/ot/ - off-topic

>>2499787
Don’t worry Nona, only the males are venomous and the venom is not lethal to humans. They technically possess bioluminescence, so they glow under UV light. I don’t know, they just seem magical to me. Like aliens on earth.

>>2499784
God really said, "Yeah, I dunno, whatever." when it came to Platpuses. I love their lil beaks so much.

>>2499787
Yeah, they have a little claw on the back of their front paws that have venom, but like other anon said, they arent deadly to humans. Still don't want to get stung by it.

>>2499623
>>2499645
stuff like this freaks me out, like how girls used to get their periods later and it was also usually painless, i really hate how unnatural human development has become. fuck plastic i hate plastic

>>2499813
is this why perry is turquoise and orange!!!?? blowing my mind nona!

Shafik Bitar died??? I just discovered this because of comments on his channel. He was a poet and wrote song lyrics for Arabic cartoon dubs by Spacetoon/Spacepower mostly.

I've never hated a cow more in my life than Fanny. The most I can say about her without being banned for a-logging is that her level of degeneracy and pickme-ism actually fucking astounds me, I seriously never thought women could be so disgusting. Fanny, if you're reading this, I sincerely hope you take this as a compliment because that just demonstrates how low your fucking life is that this must be your one and only achievement. I always wonder about cow's personal lives and I wonder what her life was like to shape her like this. God I wish I knew what her family dynamics are like and how she interacts with people.. they probably avoid her for her repulsive aura.

>>2500447
who the fuck is fanny

>>2500443
I see it in the face.

>>2500459
Lurk moar

>>2500447
Same, she is one of the least charming cows I've ever seen. Just a pretentious pickme who bends herself into fat pretzels denying it even as she masturbates to women's abuse while seething it wasn't her who endured it. A loathsome waste of cells.

Okay so what email providers are the most secure? Proton's the big deal apparently but a plan B or C?

>>2078297
I have never had social media presence in my entire life and I'm so glad.

>>2493932
ok Angelicaxoxoxo@icloud.com

Not really paranoia but I really hate having to exhaust myself in my blogs looking 'presentable'. If its some anon board here then it doesn't matter, but blogs and forums feel more formal so I have to make sure not to miss details and/or explain details coherently for every fucking post.

>>2500453
i miss real blogs

>>2499876
Nta but why do you assume that she'd hate the woman for aborting? Imo it would be a mercy because blind kids (especially girls and women) have a higher chance of being raped since moids can get away with it. I would never have a blind child and if I did I'd just resign myself to being a helicopter mother for all eternity.

>>2500044
>it never really happens to the well-adjusted, truly in love people
Pregnancy is such a shitty and debilitating condition that I'm convinced a moid who truly love his wife would never want her to go through with it

All injuries fucking suck and are absolutely terrible but truly the worst possible and most traumatizing part of your body to hurt is the inside of your mouth. You’re not able to eat, speak, or drink, or smoke normally, you’re never comfortable no matter how much advils you take you just have to wait for it to heal itself and if it’s especially deep it’s just like you’re living in hell on earth. I’m gonna go jump off a bridge and into a volcano now!

>>2500444
I hope it heals soon nonna, mouth injuries really do suck. I have a compulsion to bite my tongue a lot and rip out the taste buds so I get it.

I have a moid who traumatized me blocked everywhere but today I went and edited the last message I sent him on Discord. I basically added a huge sperg-out text getting everything off my chest. It's cringe and he will probably never see it but fuck it, my soul needed that

>>2500412
I shower everyday not because I want to, at this point it's just a habit. It's just not a habit for you because you don't do it regularly nor do you have a built in association with showering = beginning the day or thinking about your teeth rotting away because you didn't brush them once. I feel like I am more productive in the day when I shower in the morning, it's not completely a hygiene thing for me, granted I have strong body odor and I don't want to wash my sheets too many times. Even when I am tired I will never skip brushing my teeth before bed or skip washing my face at this point. I can't even tell you the last time I skipped either. It's all about forming habits.

>>2498525
That’s not TMI at all it would maybe be TMI if you said you got zits on like your asshole or something nona

>>2500417
>okay once I do something to make "use" of the fact I can get sweaty I should do a workout or do some cleaning first and THEN I'll shower.
>Like no. You can just do it NOW.
Honestly this was a problem I was having without realizing it, like the example is down to a t. Huh. Thanks for making me realise.

>>2499963
Could it be gastroparesis? I was diagnosed with GERD and when omeprazole didn't help, they said it might be gastritis, but it turned out to actually be gastroparesis. I had the nausea after a few bites thing, only thing that helped was burping until the pressure was gone or just giving up and vomiting. There are meds that can help with that if you have it. Whatever it is, I hope you feel better soon nona. GI problems are the worst.

>>2500422
>You have gerd and went to see a doc for nausea that bad and that's all he told you??
He noticed I'm skinny, but mentioned it's not a problem and that he assumes I've always been like that (It's true). Said there's nothing wrong with my weight (Unless I had an ED and I don't).

>In the meantime, prilosec/omeprazole is really effective for GERD and OTC, maybe try that while waiting for a proper examination.
>acid-y burny sensation, or chest pain
I tried prilosec last time, when they found I have GERD, and it actually ended up making me feel worse after awhile. At the time I was getting heart burn and alot of gas, but I stopped the prilosec and just adjusted my diet instead - no more spicy/fried/acidic foods and caffeine/alcohol for awhile. That seemed to help alot more. I haven't had these issues since. It's really only nausea that I'm experiencing right now.

>>2500380
I think a lot of it boils down to a huge amount of the weight being gained is water weight and goes away in the first few months postpartum. That’s why women get so swollen in the second and third trimesters. Also regarding what that other anon said: diastasis recti can be prevented and even if it occurs it usually heals within 6 months-a year. It’s not that big of a deal.

>>2500380
Pregnancy weight does tend to look better than regular weight gain because it accumulates on the breasts and hips, and contrary to what is rattled on niche lolcow, fertility markers like that are generally considered attractive. Exceptions to every rule, of course.

>>2500403
>diastasis recti can be prevented
it cannot. during pregnancy itself, every woman experiences it. when you see people discussing how only x% of women have diastasis recti, they're referring to abdominal separation that's still present AFTER they've given birth

>>2500480
Idk I don't notice a big difference after just 1. A week or so after I gave birth my abdomen started convulsing/contracting and the nurse said it was the muscles coming back together, it was interesting. This is how I learned about "progressive muscle relaxation"

>>2500428
>it accumulates on the breasts and hips
people tell that to impressionable girls to let them think they'll become prettier or more feminine during pregnancy. the same bullshit as how our faces "glow" when it's actually incredibly common to get disgustingly greasy or experience massive acne outbreaks. water weight and increased blood volume are certainly a big part of the gain and that is easier to get rid of. estrogen increases fat retention but believing fat will distribute in the most stereotypically ideal places is wishful thinking. fat goes where it wants to go which can vary between women.

no i ciąg dalszy

>>2500371
I to ma być niby pocieszenie?

>>2500374
I dont understand polish but the dude and the horse look like they're about to have a standoff

>>2500396
Nona the words on that page are english. I agree tho

>>2500409
Wtf…

>>2500048
I'm not one of the anons who replied but your post just came off as pretentious.
Like yeah, 90% of people on this thread have personal websites, we have had many talks on how we selfhost and how we code, we don't post dA-tier on our sites either, etc etc. It felt like going to a supermarket and hearing someone screaming "I buy ingredients and cook my own meals for your information" kek
We all make mistakes though. It would've better if you just mentioned what you have just said about your website.

>>2498658
You're still tardraging over basic grammar? Comical.(baiting)

>>2500094
agree, youre not obligated to give advice and mentor others but it certainly wouldve came off as less pretentious if you just described what you self hosted in the first place and the things you like about it.

>>2496646
I was always under the assumption that the issue with neocities (the reason it gets memed on) was the amount of users that care about aesthetic rather than content ?

>>2500055
Well I'm not an expert on every hosting service but in my experience different hosts are more or less reliable, have better support, and different prices. You would pay for a yearly plan depending on how much space you need for content and visitors, so a small site could use a small plan. Then you renew it. Domains can usually be purchased through the same host or connected through a different one, it's advisable to get protection with that so your information isn't displayed in the database. Domain prices vary but there are some very cheap options. You can also change this yearly or have more than one domain that leads to your site. I think big bames like google buy up every google. domain.

To create the site you create files. Your pages can be coded with extensions and uploaded in the main folder. It takes a day or two and it's online. I think in general your own host gets you a lot more space than a free host, and they cannot just delete your site at random. If you change hosts they can even transfer your site over.

If you really want to try it you can come back with questions and I'll try to help you out.

>>2500094
You're perhaps putting too much thought into it

I am so cooked. Get booted off jobs all the time because all low tier womanjobs are social and I instantly get sick whenever I contact any kids.

>>2468947
I used to do windows restoration, scraping off paint ant filling in the structural gaps and such. But the company went down and ever since that my life have been a downhill ride as well. I had a chance to reenter as furniture colorist, but the way a fumbled that interview is truly tragic, I will never get over it.

>>2459980
I've done a similar job but honestly I dont have much to say, because it is piss easy. As an admin you wont really have any right to do much with folks' complaints, you just delegate and delegate. Dealing with your limited position there is often more frustrating than with clients, since a lot people will look up to you to help them out, but you can't.

>>2459718
Have worked trades as well and moids are not bothersome there. Have worked with mexican tier migrants and local scandies as well. Most men in trades are married, not incels. Migrants were mayhaps too friendly for my autistic taste but there were benefits to it as well, since the work was on site in the buttfuck nowhere, they would ride me to train station for the weekend and share their rich fatty southerner meals with me, so I could save money on food. The locals just generally did not care but in my specific place the boss only ever cheered on women's work lol because it was more detail oriented job and women were better at it.
I just wanna point out in general that working with moids is super chill in a certain sense, because men hate working and they will constantly take random breaks and drag you along to watch tiktoks. All of the ruse about ""hard work"" men do in trades is kinda fake. Also in the modern world it is often the case that men in trades are paradoxically of "intelligentia" class and are well versed in stuff like poetry, philosophy, classical music and cinema which is kinda funny but maybe not surprising considering a lot of digital well-paying jobs are outright immoral.
All in all, both experiences considered, in women only and male only spaces, there is no fundamental difference there. Everything depends very specifically on people involved and their personal characters. But men in trades definitely won't mock you or anything. I have experienced a lot of more creeping and sexism in academia to be honest. The only ones that I have something negative to say about are plumbers. But since they are usually soloists it doesn't matter in terms of career.

>>2459718
I have no experience in trades but if I was 16 again I'd wanna learn a trade instead of going to uni.

Deathly nervous I oversold myself on a pre-interview now that I have to have an interview with the developer

Decided to get into law enforcement, got accepted into the police academy. Looking forward to it, its honestly kinda shit pay compared to the daily work but benefits and overtime work I'm set for the how rough the next few years will be. As a recovering neet, I'm finally getting my shit together.

>>2484857
>>2484862
nta but it's also wine for me. Beer usually makes me too sleepy and I have to pee too much kek Wine just really hits the spot for me!

sitting sideways with a drink while I think…

>>2484857
mojito is my fav

Had half a bottle of sparkling wine in an olive grove with my partner. Feeling great!
>>2466328 same nona!

currently drinking ready made sangria from a 1.5L box, with some cheap brandy added, and ice, I want to forget my uni and my problems

I would absolutely be happy to get drunk right now but I can’t have anything sour or spicy and usually that’s my favorite types of foods and drinks to enjoy. Anynonny who’s drunk I’m jelly of you..