>>2026You're kind of ignoring that a lot of the time once a person starts to show who they are instead of being on their best behaviour at the start of a relationship like a lot of people tend to be, that there's already emotions involved, and it's probably not as simple as "Yeah just view it objectively and leave them", right?
It's great you've never had a bad relationship if that's true, but you're being silly if you don't see why someone could be in a relationship that might not be best for them because they feel like they can fix it or the persons just going through something, or simply not noticing the change, or by that point already having strong emotions and simply not seeing the partner objectively as the negative influence they are, or any number of other reasons why someone would stay in a relationship.
I don't think many bad relationships come from the early dating phase before it's anything serious where it shows up they're dipshits or you just don't like them that much, it's later on those things lead to deterioration.
People who bitch about all their exes to make their current partner feel better or just to get attention are fucking annoying though, and are generally exaggerating pretty massively about their exes flaws.
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