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No. 955088 [Reply]

Official stalking and snooping thread. I really thought I would be able to find a specified forum devoted to this kind of thing but I couldnt.
What do you watch for? What tips you off? How do you dig deeper. I’d love to share me knowledge and for others to share theirs.
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No. 2579180

So I hate to be the retard asking this but how do we execute github codes….

No. 2581669

>>2575542
Better off finding magnet links of database leak torrents and looking through them yourself tbh, it's just a glorified search engine

No. 2594913

i want snoopy thread.

No. 2594935

>>2579180
Just go through the instructions and download the required prerequisites. What
>>2575542
Haha I’m gatekeeping so hard right now. Github isn’t even that great because they probably keep the good shit to themselves. Until they find a way to access Instagram API again I don’t care. It’s been forever but recently I found 2 great leak search sites and one has extra info like IP and date the account was created, while the other has a wider database & keyword search. I wonder if 0trocks was still better though. Unfortunately one of them posts hashes and the other one you have to pay for uncensored shit (like £1 for 24 hours though) or deduce the plaintexts, but has a wider database. Still works great together, find it if you can, I don’t want it taken down though so you won’t get it from me.

No. 2596775

>>2594935
No1curr share your findings or gtfo



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No. 1952006 [Reply]

It's sakura season!
A thread for

>Traveling

Have you been to Japan? Do you wanna travel to Japan? When and where? What are your tourist recommendations? What are the overrated places? Best locations to eat and stay? Best experiences?

>General leaving

Do you live in Japan? Do you plan on living in Japan? What are the reasons for you to move to Japan? Are you currently studying, working, or both? Are you a nikkei or full gaijin? How is life in Japan as a woman? Do you plan to stay in Japan for long? The good, the bad, the neutral.

>Language

Do you speak japanese? Are you trying to learn japanese? What is your studying methods?

Etc, etc.

Share tips, recommendations, complaints, experiences or just pics!
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No. 2572970

>>2571989
Idk if a foreign guy was obsessed with and constantly posting girls from my culture/race I'd be put off too even if he was good looking.
>>2572899
>the most positive interactions I had were always with elderly people
Same for me! Old grandmas were so sweet and tried so hard to communicate, it was adorable

No. 2582932

If I want to go to the beach in Kamakura this summer to swim is it safe to go there alone? Will I have to worry for my stuff like my wallet, my phone, etc. when swimming?

No. 2582938

>>2572970
I'll third that older people in Japan tended to be the kindest and most friendly with me when I visited a month ago. I think it helped that I was with Japanese family members and in a more rural area too.

No. 2583825

>>2582932
You can drop them off in a coin locker at the station if you're that worried or the beach might have some. There are so many options in Japan.

No. 2594804

Did it, nonnas. Booked my second trip to Japan! Only doing Osaka and Tokyo.



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No. 2565676 [Reply]

Blogpost about the tasks you need to do today, and give other nonnas motivation to do theirs too

Work, college, languages, difficult emails, personal projects, general self-improvement all welcome
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No. 2586041

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>>2585880
>>2585885
Here is a document for all the pastebins for the code https://pastebin.com/qpBkDe5A
or get the calendar as a zip here
https://files.catbox.moe/ef67y1.zip

I'm gonna be honest, ChatGPT helped me a lot with the code
I am >>2580785

No. 2586323

>>2586041
Youre an Angel in the flesh. Thank you nona

No. 2593708

Shower which I have been putting off.. I know I know. Find clothes. Grocery shopping. Conclude my survey. Read my professor’s feedback on my thesis. Write down stuff for class. Figure out how I’m gonna pay for next semester.All of the above would be nice to have finished today but it’s a lot of tasks if you ask me. Feeliing dread.

No. 2594790

Does anyone know any apps that are good for “gamifying” tasks? My adhd is pretty bad lately and
>number go up
is a very dopaminergic prospect to me. I especially like ones with exp / cash systems. I tried one time a “skyrim quest log” app and it worked great, but it was buggy at times. I go to check and they’re all paywalled for subscriptions… and getting notion to work with what I want to do is just all over the place. I’m very tempted to just learn to code and/or do what >>2586041 did and ask cgpt to make it for me.

No. 2594800

>>2594790
I can’t attest to how well it works since gamifying tasks doesn’t help me, but have you tried Habitica?



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No. 854762 [Reply]

Cheers!

Previous thread: >>>/ot/204765
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No. 2592317

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Life is sooooo good omg broke up with moid, tried on some outfits for the upcoming days and now I'm drinking cogniac mmmm it's kinda gross but i don't want beer I want it. Can't wait up on my friends to meet up and drink i wanna naw. Cheers I finished my bachlors and i need someone nice to make out with (not a man please god not a man)

>>2584527
The riot what did huh? Nona where are you? Did you go to get a beer in a high risk country? I'm sure there were stores closer to you.

No. 2592405

>>2592317
I wish this feeling could last forever omg it feels soo good being single, I'm not chained to a lazy mf who can't even handle me. This should prob be in vent but man I wish I felt something. I'm soo sick of disociateing and not feeling anyhting. Ok I see why I was an alcoholich in highschool.

Is it fucked up if i really wanna kiss a friend of mine? Idk she kissed me randolmy while givving me a haircut, i wish I was more aware. It felt nice thoug.

No. 2592793

Drinking wine and getting drank on a Sundayyyyy

No. 2592795

>>2592793
Samefag. Sometimes you drink and sometimes it drinks you. Deep wise musings

No. 2594733

Took one singular sip of sake and I am drunk now. lightweight getting faded on a Monday..



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No. 837722 [Reply]

Thread for anons recovering or fighting with long terms internet/smartphone/social media/video game addiction and the manifesting problems it causes (ADD, low self-esteem, lack of ability to commit to long terms processes, inability to learn new hobbies and skills, inability to tolerate silence ect). Feel free to also use this thread a support network. Brain training, healthy brain foods, building up gray matter and executive functions back up, unlearning destructive habits ect also covered. Avoiding digital junk information landscape in general (adblockers ect) can also be discussed. Any type of technology or media addiction can be covered, including things like netflix or youtube binging that wouldn't be normally considered addictive.

Ideally this thread could be similar to the health and wellness threads, but for our brains and the type of information we consume.
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No. 2520237

>>2501536
This is based on a comment I made ages ago but will help you and probably anyone with large amounts of unstructured time. Although I'm not on lc much anymore I look back at the Jill threads and badly want to lock her in a room and force her through this method

>before you even consider 'detoxing,' make a clear list of things you would rather do than doomscroll. Academic/work tasks, maintenance tasks, reading (do you have a stash of physical books you keep meaning to read?), hobbies you have abandoned, new hobbies you want to try, etc.

>for inspiration, look through your bookmarks/saved posts on social media (copy anything useful from there into a text file and it'll be a great start, can even print it if you have a printer)
>reformat the list into a to-do list, with clear time limits and endpoints ('read for 30 minutes' 'draw for 30 minutes')
>put the list into a random number generator and let it generate a task for you
>continue until you've gone all the way through the list
>as you get back into new hobbies, you can be a bit clearer about the actual list items. You can look through instructional books (so like 'finish all tasks in chapter 3'), or look up online 'roadmaps,' or just stay blasé ('I'd like to do 300 hours of drawing this year and see what I've made afterwards' 'I hear it takes 600 hours to become fluent in French, I wonder how true that is')
>always have some kind of timer going, it helps to put things in perspective

Also most spreadsheet software has a 'random' function so you can just make a daily to-do list and it'll assign you a single task on keypress. I always type how I'm feeling into a cell and it feels like it's giving me tasks to do as therapy kek

The key is to NEVER give yourself even a small choice beyond your initial plan/roadmap because your lizard brain will just freak out and default to the easiest thing which is scrolling. You can even turn down a 'random' answer but you'll still be way more inclined to do something else the computer picks for you

The detox mentality is great because you can be terrible at any skill you try and just go 'well at least I wasn'tPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 2551390

I managed to unintentionally cure my phone addiction which is crazy to me. I dropped my phone a couple months ago and it broke the thermal sensor, which basically meant that my phone would restart itself every 2-3 minutes. For two months I lived like this and it was honestly so liberating. If I wanted to use my phone, I only had three minutes to do what I needed - which meant no dilly dallying, no fucking around, and most importantly no mindless scrolling. The only annoying part was I couldn’t make any phone calls longer than two minutes or listen to music when I was outside. But it didn’t really affect me as I work from home, and I started bringing books with me so I could read a few pages while on the bus or whatever. I felt so free and untethered. I was seriously considering getting a landline and an iPod and calling it a day. Unfortunately, I work in tech as a web developer and eventually needed a smartphone to test websites on (I will never be free). However, I’ve had my iPhone 16 for three weeks now and I’ve noticed I have no desire to waste time on it. It was even sitting on my desk in the box for a week before I begrudgingly set it up. It’s strictly utilitarian to me now. It’s like I rewired the circuit in my brain that would crave those easy dopamine hits from scrolling on my phone. That said, I still struggle with this behaviour sometimes when using my laptop but it’s much less severe. Something about having a computer in your pocket makes compulsive scrolling much more appealing. TL;DR Accidentally bricking your phone is based, actually.

No. 2557804

I've deleted lots of my SocMed accounts, Instagram, Xitter, Spotify, and even a Reddit account I forgot existed. I'm in the process of getting rid of my YT account too as it's the app I'm most addicted by.

I'm looking at YouTube comments that I've liked and disliked and it was a real eye opener as to how much I was wasting my time with it. Literally everyday in like 2022 for example I was doing nothing but watching videos and liking or disliking comments (and maybe getting into a petty internet slapfight too). It's so depressing that I could've used that time more productively but I was just pissing it away. I'm in the process of deleting them all manually to scrub the embarrassment. I turned off my YouTube history and added an add-on that prevents me from searching videos, so far I have been using it less and less.

No. 2581666

Honestly i just wish i could detox from social media and the internet in general, i'm addicted to scrolling and checking up random drama online. I wanna be productive both online and offline but i always get sucked back in the scrolling and searching loop.

No. 2594728

internet addiction feels like it never ends. i convince myself i'm satisfied, then i get distracted and keep scrolling. i feel so stupid and hopeless.



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No. 1738305 [Reply]

first thread:>>>/ot/204455
ITT we discuss our times having unhealthy obsessions with people. It can be any kind of obsession; romantic, hateful, wanting to wear their skin, etc.
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No. 2581125

Nonnies, how can one tone down their fixiation? This is the first time I've became obssesed with a real person, it's unsettling. Is this my punishment for being isolated for so long?
He's a cute musician from my city. I never actually spoke to him until recently, I just watched him from a distance. My incompetent ass somehow managed to go for coffee with him.
I thought meeting him would make me stop idealizing him but no, I crave him even more. He probably just pretended to be nice to me because that's what people with better social skills do, but still. I can't get that day out of my mind. I want to talk to him again so badly.
Those hazel eyes and long curly blonde hair shining bright under the sun, his gentle voice, I want to appreciate them up close again. I want to be able to hug him when I'm feeling down. I'm not even sure if this is romantic, I just want him to comfort me and spend time with me.

No. 2581132

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>>2581125
Sage for I can't help you anon, I just I'm really envious (in a good way!)
Good luck, nonita

No. 2592381

This will be a long one but I want to tell the full story of what might have led to this obsession of mine. I would like to start by saying I have a really good memory, especially when it comes to random things about random people and that I have effectively socially isolated myself for at least two years which had its effects on me. As a teenager I've had crushes, friends and such but aside from a random girl on facebook whom I'd check the profile of (which I think I mostly did for the funny stuff she would post rather than her personality), I never had something close to an obsession. In highschool I "met" a girl on discord who made me actually confirm that I was a lesbian, she was the only person I've actually romantically liked on that level in my entire life. Unfortunately though, it was never more than an online "friendship" for a couple of years and after getting annoyed at her clearly not showing interest in me (which, even then, was clearly understandable considering she never even heard my voice or knew my exact age) I cut off my contact. After some months actively thinking about her I stopped holding the same interest for her and went my own way. By "went my own way", I mean never finding someone like her again and with the monk-esque life I led, working all day and still thinking about her once in every few nights which actually sounds like some kind of buddhist idealization ritual now that I think about it. In these years I've only really stalked one person online which was mostly a sarcastic thing with me coincidentally getting into the same major and university as someone in a facebook group I was active in and although I've done my fair share of reading through all his posts (I think it was out of boredom) I've never held any feeling commonly attached with obsession towards him (obviously not anything romantic kek). After 4 years have passed since I stopped talking with the girl that keeps reappearing in my head everytime I think about anything related to romance, on a random night I decided to join my old discord servers. This was mainly because I wanted to find old messages of myself but it quickly turned to reading messages from her, I searched my username on a server and immediately saw that she mentioned me even after a year of not talking. Maybe emotionally making a big deal out of nothing, I tried to find older messages to remember if she was actually how I remembered her (and again, I gotta give my memory credit because I rememberePost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 2594665

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I've been obsessed with a cosplayer/artist for 3 years. It went from hate to me confessing to her after agonising over her for so long. This ended in rejection last year after on and off ghosting online. I don't know if it's love or me just wanting to be as close to her as possible. I've seen her in real life a few times and she has even come to stay over once because it was convenient for her and she knows my sister. I keep beating myself up for acting like a sperg back then, because I want to know things no one knows about her. It feels special. I feel like there's a layer to her I'm dying to get to but I can't. There is an element of wanting her easy, exciting life but also wanting to be closest to her. I'm fairly certain we would be good friends if she didn't get filtered by me being an ugly retard but I will never know for sure and it kills me. No one else really interests me. If I lived near her it'd be my only goal to create a tricky situation so she would have to meet with me somehow. This makes me feel like a loser or a creep honestly. I've thought about moving there but she will probably move to somewhere else soon. I'm learning to lucid dream so I can eventually dream about us having a life together

No. 2594956

>>2594665
Sounds like jealousy and you fixate on her because she's physically nearer than others. Please realize she's not special and put time into working on yourself instead and stop looking her up. She doesn't care about you and never will.



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No. 621962 [Reply]

Posteen vacas, drama o lo que sea.
Para empezar:
¿que canales de youtube ven?
¿conocen alguna vaca de su país?
¿es palta o aguacate?
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No. 2594588

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Hola nonitas, como les va?

No. 2594596

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Que opinan de la mona caballo de Uma Musume que es latina y habla en español? ojala añadan una yegua chilena o argentina.

No. 2594607

>>2593753
creo que es forma corta del nombre “Yuridia” no se el español tan bien lo estoy aprendiendo

No. 2594626

>>2594596
no sé, me lo recomiendas? solía jugar Bellasara y me encantaba cuidar caballitos bonitos

No. 2594635

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>>2594626
El juego es mas como Princess Maker, tienes turnos donde tenes que subirles los stats a tus monas y depues ponerlas a correr para ganar carreras y fans. Si perdes las mandas a la fabrica de pegamento.



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No. 1628600 [Reply]

For random things we like or love, like the Things we hate thread but the opposite.
Anything you wanna talk about is allowed. You might post physical things, ideas, links to random corners of the internet, etc. The things you might post don't have to necessarily be milky/not milky, go as controversial, weird, complicated, pure, simple or vanilla as you'd like
>No infighting
>No things you hate or dislike

Previous likes: >>>/ot/673217
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No. 2566081

>>2566073
Further proof that dogs are angels. I can't unsee the wings now, that's so cute!

No. 2566242

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I love pink on pastries, also I love the combo pink and yellow.

No. 2594293

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I love pixie cuts on other women. I love the way it doesn't hide their face and when they smile it looks brighter and makes them glow. I just think it's such a cute and flattering hair cut, wish I got to see it more often.

No. 2594296

>>2566073
Mine will have her ears up if she's on her own and as soon as she sees me or a family member she instantly lowers them and puts on the puppy eyes. She's so funny and cute. I love when dogs make themselves rounder and softer when they meet someone they like.

No. 2594298

I like kissing even more than sex. Feeling a woman's mouth against mine and hearing all the noises we collaborate on is so awesome.



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No. 2581210 [Reply]

Use this thread to speak in any language you want
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No. 2592842

>>2592763
nonnie kebap threadi geri aktive edelim nolur

No. 2593908

འབྲུག་པའི་སྐད་ཡིག་ག་ཅི་འབད་མེན།

No. 2593923

>>2581224
israeli nonny!!!

No. 2594261

Le chat regarde. Pas avec méchanceté, pas avec innocence non plus

No. 2594284

обичам да си почивам с нонитата от лолкау ♥



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No. 753508 [Reply]

A thread for farmers with OCD, since it seems there are a few of us in here.
Discuss your obsessions, compulsions, therapy/recovery and how you live your everyday life with OCD etc.

Some topics of interest
>How strong is your OCD?
>How does your OCD manifest?
>What do you think of the stereotype of cleaningness?
>Do you have intrusive thoughts?
>How did you figure out you had OCD?
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No. 2594328

>>2594310
Good advice, I appreciate it. The leech analogy seems very useful

No. 2594330

>>2594294
Shit like this is genuinely taking a toll on me. I'm constantly on edge. My thing involves feeling like bad things will happen as a result of me feeling good/being happy/receiving a gift/relaxing/anything positive. Like I have to pay the price. I'm genuinely anxious as fuck whenever someone gifts me something. I keep myself in a "humbled" state aka borderline depressed always because then nothing bad should happen if I'm not happy (but then I shouldn't say I'm not happy because then I'm ungrateful and something bad will happen because of that
…) so idk fuck. Even writing it here feels like I'm "breaking the rules" somehow. I need help but it's hard to tell anyone.

No. 2594338

>>2594330
I would say keep posting about it (but don’t limit yourself to doing just that). It’s a good first step and can help mentally prepare you for reaching out for help irl. I know it’s easier said than done but you need to lean in to the anxiety

No. 2594666

>>2593508
I had themes similar to this. It was doubting and questioning my own feelings towards the person. Then compulsively checking to see if I still felt that way by interacting with them. The fact that it causes you disgust, anxiety, and distress screams that it is OCD.

No. 2595298

>>2594223
Nona, what were the other times like? If you are close, high chance they will understand. First time my brain broke on this theme, I went around my friends DMs completely manic and retarded, saying that I'm afraid of it. Literally nobody took it seriously and understood that I was having an episode. You're doing this again because reassurance.



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