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No. 550137[Reply]

thread #1 >>56468
thread #2 >>199767
thread #3 >>333126
thread #4 >>418500

talk about your gender preferences, how you discovered you were bi, what's your type in men and women, how you feel in the community, any struggles you've had with bisexuality, etc. Ignore and report baiters.
If you're unsure if you're bisexual, the questioning thread is likely a better fit.
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No. 575066

>>574976
>do you encounter this in your lives?
Yes, i've even argued with other bisexuals over this irl. If i coherently argue in favor of the lesbian POV i get told to "touch grass" or that i "hate male sexuality" by salty bihets who can't dismiss the reasons for the rift. They can't exactly deny it because it applies to them so it's back to non-answers, calling you a manhater (?) or cope along the lines of "if a woman showed up and wanted to date me i'd totes be gay" coming from someone who can't cite a single same-sex crush. On the flipside, i feel like some lesbians set themselves up for failure and purposefully ignore blatant red flags, then go back to their routine of feeling sorry for themselves like "my heart is too big and i'm such a lovergirl" kekk

No. 575135

>>575066
Well I think it is one thing to respect lesbians for wanting own spaces or prefering to date each other. But if you are the type to go "yeah all bisexuals cheat and end up with men except for me Im not like the other bis" then pls get a life.

No. 575221

>>574659
i’ve never even had bfs dude lol… like, i don’t even see males as potential partners tbh… the one time i kinda did, it was more about validation or whatever. i just wanted to check a mental bucket list like “ok cool, i did something sexual with a guy.” went on a date, did some shitty ass foreplay, and then cut him off the next day when he said he wanted to be my boyfriend lmao. and it’s not even like i’m a manhater or traumatized or anything. people always assume that, but nah. i’m just indifferent to dating men. i mostly just see them as eye candy sometimes, or get off to dick in fantasy — like penis envy shit / futanari stuff, basically.

women are what always take up my fantasies — like, they just live there. and sometimes i feel like i’m lowkey gaslighting myself into thinking i’m faking all this, just because both heteros and homos act like my mind and body can’t possibly work this way…? even if i literally had a serious relationship with my ex-gf hah(integrate)

No. 575229

>>575135
>yeah all bisexuals cheat and end up with men except for me Im not like the other bis" then pls get a life
Yeah that's retarded. I wish female sexuality wasn't treated like a race to "best girl" title on here.

No. 575232

>>575229
if people didn’t see sexual orientation as an identity, and just as a simple material, biological reality of how their body responds… then none of this infighting would happen


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No. 430575[Reply]

Unsure if you're actually straight? Actually gay? Anything in between? Ask for advice here.

Also welcome are "late bloomers" who realized their true selves long after their teen years who'd like to share their experience and tell others what signs to look out for.

Please be kind to questioning anons, no matter how "obvious" it might seem to you what they are.

Thread #1: >>153246
Thread #2: >>>/g/344673
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No. 573063

would someone with OCD (?) who's grown up religious taught to not touch men and avoid them, experience physical attraction to men?

on that note, is attraction to certain features not typically found in males (after puberty) like soft skin, for example an indication? i dont simply like soft skin. i couldnt touch someone that isnt 9 or a woman.

No. 573203

>>573063
If they were straight or bi yeah. Also I hope you don't want to touch children wtf?

No. 573518

I know have to bi but the way women express OSA in places like this is so completely alien to me that it makes me wonder if I really am lesbian again. I can't understand feeling interest in men's looks and bodies no matter how attractive or 2D they are. The one time I felt attracted to a moid his male body felt more like a defect I could tolerate because I liked him.

No. 573920

>>573203
kek nona obviously not. i meant touch in the very literal sense, not sexually.

No. 575130

I've come to fantasize about having a close female friend I could trust enough to cuddle with and fulfill my touch cravings, but I don't think that'd be like a sexual attraction or anything, plus I bet it's just some usual friendly benefit for some people (luckier than me)


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No. 444331[Reply]

Welcome to the Emergency Room! Experiencing symptoms and need some quick guidance? This thread is here for anyone looking to discuss health concerns, symptoms, or urgent questions. While this isn’t a substitute for professional medical care, farmers can share insights and personal experiences to help you navigate your next steps. But remember, when in doubt, always seek immediate help from a healthcare provider!
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No. 574785

>>574617
ill never understand women who get UTIs from their moids dirty dick and still keep fucking him, i had an irl friend who had a uti for over a year from her nigels nasty dick and still kept doing him, like what? its obviously your man thats the problem

No. 574888

>>574617
Are you still getting UTIs when you're not having sex? Because if not, it's probably because of sex with your moid. He should learn to wash his dick properly. Drink more water, especially after sex, to flush out your urinary tract. Try taking D-mannose supplements to see if that'll help. Take 2 grams daily when you have a current infection and 1 gram daily as a maintenance dose against recurrent UTIs.

No. 574970

>>574785
>>574780
No disrespect but UTIs aren’t STIs, they aren’t transmissible. I’ve slept with a boyfriend and had UTIs sometimes, sometimes not, and he showered twice a day.
>>574888
Never heard of this - thank you!

No. 575095

I got tiny red dots on my arms and legs. There’s strangely even one on my stomach too. They’re not in clusters so not peteichae and they don’t itch or hurt. They’re like 1-2 mm big. I got one from a needle injection site and it’s never disappeared or healed since. Is this a sign of a blood clotting disorder?

I asked my doctor and he just shrugged it off and said don’t worry about it. Didn’t give me an explanation at all. I didn’t bring up the question if it’s an underlying issue. Anyway, the check up I did with him was for another thing so I think he was busy and more concerned about that than this random question I had.

No. 575106

>>574970
do you guys always use a condom?


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No. 285473[Reply]

A thread for all of us recovering from an eating disorder, be it recovered, in recovery or wanting to recover.

Discuss your recovery journey, your ED progression and your thoughts on it.

Some questions to start:

How did your ED start and why?
What made you/makes you want to recover?
How long have you been in recovery?
Have you been inpatient or in therapy? Did it help?
Was your ED a coping/self-harming mechanism? How do you cope with difficult emotions now?
Have you gained weight in recovery?
Has your attitude towards weight changed?
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No. 466882

After 3.5 years of being in big fat relapse mode I had a psychological change of perspective over the last year that I've been referring to as "lifting the veil" in my head: I don't count calories anymore, I don't try to lose weight or compare myself to other anorexic people or overexercise etc because I see how pointless it all is. Normal people don't care about any of that. But… I'm still afraid of weight gain and feel so much shame when I do eat that I haven't managed to break my fasting cycle at all. BMI is stuck in the 14s because of this. I can't live the life I want cause I'm so exhausted all the time, can barely stay in my part time job or get up the stairs sometimes. Why can't I just be brave and eat more? I feel "out of control" if I even have an extra cup of coffee with sugar in it. I don't want to live like this. I'm scared I'll be ugly at a healthy weight.

No. 466902

>>466882
People who stay healthy don't think about BMIs or calories. You would need to stop treating your eating disorder as a hobby to recover from it, so replacing it with something else and avoiding food or places that trigger you until you've reshaped your brain. Try "safe fats" like avocadoes or seeds for now and add more triggering foods later. The sooner you can replenish your brain, the sooner you'll be making rational decisions

No. 467513

the worst part after gaining weight and letting it redistribute is trying to fix electrolyte and hormone imbalance. year 4 of recovery and still having crazy water retention. magnesium and zinc supplements, MSM, K2. have not yet fixed the lack of progesterone and i don't think my body will make it anymore. i have not yet had any professional medical help but i am thinking about taking hormone replacement therapy to combat the estrogen dominance to debloat. i was/still am a lonely repellent autist trying to compensate with people-pleasing and thought that people would like me if i could physically fit the mold and looked like girls in the media. seeing celebs on screen with anorexia and how people reacted to them on social media made me realize how much they were visibly suffering only to be despised for it yet have it still be expected of them. men who are obsessed with that body type hate you the most. i regret all the energy i wasted and opportunities i lost in school and work because now i am nearing middle age empty handed and without wisdom.

No. 574993

i wasn't really sure where to post this since the diet accountability thread asks for no anas and it feels wrong putting it into the ed thread where there are people actively going through it so i hope here is okay, does anyone have any advice for getting fit/healthy and improving their relationship with food and exercise in the long run? i have been recovered for about 2 years now but have recently started binging and engaging in behaviors that originally made me gain weight that then led to me developing ana for 3 years. I want to be able to have the self control to reverse the binging i've been doing safely but am unsure about how to do it without triggering myself completely and spiraling for another few years all over again. do any recovered anons have any advice for me? i've thought about making meal plans but that feels like a slippery slope into counting cals again, same with hardcore exercise. if anyone has any advice or has gone through/is going through something similar it would be greatly appreciated

No. 575029

>>574993
The thing that helped me still have control but eat “whatever” I want (to an extent) was giving myself some kind of dietary restriction: vegan, all organic, low fat, no seed oils, etc etc etc take your pick. For me, looking at literally everything as something I could eat was overwhelming, but having limited options - yet eating as much as I needed to be satisfied within that limit - helps me mentally SOOO much. I’m already a vegetarian but sticking to organic foods too means I am automatically eating healthily with no like calorie counting or guilt.


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No. 408483[Reply]

Welcome to to the divination thread. Here we discuss our experiences with tarot or any other form of divination, be on the giving or receiving end. You can also use this thread to practice reads and ask questions to readers. General discussion pertaining to the topic is also allowed.

>Info for people seeking a reading
If you want to get a reading, please leave a post here with your query and general details about it. It's optional but you can include your age, sex, sign, a picture, a song, or any other info you might feel is relevant, anything that might help the reader pick up your energy better. Some readers may ask for distinct requirement according to their reading style. Although you may post your query here, it is not guaranteed that your post will be picked up by a reader quickly, but it may still eventually happen.

>Info for readers
You can come here and offer readings for anons, how many spots you offer and how many questions you'll answer is up to you. You may also pick up any query from this thread and answer it. Remember to disclose what your requirements for a reading are (age, sex, sign, length of the question, etc) and what method of divination you're using. If there's certain questions you won't answer (death and sickness related for example) be sure to disclose it as well.

>Info for people seeking a trade
As a reader, you may come here and ask to trade a reading, meaning you leave your own question and then wait until another reader picks it up. If that reader answers your question, be sure to reply back as soon as possible. Always disclose what method of divination you're using. Try to match the length of the other anon's response, don't leave them hanging or reply with a shorter text than theirs.

>Info for people learning any divination method including tarot
Feel free to come here to practice your skills. You can ask for advice, tips, and feedback. Even if you're not actively learning and are just curious about it, please don't shy away from posting in this thread.

Have fun!
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No. 574127

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>>574118
It's a good card

No. 574948

>>571443
Thank for your reading, nona

No. 574981

>>570507
thanks nona for the reading and wow this is so accurate thank you thank you thank you. Yes I did get accepted into art school but my struggle was with what you mentioned, having my creative network already established here and feeling like I'm not good enough for the plunge. Reading this made me feel so much better

No. 575001

May I please get a reading on how my mother feels about me? Our relationship has always been very complicated. She got a lot better after I grew up than she was when I was a kid, and I can't tell if it's genuine or if she just wants me to help her out financially.

No. 575447

>>574981
You’re welcome! Glad it was accurate and wishing you the best.


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No. 463347[Reply]

Previous Thread: >>297242

Rules
>Don't forget to stay anonymous. Don't give key details about you like your real name or address. Have basic cyber security common sense.
>Don't organize any type of discord/telegram/etc group in this thread or anywhere else on lolcow. Organize it elsewhere.
>Don't get discouraged if you get ghosted or don't immediately click with someone, shit happens. Keep trying.
>This website is 18+ only, don't post here if you are a minor.

Guidelines to consider:
>Contact
>How long this contact will remain active?
>Timezone
>Age
>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
>How would you describe yourself?
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No. 572864

>Discord
yung_storm
>How long this contact will remain active?
Indefinitely
>Timezone
EST
>Age
25
>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
21+
>How would you describe yourself?
Introverted loner type
>Hobbies and pastimes
Music, movies, video games, diamond painting, crochet, aspiring content creator
>Favorite movies/shows/music/books/etc
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No. 573469

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>Contact
email: penpenrepen@gmail.com, will give you my discord after.
>How long this contact will remain active?
Forever. It's a pact.
>Timezone
GMT-3
>Age
20, 21 very soon.
>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
Someone my age, but if you feel like you can interact with someone younger as an older woman, feel free to add me too.
>How would you describe yourself?
Silly, kinda retarded humor, but i also really like to talk about sentimental things and i am a sensitive person. I am ESL so keep it in mind. My english is not the best, however, if that makes you curious, im a good writer in my native language. I will care deeply about your sentimental struggles if you trust me enough to share them. Looking for real, judgment-free friendship where we can be both stupid and profound. Very flexible, very chill. You can be TMI, i don't care, i'm a very hard-to-disgust person, so you can feel completely free to be yourself to the max.

I don't get out of my house frequently and follow that as a sort of personal culture at this point. I believe some people naturally are more comfortable being at home as much as possible (i also believe that there's a balance needed to keep a good health, of course) I haven't lived much, to be honest, i don't really relate to the troubles of people who have lived lives full of experiences. I have no social media, my hair is curly… I love unique and different things, and relate to that one passage of "We need to talk about Kevin" where his mother talks about how every country has different customs about greetings, but every country has customs about greetings. If this makes sense to you maybe we will relate to eachother.

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No. 574033

>>569328
>a fellow londoner undead fan in my age range on lc
Wtf, I am no longer into enstars but this is crazy. Sadly I'm way too anxious to add anyone here

No. 574409

>>574033
nta and that’s at least 3 of us now, reconsider~

No. 574949

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>Contact
yellasubmarine@protonmail.com
>How long this contact will remain active?
Forever, hopefully
>Timezone
Eastern Daylight Time
>Age
20
>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
As long as you aren't underage.
>How would you describe yourself?
I consider myself kind of skittish, but I can talk for hours on end if I get comfortable enough. I have an easy to crack shell. I am not good at comforting people but I will listen. I like to have fun and laugh loud and make other people happy.
>Hobbies and pastimes
Art in the most broad sense, I like to draw weird shit and mess around with air dry clay. I like to make little plushies of characters I like and other threadwork.
>Favorite movies/shows/music/books/etc
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No. 574552 [Reply]

The rats are fleeing the SS Weegee edition

ITT: Post pictures, new developments and conversation about Luigi

Previous threads:
>>450007
>>451665
>>453384
>>455202
>>456930
>>458496
>>460350
>>462677
>>465438
>>467757
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No. 576038

>>575978
kek I remember momo having lots of posts about family/gf conflict rumors and trying to find out about it. It's her letter that did it.

No. 576039

>>576037
Nah it was the plebbits earlier but they've gone to sleep now

No. 576040

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No. 576043

What are everyone's thoight on sareena townsend? I know she is a lawyer and she has a huge hateboner for the mayor but some of her takes were very 'nO reAl eViDenCE'-y especially early on

No. 576046

>>576029
>What other possibility can exist
They let someone do bad things to him and covered up.


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No. 394891[Reply]

A thread for butch lovers, by butch lovers.

>Post images of butches you find cute please
>Opinion on the terms butch? Masc?
>Vent for troonism within the community?
>History with butches or current crushes?
>Butch Lesbian Scene?
>Media with butches?
>Are you butch4butch, butch4femme, or butch4both?
>Are you stone, switch, or a bottom?
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No. 568997

>>568793
> “Crossdressing" is not really a word to reclaim but leave in the past, in my opinion.
How else are you supposed to describe wearing men’s clothes? Just say “wearing men’s clothes”? Inb4 “there’s no such thing as men’s and women’s clothes, just clothes!” there still has to be a way to describe it. Personally I love the term crossdressing when used for women. It’s short and to the point and sounds as rebellious as it is.

No. 568999

>>568997
>How else are you supposed to describe wearing men’s clothes? Just say “wearing men’s clothes”?
I don't care about whether or not people use the word crossdressing, but yes. This is how I describe the way I dress in my day-to-day life.

No. 569409

>>568788
>>568971
nona this is sooooooo good. ive never seen a butch with this kind of skater-prep look, but a pet boy i had in high school dressed exactly like this. he took me to my first rave. i like the 2000s influence as well. i also went to private school, i loved wearing uniforms because i was the only girl who wore pants; expressing my identity was a lot more straightforward because the dress code was so restricting about gendered dress.

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No. 574475

>>574329
Why is butch art always so ugly in style.


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No. 447644[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive men you would enjoy having sex with.

Previous:
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No. 574185

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>>574072
hey anon im sorry to break it to you but the guy in picrel is a abuser. Maybe this is a random pic you found and are just posting but if it's not and you know about him i just want to let you know. He also uses multiple synonyms and names so his sexual allegations are less searchable. A couple of years ago multiple women cam out against him including a makeup artist who said he raped her when she was drunk and didn't pay her for her makeup services. Most of the sites exposing him are not dead links.

He is also one of those hispanics who pretends to be native so he also got called out for that.

No. 574213

>>574185
goddammit scrotes, get your shit together

No. 574216

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Was gonna post in ideal man bodies, but I didn't want to wait out his face

No. 574224

>>574185
Wtf, I'm way less attracted to him now. I guess at the end of the day, a moid is still a moid

No. 574565

>>573937
I love his smile I want him


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No. 379519[Reply]

for mixed-race women to chat, vent, discuss culture dynamics, and generally gather. this goes for any mixed ethnicity woman. thread was suggested in the Asian girl problems thread.

Refer to site/board rules. Avoid infighting, please.
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No. 573915

>>573536
Same nonnie, I experienced plenty of passive-aggressive and exclusionary racism in my life and I understand that fully black people, especially in the US, have it even worse. But it hurts that I can't even hang out in black spaces because they're constantly sperging about mixed race relationships and people too, calling babies abominations and bastards etc even here on lc.. .

No. 574005

>>573853
Male weeb (s)expats in Japan are such pests. How the fuck do you expect people to treat you as 'one of them' if you can't speak the language and are insanely annoying? It's not like it's impossible for people to assimilate into other cultures (a lot of people ITT are a direct result of that happening), but it's almost always the women. I wish they'd just take their yellow fever WMAF fetish and fuck off to a mixed pot country where a 2nd gen asian pickme will willingly become their bangmaid waifu. The worst part is that they do actually find a woman willing to fuck their ugly ass if it gives her a hapa baby, usually granting him a marriage visa in the process.
some stacys do just pump and dump them though

No. 574011

>>573610
>>573599
Kek one of my friends in college assumed my (black) dad was some deadbeat that abandoned me as a kid because I would always refer to him in the past tense. No bitch he died from prostate cancer tf
>>573915
I don't get why people sperg so much about mixed race couples. The worst is when people feel the need to brag so much about how they'd never date outside their race? Ok, good for you? Nobody is forcing you to do so.

No. 574077

>>574005
people can assimilate to other cultures just fine, but making it like you're somehow more special than people just born into it is pathetic cope lol

>>573915
that's only online. in real life I still get

> you're black?
> I'm half black
> so you're black.

Lately I've been getting similar sentiments from Asians. SEAs see me similar to them and East Asians see me like a SEAsian, it's interesting.

No. 574110

>>573816
>acting as if we look inhuman or bizarre and shit like that
I see people say shit about how mixed people look weird or uncanny as if odd looking monoracial people don’t exist. Then again the people who say this tend to be ethnonationalists of some sort so they’re just coping.


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