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No. 609173

Ask a stupid question to receive
+10 Intellect
+5 Wisdom
-20 Charisma

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No. 609179

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Anons over 20,

I am 18 and I am sorta anxious about looking back and regretting having done or not having done some things when I'm older. I am worried about being 30, 40, 60 and thinking "I've wasted my time too much", "I wish I have done this and that when I was young". I want to have as less regrets as possible.

What would your recommendations be for me? Can be life advice, lessons you've learned, things you would change or do if you could go back, etc…

No. 609182

>>609173
i made a thread two minutes after yours…oops. anyway here's a copy paste of my question:


i made the thread so i go first: why is baby mom culture so prevalent in the US? i follow a lot of african-americans and they make it sound like it's totally normal to be surrounded by chicks who had a kid at age 20 with a guy who has other baby moms.

in the same vein, why do americans get married so quickly? i've never been able to relate to the "all my highschool friends are married and i'm here eating peanut butter !1!1!!1" memes.

No. 609184

>>609179
understand that everyone has regrets, first and foremost. when i was abroad, we /all/ left with regrets of not doing enough. it didn't matter if we had traveled the country, joined clubs and learned a local dance/sport/instrument, partied every week, cooked using local ingredients only, etc. everyone felt like they could've gone to one more town, one more restaurant, etc.

now that this is out of the way, those who spent the whole time in their rooms afraid of new things definitely had more regrets than those who had done more.
my advice is to avoid saying no. if someone invites you somewhere but you've never been to that kind of place or you've never done that kind of activity, it doesn't matter. just go. chances are you'll like it, or you'll learn something about yourself.
be more impulsive. i don't know where you live, but if you see cheap train/bus tickets, just skip class or cancel plans for the weekend and go visit a city you've never been to. hell, talk to someone about your plan and convince them. you could have tons of fun.

i guess the bottom line is curiosity, openness and spontaneity are key.

No. 609190

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Anons, I keep being called a 'Karen' mainly from my male friends for thinking this way, but is it wrong if I
> avoid and despise (not publically ofc, just inside) people who are more than 4 years older than me* who pretend that they are fragile babies unironically, to a point where they purposley are pretending that ¬ they cant do anything ¬, and that they are ¬ so small ¬ and whatever. (Which even makes their parents do shit for them) On top of that it becomes worse if they call themselves baby/smol unironically, mixing with sanrio or kidcore aesthetic.

Friends calling that a Karen move, but it's just my opinion. It's not like I attack those kinds of people, the only thing I do is just avoid them because I would rather befriend someone else. I had to suffer around those kinds of any age, and they would be nothing but attention seekers that would do anything just to keep feeling validated plus fakeness.

So like… Is it okay for me to have this sort of opinion or am I the worst monster that could have ever existed or something. I thought having boundaries is okay.

*By 4 years older than me means people that are 25 and older.

No. 609191

>>609179
Dont put work before school. I felt like I had to because suddenly I was paying all these huge family house bills but I lost about a year in school because of all the working. My boss was also late on our payment for those two semesters. Leave any job where the boss doesn't value you enough to listen to your complaints that are easily fixable (we just needed more staff) or wont give you the power to fix yourself. Leave if they wont fire the bad employees because they'll probably stay even when you quit. Maybe always be side eyeing other jobs in your area. Looks fade, have good credentials or past working experience. Build credit in some way if you plan to move out, or find a roommate who has good credit. Also, make sure you actually have the dedication for whatever program, degree you're going for.

Buy clothes on preowned sites and thrift stores to save major money. You'd be surprised how fast richer girls throw out clothes to thrift stores or resell that expensive shirt in a few months. If your skin is having issues try cutting out all fragranced products. I highly recommend iunik or puritos stuff. Witch hazel, teatree oil isnt magic for all skin and could be what's breaking you out.

Stop caring so much about make up unless your job is professional enough to actually need it. We're told all the time we're doing it for ourselves but we arent, and let your skin heal over covid. Wear whatever type of clothes make you happiest rather than trying to appease people. If a friend or relationship is rocky it might just be better to end it. Especially if each message gives you some form of anger, sadness, anxiety. Theres so many people out there they arent your only options. Dont share all your political opinions with friends unless you know they're fully trust worthy. Shoot for the fucking stars if theres a hobby you enjoy. Take a class, use online tutorials, find free stuff in your city. Learn to sew a little bit for the moment you might need it. I hope you live a life that you're proud of, and if you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.

No. 609198

>>609190
Isn't that just pick me behavior? They sound very immature but this is scrotes we're talking about, they want any type of woman who will appease them. If you spun the narrative that those are egirls they might change their mind but I doubt it. I'd just stop hanging around them at that point. I dont see how this is at all an issue if you ignore that type of girl and if asked just say "I'm just not really interested in her"

No. 609200

When my shoulders are the broadest part of my body am I a inverted triangle no matter how big my hips and tits are?

No. 609209

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>>609200
I don't think so, as far as I can tell shoulders are always gonna be the widest part of your body unless you've got crazy wide/chubby hips.

No. 609230

>>609209
Nice. That woul mean I'm a pear shape. That's funny because I always thought I have no hips

No. 609275

>>609230
sounds inverted triangle then. pear is having the hip as your largest measurement.

No. 609332

carlifornia anon, how hot are you feeling right now?

No. 609333

I am once again asking for your assistance. I bought a bra that's too big (again), I can stick a whole finger between the bra and myself, my mom told me to put socks in it but it's just uncomfortable. Is there any way to stuff a bra that's not uncomfortable?

No. 609343

Why would anyone skinwalk a random stranger on the Internet? Is it even humanly possible to not develop any sort of personality over the years?

Reading the threads about emalee is like some sort of real life nightmare.

No. 609352

>>609182
there's a lot of christian sects and evangelical ones, look up mormonism for instance. i think in some areas it's the culture too or there aren't as many job opportunities for women.

>>609190
you're fine and your male friends sound stupid. avoiding immature annoying people is good for your health.

No. 609359

>>609343
I wish there were actual resources or communities of victims of people like her. I am experiencing emalee situation right now; a woman is buying everything I do the second she sees it on me and is trying to have the same IG, even the posing. Knows me IRL too which is awkward. I sheltered myself off completely and It makes me feel sad.

No. 609372

Is FDS legit?

No. 609381

>>609372
Some of their advice is solid but a lot of it is women larping as hot sexy career mama when in reality they’re KHV neets or doormats when it comes to interacting with men. Having standards and boundaries is good but FDS kind of oversimplifies and generalises men and relationships in a way that isn’t useful sometimes.

No. 609385

>>609372
it's female mgtow

No. 609387

>>609372
It works if you're attractive and a "HVW" but most of the people who post on the subreddit are definitely not and need to settle.

No. 609389

>>609372
Have you noticed that women on FDS tend to be… single? I wouldn't take relationship advice from someone who autistically calls relationships "transactions" and think they're "strategizing" when they're essentially just coping with having a terrible personality.

No. 609413

The girl I was dating(non-exclusive) for about 3 months got angry that I wasn't ready to have sex with her. I've only had one partner before and it took me about 5-6 months of dating before I was ready for that level of intimacy. I just don't feel comfortable that early on in a relationship and also my libido is pretty low. Is she right at being upset for me not putting out in that time period? What's the normal amount of time to wait before you have sex with someone?

No. 609420

Is dental health genetic? Were people before toothpaste plagued with cavities and missing teeth? Are flossing and mouth wash and electronic toothbrushes all scams?
This is gross but I’m kind of autistic and don’t like feeling of brushing so I only brush once a day and even skip it sometimes. Also I’ve had mild bulimia for years. Yet my teeth and gum are in great shape, never had a dentist complaining. I only tolerate the mouth rape for bad breath frankly.

No. 609425

>>609420
Genetics play a part but you definitely need to take care of your teeth. It WILL catch up to you, and dental care is expensive plus your teeth are with you for life, so you should take care of the ones you have. You should at least brush twice a day, but at the very, very least, once in the morning before leaving to get rid of the stank breath. I do highly suggest the twice a day, though. And don't brush right after purging bc acid will be on your teeth and make it easier to erode the enamel. Rinse your mouth out with plain water after purging but also don't purge, coming from a fellow bulimia fag

No. 609426

>>609413
I don't understand Amerifags "non-exclusive" dating shit but I'd be a bit upset at my GF not being willing to fuck after this long.

No. 609427

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guys are these really THAT bad for u? idc about calories but i mean in terms of, is it really that garbage-y. would i be better off just making some chicken nuggets and eating baby carrots on the side.
i know the fresh alternative to these meals is always better but aside from that these don't seem too bad?

No. 609430

>>609426
Not American but I meant non-exclusive in the sense that we had been going out on dates but never clarified that we were girlfriends.
Also, thanks. I figured I'm the weird one, just want some confirmation on it.

No. 609443

>>609420
Genetics is actually a huge part of dental health, it can absolutely play a part in how strong or stained your tooth enamel is, how many caries you're prone to, etc.
People pre-dentistry were plagued with issues and died early because of them. Infections, bone loss, and inability to eat properly. My immigrant grandparents gave a fuck about toothcare because it was a sign of class status and how well your family was taken care of.

Also be careful of that bulimia because that shit can catch up to you.

No. 609461

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Why are old people so suspicious/prone to conspiracy? Is it an evolutionary defense mechanism because you are weaker in old age and need to be more wary of to perceive possible threats?

No. 609469

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Are expensive tights by brands like Sheertex, Heist, Snag, etc. really worth the money or am I better off just buying a bunch of cheapo ones from Target?? I would love tights that will last but the thought of having to immediately throw out $60 tights because of a hole within the first day makes me cry.

No. 609478

>>609427
Read the ingredients. Make sure to check the sugar content

No. 609479

>>609427
Why do you think it's bad? Looking at the ingredients and nutrients list, it looks fine. Like you said, homemade food is always better but if it was this bowl vs McDonald's for dinner, the former is better since it _seems_ less processed.

No. 609480

>>609461
That's a good theory, it might actually be a defense mechanism. Maybe it's like juvenoia gone crazy, or something. Since my mom is a major conspirator, I've thought about this a lot and i think it's a combination of many things - because I assume that she can't stand the horrible shit going on in the world in front of her eyes that she wants to fix but doesn't know how, so she pretends that all the bad shit comes from secret organizations peddling fucked up things and wanting to control the world, cartoon-villain-style. Plus the universal fear of the unknown and all the bad shit she knows she doesn't see. Plus, it's about really enjoying morbid curiosity, even though she'll never admit it. Plus, it's also got something to do with having "secret" knowledge and feeling superior over normies who "haven't woken up yet".
I think it's a mix of fearing the unknown evils plaguing the world and being edgy, but in an old-person way.

No. 609501

>>609173
I've been thinking of buying a new PS1, what are some games on the PS1 that are good? final fantasy VII & IX, and metal gear solid obvious examples, what are some others?

No. 609514

>>609501
Spyro (any part but 2 was my favorite), Kula World (trippy puzzle game where you are a ball rolling around), Crash Bash (and invite friends over to play), Bust a Move (it's a bubble popping game like those popular apps but you can play with friends and the characters are ADORABLE) my brother loves playing Tomba, I haven't played it, and Digimon World 3. We had soooo many pirated games but these are the only ones I remember.

No. 609525

>>609501
you gotta get silent hill! tomb raider is another one i remember being fun but i have no idea if it'll hold up today. i've also heard that castlevania: symphony of the night is good but i've never played it.
just wondering- i've been considering getting a PS2 because i thought it was backwards compatible with PS1 games as well. are there any notable games that are PS1 exclusive? or is there another reason you're getting a PS1?

No. 609530

I know nothing about pixielocks cuz I can’t get into her threads due to weeb shit boring me to tears, but in a contest of “who ballooned faster” would the winner be Shay or Pixielocks?

No. 609531

What are some good resources to start drawing?
I bought two popular udemy courses but to be honest they're just not working for me.

No. 609532

>>609501
>>609525
Silent Hill fasho

No. 609538

>>609413
I had the same problem. The only gf I had was my best friend and sadly she moved away. I wish I went with her and started anew somewhere else because everyone wants to fuck asap. I just take a long time to feel comfortable and even if I'm horny I'd rather take time to make sure we click. So you're not alone.
Now that I think about it, I'd be even willing to be with an asexual as long as there's cuddles and kisses.

No. 609542

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>>609531
Think this was posted in the artist salt thread before but this has been pretty helpful (huge image)

No. 609564

>>609501
silent hill 1 is a ps1 classic

No. 609586

>>609530
My bets on shay since I only glance her threads but saw her go up the past few months while pixie took the past 2 years to reach this weight. Most of her milk was a year or 2 ago as well.

No. 609622

Is wearing a kimono everyday the Japanese-equivalent of faux 1950s tradwife clothing, in the sense it's supposed to signal that you're a tradwife?

No. 609675

what would our eyesight be like if our eyes were flat

No. 609679

>>609675
what do you mean? Like if they were cubes? If our eye lenses were flat we wouldn't see anything clearly because they wouldn't be able to focus the light on our retina

No. 609724

>>609679
I meant completely flat like paper but a cube makes more sense. Thank you anon!

No. 609740

If you were a cow here, what would people nitpick about you? For me I think it'd be my long-ish forehead, eyes being two slightly different shapes, and wavy teeth. Not to mention having a good body frame but not working out to tone/make it better. Anons?

No. 609748

>>609740
i love this lol for me it might be that i have bumps at the backs of my arms, horrible eye bags, and rosacea/broken capillaries on my face which i never cover up with makeup because i hate foundation

No. 609750

>>609740
Tattoos, self harm scars, big nose, ugly plucked eyebrows, fat, the list goes on. I’d probably make a decent cow if I was more of an attention seeker. Not very milky anymore but there’s a lot to nitpick.

No. 609751

>>609740
>Nasolabial folds

No. 609753

>>609469
my sister faced the same dilemma last year! she bought sheertex and she was very happy with them. the first pair they gave her had a weird sheen to it i think so she requested a new pair which they gave for free (she just had to cover shipping). after that the new ones she got were perfect and shes never had any holes or issues! before that she used to buy cheapy tights which ended up being more expensive overtime because she had to buy new once whenever a hole appeared. it may be worth trying out!

No. 609754

>>609740
Yellow teeth, no hips, big arms, weird hair probably, but people only nitpick cows that are bad people so we don't need to worry, r-right everyone?

No. 609755

>>609740
Weight, self harm scars and supremely shitty hair

No. 609758

>>609740

fat lmao

No. 609759

>>609751
Ayrt, absolute kek thank you queen

No. 609761

>>609740
aquiline nose, deep tear troughs, thin hair, weird/sharp teeth

No. 609764

>>609740
Fat is a given for any cow who isn't <115 lbs, almost too easy. Would make fun of my forehead wrinkles, frizzy hair, and probably call me a fakeboi because I'm a dyke.

No. 609770

>>609740
big forehead, fucked up teeth, weird tiny nose, long philtrum, really weak jawline

No. 609772

>>609740
long skinny arms that go straight into long large hands that are slightly mannish imo, flat profile, eyebrows filled in too dark…skin around my nails that look like a minefield sometimes + my index finger nails that i can't stop chewing on.
as for the "lol fat" and "lol FAS", with the bone rattlers and retards we got on here, anyone could get them, so i guess i can claim those too.

No. 609774

>>609542
This is so perfect, thank you kind anon!

No. 609777

What kind of guy is a good guy to date?
I actively avoid men like my dad (outgoing, "bad boy" sexist stereotype). And until now have gone for quiet, STEM dudes that have low sex drives, no life and no emotional intelligence so they just resent me and lie when uncomfortable. IDK what came first but I can also be super anxious and controlling, combined with their lack of life and tendency to latch on to me, things get unhealthy quick.

And I want to break that cycle of dating, but it's a bit scary having no other template of an admirable guy. I've never dated a fuckboy, a creep or someone too cheap to pay for my meals. But also I've never had an openly warm, outgoing bf who I can have dinner parties or whatever with.

No. 609779

Anons, do you wash the bottom of the pots when you do dishes, and how often do you wash your legs? Mostly curious for the first one

No. 609780

>>609777
Lmao are you me? I went through these exact two phases of dating bad boy chad types, then switching to computer-obsessed, imageboard manchildren who really are just as bad, but present in a very different way.

Have you ever had any male friends that you always felt fully comfortable around? Something that really helped me get over dating problematic scrotes was always asking myself, would I want to be friends if this guy if I weren't dating/attracted to him? If the answer is no, it's a sign that they're not right for you and probably a complete asshole.

No. 609781

>>609740

>fat

>fucked up skin
>addicted to shaving making my skin even more fucked up
I’m pretty sure that one would be one of the recurring jokes in those threads
>never smiles because of nasolabial folds
>Built like a fridge
>unfortunate chin + nose combo
>bump on my back

I’m glad I never go full retard in general.

No. 609783

>>609779
Yes, and every time I take a shower which is every other day.

No. 609787

>>609777
I think a basic requirement is respect for women, not as sex/relationship objects. I waited like 3 months and watched how he interacted with women before I decided to make a move on him.

>>609779
I only wash the bottoms if they touch the sink. I wash my legs every time I shower. Do you not??

No. 609790

>>609779
You have to wash everything, Anon, specially the bottom of the pots, mostly because most of the time you will put that pot inside another pot and by doing so you’re dirtying the bigger por, and if you don’t wash the bottom of the bigger pot, you might end up dirtying the place where you will put them.

No. 609793

>>609740
pale, dark circles, uneven/damaged hair, skinny fat, bad teeth, asymmetrical face.
so much to nitpick with my makeup as well. thick eyeliner, giant eyelashes, 90s gwen stefani eyebrows, and no lipstick/foundation to balance it out lol.
i guess its a good thing i've quit social media and am living like a technophobic hermit. otherwise i'd def be a cow. a couple of girls i used to know have threads on here kek

No. 609796

>>609740
>small eyes, dorito chin, weird ass profile

No. 609800

>>609787
>>609790
I wash both. I was curious because I remember seeing an article that said some people don't wash their legs & feet everytime they shower.

No. 609802

>>609793
Holy shit is knowing cows on here what made you technophobic?

No. 609804

when you get a smear test, does the doctor leave the room so you can change into the hospital gown? I can't be fucked to deal with them seeing my self harm which is on my thighs.

No. 609805

>>609796
>dorito chin
I kek'd at this and have no idea what it means.

No. 609808

What are "maybe i'm bisexual" women to do? I don't want to hurt confidently gay/bi women.

I've always thought I was 100% straight up until a few years ago. Often now when in the mood I'll think of other women, or dream of women if it's a sexual one.

But then I've only dated men (also I hate men which could factor into being more attracted to women?) and other than some feelings arising when seeing female villains in cartoons as a kid haven't had gay thoughts before a couple years ago.

I hate the idea of going out to experiment just to hurt someones feelings because turns out I'm not as into it as I thought.

No. 609810

>>609804
They usually do not look, sometimes you have a separate dressing room or the least you have a lil curtain nook. If you're an adult they will most likely say nothing unless you have bleeding wounds.

No. 609811

>>609810 every time a doctor has seen my legs, I always get dumb comments like 'aren't you too old to be doing that?' i'm not worried about being sectioned or whatever. for record, they only see them if i'm required to drop my trousers, and it's always for an unrelated issues.

No. 609813

>>609622
I don’t think so. I think it just signifies being rich enough to afford kimonos and wearing them everyday. Could be wrong tho, jpn anons pls correct me lol.

No. 609815

All the anon viewing ig sites I use have gone to shit. If I view someones highlights, will they be able to see that I viewed them? I know ig took out the ability to see who’s viewed your story after 24 hours of being up, but does this count for highlights too? Can anon rec new sites to view stories/highlights through? I used to use storyinsta/storiesig, but they’re so janky and give me so many errors nowadays.

No. 609817

>>609815 if they check who has viewed the highlights within 24 hours, they'll see. otherwise no.

No. 609821

>>609811
How fucking rude of them. I have gotten some comments on my arms as well but I don't mind because yea, you have eyes, well done Madam Doctor. I always wear a t shirt dress to gyno so even as i'm walking to the chair, i am mostly covered, that gown stuff sounds so bothersome.

No. 609824

>>609821 I fucking know, right! I cut my legs because I don't want anyone to see and therefor don't get comments/stares. It's so frustrating, especially because they can clearly see I have diagnosed PTSD.

No. 609825

>>609802
nah. its definitely reaffirmed my paranoia though.
i was never especially milky, just naive af and i was pretty young when i knew a lot of these girls, so its just been crazy seeing what happened to them. i'm glad i was smart enough to leave, even if my life is boring as fuck now.

No. 609833

>>609824
Can't fucking imagine a grown person let alone a doctor be so cunty about it, sorry about your selfharming though. I shall cross my fingers for your pap smear anon!! Wishing you good ass health, sis.

No. 609862

Does anyone else ever randomly get super heightened awareness of their teeth and/or gums to the point that it creates anxiety?

No. 609868

>>609862
I do that not with teeth but with my heart and heartbeat. Sometimes I wake up in the dark of night and feel my heart and think "damn that things gonna stop one day" and feel very mortal and pathetic.

No. 609879

>>609862
I have this with my entire body kek. I think it's an extension of anxiety itself, but the fixations on different parts of my body, convincing myself that something is medically wrong with me, tends to fuel more, worse anxiety. Anxiety is super fun and endlessly cyclical like that.

No. 609880

>>609501
Klonoa is cute as heck

No. 609882

>>609808
Be as open as possible if your starting to date them, you're going to lose potential girlfriends but it's better to have missed out on dating than fully hurting someone if one day you realize being in a relationship with a woman isn't your thing.

No. 609885

>>609173
Whats a good sports bra for fat girls? I need a good rec because I'm tired of having to hold my girls when I'm running/doing jumping jacks lol

No. 609893

>>609885
I like nike ones but I wish i got a size bigger, this shit hurts my side if i wear it for too long.

No. 609896

>>609862
my teeth get itchy when I’m high sometimes

No. 609921

reader anons, where is a good place on the internet to discuss books you've read/want to read? I know there's a book thread on /m/ but it's kinda slow moving

No. 609924

what's a good website/app for writing that requires a password to log in? like an online secret journal?

No. 609927

>>609924
Secret and online are mutually exclusive

No. 609931

Should I report my boss for failing to quarantine? I posted in the employment thread venting about it but basically he’s coming back to NYC from TX and straight up has told everyone he’s not going to quarantine at all. Everyone is nervous, but the VP (ie the closest thing we have to HR) defends him by saying he doesn’t live in Houston and will be flying first class away from everyone (as if it matters???). I checked the city he’s at and yes they’re at half the cases of Houston, but that’s still 40k, plus that city’s government website even says the situation is severe there!!! It’s a VERY small company (less than 15 people, plus lots of per diem workers who come in and out) and even though others have spoken out about it, I’m worried they’ll figure out it’s me if I report him (I won’t if he actually quarantines but I highly doubt it). I work in a medical training facility and he’s already scheduled for classes, meaning he’s going to still meet complete strangers who come in and out of our offices for training. I’m on my probation period and fear that I can’t even say “I’m uncomfortable with working out of the same office as him” for fear of being reprimanded. I can’t afford to lose the shit pay in this job market.

No. 609933

Easiest way to ignore weirdly competitive girls? Like the kind who try to turn everything you do into some bizarre contest with them to the point that it’s really uncomfortable? I don’t understand the pathology but it seems like ignoring it doesn’t work.

No. 609936

>>609933
No advice but fuck I hate girls like that.

No. 609938

>>609933
imo depends what type of weirdly competitive girl.

No. 609939

>>609924
Google docs

No. 609941

>>609938
The kind who fixates on other girls for extended period of times. Monitors everything they do, mimics everything they do, but turns it into a very strange and pathological need to pretend it’s some sort of competition between the girl and themselves.

I’m very confused by this kind of behavior but it has gotten so strange and intimate that I’m starting to get worried. I’m not even being purposely stupid, I’m genuinely at a loss.

No. 609942

>>609933
You should kiss them. Enemies to lovers is the best trope.

No. 609944

>>609942
Girl please. I wish it was the kind of girls you want to do that sort of stuff with and NOT the weird girls that act like Buffalo Bill.

Also I really don’t want to live in a genderbent!Hannibal Lector au…

No. 609949

>>609740
>Deep Shayna-esque voice with slight speech impediment that makes me sound drunk
>Filthy rat nest hair
>Tattoos

No. 609955

>>609941
queen you gotta get tf outta there before it gets crazy.
if you're friends you're kinda fucked and no matter what she's gonna do some crazy shit when you cut her off. be prepared for that. she'll continue skinwalking for a while but eventually she'll move on. i mean, a few stolen traits will stick, but she'll mostly move on. tell your mutual friends what's going on (if you have any) it may seem catty but there's no way to be mature about this. she'll probably tell them insane lies about you, so it's best to get your side of the story out first. good luck. hope u don't get single white femaled.

No. 609962

>>609955
Thank you! The problem is that she was cut off years ago but it still hasn’t stopped. That’s what makes it very concerning. I know that she probably has some sort of cognitive issue because it isn’t in the least bit normal to be that obsessive for so long, and to seek access to someone who doesn’t like you, and then proceed to mirror every single minute thing to a concerning degree. I just feel kind of sad for her, but I think you’re right in that it’ll only get worse if I tried to get to the root of it with her.

No. 609981

A "friend" of mine, I say friend loosely bc I am only friends with him bc I'm close friends with his wife and mutual friends, made a really shitty joke(?) about my alcoholism which I'm recovering with, in front of all our other friends last weekend.
I'm still pissed and hurt, idgaf. It was about me needing alcohol to sleep on certain occasions when I can't take my practically horse transquilizers or else I hallucinate my fucking rapist, there was no punchline, or anything, it was legitimately just mocking that, while he was drinking casually since 2pm and our other friend had been chugging whiskey all day.
My boyfriend wants me to talk to our other friend about it, saying that'll make things better and is kinda pissed at me for not wanting to talk to her about the whole thing. I really don't see it helping bc everyone kisses his ass, I also don't think it's my responsibility to go and say "Hey, I sure am hurt that he mocked me like that! It's making me more and more bitter!"
I just straight up don't want to be friends with this guy, he's mocked me before and is overall an edgy asshole who doesn't go a night without insulting people and hyping himself up (legitimately, unironically said he doesn't have a god complex bc he is a god.)

So, am I the shitty one / being immature for being upset and not wanting to privately message people who sat there during the joke and didn't say shit when I was obviously bothered and trying to explain once again why I, rarely ever (like once every 3 months or something,) have a couple drinks to sleep?

Sorry for the shitton of text..

No. 609982

>>609981
burn your friends and start over

No. 609984

>>609981
This was posted before. Conspiracy!

No. 609985

>>609984
What the fuck

No. 609986

>>609740
>Probably worst teeth than Vicky
>Swimmers body
>Long ass extremities
>Filthy desk

No. 609992

>>609984
I posted it in the vent thread or something when it actually happened, I believe, or the stupid shit thread – before my boyfriend told me to go and talk about it and shit.

No. 609994

>>609992
Oh, I deleted my reply because I assumed it was just copypasted as spam.
Well in summary you were being negged, he likely negs people to control them and make them pine for his approval, don’t show that it hurt you but don’t act too nice either, avoid/ignore his existence and play indifferent until you finally are again. Don’t give him the satisfaction of seeing that he affected you.

No. 609995

>>609992
Sorry anon. I had to point it out after coming from the dumbass shit thread and seeing a conversation about duplicate/stolen posts. That dude is a dick btw.

No. 609996

>>609995
Yea, I really should've noted I vented straight up about it and am now actually looking for advice. I just got heated bc I just got done with my boyfriend snapping at me and saying nothing will ever get better if I don't say something.

No. 609998

>>609996
Nah, it’ll likely turn into some annoying power-play. You mentioned that he does that all the time so any sort of apology you get from him will be fake and you still leave him with the smug satisfaction of knowing your feelings were hurt.

I’d hate to say you need to develop a thicker skin because you shouldn’t have to “toughen up” when around friends, but he’s only the spouse of a friend. His opinion on your life doesn’t matter, never will. He’s just obsessed with slighting people to appear clever and enigmatic. Men now look this shit up online as teenagers and carry it on into adulthood, they think it’ll give them the social upper hand and make people try really hard to gain their approval.

And besides, who cares if you did drink to sleep often? How is that a comedic staple? Let it roll off your back anon! Who gives a shit what some drunk married man thinks of you. You seem to have been through a lot, don’t let some scrote weigh down on an already heavy burden.

No. 610057

Help?
I just need to complete my internship to graduate, and they asked me to make LGBT+ inclusive illustrations (something about combating the hate and stuff)
Thing is, I'm a full on radfem, I only believe in the LGB and fuck trannies and fuck jannies. But they literally told me that's going to be my assigment and they need my help on that specifically.
Could that potentially damage something in my CV/portfolio or like, does it not matter at all? I just see it as work even if I'm not pro-trans agenda.

No. 610061

>>610057
Can't you just draw the lgb? Maybe draw a lesbian couple or some gay guys or something.

No. 610064

>>610061
No, they asked me to illustrate the full manual, so it's not like I can turn away from some parts of it
The place I'm doing my internship at is pretty liberal

No. 610066

>>610057
This is one of those times where it's important to remember that 99% of people have no idea what a radfem is, and most just see trannies as a flavor of homo. It's just generic inclusivity at this point, like having a person in a wheelchair

No. 610067

>>610064
Might as well just suck it up and do it. Drawing stuff you hate is just part of being a career artist for most people, it's either this or furry fetish porn.

No. 610070

>>610057
I mean what are you supposed to draw? A woman with a penis? A man with a coochie? I don't see how you could draw a trans person that is clearly a trans person.

Either way, a bag is a bag anon. I'd say do it and forget about it. Maybe you can draw the person wearing pink, white and blue.

No. 610071

>>610057
Maybe you can just draw some overtly GNC characters and pretend they're trannies. What's the difference, visually speaking?

No. 610094

>>610057
So you’re being asked to literally illustrate each portion of the acronym individually? Who the hell asks someone to specifically illustrate a tranny for a pro-lgbt piece, sounds like that could potentially make the PC audience ree anyways.

No. 610118

>>610071
>>610094
Yep. The person in charge of my internship showed me this power point presentation on a call today with all the letter of the acronyms and their meaing and she wants me to draw each one of them and what they stand for and how to help integrate this idea of tolerance and acceptance of them in society.
Basically something like "if you see a transgender person don't bully them and use their pronouns". I'm still not 100% sure what she wants me to do but it's something along the lines. How do I even draw a tranny kek
>>610066
Where I live people think a radical feminist is a rioting feminist or someone who is very violent and opinionated (basically they call radfems "feminazis"). So it's even worse lol they got the completely wrong idea
>>610067
I see it this way too but I'm kinda scared of being outed as a terf and people cancelling me or something. Oh well. At least they'll cancel me for a good cause lol
>>610070
>>610071
Thanks for the suggestions anons. It feels weird going through all this college stress with classes and shit and finally being able to get my diploma by drawing trannies lol. Like imagine what I'll tell people. Ah yes, I graduated thanks to trannies kek. Kinda fucked up but oh well

No. 610135

Are there any other female image boards that don't revolve around gossiping

No. 610147

>>610135
Crystal.cafe, but I honestly wouldn't recommend it (even though I am now, lol.) I used to browse there daily for 2-3 months straight until realizing it was just not my kind of board culture, haven't been back since.

No. 610151

>>610118
maybe you could model the trans image after a real life trans person? Every representation can be like that, you know, 'inspiring lgbt people'.

No. 610193

>>610118
Draw a normal person, adding any obvious transgender traits is usually a no-no in these kinds of situations.

No. 610198

>>610147
Nta, but what is it about crystal.cafe that doesn't work for you? I was checking it out here and there over the course of a month, that was like 2 years ago, I didn't stick around long enough to get a sense of their board culture because it was so slow.

No. 610214

>>610198
With all due respect, a lot of miners (that's what they call themselves) are basically just female /r9k/ equivalents. All they can think about is men, what men think about, what men think of them, what men think of other women, how they can be like other women to attract men, how much they hate other women, men men men and so on, while also saying they hate every fabric of the male being because they're self-proclaimed "radical feminists" who hate "men-obsessed libfems" (not that some farmers aren't guilty of doing this exact thing, lol.) Some of them come off as pickmes-pretending-to-not-be-pickmes, some are just open pickmes with no shame. There's generally more of a presence of regressive social attitudes towards sex/gender, biology, and human sexuality which is, again, an odd juxtaposition coming from a userbase of self-proclaimed radfems. On crystal.cafe alone I've seen open white supremacist radfems, "men's rights activists" and "pro-rape" women trying to advertise their art, Christian anons telling lesbian anons that they're disgusting for being lesbians and for masturbating, an anon (who was probably a tranny) accusing another anon of being a tranny because they thought women "don't have" discharge in a thread specifically about vulva hygiene… it goes on.

And yeah, it's quite a slow board, which is the cherry on top of the negative qualities for me. I tried to contribute for a few months and boost the board's activity, but I didn't find the interactions to be worth it.

No. 610218

>>610214
>On crystal.cafe alone I've seen open white supremacist radfems, "men's rights activists" and "pro-rape" women trying to advertise their art, Christian anons telling lesbian anons that they're disgusting for being lesbians and for masturbating, an anon (who was probably a tranny) accusing another anon of being a tranny because they thought women "don't have" discharge in a thread specifically about vulva hygiene
You're blatantly missing the fact that they're pretty much all trannies, scrotes LARPing to spread white supremacist/trad/religious agenda, and a handful of "fembots" from /r9k/. It's far from a "userbase of radfems" at all, lmao. I'm convinced there's only a few actual women hanging around there, because they don't know of better places. Those examples of autistic behavior should've clued you in on the true demographic of the place.

No. 610221

>>610214
it's funny because i feel like we have a lot of people like this on here but we try to shut them tf up more successfully.

No. 610224

>>610218
You've definitely got a point, I wouldn't be surprised if you were right. At the time I was looking for more radfem/GC (or closely aligned) female spaces online other than here and AG. Haven't had much luck.

No. 610225

>>610218
nta but you know that it's possible for bio women to just be pieces of shit too. don't make excuses for them. a lot of these people have linked real social media or selfies and are very real women.

No. 610232

>>610225
People have posted their social media and selfies on CC? That's crazy. Any links/caps? I really want to see what a miner looks like.

No. 610233

>>610218
Omg i agree. Crystal.cafe feels like a 4chan because of obvious maleposting. Even hell, I was trying to find friends there two of which ended up being trannies on discord. Never again.

No. 610235

>>610214
>pro-rape" women trying to advertise their art
What's the deets on this

No. 610238

>>610235
I can't remember her name, but it was an artist who primarily made humor comics (since recognizing her, I've seen a few of her comics posted on 4chan on occasion.) She opened a thread in /b/ with a drawing of hers attached and asked if she could promote/show off her art using a thread (there's several art threads in /media/, mind you) but other miners reacted fine. She posted some more of art (which was different from her comics, but had similar motifs/messages) and one miner caught on to who she was and posted her social media. Turns out she was a a self-declared MRA, biracial, married /pol/tard, and miners posted some of her comics, many of which were anti-semitic white supremacist drivel or about how women secretly really want to be raped. Even after this, and getting accused of being a troon, she stayed in the thread defending herself and saying that she is actually a women who holds these views. The thread was completely removed a few hours later.

No. 610239

>>610232
yes, i will get some caps tomorrow if no one else does. it's too late for me to want to trudge through shit.

No. 610245

>>610238
Dogisaga?

No. 610250

>>610245
Just looked her up and yeah, that looks like her. I notice her Twitter description doesn't say the stuff it used to say when she made her thread on CC, kek.

No. 610256

>>610250
Scrolling through that media tab… did not laugh once

No. 610259

File: 1597995305525.jpg (98.98 KB, 600x417, T106.2a.jpg)

Anons: how many stuffed animals is too many for a grown woman to have in her room/on her bed?

No. 610263

>>610259
Never too many. Sew them all together and make a bed out of them

No. 610317

Maybe I’m super stupid and this belongs in meta but how do I turn off lite mode on lolcow? I’m on mobile and can’t figure it out at all …

No. 610328

What did they do to their nose so that they're able to peel them off? Is there Korean beauty products that do that? What are they called?

No. 610331

>>610263
Wow, anon, that’s cruel

No. 610349

>>610328
they're just prosthetics. also, those girls are chinese.

No. 610368

Ot, but I associate that anime style with incels and when I scroll past this thread I'm like ew.

No. 610371

What benefits can meditation realistically have, if I started today and did it regularly? Like, what can I hope to achieve by regularly meditating? Is there such a thing as meditating wrong? How did meditation help you?

No. 610379

is anybody else's cat sensitive to translucent objects? i have a semi-transparent toy for them and i realized while showing it to them earlier, they quickly turn their faces away. i tried putting a different toy in their face and they were curious to sniff it, but this semi-translucent toy they actually looked scared. one of my cats started furiously licking his lips for a few seconds like something was wrong with him. what the fuck?

No. 610387

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>>610317
If you scroll up right to the top you will find a bar that says exit lite mode

No. 610388

>>610387
samefag there’s one at the bottom too

No. 610414

>>610371
It helped me overcome my issues with brooding and overthinking.

I don't think you can do it wrong. But there are different ways to do it, so just try what feels best for you.

No. 610418

what the fuck happened to /mu/? i remember browsing around 2012-2014 or some shit, and i haven't been lurking since. came back and it seems like the board is ran by a bunch of fantano fanboys or teens who browse tiktok

what happened to merriweather or itaots posting?

No. 610436

>>610418
The demographic of 4chan's userbase has changed over time. It's primarily 13-20 year olds now. It's been said again and again, but the 2016 US presidential election preceded by Moot stepping down from admin position marked the downfall of the site. I only go to /mu/ for /metal/ now, most of the other discussion is about TikTok zoomer music from teens who found out about /mu/ through Death Grips or Yung Lean.

No. 610440

>>609921
Good reads? /lit/?

No. 610497

Anon-chans, can anyone recommend me an EU store or brand with nice organic grow kits, or even just flower seeds are nice!

No. 610510

How do you generally know you got a good man in your life? All men seem dumb and their behaivors too alike for me to know

Are all men stupid or…?

No. 610525


No. 610546

>>610510
All men are stupid, even the good ones. It's unacceptable.

No. 610565

>>610510
My family is mostly women and growing up with the mentality that all men are dangerously stupid was the reaction given to anything about men. They all have their downfalls and it can be chalked up to being unable to notice fine details or multitask beyond a couple simple things. The only thing that keeps me sane is being able to open up to other women about this sort of shit or I'd go mad, men are retarded with a lot of shit.

No. 610580

>>610565
Dude I asked this same question to my mom after posting it, and basically said the exact same thing you just said. Lol

No. 610585

What are your hangover remedies, babes? Chicken soup and an ice cold glass of water used to do the trick for me but I think I need something new to shock the nausea/fatigue out of me.

No. 610590

>>610585
A bowl of pho

No. 610594

>>610510
Even the good men are stupid. They are just babies that you need to raise along with your own kids, really.

No. 610601

>>610585
McDonalds breakfast or Waffle House

No. 610645

File: 1598026915675.jpg (18.3 KB, 323x313, spaghet cat.jpg)

Is it possible to become retarded later in life, rather than being born that way? I was a normal child who got good grades growing up, but I swear my brain is starting to regress.

Speaking is becoming more difficult, I prefer to communicate through noises, making small decisions takes a great amount of effort, I have to emote my increasing emotions through body movements, I struggle to talk to and make friends (and maintain friendship) with people who don't have the same interests as me and I can't retain information as well anymore. Maybe my brain is just going through a phase or I'm fucked for life

No. 610647

>>610601
Extra mayo or bust!

>>610645
Are you an introvert? If you don't usually talk to people, then you kind of get "slower" at doing exactly that. i dont think its weird, it just happens .

No. 610656

>>610368
It also doesn't help that it's one of those yuri shows that has girls randomly flipping eachother's skirts and other fanservicey shit actual lesbians wouldn't do.

No. 610658

File: 1598027598741.jpg (167.33 KB, 1080x1150, 3488344838.jpg)

>>610510
good men are defined by their morals and intentions. most men have bad morals (they are coomers who watch disgusting and brutal porn) and bad intentions (they only want a gf to regularly get sex/get someone to baby them/have someone to show off to their friends and other men).

most men watch brutal porn, but you can also judge their morals by other factors. do they have empathy for others (especially women)? how do they treat their mother? what are their friends like? do they date pick mes or do they date normal women?

the good men i know of are genuinely kind and wonderful to be around. they have high emotional intelligence and treat women well. they all have high self esteem. not that they are cocky, they are simply secure in who they are as people. they uplift and support their friends and gf.

bad men are simply men who have let themselves be corrupted by the worst parts of modern society. all they think about is sex, pleasure, clout and showing off. they don't see women as people and have unhealthy relationships with their parents. men like these are a lost cause. they'll never change.

good men are out there, ladies. have hope.

No. 610660

>>610658

but are they hot, financially comfy and have big dick?

No. 610661

File: 1598027872742.jpg (97.04 KB, 845x555, despair.jpg)


No. 610665

>>610661

too bad, take ya ~nice guy~ propaganda back to reddit or r9k or wherever you spawned from

No. 610667

>>610665
how on earth did your tiny brain come to this conclusion?

No. 610672

>>610667
Nta but I’m assuming the scrote tier cringy femjaks and reddit spacing

No. 610675

>>610259
hygeine related for me. the room is dirty, hard to clean. they're not well taken care of and very dusty/gross.

No. 610676

>>610672
if incels were like this it would be a fucking miracle.

No. 610681

Is there any mental illness that could cause someone to consistently be unable to correctly gauge their level of friendship with someone? My entire life I’ve under estimated how closely people regard me as a friend and perceive all my friendships as a lot less intense than they are to the other person and I’m always genuinely oblivious to it.

No. 610686

>>610681
Autism

No. 610687

>>610686
I genuinely think that may be it but I feel like I don’t have a lot of other symptoms or it’s just not severe enough for people to have picked up on it when I was growing up

No. 610688

>>610681
could be social anxiety and low self esteem causing you to underestimate your value to others.

No. 610690

>>610681
Sounds like an introvert to me

No. 610694

>>610681
trauma/bad experiences? low self esteem? i don't know if it could be classified as a mental illness in and of itself but if you see yourself as unimportant in general that could be it.
i mean, for years i couldn't socialize because i started interacting with people with the thought that they wouldn't want to talk to me a second time. i simply internalized all those times people told me "ew why are you talking to me" in elementary/middle school without realizing it. now i'm doing fine.

if you don't have other autistic traits or a diagnosis wouldn't help you (like if you don't freak out because a room is too noisy) you should probably work on your self esteem. and reconsider what a friendship really is, perhaps.

No. 610713

>>610665
kek i'm not a man or a redditor, i just thought the wojaks were funny. also my nice guy propaganda consists of positive traits, it's not like i'm promoting incelism or saying that gamers = good guys.

i will reflect on my typing style and meme usage before posting again. i can't believe i came off as a redditor/a robot i'm genuinely saddened & somewhat disgusted by this.

No. 610724

>>610713
are you new? it's a common insult when idiots on this board can't process opinions properly.

No. 610728

File: 1598032674846.jpg (27.53 KB, 450x282, wireless_1_20070813new__87529.…)

Is there a name for keyboards that have flat keys? Like the apple mac keyboard. I just got 1 inch nails and can't type for shit.

No. 610739

>>610728
The ghetto

No. 610746

>>610728
Those are chiclet keyboards anon!

No. 610760

>>610645
You ok anon? Has something happened recently, or have you got past trauma, or is the Covid situation getting to you? The same happened to me after I’d been in an abusive relationship for too long. If something obvious is causing this then you need to sort it out asap before it gets even harder to get back to normal

No. 610777

>>610746
thank you anon!

No. 610798

File: 1598037247650.jpeg (36.57 KB, 328x400, D3450EF4-B84C-4CA1-9154-0DAD84…)

>>610259
You can have as many stuffed toys as you want as long as you keep them clean and well displayed.

A good display can make them look actually cute/stylish and not like the room of a emotionally stunted person. So, it’s not the same throwing them all on the bed and letting them chill there, as putting them on a nice shelf or a box that fits with the decoration of the room/house.

the box is better because then you won’t have to worry about your family’s/friend’s children throwing tantrums since they will want them

No. 610809

>>609538
Thanks for this, anon. I feel the exact same way as you and it really makes me feel better knowing there are people who look for something similar in relationships. I love cuddles and kisses and want a gf who would like to spoon at night and sit on my lap but not fuck right away. It's hard to find something like that though….a lot of people get offended when you don't want to fuck them. She was really hurt and thought I didn't find her attractive. I'm considering seeing a doctor about my low libido.

No. 610816

How do you console yourself knowning you invested so much in a music band only for them to stop making good music and having to lower your standards with each album to find somethign somewhat enjoyable

No. 610820

>>609893
Should I buy in a size up what I usually buy then? Mahalo!

No. 610824

File: 1598038786593.jpg (40.99 KB, 500x500, whydoesGod.jpg)

What is a decent VPN? a lot of people recommend tor, but that doesn't change my ip address. I just want to watch Netflix in different regions

No. 610829

>>610824
uhhh yes it does…

No. 610846

>>610820
Nah i just have extra big boobs with a short torso, but the ones i have are very thick, so very sturdy so keep in mind that they won't get comfier or looser. Just ordered adidas ones for daily use though!

No. 610847

>>610824
I use nordvpn

No. 610853

>>610847
This post was sponsored by nordvpn

No. 610854

>>610660
I am pre-dating an european guy who is not a 10/10 but he's handsome and very very kind, he's vanilla af and doesn't even like anal. He hates brutal porn and is a complete nerd. He also has a big dick. But he's a bit dumb. Did I hit jackpot?

No. 610855

>>610854
Dumb is the jackpot

No. 610872

>>610854
Yep, fall for the himbo meme.

No. 610878

>>610853
Use my code for 50% off of Nordvpn internet historian voice

No. 610881

Anyone know what happened to at home miscarriage anon? I worry

No. 611049

File: 1598058694104.jpg (22.49 KB, 381x359, dbca2eef5ee13dc5520beabcbc75fd…)

Do you have a very specific taste in men/women? For me it's blond + glasses + nerdy.

No. 611050

>>611049
My tastes seem to vary depending on who I'm with. I used to have very chad-tier tastes in men, but now I like guys similar to what you described because I've exclusively dated nerdy guys for like a decade now.

No. 611053

>>611049
Idk sounds to me like you are attracted to Jeffrey Dahmer

No. 611054


No. 611061

File: 1598059985852.jpg (152.94 KB, 580x580, underdaseaa.jpg)

How old is too old for heart shaped sunglasses?
>be me in mid-late 20's
>going to a backyard wedding
>wants to wear heart shaped sunglasses but don't want to look stupid
>wearing this dress

No. 611065

>>611061
never too old! GET THOSE GLASSES ON LADY u are gonna show up everyone including the bride

No. 611067

>>611053
Jesus christ, no. I am not one of those weirdos, i like cute naive boys not degenerate assholes.

No. 611071

>>611053
NTA but I laughed so hard at this what the fuck

No. 611082

>>611067
>Jeffrey Dahmer is a degenerate asshole

No. 611083

>>611049
typically dark hair + nice and sometimes intense crazy emotional eyes

No. 611087

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No. 611089

Anons, what’s a good and cheap place to get glasses? I no longer have health insurance so I have to pay out of pocket. My glasses are falling apart lmao. I’m US based so any big chains here would be great (though I’ll even settle for online only for frames and just pay my old optometrist to get my new prescription).

No. 611092

>>611089
I would also like to know this. Also if anyone can tell me what those kinda big hipsterish looking glasses with thin frames are called I would appreciate it

No. 611095

>>611089
>>611092
Zenni optical! You just put in your prescription and you choose a pair of frames you like. They’re pretty cheap depending on what frames you choose

No. 611096


No. 611103

>>611096
O-on the inside…
>>611049
Black hair, strong silent type

No. 611121

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No. 611153

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No. 611167

File: 1598067919072.png (64.38 KB, 512x512, FFEDA707-701F-495B-8B49-CC4820…)

Anons with baby face, does it your face mature with age? Just hit 18 couple months ago and I’ve been cursed with baby face, I need some reassurance

No. 611168

>>611167
Another baby-faced bitch here, no it doesn't. But, when you get older you'll look good as fuck. Some good things have a price ya'know.

No. 611172

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No. 611173

>>611167
you have a few awkward years in front of you but then it's gonna pay off having a baby-face

No. 611178

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No. 611179

>>611168
Aw shit, that is kind of comforting at least, too bad it makes dating kind of awkward, any tips on that too? I don’t want to feel like I’m dating a pedo (been cursed with flat tits too, god really is against me smh)
>>611173 hope so, thanks anons!

No. 611180

>>611172
Fuckin kekd

No. 611181

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No. 611184

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website. does anyone else think the butler guy from jesse is hot? i think hes hot, he gets too much shit from those goddamn kids. i need an answer so badly im a bit tipsy im and i love it(sleep it off bud)

No. 611187

>>611184
Whose man is this, anon come pick up ya boo

No. 611190

>>611184
who owns the fella

No. 611191

>>611184
Anon report to lost and found please

No. 611192

>>611184
Anon go home you’re drunk

No. 611205

>>611184
who bitch is this?

No. 611231

>>611167
What's considered baby face? I always get told i look 15 but i assumed it was because i still have acne

No. 611233

>>611231
Baby faces are usually chubbier or rounder to me

No. 611261

>>611172
You know he’s got a big one

No. 611284

My girls WHAT the FUCK happened to the lolcow nerds and rejects server? I wanted to be still part of it but it's gone? I never posted anything so I wouldn't had been quicked out. pls send help

No. 611291

>>611284
It's called Lolcow Jumping And Popping now, with a pink/black icon.
I join a lot of servers and get freaked out when their names/display pics change, so try searching, you might not have been kicked.

No. 611310

anons I'm stupid as hell and cant figure out how to change the colour scheme of this site? I swear I read how to like last year but never ended up doing it and now I can't even find where I read that. I saw a screenshot in another thread where the site was all pink and I want that

No. 611314

>>611310
Scroll down to the very bottom of the page and there should be a Style option you can choose different themes from. Girltalk is best theme for sure.

No. 611336

>>611291
Nope, it's gone from my servers, but I never ever posted? I only introduced myself

No. 611338

What are anons opinions on Ashnikko? I like her "Stupid" song, it's too catchy, but honestly she's kind of grating

No. 611345

>>611338
slutty late-2000's Avril Lavigne

No. 611359

What would your rough estimate be of how many people post on this messegeboard daily?

No. 611360

>>611359
Like 3
The tranny hater
The girl larper
Bpd pickme

No. 611367


No. 611369

>>611345
That's an offense against Avril honestly

>>611338
Some of the music production on her songs are great, but she comes off a bit try-hard for me. I find the way she chooses to do her vocals grating most of the time as you said but I think she has potential though.

No. 611371

>>611369
early 2000's avril was tolerable, but 2007-onwards avril is every bit as grating as ashnikko

No. 611373

My cat crawled under my blanket to suck my toes. Am I'm in the crazy cat lady olympus yet?

No. 611375

>>611360
And which one of those is you, handicap?

No. 611379

>>611359
Around 50 maybe, across all the boards, the cow ones included.

No. 611384

>>611371
I guess I can see that, but I'd still say Avril's later discography would be deemed grating etc. in a much more digestible way by most people than Ashnikko's music and aesthetic.

No. 611385

>>611375
I'm the retard

No. 611427

>>611338
Pretty good aesthetic sometimes (I like all the anime and goth/punk influence), but mostly bland music. I did like "Cry" and her evil laugh in "Manners", though.
There's this whole rash of "alt" musicians signed to big record companies that are only really alt in appearance. I know it's nothing particularly new, but it always kind of makes me roll my eyes, and they all have the same sort f "image". They're all pretending they ERP on Second Life, VRChat, IMVU, etc right now and put avatars from it in their music videos, kek. It'd be cool if they did something experimental with their music, but most of them play it pretty safe.
Since 100 gecs has blown up, I already know their underwhelming-ass mixing will be the "official tru-alt sound" for a while, too. It's all just so lame.

No. 611430

>>611359
75-100

No. 611441

Can anyone recommend a good microphone / headset with a mic? My headsets mic is broken now.

No. 611442

>>611441
What’s your budget?

No. 611468

>>611359
Such a hard question. I just now realised how weird it is that we don’t know how many different people we’re actually talking to. I’d guess something between 30 and 50 people across all boards but idk.

No. 611471

Why do troons hate detrans people?

No. 611475

>>611471
Because they are outliers in the troon agenda- they are proof that transitioning isn’t always the solution and this gets agp fetish troons mad.

No. 611476

>>611471
because their existence shows some people do regret it, so performing irreversible surgeries and giving body altering hormones to people (especially children) is a bad move.

No. 611482

>>611442
I wouldn't want to spend more than 40-50 EU on it tbh.

No. 611504

Why do alt right scrotes hate Islam? You’d think the values of the religion would appeal to them since it’s essentially the same things they believe already.

No. 611505

>>611504
Not all of them do. A few months ago "/IIRAW/" (Islam Is Right About Women) general threads were pretty common on /pol/. They agree with how women are treated in that religion, at least.

No. 611507

How do you dump a friend who hasn't been toxic, but because they have a different idea of what friendship entails/different needs? I'm not a clingy friend by any means- I understand people aren't glued to their phones. But not having energy/time to reply instantly is different from ignoring someone but replying to other people.

No. 611514

>>611504
Because of military propaganda people think Islam is the religion of terrorists. It's xenophobia.

No. 611520

>>611507
ignore them back. they don't seem to care about you. no need to "dump" someone who won't notice you even stopped texting.

No. 611579

>>611504
alt-right people view anyone who is non-white as being inferior and since most Muslims have brown/olive skin, they believe Muslims must also be stopped, even if they have similar views on certain issues

No. 611600

What is the worst thing you could be outed for? do you think being outed for using lolcow is a thing?

I think no one likes how transphobic I am

No. 611601

Can psychologists diagnose themselves?

No. 611604

>>611601
I think they can see traits of themselves in some illnesses (many psichologists do indeed study this field because they are a bit fucked up) but go to another psychologist for an official diagnosis

No. 611614

Is it a bad idea for me to join the army/navy? I’m from the UK if that makes a difference.

No. 611623

>>611600
I would definitely lose a ton of my friends if they found out how transphobic I was. I don't think being outed for using lolcow would be as big of a deal as if you were outed for, say, having an account on KiwiFarms or something.

No. 611633

>>611614
Honestly, it's up to you, but as someone who has friends in the army and parents who were in it, I would err on the side of caution signing up as a woman. I am UK based too and some of the stories I have heard of how women can be treated by other squaddies is disheartening. Obviously it doesn't apply to everyone there, but a close friend of mine told me women are commonly sexually abused due to there being a high volume of men around, hormones raging and being away from home making it a cocktail for disaster. He said some of them made it a competition to drug and assault as many of the women on base as possible, which to me is just abhorrent. My dad had said similar, and he started back in the late 70s. My friend left 2 years ago and hasn't looked back. You'll learn some amazing things there, travel the world, but as a woman, I would always have massive reservations about being surrounded by so many young and lonely men. It sounds like a lads club.

No. 611634

>>611520
I think I needed to hear this push, lol. Thanks. I was worried because she has whined to me about abandonment issues before, ironically enough.

No. 611658

>>611633
Thanks anon. I thought as much. I’m kind of desperate so it looks pretty attractive to me right now but damn are there tonnes of downsides.

No. 611714

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How do I display my plushies in a way that looks acceptable/ aesthetically pleasing? I have a bunch on lalafan plushies on the way but idk where to actually put them

No. 611729

>>611714
Lined up on a simple floating shelf painted your color of choice

No. 611755

Do anal orgasms exist?

No. 611758

>>611755
No, only men have g spots in their anuses. Tis nothing but a porn meme.

No. 611761

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Do I need to eat meat to feel / look my best??

No. 611767

>>611755
As in can you have an orgasm from anal? Sure. There's a ton of nerve endings in the butt. It's not common though and women usually need clit stimulation in addition to actually get off from anal.

No. 611776

>>611658
You could maybe go but go into more of a female oriented side like comms or medicine/animal handling but I'd avoid general or engineering. You'll find something.

No. 611786

Gonna ask again but are 24 year old virgins at a higher risk of becoming pedophiles?

No. 611788

>>611761
not if you're getting protein otherwise, anon.

No. 611791

>>611786
Are you asking for a friend, anon?

No. 611792

Starting a lit degree soon, how fucked are my job prospects anons?

No. 611793

Has anyone had the covid test? How uncomfortable is it?

No. 611794

>>611792
I mean if you have useful, marketable skills other than being able to read literature then you're good

No. 611796

What is the "Lite" option on here?

No. 611798

>>611786
the porn i watch

No. 611799

>>611792
Pretty good if you're open to use that degree for other jobs, not just lit. If you soley want to get into lit-related jobs then you're going to have a hard time.

No. 611800

>>611786
I'm pretty sure you're born as a pedophile, not just suddenly become one after hitting a certain age

No. 611805

How do I stop my prejudice against white people getting to full on unapologetic racism?

I hate that this is happening to me, it's disgusting but I would like to know how other anons keep their shit in check?

No. 611808

>>611805
I mean what kind of prejudice are you having? If it's just making white jokes or whatever it's really not racism. Also, as long as you're aware your thoughts are wrong it won't ever get to the point of unapologetic racism.

No. 611830

>>611805
prejudice =/= racism. you have every right as a poc to feel prejudiced against them. the problem is them not you

No. 611841

Why are marginalised people now using the term ‘bodies’ as in ‘disabled/trans/black bodies’? Genuine question as they’re usually fighting to be seen as more than their physical forms so this seems backwards?

No. 611850

>>611841
nta it just seems like new age-y academic terminology being used by only a handful of college professor types. i go to a small liberal arts school where a lot of the talk around race (specifically) involves the term "bodies" but most actual people of color i come into contact with don't use it

No. 611851

>>611841
because libfems are retarded and don't know what their ideology is because it's based on feelings

No. 611852

>>611841
I think that term was popularized by postmodern academics but I’m not sure

No. 611869

>>611841
I think it was to emphasise/distinguish when something is being done that is physically violent or causes physical bodily harm

No. 611877

>>611841
It's a way of enforcing a mind/body duality. It's to separate the brain from he body. Hence why trannie try to match their body to their mental image of themselves instead of those things being innately entwined. It's probably racism to a degree as well, the bodies may be brown, but the minds are as human as whites.
Get ready because this is just the start of decline of language and denial of reality

No. 611889

What are some websites that are good for/specialise in the buying and selling of second-hand plushies?

No. 611891

>>611877
It’s not the ‘start’ of anything. People have been crying about a ‘decline in language’ pretty much as long as we’ve had language.

No. 611894

Ok but is shipping Jesus Christ and Mary Magdalene a offence against religious feelings?

No. 611908

>>611791
Worried for myself. I’m not a pedo but I’m scared I’ll become one because by the time I’ll date in my 30s for the first time all the men I’ll start meeting are hairy balding uggos.

Don’t tell me 30 year olds are hot ew.

No. 611909

>>611800
When I say pedo I didn’t mean pedo. Not even onision pedo because who likes 16 year olds. Just men my age and a bit younger (but 20 and up but even 20 would be ewww nvm).

No. 611910

>>611908
how is being attracted to men in their late teens and 20s being a pedo? I'm 28 but most guys my age are not as hot as 18 year olds

No. 611913

>>611910
Idk. I wouldn’t like it if an 18 year old started dating a 30 year old. And I know right?! Old men are so meh. I lost my youth…

No. 611915

>>611908
You don’t sound pedophilic but you do sound emotionally stunted and kind of like those incel type men who are like 28 but want to date 18 year olds because they’re ‘hotter’ and because they feel like they’re entitled to what they missed out on or east someone to control etc, but obviously if it’s just a few years there would be nothing wrong with that. Why are you waiting until you’re 30 to date?

No. 611920

>>611915
>>611915
No never an 18 year old eeww. But i just don’t like men in their 30s, i would settle with a guy my age who eventually becomes 30 just fine ofc i got used to it. What’s the minimum age that’s acceptable for a gal my age? And age maximum since i feel i tend to be unpredictable despite my hate for old fucks?

>emotionally stunted

Yes that’s why i asked if i’m gonna be a pedo or pedoish incel.

To answer your question, I need to work on myself. Maybe I’ll be 26 when I find the right one who knows. I just won’t be young.

No. 611921

>>611913
There is a difference between feeling as if the average 18 year old is more attractive than the average 28 year old and dating an 18 year old over someone in your age cohort. Yeah lots of 18 year old guys are hot but that doesn’t mean dating them is a good idea.

No. 611924

>>611921
so you're 25 now? I would say its socially acceptable to date a 20 year old guy

No. 611926

>>611920
A difference of 5-6 years is broadly acceptable to most people IME. It’s not too weird to be 30 dating a 25 year old.

No. 611928

>>611920
It’s hard because I feel like to some extent it does depend on the person and where they are in life. Personally I think it becomes a lot less weird when people are like 22+ and have finished college and are generally more experienced and independent but obviously I would still side eye someone if they’re like decades older wanting to date a 22 year old

No. 611932

>>611924
Oh I’m not that anon I was just replying to another person. I would agree with you that 20 and 25 is not a worrisome age gap. My boyfriend is 3 years younger than me for example.

No. 611935

It's funny how men invented 'the wall' for women, when in reality we feel the exact same about them. I honestly agree with the other anon, men over 30 look like shit

No. 611937

>>611935
Yeah I’ve always thought that. The only people who think they age better is them so unless incels are planning to date each other I don’t get why they think it’s going to help them.

No. 611938

>>611928
asking for a friend now, what if they’re 30 and in college?

No. 611946

>>611938
a 30 year old man in college? uhhhhh find a better man?

No. 611952

>>611908
I became a pedo in my 30s. I still find the same kind of guys I found cute at 18-23 now. Would never date someone under the age of 18. If I find a young guy who likes me I always give him his space though, I never try to force anything on him or make him uncomfortable or try to control him/hold him down.

No. 611953

>>611946
Don’t bully him kudosai, take those words back even, he’s not my boyfriend but I care deeply for him.

No. 611954

>>611946
This is retarded and so are you. I'd rather date a man who is working to better himself in his 30s than one who is going to struggle moving anywhere in life because he didn't go at 18.

No. 611956

>>611946
wtf? this is pretty shitty to say.

No. 611960

>>611954
I don't care for them but this so hard, never talk shit about people starting school at an older age.

No. 611961

>>611956
How? Unless he has a good reason thats a major red flag, at least for me

No. 611963

>>611954
>>611956
>>611960
I love you girls. Thank you! I’ll be sure to show my friend these posts.

No. 611965

>>611961
But are you a perfect rich barbie doll? If not then lower the bar?

No. 611968

>>611961

It's a major life decision and I think a lot of people would be better off waiting a few years before going so they can figure out what they want to do. Plus it's expensive.

What do you think, because he didn't go at 18 he should never go? So you just believe where you are < 22 is where you should stay in life? A red flag would be him making fun of OP for going/not going to college or asking her to pay. Taking classes himself is not a red flag, i don't think you know wtf you're talking about.

No. 611974

>>611968
don't listen to that cow, you sound like you have a good heart

No. 611977

>>611961
Idk you seem like a person who wouldn't find any reason good enough so what the fuck am I fighting with you for. Talk shit about people who ard actually trying, idc.

No. 611984

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are collagen drinks a meme?

No. 611988

>>611952
It’s not pedophilic to find a 23 year old man attractive, not even an 18 year old. The hyperbole is too much.

No. 611989

>>611984
those ones probably are, but apparently some teas like hibiscus tea have been proven to increase collagen

No. 611990

>>611984
yes. collagen is digested like protein when you ingest it. you need to induce your own body's growth through other methods like dermarolling (before anyone mentions, no the body doesn't have a finite amount of collagen, it can produce as much or little as it needs)

No. 611992

>>611984
There is actually some interesting evidence in their favor. In any case it’s much cheaper to buy your own collagen powder and mix it into drinks and carefully observe any positive difference in skin, hair, nails or joint quality. Done this way I think it’s cheap enough to be worth trying.

No. 611995

>>611988
This wtf. I had a one night stand with a 22 year old when I was 30, I'm not a pedo

No. 611997

>>611992
ingesting collagen doesn't actually do anything but like >>611989 said certain foods can increase it naturally.

No. 612002

I don't mind men over 30 in general, my problem is balding. If a man is 40 but still has hair he can be attractive, but a 28 year old guy who is balding looks so bad imo

No. 612004

>>611992
This might be interesting, the tldr is that some peptides aren’t completely digested and are able to still have a positive effect.
https://pubs.acs.org/doi/10.1021/acs.jafc.6b05679

No. 612005

>>611995
>>611988
this. i am 31 and seeing a 20 year old. we are both adults so i will date or bang whoever i want.

No. 612007

>>611984
Ive used collagen hydrolysate powder years ago in my coffee before and had noticeable results. iirc you won’t get results from certain kinds of collagen but honestly i don’t know anymore. I just remember reading convincing evidence about it & it worked

No. 612010

>>612004
One more https://www.mdpi.com/1422-0067/19/10/3059/htm

I think it’s cheap enough to warrant trying it.

No. 612011

>>612002
same, don't care about age but no tolerance policy on balding

No. 612097

>>611793
The first time worse for me. It felt ticklish but also annoying pokey and I sneezed while the doc was poking around. It was a bit painful but it's over in 2 secs. When I left the facility to go back home, I could still feel the probing effect behind my eyes and it only subsided the next morning. Second time was a lot better though. It was less painful and there wasn't a painful afterglow.

No. 612134

>>611336
>>611284
i think i just got deleted from it too? i have no idea what i did. i hope people didn't think i'm a troon…i'm just a nail stylist…

No. 612155

I usually hate the body positivity movement and think their ideas regarding 'bodies who are naturally disposed to store fat' were dumb, until recently, though I'm far from accepting screeching landwhales. I've started considering their more moderate ideas since I've become 1.9kg away from being underweight, yet I still have a non-flat stomach and fat ass thighs , to the point where most people wouldn't realise I'm almost underweight (I'm trying to eat more though) and I sorta felt bad since I'm a banana body type and the only redeeming quality of my body was my waist, which wasn't really that small compared to the rest of my proportions. Has anyone else experienced this?

No. 612156

Have we had any fashion/makeup trends this year? I thought quarantine and the vogue cover thing would make people come up with some stuff but I really haven't seen anything except for the strawberry dress.

No. 612160

>>612134
>>611291
>>611284
I got kicked too :/ my username was rosemary. no idea why

No. 612161

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>>612155
That probably means most of your body weight is fat not muscle anon, thats the classic skinnyfat out of shape body, im underweight (not an anachan, it just happened) and sedentary as fuck and i look like a weird stubby marshmellow on the stomach and thighs and weirdly skeletal on the limbs.

The solution is to Hit the Gym but alas im lazy.

>>612160
I got deleted from it too :(
Im wondering if the server got nuked or somenthing.

No. 612165

>>612161
>>612160
well as long as it's not just me! this sucks though, but i feel a bit better.

No. 612167

I know all the crying cat memes are edited to have the same face, but is there a possibility that there's an original crying cat out there? Has the cat been treated (because I hear cats aren't meant to cry, and if they do cry, it's because they have an eye infection)?

No. 612170

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>>612167
This is the original crying cat, its a baby kitten.

I think alot of really young kittens have watery eyes and runny noses, most of my cats had that crying face as babies (less than three months).

No. 612188

Favorite Spice Girls song?

No. 612199

>>612188
Say You'll Be There

No. 612205

>>612188
Too Much

No. 612264

>>612170
holy crap, i had no idea that was an actual kittens face! kek i thought it was human eyes photoshopped onto a cat

No. 612295

>>612188
"2 become 1" because I was 11/12 at the time and groomed by pop music. My other 4 Catholic schoolmates all were into it, but they made me be Scary Spice bc I was the weird one.

No. 612315

>>612295
scary spice best spice

No. 612322

Can somebody explain vtubers to me? What do they even DO? What is the appeal? How the hell did this trend start? Please educate me.

No. 612323

>>612322
they're basically streamers that appeal to anime coomers with no brain. you get a cute character and stream using a face rig so the viewers just watch the kawaii anime girl and hear your uwu voice. some of them do other shit like singing or "dancing" but it's really dumb escapism shit.

No. 612328


No. 612372

>>612322
Jp/CN VRtubers are paid actors who are playing a character with 3d model or 2d facerig on YouTube, are fully aware of that, memeing about it, doing 4th wall from time to time and are just out there vibing while keeping it professional because they can't fuck up otherwise they'll be gone. They also got agents that are telling them what to say/not say or do during stream. Their characters also always got a nice backstory which they play off.

However, western ones jumped on a trend but they do not know nor understand shit what VRtubers actually are. All they do is make an uwu-avatar, fake high pitched voice and pretend to be "not like the other girls" or a loli, while always arguing with people, screaming that their voice is real and they are defo like that IRL!11 Western VRtuber community is toxic and petty as fuck, they had and still have many problems but can't deal with them because they are too scared to lose their 15 minutes of fame and are too busy kissing eachothers asses for clout (they had a pedo and some other scammer vrtuber both of which had pages filled with proofs for months and everyone were aware of that and admitted it, but they all were too scared to start witchhunting with everyone until one of big people spoke out.

No. 612373

>>612372
lol no. not at all.

No. 612376

>>612373
Hf living your lies♡

No. 612378

>>612376
japanese vtubers are definitely doing the same trend hopping cringy shit you disgusting weeb. every japanese letsplay channel is doing that crap. quit with the cope.

No. 612380

>>612155
To add to what other anon said, while you probably are skinnyfat you’re also close to underweight so it can’t be that bad. Sounds like you need to work on your head. Women are predisposed to have a significant body fat percentage, without a shit ton of exercise or the right genetics you’re always going to have a good amount of fat unless you’re super underweight

I understand the feeling though, I’m a similar size but look healthy-slim. While I don’t want to be seen as anachan it’s kinda annoying that I’m viewed as so different to people who are only a few lbs lighter?

Your bone structure might be part of the issue too. Skeletons vary in size - not so much they’d make you a landwhale but enough to be obvious when you’re skinny. My hip bones are proportionally big so I’ll never be tiny and I can’t wear longline bras because my ribs don’t go as narrow as they apparently should

Even if you go down the gym route, it’ll do you good to sort your head out

No. 612381

>>612378
Why am I a weeb all of the sudden? Of course they are pandering to otakus and muh disgusting weebs, but westerns are nothing but pretentious-chans who are chasing the trend for clout, while actual VRtubers are doing their job in pandering well, rather than the same old LilyPichu wannabes that vent on "guiz im so tierd!! Stop telling me im usin voicechanger is mmi reel voice >.<" and making up dramas while all of them are looking like the same pinkhaired catgirls.

No. 612402

Are 50.000 Euro/year enough to support two people?

No. 612408

>>612402
depends on country, eurozone has very varying gdps

No. 612409

>>612372
This. People really are oblivious to the fact that the VRtuber industry in Japan is professionally run and often have high production values because there's a fucking team working behind them. They're not just random people who grab a 3D model and start making youtube videos. VRtubers in the west on the other hand are average Joes too addicted to the clout and instead of playing a character they're just themselves but with a 3D anime avatar.

No. 612410

>>612408
Ok, I'm in the Netherlands

No. 612448

>>612402
50k after taxes? how old are the people? is one of them a child and the other one a parent? it could support two adults in the most expensive euro countries if you lived extremely cheaply. don't recommend it though.

No. 612467

File: 1598185605377.jpeg (133.66 KB, 992x686, 37A4859D-F749-4014-A4F4-7D8D34…)

What does N2F means? I tried googling it but I only get stock market stuff.

No. 612468

>>612410
>>612448
50k a year for two adults isn't enought to rent, especially in cities. they just won't take your application because they want 3000+ euros per person a month, and even more if you don't have a guarantor.
but even in the country side, you'd have to count every cent you spend.

>>612467
nourish2flourish. the ana-chan who makes gross plates of sweet food.

No. 612483

>>612468
How are 50k not much…? That's over 2k per person per month, I live in an expensive country and know plenty of people who only make 1200 or couples there only one person works and those people still make do.

No. 612485

It is normal to feel creepy for obsessing over a thing? A movie, a game, a band, a person, etc. I've always felt like shit if I obsessed over a piece of media for a bit, I never knew why.
If I want to look something up related to the media im obsessing over I have to use at least an incognito tab, I think I seem like a freak to myself whenever I just want to consume so much of one thing.

No. 612486

>>612485
Not at all, as long as you don't become delusional about the 'greatness' of that thing. When I was a teenager I became obsessed with Kurt Cobain to the point where I didn't even think of him as a human, which is obviously ridiculous. A while ago I saw a post on reddit of some girl who believed she personally knew John Lennon irl even though he's been dead for decades, thats when it gets bad

No. 612489

>>612468
Wtf, where do you live? I get it if you live in Berlin or Amsterdam or something, but in most cities they don't "want 3000+ Euros per person a month".

No. 612494

>>612468
Wtf? I live in the most expensive city in Europe, possibly the world, and make the equivalent of 3100€/month, I also rent. My annual salary is way under 50k, it's plenty for just me and I could easily support my bf too. I used to have a shit job too and even then it wasn't that hard. Had no issues finding a place either, I still live in my old flat that I got back then and I even have a dog.

No. 612496

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Are these any good? I tried the dragon tea monsters and they were gross so I’m wary of any others

No. 612500

>>612496
all ultra monsters are sugar and calorie free, they taste pretty odd because of sweetener. i like the dark blue ultra and the white

No. 612501

>>612156
I think the new trend is basically y2k fashion

No. 612502

what's the name of the handsome nazis again?
also don't laugh but i need to know if someone made a fancam of them on twitter or somewhere

No. 612509

>>612496
too sweet

No. 612522

>>612502
Lmao, anon, I'm fucking rolling.
What do you mean? The real life nazis, or the movie nazis?

No. 612532

>>612496
seconding ultra over normal ones, ultra sunshine is basically fanta so if you liek that it should be alright. monster hydro is a flat, less flavoured version so you may like that one too.

No. 612551

>>612160
>>612134
Sorry for kicking you guys. Some autistic server tried to badly raid us last night so we kicked a lot of new member. You're welcome to join again in a few days, we just need to air the retardation out of the server. Discord really knows how to connect the right people.

No. 612572

Would you suck a dick to get a promotion (with better pay) at work?
I honestly would.

No. 612576

>>612572
No because that's retarded. If my boss expected me to I could just report him to HR, and if he's important enough for them to keep me quiet and I play my cards right I could get a paycheck and potentially a secure employment.

No. 612577

>>612576
I want to fuck my boss anyway so yes

No. 612583

>>612156
Here its been: lavender in spring or summer, thick soled sneakers and boots, y2k, cottagecore or tradthot, anime or designer masks by cutting up a designer item, birkenstock, and so many short beach wave hair cuts
they are either popular by how much ive seen it or how fast they sell within my area

No. 612584

>>612572
No but I did have a really handsome lady boss once. If eating her pussy got me a promotion I would do it.

No. 612591

>>612572
of course, why would I turn down the opportunity to use a scrote for my personal gain?

No. 612594

>>612572
suck that dick and secure the bag

No. 612613

Would this be considered intrusive thoughts?
Whenever I try to imagine vanilla sexual scenarios in my head to get horny, it always turns to me imagining myself getting beaten, shot, dismembered and other violent things happening to me, and it always turns my mood sour, obviously. And so I don't even get try to get horny or wet anymore, I just rub myself to the thought of random things like what I'm gonna eat later or things I need to do, because if I start thinking about sexual things I know it will devolve into that. Is there anyway I can fix this brain shortcircuiting? Why does this happen? I have gotten assaulted but it wasn't violent so I just don't know why it happens.

No. 612618

>>612591
Sucking dick is the opposite of using a scrote, you're giving him what he wants.

No. 612619

>>612613
>Would this be considered intrusive thoughts?
I think so. It could be that you have extremely low self-confidence, are suicidal, or you're ashamed about your sexuality. Or maybe you've leared to associate pain with pleasure because you were abused. Maybe you partake in some destructive behaviors.
There could be many factors at play here, and I'm no sexologist or anything, so I'm just throwing out possibilities.

No. 612622

Has anyone here given up coffee and noticed any real difference in terms of anxiety?

No. 612628

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Are those sunrise alarms worth the money? If any anons have one, which model do you have or which would you recommend?

No. 612641

>>612628

I have a Lumie bodyclock something or other (the cheapest model) and I really rate it. I still have a noise alarm as a backup too but the light wakes me up in a much less traumatic way.

No. 612645

Has anyone read The Female Eunuch by Germaine Greer? Is it good/relevant?

No. 612654

Does anyone know how to get cigarettes when you're under the age limit? also not under 18, they raised the limit to 21

No. 612655

>>612654
Bum them off people from the street/at concerts if you have them in your country nowadays.

No. 612656

>>612654
ask someone who is over 21?

No. 612657

>>612622
I gave up coffee for the past two months because the heat is too much to have a hot cup of coffee and my anxiety is the same as it was when I drank coffee.

No. 612659

>>612618
giving him what he wants and getting something in return. depends on your priorities but to me getting a promotion and salary increase is way more valuable than him getting his dick sucked once

No. 612667

>>612654
uhhh just dont do it i think thats the best and most simple option

No. 612668

>>612667
get outta here buzzkill

No. 612671

Is still being in college at 25 tragic? I feel so depressed because I'm still in school, I just want to move out and get on with life. I feel so old even though I'm not that much older than the other students in my class

No. 612672

>>612671
No, please don’t feed into that bullshit.

No. 612677

>>612671
You're just doing shit in a slightly different timeline, don't feel bad for educating yourself anon ily

No. 612686

>>612671
I knew plenty of 25+ year olds who started college later in life and genuinely no one else cared except a very few irrelevant assholes.

You're fine anon, it's better later when you're mature and motivated than never at all.

No. 612691

>>612654
Pay the hobos that hang out behind the shop to get them for you or ask creepy looking guys who look like they'd love to get you drunk and they'll definitely get you those. Just pick one that looks weak and shy so they won't try to bother you.

No. 612692

>>612654
>>612691
I mean - assuming you're desperate and really don't have older friends to get them for you.

No. 612719

any anons that work from home got chair recommendations? i work 12 hour shifts in front of a computer and my current chair is just a stool with no back, so i’m hunched over all day and have gotten back pain bc of it… i’m thinking of getting a gaming chair since they look comfortable

No. 612725

>>612671
No it’s not!! Like other anon said, the only people who care are the few assholes (or people who have too much time on their hands- as a college student I was struggling to stay afloat and on top of my own shit, the age of some rando student in my class is the last thing on my mind kek). I’ve been in class with plenty of older people (like in their 50s and shit) and no one ever cared about their age. I think when I first saw it as a freshman I was like “oh, an older student” but then as time went on I stopped caring because you get used to the sight.

No. 612726

>>612719
Gaming chairs legit are comfortable, I have a Secret Lab's Omega which is really good but pretty pricey. In the office we have MARKUS chairs from Ikea, they're pretty comfortable too and definitely less expensive.

No. 612731

>>612671
These questions are so weird to me because it's like, what do you think about 25+ people in class? Do you look down on them for daring to better themselves over age 20? I would never judge someone learning at any age, only respect them, and I assume any decent person would feel the same. I can't see where the insecurity would come from unless you think poorly of mature age students…

No. 612734

>>612731
it has nothing to do with what other students think of me, I don't care about that. It has more to do with my own self worth. I feel like such a fuck up to still be at this stage in my life. I'm just angry with myself all the time

No. 612736

If you’re a farmer who’s tarded enough to infight with others on the threads, do you do it out of fun or are you seriously aggravated?

When I do it, I kind of feel like it’s back and forth banter with a homie. I like having the types of friendship where we argue and call each other retard or homo for sport, but some anon responses make me wonder what others consider too far.

No. 612751

>>612736
I get disappointed when other anons think I'm actually mad. I hear all the time already that "women can't banter" but I just wanna be able to make fun of y'all sometimes… because some of y'all deserve it

No. 612759

>>612736
lolcow's slowness makes banter less enjoyable imo. Plus if you get burned the thread doesn't just disappear in hours but you have to endure seeing it at least in the catalog for days if not weeks lol

No. 612762

Have anons been just generally shittier to each other the last few weeks or am I tripping

No. 612766

>>612759
That is hilarious. Some of these threads are basically museums where my butthurt is on display

No. 612769

>>612762
they have and my god am i tired of the weight/age/height sperging when a thin anon pisses off a bigger anon or tall insecure anons say all medium-short women 'brag' about their height
cant we just coexist we're all retards posting on here

No. 612771

How common is it for men to think that viewing porn/ being a porn addict is a personality trait or a substitute for a personality?

No. 612778

>>612769
That's what i was thinking, bums me the fuck out, just fucking behave.

No. 612781

>>612771
Many men spend more time watching porn than socializing so why wouldn't it be a part of their personality

No. 612786

>>612769
most men try to hide their porn watching habits as much as possible, especially around women.

No. 612787

>>612778
shut up mom i'll post how i want

No. 612789

>>612787
You are like so enduring

No. 612792

I wish I was good at math but I never really tried in school so I have poor foundational knowledge. Are there any good sources for people like me?

No. 612793

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No. 612795

>>612522
the real life nazis

No. 612805

>>612792
khan academy would probably help

No. 612823

>>612795
Ntayrt, but those are usually known as murderers.

No. 612848

Ok but unironically, how does one become hackerman?

No. 612870

Are all guys who like getting pegged secretly gay? What’s the verdict?

No. 612871

Previous question made me think: If my bf and I both acknowledge a hot guy in our presence is he secretly gay? Usually we make eye contact and wiggly eyebrows. Though truly hot men are so few and far between. We do it a lot with hot women too.

I mentioned this to one of my friends and she was like THAT'S A RED FLAG but I've always found it cute and silly.

No. 612876

>>612870
Maybe. They might dump you to ~experiment~, speaking from experience. Unless you're into wearing strap-ons, I'd steer clear.

>>612871
Your friend is dumb. You don't have to be gay to acknowledge attractiveness.

No. 612881

>>612823
theyre specifically called nazis because they are a member of the National Socialist German Workers' Party. not all murderers fall in the historical definition of a nazi, moron

No. 612886

>>612848
Be a giant loser

No. 612888

>>612486
Kurt Cobain was the patron saint for teenage girls who wanted to kill themselves, a nod to you anon. What was the fav song that would make you curl up and cry in your room?

No. 612911

What do you do when a site detects adblock? is there an undetectable one?

No. 613035

My cat is coughing once a day but nothing comes out. I first thought she just throws up. She doesn't make any sounds while breathing and is totally normal and fit otherwise. Should I be worried?

No. 613046

>>613035
Your cat has covid

No. 613052

>>613046
Oh shit nigga. Next question: who sells super small face masks?

No. 613054

>>613052
There’s a market for everything.

In all seriousness, one of our cats has some serious allergies. Poor guy is always sniffing like a human, he’s even lost his little meow recently. Every time we’ve taken him to the vet they’ve told us he just has a little kitty cold. If it’s one cough a day, and she’s not heaving all over the place or vomiting/ refusing to eat or drink I’d wait a little bit to take her in.

No. 613067

>>612795
you're probably looking for Joachim Peiper

No. 613093

>>612888
Something in the Way

No. 613096

I know that employment in North-American countries is always preceded by a 'background check'. What does this mean? I'm a Eurofag and in my country they just ask for the results of a health checkup and the copy of your degree and that's it

No. 613109

Anyone else struggles with no feelings? It was like that my whole life maybe except my childhood. With feelings I mean that sensations coming thru your body.

No. 613112

>>613109
Could you be alexithymic? I've struggled with a similar sensation since puberty, something like a total inability to feel strong or compelling emotion, but I'm autistic and that's not uncommon with us.

No. 613113

When does representation become stereotyping?
For example, I recently wrote a short story about a first generation american from a family of mexican inmigrants, and even though I based everything about the character and her background from real shared experiences by mexican-americans, I still wonder if it was an ignorant stereotype

No. 613116

Are online degrees looked down upon by employers?

No. 613117

>>613113
If the characters you wrote are too simplistic and one-dimensional there are chances they'll be unintentional stereotypes. Do you have any Mexican or Mexican-American friends who could give you their opinions?

No. 613118

>>613109
Yes. I don’t know if I’ve ever genuinely loved/liked someone. In a way I do, but it just doesn’t feel like how people describe it.

Also, unrelated to the anon I answered. I need advice. it’s not really a stupid question, but at the same time it is.

My ex-friend is posting very violent pictures, gifs and videos on tumblr. I know he hate me because of a previous issue. And a week ago I saw him in the city, after that he started posting online about killing people. About death, violence, revenge, hatred and such.

This man has threatened with deadly violence before, usually wears knives, has mental issues (actual diagnosis). Because of this, I’m genuinely scared of being attacked by him.
Should I contact the police or some type of doctor, and give them an anonymous tip?
I’m scared he’ll either hurt me or his ex-gf.

No. 613134

>>613118
>>613112
Good to know I'm not the only one. Just want to tell you there is hope. My feelings are slowly crawling back into my body.

No. 613150

Anons who have gone through a psychotic episode, what is it like?

No. 613154

Do people actually enjoy kpop fancams/watch them unironically?

No. 613161

>>612881
>not getting the joke

No. 613163

>>613150
Not a classic psychosis. They told me it was psychosis-like but I didn't told them everything. I was super confused and everything was threatening. I also put too much meanings into things and thought they were signs. Sometimes I looked into a mirror and saw myself as a portrait for example the girl with the earring or how it's called. I was never religious but I saw religious signs everywhere. I was in a psych ward with other loonies (the psychosis was ultimately triggered there btw, wrote that in another thread) and one always watched me. Someday he looked at me and started crying and asked if I believe in God. I was sure he saw the holy Mary in me. Or I walked outside and felt all the power in the nature, I looked at a dog and it broke free from its leash. I felt like a witch. I had crazy dreams. I also thought they were signs. Once I dreamt of a burning woman and I was sure I felt all the pain of all women of all time. Thats the reason I'm no longer a pickme and value women much more now kek

No. 613164

>>613150
No fun and legitimately dissociative. Like what else are you looking for?

No. 613175

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What is the "I" in lgbtiq?

No. 613177

>>613175
intersex, which google could have also told you

No. 613187

>>613177
I thought farmers would give some funny answers. You're one of the boring ones.

No. 613189

>>613187
ask a funnier question next time sweaty

No. 613192

>>613187
Okay dumbass

No. 613204

>>613163
That last sentence is fucking me up kek, good for you anon. Sorry you've had to deal with such mental states, i wish you peace for your future and good food

No. 613210

>>613067
yes!! thank you!!

No. 613212

>>613210
he killed American POWs by the way. kind of fucked that you find him hot in any capacity

No. 613221

>>613212
….ok.. didnt know physical attraction isnt extraneous to the human's actions.. also fuck americans lmao

No. 613227

>>613067
He’s hot but I’m too untermensch for him rip

No. 613230

>>613096
Usually it's to check if you have a criminal record.

No. 613238

>>613067
Fuck, anon, why?

my nazi uniform fetish will never die

No. 613246

Has anyone here read Dune? I kind of want to read it before the movie comes out but apparently its boring as fuck on account of everyone except scrotes

No. 613247

>>613246
Grimes liked the series a lot, and her first album was based on it. Make of that what you will.

No. 613248

>>613246
I started reading but got tired after 50 pages because of all of the random lore you have to get into starting on page 1.

No. 613260

You know how men have media that they say ‘women will never understand’. What books/movies ect would you consider the female equivalent?

No. 613263

>>613260
Fleabag

No. 613269

>>613260
As far as music goes, Bjork. I don't think I know any other music that captures the experience as raw and purely, over the span of decades (specifically a 12-year marriage ending in two kids and a divorce), of romance from the perspective of a female partner.

No. 613271

>>613260
I always found those posts so ridiculous. Just because I'm not a mentally ill moid who relates to fucking Travis Bickle doesn't mean I don't understand Taxi Driver

No. 613273

>>613260
Broad City

No. 613274

>>613271
Well said, anon. You’re great.

No. 613278

>>613271
It's for fun, anon, relax.

No. 613280

>>613260
Unironically, Twilight

No. 613288

>>613260
Uhh the bird animation, bertie and tuca or something

No. 613290

>>613271
Kek anon, I love you.

No. 613292

>>613260
OP here, would you guys consider the bell jar part of this or do i just connect with it so much because i’m mentally ill

No. 613301

>>613260
Maborosi, its a japanese movie

No. 613305

>>613238
ayrt and I used to be you, until I went to enough ww2 battle recreations and saw many a fat fuck wear them and think they're hot shit.
But really, just let yourself be horny, as long as you don't actually become/fuck a literal nazi, lmao.

No. 613306

>>613260
Hole's Live Through This, Carol Joyce Oates' Blonde

No. 613307

>>613035
Could be a hairball in her throat. You can get a special paste from pet shops that will soothe her throat and help the hair move through the digestive system.

No. 613310

>>613260
Gone Girl
Fleabag
Midsommar

No. 613311

>>613288
I love Bertie and Tuca

No. 613312

>>613260
The Babadook is the only movie I've seen that shows a mother who can't stand her kid who isn't portrayed as a villain

No. 613315

>>613306
Agreed, say what you will about Courtney Love but that album is a masterpiece of female experience

No. 613318

>>613260
Scum Manifesto

No. 613320

>>613260
Music - Sybille Baier, Yanka Dyagileva, Lauryn Hill, Amy Winehouse, Kate Bush

Books - Anything by the Brontës, The Color Purple

Shows - The Gilmore Girls

No. 613327

>>613312
Oh that's a good one and one of my favorite films.

No. 613330

>>613260
Alanis Morrisette

No. 613337

>>613260
S.: A Novel About the Balkans" by Slavenka Drakulic

That book was a fucking harrowing read about the sexual, physical, and mental abuse of women during the Bosnian war.

No. 613344

>>613260
kamikaze girls, lady snowblood, female prisoner #701: scorpion, only yesterday, ghost world, antiporno, raise the red lantern, bonjour tristesse, wanda, vox lux, late spring, carol

No. 613345

>>613312
This. We need more movies with an unapolagetic 'fuck kids' energy

No. 613352

>>613260
Girl, interrupted

No. 613359

>>613260
utena (even tho it was also created by a team including an influential male)

No. 613365

>>613292
Nah, It's def very specific to the female experience. I'd count it.

No. 613412

What does it mean when the sonic totem answers 0 every time you ask?

No. 613414

>>613412
you’re gonna die

No. 613419

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No. 613501

Is it weird that I despise male nurses?

No. 613508

>>613501
No. There's plenty of women who have had a creepy male nurse experience.

No. 613537

What's that AI that can make line art for sketches and paint pictures?

No. 613588

>>613501
No cuz same. Also male teachers and especially male gynecologists

No. 613632

>>613588
I have a male gyno and he's fine. I wish every time that my doc was a woman, but I've been going to him for years and signed up as a new patient with him before realizing he was a man. Literally never any creepy vibes, always kind and professional, but still not a woman.

No. 613647

>>613632
I was lowkey tricked into seeing a male gyno and I was huffing and puffing in the waiting room quietly by myself after I found out, turned out to be the most gentle ultra ever. Annoyed but grateful, goddamn scrotes.

No. 613648

>>613632
Of course he’s going to be professional and not creep on his patients, that’s how he’d potentially lose his practice. But consider all the schooling and dedication he’s gone through just to be in the specific field of looking at vaginas all day. How is that not obviously perverted?

No. 613650

>>613537
There are lots of filters and functions for existing art programs that will do this though some you might need to download. Clip Studio can do it.

No. 613660

>>613648
Do we have some statistic on how many dick doctors are women? But anon, I always think of it in this way: a gyno does see a helluva lot sick vaginas too, so what kind of a kink is that.

No. 613667

>>613648
From what I've heard most gynos, men and women, get into it for all the baby and reproduction-related stuff.

No. 613680

>>613648
Nta but how is that perverted at all? Yeah I'm sure there are some creeps in that practice, but I can't imagine a perv would go through 10 years of school just to hear women talk about their vagina and pregnancy problems. Some people just think the human body is cool. Genitals and the reproductive system are extra cool, especially in women, since they do so much weird stuff.

No. 613723

>>613667
That makes sense, actually! I have a friend who's going to be a male nurse–he's gay and want's to be a labor and delivery nurse specifically because he loves babies. My gyno isn't gay (supposedly; wife and kids, etc), but maybe he's more into the L&D aspect. Or like >>613680 said. Makes me feel better for sure.

No. 613725

>>613501
>Is it weird that I despise mal-
no

No. 613739

>>613725
kek based

No. 613759

>>613680
Yeah I'll never fault a woman for preferring a female gyno but if you find a nice male one there is no need to be paranoid and try to find an ulterior motive imo.

No. 613962

Is lemon juice worse for my hair than bleaching if I only want some moderate lightening or what?

No. 613963

>>613093
Girl… me too…
Hope you’re okay now.

No. 613965

>>613310
Lmao I watched Midsommar with my ex and by the end of it my ex was surprised I thought the bf was an asshole and the ending was a twisted happy one, and he thought Pugh was crazy and clingy throughout. Honestly I didn't know where to start in explaining, so I didn't.

The writing was on the wall with that one.

No. 613971

>>613965
Bf had it coming, not gonna lie, and I did feel certain satisfaction at the end too but by no means it's a happy ending, murder cult is taking advantage of a heavily traumatized woman.

No. 613973

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>>613260
Strange Circus. It’s touted as being solely for shock purposes, but the complete psychosis of it makes so much sense. I don’t want to spoil it in case any of you want to watch out of boredom, but the “twist” isn’t all that unrealistic at all.

No. 613974

>>613310
I often watch Gone Girl with my partners, sometimes directly before or after the first fuck. It tells me a lot about them.

No. 613976

Should you voluntarily consume bad humanitarian news around the world/in general?

My group chat recently got into this and one is like "we can't do anything and it brings me down, so why know?" and another/me is like "they suffer it, the least we can do is not turn a blind eye".

But I've started reading that "A novel about the Balkans" and it disturbs me. Like is it any good to do that? My moral calling/gut feeling says don't ignore it, idk.

Yeah I also wish I could go back to thinking bad/faulty men are a small minority instead of all men being socialised deficient tbh.

No. 613981

>>613974
Second that. A coy convo about what they think about the cool girl spiel will tell you so fucking much.

No. 614117

>>609753
I missed your reply but thanks for the input anon!!! I’ll save up and get a pair!!!

No. 614254

What style do you browse lc in?
I just found out how to change it after all this time, keekweek all the way

No. 614279

>>614254
yes keekweek! I haven’t gone back since I changed it

No. 614308

>>614254
Regular lolcow. Everything else is ugly or an eyesore

No. 614315

>>614308
I use regular lolcow as well, but I think girly is cute.

No. 614334

Not sure if this would fit in the fitness or advice thread on g, but is anyone here into martial arts and/or self-defense? I'm interested in taking classes like that. Might be a little difficult in the near future because of corona and I'm a burger, but…

No. 614395

>>614254
Wasabi lol

No. 614440

how do you tell how someone's face looks by a pic with full costume makeup? this person i matched with only has cosplay pics with full costume face makeup. i think they are attractive just from this tho so it's not a big deal.

No. 614441

>>614254
Darkcow so my eyeballs don’t completely melt

No. 614449

>>613419
A pedo scrote i used to talk to loved this movie so much kek

No. 614451

>>614254
Girltalk 1

No. 614463

Do you guys apply deodorant in the evening, right before going to bed or just in the morning?

No. 614468

>>614463
In the morning and after showering

No. 614469

>>614463
…and while we're at it, are aluminium based deodorants harmful? I know this has been widely debated and then debunked and then de-debunked but I'm not sure what the general stance is now. I would hate to give them up because they are the only ones that work for me, otherwise I smell like a trashcan

No. 614490

>>614469
Never heard that it was debunked. My last knowledge is that a lot of women had breast cancer near their armpits and they were sure it was because of the alu. I mean think about it, do you think aluminium should be in your body? Time to accept that we are a lil stinky

No. 614496

>>614490
But I also heard doctors say that the aluminium content of deodorants are so low that it could not possibly cause the cancer. One would have to eat the stick or spray it in their mouth to affect the body. Excerpt from an article written by someone smarter than me:

>According to the experts interviewed for this story, the aluminum in antiperspirants doesn't even typically make its way into the body.


>"The aluminum salts do not work as antiperspirants by being absorbed in the body. They work by forming a chemical reaction with the water in the sweat to form a physical plug… which is deposited in the sweat duct, producing a blockage in the areas that it's applied," says David Pariser, MD, professor of dermatology at Eastern Virginia Medical School and past president of the American Academy of Dermatology. "Even [with] nicks from shaving, the amount is so negligible that it doesn't make a whole lot of scientific sense."

No. 614508

Anon-chans, is the new Harley Quinn animated series worth watching? I am scared if it's filled with unnecessary wokeness or whatever, but i love HarleyIvy…

No. 614539

>>614469
Could your issue be hormone or diet related?

No. 614546

>>614539
Hyperhidrosis runs in my family, plus I smell worse before my period comes, so I think it's part genetics, part hormones

No. 614598

>>613246
I tried to read it and it was so so boring to read and I felt like the writer was just being pretentious for the sake of it and I stopped reading. It felt like it took weeks to get the plot going. It was a tedious read and I didn't even get halfway

No. 614642

Do the men in your household actually wash their hands after going to the toilet?

Neither my brothers nor my dad do it and it’s driving me crazy, especially during these times. Why do men…

No. 614669

>>614642
My boyfriend does, but only because I won't let him touch me if he doesn't. So he got into the habit.

No. 614670

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How would you name your tripcode if you had one?

No. 614683

>>614642
My brother washes his hands regularly, he might have some kind of OCD cause sometimes he washes his hands, and then five minutes later goes back and washes them again

No. 614686

>>614669
Why are you dating this person

No. 614712

What are some good websites for buying wigs? I've been considering getting a wig so that I don' have to go through the hassle of styling my frizzy, thick hair to be soft and tousled

No. 614715

>>614642

My brother and dad are very clean. Dad is a mechanic and is very preocupied about having clean hands.

No. 614716

who's the cow in the "let us pray" banner? a cosplayer?

No. 614718

Only washes his hands because sex will be taken away otherwise.. great relationship. How many UTIs did you have to get first?

No. 614720

>>614642
I only care if they've taken a shit. I don't wash my hands after I pee either and I clean my toilet enough to where touching the handle isn't going to give me a UTI. Haven't had a UTI here in years btw. Definitely always wash hands after a shit tho.

No. 614721

>>614718
Ntayrt but holy shit relax autist

No. 614724

>>614720
Wash your hands?????

No. 614818

>>614718
I don’t see a problem with it. Men are like dogs, most dogs are retarded, ya gotta train them with classical conditioning. At the end of the day, her dog knows how to wash hands now.

No. 614829

If you shave a tarantula would it look like a monkeys hand?

No. 614833

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>>614829
Some pet tarantulas shed their hair when stressed so they look like peaches depending on the species, but most look pale beneath the fuzz

No. 614840

>>614833
nta but oh nooooo
I didn't know they could shed their hair because of stress aaa

No. 614842

>>614818
I wouldn't want to be with someone who needs to be taught about hygeine as an adult though, just my opinion. Seen too many posts about men who don't know to wipe their ass properly til their gf deals with their skidmarks and has a gentle word about it. Big nope to all variations of that.

No. 614843

>>614833
damn…

No. 614848

>>614716
Kiki Kannibal/Ostrenga

No. 614855

>>614720
Men hold their dicks though? And do shit like wiggle it or pinch the tip of it to get excess piss off or squeeze the last drop out.. they should at least rinse their hands after

No. 614858

>>614855
>at least
wtf no they don't get lowered basic hygiene standards just because they're men. They gotta properly wash their hands with water and soap like their momma taught them to.

No. 614862

>>614721
There's regular posts in /g about unwashed hands and frequent utis. The advice is usually to withhold sex til he starts washing them, that's the joke

No. 614864

>>614858
Well apparently mommas words weren't enough and now every future gf has to teach him again.

No. 614885

>>614724
that's gross.
at least flush your toilet with your foot if you're not gonna wash your hands

No. 614887

>>614855
The joke is that you think men only touch their dicks and scratch their balls in the bathroom…

No. 614894

>>614887
We all know, I was talking about them handling piss droplets. We already know what they are like in bed or lounging on the sofa.

No. 614895

I've never been so grossed out by men before coming here, anyone else?

No. 614901

>>614895
lol i knew a guy who bragged about not taking a shower for a whole week.

No. 614905

>>614720
Fuck so many disgusting women at work don’t wash their hands even if I’m in the bathroom with them. One of them just wets her hands for a few seconds, dries them off quickly and leaves. So disgusting, and without shame

No. 614908

>>614905
Tbh (before COVID) I only washed my hands after going to the bathroom if someone else was around so that people like you don't judge me lmao

No. 614909

does anyone have tumblr blog recommendations? i miss using it for the pretty pictures and aesthetic shit, pinterest isn't the same. i want normal blogs please, no tranny lovers or idiots that reblog every e-begging post they see

No. 614911

>>614908
you should be judged, anon. that is pretty gross. do you at least wash your hands after taking a shit?

No. 614913

>>614908
Hope you keep it up after covid lol

No. 614928

>>614911
No, why is that any different?

No. 614933

How do you deal with friends who you know (or at least, assume) who like you and care about you, but doesn't initiate hang outs, but when asked to hang out by you, 95% of the time they say yes?
Not gonna lie, I feel kinda bleh because while I rationally know that they like me, I never feel too sure if they're saying yes to hangouts because they want to or because they feel pressured to. It also feels disheartening and leads to doubt about the friendship. I'm not asking that we hang out every day or even every week.

No. 614934

>>614928
damn binch do you wash them at all? what if you eat, cook, or touch your mouth? and then there's the door handles

No. 614935

>>614928
…do you not wipe or something? not washing after taking a shit means you might have fecal matter on your hands

No. 614946

>>614928
Bet you love eating unwashed ass too

No. 614947

what is the level of cope in someone telling you one of your feature is proportionate to your body?

No. 614960

>>614933
Tbh just talk to them about it. "Hey I've noticed this thing happening - is there a specific reason for it?" Communicating clearly is much better than letting the doubt and the insecurity eat away at you. They're probably just shy.

No. 615000

>>614933
one of my closest friends doesn't invite anyone out ever but when asked, she almost always says yes, just like your friends.
if i wasn't so secure in our friendship i could probably let a whole month pass before she realized and texted me to hang out. you friends saying yes when you ask to hang out is probably a good sign. my friend dropped friendships by refusing to hang out on purpose.

No. 615003

>>614933
I doubt they feel pressured unless you're pressuring them, which asking to hang out definitely isn't.

tbh I am like your friends, it's not because I don't like the friends who ask me to hang out or I don't want to see them. I'm just introverted and can go ages without noticing I haven't socialized.

No. 615004

>>614469
I think it’s very hard to trust doctors who say there’s not enough aluminum to cause cancer—deo is a huge business and a lot to doctors stances can actually be pretty political.

I’ve read tons of papers, studies, articles, etc and much like the huge debate on toxic shock syndrome, it’s very hard to choose a side. If it isn’t the aluminum that is harmful, then maybe it is any sort of antiperspirant. Maybe blocking your ability to sweat really is bad for your body. It’s hard to decide because while one “reputable” source will tell you that something is a myth, another will present studies that show it could very well be a possibility! I choose to be aluminum free and try to go easy on deodorant in general. Inb4 you stink dirty bitch, I’m not one of those hippies and I do wash them regularly and am hyperaware or odor. I’m just very concerned about breast cancer.

No. 615059

>>615003
>>615000
>>614960
Thanks for the advice and comments, anons! I also am quite introverted but I guess my "love" (friendship?) language is quality time so I like to hang out, especially now since we don't see each other due to covid.

No. 615067

Any UK anons know if the royal mail tracking feature is just down in general right now?

I have a parcel that left Amazon days ago but the tracking number still doesn't bring up any results

No. 615114

Can I trick my body into sleeping early if I continuously wake up at my preferred time (like sleeping at 1:30 am and waking up at 7:30)? I can't sleep at night, but I can wake up in the morning despite not getting enough sleep

No. 615129

>>615067
Samefag, signed into Amazon and when they said my parcel was dispatched they meant that my parcel was actually being passed around from one Amazon warehouse to another and another. I'm more confused now?

No. 615151

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Is this mascot solely to represent /pt/ and if so could there be mascots for other boards? Or is she just the face of lolcow
Sorry I sound like a newfag but I’m actually a naive dinosaur

No. 615155

>>615151
She’s mascot for the whole board, goes by lolcow-tan these days

No. 615156

>>615114
I'm not good at this, but yes, that's exactly how it's supposed to work. You need to have enough self-discipline to go to bed (even if you don't sleep immediately) AND wake up at the same time. After a while you'll just naturally become tired at your habitual bedtime.

No. 615269

>>615004
i absolutely hate people like you.

No. 615286

>>615269
nayrt but I’m failing to see the issue. sounds like she’s just scared of developing breast cancer? which is justified imo

No. 615307

I ordered some jewelery from a retailer in western Europe over 2 months ago and it still hasn't arrived (I live in Canada). I've emailed them twice requesting verification of the tracking number because there have been zero updates on the status or location of my package, only that it's been shipped. To the first email they told me that I should expect it within a week or two. Several weeks passed and still no sign of my package, so I politely emailed them again just to check-in. They haven't responded. What should I do? Within these two months, I've ordered and recieved other packages from abroad so it's making me uneasy that there has been no sign of this particular order. It was a bit expensive too. Should I just continue to wait it out? Idk what I could demand from the retailer, not sure if I can reasonably request a refund.

No. 615330

>>615307
What's the name of the retailer? The fact that they did not bother to respond sounds suspicious

No. 615344

>>615269
Um, why?

No. 615345

File: 1598427894148.gif (128.37 KB, 300x100, 15.gif)

what the fuck does this mean

No. 615349

>>615345
I've always wondered this, too.

No. 615350

>>615349
Same this is the only banner I don’t get the reference for

No. 615352

>>614848
Wow, even knowing it I can't see it at all

No. 615355

>>615352
>>615350
>>615349
>>615345
Probably a Luna reference. A gross junkie cow currently with a thread on /pt/

No. 615356

>>615344
They’re an asshole. No other discernible reason. Probably think the well-documented harm cosmetic and hygiene products have had on women over the years is a conspiracy.

No. 615358

>>615345
It’s an orangecitrus ref… right? Right????

No. 615359

>>615345
>>615355
It’s orangecitrus.

No. 615365

>>615356
I wonder if it's the same "person" who told an anon in a vent thread to kill herself because she cried at the gyno after hearing really bad news.

No. 615372

>>615365
It’s probably a troon, yeah. When I read ‘i absolutely hate people like you’ I expected the comment to be something ridiculous, not an informed post where anon is simply concerned for her body. It wasn’t even inflammatory or conspiracy. So odd. Why get pissed over women’s health?

No. 615385

>>615352
probably because it's actually dakota kek

No. 615387

>>615004
shit sucks because I haven't found an alternative that works and I'm not even really smelly. I tried to acclimate during quarantine and no dice. Natural deodorants just suck sadly.

No. 615388

>>615387
Take chlorophyll tablets anon.

No. 615405

>>615372
>>615365
jesus you bitches are retarded i misclicked. lmao.

No. 615412

>>615405
Get your fucking act together.

No. 615415

>>615388
Does this actually work?

No. 615419

File: 1598434062304.jpg (56.37 KB, 906x1200, okretard.jpg)

Anyone else trying to detox off extreme porn/hentai and get used to being aroused by normal stuff again? I got exposed to extreme and bizzare DA-tier fetish porn art as a child before I was exposed to normal stuff, and it feels like it's haunting me at this point. I have normal sexual urges, but I keep falling back into nasty shit.
I've tried going completely off porn for a few times with some success, but I always start falling back into it again. I think I've made a little progress because I've gotten back into the mindset of finding some of the worst shit I used to find arousing, disgusting. But I'm still pretty bad.
I feel like a hypocrite because I hate nasty male coomshit, when I'm even worse than some of them. I still like normal stuff, but it gives me so much less arousal than wierd shit it's hard to stick to it. Should I just condition myself to only get off gentle vanilla to reverse it?

No. 615420

>>615405
As if this isn’t something that happens literally all the time. You were retarded for missclicking girl!

No. 615424

>>615415
Yes. Liquid is better but many prefer tablets.

No. 615437

>>615419
I've quit. I don't watch porn at all anymore. It's harder at times, but mostly I'm fine with it because I know how badly it affected my own sexuality, my confidence and quality of life. My best advice would be not to focus on getting off to "gentle vanilla" to reverse it, but to stop obsessing over sex and porn in general and focusing on your actual life instead. Find or hang out with some friends, go jogging, take some dancing classes, go on a few dates to get in contact with actual humans. When you masturbate, you can think about whatever the fuck you want, as long as you don't watch porn, it will still get better.

No. 615439

>>615424
Thank you! I'm going to try it

No. 615452

>>615439
Just do your research and find a safe brand near you. No amazon orders from China anon!

No. 615471

>>615419
You’re not alone! I was in this exact boat. I straight up had death grip because extreme quickly stops being extreme and I had to rub my clit with abusive force to get off.
I’m gonna be real, it’ll probably never completely go away, the gross fetishes. Sometimes a passing intrusive thought would arouse me so much I’d come close to giving in literally 0 to 100 in seconds. I had a lot of relapses, but learned to not be too mad at myself. Trust that over time, it becomes increasingly easy to simply let the compulsion pass through you. I’m on a 7 month porn-free streak, I only masturbate like once a week now.
I can climax by being in the moment and feeling the physical pleasure without imagining fucked up scenarios again. Feels good!
I wouldn’t recommend masturbate when you have The Urge, personally my mind would slip into degeneracy right away even if I’m just looking at the ceiling. I think we have to feel comfortable denying ourselves first before reconditioning toward vanilla can be successful. So have a cold glass of water and listen to music instead.
You can do it anon! You can heal!

No. 615477

>>615419
>>615471
What do you guys watch, if you don't mind telling?

No. 615480

>>615387
If you haven't tried it already, get a mineral salt deodorant. I was skeptical but I've found it works just as well as regular deodorant. Just remember that you need to apply it when your wet after you've had a shower.

No. 615481

>>615477
No. It’s weird for you to wanna know.

No. 615485

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No. 615486

>>615485
can you stop scroting around and leave

No. 615488

File: 1598438320733.jpeg (143.76 KB, 565x637, E5558749-7A27-43AF-8765-80B45C…)

>>615481
I’m only asking what it is that you vigorously pound your clit to for innocent personal reasons, fellow woman

No. 615492

>>615486
I was making fun of them but replied to the wrong post, sorry!

No. 615494

>>615488
I was asking it because I was curious how my porn watching habits compared to theirs. I watch a lot of rapey shit, 'stuck in the elevator' trash and those Japanese game shows and I don't consider them extreme but I recently had a conversation with my friend about porn and she was appalled. One of my friends doesn't even masturbate let alone watch porn because she feels that her sexuality belongs to her boyfriend, and only he is allowed to satisfy her. I just find human sexuality and how personal feelings affect it really interesting

No. 615495

>>615492
like i'd even believe that

No. 615498

>>615492
Everyone is replying to the wrong posts today apparently.

No. 615514

>>615495
I have no interest in degeneracy and almost made a serious reply before realizing they just sound like a cumbrain so

>>615498
Honestly had to repost the “sorry wrong post” bc originally replied to the wrong post again

No. 615521

>>615488
lmfao now I'm going to see this face every time I see obvious scroteposts

No. 615526

>>615514
Pull yourself together!

No. 615575

what does lite mode do

No. 615624

>>615575
Disables some features to allow the site to run faster/smoother if people are having trouble with LC loading.

No. 615631

Can multivitamins give you headaches as you get used to taking them?

I started a regular multivitamin with minerals and 36 percent of your daily iron as I'm pretty sure I need iron. Started 3 days ago and had 3 days of headaches that coincides too perfectly.. is this a thing?

No. 615633

>>615631
Is there B3? It’s called niacin and it causes headaches.

No. 615635

>>615631
Can be a thing, you shouldn't take suppliments like that without doing a blood test first to know if you really need it.

No. 615659

>>615633
Ah ok, yeah it has 100percent of your RDA of B3
>>615635
I know I should, I've had anemia for years, extra fatigue kicked in lately but I don't have the 100 euros to see a doc

No. 615692

>>615659
You might be getting too much b3. If you’re only concerned about your iron, you should only take iron unless you get your bloods tested. Taking too much of something you have enough of can cause headaches as your body filters it into your urine.

No. 615703

File: 1598448036483.jpg (35.33 KB, 477x267, pug (2).jpg)

>>609173
Is there any downside to using vitamin pills/tablets? I was going to buy some iron pills because I've been low-energy recently and I have an iron deficiency, but my dad said something about how I shouldn't, but he didn't really give any reasons why and walked off

No. 615705

>>615703
There’s an ethical debate over the talc present in vitamins and sups. If you’re only taking a low amount, you should be fine. Alternately you can eat more iron-rich foods but I understand the appeal of tablets.

No. 615709

>>615703
look it up for yourself. my mom still thinks eating any food that has a burnt part will give me cancer.
as for myself, i have been taking iron pills for a while and i haven't had any downsides. but they truly don't replace a balanced diet. eat more broccoli, red meat, shit like that. if you don't eat enough vegetables, you're probably better off eating more vegetables than taking vitamins.

No. 615711

File: 1598448325802.jpg (43.8 KB, 407x610, liv.jpg)

How do some people who look like literal feet end up having such good looking children

No. 615716

>>615711
The cruel, complex lottery that is genetics

No. 615723

>>615703
I find that Iron supplements upset my stomach but whenever I take multivitamins with a smaller amount of iron in them I still get a touch of stomach upset but with added headaches on top.. maybe start on a low dose of iron and see how your body tolerates it.

No. 615732

File: 1598449309950.jpg (53.63 KB, 468x720, Playboy.jpg)

>>615711

just this >>615716

I mean some people who are pretty get a child and many, many times it's not even as pretty as the parents because the scored the worst features of both.

Pic related is Liv's mum btw.

No. 615740

>>615732
or they get the recessive, ugly alleles

No. 615860

>>615330
I'm assuming they didn't respond because in the best case scenario they've sent the package and when it arrives is out of their hands? It's a small independent retailer from Western Europe (Austria I think). But why would it take over two months to arrive? I recieved packages sent from Africa and Germany in that time. Should I just continue waiting it out?

No. 615867

If I ate 2 tres leche cakes last night did I really eat seis leche?

No. 615871

>>615867
If I tell this to my hispanic friend as a joke will she hit me?

No. 615882

>>615703
Iron pills can cause stomach problems and constipation. There are some formulations that are gentler on the stomach. If the dose you bought is high like 200+ mg maybe your dad doesn't want you to take too much iron if a doctor didn't tell you to.

No. 615885

I'm suck at math. can somebody calculate my credit utilization for me?

My total credit limit is 4000, and I am 1300 in debt. What's my utilization?

No. 615889

File: 1598455310016.jpg (213.38 KB, 2048x1143, DrwXUhlVYAEpNiC.jpg)

Has anyone used any other imageboards other than this one and asherahsgarden/crystalcafe/4chan?
I've tried looking at others but Sushigirl.us is filled with mostly men it looks like. kind.moe is kinda empty but seems ok. I've heard of lainchan, but when I went on there was a disgusting cp ad on the front page and I immediately clicked off. I hear it's more for tech shit anyway. I hear 8chan is also filled with cp and is a shitshow in general so I just completely avoid that one.

No. 615904

>>615889
I rarely used lainchan but I've never seen anything of that caliber before. Wasn't there a thread for goatchan or whatever that was creepy?

No. 615905

>>615871
ayrt my Hispanic friend liked it but who knows

No. 615908

>>615889
Sushigirl seemed nice to me until I realized it's mostly men on that site and I became so thoroughly disgusted. I haven't seen another laid back imageboard, I wish there were more

No. 615911

>>615889
I once ventured to a country specific chan and saw cp and cried for the whole day. Went to some new 8chan after the og was banned, saw borderline cp, cried, puked. So now, I don't even try to find imageboards. There was some imageboard linked on the doll thread in /m/, called anon.cafe, you could check it out.

No. 615920

>>615889
where was an imageboard that was focused on otaku stuff. All I rember from it is that I went ot a otaku ramblings thread/board and there was a discussion, where one anon said they liked skinny girls and literally every other anon basically calling him a fag and comparing his preferences to shinji

No. 615970

Is there IP-based post history? I don't like the idea of farmhands and admins looking at my idiotic sperging

not a newfag I swear

No. 615975

>>615970
That's how all post histories work. Posts are attached to your IP. Not an attack or anything but I'm surprised at how many anons I've seen here who don't realize that yeah, mods can see everything you've ever posted.

No. 615983

>>615975
They could simply delete the access logs. Do we know how long they're preserve/if they are ever deleted?

No. 615985

>>615983
Ah, hadn't considered that. In that case I guess some or all of your posts could be lost depending on how long you've been here for. I'm not sure if/when those are deleted.

No. 615991

>>615985
I've asked in meta

No. 615992

File: 1598464227774.gif (8.96 KB, 284x284, UntidyBigheartedHoiho-small.gi…)

>>615889
what about uboachan? Anyone been on that one?

No. 615999

>>615975
the funniest thing about this is that i once got a warning about a post i literally never even made despite them saying it was from my ip lol

No. 616002

>>615889
Yeah imageboards by default are gonna be male. New boards are always going to be gross and unmoderated. Women don't want to sink time and money into creating one because unlike male boards, a space advertised to female audience will always be targeted for all of eternity. It's inescapable.

No. 616003

>>615889
Has anyone used Tohno-chan? Is it any good?

No. 616005

>>615999
Yeah, if you have a dynamic IP that can unfortunately happen sometimes. For whatever reason my ISP gives me a new IP any time my router is reset, even if not manually (like from bad weather or a power outage) so my IP can randomly change to a nearby area's IP. Most ISPs try to give you the same one but once I tried to post here and had a ban notice from a post I didn't make from two years prior, kek.

No. 616013

>>616005
Happens to me all the time lol, makes me fucking mad sometimes i swear to god tho having a cyclic IP makes me feel safer, i don't like the idea of being tracked down so easily.

No. 616042

has anyone ever replied to themselves here lmao

No. 616043

>>616002
Fuck this makes me sad

No. 616044

>>616002
Yeah it’s a cruel reality
I hate it. I still wonder about that dude who decided to make asherahs for anons and who he was.

No. 616141

Does menstrual cycle effect hornieness in any way, or is it a just a thing peddled by men?

No. 616147

>>616141
I have heard it does affect horiness for women, like they are more horny during ovulation or for some during menustration. I've never noticed a pattern in my horniness because I can barely get horny like once every 3 months.

No. 616149

>>616141
I usually get a little more horny during my period, but I think it's different for every women. I think everyone is always horny during ovulation though.

No. 616154

>>616141
I only get horny during my period..and it's on the heavy days too, wtf biology?

No. 616189

Not bait. This is a genuine question. And this is the stupid question thread anyways.

Why are many of you racist?
I've always wondered this because: Is there a point to it? Does it feel good? I know most of the time it has to do with your parents' education. But on the internet you often find people who unlike their family become very racist. I guess that's this group the question is directed to. Those who became racist with time.
The way I see it is
>Don't really have anything good about yourself
>Probably even narcissistic coupled with inferiority complex
>You try to find a reason to feel superior over other people.
>That's it! You try to make up at least one good thing about yourself: your race.
Is that it? Because otherwise I genuinely don't see the point.

No. 616193

>>616141
Yes, I get horny as fuck around my ovulation time. During the rest of the month, I couldn't care less about sex

No. 616198

>>616141
Yes, it's usually just before or during menstruation because of hormones. I get horny as fuck right before mine.

>>616189

I haven't really seen many racists here and I don't think I am, I would never hate anyone just because of their race but I will admit I get annoyed with the people who think they're better than white people or act like present day white people are the cause for the shit that happened in the past.

No. 616200

>>616189
I haven’t seen many racist anons here, especially considering this is an imageboard. Maybe you’ve misconstrued things anons have said that are just criticisms of groups/ideologies like Islam ect. Racist is a term that is bandied around a lot which makes it lose power. As a non white person myself I think that labelling everything racist is bad. It gives the word less power and takes attention away from actual racists, instead focusing on micro irrelevant shit. Ffs racebait is banned on lolcow, blatant racism isn’t even allowed.
As for why people become racist, I think it’s because we’re living in pretty tough times- it’s hard for people to find jobs like they once did, divorces are increasing, hookup culture has left people disillusioned with relationships, young men esp are bitter and angry about the state of society and how they don’t automatically have the upper hand now- it seems like harkening back to a (fictional) older time where the non whites were put in their place and all white people lived happily and in harmony under tradition is a good idea. Non whites are basically made scapegoats for all the issues of western society. Couple this with the fact that racism makes people feel superior to others- a pretty appealing feeling- racism does seem quite tasty to those it benefits.
Sorry for the novel, i’m a dumb sperg

No. 616204

>>616189
Not a racist, but I'm pretty sure an inferiority complex is not the cause.
Observing racists here (SE Europe), they genuinely don't even notice Gypsies. They don't think about them at all. It's as if the Gypsies are invisible to them even when in front of them 99% of the time. These "untouchables" are not a benchmark against which racists compare themselves. They barely even register as people.

No. 616229

Does getting your nipples stimulated make anyone else literally immediately want to kill them selves? There’s no history of sexual abuse or trauma regarding them either.

No. 616247

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TMI, but, my boogers are weird colors mixed with clear/green and I can't figure out a cause. Clearish-green is the usual color they are. I clean out my nose pretty regularly. I've had the bloody snot before, but this is really bizarre. In my right nostril, they're clear-green mixed with brown. In the other nostril, they're clear-green mixed with black. None of it is PURE black or PURE brown, it's a small mix, but each nostril is different. I haven't had any nasty symptoms at all, no problems breathing, etc. But I don't smoke, I don't inhale anything weird (and haven't been around anything out of the ordinary) this is the first day I've noticed this. I'm really freaked out. Googling it as a symptom tells me I am fucked without immediate medical care. I do have some issues breathing but it is chronic I doubt it's related to this.
Do I need to see a doctor ASAP? Am I going to fucking die bc of colored snot? Will I have Cause of death: colored snot on my grave? I don't know if this is serious or not if I'm not experiencing other symptoms.

No. 616251

>>616247
Blood with brown and green discharge sounds like a sinus infection, which is nothing much to worry about if you haven't got any other major symptoms. See a doctor and they'll probably give you a course of antibiotics and a steroid nasal spray for the swelling.

No. 616259

>>616251
Thanks anon, I'm just worried cause it's not even bloody. It's just straight brown (mixed with the green) in one nostril, black in the other. Don't sinus infections usually cause other symptoms? Sneezing, coughing, pain, etc etc. I do have chronic allergies but in the 19 years I've been alive (and even at my sickest) I have never ever had this happen to me before which really worries me. But maybe it's just nothing or I somehow breathed something weird in, I just don't know how.

No. 616265

At what point do you consider yourself recovered from a mental illness? Can you have a mental illness without the behaviours, similar to the sober alcoholic concept?

I used to post embarrassing shit on social media whenever I got triggered but haven’t at all this year. Tonight I was upset and kinda drunk and posted some shit but deleted it after a few minutes, before anyone saw it. Feels weird, idk if this is progress or a relapse

No. 616271

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>>616229
Either you're weird as fuck or whoever's stimulating them was laughably terrible at it.

>hook up with guy off Tinder

>mfw he starts flicking my nipples like light switches

No. 616274

>>616271
Actually no, that’s a very plausible scientific anomaly.

There are tons of women who have this problem. When you stimulate nipples it can immediately release oxytocin whether you are lactating or not. Depending on your brain chemistry, this could make you feel immediately distressed, sad, or uncomfortable. It’s lightly known as sad nipple syndrome. Has nothing to do with being ‘weird’.

No. 616280

>>616274
TIL. I'm the exact opposite so I had no idea!

No. 616281

>>616280
Wish I had the same luck as you! I’m tired of feeling like I just watched a kitten get slaughtered every time my nips are played with fml

No. 616401

If intrusive thoughts are common, when should they start being a concern?

No. 616485

What happens to someone who is born with their umbilical cord wrapped around their neck? I always read about it in the Onision thread, saying well you know he was born with it around his neck, so. I assume they are referring to brain damage caused by oxygen deprivation but I guess I'm wondering how that would effect someone's personality. Would they be prone to violence, lack empathy? It's not a rabbit hole I care to go down tonight, maybe someone here can explain it?

No. 616495

>>616485
Because oxygen deprivation can cause brain damage there are numerous effects it can have on a person, including behavioral problems that are linked to the distorted brain functionality. I think they're usually the result of delay in brain development. Most of the time the damage that has been done is noticeable like showing signs of cerebral palsy or epilepsy but slight deprivation of oxygen that might go unnoticed can cause milder impairment that can manifest as learning disabilities or similar issues. Brain damage comes in so many forms and any damage can affect your personality significantly as far as I know, that's why scientists are so keen on studying people like serial killers' brains to look for signs of damage. For example the impairment of the orbitofrontal cortex can contribute to sociopathic behavior as it's in charge of impulse control and morality.

No. 616587

At what age do you guys think we're past our baby-having years?

No. 616588

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When you answer phone calls, what do you say? Do you just say 'hello' or introduce yourself as well?

No. 616589

>>616588
I say "uh hullo?" I always sound nervous for some reason

No. 616590

>>616588
I just love Mark Corrigan.

No. 616598

>>616588
I say hello, one time my brother answered my call with hi and I got so confused because I thought he was gonna say hello that I couldn't remember what I wanted to ask him for a minute

No. 616606

>>616588
Depends who's calling. If it's someone I know and am comfortable with (a friend or a family member) I'd just say "Hi", if it's someone I have a more formal relationship with (a boss/potentional employer or something) I'd say hello + my name.

No. 616619

>>616587
Ever heard of menopause?

No. 616623

What are some music groups you know that sound exactly like their name implies?
Some I know are Master Boot Record (and Keygen Church even more so), Car Bomb and Frontierer. Most grindcore also sounds like the band name implies (like Full of Hell or Vermin Womb).

No. 616655

>>616619
Yes I'm also aware of fertility treatments etc. What I meant is at what point is it a bad idea in terms of your health, the babies health and being fit enough to raise it.

I know autism rates shoot up when either parents is over 40 so considering shit like that too.

No. 616656

>>616588
Just “hello” if they’re calling me. They dialled they number so they should know who they’re calling

No. 616661

Do all Americans get veneers or why do so many of them have extremely, unnaturally perfect teeth? I swear every American youtube personality, no matter if big or small, has straight and sparkling white chompers. I'm europoor (not British) and here people have more "normal" looking teeth that can be a bit crooked, a bit stained, a bit yellowish, a bit chipped etc. and huge bleached American teeth sort of freak me out, especially because they tend to talk with all of them being on full display for some reason without ever closing their mouth. I don't get it. Is it genetics or are veneers/crowns just much more popular over there? It's so baffling because a lot of times anons are making fun of a cow's teeth being "yellow" when they look completely normal or even whiter than average to me.

No. 616682

>>616661
I agree with you anon, I think huge white "perfect" teeth are weird and make people look horse-y. I'm American and a LOT of kids here get braces in middle school to make their teeth completely straight. Not everyone ofc, because it can be expensive and its tricky to get insurance to cover it, but it's seen as the norm. If you're middle class or higher you're basically guaranteed to have them at some point. My bottom teeth are kind of crooked and my dentist kept pressuring me to get braces when I was 13/14. She said that my teeth ruin my face and I'll be an ugly adult lol. I can only imagine other kids are being told stuff like that and bothered/pressured by their peers so they whine to their parents until they get them. I honestly think cosmetic braces and teeth whitening strips are a huge waste of money and effort but everyone in America seems to love them lol. I don't know anyone with veneers, though. I think they're becoming more popular. Either way, I don't care if someone has crooked or kind of yellow teeth, it just matters if they're clean and healthy. There's better things to worry about in life. Sorry for the braces sperging I just have strong opinions about the subject.

No. 616691

>>616619
Checked some pregnancy and health sites and most recommend you have your pregnancies before 35 to avoid the extra risks that come after that. So a whopping 15 years before the menopause? Damn.

No. 616714

>>616588
I just say "Hello" or "Hello?"
I mean, since they're the ones calling, they must already know who I am so I don't see any point in introducing myself.

No. 616715

>>616661
People in the US care a lot of what their teeth look like, they want them to be perfect for events like weddings or when they have to smile a lot. I blame it on most actors/actresses in American media having perfect teeth, so we see them constantly, and the fact that Americans smile and show their teeth more than other regions.

Dental work is also very expensive if you fuck your teeth up but I’ve seen plenty of people around with nasty teeth from smoking and neglect

No. 616730

>>616661
yea, "perfect" teeth can look a bit creepy and artificial to me. especially when theyre unnaturally white. teeth are supposed to have a more light cream-ish colour, and bleaching them can actually cause lasting damage to your tooth enamel and gums.

the anons in those threads are just nitpicking and grasping at straws lmfao ignore them

No. 616782

An aquaintance (sorry if I spelled that wrong) sent me a link to some site and asked me to login there with my facebook account so she could get a vote for some prize contest, the site was extremely dodgy (like the "facebook login" popup was purple.) but I did it anyway because I'm a pushover. I don't use facebook at all but is there anything I can do to migitate the damage I probably just caused to myself? The site probably sells the login info to other places. Should I jus change my password? (I'm ognna do that anyway)

No. 616784

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>>616682
Everyone in the Trump family has these teeth and it freaks me out. Uncanny as hell.

That said, braces are actually helpful for a lot of people. You don't get that uncanny valley "perfect" smile from braces unless you've also abused white strips or got veneers. My teeth were genuinely fucked up before braces, now they just look "normal" and slightly crooked. I paid for them myself and would do it again in a heartbeat.

I can see veneers being nice for people who have damaged teeth, but it sucks seeing celebrities get them when their smiles were already practically perfect.

No. 616788

>>616154
same, its fuckin weird. the orgasms are incredible though

No. 616793

why would y'all do if lolcow was gone

No. 616795

>>616793
*what
oopsie

No. 616796

>>616141
I've been very horny during my period and ovulation cycles before, though not consistently

No. 616800

>>616793
Eat my shoes

No. 616802

>>616793
Become a sexy millionaire

No. 616812

>>616788
Really helps with cramps

No. 616814

>>616793
Start writing in a journal lol

No. 616819

>>616793
Probably procrastinate doing anything else, maybe go back to watching YouTube drama channels.

No. 616827

How masturbation is too much for a woman? Serious question

No. 616833

>>616827
More than 10 orgasms a day is too much imo. I flick my bean like twice a week.

No. 616835

>>616827
One time I came 22 times over the course of a day and a half. THAT was too much.

No. 616848

Why are female pilots so rare on commercial airlines? It's one of those male dominated professions that rarely gets brought up. It's always vague shit like 'CEO' or 'Senior Manager' positions, but I'm curious about specific roles like this one.

No. 616856

>>616848
because women want to leave stressful shit for men to do.

No. 616858

>>616848
Seems like most female pilots are daughters of male pilots so my guess is most girls don’t think about the profession

No. 616869

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Can we have a copypasta thread? I think I didn’t see one and it would be nice to save a few of them, like the bi-curious married anon one and such.

No. 616903

>>616827
When your clit feels sore

No. 616906

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riddle me this nonnies, why do a lot of people think swearing isn't cute? when someone with a cutesy or innocent aesthetic swears, it often meets disdain. why is that? I just love being foul-mouthed and it's fun. children love it, too, and in childhood there is something forbidden about swearing. idk I like being immature. balls

No. 616908

>>616835
Jesus, anon. The most I've had is 10 in a day, and even that made my lower abdomen sore for like days afterwards

No. 616912

Why am I always so unaroused? Like, I can't even remember the last time I got wet, probably a few months ago. Is this normal? I'm barely 20 so aren't I supposed to be horny a lot? I'm kinda worried.

No. 616913

Petition to ban the word "nonnies". Who's in?

No. 616922

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>>616913
please answer my shitty question, I beg of you

No. 616923

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>>616906
Swearing is often seen as something only uncivilized people do because of their lack of better words to describe stuff or express themselves. It’s also not seen as something cute because it breaks the model of what’s supposed to be cute, it’s not innocent, so it’s a contrast most people don’t like to see.

I particularly don’t give a fuck, but if a person won’t stop swearing every 5 fucking seconds, I will consider they have little dick energy.

No. 616928

>>616923
thanks nonny

No. 616930

>>616913
fuck you nonnie

No. 616931

>>616869
make one asap

No. 616940

>>616913
but its cute, nonnie

No. 616950


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No. 616973

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I swallowed the tab from a can am I going to die

No. 616978

>>616973

No, I've done it too and I was fine.

No. 616981

>>616973
What the fuck? The metal? go to the hospital or something…

No. 616982

>>616973
Uuuhh, I might go to the hospital for that one, anon. The tab has that sharp edge and it could possibly cut you you inside. Also it's metal. You swallowed metal.

No. 616986

>>616973
my stupid moid friend did that for attention in high school and he was fine but i'd personally go to the hospital

No. 616988

>>616848
men should do the jobs that can be fatal

No. 616989

>>616978
>>616981
>>616982
>>616986
I'm going to call the non-emergency line for advice. I've ingested metal before (paper clips, hair pins, a weird metal book mark thing) but it was all in really small segments and the chunkiness of the tab makes me nervous. Pray for me anons

No. 616996

So…umm…Ive been asked out by a guy for coffee after school earlier this month. Is it normal to have a 1 on 1 coffee with s/o from the opposite gender without the fact that he…likes me? The invitation was sudden when we were grouped together during an assignment. We knew each other early on but never really interact that much, at this point, I felt like I'm overthinking it already kek.

No. 617003

>>616996
he's definitely trying to fuck. i'd cancel if you're not interested otherwise you run the risk of him feeling like he's owed sex for taking you to a fucking coffee date

No. 617006

>>616996
I feel like unless you really dislike him or something why not go and just see how it is?

No. 617009

>>616835
anon I need your secrets

No. 617014

>>617006
Lmao, I don't think he wanted to fuk me as >>617003 said lmao. The context was weird nonetheless and I don't really have the hots for him so I turned him down instead. I think he understood so there was no coffee invite later on.

No. 617030

Have you ever asked a guy out? Like guys always complain that they have to make the first move but I feel like in reality they don’t really like it when the girl asks them out. I’ve heard so many guys say they find it off-putting for various reasons and ime the only guys who say they want it are the ones who’ve never had it happen to them but idk I’m curious about other people’s experiences.

No. 617035

>>617009
I was a horny teen with extreme hormonal issues kek

No. 617038

>>617030
Don't ask guys out. It never works.

No. 617040

>>617030
It's no suprise men claim to like it when they don't actually find it attractive. For them it's like
>ask woman out
>she's not into you
>get rejected
>the end

But for us it's like
>ask man out
>he's not into you
>you might get rejected if you're lucky, or…
>he uses you for sex because he knows you like him but he doesn't have to put any effort in to get his dick wet
>no end until he finds an upgrade he actually wants to date

But obviously, for men that's 100% beneficial. As long as he knows which women are interested, he can accept, reject or string them along at his leisure. That doesn't mean he actually finds you attractive or likes that you asked him out, just means you made yourself convenient.

No. 617041

>>617030
The only guys that would love to get asked out are the lonely, red flag parade ones.

No. 617042

>>616848
aren't a lot of commerical airline pilots ex military/air force? most military people are men so that could be why. once i heard a female voice on a flight say "this is your captain speaking" and i was mindfucked.

No. 617043

>>617030
I asked out my last ex before, but under the guise of hanging out ie. Going to a concert. The relationship didn't work out in the end but it did work in the sense that we became a couple.

No. 617052

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Should I plant a lemon tree, apple tree, or orange tree? I feel like a lemon tree would smell good. Kinda also wanna plant an olive tree as a tribute to Athena tbh.

No. 617054

>>617052
Lemon tree all the way. Grew up near apple trees and most apples grown on their own with no chemicals or genetic engineering taste like ass. They also fall off and rot and make your yard smell like shit. Watch out for lemon stealing whores tho

No. 617078

>>617052
Don't do apples anon, you'll regret it
Birds attack that shit like no tomorrow and you won't have any for yourself.
Lemons are prickly but they're worth it

No. 617083

>>617078
>>617054
Ty anons! I've decided to do the lemon tree outside and attempt to do a apple or olive bonsai indoors. Idk much about bonsais but I hope it'll work with fruit trees. I can use the apples for my (future) pet snail.

No. 617111

>>616906
Sometimes it comes across as trying too hard

No. 617120

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>>616989
>I've ingested metal before (paper clips, hair pins, a weird metal book mark thing)
but why

No. 617147

>>617120
it's the pica anon

>>616989
take care …

No. 617197

Possible weight gain aside, do your bodies grow/change much between the age of like 18 to 25?? Like, bones and shit lol

No. 617199

>>617197
I don't know about the rest of my bones but I do feel like my cheekbones have gotten more defined. I don't look much older but I do feel like even though I already had high cheekbones, they look more defined now than they did when I was 18. Back when I was 18 my face looked squishier

No. 617234

>>617199
Yeah that’s just volume loss. I feel like a lot of women think it sounds scary but it isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it can make very round faces look more defined. Typically starts happening around 25, completely natural and to be expected.

No. 617237

>>617234
I hope this happens to me omg

No. 617244

>>617237
I feel like the western archetype of high cheekbones being modelesque doesn’t naturally equate to beauty! Round faces aren’t ugly, and I think for women they can age you gracefully because the normal volume loss doesn’t hit it like a freight train, like it does with say long oval faces for example.

No. 617259

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glasses anons please help… i am nearsighted with a high prescription so my glasses lenses are very thick and my eyes look very small when wearing them. my current pair is has thick black frames, so i ordered the pair in pic related because i thought barely-there looking glasses would help make my eyes look bigger, but they look even SMALLER… is there anything i can do to make my eyes look bigger with glasses? high index lenses? a particular frame style? please help

No. 617264

>>617259
High index lenses help a lot! I suffer the same problem if I don't pay extra for my lenses sadly

No. 617268

>>617264
Same anon - they aren't a miracle cure though, my eyes are -6.5 in each eye and I think some distortion is inevitable once your prescription gets that bad

No. 617271

>>617259
I do the high index lenses. My eyes still look smaller in them. It's not insane though. Can't compare to regular thickness lenses bc I've been getting the high index forever. I got some pretty big frames this time around, not quite 'oversized' but verging on it. They're like a larger version of a wayfarer shape. The actual plastic rims around them are not thick though. I feel like creating space around my eyes is helpful. Also mine are darker at the top and fade to light at the bottom, to me it makes the top half an 'eyebrow' effect and the bottom half of the frames seem less prominent as well, fading away.

Can you wear contacts if it bothers you so much?

No. 617273

>>617271
forgot to say you should check out the typical 'make your eyes look bigger' makeup videos.

No. 617275

>>617271
>>617268
>>617264

thanks guys, i'm gonna do high index lenses and maybe a pair with medium-thickness frames. i do have contacts but i look at a computer for 12 hours for work and felt like it was probably better to wear glasses if i'm staring at a screen for that long

No. 617294

I just got a Keurig coffee machine! What are some good kcups I can get?

No. 617327

>>617294
I like Gevalia! they also sell 2 step k-cups so you can make flavors like mochas or cappuccinos (basically comes with powdered milk you add to the coffee). That's if you like sweet shit like me

No. 617373

>>616912
Do you have a partner? Try to think in the morning that you will get fucked in the evening. That makes me horny af

My own stupid question is does anyone knows good tips against winter depression? In the summer I'm normal but in the winter I always get suicidal

No. 617374

>>617373
try vitamin d supplements, a lack of sun/vitamin d boosts depression

No. 617375

>>617374
Thank you, will try!

>>617197
And to answer this… I fucking swear my hips grew when I was 25

No. 617381

I keep having almost yelling conversations with myself if I'm trying to focus on something. Like I'll drift off to some negative social interaction and end up arguing with them/myself and then I get loud/emphatic enough to check myself but honestly I've done it in public before.

HOW do I stop?

No. 617455

What the hell was the deal with necessary 4 speed or whatever their name was?

No. 617458

>>617455
I've wondered this as well, but never wanted to ask (even though I've been browsing LC since 2018) since I figured it was something I'd get called a newfag for asking, lol.

No. 617460

>>617375
I’m asking because I have a body brace that I used to wear for scoliosis and I just tried to wear it again but I can’t even strap myself in anymore… Even an area like my bust it struggles to fit around, even though my boob size is the same. I gained some weight since I was 18 but nothing that’s drastically changed my body shape so I wonder if it sounds fuckin dumb to think maybe my body was just still growing up to now lol.

No. 617462

>>617373
I always see those light therapy lamps recommended. Not sure how well they really work at the end of the day but might be worth a try if you can find a cheap one!

No. 617516

how weird (or objectively cringe) is it to be a 20 year old with a 20 year old bf and talk/text like this:
>use petnames for each other like puppy, kitten, cuddle bunny
>use dumb myspace-tier emojis like :c or >_<
>"i luuuuuv u" "yeah but i luuuv u more" "shut up or i'll hug u"
this is stuff we do in private but we do constantly make the heart shape with our hands in public too, obviously not much around friends too not annoy them.

idk anons its just that its my first relationship and i've been repressing my "rawr xd i'll bite u cutie" phase for like 6 years now. he likes talking to me this way too so there's no problem between us. but i legit wanna know if this is cow behavior or am i just mentally challenged? do all couples do that dumb baby talk when they're alone?

No. 617519

>>617516
also i just noticed the bad wording/grammar/misspelled words now sorry im not dumb im just not a native speaker kek

No. 617520

>>617516
I mean, it's probably a bit cringy but you're only 20, so it's really not that weird imo.

No. 617529

>>617516
objectively cringe subjectively cute since you're both into it. don't care what others think, enjoy your relationship in the way you like!

No. 617532

>>617516
being in love is cringe. idk about all couples but most couples are cringe in private. it's ok, just do what makes you happy. i babytalk-ified my ex's nickname to such an extent it turned into literal nonsense babble.
just try not to do it in front of other people because you will end up regretting it the same way you regret your xD phase.

No. 617554

What are the most basic nail polish colors to have for a new collection? I want to expand my collection of lacquers, I have a white, a red, a nude and a silver shimmer, a basecoat and a topcoat.

No. 617561

>>617554
Does it really matter? Buy what you're going to wear.

No. 617594

>>617554
Maybe taupe or mauve? But I agree with the other anon, just get colors you like

No. 617769

Does anyone else refer to masturbating as "jerking off" (or just "masturbating") even when talking about themselves, because all of the female-oriented equivalents sound weird? I guess I don't associate it with the actual jerking motion, "jerking off" just means any kind of self-pleasure to me. "Flicking my bean" "rubbing my paddle" or whatever just sounds corny and unfitting, lmao.

No. 617784

>>617769
Let’s create new ones, like
>poking the beaver
>coochie coochie the coochie
>feeding the dark temptress

They all suck, but I’m sure other anons must have better ideas.

No. 617785

>>617784
>slapping the slop
>stirring the soup

No. 617807

>>617769
I say "je me touche" in my native language. Which equal to "feeling myself".
Also, if you that about someone else, it's imply that they are lazy and haven't done something they should have done (maybe because they were busy jerking off)

No. 617811

>>617784
>finally giving in after 40 long days of no action, only to regret it later and cry about how stupid and miserable you are. you knew you wouldn't actually make it past the 65 day mark, you knew it. 40 days is a long time, but remember how easy it was 10 years ago? to just leave her alone? of course you do. when you really think about it, you realize there's nothing REALLY wrong with it. you're just having fun, getting endorphins. you're really only sad because… you gave in. you had something going for quite some time that you were proud of, but you gave in anyways. you feel pathetic. you start over.

No. 617814

>>617807
Ah, so that Nicki Minaj ft. Beyonce song was actually about procrastinating.

No. 617833

What does nonnie mean? Is it short for nonnegotiable?

No. 617835

>>617833
Short for anon. It's just a old, cute nickname, I think it was mostly used on tumblr though.

No. 617839

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>>617833
How you it be from tumblr if it's short and feminine counterpart of anon? Gotta brush up on your board history, nonnie. We have a big exam next week.

No. 617841

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I was eating my meal and this creature landed in front of me and I got so fucking scared. It was very black and very shiny and before taking off it erected its wings and these black things like a machine and flew and I screamed. Can any anons tell me what this bug could be? I tried my best to draw it.

No. 617845

>>617843
Jesus christ, it wasn't this fella. Was less dangerous looking. It was about an inch.

No. 617853

>>617839
You can send messages ("asks") anonymously on Tumblr, and when you do your message shows up to the person with the name "Anonymous". I haven't seen people there say it in years, though.

No. 617854

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>>617845
What about a burrower bug? They have wings but they're not super visible. Idk what else it could be cause beetles are the only bugs that put up their wings like a machine, I think.

No. 617856

>>617841
So it opened its back to reveal wings likes ladybug does before it takes off?

No. 617864

>>617856
YES exactly like that anon!

>>617854
Maybe it was a type of beetle? A young beetle or something?

No. 617865

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What does pussy taste like?
tmi but yes I've tasted myself and I don't taste like anything, but I don't know if that's true for other women?

No. 617867

>>617865
About the spoilered part, I've tasted myself and it's usually just a mildly salty taste, nothing else. My diet is garbage, though, but I don't think it varies much.

No. 617868

>>617864
It was probably a cicada or something. Do you live in an area with noisy bugs?

No. 617870

>>617865
Kinda salty. All fluids coming out the body taste kinda salty, sweat, tears, piss etc. Why is that?

No. 617872

>>617870
All fluid excretions from the body are opportunities for the body to rid of what it considers waste, a lot of which is salt.

No. 617975

Does any anon have that one reaction pic of a brown kid looking disgusted and judge-y? I saw it in one the shayna thread where anon remarked her vibrator sounded like a lawnmower

No. 617976

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No. 617982

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>>617976
This is a black gentleman but thank you anon. I found it!

No. 617997

>>617769
I've always just referred to it as "schlicking"

No. 618002

What does 'slob on the knob' mean? I know it's a song but I've no idea the meaning.

No. 618005

>>618002
Girl as if that’s not the most obvious reference to slurping on a dick

No. 618007

>>618002
"Knob" Is a dick. I think you can figure it out from there lol

No. 618008

>>618005
Ahhh… alright. I had a suspicion that was the case but doorknobs don't seem phallic to me so I was confused.

No. 618014

>>617982
Ah the "absolutamente asqueroso" kid. A classic.

No. 618076

Will putting a fair use disclaimer and giving credit be enough to avoid getting copyright striked on youtube? I can't use any royalty free music for the type of video I'm making.

No. 618079

>>618008
…knob is slang for dick, not related to doorknob. Knob technically means 'lump' or 'protrusion'.

No. 618091

>>618076
No, youtube doesn't care about fair use. And if it's music from a label or whatever it'll probably get copyright striked automatically, youtube has some sort of system/alghorithm that identifies copyrighted content automatically.

No. 618105

Is a size 4 unhealthy for 5’8?

No. 618110

>>618105
This subtle brag

Jk but maybe you could just put your measurements into a bmi calculator thing and decide from there? I feel like theres a lot of aspects go into what makes someones size unhealthy ya'know? We're not doctors so we can't really answer.

No. 618114

Does she have a thread or is this a new calf?

>people dying, losing money, and having trouble getting food/water

>muh cancelled trip to Italy, taking 1 or 2 groceries trips and staying inside for days on end made me give myself cig burns on my arm :'(
Just seems excessively privileged.

No. 618116

will i get banned on lc if i post about the same thing too many times

No. 618122

>>618116
you get banned for everything here.

No. 618123

>>618116
Obviously depends what the thing is but probably not unless you’re posting about it too many times to argue with someone for hours/ derail

No. 618128

Only vaguely aware about stocks but a friend of mine is really into them and told me about Tesla and Apple’s stock split. Is it a dumb idea for me to buy a stock in each if I have the money? Or should I not even bother?

No. 618179

>>618110
Oh god not at all! Whenever I weigh myself it currently comes up to something in the low 140s or high 130s and I’m currently and a size 6. I want to lose maybe 10 or 15 pounds and I’m thinking of buying some size 4 clothes for motivation but I’m not sure if I’d have to be boney and emaciated to fit in them.

No. 618180

How do you get that hot new romantic relationship feeling back in an old one that has had a dead sex life for the last year? I'm dying here. He's always busy at work or working in his garage, I get cuckblocked by his friends or his adhd - like he's been saying for hours that he'll come see me but he keeps wandering off getting distracted then gets annoyed when I keep calling him.

No. 618183

>>618180
break up and find a better guy, he sounds annoying as fuck

No. 618185

>>618128
Do it anon, if you have the money, do it.

No. 618186

>>618180
It depends on the reasons why the relationship has a dead sex life in the first place

No. 618188

>>618114
Ever since I've seen her videos recommended a long time ago I wondered the same thing

No. 618189

A guy I used to like suddenly is very into me, after making me feel like I was an annoyance an a nutjob at the start of our friendship.
And now he's super sweet to me.

What should I do? any other girls here with this experience?

No. 618191

What are your experiences with dieting and trying to eat healthy?

In my case, whenever I start eating anything healthy, immediately, EVERYONE feels like they have the authority to tell me if I'm doing something wrong and to eat x instead. I just want people to shut the fuck up and chill. Any anons that can relate?

No. 618192

>>618191
YES. I always think this and it’s been a hard rule for me for years that I just never talk about my diet with people because I really don’t want unsolicited advice and for some reason people just can’t help themselves when it comes to this topic.

No. 618193

>>618189
>used to like him

I have experienced with this one. He misses the attention & wants to prove to himself that he can get it back. He’s just trying to fuel his own ego.
It’s his loss anon, don’t give him the satisfaction

No. 618194

>>618191
Here's an idea: Stop telling people what the fuck you're doing in your life, you're a grown ass woman.

If they have a problem with you not eating a cheeseburger and choosing a salad instead, that's on them and you should say just that.

No. 618196

>>618191
I tend to have people telling me that I don’t need to diet when I clearly have issues. And it’s not even something that I would say I do just to drop some pounds, it’s just good to eat good food, really, it feels amazing when you eat a salad instead of a burger.

Just tell them that you’re going to a nutritionist or something and they will stop being too spergy about your dieting.

No. 618198

>>618194
The problem is that when I DO start losing weight people tend to be nosy and ask me what am I doing. Then they give me unsolisited advice.
That, and media everywhere telling me to stop doing x or x. I'm just tired.

No. 618202

>>618191
I'm fat and trying to lose weight. I get annoyed now and then when people have started to notice and feel the need to tell me how many calories are in this and that. Like, it's nice that they're noticing and being supportive, I suppose, but I wish I could just be left the fuck alone.

I'm losing count over the times a coworker, friend or even my partner has seen me eat a handful of nuts only to give me the generic "you know nuts are actually bad if you have a lot of them, right?"

That's why I'm only having a handful, Tina. Thanks for telling me, Tina. I'm so glad you warned me of perhaps the most generic "healthy fun fact" there is, Tina. Suck my nuts, Tina.

No. 618205

>>618202
EXACTLY ANON YOU GET ME!!!!
Like, jesus christ. I eat some veggie sandwich and they're like "did you know that veggie sandwich has actually this many calories?" or I eat fruit and they're like "did you know fruit is actually super bad because it has a ton of sugar?"

Jesus fucking christ I'm TRYING my fucking best, yes I know that eating a lot of a certain food will make you die or whatever but like if I don't try I just immediately go back to my unhealthy mentality of "lol who cares, I'll keep eating shit then, at least no one bothers me and it's tasty" and just being fucking depressed about it.

>inb4 sensitive

I don't give a fuck.

No. 618211

Does anyone else have a mom who is overly emotionally dependant on you?
Anyone who would kindly want to talk about this experience?

No. 618213

>>618205
Same! People would leave me alone when I ate unhealthy and was a slob. Now it's like they can't wait to give me the next piece of advice on how to lose weight.

I've just tried my best to say thank you and not engage in further conversation. God forbid you ask friends and family to leave you alone because you want to lose weight in peace and not make a big deal out of it. Cue the "why are you being so defensive!? If you were doing well you wouldn't be so annoyed by advice blah blah blah"

Also weight and diet is a sensitive topic. I got fat because I used food for comfort after a traumatic experience, so of course it's a sensitive subject and we should be allowed to have at least somewhat of an emotional reaction to unsolicited advice.

No. 618220

>>618213
I also use food as comfort, it really sucks, because in times of loneliness it's the only thing that might make you a bit happy.

I had some small experiences with eating disorders when I was a teen (experiences, not full on sick) and that really did affect the way I grew up and the way I see food. I can't eat anything without thinking aftwerwards how fat I will get. I can't find a middle ground of healthy eating yet. So people giving me their comments about the food I eat doesn't sit well with me.
I either must eat close to nothing or clean foods only, or hamfist pizza slices inside my mouth. I hate being myself, my thoughts really never leave me alone.

No. 618221

>>618191
my idiot friends keep doing this because they have been trying a bunch of fad diets. every time they try a new one they make a point to tell me it's "the best diet" even though they keep switching and never lose weight and i have lost 20 lbs already. it's so frustrating.

No. 618238

Did anything end up coming from the FBI ‘investigation’ of Onision?

No. 618277

What physical features are considered stereotypical of Russian/Slavic people?

No. 618280

My boyfriend texted me that he was finally done with work but his phone was dying almost two hours ago. He hasn't made it home yet. Is he dead?

No. 618286

>>618277
This is just my personal observation as an American, but I think Russian people usually have nice bone structure, especially in the jaw. I also think square and heart face shapes and prominent noses are pretty common amongst them.

No. 618349

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>>618277
I think most Slavs look like cats with big noses.

it’s kind of cute tbh

No. 618350

Did any MySpace “celebs” (excluding actual musicians) find fame and fortune besides Jeffrey Star?

No. 618354

>>618280
No, he’s at a chemsex party.

No. 618358

>>618179
NTA but I wouldn’t base anything on clothing sizes, as it varies so much from place to place, as well as general cut of specific pieces of clothes. I’ve been recklessly buying a bunch of sale stuff online in anywhere between a size 0 - 6 and have no idea what size I actually am anymore.

No. 618387

>>618349
Only on dudes though, unfortunately

>t. Slav girl

No. 618393

>>618286
>>618349
Hmmm I asked because I always get told I look Russian but I don’t get what people mean by it or what Russian people are supposed to even look like. I’m not white and have a really small nose though so I’m more confused now.

No. 618429

>>618393
They might just be saying you look like a prostitute

No. 618453

Perhaps I am better off not knowing this one but what exactly is FDS? Is it like the incel looksmaxxing thing or MGTOW?

No. 618455

>>618453
It's short for the femaledatingstrategy subreddit. Idk much about it cause I've only been there once, but from what I've seen, it's women discussing how to glow up into a "high-value" woman, get a good man and complaining about men sometimes. It has to be more than that though considering how much anons don't like it

No. 618462

>>618455
Anons who don't like it haven't actually spent much time there, probably just read the wiki and got mad they expect men to pay for dates and assume when they say a man is 'high value' they mean rich and handsome (that's not what it means).

99% of the actual daily posts is just standard pinkpilled stuff, much of which was in our own pp threads - shitting on men who treat women badly, shitting on pickmes, and encouraging women to have better self esteem, higher standards, not to settle for abusers and losers etc. I don't even date but I still read it because I like reading posts from women who love themselves.

No. 618468

>>618462
Being straight seems so miserable holy shit.

No. 618476

>>618462
That's weird. I would think anons here would support women going for rich and attractive men, but maybe it's the anons who are ok with applebee's dates complaining. just jokes

Just visited there again and the subreddit looks cool asf. Definitely gonna browse there more.

No. 618484

Does anyone have that one cow pixel that farmhands sometimes put on people's posts?

No. 618485

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>>618484
Nvm, found it.

No. 618486

>>618476
idk I assume it's a knee jerk reaction to what they perceive as arrogance, like everyone on FDS is a shit tier woman and deserves a similarly shitty man. That seems to be the common complaint on the FDS thread on /g/. But it's not unreasonably high standards to expect your bf to be nice to you and committed to the relationship lmao, even if everyone on there is an ugly fat failure at life they are still allowed to reject men who don't treat them well.

No. 618487

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>>618393
I think it might be a compliment because Americans think of Russian women as looking basically like pic related bc of movie stereotypes

No. 618500

>>618487
Is that Angelina Jolie? She’s not even Russian.

No. 618501

>>618393
It's probably your cheekbones.

No. 618515

>>618280
Did he die?

No. 618533

Do you guys bring your phone with you to the toilet when you poop?

No. 618534

>>618533
I don't wanna poop with my thoughts

No. 618537

>>618533
No but I poop quickly, never got why some people take a while

No. 618538

>>618537
cause we bring our phones.

No. 618539

>>618537
My bowels simply aren't what they used to be

No. 618542

>>618191
>I just want people to shut the fuck up and chill.
So tell them? The solution is so easy.

>>618533
Gross, no. I never ever take my phone into the bathroom.

No. 618544

>>618537
I like taking my time to poop and ponder about my life. In the toilet, you're truly away from judgement and people. It's basically meditation. I try not to bring my phone.

No. 618545

How do I wake up or get up on time?
My sleeping schedule is so messed up and nothing I try helps. I've been going to bed ridiculously late since close to decade already, never before 2, sometimes as late as 5, when I set my alarm early, yet it takes me 1-2 hours to even wake up, I just don't hear the multiple alarms I've set or I continuesly hit snooze without ever really gaining consciousness, and once I'm awake I'm on my phone for another 2 hours, because I don't want to get up and face whatever shitty thing my day brings (usually studying which I hate). I'm so tired all the time, but nevertheless can't fall asleep at a reasonable time or rather I can't bring myself to even go to bed.

No. 618553

>>618542
>Gross
imagine flushing the toilet without the lid closed.

No. 618554

>>618545
Here's what I would do: go to sleep 5 minutes earlier everyday. So if you're usually go to sleep at 2, tonight you're going to sleep at 1:55, tomorrow night at 1:50. Put all electronics, including your phone, away an hour before going to sleep. Try to set a sleep routine (for example, showering, brushing your teeth, reading a little bit and then going to sleep, whatever works for you) This will initially probably kinda suck, and you'll probably have to force yourself to actually go to bed, but at least it's something you have control over (unlike not waking up to multiple alarms). Do this until you reach a pre-determined time you'd like to go sleep at from now on (maybe that's 11 pm or something, whatever works for you). After a while you'll probably start waking up earlier naturally because you're well rested and you can do the same thing for your waking up time.

Solution for hitting snooze: there's alarm apps that have you do something before you can turn it off or snooze, for example solve a math question, shake your phone or scan a QR code. That will help getting you awake. (You could print a QR code and leave it in the kitchen so you're forced to get out of bed, go to the kitchen and scan the QR code to make the alarm turn off. By time you've done all that you're probably awake enough to make the conscious decision to stay out of bed and have breakfast or something.)

No. 618578

What's the weirdest job you anons ever had?

No. 618579

>>618578
Not a job but still something I made money from.. selling my very well worn shoes to some weird foot fetish perv. I had a bf at the time so he'd be the one to actually do the handing over of the shoes lol

No. 618581

>>618578
I used to make and sell elaborate stuffed animals, but my repeat customers were incredibly creepy- like skin-wearing level creepy. Lots of men buying stuffed animals just to be able to include something gross in the "extra notes" section, eccentric fat gay guys and really depressed DDLG-type girls. It scared me out of it so now I just donate them.

No. 618582

>>618581
I collect plushies (feel like an autist saying this) and I follow different brands and tags related to that on Insta..the overlap between plushies and weirdo perverts is so odd to me but I'm always accidently coming across it in those tags

Is nothing left innocent anymore?

No. 618584

>>618105
I seriously thought you meant shoe size and all I could picture was you tipping over on those tiny things.

No. 618594

>>618578
Trimmed marijuana while staying with an intentional community in the forest

No. 618598

HOw do people drink piping hot coffee without burning their tongue and throat

No. 618601

>>618598
secret technique called "sipping"

No. 618615

>>618598
Do people do that? At home I just wait a minute. I've noticed over the years that most take away or cafe coffees are served at a safe temp to drink right away. Maybe to avoid getting sued.

No. 618617

>>618598
I burned my throat so often on hot tea that it doesn't hurt anymore (this is probably not healthy lel)

No. 618619

>>618579
Was this on Ebay?

No. 618624

Is it weird or harmful to spray your underwear with perfume? I've never done it before but for some reason the idea just popped into my mind today and now I'm curious

No. 618630

>>618619
No a guy on FB saw me wearing old boots in a pic, he contacted me and for a while I'd sell him my shoes as they got old and worn. Bf would meet him in a shopping centre car park and hand them over for me.

No. 618633

>>618598
You could pour it from one cup to another, back and forth. It increases the surface area.

No. 618653

>>618500
That’s the point

No. 618657

>>618624
I feel like it's not a good idea. Some other anon can probably explain it better but all I know is that even unfragranced pantiliners are better than fragranced ones so I'd assume any perfume or fragrance down there in any way is a no-no lol.

No. 618658

>>618615
Not sure if you care or are US based but that is exactly why! Here's a wiki page of the case if you are interested lol https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liebeck_v._McDonald%27s_Restaurants

No. 618660

>>618624
Any fragranced intimate wipe or baby wipe that I've used down there has left my urethra unhappy, I would think full on perfume has even more potential to irritate

No. 618697

>>618658
I always used to hear about this case as an example of a frivolous lawsuit, but it's crazy how hot that coffee actually was and how much it affected that woman. Poor lady was hospitalized and disabled for years. McDonald's really tried to discredit her as a lawsuit-happy Karen when they sold her a cup of liquid goddamn fire.

No. 618699

>>618624
I remember an anon mentioning 'panty perfumes' in another thread somewhere if I recall correctly. It's like a perfume specifically for underwear. I remember it because I've never heard of such a thing before. Maybe you could google it

No. 618706

>>618697
I felt bad reading that it all basically spilled into her lap..I imagine she had skin grafts in some delicate and hard to heal spots.

A place near my house has a self service coffee machine where even the milkiest coffees come out of it scorching hot. The thin cheapy cups don't help. Emailed them a year ago just to give feedback and I'm still burning the thumb off myself whenever I get one.

No. 618714

Do you think it's true that if you have no enemies you have no true allies either?

No. 618721

I appreciate whiteknights who defend folks that failed and decide to study at a later age

But I wonder, as a loser, are those whiteknights losers too or are they variating in demographics/socioeconomic background? I hope the latter. Or else I’ll feel meh.

No. 618722

>>618714
No, I'd be a bit careful befriending anyone with too many enemies, personally

No. 618725

>>618515
No he didn’t die lol. Was just working at a job further out of town than I thought. Now that it’s finished he gets the week off though.

No. 618728

>>618714
No, but also it's probably not healthy to divide people into allies and enemies. We're just people, not countries at war.

No. 618732

>>618728
How dare you be so level headed, don't you know we love black and white thinking on here?

No. 618741

>>618721
the first thing you should do is evaluate why you're referring to yourself as a loser and why you feel like a loser deep down. which you are aren't. ever. life is always full of potential and so are you.
lolcow is a gossip site and full of condescending, mean, heartless bitches who can only tear others down instead of building anyone up.
you tie the value of a "whiteknight"s opinion to their success in life. but it made you feel better and seen, didn't it? that's because the sentiment and idea was good regardless of their success. you crave an easy answer that a successful anon is smiling upon your lack of accomplishment and sees your potential or it doesn't exist otherwise. you're an approval-addict like me, like my unaccomplished self. but there isn't an easy answer. do you believe people are their accomplishments and that their value is inherently tied to them? that's a sad way to live. nothing is ever permanent or safe. improve yourself and your life but not to flatter the rat race and soul-sucking hamsterwheel that is society. get inspired and get working on it but not to torture yourself with misplaced, masochistic, impossible approval-addiction.

No. 618775

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Can someone pls explain this image to me

No. 618862

>>618775
Idk the guy but the blue arm is something from a quarter machine. it was sticky and you would fling it at a wall or something.

No. 618869

Do libraries have a future?

No. 618878

>>618775
So, I'm not too sure about the smash game or whatever, but I think it's talking about Marth's extremely long grab range (compared to fighters) I've seen similar memes about this in other fighting games

No. 618884

Do you think being really into fitness/body building is kind of a red flag with men? I do but idk if I’m just being paranoid. I just feel like there’s a lot of overlap between incel loser types and a hyper focus on fitness.

No. 618887

>>618884
If its their entire persona, it's a red flag. But anyone who wants to be fit and not a slob is already A+

No. 618903

>>618869
I think so, because even if most books can be saved and shared on the internet, not everyone will always have the access to it and therefore access to the books. Specially because sometimes it’s really hard to get the books for people that are not tech savvy nor have the patience to skim through a list of random archives that could or could not be viruses in disguise.

I’ve also read sometime ago that libraries offer other services like renting PCs, courses and even baking molds to rent depending on the library.

No. 618906

Do people on the left truly hate guns and want them all banned?

No. 618909

>>618906
‘The left’ covers a very wide group of different ideologies. There’s not one opinion on it. There are plenty of leftists who definitely don’t want guns banned.

No. 618911

Is Jordan Peterson lying about his diet of just beef and salt? I don’t get how it’s possible to live off, would you not die or at least become severely ill if you were not eating any fruits or vegetables? Like wouldn’t you not have a lot of vitamin severe deficiencies and probably get scurvy?

No. 618913

>>618911
My real question is how the fuck does he shit

No. 618915

>>618906
Plenty of people on “the left” are pro-carry, they just want there to actually be laws in place so less kids can obtain guns and shoot up schools

No. 618916

>>618911
*sorry I meant severe vitamin deficiencies

No. 618922

>>618909
I wish tards would understand this.

No. 618927

File: 1598736727558.jpg (23.21 KB, 458x458, summermiku.jpg)

Idk if I should post this in the toy thread instead, but I was wondering whether or not other anons would consider ¥1,980 to be a decent deal on this figurine (pic related)

No. 618929

>>618927
She is so cute. Id buy her in a heartbeat.

No. 618943

File: 1598737608964.png (524.91 KB, 1280x720, 1446504514739.png)

why am I only horny when I'm hungry, constipated, or tired

No. 618956

>>618927
that's a Taito figure, they're usually 1500-3500 yen so it's a decent price. they come in different colors or facial expressions so some become rare since everyone wants that variant. figure in pic is actually like the 2nd maybe 3rd variant color. Taito has a page on myfigurecollection if you want to see the other ones!

No. 618990

>>618977
I would be! I wonder what other anons dream homes are and tastes are like.

No. 619082

File: 1598760664244.png (387.34 KB, 600x600, AsianNostalgia.png)

Does anyone have a Tiger rice cooker and can tell me where they got theirs? I think I might venture down to Chinatown soon since it's really expensive on Amazon, but I'm not sure that there would be a price difference.

No. 619085

>>619082
got mine off of 淘宝网 taobao aka chinese amazon. it's not like wish or anything, its the main website to buy chinese products in mainland. depending on where you live it may take forever to ship but it's possible. also the website is only in chinese lol.

No. 619088

>>619085
Ohh man, I wish I paid attention in Mandarin class.. Thanks anyway anon!

No. 619118

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>>619082
I have pic related, not sure how much it differs from a tiger rice cooker but it is half the price and I love it, my family has been using it for many years.

No. 619140

How to tell if someone in zoom class likes you? Is it even possible to tell

No. 619144

>>619140
How old are you bud?

No. 619146

>>619088
There are actually tons of shopping services for taobao! And some of them even offer to find an item for you if you don't want to navigate through it with google translate (unless they fully became a mobile app now?). I used taobaoring 2-3 years ago but I'm not sure if the're still good. It probably wouldn't hurt to try just emailing your SS of choice about the rice cooker, I'm sure they can help.

No. 619193

Are cereal bars really any healthier than say eating a bar of choc?

I don't have any weight issues or that but I'm trying to replace my chocolate drawer with a variety of cereal bars with more raisins and oats in them than choc, am I kidding myself by thinking they're much better?

No. 619201

why was PULL even taken down i'm so confused

No. 619203

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>>619082
Certified rice afficionado here reccomending you to save up to get a zojirushi.

No. 619207

>>619201
nyx said she couldn't find a new admin but I don't doubt that money, server troubles and not wanting to hand over the domain while also not wanting to run it herself anymore also played a big role.

No. 619211

>>619193
They're only slightly healthier but it depends what ones you get. A lot of them are filled with sugar but have less calories. If you dont have weight problems and you eat healthy otherwise, you might as well keep the chocolate.

No. 619218

how normal is it to be able to orgasm without touching yourself? like, just by listening to certain music and thinking about the person you're attracted to

No. 619225

>>619218
I would think it's uncommon, and kinda impressive

No. 619227

>>619218
wow you’re powerful

No. 619235

Anons, I want to get pink Razer mic because its pink and cute, but is quality any good and worth its price?

No. 619249

Ladies, how do you put your bra on?

I usually do the clasp, then put it on over my head, like a shirt.
If it's strapless I'll put it around me, do the clasps in the front, then turn it around.

No. 619250

>>619249
dilate

No. 619252

Did anyone else dress pretty smart yet cool at some point in high school or something, got too bold, looked dumb and too much for a few years, then just got into this comfy but stylish funk. Am I getting old for thinking the past me was so much cooler without even trying.

No. 619254

>>619249
I'm not flat and/or fat enough for that

No. 619255

>>619250
asherahsgarden.net

No. 619258

>>619249
I've never heard of someone putting a clasped bra on over their head.

No. 619261

>>619249
>I usually do the clasp, then put it on over my head, like a shirt.
My first thought was "wtf" but I do wear bralettes that have no clasps and so of course I put them on like a t-shirt.
But putting it on normally isn't hard, what kind of question is that. Just put it on and clasp it behind you. Or just don't wear bras and feel the freedom. Love having small tits.

No. 619263

>>619249
>If it's strapless I'll put it around me, do the clasps in the front, then turn it around.
ngl I do this with all my bras, I just can't clasp it behind me.

No. 619267

>>619255
crystal.cafe

No. 619271

>>619118
I'm looking on Amazon and tons of reviews are saying it turns their rice yellow/brown. Are these just retarded white people who try to keep their rice warm for 24hrs??

>>619203
They're similar pricing but tbh I'm trying to get a Tiger since my family has used one for 20+ years. I'll consider this brand if I find a cheaper price for it though lol, thanks!

No. 619284

>>619249
>>619258
I put my bras on that exact way, by clasping it before putting it on and then pulling it over my head and shoulders like a tank top. I've done it that way since I had to start wearing bras. I was never taught what the "proper" way to put one on was and because that works, that's still how I do it. I think at one point as a teenager my mom realized I put them on that way and told me the "right" way was to;
>put it upside-down under breasts
>turn clasp towards front, clasp it
>turn it back around
>flip it right-side up onto boobs
>pull the straps up
but I always felt like that's just extra steps for no reason?

No. 619285

>>619203
tiger is actually more popular in asia than zojirushi. that said i have zojirushi because my grandma had it and it's the first brand to be popularized for overseas market

>>619271
white people don't know how to make rice or use rice cookers

No. 619286

>>619284
I feel like turning it seems like it'll wear out the bra faster. I just slip into the straps and then clasp it behind me by feel. Done and done.

No. 619288

>>619249
Lmao I do the clasp first and then put it on over my head method, it’s unconventional but way easier. I usually just wear sports bras though.

>>619254
>mfw flat and fat

No. 619290

>>619288
>it's unconventional but way easier
This, kek. I'm not putting on a show for anyone, I'm just trying to get the thing on. Weird that the one anon got accused of being a tranny just for that.

>mfw flat and fat

I don't know if it's weight/cup size related then, I'm 116 lbs and 34B and I pull it over my head too.

No. 619294

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My legs look very similar to this, not that extreme but similar. Is there anything I can do for it to go away (besides a tan)? I don't wear shorts anymore because of how disgusting I think it is.

I also have a healthy but low-ish body fat % and lift heavy 4 times per week so exercise isn't helping.

No. 619297

>>619294
Your legs look… normal? I'm not sure what exactly you want to fix

No. 619301

>>619294
My legs look like this too. Get over yourself and just wear your cute shorts. No one is going to say anything and if they do, kick them,

No. 619303

>>619294
Same here anon, I don't think there's any fix besides a tan. Pale skin makes veins more noticeable.

No. 619309

Should i start talking to him again? It probably isnt a good idea since he used to send me jerk off vids when i was underage but im over 18 now, and i feel like he really understood me, we used to talk a lot and he actually introduced me to a lot of feminist ideas. He did make me cry a lot too idk. I think he must be around 30 now. I was reading the messages he sent me after i blocked him and im kind of missing the feeling of someone listening to me and talking to me, im just so extremely lonely

No. 619319

>>619309

DON'T DO IT ANON

The eventual pain is never worth the temporary pleasure of feeling wanted by some fuckboy

No. 619320

>>619309
Chances are he jerks off to lots of other kids and uses a faux emotional connection to keep them interested, that's what pedos do

No. 619328

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>>619309
>he used to send me jerk off vids when i was underage
>he actually introduced me to a lot of feminist ideas

No. 619331

>>619319
>>619320
I know you're right, i'm gonna regret it later but it's so tempting when you haven't talked to someone in months and his caring messages just makes me wanna tell him how i've been doing and i dunno anon
>>619328
He really did anon and i vented all my frustrations about having no dad and being molested and he agreed with it all and told me about feminist literature and all…

No. 619340

>>619331
stay strong anon, the guy is a predator and you will feel disgusted by this shit in a couple of years. don't traumatize yoursel

No. 619344

>>619331
Nta but you told him about being sexually abused and not having a Dad… If that didn't deter him despite your obvious emotional vulnerability, let alone your age, dude's a predator. You're probably not the only girl he did this to under the guise of being a totez progressive feminist man. Take it from someone who's made similar mistakes.

No. 619347

Soz for samefag but this anon's on it >>619340
>you will feel disgusted by this shit in a couple of years. don't traumatize yourself

No. 619355

>>619340
>>619344
I've decided i will not interact with him in any way, it's true it's not worth it at all and i will regret letting him into my life, i shouldn't have read those messages. He was probably being sweet just so he could get his rocks off to me again, it was unbearable before too, listening to his moaning and him describing in great detail what he wanted to do to me and i hated it back then too, i liked the times we just talked but they were so few and far inbetween… thank you anons for talking me out of it, i shouldn't make the same mistake twice

No. 619361

>>619355
I'm glad we might have helped in this situation. It's all so alluring when you focus solely on how he groomed you. You give him the benefit of the doubt and end up feeling disgusted, regretful and ultimately blaming yourself. If not soon after, years down the track, and the mistake stays with you forever so you just learn to cope with it.

No. 619437

how come that when i used to jog a mile around my neighbourhood every evening i had absolutely no pulled muscles afterwards, but now that ive gone jogging to an actual race track (still a mile only) i have pulled and sore muscles every single day? wtf?

No. 619457

>>619437
you're probably just used to the sidewalk/road from before. technically that and the track are different types of terrain.

No. 619471

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My boyfriend just randomly out of nowhere sent me a post-shower pic of himself, topless, with his body looking like pic related and a very, very smug "I wanna have sex" face. Is it normal to feel repulsion?

No. 619474

>>619471
you're not attracted to your boyfriend's body. it's not abnormal but is it a good sign in a relationship? probably not.

No. 619478

>>619471
I mean… was he at least posing seductively or something? I've never had an SO but feeling repulsed by your boyfriend's body is odd.

No. 619486

>>619478
I don't think I'm suuuper repulsed by his body, I think he's chubby and cute. But his smug red face, wet hair, and "I'm gonna fuck you" look makes me want to run away.

No. 619489

>>618533
I do, but I set it aside when it's time to wipe and don't pick it back up until I've washed my hands.

No. 619495

>>619486
that's a bad sign for sure.

No. 619498

How common is it for people in relationships, or even marriages, to have unprotected sex? From what I've heard, having unprotected sex is considered to be expected of women in marriages, which I find weird since that seems risky (especially since married mothers are usually the most likely to get an abortion, if I'm correct)

No. 619499

>>619471
IDK how strong repulsion we're talking about but maybe you're not into the idea of sending "seductive nudes" to each other? I find my bf very hot and attractive but if he sent me a naked photo of himself posing seductively I think I'd be amused at best, definitely not aroused, since for me turn on is physical connection, not just viewing a picture.

No. 619502

>>619498
I only have unprotected sex, but my boyfriend had a vasectomy and we’re monogamous, so there not a lot of risk for us. I still don’t let him cum inside of me though.

No. 619503

>>619498
i think most people stop using condoms and instead use other kinds of birth control non hormonal usually(some married men may even get a vasectomy) but i think not needing condoms is a huge plus.

No. 619504

>>619498
>prior to menopause
Not very common unless you're actually trying for kids. People who just want fruitless sex use SOME kind of protection, be it birth control, condoms, etc.
Abortion is expensive and shitty to go through, and people who "get used to it" are abnormal.

>post-menopause or tubes tied

Fairly common, no need to protect when you can't make kids.

>>619471
I'm gonna agree with >>619499 bc men tend to incorrectly think that female sexual attraction works the same way male sexual attraction works, which it doesn't.
There's a reason why many women prefer nsfw fiction over visual porn.

No. 619507

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why is there a massive community around to catch a predator on youtube? Why are people so obsessed with dateline? I dont understand

No. 619527

I really can't place men's age. I'm 20, so every man who's older than me, but not geriatric or middle aged looks uhhh 35? Is this normal?

No. 619531

>>619507
For dateline, i think people like it just cause it's true crime. Reading morbid stories is like watching a train wreck. For To catch a predator, I think some people like to see justice being brought to pedos, and also some predators like to catch other predators. I guess to make themselves feel better.

The True crime community has been thriving for a couple years, but idk why all these predator shows and videos are suddenly a trend.

No. 619547

>>619527
Idk if it’s normal but I have the exact same thing. I can only really classify them as young, middle age, or elderly but I wouldn’t be able to give an accurate guess of their precise age range. I think I kind of struggle in general with facial recognition though, may be an autism thing idk

No. 619548

Why do guys on Bumble who announce that they want "casual" stuff ALSO announce that they want children someday?? It's so weird. I understand wanting children later but if you're looking for something casual, it sends a weird mixed message. Or that the guy is trying to babytrap and then leave.

No. 619554

>>619548
It's not that deep… they want kids eventually, and right now they want casual.

No. 619560

>>619554
NTA but if they're just looking for something casual there is no point in mentioning they want kids.

No. 619566

>>619249
I do that but I heard it's something old ladies do lol

No. 619608

Do you ever feel randomly repulsed by someone for no real reason? Once one of my professors was talking to me about how she sometimes has a 'biological repulsion' to certain men who are perfectly nice and normal looking and how she thinks it's a subconscious thing like maybe she's picking up on some genes they have that wouldn't work well together or something and I feel like I get that too, sometimes people are just extremely off putting but there's no real reason.

No. 619611

>>619608
I've definitely had that feeling but only with men I'm dating. Sometimes everything goes well and I think they are cute but then they get close to me or touch me and I feel repulsed and no longer want anything to do with them. I wonder if it's saved me from any shitty relationships.

No. 619697

why are people so mad at bella thorne? I read an article about and I'm confused. something like she made an onlyfans and then it took attention from other creators. but how is that her fault?

No. 619698

Should I watch Hannibal? I was watching its fan videos on youtube and I got intrigued. Is it extremely gore-y?

No. 619706

>>619698
I loved Hannibal. I highly recommend it I'm almost sad that it came back into popularity because it was just fine being one of those hidden magnificent gems back in 2013 or whenever

No. 619731

>>619608
I do and when it happens, I trust my gut and run. Dunno about bad genes but if my brain is blarring the alarm, I'll dip no matter what.
I've read the gift of fear, tho.

No. 619749

Does anyone else experience peeling of the inside of their mouth after brushing teeth? Sorry this is gross but I wonder if this is normal

No. 619752

>>619698
Murder scenes are gorey but you dont see actual gore happening and they're shot in the way to make them as beautiful as possible, so in the result you get something that is disturbing but really aesthetically appealing. Definitely not your typical gore, I'm sure you'll be fine. First episode is a perfect example how the rest of the series will be like so if you'll be fine how things are portrayed there, you'll be fine with the rest.

No. 619759

>>619698
Yes

>>619749
Go see your doc/dentist

No. 619765

>>618211
If you are still here, yes. It's not like that anymore because it was too draining and I went no contact for a while. It was like the roles were reversed and I'm the Mom. She told me all those horrible things that happened to her and wanted to get comforted or something. She wanted me to sleep next to her in her bed, kissed and cuddled me. There is a lot more tho, I kinda tried to forget about it. It went on from when I was 15 to 20y.

No. 619807

Anyone else naturally “muscular”? I’m quite petite and thin but I’ve realised I have huge defined biceps for a woman who doesn’t really work out. I’m not insecure about it I’m just curious to know.

No. 619813

>>619749
Switch your toothpaste anon, I had this happen and turns out it was the toothpaste I was using. It caused me a ton of pain after my membranes started becoming inflamed due to the constant peeling.

No. 619816

What is the best music video by an american artist in your opinion?
I think humble by kendrick has gotta be in the top 3.

No. 619836

>>619816
This was next in the recommended when I looked up Humble by Kendrick Lamar so I'm going with it.

No. 619859

Is anyone here in a 3 way relationship? Or have a girlfriend while married/romantically involved with a man

No. 619860

Are there any old versions of photoshop I can pirate that won't set off that integrity service popup?

No. 619862


No. 619864

>>619859
No but I've had women offer me that side-piece type relationship before, not exactly a tempting offer!

No. 619866

>>619859
You mean the worst kind of woman?

No. 619870

>>619862
back2ag

No. 619873

>>619859
I had two triad rls in the past. Crazy how quickly men are willing to leave their 10 year wife once they tasted new pussy. Meanwhile the wives are totally in denial about how much they hate the poly thing. Two marriages in shambles, I realized all previously exclusive couples are to be avoided.

No. 619877

>>619859
I have a friend who did that. He's married and his wife and her girlfriend go at it. But now he's mad that the other woman doesn't wanna leave and he has to sleep on the couch KEK it's a fucking mess.

Don't do it ya'll. You're just asking for trouble.

No. 619879

>>619873
> triads, Crazy how quickly men are willing to leave their 10 year wife once they tasted new pussy
Witnessed the fallout of this happening once and holy fuck the 'new couple' wanted the ex wife to be all smiles and happy for them. I've never rooted so hard for a relationship to fail. The really screwed the wife over. Left her life in bits.

No. 619930

If someone uses your photo for an IG post without your consent to promote their content, is it worth it to DM them asking them to take it down, or is it a better idea to just contact IG and have it removed as a privacy violation?
If you report them to IG, will they be notified that you did it?

No. 619980

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Was going to post this in the Unpopular Opinions thread but I don't really know how popular/unpopular it is. Figured it'd fit more here.

Almost all babies of European descent are born with blue eyes, and they stay blue for the first 1-2 years until either 1. remaining blue or 2. turning green/hazel/brown. If they turn green, the baby's green-eyed, if they turn brown, the baby's brown-eyed, and so on. So if that's understood, why do women who were born with blonde hair that became brown as they grew up call themselves blondes?

When I started growing hair it was medium blonde, and by the time I was 10 (and up to now) it was medium brown. According to that logic, shouldn't I be telling people I'm ~actually~ blonde-haired and blue-eyed despite my clearly dark brown hair and eyes? Kek.

No. 619981

>>619930
look at the ig tos

No. 619985

>>619980
I've seen lots of blonde babies turn dark but I didn't know some still consider themselves blondes forever, that's weird

No. 619988

>>619980
Hair/eye color is a spectrum, different people will look at the same eye color and see different things, whether it's due to lighting or just their idea of the color.

The real cringe is people saying their hair or eyes "change color" like a fucking mood ring. I can't believe how many adults I've met who think their eyes turn green when they're angry or some shit, or "I'm actually a blonde, look at my hair in the sun!"

No. 619989

>>619980
What kind of a tard calls themselves blonde if they aren't? Lillee jean types yes but normal people? I had seven as a kid and now 4 and people told me it was GOLDEN BROWN or some shit, it's fucking brown mate.

No. 619991

>>619985
Yeah, I didn't know if that was common or not hence why I didn't post it in UO. It was discussion in the /snow/ Tradthots thread that got me thinking about it, I guess one of the thread subjects calls herself blonde (even though her hair is light brown) because she was blonde as a child?

No. 619992

>>619988
Kek, I've known people like that as well. It's like a person with dark brown saying "my hair changes into light brown in the sun!". Like, no… that's just the sunlight.

>>619989
Exactly. As a brunette looking at that chart I honestly would've considered 8 (medium blonde) to be light brown and 7 (dark blonde) to be brown, but I get that it's subjective for some.

No. 620002

>>619992
Those people tend to love telling the story of their own birth too, lots of interesting self-facts all stored up and ready for conversation lol

No. 620037

>>618911
Well he has a lot of health issues so his diet hasn’t been keeping him healthy. So it’s probable. He has also been recently diagnosed with corona. If not, then he’s just lying out of his ass to get brownie points from his fan base.

No. 620038

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>>620002
>Haha I was actually supposed to be born on my great-grandmother's birthday, but I was born the day after, at 7:29 pm, and her birthday is JULY 29TH, I also have red hair (in the sun) just like her!

No. 620043

>>620002
i hate people who do that. the only baby story i have is that my parents made a bet about my name and luckily wasn't named desiree.

No. 620049

>>619608
Yes, I have. It think it’s a mix of intuition as well as a physical response (ex.dna). I usually rely on how my body reacts to a person, and if I’m repulsed, I stay far away from that person. Every time I don’t listen to the alarm signals my body gives me, the person always ends up being fucked up lol.

No. 620051

>>619980
dark hair and eyes are so undervalued by some people. tbh if i have a child with blonde hair i'll be pissed kek

No. 620055

Why do I always look like shit after I’m done masturbating? Like my skin looks dull and darker? Before I do it, my skin is glowing, my lips are plump, and my eyes are shiny, but afterwards, it’s like everything is lost?

No. 620056

>>620051
Agree. I really like how uniform dark hair and eyes look.

No. 620060

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Is futari wa pretty cure worth watching in-full? I've only watched 3 episodes, and I think it's okay, but not anything particularly worth watching, unless the characters or plot develop further. The only other pretty cure series I've partially seen is the first episode of heartcatch pretty cure, which I dropped because it didn't seem interesting and the constant 'eeeeehhhhh????!!!!'s. I'm also slightly deterred by the fact that the only fans of the show I've seen online are MTF or men

No. 620063

>>620060
Don’t let pixielocks see this she will sperg about the depth and complexities of a little girls chinese cartoon and how MORE PPL SHOULD GIVE IT A CHANCE

No. 620067

is there a correlation between overeating and low iron? i struggled with binge eating disorder in highschool but around my period (even though ive been skipping with birth control bc i have pmdd) i overeat quite a bit and i wonder if it is in anyway related to me having very very low iron as a way to compensate for low energy or something? i am gonna buy iron pills again starting today i know im bad

No. 620068

>>619980
they are trying to tap into the not like other girls market because blonde is technically only 2% of the entire world population.

No. 620074

>>620067
Idk if that’s a scientific fact but anecdotally yes, I had the same issue. It seems logical. Make sure you use a type of iron that doesn’t irritate your digestion otherwise you’ll just shit it out and feel no better

No. 620079

>>619992
The medium blonde is definitely still blonde, get your glasses checked

No. 620080

>>620055
You’re just insane, maybe?

No. 620095

>>620074
okay i am glad it seems logical enough haha! i have ibs so i understand what you mean, i am going to take one my doctor prescribed to me that isnt covered (thats why i put off buying it), but i saw a cheaper price online so ill feel less guilty for purchasing!

No. 620126

>>620055
I look gross cos orgasming sets off my rosacea, dunno about dull skin though

No. 620142

Is there a way to disconnect one specific app from the internet?

No. 620170

>>620142
Like blacklisting websites? If you're using chrome you can get a blacklist app on the webstore.

No. 620202

>>620142
No, a specific app (for example whatsapp or youtube) op my phone (android). I'm just looking for a way to temporarily disable one specific app or prevent it from connecting with the internet while I can still go online with other apps.

No. 620213

>>620095
Iron pills can be hard to digest and may cause stomach pain, constipation, etc., but you can increase iron absorption by eating/drinking something high in vitamin C. Calcium and caffeine interfere with iron absorption so avoid those things around the time you’re taking your iron pill. Also take your iron pill on an empty stomach (besides vitamin C) or at least 1hr before/2hrs after a meal, drink a lot of water, and eat fairly healthy with enough fiber. Since you have IBS I’m trying to save you the pain of more digestive issues kek, I hope you feel better anon!

No. 620219

Hypothetically, where would radical/ gender critical feminism land on the political spectrum? I imagine they would be either authoritarian left or liberitarian left

No. 620242

>>620219
is this the new bait, radfems pretending to be antiradfem instead of fake tranny?

No. 620248

>>620219
far right probs

No. 620257

>>620219
Mid-to-far right, on the border between libertarian and authoritarian. Bold of you to think they're left-wing.

No. 620267

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How to have a personality? I want to make friends with people online & irl. But I've basically experienced anhedonia these past 2 years; and so have no hobbies or interests. I think I could be an attentive pal, but I don't want to be a dark cloud to that person.

What do friendships feel like? what do people do in them?

No. 620271

>>620219
Radical feminism has roots in marxist theory so that would put it on the left side of the economic scale. Gender critical wouldn’t even fit on the compass since they aren’t interested in economics and just anti trans/queer theory

No. 620272

>>620213
omg anon you are so sweet!!!! thanks so much! i had no idea taking iron on an empty stomach is better, i will have to do that from now on. what are the best fibre foods you suggest? theres times i think i am eating enough but i feel like i am wrong lol thanks so much again!

No. 620296

>>620267
You may not have any hobbies or interests currently, but you still have a personality and the ability to form opinions. Show interest in others and then share your feelings and outlook with other people. Usually you would also do things with friends, but that's difficult in the COVID times. Even so, maybe start looking at activities or media that you think might hold some value to you, then connect with other people interested in the same things. So long as you aren't constantly seeking attention and support while providing none to other people, you won't be a drain.

No. 620302

>>620296
Thank you for the advice!~ Yeah COVID is a total bummer in this case. I think that since I flip flop my opinions constantly, and am overall a pretty indecisive person.. I don’t have a concrete personality. I know what it’s like to be emotionally drained by someone, so I worry that I might do the same unintentionally. I’m also apprehensive about finding an interest then finding someone who shares that interest, and then I eventually lose interest in that uh interest and then lose that connection with the person.
Sorry for sounding somewhat defeated.

No. 620324

Is it too late to start watching Sailor Moon?

No. 620334

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No. 620363

Do you guys use productivity apps? Which is your favourite?

No. 620379

>>620363
Shutting my phone off.

No. 620408

>>620324
Nope. It's a timeless series, it was made in the early 90's but doesn't feel dated at all. It has a big, dormant fandom that consists of people who saw it at some point and remember it fondly, and are always willing to talk about it despite not actively keeping it in their lives. I'd definitely recommend watching it because it's way better than you'd probably expect.

No. 620420

Can someone explain the 'dudes rock' meme to me? Like what's the context/where does it come from?

No. 620503

Is it alright to drop certain anime classics if I don't find them particularly interesting or entertaining?

No. 620509

>>620503
Of course, it's just anime…. you should watch it for your entertainment, if it's not entertaining to you then don't watch it.

No. 620512

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Does anyone have that pic of this bishoujo figurine of Michael Meyers but as a guy? It also showed male (but less attractive) male versions of the other horror bishoujo figurines, like Freddy Kruger

No. 620515

ladies I'm a fucking idiot when it comes to history of any kind. I don't know shit about world events, or understand how or why relationships between certain countries are how they are, or know anything about the origins of the human species. I've tried reading a few books but I SUCK at devoting my attention to reading. Please someone give me some recommendations for podcasts, or some kind of audio media that's engaging so I can start educating myself it's so embarrassing how little I know jfc

No. 620519

>>620515
Maybe you should first try to learn about history of something you like? Music, art, science literature?

No. 620528

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No. 620545

Anyone else struggles with restricting food as a way of self harm? And how to get over it?

No. 620546

>>620528
thank you, anon

No. 620548

>>620545
Strictly as a form of self harm, not particularly, but I have struggled with an ED for over a decade and restriction is a huge part of it, usually having to do with punishing or feeling bad about myself. Getting over it comes with therapy, self love, and then the hard part which is just physically getting over it and…eating anyways. Even if it's something small, make it something you enjoy or even liquid calories if you can't stomach food for some reason (at first, not as a replacement). Good luck, anon. You deserve health and healing!

No. 620563

Is there hope for me to find friends and a boyfriend if I'm older than 25?

No. 620565

>>620545
Big issue for me. Just like >>620548 said, it's good to have something small and easy to eat anyway, I try to always have some type of snack / yoghurt / smoothie stacked for when I get into this mindset, because there's no way my brain will allow me to cook a meal or order something big. With the small things though it's easier to trick yourself into eating in these cases.

No. 620566

>>620563
…Yes? What kind of question is that? Seems like a lot of farmers think being 25+ means you're elderly.

No. 620567

>>620272
No problem!! As for fiber, really any vegetables, fruits, legumes, beans, seeds, nuts, or whole grains are good sources of fiber! Women are recommended 25 grams of fiber a day, but I would recommend slowly incorporating high fiber foods into your diet if you don’t normally eat a lot of fiber because if your digestive system isn’t used to it, it can cause abdominal discomfort like gas and bloating. Also make sure to drink a lot of water, because otherwise eating a lot of fiber won’t help much and can also cause constipation. I’ve experienced iron deficiency in the past and my doctor recommended all of the things I mentioned in my previous response to avoid the digestive side effects of iron pills which helped me a lot, so I hope this helps!

No. 620575

>>620563
This must be bait. Of course you‘re not too old. Damn. There isn‘t even anything else I can say about this.

No. 620589

>>620567
thanks so much anon!! i am so grateful for all the advice! i hope i reach high iron levels soon!

No. 620590

>>620563
Anon…u can find em even in ur 30s n that'll be okay.

No. 620598

>>620563
I’m sorry but are all of you zoomers really this wimpy?

No. 620608

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No. 620610

>>620598
NTA, but is being 25 in 2020 considered millennial or gen z? I'm a zoomer, I thought it'd be late millennial.

No. 620643

>>620610
Someone who's 25 today is born in 1995 or 1994 right? That would be a late millenial, borderline early Gen Z. From what I've seen, most say that Gen Z starts after 1995/1996/1997.

No. 620647

>>620610
It’s millennial, but I assumed it would have to be a zoomer to be dumb enough to act like their life might just stop as soon as they reach 25, I feel like someone already 23-24 wouldn’t be stupid enough to ask because they know the answer

No. 620686

Should I confess my feelings to someone basically just because I need to get it off my chest, and I'd like them to know? Or will this go in no other way but disastrously? There's a 3% chance something could work out, I'm just super, super, super tired of always bottling my feelings and waiting for feelings to pass for every single person i fall for.

No. 620694

>>620686
Just go for it and be chill about it, most of the time it’s not a big deal, assuming the other party can at least pretend to be a mature person.

No. 620697

>>620686
You should weigh up whether you’d actually like them to know because of the 97% chance nothing will happen. Is it worth things potentially being different? The disappointment if they don’t like you back vs the potential fantasy? Could you do something else to express yourself?

Honestly I’d say to shoot your shot if you can handle the shit

No. 620733

No racebait, but on LSA there's a popular belief that white people don't wash their legs. I don't believe it, but who knows, there might be a slight truth to it. So white anons do you wash your legs when you bathe/shower?

No. 620735

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>>620694
>>620697
Fuck it, I'm telling him. Haven't actually lived life in so long, im absolutely tired of this shit.

No. 620752

>>620733
I shaved mine today so they got lathered up to assist with the shave, then they got a second lather and rinse afterwards

No. 620756

>>620733
I don't shave my legs but like scrubbing them and then using conditioner lol

No. 620764

>>620733
It was discussed in one of the episodes of Reply All podcast, apparently some people believe it's gonna be clean enough if soap foam applied to top part of the body runs down the legs with shower water, lol

No. 620765

>>620733
Of course I wash my legs. I properly wash all of my body.

No. 620767

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>>620733
I actually asked this question before here lol Most anons said they wash their legs and the bottoms of pots.
Spoilered for blog-post I'm pretty sure this belief came from an tweet where it said "survey shows %20 of people don't wash their legs" and someone responded with "this is qWHITE interesting" or something like that and then a bunch of white people got offended and said they don't wash their legs OR feet

No. 620769

>>620756
I love all the non-shavers on here. I let my hair grow out for weeks and then only really shave because I like the exfoliation of it, makes my leg tatts pop for a couple days too. Then I'm back to growing it again

No. 620772

>>620764
I read before that it's better for your skin not to use soap and that warm water is enough to wash yourself with when you're not really dirty. I can't ditch the soap because I want the squeeky clean feeling but it does make sense doesn't it? I mean what's there to wash away that's not water-soluble after a day at the office or so? (Again I use soap so don't call me dirty kek but sometimes it makes me wonder if we're all duped by the soapindustry or something)

No. 620787

>>620733
I always think the 'whites are dirty/stink!'-shit is funny, just think for a second: what race is most likely to have showers, bathtubs, washing machines, clean running (and warm) water and a gazillion of different soaps, shampoos and lotions to choose from? Sure there might be some people (men) who might not use them enough but in general I dare to say we're pretty good lol.

No. 620789

Why the fuck do people like Halloween so much

No. 620791

>>620789
Because it's fun as a kid (get to receive free candy and watch scary R rated movies), and it has a unique aesthetic to it that allows many people to live their latent goth phase through vicariously.

No. 620792

>>620733
Well with a clean razor and shaving cream you’re objectively purifying your legs better than just lathering with soap. Us egg white anons who self tan out of a pipe dream of being attractive also exfoliate often with a mitt and scrub. The average white male doesn’t wash his balls let alone his legs

No. 620797

>>620772
Exactly.
How would they even define "dirty"? Unless you're literally not washing your hands, or you work a job outside in soil/forest/farm etc., what is on your skin is largely determined by your bacterial cultures and populations, derived from genetics/food. Often times, people stink like shit because they eat like shit, and their INSIDES are awful, not the outside.
People who fear "dirtiness" never have an actual definition for what it is. We're literally covered in e coli. or staph all day, but because no one can see it, everyone just forgets.
I would much rather have a strong bacterial population on my skin than genociding it every day in the shower through harsh surfactants and detergents.

No. 620800

>>620787
I'm white so IDK but my bf's mom who is not says she can always tell just by the stench when for example she'd enter a bus where the majority of people would be white; and it's never like this in her own country. So maybe there's some truth to that?

No. 620801

>>620733
yes of course lol and i use a loofah (i know theres a rumor that we dont use a sponge)

No. 620808

>>620800
She gets onto a bus and gets the stench of white people before she can even see them… ok lol

No. 620812

>>620787
Most white people I know dont use lotion.

No. 620813

>>620800
Sorry but it sounds like she just dislikes white people.

No. 620816

>>620812
The usage of lotions are a subject of conversation for you with most people you meet? + lotions don't cleanse so that means nothing.

No. 620817

>>620813
It so reminds me of when mgtows talk about women having a pussy stench kek

No. 620821

>>620812
How do you even know?

No. 620828

>>620813
I doubt since she's married to one and is living in a predominantly white country by choice too
But who knows honestly.

No. 620838

>>620828
It's one of those patterns, bitter incels will say that cunts have a rancid fish smell. Women on here will bring up ballsweat stank while venting about men. Whenever you hear 'their stench' in a generalization about a group.. that person already has strong feelings on that group

No. 620854

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What are some good games on Qooapp that are in English (and preferably feature cute boys)?

No. 621005

Does honeycomb taste good?

No. 621047

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Is having a discord chat with paid memberships, profitable at all?

No. 621053

>>621047

I’ve never heard of a pay-to-enter internet chatroom (aside from like Patreon related stuff, but the chatroom is always a minor perk and not the actual product). I can’t think of a situation where I’d want to pay to be in a discord.

No. 621055

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>>621005

At first it does, cuz all the cells are full of honey. Once the honey’s gone though you’re left with chewy wax. If you’ve had those wax liquid-filled soda candies it’s like that. If you haven’t, it’s like gum but firmer so your jaw gets tired after a while. You can’t really eat the wax part if you’re just taking a straight bite of honeycomb, you chew it till you’re bored and then spit it out.

Fun as a novelty, probably not something you’d crave regularly.

No. 621057

I need your help anons. My ex bf and I watched a movie together because he loved it, and my current bf loves the movie as well, but I can't talk much about it because I associate it with the ex. I don't want my current bf to be reminded of my ex, and I don't like remembering him either, and I also don't want him to feel bad about it. It's a very good movie too.
I was thinking about rewatching the same movie with him, so I can start associating it with him but I don't want him to feel bad because I'm doing the same things I did with my ex with him

No. 621060

>>621055
Nta but is raw honeycomb super sweet? I've seen videos of people eating it and thought it looked like way too much honey to just eat by itself. Maybe the honey that is bought in stores is enhanced to be sweeter tho.

No. 621065

>>621057
Oh sweet anon lol. I do feel you, I feel in love with a band due to an ex but was initially attracted to my bf because he really liked that band too. It def felt weird for a bit but time really does fix most things.

No. 621068

>>621057
Are you sure he would feel bad if you watched it with him? It's a movie you both enjoy, I feel like that would be a positive experience to watch it together unless you've talked a LOT in the past about how much this movie reminds you of your ex. You're allowed to do the same things with new partners as you've done with past partners– you can go to the same places as you've been with past partners, watch the same movies, etc. because its something you enjoy, and you'll be able to enjoy it in a new way with someone you care about. Don't worry too hard about it.

No. 621073

Any other anons not shaving? Used to shave regularly since I would go out and about, but ever since rona came, I haven't really been outta the house much and let my hair grow out. Anytime I go out for groceries, I just wear a hoodie or sweatpants to hide the jungle that is my body hair.

No. 621076

>>621073
Haven't shaved in a few years now. It took a while but eventually I stopped caring what people think. My bf literally gives no fucks even though he manages his own body hair so he's comfortable and the worst that happens is someone gives my legs a second glance. Feels good!

No. 621077

>>621073
I still shave regularly but just because I like doing it.

No. 621079

>>621073
I do it every once in a blue moon. I love shaving cause it makes my skin look brighter and smooth, but it takes so long and the upkeep is annoying. I do wanna get it lasered one day but I'm fond of my body hair. I do still shave my coochie but I like letting it grow out into a full bush.

No. 621081

>>621073
never done it in my entire life

No. 621109

Well I'm sorry after years of posting here and never attempting, I figured I'd ask. How do you link a post from another thread? I get scared I'm going to mess up.

No. 621120


No. 621179

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Absolutely retard level question but is it normal to not have a line down the middle of your abs? Like I can see the outside lines of each of my muscles but not the line right in the middle. I mean I don't look much at pictures of bare stomached people but in all I've seen the muscular women have a line in the middle. P.S. I'm bringing you a pic to show you don't need to worry about not having a flat stomach, not even bodybuilders have it and people who insist it's a measure of fitness are retarded and you shouldn't listen to them

No. 621194

Why does severe mommy issues makes one a sociopath (or a serial killer say, ed gein) but severe daddy issues usually makes one a thot?

No. 621199

>>621194
Where did you read that? It's the mommy issues that make them thots, see: Shayna. No but seriously, they gravitate towards male attention because women "shunned" them.

No. 621200

Anons who had COVID, did you have stomach issues?? My friend doesn't want to meet me because her boyfriend has gastrointestinal symptoms and she's convinced he's caught it

No. 621202

>>621194
Men vs women basically

No. 621203

>>621194
Because women for some reason don't have a need to "release" themselves through sexual abuse and murder apparently.

No. 621207

>>621200
I'm not sure I had covid back then because doctors where I was refused to test anybody who wasn't straight dying but for two months, even after I could breathe normally again, I had intense diarrhea (let's say it like it is, it wasn't a normal stomach ache) right after eating anything. I survived on coca cola because medicines to prevent diarrhea didn't work at all this time. I had to force myself to eat but the smell of food made me nauseous as well. Once I came back to my country I saw a doctor for several issues and she told me it was very likely to be COVID because a lot of patients have diarrhea.

A friend who was diagnosed with it a few months later said she had gastrointestinal issues too without going into nasty details, and she had a hard time eating because she couldn't taste anything anymore as well. I hope your friend and her bf will be alright and it's something else because I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

No. 621215

Who else here got smacked/spanked as a kid? (wooden spoon type punishment)

At what point did public opinion switch over to seeing it as abuse?

No. 621216

>>621194
Because on average men react to vexation/refusal with anger and violence while women react by lowering how they view their self-worth (and therefore start seeking validation more).

Source: my ass

No. 621217

>>621207
Aw shit. Thanks for your input, I'm sorry you had to go through that. I guess I'm better off not meeting them

No. 621218

>>621179
By bf had that too! He was fit but you couldn't see the middle line. Now he has normal abs. The reason behind this was that he worked out wrong and wasn't in balance

No. 621219

Do people actually get mad at using the term 'you guys?"

No. 621220

>>621200
My bro took lots of risks, flights, trains, then returning to work in a busy building and not quarantining. He visited my otherwise isolated dad and they both came down with 'flu and stomach bugs' at the same time. I suspect a lot of people are experiencing it like that and not attributing it to Covid. Gastro symptoms are on the list of symptoms.

No. 621222

>>621217
Thanks, I'm doing way better now because it has been a while, I was sick from late april to early july. And yeah, better safe than sorry, especially if you're in one of these countries where healthcare is super expensive or nothing is done to protect the population against the virus like giving correct information to everyone or making tests available for everyone.

No. 621271

>>621053
It’s just that I saw a chat that you can enter freely but has “VIP” members, it’s a basic discord chat with a flashy layout and random channels like nsfw stuff and the sorts.

No. 621274

>>621215
I had, i used to get hit with a belt, sometimes a shoe or bare hands, never punched though.
I think it started being seen as child abuse around 2006/2007 or something like that, I remember being a teen and listening to my family talking about how horrible it was that some other family member hit her kids as a form of discipline and such.
I honestly don’t think hitting them is necessary, then again, I don’t have kids, so I wouldn’t be sure of how it works.

No. 621296

I just sneezed do I have the c word

No. 621298

>>621274
I got spanked a few times as a kid but I don't really see it as anything that would hinder my development or change me in some way. Still, I don't think it's a great idea to use physical punishment.
What's worse was that in teenagehood during some more severe arguments my mom would slap me in the face or at least attempt to do so. Now as an adult if I have an argument I'm having really hard time not resorting to the same type of violence and I really hate it.

No. 621319

>>621218
Thanks! I will try to figure out how to exercise right too before I injure myself.

No. 621332

>>621060

I mean it’s as sweet as honey is, but if you’re eating a piece of honeycomb only a certain amount of it is honey and the other portion is wax, and the wax isn’t sweet on its own.

No. 621348

>>620789
>>620791

I’m really not a fan of Halloween from a decor stand point. I guess it all just seems so fake and cheap? Like it’s a holiday of plastic and polyester. The only part of it that’s typically genuine are jack-o-lanterns. I like general fall decor a lot more, because you have pumpkins, squash, dried corn, hay bales, autumn leaves, etc.

I don’t feel that way about Christmas even though it can be similar? I guess because you have real trees, real gingerbread, etc.

*note that I’m not talking about how Halloween creatures don’t actually exist, I’m talking about how you decorate by buying a bag of plastic fluff and stretch it out to look like a spider web. That kind of thing.

No. 621376

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What are squishies like pic rel called in Japanese? when I try to google translate it, it just gives me monster's university stuff

No. 621380

>>621376
Idk Japanese but a searching スクイーズ (“squeeze”) seems to come up with what your talking about

No. 621397

>>618180
leave his dusty ass

No. 621426

Autist here
Yesterday I went to school for the first time in a decade plus a few years extra on top, i hung out with a girl much younger than me and aside from the fact I am obviously financially better off than her only because of our age differences, I felt we were compatible? Until we sat in the train and she stopped saying much (she listened to music).

I never hung out much with people, tell me if I just fucked it up or not? Idc much but I have no friends or good reference points so give me your thoughts?

No. 621429

>>621426
>Autist here
made me laugh even though you were serious, I'm sorry anon.

Anyways, you're probably fine! She probably just wanted to unwind and listen to music on her way home. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you or enjoy your company, some people just don't like to talk all the time. It's not like she was ignoring you on purpose. She decided to listen to music instead. That's okay! I'm sure you didn't do anything wrong, at least it doesn't sound like it.

No. 621430

>>618180
>dead sex life for the last year
My response is late but the subreddit deadbedrooms has to be one my fave ones for just freakshow browsing. Lots of bitter men losing their minds in sexless marriages… that being said there's some helpful posts there too. And some women in the same boat as you. Every possible cause of deadbedroom has been discussed on there to death. Might be useful to you.

How many years are you together?

No. 621433

>>621426

I think you’re overthinking ‘listening to music on a bus.’ That wouldn’t be a signal coming from me, I just like listening to music in busses more than talking.

No. 621436

>>621426
What's the age difference?

No. 621454

>>621429
I mean I am not diagnosed autist but I have some socioeconomic/mental problems hehe. I try to be good though!
>>621433
Yeah. She just was really nice to me and we were sitting next to each other.
>>621436
She’s 18 and I am 24. I have never been to high school…I don’t want to be her best friend or something, just I want to talk to everyone in class to practice socializing. I am a female and I won’t do bad stuff I promise. I just wanna get straight As.

No. 621461

>>621454
Also I wanna add there is a 21 year old girl and I am right now messaging her. There are quite a few 17 year olds, should I avoid them when they approach me?
Everyone thinks I’m young but I won’t abuse that, I made it clear in introduction day that I’m probably the oldest girl in class, 24 years old!

No. 621464

I got out of a pretty bad relationship a couple years back. He was a few years older than me and what started as an unbalanced power dynamic turned into full on abuse, verbal, mind games, hitting me, forcing sex acts.

My sex drive had switched off while I was under so much daily stress and some depression, it stayed that way for a while afterwards too. Then I developed a crush on a singer who is half japanese… after a while I started crushing on nearly any semi-decent looking man that happens to be asian. I might be in fetish territory here so I feel weird about it but it's like it has become my new comfort zone. I've only been abused or mistreated by men from my own country.

Not looking to start a race discussion obvs, but wondering if this is like a trauma response ?

No. 621479

>>621461
I went back to school like you last year at 23 and one of the girls I get along with best had just turned 17 at the time. (We're now 18 en 24) We're not best friends obviously, the age gap and difference in level of maturity is just too big for that, but we hang out together when we're at school and do a lot of school-related things together. So in my experience and opinion it's fine. When you're in education after secondary school/high school you and they're going to meet people of all ages anyway.

No. 621524

>>621461
Anon you act like you're 83 lmao. It's fine for you to talk to them, and I'm sure they don't mind it either. Congratulations on going to college!

No. 621563

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Is there such a thing as pedos trying to get into relationships ,or even marry, women who look underage/ like young teenagers

No. 621566

If a guy is born without balls is he still a scrote? Is it just the essence of manlihood which makes a guy a scrote?

No. 621567

>>621563
Probably. It's probably a major cope for most of them who try not to offend. It's also why they practice and watch DD/lg shit.

No. 621569

>>621563
Don't they usually just go for single moms and then molest their actual underage kids

No. 621570

>>621566
Not all men are scrotes although most are but all scrotes are men

No. 621577

>>621563
Must do! This is what I always think when I see pornstars who are absolutely tiny, dressed up in kids clothing with their hair in bunches or braids. It's absolutely legal 'kiddie porn', pedos definitely watch it cos they look so young do I wouldn't be surprised if they'd get hooked with a young looking woman for the same effect.

No. 621581

>>621566
But that’s not a stupid question, anon, now I’m also curious. I guess they could be called just assholes.

No. 621584

>>621566
A real man is good though. A man with balls balls, nothing wrong with a man that’s willing to defend his wife and kids.

Don’t talk to boys though, I hate them.

t. I have learnt a lot about life just by spending time outside the internet

No. 621614

>>621569
Hadn't thought about this even though you're obviously correct and now I want to die

No. 621616

didn't know where else to ask this but any recs for a comfy slice of life anime, ideally with the main character employed (and ideally ideally a girl)? Just craving that kind of easy going, bittersweet and basic show except I'm tired of a school setting.

No. 621623

>>621584
Anon… What?

No. 621628

>>621616
I only know aggretsuko and wotakoi that fit that description, both are lovely tho

No. 621629

>>621623
You need balls to be a man is what I’m saying

No. 621632

>>621616
Hmm, maybe Shirobako or Sakura Quest

No. 621645

>>621616
Hataraki Man

No. 621657

Would it be dumb to use gel to slick hair in a high top bun, i have straight hair idk man

No. 621658

A while ago, an old family friend of ours that whom we naturally fell apart with texted me on Viber and it was really weird cause there’s basically no one around them that would know my number and afaik my number isn’t on any phone book or whatever. I wonder how they could’ve gotten my number? Especially since I live across the country. I asked them but they didn’t give me an answer which makes me more paranoid cause they know people I no longer want to associate with and I wouldn’t want them to have my number.

No. 621690

This is a weird question but does anyone know why this anons post history is public? https://lolcow.farm/Anon2.html
I found this while trying to look for a post and didn't know why Admin would make this public. There doesn't seem to be anything milky or special about this anons posts.

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No. 621695

>>621690
Is it hamchan? They were at least talking about her

No. 621696

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No. 621698

>>621065
>>621068
Thank you for your words, anons! I have never mentioned watching the movie with my ex because he gets really upset if I mention him (my ex was not very good to me), but I will still watch the movie with him and pretend I never watched it with the other guy

No. 621785

New to wearing glasses, how do I figure out getting them to not squeeze my head or hurt my nose? Everything online says "keep wearing them, you'll get use to it" but I'm not exactly keen on pushing through the pain until it stops.

No. 621789

>>621785
If they’re squeezing your head the frames probably need to be adjusted. They can fix them at an eye doctor’s office or you can try doing it at home

No. 621902

>>621785
Mine gave in after a couple months and now I have to go every now and then to tighten them again.



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