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No. 2437755
A thread for venting about difficult, weird, or stupid stuff going on in your life.
Previous vent thread:
>>>/ot/2425242Follow all the /ot/ board rules & do not reply to bait.
Please, do not come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you do not have anything nice to say, don't say it at all. No. 2437762
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Nice new thread, good job OP
>>2437751Glad you got everything done! Rest easy tonight road warrior.
No. 2437765
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>>2437758>>2437762My pleasure nonnies ♥
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>>2437764
>>2437773
>>2437783
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>>2437802
>Every single person, including myself, is involved in the Truman show
Oh…
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>>2437800Maybe she started this so the thread will fill up faster and she can make a new one without the description she hates so much.
No. 2437851
>>2437847You can try doing your regular workout at the gym, and then come home and plank until your body physically gives out.
Do you go to sleep and wake up at the same times every day?
No. 2437865
>>2437857If I were you, I would find a sleep time that works across the board. For example, if I need to be in bed by 8pm five days out of the week, I go to bed at 8pm all days of the week. If you have a period where you fall asleep by 9pm, make your bedtime 8 or 9. You also want to wake up at the same time every day.
Try not drinking caffeine at least 5 hours before bed, and either don't use your phone 2 hours before bed, or use a blue light filter. It's called the "eye comfort shield" on most phones, and you can download f.lux for any computers.
You can be less rigid after a while, but you need to be very strict so your body can recuperate from being so irregular.
No. 2437878
>>2437863You didn't kill yourself in 2019 because you were meant to say hi to us while you figured out what you want to do with your life.
And you're not a fail daughter, I think. Imagine being the mother of any of our cows. Imagine being
Shayna's mother. Not such a failure now, are we?
You'll be okay, anon. This episode will pass and you will look to the future with determination once more.
No. 2437881
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>>2437863anon! surely you have pets or plants that rely on you?
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>>2437783
No. 2437941
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How does anyone else cope with being dependent on family with such shitty and pickme takes? Especially when they weren't like that in the past? I need to get out of here.
No. 2437967
>>2437963Thanks
nonnie.
There's another aspect that complicates this situation, I was gonna post it in the confessions thread but might as well continue my story here. The guy she asked out and rejected her, he broke up with his gf a few months later. Then a few months after that, he asked ME out and we dated briefly before deciding that we were both too busy to entertain a real relationship. My friend does not know about this and I will never ever tell her, she would go absolutely apeshit over it, I know it. But I'm terrible at keeping secrets and it's pretty much eating me up inside.
It's been a year since he rejected her and she still shit talks him as if he did something wrong by… having a gf at the time I guess? I will take this secret to my fucking grave.
No. 2437980
>>2437967Ayrt I do get you here honestly, in my experience people like your friend (and my ex-friend) live in a world of their own and are largely oblivious to the feelings and dynamics of the people around them. There's only so much you can do to cater to what they think and feel when it's immature, not really rational and is detached from your own experiences. Your friend is perseverating over a blow to her ego, she doesn't have an emotional connection with that man.
>>2437974With this said I would avoid him if he ever shows up in your life in the future, I think the connection is kinda poisoned and doomed to fail unfortunately. He sounds cold and would probably do you dirty given the chance.
No. 2437998
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I have too many hobbies/fandoms.
And every time my period comes around I want to axe half of them.
When it's over, I feel joy and enthusiasm and pick more stuff up.
No. 2438072
>>2438060I care if you're here,
nonnie.
No. 2438083
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I shouldn't be filled with enraged jealousy every time someone I know moves back home with Mommy and Daddy as an adult but I am. My neighbors are shit, my rent is too high for the flophouse-ass hellhole I'm living in, I don't feel safe after a break-in… and I don't have the option to just leave and give up and move in with family until I have enough saved up for a year at a more expensive place. I haven't ever had that option. Moved out at eighteen and spent the ensuing decade and a half estranged and only talk to my mother occasionally now because she's fucking dying. I wish it was me. God, I wish it was me instead.
No. 2438092
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Males brag about the most pathetic shit
No. 2438116
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>>2438092Ya’ll are taking this shit too seriously. This is clearly an attempt at an autistic copypasta there’s no fucking way.
No. 2438143
>>2437902honestly I don’t think you’re alone in this feeling, I think many feel this way. Don’t give up.
>>2438017Are you wearing pants to bed?
No. 2438152
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I find it so hard right now to not fall for the blackpill. And no, I don’t wanna go to that thread, it’s full of schizo infighting and gender dysphoria kek.
It’s so disheartening to hear my peers spewing “girl power” and “sisterhood” just because they helped another woman once (usually with the smallest thing like “you’ve got lipstick on your teeth” for example), but I can tell that their “sisterhood” will cease to exist the moment a woman who isn’t participating in the status quo shows up (be it celibate, childfree, bi or les, expressing disdain towards heteronormativity, gnc, neurodivergent or just slightly weird and with different opinions). It’s all so performative.
It’s so lonely to be fair and I’m at that age where everyone I went to highschool and college with start getting married or be in ltr’s and I’m seeing my closest girlfriends become shells of their former selves and begging their nigels to be attentive to them for once. Doesn’t help that I live in a country that I can call pickme central where even the most liberal people can be quite sexist and homophobic.
I just wanna find likeminded women irl too but it seems so fucking impossible here and moving abroad will also alienate me for other reasons, I just don’t seem to ever find my place anywhere and it’s so frustrating. I feel like a passive observer in this place and in my shell it hurts.
Not to mention that I’m bi and only 3 people in my life know that, I don’t want to alienate myself further from my other friends, I know that it will change our relationship for the worse and I don’t want that to happen tbf, given how other women can react to other women who aren’t straight.
I just want a sincere hug in this moment, damn.
No. 2438158
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>>2438152It's okay, anon, I believe you will find your people eventually. For now you have us, even if some anons are fucking annoying, and that's more than a lot of gc/gnc/"alt" lifestyle women out there have.
I'm sorry you can't be more open about your sexuality as well, I'm sure that isn't helping your frustration. I'd give you a big hug if I could, keep your chin up.
No. 2438165
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I hate wide pants and I hate that my young era has them in fashion. It's not even the look of it, it's that they're so fucking impractical and uncomfortable! I like being outside and wide pants are a nightmare because. They. Touch. EVERYTHING. Other people's legs and shoes, the raised sidewalk, corners of things sticking out, grass taller than an inch. Dirt, mud, water, germs, everything. Wearing wide pants in nature is a death trap, every little tick and bug jumps on, and because the pants are so wide they also just climb up your legs straight away too. And that's not even mentioning getting stuck all the time because the pant leg caught onto something!
I can feel them swishing around my ankles the whole time and I find that annoying. Skinnier pants that are the right size are so comfy and don't have all that extra fabric swooshing around your feet, I want them to come back in style.
No. 2438178
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>>2438152Don't have anything constructive to add, I'm in a similar place and it sucks bad. Hopefully you can feel the hugs coming from halfway across the world.
No. 2438181
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Some people here are so stubborn and close-minded. As soon as your opinions or preferences differ from theirs, they label you as a moid. They make it very obvious that they've never interacted with people outside their circle.
No. 2438203
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I keep having shitty nightmares of my boyfriend ending things and it always leaves me feeling terrible. Now I woke up to fucking early great
No. 2438223
>>2438213Oh, no, that's typical for non-normies. I don't know if you're an autist or have ADHD, but it took me until my mid to late 20s to stop saying stupid shit so often. Just keep being mindful of when you do it and never stop trying to get it right.
You might even hit a point where you feel like you "always have to focus on not saying the wrong thing" but that's good because that means you're finally catching yourself just before it happens! Then it becomes more natural and that feeling goes away because you're better at conversation.
Don't give up!
No. 2438250
>>2438232No problem,
nonnie. And it's not a big deal if you were not around people early in life! Even if it takes you a while, you will become a decent conversationalist. Just remember, you get better at whatever you apply yourself to. And that includes speaking and human interaction!
Good luck! As long as you keep trying, it's never over.
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got rejected from uni due to my gpa. idk what to do
No. 2438291
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Going to the mall is a nightmare because I ALWAYS see pretty and/or well-groomed Hispanic women next to picrel. Dios mío.
No. 2438308
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Sometimes it all clicks into place how the abuses and neglect you faced as a child and growing up affected you and made you what you are today. It doesn't make things any better, and it actually hurts a whole lot to look at it all together, to see the full picture a little more. Especially with the amount of people in my life who have told me to my face that my pain either didn't matter or wasn't as bad as theirs. At the very least I have been making strides in my mental health journey.
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>>2438308I’m sorry that happened to you nona. One of the hardest parts about growing up and moving on is coming to terms with the harm that has been done to us. We can’t stare at our wounds forever but we can still be upset it happened. I’m glad you’re trying to recover from it and I hope one day you’re somewhere where it won’t haunt you like it does now.
No. 2438383
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thinking about the time i got dogpiled in celebricows for simply suggesting, not factually stating, that male celebs are more likely to engage in homosexuality. and guess what? the cannibal baking soda guy admits to it. every few years one of them admits to gay activity yet i'm crazy for observing it and saying "hey that's kinda gay"
No. 2438401
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>>2438383Armie Hammer is actual gaybait. There's no way he even steps a foot out the door without landing on a desperate aging faggot with money and power. Not anymore but gay moids love this face. He was even more desirable than Ryan Murphy's Boys and that is because of his name, and bc moids are stupid
No. 2438430
>>2438401Might explain his "thing" with RDJ.
Most actors are closeted bisexual. They gained the bisexuality from being casted couched and just kept along with it. Now they fuck anything that moves and have 15 different STDs. They try and hide their bisexuality by dating younger and younger women to compensate for how empty they feel inside. They will all eventually run headfirst into the wall thanks to their promiscuity and bug spreading.
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I wish I didnt have adhd
No. 2438495
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>>2438472Same nona
Your picrel hits a little too close to home… No. 2438502
>>2438495Don't take this personally, it's not about you. It's about whoever made that edit.That picture made me viscerally upset. I feel actually angry now. I hate when people fundamentally misunderstand the meaning of an artwork and in doing so they pervert its meaning and destroy its message.
Christina's World is not about using a mobile phne.
No. 2438518
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A while back I became a NEET and I think it fucked my brain up. I haven't talked to or seen anyone in months (and burnt all my bridges because I ghosted my few job-related connections completely) and I just spend all day lying in bed doing nothing, even useless shit like browsing the web or playing games feels too exhausting so I just stare at the ceiling or sleep all day. To be fair I've always been lazy but now that I don't have any responsibilities I'm forced to upkeep I realized that my intrinsic motivation is non-existent, I'm basically just a slug kek.
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>>2438502That’s okay anon, sorry for using a shitty meme it was the only one I had handy that was mildly adhd related.
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>>2438158>>2438178Thank you nonnies, hope you’ll have a joyful and whimsical day and life too!
Yeah, I sometimes think that I should just bee myself and be transparent with how I really am and think, but in the back of my mind, I know that I would lose support and be considered disgusting by other women and I recently started to give friendships with women a chance and right now I don’t want to squander it.
I have to stop engaging with bp content too, it also contributes to my recent outlook on life and I realize it’s self harm but sometimes I can’t stop kek. No. 2438569
>>2438456You should also try antidepressants. Took me years, but now that I found one that works, I feel like I'm actually making headway into my situation.
But other anon is right. If the option is between doing nothing or doing something slowly, at least do it slowly.
No. 2438577
>>2438562I think you should take a middle pathway, maybe? Definitely stop engaging or looking at bp content, but also you don't have to out yourself to other women. Take whatever support you can get and come talk to us on here about the other things you can't say irl. Trust me, you will eventually find a friend you can be open with, you just need to keep looking for her.
Hope you feel better soon,
nonny ♥
No. 2438600
I'm terrified of being cheated on. I've seen the emotional destruction it causes first hand, my gma and mother were both cheated on, both took different decisions, and both suffered regardless. I'm afraid of finding out that the man I grew to love never saw me as a human being, only as a servant who should be happy to give everything of herself and ask for nothing in return. That he thinks my feelings are less than nothing, that the whole time he was simply hiding his anger at me having the audacity to ask him for anything, any compromise or commitment. And I do think that's the case with every cheater, that that is the internal mechanics of cheating, it's what makes it fair to them: "who does this bitch think she is, asking me to not do exactly what I want when I want? But I do like the sex, and the things she does for me, and the ego boost she gives me, so I'll play along to appease her while doing what I want."
No. 2438623
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I feel like I'm about to scream. I'm so tired of being exhausted no matter what I do, my bloodworks are fine and I don't seem to be lacking anything - I'm just lacking energy in general. I function way better when I only work 75% instead 100% but I have to do the latter. I want to have a cleaner home (I'm even too tired after work to do the "clean as you go" thing, I just make sure the dishes and bathroom are clean and call it a day until the weekend comes around and even then it's rarely guaranteed I have the energy to do any proper deep cleaning), take more time to cook my food for the week, and just in general have an additional rest day, but that's not applicable to my life at the moment.
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Had 2 insufferable customers yesterday and it didn’t help they seemed like the overweight gendie, perma disabled but won’t help themselves usual whiners.
>both at least in their mid 30’s if not older
>one of the women wearing pic related while other has a Daisy Duck lounge fly backpack
>”they don’t make sugar free chocolate because they hate people”
> allergic to cane syrup, complains that she’s highly allergic to nuts but butter croissant is in contact with almond croissant so she can’t eat it
>explain to her that even if we didn’t place them next to each other, we get it delivered from a bakery so we can’t guarantee there’s no cross contamination
>still complaining
>orders a latte but doesn’t like milk so requests she only gets half the amount of milk and fill the rest with coffee
>explain that we can’t do that unless she’s willing to pay for the extra espresso shot
How tf do these people manage to not have a heart attack everytime they step out of the house, there’s always a fucking problem with them, Jesus.
No. 2438827
>>2438817NTA but my issue with birth control is that it’s used as a catch all solution to any gynecological problems for women and the entirety of negative side effects aren’t fully explained to most women it gets prescribed to.
I’m a full believer in having easily accessible birth control but also be realistic about its increased rates of blood clots, heart attack, breast cancer etc with hormonal BC.
No. 2438837
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Been feeling low energy as of late and it’s concerning me, especially since I actually keep up with my anemia treatment.
I’m stressed out and started eating like shit again (eating 2 times a day if I’m lucky and it’s either junk or portion size is rather for a toddler than a grown ass woman). Work and uni are stressing me right now - it’s wrong to wish for this, but I sometimes want to take medical leave from work and be hospitalized for a little while so I can catch a break at least.
Recently I have also been feeling the urge to isolate from everyone, hence why I deleted my social media apps and left no explanation to my closest friends at first. I want to stay locked in my room and rot in bed for a week maybe, I don’t want to hear the alarm tomorrow morning, I just wanna sleep for longer.
I hate the month of March too, always triggers memories from the time of my most impactful suicide attempt, which happened on this specific month many years ago. I don’t necessarily want to kms right now but I just want to disappear in a way and maybe for people to forget about me, what I feel right now is overwhelming.
I’m grateful for this space tho, I don’t want to tell my parents or my friends about this, don’t want to bother and/or worry them. But even the court jester needs a break and cry, right?
To whoever nonnie who took the time to read these shitty ramblings, thank you!
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>>2438837You'll get through this funk, mmmmuah
No. 2438886
>>2438876If you looked at the post before the one I replied to, another anon was telling her birth control is "literally poisonous". That's not "potentially harmful side effects".
And then anon I replied to said
>i've been scared to look up the ways in which my specific implant is harmfulAs if it's a given that the bc she's using is harmful by default. Jesus.
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>>2438906It's legitimately like talking to a Jehovah's witness. I told my ex friends that it was weird and suspicious for an older moid to start lovebombing you out of nowhere, and she reacted like I was a monster who didn't want her to be happy. Take a wild guess how well that turned out.
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>>2438940>>2438906It really is like some kind of cult around geriatric cock. I was listening to a podcast the other day and I immediately lost all respect for the woman being interviewed when she revealed that she began dating a 38-year-old man at age 19 (something she waited until the very END of the episode to mention even though her boyfriend was a major part of the story).
Basically, she grew up in poverty with a single, teenage mom, and she got groomed into an anti-abortion cult as a teenager after she vented about her rape and subsequent miscarriage online. Years later, when her elderly pet scrote got her pregnant, she decided to have an abortion so she could go to college. She then made the baffling decision to vent about it to one of her old anti-abortion friends, who went totally apeshit, harassing her in person and even filing false police reports to get her arrested in order to prevent her from having an abortion. It's really horrible and I'm sympathetic for those experiences. However, she acted as though everything is all better now, and that her current boyfriend was some kind of saint. But this man is categorically a predator, seeking out a relationship with a barely-legal, alcoholic, vulnerable woman young enough to be her daughter. She just went from being groomed by Jesus freaks to being groomed by him. I really, really hope for her sake that she comes to her goddamn senses and dumps his ass.
No. 2438985
>>2438906My friends all have s/os their own age, but my best friend is dating a zippertit TiF and it's
almost as bad as an elderly scrote.
No. 2438992
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Sometimes I come close, really close, to psychicing myself up to making a new friend. I usually blackpill myself into thinking it's meaningless because the people I normally hang with have personality necrosis due to exposure to the dumbest things. People change over time and that's fine, but as a person who hates chnage it makes me so depressed to watch them spiral into whatever the hell that is.
Making a new friend seems exciting. Interesting. But also terrifying. I have so many quirks that are probably deemed disgusting or horrid by normie dtandards. Even my super cool cousin wants to hang out with me but I dodge her purely out of fear of my own bullshit coming to light. Being a shut-in all my life stunted my emotional capacity to feel anything other than shame for my existence.
But… a new friend. Right? I want a new friend. I want to geek out about things with someone new. I want to smile again. I want that slim possibility to make a best friend to come to fruition! So bad!!
No. 2439038
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Debating myself on whether I should reply to these pickme retards or vaguepost about them here
No. 2439069
>>2439038Don't be vague, say it with your full chest
>>2438956What, this?
>>2438906 unfortunately those types of women she described actually are real and not that uncommon
No. 2439096
>>2439069I can't be specific about the discussion I was in because I would out myself. Just know that it was about otome and the pickmes were defending rape- I mean "noncon" (because women love rape kinks, right? It's not like we're being psyopped to get off to our own sexual abuse or anything. I just said I want less of that shit but it seems to be in every adult otome game ever, how dare I not get off to rape and say something negative about it), pedophilia in Japanese moeshit games (muh Japanese women look younger, le cultural differences, you can't tell a character's age just by looking at them so I don't know why they keep being censored) and accusing "male feminists" of censoring otome games that romanticize and glorify abuse and child marriage (I wasn't even talking about that, I was talking about how scrotes in the industry don't give a fuck about what women want, so they're the furthest thing from "male feminists", and a lot of female otome devs keep perpetuating the psyop, which pickmes think has nothing to do with misogyny apparently even though it does, but the thing is, I didn't even call it misogyny, I just said otome devs and publishers are retarded. This weird, random "male feminist" accusation sounds like the pickme who plays moeshit games on the regular spends a little too much time hanging around right-leaning weeb moids online). Like have they no eyes? No brain? Media for women where the female audience is expected to find male on female abuse romantic and male on female rape erotic is not the "opposite" equivalent of porn for moids where the male audience is expected to find male on female rape arousing. And also the female is idealized as young and innocent in both. BOTH kinds of media are telling us that women's role in society is to be young and pure only for us to be raped and enjoy it. It's literally the exact same psyop, only one is made more palatable to women so they can't tell right away that it's just the same garbage. That's literally misogyny, that's sexism. You wanting more of that garbage in English doesn't make you as edgy and "based" as the moids that regularly get localized hentai games where they self insert as the rapist. It's sad that some women really think this is fair. What fucking male would ever want to stop otome games like these from being published? Use your fucking head. Chinese and Korean gacha games, Japanese games and VNs and eroge, Japanese manga, Western video games, all of these are dominated by males and will primarily pander to men. Japanese manga is being intentionally policed by males and possibly pickmes that don't want to upset their moid audience's feefees by accidentally making female characters that look like normal non-pornified people and protect their own dignity by not taking any moid's bs. Female characters that aren't just meant to be a proxy girlfriend. But female audiences have to be content with shitty crumbs all the time and even the media that is aimed at them is extremely limited and biased to show them only brainwashing shit. And it's also heavily policed, at least in the case of manga, because god forbid Japanese girls realize they can be assertive and don't have to settle for shitty moids or base their self-esteem on their own youth and beauty. But fuck you if you ever talk about this because then you're crazy (for saying something everyone already knows out loud).
I really wanted to reply to them but it just isn't worth it. They're putting words in my mouth, misinterpreting everything I said because of their own lack of knowledge about the genre, the industry and Japan's culture while they pretend to be experts, and keep lying about things everyone can tell, but this is too exhausting for me. Their stupidity is off the charts. There are thousands of people like this online and I can't be assed to waste my time trying to make them understand why everything they're saying is pure bullshit. Also if you call BL games otome you're not qualified to participate in any discussion about either of those two things lmao. If I wanted to lose half my neurons in a dumb internet slapfight with other women I would do it here on lolcow, at least farmers know the difference between BL and otome and what joseimuke is and don't make excuses for pedo moids. I wish someone would call them out on their bs but I'd be a hypocrite because I chickened out of doing it myself.
>>2439083>OUR fav otome gameIstg, we need to gatekeep more aggressively. We need to call other women out for this kind of thing more often and more publicly.
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>>2438522NTA I know it's from wikipedia but here's an explanation
No. 2439172
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My best friend was shitty and manipulative, constantly put me down to raise herself up, treated me like my mother, but she introduced me to some very good people. Now after cutting her off I've inevitably become distant from them because for some reason everyone loves sucking her asshole. She's hot and charismatic like a slab of fatty cheese is on an undercooked burger. She actively treated me like shit in FRONT of these people too and they still suck her asshole. She needs ass suckers and I used to be the biggest one of them all because it's harder for me to make friends and sunken cost fallacy. Every time I go online I see them posting with her and I wish I was mature enough to let her go but we shared so many experiences together, I really loved her for decades. The final straw was when she ghosted me when she knew my father was dying. I was there for her through the loss of her own father.
She also got a retarded callout post chain on Instagram last year. Like fifteen people joined in. She used to talk shit about one of our good friends while living with them, and some idiot name dropped the friend and detailed all of the horrible things she had said about this person. They STILL talk to her. It's baffling.
It was so much easier to cut my other friend off who loaded me up with drugs and alcohol until she stole money from me and stood by while I got assaulted.
I'm a shit magnet.
No. 2439178
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>>2438906>a 39 yo bf as a 21 year old >>2439096>defending rape in an otome gameHow much do u have to hate yourself to do things like this? It literally has no benefits
No. 2439316
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>>2438166Just thought you were an ameritard is all. You realise that some bullshit written on paper can’t physically stop you from doing things don’t you? All this law is telling you is that you can carry a weapon so long as you don’t get caught.
No. 2439328
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>>2438518You are not alone, nona. I became a NEET a while ago too and have no social life or motivation to do anything, just browsing the same 5 websites and wasting all of my time/life. I hope things will get better for you soon, try to celebrate small achievements like cooking a meal or cleaning your desk etc. We're all going to make it…
No. 2439333
>>2438975Well, she had an abortion to go to college. There's hope for her yet.
>>2438906I think it's partly because scrotes their own age are so shit, and partly because of the need for security. Misogyny is rampant, the COL and job crises aren't slowing down, nobody can afford to live alone… enter Old Moid In Shining Armor, a fat balding 36 year old looking for his perfect 18 year old waifu. He has a job, he has a home, he has hobbies that don't involve a screen. He keeps other scrotes from harassing her. He tells her that he understands that it's hard to find a job right now and all he really needs from her is a little bit of effort on her part to keep the place clean and make him meals, maybe they can even have a family together. He doesn't look more walled than the scrotes her own age, and her self esteem is only marginally higher than a TIF's.
She's so convinced that this is the only way she'll ever have a decent relationship that she ignores every red flag and becomes the embodiment of relationship advice Reddit posts. Her moid took out a credit card in her name to buy Lego and limited edition funkos, he's so quirky lol!!!!! He doesn't let her find a job but that's only because he knows how stressful job hunting is!!! He isolated her from her aboosive family and friends who said he was creepy!!! He buys all her clothes for her and tells her what to wear because he's such a fashionista!!!! He wants her to get pregnant without finishing school because he loves her that much!!! And he's a bit shouty sometimes but she dated boys in school who made AI porn of her fucking dogs and sent it to her parents, so really he's an angel and she won't hear a word against him. Clearly, the only reason anyone would think this is creepy is if they're jealous or bigoted or icky weirdos themselves.
No. 2439349
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>>2438751Ayart, it’s 7:30am and I just submitted the assignment. I’m sleeping for a few hours then need to get up to do my reading before class. At least I got it done.
No. 2439361
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i relapsed in my drug addiction and i might lose my income. i don't think my relationship will last the betrayal of me doing drugs again. can't seek help cause i'll lose my license and meds. fuck my life. i want to fix the situation but it's looking bleak in all aspects.
No. 2439364
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It's annoying that I didn't get to have a normal childhood. Lots of people have it worse but apparently mine was pretty bad because I have such a hard time coping. I'm stuck picking up the pieces, even now. I want to be a mom one day, but I worry I'm too retarded to raise a normal child. Idk
No. 2439424
>>2439399i was never prescribed it
>>2439398i'm too paranoid to go to NA in my city since it's my hometown which is quite small, everyone knows everyone and yeah. i have considered it before when my addiction was at its worst. i think if certain issues in my life can resolve soon, it won't be hard getting sober again. i'm just so bad at problem solving and coping and planning ahead whenever something stressful happens.
No. 2439612
>>2439600not being the best doesn't mean be bad. just be decent and neutral until we mutually decide we actually like each other.
I would bring a plate of cookies to people I like and are friendly with but not to a group of strangers.
No. 2439640
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im getting my hours cut and im already broke you gotta be kidding me. FUUUUUUCKKKKKKKKK
No. 2439652
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this is so unfair, robots still aren't life-like or sentient enough so we won't be getting our robot husbandos anytime soon. Pls we need the robot industry to go faster, like robot husbands right now. Ill buy them even if its for 100.000k
please PLEASE , im sexually frustrated but i don't want to do it real moids, when will these robot hudbandos come to fruition.
No. 2439722
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>>2439679But what if I don't want it to be
No. 2439730
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I HATE HIM
No. 2439738
>>2439255i kind of feel better but not really
>>2439643holy shit that sounds nasty get rid of that neglectful weirdo please
No. 2439746
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I fell in love for the first time at my big girl age of 24 and for the first time in my life i feel self-conscious about my looks. Dry pimply skin with tons of damage from hardcore acne as a teen, , weird face shape that makes me look older than i am, nasolabial folds, small lips, big ass forehead, greasy and thin hair. I look disgusting. The only thing i can change for free is my weight and thankfully i already lost 3kg, but i feel like it wont be enough to make me attractive to the guy i like. Sigh.
No. 2439757
>>2439746Well start washing your hair, too!
>>2439754What? Kick him out of your house.
No. 2439763
>>2439754You should kick his ugly ass out, he’s in
your home nona.
>>2439761>Jesus chris keek
No. 2439767
>>2439757I'm not allowed anymore bc it makes me mean and i once promised to not send him away— to his own home— anymore. Leaving when I'm overwhelmed for a walk is wrong too.
I fucking know what I'm in, I know, I know and it hurts bc how did this happen to me. Now I'll just go on dates to feel desirable again, so I can let go of this shit "I might be lonely" fucked up attitude long enough to just get my shit together bc this is fucking embarrassing
No. 2439793
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Looking through my old texts with my ex legit breaks my heart, will I ever be loved like this again…fuck
No. 2439806
>>2439793i am sorry
nonny but this is cringe
No. 2439815
>>2439803I shared a vague/generic one on purpose bc I don’t wanna be doxxed. He used to send those every night to me and usually they’d be more detailed. His new gf is obsessed with me and knows I use lc kek.
>>2439794I have higher standards now and would have left him earlier.
>>2439806Kek I figured someone would think so.
No. 2439896
>>2439865It's on the left side so not appendix related at all. Aside from pain in that area I don't really have any other symptoms, that's the mystery of it. I had some stomach issue because of a stupid bacteria I had last year, but the location of the pain seems to align with what I've been reading about kidney stones. I kept hoping it was because of lower back pain and that it would go away but it wasn't.
Thanks nonna, I honestly want to get better ASAP.
No. 2439904
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>>2439897here
nonnie, pain is in a diff location, I've had appendicitis scares before, I wish it was anxiety induced but it's not
No. 2439946
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I was going to reply to something stupid and baitish I read, but then I realized the only reason it annoyed me was because for a second, I considered the person who said it the same as a "regular person" when it wasn't deserved. It can be hard for me to remember that all anonymous posts must stand on their own merit, that almost any kind of person can find this place, and if someone's gone full retard, I don't need to kindly consider that they might be a "valid" human who'll see where they're wrong if someone engages with them, instead of just staying retarded and shitting up any thread they're in if they get a reply. Sometimes, you really do just see (or get the attention of) a cowlike or a psychotic person, and that's okay.
No. 2439958
>>2439904I feel like you'd know if it was kidney stones. That is the general area but it is a really bad pain that you can't just work through. It comes in waves and then once the stone passes more you get UTI symptoms.
I had to stop drinking soda because I got some tiny ones that passed on their own, but it still hurt so bad.
No. 2440071
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I am so ugly, nonnies. I literally look like picrel but with a hook nose. It sucks because there is no amount of makeup that can fix my bone structure. Goddam it pisses me off because my mom is gorgeous but she had me with a hideous man and i inherited all his shitty traits. I have been told i look like a grandmother since i was 15 because of my shitty sagging cheeks. I got nothing going on for me visually, just ugly all around. I really wish i was born a moid, the only thing i eve get complimented on is my sense of humor. But its worthless when you want to get laid because moids dont appreciate that. Fuck my life.
No. 2440096
>>2440071if it can make you feel any better, although this sort of face isn't the current standard i find it very cute. she just looks like a friendly person you can have an easy chat with.
and if what you care about is scrotes theres always going to be some to find you good looking enough.
No. 2440292
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Reading about that women's only gym in the UK being flooded with hate by trannies made me so angry I was literally seeing red and feeling light headed, like I'm short circuiting. I am so sick of men who call themselves women being treated as though they could never be dangerous by these people. Trans identified men are 3 times more likely to commit sexual assault than a cis man, it happens constantly and these people deny and ignore it. Seeing a screenshot from reddit of some dick saying it literally never happens and there are 0 reported cases of TiMs assaulting a woman in a bathroom is beyond insanity, so many cases come to mind just in my own local area. Sometimes I just really feel like I want to cry. This world hates women so much and we're regressing so far, women can't have any single sex spaces. I wanted to start a local art club for women only and even in my small ass town I know of several trannies who would definitely try and get in on any "women only" anything. How are these people not seen as potentially dangerous when sex is their entire personality? The TiMs in my town post sexually degenerate shit on their public profiles and I'm supposed to feel safe around that? Even if there was only ONE recorded case of a TiM attacking a woman in a bathroom, why would you still allow it? Because women aren't fucking people, that's why. I want to get really violent.
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>>2440216>>2440216It's almost as if some of people are dying to find some idiots to exploit you as if men care that you're not far above their league like they prefer as long as you do what they want and are sexually available. I wouldn't worry about cuteness. there's supposedly cute moids who have a lot of issues. I'd worry about unintentionally involving yourself with a narcissistic ahole who decides that he needs to hurt you because you didn't do what he wanted. It's not paranoid to think of shit like that because men routinely act like complete fucking psychos because idiot women let them. If women felt comfortable being by themselves terrible men would not be enabled. women already have to conform to far higher standards of beauty and men routinely look far worse than women and refuse to take care of themselves so an imbalance already exists as a baseline.
No. 2440360
>>2440292nonnie, i’m feeling the exact same way this evening. normally i’m very level-headed but tonight, the thought of tims is making me seriously freak out and want to cry. their blatant misogyny just goes unchecked and we have to bow down to their every whim. when did this happen!? i feel like a crazy person for being so upset. and all of the backlash they dish out is ALWAYS directed towards women. they hate us so bad. they hate us so bad. but we can’t say that, can we? idk why i’m so upset about it tonight.
i’m sending you lots of love,
nonnie