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No. 359606

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Pic: John Galliano Fall Winter 2009.

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Bumping with stuff from my folder

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ladies, I am craving a dramatic Mugler-esque blazer/jacket. accentuated wasp waits, pointy or padded shoulders, basques… I just obviously do not want to pay actual Mugler prices, obviously. Do you have any recommendations for the next closest thing (aside from the H&M collab lmao)?

No. 359730

Mugler was recreating 40s fashion with an 80s /90s sexy flavor so just go back to the 40s and look for inspo then build your own wardrobe. That’s what he did.

No. 359731

Not even being dismissive of Mugler I love his designs but in case you wanted a tip, that’s what he did. That’s why the new stuff after he sold the brand doesn’t hit right, they left out the structured vintage 40s flavor

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Please don’t mock me but I want to dress like this Barbie

No. 359738

Gothic bohemian is a very achievable and good style don’t feel embarrassed

No. 359739

Saw this on the front page and had to click. This is so cute. Unfortunately clothes like this are a bitch to find (unless you plan on making it) and where would you even wear this?

No. 359742

Just buy things with real embroidery not printed patterns, and also some lace embellishments. It’s an anti-fast-fashion style because you can’t get embroidery and crochet/lace in fast fashion. It will cost a bit more than some styles but not a ton, it’s a doable look.

No. 359861

I was thinking more along the lines of tips for less price-y dupes/brands but alright

No. 359864

>and where would you even wear this?
Anywhere you want aside from the obvious exceptions like your job at a law firm or a hospital etc. If you pull it off, you pull it off, simple as that. This thread is constantly baffled that people can go out in clothes that aren't a beige selection from Zara or COS

No. 359892

I adore this. It would work for any formal event for sure, just requires confidence. I'm not sure where you'd find that silhouette but black garments with gold embroidery are findable.

No. 359893

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What colour would be most versatile when buying a slip? I do have a black one on hand for darker dresses and I want one for when I wear lighter coloured dresses, which is better beige, cream or white?

No. 359896

I guess something close to your skin tone.

No. 359909

You can wear it anywhere. Lolitas dress in a similar way just to get iced coffee, it's a matter of confidence and not caring about stares.

No. 359924

Those clothes in that picture are completely unwearable in day to day life if you're concerned with socially fitting in instead of sticking out like a sore thumb. Unless you live in a big fashionable city where no one bats an eye at shit. Nta.

No. 359925

Yeah because they’re tiny Barbie clothes. Can’t fit into them

No. 359927

kek fair.

No. 359948

you know I don't disagree with you but I overdress anyways even if strangers stare or think I'm weird, fashion is my #1 love and form of expression. My joy from wearing cool clothes outweighs the social anxiety of sticking out but it was really hard to overcome at first tbh. I'm a little sad that all the cool "-core" aesthetics zoomers are coming up with are like an online-only phenomenon and then you go outside and everyone is wearing athleisure but oh well kek I will not spend my one life dressing boring to fit in

No. 359994

Nude for sure.

No. 360006

also ntayrt but idg this, is this kind of view an american thing? i wouldn't consider my city particularly big or 'fashionable' at all, unless you are one of those people who just consider all of europe inherently more chic or something, and i see plenty of uh. quirked up people in the streets. at my office we have a couple of zany colorful ladies and people absolutely adore them (helps that they also happen to be nice and bubbly people to match their fits). in a super corporate firm i get it, but otherwise? nobody gives a fuck

No. 360009

nta but am american and yeah outfits like that would draw attention. even a dress or skirt that's much more simpler/basic looking outside of formal settings results in people asking what occasion you're getting dressed up for (and in one instance accused of trying to 'show off' or seeking attention. again these weren't even detailed clothes, just non athleisure wear/not jeans)

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How to combine colors like picrel with more muted shades? I love this style but I don't fully know how to wear it and make it work without wearing all black.

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Nonas, I'm really excited and nervous. I got this skirt from loveshackfancy that I've had my eye on all year at a crazy sale price and I really hope it fits, I've never bought anything from this brand before but I've been in love with the skirt's print since I laid eyes on it and am so happy it'll be mine soon. just needed to gush a little. (though i'm also kind of feeling the price, i got a cardigan to wear with it and I really hope I won't be disappointed since they're final sale kek)

No. 360033

The colors in your picrel are pretty bright, I find it difficult to match bright colors with muted ones unless it's a monochromatic palette. So rather than something muted, I'd pick a bright color similar to one in the pattern, preferably one of the main colors. For example, it it were a skirt, I'd pick a green or a magenta top. I'd sooner match it with another bright colored pattern or something neon than with muted colors. Alternatively, you get something in the same style but more muted or with fewer colors.

No. 360034

Yeah…I lived with those comments for years in a small city and then also in a large city but at the end of the day who cares

No. 360035

I am introverted but like to dress weird and deep down I wish no one would see me but they do and that’s just life. Even though other people want to say shit I dress stupid and retarded on the daily. I’ve had people say things like “you’re so colorful you must be trying to attract a man” and it’s kinda funny

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>and in one instance accused of trying to 'show off' or seeking attention
I've had someone say something along these lines about me before as well. She was telling my friend that she thinks I "try too hard" because of how I style myself. Why are people so miserable kek, god forbid someone wants to wear something that isn't picrel not that I mind if people do, looks comfy but it seems like it's always people who wear the most basic clothing that talk shit about what others wear

No. 360147

Canadian so not exactly the same as America but when I wear a statement piece I tend to get compliments and people asking where I got x piece. There's probably some people who think I'm attention-seeking but they keep it to themselves.
You can't really match muted and bright like this, it just washes out the muted colours further. If you don't want to wear black you have to pick a color in the print and try to match with it. So one of the floral colors or green like the leaves.

No. 360165

What's the kibbe type if you have features that would look good in an older time period like medieval or victiorian, like when you have an 'antique' or 'old' looking face? I thought one of the classic types but my features aren't balanced enough. Thought dramatic but I'm far from looking sharp or well, dramatic and I look bad with slicked back hair and with straight cut clothing. My best hairstyles are long and wavy or curly but not in a messy way, and wavy and curly updos with tendrils around the face. As for clothing it's harder to figure out other than no sharp cuts, no tight clothing and nothing cropped.

I think my face looks like if you take a Romantic or SG face and stretch it vertically, but my body type resembles gamine (cannot pull off any of the clothing tho)

No. 360167

What's your height

No. 360173

162 cm/5'3

No. 360187

Does anyone have a good resource for determining your color season??

I've tried so many tests and quizzes online and I always get a different result. I even tried an app that used the paper test with the camera and I got a completely different result than what I usually get.

I mostly have blacks and pastels in my wardrobe which I think it's totally wrong because I usually get a type of autumn.

I'm also a (soft?) Gamine based on those AlyArt videos.

I just really want to clean up and reconfigure my closed with colors that actually will look good on me.

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I can't tell if my new shoes fit or not. I'm between size 8.5 and 9, depending on the shoes, and these are 8.5. They're a cute pair of low-heeled sling-backs–picrel. Not super comfortable yet which is why I'm not sure if they fit, but I think I might need to just break them in. It was the last pair in my size and otherwise sold out. I want to keep them but I don't know.

No. 360203

bring it to the color season thread nona (also, why are you spacing your post like that) >>348964

No. 360207

I think I'm just gonna start shopping at Zara and cheap Chinese retailers unapologetically because every time I go out to the mall and high end stores I notice loose threads on clothes. What's the point in spending more if it's already falling apart?

No. 360208

It's all made in the same place

No. 360210

theconceptwardrobe has a quiz that breaks down the elements of color analysis pretty well. if you're finding it really hard to figure out which season you are despite meticulous research it's possible you're in between two. I am as well, in between deep autumn and deep winter. my undertones are neutral warm and my overtones are warm so I'm too warm to be a winter, but my skin has a lot of brightness/clarity which is a winter trait (whereas autumns are muted rather than bright). I'm in-between both seasons (true dark) but lean towards autumn, so I stick with gold autumn jewellery and makeup with more warmth to the colours, but can easily wear the deep winter palette as clothing and have it complement me rather than clash even though I'm warm toned rather than cool toned.

if you have olive skin (like myself) it can be very difficult to pinpoint your season because of the yellow overtones. but the good thing about having olive skin is that it's actually easy to pull off clothes even if they're technically out of your season without them looking horrible, you can get away with breaking color rules with an olive skin tone

No. 360213

can't recommend going to tailors enough. get a regular black blazer that fits you right in the shoulders, then get it nipped in the waist, exact to your measurements. it shouldn't be crazy expensive.
i love getting my stuff adjusted to fit me or completely altered according to my vision.
not just mugler, but the 80s were so heavily influenced by the 40s. the main difference was how boxy rather than triangular everything was. (then you have more nuances with sleeve length and the overall size of things.) it gets to the point of 40s enthusiasts buying 80s clothes and styling them in a 40s way, since it's cheaper than buying 40s vintage.
i love how fashion cycles. the 70s had so much 30s inspo, and now we see the 90s making a comeback.
my schizo take is that dior's 50s feel a little bit victorian. i won't elaborate.
slight derail but tonnes of (shitty raschel) lace in fast fashion made lace feel tacky for decades. poor machine imitation of previously less accessible luxury makes even the real thing seem tacky. after polyester satin became a thing, satin (previously made of silk) stopped being associated with luxury. first it becomes accessible, then becomes overdone to death, then stops being coveted. its not accessibility im bitching about, but rather people overdoing it.
avoid white slips and white bras for thin white fabrics. they will shine through. something close to your skin tone is ideal.
reject the mall and be free. it's all fast fashion, even with a bigger price tag. i made the switch to small european brands and i'm happier. these smaller brands care about quality, and are more or less transparent about where and how they source and make their stuff.

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the description isn't much to go off of, but maybe SN. Apparently a lot of SNs initially think they're gamines. I think I remember the book saying something positive about antiques for soft naturals but I don't really remember. Just read the description and see if it fits.

I do this. It's fast-fashion or second-hand for me. Nothing else is worth the price tag. And honestly even fast fashion brands like Zara and HM feel really overpriced these days. I might have to suck it up and relearn how to use taobao.

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What the fuck happened to H&M since… quarantine? I used to buy there a lot, but nowadays it's almost impossible to find something that looks good, all the clothes are retarded and the styling is hideous.
Picrel, why the fuck do all the clothes have to be so short and show your belly???? It's WINTER, everyone, I'm not wearing that while is freezing outside! I wouldn't even wear this in summer, I hate when my belly gets cold, ffs.

No. 360710

Crop tops are a psyop to sell us half a shirt for the price of a whole shirt.

No. 360734

Try bershka

No. 360745

> i made the switch to small european brands and i'm happier
can you name any of these? i'm curious what's good. with many small online brands i'm afraid it's just regular crap from china but photographed well, even if they swear it's made locally, especially 'premium' basics kind of stuff.

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Where can I find a wool/any material jacket with the same soft feeling as this? The loose tie instead of buttons and trim make it more than a simple piece for me but I'm having a hard time finding something like it.

No. 360911

I wore a basic black Skims brand long lounge dress and an oversized cardigan out the other day and was asked what I was dressing up so fancy for. It's bleak in burgerland

No. 360942

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Trying to figure out how to get my husband to buy me this dress for Christmas it's $200. He freaks out if I want clothes costing over $30 cause he's a man and that's what his clothes cost. Alternatively thinking of asking for a sewing machine so I can just make this stuff, my favorite clothes are usually right on the intersection of simple shape and high quality materials which for some reason is $$$. Only thing stopping me is r/sewing a lot of the stuff people make looks a little bad idk if that's just the way stuff looks when it's home made or if that's just cause its reddit. Wish clothing quality was better I refuse to pay $50 for a piece of shit see through t shirt at that point I'll just do it myself

No. 360965

>your man won't spend 200$ on your Christmas gift
RIP anon. If you have good communication you should be able to just ask for it, but if he freaks out about nice clothes it sounds doomed.

No. 360973

Stingy men belong in the deepest pit of hell. Love yourself nona.

No. 360976

girl you already know what to do

No. 360983

That's a very basic outdated dress and it doesn't even look high quality, if anything it looks worse than your average Zara or massimo dutti garment. Don't spend 200 on a dress like that, if you're gonna spend that much look into more detailed pieces that actually look expensive.
I think older women usually see a dress with a high price tag and just assume it's high quality because brands didn't use to do this types of scams back in the day, most high end brands are still producing low quality garments and most of them are just as unethical as fast fashion brands. If you want a good quality dress for a cheap price, check out apps where people are selling their second hand clothes in.

Your husband hesitating to spend as much is very weird but you didn't tell us how much you guys make and if you struggle financially so I can't really judge if he's being stingy or simply trying to save up. If he's the only one working and he makes barely 1.5k and you guys rent then yeah ofc 200 is too much for him but if you guys earn more he's being insensible.

No. 360984

>you can’t get embroidery and crochet/lace in fast fashion
Most fast fashion pieces I see have one of these three elements unless they're basics.

No. 360987

Sewing a garment yourself is often more expensive than buying if you purchase fabric new at full price, just keep that in mind if you go through with purchasing a sewing machine. Maybe look at the prices of high quality fabric per meter/yard at your local stores (if any available, plenty of stores just sell polyester) to get an idea of what you'll be spending per garment.

Cute dress but keep in mind high price tag =\=, fabric composition, stitching, details, lining etc. all matter and can't really be accurately judged from a picture.

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I'm not exactly impressed, but I dunno how expensive clothes are over there so I can't tell how overpriced it is. I don't think it is a bad dress, tho a bit too boxy for my body type, but it being boxy should make it a little easier to replicate, not that I think you should go for something like that if you have never sew before, it's not too complicated, but it's not begginers stuff either. Home made clothes can just look off if the person making it doesn't have the hang of it yet, it isn't that home made clothes look bad because they are home made.

No. 361070

>viscose mix for 200
That's a ZARA tier dress, your husband is right for the wrong reasons kek

No. 361073

I like viscose and rayon, but it weirds me out a bit that something loose and boxy like that would need spandex and nylon. Are they trying to overcompensate for weak low quality rayon? For a model like that and what seems like it'd be worn in colder months there are definetely better fabric choices out there. Also, only dry clean? wtf

No. 361099

You can buy cuter and probably higher quality dresses in zara for cheaper prices.

No. 361111

For 200 and without any details (no lining, no buttons, no zippers, no pockets, no belt, nothing) that dress should've been 100% wool.

No. 361127

Honestly should but for some reason when I want something simple it seems to cost MORE than when I want something like a button down. Honestly I'm gonna go the sewing machine route I found a similar fabric for $25 a yard and I can't find the black shift dress I want in a good fabric for a good price. Will be a fun project at the least

No. 361137

Learning to sew is rewarding for sure! (Don't fall for Singer's brand reputation if you're looking into getting a new model, they're not that good anymore)

No. 361199

i'm not super into fashion but i am an artist who needs to design outfits for characters and holy fuck, this tidbit helps so much. love you nonas, if you wanna elaborate on your 50s theory i'd love to hear but just googling the similarities and comparing has been mindblowing for me

No. 361262

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I need this outfit so bad

No. 361269

This is something my mom would wear. She's 61. I guess I don't get zoomer taste.

No. 361272

What if that's your mom or another nona's mom posting on lolcow? Makes you think.

No. 361273

I wore a shrug like this in 2009 when I made a half assed attempt at mori-kei. It's cute and girly but I am very over it, hope you get it and enjoy nona

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Bit of a retard question but how easy or difficult would it be to get a man's suit altered into a female shape? I'm assuming the pants would be the hardest part and the rest is a matter of making the jacket shoulders smaller and the waist dip in a little more.

No. 361285

I'm only a hobbyist, disregard if you know better.
But I'm pretty sure suits like that will be made from a few layers like interlining materials, have basting stitches and such and ideally have hade the fronts and shoulders moulded to give the right shape???? If it was an H&M quality piece I would attempt it myself, but I wouldn't dare rip open something nicer.

No. 361286

you can get the whole thing for like $12 plus shipping if you look at secondhand marketplaces, go for it nona

I don't think it would be worth it unless you want a wide shouldered oversized 80s look or are moid-sized in some way.

If you need it tailored into a fitted modern suit, it would be the same as basically taking it apart to make a new suit out of the fabric because there's so many things to alter, even the collar, button placements, the sleeve and arm hole width, the length (and cropping it will make the pocket placement all wrong too) at this point it's better to have a suit made for you directly. Maybe if you got the moid suit for free from your dad or whatever it would be worth the trouble but besides that, it would be a lot of trouble for nothing. I'm not a tailor though

No. 361348

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Places I've looked say skin/hair color like picrel go with everything, but not what looks best with it. What would look nice with it? I mostly wear army green, black, off white and brown but I want to expand my wardrobe a bit.
This jacket is so cute! If the pants are big on you it's easy to take the waist in and taper the pants on it.

No. 361404

omg nona I haven't thought about mori kei in years, I just got so nostalgic. I would never wear it today though, it's nice just scrolling through old coord pics from way back when.

No. 361421

idk but she's so pretty

No. 361564

Try wine red/burgundy, mustard yellow, burnt orange, etc. Jewel tones, basically.

No. 361740

What are the best places to shop online? (excluding depop and vinted)

No. 361745

That question is way too broad

No. 361760

Ok – trendy/everyday clothes, EU, not too expensive? Websites like ZARA or H&M but I'm wondering if there are some less mainstream alternatives people enjoy buying from.

No. 361828

Any thoughts about the 'style key" by Rita?
Sounds fun but I wanted to know if anybody ever heard of that and/or if it's complete rubbish like Kibbe

No. 361935

Does anyone know of any websites that sell decent cotton sweatpants for roomwear? I am tired of the polyster sweatpants I wear around the house, and I'd like to replace them. Taking recommendations as I search on my own here.

No. 361953

Idk how "less mainstream" it is but I almost never see those brands mentioned anywhere: Cropp and House (brand)

No. 361972

more of a vent but nonnas, I am so sick of the beige and neutrals trend. Everything's black, brown, white and MAYBE a navy if you get lucky. When did we become so boring?

No. 361974

Seems interesting, but with all style systems you should take it with a grain of salt and use it as inspiration not gospel.

No. 361976

that cardigan makes me think of labias

No. 361979

Other inditex brands like bershka, stradivarius, pull and bear maybe? Hm sucks fabric wise and zara is too expensive for the pieces when there isn't a sale although i like their style. You could also buy workout stuff from oysho, I heard good things about them and I like their underwear line.
Idk other euro brands.

No. 361980

Oh i forgot mango, similar to zara but more workplace oriented, I like their stuff a lot but some of their pieces don't last for longer than 1-2 years in my experience.

Inditex brands also do exchanges if you have issues with their products so if you're broke and can't buy better stuff, you can stick to inditex and get exchanges whenever your stuff gets deformed. I changed 2 different bags for totally new ones after they got worn out from me wearing them too much, I feel they're a trustworthy brand although they're obviously fast fashion.

No. 361999

You probably know this but this is a Sinéquanone cardigan. You can find a lot of grey ones from second hand. I've had my eye on it for a while and seeing it on a woman instead of a wire hanger is tempting me to buy one right now.

No. 362001

I like wearing neutrals but somehow the only neutrals most brands are capable of producing are black and shades of hot diarrhea beige and I don't look particularly good in either.

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Scene is gonna make a huge comeback. Already seeing it a lot on tiktok and ig. I’m happy.

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i prefer it to the disgusting trends we had growing up. the obsession with female torsos, barf.

No. 362661

Torsos and anorexia are extremely trendy right now.

No. 362665

crop tops are, but not combined with low-rise jeans. i don't see zoomers wearing shit like that.

No. 362671

I do, I’m seeing tons of zoomers on social media wearing jeans and skirts that barley cover their pelvises and start right about their mons pubis, paired with bra tops or crop tops and thongs pulled up. They probably just don’t wear them outside much because it’s freezing and also they probably don’t wanna get groped or harassed irl. Seen it quite a lot at zoomers clubs or parties tho where everyone is indoors.

No. 362759

I personally saw it frequently when it was warmer.

No. 362865

God I really don't miss the time when I'd sit down and my underwear would show. Horrible times.

No. 362875

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I was too fat to comfortably dress this way and by the time I lost the weight the trend was over kek

> I do, I’m seeing tons of zoomers on social media wearing jeans and skirts that barley cover their pelvises and start right about their mons pubis, paired with bra tops or crop tops and thongs pulled up.
It sounds like they're trying to recreate the Manny Santos look.

No. 362876

I will never understand what's the appeal of showing off your underwear in this particular way, it makes most women look like fridges because not everyone is a hourglass or a pear that happens to have long torsos.

No. 362881

For the visible underwear, I think they think it signals sexual availability. For the low rise pants, the appeal for me was showing off a flat & toned stomach and to be seen as fit & attractive like the celebrities that wore the style. I was young with body image issues at the time..

No. 363464

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Not impressed. Hope you guys are ready to see this colour everywhere and in everything.

No. 363520

Looks like someone's skin colour, no thanks.

No. 363523

Yes, yes, yes, I fucking love peach tones.

No. 363547

oh great just about the worst colour for my pale, cooltoned skin. Love that.

No. 363575

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Hopefully we get this peach too

No. 363585

That was my first thought when I saw it, my skin is pretty easy to match, but there are so many people who that is hard or impossible to work with or who will look like they are naked.

No. 363592

I mean… you don’t have to wear it, you know?

No. 363593

Kek that will make even more people look naked.

No. 363616

No.. but it makes shopping more difficult when a trendy unflattering colour is everywhere, that's all.

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i was a very stereotypically fashion illiterate autist my whole life and i wasn't even aware of trends as a concept, much less had any appreciation for them. but getting a little bit into fashion has been making me very happy lately, it's nice. i may look like a real life paolo chiari figurine but i deserve to feel good in my clothes, and so do you nonnies.

No. 363671

That's nice to hear, nona. What fashion are you getting interested in?
They are literally Green Day levels of ugly kek

No. 363678

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i'm all over the place because it's kinda a whole new world to me! i think 90s (mens) streetwear is the one i'm feeling really hard after allowing myself to unapologetically like male fashion. it's all just looking at sneakers and hats for me right now though, it's much harder to find clothes i wouldn't drown in. at least having a big af head and feet is a blessing? like seriously how do you guys find pants, i've never seen anything shorter than 30 inseam even in the womens section. fellow non model height women how do you live? i don't want to get them tailored either because that's just sad.

No. 363696

Nonas, do you ever find it hard to wear some items because of what you associate them with? For example I love pleated skirts, but I see egirls/troons wear them and it makes me feel less comfortable. They're such an inoffensive item of clothing but I worry people will look at me weird for wearing them, as if I seem like some hyper-weeb type. Same goes for thigh high socks, suspender skirts, chokers and pigtails… Kind of depressing.

It might be harder with the mens section but in the womens section petite jeans are the way to go! Also the kids section may be helpful to you. I also wouldn't worry about getting them tailored, it's cheap and no one's going to find that embarassing. I know I've had to get a million of my jeans tailored. Enjoy your fashion journey nona!

No. 363810

I feel the same way about chokers. Some of them are cute, but even the normal ones (not just the ones that look like collars) make me think of BDSM and I would feel gross wearing them. Doesn't help that the only women I've seen wearing them irl were all sexually submissive and loud about it. The idea of chokers just disgusts me now.

No. 364477

i need to preface by saying that i'm a bit of a vintagefag.
i frequently buy from house of foxy (uk) and emmy design (sweden). i havent bought anything from vecona (germany) yet, but they have some really cool stuff also.
hof is great. british-made in yorkshire, super flattering. i recommend their blouses. timeless classics and the historical inspiration is very visible. the dresses are good too, but the fabrics they use for dresses aren't always historically accurate.
emmy has great merino wool knitwear. i have dresses and cardigans, and they hold up extremely well despite being worn all the time. trousers are extremely flattering, too. it can be hit or miss with fabric (i'm talking about some trousers being too thin for my very picky liking), but everything on the website is depicted and described in extreme detail, so you know what youre getting. they don't just say where the item is made, but also what country the fabric is sourced. their factories are in europe. emmy dresses are great for tall people or people with long torsos, and the bottoms have a good waist-hip ratio. they have historically-inspired styles, but also a lot of cute quirky twee stuff.
i like what katie did for underwear. british brand, but they have their factories in india. they show footage from the production process, so you can see it isn't a sweatshop. i can't recommend their 40s bra enough- it's so comfortable that i wear it even with modern clothes on the daily.
if you're looking for basic leather stuff, i bought a jacket from konopka recently. small polish brand and expensive, but in my opinion it's a better use of your money to get something once, than to get plastic faux leather every couple of years. nice quality. they do furs too, though i know that's not everyone's cup of tea.
speaking of leather, les debutantes on etsy is excellent for gloves.
memery is a small danish shoe business (with excellent customer service). their heels are so comfortable, that i can wear them all day, and i'm not a heel person at all. again, vintage-inspired designs, but those are timeless in my opinion. they recently started making knitwear, but i cant review it as i havent bought any. american duchess shoes are also good in terms of quality and comfort, but their factories are abroad. memery has a local workshop.
i do declare seems to have really nice stuff, but i haven't bought from there (yet). it's a small business. goatspell, too.
some other brands i like browsing are linen nave, sondeflor, and little women atelier. haven't bought from them, so i can't give a review.
i'd say don't bother if the suit is too wide in the shoulders (unless you want a shoulderpad 80s look). get one that fits perfectly in the shoulders, and nip the waist in with multiple darts.
i have the same issue with chokers. but there is a really cool one (two rows, with dangling peals) from regal rose that i want… i think i'll get it. i think i could pull it off with a black flowy blouse with the top buttons undone, without it looking "slutty".

No. 364741

thanks for the tips! i think i'll avoid the petite dept for now because i hate how women's trousers and jeans (appear to be?) designed, even the baggy ones manage cling weirdly to your asscrack. also maybe it's just me but wearing things labeled as petite while i'm literally average height puts a sour taste in my mouth, i just hate that word so fucking much. i just ordered a pair of youth sized levis, please pray for me anons, i'll kms if they're too long. really it's a good thing because if every cool pair of jeans fit me i'd just wanna buy ALL of them, that would be horrible. constraint makes life easier in a way!

i've seen girls style pleated skirts before irl that looked really classy anon, one girl i knew was wearing this nice gray trench coat and combat shoes with it and she looked super pretty and not like an egirl at all. she had half pigtails too now that i think about it so idk how she pulled that off kek.

No. 365389

How tall are you? If you're 160cm you can buy from zarakids and the pants will fit your leg size quite good. I don't like levis as they're too stiff and uncomfortable to me.

No. 365399

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striped socks and tights. i love them so much in an alternative fashion way but troons have made me embarrassed. they usually only wear those ugly pastel ones kek so i think i can get away with it
i’m a zoomer who started to dress this way and i really hope it becomes super popular again! (and the music with it) it’s so fun and unique but it’s hard finding clothes that suit the style these days. i really hope companies will catch on and start making cool clothing. hot topic has but it’s ugly compared to the old stuff. it’s the rawring 20s nona, stripes belong to scene queens not troons kek

No. 365401

>rawring 20s
oh my god that takes me right back to the Rawr xD days

No. 365425

I'm taller than average and often have problems with pant waistbands not reaching up to my waist even now so that era was a real nightmare. Low waisted jeans and especially the super skinny ones were so humiliating, I get war flashbacks whenever I see them, I am legitimately terrified about low waisted pants becoming the norm again. I always had to wear tunics or XXL moid tees to avoid flashing my asscrack in class. Not to mention if you have a hip dip low waisted pants will make it look like you've got a big fat muffin top instead. the bootcut or baggy ones were cute on a few people, I kind of like the middle from >>362658 but the others look ridiculous like their pants are just sliding off their bodies.

The entire point of fashion at that time was to get women to wax their entire bodies, starve themselves, hit the tanning beds and get surgery. Fuck that shit.

I think in this current era, the difference between an edgy/cool leather choker and a cringe thot black belt is how expensive it is, kek. More seriously they have a completely different vibe depending on whether it's made of genuine leather/good quality PU or obvious plastic, and the type of hardware they use. I'm a former goth so fetish and lingerie inspired fashion is kind of my guilty pleasure, but at some point it somehow went wrong and everything became tacky, obnoxious and cheap. My retarded PVC outfit which has accessories from an actual fetish designer somehow looks less fetishy than things you'd find in a regular alt fashion store, it's just stupid. I guess since being a pervert became a flex, they just gave up on being subtle.

No. 365572

I love mens fashion and it fits me because Im tall/broad. But Im afraid if I go too far people will think Im some sort of a genderspecial.

No. 365625

same but my goal is to look so good and fashionable that people don't assume that, since everyone knows gendies got shit style (most their fits are copying stuff they saw on tiktok).

ANON i just looked and they even have green wash pants??? did you know how much you saved my life right now?

No. 365957

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Who are your favorite fashion icons? Mine are Luisa Casati, Loulou de La Falaise, Musidora and Grace Jones.

No. 365964

You just need to perfect your "I'm so disappointed in you" expression in case someone ever asks your pronouns. I bet you look amazing in men's fashion.

No. 366374

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Very basic choice but I really like Carolyn Bessette's style. I think it really was casual and effortless: neutral colors, no patters, minimal jewellery and makeup… A lot of influencers try to emulate her but I think they don't make justice to her outfits because today even basic pieces of clothing have a different cut and quality than in the 90s. Bessette's style was very minimalistic but the pieces she wore were mainly from luxury brands so it's hard to get similar fitting pants or sweaters. I am not a fan of the bleached baby blonde highlights, but I still consider her facial features to be quite attractive, she looked fresh faced yet mature. She also had a rare but beautiful accessory: the Kennedy himbo (too bad he was a slut).

No. 366491

Nta but just wanted to say thanks for suggesting emmy, they have some stuff that really appeals to me! I'm really short tho so hoping the lengths work out ok

No. 367328

Btw but It’s owned by zara so same problem with shit quality clothes

No. 367332

I want to create a collection but I have no background in fashion :( but I am a design student!! But idk where to start from(:()

No. 368987

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Can someone help me id this purse?

No. 368989

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I found it, it's on shein with the code 11774973

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I know this is 5 months old but if not being able to dress up for a few hours a day affects you this much then it seems like you have self esteem issues. Not trying to sound rude, you're probably young based on your posts and if you were a neet before then it must have taken its toll on you.
Slightly ot, but since the first lockdown I've noticed that people have become obsessed with 'self expression' to a pathological degree, I genuinely believe that people obviously it's mostly women who feel the need to spend hours each day getting ready and that they're only being their 'real' selves when they dress a certain way have extreme identity issues and a distorted view of themselves. Dressing up can be fun and is somewhat expressive but you're still you when you don't do that. Whether you're in sweats, taobao lolita knock offs or naked you're always yourself. It's a very TIF sort of worldview as well, that your appearance must match whatever it is that supposedly lies on your inside which is an impossible task btw.
I think having a personal taste and style is different from the relationship most of online have with clothes. It actually put me off from fashion so much that it was one of the things that made me drop out from fashion school which tbf wasn't the best choice in the first place and I'm glad I switched majors.

No. 369082

You wouldn't say any of this shite to a man practicing a hobby you deem worthy, or even a woman.

No. 369085

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rate my zara order

No. 369090

why late 90s anti-fashion is still revivied in shittiest manner ever? i'm just so tired of it

No. 369097

youll throw this out by may guaranteed

No. 369099

i'm way too stingy and autistic for that

No. 369121

look into massimo dutti, similar style and colors, better quality for the same price(how much zara costs these days is unreal)

No. 369175

Does the black top have pre-molded cups or something?

No. 369191

Thanks nonna, their sale seems pretty good! Found a nice silk skirt for 60€ which is crazy, Zara would sell you a plastic one for the same price.
It's just her titties, I assume she's wearing one of those chicken cutlet stick on bras.
To elaborate, I don't throw clothes out unless they're falling apart and can't be mended. If I'm not feeling something I bought I'll get it altered or tailored, search through instagram and pinterest to find inspiration etc and "shop my stash". Sometimes you just have to let an item marinate in your closet for a while until you find a way to enjoy it. Last resort I'll sell it, donate or exchange with my friends. Maybe thrift something super cheap to go with it.

No. 369215

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I’m starting to rebuild my wardrobe from scratch. I was completely lost with clothes all over the place. Now I got the spark back that I used to have as a teen when I was into J fashion. I’m getting long skirts, super cute lace up boots, mules, a trenchcoat all in the colors creme, white or rose. I still am looking for a cute purse, cardigans and dresses. I want to make it cute but adult and kinda chic. Super excited I’m just a little bit worried that I look frumpy, though I’m quite skinny and tallish so is it something to worry about?

No. 369225

Tall + skinny is like the ideal combination for basically any type of fashion, aside from maybe over the top uwu jfashion (which isn't the picture you posted). You'd have to try pretty hard to make yourself look frumpy imo

No. 369273

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I've been looking for the perfect pair of loafers, but it's been hard. I'm a semi-recovered jfashion weeb and I wear lots of long skirts and cardigans. I feel like the chunky square loafers with chains that are trending right now really don't match my clothes, but I want something with a bit more edge than straight-up granny shoes. Here's my requirements-
>real leather
>no oversized lug soles (I think they're cute but I'm worried it's too trendy)
>no dramatically square/pointed toe
>a bit of heel
I feel like I've scoured the whole internet but these Coach ones are the closest I could find.. I'm not really a fan of the logo on them though. There's also a really cute Miu Miu block heel loafer I'm in love with but that's a bit out of my price range kek

No. 369309

Japanese women love to layer clothes and it can work well for them because they’re usually skinny with narrow frames. If you have wide shoulders, wide hips, a wide ribcage or thick legs, layering especially with voluminous fabrics like tulle skirts can easily make you look fat and frumpy. It works well for women who are ‘straight up and down’ because the volume creates the illusion of hips and a waist.

No. 369316

Lasocki. they have multiple models that match your description.
i don't know if they ship outside of poland though.

No. 369333

textures are your friend and if you ever get stuck check out wear.jp for inspo

Handbag recs: Samantha Thavasa

No. 369334

Jo Mercer Luca Loafers Black Patent? They're leather and very comfy

No. 369336

Extremely autistic post incoming but maybe somebody does get my issue: I like certain clothes on japanese women but if I see the pretty much same style on a western woman it gives off totally different vibes to me and I immediately dislike it.
For example >>369215 is cute and simple but if she was a blonde it would look like an obnoxious scandi style ig hoe who likely lives in a sterile grey beige apartment to me. Is there a difference between these outfits and the outfits I hate that I'm not noticing? Is it the bangs/hair color? The less curvy body type? I genuinely feel at a loss. I know it's stupid but when buying clothes I always feel really limited by not wanting to look like a certain type of person.

No. 369354

You know normally I'd say it's the body because Asians and Caucasians objectively have different physical traits so carry the same clothes differently but you just sound like you've got a hate boner for Western women on top of that.

No. 369393

This outfit is very cute, I think I'll buy a skirt like this.
What is your body type nona?

No. 369439

Other than smaller frame/not being fat, it's probably the hair and makeup. I can imagine a westerner in the same outfit having a hairstyle like in >>369085 or harsher makeup which doesn't mix with the image. Though those girls would still look better than a regular person

No. 369485

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God I hate Instagram fashion ads this looks like absolute shit this is not amazing fashion technology magic it is cheap stretch bullshit. And $52? Get the fuck out that should cost $7 at a sex shop

No. 369491

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I imagine them coming off more like :
It's a different vibe because of the hair and makeup but I don't think it's unreplicatable.

No. 369505

This is what I’m scared of, I have broader shoulders so I won’t layer that much and stick to necklines that flatter me. My hips are non existent though so I hope I can pull it off in some ways.
>>369336 I know what you mean, when I looked at Pinterest for outfits and the same outfit was on a western woman it just looked completely different I think it’s really about the vibe the hairstyling and make up gives >>369491

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No. 369512

Maybe you are just a weeaboo

No. 369514

Seeing a very stereotypical fashion of a country on another ethnicity usually looks off because we're not used to it and it usually doesn't suit them. Asian fashion is going to suit petite women while scandi fashion is usually geared towards taller model-esque women for example. Your hair texture, color and skintone also affect how an outfit looks on you.

No. 369530

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Thoughts on this outfit? Because I wear some version of this every day. In colder months it's a heavy or layered sweater with a pleated skirt and tights, in warmer weather it's a thin sweater with a pleated skirt and no tights.

Usually with uggs or sandals, sometimes sneakers. I'm like an NPC with my same handful of outfits but having this combo is so easy and comfortable for me. I just worry I look childish or too casual.

No. 369556

where do you buy this kind of outfits? I want to wear something similar.

No. 369560

I think it's cute. Too casual for what though? Uni? You're not wearing a pleated tennis skirt to the office right?

Nta but like.. everywhere? It's a basic turtle neck and a basic cardigan, they sell those at any random store. Sweaters too. The pleated tennis skirt is maybe a little harder to find in store since I don't think they're trendy rn but there's several for sale on asos and zalando.

No. 369564

I also dress like this kek. I wouldn't worry about looking too casual, I guess it depends where you live but tbh I always feel overdressed when I compare myself to what people around me are wearing. If you want to "mature" the look a bit you could go for a longer skirt, or a fancier shoe like heels or loafers.

No. 369583

I could never wear this outside, I already get harassed and catcalled when I dress like Jesse Pinkman, any outfit like this would be a guaranteed automatic creepy middle aged moid magnet.

No. 369584

You can literally buy this whole outfit for under $15 on aliexpress kek

No. 369620

Honestly I find cute, somewhat unique sweaters at Ross, Marshall’s, various other cheap outlet type stores. It’s a lot of sifting through junk but I don’t mind it
Thanks nona, I would like to make my look more mature but definitely do struggle with that. I think the change of shoes would help a lot, because wearing sneakers with this outfit definitely makes it look very young
Since acquiring my own personal scary looking moid I don’t get catcalled often anymore. But honestly the last time it happened I was on the brink of death picking up a prescription at CVS and I think I was wearing a 2xl hoodie and sweats. The only real solution to the catcalling problem is making it a crime punishable by death, or at least letting us start pepper spraying them freely

No. 369690

I prefer seeing outfits on East Asian women but that's because I'm also East Asian so it's easier to get inspo lol. A lot of western makeup also doesn't suit my features or tastes. But I've still seen non-Asian women who pull off the same vibes effectively, and I still appreciate styles that don't suit me personally, it's not really inherent to race but just what's trendy in different countries I think.

No. 369759

I think simply wearing trousers rather than a miniskirt will make it look more mature, its just a sweater and shirt in neutral colots after all.

No. 369763

This is exactly what I mean. I'm not talking about westerners looking ridiculous in typical jfashion because they're simply too big, I mean that often scandi style and typical uniqlo jfashion share many clothes and yet it can look so different based on whether a japanese or a western woman wears it. Part of it is definitely tanning and harsher makeup, but I wonder whether there are other things you can do to look more cute and less office 'girl boss' (or straight up middle aged)

No. 369814

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i did a style goals collage last year >>316716 and wanted to redo it because i was curious how it would change. i like both but they're really different, probably because i live in a big city now. susan kare is still there and i'm still bald and that's what's truly important. do you guys think it's an improvement?

No. 369816

do you buy an entire new wardrobe every year?

No. 369817

Absolutely an improvement. This board is much more cohesive and has a lot more personality. There's a subtle cuteness to it that feels really genuine, sparks of love and passion pinned onto a sporty, tomboyish, fresh and fun look. The blues are great, too. All this feels very timeless to me, though I'm sure your tastes will change again as you settle into yourself. I'm so proud seeing your style evolve, nona. You inspire me, too. As for actually acquiring a wardrobe, how well did you do getting clothes aligned with your goals?

No. 369818

you can't be serious

No. 369819

i actually own none of the clothes in either collage, at least not the exact ones. the vibe is what's important! and also trying to achieve a different look with what i already have. i did buy a whole lot of new shit, not gonna lie, but i still wear browns and khakis often because they look good. the collage is more like a platonic ideal kek.
thank you, i love your description nonna. vinted has been my bff, and it's crazy how when you take the time to find clothes that fit your body properly it actually increases your confidence. but i'm such a fashion noob that i'm kinda scared of buying clothes, i'm still figuring out what looks good and what sucks, so i'm glad that you feel like i'm on the right track at least!

monkey is timeless

No. 369822

Sorry kek, perhaps "timeless" means something different between you and me? I meant timeless as in cute and appealing regardless of date or location, simply because the aesthetics, shapes, and colours are well balanced. Obviously the looks are "dated" and from a specific era, but just as people enjoy Edwardian fashion today, I can enjoy anon's style any time, too. Note that idgaf about trends or what have you, so surely that worldview influences my definition of "timeless." Words have meanings, though, and I wouldn't be surprised if my understanding is inaccurate. If you think there's a better word to say what I meant, please tell me.
It is a learning experience for sure, and it's obvious that you are learning. It sounds like improving your sense of style has been beneficial in unexpected ways, too. That's great! I've never used vinted before. I normally just buy "normie" clothes that I think are cute, flattering, and pleasing to the touch. I wonder what it'd be like if I put in the money and effort to collect clothes that I really, really love? I need money first though kek. Until then I'll just enjoy fashion from afar. I hope that you will keep cultivating your wardrobe nona. I can't wait for next year's collage!

No. 369824

Did you quit smoking by any chance? Or is the smoking PSA ironic lol? I always liked that animal campaign

No. 370091

What do you all think of the advice in this video?

No. 370131

huge improvement and you're pulling off actual turn of the millennium teenage fashion… you get it, bless you nonny

No. 370134

She seems like she’s having a lot of fun! So it was fun to watch. I would wear almost none of those outfits, the clothes seemed flimsy and there were so many mini skirts but I remember a time where my wardrobe had a lot of stuff like that so I probably would have liked this then. She’s right about layering tights although she didn’t give good or interesting examples it can be really cool to layer tights especially open designs over colors.
Her fashion is a little chaotic which is fun for her as a well groomed fit young woman but on a different person would give off a strong hobo vibe. Especially the layering coats thing lol

No. 370137

>listen guys the military layered clothes too
that got me

No. 370331

thanks anon!
i don't smoke, just showing my support. "it looks just as cool when you do it" is honestly such a great motto to tell yourself in every possible circumstance, you need to try it.
i wish money wasn't such a huge barrier in fashion, pinning and planning stage is fun but we would be so unstoppable with money. normie clothes are perfectly respectable though, as long as you like the material and fit.

No. 370631

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How to dress down floral/frilly shirts? The only thing I've found is pairing them with bell bottoms but I'm sick of only being able to wear mine with my 2 pairs of pants lol.

No. 370636

I feel like that can be combined with any neutral/matching coloured skirt or pant and nobody would think you're overdressed. At least not in Europe, but I know america has a huge athleisure culture so maybe its weird there?

No. 370640

Idk anon, I feel like skirt/shirt combo makes me look a bit like an old lady even if it's technically cute. Maybe I just need to put on different accessories and own it kek.

No. 370666

I appreciate the Delias catalogue chic.

No. 370765

I don't think such a casual and dated shirt needs dressing down.

No. 370803

The middle aged roma gypsy women in my town would wear this with an ankle length skirt. If you don't want to look like a gypsy than jeans I guess, but these shirts are just meant for maxi skirts

No. 370849

If you go to japan you’ll see thousands of Japanese women dressed exactly like this with highlighted hair and holding a LV bag, Starbucks cup and wearing uggs, contrary to what weebs believe most Japanese women dress designer-casual and more similarly to bougie American women on an average daily basis. The hyperfeminine dolly cutesy look or 100 layers of Milk and Commes clothing is actually pretty rare especially outside of areas like Harajuku.

No. 370850

No, you’re just a weeb gatekeeper.

No. 370861

The difference between these outfits and the outfits you hate appears to be a prejudice that you are holding on to. I hope you will spend less time on insta and touch more grass in the future.

No. 370862

girl it's been a week…

No. 370864

Based, time to cop some gypsy drip then

No. 370866

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I like coquette style but I don’t know what to wear on the bottom half. There’s so many cute coquette camis and cardigans but I never really know what type of skirt or pants to wear as I feel it throws the delicateness of the look off somehow. Short pleated skirts look too ‘slutty schoolgirl’ and are too hard to wear outside anyway as they constantly blow up. I guess shorts can work but I’m not sure what kind of shorts exactly, especially as I hate denim. I see some floaty pink and white short lacey skirts but they’re mostly off aliexpress and look very cheap and tacky. I also don’t know wha kind or color of jeans to wear with a delicate coquette type top. All of these skits look weird to me and throw the outfit off, make it look cheap. I also don’t want to look like pedobaiter pastel nightmare, I want to look whimsical and innocent.

No. 370867

What kind**

No. 370868

The skirts make the outfit look cheap because the outfit is cheap. Can't you wear a mid length skirt or are you a midget?

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There are those flowy running shorts (some of the especially loose/flowy ones even could be mistaken for skirts at some angles) that I think could work with the more casual tops, but I don't know if that's too "athleisure" for you.
As for jeans, maybe a soft brown, possibly corduroy too? I guess that's just regular trousers instead of jeans though lmao.

No. 370888

I originally commented about wearing a light wash of jeans, kek. I agree a lot of those skirts that you are talking about look like shit, but i think what you can do is to hunt around during the spring/summer months for cute stuff from somewhere like free the people, they tend to sell stuff like that sometimes. I'd also try to look online for second hand stuff, i think the key is to scour around in brands that sell a boho type aesthetic or very feminine stuff like loveshackfancy. I've gotten some really cute stuff from them second hand for a decent price.

No. 370894

For skirts, I'd recommend anything like LoveShackFancy. They are PRICEY though, so try to look when sales go up! Or try to look for similar styles from them from actual stores and not aliexpress or shein. For jeans, a light blue wash. Pale brown corduroy pants are good too.

No. 370938

where do i buy actually high quality , long lasting denim? im so tired of ill fitting paper thin fast fashion stuff. im willing to splurge.

>but they’re mostly off aliexpress and look very cheap and tacky

the tops look aliexpress taobao tier too. though perhaps a long , flowy white skirt might look good? very whimsiscal forest fairy vibe

No. 370939

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sameanon. the brandy melville izzy skirt seems like the perfect thing for this

No. 371036

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On sale, I bought picrel boots. How can I style them for everyday wear without looking tacky? One option is wearing them with skirts that cover the upper part of the boot. Are there any other options? How would you accessorize an outfit with boots like this?

No. 371040

>I guess shorts can work but I’m not sure what kind of shorts exactly
Not really familiar with the style so maybe I'm way off with what you're trying to achieve, but paperbag style shorts maybe? Or tweed or boho lace shorts? Pale blue skinny jeans? Skater skirts? Maxi satin skirt? I realize most of those suggestions aren't in style but whatever.

Btw no offense but most of the outfits in that collage signal the opposite of innocense

No. 371056

Second hand vintage jeans. Sadly even more expensive jeans like levis have worse quality than h&m nowadays. Tore a hole in the crotch on my new levis after a few months, while my h&m jeans took years. My hand-me-downs levis however are like 3 times as thick, had been worn by like 3 other family members for years and are stil going strong.

No. 371104

I don't think you can. The material, color and fit make the boots look "too much" in all of those regards. Sometimes less is more.
You can always try them with an outfit(in your house) and return if you find out you can't style them.
Don't buy stuff you can't wear just because it's on sale.

No. 371125

Black jeans

No. 371146

>how can I style them for everyday wear
You cant

No. 371181

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Where's a good online store that carries long, billowy pieces (skirts and shirts mainly) that aren't excessively feminine or frilly? My style inspiration is pretty much Tilda Swinton's character in the Suspiria remake. While I don't want to wear literally what she's got on in picrel, that's the vibe I want: lots of loose fabric and draping that makes big, dramatic shapes. I already dress weird so I don't care how outlandish I'd look, I just want to be big and bold but also comfy. And sorry for the spoonfeeding request, I never shop for clothes online so I feel rather clueless about what's good and what's crap out there.

No. 371185

My first thought is to try and pair them with a top or sweater that is in a similar berry-red color (or features the color if it's multi), and I'd probably stick with black or white bottoms. Brown or navy blue might look nice with that color too, actually. I hate the way they're styled in picrel though, it looks ugly and uncoordinated. Something with more coordinated colors would balance them out if you like things to be matchy-matchy, or an outfit that's monochromatic to let the boots take center stage.

No. 371269

honestly? look into abayas for muslim women kek

No. 371398

How can I dress more youthful?

I'm much more attracted to male zoomers because any man in my country above 20, 25 dresses horribly but the kind of clothes I wear likely only attract moids above 40. But I hate female zoomer fashion. I tried to be open, went to stores like urban outfitters with my little sister but everything there looks like total garbage to me.
Right now I probably look like a poor old librarian and on the streets you either see the exact same zoomer outfit, boring scandi fits or girls trying to look rich and boogie, which I hate too.
I feel really lost at what to do, I haven't bought any clothes in a year because nothing appeals to me.

No. 371403

What is your weight, height, and are you curvy or slim?

No. 371405

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Sorry dropped my sage. I think the key to looking youthful is looking casual and comfortable rather than trying to look sophisticated and refined. I made these little collages for you anon, I didn't know much about your style so just went for pretty normie fashion. Do any of these appeal?

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No. 371410

Just download tinder and set your age range to your preferences. It's weird to try and dress up youthfully in hopes of attracting men. That's way too much effort. Also most zoomers don't dress that differently than any average person on the streets, jeans and a sweater/sweatshirt is the usual fit they wear.

No. 371425

Coquette is just a ripoff of former Larme-kei and Nymphet styles, just do some more research using that, and you'll find better examples. Everything in your picrel looks like you could buy it for one and a half euro on Vinted. Nothing looks like you could wear it outside without it falling apart. Also if you think all of this is fine innocent fashion but pleated skirts are slutty, you have perspective issues.

Another anon already mentioned light brown cord and light denim washes. You can get cute 50s style shorts from pinup brands sometimes. There's also A-line miniskirts with button or pocket details.

You can't. Just own it and pull out your best leopard print kek. More seriously, I think it would be cute with oversized sailor stripes. In a way it would be like the casual version of your picrel.

I'm sorry to ask but what is your method for meeting moids ? Because from your post it sounds like you just wait for them to come to you on the street.

I noticed younger guys go kinda apeshit over cargo pants for some reason. that and the crop top x oversized shirt combo. Some kind of idealized cool girl style, tough but cute. It's not the sort of fashion you like though, right ? I guess the oversized piece x form fitting piece thing is applicable to other styles. Also, your hair and make-up play a lot. I second the advice of the other anon who said to just set your preferred age range on a dating app as it's overall easier than all that fashion telepathy shit.

No. 371431

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I'm very tall and more on the curvy side but I hate dressing sexy or showing skin.

Thanks for your effort nona. Except the red shirt one all those look more millenial-ish to me tho, especially the dress/skirt outfits? All teens/young 20s I see wear ugly old-looking baggy jeans and some tiny flimsy crop top (no matter how cold it is) paired with some chunky shoes and that slicked back hairstyle. On guys baggy pants look good but most of the female outfits looks so wannabe cheap/poor and messy. The rare ones who don't show skin wear super old-looking shirts or pullovers that look like somebody threw it away decades ago.

I don't like dating apps, I want to meet somebody organically, so I want to dress right when going out someplace.

No. 371583

You're welcome anon! You're wrong on the millenial front though — all the dresses and skirts except the black denim one are recent Brandy Melville, the navy blue dress is from a promotional pic and is actually still available on their US site. From what I could find, the girls in the photos were gen Zers too and these are all pretty recent (2022/2023) pics from Pinterest. Also if you don't like the gen Z trends you mentioned - why bother trying to emulate them? The outfits I showed you all read as youthful and overalls/sneakers/jeans and a graphic tee are pretty timeless. As a gen Z, most of my outfits resemble the ones in the pictures more than the crop top / baggy jeans trend you mentioned. Don't worry so much about whether something's "millenial" or "gen Z", go for something that makes you happy and still reads as youthful! Trust me no guy is going to look at you and go "ackshually that look would better suit an individual born in 1993".

No. 371588

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I know I'm going to get laughed at for this but I've been really wanting to get a pair of Doc Martens but everyone online keeps advising against it in favour of Solovair but I think Doc Martens just looks nicer because of the yellow stitching. I'm in the UK right now so if I wanted to get the 'made in England' line or drop by a physical store I can but I don't want to spend money on crap that will fail me.

No. 371590

I am in desperate need for a someone that will force me to buy clothes, I really want to get new clothes but can't find anything that I like. I've been like that for the past 3 years or so. Only thing I bought is new jeans/pants but I can't find any nice tops to wear. Idk what I want.
Also out of curiosity, where can I get an oversized genuine leather jacket

No. 371599

I was in a similiar position a few years ago. Wanted to get a pair of Docs but the online reviews saying the quality nowadays is shit scared me off from paying retail and I thought Solovair looked weird. I can't pinpoint what it is, it's not just the yellow stiching because that's the only thing I don't like about docs. So I bought a second hand pair for a steal and I've really enjoyed mine a lot, so that's another option to consider.

No. 371604

I've worn mine nearly daily for 5 1/2 years now, one boot is damaged by now, but I guess it has something to do with my work and that there has always been more movement and pressure on one shoe. They are still the most comfortable boots I ever had and honestly, I dislike the yellow stitching but I probably will get a new pair just because I can walk in them for hours and my feet won't hurt. I should mention that I have the virginia leather option and I think that it's one reason why they are so comfortable and I only needed a week to break them in. I might look into Solovair boots if I have a chance to try them somewhere, but I guess I will go back to Docs.

No. 371606

The soles are nice but quality seems to be hit or miss in the six airs I've owned over the years. If you do insist on going down the docs path, try to purchase in store vs online so you may inspect the quality.

No. 371616

I guess a simple black short skirt longelseeve dress to really let them take center stage.

No. 371655

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which shoes could I switch out for in an outfit like this for winter? I'm thinking of adding a cute long coat + maybe a tote.

No. 371656

for the leather coat, try thrift stores/second-hand. I find most new purchases are either overpriced or synthetic . Just be sure to check for smoke smells etc

No. 371659

Doc Martins

No. 371663

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Fashion Brand Company has put out a couple pieces like that

No. 371665

I'm losing my mind at the toe talons

No. 371667

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Kek that's a cosplay from Manos the Hands of Fate.

No. 371670

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I only know this company because a minor cow got mocked for some wizard sleeve thing she had from there. Never actually looked at their website, it's like something directed by Tim & Eric

No. 371671

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No. 371674

I'd wear it anyway

No. 371900

File: 1704668016451.jpeg (789.05 KB, 1170x2080, D1374278-9E05-4308-84A9-959CB5…)

any nonnies know where i can find food themed accessories like picrel and if this style has a particular name for it??

No. 371906

etsy, check out shops like sweet dolly house. also i think that middle right picture is by hexenhaus, you can buy their stuff on minne which is like japanese etsy. you’ll need a proxy to buy though

No. 371918

Aw this pic gave me instant nostalgia. Food themed accessories used to be so big in the late 2000s and early 2010s especially in Japan.

No. 371925

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I read a weeb blog about japanese fake food a while ago – https://www.tofugu.com/japan/sampuru/ in case you're interested. They recommended FakeFoodJapan https://fakefoodjapan.com/pages/catalog
It's more fruit and savory stuff than cakes and pastries but you might like it or there might be a link in that blog that helps you.

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No. 371941

It's the perfect business casual look with an appropriately modest high collar neckline. Pair with a practical low pump and it's dressy enough for an interview.

No. 371942

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I know it's kind of expensive, but what about Q-Pot? I have a small collection of jewelry from them that I cherish.

No. 371945

you're crazy that's a clubbing dress

No. 371946

if you live anywhere near a city they must have art and craft expos, women who make handmade food themed jewellery flock to them like flies. i have no idea where they congregate online because it's not really trendy anymore, i'd say it has to be facebook and instagram.

No. 371949

this will be a disaster on the wrong body type imo, but I agree with >>371945

No. 371963

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bbandb make some stuff that's not too expensive. They don't open their site until the 8th of january though.

No. 371968

I'm sorry to be judgmental but this is 100% overtly sexual and even fetish-adjacent to me, idk how the other anon sees "business" or "modest" at all. I can't even see this being appropriate at most parties, this is firmly for nightlife/clubbing only.

No. 371969

nta that posted it but first post was definitely a joke

No. 371977

This takes me right back to 2008. Anon above me is right, you can still find women selling handmade ones on arts and crafts markets.

No. 371980

kek you're evil

No. 372128

I tried but every used leather jacket i’ve come across feels gross. Idk it i’m looking in the right areas.

No. 372307

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what kind of keywords can I use to find blouses in this boxy kind of cut? picrel is from uniqlo.
mens shirts tend to be cut like this but they also tend to be made of thicker fabrics or more linen blends, which im not a fan of

No. 372311

i bought some patterned tights because i want to dress more maximalistic but i'm not sure what outfit to do. I'm always scared of colour cordinating except my usual black + one extra colour if im feeling ballsy. Any advice to break out from that?

No. 372312

time to go down the color season and kitchener essence rabbit holes

No. 372314

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I've heard about those but my question is more how do you layer everything without it clashing? Just took the first pic that came up on my pinterest too show you what i am talking about, like these girls have a lot going on but it doesn't look out of place

No. 372315

samefag i am aware they are just doing simple colour combos but like, how do i do an outfit with 2-3 colours without making it look clashing?

No. 372321

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Well that's the point of colour season analysis. It's colour theory applied to fashion. That way, if you curate your wardrobe to mainly consist of clothing in colours from your season, you'll never have to worry about colours clashing because they're all complimentary due to being from the same palette. For example, these colours are all in the same palette and despite all being different, they blend well together. Nothing clashes. You can pretty much throw on anything from your wardrobe and as long as it fits right and doesn't have some hideous cut, you'll never look garish or make other people think you're colour blind.

No. 372464

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What is you opinion of Les Bouledogues Vigneronnes, the Sackler fashion line?

No. 372468

They're just copying townie outfits from The Sims

No. 372473

I think the pic you posted is very ugly

No. 372474

Looks like a thrift store challenge, butt ugly.

No. 372544

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Are zoomers for real with this long denim skirt trend? Does anyone actually like it? I'm horrified, usually I don't mind old trends coming back round and quite like zoomer fashion, but this is too far. It's only ever going to make you look like a homeschooled fundie.

No. 372547

I've only seen Gen X women wearing this irl and some old millenials

No. 372555

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yes, i work in fashion and this was trending. I think it's already on the way out thankfully, its kind of a hard trend to wear and doesn't suit anyone who isn't tall and relatively slim. I think maxi skirts in general will remain strong for a while yet, but the denim ones should be falling off soon

No. 372565

I love that fit

No. 372567

At least this works. The other fit was terrible and awkward. The blue denim is such an eyesore.

No. 372585

Never heard of or seen it, if it's any consolation I don't think anyone really buys into this. >90% of the people I encounter are zoomers (live in a high school and university neighborhood) and most of the alleged retarded zoomer trends that people complain about are nonexistent in real life and only represented by like 10 people sperging online or a brand trying to force a trend, don't take them too seriously.

No. 372598

Oh yeah, I wasn't complaining about it because I see zoomers wearing denim skirts all the time, it's because zoomer oriented stores are full of them rn. That's why I asked if anyone actually liked it because surely fucking not. Though I guess >>372555 can confirm it is actually a trend somehow.

I feel like tiktok and instagram have sped up the cycle of fashion trends to such an extent that designers are resorting to almost anything to have new stuff out. Just throwing old trends at the wall and seeing what sticks, either way it'll be in and out of style within a very short period of time.

No. 372603

I never saw this irl, the majority of online micro trends don't seem to trickle down to offline life.

No. 372622

In muslim countries this trend gets made fun of and you get told you look like you're going to a quran course if you wear it so no, zoomers don't actually wear it. I never saw one anyway. It seems so impractical and uncomfortable.

No. 372625

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I like the a-line long denim skirts better. The tight ones never fit well around my ass/waist and make me look like a square kek, plus they're uncomfortable to walk around in. I've got this one and I pull it off well but I wear it with chunky shoes or docs and black tight tops and weird belts, sometimes I also layer the skirt with a longer flowy black skirt underneath. It generally fits within my style of maxi dresses and long skirts.
I've seen a lot of stylish zoomer and millenial women pull off denim skirts this summer, but I come from a country with very tall people.

I don't know what's up lately but a lot of these fast fashion brands love to place skirts and pants way below the waist even if the garment looks better when it sits higher, like pic related I posted. I wear it on my waist and it looks way better. I know it's the y2k trend but low waist looks unflattering more often than not.

No. 372690

File: 1705000376845.jpg (1.8 MB, 2053x3264, skiert.jpg)

I'm a young millenial/old zoomer and I LOVE maxi denim skirts. Mid-waist, a line cuts are pretty flattering on most body shapes, they can be worn in summer with crop tops and t-shirts and with chunky sweaters in winter. Almost any shoe works, from low trainers to chunky loafers to docs. They're very comfy too.

No. 372695

>Mid-waist, a line cuts are pretty flattering on most body shapes
You're blind.

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No. 372699

the top two don't fit and the bottom two would look 100% better as pants.

No. 372712

Imo denim maxi skirts look better if they have a slit or if they're asymmetric. The A-line skirts have that church girl look.

No. 372723

Me too, except I don't know that they are flattering on most body shapes compared to pants. I just personally like long skirts because I'm tall and skinny and I feel like it's a comfy feminine look that works for me (but even so I still usually just wear pants). I didn't know that denim skirts were so divisive.

No. 372731

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Mid rise is the superior rise for most body shapes and weights. It doesn't let your ass hang out like low rise, and it doesn't accentuate fupas like high rise. It accentuates the hips and creates width, visually cinching in the waist. It can also hide hip dips. Only if it's a looser/baggy fit though.

No. 372734

Maxi denim skirts are a staple for the bible belt ladies.. I find them very frumpy. Not even the pretty skinny models posted above can get away with them. I like maxi skirts too, but the denim ones are just stiff and unflattering on nearly everyone and look even worse in motion.

No. 372736

I love how dowdy super religious woman and long jean skirts is a duo that transcends countries and even religion.

No. 372749

Speaking of questionable denim trends, has anyone else been seeing jorts around? Past few days I've seen multiple teen girls wearing knee length, low rise jorts and a crop top.

No. 372764

as a zoomer I had no idea this was supposed to be a trend till reading this thread. I have never seen anyone wearing a denim maxi skirt. a handful of depop teenagers on tiktok wearing something does not a trend make

No. 372870

Conversely, just because you don't like it or see it in Bumfuck, USA or wherever doesn't negate it's a trend.

No. 372875

I meant the denim maxi skirts since that's what we were talking about.

Anyway it's interesting how even the perception of what's flattering changes throughout time.

No. 372878

I live in a large capital city in Europe and have never seen this. stop trying to make people disagreeing that it's a trend a thing of them must having to live in small town USA when in reality it's not a trend, at least not outside of whatever corner of tiktok this is a thing on

No. 372885

I haven't seen them on anyone, but I see them in physical stores. Like racks and racks of the things and presumably nobody is buying.

No. 372969

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Does anynona know where to find scanned 90s fashion magazines (or just street photos)? Pinterest is mostly serving 90s aesthetic pics akin to the y2k trend.

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I'm super old and love maxi skirts. Maybe that's not a good endorsement. They can look super frumpy so other anons aren't wrong per se buuut i like them on me. I have a nice one like this (can't find the maxi version just the midi version). When I wear it I just go full 70's vintage vibe with it, tight top tucked in, belt…. and pile my hair up on my head like I'm Loni Anderson…. I get compliments…. But from gen x people kek (I'm tail end gen X)

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No. 372979

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Nonna have you tried looking for the Delia's catalogue? That's the style we all coveted in the 90's. There are lots of pictures online I'm sure someone must have scanned one or done an asmr nostalgia flip through on YouTube. I still feel grief over my long-gone Delia's stuff.

No. 372991

Piggybacking onto this, also Sassy scans. I’ve got my mom’s old Sassy issues because she saved them so I could maybe scan in some to post ITT if anyone wants. They’re early 90s, and she does have the Kurt and Courtney cover one kek very coveted

No. 372997


Your mom must have been popular because Sassy was the cool girl magazine - (I was a loser and had a subscription to YM.) But I can also attest that in the mid-90's probably 99% of our clothing on a daily basis was simply jeans and a tank top with an open flannel shirt over it. We all wanted a boyfriend who wore a soft henley shirt we could steal, smelling of Farenheit cologne. Piratey ruffle shirts also had a moment, just waiting for those to come back kek. We never wore blush, that was too 80's (same with tucked in tops, so 80's) I remember the first snap crotch bodysuit I ever owned, a cream mock turtleneck like in Fatal Attraction. Wearing tight tops felt very modern because the 80's was all about volume. It felt weird to wear something that clung to your body. I remember twists on 60's mod stuff also being popular, that lasted into y2k. We wore an awful lot of makeup trying to get the "no makeup" look. All very matte, lipliner in earth tones (ugh.) It's weird to watch TV shows when they try to show fashions you're old enough to remember. They always try to make them more palatable to modern sensibilities and get it all wrong. 80's hair is always wrong. It was so huge and dry and fluffy and pretty ugly. Just watch Working Girl. I was watching Twin Peaks recently and that reminded me a lot of how people really dressed and styled their hair in the 90's.

No. 373014

Thank you so much! I honestly feel retarded for not finding these kek.
I'll check it out (Sassy as well). Thanks for the recommendations!

No. 373035

Nta but thanks for an interesting comment nona. I didn't get into fashion until the last few years of the 90s, because it was then I entered my teens. I missed grunge and was all about things like printed mesh tops and other ultra modern cyber/rave inspired fashion. It felt very new and exciting and it's weird to see similar items come back now.

No. 373059

I really liked reading your comment nonna. My mom actually was in her early 20s and had me when she was getting Sassy kek she was an art teacher at the time as well. She really liked the fashion editorials in it and I grew up liking them. A lot of my style evolved from my favorite issues and the spreads within (can remember the Twin Peaks one, this one focused around roses, and one that was all light blue.) I’m 30 now but I still look back at those magazines and love them. I also had some very cool girl babysitters who wore amazing clothes as a kid. I know what you mean re trends you were old enough to actually see being watered down in modern media set back then. I’m obsessed with real 80s stuff (mom also has a lot of various magazines from then) and it’s never done right in modern stuff except maybe Stronger Thongs kek

Do you remember any outfits or spreads in particular from any magazine that stand out in your mind bc you liked them (or even hated them) so much?

No. 373095

denim is simply too stiff, bulky, and casual of a fabric to function well as a functional and flattering long skirt. each one of these outfits could be improved by with a different material or pants.

no matter how you style long denim skirts, they still make you look like a secret Mormon.

No. 373162

Oh nonna! Very fun to read about your experience, too. I do remember one fashion spread… In Delia's, it was a navy blue military style sweater with epaulettes. I coveted that sweater so much but didn't have the money. Benetton ads were extremely memorable and the brand in general was quite cool at the time. I would only hope to get my sister's hand me down Benetton stuff. Another thing I remember is a Swatch watch advertisement but that was the late 80's I think, because I remember there being pictures of Timothy Dalton as James Bond. A mint green Swatch watch seemed like the most grown up accessory to me kek. Still don't own a navy blue military sweater but I have a Swatch watch now at least. I was watching A Different World a while back for nostalgia purposes and I thought man, what I wouldn't give for some of Lisa Bonet's clothes. They just don't make clothes like that anymore. She was always so well dressed (also doesn't hurt that she is gorgeous)

No. 373178

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I really really hate the newest iteration of trendy layering and maximalism among deluded instagram kids. Girl you look insane. this is just a screenshot from a reel I saw this morning, and instagram keeps recommending me these girls who dress themselves like toddlers allowed to pick out their own outfit for the first time no matter how many times I hit not interested. they all are clearly dressing to try to be unique but there's not even anything genuinely fun or eye-catching about the outfit beyond the surprise of so many ugly layers, it's just sludge with all these different elements competing with each other to be the focal point.

No. 373443

How does anyone leave the house like this? Literally Disney TV show character layering techniques but somehow worse

No. 373897

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I really dislike blokette style in general or any subfashion/fit that seems like they came straight out of tiktok. This and blokcore (kek) are so fucking weird to me, I'm not from the UK but dressing like a working class football lad as a fashion statement is really odd to me. Also, fuck sambas

No. 373941

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nonnies how would you style this coat? My aunt gave me a similar one but with a rounder collar from when she was younger and I love how it looks but I'm lost on how to style it

No. 373953

She looks like someone you'd see chain smoking near a dirty uni accommodation in london.

No. 373970

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i had to look these terms up, and it such an ugly, unflattering, and incohesive style. sometimes wearing contrasting fabrics/fashions can be fun and look nice, but this just seems like you got dressed in the dark.

so much of zoomer fashion is just larping these days instead of actually living the lifestyle associated with the clothing and subcultures. the y2k revival trend in general is a bit strange and soulless. nothing about it feels organic and authentic, which is how much of these pieces (football jerseys worn by football fans, etc) functioned and existed during the 2000's. the clothes were just clothes. people who happened to like or do the same things tended to dress in similar ways. they weren't some contrived, blahblahcore tiktok fit like >>373178

No. 373993

This is off topic, but doesn't anyone else feel bothered by the fact that when a lot of these fashion girlies where brogues or mary janes, they always have to go for the most unnaturally bright opaque white sock that hit such an awkward and unflattering part of the calf?? I don't even need to post examples because they are right there in the post.

But to be back on topic, idk why i feel slightly irritated about stacies adapting this kind of style, i feel like a very awkward teenager would wear this unironically with no makeup and gross hair, not Bella Fucking hadid with her cat eye and slicked back hair. Also they don't seem to be embracing the frump, the pictures show them doing mild body checks to reaffirm their hotness that they lost jumping on this trend for clicks and clout. I don't really hate the blokecore trend, but i feel like it's something that shouldn't be a trend and they will all be laughing at themselves and thinking they look gross when this is all over.

No. 374063

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Can a kind hearted nonna recommend an app that analyses colours to me (a hopless retard)? I'm having difficulty determining where on the seasonal colour wheel I fit in because the examples provided for people to compare themselves to literally all look like me regardless of where on the wheel they are

No. 374065

If you're having difficulty with the colors, try working out your 'aspects' instead. A good website for this is theconceptwardrobe.com. For example, I thought for a year that I was a soft summer because that color palette has the colors I wear. However, I've since determined that my primary aspect is light and my secondary aspect is cool (the first thing I notice about myself is a bright/lightness, and I'm cool toned). Therefore, I'm a light summer. Soft summer has a muted primary aspect and a cool secondary one.

No. 374070

don't use apps, they're not very reliable. especially if you're olive skinned or a poc (who they basically just lump into deep autumn or winter).
warm + muted = autumn
warm + bright = spring
cool + muted = summer
cool + bright = winter. it's easy to find your subseason just by eyeballing once you know what season you're in. like if you're a deep autumn (which is high contrast with darker hair and eyes against lighter skin in comparison) the soft autumn palette will look way too desaturated and boring against you. the best way to find out your season is by doing drapes tbh (doesn't have to be your whole wardrobe, you can just do cream vs ivory white or black vs dark brown, etc) but the concept theconceptwardrobe is good at breaking things down

No. 374073

Just drape different coloured fabric on yourself when youre out shopping and you'll see what suits you or not.

No. 374099

Why bother with this if you can't tell if your own skin is cool or warm, muted or bright, how are you going to tell the right colors from the wrong ones apart when buying clothes

No. 374137

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i can do this with other people, even from photos pretty well, like i watch color draping vids and go "yeah, i can see where you're coming from, that totally looks better" but with myself i can't get past how ugly i look in every color. should i just kms

No. 374141

Can you try to describe your coloring? Hair/skin/eyes?

No. 374151

If you hate yourself this much then maybe worry less about fashion for now. Focus instead on comfort and ease. Wear your favorite colors regardless of their season. Please be kind to yourself anon. Even if you were the most hideous person on the planet, you would still deserve to live.

No. 374217

that doesn't seem like a reliable method… anyway, probably some kind of autumn cause the other colors look slightly more horrible? maybe? also isn't it only your actual skintone that's relevant?

that's really good advice, thank you. that's interesting, because fashion to me IS mainly about confidence, not self expression. i don't see any point in wearing the styles and colors i love if they make me feel like shit. that's why i'd like to find my season so badly. i don't even feel like i hate myself, mostly just baffled at how much easier it is to see on other people. is comfort important to you, anon? how did you achieve it in your style?

No. 374265

>also isn't it only your actual skintone that's relevant?
No it's a combination of your skin, eyes and natural hair

No. 374337

Ayrt I have brown hair with dark eyebrows, light blue eyes, and very fair skin

No. 374346

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I'm this anon >>369273 and I finally found my perfect loafers!! Thanks for the suggestions but I should've clarified that I'm in the US. These are the JAXI from steve madden. They look pretty big in the pics but they're a perfect amount of chunk irl. They match basically everything. I've been wearing them almost every day since I got them, and gotten tons of compliments.
I actually also got the coach loafers from my original post too and while the construction and leather quality was amazing, the shape of the platform was a bit odd and I hated the giant logo so I returned them kek

No. 374392

Probably a cool season, try to drape summer and winter colors

No. 374417

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Tips on drawing inspiration while still making it 'your own'? With styles I'm familiar with I can draw out the main things I like about the look but when it comes to specific people or pictures I always feel a bit lost with how to approach it. Like I can't pinpoint the main things I like about ie Bjorks artsy type of style, she just rocks it.

No. 374418

Sage for doublepost but I meant how to implement something in your own style without copying kek, don't know why this was hard to word.

No. 374422

is your undertone warm or cool? is your skin bright or muted?

No. 374425

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I think drawing inspiration from something means a deep understanding of the style you're contemplating. If you like Bjork's pants, for example, you know that it's the combination of the cut, the color, the pattern, the fit, the fabric what makes you think ''Oh, I like that'', but all those categories may rank differently in appreciation (for example, you probably would like something shorter/larger in colder tones, but would keep the same flower pattern, anything). And when it comes to building a look it's exactly the same, you may like the combination as a whole but every aspects of it would catch your attention differently (''I wouldn't wear those shoes but the top is ideal''). So basically you need to slowly build a wardrobe by experimenting while following your intuition. I think it's impossible to become a copycat when your inspiration is alternative fashion and you need to thrif in order to acquire the pieces you're looking for. People that have no originality at all imitate everything from their inspiration source (hairstyle, makeup, clothing, color palette, shoes, accesories…), but someone with criteria that knows that inspiration and appreciation for something will only get you so far because you actually need to feel and learn what looks best will eventually build their own style. And you probably enjoy different styles, that's another aspect to consider, there's some uniqueness about mixing styles. Pic unrelated

No. 374427

Thanks nonna! I'm mostly going to be closet shopping so that should help. I mostly like the childlike quality of her style (bright colors, unusual fabrics/appliques), she looks like she buys clothes that make her happy instead of worrying about if it's super flattering or too out there. I'll keep it in mind, thanks again!

No. 374501

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Anyone know what season and Kibbe she is? I don’t know my own S/K but I have been told by a few people that I look very much like her and we also have nearly identical skin, hair and eye colors.

No. 374503

True autumn, I think

No. 374528

Soft or deep autumn. She’s not warm enough for true autumn

No. 374615

I can't tell kibbe types just from the face.
What about the contrast level though. She doesn't have high contrast for deep autumn. A bit too dark for soft autumn.

No. 374830

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What is this called? And do anyone know brands like that? I have been looking for stuff mostly on Zalando, but it's rather limited + only part of brand's clothes is sold there, while the rest is accessible via their websites. The best if it's an European brand

No. 374861


No. 375041

I was born in 1990 and this was so interesting to read, thanks for sharing nonnie!

No. 375108

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Which boots to go for?? I can't decide between Jadon Pisa and 1b60 Bex. I found both on sale for around the same price and I've been wanting both styles since I was literally 13. I mostly wear pants but I figure the tall ones would be ok with wide leg/bell bottoms.

No. 375109

I personally find the ones on the right an awkward height. The left is cute and versatile, but that probably makes me basic.

No. 375116

AYRT and you're right, jadons are definitely more versatile. I'm still very undecided though, I find both cool in their own regard. The height of the 1b60s is a bit awkward but I always liked the idea of tall docs. On the other hand, the jadons are iconic and have that tall platform.

No. 375120

Well, what type of shoe is missing from your wardrobe? Every day black boots, or flashier boots for flashy occasions? For the record, I feel like your heart is set on the 1b60s and you just want someone to validate your unconventional purchase. No judgement from me. Follow your heart and wear what you love, make your tween self proud.

No. 375124

I don't actually need boots, I guess that's why I can't decide. I have some sleeker suede knee highs, everyday chelsea docs and a fun printed pair of regular docs. I was dead set on jadons till I saw the price of 1b60s. My one worry is how practical they'd be to wear and style. I know I can throw jadons on pretty much anything. And to be honest I dress far less edgy nowadays.

No. 375240

Slim trousers and round toe ballet pumps.

No. 375255

>My one worry is how practical they'd be to wear and style
Idk about you but for me they'd pretty much be covered by wide pant legs most of the time which kind of defeats the purpose of getting boots like that. I guess if you regularly wear short skirts/dresses or skinny jeans/trousers that lets you show them off?

No. 375287

some kind of summer, the top she is wearing fits her well

No. 375329

Ayrt, nonna you were right. I do want the tall boots more. But in reality the short ones are a lot more practical and wearable. That's why it's so hard to decide.

No. 375388

You already have two other pairs of docs (and probably at least a pair of sneakers), that's enough pairs of shoes that practicality/versatility stops being a concern imo. You can't wear several boots daily no matter how practical and wearable they are anyway, might as well get the ones you actually want and just accept you'll only be able to wear them every now and then.

No. 375413

Nonnie several of these sample images are older Antik Batik, a French brand. Extremely expensive new but they have great sales a few times a year and stuff always shows up on Yoox, Real Real, places like that

No. 375467

but looking at your own belly is fun and cute

No. 375525

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Opinions on selkie dresses? Any anons purchase a selkie dress in the past? I'm looking for a good quality red dress for a valentine's day date next month. I don't know where to start looking.

No. 375531

Do you have any boutique shops in your city? If you have a decent budget, the price spent on a Selkie dress is probably better spent on a better quality one. Selkie dresses are not known for quality or good manufacturing, they're just pretty looking and got popular after a few influencers wore it

No. 375579

I honestly think they're ugly for the most part. Lots of them look like something a stuffed babydoll should be wearing, or maybe a flower girl at a wedding, not an adult human being. Especially the really short ones, they almost look like fetish costumes and there's no way you could bend down without flashing your whole ass. The maxi ones are decent looking sometimes.

No. 375613

They already feel dated. I rarely see women wearing them these days, but in the rare instance I do, they look a bit silly and juvenile. It's a hard style to pull off and I'm glad the trend has died down tbh. Your picrel is one of the cuter ones I've seen, to be fair.

No. 375627

if you have Facebook there's a second hand selkie group. try posting there and hopefully someone will be selling the one you want for cheap. these are so expensive full price for something that's not wearable most of the time

No. 375785

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Be honest is this shirt ugly? I remember thinking it was really cute and wanted it so badly when I saw it in the movie Dot the I (upper pics), but now that I'm really looking at it… Its seems like the type of thing that only looks good on insanely beautiful women but not so much on an average person IRL.

No. 375788

i'd be worried about the sweat lol. super tight fitting and the fabric might be too synthetic, making you reek very quickly.

No. 375792

it is a bit ugly, the colours are muddy and the print used is odd, the different prints aren't matched well either(the motifs or whatever are too close in size), the blue brown frill is odd too, why's it all around the front of the collar and not the back? i think the frill and sleeves are what's cute to you, maybe find something else that works with those elements

No. 375801

looks like my vomit after drinking soda

No. 375802

It's hideous but ugly clothes and really weird coords are 90% of what seems to be in now so what do I know

No. 375808

it reminds me of a hyena with the frill down the back and the dots. Which is kinda cool actually. More seriously if you like it so much that you've been wanting it for ages maybe you should buy it

Platform docs weigh a ton and are wildly uncomfortable, practicality isn't something you should be worried about because neither of them will be wearable everyday, just buy the ones you want to show off.

There are no words that can accurately describe my hatred for these stupid faux bra cups that look terrible on everyone

No. 375848

>>375808 >>375802 >>375792 >>375788
Thanks anons, I do really love parts of it separately like the sleeves and the brown orangey colors but together it's all a bit ugly but I swear that shirt was so cute. I hate when that happens. Shirts with meshy sleeves are/were a bit trendy recently so I'll have some luck with finding some more in style.
Kek I see it

No. 375933

I wear docs/platform shoes almost every day, they're comfortable to me. The heaviest pair I own are ironically oxford shoes with no platform.

No. 375951

How do you dress for bright spring without looking like a box of neon crayons? I can't find any normal, casual, non-celebrity outfit examples

No. 375979

>Stick to one bright colour as your main colour
>Add in one or two other bright, complimentary colours for small accents. If you want
>Make the rest neutral
>Strive for 60/30/10 colour ratio distributed across your whole body
If you don't like those colours or dressing like this, then don't. You have only one life, so wear whatever you want. Colour Seasons seem to be in, at least on the farms, but it's not the be-all end-all of fashion.

No. 375980

This is so beautiful anon I’m jealous. Anyway I would style it with a black mini skirt and blocky or Oxford heels. White turtleneck or button up shirt underneath maybe. The cut of it looks perfect for showing off your legs.

No. 375983

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Easy way would be to wear colorful tops with neutral bottoms. Just pick a color and pick jeans/trousers that don't clash. Any of these colors can be paired with light wash jeans, charcoal jeans or neutral trousers. You can also do the opposite, neutral top with colored pants/skirt.

No. 375984

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You don't have to go for such bright clear colors, but this is a good example of a "realistic" colorful wardrobe.

No. 375986

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I like the style of old Hongkong actress Joey Wong but I fear that it only looks good on her because she is a beautiful star and otherwise is too laidback for a normie adult woman. I also don't really know there I can find clothes like these? It is somewhat similar to the style some 90s loving teens have but without crop tops and all that.

Another issue I have is that I know which summer clothes I like but anything suitable for cold winter is so ugly to me. Anything more warm than a denim or leather jacket looks so posh or just old imo. Most young women seem to wear nearly ankle length scandi style coats this winter and I hate those. I also hate pullovers, warm cardigans, basically everything I'm forced to wear due to the cold. Anons here seem to like japanese style, like long dresses and stuff, but I never wore skirts and dresses all my life, even as a little girl I was put in pants, so I feel like I can't do that.

No. 375988

what jeans fit is good for hiding hip dips? i have an hourglass shape but quite severe hip dips and i don't mind it normally but it looks kinda dumb in certain pants. i'm 5'8 if that matters in some way

No. 375990

Jeans with wider leg that aren't super tight around the hips. I found a pair in Zara that kind of flares out at the hip and they're very flattering. They have a little seam right on the hip that creates more of an a-line shape.

No. 375993

o, thank you. i've never tried out that style before!

No. 376007

I love her style, it’s so casual but not slobbish, just cool and simple. I think anyone could pull it off if they are clean and well groomed and confident. All of these clothes look like pieces I thrifted from the Salvation Army from 2010-2017. You can still get stuff like that at thrifts before the scalpers (resellers online kek) get to it, just gotta look and be really eagle eyed and fingered (to feel for fabrics and quality which are always better when from the 80s/90s)

No. 376008

Samefag, some of these things you could for sure find modern remakes of as well at plenty of places of course (I mostly thrift so I can’t give you any good basics shops off the top of my head. Last place I got any was OVS kek). The tops in your picrel are all very basic and look like natural materials.

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Thanks for your advice. Sadly I don't think I can thrift, I have really zero idea what to look for in fabrics, I couldn't tell what is good quality and what's bad, and what's a good price.
Plus she was so famous and rich, she likely wore stuff that might have looked simple but was actually by super expensive stores. She often wore plain white for tops, so I will try that but I'm worried about just looking boring.

No. 376019

Just..google? You literally have all of the worlds knowledge on fabrics and materials at your fingertips.

No. 376024

honestly i think this would be really easy to emulate if you just acquire a few key accessories. Some really chic nice black sunglasses, a beret, a gold crucifix on a gold chain, some other easy gold jewelery, a good leather belt with not-too-shiny gold hardware. Literally log onto etsy for all of this stuff and select "vintage" (not handmade which is dropshipped crap).

Everything else is just properly fitting vintage basics. A pair of levis that fit you. a white button down. a white t shirt. All of this stuff can be 100% cotton and doesnt need to be super high end to look good.

No. 376031

god, i've spent so much time hunting for authentic 90s pieces, but it's worth it. modern rehashings of 90s trends just feel childish and hollow. so i agree that it can help solve anon's dilemma, i feel like my style isn't that immature despite being like 10 times more casual than >>375986

i felt like this a year ago but now i don't think it's that difficult, basically for common fabrics, good = cotton, wool, maybe linen, bad = everything else that fast fashion is made of lol. different rules for winter gear and other specialized clothing obviously, but polyester is still never good for your tops and dresses. it's literally so horrible and clammy. also, a $5 cotton t-shirt and a $50 cotton t-shirt are basically the same thing.

No. 376036

Where I’m from, 90s and even 80s real vintage is still fairly easy to come by at the local thrift stores, usually Salvation Army and another school-owned and VERY fairly priced one where lots of old folks donate things or their things get sent when they pass. Just last year I got a super cute super comfy fine-check gingham button-front play suit with a sailor lattice detailed collar and wide pleated legs that make it look like a dress. It is by a label I was able to confirm as being from the 80s (G. Pellini) for around 4$ US. I noticed living in Europe thrift stores are more like true vintage and the prices are more boutique. Sorry for sperg about the romper it literally just makes me so happy to even think about it being warm enough to wear again, it’s so cute and fits so flatteringly.

No. 376075

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oh my gosh I LOVE this Ralph Lauren ballet bear she's so cute, whyyy does it have to be $1,690 that's just ridiculous

No. 376102

>good = cotton, wool, maybe linen
This is a risky oversimplification imo. Yeah 100% wool is great in theory but if you don't pay attention to anything else you can get a 100% merino wool sweater that's alteady pulling threads in the store because it wasn't woven tightly. Or a 100% wool coat that has uneven stitching and isn't lined.

You are so whiny. Why even ask anything if you're just going to respond with "I don't know how" and "I don't think I can"

No. 376159

true about oversimplification, that reminds me, what do you all prefer for your wardrobe essentials t-shirt/top fabric? 100% cotton, 50/50, triblend, or something else? i always go for cotton for warmer seasons but i've been thinking of giving blends another chance.

No. 376165

A Ralph Lauren jumper has no business being that expensive

No. 376167

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Does anyone have any ideas on how to dress like a fairy but in a subtle everyday style? I like fairycore but not that cheap tulle dresses aliexpress kind, nor the grunge slimey colors fairycore that zoomers liked in 2021. I just want to look subtly ethereal and feminine like a fairy. I like outfits like this especially with long boho skirts.

No. 376168

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Anons with really wide hips in comparison to their waist, where do you find pants that fit flatteringly and last? I usually have to settle for low-waisted pants but I want some high-waisted ones preferably, because when I buy low-waisted ones the leg part is too baggy. I have a 14-inch difference between my waist and my hips and the rare solution is being lucky and finding 60s vintage cigarette pants in thrift boutiques. I have to cinch in the belt so much when I find pants that fit my hips, but then it makes my thighs appear larger than they are because I’m more slender in those areas. I can’t really explain it but my waist goes from being small to flaring out immediately and there seems to be no modern, high-quality pants that can cater to that. I don’t know if it’s worth it to learn how to make my own pants.

No. 376204

I wouldn’t know, I only wear skirts tbh. I kinda hate pants. They’re uncomfy and were invented by evil moid savages who I don’t want any association with.
t. Large hipped woman

No. 376208

I think the best is just getting the waist adjusted or learning to do it yourself.

No. 376242

Buy pants that fit your hips, get the waist taken in or do it yourself.

No. 376259

Look for brands that market “curvy” fit jeans/pants.

No. 376272

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i'm not sure if you'd like this alternative but it reminds me of this liz lisa sweater, it's around $60

No. 376275

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I'm going to lose my shit. I just bought a trench coat thinking it would be my size because it's XS. It's way too big. I'll never find anything my size. I have a puffer jacket that's way too big and I bought it because it was either this or dying from the cold, it makes me feel like pic rel when wearing it. I'm sick of looking like a slob and it was never a choice to begin with.

No. 376289

Similar proportions and cinching waist with belt always looked weird, i just always make sure to french tuck. Learning this skill is always desirable, but you can find someone for that, it saves a lot of nerves.
It might create a problem of not being able to wear it over hips.
Kek true, i wish i wasn't feeling stupid in them.

No. 376305

You can't. Taking pants that fit your hips to the seamstress and getting the waist made smaller is the only way in my experience.

No. 376310

If you're that small and/or short, maybe check the kids' deparment or Asian brands?

No. 376316

The only store that has a kids' section that doesn't make me look childish is very expensive. I'm not willing to drop 350€ on a polyester coat, even if it's kind of cute and my size but I'm still occasionally looking for what's on their website from time to time because in case there are sales. As for Asian brands, small sizes for coats tend to be out of stock fairly often so it seems like I'm not the only one with that issue, but they helped me getting really nice trousers and sweaters before so I also occasionally check their websites. I'd like to wear neutral, business casual clothes that make me look my age. Kid's sections seem to be either the same things as what's sold to adult women but just a little smaller or the same size, or the most childish, ugly, bright pink frilly garbage ever, no in-between. I'm going to the mall tomorrow, wish me good luck.

No. 376317

Seems obvious but have you tried petite brands/lines? Asos has a bunch.

No. 376335

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I'm not familiar with Harry Potter. Are these supposed to look like turds?

No. 376348

They are wizard hats, cataract-chan

No. 376351

Kek it really does look like lovingly crafted plastic poops

No. 376448

Me again, I think I should bitch here more often because I just found two coats my size instead of just one, after years of looking for one in that specific style. I gave back the trench coat I bought yesterday too. I guess going to Zara twice in a row was worth it because they change their collections way too often, the coat I found there today wasn't anywhere in the stores I checked yesterday.

No. 376479

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What do you think of venus symbols in jewellery? Tacky or beautiful? I'm thinking of buying a silver tiny one like the picture.
You'll have to buy pieces one buy one having in mind actual styles like boho, like you said. I think you should go for natural fabrics like cotton, wool, viscose and linen, maybe some beaded things (preferably glass beads not sequins), vintage floral patterns and small silver accesories with natural crystals. You could learn how to crochet and make yourself some cute tops and shawls. A lot of women sell handmade clothes on the internet that look fairy-medieval-hippie, but they are probably expensive (quality is great tho).

No. 376482

Wow is really does look like two joke dog shits lol

I think it’s adorable

No. 376484

I've never ever seen someone wear a venus sign before so I can hardly think of it as tacky. I think the one in your picture with the slightly uneven edges is cute.

No. 376485

I’ve started making and knitting my own clothes and embracing the kind of raggedy hand knitted look. But for some reason I feel kind of embarrassed in public at times especially when I’m around very groomed stylish people, because I feel like I look like a hobo/slob. I don’t care as much as I used to. But I think it’s because I grew up poor and having raggedy or dirty looking clothes was always something I was terrified of being shamed for and I always made a huge effort to look as neat and groomed and clean as possible so people wouldn’t make fun of me. I don’t like the clean groomed girl look tbh and have no interest in wearing it, but I still get these weird pangs of insecurity at times. The only girls I knew who dressed like slobs were ultra rich girls who had nothing to prove. But ofc I wasnt one of them. How do I stop feeling embarrassed by my outfits in public even though I know I like them? .

No. 376490

Anon, you said you have just started to knit your own wardrobe, maybe you should check videos with tips on how to make your projects look more well fitted? I've seen those in the sewing community, old ladies helping people by pointing out how some small details give away the fact that your clothes are handmade (nothing wrong with that, but sometimes people want them to look less obviously handmade). I've only been crocheting for some months and I plan to make my first knitted scarf next month so I'm an absolute beginner but I've noticed that I feel more comfortable wearing my stuff if I use good quality yarn (NO ACRYLIC EVER) and I make sure the colors complement me well.

No. 376504

Thanks nona, the clothes I like aren’t really the fitted kind. I joined a hippie commune of ravers and most of us make our own clothes and give pieces to each other. They are really good at knitting and sewing, and they dress in very free fitting, unstructured type clothing, which I also really like a lot. I also get pieces from them because they make really nice crochet and silk pieces from other clothes, everyone here dresses in that kind of raggedy style lol. But they’re mostly all rich kids and have no insecurity about being perceived as poor in public by others. For some reason I feel weird going out in public wearing the kind of stuff they do, but it’s annoying because I like it and feel very comfortable in it. It’s all my own neurosis, I just wish I could shake it and wear whatever I want without worrying about judgment.

No. 376505

Also agree with you, I feel less uncomfortable when I’m wearing silk or high quality natural yarn clothing. I’ve always felt more self conscious in cheap fabrics, and I avoid wearing anything that’s badly knitted or badly made.

No. 376556

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every day i'm surrounded by young people who dress like tiktok influencers, pls pray for me. i don't think of myself as very susceptible to peer pressure but it's making it difficult to cultivate my own independent style when everyone around me looks so vibrant and cool and there's such an overwhelming amount of fashion related input going into my brain which i'm struggling to navigate.

No. 376577

Honestly if I'm thinking of the right type of clothes you're wearing, I'd be thinking of you as weird/artsy, not poor. Poor people dress like regular people but more unfashionable because they're wearing old/mismatched pieces Unstructured hippie stuff is not what I think of when I think of poor people's clothing.

No. 376583

anon this sounds awesome! I crochet and whilst I know a few people who do I'd love to be able to be surrounded by people who make their own clothes - sounds really exciting. I know you feel really insecure about wearing them but as someone else who grew up poor, in all honesty you won't look like a poor person. It could be because I live in a University city but the kind of people wearing those kinds of clothes are like art school/student/rich types anyway

No. 376610

What kind of "girly" clothes could look good on someone who is average-curvy and tall? The only stuff I see are kawaii or lolita adjacent clothes that only really look good on skinny petite girls and women. I love cute stuff and pastels but it's hard to incorporate it in a way that doesn't look childish or outlandish. Sometimes I think "just wear what you want" but then I see pastel fashion girls my size at conventions and it just looks… childish and ugly (and I'm into the style so I shouldn't feel that way, ya know?). Is it possible to make it look good or is it really just for petite women?

No. 376614

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In my opinion the kawaii lolita stuff looks childish on everyone, even petite women… isn't it kinda the point? First off I would focus on what suits you : are pastel colors flattering on you ? I think they are really hard to pull off for a lot of people and they can make you look really bad (especially if it's a full pastel look). Finding something that suits your coloring and shape is the most important thing to feel confortable imo, so you don't have to exclude a whole style that you like but just adapt it to yourself. I'd look into preppy and romantic keywords on pinterest, those styles feel girly but mature at the same time (like I just searched up romantic curvy outfits and found a ton of nice inspo). You can tone down a look by using more muted colors, neutrals, with some pastel accessories, or mix up basic pieces with cutesy girly stuff, or wear pastel with fitted clothes in a more elegant/sexy way like picrel. It's all about finding a balance between girly and mature. I'd also look for vintage fashion inspo, you'll find more curvy models and Definetely try to find inspo from people who have the same kind of build and features as you do, for me it's way easier to shop and find what could suit me and differenciate what I'd like to see on myself vs what looks good because someone else wore it.

No. 376626

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Maybe you could take some inspiration from the adult girly/大人ガーリー style if you're into j-fashion? There are lots of cute and feminine aspects to it but it's more mature looking/less costume-like than lolita or other kawaii j-fashion styles.

No. 376627

Otona kawaii/"adult girly", retro-inspired styles, and other subtle kawaii classics like big sweaters, tulle skirt etc.

Just avoid the very stereotypically childish things like big peter pan collars, high twintails, leg warmers and that stupid jirai kei make-up and you'll be fine.

No. 376658

Surely there must be outfits or styles you can think of that aren't kawaii/lolita/jfashion but are still girly or feminine to you, even if it isn't in a very youthful/childish way, right? Take those outfits and get similiar pieces but in pastel instead. People think too much in boxes so it's hard to imagine a more mature/grownup/mainstream feminine look in pastels when it's always presented to you in neutral or dark colors.

No. 376683

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I treated myself and bought this ring. There was a matching necklace but I refrained for now even if it was beautiful. Maybe if it stays on their site for a while.

No. 376731

Boot indecisive anon here, I got the ankle boots (jadon pisa) and they don't fit. I got my usual dr marten size but they're too narrow and short as well. And they don't suit me kek, they look like clown shoes on my bigfoot self. Newer dr marten models all seem to be more narrow than the ogs. So in conclusion: if you have flat feet or can sometimes go half a size up, order jadons in a bigger size and get insoles, don't be like me.

No. 376735

>look like clown shoes
The fucking struggle of bigger feet esp if you’re on the leaner side bc it makes them just look yoog. There are some styles of boots and shoes I stay away from bc it looks like I’m a Kingdom Hearts character kek

No. 376736

but if you got big shoes, then they take up more space in your outfit, and if you pick good shoes it'll basically make the whole outfit look good. embrace your cartoon character feet.

No. 376757

Thank you for this refreshing take nonna I really appreciated it kek

No. 376780

>In my opinion the kawaii lolita stuff looks childish on everyone
ayrt I didn't mean exactly "kawaii", but it was the only "all pastel" style I could think of (as a non-fashion savy person).
>are pastel colors flattering on you?
I feel like they aren't, which makes me sad because I love them. I wanna find something that works for me.
>I'd look into preppy and romantic keywords on pinterest
>Maybe you could take some inspiration from the adult girly/大人ガーリー style
>Otona kawaii/"adult girly"
Thanks nonas, these help! I think especially the "romantic" tag helps. "Otona kawaii" looks cute but it again only gives me petite skinny japanese women so it's hard to tell if it would actually look good on me.

No. 376788

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AYRT, you are so right finally someone to commiserate with. Most of the time I don't mind the look, especially on other people. I have other big ass boots but these just don't make me feel good kek I think it's the fact they're more narrow? Not sure but my dream is dead. Now I'm back to looking at knee highs and also these cute lil goofy shoes. They also give clown vibes but they're so ugly-cute it works.
I fully support anyone with big feet wearing yoog shoes, my hang ups are entirely my own! Wear what makes your heart sing.
Color wise, pastels can be tricky but I think anyone can make them work. You just have to find the right undertone and brightness for your complexion. I look horrid in pastel pepto bismol lana del rey 2014 pink, but light, muted greens and slightly darker muted pinks compliment my skintone well. On the topic of cute fashion, I don't see why the only options being presented are kawiwi and pastels. Western styles can be romantic and girly too. Cottage-core is dead but I'd consider it romantic and feminine. You could take elements from it like ruffle blouses, long skirts, flower prints, cozy knits and adjust to whatever your vision is. Searching modest coquette outfits on pinterest brings up cute, feminine fashion that's not too outlandish.

No. 376789

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For example, this is neither kawiwi nor pastel but it's still pretty cute and feminine.

No. 376790

Ntayrt but how can I make pastels work if ALL muted colors look terrible on me and my skin/hair/eyes are too saturated and high contrast?

No. 376791

Accessories and accents.

No. 376792

So you're some kind of a winter then?

No. 376794

Can't pastels also be bright though? Or are pastels inherently muted and people label them wrong?

No. 376795

pastels can indeed be bright

No. 376805

I can't believe I got meme'd into buying high-waisted jeans. They're alright while I'm walking around and make my butt look great, but the moment I sit down for five minutes the pressure on my stomach becomes unbearable.

No. 376814

you might need to buy a size up. I love high waisted jeans and they never really cut into my stomach while sitting down. I've had this one pair of high waisted old navy jeans for 8 years and I wear them nearly every other day. I only feel comfortable if I know my ass is securely inside my pants kek.

No. 376863

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I want to buy something from the online store sweetchilling but there have been so many online Chinese resellers that I don’t know if it’s worth the $100 price tag or if it’s actually a decent quality brand.
Any help nonas

No. 376864

or… they might not be high waisted enough

No. 376881

Nothing in that pic is worth $100

No. 376890

File: 1706854736208.jpg (52.49 KB, 500x667, 036975e6f6618131.jpg)

nta how high is it supposed to be? any higher would probably hurt even more kek

No. 376891

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i just made a grailed account and i'm gonna flirt with the sellers to get cute graphic tees.

No. 376892

I'm not familiar with the brand but everything in the picture looks thin and polyester. I looked the website up because I was curious to see if I was right and they don't even list the fabric composition on any of their items, says enough. Product pictures are sketchy too.

No. 376894

I beg you to use ur brain and read the material composition

No. 376895

>memed into buying high waisted pants
Are you a time traveller from 2008? How did you not try high waist until 2024? What is happening

No. 376897

Just smoke some weed and you’ll lose inhibition

No. 376908

Excatly. The three golden rules for me are: good quality materials, correct size and right colors.
That looks like a ring a mermaid would wear. What's your style?
Pastels inherently muted and have low saturation, all seasons have pastels in their palettes so you just have to find what pastel tones work best for you.
>graphic tees
Are you the lesbian anon who dresses like Jared Leto? Sometimes I think of her

No. 376910

I feel like this could be replicated using Uniqlo or similar tbh

No. 376911

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Pastels range in saturation, they don't have to inherently be muted.

No. 376913

i'm the opposite, i can't stand my belly hanging out above the pants like an old beer gutted moid so i love high-wasted pants. And feeling like my ass or panties are showing every time i sit down is stressful

No. 376918

File: 1706873469253.png (22.2 KB, 642x153, pastels.png)

You posted a pic of the most brightness pastels can get but that's still low saturation, all the colors present in the picture remain very soft. Pastels do come in a range but that range is always is in the low saturated/muted side, you just posted the most intense possibilities. As I said, all seasons have pastels in their palettes so the anon interested in adding them to her wardrobe will have no problem regardless of her season.

No. 376920

>lesbian anon who dresses like jared leto
she sounds awesome! but no, i'm the straight anon who dresses like adam sandler. i'll flirt with the depop girlies too though, as long as it gets me a discount.

No. 376923

I know haha. To my defense I don't follow trends and I bought these two years ago, I only wear them in winter. I guess I gained weight since last year but they still seem to fit me perfectly fine overall, except the waist part that presses precisely on the spot where I can't handle it.
Totally valid points nona. I'm jealous they work for you.

No. 377138

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What anonnas think of indie sleaze revival?
I feel kinda ancient seeing how I dressed at 12-16 (fashion gets late in my country) make a come back. In the other hand, I already put some fits together as I have clothes from that era and I have two pair of skinny jeans from my boyfriend waiting to get tailored.
I kinda dig that you have a range of options, from the alexa chung really cool and put together look and more leaning to a rockstar feel, to the party girl full of sequins and in provocative outfits.

No. 377165

I bought a lot of stuff on sale this winter but I don't feel that bad. I'm excited about putting together new outfits! It's like pinterest but irl.

No. 377166

I didn't understand what indie sleaze meant back then and I still don't get it now. Like I see a bunch of pictures and can't see what they have in common besides having terrible hair. That's not a "range of options" to me that's just several different styles that got lumped together because there weren't enough folks in each to make a bunch of -cores out of them. I need explanations.

No. 377171

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a lil collage of latest buys

No. 377175

I got my order recently, and the items are really nice but everything is slightly but noticeably oversized on me. I may try to get them tailored.

No. 377190

I love the style but would hate to see it go through the hands of tiktok zoomers to satisfy their constant need for always the next new thing only to be discarded in 5 months when the next next new thing comes along.

That said I haven't actually seen it even though I've seen claims of it coming back since the pandemic

No. 377299

Do you have pictures of you/your friends' style? Or online pics similiar to it. I'm quite curious about the handmade stuff especially.

No. 377373

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Well sometimes searching for inspo I have the same confusion lol. My guess is that how aesthetics work before the -core era: Just a vibe, a bunch of scenes from different areas, a set of "influencers" to look at (Alexa Chung, Cory Kennedy, Cobrasnake subjects, Chloe Sevigny, Sky Ferreyra, Effy and the Skins cast, etc), brands that have quite the vibe like YSL or American apparel.
Btw this is PJ Harvey.

No. 377374

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I have bad news for you anonna… though the forth outfit is cute.

No. 377401

maybe i was preoccipied with life but i'm almost certain nobody dressed like that in 2007

No. 377472

I was 18 in 2007 and no. If anything her style feels more tumblr indie girl circa 2012.

No. 377538

same. maybe it's just where i lived but i never saw any girls dressed like this. it was all about vests with skinny jeans, layered tops, and dresses or skirts over leggings.

No. 377556

At home I've started dressing as a scene queen. I dont think i'd ever leave my house like this but its so healing to my inner teen who used to dress like this

No. 377572

None of these looks strike me as "it girl" from any year between 2007-2024.

No. 377899

File: 1707301588221.jpeg (887.11 KB, 873x1134, 1707251333218.jpeg)

What shirt is she wearing?

No. 377902

Dior, judging by context clues.

No. 377910

I know a lot of girls who dressed like this in 2007 actually. Most of them are 40+ now though, mainly early 40s late 30s. It wasn't considered cool I think they called that shit indie or hipster or something.

No. 377975

Yeah, I think my confusion mostly stems from the fact that I didn't listen to any of the music or know a lot about the scenes. Just from looking at it the common thread style-wise seems to be "curated cheap" + old school rock star vibes with an ironic twist, I guess ? but the only real staple still seems to be the messy hair and make-up.

No. 377982

The "indie sleaze" aesthetic is too broad and varied to be defined. It's only a style retrospectively. If you look at cobrasnakes photos or the indiesleaze instagram the only constants are drugs, alcohol and cigarettes. Makeup and hair are messy because you snorted coke in the bathroom of a club and went on a multi day bender.

No. 378018

It was super popular until like 2012 or so, no? Then it evolved into that… weird tumblr thing. Remember how popular nipple pasties were? Such a weird era. Seeing litas make me feel like I'm in a fever dream.

No. 378161

>too broad and varied to be defined
I feel like this is only true through the lens of 2020s aesthetics/core-styles that exist within this tiny framework of hyper specific elements which define the style and from which next to no deviation is allowed or it gets labeled as something different entirely.

But maybe that's the difference between a "style" and an "aesthetic"

No. 378300

Americafags, any advice on where I could find full cotton feminine clothing on a budget? Would just going to thrift stores be my best bet? Last time I went, I was not surprised majority of the clothes there were Shein rejects.

No. 378410

You're sorta right and wrong. Indie sleaze was a scene, first and foremost. A music scene, a clubbing scene, an indie diy scene and later a pop-cultural moment for the rich and famous as well as normal people. The music ranged from indie to rock to electroclash and dance and the likes of LMFAO. It's silly to try to define it strictly.

No. 378789

How do I wear black/fully opaque tights? I thought they would be cute but I tried them on my favorite skirts and it looked ugly.

No. 378792

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i just got these for a huge discount, they were the last size in the store and sold out everywhere!! tiny bit small for me but after stretching them in the freezer they're all good. any suggestions on what kind of outfits to pair them with? i'm really into floridacore/burgerpunk atm

No. 378815

what brand are these? they’re cute

I think white chunky tennis shoes look good with cargo pants or a sleek dress/skirt, since it subverts the classy look

No. 378818

What can I wear with hot pink vans shoes?

No. 378827

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They look the best if you go monochromatic with your whole outfit imo. Or if they're a pop of color like picrel. Also this might be autistic but I think opaque tights look better with heavy weight clothing, like a knit dress.

No. 378828

I think Bershka. They were really popular some time ago.

No. 378829

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They also look nice with grey tbh.

No. 378841

nta but god that sneakers with classy dresses trend is so hideous

No. 378889

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ayrt I think it’s cute if done right

No. 378892

struggling to think of a fit in which hot pink vans would look good, but something alt/y2k sounds like your best bet

No. 378894

File: 1707770912651.jpg (48.33 KB, 640x425, swimsuit.jpg)

Does any brand still do patterned swimsuits sorta like pic rel, or any that have so I could get it second-hand? I don't want plain solid color ones, I like it when they have unique designs with different patterns and that early 2000s color scheme.

No. 378902

Other anon gave great advice. And maybe black is not the color you need for your fav skirts? Fully opaque gray, brown, navy, white, or cream could be better.

No. 378903

Do you mean that specific style of bikini top or just patterned swimsuits in general?

No. 378905

I'm just glad women have the option to opt out of heels with dressy outfits.

No. 378908

File: 1707774512327.png (789.46 KB, 691x663, swimsuitinspo.png)

I realized I was pretty vague sorry. I looked up the image on yandex and found some designs I liked. I know it's pretty tacky but I'm a sucker for this brown teal jerseyshore-esque look because it feels like the only sort of design that still looks good on me.

No. 378911

If you're in europe, Calzedonia and Tezenis have super tacky, fun swimsuits.

No. 378923

File: 1707778752433.jpeg (135.67 KB, 600x800, swimsuit3.jpeg)

Banana Moon definitely. I remember seeing stuff like this there up until 2013 at least, good chance you could find an unused one on some second hand website.

Most fast fashion brands did it at some point so you can just search any of them and filter by color since you have a precise color scheme in mind. I used to own picrel in 2008 or so (I'm a big fan of brown x teal x gold as well) and the listing I stole this picture from is only 3 euros !

No. 378966

The first response you got is really helpful, you're doing a lot of color blocking with opaque tights since they're bolder in color. If you have a blended palette it can be a little more difficult to gauge what works.

No. 379029

i found a cute fleece jacket and as i was considering if i should buy it, i thought "shit, that's a bit expensive, i bet i could find one that has fireproofing AND kevlar for that price" so now i'm in a rabbit hole looking for fire resistant jackets which i don't need. should i get one

No. 379033

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Thank you! I tried it on an outfit like in this photo but the skirt was a cream plaid instead and I felt like puking a little bit.Also felt the same when I tried it on my plain black skirts for a fully black outfit. I don't know if it was just me being insecure, but I'll try to go with your advice.

No. 379049

Buy what you actually need, nonita. Is something like fireproofing essential in the setting you'd be wearing it in? If not, just go for the cute option.

No. 379054

Fleece pretty much always ends up matting ime, especially around the arms and wrists, not worth it if it's a lot of money imo.

No. 379140

File: 1707875645650.jpg (274.66 KB, 958x667, paisleyprint.jpg)

Ty for your inputs! I did find really nice ones from your brands, and I learned paisley print is a good searching term for these fun tacky designs.

No. 380468

File: 1708368338123.jpeg (36.15 KB, 460x1000, IMG_1078.jpeg)

Sorry for a spoon feeding request but does anyone know where to find these style pants in a cotton/breathable fabric?
These pants are everywhere and it feels like I don’t even know where to look. All of the ones I’ve found are synthetic and it feels like it’s begging for a yeast infection

No. 380470

They're athelisure leggings so it makes sense they aren't cotton but a sporty fabric. However if you google cotton flare leggings you can find many cotton ones with just a bit of spandex. If you want actual pants then search for flare cotton/wool/linen pants.

No. 380472

The priscilla pants from brandy melville might be what you're looking for. The website says they're 96% cotton and 4% elastane.

No. 380474

Thank you !! It worked

No. 380494

Sometimes I work in a formerly abandoned touristy place and it's so fucking dusty and dirty and it can't be helped. Every time I leave from there, my hands are deeply cracked and by the time I go back it gets re-infected. It hurts so bad so I came back with pharmacy cotton gloves but they're still too thin and it feels a little silly. People look at my hands a lot so I would like to have some fashionable gloves that are delicate but protect my skin, does anyone have recommendations?

No. 380495

File: 1708378611424.jpeg (665.9 KB, 1062x1190, IMG_3460.jpeg)

Maybe something like this

No. 380499

Thank you, I meant to say that I also checked out these sunscreen/driving gloves and they also seem very thin

No. 380514

File: 1708388383826.jpg (664.3 KB, 1587x1181, showa FLOREO GLOVES.jpg)

I'd honestly just use lightweight gardening gloves.
Showa 370 FLOREO Unisex Lightweight Strong Sensitive Gardening Gloves Nitrile>>380494

No. 380575

That's what I feared it would end up being but I don't think I can wear these for hours at a time because that also gives my skin major issues. Gotta bite the bullet, I guess

No. 380622

Get some thin leather gloves?

No. 380929

layer cotton gloves underneath? That way you can change them if you start to feel your skin getting sweaty or irritated?

No. 381002

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can anyone help me find the closest thing possible to picrel
my mom threw out a third of my closet without asking me and this was in it

No. 381095

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How would you a style a dress like this in winter?

No. 381110

That’s kind of vague…what kind of winter? Where I live winter is typically 55/60 midday …so high 40s low 50s in the evening. A nice formal coat and some ankle boots would be enough.

No. 381141

Are we going to work, brunch or what?

No. 381148

Depends on where you're wearing it tbh. I have a similar dress I wear to work in a business casual type office and pair it with tights, ankle or calf high boots, and a long line cardigan. You could dress it up with a nice wool coat but since I'm just going to work I out a long parka over top kek

No. 381177

Casual office setting in very icy canadian winters. I'm just looking for layering advice that won't make the outfit boring and outdated. I'd like to channel the 90s/office siren/sexy librarian vibes.

No. 381193

I feel like this is a dress you shouldn't layer, any layering is going to cover up the beautiful neckline and the sleeveless shoulders which is what makes this dress stand out. Unless you want to layer a blouse underneath the dress but I'm personally not a fan of that look.

No. 381202

That's what I thought, buying it would be pretty much useless then.

No. 381357

The reason this worked back then is because those girls weren't trying so hard.

No. 381569

File: 1708829547170.jpg (94.44 KB, 544x558, necktype..JPG)

I don't know anything about fashion, but I have a hobby of browsing ebay for weird items. I came across this shirt and the pattern is atrocious so I will not be buying it, but I'm super intrigued by this unique neck. Is there a term for this? I'd like to search for another top with a neck like this that doesn't have such a hideous pattern.

No. 381585

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Miu Miu new balance collab… $1200… lol.

No. 381586

These look like the shoes you rent for $5 at the bowling alley

No. 381594

There's only like 3 colors too, Grey brown and white I think. Anyone who buys these are a sucker

No. 381641

ultra rich nepo baby zoomers will be all over these

No. 381678

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Nonnies do any of you know where I can find more pictures of Mugler F/W 1982, the catsuits look so cute but I can only find a few images of them which makes me sad.

No. 381682

I think this is the fullest video of them! Gettyimages has a few too

No. 381689

Thank you so so much Nonna. The way the models move is so cute I’m in love

No. 381790

File: 1708972497180.jpeg (58.57 KB, 640x799, mugler fw 1986.jpeg)

I loved that mugler show. the fact that it actually looks really warm is a big plus. my favorite is the f/w 86 star knits, super cool and cozy looking in my opinion

No. 381800

That's super cozy, they look like retro scifi inuits!

No. 381807

something scene/emo

No. 381808

No. 381813

It's barely an aesthetic to me personally. It's like a fusion of american apparel ads, heroin chic, coachella and whatever was generally popular from fast fashion brands of the time. I do think a lot of the fashion decisions made by the pioneers were unironically influenced by drugs, but also the clothes that a lot of popular rock bands wore, particularly in the UK. Cheap clothes were completely indistinguishable from expensive clothes, everything was practically thrown together with no thought. I personally don't think tiktok teenagers can do this justice at all since it was never really a trend meant or that involved them, it was primarily based around a music scene and lifestyle that they know absolutely nothing about. Everything was effortless and having no handbook or guide to do it correctly will just lead to a lot of them looking like they are cosplaying which is generally the case whenever a trend becomes popular with them.

No. 382364

Fashionable anons, is there a way/good placement to wear two dangle earrings on the same ear without looking stupid or hearing the earrings hit each other every step I take? I really want to get a second ear piercing just to wear 4 dangle earrings at once, but so far every placement I try out doesn't work. Sorry if this is a stupid question but the stupid question thread gave me no answers.

No. 382389

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Perhaps ordering dangling earrings by their length as the get closer to the lob like picrel might help. I'm personally not a fan of multiple danging earrings (unless they're hoops or closed chains) in one ear, but you do you anon.

No. 382390

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samefag, but here's an example of how awkward dangling earrings can look if they're not spaced out, descending, or the same length. Also nonnie, does the sound bother you that much? I have never paid attention to it on other people. I don't think you have to worry too much, unless it's a sensory problem for yourself.

No. 382406

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Oh I see! The earrings I was thinking of are the bigger ones like picrel, so the hitting sounds are kinda loud kek but I was hoping against hope that there'd be one non-awkward configuration. I'll pivot into looking to layer them by sizes and lengths, thank you anon!

No. 382408

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I posted this dress before and so far when I’ve worn it people have offered to take my coat four times. It’s extremely awkward every time, how do I style this so it’s more clear I’m wearing a dress?

No. 382411

don't button it up all the way, perhaps. If possible, rolling up the sleeves a little bit could help. Some kind of jewelry (necklace, brooch/pin). Wear another coat over it and make a big show of handing that one over.

I have only had this issue with a similar dress once, but the sleeves are 3/4 length, which I think helps. Obviously you need to test out how any of the potential solutions look irl,possibly none of them will suit the dress.

off topic and probably silly, but I hate it when dresses that have interesting details like this one are modelled by such gormless bland models. I hate the vacant stare idk. Guess in a couple years I will just be happy it's human and not AI.

No. 382429

A necklace should signal it's a dress.

It's weird though, I don't feel like the picture looks like something you'd easily mistake for a coat. Does it look very differen on you?

No. 382451

Idk I think this looks good in a cool way

No. 382504

Actually I really like this. It's a little edgier than usual setups.

No. 382595

anyone else sick of the arcteryx hat? i'm an outdoors clothing enthusiast and can't wait til everyone forgets about those things in like a month.
same, the other example is a bit girly for me personally.

No. 382897

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is there any way to style rocking horse shoes outside of lolita? i’ve been itching to buy a pair but i just… don’t know what i could even wear without them looking super out of place.

No. 382899

i think they'd look awesome with loose wide legged linen trousers, but that would lose a lot of the lovely ribbon detailing.

No. 382900

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I'm a lolita, but I wear them all the time with more regular clothes like button up skirts or dresses and they always get the most compliments.

No. 382916

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There's a lot of japanese street style pictures that feature them with more normie outfits. I think they look good with a midi length dress or skirt. They are a lot more versatile then you think.

No. 382973

Hello, this might be a stupid question but I really want to wear yellow, since it is my favorite color. I am very pale with brown hair so I usually try to play it safe with pink, green, gray, brown or blue. I once tried a bright yellow shirt and it looked really bad and washed me out, the yellow was overpowering everything. I tried the season color analysis test and I think I'm either a soft summer or soft autumn. I is very hard to determine if I am warm or cool toned. Is there any way I can make it happen and look good?

No. 382976

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What kind of clothes would you style a fat woman in?

No. 382982

Just curious, what are they like to walk in? They seem even more clunky than regular platforms.

No. 383061

If you get proper VW ones they're fine. The sole is heavy and the curve at the front makes walking in them pretty natural. Stick to sidewalks as much as possible though, any soft surface like grass makes it a lot harder.

No. 383068

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they can't walk on grass comfortably? no hate but i still can't believe women would wear something like this, or stilettos voluntarily. it just doesn't make any sense. the earth is like 99.9 percent grass and mud. it is literally everywhere. what if you have to run away from a crackhead in these

No. 383084

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so glad skinny jeans are out, i've been slowly replacing my pants wardrobe and i'm astounded at how bad and unflattering they look on everyone

No. 383087

Theyre hot

No. 383088

how much you wanna bet they'll make a comeback before the end of the decade

No. 383093

baggier jeans scream confidence and attention to style trends that's much sexier imo

No. 383104

>scream confidence
You are hiding your legs/butt/hips, that does not scream confidence.
>attention to style trends
You really think thats sexy? Most style trends are awful. I'd much rather have a girlfriend who is inattentive to short-lived tacky trends.

No. 383106

This. I think it actually screams pathetic to go buy a new wardrobe just because your peers do. You can wear whatever you actually like and no one is going to judge you.

No. 383113

Everything always cycles back. Took me by surprise how long skinny jeans were in.

No. 383116

skinny jeans aren't good at accentuating your body, get some actual leggings or wear a skirt.

No. 383120

Are you regularly encountering crackheads in the middle of open fields, anon? I wouldn't wear them anywhere without pavement.
I hate flare jeans, they get caught on everything. They only look good on really tall women imo.

No. 383123

there's a medium between extremely tight skinny jeans and flare jeans, anon

No. 383127

>skinny jeans aren't good at accentuating your body
Yours must not be skinny enough then.(bait)

No. 383128

Or she just has a flat ass.(bait)

No. 383129

i bet you think low-rise jeans are better too. smells like ballsack in here

No. 383130

well, it's an either or situation, where there are pavements there are definitely crackheads. i doubt they'd be very convenient for running even on pavement, but i never tried them so idk.
skintight jeans/jeggings will never make you look super skinny since they're meant to cling to your legs and butt, that's why they were popular with the 'thicc' instabaddie types. if you want the tall skinny legend vibe you should go for narrow straight denim that leaves some breathing room.

No. 383131

literally this, it's either moid trolls or angry fatties defending skinny jeans itt. denim is a bad material to accentuate your body but it sure is great for sucking in fat, which leggings/bare legs won't do and why skinny people wear the latter.

No. 383132

I don't, actually.
Why is complimenting your curves a bad thing? Nobody said its either leggings or skinny jeans, you can wear both you know. I like showing off my curvy butt and hips in both. I don't want to be skinny, sorry.

No. 383136

Reminds me of when I was on some random 4chan board and a girl was asking for advice on some anime cosplay, I told her to get a wig, and moids jumped on me saying I must have shitty hair for not using my natural hair in cosplay kek as if wigs aren’t always better for cosplay. They really sound stupid.

No. 383138

Nta and sorry but it will always be funny to me how butthurt anons get over dumb things. You're screeching about moids (because of course women don't have varied preferences) and fatties just because someone likes skinny jeans kek.

No. 383140

wym, i have skinny jeans myself, i just genuinely don't think they make anyone look skinny.

No. 383141

you're literally the one saying anon doesn't have an ass if she doesn't like skinny jeans and she's a dumb sheeple for being glad they're out of fashion though.

No. 383142

I never said they make anyone look skinny

No. 383144

I never said any of that, I only made that one post.

No. 383145

I feel like where I live at least skinny jeans back in the 2000s ruined jeans forever because I never see true straight cut jeans, but at least now baggy/flare is an option. Unless you are skelly, skinny jeans make you look stubbier and it's not like they compensate their ugliness by being comfortable.

No. 383146

Not involved in this fight but my ass is too fat for skinny jeans so that's one of the reasons I personally hate them (the other is that denim in general feels too stiff and uncomfortable)

No. 383152

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that means nothing to the typical skinny jean wearer

No. 383154

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These type of flares are my absolute favorite. They snug on your thighs a bit but leave bagginess at the bottom. I get mine at the thrift store and as a womanlet I definitely have to sometimes tailor or cuff them up. I really like pants that cover your shoes, but I enjoy bagginess as a whole.

No. 383155

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this is so gru-coded

No. 383156

Quiet luxury

No. 383201

These are bootcut, not flares.

No. 383216

As a millennial I absolutely hate flared pants. As another nona said they get caught on anything and make your legs look shorter if you aren’t tall. I will always prefer the silhouette of skinny jeans.

No. 383240

Me too. I don't give a shit if they're not trendy anymore. They're the only style that make my short stubby legs look nice.

No. 383242

>it doesn't look good if you aren't tall
I feel like that + skinny can be argued for all jeans styles.

No. 383270

I feel kinda silly posting this but since there's a fight about jeans going on anyway what the hell.
I hate shopping for jeans but I need new ones. Approx 5 years ago, I bought several pairs of the Old Navy Curvy-fit mid-rise boot cut and those were great. I was going to just buy more of them but they've been discontinued. They only have high-rise cuts for the curvy fit now and I can tell just by looking at the pictures that their other mid-rise boot cut jeans are not going to fit (plus they're over 30% polyester?????? the ones I have are only 14% polyester).
Nonnies, can you tell me where to look to replace my jeans? The absolute most I can afford is $30/pair because I need 2-3 pairs (I know that's a big ask but I'm poor). I've looked in the racks at like TJ Maxx and such but that stuff is all on-trend and I don't think I need to explain the problem there.

No. 383277

thrift stores. you'll have to dig for sure, because last time i went jeans shopping at a thrift store the racks were filled with skinny jeans (which i dislike, sorry to contribute to the discourse). i did find a few boot-cuts though.

No. 383419

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I bought these levi's bold curve id straight leg jeans for 23€ from my local thrift store and I'm surprised at how comfortable the low-rise style is. I feel like the dumbest zoomie since 2/3 of my jeans are high-rise. I will never buy skinny jeans though

No. 383423

i just looked on ebay and there's several pairs in various sizes being sold on there within your price range including shipping

No. 383537

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Kept seeing these everywhere since they were gifted to celebs to promo them and knew the price would be ridiculous but I looked it up and these shits are $200. Girl have grandma crochet you one what the hell

No. 384948

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Post more pictures of horny suburban wine mom fashion. I feel like this aesthetic doesn't get enough appreciation.

No. 384958

i absolutely hate this because it reminds me of terrible, insufferable family members

No. 385143

I want to wear nachatte seifuku at home, but just looking at clothes makes me feel cringe and pathetic. I'm also having a hard time finding pieces that aren't from taobao or paper-thin dropshipped shein shit. I swear it's not an ageplay or larp thing, I feel more alert and productive in uniform-like outfits. If anything my tastes shift closer to nanchatte businesswoman, though I still want that uniform look.

Years ago J-Box offered a service where you could get an authentic school uniform custom made by an actual tailor and shipped to you from Japan for around 400USD or so. I'm not into serafuku but I'd jump at the chance to get a good quality authentic skirt. All I see online are tiny miniskirts or maxis with a million thin accordion pleats. I'm this close to learning how to sew just to make a decent knife pleated uniform skirt.

No. 385745

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Look even if you think the 90's/2000's mallgoth/numetal fashion is awful, give me an opinion on which is least bad?

No. 385747

The skirt is the most unique I think, the pants are way too dime in a dozen to be interesting. It's also a little more subtle so you could make more outfits with it.

No. 385751

I like the chain details on right the best but the skirt is really really cool and unique. It just looks a bit empty on the front compared to the other options, the lack of brightly colored stitching details stands out.

No. 385753

The right one. Not loving the skulls and that maxi skirt looks difficult to pull off imo

No. 385756

Samefag but the skirt looks stiff, I don't think it'll look good in motion

No. 385770

depends on your wardrobe. If you are the red flavor of mallgoth and have many red x black items go with right, but the other two are more versatile in terms of accent color choice, especially the skirt but it looks a bit uncomfortable compared to pants.

I think the smaller ring chains on the left pants look better than the right where the chains hang weirdly due to the elongated ring shape.

I also got my "first" low rise jeans recently but it's a bootcut/flare type from a fast fashion chain, I was surprised at how good it looked and how comfortable it was and I haven't had any asscrack-related accident yet. It's not actually my very first low-rise because I'm well into my twenties but it's the first one that fits and isn't a skinny leg type tailored for an anachan. I regret slandering low-rise jeans as much as I did last time they were brought up itt.

No. 385776

Thinking of going for the skirt as a lot of my wardrobe is super long dresses and skirts, rarely trousers because i am flat as hell back there, thanks for the opinions

No. 385778

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Nonnies, does anyone know what these types of dresses are called?? I know they’re kind of different but the bust style looks similar, they’re both from Betsey Johnson SS2008

No. 385948

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Does this style have a name? What do you think about it?

No. 385951

It feels heavily inspired by japanese street fashion, or styles you'd see in eastern asia in general

No. 385953

Here in Germany homeless people dress like that in the winter.

No. 385955

Hahaha yeah it does have a sort of bag lady feel to it

No. 385976

art student

No. 385995

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Which pants, anons?

No. 385999

No. 386014

What are these intended for? They look like pyjamas but then the model on the left is wearing heels?

No. 386017

They're silk dress pants, you wear them to the office on warm days.

No. 386045

Millennial nonnies, Lookbook.nu & Chictopia are dead.(emoji)

No. 386047

seconding this.

No. 386056

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Lookbook has been dead since forever. I looked up my old "idols" from back then and they disappointed me so much. They all went from super cute and unique (for a teen back then) to the most basic beige/grey scandi style.

No. 386061

didn't kelly eden have the same blue dress from Betsey?
I have always wanted TRIPP pants but the skirt is really cool. One thing I hate about the pants is they look raggy when you walk on them so much but if that happens with the skirt you can cut it shorter.

No. 386084

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Where do you find a simple pair of Mary Janes like this? I dislike the chunky sole style that all of the ones being sold online seem to follow, and Ebay/Poshmark haven't been especially helpful, either.

No. 386159

AliExpress and shein

No. 386161

A revelation. Thank you for blessing this ancient ignorant millenial with your youthful wisdom, nonnie.

No. 386167

the red set looks amazing.

No. 386212

I guess—but I would really prefer not to. I would hope to get a pair that won't fall apart immediately (perhaps even made from real leather). Is there really nowhere else?

No. 386217

No. 386218

These are pretty cute, actually. Thank you for finding it. The buckle/strap is odd to me, but I suppose I just need to keep looking around.

No. 386219

Ever heard of the brand Camper? I've never owned anything from them but they mostly use leather and quality seems to be very good. Check these mary janes:

No. 386231

Not sure if appropriate to post here but I start a new job next week and it’s a business casual office job and I need new sets of pants in black. I mean I do have a wardrobe for office clothes but theyre all unflattering on me and I wear them for comfort and my current employer doesn’t enforce the dress code. However, I’m short and triangle/rectangle shaped with a fat stomach, but thin legs and no ass. I’ve had people before tell me short people shouldn’t wear flared leg but apprently if you’re triangle you have to. Any advice?

No. 386234

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I work front desk in a business casual office, have a belly, and tend to wear sweaters over a long skirt, wide leg trousers, or jeans most of the time, with a piece of simple jewellery to make it classier. Similar to picrel but with simpler jewellery and no red lip. My office leans towards the "casual" side of business casual though, so idk if you could pull it off in a workplace where everyone is suited and booted. You could try looking up the company on social media and see if they have any staff pictures to find out what your new colleagues wear to work. Or you could even drop in as a customer and observe depending on whether you need to make an appointment or not. I'm sure there's gotta be at least one other person who carries their weight on their belly and is keeping to the dress code just fine, unless it's really small.

No. 386238

Flared leg only looks good on people who are Flamboyant Natural types or hourglass shaped women that wanna show off their body bc only fitting tops look good with flared jeans. I wouldn’t wear a baggy shirt/sweater with those. I’m a similar shape as you naturally and I try to stick to straight/slim leg pants that cut off before my ankle. I find that those are the most flattering on me. I think trying to trick people into thinking you have an hourglass shape is futile and that embracing your shape is better. Look into kibbe types and essences to get an idea of what type of shapes/cuts suit you. And you don’t have to religiously abide by kibbe or the essences but they’re helpful in ruling out what definitely looks bad on you.

No. 386246

If nonna is triangle shaped she's most likely FN and can wear them.

No. 386248

Eh not true, I’m triangular/rectangular shaped (with prominent shoulders) and I’m a flamboyant gamine in kibbe

No. 386252

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For a hot second I thought the same outfit had been posted in Taylor R's thread but it was mainly just the shoes and color kek

No. 386261

nta but op said she's short and from what i read FNs are usually tall. i think the closest short example that exists is sarah jessica parker but otherwise they're all tall

No. 386287

This is really cute nonna thanks! It’s a government job and I’m just transferring from one agency to another but I’m not sure how strict they’ll be. Do you find pants to hurt your stomach? I don’t like wearing denim/tight pants because it hurts around my midsection, also it’s so hard to find something since I measure 40 inches but my hips are 28 and my legs are thin (so like your stereotypical hispanic aunt). At the same time though I’ve never worn dresses/skirts and I always feel weird when wearing them.
I’m 4’11” if that helps. I’ve tried taking a look at the kibbe thing but I can’t wrap my head around it, plus almost all examples are of thinner women. And I guess now looking at myself I might be more rectangle? All I know is I have no hips and ass but a bulging stomach.

No. 386291

>no hips and ass but a bulging stomach.
NTA but sounds like an apple shape to me

No. 386297

My body is kinda weird in that my stomach mostly just extends outward and not to the sides. Like as if I’m pregnant, except I’m bigger in the upper part of my stomach. It’s annoying and I can’t figure out how to dress, and dress well, so I just wear stretchy, cotton, loose pants with oversized blouses that look too big on me because of it.

No. 386457

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Thanks anons. I ended up picking up these ones as well, they were on sale.

No. 386460

Saw this on the front page and gotta say nonnie, they're super cute. Good for you

No. 386500

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omg I know it's late but I actually have the perfect answer for this!

Bydee is an Australian brand and I loooove their bathers. They make them from recycled fabrics and they hold up nicely. The way the site works is more of a "choose your own" thing where you pick the cut you like and then the fabric type. Picrel is the cut I went with and there's plenty of different styles to choose from.

No. 386545

much better choice than the drawstring ones

No. 386552

oh my god those are beautiful

No. 386937

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Nonnas, how do you deal with wanting to wear styles/cuts that don't match your body shape? I am an average weight and height, but my chest is substantially bigger. I've gotten a reduction but it's still not a small size. I've hated it ever since I developed them because I am simply not a sexy person and don't want to be viewed that way (even though I appreciate more romantic/sultrier looks; they're just not my personality). For example, I love current normie Japanese fashion but I've tried styling myself that was and it simply doesn't work because I'm not a small frame straight line shape. However, I find the idea of dressing according to my more voluptuous shape nauseating. I have had bad experiences being sexualized because of my breasts all throughout school. Though some styles like a 50s vintage cut or more romantic styles would flatter me, it wouldn't portray me the way I want to show myself to the world, you know? I wish I could dress as modestly and effortlessly as let's say picrel but then I'd make myself into a potato.
Does anyone have any tips on how to bridge the gap between what one's body type and actual personality?

No. 386997

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I'll be the first to admit that I dress pretty basic. But now that I've developed a capsule wardrobe, it's great. It's a lot easier for me to get dressed in the morning now and it's very easy to mix and match my clothing because I wear colors that blend well together. I have also gotten more compliments on my style, one of my friends said she loved my cute feminine style and she liked how she could look at an item in the store and think "anon would wear that". Another one of my friend said I always looked well put together because of my outfits! It's brought me a lot of joy nonas, I always dreamed of having such a stress-free wardrobe where I can throw different pieces together and not have to worry. Plus, I don't really feel the urge to buy new clothes anymore. picrel isn't mine

No. 387408

Super cute but what do you wear on top??

No. 387421

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Thanks anons.
Lol I got the red ones as well. Some days you just have to be comfy.
Any cropped or fitted top or blouse with one of the print's colors, like black, cobalt blue, or red. I have a few black tops like this one that should work.

No. 387615

I hope this belongs on this thread but can anyone recommend fashion content creators that are good for someone who is looking to restart her wardrobe or style? I don't want to buy hyper specific pieces that will be unfashionable I want someone who is fashionable yet reuses basic or simple items to create nice outfits.

No. 387630

>how do you deal with wanting to wear styles/cuts that don't match your body shape?
I wear what I want because it makes me happy and confident, no other approach to fashion has that effect on me. I don't know about you but in my country/family surroundings ''to match your body shape'' equals wearing clothing that looks tight and enhances a typically femenine figure. Once I became determined to wear what I felt comfortable with and to experiment with styles that I found interesting I stopped feeling constrained in terms of fashion. My mother hates thrifting but it's been my main source of clothing for almost a decade, so finding some reassurance at home while I was growing up depended entirely on myself. I learned to value my own opinion above everyone else's because otherwise I would live my life feeling uncomfortable (never give in to other's opinions on shoes, you'll suffer physically and aesthetically for months) and turns out a lot of people love telling others what to do even when the people who follow their advice look visibly unhappy. I've also developed some sensory issues over the years and I almost entirely wear 100% cotton everything, that's an aspect of my style that nobody can change my mind about. Learning about color theory has helped me a lot. I'm a textbook sof summer so even if I look too hobo for an occasion at least I know the colors I'm wearing compliment my skin complexion and my hair lol
>I wish I could dress as modestly and effortlessly as let's say picrel but then I'd make myself into a potato.
What's wrong with potatoes? I love the trashbag silhouette, we don't have to show the curve of our waists all the time. There's no shame in dressing comfy and practical.
>Does anyone have any tips on how to bridge the gap between what one's body type and actual personality?
I think only the passing of time will help you develop a cohesive style. People who buy their whole wardrobe at once following a fad get stuck in a neverending cycle of trends and hoarding then dumping cheap clothes. If you want to find your personal style you'll have to experiment for a while until you reach a certain point where your new additions become a small improvement of your style. A good sign is when you buy less and you use those new pieces right from the start, and you never regret buying something.
Congrats anon! Can you post a picture of something that resembles your style? I'm curious

No. 387739

Can someone recommend me a cute pair of feminine sneakers? Preferably pink or white, comfort and style top priority, then price

No. 387835

Laini Ozark on YouTube! My style isn’t at all similar to hers but she gives very practical fashion advice and discourages consumerism so I really enjoy watching her videos

No. 387836

I know getting fashion advice from Reddit is the worst thing ever but I loath how the lesbian fashion advice subreddit is infested by hons

No. 388194

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sure nona! I was kind of embarrassed to give examples because my style is very boring compared to some anons posts. I live in a cold country so I usually wear jeans to prioritize comfort. Picrel are photos I found online and they're closest to what I wear on the daily, I try to add feminine touches like lace, flowy shirts, layered necklaces/bracelets and I wear a lot of pink. I like doing cute hairstyles too, my hair is super long now so they're fun to do. I know it's not very interesting but it suits me well and it makes it easy to find items that match. I'd be open to getting more adventurous though especially with my bottoms.

No. 388198

Nta but i love your style

No. 388427

Nonnies, do any of you wear men's pants? What are your recs for choosing and wearing them? How safe it is to buy them online (in terms of fitting)? I'm 160 something cm tall and a bit afraid it's going to look funny because of the crotch area kek

No. 388437

men's pants are really nice in terms of fitting because compared to women's sizing guessing game, men's tend to have inseam and waist measurements in inches so you generally know what to expect. The roomy crotch does make it obvious you're wearing men's pants but if you're going for a butch/gnc look that doesn't matter tbh.
Also if you're curvy, pear shaped etc you may have fit issues because they are cut for mens' sad asses. I share jeans with my bf a lot but I have no curves and narrow hips, and even then the jeans that fit me on the waist can be tight on the butt. So I'd recommend sticking to looser/baggy cuts. Also length- I usually go for 30 in (often the shortest option) and I'm 170cm. If you don't mind me asking is there a reason you're looking for men's pants in particular?

No. 388575

You can buy second hand uniform pieces on Japanese Mercari, Yahoo auctions or Rakuten for cheaper. Also, taobao has affordable secondhand vintage school uniform pieces. If you search vintage jk, they'll come up. w-uniform is another website for secondhand uniforms.
If you don't mind uniforms that aren't real but are still close in quality, Conomi or East boy are good.
Don't feel bad! It's a cute and versatile fashion!

No. 388589

the channels i got the most out of were madeyoulooks, frugalaesthetic and maybe brave new wear.
merriam style is also good if you're into style systems, but her fashion advice wasn't ever directly applicable to me, though it did push me to the right direction. if you have a specific starting point in mind it's worth just going on pinterest. the ones i mentioned are the most informative channels out there, it's much easier to find casual fashion content creators.

hair and jewellery is what can really take a style like yours to the next level, it's great that you're having fun with it. where do you like to shop for jewellery?

seconding prev anon, the butt/thigh narrowness is the main problem for me, it's not a big deal if the pants are loose but i've had bad experiences even with baggy mens jeans. i think they're worth the struggle, the quality is good and they're super comfortable if you find a good pair and are taller.

they took over a lot of the moderation too, weirdly most of the troon mods don't even seem to care about fashion.

No. 388598

>weirdly most of the troon mods don't even seem to care about fashion
it's not, all they care about is controlling women's conversation as much as possible (and getting off to them)

No. 388625

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Nonas do you know of any brands that have a "fairy-tale"-like style? I'm really craving some floaty, frilly dresses. I know about Linennaive and retro-fairy.com - although the latter seems slightly sus.

No. 388633

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Maybe out of your price range, but I dress like this frequently and imo, 1970s Gunne Sax dresses are the pinnacle of this look, both in terms of style and quality. Expensive, but I finally bit the bullet in December of last year, and it was 100% worth it. I now own 4, lol. You can generally get them at more affordable prices via ebay auctions, I managed to score this same dress from one for $85 (and the depop listing I got this picture from sold for $374!!).

No. 388782

How lucky, nona!
I know you can find great stuff that is vintage, but I was also hoping to find more modern brands like this.

No. 388790

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It's $120. Should I?

No. 388791

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and these… so pretty.

No. 388793

It's pretty but it gives handmaiden SAHM tradthot vibes… why have tradtards ruined fashion for us?

No. 388807

im not sure this is the thread for this nonna

No. 388809

almost $200 for something u could thrift…nona do not do it

No. 388810

a poplin cotton short skirt

No. 388812

i would ask for feedback on reddit but there are no female only fashion subs there anymore sorry

No. 388813

kek fair enough nona

No. 388815

>thrifting swimwear
Kind of nasty but okay

No. 388818

its giving 2014

No. 388859

Why would that matter if it suits the person?
They're both nice anon. Just make sure that dress color looks good on your skin kek

No. 389031

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I got inspired again to make a style board, mostly just to visualize how drastically my style has changed just in the past year. for reference, I was >>322118

I don't really know how to explain how this happened. It's like all of a sudden I wanted to experiment with dark colors, jewel tones, and more mature and elegant cuts. And I'm realizing just how happier and prettier I feel like this. Jfashion didn't really suit me and I was sick of wearing clothes cut for someone much more petite than me.
Some of these pics are aspirational (cannot justify buying new from really expensive brands like rouje) and I have a little more color in my wardrobe (i still love pink, along with reds, purples, dark blues and cool greens), but it's overall about the vibe and the cuts I wear the most.

No. 389045

There's no way you could find swimwear that good quality and that unique at a thrift store. Plus as that other anon said that's kinda nasty. Investing in good swimwear really does make a difference and you'll have the one pair for years.

No. 389067

both released in 2023 fucktard

No. 389082

Why are you so angry I think it looks outdated and ugly? Actually, i think you should buy it after all.

No. 389086

She wrote "it's giving" so you can disregard that opinion anyway kek
Would you really wanna thrift something that has come into contact with the previous owners bare butt and crotch? I would never.

No. 389100

we need a twitterfag purge

No. 389190

Aww thank you for saying that nona! It's really sweet of you

I get a lot of my jewelry from independent shops online. None in particular, I usually just search Etsy for 100% sterling silver pieces and see what I like. I also check secondhand on Poshmark and Depop and in jeweller stores that sell secondhand stuff. Other than that a lot of my jewelry's actually been handed down to me from family members or gifted to me for birthdays. Sorry I can't be of more help nona. I love the Tiffany's stuff and look longingly at the really fancy stuff in shop windows, but I don't have the money for anything pricey.

I really like these nona! It's a change definitely, but you've kept in the long skirts, feminine touches and dainty, feminine prints. I really love the look of those satin dresses, the pink one is just beautiful. This style lends itself so well to soft, bouncy layered hair too, it's feminine while being elegant and mature.

No. 389282

Nta but that doesn't matter, they are ugly and outdated.

No. 389317

Anons I really love the sort of gaudy, glass bead statement piece jewlery from the early 90's. Think of YSL, D&G, Christian Lacroix runways of the early 90's and you'll see some amazing jewlery pieces.

My question: how can I phrase the search for this type of jewlery on secondhand sites? I'm a poorfag who cannot realistically buy vintage YSL/D&G. But I'm obsessed with the gaudy statement jewelry trend of the 90's.

No. 389323

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What is a good site for reasonably priced cutesy cat stuff? Like the graphic tees Shein sells. I feel guilty using shein bc they steal designs so I'd like to take my business elsewhere

No. 389425

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maybe i am retarded but do any nonnies out there know where i can find clothing like picrel that aren't complete shit quality? i only find stuff like this on aliexpress et al with weird fucked up fit/sizing and horrible fabric choices. i just want some cute jfashion/kfashion stuff that is actually somewhat nice and not made of 100% polyester.

No. 389433

Just buy jfashion from actual reputable jfashion brands. You'll almost definitely have to use a proxy buying service because it's rare for japanese brands to offer international shipping. I get pretty much all of my cute clothes from shopping japanese mercari using buyee

No. 389442

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Just ordered these shoes from Steve Madden and I’m not sure if I let my final fantasy brainrot influence my decision because I have no idea how to style them now that I sit on it kek.

No. 389443

Too expensive for the first dress
Shoe looks too tacky and dated.

No. 389543

I love this kind of style. It's still feminine and dainty but it's more simple and elegant. I'm also coming from jfashion, though I am technically petite enough to look okay in it I feel like it doesn't really suit my personality or reflect who I am anymore. I feel like it makes me look too young and cutesy which is what I wanted in my teens, not so much in my mid twenties. I've also lost some of the roundness in my face as I've gotten older, so the hyper cutesy stuff really feels wrong on me. My style is darker and more vintage inspired now and I feel so much more confident in it, like it reflects my personality better. Question for other ex-jfashion anons, what kind of style do you wear now?

No. 389772

>post style goals collage
>anon says i shouldn't have posted it here
>delete post
>another anon posts a style collage the actual same day

No. 390036

not every anon here is the same person

No. 390037

they're from 2023

No. 390330

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Cute for a summer wedding or tacky? Mint/turquoise looks really good on me but I'm not sure I can pull off leopard print even if it does seem to be coming back.
If anons are interested in these >>386457 pants they're an additional 20% off this week: https://camilla.com/products/00023784-scarf-belt-wide-leg-pant-play-your-cards-right

No. 390333

Thats too busy for me, but if its more your style, whos to stop you?

No. 390390

Still looks tacky and dated

No. 390424

absolutely horrific, anon. i actually have trouble imagining the kind of person you'd have to be to think this is even vaguely appealing

No. 390447

I'm sorry Nona but it looks like something a grandma would wear on a cruise

No. 390462

Nta but a piece can be released recently but be heavily reminiscent of trends from longer ago and therefore come across dated. I would've never guessed those heels were made in 2023 either.

In my experience people generally prefer less bold outfits at weddings to allow the newly wedded couple to shine, but maybe the dresscode is different at yours.

No. 390470

I feel the same way about several of the outfits anons post here lol. Shows how different people's tastes are.
It's a masquerade and the only code is not wearing white.
Kek anon.

No. 390492

It's quite pretty but then I love grandma aestethics. Although I doubt an actual grandma would wear something with a random skin window.
Wear what you love anons. It's always facinating how different people's taste is, so since everyone thinks so differently it's best to wear what you feel the best in yourself.

No. 390493

I like it too, I think it'd be cute and fun on someone who has the personality to match. I think it needs a necklace though

No. 390534

Just as a note to whoever sees these pants and wants to get them.. they do NOT fit like in the website pics, they are too baggy and the bagginess starts above the knee. So my advice would be to try them on in store and see how they fit you

No. 390536

you can style them by putting them back in their box and ship them back to steven madden. im sorry nonna but they are hideous. i think they would look much better without those cheap looking metal circles?

Auntie having the time of her LYFE in palm springs

super cute. just fyi the only way those skirts will look good on you is if you wear high heels. you cant wear flats with these or your calves will look giant and legs short

No. 390734

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nonnies help me!! I got invited to a wedding for someone I barely know. Never been to a wedding before. I'm terrified of misinterpreting the dress code and standing out, especially because I normally wear alt fashion and have no frame of reference for this kind of thing kek. It's cocktail/semi-formal at a pretty nice venue. Would this dress be ok? I'm just trying to look as "normal" as possible. I'd appreciate any other suggestions too

No. 390736

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samefag I also like this one but maybe the pattern is too loud

No. 390738

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This dress is quite perfect, actually, but depending on the location you may need a shawl to cover your shoulders, mostly because some churches don't allow people to enter or sit on certain places with uncovered shoulders, but also because you may feel cold at some point.
Tbh, it also depends on the time, I feel like this dress is practical because with some accessories you can either make it a night dress or a day dress, meanwhile the other dress feels more like it's for a day party, but maybe not for a wedding because of the flowers, plus if it's a garden party/wedding you may end up getting camouflaged a bit with the background in pictures.

No. 390742

thanks anon! I'm going to go with the first dress. I like how you mentioned the versatility too, since I'm hoping to splurge on a nice dress I can wear to multiple weddings.

No. 390743

This dress is really nice, I'd totally wear it to a wedding.

No. 391552

update I got the dress and it's… fine. I've heard a lot of good things about reformation so maybe my expectations were too high but in terms of material, stitching quality etc it doesn't feel like it justifies a $300 price tag. The fabric is slightly heavier and drapes better than paper thin shien polyester I guess. But I look cute in it so I'll keep it

No. 391618

>I've heard a lot of good things about reformation
Where? I'm pretty sure Reformation is known to be kinda shitty/hit or miss for it's price tag, like Zimmermann.

No. 391664

Nonnies how do I escape the pit of always wearing black? I have very pale skin and black hair and eyes so I usually feel washed out by colours, even ones that should suit me according to colour analysis (I think I'm a winter) and it's so easy to throw on all black and just call it a day. Has anyone else crawled out of this cavern?

No. 391739

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I bought a skirt just like this because it was 60 percent off and it’s pretty, but now I realize I have no idea what to wear with it. I don’t have any crop tops like the one in picrel, and I don’t know if it’s my favourite way to wear it. Any other ideas?

No. 391841

It's a neutral piece, so you could style it a lot of different ways. Don't know what your style is but I liked some of the outfits in vidrel

No. 391846

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Recently started using a closet organization app, I think it's been very helpful to start defining a more clear style and to declutter my wardrobe. My style is all over the place, and I have a lot of stuff I never wear. I've already gotten inspiration on how to put together outfits with those lesser worn pieces which is exciting! I also donated a bunch of stuff that I just don't like anymore or doesn't fit the vision I have of my style going forward.

Does anyone else here use an organization app? Any recommendations? The one I use currently is pretty bare bones but simple to use, however it doesn't have any AI outfit suggestions etc, I'm wondering if those are useful at all?

No. 391851

Which app do you use? I'm stupid because I never knew about apps like these. I think it could really help me with dressing nicely since I always struggle and end up choosing just a pair of jeans and t shirt

No. 391852

I use Indyx, it's a newer one I think? I just chose it since this video popped up on my recommended.

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i've been trying one for over a year and i feel like it's made a difference. as an example, left are some of my first attempts (on a good day), right was a year later. the newer fits still looked like absolute dogshit, but there was arguably more personality there, maybe? i used acloset which i do NOT recommend because they fucking made it unusable, idk if i should try reuploading everything to indyx because the money hungry devs will probably break it as well when they have a big enough userbase. i wear the same 3 items every day anyway. good luck with your closet and yes, ai still totally sucks at fashion.

No. 391856

I LOVE your style anon!!

>the money hungry devs will probably break it as well when they have a big enough userbase

Damn I hope not. Right now the monetization seems to rely on their stylist and selling/lending services and not the clothes management itself (aside from user data of course), hope that does not change in the future.

No. 391860

I didn't know those apps existed now I can fullfil my Polly Pocket wardrobe dreams!
I really like your style, anon! I love the combination of blues, grays and light neutrals.

No. 391866

thank you this is great! I like the sweater idea and the last top. thank you again

No. 392100

I've been using Whering and it's been pretty good

No. 392116

rip in piss acloset
i remember when it used to actually be good, thankfully i downloaded most of my fits. It's crazy to me they wouldn't even let you download your own data once they got greedpilled
btw i love your pop punk surfer girl style

No. 392155

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Brands similar to Custo Barcelona? Preferably not luxury.
inb4 it's so ugly, I know. There's just something so admirable by fun clashing designs where it's known someone actually designed it.

No. 392158

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What kind of fabric/brand would be a good pick for a black turtleneck that actually lasts? I only have fast fashion polyester garbage that starts pilling and collecting cat hair like crazy right after the first wash, they all look so frumpy.

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The difficult thing is that it isn't just the raw material itself that influences how much the sweater will pill but also the way it's been processed, and you can't really tell that (as far as I know) beforehand unless it's already pilling in store, so you could get a really nice expensive merino or alpaca wool sweater that still ends up pilling because the yarn wasn't made well. A fabric shaver is pretty helpful with making sweaters look presentable again and they're inexpensive.

No. 392184

Oh I have one of those (which my cat hates, she slaps the device when I use it kekkk), but it’s not a miracle worker. Those don’t seem to work on that really small fuzz, but it’s better than nothing. Thanks for the tips!

No. 392186

Is indie sleaze and 2010's fashion seriously making a comeback ISTG more anons than usual are asking where to find the ugliest looking 2010's sort of clothes. Please God anything but 2010's fashion is was butt fucking ugly. Mid 2010's even uglier.

No. 392188

Could you slowly introduce white/grey/dark colors into your wardrobe? Or denim in other colors than black?

No. 392190

Yeah they're not perfect, I find it varies a bit. I have some clothes it works really well on and others need multiple passes.

No. 392191

No one wore that shit in 2010, anon's examples are quirky old lady's clothes.

No. 392193

Ayrt, those dresses look very similar to clothes children wore in (very) early 2010. I'd know because I was there. Look at the cut and patterns of the second and third dress. Stripes were everywhere and so were those random stringy/particle graphics (IDK how to describe them). I know exactly the texture of that striped dress fabric too because that fabric was everywhere as well.
Now that I'm explaining it I guess this would all be closer to, like, 2008. But still. 2008-2012 had some fugly fucking clothes.

No. 392217

I have a bunch of basics (including turtlenecks) from land's end that are really nice.

yeah they did

I hope so honestly. I can't wait to pull out all of the old modcloth things I couldn't bring myself to throw away.

No. 392219

If it makes you feel better I'm AYRT and I posted a couple times ITT asking for tacky clothes brands

No. 392222

If galaxy print comes back, I'm taking it as a sign that I've lived long enough and finding the nearest tall bridge. I don't want to face the ghosts of high school past.

No. 392231

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I've been thinking the same thing about that ethnic 'aztec' or 'navajo' print that was everywhere at the time. The galaxy and ethnic leggings were peak early 10s, and that says a lot about that era of fashion. I can't imagine them making a comeback but a few years ago we were saying the same things about early 00s fashion and how it was the worst decade in fashion history. I feel like late 00s trends are already coming back in style with colorful thights, ballet flats, stripes, thin oval glasses (…) and overall 80s influences. So the early 10s revival is coming. Indie sleeze was mentioned a lot but I think overall more casual styles will come back. For example the pumpkin spice latte girl style (casual boho) was also really popular at that time.

No. 392234

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i'm struggling to reconcile how i want to dress. i was an obligate weird art girl my whole life but i've grown really tired of everyone thinking that's all i am, even though creativity is still an important part of my life. i still enjoy quirky jewellery, accessories and unusual combinations, but i'm struggling to put on anything that isn't extremely basic and utilitarian and not feel insecure about how it comes across to others. do you think it's possible to have those cheeky details i like while still looking somewhat respectable? all the advice online is basically "try fun color combos and patterns!" but i hate that. my graphic tees are my one only solace.

No. 392248

This is a weird question for the fashion thread, but you know the phrase there’s no such thing as an unmarked woman? How do you unmark yourself? How would you dress if you want to be completely anti-fashion? Like outside of fashion/trends/style entirely. I know some people will say just jeans and tees but those are also influenced by trends and cuts that go in and out. I’m not trying to look alternative or unique, I want to be generic, but in like a randomly generated NPC way. Like people look at you and think this person has no idea what they’re doing at all. Like a level below “basic”.

No. 392250

Shop for clothes at a 99 cents store?

No. 392252

Maybe buy depression clothes, I call depression clothes anything that would be considered fashionable on a model or celebrity but that makes you wonder if the regular person wearing those clothes is on the verge of suicide.

No. 392255

Time to buy all grey & beige clothing or earth tones depending on what game your NPC is from.

Although, jeans and tee's are subject to trends you can find bare bones basics IF you're willing to pay to whatever brand Mark Zuckerburg wears. Super luxe fashion will always find a way to make it self scream 'I have no money & a empty head so please don't pay attention to me'

No. 392256

You sound fun nonny, can you post something similar to what you wear vs what you would like to wear?

No. 392257

I did that and depression clothes made me way more depressed

No. 392259

Can you post some of your inspo outfits of how you'd like to dress?

No. 392268

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it's so generic i don't feel like looking for an example, i basically just wear sneakers, grimy jeans, a t-shirt/sweatshirt and an optional baseball cap. maybe with a slight military influence when i'm feeling edgy. i used to love beading my shoelaces, xd-randomly wearing ties, aggressively decorating my bags, etc. but the quirkiness just feels like way too much now, i can only describe it as a fear of looking childish and a weird toxic masculinity (i suppose because my current style would be considered pretty masculine?). maybe a single fun keychain or a necklace would be okay but i don't have other ideas. ultimately natural style progression is normal and good, i'll either have to let go of my old quirky items or find subtle ways to incorporate them.

No. 392269

It's not only about what you choose to wear but how often you wear it. You need to wear the exact same thing every day, buy 3-4 plain gray tshirts and 2 regular cut jeans aand the most common sneakers and there you have it. No accessories, no jewellery, wear also the same purse/bag and do you hair always the same: low ponytail. That's what a true NPC would wear, always the same.

No. 392277

If you're looking to incorporate them subtly, then going monochromatic is a good option. Style wise, I feel like I'm looking at a photo from the early FRUiTS magazines.

No. 392279

I like the images you posted, maybe the more anime-esque stuff like the keychains could make your look more juvenile imo. But then again, if you like them, don't be embarrassed to wear them.

No. 392293

are those rings that sit below the knuckle comfortable?

No. 392442

thank you, i think going monochromatic or at least muted would work well. the fruits comment makes me feel i made the right choice in moving away from it, i really don't want to attract attention at all.
i've been thinking about your post as well, i feel like our goals are kind of comparable. the most anti fashion thing one can do is stop thinking of it as fashion and think of it as clothing. don't put effort into styling, pick pieces for the sake of function, how well they can get the job done. like those extremely ugly looking but super comfortable running shoes, that kind of thing is probably perfect for your needs.
there's no such thing as comfortable metal jewellery but no i can't imagine wearing these for any amount of time.

No. 392495

>there's no such thing as comfortable metal jewellery
My regular rings are perfectly comfortable

No. 392525

Thanks for replies nonnies, sorry for such a belated response, I somehow completely forgot I asked this question here!
>Also if you're curvy, pear shaped etc you may have fit issues because they are cut for mens' sad asses
Yeeah, I thought about that… my hips/butt are pretty big.
>If you don't mind me asking is there a reason you're looking for men's pants in particular?
I just heard they're more comfortable and even better quality(?). Just like the other nona said basically. Also I liked some old Gwen Stefani's looks where I believe she wore men's pants. So I wanted to try it but now I doubt it's going to work after trying on some woman's pants even. I'm short and too wide in hips for that. Sigh!

No. 392737

Nonnies of the fashion thread, what do you all think of the self proclaimed "fashionbro" moids who are decked out in Rick Owens, Balenciaga, Yohji Yamomoto etc. and think they know everything about fashion. Personally, all of them make me seethe.

No. 392768

Hate them. They come off as very childish and shallow. They don't seem to care about fabric, cut, aesthetics etc. unlike 'dapper' suit autists. It's all about 'brand is BASED?' 'i need the 10k rick owens buttplug' 'ranking my supreme boxers' lol i sometimes wonder if they care about fashion beyond status symbols. I've met some who seem to want to learn, but since this talk is so common among men, they just end up adopting their vocabulary. Maybe this will get better as their communities mature. I swear the less knowledgeable a moid is, the more confident he becomes

No. 392872

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Would you say this dress is too flashy as a wedding guest? The dress code is:
>>Dress: Semi-Formal - Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and midi cocktail dresses.

No. 392874

It looks like it’s made of the bed quilt from an outdated chain hotel…

No. 392881

Do you have any suggestions for an outfit then? I'm open to them (its a summer wedding)

No. 392891

nta but what kind of fit would you prefer and do you prefer patterns or solid colours? anything you really like or dislike?

No. 392893

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it's hard to suggest something without knowing what look you're going for and what your body type is, but if you want a short red dress, then i would suggest something like this. the draped fabric adds a classy element and the print is more modern than one on the dress you posted.

No. 392895

I really like the dress, don’t listen to the other anon. My only concenr is that it may be too hit for a sunmer wedding, the fabric looks thick

No. 392897

Nta but this looks like some of the bullshit slop that Wild Fable has available at Target kek.

No. 392901

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kek, mini tulle dress for a semi formal dress code nice one nonna
Here are some trendier (some more some less) choices from a quick scroll through Asos and Zara. The florals aren't the greatest picks but you get the idea.

No. 393102

How old are you? I find this style a bit mature if you're in your 20s or so.

No. 393114

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Weird question but as it's getting warmer I'm looking for socks and sandals recs to wear together.
Don't roast me, I commute a lot and the city I live in is really nasty. I'm not brave enough to just wear sandals.

Any tips on how to style it maybe like picrel (it's a bit zoomer for my liking but the other references I found were too preppy for my current wardrove)

No. 393244

Sorry I know it's not really answering your question but why not just wear closed toe shoes instead? It feels like the only real upside of sandals is keeping your toes breezy when it's super hot out but you don't get that when you wear socks with them. Using fishnet socks like your pic may work better but that personally seems like it would make my soles feel really sweaty and gross.

No. 393266

Is it autistic to wear cat ears outside? Not the fur kind, like the cute black velvet or metal type ones. I’m not a furry I just think they’re a super cute accessory and I remember a lot of women used to wear them (the frame kind)

No. 393273

No. Trannies go around wearing heinous shit and nobody cares so enjoy your cat ears, nona. Sounds cute and nostalgic

No. 393274

I’m being so serious right now, it is extremely autistic and I would avoid talking to you in public if I saw you wearing cat ears

No. 393277

Personally I give a wide berth to any adult I see wearing cat ears in public, unless it’s Halloween. Red flag is the wrong word, but it certainly is… a flag. An autism flag perhaps.

No. 393278

anon… I understand not wanting to care what people think but lmao dont do that.

No. 393283

It's best if you don't do that, it hasn't been in for a long time already, I get the nostalgia but you will get your picture taken in secret.
You could just wear them at home on your own, I like to do that from time to time, I wear stuff I wouldn't wear outside. Because yeah, it sucks that it's impossible to wear whatever you want whenever you want, but it's better to make your life outside as peaceful as possible, then you can be unhinged at home.

No. 393287

Not saying you should or shouldn't, but to answer your question: yes.

No. 393289

It's a great way to signal that you're autistic, a furry, or a troon. Or all of it.

No. 393290

I feel bad for you nonnie cos it should be cute to wear cat ears but furries ruined it for everyone. I agree with the anon who said you should wear them only at home, or maybe at small/private events, so people don't creep on you. Maybe there are other cat-related accessories you can wear on a daily basis that are a bit more subtle, like cat earrings?

No. 393292

Anon I'm sorry about all the replies you're getting. I've loved wearing cat ears since I was in middle school and have a collection to this day. You can try wearing them for special occasions or something more subtle, I used to clip a big bow to the back of my hair so it looks like ears from the front and when it got colder I had a cat ear hoodie. If you don't care about what other people think though, just wear the ears. I personally think it would be a plus if people avoid talking to you because of some silly hair accessory.

No. 393319

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I read the first sentence and instinctually did this face. Sure, wear them if you want people to know you are very autistic.

No. 393324

If you're noticably alt fashion I don't think it's an issue (assuming it fits the style).
If you dress normie and wear cat ears you're gonna look retarded. However if you dress normie BUT is very dressed up - it can work. If you can make people think you're on your way to an event or a party (even if you're not) they won't think it's too weird.

No. 393327

>it's a bit zoomer for my liking
Is it? The sandals in your pic look very grandma to me.
Honestly I agree with other anon, if you live in a gross city it's better to go with light shoes instead.

No. 393329

autistic? yes. but who cares? if you want to do it, just do it. life is too short.

No. 393370

>big bow to the back of my hair so it looks like ears from the front
That's such a cute idea

No. 393938

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Where can you get vintage style trousers like this nowadays besides hunting for literal 80 year old pants? Everywhere I look it's either jeans or sleek corporate office pants.

No. 393942


Search 'relaxed fit wool tweed trousers for women', might help

No. 393973

I like Uniqlo men's Pleated Wide Pants. The have elastic on the sides and a inner drawstring so I can tighten it.

No. 394343

How are Uniqlo's tshirts and tank tops with an integrated bra for someone like me who has very small breasts? I'm worried they would look weird on me because of the "bras" potentially being too big, but at the same time I don't even need to wear bras or bralettes because of my size and I'm sick of having to wear one just to make sure nobody see my nipples through my shirts and have the straps being visible because of how the shirts and tank tops are cut.

No. 394350

this video is centred around men but i believe women would benefit greatly from adopting a similar mentality. i've followed creators of both sexes and the difference in how they present themselves to the world is astounding, there's so much emphasis on accentuating vs distracting (from your flaws), compensating, working against your body in general. if you don't have the features to pull off the latest trend there's a lot of emphasis on how to "make it work" so you can still look like everyone else. shit like 9000 different types of bangs that change the proportions of your face through optical illusions, minimising your chest or hips, winged eyeliner tricks for hooded eyes nvm the entire fucking makeup industry.

just recently i was watching videos about types of sunglasses frames and noticed the moids were straight to the point about what type suits what face shape, but with the female creators suddenly the glasses should make you look cuter, younger, distract from your horrid midface and ugly eye shape, etc. i always thought that stuff was bullshit because i'm really cool and smart but i know some of you actually buy into it, so please, just be aware of the way the media has been poisoning your self esteem from birth, you deserve better. anyway it's a pretty good video.

No. 394922

I have such a hard time finding tops that look OK on my cursed body type. I'm skinnyfat, no waist, no boobs basically and broad-ish frame-wise. If I wear something form fitting it just accentuates how non-existent my boobs and waist are, but if I wear something more loose, I look like a shapeless potato sack and makes me look heavier than I am. Tips/advice?

No. 394942

I'm afraid to watch the video but your advice is 10/10 nonna love you

No. 395026

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you mostly sound like a flamboyant natural. own it and lean into the loose tops. play with long, relaxed layers of well-constructed items.

No. 395027

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No. 395149

oof ngl those descriptions feel like it's telling me I'm built like a man. "You're not a flamboyant if you're (insert all desireable feminine features)" Thanks for taking the effort to link this stuff. I'll try more of the relaxed style.

No. 395269

>i always thought that stuff was bullshit because i'm really cool and smart
kek I like your sense of humor
I watched the video and I liked parts of it. from about 3:30-10:30 he made some good points. The before and after at 11mins was a serious downgrade though, just tragic.

No. 395270

kek I'm also FN and all the guides are so rude. like ohh you're not a curvy romantic or petite gamine you are a big broad bodybuilder shaped bitch, you can only wear loose paper bags. Kibbe is literally just the opinion of one moid who can't even be consistent with his rating system though. It's a decent starting point if you have no idea of your body type but don't take it too seriously. I've "broken" the rules so many times and still look good

No. 395309

Hi nonnies! I'm wondering if you guys have recommendations for petite fashion brands in the U.S? Crazy how the average height for women is 5'3, and there's barely any petite fashion brands. Thank you!

No. 395354

I don't have an answer I'm just thinking again how despite being 5 foot 3 average height with not even very short of legs I have to buy short pants. One time I even bought short pants and they were still too long. I'm average height so why do I feel short in society? Fucks sake American men aren't even that tall. Their average is only like 5'10".

No. 395365

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Anyone know where I can find clothes exactly like in my pic? Top and pants. It's a screenshot from Reformation, both top and pants are from there, and I think it's super cute but I can't afford reformation prices kek.

No. 395377

This reminds me of the type of stuff you find on the weekday website.

No. 395385

Most supermodels are FNs anyway. Most people who say fns look like men and such are jealous, on the kibbe subreddit a lot of women talked about how they struggled with EDs in the 90s and the 2000s to be thin like models.

No. 395396

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It's not identical but this one is reasonably close. It's from Hollister, it won't let me post the link for some reason

No. 395398

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Or this one from Anna Field. Idk just filter for white spagetthi top on asos or zalando and you'll find a bunch that are similiar.

No. 395403

I have no sense of style and it's a pain. I have money but I have no idea what to buy and doing shopping is tiring me. I should point out that I'm a little fat and not particularly beautiful, so not all clothes suit me. In short, I don't know where to start. Any advices ?

No. 395405

think back real hard on your past experiences, including your childhood. were there any days you remember feeling really confident, comfortable in your skin and your outfit? maybe you remember a movie character whose look stuck with you for a long time? look at your current wardrobe, even if you don't love your clothes, there must be SOMETHING appealing to you about them. the internet is good for inspiration but it's very overwhelming, plus liking something on other people doesn't automatically mean it'll work for you, so you should start within. good luck!

No. 395409

Even if you’re gamine, there’s only one ‘good’ type (soft gamine) whereas the other two are basically
>you have mismatched proportions and exaggerated facial features like a gangly teen boy, no breasts whatsoever and people will think you’re a French lesbian anyway so just chop your hair off or something

No. 395420

you have to understand that society treats female body types as trends, the ideal keeps changing every damn decade. i'm not saying that whoever came up with these body typing systems (they weren't actually invented by david kibbe btw) was free from bias, definitely not, but your own personal biases/insecurities play a huge role when you think certain bodytypes are mannish or otherwise bad. being smaller isn't better, being curvy isn't better. having broad shoulders is not worse. literally none of this is objective, it's all brainwashing. i may be in the minority, but personally at no point while reading descriptions of for example, romantic types, have i thought them to be "desirable", as in something i want for myself. if i could magically choose my own body type i'd choose natural any day.

No. 395456

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Just ordered this, it's my first 'lolita' outfit ever. I don't plan on getting any other lolita pieces really, it just really tickled my fancy. Thoughts?

No. 395457

It's really cute anon! Where did you buy it? I'm not into lolita but I love the construction of this dress, it's really difficult to find dresses and skirts with layers like this one does, and I love the lace detailing around the neckline.

No. 395459


No. 395472

Dumb question but where do you anons buy your jewellery?

I get most of my stuff from Regal rose since their stuff isn't extremely expensive but still has good quality. I've been trying to find new pieces and ig keeps recommendeding me store but a lot of them seem sketchy… or sell basic stainless stell stuff for like 40€

No. 395478

wildthings collectables, flawed jewelry, overload studios, ninfa handmade, studio labro, alex monroe, those are brands I have stuff from. It's mostly Europe-based brands though and they're more basic/mainstream than regal rose stuff.

No. 395480

Thank you, I am from europe so that makes it even better!

No. 395763

I like Momocreatura and Gem Kingdom.

No. 395911

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Necro but I've been following the Pantone color of the year choice since like 2012 and they never seem to be a big hit, at least in fashion. The periwinkle 2022 is probably the only one that really showed up in a lot of clothing, and I think that happened a bit later, like 2023. I'm mad that the yellow from 2021 never caught on, that's my favorite color but it's hard to find. We're nearly halfway through 2024 and I'm not seeing a lot of this year's color either.

No. 396033

Konstantino and Armenta are my big two.

No. 396313

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Fashion nonnies, I need some help! I've fallen in love with this piece, but I have no clue how I would style it. I usually don't like going bare legged but I don't think most stockings or thigh-highs would really look good with this design, or am I wrong? Either way, do you guys have any ideas?

No. 396319

Tights with Chelsea boots or wedge heels would look good with this I think.

No. 396321

Damn those brands have cool pieces but so expensive

No. 396597

I've been thinking about buying a handheld fan for summer, would other people see that as weird? I never see people using them and I'm not sure if it would be seen as a weeb thing. I just think they are so pretty. Can anyone recommend any brands?

No. 396604

Definitely not weird, I carry one around in hot weather all the time and it's really pleasant. No one has ever made a comment beyond complimenting the fan. I think if you choose one that doesn't look obviously weeby no one would even think to make the association. I can't recommend any brands because mine is a vintage hand-me-down, but I know you can find some very pretty fans on Etsy, both new and vintage.

No. 396646

where can i buy this?

No. 396754

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I’m obsessed with these large fur looks, especially this one. I keep looking for places to buy something similar with a good quality but there’s nothing.

No. 397066

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Does anyone have any recommendations for designers/brands similar to Teuta Matoshi? I’m looking for dresses that have an emphasis on floral embroidery, something that looks like you’d wear in spring/summer gardens. They primarily do wedding attire so when I’ve tried to search similar stores I end up getting recommendations for wedding dresses. Pic related is an example of what I’m looking for

No. 397086

Yes that's weird lmao sorry. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it but when no one else around you does it (you wouldn't be asking if they did) people around you will think it's weird or you will at least stand out.

No. 397089

Needle & Thread maybe? They don't do tulle with embroidery exclusively but there's a bunch of dresses like picrel

No. 397108

it's weird as in uncommon but ngl nonna i think you should do it anyway lol
life's too short not to do the things you want to and the aesthetic is bomb so go for it! get that fan!

No. 397240

That's quite common in asian or middle eastern countries and it won't be considered weird unless summers aren't cold where you live

No. 397312

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does anyone else feel upset about the state of physical stores? it's so hard to be fashionable when everything is hideous and made of scraps. not to weeb out but i can't help but be jealous of japan because of their trends and fashion scenes, and the multiple stores catering to different styles. it sucks even harder when you don't live in the us meaning you have even less options. i haven't bought new clothes in a year i just thrift now

No. 397314

To be fair Japan is going the same way, everything in Japanese stores is now mass produced crap in that ugly e-girl cheap style (what’s it called again, the one with all the black and pink and clumpy shoes?) and not anywhere near as imaginative and cute and high quality as it used to be back in the late 2000s and early 2010s. I legit cry sometimes looking back on the old dreamv catalogue and remembering all the crazily cute detailed clothes shoes and bags they used to sell.

No. 397320

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to be fair i like jirai kei but i feel that way when i look at this old harajuku punkish cute style, it seems no stores cater to it anymore. the trends of this decade are boring so far

No. 397419

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That shit is my happy place.
I remember Mezzo Piano being really cute when I was growing up, so I found picrel from their Facebook 2020, so I guess there is still some hope.

No. 397464

Nonnas I am so PISSED. I checked the sellers reviews before purchasing and its rated 4.7stars and I just found out after reading more closely that they're all fake fuckin reviews from 'customers' with only review.
All the authentic reviews say they're counterfeit. I just found someone selling the same one on depop and it is a shitty replica. It's cost me $86 for fucks sake. I have only ever had one successful chargeback with my bank and never seem to be able to recover the cost of flights and such so I doubt Ill be able to recover it. Reviews also state they don't refund returned parcels. FML.

No. 397477

You should have checked with the lolita thread first before throwing your money away on fake lolita that doesn't have a brand name attached to it. Sucks it happened to you, but you can sell it on depop now too.

No. 397595

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alright nonnies rate the work fit, i think this might be one of the most expensive outfits ever posted ott

No. 397852

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long or short? i'll be cycling rurally in it

No. 397883

You're a fashionable firefighter?

No. 397886

very sexy pants I’m not joking

No. 397920

Coraline? (Minus the hat)

No. 397928

The shorter one is a bit easier to bike in (especially if you don't have a chain guard and dress guard on your rear wheel), but both should be fine if you're not going to be biking all day. Wear shorts underneath though if you're going for the short one.

No. 398068

Price list
Hardhat: $31
Darn tough socks: $32
Pack: $271
Nomex shirt: $132.95
Nomex pants: $519
Boots: $460

Base price: $1445.95

Total with all the gear/equipment i carry during work is over $5k

Bingo, i work as a WFF!

They are by far the most comfy ive worn on the job


for a cheaper non fireproof option that's also very comfy to wear and has the similar look and durability is the Ready Set Cargo from dovetail workwear


nope!! i wish i was as cool as Coraline!! im gonna start comparing my outfit to her!

No. 398072

I love the pants but those boots are a dream, if you have the same pair as your pic can you link the brand please?

No. 398111

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they are the Danners flashpoint II


now if you dont want a fire boot; if you want a good chainsaw boot, good for winter work outdoors or winter in general, id recommend the danner quarry, super insulated, comes in alloy toe or non alloy toe, not rated for fire


if you want a good all seasons/summer work boot id recommend the rainforest, its a logger style boot, like the flashpoint,not a fire boot tho, but i find if your just gonna wear it for looks and fashion, hiking its a VERY good boot!!!


now understandably everything Ive shown you is super expensive, nothing under $300, if your looking for a more budget friendly logger style boot Carolinas or Gerogias have loggers for under $200


If your using them more for hiking/fashion/everyday light use id go with the carolinas/gerogias but if its a work boot, different brands work well for different people, danners run a bit small and i got small ass feet, some girls like JKs, whites, Loas, but i reccomend danners.

Danners also makes alot of other really high quality outdoor gear too!

No. 398150

you will all pay dearly for ignoring my request for advice

No. 398157

An anon literally told you a very detailed advice on what to wear and why.

No. 398163

AYRT thank you so much for the detailed response (and for your firefighting work). Looking for hiking boots that hold up better than the fast fashion crap and Danners seem perfect.

No. 398855

can I get some recommendations for low-profile, comfortable lace-up boots that are fairly versatile?
I don't really want a fully rugged style or to have a very heavy shoe though I really like the look of boots. I also am not sure whether I want brown or black.

No. 398871

Now that I'll seemingly stop being a NEET and need work appropriate clothes, it is pretty annoying that 90% of shirts are crops.

No. 399079

Yes, I think about this all the time. I hate how US stores are all the same style. Went to the mall yesterday, every clothing store is just the same exact style in a different store, they want you to go to them instead of their competitors I guess. I want to see different aesthetics! Not just the same thing in 10 different stores.. Sadly though Japan is turning that way. Not fully, but a lot of the stores are turning into what >>397314 said. I would like to buy vintage Japanese clothes but sadly I'm too tall/ have too wide chest and hips for it. I've never found pants/shorts that fit my hips. And the tops/dresses that can fit my breasts are too short. Bought a dress once and it ended above my butt kek. Skirts also always show my entire butt.

No. 399151

Late but cream colored socks with a decorative knit pattern preferably with openings so it's more spring-like, brown leather shoes and bag, and a crochet accessory somewhere to match the socks, maybe a bandana/headband.

I'm an eurofag but I like that the variety of jeans available in chain stores has increased compared to what we had in the 2010s when if you wanted anything other than skinny jeans you had to drag your ass to levi's and drop hundreds. And if you wanted an edgy wash you'd have to go to more expensive brands. Now I've got a bunch of different cuts with different waistlines for all kind of outfits. Lack of variety was the reason I got into alt fashion in the early 2010s, but putting together normie outfits became just as interesting now that not everything is the same exact shape. I own so many variations of jeans + black tee now and they all look vastly different, it's pretty cool.

No. 399165

Any nonas have recommendations for cute wedge heels that aren't too expensive? Wedges are the only heel I can actually walk in, but browsing Nordstrom it seems like the vast majority of wedges are espadrille styled or have that sort of cork board style to the wedge. I find it a bit boring and would like something more fun, like colors besides black/neutrals, yet the more colorful wedges on there are all seem to be designer label priced.

No. 399228

Sorry for cringe meltdown but I was outbid on 3 SEPERATE eBay auctions for this dress by people who are using bots, how is that not unfair/against eBays rules?! I am the rightful winner…

No. 399311

i have a window shopping addiction. i waste SO much time browsing shopping websites and i can't convince myself to quit because it's not like i'm breaking my bank. i rarely buy anything since i have enormous expectations for everything (especially clothing) after this much research. it's taking over my life.

my condolences

No. 401689

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This girl's fashion page I recently followed on instagram has this jacket I've really fallen in love with, I know it's hysteric glamour from the tags but does anyone have any advice on where I could find it?

I can't see it on their website/store so it must be from a collection pre 2022

No. 401772

What's her username?

No. 401837

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Best place to buy relatively inexpensive yet not see-through camis? Need something professional that I can wear under knitted tops and blouses.
Got picrel at primark and although it's cropped and technically a bralette, I was reminded how comfortable they are.

No. 402332

Where do you find comfortable pants that don't shrink in the dryer? Almost all my pants have shrunk, and it's really annoying.

Before you tell me to air-dry them: whenever I've done that, they've gotten all stiff and wrinkly.

No. 402348

i want to add another channel to my recs from >>388589 , she isn't super educational or anything but i love her style a lot, plus she's a woman. also for practical and educational content watch some carl murawski, he gets points because he occasionally acknowledges that women might be watching his videos. i find that this type of content is actually relevant to me unlike most others.

No. 402358

Buy pants that indicate they can be tumble dried and they shouldn’t shrink unless you have it on extra high heat for hours.If your pants are wrinkly after air drying just use a steamer or an iron

No. 402370

If your clothes go stiff after air drying you might be using too much detergent. Wrinkles can be ironed out.

Machine drying really shortens the life span of your clothes, even if they don't shrink, so it's absolutely worth making the switch to air drying if you can (and save some pennies on the electricity bill)

No. 402393

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Got a knock-off Jacquemus from China for $15 in the mail today and it’s fuckin brilliant. Going back for a brown one.

No. 402398

Thanks for the advice!

No. 402402

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Is getting knock offs(I hate the word Dupe) worth it? I have some authentic vivienne westwood stuff(mostly jewellery) and miu miu but since the jewellery is usually brass, I'm looking into dupes maybe. Also does anyone have good recs for boots like picrel?

No. 402562

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I finally bought a dress for my friends' wedding but I just need to find the shoes. These Chanel pumps I tried on with the dress was really nice but they were nearly 500 bucks and were too big. Does anyone know of a similar dupe for these? Otherwise I'm just going to buy a mid height block heel.

No. 402674

I don't get why the school uniform type of clothes in the pic u posted are seen as cute. Like when will u even wear it? To work? College? Coffee date? Weird to see someone who's an adult wear those type of clothes

No. 402677

I know someone who has both the original and knockoff Vivienne Westwood pearl choker and told me there isn't much of a difference besides the weight of the charm (the original is a bit heavier than the knockoff one). But all in all, there isn't much of a difference.
I only have knockoff Vivienne Westwood jewelry (they are fairly beaten up too) and tbh, they got me more compliments than any silver or gold jewelry I have kek.

No. 402678

Knockoffs range anywhere from garbage to even experts can't tell genuine from fake with certainty. Fashion jewelry make great knockoffs imo since they weren't made with precious metals to begin with

No. 402681

Normally I thin knockoffs are cringe but since this is a trendy item which will go out of fashion: based.

No. 402747

How do I get a cool style? I have money to spend on clothes but no taste
What are good websites with quality clothes?

No. 402748

I always recommend to go to a brick & mortar mall first and try on a bunch of different kinds of clothes and see what looks good on you and what you like, before you start ordering anything online.

No. 402749

I'd do this but tbh I hate everything in shops these days, the materials are so garbage
And for "higher end" brands I wouldn't dare go and try on a shit ton of high quality clothes, make them filthy, while knowing I'm most likely not going to buy anything
I feel like the employees would despise me kek

No. 402765

as an employee who has worked in higher-end stores before, we are not looking down on you for window-shopping; most people are doing the same. I also wouldn't be able to afford the clothes there without an employee discount so I can understand carefully evaluating the investment.

tbh the only people who have left with me legit despising them were the ultrawealthy housewives and their daughters who think making a purchase entitles them to treat everyone like they're subhuman. as long as you don't do that, we're Gucci.

No. 403209

Are expensive cotton pantyhose worth buying if you easily rip the cheap ones? I'd like a stronger material but I'm worried they'll just rip anyway.

No. 403237

Trust me anon, workers in these shops don’t care. They’re getting pain 10 bucks an hour just like everyone else in retail, and these high end stores are insured up the ass. The staff couldn’t care less if you mess up the clothes a bit, it’s not like it’s coming out of their salary.

No. 403265

What are some middle tier or more high end fashion websites that you like to buy from? I'm in my mid-20s now and I want to start shifting my style to a more adult or professional look, up until now I've usually bought my clothes from UO or Zara but I'm finally making enough to start buying more high-quality wardrobe options. For anons that like to dress well and stylish, do you know of any good retailers that sell these kinds of clothes? Or, what are you favourite retailers to buy from?

No. 403279

Are there high end/designer consignment stores in your area you could check out?

No. 403355

Go in store, you can't judge quality by online pictures alone. Things like fabric that's already pilling or snagging in store, wonky stitching, no or wonky lining, thin material, cheapening out on details like pockets, belts and buttons are things best or only seen in store. Remember that an expensive price tag doesn't mean the item is good quality and even brands/stores that are known for selling good stuff are usually a mixed bag. You really have to go there and analyse each individual piece. Oh and just because a piece is made from natural fabric, doesn't automatically mean it's good quality either!

No. 403357

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I love looking out retailers, MADA IN CHINA has a bunch of different designers based from there. It depends what kind of professional look you're going for as well. Personally, Elywood is a favourite of mine.

No. 403524

Thank you for the advice but I mean WHICH stores. Like where to go kek. I don't know much about clothing retailers.
Thank you for the recommendation I'll check it out tonight. China has a bad rep for no reason I swear

No. 403566

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I need some help what kind of dress is this is. It doesnt seem like a bodycon dress?

No. 403598

it's a bias cut dress with v neckline

No. 403878

File: 1717653625656.png (992.62 KB, 1124x807, 213124545.png)

Which one, anons? It's for a fancy dinner event. It's going to be very hot outside and isn't for work, so a bit of midriff is acceptable. Left has some minor damage but I could repair it myself. Right is a bit more expensive.

No. 403879

Depends what material it is? Left is really pretty but if it's polyester you probably don't want to spend a hot evening being covered top to bottom.

No. 403881

They're both a blend of linen and silk.

No. 403893

right, looks like a princess

No. 403896

Where can I buy the one on the LEFT please??

No. 403898

Both look cute, but how hot are we talking about? You might still sweat in the one on the left depending on how humid and hot the weather is.

No. 403920

The right one is sinfully ugly so I'm gonna say left.

No. 403924

right. left one's sleeves are goofy

No. 403994

Look for Zimmermann High Tide Odyssey. It was from last year and sold out everywhere but you can find it being sold secondhand.
It's in Singapore at the end of September. It's at a hotel so there will be AC.

No. 404134

File: 1717721206820.jpeg (129.17 KB, 736x920, Instagram.jpeg)

To those of you who like to cover up in summer: what kinds of things do you wear? Hate jeans but tights with skirts and maxi skirts all summer leave people asking if I'm very religious, and I'd like some change anyhow.

No. 404135

Just wear a maxi dress and a loose crochet cardigan. Nobody has ever questioned me about it or looked at me weird.

No. 404143

That's a good idea, it's what I used to wear. Returning to my roots.

No. 404147

I see a lot of women wearing kimono type loose jacket-dresses or abaya type things over jeans and a tank top. It’s pretty much covering up your whole body while also giving your pores some air to breathe. The outfit in your pic looks too heavy and sweaty for summer especially if the skirt is made of polyester and the jacket on top would have me baking too.

If you don’t want to go down the exotic absya type route, I’ve noticed that 25+ Japanese women like to cover up fully especially in summer, so you could look at Japanese street fashion ideas.

No. 404171

File: 1717727440749.jpg (74.59 KB, 564x752, 36340e403a0f52da9fe1eb33463add…)

Buy a ticket to any ex-soviet country and hit the charity/consignment/pawn shops. They are the only places on god's green earth where you will you find real, high-quality furs for less than 300 eur.
This will be cheaper, better and even more sustainable than buying fur in whatever country you live

No. 404219

File: 1717742467266.jpg (139.79 KB, 1200x960, Latest+Abaya+Designs+2012-2013…)

I give thanks to the two of you for birthing my newfound love for the Abaya. I never knew what they were called. I won't wear a head covering bc I do not want to give off a certain idea. But I love its versatility. Kek there goes my aunt complaining about me wearing 'old woman' clothing bc I like modesty.

No. 404223

File: 1717744420976.webm (3.53 MB, 1080x1920, 1717353170268190.webm)

Wait till you find out why the abaya exists.

No. 404224

Yes? I read up on its history almost an hour ago. It's unnerving, however that won't stop me from wearing long pieces of expressive cloth meant to shelter my skin.

No. 404225

Would you wear Auschwitz pyjamas if you found them comfy?(/pol/ baiting, again)

No. 404227

File: 1717746453486.png (1.67 MB, 718x1086, the-1825442142.png)

I'll stop samefagging but anyway, now I need to scour offline or online shops that sell them good quality at a reasonable price. And differentiate between a kaftan and an abaya. I'd appreciate any suggestions!
kek I'm happy my ancestry allows me to wear this without being called out for "appropriating". what a world we live in

No. 404228

nta but yes kek it's just clothes. i'm not even trying to be edgy or antisemetic or anything but honestly i did actually want them in middle school. didn't see anything wrong with that

No. 404229

I find the right one a bit awkward looking tbh? The sharp edge of the pleating, the random belt that breaks up the flower motif (couldn't the belt have covered the edge of the pleating?), the awkward tacked on-looking cups, the sleeves, don't think that midi length is flattering. It's a bit of a random mishmash of things.

No. 404230

Ew why would you want your money to support the deliberate opression of women. You can dress modestly without buying clothes produced for and by muslims. There's plenty of regular maxi summer dresses with long sleeves for sale.

No. 404233

i'd just wear very loose linen trousers if it's hot. why is no one bringing up linen or cotton trousers.

No. 404235

this, linen is great. I know anon said she doesn't want to give off a "certain idea" but I can't imagine wearing >>404219 in a way that doesn't look like you're religious tbh

No. 404238

to be fair the last two in the panel give off an Old Hollywood flair

No. 404245

There are at least 35 million women in the middle east who wear abayas daily. Anon refraining from buying one or two when she likes how they look isn't gonna do shit.

No. 404258

She'd still be putting money in the pockets of people with dangerous religious believes, I can't justify that no matter how small amount it is.

No. 404262

File: 1717764561270.jpg (70.07 KB, 1480x1480, FPR50_OG_FR.jpg)

I hate a lot of the 00s trends that are coming back but i love the cargo pants revival. so comfy and utilitarian.

No. 404266

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i'm currently obsessed with my collins cargos. they’re everything i love mashed into one pair of pants (bdu cut, cute pleats, baggy) so they’re a part of my identity now. i've heard dickies have some good models too? i'd love to try more pants so if you have any recs i'd love to hear them!

No. 404267

most abayas are made in china you fucking retard lol

No. 404272

oh these look amazing, do you have a link to this specific pair? Dickies have a really good quality, I wear mine almost every day and I've had them for a year and a half and there aren't any tears I also have fat thighs so I usually have wear and tear the fitted cargos are nice and these are the pair I wear regularly: https://www.dickies.com/cargo-pants/womens-flex-regular-fit-cargo-pants/WBT002.html

I got a size up so that they have a more baggy quality and role up the cuffs. They look more work oriented on the model but they're pretty versatile, I wear them with more casual tops and it doesn't look too out of place.

No. 404278

i can't find them anywhere in stock for a reasonable price at the moment, sorry. https://www.huhstore.com/products/carhartt-wip-womens-collins-pant-in-smoke-green?variant=47011794223414
mine are dark green though, closer to your pic.

thanks for the links. btw, are the flex trousers actually stretchy?

No. 404281

i like these a lot too, thank you for the link!

They're stretchy if you're bending over, kneeling, moving around, etc. They don't have stretchy waist bands, but the material isn't super stuff either.

No. 404283

Oh right it's just the Chinese profitting of what they mae, that's how international production and trade works of course. My bad.

No. 404284

most retarded take ever holy shit

No. 404709

File: 1717898805413.png (1.03 MB, 1000x800, sheincore.png)

Is there a version or style of the y2k revival that isn't going to age like milk or isn't super fast-fashion tiktok sheincore? Picrel is a bunch of stuff I would call 'sheincore'. I think the main issue is that it's got too much going on and it's too cheaply made whereas something more timeless would have way less detail and way more functionality. I kinda hate all the fast fashion microtrends being pushed our way. A lot of this stuff would look hideous on an actual woman just going about her day. As for the positives of the y2k revival, I personally like the cargo pants that are in style right now and I think layering can actually look really great when not overdone. What are your thoughts on the shein/tiktok-ification of y2k and on how to actually style it in a way that's way more understated and timeless?

No. 404713

File: 1717900917897.jpg (23.76 KB, 534x468, 1000007289.jpg)

I have some modest undies for this completely equal and respected queen

No. 404763

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I think acubi is pretty neat. It's minimalistic and basic enough but you can add variety with irregular/asymmetrical forms, layering, combination of different textures (denim, velvet, lace, etc), some simple jewelry and go for slightly different looks - more casual, sporty, feminine/romantic or even business casual. I don't think it'll be a sin if you use a top or a hat that is not GREY heh, it probably won't be true acubi anymore but who cares
>What are your thoughts on the shein/tiktok-ification of y2k

No. 404799

Sheincore is real but what you posted just looks like a variant of grunge that we've been seeing since the 90s, and I remember people in the 2010s also dressing similarly

No. 404800

I hate acubi. It looks like shit.

No. 404801

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acubi only looks cute because its form-fitted to a petite girl. the pieces themselves look like shit. i hate the weird texture they try to incorporate in picrel, it looks so tacky. the shoes they always use are fucking ugly too. it feels so fake thrifted. aside from that though the more basic tops are cute i guess.

No. 404802

NAYRT but to me it just looks like a desaturated Delia's or old skate/surfer brand clothes

No. 404811

The only good looking piece of clothing from the pic is the red shirt kek. It actually looks authentic. The others look like crap
>What are your thoughts on the shein/tiktok-ification of y2k
Horrible. It’s so fucking low quality it’s impossible to have clothes in lower quality than these.
If you want actual clothes from that era just thrift. Or buy ones who are actually adjacent to that era and are not shein/tiktok tier

No. 404812

Samefag also what’s with some of these people and their love for “y2k trashy” clothes? They’re so fucking hideous

No. 404819

thats it I am done with fast fashion and unethically sourced clothing

yes I will pay >$150 for a dress but I don't need 200lbs of clothes. I can hand wash them and incorporate them into my mindfulness/thankfulness routine. I will find small creators online who can make me special pieces instead of doing "hauls". shopping trips will be about getting bubble tea and my budgeting spreadsheet will never see the word Uniqlo, Zara or Asos again

No. 404822

Good for you nonna! Really glad to see someone else make that change. I made the switch a few years ago and it used to be more difficult but now there's so many online options for thrifting like Vinted, Sellpy and Depop that it doesn't make sense not to. It's much easier than going in person. Even for fast fashion brands that are currently shitty, there's a lot of older pieces you can get from back when they still made quality stuff. Older Uniqlo tees are so cheap second-hand but soooo quality, I never see women's shirts with cotton fabric that thick anymore.
You can find higher end brands a lot cheaper than RRP, too. I really can't understand why anyone would buy from Shein or FF except maybe not knowing how to search for god thrift stuff.

Every excuse I see from consoomer-chans is just
>b-but I'm plus size
>I can only afford Shien
>Shein has cute stuff that fits me for so cheap and thrift stores are soooo expensive
It's cap. I was not only plus size a year ago but I'm also short so finding clothes my size was and still is a nightmare. You know what definitely won't fit? Unlined polyester rags from shein that emphasize every fat roll and panty line you have and/or make you reek of BO. Thrifting is fun like treasure hunt and every thrift store I've been to mostly has either men's or XL and up sizes. Worst case scenario I taught myself how to sew and first tailored my clothes, now I can make them. Useful skill you can learn for free and thrifted sewing machines also happen to be so much better than new plastic ones. Just no excuse whatsoever to buy from FF brands.

No. 404829

I'm making this change too nonnie. Part of it is for selfish reasons, i.e. i hate how bad the quality of everything is and i'm really picky about materials, but also its kind of unnecessary when there are already so many options for clean, good quality 2nd hand items.

Still not as bad as people on tiktok trying to bring back jersey shore esque fashion. Seeing girls in those high waisted Pink brand flare leggings actually depressed me for some reason kek

No. 404834

I completely despise it. Most of "y2k" is reaaaaallly just trying to badly copy mid 00s teen fashion with trash shein clothingor bimbo paris hilton shit instead what young adult (25-35) women wore, what was shown in magazines targeted towards normie women. Even stuff from alt glossies like i-D, the anti-fashion, wasn't revived well either.
delias was way cuter and more form fitting, even in baggier models than acubi and most zoomercore "y2k" ever will be
Learning how to sew is also an option, there are now tons of indie patterns cartering to plus sizes and they actually have trendy clothing. If you have space and money for entire sewing setup it's a better choice and you can save a bit of money compared to higher end ready to wear clothing but it costs your time.
Thrifting in my country is actual nightmare, no matter sizes you wear, as we get all rejected clothing from western european countries and in past 6 years there is worse and worse clothing. Back in the 90s and 00s you could get really good stuff though. Vinted is completely Depopified by scalpers so I stopped trying.

No. 404837

File: 1717961657926.png (1.08 MB, 2000x1554, FV0xwMF.png)

a lot of pieces adjacent to the "office siren" trend which was born from y2k revival will have longevity as gen z ages. things like busy graphic tees and coquette bows are juvenile and will naturally get dropped as zoomers continue to get older. cardigans, blazers, leather jackets, button down shirts, and loose fit jeans are classic pieces and don't evoke the same sense of pastiche that a lot of clothes from the y2k revival trend do. they look like good outfits because they are, and not because they could be plucked directly from a 00's sitcom costume set or as if they were obviously curated for some hyper-specific pinterest trend.

No. 404844

>office siren
at this point most of outfits considered "office siren" i'm seeing on social media are revealing and are weird larp of sexualized office ladies from 00s stock photo, shit not suitable for a workplace

No. 404887

Kek the only office siren lewks I see on my fyp are supernanny fancams

No. 404942

A button fell off my (expensive) lace cover dress. Should I attempt to diy it or send it to a tailor? I can handsew a bit but not well.

No. 405189

File: 1718066436027.jpeg (52.34 KB, 519x923, trenchcoat.jpeg)

I know it's June but what is a nice brand for a thick trenchcoat? I want to invest in one that'll last me at least a few years so I don't mind spending a bit of money on it. I really like big bulky ones.

No. 405203

diy it but definitely practice on some old fabric first

No. 405205

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i have the nora button down lamb trench coat from wilson's leather i haven't had it for very long but with light maintenance it's like new. My mom has had one of their jackets for 3 decades and its still in okay condition without being maintained (I'm sure the quality's changed over the years though.) I've seen this brand in thrift stores (irl and online) and it seems to be hold up pretty well.

definitely take a look nonnie
also note that the models on their site are pretty tall
>picrel is "savannah faux fur trench"

No. 405232

Look up the prices for mending a button, you'll probably find it's so cheap it's not even worth doing it yourself if you're nervous about ruining the dress.

No. 405275

Thanks nonnie! It looks beautiful.

No. 405280

I really like baggy jeans but they’re so hard to come across, especially considering mens large is almost a perfect fit on me and I’m a non-burger so thats about as big as they get.
Is there anywhere I can go online that isn’y horseshit quality or can I only keep searching?

No. 405284

Are skinny jeans still in where you are?

No. 405295

Baggy jeans are so popular all shops sell them. ill never get nlogs who buy men's clothes to feel different as if they're not following microtrends by wearing super loose (and unflattering) pants…

No. 405297

>ill pay 150 euros for a dress just to avoid fast fashion
Even expensive brands underpay their workers, if you don't trust me look up controversies of designer brands taking advantage of designers, tailors etc. Just go shop in second hand places if you really care, if not continue buying from fast fashion. Designer or "better brands" are rarely ad ethical as they claim to be.

No. 405305

workwear brands make decent baggy pants. are you looking for high rise or low rise jeans?

No. 405306

>who buy men's clothes to feel different
NTA but how did you get that from anon's post? Most women wear that because they personally find it more comfortable since a lot of women's clothing are too cropped or tight.

No. 405307

Go outside

No. 405319

Does Madewell ship to you? Their jeans that are all cotton are good. They have baggy and widecut fits.

No. 405325

Low rise
Thank you, I’ll look into it.

No. 405332

there is one anon where who throws a fit any time someone buys mens clothing even though they are cheaper and better made from better materials

No. 405478

Maybe off topic, but seems like the best place to ask… is there any wardrobe / inventory management software that is usable OFFLINE, on Windows OS? I'd love to start cataloguing what I have, but everything I can find it some dumb mobile app that requires location access, Wi-Fi connection, an account with phone number and email, your firstborn child, spams you with advertisements, and also tries to make you sign up for a subscription model.

Thinking outside the box, a gallery type application would probably work, but as they aren't designed for this purpose, would be a bit clunky set-up. I just want to be able to visually see 'albums' that contain my clothing sorted by category e.g. bottoms -> skirts -> long skirts / short skirts, with a description and inventory count.

Anyone found or use something like this?

No. 407327

File: 1718785999637.png (871.81 KB, 615x605, fringe jacket.PNG)

About 9 months ago, I bought this amazing vintage 80s Dallas leather biker jacket (identical to the one in picrel) for about $135 USD at a local market. It's in better condition than the one in the picture. The lining is perfectly intact, and there's only a few small spots of wear at the wrists. It's a great vintage piece. However, it's a little bit too small in the arms/shoulders for me, and it squeaks in a way that makes me feel like I'm trying way too hard to be cool. It just sits in my closet. I don't think I've worn it once. Buying it was truly a moment of shopping for the person I want to be, not the person I am. Lesson learned.

I am finally ready to part ways with it, but I'm not sure how to go about re-selling it. Should I just try to get my money back? Could I sell it for more? I have sold a few things on depop and eBay before, but those were all just normal clothes, not a quality vintage piece. I could use some guidance.

No. 407444

Try selling it for more and if it doesn't work you can always lower. Listings on depop and ebay are free.

No. 407792

Why does tan/beige never suit me? I thought it was because I'm pretty pale but I see other pale women pull it off so well, is there a secret to finding the right beige?

No. 407809

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What's your undertone? If you're cool and wearing a warm-toned beige then it will clash with you, and vice-versa

No. 407902

Thanks nonnie! Why didn't I think of this kek.

No. 408133

Is there a brand similar to Vive Maria that is easier to ship to America?

No. 408140

Samefag, or just any brands similar to Vive Maria?

No. 408372

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The biggest mistake of our society was letting go of twee.

No. 408385

no, this needs to stay dead. girl on the right is so tall she would look good in basically anything thats not what shes wearing.

No. 408421

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You can’t seriously look at all the horrendous outfits in this thread and claim that twee is the one that deserved to die, nonna…

No. 408426

Coquettes killed twee and made people cringe from it