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No. 320372

A thread to collect topics/things that absolutely or mildly annoy you. Express your anger ladies.

Ex.Extreme nitpicks, anachans vs fattychans going at it, insecure farmers shitting up threads because tiddys were mentioned, you get the gist.

No. 320378

When an anon happens to be talking about themselves in their post and some insecure anon comes along and bitches about the other anon's post with that "humblebragging" buzzword. Anyone who uses this word looks straight jealous and mentally ill and is ugly inside and out.
It also sounds like something a PULL user would say because this shit wasn't around until this year.

No. 320386

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I'm OP, but I wanted to make my own contribution.
It really annoys me how so many singers are starting to wear bodysuits. It's a dancers thing, I can excuse that if they can dance ( Madonna, Beyonce, etc ). However it's so unflattering on so many singers. It only really brings out how flabby their legs look with a suffocated vag.

No. 320388

There aren’t any flabby legs here

No. 320392

Has there been a PULL migration? Not that farmers can't be autistic as fuck, but all the reeing about Kpop and Asians, the influx of oversensitive anons, and other spergy anons in /snow/ reek of PULLshit.

No. 320394

I guess flab was the wrong word, however I can't exactly pinpoint what it is. It looks unflattering.

No. 320397

i think it only looks good if you have muscular thighs.

No. 320398

I’m annoyed with how many Korean themed threads we have.

No. 320400

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thank you for this thread! i have so much stuff i want to bitch about with farmers that's not serious enough for the vent thread.

i keep getting ads for this delias/dolls kill collab and i hate it! it looks identical to a cheap "flower power" halloween costume. i think it completely misses the point of the 90s aesthetic. og delias like pic related was completely different and actually cute. where are the earth tones? where's the tomboyish stuff?

it also makes me feel old af because obviously 90s revival has been a thing for a while now, but before a lot of it was people my age trying to look like their cool babysitters or big sisters from the 90s. now it's just kids born after 2000 wearing an actual costume. fuck!

No. 320412

Yeah I'm triggered by this current 90s revival. One: I hated the 90s, but moreso for the reason you said. Acting like something is "vintage" when it's 20 years old. Feels gud man

No. 320417

I hate the sound of people chewing. I hate hate HATE the sound of dogs varking and children crying and throwing a fit. People have told me to just "ignore" it, but it's like my brain has hyper-focused on the sound, and I can no linget focus on anything BUT that. Sounds while I'm trying to sleep, like movies and radio. I have a lit if problems with sound in general it seems. Idk. It makes me so frustrated because I've laid awake at night trying to shut out the sound of bugs or animals making noises in my neighborhood but I CAN'T and I'm so over it :'(

No. 320418

I have the same issue (and I also have tinnitus which makes it worse). I am hypersensitive to any sort of sound. I live above a bar in the city so it was always noisy as fuck with drunk people at night. I got an air purifier which turned up completely masks all outside sounds when my fan didn't. If you arent adverse to white noise try something like that. It literally saved my sleep.

No. 320419


Sounds like misophonia. I also have it, sometimes it gets so bad that I wanted to cry when hearing the sound of running tap water, or I couldn't sleep when my cat's bowl was in my room and she started eating.
There is no cure, but there is a treatment that makes things slightly more bareable.

No. 320426

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this is more so weird than it is annoying to me but nonetheless does anyone else find it kind of spergy when someone makes a shitty thread and you can tell that 99% of the replies are literally the same person? Especially when they try and act like different people and essentially start talking to themselves. I don’t know if anyone knows what I’m talking about kek but yeah

No. 320432

Upspeak and vocal fry. I don't care if you're male or female if you talk like that I automatically think you're a stupid bitch and can't stand being…like…around you? I hate how some women made it into a feminist issue- retarded dude bros do it too and you all sound like dumb cunts stop it.

No. 320436

My boyfriend always holds things out to me for me to take, waiting for me to grab it. I can't fucking stand it. For an example, he's busy playing a video game, and he'll ask me to refill his drink, and I say yes; he'll pick up the cup and hold it out in my general direction until I take hold of it. I think it's extremely rude but I don't know if I'm just being neurotic or not. IMO you either hand something to someone with a direct and immediate exchange, or you just leave it on the table or whatever so I pick it up myself. Especially if I'm already annoyed this just drives me up the wall. His manners have improved a lot since I started dating him so I'm not sure if this is the hill I want to die on, though, since he genuinely seems to not understand he's even doing it.

Is this rude to anyone else?

No. 320439

vocal fry is just how people's voices sound. that's why it's a feminist issue, because men associate women who's voices are naturally like that with being cunts. tbh, it seems more projection on your part cause you're obviously stupid if you think vocal fry isn't natural.

No. 320440

>bird scooters
>people on bicycles who don't abide by traffic laws (riding on sidewalk, running stop signs/lights)
>people who walk slowly and hold hands taking up the whole sidewalk
>when the person who lives above me decides to stomp around in circles at 2 am on a wednesday
>people who drive in the left lane of the highway below the speed limit and don't get over
>loud chewing
>when people hold the door behind them for you but you're too far away so you have to awkwardly jog
>when you're wearing headphones in public, clearly not in the mood for conversation, and some dude tries to talk to you

and so many more. I honestly hate how I get annoyed by so many things, trying to chill out over them but i'm so high strung I feel like i'm going to snap

No. 320441

>vocal fry is just how people's voices sound
lmao get a clue. It's 100% sociological. You might be thinking of a high pitched voice, which is different. What the fuck, you think it's just something in the genetics only of californian women? Go and read before you spout bullshit

No. 320442

It's an affect, not a natural voice. You can hear it in gay men all the time. Valley girl at night, then they drop it for the day job.

No. 320443

NTA, but actually, vocal fry is both natural and a sort of cultural phenomenon. In several languages (some ancient), vocal fry is utilized as a glottal sound to differentiate vowels and it's been observed and documented since the mid-20th century. There are plenty of men with vocal fry, for example, Noam Chomsky. Do people pile on him for sounding like a dumb valley girl? Women are clearly shit on for it instead of men, because ~Kardashians r dumb~

Go and read before you spout bullshit

No. 320444

>being…like…around you?

Lol anon this is meant to be sarcastic, right?

No. 320445

The kardashians are dumb and if a millennial male has vocal fry 9/10 people are gonna assume he’s gay as shit.

No. 320447

Yes, I find it annoying and rude - unless they're standing right next to me or sth. Either hand it to me directly or leave it on the table. I just ignore it whenever people do that to me.

No. 320449

>he's busy playing a video game, and he'll ask me to refill his drink, and I say yes; he'll pick up the cup and hold it out in my general direction until I take hold of it.

Just thinking of that irritates me, I don't blame you. If I was you I'd just take a long ass time to grab whatever he's holding out until he realizes he can't expect you to instantly take things. If he questions it you can be like 'well why would you just hold it out for me instead of waiting for me to come over first?'

No. 320451

He probably thinks he's helping. I could see someone thinking it's rude to leave it on the table for you to bend over and get or whatever. I can't possibly see being irritated about this let alone starting a fight about it, though. It's so minor.

No. 320453

I wouldn't leave it on the table either, usually you just pick it up and pass it to someone when they get close to you. If you hold it out and leave it there it's like you expect them to drop everything and come over immediately to fetch it.

I doubt he's really thinking about it, but I feel like most people naturally do the latter.

No. 320454

Pic related is frumpy by modern standards and wouldn’t sell to the dolls kill audience. some of the collection is directly from old delias products, like the butterfly sweater. but true 90s fashion isn’t what’s trendy, it’s a bastardized version of 90s fashion taken from what popstars wore and the movie clueless. fashion revivals are never inspired by the true accuracy of the decade. look how many 50s fashion enthusiasts wear victory rolls and huge poodle skirts when that was rarely the style of that decade.

No. 320455

>ekhshually ehm ehkshually its both natural and a sort of cultural phenomenon
I wrote "100%" as an autist trap. Do you fucking think it matters to people annoyed by Californians doing it as unconscious performance, that some ancient tribe does it as part of their actual language? Stop reading so much and get a life

No. 320457

Sounds pretty retarded kek. Got any examples? I like laughing at spergs.

No. 320459

i recently found the tumblr of a tranny at my school who identifies as a self-diagnosed autist. said tranny writes posts about their fake autism as if they just read a list of autism symptoms off wikipedia and decided to blog about each one. "UGGHH SCHOOL IS SO STRESSFUL AND I'M STARTING TO *~stim~* BECAUSE I'M AUTISTIC" "EYE CONTACT IS SO DIFFICULT BECAUSE OF MY AUTISM ;_;"

No. 320462

This image is actually something that really annoys me: Aggressive culture, or clap/clap back culture. When people, esp twenty-somethings, have this Gotta Be All Up In Y'alls Faces temperament about anything they disagree with. It is really… tacky, for lack of a better word, and comes across as incredibly primitive, especially when they stick their hands in each other's faces and squawk like hens because they can't take a minute to formulate constructive words like an adult.

The other thing is how huge asses and lips are not only incredibly in fashion, but how it's to the point where kids are getting lip injections and butt implants are actually a thing. It looks so gross. So many women look like their lips are actually a baboon's ass or duck bill now.

No. 320464

i recently found the tumblr of a tranny at my school who identifies as a self-diagnosed autist. said tranny writes posts about their fake autism as if they just read a list of autism symptoms off wikipedia and decided to blog about each one. "UGGHH SCHOOL IS SO STRESSFUL AND I'M STARTING TO *~stim~* BECAUSE I'M AUTISTIC" "EYE CONTACT IS SO DIFFICULT BECAUSE OF MY AUTISM ;_;"

No. 320467

Retardation is its mental state, anon.

No. 320468

Passive aggressive comments to whites while they act like they're the victim. They're like "FUCK white people kill them all" and I uncomfortably unfollow them on various social media. So sick of "they cry as they punch you" racism.
Also everything this anon said.

No. 320474

i was at an anime con with my teen cosplaying sis not too long ago and she made a lot of new friends and got their IGs and after me snooping a little a lot of them are 15 yr old fakebois with dumb shit like he/him or even they/them, anyone else find this shit tiring? the whole time i was there i called them all shes and no one confronted me, i only called one of them he since my sister said 'look how cool his cosplay is' and i was right next to her not wanting to enter a cringe debate lmao. the other girls didn't correct me or anything perhaps out of fear or coz im older and they think i wouldnt get it lmao. there was a love live cosplayer in the girliest shit and her IG says 'he/him'. there was a super girly dressed 22 yr old artist in the artists table area and her tumblr says they/them 'TERFs dont interact' whats funny is that earlier that day i offered to help her out with something and she gave me one of her prints for free lmao. someone asked my sis's pronouns since they knew eachother before but refered to my sis as she the last time they met and told my sis she spent 'a week in guilt from potential wrong pronouns'. how do these kids live walking on eggshells around every person they meet? ive been trying to make sure my sister doesnt get influenced by these kids, god help me if she starts calling herself Aiden and says she knows shes meant to be a boy since she likes having short hair and cosplays a lot of male characters. I wonder what'll happen in 5yrs when these kids grow out of this shit and cringe back on the memories.

No. 320475

glorification of being functionally retarded. like people who complain about "adulting" or have problems doing things just for the sake of getting them done.

No. 320478

my hearing is getting shitty in my right ear and i keep missing what people say but i fucking hate asking people to repeat themselves over and over so now i’m starting to lipread and jesus i’m such a dumbass why didn’t i just go get help for this ages ago

No. 320481

Are you ok racism-chan?

No. 320491

I hate when girls call their friends "ladies/lady".

Also, slam poetry, from what I've seen it's pretty pretentious.

No. 320493

I’m tired of heavily pregnant women having to remind you 24/7 that they are “soooooo huge” and “omg so ready for this baby to get out of me herherher by the way my belly is just soooo big guys”

Once is fine, but constantly going on about that shit just annoys me. I’m not childfeee either, it just screams “look at meeee!!! Give me more attention because of my pregnancyyyyy!!!”

No. 320519

Each and every time height comes up. Each side keeps accusing the other of being jealous and bitter and both usually are in fact jealous and bitter

Is that Taylor Swift? Man the bitch gained weight

No. 320526

I hate girls competition. I don't understand why so many of us are jealous of other girls by nature. Like I was invited to a nights out to meet a friend's nerdy friend group, and the only girls were me and this girl who kept giving me a bad look, from upside down. We never interacted before, but she immediately decided to snob me. Sucks cause she likes the same vidya I do and is a very good singer, seemed like an interesting person.

No. 320528

I absolutely hate it and find it so annoying when people say they're ugly/fat when they had or have a boyfriend/girlfriend. How can you be ugly when you've had someone who wanted to date you? its fucking annoying for actual ugly people like me who have been alone their entire lives.

No. 320531


I can’t help my vocal fry. I’m just creaky. Seems too common to be an affect. It’s like a billion people putting on an accent all the time.

No. 320532

Why the fuck has everyone on the street suddenly started acting like I'm invisible? At least five or six people have walked straight into me this week. Did everyone in the world get together and decide it's gonna be Crash Into Anon Week? What the fuck, look where you're going.

No. 320533

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I feel this too
It's just so exhausting, like I'm not here to fight you PLEASE let me be your friend and send you cute letters,stickers and gifts goddammit.
I'm also annoyed by those girls who always want to be the center of attention and ~aren't friends with girls because they're so catty/gossip~*
C'mon now, as if that was limited to women lmao. I know plenty of men that talk shit, but for some reason girls are the ones always being blamed for that shit.

No. 320535

Ugly doesn’t mean grotesquely deformed, besides, someone feeling ugly isn’t invalidated by your arbitrary standard.
Most people are sort of ugly, but that doesn’t mean they’re unlovable. If you think beauty is that important you’re shallow af.

No. 320540

honestly it's worse to be ugly an in a relationship with someone who resents you for being ugly, as most men do.

men will be with people they think are ugly because they're desperate and/or users. sure, lots of people really do bait for compliments and stuff, but just having a bf doesn't mean someone really isn't ugly. i'd rather be alone

No. 320546

Yes. It's been like this for years though including influxes of tumblr users. Couldn't be avoided due to the nature of the site and what kind of cows we laugh at but users like these need to be shut down. I miss when kpop wasn't overrunning this site, at least the weebs knew they were retards and were more toned down. Kpop is like the new weeb for kids.

No. 320551

I relate to this too and it's so tiring. Just started uni and there's already two girls who refuse to talk to me. They just stare at me and give me dirty looks. I've been nothing but kind towards them and I would love to be their friends since we seem to have the same style and interests.

Girls always see me as a threat and that's the last thing I want. Even my closest friends act jealous around me and I don't know what to do about it. I just want to have girlfriends to wear matching outfits with, take cute pictures together and go to cute cafes. without them secretly hating me ;_;

No. 320557

I hate that now people use y‘all a lot. It sounds awful to me. Accept that English doesn’t have a good plural you please people. Sounds weird as hell to me.

No. 320559

I say youse which is even worse imo

No. 320562

You guys and yinz are phrases that people also said around me, which also sounds like shit, but I guess I think it all sounds bad

No. 320563

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Don't you know, anon? Inclusive language is important.

No. 320564

Wow that just made y’all 100x worse for me, thanks honestly because I hate it more with better reasons

No. 320565

Every time I see someone type "folx" instead of "folks" I die inside. It's even worse when they say it's because folx is gender neutral.

No. 320567

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I absolutely HATE it when people put their shoes on a table or chair. Or on a small bit of my chair that I am SITTING on. Like I've had friends do that and it genuinely pisses me off, they've done in this with their feet in front of me while I was eating as well. Literally, where are your manners? Sometimes just want to lash out at them for it, but I obviously can't.
I hate it when people put their shoes on chairs in public transport as well, I've noticed people do this a lot in England
Oh, and I hate it when non-Americans compliment me in AAVE, I'm not American and neither are you so please don't.
I feel like a majority of my pet peeves are really autistic but I just can't help it.

No. 320568

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>I feel like a majority of my pet peeves are really autistic but I just can't help it.
That's ok, anon. This is an autism safe zone.

No. 320570

>saying boys and girls is bad

This dumb bitch is a teacher? Great.

No. 320571

Nah, anon. People putting their feet up/shoes on chairs tables is fucking disgusting.

I remove my shoes when i enter a home out of habit because the shit i walk on outside is vile and why would i want to drag that into my own home or someone else's?

No. 320572

Why the hell are tumblr kids that are not American think race and politics everywhere else works like in America?

Especially the 'white' European ones who go YASS PoC power, repeating 'white people are oppressers and have no culture and shit'. Didn't you grow up knowing there are loads of white culture and ethnicites that are not the same, having different customs and languages and used to war with each other all the time?

Why are you forgetting your cultural identities and go for some nebulous pseudoscientific category 'Muricans are saddled with? Most normies Europeans/Asians/Africans (who are at least part of their country majority) I met IRL are not really obsessed about 'race' and cares more about their national idenity.

And most of the ones that are doing this are fakebois too.

No. 320594

>implying lolcow is split between anachans and fatty chans
there's a healthy middle anon

yea i don't get why every single place on the internet is populated by koreaboos and weaboos. You'd think LC would bully them out of their autistic hobby but apparently no.

I'm also slightly annoyed as to how lc members seem to often have very "normie" taste. I'm so often dissapointed when I go to the fashion, hair etc threads. I don't even have a particulary alternative taste, i certainly dressed as one of the most classic/normie people of my class (granted i'm in art school).

No. 320599

>assuming lolcow was not made by weebs for weebs

No. 320601

I mean…even American holidays are still white in origin even if they are very watered down, capitalist versions of ancient european traditions. People who say white people have no culture are just children who don't know shit about any sort of world history, white or not and pretend to be so involved in politics and fighting against the white devil. I don't know what these people think the origins of easter and christmas or even shitty holidays like groundhog day come from, they just simply won't put in any effort to gain actual knowledge or look into things. Ignorance really reigns supreme.

No. 320607

The point is more about Non-Americans jumped the bandwagon and think the whole world politics work just like 'internet' makes you think. But yeah, I kind of agree with that though. Lot of these kida know history, but only pick ones that support their narrative and glossed over the ones that are not.

No. 320611

you’re really surprised as to why a 2ch knockoff board made by weeaboos who were jealous of dakota rose and laughing at pixyteri is populated by people obsessed with asian pop culture? face it, unless you’re a weeb, half the cows on this board have no appeal.

No. 320612

>Self-diagnosing and using your issues as excuses to be an ass or not receive criticism or to take dumb decisions or mentioning their "mental health", "anxiety" all the time;

>when people get hideous tattoos because of trends or under the excuses that it has a special meaning or even their "depreshun" again, do they even realize it's something that will be literally forever on their skin and might get deformed and bleached with time? And that they might regret and want to get rid of it someday? They could at least take some more time searching for a decent artist and spend a little more cash as tattoos are no joke;

>throwing the terms "I love you", "you're the love of my life" so loosely to people you just met or barely have contact with. Kek

>how some employers prefer to hire a pretty but incompetent person rather than the average/normal one who does their job better;

>the girls competition stereotype and how it's encouraged;

>how people think art is not a business or "real job" and should be done for cheap or free;

No. 320673

I'll never understand people who say or type "all y'all". English isn't my first language and I know it's slang or something from the US so I can understand why people would say that automatically. But there's no excuse for typing it.

No. 320682

>stop reading so much and get a life
sorry that some people have a college education and aren't musty neets lmfao

No. 320688

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I'm ok with average people saying that.

What I absolutely can't stand is objectively good-looking people crying about "look at me guys, I'm SOOOO ugly!!"

I wish these people had to live with my face for a day, so they can finally know what being ugly feels like, instead of just saying it fishing for compliments.

No. 320690

I absolutely can't stand sympathy junkies that makes everything about themselves and start talking about things they went through years ago or start with struggle racing just to be told oh gosh you are so strong uwu, fucking gross

Same goes to people with superhero syndrome

No. 320705

Can I ask why exactly you assume it's jealousy when these people don't appear to speak with you? Is it really that unfathomable that someone could dislike you for some petty reason that isn't related to how threateningly pretty you seem to think you are?

No. 320711

vocal fry is fake as fuck, it's not a feminist issue, and please neck yourself.

No. 320712

Listen, as someone who has been in your shoes but managed to stop this from happening ever again, I'm telling you to take a serious look at who you are and how you act first. You might not notice it yourself but you probably just seem bitchy and snobbish. Contrary to the misconception, girls actually flock to genuinely beautiful girls. It's not the attractiveness that's intimidating to people, it's the "I'm better than you" vibe some pretty people give off. For me, it was how quiet I was that gave people the impression I was uppity. I was always reserved even when I tried to befriend them. Basically, my attempts at hiding how shy and anxious I was made me seem like a cold bitch. Or at least that's what I heard from everyone who used to treat me the same way you guys described. It definitely has nothing to do with jealousy because nowadays I look so much better than before but no one is acting """threatened""" because I'm a lot friendlier and warmer to new people so I no longer get the cold shoulder or staring up and down.

No. 320715


As an ugly girl, this anon is right.

I used to share a house with two identical twins, both gorgeous. But one of them was that girl who goes on about how women don't like her and are jealous of her and all her friends were men (who were trying to fuck her). The other didn't have this problem, and was actually pretty chill. I hung out with her semi-regularly, she was cool. Obviously she was identical to her twin so it's not like she wasn't also incredibly gorgeous, it's just she wasn't a snooty bitch who was more interested in looking down her nose at other women than befriending them.

No. 320721

I don't get why people have a problem with ya'll?? Like what is the problem with it?

No. 320723

I think it's not jealousy but an innate distrust and uneasiness with other women. An indifference if you will. It's a thing and it's still toxic, pretend it's always on the fault of the other person is weird though. Women don't like other women a whole lot.

No. 320726

the absolute state of brainlets

No. 320731

>Women don't like other women a whole lot.

you are on lolcow dot farm

No. 320733

Any anti-weeb anons or anons triggered by anything remotely weeb instantly out themselves as newfags imo.

No. 320735

I think it's ex weebs who are now koreaboos.

No. 320743

I already ranted about this before on lc, god how I hate it…
At first I actually had no idea that it's grammatically incorrect, but hated the way people used it or how I imagined it sounds (never talked to an American in person).
>you guys
…basically everything that tumblr loves.

No. 320744

This is probably retarded, but what do you use instead of those? I've pretty much exclusively used "you guys" and "y'all" my whole life…

No. 320747

It seems to be more of a southern US thing, but I'm from the
West coast and picked it up in my casual speech. "Y'all" may sound stupid to some people but it's very convenient.

No. 320750

Whenever I see people being ultra-triggered by something even remotely weebish I always imagine a 18-20yo koreaboo who has grown out of her weeb phase 1-2 years ago and is now obsessed with trying to hide the fact that it wasn't long ago when she thought she'd move to Japan to be a true aidoru/mangaka when she grows up.

No. 320761

Me neither, but I guess it's because I'm from the south… Everyone around here uses it all the time.

I get triggered when northerners call soda "pop" and I think timbs are ugly.

No. 320762

Y'all is normal to me because I grew up in Appalachia, but I hate that people have just started using it as a trendy thing; when it's out of place in their vocabulary it really shows. Even worse is when they use it for ~inclusivity~ but shit on people who use it while having a real accent. Talk about cultural appropriation lmao. Looking at you, sjw girls in the back row of my finance lecture that giggled at the post-doc guest speaker with an Appalachian accent but use y'all and "folx" to be inclusive. Picking it up naturally happens, but everyone can immediately tell that they picked it up from black Twitter or Tumblr.

No. 320764

I've been internet culture for two decades and I always had a distaste for weeds

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No. 320768

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….how does someone use y'all wrong?

No. 320769

what do you expect people to say? its colloquialism

No. 320771

i hate those paths where they split them into pedestrian and cyclist parts. mainly because the one in my town is about 75% cycle path and 25% pedestrian path and yet some cunty cyclists still feel entitled to speed around on the pedestrian part.

its so fucking annoying because back when i was in secondary school that path was the only way i could get to school and i saw multiple incidents where cyclists hit pedestrians whilst hurtling along but they were never held accountable. in fact i remember some of them yelling at the people they hit that they should have gotten out of their way faster. maybe they should have just kept to the cycle path in the first place?

No. 320773

Nta but not wrong as in incorrect, but wrong as in unnatural. Picture a canadian saying "y'all". It's disgusting.

No. 320784

Astrology is annoying. I don't care if you have an interest in it, it's when people start transferring personal responsibility to ~the universe~ that it gets irritating. It is helpful that these people immediately ask your sign so you know you can't take them seriously.

No. 320789

That reminds me that time on dumblr when everyone was using the word "hella", and from what I understood, almost everyone was using it wrong because it's just slang for "very" but almost everyone I saw was usinc it by itself and would often say "it's hella!!", shit was weird and confusing.

No. 320791

It's hard to explain through text, but they're not wrong, just out of place. It's when they use no other speech patterns or vocabulary that matches, and use trendy vocabulary like "slay" mixed in with it. It's one of those things you just know when you hear it.

No. 320792

have you ever thought that's how some people talk? im from the south and i always used "ya'll" online and its only until recently autists want to screech about it

No. 320804

The people who are super into it always seem like the people who took those "What Color Is Your Anime Hairstyle" quizzes too far.

No. 320805

Agreed, it's annoying and makes no sense at all and it's really cringeworthy when people are way too much into it.

A few years ago there was a girl in my friend circle who was atheist (she always made sure to remind everyone how ~atheist she was) but got obsessed with the zodiac asking everyone to check their "astral map" KEK

No. 320806

its really obvious when someone uses y'all naturally. if you use it everyday you got nothing to worry about. every time i see someone use that phrase wrong it turns out they're from somewhere in europe and have never said the world y'all in real life.

people only do it to seem hip and woke even if they dont realize it

No. 320827

I look quite ugly, and she looked much cuter than me. It's just cause I was female, and the only other female there. It was a rare episode, I get along with people fine. Just annoys me when girls are territorial, I don't know if "jealously" is really the right word

No. 320828

It actually is hilarious seeing people misuse it on the internet, being from the south United States and hearing it every day. I still think it's worse hearing non-Southern people use it to try to be trendy tho. So fake.

No. 320834

It annoys me when white Americans who aren’t from the south or the country misuse it too.

No. 320837

I started using it because it’s convenient af in social work when your lecturer is a bit weird about avoiding gendered language. I know how stupid it sounds because I’m goddamn Australian but it’s a hard habit to break, especially when the usual term around here is ‘youse’ which is stupider imo.

No. 320839

Kek 'youse' is the boganest shit but I can't bring myself to say y'all, it's too american. I just call groups of people 'you guys' tbh.

No. 320842

I always said you guys too, but two years of this lecturer burned it out of me. Youse is so bogan I hate it.

Unrelated, I fucking lose my mind over people who believe zodiac shit. The moon is not influencing you, you’re just an entitled wanker Sarah. Saying you’re a saggitarius means nothing except you’re a gullible dickhead with no inner monologue going on.

No. 320843

These are good ones Anon

No. 320844

i used to not care about astrology or being ~crunchy. its not for me but people can do what they want. but this one distant aquaitance of mine has become a yoga-shilling, trump loving, all fruit diet anti-vax, numerology and astrology shill practically overnight and its fucking insane. its one thing to laugh at buzzfeed quizzes like "which mac and cheese dish is your astrological sign". its another thing to think adding up the numbers of the dates creates your divine path, that eating only grapes for a week makes you high, and that astrology seriously predicts the political machinations of this country.

because of her, ive done a lot of hate reading of similar minded people and they are identical to crazy born again christians, they hate gay people, they hate birth control, they hate feminism and believe sex causes "soul ties", they love trump, and they believe in every conspiracy theory out there, including the illuminati. the only difference is that christians think yoga is the devil and these people are usually yoga teachers.

No. 320846

I'm really friendly but my problem is with literal strangers in the street and anywhere I go, glaring at me, staring etc. The girls act hateful and the guys try and act friendly and happy. I love people and don't care how people look, but in regard to strangers there's nothing I can do about the dumb "competitiveness"

I'm mostly friends with women irl so I don't think it's some signal I'm sending out

No. 320850

Youse is popular where I am too but also "yiz".

No. 320851

Oh ew. The youse around here is pronounced more like a yuh’s and it’s an awful sound. Part and parcel of living in an area where people still think dripping out of school and selling weed makes them ‘street smart’ and think it’s impressive that they’ve never read a novel.

No. 320862

Yeah, really. I've said 'you guys' for years, even when talking to my female friends.

No. 320868

>only weebs and kboos exist
You guys are annoying. People who don't find shitty Asian entertainment fun exist and find you pathetic.

No. 320871

>interrupting/derailing IRL conversations

>being vocally critical of things you know nothing about

>bragging about mundane shit everyone does in college (petty crimes, protesting, cheating, etc)

>people who describe entire scenes/full movies/episodes to convince you to watch it

>art hoes

>new parents

>people who sing in public (outside of open mic/karaoke)

No. 320876

When it’s play time and my cat doesn’t want to put in any effort, when I’m breaking my back trying to give her quality fun times. Makes me wanna kick her face in cuz I try so hard to keep her entertained and moving
but she just doesn’t give a fuck sometimes

Normies when they talk about how fun getting drunk and doing drugs is

Normies in general

Sales people that ask if you need anything
or help. It’s not even necessarily the people working, it’s just the whole concept of needing help when you walk into a clothing store. Why is that a thing? It’s clothes, find something you like, find the size you need, buy it and leave. I saw a thread on twitter that had like 20k likes complaining about forever 21 employees that don’t help shoppers, and I just couldn’t wrap my head around it. Maybe it’s because I live in a shithole (Poland), where customer service is not really a thing, so when I see westerners complain about employees not eating their assholes it comes off as entitled and annoying

No. 320879

people who put zero effort into bait posts. >>320876

No. 320880

How was anything I said bait

No. 320888

This is horrible but it annoys me so much when I get home and people ask how my day was. I know I have no right to be annoyed by that question because people ask it out of kindness, but after a long day I just want to be silent, not immediately answer questions about what happened that day

When people say things like "Well I'm just a bitch!" or "I'm just brutally honest!" and use it as an excuse to say whatever they want without considering other peoples feelings

No. 320889

Damn, I hate getting asked about my day too. I have no right to complain cause I live with my parents and they are just being nice but I had work, 99% of the time it sucks and I don't feel like talking til I've had an hr or so to relax.

No. 320892

Also use you guys and have since I was a little girl. Is this a Northeast thing? Like NYS, Pennsylvania, Jersey kind of thing? Curious.

No. 320899

People who drive modified old, junky cars that like to rev the engine and be as loud as physically possible annoy me so so much. My gut reaction is to always tell them to calm down, even though I know they can't hear me

No. 320904

My mom basically asks me our equivalent of "are you still alive?" every time I get home.
It throws me for a loop every time and makes me so so so angry.
No, I'm not alive, I'm a reanimated corpse.

No. 320905

So sick of this too, I'm British so "hey y'all" sounds stupid as fuck in our accents
I try to be a good pal to my gender non-conforming friends by asking what they can suggest as an alternative but when they say things like "hey pals/buds/friends" I just want to kill them. Why would I start referring to any collective of people as friends? Again, we're British, that overly familiar shit doesn't fly with normal people no matter what the norm is on tumblr

No. 320906

Overly friendly people in the service industry. I get that they are just trying to be nice but I don't like people commenting on my purchases, I'd buy everything online if I could. I never know how to respond if they get chatty with me, I'd rather they just say their script and give a basic level of politeness.

Not trying to attack OP but I'm not a fan of using gifs as OPs. My eyes are always wandering to it as I type up a reply.

No. 320907

So sick of this too, I'm British so "hey y'all" sounds stupid as fuck in our accents
I try to be a good pal to my gender non-conforming friends by asking what they can suggest as an alternative but when they say things like "hey pals/buds/friends" I just want to kill them. Why would I start referring to any collective of people as friends? Again, we're British, that overly familiar shit doesn't fly with normal people no matter what the norm is on tumblr

No. 320908

My mom basically asks me our equivalent of "are you still alive?" every time I get home.
It throws me for a loop every time and makes me so so so angry.
No, I'm not alive, I'm a reanimated corpse.

No. 320916

No, not at all.

No. 320918

People who spend their youth unkempt, uncaring about fashion/makeup/styling etc who enter their 20s then make a big deal about glowing up and shit but still don't even make an actual effort because looking decent is vain or whatever.

Overly insecure people who try to hide it by being self deprecating. You aren't fooling anyone and it's cringey and sad.

Gender conforming people who, for some reason, feel the need to put their gender conforming pronouns on their bios.

Limp handshakes, especially coming from guys. It's unsettling and instantly makes me think you're some kind of creepy weirdo.

No. 320919

to be fair, a lot of us are in secret shops almost constantly and we have no choice but to pester you and engage in conversation, especially pertaining to certain topics or we risk getting fired basically :/
a lot of people who havent experienced many shops will default to a very obviously fake politeness because they're nervous they're gonna fuck it up

No. 320925

When I was working fast food we just had to read off a script, but I guess retail is different with that sort of stuff. I don't really blame or get mad at employees, it's just something I wish wouldn't happen. They're trying their best.
Retail seems awful for being minimum wage while having to put in more work.

No. 320930

People who post what song they're listening to on IG Stories are annoying. No one cares.
Actually people who spam their stories with dumb shit every hour of the day are annoying and I end up ignoring them or unfollowing. You don't need to share every mundane moment if your life with the world.

No. 320955

Complains about passive aggressiveness to whites and un-ironically agrees with this >>320462 passive aggressive comment.

No. 320956

I’m going to add to this and say people who act like their better because they don’t enjoy places like H&M and other places that sell current fashion.

People who brag about how little they spent in clothes despite not looking put together and gross

No. 321010

Your bizzare smugness about not having any interest in Asian popculture makes you sound like the kind of shithead that bullied the quiet classmate trying to enjoy her manga in peace.
It's just as cringy, especially on fucking lolcow.

No. 321023

I'm not smug about it. I don't bully anyone about it. I don't even care about all these hate threads you guys have for each other's fetishistic hobbies. I was replying to tour retarded assumption that only the other type of Asianboo nerds can dislike you. It's more likely to be normal people. Sorry about the Stacys who bullied your musty weeb ass in school, kek

No. 321024

No shit, but what do normies have to do with anything anyone's talking about? You sound more annoying than any weeb or koreeb whining at each other.

No. 321026

> I don't bully anyone about it
>Sorry about the Stacys who bullied your musty weeb ass in school, kek

So you do not bully weebs but you like when it happens and assume people interested in weeby things are 'musty' and gross. OK
Imagine feeling that pressed about weebs on a website built by weebs to talk shit about weeby cows.
Maybe go back to reddit or something if you are so above anything remotely weeby

No. 321048

LMAO you're a whole ass retard. There was no "smugness" about it, you sound like a korea/weeaboo who is hurt people find you cringe.
> You sound more annoying than any weeb or koreeb whining at each other.
No, they don't.

No. 321049

I have never met a strong weeb who wasn't musty and gross. At most the bearable weebs are going to be into some anime, usually iconic ones, and that's it. Going to a Sailor Moon convention I saw a lot of the worst human specimens of my life.

No. 321055

you deserve to be bullied, weeb-chan

No. 321056

stop sperging already, retard.

No. 321064

all those posts were made by different posters, loser.

No. 321096

>conflating mere dislike/lack of interest with being mad and triggered about it all the time
#1 mistake weebs/kboos in denial make. I think furries are disgusting and have absolutely no interest in their cancerous subculture, so I stay away from it unless something really big gets out, like the Necrozoophile thread. I don't go to the PULL equivalent of FurAffinity daily, lmao.

If you really are a "normal person" who just doesn't enjoy weeby shit, it wouldn't get you so pressed, and you also wouldn't be here. LC was literally made as an offshoot of a board and site for weeaboos. Go make your own board if it's that deep to you.

No. 321100

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>being mad about weebs on a site that was already filled with weebs to begin with
this is like going on /r9k/ and being mad about all the incels on there
it's really strange

No. 321111

Ooh and additionally, people who think they're better or more fashionable bc they wear ultra cheap, low quality garbage from taobao and romwe bc it's "quirky" and different from normie trends.

No. 321112

I am not even a weeb but go off, sperg

No. 321148

This annoys me too. I was once berated by an American for denying my country had anything to do with slavery. Apparently, even though I'm from a European country, just being white means that I somehow contributed to slavery in America and I'm still benefiting from it now, lmao. She then went on to call us rapists. K.

No. 321149


I've been told by two different Americans that I shouldn't speak Spanish because I'm appropriating Latin America.

I am Spanish.

No. 321152

Keep pretending that. Thats why you had to mention it lmfao. Pathetic

No. 321153

Sorry, anon. I don't think they know that mexico speaks spanish because spain conquered mexico so whoever told you that is a tard.

No. 321163

tbh if I was ever really chatty with a customer it was because I was super fucking lonely and craved real human interaction in that moment. there are times when the robot spitting out lines thing gets boring, repetitive, and makes you want to kill yourself because you're a literal npc so you try to spice it up before hanging yourself in the break room. I do understand the times when you just want to get your shit and get out though so I can't fault you on anything you said.

No. 321186

They're most likely only aware of the European countries that had a direct influence on the US thanks to colonization and slavery, and think that Europe is a completely homogeneous continent. There's no excuse for that, you can google the name of any country in the world and have a detailed explanation on everything about it, what a dumbass.

They're the same people who think white Mexicans aren't white of European descendent, but "white passing oppressed POCs uwu"

No. 321187

Don't listen to those fucking idiots. Learning multiple languages is a big advantage to anyone. Spanish is a really widely spoken one as well, so learning it is very helpful.

No. 321196

>They're most likely only aware of the European countries that had a direct influence on the US thanks to colonization and slavery,
Doubtful, because the Spanish has had a huge influence on Western America.

No. 321211

I'm Spanish too and I just hate this whole fucking mindset. Also, Americans of Latino descent who don't speak a word of Spanish but pretend to know everything about Hispanic culture always get on my nerves. I once found a chick who claimed that calling Latinos "Latinos" was a colonial plan to restore the Spanish empire.

No. 321213

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Ah, yes, because all of us Spaniards are secretly conspiring under a basement in Murcia to bring back the Spanish empire while drinking Mexican blood.

No. 321214

Keep telling yourself that all those ebul boolies are just one mean ol' Stacy cunt, stinky.

No. 321218

Which is exactly what I meant. I implied France, the UK, Spain, Portugal, etc. not countries in the Balkans or Scandinavia which were minding their business a bit more. I'm guessing the anon I was replying to (who might be you) isn't from Spain but maybe she is? When I say they're aware of these countries it's that they sort of know some things about them, not that they know these countries' histories or traditions perfectly well.

No. 321247

No, that anon wasn't me. I mean to say that many people barely acknowledge Spanish and especially Portuguese influence. Which are, as you've said, players in US History.

Spain wasn't as influential compared to, say, Britain in terms of colonization and slavery, but had a big influence in Western America in terms of discovery and settlement. It's probably why people act retarded about Latinos and Spanish. Everyone has a pretty good idea of French influence, and no one will tell a French person they're appropriating Haitian culture by speaking French, for ex.

No. 321249

As an American, I can confidently say that most people in my country don't even know Haitians speak creole French.

No. 321250

>one mean ol' Stacy cunt
You wish. You are far too retarded for that, you failed normie kek.
Real Stacys do not hang out at goddamn lolcow as they have better things to do then sperg about weebs.

No. 321256

It annoys me how you bitches will fight about literally anything.

No. 321260

No. 321264

Sorry anon, that made me laugh. How ignorant considering you speak at least two languages fluently and most Americans only speak one. You've got a much more educated view of the world thanks to being exposed to media from all different part of the world and they're still living in their little American bubble.

>think that Europe is a completely homogeneous continent
That's very much a thing and I'll never understand it. Is learning about the rest of the world not part of their education system? I had to learn plenty of American history including wars, politics and geography (as part of us learning about world history). I don't think someone aware of classical studies could ever claim that Europeans have no culture. Like some of my first memories of secondary school were of learning about the Roman culture, Greek architecture, the Medieval period and the Renaissance period, I'm guessing none of that is covered in the US.

I'm guessing the person who had an argument with me did Google my country but hilariously she tried to educate me on it based on a quick browse of the Wikipedia page or something. She dismissed a lot of the suffering my country went through because it didn't fit her view of the world. Sad.

No. 321270

Unfortunately some of these assholes come here just to start fights.

No. 321271

Ah, here's something that annoys me. People who only refer to Mexico when speaking about Latin America as if there aren't dozens of other countries that speak Spanish.

No. 321282

>taking it this personal

No. 321324

I've had an american tell me, a european who's family never left the country, that we're invaders, colonizers and whatnot - meanwhile she's a white hispanic, descendant of the spanish who invaded america and killed the natives. But no, she's sooo oppressed, despite being white passing (she's really just white). She tried to argue that if I were to go to the US I'd still magically have privilege over them, although I'm a foreigner and no native speaker. Yeah, sounds about right…

I really have no idea how americans can argue that the spanish or italians, etc are poc.

No. 321344

I'm pretty sure SJWs/murricans do learn about European culture but can't quite make the connection between the cool shit they read about and the actual living people in europe. Or they think because white americans are white and "cultureless" the same applies to every other society composed of mostly white people. Or both at once, coupled with a serious case of seeing current global society as a neutral background for what they consider authentic cultures (i.e. non-white) which is honestly the thing that annoy me most, the lack of self awareness and the pretense to be neutral. Other cultures get to keep their beliefs and act upon them, they get to exclude people of other cultures if they so choose, but god forbid a white country doesn't want to be inundated with people from a different culture, the absolute bigotry of whites daring to consider themselves deserving of having their own beliefs respected.

No. 321350

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I find crap like this on my facebook feed really annoying. I have ended up unfollowing multiple family members because they have a penchant for sharing these snarky quote 'memes' multiple times a day.

No. 321351

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Another example.

No. 321378

I've had the exact same dumb argument. Apparently just existing in europe is enough to be at fault for all historical crime.

No. 321380

Kpop in general but mostly BTS and their shitty stans

No. 321397

People sure love to toot their own horn on facebook. Apparently all of my relatives are the nicest people ever until they're not. What the fuck does that even mean? That you're nice until you decide not to be? Well wowee

No. 321407


It really just depends on where you grew up, tbh. I am from the southern US and it's just a part of the regular speech pattern so it just feels natural for me to type that. The use of 'y'all' and 'all y'all' didn't really get popular until social media became a thing. I still remember going to the northern part of the US to visit family when I was a kid and being made fun of by my cousin's friends for saying "y'all"

I have a great disdain for people who are not from the US that use "y'all". Like… not even ten years ago y'all were making fun of people for using that word and now y'all wanna use it cause it's a popular word to use now?
I am acquaintances with a girl from England whom, not even TWO years ago, would poke fun at me for using "y'all" and now she uses it regularly and it just sounds…wrong. She doesn't even use it properly. It irks me more than it should.

No. 321409

lol'ing at the thought of non-americans saying "y'all." I cringe every time a non-southerner says it.

When I was in college in the northeast so many people made fun of me for my accent, which is not even that strong (people in the south don't think I have an accent at all). One of my professors made fun of me in front of the class for it and told me I sounded like a dumb hick. He told me no one could understand what I was saying and that if I couldn't speak correctly I should drop out of the class

No. 321410

Since I take public transit everyday, here are some of my annoyances.

-When it’s super crowded and people are taking up their seat with their belongings. Like I get if you have a big ass suitcase and you’re going to the airport but I regular bag? Just put it in your lap or on the floor.

People who talk really loud on their phones. Especially if I can still hear them over my headphones. No one wants to hear your conversation. You’re not excused if you’re talking in a different language either.

People who bully others to give up seats. I understand if you’re sick, old, pregnant, or disabled. But just because you are doesn mean you’re excused from basic manners. And besides the person who was sitting there in the first place also might be sick/disabled as well. Just because they look healthy doesn’t mean they are.

No. 321416

i hate how guys can be uglier than a butthole but can still go after girls who are extremely out of their league but if a girl talks about how she likes a guy out her league suddenly she's a bitch who needs to lower her standards or settle. If ugly mcgee can lust after angelina jolie than i can lust after brad pitt LOL

No. 321417

What a fucking asshole. Did you do anything about it?

No. 321418

Omg, anon, I'm so sorry that happened to you! How did the professor think that that was okay? I hope he got fired

I went to my undergrad in Colorado and when people found out that I was from Texas, the first thing they would always say was "But you don't have an accent!" then I would use "y'all" or "Y'all'd've" or "fixin' to" in conversation and the same people would say "Your Texan accent is so weird!! LOL!"

No. 321424

I complained to the English department and he apologized to me. The next semester he started teaching online classes only, and 2 years later left the university altogether. From talking to other people he was apparently a huge prick who mostly picked on girls, and I was the first to bring it up.

What I heard through the rumor mill (so not sure if it's 100% true or not) is that he would intentionally give girls lower grades so that they would go to his office hours to ask why their essay was graded badly and he could hit on them, try to get them to offer sexual favors for a better grade. Good thing i'm too lazy to go to office hours lol.

Some southern slang is a tell for me I guess, like "bless your heart." Some phrases I didn't even know were southernisms, like "egg on," "figure," "hankering," and "uppity." Also my love for hush puppies and sweet tea.

No. 321433

Oh my god. That's disgusting! People like him don't deserve to live. I'm glad he isn't able to prey on other students anymore, though.

Wait…."egg on" is a southernism? That's not a widely used expression? I had no idea!
"Bless your heart" is a huge giveaway for me, but it sometimes leads to huge misunderstandings if the person I'm talking to isn't from the South, haha

No. 321445

I'm from the South without an accent and it shows in my speech patterns and word choice too. I didn't realize most of those were southern things until later either. I get some reactions when I use "plumb forgot", "lord willing", or "none of" too, but some of those are more region specific apparently. People just openly chuckle about it too, I guess it's just too funny and "quaint" or some shit.

No. 321491

>go to mostly male 4chan, full of women-hate
>go to mostly female lolcow or /cgl/, full of women-hate

No. 321495

I dislike the constant infighting but at least anons at lolcow are bitchy and not wishing rape and murder on each other just for being female.

No. 321511

I have to ask, what are they doing?

No. 321517

unless they're cows

No. 321524

To add to the discussion a while ago about women disliking other women/being territorial, I think this problem is much worse when you're mostly into male-oriented hobbies. Especially in the anime/gaming community the girls get really bitchy.
I never have any problem with women being "territorial" outside of those interests, but I think that might also be because I have a clothing style that's weird to normies and don't dress sexy so they might not see me as competition as much. Being non-threatening helps with getting along with other women, fucked up as it may sound.

No. 321530

I'm not sure, normies tend to fight a lot with eachother as well but more often in a passive-agressive or gossipy way (or even backstabbing) so maybe it's just that it's not as much "in your face" that it seems that way.

No. 321560

haha, this is annoying. but you could just, you know, voice it to him. say HEY, leave it on the fucking table will ya. problem solved

No. 321566

i agree with this post, but i chose to just ignore people who feel intimidated by me being quiet and not smiling 24/7. don't feel the need to change except if you desperately want to make new friends

No. 321598

A-logging is a bannable offense here

No. 321625

I think it's truly annoying when people pretend having an ideal, perfect life on social media or inside their friend circle or make their normal, if not shitty relationship look like it's absolute goals, you know, these insta-couples or that insecure friend trying to look like they're more than they really are.

No. 321635

Sometimes the people in the kpop critical thread are just as delusional, tinhatty and spergy as hardcore kpop fans

No. 321647

I'm annoyed that there isn't a new unpopular opinions thread.

No. 321650

imagine thinking there would be only one person who hates weebs. no one likes you

No. 321670

No. 321671

I know it is dumb and I shouldn't care what people like this think anyway but it annoys me to no end when men say that traps/trap fashion is peak femininity and that women don't like to look feminine.

No. 321676

Anti-abortionfags who don't give enough of a shit to either push prevention by making contraceptives widely accessible to reduce need for abortions, or supporting social/children's welfare services for the inevitable amounts of unwanted children born to neglectful parents.

No. 321687

trap ""femininity"" is just a sub fetish. Traps and the degenerate men who are into them exist because of a dependence to porn, which shows women as nothing else but submissive cum loving holes. You may not agree with 'society standards' of femininity (being nurturing, sensible, delicate; having interests in arts or cooking) but traps completely lack them.

No. 321689

The difference is that women't don't have to look/dress feminine to prove they're women. Women always look feminine, you could be wearing a trash bag and people would still know you're a woman

No. 321691

Hetero men who say traps or trannies are better than real women are fucking gay and in denial.
How do they not realize how gay they sound.

No. 321694


Honestly. I've never seen a single man into traps or shemale porn who hasn't eventually graduated to gay porn after a while.

No. 321700

I'm annoyed about people complaining about a lack of new threads while refusing to just make a new one themselves.

No. 321771

they are seriously gay. it's actually pathetic and sad how self hating they are.

No. 321782

Gay men are fucking annoying in general, whether they're in the closet or out

No. 321797

Dated a guy who was into traps, unknown to me until right before we broke up, and it REALLY explained why he had the views on women he did. Everything a woman did, myself included, was not good enough. This was too thin/too fat/too crooked/too straight. You could compare someone with a face and figure exactly to his preference to a mediocre trap and the trap would win 100% of the time for being more of a "real woman."

The excuse I've heard is "It's not gay if you can't see the dick" which is just ???? People who put traps over real women as a fetish are just 100% degenerate scum and I beg anyone to just avoid them completely.

No. 321813

Excuse my ignorance but is a trap a guy in drag?? How the fuck is that more feminine than a woman, these Niggas is gay

No. 321824

Kind of. Traps are just extremely feminine, emasculate looking men that cross dress or look feminine enough that it's hard to tell if they're actually female or not. If you've ever heard the term "careful, it's a trap!" or "confused boner" that's where it comes from

No. 321831

Your second point reminds me of what I’m annoyed about at work.

I have a group of hispanic coworkers and they literally all have extremely loud video chats every time they communicate on the phone, without earphones. I’m not trying to be racist, but it irrates me so much.

No. 321836

That shit only works in anime though. You can spot a man in a dress a mile away.

No. 321837

I'm puerto rican and can confirm a lot of hispanics do this shit. they're usually from other parts of the country though. it's really irritating as fuck and highly inconsiderate. Anyone in general using their phone without headphones can go die.

No. 321838

Agreed 100%!!
I'm so sick of gay men. They're still more privileged than straight or gay women.

No. 321844

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it's good enough for people that are into that kind of thing. traps are only ever spoken about in an online sense, guys never think"oh well they probably look shit irl, zomg photoshop and angles", and i dont think the dudes that are into that shit care that much

No. 321848

Men don't seem to realize photoshop exists, that's why costhots can filter and meitu themselves to fuck and they still throw money at them.

No. 321907

hahaha oh yes there's so many of them.
relax anon, you know your life is a lot more interesting and the reason you're not constantly posting pics is probably because you're too busy having fun.

No. 321913

People who pretend to be poorer than they actually are.

Bonus points if they didn't earn the wealth they have by themselves.

I've seen people outright lie about their upbringing to seem poorer, a dude I used to know did this.

He would always say "oh, I'm just really good at saving money!" Meanwhile his parents both have very well paying jobs and he just sits on his ass all day playing league of legends.

No. 321928

it's annoying but i get why they do it. who would want to admit that they're rich?

No. 321946

People acting jealous because they think my parents are super rich.
My parents started from nothing, my mom had to sew my clothes when I was a kid because we couldn't afford to buy them. All other kids had a shitton of toys and computer but we could never afford it.
Now they've worked super hard and still do so they have a bit more and people treat me like I'm some spoiled brat who's always had everything easy for her while I always helped my parents out as well.

No. 321948

Yeah my dad's a millionaire, my ex boyfriend took a date to his mansion once to brag about it and I happened to be up on the balcony was so fucking weird. Essentially from that point his date has been for years directing a tirade of abuse towards me. I'll met new people that will already have assumptions about me if they've met or had mutual friends with this girl it's so weird.

No. 321950

I'm >>321948 and my Dad came from a very poor working class background and made his millions after divorcing my mum. I grew up in a single parent household on benefits, getting free travel to school and lunches. People bullied me at school for not having new clothes every weekend or repeating outfits, for not being able to even afford driving lessons. Was only in my 20s my Dad came back into my life and said he wanted to be there for me. He helped me finance a car (I still have to do the monthly repayments) and was a guarantor for a rented property my wage pays for. People now treat me like a spoilt entitled brat and the amount of people that know me casually that will imply my lifestyle is all paid for by my daddy is so fucking odd

No. 321952

I just saw that Why I’m no longer talking to white people about race got published in my mostly white, europoor country and is hyped as a bestseller. While I bet it's an interesting and informative read to normies that never run into tumblr SJWs, I am mildly annoyed at this American crap being pushed down our throats. We have our own societal issues to solve. Why the fuck it feels like we should care about Americans shitting up their own country and racial relations. I am not a white American, my grandparents did not own any slaves, etc.
And tbh I do not find American look at racism very helpful in regards to other countries besides things you might learn from basic sociology (like microaggression).
I do not fucking care about this lady and her book. If Black (and Chinese, Vietnamese, basically minorities that live here etc.) people wrote about their experiences with racism in my society, I would LOVE to read it though. I am just tired of America pushing their SJW narrative toward the rest of the world. Maybe I would not feel like this had tumblrfags were not trying very hard to treat Europe like second America.

No. 321961

any guy who claims that “traps” are more feminine than women is mentally ill, delusional, and socially stunted.

No. 321979


And gay.

No. 321980

White Americans dont want to fix their problems so they project to Europeans. They forget they're the last western country to give up slavery and give civil rights, but they like to pretend they are social leaders.

No. 322012

I'm annoyed at many animal owners who always gets triggered very easily and are ready to bully and screech YoU aBoOsEr at people who don't overspoil their pets or have minor misinformations or spay/neuter them specially when these people are far away from giving stellar care to their own pets. It looks like they only want a target to project their insecurities or wrongdoings and feel better with themselves.

No. 322018

People who are sensitive to animal deaths in media. They're in the same vein as adults who hate fruits and veggies.

No. 322019

"Muh poor furbabbies!!" God, they're so annoying. People will see a dog die in a movie and will riot.

No. 322022

I don't see how it's any different from not wanting to sit through a long, graphic rape scene or a torture scene in a film. Some people enjoy sitting through rape or torture scenes, other people just don't. I just don't like seeing dogs die on screen and if I know a film has a dog in it, I won't watch it.

No. 322023

How the FUCK do you not see the difference between those things? My god, animalfags are completely brain dead.

No. 322026

Brief scene of dog dying is somehow comparable to graphic rape or torture to them.

No. 322029

Are you seriously even comparing the two?? A graphic rape scene to a dog getting shot in a movie?? One obviously affects people way more and normalizes violence against women, while the other… doesn't.

wow, please question your life choices.

No. 322032

Worse than that, that anon equated it to long scenes of humans being graphically raped or tortured. I'm tempted to cap the post and post it in the dog hate thread.

No. 322033

>Some people enjoy sitting through rape or torture scenes,

Those people are called psychopaths and should be removed from society.

No. 322035

when people assume that being an adult automatically means hating things you liked as a child, or suddenly liking things you didn't like before. your choices don't make you a fucking adult, your ability to make your own money and pay your rent does. the only people i've ever known to bitch about people making "adult" choices, were toxic and immature as fuck.

No. 322038

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Probably not a lot of white ppl that can relate but people who go on about “muh black hair” and talk about how people are literally persecuted at school and their jobs for going natural are full of shit sometimes and have probably either never actually seen it happen or work in some kind of service industry that requires them to pull their hair back and keep it out of the way and they see that as some kind of “opression” because they cant show off all of the work they put into their hair. A lot of its attention seeky.

And this is coming from somebody who has 4A kinky hair and has left it natural since high school. Nobody cares about your hair as much as you think they do, and the people who cant stfu about that shit are the people who spend hours prepping and upkeeping their hair to the point that its a fucking lifestyle for them. (The same can be said about skincare/makeup/fitness and I know it can be a hobby for some people, but talking about it 24/7 and interjecting it into conversations makes me secretly hate you)

Also people are always reaching when some white dude has dreads talking about “oh if it was a black man they would have made him cut that shit off” like come on seeing some rando white boy with stanky ass dreads i tend to think lesser of him than if a black man had dreads (probably because of the association with gross hippies)

No. 322040

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Grown adults who put way too much effort into criticizing kids shows and films. Rage reviewers 25+ years old who feel the need to tell you why some direct to dvd disney sequel isn’t entertaining to them.

Adults who act like some buzzfeed level quiz on pottermore that sorted them rings true. People who say things like “As a Ravenclaw ….” unironically.

People who make cartoon conspiracies/people who believe them to be true.

No. 322041

rich people that say money doesn't matter
no, tyler, you would not give up the trust fund your family inevitably has for you and the thousands they send u each month just for a true friend. fuck off with that shit

No. 322042

The general bitchiness of farmers, honestly. Some of you need to keep your awful opinions to yourselves.

No. 322043

Anyone who says money doesn't matter annoys me to death. I would love to have a better paying job so i can actually buy the material things i love. I'm gonna die eventually, so let me be happy, barbara.

No. 322047

I get salty when people just say South or North or whatever in their posts but don't specify their country… Lol who am I kidding, it's Americans that do it,euros always specify because we know USA rules the western internet.
Your post completely changes context without it, not attacking >>321424 in any way but to use an example, Hush Puppies is an old lady brand of shoe in the UK and sweet tea is a thing there so at first I just assumed anon meant near London when they said South.
This is an international board, but I feel like Americas forget that.

This. The internet is so full of "white people can't be racist etc" stuff and it's like, do you want to tell the Irish and the Polish about that or should I? I can follow the nitpicky logic that when it's white-on-white hate we're meant to call it just descrimination or nationalism instead but all does is paint a picture that entitlement to sjw support has tiers based on colour
Yes I have a stick up my ass about America taking over everything today ok

No. 322056

Americans are the majority on this website. We shouldn't have to go out of our ways to clarify shit for you whiny eurofags, damn.

No. 322058

Fine, but don't expect us to give a fuck about whatever amerifat issue you are sperging about.

No. 322062

>literally just asking you type US after North or South
>going out of your way
No stereotype of being lazy to see here folks!

No. 322064

We don't! No one is asking you to care or to reply to that shit.

No. 322067

Cool, not my experience as someone who has 4c hair. Just because you dont experience it doesnt negate the fact others do.

No. 322070


What annoys me is when people go after a non-black person for having dreadlocks or braids because "It's something associated with black people so it's appropriation" but when you point out lots of people dye their hair blonde suddenly it's "But blonde hair isn't exclusive to white people."

And braids aren't exclusive to black people, but they are most COMMON on black people, just as blonde hair is most common on white people, whether jealous people want to admit it or not.

No. 322080

In college I had a bunch of people joking about being "poor students" but once they knew I was disadvantaged enough to be granted a scholarship they were jealous or at the very least very judgmental. I'm talking about people from the other side of my country who had their own flat, food, clothes and driver licence paid by their parents, sometimes their years abroad, who were healthy, working and earning more than minimum wage. I'd rather have people showing off how rich they or their family are, it's annoying but at least it's straight forward. That scholarship was the highest available for me btw, and it still wasn't enough for me to even move to another flat so I couldn't even study were I wanted at all, but I'm still grateful, if it weren't for that I would have never studied after getting my high school diploma.

No. 322081

Well said. I feel like all these people picked it up from black of gay Twitter or something. But if someone actually from a region like the South or Appalachia uses y'all, you know word we've used for generations, it gets derided. Sometimes transplants pick it up when they move to Southern states, but that's different, that's just a thing that happens when people move to different places with a different accent/regional dialect.
It originally started as a 4chan meme about guys dressed up like women who actually looked feminine, or at least feminine by the standards of 4chan. Then you find out they have a dick and "It's a trap!" It seems like the term has broadened more over the years though. I actually heard a 15 year old girl use the term trap at a con recently, referring to a tranny. It was very odd hearing that word in real life.

No. 322083

Not that it concerns me directly but I think whether you can get in trouble for having natural hair or not at work depends on the job from what I've heard? I've read a long thread on twitter once about a luxury shop that was asking its employee to wear a wig or relax her hair or they's fire her, and they refused to hire a woman who had an afro at the job interview. She's the one who posted the thread so whether it's true or not is up to debate, but I went to that shop once a few months ago and it's totally believable to me.

No. 322086

I'm not trying to compare them. I'm just saying that both make certain people uncomfortable. I don't watch films to get depressed so I wouldn't watch ones about teens getting cancer either. Dogs dying doesn't make you sad or uncomfortable, that's fine but it doesn't mean that people who do find it uncomfortable are stupid or need to be forced to be exposed to that kind of media.

You'd be surprised how many action films contain scenes like that and my dad and brothers don't even seem to mind when they're on. I have to leave the room.

No. 322088

The irony because the rest of the world has to cater to dumb Americans all the fucking time. I see people online always providing American measurements in brackets and converting currency into dollars.

No. 322090

If you follow the conversation, you'd obviously see it's people from the Southern US talking to one another. You sound more self-absorbed than the Americans you whine about.

No. 322107

Boohoo. If you're so upset about it, why don't you just get born here next time? Better luck to you on your next dice roll, nigga.

No. 322109

>Thinking anyone actually WANTS to be born in America
Thanks, I'll enjoy my freedom to move to any of 28 countries at will, free healthcare and free higher education xoxoxo

No. 322119

>they called me dumb, they must be jealous
Did your mom help you write that post?

No. 322122


Exactly, but don't bother trying to reason with dog haters. They most likely enjoy seeing dogs die in movies

No. 322124

Lol @ the black and white thought process of
>If you don't outright refuse to watch a movie with a scene of a dog dying in it, that must mean dogs dying doesn't make you sad or uncomfortable! Or it must mean you enjoy it, you sick fuck!

You're a grown woman, not a toddler. It would be different if it was a graphic rape, murder, or torture scene, but it isn't. It's just a fucking dog that most likely died off-screen anyways. It's not stupid to feel sad or uncomfortable while watching an animal die in a movie, but it is stupid to refuse to watch any media that contains animal death just because it upsets you. I honestly don't understand how you two made it this far in life when you get triggered that easily. This embarassing childishness is what makes you people so annoying.

No. 322128

This is even more annoying in european countries where those hairstyles aren't associated with black americans/black people. Before tumblr I never had any idea that braids would be associated with black people, or even dreadlocks.

No. 322129

American martyrism is fucking annoying. You know, when you mention that perhaps internet is sometimes too us centric and all the amerifats start REEEEEEing like wounded animals and throw tantrums

No. 322131

Jesus christ, go back to your dog hating containment thread. You're the one that's triggered here. You derail every thread talking about how childish and pathetic people who like dogs are. I don't avoid movies with violence towards animals but I understand if you don't want to see that. Why does it matter so much to you?

No. 322133

>You derail every thread talking about how childish and pathetic people who like dogs are.
No, I don't do that, anon. I've never done that before today. Clearly there are a lot of people who are sick of your shit on this site.

No. 322134

I think Guy Tang is an annoying faggot but he gets a pass because he's considered so good with hair. I can't stand him.

No. 322135

I'm tired of seeing those "fucking white women" tweets because of voting in Texas, especially when it's tweeted by white women

No. 322137

I would say there's something wrong with your dad and brother, but they're men. Sad

No. 322138

Christ, you're embarrassing. I don't understand people who dislike horror films but I wouldn't force them to sit through a horror film and call them a "toddler" for getting uncomfortable but that's probably because I'm not fucking autistic. The only person with black and white thinking is yourself because you think that because dogs dying doesn't make you uncomfortable, it shouldn't make anyone else uncomfortable, cringe. It's a little thing called "empathy". Also imagine getting this worked up over someone not enjoying the same media as you. Hope you get your diagnosis soon xxxx

No. 322139

Writing things like
>Yes, Karen!
>No, Becky
while "sassily calling people out" is beyond obnoxious. Sadly, it's no longer even only tumblr doing that, but nearly every other site that's out there as well.

No. 322140

It's dumb af. Especially since braids and dreads have been around since the Scottish and Celtic era. It has nothing to do with black people but since black Americans are so loud, they want to associate all blacks with a certain hairstyle.

No. 322142


It's infuriating, particularly when white women who aren't even American are expected to answer for something they had nothing to do with.

Or when white men start talking about how white women are the devil and white women are to blame for Trump. Stop trying to dodge responsibility.

No. 322143

It's all over Twitter too. And you dare call out their bullshit, then you get called a racist??

No. 322145

>Before tumblr I never had any idea that braids would be associated with black people, or even dreadlocks.
When I was growing up, it was common for girls to get braids in their hair on holidays abroad. It was also common for hippie types to have dreadlocks. To think that those people would now be berated for "cultural appropriation" now is fucking bizarre to me.

No. 322175

I said I was just taking it for an example of a post that at first glance I can't place anon, I don't think I sound self absorbed for explaining a gripe that affects me often on this site in a gripe thread, but you do you

No. 322178

>people don't like seeing dogs being killed
oh the humanity. they're ruining the world. how will we go on. truly subhuman.

No. 322181

Semi-related is nicknaming the women calling cops on other people, like BBQ Becky and Permit Patty. In a lot of situations the people calling the cops are overreacting and are probably racist, but calling them these nicknames makes me cringe.

I'm pretty blunt and will confront someone who is doing something rude or disrespectful in public but I'm worried that if I do say something to someone who is non-white they'll start recording me and say I'm being racist.

No. 322189

If you're not actually being racist and/or overreacting, nothing will happen as a result of you being filmed.
I saw a video of some Latino guy filming a white woman who told him off at a dog park because his dog wasn't fixed and was harassing other dogs. He was laughing like a retard and saying shit like "You're gonna be the next one!!!". Since she actually had a good reason and didn't call the police or 911 for anything trivial, it didn't go viral. No one doxxed her, and literally nothing happened to her.
All the people in the viral videos were actually being shitty, racist and wasting the police's time because they basically wanted to "put those coloureds in their place". As long as that's not you, nothing will happen. If that is you, on the other hand…Yeah, be careful, and maybe look at your life.

No. 322196

People who hate dogs and won't shut up about it are annoying to me. Not liking them, or being more of a cat person is fine (I love both cats and dogs, personally). It's just the anti-dog spergs who make everything into a conversation about how all dogs ever should be muzzled at all times, how it's "always" an emergency if a dog is in a public space (even a trained one), how pitbulls should all be euthanized, how your home is automatically dirty if you own an indoor dog, how there's nothing wrong with poisoning your neighbor's dog if it barks too much. Putrid shit like that.
I have the dog hate thread hidden, but the mere fact that there's multiple people who can hate one species of animal so much that they need a designated thread to frequent is just off-putting to me.

No. 322198

The braids that have been in African history for since what we call "pre-history" to protect our hair and the braids you guys are thinking about are two different things. In fact our braids are damaging to non-afro texture hair. Speaking of which it annoys me when people talk about things as a fact when they have zero knowledge of the subject and I mean that a cross the board. The virtue signaling on Tumblr is exhausting.

No. 322202

I'm seeing pushback against those tweets by other people, at least. But yeah, I'm fucking sick of seeing them too.

No. 322207

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Being barked at and being expected to act as of you love dogs every single day, every single place you go vs. people hating dogs in one thread on a small anonymous board on the internet…

Your problems are nil, anon.
Unironically pic related. Switch of the computer, go outside and join the other doggo-loving portion of society - which is probably around 99,9%.

No. 322209

>sperging out this hard over a post in a thread that wasn't even directed at you expressing annoyance at an objectively annoying group in an "annoying thread"
You should take Tyler's advice yourself, anon. Contrary to what your psychosis tells you, no one cares if you love dogs IRL. Just don't be a dick and you will face no problems, lmao.

No. 322210

I'm pretty lots of people care, which is why the number of dogs being allowed in most places are rising. Not same anon, but i work near a cafe and see a couple eat there all the time. they sit outside, but their dog is on the chair eating food from the table.

Also, in my store we dont allow dogs, but people with 'emotional companions' come in all the time. I wont make anymore dog related posts since we have threads for that, but the other anon >>322207
is right. the dog love culture, esp in america is really bad. It doesn't even matter if you are hurt by a dog, people expect you to love them and it's annoying.

No. 322224

Where are you going where you feel this societal pressure to profess your love to dogs? Are people are shoving snarling dogs in your face and shouting "love my dog or else." Who is monitoring whether you love dogs or not? Where the fuck are you going where there are dogs every single place you go? I have a very hard time believing that there are dogs at every corner, seeking you out to bark at you and make you tell them you love them. How is a dog sitting at a cafe you work near ruining your whole entire life? If a dog is misbehaving outside at a table next to you that's one thing (in this situation, most well-adjusted non-autistic people would either ask them to control their dog or ask the staff to talk to them), it's another if it's just sitting there doing nothing to harm you. I truly want to know how every single day, you manage to find yourselves in situations in which you have to act like you love dogs. If someone said to me "yeah I don't like dogs" I would not give a single fuck

No. 322229

Thank you.

No. 322250

As an introvert, I hate how much one-upping there is with introverts. Okay, I get it, you're more recluse than me and never go outside, which means I'm not an introvert to your standards.

No. 322253

OOF, I feel this anon.
I've recently been able to manage my social anxiety/avoidant tendencies a bit better and have made a comfy amount of friends. But I feel as if I've lost my introversion somehow since, oh no, I'm talking to three outside entities regularly instead of just my mom. Not a real introvert!

It is weird, though. I wonder why this elitism cropped up.

No. 322254

Fine, I'll give you some examples:
>walk somewhere, person with dog passes by, dog comes to me, sniffs me, tries to jump up my leg etc
>my face and me backing off clearly shows that I don't like it, yet owner of course coos at how cute their little doggo is and says that exact sentence: "He only wants to play!" also "He doesn't bite, he's really nice!"
You can deny it all you want, but you know exactly that this happens constantly. If I'm scared, disgusted, whatever, if I voice my discontent when the owner should get it away/off from me. Yet the owners always insist that they're harmless and friendly, completely ignoring me, so yes, I do think that counts as expecting me to like them.
I'm allergic, yet people give a shit about that, because "Really? haha Oh come on…" "No anon, he's really clean!". Pushing your dogs onto unwilling people and trying to force them to show affection towards it, is expecting people to at least act as if they also like dogs. Even straight out saying that I hate them doesn't matter, because then they try to convince me of their dogs cuteness. There's literally not a single thing they allow as an excuse; no matter what, you simple have to keep up with their dogs harrassing you. When it comes to peoples furbabies a "No" suddenly no longer means "No".
I remember my mother having to carry my crying and scared younger brother countless of times, yet dog owners just laugh it off instead of taming their animal.

The supermarket there I work and shop at has two large signs "No dogs allowed", yet somehow not a single dog owner seems to be able to read. When I work there I have to sell bread - of course touching it with my bare hands - yet so many people carry their dogs, so right before handing me the money, the same hand that is now touching mine was on their dog's ass. That's so disgusting. But fuck all hygenie standards and consent for the sake of your - excuse me, your dog's feelings…

No. 322264

People often say things like Pet him! to strangers. Imo that sounds very much like expecting (or even demanding) you to love it

No. 322275

>walk somewhere, person with dog passes by, dog comes to me, sniffs me, tries to jump up my leg etc
>my face and me backing off clearly shows that I don't like it, yet owner of course coos at how cute their little doggo is and says that exact sentence: "He only wants to play!" also "He doesn't bite, he's really nice!"

So you literally just walk away. It's not that hard to do. You aren't obligated to stop. Sounds like you need to grow a backbone and learn to stand up for yourself.

And I hate to break it to you but all cash is disgusting; it all has human feces, cocaine, and staph on it. If you work there, why not just say "sorry, dogs are not allowed here"? I give zero fucks about dogs ~feelings~ if you don't like them, I just think you're fucking stupid is all.

Just say no thank you? All of this to me sounds like you guys not being able to stand up for yourselves. Do you do everything everyone tells you to do - is this an autist thing? Genuine question.

No. 322279

You're completely missing the point. It's not about being able to say no and walking away, it's the expectation that random people don't mind being jumped on and scratched or want to interact. It's unpleasant and annoying and dog owners should just suck less, teach their dog to suck less, and mind their own business instead of letting them run up to random people.

No. 322284

Just give up, there's no point in arguing with a bitch this dumb. She's been at it all day and still hasn't made a single decent point.

No. 322285

Oh my god anon YES
I’m so sick of all those grown ass people reviewing kids shows. Like who gives a shit what some random adult stranger on the internet thinks about Steven Universe or about whatever popular cartoon out there. it’s just a fucking cartoon. I once saw a vid recommended to me on YT that was an hour long about why a certain popular cartoon was “bad”, like who the fuck has that kind of time to put it into something so worthless.Cartoon/series/movie reviews are just trash most of the time imo

No. 322288

>It is weird, though. I wonder why this elitism cropped up.

I first saw it on Tumblr, of course. Usually it gets posted alongside lots of posts about how extroverts are like this, introverts are like this, and how "exhausting" extroverts are, etc. I always found it a bit weird, I consider myself fairly introverted, but I've also had plenty of times where I've gotten out and partied and gotten loud.

No. 322298

if your baby is screaming/running around unsupervised in public and you don't do anything to soothe/calm them or corral them you're both a shitty parent and a shitty person

not even childfree, just an irritated retail worker

No. 322306

I feel you as a fellow retail worker. This pregnant bitch was in my shop a few days ago. Both of her kids (looked about 4 and 5) were running around with no shoes. Completely bare foot in a store where there is debry and glass on the floor.

i can't with these people

No. 322575

more of a LC thing, but i hate people who sperg about cows not adopting animals. animals from shelters more often than not require lots of extra love and care. usually you they need monitoring for a while after you get them home to make sure they're not sick or injured (which many shelters overlook) and are adjusting well, especially if they have traumatic backgrounds. why the fuck would people want someone like momokun or whoever to have that kind of responsibility? these people shouldn't be getting pets in the first place, let alone pets that are stressed and underfed.

No. 322579

I hate it when people think saying "I'm attractive" in response to a post like "lol all of you are ugly" is bragging. It's like idiots who think saying "i'm a girl" is bragging or trying to get attention. I swear it's projecting and insecurity on their part but they won't ever admit it

No. 322615

Idk if you're talking about buying pets versus rescuing, versus not getting pets at all (I dont follow momokun), but not all rescued animals are traumatized and neglected. Not to mention there are plenty of purebred dog rescues, with puppies even, which is why a lot of people don't adopt from shelters/rescues. I got my purebred golden retriever from a golden rescue when he was a puppy and he was fine, didn't take any more work than a normal puppy. A lot of purebred dogs actually have more health and behavioral issues, especially ones you buy from pet shops. It varies by dog. None of the cows discussed on this site should be getting pets to begin with, though.

No. 322623

I’m a long-term resident abroad and I’m sooo over the expat communities here, online and IRL. People complain about everything (I’m hypocritical kek) and make the biggest deal about trivial crap.

There was a thread on one recently where people were talking about how being asked where they’re from is “stressful” because they absolutely HAVE to give long-winded answers like, “I was born in Michigan, raised in Chicago, lived in NYC for a year before I moved to San Francisco…” and can’t just say, “I’m American”’ like a normal person. And when anyone tried to tell them they COULD give short answers, they insisted that they couldn’t and said everyone was being “mean” for saying so. JFC. How do hypersensitive people even survive outside of their home countries?

No. 322649

Kek is it in asia anon? Asia expats are hyper sensitive. I live in an asian county too and some girl on a facebook group wrote a whole post about how some waiter never took her order and “ignored her for being foreign” when it’s the norm here that the customers call over the staff to order. They also “swore they took the native people next to me’s orders and they didnt call them over!!”

Followed by comments telling other people to stop bullying her for telling her why they didnt take her fucking order in the first place.

No. 322678

I hate this channel, the girl running it is annoying as fuck and has an obvious eating disorder. There's tons of bone lords in the comments/subscribed to her and
she deletes any comments not kissing her ass/pointing out her ED.
Pisses me off that these kinds of videos can reach people and encourage them to develop shit eating habits

No. 322684

agreed. she's a huge liar and honestly kind of stupid. i remember watching a video of her explaining how she doesn't have an eating disorder but she's subscribed to a ton of 'ed channels'. moralfag but even if you didn't have an ed, why would you be fine with 100% of your audience being disordered women watching your videos for inspiration to harm themselves? youtube really isn't the place for this type behavior.

(i'm not sure if this is the right thread to post her in, though)

No. 322688

Speaking of YouTubers we hate, I can't stand Brittney Grey. She always comes off as so rude and assholish in her videos.

No. 322727

>microwavable meat and potato pie
>drinks from a dirty coffee cup
>""burrito"" bowl is boring chopped veg with a dollop of premade guac to tie it together
>listing vitamins and discount beano as food like anyone cares

These people must be so fucking depressed.

No. 322789

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Semi related to things we find annoying, but does anyone have involuntary physiological responses when they get extremely annoyed?
When I hear something really irritating (repetitive noises, chewing, sneezing, someone talking in an annoying voice etc.) my vulva starts twitching. It's like a reflexive response. It's not sexual at all, it's just really weird.

No. 322798

Haha omg I thought I was the only one. I get this randomly when I feel kind of like "surprise irritated" at something, it's hard to explain what triggers it but it's very strange. There's definitely no arousal it's just a muscle response.

No. 322824

I get that with my nipples. They get hard when I'm anxious or worried. It's really weird and uncomfortable.

No. 322831

wew I thought I was just a weirdo. especially when I get suddenly mad or frustrated it happens too. I had no idea what it meant.

No. 322834

lol yep has happened since i was very young that my vag will almost feel as if its contracting or "pulsing" when i am in rage mode
glad to know its not just me

No. 322864

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My mom won't stop bringing up how I should marry rich.
Ever since I broke up with my long-term, ungrateful bastard bf she won't let me hear the end of it. (Except this relationship ended not because he lived paycheck to paycheck; but because he didn't appreciate me and I felt wholly unloved and taken advantage of).
It's really annoying, is pissing me off, and makes me absolutely disgusted because I think she's a sicko for what she says sometimes.
Ftr, I am the same anon who brought this up in the vent thread about a week ago. Aka the last time I spent a weekend at her household. Aka when she gives me these dated, gross lectures absolutely fit for a debutant living in the 1920s. But not for me.

Some of you might think a mother tells her daughter to hunt for richies out of some sort of good intention, but there's so many reasons why her rambling comes off as cold and uncaring:
Just today we were out antique shopping with my aunt for shits and giggles. A bald, unattractive man in scrubs who appears to be in his late 30s exits one of the shops. Mom turns to me, she says,
>"See anon? That's the type of guy you should be going after."
>"What for? Just because he's in scrubs? Are you serious?"
>"He probably has money."
>"So? He's ugly and not my type."
>"But people grow to love each other anon!"
I eyeroll at her, my aunt cracks up because she thinks this is a huge joke when my mom is being dead ass serious. We continue walking. Further up the street. Out pops these two early 20s dudebros who look like they're interning at the local mayoral building. One looks like a goofball because his suit isn't tailored and clearly has no good sense for how he looks.
>"What about those boys? Hm, anon?"
>"Mom, they look like they're still in college and didn't get mommy to dress them today."
>"They have something going for them, like money! You won't be happy being with someone with a spoon and an apron."
By "spoon and an apron" she's referring to the guy I told her I was interested in going steady with, who works in a kitchen. Heaven forbid.

Of course there's nothing to indicate that the baldy in scrubs nor the frumpsuit boy had any kind of money or status based on their appearances. It's all bullshit she makes up in her mind! Anything to prove I'm some ignorant young dumbshit who hasn't wisened up to the view that I have to slob some suited man's knob to eek out a comfortable life for myself.

She's so hypocritical too.
I have advanced degrees, and admittedly, while I don't have a great career now I can reasonably assume I may have something secured in the future.
She always tells me "Don't rely financially on a man," but then nitpicks any guy I find interest in who doesn't slaughter the bank with his riches. Well, if I'm to be so financially independent, what does it fucking matter what my partner's income is so long as he contributes and isn't a user? Rich men can be tight asses and ungrateful dicks too.But I guess I'd turn a blind eye to those abuses because money???

Secondly, she has no credibility. If I'm to use her words against her, then she's made the "mistake" of marrying out of love not once, not twice, but THREE times. Not even my stepdad, whom I love dearly, is a rich man. He's an idiot with money, probably the worst of the bunch.
Yet she stays with him. Why? Because he's not a prick. Because he contributes by having other skills. Because he was great to me even though I'm not his biological child.
For as much as she bitches about the financial situation, she'll never leave him and she knows damn well why.

Lastly, no rich boy is gonna fuck with me.
It was a great point some anons brought up in the vent thread: Those rich boys are gonna marry within their social class because even they have mommies who are also telling them the same shit about not marrying down. And I'm not bombshell hot enough to be a trophy wife, so I can't screw my way into a hoity-toity living situation either. Not that I'd want to without being actually attracted and in love to begin with.

I have a mind to call her out on every single thing I've just typed out. Yet because she's a loud-mouthed, stubborn blowhard she'll just talk over and argue against me until she smugly stonewalls me. She's never gonna respect my beliefs. She'll believe she's right no matter what, and the second she gets wind of any kind of strife related to finances (as if it doesn't happen in every relationship), it will only serve as affirmation to her confirmation bias that she's a smart old bitch and I'm just a foolish widdle girl.

I. will. not. win. this,
I'm so angry.

No. 322884

Tell her to stop hounding you or you won't spend time with her anymore.

No. 322891

I really, really wish the obviously underage people sperging about cosplayers face taping being racist on /snow/ would be banned for life. You could fault someone for being a toxic, manipulative and lying cancer lump on the community but face taping is the bit that gets attention. Literally achieving slimmer face and thinner eyes for a more anime look is genocide now? Please fuck right off.

No. 322916

The worst bit of this: She is so out of touch with how men are these days. It sounds like your stepdad is one of the better men.

Most women are either splitting or completely supporting the man. Rich men even still want the woman's money, house, time. The idea of being a trophy wife is so unattainable in 2018.

Never mind dating itself, which is full of timewasters and fuckboys.
If you find a kind man you like, go for him. Money matters are irrelevant. Just try not to get into a position where you support him. The issue is opposite to what your mom keeps talking about.

No. 322945

If you're talking about Knite, she obviously tapes her eyes to appear slimmer. Momokun does the same thing. Don't tape your face to give yourself asian features if you aren't asian–doesn't matter if you're a cosplayer or not.

No. 322950

>"Don't rely financially on a man,"
>"He probably has money."
Is your mom…okay? She sounds like a narc.

Tell her Gordon Ramsay is a fucking millionaire with his spoon and apron. Just ignore anything your mom says and get away from her for a while if you can because not only does she have no idea what she's talking about, but she's fucking rude and doesn't have your best interests in mind. My mom says the same thing to me all the time to find a rich man but my mom is without a doubt, 100% abusive and a greedy bitch. I'd much rather have a mom who tells me she'll support me and whoever I happen to fall in love with if it's right, rich or poor.

No. 322962

> hi, i'm a 40 year old white nerd and today I'll tell you all about how authors of a cartoon marketed toward pre-teen girls are complete trash compared Kubrick.

No. 322964

Thanks I prefer free college, 25 days paid vacation, 1 full year of paid maternity leave.

No. 322969

> So you literally just walk away
I can't the dog follows me. And dog owners constantly illegally walk their dogs without a leash.

Besides, even if I manage to escape the situation, it doesn't change the fact that I was harassed and that I have to make concessions because of dogs some other people bought. They are quite literally reducing my freedom with their choices.

Also saying that you can walk away is like saying to someone who complains about being groped in a nightclub, "well you can always stay home".

No. 323020

Please leave

No. 323097

Kek thought it was just me

No. 323102

>comparing a dog touching you to being harassed and groped
jesus fucking christ

No. 323116

It the same in that you can prevent both things by subverting your life in order to deal with other people's bullshit. Just because it's not the same level of problematic, doesn't mean that the things are not in essence the same. In both cases people inflict harassment on me. It's not the same level but it's the same kind of thing. And yes, loose dogs are a form of harassment.

No. 323129

Where the fuck are you living where you are constantly harassed by dogs and their owners demanding you to pet them? (side note - they probably think that you want to but you are too shy to ask OR they are trying to comfort YOU in a really misguided way - 'pet it so you will see it does not bite and there is no reason for you to be afraid').
Here it does not happen at all, dog owners are minding their own business and probably don't want some random people befriending their dogs, for the pets safety. After all, it's easier to steal a dog, or break into a house if a dog trusts every idiot willing to pet them. I would love to pet some dogs but I would have to ask the owner and I do not do it as I know it might be harmful to the dog.
Is the 'obnoxious dog owner' some amerifat meme or what???

No. 323135

>anons taking the bait of that psychotic anti dog-chan who derails every single thread in /ot/ sperging out about how much she hates dogs and how the world has her on a violent witch hunt for not liking dogs instead of just ignoring her autistic screeching
THIS is the thing that annoys me

No. 323147

seeing as there are so many posts in the (hidden by me, yes) anti-dog thread I assumed that there is more than one person that hates dogs…
It seemed like a lot of anons were arguing that ~they are forced to love dogs outside of save haven of lolcow dot com~.
Though tbh now that you mention it I am not sure why they are sperging here and not in their containment thread.

No. 323149

you can scapegoat one imaginary anon all you want, but the truth is there are a lot of anons who don't like dogs on here. and let's not forget all the derailing itt started when an exceptionally retarded dogfag got triggered by this post >>322018, which didn't mention dogs at all.

No. 323162

Someone created a dog love thread for dog people and the thread was clogged with psychotic screeching about how the thread is made just to piss off anti-dog people and to pressure them into liking dogs/shame them for not liking dogs/whatever. It's just better to ignore that crazy sperg. There most likely is more than one anon who doesn't like dogs, yes, but there's some really unhinged anon who tries to derail literally every thread periodically with their obsessive dog hate. They even posted about hating seeing-eye/helper dogs, there's simply no point in taking their bait.

No. 323182

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>Someone created a dog love thread for dog people and the thread was clogged with psychotic screeching
You mean the same thread in which you had a good laugh about one of your precious puppers killing a cat?

Trust me anon, there are many of us who absolutely hate dogs. I'm sure there are some you know personally who hate (your) furbabies as well.
But go on, keep trying to convince yourself that nobody could ever not like them…

No. 323343

I can't really say that because after I split with my ex I moved my shit into their guest bedroom because I'm not in a position to afford living by myself. I try to make myself scarce as much as possible. I stay weekdays at my friends/the new guy's place for work so I don't have to commute as far away. Number one, to not wear out my welcome. Number two, so I won't have to be around her as much as humanly possible.
I care about her but I know she treats me toxic-like. The things she says and admits to are so hurtful, but she'll never change.

She's extremely out of touch, and I don't get the impression that she's ever had a clue about men.
She simply got lucky running into my stepdad, although she says horrible and critical things about him to me a lot.
I wish she wouldn't.
I wish she could just be happy for the comfortable life she's carved out for herself in older age. But nah.

Just to give a brief outline of her previous marriages (bear in mind she only confessed these disturbing details to me within the past couple years):
>1st marriage
She was 21 and she married one of her college professors, an opera director who was 39. She claims he was in complete financial control. She was married 7 years before she was confronted by one of his mistresses and was told he was cheating on her. Apparently, he divorced her after admitting it.
>2nd marriage
To my biological father when she was around 30. Their marriage lasted a solid 2 years before his serial cheating and him beating her forced her hand to divorce him. I'm especially bitter she kept his physical abuse a secret because I was forced to see this man throughout my childhood where he would routinely neglect me. If the courts knew, if I knew, I might not have had to endure this heartbreak.

Maybe my mom is just projecting and is worried I'll make the same shit decisions. I'm not sure, but it's very hard for me to take any romantic advice she has seriously. She even confessed last week that she feels she might be bipolar. I didn't want to hear it. What child of a mentally fucked parent wouldn't be angry that they didn't get help if they suspected they had a problem…

She IS a major narc. I've posted certain situations in r/raisedbynarcissists a few years ago and many people confirmed.
None of my exes have ever liked my mother because of how critical and how obsessed with status and appearances she is (hence the rich man lectures all the time and being blown away by superficial appearances like scrubs or a suit lmao). You can either believe every single man I've ever dated was a monstrous manbaby like my recent ex, or that maybe my mom is the root of the problem sometimes.
Shit, I've barely begun figuring out what I want and who I am because my entire identity up until my mid-20s was based around her expectations of me. Bringing home a guy is like going into a job interview; I know 9 times out of 10 my mom will say she won't like who I'm into and to not get cozy because "There's better out there." Yeah, who though! And of course it always feels like a high key insult to me, because ha-ha, once again I picked a shitty guy because I have such shitty taste and don't know how to play in my own shitty life~

I haven't brought home "spoon and apron" man yet, because I know she won't like him. The second he tells her he doesn't have a college degree and has a beater car she'll immediately dismiss my seriousness and bring up how I should ditch him every time. Which echoes what she says about my current stepdad, because whenever he fucks up in her eyes she prattles about "trading him in for a new model."

The worst in this is, nobody sees this shit about my mom. Well, except for my exes I guess.
To most people my mom is a polite, well-meaning lady with a work ethic who–at worst–is a bit opinionated.

Can anyone tell me what it's like to have a mother who's got healthy emotions and personality? I want to know what it's like.

No. 323349

Please keep your garbage in your thread thanks

No. 323355

They're not living anywhere where that happens frequently. They're just blowing shit out of proportion to justify their gross, sadistic tendencies toward dogs.
Dog haters are mentally ill, defective humans. That's why I don't even bother engaging with them. They can't be convinced to see sense, they're just hateful and sick.
Normal people don't spend inordinate amounts of time complaining about domestic animals they don't like. They just ignore them, and maybe have the occasional irritated rant if the animal accosts them or they have to babysit it. Dog hate anons on Lolcow? They obsess over them to the point that they need a containment thread. It's insane.

No. 323360

why don't you practice what you preach and go cry about ~dog haters~ in your thread?

No. 323366

How about both sides go cry I. Their respective containment threads instead of rekindling an argument that was boring and petty the first time around?

No. 323488

Girls calling themselves petite despite being a completely normal weight are so annoying. Fitting into a size small doesn't mean you're skinny, you're just short. After hitting a certain age being short no longer makes you look like a child or very young either, it just means you're a very short adult woman.
Being fat and therefore having a round face also doesn't make you look youthful, so stop bragging.
And those two things often seem to go hand in hand: I know so many short and overweight women who can't stop talking about how cute and childlike everybody (supposedly…) calls them.

No. 323491

Idk why people brag about being petite when it’s shitty anyway. Nothing fits, people freely comment,everyone is stronger than you even with strength exercise, can’t reach your own cupboards, gyno says might need a ceasarean because being the size of an 11 year old means you can’t carry well.

Someone thinking you’re cute and childlike is hardly a prize. Why do people wanna be small?

No. 323496

it's sadistic to just talk about disliking dogs? lmao wtf is wrong with you

No. 323498

Haha, agreed, anon. On that note, very obese women who calls themselves thicc are absolutely delusional.

No. 323500

I hate when people try to claim I’m not a real woman because I’m thin and have small tits. Despite the fact I’ve given birth and have periods, I don’t know how much woman I need to be. Just because I don’t have huge tits and a big ass doesn’t mean I’m a man or a child.

No. 323503

who the fuck even says stuff like that to someone? sounds like someone just being a dick and looking for anything possible to insult.

No. 323505

Why do you care so much, serious question?

Whenever I see farmers complaining about other people "bragging" it just reeks insecurity tbh.

No. 323514

Dont even bother to give anyone who says that bullshit the time of the day. Legit all you have to do to be a 'real' woman is be born a woman and have xx chromosomes. that's it.

No. 323515

People who squeeze politics into everything are annoying as fuck. I know someone who can't stay one second without screeching something about communism or anything like this and probably sympathizes with nazism. Fucking gross.

No. 323517

The funniest ones are those who compare politics with books or cartoons tbh

No. 323520

Because I'm tired of short women being smug in front of me about fitting into smaller sizes than I do, just because I happen to be tall - meanwhile they're fat and I'm not. That's nothing they should be proud of.
Also, women in their 20s and 30s (who also look their age) going on and on about how everybody thinks they're a child but then they act shocked when people guess their age correctly.

No. 323525

I hate to say this but short women usually are annoying as fuck with their constant smol bean bragging. I notice this behavior is even worse in gamer girls and weeaboos.

No. 323534

ive noticed its never the healthy weight short women saying shit like this either, its always some insecure obese girl who thinks that her being short automatically makes her more uwu feminine than everyone else

No. 323539

What a weird jab at short obese girls because they def don't call themselves petite lmao.

Go check out the Sh0e thread on snow and get a load of the type of broad who actually does this.

No. 323543

ive only ever seen short obese girls pull this shit irl

No. 323552

Just lurk a bit more on lc and you'll see a lot of them.

No. 323555

Literally who?

No. 323572

I find it annoying how no one can give me legitimate reasons why being trans racial is less legitimate than being transgender and I hate how people go after whites for wanting to look more asian or black

No. 323584

Nobody can give a legit reason why anyone should take it seriously, and they’re the ones who have the burden of proof.
Nobody has to disprove the existence of magic to recognise its silly to carry a wand around.

No. 323587

No one can give proof that being trans gender is real either but everyone blindly believes that

No. 323593

>I hate how people go after whites for wanting to look more asian or black

No. 323594

Preaching to the terf choir my friend.

No. 323608

i hate youtubers who whine about being broke. like wow i can't believe dropping out of college to be internet famous didn't work out… boo hoo

No. 323620

Agreed. I also hate how they bitch about being "silenced" or "deplatformed" for making edgy content when in reality they aren't, they just aren't getting paid to do it anymore.

No. 323722

The anons in the Momokun thread and any thread that Japan comes up annoy me so much. They act as if Japan is some super strict country that once you step foot in one wrong move will have you shunned. You can't say anything either because automatically you're a weeb as well as derailing
But like Japan doesn't accept cards? Akihabara of all places? Come on. Akihabara is a goddamn tourist trap now and most main shops allow cards.
No one gives a shit what foreigners do unless you're physically harming someone. Even then most people will try to ignore and not get involved if they can. The most that'll happen to Momokun is she'll be stared at for being obnoxious and MAYBE maybe some grumpy old person will yell at her.
Other than that, anons expecting some huge blowup every 5 posts are just annoying and overly optimistic.

No. 323863

Could you name the things that annoy you about a person, what they talk/do?

I don't really have anybody that likes me. I tried going out of my way and being overly nice, but I'm too shy to do that. So I thought knowing what to avoid doing or saying might make me less unlikeable. I don't talk a lot, so I guess my actions and the rare things I say somehow must be off-putting.

No. 323895

This comes up in all of the Japan/Korea threads. Theres always anons who go on about life/rules in this country and its always the same random shit that gets posted on every travel website and what every vlogger posted vids about 10 years ago.

No. 323914

i mean sure moo's going to be annoying, but fucking logan paul was there. he had to film literal dead people to get backlash. of course moo will be harshly judged on the inside, and people will talk shit about her to friends and loved ones later, but that's probably it. she's a tourist with money, which is a huge part of japan's income.

plus japan is strict on the locals, not so much foreigners, who they've come to expect this level of stupidity from.

No. 323955

As an anon with AVPD, not being engaging and not putting yourself out there is what might make people dislike you - not starting conversation on your own and showing interest in others might make you seem boring and/ or stuck up to others.
TBH I am aware of that but dunno how to change, so please don't feel attacked by me, I am a huge fuckup myself.

No. 323967

Yeah seriously, they think everyone will point and stare at the "fat gaijin" there and Momo will constantly make a fool of herself just by being there. In reality everyone will mind their own business and pay no mind to her, it's not like they don't see white tourists daily there. Jesus christ.

As for the card/cash thing, you're absolutely able to pay with a credit card in multiple places in Tokyo, especially Akihabara, Shibuya and Harajuku which are the worst tourist traps in the city and the places she will most likely visit. I don't know why anons are being so fucking spergy about it. Japan isn't some mystical eastern country with North Korean tier rules, they're always extremely understanding of foreigners not knowing the customs. I doubt she'll go into Logan Paul mode anyway, she's a pussy IRL.

No. 324036

I guess I should engage more, but on the other hand I also strongly feel like I annoy others. I just don't know why or how.

No. 324045

If you're talking about anons then you can't "see" it because we can't actually each other. I could be pretending to be someone I'm not very easily because I can't prove anything but I don't have to. If you see someone here saying they're skinny or they're fat you can't even know if that's true in the first place so who gives a shit.

No. 324048

True shit here. I’m tall and short women hated me at my last job a lot. The one short girl couldn’t believe we had the same shoe size and my hands were a bit smaller. Kek.

No. 324082

The tall women here who keep complaining about short girls in nearly every thread always sound super insecure and jealous. Short girls don't "brag" about how small they are, people can already see it lmao and it's not their fault that you're so insecure you take anything they say as bragging. I've only ever seen tall women and men being obsessed with short girls and nonstop talking about how small they are. Get over yourselves.

No. 324095

i'm 175cm but it kind of sounds to me like you just have weird tiny hands. tiny hands are gross and stubby.

No. 324097


Nta, but are you new to life or something? A looooot of short woman brag at how smol uwu they are. Shoe, that Mikan bitch that's friends with Venus, that girl that used to shoop herself when she was an Asian girl, weebs in general, but it isn't limited to them

No. 324102

My husband's friend's girlfriend always brings about her height every time I see her. She's about 5'3 (and ~165lbs) and I am 5'7. She will always make comments like 'I'm such a midget haha.' 'I have to wear high heels to look normal' 'You probably couldn't see me if I stood behind you' 'I look like a child next to you' etc etc. How am I meant to even respond to that? I don't care. And she's not even petite, she is out of shape and looks pregnant due to her fat placement.

No. 324103

Most small women and men I know, have napoleon complex.

No. 324109

That is some weird ass bragging, those are things I smugly think to myself about short women while being grateful for my height.

No. 324116

Yeah it does come off like bragging and not insecurity because of the smugness in her voice when she makes comments. She's a very socially aggressive person and will brag about other shit all the time like how she's so educated for having a business degree and (knowing I didn't complete my degree) said a man had to be a pedophile in order to find a woman without a university qualification attractive.

No. 324123

She sounds like a toxic friend (of a friend)

Also irony in bragging about how "childlike" she is then implying that tall anon is a child for not having a degree
Which is it, Becky?

No. 324140

Haha yeah, her arguments are just kind of incoherent. Despite how much she apparently values women having a tertiary education, she also calls herself an 'anti-feminist' so I don't know if all her reasoning at this point is just her 'coping' and trying to find a way to make herself look the best in every situation. I agree she is toxic though, and I make an effort to avoid her but her boyfriend is a close friend of my husband's so I haven't been able to just cut her off completely without likely jeopardizing my husband's friendship. She really has a tight leash around her boyfriend and doesn't like him seeing anyone without her present.

No. 324158

I've met 3 people in the past year with this personality and I hate it.
Every time you mention ANYTHING, they find a way to say "Omg I'm so into that! I know all about it!" or pretend they've been doing it for years.

Casually mention in friend group how I want to go hiking soon
"omg i would go hiking every day the past 9 years from my woodland house barefoot it was amazing"

Someone mentioning a hobby they've undertaken recently,
"ive been doing that for like 7 years its so fun omg i know all about it"

Mention something extremely fucking vague, like studying Gaelic in free time,
"thats crazy ive been studying it too!!!"
bonus points won by quizzing on simple vocab and them not being able to answer anything and saying they're learning soooo many languages at once they get them mixed up ~uwu~

Just make a fucking personality that isn't cobbled together from bullshit you have no idea about and bits from nerd culture. It's fine to say you don't know about something but want to learn. Just fucking stop being an annoying parasite that makes it all about them at every fucking turn.

No. 324161


Short women never stfu about how being short is a “curse” but if they could magically trade places with a tall bitch they never would. They love being uwu petite.

On that note, even if you’re 5 foot tall, if you’re fat I just can’t see you as ”smoll” or tiny.

.t 5’4” average bitch

No. 324162

Sometimes i wish I could make every smol bean who humble brags about being short wake up one day 6’1 and I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see their reaction

No. 324166

What the hell even qualifies as average or tall?
I'd say you're on the short side. I'm 5'3 and nobody thinks I'm the average height.

Average to me is 5'6. When other women bitch about being tall I presume they're 5'11 or taller. You know, heights where it actually becomes problematic. Likewise, I assume when adults bitch about being short they're bordering 5' or less, when shit actually starts to become a problem.

No. 324167

Do you think ugly people don't fuck? Because I may have some bad news.
Also, beauty is subjective, they obviously don't mean that everyone finds them ugly but that they're objectively ugly. I'm attracted to some objectively ugly men but they're obviously not ugly to me.

No. 324169

I’m 5’6 and even I get treated like a giant beast woman by shorties.

No. 324173

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Kek sorry anon, obv that's an average height and they may be snorting some heavy bean dust to think that's tall.

No. 324193

Depends on where you live. 5ft4in is average in the US.

No. 324198

Plz I just want to reach my cupboards, do it.

No. 324211

Why do tall girls complain so much about small girls?

No. 324213

because a lot of short girls are annoying as fuck.

>inb4 t. string bean

I'm 5'3"

No. 324214

If you were a tall girl who has been around short shoeonhead/gamer girl weeb types then you would understand our pain and annoyance

No. 324220

I just moved into a new complex and my next door neighbours dogs bark nonstop. The last 3 hours one of them has barked every 4-10 seconds (I started counting). Apparently my building manager is going to make them get rid of the dogs soon, thank god. I work from home and it's so fucking disruptive.

No. 324233

Nah they’re fine hands. She just had large hands for a small girl. Makes sense mine would be a bit smaller. Also I’m 175 too

No. 324253

not really, in my experience. it's average sized women larping as short women who do this

but none of those women are actually short. it's literally A-L-W-A-Y-S average sized girls pretending to be short.

No. 324256

They might be short, but they're certainly not small in weight. That's what they don't get and what's so annoying about it: just being short alone doesn't make you a petite fairylike loli, your weight also matters. Women who're really short and skinny know that it sucks and don't bring it up constantly. Those stumpy, average or even overweight short women try to make up for their lack of a nice figure by overplaying the uwu so cute and sm0l thing.
Even a chubby short women might fit into a size extra small, but that doesn't mean she's petite. Yet somehow many seem to be proud of that or consider it bragworthy.

It's they same when they bring up their "shockingly low" weight: omg I weigh less than 50kg hehe - but in reality that's completely fine and average since you're just 150cm…

No. 324261

That's true but I rarely even see all these uwu lolis even being short. They're typically like 5'4 and for whatever reason think they're sooo tiny

No. 324268

My own self annoys the fuck out of me

No. 324274


I FEEL YOU. My neighbors in my apartment complex have had a dog for 3 months. That motherbarker goes at it 10 hours a damn day while they are at work. I live with my dad and asked him what to do, and he said “well, anon, it’s just a puppy. It’ll grow up.” Naw. That dog is lonely. Still doing the same shit from 8 AM to 6 PM just maybe 10 mins every hour instead of 10 straight hours until it’s too hoarse to bark. Drives me insane. It even does it on WEEKENDS.

Apartment people: get a damn cat

No. 324275

My annoyance? When I’m trying to relax and read or draw and my bladder needs to piss. Fuck off

No. 324276

At the very least hire someone to walk your fucking dog during the day.

No. 324279


Same experience here. All the actually petite women I know don't bring it up and don't care about it. It's the women who are like 5'5" and overweight who constantly brag about being uwu petite smol fairies.

No. 324293

It's rather dumb than annoying or both lol, but when people just start a relationship and go live together. You haven't always met the love of your life in 6 years of relationship, let alone 3 months to go live together specially when you're both around 18 or 19 and only one pays all the bills or even bother in having a job, kek.

No. 324433

Yeah the ones that go uwu im so smool teehee are the shoeonhead types that are between average and a bit above height and they are insecure about being a bit taller because of their own shitty standars. I'm short as shit and man do i wish i was taller, clothes look like shit lmao. Don't lump as all dwarves into this uwu bullcrap

No. 324441

People who can't contain their anger and get annoyed or even triggered easily over the smallest things. It ends up that I'm the one who have to contain my anger towards them.

No. 324444

No. 324445

In my opinion that's abusive to the dog… they should at the very least be coming home at lunch. And if it's a puppy it should be let outside every 2ish hours. Like >>324276 said there's no excuse, so many apps now like wag and rover where they can come and walk your dog for you. God it fucking annoys me when people get dogs but don't take good care of them and think they can leave them alone for hours and hours like cats. My dog is almost 2 and I still feel bad leaving her alone for more than a couple hours lol

No. 324519

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I'm a total womanlet and that'd be a dream tbh. As a little girl I always wanted to be tall but I got fucked by genetics. I genuinely feel like I look deformed some days because I'm so short.

No. 324536

I hate my new coworker

She's a 60 year old woman who acts intoxicated all the time, has a vast knowledge of pills, is a wet rag and doesn't own up to mistakes.
The most annoying thing is that she asks questions for shit she should know already (has worked this position for 40 years) and gets nitpicky whenever someone more successful at said job does it.

I, and some other coworkers, told the manager of our department about her recent shenanigans. Ever since, she's been complaining that our small work room is full of "drama" and people are "bitching about her" for shit she does out of spite. She pries into people's business as well. She stared at me for 5 hours, during two of our work days together, and refused to help us other coworkers because I ruined her day.

I never ask her questions because she doesn't know shit about her job. When IT came to fix my problem the other day she walked infront of the IT dude. I straight up told her to leave it to him because he is doing his job. That she "is not helping". She got mad. I could care less as I have 0 patience for this woman. Same woman doesn't even know how to minimize a screen. I don't get it.

No. 325441

yea seriously… The only short women I've seen bragging about being smol were either tumblrfags and short anachans.

Otherwise, short women don't care or make depreciating humor or in most cases compliment tall women "I wish i was tall like you" but genuine compliments, not passive aggressive jeaous shit.

No. 325442


My best friend is about 5'1" or something and she never brings up how short he is because everyone brings it up before she can open her mouth. I've seen her rolling her eyes before when yet another man says some cringy shit about how she's sOoOoOoO tiny.

No. 325495

God I hate when people ramble on about dreams they've had, it's boring as fuck to listen and how the hell am I even supposed to react to that nonsense? I don't mind if it's like just one sentence and something amusing but I just want to punch everyone that tells them like they're 300 page epic fantasy tales

No. 325823

i'd be so fucking hot if this happened, please let it happen

No. 325947

just say "everybody"

No. 325949

litcherally just say "everyone"
"hey everyone"
not that hard?

No. 325953

I disagree, I love hearing about other people's dreams. I'm into psychoanalysis in general so i guess it makes sens though

No. 326012

I fucking hate it when people think you are jealous of someone if you hate on them. Same goes for cunts that defend celebrities you dislike with the comeback 'well she/he is more famous andvrelevant than you'll ever be!'
Got into a full blown argument about Danielle Bregoli the other day. Got retorts like 'she's got more followers' or 'you only hate her because it's popular to'

No you fucking dimwit, I hate her because she looks like a rat with a too tight ponytail, who got famous for being a cunt and her music is trash.
It's even worse with celebs like Ariana because everyone just argues that you are just jelly, even though I have no urge to look like a baby prostitute reject bratz doll.

No. 326627

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When my dad says ready to rock and roll every time we're about to do something

People who are deaf af and need you to repeat things to them like 4 times at 500 decibels

Loud eaters and people who walk too slow on the street but won't get out the way

Manspreading. Yeah I know this is a generic one but your ballsack isn't massive enough to warrant spreading your legs like you're giving birth fuck off

No. 326632

>When my dad says ready to rock and roll every time we're about to do something

No. 326634

Calling everyone and everything ''unfortunate''. Just say it, U-G-L-Y. She looks UGLY.

No. 326636

Is your dad Dante from Devil may cry?

No. 326640

Recently my friend group has added a new edition while I was away at my internship. It wouldn't be a big deal except for the fact that they are all into fashion, makeup and just overall how they appear to the world and she is the opposite in everyway.

Yesterday we were all going to a party, and nobody told this pour girl to dress up. Since they all gathered at my house I offered to do her makeup and even through she was too big for most of my clothes, I could at least acessorize her a bit and let her borrow some heels. One of the girls I'm not really close to in the group told me not to, when I responded why she simply said.

"She makes us look better". I really hate when average or below average girls try to get someone to look worse them then, like it only makes you look better by so much.Why is it even a fucking thing

No. 326641

Recently my friend group has added a new edition while I was away at my internship. It wouldn't be a big deal except for the fact that they are all into fashion, makeup and just overall how they appear to the world and she is the opposite in everyway.

Yesterday we were all going to a party, and nobody told this pour girl to dress up. Since they all gathered at my house I offered to do her makeup and even through she was too big for most of my clothes, I could at least acessorize her a bit and let her borrow some heels. One of the girls I'm not really close to in the group told me not to, when I responded why she simply said.

"She makes us look better". I really hate when average or below average girls try to get someone to look worse them then, like it only makes you look better by so much.Why is it even a fucking thing

No. 326643

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Recently my friend group has added a new edition while I was away at my internship. It wouldn't be a big deal except for the fact that they are all into fashion, makeup and just overall how they appear to the world and she is the opposite in everyway.

Yesterday we were all going to a party, and nobody told this pour girl to dress up. Since they all gathered at my house I offered to do her makeup and even through she was too big for most of my clothes, I could at least acessorize her a bit and let her borrow some heels. One of the girls I'm not really close to in the group told me not to, when I responded why she simply said.

"She makes us look better". I really hate when average or below average girls try to get someone to look worse them then, like it only makes you look better by so much.Why is it even a fucking thing

No. 326644

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Man, I wish

No. 326645

My friend group I'm in due to my bestfriend liking them added a new girl while I was interning aboard.

Yesterday we were all getting ready at my house and nobody told this poor girl to dress up. I felt bad so I started doing her makeup at let her borrow my accessories since she doesn't fit into my clothes. A girl stops me because "she is suppose to make us look good"

Why do below average or average girls always do this shit. Like having an "ugly" person stand next to you will only make you look so good.

No. 326646

This, especially when they try really hard to engage you. Honestly makes me jealous because clearly no one ever told them ''I don't care''

No. 326647

>When my dad says ready to rock and roll every time we're about to do something
I'm sorry but that sounds hilarious.

To add one of my own: people who don't know how to use a fucking escalator/stairs/sidewalk. If you want to walk slow as fuck or stand on the escalator that's great, but stay to one side so people can pass, if you're in a group stand behind each other, you can still talk. It's not hard.

No. 326656

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>When my dad says ready to rock and roll every time we're about to do something

I laughed out loud oh my god anon that is so cute, the Jack Frost image makes it even better
My dad recently learned how to send gifs and now he sends them all the time, he sent me a sparkly Jesus christ gif last night at 3am with no context. He has also started saying "YAAASS".

No. 326658

that's horrible. please tell her or something. she needs to get away from this friend group and so do you. these people sound so mean…

No. 326661

Aww that made me chuckle irl.
Nice aesthetics anon dad.

No. 326689

All the sperging in the redraw thread is driving me up a wall. Nobody cares that you don't like the redraw, shut the fuck up unless there's a glaring issue (fucked up hands/feet etc) like I'm not even an artist and the amount of autism in that thread from the like, 2 people sperging all over the place makes me want to fucking shoot myself

No. 326691

n..not an artist? Excuse me but how dare you go to that thread?

No. 326693

because clearly if you don't draw professionally you are legally disallowed from viewing redraws /s

(dont worry ik you're joking)

No. 326699

right? and i don't think many of the people that post are saying "wow, my art is SO much better". if there's a glaring flaw in the original art, they can fix that but still have other minor issues that don't make the piece look great. the purpose is to fix certain flaws, not to say "my art is a million times better", right?

No. 326703

ntayrt, but yeah. I've posted there and its not "wow im so much better" so much as "i tried to fix the issues i saw with this" and they sperg out because you don't adhere to the original style/put more effort in/etc it's so dumb

No. 326757

every time someone replies "hi azealia!!!!" or accuses someone who calls her entertaining of being her in the celebrity thread I want to scream, it's so annoying

>inb4 "hi azealia!"

No. 326761

cool dude

No. 326763

same for every fucking thread in pt or snow.
anytime anyone says anything remotely positive, or calls out some stupid bullshit people are spouting someone replies "hi_____"

I get that this is a drama site.
but soo many threads you have to hate circlejerk or you're not welcome

No. 326768

i thought it was bannanble but i can't find that rule, maybe that was just in one thread

No. 326795

>t. those two butthurt drawfags who got their drawing laughed at
At least try to be less transparent with this salt

No. 326898

Genuinely curious, what kind of reaction did you expect? If you fix one issue and create another it's not really an improvement, and just comes across as you overestimating your skill level. Make an art general or actual crit thread if you don't want to get nitpicked.

No. 326962

A guy I recently befriended does this sing-songy "pa-pa-ba-daaa!" noise every ten minutes and it makes me want to strangle him.

No. 326964

i've never posted any art in that thread, so no.

well, again, i've never posted art. i'm not so retarded that i need to see a piece improved upon by a million percent. if there's one glaring flaw and it's improved upon and there are one or two other minor flaws, i don't think it's complete shit. people can be good at one thing and improve it so it's still a net improvement, but still not be amazing artists. you guys are super black and white.

No. 326968

Late af but Y’ALL is literally just how southerners say you all with a country drawl I imagine its spread is because the internet and typing yall is shorter than you all. it’s neither new or some bullshit “inclusitivity” y’all think it is

No. 326977

I hate dog People and frankly all of american's attitude about dogs. It's socially acceptable to hate cats and children but if you hate dogs you might as well be a facist pedophile school shooter.
I find dogs cute just as much as they are cute. Doesn't mean I want to own one. No, I'm Not Allergic. Sure your dogs must be the most well trained well behaved cinnamon buns. Still doesn't mean I want your dog to fucking get in my personal space and home. No I don't want to pet sit your fucking angel of a dog. Your home fucking stinks, I can always tell that you own a dog. Get the fuck out of my cat-person face.
I don't even wanna get started on the whole "I'm not a vegan/vegetarian but eating dogs is somehow more morally wrong than eating other animals cuz dawgs r sho smert n lawyal" hypocritical high horse. Like literally domesticated dogs have not been contributing to the ecosystem or essential to human's survival in hundreds of years outside of validating your need for unconditional love and feeling of superiority but ok.

No. 326978

lmao this again
you have a whole thread for this shit

No. 326980

O really? Please redirect. Btw you don't have to engage with my rant otherwise.

No. 326982

Some threads are just so exhausting. I hide most of them because I can't deal with the constant nitpicking and infighting.

No. 326991

I will not search the fucking catalog for you.

No. 326997

K then I'll continue to rage here per the thread topic: dog ppl sux

No. 327000

imagine being this lazy and entitled

No. 327035

female wizardchans who refuse to realize they have reached that level.

No. 327043

and what makes a woman a female wizardchan?

No. 327044

please control yourself and redirect your mental illness to the designated containment thread.

No. 327050

oh look, it's the easily triggered dogfag who calls everyone who doesn't suck dog dick mentally ill

No. 327066

I'm never having kids, all men are pedophiles

No. 327071

No. 327072

the spells

No. 327085

ntayt but nobody would be getting triggered if you guys kept your shit where it belongs instead of letting it spill especially cause some newfag can't be bothered to search threads

No. 327088

Nta but who’s expected to know that there’s a dog hate thread?? Maybe they don’t use /ot/ often. People just see a bitching thread and come to bitch. Don’t interact with a post it’ll sooner get burried but you triggered dogfags always have to incite a sperg tho.

No. 327090

Every time I go to a cat-owning person's home, I end up leaving covered in cat hair. I like cats, but I'm mildly allergic so I don't go out of my way to pet or hold them, but without fail I somehow get their hairs on my clothes.

I think it would be nice of them to offer a lint roller to their guests.

No. 327093

Have you even read their post? They refused to use catalog even after being informed that there is a better place to talk shit about dogs. Stop defending this insufferable cunt just cause both of you have a hate boner for dogs. Or do you google things for morons too?

And sorry, but dogfags are really not the ones sperging on this website kek

No. 327117

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People who have never worked a day of hospitality or retail in their fucking lives and think its alright to treat staff like shit. I swear the rudest people would have a fucking breakdown if they were forced to work a day and be treated how they treat others.

No. 327119

>And sorry, but dogfags are really not the ones sperging on this website kek
Nta but are you joking? You must be a dogfag if you can say that with a straight face. Wipe the peanut butter off your crotch and face the facts.

No. 327120

People who get rid of animals who love them and depend on them for no other reason than to get a new animal. So much ew.

No, I don't think it's "a funny story" that you abandoned your cockatoo with basically a total stranger and it's now stress-plucking it's feathers out just so you could adopt a former puppy mill bitch and pretend to be noble on Instagram/FB, Susan.

No. 327122

2bh that OP wasn't even hating on dogs. They were hating on insufferable dog people. There's a difference. Why is it socially acceptable to dislike any animal except for dogs though? I wonder…

No. 327125

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When anons make multiple posts on lc by accident, then don't delete the extra posts.

No. 327126

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Are your friends stereotypes from a 90/00s teen movie?

No. 327139

it's not really their fault though. they aren't "accidentally" triple posting, the site is busted and does it. i often post and then fuck off when it starts lagging out, which is when it winds up posting a bunch, and the delete timer is up before i come back to check.

No. 327246

Ew you’re so gross

No. 327250

Why the fuck is everyone on the site so fucking keen on being divided. All the pro and anti threads on /ot/ especially. Do we really need those? You can have opinions without being an extremist. What I hate most is anons who have that "with us or against us mentality about opinions. Not hating something, doesn't mean you love it and that's always the first place anons go when someone criticizes them. I swear most anons are just being contrarian on purpose at this point.

No. 327305

I agree. You can't say anything without people reeeeeeing and automatically lumping you as extreme if you have even a slight disagreement. Then having extreme views themselves.

Sorry for the autistic long vent but I found it annoying and I feel like it fits your example.

I offhanded mentioned some shit about tattoos related to a cow's post. I put my foot in my mouth I guess when I used a bunch of deadbeats I used to know as an example. All of a sudden there was crazies acting like I'd said everyone with tattoos is scum and calling me classist. I didn't wanna infight, but I was trying to explain there's a stigma about tattooed people being trashy because the cow in question had said that dudes prefer tattooed women. I said it's more of a niche. One anon actually agreed that yeah it is, hence the reason it's called 'alternative'.
Then the crazy person after that comment just went full mental.
I was called a conservative and a fascist and I'm definitely not any of those things.
Something else that annoyed me is like, I get my post could have come across as judgmental towards alternative types but

1- I was just trying to make a point about certain stereotypes of them and the stigma. I threw in some personal distaste for mouth piercings which came off rude, but I honestly am a pretty open minded person.

2- The thread, hell, the entire site is based around kind of poking fun at trainwrecks. Some of these cows come from or are in low socio-economic homes or broke and it's normally free game, but there are all these holier than thou anons on their high horses acting like I'm the tattoo nazi who apparently hates poor people.

Anyway yeah, I hate the extremist mentality here sometimes.

No. 327313

I'm so embarrassed to see my little sister who worked only a few days in retail before finding something else treat people working in retail like they're retarded. When I tell her to calm the fuck down she tells me that it's normal and they should be faster or less stupid like she knows what she's talking about. Meanwhile me and our older sister worked in retail for over a year with some of the worst customers we've seen in our entire life before finding another job and we never treat others like this. I don't know why she acts like she has a stick up her ass and she should be worshiped all the same in H&M and in Louis Vuitton.

No. 327316

Those are definitely the anons I'm talking about. It's like all of them are fine joining in on the shit talking until it hits too close to home then suddenly they become a pure saint and you are a literal nazi who wants everything they love to be destroyed.

No. 327328

Yeah exactly. Sometimes I feel like people forget what site they are actually on.

No. 327336

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People who make "well-meaning" comments about self-love and self-acceptance under makeup videos and IG posts just sound annoying and condescending. What's the point in telling random IG girls who wear coloured contacts, contour the shit out of their features or change them in other exaggerated ways that "it's sooo sad they aren't happy with their natural features" and "they should love themselves and their natural face more"? If it makes them happy to change their features, it's rude in a roundabout way and preachy to tell them what they should or shouldn't do to their own faces.

The irony is that many people who preach this form of full self-acceptance wear noticeable makeup and dyed hair in their own pictures too, even though there's hardly any difference between some eyeshadow/eyeliner and putting on a pair of grey contacts. Why is the first one acceptable but the other one is criticized and considered as a lack of self-acceptance? They're just being hypocrites.

No. 327401

Adding to this, it's weird how some people will be chill with something with one cow and it's different for another. I have a theory it's because they see themselves in the cow and get defensive.
Another longwinded example sorry-

People (like everyone basically) always laugh at Shreg's shitty anime posters and used to tease his badly furnished manchild home, however once after pointing out that Raven's house was immaturely furnished for someone of her age,(stranger things posters, huge amounts of toys) I got replies like:
'you fussy loser'
'let people fucking furnish the place they want.'
'It's not better homes and gardens'

Like automatically they assume I am a judgemental suburban housewife with no scrap of nostalgic items anywhere in my house. I wasn't hating on people for having childish/nostalgic/pop culture themes in their houses, I have a few things like that around my own house, it was more about someone her age, jobless and married to a child still buying figurines and posters and shit when she literally doesn't have the money for it.

Like sure, be 40 years old and have an anime/whatever fandom themed house, good for you, but I wouldn't be criticising a person like that if they were nice or paid for their own lifestyle. If you are an adult and wanna be eccentric, if you work for your lifestyle and don't act snowflakey when it comes to your aesthetic, live however you want. I'm criticising the cows, and people get butthurt and think I'm generalising or talking about them when I am talking about people who value their aesthetics over being practical. I had to dye my hair back to a natural colour when I moved jobs (I did) and I know a girl who refuses to take any job because 3 workplaces so far have told her she can't have her facial piercings. This same girl complains about not being hired. Yet complaining about this behaviour triggers people.

I get being maybe pissed off about me if you think it's derailing, but report it or just say 'yo that's kind of offtopic' instead of just screeching that I'm insulting everyone's home decor/fashion choices in a playful bitchy comment meant to be directed at the cow.

Anyway, I'm sorry if this should have gone in the vent thread but it IS annoying so I wasn't sure. I'm going to stop sperging now though, sorry!

No. 327488

At restaurants where you order your food at a counter and then wait for them to call out your order (like Starbucks), there are those people who don't listen for their order and the food/drink just sits on the counter. Then the workers have to continue to call out the order because the person who ordered it isn't paying attention and won't come grab their food. You paid for it, so why are you not listening for them to tell you its ready? Do you not actually want the food? Why can't you just take out your earbuds for a couple minutes to listen for your order to be ready?

No. 327490

People walk away and get distracted looking at the shit around them, talking to people around them, or on their phones. It's fucking stupid and I don't understand it either. They're too relaxed instead of paying attention to the worker or either think they're better than the worker (old people) and continue to ignore them in favour of talking to the other customer standing next to them.

No. 327535

Some people just space out or are easily distracted. I agree it's annoying but it's not on purpose I guess. I work at a place like that and if no one answers after 2-3 times I'll just put it aside and try again a few minutes later. Their loss.

No. 327575

People who see you drawing something irl and they try to relate it to themselves like you made it for them or something. They ask if you want to give your drawing up for their fridge. They ask you 1000 questions on drawing something for them for free. You tell them you don't care but they still speed off with this notion that you do in fact care. Please FUCK off.

No. 327582

The "dommes" here are cringey as hell for the same reason that male doms are, and they always have to randomly interject with their fantasies in discussion, as if anyone was dying to hear about their weird fixation with control and power dynamics.

No. 327585

I have posted. I usually don't expect a reaction. Or if I do, I usually expect them to point out something I missed. Not just shit all over me and sperg out because I didn't stay close to the original style of the piece.

No. 327586

People love interrupting artists, unlike writers who are usually left alone.
The other day I was sitting in a public place and concentrating hard on painting from life there when this woman comes up and starts going "Oh I paint too but not that kinda thing ugh no only fun abstract btw let me randomly talk about what I did today" - she went on for quite a while after I stopped responding.

Reminder that artists need to concentrate to work and probably don't want to give their work for free to a stranger.

No. 327907

People who go on and on about how they get carded at bars and mistaken for being underaged are annoying as fuck. Every single person who has said this to me always looks their age or older, it’s like they’re trying to convince me it’s really bizarre.

No. 327920

This is seriously annoying. I’m okay with people complimenting my work or just asking questions about art or about my process but I draw the line at requests. People who ask me to draw them are the worst. I draw from life for practice not to please people.

No. 327934

Reddit humour. Every once in a while I try to browse one reddit but I swear every top comment on a post is some dad-joke/pun that’s upvoted like shit for no reason

No. 327937

omg, it's true. I dont understand that logic when the employees have to card or they can get fired or worse. Vain people are so dumb

No. 327940

Some places even have signs that say you get carded unless you're "40 or older". So congrats, you were carded because you don't look middle aged yet, not because you're so young and smol uwuwu

No. 327942

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Sometimes people will rub their hands or move their hands in a way that makes me irrationally angry. I don’t know why it triggers me so much.

Also when the person sitting behind you in class puts their feet in the book holder under you seat. Especially if they’re a chronic foot jiggler and it makes your ass feels like it’s vibrating the entire class period. I thought once I entered college I wouldn’t have to deal with it anymore, but I was unfortunately wrong.

No. 328135

stan twitter tries to talk like an amalgamation of drag queens and the popular bully girls in american high school movies and it's extremely irritating

No. 328203

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This is like a stupid/weird pet peeve but in a group setting I think "fun facts" you have to present about yourself should just be lighthearted and irreverent. I had to do this on the first day of class and I picked something dumb like "I share a birthday with x celebrity" cause I don't think my classmates need to know a lot about myself as a person and then all the other students mentioned awards or certifications they had or big life achievements as their fun fact and it just comes across as bragging.

I realize I probably sound like a butthurt loser but if I wanted to brag I would have. It's a fun fact so it should be FUN.

No. 328206

This reminds me of when I was in middle school and reached for the textbook under my desk, only to grab the foot of the bitch behind me. She always had her foot in my basket and what's worse is she was wearing flip flops so I grabbed her bare foot.

No. 328215

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ugh i was subjected to this "introduce yourself, anon, with your name, course and a weird fact about you" bs recently too and out of a room of 40-odd people only me and one other girl said something silly, everyone else was talking about their volunteering in 3rd world or internships or living next-door to celebrities or whatever, sorry i didn't interpret "fun" as "flexing" i guess.

No. 328221

Other people existing.

No. 328222

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Group projects are fucking stupid, especially in college.
The only thing they taught me was that people suck and are lazy as fuck, so you're better off just doing it on your own.

No. 328274

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I hate people who refuse to throw gum away before they eat and stick it on their drink or their plate to "save it". I don't want to see your gross spitty gum! Just throw it away and get a new stick after you eat.

No. 328290

It's even worse when they put it underneath tables.

No. 328309

Chill, nonnie. I'll come back for it later ;D

No. 328373

It really depends on the relationship, anon.

No. 328590

Our local fabric store's heating is always cranked up to eleven no matter what time of the year it is, and I always get really hot and start sweating when I'm trying to browse fabrics there. It's really embarrassing to be constantly wiping sweat off my face and hands. I'd really like to just take my time and see if I find anything interesting or get any new ideas, but most of the time I just grab what I came for and leave. And I seem to be the only one with this problem, I always see other people wearing their winter coats with no problem. Good thing I wear mostly black, oversized shirts so at least no one can see the occasional drops rolling down my sides.

No. 328728

I'm so fucking mad at group projects. A prof of mine decided that our whole grade for this semester would rely on a 5 person group project we have to do. I honestly miss regular old school tests and essays.

>either you're the only one working and everyone else is just getting a good grade by being lazy

>either other people want to work too but they're not as good students and they make the whole project worse
>loose loose situation

No. 328815

Always hated this too

No. 328822

I had to do 3 years of this shit and I'm so glad it's over. One guy would always lie through his teeth and act all enthusiastic, take initiative and form groups etc only to later abandon everything, never answer his messages and take all the credit at the end for the "hard work" he did.
I had to work with this fucker on 3 projects and later I ratted him out to one professor who failed him because he didn't do shit for a month and then miraculously broke his hand 2 days before the deadline. Then he attacked me over Facebook Messenger and called me an Eastern European golddigging whore because I told his gf he invited me to his place to smoke weed and have sex when I was in a committed relationship.
Thank fuck I don't have to deal with his bullshit ever again.

No. 328866

I hate customers that walk past when you say hi or don't smile back when you give a smile.

Normally I don't give a shit, but if they give you eye contact or you lock eyes, THEN it's rude.
Like I fucking hate overly annoying service people too, but if you look directly at someone, then you should probably say hi back to them or smile instead of locking eyes and doing nothing. It's fucking weird.

No. 328913

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I worry about this sometimes. I always greet employees but I'm terrible at smiling back.

No. 329039

I made the mistake of reading comments on male asmr videos.
Gay guys are so fucking disgusting.
The guy doesnt even have to be gay or at least "out" and almost all the comments are gays posting aggressively sexual shit. It has to be uncomfortable for straight male asmrtists. For instance, aussieASMRguy. I have yet to see anywhere that he is gay but his comments are a cesspool. Even straight guys at least have the decency to take their fap fantasy asmr shit to other forums and not basically sexually harass the females on every damn video they make. And I know about the 8chan situation with frivilous fox and gibi so dont at me. Its not the same thing as what im talking about.

No. 329257

anons replying to scrot threads/posts

No. 329334

most twitter "sex workers" are so fucking annoying

No. 329338

In the same breath, ‘sex workers’ that get angry when you imply that what they do is prostitution (obviously not cam whores but more specifically sugar babies and the like)

No. 329343

sex workers on social media are the most entitled cunts on the planet.

No. 329344

And also sex workers that get all shocked and mad that men consider them objects. What did they honestly expect?

No. 329346

Or shocked that abusive/toxic/creepy men flock to them and push at their boundaries

No. 329376


in the SAME breath, upper middle class white girls with premium snapchats who insist that the "sex work" they do is on par with actual prostitutes who may not have chosen that line of work and who actually put their health and safety at risk. but sure, yeah, what you do is SO important and subversive

No. 329413

I’m genuinely sick of the sex posi ‘sex work is empowering!!’ bullshit, it’s brought out a lot of spoilt retards that encourage the way men view us as sex objects

No. 329418

That everybody assumes that white people are cold bastards who don't give a shit about their parents/families.
The whole Taylor R thread is full of "cultural experts" spouting shit like
>well, maybe for you wypipo eloping is considered normal, but for the chinese…
No, it's not "normal" for us?! You cant' simply make things up. If relationships between the members of asian families are as great as you make them out to be, then why is cheating so rampant and things like "hire a bf" just to please your parents exist? Sounds like something only super close and trusting people do. /s

No. 329437

I'm in two minds about this bc on the one hand I'm sick of all the baggage that comes with thots on Insta and their "sex work".

But also I think men are going to view us as objects regardless of what we do.

No. 329699

Always wanted to ask, tf are the girls in the op pic doing?

No. 329744

they're both deaf and having a heated discussion via sign language

No. 329753

No. 330918

I don't understand why some people wear open-toed shoes at the gym while lifting weights. Have fun losing a toenail or two.

No. 330921

People do this?? I've seen people lift without barefoot but never anyone walking in with sandals or anything.

No. 331130

It unfortunately happens. These people also are the ones who come in here with JEANS. God.

No. 331163

I'm one of the dreaded self-described bisexual girls who only dates men and it annoys me so much every time i hear
>maybe you just have admiration/appreciation for women's beauty and mistake that for sexual attraction uwu


>maybe you think you're attracted to women as a way to appear sexy to men

Like sorry but I don't think getting physically horny, masturbating, and cumming to the idea of having sex with a woman, alone, not telling anyone, is me just trying to impress someone or having confused aesthetic appreciation lmao. I want to say that to people to shut them up but it's too crass. Like sure maybe my attraction towards men is more developed or i'm mostly straight with some homosexual tendencies or a kinsey 2 or whatever else, but I think it would be stupid to call myself straight. Am I really supposed to just ignore the fact that I'm massively sexually interested in women and just round up to straight? I really don't care about kweer clout and I wouldn't mind if I am straight, I just genuinely don't think it's an accurate descriptor.

No. 331168

When does the occasion even ever arise that you would need to define your sexuality? Unless the setting is "Let's all discuss the nuances of our sexuality" I don't see why it would ever be relevant to label yourself as bisexual or straight.

No. 331169

Oh it happens very rarely. It has little baring on my day to day life or relationships but on the rare occassion it does come up that I technically consider myself bisexual (as in sexually attracted to men and women) so many types of people overtly or implicitly accuse me of being mistaken.

No. 331182

i wouldnt even call myself bisexual to other people if this is how i felt about women. like whats the point? like realistically you're obviously not just straight if you want to have sex with women, but seeing as how it doesnt actually motivate you to have sex with them or get involved w them, why would you even tell other people you're bi since it obviously doesn't affect your life outside of what you're cumming to, which no one knows about? sounds like it's for clout when you insist on telling people tbh.

No. 331183

When people who are not in my life anymore try to "catch up" by asking me questions about my life with great details, and then reply with one word or very vague statements when I try to reciprocate.
This happened to me twice recently and I can't help but feel like they're asking just hoping for me to say some things are going badly so they can gossip about it.
One just plain stopped responding when I asked her how things were going at my old workplace. I don't get it.

No. 331184

do you go to planet fitness, by chance…

No. 331192

I sometimes do that because I genuinely care and am curious and don't want to hog the conversation by talking about me me me, it's not necessarily gossip

No. 331196

People who pretend to be experts in absolutely everything. Like pls stfu I don't care if you have nothing genuinely interesting to input :)

No. 331198

No, an observation I've seen at my school gym.

No. 331216

i don't tell anyone unless it's the rare occasion that it comes up though. to me being straight means you're not interested in having sex with the same sex at all and would never do it, so why should i lie?

No. 331221

"X here!" no one cares

No. 331392

People who only send audio messages. I get the utility when you have to send very long winded messages, as long as you go straight to the point, but sending an audio message just to say "Yes"… just type it? Also, I can't listen to them most times unless I have earphones with me.
I have a friend who never types messages, just sends audio recordings for everything, even just to say Yes/No. And in long audios (like 3 minutes) more than half of them consists in her pausing/doing "Ummmmmmm…"
That's why I always prefer to speak to her irl

No. 331394

Most straight women masturbate to thoughts of other women. That's not me being a crazy lesbian conspiracy theorist or anything (I'm not even lesbian), it's just fact. The most popular category of porn with women is "lesbian." You're just an ordinary straight woman who gets off to lesbian porn like the rest of your sisters.

No. 331398

>Most straight women masturbate to thoughts of other women.
Uhm, no? wtf

No. 331401

It may sound insane and it may not be true for you, anon, but "lesbian" is THE most popular porn search term for women and that is cold hard fact whether you like it or not. I personally think most lesbian porn is lame so I don't get it but it's the truth.

No. 331404

>"lesbian" is THE most popular porn search term for women
That doesn't mean that those women who search for it are straight though, no? Maybe porn is just very popular with lesbians and bisexuals.

No. 331409

Lesbians are a teeny tiny percentage of the female population, and straight women outnumber bisexual women. The popularity of "lesbian" as a search term among women is so incredibly high that it can't be accounted for by just "B-but maybe it's just bisexuals doing it!"

Seriously, there are multiple studies on this. There are articles about this.


Sorry to break it to you, anon. You're just a straight woman with a very very common porn preference.

No. 331412

>Sorry to break it to you, anon. You're just a straight woman with a very very common porn preference.
Are you hinting that I would search for that?
The whole time I already try telling you that I don't think that this is true, because I can't imagine any of the women around me to get off by looking at lesbian porn. Just the thought makes me gag. Why would you want to look at another women's pussy if you're not a lesbo?
That sounds like a man's sick fantasy.

No. 331414

If you read the articles, they feature a lot of straight women explaining it. Seems to be a mix of not being into the shitty misogynist violence all over straight porn and wanting to see focus on what feels good for women, i.e cunnilingus and clitoral stimulation.

No. 331417

That's probably because most straight porn where there's a guy involved looks the opposite of pleasurable

No. 331421

It's annoying when people try to tell other people what their sexuality is without actually knowing them.
Seems like bisexual women are the main targets of this. To straight men, you must be performing all for the dick. To lesbians, if you're not exclusively into women and women alone, you must actually, totally be straight.

No. 331424

If you don't have any interest or desire to actually date or even have casual sex with women then yeah, chances are you're just a straight woman who enjoys a bit of lesbian porn.

No. 331425

This. I didn't realize it was this bad before when I was dating mainly just girls but now that I have a long term bf everyone seems to have the last say about my sexual preferences. Let people mind their own business, if you're bi you're bi no matter who you're dating.

No. 331426

that's different than when people say "you're not bi cause you're not dating a woman" that's like saying anyone who's single doesn't have a sexuality.

No. 331427

All the bithots with victim complexes that have been running around on here lately. After spending time around actual bisexuals, I honestly believe shoe when she says she's bi now. It adds up.

No. 331428

If you're attracted to women, you're attracted to women. Any sensible person knows there's no such thing as a """straight""" man who enjoys a bit of gay porn, and the rules are not different for women.
Who you actually date or say yes/no to fucking is up to you, and is your business alone. Your sexual preferences are not invalidated by your partners.

No. 331429


No. 331431

Hi bithot

No. 331432

That's not what we're talking about though, anon. Scroll up. We're talking about an anon who claims to be bisexual because she sometimes thinks about women when she masturbates, but is only interested in actually dating or fucking men.

No. 331433

Hi incel

No. 331435

My post here >>331421 was standalone and pretty general, not replying specifically to what's going on ITT.

No. 331436

Any straight man that says they fap to gay porn is at least somewhat "gay" (=bi) to most people, I don't understand why women are always counted as straight even when they like lesbian porn better than straight porn.

No. 331437

Neither an incel nor a man, sorry. Guess again.

No. 331440

>Neither an incel
Sure. That's why you're mad about women's sexual agency.

No. 331442

Why look at that tragic shit at all, it is prostituted women faking pleasure for men. At best awkward and far from what lesbian sex is like irl.

No. 331443

NTA, but I sometimes wonder if it's similar to trannies complaining about the "cotton ceiling", but sneakier.
It's almost like they're trying to invalidate bisexual women's identities and sexualities all because they might say "no" to them. It's an "Oh yeah?? Prove it!" thing, as if self-truth isn't real. If this is how things really worked, all single virgins would be considered "Undecided" in sexuality. But somehow, this magic, 100% legit rule of "You're just a straight until you actually fuck [us]" only applies to women who are bisexual. Hmmmm.

No. 331444

Uh, what makes you think I'm mad about it…? All I said was bisexuals are annoying, which is true.

No. 331445

The mad is radiating off your posts.

No. 331449

Ditto LOL

No. 331452

There's "lesbian porn" and lesbian porn and women usually like the latter better no matter what they identify as. Lesbian porn aimed at men is just plain disgusting and usually the lesbian porn that shows up on those "porn for women" categories is a lot different than your regular lesbo porn.

This is kinda what I feel like is going on. I've identiefied as bi since I was 12 but mostly just dated/had sex with girls and my lesbian friends didn't mind, but they didn't really mind me calling myself bi. A bi girl that mostly dated only men would not have gotten the same treatment.

No. 331454

Yeah but at least you try to say hi back anon. I'm talking about the ones that just glare back but don't smile or say hi. And I can tell the difference between head in the clouds,not paying attention, and staring directly at me intentionally ignoring me. I can also tell if someone is shy or standoffish or if they are just rude.

This soccer mum type came in the other weekend with her young son with her. She was looking at me and my coworker when she walked past. We both smiled and 'hello' to her.
She immediately turned to her kid and started talking really loudly to him as they continued to pass. She made a point of talking loudly and suddenly to him as if to say 'I'M TALKING TO MY SON HOW DARE YOU INTERRUPT' even though she wasn't talking to him before. Like she didn't say it, but she was definitely trying to be passive aggressive. I can be a sensitive bitch so I thought maybe I just imagined it, but my coworker turned to me after she passed and was like 'wow what a cunt' so it definitely wasn't just me.

No. 331455

It's more just typical male ego and male worship in my opinion. Bisexual men are assumed to be gay men who are just lying. Bisexual women are assumed to be straight women who are just lying. Basically, everyone is assumed to really only like dick. Like the assumption is "Well, if you have the capability to like dick, why would you even bother with that other inferior icky sex?"

No. 331457

Well honestly I don't really get why either, but if we say any woman who likes lesbian porn must be at least bisexual then that makes the vast majority of women bisexual, and people start reeing when you say that.

No. 331461

You sound like a jaded lesbian that has been hurt by a bi girl before.
I do understand the stereotype of annoying bi chick, but they aren't all like that. I've dated both sexes on and off.

One particular lesbian I met while out seemed great, we had a great night, met up a couple times after. We seemed to have chemistry but she could not accept that I had dated men before even though my last partner was a woman and it had been long term. She kept insisting I must be a lesbian, that it must have been a mistake, and I assured her no, that was not the case. Anyway despite having fun, we fought a few times on a few of our dates towards the end and it was always about my sexuality which in no way did I bring it up.

No. 331462

that's a different convo anon.

No. 331463

tons of normie women look to straight porn as a way to figure out how sex works tbh.

No. 331464

We have a problem of most men in porn being really gross, or if they are cute they are really aggressive (in a male-pleasing way) so most women want to watch the pretty thing.
Men are mostly only attractive in real life, due to hormones and energy and all that stuff. They are just not photogenic.
>inb4 denial

I don't watch any porn now but definitely got into a habit of watching lesbian stuff in the past, ironically while being sexually active with males only irl

No. 331467

I've never been hurt by, rejected by, or dated a bi girl. I've just never met [an out] bisexual, male or female, I didn't find insufferable and didn't feel the need to say #notallbis.

No. 331475

Can't imagine why bisexual people are hesitant to come out to you when you speak so highly of them.

No. 331481

Eh, men are also the ones who don't even hug their male friends in fear of being considered "gay", while many women have fantasies involving other women and it's not as taboo. Lesbian porn is irrealistic as fuck and made for the male eye only, actual lesbians don't usually watch it. It's lesbian sex scripted, filmed and often acted by straight people, so non-lesbian women might enjoy it because of its straight perspective.
I don't know, I'm on the fence about it

No. 331482

Can they read my mind or something? I never talk shit about them irl or on my social media, ever.

No. 331491

That's not because women think that lesbian porn is the best, it's just because it's the least worse. I don't even watch porn and just from the very little I've seen and thumbnails the men are at the very best ugly as fuck or you just see their dicks.

No. 331495

It doesn't mean anything without context. A bisexual woman could very well not date women because of homophobia from her family or workplace, or because she only knows straight women or even just women overall who aren't into her. I always hear about bisexual women AND lesbians being frustrated when they're in love or have a crush on straight women, which is to be expected since straight people are the majority.

No. 331496

people who use prolly instead of probably

No. 331497

Please read more carefully. Not having the desire to date women and not having the means to date women are not the same thing.

No. 331498


Seconding this and adding, people who end their sentences with "so yeah."

No. 331499

Yes obviously, but I know some women who will say they can't imagine themselves dating women in an ambiguous way so I thought it was worth mentioning. I meant it in a general way.

No. 331615

Girls like Lainey/Shoe/Ariana Grande who go on about how ~*tiny they are. It just seems so infantilizing. Not to mention those girls are usually around 5’3” with an average build. Which makes them somewhat smaller than average but definitely not tiny.

I’m short and pretty small boned (inb4 “humblebragging”) and it definitely has it’s disadvantages. People always comment on your size like it’s a big part of your identity when it’s really not. I’m 27 but most people assume I’m a teen or in my very early 20s, and that usually comes with no one taking me seriously. Whenever I’m doing a physical task, people usually rush to my side to help me because they automatically assume I’m too weak to do anything. Clothes typically look awkward and ill fitting even though they’re the correct size. And of course, creepy dudes who only want you because you’re small and young looking and thus think they can live out their pedo fantasies with you while it being legal.

I’m not trying to make it sound like my life is terrible because of it but like I said, there are some disadvantages. Idk why girls want to be seen as helpless. I want to be seen as an adult who can do her own shit. Because that’s what I am.

No. 331631

Shorties like you are even worse. Inb4 all you want, you're just humblebragging.
>uwu people always think I'm a teenager, life is sooo hard

No. 331634

calm down anon, normal 20 somethings don't want to be seen as teenagers.

No. 331638

It's only humblebragging if you think being pedobait is desirable.

No. 331644

What >>331638 said. Good job letting your insecurities and more sordid proclivities slip through.

No. 331646

I can't stand reading things like this. Try being 6'1" then talk to me about ill fitting clothes. Try being constantly told you're 'intimidating' because you're much taller than average. I'm considering making business cards that explicitly say "No, I don't play basketball or volleyball. Yes, I know I'm tall." The grass is NOT greener on the other side.

No. 331650

i dont even care about the assumed youth thing necessarily because people treat me a little nicer because of it, and i'm already so scared of people, but what sucks is that everyone on here assumes shorties are cute and fab ariana grande weirdly glam pedobaits. like, i'm not even fat but i still look stumpy and weird and like an awkward weird looking young weeb in their ugly duckling phase, not like ariana grande. it feels like i'm perpetually stuck as my awkward and uncomfortable 15 yo self. it's really not an enviable position to be in, and being wanted by creepy guys or being asked out by guys much younger than yourself isn't great either. it's just embarrassing and pathetic.

No. 331657

she wasn't saying that, anon. she was saying that shits who talk about being uwu smol beans are usually just average girls. like girls who are 5'6 talking about being suuuuper tall!

No. 331659

I don't mind being seen as younger, personally. It makes things easier. I've read a lot of saddening articles stating that women of my race are sexualized and seen as more "grown up" at prepubescent ages compared to girls of other races at the same age, that people (incl. women of other races) are less likely to help us when we're being sexually harassed (and they also don't even feel as bad), that we're perceived as "angry" when we're not more often, etc etc.
I already have really bad anxiety and am bad at sticking up for myself IRL, so I'll accept randoms assuming I'm a kid and being a bit kinder to me for it, lmao.

No. 331660

samefag but i'm not even short, i'm 5'11. short bitches whining about big clothes can come to me when all their long sleeves are 3/4th length on them.

No. 331663

Never said being tall was great or that I wanted to be tall. I’m sure that being super tall comes with it’s disadvantages and I’m sure you get a lot of shit for it as
well. Chill.

I literally said in the last paragraph my life isn’t that hard. Just that I have to deal with some annoyances because of my size. I’m sure most people have to deal with shit because of a thing that they can’t change. Also I think wanting to be seen as an adult and not a teenager is a reasonable request when you’re approaching 30.

No. 331695

Anime OP songs suck now. I'm definitely stuck in the 90s on this one.

No. 331748

got those feels anon. im 5' 4", by no means the shortest and not uwu anime tiny so i look like a weird dwarf. ive still had some people say weird things like putting you in their pocket or just picking me up for no reason. its strange. smol bean meme is just retarded.

but my heart goes out to tall anons. my best friend growing up was 6' and she was insanely insecure about it. i wanted her height and she wanted mine

No. 331908

Oh god yes. Especially since now a lot of anime have the seiyuu sing or some bullshit no name idol group

No. 331928

>ive still had some people say weird things like putting you in their pocket or just picking me up for no reason
God that's so true. My sister is 4'10 at 19 and she's had a guy saying he would "put her on a shelf like a porcelain doll", and similar weird ass shit from other guys.
You do attract many creeps when you're short.

Personally I think that tall girls are beautiful, but sometimes I'm afraid to compliment them in case they're insecure about it. Sad that a positive feature like height can become reason of insecurity to some because of insecure manlets

No. 331973

I hate fake freckles. Part of why Belle Delphine annoys me is really that she draws on fake freckles.
I've got actual freckles and it's really obvious when someone draws them on for idk what reason, and it seems tryhard.
I also find large, overly drawn and "faded" eyebrows a la instathot baddie ugly and mildly annoying. Actually, a lot of that makeup look.

No. 331981

I'm not even that short (5'3", which is pretty average in my country) and men still get so creepy about it. The worst is the men who think that because they can pick me up, they should. Instead of just tapping me on the shoulder and saying "excuse me" like a normal person, I've had multiple men I don't know physically pick me up to move me out of the way. What the fuck?

No. 332015

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>always got insulted and got called a monkey because of my big eyebrows and big lips as a kid
>mfw those same bitches who used to criticize girls and women with big lips, eyebrows, butts, etc. spend so much money on shitty eyebrow products and lips and butts implants now

No. 332051

And it'll never look natural on them like it does you anon

That's some sweet sweet schadenfreude

No. 332052

>adults who hate fruits and veggies
God this shit grinds my gears. Had an ex boyfriend who refused to eat them, and he was 31. Of course he was a fat fuck and it would make me so mad and embarrassed eating out with him and him not touching a single thing that wasn't brown on his plate. "They taste horrible!" Coffee grounds taste horrible, broccoli and cucumbers taste like fucking nothing. Stop being . a child and branch out from chicken tenders and french fries

No. 332055

i always thought i was an ass for being like this too. i get so angry when people won't eat something because "ewww mushrooms!" like they're actually delicious when prepared right and take a fucking bite and stop being literally 3 years old. my dad won't even try asian food because of this kind of shit and it fucking annoys me to no end, but in the end it's not a HUGE deal so i don't say anything and just roll my eyes.

No. 332059

things from the 90s are considered vintage today though. my mom and i go to estate sales and there are a lot of things that ARE only 20 years old and they ARE considered vintage today.

No. 332096

I have an obese 35 year old coworker with kids who hates all vegetables and eats mainly fast food (mcdonalds.)
I used to think this kind of mentality was made up. How can anyone hate vegetables? both fruits and vegetables are refreshing as fuck

No. 332097

That shit kills me. I'm gonna be 31 this year and all my childhood toys like polly pockets are popular with collectors who like 15/16. wtf Stop jacking up the prices to the toys I want to rebuy.

No. 332122

having ugly liver lips isn't the same as having nice full lips, so you shouldn't really be taking it as a compliment if your lips look like a monkeys anyway lol. not saying lip injections look good on most people though.

No. 332128

I hated vegetables when I was a kid, but now I like them, save for onions.

I think it’s mostly a kid thing but some adults still hold onto it. I wish we could encourage kids in America to eat more veggies than to think of them as disgusting (I’m only singiling America out because I’m from there and I’m not sure what it’s like in other countries).

No. 332129

>having ugly liver lips isn't the same as having nice full lips,
Good thing I have "nice full lips" then.

No. 332144

Holy shit anon are you me? I'm >>331973 and people used to make fun of my big eyebrows and I thought my lips were too big. Who's laughing now bitch?
Still annoys me anyway when people get any of that shit and call it "natural" because I can tell it isn't.

No. 332167

the funny thing is though, is that june isn't even short. she's like, 5'6. it's so pathetic that she even crouches a lot when she takes photos with fans who are much shorter than her.

No. 332488

why aren't posts like this deleted and op banned?

No. 332526


Are you complaining about the content or the duplicate posts?

The site has been experiencing a known 504 server error for three months leading to duplicate posts. See Meta.

No. 333053

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i wanna start doing those themed moodboards you see on pinterest (pic related) with clothes and aesthetics i like but so many of the clothes i wanna use have the models with long hair worn loose that gets in the way of the tops/dresses and completely ruin the pics to use because if i cut the hair out of the clothes it looks weird and ugly bc there’s literally two huge holes and if i keep it it looks even uglier

this is peak first world problem and i’m as annoyed with myself for being annoyed by it as i am with the “””problem”””

No. 333249

Just bought food for 3.70, gave the guy 10 and didn't notice the guy only gave me back 1.30 till I got home

I just threw away 5 bucks like a goddamn fucking idiot

No. 333614

I came back to work from a few days off and my coworkers left all the dishes in the sink for me…they're so used to me always doing them they just leave the sink completely full now because it doesn't even occur to them to do it.
I hate being the only woman here!

No. 333615

Don't do them. Only wash your own dishes. They'll soon learn.

No. 333616

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Don't do it, wash your own dishes only and send out a passive agressive email/hang up a passive aggressive sign like pic related.

It's worth getting petty over, how infuriating.

No. 333618

I would but my boss would give me shit, he expects me to do them too…
I just "punish them" by browsing internet boards during work hours.

No. 333619

How is that anything but legitimate work place discrimination? Go to HR, lazy oblivious males are one thing but a sexist boss forcing you to do chores is another. Try get it in writing.

No. 333629

we don't really have HR here since it's a small company.
But when I complain about this to someone, they tell me I'm just overreacting and being extreme feminist.

No. 333632

Kek, the nerve. I'd say, be petty and only wash yours. You're not the maid, anon. They're just taking advantage and steamrolling you. Remarks don't make it your task if it was never agreed that it actually is your task.

No. 333671

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This specific ad on YouTube boiled my piss, with some girl giving a monologue about how she believes perfection isn't about living up to beauty standards, but instead "being different to everyone else" and goes on to sing some crap song about how beauty comes from within. It's an unflattering screencap but the girl has perfect skin, perfectly made up youthful face and hair etc and is the fashionably acceptable level of 'plus size'. She literally is the beauty standard of 2018.

The video started to show some plus size Asian man with a cleft lip for triple token power and I ragequit the yt app

No. 333677

I have a mini-rage every time I see an advert for spot cream with someone with perfect clear skin. Or an advert for razors with a woman pulling a razor down a perfectly smooth leg. The fuck.

No. 333966

As someone whose actually ugly, shit like this pisses me off. Being slightly overweight doesn't change the fact that she has a beautiful face.

No. 334019

Same. or an acne face wash when they have makeup on and clear skin.

No. 334021

That would piss me the fuck off to. I work in a small company and most of my coworkers dont clean up the table, so it's full of crumbs and food, and i'm always always wiping it down.

I would def leave a passive aggressive not. Or if it gets really bad, call a higher up to try to work something out. you arent a fucking maid.

No. 336649

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Lolcow's dislike for non-cute fashion.

As a recent example
/r/FemaleFashionAdvice: The Cringe, The Bad, and The Ugly
24 years old, wears jeans, boots and a striped shirt:
>it's never appropriate to wear ripped jeans to work
>I didn't know "high school" was a style anyone sought after…


Advice Thread 2: Electric Boogaloo
early/mid 20s, wears children's dresses
>who cares lol you're probably saving a ton of money.
>i don't see the problem as long as it doesn't look like children's clothes.
>i think having rules about this would be strange though.
>the dress is definitely cute. tbh i still shop in the kids and teens section despite being in my mid 20s too.
>How are you retarded for that? If you don't fit in adult clothes, then you don't fit in them. There's tons of pieces in the childrens section that a woman could wear
>I guarantee you nobody would be able to guess that's from the children's section unless they were a Uniqlo worker themselves and knew the clothing lol. Like other anons in this thread, I buy clothes from the men's and little boy's section all the time. If it fits and looks nice on you, who the hell cares? Rock that shit.

I highly doubt your coworkers are gonna give a shit whether the long(!) jeans you are wearing are a tiny bit distressed. Wearing literal childrens clothing however - no matter how sm0l you might be - is bound to look off on an adult shaped body.
Again: long jeans on a young woman working in a lab is appropriate. Wearing (probably way too short) children's clothes is not.

I suspect it's because of the high rate of weebs here thinking: in Japan showing cleavage = slutty, wearing skirts so short that you're ass is nearly showing = okay!
>hurrduur wearing something comfy is for teens and therefore inappropriate for everybody over the age of 18
>these dresses are totally not too short or childish, so cute!!!

70 year old women wear jeans and tshirts too, doesn't mean they're imitating high schoolers. Not everybody is into wearing stuff that resembles a school uniform/j-fashion. Not everybody gives a shit about looking "feminine" in their day to day working life. If your workplace doesn't have a dress code, as long as you're covered up (which jeans do) it's completely okay.
This reminds me of the posters on cgl shitting on all the "normie" women for not dressing as elegantly as they do lol.

No. 336653

I hate the fact that some threads I actually enjoy reading get shat up with anons that are obviously underaged or just nuts. The threads about artists/ the yt community threads suffer real bad from this, as well as the kpop critical thread.

No. 336654

I don't agree, some people are just short and dressing kids up as mini-adults is a thing so it works out. You wouldn't think a midget is trying to be uguu kawaii for buying clothes that fit them in "adult" colours.

I don't give a fuck what someone wears as long as they can make it look good, but the Female Fashion Advice crowd is full of frumpy, fat 30-somethings who want to look like feminist!witchy!FrenchGirl!Princess Leias which clearly nets bad results. In the same vein, the fashion thread on /g/ is full of art hoes and quirky YesStyle girls who gave up lolita.

Those two groups existing doesn't mean that cutesy fashion on a person in their mid 20s can't look good or that ripped jeans can't work in a professional environment.

No. 336664

Its for her job though, so it seems OK to me, she's being encouraged to dress like that because it helps the ambiance of the place.

No. 336672

Lmao, I've seen the exact opposite. People calling anything but basic Wal-Mart and Fashion Nova shit "children's clothes" or screeching about teenagers Tumblr, dd/lg, "tranny wear" and ageplay whenever anyone posts Jfashion.
Sorry the shoe is now on the other foot and people aren't liking your frumpy, casual shit either, anon.

No. 336700

>people aren't liking your frumpy, casual shit either
You don't know what I dress like, anon. I defend what around 95% of the young women around me, in uni and at work, wear. It's ridiculous how so many of you here seem to think of that as abnormal looking. Also, funny how you use "casual" as an insult. Normal people do dress casually, unless there's a special occasion, you know?
But yeah, please go on buying toddlers clothing. You're unironically doing the same creepy shit as trannies and can't see how it's wrong. One day a mom is going to catch you wearing the same thing as her little daughter kek. Good luck!

No. 336705

You sound way too pressed for that to not be exactly how you dress, lmao. Also, I didn't use "casual" as an insult, just a descriptor after I used "frumpy" (an actual insult).
Continue pushing your own bizarre fetishization of children, obsession with aging (or lack thereof) and latent pedophilia on anything that looks cute. That sounds healthy, and not like actual tranny tier sickness and sexual illness at all. I bet you're one of the same spergs having breakdowns over Ariana Grande being short and throwing the term "anachan" at anyone that's smaller than you.
No one has to RP that your shitty "found everything i'm wearing on my bathroom floor"-core is fashionable or good looking either, though. Die mad about it.

No. 336709

Forgot to add this and can't be bothered to delete/repost: No one said any of that is "abnormal looking", just lame and doesn't warrant posting on a fashion subreddit. There are tacky and/or bland people who don't care much about fashion all around. The humor is when someone thinks their lack of effort, poor eye for fitting and bad taste still somehow constitutes a "look" worthy of sharing with the world.
That's the point of the whole thread. Trainwrecks and bad looks.
Sorry a nerve was struck.

No. 336710

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>Continue pushing your own bizarre fetishization of children, obsession with aging (or lack thereof) and latent pedophilia on anything that looks cute. That sounds healthy, and not like actual tranny tier sickness and sexual illness at all.

No. 336712

What else is meant when a person claims that wearing J-fashion is doing the same thing as trannies, exactly?

No. 336755

I love that your post is directly below one of the spergs from the ugly reddit clothing thread.

No. 336863

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Youtube needs to stop being such a big deal to people. I'm over hearing about the latest Rewind and everyone sperging out because their screeching gamelord Pewdiefaggot wasn't included or Will Smith is in it.
Nevermind that Pewd was in 4 past videos. I've never seen a bigger unwarranted self-importance guy. He's old fucking news.
Furthermore, the fuck cares?

Youtube's bad and too corporate now? YT's shoehorning in social commentary and not mentioning every single person?
Well then join a different platform and support one that listens, oh wait, YT is actually accessible and lucrative so none of the whinging assholes will really fucking leave.

No. 336877

I’m tired of YouTube too. It went from being a site where people made homemade videos of them acting, singing, experimenting with special effects, original memes, etc., to people with zero talent making clickbait storytimes. It also annoys me that almost no youtubers now appreciate film making or video editing, they just have someone else do it for them. Not to mention all youtubers now have inflated egos and think of themselves as celebrities.

No. 336929

lol ikr? lolcow dresses like 12 year old weebs, it's embarrassing. and they'll defend it by saying "omg no its trendy in korea" meanwhile young women in sk dress like thots.

No. 336937

Both are bad, you shouldn't be wearing children's clothes and you shouldn't be wearing ripped jeans to work…

No. 336944

I don’t like how lolcow can’t undersand nuance. someone can like cutesy/weeby clothes and still be able to dress “normal” when the situation arises. and people who dress plain or in leggings are capable of dressing up sometimes too, judging someone’s entire style from one outfit is silly.

and my fellow alt fashion/weeb dressing anons need their grow thicker skin, everyone thinks we are weird and there is nothing we can do about it, wear the clothes you like and stop caring about what others think.

No. 336959

what i dont get is why he cares so much about having the most subs. twice now there's been these ~subscribe campaigns~ to edge him out of whoever is coming up on his sub count. is it just to stick it to youtube or what? he can't stay on top forever.

No. 336975

Check out vimeo instead, if you haven't already. It tends to attract artists and people with at least an ounce of creative integrity. Also had my favorite internet video ever, though it seems to have vanished out of existence.

No. 336995

It's one thing to wear normiewear, it's another thing to take pictures of normiewear every day and post it to a group that prides itself on knowing what fashion is. No one would be commenting on the femalefashionadvice outfits in the street, but they not only think their outfits are "fashionable," but they think their outfits are fashionable enough to warrant dozens of asspatting comments on how fashionable they are. These two threads can coexist here, and there's no reason to get defensive. No one's shitting on casual clothes. They're shitting on these ladies thinking casual clothes are fashionable.

hard agree, anon

No. 336997

I personally can dress both alt/weeb and "fashionably normie" as a result of not having access to the weeby clothing I really wanted for years, and having to renege to the latter. I just don't like getting bitched out by anons who I most likely wouldn't want to dress anything like to begin with, but I largely mind my business either way.
IRL, I either get left alone whether I'm in "alt" clothes, or I get stopped and sincerely called cute/stylish/beautiful by strangers. Let farmers tell it, I and anyone who dresses vaguely like me looks like a haggard ageplayer pastel clown weeaboo autistic horse girl trannie ddlger who is mocked and scorned as a degenerate outcast by all sane folk. I imagine similar is true for anons who dress very "basic" or effortless, even if their jeans are ripped and some farmer insists that's an awful faux pas.
Shit comments on Lolcow don't mean much in real life, and people shouldn't take them too seriously. I wouldn't mind having both a thread for the worst outfits from Reddit, and one for the worst alt outfits from Tumblr or IG, though.

No. 336999

At this point it's more a meme everyone jumped on than Pewdiepie himself wanting more subs. I've watched a few of his videos lately and he seems weirdly chill with it all.

I honestly find his fans a lot more annoying than Pewdiepie himself.

No. 337008

Sucks, I created the first Artist’s on YT thread and it’s really spiraled downward as of late. Now it’s full of self posters or the artists themselves coming in to talk shit about other artists and vaguely defend themselves.

No. 337228

I'm sick and tired of people who think it's cool to hate everything and just be unnecessarily cunty. I thought the try hard constant sneering shit was a high school thing but I'm running into adult upperclassmen that still do it. If you just ~hate~ everyone and everything and the major you picked then just leave; no one's holding you hostage and you're just wasting Daddy's money. I also hate people who blatantly online shop or dick around on their phones during lectures, it's incredibly rude and you're paying a PhD hundreds to thousands of dollars to teach you. But no, I guess engaging with anything is totally lame. Grow up.

No. 337229

I'm so shocked at the number of people in my lectures who blatantly don't pay attention… and people who sit in the front of class too? it's one thing if you sit in the back and dick around but there are people who sit in the front row and are on their phones texting/on social media all of class. it's so disrespectful to the professor

No. 337230

It's sad. I wish the mods were more strict about shitposters.

No. 337238

People should be fucking allowed to believe the things they like are superior to other things. The "everything is subjective so you can't value any one thing as better than other things" mindset is annoying as fuck and retardedly nihilistic. Keeping people from being proud of themselves/their culture/their tastes is a surefire way to make everyone miserable and it angers me that everyone keeps pushing this stupid "uwu what a bigot, going around valuing the things she chose precisely because she thought were valuable, shameful display"

>This reminds me of the posters on cgl shitting on all the "normie" women for not dressing as elegantly as they do lol.
I don't see what's wrong with that. Of course someone who wears more elegant, fashionable stuff will feel superior to someone who doesn't.

No. 337240

personally i find it fukin annoying when immigrants come to migrate to a country thats completely different from their home land, then bitch and moan how life here is so shitty compared to the motherland. how their language/food/culture is superior. why move here then???

No. 337246

It's all relative anon. I feel pretty damn superior to women who waste so much money and resources on superficial bullshit.

No. 337247

Why do you think the art thread is bad? I feel like it's one of the less autistic threads on this site and it's not like it's super active with shitposting.

No. 337252

Of course it is subjective, but that shouldn't be thought terminating. For example: I'm fucking happy to know you feel superior for that. Go you, anon. (Not being sarcastic, my point was exactly that people should feel superior)

There's that too, why the fuck would you choose something you don't think is good?

No. 337253

What they perceive as "elegant": meaning lolita
Not everybody is a weeb. They shit on perfectly normal dressed up women just because they don't wear "superior" jfashion. Which is laughable. Hate that people make fun of your choice of outfit? Then don't go around doing the same shit to others.

No. 337260

this. the types of people who do that are insecure. of course people can look objectively bad, it's called wearing shit that doesn't fit. but if i decide to dress different i'm going to expect people to gawk, but that doesn't mean i'm dressed superior, it just means i have more confidence.

No. 337264

which is hilarious because being 'dressed up' =/= elegant. draping yourself in doilies and cheap crinoline that you've massively overpayed for, while it's designed to look 'dressy', 99.999999% of the time, will look like absolute shit and a girl wearing a pair of VS sweatpants and a hoodie will look more elegant. lolita is so bad.

No. 337265

im a lolita who also goes out in sweatpants, leggings, uggs and no makeup. any lolita who mocks normies is an idiot. i don’t judge other people for how they dress and im aware that i look ridiculous when i wear it, but it makes me happy and it’s not hurting anyone so im going to keep wearing it. just like how wearing leggings in public, or ripped jeans, or an ugly dress isn’t hurting anyone either.

No. 337356

I didn't actually disagree much with what you were posting at first, but
>a girl wearing a pair of VS sweatpants and a hoodie will look more elegant.
Come on now, anon. Let's not get ahead of ourselves.

No. 337540

While I agree on some parts of your posts, I don't think they're moving here for the food. They're mostly fleeing poverty and war zones, not the food.

No. 337564

I think the point was them complaining about every little thing in the culture, which is totally true. It seems like every year people are losing being humble, I hate when foreign nationals whine about the country they move to. Just go back then? “B-but muh poverty and war!” Then shut the fuck up and stop pretending you’re superior when you clearly aren’t.

No. 337567

i don't think that immigrants who are fleeing shit countries are really deciding to move to your country.

No. 338479

Had to watch picrel movie during my english class and all people around me saying how good and true the video is like??
Also have seen IN-SHADOW animation on another class, and all I have in my mind are these /technology is bad fire is scary/ illustrations. One of best moments is a baby with it's chakras that gets vaccinated and suddenly chakras disappear and child starts crying???
Also during english class I hear the classic complaining from Ukrainian girl behind me about pride stuff (I'm gay myself, yet no one really knows), and how gays shouldn't "brag around about being gay like hey hey look I am gay no one likes me haha!".
It's stupid post, but I got a bit annoyed and don't have any other place to post.

No. 338512

Bitching about the local culture is still shit tho. It's like having your house burn down and your neighbour takes you in and all you do is complain that their house smell weird and the host can't cook.

No. 338518

wow this is cringy as fuck. I'm sorry you're surrounded by morons anon.

No. 338733

I can easily navigate my apartment without the lights on when I wake up in the night and need to go pee. I’ve been living here for almost two years. But last night I somehow managed to walk full-speed into a doorframe and gave myself a nasty black eye. God fucking damnit.

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>Also have seen IN-SHADOW animation on another class, and all I have in my mind are these /technology is bad fire is scary/ illustrations.

I watched it just now out of curiosity, and lmao you weren't kidding. 13 minutes of just nonstop "SOCIAL MEDIA MORE LIKE UNSOCIAL MEDIA YOU'RE ALL JUST PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY STOP USING SMARTPHONES WAKE UP SHEEPLE I AM VERY SMART AND #WOKE". At least the artwork was nice though.

No. 338915


They are contributing to the misery by making 10 WoKE minutes and one cheery one. Also saw clear influences from
-Invader Zim
-The gorillaz animator
-Spirited Away
-Animal Farm
-Ghost in the Shell

It's a good piece of work but overall uninspiring.

No. 338917

>Shitty black mirror ripoff
>the lefties are killing us!!! With their words!! Equality is bad!!!

The girl behind you sounds like a classic closeted gay-hater

No. 339021

You're projecting your own insecurities and cherry-picking, noticing anything that you dont like or anons who have different views than you like >>336672 does, who's allegedly seen the opposite of what you have and you two hold the opposite views. Go figure. I posted
>How are you retarded for that? If you don't fit in adult clothes, then you don't fit in them. There's tons of pieces in the childrens section that a woman could wear
And don't dress cutesy at all nor am I interested in jfashion. That dress is beyond casual (nothing wrong with that, I dress in "normie clothes"). It's literally a black, solid dress that genuinely could fit in the womens section had it been…well, tailored for a women's frame. If anon's petite, I don't see a problem with having to shop for smaller clothes.
Are you mad because you don't fit into jfashion or what? What is the problem?

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i have misophonia due to ear trauma from when i was a baby and every noise annoys me in some way. it’s absolute torture to be sensitive to every little sound. i get so angry over the tiniest things because they sound 100x louder in my ears than other people’s

i also can’t handle going to cinemas and i have to wear earplugs lmfao

No. 339186

>trying to start infighting by replying to a 5 day old post

No. 339192

That's not infighting. This is a thread and people are alllowed to discuss things. 5 days isn't even a long time especially for a site like this. Are you still mad that you're not short or what

No. 339203

>Are you mad because you don't fit into jfashion or what?
>Are you still mad that you're not short or what
Just stop. We get it, you're sm0l and fit into jfashion and therefore we're all supposed to feel jealous, because, who wouldn't want to be short and wear weeb stuff?

No. 339205

Agreed. Actual normal people don't really care about that kind of thing at all, whether it's most Jfashion, or finding out that someone wears plain, passable clothes that happen to be from the kid's section.
>Are you mad because you don't fit into jfashion or what?
I honestly think that's exactly it. There is literally no other reason to be that bothered about something like Jfashion besides sour grapes. They can make up fake woke "Think of the children, ur all the same as trannies!!1" arguments and say "Umm dress your age sweaty" all day, but it's clear as day what's really going on. Weebs in denial, and people with largely personal body issues who simply take issue with anybody being thin/petite enough to wear what they can't.

No. 339207

NTA, but you're just proving that anon's point. They don't even wear anything cutesy, they just notice the disproportionate salt about that kind of thing.

No. 339309

A thing that really annoys me is the OP gif tbh

No. 339588

>I honestly think that's exactly it. There is literally no other reason to be that bothered about something like Jfashion besides sour grapes. They can make up fake woke "Think of the children, ur all the same as trannies!!1" arguments and say "Umm dress your age sweaty" all day, but it's clear as day what's really going on. Weebs in denial, and people with largely personal body issues who simply take issue with anybody being thin/petite enough to wear what they can't.
delusional. plenty of people truly hate jfashion tards and jfashion just because it's terrible and people that are into it are annoying and inappropriate 9 times out of 10, cannot read a room for shit, and they refuse to accept that they will always look retarded because subculture clothing is horrendously cheap, and most jfashion is literally forever21 tier quality but because they associate lace or scalloped trim or 'corset' accents with sophistication, they think it looks good and look better than 'normie' dressers. i can easily fit into terribad overpriced japanese meme clothing, but who would want to?

No. 339624

Nope. Actual normies don't give a fuck to even know if it's F21 quality or not, since they don't pay attention to things that aren't their taste, and also won't spend any money on buying it or trying it on for the same reason.
I'm sorry if you had a weeby Jfashion phase, wasted all your money on things you couldn't pull off and are now bitter, but stop taking it out on everyone else and projecting your own embarrassing behaviors. It's cringy, and anyone who's actually mature doesn't give a fuck about any of this.

No. 339625

i love it tbh

No. 339628

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Both of you shut the fuck up about it.
Take it to the lolita thread now. You've had an entire fucking week to bicker and shit up this thread, leave the topic alone and move the fuck on.
Not every farmer here is so entitled to their opinion that they shit up threads for a WEEK. Talk about something else you fucking losers.

No. 339632

I made maybe 3 posts about it, and that last one is only because salty-chan came at me talking about delusions. Calm the fuck down.

No. 339645

Literally who gives a shit if some random stranger on the internet likes jfashion or not.
What’s really annoying is how some farmers shit on people for the most mundane things or nitpick like crazy, like give me a real reason to hate someone instead of making a big deal about how they now live in Japan, make weird fashion choices or made bad art for the 96th time.

No. 339839

This. Seriously.

I feel like everyone is so jaded they expect everyone to conform. No foreigner, expat or person raised by foreigners is every going to be able to integrate into Japanese society. Let them like what they like and stop being jelly.

No. 341610

Work friend decided to call me on my personal cell phone number three times this past week for "work related reasons". I did not give her my number, and we message each other on Messenger.

I told her to stop this shit because a. I don't answer calls with no caller ID and b. if I don't give you my number I probably don't want you to use it. Plus she called me and left a voicemail about mandatory training that I was supposed to take or I would've most likely gotten fired. Her excuse was that all the work phones were occupied. I suspect she's trying to get me to cover shifts in the cooking area because she doesn't want to work out there and prefers office work.

I plan on telling my manager about this because it's not only triggering my paranoia whenever she calls my fucking phone but it's a lack of professionalism.

No. 341625

I'd trade like a dozen of the boring nitpicky threads about girls who show their tits off for a dozen threads on the cringey men of the internet. They're so much worse but for whatever reason, farmers can't function without someone's looks to nitpick. I'm only 24 but I feel 80 because teasing people for their looks is so boring and tired, unless they've severely fucked up via plastic surgery (since thats a choice).

The creepy close-ups of cows' bodies with red circles around all the tinytiny photoshop areas is just garbage content. Like holy shit its boring and annoying all in one.

Thread photos that are ugly compilations of the cows' photos or antics are just…that. Ugly. I never ever click the photo or read the stuff in them and it makes it harder to find particular cows' threads bc I cant see their face anywhere except in a huge mess of a cringey farmer's collage.

Kiki and Dakota threads are only here (and in pt) because you guys are grasping at nostalgia. They don't do anything anymore. Move on.

God, I know I sound like a cow myself or that I'm bitter because "sorry you got posted," but no, really, this place is getting annoying and the audience is getting younger. The farmhands' thread edits/backgrounds arent even funny tbh. I was banned for a day recently for mentioning that the Onision thread backgrounds made the site unreadable and it was all quickly taken off soon after, lmfao. Sorry that tractorgate was already old news.

Sorry for my weird shitty rant that was all over the place and basically a big dump on the current state of this website. It's probably time for myself to move on if it's annoying me this much.

No. 341627

this 100% anon, you're right. that's why i mostly browse kiwifarms for actual good milk and drama despite the userbase being autistic

No. 341631

I always read bad things about what Kiwifarms is like but it might be refreshing. Don't you have to actually make an account and such? I kinda hate when users become notorious/special/famous on social sites, it ruins the experience that anonymity has.

I also hear its hugbox-y but honestly teen sjws > teen edgelords.

No. 341637

Please don't leave this site anon, I agree with everything you said and I don't want another bearable user to leave this site.
I think userbases getting younger is a natural part of 'edgey' type sites, but we do need to make an effort to influence the culture to stay a certain way.
Report or call out nitpicks/vapid posts, find actual content to share and encourage users to do the same etc

No. 341640

Nta but what's the point of reporting nitpicks when the mods literally never ban anyone for it anymore? If they did, the only remaining /snow/flakes would be shoe, soren, the zoosadists, some trannies, and shane dawson. I bet they actively engage in it.

No. 341643

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The Dolly Mattel thread is super weird tbh. Like..the obsession with nitpicking towards her is almost surreal to me. Her vagina isnt THAT fucked up its a normal vagina yet they're always screaming about it being ugly. Have they seen the average porn vagina? None of them are pretty and hers is actually objectively what people would consider to be nicer. Small labia etc. For instance this pic one of the replies is "it looks like rotting meat". What the hell constitutes as a decent vagina then lmao? So weird. Just sticking to criticizing her behavior is one thing but that takes a back seat to comments about her appearance and how triggering it is i guess.

No. 341645

Dolly's thread is just as bad as Anisa's at this point. Autosage when?

No. 341646

mte! I don't see how her vag looks chafed or like a ballsack at all… she obviously has really bad boils and hygiene, but the nitpicking gets out of hand sometimes. I get the sense that some self-hating anons are projecting their insecurities onto her

No. 341649

she's a good cow for her constant failure at trying to appear better/smarter than everyone while showing how her life is actually in shambles, but yeah her threads are so shitted up by weirdos.

there's at least one anon who literally liveblogs her camshows, which she does almost daily and are mostly unremarkable, and they post like 10-20 screenshots of her just sitting there. it bothers the fuck out of me.

No. 341652

Yeah it borders on obsession, and it cant be healthy. It almost seems like something a male anon would do on 4chan or something. Like..is that person giving her money in order to access her stuff? While simultaneously posting screenshots and making comments about how ugly her vagina is and how flat her ass is? Because thats certainly..a choice lol.

No. 341670

Can anyone tell me the point of Anisa's Dolly's, Micky's and other people threads? I've tried reading, from start, even commented on a few but I never understood them.

A lot of the posts lately seemed fueled by jealousy. I remember when I came after stamina, this shit wouldn't go through without a ban, but now the constant nitpick (especially over normal features) is stupid and annoying. My guess is the influx of PULL users.
I agree on almost everything, other than Dakota and especially Kiki, although Dakota's thread should be moved to OT since nothing other than her gross alien shoops and large amount of speculations are being discussed.

No. 341673

I agree, the incessant tear down of her genitals is twisted and abhorrent.
Imagine someone repedetly tearing down your vagina online, thats so disgusting.

No. 341681

I'm pretty sure a lot of the nitpicking is coming from either underage teen girls who don't realize that there's life beyond high school and that people age, or from severely insecure anons.. the same thing in the celebricow thread.
I'm surprised by how many anons don't realize that celebrities have virtually unlimited resources to spend on improving their appearance as far as hair, makeup, skincare, diet, personal trainer, plastic surgery, etc. that it's not even milky if a celebrity has lip injections.

No. 341691

Why is so much of /snow just camwhores nitpicking other camwhores, do they not realise that to the outside world they’re all pretty much one and the same

No. 341695

a lot of them seem to think that the men buying videos from these girls google them and read their threads and that they won't support them anymore if they realize they're ~bad people~ lmfao as if men care as long as their dick is hard

No. 341702

>Can anyone tell me the point of Anisa's Dolly's, Micky's and other people threads? I've tried reading, from start, even commented on a few but I never understood them.

Ngl the Dolly threads were entertaining when anons were finding out about Fupa and tearing into him for being a creepy deadbeat dad from Oklahoma. He's a bigger cow than her imo.

No. 341726

He's literally a pedo who gets off on sexual violence and making his gf act like a toddler when he fucks her, and yet he has kids of his own and is allowed to be around them. He definitely should be the main topic of the thread rather than "GAHHHH shays floor is so dirty ew look at her (normal to everyone else) disgusting roastie vagina!11 in these 45793475 screenshots of a 6 month old video"

No. 341736

they're threads that might've started strong enough but now all the posts sound like the ramblings of the same couple lunatics who think there's milk where there is none (especially Anisa).And I'll never understand why anyone wants to sit through Shay's cam sessions just to get a glimpse of the same diseased pus they've been sharing for the last year. boggles the mind.

No. 341803

I agree. Half of the userbase in Dolly threads obviously consists in other camgirls nitpicking her for vendetta, but Shay herself is boring. Personally I like to dunk on Fupa and I only get in there when there's milk about him. He's the real cow.

No. 342154

After >>341670 posted asking about the point of Anisa's (who I literally had no clue who tf she was) thread I went and looked and have come to the conclusion that the anons that follow these "cows" have deluded themselves into thinking they're milky. And that Brittany Venti is an avid lolcow user. Seeing them post Brittany Venti's ~exposé~ of Anisa which I honestly couldn't get through more than 20 minutes of and say how amazing it was I'm just… confused. In her video she thinks it's just soooo milky that she tries to be positive in her videos and made a video about how she does her eyebrows that her subscribers requested even though she is not an expert. I really think a lot of anons get caught up in hating someone so much that they think everything they do is disgusting when most of it is just basic human traits?

No. 342693

When my husband talks to me when I have my noise cancelling headphones on.
He knows I'm listening to podcast and shit, and he starts having a full out conversation with me. I can only hear the WANN WANN charlie brown voice in the back so when I take my headphones off I just have this pissed off look on my face.
I've told him countless times to not just start talking like that when I head headphones on, to say my name first or talk louder but he won't fucking listen. I can't hear shit already.

No. 342694

An anon once said the Anisa threads were mostly just idubbz fangirls who hate her because they wish they could date him, and I feel like that's true. I've checked her threads maybe twice, and there's basically nothing interesting about her.
On another note, Brittany Venti is definitely a farmer, and she's so gross, lmao. She did this same ~*expose*~ shit with Shuwu, too, despite the fact that she's just a fatter, wide-nosed, more racist version of her. It's crazy how she focuses solely on other female streamers/YouTubers to do these "takedowns" on. She's just as (if not even more of) a cow/flake as them, and is "guilty" of all the same shit they do, so I gather that she does this sort of thing out of jealousy, and in hopes of siphoning more neckbeards to her channel by using their names.
But, some anons are just so happy that a YouTuber is shitting on this or that bitch they hate, they'll doggedly defend them. I saw one anon even call her "famous". It's wild.

No. 343907

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>have never been much of a drinker so abstaining from alcohol during the holidays won’t be an issue
>have several older female relatives and family friends tell me, completely unprompted, that it would be totally fine for me to drink a couple of glasses of wine on Christmas and NYE because they drank during their pregnancies too and their kids turned out just fine
>tell them that I’ve gone plenty of holidays without drinking alcohol so, really, it’s not a problem
>they keep insisting because look, their kids are fiiiiiiiine!!
>mfw all of the kids in question actually have varying degrees of of learning disabilities and/or behavioural problems
>no really I think I’ll stick with my (pasteurised) apple juice, thanks
Nobody was this insistent on me drinking during any of the previous holiday seasons and I’m starting to get a little creeped out.

No. 343908

People tend to make a big deal about it when they know you won't drink. If they don't notice, everything's fine, but god forbid you say something like "sorry, not gonna drink this time around". It's crazy how normalised drinking in social situations is. Best of luck on your pregnancy!

No. 343914

Ugh, drinking stressed me out so much while pregnant and I’ll forever feel guilty that I had those 3 standard drinks, but thankfully he really has turned out fine. But I know what you’re talking about anon, I got a lot of the same

No. 343916

i’m not pregnant, i just don’t drink, and the same thing has happened to me with older people insisting i have some wine or whatever at social gatherings. they also insist that i start thinking about having kids despite always knowing i don’t want them. boomers are fucking annoying

No. 343921

this happened to me today at the inlaws, everyone insisting I get drunk knowing I'm not interested in drinking and knowing the reason is because I grew up surrounded by alcoholics.

No. 343932

Same, I dont really drink and the only recreational thing I do is smoke weed which isn't something you can just do at most gatherings (plus I tend to even ask people visiting my home if its ok that i smoke as I like to make sure nobody is uncomfortable etc and I never push/beg anyone to smoke w me or 'just take oneeee hit!')
People really freak out and start taking note that you might just really prefer water? It becomes a topic every half hour where you have to awkwardly curb the same insidtung phrases before they give up, some time goes by and repeat!
I hate the culture around alcohol and how people tend to change really drastically when drunk and dont seem to notice it. Theres violence, people get too emotional and wreckless in the most obnoxious way possible. I hate it and my tolerance has always been decent plus I don't relate to alcohol making me sad, angry, pumped up, without inhibition etc at best I was just warm, had some energy and was alittle unsteady on my feet sometimes, but never to a point where I would shamble down the street either omw home.
Either way; stick to your preference anons, you're never alone pregnant or not when it comes to these weird societal norms.

No. 344197

I hate how I'm expected to hug people at social gatherings just because I'm a woman, while my brothers get away with just handshakes. I just feel uncomfortable and awkward hugging people that I'm not really close with. Sure I'll hug someone back if they initiate it, but if I can get away with not doing it then I'll take the opportunity to keep my distance, even if it makes me seem rude.

We had my mom's husband's family over for Christmas, and there were two people that had problems with mobility (due to old age and disability), so I would've had to be the one to initiate a hug. I don't dislike either of them but they're definitely not on my "familiar enough to hug without feeling awkward as hell"-list, so I didn't. When the other person was leaving with his wife, my mom tried to discreetly push me towards him so that I would give him a hug, but I stayed back. Instead of taking the hint and just dropping it, my mom said to out loud "normally we HUG people but they're already leaving, so…", embarrassing me in front of them.

I know for a fact that she would never try to force my brothers to hug anyone if they didn't want to. I don't know why she still tries to do that with me, I've clearly disliked hugging guests since I was a kid.

No. 344231

Same anon, it's not fucking fair. Not every woman likes to be so "affectional", why can't people understand that?

No. 344246

I hate the whole performative Southern hospitality thing where everybody has to call everyone else ma'am and sir ~because we're just so polite down here y'all~. I know it's meant to be the opposite of irritating but it gets under my skin. Ma'am and sir are meant to be terms of politeness and respect and when they start getting applied to every single person, not only do they lose all meaning but they start getting used in downright rude ways, like strangers barking "MAYAM" at me to get my attention when I worked retail. And when parents make their kids do it– who the hell makes their own kid refer to them as "ma'am"? You can't even let your child be informal with you?

Also, when people see you sobbing or having a panic attack and immediately, intrusively demand to know what's wrong and get rude when you can't answer them coherently. Yeah let me just instantly stop freaking out and explain to you calmly and clearly why I'm so upset.

No. 345364

I hate the virtue signalers in the comments of TLC/Barcroft "freakshow" type vids that are always like "uwu if they aren't hurting anyone who cares?" Like, shut up and let everyone else have a nice time laughing at the weirdos.

No. 345365

Reeee I lost my 98 day streak on duolingo and I'm very annoyed for no logical reason

No. 345370

You can recover it by getting the premium trial.

t. recovered like 280 streak that way

No. 345399

I hate that the r/childfree community has gotten so inundated with parents that other subs have had to pop up. The other ones are so small and slow, so I still check the original CF. Always so annoyed to see posts and comments from parents/step parents. Yeah, okay, you’re an ally and you validate our choices. Cool, thanks. Go away lol.

No. 345408

I don’t understand, what is there to be an ally of or validate - you’re literally just not breeding. Why do these parents feel the need to insert themselves.

On another note though child free people that utterly despise children and can’t seem to understand that developmentally they’re not just tiny adults so you can’t expect them to act like one give me the shits. It comes off really petty when they whine on and on about something utterly mundane a child does.

No. 345422

Since we have to put up with this crap of calling men women and women men, they should have to pass if they're going to fucking throw a strop in a game stop. Bruh did not look like a ma'am. Trannys stop wearing fucking drag make up if you want to pass. Stop drawing in heavy exaggerated features that were used in drag to mock women. Pluck your heavy ass eyebrows if you don't want to look like a man. These are all minor steps. All women have had to go through awkward stages of make up. Fuck I hope this gender bender shit ends.

No. 345424

in my experience people who "hate children" actually hate the parents for either bringing the child into a non-child friendly situation or letting them act out. and i honestly feel the same way. usually the parents are at fault in some way, but the child at the time is doing the annoying behavior.

that said, i hate when parents bring their children to bars later at night. one time my husband and i were on a date at around 9:30 and this couple had brought their toddler with them, allowing him to run around behind the bar a few times until he hurt himself and cried. if you can't afford to pay a little extra for someone to watch him, don't go to a 40+ per person bar, go to applebees or somewhere.

No. 345437

>actually the parents
did you read the fucking posts on the reddit you talked about?

No. 345453

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Whenever I visit someone's house and see this I get so fucking triggered. I don't understand why women do this. You never see men making a collage space with pictures of their wife or girlfriend. In fact, men will demand a "man-cave" where they can take up more space and exclude all women from it.

No. 345469

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Like anons already mentioned, being goaded into drinking when you've already established that you don't drink is so fucking annoying.
It's reached the point where every single gathering with my friends I'm asked if I still don't drink, have them insist I try just a bit of theirs, and even have some put vodka and shit in my drinks while I wasn't looking.
Leave me alone holy shit

No. 345473

I think that sort of shit looks like a messy clusterfuck. What's even cute about something like that? It's like begging for validation, and I don't buy that women hang things like that in super visible spaces in their homes "for themselves." Might as well string up some flashing lights and beg people on the knees to acknowledge the relationship.

No. 345480

Really tired of people obsessing over sexuality and gender.
Be whatever you wanna be and stop worrying about labeling shit. Biology is FACT but you can dress and act however you fucking like. I really think a lot of people's dysphoria comes from not being able to accept themselves as a non-conforming male/female. Men are allowed to act feminine and women are allowed to act masculine. Stop mutilating yourselves and living in denial rather than just… being a bit less textbook.

Also all this sexual orientation shit. I don't get why people obsess over the gender of the person in front of them outside of making babies. You shouldn't be seeing humans as dating prospect vs not dating prospect. Life would be simpler if we didn't try to put ourselves in these stupid categories and treated situations as individual instances. Sexuality seems conditioned outside of breeding purposes imo. People are taught to be paranoid about the thought of being intimate with the same gender even though it's prevalent in animals and older civilizations.

No. 345487

I totally agree and I think it goes much deeper than just the whole gender/sexuality thing. I never understood the whole clique thing in school. I don't want to sound cliche but I always made it a point to not limit myself to one group…not because of some beliefs I had, but because I was awkward and I didn't know who I was. Obviously it doesn't apply when you're 30 as much but it still happens.

Humans have this instinctual behavior of labeling and categorizing things. It's like our brains are hardwired to do this. And it's great in certain instances but it's become insane. A lot of people probably wouldn't do it if it wasn't reinforced by TV and movies. How many high school movies have you seen where they reinforce the clique stereotypes?

Labels are limiting and pointless. I mean yeah it's okay if you want to call yourself something but then many fear admitting they do something unlike that group they identify with. This is the reason why people have made up all these fucking genders. Since humans have this instinct to label and group things, they think when someone acts outside the norm this also needs to be labelled and grouped as some totally different thing. It's a serious biological flaw of us being a tribal/hierarchical species.

It's okay to wear all black and listen to NSYNC. It's okay to be a man and wear makeup and dresses. The coolest thing a person can be is themselves.

I feel like this sound so cliche and pretentious lol. whatever

No. 345500

And it's ugly

No. 345501

It really shouldn't have to be said. Current year and all.

No. 345507

Yeah, our brains have this urge to categorize in order to create a sense of safety in artificially lessening the "unknown" factor. If there's a label, it's not scary and unfamiliar anymore.

However, it is possible to override that urge to an extent and I think it's entirely worthwhile to make an effort to do so. It saves you all the anxiety, confusion, and ignorance when reality doesn't turn out to be the way your little categories dictate.

I find sex posi, rampant LGBTQABCS+, body posi etc to be platitudes and just a half-assed way to get people to conform to these other categories instead of truly liberating them by not policing their behavior in any way outside of preventing harm to others.

No. 345527

For sure anon, and when you say about this stuff people see you as right wing even though you're the opposite etc.
Seeing all this fixation on gender labels right now being praised as "revolutionary" or whatever makes me feel so hopeless when I then think about the rise of genderbending in the 80s-90s. What was the point in those people withstanding hate to make such statements about adrogyny when the media is now acting like kids today are the first people to ever put a skirt on a boy and almost going backwards in building divisions between people. It seems every generation of youth has some kind of "everyone is valid" movement but it just resets with the next generation when they change all the perimeters of us vs them. Do people really want everyone to be free to live their lives freely or are they just trying to be the most different.
Today's gender obsession is turning me into a nihilist.

No. 345535

I wish I could openly speak up about this troon shit around people I know IRL but it endangers relationships bc most people I know are lefties (which I also am, but not far left). If I wrote about it online with my name attached I'd get blacklisted from my industry.

It's extremely fucked up to egg mentally ill people on about their gender delusions and I really don't want to tolerate the expectation to be a handmaiden to LARPing men invading female spaces.

A workaround I found is to avoid directly saying trans is wrong but to just talk about how strict gender roles cause people to develop identity issues and ruin their confidence which can lead to serious mental illness. I find most people agree with that, though they wouldn't be receptive to the idea that trans people are being lied to.

No. 345538

Oh man yeah this, I told my only feminist friend that I've spent a lot of time reading about gc feminism and she looked at me with such disgust that I had to backtrack and tell her it was just out of curiosity (I'm not a terf i swear). Otherwise she prob would have cut all contact with me. It's weird since she's lesbian and should by all logic agree with this stuff.

No. 345539

It shouldn't have to be said, I totally agree. But it seems to be getting so much worse and causing actual division in society outside of high/middle school.

The whole thing came from a genuine place of trying to help people I think. But the new LGBTSJDGIJA+++ community has ended up causing the exact damage they claim to be fighting against. It's so bizarre.

I'm a leftist too, and just the other day someone freaked out on me and called me alt-right for saying that "more trans women commit violent crime than have had violent crime committed against them". I was just trying to say that the propaganda about ~poor defenseless trans women~ is outrageous.

My favorite gender bending icons are Prince and Pete Burns. I love them so much and they truly were inspiring people who did whatever the fuck they wanted and openly talked about being androgynous. It's awesome. That's true gender stereotype smashing imho.

No. 345541

I hate when people make a huge deal about being called sir or ma'am. I'm from the Northwest and people don't really say "sir" and "ma'am" around here, but after being in the army it's an ingrained habit and I call anyone that I'm having a polite interaction with "sir" and "ma'am". The other day a cashier made a huge deal about it and was basically making fun of me for using it. Like goddamn just let me get on with my day, there are a lot worse things to be called than "ma'am".

No. 345547

It's incredible that people that identify as feminist can then support a return to strict gender conformity by enabling the trans idea of femininity as performance. That is the fucking opposite of what feminists should be in favor of.

Is intersectionality to blame?

No. 345555

Honestly it's not that crazy to me. This probably will sound batshit/tinfoil but hear me out. Women have obviously been seen for millennia as less-than but also carers. So the feminist movement was hijacked (probably subconsciously) by trans and other groups because women are so loving, caring, accepting! How could you, as a woman, not care about this poor suffering person!!!!

It's fucking sexist! Feminism is about WOMEN. That's it. It's not an organization that all oppressed/mistreated people in the world can jump onto. The American Cancer Society is about CANCER. Surely they care about people with schizophrenia but they would never tolerate schizophrenics hijacking it and demanding it be about all illness sufferers in the entire fucking world lol. Kind of a bad example but that's how this feels to me.

Lots of feminists care about all sorts of worldwide issues, but feminism specifically is for women. Get your own damn movement.

No. 345588

I don’t think this sounds nuts at all. I think feminism should just be about women, full stop, but so many of these TRAs think TiMs need to be centered in feminism. I don’t even live in the US and I’m still afraid to say anything like in feminist groups.

No. 345650


What's even funnier is when you don't fit stereotypes and people accuse you of being "fake" because they can't pigeon-hole you into the stereotype they want you to fill. Everything you do suddenly becomes offensive to them.

I spent a long time locked away from people because they made me feel ashamed to like certain things or wear certain clothes. I got so depressed and started looking everywhere for acceptance and wondering if I was this thing or that. Those were some very dark years in my life. I've finally accepted myself and do whatever the fuck I want. I really wish all these kids getting bullied into becoming "trans" had good resources and/or stronger people in their lives to encourage them to accept themselves and stop them from mutilating their bodies to fit stereotypes.

No. 345658

i said in my experience i'm not >>345399

No. 345673

i was gonna put this in vent but i’m not mad so it’ll go here instead

i had the most awkward encounter with the pharmacist at the drugstore a couple days ago buying rubbing alcohol and i’m still dead inside over it, lol why don’t i just shut up instead of overcompensating for weird purchases by talking too much?? i just needed it to clean my straightener and curling iron and shit like that but i’m pretty sure they thought i had weird intentions bc anxiousness made me act like a fucking autist hah

No. 345682

anon did you see how huge that guy was? he'll always be a man no matter how much he plucks his eyebrows, just like all trannies

No. 345687

I wish people would just shut up about birdbox, airpods and moaning in their gfs ear. I've seen these words more than "Merry Christmas" ffs.

No. 345694

My sister in law really irritates me with how she is raising her son (my nephew). He is three and she literally never feeds him fresh fruit or vegetables. Every time I or any other family member sees her she is buying takeout/fast food and giving him donuts/cookies/icecream/etc. even when he doesn't really want it and will only eat a small portion of it. She never cooks and she never goes to the effort of buying something simple like a banana or an apple for him to eat. He is also developing some serious behavioural issues, he pisses his pants and throws screaming fits when she leaves him with someone else for an hour or more, he is constantly loud and noisy and touching people's things/picking things up he shouldn't and she says nothing. He bites people's faces and tugs on your hair. She lets him grab your drink or glass at a restaurant and drink from it - if you protest she will get mad that you won't 'share' with her son. She also goes days without bathing him so he will be covered in dirt, food and filth and get his sticky hands all over everything.

I actually like kids and am pregnant myself but I have grown to resent my nephew even though I know it's not his fault that he's like this. What I don't understand is why his mother feeds him the diet she does when she was morbidly obese herself growing up and had a very hard time because of it. She lost something like 70kg/150lbs about a decade ago but has been slowly gaining all of it back since she got pregnant with her son. How can you go through all that and then think raising your son on trash is setting himself up for success in life?

No. 345706

Sisters in law are always the dumbest bitches one has to put up with. I feel for you and the poor kid…

No. 346002

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I am playing through Steins Gate and the worst thing I have ever encountered is Faris. Faris is the annoying thing, I hate every thing about her with every fiber of my being! I hate the extremely annoying nasally voice, her design and most of all her personality!

I hope she dies tbh

No. 346086

Shit like that irritates me, my boyfriend feels the same about his own sister. She neglects her daughter to go hang out with her friends or talk on the phone with her boyfriend, like hello your child needs you!
My boyfriend's sister used to live with us for a couple months and it was a nightmare. She would make only healthy food for herself and give her daughter cookies and ramen. And she doesn't have custody of the daughter, it's her boyfriend's mom's child now, so her dad is legally her brother.
I honestly feel so bad for the daughter I sometimes just want to take custody of her, I don't think the boyfriend's mom takes good care of the daughter either. She's talked about wasting money after using the bathroom. My boyfriend, me, and his mom were all concerned when we heard her say that, she was 5 at the time, too.

No. 346672

The newfag who keeps posting pepe/wojack needs to fuck back to 4chan. Surprised they haven't been slapped for avatarfagging yet, seen em cause infighting too.

No. 346674

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we've always used them here

No. 346677

no "we" haven't and you're doing it so often it's very much noticeable, dial it down please

No. 346678

i'm not even that poster, silly

No. 346679

but you are, silly

No. 348366

I hate when something gets deleted off youtube and I have to watch a backup on dailymotion. That barely functioning mess of a site peaked in 2007 and needs to be put out of its misery.

No. 348500

I hate the school play arcs in SOL/shoujo mangas and will skip them with no exceptions. They always take several chapters away from actual plot, are fakedeep and dull to read.

No. 348507

This is a common trope? In which manga/anime did it happen?
I'm really curious cause I don't remember stumbling upon it, maybe cause I don't read much of shoujo manga.

No. 348598

It's not always a school play, but the Cultural Festival arcs are usually kinda boring, yeah.

No. 348913

im just annoyed lc is deteriorating and mods send bans simply for posting a complaint, in the complaint thread in meta with shit like "ree apply for mod position then!!"
I guess this is their board culture now, t'was fun before the pullfags and crystal cafe tier mods.

No. 350356

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I have been feeling lonely and met some people from my city via net, only to be annoyed with most of them.
First one gets too clingy to people - has been sending me screens from twitter, sends them nudes after first meeting, says how the said guy is perfect and then is sad/angry whenever they don't reply or delete tinder.
When one guy she liked told her she shouldn't get clingy this fast, I did say he's right and then she's got mad. Also this kind of people overall, who start calling you friend/bestie even if you barely know each other ffs.

Second person keep sending me walls of text about them playing games/stuff they're doing atm even if they know I've got last month of semester and many projects to finish. I have very hard time to focus on things and at this point hearing messages on messenger.
I know it's not a big deal, yet telling someone I gotta go/telling goodnights because I need to wake up early and right after hearing constant notifications from app makes me want to delete fb.

I feel so drained, if I cut them out at least for a bit I will probably get called a bitch and how they believed we're friends and so.

No. 350397

I'm worried too, the gender arguments and r9k raiders overrun every thread on the board lately, only breaking for tween girls to incessantly nitpick their peer thots.

It's really not an easy board to mod though, if there was a long period of one admin then the mods would have a template to follow but as it is they're just kind of yelled at for the previous groups decisions, and then yelled at if they change it

No. 350402

i got a ban once for telling someone to please stop derailing, and the "ban reason" was listed as "PURE AUTISM"

No. 350409

To be fair, all those posts of anons yelling to stop derailing actually do derail further (sometimes you get someone saying to "stop derailing" when the discussion has long ended), and are considered minimodding so in your instance the ban was fair.

No. 350475

The best thing to do is ignore derailers tbh. If no one is engaging their autism they get bored and fuck off.

No. 354585

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Head patting is a shitty fucking meme, or whatever it is. Every time someone mentions it or posts pics of anime girls getting head pats, all I can think of is greasy lolicons, tryhard weeb thots and troons. It just reeks of infantilization. It doesn't even feel nice, it's just annoying and messes up/flattens your hair (my autistic weeb ex tried to do it to me sometimes, I just got irritated. I spent time washing my hair and trying to give it volume, only for you to smush it back down and get your hand oils all over it? Just because you want me to react by squealing and blushing like some cartoon chick? Fuck off with that bs)

If the meme was about scalp massages or something, I would get it. Those at least feel nice. But I guess it isn't uguu kawaii enough if it doesn't involve petting women like they're pets or children.

No. 354586

my husband headpats me to sleep and it feels so nice. neither of us are weebs either. but if you mean like randomly being patted in public or by people you don't know like that then yeah it's annoying.

No. 354588

my fiance and i pet eachother and give eachother head pats because neither of us are insecure twats. there's a difference between doing something as cute lovey behavior and as a condescending action.

No. 354597

umm sorry i don't want to watch something that makes me uncomfortable??

No. 354599

i know i'm 2 months late but wow, what an asshole. i hope you find the man of your dreams, anon. show her who's boss.

No. 354607

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i am sick of fucking junkies and bogans clogging up public transport and downtown. every time i take the train there's some useless crackhead punching the walls and yelling at jetplane volume about how he wants to kill all italians or something. downtown is shit too, a group of bogans taking up the whole path complaining about how those "centrelink cocksuckers" arent giving them enough money to fuel their unrelenting alcoholism, while young children passing through can very clearly overhear them.
i get some people end up in these situations because of unfortunate circumstances and there's not much they can do about it, but shit dude, if you're gonna do something that will end up with you disturbing others could you like, keep it at home?

No. 354616

Same. I moved to another part of the city last year with less public transport and the few buses that are close to where I live have the most disgusting people I ever met. Not just drug addicts and homeless people but even regular people are way more disguting than usual. There are a bunch of gypsies too but I heard they have been relocated recently.

No. 354686

This is my older (half) sister to a T. Are we related anon? She visited for Christmas and would refuse all the healthy snacks I had prepared because her son "wouldn't like it" but wouldn't even offer any of it to him. Instead she'd run to the corner store to get him cheetos as a meal. We went out to a restaurant and she ordered him a piece of corn bread that he had a fantastic time crumbling up with his hands and throwing the crumbs everywhere. When the waitress came with a broom to clean the mess out of the aisle and from other tables, my sister snarks at her "I was going to clean it up." She wasn't. Her husband was absolutely mortified but said nothing because he'd never hear the end of "you're just trying to control me, you misogynist" from my sister if he did. My house was an absolute disaster after she and her little Taz left and he gave us all the flu.

On the other hand, she told all of us not to get her other son (10, from a former marriage who lives with his dad) any presents because she's mad at him. She also re-gifted her current husband's daughter's presents because the girl won't call her "mommy". I got presents for both of these kids and mailed them to their respective parents because my sister's stupid vendetta shouldn't ruin their Christmas. She is trash.

No. 354797

Same. I will never have respect for grown adults that became addicts and take up public spaces and bother normal people with it. For some reason they seem like they feel entitled to not obeying any social rules.
I live in a big european city and every third person you pass is a junkie.

No. 355836

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I don't really ever want to have my own children - I don't feel like I would be a good mother and all the pregnancy stuff terrifies me tbh.
When we had such topic during break, I heard one of these "Don't worry, once you reach your 30s you will want to have them".
Didn't want them 10 years ago, don't want them now and I see no reason to want them in the future, especially in the current situation + poor mental health in my family.

No. 355857

You and me both. I am currently crocheting a baby blanket for my brother who is having a baby soon and I have been working on it during lunch break at work. The amount of people who have swooned and asked if it's for my baby (nope) and say 'Oh, well you have all this to come! Just you wait!' when I tell them I'm not making it for me. I'm 28, barely scraping by money wise and I will be over the moon to be an aunt. Mum material I am not. Don't sweat it, Anon. Focus on you. If it ain't right it ain't right.

No. 355871


I agree with you. I'm nearing 30 and all my peers have kids. I can't stand their kids. I can't imagine being pregnant. I can't and also don't want to take care of a child…I can barely tolerate bad behavior from my pets before I feel overwhelmed.
I don't want my whole life to change.
It's okay to not want kids.

No. 355905

i'm the exact same right down to the pets thing. sometimes even they feel like too much of a commitment (though i love them and would never give them up).

i want a hysterectomy so bad because im tired of dealing with the anxiety and side effects of birth control but insurance won't cover elective sterilization.

No. 355973

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Why do men feel the need to pull me aside and comment on my appearance? Or mid-conversation, one of my male friends who's been squinting for a while finally blurts out something to the line of, "Why don't you ever wear makeup?" On those off-days I do decide to wear it, "You look sick," or "Why are you wearing makeup? It looks silly on you." Those are the nice ways of putting it. When I was muscular, I was told I looked manly and "If I wanted a man, I'd date one." When I was heavy, "I could lose a few pounds." Now that I'm a healthy BMI, but rather skinny, "You need to eat a burger."

No matter what a woman does, it's never good enough. I'm fucking tired of it. My personality is "too butch," but when I show my vulnerable side, I'm told I need to "grow a thicker skin" and need to be "confident in myself." I am confident in my abilities, I make a decent team leader, but then I'm told I'm "bossy" and "a bitch." One of these guys who told me I needed to be more confident (because he doesn't like it when women put him on a pedestal), was also the same motherfucker that told me he wants me to be jealous and chase after him while he flirts with other women. There's tons of little behaviors and hypocrisies like this that just piss me off about men.

Women always have to walk out of the house like fucking models, or risk berating, but men can go out looking like gorillas in mustard stained shirts (and still feel entitled that women meet their specifications).

This isn't build-a-bitch workshop. I'm a goddamned person, not a sex doll with swappable parts. You don't get to pick what hair color I have, the amount of body hair I was born with, the size of my breasts/hips, etc. Stop fucking commenting on what you wish I had and how it would "make me better." Especially on things I, and other women do not control. My life does not revolve around changing myself to live as this caricature in your fantasies. Love is accepting someone as they are. When I'm attracted to someone; I'm infatuated by all of their features, even the not-so-glamorous ones. It's hard to believe that men are practically incapable of this. He has to want to slather himself all over a woman sexually, before he'll even consider getting to know her.

I'm so fucking glad I'm asexual. I feel for straight women. I can't count the number of abuse stories I've heard from the relationship thread here on lolcow, reddit, coworkers, students, friends, even my mother and relative's marriages. Why are scrots so entitled and atrocious?

No. 355980

agreed anon, the best thing to do is just stop caring, if nothing is ever right then there's no use trying to please them, you know?

No. 355986

Yeah I've heard the line "when people around you start having kids you'll want them then too" and now being older and seeing my peers have them, it's just makes me feel all the more grateful and determined to never have kids.
My parents were bothering me about it for a while until their other grandkids from my siblings started treating them like ATM machines and as free baby sitters that they now thank me for not having them.

No. 356088

To the anons on this thread feeling pressured, don't worry. Don't feel pressured to have or want kids. Not judging if you don't want any.

I do want kids, my SO doesn't. I'm in my early twenties myself and I'm here supporting you if you do/don't want children.

Both of our up brings have been iffy, I'm in no rush. If any anons have my experience and any coping strategies, feel free to reply.
I think it does get annoying if either side gets annoying saying you should do x not y, vise versa.

You're supported. It's enviably your decisions on your life choices.

I don't care for either genders comments about me unless it's constructive criticism that'll be beneficial for my life, tbh both genders can be asswholes. Everyone has an opinion.

Sage for mini rant.

No. 356187

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My high school best friend is deciding to put herself in large debt for 30 years paying off a home loan for a house she really has no use for in the bumfuck nowhere country area we grew up in, with a shitty server job in a town with no prospects.

I would understand even a little if she was planning for kids or had a major career or even was just a little older, but we are both only 20 years old, and she's convinced herself she doesn't care that she will never experience anything different from what her life has been so far.

But its like she knows its not a smart idea (house prices in my country are dropping after a ENORMOUS inflation, but they're not that much different right now) because whenever its brought up, she brings up dumb excuses, tries to guilt me with her family shit i was literally around for, or changes the subject clumsily. I feel like we're growing apart majorly cause shes just not interested in anything but an asspatting echo chamber.

Every single person who isnt her extremely judgemental/closeminded family thinks its a horrible idea, but she just fucking blindfolds herself. Ever since she started doing this, she has been extremely weird at gatherings and managed to offend almost everyone there individually. Ugh.

No. 356189

Damb, I guess I lucked out with my male friends. I've never had any of them comment on my looks negatively.
Sorry you've had this experience, anon.

No. 356346

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>implies it's from a Japanese brand and not a cheap Ebay knock off

For fucks sake is this bitch blind?

No. 356367

Depop is so fucking cringe. I hate people who try to look model tier, just post the top and fuck off.

I can see someone who doesn't know JFashion and wear and pass it off as dirty cool IG girl

No. 356377

For me it's about finding financial and familial stability before I have children. Until then or if it happens at all, I never want them. Because without those basic things it's not good enough, and I couldn't live with myself if I knew I put a child through the hell I went through and am still going through because my parents are selfish people who made fucked choices.

I'm in my late 20s, which is fine because quite frankly I don't want kids until my 30s. But as I grow older I get more angst after I realize my debts, and the fact that most single men in my age group have so much shitty baggage that it makes them absolutely unsuitable partners, and no less fathers.
It's bad and I'm losing a lot of trust in people, and with the world being how it is, sometimes I think it's for the better.

No. 356385

I don’t want kids, either. I thought I did, back when I thought I kind of had to. It’s just something people do, you know? As I got older (I’m 27) I realized that not only do I not have to have kids, but I REALLY don’t want to. The thought of being pregnant any time soon makes me panic and feel nauseous. The thought of having to care for a small human who’s spewing out both ends constantly is just horrifying.

Thankfully, my good friends are all still childless. Most of my coworkers are, too, and a couple are even childfree like me. I did get super fucking annoyed when my 38-year-old female childfree coworker told me I “might change my mind” someday. I was like, I finally have a kindred spirit here and she spouts the same bingos as everybody else. Cool.

No. 356401

Same, my family has a long record of mental health problems, it would be very risky for me to have kids. I like to talk with kids they don't usually bother me, but having my own would be a nightmare, interacting with random kids isn't the same to be with one or more 24/7 until they grow up, srry but nope.

No. 356415

I have high functioning autism so I can sort of relate to feeling like not being good mom material. I have no close friends and have a hard time maintaining relationships in general without naturally drifting off and isolating myself so the responsibility of having to be around a kid 24/7 that I may lose my temper around scares me. I'm also a believer that some people should just never have kids if they have major risk factors of passing down toxic behavior to their offspring.

No. 356430

> I'm also a believer that some people should just never have kids if they have major risk factors of passing down toxic behavior to their offspring.

Well my grandpa was a psychopath and my grandma was bipolar with tourettes, depression and high anxiety, my mom it's like a horrible mixture of all those illnesses, yet she still had me even when she knew i could inherit them. People really need to think twice before having a child.

No. 356434

>my 38-year-old female childfree coworker told me I “might change my mind” someday. I was like, I finally have a kindred spirit here and she spouts the same bingos as everybody else

She was just saying it because it's true. Just like you changed your mind on wanting kids, you can change your mind about not wanting them too at some point. People have ever evolving preferences, it's okay.

No. 356442


I will never have kids because I feel similar to >>355871

What really annoys be is the fact that people tell me that I will have kids when I find a perfect partner and of course merry him so we can have a fam together because that's apparently the ultimate goal to archive in your life. The thing about this is that it ALWAYS comes from people who you can really tell only got children because they thought you HAVE to make a family and all that stuff. I'm not interested in forcing myself in a situation because I feel that people expect me to do it this way than just do my own thing? I see left and right marriages with miserable people because it isn't the big happiness as expected. Specially not with the annoying children they have now.

No. 356443

I see what you mean, but looking back, I don’t think I actually ever really WANTED kids. It wasn’t an actual want but more like a compulsion I felt I was being forced into because society really pushes the “life script” on you and treats you like you’re crazy for not wanting to get married or have children.

I understand that you’re being kind but I’m definitely set on this. I’m looking into tubal ligation as soon as I can get it. I have so many things going on in my life (and admittedly, so many issues) that I know I don’t want to be a parent. And I certainly don’t want to lose grey matter in my brain kek.

Plus, I don’t even like kids. I can’t stand to be around them for more than a few minutes at a time.

No. 356445

>If any anons have my experience and any coping strategies, feel free to reply.
My best coping strategies are reading horror stories about abusive/lazy husbands on the breakingmom subreddit, and going to the local shops - I live in a low socioeconomic area so it's full of dead eyed, frumpy fat women in sweats dragging their kids around. Nothing reinforces my aversion to parenthood more.

Personally the pressure I feel comes more from myself. I'm chronically single so I think people assume I won't have kids and don't bring it up with me. But every so often I get the fear of missing out when I see a cute baby or hear cute stories, even though it's just an impulse, the same I get when I see cute animals at the pet store. I know it won't suit my lifestyle or personality to have a child and I know I do NOT want to get married (or be a single mother), so I have to remind myself why I feel that way.

No. 356546

Thanks for replying back, it helps.

I love my boyfriend, not much to say bad. I'm appreciative to have the support and love from him (yay teamwork).

I do feel the itch, not so much wanting the baby now. But I guess he's the best option as a family man/father in my mind, I'm pretty traditional. Though, I want financial stability and to be able to manage both, have my kids not have a fucked up life I/he had. Maybe it's just me, I like traditional values with some progressive thinking. I want my future kids to be strong and healthy, with a loving support system behind them. Now I'm trying to get my background and framework to accomplish that (my finances etc in check first, esp. my education).

Thanks for creating the dialogue fellow anons!

No. 356699

honestly who tf even comes over to hang out at peoples houses anymore. im pretty sure they just put it there for themselves. its begging for validation when people constantly have to post their relationship pics on fb/ig. or whoever took the pic of the collage and posts it online for validation. I find it fucking annoying when people on fb or whatever have to hashtag their photos of them and their bf like #interracialcouple or #couplegoals TEEHEE! praise me for being such a snowflake!!!111 not like da other gurlz!!!

No. 356706

>honestly who tf even comes over to hang out at peoples houses anymore.

anon this says more about you than that obnoxious wall mural says about the woman who decorated it.

No. 356713

My biggest annoyance is people who go bonkers over the fact someone wants to decorate their home. W o W.

No. 356723

idk fam, i'm a total homebody loser with no friends outside of my SO and no social media to attention whore on and i love decorating spaces just for myself. being in my clean, aesthetically pleasing office makes me so happy even though no one ever sees it.

No. 356755

Does it not occur to these anons that it takes a lot of time and effort to plan and decorate a space? Who the hell would do it for ‘validation’, like mate, this may shock you but these women probably just like fucking look at it - why do people always assume ulterior motives over even the most benign shit

No. 356767

Nobody has ever been happily married ever according to lolcow. Nobody ever dressed or decorated for themselves. It’s all for men because handmaidens or attention seeking. Women are a hive mind and only some brave few anons can see past the matrix and call out the rest of us for enjoying things and having fun like a bunch of plebs.

No. 356807

Why is it always about invidual women being happy?
Seriously that is the only fucking defense I hear. Obviously some people enjoy their lives, who the fuck has ever denied that? It is a complete strawman to say that farmers on here are saying that no one has ever been happy or enjoyed their lives around or with men.

I don't know why your peanut brain can't comprehend things on a larger level other than your personal surroundings and happiness. I'm not saying you have to devote your life to every single poor suffering woman and child in the world, but get a fucking clue about the current affairs of women outside your life.
When we talk about the suffering of women we are talking about the VAST majority of women in the world and the past. We're not talking about a hyper-specific group in a infinitely narrow time period (ie. a small percentage of educated women shitposting on a Icelandic skate sharpening bbs in 2019).
Stop dismissing women's experiences.

No. 357769

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This guy is considering pricing his comic page commissions at 70€.

I mean, it's a free market, if idiots want to pay that much then it's their thing, but these prices baffle me. Yeah, I'm from a poorfag country and I also draw so that's why people like that annoy me, but comparatively I could buy a high quality artbook for that price.

No. 357775

Idk, pricing is really tricky. He’s probably charging based on an hourly rate, which rarely works unless your skill level is high. It’s not really fair because you can be the shittiest store worker and still get decently paid, but you don’t make comics if you want to get rich…

No. 357786

lmfao what are you even talking about???

No. 368458

The way the word "game" is added after to every word. Bonus points if it uses the "hot" slang of today ie. "UP YOUR EYEBROW GAME WITH SOME SHIT YOU DON'T NEED!"

Word bank for fun:
Makeup game.
Wardrobe game.
Nail game.
Stationary game.
Pencil game.
Tinder game.
Skincare game.

I have no idea why it annoys me, but it does. It could be that "game" isn't correctly used, since game really means "a form of play or sport, especially a competitive one played according to rules and decided by skill, strength, or luck.
". Are we competing against anyone really? Goddammit.

No. 368466

Fuck teenagers. They get dumber every decade.

No. 368471

That aint it chief. To get mad guwop, you have to have a fire study game. ill hop on my razor scooter and we'll study together dw ill be there in a hot minute oh n im bringing some monster. we can listen to chief keef BANGERS on my speaker

No. 368510

Eh, you just get older every decade and notice more of their imbecilic qualities

No. 368515

you were once a teenager too. Hating on the younger generation has been a thing since Socrates. Gen Z is probably nor worse nor better than yours.

Also slang is a thing. I dislike "game" as well but it not "being used properly" is a dumb argument because a good part of slang works in that way. That's how language evolves, any linguist will agree.

No. 368516


Those ankle biters have sure gone ape with their lingo daddy-o, don't they know how square it sounds?

No. 368520

Whats so kek about that post? I hope youre not trying to imply that "dumber" is incorrect. You sound well upset.

No. 368523

Here comes gen z. Retarded and illiterate as usual.

No. 368534

You do realise the vast majority of this user base is gen z, right? Are all the millennials upset that they’re no longer the center of attention apart from the baby boomers thinking they’re lazy/entitled/retarded

No. 368544

The joke is that they were calling the current youth slang dumb, but dumber would not have been acceptable for the generations before it. I must be a granny because it wasn't proper English when I was in school.

Suddenly I'm reminded of that one anon who vented that the most annoying thing was anons responding to normal posts telling them to chill out, I can't possibly imagine why

No. 368549

I'd actually be curious to see what the user base breaks down into seeing as we have plenty of anons in their 30s.

No. 368555

>vast majority

I doubt it, considering this board is most attractive to /cgl/ oldfags.

No. 368565

lolcow seems to have relatively few avenues by which it can be found (and replenish its population numbers). A lot of the feeder sites probably are full of oldfags. Some of my younger cousins pretty much live on twitter, tumblr and discord, I don't know how they would make their way to this site from those starting points. Some of them do use it (because I introduced them to it). Wouldn't mind a few extra newfags tbh, wish lolcow was more active.

No. 368572

>majority of the userbase is under 21
Definitely not.

No. 368573

Gen z is 1995 to 2012

No. 368578

So under 24? Still no. I'm willing to bet most anons are in their mid twenties.

No. 368583

I always thought most of us were millennials. Though there's always an influx of summerfags who stick around and hide their age.

No. 368611

I'm 28, and I was a regular on efagz, /cgl/ drama threads, maxfag and sr.
Has there ever been a demographic survey of the sites userbase? That would be pretty interesting.


I was never involved in cosplay or lolita either, but I liked looking at it. I was mostly there for the drama threads. The queen was at her peak. Dakota related salt was at it's saltiest. Yukapon something something pee. A simpler time.

No. 368703

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Tik Tok was a fucking mistake

No. 368737

Are you kidding? It's obvious most anons are gen Z. Most imageboard users in general are gen Z now. Imageboards are immature as fuck, even this one.

No. 368766

I'm 28 and have a degree in linguistics.

No. 368787

TikTok is doing God’s work by weeding out people with low attention span.

No. 368799

Strong handshakes and handshakes in general

What are you trying to prove? Am i supposed to be impressed that you nearly broke my palm? Fucking freaks

No. 368814

Immature? Yes. Mostly below 21s? No. People who frequent here seem to be 24-29 and either mentally ill or just stunted. Mature "normies" do not spend nearly the amount of time on the internet likely required to find a place like this.

No. 368835

Ive got a lot of Texas based annoyances that have been bugging me since moving here, but we recently settled into a small conservative town. Just gonna list some stuff here:

>men in giant trucks coalrollling hybrids and pedestrians to be edgy

Its happened to me several times in the past year just walking down the grocery store

>The blue/all lives matter thing.

Theyre on the bumper over every other oversized pickup truck and i see at least one little blue striped flag in someones yard in nearly every neighborhood ive driven through. Its obviously just reactionary and the movement make no sense cause it doesnt challenge any exsisting institution.

>Christians that think, despite being THE major religion in america and having actual government benefits/support, are somehow are being oppressed and attacked for their beliefs

just because people are tired of them hijacking two whole months laden with holidays from other major religions for their one day of celebration. They act like theyre gonna have one of their tax-free mega churches burned down any day now because a few people on the internet are kinda gay

>the absolute obsession with guns. Also on every bumper, fence and yard

>oversized pick ups
whats the point if you dont need it for anything? Its obvious most people that own them (and there are a lot of these trucks around here) dont use them for anything. They just sit in the driveway, sterling and empty, save for the polished little box thing in the back. My gfs grandpa has one and he works an office job. Theyre just expensive, big and impractical

>the community college

>chick-fil-a drive thru lines literally disrupting traffic at the intersection before my neighborhood, making sundays a day to look forward to
>bumpersniffing at 70mph on the freeway
>pink camo

No. 368862

Wow what a waste of money. And you're not even good at it

No. 368870

It's to assert dominance, showing they are holding no weapon but could overpower you still.

No. 368978

college is free in my country and it's not my only degree so the joke's really on people like you who either go in debt to get a degree either completely devalue education unless it will get them a job.

No. 369037

who the fuck cares about generations, putting too much weight on stuff like that is so annoying. someone born in 1994 in india will have a totally different experience than someone born in 1994 in the us. american media are the only ones who constantly throw those terms around because americans are autistic enough to fall for it.

No. 369763

Good point anon, reminds me that the most important gripe of all is how american posters dominate imageboards in such a way that they just push their american politics and culture on everyone

No. 369849

I'm 31 now and this really gets to me that people keep asking when I'm going to settle down and have children. It's not that I don't want to have children it's that I suffer from an hereditary illness and I don't want my own children to have to suffer in their lives like I do. I love my unborn children enough to not do that.

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Mildly annoying: that classmate in one of my college courses who keeps saying “mane-guh” instead of “mahn-ga.”

No. 370885

You should print that out on a business card, take it out and silently show it to anyone who asks, would be enjoyable to see their gormless expression every time

No. 370886

>when you yourself are typing on this very website


No. 370920

I know “mahn-ga” is the correct pronunciation but I’ve always pronounced it as “mang-ah”. I’ve never heard “mane-guh” though.

No. 370921

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People who are always shoving their phone cameras in other people's faces, either to document every single little thing in their instagrams or just for fun - especially if they do it with the malicious purpose of making fun of them, by trying to find the most unflattering angles/moments to capture (see Moomoo). It's weird and petty.

No. 371096

What does that have to do with her post? Are you ESL?

No. 371186

I'll take a bonecrushing handshake over a limp fish, tbh.

No. 371218

limp fish palm touch will piss me off faster than someone grasping a bit too hard. i hate touching random people because of germs and shit in the first place but you better just shake my arm up and down out of courtesy as opposed to acting like theyre totally uninterested in us meeting up

No. 371220

Same. I actually like the feeling of crushing another persons hand and if they crush mine back, it's all good. That's a real handshake.

No. 371345

I never learnt how even if that sounds stupid, I thought it only happened in high business deals and American tv. When people shake my hand I just let them move mine and wait until they release it, I don't know what they think of me when it happens or what their painful squeezes are meant to mean.
Maybe this is what autism feels like

No. 371369

I usually save the strong handshakes for men. It absolutely is a way to assert yourself and usually I get bonecrushers from men rather than women, so it keeps me on their level.

No. 371465

Browsing Kiwifarms is so infuriating when people keep clogging up the threads with useless stuff. "I used to be a fan of X but now I'm not" "I first encountered X when…" holy shit shut up. The worst is this one thread I'm following where new members keep popping in posting stuff like "Just joined, I'm an ex-fan of X". Why does Kiwis think people care about this stuff

No. 371469

they use the board to socialise and jerk each other off in their commentary and with ratings. They haven't found out you can detach your commentary from your person and socialise elsewhere in the community

No. 371470

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handshake anons are cute. can I shake y'all's hands?

No. 371687

if our handshake ends up the attached gif then yes. crush my bones senpai

No. 371691

I'm not into bonecrushers, but I like a firm handshake. Whenever a man gives me a limpfish I just think he's a degenerate or incel or something. Like it just gives me a gross vibe.

No. 371732

Lol ikr. I shook a grown ass mans hand once when I was 12 and he gave me the limpest noodle arm ever, it gave me beta vibes. Meanwhile I cracked his god damn hand like a melon.

No. 371743

This discussion is making me realize that I’m really into firm handshakes, help

No. 371753

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I'm fucking wheezing at the mental image that last sentence gave me

No. 371755

I had to show him who the alpha female is.

No. 371769

Lmao I've never seen that macro before. Nice.

No. 371782

good. embrace it. i like a lady who presents herself so strongly

No. 371880

I always wondered why people left a star out from places/products they review, ie. 4/5, without explaining WHY they took it off, even more so if they wrote a glowing review on it. I don't understand. I would like to know why you took off a star!

No. 371943


Sometimes I take off a star because a place is good, but it's not my "dream" location or item (dunno if such a thing exists, honestly I'm just picky). 4 stars is still very good.

No. 372266

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People who post on lolcow doing shit like this on other sites when they should know better

No. 372381

i hate it when farmers broadcast LC everywhere. I don't mind newfags if they find the board organically, it's not that "underground", if you're googling a cow, chances are you're stumble upon it. But when farmers are legit like "hey go check out lolcow.farm" i loose it

No. 372791

This type of shit is why we can't have nice things.

Unrelated but while I'm here I may as well say: I'm sick of anons being fucking bitches to other anons for no reason. It's obnoxious and unnecessary. When discussing cow behavior, of course; that's why we're here. But these salty bitches being rude for no reason are getting old. Ah well, variety is the spice of life I guess.

No. 373423

Went to some small meet up type thing last night. Met a couple of pretty cool people, so we exchanged Facebooks and I figured I’d reach out again eventually to hang out with them again. Two of them have already messaged me (one multiple times) and it’s only 9am the next day. I don’t know why this bothers me so much, but I just think it’s so weird to jump right in to morning messages when you just met someone.

No. 373438


This would bother me greatly. What sort of meetup was it, anon?

No. 373661

It’s for a small community service based group. The founder is an acquaintance so I thought I’d check it out. Everyone was nice, but I was just a little weirded out by the messages.

No. 375348

S l o w w a l k e r s. Bonus points if:

1. they're on their phone
2. in a group where they block the whole path
3. they ignore your "excuse me" and just keep going at a glacial pace

I _will_ step on your shoes and shove you if you're in my way and I've tried being polite.

No. 375354

Are you much younger/hotter than everyone else there?
Just reply in like 6 days so they get the message. You made a good impression at least

No. 375362

You forget the ones who smoke right in front of you. When it happens I just straight up yell "EXCUSE ME" several times, cough right in front of their face and walk away to my destination. I wish they would keep their lung cancer and horrible smell for themselves.

No. 375363

triple point bonus for an oblivious slow walking couple holding hands or people slow walking on the wrong side of the street

No. 375372

for me, they dont even have to be walking slowly. any straight couple expressing pda infuriates me, especially indoors. do you really need your hand on her waist while deciding which ricotta to buy? is this trashy movie theater lobby so romantic that you just have to kiss? disgusting.

gays get a pass out of solidarity and cause it's way less common

No. 375374

I used to smoke and vape now but fuck these people.
You take it away from doors and anyone who isn’t also smoking. Idc that people wanna smoke but fuck the majority of them for not taking steps to not smoke next to some strangers baby in a pram.

Slow walkers deserve capital punishment unless they’re like, old or disabled. Tbh I’ve seen people with cerebral palsy overtake people in Melbourne, so there’s no reason for healthy people to be taking one step per second.

No. 375375

How is having a hand on her waist excessive affection? Sure it’s gross to grope or makwout publicly but a casual hand on her waist or holding hands? So fucking bitter anon.

No. 375377

It's okay anon someday someone will keep their hands around your waist while they decide which ricotta to buy.

>gays get a pass

Maybe when you transition into a beautiful soft boi uwu you'll find a bf

No. 375389

Lmao no else agrees with you but I do, it's so nasty I honestly don't want to see that shit, especially annoys me when the couple are ugly

No. 375395

i thought about saying "gays and lesbians" but it felt redundant, and lmao at you thinking im some uwu fujo femcel

No. 375404

Why are you so bitter about couples existing and being slightly affectionate in your vicinity? Your first post honestly sounds like you take it as a personal affront.

No. 375418

Damn I'm the original anon and I'm sorry you feel this way (I only hate couples who are unaware/slow/blocking the way) but small displays of affection like that is fine. As long as they're not sloppily making out…

No. 375420

i'm a bit stoned so i'm open to have a bit of introspection, why not?

even when i've been in loving relationships i've detested pda. i'm a very anxious person and i become especially on edge in public spaces and want to become invisible as much as possible. so maybe it's that pda makes me anxious and i'm jealous of those who don't care?

but even thinking about someone's "hand on my waist" makes my skin crawl, regardless of if people are around to see it. so maybe it's not anxiety but that i've just got issues with physical affection.

idk girl i just fucking hate pda

No. 375429

>anyone who isn't like me is disgusting but people who are exactly like me get a pass for the same disgusting shit!
Narcissism? And how is holding a woman's waist a problem? You just sound upset about people being from different walks of life more than having a problem with pda.

No. 375432

Maybe you should fix your massive issue with projection instead of thinking people are assholes for being happy in a way you don’t like.

No. 375438

honestly, that's fair. i'll work on it

No. 375445

the infighting on the vent thread is so annoying (yes, I reported). Surely, the world is gonna end if you don't jump down this random mother's throat telling her her vented feelings are basically ruining her daughter's life when 1. everyone is entitled to their feelings and venting them and working through them (hey, being in touch with your feelings is actually healthy) and feeling =/= acting in a harmful way 2. you're making assumptions about a person you don't know 3. It's really not your place to save some random anon's daughter on the vent thread of all places.
The derailing on this thread is always supremely autistic.
So many anons just randomly attack others completely unwarrantedly
Like, just think for a second before you type: do I know this person? Am I blowing things out of proportion? Is this my responsibility?

No. 375450

I agree on that. It's like they forget it's a vent thread. Same goes for the unpopular opinion, it's "unpopular" for a reason.

No. 375452

To be fair, I'm not above it although I try and sometimes anons really spout some insane stuff and it gets responded to. I guess commentary is allowed. And I do get ahead of myself, too, and into some fights every now and then. But often it still seems unnecessary. Idk maybe we all come here to sperg sometimes

No. 375454

It's a public forum after all, even with a vent thread everything you post it's up to discussion. Get a blog if you want a hugbox.

It's true that everyone sounded really childish tho, but also
the original anon sounded unnecessary martyr-ish

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No. 376906

I just saw an ad on Youtube and it was to make water… exciting???? Why do you need to make water exciting? It's already great the way it is, provided it is potable and cooled/warmed to your preferred temperature. Drinks do not have to be sweet and overflavoured to be drunk! God.

No. 376908

Apologies for using multiple question marks.

No. 376910

are you the same anon who said "The Office sucks!" and "get a real plant you cowards!"? if so, i think the way you type is cute

No. 376916

Nope, that thought didn't even cross my mind, but thanks, I suppose!?

No. 377240

oh god no alzheimers is my biggest fear and i'm a slow walker jesus fuck HELP

No. 377246

My friends give me so much shit for drinking La Croix sometimes while all they drink is corn syrup. Plain iced teas and cold water are fucking amazing.

No. 380618

I can't be the only one who hates kek

No. 380628

Imagine being this new

No. 381412

you in Melbourne? Im going back down there for uni and I can't say I'm looking forward to dealing with the unrelenting crackheads, once I took an early tram to campus at like six and there was a dude who was so methed out he was just kind of yelling and laughing incoherently and I was there just trying to stay as still as humanly possible so he might not see me kind of like in jurassic park lol

but yeah legitimately worried about being murdered during my evening commute especially cos I finish uni late

No. 381440

I don't mind kek. I LOATHE nonny though.

No. 384538

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Jesus christ this makes me fucking sick. This is why all those "teehee lewd ahegao hentai desu~"-memes and trends need to fucking stop. People treat hentai and ecchi as just some ~le quirky funny anime meymey~, instead of actual PORN for ADULTS, and it's so normalized and acceptable to flaunt it everywhere, even in places and platforms where actual fucking kids will be exposed to it. It would be seen as really weird if someone would mimic live action porn on TikTok or similar platforms, or used porn screenshots as a profile picture, or wore shirts with porn actresses faces on them. But exposing everyone (including CHILDREN) to your fetishes suddenly because acceptable as long as it's 2D? I'm fucking revolted.

No. 384552

>implying 12 year olds should be on the internet
>implying anyone younger than 20 should be

No. 384582

My roommate is this mousy girl who is obsessed with 4chan and Yaoi. She also doesn’t wear makeup. However she thinks she is so cool because she goes out and gets drunk. I saw her pics of partying in spring break in Miami and doing drugs. Who does she think she is? I wish people knew the truth about her.

No. 384592

>girl has fun partying but doesn't wear makeup and likes nerdy shit
>who does she think she is???

Either you're leaving out half the story or you have a bizarre bitch eating crackers grudge for no reason.

No. 384605

Anon is mad because she thinks a girl who is obsessed with 4chan and yaoi and doesn't wear make-up shouldn't be able to party and get drunk/do drugs. Maybe Anon is autistic? A binary worldview is a common issue in autism.

No. 384612

I've noticed kids making these faces in pics too. They see the girls on IG do it and obviously lack comprehension of what it really means. It's a bad trend

No. 384629

I'm an oldfag and hentai has been treated as a ~le quirky funny anime meymey~ since the 90's. Tentacle porn was one of the biggest memes in 2001-2003. It's not that serious. Kids don't think about it the same way adults do, for them it's on the level of a fortnight dance.

No. 384652

that's so super creepy. A lot of people dont treat hentai as actual porn for adults just because it's drawn/animated.

No. 384655

>she doesnt wear makeup

are you a dude? who the fuck gives a shit if a woman doesnt want to wear makeup. You sound insufferable

No. 384659

How am I wrong? Those things are totally pathetic. She thinks she's cool but she really isn't. Also the people she parties with would never do that if they knew who she really was.

No. 384660

lel I'd party and do drugs with yaoi mcnomakeup over your bitchy ass any day

No. 384661

I hope to go you told all the people you hang with that you're browsing lolcow, because otherwise, according to your logic, you would be deceiving them and are therefore unworthy of their time and friendship.

No. 384663

>It's not that serious
Yeah sorry, I don't see how 10-year-olds imitating porn isn't "that serious", whether or not they know what they're doing. It doesn't matter what flavor of the month hentai meme it is either, tentacles, ahegao, whatever, I don't want to see little kids pretending to get fucked. Especially when they film it and put it online.

No. 384664

Kek you sound as cartoonishly bitchy and jealous as a mean girl from a shitty teen movie. 'Who she really is' lmaoooo

No. 384667

you sound like a bitter femcel lol

No. 384688

>She thinks she's cool but she really isn't.
What do you mean? What is "cool"? Is it "cooler" to bitch about her on Lolcow like you're on the worst sour grapes bend ever, lmao?
>Also the people she parties with would never do that if they knew who she really was.
How well do you know them to assess whether or not they'd give a fuck? If they like her, they like her. Are you just upset that you can't be both a weeby imageboard user and a party-attending, drug-using normie depending on how you feel?

No. 384713

Here's some other things she did:
>Forgot other people lived in our suite and did cocaine off the kitchen table
>Wears j-fashion in a sloppy way all of the time. Thinks Axes Femme is the height of classiness
>Has a bunch of shitty ita coords
>Left a yaoi dojin on the kitchen table. She paid for it to be imported too.

4chan is way cringier than lolcow

I'm complaining because it's annoying

No. 384730

People are allowed to have a public persona vs a personal persona as well. One is allowed to have interest and hobbies that don't seem to go together. I think you're reaching, anon. Your roommate/friend might be "cringe" but there's nothing really wrong with her.

No. 384731

>she paid for it to be imported
How dare she!

No. 384744

whats wrong with axes femme? wearing jfashion isnt enough to be a bad person. you sound jealous that she has weeb brand clothes and you don't.

No. 384773

I get where other anons are coming from about the clothes not really being a big deal, but how is everyone overlooking the fact that she's doing coke in anon's shared kitchen? That is not cool and she sounds like a complete bimbo.
Hell that's more than annoying, that's blatantly crossing a boundary most normal people have. Most self-aware users I've known never do their drugs in common areas when they know other people don't use. That's fucked.

No. 384805

i can believe you that she sucks but what does her not wearing make up have to do with anything?
Also while I've been clean from drugs for 3 years I still party and have a very vibrant social life yet browse image boards etc…

No. 384808

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>She also doesn’t wear makeup.


No. 384817

kek at all these anons getting mad at you because they feel personally attacked

No. 384818

post her on the ita thread on /cgl/, I've never seen an Axes Femme ita

No. 384819

knowing a fujo irl is a fucking headache, good luck anon. it's fun to expose fujos or hentai obsessed incels to their crushes if they have one because most people get instantly repulsed lmao. i think you shouldn't judge her for not wearing makeup though.

No. 385148

Yeah I wish I could do that

I know. Some people are mad af right now

No one is jealous of her

It's called being fake

No. 385169

>It's called being fake

lmao how? sorry i didn't know that in order to be "real" you had to have a unidimensional personality and tell everyone you meet about all your cringy interests.

No. 385171

"Work friend" has decided to snipe every and all office-oriented shifts from behind my back because she has a ~health condition~. It's funny because she hikes all the time, how can you have a problem with delivering food?
Anyways, I had to aid in filing a report because she was caught doing something bad at work and now she thinks I have it in for her. She and the other girl could've actually hurt someone so I felt obligated.
She left early because I didn't pay attention to her. She was throwing shit down trying to spark some attention from me. I haven't spoken to her in months because of how shady she's been. She apparently had a shit fit yesterday because I was in the office covering shifts for a sick call-in. She is childish I can't stand her.
It's funny because she (I think) broke up with her SO and was talking about making amends, trying to fix a relationship, staying friends if they cant be together…she didn't even make an effort with me nor ask me what's wrong. I went through alot with my health recently because I had flare ups at work and she didn't even have the time to ask me if I was okay. She asked me a question during a flare up of mine, I didn't answer, and she rolled her eyes saying "whatever ignore me". I was in so much pain and she didn't care.
She spent the last couple times ranting to people about her life and looking back at it it was hilarious the first couple times but now it seems so immature to rant about other people's business as well. I know, I'm typing this on a drama forum, but irl is different to me.

No. 385210

Anon is not mad about that though, or she would have made it the main point of her first post. Anon is mad that someone she considers uncool is doing things that she does consider cool, with friends who evidently don't consider her uncool.

It's weird as fuck and I can't believe she's still here defending herself for hating a girl who committed the terrible crimes of liking yaoi and not wearing makeup while also having a social life.

No. 385238

Whenever I'm working silently and someone makes a point to say "WHY ARE YOU SO QUIET" "WHY AREN'T YOU TALKING" "WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU"
Am I supposed to spend my 9 hours at work constantly talking and never shutting up? Is that what people want/expect? I'm introverted and I don't feel like talking. Especially if I'm sick or it's early and I'm tired or something.
The girl I work with is so fucking annoying about it sometimes. I just want to get my work done and go home. I hate talking about shallow things that don't matter. I don't care about your husband, your kids, and some dumb story that happened with them. I don't care about you. I'm constantly tired and I have fucking depression.
It's not even like I never talk. I do! Which is mostly what makes it so annoying. It's like I don't talk enough for some people. The worst part is I've worked with this girl for almost a year now. Just leave me alone and accept that I'm "quiet" already.

No. 385273

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This is something that's been really annoying me lately. I'll just give my example since it'll be easier than trying to explain vaguely. I joined a Mob psycho 100 discord off Tumblr (never doing that again) because I just finished catching up with it and at first it seemed fine, the rules were a little weird but I was okay with following them. I'm in there a day and half, I break two "rules" that weren't even listed (I posted a meme without giving credit to the original creator and I tried to add to a convo that was happening in general but I guess I needed to bring up the topic in a different one idk) and they got all passive aggressive with me for no reason. Calling me "sweetie" and saying these things are common sense. They key spam, censor words that aren't even offensive, and are just generally really annoying. I chalked it up to them being younger than me but I looked at some of their intros and saw some were my age (I'm 18) and the youngest being 15. I guess I don't fit in with those kind of people.

Anyway, I just think it's so weird how communities like stan Twitter/Tumblr/just young teen girls in general online are really passive aggressive and just nasty to people to seem funny or cool. I guess cause a lot of them are my age or younger is annoying too, I never have acted the way these girls do, and I find it so obnoxious. I wonder how they act in the real world. Okay rant over.

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