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Vent about how parents and/or other family fucked over you/your dreams by making terrible choices for you via neglect, close mindedness, laziness, totally ignoring what you wanted etc and how your coping as an adult.
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>>>/ot/354814 No. 2390538
One of many things my mother did when I was a kid was do nothing when she found out her best friend's teenage son was molesting me. Her reaction when she found out was to scream at me, blame me for going to his room and not telling her (even though I was five years old and had no idea what was happening or the vocabulary to describe it), then never did anything about it. She just got mad at me, interrogated me about why I did even though I had no choice, then stopped talking about it after a few days. Never went to the police because she thought she'd get in trouble because it happened right under her nose when she should have been watching me (she'd be in the kitchen talking to her friend, and I'd be alone in her friend's living room playing the snake game on my mother's Nokia, which is where her friend's son would just pick me up and carry me to his room to nonce me). Never put me in therapy either.
She gave up her friendship with my rapist's mother, but then a few years later (when I was about eight or nine) they reconnected. She at least didn't bring me over to their house the second time around, but she did organise a trip to another city with her friend, and both of them brought their kids, including both me and the one who SA'd me. They did at least tried to keep us apart so I didn't see a whole lot of him during the trip, but I still had to see him. I remember we went to a park near the hotel with a playground and he was just staring at me from across the playground.
When I was 18 I tried to ask her why she reacted how she did but she had a complete meltdown. She accused me of lying, then accused me of guilt tripping her, then told me I need to get over it because it was years ago, then said I shouldn't feel sad because "you're pretty and have nice hair." I never tried to bring it up again.
Something really infuriating is that she acts like she's the best mother who ever existed, and says the reason she never divorced my dad was because she'd rather have me live with my father than have me live with one of her many affair partners because "she can't trust any man." Even though she made me go on holidays with a man who had already assaulted me and did absolutely nothing to help me through it.
No. 2390763
In kindergarten there was a moidlet who became obsessed with me, calling me his wife and saying he was my husband. During recess he led to this area behind a giant shed thing, which was in the center of the yard so still sorta visible. Cant remember what he said but I know nothing serious happened, thank God.
Later when I told mom about this, all she did was scream at and interrogate me, right before bed late at night. She kept swearing and shaming me for not standing up for myself and telling him no, then blamed the woman teacher for not doing more to keep a moid away from me. I remember saying, "mom Im tired I just want to go to sleep" but she wouldnt let me till she was done punishing me for getting preyed upon. Even tho she has no boundaries and is a boymom herself, so how was I to know any better, with her poor excuse of an example?
That same year another moidlet strangled me. I cant remember her exact reaction, but nothing was done, and I dont think I was even believed. The moidlet is now an award winning nurse btw.