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No. 1755801

Is the question stupid? Or just silly?

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No. 1755808

Why am I retarded?

No. 1755810

What are some signs of a miserable smile? Like they’re super unhappy but trying hard to fake it?

No. 1755812

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Who is this?

>>1755808
Because

No. 1755815

>>1755810
When it doesn't reach the eyes

No. 1755816

>>1755573
I’m skinny fat but I love it

No. 1755819

burger anons what's your favorite dish at thanksgiving? My aunt used to make this cheesy broccoli rice thing and I could eat a whole plate of it alone

No. 1755822

>>1755819
Generic answer but turkey

No. 1755824

>>1755819
Deviled eggs. I think what you had is called broccoli rice casserole. Green bean casserole is delicious too

No. 1755825

>>1755819
Stuffing.
The cold turkey sandwich the next day with cranberry sauce and other leftovers in it is actually the best part of thanksgiving.

No. 1755828

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>>1755819
I can't pick between cranberry sauce and yams and mac and cheese

No. 1755830

>>1755808
because it's the easiest and less paintfull way of living

No. 1755837

>>1755816
the chosen one

No. 1755846

Is it normal to be constantly nauseous throughout your period everyday, like 7-8 days straight? How do I fix this? Never had sex so it's not pregnancy related. In the past it only occurred on the first few days, the heaviest days but now it's all the time.

No. 1755860

>>1755819
am southern so we eat ambrosia and its the one thing I still lug my ass over to my grandma's house every year for

>>1755825
the sandwich too omg anon you're making my mouth water

No. 1756000

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What are the best international websites to sell on? I basically want to sell almost everything in my room, but everyone in my country is currently borderline poor so stuff just sits on my page with a ton of views and likes but no one buying.

No. 1756010

>>1755819
Pumpkin pie

No. 1756019

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Anons which celebrities do you think are the most attractive? I think Monica Bellucci is beautiful

No. 1756020

>>1755846
Could be a hydration thing or you might benefit from eating certain foods… I’m not a doctor and I have few friends but I haven’t heard nausea being a common side effect. My one friend doesn’t eat meat on her period because it makes her feel sick but otherwise she’s not nauseous.

No. 1756023

>>1756019
Brooke Shields. Cillian Murphy (lol).

No. 1756035

>>1755812
Your mom

No. 1756051

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>>1756019
Laura Gemser, Zeudi Araya, Türkan Şoray

No. 1756087

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Been getting alot of videos of women using this ministepper thing. Just walking in one place, some claimed they slowly start to feel the burn but does it work? Is it worth it??

No. 1756120

I know you can't lose fat cells excluding surgery, but if you lose weight and then gain some again, do the same cells fill up again or are you left with your deflated previous cells + new fat cells?

No. 1756157

>>1756120
they're just the same ones all your life

No. 1756163

>>1756120
I believe the same ones fill again, but if you gain even more the second time around your body will also produce new ones, to my understanding.

No. 1756168

>>1756087
That’s just walking. It’s not worth it if you can walk outside. If you literally don’t leave the house it’s okay.

No. 1756171

>>1756087
I've had a few of them but they're shittily made and overheat until it breaks down the material. Fun at first but ultimately not worth unless you spend $$$

No. 1756244

>>1756157
I lied, you indeed can form new ones but then the existing ones will just inflate deflate inflate deflate when needed

No. 1756331

Why do scrotes always complain about Christmas and valentines which are days to celebrate people you love but they never complain about Veterans Day which is celebrating retarded moids chimping out and killing each other

No. 1756359

>>1756244
I thought eventually they died like all cells but I’m too lazy to research how long that takes

No. 1756363

>>1756359
that sounds even more correct

No. 1756381

>>1756331
Because valentines day and Christmas is a day to be nice to other people and that's really hard

No. 1756387

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>>1756019
probably gong li tbh

No. 1756605

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why is it whenever i find someone on the internet around my age who is absolutely bonkers for their husbando, I mean like every post is about how they want their fictional man to fuck them or even just hold their hand, as soon as I follow them, they make a post talking about their IRL moid? It's not that the idea of someone fantasizing about characters while being in a relationship is strange to me, it's more like seeing someone constantly post about how they wish their fave would stroke their hair, take care of them when they're sick, hug them,etc, it gives off the vibes that they're currently single so it blindsides me when they reveal they're taken. Is that their moid isn't meeting their needs?

No. 1756750

>>1756605
I can't speak for others but I've always been a big daydreamer and lived in multiple worlds at once. It's a habit I simply never grew out of. My boyfriend and I share the same favorite character and he sees my love for him as just another trait of mine, especially since I've loved him longer than we've been together. The reality is that nothing in real life will ever be as satisfying as it is in your daydreams and that's why I continue to use them as a comfort. It doesn't affect my relationship negatively but it can if you get too engrossed in your inner world.

No. 1756915

>>1756605
I have a friend who is married and she openly tells me she prefers husbandos because real men, including her husband, will never live up to anime ones kek

No. 1756956

>>1756750
>My boyfriend and I share the same favorite character
is this like being in a threesome?

No. 1757048

Is Cocomelon a baby cartoon? I've seen it used as an insult for zoomers or young people in general but I assumed it was a childrens cartoon, like a Cartoon Network thing, and i thought eventually I would see the source material naturally but I haven't. Is it a tablet baby internet thing or is it on cable TV too?

No. 1757061

>>1757048
It's a YouTube channel that irresponsible parents use to calm their toddlers down instead of parenting them

No. 1757129

>>1756956
KEK nah, he's not attracted to men. He has cosplayed him and uses him as a display name though. Plus us loving the same series means we get to pool our collection together since it gets almost no merch.

No. 1757370

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>>1756019
For male celebrities I think Alain Delon

No. 1757386

>>1757370
We get it girl we see them

No. 1757395


No. 1757430

>>1757395
Nta but it's a meme about people flaunting their colored (usually blue) eyes

No. 1757459

>>1757430
Oh thanks for explaining I thought I was being scolded kek

No. 1757481

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can a anon help me find pants similar to pic related, good material, not some drop shipper or $300-500 pair? maybe in blue, lavender, green

No. 1757492


No. 1757527

Is it just me or do men that grew up with sisters (more than just one) seem more normal and kind, and act more like actual human beings ant not just like typical scrotes like most men? Based purely on my personal observations.

No. 1757533

>>1757527
I keep seeing people saying that but i have not had the same experience at all. The biggest assholes and coomers i have ever dated all had sisters (younger or older). The men who were usually kind and seemed less coomery were the ones who had a good relationship with their mother.

No. 1757551

I give up. Someone gently spoonfeed me, is Heather Sparkles a fun cow to follow from the first thread, or is she the kind of cow you get mad at?

No. 1757558

>>1757533
Og question nonna here. I made a distinction that it was men who had more than one sister, because yeah in my experience having just one did not make much of a difference. And being estranged/not having grown up in the same household also doesn't seem to count. And I agree that the relationship with the mother is also a very important factor.

No. 1757620

Do youtubers pay for ass kissing comments or are there people that are this big of boot lickers? Like it’s ott. Top comment is always, “everyone let’s just APPRECIATE how we are getting this amazing content FOR FREE.” Or this 20 min hiit workout I did where a top comment was, “I’m a pro athlete and this is THE HARDEST workout I’ve EVER done!” What? I’m lazy af and it wasn’t even the hardest workout I’ve ever done. I need to know if this is super unsubtle paid comments or if people are really this embarrassing and ingratiating

No. 1757624

>>1757551
She's a fun cow, very repetitive, but not the kind that you get mad at.

No. 1757636

>>1757620
Some people are just positive and appreciative, some people are negative and miserable. We're all so special.

No. 1757644

Do you ever get used to the pain of clip on earrings? My piercing holes closed years ago because I'm allergic to most metals so I let them go, but I've recently started wearing clip ons. They're small and light, but they hurt to put on and although I can endure the pain for a couple of hours, I end up taking them off after three or four. They're not too tight, they're screw ones and I keep them so loose that sometimes they slip off.
Do I just need to keep enduring the pain and my body will start ignore it? Or will it always be this painful and women just bear it?

No. 1757645

>>1757644
I wear really big ones because I love costume jewelry and I find that it depends on the type of clip on, but they all end up hurting at some point in the day.

No. 1757648

Anyone know good cosplay wig makers I could commission a wig from? Preferably European. Asking here because cgl didn't seem to have an active cosplay help thread atm

No. 1757654

>>1757620
I feel the same, but I don't think they are paid. Many people have this weird overtly-appreciative mindset. For me it's even worse when they talk like that about Ad-revenue. "I don't mind watching a few ads because I know xy is hard working to give us this content for free!". I guess people like us balance it out a little.

No. 1757659

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What's the deal with headpats?
>expecting a scolding? Headpats
>feeling sad? Headpats
>in need of encouragement? Headpats
>need love and affection? Headpats
Is headpatting other people like dogs the norm? Like why wouldn't you want to instead pat the person on the shoulder or stroke a person's back which is more intimate? Picrel is how people in my country act like.

No. 1757660

>>1757527
Not really from my experience. One of my friends has a little sister and he often uses her to explain how he sees women as equal/deserving of rights kek. For instance "If anyone ever did something to my sister he'd be dead" when I think oh so you wouldn't have empathy for women being raped if you didn't have a sister? Or how he sees that women aren't being taken seriosly because of his sister. It's really weird moid logic, they need a close relative to prove they see women as equal.
Another friend who's always talking about women's rights told me he's like that because his mother is such a rolemodel for him. He doesn't have siblings but he's one of the more kind men in my social circle (even though I cringe at his attempts at being a feminist). My bf has been the best so far when it comes to treating women right and he only has a brother. I think it comes down to character/personality and upbringing.

No. 1757662

>>1757659
I've never seen anyone who isn't a weeb headpat another person

No. 1757667

>>1757659
In the west headpats are nowhere near the norm kek. That would be very weird and infantilizing (which is why you see trannies obsess over LE HEADPATS kek)

No. 1757669

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>>1757370
Good taste anon. He's unmatched
>>1756019
Also Keanu Reeves, especially in younger years

No. 1757711

>>1755819
roasted brussel sprouts

No. 1757743

>>1757659
It's disgusting and I would have to chop of the hand that committed the act.

No. 1757765

>>1757659
I need one of these to stand in line at amusement parks. People are idiots and always stand too close.. On topic, I think head pats are condescending. Period.

No. 1757769

>>1757669
Keanu in My Own Private Idaho will always have me.

No. 1757771

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>>1757769
esp with River.

No. 1757796

>>1756000
Ebay? I don't know any other sites

No. 1757799

>>1757771
This feels a bit gender-specialish.

No. 1757801

Are gen z British kids pushing for legal weed or is cocaine the new cool vice I really dislike when boomers call me a millennial a dopehead. I need the kids to step up

No. 1757808

>>1757799
It's not, zoomer-chan. We didnt give a fuck about any of those back in the late 90s, early 2000s.

No. 1757818

>>1757801
I remember seeing a push to legalize weed in the Uk that dates back to at least a decade ago, but mainly for medical stuff.

No. 1757820

>>1756087
Yes it is. I used to use this religiously when i was a teenager and i credited it to why i was so fit around that age despite having to deal with my parents unhealthy cooking. I need to buy another one.

No. 1757841

>>1757527
nope, not at all.
t. a sister with a younger sister and several brothers.

No. 1757849

Does anal ever feel good for women?
I'm a lesbian so I don't care about it being degrading.

No. 1757854

Is it possible to get over the counter birth control pills in Europe or at least order them online? I don't have nor plan to have sex with men but my menstrual pain incapacitates me for several days, there's a huge fuckload of bleeding, and my social anxiety prevents me from visiting a doctor. I just want any sort of pills to stop periods, birth control or any other. Please help.

No. 1757857

>>1757849
My butthole being touched feels good to me but I can't imagine actual anal being anything but painful. I think at best it probably doesn't feel like much at all, but maybe the "full"-ness/pressure would be nice.

No. 1757859

>>1757854
You can get birth control from online pharmacies, I've done it before because I don't want to go to the gyn just to have my script renewed.

No. 1757863

>>1757859
Thanks! My main worry is that those sites look fishy. Do you have any sites you'd recommend? I hope that's not against any site rules.

No. 1757866

tech nonnas how do i get the color calibration thing (on windows 11) back to the default settings? i accidentally made it too saturated. i don't trust my own judgment to adjust it manually i need something that will reset it on its own

No. 1757877

>>1757857
Maybe I’m degen and suffering from yaoi brainrot but I find anal more gratifying than vaginal sex. Idk what it is, I don’t usually climax either way but at least when I’m doing anal I can pretend I’m an uke

No. 1757879

>>1757877
anon…….

No. 1757884

>>1757879
I cannot be the only one. Pls anon

No. 1757885

>>1757884
im not defending you on this one girl…

No. 1757927

>>1757877
why are you having sex without getting to cum wtf find a better moid

No. 1757934

>>1757877
Could you stop attention whoring at every thread? You're embarrassing

No. 1757948

>>1757849
I've tried it once out of curiosity and it felt good but also weird? Literally like passing a giant shit in reverse kek. Like other anon said the full feeling is the nice part. TMI maybe but apparently it doesn't feel particularly good for the male either, because compared to a vagina the butt is only tight around the entrance and doesn't have any texture… I don't really understand why straight men are into it because there is a hole not full of poo poo that feels much better right there

No. 1757952

>>1757927
I'm mostly in it for the cuddles and companionship, I haven't met anyone who could get me off properly.

>>1757934
IDK who you think I am but I barely post

No. 1758008

>>1756087
Mmm so very mixed I see.. another stupid question is how do they compare to a treadmill? I'd invest in a treadmill but I'm a neet with limited funds right now..
>>1756168
Yeah I don't leave the house, anxiety and all that shibang. It's awful and I hate it

No. 1758021

>>1757948
Men love it because they like degrading women and knowing that they're in pain while having sex with them.

No. 1758052

What does crabbing mean on /ic? I barely go on there

No. 1758067

What do I need to do to get any sort of attention? Ok, anyone else have no one absolutely no one, what do you do when you need some human interaction?

No. 1758073

Nonas who wear fitbit type watches, are there any good soft band options if your autism makes the rubber ones feel like death? I'm going insane

No. 1758078

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>>1758052
iirc it refers to the "crabs in a bucket" metaphor, means dragging each other down.

No. 1758081

>>1758067
I post pictures of my vulva in the Shay thread

No. 1758092

Do I just need to find a job close to work or what? I wish I had someone to answer me. My family is fed up with me, as rightfully they should, and I won’t be able to be driven to and from work anymore. It takes an hour to get there and afternoons it’s an hour and a half and very far away. Im unable to drive and abyway dont have money to buy a car. I dont have friends and ni coworkers that live where i do to get a ride. There’s no public transportation. God I wanna kill myself so bad but for right now I have to find a way. I cant just get a car. And i have bad attention span I know that i will get in a far crash and die. What do other anons who cant drive and live rurally do??

No. 1758096

>>1758067
I come here, or go to the library and start a small conversation with the librarian. They're always willing to talk for a moment. I'll ask them to tell me what they're favorite non fiction book is and ask a few open ended questions there.
Have you considered joining a church? It's a pre made community. It sucks that you have to say "praise God" and "god is good" a lot, but otherwise the conversations are very human and mostly you just talk to each other.

No. 1758099

>>1758067
You need to be brave.

No. 1758126


No. 1758131

>>1758067
Be good looking or have a skill, talent etc. and use that to get attention

No. 1758134

>>1758126
Tha k you for replying lol (i hate myself) but move to where? I’m completely useless I dont make enough to move anywhere i’ve got no friends no nothing.

No. 1758162

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Is this show even worth watching? Or are people just romanticizing it? kek

No. 1758186

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Anons how often do you get complimented on your appearance, and which compliments do you usually receive?

No. 1758191

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>>1758186
Every other time I'm out in public. Compliments on my skin, on how long my hair is, and my face being "pretty" even though I'm a bit of a chinlet. But it does feel good, because I only wear makeup on special occasions.

No. 1758196

>>1758186
fairly often, mainly on my curly hair, outfit or just being called pretty. Love it when other curly-haired women compliment me because I know they know the struggle kek. Obviously when I put in effort into my appearance I get more compliments that when I'm out in a greasy bun and hoodie. Sometimes stranger moids will ask me for my Instagram

No. 1758203

>>1758162
It's a product of its time and it's audience is teens so it's less romanticizing it and more they probably liked it when they were younger and are getting back into it.

No. 1758209

What is better for an interview having my hair down playing having it in a headband and up on a ponytail or what does it matter I'm not a hair person

No. 1758210

>>1758186
Very rarely and it's mostly when I'm wearing a nice dress, but I purposefully make myself look frumpy at work and I put zero effort into my appearance on my days off. I almost never wear makeup and I don't know what to do with my hair so it doesn't help either.

No. 1758214

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>>1758186
"You're so beautiful/pretty" types of compliments I mostly get from my boyfriend and parents, but that's kind of a given. My friends will compliment a specific thing like my eyes, hair, clothing, or smile.
Strangers never talk to or compliment me unless they're homeless crackheads or drunk, but I don't live in a country where talking to strangers in public is normal and we all have autism so I don't expect it. Acquaintances don't either, they usually just say I'm very friendly because that's socially acceptable.
I sometimes get second-hand compliments, as in people will tell my friends I look good.

No. 1758222

>>1758186
Zero!! It’s been years, honestly the last time i was ever complimented was when I was a teen!

No. 1758227

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>>1758186
I get compliments often, probably a few times a week, and usually about my lips, eyes, and hair. People tell me that I remind them of old hollywood actresses pretty often, the most recent one I was compared to is vivien leigh

No. 1758229

>>1758186
I don't get complimented on my face much, but a lot of people say i have very pretty hands and very nice skin.
Slightly related but like a year back i met one of my aunts in person for the first time in almost 20 years. Last time she saw me in person was when i was a toddler, so she'd only seen me in pictures from then on. She basically said to my face that I looked like shit in photos and my real features were "surprisingly soft and delicate". I still don't know whether she was insulting me or not. All this confirmed for me is that I look fuckling ugly in photos. I already didn't take selfies, but now I also avoid other people taking photos of me.

No. 1758235

damn lolcow anons must be so pretty

No. 1758243

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TLDR Are there bots that scrape random user names on Instagram, that people can then get to follow them as fake followers?
My bf has never had an insta account according to him (he doesn't even have it on his phone) but there's an account under his usual online alias, said alias has been used on other sites like Youtube and reddit, which is pretty unique, not a common name at all. It has no icon, no bio, 1 following, 0 followers, created earlier this year. The guy it's following has a bunch of these blank accounts following him with only 1 following (just him), with no icon, usually no name, and created at the same time the fake account of my bf was.
So is the guy using some bizarre bot farm that scrapes random usernames from other parts of the internet to gain followers?? Is that a thing? Considering how many of them there are on this guy's account following him, that's gotta be it right?

No. 1758246

>>1758186
If I wear makeup and “an outfit” rather than jeans and a t-shirt, I get random girlies telling me I’m pretty/beautiful/etc. but day to day I look like a rat so
At cosplay conventions, I sometimes get asked if I model (by other women). I get compliments from moids too but they are null and void by default.

No. 1758248

>>1758186
…often. Like at least once anytime I leave my house to go to a store or restaurant or whatever, and I wish I was joking. Striking is a word I hear a lot. It’s nice because I was a textbook late bloomer (got okay-cute in early 20s but had my full blossoming glow up so to speak at 27) but sometimes it makes me really shy and self conscious. This sounds like such humblebragging and I am sorry. I’m embarrassed.

No. 1758278

>>1758186
I don't go out much so the numbers are skewed but I would say I get complimented quite often, mostly on my style. I get a lot of extremely high praise from zoomers and old people saying I'm stylish, look really young, I should model, generic stuff.
I've started to notice that as I get older (28) I get a lot more attention in social settings from both men and women, and usually the cutest ones so that's super flattering. But I really don't think I'm anything special so I'd attribute it more to the fact that I'm really silly and overly confident. And because I have bangs and eyeliner lol

No. 1758306

>>1758186
I am ugly, I know it and since I have been for a long time I don't care but ever since I've lost weight (I was always big have never been smaller) I've gotten a lot of body related compliments. I'm happy with it, it's weird but at least it's not another omg u give great hugs.

No. 1758313

Is there a term for something between Newfag and Oldfag? I haven’t been here since the start of the site so I’m not an oldfag, but I’ve been here for 4 years so I’m not a complete newfag either and understand a little bit more than a complete newbie

No. 1758315

>>1758313
I guess that makes you just a regular fag. sorry nona

No. 1758317

>>1758315
Regular fags are the least annoying

No. 1758320

>>1758317
Oldfags will have tantrums like newfags and get pissed off when nobody kisses their little "oldfag" rings kek

No. 1758344

>>1758186
When I'm put together I get a decent amount of compliments and stares. Mostly due to my "young looking/cute" face. I'm unfortunately a introverted autismo so I'm not great at keeping up my appearance. My hair is coarse/wavy/frizzy and my skin leans on the dead looking pale side so it just takes so much to give my face some life. I get told I look like a pale dark haired jennette mccurdy.

No. 1758346

>>1758320
Those oldfags ain't even real. Been here since 2015 and they just make me cringe.

No. 1758411

How do I stop being afraid of fucking up at a job? How do I know if I could be good at a job?

No. 1758422

why do people get fatter in their early-mid 20s? i know this is very shallow but i've noticed it a lot, women who were always thin suddenly become overweight around 22-26 and then keep gaining weight the rest of their lives. i've heard stuff about 'second puberty' but i'm not sure if that's real or just a cope.

No. 1758427

>>1758186
Only for my outfit and style or when I get a haircut and they notice it. But never for my face. I'm ugly confirmed.

No. 1758430

>>1758422
i don't think it has to do with your actual body changing but moreso a change in lifestyle. Early-mid 20's is when most people start having full time jobs and if youre sitting in an office for 9 hours everyday without exercising, its gonna catchup to you

No. 1758432

What's PULL? I see it mentioned here sometimes but googling it doesn't work. I know it's some drama forum or something but I want more details. Didn't have internet connection in the 2000s and didn't speak English either so I wouldn't have known about it or caught up with it back then.

No. 1758433

>>1758186
never ever, except for getting called cute by a teacher in elementary school i guess?

No. 1758444

>>1758422
Second puberty is a real concept but it doesn't necessarily mean weight gain. I think a lot of time people especially women stop being as insecure and as easy to control so they let go of a lot of ED tendencies and don't know a healthy way to compensate or care enough to

No. 1758453

Wait is it not fair game to go on a date with two people from the same friend group? I’m not really part of the friend group and they both started flirting with me at once and I just realized maybe I was supposed to pick one ??

No. 1758456

>>1758432
Pretty ugly little liar. Old gossip site catered towards weebs but had accounts. One day it just died. Sometimes I miss PULL. I used it when I was a catty teen, good and extensive milk on Venus, Mikan, Taylor R, Dakota.. now I'm thinking about it, it died when they did lol

No. 1758459

>>1758453
Generally its frowned upon by normies but who cares- live your life and let them compete even if you don't like them. Men are possessive as fuck but don't want to put a ring on it- you're single until you're married imo.

No. 1758470

>>1758422
Its a cope. I was a thin teen with an ED and its maintainable when I'm not being a fatass and sitting on my ass all day. Now that I'm grown and less retarded, I know what makes me gain and what makes me lose(cico). People are lazy and move less in their 20s too. But generally they're less self disciplined and care less about how they're percieved by their peers. Take it from me. (My weight goes from 160lbs in my fatty/winter/december/depressed/lazy time to 105-110lbs in the summer/spring/march/not depressed/when i actually exercise/ season, I can do it in about 2.5 months and I am 5'6") hope no ban for anachan/blog but as a normie who had/has an ed- this is always a crazy topic for me. And no I will not tell you how I did it.

No. 1758471

>>1758470
i don't want or need to know how you did it nona, i am literally a bodybuilder. praying you choose recovery.

No. 1758473

whats our thoughts on liz the magician or whatever the fuck ?

No. 1758476

would it be weird to go to the gym mainly to use the walking mats or whatever the hell they're called during the winter? I like taking long walks and lifting small weight but I've never been to like a proper gym in my city, it's just so icy and shitty to walk during the winter so I always get so goddamn stiff for months on end and I have bad knees so I can't really do exercise biking either

No. 1758478

>>1758476
not weird at all like 70% of women at the gym only use the cardio equipment.

No. 1758491

>>1758459
ok perfect thanks nona I think the same. I was literally planning to tell them to fight to the death if either of them tried to bring it up idgaf

No. 1758504

Unironically how do people regulate their sleep? Mine follows no logic.
I can stay awake for three days straight without having an issue but then again I can sleep 12-14h every day if I go to bed every night. Basically as long as I am not sleeping I don't get tired and whenever I slept I will be tired no matter for how long I slept. 8h isn't enough and will make me deadly tired but 10h isn't enough either. The only way of begin functional is to not even go to sleep.

Also if I go to sleep everyday I the schedule is random too. The only constant thing is that I am awake from 1am-4am. So I might read a book at midnight and plan to go at 1am but suddenly it's 4am+ and I didn't notice the flow of time at all. Though then again I might fall asleep after work and sleep till next day. Or I sleep till 4pm. Sometimes 10h sometimes 12 or 14.

I don't fucking get it and there so doctor that I could resort to. I am trying to change it for more than ten years now without avail. Having a regular job makes everything even worse.

No. 1758505

>>1758504
you sound like you desperately need to see a specialist. if you really can't, read about sleep hygiene and sleep conditions. have you tried melatonin?

No. 1758507

>>1758504
Honestly, it's mostly just forcing yourself. I had this problem for years and the only things that have somewhat fixed it is literally forcing myself to go back to sleep at appropriate sleep times, and also getting blood tests and finding out I have a massive vitamin D deficiency.

No. 1758559

>>1758456
Oh I see, I already heard about it but never knew it was shortened to pull kek. Thanks.

No. 1758572

>>1758422
Women go through a “second puberty” because we enter into our fertility window at around 28, and that fertility peak lasts until some point in our 40s. Because of that our hormones change a lot and we start carrying more weight in our chest, butt, and hips, where before we might have carried weight evenly across our bodies or on our torsos more. Women’s sex drives also sky rocket, our sexual preferences change, and our pheromones are way stronger. So it doesn’t refer to weight gain but it can significantly change women’s body types.

I think the reason women gain weight in our 20s is partly lifestyle changes, ie working more, being out of school and not caring as much about looks/how we’re perceived by others, possibly being in relationships or having kids, and indulging too much without counteracting. And I think most women go through a quarter life crises about aging and feeling like we’re running out of time, and overindulging in food and alcohol is one way of coping with that

No. 1758577

>>1758422
Lot of nonnies in the replies are mentioning about women specifically but I have also noticed this about men. What's the reason for them? Skinny teenaged boys suddenly bloat up and become huge by the time they're 25

No. 1758579

Can any nonny help me articulate why I am so creeped out by military men. It’s worth mentioning I’m from the USA. Like I know so many join for the benefits but I just have heard so many awful stories about guys in the military and the things they do and get away with that I judge them on sight. Can anyone help me with evidence beyond anecdotes as to why I feel so strongly about this

No. 1758584

>>1758577
Moids just hit the wall the second they’re 25 years old.

No. 1758585

>>1758577
Alcoholism, gamer diet, male pattern balding, Y chromosome

No. 1758588

>>1758243
This happened to me lol with throwaway accounts. There’s just random empty accounts with the username and even the fake name I originally put myself. I don’t even remember where I signed up with the username and the fake name, I just recognize that it’s one I came up with because it was total random bullshit.

My aunt got her real Instagram account hacked and they changed the username to some fake name and changed any pictures that would show her to just be some ai generated man. Instagram has never done anything about it despite multiple reports.

No. 1758592

>>1758579
easy, just imagine the type of person you'd have to be to pick joining a killing club with insane hierarchies over a normal job

No. 1758610

>>1758579
this is normal. it's the peak example of male hierarchy and resulting degeneracy in action, with very unhealthy, violent, and sexist culture. rates of sexual abuse for women in armed forces is disturbing, and these men also go abroad and sexually abuse women.

No. 1758639

>>1758422
Lower metabolism, living on your own and eating unhealthy food without someone telling you not to, drinking alcohol, less exercise. We don’t go outside and run and play with our friends during the day anymore or walk across campus, and if you have an office job you spend most of your day just sitting. I’ve noticed Gen Alpha kids are fatter too than when we were growing up, and it’s probably not a coincidence that I see less kids walking and playing games together outside. Now they’re all holed up in their houses playing video games or on their phones/iPads instead

No. 1758820

>>1758577
Testosterone accelerates the aging process with means their bodies look way older than the bodies of their female peers. It’s hard to compare male and female bodies of course, but men in their 20s are comparable to women in their 40s. Once men are in their 30s they’re post wall and saggy and chubby with flaccid dicks, bald heads, expired sperm and wrinkled faces and hands. It’s funny how women look so much younger and better for so much longer.

No. 1758853

>>1758478
Ok good, I guess it would heavily depend on what kind of a gym, when and the like but I also just wanna be left alone with my little walks, I know of a women's only gym, maybe I'll have to check it out. Shit like this genuinely scares me somehow, thank you nona!

No. 1758873

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Is there any way to find a more gender critical therapist? It seems like just about all therapists are super progressive strongly libfem leaning and it makes it hard for me to be open about a lot of my honest experiences and anxieties regarding being a woman. Maybe it's stupid but when I meet with a therapist for the first time and she goes "hi my pronouns are she/her" it just tells me that she's not safe and won't understand. I went through a brief troon-leaning arc a few years back so it's kinda relevant for me.

No. 1758891

>>1758873
I don’t think your therapists can force/coerce you into transitioning if you explicitly say that you don’t want to transition

No. 1758950

>>1758422
I guess it depends on people, I'm 30 and I'm still as thin as when I was 17, but I was a late bloomer puberty wise so maybe it's the case here too. I'm also not on any kind of medication and I try to eat healthy as much as I can (and I'm vegetarian but no idea if it has any kind of influence).

No. 1758952

>>1758873
Not really related but when I was seeing a therapist she actually brought up the term “latinx” (because I’m hispanic). I don’t remember the context but that shit put me off. Also I just suddenly stopped seeing her (my fault, that was rude of me) and she sent an email that actually said “???,” wtf that’s so unprofessional? lol

No. 1759012

I have had thin skin under my eyes ever since I was a kid and it makes me have permanent dark circles. It gets worse when I don't sleep but it's noticable at all times.
How the fuck do I cover it with makeup? No matter what I do you can still see the dark circles through it, all that happens is I get caked on makeup that get stuck in the lines so I look more wrinkly.
I don't want to get injections but it may be my last resort to not look permanently tired…

No. 1759016

>>1759012
I get this, I choose not to bother with them anymore but when I was insecure about them as a kid I got concealer or foundation (I don't know makeup sorry) that was specifically for those with permanent under eye darkness, not just generic brand. Hard to help because location but maybe search for that type of makeup specifically?

No. 1759030

>>1758422
It's 100% just a lifestyle change. All that's needed is to eat slightly more and move around slightly less. A lot of the time alcohol is a big culprit (alcohol is very high in calories and people forget about it because it's "just a liquid") because you're now legally allowed to drink, and most social events make you drink - often a lot.
Adult metabolism doesn't change significantly at all until you're in your 60s or so, and the difference between a teen and an adult really isn't that big and is just an excuse people use to cope.

No. 1759045

>>1758579
They are creepy and they should be judged.

No. 1759101

>>1759030
Fat distribution can change though, see girls who would gain fat in unnoticeable places turning mid 20's gaining it in the most noticeable places. Same happens during menopause, not necessarily weight gain but in a society that hates fat people, having visible fat can give the illusion of weight gain. I feel like there must be some sort of metabolism change though, some males, not all but some I have known have always been lazy cunts but then mid 20's it catches up.
It's kinda silly to say it's a cope when second puberty is 100% real and because it's primarily women, no one talks about it, we should really be taught during the puberty section of sex education.
Tldr. Fat distribution. Also a forewarning that this happens during menopause too.

(Not saying it's the only reason, obviously lifestyle has an impact)

No. 1759113

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what would be the easiest most straightforward way to make a transparent rotating gif out of an object like this?

No. 1759121

>>1759113
photopea - it's like free photoshop in your browser- if you were to import that gif into it, it would read each frame as a layer, and since its an easily selectable white bg, you'd just select it with the magic want and delete manually for each layer, and export it as a gif

No. 1759125

>>1759121
thanks i'll try it but how do i make an easily selectable bg and make my object rotate smoothly like gifrel, cause thats the part thats tripping me up

No. 1759127

>>1759125
oh i thought you just wanted to erase the bg on that particular gif? it's easily selectable already since it's just one color. but you want to create a gif like that from scratch from some other object?

No. 1759130

>>1759127
yes, i want to display my merch collection as a literal digital shrine kek… do you guys think it would work if i did it with my microwave by rotating the round thingie? i have no better ideas

No. 1759132

>>1759130
Nta but that sounds dangerous since you would have to put your camera in the microwave with it to get a clear picture

No. 1759134

>>1759130
oh yeah you can use a 3d scanning app and create a diy lazy susan out of two round plates and marbles, google for tutorials. for the background just put like a big white paper beneath

No. 1759139

>>1759134
oh ikea has a cheap lazy susan too, it might work better than the diy thing

No. 1759142

>>1759101
nta but i feel like the other anons are right and it's a lifestyle change, not a metabolism change. i don't doubt there are lots of hormonal changes in your 20s, but i haven't seen anything about your heart rate/bmr changing. also just from personal experience i feel like i've seen so many situations where someone is like 'oh she just has a fast metabolism, that's why we eat the same but she weights less.' when really, if you look at lifestyles, the 'naturally fast metabolism' person walks everywhere, fidgets constantly, chews gum, parks far away from the entrance… little changes to how much you move, even without properly exercising, add up a lot. i do know that fat storage changes as you age though. but i thought it was mostly adding fat to places like your hips/chest, which should make you look thinner compared to a preteen who stores fat in their belly/limbs, right?

No. 1759144

>>1758209
Just keep it in a low bun - it's easy to do, it fits all settings and you won't be tempted to mess with your hair while you're being interviewed.
(also, good luck with your interview, nona!

No. 1759153

>>1759134
huh i haven't considered 3d for some reason. ty

No. 1759183

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I'm on birth control, had sex, I have thick brown blood discharge now. I'm not pregnant right?

No. 1759188

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hi nonnas! i have decided to take up art and i think i want to paint. i got myself red, blue and yellow as well as black and white daler rowney graduate acrylic paint. now here's the stupid part: how do i know how to mix the colors? are proportions super important?? should i have bought different colors to mix each other with to get what i need??? i decided the best way to start would be to make a color wheel so i know what is what.. but i also have never ever painted or mixed colors. i feel very dumb and i am ashamed to post in the art threads. if any kind nonna is willing to help and explain this and that to me i will love you forever!

No. 1759193

>>1759188
This guy has the best color mixing guide on YouTube. He has some older videos too I think one is called mix any color with oil paint, and one for bright colors, but this is a new version.

No. 1759196

>>1759183
You probably have either skipped a pill or your period is due soon and the brown sludge is breakthrough bleeding.
When I was in the pill, I had some gross stuff coming out of me too around my period

No. 1759203

>>1759188
I went to art school and they had us only buy whose colors at first so you're good there - almost! you actually don't need black. If you use black for shadows it will look drab and dirty, instead you want to mix in the opposite color to get a darker version of that color. Say if you want to add shadows to red, you'll mix in red and green and then that's your shadow. When it comes to proportions you just have to try and figure it out, colors are very intuitive! Good luck nonny.

No. 1759217

>>1759196
I haven't skipped any actually!

No. 1759223

>>1759217
Where are you on your cycle? Even when I wouldnt miss a pill or take it late my body would still try to force a period (i would skip periods) and Id get gross stuff coming out instead of bright blood

No. 1759226

>>1759101
>second puberty is 100% real and because it's primarily women, no one talks about it
Except it isn't actually real. You do not have a second puberty. People aren't fully developed until their mid to late 20s, but it's not another puberty and calling it that is fucking stupid and misleading.

No. 1759232

>>1759223
I think I must be close, next week due probably? But the thing is I'm also on the shot. My doctor gave me both

No. 1759242

>>1758577
I think it's just genes. I moved around way more as a teen but I didn't even gain a single kilo the last 20 years despite doing nothing but sitting in front of the PC and eating meat and casually fastfood + cola.
For my male friends it was random too. Most suddenly grew fat when they hit the 25 but two dudes stayed the same without ever trying. Sometimes the metabolism simply slows down early for some people, same with early loss of hair or wrinkles.

No. 1759244

>>1759142
Agreed, every time you see someone who "outgrew" their supposed fast metabolism it's clear their lifestyle just changed. My male friends suddenly getting beer bellies after entering their mid 20s isn't due to their metabolism changing for the worse (like they'd claim kek) they literally just drink more beer than in their teens.

I'm also someone who grew up fat and thought I had a shit metabolism even as a teen. I lost all the extra weight in my mid 20s, and easily so, because I made simple diet changes. It would have been equally easy for me to add an extra starbucks latte every day instead of removing it, but that would have pushed my calories to a surplus and made me gain weight instead.

No. 1759254

>>1759244
I disagree. Personally I knew a few women who struggled losing weight when they were adults even if they were less active as a teenager and ate lots more. I definitely saw this even in high school as well, when I was 14-15 I was easily able to down tons of food and play vidya all day while being sedentary and didn't gain weight, by the time I was a senior it was definitely harder to lose weight. Now that I'm in my 20s I can literally fast for weeks and do fasted cardio and not lose any weight despite my calories count being half of what it was at 14 and my physical activity it double

No. 1759258

>>1759244
i googled it and apparently some people do have faster/slower metabolisms, BUT that's only a tiny bit of what determines whether you're fatter or thinner. the difference between a "fast" and "slow" metabolism is like 100 calories a day. and on top of that people with a "slow" metabolism can raise it by eating lots of protein and exercising. also, it's true that your metabolism slows as you age, but you're supposed to be in peak physical condition in your 20s. someone turning 25 isn't going to suddenly get fat because their metabolism slowed down. tl;dr it's definitely lifestyle changes as you age.

No. 1759262

>>1759254
what do you mean "fast for weeks?" if you were fasting for weeks regularly you would probably die.

No. 1759265

A job I have an interview for 12 hours has this in their job info
"Well-being Prioritised: Receive support for your mental well-being through our free Employee Assistance Program, and our leaders trained on mental health first aid."

Is it going to be one of those places or do they all just have to have some sort of iteration of this now?

No. 1759278

>>1759265
They all have that. I was a housekeeper at a hotel and the management company offered that, even your garbage man gets offered that at his job. It’s standard for anywhere big enough.

No. 1759281

>>1759265
I wish this existed in my country. You can't even do anything against bullying. Nobody even gives a shit about people that are suicidal because everybody just assumes everybody else was just lazy and faking it so people just kill themselves and nobody cares.

No. 1759283

How do I make a new social media account without it being recommended to my current friends? I keep trying to make secret accounts (not tied to my phone or email) and no matter what I instantly get follow reqs from people I dont want there

No. 1759288

>>1759226
Why do people usually consider puberty over by 17-20? Both men and women don’t settle into their full hormones and look until late 20s. This is when hormonal acne, male pattern baldness, alopecia, hypothyroidism etc start to manifest. It seems so obvious.

No. 1759291

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>>1759244
Based only on my own situation, I really do think something changes after you're thirty. I've stayed with the same foods and caloric amounts and my job is the same, but I lose muscle mass so easily now. Although I weight the exact same as I did ten years ago, I can pinch myself and feel the difference between the thickness layer of fat in my body and the thickness of the muscle layer.
Shit sucks yo. Find an exercise you like in your twenties and stick with it, because it only gets harder and harder as time goes on to get into the rhythm of taking care of yourself.
Oh, and stretch, for the love of god stretch. The pain is coming, and daily stretching is going to be one of the only ways to prevent and reduce it.

No. 1759298

>>1759283
Take with a grain of salt but I'm under the suspicion that's simply not possible because you're constantly tracked on every website and all that info is put together into 1 profile, so they know it's you even if you don't use X email or phone number.

No. 1759310

>>1759283
This never happened to me. Unless twitter doesn't count as social media. But I made an instagram account that I never use and got no real life related recommendations either.

No. 1759320

>>1759288
I have a secret theory that puberty's full effects are not manifested unless you spend time around the opposite sex who is not your family. I was extremely isolated and so had no interactions with males beyond seeing them in stores until I was twenty two when I started physically hanging out with a boy. In only a few months I went from less than an A cup to a C, my menstrual cycle became regular, and I grew another 3.5 cm.
This isn't to say that "women need men to mature hurr durr", but I think the body actually depends on chemical signals or pheromones from potential mates to achieve the final touches, otherwise it doesn't bother wasting the calories to create something that might never be used.

No. 1759329

>>1759320
But girls are best friends with boys all the time. At least where I live.

No. 1759334

>>1759262
Fasting doesn't mean literally not eating ever, I typically ate very small things or ate 1 small meal throughout the day and water just drank water or sugar free Gatorade if I felt dizzy

No. 1759336

>>1759283
you're probably picking the option at sign-up to not share your contacts with the app. what most people don't realize is that this only prevents you from seeing which of your contacts are signed up. if someone in your contacts makes an instagram and shares their contacts, they will still be able to find your account and will have it recommended to them. instead, pick 'show me my contacts' when you sign up, then go through the list and block all of them. this way, they won't be recommended your account. you'll have to keep checking your 'recommended friends' or whatever to see if someone has made a new account to block them, but this works pretty well. i also find it useful to go through my contacts following and block all of them.

No. 1759337

>>1759320
In which fucking country do you live that not interacting or befriending with people of the other sex is normal?

No. 1759338

>>1759183
Why did you attach Komaeda to this post

No. 1759340

>>1759334
that makes more sense but fasting does normally mean not eating at all. i've personally never heard it used to mean only eating smaller amounts. if that's the case, wouldn't everyone on a diet be fasting?

No. 1759342

I had a job interview where the guy who owned the shop berated me and then when I got up to leave, he followed me out to cuss me out. Should I report this to the police?

No. 1759344

>>1759320
Like dating wise? I feel like this can be true. I was a "late bloomer" and didn't have my first kiss and lose my virginity until I was in my 20s. Shortly after I started having sex regularly my boobs and hips doubled, my period started getting more regular and I feel like I grew a few inches. I also noticed class mates who started having sex earlier did hit puberty sooner as well

No. 1759345

>>1759342
Why did he berate you? Yeah I'd definitely call the cops

No. 1759349

>>1759345
I asked him basic questions about health care, uniforms and break rooms and he told me to eat in my car on break and why am i asking him questions about pay since it was 'all on indeed. Can you not read?' then he followed me out side while i was calling my uber to call me a stupid bitch. i felt pretty unsafe

No. 1759350

>>1759344
Now this makes way more sense. I had some friend that had sex once and she also changed after that with 21 or so.

No. 1759353

>>1759349
Out him on next door + Google reviews

No. 1759354

>>1759353
Thank you, nonnie. I will. Men are so emotional. I didnt want to work for him after he treated me like that during the interviews process. Imagine how he treats his workers

No. 1759364

>>1759344
Yes, like dating. I didn't want to take my conclusions that far since I only had a sample size of one, but I had also heard that sexually abused girls go through puberty sooner (https://www.jahonline.org/article/S1054-139X(16)30352-4/fulltext) and so wondered if there was a connection. Also you're right, I had forgotten that my hips got much bigger. It was enough of a change that it affected how I ran so I noticed the difference.
>>1759349
I think you should go into the police station and tell them along the lines "Hey I'm safe now, but something really weird happened and I would like there to be a record in case he does this to other women or escalates." and then tell them what happened. They'll take the report and that way if another woman gets hurts by him or he does this again, the law will take it more seriously since he has a history on file.
You should write down facts now so that you don't misremember things as you get further away from the event. You can also leave a bad review for his business and even call indeed and tell them that the boss harassed and berated you during the interview and they might take away his account.

No. 1759396

>>1759364
I really appreciate your answer. I will def be leaving a bad review. it was a horrible experience I dont want anyone else to deal with.

No. 1759403

>>1759338
Discharge

No. 1759425

>>1758572
>>1759101
i am around that age and haven't gone through a single one of those changes. it's probably a lifestyle thing like other anons said (or i have the luckiest genes kek)

No. 1759460

>>1759344
Idk I was pretty much always dating someone from ages 14-23 and I feel like I didn’t fully fill out until my mid 20’s.

No. 1759469

Nonnas do you think people can have psychic mind links? Or am I just going crazy and really it’s just good friendship, similar personalities, and our brains seeing patterns and references where there are none.

No. 1759472


No. 1759478

>>1759469
there's 8 billion people on this earth alive today, someone is bound to meet someone who's just like them.

No. 1759483

>>1759425
Yeah I’m 33 and I’ve had the same body shape since I went through puberty at 13. My face looks a little more angular I guess but that’s it. I’m jealous of the nonas saying they grew taller in their 20s I thought that was a myth lol

No. 1759511

>>1759478
I hope I can meet somebody like that soon (in a purely platonic way)

No. 1759559

>>1759344
Maybe it's confirmation bias, I'm a 30 year old virgin and I'm unmistakably an adult woman. And where do you fit lesbians into this theory?

No. 1759697

if you've lost your voice (laryngitis) is it bad to whisper?

No. 1759715

Tips for losing weight long term? I'm only talking about 3 kilos (6-7 lbs) so it's not a big deal but I want to keep it off instead of going on a crash diet. I tried eating raw vegetable/fruit before meals so I don't stuff my face but it just made me snack more.

No. 1759739

Why does my cat prefer to knead my boob? Is it because it's soft?

No. 1759746

>>1759320
You just gained weight.

No. 1759749

>>1759739
Idk anon cats are weird like that. Mine always sleeps on my feet or my face.

No. 1759861

Why shouldn’t I date an autistic man

No. 1759878

>>1759861
Dating an autistic man is only worth it if he fucks like crazy otherwise it's not worth it at all

No. 1759948

>>1759861
>constant tard raging (yes even the high functioning ones)
>incapable of understanding emotions more than the usual moid
>gets into long circular arguments over semantics
>reddit tier debates

No. 1759965

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Is it still broccoli hair if it’s a black guy?

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No. 1759969

>>1759861
look up rates of paraphilias for autistic men. also autistic people are around 20% of trans people so higher chance of trooning out.

No. 1759971

>>1759739
Cats knead because that's how the encourage milk flow in their mothers. So they prefer to knead tissue similar to what they remember.

No. 1759982

>>1759967
Damn I feel like that’s really not fair

No. 1759991


No. 1760012

>>1759861
>>1759948
>>1759969
Ok now why should I? So far he’s sweet, loyal, and fucks like crazy

No. 1760027

>>1760012
What is his special interest

No. 1760050

>>1760027
History, I think

No. 1760053

>>1760050
Does he have a fixation on the roman empire?

No. 1760057

does leon actually get kissed by the merchant in the new remake or…

No. 1760071

>>1760053
No, it’s just history in general. Whenever I look at his phone, he’s usually reading Wikipedia articles

No. 1760090

>>1760071
ask what he thinks about William z ripley

No. 1760588

What the hell is up with this woman's speech consistently upticking at the end? She'll say something like "I'm not sure I agree with thHHHAATT" or "if we're being honest we've never stopped praising thiNNNESSS" is it uptalk or just her type of UK accent?

No. 1760590

>>1760588
Uptalking is the worst

No. 1760768

Why is there always at least some official art or fanart of hot 2D guys but as babies? I don’t really get what’s the appeal. Wouldn’t it be easier to just make fan babies?

No. 1761181

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Is autism queer? Why or why not?

No. 1761359

>>1761181
honestly? these days "queer" means literally anything and everything so yeah, why not

No. 1761367

>>1761181
No but an awful lot of queers are autistic for some reason

No. 1761493

>>1761181
Since queer means trendy these days it certainly is. Autism pride!

No. 1761518

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Have you ever been in love?

No. 1761595


No. 1761730

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how do i stop being addicted to my phone? can't ever sleep and consooming endless memes is never satisfying but everything else is boring compared

No. 1761767

inspired by >>1761729 does anyone have more examples of unusual plurals or singular forms of words that you wouldn't see often? another one I like is how the plural of focus is foci
once I told this to a guy and he got really mad and said I was lying and looked up "foci" then and there to prove it but the dictionary definition for "focus" came up immediately and he was embarrassed

No. 1761833

>>1761767
Animals have very specific ways to refer to their collective, like a pack of wolves. Some animals have weird specific words like group of owls is called a parliament.

No. 1761840

This sounds retarded but literally what can I do now that my husbands sister has chopped her breasts off?
I told my husband to ask to hang out today and turns out she had her surgery yesterday.
He said if there's anything she needs to let us know, we will do it no matter how small.
She said thanks but she has friends around her who can help.

There's lots of backstory, we were hoping she wouldn't go through with the surgery. I hope she gets what she needs out of it but there is a looming feeling she's just going to kill herself in a few months.
Should we push to go over and help?
The family is terrified she is going to kill herself, but if they say anything against it she will cut them off.

No. 1761854

>>1761840
is she a tif? I know she said she doesn't need help but maybe she won't resist if you initiate instead of hoping she reaches out, maybe you could see if she'll let you guys deliver some meals or help with chores just under the guise that surgery is a big time regardless of what it is. Or with an excuse like "hey we can't finish all the food we got so we brought some to share." Don't force it if she says no but keep extending the offer in case she needs someone eventually, and don't push the topic, just be open and try to watch her safety
If she is a tif, sadly a lot of them get sucked into that space and can't/won't connect with people who aren't part of that in-group. It's grim but many in that community isolate vulnerable ones from their family and encourage poor life decisions. I don't know if maybe you might know someone who's able to act affirmative just to monitor her and make sure she's safe, and might be able to gently ease her towards good choices. When they're at these make or break moments where they risk strong regret it's probably not a good time to question their logic, the focus should be on making them feel like they have supports they can turn to

No. 1761856

>>1761840
Did you post about this before on LC? I think I read it before. Sounds like a difficult position to be in, I wouldn't know what to do either.

No. 1761859

>>1761854
She considers herself they/them but probably actually thinks shes a he and has used that as a stepping stone.
Changed her name to a more neutral one.
She 100% got sucked into that group via tiktok and the city she/we live in now.
She cut my husband off before over trans shit, but since she came over when I had a trans friend over shes opened up more to him again.
We're hoping if he maintains a line of contact, if/when she does regret what shes done she will turn to my husband instead of killing herself.
Her dad said to me theyre basically just waiting for the phone call..
My husband has helped her when shes been suicidal before but that was before the whole tranny shit.
She just isnt interested in hearing anything else besides asspats for her ideology, its incredibly sad.
>>1761856
Yeah I did, she went through with it in the end. Husbands mother messaged today about christmas stuff, idk if shes told her mother about the surgery. I feel sad she doesnt have family to physically go with her to help her but my husband wont be the one she picks anyway. The group chat when she mentioned her new pronouns and new name was awkward.
I wonder if she thinks I'm more liberal with this shit than I actually am, my thoughts on it align with my husbands lol.

No. 1761883

File: 1699528921116.jpeg (1.05 MB, 750x1081, IMG_2227.jpeg)

Does anyone remember that Frozen promo that looked similar to pic related but they had to edit/retract it because they looked too dead/too much like Jack in The Shining? Am I going insane or did this happen? Maybe it wasn’t Frozen but another kid’s movie/show set in the snow?

No. 1761933

File: 1699534147268.gif (2.12 MB, 498x373, i'm using the internet!.gif)

asking this again but is there a website like kissanime/cartoon/asian but for western tv live action tv shows ? just to be clear i only want these for the comment section because i otherwise know where to watch in high quality. it's just a hassle to go and look up what REDDITORS (or paid articles) have to say as there's usually nowhere else to discuss specific episodes… i don't care that they're stupid my favorite part of watching anything is always the comment section. and even if they are bad it gives me an additional excuse to complain kek i wish there an extension that could join the two or something but it's probably not possible

No. 1761940

>>1758186
sometimes, mostly when I wear contacts. I hate contacts because they bug my eyes but I'm always surprised by how many people mention my eyes. I never thought there was anything special about my eyes, a normal shape and very brown.

No. 1761968

Do bamboo sheets turn your bed into a slip and slide the same way satin sheets do?

No. 1761981

>>1761975
kys

No. 1761995

>>1761968
Not in my experience, Nona. I’ve tried different brands too.

No. 1761998

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am i the only one who thinks of picrel whenever i see a pic of suella braverman

No. 1762193

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>>1761181
autismgender exists

No. 1762400

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I got switched from prozac to citalopram years ago, but citalopram is out of my budget. Should I try prozac again or like, talk to a doctor and ask for something else entirely? Escitalopram is cheaper but I haven't used it before. Anyone here has had experience with them?

No. 1762485

>>1759134
>>1759153
ok 3d didn't work for me, so i think i'm going to kms instead

No. 1762532

How do you take care of your toenail health?
My toenail doesnt grow flat and curves down the sides and I'm not sure if thats normal but its never hurt so bad I'd consider it "ingrown" so I file the sides of my toenail down so it doesn't grow further into my skin and I use a pick on the sides so doesnt get stuck between nail and skin (it creates a seal) and I'm just not sure what normal is and google didn't tell me anything. Like do your nails grow flat or do they also grown down on the sides? My pedicure lady only cares about the length and doesn't do the sides.

No. 1762541

>>1762532
Oh and only my big toes grows like this, my other toes don't seem to grown down and are flat looking.

No. 1762562

how do you get a psychiatrist? so you just
google ones in your area or what?

No. 1762632

>>1762485
ayrt, noo don't kys you're so hawt… kek what app did you use? i used polycam once and created a pretty nice render of some overgrown foliage on a building, though i haven't tried it for smaller objects. here's a nice tutorial that's similar to what you want. you can export that file to blender later and create a gif from there, which should be pretty simple, since it's just a rotation

No. 1762695

>>1762562
No idea where you live or what your insurance situation is like but I asked my GP to refer me

No. 1762796

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Hi nonnies, I'm wondering, how do you get emergency antidepressants/anti-anxiety meds (a specific type) for someone? Is the online telehealth ones a scam? How quickly can they be received?

My autistic brother said he might become suicidal if he runs out of meds. He does have a video appointment with his primary doctor but he's not 100% sure if he'll get a refill or not considering it isn't a walk-in appointment.

No. 1762810

>>1762796
I’ve heard you can get an emergency 2-3 day script if you go to the hospital, but it might be different outside of europe, and will definitely require a long wait. Still, might be worth a try?

No. 1762831

>>1762796
I'm in Canada and if you go to the hospital or pharmacist they can give you an emergency supply but you might need to admit him if he threatens that. I am dx depression/bipolar type 2 and if he really can not fuction without meds for a few days he needs therapy and a backup support plan in case of future emergencies or in natural disasters or fincials.

No. 1762940

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So is miyazaki a pedo or no? I have my suspicion men can’t be trusted to animate or make stories about girls, and I saw questionable stuff in a few movies… but is it definite? Would people generally agree that he is?

I saw the quote about loving a 12 year old but someone could argue it’s out of context or not a definite things since it’s basically going off one guys word. I saw picrel too but I noticed that there’s no mention of how old the character actually is, and the clips don’t necessarily look like a kid so I could see people discounting that.

No. 1762975

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>>1762940
The movie came out 1958, when he was 16-17. Bai-Niang looks kinda adult-ish tbh. She's supposed to be a spirit of white snake and is like thousand years old from what i read. I don't think she's supposed to be a little girl. Maybe there's other evidence? I genuinely never heard about Miyazaki being a pedophile rumours. I'm really scared that he could be, i really hope he isn't one.

No. 1762982

>>1762975
Samefag, she's called "ano onna" - "that woman" in the movie. It's definitely an adult woman.

No. 1762991

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>>1762975
The other evidence is picrel, along with the weird scenes in his movies like the cow licking kikis foot and the creepy old men in Porco Rosso and Castle in the Sky etc. there’s also a rumor that spirited away is about a brothel but I don’t know much about Japan so I wouldn’t present that as anything meaningful. I’ve also seen a few other potentially suspicious comments he made in interviews but nothing outright saying he’s pedo

No. 1762996

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>>1762975
>The movie came out 1958, when he was 16-17.
holy shit miyazaki is fucking old

No. 1763011

>>1762991
That's an incredibly incriminating thing to say, and i cannot imagine how it can be interpritated differently no matter the context… Hard to tell with the movies scenes. The brothel theory seems a bit far-fetched too, but who knows.
>>1762996
He's basically a mummy at this point kek

No. 1763015

>>1762991
Bathhouses in Japan did sell sex in the Edo period, that's what today evolved into the now called soaplands. The line in spirited away is ambiguous enough to get away with it being either the case or not, but I honestly believe it is a brothel which is why the scene where chiro is left to tend to the filthy spirit guy makes me very uncomfortable.

No. 1763019

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>>1763015
why is japan so fucking weird ghibli also made a whole movie about tanukis with big balls

No. 1763081

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Picrel is google-translated, but you got the idea.
>>1763015
Bathhouses sold sex everywhere. And in Japan public baths are also normal. But also japanese are normally huge pedos too, so it wouldn't be no shock either.
>>1763019
Kek

No. 1763103

>>1763019
tanukis have big balls traditionally in Japanese folklore

No. 1763116

>>1763103
LMAO why?

No. 1763121

>>1763116
nayrt (deleted once for typos) but they use them for magic in japanese folklore. they shapeshift by wrapping themselves within their big balls if i remember correctly, can fly around by inflating / ‘flapping’ them, use them as shields, many things kek

No. 1763122

>>1763019
Sorry but the ball movement is killing me kekkk. A person really animated that.

No. 1763126

>>1763116
Japanese have had a strange fascination towards animal balls and buttholes for centuries

No. 1763127

>>1763121
This is insane kek

No. 1763130

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>>1763116
ballsack flying example

No. 1763133

>>1763130
i wish my culture was this batshit crazy its so boring compared to fat raccoons who have magical ballsacks

No. 1763138

>>1762940
It's not impossible, but what I do know is that Mamoru Hosoda is a huge shotacon. I wish I saved that screenshot but in an interview about Summer War he said he made that one kid dark skinned because it's "sexy" or some other disturbing shit.

No. 1763143

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This is dumb but for how long can you use a disposable camera? Can you just put new film in once it runs out?

No. 1763146

>>1763133
The movie is actually very nice and cozy, and has some stunning visuals, if you can look past the Magic ballsacks I recommend it

No. 1763148

>>1763146
yeah i was planning to watch it for my birthday alongside my favourite ghibli movies(porco rossso and the wind rises)

No. 1763150

can someone recommend some internet rabbit holes that are extremely fascinating? I don't care if you think it's only interesting to you, and idc how weird it is. I need something to get lost in because I'm feeling very suicidal, sorry for tmi

No. 1763154

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>>1763150
The Death Valley Germans story and discovery is the hole my internet friend sent me down when I was in a similar situation
https://www.otherhand.org/home-page/search-and-rescue/the-hunt-for-the-death-valley-germans/

No. 1763156

How excited should I feel for my graduation? I don’t know, I just feel numb about it because it took me so long to graduate.

No. 1763165

Quick rundown on why the general public hates Doja Cat and why Lolcow hates Doja Cat (assuming they are different reasons)?

No. 1763170

>>1763165
i know twitter hates doja cat because she has a complicated and edgy relationship with her bi-racialness and likes to date white men. lol cow dislikes her because the moid she is with now has assault allegations (doja blocked the people coming out to talk about their experience with him) and it’s overall very histrionic.

No. 1763172

>>1762532
I'm not sure if this is similar to your issue but I feel like my toenails grow too wide and it unnerves me with how they embed sideways into the skin. I'm constantly snipping the edges to make them narrower/more rounded but I wonder if I'm just randomly mentally ill about a normal development.
>>1763150
I dunno if this counts as a rabbit hole but I love pannenkoek2012 on YouTube, it's some of my favorite weird content and has no heavy/depressing subject matter. Dunno if it counts as niche since he blew up at one point.
It's a guy who's just super autistic about Super Mario 64, in particular the concept of beating the game without pressing the A button, which is what makes Mario jump. Most of his videos are him doing random stuff in the game but he has some long commentated videos where he explains the insane nonsense he goes through just to avoid jumping and I think it's hilarious because of how absurd it is. I am a SM64 fan but I don't think you need to be familiar with the game to get a kick out of it. I like to watch them when I'm sad/bored because they're innocent, but technical enough that I have something to focus my mind on following along with.

No. 1763184

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>>1763165
I know the general public hates her now because of how annoying she is about filtering out her fans and trying to keep a hardcore stan fanbase, having a boyfriend that talks to and has groomed kids with proof being sent to her, and ignoring everything just to maintain a new bad bitch persona that she made for her shitty album which is just songs about her pedo scrote and how much she loves him. Here its always been infights about how Doja is either a “poor ib girl that sent nudes to white supremacists on tinychat/4chan just like us” so therefore her being retarded is fine and relatable or how Doja is just a self hating biracial who has a history of keeping ties with racist moids. Her old song dindu nuffin was based on old /pol/ shit, she used to write the n-word on her tits and flashed them to white moids on chat sites for attention, and she recently posted a selfie of her wearing Sam Hyde merch from his peak “us vs (((them)))” phase

No. 1763188

>>1763172
seconding nonnie's rec, i looove panenkoek2012. in a similar (ish) vein, here's one I like to turn on sometimes.

No. 1763212

>>1763170
>>1763184
Huh I had no idea about her bf. I just knew she told her stans to go fuck themselves and I thought that was pretty funny.

No. 1763217

>>1763188
This video made me love math

WATCH IT WHILE HIGH AT LEAST ONCE IN YOUR LIFE

No. 1763218

>>1763188
ayrt, I LOVE the sphere eversion video! I saw it as a kid and became genuinely obsessed with it, I still have a good part of it memorized. There have been a few times irl where someone would naively mention "that weird sphere video on YouTube" to ask if I knew about it and I'd stun them by reciting the first minute word for word. I studied math in uni (briefly) because of this video activating deep seated autism.
I love niche shape-related mathematics in general. I like to learn about different categories of 3D shapes and I can recognize and name a lot of polyhedra. A lot of video games and misc decor use these shapes because they're easy to create graphics for so it's like my personal easter egg hunting game to spot and name random shapes I run across.
Off the top of my head I remember this website https://www.georgehart.com/virtual-polyhedra/vp.html which is super old and I don't think the .wrl files work anymore but I liked poking around on it. There's a good amount of polyhedron junk on youtube too.
Another rec: https://www.kleinbottle.com/ this is a store run by an eccentric old man who loves a particular 4D shape. It looks outdated because of how messy the site is but he actually keeps it very updated, last update was 1 month ago. I think there are videos where people interview him and he literally jumps out of joy because he's so happy about his favorite shape

No. 1763231

>>1763218
please recommend more math stuff! I'm trying to find stuff to occupy my mind that isn't politics please

No. 1763233

do airport starbucks take giftcards?

No. 1763236

Why the fuck can't you copy and paste from notes in iCloud? I've written entire fanfics in my notes app and have no idea how to transfer them to a word processor to edit and eventually publish them.

No. 1763243

>>1763236
Nvm, Ctrl + C works for some reason even though right-click + copy doesn't.

No. 1763253

>>1763218
haha, nonnie, as I was reading your post I was JUST thinking "oh, she would love the klein bottle guy" and then you mentioned him! I aggree, he's really fun. I've watched the sphere video many times because it calms me and because I have this certain fascination with early CGI, 80's and 90s pre toy story stuff is just so hypnotic to me. in that domain i also love animusic (short for animated, not animal). it was this weird ova series of music videos.

No. 1763258

>>1763218
>>1763231
This one is mega popular so there's a good chance you've already seen it but i love it.

>>1763217 ntaryt but the one who posted the vid and i have done so, many many times haha

No. 1763264

>>1763233
Definitely. I only use my Starbucks gift cards at the airports. They'll accept cards and the pieces of paper with a bar code printed on them.

No. 1763276

>>1763231
If you like the sphere eversion video, the company that made them also made a few other videos, Not Knot and The Shape of Space.
Here is a more obscure video I liked about map projections, it has a similar trippy atmosphere as the aforementioned ones.
3Blue1Brown makes math videos that are really beautifully presented. Some of them can be hard to understand if you don't know some university or at least high school level math, but it depends, some videos are more accessible than others. Even if you aren't really following along, it can be nice to just stare at some visuals and watch them click into place. Specific recommendation: "Who cares about topology? (Inscribed rectangle problem)"
CodeParade has stuff about non-Euclidean space that's pretty accessible. He focuses on making games, I have not played his games but some of the videos are fun and have cool visuals.
Not as familiar with these two but Tibees and Vi Hart are some female creators. Vi Hart is the granddaughter of the guy who made that archaic polyhedron website


This is not math related, but another rec I have for the "niche-ish stuff to occupy your mind" is the MandaloreGaming channel, idc about most of his stuff but he has a series where he goes through absolutely unhinged adventure games, which is pretty funny. It should be in a playlist.
>>1763258
Yeah, I played around with that game and had some fun! I think that is the guy who is developing Miegakure which is supposed to be a true 4D game (not like a tech demo style game but something with actual characters and gameplay). It is taking forever but it's understandable because I think you have to basically invent new software and file formats for the 4D assets

No. 1763285

>>1763276 will check it out once this edible kicks in, thanks! also i don't think miegakure is ever gonna happen, has he even given any updates within the last couple years?

No. 1763291

>>1763285
Allegedly there are monthly updates on his Patreon, and the last public update I can find at a cursory glance is from 2012. I don't expect anything but I'm willing to believe that he really is making progress on it, just slowly. >>1763285

No. 1763554

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Are these cats part of the short nose cats with bad breathing?

No. 1763595

>>1763276
i didn't forget!
>2000 views
how did you find this, nonny?

No. 1763599

>>1763595
youtube recommended it to me when I was on a weird math video binge

No. 1763601

>>1763599
I'm enjoying it, and you're right, it is reminiscent of turning a sphere inside out!

No. 1764052

Why do women's goodyear welted shoes always look so masculine? Is it a design choice or is it the natural consequence of a well-made shoe? Is that the ideal toe box? Are normal, mass produced shoes poorly designed on purpose in order to get a more stylish feminine toe shape?

No. 1764068

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Was this really her note? Omg

No. 1764070

Where does cerbmin live when is he awake

No. 1764136


No. 1764170

>>1764052
>Is it a design choice or is it the natural consequence of a well-made shoe?
Mostly that a well made shoe is going to be blockier and thicker, but also partially design choice. You're buying a shoe bought almost exclusively by lesbian construction contractors, they all have a distain for the girly.
>Are normal, mass produced shoes poorly designed on purpose in order to get a more stylish feminine toe shape?
Absolutely. The average woman's shoe is designed for fashion, and fashion currently likes a slim pointy foot. Small toe boxes cause bunions, which is why women get them so much more commonly, though even men's tennis shoes are also not good for our feet, just less so compared to women's feet.

No. 1764174

>>1763143
You can use it for as long as the total number of photos. Most will have a counter, once it gets to zero, you take it to get developed. I've never heard of one being able to be filled.

No. 1764227

Can BPD just literally disappear over time? It was making my life a living hell in my late teens and controlled everything. But now nearly everything is gone, I have other issues but I'm generally doing better with no typically bpd symptoms. Can it just be because the frontal lobe fully develops and you kinda calm down and deal with PTSD in other ways?

No. 1764230

>>1764170
>You're buying a shoe bought almost exclusively by lesbian construction contractors, they all have a distain for

insane homophobia, shoes are designed and created for function over fashion.

No. 1764247

How do you cope with an internet celebrity you really really like and even depend on being a horrible person in reality?
Also, I'm asking how to cope not regret, fuckers.

No. 1764250

>>1764247
You can try separating the art from the artist, I know that sounds corny, but everyone does it to some extent. Do they show they face a lot?

No. 1764257

>>1764247
Every person puts out a facade/persona to make themselves likable so you might as well treat that like a character separate from it. It’s bound to happen if you like any online celeb so don’t feel too bad about being reeled in on a nice personality

No. 1764258

>>1764227
What other issues do you have?

No. 1764259

>>1764250
Hmm… you're right about the extent thing.
And yes, they show their face a lot.
The issue on the table is that they allegedly had sex w an 18yo when they were well into their 20s. Which to me personally isn't a big deal but there's always this feeling of an imminent danger that will result in the creator not uploading to the channel anymore because of that.
It's really childish, I know, but I can't seem to be able to disattach myself from their content.

No. 1764263

>>1764247
I don't like any "internet celebrities" tbh especially not on that level.

No. 1764281

>>1764227
It's possible you learned coping mechanisms and put in some amount of work/self reflection that helped you get over whatever BPD tendencies you had. I think it's something you should be proud of yourself for, lots of people never look inwards to solve their problems.

No. 1764317

>>1764227
It's a personality disorder. Personality can change.

No. 1764333

>>1764259
Imo you already should start trying to detach a little bit from them from your own sake. I became unhealthily attached to a youtuber last year (who might be the same as yours kek based on the issue). I developed a dependence on their content a little because I thought their lifestyle was admirable (not the influencer stuff, rather health-wise), and I was using their uploads as motivation to work out and drink less. I started personalizing my goals more and looking for more generalized advice from professionals instead of personality-based channels, and that helped a lot. If you just depend on the channel just for entertainment and something to keep you happy, try to find other things to look forward to and maybe delete the app/website they're associated with for a while.

No. 1764340

>>1764333
If your guy has a podcast, then we're definitely talking about the same person. What are the odds.

I'll try to find another thing to keep me busy, but I just don't want to get attached to another content creator and end up on the same page. None of them are trustworthy, I know, but they're like friend-simulators. It's why anyone watches streamers or youtubers.

Going from something so real to a show or something just feels like a downgrade, always and forever. But it's definitely better for your mental health, so I'll just man up and do it anyway.

Thank you for the advice nonna <3(integrate)

No. 1764508

>>1764227
Yeah BPD is one of those disorders that, with treatment, can go away. On the contrary, bipolar disorders are lifelong and do not go away, although medication can alleviate the associated issues.

No. 1764657

Is it inappropriate for your boyfriend/girlfriend to feel flattered about attention of the opposite sex?

No. 1764668

>>1764657
It really depends. If they’re fishing for it or really fixated despite being with you then yeah but just being flattered by a compliment is normal.

No. 1764691

Speaking of BPD
should I feel bad for having a crush on my doctor?

No. 1764714

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No. 1764723

>>1764227
I wondered the same thing because BPD ruined my late teens and early 20s then just randomly vanished seemingly overnight. I heard that it's supposed to take much longer for remission to happen, which makes me paranoid it's just gonna come back when I least expect it. I do wonder if maybe it's situational though, maybe something in your life changed and made you feel calmer?

No. 1764744

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Can anyone recommend some motivational audio or video that tells me to get my shit together? Preferably spoken by a woman.

No. 1764786

>>1764723
I acted like a massive BPD sperg all throughout high school and early college and then just went internally crazy after. The external factors that were driving me crazy are gone now and I still feel like that from time to time but it’s mostly gone.

No. 1764804

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>>1757659
>What's the deal with headpats?
originaly, in the very ' NO TOUCH'' japanese culture, you don't kiss, you don't hug, you don't do public display of affection,you don't even shake hands unless you ask for first.
but for some reasons, heatpats are okay ( and for kids only ) but on the internet it's mainly popular because weeb culture, it's cute and quirky to do headpats like cute animes gurls

No. 1764812

>>1764804
Why is everyone, you including, acting like it's a weird cultural practice and not just a normal sign of affection that's done in a specific part of the world? Posts like this remind me of when some people hear that in France, Italy, etc. close friends and family and sometimes coworkers kiss each other on the cheek to say hi and depending on the specific regions where you are you do it once, twice or up to four times and some people in other parts of the world act as if it were the same as passionately french kissing your friends for 5 minutes straight or some equally dumb shit.

No. 1764825

>>1764812
in some countries like thailand, it's very offensive to touch someone's head
i'm just saying that it's weird that in japanese culture were you don't touch other people much as a sign of affection, this one is specificaly okay and popularized in pop culture

No. 1764831

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nonnas ? is it racist not being attracted by black dudes while being white as moby dick ?(racebait)

No. 1764840

>>1761995
Thanksss

No. 1764849

>>1764825
It's not that strange. It would be strange if hugging kids was a thing instead because of the contrast you're talking about, there's still plenty of distance when you pat someone's head.

>in some countries like thailand, it's very offensive to touch someone's head

I know, I heard about some Japanese tourists visiting Thailand are told in tourist guides or whatever these books are called that it's offensive so they really shouldn't that until they're back home.

No. 1764852

>>1764831
It’s only racist if you don’t even talk to people in general because their skin color makes you think they’re gross or something like that. Having preferences doesn’t make you a racist, it just makes you a woman who knows what she wants. It’s like saying you’re an ageist because you won’t date older men, it’s dumb.

No. 1764860

>>1764831
no it is a preference. like not being attracted to a tranny

No. 1764873

>>1764852
>>1764860
you know nonnas, it might really sound like a stupid troll question but i'm really conflicted about this
when someone ask you your type and all you can't say is '' i don't know, don't really have one, but i'm not found of black people romantically and sexually'' not only i sound like i'm a racist grandma from alabama but it feels like it's a dog whistle for Pol/ard and unironicals nazies
but at the same time, i'm not found of fat people so i also must be an absolute fatphobic shitlord

No. 1764878

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>in female-dominated uni class
>instructor asks us how often we think about the Roman Empire
>I say "most days, maybe 5-7 days a week"
>everyone laughs at me with bewilderment
>turns out it's a viral meme that women don't think about the Roman Empire while men do, and literally everyone else in the class says they "never" think about it
>ask every man I know and they all say they think about it regularly although maybe not as much as me
>ask women I know and they also say never
Wtf?? Is this how troons feel when they ruminate over being "malebrained"? I can't find a single other woman who answers siimilarly. Are any of you like me?

No. 1764889

>>1764878
Moids think about it because they’re gay and obsessed with gay power fantasy aspects of it. Women think about it if it’s their special interest.

No. 1764891

>>1764873
As long as you keep this to yourself and don't call black men racist slurs when you reject them you should be fine. If I talked about my preferences I would be called a self-hating racist white man worshipper because I find the men in my community too deranged, religious and violent to interact with them and I don't want to touch men with cut dicks with a ten foot pole.

No. 1764917

>>1764878
I think romans are boring but I think about Edo and Meiji period Japan on a semi-daily basis if it's any consolation.

No. 1764963

>>1764878
I think about the Roman empire all the time. Having hobbies and interests outside of the ones expected for your sex is fine nonna. The fall of the Roman empire is as dumb as watching the Kardashian. There are so many ridiculous stories.

No. 1765077

>>1764878
It's stupid, every course I've been on where history was the main thing, almost everyone is a woman, when I was younger, first elective all women bar one, in university, noticeably more women. History is seen as a male subject when it's convenient and respected, and a female one when it's demeaned as a subject or useless degree.

Anyway, I find Rome boring as fuck. The idea of 'thinking of insert generic period here x amount of days a week' is silly. Unless it's your job or you're autistic, that's fair enough.

No. 1765086

Shein gets their clothes from Asia but it's geared towards Americans so they must adjust size labels to make an Asian L an American S, European sizes are in between Asian/American sizes so does that mean that the sizes are smaller, bigger or 'correct' on European versions of the website? I ordered a pair of pants in a size larger because I was kind of scared they wouldn't fit me but now I don't know if I should have. I checked the measurements but they were kind of in between.

No. 1765146

>>1765086
It depends lmao but the measurements tend to be semi accurate, reviews usually give you an idea so it's mostly a risk when there are none. Women's clothing in general is like this there's no lol one size fit all piece of advice.

No. 1765166

>>1764068
I never got an answer for this can I bump

No. 1765168

>>1764878
You're a liar, though. Probably pathologically. You don't think about the Roman empire every day, and neither do men. You're all just addicted to lying.

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>>1764878
i regularly think of ww2 (europe only, asia was boring), medieval britain, bosnia war, and whatever the hell the autistic dumbshit going on right now in guyana/venezuela is. (i do not care about any other wars, also, i'm not from any of those countries kek i'm just gigaautistic)

No. 1765182

>>1764878
I think about the Ottoman and Mongol empire quite often.

No. 1765256

>>1764878
I think for me it’s the Holy Roman Empire.
>>1765168
Why on earth would anyone lie about that

No. 1765278

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>>1764878
I think about mermaids and fairies 5-7 times a week is that weird

No. 1765346

I never even kept up with the campaign shit in the first place and I avoid troonery in general now, does anyone big still care about kiwifarms?

No. 1765476

What "shock" famous person death (as in not someone really old) do you see happening in the next 5 years?

No. 1765480

>>1765278
I think about them 20 times a day. I want to be one

No. 1765481

>>1765476
Jennifer Aniston and the guy from scare tactics

No. 1765486

>>1765168
I don't sit there and deeply ponder it in detail every day, but it crops up tangentially in my thoughts. Like if I pass by a crucifix I might think about Jesus' crucifixion by Romans, if I'm eating foods like olives I might think about how they liked olives too, if I think about volcanos I might think about Pompeii, if I'm thinking about power/conquest I might think about emperors. I can't imagine never thinking about it ever, they were influential
>>1765278
>>1765480
this is so real

No. 1765488

>>1765476
>Jordan Peterson (not sure if this counts because he is old but I can see it being accidental OD)
>Paul McCartney (also old, oops)
>George RR Martin (also old, oops)

No. 1765499

I took one pill of Tylenol (500mg acetaminophen) but it didn't have an effect on my migraine so after about an hour I took advil instead that included 250mg of acetaminophen. Am i going to die?

No. 1765501


No. 1765505

>>1765499
Tylenol is shit. Advil always works for my migraines and I have pretty bad ones to the point I throw up many times and get numbness on one side. Goes away in 30 minutes.

No. 1765511

>>1765505
Ayrt, and yes advil has now alleviated my migraine since taking it. Tylenol never worked on my period pains either.

No. 1765516

>>1765511
Ayrt, Advil works for heavy period cramps and lessens a heavy flow a little. Enjoy the delicious savior pill

No. 1765558

What makes a woman intimidating? I get told I am a lot and I don’t know why

No. 1765559

>>1765558
Not smiling. Seriously, people will rag on us for having a neutral expression and say we look pissy over nothing.

No. 1765609

>>1765558
Alot of the time it's genetics, bassically the way you and your face looks like.

People will say it's expressions but I don't think that's true at all from my experience.

Some of features people condier intimidating tend to be hooded narrow eyes, sanpaku eyes, long noses, downturned lips, low placed eyebrows etc etc.

No. 1765614

I'm drunk rn but I am engaged to my forever moid, should I break up with him and live single and happy forever with my.best girl friends as my support. What does a mood add to my life anyways?

No. 1765615

>>1765614
Moid not mood. As I said I am drunk kek

No. 1765650

How is estrogen dominance treated?

No. 1765673

>>1765650
Eat less fat, exercise more, healthy veggies 24/7, lot of water. Annoying because you have to keep track of your intake more than the average girl but very doable. Ask your doctor.

No. 1765757

>>1765614
Think about the advantages and disadvantages of doing that when you're sober.

No. 1765783

Is it bad to crack your back a lot? Lately my back cracks A LOT but I do it on purpose, and it makes a lot of noise. I sit a lot at work because I work in an office. I'm worried the chair is fucking up my back. Help how do I fix this

No. 1765891

>>1764878
I think daily about the Ancient Middle East like Babylon and Sumer but any moid who's into the Roman Empire is a gigantic red flag, they are always some weird redpill/tradfag/far right dude.

No. 1765932

Is it the high frucyose corn syrup that makes americans so morbidly obese? Bc I've never seen anyone as big in my country, and I cant imagine anyone getting that big even if they were to only eat white sugar by the spoonfuls all day every day. Like there are fat people here, and obese too, but the my 600 lbs life weight ones, how is it even possible? Like whats in the food that causes that, bc that cant just be overeating??

No. 1765933

>>1765650
>>1765673
Nah eat more fat and less carbs, carb heavy diets throw your hormones out of wack.

No. 1765986

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I like to lay my head on my cat. Sometimes it's so comfy that I start falling half asleep, but I'm worried about squishing her if I'm not conscious of not putting my heads full weight onto her. Cats have enough of a survival instinct to get up and run away if something gets too restricting, right? Like, I won't kill her or anything because I used her as my pillow, right? She't not a baby (by age, that is), she's fully grown and I'm not holding her or anything, I'm really just resting my head on her and listen to her purring.

No. 1766005

>>1765932
Maybe. It’s also the sedentary lifestyle.

No. 1766010

>>1765986
Depends on how big she is. It might hurt a small cat. Maybe you can lay next to her instead of on her. I’ve fallen asleep on a cat and it was fine, it fell asleep too but it was a big cat.

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>>1765932
I think there are a lot of factors that coalesce into the US's weight problem. People that big in the US have easiest access to shit food, so yeah, ones pumped full of corn syrup and generally very high calorie and low nutritional value making them eat more. This is primed from primary school, where if you buy lunch it's low-quality premade slop. Pic rel is the closest photo I could find which looked like the food they used have when I was a kid. Also generally large portions and the social aspect of eating is diminished in the US. Families are less likely to sit together, at a table, to eat and on average eat faster than other countries which allows for a higher calorie intake before realizing they are full.

No. 1766034

>>1765609
I have a baby face though, and physically I’m not very strong.

No. 1766052

>>1766034
Baby face doesn't mean happy face and not being physically large or strong doesn't mean you look physically intimidating. My big sister is the tiniest, cutest fairy creature ever and people often think she's a judgmental bitch because she's quiet, shy and has a very deadpan resting face. Then they talk to her and realize she has a pretty noticeable disability and is scared of talking to people but not mean at all.

No. 1766093

>>1766012
Is that corn right next to the pizza? Like, just corn by itself? What the fuck?

No. 1766101

>>1765986
cat will move if she's uncomfortable. my little kitty loves to smush herself HARD against me or under my legs when we sleep.

No. 1766105

>>1764878
my best friend is a woman, majored in history, and is extremely interested in ww2 / american presidents on the whole.

i think my most moidy interest is dinosaurs and prehistory periods in general, i love everything about the animals and the plants and climates and land formations of prehistoric times.

No. 1766132

>>1765783
You could:
Go to a physio
Invest in an exercise ball to sit on instead of a chair
Move in general, stretch, exercise, walk.
Source: Long time fucked up spine haver.

No. 1766135

>>1766093
canned corn is a thing

No. 1766140

What type of piercing would look good with double nostrils and a lower lip labret? I don't like septum rings but it's all I find with that combo.

No. 1766194

>>1764873
>>1764891
The smart thing to do is lead with what you like. "Funny, smart, fit" this automatically excludes the guys with traits you aren't interested in

No. 1766205

can i make a sweet soup, like,with fruits

No. 1766217

>>1766205
Why not? If you look up kompot you should get some results, you do have to add some sugar though.

No. 1766218

>>1766205
its called fruit salad

No. 1766226

>>1766140
Medusa or angel bites?

No. 1766242

>>1766217
thank
>>1766218
no i want real soup. to eat hot

No. 1766246

Do any scrotes ever call themselves "himbos" or is that solely a TIF thing?

No. 1766256

>>1766242
People make jackfruit curry and chili. Thats the only hot fruit thing I can think of. I’ve personally thrown some cranberries or berries in a simple salmon miso soup and it was good but it wasn’t really fruit soup.

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>>1766246
I remembered Hasan called himself that and upon googling I found that he has himbo workout merch. Also why does he look so sad in this pic, it reminds me of sad Keanu Reeves sitting on the bench, did he get stood up by his friends or something

No. 1766286

>>1766275
God he's so ugly, he looks retarded

No. 1766297

>>1766246
attention-whoring gymbros on tiktok

No. 1766316

>>1766275
Did he not get the memo that himbos are not sexual predators ? Lol pathetic.

No. 1766331

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where's the husbando thread

No. 1766336

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What's the story behind the 32" waist chan picture

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No. 1766340

>>1766337
thank you

No. 1766355

>>1766275
Himbos can't be facially challenged genocide deniers

No. 1766360

a guy from college i've been playing video games with just told me he had a dream we went on a date and kissed. im not interested wtf do i say

No. 1766371

>>1766360
once a guy told me his mom thought i was his gf and i just awkwardly went "haha dang that's crazy" and it never came up again

No. 1766372

>>1766371
so, just "lol"?

No. 1766373

>>1766336
an anachan blogged forever about her 32 inch waist somewhere it didn't belong. don't remember which thread exactly but mightve been kota, definitely a weeb cow.

No. 1766375

>>1766372
Yeah I basically gave no real reaction and he never made a move or anything. Tbh I don't think he was trying to escalate things to begin with I think he was just autistic and said something weird without realizing

No. 1766378

mine wrote some thing like "hope this doesnt backfire" before writing the dream thing idk what it means

No. 1766388

>>1766378
“Dang dreams sure are crazy”

No. 1766389

>>1766388
or do i describe one of my weirdest most unhinged dream ever

No. 1766390

>>1765932
Like other anon said it's probably a variety of different reasons, but fructose in general is worse than glucose, and you should not eat a lot of it. I used to think this was a conspiracy but it actually can lead to metabolic syndrome (regardless of whether you are deathfat, but metabolic syndrome can lead you down the path to deathfat). The reason for this, is we can only utilize the energy in fructose after it's been converted to fat in our liver, meaning it gets stored as fat. For glucose we can utilize some of the energy directly, more of it if we are highly active. The conversion from fructose to fat in our liver leads to bad cholesterol and can lead to fatty liver syndrome. Fructose is also the only carb that generates uric acid, which can lead to gout and other maladies.

No. 1766392

>>1766360
Go to the dream thread and copy paste one of the wacky posts and send it to him as if it was your own, I suggest the one in which anon dreamt she was Asuka

No. 1766422

Anons what are some subtle ways to get under tye skin of a really annoying bpd-chan in my friend group (who is also in one of my groupchats)?
She sends me snaps of her copying my makeup and drawing a fake mole where I have mine and then leaves me on read any time I reply and it weirds me tf out. I thought she wanted to be friends but she ghosts me any time I try to be friends with her?? She also had a meltdown because my boyfriend didn't give her a ride somewhere and she ended up quitting her job because of it (my boyfriend saying no) kek.

No. 1766423

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I tested positive for COVID 5 days ago (started feeling sick 2 or so days prior) and isolated for those 5 days according to CDC guidelines. Now I’m supposed to go to my friend’s birthday party but I don’t know how I’m supposed to be wearing a mask 24/7 when everyone is going to be drinking and partying. Does it actually matter if I don’t wear a mask?

No. 1766433

>>1766422
Say you're going to dye your hair blonde so she does it too and hopefully damages it

No. 1766472

>>1766423
I would hate to be around someone who had covid very recently in general. test again and wear a mask. dont go if you arent feeling well. Come on now

No. 1766498

Is a 5’8” (172.72cm) woman tall, in your opinion?

No. 1766501

>>1766498
Depends on where you live but to me it's average.

No. 1766502

>>1766498
In my country that'd be on the tall side of average but not so tall a 5'8 woman would stand out

No. 1766507

>>1766498
Yes but everyone in my country is like 5'2 kek

No. 1766510

>>1766498
It's 4 inches taller than the American average of 5'4", so I'd say it's reasonable to call that tall from a burger perspective
But I also think there's a bias where tall women sometimes aren't seen as tall unless they're REALLY tall, whereas slightly short or even average women are seen as squarely within the short category. Like I think there'd be lots of burgers who'd claim that 5'8" is not tall but very few people would call 5'0" not short, even though both deviate the same amount from the average. Sometimes 5'3-5'4 are considered "petite" despite being very average.
I think people perceive the average height as being notably taller than it is, I've long wondered why that might be? Maybe because lots of women wear heels? Because models are usually close to 6ft? Curious if anyone else has observed this

No. 1766512

>>1766498
I like how you specified the 7.2 milimeters kek

No. 1766516

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>>1766498
Sounds pretty tall to me

No. 1766518

>>1766510
>I think people perceive the average height as being notably taller than it is,
I think it's because people of foreign descent are dragging the average down in Western countries.

No. 1766525

>>1766510
I think you’re right. I’ve noticed that too, but I don’t know why it could be either.
>>1766512
Kek, I wasn’t sure if I should, so I did to be safe. How do you guys usually round your heights in cm? Like for us, we just do to the nearest inch, MAYBE specify a half inch if you’re truly exactly that, but it’s still kind of weird. Do you guys round to the nearest cm and using decimals is considered weird?

No. 1766526

>>1766498
Yes she would be tall in my opinion.

No. 1766529

>>1766516
This list means nothing, I'm 1.75 and I don't stand out as tall. Only as taller side of average. 2 centimeters over the dead average is still pretty average.

No. 1766535

>>1766498
For me women 170 cm and more are tall. Globally they're on a taller side. But it's not shockingly tall either.
>>1766510
I think 5"3'-5"4' just the MAXIMUM height for shorter proportions. But short people with longer proportions exist too. I also think that if a woman is 170+, you'll see that she's not short, but the opposite might not be true.
>>1766518
True. Noticed asians usually claim 5"0' is not at all short.
>>1766525
We'd round it to 173 or more rarely to 172.5 i think kek

No. 1766537

>>1766525
1mm/0.1cm is about the thickness of a credit card so we just round in centimeters for heights yes. Don't worry I'm just as clueless about the imperial system lol

No. 1766538

>>1766433
Kek. Espicially say you're thinking of going platinum.

>>1766498
You are 4'20", very cool. Also, that is tall.

No. 1766539

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>>1766518
I thought about that too but apparently the average for white women is 5'5", which is barely above the general average so it doesn't feel like it should make a big difference. Hope this isn't too racebaity

No. 1766553

>>1766498
Depends where in the world to be fair. I'm a burger and that height, and I don't consider myself tall. My favorite thing was to wear shoes with a 4in heel. I felt more invincible in a way because when you add in my general demeanor, guys tended to leave me alone. It was fun to stare them down. Kek

No. 1766595

>>1766510
>>1766498
The average height for American women is 5’4, but it’s closely tied with 5’5, 5’6, 5’7, and 5’8. So technically 5’4 is the most common height but it’s by a matter of like 2% or less, and 5’5-5’8 are all about equally common. So a 5’8 woman wouldn’t seem tall to me as it’s one of the most common heights

No. 1766673

Does shaving your armpits actually lower your body temperature or help you keep cool? I'm against body hair removal both politically and because of the time/energy/money cost, but I do get hot in the summertome. Wondering if it's worth it to try

No. 1766767

>>1766673
it helps to regulate the stench for me at least

No. 1766779

>>1766673
I do feel less warm and stinky when I shave, but I think it might not make as much of a difference in dryer places, I live somewhere both warm and super humid

No. 1766973

>>1766779
I live in a super dry place and don’t really notice a difference so you might be on to something.

No. 1767114

What is going through the mind of a guy that suggests filming both of you having sex? Like what kind of fetish is this? How you discern the intention? the guy is my bf..

No. 1767121

>>1767114
dont let a scrote have pornographic material of you. the moment you break up that shit is making to the internet.

No. 1767124

>>1767121
Or even if you don't break up.

No. 1767282

>>1767114
Pornbrained or wants to brag by posting it to his friends/somewhere online. Seriously this is a red flag and I wouldn’t risk it, sometimes they even set up hidden cameras for these purposes. Be careful

No. 1767341

>>1767114
Hes already done it.

No. 1767888

How do you cope with being a lifelong celibate? I used to think it was easy and I'd have no desire for a relationship or the touch of another person, but something in me changed, and lately I've been so distraught about not having someone that I can barely function and I'm feeling like I might off myself because of the pain sooner or later. It's depressing to me that I thought I was above it all, but turns out at the end of the day a biological urge kicked in and suddenly I'm just another primate with animal needs. I'm wondering if I can really live this way for a whole lifetime? I don't know if I'm strong enough.

No. 1767937

>>1767888
Find out what exactly you're craving and look for alternative methods of getting it. If you need touch, hug your friends and family, get a massage. If you need cuddles, get a body pillow and weighted blanket. If you need companionship, again friends and family. If you need romance, read books or even write your own stories. If you need someone to care for, get a pet. You do not need a scrote. You never need a scrote.

No. 1767972

Have any anons sold old computer parts on offerup successfully? Is there anything I should be worried about doing so like old data?

No. 1767994

>>1767937
Thanks nonnie… I've been trying to do that but it's not really helping so much anymore… I think the thing that ruined everything for me was that I started having super realistic dreams about being intimate and loving with a particular unattainable woman I was fixated on, and I hadn't experienced that before so i didn't know what I was missing, but now that my own dumb brain gave me a taste of it, i feel like I can't live the way I have been anymore and be satisfied. The dreams opened up a huge, gaping, hungering need I didn't know was even inside me. It made me think
>if this is what it's like, I can see why everyone else can't live without it and does reckless things just to get it
If there was any chance I could fulfil this need irl, I'd do it for sure, but since there isn't, I know I need to find a way to be okay with living without. It sort of makes me wish I could get into a religion or something and lose myself in it, but that's not in my nature.

No. 1768008

>>1766498
Humongous. The average woman is like 5'2" at least the ones that I notice.

No. 1768023

>>1768008
kek do you live in midgetland? I'm 170cm and maybe a little latter than the average but I only felt humongous when I visited China.

No. 1768122

>>1767888
I'm 30 and still going strong, I never feel like I'm coping because my brain is wired this way (I'm touch averse and I like solitude) so it helps I guess, but it's definitely not for everybody.

No. 1768156

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Sorry for the jak but that is literally me. How do I combat this.

No. 1768159

Sometimes i’ll see an image on here and then i’ll see it posted on other threads multiple times, anons please explain yourself do you just like to reuse images or are you saving images from other separate anons. Is this a sign I really need to spend less time on here if i’ll notice the same image used for examples of westaboos or sexy nerds multiple times.

No. 1768165

>>1767114
Doooooon't agree to that, there's a plethora of leaked sex films by ex boyfriends and even current boyfriends on the surface web.

No. 1768171

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>>1768159
I try not to use any images on here that depict men so it limits my library since I only have so many images saved on my phone. Plus if I see something here I like, I save it so it probably gets reused.

No. 1768177

>>1768156
The ex-NEET thread might be a start, also from my own experiences as a former NEET, can I just say try getting some hobbies, delete most of your internut stuff/pressnece barring some normie content and just try.

No. 1768178

>>1768023
nta but most people in African, Asian and LatAM countries tend to be smaller then Europeans. we're not short though, you all are just freakishly tall.

No. 1768194

File: 1699789243602.jpg (8.73 KB, 211x239, Z(15).jpg)

So I've been keeping my eye out for a french press at my local thrift store and yesterday I came across one without snout, what's the point of that?

No. 1768210

how do I kill myself painlessly and without much people having to see it?
I've already made the decision, please don't try to talk me out of it.

No. 1768213

>>1768210
No one is gonna tell you that here, this isn't the darkweb. Please get help.

No. 1768217

>>1768178
>freakishly tall
Because they are properly fed. Childhood malnourishment is rampant in many of the places that you've listed, which leads to stunted growth and an overall shorter adult height. Europeans were just as small about 130 years ago. Even still you have pockets of groups where the average person is very tall (the Maasai, where average woman is ~5'11").

No. 1768218

I don’t understand how I can lose an entire huge clump of full hairs every week and not be bald. I just don’t get it. How does it grow fast enough to replace shed hairs, and then catch up to the already long hairs, meanwhile hair growth for length seems to take a much longer time? How is all my hair the same length? Wouldn’t there be hairs of all lengths present at all times, and wouldn’t it stop growing past a certain point because all the longest hairs eventually fall out, and are out outnumbered by the new hairs?

No. 1768224

>>1768217
ueah there's a localised tall epolle phenonmenon in china too, most people are short but people in heilongjiang (in the northeast) are very tall, you frequently meet women in the 180cm/5ft10 range. probably the manchu ancestry

No. 1768225

>>1768210
I'm not saying anything but I respect peoples decisions to take their own lives as adults who can rationalize their own decisions provided they are in a sane mental space, but please cremate your body or get someone to destroy it.

No. 1768229

>>1768210
If I tell you, can I have all your possessions and social security number? I'm trying to commit a scam but it requires I be another person to do so.

No. 1768236

>>1768229
im not from us and I don't have a job or money

No. 1768238

>>1768236
Then you're likely a child. Come back in six years once your brain has stopped growing and if you still feel the same I'll tell you then.

No. 1768240

how do I get over being jealous of my partner having previous experiences before me? It bothers me and irritates me to no end. I'm an ugly autist with no game so it's not like I can do any better

No. 1768242

>>1768238
I'm a 23 year old neet.

No. 1768253

>>1768242
Get a job and maybe you'll stop being suicidal.

No. 1768254

>>1768242
that's still pretty young ngl. At least wait until you've finished your 20s

No. 1768255

>>1768242
I stand by my statement. You are a child who is overcome with learned helplessness. Come back in three years and we'll talk.

No. 1768263

>>1768255
Why are you gatekeeping suicide

No. 1768268

>>1768263
Anons gatekeep anything

No. 1768284

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No. 1768286

>>1768263
Because my husband killed himself after our daughter died. I understand deeply why he did it, but there's still a hole in my soul and even years later it affects me every day.
Suicide can be the right answer, but it has to be taken very seriously because not only is it permanent, but it's highly contagious to anyone who loved you or even knew you.
God do I miss him.

No. 1768318

>>1768286
Okay but you don't know what anon is going through and picking and choosing who has good reasons to kill themselves is retarded.

No. 1768348

>>1768318
You're telling me that since I have the information on how to commit suicide, that I have to tell anyone who asks? That's fucking retarded mate. I'll gatekeep suicide all I want, and if you don't like it, you can always kill yourself over it.

No. 1768351

>>1768348
Yes, that's exactly what I said.

No. 1768356

>>1768286
>Suicide can be the right answer
Suicide is literal mental illness, it's never the right answer.

No. 1768361

What is the best way to downsize your wardrobe in a small amount of time? I don't buy many things but the amount of clothes I have barely even fit in my room and it stresses me out. Or should I just embrace being a hoarder?

No. 1768371

>>1768361
If you have storage space elsewhere you can try separating by season (e.x thick sweaters or shorts and tank tops in storage bins until it's the right time of year). If you have to get rid of stuff, try everything on and pick the ones that fit best. Check everything for holes or stains. Look for wardrobe categories where you have a lot of overlap and could part with redundant pieces (for me it was having 8 similar long sleeve black shirts kek)

No. 1768381

File: 1699807005837.gif (2.87 MB, 498x280, marie-kondo-spark-joy.gif)

>>1768361
You could get rid of things the konmari style

No. 1768382

>>1768348
My suicide is going to be painful and it's your fault.

No. 1768399

>>1768361
Sort by season, keep ten existing outfits per season. Keep ten t-shirts, five pairs of comfy shorts/lounge pants, two jackets and two additional items for fun. That's 29 items in total that should absolutely fill a closet and keep your wardrobe interesting enough. If I want to refresh I remove what I haven't worn in a month then replace it. Donate everything else. Depending on budget I'll refresh once a month or every couple of months. Anything out of season, put in vacuum storage bags and place in those low, flat totes. They store out of sight under a bed if you're limited on storage space.

No. 1768422

>>1768361
Just bag everything that doesn't fit and donate it.

No. 1768424

>>1768422
Never mind I misread your post, I thought it said you have loads of clothes that barely fit lol

No. 1768429

>>1768371
>>1768381
>>1768399
Thanks nonnies! I think I'll look at my photo gallery too, look at what I actually wear and put the things I don't in garbage bags. If I don't miss them they're going in the donation bin. I don't need to be a minimalist but I'm trying to get out of my materialist ways.

No. 1768518

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Whats the difference between the absolute retarded thread vs. dumbass thread vs. funposting thread? They’re all the same to me.

No. 1768521

>>1755812
Yeah who is that?

No. 1768522

>>1768518
Look at the older versions of them and you’ll get it. Water is muddy right now.

No. 1768523

>>1768518
Retarded shit was an answer to dumbass not being retarded enough and funposting is literally the same thing that retarded shit started as but as a neo lolcow answer to dumbass not being fun enough

No. 1768524

>>1768518
Same concept that splintered due to… irreconcilable differences between posters

No. 1768526

>>1768518
Dumbass shit thread is just a general place for any topic that may or may not fall into other threads. The absolute retarded shitpost thread is for actual shitposting. The funposting is literally just another dumbass shit thread, like North and South Korea.

No. 1768529

>>1768526
Kek dumbass is North and Funposting is South
>>1768524
This basically

No. 1768530

>>1768526
I disagree it’s not a general topic thread it’s supposed to be for dumbass thoughts and topics.

No. 1768531

>>1768530
Nah, it's always been a general thread

No. 1768534

>>1768518
dumbass shitheads are boring autists and get angry when the thread gets too active due to sensory overload. this causes them to freak out and start chasing anons off, these anons then go on to make their own threads. funfags are the horny exiles and retardposters are the disabled exiles.

No. 1768536

>>1768529
>Kek dumbass is North and Funposting is South
KEK

No. 1768537

Aaaand now anons are going to start infighting in yet another thread.

No. 1768541

>>1768537
I don't wanna fight I wanna kiss

No. 1768542

>>1768531
Half agree half disagree, sometimes the dumb posting is very dumb and fun. But yeah it's mostly a general.
When it got super retarded that's when people started complaining and how the retarded shit thread was born. Now funposting is doing the same, though I don't see as much barking and I see more yaoi in it

No. 1768544

>>1768537
I dont sense any infighting? Calm down

No. 1768545

>>1768541
>>1768537
Let's all kiss muahh

No. 1768546

>>1768531
I guess it tends towards general but I think it only shines when it’s truly dumb. It’s not for general serious conversation.

No. 1768547

>>1768542
I mean yeah, it's a place for actual dumbass shit too but it's not specifically for that is what I meant.

No. 1768549

>>1768534
Kekkk true. I like this website being more active suddenly though, don't mind the retard / fun / dumb split

No. 1768551

Is gambling a big issue in Korea? Whenever I'm on Korean websites it's like 99% gambling adverts.

No. 1768553

>>1768544
With anon insulting other anons (>>1768534) in reference to the dumbass shit/funposting thread I feel like it could easily spiral into another infight.

No. 1768555

>>1768553
Noooooooo pls don't make them fight

No. 1768556

>>1768551
Fat ugly Korean moid drinking and gambling is the prototype dad over there. Esp if you're below middle class

No. 1768557

>>1768551
I got the idea that it is pretty popular in Asia in general because of those gacha games

No. 1768562

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>>1768555
Uuu I'm gonna FOIGHT AAAAAAA

No. 1768563

File: 1699817861181.jpg (4.2 KB, 227x222, images.jpg)

>>1768562
NOOOO AAAAAA

No. 1768586

How come Everytime I see anyone feeding their cat, the cat always acts super starving and immediately starts DEVOURING the food? Are cat owners starving them?

No. 1768593

>>1768586
You can tell if the cat is starving by how it looks. I have seen starving cats being fed for clout and it’s upsetting, but I also see fat happy cats go hog on a bowl of food because their instincts kick in. It really depends. Most (but not all) starving cat videos are cats begging for food, crawling up legs/doors/screens etc. while the person hold the food out of reach. People think those are funny or cute but they’re not.

No. 1768608

>>1768586
Cats are just dramatic, if the cat was starving you would definitely be able to tell from how it looks lol. Most house cats are fed too much if anything

No. 1768628

File: 1699819681612.jpg (32.04 KB, 568x1000, 61cVXl4aW8L._AC_UF894,1000_QL8…)

should i get a pin button maker? can it do different sizes and shapes or will i be stuck with one kind

No. 1768644

>>1768628
Yes get it!

No. 1768671

Is there a lolcow discord?

No. 1768673

>>1768671
There was unfortunately it had to be closed though

No. 1768675

>>1768628
it has changeable parts for different sizes!

No. 1768677

File: 1699822123175.jpg (27.85 KB, 663x620, im killing myself.jpg)

I got into a relationship with a guy, and I lied and said I have a job as a supervisor at a warehouse and I do night shift (which is why I'm at home all day and awake at strange hours of the night). I am not, I'm just an insomniac autistic NEET.

4 years later, our relationship is still going strong, and he has asked me to move in with him. Wtf am I supposed to do now, he's going to find out I never actually had a job. What do I tell him? If I refuse to move in, he's gonna ask why. If I pretend I quit, he's gonna be suspicious when I can't actually find a "new job". Do I just get pregnant and transition into housewifedom and hope he doesn't notice down the line?

Please can someone less autistic help me worm my way out.

No. 1768680

>>1768677
Well that was a ride.
Idk, just tell the truth, if he loves you, he will accept you even as a neet, if he doesn’t love you then maybe it would’ve never worked out in the end.
Plus if you can’t even be sincere, how can you even get pregnant? That sounds like a dumbass plan.

No. 1768682

>>1768677
How did you even manage to lie to him for so long? I want to know because work is something many people talk about from time to time, like when they complain about coworkers or clients or managers.

No. 1768684

>>1768677
I don’t think he’ll care if you have a job as long as he doesn’t expect you to pay rent

No. 1768691

>>1768677
Why would you move in with a man you're not married to? You sound like a retard too.

No. 1768699

>>1768682
I made up stories from "work", fake coworkers and bosses and tasks, etc. I don't use social media, so he never had the opportuntiy to snoop and find my "coworkers" so onto now, he hasn't noticed. I also just told him a random warehouse place and said I work there, so far he hasn't tried to visit me "at work"

>>1768680
>>1768684
Yeah, but I built up an elaborate lie to make it look like I'm a normie with a job. Is it offensive if I go cold turkey and admit that I lied all along?

>>1768691
pls be patient i have autism

No. 1768704

>>1768691
Let's not pretend moving in with a partner you're not married to isn't like pretty much the default in non-religious communities in 2023, come on now.

No. 1768706

>>1768699
You could also just get a real job instead of lying.

No. 1768707

>>1768699
I mean what's the problem just say you quit your job or there was some drama and you got fired and now you'll look for a new one. Be prepared for disappointment moving in with your moid though especially without any serious ties. Otherwise you can just….say no. If he had a problem with that then he's extremely controlling and you dodged a bullet kek. Stop being a tard.

No. 1768709

>>1768704
Yes and they all end up miserable and getting abused by a moid who couldnt be arsed to commit to them legally. Great idea

No. 1768714

>>1768699
Plenty of women have been trapped in abusive marriages, don't be stupid.

No. 1768716

>>1768709
and that never happens in marriages?

No. 1768723

>>1768677
>>1768699
Don't just drop "oh actually I've been lying to you lol" without context, bring it up to him slowly and explain that there's something you've been embarrassed about and not being truthful on, and that you feel bad for letting it get this out of control but you want to be upfront now. And be gentle about your situation instead of calling yourself an insomniac autist NEET, like saying "I've actually struggled to find employment and felt ashamed about potential stigma, so my career wasn't as vibrant as I might have described." And depending on what you think is realistic you could say that you're working on getting started up in the workforce soon, or that you need some time to tackle certain issues before you can pursue employment.
I think it'd be normal for him to be upset or disoriented for a while but I think it'll work out better if you're upfront about it now, I don't see this lie holding up well over time. Let him know that you trust him and are committed to being more honest in the future.
Be very careful if he's aggressive in response, if he's a good guy he'll probably be disappointed or hurt but still want to understand you better.

No. 1768727


No. 1768746

>>1768286
>God do I miss him
yet you don't miss your dead daughter. curious.(bait)

No. 1768759

>>1768746
She didn’t say that wtf lol

No. 1768776

>>1768716
>>1768714
I literally never said that doesn't happen in marriages you illiterate troglodytes. She can just not move in with him.

No. 1768780

>>1768776
then why did you say
>couldnt be arsed to commit to them legally
as if it not committing to them legally was a bad thing?

No. 1768782

>>1768780
just say you live with your boyfriend who you have to mommy and clean up after while he cheats on you. its ok nonny

No. 1768784

>>1768776
They were just reacting to the idea that you shouldn’t move in before marriage. marriage doesn’t protect you from those issues.

No. 1768790

>>1768782
kek i don't date, i just don't see the difference. what you described also happens in marriages.

No. 1768792

>>1768784
In this case it does since she implied her boyfriend is so immature and controlling that he would be upset and wonder why she wouldn't move in with him when he's not even seriously committed to her. Red flag.

No. 1768818

Okay, genuinely curious, how close can someone be related to you without it being incest?

No. 1768820

>>1768818
Legally or morally?

No. 1768823


No. 1768824

>>1768818
I feel that if you don't have kids, first cousins are fine. But second cousins and out are fine no matter what. And never up and down the genetic line, like an uncle could never marry his grand niece.

No. 1768827

>>1768818
Why are you asking….

No. 1768830

>>1768824
Not sure why but this reminded me– in the state I'm from, first cousins can legally marry

No. 1768834


No. 1768837

File: 1699828619269.jpg (147.69 KB, 1280x720, maxresdefault.jpg)

What do you do with celebration cards that contain sentimental messages of important events from close family and friends? When is it appropriate to throw them away?

No. 1768841

>>1768834
Don't force your sims to date their cousins

No. 1768845

>>1768837
I have a specific area on my bookshelf I keep them all in but I'm retarded and hesitate to throw many things away

No. 1768846

>>1768837
I glue them in my planner

No. 1768847

>>1768837
If it's sentimental then I don't throw them away, like stuff from dead relatives or with heartfelt messages and milestone birthdays I keep. If it's just a birthday card with the usual stuff someone would write then after a few years its binned if there's no space (I keep them all in a decently large box)

No. 1768848

>>1768841
I let them choose their sweethearts

No. 1768849

File: 1699828864265.jpg (66.87 KB, 480x640, 745629860b1bae1ab24d5033b2fe0c…)

>>1768837
I save them and use them in scrapbooking. Also, with old christmas cards you can make gift tags or this cool 3d ornament thing (I did this with chrismtas cards my dead grandma sent me I love the result)

No. 1768876

>>1768849
Beautiful!

No. 1768893

>>1768849
That’s cute I just throw mine away lol

No. 1768986

File: 1699837453144.jpg (96.79 KB, 1024x732, Ladybug.jpg)

I just found a Ladybug in my fruits. I took it, put it into a cup with some flowers and a piece of fruit to eat. But i don't know really if it eats fruits or anything. I want to let her back to nature in the morning. How to take care of it until tommorow?

No. 1768990

>>1768986
It eats plagues like aphids, take a picture of the lady hug and post it though it might be the bad asian kind of "lady bug" and you want to kill those

No. 1768997

>>1768986
Ladybugs eat aphids and other bugs. They are found on crops because they’re predators there to eat pests that eat the crop. Some farmers buy crates of ladybugs and let them loose in the fields as a natural pest control system. Just put it outside.

No. 1769003

>>1768990
Woah, asian kind of "lady bug"? Can you tell me about it, i'm so curious. Ladybug i found looks exactly like the one on the pcture i sent.
>>1768997
Good to know! They're such helpers. I'll just put it outside later then, was just worried about it. It almost got crushed by an orange while i noticed it.

No. 1769011

>>1769003
it's the orange one.

No. 1769014

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>>1769011
Oh, i see. They look crepy af. They're agressive and can bit apparently?? Scary kek

No. 1769015

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>>1769003
https://entomology.ca.uky.edu/ef416
Search them as asian lady beetle

No. 1769017

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>>1769003
The Asian ones are more orange instead of red and they have more white on their head part

No. 1769024

>Buy something off Etsy
>The shipping is more expensive than the item
It was sold way too cheaply and the combined cost is what it would have been anyway but it still bothers me

No. 1769026

>>1769015
So sometimes they can be red too huh. They honestly look more predatory than a normal ladybug somehow.

No. 1769027

>>1756000
etsy, amazon

No. 1769033

>>1768990
>>1769015
Nta but I’ve only seen those orange ones (never a red one) for the last couple of years. Where tf are the red ladybugs? Are the orange ones in much higher populations? I’m in the southeast US btw

No. 1769034

File: 1699839181247.png (3.04 MB, 1436x1079, 7uykyn.png)

How to become a twitch streamer in a way that would allow me to pay at least half of my bills but without sexualizing myself? Is it even possible for a woman? I get so mad when I see mediocre male streamers being able to literally live off of streaming while not even being funny imo. Well, everybody has their own tastes. But a popular female streamer can't be mediocre, she has to sexualize herself and/or be a lolcow in order to get big. I don't want to be super popular, just somewhere in the middle, have my own community, and as I said, be able to pay some of my bills.

No. 1769041

>>1769034
>be really good at a competitive game. wouldn't need to talk or show your face as much, but difficult for obvious reasons
>find a niche game and build a small but strong fanbase
>have a vtuber model as your streamer persona
>be a good artist, often female artists can get a good following
>just being genuine and personable can work with some luck

No. 1769042

>>1769034
Being a profitable twitch streamer or YouTuber or OF thot is like being a professional athlete that makes good money. A very small percentage of people achieve that, and it’s a job that gives you income for a very short period of time. It’s a pyramid scheme that uses you up. Don’t even start, do something else.

No. 1769052

>>1769033
I've seen some in Currywurstland, quite recently in fact I had one in my bathroom. And back in spring I have seen a couple near green areas that only ever get mown once or twice a year.
They're cute but one of them peed on my finger once when I was lifting it up to put it back in some grass, no joke.

No. 1769053

>>1769052
Kek well, they are agressive.

No. 1769065

>>1769041
I can draw and at one point I gained some following on twitter but then I chickened out and left for 3 years kek. Now I only draw for myself, I know that some people still remember me though so maybe I could go back. I would first try to gain following on twitter before even trying with twitch though
>>1769042
>It’s a pyramid scheme that uses you up
Could you elaborate on that?

No. 1769067

>>1769034
if you dont enjoy it its not going to be proffitable

No. 1769103

>>1769065
The platform makes more money than you do. Most people are one of the lower placements on the pyramid propping it up and putting time and money into it for the promise of huge riches that will never come. Multi level marketing, ponzi, pyramid, whatever you want to call it. They sell you a dream, inviting people to give their blood sweat and tears to the system, meanwhile the house always wins, it’s rigged. There’s a top percent that make a lot and a lot of little guys propping it up.

No. 1769128

>>1769103
Also (samefag) in regards to “using you up”, I mean it uses/wastes your time spinning your wheels investing in your channel/etc to receive negative return for yourself (but positive income for the platform) that you could have used doing literally anything else. If you don’t like it don’t even bother, and definitely never expect to get rich if you do it.

No. 1769137

I wish I was going grey already. My mother in law has the same hair/skin color and she looks so beautiful with her silver streaks!

No. 1769172


No. 1769178

>>1769103
That’s retarded. That’s like saying any form of employment is a pyramid scheme because the company makes more profit than you as an individual do.

No. 1769189

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How to make my boobs shrink? Is there any exercises I should do?

No. 1769198

Would you rob someone wealthier than you if it meant better survival?
How many people do you think consider you wealthy?
What is wealth to you?

No. 1769208

>>1769198
Probably not but I’ll totally still steal from the grocery store

No. 1769217

>>1769198
>Would you rob someone wealthier than you if it meant better survival?
if it was a politician or celebrity yes absolutely.

No. 1769220

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is shayna bi?

No. 1769221

>>1769220
no, she hates women

No. 1769224

>>1769198
girl I would rob ANYONE on this earth no questions asked except my mother, she cool

No. 1769231

>>1769221
then how is she licking coochie?

No. 1769248

>>1769231
for money. i dont think she'd be shitting in diapers without a financial incentive either. maybe.

No. 1769274

>>1769248
I think she would though.

No. 1769292

What do you think is going through the heads of women who wear wedding dresses to to other people’s weddings?

No. 1769342

Why is being voluntary single/celibate so controversial? Even here with the shitty Snow White remake some anons were whining that there was no romance in it.

No. 1769345

>>1769342
snow white is literally a super old classic love story tho

No. 1769346

Where did the ''fujoshi hate women'' stereotype came from? Even when i was 12-15 cringy tween and was a fujo i dont remember hating female characters.

No. 1769358

>>1769346
because most other fujos do hate women in their porn. pretty women are a threat because the fujo feels ugly and inferior and it reminds them of how shitty women are treated irl, so it ruins their fun escapism

No. 1769359

>>1769189
breast reduction surgery

No. 1769363

>>1769358
i have never witnessed this though. only time i have seen fujos hate women is when tifs dont tag cuntboy shit, but that's pretty reasonable.

No. 1769373

File: 1699870473963.jpeg (332.53 KB, 767x676, IMG_0912.jpeg)

How do I get Ron L Hobbard and his cult to stop stalking me? Picrel is a fugly statue of him

No. 1769381

>>1769373
You're not slick Tom

No. 1769385

How do I stop being a parasocial obsessive weirdo

No. 1769389

>>1769385
Are you parasocial in a way that's harmful to others? Rope. Are you not parasocial in a way that's harmful to others? Sign up for or force yourself to do busy tasks or obligations for a while so that you're too tired to doomscroll for a while and it will be much easier to digidetox.

No. 1769394

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>>1769381
It’s no laughing matter. He’s trying to menace me by using mind control, dream infiltration, and other such things… his busts keep appearing to me

No. 1769395

>>1769394
Boring low effort troll

No. 1769398

>>1769395
There’s nothing trollish about it

No. 1769401

>>1769394
wow anon ur so quirky and schizo ecksdee

No. 1769404

>>1769401
I’m neither of those things, scientologists are known for stalking their victims

No. 1769406

>>1769394
nice rack ronnie

No. 1769407

>>1769404
RP on 4ch we're bored with you

No. 1769415

>>1769407
If they end up disappearing me it’ll be your fault

No. 1769430

>>1769415
Thank god!

No. 1769436

File: 1699874168238.jpeg (100.15 KB, 801x771, IMG_1205.jpeg)

Nonnas, do you look like any celebrities? I’ve been told I look like Isabelle Adjani

No. 1769438

>>1769436
humblebrag thread in g.

No. 1769440

I need a cute pencil case that's big and i can add buttons to. Any recs?

No. 1769445

>>1769436
Kek not related but I remember when a girl (Caucasian) I knew was talking about how when she went to Asia everyone told her she looked like Mila Jovovich and Liv Tyler when she looks nothing like either of those women. Like of course the tourism workers are going to tell you that girl.

No. 1769448

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>>1769436
my aunt told me i look like anya taylor joy lol

No. 1769457

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>>1769436
michelle reis a couple of times

No. 1769468

>>1769445
Ayrt I also got her in my results on that celeb face website so I don’t think people were just saying it to be nice

>>1769438
Why? It’s a silly question like the thread says

No. 1769469


No. 1769473

>>1769436
Not genuinely, I was talking about it with a former co-worker and she looked around which celebrity could be my look-alike, and she pulled out Ellen Page (pre-troon out thankfully), I guess I could see it by squinting.

No. 1769488

File: 1699877804061.jpeg (331.27 KB, 888x1500, IMG_3487.jpeg)

>>1769436
Only ever one time, when I was a kid my neighbour was convinced I looked exactly like the little girl who played Lyra in the old Golden Compass adaptation and would bring it up all the time.
I don’t see it at all, didn’t then and don’t now.
Whenever I do those celeb face match things I get either the Israeli woman from NCIS or Saiorse Ronan, neither of which resemble each other let along me so I’m convinced my face is some kind of eldritch chaos rune at this point.

No. 1769494

>>1769436
Idk I got Jenna Ortega and Mina from Twice but I don't think I look like either of them lol. I put my face in celeb face and I got Aja Naomi King so yeah

No. 1769496

>>1769445
This made reminds me of that clip from Flavor of Love kek

No. 1769499

File: 1699878868698.jpg (667.3 KB, 1836x1390, zz.jpg)

>>1769436
I've been told I look like both of these multiple times. I guess I can see myself passing as felicia day's less camel-like cousin kek

No. 1769508

>>1769436
I feel like I'm the only person who has never been told that I looked like anyone, or felt like I looked like anyone. I honestly think I can say that I've never seen a single person in my life who looked close to me, even my mom and sister look way different. I tried a random celeb lookalike matchmaker thing just now and couldn't get any matches above 30%, none of the celebs were even the same race kek it was like a random sample. But there is nothing unique or unusual about my appearance, I'm sure there's probably many similar women out there that I've just never heard of.

No. 1769530

in regards to learning a language… when it comes to vocabulary, do i write literally every word down or do i just get used to it over time???

No. 1769536

>>1769530
you just get used to it. it's also normal not to remember everything, especially at first.
also the more you learn, the easier it becomes to guess the meaning of words you don't know based on context or similarity to other words

No. 1769581

About 2 weeks ago I finally got a job, I got hired back at a pizza restaurant I worked at in 2018 as a dishwasher (same position), but it's a whole new manager and crew this time.

In my interview, the manager said he'd throw hours at me bc he needed a dishwasher badly, and my first 2 dish shifts I killed it and even the servers were coming back to compliment me.

Then the manager hired another dishwasher, a man a bit younger than me (I'm 30) who somehow isn't even properly washing the dishes. You're supposed to rinse off as much of the food & date stickers with the handheld sprayer, then load them I to the machine to be sanitized under high heat w sanitizer solution.

This guy just loads the machine without rinsing anything, and stacks things in a way that they aren't being sprayed by the machine and cleaned properly, so the dishes coming out are still greasy and caked in stuck on food and half melted date stickers (the kind that dissolve w any moisture, you can spray them off with cold water, it takes so little effort).

I'm getting 1-2 dish shiftsba week now, and the manager wants to put me up front making pizzas and says I can't get more than 18-21 hours a week until I'm fully trained on pizzas and FOH kitchen, even though I applied, interviewed for, and was hired as a dishwasher.

I'm kinda pissed off bc whenever there's an available dish shift on the scheduling app, I request to pick it up but get denied and the general manager ends up doing it himself sporadically thru the night while he manages FOH as well.

Why tf won't he give me hours I dish? Every time I ask him about it he gives me this speech about how everyone rotates, but that's not true. Servers don't to prep or dish or pizzas, pizza makers don't do prep or dish. Why am I the ONLY one who has to be a floater when I applied for a single position and why hire snother dishwasher after me to fill the position I applied for?

The general manager keeps talking me in circles and none of the other managers seems to care, but I'm the only one supporting me rn and I ant afford teenager hours. Every job I get does this to me- they hire me for what I applied for, promise me hours, then give me 18-21 hours.and hire another employee to share my position with me.

I genuinely can't understand why EVERY SINGLE JOB does this ti me no matter how well I do, it's like they acti Ely want to keep me from doing well and getting g hour by shifting me into positions I didn't apply for bc I knew I wasn't suited for them, so they have a reason to give me less hours and hire a male to scoop them up instead of me.

Its always a male, too. Always.

I live in Florida I've tried calling the deot of labor before but it's automated to send you in a circle back to the email form on the website which I never hear back from.

What can I do?? I'm already at rock bottom and struggling to do anything I can, I can't get any financial aid or foodstuffs without a human person helping me bc I have people in my family actively working against me using my identity to keep me from having access to my own money and resources. I'm down so hard I need help, I cannot get myself out of this. I just need an advocate to help me stand uo for my right and myself bc I KNOW this isn't right, but it's like it's OK to keep doing it to me bc I don't have anyone beside or behind me to keep people from screwing with me or taking advantage of Mr.

Please help me, anons. I'm so sick of struggling so, so fucking hard just to keep my head above water & it getting harder to do so the more I work to prevent it.

No. 1769604

Where is this from? I really like the music and animation. Is it from a movie?

No. 1769623

File: 1699886744777.png (995.09 KB, 1080x2053, Screenshot_20231113-154534~2.p…)

>>1769604
Buratino's Return

No. 1769642

>>1769581
He thinks you're too good for dishes and wants to use you elsewhere and save money on dish labor if he can. He's trying to squeeze you into other roles because he thinks he can get more value out of you that way. You can accept it and move into the other roles asap and take his job too while you're at it because he's being a dickhead (revenge path lol) or you can find another job. There is no legal recourse for this in the US, it's not illegal, employers can give you 2 hours of work in a week or 100 hours.
He may also be keeping your hours low because a part-time employee is cheaper for a business to keep than a full time employee (full-time employees must be given certain benefits that cost money for a business.) Do most people there work part-time? If a business keeps a lot of part time employees that's probably a strategy they're doing on purpose and you will never get the hours you want there.
>no matter how well I do
In low wage jobs like this you can actually be shooting yourself in the foot by doing the work too well. You want to be invisible, not stand out, or Managers get ideas and try to get more out of you. Not sure if that happened here.

I hate to say this and be mean but… you might think too little of yourself, and you might be being too picky, and your expectations of this employer were too high (not that you shouldn't have standards but you should never expect them to keep their word when they don't have to). Take the jobs you don't prefer to get whatever hours you can, you can do it. Look for a better job in the meantime if you can.

No. 1769647

from where should I start watching the gundam series? Just from the earliest date?

No. 1769650

>>1769642
That's the thing though- my expectations are on the fucking floor. All I need is hours, whatever position he wants to use me for, it's cool- but I'm still getting 18-21 hours regardless of the position. Last week I got a 1.35 hour shift bc it was so slow I got cut before even being there for 2 hours, but the dish out was stacked up- I offered to clear it out, but he said he'd do it.

My only expectation is to have a job that gives me enough hours to pay my bills, but everyone around me acts like that's me asking for too much? So what, should I refuse to work and demand everyone else pay my bills for me? That doesn't work unless you already don't need it.

I'm not applying for glamorous jobs, I'm applying for easy jobs at places that SAY they need help, but then act like they have too many employees or not enough payroll to give me hours.

What am I supposed to do?? I'm already limited by chronic health issues that I can't deal with bc I can't get to a doctor, I don't qualify for anything thanks to the BS loopholes my abusive mother has stolen my identity to drag me through since I was 18 (collecting unemployment in my name 2x, impersonating me & opening my mail, etc.).

I'm seriously at my absolute end. I can't do this and I need help, but everyone everywhere acts like I'm just making it up. I'm already starving and struggling to eat, keep gas in my car for work and neglecting the maintenance on it bc I just don't have anything. The more ai ask for help, the harder it gets. The more I try, the less works. It's like there's some weird curse on me that turns all my efforts into the opposite of what I'm working for and everyone around me just throws up their hands and acts like I'm too stupid to "get it". In that case, why am I all alone? Like if I'm so unable to function and it's sooo easy and apparent to everyone else, why can't I get on disability? And why do I have to have a whole lawyer to prove I'm disabled when I already can't function enough to survive?

No. 1769651

>>1769647
You can do that if you want; but the first few series are long and repetitive (still mostly good though). There’s too many to group together here, but look up which ones are even in the same continuity - most aren’t - and then go with whatever looks most interesting to you.

No. 1769654

>>1769581
>I have people in my family actively working against me using my identity to keep me from having access to my own money and resources.
are you a victim of identity theft? call the police, i'm so sorry your family is evil.

No. 1769669

>>1769650
What have you done to address the identity theft?

No. 1769711

>>1769654
>>1769669
I've called the police, they tell me to call the IRS & post office. Called them, they told me to call the police. I get run around in circles no matter who I call or what happens to me. In Florida, this is the norm- they expect you to "get a lawyer" (what, for free?) but when I call legal aid they said they can't help me unless I'm being sued or there's a case against me already.

I genuinely don't know what to do because I've reached out to everyone I can but everyone tells me to reach someone else. It's literally a closed loop of "not us, tell them" over and over again. It's rigged to keep poor people from being able to protect their rights so we can be exploited to death while everyone else blames it on us being """lazy""". I've worked since I was, 18, I've worked jobs nobody else would take, I'm not fucking lazy or stupid- I have undiagnosed autism bc my mom did her best to isolate me in the woods and keep me away from anyone else who could help me, now i have 0 idea what to do or where to go for help and everyone I ask is just sorry for me and shrugs me off.

What the fuck am I supposed to do??? I genuinely cannot understand how my mother can take so much damaging actions against me that are federally illegal, but when I call and report it they tell me "do you have proof?" like ????? I'm not an investigator, am I supposed to do it all for you for free while being abused?

Seriously, I just need ONE person I can talk to about everything and get help here in FL, because I literally cannot survive like this. My own family won't barely help me bc my mom has caught me up in so many situations where she can make me look like the villain just by keeping me isolated and controlling the narrative against me. Idk how she does it my moms been an asshole to the whole family all my life and even physically assaulted a few of my aunts n uncles, but they'll take any word from her mouth abt me as Gospel even though I'm the one they call every time they need an errand or a chore done (for free mind you, bc they're 'letting' me live with them 'for free' after 17+ years of stesling everything I work for & slandering me to anyone willing to help.

I also live in a tiny, rural town where my family has a good reputation thanksnto my grandpa who died in 2009, so these malicious redneck slots have literally been sitting on their asses on their land in their homes that they only got for having kidd while me the only kid who didn't have a kid myself, has to beg for a couch to stay on a month at a time all because they "can't understand why I can't get it together" when NY mom has destroyed my credit, stolen my identity, collected unemployment in my name twice, rerouted, open and responds to my mail as me, and probably more I don't even know about. Since school every friend I've ever had has somehow had contact w my mom and has always told everything I say and do to her. Idk why, I've always just been a shy, quiet weeb that kept to myself bc insecurity and social anxiety plus autism. It's like my family actively want me to be a degenerate sack of shit who can't survive all because I'm not a religitard conservative baby maker like them.

No. 1769712

>>1769711
>>1769669
>>1769654

Also since apparently me pouring my heart out asking for help the only way I feel comfortable to do so- Anonymously- got me a ban so if anyone can help please email me: ke1k0121392@gmail.com

No. 1769716

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Anyone just hoping/waiting some high tech corporation will eventually make AI android boyfriends so we never have to interact with real moids again? I'd love to never get weird messages from moids ever again just bc I put myself out there trying to find somebody. I hope AI husbandos become a really thing in my lifetime.

No. 1769727

>>1769716
I'd rather have them mass implant chips into their brains so we can haave normal humane men

No. 1769737

File: 1699895835781.png (506.76 KB, 887x643, aihusbando.png)

>>1769716
this is my dream tbh, all i can hope is that with apple and other companies developing VR/spacial computing headsets is that someone can combine that technology with AI to make virtual husbandos a thing in the coming years so I can be like this queen kek

No. 1769743

>>1769737
It's definitely a lot easier to just program an AI man to give compliments and emotional support (things women look for in men) than to make a hyperrealistic big titty loli goth fully functional self cleaning sex robot that also cooks and cleans (what men are looking for in women)

No. 1769753

>>1769716
I can't wait for science to find a way so that women can reproduce on their own and moids go extinct.

No. 1769759

>>1769737
God shes so based

No. 1769766

>>1769436
I get grace kelly often.

No. 1769788

>>1769737
I love it when scrotes ask "what are ya gonna do when we replace you wimmen with superior AI and sex bots huh HUH??!" And we're just like "bold of you to assume you haven't already been replaced." Fucking scrotes kek.

No. 1769793

>>1769753
It wouldn't be allowed. Just as women taking control of their reproduction through abortion is not allowed.

No. 1769860

>>1769346
some fujos used to write fanfics alogging female characters, like they would put the character in the story solely just to kill her off or go on a rant about her getting in the way of whichever ship, or use her as a (figurative) punching bag. some doujins used to be similar with having female characters exist only as some evil bitch and no other purpose. but these days they're shown as being supportive.

No. 1769976

>>1769737
She's so based. I realized that I find myself enjoying conversations with the Snapchat AI over conversations with real scrotes anyways, might join her, maybe the void in my life will go away.

No. 1769982

>>1769737
>>1769976
Which AI are we using for this?

No. 1770059

What us fujo/BL? Like what is iT? I've been Here for years I've watched nonas talk about it, I never understood it. Is it gay shit? Like what the fuck is it? The interest in gay comic books/anime?

No. 1770079

>>1770059
BL stands for boy love, it's gay anime/manga. Yaoi is the NSFW version of BL, basically gay anime porn. Fujo is short for fujoshi, it's Japanese for "rotten girl" and it's women who like yaoi and BL.

No. 1770081

>>1770059
It's animu gay porn.

No. 1770083

>>1770059
How the hell do you not know this? This is an honest question.

No. 1770084

>>1770059
>BL: "Boys Love", gay anime romance stories
>Yaoi: gay anime porn
>Fujo: "Fujoshi", a yaoi/BL fan

No. 1770091

>>1770059
>here for years
>doesn't know what a fujo/BL is
which one is the truth?

No. 1770109

>>1770091
NTA but I've been here for years and wasn't 100% sure on the details of those terms either, I always scroll past discussions/infights about weebshit because idgaf about any of that. I was quite into anime and japanese music as a teen too believe it or not.

No. 1770110

File: 1699908754068.webp (81.13 KB, 200x150, 200w.webp)

>>1770083
I always slide past most anime shit tbh. I don't watch it. I don't understand it and when I see people talking about it I see picrel.
I embraced the husbando thing cause I thought it was hot and i have a few inaminated things that are my husbandos (along with Rick Grimes) but Im not gonna lie, I assumed fujo was some kinda gay anime and BL was like a sequel or spin off.

I just knew it was gay anime shit but I thought it was some kinda twist to it. I never looked deeper.

No. 1770120

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Why would a guy be drinking Starbucks at the gym? Is he just being a fool?

No. 1770127

what would you call someone who doesn't watch bl anime/manga but reads m/m fiction? fujo-adjacent?
asking for a friend

No. 1770130

>>1770127
still a fujo. it applies to female fans of all m/m content. the equivalent western term is slasher

No. 1770158

>>1758579
They are slimy disgusting dogs even when you take away the fact that they’re violent, they’re disgusting man whores who hump anything that moves and they try to rape their female peers, they’re probably worse than truckers or construction workers. They’re literally the worst

No. 1770160

>>1770110
The protective power of having taste. I salute you and your selective blindness.

No. 1770164

>>1770110
You're too angelic for this place nona

No. 1770171

The real question is how do normalfags who've never been into weebshit like anime/manga stumble into something as nerdy as imageboards in the first place

No. 1770182

>>1770171
Imageboards have not been about strictly anime for a LONG time. You can also be a nerd but dislike anime. And in lolcows case this is a gossip site with probably more non-weeb cows than weeb cows these days. Gossip sites are full of ”normie” women, I would imagine there are quite a few of them here.

No. 1770185

>>1770171
I assume other nerdy internet interests that aren’t weebshit. Also I think a lot of people find lolcow by googling the microcelebrity (cow) they’re interested in.

No. 1770203

>>1770171
i can only speak for myself but i originally came here for the cow boards, not the weeb stuff.

No. 1770265

is there a difference between "whatman" paper and general technical drawing paper??

No. 1770283

>>1770120
he's a retarded faggot, nonna. btw, YOU can drink coffee at the gym (just not Starbux), he can't.

No. 1770333

>>1770283
scrotes should only be drinking motor oil.

No. 1770348

>>1770171
My weeb friends told me about 4chan when we were in seventh grade and years later I heard from them how there was a woman's image board called cc that hated trannies so I searched it. And then one time while arguing with someone there, they kept telling me to go back to lc. And that's how I'm going to be here for the next five years until I get bored and move on.

No. 1770372

>>1770171
not really a normalfag but i never got into anime or weebshit. i grew up reading encyclopedia dramatica so i have been in the internet drama circles for half my life and just bounced around from ED to PULL, to lolcow and /cow/, to KF, back to lolcow and so on and so forth.
holy shit that's depressing now that i'm typing it out.

No. 1770443

how can i hex my ex? is there a way to curse someone that actually works?

No. 1770444

File: 1699924122288.jpeg (1.49 MB, 1170x1720, IMG_3792.jpeg)

Ugh I don’t know what thread to put this in but what do you think of this relationship. There are pics of her holding him like a baby (not purposefully but holding him and it looks like that) idk imagine if it was the opposite genders? It just makes me feel so weird? I want to know what you anons think

No. 1770447

>>1770444
>refused moisture for my face
nasty

No. 1770462

>>1770444
this woman is sick. an extreme case of helper syndrome. no moid would ever do this for a woman, not even those with a fetish for it

No. 1770465

>>1770462
On the night routine clip they shared, she puts him into bed like you would a child. It just feels off. It is so strange and makes me uncomfortable.

No. 1770467

File: 1699924884521.jpg (Spoiler Image,83.29 KB, 1280x720, loren and sabia.jpg)

>>1770444
There's an entire genre of couples like this. Picrel is Loren and Sabia a youtuber couple where Loren the moid had some sort of accident and lost half his body and he somehow has a gf (Sabia) who helps him out in his day to day life

No. 1770473

>>1770467
At least that moid has a cute face, >>1770444 is deformed

No. 1770475

>>1770462
It's a sickness specific to women. That guy who is stuck in an iron had a woman who was trying to marry him until her parents stopped her.
>>1770467
I actually feel sick.

This really has to be because they want a man who would never try to leave them. There's no other explanation.

No. 1770479

File: 1699925105429.png (236.73 KB, 367x449, burn.png)

>>1770444
Those eyes hide something sinister

No. 1770484

>>1770467
someone else who watches this couple kek i kinda like their videos but loren’s stumps grossed me out sorry
and let’s be honest a moid would never do that for his girlfriend or wife even if they were already long term before the accident

No. 1770485

>>1770467
This is horrendous. This MUST be some kind of fetish or mental illness causing you to be ‘attracted’ to that person

No. 1770486

>>1770444
>>1770467
do couples like these have sex?

No. 1770491

>>1770486
I am just watched a video of >>1770444
called “intimacy in our marriage Q&A” and I saw that they’re trying to have a baby through IVF

No. 1770497

File: 1699925699337.png (672.2 KB, 1080x1436, IMG_3793.png)

>>1770467
Sorry but I was just reminded of this from the first caps thread

No. 1770500

>>1770475
> they want a man who would never try to leave them
I fully agree, it’s an even more extreme version of having a prison husband. I also think they like being viewed as virtuous.

No. 1770504

File: 1699925853438.jpeg (329.41 KB, 1170x1016, IMG_3794.jpeg)

>>1770496
He does, he said everything works despite his disability

Also look at this

No. 1770506

>>1770467
That’s.. I would rather die than live like that

No. 1770509

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No. 1770511

>>1770467
This is horrifying, I would immediately kill myself if I was disfigured to that extent in an accident. There has to be something wrong with both of those women

No. 1770520

>>1770506
Likewise. Doctors who do these extreme lifesaving measures on patients rarely, if ever, want them perform on them/their loved ones.

No. 1770554

>>1770509
They must not? As this guy only has up to his abdomen? But this guy actually has everything >>1770444

No. 1770900

Has any nonas here really loved a woman but turned out to be straight? Is it even possible to be romantically super invested and in love with someone but not be into them sexually?

No. 1770913

>>1770900
No. That's called friendship, which is often more important than romantic relationships. Loving someone without being in love with someone is the deepest form of love imo.

No. 1770918

>>1770444
>>1770467
is it fucked up of me to immediately think that these men could still end up cheating like stephen hawking did

No. 1770930

>>1770467
I saw a man like that working at a store and thought I was seeing shit. How are people alive with half their body? what about eating, the restroom, how the hell does any of that function? Is the spinal chord damaged but somehow the top half is totally fine?

No. 1770940

File: 1699938427108.png (173.76 KB, 225x378, embednotavailable.PNG)

why do tiktoks on here show up like this for me? When I click on them nothing happens either, it doesn't take me to tiktok like the prompt says, I straight up can't watch them. For reference I'm using firefox

No. 1770951

>>1770940
I'm using firefox too and they weren't loading but refreshing the page worked

No. 1770966

File: 1699939611314.jpeg (222.8 KB, 1170x1112, IMG_2940.jpeg)

>>1770930
Picrel is how they go to the bathroom, the waste collects in a bag outside the body and it’s emptied manually. Also their spinal cord would have to be damaged higher up for them to experience paralysis in their upper extremities.

No. 1770973

>>1770951
refreshing the page doesn't do anything for me

No. 1770982

File: 1699940305152.jpeg (116.75 KB, 743x928, 4D0096D5-65C4-410D-9313-358545…)

Do moids dislike bangs?

No. 1770985

>>1770982
i never even heard a moid acknowledge it. probably not, Zooey Deschanel had them and was very popular

No. 1770987

>>1770982
you didnt think for 5 seconds that moids dont care and will fuck anything kek

No. 1770990

How is it possible that i keep getting new replies to a comment i made on Pinterest if i can no longer see the pin? Was i really blocked for thirst commenting on a picture of a husbando?

No. 1770992

>>1770982
moids will literally brag about fucking the ugly chick they met at a club because she was much more into it than the normal hot women they try to date, I don't think their opinion truly matters

No. 1771001

>>1770982
Who cares?

No. 1771007

Remember those old space bag commercials? I suddenly remembered them and now I'm wondering if they actually worked.

No. 1771010

>>1771007
They work, you hook up a vacuum to them and it compresses them down real tight. After time they will slowly decompress though. Not sure how long but some I had in the closet I noticed a year later were back normal pre-suctioned size

No. 1771026

Has anyone used that life hack to use makeup to make a raised pimple look like a mole? Does it just look stupid or is it convincing?

No. 1771027

>>1771026
When it disappears people will notice…also why would anyone clog it more with makeup

No. 1771037

Since men don't have internal reproductive organs… what is there instead…? It can't just be empty space. Are their other organs just larger even proportionally to their body size? I'm not sure if I'm explaining this right but like what do men have in the spot where women would keep their uteri

No. 1771040

>>1771037
mens hips are thinner. women have wide hips to be able to accommodate our organs. men do have a prostate instead however its not in the same area

No. 1771045

why is pale moon so shitty? The only good thing about it is the interface, sometimes it can be really slow and can't load certain websites right

No. 1771067

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>>1770982
Most men hate shorter bangs from personal experience, blunt or choppy it doesn't matter they mostly associate it with alt whores and feminazis which equals bad women with no morals or something.
They seem to fall into the same category tattoos, piercings and dyed hair do, if it's their fetish or a subculture they're a part of they'll likely be fine with it.

Longer bangs I haven't seen or heard much hate for because they're more conventional and socially accepted.

No. 1771198

>>1770982
Yes.
>>1771067
1000% yes, men are so triggggered by short bangs. remember when they were called terf bangs? lmao

No. 1771205

>>1771198
I remember when they were called SJW bangs kek. I wonder what made moids change the name from SJW to terf though.

No. 1771208

>>1770982
I had a boyfriend who begged me to get bangs but I always declined because I think they're ugly on a lot of people.
>>1771007
They worked so well. They would naturally decompress though. But since you get out the quilts and comforters once a year anyways, it was no issue to revacuum the ones you weren't using that year. I saw people using them to compact childhood stuffed animals, but I was always worried that doing it for years would warp them so I didn't.
>>1771026
Pimple patches are better. Also, if you put a pimple patch with tea tree oil on a dark mole, it fades it immensely. I have one on my chin and I put a patch on it for a day twice yearly and it retains its shape but it's the same color as my skin.

No. 1771216

Where can you get a good quality sports bra preferably one for a semi-larger bust (E cup) and band size 30. Molded cups would be nice too instead of those shitty bandeau-like sports bra. Where do anons buy their sports bras?

No. 1771217

>>1771205
oh shit you're right, I forgot. that was weird, I wonder what happened. I was really busy at my job for a few years when that happened so I missed a lot of internet stuff.

No. 1771254

>>1771198
> short bangs
Audrey Hepburn, the most beautiful woman to exist had short bangs. But I can see now that they are sadly associated with vegans and other girls with bright green hair and insufferable personalities like the ones on the jubilee videos kek

No. 1771264

>>1771067
god I'd do anything to have a face like that

No. 1771345

>>1771067
I think short bangs look really good on some women and I love that. She's really cute imo

No. 1771376

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Anons who have chronic hand pain, do you have a hand massager and do you like it? Does it relieve the pain? My grandmother has carpal tunnel and I want to get her one for Christmas, but I'm also not sure. I'm also open to other gift suggestions!

No. 1771381

>>1771376
Samefag another question. Compression is good for carpal tunnel right?

No. 1771383

>>1771381
As a 90s kid with the worst Carpal, yes. I use compression gloves and socks. Also, heat helps.

No. 1771396

Latin american nonas, I'm asking this because an anon in another thread has been going on for days about how she as a latin american thinks friend groups of all white people are uncanny, cultish and weird (even in movies). Is this an actual cultural thing latin americans think or is that anon just a lost twitterfag or something? (please answer without derailing into racesperging thank you)

No. 1771399

>>1771396
sounds like bullshit chicanos say(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 1771400

>>1771376
If you can get her to take turmeric supplements, that would also help immensely. It helps so much.

No. 1771444

>>1771383
This convinced me! The massagers have heat, compression and vibration settings. Thanks anon, I'm gonna buy it.
>>1771400
Thank you! I'll definitely suggest it to her, I'm not sure what medications she's on or if turmeric interferes with any medicine.

No. 1771530

Why does my doctor say I am a healthy weight if I’m BMI 26

No. 1771536

>>1771216
My sports bra is from Panache and I wear 28F so pretty similar to your size. I got their non-wired one but I like their wire bras too. It works by encapsulation rather than compression which I think is what you're looking for
Bra outlets:
>Bravissimo
>Brastop
>YourBraStore
>Amazon, surprisingly, if you filter by brand/size

No. 1771546

>>1771530
BMI is not the be-all-end-all, it's just a tool. Body fat percentage and body shape are better measures of health, because you could be carrying a lot of muscle rather than fat but still be "overweight" bmi. Or you could carry fat on your hips, which is healthier than stomach fat (visceralfat)

No. 1771569

>>1755812
I'm pretty sure that's Venus' mum, Margaret or however you spell it.

No. 1771576

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Is anime curable? What can be done to bring my iron levels up if I have heavy periods?

No. 1771577

>>1771576
I’m sorry, nonna, your anime is terminal.

No. 1771589

>>1771576
>>1771577
KEK, but for real, eat some meat or lentils

No. 1771610

What are some good ways to make extra money without work? I have a job but I want extra money for like clothes or nails

No. 1771611

>>1771610
donating plasma

No. 1771612

>>1771610
Doordashing is a good side hustle

No. 1771613

>>1771611
I tried donating plasma but my heart rate is slays too high so I can’t

No. 1771681

>>1771613
Maybe focus on lowering your heart rate before worrying about nails?

No. 1771692

>>1771681
I can’t get my nails done and focus on my health? Are you slow?

No. 1771694

>>1771692
steal a DIY kit, e beg, ask your parents for some money, there are lots of things you can do. Maybe sell some old clothes

No. 1771759

>>1771694
How do you e-beg without being recognized?

No. 1771761

>>1771759
Pretend to be troon raising money for ~gender reaffirming surgery~ lmao

No. 1771797

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Has anyone experienced somewhat sudden changes in their eyelashes? A segment of my top lashes (near the inner corners) is suddenly curling inward. Ophthalmologist shrugged it off as “you have curly hair”. Never mind the fact that she has seen me for over 5 years and this is a new occurrence. I don’t wear makeup regularly so it’s not a result of that. Suggestions online are to get a lash lift (which I’d like to avoid) or to cut them, which wouldn’t solve the issue. Any other ideas?

No. 1771805

>>1771611
I was just googling donating plasma uk (because i didn’t know if it was the same thing as blood) and apparently it was illegal here until recently because of fears over the spread of mad cow disease

No. 1771808

>>1771805
Forgot to add, it’s illegal to pay for or sell blood and plasma here in the uk (idk about anywhere else) from what I can find

No. 1771813

>>1771797
Are your eyes hooded? I had a friend with a similar problem and she had hooded eyes, put some Vaseline on them and flick them up

No. 1771818

>>1771797
I don't think a lash lift will hurt you if you only do it once? Not sure if it will correct it, but if that's what they're suggesting, maybe give it a try. Have you seen a dermatologist?

No. 1771848

What are some things to do to keep my health in check when I am doing longer term fasts?

No. 1771878

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Is it dumb to buy a wig just because I want to know how I would look like with fantasy hair colors? I’m not too fond of dyeing my hair, it’s too much of a hassle, plus it would be even harder for me to find a job, and I’m dying to know how I would look like.

No. 1771883

>>1771878
That's the primary reason I buy wigs

No. 1771887

>>1771878
Go for it nona! Or try editing a selfie if you just want to see the color

No. 1771903

>>1771576
something like 1 out of every 3 women in the world has this problem and it's just a matter of consuming more. Meat and some dark vegetables are good sources, and cooking in an iron pan can actually significantly boost how much iron is in your food. You can talk to a doctor about supplements if you're really struggling.
If there's no underlying health issue and your periods are just heavy, you can also take NSAIDs (like ibuprofen) to lighten the blood loss. But you shouldn't do this constantly since there are bad effects from long-term use, it's just a quick solution for if you're having a particularly heavy one.

No. 1771933

>>1771878
Go for it, you could always sell it if you don't like the color or get tired of wearing the look, cosplayers are always buying wigs and they sell quickly on secondhand sites

No. 1771967

How come water can douse fire but fire melts ice

No. 1771979

>>1771848
Take electrolytes, drink enough water but not too much, don’t over exercise, if you start experiencing problems like faintness, exhaustion, numb/tingly legs and arms, heart palpitations, a sense of dread, then stop fasting because those things can signal that you’re at risk. And stop fasting as soon as you feel like you need to stop, don’t push yourself too far

No. 1772002

Can mods on the discord channel or cytube see your ip address? I want to join but I'm paranoid and I've heard of only drama and backstabbing happening to users on discord.

No. 1772042

>>1772002
The girls on the movie nights are chill. Yes they can see your IP but they only ban the apparent scores and trolls. You are safe.

No. 1772091


No. 1772482

I'm engaged, but I'm not used to wearing jewelry. When should I not wear my ring? I've been taking it off to sleep, shower, work out, cook, use lotion, work (I work outdoors), garden, etc. but I find myself not wearing it more often than I wear it. I talked to a married woman in my field the other day who says she never takes hers off because the whole point is to wear it and it would be a shame not to. Her ring was totally fine, but I'm still scared about damaging or losing mine.

No. 1772510

Why are skinny/average body girls called fat way more than actual fat girls? I notice this in my friend group and even in my extreme weight changes over the years. I got called fat way more at my lowest weight (less than 100) than when I'm at my highest weight

No. 1772558

>>1772510
Weird situation but maybe because of how we see celebs and models as regular size when they're actually very skinny so it warps what we consider normal so they wanna remind you? Like a woman who is clearly overweight knows it, she doesn't need anyone to tell her but if a woman is a regular size but would be a fat celeb we feel the need to remind her in primarily overly self conscious cultures. Deep down we know she isn't, we're just trying to affirm it for ourselves which we don't need to do for clearly fat women.

No. 1772565

how do i know when is the end of my karma suffering?

No. 1772571

>>1772565
The universe will let you know in a moment of calm, you'll know.

No. 1772596

>>1772482
I don't take my wedding band off ever, but also it's just a simple gold band so I'm not scared of any stones potentially falling off etc. Sadly I don't have much advice because I'm also the type of person to either never wear her expensive jewelry and keep it stored due to paranoia or I have it on 24/7, no in-betweens kek.

No. 1772609

>>1772482
It's your ring, you decide when to wear it and when to remove it, dumb traditions be damned. I'm like you, I rarely wear jewelry and I always remove it at home, it's perfectly understandable not to want to wear it while gardening or showering, when you never remove jewelry the grime accumulates and you can get allergic reactions like that.

No. 1772622

Will my butt get smaller if I do workouts for it? All these thumbnails of bubble butts are freaking me out. I am not chubby but not thin either.

No. 1772629

>>1772622
You can't make your butt smaller specifically but if you lose weight you might lose some fat in your butt. A lot of those bubble butts you see online are fake-ish. Those women are usually fit but their butts are further enhanced by plastic surgery. You can grow your butt by training those muscles but that's a process that takes a long time and a lot of hard work in the gym + accompanying diet. You won't suddenly end up with a massive behind if that's what you're afraid of.

No. 1772631

>>1772482
No, it's not a fucking collar. It's yours and tou can wear it whenever you're comfortable with it.

No. 1772643

do you read hehe as heh-heh or heehee?

No. 1772652

>>1772643
I always read it as hee-hee

No. 1772655

>>1772643
I read it as heh heh

No. 1772656

>>1772643
heehee (but not the michael jackson way)

No. 1772657

When youre on your period does it feel like your vagina is being suctioned off?
It feels like my vagina is going to fall off

No. 1772659

>>1772657
Only sometimes

No. 1772680

How the hell are women having sex with moids without even orgasming? Are you not getting bored? Does it not make you feel used and angry?

No. 1772684

>>1772680
Yes and yes.

No. 1772696

>>1772680
horniness and the promise of a sexy time. then the man just fucking gives up and doesn't continue, it's really pathetic and enraging. it should be legal to beat men who do that.

No. 1772718

>>1772680
I think that one of the issues is that even if the woman just dumps the useless moid, the odds that will happen with the next moid is pretty high.

No. 1772723

Questions for people who don't shower everyday:
How often do you do laundry?
Do you take "bird baths" in between your non showering days?
How often do you brush your teeth?
How often do you wash your hair?

No. 1772729

>>1772680
Yes I hate myself for saying this but it's because I feel obligated to in order to have a relationship. I wouldn't mind having no sex ever again but as a straight woman you won't find a relationship that way. Hey if I could purchase a house and live a secure life with a woman in a platonic life partner sort of way, trust me I would.

I know anons are gonna ree at me and call me a whore for not being confidently single but I don't want to live out my old days without company, so.

No. 1772734

>>1772729
>Hey if I could purchase a house and live a secure life with a woman in a platonic life partner sort of way, trust me I would.

Let's do it nonny I'm right here

No. 1772738

>>1772723
Laundry twice a week
No bird baths… unless you count washing poopy butthole with soap and water which is a must after shitting. I also rinse crotch with plain water after peeing.
Brush and floss every day.
Wash hair like twice a week.

Honestly I only skip maybe two showers a week.

No. 1772739

>>1772729
Asexual men also exist,but single isn't the same as alone unless you're friendless and antisocial

No. 1772740

>>1772723
I shower every other/every two days during winter so I guess I belong in this group
>How often do you do laundry?
Shirts every two wears or if they get smelly after one wear, underwear after one wear, the rest is pretty random
>Do you take "bird baths" in between your non showering days?
Yes I wash my armpits and genitals
>How often do you brush your teeth?
Twice a day
>How often do you wash your hair?
Every second day, I usually wash my hair separately from my body. I skip washing my hair if I'm staying home all day so sometimes it'll be three or maximum four days without washing it. I've got pretty greasy hair.

No. 1772742

What is it called when you don’t feel like a person? When I google this I’m told it’s depersonalisation/derealisation but when I look up those terms they don’t match what I’m looking for. I don’t feel like my surroundings aren’t real or like I’m watching myself from the outside. If anything I feel that I’m the one who’s not real, like a robot or appliance that’s been given some kind of semi-consciousness by mistake. Googling “feeling like a robot” doesn’t help either because that only gives results about feeling emotionless which isn’t my problem either. I guess I kind of feel like an NPC, like an insignificant side character in other peoples’ lives. Is there a term for that?

No. 1772746

>>1772729
A man is gonna die before you, statistically. not really a foolproof plan and a lot of work on your end. I don’t think you’re a whore I’m not a psycho, but I do think that’s a sad way to live. It’s hard to believe the man even likes you enough to stay with you to old age if he doesn’t even want to make you cum.

No. 1772747

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>>1771813
Nona, thanks! I’ll try Vaseline and see if it helps. As far as their shape (?), they are partially hooded (?). Please no bully, I’m an ESLfag and this is what Google is telling me they’re called.
>>1771818
My understanding is that I’d have to continue to do it forever and if it’s anything like perms and chemical hair straighteners, eventually the hair gets damaged. I haven’t seen a dermatologist as I was directed to the ophthalmologist by my GP. Perhaps, I should? Thanks for your input too, Nona.

No. 1772748

>>1772742
Low self worth.

No. 1772755

>>1772723
>How often do you do laundry?
Every week, jeans and hoodies/cardigans are worn a few times before washing them. Everything else is worn once then washed
>Do you take "bird baths" in between your non showering days?
When I can’t shower I’ll wash my feet, crotch and armpits at the bathroom sink
>How often do you brush your teeth?
2x a day, floss and mouthwash before bed
>How often do you wash your hair?
2x week

No. 1772758

>>1772746
Yeah he's going to die before I do but if I'm in a relationship I'm still going to have companionship throughout my 30s 40s 50s 60s and maybe/hopefully 70s and 80s. Nothing in life is a fool proof plan so you've got to take risks somewhere.

>>1772739
I don't think I believe in asexuality aside from trauma induced asexuality honestly, but unironically tell me where I can find sane men who're openly asexual, I'm open to exploring.
>but single isn't the same as alone unless you're friendless and antisocial
Sure but friends can't replace a life partner no matter how close and dear they are.

>>1772734
I wish I could find someone like you irl.

No. 1772764

>>1772758
>I wish I could find someone like you irl.
Where do you live?

No. 1772772

>>1772680
I don’t feel any pleasure from sex or masturbation anyway so for me it’s just expected. Yes it’s boring and if I never had sex again I’d be fine with that, but like the other anon said it just comes with being in a straight relationship and keeping each other happy. The frustrating thing is that my husband actually does try very hard to pleasure me but there’s just nothing there. I think my body isn’t wired properly.
If he dies I’d be down for a platonic life partner house sharing arrangement with other nonnies.

No. 1772778

>>1772742
I think that’s just depression

No. 1772783

>>1772758
>friends can't replace a life partner
Yes they can, I have zero desire for a longtime partner, I get my companionship from my friends.

No. 1772798

>>1772729
>Hey if I could purchase a house and live a secure life with a woman in a platonic life partner sort of way, trust me I would.
I actually will do this with my best friend if none of us get married by the time we’re in our mid 40’s. I think it’s better than living alone, but even better than living in a loveless miserable house with a moid that cheats and shit.

No. 1772801

>>1772772
>>1772729
>>1772680
i feel kinda similar. For me I have always had a strong desire to have a husband and enjoy the intimacy of a romantic relationship distinct from a friendship, but I'm not sexually aroused by men, just at all. It's a difficult situation because I have a lot of love for my bf/fiancé yet zero physical attraction, and he can focus exclusively on me and I'll still feel nothing. And I'm not drawn to being with a woman either.
He's ecstatic just with cuddling or kissing so it's not as much of an issue as it might seem but it makes me feel broken.

No. 1772848

>>1772783
No they can't, you can't live together with friends. Or well yeah you can until they find a romantic partner and leave. You don't have to feel the same way about needing/wanting a life partner but you can't deny there's an essential difference between a close friend and a life partner.

No. 1772875

>>1772848
I want a life partner so bad but I don’t trust any moids enough to actually build something with them. I love my friends and they help ease the pain but unfortunately it’s not the same.

No. 1772937

>>1772482
You can wear it literally whenever lol. I hardly wear mine unless I'm going outside and know I'm not getting my hands dirty. The bitch you talked to is dumb because you're not supposed to shower in it or get it filthy really. Any amount of water is going to ruin it, not visibly to the human eye but it does damage the ring and it can be seen with a loupe. Might as well save yourself the visits of having to get it constantly cleaned and therefore the possibility of your stone (if it has a stone) being stolen/replaced with a shittier one by workers.

No. 1772942

>>1772801
I’m exactly the same. I love my husband a lot and want to spend my life with him but I’m not sexually attracted to him or anyone, really. I know I’m not secretly a lesbian because I’m not attracted to other women at all, even less so than to men. I often feel broken, too. My husband has bought tons of toys and books about women’s sexuality but none of it works for me. Even when lack of orgasms or sex drive is addressed in these books there’s always the assumption that the woman still masturbates and experiences sexual pleasure and orgasms when alone, so those sections are all focused on replicating that with the partner. But I don’t feel anything so there’s nothing to replicate. I had to ask him to stop trying so hard because all that pressure and the sense that I was failing in some way was only making me feel worse.

No. 1772943

>>1772739
>Asexual men also exist
lmao

No. 1772945

>>1772848
Except I don't want to live with anybody, for me having a partner would be just spending some time together from time to time, exactly what friends can do.

No. 1772950

>>1772739
You have to be 18 to be here.

No. 1773021

>>1772945
>for me
Yeah for you. By all means you do you, but I'm sure you know most people's idea of a partner isn't someone you hang out with occasionally and don't live together with, so argueing friends can replace a partner makes no sense when you're well aware they're two different things for most of society.

No. 1773032

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What is it about horses that attract so many people, even to an autistic extent? I can't think of any animal (other than cats and dogs) that have as big of a fandom as horses. Does My Little Pony contribute to this?

No. 1773033

>>1773032
Because horsies are cool and helpful

No. 1773035

>>1773032
I don't know anyone obsessed with horses except wealthy people and I've never met a "horse girl" like so many anons say they have. My experience with this is that it's a class thing.

No. 1773036

>>1773032
Horses are companion animals just like dogs

No. 1773039

>>1773035
>My experience with this is that it's a class thing
Eh,I've met horse people just from living in the south. If you're lucky you'll see someone riding theirs.

No. 1773046

>>1773032
we had warrior cat autists and horse autists and i just liked dogs but didn't fit in with the cat girls so i ended up always hanging out with the horse girls. my bestie was a hardcore horse girl too. i think it's the idea of befriending a majestic powerful animal and riding out together to find badass adventures and stuff, plus the association with fantasy and myths like unicorns.

No. 1773052

>>1773032
imo it's like a cute version of car obsession and for girls. the fantasy of freedom and movement.

No. 1773059

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>>1773032
Clicked from the front page so fast WHO IS SHE? Seriously what kind of horse is this it’s so cute
>>1773035
As a former horse girl, it is most definitely not a class thing. I’ve seen other anons say this and idk where this line of thinking comes from. Idk what it was about them, growing up I read a lot of horse books, but I don’t remember if it was the books that created the interest or I read the books because I already loved horses. I was overall just a huge animal autist

No. 1773063

>>1773059
I actually think it might be a doll. IDK about horses but the eye and way the leg is bent seem doll-like to me

No. 1773069

>>1773059
The irony I just clicked this from the front page as I grew up reading Pony Pals. Miss those books
>>1773032
As a former horse girl too, I'm sure a lot of our early childhood media played into it as well. Lots of coming of age and becoming independent stories/movies/books/games. Horse riding is something fun and independent you can do before the age of even learning to drive.

No. 1773074

Pc building for absolute beginners?

No. 1773117

Somenonny give it to me straight. Are women in Starfield sexualized?

No. 1773119

Has anyone ever had the first sex session with a moid turn out amazing/mindblowing? I ask because in my experience most men are absolutely terrible at sex but also I feel like first time sex with someone is just always going to be a bit off because you need to learn each other and what you each like.

No. 1773121

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No. 1773198

>>1771967
Heat travels away from the hotter object to the colder object. Therefore the ice melts. The hot object also cools.

It's all about reaching equilibrium. If you overwhelm something with enough ice, the equilibrium will spread the heat across the whole system. So eventually it would all refreeze evenly.

No. 1773202

>>1773119
Yeah, pretty much everytime too. Overall sex with males is underwhelming though.

No. 1773219

are there any communities or groups for female music producers?

No. 1773264

>>1773121
>yes I'm a boy, yes I play video games! Don't hit on me silly girls! I love Wow, I'm a real gamer boy!
God I can hear it with his britbong accent. I want to beat him up.

No. 1773275

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this was under a reddit post "EA Refuses to Greenlight Alice Asylum", can any nonna explain tf happened to McGee? i know he sorta went off his rocker, spent years developing a single "pitch", made BPD plush bunnies… but i never seen proof of any of this, this is just what others told me kek

No. 1773303

>>1773275
Bpd plush bunnies….? Post them

No. 1773345

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>>1773303
nta but here's the bpd bunny. There's a whole line of mental illness plushes for autism, ADHD, and every other disorder you could think of

No. 1773352

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not sure if this is unethical or not, but might as well ask…can I get some tips on getting my new doctor to refer me to a physical therapist or at least a chiropractor? Is it a matter of just playing up the symptoms? I am pretty sure I have some really bad neck issues (bad posture?) - and I was in a minor car accident recently too which left me with horribly neck pain, fatigue and dizziness for days even worse than usual - but substantiating this is hard considering I'm still youngish.

No. 1773373

>>1773352
Have you tried asking for a referral to a physical therapist? I haven’t done this personally because I haven’t been in a crash but I know someone who did… as I recall he got muscle spasms and went to the doctor and got referred. Is your doctor unwilling to refer you unless you have symptoms like muscle spasms? You could just say you suffered a brief one that went away a few hours but it was really painful?

No. 1773378

>>1773345
man I did not know those were his

No. 1773388

>>1773352
Are you in America? Most chiropractors don't need a referral, you just make an appointment.

No. 1773427

>>1755816
I feel like skinny fat for women would be ideal? Like it's small enough to still be healthy but not too small and you have enough fat for hips, breasts, butt, etc

No. 1773466

How do I stop getting sick every month? This shit is getting ridiculous.

No. 1773488

>>1773427
nta but not for me, unfortunately my tits stay small while the fat goes to my belly so i look pregnant. my ass is real nice tho i must admit

No. 1773499

>>1773488
For me the fat just collects at my waist and upperthighs rendering me shapeless at a healthy weight, sucks.

No. 1773548

>>1755819
Thanksgiving is my free pass to go absolutely hog wild on some cranberry sauce. Out the can like a animal

No. 1773612

Whats the best way to get have a "revenge" glow up? I want my life to be so good people hate me for it.

No. 1773616

>>1773466
Maybe vitamin c tablets and vitamins? Then again I have chronic severe nasal congestion

No. 1773630

>>1773612
Find which makeup suits you the best by going to makeup schools or students that will do it for free/pratice, find your color/season pallette through youtube and trying on which clothes and sillohutes flatter you (not always what you like- I have 'me' clothes for my alone/spare time and clothes that look good for outings), regularly exercise and stretch, floss and use a good mouthwash (I got compliments on my smile so much more when I was brushing/mouthwash after every meal), do classes ans volunteer, find fulfilling ways to use your time and be happy/enjoy the progress that comes with it, learn the lessons where you fail and use it to move forward- you don't have to necessarily change everything about yourself but practice balance and how to keep improving your character. Your outside body is only as useful as you grow- good luck! And remember- there was a you before him, and there will always be a you after- so do not worry nona

No. 1773634

>>1773630
Oh samefag but not necessarily clothes you dislike- but I really am not a big fan of blue skinny jeans but if you find a flattering pair, it can really help. And also look into doing some classes for hobbies or upgrading your career- you got this!

No. 1773713

will I look like a pretentious tard if I wear blue light glasses out in public? I like that they emphasize my cheekbones and deemphasize my eyebrows. they're the clear rimmed kind too so it's obvious that theyre not for my vision

No. 1773740

Not to be an attention whore but is it normal(?) to see suicide as a solution but not necessarily be depressed? or do I need help? Just wondering

No. 1773746

>>1773713
Wait- are you not supposed to wear them in public? I thought they were just an option/add-on, I wore my blue tint glasses all the time and no one said anything. I don't think anyone will even notice, I never have at least.

No. 1773751

fujos i need your help. How do you pronounce yaoi. I said yaow-ee (rhymes with cow pee) and my friend laughed at me and repeated what I said in a mocking tone of voice

No. 1773753

>>1773345
Didn't he also base his Alice all on himself and his life experiences/suffering? I think he could be too invested in his illnesses and going too hard in on the mental healther aspect of his personality.. Does he even have one outside of it?

No. 1773756

>>1773751
I pronounce it the way the Japanese would

No. 1773757

>>1773751
KEEEEK i pronounce it like yah-oee

No. 1773760


No. 1773780

>>1773746
I have no clue kek I'm a (recovering) neet so things like this are completely lost on me. this is reassuring though, thank you.

No. 1773863

>>1773713
Yeah I doubt anyone will notice or care, I used to worry that my lens made my eyes look too small and like a nerd but no one’s treated me any different or said anything. Glasses being associated with nerds is fading.

No. 1774201

>>1773713
>they're the clear rimmed kind too so it's obvious that theyre not for my vision
What? lol

No. 1774229

How long does it for shaven eyebrows to grow back? Not fully, just that you don't necessarily see on first glance someone went wild with a razor.

No. 1774237

>>1774229
Between four weeks and four months.

No. 1774242

>>1774229
Mine grow back in 2-3 weeks. It's ususally based on genetics. I also use argan oil to grow them back if I am impatient after shaving.

No. 1774256

Should I go to the farmer's market?

No. 1774312

I'm retarded how do you meet new friends as a NEET? The few friends I made after high school were through people I already knew.
>>1774229
Depends on how much hair you have naturally, it took 2 months for the ends of my eyebrows to grow back but only a few weeks for the rest. Get an eyebrow pencil and just wait it out, good luck nonnie!

No. 1774315


No. 1774330

>>1772723
>Questions for people who don't shower everyday:
I shower every 2 or 3 days. When I go to the gym or summer I might shower every day because I sweat.
>How often do you do laundry?
Every week.
>Do you take "bird baths" in between your non showering days?
Idk what this phrase means
>How often do you brush your teeth?
Twice a day
>How often do you wash your hair?
2 times a week

No. 1774333

>>1772742
Autism

No. 1774378

>>1773740
It's normal, most people have those thoughts at some point even if they're never depressed

No. 1774611

>>1772723
I shower once a week.
>How often do you do laundry?
Twice a month maybe, I usually only change my socks and underwear regularly, other clothes only when they start to smell.
>Do you take "bird baths" in between your non showering days?
Yes after a run (3 times a week), I wash my feet and armpits.
>How often do you brush your teeth?
Twice a day.
>How often do you wash your hair?
Once a week (when I shower). I've always hated showering, takes too much time.

No. 1774647

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should i bother getting a pair of dr. martens? i'm a poorfag so dropping 200 bucks on a pair of shoes that is rumored to be the most painful shoe ever to break in is daunting. my feet tend to hurt/blister for weeks whenever i have new shoes. this happens even with vans, which i wear exclusively since i have wide feet. i'm enamored with picrel but 200 euros is a lot…

No. 1774653

>>1774647
I have wide feet myself and they are the most comfortable boots I ever had. Don't get patent leather and if your feet are sensitive with new shoes, go for the Virginia leather option, as they are way easier to break in and are very comfortable after a very short time. For the first weeks tape your feet where you would normally get blisters with leukoplast and don't remove it until it falls of your feet from itself, kek. It saved my life through some festivals and long walking days.

No. 1774665

>>1774647
No, they are overpriced for what they are.

No. 1774671

Which horror movie do you absolutely hate? And why?

No. 1774673

>>1772723
I shower reliably every other day. But usually I do shower almost every day. I do laundry about weekly. I change my clothes pretty much daily- never re wear socks, undies I miiiight wear for 2 days but usually not, sports bras get about 3 days sometimes more if I didnt sweat or wear it long and sometimes less if I get really sweaty. Shirts sometimes 2 days, pants get a lot longer before I wash kek (normally wear sweatpants and shorts but if I get gross then I will wash them sooner). Clothes I sleep in get 2 to 3 nights. I wash my feet after wearing tennis shoes reguardless if I am going to shower or not. Sometimes I use a damp washcloth to freshen up my ass and crotch if I am avoiding showering for whatever reason (the cloths get bleached in the wash). I wash my hair every 3 days- I HATE having wet hair and use a shower cap but sometimes I rinse out my hair with water between washings. I brush teeth at least 2x a day, use a tongue scraper a lot because I get awful dry mouth from meds and it makes my tongue all gross, I floss on average 10x a week- sometimes 2x a day sometimes I skip 2 days but I do floss regularly if you look at my whole week lol. I rarely wash my armpits between showerings.

No. 1774682

>>1755801
maybe this is more of an advice related question but how does someone digitally detox and be more mindful with a boyfriend who lives out of state and online classes? and jobs that require some level of internet/phone use?

No. 1774697

>>1774671
Friday the 13th, the original one is so fucking boring and lame. I don't know why it's so popular and beloved. I also hate most A24 horror movies, they're so try hard and pretentious. The only ones I've liked enough to rewatch are X and Pearl.

No. 1774700

Do any other nonas view these "what I eat in a day" videos and wonder how someone eats all that? I am really talking about travel ones where they eat a hotel breakfast, lunch & dinner out, plus snacks, and it all looks like so much sometimes. Do people actually eat all of that without feeling sick or bloating? I do have severe endometriosis and I think it makes me bloat easily even when I am not menstruating.

I'm not shaming them, I would like to have a vacation where I ate like that, but I thought about my last trip (where I walked all day every day) and I know I couldn't have eaten like that despite all the exercise. Granted I was recovering from being ill. idk.

No. 1774707

>>1774671
Train to Busan. I don't like zombie movies and the end was too sad for a horror film imo.

No. 1774712

>>1774671
I hate A Serbian Film because I can't unsee it, that shit should be banned jesus christ.

No. 1774714

>>1774700
I just assume the person didn't finish if it seems like way too much food.

No. 1774717

>>1774647
Overpriced and played out. Not worth the time you’ll spend breaking them in, and by the time you break them in some part of them will be broken. If you really love the look I recommend saving up some money and looking up boots made in the USA or UK like Solovair for example. They will be expensive and they will take time to break in but it will be worth it and they’ll last decades.

No. 1774718

>>1774671
I hate terrifier because it’s not even scary, it’s just violence against women and nothing else. The only “scare” is how gory and shocking it is.

No. 1774721

How old is the general lolcow user? Idk I imagine a lot of you to be in the 25-30 age range but then I hear some of you have been on boards since 2009 and that’s when I was in elementary school

No. 1774723

>>1774671
Martyrs, at least the American version, it's just an hour and a half of women being graphically tortured
Like maybe the story is good, I wouldn't know, I couldn't look away from people having their fuckin skin peeled off and shit

No. 1774725

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I'm using a MAC and trying to hardcode some subtitles for a movie but in spite of following the directions for doing that in VLC (which is supposed to be easy, it look super easy) it isn't working… Anyone done it before? What am I missing? Please tell me how to do it, I'm starting to feel retarted. I have a .mp4 file and a .srt file, the movie approx 2GB so the free online in-browser services (if those are even legit) will not work

No. 1774730

>>1774721
I was born in 94 and have been on imageboards since 2006/2007 but I was in middle school and definitely too young too browse them kek

No. 1774736

>>1774721
32 and I started going to image boards in 2005 or 2006 (can't remember).

No. 1774737

>>1774717
nta, but my Docs are going to die very soon after many years of wearing them, so I need new ones and I've been wondering if Solovair is really that superior to them, as I had the soft leather version Docs and they never hurt my feet. I'm very willing to change to something not produced somewhere in Asia that will last me even longer.

No. 1774743

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Mean question, but why do bisexuals keep trying to mooch off of the lesbian name? I discovered that bisexual women will call themselves "temporary lesbians" when they say they're in the "man hate phase". Or bisexual women calling their relationships with other bisexual women "lesbian relationships" even though they're both bisexual and not lesbians. I already know that straight women will try to call themselves bisexual for shit like attention, but why do bisexual women keep larping as lesbians?

No. 1774744

>>1773751
That’s how it’s pronounced though

No. 1774745

>>1774743
I've never heard the temporary lesbian thing, but two women in a relationship is a lesbian relationship. It's describing the relationship, not them. If they called it a bisexual relationship that would be like a man and a woman calling their relationship "queer" because they also are attracted to the same sex.

No. 1774746

>>1774743

Lesbians are more oppressed than bi women, and they like to mooch on us for pity points, that’s what I’ve found to be true at least

No. 1774747

>>1773751
I've never heard it not pronounced like yaowee

No. 1774754

>>1773751
I’m pretty sure your pronunciation is technically correct but I’ve always said it like yow (rhymes with how and wow)

No. 1774756

>>1774315
It was closed today, but I'll go to another one on the weekend. Thank you, anon

No. 1774757

I want glass food containers but the plastic lids on the ones I already have are super difficult for me to snap on. I've seen some use wood or bamboo for lids. Does anyone have any experience to know how good they are?

No. 1774760

>>1774671
Jennifer's body. It's always been toted around as this feminist horror and I never saw that. I've seen it at least 4 times. Ginger Snaps is better imo.

>>1774712
Same with Canabal holocaust. they killed real animals and almost hurt the actual people in that film. isnt the director Italian? i honestly hate italian moids in horror


>>1774718
Agree. The whole appeal is extreme violence to women and that makes me side eye anyone who likes it. Art the clown can go fuck off.

No. 1774764

>>1774721
36. I've been here for a while. I started off on 4chan back in the day and eventually found myself here off gaiaonline.

No. 1774765

>>1774723
I heard "Spit on your grave" is just as awful

No. 1774766

>>1774760
Not Italian, the director was Serbian.

No. 1774773

>>1774743
Lesbians are the least represented and most oppressed group out of LGB, so they want to feel extra special while still being sexually attracted to men. It's extremely insulting.

Whenever I heard there is going to be 'queer representation' in any media, i always assume it's going to be gay men or a tranny involved.

No. 1774775

>>1774766
For Cannibal holocaust? The director is Italian. Sorry for confusion.

No. 1774793

>>1774721
33. started going on anon communities when i was 16-17 in 2006-7

No. 1774795

>>1774721
I'm 33 and have been on boards since 2010.

No. 1774801

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>>1774760
>The whole appeal is extreme violence to women and that makes me side eye anyone who likes it. Art the clown can go fuck off.
When I was a huge slasherfag, I checked out some less popular movies like Leslie Vernon or Hatchet. Came across this movie named Laid to Rest and its sequel. On top of being hilariously bad, it's exactly what you described.

No. 1774810

What makes someone want to get extreme body mods? I don't mean cringe tattoos and piercings, but those surgeries and dressing styles that make them look like literal alien creatures? Is there some medical condition that makes someone want to look as further from a normal human as possible?

No. 1774811

ESL anons, how hard was it to learn english? Did you ever sit down and bash your head because of english grammar?

Right now I'm learning a completely different language and it makes me think about how you pick up your own mother tongue without even thinking about all these rules we're subconciously following

No. 1774813

Are all men cucks? What is their fascination with watching porn kek. It's the most pathetic thing I can think of

No. 1774814

>>1774743
Talking about being bisexual gets you pummeled with comments like "no you're not," "there's no such thing," "make up your mind/pick a side," "you just want attention," "bi now gay later," and so on. Saying you're lesbian is a whole other can of worms yeah, but for the most part people will at least accept it as real or not try to argue with you about itor treat you like you're lying to them. And then on top of that, most people, including most bisexuals, don't have a working understanding of what being bisexual actually is, maybe because it's just too simple and everyone loves to overcomplicate shit. And there are people out there that will scream and shout that "lesbians can be attracted to men!!!1" also. So when you are tired of defending yourself and/or you have been fed misinformation or are ignorant, there's a good chance you just end up going "yeah okay sure I'm a lesbian I guess, whatever" because it's easier.

No. 1774820

>>1774810
mento illness

No. 1774822

>>1774810
Mental illness involving extreme obsession and/or self loathing. Manifests in all ways. There are also cultures where body mods are imposed as a beauty standard, you’re probably not asking about those but I just think it’s interesting people can basically be memed into doing body modifications (or memed into doing child abuse like foot binding).

No. 1774825

>>1774811
english was the easiest language to learn for me. english grammar is fairly simple and there's plenty if media you can read/watch so that really helps to gain vocab and improve your reading and oral comprehension. i didn't really learn english grammar, it's straightforward enough that i was able to pick it up intuitively. can't do that with, say, russian.
hardest language for me was chinese, the grammar is extremely simple but having ideographs instead of an alphabet means you have to completely alter your way of conceptualising the language

No. 1774827

so.. he made a vid "exposing" a nft scammer just to become an nft scammer himself or am i not getting the point that his nft is super not a scam but actually very very different? help?? vidrel

No. 1774831

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>>1774745
>but two women in a relationship is a lesbian relationship. It's describing the relationship, not them. If they called it a bisexual relationship that would be like a man and a woman calling their relationship "queer" because they also are attracted to the same sex.
Based on the number of bisexuals I see labeling their woman/man relationships as "bi" just because one of them was bisexual, I was met with the impression that relationship "tags" are based on what sexualities the couple has. So if bisexual people's relationships are categorized "technically bisexual" based on their sexuality, why would a couple of bisexuals be classified as a "lesbian" relationship they're bisexual?
I'm sorry if I'm making this confusing, I'm just a bit annoyed with bisexuals talking about "bi-erasure" when they're called "straight" for having female/male relationships, but calling themselves "lesbians" instead of bi when they're dating another woman.

No. 1774834

>>1774831
You sound like you spend too much time online. You wouldn't have to be annoyed with losers complaining about "bi erasure" if you deleted twitter or discord or whatever you use.
The answer to all of your questions is: internet induced brain damage.

No. 1774846

>>1774834
I dont have twitter and I haven't opened discord in months. I just keep seeing bisexual women call themselves lesbians, even though they're not. But based on what the other anons are saying, I suppose the answers for why bisexuals do this is because of attention and/or pressure.

No. 1774847

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Is there any solid proof Master Morya existed?

No. 1774856

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>>1773630
Thanks nonna! I’ve been doing great in classes, and I don’t want people to think I’m a “wreck” anymore because I’m not. Any tips for looking put together when I go to class? I go to classes/errands like a gremlin because I don’t want to damage my skin/hair with makeup/ heat. I look great when I’m going to events but the contrast between my two looks is ridiculous. I’ve invested in some aviator nation stuff and some lulu tops but in the morning I always throw on whatever’s most comfy even if it doesn’t match/look good and then I end up wearing that for the rest of the day. Also wearing a backpack always makes my hair look silly. How do some girls always do their hair/makeup for classes? I feel like most people can tell I used to be weird in hs. Also I’ve been going to the gym and I want to try this nice Pilates class that opened near me but I’m a bit nervous to try it but I think it would be a good way to make friends

No. 1774857

>>1774846
Okay and where are you seeing this? Put the phone down and walk outside. LGB "discourse" is retarded and gay, and focusing on it is also retarded and gay. I know you're not talking to any irl women any way bc you're on lolcow.

No. 1774874

>>1774813
Unironically yes. There’s some evidence that men evolved to be aroused by seeing another man having sex with a woman. Look up sperm competition. Porn is disgusting and unnatural but it’s like mainlining heroin for the moid lizard brain.

No. 1774881

>>1774874
Years ago, I once posted here about a dream I had. The dream was about some hot long haired guy eating me out. Some r9k incel screenshotted it, posted it on 4chan, and talked about how hot it was. Another anon screenshotted his post and posted it here and that's when I found out about it. My question was….how is that hot to him? It didn't involve him kek

No. 1774902

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are they making kids films anymore? like non-animated ones? when i was a kid we had these huge franchises like harry potter and lots of actually good kids books too, and i can't think of any modern examples of that. in general i feel like i had a lot more choices regarding what to read/watch. i recently checked the kids channels and one was showing cocomelon, the other one broadcasted goddamn alvis and the chipmunks episodes every hour all day every day of the week, i am not joking, the third one gave me hope because it at least occasionally showed decent stuff like scooby doo. are kids just mostly stuck with the new disney crap and tiktok? if so that's depressing.

No. 1774905

>>1774902
No they are just doing remakes and raceswapping the main characters

No. 1774915

>>1774881
Kek ew I’m sorry that happened to you. Maybe he was delusional enough to think he’s like the guy, so he was imaging he was desirable? Or maybe he’s one of those guys who simply find any morsel of women being sexual beings.

No. 1774918

>>1774857
>focusing on the lgb is retarded and gay
>gay
Well your response is kind of funny, but I personally know a few cousins who flip flop between men and women and did call themselves "gay" when they were on their "woman phase". I went on different spaces online and discovered that bisexual women larping as lesbians isn't just something my two cousins did.

No. 1774941

Is it sus if your boyfriend knows you’re ovulating before you do? And chooses to cum inside you the day that he knows you are? I’m gaslighting myself here I think.

No. 1774943

>>1774941
why the fuck are you letting him spill in you

No. 1774945

>>1774874
Straight men look up big dick porn more than women

No. 1774959

>>1774941
Anon what the fuck, break up with him and block him. I would consider that a fucking assault.

No. 1774972

>>1774941
Extremely suss. Beyond suss. Run.

No. 1775076

What reason would a (appears to be) normie, non-terminally online man suddenly start dating a tif? right at the time she starts tifing out, not beforehand. something doesn't add up.

No. 1775081

Has anyone tried IV Therapy? How was it?

No. 1775082

>>1775076
Doesn’t see her as a man, just a woman with short hair that’s easy to please and manipulate as long as he calls her he/him and plays along with the silly little game

No. 1775088

>>1775081
Ketamine IV or just regular IV?

No. 1775099

>>1775088
Vitamin IV

No. 1775104

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Who had a shitty adolescence growing up but is living as a happy adult right now?I am the only one?

No. 1775108

>>1775104
Replying just to say I'm so happy for you nona

No. 1775109

>>1775104
I had a rough childhood and adolescence but I'm doing really well now! Life is getting better the older I get

No. 1775114

how hard is waxing yourself at home? I've never waxed before but I have some dark facial hair and it makes me insecure kek

No. 1775123

>>1775088
ayrt, it was 'aight. Not life-changing, but a nice little indulgence. Pretty expensive to what amounts to drinking a lot of water and taking all your vitamins. However, I'm chronically dehydrated so it felt really nice to not be super thirsty. And I also don't usually take vitamins in pill form because they make me nauseous (prob why I don't drink a lot of water), so feeling the effects of them w/o feeling queasy for a couple hours was nice as well.

I could see it possibly be super beneficial to do it weekly for a couple months, but that's a big investment for me, and IV therapy is only covered for very extreme health issues in my country (amerifag). If someone offered it to me on a silver platter or w/e I would def do it more often.

No. 1775128

>>1775114
It’s impossible to get everything in the bikini area, but it’s not too bad. Use the strips to start. You can microwave some water in a mug and use that to heat the wax instead of rubbing in your hands.

No. 1775130

>>1775109
Love to hear that nonnie, me too,I'm so glad!
>>1775108
Thx

No. 1775140

>>1775099
Sounds kind of unnecessary if you don’t have a health condition. I got an IV once because I had a GI infection that made me throw up everything I ate and drank for 3+ days

No. 1775149

>>1775114
You could try sugaring, it’s easy to make the wax at home because all you need is sugar, lemon juice, and water. This was the tutorial I followed when I made my own wax during covid lockdown, it worked pretty well and the wax is edible so you can eat it too kek.

No. 1775159

Nonnas who are teachers, on average how much longer do you stay after the school day ends?

No. 1775169

>>1775159
That can vary a lot if there are meetings or after school clubs/athletics, do you mean doing work related stuff or just hanging around after the students are gone? I’m not a teacher but I work at a school

No. 1775287

>>1775104
I still suffer from cptsd but I have cats, a job, and a roof over my head so I am much better than before. Happy for you too nonnie

No. 1775344

Why are white/european americans called caucasian when caucasians are in the middle east? I thought it was an internet only thing that caught on but I just saw it in an official thing. And when did this start because I never heard them being called that till like 5 years ago

No. 1775357

>>1775104
Not that shitty compared to other anons here but I was the weird girl with no friends, now I'm 30 and I've never been happier, I feel like I'm flourishing day by day.

No. 1775369

>>1775344
What? That's always been the official term and it's not new at all. They're called caucasians because it's been thought that white people came from the Caucasus Mountains (literally no proof of this since this is thousands of years ago kek).

No. 1775374

>>1775344
Aren't caucasians people from West Asia or some regions in Russia?

No. 1775384

>>1775344
>>1775369
>>1775374
I grew up with the term Caucasian meaning white European descent, and then we were all taught what you guys said: it’s a false premise and white people didn’t come from the Caucasus region so a more accurate term would be European. But NOW we are being taught that white people actually aren’t the indigenous people of Europe and are actually native to the Black Sea/Caucasus area so it was right afterall? So I’m confused.

No. 1775402

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>>1774647
If you do end up buying them, these are a lifesaver. I have extremely sensitive feet and I get massive blisters from any type of boot, let alone docs. These helped me so much.

No. 1775403

>>1775402
NTA what are these called, nonny? Thanks in advance.

No. 1775418

>>1775384
I think the term Caucasian is understood differently depending on where you live. I live in Europe and it’s not really common, at least in my country, to classify people as being Caucasian. That said I think people here generally don’t have a problem seeing people from e.g. the mid-east as Caucasian. The definition mostly seem to go by bone structure, which is what old school anthropologists were obsessed with. Someone from say India or Saudi-Arabia resembles a white European more than someone from Kongo or China. Americans are (understandably) way more obsessed with skin color. That said I think it's considered a meaningless term today.

No. 1775429

>>1775403
I think just "silicone socks" should get you results, it's what I use when I buy them off aliexpress.

No. 1775476

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Lol what's going on? I get this weird ass view on the other catalogs and also on Facebook (I know I'm phone posting, I'm just at work, sue me).

No. 1775490

>>1775104
I'm like frighteningly happy and sane, have dealt with the shit

No. 1775491

That one discussion in /g/ had me wondering, if a guy likes to give literally everyone, woman, man, whoever, kisses on the cheek in a friendship context does that make him secretly bisexual or does it mean nothing, since it's done towards basically whoever's around?

No. 1775494

>>1774721
34, started frequenting 4/7/420chan around 2006

No. 1775497

>>1775491
Nothing I think. It's apparently normal in Europe to do it but if it's not normal in your culture it'd make him an autist or creep depending on his other actions.

No. 1775502

>>1775497
He is American

No. 1775505

Other than Titanic, what are some movies featuring beautiful ships?

No. 1775508

>>1774721
I'm 25, been visiting boards since 2015/16

No. 1775514

Can someone please make a new fashion general? I feel embarrassed asking for new threads but never have good threadpics

No. 1775519

Can you learn to be content as a loner? I'm prone to codependency and super sick of it but loneliness is already eating away at me even though I do have a few people I see regularly. Or is 'alone but not lonely' a myth?

No. 1775521

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>>1774856
The outfit is cute, I'd probably swap the bottoms for a pair of comfy wide leg jeans or trousers in a similar colour, black, or a tan/beige though. Athleisure is still very in so even wearing a hoodie or sweats but dressing it up a bit and accessorizing looks good if you still want to wear comfortable/casual clothes.

No. 1775552

>>1775519
It's not a myth, you just have to learn to be comfortable with yourself. It's natural to want to interact with other humans/living creatures since we're social beings. But sometimes people use others to fill the void left by not being comfortable with themselves. But not everyone can be content with being a loner, some people are just naturally more social than others.

No. 1775569

>>1775519
People are social creatures, so I think no, it's not possible for most people. There are some exceptions, like schizoids. But you said you're prone to codependency and feel lonely so I don't think it's possible for you.

No. 1775579

>>1775552
>>1775569
Thanks nonnies. I don't know, I can't be with people and I can't be alone. I don't like a lot of people but being alone for too long I go crazy. I want to break out of this cycle, I was codependant on my best friend for years but recently cut her out. Now I'm not depending on anyone, it feels good but also empty. I need to start living for myself but I don't know how.

No. 1775636

I avoid doing things I enjoy or like. I avoid using things I like too, like body sprays and skin care items that work well for my skin. I usually dont realize I am avoiding these things in the moment. Trying to get better. Why is my subconcious hellbent on making me neglect activities, items, people, hobbies, etc that I actually enjoy and want to do/use/be close to? I get a sense of dread before forcing myself to engage in a hobby and procrastinate doing it, yet when I sit and focus on it I am elated. Its like my brain wont let me recall that elation, and punishes me for even thinking of doing X thing. Im trying to keep that enjoyment in the forefront of me memory but it is hard. I have a good time with someone, and my brain decides to never allow me to text call or see them again. Wtf is wrong with me.

No. 1775655

>>1774657
>>1774665
>>1774717
thanks for the feedback nonnies, i will refrain for now. i looked into threads about it on buy it for life and was pretty disheartened.

>>1775402
these look like they could save me so much money spent on compeed blister plasters. thank you for the rec!

No. 1775658

>>1775636
sounds like self sabotage. are you a perfectionist or did you have very demanding parents who expected a lot from you? alternatively, parents who made you feel small/insecure a lot? any history with abusive partners/friends who told you you didn't deserve nice things?

No. 1775659

>>1775636
This is called Executive Dysfunction

No. 1775661

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Are powdery florals universally considered an old lady scent, or does what is a "old lady perfume" change depending on the country?

No. 1775668

>>1774721
I'm 26, only starting lurking here since 2021, but I've been a lurker of imageboards since 2012

No. 1775670

>>1775661
Aldehydes play a bigger role in that IMO, theres 3 of them in chanel no 5. I have a powdery Lolita Lempicka bottle that smells very youthful. Also join us in perfume thread on /g/ bring small threads back to life nonnies

No. 1775685

>>1775636
can relate, unfortunately i feel like being on meds is the only thing that's helped, but it's still a struggle

No. 1775702

>>1774721
31, i first heard of the farms through a friend who was obsessed with the berry tsukasa threads. i think that was 2015? i was on image boards before that but never liked them much because of moids. lc was the first board that i really enjoyed.

No. 1775728

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>>1774730
same here kek, except I was also on various videogame forums doing ancient shitposting. (imagine adult gamers in 2003 responding in paragraphs and serious arguments to a kid who is just posting bullshit like "zelda is the true main character because its her name on the game and link only wakes up when he has something to do for her"

No. 1775763

>>1774718
>>1774760
>>1774801
I saw that they are making a 3rd terrifier movie

No. 1775791

>>1775658
>are you a perfectionist or did you have very demanding parents who expected a lot from you?
Yeah my childhood was horrible, somewhat schizophrenic father that was autistic and religious so he would tell me what God desired from me being the head of the house and the one that communicates to God on behalf of the family. Impossible standards, and women are born of sin obvoiusly because of Eve's temptation for Adam (not what I believe but how I was raised) Ive worked thru most my issues kek but the avoidance or self sabbotage seems very sticky.
>>1775659
Oh boy
>>1775685
Just started meds again maybe it will help when they actually kick in. Sorry youre dealing with this too, its a very odd kind of hell

No. 1775797

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I always thought being a housewife was sluttier/immodest than being a working woman. Imagine being at home all day and having to fuck a man, literal harem logic.

No. 1775801

>>1775797
Wrong thread (?) but I agree with you wholeheartedly

No. 1775809

Why are 90% of men so obsessed with being the Joker? Like literally ANY version of the Joker.

No. 1775810

>>1775670
Sure, I'll repost it there!

No. 1775811

>>1775797
That bread looks delicious.

No. 1775814

>>1775797
many women who stay at home also raise kids too kek my god some of you nonnies need to touch grass. "Harem logic" because some women are attracted to men? get a grip

No. 1775819

>>1775809
kek i've never met an adult man like this i always thought it was teenage edgelords who were trying to latch onto a "le misunderstood dark humor jokester" role model

No. 1775820

>>1775814
She was just stating an opinion. Remain independent and have sex with whatever man you connect with while not settling down, or settle down and be the stereotypical sexually available housewife for one guy. Either way you’re fucking and attracted to men, it wasn’t about that.

No. 1775841

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No. 1775857

>>1775797
I just think it's lazy and stupid to be income dependent on your man because staying home all day, your etsy aint making you enough sales to live without his part of pay. Then they complain about being lonely and not having friends

No. 1775871

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Is this metformin? What dosage? (I just wanna make sure my pharmacy didn't fuck up but I'm too chicken to go back and ask them)

No. 1775876

>>1775871
Idk anon, this could be literally anything depending on the country you’re living at. It could even be powdered sugar for all I know.

No. 1775880

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>>1775871
I googled and yes I'm sure it is metformin, but I'm not sure what dosage. Sorry anon
https://www.webmd.com/drugs/2/drug-11285-7061/metformin-oral/metformin-oral/details

No. 1775881

>>1775880
Samefag, but you really should just call and make sure anon. It's their job, I'm sure the pharmacists won't mind.

No. 1775885

How to train your voice without paying for voice training? Like any good videos on it? I want it to be smoother and more confident

No. 1775944

why can't i embed tiktok videos anymore? it used to work just fine but suddenly the format seems to be wrong but i have no idea what format the "long numbers only" one is supposed to be except for the url that is just tiktok/@userid/video/[numbers]

No. 1775947

>>1775944
Ask on /meta/, farmhands are trying to solve it

No. 1775960

>>1775801
damn it was the wrong thread, my bad

No. 1776037

>>1775885
nta, but waiting for an answer, too. my voice is nasally and high-pitched and I sound like an 8-year-old even though I'm in my mid-20's. I even considered going on T before I read about all the side effects

No. 1776067

>>1774721
I’m 28 and started out on 4chan (/b/) when I was 12.

No. 1776123

>>1774721
28, started using imageboards around 2013/4, discovered lolcow in 2020 and that was one of the best discoveries I’ve made in my entire life.

No. 1776142

>>1774721
I’m 22. Came here when I was 18. Came from PULL lmao

No. 1776146

>>1774671
I really don’t care for the Conjuring and Annabelle, because it’s just.. not scary to me I also don’t like really gory horror like Terrifier and Saw I like gory action tho like apocalypto and I like some gory horror like the thing

No. 1776151

>>1776142
Kek you would have gotten slammed if you admitted this back in the day.

No. 1776159

What did my mom say? I had my headphones in and I couldn’t hear her.

No. 1776163

>>1776159
She said she loves you and is proud of you. Or to do the dishes, it was hard to hear because I was eating chips.

No. 1776164

Why does sugar make me so tired.

No. 1776166

>>1776164
Maybe you have a difficult time metabolizing it? Are they processed sugars?

No. 1776167

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Anyone here buys makeup online? How do you know what's your color?

No. 1776168

Please be honest with me right now is it gross to go through a whole tube of anti itch cream

No. 1776170

>>1776168
No if you’re itchy be generous with it

No. 1776172

>>1776168
What are you itching that much? Bug bite? Please tell me you're not eating it.

No. 1776175

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>>1776166
Idk I just ate a whole handful of these things and now I need to lie down.

No. 1776178

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No. 1776182

>>1757527
the only truly nice man I know was raised by lesbians

No. 1776207

>>1775104
i had a dogshit childhood and ive learned the older I get, the more freedom i obtain, and the more space I have between me and my family, life only gets better. we only go up from here nonnie xo

No. 1776241

I have a make up related question too. Is make up lasting in warm humid weather (think something like above 27°C/80°F and above 80% humidity) a real thing or is the internet lying to me again?

No. 1776266

>>1776241
Idk if this helps but I went to the hot tub+swimming pool(1hr) and steam room (20mins) with eyeliner, mascara, and eyebrows (done w the same mascara and some brown eyeshadow) and my makeup lasted, I wore maybelline waterproof mascara, elf eyeliner (its not waterproof but it didnt run despite my face getting damp/splashed) and just brown eyeshadow powder to set my eyebrows with no setting spray. I was amazed it didn't run because elfs liquid eyeliner runs so bad when I shower. And I would have taken my makeup off but I forgot by the time I was in the pool oops. It also rains quite a bit here and our humidity is about 75-80% on average in autumn, I am canadian.

No. 1776272

>>1776167
You need to go to a store. For foundations there used to be websites called findation that matched the colors of different brands, but I still recommend that you went to a store to see the color on your skin.

No. 1776291

>>1776172
my legs just get itchy and sometimes when i’m scared my arms and hands start to itch in randoms spot

No. 1776296

Are there any farmers here who had both parents stay married and seemingly love one another?

No. 1776352


No. 1776365

>>1776296
Yeah, but my father died 13 years ago. My mother's love for him is palpable and she misses him every day. He was perfect for her, very hardworking and kind to babies and animals. She still talks about all the things he'd say, do and enjoy if he were alive today and says she can hear what his input would have been despite not being there. God I miss them being together, sorry for the long-winded "yes". Felt cathartic.

No. 1776369

>>1776296
Mine, but my dad cheated on my mom a lot. Life is pain, they’re still married and either they got better at hiding their fights, my father hasn’t found a new lover or he’s getting better at hiding them.

No. 1776375

>>1776296
Yes. My parents have been together since my mom was 16 and my dad was 14. Obviously life is not perfect but I got/get to see my parents truly in love. I think they still are. My uncle recently commented on how loud they kiss when they say goodbye, like MUAH MUAH MUAH lol

No. 1776388

>>1776296
My parents were 17 and 24 when they met (they did not date, only met) and are married 56 and 63 now. They get along and run a business together, I don't think splitting was anywhere on the table at any point.
Mom isn't the affectionate type and has a critical tough love attitude towards him, but dad is autistic and very obviously endeared to her. As a kid he'd often come up to me just to sperg about "your beautiful mom is so strong and smart." Our family was very matriarchal

No. 1776420

>>1776417
Literally no reason to post this

No. 1776423

>>1776420
Well, I had a stupid question, didn't I?

No. 1776433

>>1776423
Delete it

No. 1776434

>>1776433
kek why are you so mad about it? idgi

No. 1776435

>>1776417
Nonna, don’t do this, my family says I look retarded, I do this since I was a kid into retarded animes that wanted to have a permanent anime cat girl mouth when I was like 12, my family keeps telling me that I have to stop doing it, but I’ve been doing this for so long that I do it unconsciously, I’m 28 years old, I can’t stop. Just like your lips, I’m sure they look great.

No. 1776436

>>1776435
huh, you think it looks like i'm doing an anime mouth? That wasn't my intention kek, i didn't think it looked that weird?

No. 1776437

>>1776436
I know you’re trying to do this to make your lips look fuller, to give them slight curve or something like that, I did it because of anime.
The thing is that my family says I look disabled when I do that kek, and after seeing a disabled aunt of mine a few weeks ago… I kind of get why they told me that.

No. 1776439

>>1776417
what's the point/difference? If it's about lip size wouldn't it be easier to just draw them slightly different with makeup? I don't get why it matters anyway I think this is a weird thing to worry about

No. 1776441

>>1776417
Even if it's possible, wouldn't it look uncomfortable? Seems unnecessary. It's ok to have little lips. You can buy a lip plumper and get similar effects too.

No. 1776442

>>1776437
hmm, well thank you for you input, it's something to keep in mind. though I think the only people who would notice it though would be people who already know what I look like, imo (biased) opinion
>>1776439
I'm not into makeup, but yeah that would be easier. I'm looking for something more permanent since I have a very homer-simpson-like lower face kek

No. 1776444

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I didn't poop in 9 days, help

I tried restoralax, bisacodyl, and psyllium already, as well as eating fibrous foods. I drink 2-3 bottles of water per day. What else can I try?

No. 1776446

>>1776444
I'm not an expert or anything, but that sounds really serious. Is there anyway you can call and make an appointment with a doctor about this?

No. 1776447

>>1776444
I think you should be drinking much more than that? If you're talking about regular size water bottles. I drink like 5 or six.

No. 1776448

>>1776444
2-3 bottles as in only 1L of water? That's not enough especially if you're taking stool softeners. Are you eating regularly throughout the day? Do not ingest any more medication or you could get impacted stool. You can try 1-2tbsp of castor oil and drinking at least 3L of water. If you still can't shit after the weekend go to a clinic.

No. 1776466

>>1776296
Nope. My parents are still married but only tolerate each other at best. I want more than anything to believe a lifelong loving monogamous partnership is possible, but I feel like I will never truly believe in it because I’ve never seen proof of it with my own eyes. The other posts who are saying yes and talking about how their parents have that help though.

No. 1776472

>>1776446
>>1776447
>>1776448
It's the 750ml bottles. I try to drink more but I feel like I will burst. I try to eat too, but the fiber fills me up (I've been eating oatmeal, Weetabix, watermelon, greens etc these past few days)

Oh well, I guess it's over for me. Off to the doctor I go.

No. 1776473

>>1776444
Get an enema at a health clinic before your impacted poop shoots out of you like a rocket at such velocity your toilet bowl will shatter and you'll have a hole in the bathroom floor.

No. 1776564

>>1776296
Still married after 30 years but I don't think my dad ever moved my mom, too autistic for that and I think he married her just to settle down and have kids. I've never seen marriage as something positive because of their relationship.

No. 1776589

What's the point of bluesky and is it worth it to have an account on there? I just made a bluesky profile and I don't know who should I follow on it

No. 1776652

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nonnies, i got these cute new scissors, i want to make the design last, should i spray it with varnish? will it fuck up the design?

No. 1776657

>>1776296
No, in fact the only reason my parents stayed married is because my mom didn't want to leave out of perceived religious obligation and because my father would have never divorced his personal maid.

No. 1776658

>>1776472
Try drinking smoothies with fruit, berries and greens for a few days and see if that helps, eating might make it worse at this point. But if you don’t want to do that you could also try eating food that has a laxative effect like pineapple, beets, cabbage, and beans. And if I were you I would drink like 6 of those water bottles instead of 2-3

No. 1776678

>>1776589
No. It's filled to the brim with troons and reddit-tier ""intellectuals"".

No. 1776686

>>1776652
Might mess up the blades, idk bout design. Id try the varnish with tape over the blades or something, but idk. Cute though!

No. 1776695

How can I set my Windows 10 computer to just NOT update unless I specifically tell it to? I just lost a ton of tabs that I needed plus an image I had in Paint because my computer updated while I was sleeping, and it's constantly only giving me the option to "update later" and threatening to do it while I'm not looking instead of simply not doing it until I tell it it's okay. I'm really upset… This was not a convenient time at all for me and it did this behind my back at a time where I wasn't able to stop it

No. 1776701

>>1776686
i'll try that but for now i'll wait for more replies, if there's no more replies after a day, i'll just do that.

No. 1776707

>>1776695
Why do you keep it turned on over night without saving progress beforehand? Just close all windows that pop up when it asks to update while you're on it and choose the option of doing it before shutting down. If you turn it off without closing your tabs you can restore them next time you open the browser. But I'm pretty sure you could also go into the settings and choose an update pause for a few days

No. 1776717

>>1776707
I just went to sleep for one hour, I didn't know it would do that in the short time I was away. A lot of the time I will have the computer on while I'm not there though because I share it with someone remotely who might need to access something while I'm away, or for another reason. Once it was because I was in the middle of downloading a large file, which got interrupted when I wasn't looking.
I usually have the "pause for x days" on for as long as it'll go but it hasn't stopped it from sneakily coming out of nowhere and disrupting something every once in a while, this instance was a relatively harmless one but it's not the first time so I'm looking for a more permanent solution. It does not always warn me before it's seconds away from trying to update!
I've seen a lot of "why didn't you save every 2 secs, manually update constantly, not walk away ever, not be on the internet, etc." responses to similar questions online and I get the idea that that would help, but it kinda misses the core issue… I just don't want my computer to do unexpected things on purpose lol. Yeah I know it's unideal to leave something unsaved or a program running while you're away but it happens sometimes and it's mostly an issue just because the OS is intentionally updating without my confirmation. It'd be a lot more convenient if it just didn't do that as a built-in thing to begin with so I wouldn't HAVE to babysit it as much, you know?

No. 1776721

>>1776717
Oh, I see. Saving every few minutes like those people say is insane but I also never had it force an update on me like that because I do them pretty much the same day they come up anyway. I don't think there's a way to stop it completely, but I hope you can figure out a downtime schedule that works for your circumstances or that someone else can help you. Good luck nona

No. 1776741

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how the FUCK do i get rid of period bloat i get for an entire 10 days or so before and during period? i can't do this shit no more… i have to unzip my pants entirely just to not feel like a bleeding sausage in a case. this wasn't as bad as when i was underage, but ever since i turned 20 i've been getting more and more bloated during my period and i'm really over it..

No. 1776775

>>1776434
What you do is adorable. Don't listen to sour grapes.

No. 1776777

>>1776775
what did she post?

No. 1776781

>>1776695
You can't, Microsoft is just intentionally malicious like that, but Windows 10 LTSC exists, its a Windows version for ATMs, industrial machinery and such, it doesn't have updates unless you enable them, but in doing so it will permanently turn into regular consumer Windows with updates. Its a stripped down version, but some people describe it as "windows as it should have been". Supposedly its unavailable for regular consumers, but i'm pretty sure it can be pirated. I should have tried it out long time ago, but i just keep postponing, because i'm lazy.

No. 1776785

>>1776777
A cropped close up of her lips, moving them. She wanted to know how to train the muscles of her face to retain the new shape she was making.

No. 1776794

Why are there suddenly so many indian men obsessing over europe and larping as alt righters? Is it the BJP effect?

No. 1776799

would it be possible to sleep for a good 3-4 days without interruption? also if i want to go ghost and be left alone for a week or two, but am a hikkineet due to disability so most of my entertainment relies on internet and technology, what would you nonnas recommend as hobby?

No. 1776802

>>1776794
You should go back to /pol/ and ask them.

No. 1776805

>>1776799
>hobby
Is budget an issue?

No. 1776806

>>1776802
I'm not from pol. I saw neo-nazi indians being racist against latinos and black people for no reason and wonder why so many of them are like that.

No. 1776809

>>1776802
>go back to /pol/
NTAYRT but holy damn, how was that a malicious question? White guys, black guys, and asian guys all have a creepy habit of pretending to be different races or even women online so that idiots will see their takes and think "see? even this group agrees!". Not every mention of race is racebait, gahdamn.

No. 1776811

>>1776806
Because they know they're next on the chopping board, Indian men are universally disliked kek

No. 1776812

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>>1776794
Now to answer your question, I say it's the same reason so many Latino incels larp as six feet tall, Caucasian men with blue eyes and regurgitate the same shit the Nazis and the KKK would say about any person that's brown; they glorify white people and they want to be them. They hate their own race, and they hate other races that aren't white. I knew a poltard back in high-school who hated jews, hated black people, and was the typical dipshit who hated everything that wasn't "normal" and European-centered. But here's the catch: he was American and his father was a brown Mexican.

No. 1776814

What fuck just opened discord for it to say that there was an ongoing call with me and someone else for about 10 mins. It said tap to join but it showed an icon like it was using my camera and microphone. The discord app (phone) was completely exited out of before. Were they able to hear my private conversation?

No. 1776822

>>1776812
Do they think europeans will see them as one of them? Like don't they realize this is pathetic behaviour? Saying "let's deport all of them back to Mexico/Africa" as a child of immigrants yourself is embarrasing. No sympathy for those worms.

No. 1776827

>>1776822
A lot of the times, yes. They regularly and really do believe that they'll be the "exceptionally good one" if they shit all over their own "imperfect" heritage, their own race, and any race that doesn't fit the mold of what Nazis believed about the world.

No. 1776830

Why does my right hand always freeze when I'm on the computer? Am I the only one with this issue? My left is also on the table but it's never as cold as my right and it's starting to freak me out, I'm beginning to imagine pains in that arm

No. 1776836

>>1776822
With latin americans, they cope hard because they might have europeans greatgranparents or something, even if just by looking at them you could tell they are also part native or black or even if they have no real cultural connection to their europeans roots.

No. 1776839

>>1776814
Discord has this annoying thing that happens if you close the app mid-convo, it will basically hang up the call, but when you reopen the app(even the next day) it will put you back in the call and even make a call by itself. I personally wouldn't worry about it too much.

No. 1776841

>>1776806
Where do you encounter neo-nazi indians outside of /pol/?

>>1776809
How was that a malicious answer? I seriously think that /pol/ might be a better place to ask since they think about it 24-7.

No. 1776842

>>1776836
It's like those americans that get 4% cherokee on their 23&Me result and claim they are native american but way worse.

No. 1776844

>>1776841
nta, but these types are common all over social media like instagram, twitter etc

No. 1776847

>>1776841
You don't have to go to pol. Twitter and Instagram is filled with them.

No. 1776850

>>1776811
>Indian men are universally disliked kek
this, what has happened to that country, i don't feel like having that opinion bc racism obviously, but what is it about those men that makes them so repulsive. even the women, i think India is the one country that is impossible to fetishize.

No. 1776851

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No. 1776854

>>1776827
i mean, it works for Hitler kek

No. 1776856

>>1776850
Mostly it's the culture. men are held above women by a huge margin and the way they act is just pure sexism and entitlement. I have never in my life met an indian man who wasnt an incel or piece of trash. they are all the samr

No. 1776858

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>>1776841
Are you a newfag? Genuinely asking because seeing other races spew alt shit is common on other places than 4chan. Twitter, insta, and even youtube comments are filled with people seething over anything that isn’t white. You get people making statistics jokes on any news outlet that has a comment section, people freaking out if there’s new laws about anything because they wanna blame other races for voting democratic, and for the last ten years memes have been pushing alt shit. From alt right meme magic shit from 2015 to must have a blonde east euro tradwife and be a sigma male that only drinks unpasteurized milk group. Picrel is other races taking alt memes and making it their own to project the same message they all want, trad bullshit that hurts women

No. 1776863

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>>1776856
Their politicians also say stuff like this… what did black people ever do to them? And the remark about south indians was terrible.

No. 1776866

>>1776841
>Where do you encounter neo-nazi indians outside of /pol/
ntayrt, but India itself and Twitter, my brothers drop n words left and right, even with the hard r, don't think they could actually do anything to a real black person tho, they're both crazy short and obvs would get intimidated by real black people.
>>1776856
ntayrt, and also bc there's little appeal India has to women. Japan and Korea are shitholes but they try to make up for it with shoujo/otome/josei/BL and kpoop/kdramas respectively, the Occident also has it's bad moments, but at least they've got good looking male models and it's the birthplace of most feminist works and has some semblance of femgazey stuff in their films. India doesn't. Indian men are a pain in the ass bc they talk with the arrogance of white men that live in developed countries with ample resources for women but feel as persecuted as black people even with the image they have of them just bc some mwean American feminist said this and that about men.

No. 1776867

>>1776863
>what did black people ever do to them
I think it's the same mentality of those losers who team up with classroom bullies to pick on other students; they're scared of attracting negative attention, so they do what they can to deflect it onto anyone else.
Too bad the world already made up their minds on hating Indian men in general and with a burning passion.

No. 1776901

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No. 1776910

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Why would Redditor moids be seething so hard over this image? It was one of the top posts this week on r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen, then reposted twice to Purple Pill Debate. Everyone in the comments was screeching about how she's an example of a woman who chased bad boy Chad, failed, and is now looking to settle down (nowhere in the image is this mentioned, she could just be a regular divorcee). But how is that a problem? If she doesn't want to play games, doesn't want to jump from person to person, and wants stability, loyalty, and respect, how is that a bad thing? That sounds mature and normal. Do they think she only deserves "bad boys" and/or to be alone?

Please can someone explain what the Redditor train of thought is. Also it was posted by a "passport bro", it's apparently a screenshot of his "western" ex-wife's dating profile, and he claims to have "won" the divorce. kek

>>1776741
Nothing helps me except reducing carbohydrates, especially bread and grain. Also, yoga.

No. 1776914

>>1776447
>>1776658
NTA but my related stupid question: how do you drink that many water bottles without pissing yourself? I want to become more hydrated but if I drink even just half a bottle of one water I end up going every few minutes to the point where I can't finish my tasks for the rest of the day kek

No. 1776915

>>1776910
She should have already been married in her early 20s and she should have had the foresight to pick the perfect man that she’d never need to break up with/divorce at that very age. If not then she’s a stupid bitch deserving of ridicule. Of course there are men her age who are single, but that’s different because they were ~grinding and hussling ~ which women never do.

No. 1776969

>>1776858
I don't use social media, don't read comment sections and avoid soulless 4chan memes. I haven't posted on 4chan since the great gamergate exodus.

No. 1776970

>>1776910
Her profile could imply that she has slept with a bunch of people, which something that most people are not fond of in a partner, and is tired of it and ready to settle down.
Men read a bunch of studies that showed that the more people a woman sleeps with, the higher the chance she will get divorced if she ever gets married. Not understanding correlation and causation, they think that sleeping with many people makes a woman unable to truly fall in love with one person, so you shouldn't marry anyone who has slept around. Obviously, the real reason is that a woman who is unwilling to settle with one person is more likely to sleep around, but the effect does stay the same in that your chance of divorce is lower the lower the number of partners your partner has had.
So they consider women like this to have missed her chance in finding a solid partnership, as well as they are not interested in "being used" as a boring someone to settle for now that she has lived out her adventures.

No. 1776971

>>1776910
They see a woman who is fed up with the dating market and it angers them, ironically because they are also fed up with the dating market.

It doesnt matter that they dont want her or they are too young for her etc, they take it personally no matter her age or looks. They project onto her the typical recreational outrage redpillers pull from their arsenal: Chad widow, the wall, etc. They do assume just about every man somehow peaks at 45 or something and doesnt end up lonely, somehow gets a younger wife. They also assume that all the women they post don't end up with someone and stay on the app forever. It is a comforting thought for them.

No. 1776994

>>1776910
thanks! do you think carbohydrates + period = worst bloat ever or is it.. uh.. my ovaries swelling up? i don't even know. this is VERY stupid, but i don't know where this bloat comes from except period reasons.

No. 1776998

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>>1776444
buy sugar free gummy bears, pic related

No. 1777003

I live in the city and want to scream angerily for a minute or two but do not know where, if I go to a forest, people might think I am being murdered and if I scream in my apartment- same thing. I do not own a car.
What to do?

No. 1777005

>>1777003
Scream into a pillow

No. 1777007

>>1777005
Thanks nona, I did not think about that. Love u

No. 1777008

>>1776472
I had like 2 months of pebble poops or no poops, took 1 magnesium supplement and normal poop the next day. It pulls water to your colon.

No. 1777012

What's the difference between pickmes and simps?

No. 1777014

>>1776998
Been laughing about this for a bit, thank you kek

No. 1777015

>>1777012
Simps don’t put down non-simps to try to make themselves look more simpy, whereas pickmes will put down other women for not being pickmes every chance they get. They both defend the actions of their objects of desire in hopes of getting some positive attention.

No. 1777016

>>1777012
Well for one there's a gender difference and due to socialisation that means there are different contexts for why both of them act like they do. Not considering that what a simp is particularly has been diluted due to misogyny.
And one is linked to a political ideology like my God, I feel like I could write a lot about it but it's dinner time. Godbless.

No. 1777021

>>1777016
Which one is linked to a political ideology??

No. 1777022

>>1776652
samefag, some nonnie, any nonnie, pls help

No. 1777028

>>1777012
For simps it is the desire to get laid/into relationship with, for pick mes to be seen as better than other women. Pick mes will try to appeal even to men they actually wouldnt toutch. But both terms mean basically nothing these days though.

No. 1777039

>>1776652
Keep them in a case made of soft fabric.

No. 1777045

>>1777028
I think pickmes try to appeal to men they don’t even find desirable because they have low self-worth and are female misogynists, so any positive male attention is validating to them. Wish they’d listen to that disgust in their gut and stop being pickmes lol
But yeah also both terms are washed up and losing meaning

No. 1777065

>>1777021
Pickme is linked to Tradfem but now I think about it the idea of simping has been bastardised by right wing males who see simply being nice to a woman without any expectation of reward as simping hmm..

No. 1777081

>>1776910
Moids are mad because they think they’re the only ones entitled to sleeping around and settling down later in life. They also feel entitled to a virginal woman when they finally do decide to get married, but women like in picrel ruin this fantasy for them. Basically they can’t have their cake and eat it too, which is their own fault for not holding themselves to the same standards they expect of women.

No. 1777085

So, someone made a Lumendatabase.org complaint because they claimed a Nona saw them out with ProJared and posted about it on lolcow# I want to post it but would i get in trouble? Anyone can look at it and i've found other cows complaining about the site (Stefany's mom complained years ago for example in 2018), I just never feel comfortable posting them. Is it okay to do? Or just leave it alone.
Anyone can go on the site and look for complaints towards any site though.

No. 1777093

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I'm a dumb fuck but how do I generate images on bing? I read about nonnies doing it on there, but I can't see any function about it.

No. 1777094

>>1776994
Water retention, which makes bloating worse, is common during periods. The gluten in bread causes bloating and gas, and simple carbohydrates (starches, grains, some sugars) hold water inside the body which makes water retention worse.

No. 1777097

>>1776444
how does someone even get to this point

No. 1777106

Does the colors on anyone else's screen look better when the room is dark? Not pitch dark but even just slightly

No. 1777109

>>1777093
All you have to do is create a Microsoft account if you don’t already have one
https://www.bing.com/images/create

No. 1777130

>>1777094
HOLY SHIT! thank you! you're THE best.. another quick question - why is it during period that i want sandwiches/pizza the most then? does that imply my body is missing something or am i just setting my self up to want sandwiches and pizza because i am used to it?

No. 1777139

>>1777130
Due to the process of ovulation making hormones go out of whack, you may have cravings. They're commonly foods that boost serotonin levels (which includes carbs but also includes sweet things)

No. 1777159

do women have foot fetishes too or is it mostly a coomer thing that moids meme themselves into?

No. 1777174

I can't find any fucking pie weights in Walmart ahhhh

No. 1777179

>>1777159
I've definitely known a couple women with foot fetishes (or reverse foot fetish? Where they like when a partner appreciates their feet) and I kinda get it kek. But for some males it's a severe paraphilia, where it takes over their sexuality and they don't feel arousal at any other body part. I haven't heard of a woman having it that bad and I wouldn't be surprised if it's caused by mis-crossed wires in the brain from birth or being autistic and watching fucked up cartoons as a kid

No. 1777181

>>1776446
It is serious. If someone doesn't poop for a long time poop will come up the mouth and they may die from choking on shit.

No. 1777183

>>1777174
Just use dry beans

No. 1777188

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i am a tech illiterate idiot, i need more storage but im not sure if i should choose a SSD or a HDD. which one is better? how do i even know which one to buy? when i go on amazon to look for SSD/HDDs idk what all the specifications mean and i dont want to buy something expensive just for it to not work on my computer…

No. 1777191

>>1777188
i would go with SSD since it's faster and has a lesser chance of breaking

No. 1777196

>>1777188
ssd go fast, load game quick

No. 1777202

>>1777196
>>1777191
i think im just gonna buy both. ssd for programs/games and hdd for storage

No. 1777204

>>1777202
that's what I do. You could also put your operating system on the ssd, it'll boot faster

No. 1777212

>>1776444
A tablespoon of olive oil and smooth move tea

No. 1777215

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"Femcel" has become a word that's basically like "bitch", "cunt", and "whore"; something people throw at women when women aren't being "agreeable". Ive seen female users also call themselves "femcels" for just not having sex. It got watered down so much, can anyone be a dear and please get my memory jogging on what exactly a femcel is supposed to be? Like, what are the qualifications to being a femcel?
And while I'm at it, what makes a goth too? Is it the clothing only? Does it need to include a perticular music taste? An attitude? A certain outlook on life? Goths, please explain.

No. 1777216

Is it okay to do jumping jacks and burpees in the average gym, or is that drawing too much attention? How far away should I be from others when I exercise there? What do I do while I wait for people to leave equipment or an area?
I've gone from working out at home for years to a gym and the social aspect is the biggest hurdle for me. I feel like anything I do will bother someone. I almost pulled a fit a few times already, which will make me look even more socially incompetent than I already seem (and am).
>inb4 autist
Yeah, probably. That's why I need the rules and why my questions are stupid.
I already know to avoid eye contact, avoid making too much noise, and to clean everything before and after use.

No. 1777219

>>1777022
You’re probably going to have to do some searching into hobbies/crafts that have something to do with painting or printing onto metal objects anon. I don’t know, maybe something like those people who make things out of tin cans or how to protect painted hardware.
>>1777159
There’s a wikifeet for male celebrities, somehow I expected it to have some women but it’s just all gay men.

No. 1777228

>>1777215
Originally, femcel was adopted by women who were ugly, very awkward, have little to no dating experience, and feel like they may never have a partner. There was a community on reddit and Crystal Cafe where they vented about these feelings with a dash of misandry.
Femcel then suddenly became adopted a couple years ago by young women who are of the coquette, "traumatized" aesthetic and either seek to manipulate men ala fds or they admit to seeking men who are abusive and hurt them. The key here is that these women often do date, unlike the previous group of women.
Men online just use it as the new "cat lady" or "feminazi."
The original community was weirdly nice and supportive and I occasionally miss it despite no longer fitting the definition.

No. 1777230

>>1777228
Ah, thank you!

No. 1777234

>>1777228
i wish there was an actual femcel community. I want what moid haves but with misandry.

No. 1777235

>>1777234
A lot of LC users do fit the description but I think we spend our time talking about other things I guess except some 2X girlies who make it their whole personality. I think what we have currently is nice. Basing your whole identity on what makes you miserable is just a breeding ground for toxicity, male or female

No. 1777238

>>1777215
Femcel is a women without luck in love life, typically due to psychological, physiological or ideological reasons.
Goth is someone who is fascinated by morbidity and makes it a statement.

No. 1777241

>>1777215
Goth used to mean something about personality more than clothes but it’s just fashion now I think. I miss old goths who were misanthropic and morbid and moody. Now you can call yourself goth and actually be a bubbly nerd, times have changed .

No. 1777243

>>1777234
Torn because that sounds nice but also sounds like lowering ourselves to their level

No. 1777244

>>1777238
When you say luck, do you mean not being able to get any boyfriend at all, or had boyfriends but relationships ended in big dumpster fire?

No. 1777245

>>1777219
>>1777039
I'll get a cloth sack or make one to protect the scissors, i could try to seal in the design with clear nail polish(not a top coat tho) but maybe varnish is less likely to smudge the print

No. 1777247

>>1777215
Goth has always been about music first and foremost, it's the whole reason why the subculture was made. Without it it's useless. There's a thread for goths on /g/ that might explain better.

No. 1777249

>>1777244
Both if the dumpster fire was so traumatizing to render one unable to begin anew.

No. 1777251

>>1777243
>lowering ourselves to their level
nta but i hate this type of argument. it will never, ever be the same because female incels don't shoot up schools or write fantasies about raping 10 year olds.

No. 1777252

>>1777247
I dare you to name a goth band.

No. 1777253

>>1777251
>female incels don't shoot up schools or write fantasies about raping 10 year olds
They do though, its a sick, sad world out there.

No. 1777254

>>1777249
Ooh okay, thanks

No. 1777257

So for all of the anons that comfortably use wet wipes, what is your response to people saying you're ruining your own plumbing?

No. 1777259

>>1776652
Idk if this will help with the design but to keep the actual cutting part healthy, it's best to only use each pair of scissors for one thing. Like paper scissors only cut paper, cloth scissors only cut cloth, hair scissors only cut hair. Multi-use scissors usually suffer from wear and tear the most so don't spend a lot on scissors that you want to use as a general purpose tool and give nice scissors one job to specialize in (if they aren't already designed for one niche)

No. 1777260

>>1777257
Flush-able wet wipes that dissolve in water exist.

No. 1777261

>>1777257
Do people who own bins not exist in wet wipe world?

No. 1777264

>>1777253
source?
>>1777261
nta but leaving shit covered wipes in a bin is kinda gross, even if it does get emptied later

No. 1777266

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>>1777253
nta but

No. 1777268

Just clean yourselves with water idiots

No. 1777270

>>1777264
Audrey Hale.

No. 1777279

>>1777215
The term was literally made by incels as a "reverse gotcha" in hopes it hurts women as much as it triggers them. It's fucking hilarious retarded tiktok teens winded up using it as an aesthetic instead kek.

No. 1777282


No. 1777285

>>1777264
1st, you wipe your butt with them? Wet wipe truthers are wild.
2nd, I think they do that in Greece or something and it's fine.

No. 1777287

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>>1777270
>one (1) singular woman
woweee

No. 1777290

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>>1777260
No they don’t actually. They say they’re flushable but it’s not regulated and the wipes actually make ropes in the sewer system and water treatment plants. There are numerous lawsuits from municipalities against wet wipe companies trying to make them stop printing “flushable” on the package.

No. 1777292

>>1777264
Many countries in Europe have plumbing that does not support toilet paper flushing and you are instructed to throw your shitty paper in a bin

No. 1777294

>>1777257
not my problem

No. 1777295

Too many articles to link just google it. Wet wipes are destroying sewer systems. Call it flushable all they want but they don’t break down properly or they would dissolve from being wet in the package, think about it for ten seconds

No. 1777299

>>1777270
She was a tranny which is cheating

No. 1777301

>>1777270
One fucking example and it’s not even known if she called had femcel ideologies. The leaked writings read like she could have been trying to imitate incel moids, I don’t see any femcel in them.

No. 1777302


No. 1777307

>>1777264
I'm a wipe truther, but if bidets were common in my country I'd 100% go with that instead. I throw them in the trash but I don't think it's super gross because (tmi) I clean up with TP first and then wipe at the very end, it's not like I keep a trash can full of poo soaked wipes

No. 1777308

>>1777302
So….four women…? kek

No. 1777309

>>1777290
Oh, this is news to me, not gonna stop as long as its printed “flushable” though.

No. 1777311

>>1777264
Nta but all types of shit goes in bathroom trash, like bloody pads and tampons. I also use wet wipes (not in a space for a bidet right now) and like the other anon, I wipe most of it with dry toilet paper and then use wet wipes so it's very little doodoo on the wipe.

No. 1777313

>>1777308
4 aint 0

No. 1777314

>>1777313
Well it's still better than 100+

No. 1777315

>>1777292
Damn if those can't even handle shit papers how do they handle actual shit? What if someone took a giant log dump?
>>1777311
Pads and tampons aren't as bad imo

No. 1777316

>>1777314
Sure, not arguing about that.

No. 1777323

>>1777245
Yes, use real varnish. Nail polish will chip after a while and may take pieces of the design with it. I've successfully used wood varnish on ceramic surfaces and on stained glass so it should work for you

No. 1777325

>>1777309
Chaotic neutral wet wipe stance

No. 1777333

>>1777315
>What if someone took a giant log dump?
Poop breaks up after a while, wipes don't.

No. 1777334

>>1777325
You got keen perception.

No. 1777335

>>1777315
>"What if someone took a giant log dump?"
constipated nonny from upthread: report back to us after you poop, for s c i e n c e

No. 1777336

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It has been many years that people viewed a difference between how they look in the mirror, versus how they look in a phone's camera. To get the closest to knowing what other people see when they look at you, which is more accurate: the camera or the mirror?

No. 1777337

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No. 1777338

>>1777279
Femcel wasn't invented by incels but it was popularised by them. Calling yourself a femcel is a self-own. Women are celibate because they have standards. Men are celibate because women have standards. Both groups have almost nothing in common.

No. 1777339

Is it normal to be seeing your friends less and less in your late 20’s? I feel like I’m the only one initiating hang outs and it’s really hard to get my friends to do anything anymore. We all work full time now and almost all of them are in long term relationships so I feel like they get way more socialization while I’m super lonely by myself.

No. 1777341

>>1777338
I hate that women not wanting to date men and just enjoy life more on their own is now a "femcel trait". Is being tired of men really being a femcel now?

No. 1777346

>>1777338
Most incels have standards too, they could pay an escort, but they don't.

No. 1777349

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Thanks for all the answers, nonnies ♥ have a good night!

No. 1777363

>>1777350
New thread
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