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No. 314525[Reply]

Share tips, vent, advice, similar experiences, how to get out of such a rut, what can be changed, what helped you personally, where to meet women you can relate to.

This thread is for:
-those of us who spent our formative years on 4chan/other male dominated spaces and got internet poisoning from it
-those of us who realised men aren't your friends but are now alone
-gender dysphoric women especially socially dysphoric
-ex-TIFs who have come to terms with being female but are now adrift
-those of us who are gender non-conforming in personality, not only appearance
-assorted spergs/speds who have difficulty understanding social norms, unwritten rules, tone of voice, and reading between the lines
-low-empathy or low EQ women
-general loners and NEETs

This thread is NOT for humblebragging about how cool and rational and edgy you are. Please.

For example, I find it difficult to tell lies, even white lies. When I lie it's so obvious it makes it worse. All my friendships with men ended for obvious reasons. I would genuinely like to make female friends so hopefully we can help each other.
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No. 380392

>>380321
I relate to you so I don't know either but you can be my friend?

No. 380436

I struggle with being perceived as stuck up or angry but I don’t feel like a snob or an angry person.

No. 380603

Mostly a vent but… have been feeling kind of self conscious, there’s a girl in my group that’s lived a totally different life, and my life is turbo tragic and full of awful abuse shit. She came into my life in the middle of me experiencing an awful fallout from a rapist ex situation. Sometimes she makes fun of other women going through what I have gone through in the past, or thinks that women lie about that shit. To me she also almost acts so stereotypically chronically online in moid spaces that she even says similar shit to them, and is like the type of person who would brag about being more logical than others. Kinda like “wow, you’re slow if you didn’t notice that” or “what did you expect?” She always cares about other people in the group but almost goes out of her way to ignore me or respond to me passive aggressively and it’s become obvious to me but everyone else says it’s all in my head?? But she’s nice to them of course. I did have one friend who super simps for her but says how he is terrified of telling her anything personal about himself. I wish I would’ve never had traumatic experiences so that I could relate to people easier without being anxious thinking that they secretly think I deserved the abuse because of how they talk about others.

No. 381059

>>379460
>>379460
As >>379466 said, there are lots of autistic or weird women with niche interests out there. As you can see here. You could try and go to convention/meetups/events/clubs. Try going to other countries too if yours is troon infested. America must really suck kek

No. 381111

>>380436
This has happened to me, I believe because I usually didn't have the same opinions/tastes/values and expressing myself came off as trying to constantly contradict the other person. Also just trying to defend myself in general. It's about not being understood, and it can feel painful. From my experience at least, when I found kinder people they did not make me feel like that.



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No. 369903[Reply]

A thread for discussing hair care, hair problems, hair styles, and hair product recommendations.

Previous threads:
>>>/g/272194
>>>/g/194587
>>>/g/142100
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No. 380337

>>380280
What sort of shape are your glasses frames? My suggestions are dependent on the shape of the frames as well as the shape of your face.

No. 380346

Any anons here struggle with oily scalps? For context, I have straight Asian hair and my scalp are quite oily after a day of not washing my hair. My bangs and the top of my head tend to be super greasy, I've tried using shampoos for oily scalp and it does somewhat remedy the problem but overall the oiliness is still here. Do you guys have any solution to fix this problem?

No. 380388

>>380346
It probably sounds obvious but have you tried using dry shampoo? I struggle with an oily scalp too and I have to wash it every other day unfortunately.

No. 380396

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Nonnas I just made and did a henna gloss mask for my natural ginger hair and it turned out SO GOOD?! All I did was add about 1/4 cup maybe 1/3 of a very basic organic conditioner (my hair is big n long) with a little dash of a nice leave-in treatment and left it on freshly washed, damp hair for 3 hours. I did a lil cheeky blowout and I could cry at the softness and shine. My hair is normally pretty coarse but it looks like a 90s hair product commercial rn. The color is really nice too, I bet it would be pretty as a color wash glaze over blonde hair.

No. 380415

>>380388
Ive tried using dried shampoo a lil while ago but tbqh I don’t wanna rely on them too much



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No. 379519[Reply]

for mixed-race women to chat, vent, discuss culture dynamics, and generally gather. this goes for any mixed ethnicity woman. thread was suggested in the Asian girl problems thread.

Refer to site/board rules. Avoid infighting, please.
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No. 380315

>>380219
Most of us live in the west aka majority white countries, so of course most of the men around us are white. Also, we’re allowed to have preferences just like anyone else.

No. 380324

>>380246
My current boyfriend is a hapa, I'm not mixed with Asian but both of us being half-white made our experiences feel very similar. I think that I would prefer to only be with mixed race partners if I can help it because I feel more familiarity with a mixed race person of a different combination than I feel with mono-race people of one of my two cultures. Plus if their family is full of mixed race relationships then they're way less likely to have weird racial dynamics and look at you differently.

No. 380333

>>380215
kek. same nona. me and my whole dads side of the family love watching hockey (thanks Justin Abdelkader)

No. 380380

>shieldmaidens immediately jump out of the woodwork to defend m’sirs shiny pink penis/m’ladys shiny white clitoris despite whining about how evil white people are
Lol typical. Also, there’s no Western European country that isn’t full of immigrants, so unless y’all all just happen to be mixed girls living in Latvia or some shit, youre larping about how there’s no non white people to date. Just admit youre self hating and worship whites.(infighting)

No. 380453

>>380380
How dare someone have a preference that's not dating migrants working a minimum wage job or no job at all and living in migrant housing in the ghetto(racebaiting)



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No. 323080[Reply]

I see this come up as a topic in the relationship thread a lot and thought maybe it should be it's own thread.

So as a straight woman if you don't want to die alone you will eventually have to have to try to find a man who isn't totally disgusting, which is extremely hard. One of the most important qualities a man needs to have is not watching porn. So here are some questions to discuss:

How do you find a man who doesn't watch porn?
Is it possible or impossible?
Can you convince a man to give up porn for you?
Do you think a man can give up porn forever?
How do you trust a man not to watch porn?

Personally I think that a man will probably never quit using porn fully. I have had two relationships with men who told me they won't watch porn because it hurts me and I consider it cheating. The first one I straight up caught watching porn, the second one I found out was trying to skirt around the rule of "no porn" by not considering things like gifs of women doing a sexy dance or still images of naked women as porn. He'd also listen to women doing ASMR and I think he was also watching porn whenever we had a fight and he was angry at me. At this point I don't think it's possible anymore.
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No. 380227

>>323080
It's been 2 years now and I'm 100% sure my man doesn't watch porn but I also think he's on the spectrum. Coding makes him coom and he will watch people writing code for fun. He's so obsessed with code and technology I'm surprised he even likes women at all. If I didn't exist I think he would just code all day

No. 380229

>>380227
Oh… oh anon.

No. 380240

>>380227
I dated a coder who I thought the same thing about, he opened up 4 years later about his severe troon porn addiction and him cheating on me.
IT are one of the creepiest and most porn sick professions to date.

No. 380255

>>380220
Mostly asexual and doesn't care about visual stimulation, probably does himself in the shower in five minutes a few times a month

No. 380288

>>380220
Porn isn’t normal, so him not watching it probably means he’s less gay because pornsick scrotes meme themselves into being gay (though not necessarily actually gay) by searching for more and more depraved porn because, like a drug, the high isn’t effective the more you expose yourself to certain stimulus so you have to escalate like an addict and find new novel porn.
That said maybe he did have a porn addiction and is doing his due diligence by not engaging with it to avoid a relapse.



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No. 289276[Reply]

previous thread >>>/g/193846

the anticipated second containment thread for the irl husbandofags is here! sperg freely about your trash men here and don't forget to have fun
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No. 380233

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I never understood the hype about Timothée Chalamet until I just watched D U N C - I mean ,“Dune” (2021) holy shit. I don’t know if I’m ovulating or what but I can hardly describe the plot because the entire time I was just fantasizing about kissing his soft lips and imagining what he sounds like when he cums

No. 380243

>>380233
Welcome to the club nonnie

No. 380244

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sorry nonnies but i need him hog tied, covered in olive oil and glistening in the moonlight, the shit i wouldve done to be at one of stings matches in 1997 is beyond all logical reasoning

No. 380406

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this isn't my usual type but i found him hot in this pic plus the earrings

No. 380832

>deuxmoi spreading lies about my husbando and immediately proven wrong the day after
kekk. second time this has happened, whoever runs it must be bored or taking fan submissions.



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No. 164082[Reply]

What's a weird thing about someone that turns you off.

Unusual and nit-picky things.
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No. 378021

Changing his personality based upon who is around him and who he wants to impress
Sniveling at the ankles of younger people to try to make them like him
Develops a voice affectation only when around certain people
Balding
Neckbeard
Pathetic

No. 378066

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Men:
>strongly dislikes pubes/any body hair on women
>strong preference for petite women
>dominant only, unwilling to switch roles
>fixated on m/f/f threesome possibility if he knows i'm bi
>any kind of "enby"

Women:
>visibly tries to appeal to the sort of moids listed above eg. "i'm smoll uwu babby," visibly sucking in in pictures etc
>"waif" "girlies" aesthetic
>taylor swift or phoebe bridgers stan, generally bad taste in music
>she/they or feminine they/them pronoun user who strongly identifies as "trans"
>experienced with men but very inexperienced with women

Both:
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No. 380074

I'm the opposite of childfree but moids with "breeding" fetish sound so irresponsable and stupid and ruin my mood.
If you really want to fuck me that much then why do you have to obsess over the outcome of me worrying for months of growing a life inside of me and then be occuppied almost 24/24 raising my kids? Do you think i would be in the mood for sex in all that time?
It's like saying you want to swim in the ocean but you just take a bath in your bathroom.
They just sound like rape apes, if i want to have kids i don't want it to be fetishized, moids with pregnant fetish are a huge red flag but it's so dumb how many who don't even want kids are into this idiot "breeding" idea. Just leave it out.

No. 380109

>>380074
It's never about children but about validating their own masculinity by "spreading their seed" (ew)

No. 380196

>>380074
Even though I have a breeding kink I agree with you Nona. It’s big red flag if a moid says he has a breeding kink. They’re almost never interested in paying for or raising their spawn it’s just about conquest and spreading their genes.



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No. 348964[Reply]

What is a Seasonal Color Analysis?
>"Color analysis (American English; colour analysis in Commonwealth English), also known as personal color analysis (PCA), seasonal color analysis, or skin-tone matching, is a term often used within the cosmetics and fashion industry to describe a method of determining the colors of clothing, makeup, hair style that harmonizes with a person's skin complexion, eye color, and hair color for use in wardrobe planning and style consulting. It is generally agreed that the wrong colors will draw attention to such flaws as wrinkles or uneven skin tone while harmonious colors will enhance the natural beauty of the individual making them appear healthy, brighter, and possible more attractive or put-together."

Kinda similar to the Kibbe thread, this one is specifically dedicated to personal palettes and colors.

>Share good palettes

>Ask for advice on the best clothes or other products for your season
>Find out about your own season
>Vent about your color frustrations
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No. 380164

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From various photos in different lighting. I always get some kind of autumn, but I'm unsure what autumn (get soft autumn the most). This is my natural hair color (which has reddish and blonde streaks but is predominantly brown)

I find a lot of the autumn colors very boring, especially the idea that black is a bad neutral for autumns (and "soft autumn" rules say avoid black). I often end up dyeing my hair and wearing bright makeup because I hate the lack of contrast between my hair, skin and eyes

No. 380166

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>>380164
Picrel that I also showed up as a winter a few times and once as a summer, and I much prefer their color schemes. When it comes to neutrals I also much prefer black to brown or tan. The only "autumn" colors I like on the chart are the greens, blues, one shade of the yellow, and maroon, but most of them otherwise don't suit my style, and I also like neutral type pastels that are shoved into the "avoid" category.

Will it make me look that bad if I decide to fudge the color rules when I don't want to wear makeup and clothes whose colors I find hideous?

No. 380167

Just me or is the summer palette really difficult to shop clothes for? Like it's pretty easy to find clothes that are both light (enough) in color and also cool-toned, but light, cool AND muted/soft is basically non existent in women's fashion right now. I did notice it seems to be more common for men's fashion for some reason.

No. 380169

>>380167
I prefer thrifting since some stores organize by shade and don't fall in line with trends so it's easier to find what I want if it's there. I don't know if that's an option where you are.

I've always hated shopping online unless it's a definitively online only item, I sperg too much over the way things fit

No. 380191

>>380167
Try asian clothing instead I see so much cool light muted soft coloured clothing in Korean and Japanese brands. I noticed a lot of Pakistani and Middle Eastern brands do very muted and cool toned clothing too.



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No. 215207[Reply]

Post men who are shilled as attractive but you think are ugly/overrated. Timmy was posted frequently last thread.
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No. 380101

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Every time I see someone calling him hot I feel like I’m taking crazy pills. I get that it kinda comes from the fact that people like Aemond, but come on, he is ugly. The actor who plays him doesn’t look too bad normally, he has kind of a weird look but passable, but the long white hair just accentuates how long his face is. No offence to nonnas who thirst over him in ASOIAF thread though.

No. 380114

>>380101
He is ugly but I get it

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No. 380144

>>380101
hes weird to me bc from some angles he seems horsefaced, inbred and ugly and from others he looks eerie in a way that is pretty attractive. idek
i like the hair tho

No. 380168

>>380101
My waifu has a similar nose and similar corners of her mouth so idek who this is but I think he’s cute. Long nose + cute mouth = attractive in my personal calculations



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No. 368030[Reply]

Post about everything fashion related; designers, collections, the industry, jobs, experiences, influences and effects on ordinary people and your life, the past, the future, the present, etc.

>Fashion 101

Teach us the basics, the must knowns, the do’s and don’ts.

>History

Enlighten us with all your knowledge; be either by wallposting, sperging or with extra materials/resources (ex. links, documentaries, articles, PDFs, etc.)

>Personal/Unpopular Opinions

Do you have a personal fashion related thought or a spicy take? Let us have it.

>Venting

Share all your woes and sorrows about anything and everything fashion related.

>Memeing

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No. 368629

>>368628
It's no problemo

No. 380087

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I’m Im still obsessed with these rommydebommy bags after all these years. She hand-makes each of them from clay so it’s not practical to use as a bag, but they’re so kitschy I love them

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No. 380089

Wtf, when'd this thread get moved here?

No. 380090

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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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No. 375111

My Nigel packed my lunch for me and just the act of it alone is so sweet to me. I nearly cried when I noticed he included a fork in the bag. Even earlier I noticed he packed napkins too. It's just little things like this, I've never gotten this type of treatment before!
I've always believed in treating people the way I liked to be treated, even the past moids I've dated who could not reciprocate my care for them. Acts of service were always my favorite thing to do and I would become very upset when I wouldn't have them do it back to me. Now I have my Nigel who's more than glad to perform acts of service for me. Now I know what a deep love feels like, it seems. I'm making extra sure to let him know how much I love when he does things like this. Even yesterday when we went shopping, he offered to hold my clothes for me, and I thanked him up and down for doing so. He said it was "nothing" for him to do and he asked if anyone's ever done that for me, and I said "no, you're the first person to do these things for me, so thank you so much."
He's so great at trying to find ways to take care of me and he'll often ask me if he wants me to do something for him.
God bless my Nigel.

No. 377521

I used to be very afraid of expressing a dissident opinion because my abuser ex would get mad and act like I was literally subhuman for trivial stuff like not hating his least favorite food. My current boyfriend is allergic to some of my favorite foods, which made me initially nervous that he'd take it negatively, but he was overjoyed; he said it's so great that he can give it to me to enjoy whenever he is mistakenly served stuff he can't eat.
He chose to take off his jacket for me to sit on so I could sit on the grass without getting my clothes dirty, even though it was freezing outside and he's from a warm climate. While he was shivering like crazy, he smiled and said he was happier than he was cold.
He isn't afraid to speak out against what he thinks is wrong, including the mistreatment of women, including unpopular opinions like being against pornography and surrogacy. Even when it makes people think he's weird. He talks about the people who think he's crazy with a smile on his face and without any bitterness.
I was going to make this longer and mention more small ways he cares for me without me asking at all. He doesn't know how much I've learned from him, at least not yet, but I'm very happy to be alive. There aren't enough people like him but he exists and every day the memories of the past soften into something a little less painful.

No. 377540

>>377521
i'm happy for you nonna! you deserve to be in a fulfilling and positive relationship after what you went through with your ex.

No. 380054

After seeing the "portrait" in the relationship advice thread I am even happier to have a nigel who draws beautiful illustrations of me and of us together.

No. 380057

>>339024
I'm getting this cake again today! Except there will be coffee cream in it.



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