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A thread for venting about difficult stuff going on in your life.
Previous vent thread:
>>2326676Follow all the /ot/ board rules & don't reply to bait.
Don't come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
No. 2334765
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I don't like how indoor cats track feces everywhere and have smelly paws bc people are too lazy to clean or change the litter, or buy them odor-absorbing pellets. My solution belongs in the unpopular opinions thread tho
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I hate taking the bus, Lately I've been getting weirdos sitting next to me, mouth breathing is fucking disgusting. Off yourself fatty.
No. 2334796
>>2334792I feel this way about the adhd community too. There’s a hormonal component to adhd that isn’t well researched or understood. It affects medication dosage, presentation of symptoms, and coincides with major changes in a woman’s health including puberty, pregnancy, postnatal, and menopause. Any discussion about it gets muddied by TiMs wanting to talk about the effect of taking women’s hormones when they are men. I hate them so much I wish there was a
terf adhd and autism community.
No. 2334799
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The year has just started and things are so off. I hope it doesn’t continue you be like this because I don’t think I can take it.
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this is the ugliest piercing i've ever seen and i'm mad that i know about it
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>>2334811i like some facial piercings depending on the jewelry used, rn i only have a bunch of ear piercings, but i seriously hate the "dots on face" type. i agree they either look like zits or they're so small they seem pointless, like why even have something like picrel?
No. 2334816
>>2334799Nona, I feel the same way. I’m usually excited for the New Year, even though I’ve been dealing with poor mental health for years. I’ve always fantasized, prayed, made plans, and set goals. But this time, as the year came in, I felt a strange mix of apathy and an unsettling sense of dread. I’ll actually pray for us right now,
nonnie.
No. 2334817
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God, it's me again. Some minutes ago, my fucking internet crush jumpscared me on my youtube feed, and I realized that today I haven't think about him during all day, I guess fucking God really wants to punish me and laught at me.
That thing reminded me that like a month ago, I had a dream where I went to live to his homeland, and then I saw the backside of his body over a wall of leaves (kinda like those garden labyrithns?). I got super excited about that, the only thing that was weird was that he had pierced ears, and as far as I know, he doesn't have those, but since I like pierced ears and I was like "IT MUST BE HIM OMG I'M SURE IT'S HIM" I ignored that "strange" detail. At the end it was a random guy that my brain invented. It was so disheartening and I felt a loser, but I still remembering fondly the idea of the possiblity of actually meeting him lol.
I feel so dumb, I could easly go all out with my derrangement, making all my persona being so into him, but restrain myself cuz I would get sadder than I already am cuz IT'S A FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE, I even avoid watching his fucking content because of that, and yet I'm here, being autistic about a fucking thumbnail on youtube that didn't affected me till I realized who was in it. I'm a fucking embarrassment my God.
No. 2334840
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I don't know how much longer I can last pretending not to be a terf around my normie friends.
No. 2334885
>>2334799I feel you
nonny. But just because a year starts off as bad doesn't mean it'll continue to be bad!
No. 2334917
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>>2334906Do you wanna swap anon? I just enjoy weird fetishes that I find mentally stimulating but my vagina is fucking dead, I never even had an orgasm at 26. (ngl tho sometimes i feel better than most people due to not being coombrained)
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>>2334933Nonna, this will sound retarded, but drink some water and go to the bathroom, that usually makes the horniness stop.
I've noticed that whenever I can't go to the bathroom properly, like just couldn't poop, I have stomach issues or I haven't peed yet, I feel horny, and then I almost do stupid shit like talking with moids or watching porn. But once I pee/poop, I stop feeling horny and go to sleep.
Of course this happens at night and never during the day.
No. 2334974
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I'm tired. Caring about friends who got sucked into gender ideology shit and each ended up all kinds of crazy is exhausting to worry about. They were reading all those Tumblr posts and memes, at a young age back when we were all teens. And it messed with their heads tremendously. I tried checking up on them, but they haven't grown out of it and gotten worse. At this point, I'm just going to let them go. Whatever they do is whatever they do with themselves. Everything is offensive to them, I feel like I am walking on eggshells with them. They're fine with throwing away friends that care about them all the time, even the ones that share the same ideology, so you know that something ticked them off even with these new friends. It's too draining to keep caring. If they want to go and be a statistic, fine. If they want to make a surgery their life goal with absolutely nothing else and end up not pursuing literally anything then end up broke on the street, okay then. I can't agree more with the whole "so much trans joy" joke on /snow/. People are fucking miserable, even moreso on this shit.
No. 2334987
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I look like if a TIM was biologically female, if that makes sense. I have an obviously female body yet both my face and hair phenotype are associated with your average terminally online white tranny. I've become so insecure about this that I try to avoid accidentally making "the smirk" in photos or I intentionally make a silly face because I'm insecure about even trying to look good. Is there anything I can do about this or am I fucked.
No. 2335217
>>2335205Are you seriously getting body dysmorphic over a literal midget. Girl
>>2335212Tall girls have swag
No. 2335221
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I'm so nervous for an interview I have. Please wish me luck.
No. 2335244
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No matter what I do, I will never be enough. I need to work harder. Relying my self-worth on the opinion of one person who always wants me to be better is really horrible, and I'm not able to change that. I will always try, but any work I do is overshadowed by the work I haven't done yet. Should I just escape this city?
No. 2335270
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I want to have sex, I thought my libido would calm down but it has gotten worse as I've aged, I'm going to be 30 soon and this is the second night I've spent sex-roleplaying with bots.
No. 2335284
>>2335276I know but I've heard that we shrivel at 30 and that our ovaries are expired for so long, that I'm surprised by how I'm actually even more horny than during my 20's which would've been like, the "ideal" time to have kids according to my family.
It's kind of a pleasant but also not so pleasant surprise because I don't believe in having sex with moids.
No. 2335301
>>2335286Not really, actually. My brother's girlfriend keeps harping about how she has to have kids before she's 35 because she's afraid of having tard babies and complicated pregnancies.
I was actually feeling self-conscious about it at some point considering I have never had a boyfriend and such, but it's whatever at this point, I just continue having fun with my husbandos.
It really makes me wonder just how is it going to be like when I turn 40, which is the other age of doom that I've been told about, in which you also should absolutely and totally never reproduce.
No. 2335309
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Still remembering when I was 11 and was at my (at the time) bestie's mom's funeral after she lost a several years long battle with cancer, and his dad arrives with a fucking hawaiian shirt, resting his arms on the backrest of the pew without even giving his only son a single glance of support. My friend had asked to buy a plushie of his mom's favorite animal to leave on the casket, but his dad kept telling him no and only let him have a single sad rose. It was an open secret that he was abusive (and there had been some brief discussion of him possibly having smothered the MIL to death because of how suddenly she passed), but no adult would do anything. After the funeral he just dusted off his hands and went "well now that's over and done with", right outside the church. My mom was so pissed she immediately dragged me to the car and drove us home, I barely got a chance to say goodbye because she was so disgusted by him.
Whenever I would bring it up to people in my early adulthood, people my age would tell me that "well you don't know what he was going through and you can't judge someone for how they process grief", even when I told them what an awful motherfucker that dad was and how he had no qualms in slapping his son right in front of me whenever I was over, they would just tell me I was either overreacting or how - again - I couldn't know what they were going through. I still don't understand how people (especially moids, of course) were so obsessed with defending this horrible scrote they hadn't, and would never, even met.
It's been so many years since I last had a conversation with someone about it, but sometimes I remember it and get angry.
No. 2335438
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I think I took the most radioactive nuclear blackpill ever. Searching through rabbitholes and finding the tiniest breadcrumbs on how manipulative and corrupt this world is has crushed me up that I don’t feel anything anymore. You will always be on the bottom and treated like shit and there’s nothing you can realistically do about it until you die. Whenever there’s some semblance of peace in my shitty life it’s always up in smoke irl most feels like straight up punishment or mind control, you get attached to things and the it just fucking rips it away from you to cause more distress and helplessness. Everywhere I go nobody even attempts to talk to me and my entire life has always been full of loneliness and feeling extremely misunderstood it’s affecting my health and body where I can actually feel the chronic stress on my bones. This planet could only be thought up by a psychopath
No. 2335793
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period started and feeling terribly depressed and alone
No. 2335942
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I have issues with that I have so many thoughts going on simultaneously, like I'm thinking three entirely different thoughts that the same time and it sometimes makes it hard to focus and learning new things because my mind is scattered all the time, on top of occasional brain fog because I'm panicking over how I struggle with my memory. It's like my thoughts are going at extreme speed at all times, which also sometimes makes me talk fast and get annoyed with people that need a minute to respond in a conversation because they need a moment to think an through a reply. Sometimes I don't have much patience with the world around me because everything in my head is going at such high speed. I guess this perhaps is also what makes me highly effective once I get a grasp on something… I definitely don't meet the criteria for ADD or AD/HD so I don't think it's that, maybe I'm just a highspeed retard.
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>>2336004Had to crop out the anime slop but kekk
No. 2336029
>>2335877Do you realize how ridiculous you look from his point of view? I’d be delighted to have a dog to call too, that comes whenever I want no matter how shitty I treat them. I don’t even have to pay gas money.
An ex is an ex nonna.
No. 2336035
>>2336002Nonna let us encourage each other if you want. I’m on my seventh day. We can cheer each other in the fitness sub from time to time.
There’s no need to say the x number of calories or our weight, just that we managed to do well that day.
No. 2336109
>>2336060praying for you
nonnie, either you miraculously don't get evicted, or something new lines right up so you don't have to be on the streets
No. 2336183
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this year started off so shit. i feel lonely and friendless, and this is the first time in my life i've felt SO much like kmsing. i won't actually go through with it, but the deathwish is there. i hope that this gets magically fixed when classes start again. to top it off, looking at screens makes me feel even worse.
No. 2336193
I heard my moid aggressively yell at my sensitive dog and i just told him to please don't do that.. then he got aggressive at me and for once i stood up for us. I told him to take his car (well, mine, my second car) to please go home if he can't behave (the home i pay for and insisted he keep for moments just like this— as if I'd ever let a moid move in with me)— and he just kept going and said some truly unsavory things.. and I'm still like "maybe I overreacted", "maybe I was wrong, i should've calmed down" but i also told him yesterday that i wouldn't tolerate this insufferable, angry, bullshit anymore. He could've saved it by saying "sorry– something." But he immediately went off on me and just..
He's been so emotionally awful to me, that i see the patterns of my dad, and why my mom picks the same and acts the same in fights. I'm 34, and half of my hair is white by now. I'm not getting out of this stress. And i guess, maybe it's better being alone. Not for money bc I dont lack, but just bc I feel like I'm breaking down, not just mentally but physically. And i still feel guilty a la maybe i overreacted (which i sure did) but.. maybe it was also my body and psyche telling me: no more.
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Maybe I should just abandon my few remaining friends and just stay a loner for the rest of my life cause clearly that's my true destiny
No. 2336252
>>2336193i second
>>2336212, you did the right thing, that's not an overreaction. life is too fleeting for you to let a violent moid stress you and your dog so much. don't feel guilty, nona.
maybe you're even doing TOO much for him by letting him use your car and have you pay for the home but that's not my business No. 2336253
>>2336193Nonna you did not overreact . A scrote who is capable of behaving like you describe is one who will inevitably abuse you and then blame it on you.
You protected yourself, good job. Don’t be afraid of your own judgement and intuition.
No. 2336289
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Trying not to think about my awful, lying, cheating ex-boyfriend, who has somehow fallen upward into success his entire life. I have no idea how he does it, it's like he's been living life on Easy Mode with cheat codes since he was born. He never had a day job that lasted more than a week, and he's burned countless bridges with his old friends over the years, and now? He has an impressive job title on a massive network TV show. And now has other creative projects that are skyrocketing in popularity. HOW!?
Back when we broke up, I used to cry until I was sick and the only thing that consoled me was telling myself, "Don't worry, he'll get what's coming to him someday, he'll probably end up alone and friendless once everyone gets sick of his shit". But nope, now he goes on vacations with celebrities, he's in photos at big parties and has beautiful famous women all over him and commenting inside jokes to him on social media (yep, I'm a putz and stalked his social media. Dumb). He also bought a big, beautiful house, and gets to fuck around and party (I mean, "network") and do whatever he wants while also having fun at work and excelling at his dream career with the dream life that I always wanted. It's so fucking shitty that this is happening to the absolute worst person I've ever known, instead of any of the decent people I know. I know life isn't fair, but god damn.
Good things happen to bad people sometimes and that's life, I guess.
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>>2336273WITH SOMETHING HARD AND SANDPAPERY
No. 2336332
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I am going to start college soon and i feel so nervous. I only enrolled because my mom told me i had to pick between working and studying. I feel like a mega retard, i genuinely dont think i will make it past the very first year. I am a very self hating person with extremely low self esteem, i just know this year is going to be insanely rough. God, why cant i just be normal.
No. 2336351
>>2336332As a college student don’t hype yourself too much, it sucks. Sometimes I want to die too.
But I’m in med school so take it with a grain of salt.
No. 2336357
>>2336351I am in accounting. Good luck med
nonnie, medicine sounds scary as a retard.
No. 2336360
>>2336352>>2336164>People don’t care that they’ve convinced themselves they’re sex repulsed because they don’t want to bang every person they seeImo asexuality
is real in the sense that people can experience it and live perfectly fine with no sex drive (even though it's probably a symptom of a larger problem in most cases) but the community is so fucking annoying kek. It's like a monkey's paw situation where they traded their libidos for an insatiable lust for attention. They're only slightly less retarded than demisexuals (aka gigatards who can't even pretend to be different from the norm.)
No. 2336364
>>2336357Thank you nonna, good luck to you too! A proper advice would be to not put too many expectations and to be gentle with yourself, you’ll take a bit of time to get used to the new rhythm. And also make friends the first day, because the more days pass the harder it will get, people are more friendly when they know no one.
>medicine sounds hard as a retardI honestly feel like a moron and a fraud every time kek, but I’m in my fourth year so that must mean something
No. 2336381
self compassion is very hard to learn when you have spent 2/4 of your time living suicidal and hating yourself for simply existing, and i am doing my best to be consistent with it (because you need to be) while also juggling goals and obligations. hating myself has taken so much time and intelligence from me (though childhood ptsd is the real issue) and even doubting myself or intelligence isnt allowed in terms of self compassion. today i saw a girl who i feel is prettier, and my mind urged me to dye my hair again, to save up for more cute outfits and go harder with dieting. she was younger, too, and just minding her business. i had to wish her well in my mind, to appreciate her beauty and not envy it because it is so silly. i think i should use a diary again, but even that can be overwhelming when i need to focus on school, work, hobbies, obligation, self compassion, and building other habits. mindfulness/self compassion has made things so much better, but as mich as it helps the consistency is so hard. i an often so stressed and overwhelmed, so much so that my creativity is scared of me and hasnt returned. the body really does keep score, too, because i know i am not as intelligent or capable of doing 28282 things like i used to. but i will do my best anyway, and prioritize if i need to, because i want to trust that i am deserving of life, and i also want to trust that my academic career is temporary and there is no rush for creative projects.
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I'M SICK AND MY BIRTHDAY PARTY IS SUPPOSED TO BE THIS FRIDAY NONNAS I'M SO ANGRY WHY NOW!!!!
No. 2336413
>>2336402Thank you nonna. Sadly what your family has is a very common mindset to have. People don’t seem to realize that humane euthanasia is a gift. It shouldn’t be something frowned upon. You just need to put your personal discomfort aside and realize that keeping your pets alive for the sake of it isn’t benefitting your pet, it’s benefitting yourself.
In my families case it comes down to them not wanting to pay for vet bills and continuing to buy more pets despite not even being able to afford the pets they have. Plus the whole antivax, antidoctor mindsets happening everywhere, but especially in rural places like where I live.
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I had sex for the first time just before nye and ever since I've been extremely paranoid that I could be pregnant. Here's what's been going on
>bled a bit the day of/after sex/fingering, first bright red blood then a bit that looked like period spotting
>increased frequency of urination, but my whole area down there was sore and probably swollen from hard fingering and this has become less of a problem
>realized that I probably shouldn't have been taking my bc pill at the same time as another medication as it might have reduced it's effectiveness or made it useless. My doctor didn't discuss drug interactions with me at all and I didn't think of it until it was too late
>I stg my boobs have gotten slightly bigger but I could be crazy. They're not tender at all though.
>I started bc pills at the end of my last period nearly a month ago, I'm now on the placebo pills and no period yet. However I usually get my period in the middle of the month, so I haven't even adjusted to the hormonal changes yet.
We had sex with condoms and I am on bc of course. He didn't finish inside me anyway. The only thing I'm worried about is that he got some precum on my thigh/possibly around my clit area and he washed a bit of cum off his hands with soap before fingering me(deep).
Tell me I'm crazy, anons, please, because I'm so scared and ashamed and I feel fucking retarded for being reckless. I'm going to take a pregnancy test when two weeks have passed and I'm so fucking scared that I'm going to have to get an abortion.
No. 2336438
>>2336289Maybe his life isn't all that it seems and there's a bias to believe it's better than it is because he only presents the positives on social media (i.e. the big house, parties, celebrity connects). Everyone has problems. If he was narcissistic when you dated him it's not like his personality was instantly cured along with the upgrades.
Perhaps with every smiling photo he takes with one person, several people had an unsavory interaction and do not like him. Of course he would never post about that reality if he were even self-aware enough to notice. Disordered personalities sometimes have an effect of upward economic and social climb because they lack the empathy, or rather guilt, to feel badly stepping on whoever it took to rise to the top. It's one of the big issues I have with people assuming people who obtained nice things=morally good.
You know the truth about him at least, I would feel badly for the people who only know his act.
No. 2336453
>>2336193>take his car (well, mine, my second car) to please go home if he can't behave (the home i payand he's emotionally fucked up?
why are you dating him?
No. 2336518
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I don’t know what do do with my life. I’m stuck in a shitty country and I cannot think of a way to emigrate. I don’t have enough money to move to study and even if I did, it wouldn’t help me to move to the US with a 100% guarantee. Yes, it’s possible to change it to work visa if you find a job but I basically have to bet on a) getting a scholarship for the studying and the following b) getting the job afterwards. That is, with following c) getting a job from a not shitty employer who will sponsor me. I understand that nothing is 100% guaranteed and it’s sort of a big ask but I’m not that young (in my 30s) and can not waste my time on stuff that won’t work out anymore.
Moreover, I’m not even sure the US is a good idea. With all this medical insurance talk after that CEO VS Luigi issue, I’m not sure it’s a good idea for me, given the fact that I already have a chronic condition and might get cancer one day. But I don’t really want to learn another language either - I’ve already learned English and still don’t feel like I’m as smart and educated as I want to be. With another language, it’s going to be so much worse.
The thing is though that Britain doesn’t look so hot either, as well as Canada or Australia. I honestly feel so fucked. I do have a good remote job right now but it only brings sort of good money because it’s in the US and because it’s remote. Outside of my shit hole of a country this money is nothing. And I constantly deal with American clients at work and I feel like a servant from the Downton Abbey. I’m close to “masters” but I’m not the one of them and it feels like I’ll never be. It sucks so much and I have no idea how to resolve it.
No. 2336530
>>2336522Well, I can’t move here because I’m not qualified for the work visa, so.
But you wouldn’t want to work at my position anyway, I’m getting about $30k a year. My boss saves up money on hiring me instead of you though, yay capitalism.
No. 2336536
Why am I so emotional? It’s like everything gets to me. I don’t cry much, and I’m not emotional outwardly in general so people don’t see it. But anything, just reading something online, the subtle way in which people treat subjects, people, how it relates to me, it always fucking hurts. One small thing just sticks with me for the entire day afterwards until I finally get over it, until it happens again. How do people just go about their lives? How do people even forget things? Everything makes me suicidal. I’ll go back home, I’ll write paragraphs on the internet, much more than anyone else will, to others it’s just a waste of time and something they’ll forget about later but for me it’s a big deal, it’s everything. There’s just so much that sucks, always, how are you meant to enjoy life?
No. 2336617
>>2336539>>2336551Mexico in general is not THAT bad. It has its awful places and cities, you can avoid them easily if you have a basic level of awareness and if you have the chance to pick a place to live.
For foreigners can be a paradise if they:
1. Have a job that is remote and located in a country better postioned than Mexico (online practically)
2. If the currency they're being paid is more valuable than the mexican one
That's why a lot of americans come here and say "omg it's so cheap!!!" It's cheap for them cuz they're not being paid as a mexican. If they were, the would be struggling like anybody else here lol.
No. 2336632
>>2336539This, basically, just stick to the gentrified zones like Polanco, they're full of "digital nomads" aka people that come from other countries to work remote jobs while living a "more chill life" and buying cheap af groceries. It's safe to stay in those places, I'd say any place specifically designed to keep Americans happy is a safe place (resorts and tourist zones). Don't go to places that are
problematic, ask the locals and you'll know what to avoid. Other bigger cities are fine too. As long as you don't expose yourself or mingle with the wrong people, you'll be all good. Be careful with men they're fucking gross and I hate them, women are very nice and welcoming just avoid wokefags.
No. 2336655
>>2336581I don’t want to give too much away but I’m originally from Europe (not the part you’d want to visit though) and I’m currently living in South America.
I feel bad about calling the place a shithole because I honestly love the place and the city I live in but the way things are looking it’s going to get harder and harder to live here.
No. 2336674
>>2336650Yep! Lots of cool stuff to see, lots of people, it's chill and some malls do carry American brands/stores if that's something you're interested in
>>2336655Argentina or Venezuela?
No. 2336749
>>2336727im sorry. my sister recently started dating a tranny and i cant say anything about it. it sucks we have to just clench our teeth and move on. how close are you with the friends?
>>2336747same nona… i wish there was a way to find this exact thing with local people. i would be your friend
No. 2336797
>>2336793like holy shit how am I supposed to stomach myself and take care of myself while knowing I look like an actual retard and have dead, animal-like eyes?
it doesn't help that I'm humongous too. I literally feel like frankenstein's monster and have for more or less my entire life
how am I supposed to make it in this world? I have no connections, my family is broken and retarded as well, and I am barely capable of looking after myself. if I'm supposed to compete with people who aren't like this just to have a roof over my head why even keep myself alive honestly?
No. 2336812
>>2336783You sound a lot like me actually. I can relate so much and I am so glad at least one person can relate to me in this regard. The girl I like the most right now (by like I mean as a friend obviously) takes days and sometimes weeks to respond. I miss her every time. When I don't have a female best friend in my life I feel empty, even if I'm in a happy relationship.
>>2336800Sounds fun. I wish I had female friends to do that with. Can you please tell me how you met those friends?
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hey nonnies just got into an argument with my parents over something my extended family did over orthodox Christmas so I’m sitting in this pub by myself at nearly8PM waiting for them to leave. cheers
No. 2337102
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I finally broke up with my boyfriend of almost nine years. It happened on good terms, and he understood my reasons, this has been coming for a while though. I hope we can remain friends, because thats what we have been for a long time, not lovers.
Only thing I'm worried about is our dog. We agreed to take care of him together, but he would live in my new, quite spacious apartment. We have been living in a terraced house or whatever that is called in english, so he is accustomed to noises from neighbours. I plan to keep his walking/feeding routine as similar as possible. We haven't decided yet, but he would visit my now ex regularly. He is also very brave and happy dog.
Do you nonas have experience of keeping dogs after breakup, especially if you shared responsibility with your ex? Did your dog adapt well? I'm quite confident about our dog but still I'm worried.
No. 2337127
>>2337102It’s retarded to share custody of a dog, it’s not a child.
You’d rather take some time off not being together and maybe you might even resume being friends after a while if you like, although I just tend to keep exes and friends separate, having a clean break is better.
No. 2337178
>>2337102If your dog is more strongly bonded to you then you are the default owner. There is no benefit for the dog to be swapped between owners as other anon mentioned it is not a child. The only thing I can see that doing is giving your ex an alibi to still be in your life–unless that is something you want.
When I broke up with my ex fiance I took my dog because my ex was neglectful towards it and my dog loved me more. My ex was pathetic and tried to use the dog as an argumentative basis for why we should not break up as if it were a child, and then got angry that I didn't invite him to a small birthday party I threw for my dog and my friend's dogs in the park and accused me of alienation like it was a fucking custody dispute lmao. But because he did not really care about the dog, he did not pursue that further with me.
No. 2337241
>>2337234Heavens no anon, I wasn't implying you are encouraging orbiting but it's something that scrotes just do.
Honestly it's very difficult making friends period. I encounter the ghosting as you've mentioned. I'm either carrying the friendships by having to be the one to plan and reach out constantly or people just drop off for me. It hurts a lot cause I never feel like anyone's priority and it feels a lot like I am the "backup" friend for when someone has no one else or needs a favor. But you've gotta keep trying until you find one or two that "click" because the males are 100% fake without a shadow of doubt. Also I've made female friends over the years who I do touch base with but have come to accept that I need to view those friendships with permeance even if we don't hang out or chat everyday–they're not bad people, just busy and their lives took different directions and that's ok too.
No. 2337248
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nonnies what do i do if i don't find happiness in anything anymore? i'm so tired and i have this constant tummyache and i'm not sure if it's a byproduct of emotional distress or what
No. 2337286
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It's not just a misunderstanding borne from autism, it's outright disgusting when men are so unsocialized that they think older women being nice/warm to them is "attraction" or "flirting". Just because your mother locked you in a metal crate and your father threw beer bottles at your head for the first 12 years of your life doesn't mean the old lady who calls everyone "honey" or "sweetheart" wants to fuck you. You have never known warmth or been met with with a sunny disposition (probably because everyone who actually knows you can sense your deviancy), and your porn addiction leads you to think such things can only come from sex. This is a personal issue.
They don't even just do this with old ladies, to be honest. On a less extreme scale, even socialized men seem to have this nasty tendency of interpreting basic kindness or politeness as sexual attraction, and you can chalk it up to wishful thinking, but I think it's actually because they'd never be nice to someone they don't want to fuck. Then, they start crying about muh male loneliness epidemic. You cannot be nice to men, or they will either try date you or think you're interested in them. Men aren't even nice to eachother.
Like, it's killing me imagining some sweet abuela or black auntie being nice to a clearly autistic white man they've taken pity on, then he pulls out his phone to post on Twitter "Heh…these older ethnic foids all want my dick and see me as their white mastah". This generation is too fucked to appreciate politeness. I wish older women would start being hostile to young men and only treat women with kindness.
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>>2336006ayrt and I've been thinking about this A LOT today, nonna. I kinda wonder if I'm perhaps in denial because when I think of adhd I think of people that are way more sociable than me, energic and super fun to be around (idk I don't think I've met anyone diagnosed with adhd that I've not been absolutely smitten with in one way or another kek) so I thought "couldn't be me, I'm none of that". But checking out signs of adhd in women really got me thinking, on top of both my siblings and 3 out of 4 nephews have it so maybe I shouldn't rule it out completely. I should call my sister tomorrow and check with her how many of my issues aligns with hers.
I'm not a big fan of searching for a diagnosis as an adult, I'd feel like Jill, but fuck it I'd take anything that would help my brain be less of a mess, be able to take in/retain information and help me be more of a normal person at this point.
No. 2337693
>>2337683Kek, one time a woman I worked with almost started crying when I told her I didn’t want kids. She said I had no idea about the love of a mother (she was one). I swear, I wanted to laugh in her face. I’m surprised I managed to hold it in.
Also, I wish we had an antinatalist thread here.
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>>2336727A few years ago one of my good friends (of which I have few) told me that she was "going on a date with a girl" and she was nervous. I was surprised, because she had always dated men in the past and I had no idea she was bisexual!
Imagine my shock when it was a troon, OF COURSE. I eventually met him, and the wildest thing is he wasn't even one of those scraggly-haired, faded pink-dyed, balding men in a dress…He was just a straight-up male-presenting guy, with a male name, who claimed he "felt like a woman" and insisted on being referred to as "she". I felt like I was going insane, like I was on a hidden prank camera show. Thank god they broke up a few months later. To this day, I can't say shit about trannies, or anything remotely critical about gender discourse because literally everyone I'm close to has drank the tranny kool-aid and is a proud
handmaiden ally and I really don't want to lose what little social life I have. Acquaintances of mine have started "naming and shaming" people on social media that they perceive to be twansphobic, and I don't intend on getting that shitstorm flung at me.
On the other hand, I only know one woman IRL who is outwardly critical of the tranny movement, and she's a 21-year-old tradwife and mother of 2 who thinks vaccines are the work of the devil and that Covid wasn't real.
There's gotta be a happy medium out there, right? I know I'm not helping our cause by staying silent - but there HAS to be more people like us out there who are sick of the tranny shit but won't speak up because we're afraid of losing our friends, families or jobs. It's all so tiresome.
No. 2337710
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I’ve been isolating myself in my room lately.I feel like I just annoy my family, when I talk to them about anything they seemed irritated and brush me off. When we do something that I wanted to do like shopping for groceries or clothes for example they will invite themselves and act irritated and rush me. Which doesn’t make sense to me because they invited themselves. I get sighed at if I’m in the same room as them doing something. When I talk about something I get only a “mhm” or I get an eye roll. I try to be understanding and write it off as them not feeling well but it happens so frequently. The only time I noticed them trying to be nicer to me is when they want something from me and they try to small talk with me during that time, it feels weird and awkward at that point. Sometimes during the small talk they will throw an insult about whatever I’m talking about calling said thing stupid. I feel so uncomfortable being around them. Yet I feel guilty for hiding in my room, sleeping all day and staying up all night just to avoid them.
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I mightbe manic idk, going through weird mood swings rn
No. 2337769
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My mother is evil. She hates me, wants me to die, and I want to die too. I wish she would've just succeeded when she tried to kill me me but that would've been too nice. Now I'm just supposed to pretend like nothing's wrong with me. I wanna put my head through the wall.
No. 2337770
>>2337693Sometimes I tell these types of people that I'm an
abusive narcissist and would be horrible to my kids so they leave.
No. 2337844
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>>2337838Obviously it is. Gen Z is really "cooked."
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>>2337856
You're not him.
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>>2337856
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>>2337826
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>>2337917
See, now I know you're a moid because women can't use tampons during sex. Our vaginas close up and collapse whenever we aren't in heat, which comes in-between our first two periods of the month.(responding to baiting scrotes)
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>>2337925You should try a menstrual cup. The silicone props up the vaginal walls enough that you can get an additional day or two of open vagina. I’ve been doing this for years and even get three additional days when I am not in heat.
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I wish there was a more exact term for the type of social "bullying" when people constantly are shitty to you but the minute you say something back and return the same energy YOU get called the "bully" because the other person is legitimately vulnerable so anything you say is considered a punch down. There's no choice but to gracefully keep taking their shit, all mature-like "bigger person" platitude bullshit when all ya wanna do is give them a taste of their own medicine.
Happened to me in high school too.
No. 2337996
>>2337988Blog but this happened to me during school too. One of the psycho "troubled kids" went
out of her way to pick on me, like full-on gayops, but she got away with everything because she had a sob story (her mum abandoned the family or something) and cried in front of the teachers. It's insidious and annoying.
No. 2338011
>>2338006Just call them out for being
victim cry bullies, get to the root of the problem (compared to a more "surface" attack where you simply defend yourself).
The problem though is that those types of people tend to have no backbone and merge onto people just the same as them, so you'll have to deal with a mindless parrot horde of them. They'll bully you to death and then say "have a nice day babes ♥"
No. 2338017
>>2337984I agree with
>>2338005 but on lolcow specifically I always imagine the racebaiter is a moid. I know racist women exist and all, but racebait happens suspiciously often when a lot of moids frequent the site at the time so assuming it's a moid is probably correct in the majority of cases.
No. 2338021
>>2338006You just have to become the bigger
victim. Say they
triggered you and blah blah blah. Become the Queen of
Victims, and then move to a different town.
im joking No. 2338057
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>>2334759I never insulted your grandmother or your grief over her. So annoying that you ever thought so and got mad to the point of breaking it off. You didn't hear me out at all. You wouldn't give me time to ever converse. Ever. You said that you loved me. That was the lie.
You would at least read my messages/response, thought better of me, or empathized with me. Cared about my feelings. I did a lot for you, it was drastic. You didn't seem to care or want to. Then you revoked it and that hurt. Of course I would be cold after.
Which is fine, but don't tell someone that you love them if that was the case. For next time you're with someone.
I made some jokes that you might've interpreted as rude but it was all to curry your favor with me. It's hard to set tone over texts. I'm also kinda bad with that. Everyone has flaws but you could clearly see that I was struggling and trying.
Idk if I have autism or not but this has been bugging me for so long. I feel deranged for still thinking about you and it. Probably because? I wasn't lying? Whatever, I'm insane.
I genuinely still hope that you get good things in life. Hope you get someone that makes you happier and is more trustworthy. Please don't mock me. I have issues with things staying stuck in my head. I need to write them somewhere or else they don't get off my chest.
I forgive you and I hope that you forgive me too. Also, I hope you're not grieving over anything, pray if you are. Do a few good deeds here and there. Be patient.
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>>2338044An anon after my own heart. I looked him up and he writes unfunny satire articles on an onion knock off about nerd stuff mainly, picrel. Him and Amy Schneider can mald together I guess.
No. 2338136
>>2338131The only thing I ever got as inheritance from my last living grandparent was $5k and my greedy parents pressured me into signing it away to them because "oh grandpa helped you buy a new car when he was alive.." and I did it because I was a suicidal graduate student grieving a dead family member. I took on a lot of debt for groceries and bills that the money could have helped me with, forget funsies. Now my parents deny having done this.
Tell your friend it could be worse.
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>>2338072Damn I really feel you nonna. I’ve tried every diet modification, antibiotic, hormone therapy, prescription topical, and even chemical peels and acne specific lasers and all any of them did was maybe a 50% reduction. I even did two rounds of accutane which did work very well, but the results never stuck past the initial month post-treatment, and on top of that the purging gave me worse scarring than ever before and I had that rare permanent loss of night vision side effect, so now I’m sorta blind, cratered up like the moon and still covered in cystic acne kek.
Now that I’m getting into my mid 20s everyone around me has mostly clear skin and it just makes it even more jarring and disgusting whenever I catch sight of myself. I’m really at a loss for what to do, but my mom (who I definitely inherited it from) had her skin magically clear up at 35 so I guess all I can really do is keep up a good routine so it at least isn’t painful to try to sleep and wait.
Picrel is chronically.riley on tiktok, she has some gastric related chronic illness that prevents her from taking accutane or antibiotics and goes into a lot of detail about her routine, might be helpful for your situation
No. 2338377
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>see a video of a cute, clearly gay girl singing in a suit
>find her social media
>she's a FTM troon
This is like the third time I've been attracted to a woman who's a tranny. I'm sick of it. At least her top surgery didn't leave huge ugly scars so I can ignore the trans shit. It's not like I would've really dated her anyway so who gives a fuck.
No. 2338381
>>2338085I second trying spironolactone, it might be the solution you need. I am also cursed with life long acne, but it's working really well along with monthly skin peels. I haven't had clear skin since i was 12, but right now i feel like my skin issues might actually be coming to a close.
>>2338374omg, i feel so bad for her and people who have horrible cystic acne. I cry when i just have one, having them that huge has to be agonising.
No. 2338401
>>2338377Reminds me of when I met a cute masc girl working at a pet store, she had tons of tattoos and told me about her wife. The double take I did when she turned around and had "HE/HIM" tatted on the back of her neck lmfao.
>>2338398Wow she is gorgeous!!
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I hate being in the trooner gooner class group in college and I can't transfer either so I'm stuck here for 4 months with three of them in all my courses. Fuck my stupid Baka life.
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>>2338562I only McDonald through the offers in the app, where I usually get the crispy mcbacon menu for 5€; otherwise I just go into a normal restaurant, I’d rather spend those 10€ more and eat a proper meal if I have to pay that full amount kek.
No. 2338625
>>2338621The word buy just flew away kek.
But I’m an Italian nonna anyway and food isn’t as expensive here as it’s in America and we don’t need to tip, you can eat very well for 25€ (pasta, hamburgers etc..) while a meal at a pizza restaurant is 16€ more or less if you pick a Margherita with a drink.
No. 2338695
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My dad has a deep vendetta against his now deceased father, and now that I got the same mental illness he suffered from, he's literally and actively bullying me everytime I show any symptoms at all. He's a doctor, all of his doctor friends and acquaintances have told him I'm not "making shit up" and that I'm a highly risky case that will only get worse if not addressed, yet he refuses to lock in and leave me alone, all because he's still mad at grandpa even beyond death. Our family is aware he's taking this way too personally and that his anger is misdirected resentment, but still…it feels so wrong and odd to be hated by your own dad, like, why are you mad at me? I'm too young to be tweaking this way, I'm only 22, HE wasn't tweaking at my age I bet because it seems the condition jumped a generation, which is tragic, yet I don't seem to spark any sympathy on him, it's so odd and off-putting
No. 2338724
>>2338709The first few times we met he seemed nice, handsome, shared my interests and was really funny and upbeat, had a relaxed vibe, shared my values and had no red flags other than the fact that he smokes. I asked him if he has any red flags and he said that he's actually pretty depressed and experiences bad anxiety. I was like ok, I've dealt with that in the past so it's no biggie I know how it is.
Man, I did not know how it is. He did a total 180 and turned into a mopey ball of anxiety overnight. I could feel his vibe was way off, he stopped texting me as often and he stopped initiating hugs or kisses and when I touched him he would almost recoil. Then when I asked if it's something I did he was like "idk nonna I just feel like shit", then he proceeded to cry, call himself a shithead and ask if I'm upset or disappointed with him. And then he tried to initiate sex in some twisted way to make me feel better about the lack of intimacy I guess?? I was like bro what are you even doing right now you were literally crying two seconds ago.
I know what anxiety feels like and I know how it's like to be depressed but as someone who has gone through all of that and came out the other side as a stronger person I have no time for someone who is still so deep in their issues. Get some help. Stop dating cause you're clearly not equipped for it.
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It's a special kind of pain to know that you're too poor to achieve the things you want in life and that your past mistakes will forever haunt you until the day you die.
I finished high school but have about 0 skill, apart from tech, which is extremely over saturated at the moment and I can't go back to school because I don't have the time or money for it. I always wanted to move or move out to another country, but since I'm an unskilled worker I can kiss that dream goodbye. Why couldn't I have been born into a upper-middle class family or at least male so I can go do hitchhiking or do manual labour for work. God I'm sad
No. 2338793
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im in my early 20s and it feels like i should be socializing and going out with friends but i just spend 98% of my time in my room. i have online friends and 1 irl friend and i go to community college where nobody really talks to eachother from what ive seen, and i live like an hour away from the city, i feel really isolated and understimulated and im not sure what to do about it..? im autistic so being alone a lot doesnt bother me that much but it does feel bad sometimes. needless to say ive never been in a relationship either…
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I feel like today is going to be the day I crash. I feel like if I close my eyes even just for a second I'll be out like a light. I'm so stupidly insanely ridiculously exhausted. At least it felt good to have my doctor validate how I've been feeling for the last year and a half instead of making me feel like I'm being a big whiner who is just lazy and exaggerating. I just have to wait for a phone call now and I can get my drips and it will all be normal again. I just have to hold out until then.
No. 2338977
>>2338965Hormone balance check? You should have enough natural lubrication to not feel uncomfortable if you're using a light flow tampon and not changing it too often
>>2338962These are two very unrelatable experiences reg. menstruation, for me
No. 2339139
>>2339108You're probably just retarded
nonnie its okay
No. 2339150
>>2339108Same but I don't feel like a guy. I'm just retarded and proud. Join me
nonnie!
No. 2339172
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>>2339162Here you go anon
No. 2339177
>>2339115i was kicked out of an autistic women friend group for being too weird for them. like i wish i related to them. and they related to me. they just don’t. they are the ones telling me i’m “different” it’s not self proclaimed unfortunately
>>2339130how to i enlarge my clit i feel like i could pull this off if i had a big clit (i don’t)
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>>2339177Order this contraption and tell us how it goes anon. I would be so excited if you altered the size of your clit, in the name of science
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Why do my ankle boots a half-size too small feel less tight with stockings on. Do I keep you or give you away cmon now
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>>2339146Ewww, you get it
nonny. I needed pads and this guy insisted on touching every single lube possible while getting in the way of where I needed to be. Kept shooting me glances and lingering near me in the aisle. He smelled like mothballs and made me physically nauseous to be around. I should have vomited on him.
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I need to understand why so many pick mes are anti BL/anti yaoi. I dont even like BL that much, but I think it's nice for women to have a genre geared towards them. So many people in their teens and 20s are randomly like "ahh noo, it's fetishizes men!! Disgusting. It's the same thing as men who watch lesbian porn" which what the fuck. How is that even remotely the same?!
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I'm trying to sleep but I can't stop remembering embarrassing things I've done. I want to bash my head against the wall.
No. 2339284
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>>2339273I can totally see the appeal of coomer figurines. I don't want to watch hentai but it would be funny to slip these into people's pockets or leave them inside atms (forgot picrel)
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>>2339286Come on anon you don't think these are kek, even a bit?
No. 2339315
>>2339249a part of it is jealousy. they want x dynamic but x dynamic is primarily in bl and they can't self-insert into or project on hunky twunks.
anyway i came here to complain about tifs. really wish we lived in an era where you could shit on gender nonsense without being called a bigot because how the fuck are you going to make fun of fujos for ""projecting"" onto the bottom in a ship when you projected so hard you sliced off your tits? make it make sense
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>>2339297No just the figurines like
nonnie >>2339273 said and not even for sexual reasons either. Like this one I would leave at someone's house (but slightly hidden so their spouse finds it) if I didn't like them
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>>2339284yeah i get it. i would love to taunt annoying scrotes by leaving stuff like picrel if they weren’t expensive
No. 2339325
>>2339259I feel like it (like many other things) got popular after 2020, because people had nothing else better to do in their lives. I've been watching and reading BL stuff since the early 2000s and the fandom was pretty niche back then. Now BL is highly accessible and for some reason people are associating like BL with 3D men and irl gay rights,which isnt the same thing. it's bonkers. Women arent allowed to enjoy anything anymore without some sort of political agenda assigned to it. I hate it. I think 3d men are vile and I don't see an issue only liking 2D fictional men.
>>2339305>>2339310Exactly. They dont care. They just want to shame women because they are pick me bitches.
No. 2339343
>>2339324I didn't get it at first and then checked again before realizing it was two men kek
This would make a fine Father's Day gift
No. 2339385
>>2339365I have the same problem and kinda just gave up? When I did successfully gain weight I had to think about food so much and spent so much time cooking/eating/cleaning it made me feel insane and the second I tried to just live normally I would immediately notice my body backsliding and it was so frustrating.
I remember putting in like 4 tablespoons of peanut butter in every protein shake helped a lot, also fatty fish
No. 2339387
>>2339368>>2339365Seconding what anon says, my best friend was like an ironing table with a huge thigh gap, and when she turned 27/28, she gained weight and got really curvy, she even went from an A cup to a D cup which was honestly surprising to see.
Now she's trying to lose weight, but like, sometimes it takes time to gain weight.
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>>2339391Maybe you should go lay down then
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>>2339394dw I won't be wasting my time debating facts, not today anyways
No. 2339413
I know, I know stale topic but most people irl have
>>2339386 this attitude and it makes me sad when it comes up here
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My boyfriend and I had our first fight in a long, long time today. It was about me no longer doing any of the dishes, which, frankly, is fair.
I have given up on taking care of our apartment in the same way that I had for the past 3 years living together, I used to take care of all of the cleaning pretty much until these past 3-5 months when I decided to prioritize completing the last year of my university degree. It used to cause me a lot of distress and we would fight frequently about it, where I would just beg him to do a larger share of the cleaning since he creates a large mess all the time. I would work and then clean, and he often didn't have a job so I would be exhausted and then have to clean after him.
I know this sounds pathetic, but he got better at this and started cleaning more. Now that I'm prioritizing my education (while he isn't working or getting a degree , or anything), he started this fight claiming that I never did any house work anymore. I do. Just not nearly as much. I honestly resigned because I was a lot more busy than him–he doesn't seek or have any ambition to work. Why would I use the 1-3 hours of free time cleaning up when he has the whole day free, y'know? Anyway. It's really my fault, too. It's not fair for me to have him do all the kitchen clean up.
This spiralled into an argument of me telling him that he has free time, and I don't… and then finally that I took great issue of how he lacks ambition to self-improve. He cried a bunch, a shit load over this. Talking about how he suddenly hates himself, and wants to die, even though he never expressed these depressed ideas prior. It just happened because I sort of pressured him, or stated that I felt anxious about our future since he wasn't working towards any goals. He doesn't seek to change, even though he talks about how he doesn't like his current situation. It pisses me off greatly that he doesn't do anything about his problems. It's not like he struggled with depression throughout his life–I know him. He just doesn't care. He doesn't think about the future. It's hard for me to be attracted to this because he is more like a boy than a man.
He said it's because he doesn't know what to do, which is fair, but he also doesn't try to do anything at all. "Go marry a rich guy then!" He cried. I told him again that this wasn't what I was talking about. It's not that he isn't rich, he just sits there waiting for nice things to fall on his lap. What adult does this? Nothing in life is given for free, you have to work for absolutely everything. If you don't think you need to work for it, then that is deeply tragic, stupid, naive, and ignorant.
We don't live in a country with wars, starvation, of extreme poverty, and tragedies. His grandparents have saved money up for his education, and I just think about all those who would die for such an opportunity. He wouldn't have to take out a loan, be in debt, etc. I think he really takes it for granted. He says he hates himself, that he's really a fuck up. Then change. Do something, god damn it.
I really think it's unfair. He's been moping around all day since, and I feel a tinge of guilt or shame for causing him distress. At the same time, good? I know I can't ever change him. But he cannot expect me to wait around for something to happen. I deserve a partner who would want to provide for me, who is driven to improve our future together. Just like how I am pursuing my undergraduate and then my masters so that we can live a more comfortable life one day. Why did I fall in love with this guy? I'm such a fucking idiot.(unintegrated posting style)
No. 2339426
>>2339419What I said:
> the whole "I'm too skinny" delusion feels like instagram or tiktok poisoning at best and a humble brag at worstAt worst *~gaslighting~*-anon. We see it so regularly that people are already exhausted by the topic in the first place, so yes, I do believe that sometimes ana-chans come here and "show off". If you can't imagine such a thing happening, then go lurk the threads
No. 2339435
>>2339425A useless depressed manchild will only drag you down.
>suicide baitingbig ole red flag. time to plan your departure
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>>2339436
oh no you fucking don't
No. 2339449
>>2339441>>2339435>>2339440 It's so hard. I genuinely love him, and I do truly believe in him. I don't think I can let go of it immediately, but I cannot wait for something to happen forever. My beauty is fleeting, my value to the average man will depreciate with time, however unfortunate and shallow that may be. I'm in my dating prime right now, really.
I've already planted the seed in his head that basically gives the ultimatum of:
1) Be someone with me or 2) Be no one with yourself.
He will have to make that (super easy to most) difficult decision soon enough. I need to treat myself with some sort of dignity by letting him know that I am not comfortable with his mediocrity, that, of course, I will not stand by and continue enabling this sort of behaviour. It might end up being a "right person, wrong time" situation, where only until I leave and 10+ years down the line will he realize and sort himself out.
I'm not unfair. He's unfair for expecting a woman to just accept mediocrity for life without some safety net or a man who wants to grow with them. Why are some men like this? Maybe I contributed to this shit show, since I loved him before he even made himself into anything.
All I can do is support him for the next while and hope that he recorrects his path to follow mine. If not soon, then, yeah. I will ultimately break up with him. I've already provided him with my ultimatum, whether he decides that his love and his desire to change (FOR HIMSELF, even) will move him, or he will fall behind and I'll unfortunately move forward without him. I am offering him support while he improves his life and yet he resists me and change. God, people are so FUCKING annoying.
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>>2339436
>it was originally a lesbian relationship until I got involved
What do you mean by that?
No. 2339485
>>2339445im double posting because i remembered more shit to rage about with his stupid family
the mom is the average forced into being a housewife via mexican society and worships her sons. one of her loser sons got arrested so she used money she gets from the gov, to help her grandkids, to instead go on a PAYMENT PLAN for his bail. i was so angry i legitimately thought i was going to have a heart attack. i'm so sick of her praising her sons when almost all of them are total losers and add no value to society. she unironically praised another son for hitting the wall instead of his wife. one of the youngest siblings will just exist and she goes "oooh mi hermoso, tienes hambre? mi nino hermosooooo" puro marianista behavior the guy will just be fucking standing there like a tard and all he did was get a job at target.
every time we take her out to eat shes like "ahh oh noooo!!! [husband]. me puedes ayudar? i need to buy food for [little brother]!! mijo please el no come he works all night…" my husband tells her he's a grown man he can cook for himself and she gets MAD and says "that's your little brother!!" kek
i will give my husband props for being the literally only one who criticizes his brothers and tells his mom "tell [older brothers] to help you clean, they're grown men. they can't help you?" and it's like the brainwashing is so deep she cannot even comprehend any of it
>>2339470kek my brother is like your husband and i'm so sorry. i truly don't understand how my sister in law tolerates it. i'll ask you this; can you truly see yourself living this life for the next 40 years? over 14,000 days? what are the good qualities? if you say some bare minimum shit like he doesn't beat you ima be mad. if you're hellbent on staying then put some headphones on and ignore him completely til his mantrum is over.
>>2339478if he's anything like my brother i bet trying to talk to him results in some sort of manipulation like "oh now i'm not allowed to have a bad day? sorry i'm not always fucking cheery!" and some boo hoo shit about how he feels like he can't exist in his own home goo goo gaa gaa baby want baba
No. 2339573
>>2339449>My beauty is fleeting, my value to the average man will depreciate with time, however unfortunate and shallow that may be. I'm in my dating prime right now, really. please get off r9k or whatever moid shit youre reading
you really deserve better than that spoiled lazy manchild boyfriend
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>>2339704
I didn't came from r9k.Can you tell me to kill myself again so i actually do it this time while you lie about how bad it is being skinny? I wish i was you so bad
No. 2339724
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>>2339693I used to think a bit like you, and I got what I wanted. I'm going to be real, people do treat you better on a superficial level, but it doesn't make you a more lovable or loved person. You just attract predators who'll want to ruin your life even more (some will be obvious), and you won't understand why you're always pissed off and unhappy even if your body looks better.
>"but i won't be retarded"Starving and making yourself vomit will make you retarded. All anorexics and bulimics are functionally retarded, they have objectively defective brains and engage in defective behaviors. I can't stress how fucking stupid you have to be. That's why they always cope about muh control and nlog so aggressively hard. It's less adventurous or whatever, but literally just do things the correct way. Eat healthy meals at a mild caloric deficit. Go for a walk or get 30 minutes of exercise daily some other way. Try to think about shit other than your body. Be patient. Also
>mens biggest turn-offMen will literally fuck a hole in the wall. Stop pickmeing and believing their lies about who they would or wouldn't fuck. It doesn't matter.
No. 2339731
>>2339723I'm a neet and i live with my mom and i can't control myself around the food she buys, shes bi and goes hang out with men and women to fuck and i'm alone and free to go insane, she doesn't care so when i have a relapse i just do it. I swear i have tried so many times to stop and they did work a few times but most of the time it's just me stuffing my fat ass to no end because i basically lose self control. I even got on Vyanse last year and nothing happened.
>>2339724>Eat healthy meals at a mild caloric deficit. Go for a walk or get 30 minutes of exercise daily some other way. Try to think about shit other than your body. Be patient.I do this and it's the reason i've been stuck and cycling between chubby and obese for years, at this point i'm considering doing hard drugs or cocaine so i can lose all the hunger i have.
>>2339720Obese women only have men who settle for them and are ashamed of being seen on public by their side, men settle for anything but what they really want is not a hambeast
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>>2339713It’s okay
nonny, it’s over now. Tomorrow we can try again.
No. 2339744
>>2339731>Obese women only have men who settle for them and are ashamed of being seen on public by their side, men settle for anything but what they really want is not a hambeastI know plenty of obese women that are in stable marriages or are in healthy relationships. Your looks do not entirely dictate the way men or people treat you. Again, I'm skinny and above average in looks and have been faced with extreme levels of social rejection, humiliation and harassment. Especially coming from men. I have never had a man be genuinely interested in me. A lot of it is tied to the fact that I am incredibly mentally ill and intellectually disabled. So, I cannot stand up for myself. Being able to properly communicate with people and bond with them is the most important thing.
>Ebil mommy leaves and I'm left alone with ebil foodYou're an adult after all if you cannot control your food intake then maybe you should reconsider your existence. Or just accept the way that you look just as many people do. Instead of blaming your mother kek
I don't know why the hell am I even arguing with you. You sounded like a retard from your first post for simply wishing that you were mentally ill so that you can receive pity and have moids want to "help" you
No. 2339747
>>2339731if you get addicted to uppers you're gonna wish you were just fat instead of addicted. trust me, people hate addicts more than fat people. But most of all, you'll hate yourself the most out of everyone even though you may have gotten what you wanted (being skinny). Isn't that somehow worse?
Christ, just save up and get a PT or nutritionist so they can do all the thinking for you and you'll just have to just do the things they tell you.
No. 2339750
>>2339731Here's some tips I learned for curbing hunger recently:
Hunger is mostly caused by glucose spikes and you can lessen that glucose spike and subsequent crash by 70% by simply changing the order in which you eat food. Eating vegetables first then proteins then carbs last is ideal. If the food isn't separated (for example, you're eating a chili where everything is combined) try eating a small portion of vegetables first. Same goes for deserts or snacking, if you are going to eat something sweet it's best to eat it after you've consumed some fiber and protein as your glucose levels will spike less. I'm also trying to stop being a fucking fatass this year. We can do it together nonna
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>>2339740Thank you nona. It makes me feel better seeing your response. I love you…
No. 2339762
>>2339744I never blamed my mom for anything though i know it's my fault
>>2339747In all honesty i wouldn't hate myself for being a drug addict if it meant i wouldn't be a pig gorging on food anymore, i don't hate drug addicts myself or know anyone that does.
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>>2339750Never heard of this before and it's like there was a spark of hope in the distance for me after reading it and i'll genuinely try it out tomorrow, thank you so much, i'm taking anything that can help me at this point, i'd go under a bus and let it run over me if it meant i could eat like a normal person for an entire month at max. Allah willing we will both stop being fat by the end of this year
No. 2339813
>>2339781NTA but plant based doesn't mean it's healthy. Avoid any snacks that use vegetables as a selling point, like vegetable crisps, they're just as unhealthy. I assume you're careful with how much dressing you put on your salads, but if you're still gaining weight, switch to a different lower calorie dressing and see if it makes a difference.
Cooking your own food from scratch, whether it's plant based or not, will go a long way towards your weight loss. Don't be afraid to use fat in moderation, it helps keep you full for longer and it helps you absorb more vitamins. Make sure you stick to healthy fats though, no margarine. The low fat stuff on the shelves is shite, they add so much crap to it to make it taste good that it's worse for you than the full fat stuff.
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Still can't decide if I should buy Animal crossing new horizons. A main complaint has been that the game still feels unfinished/empty and hasn't had an update in a couple years so I'd be annoyed if I ended up bored. Is it even worth it
No. 2339850
>>2339819With the happy homes vacation dlc/whatever it's called I can no longer get bored of that game, if I don't feel like doing any main village stuff i just take the boat over and decorate a few houses for villagers I've never even met before.
Basically if you like AC for the villagers personalities and dialogues, you will get less than what you wanted. (Though I will say the new event NPCs are super charming imo)
If you love decorating the village, shaping the island, collecting items, designing villagers houses (including eventually your villagers houses which thank god because some of them have shit taste and won't stop replacing everything with fucking fish tanks lmao) you will have a blast that lasts for a really long time.
I think it's 100% worth it because I love decorating and collecting, BUT I have heard rumors Switch 2 could come with a new animal crossing in 2025. It's pretty much a baseless rumor other than
>it's been 5 years>it's one of the most famous nintendo franchises, it's a system seller>most other big nintendo franchises (like mario and zelda had games in 2024) released a game too recently to release soon againBut just to be clear switch 2 coming in 2025 is also just a rumor kek
No. 2340001
>>2339973depending on the person, texting is not seen as a primary form of communication. if anon didn't communicate this importance, then she can't expect him to know.
"checking in" is like a once in a while thing for me imo. like for when I haven't heard from you in a while. I don't really need to check in on you if we talked the night before and I just got up.
also people who get up early for work aren't gonna start texting ppl. they're trying to wake up, get to work, get started on the day, assume you're asleep and don't wanna bother you, half asleep themselves, etc.
No. 2340027
>>2339973Do you get mad at your mom and dad for not texting you first? Does it mean they don't love you?
>Plus anon said that she's super serious with him and he wants to marry her. Exactly, she's being unreasonable. She knows this guy loves her but makes up stupid rules she doesn't tell him about and then gets angry and hurt when he doesn't follow them. He even clarified he thought she was sleeping in, and anon is so mad she wants to kill him… for not texting for just a few HOURS when he's working. It sounds controlling and narcissistic.
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Me desperately but also as softly as possible trying to explain to my heartbroken friend that crying to the fuckboy that pumped and dumped after lovebombing the shit outta her is not going to make him realize that she was the love of his life all along, miss his plane home and show up outside her door, wet from a sudden downpour, and ask for her hand and forgiveness - while also knowing she got just enough main character syndrome to rather believe that's exactly what's going to happen instead of accepting that she is just like other girls.
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i hate the term situationship so much but its thr only way I can describe whats going on in my life rn. guy hits me up a year ago going on about ohhhhhh well you seem so interesting and your mannerisms are so cute (?).. we go out a bunch , nothing sexual because hes somehow even more withdrawn than i am. immediately goes off about "well i hope you're different from those other dumb girls on campus" , is glad to know that im the type to stay in and read rather than party , that I dont have a massive following on IG (he thought i would? not sure why) blablabla that im not """political""" etc mind you the only reason i dont really go out and do that sort of stuff is because i havent found a friend group yet after moving away for uni. he feels weirdly defensive about everything (he told me he did MMA once , i was like "oh really?" "IS THERE A PROBLEM?") and deletes his texts like a teenage girl if I dont respond immediately. the heavy hitter was "oh well I dont really care about appearance" at me trying to see if hed compliment me… which i read as basically him saying he finds me ugly lol unt. he's also as tall as i am and cant fucking spell. im not dumb and i immediately clocked the chudlet vibes , but frankly ive been entertaining him if only to go out a bit and rev up my social life in hopes he introduce me to some people in the city but I dont know how i could be fuckinh myself spiritually by doing this. ive been very obviously hot and cold to him and hes def caught on by acting weird back but he persists. idk , im so alone right now id do anything to find a leeway into having a social life since moving here
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I got my period back during ED recovery after not having it for a year and a half. I had a consistent period for 3 months, started college, a bunch of family/financial issues came up, became super stressed out, and I haven't had a period in 4 months. I'm really upset because it took me so long to get it back, and now I'm at square one.
No. 2340112
>>2339500Life is very cruel, nona. I'm sorry for you, me and everyone else who has to deal with the shit-end of life. I hope things improve for you. Wishing you the best.
>>2339505>"I'm not good enough yetThis is probably true but the only way to get good enough is to try, fail, learn and try again. If you try a few times, even if they fail, you will learn enough to succeed.
No. 2340116
>>2339497Have you considered that this man doesn't love you, he just loves the things you do for him? That the things he does for you are the things he would do for literally any woman he was in a relationship with? And he doesn't do it make you feel special? I mean do an inventory of the things you've compromised and given up for him. I'm betting he has compromised and given up nothing or very little for you in comparison.
Also, consider that your husband knows that you aren't happy, but he doesn't care because he knows you will never leave him.
There is a book "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship" and you should read it. It's by Mira Kirshenbaum
No. 2340152
>>2339772I wish I was a little bit taller
I wish I was a baller
I wish I had a girl who looked good I would call her
No. 2340358
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Why are so many anons snarky and rude? I come on this site to chill but the atmosphere is kind of rancid recently
No. 2340368
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I genuinely thought I was getting better at controlling my phobia, but this morning it all came back again. I'm so paranoid I can't close my eyes without getting mental images. The worst thing is that there's no one I can share this with, I've researched all types of phobias, I even talked to fucking ChatGPT hoping it might know how to call this, but all it did was give me a made-up name for it and useless suggestions. I know that it oscillates and apologies for rambling, but I can't stop thinking of all the ways this irrational fear brings me down. Why didn't God give me arachnophobia or something instead of this. Sigh.
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>>2340368Of course talking to ChatGPT was useless
nonnie, it's a piece of garbage. Talk to us, what's your phobia?
No. 2340408
>>2340368What’s the phobia
nonny? I don’t have one but I have OCD which manifests in a similar way to what you’re describing.
No. 2340413
>>2340378>>2340382>>2340408This might be very unwise and I'm paranoid but I'll share it, I trust you nonnas. It's paintings. Some types affect me more than others, so on a good day I can seek out art on my own, but always on a certain age bracket because I can't bear some movements even at my best. My field of study also has a great overlap with art, so it's unavoidable. I've heard of people being afraid of certain paintings, like religious ones, but it doesn't help me because they're meant to be scary, whereas I'm afraid of even the benign ones. The only explanation I can think of is that my ancestors were philistine peasants.
At this point I don't even care if I get baited with pictures because talking about it helps so much kek.
>>2340401>The goal you want to shoot for is not eliminating the fear, it's decreasing it's control of your life.I want to say that I'm dealing with it much better than when I was younger, I just have episodes where it's so bad I get extremely nervous even thinking about the concept. Mostly it makes me sad, because I don't hate paintings or sculptures, I just can't deal with them.
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I love going to pokemon card shows, but I also hate it. They’re always filled with smelly fat discord moids. I feel uncomfortable around them. I get asked condescending questions like, they’ll hold up a mew card or something basic like that then ask me if I know what it is. Sellers do this. It makes me mad and obviously I don’t want to buy a card from them anymore. Or I’m just looking through a binder and they keep talking to me. I wish they’d shut the fuck up. It’s also uncomfortable to be looking at a binder, and some stupid dumbass moid standing a bit too close behind me waiting to view the binder. I can literally smell their BO. Even worse lots of moids brag about their collections to me like I give a shit that they’re a 30 year old guy wasting all his money on expensive cards and is probably in debt from it since they treat it like an addiction. One guy told me he spent 30k this year on cards. That’s not a flex retard!
No. 2340471
>>2340413That’s really interesting. What is it about them that makes you anxious? Do you have the same reaction to photographs? What about mixed media? Physical paintings only or does digital painting also affect you?
As
>>2340426 said exposure therapy is the gold standard for treating phobias. You might have to take an anti-anxiety med for awhile just to be on a level where you can actually participate in therapy, but it is treatable nona.
No. 2340532
>>2340442its really crazy in 2025 theres still moids that are condescending cunts to women with their shared nerdy hobbies. i still have guys act like this when i wear merch of uncommon bands/artists
>>2340463i would bet money all of them are like that because they broke their dicks from porn
No. 2340537
>>2340426>>2340476Thank you nonnies <3 I was reluctant because I really thought they were going to make me stare at a painting until I was cured, but now I'll definitely try to at least look into exposure techniques.
>>2340471I thought it was the eye contact for a while, but I'm also afraid of still lifes, plus I don't have any problem making eye contact in real life. I have the same reaction to sculptures, but I can look at digital paintings just fine if they seem "modern". Old photographs are mostly okay, but I'm a bit unnerved by daguerreotypes. I find the picture on the art thread very cute, so it must be part of an uncanny valley effect, except I'm not afraid of any other human-looking thing. I've explained to people that I'm afraid of "old paintings", but I love collecting antiques and researching fashion history…
>>2340490As much as I'm trying to remember, I don't think I have any sort of traumatic experience surrounding them. I did have very abstract, silly fears as a child (maps, space photographs, some letter/picture combinations) but they all went away on their own. Only this one remained.
>>2340473I haven't! My field is literature, and I was never much of an artistic person. Most of my books have these awful photoshopped covers but I'm okay with that lmao. Painting a small one does seem fun though, I'm willing to try it.
No. 2340540
>>2340532I will literally never understand this! Women have been into the same hobbies as moids for decades; gaming, card games, etc. We dominated the cosplay scene too before moids slithered in. This whole "Girls dont play games. " followed by "Whaaa, why cant I find a nerdy gf who likes LOTR?" is such bullshit. I'm convinced these worthless moids are just bitching to bitch.
>>2340442>one guy told me he spent 30k on cardsI hate how men have disposable income and use it for this, then turn around and bitch at women who want to treat themselves to a nice bag or shoes.
No. 2340547
>>2340358There were times when nonas were nicer to each other even when disagreeing. Many self proclaimed
femcel younger women found lolcow recently and haven't gotten over their edgy phase yet.
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>yell at stupid fucking brother to gtfo out the kitchen
>me yelling like an insane person because i can’t stand his presence and his mooching anymore
>was a failson and an idiot his entire life
>me finally deciding to be angry and rude towards this crap instead of just being groveling and silent about this shit
>seen as the bully towards the weak man tearing a poor innocent male who’s in desperate need of help (he’s fucking 30 years old he needs to get it to fucking together)
>imagine a fat tall dude yelling over a tiny woman
>me the retard who realizes i could’ve been in legit danger with a male kek
>calls the police
>mmmm hang up
>phone operator calls back
>female one
>was acting strange even though I said I was fine I felt shaky in my voice
>police ended up at my door very quickly KEKK i guessshe thought i was in danger
>they say the same thing that the operator sounded like I was in danger and then I told them i’m fine and everything
>thinking of ways to defend myself if it ever comes to the point where i need to
>unfortunately has to sleep right across from the retard himself
>50/50 chance of my mom chastising me if he cries to her about being such a “sick victim who’s going to die”
>erm you’re not going to die, other family members been through way worse than you including me and you’re a manipulative cunt
>if you’re up against a possible current or future foe where you might have a disadvantage you need to take out their sight
>if at home try finding chemicals or anything very abrasive to the eyes, skin and flammable
>you don’t even need gasoline
>throw it on the person
>light the match
I didn’t do this but as a woman who lives in a world where you aren’t allowed to be mean to males this might be useful advice for someone. Also if you have a knife and you’re in close right vicinity with a man you try to slice his arteries/veins with his wrist, you can go for the legs but you need to disable his upper arm strength where most males strength is and once you know you can be closer to the person you try to get the jugular around his neck area
I LOVE MY LIFE ♥ no
No. 2340632
>>2340583lying about rape is one of the most heinous things you can do seriously… its offensive to real
victims and it gives shitty moids ammunition against people who have actually been assaulted. im sorry that happened to you
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>>2339445>my face when husband's sister asks if i can "get the same amount the tax lady would get" because she's 2 months behind rent, in debt, and getting evicted and "really needs the money">she had 6 kids on purpose because she wanted a girl and her first 4 were boys, 6th was an accident.i'm truly baffled at this point. i can't even feel anger anymore i'm just speechless.
No. 2340671
Sometimes I miss using ketamine, but it was an addiction and I had to order it illegally and I prioritized it over many things. I miss it but thats okay because unlike the past it doesn’t go beyond that, like craving it. I almost want to trick myself into craving it, but I know it isn’t something I need, its just a pacifying feeling I can replicate naturally and I am happier and safer now, I don’t need it to feel unafraid! That’s really beautiful. I sometimes feel an odd sense of envy when other people use drugs, but it isn't the drug use I envy, it’s how careless they can be financially, mentally, etc. Sobriety and peace takes a lot of effort. They feel no shame, and I envy that. But I know that doesn’t make me superior or inferior, it simply is.
No. 2340715
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I just got scolded by my yurifag boyfriend for sexualizing/shipping Chio and Manana from Chio's School Road. He unironically said "Don't defile their friendship". I hate purityfags and I hate moids.
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>>2340715>yurifag boyfriend Wtf nonna..
No. 2340757
>>2340749Yeah I get it. I wouldn't have thought the Civ fandom was so full of misogynistic scrotes.
>>2340737>So I reported him for sexual harassment, because that's what pornbrained moids deserve.based
No. 2340849
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>spend 2 hours cooking for myself and roommates just 'cause
>one of them says thanks and proceeds to leave the plate out for hours without touching it just to throw it all away instead of, idk, putting it in tupperwear or something
>ok fine, whatever, not a huge deal
>same roommate proceeds to text me they have the flu now after spending all week with me
fml..
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>>2340891I got good news for you then. She's single and desperate to mingle.
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>>2340891So true.
>>2340896Nonna don't remind me of what fate has brought upon us…
No. 2340900
>>2340897Sorry to hear that
nonnie, I can't imagine how stressful it is to structure your life around that. What's your diet like? Sorry to ask, I'm sure you've been asked that a thousand times already, but even something like a coffee every so often can be the difference between a normal day and a hellish one with acid reflux according to my friend.
No. 2340922
>>2340909litetally just ordered some
nonnie, you are an absolute gift thank you!! ♥ this will make such a difference to how self conscious I am rn thank you so much
No. 2340936
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I’ve been failed so often as a child, she had a strong heart but what she’s been through exceeds cruelty. I’m mourning my inability to save her. I only watch her leave every day in the mirror as my face only hardens. She’s been dead for so long. One of my most prominent memories is how I’d sob in the moment knowing I couldn’t be crying about it in the future, as if it no longer mattered to me anymore. She was right, and It feels horrible.
No. 2340956
More of a dumbass shit but thinking back, I'm so lucky. In the past I was so reckless regarding protection.
1st bf - from my small backwards town, used the pull out "method", he turned out to be emotionally abusive/manipulative and even made his mom cry with his tactics. I could've got pregnant and been stuck in that hellhole to an at least emotionally abusive moid.
2nd bf- compulsive liar into lolicon (I discovered late on), also possibly a cheater. I used the pill but inconsistently, I forgot to take it like 1/3rd of the time. At a push, he wanted kids at 24 years old kek
3rd bf- acted correctly, but completely without a soul and was frankly not into me. Confessed he doesn't have empathy after we broke up. With this one if I got pregnant I really might have offed myself.
I'm just thinking all the terrible paths my life might have gone on if I got pregnant with these men. I'm not saying it would've been the end of me, life's what you make it, but wow, as much as I might complain about my current life I was really blessed in those aspects.
No. 2341011
>>2341006>Narcissists are aware they are narcissistic>Narcissists lack self-awarenessSo what is it then kek. Also covert narcs exist.
>>2341008Nah I've been screened for autism twice, I'm just retarded and raised a shut-in but not autistic.
No. 2341049
>>2341033samefag but god i can physically feel the shame. i feel disgusted by my female anatomy, not because i hate it, but because i hate what’s been done to it. i mourn for my body
my life is forever changed because of someone else’s need for two minutes of pleasure
No. 2341068
>>2341033It's not your fault anon. Society tries to justify abuse and shift the blame onto women. For example I'm struggling with disability and homelessness. I got manipulated by a scrote because I was desperate. He kept buying me stuff and allowing me to stay at his apartment. I am a benzo addict as well so it affects my capacity to give consent. He ended up conditioning me with sex. I got afraid because he would kick me out if I refused and I would not have shelter anymore. I told him that I am not attracted to him physically nor emotionally. That I am not giving him consent but I remained out of fear of losing my shelter. I think it is rape and coercion.
But people won't believe me because he bought me stuff and allowed me to stay at his place. So, they think I am "exaggerating".
No. 2341108
>>2341075Your post reminded me of this article I read ages ago about an agency in Japan where you could hire friends for a day. One moid was so fed up with being pressured into marriage that he paid one of the women to pretend to be his girlfriend, meet his parents, and eventually break up with him so his parents would think he was too heartbroken to get a wife and he could finally get some fucking peace.
Old people are incredibly retarded when it comes to marriage and kids, I hope you find the nigel of your dreams soon and only have kids if you want to.
No. 2341112
>>2341107College debt in the USA averages 29k dollars for each college student when they graduate
>>2341092Nope go tell them right now and don't you think of becoming homeless, that's horrible. You don't really want to see rewarming centers and jails
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I had no problem with the incest thread but I just seen cropped wild kratts tentacle porn. Nuke it.
No. 2341246
I was gonna put this in the relationship advice thread but it's locked. I want to break up with my Nigel but I don't have the ovaries to do it. I know that I'm losing absolutely nothing if I break up with him, he only wants to spend time with me once, maybe twice a week. We almost never go on dates, he's jobless and not in school, and has recently started balding. He used to work out regularly and had a very nice body, but he stopped going to the gym. The most annoying thing is that he sleeps until 4 or 5 o'clock in the day while I'm at school or work. This is literally because he stays up until 6am playing league. I could spend all day in class, go home, eat, do homework and go to the gym and he'd still be asleep. I can't say im attracted to him anymore. He used to be so normal until he quit his job and became a degenerate. He goes out with his single moid friends to parties and bars several times a week and never invites me, and I often speculate if this is to hide whatever shit they're doing/girls they're talking to. All of my female friends go out with their boyfriends if they are going to parties or clubs. One time he didnt ask me to come with him to a party that we were both individually invited to, and I showed up and he was shocked to see me.
The only reason I can't bring myself to do it is because I know I will be sad in the aftermath since we've been together for nearly 2 years and it will be a big change in my routine. Since we don't hang out that often, and when we do hang out he pretty much just wants to fuck and thats it, I almost feel like it doesn't matter that much if we're together or not anyways. We're essentially e-dating even though we live 10 minutes away from eachother. He recently started acting distant and I wonder if he feels the same way I do. I'm doing the exact thing I thought I would never do, which is staying with a man out of obligation even when I'm not getting anything I want. I wish I could step up and stop acting like this. As my hate for moids continues to grow, the less and less I can tolerate this situation. Should I just cheat on him? I feel like such a coward.
No. 2341259
>>2341068>>2341073oh
nonnie that is truly a horrible situation and i’m so sorry. being an addict is hard enough. it’s actually evil what’s being done to you, and it’s even more evil you’re not being believed or taken seriously. i believe you
nonnie, and i hope your situation changes for the better very soon
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>>2340832same here nona. i didn't even know her but i've been mourning all day. why do all the cool radfem youtubers die so fast?
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I hate that my landlord is holding tours of my apartment while I'm still fucking in it. I have one month left here, it's bullshit that he can't wait. I dont want strangers in here!
No. 2341299
>>2341129I feel this. I've never has a TIF phase but sometimes I wished I was some mediocre moid just so the other girls/women around me would actually respect what I say kek. The worst is when pickme friends/acquaintances are rude or make fun of you over something but then a moid does the exact same thing and they suddenly think it's cool and respectable. Or like
>>2341291 said, when they don't have time for you but have all the time in the world for crusty scrotes. But then the moid breaks her heart, she runs to you to complain and cry, then tosses you back out when a new scrote comes along. None of these people are worth keeping around.
No. 2341315
I'm so devastated nonnies. I have been trying to dig myself out of a financial hole since September of 2024. This past holiday I worked NYE, New Years Day, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Day. I was given gift cards to use at grocery stores, and a voucher to use for an oil change for my car. I worked over 50 hours both paychecks when holiday pay was added in. And when I opened up my credit union app today to check my balance, … less than $400. I keep running into the red to pay other bills, rob from Peter to pay Paul, so to speak.
I know that there is a way out if I find a better paying job or get a raise, but I have been searching and searching with neither. My current job has an annual budget meeting, but it's not until May, and in the meantime I have to just be on my best behavior and hint that I really truly need a raise, and show how useful I can be to the job.
But lately, all I've wanted to do is.. give up. Just fucking give up. I'm doing specific therapy (not talk therapy), the only time I leave the house is to get groceries or visit my parents/friends, so like, three times a week. I just.. fsahf;oiweaof;jdlsajfjio;ejawfjds;ajfdsl please jesus christ, something, SAVE ME or give me some relief from this financial hell. I know that they're going to demand student loan payments in full coming up here and do away with the payment plan programs.
I haven't woken up feeling relief in over 6 months.
No. 2341332
>>2341321Have you ever thought of consolidating your debt? It might work to help relieve you. A lot of financial institutions will offer to consolidate debts. So, for example, when I was in 18K of credit card debt I owed on two cards and the interest rate was 19.99%. I ended up moving that debt from my bank to a credit union that offered 0% interest for 1 year and 9% interest after that year. It really helped me to pay back the debt a lot faster. Another option is to speak directly with your bank and ask to take out a loan to pay off your credit card, as the loan might offer better interest rates or conditions.
There are solutions to financial problems, you just have to work with a local financial institution to see what works best for you. Most banks offer financial seminars as well as financial advisor services, so, if you haven't already, it would be wise to make an appointment with them and see how you can improve your situation. It seems like a lot now, but 35K in debt is very minor in the grand scheme of things, so keep your head up and keep working hard. You have a good attitude about it.
No. 2341333
>>2341332Thank you
nonnie. If I wasn't working right now I would cry lol. I appreciate it. You're making me feel like less of a failure by just pointing out the debt amount in the grand scheme of things. I'll reach out to the credit union I owe to and see what options might be available.
No. 2341347
>>2341333Just keep your head up high. If you want to talk more about finances, or check through what other anons are saying, or just read through some posts about finances, you can check out these thread:
>Frugal / Money Saving>>>/ot/2317885>Personal Finances>>>/ot/734134You can never be a failure, you're a human being. We make mistakes sometimes, but we have the power and volition to fix them too. You might be in poor financial standing now, but some of the most successful people that I know had periods of their lives when they were in shit financial situations too. Debt can be scary, but nowadays there are so many options to help ease debt.
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I was visiting this youtuber’s website and looked at her chatbox. Why does this faggot have to ask her this? I like this youtuber because she just makes random videos about her life. no political stuff, no shitty opinions, no gender/sexuality bullshit. She seems normal, pretty much like old-school youtube. I really hope she doesn’t answer this
No. 2341350
Need to vent about my creepy fucking boss again. I know I've posted a lot of this before but it's built up again and I just need to get it out of my system.
He has a crush on me and makes no effort to hide it despite knowing I have a boyfriend and he is my fucking BOSS. He's always trying to get me to go out with him "for work" but really all that means is "during work hours". He keeps trying to take me out of town on overnight work trips when I really have no work related reason to go, and he keeps trying to extend the number of days we go for so we can do date-like things. He's not even subtle about it. Things like going to the amusement park, fancy dinners, boat rides, etc are all things he's suggested we do on these overnight work trips. Not anything work related. I have no idea how to shoot this down because he's my BOSS. I usually try to come up with excuses as to why I can't go on the overnight work trips but he will just say no worries and push the trip over a day or 2 to accommodate my excuse. I think he is trying to pull me away from my boyfriend by taking me away overnight a little longer each time.
He mentioned to my coworker (who i am friends with) that he is lonely and would like to start a family despite being in his 40s with an adult daughter already. He was explaining to my friend what he is looking for in a wife and just described my looks and personality to her and then followed it up with my name.
THEN there's all the shit he does at work day to day. His office is right behind my desk, he was offered to move into a bigger office but declined because he said he likes being close to me. He will step out of his office to talk to people but stand right at my desk, basically sitting on it. He does not do this to anyone else's desks, it always has to be mine. He's extremely protective over me at work (i'm an office assistant) so whenever someone else in upper management asks me to do something he will get mad and tell them to leave me alone basically. He made one of my coworkers basically hate me because he yelled at him for touching me (in a friendly matter as we were saying hello). Now this coworker won't even look at me anymore.
He also never takes days off. I have never seen him take a day off, I do get some breaks from him when he is forced to go out of town for work by himself, but that's about it. He won't take vacation because he's convinced everyone needs him and he wouldn't be able to get off his work phone anyway. I dont know if this is me being paranoid but I feel like he won't take a day off because he likes to see me. That being said though, I booked a vacation with my boyfriend next month and since I had to book the time off work he obviously knows about it and now he won't stop making comments about how he's going to take a week off and go on vacation and how he has free airfare and hotels available to him and blah blah blah. Like he had absolutely no interest in a vacation until I planned one with my boyfriend.
And to top it all off, I can't fucking stand this guy. I hate his personality, he's very cocky but also obviously insecure at the same time. He makes up the craziest lies just to sound impressive. The stories he tells are "and then everyone stood up and clapped" type shit where he's always the hero of the day. He also rides a Harley so he's constantly trying to tell me how cool and loud and fast his bike is and how I need to ride it one day and blah blah. I fucking hate motorcycles and Harleys especially. He's also short, fat and bald with tattoos and a fucking labret piercing. If you can imagine what the human equivalent of an english bulldog looks like, that's him.
Ive thought about quitting but I genuinely like my job. I really like all my other coworkers and it is JUST him that is the problem. His position has a high turnover rate and I'm honestly just hoping his day will come soon. Also living in a small rural town means if I quit I would probably be out of work for months until something opened up again.
No. 2341384
>>2341372>The thought of a guy I like being bisexual or gay and interested in a man makes me physically sick…Yeah, I would be sick and repulsed if that were to happen to me. Bisexual men are literally bottom of the barrel perverse creeps who would fuck anybody.
>with envy The fuck.
Nonnie, you need to get your mental illness in check because the rest of your post is concerning. You shouldn't be mad, envious, or upset about some hypothetical bisexual/gay scrotes. Fuck that.
No. 2341424
>>2341384I know, actual real physical gay dick-in-ass sex they have grosses me out (+ the envy part mostly comes from this guy I like being bisexual exactly as
>>2341385describes it) but on the other hand, I feel like women who are with other women are always under some microscope or subjected to being looked at weird. You don't have the same social expectations like if you were dating a man but you're still a woman and have to deal with those separate standards.
No. 2341442
Explaining to my partner very carefully how I'd rather he and his kid leave to his place for the weekend when i get kittens, that it might be calmer, i already have to wrestle my two dogs, two other cats, and the chickens outside and his daughter is sweet, just doesnt listen and it's already stress and yes i should've told him before. But i just wanted to talk about it bc the last two times he just told me it would be fine and didn't let me talk further. He lives 10 min from here btw. In a flat i pay for, for this exact kind purpose. I fucking hate him. Gave him 3k for a car, he had to get a beat up bmw, already went to the scraps, my mom felt sorry and got me a new 10k car so he could have my old one. He's doing a re-education program, and now i pay for his flat there too.
And now I mentioned that maybe it's easier to do that without him and his kid, dude went off. Proving why I'd rather do it alone. Fucking leech and yet I feel guilty if i should leave him.. I want him out of my life but I'm scared of feeling lonely
No. 2341451
I hope some nonnie reads this, because I'm coffee drunk and highly emotional for some reason.
I read Flowers in the Attic like in 2015 as a "shock read", all I remembered about it was Incest, Rat Poison Donuts, Twins die and after the second book it got very fucking stupid. So I get a recommendation randomly for a 4 hours recap of all the books. I click it, and it was like a slap in the face when I remembered something, for some reason i forgot.
So the lady making the video is talking, and she does a trigger warning She refreshes my mind that Chris at 16-17 rapes his 13-14 year old sister, after the sister sneaks downstairs to kiss her mothers sleeping husband, he gets jealous, rapes her, apologizes for raping her and the sister is like, "no you didn't rape me".
Then the person who made the video was like, "I erased that part from my mind, I don't even like to talk about it. And it rubbed me the wrong way, in fact I feel like a lot of people gloss over the fact that Chris rapes her, I do not care why he raped her, or the situation. He raped her.
It's a very important part of the story. You can't "erase" good boy Chris raping his sister out of jealously
Even when she described how Chris would constantly pressure his sister into being in a relationship with him she wouldn't make it seem as dark as it was. For example, how he first was like, "We can just be together no sex!" but she leaves out a part I remember that made me sick to my stomach. When the sister had her last baby, Chris wanted her to get her tubes tied so they could have sex
I know the first two books are in Cathy's words, so it does focus a lot on how it all affected her. However, Chris came out of it a predator. He even says he knows his sister can love another man, but he can't love another woman", he saw her as his property, The men of their bloodlines were the ones to introduce Incest by force or "Consensual" while the women all suffered the most for it..
In the end of the last book Cathy goes back to the Attic to DIE after Chris dies, wanting him. Mentally they never left that attic and it was because CHRIS would not allow his sister to leave it mentally. So as I think back on the video, the lady who made it would often pinpoint the "Cute" things that happened between Chris and Cathy. Constantly pointing out all Chris's good traits, being a doctor, forgiving and love Cathy, while ignoring the fact that their relationship, was forced. Not just by The mother, grandmother but by HIM raping her and not letting her move the fuck on. He's a victim and he's a fucking predator and he didn't love Cathy, he just saw her as "His". Throughout the book the brother does little things that she makes seem, "Cute and caring" but it's really just a victim/predator trying to keep his traumatized sister in that attic.
Everything that happened in her life was because of what happened in that attic, including the rape. Her going to die in the attic, the last sibling, wanting her rapist and the man who kept her trapped mentally but he's also her brother, her lover, her rapist, is what you should take from the story, it's tragic. It's sad, it's sick and fucked up. It's not "Awww he's her chris doll!
Sorry for the rant.
No. 2341453
>>2341442Kek
nonnie you should my rent instead of having a useless moid leech off of you
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I wonder if I hadn't become so much accustomed to physical and mental abuse I wouldn't have turned out this way…I dont want to accept that I deserve to be punched and beaten..all the psychiatrist do nothing but tell me to tolerate it telling itll get better. I dont want to and I fear I'm losing the only protector I have in this damm shitty world im slowly accepting it as the way it is with my mother blaming me like she did before as if I dont know why she never steps in when it's her own fucking husband beating me and shes not saving her own self from being punched by letting me take it? And then to have the gall to tell me I shouldnt cry nor be angry about it?I dont want to lose myself not again
No. 2341476
Pretty frustrated with myself. I'm pretty motivated and feel miserable if I'm not doing something. I do about an hour of japanese flashcards a day, read a lot, I'm on my 3rd book of the year, and try to draw when I have the time, but it just doens't feel like enough. I see these other people drawing well, writing stories, and I feel so frustraited with myself for not doing more. Im just unable to do what I want, I have a baby which eats up a lot of time, and I also have some sleep problems, that cause me to wake easily and have trouble falling asleep, I gotta spend maybe 10 hours in bed to get 6 hours of sleep, so that eats up a lot of time too. Almost the entirety of the rest of the day is spent doing my hobbies. I feel like my life would be so much easier if I just didn't have sleep problems, I'd have so much more time… and baby eats time but I'm caught between wanting savor his baby years and also wanting to chase my ambitions, I don't know how to do both or how to prioritize them. I feel pulled in a lot of directions and it leaves me feeling inadequate and unsatisfied. I wish it was easier to relax into life. I know there a lot of people who have it worse or who aren't doing much with their time, but I just keep seeing the people who do more.
No. 2341482
>>2341448The book starts off with this perfect blonde family, Dad dies in a car accident, so the mother (corrine) is broke. She has 4 kids, Two teens Chris whose like 14, and Cathy whose 12 and two twins, a boy & girl who are like 7 or somethingCorrine tells them she comes from money, so they travel to Corrine's mother's castle/mansion whatever, with all they have hoping they'll help them out.When they get their the mother admits to them, that her father does not know they exist & that they have to hide in the attic until he dies so she can get her inheretiences from him. She doesn't tell them at first that the reason her Dad/Mom hates her & her husband, is because Corrine's Husband, Chris Senior is ALSO her Uncle/Half brother. The dad told her she'd only get money if she does NOT have kids with him.So the kids are kept the attic, Grandmother is very abusive to them because they are products of incest. Corrine, starts to live her own life forgetting about the kids.Long story short is, Cathy (the sister) and Chris (the brother), are put in a postition where they are seen as the parents of the two twins. One of the twins get really sick and they often are denied food, don't leave the attic etc. So they create their own little "World" up there.Chris and Cathy both go through puberty, and one day Cathy is studying herself in the mirror and Chris Comes upstairs, he compliments her body and Grandma catches them. Grandma tells Cathy to cut her hair off to punish her. Chris says no, so while Cathy sleeps her Grandmother pours tar in her hair.Chris and Cathy get in a tub and spend hours trying to get the tar out, as well as a scene where they are beaten so badly by grandma they can't wear clothes and thats when they first kiss. So if you can see where I'm going with this, Grandma's abuse because of Incest causes situations they just Have to be around eachother naked.The Boy twin Cory is very sick, and Chris still believes in the mother coming to save them/caring. Meanwhile the mother remarried and does not give a damn about the kids. Cathy is constantly trying to convince Chris to escape but he won't.They start sneaking downstairs to steal money from their mother, so they can run away and get Cory help. In doing this, one night Cathy sees her mother's new husband sleeping in her room. She goes up to him and kisses him while he is sleeping.Chris finds this out later by listening in to a conversation between his mother and her new husband. The Husband said he had a dream that a woman that looked just like Corrine but younger kissed him. Chris thinks Cathy did it.He literally goes back to the attic and rapes Cathy,because he is jealous. I believe he tells her shit like "You are mine". then apologizes for raping her. Cathy says, "No i could've stopped you, I wanted it" but they agree to not do it againCory gets really fucking sick, so they tell the mom. Who doesn't want to do shit because it'll make people sus. The grandma of all people tells her to take the kid to a doctor.She does and comes back like, "Welp Cory died" and that he's buried under a different name. Finally Chris realizes they need to fucking leave. So they plan their escape, which they learn through easedropping that the donuts their mother brought were laced with rat poison, she was trying to kill them all, but only succeeded in killing Cory.They find a way to leave the house and escape in the night.
The next books are just Cathy getting revenge on her mother, she becomes a ballerina, she fucks her mom's husband, then shows up at a ball dressed just like her mother exposing it all. While pregnant with her mom's husband's baby. She also has a weird relationship with the man who "Saved" them directly after the first book. Chris is constantly trying to get her to be with him, the other twin Carrie, kills herself because she's not "growing". And at the end of that book after a lot of trauma, two horrible relationships with two baby daddies, Cathy settles with her brother and they gat "fake married" and change their name.
>>2341470
It's a horror story, but if you ignore therape## like the lady I watched, I guess you could see it as a Trainwreck, horror story + forbidden Romance.
No. 2341532
>>2341506Yep, and the person i watched kept playing this game of going "aww Chris is so caring" and "Incest is fucked up" but also, "aww I hate Incest but..Chris & Cathy though..".
Im sorry for still rambling about this shit.
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>>2341482>Wangst for the sake of wangst>Plus creepy incest obsessionI could read something of similar quality on AO3 for free.
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Does anyone else deal with this? I'm really struggling and feeling really depressed.
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>>2341551Same here nonna. It's such an unnerving thing to experience, but don't worry, this doesn't mean nor say anything about who you are as a person. Bodily reactions like this are nothing like actual arousal. I struggled with this my whole childhood/teenage years and although it's horrible I promise it gets better with time. Have you noticed if this feeling is
triggered by something in particular, or does it come up in random unfortunate situations?
No. 2341578
>>2341551>>2341571NTA but I struggle with this too. I feel like it's more common than you'd first think, but it still feels horrible and embarrassing. It doesn't mean anything about you as a person, though,
nonnie, you are not defined by something you can't control.
No. 2341662
>>2341656I'm so sorry
nonnie. Is it your own family trying to convince you to be around him or are a lot of other people doing it too? I've also nearly been shot by an angry aggressive moid losing his mind before, but he wasn't my own father ffs. I can only imagine how difficult this time of year is for you, you are in my thoughts.
No. 2341727
>>2341705the real hack is knowing even "not okay" is usually not that bad
not like people will be literally torturing you nonstop
No. 2341739
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I dont want to start college. There is nothing worse that having ambitions and dreams that will never be fulffiled because you were born on a shitty country and in a shitty family. I wish i could be a normie that easily swaps their ambitions for the small things in life like a husband and children, but i am deeply autistic and cant love anyone and i dont want to bring children into this fucked up world either. Whenever i talk to family or older people about this they all tell me they wanted to be someone else when they were younger, but threw away their dreams for stability and normiehood. Except i will never be happy with that. I think, if i dont achieve my dreams by 30 i am just going to kill myself. My biggest fear is ending up as a wagey with a shitty mind numbing job just to live. Thats not life, thats pure hell. Maybe if i could get a cute husband it would be more tolerable, but moids are fucking hideous parasites. I just really hate living so much, but i enjoy my hobbies too much to kill myself now. Its like living on a limbo.
No. 2341750
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I hate when my dad comes to cook in the kitchen when I was already cooking. He also never cleans the pans he uses it's so annoying KAM
No. 2341753
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My power has been off for over a day now and I’m tired of charging my phone in my car. I need the Santa Anas to chill already so I can fix the shingles on my roof and open my fridge to see what is still good. Also can THE FUCKING FIRES STOP ALREADY REEEEEEE
No. 2341857
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Shit i think the stray cat i sometimes feed was having a medical emergency. I tried to get close to her but she ran away. I live in a shithole and there arent any 24hs vets available and i dont know how to catch her either. I am so concerned, she was leaking a transparent discharge and was panting. She managed to climb the chair necessary to run out of my window so at least she wasnt completly exhausted. I hope shes fine, i think she just had kittens because she was really round before and now she looks normal again. I pray she's okay and with her kittens if she had them.
No. 2341866
>>2341859at first i was like "but what if it makes me sad when he kills himself" but now im 90% sure i hate him enough to feel good about his potential suicide
it's a weird feeling isn't it
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I have food poisoning, I have a very heavy period and I’m horny as fuck.
Why am I being punished this way.
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>>2341864We have a lyrics thread but thanks for broadening the age demo here
No. 2341917
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Not being able to find other women into the same stuff as me IRL is quite upsetting. My fault for having autistic moid-infested hobbies and interests kek, but I still wish a single woman would (magically) appear amongst all the troons. Time to normiemaxx.
No. 2341924
>>2341908thank you and I hope you do too, living with shitty moids sounds even worse than living underneath them
>>2341916it would be nice if that happened, or at the very least if investors and companies were forbidden from buying houses…
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>>2341743>>2341751>>2341752Thanks nonnas! :) I had a nap and woke up to your messages and they made me feel a lot better. I think I’ll keep painting, but I’m planning to order kits and paints to my house when I need them instead of going into the GW shop. I think there’s a local model shop in my town too, so maybe I’ll brave that when I’m feeling up to it…? Fuck that moid, anyway. I really believe male nerds to be worse than any stereotypical chad at this point.
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I'm so jealous of people who had high achieving parents who encouraged them in their interests or to do well and get high achievements. Not only were my parents neglectful and abusive, but after my father died in my early teens my mom made sure to purposefully tell me how worthless school is and how every job in the entire world blows ass and you might as well stay a cashier for forever because this is all there is. That there really is nothing better than living the slacker lifestyle because anything you do is just going to go wrong and blow up in your face. Anything I wanted to do that required skills? Don't bother, you're not going to get anywhere anyway. You'll never continue with it, It's too hard. I now know It's because she was codependent on me and needed me to fill the void my abusive father had left behind for her.
This was after being bullied from an early age and doing poorly in school all my life. It sucks now at my age having to either start actually trying or putting a gun in my mouth.
No. 2342063
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I feel completely unable to attach emotionally to people within an "acceptable" period of time. Dating since I broke up with my ex has been a nightmare because it seems like everyone expects you to click immediately, the main reason it worked with my ex was because we had 6 months of communication before meeting. I'm sick of being a social retard but I want to be alone but I don't want to be alone and I'm so lonely but I like to isolate. What the fuck brain.
Just got the "I don't feel like we connected sorrrryy" message from a woman I've been talking to for a month. I don't even feel like I can call someone my friend until I've known them half a year. How do people do it? I don't click with people immediately. It's so rare for me that it's happened maybe twice. I'm going to be alone forever.
No. 2342064
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>Meet moid at Uni
>Completely my type
>We start talking
>He starts to go really hot and cold with me but he’s been having family issues so I let it slide
>Not sure if he’s just friendly but is very attentive to me
>We have a ton in common and same sense of humor
>All go out one night and he flirts with me the whole time
>Messages me the entire break
>Turns out he’s been seeing someone and is STILL seeing her
REEEEEEE I’m so tired of this we’ve been getting to know each other since at least October and he’s just been leading me on the whole time. I really thought we had a connection but obviously not. I blocked him on social media I was so upset.
No. 2342079
Someone left a box with a bunch of puppies at my door. It is always the same shit every year, why waste money fixing the dogs when they could spend on stupid parties with family they can't stand and new iphones. Inb4 loads of assumptions, you bet I am fucking right, I know these types, I wasted years of my life taking care of other people's mistakes but in the end it makes no difference and I am exhausted. People think we have some kind of obligation and someone spread around we get government money for taking care of these dogs when such thing doesn't exist. The government don't hand money like that, and the government doesn't care about the animals unless it's some serious public health concern they can't hide, and they barely give money/resources to the organs responsible for that, they only come alive when it's election time, then everyone loves dogs. Fuck them. Sometimes I just wish I could shoot each of these fuckers, everytime I hear "take my dog, you have a ton, one more makes no difference right?" I wanna punch them to death. Yes it fucking makes a difference, it's another mouth to feed, it is another life to take care of and to give attention, it's money that would be going somewhere going to an emergency because you assholes always abandon these animals in the worst condition ever. All that care for these dogs comes out of my family's wallet, no "government help", what the fuck, how do they come up with that kind of bullshit? Plus whats with the impecable logic "you have lots, 1 more makes no difference", maybe you shouldn't be getting any pets if you can't take care of them, stupid fuck, that's as simple as it gets.
Can't wait to move out this hellhole, it's a place where they leave pittbulls walking around free, abandon defenseless puppies and kittens or elderly animals in boxes and plastic bags like trash, and there is also the fucking gypsies that have a scrotelet known of torturing puppies and cats, and they also kill dogs in the most horrible way when they get fed up with them so their entire family is putrid. The boy tried to kill himself the other day but sadly he survived. Fuck this town and everyone that lives here.
No. 2342090
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The washer went out again. I managed to get it working after taking the sheets out, scooping the water out, and messing with the agitator. I'm paranoid it's going to die. I don't want a new one.
No. 2342153
>>2342149Sorry
nonnie this made me kek out loud. Hope the storm passes soon
No. 2342262
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>see sexy pic of my husbando on Google
>Click link
>It redirects me to Pinterest
>Nice.jpg
>Lurk for more sexy stuff
>Praying they don't ship him with old men
>Old men yaoi everywhere
>more old men yaoi
>even more old men yaoi
>mfw
Disappointing, played out, gross, tiresome. Fuck you all tbh
No. 2342367
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>>2342365Get a bag of these
No. 2342441
>>2342396I feel this
nonnie it's really painful especially when people around you are acting like everyone has a family support system and that you're just like them.
No. 2342508
>>2339983thank you
nonnie, drinking hot beverages and taking deep breaths
and journaling and a couple of pills for my depression stomach-ache has actually helped me quite a bit even if it sounds kind of dumb.
No. 2342514
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>>2342473i'm very sure that anons saying that kind of shit are baiting and/or just generally very evil. it's not the norm, don't worry
nonnie, i actually feel exactly the same way about romance and get bummed out if i overthink about how loyalty seems to be perceived negatively for some reason.
No. 2342538
>>2342496NTAYRT I interact with them on other topics that aren't related to troonism, and grey rock them when they bring the topic up themselves. Not all friends need to be all-purpose multi-duty, plenty are around by circumstance or mainly for a hobby.
I agree that a gendie for a best friend is not great though, I hope that anon finds saner people that are better friends.
No. 2342548
>>2342473what you want is not wrong, nor is it
impossible but romantic prospects for straight women are insanely bleak rn. truly the only datable men are ones who dont watch porn (>1% of all men certainly) so you are better off sticking romantic relationships all the way to the back of your mind. companionship from men should be the lowest priority on your totem pole and maybe one day you will be pleasantly surprised.
No. 2342549
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i gotta clean my whole house on my day off when all i wanna do is nothing at all
No. 2342579
>>2342496AYRT, we're both just major losers really (she has big theater kid energy and i'm boring and have trouble relating to other people). we connected over music and being friendless nerds in hs who started going out and drinking in college. my uni is also artsy and liberal with lots of gendies, so being a
terf is a major taboo here. our friendship is exhausting sometimes since she's very self-centered and we get on each other's nerves when we spend too much time together, but we are loyal to each other and i prefer non-ideal friendship than none at all.
No. 2342715
>>2342693Anon, no offense, but it
is kind of embarrassing to be in this "uwaa I hate you but please never leave my life" situation as an adult. Please just distance yourself from him for the sake of your mental health before you do something stupid.
No. 2342720
>>2342699>wife materialWhat is that supposed to be anyway? It sounds like a
toxic thing to say. Does it mean NEEDING to be able to cook, have children, clean up after him constantly, and in general have every socially expected feminine characteristic he can think of? Alot of these, like not cooking, can either be compromised or simply accepted as being incompatible with the lifestyle you want and the personal preferences you have. It does not mean no one would be willing to marry you. Your ex sounds like a backwards-thinking prick.
No. 2342782
>>2342775Nta but I'm happy for you
nonny, I'm always glad to hear nigels like that exist. I have a few girl friends who have very nice boyfriends but the only problem is they are all seriously ugly and I have no idea how my friends are attracted to them. I kinda wish I could overlook physical appearance like them too because it seems like attractiveness and good personality are negatively correlated
No. 2342879
>>2342814>I feel like I will meet moids and click really well with them, have interesting conversations and banter, and a lot of chemistry but they always just shut me out.Because they see you as a potential opportunity until they don't anymore. Hence they discard you when they get a girlfriend, or if they ever found out you were dating someone. You're projecting good-natured qualities of how women treat others (re: like human beings) when moids don't really view women in that way, they're putting you in boxes of 'interested' versus 'not interested.' They will admit this. That's why you don't trust a scrote with too many female friends because he sees them as a source of validation at best. Remember that men will accuse women of doing what they do, the reason why they hate when women have male friends is because they are thinking you have the same mindset as they do and will monkeybranch at the soonest availability.
This happened to me recently, don't sink too much of your emotional energy into these vampires. See them for what they are.
No. 2342923
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>washing the dishes
>"stop washig the dishes i'll do it myself"
>not washing the dishes
>"why didn't you wash the dishes you fucking parasite why am i even feeding you you never do anything around the house"
>have already washed a huge pile of dishes, left a teabag in the sink because i was exhausted by the end of it and forgot to throw it away
>"are you retarded anon??? who did you leave that for anon?? for ME? for ME to clean up after you? you never finish anything you can't do anything right you are so lazy i'm so sick of you"
if i ever move out i'm getting a dishwasher
No. 2342960
>>2342951Okay so everyone on lc has dated someone like that. So you don't have to be embarrassed. You also know the vast (
VAST) majority of moids are fucked up in exactly this way, so you made the error of thinking this one is not (and you were wrong) we've all done that. The way he treated you is typical so he is common and replaceable. That's really it anon. The rest is in your head and part of an addiction pattern so you'll have to break it with something new and useful
No. 2342964
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WHY DO I KEEP GETTING HICCUPS SEVERAL TIMES A WEEK WHAY THE FUCK IS HAPPENING IM GONNA SNAP I JUST JUST WANNA SLEEP MAKE IT STOP AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
No. 2342967
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I ruined my life thanks to the horrible decisions I've made. I'm only 24 and I have no hope of ever being independent. I went to uni but because I was extremely sick the entire time, and on a wait list for treatment, I didn't work or intern. Also I hated my major but just want to uni because everyone told me to. I got a shitty useless degree unless I go back to school. I don't want to fucking go back to school. I might if i had a job to sustain myself while studying but guess what I DON'T. So now I'm recovered, have a degree, ready to start my life and … oh! I can't! I should've fucking worked in university but I didn't. And I've had no one to guide me. My parents are boomers, my dad has worked 30+ years in his industry, my mom is a stay at home parent, my only sibling passed away (and worked retail forever because he, too, didn't have someone to guide him). I have no other family to help. No friends. I regret things so much I think I should just off myself because what value do I really have? I hate living with my parents, but I can't even get a retail job. I've tried, I got 1 interview and they gave me the good ol' "we'll call you back and let you know" which is a no. I feel completely worthless because all I've ever been is a student. I can't be a student forever when what I want is to work and take over my own life like an adult. I'd go back and get a better degree if fucking mcdonalds or walmart or amazon would take me but either they have no openings or they ignore/reject me. I genuinely feel completely worthless. I have skills, but no experience to show it, I'm apparently not even good enough for retail. I'm ready to die but I know I have so much more potential but how can I ever show that potential??? It's impossible, I'm miserable.
Anyways don't be retarded like me, I'm just a fucking moron who was expected to figure out her whole life at the age of 18 and then got fucked by my health. Every opportunity stolen from me but I could've done something to prevent it… I didn't.
No. 2343005
>>2342967You’re 24, you don’t need to be this panicked. Like
>>2342986 said consider entering your fathers field because you already have an in. Given you’re living with your parents, relatively young and have gone to college you’re in a prime position to get your life on track. Start volunteering, take advantage of a stable home to study more and look for work even if just so you have a record/something to do.
No. 2343016
>>2343005>>2342986He's in the medical field at a military hospital, I'd only qualify for a receptionist job, and it seems they never hire there (if they do they hire ex-military mostly, he just got lucky and knew the right people all those years ago).
I really should just go back to school and do some kind of medical work like surgical tech. Or get a teaching cert. I know there's so much time left with being young but everyone around me has great, comfy jobs in offices even if they're not high positions. Or they just work retail and I can't even get that. It's not hopeless yet I just wish I could pick up something part time while I go back to school to do something better.
Though I really didn't think of my dad being a potential in, if I went medical I guess it might work out, so thank you nonnies for the insight on that
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I slept until almost 6pm today. I went to bed a little later than usual but not that much later to explain why I slept for so long. I am at the tail end of my period so maybe that has something to do with it. I’m so disoriented
No. 2343073
Men love priding themselves on how strong and resilient they are but the second anything happens to bring them down even just a little bit, they want to drag everyone down with them.
>depressed men
Narcissists. Everything becomes an ego game to them and they manipulate you at every turn to try to prove why you're an idiot if you're not as delusional as them about the state of things. They look down on you for NOT being depressed and will try to convince you to be. They will whittle you down to nothing and a sizeable portion of them will either threaten suicide or lash out in a bipolar sperg rage and try to hurt you when they feel victimized.
>sick men
It doesn't even matter if it's just a minor cold, they're going to make it your problem, whine every second of the day, and most likely get you sick because they have no sense of personal space and boundaries. They also do anything they can to try to force you to take care of them regardless of how busy you already are, and they're definitely not going to tell you thank you because they think, because you're a woman, it's a given that it's your job to act like their mom. The second YOU get sick, you need to quit whining and acting like a baby, it's annoying, grow up, also the dishes need to be washed.
>traumatized men
Doesn't matter what you do, you'll always be deserving of being treated like human garbage because of their "trauma." He's ignoring you? It's his trauma, can't help it. He screamed at you? It's his trauma, can't help it. He threatened you? It's his trauma, can't help it. If they have mommy issues, just go ahead and run, because, no matter what he says, he will resent you for being a woman and project his mom onto you in every moment of stress, which means you're always going to be the bad guy even if he's the one hurting you.
>insecure men
The most self-obsessed of all. Everything they do and say is engineered to bring everyone around them down as much as possible to lift themselves up. They will alienate you from others with fake stories and petty insults, they will lie about themselves to look better, and everything you do will feel like a personal threat to them and their sense of self.
No. 2343115
>>2343102Is there any overlap between your hobbies that you could work on? Even if there isn't, you could do, say, 20 minutes of disciplined work on one hobby and 15 minutes of messing around and having fun with it. Or you could plan an ambitious project that's way beyond your current skill level and work up to that. Victorian glassblowers were encouraged by their employers to spend time working on elaborate personal projects because they vastly improved the glassblower's skill, and forced them to become more creative and efficient with their craft. Same thing applies to you. Break down the steps and work on them one at a time until you get to a point where you're skilled enough to complete a fun project that you can enjoy working on.
It's wonderful that you have so many hobbies. I hope they continue to bring you joy.
No. 2343130
>>2343115i actually do have a creative project interest in mind that incorporates a few hobbies/interest. ive just been hesitant to break too much ground because one, i discredited the presence of the secondary hobby aligned components and allowed the primary one involved to eclipse them, and two, just busy with obligations, heh. maybe a good start is doing the dedicated time for that and not upsetting myself because i am not focused on the other hobbies (aside from two physical ones i can split time in between!)
i also want to mention that it made my entire evening, for you to respond with such genuine advice and encouragement. i have spent much of my birthday beating myself up, but now i don’t feel so ridiculous for my passions and i have some lovely advice to boot.
No. 2343179
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nonnies this is my pure crashout. if you marry a moid but his family is stupid with money please don't marry him. he can be the most supportive and protective man in the world but fighting off his dumb fucking family all the time isn't worth it. when you marry a man you marry his problems and you are not the fucking exception heed my warning. i need to get this off my chest before we have a discussion over our tax returns again because his family had him claim his sisters kid so she would get money back since she's unemployed.
go easy on my rage I come from a poor and abusive household too but even I have my limits.
I don't give a fuck about single moms I am so fucking fed up with how entitled they are. how fucking stupid they are with money. out here having 6 kids and nagging at me to get the return done because you need the money, when you should've kept your legs closed. even when I was so fucking neglected and had nothing I never made the dumbest decision of having a child. his family is so fucking stupid and hopeless. they are so fucking stupid I can't stand it sometimes. they go out to eat, buy stupid cheap shit at discount stores all the time that no one needs, get pets they can't afford, one is getting a degree but it's USELESS. you are all so poor and retarded and your one college student can't even get a degree that guarantees financial stability. and I know when we start our careers they'll just beg and beg like roaches. leeches of the system just popping out kids and asking their more stable sibling and his wife for money while never changing their situation. never taking any consistent jobs it's always contract work that pays so good, until there are no jobs and you spent the money buying your dumb fucking kids new phones. I hate stupid people so much I never thought I was very smart, I think I'm average. but these people are so stupid, so pathetic. I hate it I hate it so much I hate this city it's filled with people like this. this city is a cesspool of filth and decay. the same hopeless fucking losers breeding like rabbits. now I see why the corporate person looks at me and treats me like vermin for I've stepped back and seen vermin every where I go on the streets that the people who are able to escape look down on. I fucking hate everything about being poor, but I hate poor people who destroy their own future and ambitions even more. you are a waste of space. only looking for quick fixes instead of sticking it out for the long run. I hate the impatience I hate the weakness
No. 2343305
>>2342747>he actually has a well paying job, but he grew up as a poorfag doing everything for himself so he has some sort of aversion towards people he deems as "spoiled" and "entitled" cause they didn't work hard like himThere are people who used to be spoiled/entitled poorfags that still worked hard to teach themselves everything they weren't taught growing up. I was one of those. I just had the misfortune of growing up with a mother that was extremely neglectful in teaching me any kind of life skills and independence. People's childhood isn't their fault and they don't choose their parents. What matters is whether they're making the effort in adulthood.
>he wants a woman who is as much into grinding life as he isGrind culture is a meme, but whatever. He should just find that then. You don't have to burn yourself out for moids with high expectations.
>cause obviously his career doesn't give him much free time for thatHe would have then just used his job as an excuse to not be around you, like alot of moids do..because trad married moids like to be all "wife bad", preferring to see their wives as something to just put up with rather than love.
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>>2343323Things will get better anon. You'll see
No. 2343358
>>2343179Maybe the poor leeches are onto something considering they're not the ones stressing.
I mean this unironically. Some of the most irresponsible people who don't care seem to lead the most cozy lives. Tbh, I'm in so much debt that I'm starting to adopt the same mentality, and it's definitely not for my lack of trying or not retaining employment or not following the "rules." It feels like more of an imaginary problem as long as you live in a country where they cannot incarcerate/execute you for it.
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>>2343405>some of them were femcels>some of them were gs lebians>and some of them were bpds who helped the moid develop a parasocial personality by reinforcing that behaviourftfy anon, find your place
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really wish this site/my favorite thread(s) wasnt so slow. maybe i shouldnt use it as an honest substitute for human interaction. i just really like it here
No. 2343421
>>2342924as another nona said a lot of women had this experience and you shouldn't beat yourself up over it
i've been there and had an obsession with a shitty guy for almost 3 years, it took me a while to get over it (3 year is embarrassingly long, but i think it has to do with how slow my life is moving), but i did get there so don't give up
here's a few things that helped me :
- realize that this guy is just another human being, he's not all that special, you can't see it yet because you're caught up with your feelings for him, but keep telling yourself that he's just a regular loser, it'll sink in eventually. do not try to find eerie or mastermind explanations for what he did, try to think of the simplest most normie explanation.
- stop looking for men to fix your life. people don't fix or make your life better, people attach themselves to an already good life you'd have built yourself. if you have a life you're not satisfied of, men will just try to use that to manipulate you and get their way. find a way to feel consistently happy and satisfied with your life and people will want to be part of it
- forgive yourself for being foolish, and consider that you could not have known without going through it (which is also why unfortunately a lot of girls have a loser shitty ex). stop painting yourself as a
victim of an abuser (even if you kind of were) and take agency. you needed that experience, you got it from him, it didn't go in your favour, that's okay. it happens to everyone.
- don't ruminate about the sexual boundary violations. i know it's hard but it just makes you think about him more. you'll process that later, for now the priority is to stop obsessing over him.
- meet new people. easier said than done, but the sooner you find someone else to think about, the better. besides trying to find a replacement, it also shows you how normal good people would treat you and you'll feel stupid for accepting shitty behaviour.
No. 2343423
>>2343416it's a nice blend of non normie but not completely degenerate
i wish we could find a way to bring more people without shitting up the website
No. 2343496
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>when you think you've found a perfect vanilla Nigel who respects you and doesn't want to degrade you but he casually 'jokes' about forming a sex dungeon in a future living situation to be kinky and whip him
No. 2343516
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Saw a 15 year old cat up for adoption and it broke my heart. She was either surrendered because her owner passed away, or given up due to her medical problems becoming too expensive or involved to treat. Older kitties have such a hard time being adopted already but seeing her makes me so sad, I’m sure she’s a great cat. I’m going to hug on my elderly boy a bit more tonight to make myself feel better I guess…
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>>2343605It's funny how men will make these jokes, and yet
every single time Twitter pickme #2385730 is revealed to be a disingenuous clout chaser they act like it's a huge revelation and betrayal kek
No. 2343613
>>2343605it's pretty gross tbh
imagine a girl being like "we really need to do something about male suicide statistics. here's my onlyfans btw"
(actually it'd work because that's how gross they are but you know)
No. 2343619
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>get into new series
>fandom is filled with minors who don’t know anything about basic media literacy
>no valuable discussions or insights despite the series being ripe for it
>fanart isn’t even that good
I would complain about having to do everything myself but the last thing I want to do is hang out and make content for kids. Ugh.
No. 2343620
>>2343613That's
literally what the OF girls do kek
No. 2343742
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>november
>start dating mutual friend of an ex
>taken off my feet bc he is hot and in a band and we have mutual hobbies etc
>could tell he was kinda aloof tho and figured he was probably talking to other women
>does something during sex which gives me the ick
>gets more sparse with messages
>his last message to me was him going off about responsibilities and worklife balance
>send a friendly VM back saying how I understand and that he's gotta do what he's gotta do
>he leaves it on read and never reaches out to me again despite having me added on socials
>I don't chase him
>NYE
>posting pictures of me dating someone else and enjoying the holidays
>this idiot messages me again and tries to blame me indirectly that he "never heard back from me" but assumed "I had my reasons" even though I left a whole ass VM he pretended to not receive
>aka he got dumped on nye KEK
>I don't respond and enjoy my new date now
I love how I handled this, honestly.
No. 2343764
Preface: I love my mom and she’s great, she’s also an immigrant to give a bit of context. We also live in Europe.
My friend recently came out as bi and she’s currently dating this girl; I met them last weekend and she was really lovely and they match each other quite well, I’m also glad she left her shitty boyfriend kek.
I’m mostly questioning right now since I’ve never had any experiences with women but I think I am bi, I’ve been trying dating apps but unsuccessfully; I’ll be going to a local gay bar next week, hoping to not meet only faggots and trannies (although my city is not full of them, I’ve just seen a TIF while here).
Anyway I tried opening the conversation about it with my mom a day ago and told her that my friend was now dating a woman, in order to gauge her reaction kek. She was somehow neutral..ish I guess, she just said that it isn’t natural and that children nowadays are doing strange things that she can’t understand and she also said that lesbians are promiscuous so my friend should be careful kek to which I retorted that it’s gay men who act like dogs!
I asked her if she would be annoyed or weirded out if I brought back home another woman, but she said that once I start with women I’ll never leave them for a man since the dynamic is different and that I should at least find a nice scrote first (I never had a boyfriend, just some dates here and there and only had sex once). So overall weird, but not bad, giving our culture.
No. 2343775
>>2343730I’m sorry nonna. I’d like to tell you that it gets easier but in reality the older you get the harder it is to make friends.
Maybe some clubs? I would not suggest workplace though.
Having someone, not even a best friend or anything, but just having someone who is willing to listen to you from time to time, support you and go out with is really nice. I don’t have a relationship, but I have good friends other than my mother and I don’t feel as lonely as I would if I had no one, despite desiring romance from time to time.!
No. 2343777
>>2343742Having self respect shouldn’t be something to praise but nowadays it is kek. I wish more women were like you and left at the first sign of bullshit, it would save them a lot of heartache.
Kuddos nonna, have fun with your new date.
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(schizo spiritual vent) but i swear nature spirits/fae/whatever they are, stole my underwear yesterday and it made me super depressed. my life is already going to shit at the beginning of the year and losing my few good pairs of underwear made me really sad but i swear i think it was nature spirits trolling me
>underwear literally in my hand
>places clothes on top of the dryer to get a pad
>underwear is suddenly gone
>immediately upset
>mom tries to help me find it/maybe i left it in her room
>moving the dryer and washer around to see if anything there
>only pairs of socks
>super upset and sad
>texts the moid relative who lives with us if he was in the laundry room while i was showering
>no
>im the type to think everybody is against me so i don’t really believe it and im worried he took it out of there
>goes to sleep without eating just want to go to sleep super exhausted from being outside
>i stg i shit you not the underwear was somehow in the BACK of the dryer with the two black socks even though I looked there and it was only two socks there
>??????????
>did tarot reading
>kept getting the fool which really gives big fae energy, death reversed, six of swords reversed and even cards like two of cups basically saying “no no haha just forget about what you accidentally lost” but also something about trading for a lost item
this shit makes me sick to my stomach sometimes, i hate knowing these things exist
No. 2343838
>>2343806>>2343833I lost my airpods the other day just as I was leaving the house. When I got home they were perfectly centred in the middle of my desk (which I had turned upside down looking for them)
I definitely have an airpod fairy
No. 2343846
>>2343833You might not believe they exist but they can do that, they move shit around while laughing at you because they’re irl trolls. it’s even better that they’re invisible and also prey on the fact that most people think they’re nonexistent so they can just take shit and move it around and then put it back in the same place
>>2343838Kekk they love moving stuff around, taking them, some might not even give it back to you or help you get it back like what happened to me. there’s definitely spirits inside peoples houses but that’s just my beliefs ig
No. 2343874
>>2343860When I lose something, I ask fairies to please return it to me and then I find it.
I think it only works though because thinking about fairies lets me take a break from freaking out about finding something, and then I realize it was in front of me the whole time.
No. 2343876
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>going to university again at 29
>being surrounded by people aged 18-20
>having to regularly do group work with these fresh out of school kids
The immaturity drives me insane. Absolutely zero communication skills. Zero sense of responsibility. I'm seriously considering shutting myself off completely the next year to finish my bachelor's in double or even triple the speed.
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>>2343876But if I say uni students are retarded I’m in the wrong?
No. 2343929
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>>2343914Not cringe at all. I'd ship you and your sapient sword nonna
also I loved Soul Eater too. Liz and Patty were the best. No. 2343943
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>>2343929kek this made me smile thank you. ABA from guilty gear is also another character i like with this trait
>>2343921ive only watched like 3 anime in the past 5 years so, idk.
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I don't understand how I've grown up as such a shameful person, I'm always shy and afraid of looking like a fool. My mother and siblings are all extroverts with no shame at all, and they always express such freedom in being themselves. But me? I always feel restrained in my own body and always scared of getting judged. Maybe it's because I lack the "it" factor the rest of my family has, because they are the kind that people always take notice of and respect them whenever they enter the room, while I've always been the wallflower without much presence to speak of and easily forgotten. Maybe that's why boomer gen immigrants love me so much?
But still, I wish I wasn't this restrained by myself. Maybe if I wasn't maybe I would have let myself follow my unexplored love for any sorts of arts. But I keep restraining myself and giving up, despite the absolute high I get from going to great dance/theatre/art shows. I am my own enemy in this, but I am completely unable to get around this mental obstacle of mine.
No. 2343986
>>2343970You just need to get blood work done, it isn’t even complicated, it’s easier than the ultrasound kek.
She should have searched for antibodies (both celiac and even lactose intolerance) along with the breath test, she could have saved you lots of time by now.
Your doctor is a retard, I’m sorry nonna. Anyway good luck nonna, don’t give up.
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It feels like the only way to get a constant source of social contact is a relationship. I love being single. I love being independent. But I seriously consider dating just to have someone that is forced to talk to me regularly.
GOD all I want is a strong independent single girl best friend that doesn't have 20 other friends and chats and hangs out with me regularly. I want us to consume each other's souls. I want us to have an extreme urge to tell each other about everything, every little thing that happens during the day. 100% sure I'm a candidate for folie à deux, just need the right (or wrong… however you see it) person for it.
No. 2343997
>>2343948Been there. Let yourselef feel everything that comes your way–shame, anger, grief–but don't forget that it's not your fault and he's the one who lied to you. I'm sorry
nonnie. We are here for you.
No. 2344022
>>2344018He once told me "crying solves nothing"
So I compared it when he screams and rages when he loses at games. It doesn't do anything, but it vents out all that extra emotion. They lack so much empathy that you have to compare situations and they still wont get it.
No. 2344024
I want to be happy right now but I woke up extremely late
and missed Sand Skirmish for the 3rd time in a row and my parents are fighting and everything's so loud, and I start the semester tomorrow… I wish I could just quit everything and sleep for 2 months sometimes
>>2344008I do the same thing
nonnie. It helps sometimes just to whinge and complain, but I know in the end I'll pull through and be fine. Your boyfriend should be more understanding
No. 2344025
I know I have issues with clothe collecting, but I don't think it's that bad. I have 1 storage box of shoes, 1 storage box of old clothes I keep for memories, and 1 box of clothes for summer (or winter). I cannot use the full closet I own (2 drawers are my Nigel's, 2 are mine, and we store clothes equally on top with a bucket in the middle for his socks since he has a specific kind he likes; I do use the thin sock drawer, but I used to share his and he didn't like it, hence my own drawer and his own bucket). There is a vacuum stored in it, and an art drawer, so I can't really use the racks to their full potential. My nigel has some of his clothes, too, on the racks, but he doesn't have as many as mine. He has 3 full underbed storage boxes himself. There is an additional storage box full of lingerie, but I don't count that for myself, I consider it a shared box.
I also have one of these hanging box organizers in the closet which allows me extra space to store clothes. Please note this isn't a master bedroom sized closet, it's a normal room sized closet.
I do have some clothes from my childhood at my parents' as well.
Anyway, I guess I feel like I don't actually have an insane amount of clothes considering how much I love clothing, especially given I have an equal amount in storage as my nigel (though granted I have more closet space due to the hanging organizer; however, space is taken up by the vacuum and the art drawer). I guess I technically have more in amount since I own tiny tops and such, but in volume, it is pretty equal. I feel like I'm by no means a hoarder or even close to that level yet. Idk.
No. 2344026
>>2344004you'd like to think nitpicking over yourself is about insecurity, when in most cases it's actually vain narcissism
what you need to figure out is what exactly you're expecting from others by looking attractive to them, and why you think you could only get it this way
No. 2344029
>>2344022Yup, also they think of us as over-emotional and hysteric for simply crying but men are almost always quick to rage, scream, and break things, yet they still pride themselves in being "logical and calm" kek. I'm convinced that if BPD diagnoses weren't so tied to misogyny that men would certainly be the ones more diagnosed with it. They're free to be as unstable and unhinged as they want without anyone ever calling them insane for it, but the second a woman sheds some tears, she's crazy. Now I'm just ranting kek.
Maybe try to bring up to your bf sometime in a moment where you're not crying that you need space and understanding during those moments instead of instant suggestions and "solutions", they really need it spelled out for them sometimes.
No. 2344032
>>2344026i dont fit the traits of a vain narcissist kek but thanks
nonnie?
No. 2344056
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I once dated a guy who looks like the tiktok "striking face" filter. Everyone was saying how handsome he was because he's 6'5, but I def didn't date him for his looks. The nerve of this guy to call me ugly when I use to model.
He came off as that cute harmless nerd type. Turned out to be a raging narcissist.
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autistic people are literally being mass exterminated eugenics-style by the trans ideology and theres nothing i can do about it.
No. 2344106
>>2344102i have no idea what youre trying to say here
>>2344104i would say cutting their life short with hormones, giving them disabilities with psychotic experimental surgeries and removing their ability to reproduce is pretty much extermination. but i guess yeah its not technically extermination but thats how i see it in my head
No. 2344117
>>2344116He is a whore, the fuck is he doing posting pictures without a shirt on? May as well create an onlyfans for him at this point.
The issue with moids is that they think they don't need to be decent at all and that they can post whatever they want, being shirtless is inherently sexual.
No. 2344122
>>2344117Honestly maybe I shouldn't have posted here because now I feel validated.
If he did this to me I'd see it as controlling and I'd be pissed. He said he wouldn't stop me if I did it (although he's happy I don't), but feels it's different for him because he's not a woman and won't get the attention I might.
I went on to tell him that he'd be happier without me and maybe I should die which was not the ideal response but kek. Maybe he deserved it.
No. 2344125
>>2344122>I went on to tell him that he'd be happier without me and maybe I should die Meds please
nonny. And i'd question his character if he doesn't break up with you here kek maybe crazy women turn him on which is a red flag
No. 2344146
>>2344125>>2344136I don't take meds, just therapy. Definitely a dumb move though.
He's actually more mentally ill than I am, so I think we're best together than with other people.
>>2344139I've spiralled over far less so I'm still learning what actually is a limit for me and what is just madness. I'm still not sure about this one.
He's also special to me for other reasons. Pros and cons are hard.
No. 2344159
>>2344149Self awareness is usually a good thing but when people with BPD, it sometimes comes off like psychopathic bragging, Not saying that is what OP is doing, it's just so weird to read she casually said
>I went on to tell him that he'd be happier without me and maybe I should die but isn't on meds or in a psych ward. It just seems like this would be a big deal for other people, not just another mundane part of someone's day.
No. 2344163
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Posting this for posterity and hopefully I won't regret my bf later:
>green flags
>genuinely kind and nice personality
>monogamous
>talented and has crafting skills
>reasonable disposition, we text or call every day
>romantic, intention to marry me
>pays for most dates
>solid work ethic
>wants to go on adventures with me and likes to go outside and touch grass
>not pornsick, doesn't ask me to do degrading shit like bjs
>tall, muscular, a protector
>same hobbies
>good hygiene
>share a friend group
>is moving states to be with me and our friends
>seems to put genuine effort into improving himself
>no game addiction that I am aware of
>generally optimistic and agreeable
>wants the same goals regarding future plans
>includes me in future plans in a way that seems realistic and not fake
>not an attention whore and has limited female friends
>I trust him so far
>yellow flags
>below average dick size, hopefully will improve with his body journey
>pansexual, but monogamous, still..
>his voice kind of grates me sometimes and I wish it were deeper
>sometimes he is too much of a doormat for our mutual's shenanigans and I fear their influence over him as he is a loyalist to the core
>red flags
>limited fashion sense, can be scary in dress appearance to people who don't know him
>has a bad job which I am helping him fix by hiring him to work in my company when he moves here
>but he has few monies…didn't seem like he had plans to fix it until he met our group and me
>shit car which hopefully he fixes too
No. 2344167
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>>2343806This stopped happening to me when I started believing in God so it's prob demons
No. 2344183
>>2344166I have. He had some dumb pornish memes saved. Nothing that really sent me though, even I peruse porn from time to time as long as he isn't lying or compulsive about it where it causes our relationship issues.
Thankfully a BPDemon twink was an asshole towards him before he got together with me, and then the faggot tried to beg for him back after he rejected bf kek. I figure this is an experience I can play a narrative off of if I suspect he'd be straying for a man…although it would make him a fool.
>>2344170He's losing weight. I read that guys who drop weight can sometimes get some length back. The girth is fine, the length is kinda meh. He fingers pretty well and the rest I get off on emotionally.
>>2344173 Eh he's tall so it kinda balances him whereas if he were a manlet he would be pretty screwed.
No. 2344184
>>2344163Lost me at pansexual but good luck to you
nonny I hope he's hot at least
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>>2344183>even I peruse porn from time to timenonnie…
No. 2344192
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>>2344191I know. Not often though.
No. 2344240
>>2344163""Pansexual"" (bifaggot who fucks trannies) is an absolute red flag
nonnie please
>>2344183>already had an ex-bfsweet
nonnie nonnie…
No. 2344245
>>2344240My pussy is homophobic as hell kek, if a scrote dabbles with assholes or gets it from the back I just feel viscerally disgusted and I can’t take them seriously.
Love the LGB though, love is love, just not for my pussy nonnas.
No. 2344250
>>2344227yeah i was thinking about doing that if im being honest. he was going on about how eating meat is basically the same thing as condoning cat calling / assault ?? And saying that me not being able to cut out food groups due to an eating disorder in the past is an excuse ??
>>2344232i just wish there was someone inbetween because it seems like all of these guys are extremist in either direction
No. 2344254
>>2344240I've already fished gendercrit around him and he agrees that trans is stupid. He's never fucked a guy before and I did ask him specifically about the twink. I questioned him about where it would have gone if he did make out with the twink and he basically admitted he didn't think it through. It's mentally ill twinks I might need to worry about but he is painfully loyal to a fault sooooo I'm really hoping it's a non-issue. Tbh I trust that more at the moment rather than straight men who would cheat on me with other women. Generally, men are opportunists so I feel like if he isn't really hanging out with other fruits alone then I am in the safe zone.
>>2344243Wellllll I got weight and financial issues too so I feel it's hypocritical of me. He isn't balding so there's that and I find his facial features quite attractive–hence he attracted twinks to begin with.
All he's gotta do is workout a trite more and drop a bit of belly. He's not a bad looking guy and I mean that as someone who's usually first to call a psyop.
No. 2344262
>>2344256? You don't have to reply to it anon, don't give the post attention if you don't want to.
>>2344258Yes. I trust him so far. Our friend group I mentioned is sex positive there would be no reason for him to lie.
>>2344259Anon I don't even know why pansexuals call themselves pansexuals kek idgi either but all that matters to me is that he's never fucked a guy or has done anything with dick before.
No. 2344266
>>2344250I would double down if you feel like trolling him and say that he actually
triggered your ED right now and that he’s a massive ableist.
No. 2344267
>>2344263He's just different and is telling the truth about it. He doesn't seem like the one to betray and holds pretty severe loyalty principles. I don't see it happening but I'll never say never.
>>2344265We were friends for a year before we decided to date and he technically told them first which is how I know. I know you guys aren't privy to all the details but some of the males in our group are absolutely depraved so if he had been like them then that word would have gotten around as they bonded. He's genuinely sweet, when he had all the choice in the world to act depraved up until this point.
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>>2344267>some of the males in our group are absolutely depraved so if he had been like themI wish I was this naive sometimes. You know the saying right?
No. 2344291
>>2344285damn, sorry
nonnie. Have you tried drinking some flaxseed? Maybe that will help
No. 2344303
>>2344296Kek anon I'm not close buddies with them and I'm more friends with the females in my group.
But still, if we are guilty by associations then the logic would say I'm just as retarded about gender and sex as they are which I am definitely not.
No. 2344311
>>2344307She’s not making any sense nonna, let her be. Her Nigel pinky promised that he never even saw the dick of another man and that he hates trannies too. That’s enough for her.
Maybe he’s getting passed around by the depraved men in the friend group kek.
No. 2344321
>>2344310Dumb emo shit. I'm really, really stuck in life and I don't know if I can progress any further.
>>2344312Thank you. I'll look it to it. I'm going to take a hot shower to see if that will help.
No. 2344328
>>2344321an ice pack helps me sometimes when the headache is from crying.
Also stuck how exactly?
No. 2344341
>>2344328I'll try that if this doesn't work. Thank you for the suggestion.
>stuck howI'm in my 20's and I'm behind my peers, I'm really worried I'm not on the path to self sufficiency and I don't know if I can get out of this hole I dug myself into.
No. 2344343
>>2344341everyone is on their own timeline
nonny, don't stress out too much over it
No. 2344384
>>2344149Likely also cluster B, we bonded over similar symptoms and not feeling fully like real people/empathy struggles/abandonment issues. His psych is more concerned with him being schizoaffective in some way (likely BP1, he was manic when we met). He's medicated now.
>>2344159>>2344168>>2344176>>2344185We've both suicide baited each other, and so has everyone I've seriously dated in some way. We're both trying to be healthy.
Unfortunately this is the norm for me, although I know it's unhealthy.
I don't fully lack empathy, but when splitting the other person is "evil" to me and so everything I do to them is right. It's childish and black and white but that's the disorder kek, I've been better at handling it with therapy but I have slip ups like today.
I feel extreme guilt when I'm back to normal.
>>2344154Thank you for this response anon.
I've since sent him messages apologizing and telling him why I'm insecure (feels like he's trying to attract sexual attention) and that I will be uncomfortable in the future if he continues to do that. It's the first time he's ever done something like this on his account.
He's respectful when I clearly communicate like this, I was so proud that I've been better at getting to the point recently. Humiliating.
No. 2344387
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>>2344377Two problems can coexist at once retard.
No. 2344389
>>2344373No one's trying to be offensive, those are my actual thoughts. Not everyone holds the same beliefs.
>>2344374If he's telling the truth then he's a spicy straight larping
No. 2344391
>>2344387See
>>2344385. You need to be having a meltdown every time an anon posts about fucking her bf.
No. 2344392
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>posters getting too autistic to detect sarcasm, shitposting
>posters taking this website way too seriously and try to make everything personal
>i don’t mind cruelty/rudeness but some threads make me laugh why are you being crazy in that thread of all places???
>still aggro as fuck and guess what? the vpn ban didn’t fix that kek almost like it’s a culture problem and not a vpn problem
what the fuck is honestly happening my sisters…
No. 2344393
>>2344384I'm sorry
nonny I know we shit a lot of bpdfags here but I know it's exhausting to feel like you're not in control of your own head. You're aware and trying to fix it which is the first few steps. I'm glad to hear you've been doing better and one slip up isn't an end all be all. I wish you best of luck
No. 2344401
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>>2344385Battling for scrotes is already pathetic, but battling for faggots is even worse kek. Your what aboutism only works on TikTok, go back.
No. 2344402
>>2344398This is for you
>>2344401. Why spoiler the image? I've seen you post it unspoilered before.
No. 2344405
>>2344397Unfortunately the bpdfags come here to waste their time and turn into shrieking tyrants kek
>>2344399How do we cure it