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No. 2553040

Share your unpopular opinions here.

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>no infighting
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Previous thread: >>>/ot/2537530

No. 2553046

what exactly is the point of keeping this thread up when the only thing that it brings to the table is: moids, newfags, and infights? really tho u can remake this thread as many times as u want but we all know that moids are still gonna be in this thread. we all know they retarded anons that use this thread are still gonna be falling for all their misogynistic bait. we all know it. why are we keeping this thread when it does nothing for the board and the site at large? dumbass shit was closed for attracting newfags but we're all good with unpopular opinions attracting moids? and its not a recent thing either, moids have been caught making these threads before too because they know its the easiest place to bait and fight with women online.

No. 2553048

>>2553031
I feel like she did answer your question you're just retarded and have to resort to being purposefully obtuse to win arguments kek

No. 2553050

>>2553031
It does though? If enough humans collectively decide not to create more humans, then that means that space and resources are not being put towards new humans. We wouldn't need to keep expanding urban sprawl (which removes and displaces wildlife) if our population stagnated or even decreased.

No. 2553053

>>2553046
I enjoy unpopular opinions because sometimes I actually have an unpopular opinion and I wanna hear other anons opinion in response to my perspective

No. 2553057

I wanted a cow as picrel, too bad

No. 2553059

>>2553057
Next time nonna, next time

No. 2553060

>>2553057
the farmhand that made it wanted to use one of her cringe zoomer images so too bad

No. 2553063

>>2553053
I like posting opinions on here, sometimes other anons agree and it makes me feel less alone.

No. 2553064

>>2553050
Nta but what is the antinatalists vision for society? Like if everyone on earth stopped having kids right now, when everyone gets old and decrepit are they all supposed to just collectively wither away and die or is it like a ritual suicide kind of thing?

No. 2553067

>>2553060
NTA but its just a gawking kitty, that’s far less cringe than the original cartoon facebook boomer meme that was posted

No. 2553068

>>2553048
No, she didn't answer my question. I asked HOW the current (human, if she's a human-only antinatalist) life would be protected while the process of stopping all humans from reproducing and letting them die out was happening. 'There are other species' is not even remotely an answer to this question, it's a reason for being antinatalist but not a process of effectively protecting the current human lives that are on earth as the human extinction happens.

No. 2553072

>>2553067
still showing her age lmao im guessing 20 or 21 and still living at home

No. 2553073

>>2553064
I'm the anon that everyone said had my question answered and this is what I actually meant, if it was unclear.

No. 2553080

>>2553064
ayrt and idk about real hard adherents, because I'm a realist when it comes to antinatalism. My personal take is that most people shouldn't reproduce and there are many situations in which it's unethical to do so, but people are still going to do it anyway. If we can be persuaded to reproduce less and consider the kinds of conditions we bring children into, that's a good thing.

No. 2553084

>>2553080
nta but that's not real antinatalism then. I am just really curious to hear from an actual, real antinatalist how they would propose to limit suffering during the time period until extinction and also how they would ensure all procreation is stopped. 'Most people shouldn't reproduce but they'll do it anyway' is just the normie pov.

No. 2553095

>>2553084
Antinatalism is the belief that humans shouldn't reproduce. How that belief is pursued depends on your political and social beliefs (authoritarian-leaning antinatalists want a government or a top-down entity enforcing sterilization on the public, while someone who doesn't believe in government enforcement might stick to shaming parents.) You'll get as many answers to "how do we deal with the situation" as you will people who claim to be antinatalist.

No. 2553110

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I hope OP of the locked thread enjoyed browsing the ugly male psyop thread and the ideal male bodies thread kek. Idk why males lurk here, it's pure masochism on their parts and they just end up upsetting themselves and lashing out with bait posts because they want attention from the nonnas here.

No. 2553113

>>2553025
Life would be protected by having more resources for the existing people. Less life being created, more resources and less resources being spread thin. We are swiftly heading into overpopulation that we are losing agriculture, economy, housing, and so forth. The only reason why you are encouraged to have children is government propaganda to create more cogs for the system, or bioessentialism. There is no selfless reason to have children outside of bioessentialism.

No. 2553117

>>2553113
But what happens to the protection of life when there's only old people left who still need to be taken care of?

No. 2553123

>>2553095
As a philosophy antinatalism aims to end all human life on earth (and possibly that of other living creatures as well) by the total stoppage of procreation. Slightly limiting procreation in some specific instances by 'parent shaming' is just a cop-out because it doesn't come close to achieving the desired aim, it's like if someone called themselves an Actual Communist because they continued to live in a capitalistic society that they view as completely inevitable and permanent but managed to shame 1-2 rich people into giving up their wealth/ceding the means of production to their workers but the rest of society stayed capitalist forever. I don't really see the point of holding a philosophical view that you don't believe will ever actually come to fruition in any way, but I guess that's my own view. I just don't take something seriously as a 'real' philosophy unless there is some vision for the philosophical aims actually coming to fruition.

>>2553113
But what resources? Once only old people are left who will maintain the resources? The grid will start to fail, no one will be farming, starvation will set in, etc.

>The only reason why you are encouraged to have children is government propaganda to create more cogs for the system, or bioessentialism.

That's weird because the government has always encouraged me NOT to have children. As early as primary and middle school I was taught that having children is bad because of overpopulation. I think that's the most conventional grew that most people grew up with, at least where I live - except now they say there aren't enough young people to work so they import people from other countries to avoid 'the reverse population pyramid' so that's why I'm wondering how it would work to continue that reverse population pyramid worldwide, since apparently you need to import people to do the work of caring for an aging population otherwise they will suffer once you convince people to stop procreating.

No. 2553139

>>2553117
>>2553123
There would be already existing workers ideally for a retirement home and other medical areas, and the children of the already existing old people. I personally don't believe that all life should cease and not be created, but I 100% think there should be a child limit like China had. Only the bare limit to sustain population should be allowed in my belief. Ideally max of two children per mother.
>That's weird because the government has always encouraged me NOT to have children.
I wonder if this is dependent on where you live. I'm sure in most countries, especially third world motherhood is shoved on young girls. In my experience it has been here for me in USA. The propaganda really is everywhere though, for example on all sites I use, all algorithms try to shove motherhood content on me no matter how much I click "Not interested". The propaganda is also in political leaders trying to make you think abortion/birth control are bad, etc.
>except now they say there aren't enough young people to work so they import people from other countries to avoid 'the reverse population pyramid'
This is not even close to being the real reason, that's what they're telling you. For example, Indian workers get imported because it's statistically FAR cheaper to outsource from third world than to hire residents. There are plenty of young people who want to work, but shitty corporations don't want to pay real wages and instead hire these third world people for much cheaper.

No. 2553142

>>2553123
Most people who say they're antinatalist are just childfrees with normie views about reproduction. Most of them haven't gone into the weeds of the actual theory.

No. 2553161

>>2553139
>and the children of the already existing old people.
I'm asking about what happens when those children get old, and there are no more people younger than them? Like at some point during the trajectory toward extinction you are going to have a group of people on the planet that are all, say, 65-100 years old.

>I 100% think there should be a child limit like China had.

It was disastrous in China, how would you prevent the same disaster elsewhere? Anyway, that's not antinatalism so doesn't really answer my question, but it is more feasible than antinatalism so I'm interested in how you think the issues with the one-child (or two-child) policy could be fixed in the future.

>I'm sure in most countries, especially third world motherhood is shoved on young girls.

In third world countries, probably. In first-world countries it's the opposite. But then the first-world countries say they need migration from the third world to 'fix' the population pyramid. If importing young people from other countries was banned, I wonder how the countries that have the inverse population pyramid would handle things.
>on all sites I use, all algorithms try to shove motherhood content on me
That's really strange, it has never happened to me. Maybe it's because you're interested in stuff like fertility rates and your search history makes them think you're interested in parenting?
>political leaders trying to make you think abortion/birth control are bad, etc.
None of the political leaders where I've grown up have ever done that, in fact I think it's the opposite, I grew up thinking hormonal birth control was supposed to be really good and harmless, and only realized later that it has serious harms that were being covered up. But I've never experienced what it would be like to live in an anti-birth-control or anti-abortion society.

>There are plenty of young people who want to work

In elder care and shitty jobs like that? Not at the pay rates that are feasible. I know people who work in elder care and they cannot find young people who are willing to do the job at sustainable rates, many burn out and quit pretty quickly. And the pay is kind of limited by how much family members are able to pay for elderly people staying there, or how much the elderly people have saved up.

No. 2553165

Sorry if you can't figure out how to live decently while making even 50k+ you're incredibly stupid (this doesn't include people who live in HCOL areas)

You don't have to eat at the most expensive steakhouse town nightly, you don't have to live in luxury high rises or mansions. You don't need to drive a new Mercedes. Yes prices are getting up and it's getting hard but plenty of people make it work with a lot less, you just have to sacrifice. If you want more vacations, trade in your car for something cheaper/paid off, if you want a nicer home maybe get rid of that 200 a month gym membership and go to a planet fitness. If you want to shop at whole foods every week maybe choose cheaper vacations

Yes shit sucks, prices are going up, etc but don't be financially illiterate while blaming your perfectly fine salary

No. 2553167

>>2553161
>In elder care and shitty jobs like that?
Yes. People literally pay thousands for a CNA license just to make barely above min wage to care for old folks. Imagine how many people these "totally short staffed" places could hire if they offered free CNA programs, paid above 18 an hour and stopped ignoring 90% of applicants. Also most hospitals use workday where most applications don't even reach the employer

No. 2553169

>>2553165
Kek nonna I'm really curious who these hypothetical people are that you're talking about, I wouldn't think that would be an unpopular opinion at all.

No. 2553173

>>2553167
I'm guessing that's in America? All the people I know in elder care are severely understaffed and pretty much the only people that ever apply or interview for the jobs are migrants. They will occasionally hire like a 20yo non-immigrant but usually that person will quit within a few weeks. I've known some people who applied for the jobs and they got them immediately, but quit after a few weeks and decided to get jobs in retail or bartending instead. Could be different in the US though.

No. 2553199

>>2553161
I'm asking about what happens when those children get old, and there are no more people younger than them? Like at some point during the trajectory toward extinction you are going to have a group of people on the planet that are all, say, 65-100 years old.
If we impose a limit on population, there should always be someone younger than them if they chose to have children. However, even if you have children that doesn't mean they'll want to take care of their elderly parent.
>It was disastrous in China, how would you prevent the same disaster elsewhere? Anyway, that's not antinatalism so doesn't really answer my question, but it is more feasible than antinatalism so I'm interested in how you think the issues with the one-child (or two-child) policy could be fixed in the future.
It was disastrous in China because the population was skewing to male sided, and this happened because of gender-selective abortion being encouraged and abuse/abandonment of baby girls. The easy solution to that would not encourage the idea that baby girls are lesser than and do not allow for sex selective abortion, despite unfortunately the fact that IVF exists which is essentially the same thing which I also think should be abolished.
>That's really strange, it has never happened to me. Maybe it's because you're interested in stuff like fertility rates and your search history makes them think you're interested in parenting?
This is just my experience but my interests that I looked up have far exceeded anything related to antinatalism, yet I find parent content everywhere all the time.
>That's really strange, it has never happened to me. Maybe it's because you're interested in stuff like fertility rates and your search history makes them think you're interested in parenting?
Thankfully it seems like you live in a mostly good country/society (from what it sounds, I could totally be wrong) and I really should look into the perception of other countries but the USA is so severely fucked when it comes to pushing on procreation to sustain end stage capitalism.
>>2553173
Unfortunately medical and adjacent jobs usually have the highest rates of burnout and here, CNAs really do get paid shit for all for all the hard work they do. There are people still willing to do it though, as far as here where the number of nurses are growing

No. 2553216

>>2553199
>If we impose a limit on population, there should always be someone younger than them if they chose to have children.
My question was to antinatalists. They can't have children, because all procreation will end. So there will be no younger people, ever again.

>this happened because of gender-selective abortion being encouraged and abuse/abandonment of baby girls.

It wasn't really explicitly encouraged, it's just what people did. How would you stop sex-selective abortion and infanticide if you imposed a limit? Just saying 'we won't encourage the idea baby girls are lesser' won't work since it wasn't encouraged under Mao either, but it's a ubiquitous moid idea. There is female infanticide all over the world like in India too, moids are the same everywhere.

>I find parent content everywhere all the time.

That would be very annoying, I can't imagine.

>you live in a mostly good country/society

Not at all, my country is a shithole and I wish I could move to America. Just in this one particular respect the Evangelical Protestants in America seem obsessed with being anti-abortion/anti-bc which is unusual basically in every other first world country since most other countries don't really have much Evangelical Protestantism. Most countries in the OECD have far below-replacement fertility (so much less than 2 children per women) and many of them are now beginning to see it as an issue and panic, especially countries that don't allow much immigration like South Korea and Japan. Personally I don't think it necessarily is a big problem to have below-replacement fertility as long as there's still a sizeable population of young people being born (although it remains to be seen how it will pan out in countries like Japan) but that's not antinatalist at all, and I was asking antinatalists about their opinions.

No. 2553229

>>2553173
Yep. And it's weird because elderly care is so damn expensive yet CNAs are living in trailers or the hood. Where is all that money even going?

No. 2553230

>>2553169
In the previous thread an anon was complaining about 100k not being enough because she wants more extravagant vacations

No. 2553233

You have to be incredibly miserable with your own life if you feel the need to pry into everyone else's life to make (usually wrong) judgements. Idgaf why someone's a single mom, or someone is living with 3 other roommates, why someone is fat or too skinny, their food choices, why they are shoplifting, why they're on welfare,why they're wearing that, etc it's none of my business. Too many people are hyper focused on everyone else's life when they need to be focused on theirs.

No. 2553235

>>2553229
>Where is all that money even going?
'administration'
>>2553233
I have to hand it to you, that is one hell of a controversial view to hold if you use this site.

No. 2553241

>>2553233
I agree. I sometimes read cow threads but certain threads creep me out with how invasive and judgmental they are. So mean spirited, even though we are all giant losers if we use this website in the first place. I'm just here to chat with other insane women.

No. 2553254

>>2553241
Snark pages make lolcow look like logical discussion boards kek. It's almost always non stop catastrophizing about stupid shit. Gypsy rose ones were particularly deranged because they would accuse her of drugging her baby and all sorts of bizarre child abuse over nothing. Or fundie snarks that accuse someone of being an alt right conspiracy theorist for not using plastic kek so unhinged

No. 2553257

>>2553254
I get whiplash on those subreddits because I'm so used to lolcow rules, whereas they nitpick, virtue signal and blogpost to their hearts content.

No. 2553258

>>2553254
The navel-gazing and blogposting on snark subreddits make them unusable. I don’t care how totally in the right you are for judging some random person with a Instagram following’s parenting. I’m not reading a snark subreddit because I am a good person jesus christ

No. 2553263

>>2553233
Yeah that's exactly why I stopped looking at the gossip thread because it's like… Damn this is boring and sad. At some point it gets old.

No. 2553269

>>2553258
What I hate most about snark subs is they always have some bullshit moral justification for the whole thing. You just want to gossip and shit on weirdos it's fine, you're not saving the world.

No. 2553274

>>2553272
God bless you virginitychan, I really do hope you're able to pull your very own programmable blank slate virgin moid that you can train like a dog.

No. 2553276

Anytime a discussion comes up between women about feelings of plastic surgery and you get bullshit answers like, not my body it's their choice and it's like no. This is the time to get autistic and be for or against cosmetic surgery. Not talking reconstruction after an injury or disfigurement. Just wanting to be hot to strangers. No fence sitting. Yes or no. I'm in camp no. Fuck how normalised the idea of changing yourself being not a big deal. It is. It's shallow and embarrassing.

No. 2553279

>>2552627
Ayrt. I didn't say you should only date for money, and even if you do date for money, you should never only rely on his income.
>>2552614
Women are already dating for love and personality, and those women are dating ugly men too.

No. 2553280

>>2553272
I'm so sad i didn't keep my virginity to my future husband. At least he also had a partner before so i feel less bad about it. I just feel like i gave a symbol of trust away to a piece of shit.

No. 2553281

>>2553276
Voluntarily altering your face/body with cosmetic surgery shaves away little bits off of your soul's enamel and makes it weak and easier to penetrate (for demons)

Also how narcissistic is it to think literally anybody cares about the shape of your nose? You're not that important.

No. 2553282

>>2553274
It's a fucking moid ffs, he's been at it for days

No. 2553283

>>2553272
>loses ability to pair bond
What?

No. 2553288

>>2553272
You're really on a mission to shit this board up huh

No. 2553290

>>2553283
It's scrote shit where there misread hormonal functions

No. 2553291

>>2553272
I'm gonna find where you live and rape your anus to death with my fist, your not saving yourself for anyone(alog)

No. 2553293

>>2553281
True. The ones that say whatever makes people happy are the insecure losers that covet it the most. These people don't even fathom how dull their personalities are and think the world's going to stop because they made their lips look like a filled sausage or got bigger tits.

No. 2553297

>>2553276
I legitimately think that Chinese moms that force their daughters to get the eyelid surgery and Lebo moms that pressure their daughters to get nose jobs as 'gifts' are straight up abusive.

No. 2553299

>>2553295
Omg sista i can't believe how dumb anyone is to think you are one. Let's all save our virginities to men and pump out babies and marry since it's part of our nature and what us women are supposed to do! Teehee

No. 2553304

>>2553282
It's funny how he tries to blend in yet doesn't understand us at all
>chastity will protect you from sex pests and fuckbois trying to waste your time because they are known to be so honest and respectful of your boundaries!
>sex with some socially stunted porn addicted virgin who can't get a gf let alone pleasure you is akschually real romantic sex
>chastity protects you from moids knowing you naked, in the age of AI
>never regrets her choice to only have one moid as your romantic frame of reference
Just giga kek

No. 2553310

>>2553309
No, they just treat it the same way as if you tell them you're a lesbian.

No. 2553326

>>2553311
Moids also want to fuck women they hate all the time

No. 2553331

>>2553326
You're missing the point. If his goal is sex, he's just going to move on to the next woman who's easier, rather than stay hung up on one who won't even give him the time of the day.

No. 2553333

>>2553272
Sex with a moid ever is cringe. Doesn't matter if it's before or after marriage.

No. 2553336

>>2553333
I don’t wanna imagine what neither lesbian nor hetero sex look like

No. 2553344

>>2553331
Not if he wants you carnally.

No. 2553358

This is only unpopular here but I don't like femdom

No. 2553362

>>2553358
that's just because you're thinking of mommy shit, moids literally believe being subby means being served and babied unconditionally

No. 2553364

>>2553362
No I'm not just thinking of that, even when it's about using and abusing moids it doesn't do anything for me

No. 2553365

>>2553364
unfortunately it's a doggy dog world

No. 2553367

>>2553358
Same nonna, I feel like I look like a big retard if I try to dom

No. 2553390

>>2553358
As long as you aren’t a ddlg or a submissive it’s fine
>>2553368
Me

No. 2553392

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>>2553365
Omg anon it's "dog-eat-dog"
>>2553368
I don't like the things femdom anons do, it seems autistic and weird. Outside of sex-fandoms and social clubs, most normal people enjoy taking control some of the time bc otherwise sex would get boring

No. 2553397

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>>2553392
I don't know, I feel like calling it a Doggy Dogg world does far more to capture the vapidity and inescapable grind of image based modern life.

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No. 2553402

>>2553392
Or maybe it is a doggy dog world

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>>2553397
Your post made me think of this show, subconsciously hypno-anon. I think rocko has a dog and is part dog tho

No. 2553410

maybe people would care about not overbreeding and dumping their pets if humane killing and eating them was allowed at shelters

No. 2553411

>>2553396
>if you’re not dominant you’re submissive
Your brain is broken from porn

No. 2553415

>>2553410
Like…eating puppies and kitties?

No. 2553419

>>2553410
You think people who overbreed and abandon animals give a shit if they live or die?

No. 2553423

>>2553414
Women initiating (taking control) is also "plain" or not deviant tho anon. Throughout history, there have been horny women who have done this

No. 2553425

>>2553311
Because you'd have to live sheltered in some basement with no life experience to write retarded shit like this.

No. 2553432

>>2553350
Then they would just leave us the fuck alone, which they never do no matter you say. Again, something that you would learn very quickly if you were a woman.

No. 2553436

>>2553430
Any conservitard and muslim

No. 2553443

>>2553437
I would not because you defected xys still fucking harass us just for existing.

No. 2553447

>>2553441
They expect it from their women and are too ugly to score either way.

No. 2553452

>>2553392
for all intensive purposes, doggy dog works just as well

No. 2553469

>>2553453
NTA I thought the whole thing was they hate women who do put out?

No. 2553473

>>2553469
They hate women

No. 2553474

>>2553473
Who does? Men as a whole or specific groups of men?

No. 2553481

This isn’t an unpopular opinion but just on the topic of types of men that exist in our current world, I always find it funny when there are anons who'll complain that its just the conservative men and muslismists who hate us…I hate to burst your bubble deary but, I got some news for you kek

No. 2553487

Sexuality can't be stored in your brain because there are no cases of brain damage leading to changes in sexual orientation. Brain damage can increase sex drive, decrease sex drive, eliminate it, or (in the case of frontal lobe damage causing decreased inhibitions) cause people to be more open with acting on homosexual attractions they were previously hiding from people, but no actual sexuality change. Why can brain damage cause all sorts of crazy changes to your personality and desires, but never affect orientation? Doesn't that mean orientation can't be set in stone, inborn in the brain, like people assert?

No. 2553500

>>2553487
I didn't look deeply but can find some people or studies claiming their sexuality changed from brain damage if I google it. Also even if it didn't, I don't see what that would prove anything, if anything it could mean sexuality is so innate your brain doesn't even contain the codes for another sexuality no matter how much you shake it around.

No. 2553507

>>2553487
Is sexuality even one of those things thats physically stored inside your brain? I thought that was more of a sex organ thing

No. 2553508

>>2553487
Idk its definitely something inherently cause you can basically tell if a guy is gay right away.

No. 2553524

>>2553500
I deeply looked into it and the studies you are seeing are examples of decreased inhibitions in bisexual and gay closeted people, as I mentioned, not sexuality change. From a cursory glance they do at first appear to be about sexuality change, but they are not. Unless there has been new research published or you somehow found something that my mega deep dive didn't.
>>2553508
I'm not saying it's not inherent necessarily, just that it doesn't seem to be built into the brain in a concrete way.
>>2553507
That is an egyptian-ass theory…sexuality is stored in the pussy? kek I laugh but to be honest who even knows, it literally seems like no one has a fucking clue so might as well be stored in the damn pussy I guess

No. 2553528

>>2553524
When I said that sexuality is stored in our sex organs, I then realized that would be something stored in the brain too because our brain is literally the sex organs manager. KEKK

No. 2553531

>>2553524
I found a clickbaity youtube video of some scrote claiming a stroke made him gay if that counts for anything

No. 2553539

>>2553531
>>2553487
I don’t know why this is reminding me of when Shiloh had that stroke or whatever that “made her lose 3 years of memories"

No. 2553578

>>2553433
Normal sex doesn't need any of these autistic roles

No. 2553584

>>2553578
well as it's been said, if you're not the doggy dog, it's the dog that doggys you

No. 2553598

>>2553589
comparing sex to driving a car has horrifying implications.

No. 2553600

>>2553589
But the plane has 2 captains, and neither of them even fly. Isn’t that weird?

No. 2553606

>>2553600
Who are the air traffic controllers, the ground crew, stewardesses and passengers in this sex metaphor?

No. 2553616

>>2553599
analogy or not it shows a clear hierarchy where most of the power and agency with where things go when that's not how healthy bonds and intimacy generally work. someone can drive a car off a cliff…lock the doors, take it anywhere. nevermind how many men dehumanize and objectify women in bed, which isn't due to them being the "captain" but due to other failings in bonding and intimacy as well as failing to care about basics like the sexual health of their partner and enthusiastic consent. a "captain" would give a shit about covering their bases and insuring safety. on the other hand that's not what's going on in the majority of sexual situations. one is usually taking the lead…but it's not because of some special degree of knowledge and real leadership. I'm just gonna guess this is your weird fetish and leave it at that.

No. 2553623

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>>2553584
This sounds more like something dogs are always thinking and saying about each other. Or "dog logic". A capybara wouldn't concern herself with such matters, for example

No. 2553626

>>2553616
There's a healthy bond between the captain and the co-pilot, or a driver and the passenger, but there's clearly a leader here. In a herd of sheep, there will always be a sheep leading it. That doesn't mean that sheep is better or superior, it just means that there's a leader. Similarly, in sex, someone is in charge.

No. 2553627

>>2553600
A plane only has one captain. The other guy's a co-pilot or First Officer.

No. 2553629

>>2553626
That's not similar at all though. You compared all anons and every sexual situation to inherently degrading positions, where one person remains human and the other becomes an object (fucked). This kind of thinking is why women hate troons ("am hole", that troon who said to be a woman is to be a receptive fuck hole or something, etc). Very convincing and thought-provoking tactics, especially on coherent women

No. 2553631

>>2553629
Is being the First Officer more degrading than being the Captain? Is the First Officer objectified by taking orders? I'm not saying it's more degrading to be submissive, I'm just saying that in a sexual activity one of the partners is dominant.

No. 2553636

>>2553631
You don't have to say that at all, you're choosing to say it and it teaches others how you view the world. Women in general will never (ever) be receptive to the way you're presenting your worldview because only women who enjoy being submissive and humiliated at the same time are going to enjoy thinking of themselves as an animal, while the moid gets to be their human shepherd. It's so easy to rephrase everything you're saying to make it sound less bdsm-coded and humiliating to women but you're choosing to present this info in a way you know will gross them out and annoy them

No. 2553637

>>2553631
>no objectification is involved
>respect
you just made a great argument for why it's not applicable to what people see as sex a lot of the time.

No. 2553645

>>2553637
The analogy isn't perfect. The point is, two people cannot both be in charge. There can only be one person in charge. So in sex, there has to be a dominant partner and a submissive partner.
>>2553636
Where did I ever say a woman has to be the submissive one? Women can and should be dominant both in sex and in daily life. Men should be submissive and obeisant. I'm saying, during sex, both partners can't be both dominant at the same time.

No. 2553652

>>2553645
Most women take on what you would consider the "submissive" role, so would automatically fall into animal or co-pilot position. Also what you said to anon isn't even true, people just change "roles" without thinking about it when they don't have hyper-awareness of these things and are actually in the moment. You'll even see this dynamic in sex scenes on mainstream tv and notice the "power struggle". This is why when people think bdsm-fags are boring and autistic they are often correct. Honestly I imagine one of you guys stopping to point out the phenomenon of automatic breathing or noises people make when they're eating, when you're not making sex weird

No. 2553658

>>2553652
>mainstream tv
As if tv is anything like real life.
>most women are submissive
But they don't have to be.
>I imagine one of you guys stopping to point out the phenomenon of automatic breathing or noises people make when they're eating
I don't see the point you're making here.

No. 2553667

>>2553663
Literally, what the hell are you talking about?

No. 2553671

>>2553658
That's true, like when they show actors eating pieces of paper through their nose bc they don't want the audience to relate to eating. It's much more likely that porn, the thing that viscerally repulses most women upon first viewing is the thing that most looks like real sex to them as an example of a well-written sex-scene I saw on tv recently, I've finally watched "the wire" and got to the episode where Greggs cheats on her gf and could interpret from the way the actress performed (non-porn looking) titty licking that she was missing her gf's breasts, who was actively breastfeeding a moid infant she resented. This from titty licking anon.

No. 2553675

>>2553671
Doesn't change the fact that there's one dominant partner and one submissive partner

No. 2553681

>>2553675
From your point of view. What's wrong with saying that? Other people would rather not be distracted by these thoughts and who is "on top" in every moment, bc that's weird and not sexy. Do you get this or still no?

No. 2553687

>>2553681
I'm just saying the truth. It's like if I said "everyone breathes", and you get mad at me and told me not everyone want to be distracted by the thought of breathing and who is "exhaling" in every moment, bc that's weird.

No. 2553698

>>2553687
>I'm just saying the truth.
So you're just reminding these women (who you to know to be on average more "submissive") that their role is mostly as animal or co-pilot?

No. 2553706

>>2553698
I told you, women don't have to be submissive. They can and should be dominant.

No. 2553707

>>2553487
Sexuality correlates to your hormone but also there are cases where you meme'd yourself into being attracted to the same sex e.g. through porn etc a.k.a most of bisexuals



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