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No. 988977

Previous: >>>/ot/974552
Let the dummy be free

No. 988981

>>988977
Why you so obsessed with me? Oohhohohoo

No. 988984

What's the difference between having a crush, being obsessed with someone and experiencing limerence?

No. 988986

>>988977
I knew this pic looked familiar, it's the same thread pic as Stupid Questions #44

No. 989024

>>988986
that's annoying

No. 989060

i just got this white t shirt but it's pretty see through and you can see my nipples, how do i fix this without wearing something underneath

No. 989061

>>989060
you're asking for a miracle

No. 989065


No. 989073

>>989060
Pasties? You should honestly probably just return it or wear something underneath

No. 989084

>>989060
nipple removal surgery

No. 989099

Were Hunger Games popular with boys too?

No. 989110

>>989099
My entire class was super into the hunger games when the books had just come out including the boys and we'd all borrow the books from each other and binge them but it was a really small "advanced" group full of autists so idk if that reflects the general population.

No. 989136

How/where do I find a handsome guy who sincerely doesn’t know he’s handsome? I’m looking for hot boys with a negative self-image who will be nice to me.

No. 989137

>>989136
depends, what do you consider hot?

No. 989138

>>989136
it's borderline impossible with social media

No. 989140

>>989136
>>989138
raised very religious/offline might do the trick

No. 989144

>>989140
>>989136
so basically go find a hot amish guy

No. 989155

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should i pay 48 bucks for 3.5 grams of weed. the 8 dollars is for shipping. I live in a decriminalized state. I know i should stop smoking but this getting dark at 4pm is depressing tf out of me.

No. 989178

>>989155
yes i've paid more than that for 1/8 many times kek (in an illegal state though)

No. 989186

>>989155
Yew. Join me brethren.

No. 989187

>>989084
yes this is the correct answer ty

No. 989206

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>>989178
>>989186
thanks girls i made my purchase. i just feel kinda icky though cuz they named it bob sagat (all the other strains were sold out). (pic unrelated)

No. 989207

>>989206
well you’re going to burn it so just pretend you’re torturing him with fire

No. 989213

>>989207
You're smart

No. 989224

>>989144
like finding a needle in a haystack

No. 989230

>>989224
well anon is basically asking for a miracle as it is

No. 989238

>>989207
i love you!

No. 989245

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if i wanted to make a website that looked like plain html like picrel, how could i go about doing that? i dont want a preset theme from wix or anything.

No. 989252

>>989245
you could make it a GitHub page

No. 989295

Is there a website where you can create/put together music and beats, like if you have song ideas but don't own any instruments?

No. 989329

>>989137
Uh just handsome? Hard to put into words. Normal guy but really handsome and he’s completely clueless about it, bonus if he’s insecure and doesn’t know “what he’s got”.

>>989138
>>989140
>>989144
I was afraid of this. Even with a religious guy he could be aware of his looks and be a massive douche about it.

>>989230
>>989224
Why IS this so hard, though? Guys spend too much time on Instagram and then get DM’d into douchedom? There MUST be at least some guys like this, and the thought that there might be some girls with bad intentions and who won’t appreciate it finding them and dating them makes me anxious.

No. 989353

>>989245
Neocities if you don't mind the .neocities.com in your url, but it's free and easy to use.

No. 989430

>>989245
nonnie that website is amazing. Ty

No. 989454

How do you find the (x)(x) board I saw it but I can’t get to it. It’s Hidden

No. 989464


No. 989466

>>989464
How do you post if you can’t find it

No. 989472

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dum-dum here
is this shooped ? aside from the ridiculous legs telling me it's shooped, are there shoop marks ?

No. 989476

>>989472
The whole log railing is photoshopped from the right side on top

No. 989478

Asked this in the video games thread in /m/ but it's dead over there so: cringey casual here. Any recs for a good adventure game I can play over holiday break? I love all the "mainstream" stuff like The Last of Us, Uncharted, RDR2.

No. 989481

>>989476
thank you. it does look a bit crisper / weird.

No. 989485

>>989478
Cyberpunk, the witcher, Metro exodus, divinity original sin 2, okami, dragon age?

No. 989488

>>989476
that's what called out to you? the sand is very visibly patched/cloned, her stomach is blurred at the edge, her legs are insanely shooped beyond belief (other than the shape, the fuzzing and stretch of the plants towards her makes it obvious), her arms are shooped. just look at the edges. the railing is the least of its issues.

No. 989491

>>989488
I was gonna mention the blurred sad but thanks

No. 989513

If I never get sick, does it mean I have a very good immune system, or does it mean I don't go into contact with illnesses enough and thus my system is complete shit?

No. 989517

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Left or right ?

No. 989522


No. 989539

>>989517
Me in the middle

No. 989548

>>989517

why not both (that's just a bad photo of left)

No. 989550

>>989485
Heard of them all except Okami, that looks pretty nice, thanks!

No. 989551

>>989478
dark souls remastered despite the amount of superficial scrote fans, also seconding okami from the other anon

No. 989553

>>989551
Next on the list, thanks anon!

No. 989565

>>989454
2X instead of ot

No. 989587

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Does anyone know any ways to reduce the "physical symptoms" of anxiety? I get extreme heart palpitations and freeze up even when my thoughts are seemingly calm. I got a recital today and I don't want to faint on stage lol

No. 989589

>>989587
benzos

No. 989601

Is mathematical modelling difficult? Would Mathematics or Computer Science be a better major?

I don’t know what I want to work as and I wouldn’t say I “love” it but my brain just clicks with math, I also don’t know shit about coding but I heard that the former is a LOT more difficult due to it being based on proofing rather than the usual easy high school questions that you learn after a few practices. I’m willing to learn coding if the former is simply too difficult. Pleaseee if anyone who is studying/studied this could help, I have literally no one to turn to.

No. 989603

>>989587
maybe drink a cup of tea before the show? I heard that tea soothes you so maybe that can help calm you down? Or maybe listen to a song that makes you feel like that girl? you got this nonita!!

No. 989648

Does anyone know anybody who has (or maybe have themselves) a mother who is (much) older than their father? OWYM age gap couples are such a meme know, and I really wonder what that’s like for their kids.

No. 989664

>>989648
i know this isnt what you mean but my mom was one year older than my dad and everyone thought that was weird when i told them.

No. 989665

>>989648
My mom is like 10 years older than my dad. She's in her 60s and he's in his 50s now. I never really thought it was that weird though

No. 989684

>>989648
My guitar teacher in high school had a wife who was nine years older than him. Obviously I didn't know his family so it's hard to say what they were actually like but he seemed to really love his wife and his kids (from what I see on FB) seem pretty normal. They were also an interracial couple- idk if that's relevant. Anyway I remember him being really cool and genuinely tried to give me advice a lot of the time, so my impression of men who marry women who are older than them is pretty good I guess kek.

No. 989688

>>989648
my people had this tradition, that if a man with a wife ever died then his younger brother would marry his widow and adopt his children, now this custom is not practiced anymore, but some of my much older relatives are in some of these relationships
2 of my grandfather's brothers married their other 2 brother's widows and adopted their children

No. 989696

>>989099
No actually

No. 989699

>>989648
My aunt is 7 years older than her husband. He worships the ground she walks on. They’re so nice and rich I spent my entire childhood wishing I was their kid instead of my mom’s.

No. 989703

>>989587
Have you tried deep breathing?
It does nothing for me but I think it’s best for people who experience physical symptoms

No. 989709

Do we have a thread to post cringey caps? Some people I follow are not really even really worthy of being posted on the personal lolcow threads because they're mostly boring as fuck but sometimes they post shit that is so fucking stupid and I want to share it with you all.

No. 989717

Monterey update is giving me huge fucking migraines. Like literally unusable. Things to try re display?
Btw I've tested with other devices on older versions and it's definitely Mont giving me issues. I didn't back up with time machine nor have a drive to install an older version, which I will have to do if nothing else works.

No. 989723

>>989517
left without mustache

No. 989748

I want to have sex but not bother the others in the house with the sound of the bed and so forth. Are there any playlists/songs, preferably instrumental, you would recommend? I want to play music to drown out the sounds but I don't know what to play.

No. 989765

Does anyone not feel anything during weddings?
Like I understand that I'm supposed to feel moved but all I can think about is how they might get divorced later so what was the point of the marriage or how originally marriage was just a way for a family to sell off their daughter to a scrote

No. 989770

>>989748
I live with a roommate and frankly I find the sound of a TV works better than music. Since music has rhythm, it's way too easy to hear the knocking of a bed frame being out of sync with it. Put on some shitty drama you aren't interested in and the voices and sound effects will mask any sounds in the room. For shitty drama recommendations, try La Brea, it's horrible yet has all the right noises to bonk incognito.

No. 989778

>>989765
I only like weddings for the food, I'm totally impervious to anything romantic so I don't think it's particularly moving, the couple has known each other for years after all, it's not like they are discovering each other. Also out of the three weddings I've attended two ended up in a divorce, what was the point indeed.

No. 989787


No. 989799

Do you all think squirting is real? I was a strict nonbeliever until today during sex with my boyfriend I think I did? Either that or I pissed myself without realising RIP

No. 989801

>>989799
What, it's not a case of believing it or not. Just that not everyone does it. It happens to some people and that's a fact lol

No. 989803

>>989799
I think I did it once when I was masturbating, but I still don't believe it's real. Only a little came out, but I didn't pee beforehand like I usually do and peed quite a bit after so I'm pretty sure it's piss.

No. 989810


No. 989812

>>989799
Do I think women can squirt out liquids during sex? Yes. Do I think women ejaculate? No. Is squirting a shot of piss escaping the urethra? Yes.

No. 989813

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>>989517
Both, this is just a bad photo of Pedro

No. 989817

>>989813
looks like a sloth

No. 989818

>>989813
have you watched the mandalorian, that show made me a whore for pedro pascal

No. 989821

>>989813
meh, still prefer right's features and i hate mustaches

No. 989824

>>989813
this photo is from nearly a decade ago and pedro aged like milk

No. 989832

>>989824
Anon, the original photo is from 2014 at a GOT Comic Con panel, which is the same year season 4 of GOT came out. Why do you think I chose a photo of Oberyn? Anyway if it makes any difference, Pedro as Oberyn is specifically what I'm attracted to.

No. 989836

>>989833
girl now you know they about to ban you.

No. 989845

>>989833
Having to deal with scrotes 24/7 does that to you. Brown/black ppl usually have more separatism in their culture. But everyone ages horribly in places like america.

No. 989851

>>989587
Breathing techniques or deep breathing. Adopting a good posture too

No. 989855

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>>989587
i have the same problem. have you tried grounding by putting an ice pack on your chest? cold sensations help me a lot. i've also heard people say things like sucking on a lemon or something sour/bitter helps too. basically anything that can "shock your system" as a kind of physical distraction from the anxiety.

No. 989860

>>989587
Fill deep bowl/sink with cold cold water, then dunk your head in.

No. 989865

>>989855
>>989860
Nta but these sound like a bad idea during the winter lol. wouldn't she get sick?

No. 989873

>>989865
Is your house cold?? I just blowdry my hair afterwards and its fine.

No. 989877

>>989865
cold doesn't cause sickness, that's a fallacy

No. 989886

>>989665
Please tell us about your cougar mom! How old were they when they got together?

No. 989889

>>989329
I want to know this too!

No. 989944

Anyone else has recurring styes? How do you stop them from coming back? And what causes them?
I have been getting them regularly for 2 years now, before that I only heard of them

No. 989945

>>989877
Isn't there some link though? Your immune system lowers or something so you'd still need the presence of a virus but it plays a role?

If not I'm being fed some old wives tales

No. 989947

How 2 not b so neurotic, not take things personally, and basically b calm and leggo yr ego? These traits are ruining my life and relationships.

No. 989948


No. 989950

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What is kidcore I’m too afraid to look it up but I saw pixie put it as a hashtag in a tik. Tok and I don’t want to shit up the Thread

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>>989945
>old wives tales
pretty much

No. 989963

>>989955
thanks for the explanation as well as the eye rape. omg those colors are so damn bright lol.

No. 989966

Is there really such a thing as a 'functioning alcoholic'? How long can someone be one until they become 'not functional'?

No. 989974

>>989966
Until they can't get anymore booze or they build up a tolerance so they destroy their liver

No. 989976

>>989966
depends what you consider "functioning" tbh. i dated a guy that was a raging alcoholic but kept it a secret and had perfected the art of seeming sober when he was wasted out of his mind. this man drank vodka from the moment he woke up in the morning to when he went to bed at night and still worked 40 hours a week and maintained a relationship. i eventually was able to tell the difference and had to dump him because it scared the shit out of me to be with someone with substance abuse issues like that, but they're definitely out there "functioning" to a certain point.

No. 989979

>>989966
Yes my childhood friends moms is a functioning alcoholic she can finish a 24(?) pack of coors light and still go For a run every morning. And be at work By 6am It’s insanely fascinating but also so sad. because I’m pretty sure my friend is one now too and idk what to do to help her.

No. 989985

would black hair look good on someone with pale-ish cool toned skin and grey eyes?

No. 989986

>>989966
IMO this is how alcoholics like to think of themselves when they believe that their friends, family, and coworkers can't tell that they have a drinking problem. The thing is that an alcoholic can't keep this up forever and it's just a phase in their alcoholism.

No. 989989

>>989985
Yeah, that's like, fetishized.

No. 989997

>>989985
If your natural complexion is overall light (light natural hair, skin and eyes) and cool-toned, black would probably look too harsh on you. It'd be better to go with an ashy blonde or light brown. But it's hard to say for sure without a picture of your natural colouring.

No. 990003

>>989765
Yeah, I just don't think the sentiment of a wedding is all that romantic. You're legally binding yourself to someone for life, wheh.

No. 990013

Anons with low libidos how do you feel about your own bodies?

No. 990015


No. 990026

>>990013
Pretty good. Never really struggled with body image.

No. 990035

>>990013
Great, actually. I'm really self absorbed so I used to freak out over my appearance, but that was only because I wanted people to think that I was beautiful (not necessarily sexy, I just wanted girls to look at me and be like "wow she's goals!"). I've definitely mellowed out in recent years and focus more on the parts of myself that I like instead of nitpicking every single detail to death, so I have a much healthier body image now.

No. 990056

>>990013
Love my body, and my fiance and I have sex maybe once or twice a month, if we feel like it. The sex is great when we have it, but since we both have low libidos it's just not a priority. I was a very horny teen at one point so I get that some people feel a drive to have sex or masturbate daily, but that drive went away for me in adulthood. Weirdly enough when my body image was at its lowest, my sex drive was at its highest. I guess both could be attributed to crazy puberty hormones.

No. 990057

Should I be concerned that ever since the pandemic I've been disgusted at looking at lips, mouths, and nostrils, basically anything not covered by a mask? I get shocked seeing people in public without masks that I try to walk away as fast as possible

No. 990060

>>990013
Feels good anon, i don't have to care abt having sex most of the time so i got lots of time for myself lmao

No. 990082

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Is there a mental diagnosis for a condition that means that you are immature for your age? Probably due to trauma, I mean. Like is arrested development? I don’t like the term “age regression” because sometimes when they talk about that they’re referring to therapy and it doesn’t quite fit.

No. 990083

>>990013
Exactly the same as >>990026, I don't think there's any correlation though.

No. 990086

>>990057
It's called post fear porn reaction. Stop watching news and being terrified of people's faces ffs.

No. 990087

>>990082
BPD, anon.

No. 990103

>>990087
Not everything is BPD. That doesn't sound like BPD at all.

No. 990134

>>990087
Yeah I don’t really fit into any characteristics of BPD at all.>>990103
But when people meet me (online) they think that I’m much younger than I am, I’ve been called immature a lot even though I’m not super mean or anything. I still like all the same things I did during the time the trauma happened. I’ve had the same favorite band and game since then, been in the same relationship. Sometimes (Mean) people have commented that Im emotionally stunted and people who are nicer kind of look at me with pity sometimes, which really bothers me. I stilll have the same childhood dreams that I never gave up on which are kind of ridiculous to a lot of people but are my biggest coping mechanism

No. 990145

Checking myself into psych ward on Monday. Do I tell my employer tomorrow and risk getting fired (thus complicating my health insurance status) or do I tell them Monday morning, when I will be on sick leave and most likely they will not be able to do anything? I feel like shit

No. 990151

>>990086
My family at home often only brings it up during meal time, how can I go about changing the topic about news?

No. 990153

>>989517
right, pedro is a dumbass, nikolaj is quietly based and still follows jkr on twitter

No. 990185

>>990082
Arrested development sounds about right, but I think so many mental illnesses stop your brain from developing at the right speed, so it's kind of a given

No. 990189

>>990134
What are your dreams? What about you seems so immature? Sometimes people are just rude and will doubledown on things if you try to be vulnerable or self-deprecating and will look for these qualities in you and try to exaggerate them in their idea of you. I'm not sure how to explain, but I've seen this a lot. Like, you could even mention a negative trait you don't even possess and some people will try to find it in you and exaggerate its presence in you. I actually notice people do this to people who have suffered a lot of trauma.

No. 990224

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Are these edible or used in cooking? Or do they just look pretty?

No. 990242

>>990224
I remember when i accidentally broke one of these fuckers, then my dad got angry, pushed me to the floor making me bleed from the shards. I hate these things with all my heart

No. 990248

>>990189
>>990185
Honestly maybe this is the case and I am just feeling like it’s exaggerated because I’m self conscious.
I try to be self deprecating and laugh things off that I know are embarrassing, or I try to talk openly about how sometimes I’m irresponsible because it helps me focus on improving. I don’t try to have an ego about where I am in life and just try to relate to everyone and I think sometimes it backfires and people use all of those things to act like I’m small and pathetic, when I’m just trying to be humble.
Idk still though, there is a good reason why I would have “arrested development” but I could just let it go.
Thanks for your replies anons

No. 990249

>>990242
Damn that’s awful, I’m sorry that happened to you nonita

No. 990251


No. 990265

Are there two little witch academias? The Netflix series and a novel or something? I swear I saw a “little witch academia” before the Netflix series.

No. 990273

>>990189
>I actually notice people do this to people who have suffered a lot of trauma.
I want to sperg so hard, people are fucking animals and will kick the broken down just for a drop of superiority rush. At thos point trust issues is a normal state of mind.

No. 990278

>>988977
I always either get rejected by guys after one or two days or after a few months of dating they tell me they want to date other people. The weird thing is they always tell me I'm pretty/beautiful and I always get stared at and hit on.
I'd like to think I have a good personality, I'm always nice, I have good hygiene, I'm smart and stable
Anons what is going wrong?

No. 990284


No. 990286

I dated a guy who had a kid and an open relationship and he ditched after sex. I didn't really even want to sleep with him he just kinda went for it and I was like ok
Do I deserve what I got for being stupid nonnies?

No. 990294

>>990286
the answer is in the question nonnie

No. 990296

>>990286
> guy who had a kid and an open relationship
Eeewwwww

No. 990308

>>990265
It was a movie before, the movie got really popular so it became an episodic series.

No. 990311

Why the fuck do I tear up watching video game trailers? I was watching that awards thing and tearing up at random parts during it. I think the orchestral music is just too much for me or something, kek

No. 990332

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How do I increase my endurance for working?
I feel like I can’t work more than 1-2 hrs at a time, at most 4. I take a lot of long breaks and so a 7 hour work day literally takes me my whole day. This makes it impossible to fit anything else into my day other than work and long paced breaks of Internet binging, talking to friends or laying in bed pondering.

Inb4 ADHD. I have been evaluated and am in therapy for anxiety and adhd tendencies but not full blown adhd

No. 990335

>>990311
It’s normal to cry when you see something very beautiful, unironically that could be video games, they are art and that’s meant to make you feel emotions. The game creators succeeded in making you care.

Could also be repressed depression

No. 990340

I don't understand the idea that people bond by being intimate and a way of being intimate is by sharing secrets. If something is "shareable" then why is it a secret to begin with?

No. 990344

Is it possible that my titties got bigger/firmer from working out, is there muscle in there? Ever since I started rock climbing they feel so..shapely. Even though I've gotten smaller and more toned in other areas, so it's not just hormones or weight gain. Am I retarded

No. 990345

i used to be a fairly frequent 4chan lurker when i was younger, especially before i found lolcow. i havent been there in years but i randomly decided to browse it today. i know its always been shitty and the cesspool of the internet, etc. but every single thread is intolerable to read now whereas i used to remember some being at least mildly entertaining? has it always been this bad or was i just desensitized to how disgusting 4chan was?

No. 990348

>>990340
Are you autistic? Secrets are shared with a limited number of people, hence feeling intimate when you're one of the special few who can be trusted with private/sensitive information.

No. 990349

>>990311
I absolutely hate drag and drag queens but when I was studying abroad I binge watched RuPaul's drag race and found myself weeping like crazy every time someone was eliminated. I think for me it was the combo of being insanely lonely/sad abroad and the high emotion of watching someone working so hard and laying out all their dreams and fears like that. Idk if this answers your question but you're not alone I guess. I also tend to tear up if something is overly innocent and cute, like sweet birthday cards meant for babies with a little talking puppy in a baseball cap saying something nice.

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>>990344
No anon you aren’t retarded lol people do chest exercises to build up muscle underneath the breast to make the glands and fat above it rest higher. After a while they tend to look bigger and more firm.

No. 990361

>>990286
depends. were you genuinely being stupid or do you feel pressured to comply when men put sexual and social pressure on you?

No. 990371

>>990345
It was always a shithole but various events like 4G on phones, the fappening and Trump's nomination caused massive spikes in traffic to 4chan. So now the place is full of retard normies and kiddies that aren't there for the actual boards topics but just to shitpost on the epic hacker site and get sucked into the alt-right echo chamber. Now every thread is obvious bait that gets max replies of the same few posts over and over again daily.

No. 990373

>>990345
it has always been shit, especially when you compare it to women's imageboards. you really realize how unbearable it is once removed from it. last i visited was like 6 years ago and it was still a jarring difference. it has probably gotten worse now, but posting away from men is so much nicer

No. 990421

>>990311
I tear up when watching movie trailers! Not even emotional or serious ones. Idk what's it about, but you are not alone.

No. 990423

>>989587
Cigarettes, if you don't have access to pills.

No. 990428

>>990286
Dumbass

No. 990480

>>990311
Are you perhaps PMSing? I go through depressive episodes before my period and I remember weeping when I saw the trailer for Yoshi's Woolly World lol.

No. 990521

Many years ago I ghosted a friend for no discernible reason, I was in a terrible headspace when she contacted me, and she tried to reach out to me several times in the following years (last time was in March of 2020). I've been feeling terribly guilty about it, do you think it's still worth it to send her a message, at least to apologize. I perfectly understands if she doesn't want to make up with me.

No. 990557

>>990521
>terrible headspace
Ok jafar star, but seriously, don’t, leave her alone and cope, you acted like a shitty person and you don’t deserve her.

No. 990558

Why do other men get so offended if people aren't carbon copies of them? They get upset over people not having the same preferences of women, music, art, etc? Seriously I like blonde guys but don't foam at the mouth over women who prefer brunettes, men just seem so personally triggered if other men aren't exactly like them in terms of what women they prefer

No. 990560

>>990521
Reach out the worst that can happen is she ghosts you like you did to her.

No. 990571

>>990308
And wasn’t there a Visual Novel or something as well? Or am I confusing it with witch’s hat atelier? The art style was more dark and detailed than the series’.

No. 990576

>>990571
You're thinking of little witch atelier who made lolicon eroge but the art was very pretty so it still got reshared. Little witch academia and witch hat atelier are different things.

No. 990577

>>990521
Apologize! You will feel better. Apologizing will enable you to at least end things on a civil note (keep in mind next time when you're in a terrible headspace, to at least be civil, because the bad times will pass, but your behaviour will stay. I don't judge you, just some friendly advice).

No. 990585

File: 1639144550827.jpg (118.78 KB, 1024x770, oihersjla.jpg)

Toilet paper: under or over?

No. 990588

>>990521
I've been in your position before and I say you should apologize. Really, the worst thing is that she doesn't want to make up with you. I reached out to the friends I ghosted and apologized for my behavior (yes, I have changed since that time and my situation is a lot different/better now so I don't plan on making the same mistakes) and my friends were very receptive to it. I can't speak to your friend, but I hope that she would understand.

No. 990599

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>>990576
That sucks, I loved the character design of the girl with pigtails, thanks for letting me know, nonnie.

No. 990600

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No. 990608

>>990600
This is literally why I put my toilet paper over kek. When someone else changes out the roll and puts it under, I change it because it bothers the fuck out of me.

No. 990613

>>990576
>lolicon eroge
This is wrong. I think you're mixing it up with Little Witch Romanesque which isn't even related despite the name

No. 990620

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>>990585
under. i have a cat

No. 990650

>>990613
NTA but I googled the picture and wanted to point out that the title is wrong

No. 990701

File: 1639150766356.png (116.45 KB, 353x402, why is he here.PNG)

why is he on my fucking screen

No. 990752

>>990332
here's the secret, anon: no one in an office works 7-8 hour days straight. Take your breaks, but don't work more than your time scheduled. Working office-type jobs means you have to pretend to be busy a lot of the time lol

No. 990776

I'm going to have 2 teeth pulled for the first time in my life in a few hours. How bad is the pain after the novacaine wears off and how easy is it to fuck up the aftercare? I'm terrified of accidentally giving myself dry socket

No. 990784

>>990776
Not bad if you take your pain meds on schedule. Just don’t be a retard, do what you’re told and you won’t get a dry socket.

No. 990786

>>990701
cause he's more talented then Beyonce

No. 990787

>>990776
The pain for me was like a very bad headache, just in my gums though. Drink lots of smoothies to help with inflammation. Try not to chew your food, cause that's when food particles happen. And try to be chill about it– dry sockets happen all the time, sometimes even if you think you're being cautious. The most important thing would be to contact your oral surgeon immediately so they can correct it!

No. 990794

Anyone else think that a lot of these comments are just mean, like people are making fun of a girl for liking The Chainsmokers and picking a boy near her own age rather then some guy whose a couple years older then her

No. 990797

>>990794
i hate these types of youtubers and their braindead little fangirls
pretending to be woke while talking like a total better-than-the-entire-rest-of-the-world asses
these men are so bitter about normal people enjoying normal things (especially "stupid" teengirl movies)

No. 990803

>>990776
In addition to what other anons said, avoid straws and spitting as they might dislodge the blood clot. I was deathly terrified of getting dry socket when I got my wisdom teeth out. When I rinsed my mouth out after brushing my teeth, I just held the water in my mouth and swished my head around to get the water around and let the water spill out of my mouth. When I did need to spit, I very slowly and carefully moved everything towards the front of my mouth (like a very slow motion spit motion) before lightly spitting it out.

The pain was pretty bad for me, but managable with even just ibuprofen and tylenol together. I was in constant dull pain for about a week, so I never fucked up on the aftercare because the pain was there to remind me to not be a careless dumb fuck kek.

No. 990813

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In what shape or form is the concept of Santa Claus sexy at all? Yeah, half naked hot dude, but that’s it? What’s the sexy concept?

No. 990818

>>990813
This is not my fetish but if I had to guess, he watches you sleep, he sees you being "naughty," he stuffs your "stocking" kek, or idk he's a character that fulfills your desires if you obey, it's not too surprising that kinksters made a fetish out of it.

No. 990822

>>990813
You've answered your own question

No. 990823

>>990776
I had dry socket once and tbh gargling/drinking whiskey helped more than anything else did. I was on holiday and no dentist would help me for the whole week. Clove oil helps too. Ime painkillers didn't really reach the pain.

Another time I had a tooth pulled and didn't get dry socket so it was a breeze. Two insanely different experiences.

No. 990830

nonnies wasn't there a thread about "thread Requests" where you could go and ask for a specific thread to be made? I can't seem to find it anywhere

No. 990834

>>990828
>>>/pt/856121
use the search option

No. 990842

>>990834
Thank u nony!

No. 990843


No. 990844

Is it normal to feel your eyes heavily shutting at 5pm after waking up at 8am? I even got the full 8 hours sleep…

I don’t drink coffee and I have so much studying left to do I can’t afford to nap but I’m so exhausted.

No. 990848

>>990797
making predictable, unoriginal content with the aid of apparently bad, cringe original content and thinking you're so much better.

No. 990854

>>990844
It's called being tired and it's normal kek. Stress can do that, not just wakefulness. Or heck maybe you've got the 'vid.

No. 990872

>>990844
Pretty sure it’s normal, I get sleepy after doing boring repetitive tasks for several hours even if I got a good amount of sleep that day

No. 990884

>>990844
It's normal and especially if you're studying.
Something that I've started to do that wakes me up when I have to study is to go for a walk or do very intense exercise for 5-10 mins. Idk if it's the blood moving or what but it gives me a lot of energy

No. 990924

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SO DOES ANYONE REMEMBER THOSE (ALLEGEDLY) FETAL ALCOHOL SYNDROME TWINS WHO WANTED TO BECOME IDOLS? Emily? Allie?

No. 990929

>>990924
yeah what happened to those two?

No. 990948

>>990924
What website he going to??

No. 990964

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What's the difference between pickmes and handmaidens? aren't both just misogynists who want male attention at all costs?

No. 990968

what is a cute and tasty drink you can make at home?

No. 990971

>>990968
moonshine

No. 990973

>>990924
Sally and Ally.

No. 990979

>>990964
yeah they're interchangeable terms

No. 990989

>>990964
pickme was coined by black women and handmaiden was coined by white women.

No. 990991

>>990803
>>990784
>>990787
>>990823
Thank you so much for the input anons! My appointment got pushed to tomorrow but I feel better about it now that I can get an idea of what it'll be like.

No. 990992

>>990989
Pickmeisha was coined by black women. Pickme is pretty much universal.

No. 990995

>>990992
no it started out as pickme then got creative. NEXT CALLER

No. 990996

>>990995
same with fuckboy, pickme was used in black women's forums for years and then mainstream picked it up.

No. 991005

>>990964
A lot of women are both but I'd imagine handmaidens cape for men more and write them out to be victims in need of coddling, these are worse imo since they often put down victimized women in order to cape for men, where as pickmes just go out of their way and cater their lifestyle for male attention (getting into dnd or male hobbies to attention whore the entire time, go out of their way to make their cooking/cleaning skills known for being "wifey material" humblebragging about their body, etc)

No. 991008

>>990996
ot but when i wasn't on social media a couple of years ago i thought fuckboy was another word for twink

No. 991026

File: 1639169245308.jpg (244.68 KB, 1062x889, 159893723200373956565237719553…)

>>990973
>>990924
whaaat, where can I read more about this?

No. 991064

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i want a pixie cut bc of gross thin hair. my face is very…plain…and im afflicted with man jaw. will a pixie cut make me look like automatic shit? if not, are there directions i can give the hairdresser to avoid something shit?

No. 991069

>>991064
A cut this short will look pretty, but will do do nothing to soften your jawline. Strong jaws look great on women, but if it's an insecurity of yours, look for a haircut that is no shorter than chin length, at least around your face. Having some hair around your jawline will soften its look. I'm a lazy retard but you should be able to find short haircuts with longer fringe that don't look like The Karen or that one ugly angled stacked bob, you know the one.

No. 991082

spoilering because of the subject manner
is it molestation if other kids the same age as you groped your butt multiple times for several minutes during elementary school?also there was this other girl who kept pressuring me to touch her privates and threatened me if i refused but idk if that counts as anything. there were some other incidents kind of similar to these but i don't want this to turn into a long blogpost.
i'm only wondering because i have so many symptoms of sexual trauma but have no memory of anything truly bad happening, just grey-area situations.

No. 991084

>>991082
Yes, you were molested. Not kidding, that isn't normal at all.

No. 991085


No. 991087

>>990701
He's important

No. 991096


No. 991098

>>989813
Is this one supposed to be better?

No. 991103

>>991069
thanks for input nonny. ill ask my hairdresser about the non-karen fringe, thankfully she isnt afraid to say if something wont look good on me

No. 991126

can alcohol make you nod out? (like opiates do)

No. 991137

Anons who use reusable masks, how many do you own?

No. 991170

>>991137
around 5

No. 991175

>>991137
I own 4 and switch between them and wash them every week, different colours and patterns depending on what I’m wearing hehe

No. 991184

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I don’t know where else to ask this but how would you guys feel about a mom being on lolcow of using 4chan related sites?
I’m afraid to tell people online that I’m a mom because I know the Internet is more geared towards young people. I became a mom at 16 and have been using 4chan since I was like, 13 and am now in my late 20s.
People already often think I’m younger than I am or that I’m immature.

No. 991187

>>991184
I personally don't judge anyones situation but there's a weird stigma against all moms on lolcow specifically. There's some on 4chan but it only seems to be from MGTOW types. Ofc not all anons are the same

No. 991193

>>991184
Sometimes when I see an anon say they are a mom I think "Man, that kids gonna be fucked up", but I don't judge. I know lots of anons are normal people outside of this place, and I'm still not sure if I even want kids.

No. 991196

>>991184
Well chances are there is some degree of brain damage from being on 4chan at formative age. If you’re actively unironically posting on 4chan still, I would assume you’re at least very mentally stunted. I feel no type of way about momanons on lolcow unless they’re posting stupid bitch takes of course.

No. 991198

>>991193
Samefag, but I mean I don't judge moms who use lolcow. If you use 4chan that's a little bit of a different story.

No. 991202

>>991196
I don’t really use 4chan but the culture does feel a little ingrained in me. I used to use it regularly for their art board 5-10 years ago.
I much prefer lolcow and CC, I just go on OT most of the time. My activity on both is scattered.
I do use discord to talk to people regularly, is that weird?

No. 991217

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is there a "shein cringe" thread?

No. 991218

>>991202
some boards on 4chan aren't that bad. /x/ was always chill to me, I'd imagine smaller ones tend to be more rational

No. 991219

>>991217
Please make one. so tired of trannies posting their ugly aass mugs on makeup in shein

No. 991229

>>991217
honestly need this thread please

No. 991231

>>991217
I would love that nony, someone pls make one

No. 991243

>>991217
Make one in /m/

No. 991262

>>991243
Shouldn't it be in /g/? All the other fashion hate/cringe threads are there. IDK

No. 991263

>>991218
/x/ is only chill in the divination threads, everything else is full of schizos

No. 991264

File: 1639196817302.png (366.94 KB, 496x696, sweater.png)

>>991263
is this sweater cute or fugly? i want to get it for my mom

No. 991267

>>991264
Cute for a mom I think

No. 991270


No. 991311

I got blepharitis two days ago and it looks terrible already. Does this mean it'll heal quickly? I have shit to do and can't go out until it's cleared up.

No. 991315

>>991311
I did cold compresses carefully and made swelling go down completely within a day. But mine was a reaction to product, if yours is chronic or caused by allergies then maybe it won't be as quick

No. 991327

>>991315
I'll try cold compresses. Mine was stress-induced so I expect it to stick around for a while. Thanks a lot anon.

No. 991329

>>991026
What comic is this from?

No. 991343

>>991310
lurk

No. 991391

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Is his hair frizzy?

No. 991395

>>991391
messy, not really frizzy imo

No. 991396


No. 991400

>>991218
>>991263
I love /x/ and the skizo threads is what I seek

No. 991401

>>991391
getting self-post vibes

No. 991403

File: 1639216907163.gif (532.71 KB, 480x270, 1638222202494.gif)

Is music discussion made out to be unnecessarily more pretentious than it should be or am I just dumb?

I have a primary music education (6 years of piano and violin) and I listen to anything from sevdalinke to touhou eurobeat, but every time I see music discussed it's like everyone except me is a professional that has heard over 1 gajillion songs and knows the genre inside-out and understands a secret music theory component that makes a song incredibly skilled and hard to perform.

No. 991405

>>991403
I am the same as you, people are too pretentious about it

No. 991407

>>991385
Lurk newfag

No. 991409


No. 991418

>>991310
hard to say since it's really subjective and people usually latch onto cows for personal reasons (almost all of the cow threads I follow are ones I used to like unironically) but in terms of milk? probably jillian vessey since everyone keeps talking about her

No. 991428

>>991401
It's a twitch streamer

No. 991429

Do I really have to sage on /ot/…

No. 991432

>>991429
No lol

No. 991433

>>991414
You don't sage in /ot/
lurk more

No. 991439

>>991435
Holy shit how much of a sperg do you have to be to copy paste the entire rules to prove a point? max autism
Take your meds and lurk more, if you spent time on /ot/ you would know saging is not even needed.

No. 991440

>>991435
>Do not spam.

No. 991445

how do i get better at history? are there any books you could recommend to people who are/used to be very much uninterested in history? it's always presented so boring in school so i always hated it and never retained much information. specifically i'm looking for something that connects historical events or time periods on a bigger scale and doesn't go into extreme detail focused on one single insignificant person's itchy butthole. i remember a tumblr post that connected several historical events that happened at the same time and it absolutely blew my mind because history was always so fragmented to me. (i think it talked about how picasso lived at the same time that a popular tv show started airing or something, kek.) idk if anything like that even exists but uugghh. i feel so bad for sucking at history.

No. 991448

>>991443
>>991435
sperg

No. 991468

>>991445

Oxford university press publishes this huge series called Very Short Introductions, they're small books on a ton of different topics

but also you can try history podcasts or youtube. there's tons of free documentaries up

No. 991473

How many anons have had a moment where you go soft, start empathising with a cow and kinda sticking up for them in a particular situation.. only to feel like a fool later on?

No. 991483

can anyone answer this ? >>991126

No. 991485

If you wanna sell feet pics online do you need to show your face? I'm very ugly. I assume that scrotes like the association of having a pretty girl show feet

No. 991493

>>991485
You look in the mirror and remember you’re someone’s daughter and a whole human being, not some fetish object. Have some shame and love yourself.

No. 991567

Anons who had an alcohol problem but have recovered, what was your journey? What caused it and what helped?

No. 991595


No. 991603

>>991126
>>991483
Have you never left your cave and seen drunken hobos passed out in the streets? Or people passed out in the parties? No idea how exactly it looks in case of opiates but that's exactly what too much of alcohol does to a person

No. 991618

>>991485
Other anons have asked about different types of 'no face porn' before and the answer is always that you'll make less if you don't show your face. That and scrotes will never shut up pressuring you to show face.

No. 991626

>>991485
Use faceapp and morph your face. Using the same celebrity pic each time keeps things consistent. Screenshot your new face and lay it over the full sized photo.

No. 991636

>>991567
Going cold turkey and cutting off all my “party friends” helped me a ton

No. 991663

Am I oversensitive or does everyone in class get bullied, basically?

No. 991720

What English speaking accent is the ugliest in your opinion?
For me anyone with a really thick Canadian accent. Think hockey bro or the moose from Brother bear. Makes my cooch shrivel up instantly.

No. 991726

>>991720
I'ved lived all over ireland and it varies alot from one county to another, some are near impossble to understand even if you're from here and grew up a couple hours away.

I left dublin a few years ago and now I weirdly love the dublin accent. Almost feels kinda sexual when I hear it..

No. 991747

>>991264
i love it get it for her where did you find it?

No. 991753

>>991184
being a mother doesnt define all of who you are. dont stop enjoying things just because you are a mother now. so many fathers still collect fucking figures. you're fine.

No. 991757

>>991720
I know this is a cliché answer, but I really do mean it: bri'ish

No. 991782

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>>991757
It's spreading

No. 991784

>>991757
Agree, it's super cringe. Runners up would be BWAHston and Texan.

No. 991815

>>991782
This is how we colonise the Americans a second time..and it’s working!

No. 991830

>>991720
i HATE southern american accents. they sound so fucking ignorant and the drawl is grating to my ears. just hate the way those retarded hillbillies speak

No. 991849

Frenchanons, can you guys please tell me why every time theres a Miss Universe competition trending on Twitter (mostly) moids are absolutely ripping to shreds all of the contestants for being too "ugly" or "average" looking? Not to say this doesn't happen on other parts of the internet but jfc your moids on twitter are particularly harsh to even nice looking ones

No. 991850

>>991849
It's because they think they're hot shit. It's really just that. 99% of French people love shit talking everyone even though they're all losers, I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. There's also the fact that French TV is complete garbage so football matches and Miss France and similar TV shows are some of the most anticipated shows.

No. 991853

>>991850
So it's a matter of seeing someone looking confident and they have to shut them down to "humble" them? Something tells me these moids wouldn't be exactly so critical over their looks if they were sexually available and vulnerable women ready to be used by them

No. 991854

>>991784
BWAHston is the worst in my opinion, with New Joisey as a runner up

No. 991860

>>991853
Yes, men in general don't have any self-awareness, French men included, they think their arbitrary rules don't apply to them as well. The number of guys on twitter who criticize women while doing the same things but worse is way too high. Back when I still had an account I've been blocked by a shit ton of guys who wouldn't stop shit talking women for wearing sleeveless tops even though they all had selfies of them shirtless as their icons. A lot of women shit talk them back and humiliate them online whenever they're targeted though.

As for "humbling" people by insulting them and never giving actual warranted constructive criticism… Yes that's definitely a cultural thing. For example if you're a French kid in school you'll have both classmates and some teachers openly make fun of you for being a retard if you make small mistakes, but if you get good grades and understand your lessons better than most students and you don't cause trouble you'll also be shit talked by your classmates and some teachers. Now imagine the same thing in all aspects of your life.

No. 991874

What are threesomes like?

No. 991876

>>991849
not french but the same things happen when theres a beauty contest in my country; it may be the same mechanism why some non-ugly cows are called ugly and nitpicked here, people want to punish contestants for wanting attention (by participating)

No. 991878

>>991874
free herpes

No. 991880

>>991874
Not worthy of being on so many people's bucket list for sure, it's fun but it's tiring to try to focus equally on both people at once, one on one is definitely more satisfying.

No. 991923

>>991184
Don't care, but I've seen dads on 4ch which I judge (for different reasons). Still, you don't magically become a different person when you're a parent. As long as you're not some schizo anon it's fine

No. 991928

>>991874
So long I’m the queen of the ‘some I think it’d be fun for me. Ironically.

No. 991932

>>991184
as long as you don't nitpick your daughter's smile lines and aren't thirsting over pedos like the average /g/ poster, you're probably ok

No. 991941

What do you think will happen in 2022?

No. 991957

is it an insult when someone compares you to a cat?

No. 991966

>>991874
Underwhelming, if you insist on trying make it FMM where you're the star and they're servants

No. 991970

>>991957
if they called you a pussy then yes

No. 991974

Am I a faggot??

No. 991984

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>>991974
sanic spoke and he said no

No. 992006

Am I supposed to use an umbrella when it snows?

No. 992015

What's up with people who leave bags open all the time? Like they don't close bags of snacks or put the lid back on anything so it gets stale and still don't stop when you remind them

No. 992016

>>991928
being queen = F in FMM?
Do FMM threesomes even happen IRL?

No. 992028

>>992015
I'm just very forgetful

No. 992032

I'm thinking of not going to a friend's moving away party because I'm exhausted. I had to work a double shift that I wasn't expecting yesterday and I'm so tired. Just the thought of having a conversation with someone makes me tired.
Am I horrible if I don't go because of how tired I am?

No. 992038

>>992032
no, it's very understandable. imo it's really immature and unrealistic to not understand why people who are overworked and exhausted just don't have the energy for this. you can always show appreciation and have a quick, fun lunch with your friend at a more convenient time, or something?

No. 992098

>>992032
Yeah, everyone would notice and judge you for it, which they should. Drop off a gift and leave early if you have to, but at least say bye.

No. 992099

>>992098
>which they should
nta but why

No. 992123

>>992098
no, they really shouldn't. weird how people feel entitled to other people's time for parties of all things. it's one thing to not be there for someone who really needs help, but a party?

No. 992142

How bad do you feel when you kill a fly?

No. 992152

>>992123
Not going to a going away party communicates that you don't give a shit that they leave, you friendless fuck

No. 992158

>>992032
I've been in your shoes before and I regretted not telling them bye in person. I regret missing out on a lot of things because I was too tired. Don't be like me anon.

No. 992164

>>992152
not if you try to do something else with them and try to express your care for them in any of the million other ways available to do so??? you don't need to commit to a party after working a double shift in order to communicate missing them. don't act like that's the only way you can show someone you care, you disingenuous prick.

No. 992215

Why are girls on Tik tok so incredibly pretty but I see literally no one irl who looks like them, and I used to live in LA for over 20 years and I didn't see anyone who looked as remotely pretty as Tik Tok girls? I mean, even natural looking girls are just crazy pretty on there. It makes me feel so weird because I'm not pretty in photos, I look very average in them, but irl people are complimenting me all the time whenever I go out regardless of how I dress, so it's like, wtf, how do those actually gorgeous tik tok girls exist without being bombarded if I feel like I get treated that way even though I'm ugly compared to them? It really screws with my head.

No. 992217

>>992215
filters and editing

No. 992225

>>992217
I'm getting to a point where I can't believe it's just that, it seems so real

No. 992232

>>992215
in real life, those supernaturally pretty people are the minority, but online those are the types of people who tend to get the most followers. there are genuinely beautiful people out there but they’re of course going to be over represented on social media apps that revolve around looks.

No. 992239

>>992225
There is live video editing to change shape of jaw, eye size, etc.
>>992215
Lots of these girls are rich, and rich ppl don't just walk around on the street/go regular places.

No. 992241

>>992215
Seriously though, literally every girl on there is pretty. They could be cooks, artists, craftlovers, weebs but they all have being goodlooking in common. I am a grown ass woman and it makes me feel weird about my unattractiveness, I can only imagine what it does to impressionable teen girls.

No. 992270

I walk to work every day and I've fortunately never been catcalled. Is catcalling a regional problem? Like is it more common in certain cities/counties/etc?

No. 992273

>>992270
Saw this same question like a week ago on here. Yes, it's a regional thing. Happy for you though, anon. I hate going out alone at night because catcalling is very rampant here.

No. 992274

>>992270
Honestly… When I lived in central Mexico I was catcalled everyday. Western Canada? once every 3 months maybe.

No. 992277

>>992225
Whether or not you're able to believe it, it's true. Influencers curate their images very carefully. They all use some combination of filters, cosmetic surgery, and careful angles/lighting. Without all that and their generic Kim Kardashian cakeface, they look just like average girl-next-doors.

I understand what you're saying, though– on a logical level, we understand that these girls don't look like that. However it doesn't stop our lizard brains from making us feel like shit for not looking that way. Anons here baffle me because they alternate between ridiculing cows for overusing filters and ridiculing them for having normal flaws like pores or "potato noses." Like even though it's not directed at me personally, I get splash damage from those insults because I'm immediately reminded of my own treatment-resistant acne and ugly Serbian nose.

The internet honestly makes me wish human beings were all identical featureless grey blobs, so we could be judged for the content of our character and not our ability to win genetic lotteries in beauty.

No. 992279

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>>992016
Yeah but it's probably most commonly in a degrading way to the woman aka spitroasted, and not in a worshiping her way

No. 992284

>>992274
>>992273
Thanks anons, sorry for asking a common question rip. I asked because my online friends are always confused when I tell them I've never been catcalled, and that's when I first suspected it had to do with where I live (medium liberal suburban town in the U.S.)

No. 992293

>>992142
Not bad at all. My dogs like to catch and eat them, so at least they die for the sake of a dog getting a little protein lol. Although I think I'm desensitized to bugs dying because I feed them to my lizard every day. Unfortunately when an animal is that low on the food chain, it basically exists to be eaten.

No. 992296

>>992284
Don't worry anon, and that seems exactly like the place where catcalling is minimal. I used to live somewhere similar and it was great now I live in a heavily populated area and get catcalled even in the mornings waiting for the bus.

No. 992298

>>992279
was the weird anime porn really necessary to get your point across?

No. 992306

>>992277
What kills me anon is how it seems like the average person finds me highly attractive but I'm nowhere near as attractive as these people on tik Tok. Like, when they go out do they get complimented every time but by every human in their vicinity since every time I go out I get compliments? It weirds me out. Like I'm genuinely ugly compared to these people on camera.

No. 992307

>>992298
I guess this Naruto hentai is anon's idea of a woman being "worshipped?"

No. 992310

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>>992306
Maybe it's the focal length of your camera. The wrong length can make your nose look big.

No. 992311

>>992215
It’s true, it’s just good lightning and tiktok filters. There are some guys who look like Greek gods on tiktok but then you see them on another content creator’s video without all the usual filters they use… yikes

No. 992319


No. 992320

>>992279
>>992319
Isn't this pic pretty similar to splitroasting tho

No. 992322

>>992215
>>992306
So two main things and a side point:
tiktok has an algorithm that pushes "attractive" youthful faces hence those being all you see. Someone like pixielocks or a more average, but still pretty looking person is not favored by the algorithm. It likes youthful, attractive faces, thin bodies, dancing, all the shit you see all the time is seen because the algorithm pushes those things in particular. (aside: I do not use TikTok because I hate all the shit is pushes and I advise people don't, it's like the worst of Insta and Twitter in one)

And notice how none of these supernaturally pretty people existed before filters, shoop, apps and so on? If you're millennial you'll remember the 00s and early 10s when the prettiest people you'd see are people like Dakota Rose and Venus Angelic, there's a good reason for that: that's their real face. You are never seeing a TikTok user's real face. It's filters, angles, lighting and excessive makeup all the way down.

And a smaller but still relevant point is what another anon said: for the minority who really do look that good, they are indeed rich or at least extremely sheltered. This applies to the more attractive Youtubers too. They aren't normal people with normal lives, commuting, getting sick, gaining weight, whatever, it's easier to look after your health if you work from home or are an "influencer" (I work from home and my appearance is significantly better than when I worked full time)
The daily grind definitely takes a few notches off everyone's attractiveness score. Combine all these things and you get the shitty result of giving you a false sense of reality. The truth is actually attractive people are incredibly rare, what you see on an app like TikTok is a tiny selection of its billions of worldwide users.

No. 992323

>>992306
Anon, I'm the same way, I get called beautiful all the time and get hit on but I am not photogenic at all, I look like a swamp monster in pictures. I think when people see you irl, they have more visual information (they see how you look in motion, they see the full shape of your head in different lightings) whereas pictures are just 2d and flat and have fixed lighting. And some people's features translate better to 2d (and so they look less attractive irl) and others look better irl (and look off in photos)
Tl;dr you're perfectly normal

No. 992332

Because of Shayna I went on mfc, I tried to find male thots but there was no option to filter by gender, I even tried searching. Do they not allow men to cam on there? Sorry for being boomerish.

No. 992353

>>992332
Don’t know anything about cam sites but maybe the men are in the gay section?

No. 992382

>>992332
According to scrote forums, men are not allowed on cam at MFC because the site wants to remain classified as “softcore porn” because…. reasons? Guess peenie is too much for them kek

No. 992403

>>992298
Duh it's THE Naruto and Sasuke

No. 992493

Do you have a Sunday routine? What is it? Sunday is usually deep-cleaning day for me and then spending the afternoon doing fuck-all before the week starts

No. 992499

I'm a burger and I have mental health problems but I'm trying to become independent and get better. I'm also working full-time for the second time in my life. I'm on meds but I still feel like I'm in a "fragile" state. Would it be stupid of me to just pack up and move to another country in a couple of months to teach ESL?

No. 992506

>>992499
yes it would be stupid. i did that and now i’m about to be homeless in a foreign country with no help, and i got rid of literally everything i own to come to this fucking country. i’m so miserable and miss my old life. 1000000% not worth it, don’t do it

No. 992507

Why so many Brazilian users on last.fm?

No. 992511

>>992493
I used to hate sundays when I was growing up because everyone was home and doing nothing. We had no real entertainment in the house, no internet, limited tv screens between people and no transport. I wasn'y allowed out. It sucked balls. My dad took up the main tv to watch sports all day and the day dragged on with dinner being about the only thing to break up the boredom.

As an adult I love it. I grab a coffee and get a walk in if whether permits. Play some pokemon go. Get some groceries. Bath when I get back, stick on an easy dinner. Do dishes after. Youtube and general browsing for a while, snacking, lazing and managing to catch up on vids while also getting to bed at a decent time.

No. 992516

>>992493
Sunday is my washday and getting up to schedule doing any small work here and there needing to be done. Most of the day I just relax while airdrying my hair.

No. 992519

>>992506
What if I want to travel though?

No. 992528

How do I explain to my autistic friend that women can be cute without adhering to JP kawaii subculture aesthetics? She thinks the cuteness and neotenous features means looking very child like like kawaii subculture aims for but you don't need to look completely like a child to be neotenous, no?

No. 992529

>>992506
How’d you become homeless? Did you lose your job?

No. 992530

>>992507
There are a lot of Brazilians, about 212 mil (plus 3 mil for the diaspora). That's pretty close to the number of Americans.

No. 992534

>>992499
Imo, don't make massive life changing decisions if you'd describe yourself as being fragile even with meds right now. What type of illness are we talking though?

Is it something that causes impulsivity? Is it something where skipping (or not being able to access) a days meds will send you into a serious episode? Is it something where small knock backs make you spiral quickly? All risks to weigh up.

No. 992537

>>992499
yes that would be very stupid

No. 992538

>>992529
my job refuses to pay me because i’m an immigrant. nobody is helping me either, i’ve tried getting help even spoke to a lawyer and everyone tells me to just ask my employer to pay me, which they wont fucking do. so i’m fucked

No. 992540

>>992528
What do you mean by cute? Feminine and girly for mature women? Send pictures of other Korean or Japanese fashion styles, plenty of cute outfits that are not geared towards any subcultures. Plenty of western actresses also have neotenous features, and they don't dress in kawaii subculture outfits. I think Mia Maples' channel has plenty of videos with varieties of cute outfits.

No. 992551

What bottom clothes do you wear for winter?

I wear skirts more or less exclusively (yoga pants or trackies in exceptional cases) because I value soft things on my legs. Now that i'm a professional though I need smart looking trousers. I bought my first jeans in like a decade (I hate the sensation of jeans) and they're not nearly as warm as I thought they would be considering everyone wears them this time of year. Do they just walk around with cold legs? I don't want to go to the extreme of ski pants everywhere but I had to cut my forest walk short today because I was too COLD. Is there an in between of jeans and ski pants?

No. 992552

>>992551
you could try thermal underwear with jeans

No. 992562

have any of you wanted to like something, forced yourself mentally to like it and suceeded?
like say i want to like classical music and i force myself by continuously listening to it and trying to enjoying. can it be done or is it hard to change your taste in something?

(also the same question with what you study at college. i absolutely hate my major but dont know if i can ever love it. im kinda stuck tho, its my 4th year).

No. 992570

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>>992551
Pants are always colder to me than a natural fiber midi skirt with thermal tights or stockings. Bonus is a long wool coat. Jean+ puffer jacket will never compare,

No. 992571

>>992562
I think you can learn to like something by exposing yourself to more of it and discovering how varied it can be, as well as by learning more about it and appreciating the craft and history; I'm pretty sure though it would be really hard to apply to liking your major you already hate. What made you chose it in the first place?

No. 992577

>>992571
i was academically pretty above average in high school so i was adviced by all the adults into a major i didnt care for.
i wanted to study physics or math or anything theory based but pure sciences arent as encouraged as other stem fields, at least in my country.

No. 992583

>>992577
Well, if you've never had any interest for it I don't think it will get much better but it's not uncommon to actually enjoy the jobs you can do after studies, much more than the studies themselves. Is there any job you can do after you feel like you could do?
Otherwise it's never to late to do what you actually wanted to, go for the studies you saw as a better fit, either now, or after you're done with the ones you're stuck in right now.

No. 992598

>>992583
i can definitely see myself enjoying teaching the theoretical stuff, like a professor at a university. even at a high school level, teaching physics would be fun.

thanks for replying anon. i hope i will enjoy it when i start working as you said. otherwise i might legit re-think finishing another major.

No. 992679

will just a single pierced nipple look stupid? i want the right one pierced but not the left one.

No. 992681

>>992679
Looks hot on my gf

No. 992682

>>992681
good taste. asymmetry fucks.

No. 992684

>>992679
I only have my left pierced. It’s hot. Don’t have to worry about getting one after the other or being super careful with bothh nips.

No. 992729

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Are ana-chans with beefier legs a thing? Is it due to bad circulation or just your body build or something? I saw a girl on twitter who is very skinny but has swollen feet, weird shit

No. 992734

>>992729
hijacking your post to ask where the right outfit is from

No. 992738

How much about your dating life do you let your parents know?

No. 992740

>>992734
It was bought in h&m

No. 992749

>>992382
doesnt this enreage troons muh feminine penis?

No. 992750

>>992729
Is that an example of beefy legs or? A woman can be skinny but have relatively thigh legs, especially if she has wide hips; actual anachans starving themselves probably to a lesser extent

No. 992782

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Does anyone else get hated by others more and people thinking you're even weirder the more you try to act normal? Even though they already disliked me before. People online say "fake it till you make it" but I wonder if people irl can notice someone faking it and get pissed at them for that cause it really backfires but idk why.

No. 992797

Since there's been an influx of edtwt immigrants due to unicorn-chan, I got a question. Are the majority of edtwt posters deathly skinny, or is it mainly self-hating fatties larping? Or a bit of both?

No. 992802

>>992729
Different people hold weight/fat in different places. Some have skinny limbs with a muffin top, others have thicker legs but are smaller everywhere else.

No. 992803

>>992797
>mainly self-hating fatties larping?
this one.

No. 992804

>>992729
is that supposed to be an example of ana-chan? how fat are you

No. 992805

>>992797
Like 1% of them is deathly skinny, a lot are fat. Most are average to chubby. The ones who actually got skinny are busy enjoying their new found attention not permanently seething on edtwt.

No. 992806

>>992782
If someone already dislikes you, there's nothing you can really do to change that. You are conflating different things.

No. 992821

>>992804
How secure are you in your own body if you take the opportunity to judge a random anon's image as not skinny enough?

No. 992843

Does anyone have the link to that thread with the drawings of anime girls in their rooms?

No. 992851

can you develop an eating disorder when you're past teenage? like, late 20s?

No. 992855

>>992851
Why wouldn't you be able to?

No. 992861


No. 992866

What are your thoughts on people diagnosed with BPD? I was diagnosed a couple of years ago and in the past year have hurt a lot of people, made a lot of people never speak to me again and really self destructed. I'm due to start DBT soon (on the NHS cause I'm a bong) but I worry it won't be enough because I have daily meltdowns. Is there any hope for me?

No. 992874

>>992866
According to these threads, not irredeemable but chances are unlikely
>>>/ot/626276
>>>/ot/231531

No. 992876

>>992866
people who do the work (and I cannot stress enough that it will be work) can eventually end up no longer meeting the criteria fir BPD anon. you'll be ok, you seem self-aware and like you're willing to try. BUT it's not going to be a walk in the park, you're essentially trying to re-learn how to handle emotions and how to interpret the world around you.

No. 992879

>>992855
I feel like I only ever hear about people developing eds in high school

No. 992880

>>988977
Is it normal for people to get asked about their ethnicity the first thing?

No. 992882

>>992880
If you’re in a country that’s has a main race and you look different, yes. In America, yes. I don’t think it’s usually meant to be rude. Some people are just ignorant of that type of thing and are genuinely interested and/or trying to make conversation.

No. 992889

>>992866
I have no idea if BPD is even that prevalent at this point.

People who whine or obsess about BPD fags tend to be BPD, it’s 100% the case on lolcow BPD is one of those diagnoses anyone should steer away from, far away. Let me not even talk about the PTSD faggots who are embarrassed about their BPD diagnosis.
You’re talking about past stuff, i don’t know how long ago that was but young adults and teens all did retarded shit, it’s called being young, it’s all in the past now though, go for dbt if you still have anger issues, and when it’s clear that you don’t have any BPD symptoms, best not to reveal it to anyone, humans are hypocritical judgemental jerks.

No. 992891

>>992882
I get asked by women of color and white men this question the most and it seems to me very annoying considering I live in a multicultural European country. Just why? It makes me just feel out of place even more. I wonder what they’d ask had I been in the USA. Instead.

No. 992923

I want to make eclairs but I found several different recipes for the dough. Some say to put the eggs in while the dough is cooking on the stove, others put 1 egg while it is cooking, whisk until it's combined and add more when it has cooled down slightly. What's the proper way? The second way seems to give thicker dough?

No. 992952

>>992891
Europe is not nearly as multicultural as the US or Aus lol
Also Europeans mostly don't subscribe to political correctness as much as Americans so I don't know why you're surprised.
I'm white and people still ask me all sorts of dumb shit just because I'm foreign and I too live in a multicultural European country. It's just what happens when you're not the majority.

No. 992961

Is there a difference between dying and tinting your eyebrows? As in, permanent color changing and not just make up.

No. 992962

>>992880
>>992891
It's a normal question in your situation, kek
Why are you taking such thing at heart?

No. 992966

>>992805
Why is it called edtwt if they don’t have eating disorders?

No. 992967

>>992923
do it the second way, you have to temper your eggs or else you will scramble them if you add them to the hot pan

No. 992968

>>992966
they're wannarexics, or butterflies on mpa lmao

No. 992969

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what does sage mean? i'm new to this board

No. 992973

>>992891
It's not that deep. I live in a multicultural area in Europe and people ask each other all the time, some people are just curious.

No. 992975

>>992969
It comes from sageru, it’s Japanese, not exclusive to this board

No. 992987

Do you Moisturise and then put Deodorant on or put Deodorant on then Moisturise?

No. 992993

>>992987
you moisturize your armpits?

No. 992995

>>992987
I always put on deodorant first, but I don't put lotion on my armpits so it doesn't really matter.

No. 992998

>>992987
I don’t use deodorant but I would say moisturize first. The deodorant would dry out the moisturizer and none of it would get absorbed in your skin.

No. 993001

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>>992998
>I don’t use deodorant

No. 993010

>>992987
I didn't mean Moisturise my armpits. I like to Moisturise when I'm still wet but then it gets on my armpits from my upper arms pressing against them and smells weird and if I Moisturise first while I wait for it to dry I'm no longer wet.

No. 993011

>>993001
I just don’t sweat a lot and don’t have noticable bo I promise nonnie

No. 993013

on the subject- my dude's pits literally have no smell, he has little to no BO I've ever noticed. this seems really weird especially for a guy, as for me my sweat is pretty pungent. what could this mean about his chemistry or physiology or whatever?

No. 993015

>>993013
if he's asian then its genetics.

No. 993017

>>993011
Lucky bitch

No. 993021

>>992782
Normies can fake it, autismos can't, sadly
>>993013
Just genetics/diet

No. 993023

>>993001
a lot of deodorants can be very toxic for you + like anon some people are just incapable of developing so much of that smelly ass bacteria underneath their armpits

No. 993043

>>993015
>>993021
he's slavic and eats garbage lol

No. 993061

>>993015
You don't have to be Asian to have the no BO gene, it's just way more common in Asians than in other races.

It could also mean he drinks chlorophyll water. But if he eats like shit I doubt he'd do something like that.

No. 993084

does anyone know who the spoiler image is? ive wondered since i started using the website if i didnt know any better id think it was momokun or something but her butt is gross looking

No. 993093

>>993084
It's PixyTeri

No. 993141

if a study shows a pattern but all of the data isn't available, is it less or more likely the data confirms the pattern once it becomes available?

No. 993149

>>993084
Sigh. I'm getting old.

No. 993153

Do European people consider people from Israel and Syria as European??

No. 993170


No. 993212

Can I water my plants with plain cold tea that I forgot to drink? I don't want to waste water if I don't have to.

No. 993242

>>993212
why cant you just drink it?

No. 993244

>>993212
yes. or you could microwave the tea and drink it kek
i microwave cold coffee/tea all the time because i’m lazy & poor

No. 993250

>>992962
>>992973
Because it’s not politically correct as the new world you say and kinda backwards? Why are they not interested in other things about me instead of where the hell my parents are from? It’s not like they are satisfied with my answer because they still doubt it/think I lie. Not deep but most definitely for me an annoying question I have to deal with every time I meet a stranger. Just ask me something else about me for fucks sake.
>>992952
Where I live it’s multicultural.

No. 993251

>>993244
poor or not, i can't believe people even think to not just microwave tea or drink (gasp) refreshing, iced tea? (not talking about anon, just the "it's not fresh/hot" mindset in general). i never understood people who throw away coffee after it gets cold. what a waste and for nothing. it's still perfectly fine. idk how people don't feel guilty w this mindset

No. 993254

Does anyone else ever feel kinda bitter or even just confused that your mom never passed down lessons or good advice on dealing with scrotes?

I entered adulthood naive as fuck and I learnt everything the hard way. Even my dad never had that protective 'be good to my daughter' energy going on. Nothing was covered at any point. No discussion of what's normal and what's not, standards to expect, tips for safety, zilch.

No. 993258

>>993254
Mommy should be perfect and know it all. Nah I’m not bitter about it, I’m bitter about other things, but not that she wasn’t the perfect vlogster. Time for you to owe up to your own mistakes without blaming mommy constantly and perhaps learn to be an adult (18+).

No. 993261

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>>993258
Your post sucks

No. 993272

>>993254
bold of you to assume all the women know how to do it, maybe your mom doesn't?

No. 993280

>>993254
She never taught me anything technically but watching her relationships with men and experiencing that taught me enough I guess. I do feel pretty bitter but I understand why she wasn't in a position to ever teach me.

No. 993281

>>993254
No, my parents were the same but I just used Google and learned everything on my own. My dad hated women and my mom was inexperienced and religious. Most people don't get that in life, why be bitter when you can be better?

No. 993283

What would be a good part time job for someone who's easily stressed out and overwhelmed? I'm a student and want a side job with not too many hours so that I don't need to loan as much to pay my bills. I've tried waitressing and customer service before but those jobs were so stressful and took so much energy that I ended up completely fucking up my grades. Is there anything with okay pay that's readily available in most cities? I already have a bachelors degree but I don't want to work for more than 12 hours a week right now and that's kind of throwing me for a loop.

No. 993284

>>993261
It’s the absolute truth though, mommy’s no wikipedia or encyclopedia, maybe I’ll pretend that she is though since that image is based as hell saves it

No. 993292

>>993283
Stock-taking perhaps? I did it as part time, most of the time it was during store's closing hours so there were no clients, just boring grind of counting and noting it down.

No. 993295

>>993258
You're being weird AF

No. 993296

>>993284
Stop sperging about shit nobody even said

No. 993301

>>993296
O really?
> Does anyone else ever feel kinda bitter or even just confused that your mom never passed down lessons or good advice on dealing with scrotes?

>Even my dad never had that protective 'be good to my daughter' energy going on.

Anon even has a dad ffs.

And lastly
> >I entered adulthood naive as fuck and I learnt everything the hard way.
It’s like she thinks nobody else does it.

No. 993303

>>993281
>my mom was inexperienced and religious
I think this was a part of it with mine too. She died and when I reflected back on what her life was like I realised she heavily settled herself with my dad. I didn't see that as a kid because you tend to accept your surroundings as the norm.

To anyone thinking I meant like 'I'm so super bitter' I didn't. She's dead and you reflect on anything and everything when someone is gone. I also reflect on my own shit where I wonder if I did enough in some areas

No. 993305

>>993303
My apologies anon. I’m really sorry for your loss.

No. 993317

>>993254
My mom tried but went about it in a wrong way. Rubbed in my face her Stacy status. How guys chased her, gave her flowers and rings etc. while she didn't give a fuck. Meanwhile, my self-esteem has been in the drains for years and I believed that nobody will ever love or even notice me in that way.
If you want your daughter to not be abused or played with by men, support her self-esteem and if it's already too late, send her to therapy. Otherwise, your words will fall on death ears.

No. 993336

>>992866
I genuinely think everyone with BPD is incapable of being a long term friend to anyone who doesn't kiss their ass 24/7.
Some BPD-chans handle it a lot better than others but I simply don't have the patience for it.
Good luck tho

No. 993339

>>993001
A lot of East Asians don't, because they literally don't sweat as much

No. 993342

>>993254
Due to the way my parents treated me I have serious trust issues and I'm sure this saved me from many potentially bad situations with men. Obviously what my parents did to me wasn't good but I can't say that I dislike the result.

No. 993459

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Uuuh, what's the logic behind people writing these things? Is it just naivety?

No. 993465

>>993459
It's wanting to have something to whine about, be a victim and avoid responsibility for publically posting online on a website everyone has access to.

No. 993468

>>993459
That loser in particular only wants to get followed by a close group of friends to shit talk other people that they all know irl. Otherwise, probably some retard into some weird or outright fucked up thing who also needs constant validation in the form of updoots and retweets.
Sometimes that kind of person thinks like any other terminally online retard, who needs to make sure that their online echo chamber is in perfect sync with their unoriginal, stale and boring ideas.

No. 993469

>>993301
Are you literally my mom? You type just like her.

No. 993473

>>993254
I mean, my mom, who has lived in a relationship full of cheating, usually would tell me to be strong and to do my best to keep the relationship going.
I was the one to tell her that it was a dumb idea and that she should just dump my dad and tell him to fuck off, because dealing with moid shit is tiresome and not worth the hassle.
Just because someone has a kid and a seemingly stable mental health, doesn’t mean that they have to know everything.
What kind of advice did you even expect to get from her? Also, funny that you say the dad thing, that only happens in movies and series because it’s over the top, most of the time they hide their feelings because they were taught to never show their feelings unless it’s being unhinged.

No. 993477

>>993254
It's completely understandable to be frustrated when it feels like your parents failed you this way. But the truth is, even for parents who do try to protect their children by teaching them about the world, many lessons can only be taught through self-experience and no one can give you that knowledge.

No. 993480

>>993473
I got out of an abusive relationship, told my dad this man threw me into furniture with enough force to break it.. and then the next day he'd forced me into a store and made me pay for the new replacement furniture because 'I broke it' My dad said nothing in response and later seemed to even forget all that and told me he missed my ex, that he was a great guy and was really good for me. He met my ex one time.

No. 993485

>>993254
I brought this up with my mom the other day and she started screeching at me. I realized that I can never have a healthy conversation about it with how they neglected and failed me because they are too wrapped up in their own cope. All I get are excuses and I will never get the apology I crave. We just need to make peace with it

No. 993492

>>993480
This is really messed up, I'm sorry.
>>993485
Unfortunately you just have to pick up the pieces yourself and build yourself up the best you can. They can't even take accountability for their mistakes which is the bare minimum, of course they fucked up raising you too. Many people just weren't ready to have children, which is why I wish it was taken more seriously, instead of it just being an accident or experience someone wants to check off the list.

No. 993495

>>993258
why are you standing up for neglectful parents, what's your goal here

No. 993507

>>992966
Often they do have 'disordered eating' but it's more like they're trapped in the binge-restrict cycle/ have BED. They badly want anorexia so they can restrict all the time without the binging part.

No. 993513

>>992866
NHS therapy is often short-term or inadequate (don't know about BPD therapy specifically). I recommend looking for cheap long-term therapy, there should be a charitable service in your area called something like 'community counselling'. They have long waiting lists tho.

No. 993518

Is it normal to feel like I don’t deserve good things happening to me? Do you guys feel this too? Especially when you’re just used to negative shit. Why am I feeling like this?

No. 993527

>>993141
Asking this question again in case anyone knows. Is absence of evidence important when you already have enough to form a pattern? Or should you dismiss a study just because you don’t have ALL of the numbers?

No. 993536

>>993212
because it's cold, it doesn't taste good anymore when it's cold. cold tea isn't the same as iced tea

>>993244
I don't have a microwave and that sounds gross anyway, thanks though

No. 993539

>>993518
Yes and for exactly that reason. You're so used to negativity and bad things in your life it feels almost wrong for good things to happen. Well you do deserve them, anon. The feeling is normal, but remind yourself that there is no truth in that feeling. Your brain wants to protect you but sometimes does it in harmful ways. Your brain telling you you don't deserve this good thing is it trying to protect you from the pain of eventually experiencing negativity again. But highs and lows comes with life! Enjoy the good things that happen, and when bad thing happen, remember those good things. And remember that you deserve nothing but goodness.

No. 993540

>>993527
Data is absolutely necessary. The mind forms patterns by itself even where there's no data.

Dismiss.

No. 993546

>>993540
So we should dismiss studies showing men perpetuate most sex crimes against little girls because not all child sexual abuse survivors grow up to report it? really nonna? this doesn't sound right

No. 993554

>>993546
It's either a methodologically proper study or not.
How it "sounds" and your appeals to emotion don't have shit to do with it.

No. 993559

>>993552
so now it's "do not dismiss if it's a methodologically proper study"? why would you assume the study I'm wondering about isn't? anyways thank you for your answer

No. 993560

>>993554
Not really, you could easily adjust for estimated unreported ones.

No. 993570

>>993559
If it doesn't have all data, it's not proper methodology.
Look, you asked, I worked in research for years and I answered.
It's not my problem you don't like the answer.

>>993560
Weighting(I assume that's what you're talking about) is all but "easy" and can be done only on a complete, carefully selected data set.

No. 993573

>>993570
Wouldn't it just be a coefficient variant

No. 993576

>>993573
No. How even…? No.

No. 993580

>>993576
What do you mean how? Wouldn't it be the deviation from assaults that get reported.

No. 993582

>>993580
The deviation is set when the sample is selected. It cannot be the missing data.
Ironically, the statistical error is known in advance.

No. 993585

>>993582
Oh right. Well for that anon aski g about male assaults then just say out of current data men are majority bastards. That's a fact of life. That's statically fact.

No. 993587

>>993539
Thank you for your sweet, encouraging reply. What you’re saying makes a lot of sense. I always feel somewhat underserving of good things or I feel like it’s just the calm before the storm. I definitely need to get rid of this thinking. Thank you again.

No. 993593

>>993570
It's not that I don't like the answer lol, it's just that you didn't give a straightforward one, so much so I misunderstood. Are statistics showing it is mostly (virtually all) males who perpetuate child sexual abuse not methodologically proper because not all children report the abuse or grow up to report it? If not, then why would it be any different for another study(the study I'm wondering about has to do with csa too)?
My initial question also was if it's less or more that the unavailable data would confirm the claims once available.

No. 993597

When you report somebody do the mods see your IP address? Like if the mods didn't agree to my report can they ban me in return?

No. 993598

>>993593
Unavailable data is just unavailable data, it is a big no-no to presume.
People always wish data went this way or that way.
These wishes are to be ignored.

No. 993601

>>993598
I hate how you word things.

No. 993603

>>993601
How would you have phrased it?

No. 993609

NYC nonnas, can you recommend me a place to get a cake for Christmas? Preferably not from a chain bakery!

No. 993622

>>993598
I completely agree that’s fair, I just don’t agree it somehow nullifies the study or something. Am I silly to think that or? lol

No. 993627

Any anons struggle with obsessively picking at their skin? I've been doing it since I was 13 and I just hate it so much but can't seem to stop myself, even when I'm internally screaming at myself to stop. Does anyone have any advice or any tips on how I can stop?

No. 993640

>>993627
I pick at my lips and fingertips, but in my case it isn't super bad. If it's a tourettes-type impulse then I have something that might work. Tourettes impulses are actually localised to an area of the body rather than a specific action, so you can try to transfer the impulse to a less harmful action in the same part of the body. For example I stopped chewing a gross gory hole in the back of my jaw by gently tapping my teeth together every time I got the impulse. Maybe you could gently scratch your skin, or something like that?

No. 993644

>>993622
I mean, you're not silly, but you're misdirected.
We've agreed to a certain standard in research. That standard is what gives validity to results. Meddling with the scientific method is just shooting yourself in the foot.

Statistics is a great tool, but just a specialised tool. Do you have the right tool in your hands? What kind of battle are you fighting, what kind of home are you building? Maybe statistics isn't the tool for it. Look around you. Pick something else.

No. 993645

File: 1639416266960.gif (1.41 MB, 275x275, 16396511554.gif)

I'm trying to weigh priorities here. Do most people (around you or in general) in their 20s prepare and save up, so that they can settle in their 30s? Or do most people do that in their 30s?

No. 993646

>>993640
Oh that's a good idea! People always say the best way to break a bad habit is to replace it

No. 993650

>>993645
Myself and some of my friends (all in our mid to late 20s) have started saving up, but I don't think it's necessarily to settle in our 30s… I don't think any of us know when we're going to be able to settle in and we're mostly saving for the worst case scenario. On the other hand I do know other people in the same age group who are the opposite who haven't begun saving up at all, no idea if they'll start in their 30s lol.

No. 993654

Why is Elaines thread pinned?

No. 993659

>>993646
Also! If you're in pain from skin-picking it'll make the impulse worse because it's harder to distract yourself, so if you pick to the point of causing yourself injury be sure to ice it or use over the counter painkillers. Don't make the pain worse to 'punish' yourself, that's counterproductive.

If it gets really bad you can always go to the doctor, there are more medical treatments for things like this.

Obviously stress in your personal life also makes these kinds of compulsions worse.

No. 993660

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>>993659
Thank you for such a thoughtful response anon

No. 993666

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>>993660
Aww, you're welcome!

No. 993672

>>993650
Seems like times are different.

No. 993683

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left or right

No. 993685

>>993683
threesome

No. 993686

>>993683
I'm not into bald dudes

No. 993702

>>993685
Same kek

No. 993704

>>993683
Mr good hairline

No. 993712

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>>993683
gaviscon man

No. 993714

>>993712
Some of those ads.. with the hose and the white stuff… eyyy

No. 993721

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No. 993723

>>993212
water them with diluted period blood instead

No. 993726

File: 1639420545880.jpeg (324.99 KB, 1242x1267, 'she'2.jpeg)

Are there any actual women on /adv/ ,or is it all troons and male larpers

No. 993728

>>993723
Hey don't be wasting perfectly good ritual materials on plants, we've got scrotes to curse with that blood

No. 993729

>>993728
use it to water poisonous plants to use on scrotes? more effective than a curse

No. 993730

>>993683
>>993712
yes…but what about?

No. 993733

>>993683
right. lol at wanting a bald man

No. 993740

Pls no ban for racebait mods! My friend mentioned that women of his race are pressured to have kids early and then really let themselves go after giving birth which is why the fridge body jokes are mainly directed at Latinas. Does this have any truth to it? Another friend agreed and she's Mexican so I'm more inclined to believe it if she does.

No. 993745

>>993740
I'm venezuelan
yes

No. 993750

>>993745
>>993740
Also the fridge body type stereotype in the U.S. is from exposure to mostly mexicans. Not all hispanics are built the same, just like not all europeans.

No. 993751

>>993740
>pressured to have kids early and then really let themselves go
Why are they ressed to let themselves go? Is it to stop attracting male attention and be only mothers?

No. 993758

>>993740
I thought the fridge body shape (rectangle) was common in most women, not only latinas

No. 993762

>>993751
Hispanic culture shames skinnyness just like black people do for some reason…. I think it also has to do with the introduction of foreign food and adopting it, our bodies not being able to break them down as easily

No. 993764

>>993740
It’s the same basic scrote “lol wife ugly and old with kids, not pretty and young no more” logic. Some of my family members used to joke about it, but it’s dumb, and it doesn’t work after all because marrying a Latin American man, specially a Venezuelan useless scrote, is the same as subscribing to a life in which you have to look like a pornsick caricature of a woman unless you want him to go groom a teenager so he can turn her into his personal pornsick caricature of a woman.
Venezuelan men are fucking vapid, shallow and useless.
T.Venezuelan woman living in Venezuela

No. 993768

>>993764
lol I agree, all venezuelan men are metrosexual and useless

No. 993769

>>993758
It is.
As you, and everyone, can witness with their eyes.
Anyone can type any bullshit so they do.
People type lotsa bullshit. It's all boring.

No. 993771

if the vagina doesn't stretch permanently, why are second deliveries always easier than the first?

No. 993783

>>993771
maybe bc you already know what will happen and can prepare better for it. also if you can push a watermelon out of a tiny hole once you can also do it a second time

No. 993786

>>993768
>>993764
Absolutely based takes, i avoid contact with scrotes here at all costs, they're so unlikeable, vain and pornsick. My mom has a great, athletic body but my dad always suggest her to get breast implants while he's literally obese, he also bullies me for being skinny while his whole family is full of obese people, shit makes no sense

No. 993787

>>993771
Bc there's more to birth than simply passing through the vaginal canal, most problematic births start before that part is even happening: cervix dilation, positioning, umbilical cord, etc.

No. 993801

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I need help picking a cake nonnies. Burnt basque cheesecake (matcha/original or chocolate flavor) or yuzu mousse cake?

No. 993805

>>993801
You can't go wrong with an original basque cheesecake this time of year

No. 993814

>>993805
That's true! But we got it last year so I was wondering if it was worth changing things up a little this year…

No. 993821

>>993814
Then I'd definitely get the chocolate version

No. 993829

>>993821
You're right nonna. Damn basque cheesecakes are just too good to resist

No. 993862

File: 1639429645720.jpeg (149.83 KB, 1280x1069, 9CC62381-2AF3-4EEB-B9D3-7F0A0B…)

Nonnies, what should an HR department e-mail look like? This one doesn't mention the company name at all and it includes the numbers '1877'. Also, the advertising for the job had a lot of misspelling, but the person who posted it is an older lady and I checked to see if she is real and she is. I still have a weird feeling though.

No. 993867

>>993862
And will a hiring agent contact me through that e-mail? Because she's trying to direct me to the interview through that. I'm a NEET so I don't know how this works.

No. 993869

>>993867
She could be a recruiter. Recruiters will act as the middle man between you and the company and they won't put the company name to avoid you directly applying (if you come from a recruiter and are hired, they get paid). Some companies also hire exclusively through recruiters.

Could be legit, could be a crapshoot. Recruiters can be a real hit or miss. I did get my current job from a recruiter though, so not all of them are scammers (although you are right to be wary).

No. 993870

File: 1639430255805.jpg (299.82 KB, 391x583, allure2.jpg)

Why would people assume that I hate them when I don't? How can I make them stop thinking that? Might it be a kind of projection? How do I stop creating these kinds of situations?

No. 993906

>>993869
Thank you, anon. I ended up telling the interviewer I change my mind because it just felt so unprofessional to me. She, or whoever, never introduced themselves until the middle of the interview. Well, maybe I should've did it first, but I'm retarded.

No. 993911

>>993801
Am I uncultured if I don't know what any of these fancy words mean

No. 993913

>>993911
Basque cheesecake is just a different type of cheesecake! Typically cheesecake is new york style. Mousse is typically a light and creamy dessert, think mixing something like chocolate with whipped cream (that’s basically usually what it is plus another ingredient or two).

No. 993931

>>993726
Some years ago I used to spend a lot of time in the ask the opposite sex threads so there are real women there. Definitely larpers too though

No. 993999

File: 1639439082264.webm (5.52 MB, 478x848, 3.webm)

what are these dogs doing? kissing angrily? dog people please explain this behavior

No. 994047

what are your favorite infinite runner apps and why?

No. 994069

>>993999
They're just being goofy, playing around

No. 994074

>>994069
they're growling angrily though?

No. 994174

How do I stop being shy/anxious once and for all? Is it even possible to become a "carefree" kind of person even though you've been shy throughout your whole life? I just want to do what I want without getting anxious about stupid little things.

No. 994189

If I were going to move to a new city and didn't know anybody there, how would I go about finding roomates? Is Craiglist or a roomate matching site reliable? Should I 'interview' potential roomates to see if they would be a good match?

No. 994216

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Could this man pass as a local in your country ?
also this is probably the best looking a male can get in my country

No. 994285

Are dimples actually as rare as people say they are?

No. 994293

>>994216
Not really, his beard isnt trendy at all. Maybe with a different beard and haircut he'd pass for one though.

No. 994303

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Just scrolled through the old messages between me and my ex trying to see when I mentally checked out and I found the most shocking stuff, things that would make they nonas in the retarded hornyposting thread cringe. How do I forgive myself for the things I said when I had cockholm syndrome?

No. 994309

>>994293
I should have written could he pass as a local with a change of beard or clothing

No. 994310

>>994303
There is nothing to forgive, everyone has their cringe shit we did in the past. The most important thing is that you have self-reflected on your own actions which is a big part of personal growth.
Also why would you need forgiveness for the things which made you the person you are today?

No. 994318

I was browsing the pinned "promote yourself" post on the etsy subreddit for the lulz as always ( highly reccomended, the delusional shit you can find is amazing. Remember this are the same people crying about aliexpress shit sold by chad scammers on the platform and blaming them for their poor sales) when I found this "digital art" seller and I'm on the line if it's a troll or the champion of the delusional retards olympics. Is it too mean to show it? If not, what thread?

No. 994322

What do nonnies think about Katherine Ryan? I like her humor and it's always uncanny how online her terfy points seem to be. Feels like she could be bitching on snow.

No. 994329

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>>994310
>why would you need forgiveness for the things which made you the person you are today?
Ngl this floored me. I came here expecting some ribbing over being horny and cringe but I think you may have just revolutionised my outlook on life. Thank you anon. Godspeed.

No. 994331

Anyone else feels the need to hide their interests and hobbies from everybody? My parents and especially my mom used to make fun of almost everything I liked that they didn't approve of ("turn down your noisy music!", "mangas are such an ugly artstyle") so now I don't let anybody see what I'm into, I don't want to be perceived as some kind of weirdo and I feel my more fringe interests could be weaponized against me.

No. 994332

>>994331
Not everyone is as shitty as your mom. There's even people that love hearing someone talk passionately about something even if they are not interested in the topic, they just love to hear someone sperg about something they love.

No. 994345

>>994331
I'm the same. I'm very secretive about some of the things I enjoy. I like to separate the activities that I do in public, activities that I do with people I'm close to and activities that I do alone.

No. 994347

>>994331
omg yess. I only tell people about the things that I do but are not that important to me. The things that are super important to me shall stay hidden. In the past whenever I told close friends about these, I literally had a physical reaction (blushing, sweating, feeling of shame) as if I had committed a sin or something

No. 994351

>>994331
Me too. I have a hard time even chatting about what I've been up to with my friends, because most of my hobbies aren't "acceptable" and I'm afraid I will be seen as dumb and weird, so I always have nothing to say. If I enjoy something in secret I feel much better because no one can say anything about it. I used to make pet portraits with pencils and my parents called me retarded and childish for doing it, I picked up embroidery and my father mocked me every time he saw me do it. Videogames are stupid, reading is "too sophisticated" for someone like me, comics are for children, I'm not the right kind of person for fashion and makeup (aka I'm ugly), I'm too stupid for sewing or gardening. I feel like I'll be laughed at for almost anything. What's worse is that sometimes mean comments will make me drop that hobby out of shame and it's just… sad.

No. 994355

>>994318
You can post it here: >>>/m/163186

No. 994359

>>994355
lmao you are right. Ty nonnie

No. 994363

>>994351
Your parents told you all of that? Consider that the problem is not you, it's them. They aren't normal.

No. 994377

Looking for a picture that was OP image of dumbass shit thread (or some other thread) with a man in a suit laying on the ground, his face is smashed by cake. Something like that.

No. 994378

why is a 30 year old friends with a 25 year old

No. 994379

>>994378
why not?

No. 994384

>>994379
different maturity levels and phases of life means there is not much to have in common

No. 994385

>>994378
Nothing wrong with that imo, they could be coworkers or met through mutual friends, at 25 a lot of people have finished studying and have their first job, there's not much difference at this point.

No. 994390

>>994384
Do you have Assburgers?

No. 994395

>>994378
They're 5 years apart? This isn't 16 and 21, it's two fully grown adults that have fully developed brains. There is no maturity difference and barely any social different between a 25 and 30 year old.

No. 994396

How do you destroy a moids life without physically being there

No. 994399

>>994396
Catfish him. Get him to say weird shit, admit to weird things. Document it all, spread it to his friends/family/job.

No. 994403

>>994396
make a fake profile with his pics and send the creepiest looking moids to his house. Larp a bit with them and tell them your fantasy is ( insert some degen shit) and you want them to realize it.

No. 994419

>>994403
nta but I'm pretty sure that sounds illegal

No. 994420

>>994419
ohno.jpeg

No. 994432

>>993627
Start training yourself to become aware of when you do it and then resist the impulse. See if you can wait one minute, then keep increasing time. Remind yourself by continuing to do so further cements the habit. Sit on your hands more often or try keeping fidget toys with you, or stress balls to play with instead. Also could try wearing gloves?

No. 994450

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>>994432
I have thought about getting a pair of cute lace gloves to wear around the house! Sitting on my hands and stuff to fidget with is a great idea, thank you anon!

No. 994582

Is it a terrible idea to tell people at work I’m a recovering alcoholic, just so they’ll leave me the hell alone? I’m so tired of beating around the bush and turning down drinks every two seconds and it’s also so so so triggering like “yes I would like a drink Carol, I would like a drink so fucking bad that I would eat my own hands for it but I CAN’T.” BUT there’s so many judgments people can make that it seems like it’s an awful idea to offer such personal info to coworkers.

No. 994587

>>994582
I wouldn't disclose that information at all it would leave a lot of room for workplace harassment. Honestly just straight up tell them it's your religious belief or some shit to not drink that way they can't bother you since it's protected legally. If they still annoy you snitch to HR, that will definitely get them to fuck off

No. 994591

>>994582
just say you have "alcosmia" and alcohol makes your hands swell. or say your family has a history of liver issues so you'd rather play it safe

No. 994594

>>994582
You could always make up an ongoing minor illness like bladder issues, stomach acid etc.. lots of things like that put alcohol off the table full stop

No. 994599

>>994582
Just say you don't drink and offer no further explanation. You don't wanna become the office's gossip

No. 994616

>>994599
i dont drink either and this doesnt stop people

they get super pushy when you dont give a reason and keep offering you drinks. because they're alcoholics and they feel invalidated when everyone around them doesnt act like drinking is fucking awesome.

and yea original anon you shouldnt tell anyone, im sorry you have to deal with this at work especially but because its in a professional context you have to keep that in mind. just keep not giving a reason, keep saying no. if someone gets pushy with you and they're your peer you can say something like "i've already answered this three times, stop asking me." if they are your superior though you just have to keep politely refusing and pretending that person isnt doing anything wrong. its bullshit and im sorry.

No. 994641

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>>994582
Make up something, say it triggers your acid reflux

No. 994668

>>994616
Ayrt and I don't drink either and this is exactly how I deal with it. Just don't take shit from people, don't sit there and hope they won't ask you why. I change subjects to make clear I won't offer them an explanation, you've got to be assertive about it.

No. 994679

it is just me or there has been an influx of pseudo intellectuals from moid websites recently? I am tired of all the race sperging and moid defending buffoonery that's going on, are they some winter vacation fags?? I just wanna talk about grimes being cringe not the ethics of modern capitalism on the celebricows thread

No. 994682

>>993870
it depends if they happen to be overly sensitive or if you're the one who seems distant/cold or even mean. either way it's a misinterpretation and you need to communicate why you act the way you do. for example, i don't talk a lot because i'm shy; i ignored your message because i was busy/forgot to reply; i may sound mean because i value honesty. it sounds a bit autistic but i'm not exactly sure what you mean so i kind of assumed that'd be the case.

No. 994721

>>994582
In addition to what other anons have said, another option is just telling them you're allergic to it. I kind of am and tell people this and they tend to immediately back off. I don't even say what kind of reaction I get but most people assume the worst and leave it alone.

No. 994724

>>994582
As a fellow recovering alcoholic (and ex-junkie), I wouldn't. Like >>994587 said you're opening yourself up to harassment. I've discovered that the same people who would chide you for being an alcoholic will also mock you for being "weak" and "no fun". Just tell people you don't drink and don't expand on that. If you really wanna give people a reason then just say it makes you ill or something like some anons here have recommended. Personally I don't tell anyone I'm not good friends with that I'm in recovery. I've learnt the hard way that it's not good to trust most people with that information. Good luck, anon! Keep on keeping on.

No. 994725

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>>994679
The biggest spergers who claim they're being logical and non emotional.. as they spam the same shit opinion over and over again.. I've noticed it

No. 994772

>>994616
I don't drink and I have to deal with the same issue. People won't take no for an answer and can't understand why someone wouldn't want to drink. I don't care that it's just a glass of wine or a shandy I don't want to fucking drink it. If people keep pressing me to drink, I get up and leave.

>>994679
I've noticed an increase in racebait and someone keeps appearing in threads defending fat people.

No. 994839

i'm not trying to get a self-diagnosis or one from you guys but i experienced extreme panic and started crying when something happened today that remind me of something that happened to me in the past, and it's not the first time. Is this a sign of ptsd?

No. 994842

>>994839
It can be. Do you have heart palpitations and/or shortness of breath when this happens? You should go to a doctor. I have PTSD myself and I was fucking my life up big time until I fully addressed it.

No. 994848

>>994842
This time it wasn't that extreme i just felt so out of control again. But one time it was really extreme cause i saw a person who resembled the person who was involved in the incident and i literally ran away cause i thought he'd see me and follow me and went home. I was so panicked that i was stuttering i, couldn't speak and i ended up having nightmares about it for more than a week about it. Either way i think i need professional help. Thank you, and I'm glad you're doing better.

No. 994850

>>994848
Yeah I'd definitely seek help. I hope things work out for you anon, best of luck. ♥

No. 994873

File: 1639517438995.jpg (120.4 KB, 800x540, hot.jpg)

>>994377
Scroll down for more cake shenanigans >>>/ot/683861

No. 994882

>>994873
It's cute bc he looks like he's blushing and cumming, maybe pissing himself a little too.

No. 994915

When should one worry about bleeding in stool? I'm trying to recover from hypochondria, but yesterday I noticed there was bright red blood in my stool and when I wiped, all I'd see was blood. I calmed myself by reasoning it'd go away. But today, sure enough, I saw it against. It is leaving a long red streak on my stools and again, the blood on the toilet paper. It's worth noting I've had other bowel movements since yesterday with no blood, but I'm hoping it's nothing serious. I'm in zero pain.

No. 994919

I fear that growing up heavily browsing 4chan has turned me into a moid sympathizer and quite anti-feminist internally misogynistic. This is retarded. How do I get started unlearning this bullshit

No. 994920

>>994915
Did pooping hurt? Maybe the poop injured you. Though even wirh my biggest shits it’s never been a stream of blood.

Please get checked out. Even the most serious things can be resolved if caught early on.

No. 994925

>>994915
Hemorrhoids, you have hemorrhoids, you need to eat something that softens your poop rn, drink more water too

No. 994929

>>994915
You have hemorrhoids. Eat some fiber, drink plenty of water, get you some cleansing wipes and preparation H if it's painful. Bloody stools that should concern you are completely black stools that smell extremely foul and different from your normal poops. Blood streaks on your tp is 'rhoids.

No. 994934

>>994919
Stop browsing 4chan, for starters.

No. 994946

>>994919
Had a similar thing happen. I never browse 4chan because I know I would get sucked in and not be able to stop using it. Also the amount of pedophilia on there is upsetting. My ex was a pedo and an avid 4chan user, as were all of his friends. Go figure.

But I got really into watching these men's channels. Some of them are PUAs, some of them are MGTOWs, some of them are right wing or just "redpillers". I had this weird mentality that I had to indulge in the dark side or whatever so that I wouldn't be ignorant, instead of just avoiding things I find upsetting. Stupid mistake. Because you get sucked in and they have so much rhetoric and other bullshit that they repeat over and over that you start to internalize it, even if not at a conscious level.

I had to stop myself from indulging in dark things, or things I find upsetting and just focus on things I'm passionate about. I'm not sure why I'm so drawn to upsetting things, maybe it's like some kind of weird coping mechanism. Idk, that probably didn't help at all. Just thought I'd share my experience. But yeah, the first step is to stop browsing there.

No. 994968

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I feel like my BPD is acting up again now that the holidays are approaching. Can a med/psifag tell if this is common or should I worry?

No. 994982

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can u watch tv at a psych ward or even browse LC? can u use ur phone? do u have to take meds?

No. 994987

>>994982
Ime meds weren't optional, I wasn't totally loopy but they still just made everyone. Checked your mouth. I had my phone for lc. I was in a room with 5 others and down the hall during the day there was TV but shared between about 30 women and some you just didn't want to be near or they'd scream accusations at you

No. 994993


No. 995004

>>994987
That's horrible. How long were you there for?s

No. 995014

>>995004
4 months. I went in voluntarily. I'd had a incident where a housemate (male) attacked me so I went to college the next day all shaken up and not wanting to go home again. I stayed in a hotel that night then the next morning I showed up to college just a wreck with my nerves and no idea what to do next. Staff talked about it being a solution to both issues.

I wasn't expecting it to be that long. I thought if I admitted myself then I'd have more freedom to leave after maybe a couple weeks. I didn't know that's not how it works. I couldn't get trips out in order to look for a new place so in the end I was back in a hotel and near homeless when I got out. A social worker had even visited me on the ward and I told them my housing issue but it didn't result in anything. I was allowed trips to a nearby store but if they caught me going further I'd be in trouble? A weird system where they could easilyy help out mild cases like that with tiny changes but the rules just didn't allow it. Another girl there was the same, homeless, couldn't get out in order to search for options. In limbo for way longer than my 4 months

No. 995021

>>994331
Same I'm so secretive and I hate it because it makes it difficult to talk freely with people. I think people nowadays wont mind my hobbies but it's still ingrained in me that what I like is cringe and embarrassing

No. 995028

>>995014
Is this in Europe?

No. 995035

How does one get obsessively into fandoms? I want the copium that comes with having a husband/waifu or some OC in a fictional world that I daydream about but I haven't been able to dissociate that hard into fictional worlds since I was a kid. I don't get how adults still care about these things. I miss that feeling.

No. 995041

>>995035
i just read a lot of reader-insert scenarios and look at fanart. and usually when i get attached to a character it just happens by accident tbh, after constantly watching/reading the series they're in over time

No. 995078

>>994331
all my life family members and everyone else have made fun of everything I was interested in and acted like it was stupid so yeah, I hide it from them. I even feel embarrassed listening to music by myself sometimes and think like "if my mom/dad/coworkers were here they would think this music was so stupid" it really hinders my enjoyment of things in general.

No. 995090

>>995035
For me finding my husbando was like having a crush on someone irl. When you meet someone you really like you just can't help but daydream about them all the time.

No. 995092

File: 1639539236242.png (271.39 KB, 339x491, 908234.png)

This is a dumb question but how do people let things get this dirty, and not only that, but be so unaware of their filth that they don't see anything wrong with sharing pics of it online. Pic related, saw this on twitter. Do they just not care? How does your laptop even get to this point? Does this person have severe dandruff, what even is that?

No. 995096

>>995092
in my experience: from having a dusty room (dusty house in general really), having the laptop on my bed, picking my nails all the time, and eating by the laptop

No. 995100

>>995092
eating everywhere & not giving a fuck

vid related

No. 995101

Why do I always get insecure about my itty bitty titties whenever I see memes and 4chan screencaps about men wanting to have sex with bigger breasted anons?

No. 995103

>>994968
you may have seasonal affective disorder or winter blues, sorry anon

No. 995106

What's a good Christmas gift for someone who makes resin art?

No. 995120

>>995101
Its not so much that its about your breasts, but about being different. You dislike the idea that you are different from what is desired. Breasts have always been one of those things that is always good to have. Smaller ones tend to be the same as fast fashion, it comes and goes with body fashion. It's just the way it is nona.

No. 995131

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>>995103
Damn I didn't know those were a thing, imma look up how to deal with it.
Thanks for answering nona, here, have a hug

No. 995142

>>995106
More resin, maybe some silicone to make molds? And maybe some pigment powders for cool effects? Depends on what kind of resin art they do

No. 995147

File: 1639545266930.jpeg (15.13 KB, 128x118, CF403E02-F766-4CC1-AE87-BD9DB2…)

what are your favorite torrent sites nonnies

No. 995155

>>995147
piratebay dot org (still working i assure you)
rarbgway
nyaa dot se

would love some recs please drop down here too

No. 995160


No. 995165

>>995131
thank you bby, kiss kiss mwah <3

No. 995166

>>995120
That makes much more sense, thank you nonnie!

No. 995167

For the gay anons here; are you in an age gap with your partner? What’s it like dating an older person? Does old pussy taste tastes/feels different from younger pussy?

I saw this couple in a Snapchat video once and it got me curious

No. 995196

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How does one even talk to children? How do people just talk to children so non-chalantly and come up with things to say to children? and even if you decide to let children do the talking while you listen to them, how do you fake interest in what they're saying? I have a job coming up where i have to deal with children and I'm so afraid I'll be awkward because I've been around children only very few times but that was so long ago I don't remember how I survived the interactions. Maybe they were funny but I don't remember

No. 995208

>>993654
Because she used to keep spamming gore and CP to old threads to bury hers

No. 995209

>>995196
how small of children are we talking? for me personally, toddlers are very easy and fun to talk to because you don't need to carry much of a conversation or make a lot of logical sense, they're usually easily distracted and you can just say weird funny shit to them. tweens wig me out though

No. 995212

>>995167
>Does old pussy taste tastes/feels different from younger pussy?
Older pussy has a faint flavor so it's much easier to eat if the woman isn't having a good day, where as younger pussy for a lot of women is a gamble but it's a lot stronger, like if she hasn't washed for a few days and has a bad diet it tastes horrible, if she just freshly washed and has been eating clean it tastes great. Older pussy would be more substantial since she doesn't have to do constant maintenance and diet to make it taste or smell good

No. 995214

>>995212
do you know the reason for this? do our pussy biomes just chill out over time or what

No. 995219

>>995096
I do all of these things and my laptop never ever gets THAT bad

No. 995221

>>995214
My assumption is that when we're younger a lot of us are busy with work, college, etc and often skip out on showering, eating right or even drinking lots of water and sometimes will leave UTIs or yeast infections untreated simply due to very little time or health insurance costs where as older women usually have a lot of free time and better time management so can shower regularly, see the gyno and treat infections, eat healthy homemade meals, etc

I do know a lot of young millennial and gen z women who are from rich areas who are health nuts can do this since they often don't need to work and can afford to cook healthy meals but I'm just a lesbian in a cheap college so this is just my experience

No. 995222

>>995212
What things should I eat for a nice tasting pussy?
What should I avoid?

No. 995228

>>995222
Depends really, I know girls who are able to eat nothing but burgers and soda for days on end and taste like nothing where as some girls I know will take a few sips of soda and smell bad for a day or so

I don't know what will make it taste good per say since the chicken flavor of pussy tastes more natural and better. I heard cranberry, yogurt, and different fruits can help a lot. Idk why but soda, specifically Dr peppers or cokes tend to be the worst culprit for vaginal odors that aren't related infections

No. 995259

Any Technical Writers here? What is the job like? What do you do in a day? Do you like your job? And what other work could I do with a degree in English?

No. 995266

Someone deleted all of her fanfics of her account. I never followed her, but there was one, which I saved, that's actually pretty good. Should I repost it? I couldn't contact her, but I could delete it if she, or someone related to her, asks me to. I just think that it was pretty nice and want to keep it up.

No. 995270

>>995266
Keep it saved until she gets back go you. If she doesn't get back to you in a week or two, post it anyway!

No. 995280

>>995266
Unless she gives you permission to, I don't think you should repost it. She may have deleted them for a reason, so I think it would be best to just keep it saved for yourself.

No. 995282

File: 1639556868788.jpeg (53.82 KB, 634x634, A695300F-0956-4A25-AC9B-809589…)

Am I the only one who thinks Billie looks really cute here? I don't understand why people don't.

No. 995285

>>995282
I think she's always cute when she's smiling

No. 995344

>>995282
The only thing that throws me off is that I used to work with a couple ladies in their late forties/early fifties with that exact same perm, so I associate that hairstyle with older women

No. 995358

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Can your teeth just hurt while you’re asleep? I woke up this early morning a few minutes before my alarm and my tooth hurt so fucking much that I was about to go take some pills for the pain.
But now it doesn’t hurt at all? I’m biting a bit to figure out wether it could hurt me again or not, but nothing. What the fuck was that?

No. 995364

>>995266
Don't repost it stilly, only attention seekers with no skill/lazy do that. Just keep it for yourself and reread when you want.

No. 995369

>>995358
Your mouth most likely fell open a little some time while you were sleeping and the cool air irritated that tooth by keeping it dry all night. Doesn’t mean much but keep an eye on it just to make sure no cavity is lurking.

No. 995370

>>995282
reminds me of allison from the breakfast club, super cute. i think anons in the celebricow thread are just biased against most of the people posted tbh

No. 995374

>>995364
Disagree, so many ff masterpieces would be lost if someone didn't repost them or share (ie on Google Drive). If anon makes an account just for that, that's fine. Keep circulating the tapes.
The only issue is disrespect toward the fanfic writer, but IDK how it's seen in the community.

No. 995396

>>995358
Some people have an issue where they grind their teeth in their sleep, not sure if you'd only have pain in one tooth from that though

No. 995485

Do people really masturbate to fanfic? I've heard people talk about it but I'm too autistic to tell if it's jokingly or actual femcel behaviour.

No. 995492

>>995485
Yes. I'd read the same passages over and over then saving the orgasm passage for when I cum.

No. 995494

>>995485
How is that femcel? Ever heard of erotic literature? You know, the books written by people that got sexual fantasies that got plots and shit.
I think you might be too autistic, some people would rather read than watch a whole ass on a screen. I guess you will freak out the moment someone starts talking about people masturbating to erotic audios.

No. 995498

>>995374
Hold on I change my stance you just reminded me about the masterpiece fic I read that I forgot to download before it got wiped off the face of the earth.

No. 995503

>>995492
Well, whatever floats your boat, nonny. It's better than watching porn.

>>995494
Any time I've seen smut in fanfic it's almost always badly written. It's hard to imagine anyone could get aroused by it unless they're sexually inexperienced. I can understand people liking erotic literature because at least that's written by professional authors (I presume?) and not some inexperienced young person.

No. 995505

>>995503
Of course there’s shit written in fanfic sites, just like how there are “best sellers” that are a pain in the ass to read.
>if you don’t have sex you can’t write sex scenes
I mean, if people actually followed that advice, most sex scenes would be the length of a paragraph at best. Just like how barely anyone would write about someone getting stabbed or dying.

No. 995515

>>995505
It's not solely the lack of sex, it's the naivety of a lot of fanfic writers. I know that can happen in best sellers too, it's just far more common in fanfic. I didn't mean to sound so judgmental, it's just a foreign concept to me.

No. 995518

>>995503
Anon theres some genuinely good smut out there. I understand it’s easy to be put off by the popular bad stories though, a lot of the time the cringey ones tend to be filled on the first page when you sort by kudos

No. 995536

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>>995503
>>995494
>>995485
>>995492
I'm not like other anons (or humans in general), i get off to nothing, that's right, i don't use porn, fics, audios, hell, i don't even use my imagination, i literally just masturbate and my head is absolutely empty, 0 thoughts. I don't mean to cause jealously in mere mortals like you guys, as i know my ways are way too advanced to most humans. I've seen the Valhalla, I've seen God with my own eyes, and know i don't even require my hands to get off as i mastered supernatural summoning rituals, now when i require it, i just summon ascended light beings beyond any human comprehension that do that job for me.

No. 995541

>>995536
I get off to pics of the singer from jamiroquai. The band has been going for 30 years so young 'jamiroquai guy' compared to him in current day… it's like fapping to 2 different guys, depending on my mood.

No. 995552

>>995536
I did that once and it was good but took forever to get horny enough kek at the very least I’ll need a picture to help me get the mental setting going

No. 995554

>>995536
same. i think about absolutely nothing while i masturbate, it's not even sexual for me, just that orgasming feels good

No. 995556

>>995536
unironically same, but i feel like there are probably a lot of women that do the same thing, they just don't talk about it

No. 995567

>>995541
wtf i thought it was one person. good to know nona, more fap material for me!

No. 995585

File: 1639583468187.jpg (9.76 KB, 300x200, psychotherapy-300x200.jpg)

Do you think I can tell my therapist that I fantasize about dying / committing suicide? I'm not doing anything actively to kill myself, and I feel like I should mention that but if it's already something where she would have to report me somewhere then I'd rather omit it, anyone has any experience with sth similar?

No. 995596

>>995585
No she can't report you, especially if you say you aren't actively looking to harm yourself. I told my doctor just last week that I often wish that I wasn't alive anymore or that I hadn't been born, but couldn't see myself ever going through with that, just that feeling that way was agonizing. This is the first time I'm actually getting any real help because I was honest about how serious my situation was, no one treated me like a crazy person or gave me weird looks, I got genuine care and information. Feeling that way has a big impact on how your live your life and see/treat yourself.

No. 995600

>>995596
You're right, it's best to be open about these things, on a second thought even if being open meant being reported, it's for persons own best interest in the end. I hope you'll continue getting better, thank you anon

No. 995692

Last weekend me and my bf had dinner at the house of a guy we’re both good friends with. That guy has a LOT of roommates (like a dozen), and some of them occasionally entered the kitchen to cook/eat too. At one point, one of his female (important) roommates sat next to my bf at the table we were all eating at. We were talking about how nice the food was when the girl said she had never tasted that meal before. My bf looked at the girl who was sitting next to him and asked her if she wanted a bite. Before she responded he lifted his fork (with some food on it) to her mouth, and she got a big smile and ate it. She said it tasted really good.
A little while later she got some soup from the fridge or something and when she saw my bf look she took the spoon she had been using and fed my bf some soup.

Is it me or is it really fucking weird and inappropriate for my bf and her to feed each other? We don’t know her by the way, we had met her like once before for 20 seconds, and barely spoke during the meal last weekend. The thing that really got to me is how natural and silent the interaction was, it seemed like they had done it a million times before.
I told my bf he should never do that again and he said he won’t, but I wonder if I’m just overreacting.

tl;dr is it strange that my bf and a girl we barely know are comfortable feeding each other bites? Is it ever ok for someone who isn’t you to have that type of interaction with your bf?

No. 995718

>>995692
it's not normal. you only do that with people you are really close to (a gf or wife in a romantic sense, an infant who still needs help with eating or a really close friend) i would have thrown the soup into their faces tbh he seems sus

No. 995719

>>995209
elementary school age, so 6-11/12 years old

No. 995723

>>995692
That is really fucking weird and I would have slapped the fork out of his hand before she took the bite. I'm so sorry anon, what the fuck

No. 995724

>>995692
I think the first one isn’t that weird if your bf is one of those people who doesn’t care about people sharing his cutlery/drinks etc since I have friends like that even thought I find it strange. The second one where she initiated it (and the smile on her face before) are definitely calculative and sly. Be careful she doesn’t try to dm him on IG.

No. 995727

>>995692
it's definitely weird, this doesn't feel right anon. dare i say a red flag. people don't typically share their food/cutlery with strangers and it's common sense not to

No. 995749

>>995692
I on the other hand don't think it's THAT weird, had been living in similar setting before (5 roommates in a relatively small flat), made us close just because of that physical proximity, wouldn't be that weird to just pass the food to someone that wants to try on my own fork or whatever; THIS SAID though, I'd never do that if a partner of one of the roomies was around because I'd be aware it could make the partner uncomfortable. In your case it really feels like she was trying to prove sth to you by this, establish her position, idk

No. 995751

Do any of you anons ever get cravings during your period or is that a meme? Because I always seem to be craving specific things mostly sweets during my weird cycles.

No. 995755

>>995751
I crave violence during mine

No. 995760

>>995751
I'm more likely to binge on sweets, but I don't get weird cravings. I do get stereotypically moody though, although it's gotten less severe as I get older.

No. 995763

>>995751
I either crave sweets or salty stuff.

No. 995780

>>995751
I just want to have sex and/or die, the cravings are usually before my period, but I control them because I’m not a caricature. Sometimes I crave random stuff like seafood or pasta, and sometimes I do want some really, really dark chocolate but I can never find the right one.

No. 995782

>>995751
I get really hungry the day before my period and during it, i feel zero hunger and tend to not eat anything at all. This is random but, if you feel suicidal and not yourself the week before your period, you might have PMMD. It's not normal to feel that way and you should get it checked out.

No. 995783

>>995751
I almost never have cravings but 2 months ago I had an UNGODLY desire for sweet/chocolatey snacks. It was so fucking bizarre because I don’t even enjoy chocolate regularly but it kept nagging me and that was when I truly understood you guys are not fucking joking around when you say you get bad cravings.

No. 995793

>>995755
lol based
>>995751
I used to crave chocolate, but in general, chocolate is my comfort food so idk. At some point I used to want to have sex right there and then too, but it also went away. Now I don't think I have cravings

No. 995794

File: 1639598101691.jpg (59.13 KB, 500x491, tumblr_3002a8ac196b1b3a51a9740…)

Why is everyone on the internet so passive aggressive nowadays? I'm not talking about twitter or imageboards, I'm talking everyone. Normal men and women on every and any platform and no matter the age. Like I don't even use social media that much, but whenever I have to interact with others (buying/selling etc) there's always at least ONE person who isn't even the main one I'm talking to sometimes and they act either super offended or just say unwarranted shit that could had been kept for themselves.

Example: I wanted to print one shirt. I go to a local fb group for people who work on this stuff and I mention "I have a limited budget" because it's true and I didn't want to waste anyone's time. Things go well and a couple of people message me to show me their shirt printing services, but this one fucking moid comments on my public group post and says "WOW, I DIDN'T KNOW THE CLIENT WAS THE ONE WHO PUT PRICES ON THINGS NOW -eyeroll emoji-". Like, who the fuck do you think you are to comment this under my post, with your name on it? Is everyone suddenly a troll did he think they're funny by saying this shit?

This is just one thing though, I really don't type any differently than how I did back in 2013. I'm more used to imageboards being outright psychotic than just normal randos being like this. I never reply back, but I find it so weird how suddenly, everyone is so individualistic, entitled, and feels like a special snowflake when no one is truly unique and there's a dime a dozen of these people. Everyone wants to give their shitty opinion without enough braincells to back it up.

Idk has anyone else noticed this?

No. 995797

>>995794
It's just easier to be an asshole when you don't see the actual face of the person you're being an asshole to.
Our brains are not designed for disembodied interactions. See also road rage.

No. 995802

>>995794
This has been a problem on my twitter in recent years too, and yes it's one of the most congregated social media right now and I'm annoyed at the the randos that don't just keep to themselves.

It's not just passive aggressive, but casual kek meme and "dunking" they do in which it contributes nothing in the conversation. In which I understand internet has cultivated of this culture to be the most obnoxious fuck so that they can gain clout among their peers ("Oh lol look at what this ignorant person issaying!!!" kind of rhetoric).

This is why I stopped having new online friends and just stick to people I already knew, being an open space to invite comments like these just stink up my day.

No. 995804

>>995794
I think it started on twitter before spreading to the rest of the internet, the worst thing you be in genuine, to care about something
you have to "sarcastic" in all things otherwise your considered a dork

No. 995815

>>995794
So I'm not the only one that has noticed. I've been experimenting things like this lately too, but I blamed it on my field being dominated by socially inept and very gross scrotes.

My hot take is that these are mostly scrote zoomers who grew being terminally online and literally have no manners or whatsoever, and a very huge ego and sense of self-importance. You thought millennial men are shit? Wait for the wave of autism, low IQ takes and an ungratified sense of grandeur that's about to be unleashed upon us. I feel for zoomer girls though.

My advice is to ignore and not to engage as long as its a public space were they can twist the discourse to make you look unhinged, or if you've got something to lose. But if its a privy conversation or a small group… Go nuts on them and put them on their place, these little shits should know they won't be able to get away with it forever.

The other day I had to deal with one of those spawns of Satan in a closed group who verbally attacked me for asking a question to another member and I went full savage on him, and told him to shut his fucking tramp in front of all his bros. His only move after that was to block me kek, and one of the other moids even agred with me. They are little bitches who only do this for as long as you allow them. You'll see them almost always attacking women like that and never men because they are ball-less little cunts. Absolutely disgusting.

No. 995820

>>995794
I think internet humor/interactions are just pivoting into people being mean to be funny. I’ve noticed it trying to watch “reviews” on YouTube and half of them are guys swearing nonstop

No. 995825

>>995815
nona you're based, please teach me your ways

No. 995833

>>995815
>Go nuts on them and put them on their place
But how though?

No. 995835

are photos from id/passport the most true to how others see us? im tired of looking like a different person in every photo

No. 995836

>>995835
Not really, it depends on what light they use, how tall the other person is, how good their eyes are, if they love us etc etc etc there's so many factors

ID/Passport photos don't capture all that, they just serve their gobermental purpose

No. 995840

What are the advantages of using a streaming service vs torrenting? Is Netflix worth it?

No. 995844

Where can I read or download the book "Demonic Males" for free? I don't know if this is the right thread to ask it but Im struggling

No. 995847

>>995844
Have you tried libgen.fun?
https://www.reddit.com/r/Piracy/wiki/megathread
try this too

No. 995852

>>995840
besides the obvious like not paying, you get more variety with pirating. there's hardly anything good on netflix

No. 995855

>>995840
with torrenting you have the actual file on your computer and can rewatch it anytime without a suscription or even an internet connection.
suscription-based shit is a scam c the second you stop paaying you have nothing. no matter how much you spent.
when you download you actually own a copy of the file to do with as you please. it's the same for music. subscription-based services are fleecing you

No. 995881

>>995749
Read carefully, neither of them live there!

No. 995882

>>995847
nona I owe you a big kiss on the forehead

No. 995886

>>995840
Netflix is convenient, that's it, and you can use VPN to access extra content. I would share it with somebody to cut cost.

No. 995913

File: 1639607406025.png (1.03 MB, 984x658, lb9SteP.png)

Is sous vide worth it or redditor scam? The meat always looks so fucking pale sous vide

No. 995929

am I a bad person for wanting my crush to break up with their partner? I never tried to interfere or anything, I just have this fantasy and I can't stop fixating on it and waiting. I feel like the thought that one day we can be together is the only thing that keeps me alive

No. 995942

>>995929
I wouldn't say so, especially if you aren't actually interfering in any way. I would say it's a bit worrying because it sounds like you're really putting a lot on the idea of you and your crush being together, which isn't healthy… but also I get that you can't control how you feel. Just don't forget to sometimes balance out reality with the weight of your expectations and fantasies otherwise you'll end up being really disappointed later.

No. 995947

>>995929
Nah as long as you're not trying to ruin it
Infatuation really eats at you especially when you can't have someone

No. 995953

>>995929
You might obsess for a while and then it'll calm down over time. I have an unrealistic crush that I was thinking about non stop a few months ago. I had my fantasies, I let myself daydream. It lost it's intensity. Maybe you just need to ride it out and have your daydreams.

No. 995969

>>994982
Yes we had tv and we would get together to watch the interior decorator reality show on Saturdays
They took your phone at 10 and gave it back at 8
The nurse never checked our mouths to see if we swallowed the meds (so i spit them)
All in all quite dreary

No. 996012

how do i deal with going back to a normal weight as i recover from my eating disorder? it feels like everywhere i turn there are comments on women's bodies and who's skinny and who's fat. i'm almost scared to go back to a bmi of more than 15 after months of being as low as 13 but there's no other way to recover and i can't go back to starving. how do i cope?

No. 996023

>>995929
It’s a bit pathetic at most. Statistically, they’ll break up. Keep an eye on why and how the break up goes.

No. 996030

>>996012
>anachan humblebragging
There’s not some magical way to cope. You just do it. You just sit with the fear and the discomfort until you’re numb to it.

No. 996036

why do people keep tagging “original male/female character” on ao3 when it’s original work? like, no shit?

No. 996052

>>995536
>>995554
>>995556
Same, I'm glad I'm not alone. I don't need to be horny whatsoever in order to have an orgasm, in fact, 90% of the time I want to masturbate it's so I can fall asleep easier. I started masturbating really young too, and obviously at that age I didn't even know what sex was. It was just something that felt good that would make me fall sleep and even in adulthood it's equally non-sexual. I feel bad for people that need to be horny AND be looking at something in order to cum.

No. 996053

>>996030
it's not humblebragging at all but i don't care if you believe me or not. i'd have been called a fat liar if i didn't specify a bmi. save your irritation for the edspergs who are ruining this site.

No. 996061

>>996030
NAYRT, but when anachans mention their low bmi why do people call it humblebragging? Are you jealous? As a person with no eating or body weight/self image issues, hearing someone say theyre as low as 13 bmi sounds miserable. To think theyre flexing is pretty far from my mind. It's like if someone said they were blind and someone told them to stop showing off.

No. 996062

>>995913
That's why you need to sear it afterwards. Sous vide meat is mostly for the amazing texture, but imo not worth waiting two hours for lol. Depends on if you're a ponce or not

No. 996066

>>996052
ngl I treat erotica and my fap material as delicious side dish. It's similar to people who smoke after sex too. It's just an addition to the main course.

okay here's my stupid question how do you handle wrist/arm soreness. There would be times I'd need to use my arms to cum effectively. Vibrator makes me feel good but never go me to orgasm.

No. 996075

>>996061
Nta and I don't think that original anon fits in this category but anachans on lc (and in general) do feel proud about their low bmis and humblebrag here

No. 996082

>>996061
It’s a criteria for anachan to be massive attention whores, why do you think they have numbers all over their bios. They get off on people being like “nooo 13 is sooo low and sickly~~~”
>>996053
Yeah and you’re one of them. Many people talk about their eds here without statfagging.

No. 996179

>>996082
But isn't that obsession with low numbers literally due to their mental illness? This is like saying "I hate when depressed people mope around all day", that's literally the illness.

No. 996215

File: 1639623242254.jpg (217.15 KB, 590x393, LSTR8155.jpg)

Do noise cancelling headphones really work or are they just a meme?
also if they do work which one would you recommend?

No. 996234

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>>996215
No they totally work, it’s physics. They don’t work as well on variable noises like peoples talking, but on steady sounds like AC or the rumble of jet engines they work really well.

No. 996243

>>996234
oh damn I didn't know they had scientific backing, imma invest in some them. Thank you anon!

No. 996246

>>996243
You thought headphones were magic? Bless your heart, nonna.

No. 996249

>>996215
Noise cancelling.. cancel culture has gone too far

No. 996304

File: 1639631771326.jpg (190.97 KB, 735x735, Foundation-Crochet-Stitches-Tr…)

When you're making a chain stitch for a single crochet stitch, how many extra chains should you add? Does it just depend on the project? I've watched multiple tutorials, one says to add one extra chain, another says to add two extra chains, and the other doesn't even mention it.

No. 996315

Was he gay or did he stop liking me? We know it's the latter but still?

No. 996318

>>996315
I could have written this holy shit

No. 996334

>>996179
You’re dumb or. It’s not twitter, no “I’m literally neurodivergent and a minor” card. Depressed people aren’t keeping records on who feels worse and who cuts deeper. Anachans of the olden days just keep their numbers obsession in their diary. Being an histrionic clout demon is not a criteria.

No. 996424

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Why do I want to return to a point in time when I was more insane? I got "better" for a while but it all feels performative. I am an adult with responsibilities and my vision on life isn't as bad as it was when I was younger. But it feels like when I went to college I forced myself out of it, becoming "social" , part of society or whatever.

I don't want to be this anymore. I hate society. Sorry to sound like a meme but I rather be an insane, unhinged woman, and not have to interact with retards IRL anymore than anything. Does anyone else feel like this?

No. 996435

>>996424
Lately, yes. I wish I could somehow retreat into another reality or fantasy world where my ideal dreams came true. And I'm creeping back into insane territory. Becoming self aware was probably the worst decision ever, now I'm stuck with all this crippling adult guilt. I want to be 18 with no self awareness and a hair trigger temper, at least I wrote well and produced good content back then.

No. 996513

Is there a way to see which subreddits a certain user is subscribed to?

No. 996553

Why am I always getting acne on my upper arm by my shoulder??? I shower everyday, I moisturize, I wear different, clean clothes every day, my detergent is no irritating! I'm so frustrated it makes me feel so ugly I can't wear any tshirts because I have literal pimples on my fucking arm.

No. 996592

>>996513
There used to be third party websites that showed where they frequent, but idk if those still exist.

No. 996599

>>996553
Have you tried exfoliating more often in that area?

No. 996614

Is there anything on lolcow about foodie beauty? Im so interested in this Nader saga but I don't really have anywhere online to vent about it and kiwifarms is trash, not even gonna go there.

No. 996615

>>996614
I follow the shitshow through reaction channels and kf and have no idea how she's not plastered all over lc already.

Esp as she's a bad cat owner now lol. I thought the whole 'don't fuck with cats' effect would be the thing to finally get her a thread. Not even the million other things. The moment she said nader kicked her cat and then took that back.. and took him back, I was like here we fucking go.. but nothing.

No. 996621

why am i sleepy very often with my boyfriend? we're in a LDR so idk if it's just the fact that i get in bed while talking to him and i'm very comfortable, or i close my eyes to daydream about us while talking to him, or what

No. 996632

>>996621
Energy vampire

No. 996636


No. 996641

>>996621
The boredom of settling for an ldr?

No. 996642

>>996621
I had this happen too, it was because I felt safe and was finally able to relax instead of being in constant anxiety/survival mode

No. 996682

>>996304
Bumping this question since I posted it so late

No. 996729

I wanna put some art on my wall, preferably original traditional art, but how or where do I find artist that I'll like?

No. 996732

>>996729
Ask friends if they know someone who likes to paint, if you go to a gallery they just make the prices so high for no reason and pocket half the money for themselves and give the rest to the artist at least where I live. If you could ask an artist directly for a painting that would be way cheaper

No. 996737

>>996682
Sorry it seems like none of us knows shit about crocheting anon I hope you find the info you need online somewhere

No. 996740

>>996732
Sorry I'm a cheapskate so I didn't even answer the question you really asked. If you are looking for an artist you like you might find them most easily on facebook or instagram, there are groups on facebook where lots of people post their paintings looking to sell them, you could look on such groups and send them a message, but often they are amateurs, more established painters probably won't be in such groups but they do still have facebook pages

No. 996742

>>996729
see if there are events for local artists in your area and see if anyone's work catches your eye

No. 996746

>>996729
also could check out original paintings on etsy or other online sites. i don't know if shipping would be expensive though

No. 996781

>>996737
It's ok nonna! I wasn't sure how many anons here are into crocheting anyway. I might look on reddit instead, not sure if there are any sites specifically geared towards crochet.

No. 996833

Anyone used Sbenny forum before? Is it sus or chill? I see they have an otome I couldn't find anywhere else but it's locked behind a point system… Giving me flashback of those hardcore chinese sharing forums.

No. 996844

File: 1639678937972.jpg (113.47 KB, 800x533, State-Treasury-Building.jpg)

Has any other eastern-eurofags noticed this tendency about Eastern-Europeans to impress foreigners?

Whenever my fellow eastern-euro colleagues are talking among each other they are relaxed, almost bored but when our English colleagues are present they suddenly perk up and it's as if there was a competition to make them laugh and impress them and things like that.

Has anyone else noticed that? Does this stem from the typical Eastern-European inferiority complex?

No. 996845

File: 1639678950374.jpg (3.93 KB, 275x182, 1639676086200.jpg)

Does anyone else have something or someone they used to like but they now despise and when you see other people trashing it you absolutely agree with them but deep deep down you still feel this tiny twinge of hurt and strong sense of shame? And when you see people praising it even though you disagree you still feel this tiny twinge of happiness deep down because it makes you feel better about your shame?

No. 996849

>>996304
I'm mainly a knitter so take my opinions with a grain of salt but I normally do one extra chain unless the pattern calls for more. I've only seen two+ extra chains in lace border patterns. I could also see doing 2 extra if your yarn is super bulky to give a little extra room for the single crochet row to not start off too tight.

No. 996862

>>996844
wanting to impress Engloids? that's sad

No. 996888

What’s the best version of Phantom of the Opera to watch? Are there any good recordings of the stage musical or should I watch a movie adaptation of it?

No. 996895

>>996888
If you want something stupid-but-fun watch the slasher version with Robert Englund. If you want a glossy, grandiose adaptation with pretty people, then the 2004 version. Haven't seen other adaptations

No. 996902

>>996844
I'm an American who's parents are eastern euros and I speak the language well. When I first went to Europe I noticed a difference to how I was treated before and after they realized I was basically eastern euro too. I think it's just a tendency to romanticize the foreign, especially western European and American. This was more noticeable amongst younger and more educated people. And maybe an inclination to be impressive representation of their country.

No. 996908

>>996849
Thank you so much anon! I don't know much about knitting, but I think it's similar to crochet so I will remember this.

No. 996934

File: 1639682991825.webm (Spoiler Image,1.23 MB, 576x1024, 1619152573174.webm)

does anyone have a higher quality version of vid rel? or at least his tiktok handle?

No. 996946

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Do you have to a virgin to be a nun, or can you become a nun if you’re a non-virgin but sworn to be celibate from here on out?

No. 996957

File: 1639684277344.jpg (40.42 KB, 1073x152, Screenshot_10.jpg)

>>996946
You can become a nun even if you're not virgin. There are married women for example who got their marriage annulled by the church so they could join a monastery

No. 996960

>>996934
majorpectoralis on tt

No. 996961

File: 1639684463287.jpeg (Spoiler Image,153.84 KB, 1280x720, F1E5F6F2-EA40-414D-AA88-3E2699…)

>>996845
I sort of feel this way about Steven Universe. I really enjoyed it in my early teens, and I still have a degree of sentimentality and nostalgia for the show, even though I know that it’s kinda trash, though I dropped the show during one of the hiatuses

No. 996987

>>996961
god that's some punchable face

No. 996992

>>996961
>Steven Universe
>enjoyed it in my early teens
How old are you? It's a real question btw.

No. 996994

>>996992
Someone born 2000 or 2001 would've been 12 or 13 when it came out

No. 997002

Are there any other anons here who don't feel 'accepted' by other women, but are somewhat desperate for it?

No. 997006

>>996994
This is disturbing.

No. 997007

>>997002
i want it but i'm too socially autistic to keep friendships

No. 997008

>>997002
>>997007
funny because i'm scrolling the main page of /ot/ and i spot this, this is exactly how i'm feeling at the moment

No. 997011

File: 1639688859966.gif (6.93 KB, 85x81, E29E5727-07DC-4119-AB3E-B4E704…)

>>997008
I feel you nonnie

No. 997013

People eat while bathing? What if some of the food falls in the butt water?

No. 997020

>>996934
>squishy
I need… to touch…………..

No. 997050

>>997013
You become soup

No. 997051

I want to have sex with more bisexual men. Where do I find them online?

No. 997060

why are 90% of polyamorous people unattractive?

No. 997069

I tend to leave weird notes when I report anons if a rogue mod is reading this post do you guys care what I put in the report? Asking for a friend

No. 997072

What are some badass mythological female names?

No. 997073

>>997060
Polyamorous means: “desperate for an ounce of attention, even if it comes from the deepest bottom of the most deplorable dating Pool ever”

No. 997080

File: 1639702031048.jpeg (36.92 KB, 657x502, 62B0E012-F72B-481C-A5C7-B56471…)

Holy fuck, am I actually retarded?
I tried to help a 7th grader with their math homework (pic related, same material) and had to give up and email the teacher that we’re both lost.
Is it normal to understand this??
If you get this stuff which country are you from?

No. 997082

>>997080
are you having trouble with the vocabulary? The instructions themselves should actually be very helpful to you but the vocab might be unfamiliar and hard to parse if you haven't done math in a while

No. 997087

>>997080
>If you get this stuff which country are you from?
burgerland

No. 997095

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>>997080
order of operations stuff is easy once you memorize it nonnie. I'm from the US, and it's something they just teach by rote when you're 10.

No. 997098

>>997080
I haven't had an algebra class for seven years and I get this– USA here. Just read the instructions. 2(x+4) = 2x+8, yeah? Do the math to get rid of the parenthesis, then do more math to make the equation shorter. 2x and 3x are alike, so combine them. They want you to rearrange them with "like" terms to make it easier for you to see what to combine (you honestly don't have to, but the school would probably want you to show your work).

No. 997100

Is there anywhere I can see stories/videos of men going above and beyond for their wives/gfs? I want to have hope instead of being exposed to how shit men are constantly. I just don't know how to find these things.

No. 997107

How do I stop stuttering like a retard every time I talk to someone I like? Today it happened again, I was not only too quiet while speaking but also stuttering and I repeated one word like three times jfc

No. 997113

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>>997107
Take lots of pauses and enunciate your words. Usually people can hear your volume but they can't decipher what you say. So like kerning to written word, do that with your speech.

No. 997187

How do you upload webm here? I converted a vid into that format but I do not know where to add it here as it is a link and not a file. Thank you.

No. 997194

>>997187
You have to upload the WebM as a file though

No. 997318

File: 1639734769488.gif (494.29 KB, 500x244, B98197C9-B3A1-4E23-933F-C153D0…)

Does anyone else ever feel super disconnected from themselves and the life they live/have lived? I have a really hard time picturing myself from another persons POV, my interests change a lot and I don’t have a lot of hobbies, and I just feel like everyone who looks at me sees a tryhard desperately working to look like something she’s not (that something being a competent, well rounded grown woman). I just feel like I genuinely have no interests, no personality, no standout traits, like I’m just a blank sheet of paper that people either think of indifferently or with disdain because I’m such a desperate faker. I also have a shit memory and have trouble visualising stuff even from the past 3-4 years. Is this usually a sign of any specific mental illness? I’m 21 so right around the age symptoms would make themselves very present. I’ve also suspected that I’m somewhere on the spectrum but my parents have so far refused to help me pay for a diagnosis so I could never say for sure haha.

No. 997376

>>997318
I think that's all normal especially in an age where we are constantly presenting and curating ourselves like a product online, and after we have just had two terminally online years that disappeared like dust.
I can imagine people saying that this means you have some diagnosis or another, but really I think most people under 30 must feel like that now. Plus you're 21 which is a very normal time to feel all of those feelings, don't most people only "find themselves" after a mid life crisis anyway?

No. 997640

>>997318
my younger sister is like this kek… whenever I get her an xmas/bday present related to the last thing I knew she was into, she's got this like "Geez i'm not a kid anymore I don't LIKE that stuff anymore" thing but like… this happens every six months.

Imo, due to constant socialmedia exposure, zoomers feel the need to reinvent themselves as the newest coolest persontype every time there's some new kind of thing to be. It's sad because it isn't even stuff like getting into new bands or different music which would make sense, it's literally just skinwalking whoever they're following on socialmedia in a very superficial way.

My prescription is throw your fucking phone out the fucking window. Stop letting what you see online determine who you think you are, because that isn't really you. If you sever the sway that socialmedia has over you, the real you will vome out.

Go to a library with nothing in your pocket but your library card, and actually just look at random books (instead of searching for what books some retard on socialmedia says to read). Let the real world speak silently to your soul.

No. 997687

how can i stop smiling when i feel nervous or uncomfortable? i don't want people thinking I'm laughing in a serious moment

No. 997693

>>997687
I can’t stop smirking like a fucking retard when I’m uncomfortable. I kinda just let my face go slack when I noticed myself smiling.

No. 997699

How do you get into computing with an economics degree?

I'm in the 3rd year of my econ bachelors and I realized I wish I picked computer science instead (it was actually eating at me for a while). It's obviously too late to do anything so I was just wondering my options. I plan on learning some languages but I don't know if that's enough without the technical details you learn at university. Ideally the aim is softwareEng or a web designer

No. 997709

How often do women go for a radical mastectomy as soon as they're diagnosed with breast cancer? Is it usually a last-ditch thing? Would they even agree to do it that soon, and how likely is it that it won't come back if you get rid of them immediately?

No. 997730

>>997699
Learn a language you like and keep at it until you feel comfortable making stuff.

No. 997744

>>997709
When my mom had it they took everything on that side, lypmh nodes and all to be safe. Scar was more intense than I expected, I was the one caring for it afterwards and they left nothing behind.

Tbh they told her how much needed to be done and she just showed up and had it done. Bit like the chemo… they told her what she needed and it happened. They're the ones to tell you afaik. She got her cancer back 2 years later on her spine because cells must've stayed in her bloodstream. Breast cancer can often come back on the spine or lungs.

No. 997754

What do incels think about women who are in celibacy for religious reasons?

No. 997761

>>997754
probably fetishize and want them to be their tradwives despite probably bringing little or nothing to the table

No. 997766

>>997744
How soon after the diagnosis? Very sorry you and your mom had to go through that nona

No. 997776

>>997754
They want to rape and force them to carry 15 kids

No. 997787

>>997754

They like the virginity but I'm sure those girls would be expected to drop their religious beliefs if they inconvenience the scrote

No. 997798

>>997766
I can't remember tbh, I was a teen when it happened. She had the surgery, chemo rounds, some sort of expensive injections to repress hormones that promote the spread I think?) went through menopause and had radiotherapy aswell. It was an 'aggressive form' of cancer. It wasn't a round tumour, it was a form that was almost flat with tentacles spreading outwards which complicated things. The aggressive form and her delay in addressing symptoms is probably why she took quite so much treatment and still got it back.

The oncologist will know what to do and when to do it

No. 997828

>>997730
Yeah but would employers care if I didn't learn it in detail via a degree compared to other candidates? I don't want it to be a side thing or an accessory on my resume but to be my full time job

No. 997834

>>996553
maybe from washing your hair and the shampoo/water running down your shoulders? also it could be keratosis pilaris which looks similar to acne sometimes. in any case you could use a cleanser with benzoyl peroxide or a product with salicylic acid.

No. 997836

>>997828
Your proficiency in foreign languages can be proven with certificates. For example you can prove you understand English with the TOEIC or TOEFL or other certificates, or your Japanese proficiency with the JLPT, or French with the DELF, etc. Usually they're tests that just prove that you understand a language, not how fluent you are when speaking or writing, but that's usually more than good enough on a resume. If foreign languages are very important for a job, recruiters can just test you during an interview once you've proven your proficiency on your resume. For European languages you can use the A1 to C2 thing to say if you're fluent or not in a language as an estimate, not sure if that's used outside of Europe.

No. 997953

Who the fuck has been reviving all the dead threads lately? They all seem to variations of the "internet"/"online" theme.

No. 997957

>>997953
you're mum

No. 998004

>>997953
What else are you supposed to do if you want to discuss something but the thread already exists? Its nice to have a change of pace on ot

No. 998008

>>998004
Agreed

No. 998041

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What exactly is flirting? Is there an example in a video or something? I've never done it and don't think I've seen anyone else do it. How does someone do it? Is it even supposed to be done? It seems to be expected in dating but I don't get it.

No. 998046

Who is ufo shay anon

No. 998075

Is it okay if I'm legitimately confused by the husbando thread having some anons who fawn over the child rapist character from Shoujo Tsubaki yet the same anons probably get at Moo for her shotacon shit, Shay and Lori for their pedo pandering, troons for doing the same, June for claiming pedophilia is a side kink, etc?

No. 998079

Has anybody successfully gone back to their shitty ex and worked through all the turmoil into something great?

No. 998085

>>998075
It’s kind of dumb to assume that the anons in the husbando threads are the same anons posting in cow threads. There’s a bunch of anons who have admitted to only using the cow boards or only the OT boards.

No. 998109


No. 998112

>>998079
Don't go eat your vomit back up anon, is not worth it.

No. 998115

>>998079
Been there done that anon, and I promise it’s not worth it. If you think breaking up with a shitty guy is bad enough the first time, imagine how it feels not only breaking up while also beating yourself up for wasting your own time and making the same mistake twice. When you take out the trash, do you bring it back into your house after weeks of it sitting in the dumpster? He’s not worth it.

No. 998197

>>998079
I have an issue when it comes to walking away from bad relationships. I'd cling on just because I feared things like settling back into living alone again. In my last relationship I was truly miserable by the end. Still, he broke up with me. While breaking up with me he said something about maybe getting back together in a few years time… it hit me as odd.

I decided that's a level I never want to sink to. We weren't super young or anything. Seemed really inappropriate to be saying goodbye and talking about 'well maybe later tho..' He contacted me months later and while I wasn't back into dating anyone I just pretended I was to get rid of him. The more time spent away from him, the more it sunk in how messed up things were. Could never dive back in. Too much time was already spent ruminating over the bad times, processing how toxic and doomed it was and trying to learn from it.

No. 998218

What websites do you visit on a daily basis? Other than lolcow

No. 998240

Anons who have work phones, do you use them for non-work related stuff?

No. 998241

>>998240
I used to use my bf's work iphone to take pics of flowers on my evening walks

No. 998258

>>998218
A website I read the news on and my uni's website, google, that's all.

No. 998263

>>998218
9anime, myanimelist, 4chan, fark, and reddit

No. 998264

>>998218
Kiwifarms. Yes i am retarded. I just like looking at trainwrecks.

No. 998286

>>998004
Found the necromancer

No. 998290

>>998218
>Kiwifarms for very specific threads like the tranny sideshow thread or the consoomer thread
>twitter, I remade an account at the beginning of the year and I only follow like 40 people so I only see good art on my tl now
>the instagram app when I'm really bored and want to look at pictures of food and cute dogs and cats
>howlongtobeat, I'm keeping track of my backlog of games thanks to it

>>998240
No, I don't even bring it home with me after my shift is over.

No. 998291

>>998286
FFS, it's not necromancy if you have something of value to add and there isn't a newer one – especially on OT, where quality threads go into hibernation all the time. Integrate newfag

No. 998347

This is probably very easily explainable to some and i myself have a few ideas but i just want to ask women specifically: Why do you guys think popular athletes always go for the surgically enhanced insta wannabe models or just generally fame hungry women? i mean everyone can see they're just in for the money so why don't the men? or maybe they do and they actually like women like this because it makes them feel more in power or sum? I'm into soccer and i'm just shocked by how all their gfs and wives look exactly like kylie copycats…

No. 998354

>>998347
my theory is "arm candy" + the type of girl/woman you describe signals very willing to please in various ways

No. 998357

>>998218
youtube and kf to laugh at retards

No. 998360

>>998347
Sometimes they really seem to like the guys, tbh, maybe I’m just naïve, but they just know each other because they’re hanging out at the same spaces and such.
Would you rather get a boyfriend/girlfriend who is a literal who that you barely met at the coffee shop? Or that pretty guy/girl that you constantly see at parties and meetings with your coworkers?
Even if the coffee shop girl/guy is pretty, you just met her/him once, and you might not click with that person after all.
But the model/sportsman/artist that you constantly meet at parties and work is someone you can kind of trust because they’re in the same environment as you are.
And models have to change their appearance all of the time like chameleons because that’s their job, if they don’t like it they can drop it tbh, as far as I know, they have other careers and hobbies that they could easily get into again if they wanted to drop modeling and all that it implies since it’s a scrote made for scrotes kind of career.

No. 998372

Is it normal to still have a changing body ? I’m 18 and 19 soon and I have been waking up with my hips and chest changing shape, getting taller, my skin has been having a zit party where I never used to have acne, and I feel MAD hungry a lot of days but wake up nauseated on others?

I only got a regular period at like 17 and when I went to volunteer to teach kids (11-15) soccer with 20 year olds, the other leader spoke a bit soft to me and told me to join the game with the kids (she didn’t know my age).

I’m not trying to be UwU smol or whatever you passive aggressive farmers think I’m doing. I’m tall and un feminine, it’s just that I feel like my development has come at a different time to others. I used to feel bad about looking less developed and some people pointed it out so I felt worse. But I think I’m experiencing puberty now. Is that weird at my age? Do I have an imbalance or something ?

No. 998378

>>998372
no, not weird at all! i’m about a year older than you anon, although i started pill too around the same age you are. i went from being a complete board in high school to being a skinny fat college student with a D cup. completely normal to get a “second puberty” as we grow into more adult bodies

No. 998379

>>998347
Those are the types of girls who rejected them in highschool so now that they have money it's round 2. Also as someone said, arm candy and status symbol. Most athletes are young and dumb

No. 998382

>>998372
I'm 25 and my body is still changing. The acne has calmed down after 7 long years of a chokehold, foot on face situation and my hips have finally filled out. For the first time ever my stomach is flatter than my chest. Life is good in that regard.

No. 998387

>>998378
Aw, nice! This feels more like the first real puberty as I very recently was very blocky, I mean my body looked like it was from minecraft. I hope that by the time I start college I can go down your path and look like a woman. I hope the pill isn’t necessary though, idk if that is what gave you D cups.
>>998382
In that case, I can’t wait to be 25. You sound so blessed tbh

No. 998390

>>998041
flirting is saying/doing things to attract someone or let them know you're interested in them romantically/sexually, but some people just do it for the thrill without serious intentions. flirting is for example using compliments, pick up lines, figures of speech that could be interpreted in different ways, word plays, sexual innuendos. it's enjoyable because it makes people feel wanted and we like it when people reciprocate our feelings.

No. 998428

why does google feel different from meta or amazon and other similar giants? does anyone else also get completely different 'vibes' from google?

No. 998433

>>998428
Might be because they're less talked about in the media, while you can read about meta and amazon almost weekly

No. 998439

>>998372
Technically puberty finishes in mid 20s bc your hip bones are still expanding and hormones still balancing.

No. 998448

>>998428
Yeah, bc it has dirt on everyone w spying and is basically the new religion.

No. 998455

>>998433
might be it. there's prominently less blatant hate on google, than the other ones

No. 998477

>>998387
Yeah, I'm finally growing into my adult body even though I thought I was done lol. I've fluctuated in weight a lot (around 20-30 pounds cuz former ED chan) and this is the first time I've gained and it went to all the right places the way you'd hope. Still have small boobs but they filled out nicely. I'm also on BC, but I have a IUD because I can't remember to take pills everyday. I was told 30 is when women really start to come together and shine. Not sure why people say women peak as teens/early 20s when it's impossible… You're not done growing yet.

No. 998484

>>998347
Women are a status symbol to most men, it applies to both rich celebs and the average joe.

No. 998526

>>998360
do regular looking people or women just as fit as the athletes not constantly show up at these parties/work?

No. 998539

Are there any gaming PCs that don't look like alien warships?

No. 998550

>>998526
I guess it depends, but again, males are shallow as fuck, might as well let the models use them for clout and money.

No. 998553

>>998539
Don't most people build it themselves from scratch? So you decide how it looks

No. 998555

What is 'divine femenine energy' or 'femenine/female energy'? It seems like it's either a 'girlboss-ified' version of being a good person/woman with decent mental health or just another example of companies convincing women to buy useless shit they don't need so that women can perform femininity (buying jewellery, buying bath bombs)

No. 998558

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>>998555
doubleposting but idc

No. 998559

>>998555
It's bullshit, and you're better off meditating in nature for free if you want to get in touch with "female spiritual energy".

No. 998563

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>>998555
Divine feminine energy YouTube is at best a way for women to accept their femininity as is instead of trying to morph themselves into the masculine ideals of a good person. The more cringey content creators try to make it seem prophetic when it's really just making a productive routine for yourself, being in touch with your emotions, trusting your instincts, etc. For some it's obvious and useless advice, but for women who grew up with a overworked mother who never got to enjoy feminity, and were told that we should be the givers in any relationship with males, or who feel uncomfortable with just leaning back into feminine instincts, it's a completely different perspective.

No. 998620

>>998563
Well that sounds fine. Nice chicken btw.

No. 998623

>>998563
Silkies have a true divine feminine energy

No. 998653

What hobbies do you anons have

No. 998661

>>998653
I think this would go in the random questions thread >>>/ot/854869

No. 998664

>>998620
I looked it up and here is a youtuber going on about how women naturally should submit to the masculine man in a relationship. Ughhhh

No. 998669

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>>998664
That's the thing, some FEMININE ENERGY influencers say
>women should relax and recieve from men, inner strength, bad bitch, read up, generate a side hustle even if you marry rich, etc

And others are
>Uwu trad femininity submission

It's just a hashtag that anybody can twist to their liking to promote themselves and their dumb online coaching program

No. 998673

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>>998669
Are there any divine masculinity propaganda videos telling men they should submit to the feminine person in the relationship? I'd love to see it.

No. 998720

The russians and ukrainians do this thing where they type and end the phrases with ")" sometimes and it's driving me nuts, what the fuck does this means) sometimes they even put many))) and sometimes they go the opposite direction( like what the fuck((( what does this mean?

No. 998725

>>998720
I know right I asked one of them (who used to send me paragraphs upon paragraphs of touhou lore unprompted for some reason but anyway) it means a smile like if you don't want to sound too serious with a full stop you put a right bracket instead of it, to mean that you sound happy

No. 998730

>>998725
Why is russia mutilating the emoticons, I knew shit was bad over there but thats abominable..

No. 998731

>>998720
It's :) and :( just without the "eyes" part! Nothing too deep.

No. 998732

>>996036
probably for exposure

No. 998734

>>998720
) and )) - smile / slight laugh / way to sound more polite

))))))) and/or )))))0))0 - person is being sarcastic / ironic. or just a boomer

No. 998736

>>998730
how do you get
>it's mutilating emoticons
from >>998725's
>used instead of a full stop

No. 998738

>>998720
:) or :))) and :( or :(((

No. 998747

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>>998736
>to sound happy
>)
Also others said it is a mutilated emoticon so I got that right, nice try russian.

No. 998750

>>998734
))))000)0) is synonymous with kaksoispiste de de de de

No. 998752

Today a dear (girl) friend in a groupchat wrote she recieved a random dickpick on insta . She was obviously not happy. She then proceded to send it to us all in the groupchat. I got pissed since the last thing I wanted was to look at this disgusting penis. I got pissed because I think it is extremely hypocritical to send something you were upset about receiveing/seeing to others withouth their consent. I told her this and that she deserves other dicpics since she's so disgusting and unrespecting of other's bundaries and she replied she would make sure to send those pics too. At that point I did permanently exit from the groupchat. Am I overreacting?

No. 998754

>>998752
same anon, also I forgot that this is obviously just playing into the diseased-dick-sending-scrote's fetish/perversion and so obviously so. I told her this too, she never replied anything other than what I wrote in the other post and making fun of my attempts at writing "disgusting" multiple times in the chat after being shocked. She never reached for me in a private chat too.

No. 998755

>>998730
It's not mutilated it's minimalist, I find it cute

No. 998760

>>998563
Women be doing backflips just to cope with existing

No. 998761

>>998752
>>998754
>I think it is extremely hypocritical to send something you were upset about receiving/seeing to others without their consent
You were right about this but
> she deserves other dickpics since she's so disgusting and unrespecting of other's boundaries
you crossed the line here imo by being too confrontational right off the bat (I'm assuming). I would've been pissy too if my friend told me I deserved to be harassed by dickpics.

No. 998762

>>998563
the pigtails are sending me. she's so beautiful…

No. 998765

>>998761
I know but I told her this only after she refused to aknoledge her wrongs and activly trying to ridicule me without replying to my points. just to put in perspective.

No. 998769

If he didn't make you cum/ feel good.. Does you have to include him in your body count?

No. 998770

>>998752
She probably wasn't as unhappy as she claimed if she's willing to save it and show you guys. Your comment was a bit OTT too though kek

There a girl in our uni groupchat who constantly goes on about the "creepy older guys" that hit her IG dms but when you see the screenshots every time she continues to keep their conversation going and remains friendly the whole time despite pretending to hate it.

No. 998773

>>998769
Yeah you still had sex. Don't try to autistically bring your body count lower lol you'll only attract faggots that care about that shit

No. 998775

>>998770
would you be upset if she sent one of this pics to you unprompted?
My reaction isn't even that strange, she knows me very well and even knows what kind of reaction she can get out of me in certain situations as I do know her reaction in others. I really don't think she's upset about it, I think at max she's upset someone called her out on something she did that's not so wOkE

No. 998776

>>998769
Yes, or you would have a lot of virgin mothers, not only Mary.

No. 998779

>>998773
I'm going to pretend I didn't read this

No. 998786

is there a pattern to which threads here get raided?

No. 998788

How do you guys sort out your backlogs? Is there a particular site or just the classic notepad and pen?

No. 998790

>>998779
Desperate

No. 998791

>>998788
Backlogs of what? I keep up with my backlog of video games with howlongtobeat, but if you're talking about something else then idk.

No. 998796

>>998788
I have a folder called backlog and subfolders for movies, tv, music, books etc. When I'm done I either delete or move to another folder.

No. 998801

>>998769
sex is sex but hey I'm all for lying about body count to scrotes

No. 998806

>>998801
mein scrote is aware my count is 75+, I wonder sometimes how things would be if I'd kept that to myself. but living a lie also sucks

No. 998814

>>998791
Yeah games, shows, books, manga, etc

No. 998817

>>998814
Wtf you guys do that?

No. 998818

>>998817
wtf is a backlog?

No. 998822

>>998806
Diff anon but how do you keep count at that point? I think I'm at a lil less than you but tbh… I've no idea. I stopped knowing my number after a handful.

Racked up a bunch during a couple of short enough phases and then I'm sexless for years inbetween. One extreme to another.

No. 998823

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>>998821
smells like scrote larp but ok

No. 998824

>>998822
this year I made a list, so all I know is that it's 75+ but with a significant error margin. makes me kinda sad to look at tbh

No. 998826

When did 'body count' start to mean how many guys you had sex with instead of how many guys you killed

No. 998831

>>998801
If it's lying for sex then sure I guess but lying to a potential partner is pathetic and insecure

No. 998847

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Anons on antidepressants, is it something that you have to take all the time or is it possible to only use them as a crutch when depressive episode comes and then stop?
I'll be asking my psych but that's in few weeks and maybe someone here knows

No. 998849

>>998847
they are supposed to be taken as a crutch and for a limited time period

No. 998852

>>998849
Phew, I completely forgot to ask and started getting stupid thoughts now that I'll be stuck with them forever or something, thank you!

No. 998862

>>998085
There's only 200 unique users on this website, but sure nonna. There's no crossover.

No. 998864

>>998847
I was on one antidepressant and one anti-anxiety for a year and a half before I stopped needing them. SSRI aren't mean to be long-term.

No. 998870

>>998864
unless they are, for you

No. 998881

>>998218
twitter to keep up with my mutuals and GC drama, and flight rising to participate in dragon capitalism

No. 998905

>>998870
Long-term as in the rest of your life, anon. Go type weird elsewhere.

No. 998910

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I'm not a driverfag so I'm asking this question here. What do driverfags think about this…uh…fanart?. I'm genuinely curious, do they think this fanart is specially heinous?

No. 998916

>>998910
Why wouldn’t they like it? Looks just like him!

No. 998927

>>998922
Nonnie, what the fuck, your subconscious is just a random machine that picks random shit to make dreams to clean up the conscious side of your brain. The important thing is that you consciously care about her, wether you dream about her or not, doesn’t mean shit, dreams are just brain movies to fill a void in the night.

No. 998933

>>998922
What?

No. 998947

>>998910
Looks accurate to me.

No. 998953

>>998910
I'm a driverfag and I think it's heinous, but pretty funny

No. 999005

>>998927
Thanks, anon. Sounds dumb to say but it really helped me at the moment. I was having a little moment back there. Hope you have a good night, day, etc.

No. 999110

How do I stop spending money?
-another bpd anon with hectic debt

No. 999113

>>998664
jesus christ go back to FDS or sperg more in the tradthots thread. how do you get triggered by this video when she's not even saying all women have to do this or that, just that feminine people will more than likely naturally want to gravitate toward masculine people and submit to them.

No. 999114

>>999110
what is it that you spend your money on?

No. 999121

>>999113
>Feminine people
Exit troon.

No. 999122

>>999113
You defend this shit? Gross.

No. 999126

why do people blame troonism on communism/socialism when it spreads the fastest in the most capitalist countries in the world?

No. 999128

>>999126
I think the troonism of bored upper class ugly dudes and sad girls are to blame for the push of socialism/communism thinking that it will give them and everyone else in their cult, a bunch of shit to “validate” whatever the fuck that means nowadays their mental illness.

No. 999130

>>999126
I think when people say that they don't mean literal communist governments, they more mean the people in the social sciences who usually subscribe to socialist/Marxist beliefs. There is a ton of overlap between people who are into communism and people who are into gender studies bullshit. Both are "woke".

No. 999132

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>>998664
Me unleashing my divine feminine energy

No. 999135

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Is this a calico cat

No. 999136

>>999135
no, but it's a STUNNING cat. it's a bicolor ginger.

No. 999144

>>999126
Can I just add how ironic it is that these genderclowns claim to be communist when they literally wouldn’t be able to indulge in their troonism without capitalism? You freaks couldn’t have ANY of these plastic surgeries and hormones etc. otherwise. Not to mention that the whole TRActivism is actively promoted and sponsored by powerful capitalists. They should worship capitalism every day of their lives for supporting this degeneracy.

No. 999145

>>999135
pretty booi

No. 999152

>>999144
Trannies are literally a disgrace for both sides, they’re too degenerate for the capitalist side and too consumerist for the communist side.

No. 999156

CP bumppp

No. 999159

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>>998881
i still have my old fr account but i stopped playing in 2016. idk if any of the stuff i have on there is useful to you, but if you want anything (or at least my treasure/gems/festival currency kek) i'd love to give it to you!

No. 999163

Question: Has anyone here unironically been given good advice or learned something new on LC? What was it?

No. 999168

>>999114
Clothes, shoes, electronics, dinners out. Mainly clothes tbh.

No. 999173

>>999159
nta and have no idea what this game is but I want the trilobite, the sand dollar and that dark pinecone

No. 999175

>>999173
I want the treasure chest ooh and that dark pinecone too, why is it so cool, I wonder what it means

No. 999177

For anyone who's this relevant to, isn't there a way to make female gaze heterosexual artwork where your fictional husbando pretty boy is acting horny and aggressive to a female character (possible self insert, she can be given any traits you want) without attracting moid attention? Asking cause a lot of shippers say they prefer MLM art to have their space exclusively for women.

No. 999183

>>999177
You will attract moids wether you like it or not, you could be making a cute little story about adorable snails falling in love and being cutesy, but males will find a way to turn it into something idiotic and coom ridden because something something fragile and toxic masculinity combo something.

No. 999192

>>999163
I have and created a thread to keep track of such things, but forgot to update it and other anons forgot it exists lol. Feel free to take a look, would be very happy if others contributed too!
>>>/ot/764364
I should check my screenshot folder on the phone, I probably have some more good stuff.
>>999177
>>999183
Avoiding making or supporting content that is in line with your sexuality (being into women or men) is fucking retarded. Makes me ashamed of women giving imaginary (by which I mean irrelevant) scrotes power over what they create and consume. Imagine cucking yourself like this and focusing all your energy on fictional scrotes instead. Couldn't be me. I have much more respect for women who actually are into gay romance/erotica because 2 scrotes are hot to them or just interesting.
Weirdly enough, I haven't seen men or troons being interested into actual romances for women (books, manga, otome etc.) which is hilarious despite the claims of ~female soul~. So I don't think that at least heterosexual romance is in danger of being "stolen" or contaminated by 4chan incels. I can imagine it happens more with lesbian content, but scrotes fapping to manga like Love My Life or My Lesbian Experience With Loneliness are a statistical error. Anyway my main point is fuck scrotes, they will fetishize literally anything from your snots to your profession, so you might just as well ignore them and do whatever you want.

No. 999196

>>999110
>>999168
Maybe it'll help if you look at your closet and really note how much clothes and shoes you have, how much you have spend on it, how much of it you really wear on a regular basis and how many wears a year you can get out of a piece if you wear all you have; assuming you have a lot, it's probably little. Do you really want to spend money on clothes again knowing you won't get you money's worth out of it?

If that doesn't help put automated spending limit or saving on your bank account.

No. 999251

File: 1639930813859.jpg (37.1 KB, 612x408, istockphoto-157511880-612x612.…)

Should I buy another gaming laptop/desktop pc or a cheap, simple non-gaming laptop/desktop pc and also a gaming console?

I've had this gaming laptop for several years now and the batteries are close to dead. What I used it for was surfing the web (I keep like 15 tabs open at the same time), watching movies, drawing (it struggled to open Photoshop and overheated whenever it did so I drew mostly in Paint Tool Sai) and gaming. As for games, I played sporadically and my taste is sort of…random I guess? Like I don't always play the latest stuff (I painstakingly managed to play Resi Village on my laptop with abysmal loading time, as well as the other Resi remakes. Also Cyberpunk 2077. Other than remakes and newer titles, I mostly play retro stuff or more simple games like point and click adventure game - Disco Elysium for example).

I'm not tech savvy so I'm not sure - are there cheaper laptops or desktop pcs that are not for gaming but can run Photoshop and Illustrator without a problem? If yes, what in the specifications should I look for? Right now I'm leaning towards buying a cheaper, non gaming thing (either another laptop or a desktop pc - mini pcs look so damn cute and I love how they don't eat up space but not sure about their performance) and buy a console for my gaming needs. Opinions?

No. 999331

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>>999135
No only two colours. Still cute though. This is calico cos it has 3 colours.

No. 999336

From the pov of interior design, does mixing pastel colors with black work? I'm thinking pastel walls, curtains and furniture with occasional black items (lamp, picture frames, etc)

No. 999343

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>>999336
It’s uncommon but it can work nicely if it is well balanced. Based off of your description I think it would be a lot like this photo, with mostly pastels and a splash of black. Don’t mix other neutrals with it, like gray or tan especially. I would stick with cool pastels and pinks, because warm pastels like orange and yellow will look like competing neutrals with the black. Yellow or orange can work as long as it’s still a highly saturated (like, it isn’t at all gray or muted) the pastels should only be muted by white, not gray. I’m not sure if I’m explaining this right, let me know if that’s confusing

No. 999351

>>999251
I'd just get a gaming PC so you can do everything you'd want and not be limited by hardware. That way you can play any games you want, plus you'll have no problem with any creative pursuits as well (drawing, 3D or music if you ever decide to get into it). Most games get ported to PC anyway, and the ones that don't can be easily emulated (since all the exclusives nowadays are on the Switch). Consoles are a huge waste of money, not to mention they perform poorly and graphic output is worse than a good gaming PC. You'll also save money if you know where to download games for free, too.

No. 999362

>>999351
These are some great points, thank you!!

No. 999383

Should I rent a steamcleaner if I suspect that I still have bedbugs after 4 treatments? I had the last treatment in summer. Since then I still get a solitary bite every 2 nights or so, even though the exterminator said he didn't see the signs of bedbugs (although he also confirmed that an old series of bugbites on my legs did look like bedbugs). I noticed I only get these red itchy spots when my blanket reaches down to the floor (where they climb up?

No. 999385

>>999383
Get cimexa (and apply with n95 mask) if you haven’t already!

No. 999390

>>999385
I tried diatomaceous earth and honestly I don't want to try anything powder based anymore, my lungs hurt for weeks after that. Also, really not sure if I could even get cimexa where I live

No. 999403

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>>999251
If portability isn't an issue for you then a desktop will provide more powerful hardware for the money. Keep in mind that if you don't already have a monitor, keyboard and mouse you will need to buy them so you can use a desktop.

The cheapest way to get a decent computer is to either buy a secondhand business laptop or a used business desktop and then make some upgrades yourself. For Photoshop having more RAM will provide more performance than having a powerful CPU or GPU.

No. 999460

>>999177
First person maybe?

No. 999468

>>999403
Nta but I'm curious, what gaming computers to people normally recommend? Or is it something you put together yourself?

No. 999475

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So I just clicked on the source for a wikipedia article for the first time in my life(lol), and it turns out the article misrepresents the source pretty obviously- I was going to edit it myself but for some reason I'm IP banned even though I never even made an account and I'd have to read all of the rules first, which isn't really worth to just correct one simple mistake…
Does any smart nona on here happen to be a wikipedia editor who wants to edit the article for me?

No. 999482

>>999177
maybe do a point-of-view thing? i have some examples but most are osomatsus and mha

No. 999496

>>999495
Stop hiding drugs.

No. 999497

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What are some good places to hide small stuff in your own house? Think those book cut outs and similar stuff. I can take the bottom part out of some storage boxes (basically a doubled bottom) and put flat objects under it without it looking suspicious, and use the pockets in my clothes in my closet. Is there anything else?

No. 999501

>>999497
Hang things in bags inside coats or hoodies in the closet. Put stuff in the pocket of a purse underneath a stack of purses in your closet. Cut a tiny hole in the bottom of your mattress, put it in, sew it back up with white thread

No. 999504

>>999475
I've heard of some unscrupulous people using a browser extension called Windscribe to change their visible IP. Of course I am not suggesting you do that

No. 999509

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>>999497
look up "hide a safe" on amazon or ebay, there's all kinds of hollowed out items to hide shit in

No. 999514

>>999504
B-but I'm still too lazy to learn how to write the article…

No. 999516

>>999497
Inside your mattress (if it has a zipper on the side) or duvet. Pobably not comfortable so for short-term storage. Empty bottles of products (like lotion or shampoo). If you have plants: in the decorative pot (if you don't mind it getting wet like a key or something)

No. 999520

>>999497
for small objects ive heard people pull out the tube of lipstick/lipbalm and put money in or you could put earrings, rings depending on size. mini MnM container for rings, earrings, money, pills. There's cereal boxes in general for a larger item if you didn't mind having a random cereal box under the bed or closet.

No. 999525

Dae get those rhythmic farts where you try to suppress it but you can't and the farts come out the exact rhythm of your steps? Or do I have a weak sphyncter or something?

No. 999533

>>999501
>>999509
>>999516
>>999520
This is great, thanks!

No. 999538

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Would anyone like a tattoo thread in /m/? I think it would be nice to have a thread to post cute tattoo pics and discussing tattoos

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No. 999544

>>999538
that's adorable

No. 999554

>>999538
I love it, but I’m guessing that keeping it looking pretty must be expensive.

No. 999601

How can I stop getting mad at opinions/comments I find on the internet and not feel the need to acshuyally them all the time? I know they are wrong and I can form coherent counterarguments to them in mind, but I still feel so utterly unsatisfied when the person who annoyed me is not "put in their place". Yeah, I have a really trollable personality, I know.

No. 999602

How do I get started with learning animation? Is it possible to animate for a studio without going to art school? What can I expect to earn starting out, is there a significant difference in pay after a few years?

No. 999611

is it gay, bi or straight to masturbate to the thought of a hot women being gangbanged by a group of men but focus on her? i'm bi btw, just wondering which one it is. also >inb4 "scrote"

No. 999631

>>999611
cursed and gay

No. 999639

>>999611
I do that kind of, and I'm straight. I'm self inserting as the woman, she's basically me but in a more pornified body. I think I do this instead of imagining myself directly in part because I've never had sex so it feels weird to imagine myself in that scenario, and in part because growing up the only sexual "activity" I ever had was consuming porn so my imagination just works that way now

No. 999643

>>999601
I don't know how old you are but I used to be more like until I turned 25. Now it's easier to just roll my eyes. If it's really bothering you you should stop looking at websites that trigger those feelings

No. 999699

What's the name for TIFs who are only into cis men? Like autogyngsgkhss but for trans men. They're the less bearable of their kind.

No. 999700

>>999699
Autoandrophiles, i think.

No. 999909

>>999611
if you're bi then it is bi lmao

No. 999914

>>999611
It's pornsick. Porn induced fantasies and fetishes are possible for any sexuality, hence straight men fetishizing TIMs.

No. 999944

Are roman noses and jewish noses the same thing?

No. 999958

How do you differentiate between someone being interested in you romantically or just being friendly?

No. 999960

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>>999482
can I see the examples nonner

No. 999968

Are there lesbian fujos?

No. 999974

What does 'last seen' mean in Teams? It's when you last switched on your computer? Or wrote a message in Teams? Or logged into Teams?

No. 999975

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No. 999987

It's my first time working from home, does anyone here have advice for me? I unfortunately live with my parents.

No. 1000018

>>999987
I have no advice, I fucking loved working from home this summer. Breaks in the comfort of my garden and no commute time? fantastic.

No. 1000022

>>999975
>>999986
Kek sorry, I guess I just tuned it out all the other times

No. 1000036

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is it stupid to buy this bracelet only because i want to replace one just like it i gave away at some point? id never wear it (hence why i donated the 1st), but today i found a crazy old letter addressed to an aunt of mine who died a long time ago, and i guess the bracelet that i used to own came with that letter as a gift. i felt so guilty once i went through my jewelry and realized i didnt have it any more…… but idk if its an entirely stupid idea to replace it since it wont be the original one anyway. im also partially compelled b/c there's a matching pin that came with it which i DO still have, so i want to reunite all the bits (letter included). i think this is stupid expensive but i can afford it i guess

No. 1000050

>>1000036
I wouldn't. It's not the one you gave away and it won't undo giving away the original one so I don't think it'll help with your feelings of guilt. Don't feel guilty about donating it, that way it hopefully ended up with someone who actually wears it.

No. 1000078

>>1000018
The internet is so slow on my work laptop, I think it's because of the software we use, but it's annoying. So everytime everything slows down I'm gonna take a very short break. I deserve it.

No. 1000086

I can't figure out if hair gloss treatments are damaging or not. They are supposed to be semi-permanent, deposit only direct dyes but in practice looking at the ingredients lists many of them contain a small amount of developer or they will claim to not use any bleach or ammonia but have hydrogen peroxide in them (a low level developer). Maybe using a low level developer once isn't bad but semi permanent treatments need to be done more frequently so what gives? Is it bad for you hair or not?

No. 1000094

>>1000086
I know it's reddit but I'd try this question over in /r/HaircareScience/

No. 1000144

I know nothing about computers. If I order one online and I don't like the case its in (e.g flashy colorful gamer case), how hard is it to change it? Do I have to pay attention to anything when I'm looking at new cases for it?

No. 1000164

why does my cat feel the need to poop exactly while i am eating?

No. 1000169

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Am I overreacting to being freaked out over my earrings? I bought some brand new in person from a store, but when I looked at the back of the cardboard thing when I got home I noticed one of the earrings had the needle part out of the tiny hoop where it stays secured. I'm afraid someone tried one on then put it back. It could just be that it was weirdly put in, right? Or do people actually try these on in person???

No. 1000171

>>1000169
Why would it matter if someone tried it on? They’re just earrings.

No. 1000172

>>1000171
Can't you spread something with them?

No. 1000174

>>1000172
Like what, athlete’s ear?

No. 1000175

>>1000169
Yes you're overreacting, just clean and disinfect them if you're that worried or return them and get another pair.

No. 1000176

>>1000169
Disinfect the part that goes in your earlobe with alcohol and you will be fine. Honestly, I think it should be common practice to do that anyways

No. 1000178

>>999403
This application of thermal paste makes my eyes bleed.

No. 1000192

This might be really mean but I am very close with a couple of my female cousins and one of them is a fairly well-off girl who's parents have really kept her treasured and sheltered, so she has the spirit of wanting to help people and stuff and is very kind and open, which is very commendable. Now whenever she hears a tragic story by someone in her uni or anywhere, someone needing financial help, she tells us the whole story in the gc and then asks if we could help said person too and send the message forward, and I'm not well-off financially like that but I feel like a piece of shit trying to lightly reject it or miserably giving some money. What should I do? Oh, btw, it's not like she doesn't help the persons, she does, she just asks me to help too and I feel super guilty. Maybe I should just fork over some cash and not be pissy about it… I won't become destitute.

No. 1000197

Where else can I look for ebook downloads besides Irc? It doesn't have the most recent edition of a book I'm looking for.

No. 1000199

>>1000197
z-lib.org, i can find anything on it from academic books released in 2021 by professors to obscure novels

No. 1000200

I just realized that I'm gonna get my period right before I go to my gyno appointment. I just want to have the pill prescribed. Should I still go?

No. 1000202

>>1000199
Found the book I was looking for on there, thanks!

No. 1000203

>>1000192
I'd just tell her straight up that I'm not in a position to help other people out and to leave me out of it in the future because it feels guilt trippy even if she doesn't mean it. She might feel bad about the guilt trippy comment but it's true and she's got to grow up sometime. If I'm feeling extra cunty, I would link her stories about scammy go-fund-mes and get her to learn to think before giving her money away so easily, kek. I'd rather piss her off/upset her trying to teach her this lesson than have her learn it the hard way, she can save her energy, money and volunteerism spirit for verifiable stories and reputable charities.

No. 1000208

>>1000192
Just be honest and say you're not financially secure enough to be helping out others like that. That's not mean at all and if it comes to any surprise to her, then it's a good thing to burst her bubble. Don't feel guilty, financial well-being is arguably everything in this world and you should 100% prioritize yourself before strangers.

No. 1000225

Why are my nipples so soft? Like, straight up elastic, is that normal?

No. 1000232

>>1000200
If it's just for the pill nothing will be checked, go for it

No. 1000250

>>1000232
Well that's the thing, there was supposed to be an examination too

No. 1000252

Is an external hard drive the same as a USB stick? Just with bigger storage capacity?

No. 1000390

In the bathroom, how many towels do you use? Do you have separate ones for your body, face, hands and butt?

No. 1000395

>>1000390
I have 4. One for my body, hair, hands, and face.

No. 1000399

Can you eat the little fruits from the mistletoe?

No. 1000400

>>1000252
Also bigger in size. It's what you have in your pc (just external) and I think they function slightly different, since externals need heat regulation and make a humming sound when working.

No. 1000410

>>1000252
Hard drives are more reliable especially long term for backing up data and I highly recommend

t. anon with many corrupted USB sticks

No. 1000411

>>1000390
1 for hands that I replace once every 1-2 days, seperate towel for hair because a regular towel causes frizz and one for my body that I throw into the basket after 1 use. I don't have one for my face because I don't dry it, just apply my moisturizer on damp skin.

No. 1000417

>>1000411
What about for washing your face…?

No. 1000419

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how can i bypass this NY times paywall?
this is the article i want to read: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/16/fashion/linda-evangelista-cool-sculpting-lawsuit.html

No. 1000420

>>1000419
I think Ublock Origin has an option to bypass it.

No. 1000422

>>1000419
Copy and paste the url into https://archive.ph/ Works well for any other newsite behind a paywall too.

No. 1000425

>>1000422
>>1000420
thank you so much anons! ♥

No. 1000433

>>1000422
I always do the trick where you stop the page from loading before it completely loads with the paywall, this is so much handier lol

No. 1000449

>>1000433
I tried this and it didn't work at all on my phone… that shit always managed to load itself

No. 1000586

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Please help me nonnies
I took the Mensa test and got a 92 on it (wasn't trying hard) and then took it again and got a 112. Yes I know I'm retarded, that's not my point.
I told my stupid autistic moid friend this and he is now rubbing it in my face that he "was tested for IQ and got 129 bla bla" and getting his girlfriend to take it so they can both be all smarmy and cocky about it to me.
Please nonnnies is there any other tests that measure other forms of intelligence that I can take to make him feel bad about his own stupidity?? I feel like this Mensa test is only good for people who are math-minded.

No. 1000597

>>1000586
>I told my stupid autistic moid friend
>moid friend
every time

No. 1000600

>>1000586
Drop your “friends”.

No. 1000607

>>1000586
The reason IQ stuck around is that it's predictive of success. The test isn't strictly mathematical, it also involved pattern recognition. Sure, there are other kinds of intelligence, but how do you measure them?

No. 1000613

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What is some good anime/graphic novel leasbian smutt? Help me out nonas am horni

No. 1000624

>>1000586
I feel bad for you kek

No. 1000679

>>1000586
yo tell us whats on the mensa test. help a nonnita cheat kek

No. 1000682

why is talking to incels like talking to a retarded stubborn child?

No. 1000684

>>1000682
The only difference is children have potential

No. 1000688

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I wanna download the fractured but whole south park games but don't wanna spend any money what are se good pirating sites that are safe, i don't really trust front page google results where you just add the word torrent at the end. Also can a game like this even run on my crappy old dell laptop or will it commit seppuku

No. 1000692

>>1000192
there are thousands of gofundmes and so much human suffering in the world. like other said, be frank you don't have the money and request she not ask because it reminds you of that fact and is painful. tell her if she wants to raise more money she can do a bake sale or post it on social media instead of directly shaking people down.

No. 1000697

Is it just me or is building your own pc more expensive than straight up buying one now

No. 1000704

>>1000697
I bought mine prebuilt at a great price on Newegg and sent a few moids heads spinning and REEing when I did it, it's an ego thing you can find prebuilts for a great price but they might cheap out on a couple of non-critical parts, which are the only parts I replaced after a year

No. 1000737

>>1000697
Get a used computer and upgrade it? ???????

No. 1000740

>>1000688
Try fitgirl repacks.site, though your ISP might be throttling the connection so use a VPN l

No. 1000786

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am i dumb for thinking that in a female love relationship communication should be far better than a heterosexual relationship

No. 1000809

Has anyone downloaded vita3k? Can't get this shit to open

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No. 1000863

Where do some anons get the idea there are a significant number of lurkers on this site?

No. 1000865

>>999468
Most gaming PC's are self built. You can buy gaming prebuilts but they're generally much more expensive than building it yourself.

https://www.youtube.com/c/GamersNexus/videos
This computer hardware channel recently did a review series on prebuilts and most of them were terrible.

No. 1000868

>>1000786
I don’t think so. Women are more open communicators who are more used to compromise than men. I know lesbian relationships aren’t guaranteed to be perfect but I’ve never heard two women say that talking to their partner is “like speaking to a brick wall” like I’ve heard from gay men and straight couples.

No. 1000869

Is it ok to be a tomboy? That is one that just naturally is and does not seek male approval for having masculine interests

No. 1000877

>>1000869
Anon it's always been fine it's just that now men sexualize it as a NLOG type or something and the t cult is more willing to try turning them into men because they dont fit a cookie cutter image of frilly woman. You're also way more likely to have scrote friends who will have a crush that ultimately ruins the friendship or makes everything awkward.

No. 1000883

what is ostrenga?

No. 1000888

Do you dream mostly in colour or bw?

No. 1000900

>>1000613
Moonlight Garden and What Does the Fox Say are the only ones I've read but they were good Moonlight Garden is my fave and was the hotter of the two imo

No. 1000902

>>1000888
I've never in my life dreamed in black and white, is this a thing?

No. 1000903

>>1000883
Do you mean who? There's Kirsten and Dakota Ostrenga, two old cows. You may know them as Kiki Kannibal and Kotakoti

No. 1000910

>>1000902
Ayrt. I had a b&w dream yesterday night but 99% of the time they're in colour. A most peculiar experience, I must say.

No. 1000912

>>1000902
Yes, and apparently it was a lot more common when black and white tv was a thing

No. 1000914

It took my boyfriend 17 days to grow a full beard(he's the first guy I've been with btw) so are all white people this hairy or something
fuck this is unreal to me, cause it took my father like years to grow the beard my boyfriend grew in less then a month

No. 1000921

Is "scrote" used anywhere but here? If you see someone using the term on their blog, are they outing themselves as farmers?

No. 1000923

>>1000914
They’re from cold climates nonnie they gotta grow fur

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>>1000923
Then why are middle eastern people also just as hairy and why aren't Chinese people just as hairy ?

No. 1000931

>>1000921
It was used a lot on FDS in the beginning too, though I'm not sure if they still do.

No. 1000933

>>1000921

It's used on FDS, r/PinkPill (when it was around - RIP), and Ovarit

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>>1000921
Its spread on tumblr and twitter as well, originally It was confined to GC/Radfem users but I'm seeing more normie women use the term

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No. 1000947

>>1000921
someone asked this same question a while back, and there's an urban dictionary description of the word "scrote" from 2004, so it definitely didn't originate on lolcow. I think it came from 4chan maybe

No. 1000952

>friend
>is in a 2 year relationship
>only met the girl 2 years ago
>got engaged after 1 year
>have been trying for a kid for 1 year

Am I crazy for thinking this seems unhealthy as fuck? They've known each other for 2 years total, never met before and they pretty much also live together too.

I mean I'm happy for him and for both their sake and the future kid I hope they're crazy matches well but that doesn't seem normal at all?

No. 1000954

>>1000250
I've had my period during a gyno exam before and it's fine, they don't care. It's a little embarrassing though.

No. 1000957

>>1000952
It's not that weird if they're not educated. I don't know anyone who has waited more than 5 years to have kids though, so i am going to assume it's fairly normal. Especially in the south where sex education is non existent and women have less of a choice. Like sure in the suburbs she's moving too quickly into the relationship, but the great majority of the world doesn't think it's unusual.

No. 1000958

>>1000957
They're not american, and while neither of them has a degree they're not exactly stupid, which is why I'm finding it so surprising. I'm trying not to judge but moving in with someone and trying for a kid after meeting the person a year ago just seems extreme to me. But then again I'm autist so I can't tell what exactly is normal

No. 1000959

>>1000144
also, if the graphics card is not integrated, again I can just change it by myself, right?

No. 1000961

>>1000958
no, that's definitely retarded. it doesn't mean it's that uncommon though. they're definitely going to be miserable though.

No. 1000965

>>1000192
If you're that close to her just tell her you can't help anyone because you already have to take care of yourself. Wouldnt' she already know about that? Since you're family and all that stuff.

No. 1000974

>>1000952
My friend married her first bf (latebloomer, she was already in her early 20's by then) within 2 years of dating, it's been 6+ years, have 2 kids and they're happy. So I guess it works in some rare cases but I agree it's not normal (or wise). I'm in West Europe for cultural context lol.

No. 1000978

>>1000959
Another tech question: which runs games better: a lot of RAM but a bad graphics card or a good graphics card but not much RAM? Also do we have a tech thread somewhere?

No. 1000983

>>1000144
> how hard is it to change it? Do I have to pay attention to anything when I'm looking at new cases for it?
Cases can be changed yes though building a PC can be a bit tricky for a newb. Just make sure the motherboard is a standard format so that it can fit most regular cases.
>>1000959
>also, if the graphics card is not integrated, again I can just change it by myself, right?
Yes, dedicated graphics cards are replaceable
>>1000978
>which runs games better: a lot of RAM but a bad graphics card or a good graphics card but not much RAM?
The Graphics card is the most important thing for gaming. It has its own RAM (called VRAM or video RAM) but your regular RAM is also important because VRAM is rarely enough. I'd say don't skimp on either for gaming, if possible go for a good GPU with 16Go of RAM, just make sure they're two 8gig sticks instead of a singular 16gig stick (No need for more for most people) You could make do with 8Go for some games but I don't recommend it

No. 1001003

I came across these pronouns in a bio: they/she, what does that mean in that order? also she/they, what does someone mean when (s)he wants to be called she but not her? Like besides the obvious retardesness of pronouns in general but I wanna know what they mean by it at least.

No. 1001013

>>1001003
she is ok with being called either she/her/hers or they/them/theirs.
Also huh i didn't know there were people who actually didn't understand how to use pronouns, i thought everyone was pretending

No. 1001021

>>1001013
I've been too honest, I should have lied like everyone else
nta

No. 1001022

>>999163
Lolcow has helped me be less of a doormat overall, especially towards men. I imagine I'd have stuck in my pickme phase for longer if I hadn't come here.

No. 1001023

>>1001013
oh I see, it's way different from what I thought it meant lol. Thanks!

>i didn't know there were people who actually didn't understand how to use pronouns

I guess it's because I don't really use social media and never saw an explanation about how pronouns work, just the demand that people should.

No. 1001026

>>1000952
It's not your relationship and she doesn't seem like she's being abused so why give a fuck

No. 1001027

>>1000983
Thank you so much for your answers anon!!!!

No. 1001028

If a man reads/has read books by Yukio Mishima, is there a chance he's gay?

No. 1001029

>>1001022
That's great nona!

No. 1001031

>>1001026
God forbid someone cares about a friend

No. 1001042

>>1000947
i am esl and i first heard it in some movie, they were calling an old man scrote.

No. 1001045

>>1001028
No, but there’s a high chance he’s an autist and he’s insufferable. Possibly both.

No. 1001059

Where can I find snailmail friends? If you guys have, where did you find them?

No. 1001065

anyone else here too normal for their autistic friends but too autistic for their normal friends?

No. 1001078

>>1001065
Yes. I am now going to make prolonged eye contact and have stiff body language. I don’t know where this conversation should end so I will continue to breathe semi heavily and stand rigid until you move away.

No. 1001079

>>1001065
Yes and it really really sucks. I wish a had a normal friend circle but normal people can just tell that something's off or they think I'm an arrogant bitch if I don't talk a lot + rbf

No. 1001098

why are emoticons not allowed? ive browsed this site for years and never understood it, especially with very harmless posts

No. 1001134

What do you do if your works company data was hacked? They offered free identify theft insurance shit but what else can I do. I'm seething rn.

No. 1001142

>>1001098
Because it signals your post and makes you stand out, we are supposed to be anonymous

No. 1001156

Dae get cold sores from drinking alcohol?

No. 1001158

Is it easy to secure a job abroad after graduation? I want to be as far way from my family as possible

No. 1001182

>>1001158
That really depends on what citizenship you have and what field you’re going into.

No. 1001195

>>1001142
Funny that like 5 years ago another admin tried to implement them. Lost my shit when I accidentally saw an old thread in /meta/ (already was browsing by them, but I must have missed it). I think it's a good thing that we are not supposed to use emoticons. Very glad that no bans are handed by ironic uwus since I see it as a word (oowoo) meaning a specific outlook, not an emoticon
>>1000935
GOOD.
>>1000947
Interesting, though I think the word must have spread recently, no?
>>1001042
Rec the movie please, nona

No. 1001267

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Why do monogenic obese people always have such tiny dogs? Usually some sort of chihuahua/mix. My ma said it's because they don't need to be taken for walks, but can't that technically be done to any dog? Shayna never walks her big dog, all it "needs" is a small space outside to use the washroom technically. Cruelness aside. These giant fucks having such teensy dogs looks like an accident waiting to happen

No. 1001274

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>>1001267
I always fear for the 1000 lb sisters dog, the big one does not look before she sits down

No. 1001281

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Should I get a canada goose jacket? It would cost roughly 1/4 of my monthly income, but i'm currently working in a high earning country and will move in around 6 months to a lower earning one, so i'm not like richie rich long term.

I've been shit poor until now and want some thing nice and admittedly a bit showy, but is it worth 1k? Like my current winter jacket cost me around 50 euro (which was fancy to me at the time, before I jsut layered up fleeces under a light jacket) and keeps me kind of warm. This would be not only 10, but like 20 times more expensive. It's funny because if I imagine a jacket for 600 I'd think of something outrageously luxurious. Is it worth it at all or can you get the same quality from a no name, maybe nicer looking brand for 200 or so?

I don't think this is relevant for the fashion thread on g because I only care if it looks passibly nice.

No. 1001283

>>1001281
My mother has a black one and she seems really pleased with it, she told me she hasn't regretted it at all. She said it's making an investment in herself, it's a quality made product that will last her a long, long time. She says it keeps her extremely warm. It is a lot of money, though! I couldn't see my own self spending that much, but I can barely pay more than 15 dollars for a shirt.

No. 1001290

>>1001281
The quality has gone down a lot in recent years, apparently. Make sure you go in store, check the seams, stuffing, material type, etc.

No. 1001307

>>1001281
No, that’s stupid, you’re not going on expeditions to Antarctica, why would you need a coat like that?

No. 1001331

I want to send my penpal who lives in the Netherlands a holiday gift. Is there some kind of Murrica novelty I can send him that he can't obtain as easily over there?

No. 1001335

>>1001307
anon are you aware that coldness is not unique to antarctica

No. 1001336

>>1001267
>My ma said it's because they don't need to be taken for walks, but can't that technically be done to any dog?
No, if you don't exercise large breed dogs and give them lots of stimulation–specifically herding and working dogs–they will become aggressive and destructive. It's true that the same can be said for small toy dogs but they suffer from "little dog syndrome" in that nobody ever takes bad attitude and nipping from something like a chihuahua seriously, and small dogs can only ruin so much. A large dog can destroy your house and kill people. Small dogs are easier to physically control too.

No. 1001347

>>1001331
My friends always liked it when I brought them rice krispy treats when I lived in Yurop. Don't do chocolate.

No. 1001358

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>>1001281
I don't own anything from Canada Goose but I don't think it's worth it. I think you can get a nice warm down coat from elsewhere. If you can order from a Uniqlo, I'd recommend their ultra warm down coat (pic rel), it goes for around $180. Or I'd look at stores that sell outdoorsy gear since they'll most likely have quality warm down coats there too. They probably won't be cheap but probably not as expensive as Canada Goose.

No. 1001359

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No. 1001366

Question to anons: do you have a talent or skill that just naturally comes to you? Could be anything extremely ridiculous and niche that comes to mind

No. 1001370

>>1001281
How about getting a vintage real fur coat for like €50-100 from a thriftstore or an online 2nd hand platform? You know the kind that was made when our grandma was a little girl and made to last with proper care. Idk I don't actually know much about winter coats but that's the first thing that comes to mind on getting a solid, warm wintercoat on a budget.

No. 1001371

>>1001366
This might fit better in the random questions thread nona >>>/ot/854869

No. 1001377

>>1001331
I'm Dutch, we don't have a lot of your American candy/junkfood here, if he likes candy. It'd be easy to send in an enveloppe too. My sister used to hunt down American candy that she saw in vlogs at specialized candy stores kek.

No. 1001382

>>1000586
Just pretend to pass it again and say you got 130

No. 1001383

>>1001366
I think handsewing for me. I have a sewing machine and use it, but I prefer handsewing and find that all my stuff is a lot more neat when I handsew. I'm good at neat tiny stitches. I don't know if it really came naturally or if I'm just patient enough to make my shit look nice, but out of all my other creative/crafty hobbies, my handsewn stuff comes out so nice so easily.

No. 1001388

>>1001336
Thank you for explaining that!

No. 1001400

>>1001042
was it the scooby doo movie where scrappy doo says "you don't have the scrote for this job, pally"

No. 1001412

>>1001281
I'd personally get a Patagonia or an Arcteryx jacket instead.

No. 1001421

>>1001412
Seconding Patagonia

No. 1001424

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How and why did borzois become a thing here? Like I just remember suddenly there was a thread with pictures and paintings of borzois and the 'Things we hate thread' still always has borzois as thread pics

No. 1001437

Thanks everyone. I'll go into a store to try one on but the Patagonia ones look nice. Pickings are bad and expensive in my thrift shops, but I might get lucky.

>>1001307
Actually I was considering going to Svalbard or iceland at some point this year. I'm currently in central europe but will move to northern europe hopefully soon, which can get super cold, so I do think it'll come in handy.

No. 1001439

In box dye instructions they always say to rinse the dye out until the water is clear. Isn't that like…rinsing out the dye itself? Like there's no way he dye is still in my hair if I've been rinsing it for 30 minutes and the water is still dirty

No. 1001444

>>1001424
There was an anon who sperged about hating borzoi and their super long faces. Other anons came in to say it was funny and argue borzoi were pretty dogs. At the same time adam driver anons were going on about how much they love him and they became the driverfags. They got their own thread in m or g and other anons started putting borzoi with driver. It was probably because anons all found driver and borzoi as either ugly or nice looking.
>>1001439
Everyones hair has different levels of porousness so some hair that's rid of pigment like bleached hair will immediately take in the color, unless the hair is so damaged it cant even take in pigment. Essentially you're washing off the outer coating of color that was going to rub off on your skin, clothes, bed, and bleed again in the shower if you didnt wash it clear. When it runs clear that's what your hair has actually accepted into the hair shaft. I will admit myself I've given up on washing clear before and just let it fully wash out the next 1-3 showers.

No. 1001448

>>1001439
Are you rinsing with cold water? If you're rinsing with warm, that's going to keep your hair "open" and will continue to release the dye. Rinsing with cold "seals" your hair (and increases shine)

No. 1001450

>>1001448
Today I learned

No. 1001456

How well do you think you would be able to understand a spoken language if your only means of learning was through reading? Let's say you could read just about any average difficulty book in Japanese, read it with accurate pitch accent/pronunciation in your head, but only heard Japanese spoken in select media here and there. Do you think you would be able to understand spoken japanese at all?

No. 1001458

>>1001444
>There was an anon who sperged about hating borzoi and their super long faces. Other anons came in to say it was funny and argue borzoi were pretty dogs. At the same time adam driver anons were going on about how much they love him and they became the driverfags. They got their own thread in m or g and other anons started putting borzoi with driver. It was probably because anons all found driver and borzoi as either ugly or nice looking.
Love being part of lolcow history. I need to buy my AD figure a borzoi to commemorate that. I will proudly display them to commemorate the anniversary of driverfags and borzoifags being comrades in memes.

No. 1001465

>>1001456
Very limited unless you want to ask people to speak very slowly. Watch movies, live streams, and YouTube videos with jp subtitles on anon.

No. 1001475

>>1001456
I think maybe difficult. I think constant exposure to the language being spoken really trains your ears. When I studied abroad in Japan, compared to when I first got there, by the end my listening got better and it felt surreal. It felt less like words being slurred at me and more like I could hear each individual word/partical being said. Even if someone spoke relatively fast I got good enough to catch enough words to get a grasp on what was being said to me.

No. 1001481

>>1001456
Are you asking about languages in general or Japanese specifically?

No. 1001522

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>>989295
anything?

No. 1001543

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I left to see my family for the holidays a couple weeks ago before concerns about the virus got more serious. I was planning to return in early january but didn't buy my ticket yet. I love my family and I know they're going to recommend that I extend my stay in light of the circumstances. Classes are online again so I technically dont have an urgent reason to go back. The truth is that I wanna go back to spend time with a friend who's moving abroad this year but I feel guilty admitting that to my family. I realize I'm overthinking it but my stupid question is this: what kind of pragmatic reasons can I give them to explain why I'm inconveniencing myself to travel 670km to my tiny shared apartment amid pandemic restrictions?

No. 1001554

What are your opinions on professional porn stars like Riley Reid and Remy Lacroix?

No. 1001556


No. 1001610

>>1001554
Cringe kek
I don't know about the second one.

No. 1001613

if a woman talks about nudity and sex around your boyfriend (while you're there at least) does that mean she is trying to manipulate his scrote brain?

No. 1001682

>>1001613
It's definitely a hard topic to make innocent. What's her relationship to you guys?

No. 1001683

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Are annotations back? sorry for cringe vid

No. 1001691

This is more stupid question than relationship advice but. I may be entering my first ever relationship, before this I've only had ONS and stuff so I've like no idea what a relationship entails. We found eachother on a dating app, met a few times and decided to not see other people and you know, date each other, like delete the app and stuff. So… now we are dating? I mean, what next? What should I do? We are in different colleges so we can't meet everyday. Should I message her in the mornings? What should I even talk about? Movies? Her studies? I have no fucking idea what to do, anons. What do people do in relationships, I don't get it. What do they talk about? Like, is this it? Do I just talk to her once a while about something mundane?
Please help.

No. 1001743

what country are you in and are you expected or forced to wear make-up to work ?
i'm in france and it's never happened to me in either blue nor white collar jobs, if anything my coworkers thought i was being extra

No. 1001764

>>1001743
French here too, when I got my very first office job I tried to put on makeup everyday for the first week and quickly gave up. Nobody gave a shit, and I was only working with women so half of them were using a little bit of makeup and the other half didn't use it at all. Just don't wear sportswear and you should be fine. If you really need to have a specific look because you'll meet a prestigious client ot your CEO just pay attention to your clothes and maybe to your hair as well.

No. 1001767

>>1001691
Do you have friends? Just treat her similarly and talk about the same topics you'd talk to friends about but sprinkle in some lovey dovey shit like "I miss you" or whatever. It depends on what she likes though but personally I love it when my partner messages me good morning and good night.

No. 1001768

This is so weird but ive never seen a western/hollywood movie romance directed towards men. Have you guys ever encountered one?

No. 1001772

>>1001743
Finland, nobody gives a fuck. I could wear a potato sack and nobody would say a damn thing.

No. 1001774

>>1001743
New Zealand, white collar, never expected to wear makeup. The higher level senior women I work with only wear a little, the rest of us would be seen as tryhards if we put on makeup. I fill in my brows and maybe dab on some concealer if I’ve had a rough night or am breaking out but that’s it. Is it really an expectation in other countries that white collar women come to work made up?

No. 1001775

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I want to buy some kind of matching cutesy shit for me and my gf, one pink and one yellow (our fav colors and also my fav combo), lingerie or dresses or something but I’m open to whatever. We’re similar sizes, average/medium. Any suggestions?

No. 1001776

Why are so many Disney movies centered around Latin America and specifically Mexico? Coco, Encanto, arguably Sofia the First too. The animated classics were marketable to everyone because they're based on classic fairytales but these newer ones are only marketable to Latinos in the US.

No. 1001777

Does anyone other poc feel like guys exclusively ignore you in favour for white girls? Its totally dawned on me that most mediocre looking white women in relationships usually only have it because well, theyre white. Obviously this is due to beauty standards catering to them but then after that??? In my experience I find that most poc women are more attractive or pretty on a baseline in comparison.

No. 1001778

>>1001777
No, I'm a nonwhite minority in a white European country and guys are crazy for me.

No. 1001781

>>1001774
I think only Russia and America? I see women whining about it online all the time but irl nobody I know wears makeup unless they work in a makeup shop.

No. 1001782

>>1001776
US audience, US catering. Also, even if its for a certain target doesn't mean other people cant enjoy/relate.

No. 1001784

>>1001768
do shitty romcoms where the ugly male mc ends up with a woman out of his league count?

No. 1001787

I strained my neck while sleeping two nights ago and it still hurts, what can I do to make it heal faster? I honestly thought I'd wake up this morning with less pain than yesterday but no. I've been using a hot water bag to relax the muscles a bit which seems to help during the day.

No. 1001788

>>1001768
Every quirky comedy about a nerdy loser ever

No. 1001808

Are people with swyer syndrom considered intersex males or intersex females?

No. 1001811

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>>1001787
Buy horse balm gel and massage it into areas that hurt. Instant pain relief + helps with healing.

No. 1001816

>>1001743
Serbia and no. You could never wear makeup or you could slather your face in all the makeup, it's completely up to you.

No. 1001836

Would it be weird to put up art nouveau prints in an apartment where otherwise everything has a sort of simple, almost minimal style to it? Would the curvy lines of the prints clash with the straight, clean lines of the furniture?

No. 1001854

>>1001836
I think it would look nice, they're organic lines so it would add the same kind of contrast houseplants would but on a 2 dimensional plane instead

No. 1001868

>>1001775
Stop anon that sounds so cute, I want a gf to wear cutesy stuff with. I feel like accessories like bracelets or earrings or beanies/hats are a cute way to match, or something like flannels

No. 1001880

>>1001787
Ibuprofen, girl! Inflammation like that is exactly what it's for.

No. 1001933

>>1001836
I agree with the other anon, I think it'll add nice contrast to the space!

No. 1002045

Can dogs be autistic?

No. 1002048

>>1002045

Is your dog retarded like Shayna's kek

No. 1002050

Is it weird that the lonelier I become, the more I have fantasies of becoming “bimbofied”? I’d never actually do it but covid has made me so lonely and without human contact, and now I keep daydreaming about what it would be like to get a ton of plastic surgery and just look like a ridiculous sex bomb all day.

>>1002045
I used to know a family who claimed one of their dogs was retarded.

No. 1002052

>>1001933
>>1001854
Thank you guys, I'll go for it!!

No. 1002076

>>1002050
Hmmm, I think it tracks that as you become more isolated, you gravitate towards roles that significantly reduce the complexity of human relations. Therefore, this is not weird. Prob not healthy tho. Maybe try reading some Dostoyevsky to balance things out? I find his stuff to be very nuanced and deals with the complexities of human nature in a very relatable way

No. 1002081

>>1002045
Idk but I do have a retarded cat .

No. 1002107

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Anyone here had any luck selling their own secondhand stuff on Storenvy? Depop, Mercari, and and all the other sites scare me because of scammers and Facebook scares me because I might get robbed/killed.

No. 1002119

>>1002107
I use Depop and have never had any scammer issues

No. 1002146

>>1002119
I'll have to check that out then.

No. 1002157

>>1001768
capeshit

No. 1002193

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Would anyone like a interior decoration / interior design thread to post nice looking rooms?

No. 1002209

>>1002107
yep! i sell on depop, poshmark, and fb and have yet to run into a problem. i would say the odd chance of dealing with someone strange/scammer-like is pretty rare.

No. 1002216

>>1002107
I've bought stuff from all those and the only one I had an issue with was poshmark because one girl misplaced or donated her item, one never contacted me and the order was auto canceled, and another sent me the shoes but the ankle straps were broken so I shipped them back to get my money

No. 1002239

>>1002193
there are already threads like that but they always end up sinking to the bottom of the catalog

No. 1002247

>>1002193
There's something like this in g if you go back enough pages

No. 1002259

How many returns in a row can I do to Amazon before being banned? I need new headphones and want to try different ones until I find the sound I like.

No. 1002261

Sanic is handing out a whole lot of 0's tonight.. what does that actually mean? I've always wondered and here's my excuse to ask about the mysterious 'see you soon'

No. 1002275

I saw an apartment on Craigslist that looked like a really good deal, naturally I was skeptical. All they listed was an email so emailed saying I was interested and asked how I could apply. They replied immediately asking what my email was. I don't get it, I emailed it to them FROM my email, can't they see it? Is this a scam?

No. 1002291

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>>988977
Guys if I take oestrogen as a female woman will I become extra woman? Will I look more like a woman? How would I obtain it if not stealing from an anime fan? Will it make me straight?

No. 1002293

>>1002291
steal it from your menopausal relative

No. 1002296

>>1002293
will i become a milk truck and also become incredibly emotional?

No. 1002297

>>1002291
I'm like 2% sure you'd get cancer

No. 1002301

>>1002275
Craigslist routs all emails thrpugh their own servers, so to them it just looks like it came from "a craigslist user". If you sent an email to the craigslist autogenerated email on the listing at least. They do this to protect users emails and save you from getting spammed or stalked by the people you contact. If you get in touch and trust the lister then you give them your email/other contact when youre ready.

>>1002259
Supposedly its $1000 worth of returns a year per person but its case by case, if you do a bunch in a row you will probably get flagged but maybe not, its kinda random.

You shouldnt do this though cause most returns just get thrown out, especially for something like headphones that touches skin, so its pretty wasteful. You can go to Bestbuy or other electronics store and try on the fancy headphones there maybe, sometimes theyre on display, but then again maybe not since covid. Probably best just to read reviews and look closely at them.

No. 1002433

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How is the MJ musical being made after you know, the controversy with that documentary a few years ago..I mean it got to the point where that one simpsons episode he guest starred in got permanently removed, so it seemed like a big deal if media he was in was getting removed, but now they change their mind? It just seems inconsistent

No. 1002449

Are algorithms named after Al Gore

No. 1002479

23 and 35 is an awful age gap right? I’m told that he assumed I was older but I don’t think that’s true lol

No. 1002484

>>1002479
Men of that age WILL assume you're stupid and will believe anything they say. Stuff like

>My wife and I are separated and she's moving out soon

>I don't have kids teehee

Or if they're the "lone wolf lifelong bachelor" type

>All women my age are old bitches (as if you'll never age too)

>I watch Nick Fuentes but I'm not a white nationalist
>You should feel lucky a guy like me wants to be with you (as if it was his choice to be rejected by his entire generation of women)


If you have access to young, hot, non-jaded guys then go get with them. You can fuck 35 year olds when you're in your 30s.

No. 1002488

>>1002449
never thought of this before and i think you are right

No. 1002495

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>>1002449
No, this is probably a troll question, but algorithm derives from a Persian mathematician named Muhammad ibn Musa al-Khwarizmi from the 700s. He was basically the daddy of modern algebra and other maths stuff. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muhammad_ibn_Musa_al-Khwarizmi

No. 1002516

>>1002449
Go bestow your wisdom on the tinfoil thread, they’ll love it.

No. 1002518

>>1002484
Yes ffs ladies stop dating men who are in their 30s and older when you're in your early twenties, it starts getting weird in the late twenties too. On top of that all of these men will treat you like shit and aren't even actually attracted to you most of the time (thank you r/relationships) and you'll just be a token for them to rub in older women's face about how they're totally pimping with a young girl and older women are shit. When men start acting right in age gaps then hard maybe but men can barely have interracial relationships without using it against other women. Seriously who even dates people out of spite of others?

No. 1002519

Is it just a tinfoil I read somewhere once or is like…official? knowledge??? as in, confirmed, that countries with low birth rates tend to push the production of romance movies and similar media to subtly try to get women intrested in relationships/childen again?

No. 1002520

Do nurses and physicians judge you for being hairy? Ive gone to the ER a couple times and i dont shave. Usually they kinda smirk at my legs and pits. Is it really that weird to be hairy?

No. 1002521

>>1002520
I'm wondering the same lol. Had a similar experience to you, and my friend who's something similar to a nurse tells me there's a lot of cattiness when the patients aren't there lol.

No. 1002524

>>1002521
Everything I’ve heard about nurses boils down to they’re basically awful people.

No. 1002525

>>1002524
Every mean girl I went to school with became a nurse because it literally only takes 6 months, so it makes sense in my mind that a lot of nurses are bitches.

No. 1002526

nonnas im cleaning my bathroom and put draino in the sink and then used some hand sanitizer on my hands and there must've been a tiny bit of draino on them bcus a very quick and strong schemical smell arose and anyways my question is am i gping to die tonight

No. 1002528

>>1002525
samefag draino anon here and blog warning im in nursing school and i used to have gore blogs and was on th e edheiest piece of shit ever as a teen. idk if that counts. also the quickets you can become RN is two year program not 6mo

No. 1002531

>>1002528
I meant LPN programs are obscenely short. And you can go from there to an RN program that’s also “accelerated.” Community college at the small town I’m from offer like a year and a half program to first get your LPN then get the RN.

No. 1002534

>>1002531
yeah i'm in one of those accelerated RN/ADN programs for the two years it normally takes 3 or so. but in all honesty the ones that go LPN before RN and get some experience in hospitals will be better equipped than i will be when i graduate. nursing school is kind of bullshit its pretty well known that 90% of what makes a good nurse is practical experience which also sucks for patients. most students in my program are nice well-meaning girls but niceness doesn't translate to critical thinking necessarily

No. 1002543

not really a stupid question but idk where is best to ask: anyone also have ibs symptoms (constipated, lots of gas, bloated stomach) often and recommend any tips to help or a really good probiotic/prebiotic? something thats on the affordable side would be great!

No. 1002553

>>1002520
pretty much everyone judges women for being hairy, even if they pretend they don't. doesn't have anything to do with medical workers in particular. it's dumb but that's the world we live in. I'd love to stop shaving my legs

No. 1002560

>>1002495
No one cares about old ugly dead dudes

No. 1002564

>>1002543
I got lots of bloating, got better once I ate more fermented stuff and cut out simple grains.

No. 1002575

>>1002524
Nursing is pretty high paying and the schooling is not that hard so it attracts a lot of midwit females. Combine that with the fact that nursing can be a great source of narcissistic supply and you'll get a lot of jerks.

To be fair it's also a tough job that wears at the empathy of even well-meaning people. And if some of the nurses are jerks it can poison the attitude of the whole team.

No. 1002576

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No. 1002580

>>1002564
any fermented recommendations?

No. 1002591

>>1002479
>he assumed I was older but I don’t think that’s true lol
Unless people regularly estimate you to be way older than you are that's bs. I doubt you look like a 30s something at only 23. Always be skeptical of men who won't exclusively date women their own age.

No. 1002609

>>1002580
Kimchi, sauerkraut

No. 1002801

>>1002580
Kefir! The fancy grassfed type

No. 1002899

>>1002801
whats kefir taste like??

No. 1002934

If I draw something scale 1:100 and then digitally scale it up by x2, does that make it scale 1:50?

No. 1002995

>>1002899
like buttermilk but nicer

No. 1003020

>>1002899
Like yoghurt, just slightly more sour

No. 1003238

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Would it be possible to make a thread for sports’ cows? Or are they celebricows? I can’t help but think that there’s some milk in the sports’ scene because there’s this Spanish podcast that has some dudes constantly talking like a bunch of vapid high schoolers, so maybe it could be fun.

No. 1003246

Are there any good pieces of fiction for people who are burnt out and that nihilistic kind of depression? I don’t want to feel this way anymore, I need something inspirational…

No. 1003374

What's the difference between normal lolcow.farm and original.lolcow.farm? I can't see any discernible differences.

No. 1003385


No. 1004205

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Pick one to fuck, one to marry and the rest you kill



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