>>504314i guess i just don't understand what the point is of sex with someone you're not attracted to, or purposely doing any kind of act you don't enjoy (unless being forced into it) multiple times. if they don't feel pleasure or enjoyment they could just…not do it? or become celibate, or larp as a bachelor, etc. if they want to pretend to be straight towards the public all they'd have to do is lie about sex/relationships (if the topic even comes up) or parade their beard around, but what purpose is there to do it in their own private time when no one is watching? that's what makes me doubt claims of their supposed lack of attraction. they don't need to privately nut inside women 20 times to keep up the larp kek
plus i don't always believe what men claim to be/state as regarding sexuality since there's also the reverse scenario of this (men having sex with, and legitimately enjoying sex with other men while telling people they're "straight"). so i suppose I'd define their sexuality by whether they enjoy the act or not, and to me someone who is constantly, repeatedly orgasming and nutting over the opposite sex, enough to have multiple children with them implys that they enjoy it to some extent. a man's words alone doesn't mean much. like i guess passively having sex with the opposite sex wouldn't indicate attraction, but going out of their way to repeatedly do it, putting in the effort for all that sex would. if they just wanted to pretend to be straight they wouldn't need to do all of that, there's other ways to hetlarp. idk it just seems too elaborate