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the problem is if they close down pornhub a thousand other clones will pop up in its place. I do agree that the sites refusal to take down videos that depict rape and trafficking victims
is disgusting and should have ramifications, but there is no way to get rid the site itself. pornsick men will find or create another site to watch their repugnant content, it's not going to change even if ph is taken down.
It's symbolic, as >>595675
said it would show that there are consequences to profiting of rape. Also pornhub is hugely popular and trying to have an acceptable image.
What would you suggest instead?
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And what will doing nothing achieve? Pornhub has long ago managed to insert itself into normal non-porn spaces, they're trying to be seen as harmless, quirky, even benevolent and so on. For example stuff like this https://thoughtcatalog.com/jacob-geers/2015/08/11-hilarious-tweets-that-prove-pornhub-has-an-amazing-sense-of-humor/
It's become way too mainstream. Without pornhub and other big sites there might be hope for at least some social stigma against porn to return. Porn will never go away completely, but the scrotes who watch it should at least be shamed.
Thats just your typical fellow kids brand engagement. Still problematic
but if youre gonna go full repressing mode ala 3rd world countries then rape or child bride exodus would happen. Or just look up Utah sex cult.
It's created by young women who had CP of them as toddlers and rape videos of them at 14 distributed on Pornhub, and were ignored when they contacted them to remove it, lmao.
Also, this is the same site that "verifies" trafficked children as performers. But I guess no one should do anything, CP should be fine because men need to coom, right?
Pornhub should burn. Absolutely fuck them and anyone that defends them. They fucking verified a 15-year-old girl that had been missing a year. They took 30% of her earnings on the site. They literally profited directly off child porn.
if you don't see why they should be disolved as a company then idk what to say, coomer.
My unpopular opinion is that no one should have to degrade their body for money therefore selling yourself on onlyfans is not sex positivity lmao
Sex positivity stopped when everything became about money, porn, fame and power, instead of being about understanding how your body works and not being ashamed of having sex with your partner
Porn is just filmed prostitution and camgirls are engaging on it
My unpopular opinion is that the sex postivity movement is propaganda from the porn industry to socialise women into liking porn and encourage more of them to participate in making porn, thus expanding the industry and making it so that they can make even more money then ever before. I'm cool with the notion that women should be able to engage in discussions about sex, but no body ever talks about how the sex positivity movement prays on women who are mentally vulnerable and how they are groomed into taking it further and further than they originally planned because money. It's always been about money. To sell more sex toys, and lingerie and more pointless sex shit that most people don't need. All the articles about women making hundreds of thousands camming are straight up encouraging women to become sex workers. Nobody talks about people like Shayna or cam girls who literally make pennies after years in the game.>>595816>So, in other words, sex positivity never existed
Pretty much. Notice how most of the movement is catered more to fulfilling the desires of men and their ever dying need for sex. Nobody wants to talk about the women who regret everything and take them seriously. Nobody should ever feel the need that they should be doing porn.
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have you ever lived in a country that has limited a/c? it's hell on earth
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sometimes the sentiment in pic related is bs, there are certain things that if you worry that you're faking them you probably are, especially if you then go begging for validation online
>>595825>I’m sorry OP is convinced women exposing themselves “””””willingly””””” is more wholesome
I don't think it's more wholesome lmao. Did you miss the whole second half of my post or something. I'm fully aware that there are still a lot of downsides to making porn the fact that many girls don't actually make that much money from it and making porn could ruin their chances of getting a job in the future are just two examples
. My point was that if they are going to do porn (which a lot of women are these days) I think it's better if they self-produce it. At the end of the day tho, it's best if women take jobs that don't require them to sell their body.
Unpopular opinion: If (monetized) sex positivity is to be a thing, it should mean women being encouraged to draw, write and otherwise express their own sexual fantasies without shame, and an economic boom for female-made erotica that doesn't pander to men in general. Destigmatization and support for female sexuality without the need to keep men in mind (because males sure as hell don't keep us in mind when they're expressing their sexuality).
I don't really care if it's Anne Rice books, a shitton more otome games, or just fujo shit in manga/games/books/shows/films. A woman just has to be behind its creation, and it has to not depend on men buying it. I think the "sex positivity" movement in general is a load of bullshit, but if some form of sexuality has to be in everyone's face, this is the only "good" form of it I can really see for women. Anything else just seems like bullshit made up by scrotes and pick-mes to justify human trafficking and exploitation.
By the way, nobody bother replying to this insisting that the average girl on OF or Mindgeek-owned porn star who needs to be high/intoxicated out of her mind just to get through a scene is totally already expressing her deepest fantasies and isn't pandering to males for money. Sick of this cope, lmao.
>>595824>your best bet for making money is letting the whole world see up your asshole or vagina
Oh my god I laughed so hard, but literally this. Imagine showing your asshole on camera lmao
Like, language matters. I think if we say "She's being a pretty girl on camera" or something downplays and romantizices it or something like that. But if we say "She's showing her asshole for pennies" then yeah that surely hurts lol
>>595844>women being encouraged to draw, write and otherwise express>that doesn't pander to men in general
Fixed it lol
(just kidding. I agree with your post.)
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I mean you're not wrong lmao>>595864
I love that kinda nerd guy so much too
this was meant for >>595844
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You're welcome anons. Atsushi Sakurai was super handsome in the 90's with that amazing long hair!
Probably because East Asian languages borrow a lot from each other since the countries are relatively close together. It’s the same as how English speaking people have trouble telling e.g. Hungarian and Polish apart because even though they’re from completely different language families they share some vocabulary from being nearby each other.
Also iirc Korean and Japanese are pretty closely related and in the same language family, I’m not sure about Mandarin though. Mandarin has always sounded distinctly different to me than those two.
Exactly, it's why I will never really give a fuck how problematic
fujo/otome content is. Some of the fans can be cowish, but we honestly don't have enough women being truly open about what they want sexually, and I'm not particularly interested in suppressing their voices even further.
We all know what most of the people complaining are really
angry at girls and women about. Men are pissed at the concept of young girls and women discovering their sexuality without actually having to sleep with assholes, and pick-mes think everyone should suffer the same way they did. It's all so sinister. As for perma-mad fakebois, they're just trying to save their own skin and feel more "authentic" by dunking on femoids.
I wanna say this is bait but I know too many people who are too retarded to confuse a tonal language for a non tonal one.
Maybe not being able to tell Thai, Viet and Chinese apart but… Japanese? That's embarrassing to admit.
I know this is the unpopular opinion thread, but did you really think we needed to hear this so bad you posted it in 2 threads?
Anyway a persons suffering doesn't negate someone elses suffering. That's like saying women who are getting beat by their husband shouldn't complain cause some women are getting murdered by their husbands. Both situations are horrible and shouldn't happen. Also, suffering is subjective so no one can say who is "actually" suffering and who isn't
Love yourself more as a woman.
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In the past I went from being a kboo to being a weeb but now I think chinese men are the most attractive. Imo the average korean man is the ugliest, and while korean celebrities look nothing like them, they still look weird or rather only attractive to young girls, with very soft features, bowl cuts, pink lipgloss and so on (think kpop). I was also a fan of Buck-Tick and always thought "how could I ever find a bf when Atsushi (this guy >>595865
exists" lol but japanese dudes are just way too short and scrawny for my tastes (they're also a lot more tan than koreans and chinese, no idea why some people can't tell them apart?), plus many still style themselves like it's 2005.
Of course there are also many ugly chinese men but China is simply so big that there are bound to be many cuties too. Especially the younger dudes are often tall and when it comes to celebrities they seem to prefer stronger features (like bigger noses and very expressive eyes) which I like.
I agree, also hate overly heated indoor spaces in winter.
Having a huge temp difference between indoors and outdoors is unhealthy.
I live where it is regularly over 100 and I don't use AC either in my house. It's retarded how I need to bring a sweatshirt to go to the grocery store because they need to keep it at fucking 65 for all the fat boomers.
Used the RTD in Denver a lot in the past too, and in winter they keep it at like 80 degrees. So you're suffering in your winter gear the whole ride since its too crowded to take it off. Bah.
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She looks better in the second pic.
>>596076>Love that women get treated like "innocent wittwe babies" who can do no wrong. So sick of the idea that women can't criticize other women without being called a scrote on this site.
What kind of lolcow is this? We still laugh at Shayna, Luna, and Momokun lmao
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>>596076>>596076>Love that women get treated like "innocent wittwe babies" who can do no wrong.
lol ok anon. unironically pic related.
ok I'm probably going to get grilled for this but It's my truth. Back in high school I had a fascination with making fake accounts on dating sites. It just really buttered my biscuits knowing I managed to convince someone that I'm a real person when I'm not. I used to pretend to be guys because it seemed more rewarding to convince girls who are by definition smarter and not as desperate to nut that I was real than guys. Anyway, I was talking to a girl and literally an hour into our conversation she sent me a full on nude. She was the LAST person I ever thought would do something like that. I was so taken aback. I literally lectured her on how stupid of a move that was and how I could be a complete fake (kek) and do something terrible with that photo. I then told her that she needs to stop seeking validation from men and that any man on the internet would tell her she had a great body because they reeked of desperation.
It was disturbing..
I'm sorry anon
Sometimes I just re-read her thread because she was so fascinating to me. >>596173
Was not expecting the post to end that way but wow
what was her response anon?
I know that feel anon, sometimes you don’t even need to pretend being someone else, I somehow end up getting nudes from random men/women just because we talked for a few days, I end up feeling bad for them and lecturing them as well about how there’s so many shitty things that could happen to them if their nudes ended in the wrong hands.
Both sides suck, the pornsick assholes asking for nudes and the idiots sending them.
I agree, the idea of anal is honestly disgusting to me, and naked asses are just awkward to look at most of the time. When they look good in jeans or something I don't mind, but it's not something I'm that attracted to. >>595904
Hell he still looks hot at 55+ years old lol. Always nice to see my husband when he's posted here
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Nemu was my favorite cow. She had so much milk to give.
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I'd never heard of her until this thread. Just spent the last hour or so reading through her old threads. Fucking hell that's something.
I think the funniest and most annoying thing about her thread was the fact that her friends came into the later threads to shit on her, only to reveal that they were just as bad. One of them drew ugly shota porn and another one shipped herself with an irl person kek
I will say even if her content was repulsive, her actual art skills were pretty good. If she wasn’t so fucking gross I probably would been a fan of her art.
ayrt and I forgot to mention that I find it so weird that you were a kboo first and then a weeb. It's usually the other way around lol.
I also wanted to ask if you've been to both korea and japan or just china?
My thoughts exactly, I do find some japanese men attractive but I wouldn't exactly call chinese/vietnamese/korean/etc ugly either?
Imagine saying something like "Black guys from Kenya are sooo hot, but people from Sudan are fucking ugly. I preffer Togolese over Ghanaian, because they have better bone structures and better skincolor" It sounds weird. It is weird.
agreed idk like real life men vs. men in entertainment are pretty different so the comparisons are skewed
also, i guess its fine if someone has some kind of preference but realistically its strange if you find someone more attractive after they reveal "i am from thailand" or something like if its a good looking guy thats fine enough
My unpopular opinion is that I used to love anal when I was younger and I mean it probably still feels good but I recently learnt that men actually love anal not only because it is "tighter" or "warmer" but because they love seeing an asshole stretched out, destroyed, full of cum since we can't get pregnant from our ass, but also, because they love "painal"
And I didn't know this, but painal is basically women crying and hurting from forced anal sex. And then I learnt that men/society actually expects anal to be hurtful and painful, so since that's expected, you're supposed to just take it as a woman. So then I saw that men actually love looking at porn of women hurting, kicking, crying, and screaming while the guy rams his cock on her butt, even saying "please stop". After seeing this, I felt horrible and wondered if this is a form of """legal""" rape that guys do and this is why they don't warm up the girl's asshole like how it should be done so it feels good for us. And now I feel like I don't like anal anymore at all… not when it means something like this for men.
Sorry if my wording sounds too graphic
american anime fans are so weird. imagine your country getting bombed and the country that attacked you gets obsessed and has big parties for copying and fetishizing your style. sounds like an abusive
People that bring their children to class are the biggest assholes. I hate seeing those videos where the Professor is carrying around the baby instead of teaching, disrupting everyone elses learning. I understand the argument of "but child care expensive" but college is also expensive. Why should someone get a sup-par learning experience because of someone elses personal issues?
Whether you call it "just a personal preference" or "a sick fetish", does it really matter in the end? Those asian men aren't poor little victims
of disgusting white/black women, they willingly date each other, so it shouldn't really be a problem to outsiders. It's not like you have old women buying innocent Asian boys, it's young girls who want a kpop or animuh bf and asian dudes who want to fuck a foreigner.
And let's not act as if rating women based on all sorts of things, including nationaly/race, isn't one of mens' favorite past times…
It probably depends on the film, but if it is consensual and she's acting, it's still roleplaying rape and torture, in which case why are these men okay with that being a part of their sexuality??
If she's not acting and it's not consensual, then that's just rape on film.
The problem is that they can both look the same as each other.
Not even an opinion it's just the upsetting truth, they mainly get off on causing women pain.>>596424
Agreed, I had a professor who would stop every single time someone pulled out a laptop or phone and it wasted so much time. None of us actually cared what other people were doing.
British food is the most disgusting
This is a fact
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This is the correct opinion. Pic related is unironically considered a meal here by the vast majority of people.
I often daydream about being a guy and how good I would be at it. I already have a bunch of masculine hobbies, and I would love to go for a classic masculine aesthetic. I’d be hot and romantic and make some girl unimaginably happy. Sigh.
In reality I would probably be a dick, since even men with great moms can’t seem to escape it. But a girl can dream
Cannot stand anything pickled, the smell of vinegar makes me want to wretch.
I love olives but they’re usually preserved in brine which is ok, I tend to avoid otherwise
It's kind of interesting thinking about that. I genuinely love foods people consider weird like menudo, head, tongue, fried small intestine, kimchi, etc.
Hell I'd even eat bugs but I look at beans and toast and wouldn't touch it with the ten foot pole. At the same end I'm sure the beans and toast people find what I enjoy disgusting.
It's's fine to hate weird shit as long as you're not mocking the people who eat it to their faces.
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sorry guys, I like facts
Well it's probaby because you call it disgusting and don't say any legitimate reasons why you think so.
That's just basically an ad hominem attack on anyone involved, I'm sure if you have actual reasons why you find it disgusting more people could agree w/ you, anon
Other than the reasons this anon >>597107
listed, I just think the act of selling sex is disgusting in itself. The people who defend it say it's been around for ages but it doesn't make it less disgusting imo.
in an ideal utopia people should be put under some kind of test to determine whether they are fit for parenting or not
financially, mentally, physically
i believe many social issues are rooted in bad parenting
Anyways, I love my amazing snakes. >>597246
???? Trafficking? Foxes, opossums and most snakes are all native to the US, I'm confused.
I used to think people reclaiming polyamory openly was a good thing, that way it would weed out all the people wasting another person's time in so called monogamous relationships by being cheaters and manipulators.
But I was wrong.
Cheaters and manipulators still want focused attention from one person in their monogamous relationships while they fuck around. Polamorous people are just narcissistic enough to believe they're admired by multiple people and therefore don't need monogamy for security, even though I always see them spend a disproportionate amount of time with one particular partner. People are fucking stupid.
Bruh do you have any idea how little live action BL there is that isn’t trash? Lots of us liked the show because of how scarce good BL live action shows are, but even then, if outside of the male main characters, the male actors are not attractive at all imo. I liked the Untamed but it sure didn’t turn me into a Chinaboo. If anything I still resent China’s government despite agreeing with this anon >>595985
that Chinese men tend to be more attractive, prob bc like anon said, there’s more variance in looks due to the larger population.
I used to think being openly polyamorous, openly trans, openly queer or whatever was a good thing, because Tumblr fed me with ideas that it was a positive thing as a teen and therefore if I didn't believe in it I was a bad person.
Kinda like believing in god because the church told you to or else you would become a sinner
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I love some of Princess Nokia songs (tomboy, brujas, young girls, orange blossom) but she always made me feel suspicious or like she's weird. Not the good kind. Like there's something fishy going on.
Maybe it's because she changes personalities and accents and styles a lot, always coming out as self centered.
The Tomboy/1992 era was amazing, it felt like she was very comfortable with her skin and who she is, she looked so cute and natural too. But now she's making this generic ass music looking like pic related… what happened? any other fans that have noticed this?
Totally agree, and I’ll also add:>friction breeding guilt when you start to grow into less compatible people
I like my childhood friends but we’re all so different now, I couldn’t call them close.
I am empathetic, and these women look like they're suffering. Look at their faces. Look at the way they live. Look at how they compete for crumbs of love.
This idea of glamorous poly relationships were everyone is in love with each other and fuck willingly is a nutjob fantasy. It's not real. More often than not "polyamorous" men use this excuse as a way to have as many wives as possible, making each one miserable, and fucking one after one then searching for a new victim
whenever they're tired. It's something manipulative, often by narcissits who play the role of the head of the herd. There's also always a favorite one, and if that shit hurts between children and their parents, imagine that shit between lovers.
Manipulators do this all the time. They try to convince everyone, that everything is fine. That there's no hurt in this. That it's all sunshine and rainbows. They manipulate their victims
's families, and entire communities like this. I just can't support this bullshit.
lmfao some random video that is obviously an extreme example because it's made for tacky reality TV is not an example of anything. That's not exclusive to polyamory. Not everyone has the same view of relationships and sex that you or these women do.>>597359
Pretty much the same outcome even if the reasons for it are different.
>>597365>an example is not an example
sure jan>same outcome
Read a book sis
Yeah, I can totally understand judging it in this kind of context. I definitely take issue with one-sided poly where men can have a harem, but all the women need to be exclusive to him. Especially when manipulative tactics such as religion are used to justify the double standard.
I also firmly believe it's wrong to have a "multiple baby mama" situation like this guy. One dad with multiple wives who each has kids with him is just simply not good for children.
You want a real example? Have a real example.
Like I said, it sounds like my idea of personal hell, but I also know anecdotes really mean nothing when trying to talk meaningfully about a topic as a whole - especially coming from likely scripted reality shows.>>597372
Do you not think I can find examples of bad or abusive
monogamous relationships? I'm not going to watch a stupid youtube video and I'm not saying polyamory is inherently good or could never be abusive
, but that it's not inherently bad or worse than monogamy. Unless you have any actual research that supports the idea it is then I'm not going to be convinced by random Youtube videos or TV shows, it's worrying if that's how you form your opinions on things.
>>597374> I'm not going to watch a stupid youtube video
Ntayrt but why did you say the video that they provided before wasn't good enough then? like >Anon provides example of bad polyamory>"No that video isn't good enough!!!">Gives two more, non-produced examples, >"I'm not going to watch that!"
Also, who said there are no abusive
I've done literally nothing to prove it's good nor do I think it's good, I think it's in and of itself neutral>>597378
Because the video wasn't good enough? By that I didn't mean I wanted more videos I meant I wanted some actual data or something. Do you think I don't think there are examples of bad polyamory? There are also examples of bad everything in the world.
>Also, who said there are no abusive monogamous relationships?
Where did I say anyone did? I'm saying that posting videos of someone's personal experience means nothing representative.
So why didn't you just ask for data then? Or do the research yourself to find data that is against/for polyamory. You yourself didn't even provide any data.
The fact that that anon provided a video that "wasn't good enough" shouldn't have even mattered if you weren't going to watch them.>Where did I say anyone did? I'm saying that posting videos of someone's personal experience means nothing representative.
You implied it right here.>Do you not think I can find examples of bad or abusive monogamous relationships?
Imo, that is implication that anons were saying monogamous relationships are completely devoid of abuse.
my other unpopular opinion is that I miss /cgl/-driven lolcow, I feel like closing PULL was also something that made people migrate here
But like, /cgl/ is dead, everything about it just feels like is dying, and so this website was destined to change either way
I mean on an individual level not necessarily on a societal/policy level, I think it leads to the same outcome on those specific issues, like in the context of polyamory someone viewing it as negative because you believe it's inherently immoral because of your beliefs over power dynamics of men and women vs believing it's inherently immoral because of some moral panic over your beliefs on 'degeneracy' or whatever still leads the to the outcome of the individual viewing it negatively without any actual evidence to support their position and to the stigmatisation of it>>597433
I didn't say there was a problem with it
>>597434>still leads the to the outcome of the individual viewing it negatively without any actual evidence to support their position and to the stigmatisation of it
And there you go with your MUH FACTSSS GIVE ME RESEARCH!!! Again
Why even spoonfeed you when you're a retard
And what's the matter with that?
Who really cares, thing is, Normies, Trads, Radfems and whatever "think similar" because well… we're all trying to not be degenerates here
Outcomes vary. Normies go on with their normie life, trads become passive wives, and radfems become cool tomboys
Gee it's almost like normal people know degeneracy is not okay, unlike the woke twitterfags who push this shit so hard in the name of "progression"
But is there any reason not to have a negative, or at least skeptical view on the whole thing?
Is there any evidence to support it as a positive? If we want to go down the "It's neutral" route, shouldn't there be just as much evidence to balance out a positive viewpoint as a negative? If pretty much all the examples we're exposed to are, coincidentally, very unfortunate, why shouldn't something like that be avoided and looked down on in general?
From what we've been exposed to, we even know that polyamory carries a new kind of risk regarding the safety of children (see: that example of a polycule where the woman's child got molested by one of her several male partners). Somehow, I don't think it's all just fake, slanderous sensationalism.
I have a lot of trouble seeing why it shouldn't be stigmatized, to be honest. There are countries with traditions of men having multiple wives, and enlightened people from those places know it's bullshit and staunchly reject it because it's so destructive. They can attest to what they've seen with their own eyes.
Meanwhile, Twitter queers and fake "progressives" are acting like they're discovering fresh new ground and are like "no one truly knows whether it's good or bad, be more open-minded guys" when the participants are boomers or college students in Seattle and a few of them have green hair and inject hormones. It's just the same shit, different colors and different terminology for the same bad dynamics. Maybe a bit more gaslighting and slightly more convoluted psychological abuse, since western men who skew left are adeptly trained at that sort of thing (right-wing men will straight up abuse women and then cite their holy book, left-wing men will abuse women, tell them they're "toxic
", "hurting everyone around them", and put them on blast in a super-long thread of pure lies so everyone in their social group shuns them).
Hell, on theory alone, if monogamy has so many pitfalls, just think of the nuclear damage having multiple partners
would cause if it was properly introduced into the mainstream, lmao.
Exactly. If monogamous relationships are messy enough, polyamorous ones are just going to overly complicate things into oblivion, people are flawed and thinking everything about a relationship is fun and games and love and romance is just childish as fuck… but make it worse with the polyamorous fantasy that green-haired queers plocaim to want. A self respecting adult knows this shit just doesn't work and will not put themself into this awry situation. But also, Narcs who are into this shit just know how to manipulate everyone their own way so well.
Also, someone who pushes their idiology onto you can't be good. Even worse when you reject it, because they'll call you names. For Jehova Witnesses, you're called a sinner. For abusers, you're ungrateful. For woke people, you just aren't progressive or "open minded" enough.
Open minded, my ass. That's just some random meaningless buzzwords that people like to throw around. I don't have to be "open minded" if I trust in my intuition and knowledge of what's good for me or not.
What would be the normal autistic traits and which ones would be fully autism?
I'm asking for real here dunno if I'm wording this right
Technically I don't think it's as easy as just saying that some traits are autistic and others aren't. The point I was trying to make is that just having SOME traits that could be considered autistic shouldn't be enough to warrant a diagnosis. I also think that people should be seen by more than one clinician over a number of months, or even up to a year, in order to receive a diagnosis of anything.
I know that a lot of people claiming to have autism are self-diagnosed, but I don't even trust clinicians on this shit half of the time.
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I get you, I'm very pissed at this bitch with her fake autism too, it's annoying as hell. Maybe I'm stupid but recently I understood myself as an autistic girl because I had many many traits including oral stimming and shit. I'm not sure what I'm even trying to say here, I just know I'm autistic for real, and I don't want to go through another diagnosis again because last time I tried to get a diagnosis one psycheatrist saw me being stressed and immediately came to the conclusion I had bpd with no test. Literally with no test. Then another psychologist told me I had hpd because I liked dressing like a retard and trusted people too much. Where I live these diagnostics are not an option
>>597626>autism in women is super difficult to detect though
It wouldn't be if the system used to diagnose weren't broken and based in flawed science. We have no way to physically look for autism, much less any disorder in the DSM, in an individual. There are no blood tests, body scans or brain imagining that can use to detect any abnormalities associated with autism, like we can with medical disorders such as diabetes or cancer. It's all based on self-reporting by the patient and clinician opinion. All of this is just made more confusing by the fact that many disorders in the DSM have overlapping traits, and others are virtually indistinguishable from each other. You can go to multiple clinicians for the same problem and receive a different diagnosis from every single one of them.
Autism is actually a great example I often use to illustrate why the DSM should be taken with a grain of salt, even if you've been professionally diagnosed. There is, supposedly, such great variability within autistic individuals that they can appear to have almost nothing in common. I'm somehow supposed to believe that the non-verbal dude in the wheelchair drooling all over himself, who is going to need extensive help completing daily tasks for the rest of his life, somehow has the SAME EXACT DIAGNOSIS as the introverted woman in her thirties who lives alone, is sensitive to certain clothing textures and only ever wants to talk about her extensive model train collection? It's fucking asinine.
Until we actually develop a reliable method(s) for detecting brain/genetic abnormalities in individuals that concretely distinguish them from "neurotypical" or "mentally healthy" people, the psych community should be focused on narrowing the diagnostic criteria for clarity's sake, rather than constantly expanding upon it. This serves virtually no purpose other than to create more confusing for everyone involved, as well makes it more likely for anyone who seeks help from a clinician to a.) receive a diagnosis when their issue may simply be situational, b.) receive multiple diagnoses they may not even have, or c.) to be misdiagnosed entirely, and repeatedly.
>the community encourages self diagnosis
This is stupid, and I can at least give credit to the field for discouraging this, but I can't say I blame people for self-diagnosing when it's so common to receive multiple, conflicting diagnoses from actual professionals who apparently have more interest in wanking over meaningless categorization as opposed to engaging in actual science. Or like, actually helping people by simply trying to meet them where they're at.
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Unpopular opinion: more men are like this more often than not, and the fact that they are openly like this in public spaces makes me deeply uncomfortable and lose faith in them.
Also, this is a current thread on /adv/. That board is just full of men like this, I see threads of men asking for retarded things like this all the time. Last time I went there I saw some guy encouraging another guy to fuck as many escorts as possible.
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another unrelated thing from /adv/.
this is why i get so annoyed when anons start screeching at other anons shitting on men. Men talk like this about women constantly and publicly. It's not even seen as a big deal anymore because it's so normalized.
The best thing you can do is remind males that they're responsible for 90%> violent crime and are dropping out of school more than women. They made themselves obsolete in a system they created kek
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Thing is anon, these men don't even care. Look at how this dude responds to that thread. It's infuriating.
>Anything is on the table from yelling at her, hitting to raping. She is your wife now, your property. Do as you please.
I want to vomit.
I got banned from Instagram for saying men suck while men post shit like this elsewhere lmao
Use this shit to pink pill women. This right here is why you should never give up anything for a moid.
>>597672>Men talk like this about women constantly and publicly.
Anonymous imageboards aren't exactly "public." I get that shitting on men can be cathartic, but after a certain point it starts to become a hindrance. Believing that all men only mean to harm you only hurts you in the long run. It's not mentally healthy.>>597677>>597676>>597673
Why are you even reading this? Does it actually surprise you that ugly dudes larp as psychopaths on 4chan?
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I don't think they're larping anon. Pic related, response of one anon to "anything is good including raping them">>597679
Yeah, men can always say whatever they want about how much they want to rape us. Just look at all comments on pornhub, from brutal ganbang videos to camgirls.>>597681
You would be surprised how many men actually are proud of this behaivor irl.>Believing that all men only mean to harm you only hurts you in the long run. It's not mentally healthy.
It would be worse if I trusted them all. I agree not all men are bad. But this is disturbing.
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>>597684>Those little shits probably haven’t left their rancid B.O loaded bedrooms since 7/11 national free slurpee day.
>>597683>Just look at all comments on pornhub, from brutal ganbang videos to camgirls.
You're literally cherry picking comments from the worst possible places on the internet to justify your fear of men. Yes, obviously some men are awful, but it only seems like they're all bad when you're specifically going out of your way to find proof of such.>>597686>red pill lessons
Are you fucking kidding me right now? Anon you're literally just unnecessarily upsetting yourself by watching stuff like this. Find something else to do ffs
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The only valid
varg is long hair varg.
P-please.. stop ..,stop being mean to men ,,I like m-men so
Do you really think that your kids are no longer going to require any attention/assistance from you when they're in school? Trying to establish a career in your 30's when you already have kids is about 10x harder than doing so in your 20's, without kids, when you actually have the time and the stamina. This is going to be especially difficult for you if you're also married and don't have a degree and would need to return to school. You're much less likely to receive financial aid in that case.
Honestly, there's about an equal amount of pros and cons to having kids at a later age vs. younger. Most of the cons of having kids younger is more to do with general lack of maturity on behalf of the parents, as well as a higher likelihood of divorce.
>>597710>30s>kids in school>do whatever I want
is this a bad larp or are you just delusional? Good luck establishing a career with a decade gap and doing whatever you want while your entire wage packet goes to kids clothes/trips/etc
Bea the system by not having kids or getting married and live the true do the fuck what you want life
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It sounds like they already have
>>597719>Do you really think that your kids are no longer going to require any attention/assistance from you when they're in school?
Yeah, one of the main reasons I don't want kids is because I remember how stressful and busy my school years were for my parents and I. It was bad enough for me running around to extra curricular activities, sports, dance concerts, friends houses, parties, getting my school work done, all those projects… and how it must have been 100x worse for my poor parents, particularly my mum, because they had to actually organize everything, drive me everywhere, and help me or do things for me while I was being a grumpy little bitch about it all. I'm nearly 30 and I still constantly need their help lmao.
But they are noticeably so much happier and more relaxed now I'm older and they're retired, so maybe getting it out of the way early isn't a bad idea.
are you perhaps a scrote
I don't think all men are like this. I think a lot of them are though, and farmhand can see if someone is samefagging or a scrote with post history and ban them, so pretty much you're being retarded thinking e v e r y o n e
here who disagrees with you is the same person
But to be frank I think you're the same person who thinks polyamorous relationships are not degeneracy, so lmao
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>>597728>I think you're the same person who thinks polyamorous relationships are not degeneracy, so lmao
I'm not that person. I guess we're both retarded.
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Fair enough, I am indeed retarded.
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I'm not that person either. Stop this. Jfc we all suck.
this is the best take ive seen all night and i agree wow>>597395
i predict it too but still hope not
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the asherasgarden redtext pisses me off so much. I get farmhands think it's funny to put on tranny sperging, what the fuck ever, but doing it to the post in pic related is retarded. It was posted in /ot/ in reply to a discussion about a reddit post in the reddit thread. How is that off-topic?
From what i read in meta admin goes awol for weeks at a time. She needs to just sell the site because most of the farmhands are her friends so we can get rid of them, too.
Hah that was me, thanks for the support anon. It was also my only post in that discussion, it's not like I was sperging out and shitting up the thread.
Anyway bans are totally arbitrary and inconsistent, sometimes we go weeks without any bans for talking shit about men and trannies, sometimes we get banned for the slightest mention. It's sad because you know no male oriented image board has similar rules to ban misogynists, we're always the ones who have to shut up and be nice. It's also stupid because how are you gonna have a whole board for women and expect them not to vent about the opposite sex? It's inevitable and normal, not politicizing the board beyond acceptable levels.
It pisses me off a lot too, what anon was saying wasn't even like, out of field manhating times 10. It was a logical understandeable post.>>597774
I understand when people say not all men are bad, because it is true. But other women harassing women over "omg don't go hating men!!!" just seems sad and desperate to me. Men don't go on men's spaces and say "don't hate on women omg not all women are bad!!!" they generally all agree on their extreme views of us
My unpopular opinion is that /xx/ was destined to go. In fact, I feel like it was rigged from the start. The poll that we had at the top was just a google forms document, anyone with a gmail account could enter. Meaning, it wasn't just us regular farmers who voted, it was everyone who visited the site, including tourists, scrotes, trannies and cows.
I never ever even knew what /XX/ was, what it stood for, where it was located, and at the time I just answered "no I don't know what it is, but we can keep it". A lot of people both answered that they didn't know, and they didn't want to keep it. Idk. It's fishy to me. >>597771>She needs to just sell the site because most of the farmhands are her friends so we can get rid of them, too.
But what if it's sold to an even worse owner?
It's funny because it (/xx/) was actually working just fine. There was no reason for anyone except trannies to be mad at it. And then she made up shit about the results being "faked" because they still
didn't go in her favor, kek.
I feel the same way. Some bans are understandable because the derailing is extreme but lately the bans seem to be getting super arbitrary.
I wasn’t here for the drama, so maybe I’m missing something, but what the fuck is the logic of deleting the containment /xx/ board and then punishing people for talking about /xx/ topics elsewhere? Like you literally nuked the containment area, what are you expecting? That anons were just gonna be good little girls and shut up completely bc uwu man hate is uncool? It just doesn’t seem like a reasonable expectation to me.
Like previous anon said, male dominated image boards don’t ban for (often violent) misogyny, which is arguably much worse than a bunch of women venting about how shit men have treated them.
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This is a good breakdown of everything
I think things were actually going well at first, in spite of the survey and /xx/ fiasco. The admin and mods chilled on the anti-radfem shit with time, maybe they got bored.
I agree with the theory that they recently got a new farmhand from Twitter who's dumb as a brick and new. It's the only way to explain the more nonsensical bans.
It's so stupid lol they're talking as if it's heroine. How pathetic are you to lack this much self control. It's so easy to just not go on a porn site. And they'll also get triggered
by seeing anything sexual. I have a pretty high sex drive but porn ads, sexual images on imageboards etc do nothing for me. Male sexuality is weird
Nofap is the first step for a healthier sexuality for many though>>597832
I understand them, sometimes the need to masturbate is too big to ignore, even more if you're used to do it everyday at the same hours like clockwork. So you're used to looking at tiddies on a screen because it gets you off. That's how it happens, probably depressed men and women get so needy that they need it, the way porn controls the mind is kind of underplayed
This comes from someone with a high livido who gets easily aroused and was groomed as a kid. I'm still working on my porn addiction and a healthier sex life without porn (especially because I lean radfem). Maybe mine is different to how scrotes experience it but I do understand why it happens. It is quite shitty and quite embarassing, and I hate it, and I do agree it should be mocked to oblivion, but I mean, it's better than crack, I hope I'll be porn free in the future.
I feel like the whole internet, especially female-oriented spaces, will eventually mature when both us millenials and zoomers get older and start marrying and having children. Like, yes there will be the teens that are growing up with creepy youtube videos atm, but there will be more moms, so to speak, because we outnumber them and they probably will use their own kind of social media.
That said, I can't wait for lolcow to have parenting advice threads. No, it won't be cringe like those boomer forums. It will be cool, funny, cute, and full of amazing moments. Can't wait.
same. i never had a bf (20 y/o) but if i did, i'd probably tell him that i wanna wait 1 year before sex. even if he is very trust-worthy and shows no flags, the minimum i can go is 6 months.
lots of people think i'm a prude for it but especially if you're a virgin, it's important to be cautious of being used imo. no guy who is only here you for his own pleasure (meaning fucking you) is going to wait long, so you weed out people who fetishize your inexperience.
Some women don't feel emotional attachment to every man they sleep with and yet enjoy the physical company and touch of a man without signing up to be his gf.
I actually think that's a useful ability, that way women don't stick around in bad relationships just because some dude stuck his dick inside her.
As someone who continues having humiliating sex with complete strangers, it’s a mix of self harm, carelessness and mental illness. I probably will never be able to have a healthy relationship.
It’s so bad that one time I met some guy in the hotel lobby when I was super drunk, we talked for maybe two minutes and I agreed to have sex with him. In the middle of it I threw up all over the bed. Then I walked to the bathroom and continued vomiting so violently I pissed myself, so he had to wash me in the shower. This was all while his friends were still in the room. After that we continued having sex until he finished.. If I saw that guy on the street I would not recognize him.
Not sure why we’re only talking about extremes, there are a lot of healthy options between >>598010
Honestly, it's more your behavior. I'm sad that it's actually you.
Please, please seek help. You deserve better than the way these disgusting men treat you. I was so grossed out at the thought of that man still fucking you to his completion/pleasure despite you puking/pissing in the bed or whatever. Like that's an instant turn off for normal people. You were obviously way too drunk to consent. Your behavior is not good and honestly gross, but being taken advantage of by scrotes speaks volumes of them as well. Love yourself, please, we are collectively begging.
I understand this train of thought but to be frank even though I'm for real very touch starved, the thought of another man who I have no relation with touching me and wanting to put his dick inside me makes me feel very repulsed>>598019>I probably will never be able to have a healthy relationship.
Anon please don't say that… this thought is exactly what is not letting you have the healthy relationship you deserve. I believe in you, please don't put yourself down and work on yourself.
I would not even really call this kid a man tbh, he was like 16 or something (I know even worse considering I was 20). Idk what the fuck is wrong with me. Way too many similar stories and it’s just so nasty. But not all of the men I have been are awful some were very sweet and treated me well, there was just always some obstacle (distance mostly, that it never worked out).
I’m such a fucking cow myself I cannot even judge anyone who gets posted here s2g.
I made my first boyfriend wait for 9 months to sleep with me (I was 19 years old and a virgin), and after two months of that (eleven months going out as a couple) he left me.. turns out he just wanted to have sex with a virgin girl, and I know this because some of our mutual friends told me that he said that to them, so, careful with that mindset.
It's better to weed out people paying attention to the red flags than to just make them wait
look at the american lol
the guy took advantage of, if not even raped finn anon, hes a piece of shit.
Please Finn Anon, get help, we are all concerned for you.
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yeah yeah sure it's gross sure we all agree. Have your woke points for today
There wasn’t even a power imbalance, anon was clearly the vunerable party.
Honestly americans being so weirdly hung up on acting like 16 year olds are poor bby children Is sick as hell, no one magically matures when they turn 18.
I have not scammed or taken adventage of anyone, just acted like a trashy crazy person. >>598055>>598050>>598046
I mean you’re forgetting that scrotes are way more privileged in society.
But yeah no i dont think its that weird.
25 and 16 sure creep territory, 20 and 16 not really..
Men are objectively grosser and more disgusting. This behaivor of taking advantage of women is prevalent in them, and you know it.
A woman would not fuck a drunk guy who just hit his head falling down, with vomit and piss all over. A man, any age, would. They even stick their dick inside raw chicken breasts for god's sake.
No. As long as you're being respectful and not abusive
When people think of age gap couples they're thinking of how poorly men treat younger women. They dont get it's not the same situation for women.
I feel zero sympathy. She's an annoying af attention seeker, spreading talk about her to multiple threads, fishing for compliments, manipulating everybody into saying that it's not her fault (because the past of finland), you just know she's hell to be around irl. >uwu seek help, you deserve so much better than those disgusting men (teen boys)
She's disgusting too, she spreads her legs for anything that moves. Your problem can be easily solved, just stop being a hoe if you regret it afterwards. And if you tend to lose control when you're drunk, why even go out drinking in the first place? You said you were with a friend, aren't you ashamed in front of her? Or is she the same? Seriously, just limit your fun time to activities during the day and you're all good. Now you're even spinning the narrative from bad sex to rape (by an underage dude…) You're embarassing, just fuck off and reflect.
Vomiting everywhere drunk people can’t consent.
Hypersexuality is major sign of mental illness and trauma in women.
Teenagers aren’t saints, “boys” commit as many atrocities as “adults” or you’re going to start defending school shooters because they weren’t 18 too?
Stop being a pickme and defending a rapist lol
Stop being a prude brat anon, nobody cares you pickme virgin.
Finn anon, from the americas we are rooting for you. I hope you decided to get some help so you don’t find yourself in dangerous situations around predatory men.
And when I said
>Don't fuck teenagers when you're an adult
I was speaking in general, but people are sperging the fuck out thinking that pointing that usually good rule of thumb = you are complicit in being taken advantage of kek try reading comprehension bitches
>>598081>She's an annoying af attention seeker
I haven't seen a single comment of her asking for attention.>she spreads her legs for anything that moves.
You're worse than an scrote. This is fucking disgusting anon.>just stop being a hoe
It's not that easy for some mentally ill women, and finnanon clearly wants to stop.>why even go out drinking in the first place?
Why be disgusting to an anon that has nothing to do with you?>Now you're even spinning the narrative from bad sex to rape
She didn't say it was rape. I said it.
Yeah, that's exactly the impression one get's after the your dozens of posts, including your bruised legs etc… Tell your many irl friends they need to smack some sense into your retard head.>>598087>>598088>prude pickme virgin
There's women who fall victim
to men and there's brainlets who let every scrote dick them down, not supporting the latters behavior is just natural. Coddling her won't do any good. By continuing to post about how awful it was, she already confirmed that this is something one regrets and not something that only prudes would find vile.
Maybe don’t bring that up in a situation where I was taken adventage of? 16 year old are not saints anymore, especially men>>598088>>598087
I should not have brought that age thing up apparently, some underlying pickme element is still visible here apparently
I could have also talked about the times I was molested by men who were 10+ years older, but I thought that was a good example
nta but being a "prude" is obviously better in this scenario>>598099>It's not that easy for some mentally ill women
vibrators exist and are a lot better than the average dick
>>598099>You're worse than an scrote. This is fucking disgusting anon.
It's literally the truth, she said so herself.>>598102
Oh and now you yourself also start calling anons anti feminists for not giving you said excuse of an adult women asspats for your irresponsible behavior… Seriously, grow up.>>598104
She seeks out sex with strangers despite knowing that it's dangerous and something she regrets afterwards, if you think that's the same as women getting assaulted or having male family members turning onto them, then I don't know what to tell you.
Most of them have cuddled with me afterwards and did stuff like give me a ride home ot bought me drinks or food or whatever. I just push the nice ones sway because I don’t want anyone to actually get to know me>>598115
How is calling another woman a whore who "spreads her legs for anything that moves", feminism?
How is being rude to her, calling her disgusting names… feminism?
How is yelling at her going to help her at all?
>she said so herself
She said that she has had very bad stupid retarded choices, but you worded it in a very disgusting way.
>>598125>I just push the nice ones sway because I don’t want anyone to actually get to know me
This sounds like a loser 13-year-old writing a self insert wattpad story. So cold and mysterious…>>598132
Feminism =/= "I support any idiot who happens to be female"
Anon… you're making it really hard to defend you lol
Just… don't oh god
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I felt really bad and was rooting for you at first, but now I see you're pathetic as fuck. Good god woman, get a grip.
me too, kind of. it was one of the few kpop related online places i followed
stan twitter is autism
>>598147>I would rather let some guy put his dick in my asshole than tell him my favorite song or whatever.
You're only proving me right. At this point I just think you're a troll.
I hope all you fags who wrote pathetic "I love you finnanon!" posts have a bad day, quit being so fucking gullible. And just because you are a woman and somebody else claim to be a women too doesn't you must defend all of their retarded actions. "Her" posts stank right from the get-go, don't be so nice all the time, especially not to people who don't deserve your time and effort.
I’m just so pathetically insecure.
It’s not a joke. I would prove that I’m a real life crazy person if I cuould :(
She may be trolling now, but I do also know people like this. Trashy women exist, unfortunately.
But yeah, the rest of you have fun continuing to be pickmes for this Finnidiot. You've clearly never been around an alcoholic or bpdfag irl who refused to get help. Those of us who have are already over it lol.
I sometimes do tbh>>598172
this is even better
tbh I think your just salty a 18 yo got the better of you. Your right tho, too many young people try to pretend like they are so innocent when they get in trouble. >>598189
we didn't ask for this, love.
This. I'm not sure what happened at this point.
Like, why the sudden burst of activity and unsaged posts like the porn link and "anyone want dick?" when Finnanon showed up?
I wanna know what this post was. Dick post was not related to me
He revealed this to me later on in the "frienship" which is one of the reasons I started drifting away. He wanted to come clean to me and he told me how he has sexually assaulted children and he was 18 when it happened.
But then when I want my money back he tries to paint me as a pedo despite the fact hes out here molesting 6 year olds.
Like I said some people only pull the age card to get outta stuff.
>>598221>post something embarrassing>don't get the response you wanted>"A-and btw he's also a rapist!"
I see a pattern…>>598223
It would be an explanation for his behavior. Why else would a teen fresh out of hs seek out a much older woman? If she was 40+ then ok, maybe that's his weird thing, but she's 30, so why? His motive was odd right from the start, anon should have been suspicious.>>598227
So you didn't jump right after he stole from you and him being a pedo was only "one of the reasons"? kek I bet in your next post you're gonna change the story again, maybe you were drunk or he forced you too and of course you immediately reported him to the police…
Well, I was repulsed and shocked. He said it didnt count because he was "asleep". Idk how that works. >>598230
In the situation I was in the wrong too but I dont understand how he can call me a pedo when 1. Hes a literal pedo and 2. He was simping for a 28 year old. It's just funny how he pulled the pedo card on me but he's not a pedo and the 28 year old who is using him for money isnt one.
Unpopular opinion: 90% of the time, guys who had sex with older women when they were in their teens aren't traumatized about the sex itself. What hurts them is the older woman not staying with them.
A lot of women don't get this nuance, and cry about predation. They're obsessed with being fair and projecting their own experiences on men, but it's the blindest shit ever. Ask any actual guy who's been through this, ask if he feels victimized, and listen to his testimony. The pain is from the abandonment, he doesn't get the feeling that his body was invaded and made disgusting.
People need to start separating actual male CSA victims, like guys who got molested when they were 8 by their aunt or female neighbor, from guys who just got to bang the hot teacher or cool older girl that they were literally already fantasizing about while nursing a porn addiction in their free time. There's a strong difference, stop pretending they're the same.
Don't @ me with "But if the genders were reversed itd be predatory" If the genders were reversed, you know the dynamics would be completely different.
I fucking hate "if the genders were reversed" for anything. I saw on insta yesterday some pick-me was calling out a girl for filming some guy she saw out and found hot. "if the genders were reversed and a man was filming a random woman he found hot ya'll would be mad!"
Like are you fucking serious? Men film women in public CONSTANTLY. They have/had entire subreddits dedicated to it. There are entire categories on porn sites dedicated to creep cams placed in changing rooms/toilets. But I'm meant to be mad about some teen girl filming some random guy??? Like the intentions would be the same AT ALL. Like this girl is going to go home and talk to her fellow women about how much she wants to rape the guy. big kek
I feel like similar things can be said about how we even address sexual assault. Like, people tend to conflate sexual assault with pedophilia, so people we say stuff like "he got arrested for pedophelia". No, bitch, he got arrested for sexual assault. Acknowledging the nuance doesn't mean I condone pedophelia. Persecuting someone for their sexuality only obfuscates the fact that there was a victim
. And it's that same mindset that puts people who have sex with 17y/o's they met at a bar on the same sex offenders registry as actual sex predators. And insult to injury, Megan's Law doesn't even work. People think the severity of the punishment changes things, but the same amount of people are being victimized regardless of the repercussions.
pedophilia isn't a sexuality… it's a sexual deviation. No one is arresting pedos for their sexualities jesus.
You can absolutely be arrested for acting on pedophilia, too. That's why the charges are sexual assault of a MINOR.
This whole post is…
a true unpopular opinion would be
>Dasani is the best bottled water
no one thinks that, but could you imagine
I don't know if it's exactly accepted, but I think it's more prominent than most people realize. I knew at least a few seemingly normal guys who mentioned browsing that subreddit, and one of them had hundreds of photos of girls from uni on his phone.
Reddit only banned the creepshots subreddit because someone wrote an article that got a lot of traction and exposed how shitty it was. It's more hidden now.
That's fair and also true. Where I live, the water is especially hard, which is why it makes me even more annoyed when my dumb bitch grandma insists on buying plastic bottles ON TOP of the 3 gallon bottles I constantly refill for her, plus the water filter I installed for her. It's just insulting. Sometimes I wash plastic containers that can be recycled, and she takes them and throws them in the trash. When I try to explain to her to fucking stop it, she always goes "oh, it's okay". No it's fucking not. I know fully well the futility of recycling plastic and the energy and water wasted in the recycling process, but can I at least have the luxury of pretending to assuage my guilt about using plastic? I get you don't care about my future, but you could at least not spit in my face while you're at it. >>598291
I have a friend who stands by Dasani because it's apparently distilled and she uses it for microchips or wafers or something? I guess that's cheaper than getting a reverse osmosis machine or whatever.
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Nevermind, that's too many requests to attempt to make a burnt burger taste okay and I'm usually too retarded to ask for customizations on my fast food orders. But if other anons try it report back kek
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There's a reason I made this post. I think I can say successfully that I run the relationship. I'm a major control freak and schedule everything, plan everything, decide most things. My boyfriend absolutely loves his mom and his sisters. He's not a soyboy feminist but really supports outspoken feminists alike. Those aren't the only reasons he doesn't hate women but you just know. He treasures women. I honestly don't deserve him. I promise, I'm not trying to brag.
I think the reason he's into BDSM is that he has an inferiority complex because he's short and spent most of his life not making his own decisions. He just probably needs an outlet to feel like he's in control and… well, I've been into subbing since years before I met him so. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
KEK "sounds like you work for him"
Bitch please. Sounds like I do things how I want, when I want. He can do his own shit. When I say I schedule things I mean events that we do together
but yeah I'll say I work for him if it makes you feel better.
If you knew what manga it came from, it'd make sense.
I knew what you meant..>but yeah I'll say I work for him if it makes you feel better.
it does>If you knew what manga it came from, it'd make sense.
just did a reverse image search and the artist does hentai..>>598451
Am I the only one who doesn't LARP, here?
kek your bf is into BDSM because he likes to dominate women. He doesn't want to be equal sexual partners to you.
I don't know how women can be happy in relationships where they have to do everything and the moid just sits back because he's so passive. These men never will defend you or have a solid opinion. When there's a real issue you can't depend on him.
Anon you just like Mothering this manlet and you were the next logical step for him after he got too old to be depending on mommy to run his life.
Idk how a man acts passive and lazy in everyday life then expects to be a dom in the bed room. I can’t take a man seriously as a dom unless he’s paying all the bills etc
I’m not into bdsm but idk how they can take a loser seriously as a dom.
So, in exchange for all this labor, does he financially support you?
If you're paying for his shit or doing 50/50, this is approaching gimpgirl levels of cope.
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Well, it came off defensive because that anon literally said "good luck finding one like that" and I have? So yeah maybe I was easily baited but I like to be defensive, it's hooman nature>>598449
Yes. >>598474> He doesn't want to be equal sexual partners to you.
Duh, you silly bitch. Didn't I already say that? I said as long as it's different outside of the bedroom and outside of that headspace, BDSM relationships are fine. >>598451
Why would I post if I didn't know that. Stupidt. >>598475>>598478
You guys are missing the point where I said I choose to do these things because I don't like them done any other way. I'd be the same way if I were dating a woman (which I have in the past). Planning things for us to do, scheduling shit, etc. Making sure HE takes care of laundry and dishes if I don't feel it's up to par. I do this for all of my relationships, BDSM or not. I already called myself a control freak and I like it. I literally have autistic fits when things don't go my way.
Anyways, yeah he pays for whatever I need or whatever I ask. But I'm a grown woman with a salary, I don't need a sugar daddy.
Samefag, and idk.
Everyone's making it out like the relationship is like "okay I washed the dishes, I did the laundry, I paid the bills, I scheduled your dentist appointments and made sure you have all your records"
That'd be the mommy role.
What the relationship is actually like is just like this:
"hey honey, let's try whole30 diet!"
"Yo, we should check out this local event!"
"Actually nevermind I don't feel like it"
"We're getting a schnauzer"
"no I want a shibe!"
"Dude I'm allergic to short hairs and they shed alot, we're getting a schnauzer"
"okay I guess they're kinda cute"
"Hey honey, you're paying for lunch okay?"
"Yeah that's fine"
I have already admitted to being in control of our relationship activities, yes. And I like it. It's the only way I feel comfortable. Maybe it's easier for him because he's boring or repetitive but idc. But I'm not in charge of any of his personal shit ever.
And then when we switch to BDSM mode I don't have to or need to do anything, I'm no longer in control. And that's the kink.
>>598513>"Hey honey, you're paying for lunch okay?">"Yeah that's fine"
not a single person here believes your little bitch of a bf pays for shit.
Also honestly you sound like a fucking nightmare. Giving him no say in events etc is one thing, giving him no say in buying a dog and shit like that is another level.
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Unironically, I use the better water for brewing coffee.It tastes better. Also a pH of 7.0 is just.. water.
I had no idea who nemu was until this comment and i looked up her threads….
My unpopular opinion: I wish there was a 'relationship general thread' instead of just an advice one so insufferable anons like >>598490
can talk about their shitty bfs there
yup, I just used that as a bare minimum. In my area anything requiring anything more than just a ride to the hospital in the ambulance (if they actually have to tend to you in some way during the ride) it could be 2,500 without insurance.
That's why I feel bad for suicidal people who get 911 called on them when speaking to someone over a hotline. Without insurance 72 hour mandatory holds cost like 20,000.
You need to add "in Murica", the rest of the world isn't as shitty as you.
In my country you can even get prison time for not helping an ill/injured person, if we'd only go our ways without ever caring about others, society would collapse.
not that anon, but Ancient Greece
And men just love each other too much, they see themselves as superior. If being gay was okay for men, then women would be seen just as "breeders". Which is, actually, a thing right now. Not only between the biggest women haters, but between fetishists too.
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Unpopular opinion: we should make a pink pill discord
I'm just scared of it becoming a drama hotpot, since you know, lolcow and outing ourselves
Plus… when I used to be in rad tumblr, there was always so much infighting and talking behind backs on discord groups
I also don't want it to be plain man-hating you know? just smart women being smart
Because men share the same views about sex usually, they usually feel men are superior and love the shit out of their male friends,most men think vaginas are gross and don’t understand how they work and don’t want to.
So yeah most men would be gay or bisexual with a preference for males if they could.
Why would anyone trust to expose their identities in a discord with you when you're already this patronizing and judgmental about a group of traumatized women?
You're walking red flags.
FDS just means respecting yourself and looking for high value qualities in men, for example taking you on dates. I don't know how you can be pro-pp but anti-fds unless you're a newfag tbh.
I wouldn't want to be in a discord with someone as judgemental as you tbh. Maybe you're the source of all this drama you find yourself in?
tbh i actually think there would be a lot more gay women. most women are open minded about sexual stuff with other women.
also whenever a woman talks about what they expect romantically/emotionally from guys i swear they're just describing a girl. i feel like most women would go lesbian or at least bi if they didn't have this dumb inferiority complex of "feeling protected". bitch u need protection from men because of other men.
maybe im projecting since i identify as het but would eat pussy if i had the chance (plus obvi don't trust men like every other farmer)
Oh please, being traumatized has nothing to do with it.>>598933
Ah yes, looksmaxxing and lying about the number of sexual partners you’ve had in order to land a slightly less shitty man — both advice I often see in fds spaces — is totes empowering
>>598950>Oh please, being traumatized has nothing to do with it.
Ah, now you're baiting.
Yeah this discord would go over so well /s
I just wanna nuke the /r/instagramreality sub.
I don't think that pointing out someone who made their waist a bit smaller or smoothed their skin is useful at all, and I don't think those people are guilty of setting unrealistic standards. 90% of the people posted there are also affected by those standards, and it's just plain retarded to post them there being like hurr durr so much for body positivity. Filters have become something like makeup, where people use it to look better. Of course there's some horrible examples and those would be fine to be posted and mocked just like it happens with bad makeup.
I see posts of celebrities, or even worse, normal people, who posted a picture where they look very minimally different from the original/tagged pictures and the comments are like BUT THEYRE SO PRETTY I WISH THEY'D APPRECIATE THEIR BODIES. It's the same as posting 'you're pretty, you don't need all that clown paint' under the picture of someone with a full face of makeup.
There's so much shitty photoshopping going around with truly horrible proportions, yet they nitpick shit like makeup brands smoothing people's skin. Come the fuck on, I hate reddit and I hate how that typa shit brought about some witchhunts just because people use filters.
On the same note, and on an even hotter take, I don't think that anorexics that photoshop themselves thinner are the root of the problem, they're affected by it, and shouldn't be held accountable for people feeling bad because of them. If someone posts a picture and someone who is vulnerable sees it, that's their own problem and fault. People with their issues will post harmful shit, but at the end of the day they don't control who is gonna see it. (of course people who post in thinspo groups or shit like that know what they're doing and are just fucked up bitches who are to blame, but not entirely)
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FDS is a place for women to talk about and share their experiences with violent, deceptive, and manipulative men.
Not all FDSers are traumatized, but plenty of discussion revolves around abuse. If you're not baiting you're in deep denial. >first page
FDS gives shit advice that isn’t actually empowering and they’re too obsessed with men>how dare you?! You have to accept their views they’re traumatized!
All women are traumarized…>yeah but our shitty advice actually helps
me get dick avoid dating bad men, unlike just avoiding men
Same here, I'm actually not wasting my time anymore and it feels good to read stories from other women about the shitty things men did to them so I have the comfort to know it's toxic
male behavior. Things make so much sense to me now.
Why on earth do you have a problem with people improving their appearances when our fucking society itself values that you idiot. >lying about the number of sex partners
Lmao so what? Unless they have a permanent STD they can give you, their sexual information is otherwise none of your business. But of course you make a big stink when women do it while men are never interrogated about their numbers. Enough with these weird anti-science purity takes, vaginas clean themselves and you are not licking 30 other dicks when you eat out a muff, minger.
Wow. A whole two things you don't agree with when not everyone there even cares about looksmaxxing, and are trying to avoid fickle men so their body count won't be higher. You're such a brain drain.
I’m genuinely curious why FDS specifically, radical feminism has been covering it for forever. There’s whole books on the way men treat women in relationships >>599024
I don’t care if you want to looksmax or lie but then don’t go and pretend like you hate men and are so cool when you’re actually just being pathetic and giving in to societal expectations and supporting patriarchy all for some male attention and sex.
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Drinking directly from the bottle/carton/bag makes the drink in question taste better than when you pour it in a glass/cup/mug.
My unpopular opinion is that my posts are good.>>599032
I think it’s completely fine to lie about your bodycount as a woman, or if you have done certain sexual stuff, bc men get so fucking shitty and self righteous about it. Like if you say you have done anal but hated it, they will pressure you into doing it because “they are missing out”.
This was not a personal experince, that just seems to be a very common thing, that if you were a ”dirty girl” before you must provide that same stuff to your boyfriend.
There was this one guy who really wanted to date me, bc he thought that I would just be ok with anything sexually, bc I have been before.
Or maybe scrotes get ideas in their heads to do shit they originally wouldn't have considered doing if you hadn't told them what you're capable of enduring.
They will suddenly treat you different, the joke here is that you think men are consistent.
No. But most ”good men” (oxymoron tbh) will feel weird and resentful if they know you did retarded sex stuff in the past. Like even if they try to be respectful it always turns into, ”but you were fine with x, what is wrong with y”. Or seethe about it in their heads.
I told this guy I liked that I had sex in ublic on vacation and he would not let it. Even though the circumstances were really different,
Yeah, men are assholes and selfish. So just avoid them>>599115
Imagine being so pathetic that you want to date someone who would try to sexually coerce you if he knew who you actually were. Anons, love yourselves, damn.
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what if I throw it out
Then why comment when it’s about dating>>599132
I’m straight and I’m not the anon who wanted to create a discord, who knows maybe they like FDS
i'd rather be around someone with psychopathy than bpd. i don't want to be a jerk to them directly but i heavily dislike people wih bpd, i made the mistake of befriending some of them and they kept being extremely manic and abusive
. it's hard to keep a friendship with them
white americans are not welcome in europe.
they are the ones who will larp as a viking while going on about mixed race kids being mongrels and their white parent being a race traitor. ironically, the people they bash are way more nordic than them. it's very embarrassing to see some obese american tard with no personality of his own claim viking blood because his mother told him he was 1/12th norwegian and tell people who are 1/2 norwegian to go back to where they came from.
I don't care if North America becomes non-white is the thing. I just think it's funny to see North American ethnostate people sperg about white people becoming a minority in the US when white people aren't even "native" to the Americas.
Either way immigration is just how humans operate and the borders we have created today are never going to hold up in the grand scheme of things. Nations fall, the earth changes and people mix regardless of the idea of race. That is how it's always going until the human race eventually goes extinct regardless of what any race purist White, Asian, or Black believe.
>>599495>>599509>white americans are not welcome in europe.
This kek. You can't "move back to" somewhere you weren't even born. And no, one of your ancestors having lived here 300 years ago doesn't count.>>599515>Either way immigration is just how humans operate and the borders we have created today are never going to hold up in the grand scheme of things. Nations fall, the earth changes and people mix regardless of the idea of race.
I think the issue some people have is that in certain places this process of becoming more mixed is highly encouraged or even demanded (usually in white countries) while other nations are allowed to be or even praised for the opposite, staying as homogeneous as possible (e.g. Japan).
But only the topmost extreme, the vast majority still sees them as victims
of whites, as a "minority" (despite their countries consisting of 99.?% of just their people).
And why are you not mentioning Israel also being an ethnostate? Which countries are you even talking about, do you think every asian country is like nippon or something?>>599527
Canada, Hawaii,New Zealand, Australia, and north and south america belonged to indigenous people but I can't imagine colonizers ever giving that all up or evaluating their hypocritical immigration policies. America loves immigrants when it comes to doctors, scientists, or fodder for their petty wars.
I wasn’t criticizing your post, I agree with you. It’s just amusing imo.
I think it’s weird that countries that have not contributed to specific wars etc. are expected to carry the burden of refugees to a higher level than they are actually able to, bc ”white people bad”. I’m not against immigration or non-whites and think it is cultural not about race, but the reaction to the migrant crisis was understanble to a point.
I mean Israel isn't exactly popular, they're constantly criticised…plus it's just one exception. >>599555
Many asian countries, like Japan,, Korea and so on are all pretty much homogeneous (in China it's only 0.0something%) and nobody expects them to change that, meanwhile the percentage of foreigners in many european countries has crossed the 10% mark a long time ago and sjws still tell them to be more inclusive.
Or as an example: in 2015 Germany took in over 1 million refugees, Japan only 11.
Both of them share a similar history due to their fault in wwii, so how is it "fair" that Japan get's away with being like this, while what Germany did is considered still far from enough?
Maybe because Japan has more of a political impact within Asia than the rest of the world, while the opposite is true for Europe. I don't see anyone directly praising them for not taking in immigrants, it's just that no one in the west really gives a fuck about them except for anime, lmao. Same goes for South Korea and k-pop. China is more of a complicated story because everyone knows it's a hell-hole that treats people like shit, especially minorities, sort of like Russia.
In fact, some parts of Europe had a direct role in creating the situations in other places, causing the need for immigration.
Only France and Britain got themselves involved in Syria alongside the US, meanwhile syrian refugees are in large numbers in close to any european nation.
American sjw love to pester european countries but let asian countries off the hook because they produce their beloved animuh, kpop,…
Good for you I guess.
Isn't it normal to enjoy being rich?
>>599761> I nearly get hit all the time when I go out.
It sounds like you’re
that bad driver lol
Going below the speed limit is dangerous and illegal btw
Yes it’s super annoying when people don’t use blinker but you shouldn’t even be that close to another car where if they decelerates for a turn you have to slam the break
Just git good lol
found the mad borgar>>599805
i agree. it's like when people complain about how all girls have the same lips on insta because of fillers but then will shit on any celebrity that has thin lips.
I'm not going to keep repeating this for Americans who can't drive OR read
I'm a fucking pedestrian. I do not drive. How do I git gud at dodging fucking cars you spastic.
Americans are entitled about most of what they believe to be their "rights" (aka: everything). This attitude is deeply embedded into the culture. I assure you it's not specific to driving. And like other anons are saying, there are a lot of parts of the country where public transportation either isn't an option, or is so poor that driving is an essential for most people. I live in a city where it would take me an hour to reach virtually any destination by bus, whereas it would take 5-10 minutes to get there by car. I'd say the US needs to improve on public transport as a whole, but given the geography of the country and how spread out everything is even within the states, that's genuinely not easy to do.
You've also clearly never spent any time in a third world country if you think American driving is bad lmao
It's a shame that pedestrians are ever hit but that has more to do with distracted driving (as you pointed out) than speed. That guy could've hit you at 30 or 50mph and you still would've been seriously hurt either way.
5-10mph over the speed limit in non-residential areas is actually reasonable if not typical. The reason why Americans say "well everyone else speeds too" is due to the fact that no one wants to suddenly disrupt the traffic by slowing down when everyone else is going faster. It's one thing to be pressed when you're already speeding and some asshole insists on riding your ass, but you honestly can't speed up even a little above limit? That's dumb. Cops don't even pull over for going slightly over the limit so why be so stupid about that?
Foreigners are actually the ones causing the most accidents in my area due to the fact that they're new and don't understand conventions like the indicators and traffic patterns. The fact that you assume everyone who's an ass on the road is an American who's been living here for decades makes me chuckle, you don't know that.
We're a huge country with no public transportation thanks to corporate and political lobbying. Nearly everyone not living in a city with well-funded public transport must drive. Our traffic fatalities are actually relatively low compared to other countries, so.
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I feel so validated in my hatred for these ~trendy~ minimalist tattoos I knew they would age like ass
>>599818> Foreigners are actually the ones causing the most accidents in my area due to the fact that they're new and don't understand conventions like the indicators and traffic patterns.
Yeah, I’ve noticed this too. Driving by my university is crazy. Eurosperg must live in LA or something where driving is actually nuts.>>599819
Gross, that would look like some kind of rash from a distance.
The amount of LA Armenians that try to drive you off the road is insane. They’re literally the worst drivers in DTLA.
Also absolutely to the other anon that said the worst drivers are non Americans. I drive past shit drivers and it’s almost always Asian people or Indian people. Slow foreigners disrupting traffic in America are the real problems. Glad you don’t drive OP, we’d all hate you. It’s not entitlement, it’s not standing out like a retard driver.l
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i love faded tattoos. they have been a part of a person for a while and aged with them, that's so cool to me. i rly like the look, way more than fresh tattoos.
garlic > onion any day. at least your hands smell better after cutting garlic.
unpopular opinion: grapefruit is gross
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Meh, I'do it, I'm jobless due to Covid right now, have some tech skills (guessing it's not that hard if a 18yo can do it, not dissing, maybe admin is some tech wizard idk, I'm thankful for her work anyway).
Plus, being 30+ and being an introvert person (we have a lot of BPDs and even histrionics aroud here, let's face it), I'm immune to petty drama and shit (can't even be bothered to figure how to get in the discord, wasn't worth the hassle to hear you catty bitches cackle all day long), I guess I could nib in the bud any frivolous powergrabs.
Maybe I'll try my hand at janitoring just to give back a little (are we still in need of those ?)
Anynway, I'm sure it would look great on my résumé too : 'handling and making safe a community of niche feminine interests from scrotes and trannies in hiding'.
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I actually love grapefruit. I eat one nearly everyday and not with sugar or salt or anything. The only thing that sucks about it is the interactions with medications. I think it's actually unpopular to like grapefruit.
i enjoy solo porn just because i can act like it's a masturbaion video my imaginary bf sent me.
also onion powder sucks.
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Did someone not get enough attention in the discord server?
Inspired by one of the retweets to this >>600268
I don't think people who once had very bad habits should be allowed to act all high and mighty towards people who are still battling with problems.
Yes, in a way you are "better" than them but on the other hand, why did you start doing those things in the first place when they're so bad and doing them shows you are lazy, stupid etc? According to this logic all the people who were strong enough to never have problems in the first place should also be allowed to mock you because they're above you.
Example, this dude being mad about (a drawing of) fat women - meanwhile he himself was a druggie for 11 years and once weighed fucking 160lbs more, meaning he's likely covered in wings of flabby skin. It's like as soon as they're no longer that ugly they think they belong to the "popular kids" who need to bully everyone else.>"As a man who's lost 160lbs through discipline, diet and exercise, I cannot tell you how much I absolutely loathe the fat acceptance part of the intersectionalist movement."
Then somebody else says: "yeah its just lazy obese people trying to make em self feel good and not get out of the basement">"Women. Overweight women. You never see men act like women should find them desirable, even though they're obese. Just doesnt happen. And we dont get upset, when women dont want to f*ck us. We totally get it. I have lived on both sides of the aisle. I know whats up."
It's usually middle aged men (the demographic who suffers the least when fat because dad bods and pot bellies are considered normal) who are all "Yes we should bully fatties! I was once fat myself, brutal honesty is the only cure!". It's especially bad when they're still fat and already talk like this. Congrats, you're a good fatty who shits on other fatties and allows people to abuse you…
I don't think fat people should be bullied, but I also don't think people who lost weight or stopped smoking or anything like that should be given as many asspats as they usually are. Always staying healthy or not developing unhealthy coping mechanisms shows real discipline.
here is an unpopular opinion: black is a very ugly color and it doesn't deserve the hype it gets because it's just boring and bland>>600301
i don't think you and me are talking about the same thing …
Catty bitches is a widespread loving expression to talk about farmers.
Learn to fucking integrate.
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I'm pretty sure that anon was being frivolous when she said that.
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Kek - naaaah, I'm NOT A CATTY BITCH on a gossip website, HOW FUCKING DARE YOU?
ARe we still having those PULL tard around?
you fool this isn't a fight you must fight. you better sit and let the big mommy handle this>>600331
I'm tired of it. They'll jump at any joke or sarcasm and are utterly unable to get it. It's exhausting.
It sucks out all of the fun of teasing each other.
Like seriously, being offended by 'catty bitch'? Yeah, sure, you're not a catty bitch nitpicking moo backfat.
Ntyrt, but I've seen a lot more anon-on-anon hate that seems excessive over fairly trivial posts recently. Infighting is already annoying in cow-threads but that's more because people that get overly invested (not just being there for luls and gossip) with internet-personalities tend to be a bit unhinged.
I wonder why it's leaking over into /ot/ and /g/ though.
people are mad about moderation and the admin is awol (again).
I just ignored/reported the obvious bait/pullfags but they don't get banned. People just figure what's the point and fight with them.
There was a literal pedo derailing the true crime thread for 2 days and no one did shit about it.
What parts of it make it seem lonely and depressing to you? I don’t currently live in Japan but having stayed there for a decent period of time I didn’t find it that way at all. It actually felt easier to make friends because it’s pretty common for most social things to involve a good amount of people, so once you know a single person suddenly you know all their friends and everyone wants to be buddies with you. Sure, as a foreigner part of that may just be the allure of having the cool outsider friend, but for the most part people were welcoming in earnest. Even strangers were very chill and willing to talk with me.
Not saying Japan is perfect, but I don’t see how it’s any worse than most first world countries. I see way more people in the US scoffing at non-white residents and telling them to “go back where you came from” even when they were born here than I ever heard Japanese people badmouthing actual foreigners.
i don't want to generalize but i think about 50% of all stoners are embarrassingly cringy.
i enjoy smoking it from time to time myself but after having so much experience with doing it in so many different ways at so many different times, i think people who are constantly stoned, all day, every day, every hour, every minute, every second of their lives, there's something wrong with them or their surroundings that is harming them that they are willfully ignoring.
and the longer they spend being like this, the less likely it is that they're ever going to get themselves out of that rut.
and it's honestly disgusting to watch. particularly because they think they're any better than people who are constantly drunk or high on something else. they have this superiority complex about how weed usage cannot ever harm you, meanwhile they've completely given up on their education. they've gotten fired from work for being stoned on the job multiple times. they've stagnated or gotten worse at their chosen hobby. they are completely indifferent and lack passion about anything, including the people in their lives who put up with their bullshit, who they should be thankful for.
there's nothing wrong with smoking weed occasionally, but fuck yeah am i gonna judge you if you smoke it every single day and are so bad you even go to work like that.
like weed is cool and all but i've seen first hand that the lazy stoner stereotype exists for a reason. it's a drug that gives you the ability to become completely complacent. it's a drug that can enable you to become a neckbeard stuck in your mom's basement at age 40, and loving it.
all drugs should be approached with caution and that includes weed. it's not as harmless as stoners are obsessed with claiming it is.
maybe it doesn't harm your body like hard drugs but it harms your life in other ways that can be just as bad imo.
I generally avoid weed smokers because a lot of them act like is cool and a personality trait. They also always seem to be pressuring people to try it, cmon! It’s not addictive
Fuck off, if it’s so harmless then why did it turn you into a complete retard
I believe what makes weed dangerous is that you will never hit rock bottom like other drugs, allowing you to ignore and deny the any problem with being high 24/7. Stoner culture doesn't believe you can be addicted or have a problem with weed anyways.
If anyone wants to quit the reddit leaves community is very supportive and holds daily meetings.
NTA but >they’d actually raise their kids more functional than moms ever can
sure af shows there's something not quite right with you. What a bizarre assumption, men have taken a back seat in child rearing from the beginning of time. How on earth could you confidently assume they'd be better parents than mothers if they somehow began caring about parenting? Good parents or as good as mothers, sure, but better? Weirdly misogynistic, gender shouldn't determine how good of a parent someone is.
By now I think that opinion is dumb, I don’t have the answers for why women like me are so abandoned/neglected/mistreated by both of our parents. Weirdly misogynistic? Yes and no.
I went by the “””logic””” that I see many men in households being lazy and not doing a thing besides minimum waging (I don’t need to explain to any scrote reading this that moms work too), yet they are forced (I know it’s a bad thing) when the wife/gf passed away/left to take so good care of their kids who may be daughters and they become sweet assertive functional ladies, and I’m really really jealous. I had to figure out everything on my own. My mom did nothing but pampering me, which I appreciate too, but didn’t make me ready for adult life.
>>600786>They also always seem to be pressuring people to try it, cmon! It’s not addictive
This so much. In my early 20s my friends had a pothead period where they would talk about fucking nothing but smoking weed. All discussion had to be related to how amazing weed is and how I should try it out, it's totally safe and much better than alcohol my man. I'm not much of a drinker either so I wasn't interested, yet they couldn't respect that at all. Thank god they grew up and stopped using it. For being such a "safe, non-addictive" drug it sure as hell makes people have their entire world revolving around it. >>600926
Yeah definitely. Anon's probably pinning all her issues on not having a father and trying to assure herself that if she only didn't have a deadbeat nonexistent dad her childhood would've been nothing but laughter and fun family moments with daddy.
Yeah sure…you only taught me that being a single parent is a red flag for the kids. And calm down with the scrote thingy jesus.>>600958
When I say pampered I mean she’s changed my diapers, and then I had to figure out everything on my own. I have low standards and I don’t wanna shit talk my mom here.>>600963
No, I’d just learn skills that are needed instead of discovering the most basic stuff on my own.
But whatever I don’t expect to get normal (you)s if I criticized dads on 4chan so it’s to be expected.
>>600919>if fathers bothered trying they’d actually raise their kids more functional than moms ever can
If fathers took over child-raising, then child abuse and child-killing rates would rise exponentially high, lmao. These are people that can't even go without attacking/murdering their girlfriends and wives, and abusing their kids now
, talk less of taking primary care of a being they didn't do the labor of carrying for 9 months that cries, screams, shits, vomits and isn't yet capable of caring if daddy is tired or stressed for the first bit of their life, and then spends the rest still trying to grasp empathy, table manners, not being rude, not throwing tantrums, etc.
Those women you see who grow up to be assertive, functional, etc being raised by a single dad? They're the exception to the rule.
I agree with you actually. Still the current abuse stats by single moms are too high. >they’re the exception to the rule.
I’m the one who shits on single parents and keeps agreeing with certain points but yeah
I agree. Figuring things out on your own is satisfying too even if difficult. Every privileged dick and cunt can kiss my ass the day I’m successful.
I seriously don't understand the logistics of using one though. Say you're wearing pants, do you take them off entirely? In that case you have to take off your shoes, in a toilet! Even worse if you're wearing stockings, you'd have to completely take them off and be barefoot. Or do you just pull them down to your ankles and pray that you don't pee on them? It seems impossible to avoid because a squat is usually right over your ankles.
I've only attempted it once when forced to in Japan and it was an unpleasant experience. I took everything off and carefully stood on top of my shoes to avoid touching the floor. Never again.
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anon probably didn't squadt properly. picture related, your heels got to touch the floor, then your ass is far back enought so you don't pee on ur pants. It's uncomfortable for most westeners first, but you quickly get used to it.
>>601027>Say you're wearing pants, do you take them off entirely? In that case you have to take off your shoes, in a toilet! Even worse if you're wearing stockings, you'd have to completely take them off and be barefoot. Or do you just pull them down to your ankles and pray that you don't pee on them?
Lord almighty no, if I did all that I'd have died of sepsis by now just from using the nasty squatters in some places.
You pull your clothes down to around your knees, spread your legs so your feet are on either side of the loo, and squat. I can't explain it properly but your wee goes between your legs and at no point touches the clothes, even if you're wearing trousers.>>601048>>601049
How the hell do Anglos even function? Your legs will be far apart, you won't be able to piss on your ankles unless you aim for either leg.
It baffles me how this is so hard for people to comprehend. A while ago there were people absolutely dumbfounded by shower bidet attachments.
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Adults who only read YA are all stupid.
I read mostly YA because I don't want to think big brainy thoughts while enjoying myself, sometimes people don't want some deep philosophical reading when its just a fun escapist hobby.
inb4 you're not truly into reading if you're not gobbling down some Paulo Coelho and Descartes!!!
I got sick of reading classical literature because I just wasn't having a good time, most classical deep thought uwu books left me feeling worse so eh whats the fucking point?
I love YA but I agree. I stopped reading it when I stopped being YA because why would I even relate to a high schooler anymore? Anyone that does that is probably a NEET, immature, spoiled, dependent on others, or all three.
There's literally no reason to read books from the perspective of a middle schooler or high schooler anymore and I can't even get myself in the headspace to do that.>>601111
I'm sorry to tell you but there are adult books you can read without "deep philosophical" big brainy thoughts and I hope you find them someday.
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White girls seem very disingenuous to me when they incessantly compliment black women in online spaces. I don't think it's ingenuine in all contexts of course but whenever I go to a dark skin black woman's video all the comments are from white women talking about how beautiful she is and how she's the most gorgeous person they've ever seen yada yada yada
I'm aware dsbw have it very hard when it comes to beauty standards, but these girls just seem like they, specifically because of this, feel like they're doing some sort of charity, like boomer women commenting "uwu she's beautiful" on photos of unfortunate children kek. I'm sure they actually think these women are gorgeous in some way, but a way that's non threatening to them, because these same white women don't like complimenting youtube's pretty white girls because they see them as competition, such as sperging about Madison Beer because "she's only popular because she's pretty that bitch".
To me it reeks of "you're pretty for a black girl." Nyma Tang videos are about makeup, yet none of them comment about the actual content of her video. It just feels like they're gawking, and is kinda racist in a very ironic way
Eh, the literature business in my country is very YA focused, Its either YA or Classics avaliable, most of the late 20s to 40s demographic doesn't read for cultural reasons so unless its something that already had a pretty popular movie adaption like Gone Girl i ain't going to find it, I was really interested on picking some Banana Yoshimoto and couldn't find a translation for the life of me, reading in english is weird and i feel like im paying more attention to the words than the story.>>601124
lol you know whats up anon, the guy is fucking insufferable
idk i guess i reserve my other hobbies for challenging shit, I really enjoy more serious movies and tv shows
I personally don't need to relate to the characters to enjoy a story so I don't mind them being teenagers, heck most YA teenagers act like 20 something year olds anyways.
I’m a white girl and I know exactly what you’re saying. Fear of coming across as ‘that kind’ of white girl has me hold back my showers of compliments.
Not that they would be ingenuine, I never make compliments unless I truly mean them, but I get that vibe from hearing other white girls being over complimentive.
There’s also a second act to this process, as I am not straight and I’m particular attracted to women who aren’t white, so I try to limit my comments on their appearance to not be a creep.
But yeah, we white girls do too much. I gag every time I see a ‘woke post’ from a whitey that’s like “ALL BLACK/LATINA/TRANS(ew)/ETC WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL” because to me, making that kind post is an obvious attempt at masking some kind of ignorance.
The thread for funny posts on lolcow is mostly redundant
I get why people want to bookmark funny comments that they still think about for months afterwards but >>601139
was literally posted 30 minutes ago and is fairly standard for the confession thread, if anon wants to say how funny it is then why not just reply to it in the actual thread?
>>601162>You’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
This. Today me complimenting a poc girl could be a nice gesture between two women, tomorrow it might as well be seen as a fetish or oppression, you can never know what is currently acceptable. Just imagine being a school kid in nowadays society, of course they're desperate to appear as non-racist as possible by doing ridiculous things because every tiny mistake or misunderstanding could get them "cancelled". That pic is apparantly from 2011, today it's likely even much more extreme.
I also hate giving compliments and I especially would never do it to a black person because you can never know what the reaction is gonna be, everything could be interpreted as bad, I have zero idea what is "allowed" to be said (especially when it comes to hair etc)
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These fuckers are sour. I have no clue why they're stereotyped as sweet
And it's also that it's associated with vulnerability so when you put the two together there's just something gross.
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All posts that result in a ban, regardless of the length of the ban, should be redtexted. Redtexting serves as a way to let farmers know what kind of posts are and aren't generally accepted here, especially if a post leans towards a lesser or harder-to-define offense such as nitpicking or tinfoiling. It seems pointless to ban someone for a post but not redtext it (or remove it, though that borders on censorship) as someone else could see the post and think "well, this post wasn't redtexted, so it must be fine for me to reply to it or make a similar post" only for them to be banned, too. Redtexting is also superior to removing posts for the same reason - people can see what isn't acceptable because it's marked right in front of them and will stay there. I can't think of any negative consequence of a practice like this being in place except that some farmers may argue with other farmers or farmhands about being redtexted, in which case they can receive a standard ban for derailing or infighting.
Also, not that I've seen this happen frequently, but there should be no means to ban someone for an unspecified reason. Surely the purpose of rules is so that those who are identified to have violated them can be banned, no? In theory, only those who violate a rule are banned, showing the competence of the moderation team and the consistency of rule enforcement throughout the board. In that case, if those who get bans deserve them and those who don't deserve them have nothing to worry about, why even have an option to ban someone for an unspecified reason? The only exception to this that I can think of is if someone is temporarily banned because they're suspected of ban evasion, but the evasion hasn't been proven yet. Though, couldn't the ban page simply state that reason?
(This probably seems like more of a /meta/ post but I'm really just sharing thoughts, it's not a recommendation any more than it is thinking out loud. I haven't seen this said anywhere else yet.)
There's a place for this.
it's called meta
I don't think the money is the point, I think it's to show that people need/want USPS instead of private companies that charge ass more. If you see people saying the money is to keep USPS funded, you'd do well to correct them.
I'm all for saving USPS.>>601711
Yeah, sorry, went braindead through half your shit which read like an essay, hope u dont get banned for that
This is your last warning to stop your incessant baiting and infighting on /ot/. You've been permabanned more times than we can count and every time a thread gets derailed with OTT aggression and troon/scrote accusations it's you behind it.
If you continue to do so we will have to compile all of your post histories and make them public so other anons will stop falling for your bait.
A refresher of the global rules for you, as well:
8. Do not attempt to use lolcow.farm for attention or profit.
9. Do not deceptively post about yourself in the third person for any reason.
I want to play guitar with Kars' legs.
I fucking hate DeAngelo Wallace, I watched the entire Shane Dawson thing and while I’ll admit, was well put together. He kept derailing to moralfag, I hate his voice. I couldn’t get past 5 minutes of the Shallon Lester video. I wonder when this whole cancel culture woke facade will end. He seems to adhere to that I hope he gets exposed for misconduct and ravaged by his own fans>>601882
Agree they’ll call me a fake gamer cause I don’t sit by a pc for 12 hours and play every single game ever, I play a few games occasionally. I don’t think games are meant for you to do all day, jfc.
She's extremely boring. The most scandalous thing related to her is her husband essentially pimping out young girls, and somehow getting away with it.
Everyone knows about that and just ignores it to talk about her fillers or her vlogs for the hundredth time. It's weird.
I know most of you will not know what I'm talking about but Bartolomej of Batushka did nothing wrong, he is completely justified in wanting to keep the batushka name, sure it doesn't make sense to keep the name when you're gonna go on to make music in a completely different genre but in a business way I completely understand.>>601720
I'm sorry but this is not the extremely popular opinion thread
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I hate these fucking types of ~informational~ activist posts people share on Instagram. They're too clean, there's no effort into making these shits.
I just wish I was an even bigger Aztec goddess of fitness so I could crush Kars with my thighs.
I am the original anon, yes even him.
I feel pretty validated that I’m not the only one. Just so you all know though, they would only want me so don’t even waste your time thinking about it.
Since we're talking about ptsd, can i ask something to you guys?
Do you think very brief sexual interaction as a child causes ptsd? When i was like 9-10, and older man i didnt know rubbed my breasts, back and made me touch his dick (over the underwear tho). Sometimes i wonder if this has something with me being so sexually underdeveloped - or if im just repressed. I dont think im traumatized tho, like i dont get triggered
by sexual assult imagery, i just get uncomfortable.
(Sorry for derailing the unpopular opinion thread. I just wanted to know.)
Aw thank you anon. Its just that idk what counts as trauma.
But i agree. So many people say they have PTSD or abusive
parents because their parents yelled at them occassionally. I remember a twitter post saying making a kid finish off their plate was abusive
>>602033>Roughening up, not making stupid decisions, makes the bullying stop anyways
Still don't get this meme
I deleted my response to you because I misread it teehee.>>602048
Why not? It’s something that worked for me.
My parents would beat the shit out of me whenever I did anything wrong, like big bad purple bruises level, not a little harmless wrist slap.
But they also gave me everything I asked for, fancy computer, toys, vidya, clothes, and very outwardly lovingly in most situations.
It fucking grinds my gears when people call me spoiled.
Cool I had stuff, doesn't negate the trauma I have from getting punched in the face and called a retard who will never get into college when I failed an admission exam.
My parents where really nice 50% of the time, and I have alot of good memories with them, but when they were bad it was definetely PTSD worth bad.
>>602066>parents bought me shit while they were abusive
Best believe this was super calculated. My mom was emotionally abusive
and quick to anger when I was a child. Yet she always made it a point to put on an extravagant show during birthdays, holidays, and other events when people were around to witness her, so she could turn around and call me "spoiled" whenever I stood up against her mistreatment when those people weren't around. Or when she'd go to them to complain about me, they'd believe her because she was such a good mom in their eyes on the outside.
Parents who hold the bare minimum over children's heads and then keep score against them are major assholes.
I saw the argument on twitter.
"People that call women females… do yall call men males?"
YES. It really does depend on the context like you said. I don't even feel right using women when talking about periods or yknow actual female bodily functions anymore because maybe some person comes in and says "aCtUaLlY"
His ass kept showing up in my recommendations and I ended up watching his Shane video which I thought was very good and necessary and I sorta ended up linking him, especially since in one of his video he refused to use the word "bitch" (I know, the bar is that low) but it all got ruined once I saw how he jumped on the jk Rowling hate bandwagon and tried to lecture her on twitter, even though he didn't sound as misogynistic and deranged as the other woke bros and TRAs.
Not necessarily about him but I just can't with these (often gay)male commentary channels who blow up just cause they're personified sjw twitter, with all the cringey stan twitter language and ~quirky misogyny ~…Makes my skin crawl.
This made me grab some popcorn and head to youtube.
>I support jk Rowling
Let’s see if anyone
wasn’t too chickenshit to say it
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The farmhands are so bad here I think I'm done. They didn't even give me a reason for this "lifetime ban". They didn't link to a post where I could see what comment got me banned even. I have literally no clue what I did and when I tried to appeal it it took me to a 404'd page.
The last time I got a random ban all the farmhand did was call me a dumb radfem in the explanation part even though my comment wasn't about trannies.
Like how are people meant to change their attitudes if they don't tell us what the issue is? I have no idea what post I made today that would warrant a ban., I've only posted on /ot/ today.
Because it's an incorrect usage. A female what? A female human? That's a woman. They choose to use female and will use man for male.
No one is mad cops are saying "female suspect" or whatever and you >>602093
damn well know that and are strawmanning.>>602296
nya but this is a unpopular opinion thread, shut the fuck up.
Omg yes anon, I knew I wasn't the only one who found him irritating. It's in his voice and attitude, like he looks like the kind that can't have any fun at parties and tries to find fault in everything to make others as miserable as him. >>602099
Basically this, I know the video you're talking about, it was the one discussing Lizzo and when he's like we don't say bitch in this household I verbally cringed and shut my brain off lmao. Commentary channels in general have always put a bad taste in my mouth, like it's their excuse to make masturbatory content about how woke and intelligent they are and they have to eDucAtE the audience. "Personified sjw twitter" describes it PERFECTLY, I can't fucking stand these nitwits and I hope this kind of thing goes away soon. He literally looks like the kind of guy these twitter teens thirst over, that softboi self-condescending look at me I'm so woke shit.
There's a blatant agenda to blame and generalise average white people on the basis of the financial elite's (ancestors) crimes, and the younger generations are particularly receptive to it. Everywhere you look it's being normalised in conversation (this is obviously the tame stuff kek)
>White people did X
>White people are like this
>White people shouldn't
>White people always
Replace white with any other race and it gets weird real quick. And let's also not pretend all races aren't guilty of something to varying degrees, we're all human, so idk why historical innocence is such a prevalent concept. Especially with the kids I see discussing any topic negatively attached to white people. They don't even bother to preface their long rants about how we're the cancer of society over trivial things like hairstyles, and commercially marketed culture with "not all" anymore. It's also deflating to be called a coloniser (not personally but I see the insult around quite frequently) when once again that's conflating modern, self deprecating, mostly powerless people with the sins of their ancestors, something that no one has control over. Now the ancestors of the effective peasantry are having the guilt forced upon them, the blame layed at their feet, and are paying for the sins of our ruling classes. If that's not by design, to cause more division and distract us from the real issues, I don't know what is.
Inb4 get over it yt ur not oppressed (technically I think we're all oppressed to different extents by out governments/rich) but sure. That still doesn't mean two wrongs suddenly make a right, or validate prejudices based on ancestry. Whatever happened to judging people on an individual basis by the content of their character?(racebait, global rule 7)
The irony of >>601701
being posted just a day before that happens to you
agreed with all this lol
i remember i bought into this meme at one point in high school when "white ppl suck and eat mayo with spoons" or whatever were starting out on tumblr and twitter. im white and i would be saying like "ew white ppl" it was so dumb and i realized how it was dumb to make such a blanket statement especially when im part of that race group, but have never saw all white people the same up until the memes. as a person with an italian background ive mainly always viewed myself as that and never lumped myself with white people like we are the same because even though im white skinned my culture is different than other white people. plus: italians were discriminated against in my country (put in internment camps, prohibited from entering certain places, forced into unsafe and cheap labour along with chinese people) and now its obviously different but that doesnt change history and my family has worked hard to reach a middle class life so people who wanna screech about how x group cant be oppressed/doesnt know what its like are so stupid.
also agreed that people can face oppression exactly how u have explained especially in the case of ability/financial circumstances.
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>>602585>she doesn't know how rangebans work
nta but tf is your problem? Like what about that triggers
you enough to respond in that way?
My mom was working for low pay because she immigrated to US to flee from war. She didn't have kids and took whatever job she could and also didn't get to really experience life growing up like anon's dad. It's just the reality of a lot of ethnic parent's lives. It's not about America treating them like shit it's about immigration and no access to education.
kek.. I deleted them because the person, presumably you, who I'm trying to respond to keeps deleting their posts immediately after posting. Just like they did right now.