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No. 695462
your own personal cry circle
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I'm a crazy try-hard who can't stop fucking up even the most basic friendships. I dont have a solid friend group and probably never will, but I want friends so, so badly.
I feel empty sometimes. Or maybe its not emptiness, its just… nothingness. Maybe I am psychotic. But whats worse, is that maybe there's nothing wrong with me at all. Maybe I'm just a normie asshole with a god complex.
I genuinely regret not unaliving myself while I had the chance. Who's gonna take care of my stupid cats if I go? They can't go to a shelter, I won't allow it.
I hate myself, but im the most amazing thing to ever happen to the world, but im worthless trash.
I dont even know what im doing.
No. 695549
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I wish I could at least be a horny sad when I'm upset. Instead of being a stupid self pitying bitch when I cry. The past ten years have not been my year.
No. 695625
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>>695610Yeah you're right… Maybe I should try clown makeup, adults always say that they are afraid of clowns so they'll stay away and children will love me kek
No. 695696
>>695625I would love to read an account of someone that wore clown makeup to keep men away, please write us a report. I bet some still say weird shit like "I bet you're kinky" or yell dumb oneliners like "why so serious" though.
I'm sure there was an anon who once explained that she deliberately made herself as ugly as possible because she didn't like strangers talking to her, I would love to hear what new methods she has come up with.
No. 695702
>>695697That's okay. 4channers don't go outside anyway
>>695696Ok now I really wanna do it because I want to know what would happen but I'm a coward so I won't. Maybe I can convince someone to do it as "performance art" or a "sociological experiment"
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got a call today in the middle of work from an aunt in a different state that i haven't talked to in a decade that my mom, who's in my state, has been in the hospital for days and keeping it a secret. she's been on a decline for a while and it's finally gotten too bad for her to turn paramedics away when her boyfriend calls them. i have a long shitty expensive process ahead of me to get her to a relative who's willing to care for her.
No. 695862
>>695822Same thing happens to me too anon. I was anxious throughout high school, often quarreled with bullies but I was rather meticulous about my assignments. Sometimes I switch between anxiety dreams about high school and college.
I get these damn dreams where I'll have for example three classes scheduled and routinely attend them for the first few weeks or so, but then as time presses on I get a funny feeling that I'm "forgetting" something. That's when I realize I've been accidentally not attending a class for a long time, as if I forgot it was in my schedule. Cue the fear that my grade has tanked and I've missed important tests. It always ends with me shyly reporting to the missed class and trying to go unnoticed by the teachers while frantically trying to blend in and catch up with the work. I usually wake up around the point before my absences are noticed thankfully.
No. 695871
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>tfw hadn't seen my young teenage cousins in a while
>Find out two of them have developed an interest in anime and Kpop
>One draws furries and edgelord anime stuff and the other is a huge BTS fan
>Get worried already since both these communities are notorious for being awful
>Recently fond out that both of them have chopped their hair really short
Now maybe I'm overthinking it but I really hope they don't end up going the fakeboi/troon route or some shit. I don't want either of them to get caught up in some stupid internet bullshit or get groomed.
No. 695885
>>695822I had reoccuring dreams about talking to an old teacher I knew there, and going back to talk to them and walked around helped them. Too bad moving back home bc of the pandemic meant I started having them again bc I associate my childhoof room with that time of my life. The kind of closure I felt wasn't dramatic. It was just a building, a place kids go to and try to get out of as soon as possible and make some friends while growing up. It helped me see that the girl who went there, who was hurting, is still in me. And she needs time to heal and that's okay.
It's been 5 years so you shouldn't look too creepy, maybe just sitting outside could help. It might feel a bit lonely but I think life's like that. Maybe you could go with someone you trust.
No. 695933
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Avoidant personality disorder is ruining my life. During the course of the last few weeks I kept avoiding answering phonecalls and texts and continued to shelter myself from people which resulted in two of my only friends (who live near me) suddenly showing up on my doorstep all worried and anxious. It's weird because I felt simultaneously annoyed but moved. Like, I was frustrated because they broke my isolation but at the same time also grateful for it because this showed that they care about me. One of them suggested that I might have multiple personality disorder or something because this has been going on in cycles since forever now. I engage in human contact then break it off and isolate, then I start to worry that I'm going to be left alone so I engage again, rinse and repeat. I can't fucking go on like this
No. 695947
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>watching 16 year olds parrot retarded Twitter politics
Not once did I ever think these shitty tumblr takes would survive but they did. And they’ve mutated.
No. 695956
>>695611I asked him how much porn he watches/how often he jerks off and he got super defensive about it and said it's like twice a month so I'm 100% that's a lie.
He also is super fucking violent with his dick when he does anything so all signs point to cumbrain.
Dodged a bullet there I guess.
No. 695979
>>695966they’re inherently retarded and you’re retarded for posting this here
semi-related vent but i fucking hate seeing wojaks and “doomer” shit outside of 4chan, it wasn’t even funny when it originated there.
No. 696004
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Condoms are expensive where I live and my boyfriend wants to go bareback mainly because of this (even my ex bf). While I understand where he's coming from, I can't enjoy sex during the act and afterwards while I'm being paranoid about getting pregnant, but at the same time I don't want to have to pitch in my own fucking money for HIS condoms. Just an overall shitty situation and it's making me want to go back to being lonely, even though I really like him
No. 696008
>>696004You know what’s even more expensive than condoms? Abortions. Babies.
If you’ve voiced your feelings and he still has this opinion, then he does not respect your body and does not care if you don’t enjoy sex. Someone like that doesn’t deserve you.
No. 696051
>>696045Look there are 3 things to do:
- Tell him to fuck off
- Pay a share of the condoms
- Let him rawdog it (this is what Op does)
1 and 2 are both fine, 3 is retarded
No. 696062
>>696041>since they protect her from getting pregnant?Why is this solely about the woman's side of a pregnancy though? A man who doesn't want to be a father should be equally concerned and responsible for preventing to produce a child. The baby might grow in the woman's body but it's also his biological descendant.
Think about it, just because nature decided a body grows in the woman's body it's her sole responsibility to bear the cost of preventing a pregnancy? Even though it's both the woman and man's descendant? How does that sound right?
No. 696068
>>696037Does it happen regularly or only when you’re sitting in certain positions? I used to have something similar until I realized it was
triggered by certain relaxed sitting positions (probably due to a pinched nerve). It was more of a subtle rocking/shaking, and I managed to lessen it by realigning my back and gaining more muscle in my core and hip area.
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>>696078I think it’s time for a change of moid, anon, yours seems defective.
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I feel like with the amount of romance fanfictions and cringey reader-inserts I've read I have completely ruined and destroyed my perception of genuine and real romance.
Nothing does it for me anymore and I've tried dating apps to see if it helps and it just doesn't. I had an ex but I just didn't feel any genuine affection for him when we were together. I feel like I'll grow old alone and never find true love if I continue the way that I am.
No. 696133
>>696127i feel exactly the same as you but i actually don’t mind it. i feel like real life relationships are just disappointing and stressful but i’m also an autist who prefers to be alone
i would start by thinking about what aspects of an irl relationships you’d idealise based on the content you’ve consumed and if it’s a “healthy” idealisation or an unrealistic one. i don’t think it’s wrong to have exceptionally high standards personally because it means you won’t settle for dumb shit, but i also think you should remember that real life people are mostly annoying, mentally ill and not able to manage in long term relationships lmao. i wish you luck though anon!
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I hate my boss and i hate starbucks. I got pulled aside to get a 'stern talking' when i told a customer several times to pull up his mask. He was spitting all over the place, cursing me out. so what? you expect me to accept that shit when the covid cases are exploding in america? i fucking hate starbucks and their bullshit. they literally dont care about us baristas. So many cafes closed down due to covid and exposure, but they are still not taking this seriously. The tomfoolery.
No. 696213
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>>695953I asked my therapist once, sincerely, if I have NPD. He said no, but I haven't told him some of the shit that I've done.
Anyway, I spent most of my work day doing bullshit online quizzes about personality disorders.
This… isn't normal, is it?
No. 696263
>>695495>>696213Do you care for your cats? My mom is either a narcissist or histrionic and only cares about people/things when they benefit her. Legit never talks to her kids unless she needs one of us in some social situation to look normal. She has no ability to love anyone but herself. If you're capable of selfless love towards your cats then you probably aren't a total lost cause. Borderline people are capable of empathy.
Go to a psychologist if you can and be 100% honest. See what they say.
No. 696292
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I realized how much my symptoms are so closely similar to bpd, so uhhh i might be bpdchan or something. I kind of knew that because of the many unstable relationships i had and still do, and how impulsive i am with buying stuff or generally having a self destructive behaviour.
Im not going to say i have bpd because self diagnosing is pretty stupid. I'll be getting a diagnosis next year which sucks ass because of the lockdown we have. But i just don't want it to worsen, i don't know how bad it is and to what extent. Anyway at the same time im pretty happy that im going to get help finally, but i also feel depressed as shit that this might be the whole reason my life is so fucked up.
Im also not so sure if i will even get therapy, since i heard many stories of bpdchans being rejected by doctors/therapists, so that's a big yikes from me. The fact professional therapists and doctors or whatever cannot treat you because of a thing they heard is supposedly bad, i mean isn't this what doctors and therapists are for? or am i completely missing something.
anyway, huge accomplishment (diagnosis, therapy) but also huge sad because man my mental health is fucked, thanks mom and dad for neglecting me and not caring, really helped me as you can see here.
No. 696302
>>696200>>696218>>696298I feel the exact same, the Venus thread just makes me fucking sad. There's nothing there to see except a broken person struggling to function at all. The countless posts about sand on her legs bcs she's at the beach made me want to see the whole thread nuked.
I also feel this way about Taylor R, there's no milk anymore, it's just nitpicking about the smallest little things.
It's fine if there's no milk. Shit doesn't stay dramatic forever, people grow up.
No. 696307
>>696218>>696298>>696299>>696302She's a grown woman. At what point is she accountable for herself despite her upbringing?
If she's excused because of her fucked up parents and mental illness, then the majority of cows on this website are also absolved.
I think you all relate to her and the criticisms hit a bit too close to home. Take a break.
No. 696312
>>696263I really do. When I spiral, losing them is a part of one of the worst things that can happen to me.
Thank you for caring. It's unusual to be on the receiving end of niceness. I hope you have a good day, anon.
No. 696453
>>696448Men are generally shitty and retarded, so having a boyfriend usually entails dating someone with those characteristics. I guess some anons are scared of being alone.
I used to be one of them but have since graduated into forever-alone cat lady. No regrets.
No. 696464
>>696448Most het women are to weak to live alone. They would rather have a mediocre/shitty/
abusive boyfriend than no boyfriend at all.
No. 696466
>>696448More women should definitely dump.
Just to offer an alternative perspective though: Sometimes I am really harsh when I'm venting about my emotions anonymously when my bf causes an affront. Is the situation really blown so much out of proportion irl? Nah. I'm just dramatic sometimes. Could be the same for other anons too, or not.
I pay attention to how often I vent about people in my life. If I find the urge to want to vent about them more than once a week and more than a few times a month, that's when I know I've got something
toxic. Sometimes I just want to vent about my bf being a tone-deaf idiot in the same way all humans tend to mess up at times. It just shouldn't be a frequent thing.
No. 696467
>>696293Well he ain't your boyfriend no more!!!!
Jokes aside, how long were you two dating? And is he white? So many men are turning out to be or be into troons, I think we need to compile a list of warning signs from women like yourself. However, please recognize how lucky you are that you found out sooner rather than later. Imagine if you found out after you had gotten married and had kids. It always makes me so grateful when I think about exes like that and how leaving was absolutely the best decision in the long run.
Also, please get tested for STDs/STIs when you can. Don't trust a word that this man says, even if he has "proof" he never met up with someone else or whatever excuses he'll probably give you. This guy has lost all credibility, it's time to sever ties and block him completely. Move onward with your life and you will recognize the blessing in this. I hope you feel better in the meantime and aside from the inevitable sadness from a breakup, I hope you aren't feeling any guilt about what he did. Him being a closeted degenerate is his own issue. I'm enraged that he likely dragged a woman into this so that he could save face while he was fucking trannies on the DL.
No. 696487
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I have become such a gross asiaboo because of not having an concrete identity that its messing me up, my family descents from native american catholic converts of the late 19th century, they don't have any semblance of culture or community except being catholic conservative farmers, my mother's surname was picked on a whim, like genuinely my grandparents (who died when my mom was a teenager) just slapped whatever common jesus-y surname that came to mind, whenever people go on about heritage and where their family came from and traditions it makes me depressed as fuck, my family is impossible to trace further than my great-grandparents, there's no traditions, no recipes, no stories, and even if I tried to research shit it would be impossible because whatever ethnic group they/me are from culture-wise went extinct basically a century before anyone gave a shit about documenting this kind of thing.
So I just cope with this garbage by being hyperfixated in asian history and culture and flip floping on wanting to be x nationality im studying at the moment because im jealous of people who actually have a rich culture, right now its china.
No. 696496
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Look anons, I love my younger brother, he is my family after all, but he has been insufferable these past few months.
I had been starving for a single piece of meat for a long time, but when I finally managed to get a single tray of chicken meat that I shared with him, he actually tried to trash out the meat, as he gave me a smug look and told be "Because you know I REALLY love meat" on a very sarcastic way, untimately I saved the meat, but it took me so long to get it just for him to try to trash it.
Me and my mom had been planning a trip, we worked so hard to finish all of our chores and plan the date, just for my brother to go with us, a few hours before the trip, and told us that he had a test that he couldn't do because I was on the computer, despite that I gave him the computer multiple times and he had, in fact, done nothing and just stare at his phone while the computer was on. We had to re-plan the trip, for many weeks after, just because we had to wait for the test to be enabled again. And when the trip was finally being made, he spend the whole trip angry, asking to return soon to the house. I tried to tell my mom that we shouldn't invite him again, but she kept saying that we must include him on everything we do, and everytime we had gone outside to do something he will begin to complain about everything, demanding to go back home as soon as possible.
Everytime he sees me with my phone, he will try to take it from my hands, sometimes even tell me to turn it off, as he hurts my legs. But he will get angry at me if I begin to talk to him.
I don't know if it is because of the age, he is 13 years old, or something, but I can't stand being around him anymore.
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I just got done reading jjba part 6 stone ocean and now idk what do with my life now
No. 696505
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>>696496Well anon, it sounds like it's time for you to go full Cain on his ass.
No. 696544
>>696535> I’m just really paranoid about exactly what types of hentai he’s literally cumming to.. I’m just kind of shockedThe curiosity is killing me, what kind of anime porn does he fap to? Is it anime girls with balloons for breasts? Is it those extremely specific anime porn stuff like
Reverse unbirthing of my mom while a guy dressed like my female childhood friend fucks me and calls me a girl, everyone has womb tattoos and someone is watching us while making fun of my micropenis kind of degenerate shit?
No. 696546
>>696535Kind of embarrassing to admit to probably, especially when you're first talking to someone. Personally, as long as it's not futa or loli/kid shit or extremely weird grotesque hentai, I prefer men watching that that over regular porn. I've been spoiled by someone that stopped watching it after we began dating though.
I can't imagine the number of men that jerk it with imagination alone is very high though.
Again, if it bothers you then it's not something you have to pursue
No. 696549
>>696547Idk anon. I don't think there is a set number that is correct. I personally would not wait longer than 6-8 months though. Can't go to a year.
I think it's important to note that your s/o could also just be waiting to hear you say it though. Just like how you're waiting for him.
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>>696568I also want a robot boyfriend. But he has to be a bit of a himbo, that would make him even more attractive.
No. 696602
>>696596thank you so much
between drinking and fucking bulimia im dehydrated as fuck. ima drink water and try to sleep. thannk you for your kidnness
No. 696675
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I can barely stand looking at myself in the mirror.
My mother is an ex-model, and working in that industry sort of messed her up a bit I think. She would nitpick and criticize how I look at every turn until I moved out (she instead started doting on me from that point on oddly enough), she would tell me I was fat despite being normal weight, my face too wide, my shoulders too broad, that nobody actually likes me etc etc. And then almost half my life have a close "friend" that would also treat me like shit, telling me I'm stupid and insinuate that I'm ugly as well, and then later on I had a boyfriend for a little while that would repeatedly tell me I was actually not his type and that he would usually not be attracted to me if he didn't love me.
So I always feel like the ugly friend, it really messed me up even more when I went backpacking with a friend for two weeks and she was hit up by men almost every day and I they would usually just roll their eyes or just go "mhm" when I tried to push myself back into the conversation because I refuse to get shut out just because someone wants to get their dick wet (note: I wasn't interested in getting the attention from these scrotes, but I think you can understand how it feels to have that kind of situation almost. every. single. day. might make you feel like an ugly crone).
It's not like I don't get compliments or anything, I have been told a lot as well that I'm a beautiful woman and have a great body by both men and women, but I have a real hard time to take it to heart - on a good day I think I'm just really plain. I know how to dress myself and have a basic knowledge of makeup too. But all of this makes me harbor this low-key grudge against good-looking women, and I really don't want to be that kind person, but I can't stop. Whenever I meet someone that looks great I can't stop analyzing their looks and compare them with me, and I end up feeling lumpy and disgusting.
I have tried to get help with this, since this extremely shitty self-confidence is clearly something that runs too deep for me to handle on my own, but the psychologists I've had just shrugs when I ask about it.
No. 696681
>>696645If many people lie to you sometimes it's cuz how you act. I would think about that.
I lie a lot to avoid confrontation with people I know act unreasonable with the truth.
No. 696792
I do recognize posting something as stupid as this is a clowning sentence to me but I can't care anymore, I need to vent to someone.
I don't think I've felt this suicidal in such a prolonged time. For an entire month I've not been able to go to bed in a decent hour because I get panic attacks at night. I cut myself to feel something, but I can't even feel pain. I have filled a notebook full of suicide notes to the people I know. I live in a shit country with no crisis hotline and I have no money to afford a therapist. I have never felt so ugly, so unaccomplished, so useless, so talentless and so fucking worthless. Nothing I do works, I try to do everything to improve any aspect of my life but it just flatlines and it sucks even more since I was born into a good start for my life. I take every advice yet the result is the same no matter what I do. Job applications tell me to come after the pandemic, riding trends to get popular nets me nothing, make up cannot fix my ugly face, trying to ease the yearning with media only makes me sadder. Nothing is inherently wrong in my life, it is just so stale and I cannot feel ANYTHING but dread.
The worst feeling is my friend doing her absolute best to cheer me up and it should work but this feeling of emptiness is so overwhelming I just can't believe it and I feel like I'm doing her a disservice just by being fucking sad all the time. She deserves better than me. I'm tired of crying myself to sleep, tired of no one to cling on. I want to die before new years as I cannot handle a year as shitty as this one where I'm cooped up and nothing I do improves anything and I waste my time.
I want to die but I don't want to make people I know upset and that is my sole reason but every breath I take feels like pain. I have no idea how to stop it, just the tiniest amount of accomplishment or improvement would make me happy but there is nothing and everyday I have to face the fact that I'm worthless and a nothing.
No. 696795
>>696771>why do I keep trying to think I can drink like a normal person.It's not you doing that, it's Her. I can recognize Her
toxic line of thought anywhere. Bit of advice from an ex-alcoholic: learn to recognize That Voice, and realize it's not you. She's the Enemy living in your head. Treat her as such. Whenever you hear her, remind her
you're in charge. You can let her whine and demand and beg, but she doesn't get to make decisions, all decisions go through you. Start having actual conversations with The Voice in your head, it will help you break free from Her. When you hear The Voice finessing you how a drink would be really nice and why, clap back and ridicule Her. You're the one with the power, She'll be flailing left and right to make you do her bidding, but you hate that Bitch and you're gonna make Her grovel like She tried to do to you. Kill the Enemy inside, that part was never "you".
No. 696804
>>696801I agree with you anon, but trooning out wouldn’t help unless you were an extremely rare case of actually passing and managed to keep your sex secret. The idea that female
victims of rape can do something to stop it is untrue therefore not worth pursuing. The only thing that can stop rape is if the rapists stop raping. All we can do is pick up the pieces.
No. 696830
>>696823If he treated you badly in the first place, in all likelihood he wouldn’t care what you have to say to him now. I don’t know why people often feel this way - I’ve been there too - it’s weird to desire any interaction with someone who hurt you. It’s cliche but the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on. Try to figure out what
triggered you so you can work on it.
No. 696835
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i've been pondering if i should cut ties with my friend which lived at the same town with me, now hasn't been replying to my msgs for 3 months. Maybe practicing survivalism therefore not replying to anything. wondering if he is in fact shitty person and doesn't deserve my friendship.
>be him, 25yrs old dad
>can't see his 5yrs old bastard son bc of her BPD ex restricting
>after that ex he lived with some swamp monster for 3 yrs to leech money and drugs from her
>be me, get attached to this person as a big brother persona (i don't have siblings)
>have fun hanging out with him
>realize he likes to hang with his NPD bestie more
>get few times left alone at the bar by him & former friends, get once sexually abused by a stranger
>leave out the town after various traumas and getting in problems with this friend's NPD bestie
makes me wonder if my friend in fact is just a puppet of his bestie, therefore i should stay away from him to not get hurt by a NPDfag any longer. It's hard to think straight when it's about an important friendship.
No. 696886
>>696792Anon, I'm sorry you are feeling this way. To make tiny accomplishments and improvements would be a step in the right direction. It can be simple things like
>finish a big glass of water>walk in nature for 30 minutes>wash my hairthen if you still have energy to do more, make it more complex things like
>cook a new recipe>meditate >write 3 positive things about myself, and 3 things I want to improve onI know this is hard but try to be gentler to yourself. Give yourself some grace. There are many ebooks and free workbooks online that can help you. Try working through a few exercises when you have more energy. DBT work may be helpful due to your selfharming tendencies.
You are not worthless. You can get better.
No. 697003
>>696658I take Magnesium Glycinate supplements, or have started actually being responsible about taking them in the evenings after a meal along with a calcium, and D vitamin. It's helped tremendously with cramping and even
flow.
I'm irritated that it's been a massive bunch of trial and error to figure out things that work.
No. 697431
>>696771I'm not an alcoholic, but was a drug addict who went to rehab so here is some advice I picked up.
-Write a plan for when you feel like you are gonna relapse. Like for example, my plan is to change scenery, text a friend, start doing breathing exercises, but it is up to you how you want your plan to look. This will give you a solid foundation on what to do when you do feel like relapsing.
Recognize minor signs of relapse, or as my therapist called it "seemingly irrelevant descisions". You argued and now your friends are asking to hang out? maybe you know that often leads to drinking. that's a minor decision that leads to relapse. It's all about identifying minor
triggers, which will make your life 100% easier.
I also understand being an alcoholic must be harder, because alcohol is so normalized. But if you feel comfortable enough, what helped me the most, is admitting to people I have a problem. I told people "i'm clean, i dont do drugs" and they helped me stay away from that shit
No. 697437
>>697434I'd insult them more subtly than that, if you go all out insulting them they can disregard it and say you're crazy. Friendzoning them nicely due to a lack of sexual chemistry cuts them to the core.
Though ofc my official advice is not to be needlessly cruel unless the guy has actually done something wrong.
No. 697447
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>>697443Take your meds and stop baiting on LC.
No. 697451
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i need to save money but my sugar addicted rot brain keeps spilling it all on luxury snacks. this week i bought boba tea, coffee, smoothies, each nearly $10. to top it all off i am unemployed at the moment. this has to fucking stop. there are more important and useful things to spend on.
No. 697461
I’m serious men have won the pandemic, they’ve manipulated the very stupidest of us into being their slaves via only fans, they’ve kept us at home so they can abuse and kill us, they’ve let all the rapists and abusers out of prison who have rushed home to kill their wives and daughters but watch them VERY CAREFULLY and see how hard they are crashing and burning. Keep your head up ladies, remember that men don’t progress from a foetus and their primary functions are to control women, pass on genes and parasite off of women and they do it very well.
Even science doesn’t wNt or care about them, read this
https://www.kent.ac.uk/news/science/16634/the-y-chromosome-is-disappearing-so-what-will-happen-to-menWomen are gods creatures and men are rife with inherent sin. Everything the puritans said about women is true for men they are the devils agents and their sensuality makes them vulnerable to sin, they are inherently impure and have to spend their whole lives serving women to make up for it for a slim chance of getting into heaven. Forget 72 virgins, even in heaven they will be our servants and slaves.
No. 697464
>>697461So many lines just to say
>no uAt incels
No. 697465
>>697451Try setting a weekly budget for your treats. I did that and it meant I could get three takeout coffees a week which is still a lot but much less than 1-2 a day. It didn’t feel like depriving myself and eventually I got into the mindset of delaying purchases for another day and thinking “I would rather miss 3 coffees and get this thing instead”
Also look into stuff you can make at home or buy from a grocery store as they’re much cheaper. Instant coffee isn’t great but the more premium ones are okay and you can get several servings for the price of one takeout coffee (at least where I am). Coffee machine, smoothie blender etc are ideal if you can invest. Take stuff out with you so you don’t get tempted
No. 697480
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>>697465that sounds good, thanks for your advice anon. i tend to splurge when stressed, especially after long restrictions.
i will be making smoothies at home, and keeping the other drinks as special treats. my home made coffee is much healthier than what i buy going out, and i like that those fancy drinks are more rare and full of sugar, syrup and various seasonal flavors. maybe making them a conditional treat could work. only get coffee when seeing my friend, only get the tea after a rainy day or good interview
No. 697481
>>697475You bring up so much stuff nobody even meantioned in this thread
nobody called you a legbeard crazy cat lady, nobody asked you about being a mother
No. 697521
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My soft, new pillow that I just bought too long ago now feels like I'm sleeping on a bag of golf balls. WHY. It hurts my head. I haven't washed it yet or anything. Fuck
No. 697529
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my one day off this week and my cat spent the whole night scratching the wall, knocking shit over and waking me up every fucking hour being a noisy retard. Middle of the night and I can't get back to sleep. End me anons
No. 697530
>>697522Huh. Thanks. I didn't think that was a thing people actually have to do for some reason.
>>697523I know. Fucking frustrating.
No. 697690
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Feels good to let go and realize that ultimately, not everything is your fault or within your control. Some people are just mentally ill autists who will lose their minds about you, forming conspiracy theories and shit, even if you (literally) do nothing. It's not worth caring about, there's nothing you could've done, and they plague themselves.
I didn't really internalize it until now. Deranged people can and should take themselves out of the picture, and the best thing you can do is not give them any personal information they can use against you.
No. 697712
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My brother's fiancee is so fucking entitled and spoiled. She's a sweet, intelligent person otherwise but Jesus Christ everything has to be exactly as she wants it. They're having their wedding in this bumfuck town that's at least a four hour drive (if not a plane flight) for everyone in both families because she just had to have this uwu fairytale castle for the wedding venue. She picked the grad school both she and my brother are going to, and it's a huge downgrade from where he's currently going. He hates horses, church, and skiing but pretends to like them for her. She also wants them to live near her parents in the redneck south, which means his family and friends will almost never see him again. It's fucking bullshit, he needs to learn to say no to her.
The last straw is some bullshit she's pulling right now. They're visiting her parents and she wants to kick him out of there two days before Christmas because she wants to be alone with her family for the holiday. Now he might have to fly to my parents' house at the peak of the pandemic, risking my immune-compromised step dad's safety. This fucking bitch my god.
No. 697718
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I'm sick of feeling stupid because I don't do anything and I don't know anything but I'm too depressed to rectify it. I should just woman up and neck myself already.
No. 697722
I just went through the large amount of tumblr blogs I follow and only 5 of them have been sort of consistently active. The most active blogs I encounter are run by insane gender special zoomers. I can't win.
>>697622Yeah, but it's like tumblr where people rarely post. It's just used as an archive to keep previous works. Which reminds me I should save my fave images from there. You never know when a site will go down forever.
No. 697725
>>697714The difference is that PornHub hosted underaged rape
victims, OnlyFans so far has featured willing, +18 women being "independent" (Correct me if I'm wrong, please)
I see an end to online sex work but in like 5, 10 years, when the future consequences will be displayed, as the girls that started now are, sadly, messed up mentally, emotionally and career-wise
No. 697729
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>>696859thanks anon, not gonna take it anymore.
No. 697792
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>>697787i'm content with my life but also really curious what true love feels like. never felt it. only dated losers. i feel a wave of petty and irrational anger when i see happy couples. i especially can't stand seeing some messy girl who's loud about her mental issues having a loving and supportive bf or gf at her side. how dare they express their problems and still have someone that cares about them so much?
No. 697820
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>tfw when your friend makes her social cover photo the group shot where you have a double chin for five miles and everyone else looks nice
No. 697827
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I’m so fucking nervous, my dog got sick yesterday, I went to the veterinarian and got to treat him on time. Now I have to give him two injections on my own and I’m freaking out, I hope I don’t mess up, i’m dying, I wish I could just die right now, this is the first time I’ve ever grabbed a syringe to inject a living being with juices and stuff.
No. 697840
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Once upon a time ago, I was at summer camp and I met this cool emo kid that I really got along with. This on valley girl made this racist joke towards me and he totally stood up for me. I never forgot that and added him as a friend on facebook.
Tonight he started sperging about how women also have privilege and when I tried to tell him I agreed that troons aren't real women, he started to sperg even more and call me braindead, etc and about how feminism was the reason trannies were pushing multiple genders.
I tried to tell him I agreed with him, we got into an argument and he blocked me. Is it wrong to say I'm kinda sad this happened? I used to think it was so fucking cool that his little emo twink looking ass had my back and then now he's being a complete retard and couldn't even handle a constructive discussion, he immediately went on to block me. fucking faggot.
No. 697843
>>697840samefag, to clarify, I tried to say that I agreed that troons weren't real women. But I also wanted to explain to him that straight male privilege DOES exist and that he should do more research. I explained I'd probably be called a
TERF for my logic but that feminism literally has nothing to do with TRAs unless it's lib feminism. But of course he couldn't handle it. As soon as I posted my reply, he immediately responded, that's how I know he didn't read anything I said.
No. 697865
>>697858First of all, calm down, this is /vent/. There's no need to act like an ass and point fingers at me while I vent. Secondly, I'm not mad that he "barked back" (I explicitly said I'm sad that we aren't friends anymore) I'm only mad that he blocked me instead of having a rational conversation.
>we got into an argument and he blocked me. Is it wrong to say I'm kinda sad this happened?>he's being a complete retard and couldn't even handle a constructive discussion, he immediately went on to block me. Third, He WAS emo back at summer camp a LONG TIME AGO (did you read the part where I said that??).
Damn, if you're going to be an absolute bitch why don't you fix your reading glasses?
No. 697868
>>697865>argument So you guys had a dialogue or you didn't? Because what I got from your post is that you two bickered and then he blocked you because he didn't want to hear it anymore. What would you have preferred? That he didn't block you and continued to post bad shit within your point of vision? Let bygones be bygones? Clearly he's an MRA freak, so this was really a blessing in disguise. I get that you're sad this pristine image of him is gone, but you didn't see it coming
at all? Of course you can be sad, but I just think it's silly since you were able to cosign him up until what he said no longer supported your message, despite them both being in the same vein as each other. Feel better though.
No. 697905
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I gotta crush on one of my Twitter mutuals but they’re 7 yrs older than me and are a ftm dating another ftm I’m also mutrals with that talks abt how gay they are all the time,how did I get myself into this
No. 698018
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I want a 1920s slick bob flapper hair cut so bad. But I have wavy thick hair. And I'm really too lazy/depressed to style it everyday. Fug…
No. 698024
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I let my mom emotionally and financially control me my entire life and now I'm 25 still living completely isolated in her uninsulated garage.
She did everything in her power to completely isolate me and hide me from the world, home school, no college, wasn't allowed to have friends or family, refused to teach me to drive, she told me the only way I was special was that everyone in the world wanted to kill me. She constantly told me growing up I was going to be murdered.
She let my stepdad scream and cuss at me every single day and tell me how stupid and filthy I was.
She always screamed and cussed at me and told me how ignorant and helpless I am. And how I was going to be murdered.
I started working at 16 and almost all of my money went to her. She never let me get my own bank account, she made mine when I was 12 when I got paper routes, and kept it, she still has it.
I am so fucked up.
I fucked up so bad.
I can't sleep until it's light outside and I just want to kill myself.
I have a chronic illness that started getting worse when I would have graduated high school, and she made me keep working even after my doctor told me I had a brain tumor.
I finally started googling if there was any way I could get out of here and found out there are.
I've applied for disability and housing and medicaid and food stamps and my own bank account.
I still want to kill myself for how fucking stupid I was for so long, and for getting sick and getting sicker, and for wasting my life.
But now, honestly, now that I know I actually could have escaped years ago, I'm going to and I'm going to live as long as I can out sheer fucking spite.
If I could become a monster, I would.
No. 698037
>>698033that seems like the correct advice but I fucking hate myself and no one loves me and I don't even like anything
>>698036>People who do things out of spite have an unusually high rate of successwow that is
surprisingly good fortune
No. 698152
>>698080I feel your pain for a slightly different reason. It was summer, it was hot, one manic episode later I chopped off 12 inches. I miss my hair so much now. It wasn't even damaged, I'm just stupid.
I did donate it though so that helped a little
No. 698212
I'm SEETHING but it's only over a hypothetical.
So I wanted to take christmas eve off, and now I'm the backup person to come in if someone in the barebones crew is sick.
This would be alright, but what pisses me off is that my coworker, who told me he DGAF about christmas, and I said christmas eve is super important to me and I hope I get it off (xmas is basically on the 24th in my country) is also taking it off. And because he's at least told us he's going to some resort with his family because he's eager to get covid I guess, that he can't be backup apparently.
When I asked him why is he taking those christmas days off, he said he figured he could, so he'd take the opportunity. Like fuck you, cunt. You don't even care that it's christmas eve!
I mean I don't even know if i'll be coming in, but one staff member who is supposed to has been taking days off here and there recently for studying or some shit.
I thought that by being upfront about what's important to me and communicating (because I've been bitter about actions then realised that they didn't even know it would offend me kek) that I'd get on better. I pull my weight and am a good, supportive team member.
If I need to work this christmas eve, I will hate both coworkers that caused me to come in and I do not know if I will EVER not be bitter about it.
But again, it hasn't happened yet and I'm jsut seething that the possibility is there.
Also, this cunt coworker leaves early every day claiming there's no more work to do, I'll give him or show him work that needs to be done and he walks the fuck away.
No. 698250
>>698214But anon he is the main manager, all the teenagers are just crew! They have no leverage above him in that regard
Like I said, I know my issue is dumb ass hell but it's just another reference on his resume of lameness that I'm unfortunately developing in my head
No. 698259
>>698212if he has a family i'm sure it's his kids that care about seeing him on christmas eve.
anyway tell them that actually you're going someplace unreachable and you can't be the backup.
No. 698304
>>698259Nah we're all young, he cared more about new years because all he does in his free time is get shitfaced and party, but now the lockdown is so strict he can't do that for new years as he was planning.
I wish I could just lie and say actually I'm feeling not well if they do call, but lying gives me this horrible guilty conscience until I come clean, so I won't.
Just pisses me off that he said verbatim "I don't care about being off for christmas", but he decided to take those days when it's important not only for me, but likely someone else who IS working also wanted it off, we just requiested it first.
No. 698310
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USPS is making me a full blown capitalist right now. I have so many gifts that are just being held indefinitely or just straight up lost in the crumbling federal infrastructure that is the United States Postal Service. I'm not super broke but my income isnt disposable either so I'm super upset it feels like I could be losing around $220 worth of stuff. Theyre so fucking understaffed and underfunded even before the pandemic but now its reached a state of complete disrepair. It feels so hopeless I dont even bother to reach out to them since all the news articles lately are just about the thousands of pending xmas packages held up in random facilities.
>inb4 why don't you just stop using USPS
I always request Fedex or UPS and ask for them to charge me extra for the additional shipping but sometimes the business just can't. I just want to move to a functioning country where we arent leading in pandemic deaths and failing at literally everything. Absolute embarrassment.
No. 698331
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>>698277i feel you anon. i hope it gets better for both of us
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im so lonely and touch starved. so fucking lonely
No. 698369
>>698186I mean you feel how you feel anon, but in his position I’d do the same. Not because I couldn’t handle the teasing but it’s just shit I wouldn’t want to deal with if there was an option not to.
Is there other stuff going on that is putting you off him? I read that people get annoyed at their partner’s eating and breathing sounds more when the relationship goes sour. When you start to dislike someone, the pettiest shit gets irritating.
No. 698378
>>698369Yeah you're right on to something there, we have been having issues revolving around me wanting him to grow more of a backbone.
Its like every scenario that makes an example of his lack of confidence is magnified, & being embarassed over having a flower in his hair just seems overly self conscious to me. I'm probably going to have to end it when the lease is up because we simply aren't match
No. 698387
>>698385Me too, I really haven’t seen any particular online groups on chat apps and the sorts for straight women that are not plagued by scrotes and
even more trannies than lesbian/bi groups are.
I actually told everyone that I just wanted friends and that I’m straight the moment I joined and they accepted me, so I love them all No. 698390
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Why the hell am I so bad at drinking water?!
I've been dehydrated all my life because for some reason I barely ever get thirsty. I have to actively set alarms and force myself if I want to drink more than two glasses a day, and even then getting it down is unpleasant when I'm not thirsty. Even though it feels like the comfortable amount to drink I can tell that my body is really dehydrated more often than not, so I know I have to up my fluid intake. Just feels stupid that it's so hard. I don't like drinking soda or juice too much either so besides it being unhealthy switching to those wouldn't help anyway.
No. 698401
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I'm 26 and I am just now starting to understand the meme off feeling bad seeing your ex friends or acquaintances getting engaged or married. I am not even jealous of their relationships, don't want kids but the fact that I only have 2 relatives kinda makes me dread? I am in no condition to seek for a girlfriend, not mentally nor physically so it must boil down to being just jealous of these people "having it better than me). Which isn't even a big win in itself, I am in pretty shit condition as of right now, but will be better in a few years time but anons, this shit stung so bad today. I have no idea why but seeing a former friend being so fucking adult and dressed up, getting married and shit just bummed me the fuck out. I now understand the memes even though I kinda think marriage is a joke and just a moneypit and most people will end up divorcing, especially when getting married in their early twenties but still. Goddamit I feel like shit for feeling like shit, I just wanna be able to think I can do that too even if I really didn't, it's all very confusing and too much.
No. 698612
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Literally what the fuck. I made a private group for me and my friends so I could escape seeing mentions of this bastard that I hate, but they keep bringing him up because they don’t know I dislike him and they’re still friends with him. Not even my hug box is safe from his grasp. I simply do not like him and am tired of seeing him being referenced. Maybe I should just drop a sad sob story and then leave the group chat. I don’t want to randomly tell them I hate his guts and in the end they pick him instead of me so, out of sight, out of mind.
No. 698658
>>698641It's just gotta go to a USCIS lockbox here in the states, but damn. The state of things is sounding insane right now.
Thank you, anon
No. 698672
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Why'd I let myself open the celebricows thread and see Ellen Page's fucked up new fillered FtM jaw
No. 698706
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I feel like I failed my Chinese exam in uni fuck living like that
No. 698710
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I caught a rat in my house with a glue trap and I was already feeling bad because it's an awful way to die but then I closed it (cause it's shaped like a greeting card) and it left such a haunting shriek that I actually started shaking and my heart was racing with guilty and horror and I almost ended up crying
I know it's a pest but holy shit. Couldn't even sleep because of this horrible sensation.
I am so sorry, little rodent, so so so sorry
I swear I'll never use this shit ever again, even if tradicional mouse traps never worked very well at least when they do they are way more humane
No. 698742
>>698734I actually have a cat, but she's kinda old
and lazyI found out we had rat(s?) because one day she brought one to my room, and then she let it escape on accident.
I 100% prefers when she catches it, she's a mean bitch that like torturing it before she kills it (that's why she let it escape, she was playing with it), but at least it's more natural. The glue is just awful.
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I'm finding it hard to connect with reality after seeing disturbing nightmare, I've been sitting still and feeling stuck with the situation of my life.
I saw person I knew from the past and strangers insulting me with "oh don't cry just die pussy" "leave us alone you idiot" "why can't you just die?" etc. and after I escaped those ppl I tried to phonecall emergency number, but all I heard was vintage asian pop. Then I was teleported into the marching army of vietnamese soldiers.
i have to wait about 5 months in jammed up queue before it's even possible to start searching for a psychotherapist so I just have to process this shit by myself. but that's fine.
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I want to invest money but I don't know how to start, I'm too dumb for this
No. 698779
>>698773I have a similar problem with my biological dad. He physically abused me for many years while telling tall tales to the courts about my mother being a violent alcoholic. Eventually, he ran off to another country when my mom moved closer to where we lived, and she got custody then.
But god, I feel so confused as to how to think about my dad. He sends me nice messages on facebook and shit, but how can I believe he's fine now after spending most of my childhood with a psychopathic butane huffer? Sometimes I think I'm too hard on him if I hate him, because he had a lot of psychological issues. The rest of my sisters also have a lot of mental problems ranging from anorexia and full-on shut-in social anxiety.
It's hard to know what to do after being abused. But hopefully one day you can talk it out with a good counsellor or therapist.
No. 698842
>>698821i think you're just being way too hard on yourself anon. there's nothing wrong with using the internet to help with your homework
>>698834don't worry it'll get there, i've had some things i've ordered show up without the tracking updating at all
No. 698873
>>698710I don't know what you expected to happen when you closed it.
Rodents are known to chew their own legs off and die from bleeding out because of those things, literally anything is more humane than glue traps although sometimes the spring loaded ones don't kill the rodent either they just leave it mangled and alive. Poison will cause rats to die and rot under your floor and walls, attracting flies
Humane traps really are the best your of trap, it takes a lot of trial and error and it's a hassle to release them but it's worth it just to avoid that guilt. House rodents usually die after being released into the wild but at least you give them a chance.
No. 698912
>>698371sounds like i touched a nerve.
>>698384exactly! if you're spamming thirst emojis at other women like a man would and talking about how gay you are for them on social media while only getting crushes on men and dating men exclusively, i'm going to side eye you.
No. 698916
My parent's know I suffered depression as a child. for like 2 years I had straight up agoraphobia. My sleep issues use to cause the entire house stress because of my sensitivity to noise. I'm the epitome of a fussy/plain eater, but I've been out of the house since 19 because I also suffered abuse at the hands of my Mum, which I'm not allowed to mention now. I went to therapy in my early 20s because my depression and anxiety flared up enough that I was getting noticed by others outside of my family as being off.
My Dad is disabled and he's recently discussed that I need to see a psychiatrist and he was the one who helped establish me out of the house away from my mum, but I hardly see him and can't really talk to him. I try to speak to my Mum these days about it because our relationship is better through me bending over backwards to be accommodating to her. Yet every time I sleep over at her house I can never sleep and my bed is absolutely drenched in sweat. I got diagnosed with generalised anxiety in my early 20s, but never got medicated just had the therapy. During that time I had to move back home to my Mum's because of money issues and employment and I ended up leaving therapy because it was too hard to come home from a session and my Mum would hassle me for what I talked about. always scared I was blaming her for my issues (which she is at fault for a lot of them, but I don't think she was malicious in her intent idk)
Anyway, the vent is. I spoke to my mum that my dad suggested I need a psychiatrist and I've been convincing myself lately I have either ADHD/aspergers/autism, and she told me to just forget about it. Just leave it alone.
I'm an adult so I obviously don't need permission from my mum to speak to a doctor, but it just sucks that if I do go through with a diagnosis I won't be able to confide in her about it. She doesn't even know I have anxiety, she knows I got put on anti-depressants a few years back, but I took myself off them and only told her about them like a year after I finished taking them and she seemed so disappointed.
I just need help to function
No. 698936
>>698658I think all the lockboxes have an address to ship via UPS/FedEx rather than the PO Box addresses, I shipped a family members paperwork to one via UPS 2nd Day air and while a little pricey (about 30-40 dollars depending on your location) it will get there quickly and safely.
>>698661Through USPS it'll probably get there well after Christmas. UPS/FedEx should get it there before if you go today and ship it 2nd day air. At this point only the high priority shipping options (and day, next day) will arrive on time. It took 5 days for a UPS Ground shipment of mine to arrive in LA just coming from SD and typically that only takes 1 day.
No. 698988
>>698821Maybe you feel a bit of imposter syndrome, meaning you feel like you don't deserve the credit you got for your work.
You put time in it, you looked stuff up yourself, I assume you didnt just copy paste it so you did learn from it. And like you said, it was probably the teachers intention for the material to be self-studied.
Don't be so hard on yourself anon, you deserve the grades you got. You did great!
No. 698993
>>698990Most women dont care about any of the flaws men have because they're low key desperate. They dont cope with it they just accept it. Kind of like how they jjay accept their men watching porn and lusting after women who look nothing like them right infront of their face.
Women will take any abuse a man dishes out because she feels shes not 100% human/whole without a bf or husband.
No. 698999
>>698990Most women
are oblivious. If they don’t seek out the degenerate things that males are looking at, they’d never really know—that’s why it’s always so “shocking” when men are found to be pedophiles, chasers, cheaters, etc. If it isn’t a creepy man with a mustache luring kids into a van with candy, they don’t know what pedophilia/hebephilia looks like.
As for coping with it,
>>698991 is right. As a woman it’s not hard to tell when a man is a creep or interested in inappropriately younger women. Don’t allow them to be your friends or partners, talk openly about how disgusting pedos and hebephiles are, and gauge their reactions. Pay attention to celebs they’re interested in or how they respond to cases like female teachers pursuing male students. If you were looking for a legit answer, here’s an attempt at one!
No. 699005
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>>698991How exactly do you "filter" them? As if a man will admit to you he finds young teens attractive. I remember reading about a study where they were showing men pictures of naked girls between the ages of 11 and 14 and like over 70% of men had penile reaction
I don't care if they don't act on it. It's about the fact they would if they could, like they did in the past. But they figured out it's better to hide it in order to tame older women. Many adult men will still creep on young teens irl or just watch shit on the internet
No. 699007
>>698993>their men watching porn and lusting after women who look nothing like them right infront of their faceTo be fair, when/if they do recognize things like that as problems they are often gaslit and browbeaten into accepting them.
Boyfriend or husband watches porn? IT'S OKAY FOR COMMITTED MEN TO LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN YOU JEALOUS, CONTROLLING BITCH NAG AND ANYWAY HURT FEELING'S WHAT YOU GET FOR SNOOPING HIS BROWSING HISTORY!
Yeah some women are desperate, but most have been pressured into accepting this shit as normal or else they're the pieces of shit.
No. 699011
>>699005stick to using dating websites that make the person's desired age range public. the higher the minimum age, the less likely he is to be a closet pedo.
if you're still not sure, find a way to bait them into admitting it in conversation, usually stating your opinions on age gap relationships will do the trick
No. 699012
>>698990The reason why PP/manhate was a thing on lolcow was because lots of anons browsed and probably still browse other IBs and there you get faced with the fact that most men have these tendencies.
It's evident on other sites too but more subtle. So I'd say most women aren't that aware and hope that their Nigel is different. The years of my life where I remember being most harrassed was in my early to late teens. I still get harrassed today but nothing to that extent and it's always been by really old men, like 40+yo.
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>>699010What about the fact that for the majority of human history it was legal to fuck kids even before they started menstruating, even when girls had their first period at 14 on average, the age of consent in America was 7 and 10, depending on the state. As far as I know only christian feminist groups were protesting against those laws
No. 699029
>>699005It's pretty simple to find out if a man is into whatever thing sexually, you just slightly deniably vaguely imply you're into it a tiny bit yourself and they will jump at the chance to tell you in great detail how they are into it too if they are since men will take any excuse to talk sex with a woman and are absolutely overjoyed if they think you might not only put up with but actually be into their weird coomer fetish.
If they don't take the bait they probably won't even notice it at all since men are bad at picking up social cues that aren't to do with getting their dick hard and if they take note in a negative manner just say you were joking since men tell edgy jokes constantly themselves and they won't think twice about it.
No. 699040
>>699035>it's depressing so I doubt it's trueSigh
>I cannot imagineWell, men and women are completely different.
Also, no one says 70% of men would choose to marry a 11-14 year old, it's rather about fucking them. I'm pretty sure the majority of men would if they knew they could get away with it.
No. 699049
>>699040I didn't say, "it's depressing, so I doubt it's true," I said it's depressing
and I doubt it's true which I still stand by. I also didn't say or mean to insinuate anything about marrying them, it's been a discussion about sexuality from the jump.
>>699044I mean yeah, basically.
No. 699107
>>699090She was laughing so i guess? Honestly can't remember because I was too concentrated on trying not to cry, I just laughed along because I never thought I'd ever hear her admit I was ugly. She has always reassured me I wasn't ugly. Which I've always known it's her motherly obligation to lol
funnily enough this has been the year i've put most effort into my appearance
>>699106hmmm maybe lol
No. 699109
>>699107Try to ask anon. And personally (you) me when you did.
I am sure she didn’t mean it like that. Biggest conflicts happen because of misunderstandings. Rooting for this…
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I seriously think I’m done reading or even checking up on Shayna‘s thread, and I’ve been following since near the beginning. Every other post is either posting autistic edits or whining about Shayna being fat and/or a SW (not milk). At least the lefthots/PnP threads are fairly active.
No. 699116
>>699113>>699109yeah I should probably bring it up. I have no hard feelings toward her even if she wasn't joking though. It just hurts she out of all things was what confirmed it lol
>>699112True anons, I hadn't thought about it like that maybe that's what she meant and it would make more sense. She's always very sweet so it was unlike her.
No. 699152
>>699138It can't be that every single man you've ever dated and every single boyfriend you've ever had got annoyed/disinterested about your interests and hobbies. Either you're misinterpreting things or there's something wrong with the way you behave in social/dating settings and you're not realizing it.
Regardless this "blank slate" tactic is terrible in the long run, I don't think that even needs to be said.
No. 699217
It's been a little bit since I ended my friendship with my closet male friend, I spoke on him a few times here, but I'm starting to see how much that relationship effected me.
Like, I've been through a situation with a man in the closet who cheated and abused me, when I told my friend that, he'd always say little things like, "Well most men are into this or that" and when his obsession with straight men came and him considering transing out, he was always saying little thing like, "you need to understand that most men like trans, straight men aren't afraid of dick anymore" and sometimes he'd say it as a joke, but that shit got to me.
He knows what I been through and I'd just brush it off but looking at it now, I realized the paranoia I have about men and being in a situation with someone abusive because their issues with their sexuality, only got worse when I told him about him, and he made little comments.
I realized how extremely jealous he was of me, not because i'm this amazing beauty but because he feels I have it "easy" because I'm a woman or something. So much of the little things pop into my brain and it hurts.
He always had issues with his sexuality and men, I was always there for him. In a way I felt when I told him about my situation it made him feel better about himself.
Like he liked knocking me down a peg and making me feel like every man is this or that, I just need to get over it.
I don't know if it makes sense but it hurts.
No. 699250
>>699246nah he's very out, he can't hide that he's a gay guy he's very feminine, he just has issues. Whenever a dude hurts him even if he chooses horrible men, he takes it hard.
he went from thinking he was too feminine to find a good man, to being extra feminine to appeal to the men who wanted him (a lot of closeted men/trans chasers) and his last boyfriend was a very masculine dude on the down low who had a thing for feminine men, so he decided to get men he has to be super feminine and/or maybe trans.
It makes zero sense because he'll have the SAME MEN targeting him, but he does not get it.
Then again, maybe you are right. He thinks he needs to be like a woman in order to have a good gay relationship. IDK, it's draining, Even today I'm still worried for him even if I'm hurt.
No. 699454
I have a slew of severe mental illness, childhood trauma, and spent a good 2 years doing drugs and getting shitfaced nearly every day until I overdosed twice, which has led me to have horrendous memory loss. It's so fucking embarrassing. It's so genuinely fucking embarrassing, it's already common with people with severe adhd to have memory loss but mine is just.. so amped up. I can't do my fucking job properly, I can't remember anything my bf asks of me, but the biggest thing is that basically most of my life is complete fog. I don't even remember my first year being with my boyfriend, but I'd never let him know that. I want to remember my life. I want to remember the friends I had and my time with them, I want to remember meeting my bf for the first time and us getting closer, I want to remember my childhood (the not traumatic parts, obviously.) I want fucking nostalgia.
No. 699533
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>>699525I could handle it if it weren't for the fact that men are CONVINCED it's the other way around and hot men are dating ugly fatties en masse. They cry about how every woman wants Chad, and how casual sex with attractive men has convinced every woman she deserves a guy out of her league, and decent/average guys get ignored. But men overestimate how attractive they are and they can't even see ugly women.
Actually, I hate women who date older men much more. They are throwing their future self and the rest of their gender under the bus for an inherently temporary, unsustainable bit of leverage/power in the relationship.
No. 699594
>>698995Well that's just the way it works now. Most schools had to resort to this kind of grading system. How do you know you're not smarter than them? Maybe you are. I think there are just many kinds of smart, some are great at memorizing, others are great at finding, filtering and organising information (like you did). Nothing is better than the other, all are needed in this society.
You need to realise you deserve this and keep telling yourself you do. In the future when you get a job it will be the same. You're working hard and you deserve what you get!
(Sorry maybe I'm projecting but low confidence really is a crutch and you dont need it)
No. 699679
>>699673>>699674All those women are femcels, right?
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/uk-50546184You can stop with the "not all men", "find better men" crap. Even is "your" men don't pressure you to do this shit, they most likely watch porn. The majority of men does. Thus they will never see you as full human beings.
No. 699693
>>699645Comedians in general are lame, at least we can relate to female comedians because they use situations we actually care about.
Otherwise it’s the same politics/sex/daily life/relationships cycle.
Male comedians are the epitome of
i swear I’m relatable! No. 699694
>>699683Okay anon, where is that mana with handsome guys that aren’t pornsick? Because you should at least share
where are you getting those nigels for the world to enjoy.
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>>699679>>699680>>699686>REEEE all men are evil and everyone who doesnt agree must be a manLol such cope, you sound exactly like incels when they talk shit about women
No. 699697
>>699694Not on imageboards and discord servers thats for sure lol
Get out of the house for a little bit anon.
No. 699702
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>>699692So you're saying what happens in porn is real life?
>>699694Stop dating shit men and dump their ass when they don't respect you, very easy
No. 699704
>>699700Stop reading incel boards, those idiots never leave their parents basement anyways
What
>>699697 said, go outside
No. 699725
>>699708I dont know I dont watch porn but I assume it's not just perverted stuff like that and I think (hope) most men watch "normal" porn?
We can all agree that women being abused like this is awful, no one here is claiming otherwise. (You'd have to be pretty sick if you would)
Wouldnt gore movies like saw or hostel have this impact as well?
Still doesn't mean -all- men are evil and
abusive.
No. 699756
>>699751>literally admits her relationship with men is positive>Still acts like a radfemNTA but I can not imagine why on earth you poison yourself like that.
>>699754No, it's better to approach them as neutral, are you girls asocial or something?
No. 699764
>>699756>every girl who dislikes the global nature of men is radfemI get it, your view of men is very influenced by the kind/responsible/caring men in your life. Nobody is claiming men like that don't exist, I am surrounded by them too. But globally, men are violent and care little for the safety or freedom of women. Why does this proven fact upset you so much? Or rather, why
doesn't it upset you more?
No. 699775
>>699769Most Western/Southern European countries have minimal amounts of violence anon. The occasional psychopath of course still exists and 99% of the time he will be a man, but overwhelmingly violence is rare here.
>>699770Anon, do you understand that while 90% of men commit violent crimes, that 90% is of a tiny fraction of the total male population?
No. 699789
>>699785What part of "tiny fraction of men" do you find difficult to understand anon?
>>699786Yeah that's true, of course there are differences. Macho shit is more common in Southern Europe for example, but I am talking about violence and crime, which is rare everywhere outside of Eastern Europe.
>>699788Yes? I am not a Spaniard, so excuse my ignorance, but I thought Spain was on the level of Italy or Greece, having very little crime and being pretty peaceful.
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Why are grad school applications so stressful? I asked one of my professors if I can put him down as a reference and he left me on read
No. 699800
>>699797I am not sure what you mean by that anon. If we take Western Europe for example, violent criminals are less than 1 in ten thousand of the native population. That is a tiny fraction.
>>699798Yeah, I agreed with that anon about the difference in cultures even within Europe. But I am saying that things are comparable enough when it comes to violence to group them up enough to say domestic violence is rare here. And men who commit it are generally and thankfully treated as the criminals that they are.
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can the "not all men are bad hehe" stop posting? are u a twitterfag or what? i only see stupid ppl use the not all whatever as an argument there or reddit but whatever. Also lol spain not violent google Sandra Palo and start using your brain if u have one KEK.
No. 699812
>>699806I didn't say not all, I said not the overwhelming amount. Quite a bit different. Also
>The Sandra Palo case is how the Spanish legal process is known, in which the young Spanish woman Sandra Palo Bermúdez , 22 years old and with a mild mental disability, was brutally raped and murdered by a group of minors in May 2003 , in one case that shocked Spanish society.I am not sure what you point is. This poor woman was raped and murdered, how does this relate to the general situation of violence in Spain? As I said, psychopaths of course exist and 90% of the time are male.
>>699808Yes anon, but relative to the population they are rare and far apart. I didn't say go to the forest with strange men, I said don't assume random men are out to murderrape you, not even for them, but for your peace of mind.
No. 699825
>>699817I don't applied this to just European men I applied it to all scrotes. This makes you sound like one of those 4chan incels especially when you where talking about "new europeans"
>>699783 . No matter where you go a scrote is a scrote. No matter the race.
No. 699831
>>699825Ehm no, men differ massively from place to place and from group to group. I am sorry if this goes against your beliefs but this is fact. A woman can walk with no fear at night here. She wouldn't be able in the Congo. Men are certainly NOT the same everywhere, this is delusion.
>>699827oh look, more "hey scrote"
>>699828Yes, which is a poor argument as I explained but pointing out that men's behaviour varies massively from place to place. Also I am not holding anyone hostage, do what you like, I am telling you what I think is the healthy thing to do, that is all.
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i want to go on birth control (the pill) but i feel like my mother would judge me and make me feel weird and make a big deal out of it (i'm 24) and it also couldn't be the worst timing because of the pandemic and she doesn't know that i take my mask off around my bf let alone go to his house and fuck him. i feel like i'm a child.
pic unrelated
No. 699843
>>699812>I didn't say go to the forest with strange men, I said don't assume random men are out to murderrape youGoing by this logic you might aswell leave your door unlocked because don't assume that random people are going to rob your home!!
Terribly analogy? Maybe.
No. 699849
>>699833Men commit 90% of all violence but the level of violence varies due to the percentage of violence within different populations.
10 men could commit crimes out of 100 men that don't, that's 10%.
10 men could commit crimes out of a 1000 men that don't and that would be 1%.
Would you prefer to walk alone at night in a Western European village or would you prefer to walk alone at night in Islamic country?
No. 699853
>>699849please stop with this country comparison. Nobody has tried to argue all countries have the same crime rate, they are arguing that men are the major cause of violence.
>Would you prefer to walk alone at night in a Western European village or would you prefer to walk alone at night in Islamic country?In both scenarios, it's a strange man you're fearing you encounter.
No. 699865
>>699853>it's a strange man you're fearing you encounterYes but that encounter is more likely to happen in one location than the other.
I grew up in the West Midlands. I would never go back to living there. Where I live now I'm more likely to be killed by a cow protecting her calf than I am by a man.
No. 699868
>>699862Scrotes can be naturally horrible in any country. If you live in an at least mildly civilized place some of their most common behaviours will be at least dettered in a minimal way.
I'm saying that scrotes in these places are "as bad as" or "somehow worse" than the rest of them
No. 699871
>>699867No, just be a shut in
Half of the board is safe
No. 699872
>>699866regardless, that is what you're now apparently trying to say.
>>699865>Yes but that encounter is more likely to happen in one location than the other.And? What the fuck is your point? You've already been congratulated on living somewhere safe, can you seriously not fathom that this is not the case for the overwhelming majority of women around the world? And that we should be trusting of men because…uhhh…less likely crime rate! We're all more likely to be killed in a car crash, likeliness of death isn't the argument. The argument, once again, is that men are predominantly violent.
No. 699874
>>699857>>699862I think the "difference" between men from various countries and continents has to do with nurture, culture and simply what they can get away with within the criminal justice system.
I'm from an objectively very safe country and feel safe enough to go run outside after dark, but I don't doubt that if men didn't have by far as a large chance to be arrested and punished for their crimes in my country or if they had a "Man raped? Woman is at fault!"-mindset here I wouldn't be by far as safe. It's undeniable that men as a whole are far more violent and aggressive by nature than women. Just because they wisely don't act upon it doesn't mean it's not there.
Take this with a grain of salt though because what do I know really.
No. 699886
god some of you are just so insecure i can't take you seriously. like
>>699875, if you have a point just calm down the retarded takes.
No. 699890
>>699879Don’t be silly! Anon, of course everyone is wrongly paranoid of things that happen! Like,
my experiences are the only
valid sources, if you don’t accept that
only what I say is the truth, then you’re a paranoid femcel! Go get some dick girl! Every nigel is waiting for you outside my neighborhood!
No. 699891
>>699884tldr; anon vented about men, another anon felt indignant about it and simple had to defend men.
my vent is that my favourite bakery is out of the cinnamon buns I'd always get for Christmas and I'm more upset about it than I should be, but fuck they're so nice. I don't want store bought, I wanted homemade!
No. 699903
>>699896The scrotes I've met online have been more civilized than the ones I actually see everyday.
Just yesterday I was sitting in the walmart parking lot in day light and a dude tried to get in my car with me in it. But I guess I'm just paranoid of men because I dont get enough dick.
No. 699905
>>699872I'm not the anon that lives on a Mediterranean island. What I'm saying is that collectively punishing men as a whole when it's not all of them that commit crime does more harm than good. If you have five dogs and one shits on the carpet you don't punish all five dogs. Also if you were going to do something about male violence beyond shitting up the vent thread, then wasting time and resources fixing problems in a location where those issues were already fixed is pointless when there are places in the world where women have it far worse.
>>699875But how do you know this?
No. 700000
>>699968This. Standards shouldn't be so low but it's still a v nice thing to see when it happens
This is also why it's important to vet a guys friends before getting serious about him
No. 700129
>>699829I wanna post about how overall good my bf is but knowing that I post vents about him that paint him in a pretty bad light makes me feel like a hypocrite.
Also if he ever did turn out like a typical scrote I'd feel like a fucking idiot for ever having praised him even anonymously.
Best not to jinx ourselves IMO. Scrotes are subject to change.
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>>699829Go back to the gelatinous world you came from
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>>699829I honestly don’t check that thread because I use imageboards for pic related and to cheer up anons who might be going through some rough times.
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>>700178i got the N00b Jiggler
No. 700220
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Late to the party but I feel a lot better not being the only 30 year old virgin on the board.
No. 700224
>>700220how many of us are here?
Not that it matters. My virgin status doesn't bother me at all. I have 0 love or sex interest in men.
No. 700282
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I've been having mental breakdowns at work for the past week, I honestly think I'm retarded because I've been making so many fucking mistakes. I literally had to keep working through crying twice today already
I have a small team which is nice but one of my coworkers is a smug asshole nu-male feminist he-him weirdo who hates me because I don't know all 2340910283419083 nuances of the dumbass legacy system we use and if you fuck up one single character it's such a pain in the ass to reverse and fix and I hate asking people for help because I feel like they think I should know how to do things by now even though my manager tells me it's fine and I'm still learning I've been here for a few months and I'm just over it at least it's better than my last job where I had to admit myself to inpatient because I wanted to fucking off myself because I was so miserable I just hate being the stupidest one on my team it makes me feel so worthless and dumb and it's an entry level job so it should be "easier" but it's still hard for some reason I literally just want to quit and become a barista or something and live out in nature and never look at a computer again AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
No. 700353
I'm tired, I'm behind on a major project I'm working on (by myself) at work, it's freezing in this office, my allergies have been bothering me all day, making my head hurt and eyes swell, and all of this has absolutely shot my focus which is the LAST thing I need considering that I'm already behind on this project! I need to be able to WFH just to catch up (without OT lol), but my supervisor has been out due to her sister passing and now the holidays, which is so sad, so I haven't been able to set that up. I'm just fucking spent and can't wait for my 4 days weekend, but at the same time, I'm dreading it because it just means 4 more days behind on work coz I sure as hell won't catch up by tomorrow. Kill me, anons.
No. 700379
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The guy I like is confusing me a lot. I started university this fall and on the first day I met this dude, let's call him Z. He's very good-looking and seemed like a nice guy, so I of course got interested. We kept making a lot of eye contact so I thought he might be interested as well. When all our classes became digital because of corona he created a Discord server for the 18 people that were in our group during the first two weeks of the semester, since we'd all become friends. I and a couple of other people, including Z, started talking frequently in the voice chat of the server while we studied or played League and subsequently became good friends. Me and Z also chatted privately and we would throw in some occasional flirting.
One day he asked me to grab some coffee with him and I of course accepted. We had a lot of fun and sat at the café for almost four hours just talking, since we have a lot in common.
A few days after he invited me over to his place so that we could do some programming. We finally kissed that day and cuddled a bit. I've never been in a relationship before so I do not really know how long one should date before you can talk about becoming a couple, so right now I'm kinda confused. I've been to his place multiple times, we've played games, studied and cooked together and genuinely had a good time.
Now, however we haven't seen each other in a little over a month. I'm kind of shy so I've been scared of asking him to hang out, and the two times I tried he said "I don't know", instead of just saying "I can't today". He also hasn't been as flirty as he was before, which worries me cause it makes me feel like he isn't interested in me like that anymore?
However, we talk everyday on Discord or text, just about normal things that friends do. But when we're in voice chat he still sounds like he cares about me, his tone is different to when he speaks with the other people in the server.
I've tried telling myself it's because he's busy right now with all the finals (he's taken on two majors, so he has a lot of assignments), but I'm insecure as a person so I'm still wondering if he's still into me.
I'm probably overthinking this way too much but as I said I've never been in a relationship before (i'm also a virgin kek) so this is all new territory.
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What's with the scrotes and handmaidens gaslighting other women here? Same thing on CC. I hate them. I hope they all die from cancer.
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I just binged on so much fucking food and i feel like I'm about to burst… I count my calories and work out and do my 10k steps and such, but then like clockwork once every two weeks i snap and inhale burgers and candy. God damnit.
No. 700447
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I miss being able to go to the hair saloon every week for getting my hair and nails done, it was really nice, people over there would treat us nicely, my mother and I were friends with everyone there and even if I hated waking up early to go there, it was nice to go out of there with my hair looking amazing and my nails too, pretty with different nail polishes and such.
Now I just want to be independent, but I don’t have the money for such a thing, driving classes won’t start until who know when, and I need them so I can get a driver’s license.
Being sheltered for so long is such a terrible thing, like yeah, you spend lots of comfy years having a comfy life, but then you’re just too dumb to do anything on your own.
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>>700447>hair saloonSorry, but this is what I pictured. Just imagine a mustache walking into a Wild Wild West themed bar.
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I hate that everyone is putting all of their problems on me and being aggressive towards me, but I’m not allowed to have my own feelings.
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i do love my mother, but i wish she wouldn't call me just to talk about her complaints and grievances with life so much. literally, she will have me on the phone for 40+ minutes, just complaining and talking about the most basic bullshit that i don't care about (like what she ate for dinner, what she watched on the tv, people that pissed her off, etc. etc. etc.).
i've kind of taken to cutting her off after 20 minutes.
sometimes feel guilty about it but, thinking back on my life, i have never ever felt comfortable enough with her to just vent like she does. it's so irritating. she was also massively abusive emotionally too (but she did take care of me? then again as a parent…you're supposed to feed, clothe, and keep a roof over your kid's head, yeah?)
i don't know farmers.
No. 700495
>>700433hello fellow CA anon
yea all the sperging out over this is incredibly stupid. feinstein will either croak or be shown the door before 2022 and the governor will get another appointment anyway
No. 700553
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>>700492now i feel like an asshole. i guess i'll just deal with it anon, that's part of loving someone
No. 700580
I told my boyfriend to stop calling me wifey tonight and I feel like such an asshole!!! We call each other hubby and wifey although we're not even engaged yet and for the past month he's been sick with a stomach virus and wanted to be alone. This is the first time he's been sick like this throughout our entire 2 years together so I took it a little personally, I didn't know he got like this. He's bit by bit recovered the last couple of days and this afternoon I brought up how he needs to get it together and get into a trade school, how he's 25 and he told me at 23 he would get into something formal BEFORE he turned 25. I don't want him to be bill gates anons, but if I want to have kids w him or even just one in the future, I need to know he's a reliable person. Since he wants kids someday(or so I thought), I told him that he needs to do better for himself and asked what if you ever have children? Children are not plants you know, they're expensive. What does he tell me? "I don't want to think about what if I have children right now haha"
just wtf? I didn't say anything just acted like I didn't hear that. But I think that statement says a lot and I've checked out. I still love him, but I'm not going to be as vulnerable emotionally as I was before, I have a foot out the door, and I don't expect this relationship to go too far, until he proves he's at least trying. I don't know,I heard him say that and it's like, I felt myself become less attracted to him now. I have plenty of time too, I'm 21. Maybe that's why he said that? am I exaggerating? I hate that I love him so much
No. 700583
>>700578He probably doesn't want to date anyone else though. If he did he would be with another girl. It's perfectly normal to be attracted to multiple people, it doesn't mean you want to fuck or date them.
Anyway, not trying to shit on your vent post, just hope it makes you feel better.
>>700580Wait you got upset because he wanted to be alone while sick? Anon…..
No. 700619
>>700616Why would go to a get together with these people knowing this? You're not going to enjoy yourself, you're going to be seething and hurt and not able to relax at all. I couldn't imagine not talking to him immediately
well, I would be burning his shit on the lawn with printed screenshots of whatever evidence taped up on the front door after changing the locks but good luck with your situation. That's pain.
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Why couldn't I have been born a slice of life anime character?
No. 700723
>go out to dinner with bf and his friends
>could have easily taken my own car, but he wanted to drive me
>after dinner he kept complaining I didn't engage enough with his friends
>he had a few drinks and wanted to sit in the car a while before he started driving and let the alcohol wear off
>I start talking about something, when I'm mid-sentence he just starts laughing
>I ask him what's so funny
>he tells me that he has a pact with his best friend mikel that if one of them dies the other one will destroy his computer because of all the porn on it
>he tells me if he ever dies I can't look at his computer
>I tell him tough shit, he'll be dead
>he is bothered by this and starts wailing about how if I didn't want him to look on my computer after I died I wouldn't
>I'm just like, okay, but I wouldn't ask you to do that, plus I'd be dead so what would it matter
>after about 20-30 minutes of sitting in the car he decides to drive
>I ask if he's sure he's not too buzzed to drive
>he's just like "eh, I think so"
>I go (to imitate him) "yeah I might kill my girlfriend but that's okay"
>he's just like "yep"
>again, could have easily taken my own fucking goddamn car but HE wanted to drive me
>I say something to the effect of it's sad nothing is ever enough for you (sexually)
>he goes "your tits are enough for me, but I want stylized tits (as in anime tits)
can't remember where the argument went after that. this all happened over a year ago, we broke up and he wanted to be friends but I ghosted him. I got reminded of this recently and it still pisses me off when I think about it.
No. 700738
>>700724thank u
>>700726I mean you can drink some and still be sober enough to drive, I only had one beer and beer is pretty weak. but he had several beers, I guess he's just stupid Idk
No. 700745
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This guy I'm trying to get close to will go out of his way to talk to me about our shared interests or find me during the day (we work together) to show me things he saw and thought I'd like, is friendly and compliments my appearance as well as gently teases me, but he insists he likes to be alone and isn't interested in bonding with people or making friends. Like…is he just retarded and being tsundere?? He knows that constantly talking to someone and initiating interactions is how you make friends, right? For context, he never said this to me, I overheard him say it to another (female) coworker. Idk I guess I should be glad he's not showing interest in other girls but I feel like maybe I'm just misinterpreting his behavior and he doesn't care about our interactions as much as I do.
No. 700787
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Bf INSISTED I buy the bookset he wanted for Christmas from some shady seller on ebay because of the price back in November, and lo and behold his shit still isn't here and now my $120 is being held hostage until December 30th and there's no way I'm seeing that package if the expected delivery was supposed to have been on the 13th. Shady seller didn't list a tracking number so I can't even pick it up wherever it is, if this retard shipped it at all. It has nothing to do with shipping being slow because this seller has negative reviews about not shipping from some people spanning years, even the store that services the account has 1-star Google reviews.
I know it's not a gift for me and I shouldn't be that mad but it makes me look like a bad girlfriend to not have part of his gifts when he got me expensive shit. Also it's the principle that this scum seller basically got an interest-free loan from me and other suckers, I'm sure after Christmas my order will magically be canceled and I will get a magic refund as if the item was never magically shipped at all. I want to spite these people so fucking badly for wasting my damn time.
No. 700823
>>700822Exposed!!!
>>700814What is this closed in mentality. PULL is no longer existend do obv the people will look gor some other way to gossip. I understand that newfags need to integrate but you bitches screetching Pullfag left and right is more annoying and derailling
No. 700830
>>700823>PULL is no longer existend do obv the people will look gor some other way to gossipThat doesn't mean they should post here. Look at the state of /w/.
>but you bitches screetching Pullfag left and right is more annoying and deraillingThen stop acting like one? Are you one of those spergs from belle's thread?
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>>700769what a little fucker. you know what to do
No. 700847
>>700830Twitch thread became cancerous because of PULLtards invading it (but it looked like as if it was only one person, maybe two talking to eachother because after one of them got called out for being a retard they stopped posting). Now the only thread that is actively infested with these idiots is Vtubers one.
I dont mind PULLtards but the idiots from these two threads are the reason why PULL has and had bad reputation. Nothing but nitpick, whining or ""milk"" without proofs, the type you would hear in HS lobbys "i saw she said!!"
> tfw holonewfags scream that lc threads are the reason why all the doxx and rumors were made when /jp/ was always full of it. For some months now the jp threads are full of wk virgins though. No. 700855
>>700847>from these two threads are the reason why PULL has and had bad reputation. even before those 2 threads existed pull has always had a bed reputation here because pullfags always act like that. And its always noticeable and then they get
triggered when you tell them to fuck off or integrate.
No. 700964
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Having a flashback about my formerly first crush in middle school. I want to punch myself. I can't believe I have a shit taste of man back then
No. 701018
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had a fallout with a close friend ive known since elementary school, my sister (i live with her) keeps bringing a trump supporting faggot over and my mom unironically believes in the big reset stuff and that the covid vaccines are made to control the population or something
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>>701040you got this! you can do it!!!
No. 701127
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i despise narcissists and i am putting up walls higher than ever before after this year
i even considered not listening to some artists' songs on their own channels because it may be serving a narcissist
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I shared my excitement over the SISEA announcement and my bf's response was just 'I'm not for policing the internet'. Cool. Guess the price of freedom is nonconsensual porn.
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>>701207where are they anon I'll get em
No. 701359
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everyone will value your life less if you don't have children at a certain age. I read a post from a woman who suffered a heart attack at a young age (she was like 34), the ambulance came for her, but they were still hestitant to take her because hospitals are overbeared because of the covid fuckery and they only take "high priority" patients here where I live. The paramedic called someone for consultation and she heard the guy on the phone literally asking "Is she young? DOES SHE HAVE CHILDREN?". She had two sons. That's literally the only reason they took her. I'm mentioning this because I remember anons in some /g/ thread denying that doctors will value the lives of childless women less than those who have children, and that's obvious bullshit
women's value will always be perceived through their ability to conceive and give birth. Men are able to conceive at basically any age (albeit with worse sperm quality), but women's ability to conceive naturally decreases drastically after 35, thus men will always be seen as more valuable than women, overall. You're more valuable than men only in your 20s (peak fertility at 25), but after that you're worthless if you don't have children. Plus men are valuable to women as providers, but men don't give a fuck if women are able to provide for men, and men tend to earn more money as they age, so again - men's value increases, while yours decreases. This is how it was designed by evolution, that is devoid of any mercy or morality. Even the statistics about the average age gap between men and women in relationships and the average age at which people marry prove that the sexes have evolutionarily adapted mating preferences that maximise reproductivity. I'm still young, I never want to have kids, but the thoguht that my life will be seen as worthless after a certain point makes me want to off myself, what's the point
No. 701374
>>701359I'm not going to tell you you're wrong, but being valued less is only going to have a real, tangible impact on your life in a few select situations. For the most part it's just gonna be a vague sense of being judged and minor inconveniences, not legitimate suffering and problems.
Your life is yours sis, it doesn't matter what other people think. And not having kids is like cheating tbh, it's living life on easy mode and that goes 10x over for women. You'll have all the time in the world to build the life you want, it's far from worthless.
No. 701376
>>701359i get the first part of your post and its sad
but it doesnt correlate with the second part, which desipte that, is also true and sad
No. 701387
>>701352My take on this is that it's okay for a bf to be friends with/game with/receive a gift from a girl, but the fact that it wasn't clear to you from the get go that the friend was a chick is not cool on his part. Out of courtesy & respect for your relationship he should've made it apparent from the begining.
I imagine that you're burnt by it right now, & I hope you find some relief from the pain. Fingers crossed that it's a tranny!
No. 701437
>>701420Get help.
>>701426You're just going to make her BPD flare up again.
No. 701443
>>701442Or they are unfuckable ugly.
I was the unfuckable ugly female friend that is treated like a man.
No. 701461
>>701454I have spent several Christmas days alone and have also spent a couple with an
abusive ex… being totally alone is honestly way easier. I know it's not always easy to just leave but I hope you find a way out at some point.
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>>701451Oh, a different bitter bitch then
No. 701473
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Stopped taking my birth control because im switching to the implant when lockdown here is over, but now im horny as fuck, no bf or fwb, and its like the fucking biblical flood in my underwear, I JUST WANT TO GET DICKED DOWN AND CHOKED AND SLAPPED AND EVERYTHING ELSE!!!!!!!
I've resorted to hearing erotic AMSR made by a fucking troon of my anime husbandos.
No. 701481
>>701454I hope you find your own way soon so you can ditch the asshole. Also it may be worth it to tell your family about the situation so they can at least know, and maybe even help you if they're that kind of family to you. It's not a reflection on you to ask for help to escape a monster.
I don't know how bad the abuse is, but the last
abusive guy I dated escalated his lashings out fairly quickly. He was already throwing/tossing shit around the room in fits of rage when he wasn't being controlling and negging me. That was only the second month of dating in. I left before it became physical. Never assume a guy who spends his time dehumanizing you verbally isn't gonna find the justification to lay his hands on you eventually. I think it's a good idea to tell family and friends what's up in case shit gets real bad, or heaven forbid if something worse should happen.
Stay safe and have a happy holiday in spite of him dear anon.
No. 701487
>>701470Nta but some men seek out mentally unwell women because it's easier to abuse them or to make them question themselves. Your confidence might already be low so you stick around even though most would leave over that same name calling etc.
My ex had a habit of dating women with a mental health diagnosis and he told me his ex was violent… he hit me eventually and blamed me for being 'a frustrating person'…fast forward a few years and with distance and having received some fb messages I found out that he had a drinking problem that spanned many years and he actually hit every one of his gfs at one point or another. I'm not saying your bipolar isn't affecting things but just pointing out that sometimes men will be drawn to ill women for a reason. Then your illness is a nice cover up for why they lash our either verbally or otherwise.
No. 701493
>>701473as much as this must suck for you, I'm so envious. I've completely lost my sex drive a few years ago and idk how to get it back.
How do you do it? What is your secret? lol
No. 701496
>>701352So glad I don't date insecure gamers who require the validation from multiple female 'friends' so I don't have to deal with these complicated moral quandaries that fuck with my self-esteem anymore.
Have you all considered dating people that literally don't play games, literal and metaphorical?
No. 701498
i saw a post on facebook that was saying "idk why yall continue to idolize selena quintanilla" like why the hell is she not role model or idol worthy?? she was murdered and died so young. lots of women, mainly 2nd and 3rd gen mex-americans, look up to her because they sympathize with the struggles she went through from not being connected to her mexican roots. and not even just that, her relationship with chris was so down to earth and genuine, and her struggles of dealing with an
abusive father hits many people in the guts.
she was just so carefree overall… it is possible to idolize many people at the same time. people just love to guilt others for liking one person, especially now since the netflix show is out, theres
so many people who don't deserve spotlight, but selena didn't really do anything wrong and she is not even alive. people trying to be edgy for no reason.
>>701463it's just right now it sucks, this suckiness will pass, i'm sure of it. there's lots of stressors going on right now and it's affecting you and also affecting strangers, family members, and those close to you. we're all in this together anon and i can empathize with how tough things are being.
also think about some savory foods you haven't had in a long time and want to eat within the month. luck will come you way, you've survived other shitty times and had great positive moments after that shit passed.
>>701442i can believe this, thankfully there are also guys who are tame enough to friendzone a girl when they're in a relationship.
No. 701512
>>701493I have no idea tbh, I just stopped my meds, spent two weeks feeling absolute utter shit, nauseous, fatigued, fainted once because my blood pressure was even lower than usual, and then BOOOM woke up revigorated but extremely horny today.
OH IF I ONLY I HAD A DECENT MAN TO BANG!
No. 701517
>>701503Ma'am.
That's not the only reason to have your vag scoped out. They palpate to check for any abnormalities, make sure that your pelvic floor is in good condition, and screen for diseases/disorders that don't require you to have sex to get. They also check your breast tissue. Just go to a female midwife/NP. They're professional and mindful of your comfort. Seriously though, that's important shit.
No. 701519
>>701359Some of this is bull and just sounds like some scrote is putting you on a shame spiral. 1. Sperm banks have an age limit because men’s sperm goes bad as they age too. Some banks put a cap at 35, others 40ish. Google it, they are studying sperm more and more now and even finding that older sperm can be the cause of repeated miscarriages.
2. I wouldn’t say men are valued more than women as they age either. A lot of men never become rich or high status even with age, so they just become “that creepy old guy”. As long as women try to look nice as they age at least they are not seen as creepy or lecherous like plenty old gross men
No. 701531
>>701498What a dumb thing for that person to post, Selena was the icon that Mexican-American girls in America haven't had for decades since her death. I haven't seen the show and don't plan to–the Selena movie will always be the most iconic to me. For people who don't know, her story is amazing; she started out in a poor family knowing zero Spanish as a kid, formed the band with the guidance of her dad and learned Spanish while living in Texas, and then as a Mexican-American, she went on to dominate the Latin music scene before coming back to America to record her first english album. And she won a grammy! I'm getting teary-eyed thinking of that movie, it holds a special place in my heart.
Kind of a bad comparison but for kpop fans, BoA (the Korean singer) reminds me just a bit of Selena since she also was sent to a foreign market to succeed before she came back to her home country. If Selena hadn't been murdered she would probably have similar recognition in the US as BoA has in Korea.
No. 701536
>>701359>men's value increases, while yours decreases. This is how it was designed by evolution, that is devoid of any mercy or moralityStop visiting r9k, it's fucking with your smoothbrain and causing retarded hysterics.
In what fucking history books are women of reproductive age less valued than men?
Men are fucking disposable. Sperm is abundant. We don't need many men.
>but men have viable sperm at any ageNo they don't.
>peak fertility at 25Untrue.
>you're worthless if you don't have childrenChildless males will always be less valuable than childless women.
>men don't give a fuck if women are able to provide for menActually they do, and these are the men you want to avoid because they're parasites and know they can't cut it themselves. Your little redpill brain keeps operating on the fact that all men are providers while having the cognitive dissonance to ignore how many men are LOSERS.
>I never want to have kidsGood, you'd likely teach them destructive and
toxic things.
No. 701541
>>701539Did the face smash happen at his job? How does one accidentally smash their face with a pipe in their free time?
If it happened at work he could get comp even if he doesn't have benefits.
No. 701549
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Feeling pretty shit ngl. I went to work today and apparently someone organized a secret Santa for half the employees but didn't tell me about it even though I've been working there almost and entire year? Some people included were people who started less than a year ago. It could be entirely my imagination and they just organized a small one between a certain group of people but I'm really bummed no one told me about it if it was for everyone. I didn't even want presents I just want to be included.
I'm tired of being the fucking donkey at work and picking up the slack while everyone else gets to chat and be friendly with each other.
No. 701551
>>701359If you don't want kids then yeah that judgement sucks a lil bit here and there but it's still better than 20 odd years of dedicating yourself to parenthood and often being stuck communicating with a coparent even after you split or if they hate your guts. My friends who've had kids (by choice, planned) seriously hate certain aspects of their everyday life that came from having kids. Mostly their partners or the ongoing presence and tension with a now ex. They're living with daily stress levels I may never know.
Like no thanks, I'll take some random judgement from srangers and just shrug it off. I read about that age related/motherhood judgement on here alot but at 32 years I still haven't experienced it irl.
No. 701556
>>701359>everyone will value your life less if you don't have children at a certain age. "Everyone" kek
>I read a post…You clearly need to read something more useful, given this entire post of yours.
>women's value will always be perceived through their ability to conceive and give birthAgain with this "everyone". I don't care about people who think like that, why should you? Surround yourself with better people, move away from whatever backwards shithole you live in.
>men will always be seen as more valuable than women…You're more valuable than men only in your 20s …but after that you're worthless if you don't have children.If you care how those kinds of men perceive you then that's your problem
>Plus men are valuable to women as providers, but men don't give a fuck if women are able to provide for menI don't want to provide for a man that expects me to take care of him, and if you're not taking care of a child then you can provide enough for yourself.
>This is how it was designed by evolution, that is devoid of any mercy or morality.Did you know we don't live in caves anymore? Or are you getting WiFi in your animal skin hut somehow?
>I want to off myself, what's the pointYou may as well since all you care about is the same kind of men who don't care about you. FFS what a depressing person, just squeeze out a baby if you're going to be this way.
No. 701578
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>>701549Sorry anon. I know it's not much consolation when you only wanted to be included, but you would have ended up with something useless you didn't like after spending lots of time finding the perfect present for someone else, that's always how these things go.
Anyway here's my surprise secret Santa gift to you
I looked through Twitter for the cutest wild bird photo I could see just for you No. 701585
>>701549I hate that shit.
In a workplace a few years ago I was approached and asked to pitch in every time it was someone elses bday. One time a very part-time woman had become a grandmother for the tenth time and after only meeting this woman a few times (and not knowing her family) I was approached by the usual organizer about buying the babies a gift…. seemed a bit much but I didn't want to be that stingey person. I never even saw that woman again after the gifts were presented. I dunno who her daughter or grankids were really. Stangers to me tbh
When my bday came along and I was in work that day… got nothing. That's after paying my portion to everyone elses bdays all year round. We even had a public calender listing every last workers bday on it. Work cliques suck.
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>>701578Aww, thank you so much anon! That made me feel better. I guess part of it is not feeling like I'm well integrated into the workplace as I should. Have a cute
penguin flapping No. 701589
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>>701359so larp as a mom
i ordered a subway menu with a kid one on the side and they gave me extra cookies. people love giving free shit to children.
to contribute to the vent thread, i think my mom is sabotaging me. i am back at their place due to covid and whenever i mentioned i am going on a diet to lose a bit of weight, she bought home entire junk food meals. usually there is basic food at home, but as soon as i mention i need to quit eating junk, she will bring junk. she knows it breaks me out too but when i can't refuse and get acne she will make comments about how ugly i look. why are women made crazy? is this her menopause?
No. 701624
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I appreciate my friends being thoughtful but I wanna strangle whoever popularized giving plants as gifts. Without me EVER expressing interest in taking care of plants I've been gifted two leafy plants and one oyster mushroom planter thing and now I have to worry about them and all their stupid ass directions about when to water them and how much and when to harvest or whatever.
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why does my bf associate with such cringe pickme sycophants? this is such a pathetic and degrading display.
it seems like he purposefully seeks out insecure women for validation
No. 701637
>>701635 i’m very very attracted to and in love with my boyfriend
i’d sell my soul to be a lezza
No. 701647
>>701536Sounds like copium.
>Actually they do, and these are the men you want to avoid because they're parasites and know they can't cut it themselvesSo you're literally proving right now that men who don't provide are losers and you wouldn't want someone like this. So you're proving evolution is right. Women only want providers, men can provide or not, but providers will always be seen as the best. And providers themselves won't care if the woman can provide or not. Men, generally, earn more money as they age, and that's the main reason for age gaps in relationships
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships No. 701659
>>701657>The majority of married couples have an age gap like 5-10 years it’s nothing that extremeYeah and in the wast majority of cases the male is older. Only in 1% of het marriages the wife is 10 years older than the husband.
Also 10 years is quite a lot imo regardless of sex. But society will see one as a normal and the other (the variant with an older wife) as weird.
Also, the wife being 2-3 years older makes up for only about 6.9% of marriages. It's such a small age difference and yet, it's quite rare to see this variant with the woman being older.
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>>701657>The majority of married couples have an age gap like 5-10 years it’s nothing that extremeEven that is an exaggeration
No. 701671
>>701666I'm so sick of depressing upsetting posts like these
Why are there so many anons like this who just fuck out of obligation in 2020? It seems so at odd with the philosophy of everyone else here
No. 701683
>>701586It's so cute thank you!
I already had fun looking through all the birds before and didn't expect one back so this is such a nice bonus Merry Christmas anon, I hope you find a way to connect with your coworkers in 2021
No. 701684
>>701681I think it's less
toxic but I'm still not fan of it. I wouldn't go for a woman more than 10 years older than me
But yeah women are generally less predatory. I think age gaps and predatory behaviors are a big problem in male gay community, and I'm just repeating what young gay men have told me. But well, that's males for you
No. 701685
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first world problems but i do not feel good in my room at my parent's house. it has been made into a generic guest room since i moved out, and it is just soulless. i had to come back here since i lost my job due the rona, and move all my stuff into storage. my room there was so cozy and personal. i did put out a few decorations but nothing that would change walls or anything significant. can't even put string lights up because the tape could stain the white walls.
i am grateful i can stay here and i am stupid being so materialistic. but goddamn i miss my stuff. picrel is the vibe of my previous room.
No. 701785
I was lurking in the Delphine thread and I came across this post
>>>/w/128076 which you would know isn't true if you spent any time on Tik Tok. Libfem female zoomers love her, so I'm confused. They commend her for getting out of the industry and sympathize with her immensely. Even more after the Hit or Miss debacle. Any time she interacts with their content or follows them, they're really honored. This isn't to start an argument, I just don't understand why people have this idea?
No. 701803
>>701785People just love presenting their own opinion as facts. A lot of farmers here don't spend much time on gen z social media (or at least I get that impression from the posts here) so I think some anons just say whatever they want based off of their own assumptions, not things that they've actually seen. As a zoomer, I see a lot of anons say things about gen z and social media that is simply not true and obviously influenced by the negative view a lot of farmers have on it.
Also don't understand why they would think zoomers hate her? She's a former pornstar, so I don't see why she wouldn't have support, even after leaving. Also kind of amazing Mia Khalifa even has some relevancy considering former pornstars fall off hard.
No. 701812
I am so tired of scrotes. Dad decided to cheat today so no Christmas for my family. Yay
>>701809Wtf anon. Why would he do that? Do you have a safe place to stay at?
No. 701830
>>701809If you can stay with your parents, go home asap, if not, go to another family member or friend or even a church, small churches want to help people
If you live in the US, you can file a report with your local sheriff's department, they most likely won't do anything, but it'll be on record that he assaulted you with a knife in case anything else happens.
No. 701844
>>701843you're not going to get a resolution because abusers enjoy your suffering, they have no reason to alleviate it
you could be healthier alone, you have to get out of there however you can
No. 701850
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>be my mom
>grow up in poverty
>be very ambitious
>work hard and study medicine in another country on a whole different continent
>end up marrying local man and having a child with him
>become naturalized citizen of said country
>nearly all people from birth country met in university moved back home after graduating
>have no diasporic community
>not visit family since marriage due to busy schedule
>more or less unintentionally lost contact with them because of telecommunications issues
>experience discrimination in new country for being a visible minority
>feel isolated, but not wanting to go back because of husband and daughter
>wanted to visit birth country in 2020, but couldn't because of covid
No. 701892
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Holy shiiiitt fuck.
I fucking hate this mentality. I fucking hate people being pro-this mentality. I hate people who seek sex workers. I hate people who think seeking sex workers is okay. nobody owns you shit little piece of shit. FUCK I HATE THIS
No. 701907
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Does anyone else just feel almost constantly irritable? I have depression but recently it’s manifested in me frequently feeling pissed off. I seriously have no life and constantly start stupid internet fights with people just to get my anger out.
No. 701914
>>701913Ily
>>701912I don’t know. It doesn’t feel specifically directed toward anyone. I just hate my life and when I feel extra miserable I want to be mean to people.
No. 701916
>>701846Kinda weird of you to not feel empathic about them but rather ridicule them instead
Big scrote power play from you
No. 701941
>>701939I only watched like 2 mins of this vid (these guys are so up their own ass it's unbearable), but the guy saying that it's because conservatives have more kids is definitely false. Hippies and bohemians never come from conservative families? Conservative types always have more kids because they're usually religious, and Catholics had a ton of kids 40-60 years ago and their numbers in the US are dwindling now. The issue isn't as simple as he's making it out to be.
And these guys are anti-abortion now because a few women on twitter took selfies when they got abortions?
That's what changed their mind on the issue? Abortion doctors being murdered or 12 year old rape
victims being made to give birth didn't make them pro-choice, but women taking selfies was the straw that broke the camel's back. Sure.
This whole thing seems like a poorly disguised anti-abortion video. "Just have more kids, damn liberals!"
No. 702045
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Everyday of my life is a youtube asmr that I can't click out of.
My bf chews with his mouth open.
cruuuUuuUnch munchhHh munCcvH mummmm
No. 702049
>>702045Why are you dating a 5 year old
No but seriously, did no one teach him to chew with his mouth closed? I literally can't even imagine chewing open without all the food falling out
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>>702065Anon that sucks, I'm the same but have cried in the store before (not for pity. I was hiding my face and beginning to leave). The face they make, like something's wrong with you hurts so much that I cry while trying not to. Because I think something is wrong with me and it's showing despite my effort.
I told my therapist who tries to help me not take it personal. Sorry to insert my story, but I want to say you're not alone. It's hard when you're already self-conscious and beat yourself up. But it's most likely those cashiers are havinn a shitty day or their own problems. Their job is tiring and full of bs so it leaks in their behavior sometimes. It still doesn't feel good to deal with but I hope you can feel better and see that it isn't your fault. Even if they were mean to you directly, some people are just like that even in other situations. There are people who say mean things out of the blue that no one else was thinking or would say. Some people are mean because of their own issues. Anyway it's likely cashiers are very stressed rn, not excusing it but it's not on you. Hope we can both learn to handle it
No. 702092
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Any other anons deeply paranoid about someone recognizing you on here? Especially when posting on threads such as this one, the confession one or any similar ones on /ot/. I do not think anyone that knows who I am has even heard of lolcow, but I still can't help it. It makes me anxious
No. 702101
>>702092no
I have no friends and my remaining family are over 60
it's relieving, but only in the way death is, so
No. 702104
>>702092I actually know someone who browsed lolcow, and now I am always paranoid that she will recognize my posts kek
I also have a hunch that some of my friends may also browse here, but those are not confirmed so they don't bother me.
No. 702113
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I failed to explain to two coomers that PORN is horrific in every way to women and that it has so many negative side effects for men too.
Met with the usual "But men need it tho, they are visually stimulated" "it's just a bad habit, like junk food". Last time I heard, women aren't a fucking cheeseburger, not that you could tell by how men speak about us.
How am I supposed to work a normal job, trust men, etc, when they go home every day and fucking hypnotise themselves with "dad anal gang bangs daughter" every night. How can I expect any man to respect me when they couldn't give less of a fuck about us enough to give up porn. How can I get be in a relationship longterm, when he will watch teen gang bang porn when we are in our 40s.
Pic related, front page porn hub videos that are TOTALLY NORMAL. I feel like men are being radicalised and there's nothing we can do.
No. 702122
>>702113those videos are horrific, im sorry anon. unfortunately the only thing we can do is try to educate people about it. i hope the sisea bill improves the situation somewhat.
there are men who dont watch porn and know how harmful it is. theyre just hard to find because most are too brainwashed to question the morality of what they watch to jerk off.
No. 702141
>>702126If it's possible, you could practice telling yourself those things? Even if you still think something's wrong with you, I'm sure you know these workers are stressed. So it's true to tell yourself "they are under stress which makes people snappy, they don't know me and probably aren't paying close attention to me. they will forget this interaction" repeatedly, stuff like that. You can mantra things in your head, whatever works. I know it's hard and may sound pointless, but I've found that repeating it can block out the negatives and subconsciously convince me. Or if you do better with distraction, it helps to think "Other people don't care that much about my mistakes. They're thinking about their own day and will forget this quickly" once and then try to forget too.
And you know those people who get mad when they perceive a problem instead of sad? I'm not saying that's desirable, but it reminds me: If other people don't take it personally and don't have to suffer, it's not fair that I should either. After all if it happened to someone else I wouldn't want them to be sad. No need to get angry but it doesn't have to be hurtful to us.
I'm sure you know but working on our self-esteem will help, too, because it's clear we both think something's wrong with us. Chances are, nobody else does or even cares to notice. I'm so glad you have friends who want to help, that alone shows you aren't so bad as you feel.
If it ever goes well for you anon, by that meaning you don't feel hurt by it— celebrate. Just bask in the fact you got something done. It can be a real task for those of us with issues and the more you realize your effort, if you take a moment to be proud it can teach you that you're worth something. Not even less than others or the cashier, they're just another person who may be hurting too. Sometimes I think they're "above" me so their opinion matters more, but we're all the same. You're just trying to exist like everyone else.
Sorry ik you're just venting but I really relate and don't want you to suffer, god this got so long. I'll shut it now
No. 702182
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>>702162Why keep dogs when you can keep a damn duck?
No. 702191
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Why are men such shit oh my fucking god
No. 702200
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I feel so awkward visiting my brother’s girlfriend and their family. I’m doing my best to pretend I’m not autistic but it’s just so awkward.
No. 702207
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My mom finally went off the deep end and verbally abuses me every time I leave my room and acts like everything I do is a personal attack against her – she's paranoid and delusional, plus I was sexually abused when I was little and she confessed she doesn't like having me around because I'm a "reminder" that it happened (as if I don't have to fucking live with myself, too). I guess I should have just NOT been molested as a five year old, oops my bad. I don't feel comfortable leaving my room, only leaving to go to work or when she's asleep. My brother just made Christmas dinner and after all the shit I do for him he couldn't even be bothered to bring me a fucking plate to my room even though he knows she's treating me like shit right now. I'm so fucking hungry and it's Christmas Eve and I'm a grown fucking woman feeling like a scared child, I fucking hate this shit and I hate her. Saving every penny and counting down the days until I can move.
No. 702243
>>702241I follow some women who make content on OF and patreon and they don't really make that much money unless they already had a large following beforehand, one of them makes the same amount I make in a month and I work part time delivering pizza. Idk what the average is though. Plus that there is an age bracket to making that kind of content because men want barely legal girls.
Congrats on your new job anon, that's a good starting salary. Mind if I ask what field you're in?
No. 702245
>>702241Well, the thing is that OF stuff is kind of a short lived career. You can only make bank off your appearance for so long before simps start to get bored and find a new, younger girl to throw their money at. A degree and a normal job grants you a much steadier income. And let's be real, most of these camgirls are not… the most mentally stable, and if they come upon a large amount of money they're far more likely to blow it all on stupid shit instead of saving for the future. The betabucks are gonna run out pretty quickly.
And like the other anon said, the girls who truly make bank are just a vocal minority. For every Belle Delphine there's thousands of girls making pennies.
No. 702250
>>702243>>702245valid points, thanks for talking sense anons! i guess i just have fomo but i should be happy with the hand i was dealt instead of wishing for more (possibly at a large expense). to answer
>>702244 i'm going to be a cybersecurity consultant, i chose my field based on the potential of the market and caught a lucky break
No. 702277
>>702275>hot woman in her 20’s or 30’sWhy would they need to search that? It's the default for porn that isn't specifically teen or milf
Imagine being so brainwashed you defend men actively searching out teen porn lmao
No. 702288
>>702285I'm the one who said men like barely legal girls,
>>702277 is a different person
No. 702327
>>701843shoulder length cropped hair is really cute and at that length it will still make you look smaller because it will fluff up more since it has less weight pulling it down. don't let that piece of shit win by not eating because he stole your hair. fuck him. If you told him it made you feel better then he probably did it maliciously, so get back at him by enjoying a delicious Christmas dinner. I love you anon, it's going to be okay, a hair stylist will fix it, it will grow back and look adorable in the meantime, and your husband is an
abusive cockroach fuck him
No. 702339
>>702335That's weird of him.. Don't feel like an idiot though, when you've talked about getting married seriously and there's clear hints and cues he's going to propose, it's only logical and reasonable to expect a proposal in the somewhat near future. (It'd be weird if you didn't.)
I guess you must've expected a ring for Christmas when he said it was "something you haven't asked for but something he hoped you'd be very happy with.", I would've too. That'd seriously mess with my feelings.
No. 702469
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I dont like nor trust coworkers who give out names. Like if a customers is being an absolute piece of shit to you at work and you say something, but walk away only to realize your coworker gave our your real name to them so they can complain. How hard is it to make up a fake name on the spot? i know it sounds like a dumb vent, but this shit happened to me last night and i got cursed out at by a rude af customer refusing to wear a mask and by the time i got a manager, he was gone. I was pretty steamed at my coworker the rest of the night for giving out my real name. It feels really shitty
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i’ve complained about it too many times in past vent threads here but here we go again
we solved our budget problem and have surprisingly greatly reduced my wife’s drug spending and we’re able to pay for bills and necessities with far less struggle (there’s still a lot, but much less)
we’ve given each other an allowance every week, which is what her drug money comes out of, and i was excited to finally be able to spend some of what i earn. I mean well, of course i can’t. I put aside my allowance for emergency funds and it ends up getting used anyway.
I signed up for a covid trial vaccine trial though. I got a bit of money for it, gave my wife a majority of it to take care of some stuff she needed, and i sat aside thirty bucks because a game ive waited for for six years finally came out today and i hoped that would cover the cost. That was about 2 days ago. I called this morning to check the balance on the card they gave me and there’s $0.53.
i know its petty, but my wife just came back with her christmas gifts. lots of expensive things she’s really wanted and i’m happy she has them. i dont really celebrate christmas because i’m disowned so there’s not much for me to do because my wife and i usually celebrate the solstice a few days before every year.
i guess i’m venting because all i really wanted was that game. it’s been like six years and it turns out it’s only 20 bucks and it was all i wanted to get today. im just… really disappointed.
No. 702481
I'm an ungrateful bitch, but I would rather receive no xmas gifts than what i got. A fucking spotify subscription, really? I'm always bitching about wanting vases and shit for indoor plants, whenever we go shopping together I always pointing to ingredients that I don't buy because I consider them a luxury. And what do I get? A subscription for a shitty music service that I've not even tried because it's so fucking worthless.
Oh, and bluetooth headphones, that are unconfortable as fuck and are too big and clunky to use while running or exercising.
Ahhh, I wish my sister listened to me and knew what I like and dislike, instead of projecting her tastes and opinions on me. I know she cares about me and loves me, she's the only one who always stands by me, but I feel invisible when I'm with her. I'm her little sister, a pet, not a person that she sees as an equal.
No. 702498
Christmas with my bf's family definitely started off on the wrong foot so far.
We arrived at his parent's house with the polish food I made, and Christmas cards. We had dropped off the 10lb rib roast the day before with the understanding that his brother was going to take it out and prepare it this morning. The roast was still in the fridge when we got there which was odd so we pulled it out.
His parents are elderly, his mother has dementia. They're both sleeping when we let ourselves in.
His father wakes up and bf tells him how we brought the roast and gets it out. His dad proceeds to argue about having requested bf get a 5lb turkey, not a 5 rib roast. He told us to get the roast and insisted on the size even, even his brother said that's what he wanted to cook. It just seemed…really ungrateful. Who the fuck wants a turkey opposed to a $140 prime rib?
His mother awoke from the ruckus. I greeted her Merry Christmas and told her about the food I made and she kept repeatedly asking if I liked to cook, and then she proceeded to talk shit about the elderly cats she no longer wants to take care of because they're puking all over the house, which upset my bf. She might have kept bringing it up because she expects my bf to take these cats, which he won't.
We go to hand over our cards, bf wrote each of them separate and I wrote one for both. His dad complained when bf handed him his card. "GIVE IT TO HER!", he pointed at his wife. Bf said it was for him specifically and tried again, he griped why bf wrote them separate cards when he could have just wrote one.
We wanted to find his brother so we went upstairs. His brother comes our from a 2 hour shower. The roast hadn't been sitting out this entire time to come to room temp so it will cook even. He took it out at 6am, but the dad must have put it back until we found it in the fridge when we got here hours later. Which begs the question why his dad thought it was a turkey when it obviously isn't and he even carried it between the counter and fridge at one point?
I've never been so bored and anxious at the same time before. I'm dreading going to heat up my food later.
No. 702507
>>702498Ew your bf’s dad is the epitome of the miserable old scrote trope. The brother is useless and probably just wants to evade the whole thing. Try to ignore and don’t let him get to you, nothing to be anxious about, you’re not trying to please retarded men, young or old.
I used to see someone with a shitty old scrooge relative. At some point I just throw elder respect out the window and start pretending to not hear a word and never respond to bitching and moaning. He can eat what’s available, when it’s available, or he can not.
No. 702542
>>702539I feel the exact same.
My mother got me Baby Yoda pjs and a Baby Yoda bedding set. I'm 27. I don't want these things. I get she means well and such. It's nice - but I dont want them. Honestly, Id rather people saved their cash.
No. 702618
>>702608too bad I'm an eurofag and not living in the usa as I guess that's probably where you are from…
You should absolutely find someone who love Baby Yoda and give those to them, you will make their day!
No. 702628
>>702621I am so sorry you feel like that today anon. Christmas this year isn’t the same and not everyone likes it anyway. I hate it to be quite honest.
I’m single and wishing for a new job and a relationship. I can’t wait for my thirties to have a baby, a man, a house and to have happier christmases.
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Today I was helping out at a store that was understaffed and I brought a container of food from my store’s party and put it in their fridge. We had a bunch of these containers with a few servings in them (because covid) so I figured my parents could have it. When I was getting ready to leave I realized the employee coming in took the container and started eating out of it without even asking who it belonged to or if they could have some.
No. 702901
>>702896Christmas presents feel so bad when it is so clear the gifter didn't care to think about you very much or choose the cheapest option assuming they arent super poor or its not a crazy expensive jump in price for the better version. It's definitely first worldy but
valid to feel a bit hurt when someone didnt think about your use case or care to learn why you wanted that specific gift. It's like buying someone the wrong shoe size like what do you expect they do with it…
No. 702909
>>702903Only because you value your age more than any experiences you might have, which is your fault and I feel sorry for you that you've been brainwashed to feel like that.
Getting a boyfriend is easy and anyone can do it (extremely overrated though), what exactly are you missing that you won't be able to do later? Do you think you're gonna die next year or that older people don't have fun or something?
No. 702919
>>702916Because saying you want to "savour your twenties" is setting yourself up for failure and dread of getting older, dumbass.
I'm 22 myself, not exactly old, you'd think you'd have a similar reaction after reading all the anons crying about feeling like an "old hag" at 20, crying on their 18th birthday and fearing aging for a year straight while in quarantine.
No. 702922
>>702919>because saying you want to "savour your twenties" is setting yourself up for failure and dread of getting older, So should all twenty year olds just be miserable? Once again, enjoying the stuff you experience during your twenties is not a bad thing. That anon is literally just saying she wants to spend her early twenties doing college activities, ya'know, that place people usually go to in their twenties. You're focusing too much on the age part when it's clearly just about wanting to experience college life, which anon is going to miss half of.
>you'd think you'd have a similar reaction after reading all the anons crying about feeling like an "old hag" at 20, crying on their 18th birthday and fearing aging for a year straight while in quarantine.I don't it's right anyone feels like that either? That doesn't have anything to do with the op post though
No. 702929
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I have a gross smelling throat infection (I think) that I left unchecked for too long and I fear it may be too late. My throat was sore the other day and now my sinuses are burning like hell. It had been smelly (my throat) for a month, just smelling like mothballs. I figured if I kept going the tonsil stones would eventually come up but nothing happened yet. I believe it started from smoking cbd hemp. I'm so worried, I don't want to get sick from this shit.
I don't want to go to an irl doctor for them to charge me 300 dollars to tell me it's just an infection that'll go away but I'm scared remote doctor won't be enough. Fuck
No. 703119
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fucking dammit, my dumbass father booked a fucking table in bumfuck nowhere for my birthday tomorrow and i dont want to go, i want to stay home and study
fuck dammit, i've never celebrated my birthday in almost 30, we just invite the same relatives for dinner every fucking year, but since they are afraid of covid they are only passing by. I like having them here, for coffee or lunch, i dont care. But if they are not coming for dinner i don't mind in not celebrating. I dont care about cake or gifts or fancy meals, just leave me the fuck alone because i've a monster of an oral exam next month. But who the fuck cares what i think or want?? So go the fuck ahead and schedule a lunch without asking me what the fuck i want.
fucking shitbag family, i hope tomorrow we are sent back home by a police patrol efforcing the fucking lockdown
No. 703171
>>703116She'll be back trying to worm into your mom's life because you do shit like snicker about how she's fat behind her back instead of telling her she's fucked up and what your boundaries are to her face.
It's one thing to be passive aggressive and lacking a spine when it's just you, but it sounds like you like the drama from your fat aunt deep down if you won't even tell her off for your mom's sake when it clearly upsets her. Do something about it.
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just want to join a female server that’s not weirdly right wing or on the other hand full of troon loving libfems
No. 703277
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I wrote a whole rant about my mom but deleted it because I went all over the place, I just have too many issues with her. I don't hate her but I really wish I had the nerve to tell her to her face that she is a huge controlling bitch and she has no respect for me and I resent her so much for so much pain she caused me growing up, all of her daddy issues that she let turn her into a fucking miserable person, and the fact that to this day she makes no effort to hide the fact that she cares more about my brothers, even though I'm the good kid. I want to cry thinking of how I tried to do everything right when I was young, tried to pull up the slack where my brothers didn't give a fuck about my mom because I felt bad that they were hurting her, only for her to turn around and treat me like I'm a burden to her and I can never meet her standards as an adult and she doesn't give a fuck about me yet she's always on my ass about how I'm not good enough. She's so selfish if I told her how I feel she would make it all about her hard life and how I owe her so much. I didn't ask to be born and you don't even want me so whatever. Oh my god this post doesn't even make any sense my brain has rotted out from being a fucking doormat
No. 703357
>>703320Make it a faith-thing so she can't refuse: "Mom you can't buy me all these cheap things because they're made my little kids under terrible conditions in low wage countries, as a Christian you can't support that" or "You can't keep buying me so much stuff because the bible says materialism is bad"
I don't know how religious your mom is but this would a 1000% work on my christian mom
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I can't complain about this irl because I don't wanna be ungrateful but ughhh. I lost my job because of the pandemic and so did my mum, so her, my brother and I are going to move into my grandma's house because it's empty.
It only has two bedrooms, and we planned to make another one for me using space from the living room. Now she wants to just divide one of the two bedrooms which are very small and make two fucking cubicles for me and my brother because she doesn't want to lose living room space to decor.
I will have basically no privacy and no space to put most of my shit so I'll just probably have to somehow find another job and move out in like 2-3 months which is so stressful since I have no job and no one to live with. God, I hate this.
No. 703635
>>701420Kek thanks for giving me that refresher on what a clown I act when in a relationship.
Like my emotions when single are so steady, but for a moment I could literally feel you catastrophising and working yourself up, that he's a simp or she's fully after his oblivious dick (why do I always think literally everyone is after whoever I'm dating?), along with the immediate comedown and breath of relief when actually it's a dude, completely forgetting how you were in despair a few minutes ago and not wanting to look at how
problematic your thoughts were. That is so me with a bf.
You should really try and question what would the problem really be if his gaming friend WAS a woman.
Mind you, I'm not ready to tackle that shit, so I can't talk. I'm staying single till I've had therapy.
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I know it will sound overdramatic and that there is a pandemic going on and people dying and shit but I HATE myself SO MUCH right now because I threw a spoon into the sink and managed to break a part off from one of my fave coffee mugs which I bought on a trip that is one of my fave memories of mine and I feel like screaming right now. This mug is sacred to me and the fact that I managed to break such an important item of mine because I COULD have put that spoon into the sink like normal person but noooo I had to throw it and now I sit here and I'm at the edge crying because I'm so angry at myself
No. 703707
>>703665Thank you anon that's so sweet! I really hope you are right. Thank you so much for the well wishes
I've literally been googling and youtubing everything under the sun but there aren't a lot of happy endings or good bits of advice. I'm just doing my silly yoga poses and sleeping on the hospital floor hoping something kicks in soon. I read two thirds of people recover spontaneously but apparently I am quite badly injured so I don't know if I'll be the third that needs epidurals or surgery. I'm not religious but I sincerely hope someone hears my prayer and stops this pain very soon.