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A thread for the daft, the dim, the silly and the merely confused.
Previous thread:
>>>/ot/2350328Please follow all global rules and remember to report and ignore bait: avoid infighting.
If you want to ask random questions and hear other anons’ personal answers, check out the Random Questions thread instead. This thread is more for asking silly questions and getting concrete answers.
Random Questions thread:
>>>/ot/2361589 No. 2374785
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Are macbook laptop fans programmed to start spinning faster whenever there is an update to make you think it's "broken" and "something needs to be done" to force you into updating?
Because it ALWAYS does it when there's an update, and it doesn't make sense that it would just randomly start acting up when it was fine before…
No. 2374812
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Is it common to smile at strangers where you come from?
I was born in a metropolis and moved to a french-speaking medium city so I have never smiled at a stranger in my life. In both cities that would be considered strange and a way of inviting trouble. However I was having a conversation with my therapist where she told me that she works with a lot of american expats whose kids are bullied at school and considered slow and stupid because of the fact that they smile excessively. How is it where you come from?
No. 2374823
>>2374812it's normal for americans to smile at each other. especially if you're from the south or smaller towns. it's considered polite to smile and say hello when you pass people.
i hate it
No. 2374877
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I need someone to explain the scientific reason why I look so bad with flares, wide leg ,boot cut and straight jeans. But I look good with skinny jeans, cargo, joggers and pegged?
No. 2375070
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Did the yotsuba manga ever get translated to french? I'm in the process of learning it and thought it would be best if I could supplement some translated manga and other children's picture books along with my other learning materials to up my reading level. Yotsuba is the first kid's manga that came to mind and I'm pretty sure stuff like One Piece is still beyond my level right now. I'd also like to to know what other manga there are aimed at kids ages, let's say, 4-6 years? Looking at multiple website catalogs under shonen its hard to guage which manga is for actual, literal childen and not preteens. Even the cutesier art styles aren't helping.
No. 2375073
>>2375056As we are not moids we only have our own perspective to share, I thought it would be good to share the point of view of the female best friend as well as the moid's behaviour to help anon decide whether it's a red flag or not.
>why would two people who get along enough to be best friends not get together eventually?Me and my teenage female best friend of many years wore matching heart lockets does that mean we secretly wanted to bang?
No. 2375084
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How would our society be if humans came in all colors? Do you think we would be more divided or more accepting of our differences?
No. 2375107
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Is it the same if I prefer not to have sex and masturbate while thinking about my husbando as when men do it?
No. 2375153
>>2375107Absolutely not. Men have inferior ape brains to begin with and that affects and influences all their decisions.
>>2375132Waifufags are incels who have waifus because they want to spite real women while husbandofags just are in love with their man and want to astral project into his world to kiss him or something.
No. 2375217
>>2375203Don’t beat yourself up to make some scrotes like you. It’s not worth it and you’ll just destroy your esteem for some breadcrumbs. Scrotes like what they like.
What’s your type and what do you look like?
No. 2375260
>>2375241Well nonna you sound normal. It’s not like you need a bubbly personality and plenty of fit men like women who aren’t stick thin. Your bmi is on the average side so don’t listen to the anachans who tell you that you’re overweight.
I am shy but it has never stopped me from being asked out.
No. 2375306
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>>2375255>being in the upper range of a normal BMI is the same as being overweight Also as if moids care about the weight of women they fuck kek give her better advice
No. 2375334
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Why are people so obsessed with Marilyn Monroe?
No. 2375880
>>2375799Everyone has their own unique reaction to every drug. I don't like alcohol because it does nothing for me. I just get clumsy and a mean headache. And then I get cranky because I have a headache kek
I like weed. If you're looking for something "fun", maybe try a (very) small edible when you're at home by yourself and see how that does you.
No. 2375962
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What do nonnas mean that Luigi Mangione's an Asian fetishist? most i ever heard about him in relation to Asia was that he was an exchange student in China for a while.
No. 2375985
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>>2375981>>2375980It's all speculation in the end, I don't really have an opinion either way. These just seem to be the things that come up in the "Is he or isn't he" discussions
No. 2376017
>>2375147Trauma.
I bond best with others who had a deeply neglectful/
abusive childhood. For everyone else I am the funny friend.
No. 2376051
>>2376017NTAYRT, in your experience is it possible to make good, stable-ish friends who also had similarly neglectful/
abusive childhoods?
The "high" of bonding with someone who just gets it is unreal, but most of my tentative friendships with such women have shown that a lot of them remain volatile and lash out without much thought about healing themselves. A lot of them seem to think that just acknowledging what they went through is enough.
No. 2376063
>>2376051I maintain friendships with folks like myself who have made some efforts to heal from their past. Noting that these friendships take a while to develop in the first place since I am very introverted. Some good places I have met nice people (not necessarily close friends) are volunteer groups or mentoring programs since those environments attract people with a growth mindset.
After doing a bit of
MDMA I realised the point of socializing is to aim for connection rather than distance in my interactions with people until they give me a reason to not to.
No. 2376112
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>>2376067>>2376089This is actually a common misconception. AI uses much less water and energy than you think. Here's a write-up doing the math with linked sources, picrel for water usage comparison between different activities on the internet.
https://andymasley.substack.com/p/individual-ai-use-is-not-bad-for No. 2376188
>>2376187But whats the point of the whole no antisemtism in colleges law then, there was also a pic of him wearing a kippa out of nowhere
Is this man planning to send billions to that country just like biden did? Why? Whats his endgame
No. 2376207
>>2376195>random countriesamerican support of israel isn't a random policy decision.
egypt and jordan are neighbouring states to israel. they're also where palestinians would have to go if israel suceeded in its goals of expelling them. currently neither of them is amenable to opening its borders but the almighty dollar might change things. nothing about this is random.
No. 2376218
>>2376152Your post is weirdly worded at best, but to answer your question, yes. People with down syndrome are born with several other health issues besides what you might notice at first sight, they often suffer from hormonal issues such as hypothyroidism, they're more susceptible to diabetes and weight gain with their lowered metabolisms, as well as congenital hypotonia, which means their muscles remain naturally untoned and it can affect speech too. Besides, as they tend to suffer from heart diseases and weakened heart muscles, most doctors advice against any demanding training sessions.
It's not impossible for them to become fit or even muscly, they can hit a gym too but their base health issues will make any training way harder than for most people if not downright dangerous if not supervised correctly
No. 2376236
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Is it possible to find straight men with girly hobbies? i am tired of all men having the exact same boring hobbies, even if i have moidish hobbies myself. I need a guy into stationery or fashion or something fun.
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>>2376242Oh fuck. I am dying alone then.
No. 2376314
>>2376292>stop looking for a male partner to fill the role of a female friend.do you sleep with your female friends
nonny… i dont think those are just friends kek.
> You DON'T want him to share all your hobbies because then you're stuck with him all daythats exactly why i want a guy with feminine hobbies. I have moidish hobbies, i want someone thats interesting and unique. I am so tired of moids into the same hobbies as me thinking i like them just because we are both tank autists and like the same autistic crap. Men with the same hobbies as me repulse me, they are always loser ugly nerds.
No. 2376329
>>2376236Don't fucking do it. Don't fucking find males into feminine and/or girly hobbies and interests. Take it from me, they're usually autistic and troons in waiting. They will be the most insufferable people you will ever meet and they will make you want to blow your fucking brains out. Without fail, they genuinely cannot physically stop themselves from sticking their dicks into the hobbies both metaphorically and literally and can't turn it the fuck off. Straight men into fashion are either insufferable, self absorbed pretentious twats or secret sissy fetishist crossdressers. Don't fucking do it,
nonnie. Please, don't fucking do it.
No. 2376417
>>2376412>pretty much every male on the planet has a race preference.Yeah, for their own race, which isn't really a fetish.
>no one thinks luigi is a misogynist,No one in the luigifag containment thread does, because they ban all adverse opinions. Outside the echochamber, many people find him disgusting.
No. 2376427
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>>2376410The moment they tried humanizing him rather than sticking to shitposting and thirsting over him I lost all hope for weegee wives. That thread is the prime example of retarded mate guarding and power leveling for male attention, and for a moid that doesn’t even know those thread exist jfc. Anons should be drawing him naked and in chains not calling random asian girls that he hangs out with fat and ugly
No. 2376433
>>2376424>being attracted to certain ethnicities isn't itself a fetish,But it almost certainly is
>it's not like he was walking around in a kimono like a retarded weeb. He can have a racial fetish regardless of that
>the race argument doesn't really hold for the us, it's a melting potBullshit. Race still exists, even in a national blender.
>most women he interacted with were probably not italianBecause he had a fetish, he mostly sought out asian women
No. 2376438
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Are there different types of fatness? I've noticed some women look good and feminine with some extra kilos. When I gain weight I look strongfat? Kek I don't look soft and femenine.
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>>2376453>he was surrounded by asiansPicrel is you
>also people in general tend to date others with similar cultureExactly. That's why only perverts like Luigi fetishize other races.
>pakistan and nigeria aren't exactly great places to visit as a travelerThen show me his backpacking trips to Argentina, or New Zealand, or France
No. 2376489
>>2376482we are just tired of you claiming you hate him while spamming him everywhere, anon
>>2376480 is right that his haters sperg more about him than his fans. Seriously, go make a hate thread for luigi and stop being so annoying some of you are starting to sound like moids. I dont understand why luigi generates this level of hatred when we literally have 27 threads of anons lusting after hideous thread and it never generated this level of hatred.
No. 2376509
>>2376483It depends on how you express it. I’m black nonna and I have lived in Europe my whole life. I can count on my fingers the black men of my age that I know kek. So I think I’ve been psyoped into liking white men kek, but I still find black men attractive , I like Asians too but they never go for black girls anyway.
With men I think it’s different, the men who fetishized me always looked at me like a piece of meat, I really felt like a “ebony” kek and they always made weird comments on how l”my body and curves were so different” “how I excited them”; they were super sexual from the get go.
Normal scrotes complimented me without making it a point and I never really felt like a “black girl with white guy” with them.
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>>2376516>Nonnies complaining about Luigifags is as bad as the Luigifags themselves!No one's buying it, sister
No. 2376543
>>2376533>Why cant you just hide this thread and close your eyesWtf? Kek why don't you STOP SPAMMING THIS MALE, uh? This is the
stupid questions thread not the Luigi hate thread, get out already
No. 2376599
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>>2376552Nigelfags have terrible taste in men kek.
No. 2376653
>>2376567kek i remember that too where any mention of adam driver, even negatively, even a vent, even if it was just a reaction image, became bannable. we need to do that again
>>2376552 >>2376599literally every nigel some anon has posted managed to look worse than most of these flavor of the month men, even the danobf
No. 2376843
>>2376510I'm the anon that originally asked the question, and am Burgerkin. I legit cant stand moids of my own race due to reasons that have been highlighted in many threads. It confuses me to see that it would be perceived as normal to like them…
I'm black and I prefer Mexican moids; they've been the sweetest to me of them all, so I thought it'd be "natural" to like who you have a positive association to.
No. 2376856
>>2376531Is this an American-specific problem? NTA, but I'm American and didn't know this; I thought it was an issue with other countries that had very homogenous populations.
(Sweet Jesus sorry for stroking the flames with these questions)
No. 2377078
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I love and support everyone experimenting with different styles and dressing however they prefer. However, does anyone else think that certain styles, for one reason or another, suit certain people better?
I saw a girl who's super pretty, and always tries to dress in a sexy way, and for some reason it looks off. No saying she looks bad though.
No. 2377100
>>2377078Well yeah different styles work with different body types. I'd love to wear two but it would look terribly on me.
Shades and tones you can work around a bit.
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what are your thoughts on this?
No. 2377331
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>>2377307If you think being told you look your age is 'humbling', that's a you problem. And the reason is because people have a very skewed idea of what ages look like, especially young people. They think 30 year olds look like hideous old hags, when in reality 30 year olds usually look their age… AND they look young, because 30 is young.
The other reason is because women going around bragging about looking young are fucking obnoxious and no1curr. Did you expect to get gassed up instead of people rolling their eyes at your paragraph of details about your appearance?
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Do you know how to fight anons? I don’t think I could fight anyone but I do lift so maybe I at least won’t die?
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>>2377372no i'm fragile dainty and delicate like a princess
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>>2377309Nonnies please, I beg of you
No. 2377521
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Anons, what the fuck does this mean? It was in some retarded guy's bio.
No. 2377633
>>2377345>Retracting what's essentially a compliment But saying you look young for your age isn't inherently a compliment. At least, it isn't if you haven't internalized moid messaging. The issue is that people like you and the other uwu I look young posters perceive it as a retracted compliment. I get mistaken for far younger than I am all the time, but at the end of the day, if it truly bothers you, you minimize it and move on. My worst habit is dropping my age in conversations in the workplace to establish a sense of experience since I get anxious about my perceived lack of experience. I'm trying to stop that so I focus less on age. If someone happens to perceive me as an older age than I'm used to (like say, 5-6 years younger and not a whole ass decade), I take that as a win and I sure as hell wouldn't fight it. What's also helped me is gaining weight to fill out my figure (like being a healthy BMI, but retaining a certain bodyfat percentage even though I work out) and my tattoos because at a certain point, you're not going to have a lot of tattoos if you're young (but obviously, anons may not have any or dislike tattoos, so that doesn't work for everyone).
No. 2377637
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Is there such a thing as having a voice that sounds like you're ugly?
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Asking as a turbo virgin. Hetero sex-having nonnies, are men who lick assholes really that common? And do they prefer to lick that instead of pussy? Do they only lick it so you can be obligated to "give it back to them" (ew) or do they do it without you doing it for them?
I've heard so many ass eating jokes, always assumed it was a joke, but is their actual basis in reality?
Pls no manhating for the sake manhating, I just wanna know if it's an actual thing.
No. 2377687
>>2377684What is this kek. If a scrote is fixated on ass just run away. He has to eat your pussy and prefer pussy first and foremost.
I never got my ass eaten and I’m not interested in it. I had one trying to stick his fucking finger in my asshole and I got mad and pushed him off.
No. 2377744
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Do curls looks better on some people than other? I have very curly hair and I remember when my hair was black (dyed) I looked stupid, now that my hair is brown they look really good. Also, I've seen on TikTok white girls with very defined curls/ringlets that look dorky kek.
No. 2377860
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Who makes these ads on this site
No. 2377880
>>2377858Straight men regularly talk about how disgusting vaginas are but the moment a woman doesn't worship cock like a fag she just
has to be a lesbian
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>>2377860They're paid for by Fromageries Bel. The same company that makes pic rel, hence the name. This was originally an agriculture image board.
No. 2378107
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Nonnies with cats. How does your cat like to sleep with you? mine either snuggles on my feet or if i am sleeping on a C position he curls himself into a ball and sleeps next to me.
No. 2378133
>>2378111aww this is adorable
>>2378119kek my cat is autistic about being petted by everyone except me, it makes me feel special
No. 2378167
>>2378108because of the idea that women do everything for attention while men don't, and the idea that women's sexuality is "more fluid" than men's even when this has been proven to be the reverse many times.
a lot of people unironically think bisexuality is impossible in men so they think they can only choose one side or the other. even the openly identified male bisexuals still get accused of being full gay lol. idk it's some weird black-and-white thinking
No. 2378189
>>2378107My oldest likes to curl up next to me, when it's cold she'll get under the covers and we sleep like the girl in your pic. She has no personal space awareness so she'll be on my chest/face the moment I lay down.
My youngest is a bit autistic and will only lay on/next to me if I have a blanket covering me kek he loves the leg triangle.
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I read that it's risky to get nasal or ear cartilage piercings if you have predisposition to hypertrophic scar development, but I'm curious if someone here actually had this experience, I mean developing such scars from piercing.
(I will consult with my dermatologist anyway)
Pic not related, I was looking for a cool piercing pic but liked this one
No. 2378358
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bought a book about Japanese fashion and this is how they portrayed punk, is this really punk?
No. 2378376
>>2378351Actual faggots don't have sex with women multiple times or do what
>>2378108 said
No. 2378990
>>2378979Don't listen to
>>2378985 she just wants to keep all the crypto coins for herself. You should buy as many crypto coins as you can, possibly take out a loan of real coins to buy crypto coins. Then wait.
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>>2379430This random woman I found on reddit because she’s prettier than me
No. 2379952
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Do breasts actually sag more if you don't wear a bra? I'm tired of them.
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What is Deepseek and why is everyone freaking out about it?
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>>2380683Based on this description, I'm guessing they found a way to give a robot schizophrenia.
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If it's rude to walk and eat at the same time in Japan, why do so many girls in anime run to school with toast in their mouths? Do they get a pass just because they're cute?
No. 2380808
>>2379952Seconding
>>2379965 's answer. A sports bra when exercising is the only time it's actually necessary to prevent saggage. Breasts are "held up" by the Cooper ligaments, which stretch out and degrade with age just like ligaments anywhere else, so in that capacity, sagging is inevitable. Fast, dynamic movements can damage the ligaments, exacerbating the natural deterioration, hence the need to wear a sports bra while working out, running, etc.
My job is very physical, so I wear a sports bra at work. But I rarely wear a bra in my freetime unless I feel it's necessary for an outfit.
No. 2381288
>>2381206I once purchased a bag recommendation from r/heronebag but found it too overwhelming on my short torso. I was thinking of getting an everlane backpack or the timbuk2 but would like to know your thoughts on these (or similar) brands.
>>2381191Not at all. I like these designs, curious to know what the texture feels like. I hope the Australian shipping isn’t too expensive haha.
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>>2381356It's been used in feminist circles for a long time, I believe. Link to picrel is here
https://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/04/17/faq-what-do-you-mean-by-not-my-nigel-feminist-abbreviationsjargon/ though I also would like to know where it came from kek
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What causes some women to be approached (harassed) on the street more than others?
No. 2381526
>>2381511Apparently predators pick their
victims based on gait. Clothes might have some influence, but not if there's an actual premeditated attack
No. 2381540
>>2381534Someone said it in one of the unpopular opinions thread a while ago from my memory so I don't know. I imagine predators analyse their
victims for movements that are easy to overpower, or that make you look weak. Cues like disjointed, uncoordinated movement. People who move with jerky, stiff, or unbalanced steps, asymmetry in walking like limps or uneven strides, unbalanced posture, small steps (which might indicate lack of physical capability or nervousness). Maybe if you're distracted, like looking lost or fumbling with your phone, or just slow movement in general
No. 2381549
>>2381540Samefag, I found this study by U.S researchers Betty Grayson and Morris Stein in 1981. It's about muggers and not predators but the psychology is probably the same.
https://iwato1810.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/attracting-assault-victims-nonverbal-cues-grayson-stein.pdf
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incredibly retarded question, that i'm not even sure is maths-related or economics related, but its about profit and loss in this certain scenario,
>I need pattern paper, but i don't want to go buy pattern paper because i already have pattern paper at home.
>so i look for people that have spare pattern paper to have an exchange with, that next time i'll give them my pattern paper for the paper they've lent me.
>i didn't find anyone that had spare paper, so i go to buy some but it turns out someone bought some from the college store for me, but instead of giving them the money for the paper, we form an agreement that next time i'll give her pattern paper for the paper she'd bought for me
so profited here? i definitely didn't profit or lose here, but i don't get anything else.
No. 2381609
>>2381576heres a good reserach paper on it
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/370471265_HIGH_RATES_OF_SUICIDES_AMONG_K-POP_STARS_CAUSES_AND_BACKGROUND_OF_THE_PROBLEMbut basically its like this
>kpop idols are recruited very young as this demographic is supple to exploit>they undergo breaking tactics as in peer humiliation, starvation,sleep deprivation and lovebombing to keep reinforcing the belief to become a idol and to keep them delirious enough as not to question their abuse (sexual or physical) similar tactics used for interrogation by the cia>financial abuse if any child wants to get out of the industry they will be hit with thousands of dollars of debt as recompense for "training them" so the child either has two options give in to the slave contract or be bankrupt because of lolsuits No. 2381620
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>>2381603samefag, my friend that bought pattern paper for me didn't profit or lose from this either, but then the store owner definitely profited, but how would they profit if my friend didn't spend money?
No. 2381705
>>2381663Lesbians are everywhere and in every group (of women) sweet nonna.
As for your second question, afaik Judaism is matrilineal, so if your mom is Jewish so are you by birthright. Add a long history of moving to and intermingling in multiple areas in Europe and you have a lot of Jewish folks who look similar or identical to that country's local population. You'd see the same in other religious groups if they had a similar history and membership standards.
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Do you think shes an actual aspie? she said she's diagnosed but doubt so. Can stacies even have the ass burgers?
No. 2381804
>>2381776That is indeed a stupid question. This Stacy can hear electricity.
>>2381796I thought the styling was weird too. Some high schoolers dress cool but they usually just wear jeans and hoodies or school uniforms. Idk what sort of an alternative universe euphoria high is.
No. 2381851
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>>2381846Blue fades to a variety of nice shades before it starts looking like a kool aid job but you would still need to infuse colour. I think if women are going to go for unnatural colours, they should treat it like bleach blonde if they don't want to look like an average 35 year old walmart dweller
No. 2381961
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>>2381941Maybe look at some Studio Ghibli background/interior art?
No. 2382067
>>2381920The book is on audible and there are probably free copies floating around. Nta but I was going to summarize a few points for you but it would probably be meaningless unless you understood the context and her delivery. I honestly think she may be autistic but has a lot of signs of a personality disorder as well. People like Holly but her entire career has been exuding a friendly/approachable persona to the public, on behalf of Playboy. She has a pretty transparent nasty streak and tends to position herself as the
victim, in nearly every situation. She characterizes a lot of events as "bullying" and then later admits she participated just as much as the "aggressor" but refuses to acknowledge her part in that or take accountability. Anons say BPDs lie about having autism, so other than her inability to perceive sarcasm early on in the mansion and doing poorly in social situations at first (but I think anyone would feel out of place coming from Oregon to Hollywood and living in an old man's orgy mansion) I didn't perceive that many signs of her being on the spectrum
No. 2382242
>>2382221dw! its nothing personal
nonnie and very common, the only times it doesnt happen is when either the gc admin forgot o the gc was made between coworkers that get along and usually chat about things not related about work
No. 2382430
>>2382062Traveling IS an ambition. Right now, living a quiet stress free life is also an ambition. You're working towards what makes you happy and gives you the life you want- that doesn't make you any worse than a #girlboss running herself into the ground selling MLM tat or working 3 jobs to buy that Birkin. You don't need a bucket list or an expensive desk with color coded clicky pens to be seen as a productive member of society.
If you're that bothered about answering where you'll be in 10 years make something up about working in a field they don't know shit about. Steal someone else's bucket list. Say it's up to God and you are simply too pious to question His divine plan. Nobody who asks that actually cares about the answer, it's a filler question for people who don't know how to do small talk. You're fine.
>>2382227They become more aware of the bullshit in the movements they championed. Some of them become more crazy, like the old hippies who think that the only true cure to all diseases is essential oils taken via a crystal up the asshole. Some of them just grow up and learn more about the world and change their minds, maybe they had kids or lost their jobs and their experiences completely changed their views. Some of them double down on their opinions, some become significantly less conservative as they age. It depends on the person.
No. 2382446
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Is there a natural way to get rid of itachi eye lines or should I embrace them?
No. 2382476
>>2382173No. But thabks for asking kek
Couldn't find it in the search bar or catelogs. I'll keep digging.
No. 2383239
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If you have curly hair and need to go to the hairdresser to trim your ends, do you ask them to cut your ends bluntly or to taper them?
No. 2383289
>>2383193It's worth a try. Play some loud barking sounds every so often too, if you live in a rough area and think your neighbors might try to break in.
>>2383201Moids really will do anything and everything except act like humans. Maybe install a hidden camera so you can catch them the next time they do it.
No. 2383319
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>>2383316yes! wolfgang amadeus mozart
>t. mozart enthusiast No. 2383335
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Is the original Sims any fun? I saw it was on sale on Steam, I grew up with the console versions on playstation (I know).
No. 2383804
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WHERE THE FUCK can I find white pants that aren't fucking see-through?! It's bizarre that every single pair a try on in a store I can clearly see my panties through, seemingly no matter what color it is. It's driving me insane, surely there must exist white pants that aren't see-through, I mean I've seen men in full white suits before and I couldn't see their ass through it!! Picrel is obviously leggings but I'm talking about thick pants like jeans, I can still often see my panties as clearly as this. Am I supposed to like wear a full set of black/colored leggings under white pants to block out my panties?? Is wanting to wear them "as is" my issue???
No. 2384005
Were the 90s genuinely more fun? Especially when it comes to subcultures, it seemed so. Like, growing up, my idea of a fun college life was based around the kind of stereotypical experience back then.
I didn’t live through it but I can’t help but feel like, from what I can gather, the world just feels much different, no? Like, I was looking up about ICP since I heard a few songs I really liked and I had no clue they had been hated for having such a characteristic fanbase. Obviously they seemed kinda crazy kek but I could never imagine a subculture like that emerging today. So dedicated and different. It’s funny, even though it’s the “norm” and expected to be forward thinking nowadays I feel like people stray from the standard much, much less. I’ve considered myself alternative since middle school in the 2010s but I’m starting to think I never really experienced what it’s actually like to be “alternative” truly in the sense. Even my friends that considered themselves emo etc, heck even being a weeb - I feel like even I witnessed that change once it became mainstream instead of peak cringe. Subcultures are kind of just aesthetics now.
No. 2384093
>>2383642I dated an 18-19 year old at 20-21
he was my most
abusive ex
0/10 would not recommend
No. 2384115
>>2384094>It takes 15 years to become a dental anesthesiologistIs that really how it goes? Honestly, it seems like a lot of time to be a dental anesthesiologist. You might be better off just becoming a dental hygienist and trying to find a good office that pays highly with good benefits.
I know that a lot of people have a "reawakening" in their late 40s and early 50s though and a lot of career switch ups happen around that time, so after working in a dental office for 15 years you might be ready to never look at dental work again. If you really want to do it though, then go for it. It's your life at the end of the day, only you can choose what you want to do.
>It's like I'm starting my life lateDon't worry anon, I was in a cult until I escaped when I was 25 and I had to go do my undergraduate at 27 after getting my GED. It's not a big deal going to college when you're older, in fact I found that professors were more helpful to me than to the 18 year olds because they saw me as hard-working and really passionate about getting my degree. When I was in college, I even knew 40 year olds that were getting their degrees and nobody really batted an eye.
No. 2384251
>>2384240Seconding this, freezing up is a common response and plenty of women do it, it's not your fault. It's a survival tactic. Even if your friend's trying to be 'friendly', she shouldn't be touching you like that without asking if you're ok with it first. Please stay safe from her
nonnie! Your discomfort matters and is
valid even if it's a girl that's hurting you.
No. 2384263
>>2384240I don’t know if I could cut her off. I know it sounds retarded but she is very very important to me, I would rather put up with it and stay friends then stop being friends with her. Circumstances are that this would also be really really messy for certain reasons.
That being said I might confide in one of my friends and/or ask her about it. I’m just wondering if it would be more accurate to call it rape or sexual assault, if anything just for future reference on things like this because I genuinely don’t know what counts as rape, hence why I’m not really looking for advice and I’m asking stupid questions haha. I don’t want to go into detail about my own circumstances because she uses this site lol
No. 2384291
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how do i get salt in my diet when i dont like to salt food?
No. 2384580
>>2384575>narcissistic wut
>and tackyIt depends on your personal style, and imo, most people that make their own clothes and acessories do look like clowns.
No. 2384592
>>2384580>>2384578I just sew the most basic T-shirts and pants that'll keep my body covered
because I'm too talentless to sew anything better or more details kek
No. 2384640
>>2384094You're still going to turn 46 and you're still going to be working at 46. Why not turn 46 and have a job you know you'll love that'll give you lots of money? It doesn't matter that you're starting this path later than most, you're still going to get there.
Stop beating yourself up over not sorting your life out when you were younger and focus on living your life now.
>>2384575What? That's so weird, are they jealous of you? Embrace the tacky narcissism and keep on making clothes for yourself. And get enough self esteem to stop listening to malding talentless speds.
No. 2384678
>>2384668Look if my friend has some obligations after our meeting and it starts getting late, I will remind them of it, not try make them stay longer
That's how normal looks like
No. 2384741
>>2384263>I don’t know if I could cut her off. I know it sounds retarded but she is very very important to me, I would rather put up with it and stay friends then stop being friends with her. Then tell her to stop touching you. If she doesn't… then she is NOT your friend, and never was.
>I’m just wondering if it would be more accurate to call it rape or sexual assault, if anything just for future reference on things like this because I genuinely don’t know what counts as rapeIt varies in law from country to country. Some countries define rape strictly as "penis forced into a vagina" so by that definition a man could never be raped even if another man forces his dick into his butt. In other countries it's defined as "anything sexual that is non-consented and forced upon a person" which of course means both the previous examples are rape. I think broadly if any body part (penis, fingers, any item) or object is forced into you with some kind of sexual context (vagina, butt, mouth) most people would call it a form of rape. If you agreed to one sexual thing, like say you agreed to having sex with a guy using his penis, but the "guy" was secretly a tif woman pretending to be a man and she secretly in the dark put on a strap-on dildo to use on you then that would also be rape because you agreed to have sex with a penis, you did not agree to having an object used on you sexually.
If someone forcefully touches your body with their hands (or other body parts) but it doesn't go inside you it likely falls under physical sexual harassment, touching your breasts or on top of your panties for example.
No. 2385234
>>2385200This can end up doing harm. Those people are coming to your door because they are sent by their church leaders. The church leaders know that non-church people find this annoying and invasive, and so when you act angry or crazy, it reinforced what the church leaders have been telling their congregation: that the outside world is horrible and evil, and they are far safer with the church where they are protected by "God's love". After all, what sane and loving community would react so violently to those trying to spread the word of the lord?
It is better to politely let them know you are uninterested, wish them a good day if you can stand it, and shut your door.
No. 2385360
File: 1738873143185.gif (1.56 MB, 300x100, repulsive.gif)
Who is he?
No. 2385439
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A moid is using pics of me as profile picture on discord, he set a pic of me as profile pic yesterday, used a new pic I posted on a server today and I think he is "using them as a joke" but I don't understand this behaviour because I don't like using people I know as profile pics, I would understand this behaviour if I was a singer or a celeb but why do people do this?
No. 2385454
>>2385439>why do people do this?some people are creepy losers with weird psychopathic mentalities. you are the
victim of this weird psychopath behaviour. he's doing it to creep you out, or to belittle you, or to catfish using your image. this should be a sign to you, a very obvious sign, to stop posting pictures of yourself on the internet. it's 2025. we should all know that posting pictures of ourselves on the internet is dangerous. you should delete all photos of yourself on all social media and messaging platforms promptly, and disengage with this moid immediately.
No. 2385472
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On topic, how do you protect your image and your face online in 2025?
No. 2385513
>>2385446>has nobody else called him out for doing this weird stalker shit??My friend noticed it and got weirded out by his behaviour and says the dude is a loser retard but people on the server just ignore it, but people have beef with him 24/7 on the server because he is a troll
>>2385454>>2385476>this should be a sign to you, a very obvious sign, to stop posting pictures of yourself on the internetyou are both right it's dumb to post pictures of ourselfs online specially on discord since it's full of malicious trolls, even if you post outfit pics people could save them maliciously
>and disengage with this moid immediately.I don't DM him, the worst part of all of this is that he has a girlfriend and she probably thinks he is nice to everyone but he is actually a troll that spends all day being mean to people on that server
>why are you even posting your pics on discord servers let alone ones with moids in themI originally took a pic with a friend and then he posted in a server with that moid and the moid saved and used it, and then he saw a outfit pic I posted on another server and switched the pic for that.
No. 2385630
>>2385567Damn one more thing to add to the "difficulties relating to other women" thread on /g/ kek.
>>2385570I'm in my 30s, I don't know how old you are but most people are settled down by my age, they are technically not dating, but being the only single person at work is pretty telling.
No. 2385703
Hijacking
>>2385562, is it wrong of me to feel offended when people say "Don't worry, we're gonna find someone for you sure enough" or the like when they find out I've never dated? On one hand them thinking I'm single because I have to be and not by choice bothers me, on the other hand I'm thinking it's not that deep and they just say whatever fits best in this situation without thinking too much about it, which makes me being bothered by it kinda cringy lol.
No. 2385711
>>2385703I think it's just them trying to be nice. Pay attention to how you present the fact that you're single, if they notice that you seem a bit down or hesitant about it they might be trying to make you feel 'better.'
Personally, if I was in your shoes, I wouldn't share that I never dated before. It puts a target on your back unnecessarily. You can just say that you're uninterested in relationships at the moment, or you can mention that you enjoy your freedom. Sharing your dating history, or lack thereof, with strangers is passé.
No. 2385714
>>2385703It’s not wrong to feel offended, it
is kind of a presumptuous thing of them to say. They probably mean well enough though and just don’t know what else to say.
No. 2385842
>>2385703It goes without saying that 99% of people think relationships are the be all and end all, and consider it an impossible that someone could be alone and happy without aspiring to find someone.
So on one hand, it's not offensive because they're just projecting something they consider blatantly obvious onto you, on the other hand it makes me see them as NPCs who live and die by their social status.
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How can I get rid of my stupid "hormonal belly"? I want to dress nice but I feel so insecure about my belly.
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Why do British women do such deranged looking makeup? You can literally tell just from a photo if a woman is british or not because she will look like picrel
No. 2386231
>>2385656A bit late (I was sleeping lol) but I just never felt any desire or need to do it, I don't think it would bring anything to my life, also I never met anyone attractive enough to me to want to pursue them. I do t even like calling myself single because it implies that the situation is temporary or that you're still hooking up without being in a LTR.
>>2385719Kek my friends tried to set me up with ugly moids too since I'm the pet autist in group settings so that means I won't complain and I don't deserve anything nice.
No. 2386332
>>2386104KEKKKK that picture is too accurate. Needs more overdone cheek and chin filler though.
>>2386231>my friends tried to set me up with ugly moids tooUgh, same, and they all act like they're doing you a favour. Being openly disgusted and making comments about how you didn't know that was the kind of man your friends found hot does put them off trying to set you up again. Some women (and all moids) can't understand that not everyone needs a pet scrote in their life.
No. 2386369
>>2386358Ew men who are into anime and black metal are
always dysgenic literally no exceptions. Young women are only susceptible because they see a hapsburg ass man with long hair and the long hair cloaks their more offensive flaws. I think a lot of young women would be less riddles with regret if they didn't have longhairedscrote blindness, they're searching for a man who is "different" and only end up embarrassed that they tolerated The Ugliest Man Alive But With Shampood Hair To His Elbows. Also even the most self-proclaimed ACAB liberal ones are hiding nazi-adjacent pasts and have thinly veiled conservitard beliefs.
No. 2386717
>>2386712Just avoid him if you can then. It doesn’t matter if he’s a real honest-to-god narcissist. He doesn’t
have to be for him to be someone you don’t want around.
No. 2386723
>>2386718Good question. I think it depends on the woman. It’s definitely possible to date more than one
abusive/deceitful asshole, in fact if you fall for one you’ll probably fall for another because that’s not an easy pattern to break. But then, there are also people who throw that label around liberally at anyone who doesn’t behave how they want them to.
Moids that do this are almost always the problem though, like 99.98% of the time.
No. 2386730
>>2386723>I think it depends on the woman.One who doesn't threaten to kill herself because the narc/BPD moid threatens to
leave her and isn't engaging in physical violence with the moid or cheating, I think should be the criteria. Anything a male tries to claim outside of that, should be considered reactive abuse imo
>Moids that do this are almost always the problem though, like 99.98% of the time.Agreed
No. 2386767
>>2386754It's more about them being hollow and having no core personality like anon says
>>2386683 This is why they cheat in the first place and can never be satisfied. That's why its so easy to identify female BPDs and narcs, since women aren't usually like that
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>>2386791and the rare/few women who are able to actually be self-serving like a moid are still nowhere near as pathological or delusional about it
No. 2386861
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Why are so many costhots in tech? Isn’t having public nudes a career nightmare for them?
No. 2386865
>>2386831It depends on how badly you need cash, but if you're considering it, you're normally in a bag enough place that it's worth it.
It does hurt, but not very much. Some people are just freaked out by the sensation of the needle being in your arm.
Plasma is worth way more than blood.
No. 2386907
>>2386892plus all their whining about "high maintenance" women. i think they're only into sexualized versions of femininity, and also women who are both feminine and have the same interests as them at the same time (like that 2000s character trope of girls who eat a bunch of junk food and burp a lot but still maintain a conventional figure at the same time, like a stacy who's "one of the guys" or the cool girl trope).
they're not into over-the-top girly portrayals like lolita fashion unless they're weebs, but even then they still want a sexual version
No. 2386936
>>2386892They only like femininity through the lens of subservience to them.
Cooking stuff they like? Sure.
Cooking stuff from her own background or for her own tastes? "Bitch, make me nuggies!!"
Cleaning up after them? Sure.
Complaining that the moid is being messy and disrupting her standards of cleanliness? "Naggy bitch. Men are less visual wah wah!"
Dressing up in clothes and makeup that they or so they can show off to their friend moids? Sure.
Dressing up in clothes and makeup that she likes? Dressing up for events where other men unfamiliar to them may be in attendance, even if it's like a career fair or something? "Whore."
(unintegrated posting style) No. 2386981
>>2386910Nta but how come they consider the Instagram bombshell Stacy’s to be top-tier then? Are we saying that they don’t actually want to be in a relationship with these women? Because I find that while most men end up with above-average/average women, they end up thirsting after those unobtainable filler-faced IG women anyways.
Now I am supremely curious what happens if those IG women actually give them a chance KEK…
No. 2386997
>>2386981This is sort of psychoanalytical, but people don't actually want to
be happy, they want to always be searching
for happiness. These moids idealize women that don't exist or that they'll never meet because they really only want what they can never have.
No. 2387007
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havent seen the movie, whats the context when someone replies to something with picrel?
No. 2387014
>>2386981>what happens if they get themThey still cheat on them with other women. Just look at how Madison Beer , Adriana Lima,Beyonce, Shakira etc got cheated on.
Once men get the "objects" they want they end up becoming bored of it fast and discarding it. That's why you see so many Instagram models and influencers be in relationships where they are constantly getting cheated on. Being pretty will not stop a moid from discarding you unfortunately.
No. 2387036
>>2387011That’s not what the image means when it’s used in most contexts.
In the scene, a British spy is pretending to be German. He orders three drinks and raises three fingers the British/American way (index, middle, and ring fingers up) and that’s what gives him away. Germans raise the thumb, index, and middle finger; so the German officer immediately knows the Brit is an imposter.
It’s used as a meme to imply that someone is pretending to be something they’re not, and a little detail is giving them away. Like if someone online is pretending to be American to make a point and says like “well
I’m American and none of my friends in uni ever did blah blah blah”
Americans don’t say uni, they say college.
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>>2387032It's an anon projecting. A lot of women have had useless stoner boyfriends who become their illegitimate, unemployed sons
>>2387034picrel
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damn I can’t believe I fell for a troll on this friday afternoon. I need to go for a walk
No. 2387089
File: 1738962910252.jpg (2.21 MB, 2400x1650, cookie.jpg)
>>2387085Here, have this cookie. I baked it with 1000 mg of THC sourced from the Gorilla Glue x Pink Kush strain.
No. 2387097
>>2387089You're the one who can't elaborate on your own opinions without calling people crazy, angry or
triggered. Maybe it would be good for you?
No. 2387110
>>2387070>>2387085>>2387070I think she has a chip on her shoulder kek. One anon made a joke, another anon called her silly, and now that makes three anons melting down and projecting.
>"you retarded addicts are so hurt by my post, you're melting down and projecting!!"Like damn I think she'd feel better if she took an edible, but alas, we are but developmentally stunted weedtards who ruin everything by being silly and also asking questions on her humble basket weaving forum. I don't even use.
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Is squirting real and not just a porn thing?
No. 2387132
>>2387126I guess I've just taken too many beatings from my violent and aggressive stoner husband. He should be home soon but i think he's out smoking the weekly wages again
What will we feed the children
No. 2387139
>>2387132Praying for you, nona. In these troubled times, I beg and plead for my foul weed addicted scrote to save what measly filters he has leftover, and this carries the children through til morning.
Mayhaps you might ask the same of yours?
No. 2387172
>>2387157okay grandpa i won't knock on your door again.
>>2387167you know what, i respect the hustle that i won't even be calling out the blatant self-promo you did. It looks interesting.
(integrate/scrotefoiling) No. 2387219
>>2387209i just asked a stupid question in the stupid questions thread, if there is anyone here who needs to integrate it's you. You seem mentally unstable. Also far from a newfag btw.
>>2387210they're one of the resident infighters, there are certain unstable anons here who hate anything that doesn't have to do with their shitty bait or unpopular opinions so they spend their time infighting on random threads to pass their sad time away.
>>2387216Jfc you autist, do you think the all-caps was serious. Go outside i fucking beg, you mini-mod.
(infighting) No. 2387230
>>2387224anon idgaf I've been here since 2018 and sometimes i take breaks. Why are we getting this mad over something as silly as asking about a disney game?
>>2387226OH NO they asked about a game and it was in caps and they pressed enter oh what will we do we must report. KEK i can tell you are the real newfag because back in the day retards like you used to get banned by the farmhands all the time for infighting and mini-modding when the rules were stricter. If you want to talk about rules then follow them yourself, unstable autist.
(integrate) No. 2387237
>>2387228Maybe these are the kinds of reports that make their job tedious
I made an error and deleted my first post. I hope you guys got a chance to report it first
No. 2387239
>>2387238Maybe that anon left a little trap to prove
you are the neurotic one. Maybe that anon was me kek
No. 2387240
>>2387128Damn, sorry, nona. I totally missed you.
Yes, squirting is real, but it is often exaggerated in porn. Many woman will use piss instead to make it visible or for the "big finish" shot if it is for a video specifically focusing on a squirting fetish.
>inb4 isn't piss yellowYes, but if you drink a bunch of water in a short period of time, you can piss clear. It's what we call overhydration in normal circumstances.
No. 2387262
>>2387238ok i gave you the attention you crave so i think that's enough replies for you, you can go and infight in another thread or you can continue it with another anon. Don't worry i won't be asking about video games anymore in all caps since that clearly makes you veeery upset, and anons make sure to monitor each word you write and your grammar before posting from now on, you wouldn't like to make the resident mini-mod mad.
>>2387249i wish i didn't read this…
(ban evasion/infighting) No. 2387556
>>2387291Jesus, thats more than I anticipated, how insane.
>>2387298Crazy, I guess people don't usually ingest that much blue dye at a time to affect it and that's why I've never heard of it being a thing. Can't believe I'm burdened with this awful knowledge now.
No. 2387565
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>>2387554Nta but clit stimulation was worked for me but it should be possible if you can orgasm from PIV as well. The liquid isn't watery, it's slimy
>The Bartholin's glands are two pea-sized compound alveolar glands located slightly posterior and to the left and right of the opening of the vagina. They secrete mucus to lubricate the vagina. They are homologous to bulbourethral glands in males. No. 2387566
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>>2387565samefag bulbourethral glands,
it's why cum is slimy as well, otherwise it would be mostly watery No. 2387579
>>2387558>>2387565Damn wtf am I just retarded then? Skill issue? I pretty much only use clitoral stimulation. Do you have to keep going post orgasm or what.
>>2387574But don't piss kink people piss themselves during sex. How would they pull that off if you can't pee while being sexually stimulated?
No. 2387586
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>>2387574That's interesting anon, it's hard for me to pee after I orgasm while muscles are still contracting but I can't remember trying to pee while sexually stimulated.
Maybe there an anon who enjoys urinating on scrotes can offer some insight?
>>2387579It only happens if I'm really turned on or aroused tbh, like in the honeymoon phase with an untainted moid
No. 2387772
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I hope this doesn't cause an infight like the last time this topic was mentioned. Apologies if it does, but is pic related actually true? /g/ feels like another planet sometimes compared to the sex posts here
t. virgin
No. 2387776
>>2387772Certain sex acts will produce different sensations for every woman. Some will like when their cervix is being prodded, many will hate it. For some only their anterior fornix will produce a pleasurable feeling, for others it will do nothing.
It all depends on the woman, and dorks militant in arguing otherwise just want to infight kek
No. 2387778
>>2387772for me personally it sometimes feels good but it's all just person to person really,
>>2387776 summed it up pretty well
No. 2387792
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Do men cut or is it a girl's only club?
No. 2387801
>>2387792I've had a male server show me and my colleague his scarred arms totally unprompted. There was no healthy tissue on his upper arms, it was all scary tissue.
We just wanted a relaxing coffee break from work…
No. 2387803
>>2387801meant to say scar tissue
though it was scary kek
No. 2387882
>>2387881I'd say it's normal to feel like that when
any obviously mentally ill person is in the room, it's not nice to admit but it's true.
No. 2387990
>>2387792My stupid question is why people cut. Maybe I'm unempathetic but I just don't understand, can someone explain the psychological reasoning behind it?
I understand those who cut for attention but there's also those who cut whenever they feel depressed and hide it etc. Why would you want to feel more pain? When I'm depressed I try to get better, isn't it a survival instinct to get better? What does the pain of cutting skin do when it has nothing to do with the mental pain?
I'm not trying to be judgemental I just never have understood it.
No. 2388006
>>2387990Pain releases endorphins and is a distraction that doing typical happy things doesn't have the same effect or something.
>What does the pain of cutting skin do when it has nothing to do with the mental pain?Take gym bros who got their hearts broken by a girl who ghosted them kek. They exercise their bodies to the point of self harm and embrace the pain. Again my first point about pain releasing neurochemicals. Working out doesn't have anything to do directly with their mental pain, either, but they do it. I think it's generally a physical pain distracting mental pain thing. I never cut to cope though and did other stuff so ymmv
No. 2388018
>>2387990One time I tried nicking myself with a carving knife to see what the hype was all about. Seeing the blood bloom out was kind of just curiosity for me, but I understood it a little, the little bit of pain felt kinda focusing? It's probably the same vein as mundane stuff like stretching or fisting your hands or anything small and physical to focus and feel more awake or something
The pain probably feels good to them after a while judging by how some say it's addictive. I've heard that there's the lower self esteem kinds who hate their bodies and feel good mutilating them, and then there's the ones who just wanna see blood. Like the first reply it's also a pain distraction thing.
No. 2388313
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Why are people so annoying? Why can't they just leave my retard ass alone? I don't understand how, even though I try hard not to interact or engage with certain people, they still somehow end up judging me or trying to talk to me when it's obvious we have nothing in common. Do people actually realize there's someone who clearly they will hate and still, decide to talk to them.
No. 2388315
>>2388313>Do people actually realize there's someone who clearly they will hate and still, decide to talk to them.Tbh yeah sometimes I talk to people that I know dislike me just to piss them off and ruin their day. It gives me a sort of power high. It's like, "yeah, you hate me, but you
still have to entertain my drivel, haha societal expectations."
No. 2388927
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There's no Ikea where I live and never been to one. Are the things there good quality?
No. 2388987
I don’t know if this is more of a philosophical or scientific question, but I believe a stupid one nonetheless since most people can grasp it and I cannot.
How are we separate from our brains? The things that allow us to feel, perceive things, act, create? If we are not our brains, where do we follow morals and values, why listen to it? I was reading into mental health tools and they describe the science behind it, but I still cant understand how someone is not their brain. What are we without it? And people say listen to your heart or spirit but how do you hear it? They say good or bad doesn’t exist, technically, but then if you aren’t your brain, something that can decide what is good and bad to you, can’t you just do whatever carelessly, because your brain is not you?
No. 2389070
>>2389054Super close but I think this is the worst shit I'd tell her yet kek, it's not like she'd stop being my friend but she'll never let it go and tease me a lot.
I'm worried if she accidentally let's it slip as well even if she never did before.
No. 2389086
>>2389070In that case, just wait. You can always tell her later, but you can't take back a secret.
I'm sure a similar topic will come up later, so if she brings up another historyfag on the internet, just mention you think it's interesting and you're not really bothered. Then if she mocks them, you'll know you were right not to tell her. If she agrees, you'll know you might be able to tell her in the future.
No. 2389180
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What's the best way to hand wash clothes with tags that say hand wash only? Should I just put them in the tub with detergent or is there other stuff I have to do?
No. 2389193
>>2389180When I handwash stuff, I put it in a bucket and swish it around using my hands and normal laundry detergent. For stuff like bras, there are special bra specific soaps/detergents you can look into. You won't need as much detergent as usual since it is so few articles of clothing.
Try not to wring your hand wash items, that can strain and warp the fabric. I will gently press the item between my hands over the bucket, and then use a bath towel to press more water out afterwards, then hang dry.
I only just started handwashing my things, so hopefully a more experienced anon can give advice, too.
No. 2389719
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Okay I just learned that some intersex people can still do things like get pregnant and produce sperm, so here's my question: if a "woman" is born with a penis and balls, doesn't that just make "her" a fucking man?
No. 2390071
>>2389824Oh no I didn't mean
at the same time. I'm just a bit surprised at some intersex people having the ability to reproduce at all. I'm used to hearing about them being sterile. I'm just confused at supposed "women" who apparently have male body parts. Would the person just be a guy at that point? And how is intersex an outdated term? What the hell do we call them then if we can't even say "hermaphrodite" anymore?
No. 2390135
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How many drinks does it take to shit yourself? I know alcohol tolerance depends on the person, but like how do you let yourself get that fucked up? Like what stage of drunkenness does that follow?
No. 2390145
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What kinda body type is this so I can look it up please. Please don't be annoying and mean to me for liking it. Idgaf. I try thick but it's not what I'm looking for. I don't like roided out fatties or just regular fatties or skellies. I just want to see strong with some fat.
No. 2390155
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>>2390150Nah this is your average fat moid kek
No. 2390156
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Another pic, a little more toned but similar idea
>>2390150Average fat moid doesn't have the muscle
>>2390151I wouldn't say Dad bod persay
>>2390152Maybe this but how would you search that kek
No. 2390171
File: 1739109005398.png (1.38 MB, 1800x1052, no ai ban plox.png)
>>2390157decided to search it out of curiosity and got this monstrosity
No. 2390367
>>2390363I’m just thinking of the straight women who don’t though, like the one’s whose ideal male is Leonardo Dicaprio. I literally know a skinny girl that looks like him.
Like I don’t mean actually wanting to have sex with them - if they’re straight they like dick and the bodies just look completely different under the clothes. But like I would at least think you’d get a little nervous or something, if the face is close to that of your ideal guy (and probably more common)
No. 2390398
>>2390367it's hard to explain but masculine women don't have the same essence/energy that males have. the eyes are a tad too big, body is slimmer and smaller than it "should" be, behavior is prosocial and feminine, etc. women attraction is more than just looking at the face.
also a lot of butch/tifs look and act like gay men, which is not attractive to straight women
No. 2390512
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>>2390367I mean, I'm straight exactly because I know that no matter how hard a woman tries to photoshop or make herself look like a moid, she will always have way too feminine features plus a female build that will be a turn off.
I noticed this when I saw a really good cosplayer of a love and deepspace guy, I thought "Wow literally like the guy" But then she was posing with a girl and the whole illusion died completely, I felt the same looking at those
>friends that help with your delusionsOr something like that, and while it's sweet, I still cringed at the idea of a girl cosplaying a hot guy just by the height itself, the build and the face structure.
No. 2390561
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How long does it take to get used to working 12+ hour days 5 (or 6) days a week?
No. 2390595
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>>2390569>>2390570>>2390568Law student starting my mandatory 2 year internship in a big law firm. Since it's an internship I'm also paid below minimum wage. I really need tips on getting used to it. Have been working on my mental health full time with therapy for the last year to prepare, but it doesn't feel enough.
No. 2390605
>>2390566No, it's a comparison of a random female cosplayer (if you can't notice the difference, it's the one on the left) and a male cosplayer of the same character (the one that's on the right).
The female cosplayer is trying really hard but she doesn't have the same build or height of the male cosplayer. Sure he's not showing his face but at least he knows he needs to cover it.
No. 2390631
>>2390621Then ask the women that do that why they do that, anon literally said that she never crosses boundaries with lesbians.
I particularly even avoid being too friendly with lesbians (as in hugging for too long, holding hands, hugging their arm) because I somehow see them the same way I see moids but somehow even worse(?) because most of the times, a lesbian will ignore how ugly you are and will like you a lot or straight up fall in love with you because they have souls and such.
It's awkward.
No. 2390671
>>2390631>>2390465I thought "straight women seeing lesbians as predatory" was some moid projection meme but you guys actually think that?? The fuck??
It's like you guys are forgetting they're women too and experience the same unwanted sexual shit from scrotes.
They of all people would be the last one to to hide in the bushes and rape you, be for real
No. 2390687
>>2390671I'm not saying they're predatory, I'm saying that they fall in love too quickly specially if you're friendly with them in the same way you're friendly with your straight friends.
That means you have to awkwardly explain to her that you weren't flirting when you were holding her hand or something like that, which means nothing when you do it with another straight woman, but to a lesbian woman that's flirting.
So then you have to break a friendship because of retarded shit like your friend catching feelings for you because you couldn't be more considerate and keep some polite distance.
No. 2390695
>>2390690But men will view you through a sexual lens no matter what you're doing kek
>>2390687Why would you "break" the friendship? Just tell her you're not interested, take some time apart, and then hang out again. You're doing too much.
No. 2390703
>>2390688Deserve what?
>>2390695Idk nonna, it's just how it is, things get awkward when someone catches feelings, I also break any friendships with any moid in which I'm not interested that catches feelings.
At this point you're asking questions because you want to get a dose of rage. Of course no one is going to write what you want to read.
No. 2390719
>>2390703That was my first post on this topic. Not everyone who has a different opinion than you is the same anon. You also don't know what I "want", mostly because I don't "want" to read anything. I know I'm talking to human beings, not ChatGPT.
>>2390705I think it's because they can relate to bisexual women based on moid attraction, but can't relate to lesbians at all because they are completely lacking attraction to women? Not sure, maybe another anon with more insight can weigh in.
No. 2390729
>>2390716Can you imagine a life with him? Do you want to grow old and fantasize about a domestic life with him?
If not, then it's most likely your pussy beating—not your heart.
No. 2390730
>>2390703I’ve always been scared of being friends with straight women because I’m scared of how they’d view me. I thought my fears were unfounded or me being insecure but I know they change in behaviour when they find out. Some questions from me to you and the others here, out of curiosity, you don’t have to answe them all:
>could you be friends with a lesbian?>can you usually tell if someone is bisexual or lesbian? if you were unaware would you rather not be told?>would you prefer to not be in changing rooms with lesbians and/or bisexuals?>do you treat lesbians the same as straight men, or are there differences? do you treat bisexuals the same or different? how does it differ from other straight women?>would you feel as uncomfortable in a vulnerable situation with a lesbian as you would a man?>>2390719But the point being brought up is that they feel uncomfortable with other women’s sexual attraction to women.
No. 2390768
>>2390730>could you be friends with a lesbian?I have lesbian friends and family members, with my family members I'm just normal and hug them and such because I'm an affectionate person, with my friends I keep a polite physical distance.
>can you usually tell if someone is bisexual or lesbian? if you were unaware would you rather not be told?I don't notice unless they tell me so, the only bi woman I know makes sure to tell me that's she's bi as much as possible.
>would you prefer to not be in changing rooms with lesbians and/or bisexuals?That's a weird question, they're women, it's not a big deal, plus I'm not going around asking them if I'm their type and shit to feel self-conscious.
>do you treat lesbians the same as straight men, or are there differences? do you treat bisexuals the same or different? how does it differ from other straight women?I'm just polite with lesbians and moids, the bisexual woman I know is just a friend that I'm not too close to, so it's whatever, if anything she ships me with my best friend and we both get annoyed by that but it's whatever as long as she doesn't say anything retarded in front of our family members.
Actually, a friend of mine has a girlfriend and I keep a distance from them so they don't think I'm flirting (which is the right thing to do when you're friends with any couples) but like, they come to my house to hangout, we have sleepovers, they're just another pair of friends.
With my straight friends I hold hands, I cuddle with them while watching the tv or reading, we lean on each other and such.
With moids I don't sit close to them and avoid being close to them in general, specially if they're taller than me.
>would you feel as uncomfortable in a vulnerable situation with a lesbian as you would a man?What do you mean by vulnerable? As in, crying because of the death of someone? I don't mind when I'm around my lesbian friends, I dont cry in front of moids, or in a sense of being hurt physically? I would be wary around moids but I would feel comfortable knowing if a lesbian is around because she would have more empathy towards me.
Like, it's just about having common sense, I make lots of emphasis on not being too physical because I had friend circles that were destroyed in high-school because one of the lesbian girls of the group would think everyone was flirting with her and she would spread rumors about you dating her or being into her, which made people ask you retarded questions, also her girlfriend of the week would ignore you and be rude towards you because she thought you were into her girlfriend, and it made the friend groups get tense in the most obnoxious of ways.
No. 2390772
>>2390758Not to sound like a narcissist but I’m a solid 9/10 Stacy. I’ve had blockhead fucking ugly women imply that I’m attracted to them or even worse would fucking assault them. I swear to god it makes me want to make their life hell for the rest of the time they know me. Not even ugly moids want you, why do you think I would? Do they have their heads up their asses? They are so genuinely retarded that they think women are going to want to fuck anything like rapeapes do. And of course they’ll give the rapeapes more grace too.
I’m going to start telling them exactly how ugly they are and list every fucked up feature they have.
No. 2390784
>>2390765if you're not straight, why are you hypothesising upon the reasons straight women don't like being around lesbians? and straight women do see each other in sexual lights, because we live in a society that asks women to do that. but in normal healthy adult friendships between women, regardless of orientation, this usually isn't the dealbreaker you're acting like it is
realistically, the reason a lot of straight women don't like being around lesbians is because they view lesbians as failed women, that's it. and this will change depending on what stage of life you and your peers are at. people are preparing for marriage or kids and, unless you're really on track for that kind of stuff within an ssa relationship, you naturally fall out of the circles (and the same goes for straight-but-perpetually-single women). my experiences navigating adulthood as a lesbian and befriending mostly straight women has been built off navigating that problem alone - but rarely does a friendship in your 20s survive any orientation or gender if the people involved are, i guess, only ever in situations that could make one or the other thing 'omg, maybe they want to fuck me!'
No. 2391064
>>2391051A penpal is typically someone you exchange physical handwritten letters with through your postal service. Younger kids could typically get penpals when going to camps, they would continue writing whoever they met after the camp was finished. As an adult, you join groups to find penpals and they are typically strangers you get to know through the letters you exchange.
Anons with penpals, feel free to add on or correct me!
No. 2391221
>>2391090Everything nowadays is all about parasocial relationships with people. So if you don't engage with that parasocial scheme, then you end up hated and forgotten because how dare you not want to talk with gravel (they/he/grass/any pronouns) so you can give her a very detailed in-depth explanation with autism and DID friendly language about your creative process when you draw pictures of cute anime boys looking cute and doing cute things, and how dare you not explain to everyone how you like to sit and grab your tools before you do anything, also, don't forget to post pictures of your a e s t h e t i c home and your meals because everyone will get soo worried about your health.
Doing anything online is so exhausting, you kind of have to be desperate for money or already an attention whore/cow if you can keep up with the trends, with the people's ever moving (constantly rotting) views on things and the whims of of the same people that will want to talk to you about their loves and shit so you can become their next idol/Goddess.
No. 2391581
>>2391571Basically women were talking about how women are overly sexualized in video games, moids became extremely offended over grills criticizing muh vidya and it became their cross to bear because they have literally no real problems
>>2391579Damn I didn't know it was a personal thing too, doesn't shock me though. Men are petty as fuck
No. 2391590
>>2391581As someone who was there for (and unfortunately at the time agreed with) gamergate yeah it was all spurned from a personal jilted conflict. The meme was “five guys burgers and fries” because he accused her of fucking five guys behind his back based off her not showing him her phone. He also accused her of sleeping with them for positive press coverage even though this coverage was in no name indie blogs written by her friends. Also leaked her nudes cause of course he did.
Looking back it’s just hilarious proof of men being the truly dramatic and petty ones.
No. 2391722
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How normal is it to be attracted to guys who remind you of your dad? Asking for a friend
No. 2391757
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>>2391744This sounds like something you should ask a therapist to fix
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>>2391744No you don't. You like Sylus from love and deepspace now.
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>>2391804Colonize what the penguins?
No. 2392191
>>2391840Well, I personally didn't need a pelvic exam for ovarian cysts. They did both kinds of ultrasounds to identify mine. I insisted on getting a pap smear, and then she did a pelvic exam for an unrelated issue a few months later.
As long as your obgyn is female, I don't see an issue with asking for a pelvic exam "to exclude other possible reasons" for the pain. Just make sure you wash up before your appointment, don't douche.
No. 2392200
>>2392188I don't understand Ameritard race terms, but his wiki page says he was born in Chile to Chilean parents if I'm not mistaken. So he's latino. Ameritards think you can't be
POC if you're from a nonn-white ethnicity with light skin for some reason. To them,
POC means brown or black skin only. I even saw people acting like Chinese, Korean and Japanese characters in shows aren't
POC representation because they're not brown or black. They're taking the term too literally.
No. 2392207
>>2392200It's because there are so many different races in America, they default to "ethnicity" for deciding race hierarchy. Both sides of Pascal's family are Basque/French, and his mother's side is also Spanish, which are European ethnic groups.
But ultimately
>>2392198 and also what you said kek. He's not white to Americans, especially the majority who don't run to wikipedia to look up the minutiae of someone's family tree before deciding to stan them on twitter
No. 2392209
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>>2392188EG. pic rel
Thank you for your takes nonnies!
No. 2392257
>>2391722More normal than a lot of people would like to admit. Our parents (or the people that raise us) are our "blueprint" for what love looks like. We're often called back to this in odd ways later in life. That's why it's important to be raised in a household where your parents are kind to one another and in a healthy and functional relationship, because it'll enable you to have better romantic relationships in your adult life by recalling what you experienced by proxy as a child. This sort of attraction is very unconscious, most people won't even realize it and they'll get uncomfortable when you discuss it. This is also why Freud is clowned on so much for discussing this factor; people are sometimes ashamed of it, so they want to hide that shame and they do so by attacking the one that brought it to their attention.
I recall a study done in Sweden some time ago where they invited fathers and daughters into the lab. The researchers divided the two and ranked the fathers based on the amount of chest hair they had. They then showed pictures of men to the daughters and asked them to rank how attractive they were. The daughters of hairy fathers ranked hairy men more attractive than hairless men, and then daughters of hairless men ranked hairless men as more attractive than hairy men.
Another more example: one of my exes used to go crazy for the smell of my favorite perfume, it was one of the things that initially drew him to me. When I went to meet his parents for the first time, his mother instantly recognized the perfume as the one she had worn in her son's early childhood.
Nobody is looking at their mother or father and thinking, "now
this is who I want to be in a relationship with:" instead, this attraction is wholly unconscious and relies on schemata formed in the early childhood, it is founded on the intense love felt between parents and child and it's a reflection of the profundity of that bond. For this reason, it's more to do with feelings rather than appearance. So, in the case of my ex-boyfriend, it wasn't so much that he actually
liked the smell of my perfume, it was that when he smelled it there was an unconscious part of him that remembered smelling that scent as a young boy when his mother would comfort him, and those latent feelings of comfort, security, and familiarity is what drew him back to the scent.
No. 2392472
>>2392311>How do you then explain it when people are attracted to the exact opposite of what their parents are?The opposite of who your parents are is still who your parents are. It's a very psychoanalytic concept.
>Could that have turned me off completely from dating?Experiencing a turbulent relationship by proxy as a child, especially a parental relationship, can be very damaging to the psyche. It will leave you with certain wounds that may make pursuing romantic relationships of your own as an adult much more difficult. These wounds will fester until you heal them, and you heal them through direct confrontation and acceptance which can be done through self-work and guided psychotherapy. If you haven't already, you should read
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment by Levine & Heller, it's a great resource for people that struggle with romantic relationships.
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>>2392485These countries have claims on the Antarctica, so maybe a mix of them. I'd imagine the flora and fauna would resemble New Zealand. Lotta birbs.
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>>2392505For reasons I can't really explain I felt compelled to rank the flags in your picrel.
No. 2392537
>>2392529Don't you ever speak on my religion ever again. Have you walked in my boots? No. Have you lived my life? No. You have no right over me. You have no right to speak to me. I am going to heaven when I die to be with my best friends and if you think you can stop me, you're wrong. You can't belittle me, because I'm a Christian and I have faith in Jesus and through that undying faith my spirit WILL be saved and I WILL live in Heaven forever with my friends. You can't destroy me. You can't destroy my spirit. So don't even try.
>>2392528I don't give a damn about French people so dolphins are irrelevant to this conversation.
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is it ethically ok to take photo like pic related? i don't photograph people inside their homes, i just find it very pretty and visually pleasing when people have pretty potted plants on their windows but i'm not sure if it's too intrusive photographing random people's windows
No. 2392579
>>2392544>It's dangerous advice to give.With all due respect, if you don't know what you're talking about, then don't cast judgements.
>someone who is supposedly mentally unwellJust because someone has difficulty with romantic relationships does not mean they are mentally unwell. I never said this and that's a stupid thing to say.
>Tell them to fix their issues with getting into relationships they don't even want.I never said that she should get into a relationship. I said that if she experienced a difficult parental relationship as a child, it might create issues with forming romantic relationships as an adult. Nobody can make anybody do anything, I don't have the power over anyone to make them do something that they don't want to do.
>Isn't the whole attachment theory thing debunked or pseudoscience or something?No. Attachment styles are a real measurable psychological phenomenon. There is a lot of literature regarding attachment styles that you can read about in appropriate journals. The book I mentioned earlier is a great introduction to understanding attachment styles: how they are formed in infancy, how they can be changed in adulthood, and how they impact our lives. I recommend that book to everyone because it's very illuminating. Attachment styles and attachment theory at large is clinical psychology, it's been the dominant approach to understanding social development for decades now.
When we discuss psychology, it's important to remember that there is "popular psychology" and "clinical psychology." Popular psychology is a grift, it's a scam, it's not related to science, or theory, or research. It's important to understand the distinction between the two so that you avoid being tricked, or confused.
No. 2392592
>>2392585I disagree with you. Love languages were invented by a Christian life-coach for his self-help book. Attachment theory was developed by clinical psychologists through decades of research and study. I think they are very different things, and comparing them is like comparing apples and oranges.
I do agree with you though that attachment theory tends to be misunderstood, simplified, and then weaponized by a certain type of people. These people are often the same ones that endorse irrelevant pop. psych. buzzwords and disseminate their disinformation through social media platforms.
No. 2392841
>>2392809Yes, eat less calories. Protein and vegetables mainly
>how do they get it back?Eat more calories, carb heavy foods.
No. 2392860
>>2392841were you being witty here
nonnie? fuck maybe i take things too seriously
No. 2392864
>>2392856>>2392858My bad
>>2392809Probably, wit is a trait but also something that needs to be kept sharp. If you stopped reading books, putting yourself in social situations, lost your sense of humor, cared too much about what people think, etc…, you would probably lose your wit. Also if you had some sort of disease that affects cognitive ability (e.g. alzheimers) that would of course impact your wit.
No. 2392901
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Guys is this normal or am I cooked
No. 2392980
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did anyone else ever think the swiftologist was a tif?
No. 2392986
>>2391722I am repulsed by men who remind me of my dad in looks or personality, even though he's considered conventionally attractive by a lot of women. He looks a lot like if Tom Hiddleston went through a chadifier filter. But even still, I feel straight up revulsion for men who look like him.
However I have always thought my mother was beautiful, especially her body type. I was always so upset I didn't inherit it. People do compliment my body type a lot too
(never my face though bc i am ugly as fuck) but I don't like it because it's not my mom's. She's the pinnacle of female form to me. I saw a picture of her in a swimsuit in a photo album, and I was just in awe of how beautiful she was. She hates her body type though and thinks she's hulking and mannish (she is NOT.) Is that weird?
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Has anyone actually made a successful friendship through the friend finder thread? I'm dying to post on it but I'm scared of being contacted by trannies.
No. 2393117
>>2393107>>2393111I guess I get that. I just feel like loneliness is a big deal, it's really an awful feeling, and people deal with it their whole lives sometimes. When I was at my most lonely, I was desperate enough to talk to the people around me about any number of mundane things, like dogs, cooking, driving … and finding common ground out of total desperation. I think when you stop expecting people to understand you on a deep personal level and decide to settle for a more basic level, you're suddenly not lonely anymore.
>>2393113Whoa, anon, you just kind of spoke my developing theory out loud. I mostly agree with your answer. I for one didn't bond with people because I thought most people were "dumber" than me. And didn't "get" me. It's hard to explain but when I let go of that, life got so much easier.
No. 2393130
>>2393117Nta but I relate to you a lot. I also absorbed lethal dosages of internet poisoning when I was younger which made me kind of alienate myself, like I was some bizarre creature as opposed to all the people I knew in real life.
>I think when you stop expecting people to understand you on a deep personal level and decide to settle for a more basic level, you're suddenly not lonely anymore.Yes. I've found people that I think do understand me on a deep personal level too, but at the same time the loneliness has not gone away. It was like for a long time I was thinking that someone truly understanding me would fix me, but in reality I was not that difficult to understand.
>>2393121I think you're right too. Idk how to shake off the feeling of fear though. Sometimes I feel like people can see something strange or off about me painted on my face. I think I just have to keep trying.
No. 2393134
>>2393130Well now I'm super curious because how would you answer this anon's question?
>>2393115>I've found people that I think do understand me on a deep personal level too, but at the same time the loneliness has not gone awayYou seem to have personal connections, but
you still feel lonely? That's kinda fascinating. I'm still not sure how I'd define loneliness either at this point.
No. 2393144
>>2393130>Sometimes I feel like people can see something strange or off about me painted on my face.This is so much easier said than done, but this thinking is what gets in your way and it needs to stop. In a way you'll be making your fears real by worrying about them. Those thoughts aren't true to reality, and if you get an awkward vibe from someone chances are in that moment they are feeling just as insecure as you are, probably wondering what
they are doing strangely. I got a little brave a while back and started bringing up when I felt weird and asked the other person what they thought and every single time the other person said, no no no you're fine I thought I was being weird!
No. 2393148
>>2393140Yeah, I think I meant it as not this super easy solution, but it was a bit of a generalization. More like finding the right gateways to start talking to people if you feel isolated. A convo about random things can lead to a deeper bond. For those who are confused about where to start, they might try something boring or whatever, instead of trying to jump straight into deep stuff. Idk.
Serious mental issues are another story, and I don't really know how to discuss that anecdotally because I'd be talking about something I don't actually know about. I do feel SO bad for people whose issues prevent them from enjoying being a social creature. It really must suck. And no amount of advice is going to help if someone can't socialize because of serious illness.
No. 2393149
>>2393140>You expect people to lower their standards and resign themselves to a life where no one cares for them enoughNta but I am
>>2393113 and I still agree with what you're saying. Personally my point isn't that people shouldn't try and understand each other on a deeper level, rather that everyone's emotional and social issues are complex and you shouldn't expect people
not to understand. And let's face it anon, almost everyone has some sort of mood disorder or personality disorder in times like these. Some are milder than others of course, but no one is ever truly alone in their problems.
No. 2393152
>>2393105Idk, i am torn because i am autistic and have a schizoid like personality that makes me predisposition to being alone. I can't blame the internet for this, i am naturally like this. I've never made a single irl friend organically, in school teachers would force me to hang out with people because they were trying to teach me that i need social skills, but all i got from it was that being alone = bad. Fast forward to now, I've been isolating myself for almost a decade because i feel too ashamed to try and make friends and just presume i will always be seen as gross. I've also had horrible experiences with people who were awful to me because unfortunately i am autistic, so people find me off putting and weird, but i am not self aware enough to fix this or truly understand what i look like in their eyes, which led to me becoming paranoid and feeling like being alone forever is the best way to avoid being hurt by people. A part of me honestly doesn't give a shit about having no friends, but also there are certain activities and things i'd like to do that require me to interact with others. I've tried looking for social skills training, but almost all of it is for children and i got diagnosed with autism as an adult because my parents thought it would go away when I became an adult. At the least, i've made some good acquaintances through the friend finder thread. I just think you don't understand how narrow the pool of potential friends is for a lot of people. I've had to experience a lot of disrespect from people who could sense my desperate energy to seem normal and fit in or people just be callously horrible to me and say nasty things behind my back, i just don't have much faith in humanity to feel the need to want to interact with people for no reason.
>>2393149I don't understand how you are so optimistic, it's not worth having to deal with drama and being treated like shit just to fit in.
No. 2393153
>>2393134Honestly, I would say I still feel lonely because I contrast my current situation with my life in the past, just 5-6 years ago I had many friends, I was in different groups and generally was pretty personable. I ended up falling in with the wrong people online (older moids) and drifted away from my irl friends. I got away from the scrotes and spent several years in almost complete solitude, not really talking to anyone. This period damaged my social skills badly, I think. But to your point I think I am less "lonely" and more self-obsessed, I'm kind of just stagnating.
>>2393144I 100% agree with you. It's like I have a voice in my head telling me "don't talk to them they will think you're a weird freak, because you are one" and it is a self-fulfilling prophecy kek, now I'm reclusive as hell. Part of the issue is that the generation I am in (zoomer as you can probably tell) seems so anti-social, like everyone is irony-poisoned. I think this might just be another cope though, like I am just assuming people are anti-social because I am not talking to them, just judging based off of what I see online. Kind of a tangent but do any other nonnas feel like the internet broke their brain? It's like this version of reality where you can lurk or say shit completely consequence-free, and does not reflect the actual real reality happening at all.
No. 2393168
>>2393152>I just think you don't understand how narrow the pool of potential friends is for a lot of peopleGood point, it depends on a lot of factors. And yeah, a lot of people are assholes, sorry you experienced being ostracized. You seem like a decent person. The wrench in the gears in this whole discussion, I think, is people being assholes. That'll turn you off from trying to make friends.
>>2393153Yep, I agree that watching people online eat each other alive will make irl more scary. Being worried about random people judging you and whatnot. Never thought about that before. Also I like the phrase
>irony-poisonedit makes sense
No. 2393175
>>2393152>it's not worth having to deal with drama and being treated like shit just to fit in.I'm not really sure what you mean by this
>>2393153I get that exact same voice! Our brains are hardwired to avoid pain, even if that pain is emotional. So failure, rejection, the brain takes the shortest and least painful path in the moment. Meeting new people or having a conversation can be awkward and challenging sometimes, so the brain says "no lets not do that" thinking its doing you both a favour. You have to work against that feeling and sort of retrain yourself. It's good to start with something simple like giving people genuine compliments. If you see someone dressed cute, let them know. That's as far as the interaction has to go, and it will feel good. And that good feeling will build up and who knows one of those compliments could be returned, or turn into a conversation, and maybe a new friend! I'm an older millennial so I can't say much to the zoomer experience, but I have been online since I was 11 and it's definitely had a strong impact on my own self isolation, mostly due to being addicted to being online.
No. 2393191
>>2393175I appreciate you sharing that you get the same voice. ♥ I also agree with your logical analysis of the situation, that it's the shortest and least painful path to simply not talk to anyone.
>You have to work against that feeling and sort of retrain yourself. It's good to start with something simple like giving people genuine compliments. If you see someone dressed cute, let them know.The thing is, I've been doing this for the past couple years, but I haven't really advanced beyond that. I guess I just don't really know how to talk to strangers. I need to let go of my insecurities.
>>2393171I guess we're just different. But
>I always felt like an alien talking to people online just as i do in real life.I relate to this too. I haven't tried to form an internet friendship in a very long time.
No. 2393193
>>2393105I had some really bad things dredge up my ptsd that made it hard to trust people for a long time. so I either neglected my now current old friendships or lost my old friends because my ptsd caused me to socially isolate. I kept a few but lost most. I would say I've been extremely bad about mistrusting people in general and quite friendless since about late highschool because I had to reconcile my
abusive childhood as well, my
abusive childhood led to shit friendships and
abusive moids and then it was reconciling that. I just generally have terrible luck where most people I end up befriending or dating are cruel or non committal but it's also on me socially struggling as a result of my baggage
I really hate myself sometimes like I shouldn't exist at all
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>>2393191I still haven't fully overcome my own nona, I imagine it's something that takes a long time but is worth it in the long run. I hope you feel stronger every day ♥
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>>2393200Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with me, anon. I believe in us.
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Anons please help. I gotta take 4 GIANT pills DAILY, they're inositol pills, picrel. Can I dissolve its content on water or something?
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>>2393297you can buy the powder and drink it in a glass of water if you prefer that to pills. it actually tastes nice.
No. 2393397
>>2393393Probably because he only
knows those places because he doesn't go out anywhere else.
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>>2393417That polar bear would have to grow an impressively fucking long neck.
No. 2393850
>>2393835I've only ever heard/said sand-witch
t. american
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I have a makeup-related question. The common knowledge says that you're supposed to match your blush and lip colour to that of your undertone (warm colours for warm undertones, and cool colours for cool undertones). But if that's the case, why do people with cool toned skin like picrel look good with peach blush? I've noticed it in a cool-toned friend as well, she looks amazing in peach colours, while me and my yellow-toned skin when I try to wear peach I look diseased.
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>>2394073Huh? I think she's extremely cool-toned, which is common in natural blondes and is the reason she looks really good with ginger hair. Gingers tend to have really cool, rosy-toned skins, which creates a beautiful contrast with their hair.
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>>2394093I don't know nona, I think it's the black hair that she always wears that makes her look cool-toned by contrast. Here she is with blonde hair and she could even pass for a natural blonde.
No. 2394354
>>2394349Why would Canada
want to be the 51st state? Canadians absolutely hate Trump.
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What's it called in english when a soup is easily drinkable instead of having to chew the vegetables/meat?