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No. 678929

Post your dumbass questions here

Previous thread:
>>669357

No. 678932

Is it a bad idea to make a body-positive thread on /g/? I know hamplanets have taken over the body positivity movement but I was sorta thinking about making a thread about learning to accept certain features that you have, sorta like the 'coping with being ugly' thread but more about emotional growth

recently I've been learning to accept certain facial flaws that I had, like my nose and my stretch marks which were, in hindsight, nowhere near as bad I was making them out to be

No. 678938

I'm paralyzed and I can't study because I realized I will probably only make 3k/month 36k/year max my whole life. Isn't it better just to be a neet and leeching instead of being a mortgage slave and bullied at work?

No. 678943

>>678938
Leeching off who, the govt? If you mean disability payments then go for it. Nobody is gonna judge a paralyzed person for that, welfare exists for your benefit.

No. 678945

>>678938
If you're leeching off the gov then sure. If you're leeching off of real people then fuck you.

No. 678947

how to build a persona on social media in order to express yourself and find friends? I wish there were a guidebook for autists like me. I crave a personal space on the net but have no idea where to begin or how to curate it…

No. 678957

>>678945
Real people pay the taxes though

No. 678958

>>678957
Yes but the gov is already leeching off the real people so it's ok if the real people leech off them back. Most tax money is going to stupid shit anyway.

No. 678972

So I met this scrote on tinder a week ago and before we had sex, he always texted me fast etc then after he started ignoring them giving me one word replies. So, I blocked him. I feel like it was an over reaction but I'm not asking for money, not asking for a relationship, all I wanted was a few texts a day just to feel like I exist to someone and he couldnt even do that. Was I being dumb?

No. 678973

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has anyone had luck with making friends from here yet? I wanted an artsy farmer friend

No. 678976

why do people kin danganronpa characters so much?

No. 678977

>>678973
ill be ur friend anon

No. 678979

>>678972
No, if a guy fails to give you bare minimum then he deserves nothing. Stop thinking about it and move on.

No. 678983

>>678976
my stupid question is wtf does "kin" mean?

I'm going to take a guess that the answer to your question is because it's a series about edgy teenagers with OTT personalities so attracts autists

No. 678988

>>678932
make it, anon. I've love to learn from other anons about how to accept certain things about my body, if you have the advice. my nose could use some love

>>678983
kin means you see yourself in that character in a really strong way, at least that's what I always thought it meant. anons?

No. 678990

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>>678976
idk but tenko is queen, she's a beautiful lesbian terf

No. 678991

>>678976
Because autists love danganronpa and autists are the ones who love kinning

In all seriousness, danganronpa characters emote a lot and are exaggerated tropes with easy to follow backstories, pretty easy for a teenager to feel identified into, plus it has some funny angst going on and the style is very colorful and out there

No. 678993

Why would someone bait you into fighting then stop talking and cry when you answer?

Like what is going on in their minds, and what should i do to stop this? is it because i'm being too harsh with my words or because they just want to get hurt?

No. 678999

>>678979
My standards are low as shit. Just text me consistently(I hate when guys disappear for weeks then pop up) shower everyday, be kind cute, flirt with me and hangout with me once a week. I cant even find that lol

No. 679004

>>678993
I don’t know the reasons and it’s probably specific to your situation but stop it by not falling for the bait. Grey rock method. Not responding at all is best, but if for whatever reason you do then just be really boring and neutral. “Ok, I understand why you feel that way” and so on. Don’t give them the reaction they want.

No. 679009

>>678943
>>678945
My parents. Is it bad? Should I drop out?

No. 679026

>>679009
Don't leech off your parents. It's unfair to them to do that. At a certain point parents aren't supposed to care for you full-time, atleast imo.

Maybe you could just work and rely on your parents for stuff like housing? You could pay for groceries or maybe pay "rent" so that way you're still contributing. I'm pretty sure you could still get gov assistance (depending on where you live obviously) if you're living with your parents.

No. 679029

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No. 679034

>>679026
>gov assistance
Oh my, I'm not literally paralyzed, it's "just" anxiety and overthinking. I'm sorry I didn't know that would be interpreted literally in English

No. 679043

>>678938
>Isn't it better just to be a neet and leeching
if i had to live like that i would just kill myself. doesn't it make you feel like a pathetic loser? do you not feel shame?

No. 679048

i put money on my boyfriend's metro card to visit me and i just saw he's used some of it to go somewhere. should i be upset? how do i confront him? i just was checking the balance and saw it was lower than it should be.

No. 679052

>>679048
>giving money to your boyfriend
your first mistake.

Just say "Hey, I saw you used some of the money I put on the card. What did you use it for? Not trying to be over-bearing. I just want to know cause that money was for your visit."

I would guess he's broke (pretty sure you already know tho) and using that money for stuff that he shouldn't be.

No. 679053

>>679043
funny how many petty actions get a pass on this shitty website "just because they can" and here you go full sjw over neets
i can't take it seriously when lc users talk about things this way

No. 679054

>>679052
okay thanks. and yeah i know. he's just broke because of covid right now. the worst part is that i would have probably been fine if he just asked and said he'd pay back for it. ah well. i am just a bit hurt.

No. 679056

>>679043
>pathetic loser? do you not feel shame?
No? Why would I? Is neet shaming some kind of protestant thing?

No. 679060

>>679056
Yeah. It's actually a universal staple of the religion, seemingly.

No. 679061

>>679060
thou shalt not NEET

No. 679068

>>678938
Well if you put it like that. Make multiple leeching projects.
I'm talking about crappy red bubble shirts and shit. No matter how crappy it is, if it is political, someone will buy it.
Same goes to horrible mobile games. Those that have 4000 ads and burn the kids braincells.
Get creative, the only thing you really need is to be a shameless mf and by expressing your will to be
a leeching neet, we can alredy see that you have no shame
don't waste money on weeb shit ffs be wiser

No. 679072

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>>679053
It's be funny if people started making those "YAAAWN morning wagecuck" memes, but with Lolcow-tan instead of Pepe.

No. 679079

>>679053
>full sjw
where? what are you even talking about? i was just asking a question. i don't think being a neet is morally wrong, i just think it's embarrassing.
>>679056
>Why would I?
idk anon, that's how i feel about it. to be an adult who can't take care of themselves is shameful, i think. to tell someone that i don't have a job or an education and live with my parents still would be mortifying.
obviously if you feel no shame about it then i see nothing stopping you from doing it, i was just curious.

No. 679090

>>678988
I think that's what it means now but back when Tumblr was at its peak kinning meant you actually thought you were that character. You had all their memories and had done everything they did in canon. They would say that they had killed people if their character had, it was wild.

No. 679138

>>679079
Of all the embarrassing and sometimes mortifying shit that's posted on this site, being a neet is tame in comparison. Yet some anons make a big deal about it.
>>679090
Kinning still means that.

No. 679179

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Reposting from another thread
should I delete my instagram for artwork then? I just made one a couple days ago, after not having any social media since 2015. Like I just hate how corporate everything is. There's no real site for professional artists that is super mainstream and everyone can see and get in contact with artists and get jobs. It has to be fucking instagram, I'm tired. What to do?

No. 679194

>>679179
I think it’s fine if you just keep one around for business’ sake, ie. don’t engage with other people but keep your uploads consistent or for portfolio. You’ll probably have to learn how to stop yourself from searching/scrolling.

No. 679223

How do I find more obscure-er/not constantly used references on Pinterest?

No. 679226

This is gonna sound absolutely dumb, but how do I access my medical records (in the USA)? I’m looking to get a medical marijuana card and it’s recommended I bring proof of diagnosis. I’m seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist, but I haven’t had a general checkup in like a decade.

No. 679228

>>679226
Call the last hospital that you had a visit or regular visits with and talk to their medical records department. They’ll have you sign an ROI and fax or mail them to you, most likely. You can also just talk to your psychiatrist and therapist for their records since they’re more relevant and you have easier access to them.

No. 679230

What are some good sites where i can watch or download shows for free? Most sites have very shitty quality so i was wondering if there are any better options, i really want to watch the boys but i have no money for another streaming platform.

No. 679231

>>679230
streamio

No. 679233

>>679230
Soap2day?

No. 679235

>>679230
Why don't you just torrent?

No. 679281

How can I become smarter anons? Yes I am genuinely asking this question. I'm not a moron, but now I'm approaching my mid-20s, I feel significantly behind my colleagues in general intelligence. So many of my friends will enter conversations or debates on politics, history, technology and social dynamics and not only do I have nothing to add, I can barely keep up with what they're talking about. They use complicated (to me) words and concepts effortlessly and I'm so envious of them, I want to be able to communicate at that level. I've started reading recently (literally never read as a past-time before) and I'm constantly googling words I have no understanding of, but I worry I'm not going to retain any of that.

Should I study? Where do I start? Any resources? I just feel so overwhelmed because the gap between my intelligence and seemingly everyone else I meet feels huge. I want to improve myself in this way but have no idea how to best approach it. Why didn't I pay more attention in school?!

No. 679284

>>679281
Read books. That's all.

No. 679288

>>679281
Reading will help, also keep up to date with the news, even read the lifestyle parts of newspapers. My best advice is to pay attention to things around you, make mental notes (or even on your phone) to research something you’re ignorant about later. Be curious about shit - why is it like that? How does it work? What’s the history? Etc.

For words, maybe write them in a notebook and look over them 10 minutes a day, or make flash cards like you would when learning a foreign language. Incorporate them into your speech and you won’t forget.

Keep in mind you’re not stupid, you’re just ignorant. That can be fixed. Also be aware that when you know fuck all about a subject, even a person with a very basic knowledge would seem like an expert. Maybe your colleagues/friends are super smart, maybe they are just good at pretending.

No. 679292

This might have been a bad move, but I made sausage patties last night. I didn't finish eating them and left them out, unrefrigerated. I ate the two patties this morning and my stomach has made the most god awful sounds.
What are my chances that food poisoning is on the horizon?

No. 679294

>>679281
I agree with the other anon, you're not dumb, just uninformed. Read the news, research the topics your colleagues talk about, take notes with your phone

No. 679296

>>679292
Throw out those patties anon. I don’t know about food poisoning but I’d say you’re in for an upset stomach at least.
Drink water and get some anti diarrhoea tablets just incase.

No. 679298

>>679288
>>679294
thanks anons, I appreciate it. It's not a great feeling when you feel so lost for something to say!

No. 679324

Is it unreasonable to ask someone not to bring their dog with them when they're coming over, when it has no pressing reason (like a service dog or something) to be here? I just think dogs are gross and smelly and really don't want them in my space.

No. 679326

>>679324
Yeah if it's your house.

No. 679327

Does anyone else opt for using the bidet and soap after shitting instead of just wiping with a tissue because of how weird and dry it feels?

No. 679340

>>679327
I always use water to wash my ass because I have ass hair and don't want to be walking around with shit possibly stuck in them.

No. 679346

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How tf this movie got blew up on tiktok ?

No. 679349

>>679346
KEK this blew up when it came out too, and it’s dog shit. YMS has a very funny review on the entire movie, but I know adum is a meme.

No. 679353

>>679349
what with Adum is Meme anon? I watch his content as background noise.

No. 679358

>>679346
Tiktok hypes the dumbest shit. Typically I notice that they do it by attaching the movie to some urban legend like "this movie is possessed, if you download it you summon a demon" or "a girl committed suicide after watching this" or some shit. I try to assure myself it's because a huge chunk of their user base (i.e. age 12-14) fall for that kind of thing.

No. 679360

>>679358
>urban legend like "this movie is possessed, if you download it you summon a demon" or "a girl committed suicide after watching this"
Hasn't this always been a thing though?

No. 679364

>>679360
Oh yeah, precisely. I mention the demographic of 12-14 years because it was around that time I loved that kind of rumor, too.

No. 679368

>>679358
So this is their new worst version of creppypasta

No. 679371

>>679346
Haven't heard of this movie, but it looks like a Z movie that was made on 0 budget

No. 679378

>>678973
>>678977
Can us three be friends ?
I don't know how to make friends anymore

No. 679395

How long do bans last? I got banned twice for dumb reasons and everytime it happened it had already expired because it was cast during my sleep. I guess there are also different degrees of ban, like for several days or permaban.

No. 679405

What does sake taste like?

No. 679425

>>679395
It absolutely depends. I've seen people get banned for as short as 30 minutes. Then you have those bans that last 1-2 weeks for the same minuscule offense lmao.

No. 679432

>>679395
My last bans were 24 hrs and 5 or so days for completely non-offensive things. I've also had the 'already expired' bans before and I was under the assumption those were warnings, not bans? I never read properly though so I could be wrong.

No. 679440

>>679395
This reminded m of I ended up getting a 2-week ban for typing something at like 2 am (I couldn't sleep) and I didn't realize what I wrote was race-bait-y because I wasn't really thinking kek

No. 679443

On that note, for anons who have gotten super long/unwarranted bans, does appealing them actually work?

No. 679448

>>679440
The email field often autofills with my real details and I'm terrified I'm going to leave it in one day when I'm half asleep

>>679443
If it's unwarranted, yes. But be reasonable when you appeal it, don't just unleash tard Karen rage

No. 679457

>>679448
Can't you just adjust your browser settings to prevent the autofilling from happening?

No. 679461

Can one drink alcohol while on fluoxetine?

No. 679465

Where can I watch Castlevania if I don't have Netflix?

No. 679472

>>679288
>>679294
I agree with these anons. I like watching the national news that's broadcasted in my country, there are also some journalists I like that host informative programs, and publishers like the atlantic or new inquiry offer a lot of different perspectives on current events. After reading something, I find it really helps me to write down a brief description of what I read. It's a good exercise because you engage with the material, learn to be descriptive and concise, and it opens the door to more questions that you can research.

No. 679473

>>679465
Not sure if it's there but try masteranime.to

No. 679486

>>679465
9anime

No. 679487

>>679461
You can, but you'll find out afterwards if you should

No. 679500

>>679465
nyaa.si

No. 679501

>>679235
Thanks anon!

>>679233
Well i did torrent a view series some time ago on pirate bay but my english sucks and i could never find anything good with subtitles.

>>679353
I believe Adum tried to defend beastiality and other weird shit.

No. 679510

>>679461
Alcohol counteracts fluoxetine, in my experience. I’ve drank once or twice since I’ve started Prozac and it wasn’t worth it.

No. 679540

How long does e-dating last, or honey phase if the reason why e-dater choose to e-date was because they wanted someone to listen to their whiney shit and support them instead of going to therapy? Curious.

No. 679558

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So, is all trans discussion banned now? Didn't say so in the rules

No. 679563

>>679558
Respectfully, this has been explained numerous times now. Even in the latest townhall, admin mentioned that the MtF and FtM threads are meant to act as containment threads of sorts for any discussions about trans people. She stated that it's off limits in places like /ot/ because it has the potential to devolve into infighting. I feel like this post would fly better in one of the aforementioned threads so long as there was milk attached to it.

No. 679573

>>679558
I was banned for a post about farts, this seems trivial

No. 679574

>>679563
>it has the potential to devolve into infighting.
That's bullshit, it's one of the most universally agreed upon topics on here. That's why the threads were so popular and fast moving.

No. 679582

>>679563
Well, then admin better update the rules then. Whining about forbidden topics in meta isn't exactly making it clear whats allowed or not.

And we have infighting over literally anything, so its a bad argument. Might as well ban all discussions about everything then if thats the reason. I'll even go as far as saying that hating trans people is the one thing we can all agree on here.

No. 679583

>>679574
Anons saying they support or are indifferent towards trans people is what causes the infighting from what I've seen.

No. 679584

>>679583
>Anons saying they support trans people is what causes the infighting
I mean, if the admins allow trans stuff soon enough we'll have girl dick and mouth feel discussions on /g/. Do we want that?

No. 679585

>>679584
> we'll have girl dick and mouth feel discussions on /g/.

Imagine the laughs though!

No. 679586

>>679583
Right because often times anyone who supports trans people are instantly called slurs, bait, or handmaidens. I don't engage in the arguments anymore/bite my tongue because I'm not trying to catch a ban over something so trivial. Plus, getting told "go back to Twitter" every time I want to make a point gets very tiring.

No. 679587

>>679584
You asked for it

No. 679589

>>679584
I mean, I'm not a radfem so I don't care.

This site isn't exclusively gc. Anons expressing support for trans IS allowed, but you'll get banned if you start infighting whether or not you're gc. The arguments are usually 1 or 2 anons saying they support trans people, and then a bunch of gc anons coming in to argue with them about it. Basically, the gc anons outnumber the tra anons, so If people could have a discussion about trans rights or whatever without derailing then gc anons probably wouldn't have got banned in /ot/. i feel like i said gc a thousand times

No. 679590

>>679587
I literally didn't. You're very rapey today, huh?

No. 679594

>>679586
go support trannies on literally any other site

No. 679597

what's the difference between the video music awards and the american music awards?

No. 679598

Do we have a thread about infidelity? I'v been cheating on my bf and talking about it on /r/adultery but I'd feel safer if it was competely anonymous

No. 679600

>>679598
Post it in the confessions thread. Also, kill yourself.

No. 679605

>>679346
I saw it once and it was the stupidest most boring movie ever until the very end which suddenly introduced the shocking shit. I just feel like someone wanted to build a movie on top of it just to excuse torture porn.

No. 679606

>>679598
No but you should definitely go fuck yourself with a chainsaw

No. 679608

>>679597
The VMAs are held specifically to give awards for music videos, the AMAs are held to give awards artists who gave blown up in America (not necessarily American artists though).

VMAs has categories like
>Video of the year
>Best Pop video
>Best editing
>Best choreography

AMAs has categories like
>Artist of the year
>Favorite R&B Artist
>Tour of the year
>Collaboration of the year

Basically, the AMAs are more of a general awards show, and the VMAs are specifically for music videos.

No. 679611

>>679608
>the AMAs are held to give awards artists who gave blown up in America
*have oops

No. 679614

>>679589
They could just make their threads and ignore comments from anons that disagree with them. Nothing is stopping them from not caring about anonymous people on the internets opinions. Nothing is stopping them from making pro trans conversations among themselves.

Why can't we just have differing opinions on this site and continue conversations we want to have, not rabidly defending ourselves? Cant pro trans(or any other topic for that matter) just ignore anons hating and reply to thise who agree? Its a chan, its not like it matters if people have disagreeing opinions. Why even care that random strangers hate.

No. 679620

>>679614
Tbh gc anons could also just ignore the trans-supporting anons if it upsets them.

No. 679629

Is anyone actually reading Favorite song lyrics thread or are you all just dropping your post into the void and going on with your life?

No. 679631

>>679573
What?? What in the world did you say?

No. 679632

>>679631
Shit and fart posts that sound fetishistic are more likely to cop a ban js

No. 679634

>>679629
tbh i do both

No. 679642

>>679606
Nta but responding with that level of sexually violent imagery, really?

No. 679643

>>679642
Nta either, but have you seriously never heard "Fuck yourself with a chainsaw" before?

No. 679655

>>679226
What state are you in? When I got my license in CA (before it was legalized) I literally applied for it through a website that contracted doctors who would call you within a couple hours. You could just say “I have anxiety and trouble sleeping” or whatever and they’d OK it and fax/email you the license for immediate use, and mail the card for a fee later (which I never bothered getting). I never had to verify anything or show any other medical documents.

I’d check around online to see if there’s a service like that first before spending money and time on a whole regular visit. Otherwise, what the previous anon said applies.

No. 679657

>>679642
>sexually violent imagery
Get over yourself

No. 679663

Can someone explain to me what is a anti and anti-anti? My knowledge is someone who disagree of someone works right? While I agree that people can criticize pretty much everything whatever they want. Especially if someone post it or do it on public spaces where EVERYONE can see it (even if the creator give us warning what is going have things that will deem things as unsafe or inmoral). But, I have to agree that this type of people are taking fiction WAY too seriously.

No. 679666

>>679663
I think anti anti are people who are completely for fictional depictions of things that are objectively horrific. Shitty stuff like shota/lolicon or the shit aggy draws is okay to them because "fiction is not reality". I'm not of that opinion but it's not my entire life to harp on them like antis do.

It's definitely a twitter syndrome and people spend way too much time thinking about it.

No. 679669

>>679657
I’m starting to get a really strong hunch that we’ve got a trickle of anons from Asherahs garden, and instead of integrating they’re trying to condescendingly ‘teach us’ and chide us. It’s really obnoxious.

No. 679670

>>679663
i mostly see it used in the context of shipping characters. "antis" are against ships that include stuff like age gaps, incest, and pretty much anything that's illegal/immoral irl and "anti antis" are of the opinion that all ships are okay as long as they're not real
i'm not really bothered by either idea but there's a lot of retardation from both sides and it seems like every other day someone from either side gets called out for being a pedo/zoophile or some other flavor of degenerate, it's not a rabbit hole worth going down imo.

No. 679672

>>679663
If you mean in the Twitter/fandom sense, an “anti” is typically someone who is anti-“problematic shipping” aka someone who’s hyper PC and against age gap/incest/rape/abuse/dubcon/underage/power difference or anything that could even be mildly misconstrued as one of these, in relation to fictional characters and their related fan works. They’re usually sheltered teens who love to dog pile and spam death threats over this trivial shit.

An “anti-anti” is just the opposite of this, although more commonly I see people saying “pro-shipper”. I should mention that I’m someone who thinks fiction and reality are completely separate, with only autists confusing the two, so my explanation is probably skewed in that direction.

No. 679674

>>679672
I hate the term proshipper, even thou they have the best discourse account.

No. 679686

What makes someone a normie?

No. 679691

>>679686
Not being here in the first place.

No. 679694

>>679686
Having friends, common hobbies like sports, top 20 music, entry-level knowledge of movies/tv shows/Netflix series.
They never did hard drugs, works/studies at a regular or advanced pace, doesn’t know about imageboards like these nor stuff like Pepe or wojak memes, neither about aynime or even comics.
They’re just people that don’t spend too much time on the Internet.

No. 679700

>>679694
God I wish that were me

No. 679754

any anons here have experience tapering off/coming off of SSRIs? I'm two months into tapering off of citalopram and two weeks on no-dose and i'm so fucking weepy it's not even funny, wondering how long it's going to take my brain to get back to "normal" mood range (aka not constantly crying in traffic). experiences appreciated

No. 679764

How do I stop being a stupid cunt

No. 679766

>>679754
I'm off ssri's. I'm bipolar and they basically stopped working as well and made me want to vomit by the time I was done with them. I've felt better without them, a little more emotional, but they actually made me feel far more deadened and emotionless. which I hated because I felt like this fucked robot shell of a human. being on only a mood stabilizer that doubles as an antidepressant has been a vast improvement. it was a weird change at first but it was a welcome one and I'd rather be off them than on them. I feel like ssri's really are not for everyone and I wish therapists would stop trying to put everyone on them

No. 679802

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Anyone know of any dollmakers similar to Marina Bychkova/enchanteddoll? Especially those who blog about their process like her. I love her work but have no idea how to find other dollmakers.

No. 679807

How can I improve my emotional intelligence?

No. 679811

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>>679353
He defends dog fucking, unironically

No. 679815

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>>679802
I think you'll like the Popovy sisters, anon! They make very beautiful dolls.
I also know of Etsuko Miura, but her work is more on the horror/grotesque side of things.

No. 679818

>>679811
>I'm sure people used that same argument against sodomy laws.
Why are all these freaks obsessed with equating themselves to gay people? What about "two consenting adults" do they not understand?

No. 679823

>>679818
He's a literal fur fag. He probably thinks he's making some big brained insight by tying it to the persecution of gay men when in reality he's diminishing it by outing him self as a gay man that loves the idea of fucking dogs.

No. 679824

How many pairs of shoes does one need to have at any given time?
I've been asked at my previous work why do I have only two pairs of shoes and I honestly thought no one would every pay attention to what I wear at work and why does it matter anyway?
So I've got two sneakers and two pairs of boots. Is that enough?

No. 679831

>>679824
I think it depends on the type of work you do. If It’s office work and you spend the day sitting on a desk without interacting with any clients, I think anything that isn’t too damaged is okay, if it’s formal that’s a plus.
If you have to interact with customers you might want to have at least three pairs of shoes so you can rotate them during the week, some people care, most don’t give a fuck while buying stuff.
So yeah, maybe buy just another pair? A formal pair of shoes.

No. 679836

Is Sinsay going to have black friday? I am waiting for it to happen to buy one cheap gift.

No. 679837

>>679815
These are great recs anon, thanks so much! Etsuko Miura is amazing!

No. 679838

>>679831
> If It’s office work and you spend the day sitting on a desk without interacting with any clients
Yeah, that was the type of work I did. No idea why the number of shoes was that important but then again, they were a bunch of vipers so maybe that's it.
Thanks anon, I'll get one or two more pairs just in case.

No. 679847

did something happen to the onision threads in pt? why no active one?

No. 679849


No. 679855

>>679849
Thanks anon

No. 679867

Can more than one ear piercings/earrings look classy and not trashy?

No. 679873

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>>679867
Yeah, as long as you keep everything clean and use stuff that at least looks nicely done, actually, it’s considered fashionable nowadays. Just keep it cohesive.

No. 679874

>>679867
Two pairs has always been classic and normal, but more than that goes too. It's been popular for a couple of years now.

No. 679888

Has anyone ever felt that feeling of horniness and disgust while doing something non-horny related? Like I was just browsing lolcow and playing with my nipple randomly, non sexually and I just got so fucking grossed out with myself but at a gut level, not mentally…… am I going retarded right now… also just woke up sorry

No. 679889

>>679873
Where do you girls buy high quality gold earrings that are fair priced? I want to treat myself for the first time

No. 679890

>>679889
Are you looking for solid or filled/plated/vermeil?

No. 679893

Best Thanksgiving dish or side dish?

No. 679910

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Did you see the scrote thread? Does he really think he "owned us"? How embarassing

No. 679912

I dont want to get into a GC discussion at all I just wanna know where the term 'troon' came from.

No. 679926

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>>679910
It was apparently "shit" enough for him to come here and make a post so I guess we really made it lassies. omg. finally we have the male approval we've been craving. /s

No. 679930

>>679910
Like any of us care about this little Ted Bundy incel manifesto.

No. 679933

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No. 679934

>>679912
From Something Awful of all places, it was at first a neutral term the resident trannies used to call themselves (trans+goon=troon). Since SA is a cesspool of woke shit, people outside of it started using it to describe the loonies from there, then extended it to basically all trans people (but generally more for MtFs than FtMs and enbies).

No. 679936

>>679910
Awww little pee pee man thinks we care about his feefees.

No. 679941

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>>679910
"Hey roasties, just dropped in from /b/ (4chan) to tell all you faggots know your shitty woman knockoff site wont ever be shit. You should all go back to the kitchen, and hang yourselves you copycat dishwashers. All you are good for is raping and cooking.
-All of /b/"

No. 679942

>>679934
>mfw I remember Something Awful being genuinely counterculture and edgy in like 2003-2004
The last time I heard of them was when some tranny mod was having a meltdown and posted some pinned notification thread screeching about how transphobia is a bannable offense or something and FYAD got shut down. Also shmorky trooned out and turned out to be a huge degenerate nutjob. Lowtax is an alcoholic deadbeat dad. It's sad.

No. 679943

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>>679941
Let me fix that for you

No. 679944

>>679893
anon the best dish will forever be mashed potatoes and gravy- always do it just to be safe. If you want to stand out a bit do a potato casserole.

No. 679945

>>679890
I’d like solid

No. 679946

>>679942
it was edgy back then. moot used to use it and then left to make 4chan. it became anti 4chan shortly after though. they apparently have a $10 joining fee.

No. 679950

Are "empaths" real?

No. 679956

>>679950
Empath is just another word for narcissist

No. 679958

>>679942
I used to enjoy the threads there circa 2009-2012; they weren't obnoxiously woke then. The Photoshop/comedy threads were hilarious. I remember revisiting the site a year ago and being shocked to seeing their pregnancy thread OP warn everyone not to "gender" people or whatever the fuck. It's a real shame

No. 679959

>>679946
Yep, you can't even lurk threads older than 6 months, you have to join and pay the fee.
>tfw I lurked the Andrew Dobson thread back in summer of 2012 and this was my first encounter with a lolcow

No. 679970

>>679281
Just by virtue of you asking these questions and seeking out new experience, you are demonstrating the classic sign of general intelligence - novelty seeking! Always be open and ready to absorb like a sponge. As anons mentioned, reading will undoubtedly help you get a leg up in "intellectual" conversations but that can be a bit of a time investment.

It's a bit lower effort but documentaries can provide a wealth of information of politics, history, technology, sociology, etc. You can find so many free ones on YouTube! Maybe start with docs from classic sources like Frontline or NOVA.

Another tip is to always keep closed captioning on so when you hear an unfamiliar word you can visually see it written out, in context, and thus it's easier to integrate into your own vocabulary. I always have captions on, also helps if you miss words form mumbling and I think it helps you gain greater comprehension of the dialogue.

No. 679980

Who are your go-to cows? I love/hate pnp and shay. Mostly because I encountered them on SM before finding LC. Their threads have been so boring lately so I’m looking for someone else to read about. I also lurk Nika’s thread, and LJs.
Hope everyone is having a good day!

No. 679992

>>679980
shoe, tuna, heather explains

No. 679995

>>679558
I got banned for a week for saying something about trans women (men) invading women’s spaces in the celebricow thread.

>>679584 Exactly. And I’d prefer trannies NOT take over the one space on the internet I can be as a woman, when they literally get free reign of all MSM. Fuck outta here tranny mods and tranny supporters (men, women who hate women, and chasers).

No. 679998

>>679980
erin, june, and shayna. they give me the most laughs and i also like to read the egirl thread whenever there's milk on d9 and babivampire

No. 680000

>>679980
I think Vicky is my all time favourite, I like how completely delusional she is. I like to revisit Phoebes threads as well. I wish she would come back to the internet. J like cows that make me feel outraged, I dont particularly enjoy the sad ones (like Nika or Luna, I feel bad for them).

No. 680004

>>679980
Johnny and Syd in snow can be really funny and really sad/infuriating at the same time.

No. 680005

>>679980
Came here for pixielocks but I read shaynas, youtubers, moo, and fake elsas threads

No. 680015

What makes a person want to conform and become a normie while others will always try different things and actually want to be unlike the rest?

No. 680019

>>679980
You make Vicky your go-to cow and you will always have something to gawk and laugh at, doesn't matter the day. I actually admire her ability to hold onto her delusions so firmly, well into her 30s and in bold defiance of the reality knocking at her doorstep every day.

I used to hate watch shoe's threads but she is pretty lame for me these days. The communist/Vaush arch just isn't as fun as previous sagas lol and I think she's become a lot more self aware past couple years which of course means less milk.

No. 680020

>>680015
Shame and the fear of standing out. Normies have internalized the mindset that they mustn't be interested in anything past surface level or it would be considered geeky and weird.

No. 680025

how do you get past the upbringing that always told you to be humble and quiet, always keep your head down etc? i literally cannot even praise myself or think about myself in a positive way without thinking that it makes me a stuck up bitch

No. 680027

>>680015
Some people at some point either don't have anymore time for non-normie stuff or just want to chill without pursuing anything weird and standing out; being a normie is not a bad thing despite internet making it sound like the worst sin.

No. 680031

>>680027
Yeah, genuinely don't know what's the bad thing about being a normie. As long as the person is satisfied and has a positive life, what's the big deal? That's my stupid question

No. 680035

>>680027
> either don't have anymore time for non-normie stuff
You make it sound like being a non normie is an effort and an act.
Being a non normie is more of a lifestyle combined with interests.
I'd like to add that being a non normie takes very little effort seeing how most people are dreadfully superficial in thoughts and things they do. The bar is set really low.

No. 680036

How can I make others love me if I don't love myself?

No. 680039

>>680036
Maybe it's not the best advice but if you don't love yourself figure out the reason… you might need to work on yourself, objectively.

No. 680040

>>680036
I agree with the other anon for the most part. People can pick up on when you don't love yourself and it can make it harder for them to do so as well. That's not to say they can't love you though. If you're being your authentic self, people will notice that and it can make you seem more endearing. I hope you learn to love yourself, anon. I know that can be hard.

No. 680048

>>680031
I honestly think a lot of non-normies, especially on here, secretly resent normies for living a normal life they deep down wanted and fitting in (considering there's a lot of people on here who aren't well adjusted, let's be real).

No. 680049

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does anyone have those two pictures of that fakeboi who got some sort of skin graft(?) surgery to look asian
i need to show it to my dad

No. 680052

>>680048
I'm the one who asked the question and I don't resent normies. I just don't understand why would someone renounce their own genuine diverse interests just to seem normal, bland or acceptable.

No. 680059

How hard is crocheting? I got some cute yarn on sale a while ago but have yet to buy the long hooks and watch videos for beginners.

No. 680060

>>680052
Because they don't want to be considered weird? Most people want to fit in with the group, it's natural.

No. 680064

>>680052
some people don't need to make every autistic fixation they have a matter of public interest. all these normies just keep all they weird shit they like to themselves where it belongs. Alternatively, they just like boring popular shit

No. 680065

>>680059
easier than knitting imo even for complicated casts but knitting seems more versatile as you can get garments out of it vs crocheting is like. for amigurumis and 60s bikinis. on the flip side, crocheting only needs one needle and not 5 and cable needles if you ever want to make socks and anything bigger than that.

No. 680066

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>>680049
here you go

No. 680067

>>680052
Could also be someone who was faking some non-normie interest to belong to some niche group / stand out and attract attention, but in time decided it's not worth it and embraced normieness.

No. 680068

>>680066
this is legit terrifying

No. 680070

>>680049
do you have photographic memory by any chance?

No. 680071

>>680064
Wtf are you even implying, bpd-chan?

No. 680072

>>680059
Yarn size makes it easier/harder, depending on the project. The needle size and type of yarn can kind of conflict too, and sometimes I've found it frustrating as balls to wiggle into a hole without accidentally putting part of a strand of another stitch in there. There's also making sure that you stay really consistent with your stitch size, meaning you need to micromanage how tight or loose you're making every stitch. Also, counting your stitches. Stay on top of your shit with this, or you can fuck up a project and make yourself wanna sit in a corner and die because you had to go back a bunch.
Maybe this is just me.

No. 680075

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How to build a reading habit on heavy literature and pscyhology as a Visual learner anons?

No. 680077

>>680066
thank you anon this picture is essential to my life
>>680070
i can't tell if this is sarcastic or not, but i'm a drawfag so maybe? people tell me i have a photographic memory because my room is messy (not rat infested i promise) and i still manage to find everything i need

No. 680078

Why do lesbians move so fast in relationships? My friend only knew her gf two months and they're already living together.
With scrotes it goes like this

>you talk for 3 months

>after those 3 months he asks you to be his gf
>you date for 3 years and then move in together
>after 8 years they decide if they wanna leave or get married.

No. 680081

>>680049
I'm fucking howling at your image's text anon

>>680066
This is some night terror demon shit. What kind of a surgeon 1.) agrees to do this 2.) thinks this looks "asian"?

No. 680084

>>680078
This is something I've been wondering myself and why the u-haul lesbian is such a meme that seems to be based on some amount of truth. I wish FWB relationships and one night stands were more normalized within lesbian relationships, sometimes a person just wants sex without commitment no matter what sexuality.

No. 680093

For what reason would a woman be more popular among gay women than straight men, given she's feminine presenting? It's not a problem since I'm a febfem, but I'm curious about what it could be.
Something about the face, voice, or personality?
>>680078
Women are less violent/dangerous so precautions are less important. I personally still don't see it as healthy even though I have the urges myself kek.

No. 680097

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How do you call these tops that have the same neckline as a lot of camisoles (similar to picrel) have but like….with sleeves? kek

No. 680098

>>680097

seems you're thinking of sweetheart necklines or maybe even U shape necklines

No. 680099

>>680015
Humans are social creatures; most people have desperately tried to conform throughout history for self-preservation. Equally, the majority have been suspicious of people who act ‘different’ as it can be seen as a risk to the group. Those instincts don’t just go away even if we’re past burning witches. It’s beneficial to everyone involved to appear ‘normal’.

Also, a lot of normies I know do have niche interests and hobbies. It’s just not something that comes up in conversation as often as “do you watch [popular TV show]?” because they’re much less likely to find someone who wants to listen to that shit, much less has the same interest. When you’re a normie and want to fit in, you’re going to make yourself likeable by chatting about shit that most people care about.

No. 680111

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Does anyone remember the blonde Australian girl that was sort of big on tumblr in the same era Felice was? Picrel is her but I can't remember her name and it's killing me.

No. 680148


No. 680161

Found a unopened new(??) Looking bottle of 15% Glögi with no date of expiration, not even the day of manufacturing. Is it safe to drink?

No. 680164

How do I stop breaking down every time a scrote gives me unsolicited mansplaining?

No. 680167

>>680164
why are you breaking down over that wtf

No. 680168

>>680164
Get used to it like the rest of us

No. 680169

>>680167
when women give me explanations i think "Wow she cares about me" when men give me explanations I feel so shitty. How do I stop caring about men?

No. 680170

>>680164
You can approach this from a number of ways, but the ones I recommend are either make them feel stupid or simply tune them out. Regardless, they're already coming at you with a huge ego, so you're probably not going to be able to dismantle it from one interaction. Instead, use the opportunity to make them feel unheard/misunderstood. They're really not worth your effort and you gotta save your energy for people who actually know how to have a good conversation that doesn't demean you.

No. 680173

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I know I've been in a coping spree since last month because of all the junk food, random youtube videos and imageboards in my life. But I don't why. How do I find out what's bothering me?

No. 680184

>>680078
desperation? the "dating pool is tiny i am the only lesbian in the world and will never find anyone and die alone with 20 cats" thought being ingrained + a lot lesbians go through years-long dry spells, so when something looks up, lots just jump on it

No. 680201

>>680164
learn how to perform chemical castration

No. 680204

What cow do you think lurks their thread the most and what Cow do you think other cows follow?
For me it's Shayna & I can imagine Shayna hate following Taylor Dean for some reason.

No. 680217

>>680098
I think sweetheart neckline was what I was looking for, thanks!

No. 680307

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Have you ever been disappointed in someone you admired? Have you outgrown the people you previously admire? pls respond.

No. 680316

>>680204
Mickey Moon, her whiteknights and her sister lurk her thread
Pixielocks and Steve do too

No. 680318

>>680066
ew, but I want to know more about this. who is the fakeboi? Is this even real? it almost looks like a mask. jfc do you think this person is ever going to snap when they realize what a mistake this was? their insanity has to catch up to them somehow

No. 680320

>>680307
Sure. Usually even when I eventually end up disliking people I've admired, it doesn't change the fact that I still admire the traits they had which attracted me in the first place. For example, I did and still do admire that my ex was a really hard worker, resourceful and self sufficient. I just ended up figuring out he was a piece of shit on all other counts.

No. 680405

Why do bike riders say "on your left" to me on trails? I'm not in their way. I can hear them without them telling me. Only some people do it. It's really fucking annoying. Any bike riders here can clarify please?

No. 680406

>>680405
Not a bike rider but if I had to guess, I'd assume it's just in case they do come across someone who doesn't hear them approaching. Better safe than sorry, probably.

No. 680407

>>680405
Stop being autistic anon. They have to say that just in case someone decided to step to the left. Some people aren't really paying attention to who's riding up behind them, some people are hard of hearing.

No. 680425

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>>680407
Lol you shouldn't have spoiled it anon. I wanted OP to carry on believing that some faggots on bikes like to occasionally remind her of their location as an insult to her intelligence.

No. 680446

>>680407
They really don't have to. There is no reason for them to. I am not hard of hearing, I am paying attention(who isn't?), and why would I randomly turn left on a trail? Thats just stupid.

>>680425
I'm aware of why they do it. But there is honestly no reason for them to since I wouldn't randomly go left for no reason without checking behind me.

No. 680449

>>680446
Random people riding by wouldn't know that dummy. They don't know whether or not you're hard of hearing, paying attention or if you'll suddenly turn. It's really not that difficult to understand.

No. 680450

>>680446
>why would I randomly turn left on a trail?
How can they know for sure that you won't? You might stop to tie your shoelace, you might drop something, you might misjudge where they are and try to get out of their way in the wrong direction. Being offended by such a normal, well established precaution that exists partially for your safety is just retarded.

No. 680452

>>680446
Why so mad about being showing you basic consideration?
Are you sent into a rage when offered a menu at a restaurant since you already know there’s food there?

No. 680462

>>680452
I'm more annoyed than mad. I came to walk not to hear someone yell and ring their bell at me. I've now started to appreciate those who don't say anything to me.
>>680450
Everyone knows to walk only on the right side and not to randomly stop on the trail. It would make sense for them to ring their bell if I was in their way or I stopped or was walking on the left side but I never do. Especially not on a trail other people are riding bikes on. Most of the people who pass me on bikes don't say anything or ring their bell. Only a few feel the need to open their mouths and hear themselves.

No. 680465

>>680462
Lmao you remind me of my mother. So determined to be mad that you’ll choose to interpret basic manners as rudeness or stupidity rather than accepting that you were being unreasonably mad.

Hope nobody ever dares say ‘bless you’ or ‘pardon me’ to you.

No. 680468

How the fuck do I stop focusing on the negative all the time? I know there's plenty of reasons for me to be happy but everytime I remind myself of them I feel like they aren't valid and I'm just using it as a cope and all the bad stuff is really the truth. I can't live like this anymore.

No. 680476

>>680468
Well stop visiting this site for one.

No. 680478

>>680465
>lol u mad xD
Okay then. Im gonna bring a bell with me and ring it back at anyone who says on your left.

No. 680481

>>680478
Anon they are on bikes…riding away from you…

No. 680484

>>680478
Inb4 we catch you in the vent thread in the future saying "Why don't motherfuckers give you a heads up before passing you on their bike? Someone almost ran me over bc they didn't announce themselves." Why don't you understand that there's never a 100% guarantee everyone will follow the "stay on the right side" etiquette so some bike riders want to prevent a collision every single time if they can?

No. 680485

Has anyone else noticed how hard men fall off looks wise in their early to mid 20s? I'm starting to think that a lot of men 'peaked' in high school physically and that men are generally probably most physically attractive right out of high school and early college. Every guy that I check out (face wise but also not obese) is always around 18-20 years old and there's a stark difference between their looks and the guys who are older than me (22). Every once in a while there's an older guy who's a looker and obviously takes care of himself but I think aging in the 20s must hit men hard or something. I have no idea what caused this (partying, stress, bad habits) but every guy that I've gone to high school with except for maybe a handful looks way worse than before. I know this sounds ridiculous because we're only just out of college and most people say men are most attractive in their 20s as well. But in my experience, it's all receding hairlines, fat 'dad bods', and formerly cute faces that just look unmasculine and unattractive. Maybe they use age as an excuse to look haggard, idk.

No. 680486

>>680478
Definitely proving you’re not assblasted over manners. You’ll sure show those jerks for daring to be considerate.

No. 680491

>>680481
I can't ring a bell but they can? If they can ring an annoying bell so can I. And I will. Not for consideration but in spite. I'll ring the bell as close to them as possible when they pass me to let them know I know that they are on my left.

>>680484
I'm literally on the edge of the trail. On the very edge and im pretty sure they can see that from a far distance. Do you ride bikes on trails anon? Do you say on your left to every single pedestrian you pass?

>>680486
Its not considerate when its excessive and needless. They scream it loudly for no reason. They could tone it down which is why I'm 99% sure its done just so they can hear themselves yell.

No. 680494

>>680485
I think that's true honestly. Men don't take care of themselves and it ages them. The ones who take care of themselves actually look decent.

No. 680496

>>680491
Just say you want something to be mad about and go

No. 680498

>>680170
>the ones I recommend are either make them feel stupid or simply tune them out.
Can confirm that this works. Especially making them feel stupid shuts them right up.

No. 680501

How do people still get catfished these days? I'm watching Catfish: The TV Show rn and I simply can't believe this many people are still getting tricked. Even if this show is staged, this is definitely still happening to people.

No. 680502

>>680491
Lmao just say you were unreasonably pissed over something and move on. Why double down on a stupid tantrum to prove a point to randos?

No. 680511

>>680501
Desperation and hoping to finally find someone reciprocating love. It's a hell of a drug.

No. 680521

>>680501
Agree that TV show is fake as fuck but it probably mainly happens to kids and naive/lonely people in the really dumb cases. In the majority of cases it’s probably more subtle as most people don’t accept the “my webcam doesn’t work” excuse now. Still plenty of shit to easily lie about and probably get away with unless they’re claiming to be a billionaire/celebrity/famous surgeon. Webcams are still kinda blurry and can knock off a few years. They could lie about their family situation, relationship/lack of, their history, job, education, achievements, living situation, sex they were born as. So much shit as long as they don’t go overboard.

Years ago, I was online friends with a guy and it was months before I found out he was a double amputee (both legs). It wasn’t a big deal but it just goes to show how easy it is to appear different online.

No. 680548

What do you guys think happens after you die? I’m hoping we aren’t reincarnated back onto earth again as a different person.

No. 680549

>>680548
Well I think nothing happens and your mind just stops existing whem you die

No. 680550

>>680548
nothing

No. 680551

>>680548
I think we go back to what we were before we were born. Maybe that's something and we don't remember it in life or it's truly nothingness.

No. 680553

>>680485
If we ignore the lack of skin care factor, I think it depends on their face structure. Most male faces I see are so dumpy, doughy, potatoish and featureless that once they gain a bit of weight that usually comes with age and lack of care they start to look so ugly and shapeless. Usually men with stronger features (sharp big noses, big eyes, skinny face, sharper jawlines, higher cheekbones etc.) look more appealing to me as they age because they don't turn into a shapeless, bloated blob. Alcohol probably plays a big factor because it really does bloat you up, and we all know most guys love to drink.

No. 680558

How am I supposed to deal with the fact that every man I've tried to date just wants to fuck me a few times then leave?seriously, they wont even be friends.

No. 680561

>>680548
I think we just disappear. It breaks my heart because I love the idea of reincarnation.

I can’t delude myself into believing spiritual stuff but sometimes I get the deja vu feeling about weird shit. This makes me think that if reincarnation happened then it would be more like your soul being recycled rather than being born as the same kind of person iykwim? Like you’d be totally different in almost every way but possibly some very vague residual memories.

So it’d basically be like dying anyway lol because you wouldn’t remember your past life.

No. 680562

>>680558
I feel you anon. Men my age are just so dull and cumbrained. I just want a fancy dinner somewhere nice, and for you to not start talking about sex after the first date. Have some tact.

No. 680564

>>680562
Well anon I'm 30 and I'm experiencing the same shit at my age. This hell never ends.

No. 680566

>>680548
I'm gonna be living it up in heaven post-mortem. Fuck dissapearing after you die, I wanna enjoy myself a little once I get off this bitch of an Earth

No. 680583

Are Twinkies good? What american sweets are worth trying?

No. 680587

>>680583
They taste chemically sweet and disgusting to me (not a burger), so not unless you like that. Reese’s are good even though I don’t normally like peanut butter, Butterfingers are addictive too. White Fudge Flipz. Anything grape flavoured (if that’s uncommon in your country). Sour candy is good. Cookie dough bites.

The different sodas and chip flavours are worth trying too, there are so many wild ones.

No. 680589

>>680502
I'm going to ring the bell loudly at the bike riders anyways. I've done it before and im gonna start doing it again.

No. 680598

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I don't want to ask this to someone irl so I'm asking here. One side of my chin is less voluminous than the other side (roughly where to red circles are in pic). It's like there's more fat/tissue underneath the skin on one side than the other, I can feel it too when I put my fingers on my chin. It's super obvious to me and I think it makes my face look wonky, it's bothering me so much that I've had the thought of getting it corrected. But then again I'm staring at my face in the mirror while others don't and see my face in motion. Do you think this is obvious to people around me or am I the only one who really notices?

No. 680605

>>680598
It’s probably not noticeable anon, people don’t tend to look as closely at your face as you do, also like you said it probably looks different when you’re in motion.

If it’s really bothering you maybe a little filler could help? More so you stop worrying about it, I doubt anyone else would notice a difference.

No. 680606

How can I be less serious and take things less seriously?

No. 680607

>>680598
i don't think anyone would notice unless they're paying particular attention to your facial structure. most people aren't really conscious of things like that. i've looked into getting fillers tho

No. 680612

>>680598
Nobody notices. I have an extremely asymmetrical jawline and my group of friends didn't notice until I explained it to them in detail and showed them my pictures + mirrored them lmao
Since then I honestly felt a lot less insecure about it, people genuinely don't notice and if they do, they don't really care

No. 680646

>>680598
My own parents didn't notice until I showed them. Most, if not all, people have an asymmetrical face, our brain just auto corrects it. Unless they either have flipped vision or be super creepy and stare at you for 7hours from multiple angles,you have nothing to worry about.

No. 680649

>>680605
>>680607
>>680612
>>680646
Thanks for the reassurance! I'm glad there's a place for dumb things like this on here.

No. 680663

>>680606
Take the "no one cares/nothing matters" approach

No. 680666

>>680583
Am American, no, they're overrated/a meme. Try a zebra cake or hoho instead if you want a shitty cake, but if you want to experience twinkies, by all means you should.

No. 680671

>>680583
No they're awful. I don't know how they got so much hype. Oatmeal creme pies and moonpies (the yellow ones) are good if you want to stay in that snack-cake range. Tbh though, some of those cakes can be too sweet, so you should probably try some other junk-food.

No. 680676

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>>680671
Samefag but don't get these moonpies either. The Lil Debbie moonpies are superior.

No. 680692

Is r/adultsurvivors an okay sub?

No. 680695

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Is GOT worth reading?
I love medieval shit and wanted to dive in some books with the theme but all that (actually not that historically accurate) rape makes me iffy.

No. 680697

>>680692
It's reddit so no

No. 680698

>>680695
The Mists of Avalon series weren't written by a scrote and read pretty well. Don't know about GOT, the TV series is shit though.

No. 680699

>>680695
Yeaah… Better turn out to YA then. Must medieval stuff written for adultes will feature rape. It goes with that time.

No. 680702

File: 1606230032716.jpg (92.51 KB, 780x676, GoT.jpg)

>>680695
No. It's basically twilight for men.

No. 680703

>>680698
I vaguely remember one of my history teachers loving theses books lmao, gonna give it a look.
>>680699
Im not iffy about adult content or sexual assault, if its handled well, but apparently GRRM can't keep his rape kink out of his stories the sheer amount of rape he shoved in game thrones from the looks of it is fucking unreal even by historical standards, someone actually counted the number of instances where sexual assualt happens and its, roll the drums:

214.

214 times.

Like come on, its inexcusable at this point. He has a thing for it.
But everyone loves to sing songs of praise for GOT, so it makes me wonder.


>>680702
Dear beezejus, Tolkien it is then lmao.

No. 680712

>>680695
Read the Wheel of Time series instead.

>>680703
I was able to stomach the rape enough to read the first book because there were a handful of characters I like. The problem is that some of the chapters are written from the perspective of really boring characters. I was so tempted to skip Catelyn's chapters. I also find the way Martin writes sex scenes to be profoundly unsexy, and I feel like he has fetishes for lactation and incest.

No. 680718

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What website could you buy figurines like pic related on? I want this one, but I don't know anything about Japanese figures so I have no idea where I would even purchase one lol

No. 680720

>>680718
Good Smile Company has their own amazon anon

No. 680721

>>680718

Try asking on the toy thread in /m/

No. 680723

>>680606
I like to think "will this matter in 5 years?" the 99% of the times it's a no and I calm down

No. 680724

>>680720
Thanks anon, like I said I don't really know anything about figures. I think I'll also try the crunchyroll shop.

No. 680729

>>680697
Kek thank you

No. 680732

>>680698
The Mists of Avalon weren't written by a scrote but were written by a pedophile and a pedophile apologist.

No. 680735

>>680732
Marion Zimmer Bradley?
Welp, her ass is dead now, and I bought all her shit at the used bookstore anyway and she didn't get royalties for it, so I guess life goes on for me.

No. 680738

Anons who met their SO outside of dating apps, how did you met them?

No. 680740


No. 680741


No. 680742

>>680738
We met during an online RPG. His sister brought him into the group because she knew he liked space themed stuff. After that, I would just randomly message him on discord and then we hit it off from there. Met up a few months later, now we live together and have been together for 3 years.

No. 680745

>>680741
Anon….

No. 680746

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No. 680747

>>680738
Work at what's both of our secondary job. It's still cute when we get shifts together here and there.

No. 680749

>>680741
I dated an r9k faggot before (we met on discord with a bunch of 4chan fags). He was… legitimately autistic. and also racist despite me being black???. He admitted to voting for Trump for the keks, also admitted to being openly racist towards specifically black women in his past. Autistically clinging to his "chad" military friend like he needed life support. Just a fucked up, insecure guy.

We didn't last much longer after that.

No. 680750

>>680741
Unless you met organically through a hobby board, /soc/ relationship finder threads are really no different than dating apps if that's what you meant.

No. 680751

>>680738
Playing D&D kek

No. 680752

>>680749
Anon this just makes you look bad

No. 680753

>>680676
>twinkies awful
>lil debbie being superior to anything
what's wrong with you

No. 680754

>>680752
I don't really care. I was like 19 and had just gotten out of an abusive relationship so, I was desperate.

No. 680762

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>>680753
Sorry anon, but it's just the cold hard truth. The original moonpies just aren't that good. The cookie part has a weird texture. Lil Debbie pies are thicker and don't skimp on the marsh. Kinda sad when a brand takes another brand's idea and does it better, huh?

Idk what they put in Twinkies but they just aren't good at all. Literally just a sugar overload. Who the fuck is even buying them.

No. 680763

Guaranteed instant replies.

>>680749
He sounds pretty shitty. Insecurities can be dismissed, but blatant racism is pretty unsalvageable. You got out of it though, so at least you can say you had the shitty experience I guess.
>>680750
It was on a friendship thread, not a relationship one, but I get it if it doesn't count. It was after not fucking around in the cancer that is /soc/ for months. I replied to his post, and I have no fucking clue why. We were friends for several years first.

No. 680769

I’m not glow I swear but how does one source fun time substances online?

No. 680777

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>>680676
>>680762
Eeww virgin moonpies vs chad Orion Choco Pies

No. 680780

Has anyone here had any luck in convincing a scrote to kill themselves? I need tips(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 680782

>>680583
They're okay but they're boring.
Certainly better than this weird tasting shite
>>680676
>>680777
>>680762
Who tf likes moonpies unironically? Gross. Mealy off-taste cookies with marshmallow splooge MmMmMmMmmmmmmm

No. 680792

>>680782
It makes more sense to like Twinkies ironically than it does to like Moonpies ironically. Who would like Moonpies ironically?

No. 680796

>>680782
Bitch, who likes Twinkies unironically?

No. 680797

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No. 680806

>>680780
I'd advise you not to commit crimes.

No. 680810

Why do men like to mix sex with death and pain? I cannot understand what is sexually attractive about choking or spanking at all. Choking is literally meant to kill people.

No. 680812

>>680810
I can't speak for the people who like to choke, but there is a reason autoerotic asphyxiation is a thing. It generally feels good to cum while also gasping for air.

No. 680813

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No. 680815

>>680812
That would make sense if they wanted it done to them. I have never had a man ask me to choke them, they always wanna choke me.

No. 680816

>>680812
Hard disagree. Have unfortunately had this done to me (yes, "properly"), by some pornsick scrote, and it's nothing but a distraction.

No. 680817

>>680815
Samefag, exactly.

No. 680818

>>680816
You can disagree, but that doesn't make it untrue. I wasn't specifically talking about it being good when someone else chokes you. Just in general, it can feel amazing.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/erotic-asphyxiation

No. 680821

>>680817
And since we know most men dont give a shit about pleasuring a woman sexually it cant be that they're trying to make it hot for us. If that were the case they would all be super excited about eating pussy.

No. 680822

Not sure if right thread but can an anon recommend a cooking youtube channel for beginners? Preferrably vegetarian? It would be cool if it features a lot of different food from different places. I only know how to cook breakfast stuff and pasta and I wanna do more cooking.

No. 680824

>>680815
Ive had several men wanting to be choked and not expecting choking in return

No. 680827

>>680815
I’ve deffo had a man ask me to choke them to the point of passing out. Requested to be hit with closed fists/eyes blackened, and to be pegged.
That sex was fucking wild, I should have married that guy.

No. 680828

>>680822
She has great variety but it's vegan

No. 680829

>>680818
The degeneracy of risking death for the sake of a slightly better orgasm and it being encouraged by "health" sites

No. 680832

>>680815
Every man I was with liked being lightly choked, just had no idea until I suggested it and we tried. It's just not something they see in porn so they have no idea, gotta open their horizons first.

No. 680836

>>680724
>>680718
Anon, i highly recommend buying from AmiAmi store. They even sell figures that had previous owners for cheaper prices, but u always have to pay attention to items condition rating. Amiami is the best japanese figure and merch service Iever used tbh, even one small figure they pack it very nice and thoughtfully to make sure it will never get damaged during shipping.they always have all the latest goods and pre-orders. Crunchyroll is a shit company.

No. 680841

>>680828
Thank you anon! This channel looks about what I wanted.

No. 680852

Is anyone else capable of thinking nothing at all? Like sometimes I just observe my surroundings and there are genuinely no thoughts in my head…Is this normal?

No. 680854

>>680852
How do you know you're not thinking without thinking about it?

No. 680855

>>680494
>>680553
I'm just disappointed because I definitely had a HUGE glow up in my late teens to early 20s and I expected dating in my 20s would be better since men would be more mature. So while I (and most other women) are pretty attractive (6/10-9/10 range), the men that are supposed to be our dating pool are like 4/10 face wise. Not to mention the hairlines and their bodies. It's so bad that some of the men that I'd consider to be in my league are actually male models (lesser known ones ofc and it's because the standards for men are so so low) but I don't wanna fuck with that because all men are incredibly egotistical by default, just imagine how bad a man who's told he's hot for a living would be.

No. 680857

>>680836
Wow thank you anon! This website has so much cute stuff, I might get a little more than just a figurine lol I really hope they have the Snow Miku nenoroid when it drops
>>680852
Sometimes I space out like that but I quickly snap out of it cause intrusive thoughts.

No. 680860


No. 680869

>>680852
I want to be that way all the time, it sounds peaceful.
t. mental case

No. 680880

>>680852
Yes and no? Even when I space out I have thoughts (lol), but the closest I've been to what you described was when I was angry/under a lot of stress and ran out of energy to be angry.
t. another mental case

No. 680896

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I don't really have anywhere else to ask this question so I guess I'll just ask here. I've recently come into some money (around 10k sterling) and I've been thinking about running away. Due to severe family troubles and other things I don't want to elaborate on here I've been pretty miserable for a while and I don't think anything good will result if I continue this way. But if I stayed I would be able to get a university education ect but I'd probably still be miserable. Should I take the risk and run away to a different country? I just want to be happy. But maybe I'm romanticising this option too much.

No. 680897

Is it a bad idea to try to get into nursing due to the current state of the world? I was planning to do that after my associates, but idk.

No. 680899

>>680896
Money doesn't last that long, if you can keep it untouched then you should stay for the degree. Then after you graduate, move away.

No. 680900

>>680899
I meant to add that it's easier to get a visa and certain jobs once you have a degree. This is harder to bear but will set you up with a better long term plan.

No. 680902

>>680899
>>680900
Thanks anon, I thought as much. Just letting myself get carried away I guess.

No. 680904

>>680896
Why dont you just move to a diff city or part of country?

No. 680908

>>680896
That is not going to last very long if you move away now anon. I agree with the other anon that said to wait to finish your education and then move. Also make sure you can actually get a job in whatever country you decide to move to. You don't want to just be sitting around waiting for a good job opportunity while burning away your money. Also, making investments with that could be good. The misery will be worth it anon, I promise.

No. 680915

>>680896
>But maybe I'm romanticising this option too much
You are.

Move to a different part of your country if you must, find a cozy place to live and a job you like well enough. Use the rest of your money to travel.

Moving to a different country is a huge pain in the ass and you'll lose your entire inheritance just getting the right permits and paperwork, that's not even taking into consideration learning a different language and being completely cut off from people you know. You're on lolcow so I'm guessing you're not the most extroverted person out there, and making friends will be even harder with a language barrier and the fact that you're foreign.

No. 680924

I can't view anything on Instagram anymore without having an account? I was just looking at random shit as always but suddenly it says I need to log in wherever I go? At first I thought it was only the hashtags but now it's also normal public accounts for me …

What is this?

No. 680942

>>680738
Calculus class. I didn't actually need the class so I only stayed in it long enough to get his number, and then dropped it.

No. 680957

>>680738
an art site, but she ended up being way more flakey in her political beliefs so we broke up

No. 680961

>>680924
i think it's been like that for a while

No. 680964

>>680738
last.fm

>>680961
I see, I guess the update reached me today. Why do all social media sites go to shit tho jesus …

No. 680966

>>680738
We were both interns at the same company

No. 680984

Can being a hypocrite ever be reasonable or justified? Any anons have experiences of being a hypocrite and being aware of their hypocrisy while still passionate about their perspective?

No. 680988

>>680810
I know you didn't ask but technically it's *strangulation since choking is a blockage inside of your throat. Of course "strangulation" sounds terrible so the depraved kinksters have to refer to it incorrectly so that fewer people question their perfectly healthy, sane, consensual, loving, ethical, sex positive kinks. It's truly a sad world that we live in where health sites push aside [largely] women's safety to give in to sexual degeneracy like violence >>680818 (and troonery for example).
>>680815
If a man wants to strangle you then please run the other way; it's a sign that they take violence and hurting women super lightly. And also bad that they associate violence with sex–strangulation is just one of many forms of kinks that are used to kill women.

No. 680993

Is there a way to actually turn a tradthot pickme that is desperate of male's attention and hates women into _a normal person_ ? Is there any way to show them the right path and has that ever happened?

No. 680996

>>680993
i don't think women or men can be socialized differently.

No. 680998

>>680993
Depends how old they are. Younger ones maybe, but ones that have been spouting that shit for years and have went way beyond just having internalized misogyny - unlikely.

No idea how to change the ones that might be saved though, sorry. I think part of it can’t be forced.

No. 680999

>>680993
Lead by example. You can't change anyone, but you can plant seeds so they can change themselves

No. 681000

>>678929
i know it's called out-of-pocket..but is there a way to retroactively send a bill to your insurance? i've had multiple friends say they've done it. idk how.

No. 681003

>>681000
nvm, called superbilling. i just don't know how to do it

No. 681005

Euro anons, how safe am I as a female burgerfag living abroad on my own in the EU (and UK) for a year (or two?) for a masters? I'm looking at schools to apply to and have seen options in the following countries. I am applying to schools in the US as well but the EU has cheaper options by far. I don't plan on working in that country, just getting my masters and going back to the US. So I have no idea which options are the best and which countries should be an absolute no. Some have multiple schools and others only have one (Norway for instance).
- France (ISIL attacks are bad here)
- Germany
- Spain
- Netherlands (has a bunch of options)
- Poland
- Belgium
- Czech Republic
- UK
- Portugal
- Norway
I've lived on my own in undergrad but I'm anxious about the presence of ISIL. Ik as a burgerfag we have shootings all the time but our attacks are rarely as sophisticated in planning as the ones that have happened in Europe.
Any comments aside from safety are welcome too, I just wanna know which ones should be an absolute no and which ones Euro anons would suggest. Sorry if this comes off as ridiculous, I know my own country is fucked up.

No. 681006

>>681003
You don't do anything with superbilling.

Your therapist sends you a superbill, and you submit a claim to your insurance. Your insurance will definitely have a convoluted way of submitting a claim (because they don't want people submitting claims) but it should be fairly easy with "how to submit a claim {insurance company}"

No. 681014

>>681005
of the euro countries I know or know people that have lived there:

no: France, Belgium, UK
yes but depending on a city: Germany (western cities>eastern cities) , Poland (Warsaw, Wroclaw, Krakow)
yes in general: Norway, Netherlands, Czech Republic

No. 681039

>>681014
why not Belgium?

No. 681045

>>681043
I write in cursive because it is easier and stylish, I don't care. I have a mixture of both styles.

No. 681048

How to deal with being overwhelmed with stress?

No. 681051

>>681048
I walk around my room or take showers

No. 681052

>>681039
Same as France, unrest in bigger cities, nothing to do in small ones. Good for vacations though!
Ultimately though I'd focus on selecting the best University regardless of the country because the difference between safety levels of all European countries is not that big to be a main deciding factor really.

No. 681053

How the fuck does one write like an adult?
In school we learned cursive, but after elementary school most girls started writing in print(?)like. I tried a few times to write like them, but I'm slower than a turtle and it looks like shit.. Cursive feels more natural and a lot faster to me, but most women (and some nerdy guys) I know write quickly in that nice print like caligraphy and I feel like a dumb hick. When it's to fill small forms I try to write print, but if it's more than a line it takes fucking forever. I can't fucking imagine writing notes and exams in that way, I tried practicing during the summer but it's so fucking impratical.

>>681005
In my limited experience Portugal and Spain are safe (Portugal a bit more than Spain, but maybe that's about the numbers). I also felt safe (and heard good things about) in Germany, but it was before the mass immigration. I think Eastern Europe is also relatively safe, as long you are not to close to the russian borders (but maybe that's just for the locals, i dunno). France right now seems like fucking hell, but small and bigger cities.

No. 681054

>>681053
Cursive was invented to make writing faster. I find print to be slow and inefficient as well. You do you fellow cursive-sis. Fuck the haters.

No. 681060

I want to make a thread for good reaction pics (I love the ones you anons use), would it be fine here in /ot/ or would /m/ be better?

No. 681062

>>681060
There's an images thread in /m/ already, but /m/ would still be a good place for it.

No. 681176

>>681053
I write in a combination of print and cursive. Connecting my letters happens naturally when I write fast so that's kind of become my default handwriting. I definitely had some of the best 'girl handwriting' growing up though anon, so trust me when I say that print handwriting doesn't matter past high school.
>>681053
>>681052
>>681014
Thanks anons for the advice. I will definitely have to choose primarily based on where I get in but I just wanted to get a rough idea before planning out my applications.

No. 681205

do you think a cool person is even cooler if they don't use any social media?

No. 681206

>>681054
nta but a related stupid question: if you change your handwriting can that go against you ? I want to switch to cursive cus i'm so slow and i am good at it. I've done so before gradually and it was fine but there is this fear they'll think i'm a fake or forger or something idfk. I have anxiety

No. 681209

How do anons take screenshots of cows' content (i.e. Snapchat or Instagram stories)? Do you guys not get worried that they'll block you for it?

No. 681215

>>681205
Yes tbh, considering how much social media brainwashes us
.

No. 681217

Besides 4chan, reddit, Twitter, lolcow, and tumblr what are some websites I can go to when I'm tired of reading the same things and also bored?

No. 681221

>>681217
pinterest and youtube

No. 681222

>>681205
Yes, I definetely do

No. 681256

why do so many people want to be blonde?

No. 681261

>>681256
It's highly idealized and studies prove that people really do find blonde women most attractive, they get better tips, more tinder matches, are seen as more youthful, etc etc. I'm sure anyone who wants to go blonde has figured that out.

No. 681265

>>681256
personally i naturally have black hair and it looks like shit on me and washes me out, blonde suits me a lot better overall

No. 681269

>>681005
ISIL shouldn’t be a major concern about going to France. Some of the attacks were awful but in the past 4+ years they’ve killed a handful of people at most. Half the time they are directly targeting the police, so not a concern for you. Honestly I wouldn’t even think about ISIL.

Keep in mind the U.K. generally offers 1 year MAs compared to the European 2 year. Idk if this will be a problem in the USA but in Europe a U.K. MA can be considered lesser. If finances are an issue, the U.K. is also pretty expensive for living costs as is Norway, idk about elsewhere.

If you’re monolingual then the U.K. and Netherlands are good choices. The other languages are relatively easy to learn some of but Czech/Polish would be harder. If safety is a major concern for you then learning to communicate as well as possible should be a priority.

Of course safety varies from city to city so keep that in mind. Generally all the places you’ve mentioned are among the safest countries in the world, you’re only questioning it because you’re not a native. It’s understandable but keep in mind websites and people will flag up any risks no matter how unlikely they are to actually happen.

No. 681278

Anons, help. How would a person who secretly dislikes you text?

No. 681281

>>681278
I don’t think you’ll get any helpful answers without some context and the text itself. It’s very difficult to read tone in text, so unless the message is literally “you’re a nasty bitch” and is definitely not a joke, it’s probably almost impossible to tell.

No. 681298

Is it normal that I always feel super thirsty after eating chocolate or a cake or anything sweet?

No. 681309

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What's your opinion on huge sneakers making a comeback?

No. 681313

Has anyone tried Schema therapy? I know what it is about in theory (there are supposedly various schemas and modes in people's lives that they live according to), but what actually happens in a session?

No. 681314

>>681298
Yes, sugar will make you thirsty.

No. 681317

>>681314
ah okay, thanks. I was starting to worry that I might have diabetes even though I'm not overweight

No. 681324

>>681309
Why? Are you scared farmers are going to laugh at you for wearing them or are you just trying to gauge whether you made a good business decision last night when you drunkenly bought out Buffalo?

No. 681325

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No. 681332

Why are the uncles always the creepy ones? I don’t get it, like, it’s your family, not some rando you found on the street that day.

No. 681336

>>681324
I don't really care if farmers like them, I know a lot of people hate them already but I've loved them since the 90's. I just was wondering if people had any interesting outfit combinations with chunky shoes.

No. 681337

>>681325
It seems like it got deleted, blocked or something because I used to be able to find it on the first page of google by looking for stuff like “suicide tips” or “how to kill yourself” and such.

No. 681339

>>681309
I think it’s pretty nice, I honestly want a pair just to feel like a bratz doll or a sanic character maybe they will look cute with short skirts or skinny jeans?

No. 681340

>>681332
1. They’re men.
2. There’s usually enough of a mental disconnect for them to be creepier than they would if you were a direct relative

No. 681346

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>>681309
I think they look cool but knowing myself I'd break my neck in them so I'll just stick to Converse and Vans.

No. 681356

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What's it feel like to genuinely believe you're a good person?

No. 681358

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>>681309
I really like chunky sneakers but they've been in for awhile and I'm afraid that they're going to look dated sooner than later. It seems like sleeker, 70s inspired styles are also making a comeback and I just feel more comfortable buying something like picrel

No. 681363

>>681339
You should get them! Those are some great suggestions, I feel like they look a little better with baggy jeans over skinny ones though.

>>681346
Honestly, platform sneakers are super easy to walk in. The only problem is that they're kinda heavy.

>>681358
Yeah, you're right. They will probably be out of fashion soon but thankfully I got them because I think they're cute. Those shoes are cute though! What would you wear them with?

No. 681365

A few years back there was this lolita cow posted here (not sure if she had her own thread or was featured in one of the general lolita cows one) that used to wear this amazing pair of angel wings with her coords. Does anyone know what I am talking about and where to get wings like these? I think they probably were produced by a lolita clothing company, but I'm not sure.

No. 681371

>>681309
eh, I don't care for huge sneakers, although there are better than the ugly sneaker trend. I wish a more feminine and classic style would come back in fashion.

No. 681382

>>681363
Good for you anon! I keep going back and forth on getting myself a pair of chunky sneakers even if I can only wear them for a year or so. Tbh I'd probably style the Adidas runners with straight leg jeans and an oversized sweaters or tucked-in button down, but my style is extremely basic and safe kek

No. 681383

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Sort of a stupid rhetorical question but why do we women hate ourselves so much that some of us don't even want to BE women.

No. 681385

>>681383
internalized misogyny due to patriarchy and sexism

No. 681386

>>681383
I just never felt like a woman. I could never relate to what was considered feminine or typically girlish interests but I don't want to be a man either. I'm pretty sure it's partly due to the expectations and the treatment you get for being a woman. I don't hate other women, only the ones that kind of impose certain expectations and obligations just because of my sex.
In my eyes, whatever you do, you lose if you're a woman. The only way to win is to not to play at all meaning renouncing you're a woman.

No. 681388

>>681386
Nobody "feels" like a woman or man because contrary to what people believe it's not a feeling, it's one of many characteristics people can have. My dad doesn't wake up feeling like a man either, and I bet you don't wake up feeling brown-eyed, brunette or blood type A-. What a stupid time we live in.
Instead of fighting against misogyny and societal norms people would rather stick their head in the sand and become the ultimate NLOG by LARPing as a man or "a shapeless void", setting women and feminism back 50 years. I'm sorry you feel like shit about your perfectly functioning body that some scrotoid will call fat because he's bitter and sexually frustrated, but it's not something that can change.

No. 681394

>>681386
>In my eyes, whatever you do, you lose if you're a woman. The only way to win is to not to play at all meaning renouncing you're a woman.
You do realize that you're only hurting yourself and other women by doing that, right? You'll never be a man or even genderless. Pretending that you are something else because you hate the stereotypes associated with being a woman only further serve to paint women in a negative light. Like being a woman is inherently a negative thing and the only way to fight back against it is to run away and pretend you're something "better" instead of demanding respect for what you actually are.

No. 681396

Why do so many people seem to be autistic/want to be diagnosed with autism now? It's just seems like…another thing to add to your twitter/tumblr bio. Like why would you want to be autistic.

No. 681397

>>681386
I agree with >>681388 that being a woman isn’t a feeling but my experiences are similar to yours and in the past I had the same thoughts. Never had a trans/genderspecial phase but felt profoundly unfeminine, but also not masculine. However these feelings led to me becoming more feminist because I wasn’t traditionally ‘feminine’, I didn’t want to be restricted by something that was unrelatable to me, and I sure as hell didn’t want either myself or any women I knew to experience sexism in any form.

> In my eyes, whatever you do, you lose if you're a woman.

True, but you lose harder when you attempt to defect to the other side.

No. 681398

>>681386
>In my eyes, whatever you do, you lose if you're a woman. The only way to win is to not to play at all meaning renouncing you're a woman.
traumatized fakeboi type of logic. I beg you to go to a therapy, and I do not mean it as an insult. Speaking from personal experience (as I used to think like this too), you need to get help.

No. 681399

>>681386
>In my eyes, whatever you do, you lose if you're a woman. The only way to win is to not to play at all meaning renouncing you're a woman.
Anon renouncing you're a woman doesn't prevent you from being perceived as one, and the world reacts and treats you accordingly. It's more useful to liberate yourself from those expectations and say "fuck off" than renounce womanhood.

No. 681402

>>681396
It’s relatively easy to fake, an excuse for people who are just awkward or not socialized to scream about ableism, high-functioning autists (especially women) can live independent lives so self diagnosis doesn’t mean acting like an actual retard. Probably also currently popular among women due to the surge in diagnoses/interest in autistic females when it used to be considered a male issue.

No. 681404

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>>681397
>>681386
>In my eyes, whatever you do, you lose if you're a woman. The only way to win is to not to play at all meaning renouncing you're a woman.
Wrong. You can't win, because it's not something you can renounce, you can just look like a clockable cringe machine of a fakeboi and it still won't stop people from discriminating against you. Do you think a rapist will ask for your pronouns before they decide to rape you? Do you think girls in third world countries can identify their way out of breast ironing and FGM?

If you ignore the problems and let them get bigger instead of actively fighting against the oppression you already face, you'll be losing the hardest. Things will never get better, you will never have good self-esteem or love yourself with all your faults and flaws, and you will never meet strong female role models who would be on your side otherwise.

No. 681408

>>681402
Im on the process of gettin my diagnosis done, but I have severe sensory issues since childhood, and basically no one would even think of diagnosing girls with ASD, my mom said she suffered alot because she couldn't figure out what was wrong with me, doctors didn't listen and everyone treated her like she was a bad mom, girls with autism symptoms were treated as if they were just acting out.
Even when I was a teenager and malnourished and underweight from extreme picky eating, again sensory issues, the doctor had the gall to look im my face and tell me I was lying and I was just anorexic and to get psyhcological help, when explicitly said I didn't like being so underweight, that my problems with food were extremely distressing and even if i wanted to eat I couldn't bear with textures and smells of food, texbook austist.

No. 681410

>>681408
Sorry that happened to you anon, I do think autism in girls and women is under-diagnosed which is supposedly improving now at least. Just a shame that it looks like some people are using it as a fashion accessory. Hope you finally get your diagnosis and help.

No. 681411

>>681408
That's awful, anon, I'm so sorry you went through that. Doctors are awful about listening to women, much less teen girls. I hope that since it is becoming more known amongst women, your diagnosis and future treatment go smoothly.

No. 681413

>>681005
I get that ISIL attacks are big in the news. But look at how many people have actually been killed by them and in what timeframe. Compare that to the rate of shootings in the US. You'll be safer in all of the countries listed.

I think you should focus on what countries you like. Are you interested in the language and the culture? What's the cost of living like? Ect.

No. 681418

>>681383
Source for the pic?

No. 681421

>>681410
Indeed, most of the times it seems like the tiktok/tumblr types use it as an excuse on why they are socially awkward and shy, which is very funny to me because while I do struggle with forming long-lasting relationships im pretty fucking extroverted lol
Im actually pretty lucky that most of the obviously tard characteristics I have can be hidden pretty easily, people tend to only take an issue with the fact that I wear headphones in public, background noise really REALLY bothers me, specially in supermarkets, college and shopping malls, but now I got airpods, if anyone bothers me about it nowadays I just say I like Life Having a Soundtrack uwu like a quirky art hoe.

>>681411
Male doc looks at spoopy teen girl that "doesn't eat" and immediatelly jumps to anorexia ffs.
Thanks im mostly getting a late diagnosis because my mom said it would make her happy and relieved to know whats wrong with me, and that she wasn't a bad mom after all, and so I can easily explain to people why im "weird" because people, specially men. love to be rude about it, "wah wah you just need to grow up and stop being so childish".

No. 681431

>>681386
It's the kind of logic that lead to "it's OK to treat other women a centrain way, but not me". And I get it, because I was like that when I was younger. I was so unfeminine and unattractive (fat teen) growing up, that I fortunately never really experienced too much of that pushy creepy men bullshit. So when every now and then someone makes like a remark about me being a woman, my internal reflex is "fuck you, don't play that shit with ME". But most women could do without people pointing out that they're a woman in a men's space or that they're only getting nice treatment because they're a lady.

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No. 681447

>>681383
I dislike the physical sensation of having female body parts. It feels like they're not supposed to be there, to a point where I get panicky and nauseous if something accidentally touches my chest. Idc about feeling feminine or how I look on the outside, I just want to be sexless and blank.

No. 681448

Does donating blood plasma have negative consequences in the long run?

No. 681454

So kind of a art or how one see themselves question. I'm not trying to bait but why do some people draw themselves lighter skin?

Like I have an art friend and there black/mixed hispanic with chocolate skin but they draw and make themselves much lighter. And today another friend when creating a picrew who is a dark tan made themselves very pale like my complexion but ours is totally different.

I know this is an extra stupid question and I could just ask them but it may seem rude. Like I dont think this is "its cause of the lighting" argument, its just something I've realized with people.

No. 681456

>>681454
Colorism and selfhate.

No. 681490

What's your favorite function? Mine is the logarithm because log(x)+log(y)=log(xy) isn't that great

No. 681491

>>681386
>In my eyes, whatever you do, you lose if you're a woman. The only way to win is to not to play at all meaning renouncing you're a woman.
While this is true, putting they/them in your twitter bio doesn't really make the society see you as "not woman". You will still be seen as a woman in everyone's eyes, even the people buying into the tranny meme will still group "nonbinaries" as biological females and treat you as such. Which is why it's only an unhealthy cope.

No. 681502

>>681447
I don't like having breasts either.
>workout is harder and needs heavy support
>was never a flirty type/don't really want to use my breasts to get ahead
>get bombarded with messages on what are "good looking boobs" by men, so you'll probably just feel worse just because some rando woman's image on the internet has perkier tits
So I understand just wanting to be flat. But I don't feel physical discomfort. You should probably get professional help with that, especially if it comes from the unwanted sexualization of your body by someone from your environment.

No. 681550

>>681205
I have no social media and some people who don't know me told my friend that I must be hideously ugly bc of it. Then again I'm not a cool person lol.
>>681269
>>681413
Thanks anon for this advice! Ultimately if I could choose I'd wanna go to Italy but they don't have any programs. The UK (costly tuition tbh), France, Netherlands, and Germany are probably the best options because of the number of programs and their expertise in my field. Ultimately I'm only trying to go abroad because the tuition is a lot cheaper and because European programs in my field make American programs look useless in comparison. And even if the tuition costs more then I'd rather pay 30k to a UK program that teaches me 3x what I'd learn in a 2 year masters program in the US.

No. 681571

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Does this make anyone else feel really queasy or am i just too sensitive today?

I'm not saying disabled people don't deserve love but having prostitutes paid for, and they even choose appearance and all? it just leaves a really bad taste in my mouth to say sex is a human right and have government pay for it, it's like that government mandated gf meme but real and everyone agrees with it, i don't know if i'm just wrong though

No. 681574

>>681571
This seems gross as fuck male cumbrain entitlement. No one deserves sex. Everyone has the right to pick and choose and say yes or no. What kinda absolute sexism bullshit is this

No. 681580

>>681571
Disgusting. They can get some sex toys if they want, but a prostitute fund is an awful concept.

No. 681582

>>681571
I think that regardless of how wrong this is, males are extremely violent and dangerous, and being unmarried makes them even more so. If state-mandated visits to prostitutes keep them in check I say that's a good thing. The prostitutes are making a living off of it too.

No. 681584

>>681582
>liberal feminism

No. 681585

>>681571
Wait can someone confirm if this is real? I'm from the Netherlands and have never heard of this before.

No. 681586

>>681491
Nta but yeah it's a way of coping for young girls who don't want to deal with being sexualized even if it only gives a sense of security in their heads, a lot of girls used to be tomboys as a way of coping with this and with the expectations that come with being a woman.

No. 681587

>>681582
If you give a mouse a cookie

No. 681588

>>681585
Yeah it is, up to 12 sessions a year and it's classified as mental healthcare i think.

>>681582
I don't think being able to buy women will make them view us any better kek

>>681580
>>681574
I'm glad i'm not the only one, everyone seemed to think this was awesome and progressive because of some vice doc

No. 681590

>>681584
It's not feminism of any kind, it's just being pragmatic. You can stamp your feet about how males should be civilized and about how the problem shouldn't exist, but fact of the matter is that they aren't and it does. Denial doesn't solve the problem.

I'm not even convinced that this would solve anything, but if did it would be stupid to opposite it on moral grounds.

No. 681594

>>681582
Idk, prostitutes could easily be abused by this. There's already tons of abuse in the sex industry, and it really won't be different here. Plus, if this is real, then I doubt they're like, government provided prostitutes. I think this is literally just giving them money to go out and find prostitutes, and like I said, there's bound to be abuse there.

I'm not necessarily against sex-workers, but it's important to remember they're not all girls making videos on onlyfans. A lot of them are women being abused by pimps, getting raped, addicted to drugs, underage, csa survivors, etc…

I agree with the other anon who said to just give them sex toys. Plus, I don't think a that many women want to have sex with disabled men.

No. 681595

>>681582
>The prostitutes are making a living off of it too
You're not the coerced trafficked prostitute, that's why you're saying this.

No. 681596

>>681588
My god I fucking hate this country's stance on prostitution. I think we pride ourselves too much on our liberalism without ever thinking consequences through.

No. 681598

>>681590
I was being sarcastic, tard. But yeah, since men are incapable of being civilized and circumventing this problem in other ways without exploiting living, breathing women, let's continue to allow women to suffer and pretend they're liberated and getting that bag. Disgusting.

No. 681601

Black friday deals really aren't that good, are they? All I see are 15/20% discounts, maybe 25%, but they do that during other sales throughout the year aswell.

No. 681603

>>681601
They haven't been good since 2016 roughly..back then my sites actually did 40-70% off which was better than the summer deals of 10-25%. Only place I know that might do sales that large still are craft shops, but their coupons will still have limits on equipment like sewing machines ffs.

No. 681604

>>681594
It seems like they aren't just going windowshopping for prostitutes. I did a quick search, because I couldn't really picture that they just hand out "fuck money" and tell these guys to find one, because I think they can still be refused.

>"The Green party’s spokeswoman for age and care policy, Elisabeth Scharfenberg, said the government could “provide grants” for sexual services to disabled people who cannot achieve satisfaction by any other means.


>Such a system is currently operating in Denmark and the Netherlands, where certified “sexual assistants” with special training conduct visits to disabled people who cannot afford to pay themselves."


So these sex workers get a special training. Makes sense, since I don't think any prostitute would just know what to do with a burn victim or a low functioniong autistic adult.

No. 681605

>>681571
This ehhh leaves a bad taste in mouth. Yes most people get horny but the government paying for it is a bit much. Pretty sure disabled can still find love or pay ther own prostitute or something.

No. 681612

>>681595
Are "coerced and trafficked prostitutes" common in the Netherlands? From what I hear they crack down on trafficking pretty hard and take precautions to keep legal prostitution supervised and relatively safe.

>>681598
Hey sis, if you prefer them to murder and rape freely that's your choice. Not sure how being paid for by the government makes these women any more "exploited" than they already are as literal prostitutes.

No. 681620

>>681612
I'm not concerned about men that are so disabled that they have to get government sanctioned prostitutes raping and murdering freely in one of the least violent countries in the world, galaxy brain.
>Not sure how being paid for by the government makes these women any more "exploited" than they already are as literal prostitutes.
It only solidifies the belief that women's literal bodies and sexuality are commodities to be moderated and paid for by the government to have them serve the literal lowest caliber of men who, again, are so disabled that they'd apparently be incapable of getting their own privately.

But sure, SiS, cater to male coomerism in the name of keeping the world safe from rape and murder at the expense of prostitutes because men cumming is more important than women's dignity or exploitation.

No. 681626

Help me decide anons.
Should I take methylfolate supplement without taking the MTHR gene test? I can buy a lower dose (400mcg).
Why this is important? Because I suffer from chronic fatigue for a years now and I can't beat this shit.
I can take the MTHR gene test but I'm not sure if I want to give people my DNA information (and also it's pricey)

No. 681627

is It me or do men have a harder time telling an actual vag apart from troon hole? Why is that? Are they just that fucking stupid?
I wonder if they can clock ftm arm skin sausages better.

No. 681629

Is everyone getting emails from reddit today?

I just got a handful of emails from them, every account I ever had with them has had sus activity and needs to be password reset… Now I haven't even used it in years and I don't care about my throwaways but all 4 got emailed at the same time. Is reddit ok?

No. 681631

>>681627
Blame sex Ed. Sex ED is male-centric. It’s aaaaalllll about men and their pleasure while the clit is never mentioned and the vagina is just “put penis in and make baby”

No. 681636

>>681627
considering all of the stories about men accidentally fucking post op mtfs, they probably legit can't tell and i have no idea how

>>681629
https://haveibeenpwned.com/
that's weird af anon, check here and make sure your emails haven't been included in a breach

No. 681637

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Is "social anxiety" just the new blanket excuse for men to get out of shopping? Past few boyfriends and current absolutely loathe the type of shopping women traditionally do (food, clothes, gifts, etc.). Some claim "social anxiety" to act withdrawn, aloof, and unapproachable inside stores–with the added effect of me wanting to do shopping quicker because they're acting so put out, which serves their interest ofc. I hear men complain that women take too long and ponder too many decisions. Yet they go fucking wild when it's shopping they want to enjoy like games, hobbies and other things on their terms. Smaller niche shops for games tend to be so claustrophobic and filled with people even worse. So "social anxiety" seems like some bullshit. Plenty of men take their time researching and examining the options when it's shit they actually want.

Just wondering if anyone else has noticed this excuse-making from boyfriends, friends, or family members in general.

No. 681642

>>681604

So uhh a moid I fucked once worked as a social worker with heavily autistic clients such as these and told me they get to have sex with a trained sex worker 1-2 times a year as a special occasion. Apparently it's also supposed to prevent them from sexually assaulting people. I mean, I guess if that helps setting clear boundaries that's good. Fun pillow talk!

I'm reminded of a really horrifying comic by bakaudon that was based on a real case of a mentally disabled man raping a young girl as well.

No. 681643

>>681637
I've been lucky enough with bfs, always did the food shopping as a couple. Would go around shopping centres and try and allow each time to look at our seperate interests. Might split up to look in different stores or might agree to accompany each other and just be patient with it.

The grocery store I shop in always has husbands waiting in cars though and it's strange to me… I mean they're eating the food too, wouldn't you want to browse and see what's new? Stock changes, special offers too… not even curious? Hell they're retired men most of the time, nothing else to do and they still sit alone in a car.

No. 681646

>>681637
Kek, the picrel. I don't think it's recent, I think men have always done this, though "social anxiety" may be a new excuse for younger men. My dad would always go do his own thing and carry our (mom, me, and sister) shopping bags and coats.

No. 681649

>>681627
Men don’t know anything about or care to learn anything about vaginas. When your knowledge is simply “flaps and a hole”, of course a neovag seems like the real deal.

No. 681654

>>681642
What country are you in, anon? I vaguely remember hearing something similar before but it strikes me as weird because would heavily autistic people be able to consent? I assume they’d have a much younger emotional and mental age hence needing social services, but this is not considered in the case of hiring out sex workers?

No. 681657

>>681642
Severely autistic men sexually assaulting their female caretakers and relatives is extremely common. I watched an interview with a woman who got some media attenton because of being kicked out of their home because of her autistic son, and she was very honest about planning to put her son into an institution in a few years, because she won't physically be able to hold him off, and the chances of him molesting her are very high.

Still, I'ma bit skeptical that just having 1-2 sexual sessions with a prostitute will really help or teach anything to these men.

No. 681661

>>681627
Why is there quite so much talk about neovag and ftm dick on here lately?

No. 681662

>>681637
We always laughed at the fucking masses of sad looking husbands in front of stores. I mean I'm sure there are some men who are just genuinely exhausted/feel bad in stores. I do sometimes too, because I'm sensitive to the crappy lights and noise. But for most men it's simply "it's my wife's job, I will only be the driver, why does she take so long, I'm bored and I wannago home" instead of parttaking in their family's life. And then you get all these men that can't go grocery shopping without having their wives on the phone directing them and have no idea what size of shirt they even need to buy for themselves. They put all the mental labor of homelife and organization on their wife.

No. 681665

>>681612
Jesus christ just leave 'sis' I doubt you're even a woman

No. 681669

>>681612
>Hey sis
Nobody here is your sis, drop that cringey shit lol

No. 681670

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Should I pick male mc or female mc? I’m torn between the two because not only both are adorable looking, but I read the wise words of an anon in here
>picks the girl MC instead of the cute as hell boy MC to ship to the male characters
Should i let the otomecuckoldry in my heart win? Or should I just go full fujo mode? Being a degenerate is suffering.

No. 681672

>>681654
I'm from the Netherlands. I'm gonna assume that the clients that receive these sexual services have clearly communicated in some way or another that they are also in need of it. Not all autistic people are non-verbal after all. So I imagine consent isn't much of an issue.

>>681657
Yeah, I'm highly doubtful once or twice a year is enough to curb sexual need. I could have been wrong but I got the sense they were being taught these times are like a special occasion sort of thing so that they won't seek it out outside of these few times the sex workers are hired for them.

No. 681673

>>681662
The guys outside of grocery stores are the biggest mystery to me. I'm not girly, I don't shop for clothes in person because those types of shopping I could just do online forever and I wouldn't miss it. But when it comes to the food that I'm eating for the next week…hell yeah I want to pick out the food I'm eating. Can't imagine handing that job over to a partner and never participating in it. I want to see what snacks are new.

How can you make it right to the car park and then be like 'I'll just sit right here alone and with nothing else to do'

No. 681675

>>681670
I always choose female charas but this time I would choose this cute guy. Only because I have a soft spot for cute blonde guys.

No. 681677

>>681670
Male. because I'm a fujo and love looking at him

No. 681678

>>681675
Then I will do the same, anon, I too usually pick the girl, but this will be definitely the first time I’m picking the qt 3.1416 with the crop top.

No. 681679

>>681571
If someone has no hands and can't come by themself… then I can maybe get that. When I first heard about those kinds of grants it was in that context and I thought well that's fair.

But I don't see why anyone with an ability to use their hands or fuck a fleshlight/buy a vibrator should be entitled to orgasms from a stranger. If you can orgasm solo then you're not being deprived of anything.

No. 681681

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>>681679
>If someone has no hands and can't come by themself… then I can maybe get that.
Oh no, this reminded me of the broken arms reddit incest story, I'm so sorry girls

No. 681690

>>681627
can't relate, every guy i've talked to about it can definitely tell the difference and are repulsed by how they look

No. 681697

>>681681
I haven't read it but I feel like I know how it goes lol

No. 681698

>>681681
woah. what? never heard of this before.

No. 681709

>>681698
>>681697
tldr; guy breaks his arms and his mom jacks him off for years (starting when he was 14).

It's probably fake, but it was a verified ama. And he also apparently was working with a researcher for a paper and "non-traumatic" incest relationship.

http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/nmmjr/iama_man_who_had_a_sexual_relationship_with_his/c3a9uqg

No. 681711

>>681709
>paper and "non-traumatic" incest relationship.
*about not and. Oops.

No. 681724

>>681681
I hate you anon why did you have to remind me

>>681672
It still makes me nauseous that women and sex are treated like medicine or something. Like we have to use sacrificial lambs or they will go on and rape people, what??

I know how hard it is to have to abstain from sex for reasons beyond you but never once did i think of buying someone, it just sounds so rapey, and like i said like the government mandated gf incelverse

Well at least i'm glad i'm not the only one thinking this is a step too far

No. 681726

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>>681709
>>"They approached me one afternoon and when my mom said, 'I know you are frustrated and why you are frustrated? would you like some help masturbating?' Blood was rushing in my ears and I said yes but I really didn't know if she meant what I thought she meant. I was excited and confused. She said that she would take care of me when I went to bed. Hours away."

Please say sike.

No. 681738

>>681724
There's an enormous taboo in acknowledging that disabled people have sexual needs as well and get touch starved just as non disableds do. I'm not saying intimacy is a right but… there's more care involved in the process than you'd probably think.

Have you seen the movie 37 seconds? There's a scene where the main protagonist (who has cerebral palsy) goes through a lot of trouble to find a male escort and when she finally finds one the escort is visibly disgusted with her. His reaction to her is completely dehumanizing. It's very saddening.

No. 681741

>>681612
The reason why prostitution is banned in a lot of countries to begin with is that when you legalize it, it's much harder to differentiate legal sex work from illegal human trafficking. Think about all the bootleg products you see being sold cheap, some of them are made so good that an untrained eye wouldn't be able to tell them apart. That's basically what would happen with legalized prostitution. The pimps would just tell the officials that their prostitutes are doing it out of their free will and that their services are 100% legal while threatening the women into silence. Or they would act from the shadows and make the woman lie that she's not being pimped but doing this alone instead. Or an underage girl could be made to lie that she's a legal adult and allowed to do this. Even when talking about Netherlands a study concluded that their "legal" brothels still are used for human trafficking. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10611-013-9512-4

>The main conclusion is that the screening of brothel owners and the monitoring of the compliance of licensing conditions do not create levels of transparency that enable sex trafficking to be exposed. The prostitution business retains many characteristics of an illegitimate market and the legalization and regulation of the prostitution sector has not driven out organized crime

No. 681743

>>681738
Nta, but I think we all can recognize that some disabled people are regular people with emotions and needs. However that's not something that can be provided by the government. Not only that, but a prostitute would not actually love any of their clients so it's really not helping them. I understand that it's harder for them to find love or even just someone to have casual sex with but like anon said, that would just be using prostitutes as "medicine".

At the end of the day a prostitute isn't going to quench someone's thirst for affection. It's just a temporary fix to a bigger issue. What would be better is creating ways for disabled people to get in touch with other disabled or, or abled people who would be willing to date disabled people. Also teaching them social skills for the ones who are socially awkward.

No. 681746

>>681709
>His freaking mother asks if she should jerk him off and he gets "excited"
Retarded larping scrote detected

No. 681753

>>681709
This just reminded me of the days when I would read r/smalldickproblems

The amount of teenage guys on there who had apparently told their mom (never their dad weirdly enough) all about them thinking their penis is too small.

They'd want their mom to book them doc appts about their dick. They'd want their mom to listen to them vent about life with a small dick.. and older men replying to them would encourage them to constantly seek out empathy and encouragement from mom cos that's a mom job. No, talking about your penis to your mom when you're a teen or adult ain't normal. Book your own appt, cry to your hugbox of small dicked men and leave your mom the fuck alone.

No. 681754

>>681738
I know it's not street prostitutes, and it's awfully sad what they go through but it still doesn't justify treating sex as an actual human right like food. In her case none of the escorts wanted to, but if it's her right it's okay to force a mandated government one to? someone who would not do it under normal circunstamces?

And also human connection in the form of friendships and close bonds are extremely important for mental health, far more than sex i would say, should the government assign professional friends to someone who can't keep them due to bpd or mood disorders? should these escorts be available for extremely ugly people too?

It's just so commodifying, you shouldn't force human relationships to be a right or a thing you can buy no matter how heart breaking it is for them, humans aren't medicine. It just reeks of incel "I DESERVE a woman no matter what" bullshit.

No. 681767

>>681753
You got a small dick, anon?

No. 681769

>>681754
>It just reeks of incel "I DESERVE a woman no matter what" bullshit.
Exactly, it's one step in a direction of "that depressed basement dweller deserves government issues prostitute" and even more incel entitlement, because well, he's mentally ill and has sexual needs so these needs have to be met, right?

Medicine has ways of suppressing libido, why not use that instead? If some people really can't live with their sexual urges?

No. 681770

What do you think the dog in the OP picture is looking at/thinking about?

No. 681774

>>681770
It think he's having an existential crisis

No. 681776

>>681770
I think he's feeling left out from the dinner conversation.

No. 681791

>>681770
>>681776
he's thinking about how to contribute to the conversation but feels like he's out of his depth, so he's trying to appear actively interested

No. 681811

>>681770
Hey, hey guys look!! Take a pic, yea you can use my phone, no no no yEA press that, no that's video haha, yea lemme just move a bit. Does it look funny haha, lemme see? Oh yea haha

No. 681847

>>681743
>It's just a temporary fix to a bigger issue. What would be better is creating ways for disabled people to get in touch with other disabled or, or abled people who would be willing to date disabled people. Also teaching them social skills for the ones who are socially awkward.
Not that this isn't a better alternative to literal prostitution, but you basically described Chris-chan's dating-ed fantasies lol

No. 681855

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How the fuck do I stop stimming? I've only heard of the term a few days ago and when I looked up the definition I realized I've been doing just that literally (and I mean, literally) all the time for the past 5+ years.
I hit the table with my fingers and I shake my feet/legs uncontrollably (though usually in a particular rhythm). I've been a lot more self conscious about it past few days and I realized I can't stop it if I'm not actively thinking about it at that moment, and I guess it does feel good when I'm doing it.

No. 681880

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Does anyone know the name of those little circles with the metal thing in the center they use at hospitals? They had adhesive on one side. Pic related.

my grandma would have a bunch of these when I was younger cause she works at a hospital. I miss playing with them

No. 681882

>>681880
ELectrode, I think. That's what I called it when I was high after getting my wisdom teeth removed kek.

No. 681884

>>681882
Thank you anon!

No. 681890

I have no fucking idea how to act around my relative's cat lmao. He's friendly and came around to me and I patted his butt a little, and he laid down with his butt in the air so I thought that was a good thing but then out of nowhere turned and lunged at me? Am I doing something wrong cat anons?

No. 681892

>>681890
he's probably getting over stimulated. my cat does this and you basically need to learn cat body language to stop petting when the cat is getting uncomfortable. cats have autism.

No. 681897

All my joints are always cracking and hurting, all of them or most of them. What does it mean?

No. 682030

What's with zoomers and oral sex? I'm a millenial and men my age or older almost never bother eating me out unless I ask for it. All the zoomers I met for casual sex tho will jump at it right away.
Not complaining, I just remember my late teens and all the scrotes boasting about getting oral and never reciprocating.

No. 682039

>>682030
I remember even when I was young and at my hottest.. having to always ask, met some men who were weird about it because a woman they fucked five years ago wasn't super fresh.. So nobody gets their clit licked now?

My last partner was older than me and obsessed with getting blow jobs every weeknight… When it came to weekend sessions he had to be reminded that I've already given you 5 blow jobs this week, maybe I get my one measly orgasm now. Not an argument I ever want to have again.

Men love to ruin a good thing. Not blowing my own horn but I was a league above alot of the men I've fucked and you still don't get treated any better for that. The younger guys who eat pussy now come with a host of other kinks that eventuality get pushed on you.

No. 682044

>>682039
>>682030
If I were to judge generations by my personal experience, I'd conclude that all gen X men are obsessed with 69-ing. But are they all really, or did I just happen to jive best with men that love reciprocal sex acts? It's probably the second. Be weary of such generalizations.

No. 682064

>>682039
I meant it as the opposite, zoomers seem pretty eager to perform on women, millenials were always trying to avoid eating pussy like the plague but demanded blowjobs every day. Never been with a GenXr so idk.

No. 682077

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How do mangakas come up with their character's names? Specifically characters that have names directly related to their powers/abilities/themes and things like that, not like everyday names. If I look up japanese names in general they're often nothing like that so are the authors using literal words or combining them with something? Sometimes it's obvious with names that translate to "darkness" or "ice" for example, other times I don't know. If a non-japanese person wanted to do something similar should they use an online dictionary/translator or learn actual Japanese?

No. 682088

What kind of food do you usually like from Asian restaurants delivery? I love spicy stuff, but I only tried spicy curry with shrimp and spicy beef.

No. 682092

>>682077
it's because kanji can be read differently and certain associations of kanji change the way it's pronounced

i don't think you can make names like this if you don't speak japanese, because there will be spelling and pronunciation rules you won't be aware of and it will just sound stupid to natives

just my 2 cents tho, not fluent in japanese

No. 682275

>>682077
OT but I hate when characters have unsubtle meaningful names. This is one of the reasons I never managed to get into MHA, the names are really Ebony Way tier imo.

No. 682318

What's the shortest amount of time one can spend at a workplace that does not qualify as job hopping?

No. 682330

>>680318
>>680081
It's a latex mask, anons…

No. 682346

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Anons, I have 4 Gothic Lolita Bible (Japanese) version, how much should I sell them for?
I wanna say it's the first 4 editions but my Japanese is shit and can't tell.

They're pretty much intact, I still have the patterns for one of the books. I was never into lolita…
Sorry for shitty collage, I'm on the verge of passing out.

No. 682347

>>682346
I should add that they are all the Japanese editions.

No. 682356

>>682346
Idk 20$ ?

maybe look at similar ones on ebay

No. 682359

>>682346
Check ebay sold listings and you’ll know how much people are generally willing to pay.

No. 682363

Can someone explain to a burgerfag who was born well after her death why princess diana is so hyped up? i always thought she was a literal commoner normal human who just so happened to marry a prince or whatever but she has a royal pedigree too? Why are women so obsessed with her i just want to understand

No. 682374

>>682363
I'm an American as well, but I know her for being a fashion icon. I guess her divorce from Prince Charles was a big in the UK, and she popularized the lbd the first time she stepped out since the divorce. Apparently she also did a lot of charity work, and changed how the public viewed people with AIDS and HIV. Any britfags are free to correct me if I'm wrong about any of this though.

No. 682375

>>682363
I’m a Britfag who finds the Royal Family obsession weird but I’ll try lol. I think generally she was just seen as a sweetheart, yeah she was from a privileged background too but she was very young when she married (20) so there was an air of innocence about her. She did a lot of charity work, which is expected as a Royal, but still helped her image. Obviously later with the divorce I think a lot of people had empathy for her. There are a lot of suspicions about her death too, which is quite emotive for some people. I think she was also a bit of a fashion icon back in the days where the Royals were very frumpy.

In short, she just came across as a fairly likeable (and in the end, vulnerable) person. If she hadn’t died, the obsession very likely wouldn’t exist in the present day though.

No. 682377

>>682375
Was she as swooned over when she was alive as she is today? I constantly hear people tell stories of their moms sobbing when it was announced she died. Why did so many women feel so impacted by her death? I kinda feel like an autist asking these questions I've just always been curious.

No. 682378

>>682363
Did you watch season 4 of The Crown? As an ignorant burger, it really helped me understand the Diane hype (and yes, I realize the show is dramatized).

Basically the royal family are like space aliens with stiff-lipped rituals, so Diana seemed human and that endeared her to the masses. Like sure she was an aristocrat, but she didn’t grow up to abide to royal protocol 100% (like wearing gloves to meet people). She did a lot of hands-on charity work, too, as both a royal and after the divorce.

I just find her story to be so fucking sad. Being 19 and getting thrown into a marriage with a 32 year old who doesn’t love you and his entire family expect you to know archaic as fuck rules and then act as if your eating disorder is an impolite inconvenience…

No. 682380

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>>681847
there's a uk show called the undateables you might be interested in kek

No. 682381

>>682377
My mum is 9ne of those women and I think she sympathises with Diana because she tried to emulate her style and my dad had a mistress and my mum likes to paint it in a very camila v Diana esqe light to this day. I let her.

No. 682382

>>682363
I'll always remember she shook the hands of dying aids patients at a time when most people wouldn't, people still thought that touch would spread it and homophobia was intense at that time obviously. This was before effective treatment existed so these men were wasting away and out of all people a princess was the one showing up to shake hands and try and end the rumours about aids patients being like lepers that you can't touch. That was a moment.

No. 682384

Are there any anons that are into classical music? I can't stop listening to Scriabin and I wish I could find more composers like him. He seems to be truly unique, especially his later pieces.
If you know other hidden gems like him, please recommend.
Him and Alkan are unique and unlike other composers of their time.

No. 682393

>>682377
I think she was well-liked but not swooned over when alive. Sure some women might have been big fans like >>682381 ‘s mum but not thought of her as almost a saint, as many do today.

I think her death was just shocking and sad. It was an awful way to die, she left behind two young sons, she was still pretty young herself, she came across as a sweet person. It’s like a perfectly tragic death, and especially affected mothers as they were likely around the same age and felt heartbroken at the idea of leaving children without a mum.

I guess another element to the tragedy was the fact she was recently divorced and beginning her life over again in a way. That new beginning was taken away from her.

No. 682459

Does it make sense to get a squatty potty?

No. 682466

>>682459
Yes but basically putting anything under your feet will make you poop better

No. 682471

>>682363
I haven't watched the crown and don't care for the royal family but I'd like to add some of less popular Diana facts
>It wasn't even a secret that Price Charles was sleeping with Camilla the whole time, Diana found out his friends would allow them to fuck in their properties
>Crown Princess Diana admitted she suffered from Bulimia and self harm and had suicidal thoughts
>Diana liked to hang out with the palace staff, but then the palace forbade staff from hanging out with Diana
>The first man she loved after Charles died in a car accident
>Her therapist was selling stories to the tabloids, her gym instructor installed a secret camera in the gym to sell photos of her to tabloids also
>She pushed her elderly Stepmom down the fucking stairs, as an adult
She was pretty rad for a sad posho

No. 682472

>>682466
Does it make sense to just lean forward? I think otherwise my butt hangs too deep in the pot no?

No. 682495

anyone here have a picture with a man squating lifting weights and you can see his butt, its like really muscular? a muscular butt

No. 682513

Whenever I kiss someone I get really anxious and forget what I have to do. Is there a way to get over that?

No. 682514

>>682495
No but I love men with strong rights and a tight butt. I also wanna see it

No. 682525

My hands and feet are super thin to the point I can see my veins easily and they get purple-ish and super cold when the temperature drops but I'm literally overweight. What the fuck does that even mean?

No. 682529

How can I discern my level of attractiveness? Right now I can’t tell if I’m absolutely ape-like or simply average, thanks to dysmorphia.

No. 682532

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>>682495
Is this okay or did you want the butt to be less clothed?

No. 682545

>>682525
Bruh get your insulin resistance checked, that's not a good sign

No. 682560

How long does it take to learn Javascript from scratch?

No. 682574

Why was the 90 day fiancé thread locked?

No. 682580

how do I actually source drugs? I swear I'm not a narc. I genuinely want to know, and no I'm not asking for people here to hook me up but at least tell me, is it easy?? Could I do it online or is it more word of mouth thing? I just want to try something like coke or molly. I've never done it before. Considered growing shrooms but I don't want to have the "soul loss" that could potentially happen.

No. 682583

>>682574
Probably because it's better suited to /m/

>>682580
Depends where you are, anon. Where I am, you just happen to know a guy who knows a guy. Especially in college, where probably 1 out of every 10 people I knew dealt something. You should just ask around. My friends and I use a Telegram chat to share our sources.

No. 682587

>>682574
>>682583
I hope anons make a 90 days fiance thread on m, sounds fun

No. 682590

What's the best way to smell good but not like, aggressively so? Total fragrance n00b here. One of my post-quarantine resolutions is to smell nice but idk where to start. Should I just invest in a body scrub/soap with notes I like? Are there very gentle brands of perfume or cologne anyone recommends? I'd like to smell fresh and fruity as opposed to floral, I guess.

No. 682594

>>682560
I'll be honest, it's pretty hard if you don't have previous programming experience. Took me a few years to get a good hang of it. But it's still doable.

No. 682619

>>682580
Find out where the raves near you are held, there's usually a dealer around (or at least the attendants can hook you up with one).
Careful with the coke tho, it's very addictive. Psychedelics are better.

No. 682622

how do i stop having dreams about elementary, middle, and highschool? i haven't thought of these people in literal decades and they're still showing up in my head.

No. 682629

I called out of work for a few days because I was having Covid like symptoms. I'm feeling better but, for my work, if it isn't a Covid quarantine/waiting for test results, I'll have to work extra days to make up and I'll have points against me for being sick. Would it be really immoral if I got a Covid test so I wouldn't get docked for being sick?

No. 682630

>>682629
No, get a test.

No. 682632

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>>682590
I think the best idea for you would be to go to a perfume store and ask for recommendations! People there usually know really well what to recommend, and also it's important to try smells on your own skin - for example, I've always thought I want a fresh citrus fruit smell but event thought every citrus perfume smelled nice on that test paper stripe, rarely ever on my skin; the assistant recommended I tried floral and even though I wasn't that impressed with the smell from the bottle, on my skin it felt amazing, and only better as time passed. So yeah, go try!

This said, as for intensity, there are three perfume levels: perfume, eau de parfum and eau de toilette (seems like there's no english name for the latter two? idk), perfume being the most intense one, and eau de toilette being the least. If you care about intensity, you can look into latter two.

And as for recommendations, if you ever come across the one on the pic, be sure to try! It's not too intense but lasts long enough, smells like raspberry / vanilla and feels gorgeous.

No. 682650

>>682632
This is so sweet and helpful! You're right, I should be trying these things out on my own skin. And I had no idea there were categories for the different intensities. Thanks so much, anon!

No. 682658

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I started experiencing lower back pain 3 days ago after some walk for the groceries and the tail of my spine slide slightly to the right due to bad posture like that (since years ago?), I obviously can't see a specialized doctor right know, do you think it's related to coccyx pain? Sitting and standing up a certain way hurt, putting pressure on my right side also hurt. Is jogging to ease the pain recommanded or I'm supposed to rest? (I'll also search for back exercises to do)

No. 682660

>>682658
Is the mattress you sleep on old? It can be a huge factor in backpains too.

No. 682662

>>682658
Is it possible to have a phone or online consultation with a doctor? I pulled a muscle in my back a few months ago and was diagnosed over the phone and a prescription send to the local pharmacy. They may be able to roughly assess you from afar. They’d probably recommend very gentle exercise (walking) until it stops hurting to avoid more damage.

No. 682668

>>682658
Could be sciatica pain. Usually with back pain it will go away on its own in 1-2 weeks unless it is something serious

No. 682673

Why is the 90 day fiance thread in /m/ locked after it was moved there?

No. 682691

>>682660
Yes it is lol, I flipped it yesterday but thanks for considering

>>682662
Sadly I cannot but the pain is bearable enough so I don't need pain medication, I will wait as you said and start some morning or mid-day walking, the quarantine kinda fucked me up lmao..

>>682668
This is really reassurning! My friend told me something similar; that it's one of the pain that will go away on their own

Thank you I can't to heart emoji but imagine one

No. 682695

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In the UK, is there a similar stigma around shopping at Tesco as there is in the US about shopping at Walmart? Like, is there a "People of Tesco" type of demographic? Or if it's not Tesco, what store?

No. 682696

>>682695
Isn't Tesco fairly decent? I thought it was Iceland that was the working class supermarket chain

No. 682702

>>682695
Agree with >>682696, Iceland is probably the supermarket you’re looking for. Mostly sells super-processed frozen & ambient junk food. Also sells larger pack sizes than other shops, making it a hit with large poor families.

Tesco is on the cheap side but sells more premium items too. The different ranges mean poorfags and middle-class fags are happy to shop there, though the latter might ideally shop at Waitrose/M&S.

No. 682704

>>682695
Who is this fine specimen

No. 682712

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>>682695
Kek not directly related but I love going through British supermarkets twitters even though I don't live there. The customer complaints are insane, Sainsbury seems worse than Tesco tbh.

No. 682714

>>682695
There's a stigma about shopping at Tesco? I shop around Asda, Tesco, sometimes Sainsbury but honestly not worth it imo, just depends on what's better priced and what brands they carry. Ive noticed tesco has increased prices tho but lowered prices for club card members, all my snack food would be half price if I got one.

No. 682715

>>682712
Doesn’t this happen where you are from?

I once complained because my sandwich was almost empty and they refunded me. I’d be fucking livid if I found an insect in my food.

No. 682718

Are men with savior complexes considered to be red flag?

No. 682722

>>682718
My ex exclusively dated women with mental health issues and always happened to swoop in at vulnerable moments too… called himself my savior at a time when he was already past the love bombing stage and was physically abusing me. They aren't the saviors they claim to be.

No. 682723

>>682718
Completely. Craving a dynamic where they hold more power is creepy at best and dangerous at worst.

No. 682724

does anyone have the photo of Kent state gun girl passed out at a party with shit all over

No. 682736

>>682724
literally just search it on twitter no ones gonna post it here

No. 682739

>>682722
>>682723
If that's okay, could you please tell me the main red flags? A personal cow of mine IRL started dating one. I have noticed how controlling he seems like, such as: he would forcecall her on whatsapp even during dinner, where she would run to her room and would always go there back and fourth to talk to him. She also started using social medias like Discord only when it's related to him, such as she would come online just to sit on VC with him on Discord, no one else. He also was praising the whole "mentally ill people" factor in a weird way: he said he loves it when people "crack their armour" for him, telling him their secrets, etc , "opening private parts of them", which sounded super fetishy. He is also a self-proclaimed pseudointellectual (who lives w his parents and leeches money off them) that "loves discovering the mind of people" as his facebook bio says. Always liking all the r/imsmart type of shit.

She is a huge cow, but I do worry about her because this kid seems questionable.

No. 682750

Do you guys think friends or romantic partners are more important?

No. 682763

>>682750
I think your romantic partner takes priority over friends, but the most important thing is a healthy balance.

No. 682765

>>682750
My friendships have lasted longer. I do prioritise partners but then when you break up and your ex is so quick to cut contact..it honestly makes me wonder if my priorities are way off. Guys where I thought our friendship would survive the romantic aspect ending.. no it never did and they're gone just like that. It feels like such a waste.

No. 682767

>>682750
My mommy

No. 682768

>>682739
She'll have to just live and learn. Having been through my own experience with a mental illness seeking scrote… he'll use her up and leave her for someone else with the same set of problems. Those relationships always have an expiry date.

No. 682773

>>682750
Friends

No. 682801

>>682750
Both are important, but I’d prioritise time and attention to my romantic partner over friends after we’ve been together a good amount of time, and it really feels like a relationship. Doesn’t mean you neglect or ignore your friends though, there’s space in your life for both.

No. 682805

What are anons buying for Black Friday, if anything?

No. 682806

>>682750
Friends, don’t ever be dumb enough to think otherwise. Those people are the ones who love, appreciate and support you without the expectation of sex (if they’re not male orbiters). Do not ever neglect them because they’ll have your back whether your partner is there or not.

No. 682809

>>682805
I made a list of things I wanted to keep track of for black friday sales, mostly cosmetics and jewelry, but nothing's going into a significant enough sale. The best I've got is a 30% discount, so I'll probably buy nothing.

No. 682810

>>682805
I got a vibrator and that's it for my budget. It's silicone, rechargable and was reduced from 50 eu to 20.

No. 682812

>>682806
>appreciate and support you without the expectation of sex
This to me is the worst part of break ups. The moment that sex is gone guys are so quick to throw away all the years of knowing and supporting each other. That guy that was with me when my mom died… yeah he was gone in a flash once we broke up. After going through lifechanging moments together.. You think it's deeper than sex but it never is.

No. 682818

>>682765
>>682812
This has been my experience too. When I was walking away from a long term relationship, in more than one instance, my exes told me that we were never friends, and that we could never become friends. It was a bit shocking at the time, I find it extremely possessive and immature. I've heard of a lot of women taking this position of generally not wanting to be friends with their exes too, do you think it's motivated by different reasons?

No. 682823

>>682818
I've lived with a guy for 4 years and was told this same "we won't stay friends because we were never friends" shit… dude I had a cancer scare and we cried together and went to appointments together, we had shared pets, I was certainly real friendly with your son and your mom.. every part of your life is linked in with someone and then they pretend it was never that deep. Walk away if you want to but that bullshit of getting one last stab in by denying they ever cared..that's petty af.

There is an element of friendship within relationships and any guy denying that I'll be avoiding in future. The same goes for any guy that hates every last one of his exes with a passion but can't explain why.

No. 682824

>>682812
Exes don't make good friends though. I'm also 'gone in a flash' once the relationship is over.

No. 682833

>>682805
Didn’t really intend to buy anything but I had savings and the discounts (on things I’ve wanted for a while) were okay, so:

- Oral B genius X toothbrush, £90 instead of £340 (they always tend to be half price or less anyway, but this is still a decent saving)

- Waterpik handheld water flosser, £35 down from £55

- Philips Lumea Prestige IPL device, £266 down from £370 - before the cheapest I’ve seen was about £320 so I’m happy with that

I blew a lot of money but it was all stuff I’ve wanted for ages except a teeth whitening kit (£20 down from £50 I think) which was on impulse! Yes, I love teeth ha

No. 682838

>>682805
nice try nsa

No. 682840

>>682805
Nothing, because forgot black friday was a thing (again) and wasted my money before the sales started. I could return stuff but I just don't have the energy. Anyone with me?

No. 682843

>>682824
I have one female ex and we live hours away from each other now but she keeps in touch and we meet twice a year… that kind of friendliness afterwards has been nice.

My relatives have asked me about the guy who went to my moms funeral with me and it's like I don't want to say "oh yeah I bump into him from time to time and though I never did anything on him he just blanks me lol" that kinda sucks

No. 682844

>>682805
I'm broke, so nothing

No. 682853

>>682840
I know it’s effort but it’s basically free money if you don’t want the things anyway, please return your shit and spend the money on something you actually want anon!

No. 682881

Any scanner recs that are good for scanning art?

>>682805

I wanted to get some winter clothes because the old one are worn out so I got two pairs of boots (they were like about 200€ and got each for almost half the price) and a winter coat that was 165€ down to 50€. And that's about it.

No. 682891

Where tf can I stream shows/movies and not have to register for something or pay?

I asked this in a previous thread and got some sites but I fucking forgot about it afterwards.

No. 682907

Small anons (size 5 shoe and under, 5'0 and under, 110 lbs and under) where so you buy clothes?

No. 682908

This might be the weirdest question here, but does anyone else's tear ducts make a clicky sound when they push it?

No. 682911

>>682891
Why don't you just go back to the previous thread to find the answers then?

No. 682912

If men don't like implants why are the most popular subreddits filled with women who have them? Even vintage subreddits have several people with implants

No. 682913

>>682907
I'm not quite that small but could asian clothing brands maybe suit you

No. 682914

>>682908
I can't make it make a sound, but maybe I'm doing it wrong

No. 682915

>>682912
Because they want the implant-look naturally

No. 682916

>>682915
Men are retarded, that's like women running around demanding men to look roided up without using steroids

No. 682917

>>682912
Because men like big fake tits. It's not like pornstart get them for themselves, it's a carrier-oriented choice for them, because big tits get more clicks, and they don't have to worry about age-appropriate sagging. I think when they say they don't like implants, they mean they don't want to date a woman with implants, they have no problem having sex with them or jerking it to them.

No. 682919

>>682912
It reminds me of the whole 'men don't like heavy make up' thing. They sure like pics of women wearing it. Porn stars sure do wear alot on set too. But then men claim to hate it and tell their gf not to wear it. They have seperate tastes for porn. They love beachball boobs..just in porn.

No. 682922

>>682912
most men can't tell when a woman has had plastic surgery even when glaringly obvious or is even wearing medium make-up and don't even know photoshoping/filtering selfies is a thing

No. 682925

>>682919
People need to stop thinking men have standards, very few do and the ones who do only have standards for women they'll date.

A man will say they hate fake bodies and make up on women but fuck a troon with fake everything and boatloads of make up.
Men will say they don't like big fake tits, but will lust after women with big fake tits.

men just say shit.

No. 682927

>>682925
My ex hated fake tan, fake boobs and make up, I asked him for the name of his fave porn star very early on into dating him and she was all of those things to an extreme in every last scene you could find of her. Weird seperation in their minds when it comes to jerk material. I think they love the slutty aspect of everything fake. Then they nut and their brain resets

No. 682935

>>682919
I think it's got to do with the fact that they dont want other men lusting over their gf as they do with porn stars, that's why they "hate" makeup and fake boobs. men want to own their girlfriends and not let them express themselves, and (god forbid! /s) be attractive or confident

No. 682940

>>682935
As someone who doesn't even own more than a couple of lip balms… I'm curious about how this plays out for make up lovers when dating, Do you get snide comments from bfs?

No. 682988

>>682911
I don't remember how many threads ago this was, I think I asked it this summer and would probably have to spend the whole night looking for it instead of watching that 70's show for clues that eric was in fact in a coma since season 4.

No. 682993

>>682891
Soap2day is good. And 9anime if you're into that.

No. 683013

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Does anyone have a lot of siblings here?I have 6 brothers which makes me the only sister which sucks because I wish I was the only child my brothers don't even acknowledge my existence,I feel more love towards my grandma than towards them then again I don't love them at all oops

No. 683024

>>683013
I only have one brother but I had many male cousins and no sisters or female cousins.. you'd think being the only girl I'd get some sort of affection or attention from just that insane ratio.. I was invisible and left out and even my aunts didn't give a fuck about me weirdly. I hated family get-togethers. That dynamic and the black sheep feeling had a lasting effect on me.

No. 683027

>>683013
I have four brothers and two sisters but only the sisters are close in age, so basically grew up with two siblings and the rest were more like uncles. I don’t speak to any of them except one sister now so I kind of understand that situation, the rest I feel nothing for.

No. 683034

>>683027
Different anon but I feel comforted seeing posts like this. I don't talk to my brother, we never had a falling out but there's just no relationship there. I've always felt weird explaining that to people because irl I see alot of examples of people calling up their siblings everyday and chatting… I used to literally say hi to my bro when we worked in the same building. Nothing more lol

I feel more normal now

No. 683035

>>682908
mine make a squishy(?) sound as if you'd wring out some rag

No. 683044

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>>682908
happens to me too sometimes, seems to be normal

No. 683047

>>682940
Men only seem to notice heavy makeup when it's clearly heavy, like smokey eye and/or red lips. Same with implants. I've gotten small implants and no one noticed physically and once my scar cleared not a single boyfriend I had noticed anything since I got the areolar scars which is the most common one. I also think men automatically assume
Poor/middle class = no implants
Small unnoticeable implants = no implants
Anything without a rock hard implants and scarring = no implants

My implants were 5500, only brought me up to a normal cup size (B cup to D) and we're tear drop so they were round at the bottom and formed like a natural breast. I paid 150 a month for them which wasn't at all a burden for me. Scars went away after a few weeks and they feel squishy and move normally.

I honestly suggest any anon who wants breast implants to go at it. Don't listen to men, they will scream all day about how fake plastic surgery is but all of the things they fap to are women with surgery

No. 683060

>>683047
Do implants need to be replaced every few years or am I way behind for thinking that? I remember in the early 2000s implants would need to be redone every 5 years or so. But implants were shitty back then and had all sorts of issues that I'm assuming have improved since.

No. 683065

>>683047
I've looked at the gummy bear teardrop shaped ones with lusty eyes. I have a large cup size, but just want more volume at the top without it looking retarded. I'm afraid of the texture difference because mine are so soft

No. 683071

>>683060
Depends on what implants, my doc said to get them redone every 15-20 years. Implants have definitely increased in quality over the years

No. 683084

>>683060
In general, putting stuff permenantly in your body isn't a good idea. I read that even with the newer ones, a lot of women end up getting an immune disorder down the road. Just invest in a good push up bra. Men's +1 desire isn't worth you possibly ruining your health.

No. 683090

>>683084
Agreed. Breast Implant illness exists for a reason and it's not worth getting just for some male validation. There are plenty of ways to get the illusion of bigger breasts without going under the knife.

No. 683099

When looking at secondhand shit on ebay, are you critical of the background?

I took some photos of clothes on a bed as it was the best background (only part of the sheet is visible), all clean but when inspecting the photos I zoomed in slightly and found some lint… only a small amount but I can’t unsee it now and want to reshoot all the photos.

No. 683100

>>683084
Nta, but I already have autoimmune issues and live in the US so it's not like there's an actual chance of worthwhile treatment, just body bloating immunosuppressants andmisery. So fuck it. I'd rather just keel over with a pair of tits that I, myself, am happy with that make me feel a little happier with my self image and be done with it.

No. 683121

>>682805
Bought the spyro trilogy. My parents let me buy on their credit card so technically it's there gift to me

No. 683122

>>682907
Used to work at Uniqlo and own lots of clothes from there, most things fit pretty well on my body. Those ezy ankle length pants are a fucking nightmare for me though. I'll even get away with size 13 stuff from the kids section (before anyone comes at my throat, Uniqlo makes kids versions of certain clothing items that are way cheaper so fucking off lol). I also starting buying from Ann Taylor's petites section, but only when they have a 'buy 3 on sale, get another 70% off' deal going on since it's pricey. Their clothes fit my stature well and don't make me look like a kid playing dress up in mommy's clothes.

No. 683124

Why are Nicki Minaj fans so crazy?

No. 683131

>>682736
not on Twitter anywhere lol obviously I looked. of course someone would post it here

No. 683133

>>683124
I just wanna know how so many of them are "woke" and yet support someone who defends child predators and rapists. The cognitive dissonance is mind-boggling.

No. 683136

>>683124
Yaaas kween culture is very loud and cultish.

No. 683137

>>683133
>>683124
It's actually so bizarre how far they're willing to go up to bat for her. They will openly say "yep, and what about it ♥?" when you bring up how often she's in proximity to pedophiles or sexual offenders. If you're on Twitter (or any social media platform tbh), you learn which stans/fandoms not to openly hate, otherwise, you'll end up getting doxxed for saying anything remotely negative about them.

No. 683139

>>683137
They, like all stans, have brain worms.

No. 683149

>>682739
the guy u are describing sounds like a narc, i would suggest u talk with your friend cow and tell her all the obvious reasons why she shouldn't socialize with this weirdo, or at least not please him in everything..? the forcecall sounds retarded how can she not have control over that?
anon if she doesn't listen just watch from afar for your own sake.

No. 683156

>>683084
Depends on where you are at anon. I've lived in obese areas most of my life where they place tons of importance on breast size, then I moved to LA and realized that shape, ratios and everything else is much better than just trying to have the biggest tits possible. However I can definitely see anons who live in big titty culture areas be desperate for breast implants since I was definitely treated as practically sub human by men and women before I got mine, to the point where people would take attention off of my accomplishments to talk about my breast size. After living in LA for a while I do think my tits look retardedly big for my body and am considering an implant size change to something smaller, since no one can really deny that the breast shape implants give women is way more attractive than 99% of women's natural breast shape

No. 683190

>>683156
>since no one can really deny that the breast shape implants give women is way more attractive than 99% of women's natural breast shape
This reeks of pornrot.

No. 683202

>>683190
Plastic surgery was made to perfect the human form, get over it

No. 683203

>>683202
The human form is already perfected.

No. 683205

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>>683156
>no one can really deny that the breast shape implants give women is way more attractive than 99% of women's natural breast shape
I would not be too sure of that.

No. 683209

>>682805
I was waiting for a nice promo on the samsung galaxy tab s7+, but nothing. So I'm only getting clip studio paint rn.

No. 683212

>>683156
I am sorry you got harassed to the point where you started thinking giving yourself artificial tumors looks appealing in the slightest.

No. 683213

>>683156
I never believe those stories of people getting harassed for not having enough ass or tits.

No. 683221

>>683156
>I was definitely treated as practically sub human by men and women before I got mine, to the point where people would take attention off of my accomplishments to talk about my breast size.
Wtf? Are you a porn star or something? That's not normal and makes no sense

No. 683222

I was thinking about getting a breast augmentation from a great surgeon. But I realized, I have decent sized breasts, they're just wide set. In our consultation he mentioned he would also give me a lift and create some cleavage. Will anything "fix" my breasts being far apart? I'm self conscious about them and it's literally the only ps I've considered. I'm pretty happy with everything else. [spoiler]except for my stupid ass scoliosis, but spinal fusion sounds awful.[/spoler]
>>682580
And 8th of shrooms won't cause ego death. You can also try a micro dose to where you're just giggly and feel good (kinda like being stoned ig). Different shrooms have different strengths. I normally take liberty caps and blue meanies and I'm fine. But I took an 8th of golden teachers and was tripping hard. I personally prefer acid, but I might be an outlier. You can get drugs online. Just use Tor and a cryptocurrency and you'll be fine. If you're going to do MDMA, do it with friends. It's a very social drug. You can get a test kit, if you'd like. MDA or "Sass" is very similar, but more psychedelic. If you get rolls instead of crystals, make sure you only take half first. Rolls are notorious for containing wayyy too much MDMA for first time users or people who don't weigh a lot. I'd also recommend not doing bumps or lines of MDMA, because the drips are awful, take it orally.

You can also try a psychedelic fb group for a hookup, since clubs and festivals aren't happening right now. If there's a local "goth night" or "hula night", try there. Stay safe, anon!

No. 683223

If I take glutathione pills and/or use kojic acid soap for a while, then stop, will my skin turn darker than it was before I started?

No. 683229

hello, I've just discovered this board. Are you trying to tell me there's actual women posting here??

No. 683230


No. 683232

>>683230
true. What even is this entire chan? Please enlighten me.

No. 683233

>>683229
Why do you care so much

No. 683234

ok I had a look around, and while I still don't really know what's going on here, it seems clear that it's too weird by far and that I should get the frick out of here.
everybody (except fatsos) have a nice day

No. 683236

>>683156
> I was definitely treated as practically sub human by men and women before I got mine, to the point where people would take attention off of my accomplishments to talk about my breast size.

Maybe just me but I feel like when people take attention of your accomplishments to talk about your boobs that's when you're treated sub human. Not literally sub human but you know, I don't think it's exactly a positive when people take attention away from your accomplishments to talk about your body, especially as a woman.

No. 683239

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>>683202
Nobody here wants your ugly bolt ons. Even scrotes think they’re ugly as far as I know.

No. 683246

>>683222
Could you just get a lift without implants? I think a lift alone may result in a slight loss of volume (assuming this from the fact implants are normally used in combination), but it seems dumb to me to get a lift then add more weight to your boobs to help them droop quicker again.

If your surgeon has told you he could create some cleavage, (assuming he’s trustworthy and competent) then he can. Ask him what you can realistically expect. All bodies are different, which is why you can’t trust surgeons who let you pick out a photo to copy. He’s assessed your body and said he can do it, nothing is guaranteed but a good surgeon will be honest.

No. 683288

>>683084
>>683090
i dont have implant but it's very sad that you would assume women get implants to get male attention. most women get them done cause they want it, to feel better about themselves and be more confident. do you wear clothes or make up or do your hair in a certain way just to pander to scrotes? do you get triggered if you put up a couple of pounds cause some lame ass scrote is not gonna lust over you? no, you do it to feel better about yourself. breast implants are the same imo.

No. 683299

>>683221
>>683213
>>683236
>Different cultures different folks! You never know what people go through, don't assume everything is a lie
Lolcow when someone says the reality of something they don't wanna hear
>Hmm must be a lie

Also anyone who assume all breast implants are bolt ons are beyond stupid. There's a reason why a lot of women with implants go through their entire life without anyone but their surgeon knowing they've had implants. If no one ever says anything bad about small boobs then where exactly do you think insecurities come from?

No. 683309

>>683288
who the fuck do you think is making women less confident about their breast size, moron? i can get behind wearing makeup and dressing sexy for yourself but body insecurities only come from external sources telling us our bodies are wrong. women who want to feel good about themselves get a new haircut or do yoga they don't drop 10k on fake tits.

No. 683310

>>683288
Are you ignoring the people coming to this thread to shit on the natural female form in favour of their silicone bags? Or is it one rule for you frankenthots and another rule for the rest of us.

No. 683311

>>683156
>>683299
you must be ugly as hell.

i have small shallow breasts and literally no one cares.

No. 683317

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>>683311
>What are different areas and different cultures. It doesn't happen in MY culture therefore you're lying if you say it happens to you
I modeled for a bit so no
>Inb4 but you modeled!!!!
This was everyday sort of people saying this

No. 683327

>>683299
Okay but can you explain? How do these conversations go?
>”Yeah so I got all that work done in a very short interval of ti-“
>”SORRY I couldn’t help noticing how fucking MICROSCOPIC your tits are. Ever think of getting that checked out? No offense. Are you broke or something?? I can hook you up with a sugar daddy if you need”
Like…I just can’t imagine people bringing up your tits unless you’re a porn star and it’s literally part of your daily life having people look at them. What exactly happens?

No. 683328

>>683317
>everyday sort of people
NTA, but be honest. By "everyday people", do you mean scrote clients you worked as an escort for or something?

No. 683329

>>683327
My boyfriend was friends with a couple who constantly threw shade about my boobs like it was there job, as for outdoing my accomplishments, there were several occasions. I was on a date and the guy completely blew off my accomplishments to offer me breast implants
>Inb4 it was one guy
My award ceremony was posted to youtube with 3 mil views and several comments completely blew off my speech about giving an infant CPR for hours straight to talk about my tits not being being

Cry liar all you want. But that doesn't erase the fact a simple google search can prove you very wrong, being lucky enough to live in an area where you don't experience yourself is great and all but denying the fact women of all various cultures get bashed for various things is wrong. I don't see us crying "liar" at asian women who are mocked for being fat if they're anything over 100 lbs

No. 683336

>>683329
>having a boyfriend who's friends with shitty people
>dating a shitty guy
This is a bit more reasonable, but the way you originally phrased it was like random people would start talking to you about your boobs, kek.
>My award ceremony was posted to youtube with 3 mil views and several comments completely blew off my speech about giving an infant CPR for hours straight to talk about my tits not being being
If this wasn't an exaggeration, no video on YT of any woman would be safe from moids having discussions on their tits until we all had balloon implants, kek.
It really just sounds like you let a handful of retards get in your ear, and got surgery based on that.
>I don't see us crying "liar" at asian women who are mocked for being fat if they're anything over 100 lbs
Well, yeah, because you're in America and I presume it's mostly other American anons calling BS because they're also in that culture. LA isn't some sort of distant, foreign land with a completely separate culture.

No. 683340

>>683309
>>683310
kek flat chested fatties be mad

No. 683341

>>683336
>You're american, you put yourself out there, and you're surrounded by shitty people
Well duh. What exactly are you asking me to do? I'm in tons of situations and where people obsess about my boob size. Am I not allowed to vent? Obviously I don't mean if I walk into Walmart suddenly everyone talks about my tits, but you acknowledge the situations I'm in I will be bashed but also accuse me of exaggerating like???

No. 683343

>>683288
Why do you need breast implants to feel better about yourself? What does having fake tits do for you, and how is it completely separate from some scrote's coomer fantasies?

No. 683347

>>682805
I bought a climbing harness! I don't think they were as cheap as last year because I remember last year they sold out but I didn't pay full price so whatever. I won't be climbing any time soon because of the pandemic and finances but I'm excited for the day I can go back.

No. 683348

>>683343
It undeniably makes my breasts look better, fuller and more attractive. Some people do take it too before bolt on anons attack, but minimal implants that are nicely shaped enhance and perfect the breasts. Why would so many women get implants if they were all nasty bolt ons that did nothing for confidence?

No. 683350

>>683329
This all sounds fake as fuck anon

No. 683351

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>>683341
Nothing, I just thought it was weird how you phrased things from the start. It really did sound like you were talking about random Wal-Mart people chiding you for small tits, and that's probably why everyone else thought you were bullshitting too.
I said before that you let a handful of weird retards get in your ear and convince you to go under the knife. Actual sane human beings don't give a fuck if your breasts aren't huge, and the handful of people that do most likely won't ever be satisfied lol. Gonna end up looking like this and posting here about how you've actually perfected your human form if you don't watch out.

No. 683353

>>683348
Attractive to who? If all men ever started saying it was hideous and they preferred grandmother aesthetics, what would you do? Get breast deflation surgery?

No. 683354

>>683351
Yeah no, if you go to a decent surgeon who knows what they're doing no one will be able to tell you even had implants in the first place. This isn't the 80s where the only implant options are huge bolt ons. What exactly is wrong with natural looking implants if you don't mind me asking?

No. 683356

>>683354
You're missing the point so hard kek. You changed your body because of some random people who don't care about you, and you're here coping about how it makes sense. It does not.

No. 683357

>>683353
That's a fantasy, right now and since practically forever men liked perky round boobs, which is what plastic surgery gives you. No hypotheticallness, just reality. Size preferences differ and I'm from a culture that obsessed over large breasts. Why exactly don't you hound people for nose jobs, lip fillers, jaw surgeries, etc or everything else that's equally as fake?

Plastic surgery improves the looks if done right, nothing wrong with looking better if you know how to take care of yourself

No. 683358

>>683357
So, you admit it's to look attractive to men?

No. 683359

>>683343
im the anon you replied to and i said i dont have them? kek. my sister got her boobs done cause after two pregnancies her boobs were very saggy and looked "empty" if that makes sense, she felt really self conscious about it even tho her husband was ok with them (that's why i said i think it's a self steem thing and not scrote pandering) she was still kind of young to have "grandma tits", her words not mine kek

No. 683361

>>683356
Literally any woman who adjusts her fashion and style to the current trends does the exact same thing. You go out on the limb and claim I'm going to be some crazy plastic bimbo for getting mild and natural looking implants. Cry all you want but 90% of human being cater their entire look to whatever other humans decide looks good in the current moment. Why are you so offended? Would you rather me lie then brag about my perfect tits like most people do but get praised for it?

No. 683363

>>683358
I never denied it, assuming you're human and engage in heterosexual relationships in order to please your partner to make the relationship work you have to at least cater to what they want, same goes for men. But it's lolcow and human behavior is unheard of here apparently

No. 683364

>>683341
Dude, pick your battles here. You care a lot about how people perceive you, whether in person or even on the forum. You got yourself some boobs and they make you feel more secure in your skin. That's fine. Your boyfriend is a piece of shit though, and honestly I'm proud of you for not slipping emetics in his friends' drinks. You're a better person than I am for that, so much of a better person.

No. 683365

>>683361
Getting a new wardrobe and getting an unnecessary cosmetic surgery are not comparable, kek

No. 683369

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>>683361
>paying $$$$ to get surgery so moids who wouldn't even piss on you if you were on fire will stop bullying you
Cope.
>inb4 "joke's on you, my sugar daddy paid for my boobs >:)"
The way straight women will risk it all for dudes that look like this on average(infighting)

No. 683370

Why do people even live in California? It's a brushfire away from yet another national emergency, has a collective of the shittiest and most self absorbed people, an insane number of pedos along with laws that find ways to bolster them along, and the celebration of women being collectively torn down on basis of appearance. California is the bimbofied, drugged and beaten housewife of the US.

No. 683371

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I'm thinking of buying one of these things. The house gets damp in winter and I have to dry my clothes indoors (no dryer for poorfags).
Do they work? Has anyone experience with them?

No. 683373

>>683371
I had an electric dehumidifier years ago and it was amazing how much moisture it picked up in a few hours… whereas these things collect a half cup in the space of a few months.. I feel like just keeping your house warm does more to help.

No. 683375

>>683371
I think you are better off opening a window slightly and having the heating on to ventilate the room. I use these ones for my wardrobe to keep everything dry, I don’t think they are great for larger spaces if you think about how much water is contained in wet clothes.

>>683373
Anon I want to get one but I worry if I will get a large electricity bill. Are they cheap or expensive to run?

No. 683377

>>683364
This is a losing battle. First I'm a liar if I discuss my experiences about the place I live, then I go into more detail about what happened and "they're just assholes" what exactly do you expect me to say? Yes I'm surrounded by assholes that doesn't mean it doesn't happen to me
>>683365
Why not? They cost the same and are both temporary. You act like a boob job is some life altering decision

No. 683381

>>683377
Nta but I agree with the other anon, they're not the same. Buying new clothes is in no way comparable to literally cutting into your body and putting foreign objects/fluid in it, objectively putting your health at risk and dealing with the pain/recovery afterwards.

I couldn't care less if women decide to get a boobimplants but don't pretend it's the same as buying clothes, it's just not.

No. 683382

>>683377
You don't risk an infection, necrosis and death when getting new clothes. You are actually braindead.

No. 683384

>>683377
My point is that you're going to be berated here by some anons for the decision you made, and would have been berated irl for not making the change. You deserve the right to bitch about it, but anons like to make it a personal attack that you've done something that doesn't affect them, so you're going to get picked on. It's stupid, but when you see the stormclouds, sometimes you have to walk back inside to keep from being drenched.

No. 683385

>>683381
>What is a comparison
Anon acted like I was some crazy different breed for spending money to adjusting to the social standards for women, I pointed out that buying new clothes to adjust to trends is also forking out tons of money to adjust to the likes of other people. Obviously it's not the same thing because it's a comparison, but I don't think you're ready for me to explain to you what a comparison is vs claiming it's the exact same thing

No. 683387

>>683384
So why shouldn't I simply make the decision I'm comfortable with if I'm going to be berated either way?
>>683382
>You're actually braindead
You are too apparently since someone doesn't understand comparing and contrasting something is different from saying it's the same thing

No. 683388

>>683385
>>683387
It's a bad comparison. I don't know what you're even trying to convince people of anymore. What's your goal in this whole discussion?

No. 683389

>>683299
>>683340
>>683348
Do you guys not realize how ridiculous
>since no one can really deny that the breast shape implants give women is way more attractive than 99% of women's natural breast shape
sounds? There's a difference between doing it for yourself and this.

No. 683390

>>683387
I would have gotten them too, and hell, I would get them now to give me a boost of volume.
I'm not judging you for getting surgery, I'm telling you that the input that you're getting from here is just going to be stressful and that you've got to recognize that instead of continuing to stand there while anons try to tear you down. Change the subject or pull up a different thread that you're interested in and walk away.

No. 683392

>>683389
The anon admitted that she didn't do it for herself, but for men. She's just switching the story every few posts because she also realizes on some level how sad that actually sounds.
I just don't get why she's arguing about it. Live in your boob implant truth. Doesn't mean everyone else needs to agree or do the same thing.

No. 683397

>>683388
Not necessarily. Both fork out a lot of money to appeal to the likes of others, but no one mentioned health risks until now because I compared the two.
>>683390
I get that. My fault for being honest about work I had done I guess. Better than posting my fake tits to reddit, claiming they're natural and having men expect everyday women to have perfect perky round symmetric large boobs, if we accept the fact that in order to have the "ideal" breast of today you would have to get surgery, we can go in the next step which is if people put their money where their mouth is about how much they hate implants, appreciating natural breasts for what they are, or assisting women into getting surgery

No. 683401

Holy shit, I can't believe this discussion is still going on.

No. 683403

>>683397
Not any of those anons in this bitchslap fight, but I don't think there's a need to underline that beauty surgeries involve unneccessary risk for your health. That's like the baseline of every such conversation. Like living in a non-modified, untouched healthy body is always the more ideal to not having to go under a knife, and I'm sorry you couldn't be happy in your body.

No. 683405

The fact that perfection is idealized is a problem. America tries so hard to be a sterilized version of beauty. Everything has to be bleached, surgically dragged up or over, waxed, and abraded.
Nothing can have a natural smell, or even be a natural color anymore. California is the apex of this fucked up ideology metropolis and I wish it would secede or nearly all the inhabitants would move to fucking Canada or Mexico.

No. 683406

>>683405
I was just thinking "LA chicks are like pick-mes born and bred, holy shit" reading this thread. You said it better than me, anon.

No. 683409

>>683405
In america and uk women are completely expected to be perfect and show no proof of it, I give into social standards simply because that's how we interact but the difference is I'm completely honest to everyone about what I have done, at worst people will be worked up about it for a bit but the vast majority of people don't care or even just ignore the fact I've had work done. It doesn't affect you, strangers or anyone else, just me and whoever sees my tits I guess, where as women who lie about it put it in everyone's head that's what natural boobs look like and wonder why they or their wives don't look like that

No. 683410

>>683406
They've been brainwashed by the same fucking clowns who are the faces behind the metoo movement. There's an entire population of pedophiles and porn directors creating an unrealistic norm and pushing people into mental health gymnastics over having a mole.
How did we sink so low as to allowing people like that to dictate what we find is attractive?

No. 683412

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>>683410
Did those clowns force women to be pickmes posting stuff like this as well?

No. 683414

>>683412
They don't have to because there's narcissism everywhere. All they had to do is create the bar and keep moving it.

No. 683416

>>683414
Women and men everywhere bash women's bodies, women can definitely be just as ugly

No. 683419

>>683401
Right? Like I expected this to end last night lmao

No. 683420

>>683412
Her friend has boobs.. that's the weirdest part of this

No. 683421

>>683420
Right? The girl on the right looks like a similar size as the one on the left, left girl is just wearing a loose shirt and turning to the side which makes boobs look small, and the right one is wearing a push up bra and a tight top and is facing frontward

No. 683424

>>683421
It's either a play on attention competition or a joke bringing attention to the fact that she's the one in the picture with her tots out

No. 683436

>>683370
The loudest and most obnoxious people in America are in the entertainment business, and California (but mostly LA and SF) are where all the related jobs are.

No. 683452

>>683436
They're not that bad tbh. Breast implant LA anon, I grew up and lived in the south most of my life. I've met more obnoxious, disgusting, pretentious and superficial people there than I've ever met in LA. The boob size obsession is very real in the south, I've tell stories that I've observed among myself and friends growing up but I don't feel like being called liar by people who think things that they don't see can't happen to anyone else. I also find people in LA are easier to talk to, nicer, and overall less hostile and belligerent. I'm also a minority which could play a factor as to why the south was bad to me and LA treated me well

No. 683471

Why are men so easy? I could fuck 20 guys a day if I wanted to. It's that easy.

Is it the same way for guys?are girls whores like this and I just dont see it becuz I'm a girl?

No. 683473

>>683471
>Is it the same way for guys?
You're asking an all female board about how men experience shit

No. 683485

>>683473
Considering the fact ugly retarded men are always cheating, yes

No. 683498

>>683471
Probably not. Women are way more likely to decline a random fuck because of safety concerns, while men do not to tend to think too much before going for a fuck. Hell, there's way too many stories about men trying to cancel their parental rights to children from casual encounters because the woman told them she was on the pill, and they didn't even bother on putting on a condom.

No. 683503

At 32 am I one of the oldest anons on here?

No. 683507

>>683503
One farmer is 50 years old. She posted in the thread for 30+ y/o anons.

No. 683513

How do people get off to these ASMR 18+ videos? Or even just listen to them without cringing?

No. 683519

>>683513
I only read the video's title on the thumbnail and I cringed.

No. 683521

>>683503
Nah fam fellow 32 year old here! grannies unite!

>>683513
This is fucking cringe, ugh the only people I can imagine liking this is delusional and lonely women/men? but not even that. Looking at the thumbnail made me consider suicide.

No. 683524

>>683370
If anyone is still living in CA in 10 years then honestly they deserve whatever comes to that wretched state. The fires are absolutely more than enough of a reason to get the fuck out of there. I lived there for 4 years in college and I remember having our power cut off by PG&E for days at a time because it was "fire season". I also remember my California native roommates talking about "fire season" like it was less of a concern to them than flu season.
The cost is also not worth living there at all imo. It's ridiculously expensive for what you get. I admit that it's beautiful but you can just visit for a week or two and then live somewhere else that's much more affordable.

No. 683527

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>>683513
This is fucking hilarious lmao. For some reason it reminds me of shit like pic

Anyway I think these kind of videos garner the same audience as fanfics. Maybe people watch the nsfw versions cause they're lonely and they like the "dirty talk". I'm ashamed to admit this but, I listen to one "boyfriend roleplay" channel because I like the dude's voice and accent.

No. 683533

>>683526
Give me the channel name pls
This video is making me die of laughter. Just wtf.

No. 683534

>>683513
this is just the female version of the sleeping to loli girls asmr

also people get off to it because it feels more personal, and you don't have to see a woman having sex and remind you that you're a lonely virgin fujoshi.
had to repost due to a spelling mistake.

No. 683541

>>683533
Sorry I deleted the first post but, it's Oaken Audio. don't make fun of me anons

No. 683549

Should I even consider going to my building's small, poorly ventilated gym before there is a vaccine?

No. 683559

>>683513
idk, voice is one of my main factors in attraction and i just like listening to their moans, and at the same time i don't have to worry about human trafficking or some shit like i'd do if i were to watch porn…didn't listen to the example you provided, but if it's generally done well, the dialogue isn't painful to listen to, either lol
also, reading such (mostly sfw tho lmao) scripts has upped my reading comprehension and speed, as well as my vocabulary incredibly over the past year, which isn't important to my point but i'd like to brag, thx

No. 683577

Anti-porn anons, what's a bigger red flag, a man who jerks off to porn, or a man who jerks off to his own reflection?

No. 683578

>>683577
I've done the latter bc it's hot to watch myself. It's also hot to watch yourself get fucked in front of a mirror. Having said that, definitely the former.

No. 683591

There are hundreds of thousands of card making videos on YouTube and not one of them will tell me: How the fuck do you keep the fold from buckling if you have two sheets of paper glued together?

No. 683617

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Anons who eat pork buns, have you ever had any with raisins in it? Am I just being a stuck up bitch or does that sound nasty as fuck?

No. 683623

>>683578
>It's also hot to watch yourself get fucked in front of a mirror
I don't like watching myself masturbate but this is really fun indeed, too bad that scene from american psycho pops into my head sometimes

No. 683627

is there a free vpn?

No. 683628

>>683623
Christian Bale is hot tho and that's just a movie. I love that scene before it takes a turn it seems like fun.

No. 683630

>>683617
I don’t even eat pork nor have I had a pork bun but raisins are nasty as fuck.

No. 683639

>>683627
Yes but they collect your data so it basically defeats the purpose of a vpn. Unless you're just trying to get around a ban or some location restrictions and you don't care about data collection. If you use google chrome, just go to the google chrome store (I think it's called) and search for a vpn extension.

No. 683640

>>683639
cool thanks

No. 683643

>>683639
Nta but how do we know paid vpns aren’t doing the same thing? I’m a tech dummy

No. 683648

>>683617
>raisins
>nasty
Anglos are so dramatic.

No. 683651

>>683648
Nice try but I'm not even white lmao. A coworker told me his white ex made them for him with raisins and I've never heard of them being made with them but the combination of steamed ground pork and raisins sounds disgusting.

No. 683656

>>683648
>calling someone Anglo for not liking raisins
What the fuck are you on
Lots of people dislike raisins

No. 683664

>>683648
Nta, but I'm black and don't like raisins. I don't even know anyone who likes raisins except for my grandma. They're just fucking nasty. The only people who eat them are old people.

No. 683669

>>683648
NTA, black here and raisins fucking suck. If you like raisins you are either 65+ or the type of girl to bring a small bowl of almonds to class and quietly much on them and call that dinner

No. 683673

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>>683669
Almonds are delicious what are you on

No. 683676

>>683617
I love a lot of savory meat dishes that incorporate raisins (largely Persian and South Asian cuisine), but the idea of raisins in bao grosses me out. The bun is already sweet on its own.

No. 683680

>>683656
Raisins tend to be fairly popular among Anglos too so anon is talking complete shit.

No. 683682

Anglos indeed make the smallest things so big. So dramatic.

No. 683686

>>683673
Not the point!!! I was just saying, you gotta be a special kinda weird health nut freak.

almonds are tasty though

No. 683688

>>683686
ugh samefag but I didn't mean "health nut freak" I meant "health-nut freak"

No. 683694

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can someone tell me how instagram works? i mean i know influencers make money with deals but instagram itself pays u for having a lot of followers/likes? i never used the app.

No. 683695

>>683694
No, insta doesn't pay influencers. Influencers make money from ads. They also sometimes start their own brands or do modeling (like the fashionnova models for example). Sometimes influencers don't even get paid. They'll do sponsored ads and accept items as compensation.

No. 683696

>>683694
The advertisers pay you for shilling their products in your posts. The follower number is just the base for negotiation, since it shows their influencing power.

No. 683714

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>>683673
God I love almonds so much. I had to stop buying them though because I couldn't stop at just 5 or so. They're too calorific to binge on a daily basis.

Raisins are so good. Even better with currants and nuts, yum.

No. 683715

>>683714
Raisins in bread*

No. 683722

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When you have baby teeth, why can't you feel all the adult teeth up there? Like, If I felt around a kids mouth, I would not be able to feel all the teeth just waiting up there.

No. 683724

>>683722
Nevermind guys, this was dumb.

No. 683727

>>683724
Yeah it really was, are you drunk or just not feeling your best?

No. 683728

>>683724
I'm genuinely curious to know the answer though.

No. 683730

Anyway I didn't mean to be rude, I hope you're fine. Take care

No. 683731

>>683727
Neither. I just needed to activate my thinking for a moment.

>>683728
I think it's cause they're in the jaw and whatever the part above the mouth is called. You can't feel them through all the muscle and cartilage and bone and stuff. I feel like we should still be able to feel the upper teeth on the sides though?

No. 683745

Why the hell don’t I seem to need antiperspirant anymore? I’ve been only at home and to the grocery store but I just don’t notice a smell, I was sure I lost my sense of smell but my mom kindly took a whiff and said she noticed nothing but I never was that smelly or sweaty in the first place. Idk man, I have big hormonal issues and eat the same, losing weight and so on, and yea I have never reeked like a scrote in the humid but this is just weird.

No. 683768

How do farm hands figure out when cows are self posting / posting in their own thread? I'm rereading Erin's old threads and it got me thinking lol

No. 683776

>>683768
I think they look at the ip-address and wifi networks. I remember when Emzotic got exposed admin said something about the address matching up with what state Emzotic lived in or something >>>/snow/624638. I believe they can also tell by who tries to derail and nitpicks stupid shit in threads.

No. 683780

>>683776
Samefag but it's also explained a little bit in Kiki's post history https://lolcow.farm/kiki

>Most of the rest of Kirsten's posts are dedicated to defending and complimenting herself or hypocritically accusing lolcow.farm posters of being jealous of herself and others.


Kirsten attempted to conceal her identity with an anonymizing VPN service from a company called Private Internet Access (PIA), but made numerous sloppy mistakes that eliminated the VPN's effectiveness. Check out the Evidence section at the bottom for details.

There's more information at the very bottom of the page, on the section titled "Evidence"

No. 683793

>>683745
One of the symptoms of covid19 is loss of smell. You might still smell bad, and also have corona, sorry anon

No. 683795

When is someone considered an oldfag? I sometimes see people in their early to mid 30s describe themselfes as one on here, and if that's considered old I seriously wonder what the average user age is on here lmao

No. 683800

>>683793
Nah, i'm negative and so is my mom also i can smell other smells fine. Bow down to the nearly sweat free one.

No. 683809

>>683795
kek
the term oldfag is in relation to how long you've been an active member of the site, not your age

No. 683833

Ok here I go: you ever look at yourself in the mirror when you're kinda tired and it looks kinda foreign to you? Like you kinda forgot wth you look like?
Also the same looking at photos, feels like I am looking at someone I vaguely remember. It doesn't persist but it usually happens during the night, once in a while.

No. 683834

>>683833
depersonalization anon, it’s more common than people know. If you google it you’ll go down a rabbit hole that will try to convince you to seek diagnosis for histrionic type disorders, but I know some healthy brained friends who experience this. It’s like a soft dissociation if that makes sense, not as out of body but definitely not in body. Look up and learn some grounding techniques, they’re for normal and not “crazy” people too, hope this helps!

No. 683839

>>683834
I’m familiar with the term but always had issues determining if that is what I sometimes have because otherwise I’m good when it happens. I do have mental health issues so I don’t really care about the crazy shit, we all kinda are.

No. 683844

>>683643
NTA and I'm also a tech dummy but you can assume if a service is free, that YOU are the product in some way. You're putting your trust into that VPN provider and its easier to trust a service that you're giving money to.

No. 683848

>>683809
What, really?? I see this term used so much in age-related discussions lol

No. 683851

Can women who look differently be friends?

No. 683852

>>683851
What do you mean by different? Different aesthetics? Weight? Race?
Of course they can.

No. 683855

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>>683851
your question remind me of these 2 tumblr legends.
Fuck tumblr tho

No. 683859

>>683851
I love seeing women with wildly different aesthetics being friends idk I just love seeing smth like a hard core goth and a complete Plain-Jane for example.

No. 683864

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>>683859
Bet you're a Nana fan. And ia, it's cute.

No. 683888

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>>678929
How do I stop being a lazy fuck? Ever since I got my old job back, I've had to start being a functioning adult but… I got used to quarantine neet-life.

No. 683911

>>683888
Going back to my job tomorrow for the first time in more than a month and I'm not excited either, I spent most of my time on my bed or my desk chair and I'll have to stand up for seven hours, kill me already. I'm not ready to take care of dumbass customers either.

No. 683926

>>683628
true true but thinking of that scene makes me laugh kek

No. 683996

Redpill me on Lily Orchard

No. 684013

>>683996
Check his KF thread for more details, but long story short, he is a consummate liar (always inventing tragic life events to garner sympathy), a pedo, a narcissist and an abuser. He broke up with his ex three years ago (she's the one who dumped him iirc) and cannot let it go while claiming he is over her, he can't stop claiming she was an horrible abuser (despite all signs pointing out to him) while inventing new lies each year on all the supposed bad things she did, he includes her as a villain in his autistic fanfictions, but he still keeps her last name for him and has some of her art hanging on his apartment walls. Meanwhile, Lizzy (the ex) has moved on with her life a long time ago and doesn't even mention him anymore. Also it's likely that Jerry reads his KF thread because everytime someone points an issue, he obviously sock puppets by sending an anon ask on Tumblr to refute the points the farmer made (which he never managed to do). And since he is a troonbian, he fetishizes lesbians to an uncomfortable degree, way worse than the average straight dude.
Basically outside of his echo chamber, everybody hates him, even the gender fandom on Twitter, he is famous just because he made two videos that made it big, otherwise no one agrees with his dumbass opinions and retarded stories.

No. 684066

Does anyone have that screenshot crystal cafe where it says:

men pretending to be women
tips cervix

No. 684071

This is a real dumb question. How come all my boyfriends constantly have a hard on while talking to me? We aren't even talking about sexual things, but they would always pop a boner while staring at me, talking, or just knowing I am there. Is this normal? Why didn't anyone tell me about this lmao?? I don't mind it, but I want other insight knowledge.

No. 684077

>>684071
Sure anon, stop spiking their drinks with viagra

No. 684082

>>684071
It just happens. Sometimes guys get boners for no reason. Mine is constantly getting a boner when he's sleepy and we're just chilling, not even close to each other. It happens.

No. 684083

Do I need to download the Twitter app to see fleets? I don't care about the function but I've seen several users saying they have it.

No. 684089

>>684083
Yeah you do

No. 684102

If I'm doing steam family sharing with someone who lives with me, will all of the steam games on my pc show up on the other persons library? Or just the ones on the account that enabled family sharing? I have two accounts for different games.

No. 684123

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>>684083
What the fuck is a fleet?

No. 684129

>>684102
just the family sharing enabled one, don't worry

No. 684133

>>684123
basically insta stories for twitter

No. 684183

How do people just glide into group chats and make friends? There was a discussion about this on another thread here and I'm fucking bad at talking to people.
How the FUCK do people make friends in group chats, especially when people are already friends there? Do you post something and hope someone will reply? Do you jump right into the middle of a conversation and hope you don't look retarded? Do you start a conversation with someone random? Do you reach for things to say because I never have anything interesting to say. I'm going fucking insane but I want friend. Help.

No. 684198

What's with men taking such a long time shitting? It's not even just being lost in some phone game, because I could still hear bowel movement, but it's like the fucking slowest bowel movement of all time. Obviously this is based on the men in my life I had the luck to observe in my/their home. I'll get slow shits like once a month, and for them it always seemed like a half-hour program for each time. And I don't even eat particularly healthy, and in some cases, we followed the exact same diet.

No. 684201

>>684198
anon I'm healthy woman in my 20s, i shit 2 times a day, after breakfast and after lunch, and yet my bowel movements are really slow, i need 20-30min to shit. i eat vegetables and fiber and drink lots of water but that's just how my body is

No. 684203

>>684198
why are you paying so much attention to how people shit

No. 684213

>>684201
>i need 20-30min to shit.
wtf, is that normal?

No. 684225

>>684183
Holy shit are you me? I keep joining discord servers then giving up on them for this exact reason. This shit feels like trying to infiltrate a clique in high school, freaks me out

No. 684229

How much do you have to wait until people forget about things you've done?

I cyberbullied (aka sent random hateful anon messages on tumblr, is it really cyberbulling?) to a genderqueer schizo that pisses me off, but I forgot to turn anon off and they gained access to my old radfem tumblr. I don't like keeping social media, so once I got bored with my radblr I quitted it, and forgot about it, and now the genderqueer boasts about how she "got me" and how I "deleted my radfem blog" because I was being creepy. Idk, I agree I might had gone overboard, but didn't delete it because of them.
Now the thought of someone randomly finding me online and accussing me of cyberbulling a trannie haunts me, but I mean, there's so many people out there, how are they going to find me? Also they're cowtippers, so Idc if they see this post.

No. 684231

>>684225
This, I just personally try to find friends in alternative ways to discord servers or social media cause they suck

No. 684233

>>684183
It depends on the dynamic of the existing group chat imo but in a welcoming group chat/served it really can be as easy as saying "Hi I'm xxx!" and then going along with whatever conversation is going after you've been welcomed.

No. 684234

>>684225
Nta but I know right. I also hate just how difficult is it to find discord servers with actual older people that are not fucking horny 24/7. I keep joining servers that are “21+” But there’s always a resident retarded teen unironically naming herself aiden or another type retarded teen who is constantly trying to be as fucking edgy as possible.
God I hate discord so fucking much.

No. 684238

>>684234
I think discord admins are shitty in general, you should try to find something that clicks like a server with no trannies rule or something

No. 684248

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>>684066
found it for you nonnie!

No. 684253

>>684229
I don't think anybody could recognize you, as long as you didn't post any personal infos on that Tumblr and that you use a different user name per site you're registered to, you should be fine.

No. 684259

>>684229
my old tumblr antics were similar to yours, I was a flake fighting other flakes about politics and fandom shit and I pissed off a lot of people to the point where I had a callout about me. however it's been years and I can't imagine that shit being dredged up when a lot of the flakes have probably moved on to other antics, changed their perceptions or disappeared entirely. the people who originally "called me out" have all deleted or archived their blogs and changed urls so many times that you can't even find the posts anymore and my old user tags have almost nothing in them

sometimes I do wonder how they're doing tho, we were all distraught and retarded teens and underneath it I think what we were going through and our lack of maturity made us assholes so I'd like to hope they are doing better and outgrew their lgbtqwerty tier garbage

No. 684266

>>684203
Because I had to live with them

No. 684285

Can one really not know their sexual orientation without sexual experience? Isn't orientation instinctive?

No. 684289

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Is it too much to buy two expensive parfums at the same time? I mean because they last long but I want to build a collection of lovely scents. My plans are:
- Dior Joy Intense
- Dior Rose ‘d Roses
- Chanel Coco Mademoiselle

No. 684293

>>684289
No. Treat yourself.

No. 684296

>>684289
Nah, do it anon. That shit is gonna last you all year and you're gonna smell amazing.
>Chanel Coco Mademoiselle
I know I'm getting this for Christmas as well, I'm excited for you. I currently have Dior Joy and tbh it's not my favorite, although it's adequate enough. I prefer the Miss Dior and J'adore lines. I've heard Addict is really good too.
Idk if I just got a bad tester but I tried Hypnotic Poison in person and it smelled like chemical shit, nothing 'gourmand' about it at all. Could've been a knockoff or bad batch. It did not smell anything like what's described about it online AT ALL.
I use Fragrantica to review everything before I commit to buy so I'm a bit picky.

No. 684316

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>>684248
thank you anon! Have some bee shoes

No. 684320

>>684289
Do it anon, be your best smelling self.

I really want to treat myself to Chanel No. 5 but it's expensive and scents just absorb into my body and never make me smell like anything… I end up having to spray it on my clothing instead despite everything on the internet saying "DO NOT SPRAY ON YOUR CLOTHING" but otherwise no one can smell it on me unless their nose is practically shoved up against my neck or I apply a disgusting amount so it just smells bad from being too strong.

No. 684324

>>684285
Attraction maybe, but not orientation I don't think. You might have an instinctive preference for certain types of food, but without trying anchovies, you won't know whether you have a taste for them. Experience opens up new ways of thinking.

No. 684345

What's a casual/informal way to thank someone in Japanese? Is saying どうもありがとう okay? Or even just どうも?

No. 684348

>>684293
>>684296
>>684320
Thank you sweet anons I’m sure you smell ~*amazing*~
I ended up not getting anything. I had it all in my shopping cart but couldn’t press buy for some reason. Not even one.

No. 684352

>>684345
Say sankyuu like a weeb

No. 684354

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>>684348
>I had it all in my shopping cart but couldn’t press buy for some reason
WEAK! Buy the fucking perfumes! You deserve it, bitch!

No. 684357

>>684345
"Doumo" is the most casual, while "arigatou" is a step up from that. "Doumo arigatou" is more polite than just saying one by itself. I would only recommend using "doumo" if you're close with the person or if it's for something small like a cashier handing you change at the convenience store. "Arigatou" is usually safe and for when you want to be casual yet polite.

No. 684369

Do goths date non goths?

I'm really attracted to goth women and they're commitment to the lifestyle but I'm not goth myself, just wear mostly black.

Also I'm talking about actual goths not tik tok shit.

No. 684373

nta but this made me weirdly happy. yes. thank you anon. we all deserve nice perfume.
>>684354

No. 684379

>>684352
lel
>>684357
Thanks or should I say どうも!

No. 684388

Best app for bettering the quality of a pic? It's a handwritting paper btw

No. 684400

>>684388
Just yell ZOOM & ENHANCE at the screen until you obtain the wanted result.

No. 684401

>>684354
Ok gurl I got the Dior Rose n Roses

No. 684407

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Has anyone here ever worked a sales job? Particularly socially retarded and socially anxious people? How was it?

No. 684409

Do pasties hurt to take off?

No. 684414

>>683864
Ayrt, never heard of it but I'm gonna check it out, thank anon.

No. 684416

>>684409
No, they shouldn't.

No. 684434

>>684407
Are you doing warm or cold sales?
If cold sales, heaven help you. Like I hope your company is setting you up on confirmed leads so all you're doing is selling a product that the customer is already leaning into, instead of trying to engage completely oblivious people who are gonna fly the second they sense your weakness or lack of assuredness. Talking people into believing and buying into a product does require a deal of charisma and confidence, not to scare you.

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>>684434
I’d be working in a jewelry store in the mall. I’m not sure which kind of sales that would be..

No. 684442

>>684441
It's on the warmer side. People entering a shop are probably already interested in what's inside.
Cold is just calling/emailing people out if the blue (low chance they want your product in the first place, nerve wracking job).

No. 684443

>>684441
Oh that's retail. You're paid hourly regardless of sales, no? Do they promise commission? Just treat it like any kind of retail job then. You'll be fine.

No. 684450

>>684442
>Cold is just calling/emailing people out if the blue (low chance they want your product in the first place, nerve wracking job).
Oh okay. That sounds awful. I was just worried because I’m terrible at small talk and the manager called it a “hard sales” job when I was setting up the interview over the phone…
>>684443
Yes, I’d be paid hourly luckily. Thank you anon. I’m relieved to hear.

No. 684510

Does anyone else here have a radblr blog? (not asking for the link, just asking if you have one)

No. 684512

I saw banhammers toothpaste with peroxide, is it safe?

No. 684515

>>684450
What she probably meant by that is that it’s not like a grocery store where someone is always going to walk out with a sale. You’ll have to actually convince the customer to purchase things a lot of the time (or rather, learn to pick out the weak people and sway them). It might seem scary/nerve wracking/disheartening for the first few months while you get your footing, but I promise if you push through it you’ll actually gain some valuable speaking and people skills that you can bring over into a better job later.

In answer to your question: I was awkward/shy and worked my way through a couple of these types of jobs and was eventually able to get hired right off the bat as a manager at another place. I have 0 issue interacting with strangers and convincing them of whatever now. The trick is to never think of it like lying. (Temporarily) believe your own bullshit first and suddenly other people will start to too. Good luck anon!

No. 684531

Anyone here have an anxiety diagnosis? I'm obviously not asking for a diagnosis or trying to self diagnose by asking this, but how bad does your anxiety have to be to be considered to have GAD?

I am an over thinker, especially in social situations. But even simple things like "will there be parking next week when I drive to x" will keep me up at night. I don't have panic attacks, I am just in a general state of worry about everything.

Also, I know for a fact I have social anxiety. Like really really bad overthinking and avoidant behavior and mind going blank type of shit. Would that be a part of GAD? Or separate?

No. 684539

>>684531
I have diagnosed GAD. Shouldn't be hard to get diagnosed. Those symptoms sound typical of GAD, panic attacks are regarded as part of panic disorder iirc. Social anxiety is probably comorbid with GAD.
Doctors aren't going to give you a hard time with a diagnosis like they would if you were trying to get prescribed benzos or you were trying to get diagnosed with adult ADHD to get stimulants.
GAD is essentially heightened and constant anxiety 24/7.

No. 684544

>>684324
But isn't attraction the basis of orientation?

No. 684547

>>684539
A GAD diagnosis without the meds is pretty useless, tho?

No. 684550

>>684547
Not necessarily - a diagnosis can allow you access to disability accommodations in some institutions (school, work, social programs)

No. 684556

What is the farmer opinion on stick and poke tattoos?

No. 684558

How can I stop people from believing I'm lesbian? Everyone seems to think I am one, although I'm straight. It's fucking annoying

No. 684560

>>684556
They're stupid and asking for an infection, but I think all of us would have done some dumb shit like stick and pokes, or at-home piercing when we were teenagers. Teens shouldn't have tattoos either way though. I only get a little annoyed when I see adults with stick and pokes.

No. 684579

>>683669
B-but I often forget to eat and they're calorie dense while still being nutritious.
>>683851
I'm a goth and my best friend is an ultra normie. I had to explain what a meme was to her when I first me her. But our humour is similar and we have a lot of fun together. Different aesthetics, physical features, interests, etc you can be friends with anyone you get along with.
>>684369
Of course. Might help if you share some interest in the music and are willing to go clubbing/to shows.
>>684556
Love em. If you know what you're doing, you're not going to get an infected tattoo. Plus some people can do really beautiful handpoked tattoos. Fuck the tattoo snobs and their generic ass, $2000 sleeves.

No. 684590

>>684558
Hire a boyfriend for a day and fuck him in front of them.

No. 684591

>>684558
Just judging what you said I'd say your best bet is altering your physical appearance, like your hair length or the clothes you wear if it annoys you that much

No. 684594

>>684590
lmao I like this idea
>>684591
I have long hair, and I'd like to think that I dress in a feminine way, although I don't wear skirts very often

No. 684600

>>684558
Why do people believe you're a lesbian? From your other post you don't even seem to look masculine.

No. 684605

Am I blind or is there really no YouTube General #6?

No. 684606

>>684605
Here you go, queen >>>/snow/1086649

No. 684608

I've asked this before, but received no answer: does anyone know artists who had a quiet, ordinary life with an ordinary day job and their work was only discovered after their death? I learned about James Hampton thanks to the art thread and I'd love to know more artists that were like him

No. 684612

>>684608
Henry Darger!

No. 684617

>>684606
Aii, thank you my love

No. 684628

>>684591
nta but I also have long hair and was accused of being one. Even during childhood when I dressed girlier it happened a lot, (mostly around puberty) apparently people's reasoning was because I didn't show any interest in boys/dating and didn't talk to them enough.

No. 684633

>>684612
Ah thank you!!!

No. 684711

Anons do you have a video with similar aesthetic with this?

No. 684712

>>684711
Same fag, not just aesthetic but with similar papercyt animation

No. 684757

Do you guys know any snapchat/instagram/etc filters that improve your look, but don't really change your face?

No. 684759

There's a song I listened to some months ago and I can't seem to find it, it was a rock song and it was referencing khomeni without saying his name
and I vaguely remember the lyrics being "If yo think were evil will send you to hell" or something like tat

No. 684762

>>684757
You should just get SNOW and keep the settings toned down. But ur beautiful without it anon

No. 684777

how to not be a cow?

No. 684778

>>684777
Just shut up

No. 684779

>>684778
understood

No. 684788

I know women are supposed to be able to have sex anytime she wants, but how? I don't really want to have sex with a random guy anyway, but I don't feel like I have that opportunity. I'm not unattractive, maybe slightly below average but men would fuck anything, so, how would I go about it? Straight up ask them? Small talk and then randomly ask them to hang out at my place? It'd feel weird. Is it always awkward?

No. 684793

>>684788
I don't know where you live, but there has been an ongoing study in the United States done by Clark and Hatfield that showed men are tenfold more than willing to have sex with a woman they find attractive upon meeting her for the first time. I've never done a casual hook up though, so I can't actually advise you on that.

No. 684800

>>684788
Make a tinder profile and write something along the lines of "just looking for fun" or "don't want anything long term ;)" in your bio. I reccommend using photos showing of your body, but obscure your face. Even if you're not 100% conventionally attractive, horny chads will often fuck down anyways… just be really straightforward with what you want. I find that guys that can't even talk about fucking are usually mediocre in bed too, so I try to weed those out. I have 3-4 low effort fwb this way.

No. 684802

Why people in social media are calling thanksgiving a turkey day? Is it just a cutesy name for it?

No. 684804

>>684802
That and some people might not want to recognize it for the history behind it. I will say though, I've only heard Turkey Day get used by "basic girls" on social media and in elementary school settings.

No. 684805

gross question i know but does anyone else's pubes make your genital area skin tender and sensitive after a certain length? they're not ingrown so i know it's not that. It reminds me kind of like when you put your hair up in a tight ponytail and take it off at the end of the day and your scalp hurts from your hair follicles moving around?

No. 684811

>>684805
I think I get what you mean. With certain old panties that are tight and made of cheap textil, my pubic hair can get a bit tangled and itchy when grown out. Especially if I decide to work out.

No. 684812

>>684802
I think there might be a slight increase because Animal Crossing was so popular this year and its in-game Thanksgiving event is called 'Turkey Day'.

No. 684905

I never ate homemade cookies, just the processed stuff. Do they taste the same? am i missing out on much for never having ate cookie dough?

No. 684914

>>684905
Homemade stuff is always a little different than store-bought, but imo homemade cookies are way better. There is literally nothing better than eating a warm fresh baked dessert. They taste better. Also, you can eat store-bought cookie dough.

No. 684924

>>684905
You're missing one of the best things in life. Brb I'm going to bake some cookies for you

No. 684933

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>>684914
Hmm i think i'll try baking some then, they seem easy to make for a novice. They don't sell cookie dough here though!
>>684924
Thank you anon i won't leave a single crumb

No. 685028

Could we say open sexuality is rooted in goth?

No. 685058

why do people say male musicians are bad? and is it true?

No. 685061

>>685058
duh have you heard a male try to sing? disgusting

No. 685078

can we have secret santa or something like that on here?

No. 685079

>>685061
lol no anon, i mean that i've heard they have shitty personalities, good singers or not, that theyre just shitty people?

No. 685085

>>685078
Sounds like risky business, anon!

No. 685086

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>>685058
Ew imagine liking ed sheeran

No. 685090

>>685079
>theyre just shitty people?
they're male

No. 685094

>>685079
men aren't people

No. 685110

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Where do I find spaces for women that aren't full of handmaidens and exhausting politics? I can't even shit talk violent men without my friends correcting me about their pronouns.

No. 685114

I know capitalism is evil but did any of you guys get any good cyber monday deals? I just bought an air fryer from best buy and I'm so excited.

No. 685116

>>685114
I didn't buy anything and I'll pretend it's because capitalism is evil but really there just wasn't anything worthwhile for me
Airfryers are amazing, I hope you enjoy it!

No. 685117

>>685110
Here ish.

No. 685118

>>685114
I almost got a deal on a hoodie from one of my favorite artists, but everyone swooped my sizes before I could. I decided to not participate today because I got my Christmas shopping done last Friday. I hope you cherish your air fryer! it's still fuck capitalism though

No. 685120

>>685114
Nah, I wanted to buy some cute stuff from target and filled my cart, but it’s not cute enough for me to pull the trigger, and I always feel like I can find something similar for cheap second hand.

No. 685121

>>685114
Congrats on your air fryer, though, anon! I hear great things about them!

No. 685123

>>685090
>>685094
but what makes them any shittier than every other man out there specifically? would i be right in assuming nothing?

No. 685124

>>682935
Very late, but true. My pos scrote ex told me this to my face when forbidding me from wearing makeup and telling me I “should” aka could only wear my hair a certain way.
>>685119
Oh anon, awful. I hope you either give it to him just as good about some dumb shit he likes or dump his bitch ass. I bet you look amazing.

No. 685136

why are there so many natsoc girls on crystal cafe?

No. 685137

>>685136
Because they aren't girls lol

No. 685161

>>685136
which thread?

No. 685177

>>685137
/pol/fag trannies?
also it's fine to call "natso" what they are, anons, nazis

No. 685189

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>>685177
>/pol/fag trannies?
It's not unheard of.

No. 685190

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No. 685214

Are the figures on amazon legit? I suddenly want a Miku figurine, if not, where can I get decent priced small figurines for under 50$ Canadian?

No. 685217

anyone have a new invite link to this server ? >>>/2X/3716

No. 685218

How do I tell my psychologist about my weird and disgusting porn use as a teenager? I looked at shota shit and stuff from the time I was 12-15 and I have a lot of guilt over it. I looked at a lot of terrible stuff but this was the worst of it and I just can't really move on from the guilt.

No. 685235

>>685218
Don't.

No. 685273

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>>685235
Shut the fuck up.

>>685218
Just non-cerimonously dump it, maybe start by saying you want to talk about something that happened when you were a teen and it really bothers you but then just go ahead and dump your feelings about it all, your therapist will know how to deal with it all.

No. 685281

>>685218
Tell them what you just wrote. That you'd like to share something that you used to do and caused you a lot of guilt

No. 685282

When you hug someone, do you go arms around neck or arms around waist?

No. 685283

>>685282
If you're not intimate with that person, then under arms is the safest. Although you shouldn't really be hugging anyone not-family right now.

No. 685284

>>685283
It was a theoretical question, anon, I was just curious. I appreciate the concern though

No. 685289

What makes someone's life interesting?

No. 685294

>>685214
Maybe amiami? Idk if they still ship with all the corona craze. Look up the secondhand figures on their website, you can get great deals because the original owner bent the box a little.

No. 685297

>>685289
Do you mean in a universally interesting way (like a historical person that people are fascinated by) or just an average person that is interesting?

No. 685300

>>685297
Just an average person

No. 685307

>>685214
Everything on Mandarake is second hand, so you can get great deals if the figure is old or didn't have much success.

No. 685312

>>685300
Not to advocate for NLOG but generally being ‘different’ wrt their opinions, hobbies, behaviours, lifestyle while remaining authentic. Doesn’t even have to be extreme - there’s a woman I follow online who has a pretty boring life, but I love her unique perspective. So much so that I don’t mind her occasional batshit conspiracy theories, kek.

Generally people are interested in things that are different to the norm but also hate people that aren’t genuine so part of it comes naturally. Will also say that being superficially different doesn’t make someone interesting beyond that, if that’s all they have to offer.

No. 685333

is PULL just temporarily down or gone for good?

No. 685343

>>685333
gone afaik

No. 685360

Are there any anons who improved their self-esteem problems without the help of therapist? How did you do it? Most of the time I see myself as a horrible, ugly person who is inadequate at almost everything and even though people around me see me as the opposite, I feel like I can't believe them

No. 685387

>>685360
Yeah. Like you reference, it’s hard to do for yourself, but think about how you view your friends/family/others, and how they probably have intense insecurities as well that you think are ridiculous. They either feel the same about you or that logic really can be applied to yourself—it’s just something you have to practice. Seriously, raising your self-esteem is all about literally practicing positive self talk.
>god I’m so dumb
>wait. No I’m not. I made a mistake because I am human, and I do plenty of other things well.
>I am HIDEOUS
>no I’m not. I have a cute xyz
Also, try to notice what you’re doing/wearing/surrounded by when you ARE having a good day or feeling yourself. Repeat those things. Seriously, put yourself in situations to succeed in loving yourself because you deserve to. You have a long life to live with yourself, and spending it beating yourself up is exhausting. Try your hardest to counter the negative thoughts and self talk with realistic, or hell, even hyperbolic positive ones to replace it. How much time do we think objectively untrue things like
>I’m the ugliest, dumbest, most burdensome person around
You can do the same thing with positive thoughts.
>I am sexy, smarter than everyone, and a blessing to those around me
It’s not narcissistic, it’s how you deserve to feel about yourself! Really! I think having low self-esteem will keep you grounded in reality, but if you can be that cruel to yourself, you can be that kind to yourself as well. It takes lots of work and actively combatting the rude things your brain says before you just know it to be true. Hopefully this isn’t all over the place and makes some semblance of sense. Good luck anon, you’re dope and should treat yourself like it.

No. 685415

where do i discover new music to listen?
spotify is only recommending me the same trash i listen regularly and i'm tired of it

No. 685425

>>685387
This post is a treasure, thank you kind anon!

No. 685426

>>685415
Just find recommended music on YouTube or any other music streaming app, or look up bands/artists related to ones you already listen to

No. 685435

>>685415
I do autistic shit like decide on a number, then tap through related artists to what i been listening to. Or the artists own recommended playlist. I also keep shazaming series ost i like, variety bitchhh

No. 685460

>>685387
NTA, what do you if the bad things you think about yourself are objectively true? Assuming you can't fix them on the spot or like, ever. How do you live with them?

No. 685463

>>685415
Pick an artist you like, look up their label and listen to music by artists signed to the same label. Or google search for labels you don't know and listen to artists signed to those labels. I've found some of my most favourite artists by stumbling upon random label's youtube channels. Youtube is also a great way to find music, just keep clicking in your recommendations.

No. 685464

>>685415
Go to rateyourmusic and look for things you want to listen to.

No. 685466

>>685415
If you listen to a specific type of music, you can look around reviews sites or forums. I mostly listen to metal and I have some websites and youtubeurs I always go to to find something new, I even discovered some bands that are not metal at all but very popular with metalheads.
Rate Your Music is still an okay website to discover music, but their community is completely pozzed with woke shit.

No. 685467

>>685426
>>685463
not that anon but youtube tends to recommend the exact same song you just listened to

No. 685468

Why don't we have more of an outcry over the integrity and quality of our prescription drugs? I never understood how these pharmaceutical companies just get away with taking a piddly ass amount of the brand name drug's active ingredient and just add whatever bullshit fillers, then they expect people to still pay a fortune for prescriptions that are half as effective

No. 685470

>>685467
Yeah but the further you scroll down the more things you get recommended that you don't know.

No. 685472

>>685415
I tend to use social media (Tik Tok, background music in YouTube videos, etc.) and Spotify, but music-map.com has also helped me find related artists to the ones I already like.

No. 685474

>>685415
Go to bandcamp, they have a row with recently purchased albums. You can click on them and hear the music. If you don't like it there's more coming your way every second

No. 685479

>>685468
the average person doesn't know how or why medicine costs a lot, they just accept it. even people who are low in the medical field don't really get it much of the time. the out of pocket price of medication is generally 50x more than the actual ingredient/manufacturering cost.

No. 685485

>>685468
That's privatized healthcare systems for you.

No. 685546

Does anyone know a good and believable excuse I can give to my university to skip 3 weeks? I want to get plastic surgery soon but I need to travel and stay there for at least 3 weeks and I need a good and valid excuse to be allowed.

No. 685553

>>685546
Your going to take care of your grandmother who needs full-time care for approx. a month to recover after a drastic surgery.

No. 685554

>>685553
you're*

No. 685557

Any girlses here who have had a significant weight loss transformation and also have tattoos? Did your tattoos warp at all?

No. 685562

I hear zine-creators, in order to get other people to collaborate, go to zine community websites and ask people to apply for the zine or ask people to submit essays and art related to the topic of the zine

If this is the case, what are some zine community websites?

No. 685603

>>685553
>>685546
This is a good one, then someone got covid and boom explained

No. 685648

>>684711
I'm late but if you are looking for some cool paper cut animation you might be interested by
Katzenjammer - Soviet Trumpeter
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCX2KkW4Wxs
or maybe
Giangrande - Paper Plane
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrFfkeEZHFE

and my personal favorite is the still unfinished work of Yuri Norstein called the Overcoat, the animation is just pure magic at this point
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hO2QqDervCU&t=7s

I hope you will find something that you like

No. 685664

>>685415
If you’re using Spotify you can go through playlists that the site or other people make, listen to compilation albums the groups you listen to appear on, go to the pages for artists that come up as similar

No. 685670

>>685553
>>685603
This is brilliant! My grandma/aunt/whatever died and I need to attend the funeral for a few days and got covid there. Thanks anons!

No. 685671

Do the brits just have like 10 actors they have in rotation that they cast for everything or am I only watching the genres that repeatedly cast these people?

No. 685674

Can the menu tab on opera be moved to the right or is it just permanently stuck?

No. 685700

So if a tranny played a role before trooning out, can I still call the character "her" if the actor is now a "he" if i'm talking about the movie? Gotta act woke lest I wanna be cancelled

No. 685701

>>685670
Wishing you an easy recovery, update us on that shit on some thread!

No. 685708

>>685700
Nope. You now must refer to Ellen Page as Elliot no matter her past roles. So any time you reference her in that role call her "he" and say "his portrayal as a female-identified character."
Fuck her, I hated her ever since Juno and I knew she'd be the type to chase whatever trends granted her relevancy.

No. 685717

>>685708
I was thinking juno, I always watch it when it's on and was thinking that well, JUNO is a girl so a she would suffice. But if I'm talking about el (i refuse to use that school shooting ass incel name) i will go with he. Goddamit this shit is bullshit, I wish lesbians would just LOOK INTO OUR HISTORY and see that we do have terms that may be more fitting for them rather than a full transition.

No. 685752

>>685708
>>1096251
Fucking sucks. All the GNC/lesbians want to be troons. Kristen Stewart when. These vapid retards literally can not comprehend that women can exist outside of performative femininity and gender roles. I guess they need something to cancel out the “rich white post-wall dyke” labels.

No. 685753

>>685700
I think it's character > actor in this case. I mean old theatres had men playing all the roles, but you still wouldn't call Antigone a she when referring to the events of the piece. (Ignoring that Page is as much of a man as I'm a millionaire.)

No. 685758

>>685753
*I mean call her a "he" obviously

No. 685769

>>685753
But he was a she then, the character is pregnant and all? I see it the way that when the movie ends, so does the so called relationship the actor had to that character, aka I can call the character a she. Let me give an example because I am retarded:
"Juno was so annoying when she idk had the hamburger phone. I wonder what elliot thinks about his performance in that movie" or shit like that.

No. 685773

>>685700
Anon that’s truly a stupid question. Female characters are female because they are written as such, regardless of how their actors larp online.
My question is, is Fakeboy Page gonna sign up for men roles now or is she still gonna play the lesbo tomboy like always lol

No. 685790

Question: if lesbians can be into fictional men as so many seem to, how does that work? I'm a bisexual who likes fictional men, but there is a huge gap in how I'm affected by the fictional and irl ones. It's making me wonder if I could be lesbian, if it is really possible for those I see. They even will write smut fanfiction about them (lolol) or what's the deal with that?
As for myself I have a lower sex drive so that makes it hard to know anything. I was often reluctant in my 1 sexual relationship with a man, or disgusted, or felt like crying. But, it could have been low drive, or insecurity, or internalized misogyny, or the fact he started to troon out (lol)– I hate having all these factors.
I won't go on any longer. The point is irl men pose many issues for me, but fictional ones I can go ga-ga, so I have this question. Is it truly possible for lesbians to be that way?

No. 685791

>>685773
Exactly what I was thinking, was just confused. I mean, if it's a she in the script, it's a she in my shit post about it.

No. 685794

>>685790
Hey anon, I was wondering the same a while ago and found enlightening stuff on the sexuality thread on /g/! Some lovely anon mentioned febfem and comphet to someone and I looked into it and am pretty certain I am never gonna even touch a man nor date one, maybe not even fuck one even though I still might be into 2d men or even celebs. Basically nice to look at but I respect and love women, would want everything a relationship entails only with a woman. Look into it anon!

No. 685795

>>685790
I'm a lesbian and I didn't know that it was a thing, I personnaly can only simp for women character. Now I want to know of comon what yu are describing is ?

No. 685796

>>685790
I think this is the part where someone links you to the lesbian manifesto, anon. I wish you the best of luck in finding yourself and I'm sorry you're struggling atm.

No. 685802

>>685790
As a lesbian fujo here's how it works for me personally: I don't find IRL men attractive or experience any sexual attraction towards them, but I like the concept of men. Something like BL has characters that have male bodies (often with feminine traits or face shapes etc.) but often practice dynamics more relatable to women, as they are created by one and targeted to them. You have to remember that 2D anime men are not at all realistic and you can project pretty much whatever the hell you want into them which is why male fans can see a male protagonist as a charming alphachad fucking girls left and right while fujos can see him as a sweet cock sleeve for the more masculine male characters.

It's sort of a "you either get it or you don't" thing either way, I can only explain my own experience. It didn't make sense to me before either but with time I started connecting the pieces. Nobody really questions why gay men can have female idols and find female models for example attractive, but for some reason with lesbian the moment they call any male attractive she has to revoke her homosexuality.

No. 685804

>>685790
They prefer men written by women than the personalities of real men

No. 685805

Does anyone else get cramps from anxiety? I get really tense around my pelvic area. I’m so nervous for a job interview jesus

No. 685809

>>685790
I'm not even a lesbian but there's still a huge gap in how I'm affected by the fictional and IRL ones, kek. 2D men/characters portrayed by actors are always a hundred times more attractive than whatever will be farting on the couch.

No. 685815

How does one actually get rid of limerence? I've gone no contact with my LO but I still think about them constantly. Also does anyone know of any good works about limerence? Yt vids, books, etc.

No. 685817

>>682532
big dwarf butt

No. 685825

how do people have willpower and like, stick to their plans, schedules and obligations?
I've become a hateful selfish entitled bitch and its making me and probably the people around me suffer.
I can't ever get the thigns I need to do done, I am far more capable then I act.
I partially don't do things because I'm always suffering from anxiety and I'm afraid of short-circuiting. When I feel "over-worked" it just feels….indescribable. Like a thousand horns are blasting in my ears at once. I don't now how to calm down once I'm worked up. I'm always either off or on.

No. 685826

Does ADHD cause you to forget washing your hands? I don't have it but my boyfriend does. I just noticed that he forgets pretty often.

I don't have a big problem with it, I just remind him to wash them. I want to put a sticky note on the toilet to remind him but that might come across as petty and condescending.

No. 685830

>>685273
>>685281
What if that sorta content is illegal in anon's country?

No. 685834

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>>685826
What a retard forgets to wash hands on a regular basis, is he a child

No. 685845

What us that feeling you get when you feel good shivers down your back and down your torso? Is that what people feel when they hear asmr?

No. 685849

>>685460
nta but if it applies I will think "What can I do about it?" like okay, this bad thing can't be helped, so then it's useless to dwell on isn't it? What can you do instead of that to make up for it and feel alright? (But that's my personality, I don't mean to be dismissive if that doesn't work for you)
Depending on what's wrong you might need other interests to occupy you, or work on thinking, "X is true and that's how it is. I'm going to let it be. That way I can focus on other things. But it's like that and I accept that, even if I don't feel great about it. My feelings are just one aspect. I choose to let it be."
look up stuff like "acceptance" or Buddhism as well, if you're willing to adopt some of that thinking
…Also, sometimes there is a hidden, good underside. It may not seem like much, but could help to focus on. For example, if you experienced trauma or depression, it could've shaped you into someone more understanding of those issues. If you think you're unattractive, then maybe it's granted you some immunity from becoming vain and temporal. You may have advantages you never thought of. "For my bad trait X, I still have a strength that benefits me. I can use it to be a better person"
I hope this can be helpful to someone but I'm no psychologist

No. 685858

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What's the appropriate thing to do going forward if you know your mom was extremely inappropriate with you sexually, but never actually molested you, and you know that she did most of it because she was abused as a child too?
I haven't moved out yet because I also allowed her to financially control me even after I turned 18, for years. Obviously I know I need to get out, but after that, what do I do?
Like where do I go from here in my life?
Mentally, it feels like I'm dying every single day.

No. 685870

>>685826
No, your boyfriend is just a gross manchild and you need to have higher standards.

No. 685901

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>>685858
I would strongly recommend therapy, I know it is expensive but there are affordable and free options if you look online.
After that thinking about the future might get easier.
Sending you a hug, keep venting in these threads and remember to keep updating also the good things

No. 685902

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MY RIGHT TIT HAS BEEN SENSITIVE FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS AND IM GOING INSANE

I've also been vaping a fuckton of weed the last few days so maybe I'm just hypersensitive. Phone doc app tomorrow.

I almost cried last night freaking out about inflammatory breast cancer, christ. It's not necessarily painful just… like almost but its constant. Even when I'm not high its there a little bit


…ANY OTHER ANONS HAVE EXPERIENCE WITH THEIR TITS DRIVING THEM CRAZY? ANYTHING BAD HAPPEN?!

No. 685903

>>685902
…I mean I get way too high pretty often but the tit thing is new

No. 685905

>>685903
Fucking samefag that was me talking to myself it isn't even important I need to stop coming here when high

There's a reason I posted in the dunce cap thread

No. 685907

How can I start listening to better music?
The "top 100 albums of all time" lists don't do much for me since I'm quite picky. I know what sounds/genres I like but digging through a whole genre can be overwhelming, though I did find some good albums that way.

No. 685909

What do you guys think of the FDS female dating strategy subreddit?

No. 685910

>>685907
Use /mu/ and start taking pride in having shit taste

No. 685911

>>685909
Are you new here? We have entire thread for it

No. 685916

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>>685902
>Komoe_(4).gif
why do you have four of these

No. 685919

I get stressed easily and ive started squeezing the pores on my tits instead of my nose….is this going to lead to damage like when the squeeze you the pores on your nose?

No. 685923

>>685911
Oops sorry just retarded. I don’t go to /g/ very often

No. 685938

>>685910
/mu/ is shit

No. 685953

how do i get over being embarrassed by trying to buy a gift for my boyfriend? i studied up on things he likes but he doesn't have a proper wishlist so i am having to pick out things i think he will like. right now i am picking out a fountain pen set and getting one of those wax seal stamps and i feel so embarrassed about actually choosing the design. i did a lot of research and will be unhappy if he doesn't like it. help!

No. 685955

>>685919
If you squeeze too hard and too much it could cause scarring also, how the fuck are you squeezing the pores on your breats? Do you just have really big pores or something? What even comes out of them

No. 685959

>>685907

Maybe look for the most popular/most liked albums and artists from the genres you like, then start looking for the more underground albums. So you can start slowly but there'll still be plenty of stuff for you to listen to. I usually seek out new music maybe like two days a week so I don't get overwhelmed, then I spend the other days going back and listening to it more to familiarise myself with what I found. Idk, just one idea for you anon, good luck!

No. 685962

>>685955
I dont think anon knows that might actually be Folliculitis ….

No. 685963

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>>685953
Enjoy the shame, you are alive! One day you will be old and over everything and remember those feelings fondly.

Nobody help this anon she needs to work it out for herself

No. 685966

>>685953
What makes you think he would like the fountain pen and seals? Genuinely asking, some anons might be able to suggest some stuff depending on what he likes. I think it's sweet you're putting in so much effort for the gift, but honestly you should just ask him what he would like, or if he's had his eye on anything (the latter is a little more subtle). I know some people are like "You don't have to get me anything!", but just tell him you're gonna get something anyway, so he might as well tell you before you waste your money.

>>685963
Did you reply to the wrong post or something? The pic doesn't really make sense lol.

No. 685969

>>685963
Lmao what is this reply.

No. 685970

>>685966
he likes ornate european rococo/victorian stuff and he was talking about learning calligraphy and writing letters a few days ago. i know he thinks wax seals are really cool at least and i am picking ones that i think he will like or ones with special meaning.

No. 685971

>>685966
adding to >>685970 i already think he will just tell me to not get him anything, but i did ask and will wait to see what he says.

No. 685975

>>685969
Just an old lady smiling at the idea of someone being so fresh to the world that buying a pen for their bf made them embarrassed enough to ask the internet for help

No. 685978

>>685955
essentially just the oil plugs or w/e, you know those tiny wispy hairs you have on your tits? like barely noticeable/almost invisible.

No. 685980

>>685975
i am the op and it's not the pen, retard. you clearly have no clue what i am talking about.

No. 685984

>>685980
That's not how you enjoy the ride of life, anon

No. 685985

>>685984
Confucius, you wildin'.

No. 685986

>>685984
i am on a different ride than you.

No. 685992

If you report a post and don't put in a reason for reporting, will it still go to mods?

No. 685994

>>685953
How are you old enough to hold hands with a boy but find it embarrassing to choose a gift? Is the clerk a wax seal expert who frowns on all the plebs who don’t use archaic stationary? Are you two months into a relationship and selecting a family crest combining your and bfs families?
Do you think clerks care if you know what you’re looking for or not?
What could possibly be embarrassing enough to be getting mad about?

No. 685996

>>685994
i am embarrassed about choosing the gift and him liking it or not, not about buying it.

No. 685997

>>685994
Not even that anon but, are you ok? Anon said nothing about clerks or even that she was mad.

No. 685999

>>685919
i do this too anon, it's not terrible occasionally but it can get infected and painful. for me, at one point i was doing it so much that the braille on my nips got bigger and started needing to be squeezed otherwise they would be sore and swollen. try to stop if you can, but for what it's worth, everything has healed up completely with no marks after a few months of a total tit-zit embargo (and i usually scar really easily, so don't worry too much). you really do have to be strict with yourself and completely stop in order to break the cycle when you decide to stop, though, because otherwise everything gets aggravated again.
tip from the top, i actually bought literal udder balm (i think it was mostly lanolin) to calm them down at their worst and that worked really well to soothe them, in case you need that for future reference.

No. 686000

>>685994
Nta but maybe she's scared of getting him a gift he won't enjoy. Like, even when you know someone's interests, you're still taking a shot in the dark when choosing a gift if they don't specifically tell you what they want. It's so nerve-wracking to sit there while they open the gift, worried the person doesn't actually like/want it. I totally get where OP is coming from.

No. 686002

>>685996
Males more sense but still weird. Do you mean you’re worried about making a bad choice?

No. 686003

>>686000
basically this. the embarrassing part is that i am researching a lot into his hobbies trying to be really thoughtful and romantic while knowing he's very particular. i don't want the gift, or my feelings to be rebuffed.

No. 686004

>>685997
They were mad enough to call someone a retard for asking why they’re embarrassed to buy a pen. Unless that’s not anger and anon calls people retarded all the time

No. 686006

>>686004
They (you) are being retarded with their dumb stoner "life advice".

No. 686007

>>685999
Thank you so much, it sucks because i was doing this to my nose/cheeks and my pores are noticeable scarred and bigger when they were originally really small. Idk how to stop, ive been doing it less and less by forcing myself but its like a stress reaction now when i feel overwhelmed or upset