/ot/ - off-topic

I will start:
>telling you not to be late for a mutual meeting with another person, because they don't want to get on that person's bad side, but for some reason they are always late when they meet up with you
I guess she wanted to get on my bad side, huh?

In hindsight I really shouldn't have dated someone from 4chan.

Was against banning porn

An easy one to spot is when you have to walk on eggshells around someone continuously. If somebody is upset or angry over seemingly small things very often, imagine yourself decades down the line after the same repeated behavior. You'll wear yourself down in no time and you will only associate that person with the negative feelings you have when you're with them.

this thread should be on /g/ instead

Says things like
>I don't want you to think X about me
>I don't want you to think I'm like X or Y
The key here is that they are want to control your perception of them and want to remove your autonomy by preventing you from coming to your own conclusion about them based on the way they behave.

Making excuses for something nice they wanted to do for you, but didn't end up doing:
>I wanted to get/do something for you, but…
There's literally no point for anyone to say that unless they want to manipulate you into thinking that they are so thoughtful or generous without doing anything. If someone doesn't get you a gift or didn't do something you didn't ask them to and declares "they wanted to" but the stars just didn't align, that's just trying to paint a fake image of themselves without doing anything. A normal person who wanted to get you flowers but failed, wouldn't mention it and just get them for you the next time you meet.

People who tell you they don't like XYZ but kiss their ass when they talk to them. Or they say they hate their friends but they still hang out with them anyway. They will lie about you to other people or trick you into thinking you are special.
Also maybe this is a bit out there but people who find loopholes to things like agreements or rules and abuse them. If you tell them not to do XYZ and it's important to you they're gonna try their damnest to skirt around that.

>>2513877
Made me kek sorry

Can’t maintain friendships with other people. You’ll eventually find out why

Posts obsessively on Instagram. There's someone I know who does it literally every fucking day and I just can't help but wonder what she expects to get out of it. Who actually wants to see mundane pictures of what someone ate for lunch, or those dumbass nose-forehead pictures zoomers love posting for whatever reason.

"Sorry it took me three weeks to respond to you anon, I'm just sooo overwhelmed ugh I suck at communication!!" as they have the mental capacity and time to live post their every thought on social media & engage with every one who comments.

>>2514122
This and then claimed to struggle with ADHD or autism or any trendy mental illness

Moved to >>>/g/546841.