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No. 2266222
shout it out
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>>>/ot/2251560 No. 2266235
>>2266233Happy birthday
nonnie. I wish away your worry woes.
No. 2266282
>>2266254i don't know who that is but that's not me, google says it's some kind of k-pop group.
>>2266235>>2266248>>2266267thank you nonnas
No. 2266291
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I’m so fucking tired of how much my almost 30 year old autistic older brother who doesn’t even live with us is fucking coddled by my mother. So fucking tired. I have to give extra money because he’s like 400lbs and eats the entire house even though he’s had a job for YEARS, owns a house that was given to
him by his grandmother and has so much fucking money that he can afford to buy every new video game and console with 0 worries. Why can’t he fucking chip in? Why do we have to pay for gas because he can’t drive to visit us and my mom does. Why do we have to pay extra for so much extra food? Why do we have to plan everything around him? Fucking why? I’m also autistic and I’ve never had this level of coddling. It’s not fucking fair.
Also, he’s so fucking THANKLESS. My mother bends her back and he always yells and talks to her with such attitude when she doesn’t understand something or is genuinely trying to help. I’m gonna lose it and if I talk to my mom about this I’m going to get guilted.
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>>2263872can't even make a light hearted trailer park boys joke on lolcow. feels bad.
i just didn't wanna say muh suicide attempt cause it sounds so dramatic. come on you mean bitches it sucks to be called your bf's ex's name 3 times in a row let me vent…
No. 2266339
>>2266334finding a good therapist itself can be hard. i would say try it if you have the money but don't expect things to instantly work out.
>Theres nothing wrong with my life currently. My past was shit but its the past i should be over it by now.it's when getting out of tough situations we often struggle with mental suffering, because our brains can now process what we went through and isn't in a panic state. it can take time to process the past and maybe someone can help you.
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>ask mom for ideas for a Christmas present for my grandma
>she says "how about a domino set?"
>decide to buy a nice and fancy one, show my mom to get her opinion
>she says it's nice
>next day she buys a $2 set and mocks me about how much money I'm spending when they can be so cheap
I'm not giving my grandma a $2 present what the fuck is this really something to mock me for? Does she want me to not buy it? I won't buy it if she thinks it's dumb.
No. 2266407
>>2266381I'm sorry anon but
>>his whole dick was on display like a faggotis making me laugh so much, i don't even understand was he in leggings or something kek
No. 2266424
>>2266418I have a perchant for agreeing to date men because they won't leave me alone and it makes my mom happy that I look Normal by dating men and not like some lesbian. Gets me into stupid situations all the fucking time. At least anons can laugh
>>2266420I sat in the kitchen to mald and he's over here now staring at me not saying anything like a weird flex. I will throw out the leggings later probably.
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>>2266411KEKKKK this almost made me fall over like an autist. You can’t make this shit up, nigelfags never disappoint.
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I'm off my medication for a couple months
I Just cried my eyes out because I don't have milk and my sister got goat milk. Then I started laughing manically because I'm literally crying over milk. Help
No. 2266504
>>2266502Steal milk I don't even want? Sounds crazy
I'm doing it right now.
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i feel like a freak because im literally not interested in having sex at all but it feels like its the only thing SO many people care about. i feel content just being an autistic virgin forever who masturbates to her fictional husbands sometimes. (picrel i think theyre sexy)
No. 2266662
>>2266591I can't afford rehab but I keep thinking about going to one for my various addictions including
self harm the only problem is it's hard to tell around here what mental inpatient hospitals are shit and I'm going to assume it's most of them, and who wants to get fired from her job just for needing help and having a side of her life where she breaks down in private but when someone's covertly hiding scars under her arms all the damn time and dosing herself in various other addictions to deter the pain… albeit not traditional or consistent addictions… maybe she needs it
No. 2266670
>>2266596NO LOL but i used to lurk her tumblr blog back when she was active, kinda like a trainwreck you cant turn away from
>>2266622mwah
No. 2266686
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i'm so mad at this ugly autistic scrote irl right now it's been making my cortisol spike all day. i genuinely want to break something i want him to die. i can't calm down it's genuinely ruining my day.
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Reminder that it was a kike who popularized and normalized violent pornography and these were his views on women. This faggots bloodline should’ve been eradicated in the Holocaust long ago. Ban me for racebaiting, this is fucking repugnant.(global rule #7)
No. 2266722
>>2266686I'm mad at you using nazi cock ball gargling woman's art as reaction pic but here we are. God imagine sucking a scrote's cock who is an actual nazi and trying to frame yourself as the
victim. You know she went bleblebleble in those balls like a scrote in boobs and she wants us to have sympathy? Aww the scrote you put all your eggs into that you knew was a pos was SUDDENLY a pos to you? Wow so shocking wow I have no sympathy sorry
(infighting ) No. 2266738
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>>2266731It's not moralfagging it's hatred.
No. 2266783
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My work colleagues talking about their sex life and calling me a prude for not joining in is annoying the shit out of me.
>Uh you're so boring anon, I guess you must have a shitty sex life. I'm young and healthy and I love to have sex with my boyfriend, and I'm proud of it !
Good for you dumbass I still don't wanna hear about your ugly balding scrote getting his dick sucked in the bowling alley's restroom or you getting fucked in a public park on the ping pong table… I DON'T CARE I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT MY SEX LIFE WITH YOU I DON'T WANNA KNOW ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE EITHER YOUR SCROTE IS UGLY, and right near an ugly middle aged scrote too, mind you this woman is 24 yrs old, why the hell is she sharing her intimate life with her overweight 40 yrs old moid work colleague ??? Almost forgot but while she talked about her sex life he keept saying little things like "oh you're a naughty one, aren't you ?" "hmmm sexy" "woaw my wife would never…"
No. 2266929
>>2266886I don't know how these things work but if you report it, it's noted only in the company or can a future employer get to the information somehow? Because if they could he could have more difficult time finding his next job, or if he already has one they would know he's
sus. That's like a positive outcome i think, for you and for other people who would work with him. If it's only information within the company since he's leaving i wouldn't bother.
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i live with my boyfriend and a mutual friend right now in a sharehouse situation, mutual friend/retard housemate is doing my fucking head in. i genuinely hate him. i'm only in this situation right now because of uni, interning and the housing and rental crisis making moving anywhere else almost impossible.
retard housemate's thought processes throughout the day are basically just:
>ME DON'T LIKE DOING CHORES, IF I DO THE LAWN REALLY FAST I CAN GO PLAY VIDEO GAME!!!
broke the fucking lawnmower, the third one he's broken, we're on our second weedwacker too because of him.
>IF I TURN TAP ON REAL HARD AND WASH DISH FAST, ME CAN GO PLAY VIDEO GAME!!!
mfw he's chipped plates, put smashed glasses back into the draws, fucked up a cast iron utensil, and 9/10 times will get water all over the floor of the kitchen.
>UH OHHH, ME RAN OUT OF MUH 13 IN ONE!!!
proceeds to use my unopened bottle of 40 dollar shampoo, i now have to hide it in my room.
>GUYS, DO WE NEED ANYTHING FROM THE SUPERMARKET??
asks this when we have a constantly updated shopping list on the fridge.
>OOOH, IT'S A HOT SUNNY DAY? I NEED TO USE THE DRYER NOW!!! NOT THE CLOTHESLINE!!!
i then gaslight him into paying more of the electric bill.
>I NEED TO WASH 3 SOCKS IN ONE LOAD, SO I'M JUST GONNA DO 3 SEPARATE LOADS OF WASHING TODAY INSTEAD OF ONE FULL LOAD!!
everyone tells me the same thing - "just tell him not to do xyz!!" as if i'm not doing that already! he's a retarded fucking weed smoker, the second you tell him something, he'll go smoke a cone and forget about it. he's also a frantic liar and will deny, deny, deny if you catch him out. I wanted to kick him out but my boyfriend won't let me because they're friends.
I have a lockbox in the fridge where my expensive stuff goes because he can't keep his grubby, shitty hands off of it.
Living with men means you can't have any nice shit, he's fucked up my pans, he breaks gardening equipment because he just yanks the electric mower around like a fuckwit so hard that he breaks the handles that turn it on, he clearly doesn't like using my ceramic egg tray and would rather just lazily shove a carton of eggs into the fridge. He uses so much fucking toilet paper you'd think he was eating that shit.
the second i'm able to finish uni next year and get a proper job with a good income, i'm moving out and getting a two-bedroom place with my boyfriend and leaving this lazy fuckhead to fend for himself. i am so sick of how stupid men are, he genuinely belongs in disability housing where he's living with a tard wrangler despite the fact that he isn't profoundly disabled.
I hate men and i hate them even more when they smoke weed.
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if we don't get the dumbass shit thread back i'm going to START LOSING IT. I FUCKING SWEAR
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>>2266722ayrt here. for someone who claims to hate men you sure do hate women who are their
victims. i think you need this rn.
No. 2266961
>>2266943I miss her too,
nonnie.
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Why is management so incompetent when it comes to training? I’ve been at my job for 2 years now and they started to shift my duties to another area about 3 months ago and in that time I’ve gotten a half hour meeting where they essentially told me what buttons to push and click then sent a bunch of PDFs that are so vague and sometimes outdated I have to wonder how anyone gets shit done here. Why is the responsibility on me to train myself? I can only reach out to my team so many times a day before it gets annoying and even then I get a “oh idk how to do that go ask this person” rinse and repeat. It’s not like it’s inconsequential work either as you can only mess up so many times before some overpaid government goon steps in and tells you the account is fucked. My boss makes a big fuss and consistently emails us everyday about our late bills and accounts but maybe we would work more efficiently if we knew what the fuck was going on. Like if our numbers have been fucked for years maybe it’s time to take a step back and look at reorganizing operations but I guess that would hurt her ego too much to know that she’s just as retarded as the rest of us. At this point I’m just clocking in, trying my best, fucking with my productivity reports then clocking out.
No. 2267113
>>2267105Ok. Sorry for the misunderstanding. You sound like you need sleep. Rest well
nonnie.
No. 2267189
>>2267183Checks out. I had a lot of issues following through with uni and work when I was 18, and instead of tackling the issues I've had with my
abusive family and self-esteem, my therapist was more of a go-getter and she wanted me to just "work harder." Looking back on it now, I realized I was really struggling emotionally and needed help and understanding, not to shove my emotions down and work harder.
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My desktop is running SO FUCKING SLOW REEEE
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I sent my friend this image and he said "please don't send me pictures like this" lmfao
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Nonnas, my company is closing in a few months and I hate it so much ffs. I've been working there for over ten years and I swear I will never get such chill and comfy job ever again. Yeah, the payment was all right but it had so many aspects that I loved about it and so many colleagues that became friends and family and soon I won't see them on a daily basis. This shit breaks my heart more than I want to admin. I just got a flat not far away from work, so the location, working times etc were perfect but it will end soon. It makes me sad to go to work now, knowing it won't be around anymore. I also can't plan shit for next year because I have no idea how things will go so this annoys me as well. I thought I will never have to search for a job again because the place has been around since the 1920s. Annoying shit, I hate this timeline.
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i don't want to be popular but seeing retarded people be popular and well-liked annoys me
No. 2267715
I'm so tired of being flat broke and I know it's my fault. my card declined for the first time ever while buying cat food and I had to transfer my last amount from savings over.
It's just embarrassing. I had thousands of dollars in savings but my piece of shit brother in law and his wife dumped their cats on us under the guise of "petsitting" and these cats completely drained my savings the first year I had them. I didn't qualify for reduced cost spay so I had to pay $500 for the male who ended up getting the female pregnant anyways, but something went wrong and she needed surgery before she went septic. That was $1000 and that's when they ghosted us.
The cats developed various random illnesses and I spent another 1k+ over the course of the year for vet bills. The girl has anxiety, probably from her previous dogshit owners letting the male be a sexpest and torment her for an entire year while their brat daughter kept grabbing at her, so she's on special prebiotics that cost about 50/mo. Their food is expensive, it's sort of a trade off to me. I feed them high quality food for less vet visits, I spent probably 60 bucks every 2 weeks on wet food for then.
I love the cats to death and they're so much happier and healthier with us, but I hate those in laws for dumping them on us. I refused to put them down, I can't do it. Couldn't let them die or rehome them because all our shelters are maxed out to the point where we ship animals to other counties or states to make room. Everyone here loves dogs so you know, it would just be extremely difficult for cats that are already traumatized.
I can't keep up with the grocery bills and the rent. I can't work more because my job implemented a new system that cut everyone's hours. I would get 35/wk now I get 21/wk. I help other departments and locations to atleast bring it up to 28. It's the holidays now so I'm finally getting atleast 32/week. I also go to school full time.
I received financial aid but that was pissed away to help my husband pay for his semester because FAFSA claimed his info was wrong, and the school claimed it was FAFSA's fault, etc etc. basically bullshit to try and fuck us over but it finally went through. Then his mom's car battery died and she called me crying because no one else was picking up and she was stranded (she is an angel and always helps us. my husband didn't have the money because he already pays a majority of the bills). So I sent her a good chunk of that aid.
It's my fault because I accrued a decent amount of credit card debt which I now dropped to $400 out of a $2500 limit. I put 400 in it this month which is also why I'm broke as shit.
I get paid tomorrow so I will be OK, it just sucks. It's my fault most definitely, but I still wanted to vent. Things will be okay, I know they will be.
No. 2267717
>>2267715That sucks anon, I would have put the septic cat down. I also can't believe you were charged 500 for a neuter, I believe you were overcharged and ripped off.
You need to stop paying other people's bills and fixing their problems. Learn to say no. If you had the money to help it would be different, you're ruining your own life taking care of your husband's family.
No. 2267773
>>2267717Thank you
nonnie you're completely right. My husband has also been putting his foot down and telling his family to basically fuck off bc 99% of the time they ask him, his mom rarely asks me as well which is why I was willing. The entire family bullied the loser brother in law for fucking me over if that helps. That was quickly overshadowed by his other antics bc hes a failure in general tho.
$500 is the standard here unfortunately. I had to call a bunch of places recently for my friend who has never owned a cat before so I said I'd get quotes from places for her. Nothing was under $500. Luckily her zipcode qualified for reduced spay & neuter so she didn't have to pay as much as I did.
A lot of vets in my city are ripping people off you are def right. I think it's been a thing since covid. What is specifically happening is corporations have been investing in pet care because of the pandemic pets situation and increased popularity in "pet parent" shit. They buy up a bunch of small vet places then raise the prices.
The enthusia was not an option to me I am autistically obsessed with cats and didnt have the heart. The year before that i had to put down my childhood cat and i couldnt go through that again.
>>2267726I did!! The wife was even texting me some shit like "OK between all of us that's only like 250 so not bad" and I was like "fym all of us, you're gonna pay me back no?" and that's when she started acting weird. They didn't have the money to pay me back asap so I said they could do a little bit every month like 50-100 bucks atleast.
Thank you tho I needed to hear this.
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I got my comfort album CD stuck in my car's CD player and I've tried everything and it won't come out
No. 2267833
>>2267822Oh, nona… you'll never be the waste of space most moids are. You shouldn't feel bad for hanging out while you're here, idk who told you that kek.
>>2267826Have you tried banging your fist on top of the dash, right above where the CD player is? Sometimes the plastics kind of overlap each other and they need to be physically unstuck.
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god, i probably don't deserve to even vent because i really brought this on myself.
>in poor health in general, getting fit had 0 impact, and deathly tired constantly, and also develop scary, painful and often TMI digestive issues in the past month or so
>find out maybe i ate a contaminated, recalled product and just telling myself that maybe my stomach just got temporarily fucked up…at least it's been okish for the past two days?
>finally have an appointment and end up too tired, panicked, and torn up on what to say to doc
>retardedly turn down a referral to a specialist, a nagging voice in my head kept saying the problem was nothing and it's over with
holy shit. if there is something wrong (again I don't believe there is but still) I deserve it tbh.
also found out that I lost, like…8 pounds in the past month in spite of eating my usual quantity of food - a ton - and not being overweight. i thought i did because i look much skinnier, but it is a bit scary…
No. 2267984
Today I got off work, and some days my boss will have me take the deposit to the bank's night drop off box. I do this a lot, and so I'm quite used to this.
Well today, I parked on the street and got ready to walk up to the front of the bank, when I hear some loud glass breaking, and basically other stuff being broken and thrown. It was across the street, and I glance that way, and it was four teenage boys breaking shit in they alleyway across from the bank. I was already weirded out, but then one of them shouted, 'Hey lady', and I was the only person around, and he started to cross the street towards me and all his friends came with.
Now luckily, the bank was still open (just barely at five) and so I ran in there and stood in there until I saw that the workers were getting ready to leave. I put my stuff in the night deposit box and left when a group of the bank people were walking to the parking lot, I walked kind of close to them so I could get back to my car.
When I was getting in my car, however, I saw the same group of boys surrounding a minivan in the bank parking lot shouting at whoever was inside.
WTF was that?? I can't even make sense of it. Even before the boy started making his way toward me, I wanted to get out my pepper spray. I might have had to, had I not been able to get inside the bank. The boys weren't super old- maybe only fourteen-ish, but why the hell did they call out to me and start running towards me? After they were breaking some shit… It gave me a horrid feeling. I feel like I just nearly missed something bad happen to me.
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>forced to lend my mother's husband my bike since I didn’t use it anymore after finishing school and having to commute hours to uni
>fast forward several years, he uses it a handful of times
>feel like biking for fun again, go pick up bike
>the seat is literally ripped open from his fat ass, handles are disgustingly grimy/sticky and have browm dried sweat between its pattern, several scuffs and two dents on the metal, the gear shift isn't working properly, bike is cracking loudly when using it
>ask him about it
>he says it wasn't him
I hate moids so much it's unreal. You're lucky I still have responsibilitirs, otherwise I'd just slit your throat you disgusting fat pig. This bike was my youth, it was dear to me even when I didn't use it anymore. It's not yours.
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tranny rapist at it again, trying to subtle DM me by using this app options for encrypting chats. leave me alone, your pickme gf has done everything to look like the alt girls you like, yet you are still pestering me? radio silence does really triggers bpd-kuns this much kek
No. 2268541
>>2267863ayrt
Sorry nonna that It happened to you too. Losing a Job sucks big time, but it sucks even more when you worked there for such a long with people that you really liked. I don't know what to do either when everything will be over. Yeah, there are Jobs out there but it's not this job anymore.I thought I will do this forever and never had a plan after this. Feel hugged for being in the same shit Situation like me.
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Why is there a tranny in the Harry Potter game?????
No. 2268584
>>2268497Listen to
>>2268564Instead of being grateful for all that you've done for him, he takes it out on you and loses respect for you. He is not a good person. You'll find that most moids act like this. You find out a man's true personality during times when he's dependent on you, or when you need to be dependent on him. Almost 99% of the time men will use these situations to emotionally abuse their girlfriends/wives (or physically, in the worst case scenario). Send him back home.
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Just found out this woman from that weird SJW/Anti SJW hysteria like 8 years ago is doing porn now. She's so autistic it truly seems exploitative, and she used to say she was asexual. I'm really starting to think retards shouldn't be allowed to use the internet, for their own sake.
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>>2266733Nonna, unfortunately you dying won’t save any kid that has cancer or any other terminal illness, it doesn’t work like that.
I know it sounds corny, but time actually heals stuff and I can confirm this, I wanted to end it all before 15 (I’m 25 now) and said a good chunk of the words you wrote in this post, even thought of donating my organs to people in need. And I know for sure you’re not wasting resources, there are scrotes who are worse than you, living a cushy ass life in prison, all that on taxpayer money, I think they are a bigger waste of resources and oxygen, you’re good.
I see what you mean with factors that set you up for a shitty start in life, but it ain’t your fault, and you aren’t retarded, you sound very compassionate. If you were genuinely retarded you couldn’t put these words together, think about it.
What worked for me was getting angry and starting to live out of spite for a couple of years until I started to like life. Also, think about the cow threads and shitposting from this website you’d miss if you were to kys.
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Maybe I have gotten too old for internet drama, but I don't enjoy coming to lc as much nowadays. I find most /snow/ threads kinda boring and milkless. Whenever I come around I just shitpost on /ot/ and contribute nothing of value.
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I don't use this word lightly but if another bitch leaves the rest stop bathroom without washing her hands I am going to throw hands. I stopped in there for less than five minutes and two different ladies didn't wash. Imagine the state of their nails. Or don't.
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>>2268593If it makes you nonnies feel better she hasn't really been active online in months and updated her of bio to this. Hopefully she's woken up and won't continue in the future.
I checked her thread on the moidfarms sometimes and it seemed like she was slowly feeling out femininity again so hopefully she drops all the enby shit and gets therapy. No. 2268754
>>2268744Yes but I’m not going to bother telling you about it because I’ll immediately get dogpiled by rabid
femcels for talking about muh nigel. Kek
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even my incel brother pulls and i don't, this discovery has been extremely upsetting to me, as it confirms how undesirable i am, and how most women have no standards.
i legit thought he had made that girl up, like when you're in middle school and some guy says ''yeah, i have a girlfriend but she doesn't go here teheee''. she's not even from here, she TRAVELLED to see him. insane shit. he is ugly, doesn't shower, face full of blackheads and refuses to remove them because muh face hurts, he has never had any type of job and relies on my parents to give him some shekels, he never cleans his room and it smells like fucking balls and smelly armpits in there. he has nothing to offer and she's an engineer from the best university in our country and won a national chess championship too, just fucking lol. why would a woman like that pay attention to him? maybe he fakes a good personality in front of her? he has no redeeming qualities whatsoever, i just can't wrap my mind around it.
i wil never, ever in my life again take serious an alleged incel and his grievances, because this has shown me that if my disgraceful brother can get a non-loser woman, any moid can do it.
No. 2268781
>>22687551.) I don't have a boyfriend.
2.) Your fingers stink.
No. 2268812
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>>2268804KEKK these are the nonnas who sperg about
femcels. Enjoy your weaponized incompetence Nigel
(infight bait) No. 2268813
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I was dumped over discord at the start of the year, I thought I’d never get over him and I was really depressed and it’s kind of nuts how much my life has changed since then
I got a job, I made tons of friends, I went out more, I flirted with guys just for fun and I’m learning to drive
So to frank, thanks faggot, you did me a favor
No. 2268818
>>2268812not me, i'm not retarded enough to blame the stinky jealous
femcels!! about the stupid decisions i take, and i'd never defend my boyfriend of not being like the other moids™, that's being way too delusional and retarded for the sake of being attached to a glorified neanderthal. i just hate being born a natural man hater and not being able to pretend they are god's given gift to earth
No. 2268821
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>>2268809Oh he's going to. And he's going to ACTUALLY clean what I tell him to this time instead of half-assing it like last time. It's days like this where I question if Nigels stay Nigels or if they're even real….
>>2268812Not me girl, I hate men and fully support women leaving their shitty boyfriends. It's just harder for me to enact it in my own life especially when I thought I had someone good. I know I shouldn't complain but hey this is the vent thread.
No. 2268829
>>2268812imagine using the word
femcel unironically on lolcow
No. 2268830
>>2268824I wasn’t talking to
you specifically, but for real just fucking break up if you’re not happy to be in the relationship. You’re clearly not compatible, even if he does all the “right” things. I can’t fathom staying with someone I can’t stand.
No. 2268834
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there’s a pissed off shirtless woman walking in circles around the dunkin donuts I’m in and I need to leave but I don’t want to run into her and her bare breasts in the parking lot
No. 2268843
>>2268812Nah the anons who call us evil bitter lesbian
femcels are the ones who have a perfect relationship with their nigels, they'd never complain about them.
No. 2268845
>>2268843Anyone who says the word
femcel is fucking cringe
No. 2268859
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My mom has a history of overfeeding cats to the point where they are obese. Like, super morbidly obese. My parents have a cat right now who is morbidly obese and won't listen to me when I tell them he is way too fat. My mom gets offended and sensitive because she really loves the cat. She also started feeding the him three treats a night as a ""bedtime ritual"" and it makes me so mad. JFK my parents are also both fat themselves and terrible at dieting or determining portion control themselves. I really don't want to let my mom have a cat when she's older.
No. 2268908
>>2268888Just add more shit to your post before re posting
Real life hack hours
No. 2268940
>>2268909stop over analyzing your body and just live. like the
nonny above me says, at least you have shoulders that work to move your arms around, that is their function, they don't need a certain appearance, accept yourself
No. 2268969
>>2268876I second this honestly. But even bothering to find a scrote to fuck is still annoying though.
I wanted to do that and put on an app but they somehow lack even any seductiveness kek. I think that I also put an app that isn’t very much used where I live , few were from my place and most were far (I’m an eurofag)
No. 2269004
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I fucking hate people who pretend to be stupid and feign incompetence. And now I have coworker who acts this way every day at work. "Hurr what do you mean you want me to sweep the floor, I don't understand durr"
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Why the fuck do I have to read and annotate this for an English class?
No. 2269056
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>>2269048Respectfully asking as a whitey, what the FUCK does "raced-white" mean?
No. 2269058
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>>2269048You should just edit it like picrel and/or talk about how all this world salad is unnecessary. I would hate to be a student in these times, I left college right as stating your pronouns in an academic setting began. I feel for you
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>>2269056>>2269058Nonnies I'm crying I looked up the guy who wrote this piece and this is his banner. I cannot take this seriously at all. This is an upper level course that has nothing to do with gender studies.
No. 2269069
>>2269064>literally just a man in a wigwhew
i go to community college and its not too bad, but one time my algebra teacher said "latinx" and i was just sitting there shocked.
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i just feel incredibly sad about my art. i dont think ill ever get popular or recognized. and you could say "oh that doesnt matter" and yeah it doesnt really, i draw for myself foremost, but it would be nice to have my talent recognized. i see accounts with 10s of thousands of followers who literally just post cartoony 10 minute doodles and i dont get it. is that what people want?
No. 2269142
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How nice of America to give back the money it stole from those countries back to them. How could we ever survive without the generosity of America who destroyed my country with its retarded proxy wars
No. 2269150
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>goes online
>clicks lolcow.farm link
>tries to start convo
>no replies
>other replies talking right over my posts
>sad and a little bit disheartened
>realizes the entire website has now been taken over by zoomers and young people
am I getting too old for the internet? dead internet theory is getting too real. when i decide to give to others everybody lined up to use me, dry me, throw me away but when i want to talk to somebody no one replies or I come across a bot-like “person” telling me i’m retarded for saying “hi” wrong or something. i’m so exhausted and lonely, it’s like every time i try to shine it’s always dimmed. whenever I want some kind of hope or peace it’s always ripped away from me, i’m in a decent mood and then i’m ignored and then i’m not longer in that mood. pleasure and happiness is fleeting and borderline nonexistent while suffering is just cold hard reality always waiting for you when the emotions are all gone
No. 2269326
>>2269150I'll talk to you
nonny, whats on your mind?
No. 2269383
I am only now realising how messed up my mother was when I was a child and I have no idea how to have a relationship with her. She cheated on my father when I was 8 and he was living in a different country (he was physically abusive to her before I was born so I can see why she thought he deserved it but I only found out about this when I was a lot older). Because she had few friends at the time, she started treating me like her best friend and showing me texts with her "boyfriend" when I was 9. Completely broke my view of our family and my parents' relationship. I began to treat her more like my child, making sure she ate properly (lifelong ED) and didn't lie in bed all day (depression) etc. Then my parents got divorced and she got super mad at him when she found out he had been cheating on her too. She made me take her side and help her get divorced. Ruined my relationship with my father (which was already bad anyways so not a huge loss at the time). After the divorce, I start doing therapy which is often focused on disentangling me from my mother (can't change her, shouldn't try etc). I realise how difficult she is as a person (but I compensated for a bad father with a surface level better mother) and suspect she has NPD or narcissistic traits from being so traumatised by my father. She refuses to do anything about her mental health and so we grow further apart because I can't deal with her trying to manipulate me now that I am aware of what she's doing. 5 years later, I start talking to my father again and talk to my mother infrequently. I don't view either of them as parents, more like cousins or something. My mother clearly notices that I have grown distant and is using my father to try to manipulate me into seeing her/speaking to her more. Problem is on top of all of this, she never actually wants to talk about anything but herself and her interests and never initiates contact anyways. I just don't care about her anymore - she doesn't take an interest in my life at all, doesn't ask me any questions ever, and expects me to want a closer relationship. I find her draining, I feel like she's always on edge around me and definitely talking about me behind her back to her (new) boyfriend. I have no idea where to go from here because less of her in my life is better for me (as long as she refuses to see someone for her mental health). On the other hand, I appreciate that she will die one day and I don't really want our relationship to be like this forever. I kind of hope she lives to old age so that I can at least have a relationship with her when she realises her own mortality and chills out a bit. But I don't know if that will happen either.
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Damn is anyone else just having a really shitty week?
No. 2269475
The Thanksgiving posts are once again making me wish I had a big, jovial family to visit for the holidays instead of returning home as an only child in a cold, stilted household with parents who hate each other. I want big group holiday shenanigans with cringey cousins and wine aunts and weirdo siblings. Anything other than opening the door to my childhood home to find my BPD mom screaming and crying while trying to clean and decorate the house to look like an Architectural Digest magazine photo (that literally just 4 people will see - myself, my husband, and my mom and dad). And then the shrieking and cursing that "NOBODY EVER HELPS!!!", and then the 4 of us sitting at the dinner table in awkward silence other than our forks clinking against our plates while we collectively try to ignore my mom silently seething and and starting to cry because someone hurt her feelings by making the wrong face or something.
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>>2269401Yeah I am and it sucks. I can't wait to get out of this place and just be on my own away from all the bullshit. Even though it feels like I'm repeating all the same old mistakes, I know in the end this is just part of my journey towards a higher level of being. I hope your week gets better soon nona.
No. 2269490
>>2269177this is so insensitive kek
>>i feel so sad for all you losers who were unlucky in the lottery, but at least I'm happy with my perfect easy nigel!!!My nigel was also easy and close and told me we were soulmates, he still cheated
No. 2269492
To the anon who just complained about her BPD mother, this isn't about you, I don't doubt that she's awful, it's just an unfortunate coincidence that I was already coming here to complain about this.
Mother hate is something that bothers me in society. You don't see fathers being criticized half as much for being deadbeats and basically a second child that the mother has to raise. Even the most present fathers don't do half of the process of raising a child, but the bar for men is basically in hell in every aspect, so they get passes on every situation. The bar for women however is the opposite, it's unclearable. The most perfect mother will always be hated because she's the one who scolded you, corrected your behavior, and inevitable made mistakes when raising you. Fathers are only there for the good times: playing, eating at restaurants, going to parks. I wish people would be more discerning about the role of a mother and the cruelty of judging them in ways they would never judge a father simply because he's a man and men don't have to do anything to be admired and loved but women have to earn it every step of the way and will never be forgiven for their mistakes.
No. 2269501
>>2269318>>2269479I can relate to ayrt. Sometimes you're in a funk and anything just brings you down even more. I've had days where I just wanted to interact with people online, no one responded, and I felt ignored and unseen.
>>2269150I'll chat with you too nona.
No. 2269537
>>2269401YES
it feels like purgatory
No. 2269549
I have this codependent toxic but fond relationship with my ex bf. We broke up over a year ago. Shortly after the breakup, he sexually assaulted me. I went down an awful depression spiral costing me thousands in student loan debt due to repeating the year got really suicidal and self harming; in turn he ended up confessing to his friends and he fell out with all of them, had to move out of shared student apartment, got depressed etc. We had tumultuous daily contact where one day I'm telling him how much I hate him and how terrible he is for what he did and the next I'm telling him how I know he's a good person at heart, how much I appreciate him being there for me. He kind of cows, very apologetic and self hating about how he treated me. I'm lonely and addicted to the drama, I guess.
>Was I abusing him? He says his therapists thinks I was being very manipulative during this time period.
FF current day, we talk on and off. He's objectively a loser now, without going into too much detail. Lately he's less in love with me (up until the past few months he believed himself to still have feelings for me) and into this girl he is dating. I think he is well skilled at using muh wounded male mental health to get other bippie women to see him regularly and get their attention and acceptance to sustain him where his social life is otherwise severely lacking, but hey, maybe I'm just bitter my rapist-kun doesn't like me anymore. I wonder why? And then he offered her what I offered him, stay exclusive until one of us graduates and leaves first, for company and understanding otherwise not found elsewhere. This offended me because the offer only works because I know what he did - he is frightened of telling her and hasn't yet - and accept him wholly regardless, who better to say this than the victim of all people??? He told me there are a couple dates who found out what happened through female mutual social circles at college and ghosted him. I feel bad for kind of ruining his life and yet also want him to myself, at least he's an international student so he can return to a normal life in his home country, I just want him while he is here. Why do I do this? Am I the abuser be honest anons.
No. 2269577
>>2269549>I wonder why?Defense mechanism I guess. Feeling like he assaulted you because he just loves you so much is less painful than admitting that the assault is the main aspect of this issue, not his feelings for you.
>I feel bad for kind of ruining his lifeYou didn't. It hurts but you have to accept that you're a
victim. It's sucks to feel like you have no agency, but in that moment you truly didn't.
>yet also want him to myselfFocus on the rational side, look at the facts: He hurt you, he assaulted you, he was
toxic towards you after that. Your emotional side is trying to justify and spin a narrative in your mind, in order to override this you need to retrain it by focusing on your rational side.
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I have a job and I work like a dog, but unless I find a better paying job I would really struggle to move out of my parents house. I search for a new job every other day, and I apply pretty indiscriminately but I still suffer for my sins of being alive. Haha…
No. 2269585
>>2269569 >>2269580
Obviously I can't give you the full play by play of everything but there is nothing I'm leaving out that I can logically reasonably say makes this my fault. I just feel that way. Oh but he did plant this seed, now that I think of it. He told me his
female therapist thinks its suspicious or odd that no authority, not the police or his university council, took my allegations seriously. As if that is my fault. But he said it so delicately, so ingenious (at least to my retard brain) he said, "probably has more to do with them than you though, she thinks" as if it has ANYTHING to do with me, but it got me thinking that some rational, objective, trained observer thinks I'm some liar. Talking about this is igniting my anger, thanks nona. I'm too ashamed to even tell my therapist about any of this.
>>2269575Ly nona, would love elaboration because I truly feel so strung out by everything that I can't think straight, I want to think myself out of this.
>>2269577Nona ily. You might be right.
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>>2269549>”women have the time to develop themselves and be in a relationship”>ok>reads this vent >picrel reaction Oh nonna… idk where to start with you but you’re just a goddamn mess. Hope you fix yourself up, nothing good comes when a scrote gets in the way of your education and success.
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>>2269605>fucckkkkkk I love sour candy Ily. What’s your favorite candy
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>>2269401I'm glad i'm not alone with this. I'm working hard to get myself back on my feet though. Today was relatively good after bringing myself back from a depressive episode.
No. 2269672
>>2269401This whole year has been a dumpster fire for me,just when I thought it couldn't get worse than 2023.
Please tell me I'm not the only one.
No. 2269678
>>2269490That sounds really traumatizing, Im sorry
nonny>>2269535Well actually our relationship is only so magical because he's the one who puts me on a pedestal KEK
No. 2269723
>>2269549you’ve been trauma bonded to a person using your attachment to him to manipulate you to believe he has already suffered enough internally and socially and romantically that you think he now deserves to move to a new country and live a new life after he literally raped you. he’s been manipulating you since he SA’d you.
>>2269585if he’s telling the truth, she’s terrible and a pickme for saying something so out of pocket. he might be manipulating you though. trying to make it out like he really did nothing wrong but is such a nice guy he believes you, even if authorities and his therapist don’t. he’s going to tell a really different version of these events someday.
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a man will really spend his resources to fly all the way to your country for a week after months of convincing you to give him a chance just to give you the most underwhelming 2-minute sex of your life without even looking at you once and then tell you hes still 'numb' from his bpd ex and so he cant give you the affection you deserve (my ex literally killed our animals and tried to kill me for 3 years and i still got past that somehow to let you in my house but ok) and then after ALL that while im crying cus wtaf he'll be like 'its like my body put up this wall to protect itself…but behind that wall…is big love' i told him to shut up literally how dare he insert himself with such persistence into my life during a heavy transitional period just to go 'numb' the Literal Minute he got his dick wet and then like push me off him to shower afterwards and then tell me he was hung up on his ex
literally the 2nd man ive ever slept with other than my rapist ex btw horrific streak so far & im genuinely considering just cloistering myself
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nonas i have the worst most throbbing toothache ever i dont think im gonna survive this
No. 2269802
>>2269672I’m in the boat with you nona
Someone pray for us
No. 2269878
>>2269841oh my god, any open wound in your mouth, especially any tooth with a hole in it, will introduce the alcohol
directly into your blood stream fuck you moron
No. 2270068
I feel ill all the time. My back and joints hurt, I feel dizzy, I have frequent stomach issues. I feel uncomfortable and unwell all the time. I'm very young (21) and thin (around 88lbs), although physically inactive. I don't know how to explain it but I have no energy to even try to exercise in order to help my pain/tiredness. I eat a lot, and I indulge on junk food often, so I'm not starving myself at all, even if I'm not the healthiest. I want to go to a doctor but they never take me seriously, even at the ER. I've gone to the ER thrice this year: once due to an hemorrhage (they didn't give a shit, I was put on birth control and told to get a blood transplant), another one because I was strangled by my abusive ex (just gave me some more pills and not much else), and the last time because I had bronchitis (they gave me an injection… and some pills.) Honestly, if they won't treat my near death experiences at the ER, why even bother making an appointment? Who would give a damn about some joint pain and headaches? I hate being a woman. They make me feel like a munchie even when I leave the waiting room covered in blood.