/g/ - girl talk

>>589490
It still fits the NPD roots and feelings despite not fitting the diagnosis. I wish I could at least speak to a professional about it because it's definitely not healthy for me to get offended and triggered like a child whenever a moid breathes in my direction. They just call me a misandrist terf though so it's pretty futile. At least I should be getting over my trauma from them as a kid

>>589529
try ugly guys. The hot ones are all sluts

>>589049
I mean men are a threat to women I don't think you need to have a pd to feel threatened by men?
>>589599
so you did experience childhood trauma from men? I'm sorry to hear that.

>>589639
Most women feel on edge and threatened by men but no normal woman has the symptoms I have in >>585925 where any one's existence breathing towards me makes me want to go full narc attack rage on them. And for the question of course lol

>>589620
and a lot of ugly guys are degenerates or incels. there's no winning kek

Leg related turn ons:
After seeing pics of this skin I fell in love with nice hamstrings. Now I understand men that like legs. Overall I like men with thick thighs, and I love leg holsters (or any type of tactical gear, but let holsters are one of the hottest).

i was talking to my nigel and made a joke about something being ageist and he asked me "what's that?". he genuinely didn't know what ageism was. he also didn't know what the words misandry and misogyny meant until i explained it to him. he's not a conservatard though, he's a good person and has decent progressive views on womens' issues and whatnot, he just doesn't know all the fancy words people use when arguing about it on twitter and it's just soo hot to me.
i'll take a slightly unaware but genuinely well-meaning guy over a libtard "male feminist" who hides his malicious intentions behind sjw lingo anytime.

sideburns. picrel is not the best example because the actor looks kind of inbred.

Sharing cigarettes, lighting cigarettes for me/her, asking “is this OK?” genuinely, smoothing down pants/skirts (IDEK, it gets me going in my perverted corporate brain), and the kinda foggy look people get when you make out for a while without any sexual contact. Also, this is insane, but making fun of people together. I met a woman who shares the exact same insult style as me and it rurned me on so much. I’m really not into anything like that sexually, but as a hateful and horny person, it got me going.

>>589412
>the kinda foggy look people get when you make out for a while without any sexual contact
This is the best. You can see the lust in their eyes.

every girl I like keeps getting a boyfriend. I’m just so sick and hurt. just when I really really like someone, and it’s not even like I’m falling for straight women either. I feel terrible.

>>585614
I love tattoos on other women, just not on myself, despite being masculine/androgynous. I say go for it!

>>586578
I had something similar, except I got rejected. I don't like to waste my feelings on someone who can never return them

I wonder if someday science will evolve enough to let 2 women have a child. I have never been a kid person, but lately baby fever has been kicking me and I got sad remembering I will never get to experience caring for and carrying my wife's baby inside me.
I know IVF is a thing, but I find it gross and would feel like having a rando man's baby inside ne, not my wife's.

>>589466
I wish. My gf wants to use one of my eggs if we ever do eventually decide to have a child and tbh that made me happy enough for now.

>>586370
Jensen stills super good though. Shame about Misha.
>>588626
Oh no. He was so cute on Misfits.
>>589380
He was good looking for long enough, I'll give him that. He could have stayed good looking if he wasn't a disgusting alcoholic drug addict with rotten insides.
>>589501
Anon read about reactive abuse, that's what category Amber falls under (which isn't actually abuse).

>>589590
>reactive abuse isn't actually abuse
babe it's in the fuckin' title. reactive is an adjective, abuse is the subject. Idk what your therapist has told you but you can't go around hitting people of your own free will and saying it doesn't really count because they got you worked up first. or you can, I guess, but it doesn't play well in court.

>>589608
ntayrt but if he abused her first it's basically self-defense imo

>>589621
tbh maybe belongs in the retarded infighting thread if this is gonna keep going

>>422739
>>422740
He was cute in an Armenian way before but damn that's rough. also why do men hit the wall and decide to suddenly have the worst facial hair of all time as if that will save them.

>>588661
It's more so there's not really much one can do for the ex-gf in this situation after the woman goes for a m/f situation to soften the blow. Besides many bi women assume that their gf would be aware there was always a chance that they could have a relationship with a moid in the future ( bis with female preference or with a SSA relationship don't necessarily equal Febfem) so it can feel a bit bizarre. Mostly as the lesbian has the right to feel lesser then ( as its a universal feeling on top of homophobia bullshit) but the bi women isn't doing anything immoral ( extremely questionable tho because i don't want to fuck with men) or against the logic of her sexuality either.

Watched the other day and I was wondering what other nonnies think? Personally I'm glad videos like this exist albeit few and far between

>>588880
What does this redtext mean

>>589415
it would be more effective if she worked on her self help spokesperson cadence. I feel like I got cornered at a party by someone who needs to work through some thoughts out loud

>>589417
Richard Ramirez is back

>>588990
>>588991
Looks like Billie Eillish

>>589417
He is absolutely 100% gay.

>>589449
He is GAY gay. It's not even a secret

>>586462
i don't know how to say his name so everytime in my head i pronounce it as "dick ma valentine"

>>589622
Aw darn.

I hope all his bfs disappear mysteriously and he gives up on dating everyone so I come to save him

>>589077
hi nonna, you made me sob my eyes out, thank you for the kind words, ive had some "relationships" and "almost relationships" both of which fucked me up (which feels like irreversibly) because moids gonna moid. i so dearly would love to have my first time with a virgin bf who adores and loves me and has never pressured me into anything but i know thats but a fantasy at this point. as for apps and stuff, ive been scrolling them but men seem to be so inherently revolting most of the time its hard to even imagine what id do if i actually found an attractive man. nonna you clocked me right as fat, i used to be skinny and thats the period i wasted my beauty when i dated the so-called "men" (that ended up giving me trauma) i tried to do everything the "right way" once before and its why i feel so lost now, fat, ugly, with trauma, stupidly anxious and hates men. i feel so dumb remembering how i felt at 12 when i felt so ready to try and have a bf and sex at the time and excited for highschool while girls i was friends with were super put off by it, (yet they all ended up doing it before me) i feel like ive just been broken somehow and im lucky if i even have sex by 50 at this point

>>589087
>>589087
First of all, fuck those moids, you can and will do better, I promise.
>clocked me as fat
Not even, I just remember being a virgin. I felt equally ugly and fat at 100 and 140 lbs because there's always something to nitpick, and until you see how someone else reacts, you can't say if you really are as freakish as you think or no big deal. Playing a sport is the only thing that took me from "nobody can ever see my boobs without a bra" to "they are what they are, and I'm happy that I'm a little fit even though I didn't win the genetic lottery" and that's why I say that you should take care of yourself. Not to lose weight specifically but to feel self-respect and in (semi-)control of the image you're putting out.
>its hard to even imagine what id do if i actually found an attractive man.
Another reason to work on yourself. My love goal is always someone who'd have fun just going for a walk or staying in bed with me, but that's an advanced bond, and it's easier to spend time together as near-strangers if you have a defined excuse to be together, and I feel like that equally applies to real relationships and time spent with some poly nerd you just want to try sex with. Like maybe you have a goal to find the best Thai restaurant in town and need someone to help you try them or you want to get into rock climbing with another novice.
At the end of the day, I feel like your problem ultimately is: you want to live life to the fullest and experience all of the best things out there like love, good sex, and adventures, and all of that is enhanced by or requires companionship, but you feel like it's impossible to find a good partner either because they don't exist or because you don't deserve it. And I hate to say it because it's cliche and also very hard to do, but I think the two things you need to do are: 1. fall in love with your own life and make a cozy life for yourself because then you are proud to be yourself and proud to invite someone into that life. And 2. put yourself out there and make friends and meet people so you can encounter more guys and see if any click with you. Remember, tinder isn't showing you every kind of man who exists, it's only the ones who would it take literally zero efforPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

I've tried so many "antidepressants" and they all either haven't worked, caused me horrible and sometimes even DANGEROUS side effects, or I've built a tolerance to them within a year. The worst part is that they help my anxiety/OCD but actually make my depression worse. I had to get off my last SNRI because it landed me in the ER with a rare and potentially permanent neurological condition. Everyone (including my bitch psychiatrist) around me tried to accuse me of going clinically insane before I was diagnosed at the ER… Genuinely kind of traumatizing.

I'm on a lowish amount of lithium right now and it works decently for my depression but doesn't help my debilitating anxiety. Living in a tropical climate is now physically painful too because of the heat intolerance and dehydration. It's a shame bc I like this one a bit more than the others.

I guess I'm just wondering if anyone here knows any meds in the antidepressant class that don't destroy libido, don't make depression worse, and lessen anxiety? Does something like this even exist? I'm talking it over with my current psychiatrist soon but I also want anecdotal info

>>589367
It's not an antidepressant, but lamotrigine (Lamictal) basically cured my depression and anxiety and has allowed me to live a normal life for the first time in 15 years. There's a very, VERY low risk of developing a dangerous rash from it, so I'm not sure if you would feel uncomfortable with trying it due to your past scary experience. But I've personally never had any side effects other than some nausea during the evening, and even that only began once I upped my dosage from 200 to 250mg.

>>589367
do you have depression or is it bipolar 2? bp2 has longer depressive episodes. as for anxiety you could ask about anxiolytic meds
also if possible you should get blood work done to test for deficiencies (B vitamins, etc) bc those can cause our problems with our nervous systems
hope you feel better nona

>>584774
i sent you an email!

>>583679
Do you have a contact? Not in Stavanger but could easily take a trip if we connected properly!

>>529492
Damn, so the gods of wage slavery finally came for you. How's your brother doing?

>Contact
coke0fan on Discord
>How long this contact will remain active?
forever
>Timezone
Eastern European, but I wouldn't mind any timezone
>Age
28
>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
24+
>How would you describe yourself?
Super chill, extroverted, I like to joke around and I tend to not take most things too seriously. I'm not the kind of person that won't ask you questions or give cold replies. I like to talk about everything and anything.
>Hobbies and pastimes
I like sandbox or multiplayer video games like The Sims, Project Zomboid, Tropico, PlateUp, Raft, Stardew. I like movies and books(particularly horror, but anything goes), cooking, working out, currently learning embroidery
>What are you looking for in this online friendship?
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>579641
This is a 17 year old.

>>588656
Are you stupid? His X @ is right there, the video is right at the top of his media.

>>588694
No it isn't. @Hungginger on Xitter is a circumcised mutilation, while your pic is not.

>>588698
@Hungginge1. you need glasses

big dick to talk about it
i could stand to prove
if i can't grab around it
i know it's going through

well, i talked about it
wished upon
gimme two
i'll even coo

I found a really interesting graph on my computer but I lost it again so you'll just have to imagine it until I find it again

my bf is so understanding and caring
>was supposed to pick him up from work last week (his car is in the shop)
>take a nap after work, completely sleep through my alarm, wake up 15 minutes past the time i was supposed to be there to pick him up
>check my phone in a panic, but he just said he figured i was sleeping and that it was cute, and that he bought me my favorite food to-go while he waited for me to wake up so i wouldn't have to make lunch for work the next morning
he is very sweet i love him very much!

>>501971
>Not a manwhore
>only had one other girlfriend
Nona . . .

I love my husband so much, I'm curretly abroad and missing him so much. It's been fun meeting new people and all, but he's just best company I've ever had, everything we do together is so much fun. We never fight, and I've never gotten bored of him - even during the pandemic and while traveling together, he is never annoying. I can't wait to be together again.

>>589103
Aww I wish I had this

He's always saying he feels extremely honoured to be mine. He loves giving head more than anything else and he loves to call me his queen and himself my servant. I feel like I've caught hold of a modern-day knight