They both kinda sound like dumbfucks tbh.
Clearly the men commenting are just pissed that a woman would rather carry someone else's child to help out their situation than carry and birth their genes. The comments are just a manifestation of their primal outrage at that level of rejection lol.
But the woman in this story just doesn't make sense either.
If she's never been pregnant before then how would she qualify for surrogacy? Sounds like a shady dealing to start with, possibly cheating?
If there's money involved, I can't imagine it being all that worth it in the grand scheme considering a bad pregnancy can mean nine months of suffering, permanent bodily harm, or in the worst case–death.
Also pregnancy hormones do batshit things to the brain insofar as bonding. She should realize there may be lifelong mental problems if she experiences depression or anxiety post partum. For someone who doesn't want kids, it's fucked that she's being so nonchalant about the negative outcomes here.
It almost reads like fiction writing because the scenario doesn't make sense.