/ot/ - off-topic

>>624283
Careful next time. Is it expensive? Someone dropped my laptop once and I was furious.

>>629997
It sucks that school is so expensive. I’ve considered going to grad school but I just can’t justify the cost.

I must know what happened with t shirt anon

Girls, I am really upset.
I have those friends that I do not get to see that often - we used to work together until I moved to a different city. They were meant to visit me this weekend. We have discussed it on a Skype call and they seemed excited to come and I was really looking forward to seeing them. I have planned a fun day of museums and sightseeing.
They arrived very early in the morning and I went to pick them up and they were hangover and said that they would rather just sit at home and chill. That was the first thing that I felt sad about, because I thought if you made plans with someone you should not get drunk the day before? But j let it go cause I felt we could just have fun in the house, talking and stuff. They would not talk much and I would be the one carrying the conversation. I let that go too cause of their hangover. But we got home and they just sat down and would not speak. Moreover, they would TEXT EACH OTHER but not talk with me?? Even if I asked a question, I would be met with eye rolling or sighs? Like, trying to have a conversation with them was like pulling teeth. I felt as if hey viewed a visit to my house as torture or unpleasant responsibility.
There were two of them - for the sake of the story let's call them Rachel and Claire. Rachel was the one that was doing the eye rolling and sighing, while Claire was her sidekick just looking at Rachel whenever I would ask her a question, as if she was scared of losing her approval? Rachel would not speak and so Claire, being a chickwnshit, would not speak either.
I held back tears so many times cause at one point those girls were my best friends and their behaviour made me feel as if I was shit to them.
To be even more insulting, whenever my husband came down from his room, their whole attitude changed, they would joke with him and ask him questions. While not even noticing me and treating me like you would treat your mum at 13 years old.
They were also meant to stay overnight but made some excuse to leave the same day, just to make sure that I know they hated it with me.
Fuck me, anons, I thought I am over feeling hurt about friendships (I am in my 30s) but this situation made me feel so betrayed and disappointed. Pls offer support.

>>634650
Jesus, I'm really sorry that happened. Are you gonna ask them what the hell was up with them? They were excited to meet you and suddenly they're acting so rude for seemingly no reason? And anon, you should post it in the new vent thread.
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>>625199
Nice I love Eliot
Alice Quinn too, that bitch is repressed as hell

>>625386
Alice most definitely would be going on the most autistic tirades and wouldn’t stop replying no matter how many times they’ve been shut down

Chloe from My Mad Fat Diary god she would be such a farmer. I can see her frequenting the proana thread

It's between rebecca and paula tbh

>>629962
Man that show was so funny, especially the first two seasons.

>>199517
Try looking at Fanny Rosie for some more mature outfit inspiration on a western girl.

Any Aliexpress stores you farmers recommend?

Can we talk about Toshi for a sec?

She’s some “idol” for all of these clowns in the kawaii community yet she supports Kensuke from Broken Doll and still continues to model for him after he was called out for cheating on his partner, forcefully kissing people when his band played overseas, and sexually harassing women in Japan.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

>>199346
Tokyofashion posts the same shit over and over. I dunno if they are running out of things to photograph or no one is dressing interesting anymore in Japan. A lot of japanese based fashion looks more korean now imo. It's boring

for those saying you run the risk of being cosplay like with pleated skirts in nanchatte seifuku, just wear actual uniforms (without the school logos and stuff unless you really like the badges). The skirts are always long, navy or black or another neutral colour (unless you purposely get a short skirt). I guess that's not nanchatte seifuku anymore though. But it looks good, if you like a very conservative look anyways. Great for office. No one knows. They just see you wearing a nice suit and unique blouses. I love it. China is big on JK uniform fashion, sailor uniforms and more. A lot of them bid on Japanese auction websites and get a lot of good stuff. Anyone else like to collect sets and then wear them? has become a passion of mine. Expensive at times though …

>>629125
I used to work with someone like this and holy shit would he throw a fit if our free catered food didn't appeal to his delicate tastebuds. Our boss would bring in bagels, he'd complain about the cream cheese. We'd get a free lunch from someone, he'd complain about the lettuce. Someone would eat curry for lunch, "nasty shit." Dude would only eat the most basic ham and American cheese sandwiches with fries. He proudly proclaimed the only vegetable he liked was potatoes.

Yes, it's annoying as hell to have to listen to people like this.

>>629161
Theres a big difference here.
Picky eaters will act disgusted at foods other than their list of "acceptable" foods. A lot of the times when they think they're being polite, they're sitting with their arms crossed, looking bored or forced to be there. Or as another anon said, they'll pick at the food to find the small bits they're willing to eat and leave the rest a mangled mess for everyone to look at.
Whether its at a restaurant or a family dinner, unless its food that does your body harm, just eat it? I can't stand sweet potatoes, but if Aunt Gertrude makes her homemade recipe for the first Thanksgiving since Uncle Chuck died, I'm gonna gobble it up because she put effort into it, and I'm with people I care about, and we're all trying to support one another on this occasion.

Like, if someone you care about gave you a giftcard for itunes, but you aren't interested in any music that you can think of off the top of your head, are you just gonna hand it right back to the person and go "Nah you can have it" or are you gonna be like "thank you for the gift!" and make the best that you can with the situation.
If you're deaf then yeah, I think the person would be like "oh shit my bad" but if its just you being picky, you come across like you're better than that.

Maybe that's the problem here. Its really just an effort of keeping up standards. You wouldn't show up to a wedding in tshirt and pajamas, even if that's what you like wearing 95% of the time. Do that 95% of the time! But when you're with others for a semiunusual gathering, just suck up your slight discomforts for 20 minutes or an hour.
That's why the dietary restrictions comparison doesn't work. If the dress code asks for high heels but Beatrice has a bunion, no one should be mad that she's wearing her comfy shoes. If they are that's kinda fucked up

want to be a degenerate and start a tiktok for the hell of it, it's such a zoomer thing for a millennial to do

Grape leaves are so damn good. I could eat 17,000 grape leaves in one sitting and still want more.

>>631728
They're the ladylike equivalent of pickles.

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new thread >>626879

>>605076
>>605106
theres a reason youre anonymoous. you cant do anything better. stay mad at her successs or whatever with your cal arts style XD

>>605106
stay mad u probably got miku binder thomas jefferson style ms anonymous LOL

>>605136
a lot of cartoons have bad anatomy i guess you forgot what an art style or method is. stay obsessed with her i guess. show your amazing art if its better but i highly doubt it. <3

>>610925
THIS BITCH DONT KNOW WHAT AN ART TECHNIQUE IS LOLLLLL everyone point and laugh(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

My ex was into it. Only ever done it with him and only because he wanted it. Kinda miss it tbh, I'm guessing that most masochists even shy away from that type of pain

In elementary school yeah, a boy and I kicked each other in the crotches. He wasn’t really hurt and obviously I wasn’t either. Kind of lame

I had a crush on this boy for like years & once during pe period I kicked a ball & it landed dead ass on his crotch.
He was far the fuck away too so it was totally strange & unfortunate.

>>193350
>on par with childbirth
i swear to god scrotes are retarded. getting kicked in the balls is probably like having a single period cramp. if what you said were true why is CBT a COMMON fetish? i sure don't see women wanting to push out children for pleasure.

>>625796

They’re all the same person, jeez, what’s their deal.

>>621110
i feel you anon. in my head, i should only wear crop tops on occasions where i want to look super cute, so i'm usually only looking for regular length tops. very hard to find regular length tops that are trendy and aren't t shirts these days

Why do people even bother reading fanfiction that isn’t erotic

>>621123
Probably fluff or wish fulfillment

>>621094
America to me only comes before 3rd world countries and China in terms of living. Terrible politics, the people who least deserve it are given a platform.

>>621085
I'd kind of like to live in the countryside in Japan. I think the ecosystem is super interesting and would revel in spring and autumn but then there's the xenophobia, beaurocracy and I don't think I'd like expats who'd move there. I'd also probably end up with an asian dude with a white fetish or a white dude with an asian fetish, equally terrible.

For me I think living in Norway or Sweden is the way to go. I love my own house in a mid sized town where I know everyone on my street and have friends to go to restaurants/on hikes/the opera with and we'd have dinner at each others place and generally have a good time. It feels like a distant dream It sounds like a distant dream from someone living in a scheme in the UK kek

new new thread n'y'all >>621142

>>624987
Yeah they are really handed out without much thought. I was taking effexor for six years before being informed I’d require IP to change to new meds or come off them. Local GPS have given a few people I know mild serotonin syndrome by giving contraindicated combos, and therapy is like an afterthought. Six sessions if you really push for it but otherwise it’s just ~take some antidepressants and seroquel, come back in six weeks for more~

Half the town is on SSNRIs and nobody knows how they work. That’s a fifties sci-fi horror plot.

New thread is ready.

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>>625005
I don't know what kind of mental gymnastics a psychiatrist has to do to convince themselves that they're actually helping anyone by prescribing these drugs. I prefer to believe they're all just money grubbing psychopaths because that honestly just makes more sense to me lmao

>>624886
Every single person in these subs have probably grown up in abusive childhoods and do not have a clear idea of what a healthy relationship looks like.

>>624828
Literally shaknf an cryinf

Mummy I’m scared, do I have to use my brain now?

>Will Prince Andrew ever be arrested?

Imagine being a britbong and giving a shit wtf crimes some old-ass trust fund brat does with his spare time (IE his whole life).

In other news, Vladimir Putin didn't poison on of his political critics well enough.

https://www.npr.org/2020/09/07/910485943/alexei-navalny-putin-critic-who-was-poisoned-is-out-of-coma-and-improving

I'm not American. From an outside perspective it doesn't seem to matter who the president will be cause America is going to keep doing America but I have a feeling Trump is going to get a second term.