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No. 2119058
A thread for all of us nonnas who were delusional enough to fall for the gendie propaganda and want to talk about it in a personal way. Talk about the funny, the infuriating, the lousy, the mock worthy, the chunnibyo, etc. Examples included but not limited to:
>Characters you wanted to look like or act like>Pinterest / Tumblr induced ""gender euphoria"">Bad friends or friend groups pushing you to transition>Internalized misogyny, nlog-ism, pickmeism, etc>Cringe haircuts and fashion choices>Nonbinary, agender, demi-boy/girl and other gendie ideology crap>Retarded labels and pronouns>Things you regret looking back on it>Why and how did you peakFor a more serious discussion about detransitioning, use the following thread thread:
>>>/g/230474(use the gender critical thread) No. 2119071
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>be me
>be depressed due to personal life circumstances
>read all of tokyo ghoul
>"Omfg I want to be kaneki"
>cuts hair short and boyish and wears binder
>eventually falls out of love with the manga and genderism, sells the volumes to a classmate
>classmate suddenly becomes gendie
>classmate gets female and male symbol tattoos on her wrists because she's committed to the cause
>mfw not sure if I caused this to happen
In all seriousness though why do gendies love kaneki?
No. 2119079
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Post characters that made you want to transition
No. 2119080
>>2119077I really don't get posts like these. It always comes off as some anon high on her own farts that wants to play
victim blame game.
No. 2119102
>>2119058>thread picI miss when fangirls were confident enough to admit 2D is "sexy", rather than the autism behind calling things "gender". His body proportions are definitely male, a man that actually puts in effort is gonna look more like this than a TIF.
>>2119071>why do gendies love kaneki?Tbh it reads to me exactly the same reason why TIMs troon out because of yuri; they're attracted to a fictional character type that doesn't exist in real life and offers a moment of escapism for the harsh reality of sexism and the way society looks at the sexes. For TIMs, it's because women IRL aren't vapid morons with zero social nuance that men can relate to/traits that anime girls have that draw in low value males. For TIFs, it's twinks, feminine men, and men who are open about their feelings, because too many scrotes are severely lacking in them/assume they're women and should troon out if they feel any less than macho emotion at all. It leads some TIFs to want to be the men that actual men are failing to be for us because they're on about trying to "become women" instead of trying to be better men.
>>2119079I'm very thankful that puberty made it impossible for me to even consider the TIF route, and a lot of "TIF" characters are just pretty boys I would kiss if they were real.
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>>2119071i never understood why tifs liked crybaby kaneki and this fagtard, is it edgyness or is it just misplaced attraction?
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>>2119181It's interesting because Mutsuki, the canon tif, is right there
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>>2119077>i'm the smartest person in the room heh… that'll show em…no way, seriously ? don't think anyone would have guessed without your help.
>inb4 triggered, i've never been been anywhere remotely close to tiffing out No. 2119288
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I think a few years back when I realized I wasn’t a tif was one of the most cathartic experiences of my life and I’ll never forget it. I realized I was just a gender non conforming girl and that’s perfectly fine. The fact doesn’t make me a male, it makes me, me.
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i remember wishing my body was more androgynous as a teen and thinking this must mean i might be nonbinary. i didn't go full-on gendie because i
>a) did some soul-searching and realised what i felt wasn't gender dysphoria
i didn't hate my body and its sex characteristics. i actually liked the way it looked. i just hated the unwanted sexually charged attention my female body brought me and
>b) had more importand things to do instead of getting fixated on my identity and how people percieve me
even though i didn't fall down the gendie rabbit hole myself i was still very accepting of trannyism. it was easy to do so because i never interacted directly with trannies and their spaces and had an idealised view of them pushed onto me by intersectional feminist bloggers and influencers
>Things you regret looking back on it
i regret being openly libfem-leaning and leaving this impression on some women i used to be friends with. i don't like thinking that's how they remember me lol
>Why and how did you peak
i realised my acceptance of gendieism was based solely on emotions (be nice, accept people for who they are just because it's a good thing to do, not doing so is evil and bigoted) and decided to "listen to trans people" as they always say kek. as a result saw gender ideology for what it is and never looked back ever since
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>>2119288>The fact doesn’t make me a male, it makes me, me.so true
nonnie. i'm happy for you
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>>2119087This is the mentally ill bpdchan autist
femcel website. if you want normies go back to facebook.
>>2119184Anyway, for me, it was being a tomboy. I've noticed there's two pipelines for the gendies that a lot of us ex-gendies fall into, and one is the one that has dysmorphia, or is discontent, or wants to fit in with friends, gets too much into yaoi… and the other where I fall into is someone who struggled to connect to female peers and was bombed with the message that she was "failing" at being a woman (kek) and transgenderism offered a very convenient explanation for that, especially as a black and white thinking autist. Oh well, if I don't "act like a woman", that must mean I am a man!… I was raised in a sexist conservative culture, am ESL, and got exposed to tumblr.
>>2119058 >Characters you wanted to look like or act like >Bad friends or friend groups pushing you to transition it was fucking dave strider, embarrassingly enough. Though he came in late. I was so depressed I hardly ate, just mentally ill enough to believe in retardation like otherkin when the transgender explanation "made sense". Happened to have a brush with the homestucks and they enabled it. I had even picked a name and clinic to go to before I gave it up. I notice the want to be a man delusions spike whenever I'm depressed or smacked again with ~not acting womanly~. But I am now actually capable of stopping those thoughts for the most part.
No. 2119472
>>2119288I'm very happy for you
nonnie, it's one of the best feelings in the world.
No. 2119513
>>2119468>this is the mentally ill bpdchan autist femcel websiteLMAO if anything it's the stacy larper website, but going by zoomer lingo use of
femcel, I guess that's the same thing.