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A thread for the daft, the dim, the silly and the merely confused.
Previous thread:
>>>/ot/2479304Please follow all global rules and remember to report and ignore bait: avoid infighting.
If you want to ask random questions and hear other anons’ personal answers, check out the Random Questions thread instead. This thread is more for asking silly questions and getting concrete answers.
Random Questions #5 thread:
>>>/ot/2478867 No. 2502730
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what would I search to find boots like this image?
No. 2502797
>>2502730A help from an eurofag
nonny so beware if this isn't a direct translation but: this is called cuissard style boots
No. 2503103
>>2503039I kind of meant like… the biology of sexual attraction to men and women with this question? I don’t believe that there’s a specific evolutionary purpose for being gay or straight, that honestly seems really retarded to me… As if there’s a biological purpose for the tribe if some people prefer fat women or skinny women or cute men or macho men. Like it just exists, variation exists. My pet hasn’t got a same-sex hubby because the primordial DNA gods thought that would be beneficial some way, and anthropomorphising biological intention is stupid. Like is that not obvious to anyone but me? Things with no purpose or with detrimental purpose happen all the time, in fact probably the majority of the time…?
I’m talking physiologically and neurologically, what is the difference between a gay man, bisexual man, and straight man, and the same for women.
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My father having a mid-life crisis and is making me learn options and stock tradings because he missed out on it so he's making me do it in his stead to live vicariously through me, he's literally taking $100 out of his paycheck every month to give to me to do it. I don't know the first thing about trading beyond Buy Low, Sell High. Can any nonnie give me some recommended reading and watching for the retarded?
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Fandom nonnies, is Voltron worth watching at all for shipping? I've seen and heard terrible things about the old fandom and show but I think the male characters besides the buff one are hot
No. 2503164
>>2503149If you're only interested in picrel then it's
okay, but it's FAR from the "almost canon" fujobait the fandom wants you to believe. You won't have a shortage of old fanworks to read, though.
Sheith had better chemistry imo No. 2503187
>>2503155I feel like with the new wave of trannism they are bound to be but since you have lady boys there I feel like they could be more strict as in a scrote with a beer belly, five clock shadow, 5 months on E would be ridiculed kek.
In these poor countries, like even Brazil, it’s better to be a faggot tranny though, since they are basically all prostitutes, who seek men.
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Did he really kill himself?
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For the anons who prefer to trim back their body hair rather than fully shave, like armpits for example, how do you handle scissors with the opposite hand? I might just end up buying one of those "intimate area" razors, but there's gotta be an easier way with the scissors right?
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does barnes & noble just let you loiter and read like it's a library, last time i went there they had manga and i really want to get into it but can't read it digitally because i have eye strain problems. i don't want to have to pay for it though beforehand
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Are hamsters and bunnies natural? By this I mean, do they exist in nature or are they manmade animals destined to be pets
No. 2504022
>>2503982Yes, but
only that and nothing else and insists you only use it
No. 2504071
How much physical affection with friends is normal for you?
>>2504062I feel weird about the fact I was a really chubby kid/preteen but skinny as an adult.
No. 2504173
>>2504134Yes tumblr does notify the person who reblogged it who you commented on. I've had rando 3-way convos with the OP, the person who reblogged it, and me lol.
>>2504171Personally I really like king prawns
No. 2504222
>>2504071Why would you feel weird? Losing weight, fasting, exercise,
even anachan-ing out is rather normal
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what animal could've dug these holes in My FUCKING Y A R D?!
No. 2504321
>>2504302I think there would still be
some beauty standards (for both men and women), because humans admire beauty in general. It just wouldn’t be the
most important thing about a woman. And the standards would probably be more like looking clean and healthy rather than having lip fillers and a BBL.
No. 2504337
>>2504331You go on here kek. That being said nice to see another unwashed woman into philosophy.
>>2504302I think beauty standards in matriarchal societies would be a lot more diverse and based on personal effort like the quality of clothing, hair, etc; Like how a lot of women in many subcultures can appreciate women of other subcultures based on how much time they put on their appearance and thought they put into their outfits.
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How do you lose weight when your partner is supportive on the surface, but doesn't actually care about health nor to help out so they end up enabling you to keep eating unhealthy? I have a big sugar problem but I can't force someone to give up their snacks just because I can't keep my own grubby fingers away…
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Would they condone slurs? Since good is bad and bad is good to them
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>>2504369yes, anon what a great idea for a film, if we lived in a sane worl
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>>2504387It's a lot of things, but it all can be chalked up to a lack of taste and inexperience. The more obvious itas are the ones who buy very cheap and poorly crafted dresses/skirts, chinese brands are the most guilty of producing these, but there are still some good quality chinese brands. The print will be shiny and will look like polyester, there may be too many details like ruffles and lace (poorly made too). Another obvious one is blouseless coords, accessories like leg warmers, fishnets or other pantyhose, demonia shoes that do not match, etc. This one can be easy to overlook if you are new but a lot of itas have no understanding of motifs and will mix and match items that clash. Picture a black skirt with a cathedral print paired with some black pumps adorned with bows. It sounds fine but the cathedral motif is obviously considered gothic and the shoes would be sweet, picrel would have been a better match. You mentioned them being ugly, I do think there's some bias in those threads but that does bring up another point. Lolita is all about presentation and that will have to include things like hygeine, skincare, makeup and haircare. Having greasy, dyed hair that's been growing out will immediately make your coord look less put together, it makes you look like you haven't given the outfit much thought. Same goes for clown makeup. Some women, at least in my opinion, have faces that don't suit their chosen style. I don't think they should be posted for having an unfitting face, though.
No. 2504499
>>2504387It's a lot of little things that add up, usually. Cheap materials, a bad fit, mismatched colors, thinking that the hair and makeup aren't part of the coord, no or mismatched accessories… the list goes on forever. Like
>>2504419 said lots of newbies mix styles that don't go together so it ends up looking weird. Or they'll stick a massive headbow on their flat short hair and forget the petticoat and wear a plain Shein button down with their ill-fitting JSK and socks that come halfway up their calves and make them look obese even if they're thin and pair it with ugly clunky shoes and a bag that has nothing to do with the coord.
You need to pay attention to the tiny details to make a good coord. Simple coords are fine and look great but you still need to make the whole thing look cohesive.
The EGL livejournal used to be full of extreme nitpicking over one brand's shade of sax vs another brand's shade of sax and why it was impossible to wear them together because they were totally different colors and didn't fucking match reeeee. It was hilarious and everyone took it way too seriously but I kinda miss those days, now everyone's a lolita if the frills are in your heart and there are no rules uguuu. It was common to put together collages of coord ideas to justify a major purchase, because lolita is an expensive fashion and you'd have to squeeze as many outfits as possible out of every item. That meant that wardrobes were built slowly and with a lot of intent. If you didn't understand the rules, you'd end up with blouses that didn't match your skirts and JSKs, accessories that matched nothing, and wigs meant for a totally different style.
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Have you ever met this kind of guy before?
No. 2504744
>>2504742I’m sorry nonna, I too couldn’t believe it, but his character was so sweet
so is he or not?
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>>2504744Nta but I don't think so, it's never been confirmed iirc but does it matter either way? If you wanna yume do so. Be like picrel
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>>2504741there's been a fan theory for years that he was some kind of sex pest or had an otherwise shady past. it's probably bullshit but maybe that will be enough to kill your libido
No. 2505151
>>2505012Yeah, mostly classical but also movie, game and anime OSTs. There used to be a site where you could exchange sheet music or simply ask for it. That's how I got Michael Nyman's official The Piano sheet booklet (scanned) and the Kingdom Hearts piano collection among a few others. Now even poorly transcribed pieces are paywalled let alone anything official.
>but there's imslpYes, thanks. That's a treasure trove. One realizes how valuable such sites are after having to look for anything beyond.
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>>2505102>>2505112Ayrt. I don't like them either so I don't know what this argument is. I in fact find them annoying and tiring and loud. I'm talking about people who openly go out of their way to talk to or yell at random children in their life as if it's an interpersonal feud. Just ignore the annoying brat, why interact with them? It's a sign you're mentally childish too if you want to interact with them.
If some random child starts throwing a tantrum at the table next to you in a restaurant, would you just go up to their face and scream at them to shut the fuck up? No, unless you're itching for drama. At least yell at their parents they're raising a brat. Not beef with the literal toddler. Those types are too cowardly to tell the parents so they go for the easier target.
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>>2505267I guess it depends if they're imagining themselves having sex with those women or just watch from a voyeuristic point or something like pic related
No. 2505459
>>2505299if a man got turned on thinking about gay acts because it turned the fujos on would it be the same?
>voyeuristic viewwhat do you mean? i feel like being attracted to sex in a voyeuristic way is still attraction to the people
No. 2505467
>>2505462Kek, I wanted to emphasise because some people tell me I’m the most beautiful person they’ve seen, whether they’re lying or not. Sorry if that doesn’t sound humble to say, I recognise that but we’re anonymous here, so. It’s just there’s more pressure. If someone is just kind of attractive, best-looking-person-at-your-college kind of person, I feel like the way you’re seen is different? Attractive and fuckable but no one’s putting you on a pedestal. Less people interested in how you looked as a child too.
>but nobody thinks about if you were cute as an 11yo or not.Ok… I hope so. Thanks
No. 2505508
>>2504302I agree with these anons
>>2504365 >>2504337
And why would characteristics associated with maleness be praised in a matriarchal society? It would just be that being masculine as a woman would not be some sort of transgression due to lacking appeal to men.
Women have their own intrasexual standards, even outside of what men like, always have. I think it’s interesting. As much as women associate hating fat girls with misogyny and men, as weight increases, the higher the proportion of men coveting your looks compared to fellow women. People don’t talk about this, but thinness is social capital. Among women and girls. When hyper-anorexia is trending is it because men think it’s suuper hot to look that thin? …No, duh, it’s women that think it’s cool and cunty to look thin, want to hang out and take pics with other thin girls, exclude girls who they think are kind of chubby or even if they’re not that mean, subconsciously think they’re lesser. You can even recognize this yourself, if you’ve ever went from average to skinny. Women will compliment you wayy more, treat you like “that girl” kek.
Other standards are presentation and style, and this includes personality. I think if women’s standards were valued over men, your curated look and aesthetic would be a big thing too. This honestly could be tied to the weight standard too with how clothes look on different bodies.
You can kind of see the difference in women and men’s idea of female beauty in games, manga, book (art) and other media that are designed and written by women FOR girls or women and girls. Winx, shoujo, even dress-up games like Nikki. I say kind of because these are still influenced by what men find attractive to a degree and there would definitely be more of less stereotypically feminine presentation.
But this is just referring to what women tend to admire and praise in other women, it doesn’t quite remove the patriarchal edge yet. Removing patriarchal standards would probably lead to a wider scope of what can be considered attractive for women, and less necessity to be considered sexually attractive to men. This doesn’t mean lack of appreciation, but lack of need to conform to what doesn’t offend men. Eg it doesn’t mean no one would want to shave, but that not shaving would not be a big deal or mean anything really.
In terms of what kind of attractiveness would be uplifted, again it’s the wider breadth. I actually think femininity would be even more praised, the difference is whether it’s male-appreciated femininity or female-appreciated femininity, which I think are two very different things. The former would be unimportant. I think qualities like elegance, warmth, romanticism, being ‘cool’ - not necessarily at the same time - would be some well-liked attributes.
No. 2505574
>>2504302In the current patriarchal society there are barely any beauty standards for men. My guess is that pressure would be put on men to look a certain way and
they would be forced into uncomfortable clothes, plastic surgery and self hatred, and women would take on the role males have today where being unkempt in social settings is acceptable. I doubt women would be as dirty and unkempt as men, but women would probably look more relaxed and natural, all feminine body types would be acceptable, shaving would be uncommon, short hair would probably be way more common since it's lower maintenance, and makeup would also be uncommon in women, though I think men would wear masculinizing makeup styles.
No. 2505612
>>2504302I responded to your post earlier and I changed my mind. I don't think I gave it enough thought and I felt like I could give much more explanations.Most of my writing is based on speculation, like a series of traits that humans prioritize and associate with power. As society currently prioritizes men on the basis of physical strength, I think matriarchal societies would prioritize women on the basis of endurance and survival (as women tend to have better long-term endurance compared to men)
I don’t think matriarchal society would necessarily focus on motherhood, but instead a higher focus on resource allocation and quality of life. The ability to have a household or state last long and prosperous would be a standard among women everywhere.
Men would have the expectation to fulfill the role of physical labor, but would be oppressed as their societal function would primarily be used for war. The idea of men dying in war for their country would be encouraged and romanticized. In a non-war setting, a man’s primary job would be taking care of the fields, and a woman's job would be dividing resources, and human resource directing. During times of war it would be easy for women to take over the fields, leaving young men to go into the trenches and die happily.
I don’t think there would be as emphasis on women being able to give life, as well as women wanting to be skinnier. The reason why a lot of women have stricter body expectations is not only because they’ve been psyop’d by gay men, but also generally having a skinnier body creates effective silhouettes. Hyper Skinniness and disordered eating is also rooted in mental issues regarding control.
Skinniness or fatness wouldn’t be something as polarizing as it is in our society, but will have more stereotypes depending on how a woman looks, like if a woman is chubbier she would have a lot more assumptions from other women to become a mother. There would be judgement towards skinnier women as hunger would reflect a poor state unable to have enough food to divide in excess, and would be associated with poorer decision making. The ideal body type would be much more diverse, but rooted in a sense of robustness, not too fat nor too skinny.
In fashion, women would have a lot more clothes to wear than men, as men would most likely wear less in order to show off their bodies to attract a woman. However the quality, craftsmanship, and coordination would be prioritized. The craftsmanship and quality would be a source of beauty standards depending on the rarity of the material, but it’s composition would reflect the prosperity of the state you reside in, the livelihood of it’s residents (how much do they give a fuck about making your clothes), and coordination would exist to reflect personal values and soundness of mind. I think matriarchal societies would have more trends while also being much more experimental in fashion. Makeup would be used by both men and women, and would also be experimental, less about accentuating the face to fit standards but to create a new face entirely, with new markings, colors, etc;
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>>2505612Huh, you know your matriarchial society have some interesting similarities to ancient Spartan society. Women had basically full control over the economies of the family and the men obv died in the wars. Pretty sure some of them killed their own sons for being cowardly and had government officals begging them for cash.
Now that I think about it my grandma had full control over the family's finances, buying multiple properties in the process while my grandpa worked. She also lookedshames her sons to this day.
No. 2505813
>>2503708as long as you can avoid barnes & noble security you should be fine
(they have orders to neutralize loiterers on sight)
No. 2506258
>>2506255It depends how fat they are. Whoever is fatter should be fed at the time they don't like so they can lose weight and be normal.
Also if this is about you and your moid (which it reads as) then I say dump him.
No. 2506343
>>2506258Kek it's actually not, but I appreciate the concern!
>>2506297>Eat together at 6.That's basically what happens when you start cooking at 5, B isn't happy with it. If you start at 7 dinner is basically ready at 8, which A isn't happy with.
>>2506310Eating the same meal meant "eating from the same cooking batch" as in food only gets cooked once in the evening. So one isn't making pasta while the other is cooking up a stew. They both eat the same pasta.
Not eating together is a "negative" as that's a bonding ritual for most people. And a lot of people don't like reheating meals, for whatever reasons. If you have to eat reheated leftovers every day it can make you feel like you don't matter.
No. 2506400
>>2506397Plastic surgery is way more common than you think, and plastic surgery "addicts" are very rare.
>>2506399This is incredibly invalidating to the millions of
victim of the boogeymen. Do better.
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>>2506408I will protect you
nonnie No. 2506414
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>>2506408I've talked with the farmhands and they're going to ban that mean
nonnie. You're safe now
No. 2506553
>>2506255Who the hell eats at 5? If you want to eat together you could compromise and eat at 6/6:30. Otherwise just eat separately or A can eat a light snack , aka some fruits and Greek yogurt.
I’d kill myself if I had to have dinner at 5 everyday kek.
No. 2506587
>>2506557Man I really overcomplicated the question lmao
The real question was at the end: if 2 people are hungry at different times, do you think the earlier or the later time should dictate when they eat (assuming they eat together)?
No. 2506672
>>2506662She’ll get mad at you if you point it out, so don’t, because she’s in the denial stage. I
With that being said I don’t understand how people can be attracted to fat people in general, to me they just look unhealthy and therefore ugly , just like smokers, gamblers, bald people etc , but tastes are tastes nonna.
No. 2506675
>>2506673I think that if they are born in America they will most likely be circumcised no? Is that not a usual practice in burger land nonnas?
Here in my country it’s not done so men all have their foreskins despite a strong Catholic core here.
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>>2506688How are fat rolls attractive? I can somehow understand chubby people, but fat people like picrel look wrong kek.
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>>2506701Exactly, women store fat easier because it's good for us to have resources to carry and then feed babies, we look cute curvy and round, it keeps us warm in cold weather etc. Even if we want to lose weight it's harder for us.
But males who have optimal bodies for muscles and strength and who can burn calories much easier? Letting themselves go and getting fat? Embarrassing and weak. It's a much bigger failure for a man to be fat than a woman, it's not even close. Especially because even fat women I know put in effort to look good through hair, makeup, clothes, basic fucking hygiene… fat men don't.
No. 2507140
>>2507129Choconilla
Swirly
White chocolate
White caramel
No. 2507141
>>2507129Oreo.
I like Lightning McQueen as a name too if you don't need to go down the appearance based route.
No. 2507179
>>2507114Whites with creams are fine. Look up laundry stripping tutorials and follow the one that works best for you, that should get rid of the murkyness.
>>2507009Could be both. Or they're extremely online TIFs and this is their first time encountering a woman who actually likes women and they don't know what to do about it.
>>2506942If the put it underneath it'd vanish and she'd be arrested for indecent exposure kek.
No. 2507285
>>2507129coffee foam
caramel dumpling
burned sprayfoam if he is mischievous lil'shit
whipped peanut butter
maple sugar
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>>2507174I wouldn't bother with them but don't buy again.
>>2507339>anal attention to detail and guidelines and it makes the community so unbearably obnoxiousThe fashion has strict rules and yes to an extend it's autistic but sticking to these rules is also not hard and they make your coord look how the fashion is supposed to look.
t. Lolita
No. 2507390
>>2507174This sounds like common dropshipping trickery. Look them up on trustpilot and see if it's worth complaining.
It's also very important to check if a site is legit and has good reviews before buying something online.
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What does it mean if a guy I'm showering with genuine compliments (on his good looks) just replies with stuff like "I know" and "you're not the first one to tell me that" etc?
No. 2507467
>>2507463NTA but seconding
>>2507460. He's a huge whore and probably has several STDs and STIs.
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Where can i find other "based" women on the internet? I just want female online friends that arent gender obsessed TIFs or libfems. I know the friend finder thread is a thing, but based on the anecdotes ive read from anons who've posted on there i feel like i should avoid it. Ive also considered Tumblr because i know it has a pretty sizeable radfem community. Do people use Tumblr to make friends?
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I'm going to a rave tomorrow night. Never been to one before and I'm taking my bf.
Any tips?
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>>2507878Drink lots of water and don't take drugs from randos that you haven't tested. Have fun!
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>>2507896>>2507924Thanks. I'll be taking my own drugs so I won't have to rely on creepy men
>>2508030I vaguely recall that? Agreed, the VPN ban is nice.
No. 2508106
>>2508058Getting legally high is probably the best way to go for your first time.
>I'm just worried about having my phone or keys stolen…I'm planning to take a fanny pack type thing with all my essentials, keeps in close to my body and I can see where it is. Might be worth getting something like that.
No. 2508135
>>2508123I'm not moral fagging. I could get murked in the western country I live in but that doesn't mean I'd move to the middle east just because it can happen anywhere. But I am an anachan so maybe knowing that if anyone tries do anything to me I'm done for makes me think the way I do.
>>2508130Who?
No. 2508145
>>2508118>To me the combination of willingly going to a place where you know for a fact there is someone looking to harm you AND being drunk and high does not sound like fun.I agree, going to bars, walking outside at night with friends high, hiking, camping, even amusement parks, they are all pretty dangerous. There's a reason why people still do it, and it's because staying at home doing the same sedentary activities isn't as fulfilling. Yes playing video games, sewing, crocheting, drawing, is fun, but that's not the end-all of trying to live as human for most people.
>But then the other confusing part to me is when people act shocked that something bad happened. Most of it isn't shock, it's sadness. People aren't surprised, that's why
victim blaming exists. "why didn't you cover up more" "why didn't you say no" "why didn't you just stay inside" "maybe he misunderstood your intentions". People aren't shocked when someone does something risky, and if you don't try to put blame on the individual for getting attacked you focus on the sadness of someone trying to have fun and being deeply hurt.
If we replaced rave with bar, yeah an anon did go to a bar and get hurt, but she just wanted to have fun. She should have known to stay inside and not get drunk in a place she's never been to before. Maybe she should have stayed inside, and let's not focus on the rapist moids, lets focus on what anon could be doing better.
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>>2508180>>2508146damn i wish i lived somewhere with raves now it sounds fun. ive always loved electronic music since i was little too
No. 2508299
>>2508247Good point nonna, male feminists are wolves in disguise, but they are quite easy to spot , their feminism is just “sew work is work!” Kek, you start saying that men are misogynistic and oppress women and you’ll
trigger their
victim complexes.
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What is your preferred method to browse lolcow?
Is it to go to the catalog and click on threads that interest you? Is it to scroll the specific boards front page and read all the newest comments?
Do you read the front page?
I have a theory how you browse imageboards makes a difference in how you perceive them
No. 2508363
>>2508345I like to scroll on my phone and check the threads I am interested in in, which are
>/otVent thread, confession thread, food thread, mundane shit, gender ideology hate thread mainly.
>/g Because I like to make fun of Nigel fags but sometimes I give solid and real advice. The advice thread is also nice and the nonnas are more nice compared to the vent and confession thread on /ot.
>/snowI am not interested in in lolcows, so I don’t bother. But I like the MTF and FTM thread because I like making fun of grannies and their stupid shit. I scroll the polyamory thread sometimes too.
I tried going into XX but I found it too retarded and edgy kek.
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Why would stud poker be better for fewer players than draw poker?
No. 2508538
>>2508489Yeah! I have been taking spiro off and on, just for acne but I have been forgetting to take it some days and I think accidentally taking it twice on some days. I bet that’s it! Thanks anon, for pointing out something that perhaps is kind of obvious!
>>2508519Don’t worry anon, I just in a literal sense don’t have any money right now but I will get some financial aid for my summer classes in a couple of weeks and then I will go!
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Relating to the topic of the orgasm gap. If a woman makes a man orgasms during sex (vaginal, oral, handsy, whatever) but the man couldn't do the same for the woman no matter how hard he tried—should she be compensated for the nut she gave him? For example, money or gifts or physical services like doing the laundry or cooking for her.
I'm framing this from a boyfriend/girlfriend or married couple scenario—not sex where the man is supposed to pay (like escorts or prostitutes).
No. 2508728
>>2508692>>2508694Doesn't the US have squatter laws or whatever it's called where someone can decide
lol this is mine now if you leave your house unattended for too long and don't throw them out in time? At least that's what I understood Margo attempted to claim lmao
No. 2508776
>>2508715I don't think you she be in a relationship with someone that can't give you an orgasm on a regular basis. It's okay if you can't orgasm once in a while, but if he's consistently unable to bring you to orgasm then he's not sexually compatible with you.
Why can't men ever pleasure a woman for the sake of her pleasure without thinking of his orgasm? Why can't a man just perform oral sex on a woman without thinking of what he'll get in return, in the same way that men expect oral sex from their partners?
Sex is incomplete without an orgasm. We are exposed to almost endless propaganda, whether it be through film, television, literature, social interactions, or unconscious cultural effects, that the female orgasm is less worthy than the male orgasm. The male orgasm is expected, central, mundane; but the female orgasm is sought, peripheral, rare. This state of affairs is unnatural and artificial.
If you don't enjoy sex with someone, then don't have sex with them. If you don't enjoy sex with your boyfriend or husband, then leave him and find someone else. Thinking about sex in terms of transaction, e.g., "how can I be repaid for this later?" is perverse and profane. It defeats the purpose of sex entirely: which is not to
pay and be
repaid, but to
give and be
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>>2508776Thank you Amazonian nonna
No. 2508854
>>2508715>money or gifts or physical services like doing the laundry or cooking for herHe should be doing these things already in addition to giving her orgasms.
>>2508776>The male orgasm is expected, central, mundane; but the female orgasm is sought, peripheral, rare. This state of affairs is unnatural and artificial.Agree completely. Many straight women say that they feel too much pressure to orgasm and that's why they forgo it, but I think it's because 99% of the time, they aren't attracted to their partner. They feel guilty making him put in the effort when they know it isn't going to happen with the selfish dumb uggo they picked.
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>>2509202Have you thought about categorizing your friends into identifiable physical and intellectual categories to find out if there's any connection between them?
No. 2509218
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Is your region's dominant cream soda brand pink or clear?
No. 2509277
>>2509218There's pink cream soda?
It's off white where I live
No. 2509397
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>>2509218Mostly see pink/red for sale in my country, but we also have brown cream soda. See picrel.
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is there a way to remotely control a tv from a laptop/pc? My old tv's voice controls are fucked and I am tired of typing on the search bar
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What do you think 33 year old Effy Stonem would be up to in 2025?
No. 2510353
>>2510352If you don't want to be tracked I guess? But also don't spend money, just use a free one.
VPNs don't do jack shit though, people can easily trace that you're using a VPN and from then find your actual location anyway
No. 2510362
>>2510353What could happen if I was tracked?
Can regular users track me or just admins/mods?
No. 2510530
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I was wondering if there are some nonas who like Tamagotchi and still play with them? I have a japanese iDl and I recently put new batteries in it
No. 2510553
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>>2510530Meeeee I collect Tamagotchi's! I'm currently running a P1 from 1997, and have a couple of the original Japanese P1s from 96. I'm currently trying to collect one of each P's shell, I sold a large part of my collection years ago so I'm hoping to build it up again.
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>>2510553That's so cool nona I grew up with a white one, I guess it's a P1? I was interested in getting another one because I really love the colored displays nowadays kek
>>2510540Not with my currently one yet but I used to have another kind of Tama where you could play browser mini games and earn money for your egg kek it was so much fun!
No. 2510617
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>>2510553Omg I want a P’s so bad! Mostly because of the virtual deco pierces. Mr blinky has so many available, you should check it out nona (if you haven’t already)
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>>2510617samefag I also really like @loveyoungmametchi’s custom unis
No. 2510628
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I think I want a Tama On next It’s so cute!! The latest few releases look too modern it’s not in the Tama spirit anymore
No. 2510636
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>>2510568That one looks like an English P2 as it has Hashizotchi on the front instead of Kutchipatchi!
>>2510617I do!! I love the VDPs. I have a few 'real' pierces too kek but the price for a small piece of plastic with a chip inside is too extortionate for me want to collect them on top of the P's. I have all the shells except the Purple and the three combined coloured ones.
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Nonnas, does this sound like secret animosity from a friend? I was in a program this year and got pretty close with one girl (or at least I thought). She ended up integrating into a larger group of girls and while they’d be friendly to me they never really fully opened up to me either. This friend got close to them, had a group chat, and went out with them all the time but never invited me along even though we all got along well. They ended up going on a girls’ trip this week and didn’t include me but included some other girls who are known to cause drama. I dunno, it’s just so weird because I’d have good conversations with them, they’d laugh at my jokes, remember things about me, but never got me involved and I’m wondering if there was something more catty going on.
No. 2510782
>>2510723>I was in a programIn situations like that, where people are put together and have to spend a lot of time together, friendships can exist out of convenience and disappear once that setting disappears or something better comes along. Or you drifted apart.
Not saying that's certainly what happened, it's a possibility.
No. 2510833
Seriously, how many times a day does a child screams and it's still considered normal? Whenever I'm not listening to some music at my home, I can hear a child screaming, it can be at any random time of the day or night, it's also a daily occurrence, there hasn't been a day in which I hadn't heard that kid screaming.
If I knew which building or apartment it was, I would call the cops on them tbh, it's worrisome because I've been reading too many news so I guess I'm paranoid, but it wouldn't make any difference anyways because this is a third world shithole.
Is there a way to stop giving a fuck? The place were I live at is honestly calm noise-wise, so it really is creepy when the child suddenly screams for quite a few minutes everyday, it's at least 2 or three times a day.
No. 2510850
>>2510738Cope. Sex is horrible if you don’t enjoy it. If it has to be a chore or something you do to just get over it then you’ll just end up resenting it.
Besides there are other ways for a woman to come and it doesn’t take a degree, just baseline effort and care
>get the woman aroused by enticing her and seducing her properly>listen>eat her out>rub her clit>finger her>use a vibratorThe main sex for women is foreplay while the main sex for men is PIV and that’s the problem. Even then , you can still make a woman come if you rub her clit during penetration and if she doesn’t it’s courtesy to eat her out after. It’s not impossible, they are just lazy.
I don’t get why men suck so much regarding hetero sex. I feel like I would be a great scrote if I were one.
No. 2511025
>>2510738I've heard ONE single woman say this in my entire life. She was a child
victim of genital mutilation and literally couldn't have an orgasm because of it.
No. 2511055
>>2511025I see women say this all the time on Reddit.
https://www.reddit.com/r/women/comments/1h9gdq7/do_women_have_piv_sex_mostly_for_men/Some of the same "intimacy and closeness" comments. But it's mainly the physical sensation that women enjoy, the same as men.
No. 2511091
>>2511083They think women are coddled more because they're seen as more delicate, that women are held to an easier standard while if guys fail, they're punished more/the typical MRA argument about how they're punished for having emotions while women are allowed to be immature and emotional crybabies. They also think women are just handed opportunities more easily for friends, for partners (because guys would fuck anything, so some thirsty guy that only wants you for sex is at least some companionship, therefore women cannot experience loneliness/they'll paint some story about the guy actually being really invested in the woman emotionally, but the immature woman just uses the guy instead for resources or to do work for her, etc). They also think women are one-dimensional, shallow creatures that only give a shit about makeup products and social media, and they don't have more depth than that. I've seen some of them say women are incapable of coming up with anything that wasn't taken from men, because women are incapable of original, creative thought of course. Unempathetic, sheltered, entitled shit.
No. 2511125
>>2511099I preferred fingering when I didn't know how to move properly to experience an actual PIV orgasm. I love my vibrator but there will be times using it that'd I'd just wish I was being penetrated. Also if the guy I'm with turns me on I don't tend to need warmed up for PIV I'm wet and ready to go. I genuinely think the orgasm gap between men and women is purely psychological than physiological, God knows we have more nerves in our genitals. Women have been
victims of sex related crime and hysteria and objectified since birth, of course there will be women not fully secure enough to let go during sex.
No. 2511128
>>2511083Apart from easy access to sex, it's because of their retarded "men's mental health is stigmatised wah wah" bullshit. They think women make friends more easily than they do. Meanwhile in reality moids will congregate everyone as "the bros" while if a woman doesn't follow the mold of the perfect woman, she's seen as defective and should be culled. They think men get shut down at mental health centres; meanwhile if a man goes to one he'll get taken very seriously while any woman gets assumed to be overreacting and hysterical.
Men also perpetuated the mental health stigma among themselves but expect women to be in their live-in vent therapists all day long
No. 2511179
>>2511083They're NEETs whose only "interaction" with feeeeeemaaaless is through moe moe kyun slice of life anime shows that star underage girls.
Most of these shows are adapted serialized manga in seinen magazines (for non-weebs, basically manga for adult men). These mangas are often written by men—and as these men have no idea what a genuine female teenage experience is (since, well, they're men) they rely on tropes copypasted from other moe moe kyun kyun mangas—creating a superficial, and hyperidealized vision of girls' experience that has no basis in reality whatsoever.
But these NEETs are too autistic to realize that fact. It's the same way with how TIFs' idealize the "gay teenage boy experience uwu" through stuff like Heartstopper or coffee shop AUs… written by women for a female audience.
No. 2511181
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What's the quickest way to date an american fed if I live in europe? I know they are on 4chan and even youtube and I tried to let them know I want to date but no one responded to me. I even tried to download some shota porn even though I don't give a fuck about shota, simply hoping they would start keeping a track on me and see I wanna hang out with one of them but nothing happened
No. 2511213
>>2511181I had a police man try and meet me on plenty of fish. He sent me photos in his uniform and surfed near me. I was partaking in illegal activities and got scared and showed my step dad who was a retired officer and said the guy was a stupid cunt for acting like that on dating apps.
Anyway years later I had to go to court for a minor fender bender and my solicitor and barrister told me there was a weird police witness acting sketchy and I got off. I wonder if it was him lol
No. 2511224
>>2511181Forgot to mention, there's this one youtube channel with only like 4k subs and the people in the comments keep saying the guy is a fed and he tries to bait people so I have my eye on him right now. And it they're just memeing it's still funny. I would like to know why so many people claim he's a fed under every single video tho hmm
>>2511218Noo I don't speak russian unfortunately, I'm a slav and my language is definitely not critical kek
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Why are dark romance books so cringe
No. 2511287
>>2510738i don't care but i don't think it's a cope, it's just that i don't really have the expectation of 'enjoyment' from sex. this isn't a diss to my partners or anything, many of them have been patient/attractive/well-endowed/willing to reciprocate, i just find sex a bit boring and whenever it goes on for too long then i genuinely don't enjoy it. like my partner will be trying to eat me out and i'll thinking about completely off-topic stuff like grocery plans or even worse, 'what noises should i be making so they don't think i'm completely checked out of this situation'. i'm either completely distracted or i'm self-conscious in a way that makes sex impossible to have 'fun' with. if the other person really wants sex i'll go with it but the cuddling afterwards is the only part i actually get pleasure out of.
so maybe not 'cope' but 'sign of being sexually repressed' or something.
No. 2511318
>>2511294when i was younger it was FOMO, i had always heard that sex was something extremely romantic and/or fun and moids certainly obsess over it enough that you'd figure there'd be a good reason for that. plus if you tell other girls in their early 20s or whatever 'i don't orgasm during sex', a vast majority of them will tell you to blame your partner. that's not always the answer because if it was then changing partners would have worked at some point. i think i counted to somewhere in the 30+ range before i was like 'damn i think this might just be a 'me problem' actually'.
but my attitude towards it now is 'it's part and parcel of dating'. there are plenty of people with the same mindset as
>>2510791, they don't want to settle for a sexless relationship, so if i want a partner in my life it's something i can put up with in exchange for companionship. but it's not because i'm scared of a 'chimp out' like OP suggested.
No. 2511345
>>2511333it's kind of like playing minigolf. i don't like minigolf but if my partner really really wanted to play minigolf 2x a week and asked me to come with them then i'd do it because i love my partner and it's important to them.
if i thought of minigolf as something reductionary and dehumanizing i couldn't put up with it but i'm neither particularly interested in minigolf nor repulsed by it. it is just a physical activity to me, nothing more.
No. 2511361
>>2511345Except sex isn't mini-golf. It's sex. If you actually loved your partner, you'd be truthful with them and tell them that you didn't want to have sex with them, or you would tell them how to improve their game and make you cum. Pretending sex is just another banal physical activity isn't healthy.
>>2511355>>2511333>Why do they do it?We all know why they do it. Starts with a 'P' and ends with a 'me.'
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>>2511345>letting a man penetrate your body until he relieves himself and perhaps gives you various STDs is equal to playing a minigolf game Grimm
No. 2511382
>>2511361hey, a lot of them agree with you. some of them have been
really insistent on the idea that they should had to make me cum and tbh? too much pressure. like i said, it's not that they're bad lovers. but half the time i either zone out thinking about other shit or feel like there's too much expectation placed around The Big O so I just waste the time fretting about whether I'm going to make it or not and whether that will bother the other person if I don't.
and again, it's not that i don't want to have sex, it's that i don't care about having sex. if i want the fleeting pleasure of an orgasm, i can give that to myself in under five minutes flat. hence spending 20+ minutes having the other person give themselves TMJ only to no avail just feels like a burden to my partner if not a waste of my time. there's no 'well the other person should just get gud and MAKE you feel horny' in that situation. if it ain't gonna happen, it ain't gonna happen.
No. 2511437
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Why the fuck is this called toad in the hole? Where does toad come from?
No. 2511558
>>2511023I am pretty aware that foreplay is sex nonna, I made a distinction to make a point and for practicality kek.
>if women didn’t enjoy PIVYeah, but a big proportion of us don’t come solely with it. I’m not wrong when I say that everything else before penetration is what I enjoy the most and what gets me the most aroused to also enjoy PIV, if I got hammered with fingers and were dry as a bone it would be horrible and frustrating. I don’t get your sperging when I also stated that you can cum through PIV too.
No. 2511627
>>2511057Warmed up TO enjoy sex. Not "doesn't like PIV". Not "gets of on foreplay alone".
>>2511558Again "TO enjoy sex". Nobody is saying "have sex while not aroused", just that the foreplay isn't what causes the orgasm. If you have an orgasm you've passed foreplay long ago.
>>2511099Why wouldn't it be? Clits famously have more nerv endings than dicks, female orgasm lasts longer and females are capable of having multiple orgasm in a short span VS males having one single orgasm. If done right, there's no reason to think men would have the better orgasm when the signs point to women's being better. Men just also suffer from sex obsession by nature. Think of it this way, do you think a porn addict who wanks off 24/7 have the best orgasms? No, instead they break and feel like nothing is good enough but they still feel compelled to keep going and can't stop. Men have the light version of that programmes into them. Just because they're obsessed doesn't mean it actually feels better.
No. 2511631
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Cat nonnies, a stray cat entered the house yesterday and stood in my bedroom door and just stared at me without me realizing, once I did and gasped in surprise, it ran away. What does the staring mean? It legit looked like picrel.
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>>2511437I'm curious where in the world that's the norm because in bongland that is absolutely not what a toad in the hole is, picrel is.
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>>2511699i have also heard it called toad in a hole, nta but murrican. apparently the egg-in-toast definition is legitimate at least in the 'verified by search engine' sense, picrel.
for the original anon, the canon explanation is because the dish supposedly resembles a burrowing toad peeking out of a hole in the ground. which makes zero sense with the eggs in toast thing but kind of makes more sense with the casserole-like dish, i guess.
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>>2511787I feel like most people know it's embarrassing to wear merch unless it's something undeniably cool, and since most merch is made with the most basic of styles, the cheapest fabrics and the worst printing materials, they also know that you can't really wear those things too often without them turning into rags after a few washes.
It's kind of like having an anime t-shirt, I personally wouldn't wear it to go out unless I know I won't get it dirty and that I wouldn't produce even a drop of sweat.
So in the end, people wear it as intended, to go to events where others will wear the same merch because it's the best place to wear such things.
No. 2512420
>>2511632There are men out there who could not give a rat's ass whether a woman is in a huge amount of pain—as long as he orgasms that's all that matters.
Also there's the culture of "good women put up for their husbands uwuwuwu, if not demons will curse you!"
Also, "just do blowjobs" lmao, as if that isn't just as painful. There was literally a case of a woman chocking on her scrote's dick but the scrote got off because of the "rough sex" defense.
No. 2512507
>>2512390Wish I knew. I want to learn how to drive now at 30 and my family is "supportive" on the surface but don't actually care to help so I'm stuck in a limbo. I ask if they can teach me and they say "yeah sure totally!" but then never schedule anything, always busy, always something else, always some generic non-committed "maybe in a few days or so" that keeps my hope up for something that never happens. It's been years of this.
I'd go to a driving school but they're too expensive, about $800 for 5 lessons. I'm a slow learner and have always had a ton of anxiety around driving so I know 5 lessons will not be enough either…
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>>2502644Why do I cycle between being obsessed with him then being bored of him?
He is so consistent with his devotion.
No. 2512518
>>2512509This is the normie answer
>>2512515However, one must venture deep into the rings of hell by reading countless threads full of autistic NEETs infighting about the morality of yaoi to fully grasp the hateboner some nonnas have for fujocoomers here on LC
>>>/ot/2428892 No. 2512529
>>2512509Some are jealous of how popular yaoi is with bad m/m pairings getting more attention than good het or lesbian ones. For some, sperging about is a socially acceptable way to shit on other women similar to how making fun of bad romance novels is low hanging fruit. Moralsperging about yaoi is also way to gain control online through discourse and TIFs love feeling like
victims ("fetishizing gay men"). Some just hate yaoi and find it gross.
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>>2502644Where i can learn about 8chan? My retarded (but beloved) friend wants to talk about her vtubers there but as far as I can remember the same website had a zoo and pedo boards. Are there any articles or websites that discuss it so i can show her?
No. 2512815
>>2512811Nona, are you using the correct usage of 'trauma bond' within the cycle of a
abusive relationship or pop psychology way where you're in a relationship that's mostly based on a shared trauma?
No. 2513542
>>2513113It's an okay service, not the best but not the worst. If you're just using a VPN for light stuff like you mention here
>>2513144 then it'd probably work for you. Ask some of your friends if they have a referral code, it'll be a better discount than getting it from a YTber. If possible, see if you can get the bundle where they offer the VPN and the Incogni service.
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how the fuck do you do anything with nails. former nail biter so they're not even that long, only like .3cm but i can hardly type with these things, can't do my laundry because the wet fabric against them made me want to puke. nonnas how do you deal with these…
No. 2513695
I'm not sure where the general demographic here is at regarding life experiences but I'm gonna give it a try.
Has anyone noticed that luxury has lost its meaning? I think the average person can see it from the real estate situation. "Luxury" being a term used to just inflate prices of mediocre living spaces. It's even the same for affluent being told that they are paying premium for luxury when there is nothing special about it. Not to mention a lot of what used to be considered luxury can be achieved by the average income. You can stay at a really nice hotel for under 100 a night, and staying somewhere from 500 to even the 10k per night doesn't offer you much of anything you couldn't get from the first one. You can get a suite, a massage, breakfast in bed, a pool, a bathtub, whatever. Luxuru apartments are built the same as all apartments and the prices spiked because 'ooh it's in a popular city' or because the buildings are just assests to foreign investors and they want to make profit despite everything being cheaply built and covered in glitter to look luxury inside when it's not.
People can get brand name, fast cars, travel, work at home, even hire staff. It's all luxury but lost its meaning since it's just the syandard of not being in poverty now.
Really the only thing the extremely wealthy have as an advantage is that they can own multiple homes, buy up private land, hire full time staff, and never worry about being able to afford anything or lose anything. They can afford to have people take care of everything for them, every problem, every arrangement, have more space and more privacy, carefree. But most of the way they live doesn't differ from what the average person can do now. And even then some of them live like slobs.
It would basically be unheard of some time ago that someone could travel the world, stay in five star hotels, eat out everyday, have a midday cafe break, drive their own car, hire a maid, have nice new clothes every season, not have to work full time, and not be considered upper class. If everyone can do it then it isn't a luxury.
Basically does anyone else think luxury has no meaning anymore?
No. 2513710
>>2513698Sharing my experience maybe you can relate or realize something. I'd ask yourself what reasons you have for wanting or not wanting them, and reflect on it.
Personally I never wanted kids because I did not want to go through pregnancy or childbirth. I don't want to care for babies. I didn't want to get married and share my living space or lose complete control of my life. This hasn't changed in 20 years. But I work with kids and I enjoy having one to teach and help grow. I considered I would only have a kid if I could afford a nanny. I also realized I do not like my dna and don't want to continue this genetic line. I like myself but my family background is nuts and I don't want it around so I'm at the point that I would seriously consider adoption of a kid past the infancy stage, as long as I could give them a calm stable life. It doesn't matter to me whether it comes to fruition or not, I worked with kids for many years and I get enjoyment from that which is why I think I considered the idea for so long. I wouldn't have a kid just because you think you might regret not having one later, a kid is not a checklist in life it's another human being. If the idea is there for a long time try if you haven't already, being around a child on a regular basis whether it's a job or volunteering or babysitting your friends kid, anything like that and see how it goes.
No. 2513724
>>2513710the idea of pregnancy is so disgusting and scary to me yeah, that's a big reason for me. i'm also scared of raising a whole human, or passing on my mental disorders or just straight up having a disabled kid or something that would ruin my life. also, i DO NOT want a son, i'd only want a daughter.
the appeal of kids to me is when they're a bit older, i want to teach my daughter how to exist in this world, but at the same time, being a female is so cruel. i think my morality prevents me from wanting to bring another girl into this existence. but like i said i don't want a son, ever. my wanting for kids has passed again and i think that it's just biology screaming at me. logically, and financially, and regarding your own freedom and identity, having kids is bad.
No. 2513797
>>2513630>I scratch the wallThat’s scary
nonnie. Like some monster.
No. 2513888
>>2513695Must be nice to be rich, I cry at the high prices of cheese because I can't afford it anymore.
But anyway life being more equal isn't a bad thing, the loss of luxury is a positive. If it being a novelty is the only thing that makes it special to you then the item/experience itself was never that valuable to begin with.
No. 2513910
>>2513899Pretty sure there is a questioning sexuality thread, but whatever.
>vag on vag???Not everybody scissors, in my experience it is more of a porn thing than anything else. I know some lesbians/bi women do, but it is not a must kek. I think you are mostly straight and you shouldn't put a woman through everything that comes with being in a relationship with somebody that is not fully sexually attracted to you. Bisexuality is kind of a spectrum and you sit on the very "straight" side of it.
No. 2513925
>>2513915The urge to
>pass down my knowledge and experienceis not the same as just "taking care" of. It's literally taking on the parental role for her own fulfillment.
No. 2513937
>>2513917That's why I'm asking, calm the fuck down.
>>2513920Yeah I thought so, just wanted to make sure.
>>2513911Yeah you're right, it's weird though because I can imagine myself making out with her doing other sexual things until they're fully nude. I'm 90% straight I guess.
>>2513910>you sit on the straight sideYeah I thought so but I wanted to make sure because there were moments in my life where I have fallen in love with women and felt that heart pounding and butterflies feeling that ppl feel when they are in love that made me want to ask this question.
No. 2514037
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What color is this? Purple? Fuchsia? (Every time I look up fuchsia it seems too neon though?) this exact shade looks really good on me and I’m having a hard time searching for a match when I’m looking for clothes.
(Also sorry to the nona who replied to me after I deleted my initial post, kek.) This is the same shirt in different lighting, indoor and daylight and it’s wild how different it looks
No. 2514053
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>>2514037No worries anon, here it is again. The last one you posted looked most like amethyst to me
No. 2514056
>>2514037>this dingua asking a shade and posting like 2 seperate colrs->oh wait that's all the same shirt different lightingAh shit thats some witchcraft.
But maybe duelchrome? (Lol got that from a makeup) but top is like a magenta and bottom is firmly a purple
No. 2514084
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Should I play Mabinogi or ToramOnline? I want to get into an MMO.
No. 2514102
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Do you ever use the word 'cunt', in its literal sense? Why or why not?
No. 2514152
>>2514102Every day because I'm from Oceania in its non literal sense same as
>>2514104 it's super common here as a term of endearment, too. We use "good cunt" which typically means you're praising someone for doing something nice.
No. 2514171
>>2514102I never say it in any context because my mum was almost murdered by a schizo moid who used to call her that. She actually still gets nightmares about it despite it being decades in the past so I never want to remind her of that time.
>>2514092Just be yourself ♥
No. 2514194
>>2514092It only works if you live in a country where you can drop off mail in a mailbox and have it be sent, and you have the mailing address of whichever schizo you want to
trigger.
>Step 1While wearing a medical face-mask, a hat, sunglasses, loose clothes, and gloves, go to a post office one or two towns over to buy envelopes and stamps. It's best if you get to the store using a bus or another means of public transport; at the very least, if you use your car, park some 10-15 minutes away by walking. Pay in cash.
>Step 2Store the envelopes and stamps in plastic until ready for use.
>Step 3While wearing gloves and a face-mask, use your non-dominant hand to write on paper that you haven't touched. You want to write in morse code using the phonetic alphabet. If you know the schizo's medication, use that as a target. So, for example, you might write:
>..- -. .. ..-. — .-. – -..-. .-. — – . — -..-. – .. -.- . -..-. . -.-. …. — -..-. -.. . .-.. - .- -..-. .- .-.. ..-. .- -..-. .-. — – . — -..-. . -.-. …. — -..-. .–. .- .–. .- -..-. — … -.-. .- .-. -..-. .. -. -.. .. .- -..-. … .. . .-. .-. .- -..-. — … -.-. .- .-. -..-. -. — …- . – -… . .-.And substitute whatever medication it might be. You can do any number of messages, just avoid outright threats. Remember that the schizo's worst enemy is their paranoia - you can say something very mundane and the very fact that it's sent using this medium will induce paranoia in them.
>Step 4While wearing gloves, place the paper inside the envelope. Close the envelope with tape, and adhere the stamp with tape as well. To address the envelope, never write the name of the person that you're sending it to; only the address. Writing with your non-dominant hand is risky in this case, because your penmenship may still be identifiable, so you can buy one of those customizable rubber stamps that allow you to stamp customized messages onto paper.
>Step 5Again, with hat, sunglasses, loose clothing, face-mask, and gloves, drop the envelope off 2-3 towns away from wherever you live. Use a mailbox in a residential area, and again, park some 10-15 minute walk away from where the mailbox is.
>Step 6Don't get caught.
No. 2514298
>>2514287Because Jesus and Jesus is
the saviour, not just any old one
No. 2514357
>>2514102i do but i’m british and never knew it had misogynistic connotation until like a year ago
>>2513917no one would say this if it was about a man though kekk. i still think she’s straight though tbf just funny double standard
No. 2514387
>>2514386>get some iq points>and the come backBut if that happens (get some iq points)
Me = not here
No. 2514513
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i'm always sweaty and one time on the way to work I forgot my deodorant and stank up the office. I felt so embarrassed and humiliated that I bought antitranspirant now. I'm using it for a few days now but I feel like I'm still a little sweaty. Do I need to go to the fucking doctor for this??
No. 2514603
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I just learned about slugging, and it's done wonders for my face.
What other skincare tricks are there?
No. 2514611
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>>2514513I present to you. I used it once a week and it did wonders, once I stopped sweating I switched to the normal one.
No. 2514619
>>2514433To be honest if people aren’t complimenting you on your attributes like your face or body and you receive more compliments on how you dress or put on makeup then that’s a sign, either that or your fat.
>compliments by menYou can’t really judge them, scrotes nowadays don’t compliment you directly other than in specific circumstances like a club, during a date etc. Otherwise they tend to tell someone who in turn tells you if you have a shared acquaintance because they hope they can set you two up.
No. 2514640
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Does anyone else feel like all mirrors are just awful nowadays? I barely know what I look like because of how different I look in different mirrors. When I look at my body I don’t feel super fat but I look double-wide in my room mirrors. My Uni mirrors I look much closer to what I see when I look down.
No. 2514698
>>2514697ifit was a weird face theyre annoyed with you
but if you were smiling that's just called normal human behaviour
No. 2514732
>>2514706No problem nonna! I love promoting it to people because it did genuinely improve my social life.
I used to dread putting anything because I would sweat through it no matter the temperature and in turn I would also smell, being sweaty made me embarrassed and anxious, which in turn made me sweat more kek.
Using perspirex did really change me, I sweat so little now and it also never smells, I even put gray stuff now!
No. 2515234
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>>2515225Or Idk the context actually
No. 2515239
>>2515225I do this because I'm kinda sadistic. I realized a long time ago that most people that ask for advice already know what they have to do, but they're just looking for an echo to give them an excuse to do what they wanna do. Encouraging bad behaviours and wrong choices is more psychologically fulfilling for me than trying to help them. I don't know why, but seeing someone make the wrong choice or watching them destroy themselves is like a release to me, it gives me a sense of relief.
>Inb4 ree ur bad person reeeI know this.
No. 2515241
>>2515045This
>>2515208 and working something that can be mentally taxing gives you more incentive to "reward " yourself. Easiest way of going about that is to do it with food, since other rewards either take more time or money.
No. 2515432
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Is there a thread on lc to make fun of pickmes like this, ones that arent popular or relevant enough for /w/
No. 2515492
>>25154883 exes, I guess 4 best friends? My first relationship was actually with someone my best friend had previously dated.
Really shocked at this belief. Especially in close friend groups relationship networks are bound to get incestuous.
No. 2515633
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Should i try becoming an ASMR vtuber? a friend told me that with my voice it would be easy money. I already failed a fucking call center interview so my situation is dire. I have okay drawing skills and i heard learning live2D is easy, so i can make my own model. ASMR makes me want to puke but i genuinely cant think of anything else i can do at this point and i have a shit load of free time since i am unemployed.
No. 2515675
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>>2515651I dont see a single asmr vtuber with less than 6 views on twitch. This ugly model has like 40 views topkek.
>>2515657I already do streams and i have a very small fanbase but they dont bring in the bucks. I am already a vtuber so i guess i am already pandering to coomer moids anyways. I really need the money and no one is hiring in my thirdie shithole.
No. 2515872
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Whats your favourite flash game?
No. 2516062
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Penny loafer or mary jane? Patent leather or no?
No. 2516166
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Whats your most retarded fear? mine is submechanophobia, most specifically shipwrecks and animatronics.
No. 2516210
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>>2516205New fear added to my submechanophobia.
No. 2516297
>>2515792God I relate to this so bad. I lowkey haven’t grown out of romanticizing friendship though, I mentioned this on one of these threads before… it’s my natural disposition to, and I always want to make friendship bracelets and bake things for friends and give special gifts etc etc like the friendship is magic fables must have really had an affect on me. I’m lucky that I have some precious friends who like to be that close to me. No one really cares that much about friendship as an adult just relationships, most female friendship now is
being friends with someone until they find a moid to fuck them over and no longer need you haha I joke but honestly like half of the time…
But I had some really intense friendships as a kid where this was mutual, like two of them we were convinced we were like soul sisters or something and would buy some weird shit off of magical websites or whatever to bind each other to ourselves. And like blood rituals and stuff. Anyway I remember writing like poetry for a friend about how amazing she was or something kekk. But yeah I’m not straight, so.
No. 2516369
>>2515792Am 100% straight but there have been phases
not even all too long ago where I've adored friends like that, too.
No. 2516512
>>2515792>>2516297I relate to this, too. Sadly I was also naive and unloved at home so it caused me to be taken advantage of by the people I considered my "friends". I ended up being used sexually by my female "best friend" I had from childhood. She saw me as a convenient plaything to "experiment" with and didn't reciprocate the innocent love I had for her. All my other female friends also ended up being pretty
toxic. I was made fun of by them for being "cheesy" and caring about relationships on a deeper level than they did. I don't do friends anymore. I get too attached and too easily and meanwhile normies just want to pass time or use me for some hidden agenda they have. I feel like I can't trust other women. I trust moids even less, obviously, but other women have always betrayed me. I'd rather be alone.
No. 2516607
>>2516512Nona I’m sorry you went through that, I’m second ayrt and it took me a while to open up as an adult due to feeling the same way you did, when girls I was friends with did not care about me like I did them. I had a lot of self-hatred in my teen years over being ‘cheesy’ too because people had taken advantage of me since childhood, and I had a phase of being incredibly unkind to others (which ironically made me popular at school, jading). But I’ve slowly opened up. I don’t dislike myself - on the contrary I think having the capacity for loving others like this is a blessing. But you need the strength to not let others get to you too. That’s the only way it can work. If someone won’t take me seriously, I won’t take them seriously either. It’s not a betrayal when someone wants to take advantage of me, because I now have the security to see they are the one ruining what could have been a wonderful friendship with someone who cares about them. But there are also those out there who you will relate to, who
will adore your companionship as much as you adore theirs, it can be the most beautiful thing. It’s home. So don’t shut yourself from missing out if it does come to you. I’ve found friends like this from hobbies, my three dearest friends are two I met online 7 years ago who I now see IRL and 1 I only met a year ago but we’re so close already. It’s great to finally feel safe to
care.
Maybe a silly thing to mention kek but towards the end of working through this I listened to Björk for the first time. A lot of her songs resonated with this part of me but ‘Pleasure is all mine’ and ‘All is full of love’ especially made me come to a eureka moment, they hold a special place to me.
No. 2516617
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>>2516166That a black hole swallows us all and I'll be alive for that because it'll just happen out of nowhere.
No. 2516620
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>>2516529The wonky stage is just a normal part of growing kek. I was legitimately built like picrel for most of my teenage years.
No. 2516656
>>2516512I'm the first ayrt and I'm really sorry that happened to you. I didn't go through anything as bad as you but similar to
>>2516607 most of those girls didn't reciprocate my level of affection and some of them hurt and betrayed me pretty badly. I think it gave me some issues I carried into both friendships and relationships going forward.
>>2516607Good advice and great taste in Björk songs nona
No. 2516669
>>2516529I was weird and ugly, i had crooked teeth too. I also dressed awful and had these ugly square shaped transparent glasses kek. I think it’s normal to look weird when you are a teen. Let kids be kids.
But I can say that I became pretty over the years and now that I’m 22 I really like myself.
No. 2516776
>>2516760Basically what
>>2516774 said, it's basically the same appeal as things like the Yakuza series (except with more romance because tall dark Italian bad boys)
No. 2516868
>>2516829do you mean literal gold? it's probably because it turned out to be way more work than it was worth and a lot of people wasted money moving out to california or alaska and then didn't actually end up finding enough gold to make them rich
kind of like these women who make an onlyfans thinking they'll become millionaires and then make minimum wage I think gold rushes were hyped up too by the people were selling pans and mining equipment etc. also a lot of it has been mined by now probably. my uncle even owns a literal goldmine and he isn't rich
No. 2516890
>>2516877Selectively mute is like. You remain quiet for most people and you only have trusted few people you're fine with, rarely, verbally speaking to. I've heard of some mute children who use like, ipads to communicate because they have some like, tts thing on it. I would consider that selectively mute.
Whereas staying quiet is you just generally don't want to talk. You don't have difficulty talking (like mutism), you just don't want to. I was personally very quiet in highschool. I was able to speak perfectly fine, I just didn't want to talk to most people.
But I'm not like, a psychologist or speech therapist so don't trust my answer. There could be something else entirely.
No. 2517122
>>2517097since i was born, so 27 years
for some reason they don't grow past a certain length and i never bothered shaving any part of my self
No. 2517127
>>2517122Are they meant to grow past a certain length?
>>2517107>>2517125I don’t understand either of these
No. 2517362
>>2517059In the Nature vs. Nurture War, the factions take either the "sexuality is an inborn and inalienable facet of a human being," or "sexuality is a facet formed and molded by the Other and is malleable." I fall tend to believe in the former rather than the latter. I do think that heterosexuality and homosexuality are relatively rare, you often see this chart that says something like "90% of the population is heterosexual and 10% of the population is homosexual," and I do believe the 10% part, but I doubt the 90% part. To me, there are just as many straight people in the world as there are gay people. I really believe that the majority of straight people are just deeply alienated from their sexuality due to religious, societal, and personal factors, and that there are way fewer straight people than we think there are. If 10% of humans are strictly homosexual, then 10% of humans are strictly heterosexual, and the rest are bisexual to varying degrees. If someone is 100% homosexual or heterosexual, then watching pornography or looking at dirty magazines doesn't have the power to "turn" them bisexual. Sexuality has been completely ruined by religion and politics.
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>>2517326what does this have to do with japan
No. 2517392
>>2517362That's like claiming there are more people who are actually amputees but still have their limbs so don't know it yet.
Or that a non-practicing [insert religion here] is an actual member of said religion.
No. 2517397
>>2517393If you check one of the vintage record stores in Kyoto, you might find a copy.
>>2517392Not really, no.
>>2517383It's definitely a scale. I don't like the "oh everyone is bisexual!" theory because it's usually used to shit on homosexuals, but I do believe that there are homosexuals and heterosexuals out there. I just believe that there are fewer heterosexuals than reported, and that there are more bisexuals than both heterosexuals and homosexuals.
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>>2517392Nta but I don't think amputees and repressed bisexuals who seek out sexual images and videos of the same sex to masturbate to are comparable.
In the same breath I don't believe "lesfujos" are real either, they're kinsey 5s to me but would not date a male so adopt a lesbian identity while having a bisexual orientation. "Straight" people who look at porn of the same sex are kinsey 1s who adopt a heterosexual identity but have a bisexual orientation. However because neither of these parties would ever really act on their bisexuality, or either not have the opportunity to, they blend in fairly easily as their adopted identity.
I read a stat once where in the 90s a lesbian community were interviewed and only 1% were found to be truly lesbian despite all claiming to be lesbian. I'm bi so I just think that's sad, but I can understand it from the perspective of "marketing yourself to who you want to attract". Women who prefer men will call themselves straight, women who prefer women will call themselves lesbian. I can't change their way of thinking but I think there's too much negative stigma around bisexuals for them to embrace it because it's too risky (boyfriend may ask her for threesomes; girlfriend may assume she wants to cheat with a moid, etc). Kinsey 1s and Kinsey 5s from my experience only ever like one person of the same/opposite sex but never make a move on it so they don't really feel the need to tell people. I think that's partly what that nonna means when she says she theories that there are 10% of homosexual and 10% of heterosexual people with the rest being bi "to varying degrees".
Btw this isn't related to "straight/gay person shown porn and if they react then they're really bi!!1!" This is related only to organic discovery of sexual interests via their own actions. That is, "seeking something out of their own volition". However, I don't approve of someone's first exposure to their orientation being via porn. I think porn is damaging and induces a sort of soulless/plastic attraction. I've dated both men and women and the difference between porn consumers vs non-porn consumers is staggering. The ones who didn't consume porn were much more interesting and we could talk about anything. The ones who did consume it were not emotionally intelligent and had low empathy. It was like trying to teach a child why certain things were bad, in the end I just left. If you have to explain to someone why porn is bad they are not soulmate material kek.
No. 2517513
>>2517497For me personally, as someone who’s been in my relationship since I was a teenager, I don’t feel ‘better’ than a single woman. I do feel happy to be in the relationship, and I love my Nigel, but I am still just an equal woman to a single woman.
The rent thing is nice tho, and I don’t have to drive myself anywhere or take out garbage. Obvious bonus is I get to live with my best friend. Besides that, it’s not like it changes who you are as a person or your worth.
I can imagine for some women who are with the kinds of Men who end up posted on here, they might contort their own ego to feel like just being with a partner makes them ‘better’ than other women as cope. Rooted in self esteem issues bc they can’t leave/be alone I would assume. I think that’s more SAHM types tho.
No. 2517573
>>2517562Hooray! Then maybe you'd like Batman: The Telltale series and the much better, amazing, perfect, best adaptation in history Batman: The Enemy Within. The choices matter in bot but especially the latter. The difference between the endings you get is like night and day.
Detention. A game about a girl stuck at school but then things go south real quick. There are 2 different endings, a good one and a bad one. But replaying the game after either is so worth it because it adds so much context. It's a puzzle game if you don't mind.
Alter Ego. A mobile game where you enter a wolrd where you get personality tests with some librarian girl, but it gets weird real quick depending on your answers. There's both good and bad endings. At the end of the good ending, it becomes a real book club where they give you a task to read a real literature book in a set time window and once the time is up theg quiz you about the book you read. If you're into books, you might love this.
Dinner with an owl. I didn't play this myself but watched it on YouTube, cool puzzle game with a plot twist.
Dreams: Art's Dream. Artsy game, quite literally in the title, about a jazz musician trying to rebuild his career and reconnect with his band, and there are some surreal adventures connecting to his psychology. There are choices but I'm not sure if they actually affect the ending tbh.
Erica. Kinda sucks but it's live action rather than CGI which is why I gave it a shot. It's about some cult or something idk I didn't get it.
I know it's cringe but Life is Straneg is kinda fun if you turn you brain off while playing it.
My Child: Lebensborn. Genuinely upsetting and depressing game because of the heavy subject matter and that it was based on real people's lives and accounts. Takes place in Norway after the world war where you play as a single parent who adopted one of those kids Hitler forced attractive men and women to have for the Aryan race, and you raise this child and see the things they go through and can't really help or do anything and they get depressed. There's a happy ending ofcourse but either ending made me cry like a baby. It's a nurturing mobile game though. It has implications of CSA so trade carefully.
The Path. Didn't play it but watched a video on it. It's a game about Red Riding Hood being a group of sisters and each of them symbolizes an aspect and stage of the life of a girl growing up in the world. And the wolve is all the bad stuff girls have to go through, from awful boyfriends to periods and stuff. I can't remember if there were choices though.
If you're ok with point and click games with a fixed story and not much alternative endings or choices, I recommend the Rusty Lake and Cube Escape series for the insane lore. Avoid the annoying gendie infested obnoxious fandom for your own sanity though.
I haven't played or watched anything about games like Batman: Arkham Knight or L.A. Noir but they sound promising so maybe check these out. I hope you find something you like in this list! Have fun!
No. 2517860
>>2517591I guess? Though it’s not as common as people in the same age range becoming like siblings.
>>2517670There’s an app called Libby that lets you borrow audiobooks from your local libraries for free. It’ll get returned after like two weeks but you can just keep renewing the loan if you want.
No. 2517917
>>2517611I doubt that though. 3% of women are lesbians. The numbers are small already but 1% of 3% is 0.03% which is kind of insane because that’s 3 in 10,000
women, not even all people. That’d be like 3 in 20,000 people. Bit too much imo.
I’d like to understand what metric is tested, because I don’t think “I dated a guy in high school” or “I had a crush on a guy as a kid” counts at all. Society pushes heterosexuality and in some cases it can be hard to break out of mimicking that especially as a kid - and even some completely straight people had blips like that for some reason.
That being said I agree with the idea most people are varying degrees of bisexual with society and psychology influencing how this is expressed. I remember bringing up Ancient Rome and some anons had the audacity to say that these men were actually still heterosexual. Really goes to show how fluid people view “heterosexuality”. I don’t care if it’s an “act of dominance” wanting to penetrate a male in the ass is gay kek. Or dismiss it as just a man thing, which I disagree with even if male sexuality can be completely different.
No. 2518102
>>2518076Yeah you're right but this isn't the first time I lash out at someone in anger for raising their voice at me at work, I work a front facing job I need to be on my best behavior.
Ngl he looked at me like he was going to hunt me down and kill me once i'm done with my shift which is especially scary since most people tell me I look 17 at most.
No. 2518106
>>2518059>>2518102I did that the other day to a moid who acted like a psychopath
He didn't even have a reward card and he wasn't a frequent shopper. Some male customers scare me enough that I start putting up the bitch defense. The male store manager is a useless cuck when it comes to helping his employees with rude assholes so I felt basically on my own. I did overstep, but that's not going to stop me from putting up a nicer rude front in the future in response to rudeness. If I get fired good riddance I hate this fucking job and I have been wanting to quit and find a new one anyway
No. 2518124
>>2518106>If I get fired good riddance I hate this fucking job and I have been wanting to quit and find a new one anywayAyrt and holy shit, same. Like this job is relatively ok, my autistic ass just can't contain my anger and disdain for people. Like I cannot mask around people, at all, and I'm prone to anger outbursts that I know I need to contain but I wont let customers walk all over me and disrespect me.
What did you say to him anon?
No. 2518246
>>2518064remember when the confessions thread went through a phase of anons confessing to this every few weeks kek
>>2518182in terms of looks, 1920s-60s. we have vintage fashion/aesthetic threads on /g/ too and history ones in /m/
No. 2518280
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>>2518182I'm pretty sure being into aesthetic eras has been trendy for years now. But to answer your question, I like 20s-50s, 90s and y2k fashion and makeup, I'm warming up to some early 2010s stuff like twee and the obsession with British or French aesthetics everywhere lol. But 2015 onwards is trash. I dislike 60s hippie shit, don't mind 70s and 80s but don't think they're as pretty or fashionable as the eras mentioned above. Like I can't see myself wearing anything from those 2 eras and actually pulling it off. While I can pull off any 20s-50s era stuff or 90s and y2k stuff easily. I have a soft spot for Victorian and Edwardian era aesthetics too but the fashion is too impractical in the modern era to be worn on a daily basis. It's beautiful, though.
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my doctor put me on lyrica for nerve pain and this shit has made me SO fucking horny holy shit. it's actually bananas. at first it was kinda cool but now it's genuinely making it difficult to focus (i also have adhd). nonnas, i've literally been sitting at my desk staring at spreadsheets for 6 hours but i've been so aroused this entire time.
my pussy is wet as i type this kek. i have had to persevere with the strength of sheer mental force and vyvanse. it's been three days now.i dont want to goon anymore. if this goes on i'll have to wear the sweater
>>2511808 also wtf if this is what moids go through then that's crazy. anyways, what do i do?
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>>2517473I don’t think fujolesbians are real either. People like to label hop to find community, women who date people of both sexes are likely to change their label frequently to fit with whoever they’re dating. I’d assume this goes for communities too, a woman who doesn’t want to date men but feels attraction towards them will probably feel uncomfortable calling herself bi or straight. Also when it comes to porn, i’d assume it’s similar. Women watching porn with only women in it and assuming they must be homo or whatever.
>I read a stat once where in the 90s a lesbian community were interviewed and only 1% were found to be truly lesbian despite all claiming to be lesbian.I think you’re referring to Lisa Diamond? It was way more than 1% but anyways I hate how she concluded it was all due to “sexual fluidity” without looking into the cultural aspects of it all. A lot of self proclaimed “lesbians” back in the day either didn’t know/think that bisexuality existed as a label or were ‘late bloomers” (who still exist) with kids looking to settle down with a woman. Even Diamond noted that these women simply identified as lesbians, and that lesbians who always considered themselves rigidly homosexual did not have any change. Here’s some quotes:
>Other women with nonexclusive attractions would routinely change their identity labels in accordance with their current romantic partner or social network. If they were seriously involved with a woman, they identified as lesbian. If they were seriously involved with a man, they identified as bisexual or heterosexual, all the while acknowledging that they remained attracted to both sexes. “At this point in my life,” a twenty-five-year-old bisexual woman explained, “I’m starting to think about a long-term, permanent partner, so I think if I met somebody and made that kind of lifetime commitment, then I would also be committing to that particular sexuality. But it could go either way, it could be a man or woman.”>It became clear that the sample could be divided into two groups: (1) lesbians who had been exclusively attracted to and involved with women throughout the study, and who were least likely to change their identities; and (2) everyone else. The other participants reported consistently nonexclusive attractions, increasing other-sex behavior, and were most likely to change their identities. Clearly, the women who were changing identities were not undergoing changes in their orientations. They had been attracted to both women and men all along.>Thus women who reported predominant or near-exclusive attractions to women in 1995 tended to remain pretty much the same. The women with more nonexclusive attractions—those who identified as bisexual or unlabeled—underwent the most sizeable shiftsFake lesbians have always existed, I saw some woman on kiwiscrotes talk about how all lesbians were fake because SHE called herself gay and ended up with a moid. She said it as if she wasn’t leeching off of the lesbian community for support and community kek. It’s always this weird backstabby behavior that these types exhibit and I hate it so much.
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>>2518569? I’m talking about both detrans TIFs and TIMs. It’s a pretty big deal about how the different way progesterone (bioidentical, birth control behaves both agonistically and antagonistically) makes you horny as opposed to testosterone. I’ve looked up a lot about it because it’s interesting. The former has more of a psychological component and when people discuss how male vs female hormones feel, they describe male sexuality as a frequent physical urge with female sexuality being an infrequent but triggerable pervasive psychological urge (with more enjoyment of sensuality/touch). Some people found one or the other more difficult to deal with but it’s inconsistent.
>reported having 0 libidoI know TIMs that take T blocked and E report no sexuality without progesterone which is always interesting go me. Estrogen in women tends to be correlated with sexuality and arousal (even in men too at least endogenously?) and seems to play the role in adolescent female behaviour T does in males - ie it is correlated to teenage girls’ aggression and sexual interest.
Testosterone is absolutely not the only thing controlling “horniness”. Contrary to hypotheses SSRIs tend to raise testosterone most of the time and yet they are associated with lower libido too. It’s dumb to insinuate being really horny as a woman is experiencing what men are feel when they experience sexuality differently, and horniness =/= what testosterone feels like. You could easily say it’s what dopamine, progesterone, estrogen etc feel like (which is more likely as a woman).
No. 2518655
>>2517497Most women in relationships look down on single women. They also tend to cut off single women from their friendship groups because they are terrified of a single friend seducing their moid (which just proves how delusional and dumb they are that they stay with someone who they think will run off at any moment with another woman)
I really dont know any woman with a relationship that I envy, most womens scrotes are hideously ugly to me and seem to ask for so much more back than they give. and 80% of the time they end up divorcing or breaking up anyway, especially if theyre younger than 40. just seems like a huge waste of energy tbh.
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>>2518655>Most women in relationships look down on single women.I don't think this is true. I think people like being in love and thus prefer being in a relationship than single, and they generally assume other people do too since it's a really common thing to want.
>They also tend to cut off single women from their friendship groups because they are terrified of a single friend seducing their moidI also don't think this is true. I think women in relationships just tend to spend more of their fun time with their moid than with friends
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>>2518902Idk if it's a thing where you live but in my country you can buy smokable blends of herbs and flowers. It's still bad for you but way less and some don't have any tobacco
No. 2519127
>>2518902Just get those little nicotine pouches that fit beneath your lip. The common brand for them now is called "ZYN" or "Zonnic." Nicotine isn't a carcinogen, the chemicals put in cigarettes to preserve them and the smoke itself is carcinogenic. That's why stuff like
>>2518913 can also cause cancer even though there's no tobacco in it. Nicotine is a very nice drug, if you use it sparingly it can be a perfect way to immediately relieve stress or to focus when needed. The reason why it gets such a bad rep is because it's so highly addictive that it requires a lot of care to maintain the same high.
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>>2519132Hernan Drago is a model who's been married to his wife for 20 years (and his wife is not even a stacy but normie tier). I always wonder if he cheated, it sounds too beautiful to be true…
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What's that font called?
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>>2519211I googled stuff and yeah, this is his current gf, she's 30 so she's 20 years younger than him. Grimm… does is always end up like this with hot men
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What accent is this?
No. 2519306
>>2519132What I find often is that attractive men, who have always been attractive, tend to seek less validation. An ugly man with an opportunity will always seek out validation, that’s why they micro cheat or go into full blown cheating.
A scrote is a scrote anyway, but I think that it’s better to just pick an attractive man rather than settle.
No. 2519358
>>2519325? Lots of Americans are named Olga. It's obvious she's from Chicago by the way she says her R's and the vowel sounds. I assume she might be hard of hearing or maybe partially paralyzed because of a stroke and that that impacts her speech.
>>2519355Stop trolling kek
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Any nonnies have that image of the guy in the business suit getting his face shoved into a cake by another man?
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Where can I pírate adobe products?
No. 2520867
>>2520809I once expressed to my shrink that I felt as though I was the glue that held all my friendships together, I lamented and said thus: "If I were to stop reaching out, all of those that I call friends would fall away." The shrink rebuked me and told me that in life, we often fall into patterns unknowingly. It isn't that your friends dislike you, it's that they've become so used to you reaching out first that they assume if you don't reach out, you must be busy or uninterested. Perhaps your friend may be thinking to herself, "ah, Anon must have forgotten about me," or something of the like. If you worry about being the one that always reaches out first, express your concerns to your friends. If they really like you, then they'll understand.
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How should I friend-zone a moid today nonnies? I think he thinks our planned hangout tonight as a date. Should I pull out the ''I'm a lesbian'' card..?
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Are you supposed to replace these things like toothbrushes or can you just put them in the washing machine and wash them?
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>>2520056Dying over this reply
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Where is the top hand coming from? I think the bottom hand belongs to the red-haired girl, right?
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>>2521077Red hair lady's other hand? Sorta like pic
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>>2521145These CrunchyRoll standees are what made me wonder but I forgot that importation might be why they're expensive. Still ridiculous though and when I was reading a bit more about standees, there are some that apparently go for $100?! Guessing it's the art itself like you said and also limited runs that make weebs experience FOMO if they don't get them.
No. 2521158
>>2521156I mainly notice if he has a cute face and clothing style and think,
"Damn, that guy is pretty cute but I'd never have a chance with him." Then I forget about it shortly after.
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I dont know a non-retarded sounding way to phrase this, but do people with body dysmorphia in countries without nudity taboos like Finland still hide their bodies? And if they do, are they seen as complete weirdos? Id imagine they still do since anachans are concerned with their weight not their genitalia and a nudity taboo(or lack thereof) wouldn't really change that, but Im still curious.
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>>2521386manic street preachers
>Richard James Edwards (22 December 1967 – disappeared 1 February 1995, declared dead 24 November 2008), also known as Richey James or Richey Manic, was a Welsh musician who was the lyricist and rhythm guitarist of the alternative rock band Manic Street Preachers. No. 2521404
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>>2521386Malice Mizer, Antic Cafe (Bou era), a lot of visual kei bands have guitarists with flashier visuals than the vocalists (that usually result in them becoming for popular than the vocalists). I know Gackt is more popular in the Japanese mainstream, but I would say among a lot of fans Mana is the standout member of MM because of his role as composer/his clothing line/his visuals. I think Bou also got more popular than the other members of A Cafe for being cute and feminine/doing more individual modeling for Sex Pot Revenge than the other members (Picrel).
No. 2521523
>>2521474most people who came back around were the school government types who actually had rapport with teachers and admin. so, it's not really like peaking. some of them angled school service careers into a school admin careers, so came back from time to time to kiss ass/"maintain networks"
imo the "peaked creeps" are the ones who leave but come back to hang out with students and involve in more of the student affairs. this was usually some loser Asian moid hanging out in anime club at lunchtime
No. 2521813
>>2521502Another retard that doesn't know how to lurk.
>>2521637Another retard that spoonfeeds at every opportunity.
No. 2522105
>>2522100If you're white, you can make white moids seethe really hard by saying you have yellow fever. Then they'll get really mad and start sperging about how Asians have small penises and other bullshit, and it's really funny how pissed they get.
(Hope this doesn't count as racebaiting)
No. 2522180
>>2522117>>2522105These are both excellent answers. I would add that you should openly criticize male celebrities that men love to shill as attractive (e.g. Pedro Pascal, Henry Cavill, Ryan Reynolds) as being old and ugly and busted. Bonus points if you mention balding and wrinkles and compare them to a skinny, cute younger guy.
My favorite tried-and-true way to make moids seethe is to openly declare that you would never date a man who watches porn, and that you consider any man who has ever watched porn to be disgusting used goods. Talk about how it ruins both their mind and their penis and makes them a shriveled-up, limp-dicked loser. The amount of cope and seethe that ensues will provide endless entertainment.
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>>2522210>it's a made up concept to control women's relationshipsDo you believe in the Illuminati too? It's not made up, because past does define the present.
>I wish I had lost it with someone I didn't give a shit about because I will always remember that exThen you would always remember that other person instead. The fact that you care so much means virginity isn't something to be tossed aside lightly. What you should have done is not lost it at all until you're sure it's someone good.
>>2522170If you're that worried, the only true method is to wait until marriage. Waiting for months won't do anything because moids like to play the long con. Picrel.
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Anons how do you usually unwind after work? I work at a computer all day so sometimes idk what to do else than sit on my private computer to relax. I don't feel like reading or drawing kek
No. 2522621
>>2522170I agree with the other nona. If you tell him you want to wait until marriage, he'll skedaddle faster than greased lightning.
>I will make him wait a few months for sex to weed out the impatient typesBe careful. There are still patient moids who will use you for sex. They'll stay with you for years while sleeping with someone else on the side, or they'll dump you immediately for someone else.
No. 2522642
>>2522366yes, of course I put value in it, because I did it with a moid that traumatized me and terrorized me for 2 years. if I had sex with someone casually it would be a casual interaction which at most I would feel used but not actually going through an
abusive relationship like I did with my first ex, it would be just a random guy I had sex with, not someone who made my life hell for 2 years. only a scrote or a virgin wouldn't understand this.
No. 2522689
>>2522673At least they're here and not on other ibs kek.
Hope your exams go well, student nonnies, make sure to get lots of sleep.
No. 2522809
>>2522785Pluto is firmly in Aquarius as of November 2024. A lot of things are going to be changing, on an individual scale and on a global scale. A lot of things that were merged whilst Pluto was in Capricorn will come apart again. If you thought the recent plague was a major global event, then you need to prepare yourself for what's coming in the near future. For context, the last time Pluto was in Aquarius, the French made away with the Ancient Regime. So much will be broken soon, not just in the physical concrete sense, but in the spiritual and ideological sense. A lot of the institutional power that has built up over the past 15 years will shatter. Justice and truth will assume new meanings, and a lot of the imbalances that we've had to deal with will become balanced. It might not be utopian, but trust me when I say that our world will be much fairer and freer in the 2040s than it was in the 2020s.
Anonymity is one of the major facets of LC, but the importance of anonymity is fading. Not just on a societal level, but at a personal level too. Why do we feel the need to be anonymous? Whatever reason, you will find that in the coming years, you will become more grounded, more secure, and more ready to show yourself to others. Things that you share here beneath the guise of anonymity, you will scream at the top of your lungs in the streets soon enough.
Before, when you saw the Slow Hare on the 3rd plane, she would run in circles. Now, she runs straight. Straight in the sense of Halley's comet anyway, if you know what I mean.
(go to the astrology thread) No. 2522874
>>2522868I hope you feel better
nonnie, it'll be better for your health to look for some friends first
but I do selfishly wish the site was more active. No. 2522878
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>>2522678>>2522688This kind of mentality is annoying since most of the time it's common phrases and typing. Sometimes I'll see the most benign post get accused of being some personalityfag who's typing style is entirely different in every way.
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>>2522856I gazed into my crystal ball and meditated with your vibrational energy in mind. While meditating on your eternal spirit, and your current incarnation, I saw your past, present, and future. The sum of all the pains and all the pleasures that you have experienced and will experience. I saw who you were before we made contact, and who you will be after we cease contact. Everything became clear and crisp, like a glacial lake on a calm day. Your second child will die of leukemia at age 9, in August, and the pain will lead to your first divorce some months later. You'll recover from it though. Your greatest joy will be in your 67th year, when you hold your first, and only, granddaughter in your arms. 15 tears of genuine joy will fall down your cheeks, the same number of incarnations that you'll live before achieving nirvana. She'll be named after you, by the way. She'll accomplish the things that you set out to do but failed to do. In your next life, when you're a sparrow, you'll fly beneath the azure expanse and you will finally feel the freedom that you so desperately sought for so long.
>>2522861AYRT. I don't think the internet will be important by then. I think our lives will be too pure for it. We'll look back on it fondly. LC may not exist as a virtual place anymore, but it'll always exist as an astral place within ourselves. We'll all meet each other again.
No. 2522914
>>2522911Thin makeup brush
Alcohol wipe on a tootpick
Maybe a handheld vaccuum
Those cleaning goop jars you see but they're kinda gimmicky
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>>2522911Like
>>2522913 said, get yourself one of these. You need to remember to turn off and unplug the electronics you're cleaning before you start.
No. 2522927
>>2522919That's not compressed air.
Contact cleaner contains a solvent for cleaning switches and buttons and etc.
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could there ever be a gacha critical/gacha drama thread? i don't care about gacha at all but i do love lurking the genshit general on /m/, so fun to read about the ongoings of the fandom and da wei bullshit
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>>2523006I'm seconding a general video game drama/cow thread. It's not that I'm not interested in
>>2523001 nona's idea, I just think the milk would dry up if we limit ourselves to gacha games. I do think we should include gachas in the general thread, though. It would be fun to see the scara/wanderer fallout in the Chinese/Korean/Japanese incel communities documented.