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No. 2439028[Reply]

Previous thread: >>>/ot/2414025

Last thread was pretty uneventful this time around, just…
Kanye melting down and being predatory >>2418215
Sabrina Carpenter asking her 12 year old fans if they’re horny for her >>2416120
Bhad Bhabie receives immense plastic surgery >>2419223
Justin Bieber admiring his wife, but looking disgusting whilst doing so >>2419813
Michelle Trachtenberg dead at 39 >>2420007
Azealia looking dehydrated >>2420966
Gene Hackman, 95, and wife found deceased in their home, after being dead for 9 days >>2421258
Tom Holland flexing hard on all the scrawny moid celebrities >>2421536
Halseys 5th BDSM themed music video over the last decade >>2421920
Sabrina Carpenter performs at the Brit awards >>2426136
Chappell Roan dedicates her award for Intl. Artist of the Year to trannies >>2426409
Megan the Stallion dresses ugly, whats new >>2427110
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No. 2468389

>>2467942
>getting famous off a career she willingly chose makes her a tortured artist
Don't forget being called pretty but not hot

No. 2468522

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Justin Bieber crashing out and posting his baby butt ass naked on instagram

No. 2468547

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Lana’s coming back with new music and it looks like she’s been dissolving her fillers.

No. 2468556

>>2468522
What’s the point of blurring your baby’s face if you’re gonna post them butt ass naked for the whole world to see, the ultimate invasion of privacy. Poor kid.

No. 2468632

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>>2468266
Because what's considered progressive now is not love and commitment but hook ups with as many people as possible


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No. 2311735[Reply]

As the title says.
Post experiences, why you can't stand them and such.
This is NOT about your own disorder, so don't blogpost/vent, there's already a thread for that.
This thread is about mental illness you can't stand in others.
Please refrain from coming in this thread and say stupid shit like "Oh that's why nobody likes me" or "Damn seeing this thread as a [thing] sufferer makes me uncomfortable" because nobody will pity you OR to defend a specific disorder because "[thing] people are actually etc etc" because seeing patterns is not illegal. If your disorder gets posted here, cope and hide the thread, don't be a little bitch.

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No. 2466914

>>2466879
>complaining about normies judging them for their cringe hobbies
I genuinely don't understand this one. Like if they're so bothered about what normies think then they could just find more socially acceptable hobbies? Better yet stop giving a fuck. tbh I think that handwringing too much about such things is a sign that someone isn't autistic tho I might be biased because the sperg I know irl wears medieval shit every day.
The hostility and us-versus-them in that thread is also annoying. I really do think some autists reinforce their own alienation.

No. 2467375

>>2466914
Autists are hypersensitive so yes they'd care actually

No. 2467439

>>2466914
in this day and age you absolutely cannot be cringe and free because someone will take pictures of you doing your own thing and make a spectacle out of it. I've had moids verbally harass and jeer at me and take pictures when I wear lolita outside, I wont let them deter me from my hobby but it certainly affects me. it makes me feel like shit treated like some circus animal when I'm not even wearing anything too outrageous (I wear in classic lolita that can pass off as frumpy modest clothing) I really wish the tiktok ban actually went through so you dont have retarded zoomers and manchildren harassing and recording random people in an attempt to get engagement. speds are highly susceptible of becoming targets

No. 2467445

>>2466914
>The hostility and us-versus-them in that thread is also annoying. I really do think some autists reinforce their own alienation.
I agree. Most anons who post there just want others to reaffirm how bad they have it in my experience. Most actual advice is shouted down if not outright dismissed because they have checkmated themselves into their own suffering. Being a weirdo isn’t a death sentence. I’m saying that as a fellow sped who also knows autists in her life who live healthy and fulfilling lives. Legitimately the only thing preventing them from having that is themselves.

No. 2467517

>>2467439
True, plus AI


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No. 955088[Reply]

Official stalking and snooping thread. I really thought I would be able to find a specified forum devoted to this kind of thing but I couldnt.
What do you watch for? What tips you off? How do you dig deeper. I’d love to share me knowledge and for others to share theirs.
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No. 2467301

>>2466624
well i’ve done this but it was very convoluted and probably illegal.

No. 2467324

>>2467301
go on

No. 2467530

>>2467301
you can't just leave me hanging

No. 2467557

>>2467530
lol it’s literally just breaking into an account that follows them / their own account. of course i’m not going to tell you how to do it though. even tame methods like creating an account imitating someone they know are technically illegal too.

there isn’t any software that can allow you to view a private instagram account, you’d have to have some sort of access. but with any social media, if you’re looking for past information so long as it’s been public before there are always traces somewhere. still, it’s not like you’re going to be able to view their stories or anything. perhaps a skilled hacker could, i don’t know.

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Not much of an active thread but I had my ways of stalking. I found the whereabouts of a young girl's killer and the current location of a person who assaulted my friend so they could arrest her/ finally press charges. Here are some tips for toads and for the nonas with unanswered questions.

>>2466624
It's good to stalk on Instagram if you blocked them first. I know they no longer show posts from your end, but from my experience, the bios that are frequently updated tell you everything you need to know. But try to stalk from a new account and separate device. Your most used device can snitch on you.

>>2460624
Sometimes the people you're stalking are shady too. They will go private and public off and on again because they know they have something to hide or not want to be found all of a sudden. There are apps for Instagram that tells you who unfollowed, blocked, or viewed your profile that people surprisingly use still to this day. Instagram will put your profile on the recommended section if you stalk with your personal account!

The best tips I have learned myself and from cheater/infidelity groups are:

-Spydialer
-Cashapp search for phone numbers
-Prank calling apps for number verifications
-Walmart accounts. Can show ANYTHING and EVERYTHING if you plug in the card numbers, that you ever purchased from Walmart. In store or online, date by date and copy of receipt I believe.
-Pimeyes for catfishes, currently trying to out a con artist with this
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No. 672223[Reply]

For everyone who wants to move on with their life outside of lolcow, aka graduating.
Here is where we thank the website that accompanied us for months or years of our life, and we finally say one last goodbye to never look back. Try to not bring negativity into the thread.
Discuss
>Your favorite lolcows
>What thread you loved the most
>How much time did you spent here
>What are you looking foward in the future
>Would you come here occasionally
>Etc etc etc

Or the reverse, why you would never quit this place. Please don't infight, don't vent, some people are just trying to stop being neets.
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No. 2456865

>>2454083
ddlg and other things that are often cited as acting out trauma are often using that concept as a shield. hack therapists are the only people who support and encourage that kind of trauma induced behavior. real therapists are supposed to help you find healthy coping methods and heal. it's obviously only able to be used as part of a pathology to experience the trauma on your terms to force a sense of control, but that in itself is ignoring the problem and making it worse.(off-topic)

No. 2456867

>>2454083
csa can alters any adults life forever but when they propagate those same pedophiliac tendencies that harmed them then they become contributor's to the same abuse, no matter of csa justifies you consuming child porn drawn or real nor does it justifies those who then pander to pedophilias, theyre only a victim of their circumstances till their underage when they become adults its their responsibility to deal with that trauma and not to become the abuser in turn, not others job to coddle their gross pedo behavior(off-topic)

No. 2456871

>>2454203
Same, I find them revolting and I'm puzzled by ones who claim its coping for their childhood. How would that not trigger you or induce fight or flight in your body. There are certains things that still make me freeze and tremble and I've done every possible thing I can to not react that way. It's like a physical response I have no mental control of. I couldn't imagine simulating child abuse and saying it was for "comfort purposes" wtf I'd rather die(off-topic)

No. 2466995

this place is not good for my mind or soul. my departure has been long overdue. i will attend movie nights sometimes but that is it, it is time i put my focus into something more positive that brings me joy, even if it is lonelier in practice. i know i have the willpower to not mindlessly type lolcow into my browser. i wish you nonnies the best.

No. 2467891

>>2466995
i wish you the best as well. hope to see you around in the moovie nights, i feel the same way about this site and i believe in you


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No. 591108[Reply]

What are some places you have never been to but really want to visit? Which country would you love to go back to? Which place will you never visit again? Have any culture shock stories? Want to share your most surprising travelling experiences? Write about them here!

DISCLAIMER: I am aware that travelling is strongly discouraged during the pandemic, but I thought it would be nice to have a place where we can discuss our past experiences and future plans.
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No. 2461554

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>>2456809
A correct decision, but for the wrong reasons. All their airlines are legally allowed to treat you like cargo, literally. They can refuse you boarding or kick you out when you are seated if the plane is full (overbooking is legal in that 3rd world shithole), they can keep you inside the plane FOR HOURS in case of take-off delays (the way American airports are run is equally 3rd world) and not even give you a free glass of water or a snack (this happened to me). Ryanair is a luxury airline in comparison.

No. 2466610

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>>2445631
https://youtu.be/UhoI-UD_A1w
As long as you’re not looking for a boy toy

No. 2466889

going to japan october 2026 and i literally cannot stop thinking about it because it's been my dream trip since i was a kid. does anyone have any tips for getting rid of this insane hyper focus mode i'm in? i'm sat here watching japan vlogs and writing lists every single day like a madwoman

No. 2466901

>>2466610
female sex tourists arent a thing

No. 2466935

>>2466901
They are but some of those women are also "bought" women who are trafficked. You see alot of moid sexpests who also bring along their pickmes wives


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No. 956747[Reply]

I never saw a thread about it,thought it might be fun to have a thread where we post troons and attention whores criticizing our site
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No. 2466719

>>2466482
I talked to this woman a few times on discord before she's a nice person but very schizo i feel bad for her, she posted her doodles all the time at cc

No. 2466760

>>2466719
are you referring to op or the person who made the henry post?

>>2466482
>>2466485
id be fucking livid if an incelfucker tried to equate my beautiful 2d husbando into something of their tastes, fuck off get away from him! get a job!

No. 2466801

>>2466760
The one who made the tweet and the drawing

No. 2466807

>>2466801
So shes a fucking self poster? Cringe as hell, cant believe i share husbandos with a tard

No. 2466823

>>2466807
I don't think that poster is her, she doesn't care about any silent hill man other than harry mason. I remember her talking about wanting to rape him in the server both of us were in kekkk, she has an entire folder dedicated to him


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No. 2099695[Reply]

A thread to post the cringe of the Hybristophilia(sexual/romantic attraction to serial-killers/murderers) community

reddit.com/r/My_Hybristophilia/
https://web.archive.org/web/20220118130531/https://www.reddit.com/r/Hybristophilia
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No. 2460720

>>2460678
She thinks she's sam hyde

No. 2460822

>>2388900
this is literally a niner edit. foul. i wonder how big the overlap between these retards and tcc is

No. 2464425

>>2460822
a what?

No. 2466486

>>2460678
Can we take a moment to talk about how hideous this fucking makeup is? Put some mascara on the bottom lashes. Even it out girl.

No. 2466718

True Crime Fandom Subreddit
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueCrimeFandom2/top/


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No. 2439481[Reply]

3 months after announcing it, Cerbmin has finally created a poll that will decide the fate of VPN posting on LCF.

You can check and vote in the poll here:
>>>/meta/91498

The Poll can be broken down into two options:
>A VPN ban should happen.
>A VPN ban shouldn't happen.
The former option has four different caveats which take into consideration the ways in which the potential VPN will apply.

Since posting is disabled on the /meta/ thread, I thought it might be useful for anons to use this thread to discuss the poll.

>Share which option you voted for.
>Share why you voted for that option.
>Share your opinions of why a VPN is necessary or not necessary.
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No. 2466628

>>2466623
I invite you to read my post again. You will find that I never said bans are useless, as that was actually your thought that you projected onto me. I actually think that bans are useless when VPNs exist, and I think that a VPN ban will improve the lolcow.farm experience.
>>2466627
Thank you for sharing your opinion.

No. 2466631

>>2466628
Ok, you don’t take them seriously and you wait them out, but you’ve also been banned dozens of times and obviously you keep doing whatever is getting you banned. So clearly they aren’t working to modify your behavior. It’s also not ‘taking it personally’ to point out that the jannies look like incredibly weak control freaks red texting every little thing.

No. 2466651

>>2466631
Being banned dozens of times over the course of 7 years is typical. Some of my bans were deserved, others weren't. I don't get angry about undeserved bans because it's not a big deal to me. It kind of is taking it personally when you call them incredibly weak control freaks for banning people because bans aren't that serious.

No. 2466667

>>2466651
>Being banned dozens of times over the course of 7 years is typical. Some of my bans were deserved, others weren't. I don't get angry about undeserved bans because it's not a big deal to me.
Same. I don't get why anons get so upset about getting banned for 2 hours, sometimes 6 at max. Just take a break and come back. It's basically the farmands putting you in time out for a few hours. You only get permabanned if you're a huge retard, ie. ignoring farmhand warnings and shitting up multiple threads, ban evading etc.

No. 2467178

>>2466667
I personally don't care about ban lengths, but when farmhands get something factually incorrect (though that extends to everyone else too).


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No. 2149920[Reply]

A place full of attention seeking, bra stuffing, body filters, fake stories, elsagate spamming, fake doctors and coomer bait, cringe fuel etc. Anyone else find this side of the internet to be particularly cancerous?
Thread #1 >>1291087
Thread #2 >>1417602
Thread #3 >>1573244
Thread #4 >>1707886
Thread #5 >>1879378
Thread #6 >>1986698
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No. 2466561

>>2466527
>some Swedish bitch stop the entire subway line by posing on a wall near the gates half naked getting her pictures taken and making a scene while muslim moids stood there jerking off to her
Whatever happened to this country man, this is nightmarish, baffling and depressing

No. 2466562

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No. 2466583

>>2466561
True but that's more of a sexual gratification thing/attention whoring. An American woman is LARPing as a woman from another culture to put down said American women for not being doormats. Hmmm where have I heard that before

No. 2467013

>>2466527
Were they actually jerking off? In public? Holy shiiit

No. 2469873

New thread >>2469869


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No. 2455647[Reply]

From wikipedia:
>Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD), or anxious personality disorder, is a cluster C personality disorder characterized by excessive social anxiety and inhibition, fear of intimacy (despite an intense desire for it), severe feelings of inadequacy and inferiority, and an overreliance on avoidance of feared stimuli (e.g., self-imposed social isolation) as a maladaptive coping method. Those affected typically display a pattern of extreme sensitivity to negative evaluation and rejection, a belief that one is socially inept or personally unappealing to others, and avoidance of social interaction despite a strong desire for it.
Do you have avpd? You can talk about your struggles here.
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No. 2459487

>>2459365
I used to agonize about playground kids nona.
As a toddler Id just beat them up.

No. 2459496

>>2459365
I only struggle with this in business emails bc I say unprofessional things and then regret them later, bc they could get me in trouble. The value of real friends vs acquaintances is not having to struggle with this or play a role. Do you have any friends you've achieved that with, guru-anon?

No. 2459538

>>2458726
I have AVPD and recurring depression and I've been taking venlafaxine 75mg for about half a year now. My life has greatly improved and the anxious part of my brain is kind of switched off that was always preoccupied with obsessively thinking about how people might perceive me. I love it. If I could just eject that part of my brain I would 100% do it because it held me back for so many years. I can now verbalize my thoughts that I always held back and I don't give a shit. Coworkers like me more because I am more open. Idgaf anymore and it's glorious

No. 2459548

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I've struggled with a lot of avoidant behaviours because of serious childhood trauma that borders on AvPD. I've done the entire merry-go-round, incapable of maintaining relationship, incapable of texting, ghosting people for months without explanation, avoiding social gatherings and avoiding doing my hobbies or things I love. What helps me the most is having a trauma-informed therapist and dropping all of my failed relationships. Being alone and bored with nothing "to avoid" while doing intensive therapy was the only way I managed to do progress. A lot of my avoidant behaviour comes from being overstimulated and overstressed, feeling like I'm drowning in responsibilities. Now when I meet someone I tell them honestly that I don't have or use social media and that I prefer calling to text. What I found is that I was stuck between being so scared of being alone but being so anxious around people and that was completely blocking my life. Fixing the being alone part and is essential if you are avoidant because you will be with yourself a lot.

No. 2466490

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i have a deadline aproaching and the only thing left to do is to write emails that i've been putting off for a week. there are parts of the work that i gave up because it would imply to write even more emails.

i wish i had a friend that could sit right next to me just to make sure i write these fucking emails, but as an avoidant i have no friends.

>>2459548
>Being alone and bored with nothing "to avoid" while doing intensive therapy was the only way I managed to do progress
how did you manage to have nothing to avoid? did you have a job at the time? sometimes i fantasised about cutting of everything for 3 months and focus on myself and therapy, but it's not possible for me.


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