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No. 2513893
A thread for venting about difficult, weird, or stupid stuff going on in your life.
Previous vent thread:
>>>/ot/2502439Follow all the /ot/ board rules & do not reply to bait.
Please, do not come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you do not have anything nice to say, don't say it at all. No. 2513946
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I always had naturally golden blonde hair. Some time ago I noticed the hair on my temples grows lighter than usual but I just thought it's a lighter shade of blonde. But now that I started to pay more attention to it and looking at it separately, I see it's grey. I'm going fucking grey at 29
No. 2514097
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I tried to go on pornhub (not to jerk off I just wanted to vintage gay porn clips) and they have some kind of a video cope message about how "while safety is important, requiring an ID to access adult content puts children at risk" and then doesn't follow up with any justification for that statement so… how tf does that work? Honestly this is based though I am glad they're finally putting in some measures to protect kids from porn. The fact there was nothing before is insane. In irl places you can't sell a lot of items without an ID because obviously kids shouldn't have it, you shouldn't be peddling porn online with absolutely no restrictions. Pornhub can cope and seethe cause I'm willing to bet a large portion of their users are 12-14 year olds and their business model relies on them getting addicted, which studies prove time and time again early porn exposure leads to addiction. Fuck them i hope more states follow
No. 2514253
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>involuntary hikki and living with parents
>doing pretty ok, decently popular artist on tumblr (yes i know) and have my own decently popular website
>2 months later cut off friends because "well i don't like talking to this person anyway" tfw that's just because i have bad social anxiety
>still fine for a while
>depression comes back
>nevermind delete tumblr account because paranoid shizo and "muh art sux" without any nonsuperficial positive reinforcement
>cut off everyone i know because paranoid schizo
>delete all social media and completely dfe
>quit hobbies because depression
>start getting into anti-corpo stuff (currently at the stage where i'm learning to read maps)
>completely quit the games i loved because most of them are gacha and gacha = gambling = corpo = bad
>care more about internet privacy than i ever did which is literally at all
>holed up in my room all day seething about technological advancements and muh 2025 le zoomers le tiktok corpo amazon reeeee
>feel like i cant break out of it because i have genuine morals now
>might never integrate into society again
>all because i made a one-off decision that i thought was right and felt right at the time and truthfully i don't regret it by itself
gee whiz
No. 2514264
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I can't tell if I'm emotionally unstable because I've been eating edibles 1-2 times a week or if it's just isolation and stress that's getting to me.
I stopped the edibles to make sure but I still really feel like shit and now I don't have edibles which kinda blows.
If it is the drugs How long before I stop crying all the time?
Also I'm heavily addicted to energy drinks so if it's caffeine I'm just plain fucked, I can't give that shit up man.
No. 2514268
>>2514264It's isolation and stress
nonny. If that wasn't happening you wouldn't have the need to have edibles so often imo. The substances probably aren't making it better but they aren't the root cause in my experience. Try doing some breathwork on youtube and see if it makes you feel better to alleviate some issues related to stress.
No. 2514272
>>2514268Kinda up for anything to try and get rid of this instability, so thanks.
I'll keep the break on the edibles just in case, though tbh my mood has been so awful that I just don't feel like taking any.
No. 2514320
>>2513946I know many people who are going grey in their early 20s. Don't sweat it
nonny it's perfectly normal.
No. 2514364
>>2514349Don't feel too bad about it. Applications, IF they're for a real position or opportunity, rely on AI to tick boxes and make decisions for them. Don't lose heart, email the contact provided on the application and ask about other similar opportunities they may have, and ask for feedback on your application.
Keep your head up and remember that you did the best you could. The next time you apply for something similar you'll have a better chance.
No. 2514498
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>>2514097>requiring an ID to access adult content puts children at riskBut you know what puts children the most at risk for danger and poor quality of life? PORN EXPOSURE AT A YOUNG AGE. I’m sure those fuckers know that but don’t care lmao fuck PH
No. 2514522
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I fucking hate that the maternal side of my family ran around my whole life acting like we we were a "strong matriarchy" just because there's more women than men. The reality is that I'm stuck with the most pathetic spineless boy moms who cower before the handful of men and expect their daughters to be adults at 13 while their deadbeat 40 year old sons can be coddled on all their lives. I hate that my family tried to drill into bullshit bible based gender dynamics, and that I was always the black sheep for not wanting to play along. My uncle's going through some shit with his wife and has been crashing here for almost 6 months now, he's got a pending court case and anger problems, and my grandma (certified retard) just let's him act like it's his house. He's broke, uneducated, MAGA conspiracist, and never lifts a finger to help around the house. He storms out when we try to discuss when he's gonna move out, but has no problem asking for gas money, which my grandma always gives him. I confronted his lazy deadbeat ass (Yeah there's 3 kids wrapped up in all this that he isn't trying to maintain a relationship with) and again, he says "I-I'm going through a lot right now, whatever, you're entitled to be mad," and storm out. HE'S 48 STILL POSTING VAGUE SUICIDE BAIT ON FACEBOOK FFS. I hate when they leave me home alone with him. I hate how steadily manic he's been since he first got here and how my dumbass family is acting like there's no reason to be concerned he's gonna snap (the dude is in anger management courses for his case and gets into loud shouting matches over the phone while we're in the house+men are defective and it's in their DNA to solve problems with violence, so why NOT worry??). It took me saying this toxic change in the house had me considering checking into a psych ward to kickstart a more firm moving out discussion, which of course he bullshitted an answer about waiting on his tax return (which conveniently he didn't get bc it went to his wife's account). I try telling them I feel trapped, helpless, as if my opinion doesn't matter in all this and they do the usual fake cooing of "Omg nooo don't say that omg you TOTALLY matter! But he's family so…." Unlike that attention seeking faggot, I actually HAVE attempted ending things, and I genuinely feel like if I were to succeed this time, my family wouldn't notice till a week after, then just shrug to go back to kissing his ass
No. 2514523
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>cute plushie collectible labubu keychain was supposed to be delivered today
>wait all day, I'm at home
>courier emails me to let me know that nobody was home so they couldn't deliver
>didn't knock
>didn't call
>didn't didn't email or text
Why are you blocking me from having my cute toy keychain please I just wanted something to add a sparkle to my week
No. 2514532
>>2514522How much of a professional cherry-picker do these illiterate zealots have to be for the bible to read as "easy mode for scrotes"? None of your male relatives should even have eyeballs for looking at porn or scantily clad women
who are specifically absolved of punishment, according to the bible
No. 2514562
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I lost power for a week and I'm so behind on all my projects and it's the second to last day. Killing myself
No. 2514571
>>2514565They'd kill us if we actually did something about big pharma, that's why they're killing luigi.
2 big nonos in America are Them and Big pharma. They've both completely cucked our politics and trying to do anything against them is suicide.
No. 2514576
>>2514574I know right lol
>>2514571They cant kill 340 million people of which a bunch have guns
No. 2514589
>>2514582>im scared of losing muh minimal wage job that barely lets me afford food and credit card debtthey still need some workers so if enough people struck it wouldnt be a problem, like what are they gonna do, fire everyone? theres the offshoring threat but most companies who could export their factories already did so all thats left is companies that need local workers.
working class is too socially retarded thats all, brain rotted by fast food, social media, porn and netflix between shifts
its such a pathetic way to live god i hope one day i can stop being part of the poorfags
No. 2514624
Idk if this fits here or the NEET thread more, but I chose to post here just in case. I'm a fresh graduate and have been looking for online courses, intern jobs, graduate development programs, online jobs that don't require experience and so on. Somehow, I got rejected from all of these or no reply all together. It's so frustrating and soul crushing. I live with my elderly dad and sort of on his money, but he's too strict and won't let me use the money anyway I want so I really need to start making my own. He might end up dying eventually and I wouldn't have anywhere to go after that, so I need to have a job and my own savings before it's too late so I can keep the house at least. I can't drive and don't have a car yet either and can't afford it and he won't be paying for driving lessons or a car anytime soon. So I'll need to pay a chauffeur if I get an on-site job at some point or to at least go to interviews, and there's no guarantee he'd give me money for that either because he's selfish and only pays for things that benefits him and doesn't like when I leave the house and go outside for any reason. I feel so trapped and like an absolute failure because of this, and seeing my friends and former classmates landing gigs, camps, courses, internships, being accepted into graduate programs either in the city we live in or in the capital makes me even more miserable. I'm not jealous or envious or anything, I'm happy for them, it's just that their success reminds me of my failure and how my circumstances prevents me from reaching the heights they did. All of them can travel the country solo or go to other countries for work with 0 problems, while I can't look for or invest in any opportunities like that because it just means trouble with my dad. He's always been a hindrance and he'll always be even if he dies. It's so annoying and frustrating to deal with. It's kinda funny and ironic how those same friends and former classmates used to ask me for help because I was the most skillful and knowledgeable, but now they're the ones getting all the opportunities while I keep getting rejected. One of them is literally a massive cheater and liar who bought her success but employers don't give a shit and won't look at my empty compared to hers CV. I never got to participate in any competitions or take any camps or courses because of my retarded circumstances, all I have is my bachelor's degree and my internship that I got because of my uncle. And although my senior project was harder and more impressive, it's still not enough somehow and they keep rejecting me without even an interview first. I always knew this would happen and was scared of the time I have to face it, and I had a false hope that maybe things would turn out better than I expected but I was lying to myself. I'm not going anywhere at all and I'll be a loser forever. It's not that this happens to everyone in the beginning of their career or whatever, with me and my circumstances, I'll probably reach nowhere. Even stupid motivational videos about retards and the disabled figuring their lives out make me feel like shit, because great, actual literal downies and handicaps can live and my ass can't. What does that say about me? I'm retarded and I suck at this shit. All of this is making me suicidal all over again. I kinda want to get lost in a forest or in the desert and die there slowly from starvation or thirst or wild animals.
No. 2514635
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How do you nonnas stay sane and even date in a misogynistic word where
1. We are always put down that we are not good enough and that we should settle and date aka give free sex and emotional labour to ugly men with even uglier personalities
2.if a moid harms most people will just victim blame you cause "you should have known "
I feel crazy since these two misogynistic ideas are so mainstream and other than here
No. 2514657
>>2514641He doesn't care at all and it's impossible to convince him. He owns the house and we don't have any debt or mortgage to worry about or anything, but we won't be able to survive our day to day life without his pension and landlord money as a source of income. Our youngest is under 18 so if he dies soon, no inheritance either and this is where my worries stem from. But also overall, I don't want to spend the rest of my life stuck at home with no real life at all. I want to work, own my own place, go to the gym, get annual check ups at the hospital, and much more that may pull me out of my "depression" if this is what it is.
Another thing I wanted to vent about but forgot to is that I suck at my hobbies and interests, too so I can't possibly profit from these either if I wanted to. Maybe it's time to start e-begging on Tumblr lmao.
No. 2514658
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I always feel so awkward, broad and unnatural and just fake when I try and dress up or be feminine or just do anything. It feels like I'm just a brain living in a body that's brand new and I'm not used to it yet, except it's been like this for 27 years. I don't get it. I look at other women and they just seem to handle femininity so easily and I feel like I'm constantly larping or adjusting myself because it just feels so uncomfortable. They look like women and I look like a boy trying to be a woman, not in a tranny way but in a strange way I can't describe. Yes tomboy would be the perfect word but nothing about the way I carry myself feels natural and it sucks. Idk how to recover. The only time I feel comfortable is when I'm at home wearing silly oversized pyjamas with a face mask on. Anywhere else it feels like I'm skinwalking someone but haven't managed to perfect it. I wonder if this feeling will go away when I lose weight. I hope so.
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>>2514658I'm in the same boat nona, while I'm happy to have someone understand how I feel I'm sorry you have to go through this. I'm sure you look absolutely great in whatever you wear, you are just not seeing it at the moment!
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>>2514709Aww thanks
nonnie I'm sure you look cute too, we are our own worst critics after all. It's really exhausting having a low self-image and not even entirely understanding why but I hope you manage to recover and find confidence in yourself!
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>>2514722Meant to say femininity parassite kek, don’t get rid of your feminist one.
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T-this sore throat is because I haven't been drinking enough today, right? I'm feeling tired because I'm exhausted, not because I'm about to get sick, right? RIGHT? I don't have time to be sick, I to finish up my final exam project, two final essays and a presentation by the 22nd. I DO NOT HAVE TIME TO BE SICK
No. 2514823
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Nonnas, I am so tired of TIFs controlling all fandom discussion, including anon boards. I wish I had a place to sperg about shows I like without the constant risk of being cancelled/called out by a bunch of TIFs.
No. 2514850
>>2514818Definitely agree with what
>>2514826 said and what you said. I think I remember someone on the Shayna thread said that about Kiki recently, so that's probably what you were talking about. I feel like that thread in particular is (or had been, I don't check on it very much so idk) filled with twitter tourists who are getting their chance to be edgy and mean without any repercussion since I saw a surprising amount of twitter lingo when I last went in there.
It is pretty sad though how some anons will just bash on a woman's appearance for the smallest of things. Like if they're morbidly obese, grossly unkempt, or dress like an absolute train wreck then sure, so crazy. Those are problems that the cow put upon themself, but it's when they nitpick the little things about them that they can't control. And also when they use such scroteish language that's what really makes me feel weird.
Also kinda unrel, but it's seeing that sort of gross posting that always reminds me about the fact that no matter what, there will always be moids lurking and posting on LC. I know I'm preaching to the choir by saying this, but it just pisses me off to no end that we can't just be left alone by them. No matter how much we ask, we separate ourselves off, and try to reason with them, there's nothing we can truly do to ensure that men don't post here. And as much as I would like to believe I can usually identify a scrote when he types, there really is no way to know for sure since they can learn to adopt the etiquette and lingo if they wanted to.
No. 2514921
>>2514893I'm far from being a newfag, I was here since the beginning of the retarded Berry Tsukasa threads.
But it's like what
>>2514826 said.
>there comes a point where it's just putting down women in general and not the cow No. 2515047
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>>2515021Me and nonna when it’s time for our package to arrive and we have been sent an email that it will arrive shortly.
No. 2515129
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i need a fucking hotdog with mustard, a credit card with NO limit, and a personal trainer with nice teeth and a huge cock NOW!!!!
No. 2515152
>>2515149How did you know that I could only offer a hotdog kek, I thought I could be more mysterious. You made me crave one now too. I prefer honey mustard though and I like adding sauerkraut on top too.
I am hungry now, take responsibility nonna.
No. 2515166
>>2515155You mean the potato buns? I sure do. We can arrange that
nonny. I don’t know if everything will be alright, but we’ll eat a delicious hotdog.
No. 2515171
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It's like 11:40 here and I can hear what I think is a car engine, but it's the loudest and WEIRDEST engine I've ever fucking heard in my life. It's so guttural, has this weird "popping" undercurrent which comes and goes (it sounds a bit like skittles being hit? Genuinely the only comparison I can think of kek) and also makes a noise like wind blowing. I can't see where it's coming from, either, even though it's a million decibels and vibrating the floor. Am I about to get beamed up into the sky by a spaceship?
No. 2515249
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>>2515235What do you mean anon? I hope you'll elaborate on that
No. 2515250
>>2514850The pure bullshit in the fandom thread is proof enough that twitter tourists come here to type scary words without being mobbed. It's very entertaining to read, but I feel a bit hopeless at the general lack of brain cells in there.
The types of people who have long and serious discussions about
problematic fictional characters are exactly the types of people who'd call a woman a cocksleeve. You can pretty much guarantee that they're some type of TIF and insanely jealous of the cow they're shitting on.
I know that scrotoids lurk and post but their fun comes from seeing us get mad about it, hence the rules about reporting and not engaging. There's been an influx of them now that 4chan got put to pasture but this isn't an exciting land of grils posting booba for rate. It's a slow board and only a few threads move at anything but a glacial pace, scrotes get tired of waiting for a reaction, and they leave to go spam CC with porn. Moids might call a woman a cocksleeve but they'd probably just try to insult her by announcing that they would not fuck that lady. Moids think that this is the most devastating blow there is, so that's their go to insult for everything. If it's an insult that's very specific to the cow, it's probably a really unpleasant and terminally online woman saying it, so on the bright side, there are probably less scrotes here than you think.
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someone please save me before my blood pressure goes off the charts i had to write a character impression (read: essentially roleplay for a paragraph) for one of my english classes again and i couldn't even proofread that shit. why am i always tasked with embarrassing things just showing my writing is hard enough as it is christtttt
No. 2515311
>>2515289 not fearing i might not be able to afford children or to support my parents when they age
working a 9 to 5 with a week end
a commute that is less than 25 minutes
a house that is spatious enough and doesn't let outside noise in
food that isn't poisonous
i'm studying and investing all of my time in my career to achieve it but it's been 6 years and my dream is only moving further away
No. 2515343
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You guys are so rude sometimes
No. 2515354
>>2515250>The fandom threadThe way they
constantly post/mald over Literal Who's on twitter makes me think they're coming here to cry about the discord friends they're forced to tolerate kek
No. 2515355
>>2515311I might not know you personally , but I think you're doing good, maybe just in a slump bc you really want to see the fruits of your labour. Unfortunately life never gets simple, we just learn to better navigate and handle it better. It'll be a while till you achive that goal, but in the meantime don't beat yourself up for not being there yet. Look at your past and see how far you've come and all the things you have, how much worse you would've been without them or your efforts. It's very noble of you that you want to take care of your parent's, but try to take in the reality that when the time comes, you WILL be able to pull through. From what I've seen in myself, worrying now about the future won't make you more ready, but when it comes, it's almost at just the right time.
If I'm unfamiliar then it's an invitation of growth, if I can handle it then it's proof that I can show up for myself.
The real tragedy is giving up.
Maybe you should take a breather. Meditate a bit, get some rest. Focus on yourself if you feel like your body and mind need it. You can't be there for others if you don't function properly.
I'll be keeping you in my thought's and I knwo you'll achieve your goals.
By curiosity, what do you study?
No. 2515357
>>2514850>>2514818The recent influx of anons admitting to being friends with genderspecials and going "but HSTS troons are the
good ones!!" Probably has something to do with it too. Some farmers definitely sound like they're trying to imitate Jeffree Star-tier faggots when they talk.
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>>2515153Careful anon, you don't want to end up like Tuna.
No. 2515532
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I need a woman's attention so bad it's making me miss my ex.
No. 2515537
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shut up. my seed was the rich man's fruit and i lost it all. useless university, no degree, no job.
No. 2515606
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So I went to the ER after all expecting to get that nebulizer treatment thing but they just gave me some shitty cough medicine that still has me coughing.
They're gonna milk me dry at this rate cause I know I will have to run back again in 2 days when I eventually crap out.
Fucking shitty useless speds working in healthcare, the only thing that's stopping me from treating myself is being too lazy to find darknet markets.
No. 2515880
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My late uncle's car collection is going to be auctioned off before June. I kinda missed the boat on asking for anything from it by not having my license yet. He only had one valuable one and that's not even the one I would have wanted. (I can't have it anyway, they're keeping it). I just wanted one of the really big older ones that I can actually fit in comfortably. (I'm stupid tall) I never drove it but sat in it a few times and felt normal, which I don't feel sitting in basically any other car.
Also, just knowing most of it's gonna be gone forever just feels like "end of an era" similarly to how I felt when high school ended.
No. 2515932
I think I'm dating the wrong person. Ever since we started dating, every argument ends with him just leaving. He always said i dont say things to him in a nice way and i offend him but i have no clue what i say wrong so i try asking questions to be a better talker and understand what I'm saying wrong. Ive changed a lot to be more tactful, which is fine but he complains that he has changed too and I'm like duhh we are in a relationship so we are bound to change. Then he says i haven't improved at all and keeps claiming i insult him, but I'm still clueless in how i do that. Its gotten to the point that he calls me a narcissist and its reaching a breaking point because I'm accepted to university and i told him i want an apartment close so i don't have to drive to school everyday. He is not in university but wants to eventually, but was trying to make me compromise where we both have to drive to school(he'll be going to a community college) . I don't want to drive to school because i want to be involved with my university and not pay the parking pass. My coworkers told me that i should just do what i want, so i bring it up to him and he was fine with it but kept saying its gonna fuck him up to drive so much even though its just a couple of minutes more of driving and he never had problems driving a 25 minute commute to school before so idk why he suddenly has a problem. Well, last he called me a narcissist and saying i kept interrupting my friend at a bar and that i don't know how to talk to people even though he told me multiple times to stop stressing about being nuerodivergent since i can talk to people properly. I really feel like hes trying to manipulate me. He used to believe that people shouldn't compromise in a relationship because both parties wont be happy. Well, everytime we are at a crossroad, i would be the one compromising and he gets his way. Also He will go a long time being upset about something and not tell me. He says when he brings up his problems, that i dont listen or spin it to make it about me. But every time I'm upset, the argument always ends up about his feelings. For example, he said i don't ever compromise and I said we got the apartment he wanted even though i can't even afford it. He suddenly brings up that he did something for me which was not even part of the discussion. So i say, dude we were talking about me, and the things i do. He flips out and leaves and slams my car door and drives off who knows where and its the middle of the night and idk where he is. Anyways am i being manipulated? Am i too self absorbed?
No. 2516021
>>2515274update : no one saved me
maybe next time
No. 2516025
>>2515399really?
i feel quite relaxed right now, if i didnt take anything i wouldve probably not slept which is worse for my brain than benzos, right?
No. 2516030
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I wish hanging wasn't so scary. Every other suicide method available to me didn't work so now I'm just such with the most obvious but also most painful choice.
No. 2516092
Cleaning out old accounts and having to accept that there's stuff that I can't delete is annoying, but it ultimately doesn't matter (unless I plan on being famous, which I'm not). Also accepting that I wasted so much time being an unemployed NEET, and wanting to change but not knowing how… idk. Whoops!
>>2515932He sounds like a headache and a nasty piece of work who's taking advantage of you (and its only going to get worse), please please please leave him and stay with friends/family to help you get back on your feet if you can. He is belittling you and demeaning you at every turn to make you doubt your own judgement so that you're fully dependent on him, and chucking tantrums when things don't go his way. No scrote is worth sacrificing your education and career over, especially not one that throws up so many red flags that he might as well be a stop sign. Take care
nonnie, I wish you well and I hope you find someone that actually loves you.
No. 2516194
>>2515364>>2515367Screenshot is from Fail Fandom Anon (FFA) on Dreamwidth. It's a place to discuss fanfiction and fandom stuff in general. Sometimes it's pretty chill and nice, but mostly nonnies there are very mean (for lack of a better word) and at each other's throat, much worse than here IME kek. However transphobia (both deliberate tranny hate and neutral statements that come off as
sus) is a no-no and will gets your comments deleted. Lots of nonnies there are TIFs.
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>>2515932Nona that man is incredibly shitty. Yes, I do think he's manipulative. Let me break it down for you.
Inconsistent and non comunicative, bring up problems only when tentions are high/you talk about YOUR problems:
>He always said I don't say things to him in a nice way and I offend him but I have no clue what>I've changed a lot to be more tactful, which is fine BUT he complains that he has changed too>Then he says I haven't improved at all>He calls me a narcissistInterupting people doens't make you a narcisist, it's a bad habbit but you need a lot more than that to be one.
>Called me a narcissist and saying I kept interrupting my friend at a bar and that I don't know how to talk to people>He told me multiple times to stop stressing about being nuerodivergent since i can talk to people properlySounds like you're a burden to him. Your partner is supposed to support you and show up, you can't do all the lifting. Plus, him driving 5-10 minutes extra isn't a monumental task, mine walks 30 min to my place and never complained, I don't either when I go ti his.
>I told him I want an apartment close so I don't have to drive to school everyday>Trying to make me compromise where we both have to drive to school>Don't want to drive to school because I want to be involved with my university and not pay the parking pass>Bring it up to him and he was fine with it>BUT kept saying it's gonna fuck him up to drive so much even though it's just a couple of minutes more of driving>He never had problems driving a 25 minute commute to school before>[He says when he brings up his problems, that i dont listen or spin it to make it about me]Getting mad, slamming shit and running away is definitly a good reaction to have when talking about problems. Imagine, truly and geniuenly, if this is how he is now when talking about things sort of small like this, how "reliable" he'll be when life gets difficult.
>He used to believe that people shouldn't compromise in a relationship because both parties wont be happy(Which it bs, if you compromise and are miserable you have some problems you need to talk about. Compromise comes when you're comfortable with it, if you do it bc you have to you probably have some relationship or personal issues.)
>Everytime we are at a crossroad, I would be the one compromising and he gets his way>Said i don't ever compromise and I said we got the apartment he wanted even though I can't even afford it>He suddenly brings up that he did something for me>So i say, dude we were talking about me, and the things I do>He flips out and leaves and slams my car door and drives off>[He says when he brings up his problems, that i dont listen or spin it to make it about me]
>He will go a long time being upset about something and not tell me>He says when he brings up his problems, that i dont listen or spin it to make it about me>But every time I'm upset, the argument always ends up about his feelingsYou either dump him or if you really think it's worth it you gotta be more sure on yourself and tolerate less of his bs. Have a serious convo with him, don't be afraid of the posibility of a breakup, and say what bothers you about him and how you feel, how it affects you other aspects of life and that you need to see somehting change asap or else it's not gonna work out longterm. And if his reaction is just as shitty where he slams shit and leaves, then maybe keep him out.
Be strong nona. Norcisists don't think they're narcisists. I hope I was clear.
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I'm so fucking sick of trannies being everywhere, I almost wish I didn't fully peak because now I just notice how prevalent they are online. It's like every other post is about them. For people that are apparently 1% of the population they sure do shit up every single space and make themselves known 24 fucking 7.
It's like I just can't stand them anymore. I say fully peaked because when I was younger a few years ago I spent some time lurking lc but it's only now I've truly realized that literally all of them are like this. Especially the TIMs. I feel like picrel
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i need to get banned so i stop posting so much
>>2516208fuck off you whiny loser + you're a scrote + i love jay
(as requested) No. 2516298
:) :p :3 ^^ :D(emoji)
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Tried using a ai chatbot for venting and this was a ad that popped up. I really wish i was dead. I just want to escape being female and seeing this shit constantly. I hope i die in my sleep.
No. 2516412
>>2516328Does she have BPD? That's BPD behavior right there. The attention seeking, the need for control, and the tantrums are veeery obvious signs. Obviously I can't say for sure but it's worth looking into how to cope with BPD relatives to make your life slightly easier.
Try to discreetly record her tantrums and her rants, especially about her boyfriend and other people she hangs out with. There's a really good chance she's talking shit about you to her boyfriend and turning everyone she knows against you, if you have evidence that she's the one instigating all this crap it's going to make things much easier for you when shit inevitably hits the fan.
Bippies are known for putting themselves in dangerous situations for attention. If you offend your sister by making coffee incorrectly and she starts walking on train tracks to punish you, call the police and let them deal with it. Don't blame yourself for what she does to herself, and carry on grey rocking her as much as possible. Don't be honest with her either, she'll use it against you. It's exhausting to live with someone like that but it really isn't something you should be expected to fix, don't run around after your sister cleaning up her messes.
>>2516329That's not a bad question to ask. If you rely on that person to pay for your treatments, they might decide to stop paying out of the blue and leave you struggling. There are probably alternative services that could be offered if you found yourself in that situation.
I hope things get easier for you nonna, and I hope your family member gets what they deserve while you watch.
No. 2516500
>>2516490>they don’t even seem grateful for itAyrt, and damn, that's exactly how it looks to me, too. I wish they could understand the difference between being handed something and having to struggle to get something. I'm pretty sure they think I'm just "lazy" because I simply
refuse to join them whilst summering in Turks and Keikos, kek
No. 2516562
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I know it's kind of stupid, but I sobbed today because I got rejected for an application for a dog I've been following for a couple of months.
I make good enough money and I was all set up to buy everything he needed, drive to the foster home 4 hours away, and check him out to make sure everything was okay just in case he wasn't a good match. I also have a home with a large yard and a fence, and my landlord gave me the YES to everything. We also went through a phone interview and they vetted through all of our references which went great. Apparently they thought I wasn't a good enough candidate because the last time I took my cat to the vet was 3 months ago, but they wanted a monthly basis. Are you kidding me? I take him for his yearly vaccinations since he's a happy inside cat with no problems. If he does has a problem, I take him and will spend however much to make sure he's okay because I love him and understand he is a responsibility I took on. We also referenced an old dog that my partner had as a child of the same breed to showcase our love for this breed and since there were no vet records they could find (because it was an old family dog from ten plus years ago) they added this onto the rejection.
Are you serious? Sadly I get why people go to backyard breeders now (not that I'm going to do that but god damn), rescues require you to send in a fucking resume and cover letter and applications cost 50 plus bucks to send in without even knowing if they'll respond back, and whenever I look through the shelters near me it's dogs with covered up histories of aggression or older dogs that need immense care and surgery that I cannot take on right now. I'm just so sad and upset that we wasted a couple months on this application. It's not the end of the world but they were so on board throughout all the phone calls to the point where we stopped sending in applications to other rescues just to text us that they will be ending contact now due to this that I'm frankly very upset.
It feels stupid to cry over seeing his little face and knowing we can't bring him home, but maybe it's for the best. I just don't know where to go next without wasting another few months spending money on applications, facetiming rescues, people asking to measure my fence, and showcasing that I'm not a ringleader for a dogfighting organization. Mind you this is a small fat dog breed lol so feel free to laugh at me and my time wasted. I feel like it would be easier to adopt an actual child at this point.
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>>2516562I'm so sorry,
nonnie. I'm a dogfag too and reading this made me really sad, and it's
valid to be upset considering you went above and beyond. If you don't mind me asking, where are you from? I'm a burgerfag (adopted my senior Lhasa in Chicago) and had success with adoptapet. Rescues (at least where I'm from) list their dogs on there and tend to get back to you well/not waste your time. There are also some elderly people, or people with conditions, who list their dogs on there if they're unable to take care of them, but it's harder to find a specific breed.
I'm rooting for you,
nonnie, and I hope you get a furry friend soon. You sound like you'll be a great owner. ♥
No. 2516569
>>2516562Nona that sucks. And I'm not even a huge fan of dogs. What the fuck is up with that draconian vetting procedure??
I would recommend going to a local shelter and getting a rescue. But, of course, you had your heart set on a particular one. So take your time.
No. 2516592
>>2516582Dang. I'm this anon
>>2516569 and I guess I assumed the dog-deprived nona was trying to go through a fancy breeder or something … idk. That's ridiculous. In my neck of the woods shelters just throw rescue dogs and cats and anyone who walks in. Didn't realize she was trying to get a rescue … the hoops to go through are bananas where you are, apparently! That's awful
No. 2516698
>>2516566Thank you
nonnie, also a burgerfag but in the south. The same breed would be nice but I'm willing to look for others that are similar so I appreciate the recommendation! Thank you so much, I'm still crying like a baby so this means a lot to me!
>>2516582Wow that's insane, especially being a vet nurse. The fact that you got rejected for a cat that way is retarded especially considering I find my cat wanting to be alone for hours on end to do this own thing all the time, he'd be pissed if I interrupted his 10 hour sleep time kek. Thank you for not making me feel crazy for the month on month vet thing too, I found that insane especially because he's perfectly healthy and my vet people would let me know if he needed anything extra. I feel lucky to have them. The prices for rescues are crazy as well! I'm not asking for anything fancy and I'm willing to pay a good price because dogs are a responsibility but jfc am I buying a horse?? They aren't even a designer breed, just smaller. This monopoly is crazy and I'm a little convinced the fosters (because all the dogs are fostered at homes instead of an actual shelter at the ones I've applied to) are just keeping the dogs and shelving the fees lol I feel so done.
>>2516592Rescues are not breeders but not shelters, kind of inbetween in my opinion. From my understanding rescue specific shelters either find the dogs on the street, foster them out of public shelters, or are given dogs from people that cannot take care of them anymore and then they foster/list them on their site. Usually applications cost 50 bucks plus and you have to go through something similar to a job application. One of the big things for any breed, I've noticed, is that many require you to live in a home with a giant measured fenced in backyard. I think it's a little stupid to get denied just for that unless you have a dog that needs that, especially a bigger dog, as my past dogs have been fine with just going on long walks outside and stimulation in the house but these rescues are VERY specific. I wouldn't of even gone through them if the government shelters near me had an array of smaller/less aggressive/cat friendly dogs but I'm still on the lookout. I'm willing to go far, but it's so annoying to be treated like I'm a stupid dumb dumb idiot by these rescues because I'm not doing the extra most. Like wtf happened in the past 10 years I feel like it wasn't this hard to adopt a normal dog.
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I'm starting to think there is something inherently so off-putting and weird about me that I am basically a real-life Raid but for humans. Every last good friend I've made over the last few years stopped talking to me and now whenever I hit it off with someone new and see them also starting to not talk to me anymore, I can see the cycle repeating again. I can always feel people IRL giving me uncomfortable or judgmental looks.
Honest to god, I do not know what it could be though. If it's people sensing my negativity, I've come a long way with my self-esteem issues compared to previous years. It's not great, but I feel much more confident and relaxed around others compared to the mess I was before. Maybe I just went from being a timid wallflower with no personality to just being a Weird Al-type instead.
Will I never be remotely close to normie? Is forming a completely different identity the only way I will ever get people to stop pulling away? I feel like there's no other way and I have to completely fake who I am to be likeable. Queue Blake from Workaholics telling Adam "Just be yourself" and Adam saying "That's horrible advice. Most people don't like me, actually." Perhaps I am some kind of natural eccentric that will always be the less normie in a room full of normies, but I've also been wrecked by severe social anxiety my whole childhood so there is no doubt that I have social maladjustment that will always be immediately apparent to someone who has never had any. It's like a scarlet letter on my breast.
No. 2516763
>>2516755Do you actively try to be friends with them? Text first?
I'm totally projecting but consider the idea that maybe you don't even like people or desire their company. When I accepted that I stopped feeling lonely.
No. 2516772
>>2515451It's so over.
Women have been programmed for millennia to suck up to the males who usurped their rightful place to choose and influence the gene fool in order to secure resources. 100 years in select countries, we're still like this. This is why I call myself a misanthropist. While women aren't evil like men are, they are truly pathetic.
Intelligent life was a mistake.
No. 2516813
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For anyone that has ever beefed with someone in a friend group and then left said group, did any of the other members of the group come around and understand why you did what you did?
I left a group because my ex friend treated me like absolute shit, manipulative BPD bullshit. But that ex-friend is involved in a creative project with the friend group, and is dating another member.
I left and explained why I left. I had a family member tell me (when I was ranting to them about it) that people in the group might just be under the same 'spell' I was, but I got too close, and that's why I got the shit end of all the fucked up behavior.
I'm grieving what I thought was a pretty solid friend group in adulthood. This is also my first time standing up for myself in a friend group like this, I've also never experienced anything like this with friends…
I have this horrible feeling that it doesn't really matter, because I rocked the boat, and this person is more useful to them than me, I'm out and I'll probably stay out unless I reconcile with this person. But I don't want to, because the reconciliation implies that I have to apologize for some part of my reaction to their abusive bullshit behavior. Like threatening suicide tantrum stomping bullshit. At the very least, my friends seem to think "well, she's nice to me, so…" even though they would tell me about how much of a bully she could be at times, or how she was "immature" or "mentally ill"… But I fucking feel mentally ill right now, not knowing wtf I'm supposed to do. I can't even trust the people who still say they're my friends, because I never hear shit from them now that I'm not involved.
This rant is retarded and I feel like an insecure little bitch to be ranting about it. But idk has anybody gone through something like this?
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>>2516763>I'm totally projecting but consider the idea that maybe you don't even like people or desire their companyAdmittedly not most of the time, you're right. Talking to most people has felt like a complete chore for years now.
However, there are people I've tried that with (One I'm even interested in romantically right now) and yet I still can tell they rapidly lose interest from their replies. The interest always ends up one-sided. Maybe I come off too boring/uninteresting because I can't share in the people I talk to's excitement about what they want to talk about (It's not like these tend to be unshared interests, either. I just have a much more flat, emotionally reserved disposition). I feel like there is always some kind of invisible wall between me and others that just can't be crossed. This is self-evident by how most people I tried to get to know never became more than acquaintances and the few good friendships I somehow managed to make all eventually degraded into acquaintanceships, before fading away completely. The person I am interested in even told me I shouldn't be closed off, but I'm sorry..I'm just a boring version of Pandora's Box. Nothing good will come out of opening me. I'm just a bizarre and bitter person that is as interesting as watching paint dry.
>>2516770For environments like ones in my corpo job, that's just not an option, but in informal situations yeah I guess you're right. I don't want to give off some kind of serial killer vibe, either. I already feel like I try too hard to be funny alot of the time, even though I know I'm not. Being funny is a skill only suited for normies.
>at some point, you'll find new people or a group that you "click" with.My issue is that this happens even with the people I was fully convinced I "clicked" with, too. If that's the case, I can't think of anything else other than it not just being a case of being weird, but also coming across as some kind of creep. Don't know how else to explain people giving me uncomfortable stares. I'm not some kind of schizo or anything, just severely depressed, but I must come across disturbed in some way. Not to get carried away with self-diagnosis, but I do feel like a schizoid actually. I've always lived in my head and naturally gravitate towards isolating myself. No one actually ever gets to know me as I am.
No. 2516822
>>2516813I very recently went though something similar and it was a lot quieter but it was still painful. I was targeted by a guy who I’m pretty sure is an abuser and wanted me to be his next
victim and he turned all of our mutual friends against me. I have no idea what he said but they have all gone super cold on me when we see each in other in person but watch my socials like a hawk. I tried to ask them what was up and just got ignored. All I can say is that it fucking sucks and they’re not your real friends. It’s for the best but it’s still a really painful way to find out who is actually there for you. Hope you find some better friends nonna.
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>>2516813Well, I saw it from another angle. I was part of a friend group that had a manipulative bpd person, and honestly it took a while for us to see her for what she really was. I would recommend not "rocking the boat" further, continuing to seek contact with anyone else except for her. Your friends probably are still your friends, and, being human and all, don't want too much drama. I don't know specifics, but my friend group went through similar drama and eventually we recognized the bpd chaos element and ousted her. Patience, showing your other friends you're still loyal to them, and standing by your truth-telling. Don't rush anything. Sorry if I'm misconstruing anything, but I think if you sit back, cultivate your relationships with your real friends, and shun the crazy one to the best of your abilities, then your group will figure it out on their own.
No. 2516841
>>2516831>there was this one guy in high school who had a weird hate-obsession over meNTA, this has happened to me too and it's horrible. Did he really troon out just because he thought it would spite you…? That's insane and definitely creepy. In my case, the scrote with the obsession would send me edgelord memes or gore at random times, and he'd also insult my body in front of others in a way that made it obvious he was scrutinising me. Then, in what I
think was an attempt to make me jealous, he started orbiting the pickme in our social circle and was super passive aggressive about it. Genuinely what the hell is wrong with males kek
No. 2516847
>>2516822I'm sorry you went through a similar thing
nonnie. The whole
>I tried to ask them what was up and just got ignoredshit bothers me to no end. It makes me think - if they don't 'want drama' would they even tell me what's up? Why complain about the person's behaviors but then ice me out while entertaining that person instead? But all this ruminating does nothing but make me anxious and doesn't solve shit.
>>2516832This was extremely reassuring, thank you. I know that it doesn't mean my friends will behave the same way, or really ever "find out" what she's like beyond what she's displayed already… but it gives me hope that you say it took a while for you and the other friends to see who she really was.
Thank you for the advice on not further rocking the boat and not rushing anything. I'll just use this time to work on my patience and find other people I mesh with in the meantime. Also, I'll try to not be so paranoid about how people ~really~ feel about me and just take at face value that these friends don't want drama. I really appreciate it, I'm screenshotting this so if I start ruminating I can look back at it.
No. 2516883
>>2516847I'm glad you replied to my post, which of course is very anecdotal and not universal, but … I believe friendship is the most important thing out here, and what we went through was really rocky. I made it a point to let my non-
problematic homies know I was still with them no matter what, even if I thought they were under the spell of the bpd-monster. It was a fuckin ride, but I realized there's no reason to sacrifice 4 good friendships because of one lone bpd idiot. You seem like you get it. We emerged from the shitshow stronger than ever, when all was said and done. I really wish you the best because you seem cool and empathetic.
No. 2516900
>>2516892i love you
nonnie what the hell do that mean…
No. 2516902
>>2516892I love you
nonnie do it anyway
No. 2516965
>>2516883I think that
>I made it a point to let my non problematic homies know I was still with them no matter whatis the point I need to internalize. Sometimes it feels like they are keeping things surface level with me or ignoring me and it feels frustrating. However, we're all very busy and no longer a bunch of teens in school.. So I ought to keep the good faith and interact with them. This gives me hope!! And yes, I did wind up feeling a bit stronger because I was no longer a doormat to the bullshit. I just hope my friends can do the same sooner than later!
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I want to text my ex so so so bad, I haven't gotten any attention from another woman in a few months and it has been driving me crazy. She texted me first and my friends have told me not to text back because she clearly knows that she shouldn't be doing that and it will only fuck with me but god. She has not made space for me in her life, and I was doing much more for the relationship than she was, but FUCK what I wouldn't do if she was actually a better person. I know by texting her she won't even have enough time to respond properly because she'll be busy with a shit ton of work by this time, so I know better than that. If only she did make space for me then things would be different, my love quest is not over though.
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>>2517162Do you have money for travel? Moids will automatically hit on you in many countries and the language barrier will create mystery. I am basically recommending you be passport sis but I think it could work tbh
No. 2517630
I can't figure it out if I'm being gaslighted or manipulated or if I'm really the retarded one here. I have a rocky relationship with my ex, he's always been respectful to me but he also did some questionable shit, and idk if I'm just crazy and seeing things or if he's really two faced. He broke up with me because "he couldn't see a future with me", I was devastated so I was trying to find any ways to still meet him and I said we can still have sex, he rejected the idea, and in the end I told him angrily that I'm never gonna contact him again. But I told him happy birthday three months later. And then he suddenly came back at me and asked if we can be fwbs and I said yes cause I was still desperately in love with him. We had sex, but he behaved weirdly with me and (respectfully) told me to leave his house when I was supposed to stay for longer, I started crying cause again I felt used like a toy, he told me he doesn't care about my crying and feelings. After that I left and he blocked me, and three months later he comes back in my dms asking me if I still wanna have sex. This time at the beginning I was more guarded, I didn't meet with him but ended up having a meltdown about how he's treating me badly and mocking my feelings and that he knows that I love him and he's using that for his own advantage. And he said he has no empathy for me cause I'm not rational and that I consented to everything so I can't hold it against him and that he doesn't have any reason to say sorry cause he didn't do anything wrong.
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I know it’s a power thing ATP, but pick up a fucking hobby and stop calling me. You act like Tom calling Greg about his saucy secret or whatever happened in Succession. Jesus fucking Christ. How do you even maintain having a job? Get a fulfilling life and leave women out of it, you weirdo. Holy shit. If this fucking rapist shithead gave me an STD, which I’ll find out soon, I’ll rage out and fully go through with charges. Fucking dickhead.
No. 2517664
>>2517640>>2517630sometimes when someone tells you something, it's good to listen to them
he clearly stated that he does not care about your feelings and he clearly just wants to use you for sex
it can be hard to relate as to why a guy would be that way but they really just need to stick it in something every now and then, it doesn't mean anything and he does not love you
cut all contact and leave, if you make it past the stage of missing him deeply (about 3-6 months), the only feeling left will be the regret of not doing it earlier
No. 2517666
>>2517630>he said he has no empathy for me cause I'm not rational and that I consented to everything so I can't hold it against him and that he doesn't have any reason to say sorry cause he didn't do anything wrongAlso that's just bullshit, that's just what he tells himself. You are not irrational. You miss him so you want to be intimate with him, that's quite rational. He knows that and he takes advantage of it while pretending he doesn't lol.
He sounds like a misogynistic piece of crap with that "women are not rational bs" and a really shitty person all around.
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My SSD is failing and i need to buy a new one ASAP. My HDD stopped working completly and i need a new one. Now my second monitor stopped working and i need to buy a new one. I would need like 400 usd to cover the cost of all the things that broke in this shit ass year. Fuck it, i am going to make vtuber loli asmr shit i am desperate and i am completly useless to the point i failed several low entry jobs because of my autism. Fuckkkk why couldnt i be born in a stable family, i got no one to lend me money and i live in a thirdie shithole too. Just kill me already. I fucking hate my life, i hate having to prostitute myself for a living i ltierally cannot thinkg of anything else i can do for money because i am fucking useless and the only thing i have ever been complimented on is my voice. I am not even pretty enough to make an onlyfans. I hate my fucking life.
No. 2517697
>>2517502Because they want to be you nona. Tims will copy anything women do so let them affect your fashion choices.
>>2517478lol i have this issue where when I rewatch shows i like i never watch the final episode, because then it feels like it hasn't ended yet
No. 2517733
Like A While ago I was broken up with by a gf of mine I dated for half a decade. I remember feeling awful about myself, but I never thought much bad about her ever. Until I spoke about the breakup finally over two years later with a friend.
That friend told me that my gf was abusing me all those years, that my gf was always an insufferable heartless bitch who always demeaned me and insulted me in my face and ever since she moved away, she ditched all her friends, including that friend, basically, and barely contacts them and everyone is feeling weird still having her come round because she's unpleasant.
The opinion of my friend made me reframe a lot about that relationship, but even after that, I mostly just realised me and my ex were a bad match and she's not really as bad of a person as my friend described her, even if now, much older, I wouldn't like or date that ex.
Today I woke up to find out that my friend who badmouthed my ex so badly, is hanging out with her.
Nonas, I feel weird. Like, did my friend lie to me to make to make me feel better about a breakup? She keeps mentioning that my ex was a bad person all the time tho.
Or is she a two-faced person for still hanging out with "an abusive monster bitch" after all these years of badmouthing her?
I feel weird, because it's not really my place to ask why anyone hangs out with anyone. We were all friends for years. I just feel like I am out of the loop and not understanding something here and that's why I feel weird. Like am I weird? Are they weird? Who's lying to who? Is it ok to feel bad for your ex whom you wish nothing but happiness despite them being kind of a bitch for hanging out with your other friend who openly badmouths her to me any opportunity?
Should I even care if my long-time ex and current-time friend are hanging together? Ugh.
No. 2517748
>>2517722Moids will have a girl who loves them and is
that loyal to them and still treat them like shit kek. Their soullessness is insane