I say I'm really into the culture, don't you think I'd know that other stuff too? That's the only reason I won't say "I was born in the wrong generation" because fuck alla that, but I do really like everything else about it and wish I could know what it was like. I guess this is why I posted in the confession thread, because I am definitely not saying it's a good thing to have lived back then.>>597338
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Probably the rampant cocaine and burning neighborhoods in Brooklyn due to ignorant police and increased crime rates…
But otherwise, I feel you on that front. 80s interior designs were so cool.
been there. seconding >>597388
suggestion if you can.
however i wasn't able to bc he was needy as fuck and it got so annoying that even tho he offered an allowance i was like ehhh you take up too much time from another fuckin state. have at it though, anon get your coin.
I'm the same! I just like old things, they are so beautiful. Also the fashion in the 50s and 60s were so beautiful and feminine, they are my favorite periods looks-wise. I've been on retirement for a few years due to mental illness (though now I'm ready to start studying to get into a very male-dominated job and kick some ass, kek) and I did not enjoy being the little wife-y. The fantasy is nice though but for me it was sort of embarrassing and isolating, not having a nice neighbour to trade recipes with and talk about the daily grind. But I've really come to enjoy baking and cooking and tidying which is nice >>597335
Not the anon you responded to but I've been meaning to get to The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel for like a month already!
I'm so happy, I picked up a 50s vanity yesterday with my husband and I can't wait to get to sand it and paint it pretty to paint my face!
Saged b/c off-topic and no confession.
NTA, but the weird thing is, I just hate males in general that try to get a second chance at life being a woman. They expect everyone to just accept them as is and "if you don't like it you're a disgusting woman". MTF are the bane of my existence, absolutely dumbfuck attention craving daddy-issued pricks. Troons are so fucking gross and disgusting fetishists.
I will say, however, that I am actually somewhat supportive of FTM with the STIPULATION that they are also NOT misogynistic but those are very hard to come across. I would match rather see a woman succeed in a man's life than a man try to squeeze himself into being a woman.
My ftm friend is just very suicidal and I feel bad for him but he's also lazy, e-begs, and is a moocher so lol, I don't feel THAT bad. I truly wish him the best in life.
My biggest issue with MTFs is that they get away with so much more than that women get away with while trying to present themselves as a "better" version of women
They already get proportional breasts with hormones, they don't want to that though they want big round perky tits and try to convince everyone they "need" it for the sake of their mental health yet flat chested women get fake speeches on loving themselves
Begging for nose jobs, implants, all kinds of surgeries as well as makeup and wigs and the fact they don't get any hate for it is astounding to me, on top of that you'll never see them get shit for having less than perfect skin, being chubby or too skinny, not being curvy enough, having body hair, etc
Nikkitutorials for example is passing and didn't come out about being trans until later but she always got shit for how she looks but pulling the trans card was like a magical button and now no one even says a word about her flaws
I definitely agree with you. I think my hatred mainly stems from all the time I've spent reading about the worst of the worst, that I now just start projecting shit onto innocent people who just want to live their lives in peace, i'm definitely not proud of it.
I also have nothing against FtM, yeah many of them get on my fucking nerves but at the end of the day at least it seems like the majority isn't creepy anime-loving pedophiles thinking women live the easiest lives ever and all you need to do is literally just start an onlyfans and open your legs uwu.
It’s comorbid with other mental illnesses. The charitable take is that the stress of dysphasia makes the person act out. There are obviously less kindly interpretations. IME most I have met have been nice but I did meet one that was so threatening our entire class had to change location and time covertly to avoid an MTF student that was threatening everyone.
It’s also going to vary online vs offline. The most well adjusted are busy with full social lives. They aren’t spending time online much. Those that do are the ones who don’t have much going for them and poor social networks to keep them occupied. At least that’s my theory for why online lgbtq culture is so crazed.
The fact that you said "TERF" tells me you're just an SJW larper.>>597830
I feel like women that hate FTMs for supposedly being "misogynistic" are the most misogynistic and make weird assumptions about how they think.>inb4 you make assumptions too
It's stuff that I've already seen.
Bc older men who go after young women deserve it.
First off, who the fuck do you think you are, some middle management nobody deserves someone hot and young? Get bent loser, you have nothing to offer but some $$.
Secondly, it’s predatory and creepy. The older I get, the more disgusted I am. 18 is a fucking child when you’re 40.
>I wish the age of consent was half your age + 7, swear to god
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I think im slowly becoming a shitty ass asiaboo, I keep catching myself thinking "what if i moved to asia tho" and watching asian fashion youtubers and wanting to mimic their style, consuming mostly asian media aside from music.
Idk man I feel gross, im in my twenties its not the time for this cringy bullshit.
But I basically feel culture-less, my country is a shithole with a culture that I fucking hate, There's literaally nothing in my country I identify with and basically the only good thing i get out of it is being able to use being a third-worlder as a trump card in internet discussions, I hate everything about it, even the good things like music and literature I still can't like because they are just not my style.
So I have the shitty daydream of oh to be a college student in korea uwu, I know its not a perfect place, there's alot of shitty stuff but I think I would be happier than here.
Bc some girl made this post in the vent thread, which was then posted into the funny posts thread because some anon thought it was funny that another anon recognized where she was from even though it was not brought up in the original post. Which then started a whole discussion on why finnish people are such drunk nutcases.
Or are you reffering to something else?
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pls someone b my finnish frien
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I agree with this please let it be a thing
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The finnanon who started this whole thing is crazy though. Bc thats me
Plz let me be ur friend anon
I dont care if people here wanna bully me lmao, I hardly even use it anyway
It started as just trying to mold myself into being a person people liked, but then one day I realized I was basically a completely different person online so I made it into a roleplay blog that didn't disclose it was a roleplay blog, basically.
I've always been an obsessive person, and when I found a blogger I got obsessed with, I made a character I thought they'd like and made friends as them. Sometimes I got in too deep and thought I was the character when my mental health was worse but it happens less now.
Most fun encounter happened when I was about 13. Tumblr troon, C, was about 15 and had just broken up with 'me' after 5 months of e-dating. The friend group fell apart and she broke up with 'me' because I chose the friend group over her (they were more dramatic and therefore more entertaining). C had given me her tumblr password while we were dating, and was talking about a person in the friend group on her blog. We'll call her D. (D was actually the person I made the character for, and was milky in her own right, she had 5 callouts at this point afaik.) D and me got on Skype call and I screen shared logging in to C's Tumblr and editing all of the posts that included D's name into random nonsense. We then went through all of C's messages (this was very recently after the Tumblr instant messaging feature was installed) including a conversation currently happening. I replied from C's account and obviously then she realized someone was on it.
C changed her password, and sperged out, calling us (me and D) ableist and saying we were just as bad as people IRL, who were kinphobic, ableist and transphobic.
C then went to her settings page and tried to 'doxx' me (post my IP / hometown), but posted her own. Bare in mind, we lived in different countries and I have no idea how she even made that mistake. D freaked out for C's safety and made her take it down.
Typing it out makes me sound sociopathic, but it's all good fun. I miss older Tumblr days, people were more dramatic. I've been thinking about catfishing on Vent, as that's where all the really wacky Tumblr people migrated to.
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I love you mexican mitski anon
I can hear David Attenborough's voice in my head "here we see two primates from the same family bonding though grooming like many other primates do, even though this particular species has evolved to be nearly hairless everywhere but the scalp"
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my first ever celebrity crush at 6 years old was, of all people, sean kingston
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Oh my god anon, lmao. That gave me a good laugh. I always thought he was corny as fuck.
I've saw some studies showing links with depression and I guess with my family history I've just conflated the two. MS is prolific in my family even tho it's not hereditary, but I live in a country with high incidences of mental health issues and just it has been a point of interest that the side of my family more affected by the civil conflicts where I'm from suffer a lot of neurodegenerative diseases so I dunno. Depression is a killer and with the mapping of specific genes and signalling pathways there is more research coming out showing the psychology of the mind results in physiological issues.
Just from speaking with my grandparents they'd always get trapped in a traumatic experience (E.g. My uncle killed himself and grandparents kept having to relearn this information and getting stuck in that time. Or even just other times from their lives that were traumatic) yet I was able to comitnue to have meaningful and joyful conversations at other times. I always did think it was severe depression because of how I've saw it manifest.
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>tfw want to compliment all art anon's art but don't wanna make a giant obnoxious post replying to them all
keep drawing pls
well if you have a better idea of where to meet people i would love to hear. i think i tried the friend finder thread here but i don't remember anyone messaging me.
at the very least this feels like a step up from normies online dating.
Samefag but the only reason so many people joined was because I advertised it as being for black people
to see if I could get a good thing going and of course that brought out the /pol/fags
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This is you, huh? (And before you accuse me, no, I'm not the anon you're replying to.)
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>mfw when I post my nudes and discord on 4chan and instead of horny messages all the guys mostly console me about being a mess .
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If you aren't that sort of person, once you are in the industry you find out who you know and workplace politics matter far more than silly things like competency or merit.
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my housemates have terrible attitudes towards mental illnesses. they are two extremely privileged late 20s men who have been born into wealthy & supportive families and been coddled all their lives. as most of my fellow farmers, i'm mentally ill and have been suicidal (i come from a somewhat poor family and was abused by my parents growing up).
at the start of the rona pandemic i was extremely upset because of the strict lockdown. how did my housemates react? they made jokes about me hanging myself. although they don't know that i'm mentally ill their "jokes" were really gross. i was too shocked to properly react back when this happened, i think i just left the room or something.
now i'm trying to find a way to reveal that i'm mentally ill while making them as uncomfortable as possible. i only struggle with depression and anxiety, but they got visibly uncomfortable when i mentioned that my uncle was schizophrenic and what they were saying about schizophrenia was wrong when they were having a convo about it.
This. I'm fucking flabbergasted over the amount of anons who post text walls describing them practicing the most trashiest ratchet behavior ever and then being hurt over anons telling them off. >lighten up bitch kek why yall gotta be slut shamin ya im trash what about it uwu
Girl get help for your daddy issues and personality disorder. I don't want anyone here telling how empowering and ttly relatable!!! it is when you post nudes on 4chan during a manic episode for a cheap fix of validation on the internet or something. That sort of self-destructive behavior should not be encouraged ever. It's not a light-hearted oopsie woopsie story, it's actually describing a level women should never have to sink to. >>599517
I still feel like that thread was started as a honeypot to do user profiling because attention hungry bitches can't resist a chance to gain sympathy.
I FOUND MY FINNISH FRIEND
I thought I lost her forever!!
Alina if you're here my throwaway email is email@example.com>>598316
have another mitski song anon
im not. its really not that big of a deal, a quick way to scare someone acting stupid. but i dont have anything going on in my life that hinges on a clean reputation.
but i do think i remember a user on encyclopedia dramatica that had another user send massive amounts of cock pics to his moms work email and got her fired. but i think that kid was being generally pretty annoying
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I deal with this too and I’m considering mixing my “items” into potting soil and growing plants with them. Or burying the stuff so I wouldn’t feel guilty about feeling this guilt in the first place. This way no one would know and my things would be going toward growing another living thing instead of taking up room somewhere decomposing
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Guys, I'm pathetic and a literal fucking clown. I have feelings for someone who I know nothing about looks-wise or even voice-wise, save for a few physical characteristics. Other than that I've been talking to him for 2 years as a friend, and I feel pretty close to him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I'm afraid that I'm blind to this scarlet red flag of not knowing what he looks like, and what it means that he hasn't shown his appearance yet.
The smart move here would be to continue being friends with him and move on, but I'm an autistic NEET so I don't really know how to live a real life, and I don't believe I'll meet a person that I've connected with this much. This is a cry for fucking help, any advice slapping me in the face telling me to get an iota of common sense is very much appreciated.
If I was at a friends house and stumbled on a cache of brush hair and nail clippings I’d be absolutely horrified. Keratin is pretty resistant to decomposition too so if you mix it into potting soil and wait a while you’ll probably still have potting soil plus hair and nails.
Short term, if you want to bury it outside then whatever, but don’t be storing it and if you do then store it like it’s your deepest secret.
Long term, consider some therapy or else risk becoming a poop hoarder in 40 years.
I don’t think it’s a good idea to imply a relationship with him, you could find yourself in front of a person you don’t like physically at all and it would be a huge turn off.
Sure, you could give it a shot, i mean, you know that person for two years, it could workout.
Thanks for not being brutal lmao
Tbh he does landscaping for a living (so probably in shape) and he's tall, plus I'm his type. Fuck, you were supposed to convince me the other way towards the reasonable direction, guys.
Maybe this is going beyond the original confession but I'm so fucking sick of repressing my emotions and not taking them seriously that I might actually imply something more w/ him.
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You can do it, anon! I hope it goes well!
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I have a serious crush on my neighbor. Which is kind of insane since we've been fighting for years now. I feel we're at a stalemate of some sort and just tired of fighting. This happened to me once before a couple of months ago when I fantasized about us fucking but I subscribed it to projection and unhealthy attachment.
We only ever meet when we're fighting, in passing in the stairwell or at the front door and it's always awkward. We're strangers and this infatuation is largely based in my imagination.
Lately, he's been putting on a lot of really sad, romantic and sexy songs equalized in a way that I can hear them clearly. Usually, it's just a wall of dull, indiscernable sound and bass. I look them up and listen to them or look at the lyrics and write down the names just in case I can spot a pattern.
The other day he put on ASAP Rocky - Bad Bitches and it turned me on and I wanted it to be about me and I looked at the lyrics and there is that part that just snatched my whole life right then and there: Ooh, I know you love it when this beat is on / Make you think about all of the niggas you been leadin' on / Make me think about all of the rappers I've been feedin' on / Got a feelin' that's the same dudes that we speakin' on, oh word? / Ain't heard my album? Who you sleepin' on? / You should print the lyrics out and have a fuckin' read-along.
On God, I have never felt this called out in my entire life.
I guess the bottom line of all of this is for me that at the very least, I'm not mad anymore and over the fighting
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I love making simps out of cs/swe boys. I will NEVER stop. However, I cannot help but simp myself for a woman I would trade my gang of simps to run away with lesbianly ever-after with!!
You can add:
Spread this like wildfire
Found in the wild
to the list
I find Foodie Beauty's (Chantal's) intro really calming. >>600939
Oh? Tell me more. I'd like to try it in the future for studying purposes.
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(Before Covid)I'd keep an extra sweater, extra pads,vag wipes, and individual Tylenol packs on me at all times. It made my bag kinda bulky but I refuse to let any woman suffer a period accident in public.
Especially at school. >>601053>I find Foodie Beauty's (Chantal's) intro really calming.
Same. Her and Peetz are a bit strange but seem like nice people. Just wish she'd help herself.
ntyart but ,from my limited knowledge on PTSD, PTSD triggers
aren't just things like 'blood' or 'gunshot sounds', things like colours, smells, tastes, and even general things/ places like bathrooms can be a trigger
. It's possible that the smell or taste of toothpaste remind OP of her trauma
for that specific situation, i dont think its pinkpilled to shit on the guy. sure, the woman is also bad if she tried to "lure" a taken man but its his responsibility not to cheat.
although i agree that some anons on this site are way too pinkpilled. maybe you guys spend so much time online where its easy to see toxic
males, but most of them are ok. its not like 70% of men are misogynistic incels.
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I just went to pee and when I finished I touched my foot a little further back on the floor and it was wet.
Turns out my pussy was scooted so far forward when I pissed that I peed on the floor a little. This is so embarrassing wtf.
It sucks that you feel that way.
I think I feel that way towards trannies, but it’s both my body and my mind kek
Honestly, I don't think you're mad that she did awful stuff to your friends, I think your just mad she did bad stuff and still is happy, successful and possibly a better person now.
Idk how to articulate this properly but, stop hanging onto the past waiting for her to be miserable like you. While you stalk her instagram and seethe, she's going to keep being happy and you're going to keep rolling around in misery. Do you think she thinks about you? Probably not because she's moved out. She's out of your life, so stop caring about her and get your life together.
Cuz maybe taking some of the advice we’re giving you will help you out? You obviously need some relief from what you’re feeling and focusing on yourself instead of bitches you hate is step numero uno.
But you’re right, it is a vent thread so you don’t have to take it if you don’t want to.
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>>601456>Who hasn't messed with a few people's hearts as a teenager/young person
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I love him AaaaaaaaaaAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I just can't help it FUCK
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youre kissing your moms tits and get your ass grabbed while cuddling her. thats not cultural differences, its just incest you nutjob
Opposite here. I moved into a new area and within a few months I had a couple of very unwanted and clingy older men that took an annoying liking to me.. I now try to look as 'meh' as possible before leaving the house.
I also try to be flat and have no personality when approached by either, help.
People here don’t really talk to strangers, unless it’s friday/saturday night or at a club tbh. And I have kind of a resting bitchface anyway.
But that sounds obnoxious to deal with, old clingy men are the worst.
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Sometimes i think about filling water balloons with shit and vinegar and throwing them at/near people or places I don’t like.
I probably would never do it bc you’d need to do some literal shit hoarding and that’s too extreme for me in my present state
It’s not very bad anymore, that was more as a kid. And I have not eaten them in large quantities. To be fair I have had literally every other eating related mental issue so..
Therapy I guess?
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Ngl anon this is right up there with that incel who posted he was smearing his own shit on door handles just to give the normies at his school a bad day
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like a third of cow yourself thread is just me posting my OC's
>tfw some people actually try to out-crazy my outlandish characters kek
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Noo don’t make me realize that everyone here is actually not as crazy as me
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I block any underaged retard that interacts with me in any shape or form, I just feel pure disgust whenever I see a kid on the internet.
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wtf those other anons getting salty for. this is amazing, keep doing you bby
Oh thank god!!>>604807
I guess they‘re upset there aren’t 100 deranged e-gorls on lolcow
>>604842>anon wrote her off as unfit for friendship in classic judgy loser fashion, no one is good enough for their gloomy self-loathing existence
You're misreading my post a little. It's actually the opposite–she's perfectly fit for friendship, I just am not, and the dilemma is I feel bad about not being able to live up to normal people friendship standards.>>604836
Yeah, you're right, I probably should at least try. I tend to overthink digital communication, I'm much better at interacting with people in person. Also this is a bit unrelated but she and I look pretty alike so I've been joking to myself that she's trying to get close to me to figure out if I'm her long lost twin, lol
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Yea, get a blood test if you haven’t already, anon. For MANY years my mom thought her liking eating ice was just a character trait, eventually figured out it was anemia.
I have a history of trichotillomania and dermatillomania so I can emphasize somewhat. But also I wonder if your gut is full of plastic bits like those photos of dead seagulls.
Nah, I think some of us would just like posts about personal experiences here to be real and not random streams of thought from some bored anon. There are plenty of other places to flourish your writing abilities or whatever.
This is the internet though so I am aware I should not have even a minimum of expections of anyone on any platform but a gal can dream.
Damn, that sucks. A very similar thing happened to my mom. Her mother (my grandma) was always overly focused on not letting her have any unhealthy food and openly berating her when she'd accept a cookie offered to her when they visited family.
When she left home she instantly started to compensate by binging on chips and m&ms all the time. She gained a shitton of weight and only succeeded in losing it relatively recently. So good job on getting it under control! It's so tough to do that when you grow up with an unhealthy relationship to food.
I’m literally her only friend and I’ve been supporting her for more than five years now. Nothing in her life ever goes right and it’s mostly her own fault. She only knows how to complain but when she has the opportunity to change some things and deal with others, it’s just not happening. I think she only knows how to dwell in her own misery. Hell, I even offered myself to pay for her therapy but of course she wouldn’t go because some professional would tell her to get a grip for once and then her personality wouldn’t evolve around her sadness and her problems.
I’m sorry if it sounds harsh but I know if I cut her off, she would be alone in this world. And that’s what makes me so frustrated, thinking she’s too blind to see that not anything has to be about her.
She’s the kind of person that makes me think “this is why we can’t have nice things”. I tell her about meeting up with some other friends and I instantly see how her face changes but when I offer her to come with us, she always has an excuse ready. Then of course will be an awful afternoon thinking she’s all alone and miserable when truth is she seems to enjoy this.
I get it, she didn’t have too many friends and the ones she had used her as they wished but c’moooon, I was bullied too, I thought the world was against me too and I had the victim
complex. Once you realise maybe it’s you who has problems, everything can change.
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Leave her now. She needs to be alone. I've been in this scenario. It sucks but you're wearing yourself thin and this person clearly has no respect for you. Take your pleasant memories and block her. It's not easy but you'll be banging your head into a brick wall forever for this person.
there are too many people who suffer, though. if people really
have to have kids, it should be only an extremely small % of the population.
Some parents are worse than others, yes, but literally nobody is going to do the job 100% perfectly. Like even if you and your partner do well, the kid could still end up being bullied in school for things they have no control over, which can mess them up to a certain degree. Or, you/your partner could suffer some personal tragedy that you don't have any control over, and the effects of such might inhibit your ability to be the best parent possible for the time being. There's also no possibility of you never losing your patience with your kids and lashing out at them in an inappropriate way. There are always going to be struggles and set-backs. Part of being a parent is recognizing that even doing your best isn't always going to be good enough, but that principle can be applied to most things in life and shouldn't stop you from trying. It shouldn't be an excuse not to have children at all if you actually want them. Deciding you shouldn't have kids because you don't think you would make a good parent is one of those things that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. You bring that into existence by clinging to the idea. It's not a fact in itself.
It's dangerous for people to idealize the idea of being parent and believe that it's going to solve all of their problems, but I also think it's toxic
and stupid to act like there is something unethical about having kids at all, projecting those issues on to other people and judging them for their decision to have kids, etc. Deciding not to have kids because you think the world bad and is getting worse is usually indicative of issues that go much deeper than the concept of whether or not procreation is morally acceptable. It's also, imo, a sign of the times we're living in, where everyone is plugged into social media outlets that spam you with bad news and sensationalized headlines 24/7, making it much easier to believe that things are worse than they actually are.
You realize people can want kids and decide against having them anyway right?
Worrying that you as a parent won't be able to fend them against the shit in the world is a perfectly valid
reason. Better than retards whose only drive is existential fear of not leaving their special skid mark behind.
Sounds like you've been through some tough shit anon. I will be keeping it a fantastly only for sure because I know men are shit and will think of me as lesser and not deserving of respect because of it. And I also don't want men to be happy.
Posted again; misspelled sage
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First time on this site and probably last as I'm quitting all social media but coming from 4chan I've got to say you lot are so civil and nice to each other, I haven't seen the the N word, cuck, beta, or any other buzzword that is constantly said on 4chan, here it looks like you can have an actual discussion without having to argue with some random dickhead, really impressed, I thought it was gonna be a ravenous bearpit full of the same buzzwords and tedious discussions but no, I wish they had the same mentality over there.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
we have our own triggers
. call a troon by their preferred pronoun and watch the foaming-at-the-mouth fallout. it’s wonderful.
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it’s ok anon we still love you
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Dunno about you anon, but lots of my normie friends seem to think lolita fashion or weeb shit is cute.
At this point I don't think it's an exclusively normalfag thing to hate anime. Especially since anime is becoming a lot more popular with normalfags themselves.
I also think it’s less hate for anime itself and more turned off by some intense anime sperging. If anime changes everything about the way you act and present yourself you kind of just look supremely
lmao you sound like a pickme>>606764
Why? Sh'es ugly
Can you point out where I said that had anything to do with being Catholic?
Jesus did you just use this as an excuse to talk about yourself? Like, do you want a cookie for being raised Catholic and having sex? Congrats
???Bitch what the fuck are you talking about?
>me: god i wanna fuck the shit out of him every time I think of some lost catholic soul who was a virgin until the age of 30. >anon: I was raised a Catholic and wasn't a virgin until 30, can't really blame that on being a Catholic>me: ok, where did I blame being a virgin on being catholic?
what the fuck are you on about? take your dementia meds and lurkmoar
If I'm gonna be a social retard, I'd rather date a social retard as well.
Thanks, the relationship is fabulous, we just bought a house. Cheers.(infighting)
I have posted art here, but none of that is on my blog. never posted screenshots either. I have probably posted about similar things at similar times once or twice, but it still feels crazy that someone could have found me from that since my blog is completely dead follower-wise (posts get 0 notes, all my followers are deactivated accounts from 4+ years ago) and has been for a couple years now. What’s throwing me is anon must be someone who is following me or at least regularly checking my blog, because the topics which I’ve crossposted about aren’t particularly unusual, just life stuff, so they couldn’t have come across it from searching google/tumblr.
This is just super weird and leaves me with so many questions.
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I fantasize about my boyfriend having sex with and pleasuring other women, like cute ones that are way more conventionally attractive than me. I guess I'm a cuck. I would never want to act on these fantasies, but nothing gets me off harder than thinking about my boyfriend making another girl cum and vice versa.
I'm not that anon and I don't know you but I hope you'll get your answer!
I think I recognized someone from Instagram on /m/ once, in the Husbando thread. She posted about some anime hunk I've never seen before on Instagram and suddenly someone posted the same one in the thread an hour later. Vague, but possible.
I've always suspected her of being a farmer anyway, because every time I look at some cow's Instagram account, she already follows them.
I don't think noticing other attractive people is considered emotional cheating, chatting and flirting with others would be.
But the way you're describing this guy it sounds like the attraction is really not there and you're trying you're hardest to overlook that. If he's already unattractive in your eyes then this will only go downhill. You need attraction. Don't settle for 'ugly jowls' guy just because he's halfway respectful.
Thank you all anons. I keep slipping into this mindset of "oh he's not exactly fun to be around and im not attracted to him… but he's also not bad?" I guess i just assumed i'd find him attractive once we start talking because it happened a lot before. Like there are youtubers i watch who i think are so arttractive despite them being unconventional. But i started growing into their looks once i started watching them since they were interesting. I guess i expected this to happen with my crush, but turns out he isn't that interesting? And also i like guys who are a bit dumber than me or on the same intellectual level but he's below average in that area too.
I guess i got scared that he'll turn into an incel if i stop talking to him because its clear that he doesnt get female attention with his level of social awkwardness. Thanks anons, its better to end it now i guess
right? anon admittedly watching cows means she's not a very good person in the first place. plus it's pathetic she's posting that itt.>uwu teehee i don't a-log so i must be sooper nice!
she's just jacking off her own ego as a confession.
I think someone would rather have a genuine friend than a fake one.
Your "cope" is that you keep someone around to feel better about yourself but try to frame it like it's a favor. Eat shit.
Why would I be jealous about this person? Tell me what is so great about them>>607657
We're the only ones who tolerate her. She only talks with her "bff" on discord>>607654
We are doing her a favor. Otherwise she would have no female friends.
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cope harder skank
Yeaaa unlike those anons who a-log and cowtip, because there are no rules about that /s
You’re not nice because you’re only passively partaking LOL you’re cowardly and can’t own up to your cattiness
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i've never met my bio father and the various step fathers i had were pieces of shit. my grandfather (a wonderful & loving man), who died a couple of years ago, was my father figure growing up. i miss him dearly, but have realized that i'm attracted to men who resemble him appearance-wise and have his personality traits. although these traits are positive, i'm still creeped out. the other day i saw a guy and only thought he was cute because he had the same eyes as my grandfather.
Maybe I'm a degenerate but I wouldn't blame you for having those feelings. Realizing your male family members used to be attractive back in the day is okay, there's a difference between knowing someone is attractive and fantasizing about them lol.
That being said, the Westermarck effect didn't completely perform its function, but it's main thing is to prevent incest. If you only go for guys that look like someone you know is a kind and admirable man (who unfortunately happens to be your grandfather) it's understandable - it's not like you're literally fucking your granddad. Unless the guy you think is cute has an veeery similar appearance. In which case, it's weird.
Familiarity is definitely an aspect of attraction. It might not be your subconscious saying "he looks like my grandfather he is hot," moreso "he has the same eyes as my grandfather therefore he must also have x trait/be trustworthy/etc."
You're also likely to be subliminally attracted to your own physical traits reflected in the opposite sex. So maybe you have these physical traits as well!
>That parental preference may seem a little creepy, but it’s not problematic or even particularly surprising, Lehmiller says. It’s likely a completely subconscious process that taps into our natural associations with what’s pleasant and appealing, he says. “These traits might come to be seen as comforting,” he says. “They’re familiar to you.”
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I'm face blind and whenever I watch movies, my bf has to tell me when an actor changes their hairstyle/makeup/clothes because I can't recognize the characters or follow the plot otherwise.
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I have an aversion to women who wear glasses, especially small glasses and especially brunette white girls with glasses. About every girl I’ve met who fits that description is either weird or annoyingly arrogant. (Also I think they unconsciously remind me of sjws)
I have the same thing but it's more triggered
by the fat pinup or alt girls with glasses.
Hypocrite because I wore glasses myself as a child.
>>608527>Hypocrite because I wore glasses as a child.
you were problematic
as a child and should be cancelled for such abhorrent behavior anon
anon there's so many women who wear glasses wtf
sometimes you can't wear contacts because your eyes hurt from consistent contact wearing or the prescription is so high contacts don't help as much
reminds me of my stalker story.>see guy one time (when i went to my high shcool's other campus)>someone calls his name so i knwo his name, god he's pretty and shy looking. looks down when talking to people and shit. hear him talk about something hella feminist despite being with his guy friends, an icon>find class lists to look at people with same name.>look for every single ____(his name) + surname on instagram>he's not there :(>a year later, watch the graduation ceremony uploaded on youtube to see his face again. learn his surname when he's called.>search name, learn the college he's in
obviously im not a creep so i didnt go there but i still think about him. god i sewar im not autistic
thanks for sharing. glad i'm not the only one but also hope you manage to control it in future>>608583
i know. i feel really awful about it.
he was my teacher at one point and he took a shine to me. a couple of years ago i got a job alongside him with his help which is when it all started.
not to sound like a victim
because i know i'm in the wrong here, but by way of explanation, i lived through a lot of abuse and bullying and violent relationships. when he was my teacher, he was the only person i had ever met who had treated me as somebody with inherent worth and dignity without expecting anything in return.
then he found out i had some serious issues with depression and psychosis and he made me promise to take my medication, and kept checking in with me. he noticed when i hardcore dissociated for a few weeks and contacted the crisis team because he said he could tell i wasn't "in there" anymore. nobody had ever expressed that much concern over my well-being before so i felt a special bond. then he got me my dream job working with him, and kept being nice to me, and it got out of control.
i think i thought i was in love, but i realise now it wasn't that. it was more like hero worship, i was so grateful that i felt like i owed him my life. i started to want to be him - i started dressing like him and acting like him. i think people thought i was harmless and a bit dumb, styling myself as his protege, but i don't think anyone noticed i was legitimately insane over it.
i feel like i've "woken up" from it now. everything is painful, and i realise he was just doing his job as a teacher/just being a nice person. i did things that are probably illegal and definitely terrifying just because he was nice to me. how pathetic is that?
i am deeply ashamed and depressed and it feels like my life is empty but i've experienced this before and i know it's part of the healing process. i feel like it'll happen again if somebody is kind to me so i'm better off not having close relationships with people
honestly you do you anon.
i still think up stories for the angsty af OCs i made in middle school. it helps me fall asleep lol.
also, I don't draw porn so I can't think of how this started.
same. Lc was my first and only imageboard, and after visiting 4chan once I plan to keep it that way
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My only personal achievement this year is being quoted in the funny thread 6 times. Even though I wasn't joking for most of them.
It was in South America and the texture is close to pork. Alligator looks …chewy, was it good? >>609391
Damn I’d like to try that
nta but same. yall have no idea how many boys i fell for in the grocery store despite only being able to see 35% of their face.
not seeing any guy in the last 5 months except in a supermarket really made my horny brain rot dammit.
ex once negged me and made me feel like shit because he came inside me one night and then got grossed out the next morning when he tried to fuck me again but my puss smelled like expired cum and not fresh rain.
Pussies at least clean themselves, men can't stand it when we tell them that their cum smells and doesn't taste good.
Nta but I refuse to taste, smell or have cum on any part of me where the smell could possibly reach my nose. It has to be one of the worst smells on earth but I rarely see other women saying it. Making a guy cum is hot but semen itself is just nasty.
Your ex is a dick, congrats on not being with him anymore
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There were a lot of things wrong with my ex, and for the longest time I didn't even want to think about him because of how angry I was. But now that it's been a while, I realize I actually miss some traits he had that aren't present in my current partner. I feel bad comparing them like that, and of course my boyfriend has a lot of qualities my ex didn't have that make him a better fit, but… I don't know. I guess I selfishly want a partner who has it all.
It always feels like I'm making huge concessions in some respect. I know I'm not perfect either, but goddamn if I don't always seem to have my shit together far more than the people I end up dating.
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I feel strangely guilty about starting up a secret romantic/sexual relationship with someone my best friend thinks is like, somewhat retarded. Like actually "this man has issues" retarded though distinctly above drooling mong retarded don't worry, I'm not brain damaged buff guy fetishizer anon. dude is pretty smart, he's just… kind of special in ways. I'm sorry sister, he's hot and the internet memed me into liking himbos.
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Have fun while it lasts sister
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I will, this is my fetish. Will update if he says anything particularly stupid and sexy.
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I'm extremely tempted to try to rekindle a friendship with a guy who happens to be my mom's alcoholic ex-bf's son just because his dad is eerily similar to one of my celeb crushes. But that's way too fucked up and both the dad and son probably have issues, to say the least.
But also I've been extremely lonely/bored/horny since March so the temptation is really there.
You can't clean it out really, you sit on the toilet hoping gravity will help, then you push down with those muscles and hope you don't fart with your partner within earshot lol. You can't douche cos that creates its own issues.
It's easier to just have him pull out and cum on you, I do that and any guy that helps with the clean up.. always wins points with me too.
Mostly shoe0nhead. I've never disliked her as a person and feel like she's not even actively doing anything cowish at this point. She's just really insecure, lazy, relies too much on male validation and has no strong opinions about anything. None of these things are irredeemable in themselves, but it's just like, at what point are you going to recognize that this is bad for you and makes you look incompetent? It's so obvious that she's never had to suffer seriously or work hard for anything. She has such a defeatist attitude that is evident in virtually everything she says, does and believes in.
Hell, she's actually said in videos before that she hates herself because she was "handed everything and still failed at life" or something along those lines. It's so pathetic. You have the awareness that this is an issue for you, yet you do nothing about it. Why don't learn a new skill? Go back to school? Get a second job that isn't based in dressing up like an e-girl for internet validation? Like, just fucking put effort into something other than making lazy youtube content and sperging on twitter. She has literally no excuses at this point.
PnP is way worse than June and is 100% a cow, but there's something weirdly endearing to me about her. She really needs help and it's sad that she'd rather just self-sabotage repeatedly and make dumb excuses as opposed to actually getting her shit together. I guess in that regard they're pretty similar. I don't follow her thread as closely though, so there may be some things I don't know.
In general, I feel like the only cows I really don't like are those who are actively causing harm to other people, like onision or anyone with a history of scamming followers. People like shoe and pnp seem like more of a danger to themselves than anyone else.
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Shoe is one of the ones I like and want to succeed as well. I’m glad she got rid of pregory bc he never deserved her. I know nothing about PnP so can’t speak on that, but yeah, I straight up quite like June actually.
can you explain what's not milky about spending years on the internet making fun of "lonely feminists" and women over 30 only to get dumped on the week of your 29th birthday so your bf can go e-flirt with an uglier version of you over twitter solely because she's 18?
She's literally dressing up as a school girl in her apartment in the middle of nowhere, where she knows no one, that she moved solely to because he fiance didnt want to move in with her. That shit is funny.
Cum makes your puss smell weird and gives you BV (infection that makes you smell like rotten fish) because it changes your pH balance.
The vaginal environment is fairly acidic, at a pH of around 3.8 to 4.5, while cum is neutral to slightly alkaline at pH 7.1 to 8.0.
The vaginal flora are mostly Lactobacillus, which eat sugars and produce hydrogen peroxide.
So if your guy has a dirty dick and cums in you, he not only weakens your natural defenses against infection (acidity), he introduces a lot of unwelcome germs.
I use a baby syringe and diluted 6% hydrogen peroxide in order to ward off infection, because I get thrush and BV all the time anyway. You can use boric acid capsules too but I find it more effective in liquid or gel form.
Durex also make a lube that they don't market as a lube, it's an 'intimate hydrator' or something, but it's just lube that's been pH balanced and it's really useful.
If anyone does cum in me I just sit in the shower with a tap running and just like..swipe my finger around inside myself and then rinse my fingers and repeat until it feels 'dry' in there (nt dry obviously, but like water instead of cum or vagina). The I use the pH balance lube to rehydrate inside.
This is just for emergencies because obviously repeatedly douching with tap water is going to fuck you up.
>>609806>I think people here that defend shoe see themselves in her and that's just absolutely pathetic
This is a normal thing that literally everyone does, particularly if you see a past version of yourself in that person. We actually tend to be indifferent to those we don't have much in common with. It's also normal to hate traits/behaviors in others that you don't like about yourself, meaning it's technically just as likely that those who obsessively hate a cow and believe them to be irredeemable are just projecting their own feelings about themselves, meaning that they also see themselves in that cow and are just less aware of/willing to own up to that.>>609814>making fun of women over 30
When has she ever done this, specifically? This sounds extreme even for past shit she's said and done. The vast majority of milk you're insinuating in this post is several years old at this point.
>only to get dumped on the week of your 29th birthday so your bf can go e-flirt with an uglier version of you over twitter solely because she's 18?
You can't be serious. In what universe would this situation make ANY woman milky, rather than her ex?
>She's literally dressing up as a school girl in her apartment in the middle of nowhere, where she knows no one, that she moved solely to because he fiance didnt want to move in with her. That shit is funny.
You are clearly every bit as nasty and petty as the type of woman you're proclaiming her to be. The hypocrisy of calling one woman out for making fun of other women, while simultaneously dragging that same woman through the mud and laughing at her misfortunes yourself, is just fucking astounding.
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you're obviously new here because you're asking basic af questions but no one is going to spoon feed you. Go to shoe's thread if you want to see what a hateful bitch she's consistently been.
Anyway, someone calling shoe a retard on an anonymous imageboard is not the same as her using her platform to spread the hateful shit she has. Go whiteknight elsewhere, sperg.
You've been taught to associate love and protection with physical violence so it's not really unusual you would feel like that. You feel uneasy because the love is here but the violence isn't, so it must be coming soon and you want it over with.
It's ok. This is just a new type of relationship you have to learn about.
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Developed a crush on Jim Carrey as Dr Robotnik only because of his coat outfit, because I am a huge sucker for coats. Drowning in shame as I start reading imagine fanfictions while being accidentally high off medicine… Anons… Thinking of getting the same outfit for my bf…
Hope you are having lovely night!
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>>609842>when you're a pickme and you still get broken up with on your birthday and immediately get replaced
It's funny every time. And she STILL hasn't learned her lesson.
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I want to be NEET I’m not built for this life
If you read about the suicide of his ex, she mentions in her suicide note that he had a woman with the initial T, "lie on the stand" for him, meaning he's been in at least one other lawsuit that the media doesn't know the fullest extent of. If there were a way to unbury the T lawsuit and any others i feel like it'd decimate the hell out of his career, especially if Twitter got ahold of it
I doubt it'd turn up anything to try and find transcripts, kind of wish there was a way to, but if they exist it's likely under one of his aliases, assuming he wasn't smart enough to pay to expunge them in the first place. In the Cat White lawsuit one of his aliases was revealed to be Arthur King and the other one I heard about, though not confirmed, was Jose Lopez. Two super basic names.admittedly anons I really hate that a part of me still finds him fuckable. At least physically. I hate myself for having daddy issues
not like the reporter here is particularly great, she is invasive, but he's acting like a pretentious asshole in this interview. he's probably under the influence here but I can't help think that it's somehow reflective of his truer colors. post 2015 (after his girlfriend's death) he had multiple instances of erratic behavior, even got into a fight with Mussolini's granddaughter on Twitter
he has severe mental issues and a drug habit. he claimed years ago he stopped taking medications for his "depression". it came out after his ex's death he hoarded a ton of ambien, propranolol, and percocet (oxy) that she used to kill herself. I wouldn't be surprised at this point with all the insanity he's demonstrated in the past five years if all the blinds about him are true
and I say all this as someone who was a fan. this career revival shit may allow the truth about his nature to come out eventually… but it's going to take someone brave enough to come forward and people backing them up. he's got a lot of power and it's sadly been proven that he can survive career death. I shouldn't even say I'm surprised by what a cunt he is. the industry turns men into scum if they aren't scum already.
Yeah, maybe she's testing the waters.
How about you seduce her and then break her heart
maybe because they're lacking intimacy and romance on account of the fact they exclusively date men. i sound salty because i am right now, sorry straight anons>>610612
i don't know, she's in pretty serious with this guy but i have this nagging feeling she doesn't actually like him all that much.>>610654
thanks for the support anon. if i were devastatingly attractive, maybe i could pull that off. unfortunately, i'm a bridge troll and have been celibate for seven years lmao so i don't even know how i would go about it
i think an anon posted this quote a few threads back, and ive been thinking about it for the past few hours
>If you flow with the horny, the horny will flow through you and away from you, so to speak. Don't deny your thirst, it will only make it stronger.
this site needs to stop reminding me im horny>>610627
ot but that suit he's wearing in the video is so nice.
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Bruh I was being nosey at peoples profiles who I went to high school with, I somehow found this girl who would call me fat and ugly's tumblr and it's just her complaining about how she's clinically obese yet totz anorexic also shitting on all her friends "cuz they don't understand my problems uwu". A part of me wants to feel bad but I just don't, guess you could call it karma.
Factory, retail, fast food, etc. The kind of jobs that anyone can get. My resume is a cobbled together with half-truths and only leaving in what I think sounds the best, because the truth would fuck me over for the rest of my life. I've been employed anywhere from 2 hours to about a month.
I don't have a degree, besides highschool. That was when the depression and anxiety really hit me hard for the first time. I went from straight A's to D's and F's, then back to Straight A's by senior year. I cycle through being functional and broken constantly.
Minimum wage jobs aren't meant to be worked forever. They're soul-sucking, pay virtually nothing, and there's typically no chance for growth within a company. Minimum wage jobs are what you do on the side while you finish school, pursue certifications that will put you on track for an actual career, etc. That being said…
>I've been employed anywhere from 2 hours to about a month
That's preeeeeeetty bad anon. Do you just lie about the amount of time you've worked previous positions on your resume? You're right that most people would not employ someone with a track record like that.
>I don't have a degree, besides highschool. That was when the depression and anxiety really hit me hard for the first time. I went from straight A's to D's and F's, then back to Straight A's by senior year. I cycle through being functional and broken constantly
How old are you now? Have you ever been to therapy for any of this? Been medicated? Do you live somewhere with an abundance of job/school opportunities that you could pursue if you wanted to?
A lot of shit that's minor tbh. In retail or fast food, it's usually whenever I get to the point where I have to deal with an angry, "screamy" person. And that person could be a customer, someone I work with or even a boss. What they're yelling about doesn't matter, it's just being yelled at at all shoots my adrenaline through the roof. I've literally ran out the door and to my car before.
Factories are usually different. I've had the same issue there, but sometimes it's also just been that once I start doing the job, it winds up being way more than I can handle physically. But I think that's just my lazy-ness talking, maybe, because sometimes I could've pushed through and maybe gotten to a place where I could handle it. But I usually worry myself to death that I'm doing badly and I'm going to get fired anyway, so it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The more I talk about it, the more I sound like a shit person, huh?
>>611248>What they're yelling about doesn't matter, it's just being yelled at at all shoots my adrenaline through the roof. I've literally ran out the door and to my car before.
Yeah, that's called a trigger
. I was raised in a really verbally abusive
family and I have the same problem. It wasn't to the point that I ever left a job entirely, but being yelled or even just dealing with an angry customer could fuck me up for weeks. I usually dealt with it by shutting down and dissociating rather than running away. Hospitality and retail-type jobs are rife with this type of shit, unfortunately.
What was your family dynamic like growing up? How does your boyfriend treat you?>>611251
This. All of this. There's nothing wrong with you anon. I promise that all of these thoughts and behaviors, regardless of how dysfunctional and self-sabotaging, served a purpose at some point in your life, even if they aren't working for anymore. Nobody ends up like this for no reason. Please seek therapy, preferably from someone with experience treating people with trauma.
>>611241>That's preeeeeeetty bad anon. Do you just lie about the amount of time you've worked previous positions on your resume? You're right that most people would not employ someone with a track record like that.
I absolutely do. It makes me feel even shittier to do it, but I can't just "not" work, and yet I'm the one causing all this trouble for my self in the first place.
At the same time, I've been to so many interviews at this point that I usually can figure out what lies are "good enough" to mix together with my stretched-employment dates to pass as a normal person. And yeah, the fact that they're shit jobs helps a lot, since they're not going to call to check references or anything.
>How old are you now? Have you ever been to therapy for any of this? Been medicated? Do you live somewhere with an abundance of job/school opportunities that you could pursue if you wanted to?
I'm a month or so from turning 24.
I went to maybe 5 therapy sessions before, and 3 of them were in the past year. I went to a couple sessions while on a psych hold for a suicide attempt, but my family didn't "believe in" therapy so that stopped very quickly.
I just got back on Zoloft in the past few days, it did me a lot of good the last time I took it. I think I could say it's one of the big reasons I recovered my grades and some of my mental health my senior year. Really hope that holds true this time.
And yeah no lol, unfortunately I'm in the Bible belt, in a town of about 10k people. There's McDonald's and Walmart, for the most part. I feel like I've really gotten myself stuck here forever now too.
Oh, and I know it's probably very obvious by now, but I've had mental health issues since I was very young. I would go into detail, but I don't know how to without writing an essay here that no one wants to read.
I gotta know who the husbandos are
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I felt that, and it’s shit because the cool husbando will never be real, men are too retarded to be like my husbando.
you're trying too hard
My guess for the manga woman was Light Yagami. He was a retarded edgelord but he was hot.
I think I know how you feel sans the lesbian feels
i guess it’s kind of like losing a single comrade
pal who knew how you felt as well. I had two friends telling me on separate occasions they had sex and at first I thought “wow, rude” but it’s just how ilife works, they will fall in love/ do something retarded and stop being that cool image we had of them.
I hope you don’t hate her, because she probably thinks of you as someone really amazing.
Go fuck yourself>>611543
I don't hate her at all. I want to hug her and tell her she doesn't have to go through this alone but my prejudice and being a judgmental bitch n all is preventing me from doing so. Also I am afraid I might catch her HPV. I know I am a lunatic and I hate myself.
who cares theyre not some predator eNcrOaChiNg on wOmEns spAces
theyre making music in some basement
it's the principle
. i never said anything about him being a predator, he's just one of those stereotypical gross troons with greasy skin and hair. i'd rather support real women in the alt music scene.
You can get hpv very easily. You don’t even have to get it sexually…
You’re kind of retarded if this isn’t b8, you sound very exhausting to be friends with
Some couples grow old together and settle into that comfortable accepting kind of love but if that was always the case then divorces and affairs wouldn't happen so much. Nayrt but my 40s is only 10 years away for me and I expect the saggy dad bods and drooping balls but I sure as hell won't be fucking any bald men
>>611717>ladies if he said he wouldn’t love you if you were a worm then leave his ass
kek gonna go ask my bf this
Sorry I deleted that first post I was struggling with tenses lol.
The “would you love me if I was a worm” meme is probably the most poignant we have at the moment.
I'm not calling anyone else a pickme, just my friend. She really is a pickme though. She sent links to FDS to laugh at the women there but then didn't realize we were laughing at her instead. kek>>607795
What is so appealing about talking to a rando awkward pickme?>>607790
this comment reminds me of the last celebricows thread when someone said "80% of people get at least type i herpes in their life, why would a girl have killed herself over her partner giving her herpes"
because std's are gross and painful and they shouldn't be normalized. if your partner's an ass who gives you an std of course you're going to be mad and depressed about it. doesn't matter if "80% of people" have had it, it requires money and medical care to treat, there's a stigma attached to it, esp if you're a woman, and it has lasting health effects
You should read a book called The Gift of Fear (PDF can be found free).
I read it after my 7 year long abusive
relationship. Maybe you'll get some perspective.
Though I will agree if the guy is just some fat piece of shit who is NOT abusive
but just shitty and a horrible guy.