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No. 993467

The year is almost over nonnies! Let's discuss our goals for 2022!

What were your new years resolutions for 2021? Were you able to achieve them? Did you manage to achieve anything else in 2021 that was unplanned? What do you hope to achieve in 2022?

2021 New Years Resolutions thread: >>>/ot/644632

No. 993471

I suppose I kept my resolution, to start a business..but I've fallen behind. Last month and a half all blend together and I don't think I've done anything at all. My resolution for this year is to bring structure into my life, and to go outside every day.

No. 993478

To leave this dumpster fire shithole masquerading as a civilized country.
Although this was my new years resolution last year as well. Let's hope I succeed this coming year. Fingies crossed

No. 993479

My only resolution is to beat all the video games in my backlog. I stopped being ambitious because everytime I finally have an opportunity to do literally anything some crazy shit happens. Covid included. I'll keep posting about my backlog in the vidya thread, as usual.

No. 993488

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I posted this in another thread a while back, but my big goal this year was to not buy any new clothing, and I've actually done that! It's been very freeing, and actually a lot easier than I thought it would be. I think I took the challenge on hard mode because for about 6 months of the year, we were dealing with bedbugs and I had to have almost all of my clothing in storage so I was forced to overcome my retarded fear of being judged for rewearing the same handful of clothing items over and over and I've come to the conclusion that honestly no one gives a shit as long as I don't look unkempt kek. I will admit that I had to buy a blazer for a job interview in the middle of those 6 months, but then returned it afterwards

When I browse through stores or look at my favorite brands, I don't know if things this year are just poorly designed or if my whole view on clothing has changed so I actually very rarely feel that intense want for new clothes. There's some stuff that's really cute and I'd really want, but nothing has been so amazing that I was willing to break my new years resolution for it. For 2022 I don't think I'm going to keep the same goal of no clothing at all, but if I want to buy anything at all, I think I will set a limit of 1-2 pieces per month and they must be 100% natural fibers and from small businesses only. I have my eye on some brands and their clothing is quite expensive but fit the criteria, so 1-2 a month seems like all I'd be able to afford anyway. No limit on any clothing I decide to make though kek.

For 2022 I have a few goals in mind.
>Learn to drive.
Every year I say this, and every year I pussy out because that shit is scary. Here's to leaving my comfort zone!
>Rollerblade more
Picked it up last month and having a blast despite being 100% awful.
>Read at least 1 book a month.
I feel like my brain is melting and I gotta keep it from melting out of my ears. It helps that I'm only interested in reading nonfiction books now, but doesn't help that they can be boring and put me to sleep.

No. 993489

I got nothing this year, so same stuff for 2022:
>complete my education and then
>apply to college
>buy a ps4 or ps5 for my mom
>buy a computer
>finish reading the books I started this year
>get healthy/gain some weight
Won't do more than that because something always goes wrong when I do that stuff. Honestly if I just stop being poor and move from this town it's gonna be a great year.

No. 993493

>>993478
canada?

No. 993496

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>repaint my room, even if we move out this year (or not) idc can't stand the pink anymore
>buy and replace furnitures, my bed makes too much noise
>find a part time job even if it's for 1 month, that'll be money to cover a little bit plans above
>research what colleges to apply, gotta continue my education but I have to find my path/career
>draw? draw.

tldr: money

No. 993497

I want to get more experience gardening as I want to work towards a self-sufficient garden by time I graduate (not for a couple of years). That's my very main goal. Other than that it's not failing at uni I guess.

No. 993506

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My goals last year were to draw more and get a PC. I did both and managed to upgrade my tablet as well as study art more. My overall social media activity fell but I think that's a good thing.

For 2022, my goals are to draw more than I did this year. I clocked about 340 hours so far this year, so I'm guessing I can hit an average of 1 hour a day. In 2022 I'd like to get that up to at least 2 hours a day.
My other resolution is to learn Japanese through a more organized effort. I've been keeping at it on and off since November and I hope to be able to slowly read raws of mangas by the end of next year without having to look too many words up. I'd also like to write a letter to my JP friend in full Japanese.
More concrete, smaller goals would be:
>Exercise at least twice a month
>Stable-ish sleep schedule
>Finish a short comic

No. 993511

>>993493
KEK no, Canada's actually the country I'm desperately trying to move to

No. 993517

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My resolution list always gets out of hand.
>eat vegan
>exercise (gym and rollerskating)
>write in my diary constructively
>get back in to knitting
>no electronics in bed/bedroom
>create and follow a budget
>get a pixie cut
>get botox and laser eye surgery
>keep track of books I read
>practice german
I actually did pretty well with these, and fulfilled the more wholesome ones. I really got in to going to the gym, and in the summer was at my fittest. I knitted my first pair of socks. I shaved my head. Botox is out, having discovered radical feminism and gotten better at critically analysing why I'm scared of wrinkles. I don't write in my diary, but I do scrapbook - which is definitely more positive and constructive.

2022 resolutions:
>primarily plant-based diet
>Reach out to people more. Don't keep compliments to myself. Keep social media use to a minimum, but interact with friends and acquaintances when I do go online instead of just lurking.
>find a new job
>use my holiday more wisely - don't hoard it until christmas, have fun in the summer!
I have loads of other plans and hopes for the year, but I think those are the ones I will need to try the hardest and will give the most reward. Apart from veganism. It's just tradition to list that and then fail or give myself a vitamin deficiency.

No. 993558

>>993511
Get over here and be my buddy, I'll smuggle you in

No. 993619

Don’t remember what mine were for 2021 but for 2022, Move out of my parents house and start a new life somewhere safe and clean. Reach my goal weight and keep it. Find a creative outlet that I enjoy.

No. 993637

Didn't have anything planned for 2021, but for 2022:

>get enough money to get into IT course

>get first junior position

That's pretty much it since it will take me like 4-6 months to get the money and finish the course.

No. 993655

>>993558
careful nonna, I might actually take you up on this offer

No. 993681

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Losing another 10kg before june
Drawing at least 1 full artwork a month
→Growing my online presence as an artist
Getting myself into a serious healthy relationship
Going to the gym at least once a week, walking to my bus stop (1km) and doing at least 15 min of exercise every week days (if my health allows it kek)

No. 993697

Only resolution for 2021 was eating less junk food, which I managed, at this point I'm only eating it when someone explicitly offers me something. Resolutions for 2022 are
>upping the distance I walk every week by still a bit more
>stretch every day and consequently get back to being able to do splits
>reach kanken level 4
>study enough to deduct half a year of training at my job
>study maths
1 and 3 are very realistic, and if I keep at it like I'm doing right now I'll reach it within the first half of 2022, with 2 I might get a bit lazy but even then I'll try to at least keep doing it at the weekends and 5 will definitely suffer in favor of 4 but I don't need it for anything (I just feel stupid for not being able to do even highschool maths, so this is a complete ego thing lol) so that's fine I guess. 4 will be the hardest, because I actually have no idea how to study anything but languages (and even that's mainly just reading anything and everything until the grammar and vocabulary sticks), but I've always had good grades without studying (except for maths, obv), especially in the subjects needed for my job, so I'm hoping I'll somehow manage if I actually sit down and try to study for real.

No. 993699

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my biggest goal is to find a job within the next 3-4 months because that will open up a ton of possibilities/freedom.

-drop out of grad school
-get my own place
-finally get my adhd assessed properly (and then hopefully medicated)
-lose at least 20kg until the end of the year

easier goals are to continue reading a lot, to watch more movies and to pursue some knowledge for fun, without the pressure of academia behind it.

i also want to finally see my best friend again since i haven't seen her irl in over 3 years and she has a cat now! i must pet the kitty.

No. 993737

All I want is

>keep my family safe from corona

>get a job with a good pay and location near home
>find bf and start thinking about creating a family

No. 993744

>get a more interesting, challenging job that pays >10% better
>hit the gym; lift weights and swim
>read up more on ml theory
>slowly start music again; either practice it or make it
>volunteer more, though not sure what/where
>learn how to sew so I can make my own clothes

No. 993749

>become more assertive
>grow self-confidence
>don't let people walk all over myself
>have the guts to tell my bfs mother to shut the fuck up when she talks too much again about dumb pointless crap
>be meaner and have higher standards for other people
>break up with bf if he still wants to live with his parents in summer and still isn't done with his stupid degree and prioritizes his mother over me and our relationship
>learn how to maintain friendships and make friends at new job i will start in summer
>look if there are any himbos at the new job if i break up with bf
>become more organized
>make progress in therapy

No. 993759

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Huh? it's 2022 soon? what?

No. 993804

I don't have any new year resolution, but thank you for this thread, seeing some anons posting about healthy losing weight resolution just made me ran on the treadmill for 30min straight and now planning proper low carb eating plans, I will work to lose 10kg just like back during pre-pandemic. Actually that might be my new year resolution.

No. 993877

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1. drop weight to 45kg
2. make online and irl friends
3. gain large following on art accounts
4. get into university
5. make about £130k and invest into productive assets
6. learn Russian (maybe)
7. undergo more cosmetic surgery
8. get boyfriend?

No. 993879

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be less retarded

No. 993892

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My new years resolution has been the same since I was 16 and I always succeed. And that is to not suck a single cock. I will never give head. I haven't even met a dick that deserved it.

No. 993910

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I want to move out of my parents home already and get my own place. Im also going to put effort into trying to get irl friends. I successfully stopped being a NEET this year which im really happy about.
>>993892
based

No. 993917

>>993892
i love you and i love that pic. can anyone tell me what the text says

No. 993948

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This year sucked so I hope next year is better.
>stop being a NEET
>start saving money
>maybe get ears pierced?
That's all I hope for tbh.

No. 993952

>>993517
>Botox is out, having discovered radical feminism and gotten better at critically analysing why I'm scared of wrinkles.
That's great anon, I wish you continued growth in confidence for 2022

No. 993955

>>993892
this kind of post is why i came here, i hope you keep your head up queen

No. 993960

>>993948
>start saving money
girl you are jinxing yourself with that pic

No. 993961

>>993960
anon pls don't make me realise my mistakes

No. 993979

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>Pay off debt
>Move in (partially) with my boyfriend.
>Try to study more
>Pray gym mask mandate is over so I can go back to working out 7/7
>Buy a car
>Be less mento illness luv

No. 993983

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last new years resolutions
>learn how to sew
>create a website
>lose weight
I only made a website
my new years resolutions now
>drop out of college
>get a girlfriend
>gain more weight
this will be a mission impossible nonnas

No. 993993

>>993892
Unironically you are a girlboss. I might just have to steal this for 2022 kek.

No. 994046

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I’ve got more of them but my highest priority is to get my health and fitness up. I hate trying to follow the routines that shooped insta models sell so I’m gonna use Bruce Springsteen’s routine as a starting point kek.

No. 994082

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This one is pretty specific but I want to start practicing better self-love, specifically loving and respecting myself like I’m my own best friend. Recently I’ve noticed I’m keeping certain behaviour from my friends for fear of being judged, but I had a lightbulb moment that it’s only because they know it’s not what’s best for me and don’t want to see me making bad decisions that are going to hurt me in the long run. I also realised that if any of them were behaving the way I was and they were ignoring my thoughts and advice the way I’m tempted to ignore theirs, I would be fucking pissed.

No. 994118

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>i will take care of myself first.
>i will not allow others to guilt or manipulate me into doing things i'm not comfortable with.
>i will stand up for myself and voice my opinions with confidence.
>i will not hold myself responsible for the things beyond my control.
>i will not let my happiness depend on other people.

No. 994134

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>>994118
Good ones anon

No. 994187

I looked up my last year resolution and it was about making small changes to improve my quality of life. I did OK I think. 2022, as ambitious as it sounds, has to be a formative year for me, because I was shocked to find out the events I was thinking happened last year actually happened in 2020, as if the year didn't happen. So I think that while it's good to achieve small things I should aim for at least some big things too. This year I moved into a new place in a nice town that met my expectations that friends said were too unrealistic (absolutely quiet with a city nearby but also very close to forests and nature) and became for the first time fully absolutely independent. All my living expenses paid for fully by me and not subsidised by the government or anyone or anything.

But I do fully plan to, once my work contract ends, take 1-2 months of being unemployed in the summer. For me it's too hard to juggle interviewing with holding a full time job, so I took the first offer that's marginally better than my first job. I'm also currently living in a foreign country i'm not sure I want to settle down in. So by the end of my sabbatical, I could have decided to take my life in a completely different direction. It's going to be a big year, and I hope I don't disappoint myself. Last time I revealed myself as looking for a job employers were chomping at the bit to have me (I was overqualified for each interview offer), so I'm not too worried about not being able to find anything.

In early 2021 I also got tinnitus. I went to an ENT specialist who told me my hearing is perfect and it's just stress, and imperative that I reduce stress if it's bad enough to trigger tinnitus. I'll try, but sometimes it feels impossible because whether I stay in a non ideal situation that is stressful or work on improving my situation (like moving somewhere new, getting a new job), it all creates stress. I guess I'm a little confused on what to do, and need some more time to think about it.

>>993517
>Reach out to people more. Don't keep compliments to myself. Keep social media use to a minimum, but interact with friends and acquaintances when I do go online instead of just lurking.
This is a great one, when I'm mad and miserable I push myself to go online and compliment/catch up with friends, it feels nice to not perpetuate misery, and sometimes helps me feel better.

No. 994191

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I want to get over my one-sided crush and have some self respect.

No. 994192

>>993493
Good luck! I have the same resolution and it looks like it's actually going to happen within the next few months. Excited to watch the dumpster fire from a slightly less shitty country.

No. 994193

>>994192 meant for >>993478

No. 994195

>>994191
Same, i'm down bad and i need to get back on track, shit's pathetic

No. 994212

>>993489
>>buy a ps4 or ps5 for my mom
hellooo, cute. what kinda games does your mom like? my mom's always bored and i've been trying to get her into the sims for years but she doesn't want to start because she's worried about getting addicted to something ''nerdy''

No. 994213

my loser resolutions

>exercising instead of starving and puking

>get on welfare. embarrassing but gotta swallow my pride, i need money.
>get to the talking stage with a guy for the first time

No. 994219

i hope ill stop believing i deserved to be raped and finally stop hating myself…

No. 994246

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Same as last year, I want to stop being a serial doodler and start getting seriously into doing fully finished pieces, learn anatomy, color theory etc.

No. 994259

lmao i forgot my new years resolution. i think it was just to focus on doing well in school but i dont think that worked out because life threw me several curve balls. i'm not mad about it because that's life i suppose.

i've started the upswing of improving my health and learning a new language. so my new year resolutions are:

- continue improving my health, get to the point where i can run a 5k, and then am running 5k at least twice a week. there are weight loss implications with this but even as someone who used to be disordered, i've found so much success in exercising regularly and focusing on beating my PBs, reaping the benefits of sleeping + breathing better, having lower anxiety and having more energy instead of being really meticulous about calorie counting and weighing every single component of my meal. the weight will come off but i'm focusing on becoming stronger.
- complete the language learning book i got as a birthday gift, improve my pronounciation, etc.
- improve cooking and baking by trying a new recipe at least once a month.
- make an effort to read semi-regularly but this isn't that strict, i'm just more interested in minimizing screen time.
- be more consistent with my studies because even though this year was really hard for me, its not an excuse for putting it on the backburner this much.

No. 994265

>>994246
pic looks super cool, love the colors

No. 994407

>be less socially awkward/quit acting like a freak autist whenever someone I don't know speaks to me
>get into a masters program
>settle down and plant roots in a place.
>finish a complete draft of the novel I'm working on

No. 994447

>get my sister to move out
>own a computer that isn't made up of parts fished from a dumpster

No. 994468

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Stop buying shit and save up some fucking money

No. 994483

>>994468
your picrel is killing me anon

No. 994489

>>994468
I miss hailetheturtle kek

No. 994503

Managed to tick some new years resolutions for 2021. Got a new car, started learning Japanese, actually have a proper book to record all my monthly spending in 2021, managed to survive a one month social media fast, managed to survive another year of covid and lockdown alone and away from my family and I also tried my hands on gardening. But of course there's a lot of things that I have failed to achieve in 2021 due to the pandemic but I try not to beat myself up over it. Everyone has had a hard time these past two to three years.

New years resolution for 2022 is trying to complete the rest of my 2021 resolutions. The most immediate ones are:
>trying my hand on investing in stocks. I'm scared of this one because I'm not a risk taker at all and only have slight knowledge on investing. But most investing vids and journals I've watched/read mentioned that it's better to start investing earlier than later in life and just push yourself to start even if you don't know much because you'll learn by doing it.
> get myself a good quality mattress to save my poor back
> get a gym membership or enroll in a yoga class (I keep saying this for years but it never happens lel maybe this year?)
> and the most important goal of all is to get myself a proper fitting bra! Goddammit! Why is it so hard to find a good bra that doesn't break your bank or your boobs? After a bajillion years of living in this godforsaken planet I still can't find a proper fitting bra. Whyyyyyy

No. 994812

>>994503
Would highly recommend "I will teach you to be rich"! It's a personal finance book and he does cover investing in the book. I think it's a good place to start because a lot of resources on the internet tend to be very overwhelming. You don't have to invest in stocks if you aren't a risk taker, you can also do index funds which are usually safer and aim to match the market (which grows at about 10% a year) rather than beating the market (very rare and waste of time). Roboadvisors are also a thing but I personally do not like them because many will just keep a portion of your portfolio (maybe like 20% or something) in cash, and cash does not do much of anything if it isn't invested.

Good luck nona! Once you get the hang of the basics I think investing choices will become a bit easier.

No. 994884

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>Stop "socializing" online. Strengthen irl friendships.
>Keep up not using social media
>Continue using lolcow and mindless online surfing to an hour a day
>Blogpost on journals, not to other people
>Track monthly spending
>Continue going to the gym and bond with my dad on weekends
>Lose 20 lbs or maintain current weight and gain muscle
>Get Driver's License
>Graduate college, accept any decent job
>talk to my parents about moving out without pissing them off or make them feel like it's a personal attack.
>maintain positive relationship with family
>help my brother feel less depressed

No. 994933

>start/continue the recovery process from at least two of my mental illnesses
>return to education because i want a degree
>go on a date because i haven't been on a proper one since 2019

No. 994949

In 2022 i’ll just ignore my art block and depression and just make stuff everyday. every. Day. Time is passing me by i’m not gonna sit there and wait for my brain to be creative or “feel like it” i took enough breaks this year

No. 994974

I dont usually make new years resolution but i should try starting from now
>Move out of town
>Make more money
>Get an internship to weasel my way into the creative industry
>Finish my damn degree
>Upgrade my phone & PC (with the aforementioned money)
>Stay alive

Let's gooooo nonnies!

No. 994975

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I didn't meet any of my 2021 goals but I'm an incorrigible optimistic so I think things are looking better for 2022. I actually have more planned out, less generic goals and deadlines for said goals as well, so that motivates me way more.

>Go back strong at keto, lose at least 25kgs this year

>Get back to my japanese studies with more diligence, and get my JLPT N2 certificate
>Apply to JET programme
>Get a job in my own country first
>If that doesn't work, get back to uni and get a second degree in another area
>Apply for the MEXT research programme as well
>Boyfriend just gifted me a huion tablet, so get back and better at doing art as well

At least one of these I think I can get! Let's do this nonnies

No. 995176

>>994975
a little OT, but NONNY where is your picture from? It's so cute!

No. 995256

>>994975
This picture makes me feel a pang in my cold dead heart for the good ol days when I thought my desperate codependency towards a psychotic abuser was actually twu wuv and I truly believed we were perfect together. Thanks I hate it.
>>995176
It's from a pose/art reference book about "lovey dovey" couples. http://www.genkosha.co.jp/gmook/?p=22596

No. 995268

>>995256
ty, I love these

No. 995332

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>>649660
For my last year resolutions

>Finally get my driver's license

Done and so happy its done
>Lose 40 pounds
Only did 15 pounds
>Make more money online
Was successful
>Have savings over 25k
Got in at 45k
>Be more mentally healthy and develop better life/coping skills
So-so, tried therapy this year and it was only a temp thing. Have gotten better at regulating my emotions though
>Being able to travel back to Europe
Yup went for two months
>If so, go to Croatia, Bosnia and Italy to travel
Only got to visit Croatia

This years
>Lose more weight
>Drink more water
>Be successful at new job
>Save more money
>Invest more
>Find long-term therapy
>Start planning moving out

No. 995334

>>995332
>Got in at 45k

And here I was thinking I'm hot shit because I've managed to save up almost 5k which is more than I've ever had at once. What's your job btw?

No. 995339

>>995334
You should still be proud of yourself anon, its impressive no matter what. I only really started having that kind of money to save in 2020. I work remotely as a content reviewer.

No. 995340

I actually managed to greatly reduce my drinking and weed habit greatly and replace it with exercise and other hobbies which where previously consumed by my substance abuse.
That was about March last year, and I feel a lot better both mentally and physically since then.
I have also managed to get a new job starting next year that pays a lot more than my current one.
For next year I want to try my hand at sustainability/homecraft shit. I already make my own mead, bread and jam but I need to go deeper.
Also I think I might be a closeted lesbian so I need to explore that.

No. 995342

>>993917
I got addicted to you, but it’s very formal

No. 995366

>save up more money
>fix my eating habits
>improve drawing and finally start illustrations for an artbook
>travel in the summer
>get some good friends
Not sure if I'm gonna reach any of those but I'll be trying.

No. 995377

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>Earn some money
>do more exercise
>lose more weight
>walk my dog more often
>draw some shit
>dance more
>write a paragraph of a story

No. 995379

>>995377
what is the thing in this picture supposed to be or where is it from

No. 995383

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>>995379
I just fell down the rabbit hole of Pinterest, they’re worms on strings but they’re angels, there’s so much worm on a string art that I think this made my autism get autism.

No. 995405

>>995383
thank you, from looking up worm on string I've learned they're called squirmles as a brand name.

No. 995415

>>995339
Nta and sorry if it's too personal, but how did you get into that job? What was your previous job? All the ads for it in my country already require work experience in it, so I'm at loss.

No. 995685

>Stop letting people walk all over me, stop giving a fuck about other opinions
>Learn Japanese well enough to read the new TMGS
>Hire a personal trainer, get ripped and have nice biceps
>Start investing my disposable income, preferably in something high-risk, high-reward.
>Make new friends, tell the old ones to go fuck themselves
>Stop drinking once and for all, this is the hardest one since I'm an alcoholic but I know I can do it with a little perseverance.

No. 996311

I'm going to make her so happy. That's all I want to do.

No. 1001136

I want to spend less time on my phone. My phone is telling me that I spend like an average of 9 hours per day on it and I think part of it is because it also takes into account the time I spend on my iPad (mainly for youtube, which I also just put on for background noise), but it's still ridiculously high. I gotta get the fuck off my phone.

No. 1001153

Tbh, I don’t remember if I had a resolution for last year. This coming year, I’d like to try to focus on getting help for my undiagnosed mental illness again. The last time I tried, I basically couldn’t keep appointments consistently because of my memory issues, so I was dropped as a patient. Which, to me, feels paradoxical, but I understand that it probably seemed like I didn’t want the help from their perspective. I did want it, but it feels like my brain has deteriorated and even with appointment reminders, it still slips my mind like 5 minutes after. The same effect as reading a text and not replying right away, so then you forget you ever got a text in the first place.

No. 1001208

>learn how to commute properly
>work on a comic with my friend
>start being more sociable

happy advanced new year nonas. i hope 2022 will be kind to us

No. 1001214

I want to be a normie

No. 1001216

Actually take care of my body. Eat properly. Get more sun.

No. 1001231

I want to make more clothing in the new year with the skills I learned over the past two years, and to make my own kombucha. I'm late to the trend but I love how that shit tastes. It's like bad medication melting on your tongue

No. 1001238

>licence
>ideally moved out, if not then at least saving for it
>better sleep schedule
>blend in as a normie properly aka get real hobbies
this will never happen but i'll hope anyway
>have a real sense of self-identity

No. 1001277

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> take decisions that contribute to my overall well being
> stop being terminally online
> make new friends
> experience new things
> help at a charity
> cook new dishes
> learn french

happy new year anons, I hope your resolutions come true!

No. 1001295

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hack the matrix and become free

No. 1001309

>>1001295
Just don't go toward the light… it's a trap. Keep your wits and try to find a hole in the grid. Best of luck anon

No. 1001316

>>1001295
>hack the matrix
Nonna, I believe you could hack the planet if you really put your mind to it

No. 1001328

i will kick my ex out of my apartment (he has until end of january), i will lose 30 more pounds, i will learn to cook more for myself, i will repair my friendships (in progress!), i will visit my family at least once a week, i will finish at least 2 paintings per month and create music regardless of whether i decide to release it, & i will be intermediate conversational in japanese
my only goal last year was to build myself back up from rock-bottom depression and i can say ive achieved that

No. 1001367

>>1001328
I believe in you!!!

No. 1001410

>>993488
Proud of you anon! I’m thinking of doing something like this -not buying new clothes, or generally being consumeristic- for this year!

No. 1001959

>>1001410
I believe you can do it nona! I want to aim to cut down buying other stuff as well. I'm tired of consoomerism for the sake of consoomerism!

No. 1002025

|1| Finish my stupid degree
|2| Get a decent job
|3| Renovate my apartment, for real this time
|4| Start going to the gym again
|5| Stop feeling bad for ghosting my insane bpd ex best friend
|6| Start appreciating my mom more, buy her perfume, treat her to get her nails done, etc

>>993496
>tldr: money
Exactly

No. 1002029

>Take art more seriously and post my work on social media more often
>Make more money
>Move out for real this time

No. 1002033

I want to pass all my classes this year that's all I want. That way I can make a creature suit over the summer, it's going to be awesome

No. 1002065

- lose 25 kg
- learn more
- practice more
- get my degree
- get rid of everything I don't need anymore
- start drawing again
- drink less alcohol
- start a new language
- find friends
- enjoy life as good as I can
- less depressive episodes
- move or kill my neighbours

No. 1002093

It's the last week of 2021. I actually achieved most of my resolutions but it was also the most miserable year for me. What I achieved:
>learned how to skate (ice, quad, inline and longboard)
>learned how to use a sewing machine
>finish over 5 crochet projects
>save/invest/freelance
>learn how to do a chin-up/pull up
>travel overseas once (am a digital nomad atm)

However I have turned into a half-NEET. Depression kicking in YAY!

2022 resolutions:
>manage my mental health
>earn more than I did this year
>have a safe space to call home
>regularly go for a 5k run
>start intermittent fasting and meditation
>spend less time in the gossip threads here kek
>not get banned on this site kek

No. 1002098

>>1002093
samefag I wanted to add learn how to ride a motorbike! Maybe buy myself a vespa one day.

No. 1003039

>>993467
Aw, my retarded ass read thread title as "New Years Speculations", I opened it all ready to post my Queen Elizabeth death date

No. 1004187

i am kinda drunk and also esl so i will word this baddly probably but my only resolutions are to lose the quarantine weight, keep on saving money and not to fail any of my classes. also to stop being a retard redditor and stop using that website for good

No. 1004189

>>1004187
samefag but i also wanna start writing my book. just for fun

No. 1004511

>>995339
late ass reply but would you mind sharing what kind of content you review, and how you got that job? sorry to be annoying but I just wanna know

No. 1004563

>>995339
I did that for a while and was so depressed I just quit with nothing else lined up. Now I am also broke, kek. But hey, here’s to a new year where I find a job and save money and…..become rich through a miracle and buy equipment to make music. Good job, anon.

No. 1004567

Idk I guess I'll try quitting cigarettes again. Maybe in a few weeks. Quitting the weed probably taking priority because I also need to lose covid weight because my joints hurt all the time and I want my energy back but pretty sure smoking weed daily makes me hungry and lazy af.

No. 1004581

to quit this website. LC is both an insight in some ways aswell as awful in other ways. It's time for me to leave this behind. Also I want to live more offline in general.

No. 1004929

My hopes for next year is to not lose my job, develop core strength, fix my posture and maybe join a class if I can't be disciplined to workout at home. Oh, and get laid.

No. 1005004

I didn't have any resolutions before but this year I'm going to try and stick to some - maybe not all these since I think of them as a general guideline and can only do so much in a day although the more I'm able to achieve the happier I'll be
I want to get more fit/get a six pack, significantly improve my art, study the foreign language I'm learning almost every day or make more progress towards fluency, get really good at cooking/baking, eat healthier, read more books, spend more time studying for uni (computer science so practice writing code outside of classwork), and start learning to sew/pattern draft

No. 1005015

Three years ago I was the fattest I've ever been. I shaved my head just for fun, enjoyed wearing funny clothes and had lots of self-confidence and belief in myself. I knew I wasn't pretty or appealing, but I felt free. Then I moved in with my boyfriend who took it upon himself to become my life coach and personal trainer. I've grown my hair out, wear all black and feel ugly and dirty and dumb despite having lost weight. My boyfriend dared to complain last summer that I wasn't my fun, colourful self anymore. I left him a few weeks later, but I'm still struggling with feeling worthless. I want to spend 2022 building my confidence. I don't want to gain the weight back or shave my head again, but I do want to feel that sense of freedom and fun that I used to have. It's strange to know that I once loved myself despite my flaws, and now I can barely stand to look at the "improved" version in the mirror. In 2022 no one's gonna be my life coach but me.

No. 1005413

>>1005015
Love love love your energy anon. You got this. Eventually you’ll meet someone who wants to celebrate you and grow with you, not change you. Wishing all the best for you

No. 1005627

Last year my resolution was to lose weight and I lost 40 pounds. Sorry for humblebrag it's just the first time in my life I've ever succeeded at a resolution and I'm excited. For 2022 I want to cut another 10-20 pounds of fat, and also get more serious about working out and pack on lots more muscle. I want beefcake biceps for summer.

No. 1005631

I'm not feeling very resolution-y. I think I used up all my eumph. It would be nice to get hired this year

No. 1005643

>>1005627
You’ve earned the right to brag, anon. Don’t worry.

No. 1005720

>>1005015
I used to shave my head, I don't have the greatest face shape for it but I loved it anyway.

I've gone back and forth a bit over the years. I'm straight but kinda butch and I've toned aspects of myself down to 'match my sexuality' aka please bfs and social norms. It makes me miserable and my misery makes me feel uglier than anything. When I've been single and doing my own thing I get way more people interacting, strangers starting up convos with me, I'm approachable. I attract the right kind of people for me. I could 'do myself a favor' and style myself to appeal to more people but you might as well appeal to people that match you.

I'm tatted aswell and while they are rarely out on show, I have bumped into a few people lately who are heavily tattoeed too and got chatting to them about it. I'm new to a rural area where I wasn't expecting to make friends easily so my thing for 2022 is that I want to connect with some of those people I bumped into before. I want something more to come of it. Friendship, one of them was hot so maybe more.. I mainly want to come out of my shell more. Coming out of my shell is an ongoing thing I think I'll always have to work at. Throw it on the list for every year lol

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I'm this >>705079 anon from last year.
I got another job within the same company and substantially increased my salary, woo! Literally life-changing. Doing more art has happened, but not as much as I'd liked. Hopefully this year I'll have more time/motivation. As for moving, I'm now content to stay here, for now. It helps that I'm living with my partner who doubles as a great roommate.

For 2022:
>make a Webtoon
>work towards my Associates degree
>pay off my private student loan + save for tuition

No. 1006033

>>1005955
Sending you all the best wishes, anon!

No. 1006244

In 2022 I will not stalk people I know irl on social media anymore. Not because I think it's bad for me but because I have a feeling they'll find out what I'm doing. Even with burners these social media companies are snakes who track you everywhere so it's a risk every time I do it.

No. 1006248

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My goals for the next year are:
>Find a graduate job
Will start applying once I get my uni papers in order. Maybe make a linkedin although it makes my skin crawl.
>Get into drawing again
Basically stopped because of uni and lack of motivation caused by uni stress.
>Improve my health
My bf and I have agreed to join a gym in January lmao, my current job is fucking over my health so finding a new job would help in this regard as well.
>Read 5 books
To not become completely braindead now that I'm out of education kek.

I'm quite optimistic but also scared about the new year, have never been out of education before and have reached the point where I can't tolerate staying at my current workplace much longer but also I will miss it. Atm I'm as broke as I have ever been due to needing to cut down my work hours for health and studying reasons, it's quite humiliating honestly. Have picked up some new hobbies this year so I'm hype to have more time to dedicate to them as well. Have a good feeling about this year and I'm normally quite pessimistic!

No. 1006252

Reading all of these makes me wish all the best for all the nonas, I hope we all have a nice 2022.

My resolutions for next year are:
To put myself more out there as an artist, meet people irl and take part in some art and craft fairs, to make some cute little children's books, to start a balcony garden, to gain upper body strength, and to make and send crochet plushies to all my internet friends.

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>let my manifestation come true or I will rip my arm off and eat it
seriously it has been two years of misery cut me a fucking break and let me have what i want the most. how much more pain does one girl gotta go through? it's not that much im asking for it's a retarded af very simple not long lasting thing…

>let me graduate and leave this shithole

hopefully by midsummer.

>make improvements to diet and start exercising more, lose some flab

i have gotten soft… and i do not enjoy it

>learn to cook and stop eating so much takeout

in prep for moving out post graduation i need to combat my worst money drain that also contributed to my nasty weight redistribution and the idea pains me but here we are i suppose

>let this be the last year i work retail and hopefully let me get a post grad job before next christmas

might noose if i have to withstand one more holiday working retail

>succeed in something, get something i want, and be satisfied with my life for a fleeting moment

2021 was shit cheers to a forthcoming 2022, may it be better, interestingly shit, and may things in my life change, as well as the scenery. save me from suffocating!

No. 1006261

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create more
experience more
consume less

No. 1006280

>>995415
>>1004511
Lol, I actually posted about this in another thread. I would for a company called telus, where I just review youtube videos and if they violate guidelines shit like that. I didn't need really any experience for the job.
>>1004563
Yeah I could see why, but I'm not really seeing anything adult or gory like that. It can be repetitive, but its easy af for what I can work when I want to on my own free time. Hope you can get that anon for 2022.

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my new years resolutions are as follow:
>lose weight (60-70lbs to be exact)
this is a given. i've been overweight for the past 3 years and it's fucking with my mental and physical health. the reason why i haven't been able to deal with this properly is because of my mentality, i've always either ate nothing and starved or ate everything, hence why i've never been able to sustain weight loss. this changes now and i will no longer fall into these cycles that i know will end tragically
>exercise more and get fit
for my health. i'm so young yet feel like i can't do much physical work without getting burnt out. exercise also helps my mental problems
>improve my mental health
try to find ways to deal with my anxiety and depression, body image issues, eating issues etc etc better. get professional help when/if i need it instead of dealing with it on my own in unsustainable ways
>being nicer to people in my head and being less judgemental overall
i'm never mean to people out loud but i do catch myself having negative thoughts about people in my head. i want to stop that because it's a clear sign of my own insecurity especially when those thoughts are about physical appearance
>start dating (or at least try)
well i have no experience because of my insecurities so hopefully by getting healthier i will gain confidence to finally start experiencing things in that department
>finally move to (redacted country)
if everything works out, that will be the case. and i can't wait for it

No. 1008039

>Draw every day
>Get an apartment
>Fix my car or trade it in for a better one
>Send an email to a friend I lost contact with a year ago
>Stop watching porn
>Stop binge eating

The last two are stress related which is hard because I'm starting a new semester of college in January

No. 1008048

My first resolution is to be more socially active, digitally if not in person because 'rona. Although that sounds counterintuitive - I don't want to be a "terminally online" person anymore than I already am, but I'm not active in any communities other than anonymous imageboards these days. My main motivation is self-promotion of my content and it's shit shilling stuff on those places.

My second resolution would be actually promoting my content, which is quite intimidating to say the least. Do people just shill links to their shit on reddit and the like?

And I guess a third resolution would to go through my journals of the past couple years and try to organize it in a more meaningful way.

No. 1008062

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Can we also talk about the lack of a resolution? Every year I get excited because it will be a new year and you can "start over" and do better etc.
But for some reason this is the first year I feel completely grim about things. I don't feel excited like before. It truly is just another year and I'm sad that my brain sees it like this. I just feel like things won't change and I'll still be living the same life and the same situations and etc.
I dunno if this is because of the pandemic, me growing up, being kinda frustrated in my life, etc…

No. 1008104

>>993479
Actually , another resolution would be getting my own apartment. I'm 27 and still live with my parents because of covid reducing my chances to get a permanent work contract, and having 6 months long work contracts means landlords won't even look at my applications if I even start looking for an apartment. So hopefully I can extend my contract, negotiate a salary increase, and get my own place so I can escape my batshit crazy family.

No. 1008155

>>1008062
it's okay to not have a resolution nonnie. Start the year by just giving yourself the space to exist. But if you ever feel like starting something or have a goal, it can be at any time, you are my precious cow and I'm here for you heart emoji

No. 1008231

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For my New Year's resolution I want to practice writing cursive and learn to read sheet music.

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>>1008155
Thank you my precious cow, this really made me feel better… heart emoji

No. 1011674

>progress in piano
>take extra exams for uni
>get into a good uni so i can thrive and play volleyball and stuff
>darken my hair
>get a job
>travel abroad
>camp
>read more
>be a better family member
>stay fit
>make friends for once
>practice my language skills
>go to Germany to visit an old and cherished friend
>surf in Cornwall
>manage OCD better
>grow vegetables again
>get my license
>get stronger

No. 1011841

I'm learning to play the violin, mark my words. I actually think I'm going to do this more than attend ballet class probably. I still love dance obviously and do want to enroll in dance class wherever I am, but I'm going to do that more leisurely whilst I want to seriously pursue violin. It is ironic since I am way more skilled at dancing now, but I'm even more skilled at acting. I suppose that's just how I am, haha. Anyway, violin! I'm so excited

No. 1011877

>learn to be more patient, I keep sabotaging shit because I give up halfway through after investing quite some time in it, and end up back where I started.
>Live in a foreign country I've never been in for three months
>Learn to drive
I'm tempted to pile up lots of resolutions, but this year I want to keep them simple and entirely within my control. Plus the first one is the most important.

No. 1012324

>>1011841
Why violin? I heard it’s hellishly hard. Good luck though xx

No. 1012502

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This year was one of my worse so I hope 2022 goes better. I never make resolutions but I feel like I have to now. I want to be happy.

>wash my hair x2 a week (fuck you depression)

>grow my Twitch stream
>start posting on social media
>a decent sleep schedule that lasts more than 3 days
>clean my room way more often
>keep becoming better on the game I'm playing
>take care of myself
>meet my friends in Paris again
>travel if I have the money

No. 1012556

Weight loss, getting out more, conquering my anxiety, new job, saving up

No. 1012562

>>1012502
>grow my Twitch stream
>start posting on social media
Why???

No. 1012568

>>1012562
Twitch because I enjoy it and my community is really sweet so far and social media because if I want to grow the stream, posting would help.

No. 1012573

>>1008062
I feel the same, i had no resolutions and felt like the year ahead was going to be the most bland and lifeless thing. My brother has some resolutions, and I’m just going to tag along with him for some. He wants to go for runs, and I’m going to run with him. Other than that i feel strangely lost and jaded for this year. This nonna >>1008104 is right though. Space to exist is something i think we forget to give ourselves.

No. 1012598

I had none last year. This year I want to become stronger physically and to develop genuine compassion for myself.

No. 1012604

I don't want to share everything, but do want to get the ball rolling for what I'll put into my journal;

I think I want to throw away as much of my current bedroom as possible (Give away, sell, etc)

Want to actually make stuff specifically to sell

put more effort into my cooking (meal prepping for the sake of laziness, etc)

Not pick up any new hobbies but work on improving the ones I already have

No. 1012636

I had a great first new year nonnies. I exercised and stretched, got 10,000 steps, cleaned for a bit, repotted some plants, and tried some winter themed nail art!
My resolution is to spend less time online and do things that improve my health, style, and environment.

No. 1013493

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i have a lot of regular personal resolutions but specifically for this hellsite, i want to be so busy and distracted with positive irl things that i lurk here less (no offense lol)

also on that note, any time i get a big urge to like alog or post about some bitch i consider a "personal lolcow" i am going to step back, write it in the notes app instead, have a good hard look at how pathetic and vendetta cringe it probably sounds, delete it and go for a fucking walk or something

No. 1014045

Gonna try and get my driving confidence back (had a really bad experience during my second ever time driving, got bad anxiety and stopped, then practiced again for a year got my open license, haven’t touched a car since.)

I also want to get my writing passion back. No one will probably ever read it but it’s fun.
Rooting for you all nonitas

No. 1014090

>>1014045
you can do it nona! Try going around the neighborhood first, be safe!

No. 1014160

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First day was back at work today and i called off because fuck it. I don't care anymore, and it's a snow day on top of it, so it's extra enjoyable. Happy 2022

No. 1014334

>get a driving license
>draw more often
>don’t waste money on useless crap

No. 1014489

This is the year I will stop allowing destabilizing forces into my life and make way more money as a result. Then I will find a ditzy, dependable, very loving, emotionally intelligent skelly bf that doesn't try to pointlessly bicker or compete with me intellectually, financially and emotionally.

No. 1014500

>>1014334
We have the same goals, woooaaahhh

No. 1014501

>>1014489
I want this for my mom, momma if you can feel me out there get your life together

No. 1014509

Stop saying embarassing stuff while drunk or high… I know I won't succeed tho

No. 1014567

>>1013493
You go nonny. I hate to say it but I sort of wish this site went away at the end of the year because it's pretty much all I do. My resolution this year is to have less screen time and view it as a reward or treat rather than a necessity.

No. 1014665

This year I want to continue my college classes like I've planned out. I want to continue to be motivated so I do very well so that I can try to get grants and scholarships for when I transfer.

No. 1014678

>>1014509
Why? That's like the only time you can get away with it lol

No. 1014703

Never made a resolution, but I need a new job this year. I'm so over my current one, and want out by no later than March, being realistic.

No. 1014725

Quit my job

No. 1017832

Rather than "be fit/get toned" I want to become more comfortable in my body. I already workout almost every day before work. I'm not going crazy lifting weights or running miles on the threadmill, I usually do yoga or bodyweight work outs in the morning, and I enjoy it. It's a good, feasible routine for me and I've kept at it for almost 3 years now! I've become more flexible, and some of my body pains have lessened as I get a little bit stronger.

But I'm skinnyfat and always feel like what I do isn't enough. I need to work out more, work out harder. I can't enjoy the fun physical hobbies I pick up like rock climbing because it quickly turns from "this is a really fun thing to do! and a nice bonus is it gets me moving" to "I need to do this with more frequency and get better so I can burn more calories and get fit" and then I burn out from whatever physical activity because it no longer becomes fun because I'm upset that I'm not working out hard enough.

I don't like to wear revealing clothes, I don't make money from looking good, I don't even post selfies on social media, nevermind body or outfit pictures! So I just want to be happy with my body, so I can enjoy my morning routine and hobbies without burning out from them. If I want to start moving towards harder workouts, then I'd like to from the angle of "I want a new challenge" or "I think this will be fun" rather than "this will give me a nicer body."

No. 1017833

Find a well-paying job (just graduated), pay off debts, get into a good cs masters program, get more plastic surgery (superficial but oh well), focus on bettering my mental health, lose weight, travel to visit family aboard and move out from my parents place



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