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No. 281274[Reply]

Tell your story, Nonnas
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No. 281306

>>281275
why haven't you poisoned him yet

No. 281308

>>281306
yeah. i am going to need therapy for a long time to try and recover from his crimes

No. 281309

>>281299
he was nice, charismatic and intensely charming at the start

No. 281314

>started dating the first guy I met after I moved to a totally new city 500 miles away during a global pandemic
>was super kinky, degenerate shit. I was so into it. Would give me his credit card too.
>things started seeping into everyday life.
>called me stupid and dramatic consistently
>wanted to date but didn’t want to date
>I was super emotionally attached to them because only person I knew
>took me to dinner one night and lots of drinks later he broke up with me (for real)
>I wasn’t going to leave him at the bar because worried how he was gonna get home
>we leave the bar, he’s calling me stupid hitting me. He falls and bust his head wide open.
>I call 911, my keys are at his apartment so I ask the EMT for his keys, they can’t find them.
>I’m stuck but luckily had my phone and wallet. Figure it out.
>I become more attached because I’m worried about him, want to help him recover etc.
>keeps drinking super heavy, is abusing me every time if I’m there.
>finally hits me hard enough to give me a black eye, I have a professional job and feel nothing but shame that everyone’s gonna know.
>I finally left .
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No. 281794

>>281299
i’ll add asked me for money to go and meet a tinder date in the city to that since that happened today.

I’m beyond done. i feel fucking sick


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No. 208345[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about the fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your lolita friendships. Ex lolitas and newbies are welcomed too. Etc.
For drama, check out the tread on /w/: >>>/w/143376
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No. 281215

Oh thank goodness, people are using this thread again. Going on CGL just raises my blood pressure, and that's only taking into account having to constantly hide/scroll past the bottom of the barrel shit cosplay threads.

>>280965
I am another Baby lover encouraging you to appreciate Baby more lolol. Baby's flavor of sweet definitely still adheres more to a sort of fairy-tale feeling most of the time, especially their older stuff, a lot of their artwork I love because the style reminds me of watercolor paintings.

No. 281252

>>281129
Nta but crooked teeth in Japan are considered youthful. There was once a trend where women there got surgery to make them purposely look that way.

No. 281261

>>281215
>>281199
thanks, baby's sweet prints are really growing on me. i am gonna look on fril/rakuma/ for some good deals.

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>>281261
just looking at fril and i see a lot of things i like. especially pic related. it looks like an older print but i'm really fond of the border style that's more of an all over print. (don't know if there's a name for this kind of horizontally repeating print with no border) but looking through these are really reigniting my passion! and they're less than 20000 yen! feels like a dream!

No. 281965

Haven't gone to an event or even an IRL meetup in forever. Any events coming up that you girls want to go to? What's your idea of a perfect meetup?


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No. 136699[Reply]

ITT: post characters/actors that you had a crush in your youth but may or may not have any feelings for now

mine was Trey Parker
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I didn't know who he was but I saw pictures of him. I blame him for my taste in long-haired people.

No. 278406

>>146024
Hell yeah he's so hot

No. 278408

>>276969
Is your dad single nona

No. 278463

>>276967
sexy

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No. 279731[Reply]

As a contrast to the horrible parents thread, I wanted to make a general-purpose mom thread. Share stories about your mom, ways she inspired you, her quirks, etc. Doesn't necessarily have to be positive, but keep in mind that there are other threads for negative experiences. Posts about grandmas are fine too.
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No. 279974

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my mom is my best friend she is very funny and very adorable and does things with me even though i am annoying and not as cool as her. I think it is funny that she is too happy go lucky to properly execute any DIY project or recipe she attempts. Our house when i was a child had green, yellow, blue, orange, and red walls with iridescent blue-green curtains and asian lanterns. all this even though the house had oak trim. she just kept painting walls vibrant colors in hopes it would fix things. picrel
I keep having to talk her down from painting the new house's kitchen/cabinets and i do NOT let her go to Home Depot by herself.

No. 280043

>>279963
I feel you so hard, anon. My mom and I have very little in common, too, and she's also in an unhealthy relationship. She loves my stepdad so much, but he has a lot of mental illnesses (PTSD, bipolar) that he doesn't consistently get proper treatment for. It's really a drain on her, and I try to be there for her when I can.

The best advice I can offer is to call her every day and just listen. Moms place a ton of importance on phone calls for one, but when people in general are going through shitty situations, they just want someone to listen to their thoughts.

No. 280044

>>279890
My dad went through something very similar, anon. His dad was a chauvinist prick with a short temper, and he smoked like a chimney. When my grandma got lung cancer, my dad took care of her because my grandpa didn't do jack shit besides work and play golf. She passed away when he was only 21. My dad isn't perfect, but I'm so glad he's nothing like his father. I think spending all that time caring for his mom counteracted whatever negative influence his dad would've had.

Hold on to your memories of your mom for as long as you can, anon. They might make you a better person in the long run.

No. 280049

My boyfriend's mum uses him for nothing but money and to give herself a leg up in life. My boyfriend never gets me involved but I can tell how crushing it is for him to have to do this. From what I can tell it's been going on since he was 16 and he's currently in his early twenties. She is nothing but pure evil but he loves her. He is scared of losing her as she never cared for him as a child.

No. 280133

Does anyone else have a mom whose behavior towards them changed completely once you've gotten older? My mom never used to care much about me when I was a child. She'd always tell my dad to take care of and console me (they're not separated or anything) when I needed something. We never had that tight mother-daughter bond and sometimes she seemed so absent to me. I think most of my relationship issues stem from her failing to give me warmth or care when I was young. She'd always mock and invalidate me when I was crying or upset and accusing me of being an attention seeker, even when I was just as young as six years old. I was always a quiet and introverted child and teen. I'm in my mid-20's now and it's like my mom made a 360° turn. Ever since I moved out when I was 20, she always tells me how much I make her laugh and improve her day when I call her and how much she appreciates me checking in on her and my dad. Whenever I visit them, she makes sure to set up the guest bedroom for me, she even asks me what I'd like to eat and always bakes my favorite brownies when I'm coming over. Sometimes when she goes shopping, she'll see something that's my style and that I might like and buys it for me, even though I never asked her to and she'll be like "Look! I thought you might like this! Please try it on!" with a smile on her face. But it's not just material things. She also tells me that I can tell her anything, even in times of struggle or sadness and that her and my dad will always be there to support me and how proud she is of me for all the things I've accomplished. I guess she must've realized how bad she was treating me when I was young but she never addressed it or apologized for it.


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No. 220643[Reply]

A thread for the loners here (all of us). Venting, how you deal with it, how you spend your time etc.
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No. 274608

i used to be super extroverted, talktative and made an effort to talk to everyone when I was in school. i remember a new girl sitting alone at lunch and my friends refusing to sit with her and me going and sitting with her to ask her how she is doing even tho i was very shy. it was a boarding school so I figured she would like if someone showed her around.

i had a nice small group of friends, two other girls and it was so fun. they were nothing like me but idk I just vibed with them.

school ended and I decided to go to the states for college. i had an awfully hard time making friends. one of the biggest colleges and I cant seem to make a single friend despite wanting it so badly. this experience made me an introvert and I consistently stayed in my room. i had a boyfriend in another state who would fly to me once or twice a month. and he ended up being a pedophile…

sadly he was my only friend so now i could talk to no one about this as my old friends hardly use social media. sometimes i wish i had a girl group in a foreign country. we could just watch movies and talk about anything. i feel like i have wasted my youth and now i wont have any friends as making friends after 20s is said to be hard. nonnies help.

No. 280831

Tips on coping when your only friend is finding another group of people to hang around? We've both only had each other for years and now I'm feeling left out, but to make matters worse they keep going on about how much more fun the others are

No. 281078

I have no friends and this old lady who lives in my neighborhood is trying to set up a hangout between me and this other girl my age in the neighborhood who she knows
it's so awkward, I don't want to show up and scare this girl off with my autism but at the same time apparently she has no friends either so idk, torn between whether I should risk suffering through the awkwardness for the small potential of a friendship or play it safe and stay alone

No. 281085

>>281078
This is so cute, do it!!

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Gore below, don't scroll.


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No. 158895[Reply]

We have threads for men, but how about our bi and lesbian farmers on /g/? What women are you ashamed to say you'd fuck or crush on for any reason?
>unconventionally attractive?
>problematique?
>controversial?
Share your thirst, farmers.
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No. 280498

>>280134
KEK girl

No. 280532

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>>280134
she used to be so cute

No. 280572

>>280047
Same, nona. You have nothing to be ashamed of.

No. 281006

Jennette McCurdy. She's not unconventional but I'm posting her here instead of in the other thread because I didn't watch pedoelodeon as a kid and only found out about her recently because of her book. I think she's so fucking cute, I love her voice and I want us to be terf gfs together.

No. 281011

>>281006
i like her too but damn, she looks kinda sickly. relapsing? sad if so.


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No. 66358[Reply]

Can we have a thread for lesbian and bi women to discuss their fantasies and desires towards other women? No rules except for no talk about dicks
I never find women my age (20) attractive. It's always older women, usually 30+, especially older butch lesbians. I want an older woman to boss me around
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No. 280830

>>280005
But do you want to have sex with a sporty woman? Or is it just aesthetic appreciation.

No. 280891

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I'm weirdly obsessed with this model/actress atm. I thought maybe it was just wanting to be as beautiful as her but now I'm kinda drifting into fantasies of meeting her ever since I read that she finds it difficult to date and people don't approach her because she has resting bitch face. And I totally get that. I also have that issue (legit people ask me all the time is something wrong when I'm just sat there and I'm like 'no! I'm sorry It's just my face looks kinda angry!')

We're also the same age and have similar kinda goth and magicky interests…I keep thinking about us just meeting in London by chance at a park and going for coffee and talking about weird obscure horror we like and how weird the universe just is. And then we start texting and flirting. She sends me cute selfies, I send her back not as cute selfies. I imagine kissing her taking a trip to the South of France and making love in hotel and just being in bed together for a bit before going back to the beach just to sun bathe and cuddle in the sun.

It'll never happen obvs. But. Nice to dream.

No. 280918

>>280815
Duh anon. I want to eat a woman out and make her orgasm 11 times and fuck her with a strap and fall in love and get married, but am also otherwise completely straight.
/s of course

No. 280967

Whenever I see a certain type of woman (tall, muscular, heart of gold, pretty much a shimbo) I just want her to go crazy on me with a strap. I don't really like penetration much so idk why I only want it like this.

I feel like I can't tell my straight friends this without them being like 'hurdur it just sounds like you want a man'

No. 281662

>>280967
same except I want to go crazy on HER with a strap


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No. 209934[Reply]

This thread is to do with all gardening related matters!
Feel free to ask for advice or post progress of your garden, indoor plants etc.
Or just have a chat about gardening in general.
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No. 280605

>>280601
Weeds are your friend. Sounds backwards. But weeds break up the soil because their roots go deeper. No plant is scientifically a weed. Because their root system goes deeper it can help break up your water table to help the plants surrounding bring water and nutrition from lower down.
Feed your soil and turn it over. Fertilize with rice water, banana water, bone meal from eggs, cinnamon powder. Have you thought about a three tier system with beans and corns and turning the soil over? Are you thinking dark greens like Kale

No. 280633

>>280617
Sift the soil for radishes to free sticks and rocks. It will screw up the growth of any root veggies. Kale will probably grow the best out of the list. Are you going to sow in the ground or start inside and move it out for the plants?

No. 280635

>>280633
Samefag but look into herbal spirals too. It’s a smaller structure that could give you a lot of herbs to work with and shouldn’t be overly affected by ground quality. It takes some setting up but it may work too.

No. 280913

What vegetables can withstand heat and direct sun on par with pumpkins?

No. 280930

>>280913
>>Corn but it has a long growing season. If you’re doing corn. You should pair it with beans on steaks. Some beans are more heat tolerant than others.
>>Okra
>>Peppers, but if it gets to hot the plant will drop its flowers and you’ll get a smaller yield. Water well after the highest part of sun. So the soil isn’t soggy at night and there’s no visible water on the roots or stalk at the hottest part of the day as that can amplify the sun and scorch the roots.
>>Summer Squash
>>Other types of pumpkins (that are really hybrid squash kek)
>>Some types of sweet potatoes
>>Tomatoes same note as the peppers. I recommend bucket planting so if it gets extremely hot like heat warning level you can bring them in for the afternoon.


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No. 280759[Reply]

A concept generally related to disfuncional families, toxic family bonds, lack of boundaries with parents, infantilization in adulthood, the mother wound, growing up too quickly, and much more.

In enmeshed families, members are emotionally fused together in an unhealthy way. More than one member is codependent of the other and individual goals are discouraged. A lot of shame and guilt happens when you try to become independent. You can read more here:
https://www.livewellwithsharonmartin.com/enmeshment/
https://www.healthline.com/health/enmeshed-family#signs-of-enmeshment
https://tessrene.com/emotional-enmeshment/

As this is something I very much struggle with, I wanted to see if more anons here have gone through similar stuff, and how were you able to overcome it (or maybe just like me, you are in the process of recovering from). Please share your own experience with family enmeshment here.
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No. 280874

This is a very wholesome thread, thank you !

No. 281057

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posting this too since it seems relevant

No. 281058

>>281057
also posting these
https://medium.com/invisible-illness/6-signs-you-grew-up-in-an-enmeshed-family-and-how-it-affects-you-5e6f856a29ee
https://psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2019/05/the-enmeshed-family-system-what-it-is-and-how-to-break-free#The-legacy-of-enmeshment
https://psychcentral.com/lib/tips-on-setting-boundaries-in-enmeshed-relationships#whats-next

No. 282084

also this
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-emotional-intensity/201907/4-ways-release-anger-towards-your-parents#:~:text=The%20causes%20of%20lifelong%20anger,Physical%2C%20mental%2C%20or%20sexual%20abuse
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/anger-at-parents-in-adulthood/

No. 282113

might also be helpful


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No. 112369[Reply]

Didn't see a thread specifically for this kind of stuff so use this for discussion about things relating to bathroom stuff, advice, how to better your gut, how you personally maintain a healthy gut, general frustrations if you have an unhealthy gut (IBS, Crohns, etc) and/or how you manage it, asshole insecurities, etc.
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No. 278699

>>112369
any nonnas with ulcerative colitis? i need pain relief rn warm baths are the only thing that helps, i have left sided colitis

No. 279088

>>278685
I had the same fear and thought process as you but it literally never happens. The spray from a bidet is so strong that trickling down into your vag isn't really possible. Excess water just turns into mist. It's more like a gardening hose than a drinking fountain

No. 280864

This is very embarrassing but googling online hasn't brought up any useful answers: Ive never been a regular pooper even as a kid and I worry something is wrong with me?? I'm so infrequent in fact, I was surprised when I learned people pooped more than once a week. Every 7 days is impressively regular for me and Ive never had "side effects" like bloat, pain, etc from not pooping more often. Ive done all the "tips" people suggest from drinking more water, running/being more active, straight up laxatives, adding fiber, eating prunes, oatmeal, pysillium husk and probiotics. Those always help in the beginning and I can poop daily but inevitably my body gets used to it and it stops being effective. Im not really looking for more advice, but what should I even say to a doctor and should I just go straight to a specialist or something?

No. 280879

>>278685
well i wipe clean with toilet paper first and have a handheld bidet so i can aim so i have never experienced that

No. 281088

>>280864
I mean if it's not causing you problems, then you shouldn't worry. But if you do go to a doctor, just tell them what you wrote here, that you've had infrequent bowel movements since you were a kid and nothing makes you poop more often in the long term


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