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No. 238077

Are you…
>ugly
>fat
>boring
>a virgin
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Do you have…
>no friends
>no hobbies
>shitty grades?

Some might say that nobody's genuinely ugly etc, but we all know that's a lie.
Let's share our bad school, workplace or friendship experiences and pity each other.
(Hopefully with nobody chiming in to say that we need to get over ourselves, grow a backbone, etc.)

No. 238081

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Just shower and bee urself fam

No. 238082

>>238077
>all of the above

No. 238083

I lost a lot opportunities in life because I'm ugly, average weight but no tits or ass, & I look older than I am. Sucks to suck I guess.

No. 238091

I'm turning 25 in a few months and have never even been on a date. Dating honestly freaks me out and I nope out the second anyone seems remotely interested, which is rare to begin with. I've signed up for dating sites before but the minute guys start messaging me, I just panic and don't respond.

I don't mind being single but I know that the older I get, the weirder it looks and I do feel lonely sometimes.

No. 238092

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>>238083
Haha, same.
I have an extremely attractive friend with a hourglass figure, petite body, and a cute face. One time, we were asked if we were ever insulted and she looked genuinely suprised. She said that absolutely everyone was nice to her. Me on the other hand- countless insults from guys and even my own parents.
It's fucked. Society is look driven. If anyone says looks dont matter, they're a liar who is probably attractive themself.
You can still get somewhere, but you have to work harder to get people to notice you for what you are and see beyond what you look like. Meanwhile, people born with good looks can coast around and never worry.

Sorry for the rant.

No. 238118

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I've been told i was ugly so often that i've lost count already… (the most creative insult i got was "You're even too ugly to be a prostitute!")
>never kissed, dated or had sex
>only 3 friends, whom i rarely see
>looking a lot older than my age
>too lazy to study -> bad grades
All i do is stay up late, spend all my time on the internet and eat junk food, so i've gotten fat as well.

And i don't think it's going to get better any time soon, because i'm not doing anything to change. Only very old men sometimes hit on me, but guys my age have never shown any interest.
I'm not a NEET, i even have a small weekend job, but oftentimes i don't even brush my teeth, so i'm only turning more repulsive. (I also wear the same clothes for like a month)

My only goal would be at least no longer be such a loner in college, i've basically already given up on ever getting a date.

No. 238119

>>238118
Forgot to add; my parents even suspected me of being a lesbian, since i've never brought a guy home

No. 238125

I used to be uglier, and guys who hanged out with me would say things like "you look better when you don't smile" or "you might be cute but you will never be beautiful". Luckily, puberty has been kind to me and those fucks are mostly doing badly, but the self esteem issues stayed.

No. 238128

When I was a wee lass, I would watch those movies where an "ugly" girl would turn into a beautiful girl for whatever reasons. I was hoping that I would turn from an ugly duckling to a beautiful swan. Years and years went by and guess what, hahaha I turned into an ugly duck. hahahaha

No. 238132

I used to be an ugly fuck when I was a kid. I was chubby and tall. I also had this extremely strange smile that showed off my gap teeth. I went on to get anorexia (which luckily made me skinny) and extremely low self confidence.
Luckily for me puberty was good to me, but I'm still unattractive compared to many other girls.

I'm also not in school atm because I am waaay to autistic to handle teachers as well as certain subjects in school.

I am also without work and friends.

Life is nice

No. 238136

I wanna join the pity party.
Are you…
>ugly
Average-looking to some and probably ugly to most. I've got a fivehead and chubby cheeks that will stay no matter how much weight I lose. The only guys who have shown interest me were either creepy or had to spend time getting to know me before feeling any attraction.
>fat
Borderline overweight but I'm trying to put in more effort to eat better.
>boring
Probably. Don't really have any hobbies or passion outside browsing the Internet.
>a virgin
Yeah but contrary to a lot of people, I don't see this as a terrible thing. Better to be a virgin than to have awful sex or contract an STD from a shit partner.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Unemployed. One of my main goals is to get a job within a year.
Do you have…
>no friends
Used to be that way but I have friends now. It helps that they're in the same position as me and that we share similar interests. They're one of the parts of my life that don't make me feel like a total loser.
>no hobbies
As said before, pretty much. I spend too much of my time on the Internet. I used to do things like bake and make paper crafts but haven't done anything cool for some time.
>shitty grades?
No but that's because I've been taking some easier courses thus far. I'm gonna be fucked the first time I take a hard course due to my poor habits.

Life's far from terrible but it could be a whole lot better.

No. 238138

I used to be very ugly and unkempt in my early teens one time I was in line to buy a sandwich and an older guy from my school turned around and said I was hideous, I got bullied a lot but I don't remember much thankfully… I grew up and puberty has been very kind to me, I've had guys interested but the psychological damage from all the bullying when I was younger is there and I have no interest in dating or getting close to people at all

No. 238145

>>238138
but the psychological damage from all the bullying when I was younger is there
really relatable..

No. 238152

>ugly
yup even though i think i have nice eye and lip shape i have that nose bump and a chubby face also ive never been called beautiful or pretty by non family ever in my life not even past female friends
>fat
yup been that way my whole life
>boring
i like to think im not but most interactions with people ask me how my week was when all ive done is sit at home
>a virgin
plus kissless and romantic-handholdless
>unemployed or even a NEET?
neet
Do you have…
>no friends
yup
>no hobbies
i play a few instruments and like to make desserts, also draw and watch animu and read manga
>shitty grades?
i have no work ethic and just gave up on school

also i like that the op picture is from my favorite movie <3

No. 238158

>>238092
>If anyone says looks dont matter, they're a liar who is probably attractive themself.
Well you know how it is anon. Someone who just ate a big steak for lunch will have no understanding for the people who are starving in the sewers.
looks / genetics are your base variable and everything else (confidence, feeling comfortable in your own body, anxiety, etc) is a direct derivative of this base variable. If your looks are bad then it is like starting a formula 1 race from the last position.

>Meanwhile, people born with good looks can coast around and never worry.

To me the worst thing is that they can get away with pretty much anything and even be forgiven for it.

>>238145
>>238138
yes this is what nobody ever thinks about.
Bullying is fun to bullies but they cannot see that they are destroying people for life and leaving them to be dysfunctional when they grow up. They are inflicting horrible damage which later often cannot ever be cured. I wish the world was not such a cruel and shit place.

>>238077
now to join your circle:

>ugly

yes

>fat

skinnyfat

>boring

yes+

>a virgin

yes (but I don't mind about this)

>unemployed or even a NEET?

no

Do you have…
>no friends
yes (especially on new years eve when nobody sends you a text this is very evident)

>no hobbies

yes

>shitty grades?

no (was always a dweeb)

No. 238159

>>238138
I'm >>238091 and same anon, I think people underestimate the lasting effects of bullying.

No. 238162

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>>238125
>>238132
>>238138
>puberty has been kind to me
>Luckily for me puberty was good to me
>I grew up and puberty has been very kind to me

Sorry, but i can't help but feel bitter about this.
Puberty is like your last chance, but if it has passed already and you did't change…
I get that being called ugly as a kid is bad, but knowing i'll be consider ugly and told so for the rest of my entire life…

No. 238163

>>238162
*considered

No. 238167

Are you…
>ugly
kind of. I'm definitely not conventionally attractive and my skull is weirdly shaped kek but I actually think I'm kind of okay looking. Like if I could change my features I definitely would but idk I guess I'm used to my face now lol.
>fat
I'm technically a normal weight but I'm a fridge so all my weight goes to my upper body lucky me (plus bullying made me horribly self-conscious, can't remember the last time I wore a tank top or dress in public). Plus I have broad shoulders for a woman so I look bulky as fuck pretty much no matter what.
>boring
absolutely.
>a virgin
yes but I don't see that as a loser quality tbh I could get laid if I really really wanted to, I just don't.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
unemployed university dropout.
Do you have…
>no friends
>no hobbies
>shitty grades?
All of the above. I ghosted all my friends because hiding from relationships is way easier than actually participating in them. I do have hobbies though (art, guitar, music production), I just don't have the motivation to actually practice them.

No. 238185

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>ugly
I don't know what average people think of me but I think I'm sort of ugly, but in a normal,boring way. I definitely don't fit in the current western beauty standard. Don't get me started on acne scars that ruined my face and body because it's the side effect of a treatment. And I have a horrible resting bitch face and a huge forehead and can't do anything about it by getting a new haircut.
>fat
No I'm underweight so I almost look like a skeleton, I have no tits and ass and I don't know what to do be closer to the average. Eating a lot doesn't work all that much and I suspect a specific health problem but doctors aren't sure yet. It makes it hard to find nice clothes and be more fashionable. Plus I look a bit younger than I am because of that and people treat me like a brat and not like a young adult. sometimes.
>boring
I feel like the normiest people my age find me boring, at least at first, but idk
>a virgin
I never had a bf and I'm a kissless virgin that men seem to avoid at all costs. I don't care all that much about being a virgin but I feel more and more like I'm repulsive because nobody wants me.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I have a shitty retail job but I'm a student so it's only part-time. Couldn't find a mandatory internship because there's nothing I could get in my city and I can't move somewhere else because I'm poor. So it makes me feel like shit because mediocre students could find interesting internships really fast and they're immediately taken seriously by any potential recruiters.
>no friends
I'm friends with fellow weebs and fujos and I love them. I get along really well with some coworkers too but I don't see them very often these days.
>no hobbies
Weeb shit for the most part.
>shitty grades?
I could have had better grades if I were actually in good conditions to study. I'm living with my family and basically it's super noisy at home and I have no private life so I'm not free to study calmly as much as I would like.

So I was a huge loser before, until I went to college. I met new people who were less judgmental than middle school and high school, had more freedom and money and more confidence. I'd say I'm getting a bit better but I'm still seen as a weirdo by some people who don't really get to know because I'm still a bit awkward. I'd say something that made me a loser was the lack of money. It just prevents you to get some opportunities, you can't hang out with most people because of that, you can't buy nice clothes, shoes, skin care or makeup so you don't look a good as you could, etc. It's really frustrating. Anyway overall I don't feel like people disrespect me because I'm ugly or anything, but because I give a bad impression overall, idk why but many people think I'm a dumbass for the most stupid reasons.

No. 238187

>>238162
Well anon, if it makes you feel better I was just 'less' ugly post puberty. I got a nose job, had some moles removed from my face, changed my hair and am getting fillers on my birthday. I look cute now. Not super stunning or anything, but I'm still pretty damn happy with it.
It took a lot of staring into the mirror to figure out what the biggest culprit was for the face I had, I had to learn how to do my makeup and spend a shitton of money on experimenting with clothes but honestly it was worth it.

I don't recommend going the full monty with PS but if you're really as ugly as you say you can try changing one thing at a time and working towards getting better. There's lots of ways to look good, you just need to find your niche and see what suits you instead of trying to shoehorn yourself into being like someone else.

No. 238192

>ugly
i'm a 3/10 in the comfort of my own home but a 6 with effort. my philtrum is too long and my mouth protrudes outward so i look like a monkey. because of this i tend to purse my lips together but it doesnt help
>fat
i used to be underweight anachan a couple years ago but since dropping out of school i've been eating more and more and recently ballooned up to upper average weight. i feel fat and hardly any of my clothes fit anymore.
>boring
i can't hold a conversation with people i dont know well, even close friends sometimes. i just get bored easily. unless the topic of convo is something i'm interested in i can't be engaging

>a virgin

kissless, hanholdness. i get really quiet and uncomfrotable around guys

>unemployed or even a NEET?

part time job
Do you have…
>no friends
yup
>no hobbies
i draw and and like kpop

No. 238197

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>>238185
>I'm friends with fellow weebs and fujos and I love them. I get along really well with some coworkers too but I don't see them very often these days.
I'm so jealous. I wasn't going to post in this thread because my chronic lack of friends is my only serious loser trait, but I'd kill for a nerdy girl gang. I assume you met them in college? It's too late for me to go do nihongo at uni so I think I'm out of luck.

No. 238199

>>238197
Yeah we met in college because we all study or studied Japanese. But even among the ones studying Japanese we were some of biggest nerds (and losers for some of us) so we got along really fast. I hear people meeting weeb friends in cons and such events but I'm going to guess you have to be very extroverted for it to work because I'm still too awkward to meet new people during cons, unless they're my friends' friends already.

I don't think it's too late though, I passionately talk about some semi popular manga and video games I love with some of my coworkers when we're bored, it's kind of like bonding over you favorite mainstream tv shows with coworkers, we don't get heated debates over which pairings are the best or anything. I wish you good luck anon!

No. 238200

>>238197
I reversed searched the image you posted and after reading the short description:
Princess Jellyfish centers on Amamizukan, an apartment building in Tokyo, where the only tenants are otaku women, and where no men are allowed.
I'm going to watch the anime and probably read the manga too. Thanks anon.

No. 238202

>>238200
Not her but the anime is really good. I havent read the entire manga yet but it's way longer than the anime.

No. 238203

>>238202
> I havent read the entire manga yet but it's way longer than the anime.

Perfect, just what I needed. Thanks, I will watch the anime first and then binge on the manga.
ありがとう!

No. 238204

>>238162
For me, getting less ugly after puberty was 90% just learning to find a flattering hairstyle, learning to dress myself, practicing makeup. You can't change your genetics but those are things that everyone can do to go up at least 2 points on a 1-10 scale.

No. 238208

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Who else pulled a reverse ugly duckling?
>used to be a really cute kid who got complimented and doted on all the time
>animorphed into an ugly potato that can't even look at the mirror without flinching

No. 238209

>>238162
Agreed, this isn't even that uncommon. Lots of people are ugly kids that turn out pretty it isn't unexpected at all. Given that puberty starts around 10-12 for most girls that means they don't even spend that much time being ugly before they blossom.

No. 238212

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>>238208

did you gain weight, anon? or did you just genetics in general fucked you over?

No. 238213

>>238212
Genetics in general sadly. My face is just unfortunate. ;-;

No. 238214

>>238125
>"you look better when you don't smile"
That sounds awful. For me it’s been “you look weird without glasses” and “you always look so serious, it doesn’t hurt to smile”

Like shit, if I’m that bad looking without glasses I guess I’ll be stuck with them the rest of my life.

No. 238218

I already feel like a loser for being a neet, but my boyfriend has really been making me feel worse lately. I've already applied for school in the fall and plenty of jobs, but he acts like I'm not even trying. He's frustrated because he pays my bills, I know, and I already feel shitty about that, but I am making an effort to help. I also have a 2 year old, so finding a daycare or sitter that I trust has also been difficult. I have no friends and my family members are all too old. I may not be ugly or a virgin, but I feel like the biggest loser itt for essentially being a 25 year old single mom with no job and no education.

No. 238219

>>238218
>having a kid and a partner
You've already achieved something most losers will never be lucky enough to experience, and not having a job as a mother doesn't count as being NEET, it's being a SAHM and it's common.

No. 238221

>>238219
I get that, but it seems that being a young mom with no job or education is shit on relentlessly. Or maybe I just spend too much time on here.

No. 238224

Can you guys stop with the humblebragging?

No. 238225

>>238221
I see it sometimes, but it usually applies to lazy deadbeat mothers who actively avoid working - not mothers who are having a hard time finding a job.

The standards for 'loser' as a mother are very different to being a regular loser anyway, because your priorities are so different. The things that make someone cool can easily start seeming selfish as a parent, and similarly things that were uncool make you seem responsible now.

No. 238230

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>are you ugly
Average on a good day :(

Sorry if this seems humble-braggy, but one time a girl told me I could be a model and I got so exited, but then she followed it with "Oh, not because your pretty! Just because you never move your face" and I still haven't recovered.

I need to shave my head because my hair is too matted and fucked up to save it, but I have the side profile of an incel and I'll look like a fucking political cartoon without hair. I've also been stuck in almost-fat purgatory for pretty much my entire life, feels very not-great.

No. 238238

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I am
>ugly
>fat
>boring
>dumb
>mentally ill
>no friends

I was lucky enough to find someone decently attractive that thought I was attractive and had good personality so at least I'm not single. But I got 0 friends in real life so there is that. Not like I miss it too much because I can't bring myself to open up to other people anymore. It's just too much hassle after years of being backstabbed and treated like a emotional/financial labor machine.

No. 238245

>>238204
There are some faces that can't even be 'rescued' by professional makeup, hair styling, etc…

>>238218
>>238238
But at least you won't die alone.

>>238209
That's true; especially since kids generally don't even care that much in elemenary school, it's afterwards, when they are teenagers they just start to get really cruel…

No. 238282

>ugly
Maybe? I always thought of myself as average.
>fat
Yes, but I do workout regularly. I just eat too much.
>boring
To most people, yeah. I enjoy parties and clubs but I haven't gone to any in a few years
>a virgin
No. I've had 3 relationships and a few hook ups in my whole life. Currently in a relationship (2.5 yrs)
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Kinda, I live with my parents. I make money from my art but not enough for me to live on my own. I had a jobs and internships before. I hate working for people, so it never works out for more than a year.
>no friends
Pretty much. When I'm not with my girlfriend, I stay inside and draw/paint all day.
>no hobbies
I like writing, reading, learning stuff
>shitty grades?
I was always a B+ student.

No. 238287

>>238219
depends where … in my country one average wage can not support both partners and a kid, so staying at home as a mom doesn't get you the SAHM status but it's frowned upon and people judge you for it

i'm a loser in many ways but i'm too bothered to talk about it. sorry for ot

No. 238329

>>238208
I had this, I was a cute happy kid who got the apparent asian heritage of the familly ( not much of a trouble, just a few " chintoc, chingchingchoong " when I was in primary school), My mother's friend would say that I was so beautiful that I looked like a baroque madonne ( my only problem was that I had already pubes and hair every wear in the beginning of primary school) .

Than I grew and my skin became dry and with zit and big pores, my nose grew à la Pinocchio, my shoulder became huge and my tits are so small in comparaison . I have big face line around the nose to the mouth and eye bags, my chin also became large and I almost have a jowl. The worst is that from the front I'm not so bad but my profil id like a asian dude with a fake" Jewish nose" on, flat with just the godamn nose like a nasa spaceship ready to go. Also when I have a hat on kids think I'm a dude

No. 238338

>>238329
>but my profil id like a asian dude with a fake" Jewish nose" on, flat with just the godamn nose like a nasa spaceship ready to go.
At least you have a sense of humor, anon.

No. 238342

>>238338
I thought this sounds more like some robot/bait..

No. 238352

>ugly
4/10 or 6/10 with makeup

>fat

not yet but gaining weight recently

>boring

sort of

>a virgin

yeah. could probably get laid if I really wanted to because girl but I'm too picky for how shitty my looks and personality are

>unemployed or even a NEET?

not unemployed but work for my mom so basically the same thing

>no friends

a few but we have nothing in common and aren't very close

>no hobbies

I like art but I'm bad at it

>shitty grades?

I've made straight B's in every class for the last two years. painfully average

No. 238387

>20
>NEET, dropped out of school when I was 14. Have my GED at least
>Can't drive
>Never had a job
>Never had friends beyond bf, no online friends for the past 4 or 5 years either
>Leave house 2 times a month max, sometimes not at all
>Insecure to the extreme but probably above average looks, I am good at makeup + styling myself
>Need to lose 10-20 pounds but I love sweets and junk food. I am ~135 and would be happy with 125, ideal would be 115
>Diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and a mixed personality disorder with traits from schizoid, paranoid, and borderline personality disorders.
>No productive hobbies. I like to do my makeup and dress nice and not leave the house, watch movies, look at JAV, and cook food. Nothing else.

No. 238391

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Are you…
>ugly
Average looking at best, ugly duckling usually.
>fat
I'm not in shape at all just that skinny fat, belly is too big, ass is too flat, thighs too large, like random character models mashed
>boring
eh I'd say so, mixture of shyness and resting bitch face don't help
>a virgin
I've held hands and kissed, thats about it
>unemployed or even a NEET?
nope employed and working a dead end job
Do you have…
>no friends
Very few, shitty self esteem and I tend to isolate myself
>no hobbies
Netflix and cry, just reading and borderline nerd shit
>shitty grades?
Super average never tried never cared

I know what I can do to help myself and get better I just don't try.

pretty sure its depression or something tbh

No. 238393

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>Ugly
I think I'm average. But not pretty when people take pictures of me. I've been called a walrus before…
>Fat
Attempting to get in shape. Got some flab here and there.
>A virgin
Yup. But I'm not gonna rush it. Never had a boyfriend or been kissed (unless you count the cheek or hand).

No. 238416

>ugly
Not sure. Sometimes I think I might look okay but judging by other people's disinterest in me, I'd say probably ugly.

>fat

Yeah. Used to be worse, but still flabby.

>boring

Definitely. Not autistic but limited specific interests that nobody gives a fuck about.

>virgin

Yep. Got felt up in school and abused as a kid, but never anything consensual.

>unemployed or even a NEET?

Not by choice. Have job but pays bad. Child of narcissists who will fuck up my life if not careful about getting out, if I can ever afford it. Shit sucks.

No. 238417

Women seem to really bond over talking about relationships, dating and sex. It's such a big part of their life. I never have anything to add to these conversations and it makes me feel like a child just sitting there watching a Sex and the City scene. My friend is a Samantha which makes it even harder.

No. 238418

>fat
>unemployed
>no friends
I used to have two amazing friends but shit got weird when it became a love triangle and drama started to build up, which is really impressive because i didn't do a single thing and yet this girl managed to create a shitstorm so that's that, we don't see or talk anymore. Now that I don't have them I think I would try harder to bound with my classmates, which is a good way to see this whole thing.

>boring

I wasn't this boring, and for sure I have a lot to say but… I'm just exhausted. I don't try anymore to change anything, and my delusions to change the world, my fucked up country and it's politics. completely unmotivaded to connect with people and improve myself. I'm young yet I feel like grandma already.

I have this classmate and she is so cool to me, she is extroverted, stands up for everything, always says what she thinks, calls out everybody, speaks loud and clear, and even though I find it annoying from time to time, I admire her energy so much. Man if I had just 1/4 of her passion.

>hobbies

I do have them but what is the point if you don't have a strong, charming personality to back you up.

>average grades even though I try my best lmao

No. 238420

>>238417
sorry for sage, but same anon.
The fact that I'm more on the masculine side and everyone assumes I'm lesbian is probably the biggest reason, but also I realize that I'm just overly not that interested in romantic relationships and the moment they fuck up I just quite the whole thing to avoid stress, so that means 0 experience.

No. 238481

Here's a question to everybody who fits the OP: Are any of you doing anything to change? If so, what?

No. 238493

>>238481
Yeah I'm trying to change but I've been doing it slowly as soon as I started college. I said earlier that one of my problems was that I was poor but I also live with my controlling family so I have no private life. Now I have money and more freedom so:
>I gradually bought new clothes that were finally my size (I only had things that were too big and could only buy a new pair of shoes each year, also I wasn't allowed to get a bra or wax anything because according to my mother that would make me a slut)
>I bought makeup and skin care products that weren't part of a specific treatment little by little, and I'm still trying to improve when it comes to makeup
>I try to know a bit more about what's popular with normies so I can't keep up during a conversation
>I avoid talking about my complete lack of love life because once you do people start questioning you on a lot of things
That's basically it but it changed a lot of things for me.

No. 238494

>>238481
Nope, I just came with terms that I'm never going to be perfect so I just roll with what I have. I'm >>238238 for reference so I'm not NEET/unemployed and I have a partner so I can't be that bad, but I'm not exceptional on anything and I'll be forever average. I'm just fine with an average boring life.

No. 238495

>>238481
I don't, but i absolutely want to.
I even made a 'Changing your life' thread here on lolcow, but it seems that everybody here is miserable and nobody has a plan or solution on how to…

No. 238505

>>238495
> but it seems that everybody here is miserable and nobody has a plan or solution on how to…
Solutions are going to depend on people, their own specific problems and circumstances. I'm curious so I'm going to look for the thread.

No. 238527

>>238329
Anon, are you french ?

No. 238528

>>238527
Yeah I was going to ask the same question when she said she was called a chintoc at school.

No. 238529

>>238417
for the people in this thread that aren’t virgins, can you explain how you even met someone? would you consider them attractive at all?
almost 23 and still a handholdless virgin… at least i have a job but i still feel like an ugly weeb all day. i have no idea how you’re even supposed to meet someone if you don’t like clubbing.
at least i’ve been trying to improve my appearance by getting better at makeup and wearing nice clothes, but at heart, i feel like i still look the same as when i was an ugly 15 year with ugly glasses, ugly baggy clothes, and an awkward, super shy personality.

No. 238536

>>238529
I want to second this, i'm also going to be 23 this year and still haven't even kissed. I'm just so ugly and antisocial, i don't have any chances of ever meeting somebody…

No. 238540

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>>238077
>Ugly
Yes; my facial features look extremely "sharp", my teeth are crooked and I have a chin like pic related

>Fat

No, I'm underweight, I'm a fucking skeleton with a lanky body. No boobs + no ass, same posture as Shaggy

>boring/a virgin/a neet

Yes

>no friends/no hobbies/shitty grades

Used to have friends but they all left for uni, I'm also a uni student but I'm too autistic to make new friends. I have shitty grades because I'm lazy.

>That feel when you look like a witch, and not in a good way


I wish I was pretty

No. 238542

>>238529
>for the people in this thread that aren’t virgins, can you explain how you even met someone?
Internet, both times
>would you consider them attractive at all?
Kinda, the first guy had really attractive features but a weird mouth that sort of ruined it, objectively speaking. Of course I found him hot though. He had a pretty nice body too, but his penor was kinda small.
Second one had hairy micronipples and bitch hips, and a big nose with bushy eyebrows. He still had an interesting face though, and his smile was really pretty. Most of his looks were thanks to how he dressed and carried himself though, he didn't give a shit about anyone but himself and acted like it was a privilege to be with him. He got laid a lot in his teens despite being kind of a munter.

I wonder if the same applies to girls, I've seen a lot of girls with objectively average faces that have long hair and dress in stylish clothes and guys go absolutely bonkers over them, and some cute ones who get ignored a lot because they aren't dressing for their shape or have bad hair.

No. 238543

>>238542
Where or how exactly on the internet?
And how does one start out with dressing better, wearing makeup,…?

No. 238548

>>238527
>>238528
I thought the same. I didn't think there were so many French anons!

No. 238556

>>238548
I'm >>238540 and I'm French too; we should start a French loosers club

No. 238557

>>238529
>for the people in this thread that aren’t virgins, can you explain how you even met someone?


>>238282, here
You have to be social, both online and IRL. There's no way you'll ever meet anyone if you're afraid to make a conversation with anyone. In my case I thought of dating like sending job applications. So I flirted with people and made an online dating profile and sent messages to people I thought are attractive. If they rejected me or didn't respond, so what? There are billions of people on the planet. I also met one of my ex's on a forum, we started emailing each other and it turned out we didn't live too far from each other so it worked out. But none of that would've ever happened if I didn't try to reach out to people.

>would you consider them attractive at all?

I've consistently dated people that are either average or more attractive than myself. My current GF is at least 50lbs lighter than me and average looking too. If I were to rank her among the most facially attractive women I've ever dated she wouldn't be at the top, but she's kind and very intelligent so it more than makes up for that.

No. 238558

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>ugly
Yes, extremely. Been told so multiple times, even mistaken for a man.

>fat

Former ana-chan, now BMI 26. I feel so disgusted by my own body.

>boring

I don't have any interests besides the internet (and it's not like i could tell anybody that i browse lolcow…)

>a virgin

Yes, kissless. And i'm already 22…

>unemployed or even a NEET?

I'm a student and work part-time, but it gives me horrible anxiety.

>no friends

Two from high school, but they also moved on.

>no hobbies

None.

>shitty grades?

Never failed an exam, but always only study the bare minimum, so usually Bs and Cs. I simply can't be assed to put in any effort and do better.

I also have the hygenie of a drug addict, eat like a pig and don't sleep.

Has anybody managed to get out of loserdom? If so, how?

No. 238559

>>238077
>ugly
I'm a 3-4/10 without putting any effort. If I'm wearing contacts, some make up and fitting clothes I can maybe get to kinda cute if you're squinting. I'm used to being sort of ugly and pain but I'm afraid it's going to get much worse since I'm hitting 30 soon (too much time on boards really affected my self esteem about my looks as I age)

>fat

60kg for 163cm so, average to kinda chubby but not fat. Lost 20 kgs in the last few years, tho.

>boring

Not sure about that. I have some hobbies but I have to push myself not to slide into TV binge watching all the time.

>a virgin

Nah. I had the sex already.

>unemployed or even a NEET?

Used to. Dropped ou several time and I'm on my last ditch attempt at a degree at 28. It's pretty pathetic but I'm hoping I'll have at least my degree before I'm 30.

Do you have…
>no friends
Yup. I got myself some school friends this year, but I'm sure they wouldn't be my friends out of school. I probably won't hear from them for a while now that we have our internships and then the summer holidays.
>no hobbies
I wish I could at least get back to reading like I used to since it used to bring so much joy but I just can't bring myself, it' s so much effort.
>shitty grades?
Not really, I've been working hard this year since I'm on my last chance before being a neet or having to be a supermarket wageslave. The only exam I flunked this semester tho, I cried in front of the teacher and it was humiliating af. Fortunately, I was the last one to attend so nobody heard about it.

No. 238560

>>238559
Oh, and count me in the French loser club. Glad to see I'm not alone.
Des bisous.

No. 238567

>>238543
First one was through a mutual friend, she met him on Omegle. We were both KHHVs at that point. Second was through /soc/.

And idk anon, wish I did. Do tell me if you find out though :(

No. 238568

>>238560
>>238548
>>238556
Sign me up as well, m'in tchiot!

No. 238576

>>238338
thank you, it's better to try to
laugh about it then to cry about it
>>238342
sorry I'm kind of ott sometime
>>238527
Yep ! Huge nose and chintoc really made it obvious

>>238556
>>238560
>>238568
Sign me up too !

No. 238618

Are you…
>ugly
I used to be very beautiful and known for it, but then I got fat.
>fat
Yes. I used to be super skinny, but then I let myself go and now I'm huge.
>boring
Yes, but I hide it well by knowing a lot of interesting facts and using them in conversation
>a virgin
No, happily married, which is about the only thing keeping me from feeling like my life is totally pathetic
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Only just recently started working consistently and only super part time
Do you have…
>no friends
I have a few
>no hobbies
I pretend to have hobbies, but the truth is I barely partake in them anymore and have barely made any skill progress as a result. Art is my main one, but I still draw like a high schooler anime fan and it really fucks with me.
>shitty grades?
I had to drop out of high school and get my GED because my grades were so bad that I'd be 20 by the time I graduated. Then I tried community college a few years later and failed at that too.

No. 238635

Now I'm plain average
but when I was younger I got called ugly so many time lmao
there's three cases that remember to this day:

>I was stopped in the middle of the school corridor by this boy who said "wow you are really ugly".


>I had 2 friends who knew a older boy, he said " you are the witch of talking, you the witch of annoying, and you ( me ) the witch of uglyness".


> I used a lot of make up up until junior of HS, and this girl I knew came up to me and said " why do you wear make up? it's not helping you anyway " and my people laughed .


Also it doesn't help that I have gorgeous friends lel
They always humblebrag about receiving so much attention from boys and the likes. yeah man must be sad being pretty and liked kek

No. 238650

>>238567
>she met him on Omegle
>Second was through /soc/
Christ.

No. 238653

>homely in the face, lumpy misshapen body with ugly hip dips, no tits or ass and huge thighs
>out of shape but not fat yet
>boring
>a virgin
>been working the same shitty service industry job since I graduated high school
>no friends
>struggle to keep up with my hobbies because depression
>my grades were horrible in high school so university is pretty much off the table for me

I even half-ass being a loser

No. 238656

>>238650
Well I did say I had trouble getting a boyfriend. For what it's worth, the Omegle guy was really nice, we dated for a long time and are still friends.

No. 238685

>ugly
My face is nice, but it has some acne thats almost gone now with light scarring, Im currently trying to lose weight
>fat
120 lbs and 5 foot, not fat but not perfect body either
>boring
A bit, I can't hold conversations and are super awkward due to autism, not even cute awkward, cringey awkward
>a virgin
Yee
>unemployed or even a NEET?
One of the only things im prideful about is my career, despite being 18 I have two jobs, one 20$/hour dance teacher, the other working in nursing home, I go to school in august and have scholarships
Do you have…
>no friends
Yeah, I try staying in touch with friends from high school but they don't seem to be interested since I moved a few towns away
>no hobbies
I like reading and sewing and gardening, I dont have any "useful" hobbies though
>shitty grades?
I make good grades and took honors, I get kinda slacky when I go through depression episodes but my family is super pushy and I went to the type of school to call your parents if you dont turn in an assignment, and when that happened my entire family would bombard me with calls and messages to turn that shit in or work harder

No. 238813

Are you…
>ugly
No, but I used to think I was. I'm probably average.
>fat
Nah
>boring
No, but again I thought I was. My amount of activity is pretty average.
>a virgin
No
>unemployed or even a NEET?
No, I have a part time job while I go to uni. I work in intramural sports, of all things.
Do you have…
>no friends
I'm not really happy with my friend groups, but I realized having my best friend is the most important thing to me
>no hobbies
Nah
>shitty grades?
Yes, my grades were shit. My GPA was less than 2.0 the beginning of last semester after failing multiple classes. I managed to turn things and get good grades last semester, and my grades this semester are looking to be just as good.

Here's what helped turn things around for me:
>New best friend
After getting a new best friend, I realized how toxic and unsupportive my old best friend was. I'm not really sure why my new best friend wanted to be good friends with me considering they have a lot of other friends. But this helped so much and helped stabilize my life a lot. I realize it was just mostly a lot of luck so I can't really tell you how to replicate this.
>Doing yoga
Yoga helped me get moving which improved my energy levels and motivation levels a lot. I'm still not doing a ton or improving that much but it really helps keep you balanced.
>New medication
I am diagnosed with ADHD, and my new medicine works wonders for me. I get shit done without being too nauseated. I take it whenever I need to focus, like when I have a test or paper due, so it ends up being about 2x/week for me. It probably would help a lot of people out even without diagnosed ADHD. It's done more wonders for me then my anti-depressants ever did.

I'm not perfect in the slightest and I think I have a long way to go. Habits take a long time to form, but as long as you can do things one step at a time, it's really for the best.

No. 238816

This thread explains why there's so many nutters here

>>238529
Anon, you don't meet people you like through clubbing.

My first bf I met at summer camp.

My second bf's was my ex's best friend. He met up with me and then asked me out after we were talking.

My current bf I met at work. I went on a couple of dates, and then I asked him out.

You can also try okcupid. It's pretty easy to meet someone if you are a woman and take decent pics.

>>238543
Guys don't really care how you dress as long as you aren't wearing dirty clothes. Wearing makeup is super helpful in transforming how people look but you shouldn't rely on it to find a partner if you're not committed to wearing it all the time. I was super self conscious about how I looked so I tried to wear makeup every day, but I couldn't keep it up.

No. 238838

All of my answers are "sorta/kinda"
But it'll be good to list out and analyze my insecurities
>ugly?
I get compliments but Im so nitpicky about myself, I think my profile is horrible and my eyes are too small. I don't smile with teeth bc it'll show my butt chin. My hair is frizzy/has dandruff even tho I try to take care of it. My teeth are yellowy cause i never established a regular brushing routine…im gross i know
>fat
Im 112, but 5 feet. Ideal weight is 105, but ive only reached 108 after getting sick. Big chest but bloated stomach and flat ass. Id rather have a pear shape
>a virgin
now that i have a boyf im working up to it, but honestly were both so awkward im scared it'll be a bad experience/ ruin our relationship. Wanna learn how to make out first at least, all we do is peck
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I have a part time job now, after being a shut in student for a year and a half so it feels too late somehow
>no friends
Made one friend this year but were not too close yet. Wish i had a whole group of friends
>no hobbies
ive been avoiding working on art bc i feel like a failure at it after that one commission that went wrong/ gotta make art for myself or else ill never get back into it
>shitty grades?
hell yeah, im failing two classes and im only taking three. todays the last day to drop out but i cant because my completion rate wont be enough for financial aid. honestly don't even want to continue school, but its the only thing ive got going for me atm

No. 238844

Are you…
>a virgin
Only shitty people think that being a virgin is for losers.

No. 238845

>>238844
Okay grandma.

No. 238847

>>238077
>ugly
i was considered beautiful when i was ana but rebound fat and premature ageing has been very unkind.
>fat
yep, and tall. the incredible bulk.
>boring
yes and i compensate in the worst way by exaggerating everything the minute somebody pays attention to me.
>a virgin
no, but i’ve been celibate for five years because i hate myself and am afraid of rejection. i fall for people who will never ever like me back (usually straight girls or gay men), at the moment it’s my manager who is gay & engaged. think i have intimacy issues but don’t know how to overcome them.
>unemployed
part time min wage job. got a good degree + a masters but the job market is oversaturated.
>no friends
i’m so weird and awkward and embarrassing and don’t know how to change. i just want people to like me. don’t know how to act.
>no hobbies
video games don’t count.
i used to be an award winning, exhibiting painter but it’s too expensive in my current situation and i’m too sad and tired nowadays to touch a paintbrush.
>shit grades
buggered my chance at my masters and ended up with a merit. nobody wants me for further study or work now. sux.

No. 238878

>ugly
I am short, but with wide shoulders, strong arms and legs. I also have hyperpigmentation and acne scars. I have an androgynous face.
I am black with an uneven, yellowish brown complexion and very frizzy hair.
>fat
I'm overweight but being muscular helps. The only people who've called me fat to my face are children.
>boring
I've been told by people that I'm funny. I do not know if they're making fun of me or not.
>virgin
I am 25 and never kissed lip to lip. I see myself as like an asexual bisexual. I mostly have crushes on girls nowadays. I would hate for someone to touch me since I look ugly. I collect the social media of girls I find attractive and fantasize about waking up as them.
>unemployed
I have an ok job in my field. I'm too unambitious and anxious to get certifications and move to something better after a year or so.
>hobbies
Hobbies are vidya, horror, and true crime. I am terrified of driving so I can't participate in many "adult" activities on the fly unless I get an Uber or my mom or friend to get me.
>friends
My only true friend moved but I keep in contact. I have another old friend, but it's a one-sided friendship.
>shitty grades
I focused only on grades in college to get my dream job. I didn't get it. it was in a sector of my field that attracts "normal" attractive people. I finally got an interview, but i had to travel and wound up getting rejected. I cried, drank, and self harmed a lot in my last year of college and the summer following since I struggled to find a decent job. And all of the regular, non shy, and attractive people in my class got them easily.

No. 238881

>>238685
This anon, I also like to mention I have pretty much no sex drive or need for closeness, it grosses me out if anything, I've always been the type to even avoid hugs from friends and family

No. 238889

>>238845
lmao More people nowadays are having less sex. https://www.tomorrowsleep.com/magazine/people-having-less-sex

Thinking it's okay to be a virgin as a young adult/adult doesn't make you an old lady or prude.

No. 238892

>>238889
It's still not that normal to have no sexual experience into your 20s. Probably less than 1% of 25 year old women these days are virgins.

If you're a virgin into your 20s, chances are you are religious, asexual, or unattractive. If you are looking for sex and you can't find any, that kind of makes you a loser, yeah.

No. 238902

>>238844
Being a virgin doesn't make you a loser, but having a healthy romantic life kind of indicates you aren't one by this thread's standards. I see a a lot of girls talk about being huge losers but then mention that they have a hot awesome bf/husband and a happy relationship, in other threads too. In society's eyes, a woman just needs a husband and kids and they've got the ideal life. It overrides any other loser traits because romantic validation is so significant for us… it shouldn't be, it's insulting, but that's how it is. We can be as hot and educated and successful as we want but if we're single past a certain age people think we're pathetic spinsters.

No. 238904

>>238892
idk any women ugly enough not to get fucked

No. 238908

>>238904
Absolutely anyone could get fucked, male or women, but most of us have standards.

No. 238913

>>238902
Why are you making this into a gender thing? A guy into his 20s who can't find a girlfriend is definitely a loser too, no matter how successful or educated he is. You don't think men also want validation? Also being lesbian/gay and also an adult virgin is becoming a weirder and weird thing too these days when it's becoming safer to be out.

My #1 priority in life is to get married and have kids. I think a lot of men and women think the same way I do.

No. 238914

>>238913
I'm not 'making' it a gender thing, I'm addressing female specific ideas because this is a mostly female board. Male virgins are absolutely losers, single men aren't as long as they're getting laid. Men only really need sexual validation, nobody (whose opinion actually matters to them) thinks they're a loser for staying single and having lots of sex, unlike women.

No. 238915

>>238892
you have to be horrible hideous to be a virgin as a woman (not out of choice)

No. 238916

>>238915
What if you have a life outside of being dicked down and you only meet loser men?

No. 238920

>>238913
> My #1 priority in life is to get married and have kids. I think a lot of men and women think the same way I do.

But it sucks when us who don't are constantly told that we're losers and that we need to change our minds. I'm a virgin and I plan to stay that way yet all of my stupid coworkers and friends keep playing matchmakers with me. As soon as others learn that you're single and even if you tell them that you're not looking for a relationship, they don't get that you really mean it.

And just as this >>238914 anon said, when a woman is single she is a loser, a cat lady, a bitter spinster. When a guy is single he is a macho bachelor guy who is smart for escaping marriage and just messing around.

>>238889
Don't worry the anon you're replying to is probably a single mom type that will live in a trailer park and make ends meet with coupons and blowjobs.

Let her be a modern and promiscuous whore if that's the life she chooses.

No. 238939

>>238914
It's not really an achievement for a woman to have a lot of sex tho. Pretty much all of the female virgins here are inhibited or have self-esteem issues.

No. 238944

>>238914
>Men only really need sexual validation, nobody (whose opinion actually matters to them) thinks they're a loser for staying single and having lots of sex, unlike women.
Actually married men are viewed as more reliable in the work place and they even make more money on average than men who are single.

No. 238947

>>238077

>Are you ugly, fat, boring

I was but grew out of it. I mean I didn't become gorgeous because you can only do so much, but I lost weight and I'm now pretty much average/good looking in terms of looks.

But growing up ugly and unpopular kind of messed me up and I don't really know how to be relaxed and cool around other people. It's like I'm constantly looking over my own shoulder when I interact with strangers to make sure my loser personnality won't slip through.
Anyone else with the same problem ?

I also feel like I can't for the life of me find a real partner. I had boyfriends but it didn't work out, or I was way too clingy for them. I thought I hit the jackpot with my current one but he just revealed to me recently how fucked up in the head he is (probably why we hit off so well)

I'm in my mid twenties and recently someone joked about me getting married and I legit snorted because I can't even imagine someone wanting to spend their entire future with me. It's that bad.

>Also let me in the french loser club svp :/

No. 238961

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No. 238969


No. 238970

>>238969
it's literally 3-4 anons replying to each other lol

No. 238971

>>238970
No, i made sure not to get the same anon twice. And i doubt anybody said "let me join your club" more than once.

No. 238972

>>238969
And they probably look better than the average american poster.

No. 238973

>>238972
not according to their posts lol

No. 238976

>>238972
>Hurrdurr we might be losers, but at least we're not as fat as americans!
And thats why nobody likes you…

No. 238977

>>238976
girls are usually skinny and decently dressed here in France. not any less vapid than anywhere else though

No. 238979

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>>238977
French girls being skinny and well dressed is a meme. Europeans are getting fatter and fatter every single year.

No. 238983

>>238979
Also this. Thousands watch her just for the "french/paris style" she slabs underneath her videos, yet if you're honest, she actually looks less than fortunate, people just don't want to realize that.

Saged for samefag

No. 238988

>>238208
this is me
today i found a picture of myself as 7 years old
>skinny
>tan
>face looks cute
then i hit puberty
>skinnyfat
>ugly man face
>not tan because i live in a cold country
sometimes if i wear baggy clothes people think i am transgender or a dude it feels bad man. Especially because all my friends are gorgeous rich skinny white girls

No. 238993

>>238983
French accents sound so horrible. Sorry, French anons. It sounds like she has marbles in her mouth.

No. 238997

>>238988
holy shit this post is so 100% me that I'm paranoid that I wrote it unconsciously. Except my friends aren't rich but skinny and gorgeous to boot. nice to meet you anon

>>238972
not even french or american or even from an english speaking country but the french are hideous tbh both inside and outside.

No. 239001

>>238972
not according to the cute american girls in the discord. at least get ur facts straight before u shitpost.

No. 239002

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>>238979
OT, but if that's true, then why are germans always portayed as the fattest in movies?

No. 239004

>>238997
Sure thing 3rd world country chan.

No. 239007

>>239004
If she was from a true 3rd world country she probably wouldn't even have any internet… maybe she's from another part of europe?
But good job at proving again how you're absolutely not rude and xenophobic at all…

No. 239009

>>239004
>ugly french person trying to argue the average french poster here isn't ugly meanwhile french posters are bawwing itt about how ugly they are
What are you trying to accomplish? Good job proving you're not only ugly, but also stupid.

No. 239010

>>239009
I don't care how ugly other french posters heres are, I know they're probably similar to the average amerifat.

I didn't think saying "sure thing" would triggers you guys so badly but it's not very surprising considering how insecure you all sound.

No. 239014

>>238961
Lmao

>>238969
We're just very dramatic and depressed. Living in a cold-ish country surrounded by other french people will do that to you.

No. 239023

>>239007
>true 3rd world country
>no internet

The ignorance is astounding

No. 239035

Is it the SNCF strikes, why are there so many of us here all of a sudden? At least stop being autistic, please, you're making us look bad.

No. 239039

>>238993
You're not wrong… Oh well, at least it's not Dutch.

No. 239042

I don't think I'm a loser. I'm employed, have accomplishments, had great grades, have a bf, live on my own, travel, drive, and have some friends. People tell me I'm pretty and compliment my clothes.

But I'm fat.
I feel bad for it all the time and it makes me feel like a loser. It's the first thing people attack. When I was in the dating scene, if I broke up/rejected men they would retort "Well you're too fat anyway" or "You'd be so beautiful if you were thin." It's dogged me all my life.

I've had so many weight loss attempts. It seems to come and go in two year cycles. As in, I work really hard and lose ~80 pounds and usually come just shy of my target, and then the following years I gain it back and be miserable for the next 2 until I hate myself enough to want to lose again.

I've never had a healthy relationship with food or weight. The last time o reached out for help when I was suicidal about it, the social worker literally ditched my appointment for Bojangles (fried chicken). One part of society doesn't care about my weight, and the other part does and is mean about it.
It's confusing, hurtful, and I feel alone in it a lot.

No. 239050

>>239042
>usually come just shy of my target, and then the following years I gain it back

Do you have issues with food, anon? Or do you just work yourself too hard to lose the weight and then get burnt out? You should probably get a therapist for this, you know that, right?

No. 239058

>>239023
>Xenophobic french anon who uses the term 3rd world country as an insult thinks saying that 3rd world countries don't have internet access is 'ignorant'…

No. 239059

>>239042
Perhaps you should focus on turning fat into muscle then, strength should give you a degree of confidence in yourself.

No. 239060

>>239050
Yeah my last therapist ditched me for fried chicken when I wanted to kill myself. It's hard to find one covered through my insurance but I do realize it's an issue.

No. 239064

>>239059
The last time I lost weight I had a pretty easy routine. It was when I was in grad school when I lived across the road from my college's track. I'd run two miles in the morning, go to class (which included some fitness electives), went to the campus gym to lift, and run 2 more miles at night. Didn't have a bf so I didn't have to worry about meals.
The part time job I had was one where I was on my feet all day.

A lot of it is major lifestyle changes I didn't adapt to very well.

No. 239094

>>239058
That was my first post itt, I'm not siding with the French anon. I just happen to be from a third world country and honestly it gets really tiring to be told what my living conditions are by some first worlder. Or being told my country isn't really third world because ignorant people think that only literal starving african tribes in the middle of nowhere count.

No. 239097

>>239094
You're from a third world country, yet the thing that truly pisses you of is "ignorant first worlders" thinking you might be poorer than you actually are…?
This isn't tumblr and your comment had absolutely nothing to do with the original conversation/'fight'

Also, 4 billion people still don't have internet access, most of them living in third world countries…

No. 239136

>>239097
>You're from a third world country, yet the thing that truly pisses you of is…
Yup. What, you think that's too petty and I should be more worried about other things? lol

Your comment and your retarded fight wasn't on topic either, and tbh if there is one thing more tumblr than complaining about how ignorant you are, it's to take on a patronizing tone and speak on the behalf of an ~oppressed group who doesn't have internet uwu~ like you're doing.

No. 239196

>>239136
We're just stupid americans, so thanks for educating us, anon!
I totally forgot that spoiled brats with rich parents can also exist in otherwise poor countries

No. 239358

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Are you…
>ugly
I think so, i have some UwU rare recessive traits due to ancestral inbreeding but that's fucking it. My body has good bone structure but my face is kinda marfanoid
>fat
almost. I have an eating disorder that i'm too embarrassed to admit, so my weight fluctuates and i am really saggy in areas. it's aight in clothes but
the loose skin and cellulite in bizarre areas makes me rage. also carb belly
>boring
pretty much. used to be 'not like other girls' but now i'm too boring even for that
>a virgin
no. I was a massive attention seeking whore. but i might as well be lately, my eating retardedness already isn't kind enough to me to make my body fuckable, it's destroying my libido too
>unemployed or even a NEET?
unemployed and studying shit that is way beyond my inteligence. like, i'm honestly being realistic here. I panic about it a lot
Do you have…
>no friends
except the occasional autist that i'm nice to
>no hobbies
i do 'art'
>shitty grades?
fluctuates as much as my weight

No. 239465

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I'm so stupid.
Just now i quickly went to a friend (but we're not that close) since i accidentally left my watch in her car. She was sitting with 2 friends in the garden, smoking and she asked me if i wanted to join.

Of course retard me immediately said No, not even Thanks no, just No…
That could have been my chance to finally get in contact with others, but again i destroyed it…

The weather is so nice today. My little sister is playing outside with her friends, my parents are also out and i'm sitting alone at home and it doesn't seem as if it get's better anytime soon…
This summer i will turn 23 and i'm lonelier than ever

No. 239471

>>239465
In that situation you're supposed to force yourself to agree to join them because you just know you'll regret it if you don't, and once it's done you'll get more used to hanging out with them and people in general and it'll become less awkward with time.

No. 239472

FYI some neckbeard linked this place on /r9k/ in case you're wondering about the uptick in toxic shitty posts
https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/44403198
t. a female friend who browses /r9k/ to dox creeps and expose them to their friends and family

No. 239521

>>239472
Well, reading that certainly reaffirmed my stance that concentration camps aren't the worst idea, depending on the circumstances.

No. 239527

>>239519
Can you do all of that on video? If you do I'll consider it

No. 239564

>>239519
No you are bold and look like a heroin addict no one here likes you

No. 239568

>>239531
>I think you may be mocking me here, and I won't go for it.
Yeah she's mocking you and it's pretty obvious. If it isn't utterly obvious to you, you might be autistic.

No. 239569

>>239002
because stereotypes from RTL

>>239558

because reasons

No. 239571

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>>239568
>might be

No. 239572

Is having sex really that much of a good experience for women that it's a qualifier for loser-dom? I thought most women dont get off on vaginal stimulation, so whats the point?
(actual question from a virgin)

No. 239578

>>239572
If you read the thread you'll see a lot of them are virgins and dgaf about it.

No. 239712

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The absolute state of this thread

>>238988
>people think i am transgender or a dude it feels bad man.

Why don't you wear makeup anon? It seriously helps a lot

>>239035
Top kek

No. 239826

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>>238077
>ugly
i look ok in the mirror, but i have really flat face and hooded eyes so i just look tired all the time
>fat
no, my body is the only thing i think is ok
>boring
yes, but im trying not to be
>a virgin
yes, i literally get so cockblocked i dreamt i was on a camping trip with a bunch of cute boys i couldn't get in the pants of.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
yes
>no friends
one i barely talk to :(
>no hobbies
i used to draw and rock climb a lot, now i don't even have the patience to watch tv
>shitty grades?
once has good grades, now they're shite

No. 239839

I'm probably what society defines as a "loser" but I'm ok with that. I'm overweight by about 20 lbs and have some acne but don't wear anything to conceal it. I have no friends and aside from work and sometimes hiking by myself I only stay at home. I have never dated anyone/had sex because I have never encountered a man I actually enjoyed being around.

Anyone else just have very little social desire? I get lonely maybe once a year but am doing alright otherwise. All of the things I like to do can be done with just one person. People tend to think I have some mental illness because I do not speak to any of my coworkers unless I need to or they spoke to me first.

No. 239847

>>238988
>sometimes if i wear baggy clothes people think i am transgender or a dude it feels bad man. Especially because all my friends are
I have that problem without wearing baggy clothes. Manface, wide shoulders, low voice, flat unstyled hair. In real life people recognize I’m a girl because of my height but online it always gets questioned.

No. 239848

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Are you…
>ugly honestly not with makeup
>fat 2/3 momokun grade
>boring yes
>a virgin no I live with my boyfriend of almost two years
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Neet supported completely by bf
Do you have…
>no friends yes
>no hobbies I have a few hobbies and go to the gym 4 times a week

No. 239849

>>239358
What rare receive traits?

No. 239858

>ugly
Like 4/10 i guess, im half asian/half slav and look 90% asian, only guys with yellow fever find me attractive. i have a huge manjaw and big square chin, bad acne on my face/back/chest/butt, big forhead with weird balding hairline
>fat
chubby but normal bmi, i have jiggly arms, slight double chin, stomach fat
>boring
yes to most people. IRL im very quiet and dont speak to anyone. im very introverted and have trouble maintaining contact with my few online friends. only people with the same autistic interests as me like history/politics/psychology will find me interesting
>a virgin
yes
>unemployed or neet?
currently in uni but im failing all my classes b/c laziness depression, im legit thinking of marrying some old dude and leech off him
Do you have…
>no friends
only a few online ones that i barely respond to
>no hobbies
internet surfing + music + documentaries
>shitty grades?
yes :(

No. 239870

>ugly
I think I’m just really plain. I’ve had really bad self esteem and self worth issues since my early teens and I’m in 22 now so my view of myself is completely fucked.
>fat
yes but im working on it, already down 4kg
>boring
yep i barely talk and there isn’t anything remotely interesting about me
>a virgin
yes every opportunity ive been in where there’s the option to lose it, i internal panic and make excuses
>unemployed or even a NEET?
im in my final year at university right now, fortunately the area I live in has good employment rates and I really don’t mind what work I do
Do you have…
>no friends
I have two and they both like to gang up and walk all over me no matter how hard I try to be more forceful. I’d stop hanging out with them if I had other friends but I can’t bare to be completely friendless so I’m forcing myself to put up with it
>no hobbies
that’s the case right now but I’m slowly getting into running regularly, reading, drawing and photography
>shitty grades?
they’ve improved since last year so now they’re average

I developed depression and anxiety in my early teens and my grades, social life, health and hobbies were all severely effected. I’m trying to get back to some level of normalcy but it’s so fucking hard.

No. 239901

>>238979
Everything about french culture is a meme, but
>Europeans are getting fatter and fatter every single year

Only old people and "Europeans"are getting fatter.

Sage for ot pol posting.

No. 239926

>>239848
so, not a loser?

No. 239932

Are you…
>am 21
>ugly
Average. Could probably be a 9/10 with makeup and hair styling but i'm not a morning person and i dont have skills.

>fat

no, very skinny. i have difficulty eating because i dont like a lot of foods.

>boring

i have no idea. i like to crack jokes and go on spontaneous trips. I just don't like going about it alone and socializing is exhausting.

>a virgin

no, only one partner, high school sweethearts

>unemployed or even a NEET?

no i didnt stay a neet for long thank god

Do you have…
>no friends
kinda. none of them make effort to talk to me. its always one-sided, and im tired of being walked all over. making new friends is impossible. they always cease to exist after school is done or nothing goes beyond small talk. some people are only comfortable with their cliques and don't want to associate with others outside their social circle. online friends are the same concept. no luck.

>no hobbies

no i have a lot of hobbies. just lack of energy to do them.


>shitty grades?

sometimes. it depends on my understanding on the subject and motivation… having friends would help. i always get by with a passing grade in the end though.

No. 239935

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>>239932
>9/10 with makeup
>skinny
>likes to crack jokes and go on spontaneous trips
>not a virgin
>not a NEET
>a lot of hobbies
Posts in the loser thread…?

No. 239937

>>239932
Anon you're the opposite of a loser. The only thing I could see as a problem is the friends part, and even then I noticed it's pretty common to have friends/acquaintances who only do small-talk once you're out of school, as well as having a hard time finding new friends, although it's not impossible if that makes you feel better.

No. 239955

>>239932
Anon, you sound cute. Don't be so harsh on yourself!

No. 239961

>>239937
>>239955
She was most likely just fishing for compliments or wants the other anons to feel even worse about themselves, so don't pity her too much.

No. 239963

>>239932
Hey anon, I have the right solution on how to improve your life. Take a big cup of bleach and drink it, guaranteed results ♥

No. 239970

>>239963
wow imagine being this angry about a person being less of a loser than you.

No. 239971

>>239963
and people wonder why some anons say there's too much hate on this board.

No. 239972

>>239970
>loser thread
>describe the most normalfag life baiting for replies like >>239955

No. 239985

>>239970
>>239971
You're most welcome to try it too xoxo ♥

P.S. My favorite brand of bleach is "kys cunts" but you may find another one to your liking. Make sure to do it soon and stream it too ^_~(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 239990

>>239985
lmao atleast you're making it obvious why you're a loser.

No. 239992

>>239990
This IS a loser thread but maybe you should make a retard thread so you and your retard friends have somewhere to post. I can draw it to you and put it in dummy terms if you don't know how to do it as long as you promise that you will fuck off ♥

No. 239998

>>239992
I get what you mean anon, humblebragging is disgusting, even more so in a 'sad' thread like this, there people might really feel worse about themselves after having to read the shit she wrote, but your a-logging and use of emojis will likely get you banned…

No. 240001

>>239992
ffs, calm down. i haven't even posted ITT yet and i def qualify as a loser, i'm a tall 28 year old with small tits who's never been kissed and lives at my parent's house with a shitty part time job at a library and i literally have no life but lc.

i think you should stop a-logging because it's ridiculous.

No. 240009

>>240001
If you're already 28 you should no longer fall for bait and write passive aggressive stuff like
>lmao atleast you're making it obvious why you're a loser.
Very mature, especially seeing as you consider yourself to be a loser as well and hurtful to all the other 'loser' anons on here…
Just report her for a-logging.

No. 240010

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>>239926
Living off your boyfriend because of chronic anxiety and depression after getting gang raped at 13 makes me a very terrified loser.

I’m lucky to be with someone caring and lovely but I’m not improving his life or my own by not just killing myself and letting him live happily with a better partner.

Despite of the DDLG propaganda relying on someone for everything isn’t cute

That and the getting fat part.

I’m working on everything but for now I’m a below average looking woman in my early twenties with no idea what to do with myself.

It’s fucked

No. 240020

>>240001
> i think you should stop a-logging because it's ridiculous.

I only mentioned bleach twice and that was as obviously ironic as her humblebragging. Fine, ban me. But you should also start banning anons that clearly act against the OP.

I'm taking a break from lolcow anyways.

>>240001
> loser
> shits on other losers

This makes you even a worse person. You're like that bullied kid that bullies others hoping to get into the cool crowd. Whatever.

No. 240024

>>240020
lol why the fuck should i care about you crazy cunts at this point? this thread seemed okay at first but everyone had to take the bait and derail shit into a mess. you sound fucking nuts yourself so you should probably take your own """ironic""" advice.

No. 240036

>>239712
>Why don't you wear makeup anon? It seriously helps a lot
Not her but I also have a really ugly manface and I actually look more like a tranny with makeup on. Whenever I wear it I'm reminded of the saying 'putting lipstick on a pig' so I just don't bother.

No. 240037

I don’t understand why people are getting anal about replies that are not on the extreme end of the spectrum. Sounds like people are salty if the replies are ~not enough of a loser to post here~. Holy fuq.

No. 240042

>>240037
i already said it in the other thread, but this thread is basically 1 part circle jerk for "losers" 1 part anons wanting to feel better about themselves, so if someone "average" comes along they can't do either.

No. 240048

>>239932
OP here. I honestly wasn't expecting replies to this at all seeing as i probably appear as a basic bitch, which is understandable. I just wanted to contribute and join the discussion. im not trying to humblebrag, and if i appeared that way, I dont know how I could word my sentences differently.

>>239972
thank you for replying in a calm way. is it really though? I was starting to think it was just me. maybe there was something I'm doing incorrectly. I do suck at being outgoing and ive been trying to force myself to be better at it. I always see people on facebook with their large group of friends from elementary school until now, even. I envy that.

I'm also near deaf (probably should've mentioned that earlier, i tend to have denial). It's a lot harder to bring that up front to new people since its not a disability you can outright see. I had bad anxiety due to that. (thinking oh no what if I have to say "What" a million times and people just getting annoyed). A lot of times people think im not listening to them and I have to explain myself. And then people just distance even further. this is with meeting new people. it has nothing to do with my current friends that lack to keep in touch. As for being a NEET, I was for awhile because getting a job required hearing. even retail jobs, you have to answer phone calls, answer questions, etc. Telling my employer didn't accommodate much and usually people just subtly laid me off.

>>239961
you're over thinking it.

No. 240051

>>240048
I'm the anon who said you're not a loser and told you having a hard time finding friends is more and more normal the older you get. Why do you actually feel like a loser? I'm legit curious.

No. 240052

>>240048
If you would have written your initial post like this to begin with it would have put you in a completely different light; before it really just sounded like plain old humblebragging.

No. 240055

>>240052
or maybe anons shouldn't start immediately reeing when they feel like someone doesn't fit into their spechul loser hugbox club.

No. 240056

>>239572
Women are harder to get off then men, but most women should be able to as long as the guy knows what he's doing… which sadly most men don't. I didn't think an orgasm from sex was possible until I was with a guy who was actually good in bed.

No. 240062

>>240056
most women don't even know how to get themselves off. and guys only suck if the girl they are with doesn't tell them how to fuck them properly. a guy can fuck 10 women and still be shit, but if he fucks 1 woman who tells him what's up he's great.

No. 240075

>ugly
4/10 at most, 2/10 otherwise, my nose is a literal potato and while I can look sorta ok from a straight on angle, anything else exposes my leafy tier chin. also I look really ugly when I smile because of the no chin and huge cheeks which is great.
>fat
bmi 21 but I'm really insecure about my body due to never fully getting over anachan mindset + having a hunchback and hyperlordosis.
>boring
no normie interests and next to no nerd interests so I can't engage well with anyone. also I always freeze up around new people and can't hold conversation for shit unless the other person is like really proactive and outgoing because of fear of coming across as annoying or weird.
>a virgin
a kissless handholdless virgin at 21 but never having been in a relationship bothers me more than the sex aspect although I realise I am not in a healthy enough mindset for that.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I do go to uni but it is dreadful because I don't know anyone and always am alone and anxious, labs especially because we usually have to work in pairs. also I do have a shitty warehouse job but I am the youngest one there by good 2 decades so all social contact is surface level small talk.
>no friends
I live with a flatmate who I'm pretty sure hates me and we definitely wouldn't keep in touch if it wasn't for our living arrangement, she is usually my only social outlet of the day. There are other two girls who I'd consider close friends but we chat maybe once a week and meet up every 2 months or so despite living 10 minutes from each other. I have no online friends and am generally too scared to join discords or other such places.
>no hobbies
I mostly just waste time online watching youtube crap I don't care about and similar just to pass the time somehow. I used to like drawing but I can't find the energy for it the last 4 years or so. I have been trying to get into some of the interests I had in middle school but nothing sticks. I literally do nothing.
>shitty grades?
my grades are good however the way I go about studying is so painful because I procrastinate until last possible moment. Also I am horrified about the honours project research and trying for internships, I really don't see how I could ever graduate or, in case that miraculously happens, get a job in the field.

No. 240082

Are you…
>ugly
Yes. Non existant upper lip and weird, neverending nose. No one has ever complimented my face IRL and online they resort to "your hair is very pretty!" which is…
>fat
No. Girls have sometimes told me I have a nice body. But I honestly feel like it's wasted on me, could have gone to someone more deserving of it.
>boring
Absolutely! You really gotta namedrop something while talking to me or I'll let the conversation die in a second.
>a virgin
Yeah, a kissless one. Boys bullied me a lot when I was young so I don't even think of approaching some.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I'm still studying.
Do you have…
>no friends
I have my group of friends but they're kinda nerds as well so we don't go out much. Apart from the couples in it, everyone's a virgin/never been in a relationship.
>no hobbies
It's all weeb/things you mainly do alone. Wish I didn't change sport activity once at year when I was a kid.
>shitty grades?
Yes.

Also, weird thing I have realized in the past days. Due to not knowing many people I usually develop visual crushes on people I don't even know the name of- almost like I'd want to have their looks, cared very little about how they actually are as long as I get to look at them (wew, super creepy.) But then again I'm too lazy and unable to do anything but the bare minimum about it, so there's no actual way I'd improve myself based on them.

No. 240088

>>240055
>spechul loser hugbox club
Literally the topic of the thread. Why don't you just go to the vent thread if you want to talk about your normal problems? This "club" is just one thread, you can go anywhere else.

No. 240117

The worst part is having lived as both a beautiful girl and an ugly one at different points of your life and knowing how deeply being ugly affects your life. When I was a teenager, I was blissfully happy, cute af, got a lot of attention from both men and women, confident, passionate about various things like art/drama/singing/fashion/film/programming/charity work and I just had an overall great life.

When I became depressed and stressed due to school/college/work/bad home life, I comfort ate and started to yo-yo diet to lose it which made me gain more. I ended up gaining 50lbs in total that I can't seem to lose, only maintain. My once flawless skin became covered in acne and acne scars. I lost all interest in absolutely everything and don't have a hobby because I berate myself for not being an expert. I literally have nothing going for me and have no joys in life.

Here are all the shitty things that come with being a fat and ugly loser imo:
>being unable to make friends (others only care about people they're attracted to)
>not being able to go shopping for clothes without breaking down
>using "tricks" to hide my bulging stomach, tree trunk thighs, arm/neck fat (with scarves, baggy clothes, long cardigans, tying things around my waist, wearing my hair down all the time etc.)
>seeing myself in photos I didn't take and thinking "What the actual fuck is that hideous creature? Why did they take a picture when my lizard teeth were showing? Is that what my nasty, fat back looks like?"
>thinking everyone is looking at me when I eat in public or run for the bus and thinking about how gross I look
>feeling completely naked leaving the house without a full face of makeup
>having partners compliment me and it actually makes me feel worse because I don't believe them
>turning the light off during sex and not really getting into it because I can't stop thinking about how I look
>reject amazing opportunities like holidays, parties, events
>thinking about how everyone sees me all. the. time.
>having a voice in my head holding me back from everything in life
>being fat holding me back from everything in life

Depression, not even once.

No. 240130

Am I going crazy or do certain cameras distort your face?
In the mirror, my passport photo and DSLR my face is quite square but whenever I take a photo with my phone camera I look like a skinny Slim Jim with a massive nose, giant nasolabial folds, pointy chin and no upper lip. In videos I look ever so slightly better. I have an Xperia Z5 Compact.
I don't know if I really look like that or not, is "a face that doesn't photograph well" a meme people say to make themselves feel better or does it really exist? And what is the most reliable way to know what I look like so I can know what makeup suits me the most?

No. 240131

>>240130
It’s the camera lenses.

No. 240134

This thread is kind of nice as a way to vent, at least I know I'm not alone.

Are you…
>ugly
Very, I've been called ugly since I was a kid. I have a square jaw, protruding chin, massive bulbous nose, non-existent lips and a huge forehead. I try not to care but it honestly pisses me off that I got fucked so hard in the genetic lottery since I know things would be different if I was prettier. Most of it is so bad that not even plastic surgery would be able to make a significant difference.
>fat
Nope, though I'm really unfit. I'm grateful that I'm not overweight but because being thin is my only positive trait I've gotten kind of obsessive about it.
>boring
Yeah, no hobbies or skills pretty much. I play video games sometimes but I'm really bad even though I've been playing for years.
>a virgin
Kissless and handholdless, plus lesbian so the dating pool is tiny and filled with girls 100x out of my league. It doesn't bother me that much though, I'm too autistic to handle being around people for that long.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
NEET and my parents have begun to resent me for it. I don't have any marketable skills for a job and I sperg out when I have to deal with people, and I'm too stupid for secondary education.
Do you have…
>no friends
Yeah, I haven't had friends since I was a little kid. Haven't talked to anyone outside of my family in like a year.
>no hobbies
All I do is stay in bed and play games.
>shitty grades?
Definitely, I can't focus on anything and I'm a natural dumbass so I struggled with school my whole life. I've sworn off doing anything academic ever again.

No. 240135

>>240117
I feel you anon.
I was never super popular, but at least had a nice circle of friends and i was skinny (even though it was because i starved myself).
Now i've gained 60lbs and feel horrible. I can't stop eating either, since food became my only friend and happiness.
I can't go out, i don't have friends, i'm too paranoid to go to class and i'll probably never get a bf. When walking through campus i'm nearly running, since i feel so stared at. I already wear super wide shirts and still feel self conscious even at home im front of my mom.

Next week the new semester will start and my only thoughts are
>what should i wear to cover my fat (especially since it's getting warmer) and
>how should i wear my hair to distract from my double chin and fat cheeks
ugh…

No. 240168

anyone realize that since they got fat, they no longer shiver?

No. 240243

>>240168
Well, fat in general serves as an extra layer that keeps you warmer, so of course you no longer feel cold as easily as before.

No. 240257

>>239358
eye color and double eyelashes don't matter when your face looks like what they put on cigarette packets as a warning

No. 240263

Wow.

Lolcow oficially became female-incels.net

No. 240266

When are you starting a thread reeing about how evul stacys are?

>oh wait that's the whole site's purpose

No. 240334

>>239712
Do you post on jeuxvideo.com ?

No. 240408

tbh most of the things you're complaining about here can be fixed with the tiniest bit of effort.

>fat

work out. if you don't have time, just stop eating.
>stupid
work harder, waste less time.
>ugly
take better care of your hair, skin, and nails. make sure you smell good. wear makeup if you have to. you can get really cheap makeup that still looks nice.

>no hobbies

>boring
>no friends
>virgin
these only make you a loser if you want hobbies/friends/sex but can't get any.

the only people in this thread should be literally deformed or severely disabled in some way. the rest of you just sound lazy. get your shit together and stop complaining about things you can change.

No. 240427

>>240408
>just wear makeup guys it’s that easy
Lmao

No. 240481

>>240263
Eh, non-incel girls obviously don't post here, only losers do. But this thread does make it seem as if literally everyone here was a kissless uggo lol.

No. 240584

>>240427
it really is, unless (like I acknowledged) you're literally deformed or severely disabled in some way. I know tons of ugly girls who clean up with a bit of makeup and get more male attention than girls who are naturally more beautiful.

No. 240601

>>240584
If your looks are able to be fixed with makeup/doing your hair then that means you're not ugly, just unkempt. Makeup can't change things like bone structure/thick areas of skin, even stuff like contouring can't do much at all unless the basics are already there. I mean I actually do have a literal facial deformity so I would guess that I'm uglier than any of the anons in this thread but it's still possible to be fucked by genetics without that, and while makeup might soften some of the worst parts it's not going to just magically make anyone pretty.

No. 240621

>>240408

>the only people in this thread should be literally deformed or severely disabled in some way. the rest of you just sound lazy. get your shit together and stop complaining about things you can change.


What? Isn't the whole idea of a loser someone who could have their shit together but they piss it away out of laziness? You almost sound like you think being disabled makes one a loser kek. Loser doesn't necessarily mean victim of circumstance at all. Often quite the opposite. I don't see many of the farmers on this thread making tons of excuses or crying victim, they're just admitting that they feel like losers and why. You seem uncomfortable with that.

>>240584
Even here you admit ugly but non-deformed girls exist, just that they can clean up ok. This just isn't enough for some people, but people are also capable of believing they're ugly but still liking themselves. It's OK. You don't need to convince all ugly people they can be pretty with a little covergirl.

No. 240623

>>240408
You sound like an incel
>hurrdurr girls have it so easy, just spend hours doing your hair and makeup, eat less than a 1000 kcal, then you should be fine
Some faces simply can't be saved and not eating if you're already feeling depressed to begin with..

People with disabilities or deformaties aren't losers, they just had very bad luck.
The rest of us here acknowledges that it's our own fault that our lives are shit - and this is what makes you a loser, not doing anything to get better, even if you could.
Obviously not in the way you said, looks are important but aren't everthing, most of us also have a shitty/boring personality and that's what makes us an outcast.

No. 240624

>>240408
Did you just say that people with disabilities are losers? What the fuck is wrong with you?

No. 240625

>ugly
no. a number of people have told me I should be a model. but I'm short so that's not gonna happen.
>fat
I'm thin.
>boring
maybe??
>a virgin
nope. well…I still have my anal virginity if that counts for anything.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I have a job and I am attending a University.
Do you have…
>no friends
I have basically no friends that is correct.
>no hobbies
I have many hobbies.
>shitty grades?
I get all A's.

No. 240626

>>240625
So you are not a loser, what are you doing here? The humble bragging thread is the other way.

No. 240627

>>240626
every second post on the whole of ot and many on snow for the last few days is by robot raiders and the rest of posts is people replying to them. Everyone please stop engaging with nonsensical, out-of-culture and off topic (robot) posts

No. 240628

>>240627
Out of any group why do robots need to shit on losers? Robot genocide best day of my life.

No. 240635

>ugly
no, people have told me I'm cute/beautiful. I do have good facial features luckily
>fat
not obese but i recently lost 30+ lbs and having a hard time getting back on the wagon because my depression is terrible right now
>boring
I don't think so. I used to be really socially anxious and worry that everyone was more interesting than me. Then I realized most people are boring as fuck and have nothing to offer. I'm actually not bad at conversation imo.
>a virgin
no
>unemployed or even a NEET?
in university at the moment
>no friends
I have like 1 good friend, other than that I have old friends/acquaintances who I don't bother to keep up with because they usually aren't worth it. wish i had a few more good friends though.
>no hobbies
I do have some hobbies. But depression gets in the way of me fully enjoying them like I used to. inb4 depression isn't real
>shitty grades?
they've gotten worse definitely, I have no motivation to study and it's hard enough to drag myself to class. overall A&B student

No. 240637

>>240623
>You sound like an incel
Actually the posters here sound like incels.
Incels are the ones who are always saying they are hopeless and there's nothing you can do about your looks.

No. 240649


>ugly

Im pretty sure I am. Once my face got fat my features became ugly. Before I guess I was average.
>fat
Unfortunately. I’m fat, short, and shaped like a fridge.
>boring
I even bore myself.
>a virgin
Nah, I’ve had some good relationships actually.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I’m unemployed but I’m school. I feel like dropping out and becoming a NEET often.
>no friends
I consider my sister and boyfriend my friends. Other than that I have 2 (1?) friends that I’ve had since elementary. I’m not sure where I stand with one of them, we had a falling out about a year ago but we’ve been talking again.
>no hobbies
No hobbies. I wish I had some but I never enjoy anything.
>shitty grades?
They’re actually pretty okay.

No. 240650

>>240637
agreed. this thread is proof girl incels exist.

No. 240662

>>240650
I wouldn't go so far as to say they are comparable to (date a 17yr because she's a virgin and pure / dicksize measuring) incels

No. 240667

>>240662
Nobody here is demanding anything like true incels would, most have pretty much given up already

No. 240680

>>240667
I see that as being realistic and less narc than incels

No. 240707

>>240662
they got the misogyny down though and all these loser so ronery threads recently are just cringe.

No. 240712

>>240584
Makeup is not some magical cure all. Once it comes off you still look like shit and face structure won’t change without surgery. Women who wear excessive amounts of makeup to hide an ugly face are constantly mocked and berated by men for “tricking” them.

No. 240733

>Losers thread
>sperging everywhere
>robots infiltrating
I mean, I guess it's not surprising.

No. 240772

The truth is that most people who complain about being ugly can become at least average with proper care.

Start eating better, go to the gym, learn skincare etc

No. 241013

>>240408
you're 100% a man

or at least someone who thinks she looks ok but is as ugly as the rest of everyone in this thread

No. 241014

>>240772
don't try to fix female incels, anon.

No. 241084

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I refuse to believe people in this thread believe fixing looks is gonna fix everything. I have done the best I could to try to look decent and I have gotten compliments and I still can't interact well with people. The same people will say incels don't look that bad but have horrible personalities and that's why they are incapable of having good relationships and mental health. It has to be either incels/robots themselves thinking being a pretty female fixes everything or vapid stacies with easy life thinking it's just so easy like duh apply makeup and it solves everything.

No. 241087

>>241084
it's cause women can be shit and look pretty. i know yall are just girl incels so no one wants you even though you are pretty, but you can atleast fuck male incels.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 241109

>>241087
Nice try incel but your kind gets nothing as deserved.

No. 241181

>>241084
this is so true.
Sometimes it is best to understand that you don't really enjoy beeing around other people and that you don't enjoy the things they like. Some people are just not likable and don't like others either.

No. 241187

>>241109
i'm not an incel, just because i'm pointing out the truth. this thread is full of pathetic women who base being a "loser" around men and get pissed when others point it out. if any of you spent atleast half the time working on yourselves inside or out, as you do pitying yourselves you'd be better.

female incels are the fucking worst, and i find it ironic that only a week or so ago people were claiming you can't exist because "men will fuck anything" but here we are.

No. 241226

>>240062
OT but what is the right way to do it? I don't mean like fingering or eating out because that's obvious, but is there a technique they're supposed to do during PIV sex? I'm a virgin but I'm worried when I get a bf I won't know what to tell him to make the sex good.

No. 241240

>>241226
don't overthink it. get to know what feels good for you via masturbation/toys and then when you're fucking, switch positions if it's uncomfortable/meh and keep positions and go harder and experiment with different speeds if it feels good. he can do the same thing if some positions are especially pleasurable or especially uncomfortable for him. s that's all it really takes imo, idk if other farmers have any other ideas.
people who are shit in bed don't care what feels good or bad for their partner and just insist on doing whatever is easiest for them the whole time without reciprocating, from dudes who go in dry and bash your cervix to starfish to pillow princesses, they all have that in common.

No. 241380

Effexor made me a zombie from august until three weeks ago when I went off of it. My grades/social life/everything fell apart and I'm just now cleaning my room and shit.

I hate myself so much. I don't even know what to do about one of my classes - I missed so much. I guess I will try and ask for an incomplete but it's a math class so that seems unlikely.

Why did I have to take that stupid drug jesus christ

No. 241803

>>238208
Haha yup. I was a cute little blonde toddler. As an older child I was dirty blonde with a face full of freckles, tan skin and a healthy body weight. I started puberty when I was around 10 and my appearance has spiraled downward ever since.

Now I'm literally everything OP has described. Ugly, fat, a NEET etc. I'm in my early twenties and I've only held hands with a boy once (it was a platonic gesture) and a guy kissed my cheek once while greeting me (he was instructed to do it and I almost freaked out after it happened).

It's been about six years since my life went to shit but I'm kind of resigned to the fact now. I'll probably kill myself when both my parents die so I won't end up on the street. Oh well.

No. 241814

This thread explains so much LEL

No. 241824

>>238077
I pretty much fit every catergory..

Are you…

>ugly

Yes, it's been hinted at a few times that I look like a guy; Some can't tell whether or not I'm a female or male.
Even a guy told me I look like a dude. My friends tried to be nice about it but I got the hint.

>fat

I've been told several times that I'm "skinny", Personally I don't see it. Wish I were skinnier.
Currently 5'2 and a half, 120lbs.

>boring

Yes, I have no hobbies outside of browsing the internet and I can't hold a conversations for more than 15 seconds in real life
because I really don't have anything to talk about. That and I'm pretty closed off and recluse.
(people figure out quickly that I'm boring)

>a virgin

Yeah..never been in relationships, never been kissed or hugged. Heck I never had any guy friends or had a conversation with one
(with the exception of talking to a few online) Most men in real life will either insult or give me a disgusted look when they see me, one got angry when I accidentally made eye contact them.

>unemployed or even a NEET?

Haven't left my house in 6 months, I'll let you figure that one out. haha. As you can probably tell I'm a deeply insecure.
So faulty and defective that I don't have the will to leave the house.

Do you have…


>no friends

I used to before they got bored of me and started hanging out with other people.
I ended up being a loner during senior year and freshman year of college.

>no hobbies

Like I mentioned before I don't have hobbies.

>shitty grades?

Mediocre would be a better fit. I probably would've gotten better grades if I actually had
the motivation to study or do anything.

No. 247147

Today was one of the worst days i've had since a long time.

I'm currently doing an internship at a school and today was my turn to hold a class. In the evening i also have a class at uni and had to hold a presentation today as well.
I initially thought putting 2 things that'll make me anxious on the same day, so that it'll only ruin 1 instad of 2 days.
I've known about this since a week and have also already been nervous all these days. I only slept lke 4 hours and when i woke up today my shirt was drenched in sweat. I have IBS, so a huge part of my anxiousness also stems from "will i have to go to the toilet and if i need to will i be able to???"
Right before the lessons my nervousness actually went down so i thought i can do it but then the principal decided to give the other students and i a speech about the school and a workshop (which we later found out is held by him and costs 300 bucks). He ended up talking for over an hour, so i have to hold the class next week, meaning i have to be anxious for 7 days more…
I should have told him that i don't have time because i planed everything out already etc, but i thought he'll only talk for 5-10 minutes which would have been fine - and, i was also too shy to say something. I had to concentrate so much to not just break into tears because i was so frustrated, on the one hand because of the principal and on the other because of myself, why can't i just talk?! My inabilty to just open my fucking mouth causes me so much misery.

In the evening when i had to hold the other presentation i was shaking so much, it's so embarrassing. Other people tell me that they can't tell that i'm nervous, i guess because of my resting bitch face and because i never really stutter much, but my hands are barely able to hold my notes and my legs feels like it just gives out any time… And all that even though it was just a talk of 5 minutes, simply summerizing the 2 chapters we had to do for homework…

I really don't know what to do, there's barely any single day i'm not stressed or worried because of some irrelevant shit. I never really failed anyhing, so my fears are all baseless, but nevertheless i can't stop feeling like shit…

No. 247171

>>241803

>16

>has the fastest metabolism
>has her whole life ahead of her
>thinks never having had a boyfriend yet cements that she's unloveable
>thinks everything is over for her because of her weight
>thinks she's ugly

honey, that's called being adolescent.

No. 247199

>>241814
But the non-loser population of the boards aren't going to post in here are they? Ya dingus

No. 247230

>>238077
>ugly
I think I look like a female moot, which sucks because moot is a qt boy but switching that to a chick doesn't do too well.
>fat
Overweight yes
>boring
I'm shy and not good in most situations but I don't think I'm boring with the right people
>a virgin
nope I am still not too fat or ugly to not have a boyfriend
>Unemployed/NEET
I'm unemployed despite easily being able to get a job
>no friends
I willingly stopped talking to my two friends about 3 years ago
>no hobbies
I like to foster animals but due to circumstances I can't do that at the moment.
>shitty grades
Yeah, even when I try. I'm just a brainlet

No. 247428

File: 1525401329087.png (65.8 KB, 254x243, Selection_001.png)

Are you…
>ugly
probably. the only guys that've shown an interest in me are very very autistic types (sweaty fat anime geeklings, weird old men, literal retards, etc).

>fat

skinny fat. with clothes on i look relatively normal but when they're off? i have a gut. also my breasts are saggy.

>boring

definitely.

>a virgin

oh of course

>unemployed or even a NEET?

nah, i'm currently a student.

Do you have…

>no friends

yes and i've given up on making friends actually. too dull to get them.

>no hobbies

i used to like to draw, read actual books, write, go on late night wikipedia dives. now i just shitpost on various chans and fap. the occasional manga may grab my attention

gonna try and set some sort of schedule for myself this summer to rectify this but, i'm probably gonna squander my time lmao

>shitty grades?

no, actually. i've got straight a's right now,
(then again i'm at a community college.)

No. 247434

Aaah. Feeling a little down in thr dumps. My curvy, extremely pretty friend got hounded at the beach by random guys.Just kinda hurts your self esteem.
>ugly
told I had a horse face by a fucker i punched shortly after that-friends have made'sly'comments too
>fat
skinnyfat
>boring
hell yeah. had a boring childhood and a boring teen life. convo just trails of easily.
>a virgin
yeah. got kinda close but dude fell head over heels for my pretty friend. at least i knew what a dick he was.
>unemployed
part timer- in college
>no friends
have a few close ones, but its hard for me to make them since after seeing me, i get ignored.
>no hobbies
i draw a bit… but otherwise no.
>shitty grades
i'm average.

No. 247464

>ugly
Yes, I really wish if I can get surgeries ,as for skin I can't control it thanks to my stress.
>fat
Yes and I'm sick about it I tried a diet for two years only lost 5 kg no huge difference so I got tired of it.
>boring
Absolutely, mostly because I just don't like many things other people like for example dancing + music ,fashion ,chatting and many things cause people to get bored of me.
>a virgin
Yes, but I honestly don't care about it.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
studying currently
>no friends
Yes, only inside college they treat me like their younger sister I'm not fun to them but at least they care about me
>no hobbies
If Video games is a hobby then yes if not then no.
>shitty grades?
not really

No. 247466

>>247464
>no friends
No*

No. 247472

>ugly
Similar facial proportions to Mystery, it was uncanny when I finally looked into her thread. I like my face because I like most faces, but I know others do not (lc is basically proof kek). Overall probably a 4/10.
>fat
Yes, but a good WHR and some muscle because lifting.
>boring
Very. I don't drink/party/really do anything adventurous. I can't communicate well irl so I come across as even more boring than I actually am (in regards to knowledge and interests).
>a virgin
khhv all the way. Never been catcalled or hit on despite seeing girls who are objectively less attractive have it happen to them. I think guys sense I'm an asshole.
>NEET?
Shitty fast food job, going to school soon.
>no friends
One.
>no hobbies
I draw shitty cartoons.
>shitty grades?
Grades slipped in HS bc depression. Going to work harder in uni.

I'm not a huge loser (figuratively huge that is hehe) but am on the unattractive side and have limited social skills. I often unintentionally insult people and embarrass myself.

No. 247473

>ugly
i'd be okay-looking if i lost weight.

>fat

eeyup

>boring

oh yeah. when i'm not putting up the illusion of being quirky and fun i'm actually just a bump on a fucking log.

>a virgin

kinda? i've never gone beyond heavy petting.

>unemployed or even a NEET?

neet lol

>no friends

yeah but it's because i'm in this weird transitional period where all my old friends are too childish and all my new friends are too "settled down". by new friends i mean i have like 5 or 6 people i occasionally talk to.

>no hobbies

i draw but i'm not good at it at all lol

>shitty grades?

yeah i'm dumb as shit. i'm a highschool dropout

life isn't that bad, really, but i'm so apathetic and bored with everything that i'm not motivated enough for it to be better.

No. 247477

Anyone suicidal here? I was the definition of a loser for most of my life. I started therapy and medication, graduated college, moved from my shit 3rd world country to a nice European country, learned how to dress and do makeup

But I still feel empty and sad. Every morning I wake up wishing I had offed myself the night before. I don't feel like a person, I feel like this defective mutant who wishes deeply to be a Real Human Being but just isn't and will never be.

I can't form relationships, I'm boring as fuck, I'm insipid and disgusting. I think I'm ready to give up for real. 4 years of therapy and medication and doing everything I could to be Happy™ and I just can't. I'm defective. I'm giving myself until August and if I still want to do it by then, I'm just gonna catch the bus.

No. 247478

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No. 247480

>>247477
Long shot, but where were you from and which country did you migrate to?

Is it the lack of friends, companionship or a sense of belonging that is eating you out?

No. 247486

>>247480
I'm in Germany right now. I can make "friends" and socialize and meet new people but it never lasts long or develops into a deep friendship because people soon realize how boring I am.

My therapist says that I value myself based on how other people value me (100% true) and that the hole in me will only be filled by me learning to love myself. But I don't know how. I don't know what it means to love oneself, I don't see anything lovable in me. I spent a really long time actively hating myself and most of my internal monologue is me calling myself a disgusting waste of space. I know this is bad but I don't know how to stop. I don't know what to replace that with or even how to replace it.

I'm my worst enemy but I can't get away from myself in order to heal. I really don't see another solution, for as long as I live I will hate myself.

No. 247487

>>247480
Sorry, I'm from Brasil

No. 247499

>>247487
Everyone I've met from Brazil has been very friendly and nice. I recommend a different country than Germany, Germans are famous for being cold and unfriendly. Ireland or France (stay in the capital, Dublin, Paris) might be a better bet. I haven't travelled much but maybe other Anons can recommend other countries.

No. 247500

>>247499
btw I'm VERY interesting and good company (which everyone even tells me) but have trouble with long term friendships (I don't like the pressure of having to pay for holidays and nights out/splitting bills stresses me/money related things. And I am usually a listener which means getting everyone's problems dumped on me. Which I enjoy kinda but it takes an emotional toll). It takes two to tango, don't put blame on yourself for being "boring". If someone is genuine they will enjoy your company even if it is not a rollercoaster of fun and excitement.

No. 247513

>>247499

I appreciate the concern and the suggestions, but I had these problems before I came to Germany. I don't think it's a location thing. I think I have a really toxic relationship with myself and I've been trying to change that, but it's been so hard I'm losing hope of ever achieving that

No. 248488

File: 1525829595014.jpg (30.53 KB, 500x500, 86001.jpg)

I am the ultimate ultra NEET
>23 no job
>didn't graduate high school
>no driver's license
>no friends
>entire family is redneck trailer trash

but I'm turning it around:

>applied at grocery store within walking distance

>focusing on getting driver's license
>studying for GED
>going to build up good credit score with responsible purchases
>going to enlist in US Military and get a college degree

No. 633439

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>ugly
Yes, mouth breather face and ugly skin (acne, pih, keatosis pilaris, strawberry legs)

>fat

Since I hit puberty and only growing bc use food as comfort

>boring

Can't socialize for shit, probably autistic

>a virgin

Lost it in a fling in college to a desperate guy

>unemployed or even a NEET?

NEET for 3 years since dropping out of school. I'm not happy but compared to before it's much less stressful. I know I'll eventually have to go back to school, but right now I want to be on break from life. The only productive thing I'm doing is practicing for drivers license.

Do you have…
>no friends
Drifted apart for the one friend I had, too embarrassed about my situation to reconnect.

>no hobbies

Gardening, painting, reading.

>shitty grades?

I had high grades in highschool to almost failing grades in college. Concentrating in classes was impossible and I hated living around stranger people.

No. 633446

>>248488
that's great, anon! I hope it all goes well for you

No. 633449

File: 1600474222903.png (174.71 KB, 800x826, Sunako_Nakahara_Chibi.png)

Are you…

>ugly

Not necessarily but I am fat which makes me ugly. I have a masc face too, bushy eyebrows and pimple infused chin with peaches fuzz upper lip and curly haired chin… but I feel with makeup I am beautiful.

>fat

Yes, 300 lbs

>boring

Absolutely. I never do anything fun. I never leave my house unless it's to see a movie or to eat

>a virgin

Nope. Got a boyfriend.

>unemployed or even a NEET?

No

Do you have…

>no friends

Yes because I was a BPDfag for a while now I realize I'm probably just a retarded autist. Either way, I used to have one friend a year and then they'd eventually realize I'm fucking awkward and leave. Now I only have 1: my boyfriend who i assume deals with me because I "fit his needs"


>no hobbies

Every time I start one I fail within a week or two.

>shitty grades?

Never. I was such a loser that I basically only did homework and the pressure from my parents forced me to do good.


Obsessed with gore, needing to be alone, autistic with music, never hanging out with people even if they invite me to hang out, once I get a new friend they slowly realize I don't do anything

No. 633452

File: 1600474497255.png (95.23 KB, 275x272, 1593636638454.png)

>ugly
I've never been called ugly but I only get called pretty in selfies (obviously so staged though) or from older women and women of color

>fat

Yeah I'm like 5'6 and 180 lbs / 80kg which sucks, I wanna lose weight again :/

>boring

I'm interesting but I'm boring to talk to bc I'm so reserved. I'm scared to make jokes to people because most of my jokes aren't normie-friendly

>a virgin

Nope

>unemployed or even a NEET?

2 part time jobs

Do you have…
>no friends
Kek like one. I pretty much only have my boyfriend and one friend back home who I message quite often.

>no hobbies

I only game and do yoga, other hobbies are hard for me to stick to (anime, painting, working out)

No. 633455

>ugly by societal standards yes
>fat yes
>boring
i don't know the definition but all i can talk about is fiction
>a virgin yeah
>unemployed or even a NEET? yes
Do you have…
>no friends yes
>no hobbies i draw
>shitty grades? yes
i have to get my shit together but first i want to move out from this shitty location and meet new people

No. 633459

File: 1600475402403.gif (773.67 KB, 540x304, 1597059924726.gif)

>going to be 26 in a month
>dropped out of college twice and still has no degree
>no driver's license
>stuck in retail
>getting kicked off of mom's health insurance in a couple months

I'm working on the driver's license since that's the key to getting better jobs/possibly trying community college but I feel so pathetic.

No. 633564

File: 1600484079060.jpeg (71.21 KB, 640x640, 2939033201.jpeg)

Are you…
>ugly
Yes, and no. I was never the prettiest person in the room but not the worst one either. I just didn't know how to style my hair/makeup. I would say my body is nice. A guy in highschool told me one time "When are you going to get pretty?" but he was an uggo too so idc. I feel better about myself now that I'm not going for that every girl Stacy look.

>fat

Again, yes and no. I'm not huge but I'm chubbier than I used to be. Skinnyfat would prob describe me best. Maybe considered fat by ana skellies.

>boring

Probably. I basically go to work, sit in bed all day browsing the web if I'm not working, play games and sleep. I have no partying stamina and hate crowds and noise so I never go to clubs or bars.

>a virgin

Yes, and never dated anyone seriously. The people that have 'dated' me were very one-sided crushes and I didn't know how to turn them down. I'm in no hurry to go out and lose it just to say I did.

>unemployed or even a NEET?

Nope, I have a job that at least gets me out of the house. I still live with parents tho and saving to move out of this town or country.

>no friends

Yes, this one bothers me more than anything else here. I had a small group of friends in high school but after I graduated I gradually drifted apart from them and haven't had much luck making new friends as an adult. I really felt it this year when I turned 22 and no one except family members texted me happy birthday.
>tfw it's 2020 and you say this is the year I'm going to go out more and be more social

>no hobbies

I make art but I'm too afraid to post it anywhere.

>shitty grades?

My grades were average at best. I don't care about grades at all I just needed to pass my classes.

I need a care-package plan for how to get out of being a loser. For the people who met people outside of work/bars, where did you met them? Are there any apps like dating apps for making friends that you've had any luck with?

No. 633578

>ugly
got acne
pale as a ghost
>fat
no, i look anorexic
>a virgin
no, moids pump & dump me
>unemployed/NEET
NEET
>no friends
just chatting with people on the internet
>no hobbies
i'm bad at my hobbies
>shitty grades
i wish i would've cared more about my grades

No. 633595

File: 1600486545242.jpg (196.89 KB, 1156x1110, 3563.jpg)

>deformed face, skinny fat
>no life skills, socially retarded, no accomplishments
>can't drive
>never been employed
>few friendships/relationships, none of them have lasted
>stuck in community college
>severe mental issues, degrading brain, paranoia induced agoraphobia
>poor physical health

life is passing me by but i'm too much of a coward to off myself, i just want to scream

No. 633605

Are you…
>ugly
I'm not photogenic and most anons here would call me ugly but I like my reflection
>fat
I gained a couple of pounds during quarantine and most anons would call me skinnyfat
>boring
Maybe? I don't think I live up to most anon's idea of interesting, though I'm not sure who does
>a virgin
Technically b/c I'm in my mid 20s and never had PIV sex. I give out way too many blowjobs though.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I've been basically NEETing for the past half year but I finally found a job that I'm starting next week. It's not prestigious and pays less than minimum wage though all of my real life friends/ acquaintances have been gracioius enough to congratulate me on it.
Do you have…
>no friends
Kind of? I've been pretty isolated for the last couple of months and lost contact with a lot of people. Also my bff has been distancing themselves from me so I feel sad. Kind of worried about my ability to maintain a social network in the future. I definitely felt better about my social situation last summer. Also it's stressful b/c I always reach out to people more than the other way around.
>no hobbies
I dabble in things here and there but I waste too much time on stuff like here
>shitty grades?
It's a mixed bag. I have less than a 3.0 (so that's like a 3:1 in the UK?) but I've also been on the Dean's List. I was doing pretty well for five semesters until COVID hit and I failed my classes. kek

idk? I've defintely felt very losery these last couple of months. Can't wait to move out next week and start something new.

No. 633622

File: 1600491936619.jpg (173.2 KB, 500x500, 1581472541671.jpg)

>my face has been compared to men and to horses
>just turned 27 this week
>only my mom wished me happy birthday
>no friends
>have never been in a relationship >am only not a virgin because I accepted an offer of a FWB relationship hoping it would become a real one (spoilers: it didn't and he ended the FWB arrangement after two weeks because I was bad in bed)
>only hobby is drawing and I'm usually too lazy to do it
Finally found the perfect thread for me

No. 633636

I'm
>Tired of living

But for real. I cannot go on instagram anymore. Everything triggers me. The idea of people of having friends and a reason to get dressed and shower in the morning is too much for me kek, especially now that I have to work from home because of the pandemic. I can't see other people happy because I feel like my time is never going to come, and that they've always had their time and always will.

No. 633683

File: 1600502238353.png (794.43 KB, 1280x720, wow she is literally me.png)

Are you…
>ugly
I'm below average
>fat
medium but with fat tits, broad shoulders and no ass. I'm the letter P
>boring
I've been told those who get bored easily are boring, so I by that case, yes.
>a virgin
i have a child.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
no
Do you have…
>no friends
yes. I still don't know why my only friend stopped talking to me fter i told her I was pregnant, even before she had grown distant
>no hobbies
no
>shitty grades?
yes, but working on it
.
I literally dated anyone who asked in high school, and it gave me a bad reputation. I Also live in a small town so everyone just talked about how slutty i was before I even lost my Virginity. I was depressed and admittedly a whore. I had no friends so scrotes wanting to fuck me was the only interaction I got freshman-sophomore year. but then i met my friend, it was nice having her around. People still talked shit but i cared less now that i had her. then she got a boyfriend and dumped me for him. I didn't graduate, I worked retail and moved out of the house at 17, I met my current bf who is the father of my child, we dated for 3 years before i squeezed a kid out. WE still live in this small town. He gets teased for dating me cause I was such a hoe. We're moving out of this shit town before my kid starts school and uh I am rying to finish high school late, I'm close to graduating. I'd like to think of myself as a reformed loser. But people still talk shit and post passive aggressive stuff about people who had kids after school, etc. I i wish I could make friends when we move to a new city.

No. 633715

>>633595
>>633605
>>633622
>>633636
Hey anons the recovering NEET thread might be of some help to you

>>>/ot/472051
>>>/ot/472051
>>>/ot/472051

No. 633891

File: 1600526842429.gif (168.11 KB, 350x312, 1599542511001.gif)

Are you…
>ugly
I think so but I think that's primarily because I'm overweight.
>fat
Yes. I am also built like a door.
>boring
I don't know, depends on the person who's asking.
>a virgin
Yes but I have a boyfriend as of a month ago wink wonk.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
No
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes, I really wanted to make friends this year but covid-19 ruined it. I'm hoping to lose at least 50 lbs before I go back in the spring so I can make a good first impression.
>no hobbies
I have plenty of hobbies, it's getting out of bed to do them is where I run into trouble.
>shitty grades?
Mediocre at best. I'm striving for straight As, as of this semester.

I'm in limbo right now honestly. I like the slow pace of my life, in that way I am a content loser. I just want to coast and build myself to be a person that I enjoy.

I am fortunately in a spot where neither my family or job were hard hit by covid and so I want to take advantage of the time that I have to really improve both physically and mentally.

No. 633989

>ugly
not rly
>fat
not skinny, not fat… totally average :/
>boring
YES absolutely
>a virgin
no
>unemployed or even a NEET?
both-ish
Do you have…
>no friends
no irl friends bc quarantine
>no hobbies
i have hobbies but they do not bring me any joy
>shitty grades?
i'm an adult lol wtf

No. 633994

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Are you…
>ugly
genuinely no fucking idea, pretty sure i have some form of eating disorder or body dysmorphia so i cant give an unbiased answer. i’m a skinny/athletic feminine white girl so i probably am conventionally attractive but i don’t wear any makeup besides mascara and am far from having instagram/kardashian face.
>fat
lol nope, was underweight for years
>boring
probably, i find it near impossible to get invested in things
>a virgin
never even kissed
>unemployed or even a NEET?
i was a neet for years. was going to get a job and go to college but then corona took that away.
Do you have…
>no friends
i have a few but they hardly know me cause i’m scared of opening up
>no hobbies
i have hobbies but it’s not like i’m good at them kek
>shitty grades?
i’m out of school but got pretty decent grades in HS despite being depressed and sleep deprived

No. 634015

>>238077
Are you…
>ugly
with no makeup, i believe i am also im very unphotogenic so 11/10 would say yes
>fat
yeah, been gaining weight really fast
>boring
m not sure, i tend to over hyperfocus and fixated on things for a sec and then find it very difficult to get invested/committed in things back. i guess u could say im like a hollow shell
>a virgin
physical affection makes me uncomfortable
>unemployed or even a NEET?
neet
Do you have…
>no friends
lost a best friend recently….AND lost a pet best friend too… I do have friends but they're all far away too busy with their own lives
>no hobbies
i have mental illness, kinda hard to keep hobbies when u feel like kys every 2 second no?
>shitty grades?
was a pretty good student….teachers pet even

No. 634103

File: 1600543835473.jpg (93.38 KB, 313x258, 1574457472056.jpg)

Finally found a thread I can relate to.

Are you…
>ugly
I think I'm ok, although I look ugly in most photos. If I could change, I wouldn't. I feel like being not that attractive builds character.
>fat
Yes, ever since I started taking meds.
>boring
Yes.
>a virgin
Yeah, but I don't care that much about it.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Pathetic 26 year old NEET who can't even drive.
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes.
>no hobbies
I have hobbies (writing, drawing, reading, music, animu), but I can't stay interested in them. I'm also tired all of the time.
>shitty grades?
Did ok in high school. Never went to college, because high school sucked so bad. Didn't have many friends, and even ate lunch in the bathroom because nobody wanted me to sit with them.

I feel like I'm getting dumber, so even if I went to college I would probably get shit grades.

No. 634110

Why did this thread turn into some weird ass type shit? Shut the hell up you’re not even losers REEEEE

No. 634174

>ugly
kind of, but i could be aight with clear skin and some makeup
>fat
nah. im skinny enough to be smaller than average, but not small enough to be some thinspo bitch
>boring
probably. i used to be a lot more interesting, but i upsell myself by pretending im into niche shit, even though i stopped being into niche shit ages ago
>a virgin
no.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
i'm in school and not fucked with employment until im physically fit enough to stand up for 8+ hours. maybe get my degree and full licence first
>no friends
I have like 2 good friends, one of which is becoming more and more distant, the other has autism, the rest are school friends who don't really count but we interact occasionally, and my partner who I GUESS is my friend
>no hobbies
i go to the gym, is that a hobby? is writing a hobby? probably not. I have no interesting hobbies, im fucking lazy
>shitty grades?
i don't care much for grades. C's get degrees and I still manage regular b's and sometimes a's in my good subjects. but I really don't think people should care as much as they do

No. 634295

>>634110
Being a loser is subjective, shut the fuck up

No. 634310

>>634110
Oh no, they definitely are.

No. 634527

>not ugly or fat but I have low IQ, no friends, hobbies, or network
>negative sum existence - I consume far more than my returns
>most mentally weak and pathetic person ever
>never studied in school or listened in class because i'm a scatterbrained bitch who cant focus
>struggles to get out of bed
>virgin because socialization is too much of a grind. wish it were more like npc dialogue so i could skip it
>cannot maintain any routine/schedules whatsoever
>cries alone for no apparent reason
>highly unreliable and almost guaranteed to miss all appointments made
>hasn't had a haircut in years
>typically cheats in video games because learning mechanics takes too much effort and resolve
>actually physically attractive and probably the one reason why I haven't ended it all and perhaps is the only positive and marketable thing about me, yet hasn't done shit about it

No. 634529

>>634527
Sounds a lot like me. What is considered low IQ though? I think the environment you take the test in affects it quite a lot, I got a higher score when I was less depressed and paranoid that people will judge me

No. 634532

>>634529
it's just a way of expressing how dumb and useless i figure myself to be. most of the time i can barely focus and i never make anything of the opportunities or privileges given to me. i have never taken an iq test. too many questions, too much thinking and i'd probably zone out on the first question. also i'm a literal mouth breather, well, used to be 24/7 due to shitty allergies so my face should be absolutely deformed but isn't for some reason. i dont really care about what others think of me since it takes too much energy to think about it but i just feel perpetually imprisoned and aimless.

No. 634542

Is there something like a "happy loser"? Besides mental health issues I feel like I've reached the point where I'm too delusional to feel bad about it anymore, despite getting a bingo on most of the things mentioned itt.

No. 635568

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Are you
>ugly
Yes I could be a lot prettier
>fat
I am skinnyfat I need to tone up before I get cottage cheese thighs
>boring
yeah all I do is stay inside because I have nothing to do and I’m depressed
> a virgin
No
> unemployed
Yes I need to get a job eventually but my crippling anxiety prevents me from even thinking about it
>no friends
Only one. I used to have 2 I guess bc I considered my BF a friend but he broke up with me
> no hobbies
Does crying and napping count?
> bad grades
probably failing on online courses in college. I failed many classes before might even get booted from taking more classes

No. 635580

>>634542
How about, instead of calling yourself delusional, you just be happy? No one genuinely gives a shit about how ugly you are and how much you suck.

No. 635648

I don't really see how ugly, fat, and virginity qualify women as losers.

Lolcow is proof positive that a woman can be conventionally attractive and bed men no trouble and yet still be a fucking disaster.

No. 635671

>>635648
they're just easy insults nothing more.

No. 635690

>>635648
because men absolutely refuse to believe a conventionally attractive woman are losers no matter what. that is why a lot of fucked up conventionally attractive women prefer male friends since men will ignore them being losers because they think as long as a woman has sex and looks good she cannot be a failure or corny in life.

No. 635803

File: 1600743874429.jpg (102.26 KB, 726x480, 1593397133919.jpg)

Are you…
>ugly
I think so. People online usually say I'm plain.
>fat
Never been fat in my life thankfully. I'm lucky to have a fast metabolism.
>boring
Horribly boring personality but only because it's either act boring or risk being considered a freak weirdo. Boring is preferable imo. People don't seem to like the real me.
>a virgin
Yes
>unemployed or even a NEET?
In school. But basically a neet since it's online only.
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes. I failed making friends.
>no hobbies
I have hobbies but they are solitary ones.
>shitty grades?
Bs usually.

No. 636055

File: 1600783076468.jpg (367.25 KB, 2992x2328, sad32.jpg)

Oh boy! A thread for losers! Don't mind if I join in.

Are you…

>ugly


Definitely super ugoo when I was a kid. No one ever gives me any nice compliments about my looks, even by my own parents or relatives. It's sad because my other siblings constantly gets called cute or pretty. I inherited all the ugly DNA. In highschool I was called "pizza face" by guys because of my severe acne. Now I look slightly less ugly because I tried to at least dress well and follow a skincare regime. But I still hate my ugly super asymmetrical and acne scarred moon face, with unsightly jowls, huge fivehead, thin hair, round flat nose and chubby cheeks. I look like Droopy the Dog cartoon.

>fat


Been slowly gaining more weight as I got older. I was told I have high cholesterol level by my doctor last month and if I don't control my eating habits, I may go on medication.

>boring


I guess? To normal people I am super boring because I don't reveal my true self to anyone. I have a morbid and gloomy sense of humour which a majority of people don't like.

>a virgin


Yes. I don't mind. Not planning of ever getting married tbh. I've been bullied and used by a majority of people my whole life. It's best to just live and die alone.

>unemployed or even a NEET?


I do work. But I'm slowly getting demotivated and burnt out by it.

Do you have…

>no friends


I do have one or two friends but we're not that close at all. We only hang out once every 4 months or so.

>no hobbies


I do have a few hobbies. Mostly weeby and artsy-fartsy ones. Honestly, I forced myself to have a few hobbies because I think I'll go mad without em' because I seldom go out during the weekends. I just go out for work, food or running errands.

>shitty grades?


I was brought up by tiger asian parents. I was forced to study hard to get good grades or else I'll bring shame to the family. So yea, my grades were pretty decent. However, I always end up being used by other students during group projects which I hated so much. It's funny though, I worked so hard to get good grades but I still end up in a sucky job, still being used by sucky people. I'm the forever ugly nerd. Someone please save me from myself. Haha.

No. 636078

Are you…
>ugly
Yeah. I have a very round face and all my features are too small for it. I'm 50% cheek and 50% forehead.
>fat
Chubby pre-quarantine & legitimately fat now.
>boring
Not boring but weird. I've always been either the weird kid or the class clown, because when you're the latter people tend not to sneer at you as much.
This has carried me into adult life, and I get weird looks from check out people when I desperately try to make them laugh in the grocery store. It's like I'm physically unable to shut the fuck up.
>a virgin
Yes, but by choice. I've been on the verge of boning a few times but always denied it at the last second, because I have a lot of fears and hang ups.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Yes to both. College drop out.

Do you have…
>no friends
I have friends but I intentionally cut them off a lot of the time, or I'm uncomfortable because they see me as a friend but I see them as an acquaintance. I silently resent them a lot of the time and cut them off before I lash out.
>no hobbies
I have hobbies, but they're old people stuff like bird watching, so I don't talk to people about them often.
>shitty grades?
I'm a drop out, so take a wild guess.

No. 636080

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>ugly
No
>fat
No
>boring
Perhaps
>a virgin
No
>unemployed or even a NEET?
No

Do you have…
>no friends
Yes
>no hobbies
No
>shitty grades?
I am not a student


Eat my ass

No. 636093

File: 1600785997164.jpg (48.54 KB, 517x497, pinkpeen.jpg)

Are you…
>ugly
I would say overall average, I have a habit of giving myself ugly short haircuts though so that takes a few points off each time I do it
>fat
No, not rake thin but no weight struggles either
>boring
Definitely, I play pokemon go every day and that gets me out of the house more than anything else does
>a virgin
No. Very high body count from back when I was young and much wilder
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Work from home, ex neet
Do you have…
>no friends
Absolutely none
>no hobbies
Pokemon go lol, and watching youtube?
>shitty grades?
Didn't finish school

No. 636144

I made this thread, apparently already 2.5 years ago and my life hasn't gotten better at all, I really am such a loser.



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