/g/ - girl talk

>>564021
dont tell me what to do dumb bitch

>>564050
Oh ok

Why does petite women think they're desirable? Or why they're seen that way? I see petite women with boyish/androgynous faces dating with attractive men. Now inb4 you're jealous I'm rather curious why these men date with them? Because I've never seen a women who's ugly as them but have a bigger frame or even curvy gets a chance but somehow they do. Why do you think that is? Is it a fetish? It's bizarre to me knowing that if I had weak bones like children do my life would be compeletly different.

I hate being ugly. I hate going outside and seeing how great everyone looks and I look like a dumpy asshole. I've tried to look better but it doesn't really make a difference. Then I read the meme like a man will fuck a chicken sandwich yet I've only been looked at once in my entire life by a man. Not counting when I was a literal tween. I don't even want to be with anyone anymore but I wish I had the power that comes with being pretty.

>>549297
I relate to this except for women. Seeing beardy stealth ftms getting more women than I could ever imagine makes me think I should've been killed myself as a kid. I couldn't even develop a proper sexuality so I have no sexuality. But I'm not asexual. Women treated me horribly and said awful things about my features my whole life. Seeing men and women with older girlfriends that loves them and they're attracted to just makes everything unreal and worthless to me, I feel like a cardboard. Not only they feel superior and validated for being chosen by an old women with success but also they find her attractive, and I don't get how an old woman can be attractive yet everyone goes crazy for them which makes me feel like I'm a failure either way because I haven't even stand a chance as a younglet. I don't even know why I feel this way about them because my attraction to them wouldn't even be real/strong enough. I feel extremely insecure around sexual topics. And idk, I want to feel worthy and valuable and loved I think

>>560110
I always wanted a bff. and I won't stop looking even if i get to 70

I've never had a female best friend and I'm tired of pretending it's not making me sad to the point of questioning if there's something so utterly wrong with me that women my age, women I've known for years, don't even care one tiny bit about me.

The only best friend I've ever had was a closeted gay 14 year old in middle school, he outed me to his straight friends to seem cooler I guess. Yes, we're still in touch but I can sense I'm not his best friend, but he is mine, or at least was before moving abroad.

>>561741
harsh love nona but you stayed friends with the guy that threw you under the bus to impress the straights? that's desperate and nobody will want to be your best friend when they can tell you'll accept just anybody to be your best friend.

I've just had to ditch my bestie because it turns out she can't be happy for me, even though I've been happy for her when good things have happened to her recently. I know it's for the best but she knows literally my whole life, and now I'm paranoid she's going to try and use that vulnerability against me somehow. And it feels very weird that I have to be wary of her of all people. She is really not taking it well that I'm doing better than her for once.

more of a confession than a anything, a few years ago i ghosted an irl friend which led me to lose all of my friends and i still feel incredibly guilty about it.
We had been friends since we were kids, since I'm a very shy person she helped me befriend other people she knew. We were basically always together and very fusional (maybe too much), until one week in high school where she left us for a school trip. This week felt incredible… I felt so much happier and way more free in my interactions with our other friends, as if her presence was blocking me (it was the first time I'd been alone with them). It made me realize that I had been blindly agreeing with her on everything in hope she'd never get upset at me, but by doing this I forgot how to think for myself. And I also finally saw all her little flaws that I just couldn't stand.
After a while I decided it couldn't work anymore, acting like I still liked her was too hard but I was also too scared to confront her on it. Avoiding her seemed like a less painful option, actually expressing how I felt seemed like it would be way too harsh (how was I supposed to tell her that I suddenly hated her??). I still wanted to stay friends with our other friends since I had no issues with them and still liked them.. but like I feared, she turned them against me and none of them would ever approach me again (which I had guessed but someone did confirm it happened later). It wasn't the first time she did this, multiple people had cut her off but she had to make it everyone's business, trash talk them and heavily imply we should never ever dare to stay in contact with them (which I'm sad to have followed because I still liked some of these girls!). I guess I'm lucky it happened on the last year of high school because it ended up being the worst one, ended up always alone which would be fine by itself but I was constantly stressed and fearing we would bump into each other, to the point of getting physically sick (all while seeing them all happy together like nothing happened).
When this was happening, I still was regularly in contact with a girl who was going to another hs far from us. I had told her how I felt about it/during all of this and she was super understanding and even agreeing with me sometimes. Sadly we parted away once going to college, except we were physically closer so it felt a bit ironic….. Until I found out that the only person who had yet to leave me, did ghost me and was verPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

She got a boyfriend. Nuff said.
It wasn't that bad before, either. She'd hang out with a previous moid she liked but always made time for me and her other friends and loved our opinions. He then proceeded to discard her and I got so frustrated trying to convince her that he would never care about her the same way she cared about him. He obviously hurt her, but she would always double guess herself e.g. "idk was I the one who hurt him? What if I did something to make him upset?" The female socialisation was so depressing, but she eventually got out of it. But the cycle would repeat itself with two more guys and then she finally got a boyfriend who was really jealous of her female friendships for some reason and was one of those "soft boy" adjacent misogynists hiding under a mask of kindness and equality. He especially hated me because he could tell I didn't like him kek. She sided with him unfortunately.

>>561169
I do eat very quickly, but I don't know if this is binge eating or a need to eat as quickly as possible. I even eat foods I like but don't get to have often very quickly, and usually feel fleetingly sad I didn't eat slower after I'm done.

Anons earlier in the thread mentioned zepbound/mounjaro for binge eating, which I thought was interesting. I wonder how much binging is directly related to hormone production. I had to go on zepbound for a medical reason unrelated to diet, and even when I'm off of it, the way I eat and the stress associated with it has changed.
My personal experience is that I could feel my stomach growling on zepbound, but I wasn't feeling hungry at all or motivated to eat. Then when I was off it for a month (and another month again later), I wouldn't be as alarmed or stressed about being hungry and going without food. When I was younger, I would get too busy to eat when hungry, and I started getting stabbing pains in my upper stomach when it was time to eat. After zepbound, this stopped, and I had regular hunger sensations once more. Occasionally my stomach will ache, but that happens if I really do go too long without eating (6+ hours). Regularly eating less over a period of months made it so I don't eat a lot in one go. It makes my stomach feel uncomfortable for hours, so I'm more likely to eat a little bit and then wander off to do something until I feel the need to eat some more. I think being less preoccupied with food while on zepbound also made me figure out other things to do with my time. I know that doesn't make sense, because I wasn't constantly eating before the zepbound. But it's almost like since food wasn't something I needed to be stressing over, I got used to occupying my brain with other things, so now I eat a lot less when bored and do other things instead. I think my parents helping with meal prep during this time helped (you need to supplement with a lot of protein while on this medication), and my food was lasting so much longer since I was eating a lot less. So my stress about cooking enough to feed myself was reduced significantly, and I worried about food less.
I wonder if any other anons who can get a prescription or can afford paying out of pocket could try it and report back? Or just share their experiences if they were already on something similar.

>>561228
I took it for binge eating (lied about my weight on the form to get it) and had similar experiences to you. It's like it reset my metabolism & relationship with food & gave me my life back. Magic stuff.

I've incorporated binging into my everyday diet and maintain a slim weight. I just starve myself all day, have one huge binge meal for dinner, then take a big scoop of fiber supplement after and it keeps me full and unable to eat for the rest of the night. I used to have such an issue with bulimia and this is the only eating pattern that has worked for me.

>>561324
omg i do this too but never realised its a habit from my previous disordered eating days. Do you work from home? Because for me it gets awkward at work every day when my coworkers can see that i am not having lunch lmao, I say I'm doing OMAD and prefer snacking throughout the day.

I have no idea how to 'snack' on food. I see people making snack videos all the time and I honestly can't relate as a binge eater. The minute food is in front of me its gone. For years I have tried snacking, and I find it impossible. If I eat something and wait, my brain doesn't allow that waiting period at all and immediately goes in for the next bite. Unrelated but this was the same problem with drinking, to which I developed an addiction to as well. For me its black and white, either its not in front of me, or if it is, its being eaten/drunk immediately. Have I tried all the breathing techniques, counting techniques, mindfulness things, yes I have. Have they worked? Not at all.

Natalia Vodianova moggs me

I mostly get ariana and jenna. I get jenna more than ariana i noticed that i think it’s mostly the eyes and then cause of my skin tone ariana (tan kek). Whenever i do eyeliner i do see ariana.

>>559521
AYRT, thank you nonna! You should also be proud, Thomasin Mckenzie was so stunning in Eileen. Whoever said this thread was full of Stacies is right.

I will not feed my face to any celebrity lookalike website ever! Here is my own little autistic compilation.

>>560601
is bottom left Lena Headey? She looks stunning there

>>557906
I don't understand why your post got redtext nona, I found it very helpful!

I have started breaking out as if I'm a teenager again like the past few months and it is making me miserable. The earliest appointment I could make with a gyno is months from now. If I have to get on hormonal birth control I will. cystic acne hurts.

>>558652
Obviously because of the chapgpt text

Another question I have is how you would go about spearmint tea. I started drinking it to help with hormonal break outs on my chin but seeing as it lowers androgens, I wonder if I should drink it according to my cycle.
>>557906
>apparently women do not even age as linear as men. it is as if we have significant changes and time slots each with different state of hormons, that we have to adress
As always women's health is so under researched we don't even understand female aging… Do you recommend any books on that topic?

>>559705
>spearmint tea
I've been drinking it first thing in the morning every morning for about 2 months now. Probably too early to see any results, and not sure if this is the best thing, but that's been my personal approach.

>>560756
>I see where you're coming from but I don't think complete apathy is the right solution either.
nta I took a similar approach and I think it works at least. I think literally any other approach requires more effort than I'm willing to give. I care about individuals rather than masses, and for some reason it feels like less of a performance job.

The topics in here….very miserable guys…

>>560799
You'll be alright

>>557602 new thread

>>560725
>>560754
>>560768

Did the Palestine thing trigger you? Let me repeat myself, I don’t give fuck about Palestine or the homeless or thugs who get shot by cops or retard trannies or swifties or anyone else who isn’t a fellow like-minded back woman.

>>560629
Unfortunately he was into a lot of teen solo content too, but never watched old moid sexual content by itself, so I really dont think so. I think he would have told me if he was gay too since I knew pretty much every other degen thing about him by that point, being gay would have been the least of my worries.

>>560641
It's more about him not being able to admit it to himself why he's obsessed with seeing men who don't look like him have sex. He doesn't sound fully gay, but maybe has bi-tendencies he doesn't fully understand.

>>560648
Nah I really don't think he was gay in a sexual way at all. He had a weird body dysmorphia where he thought of himself as really fat, ugly and ogreish looking even though he wasnt. He would always post those ugly pepe frogs with ashbie memes, or the ugly fat apu memes.
He just liked the ugly old bastard and cute young girl porn niche, unfortunately like tons of coomers do. It's a defilement thing that men like, and also a male ego thing imo, like it makes them think 'If even he can get a girl like that, I can too.' It's just entitlement and wanting to see women being violated and not getting any pleasure from getting fucked by a disgusting subhuman and it's actually a pretty popular genre among moids from what I've seen.

>>560648
nta but there's a lot of straight moids who are into cuckolding and bbc stuff because they see it as a humilation ritual for the woman (i mean the name for the guy who cucks them is literally bull aka a beast/animal and not a human) but ya men are all a little bit spiritually gay deep down

>>560648
The insistence that anons loser ex is gay is weird, he just sounds like retard porn addict.

>>562300
Nope he has ptosis

>>562299
Wow I thought it was mirrored and doctored a bit for exaggeration but I just flipped it myself and it really is that wonky

>>562304
I know but his eye looks like it’s about to fall off the bone kek. that’s still my husband don’t get it twisted
>>562303
thank you

>>562298
Kek this is such a funny question. It is, but every photo of every person looks wonky when flipped and the lens of the camera person combined with the weird angle Luigi was at just made the entire photo kind of unfortunate

>>562309
Can't get over someone saying he looked like an underdeveloped tadpole or a dried up shrimp at the bottom of a Ramen cup

>>558929
>>558990
Same here lol, personally I like white x red best

>>558929
If they had made the sleeves solid white I would’ve bought the pink one. I don’t understand why they had to make the entire thing printed. Liz lisa has been missing so hard and raising their prices like crazy, is it even worth it at $142 + the tariffs they’re charging now? I’d rather buy a lolita dress at that point.

I was looking at this thread and was so confused why 2013 style fashion was popular in japan atm lol

>>559367
Westerners tend to be about 10 years behind on jfashion trends

>>559367
>>559385
I'm sure some people just stay in the style they like and don't have the objective to follow the newest trend. Probably counts for Japanese people too.

>>558515
>went to a thai ladyboy bar and got beat up by said ladyboys
Kek, serves him right. I don't get why he has such intense fangirls.

I find him hideous but I at least understand the retards who thought Elliot Rodger was attractive. If only he didn't prefer some fantastical blonde Stacy. He would've made some mousy autistic girl very happy I'm sure.

>>559756
Personally I do not see it and will always maintain he is one of the least attractive of all mass/spree killers, not to mention his atrocious personality.

>>559949
Idk, he's got the phenotype of what the "hot high school boy" was drawn as in tween books or normie parodies. It's a stereotypical phenotype and I don't know if it has any merit but he fits it

Gotta say she's definitely a bpdette but no demon. She was made to destroy the lives of pedoscrotes and their enabler families