/g/ - girl talk

>>458057
It doesn't work if his cock is of average size or less, though. (Trust me.)

>>457866
Honestly I’m a roll with the punches type so I started being mildly manipulative here and there to see how the guy reacts. Briefly dated this one guy where we were out at this place with a few restaurants in close walking distance. He went to the host and there was a wait time. I said we should try another restaurant. Dude got PISSY at me like? That type of guy sucks to deal with. If a guy acts weird or gets mad when you say no to him or object to something he suggests, just move on. Don’t give him a second chance. If you’re bold you can even stage a crisis and see how he reacts. May seem like a lot of work but I’d rather do this than waste another 2 years just to find out the guy sucks in times of crisis, like my long term ex was

>>458035
as the anon you replied to, same kek but it's more of a question to gauge empathy level of a man because i never blame women for cheating unless they're a homewrecker and men are the that ones usually do more wrong and lie about it if a relationship goes sour

I'm just yelling into the void, but my bf of 5 years has never bought me a birthday gift or Christmas gift… I am fine with it because I grew up really poor so my family never did gifts, either. It's not a matter of him being poor- he has a good salary. Plus, I have always managed to get him something for his birthdays and holidays and he has said I am a fantastic gift-giver.

This year, I expressed to him that I really wanted a gift of some sort because it's always so disappointing to never get anything- not even something basic like flowers or $10 of my favorite snacks. I asked him today when he wanted to exchange Christmas gifts and he said "Oh, I didn't get you anything… You always talk about how much you hate consumerism so I had no idea what to get you."

It's so disappointing.

>>459046
To be fair, if you regularly complain about consumerism it's not surprising he doesn't buy you gifts. It's a largely consumerist expectation to buy gifts at regular intervals. Christmas shopping has always been pushed by department stores.

>>411218
Kekk anon, odd choice, but I get you, I consider her evil but I have a facination with evil women.

>>383016
>>383067
Me too. I wish I could figure out how to get the poofy parts outside the bun. I often pin my hair up in a similar style but curls spilling out in a "romantic style" always yearn for the poof tho

I really like Atsuko Hashiyasume's look from BISH. She looks really cool.

valeria lukyanova

>>409955
Late reply but for some reason she kinda reminds me of Lisa Kudrow in this pic kek

https://www.hindustantimes.com/trending/onlyfans-star-who-cried-after-having-sex-with-100-men-now-wants-to-sleep-with-1-000-more-101733914870858.html
Sleeping with those she didn't truly like drained her soul

Tiktok has actually been so bad for glamorizing sex work; there’s so so many young girls flooding into some facet of the industry without doing any prior research, not even market rates or basic screening and they compromise their own and everyone else’s safety by being retarded

>>450556
Them and the clients wanting bare for 75 bucks will learn when they gets HIV and other incurable STDs. I love laughing at stupid scrotes on forums that pressured someone into bare/SA'd them and is shocked when they got something

I've been selling erotica in many forms since I was in high school and I've only recently stopped. If I'm honest, it started when I was a kid and was paid a substantial amount of gold in World of Warcraft to be smuggled into a bar in Stormwind to roleplay as a stripper for Alliance players. Being actually financially valued for something innate I have, and knowing that I could cultivate it further for greater profit, was incredibly alluring and became erotic for me at a time when I was just developing a concept of sexuality. It started in earnest when a guy I met on a 4chan vent server offered me money for a lewd ASMR and, being a dirt poor kid, I was hooked. $10 for a minute of whispering grew to voice-acting sex scenes, then selling my own erotic fiction, and eventually selling images and video of me. It took some time and an evolution of my business, but I built an online persona of a fictional character in an established fictional universe and would make erotic roleplay material with the characters of paying customers.

At no point did I make above minimum wage, but I was also only working for about an hour a day, which let me study while earning what I could while working shifts at a local store.

It definitely made me feel empowered when I was younger and treated it more like a passion project, but back then it was also sexual for me as the constant attention from men was something I fetishised. Eventually it became a job and I put barriers between myself and my clients/audience, making it just a bit disgusting in the end.

Ultimately it ruined me sexually and I have to practice "mindfulness" to try to retrain my brain away from deeply unhealthy turn-ons. It also ruined my perceptions of and feelings towards men.

There were so many times throughout my "career" where I was offered money, security, legitimacy etc. in exchange for my creative freedom, which equated to how much of myself I was willing to sell. Each and every offer turned out be poisoned apples offered by degenerate whoremongers. If this industry is going to exist, it needs to be regulated to the point where there are protections in place to set firm boundaries around standard and fair practice.

>>454370
>If this industry is going to exist, it needs to be regulated to the point where there are protections in place to set firm boundaries around standard and fair practice.
What could be proposed as firm boundaries and fair practice?

Damn this thread is so dead without me

>>457337
lets revive it together, nonnie. i’ll start: i want to pose as a nude model for another woman

>>457342
Kek, that sounds fun, maybe with her being a passionate artist and with suppressed sexual tension. For me, I’ve been thinking about finding love in a life or death situation, caving into having animalistic sex with a woman who would fight for me / I would fight for, I just find it so attractive when women have fighting spirit, I admire fierceness so much.

i recently came across this emo tif on tumblr posting lewds of herself and i don't care if i sound like a tranny. i want to fuck her senseless. it's actually insane how horny her posts made me. i can't believe i'm not any better than coomers… she's thin and she hasn't had any surgeries although she's planning for a titchop and has been on T she still has these adorable small tits and a great fashion sense (kek). all she's done is cut her hair, the larp is so endearing to me. she's my age too. i've always been into emo girls and i'm not ashamed of being into tifs any longer. it makes me horny thinking about how T increases their libido and how needy they are.. she posted about being into "tdick" and "boycunts" before so i know that she's homosexual at least. what wouldn't i do to have some that cute around me… she even uploaded an audio post of her masturbating and she's just the girliest thing, it's so adorable… i know i shouldn't but i saved it in case she ever deletes it. i'll be honest it drove me insane and i've used it to orgasm at least twice. she's too cute. i'm sorry women and feminism.
i wish this type of person would stop being so self hating or, i wish i could influence them out of that mindset somehow. ugh, i can't think about sad things when i'm horny, it's too confusing. kek

>>457759
Can you give us her @ and then delete kek these types always turn me on but I’ve never seen them post lewds. My crush is just like this

>>457072
Hope we didnt date the same guy nona. He was like this in the first few months of us getting together after that he sorta got ""busier at work"" and he'd talk to mean to me when I was looking for reassurance or when I'd make a mistake over chat. On the side note, is it normal to not feel a hint of sadness after the break up? I think I've cried over mine for a week now and now that it happened, I don't feel anything.

>>457075
No, they were just produced at the same factory and were released out into the wild with the intention of torturing women mentally. Everyone reacts differently and I definitely wouldn't say you were odd for feeling that way especially after dealing with that pos.

>>457078
3rd nonna here. I also got duped and dropped by exactly this sort of man a few months ago. I miss the mask intensely but that's all it was: a mask. The actual him was a nightmare interpersonally. Be free nonnies

Ever since he broke up with me and left me with mean words I think a lot of my fantasies about him withered and died. He wasnt the kind man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and he doesn't see how much his words cut deep when I'm upset. I hated that I wasn't a part of his life. Its not fair.

>>446260
I know it’s been a month since you’ve posted this nona but I can relate to this so much. my ex is probably self-destructing right now because he doesn’t care about himself and his life anymore (depression, suicidal, etc). He did an attempt which he posted on Instagram that he was put on a suicide watch because of it. Sometimes I get scared if he would eventually die of suicide, or any other self-destruct attempts. And I can’t imagine how I would feel. Actually, it would be more like, me not being sure how I’d feel. Would I be sad? Would I be happy? He has always been a shitty person. But I guess it’s better for me not to find out and never hear from him again

>>448890
his face looks like he has aids
honestly if this isnt racism idk what it is

>>457073
I don't think he was hot even back then, he just looked like Toby Maguire with a longer face to me. He's only gotten worse

>>443146
He really is so unattractive, there’s something really wrong with his mouth/jaw area idk what to call it but it’s quite bad to the point where I’m surprised normies don’t notice. When he was younger his facial fat kinda padded the area out but now it’s unignorable his face hinges like a floppy muppet whenever he speaks

>>457541
>Tobey Maguire with a longer face
That’s exactly it, you put it into words ty nonna kek. He’s always been ugly and retarded looking. Nightcrawler is the height of his hideosity

>>374577
I don't mind shorter guys, taller is just a preference Jerma is cute so it's okay if he's short, u know?

This is more of a “my type makes life way more difficult” situation but, I just realized today that I’m only attracted to men who are from other countries, especially those who are actively living in those other countries. People who are willing to try an international relationship are hard to find, especially since I refuse to use dating apps, and it’s doubly hard to make those relationships work if you can find them. plus there’s the fact that most guys who have anything going for them would just prefer to date a local girl who shares their culture and native language and is actually physically there for them to see. I dont blame them one bit for this, btw.

I should probably just learn to love immigrants who live around me as the next best tangible thing. But I am super jealous of international couples who met abroad or even online and happen to make it work.

Has anyone dealt with this in a relationship? How do you cope?

I don't get rejected by them and it isn't lorded over me, but it is always obvious that I have never been any of my partners' ideal. I only date people who are 100% what I want so it hits me doubly.
My types are round-featured nerdy awkward women and scrawny short artist guys, and I lack attraction to white people (sorry, no offense). Anyway, regardless of who I date they have ALL preferred skinny (often) blonde women with blue eyes. I'm a curvy Native woman, I can never be that.
It always eats away at me and contributed to the end of one relationship already. My current partner likes me A LOT and is very attracted to me, but it fucks with me that I'm not his perfect ideal while he is mine. Fuck. And the thing is I'm my own type! The world would be a beautiful place if I could clone and date myself.

>my type: tall preppy twinks that’re friendly and easy going, older girlbosses with a mean streak. sociability is important to me.
>what i attract: lipless libertarians, john green larpers, nerdy black moids, mousy autists, indian fobs in tech

occupational hazards of being an asian woman i guess. i’ve more or less given up on locking down the older girlboss of my dreams, i almost never meet any and they never take me seriously anyways. but i can sometimes pull the type of twink i like, it’s just they tend to be like wasp-y white and i feel like more of a phase or an experiment than anything else

I wish I was my types type.
I like:
>intelligent, adventurous, charming, (flirty but in an effortless way, they just know how to make you laugh, etc.) and kind. Also not emotionally distant, but just enough to keep you on your toes.
I am
>average intelligence, nerdy and awkward, I wear my heart on my sleeve and definitely would be the first person to say I love you in a relationship. I’m average looking but not fugly so I have that going for me, although as an elder millennial I lack a fashion sense.
Even I give myself the ick. There’s no hope for me.

>>447842
Incredibly based. All men should be forced to wear burqas.

>>441332
every once in a while my pinterest ends up catapulted straight into the depths of the leatherfaggot algorithm
>>447859
KEK

Video related

>>392054
With the 24/7 "Luigi Luigi Luigi" of the past half month, I'm surprised no one posted this.

>>457424
Idk that jumpsuit was only hot because he was wearing it. Also chains. Otherwise it’s pretty unattractive.

>>453173
Move out of your mothers house.

I just don't understand how I'm so eager to eat again right after having a large nutritionally dense dinner. Had cod with mashed potatoes, broccoli and kale. An hour later I've already devoured two rounds of toast and two massive cookies I baked earlier. Has anyone ever got their thyroid or levels checked to make sure their binging isn't driven by deficiencies cause I feel like I'm doing everything right with my meals. But still just want to shovel more in.

>>453178
I wish I could for many more reasons than just this one but I can't work

>>453173
I don’t know how helpful this might be to you, but I was able to largely recover from bulimia (i’ve been bp free for a few months now) by addressing other major stressors in my life rather than the ED behaviors. I listed out what was making me feel trapped or “stuck” in life, since that’s my trigger to binge, and started solving easy issues first before moving on to bigger and bigger ones. I didn’t do it on purpose (I had kind of given up on recovery, actually) but the urge to binge just kind of gradually went away. One thing I did have to force myself to do was to stop restricting food groups, since that made me too hungry, which made me fixate on food more. Maybe a way to start for you would be to put aside some money to buy your own foods to binge on, to remove the added stress of your mother knowing?

>>453173
I think the biggest issue you’re going to need to tackle is ignoring your mother’s comments. She makes you feel ashamed, you restrict/deprive yourself when shes around, and when you finally get to eat/eat what you’d like, you have no control due to the aforementioned factors. The binging is a symptom/way to cope.

>>456492
Don’t diss my girl like that

>>454819
Brave and real

>>456693
Who is this?

>>457334
Tayleigh from fishtank s2

>>456475
just found out she hates lesbians so i’m going to kill myself now. she hates me nonners.