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No. 720441
Wow anon, that was pretty stupid of you to ask a question about that
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>>711877 No. 720481
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Anyone have a meme saved that looks like picrel? It was a photo of two cops apprehending someone who was sitting wrapped in a blanket. Help I saw it once on Twitter like a year ago and have never found it again since
No. 720546
>>720491 yes you are just horny and lonely, it's a tragic condition but there is a 3 step cure.
1 masturbate (without porn) like actually get to know your body, what you like and how to get there
2 get a hobby that takes your mind off everything
3 get an exercise routine because sexual frustration is literal energy you need to process
If you get start dating without these three things even if you have a steady partner and a sex life it'll be kinda unsatisfying and you'll still secretly, guiltily crush on other people.
Also you're much more likely to get a good partner if you're in touch with your sexuality, have your own interesting shit going on, and look hot from all that horny exercise
No. 720547
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>>720481I tried to look for it, but no look with targeted words. But have a comfy pig being interrogated by the police.
No. 720651
>>720639I don't know what a "svelte look" is.
I mainly talk about what I've seen in my own friend groups over the years. Even girls with really pretty faces that were slightly overweight got a lot less attention than someone with a more unfortunate face but skinny body size.
No. 720661
>>720643The problem is that no matter how innocent you are, it's bad "optics".
Even worse, one time I let some teenager add me on Steam because whatever I don't talk to people on there. Years later I see on his profile he's grown into a Lolicon.
No. 720678
>>720674it's an "aesthetic" that's popular with tiktok/twitter/whatever users
the "dark" is for academic competition, peer pressure, sacrificing all of your time to studying
the "academia" is for overachieving, fancy school uniforms, classical buildings
>>720675 this anon put it better
No. 720686
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>>720674Dark academia is simply "Academic" fashion in dark and neutral colors. It's really nice and fashionable imo. There's a wiki that explains all aesthetics, btw.
https://aesthetics.fandom.com/wiki/Dark_Academia No. 720701
>>720643I'm 23 and recently found myself on a forum full of teens and kids… needless to say I didn't feel very comfortable talking with them so I dipped fast.
I guess around 18-20 is a cutoff point for me. Preteens and teens are just so dumb and careless online these days, on that forum I mentioned they were handing out their public instagram @s like crazy. A pedos paradise tbh
No. 720704
>>720689Height: Short.
Weight: Not really applicable as petite stands to designate proportion, someone with a more narrow build.
In the fashion world it strictly means short women. Because most clothing is tailored for taller women in western retail. It's annoying to constantly hem pants, and have shirts lay like tunic dresses.
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How many of all the Sonic the Hedgehog Christian fan drawings are genuine and how many are satire?
No. 720756
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wanna make memes like picrel. but idk what program/site has these dumbass fonts < - -like so. any ideas?
not this font specifically but yk
No. 720871
>>720791Same, though I've still gotta lose a couple of kg to get to your bmi. My height makes me feel elegant when I'm thin, but oversized when I'm chubby. And if I had bigger t&a would I go through the suffering of weight loss? Fuck no, I would embrace curviness and eat what I want, the little bit of softness on my stomach would actually look so nice with big boobs. But I am naturally flat and legitimately just can't pull off any extra weight, and losing weight is a lot easier than getting surgery or working out like crazy.
Certain beauty standards will be more attainable than others depending on your body type, it's easiest to just work with what we've got. Maybe one day I'll be secure enough to not care about beauty standards at all but until then, this is how I deal.
No. 720940
>>720925Seems like a waste of your own money.
You're literally paying someone to be a captive friend giving you their professional empathy, but even their empathy isn't real because your entire persona and narrative is admittedly a fake one.
No. 720972
>>720964I would never say that if i stubbed my toe, maybe if i saw a friend about to fuck up, a car slide into a ditch. That kind of urgent
oof sound.
No. 720973
>>720964Also can be used as a "
oof bitch look at THAT"
No. 720978
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so I have a mini trip over this next upcoming weekend, flying to las vegas nv saturday and arriving @ 11:40 am and then from there driving 3 hours to williams az, checking in to my hotel hopefully by 4 pm to leave my bags etc and then heading 1 hour to the grand canyon national park for the rest of the day weather permit and if it isn't too dark out(I'm in a different state/time zone so I have no idea around what time the sun starts to set in az), before coming back to my hotel in williams. I planned getting up early the next morning, sunday, and then before returning to vegas/after checking out of my hotel, go to bearizona along the way, stop if I see anything interesting and then spending the rest of the night in las vegas. I would return my car by 4 am or earlier if I got tired and sleep on the airport before departing at 7 am. But definetly by 4 am. But now I remembered the sequoia trees and I want to see them so bad, I'm thinking instead of heading to see the grand canyon again on early sunday morning, just drive over to california. The thing is that it's an EIGHT hour drive to go to that national park, so I would have to leave at 4 am to arrive by 12 pm, and I would have to head back to las vegas no later than 7 pm. so my stupid questions are, is that too rushed, should I just go back some other time and take my time? do you have to go to the national park to see any trees? if not, when exactly do you start seeing them? when I try to pinpoint it on google maps it shows me the national forest is 7 hours away, so not as far in as the national park. and finally what do those dots mean? pic related
No. 720987
>>720982ah okay thank you, that's what i was afraid of.
so I'm guessing that means you don't really see any trees until you get to the red thingymajig?
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>>720988I found it amusing too until I searched for the trees and now I want to travel across the world to visit too, kek.
No. 721028
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>>721020Stop fucking around with hormones. Hormones will not change your skeleton and if you feel you are too manly maybe you have an overabundance of male hormones, not a lack of female hormones. But whatever you do to your body it won't change your mind.
I think if you want to feel feminine you should try on different sorts of dresses, I think you should try really long dresses but I don't know much about what clothes flatter which people… Or maybe try a suit with a pencil skirt and a big hat and sunglasses and pretend to be super important… that would be so cool; anyways femininity isn't only being short in a fluffy skirt with a big bow
No. 721030
>>721024Yes. If you hate it, he should be happy for you to take a break.
Do you live with him or financially/physically support him in any way? That would raise my suspicions as to why he’d want you to stay.
No. 721043
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>>721027i've seen mtfs on trans subreddits and /lgbt/ say they've gotten slightly smaller after some months or years on hrt. not the size of the bones themselves that changes but their spacing (allegedly), like they become more compressed, lose muscle mass, and get a smaller frame over time. but idk how much of that is masturbatory twansgirl bullshit about being uwu smol and how much is legit. i know i sound like an extremely naive person but when you're desperate for something, you start to be more open to stupid beliefs. like cancer patients afraid of death drinking jilly juice in attempt to cure themselves
>>721031im going to look into seeing an endocrinologist soon to see if i actually do have an imbalance, instead of DIY-ing. maybe i do have pcos but i won't know for sure until i get diagnosed. i've been mistaken for a man just off my voice and barely have periods so i think there is something going on with me
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>>721026Speaking of Taylor Swifts weight gain, she had a tiny frame before she chubbed up. Now she looks quite a bit wider. Could you achieve the opposite effect by losing a lot of weight? Would your frame shrink? I heard something about losing visceral fat making you look more narrow.
No. 721088
>>721054It’s really not a bad thing, tbh, making online friends feels like a chore to me, most of the time i don’t end up truly connecting with them because bonding by text is not as easy as it is in person.
There’s also how there seems to be barely any people online, in their mid 20’s, that happen to have some idea of what to do with their lives?
It’s like there’s no in between, they’re either emotionally retarded or they’re already at another stage of life that feels foreign or something like that, making the connection with them really difficult.
No. 721131
>>721020did you get your natural hormone levels checked before you started taking extra?
>>721043real talk. the trannies are lieing and delusional
>im going to look into seeing an endocrinologist soon to see if i actually do have an imbalance, instead of DIY-ing. maybe i do have pcos but i won't know for sure until i get diagnosed. i've been mistaken for a man just off my voice and barely have periods so i think there is something going on with meyou very much need to get yourself checked out. you also need to tell them how much you took, when and how long ago. anon i have to ask. have you no support for this? your mother/sister or anything? someone must have noticed something if you are anything like you think you are. Voice thing maybe nothing. unregular periods you should have spoke to someone about
No. 721290
>>721288Samefag to say, obviously the community is different from the idea, and not everyone agrees on all points, and might be liberal on one standpoint and more radical on others.
Also by "ID>class" I mean how pedophilic-leaning guys can switch power dynamics just by identifying as trans, and even first generation refugee muslim women will be their oppressors.
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Does anyone even enjoy sitting up straight with legs at a perfect 90° angle in front of their PC? I really don't want a "gamer's neck", and it doesn't cause me discomfort to sit normally, but I naturally melt back into some weird yoga pose if I get absorbed reading something.
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Is there a way to avoid making someone uncomfortable when I do a counterfeit cash check?
I'm planning on selling stuff on Facebook Marketplace and only accepting cash to avoid chargeback scams. I'm not sure how to not make the other person feel insulted when I take out my UV flashlight… I feel like they'll ask why I think they would scam me or something when I only want to check because I think they might have fake bills and didn't even know themselves.
No. 721388
>>721375Just do it, and make sure you have someone else there with you.
Cashiers and bankers usually count out bills to make sure the amount is correct. The only people that would be insulted are the people who are trying to give you counterfeit cash. If you feel you have to say something, you can lightheartedly say that you've run into an issue in the past and you don't want to make the same mistake again.
No. 721425
>>721422what why? if you like men having double the men in porn is a plus, at least imo
its the same with dudes watching lesbian porn which is one of the most common genres of porn
No. 721452
>>721451oh no! the libfems are
triggered!
No. 721453
>>721430I actually stopped watching streams and find it hard to watch them now. I guess for me it was just a human voice to fill out my days, even though I never interacted with the streamer or gave them money. I also enjoy watching multiplayer games to get better, but I'm also a shit player who gets tilted very fast, so it's better for me mentally to stay away from competitive games.
Also I'm never giving out money for games that are 90% story. I'll just watch a stream/youtube videos instead.
No. 721462
>>721439>One part of me wants to say the kid should be born, so she goes through the pain of childbearing and thinks a bit longer next time and then the kid given up for adoptionTotally, anon! Lets force women to give birth to children they were going to abort, so there are more kids in foster care/adoption that will outgrow the system. It's a good idea make women who
didn't get pregnant because of "carelessness" give birth. Aborting the child she couldn't take care of is definitely not the better option for careless women! Nope, not at all. Also, the pain of childbirth is completely enough to stop people from having more than one kid.
What a stupid take.
No. 721482
>>721462ayrpt and well it's a stupid take not only in that sense but also in the sense that nobody would be able to know if a woman got pregnant due to carelessness in the first place and then say you can't have an abortion. I mean, at least I think nobody would admit to that. Personally I wouldn't– I've had careless thoughts before, like if he finishes inside it means he loves me, I could just take the morning after pill, so this isn't coming from someone that thinks they're holier-than-thou by any means.
Nonetheless, that's honestly how I feel and I wouldn't have blamed anyone that thought the same of past me. Abortion is safer than childbearing but it wasn't always this way.
No. 721524
>>721439I think life begins at conception and I'm pro - choice, my bodily autonomy always comes before any potential people's lives. I love women, I love myself and I want us to have control of ourselves and our lives.
Your second paragraph makes the think you just hate women. Accidental or unwanted pregnancy has always been a fact of life, for every woman in every situation, this is the only point in history where we've been able to safely do anything about it. The way you judge somebody for needing an abortion makes me think you may as well just be pro life, if you only think the 'right' women deserve it.
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>>721449hurt his feelings
No. 721536
>>720441anything i need to know about taking anonymous screen caps?
just worried because i've seen some people doxx themselves by accidentally posting their social media pfp in a screenshot, also reading about companies like blizzard sneaking in subtle watermarks to determine who leaked what info makes me paranoid.
i want to post en email i received from a company but i would kill myself if they watermark their shit like blizz b/c the email address i received it on is tied to my real name
No. 721602
>>720927In Italian it's an informal way of saying hi. "oioi" can also be used as an exclamation like in
>>720941 but ai/aiai/aia are more commom
No. 721614
>>721603https://www.huffpost.com/entry/if-a-child-is-born-out-of_b_872852#:~:text=In%20almost%20every%20state%2C%20the,rights%20until%20paternity%20is%20established.&text=In%20other%20words%2C%20short%20of,is%20by%20going%20to%20court.
>In almost every state, the mother of a child born out of wedlock automatically has 100% custody rights until paternity is established. However, even after paternity is established, it is the obligation of the father, if he wants custodial rights or parenting time with the child, to commence a court proceeding. In other words, short of an agreement between the parties, the only way the father can get any rights to the child is by going to court. Once there, the court must determine what is in the "best interest of the child."If you're a burger, you can possibly keep the father out of the picture.
No. 721616
>>721606it must've been the word "fathers" that tripped you up, I should've typed(? "a bioloogical father" lol
>>721614thank you sweet anon, thats such a bummer bc I
know they would want custody. Now I'm wondering if the court mandates paternity tests but that narrows it down
No. 721652
apparently a mom can refuse a paternity test if anyone was wondering, i was probably the only one that didn't know though lol
>>721621I don't even have a baby yet and I've only been with him for going on three years but I like to be one step ahead. I know that makes me sound neurotic but whatever lol.
Growing up, I always liked the idea of getting pregnant through artificial insemination since I could raise the kid however I want and not bump heads with the father. I wouldn't be tied to anyone and it allows me more freedom. But I'm now in a relationship with someone I love and they want to be a dad someday.
Tbh I've never really liked men and I never thought I'd meet one I would really like let alone love. He makes me want to have kids with him and I think he would make a decent dad but while we're compatible in a lot of ways, some disagreements have started to crop up and I've realized we don't see too eye-to-eye as I thought we did. Which I know it's only normal but to me it's a bit of a dealbreaker. He's also said things that've made me side eye him and insecure in the relationship and that combined with the fact things change and our relationship may crumble in the future just like a lot of things do, I don't want to ever be tied to him because of a kid. I want to be able to leave and have him not know anything about the whereabouts of me and my kid whenever. It's not really him, it's just a preference of mine and I would say the same thing if it were another guy in his place. Hell even if my SO was perfect, I would still want to have full custody of my kid. I just can't help being suspicious of men it seems. sorry if that offends anyone LOL
Maybe this is coming from an immature mindset though and I would want to see my kid happy and let them see their dad? dunno. I've been thinking about this because he wants to get married and I don't for obvious reasons. Not like I know we'll break up youknow lol I obviously hope we never do but I'm also aware that it's not up to me and things happen.
>>721628Different sentences ma'am. I was talking about myself in the first one and then in the last two I switched to third person to basically ask the same question but in a different way in case my first question was too confusing
No. 721664
>>721439I don't think it matters when life begins tbh, what matters is that the fetus is an inherently parasitic lifeform and the normal ethical rules re murder should not apply to them. There's really no other situation just like pregnancy so there's no precedent, it should be judged on it's own and the most reasonable judgement is that the fetus is inextricably dependent on one specific person's physical body, so that one specific person should have full control over whether to remove or keep it.
> I'm still not sure about cases of plain carelessness on the mom's part. One part of me wants to say the kid should be born, so she goes through the pain of childbearing and thinks a bit longer next time and then the kid given up for adoption,This, however, is some of the dumbest and most evil pro lifer bullshit I've ever heard in my life. Children should not be a punishment and the 'crime' of careless sex (or failed birth control, or rape) is not equivalent to childbirth let alone raising a kid. What kind of shitty religious tradthot are you that carelessness warrants forced birth and all the risks and life ruining potential it carries with it?
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(mental health related)
On the recent session my therapist pointed out that I'm very self obsessed, while having extra low self-esteem; which I realize is pretty true, kinda like reverse narcissism where instead constantly focusing on how i'm the best I'm constantly focused on what a fuckup I am. Anyone has experience with anything similar? I'd love to do some more research on this but typing terms like narcissism or being self-centered, even paired with low self esteem, i only get results about people thinking they're the best. Ofc I'm gonna ask my therapist in the future but I would love to read more about it beforehand if possible.
No. 721685
>>721664Careless sex isnt failed birth control or rape obviously, I gave an example of what i consider it to be here
>>721482.
I'm not religious, that's just honestly how I feel. You only think it's evil because you consider fetuses parasites.
No. 721698
>>721652Curious why you wouldn’t go down the artificial insemination route in the first place? That would save you all this trouble. I can’t see any benefits to you having a kid with someone you know versus artificial insemination from the situation you’re describing. The second option sounds like it would be ideal for you.
I can understand your problem if you plan to have kids very soon, but honestly it sounds like you’re losing interest in your current relationship so maybe it’s time to break it off before having kids.
No. 721708
>>721696I can sort of understand what anon is saying, but only because I read the blog of a woman who thinks similiarly. Like people taking responsibility and not fucking around with no protection in casual relationship, and realize that if they do fuck their partner there's always a chance to have a kid, and take responbility either by avoiding conceiving or by raising the kid (for both sexes), and even if the prevention was more considered, the number of abortion needed would be minimal.
I think it's a heavily nuanced question, although I don't even agree with the statement that life begins at conception.
No. 721722
>>721708>take responbility either by avoiding conceiving or by raising the kid (for both sexes)Having an abortion IS taking responsibility for your mistakes, why the fuck do people think women are flippant about abortions? They're not a fucking get out of jail free card, they are invasive, traumatic, expensive and sometimes difficult to obtain. You don't need to force women to endure birth and the presence of an unwanted child for women to realize their mistakes by not taking birth control seriously.
It's beyond me how people immediately stop caring about the welfare of a child from the moment it's born. A kid born to ill prepared, irresponsible parents who DON'T WANT A CHILD is going to suffer, end of story. There is no winner in the situation when a woman is forced to have a child, except moralizing pro lifers who can conveniently ignore and forget about a precious life once it's born. As long as the woman gets punished for having sex, that's enough right?
No. 721725
>>721715Plenty of careless people become parents and do an OK job. There are also people that plan for a family and do a shit job. And a lot of "conception=life" people think that not being born is unfair. Children are a consequence of sex, and it's not supposed to be a punishment, but the biological consequence of bumping uglies. I do agree with these more trad women in one point, and that people got way too disconnected from the idea that we're animals reproducing in pairs, and while sex is fun and a way to connect, it's also there to have babies, and you should really think twice (or ten times) about just jumping into it.
Also the one blogger I paraphrased doesn't think men should get off scott free, they'll just try because they're shit. They should go through the same mental process and try to prevent pregnancies just as much as women.
No. 721750
>>721725>And a lot of "conception=life" people think that not being born is unfairAlright? Doesn't mean I agree with that.
>Children are a consequence of sex, and it's not supposed to be a punishment, but the biological consequence of bumping uglies.But they are to people who don't want them. I'm not saying people shouldn't take responsibility for their actions, but making people have kids is not the way to do that. Encouraging careless people to have children just cause some do and it worked out is fucking stupid.
Let's just agree to disagree I guess.
No. 721754
>>721697I wish we could reinforce the same backlash with their ugly shining bald heads but I fear they'd respond with physical violence because of their fragile egos.
>>721699> First it felt embarrasing, then I realised I don't even date guys and that shit doesn't concern me, fuck them ugly scrotes.Based, don't ever change. I don't care/date either but I was reading a thread about turn offs with both men and women participating and I was surprised at the amount of men noticing arm hair. I pity women that bother putting that much effort for a disgusting scrote.
>>721701I'm glad you didn't have any negative comments past school. I didn't think arm hair was such a turn off for so many dudes then again but it could be just scrotes being vocal.
No. 721767
>>721722> Having an abortion IS taking responsibility for your mistakes,People also think that abortion is something that women do easily and laugh during the ordeal while drinking martinis. And even if the woman doesn't feel any sort of guilt, the procedure itself is very invasive and painful. I never had an abortion myself but I did volunteer at women's shelters and a good number had to go through an abortion for various reasons. It was always a painful subject and when you have prolifers yelling at you outside of designated clinics, making your life harder without bothering to understand your position and the circumstances around difficult choices, it makes you hate people.
Of course, it doesn't mean it's hard just for the
victims of domestic abuse. I've known of a couple that did it because they knew they couldn't afford it and it doesn't make their choice any less painful or easy to make. But prolifers don't care just as they stop caring after the child is born. They're the most hypocritical bunch. Do you think you ever see one of their kind volunteering at shelters or helping community? No. But they're very vocal when it comes to pushing choices on people.
No. 721808
>>721797The "create your own space" is literally something people say to
POC when we talk about representation and job opportunities lmao
No. 721814
>>721800very true
>>721802I'm a
terf in the making so trying to find what the difference is. It feels nazi-ish I'll admit but it
also feels like guilt tripping. We know the men of all races unite in their hate for women, their hate for women trumps their hate of a black man they consider inferior.
No. 721821
>>721802>>721797>>721808haha okay tell me when you find an unapologetic racist who is also a proud radfem who runs with other radfems. show me your pro-racism radfems please.
search "you're kidding right?" on youtube.
there are plenty of black radfems saying the same shit (that aren't getting their heads in tizzy trying to throw
POC under the bus for fetishistic men)
No. 721836
>>721825np I meant there are
poc radfems that are advocating for sex-based rights, not the racism.
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>>721802>black women entering women's bathrooms is comparable to literal men entering women's bathroomswe're doing this again?
No. 721871
>>721849no one here is a medical professional plus you have a heart condition so you would really have to visit the hospital if you start to feel ill
all I can say is drink a lot of water and pee a lot but seriously don’t ask us retards go to the hospital lmao
No. 721873
>>721849you're probably be fine, just gonna be awake and maybe anxious for a while. take note if your heart starts palpitating. or anything else out of the ordinary changes.
if its anything like adderall it takes a LOT over the reccomended dose to really do harm. try to eat and drink lots of water, stimulants can be rough on an empty stomach.
maybe clean something
No. 721882
>>721873okay I somehow didn't see the heart condition part.
you could find a friend or family member who does have insurance, you could use their info to call the advice nurse the insurance carrier provides.
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>>720597sneed – snail-ish speed, sneeze weed, snow weed, sneeze need. Where'd you hear this word nonstress?
No. 721949
>>721929spam accounts on Instagram are basically private accounts where people post about their lives, except unlike "privs" they're usually followed by strangers (with other spam accounts usually). I used to have one as a teenager in the mid 2010s, they're called "spam" accounts because before Instagram had stories we used to post loads of random pictures (selfies, memes, pictures of our ceiling) every day and blog or shitpost in the caption. Basically what twitter profiles are today but on Instagram. Then ig added stories so the spam element wasn't really there anymore but they're still called that. They were especially popular among "emo" (or the 2015 blue pixie cut they/them dan and phil version of emo) and fandom girls.
Some spam accounts would become really popular and the owners were kind of like small influencers, for example idk if people know this but youtuber noahhfince's (who's got half a million subscribers today) following orginially started on his ig spam account that got really big for whatever reason
I haven't really used my spam since 2018 though so idk if the community's changed significantly, I think teenagers these days have mostly moved to twitter so I imagine the spam accounts that are being discussed in /snow/ are of the og spam teens who grew up and never moved on lol
No. 722032
>>721960yeah that's why i don't kek
Even the "best" men are still inconsiderate assholes. It's a shame they're so sexy.
I feel like it's kind of like those sugar-free gummy bears. looks like it would be so fun and it initially tastes amazing but then they fuck you up so bad you're shitting your guts out for way longer than it took you to eat them and you already bought the 2 pound bag which is gonna sit around in your house forever. and then you'll be like "ah maybe it wasn't so bad, I'm misremembering, and after all they look so tasty" and then before you know it you're on the toilet shitting your brains out again
No. 722059
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>>722048Samefag and as a straight woman i would think it was totally worth it to deal with mens bullshit if most of them were hot but the majority of them look like shit. Everytime a cute guy rejects me or leaves me I feel like shit because I might not see another one for the next year…its just sad as shit when a average or ugly guy wants to be fwb, cheats or just want to hook up. If most men looked like pic related I would take any bullshit they threw at me with a smile.
No. 722065
>>722059>If most men looked like pic related I would take any bullshit they threw at me with a smile.Avan Jogia is hot, but not hot enough for that, babe. If he was just a little less attractive, he would look like a half Indian he-who-must-not-be-named
ad4m dr1v3r. He is sexy though. Nickelodeon did a good job with the Victorious cast.
No. 722145
>>722073I was often told by my friends growing up that I would make a handsome man and wish we could just date each other. It sounded pretty nice, unfortunately I'm 97% straight. I also enjoy the typically "masculine" house chores because (surprise) they're often more show-offy and exciting.
I don't think men really ever dream about bring like a normal, middle-class wife, doing dishes and dinner while the kids run around. At most they want to be trophy wives wearing fetish clothing.
No. 722175
>>722073The thing is, if we were men, we probably wouldn’t know what women wanted. Unless you’re suggesting a case of trooning out or magically waking up in a man’s body one day.
That being said, my brothers are decent men so I likely would have turned out the same. We didn’t have a good upbringing, definitely not raised feminist either, but they are good partners and fathers.
Now I’m thinking about it, being a real nice guy would be cool. Once I was in a taxi with a friend’s dad and the driver started chatting about the women’s football game on TV that night. Friend’s dad tried to make hur hur aren’t women shit at football? banter, but the guy shut him down and kept talking about how much he loved the women’s sport. It was funny, I would want to do that shit all the time.
No. 722184
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anons who know anything about male j-fashion, does this fit in any particular style?
No. 722245
>>722218This is a difficult question because the logical answer is “just stop, don’t overthink it” but as an overthinker that’s not very helpful.
I used to be a chronic overthinker, wouldn’t say I’m completely cured but found ways to ease it. Depending on what you tend to overthink about, accept that it’s probably a waste of your time. You’re likely way past the point of thinking doing any good, or leading to any new revelations (I’ve actually found they tend to happen randomly once I’ve stopped thinking about something). Stop pissing away your limited time and mental energy for nothing.
If you feel unable to completely let go of overthinking, work with it rather than against it. Channel your energy into something positive. Use overthinking to your advantage in work or school. If that’s not possible, find something else to do. It can be an advantage rather than a burden.
Also, if you’re one of those people who can’t relax, learn to do nothing. Not necessarily meditation, just learn to be comfortable with not having your thoughts racing 24/7. You’re allowed to not be thinking of anything.
No. 722273
>>722175Ok, maybe not what women
want persay, but I think most decent people would definitely know what
not to do without being told because they ask themselves if they would want to be on the receiving end first and have what they're doing done to them. And even then, that's still kind of knowing what someone wants. I think it's safe to say everyone wants to be treated like they're and that's more of what I meant. Or are you saying being born a man makes you a shit person?
Right? lol I just want to be the token guy who doesn't engage in misogyny sometimes and actively shames misogynist men. Specially a burly man so I can intimidate them while doing so.
No. 722313
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>>722261>>722263>>722265thanks nonnies, here's a pomodoro for you
No. 722400
>>722396IDK, I think they do, obviously talks about it won't be as heated as on imageboards because it's a very uncomfortable topic to handle IRL.
Also what
>>722399 said.
No. 722408
>>722403it's true that it's more common than social media would have you believe but I wouldn't say that
most people do
No. 722415
>>722407>Just break upI don't want to derail this thread but you do realize not everyone has that option? If I were to break up with my sweetheart on bad terms I'd be spending the night outside with my stuff.
I didn't have a bf who got conscripted but I know plenty of people who did. Yeah, they cheated but it kept the relationship together. I've been to ones wedding lol
No. 722416
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>>722403>Most people cheat, and everyone who actually socializes knows thisFuck, this makes me so sad. Even when I'm trying to convince myself this anon is just trolling it's just such an awfully upsetting thought.
No. 722427
>>722416Nah, it completely depends on the social circled you hang in. I've groups of friends that think cheating is horrible, men and women that loathe people that cheat and have actually ostracised people that think it's normal. I've also got friends that think alcohol and drugs changes people and justifiable to forgive people that cheat while not in the right mindset. The first group had a lot of heavy drug users too but funny enough they still could remember that it's a dick move to cheat on a partner. The people I know thst normalise cheating are also the ones in
abusive relationships and normalise fighting with their partners in social settings making everyone else feel awkward as fuck.
No. 722434
>>722403Idk how to break it you but uh, you’re surrounded by terrible people and are most likely one of them. My condolences.
>>722415And yet you derailed anyway to virtue signal. Don’t you think if one is in danger of homelessness by breakup they should prioritize securing a roof before cheating?>>722396
I only encourage cheating when a person is in
abusive codependent relationship and needs to ween off emotionally before leaving their abuser.
No. 722457
>>722396I hadn't noticed many OTT reactions to it tbh
I got cheated on years ago and within days of the break up I felt ok. I usually take break ups quite badly but I felt no real loss given those circumstances. 3 years pf living together and I walked away days later feeling alright. I'm pretty sure he would've reacted violently if I dared cheat on him though.
No. 722478
>>722416Take it with a grain of salt.
How common and "unspoken yet acceptable" cheating is among social groups really depends. All of my most well-adjusted, educated acquaintances do not cheat on their partners and look down on infidelity. These tend to be the people with the means to live independently, so cheating on a partner they don't even have to continue being in a relationship with in the first place is a waste of their time and setting themselves up for trouble as far as they're concerned.
People who tend to write off cheating and justify it, in my experience, tend to be the people without a choice to be single and thriving. Ditto for people who continue relationships where they know they're being cheated on. The option to go without a partner just isn't there due to financial or emotional reasons. Maybe abuse. Maybe codependency.
Whatever it is, cheating is not normal.
No. 722502
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Why tf does this look so off to me
No. 722556
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Why can't we use text emoticons? I know emojis break the site or some shit but how could text emotes do that
No. 722584
>>722565Thank you, I wasn't trying to hijack your post but just needed you to know that it's not an option, even if you were kidding. Please look after yourself. I don't mean to sound patronising because I don't know your struggles but nothing in life is ever made worse by a warm drink and a long sleep. I hope you can treat yourself with compassion and do this for yourself. Don't think too hard about anything until after you've done that.
>>722559Yeah it's fucked up. I think because I have psychiatric issues they thought I was a flight risk but honestly I don't remember a lot, even two weeks after waking up. I'm going through the process of trying to access my records and my coma diary to learn about everything that happened to me and my body because it has been quite traumatic, but it feels like I'm running around in administrative circles with them. I'm still basically immobile with nerve damage from my back, my physio has also tried to get my medical information because she can't treat an injury if she doesn't know what it is and how it happened, but she's been met with the infamous NHS wall of silence.
My paranoid little theory is that a few members of staff were negligent in order for this guard to have used such unnecessary force against a recovering coma patient and they're trying to save their necks.
No. 722590
>>722574Placebo is only given in case of trial group being formed; everyone is told that they've received a real vaccine and then it's observed how well actual vaccine works as compared to placebo. It's never given to non-consenting patients (as in- non-consenting to partaking in a trial), so there's no issue when it comes to misleading anyone. There's no such thing as polio placebo in a medical field.
As in to what is in placebo vaccine - nothing, it's just neutral liquid injected into body.
No. 722605
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>>722556it brings out 12 year old weebs and people like this
No. 722742
>>722741I kept the piercing for about 5 years with very decreased sensation in it.
After I retired the piercing and let it heal it gained sensation again (wasn't expect that) and it's now my 'good nipple' again.
No. 722895
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Anons who regularly eat cauliflower in yummy forms, what healthy shit should I make with a fresh head of cauliflower? I don't like meat and can't have quinoa if that helps.
No. 722897
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>>722895break it up into smaller parts, put a bit of olive oil on them, roast in the oven, there's no better way to eat cauliflower. No spice or salt or anything else needed, though some people add it.
No. 722908
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what are your most obscure husbandos?
No. 722911
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>>722908i guess he's the most obscure one i have
No. 722918
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>>722908Endrance from .hack
No. 722920
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>>722908Kokkuri-san, he cooks, he cleans, he is kind to children, is immortal, has fox ears and tail, has long silver hair. The only drawback is his anime sucks
No. 722925
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>>722908I'd say Monsoon from MGR and Liu Yiwu from Terra Formars (they are both from dead franchises). A year ago I would have said Ashiya Dōman from FGO but he has exploded in popularity ever since his implementation in the game last december.
No. 722933
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>>722908The mc from My Friend Pedro. He's so obscure he doesn't even have a name.
No. 722935
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>>722908Kell from Shades of Magic, he’s hot and cute, bonus points because cute ginger men are a rare treat.
No. 722987
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I'll confess and say that I'm an imageboard newfag..anyway
Lolc vs. Crystalc?
>the pros and cos
>any interesting history
>which one is more active
No. 722992
>>722168Happiness comes from within, but I do think external factors have a lot of influence on whether you can find it within yourself. It's hard to find happiness within yourself when you're working a job that you may feel is a dead end, or is very physically/emotionally taxing and leaves you with very little energy. Or if you are stuck with a shitty friend group, or shitty family members, or even just shitty neighbors. Maybe the area you live in fucking sucks. I think you can still find peace despite these things, but for me, a lot of my external environment prevented me from really finding "happiness". It's not same for everyone, but I think my friendships are like the cherry on top in my life. Yes, I might still be able to live my peaceful and simple life without any real attachment or bonds to people, but knowing that there are people that love and care about me as much as I do for them is something I find personally fulfilling in my life. I don't place my happiness entirely within these people (or in anything external), but I feel like I exchange small bits and pieces of my self with them.
I'll shill to you the same book I've shilled time and time again on this board and to anyone who will listen to me irl. It's called "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck" by Mark Mason. Sorry, it's written by a scrote. Sorry, it is a self help book that you might think is stupid and just full of common sense that everyone should know anyway, but honestly, I read this book years ago and it helped me reframe a lot of my thinking and worldview, and I'm quite happy now. A major point in the book is that happiness is garbage, it's fleeting, and you will
never find happiness if your goal is to be happy, because you'll always move that goal post. Instead, figure out what bullshit you're willing to put up with because it's a lot easier to figure out what you're not willing to tolerate in your life. Those things don't really change all that much. It feels weird to proclaim that I'm ~*~*happy*~*~. I didn't seek it out, I was just trying to make my shit situation less shitty. What I ended up with is not glamorous or anything worth bragging about, but it allows me to focus on the things that I find valuable. The bar was on the ground and I could only go up from there.
I don't really have an answer on how to validate yourself, or how to be self sufficient. My journey to feel like I am enough of a person to be worthy of love and happiness has been years in the making, and will continue to be. I think the first step is wanting that change for yourself, and the steps after to achieve it are different for everyone. I hope you'll be able to find some happiness in the future.
No. 723010
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>>722987Lolc is more active and interesting, but crystalcafe has its moments. Sometimes the drama from here spills over to there, and crystal has a few "interesting" characters like Wildchild. I think the main difference is the attitude to trans people (positive there, negative here).
Welcome aboard, anon!
No. 723055
>>722987CC
> A lot of immature girls, who are either teenagers either womenchilds that do nothing but whine about their discord e-boyfriend> A big chunk of trannies who pretend to be whamen, or maleposters in general> It's only a good place if you want to stare at anime pictures or vent (without any advice given)
> CC is not too active unless it's listening to neverending whining about stupid shit or e-boyfriends, while LC is more active than CC
> The only interesting story that I saw was anon making a thread about her whining over her ex-ebf who cheated on her, just to end up whining that he messaged her again later. In the end she started proudly screaming that she is back together with him and they both are really happy while LARPing as 02 from darling in the franxx.TLDR People come to CC just to vent.
No. 723089
Why isn't the dumbass shit thread called something like "casual conversation"? The retarded shitpost thread is just anons going "blub blub", but the dumbass shit thread is anons having conversation with no particular theme.
>>723084It's sometimes normal, but doing so obsessively several times a day unconsciously is not. It acts more as a self-soothing mechanism to assure oneself that they're "still skinny"
No. 723095
>>723084Idk I don't read the anachan threads, but knowing the community it's possible that anons are calling out girls who post pictures of themsleves visibly underweight to "recovery" or other supposedly "not pro ana" accounts and act like they don't know what they're doing (
triggering others + showing off how skinny they are)
No. 723148
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>>723055>>723021>>723010Alright got it, so lc is superior thanks guys.
>Welcome aboard, anon!Oh thank you!
>There's an old thread in the catalog here Ooo, I'll go search for it thanks.
No. 723162
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>>723110>>723133>implying men who jack off to rape porn and anal are skilled, patient and giving enough for any straight woman to be considered a pillow princessWhen scrotes sob into their Cheetos about "pillow princesses" it's because the woman just lays there while they feebly lurch away. They get upset if she isn't needlessly groaning and gyrating despite a complete lack of skill, so they call her a spoiled pillow princess as if to imply she's receiving unearthly pleasures with nary a sign of gratitude, when in fact she's just waiting for it to be over
No. 723168
>>723133Thank you anon! I'm kind of figuring myself out right now so I have no idea where to look for this kind of stuff lol I should probably start lurking the /g/ sexuality threads and r*ddit
>>723162Why are you mad? I didn't say being a pillow princess is bad. Calm down with the scrote accusations. I'm not even sure where straight men come into the equation here, cause y'know, women give head too.
No. 723193
>>723177I'm sure there's
at least one man, c'mon….right?
No. 723213
>>723177Then maybe it was a misunderstanding on my part, sorry. I thought you were trying to say I'm a man for using the word "pillow princess". Anyway, there are def straight men that are good at giving head.
I would consider a dude a "sheet sire" or whatever the fuck if he liked receiving more than giving tbh.>>723204Nah, I don't think so. You can be attracted to something without wanting to actually fuck it, if that makes since. Like, the butthole, and the booty cheeks are two different things although they are related to each-other. I don't think boob guys always want boob-jobs.
No. 723222
>>723213No worries. Yeah, I wasn't intending to accuse you and it just brought to mind several bros (including an ex who complained about his first girlfriend like this) who
definitely weren't satisfying anyone but still acted like their partners were oh so fortunate to be gifted with their mindless hammering. There are definitely far more sheet sires, men ought to cater to their partners and do so gladly
No. 723356
>>723354exercises like these from the Lesson 1 of
https://drawabox.com/ (lines and ovals), it will help you get more confident with your lines and more used to the general feel of working with the tablet as opposed to how traditional medium art feels like, sinix has a video on it but it's exact same exercises pretty much.
No. 723357
>>723346if you can find other pics of them:
1. you notice their chest is higher
2. posture is stiff
3. leaning slightly forward
5. uncomfortable face
No. 723384
>>723371She acts kind of cowlike herself, made a bunch of IG posts about how she was getting off to graphic descriptions of what happened, acting like she's better than "vanillas", basically acting like a stereotypical kinkfag, and recently went after another
victim who tried speaking up. That doesn't mean she's not a
victim though.
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>>723328Okay, party shitter.
No. 723436
>>723035Thank you for the update! I thought that was the case and that it would fall under the racebait rule but didn’t want to report it just to be clowned for being sensitive or some dumb shit if it wasn’t a reportable offense.
>>723037I was raised Catholic actually, but in my experience everyone raised within one of the 3 has a very familiar sense of voyeurism they navigate life through.
No. 723483
>>723468There was cooking thread here
>>>/ot/173978 but it’s locked for some reason so I guess make new one anon
No. 723512
>>723439What is the interest rate? That is extremely important. Are you in the US? If so, I recommend you first fully fund a Roth IRA - that's $6,000 for the year. Let that money sit for as long as you can and you'll be able to withdraw it tax free in retirement.
If you have a high interest loan, I'd say anything above 4%, pay it off as soon as you can (after you fund that Roth IRA). If it's lower than that, consider increasing your 401k contributions if you have that option, and if not, open a brokerage fund and invest in the S&P 500 or a total stock fund. On average, the S&P has 7% returns, so if your interest rate is low, you'd be paying more interest, but overall making more on your growth in the market.
No. 723526
>>723522samefag but it seems nonsensical to me your
tongue determines how your maxilla and mandible grow. The concept of "correct tongue posture" couldn't possibly be a thing because it makes more sense how your tongue is positioned is determined by your jaw rather than the other way around. It isn't correct or incorrect, it just is.
No. 723553
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any ladies know sauce? a friend sent it to me the other day asking if i could sleuth for it but i let her down, at this point i even want to know for myself and not just to impress her. tw degeneracy
No. 723577
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is it possible to get shadowbanned on lolcow?
No. 723579
>>723553Not the anon sleuthing with you, but I found out it's called
The Girl & the Super Gay Boner by Aihi Yamada. Thank Google.
No. 723708
>>723681Thanks for the rec! I've never watched American TV shows with that theme so I haven't watched A&E Hoarders yet but I will.
>but I think in the tlc ver it's just two British ladies cleaning the houses, not a huge clean up crew and therapistSounds exactly like what we had in France at some point, the TV show was called "c'est du propre", the two women who were cleaning disgusting places were so sassy.
No. 723750
>>723748AG was specifically made for radfems, CC does have a
terf thread, but also a lot of degenerates and undercover trannies
No. 723760
>>723736It’s boring af. The nonnies there are kind of dumb. I like pinkpill and
terf spergery but only if it’s well versed and eloquent, otherwise it’s just cringe.
No. 723867
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>>723861I would like to be the leader of a "gang" of abandoned teenagers but in fact we are not a gang I just tell them that so they join and then we do charity work and I look after them so they don't end up in a real gang. Pic slightly related
No. 723923
>>723892far-left leaning discord servers tend to be very fragile in an annoying way (eg. I've been told I 'gave off passive-aggressive vibes' when I was being straightforward, or people were constantly afraid of offending each other). It's probably not about you.
Anyways, what the hell is "locals" in the context of twitter? Like the phrase 'local twitter'?
No. 723938
>>723928I guess allow her to be as vulnerable/emotional/empathetic/insecure/other feminine tropes as other women you're writing, but better at concealing it/coping with it in different ways/pushing past it.
It could be an internal monologue or it could be something a character notices, "voice firm but slightly trembling fist" or something (generic example)
Sorry if this is garbo advice I just read books, don't write em
No. 723966
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why do people act like Indian food stinks? I used to eat it every day since I was a kid, have I become nose blind, or is it because they're referring to Indian takeouts specifically? Sure, if you buy it from a shitty takeaway, it's gonna smell bad, but if you actually made it at home, it smells alright imo
No. 723977
>>723966I like the smell (and the food) but it's very strong and gets into everything.
I stayed in India for several months and when I came back people told me I smell of curry when I sweat.
No. 724006
>>723781In my experience men are huge gossips in the workplace, they just don’t consider it gossiping because they associate that behaviour with women. There’s a more neutral word in my native country which basically means ‘gossip’ which men will use, yet they will never admit to gossiping. I find that distancing themselves from the ‘feminine’ word makes them more prone to actually gossiping lol. They don’t worry about looking like a bitch or unprofessional, as women often do.
Currently working in a male-dominated workplace and find its full of gossips with no self awareness. Yet the only ones labelled so are the few women who buy into the
toxic culture.
No. 724021
>>723781I worked for a company where 95 percent of staff were male and the gossiping was unreal there. I wanted to just switch off after work…not get group chat messages or emails about some creepy thing the (well known office weirdo) did that day. Yes he was weird and yes the bosses son was an ass too but I don't need all these gossipy updates outside of work hours. I think gossips can be either gender.
My local town gossip where I live is an old single man down the road from me. I avoid him like the plague.
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Are my eyes hooded? I think they are but I can't really tell. I hope this doesn't count as a selfie. Pls no ban.
No. 724056
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Okay so what if a package was delivered to my home, it has someone else's name and someone else's address, but the delivery persons gone, and someone opened the package before i figured out what house it was. I can't just put the stuff back in the ripped package and drop it off in their mailbox?
No. 724080
>>724062No, they're to the side of my house accross the street. pic related, I'm red, they're green.
I didn't even mean to steal it, I didn't look at the info thingy on the package until after the delivery man was gone. I told my mom about it and she said to just leave it there so her husband could walk it over to them. Next thing I know he had opened it and since it was women stuff told me to keep it. I put it all back inside but you can obviously see it was opened. I'm wondering if I should deliver it nonetheless or since im most likely already in trouble not?
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>>724080forgot to attach picture.
No. 724092
>>724089being opened i mean
>>724088Was this pre covid anon? I don't know if I'm asymptomatic either, and maybe I have covid. They also could say I was putting their health at risk? idk
No. 724096
>>724089I'm not in the US but my neighbors have opened my stuff before and then re-taped it and left it at my door and said sorry. Keeping the parcel would be way worse imo
A while ago I had a neighbor open my menstrual cup parcel.. the cringe, but I'm still glad she didn't keep it.
No. 724131
>>724127nta but I use lel.
It still conveys the meaning of lol just with more substance and style.
No. 724137
>>724121"wahhhhh you need to add /s to the end of your jokes online because I'm unable to read contextual cues."
nothing proves the case better than those twitter cancellations stemming from dredged up tweets from back before people weren't (wilfully) unable to understand context.
No. 724142
>>724134I suppose in a weird way, androgynous people might appeal more to those who are more heterosexual? Like your sexual interest is in men, so a man - who is still a man despite wearing a skirt or a bit of make-up - is more attractive than a woman who you're not sexually interested in.
If you're bi, you're interested in both men and women, so you don't need to "trick" yourself into figuring out why you're attracted to a more androgynous person.
It made sense in my head, not sure how well I communicated it.
No. 724143
>>724134You don’t have to find
everyone attractive if you’re bi, anon. Don’t worry about it.
No. 724182
>>724147I like masculine men and feminine women and everyone GNC too. It's not like your taste isn't 'bi enough', there's no such thing.
>"what if i'm actually straight and just have internalized the male gaze too?"That's like internalized biphobia 101, don't worry about it. Also start dating women, you'll feel way less anxious about everything once you've got some confidence with both genders.
No. 724266
>>724263I think it might be something like when you’re dating a guy, you’re just meeting him and such, maybe even fucking, but he doesn’t call you his girlfriend and you don’t refer to him as your boyfriend. It shouldn’t be considered serious.
And I’m guessing that having a boyfriend means you see each other as partners and you’re willing to do stuff together like living together, maybe marrying if you’re into that.
No. 724294
>>724287I honestly think it depends on what you agree to do, like both of you need to ask each other “what are we?” And if you’re “just dating” and nothing serious, then it should be Okay to date other people on the side.
The thing with some scrotes is that they think that flirting means you’re already planning a future with them, so it’s better to just ask about such things when you’re intimate enough with each other -ie, talking about hanging out at the other one’s home, planning short trips- to avoid some annoying and confusing moments.
No. 724296
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how did one of you fucking faggots somehow produce this azelia screenshot at 8pm today when it's not 8pm here yet
yes i know time zones exist but you think the metadata would adjust
No. 724310
>>724296Lmaoo it
was 8 pm in my timezone idk what else to tell you
No. 724311
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>>724296samefag, check this one out anon I took it
tomorrow No. 724317
>>724315It's literally nothing to do with gender roles, it's about wanting to spend time with your SO. It's not hard to see something that would be enjoyable for a couple and then ask your SO to share that experience with you. If you're the only one initiating, he's lazy, and if he's the only one initiating, you're lazy.
And if both of you are passing the responsibility, might as well give up. People spend time with people they want to spend time with. People put effort into relationships they care about.
No. 724354
>>724315That's weird anon.
I mean you both should be equally asking each other on "dates" even if it's small because it's fun to go out and do shit with your partner.
Imo it's fine to be more comfortable with a guy initiating dates but you have to be with a guy who actually wants to do that for you. This guys doesn't sound like your kind of ticket.
If you can't come up with one or two date ideas every now and then just to appease him so he will want to offer more again, then this simply won't work out.
No. 724382
What language are scandi anons using in this thread
>>724145 ?
Is everybody just using their own language and it's mutually intelligible?
No. 724421
>>724415I think if you mention it on the first few dates or early in the relationship that's a bad sign cause to me it seems like your still hung up on the ex, or your one of those people who are like " haha my ex is such a crazy bitch, not you though, you're cool". Like, let's feel each other out before we talk about past relationships (if it even needs to be talked about at all). I think it should be brought up that your ex had
toxic behavior after a couple months of dating. Just so you can set some boundaries and let the other person know about any past/current trauma. Obviously it can be brought up earlier if they do something that makes you uncomfortable.
No. 724434
>>724415Do not tell anyone your ex was
toxic and certainly not if they were outright
abusive. Abusers love to go after women they know have been good
victims before. Do not expose a weakness, always just say “we ended up having different goals for the relationship/different values” and leave the topic alone. They don’t need to know. Much farther down the line, I’m talking once you’ve been their monogamous partner for over a year and they’ve shown you they’re kind and trustworthy, then you can revisit it if they’re curious or you want to vent.
No. 724505
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Anons with Avoidant Personality Disorder, does it ever get better?
I can become less avoidant when needed and have learned to “train” myself to be more productive. Despite all of that, at the end of the day I still feel different from others. Weird, strange, can’t fit in, etc. - all of the classics. It’s really hard to talk about my problems and I always feel like no one will understand and I’m a burden.
I’ve read through a few AvPD forums and came across several posts where people described how they still feel depressed and socially awkward despite 10, 15, 20 (!!!) years of therapy. Does that mean we’re basically just born that way? Are we doomed forever? I just want to feel comfortable with who I am. But at this point it feels like shame and self-hatred are a part of my personality.
No. 724630
>>724616There's nothing inherently wrong with continuing to casually try more hobbies, you don't need to feel as if you failed if you knit 2-3 things and find it's not something you want to do for hours every week. Maybe a few months later you'll come back to it and make some beanies or something, maybe not, either way there's no reason to judge yourself for it.
In the meantime, it seems like you tried three hobbies related to craft/textiles, why not try something radically different? Something related to sport/exercise, music, food/drink, writing/journalling, meditating/yoga, etc. Worst case you spent a little money and had some fun a few times.
No. 724635
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Is it just me or are these two extremely bizarre looking they look like horses
No. 724636
File: 1611841832022.jpg (1.02 MB, 1080x1920, Screenshot_20210128-134852.jpg)
>>724635I didn't photoshop Kylie
No. 724639
>>724616When was the last time you lost track of time doing something fun or engaging? For a lot of people this was in childhood/school before pressures of life took up all our time so look waaay back.
Also if you have screen hobbies you could try translate them to something offscreen. If you're a gamer try tabletop roleplay (after vaccine lol) or chinese puzzles, if you're into digital art buy a film camera and just venture out into the world taking thoughtful photos of real things. If you just watch Netflix all day then get novels of the same genre you enjoy and see what grabs you.
No. 724643
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>>724638History repeats itself, anon.
No. 724668
What makes a person "chic"?
>>724662Pretty sure it's from "Don't trust the bitch in apartment 23"
No. 724711
>>724691I think cs50 is great to start with.
https://www.edx.org/course/cs50s-introduction-to-computer-scienceThe course is free, you only need to pay if you want a verified certificate.
No. 724812
>>724776Thanks, now what's the difference between stockings and thigh-highs?
I also wonder how bread was invented but I don't expect an answer.
No. 724852
File: 1611863378136.jpg (1.52 MB, 4032x3024, pm3yxrmagbd61.jpg)
Why do serving sizes in recipes not work for me? For example, I will see a recipe that's listed for 8 servings but I'll only get 4 out of it. I'm pretty short (like 5'2") and not overweight, so I don't think I'm eating that much and I'm not also too active. But maybe I am eating too much and I will be overweight soon? Has anyone else had this problem?
For example, this doesn't look like 10 meals to me, it looks like 5. No way I would be able to get my cost per meal down to $2.
No. 724959
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is there something like this for the U.S.?
No. 724986
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Is this true?
No. 725077
>>724852What the hell, is turkey really that cheap in the US or did they cheat?
>>724779Thanks!
No. 725089
>>725080>>725082Ok so I guess it isn’t completely impossible…you said you’re not on them anymore, did they help or did you stop for another reason?
>>725081No I’m a britbong. I’ve tried counselling at university and secondary school and it all just felt so fake. Rightt now I’m an even worse autist who can’t talk to people so opening up to someone again just isn’t in my books anymore.
Different question; do they only take people who self-harm seriously?
No. 725097
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>>724986>internal hydraulic pressureThis person must think humans are those squeeze dolls for stress, put pressure on a lower part of us and our eyeballs explode out our sockets.
No. 725115
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Anons who watch Gakuen Babysitters, is pic rel really a weirdo or is that just a rumor? I wanna watch but I'm not going to if I have to be subjected to pedo shit
No. 725117
>>723501Late reply but
>Artist salt threadI hid this one very recently. Boring as hell. The only milk they have is some random twitter artist getting canceled for something OR they're arguing about what kind of art is "~*real art*~" and whether or not using procreate is cheating
>Twitter threadTthe over-reaction to one tweet they shared there made me feel like those anons can't read.
>Copypasta threadJust not into it.
>Finn thread>Italian thread>Reddit threadboring
>Tinfoil threadI hid this one today. I like tinfoils, but the ones in there never make much sense imo. The Harry Potter theories was the final nail in the coffin for me.
I guess my stupid question is, is having this many threads hidden weird?
No. 725156
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>>724986On August 10th 2010 someone asked about this on justanswer.com. I am completely in awe that this suggests this theory has been taught.
No. 725177
>>725156>>724986The only place I've ever heard this before was on this very board in the conspiracy thread
They were talking about child abuse called "panda eyes"
No. 725180
>>725177Damn wtf, I saw a comment mentioning panda eyes on Lady Gagas inauguration video, but I didn't look into it cause it looked like some conspiracy shit. I think I found the post you're talking about
>>>/ot/586775 . There's no way people believe that anal sex would give you black eyes. Like somehow getting butt penetrated would put "pressure" in your head?
The fact that anal avenger anon might also be a conspiracy theorist who gets her info about anal sex from tinfoils is funny as fuck lol. I believe in some tinfoils, but this anal sex shit is stupid.
No. 725188
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should I respond to my friend now or do it after I get some sleep
No. 725370
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Which albums/songs do you think just ~get~ womanhood? Sorry if I’m not making sense and this is just not a thing lol. I think Live Through This fits in this category.
No. 725493
>>725416Buy a bag of frozen fries, bake them, and then dip them into a jar of nutella.
>>725484I’m guessing it’s because it’s all meaningless nitpicking now.
No. 725542
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Is there a chance this site can get taken down or just disappear one day?
The internet is somewhat relentless nowadays.. so I'm thinking if it's possible that we become a target of a witch-hunt?
as retarded as this is, i rly love this place and as a loner id b gutted…also i accidentally reported this post srry
No. 725548
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>>725542If all the other imageboards are fine
doesn't a bunch of illegal shit pop up on 4chan all the time? idk I don't use it, then I doubt anything is gonna happen to small (or at least I think it is in comparison to other sites) lolcow. Unless a future admin chooses to shut it down like what happened to PULL. We'll be ok, anon.
>>725544pic
No. 725552
>>725546lmao sorry to disappoint you, i was just curious if there was a reason why what seems like a standard cow isn’t part of lolcow’s lineup. what
>>725516 said makes sense though, i rest my case.
No. 725567
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>>725550>>725548>>725544thanks,
It's just the internet hates women, u know..
No. 725573
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Do you ever just have issues with depth perception? objectively and conceptually but let’s focus on the world and not the words whenever I’m playing some videogames it gets annoying how I just can’t hit the right stuff or grab the right items because it’s like I forgot how the 3 dimensional space works, so I fuck up and end up losing way too much than my patience can handle.
I also have this issue while driving, I have to always keep a wider space between cars because i might end up touching other’s cars and it bothers me so fucking much.
How do I even train my depth perception or whatever is called?
No. 725576
>>725542Whenever lolcow I usually follow this pattern:
go rant at scrotes on r9k > comment on youtube under the videos I enjoy > check lolcow again > head to asherahs garden > get tired of the slow pace > go to FDS or some other female leaning subreddit> get tired of the pickmes > play animal crossing
I really don't have a backup and at this point if lolcow goes down forever I'll probably just move on with a hole in my heart. IDK I've never found a place like this.
I just hope one day I'll find a like minded friend and we can be fat, man-hating TERFs together.
No. 725594
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>>725576same sis. I'm just having a bout of paranoia atm.
>>725571Sheesh, admin x user relationship here is kinda t0xic lol.
alright samefag is leaving No. 725598
>>725595I pick australia
>proshot accent
>consscary animal
No. 725618
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>>722908 Fujita Zenkichi. He died in the manga, then the anime said, "okay, ig we're adding him into like ten episodes for no reason to support the main chara." and now he's my husband
Oh, and Sakon from Ayatsuri Sakon, but he's the main guy so,,,
No. 725646
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can someone explain how modern mullets are different from regular long hair with bangs? they don't even look like mullets tbh. except for the ones with extremely short bangs maybe
No. 725647
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>>725646samefagging to add these too
No. 725656
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>>725640your reply reminded me of this pic lol
>>725612thanks for replying!
>>725606i feel the same as you! i love the cultures of these places but i can only choose one, damn
essentially it's just a trip to improve my conversational skills, visit a beautiful country with lots of nature and meet nice people
>>725598you surprised me anon! i thought the kiwis in auckland were so chill, thanks for the insight!
No. 725757
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Anyone use dating apps? Any recommendations? I never liked the idea of having to sell myself like a used car to interact with people but recently I've had the urge to talk to the opposite sex.
No. 725891
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Back in the Gaia Online days how did people get enough gold to buy the cool items like the angelic halo and the seal slippers? I could only ever save up ~10,000 gold and those items were in the millions.
No. 725966
>>725267thanks
hope it comes back up soon
No. 726017
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Why do I find women so attractive, clever, and emotionally sensitive and men to be ugly, useless, and repulsive? I'm straight but wish I wasn't.
No. 726024
>>726017How can you be het and find men ugly and repulsive?
Legit asking, I am straight AF and I think scrotes as a whole should be nuked, but I'll be damned if I don't get horny if I see a guy that I think it's hot
No. 726075
>>726024I don't know what to tell you, I understand in theory what an attractive man looks like but I don't feel it, if that makes sense.
I've had relationships with men and their ugliness and general repellence has been something I've had to overcome every time. Ironic, because they'd never have done that for me.
>>726029I genuinely wish but I don't think I can eat pussy and I don't like being eaten out. I know there are other things you can do together as women (believe me I've looked into it) but I think without those basic things there would be few women willing to date me. I don't mind PIV sex I guess.
>>726044Thanks girl. It's a weird place to be.
No. 726077
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He is so cute who is he?
He's living rent free in my life
No. 726192
>>726134Meditation and breathing exercises. Stay away from "
triggers" like social media
No. 726215
>>726203If you two didn't confirm on meeting for the gift, I don't get why she's mad when she showed up out of the blue and didn't get her gift. She wasted her own time by jumping the gun, she shouldn't be mad at
you for that. If someone told me "I have something to give you" my first response would be "cool! when do you want to meet?" especially during covid.
No. 726468
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bored.
>kinda wanna do sum wild shit
what should my hypothetical youtube videos be about? should i just film random shit.. and send them to strangers? and then talk about their reactions in a follow up video..? send your ideas my way pls.. anon is bored.
No. 726507
>>726497>>726469Thanks girlies, I appreciate the responses.
>>726477My friend was telling his friends about me and they asked for a pic, then when he said I don't have social media they were like "Is she butt ass ugly?!" Tbh the reason I don't have it is because I'm scared of getting doxed and also because I'm scared of deepfakes. I have a nice body but I can't even show it off because I'm too scared of what scrotes might do.
This kind of makes me sad for the girls who DO have social media and are all over 4chan threads in anything from bikini pics to sorority photos because degenerate moids are saving their pictures for cum tributes. I wish I could just live my life without thinking of stuff like this but I suppose there are some benefits…somewhere, somehow.
No. 726520
>>726507This reminded me of the first (and last) time I went to one of 4ch’s red boards and was genuinely shocked at the amount of random girls’ IG photos that were uploaded there. God I would do anything for a scrote genocide.
>deepfakesI only recently discovered what those were, it was only a funny little dance one but it scared tf out of me with how realistic it looked. Having a minuscule online presence is honestly one of the best things you can do nowadays, you can still enjoy the internet without having your face and dumb tiktoks plastered all over it.
No. 726534
>>726507>This kind of makes me sad for the girls who DO have social media and are all over 4chan threads in anything from bikini pics to sorority photosFr, I'm the same. This type of shit is not only on 4ch, reddit and even tumblr is rife with these pictures and men unashamedly posting stealth pictures of girls at home party or literally a facebook pic of your average girls enjoying a beach day or some blonde girl posted on one of the incel subs with caption 'this is what ((they)) took away from you reee'. It is so fucking gross, if I had a gf with an online presence, I would go mad over all this shit. In fact, this type of behaviour is seen and encouraged on every social media that I've been on, now that I think of it. And at the end of the day, even if average girls would stop posting pics, men would still take stealths and pass around
I'm not worried over someone masturbating to my pics though lmao, I rarely take pics anyway and am not that attractive or willing to put pictures with skin showing out on the web.
Really good-looking should walk on a thin fucking line though, if they are really paranoid about this (especially no posting yourself/your face in motion, since this is where convincing deepfakes come from)
No. 726541
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Doublepost, but if anything, you all can just google 'masturbate to Facebook pictures' and see many reddit threads with men that are not ashamed and think they are justified in doing so
No. 726548
>>726520Hard agree, and the worst part is that the majority of them look to be underaged. I've seen pictures on there that look like spring break photos that my friends and I used to take and the girls couldn't be older than 14. It's technically not child sexual abuse 'porn' but you KNOW what they're doing with that. Not only that, but they also write out disgusting responses to 'which girl would you fuck'.
>>726534I'm so glad that anons know exactly what I'm talking about. This is why I hate 4chan and could never use it. I get so shocked seeing [female] anons who alternate between LC and 4chan–just how. How the fuck do you use 4chan when it's so blatantly misogynistic? I already hate 95% of men and I just use discord, reddit, twitter, LC, and occasionally CC.
As for the pictures, I've had men take creep photos of me in public and also had boys from my school circulate/save the ONE photo I had of me in a bikini with my friends. It was the first and the last picture I ever took in a swimsuit. I developed boobs early and hated the male attention from it which led to an eating disorder, changed my entire wardrobe to massive sweatshirts and sports bras, and limited me to never taking pictures with my boobs out bc of what had happened with guys who did sexualize me.
Also I feel like I'm at a disadvantage here because I look like a few actresses who have done sex scenes, including one actress who has a scene literally getting her ass eaten. I'm not 100% sure but I've heard deepfakes work best when the original and your 'fake' girl look alike beforehand? Even if you don't have social media, they could potentially snap pictures of you in public or at work and go from there.
WHY must men be so fucking disgusting? Any other burgerfags wanna start an all-female left-leaning misandrist political party and end the scrote population once and for all?
>>726541There's a forum site of cum tributes with pictures of women who are straight up just posing for any normal picture, even something like a photo with your grandparents or a picture of a grandparent. Here it is:
https://www.cumonprintedpics.com/I've seen men who post sweet old grandmothers on there to be degraded by other men. So even if you don't post bikini pictures then it doesn't matter because scrotes will sexualize and use anything.
No. 726569
>>726566jfc, I swear I will stop doubleposting,
>>726548but imo the worst thing about deepfakes is that once it gets out, try and convince anyone it is not actually you and you do not do porn. And now try to get a job or have normal relationships with your work colleagues with that shit attached to your name/face and moids at the workplace are convinced you actually did all that.
No. 726596
>>726566>>726569I think the majority of girls who don't spend abnormal amounts of time on the internet would probably be totally unaware that it existed and how often it's used. I just saw a picture of girls in cocktail dresses deepfaked into standing full frontal nude photos. I tried searching for some of the women but reverse image search failed me so I can't reach out and let them know.
>>726589First of all stereotypical self-obsessed autist, pls reply to my post directly. Second, please look at that cum tribute site and you'll see how it affects all sorts of women and not just ~me~ bc I'm so special or whatever. There are probably hotter women on this website than I am but it's not like we're all in a competition anyways. Why the fuck are some women on here so mad about people being honest about their looks, especially since looks affect how you're treated as a woman? Would you rather I lie and not get any helpful advice for myself? Other people's lives do not revolve around you. And if I can't talk about this on an anonymous message board then where the fuck am I going to talk about it? Jfc.
No. 726623
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>>726617Drag my ugly ass out then, puta. I'll make you as ugly as me. Meet me somewhere right now.
No. 726626
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>>726623Nta but square up, perra, let’s dance, hopefully your insurance will send you to a great plastic surgeon after I’m done with your ass.
ily anon No. 726627
>>726596NTA but stop trying to sound deep and troubled when you mention in every comment how hot you are and are clearly self-obsessed.
>I'm totes hot guys but I don't wanna party and hook up but I might regret it when I'm old and ugly abloobloo>Moid asked my friend if I have social media and my friend said no and then moid said I must be uglyGet over yourself, you're not honest, you're larping.
No. 726641
>>726635it definitely reads like a channer scrote. i only ever see men getting
that upset when a woman says she's attractive.
No. 726652
>>726635I get saying you're attractive, but doing so in every single comment you make and constantly talking about attractiveness is textbook narcissism.
Funny how when I called myself cute once in a comment two years ago I got dogpiled but now people are defending OP for waxing poetic about her looks on and on.
No. 726661
>>726548anon, that website is the creepiest shit i've seen in a while. as a kid and going through a popstars phase i found it through freaks who left links to it on fansites/complaining about it and it is probably one of the worst websites i've ever been on. that sounds so overdramatic but people really don't give a fuck over there, they actively post about KIDS and deepfaking underage people most of the time and nobody does anything about it. if you even look up the name you'll see people complaining about the website and the laws against it. but noo it's okay guys we have a quote saying only 18+ allowed on the site so it's okay!!
i wish somebody could nuke that site once and for all. freaks me out that these men are able to go out and interact with women and kids in real life.
No. 726669
>>726664wanting to find ariana grande photos when you're a kid and finding this site when she was like 16.. fucking disgusting. a teenager. a child.
there were a billion threads for that cash me outside girl when she was fucking TWELEVE years old, so it wouldn't change even if she turned eighteen. same for other very young girls, it scares me. i hate this cycle.
>>726667deepfakes are getting so popular, law makers NEED to make more laws against this sooner than later. it's going to become extremely easy to do this (already is with some apps) and i won't be surprised if it ruins some people's lives, especially young girls.
No. 726762
>>726759sorta depressing but for me, i found out by being unrequitedly in love with a woman.
it stung as badly, maybe even worse than it did when i felt that way for a guy and that's when i realized it was real, not curiosity or a phase.
No. 726788
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Had to suddenly stop taking antidepressants and now the withdrawals are kicking in ive been dizzy for two days but on the brightside ive been able to jack off more how long will this withdrawal last
No. 726792
>>726771Ayrt, this is partly how I feel too. Part of me feels like I could be "faking", I guess cause I'm scared of my sexuality being questioned (even though I'm questioning it myself,) and part of me is like "i feel attracted to women though so who cares if other people think I'm faking" but I also doubt my attraction just cause I have yet to have the same amount of romantic attraction for a woman as I have for a man. Maybe it just hasn't happened yet. I don't know
I said it in the vent thread, but I wish we could find out what our sexuality is through dna testing or something so I figure out wtf I am
No. 726793
>>726774You're bi, it's fine, it's just you having some kind of impostor syndrome
>>726771Girl just get yourself a gf. It'll be fine I swear.
>>726759In my case, I used to believe that I was a lesbian and was only attracted to women because let's be honest, scrotes are disgusting, smelly, and they fucking suck with their stupid shit. But then I fell hard for a man. And then it made sense that all this time I've liked men too. Idk, don't wanna elaborate, but yeah. I couldn't believe it for months, and I still consider myself a bisexual that is more into girls, but bisexual notheless. I've only dated girls tho
No. 726795
>>726792if that dna test was real then it would be bonkers, imagine doing it on a straight guy and them turning to be gay
also sorry if I sound like a retard, it's late and hanging out in the sam thread is killing my braincells
No. 726938
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>>726929something like this
No. 726940
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>>726929I think because average in the anglophone world is generally a little overweight, I think chubby is considered around BMI 30. But I think chubby also requires you to be well-proportioned, soft but not flabby, with young smooth skin. Otherwise you're read as fat. Picrel but replace "plump" with "chubby".
No. 726951
>>726942Yeah I think that holds true though, if you've got a moonface or carry your weight around your middle and breasts rather than hips and bum then you're more likely to look fat rather than chubby.
I know a few girls (all short for some reason) who had healthy BMIs but looked fatter than other girls who had BMIs of 28. Weight distribution does come into it, I think.
No. 726979
>>726968I agree with your girlfriend - it's so gross. I can't look at someone else brushing their teeth. There are few things that repulse me more. Even worse is when someone is trying to talk to you while they are brushing their teeth.
From a best friend to a one night stand, if they try speaking to me while they're brushing I'll tell them to finish brushing and then we'll continue speaking. I can't
shudders No. 726984
>>726968I've always been a seperate brusher. I hate seeing or hearing anyone spitting.
I also have an issue of quickly feeling the attraction die out in my relationships so lil things like not peeing with the door open or basically keeping alot of bodily functions and grooming habits strictly behind a bathroom door helps to maintain that for longer.
No. 727023
>>727001The bigger it is for pea brained scrotes the better it is for them to wank off and be even more gross
I don't understand stand it either,same with hyper shit (ex hyper breasts or penis) hyper muscles not only look repulsive but monstrous too yet they still find it sexy.theyre so degenerate that they don't find normal,heathy looking muscles hot so they become extreme.
No. 727054
>>726968>doesn’t want to ruin the romancesooo can't your stomach growl? Can't you fart in her company? Can't have a nasty pimple? Do you have to stress over taking a shit at her's?
sounds like she's childish tbh. At some point you gotta get comfortable with your partner being a human being or you'll go insane stressing over stupid normal shit
No. 727089
>>727054I don’t think that’s really comparable. Natural body noises are fine, but I definitely prefer to have privacy when doing most things related to personal hygiene. You don’t need to share
every moment when you live with someone. I wouldn’t want to brush my teeth with someone either tbh.
No. 727131
>>726667I'm the original narcissist anon and yes, women are literally losing their jobs and their lives (the normalcy of their lives) because of deepfakes. These women have never appeared in porn but literally had their lives ruined like they did because of some freak scrote and software. Idk how many of you have had a weird scrote get attached to you before but I have and it was literally at my WORK (part time job back then). Thank god this was a long time ago when deepfakes weren't big yet but there's plenty of men who are doing this to random women and if this were to happen again, the guy undoubtedly would have made some deepfake like this.
Here's some articles about normal women who have been targeted by deepfake porn and how it's affected their lives and mental health.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2018/12/30/fake-porn-videos-are-being-weaponized-harass-humiliate-women-everybody-is-potential-target/https://www.elle.com/uk/life-and-culture/a30748079/deepfake-porn/https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/tiktok-creators-deepfake-pornography-discord-pornhub-1078859/ No. 727152
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Anyone else find it annoying af when anons use that obnoxious typing style where they hit enter after every sentence, or hit enter and start a new line of text in place of a comma? Periods and commas motherfucker, use them
No. 727180
>>727162If possible, mute the shit talkers. If there's nothing but people who flame you, mute the entire chat(voice or text).
Take breaks, playing games should be fun and if you're not having fun it's better to do something else, even if it's just taking a short break to drink water or something.
Some people also say playing with friends helps.
Flaming used to get to me too but then I noticed more often than not those people were worse than me and just wanted to blame someone else for their mistakes. People who spend their free time screaming at others over a video game are usually
toxic losers with nothing better to do.
No. 727259
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should I dump my bf? (his results)
No. 727288
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>>727259I tried to do the test from the perspective of a vaguely pr0-feminist normie man who is a leftist, and to an extent believes in femenism, but hasn't really thought about it in detail or read any feminist thoery, sorta like Kurtis O'connor or something
No. 727320
>>727288Based anon right here, this is great. I'm gonna assume the libfem questions where in regards to gender identity, BDSM, and sex work, so yeah you should probably dump him if you care about those things anon
>>727259. If he just doesn't know because he's never been confronted with feminism then maybe try to teach him about it and see his response. That's only if you want to continue the relationship, but tbh most men are not worth the effort imo. Idk I feel like we can't expect anything from men considering that they're raised to hate us.
No. 727324
>>727256I've had flights that had to re-route the flight path due to weather conditions, so the flight was actually a bit longer.
I've also had a flight where the weather was legitimately scary as fuck so we had to stop at another airport for safety, wait like an hour to take off again, and then when we finally reached the intended airport, we had to circle around a bit and wait to land since there actually was traffic up there to land. The traffic came from all of the planes that were set to land at different times but got trapped up in the air bc landing conditions weren't safe, and then there being like barely anywhere to land (at Oakland airport, fuck that shit hole) for all of these planes that were diverted and held up for over an hour.
This being said, it depends on the airport because some airports are massive while others aren't. But it seems to be weather that's the main cause imo.
No. 727346
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Is it dumb that I get annoying when I see a female masturbation scene, particularly if it’s supposed to be the character’s first time masturbating, and they decide to do it with their fingers and have absolutely no issue getting off and even orgasming? Or am I just bitter it doesn’t match my personal experiences
No. 727360
>>727342I see, ty anon!
>>727352If this is about my question above, I don't have an ed lol. I saw someone say GW in the vent thread recently and was like "wait….isn't that anorexia slang?"
No. 727392
>>727352Fat people being happy with themselves are always dragged here but apparently dieting is bad too now? Can we not be
triggered by everything as a community?
No. 727399
>>727352So many posts about 'losing weight but not in the areas I wanted' and then 'my mom calls me fat but she's fat too so fuck her fat ass!' Some of the most repetitive posts I see on here. Not just lately.
And now that you can't argue with anything in the vent thread..that's where you'll find it vented to fucking death.
No. 727401
>>727352Been here for years; it comes and goes in waves.
Just wait for anons to reach equilibrium again when we all get sick of hearing about weight again.
No. 727485
>>727288>>727259We actually did the test together again and he told me he didn't really understood many of the questions so he just left them in the middle. He's a bit of a dumb himbo that believes everyone should just be nice to each other so it's alright.
About BDSM, he doesn't like BDSM but he said he isn't against people doing it in private, and with women wanting to sell their body he was like "well they can do it if they want to but if they look like belle delphine I'mma judge", etc
No. 727517
>>727516How is talking about fast food workers a discussion about females
Also why did you post this here
No. 727531
>>727516Because if you start to point out that some jobs are just horrible, or that certain foods are poisonous, people will have to question the structure of their societies (and their own habits), and that'd be difficult.
I can't stress enough how certain groups have managed to make undeserved suffering seem progressive. They've really tricked people into thinking that working a shitty job and/or experiencing oppression is part of their humanity, and if someone points out any problems or simply says it's bad, it's a personal insult.
No. 727565
>>727562Yeah I think so. I think she's only still relevant cause she's still queen of rap, and so many people listened to her growing up. Her music has downgraded so much since she released The Pink Print. If she wasn't a big artist people would say she sounds like every other rap girl out right now. Also there are so many more female rap artists now, so people are more interested in what they have to bring to the table than Nicki, who has already established her place.
>>727563I think it's more about the relevancy, not whether or not the song is good
No. 727576
>>727562i wouldn't wish losing success on anybody but her marrying a rapist and constantly threatening his
victim is not a good look.
also the american music industry hates women over 35, so she's still doing good compared to that. tik tok helped her.
No. 727620
>>727592>>727594okay but Islam is an incredibly racist religion, In it Arab culture, Arab language and the Arab race are touted as the Holiest things in the world, the primordial language of Heaven it's self is said to be Arabic
to be a good Muslim you have to LARP as an Arab, Islam destroys native culture
No. 727656
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>>727651Anon, why would you want to do that? Can't you just run it by the OP, and if they say yes then include in your translations who originally wrote it? Even if you can't be sued for it, it still seems like a shitty thing to do regardless.
No. 727659
>>727654How long have you been doing it? You might just be going through a horny phase, anon. I get those every so often where I masturbate multiple times a day for a couple days in a row. The rest of the time I'm out after 1 orgasm. I'm pretty sure it has something to do with ovulation.
>>727651But why tho
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>>727651Actually, a translation is basically a new text, so
technically you can’t be sued for publishing a translation as your own since there’s always some differences between the original text and the translation.
But you
should say it’s a translation somewhere, because it’s scummy to use somebody else’s work/experiences/research as your own.
No. 727806
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Okay, I have to ask because I've seen this twice now on here. What does it mean when [someone's bf] is [picture of a stingray]? I've seen picrel with the caption "How June and her new bf be like" in the shoe thread, ofc. Is this some insinuation that the pair isnt in equal leagues?
No. 727863
>>727853I definitely tend to experience stuff like this.
I feel like my academic career or intelligence is something that I pride myself on and probably you too. It's maybe also something you value in a partner. You want to succeed and be better than those ex partners, especially if it's in something you pride yourself in.
If that makes sense.
But it's also like comparing apples to pears a lot of the times.
You're both majoring in very different things that require a complete different skill set!
Also if you don't want to feel so alone, I once felt ike kinda jealous of one my partners exes who had an amazing report card. Only thing is, at this point I was taking my bar exam and she was doing her GED after having dropped out before in 9th grade.
We can all be irrational sometimes Anon.
You're getting a Engineering degree! BITCH THAT IS IMPRESSIVE!
And if the feeling doesn't go away? Spite is an amazing motivation;D
You're doing amazing sweetie.
No. 727876
>>727853No offense to you but full offense to men: most don't care about your intellect or grades.
Even if he did, most men see STEM>>>>>>arts
No. 728078
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>>728069I hate it too, these phrases make people sound illiterate and immature. We interact with the written word everyday, expand your fucking vocabulary and be more precise
No. 728137
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can someone help me estimate the heights of these characters? all i know is that the man on the far left is 183 (6'0) while the woman on the far right is 157 (5'2). keep in mind that third man on the left is also slouching
No. 728158
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>>728137Ok I did some math but I got a different height for the far left man but the camera settings seem to be different for his picture so I don't know also I assumed the woman is 157 cm tall without heels if you want you can do the math yourself, measure their height in pixels and multiply by the height of one person whose height you know and divide by their height in pixels. Sorry I gotta do some homework now
No. 728183
>>728171ask them to go for a walk/run with you and when they can't catch up just look extremely concerned in the face and scare them
or idk, talk about how you're afraid of dying at 45 from heart disease
No. 728226
>>728194I used to be a pickme only because I was a huge tomboy in middle school, hating everything girly (because of my traditional country) and doing nothing but playing competitive games / mmorpgs, where a big % of people playing were men. It used to be all fun in the past, but over time ~ gaming community ~ turned into a big circlejerk of incels. I ended up absorbing all of the 'You are not like the other girls, other girls are sluts / suck / everything else!' shit men would say to me, along with 'gaming girl stereotypes' that I ended up being a pickme.
I am happy that I wasn't the 'right wing tradthot' type because my country hates women and pushes all this bs on kids, because otherwise I doubt I would end up sobering up.
No. 728278
>>728194I was on 4chan from like 15-18. I liked indie films/music which I feel is often very male gazey as most of the content is created by them. I looked down on girls even my friends as I got my beliefs/interests from males. I would pick hanging out with guys over girls during break, because I thought they we had more in common, which dumb be a had girl friends that had the same interests but they were shy-er/ more lowkey.
But I also think it was to do with liking attention guys gave, but they made me feel "special" which was retarded. So I'd continue to display that pick-me behaviour bc it got me attention. And my edgy best friend used to encoruage it too tbh
Now I love girls 100 times more than guys though. I just feel a stronger bond and love for women now idk
No. 728350
>>728194Mom is a pickme. She's subtle but she's really competitive in a really
toxic way around other women.
I'm autismo and I had boy friends and boyish interests from a young age. That was natural until early teens when I started cultivating my interests to be actively more cool and male, things like charles bukowski and 4chan, that would get me more admiring speeches from boys about how 'cool and different' I was.
Ironically, I think it was because I was so keen for female friendship that I fell for the NLOG meme, I was often weird enough to be off putting and I cared so much what girls thought that I couldn't stand being around them. I never felt socially vulnerable around men because their approval was so easy to manufacture.
Now I'm 26 and actively strategising how to remove men from every aspect of my life. Female friendships still feel scary but it's so worth it. Still too scared to really date them lmao
No. 728355
>>728346I never said it was narc exclusive and I didn't say that person is a narc either. I agree there's not enough info in the post to say they're a narc, but my point was, that is something narcs do. You can always answer the op's question if you feel like it's something else, anon.
>Anon could just as easily be a rude and insufferable person irl, and that person finally couldn’t take being fake-polite anymore and unleashed it on her because they were sick of it.Kinda weird you're saying there's not enough evidence to support that person being a narc but you came up with this entire hypothetical situation.
No. 728385
>>728355This entire hypothetical situation came from constantly seeing asspatting on ot instead of actual, sound commentary and advice. Sorry you automatically calling it narc behavior reminded me of the way people call everything
toxic without context.
No. 728395
>>728304I'm the original anon, can I please just have a name or phrase for googling this and not be accused of being a dumb femoid who is looking for asspats and coddles according to the obvious moid?
>>728346>>728385Pfffffft,
my god…the retardation.
Go back and read my original question because I was just trying to find a term or phrase for a behavior. Never said who or what it was about specifically. There's gaslighting, there's stonewalling, and there's also creating a mental list of instances/things you're merely annoyed by but refuse to bring up so you can later use this against a person when arguing to pile on top of them as a tactic. It's naming a BEHAVIOR. Not coddling.
I could be wrong but you sound like a scrote. This knee jerk skepticism is something that misogynistic scrotes frequently pull.
(infighting) No. 728453
>>728449>People draw halos on everything even if the person in the drawing isn't supposed to be a sacred figure. And you must not draw or mention wendigos because it's an evil spirit, should we not draw any demons or skulls or anything bad?I think the difference is afaik, in some indigenous cultures things like headdresses still hold a lot of meaning to them and are specific to their culture, but things like halos/angels and demons 1. do not belong to any specific culture and have different interpretations and names around the world and 2. are not taken as seriously by most Christian these days (at least imo). Also (again, afaik), wendigos mean a lot more to indigenous people as a whole and they don't even draw the wendigo themselves. I don't completely agree that artists should not be allowed to draw wendigos and headdresses or whatever but I think it's important to do it respectfully.
Anyone who knows more about Native American and indigenous culture feel free to correct me.
No. 728455
>>728194it started with me being a tomboy and not getting along with the girly girls. then i got into emo music and looks and that got me into an online group that was full of NLOGs and horny emo boys. i thought this was cool and other girls must have been basic and boring too because they hated our interests. then i saw that guys only care about how hot you are and that despite this the hot girls were still mean to everyone, and there it went.
how i got out is my male friends went into full blown incel rage when i got a boyfriend, either that or ghosted me immediately, gossiped about me that i am a slut, things like that. which is way shittier than what any girl friends were doing.
No. 728478
>>728453Alright, I think I get it.
But I am willing to bet money the person who replied and said they are native is like 1/32 native
No. 728497
>>728459Your friend must not like you that much. It's one thing to be impartial but it's another thing to act like the person who's been acting unhinged about you suddenly has a meaningful narrative to tell.
I feel like a good friend would at least say something like "I'll get her going and report back with what she says so we can have a good laugh." Not "Oh I need to get her side of things." Wtf? She's supposed to be your friend. Lmao.
No. 728549
>>728546I'm detrans and I never had anal back in my 'on T' days.
I just had the same ole sex. Testosterone sent my sex drive through the roof so I prob had more PIV back then than at any other point before or since.
No. 728647
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>>728634Amerifat but raised by immigrant parents and this is the kind that they use. Not sweetened at all and has a nice texture IMO. And you can get a huge container for pretty cheap.
No. 728654
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>>728634Seconding greek yogurt! I love Chobani’s greek yogurt.
No. 728655
>>728650Are there lots of constipated anons on here? Cos I see this posted alot
A strong coffee always works for me
No. 728673
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Any rollerskating anons here? I want to start using them but as a way to transport from a place to another but I assume it'll be uncomfortable to carry around the rollers on my bag, any tips?
No. 728677
>>728653I shower every day or at least every other day, wash my hair &use a ton of conditioner every other day, I don’t always shave unless it’s summer or I have plans to see a guy, I exfoliate whenever I shave, moisturize my entire body with body shop hemp body butter after I shower, I pluck my eyebrows as needed, I don’t wear makeup everyday but when I do it’s just eyebrow gel and eyeliner, I brush my hair every time I go out and spray with leave-in conditioner. I castor oil treat my hair occasionally but it’s a bitch to wash out so it’s like once a month if I’m just sitting around the house.
My skincare routine is AM: cleanser, toner, oil of Olay w/ SPF, origins Original Skin moisturizer if I want my face to smell nice lol
PM: cleanser, toner, switch between retinol and AHA+BHA, some nights I take a break from both and use a body shop charcoal mask, and cerave moisturizer
I’m on a break from getting my nails done but I used to get gel manicures every 2 weeks and a pedicure once a month, now I’m just painting my nails at home whenever I have time. The last thing I do is to try to look put together at least half of the days in the week, i try not to wear jeans or tracksuits with no makeup more than 3 days during the week.
I feel like I sound like Patrick Bateman lmao
No. 728707
>>728704It's just a cute version of anon/
nonny. I think it came from early/mid 2000s tumblr
No. 728723
>>728677Thank you for taking the time to write a detailed response,
nonnie. The Patrick Bateman thing crossed my mind, too! You sound very naturally pretty, I wish I could bareface it but I have some blemishes. We have similar routines otherwise, I wonder what I'm doing wrong?
Here are some follow up question for you and any other anons who want to chime in:
How do you wear your hair and in what styles? (i.e. blunt cut tousled lob, wear it half up/half down, etc.)
How do you dress to look cute but not like you're trying too hard?
How do you accessorise?
I'm most comfortable in all black, skin completely covered but in form-fitting or waisted clothes with gold jewellery and accents. I don't think it's the most contemporary or flattering look for me though, and I still feel scruffy even though it should look sleek. Idgi. Other women look so good and I need their secrets but could never ask any of this irl haha
No. 728730
>>728642>>728654this is the shit I hate, like pudding next to a thicc container of skyr, but ty anyway anons
>>728647gonna keep my eyes peeled for this, bless u
No. 728737
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IS THIS TRUE SISTERS?
No. 728738
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>>728737Daaaaamn. Bitches really be out here fucking dogs and cats and shit!
No. 728739
>>728707>early/mid 2000s tumblrtumblr's been around for that long?
>>728712She's here to save us
No. 728741
>>728737No. It's a coomer writing some fanfiction.
Telling clues;
>his bitch>K9+no.
No. 728743
>>728739tumblr has been around since 2007, but i'm pretty sure
nonny/ie actually came from livejournal
No. 728745
>>728686I am completely independent and self-sufficient. I am healthy, I had a safe and loving childhood, in a middle class family, and I grew into a confident and intelligent woman. I have some close, genuine friends. I have a loyal loving partner and we have a fun dynamic together. I can see myself spending my life with them eventually but I want to establish myself and live my own life first.
I applied myself hard in school and went to a good university. I had some fun but had the common sense and self respect not to get pressured into anything I didn't want to do. I got a good degree in an employable subject and now I live a modest life with a rewarding job in a nice city.
I grew up with my parents having enough money and care to send me to classes to learn a foreign language, a sport, and an instrument, so by the time I am an adult I am well-rounded and quite talented.
Some nights after work I will go to a local cafe or bar to perform at open mic nights. My friends come to support me and I am well-known and liked at the place I perform. I am not the best performer by a long shot but I have a charisma that makes people warm up to me.
On weekends, I do some voluntary work, then go for a walk around the city. I usually visit the gallery or museum to see what's new and I have a cup of tea and a sweet as my Saturday treat. In the evening I watch a film in bed with my partner and I fall asleep with somebody I love and feel safe with, who strokes my hair and treats me tenderly.
No. 728763
>>728748Sorry
:( it's just a fantasy, nobody has a life like that in reality