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A home to post your nerdy crushes here. Whether he just wears nerdy glasses, or if has nerdy hobbies, or is just, a plain nerd.

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No. 381474

In their mom's basement

No. 381482

She said nerdy, not a loser. Whatever interest you want the guy to have, look there.

No. 381490

Did his twin age any better?

No. 381664

Holy shiiiit aaaaa holy fuuuuckkk

No. 381672

He's so cute. Who is this guy?

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This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like your weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Reminder that we're all human and we all have our ups and downs. Don't blame yourself for failing and don't get fixated on small missteps. This is a marathon, not a race. Self-sabotage will only make things worse. Try to stay positive and think of the positive steps you've made to get here and keep moving forward!

Don't get fixated on numbers and give yourself adequate rest days and rewards to keep yourself motivated.

No ana, please.
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No. 381556

nta but it's soy sauce. she wrote soy sauce eggs in her post too.

No. 381596

Oh my bad, I've never had traditional soy sauce, I wasn't aware it's that thin.

No. 381642

Does anyone have tips for managing body dismorphia and losing weight/getting more fit? Last time I got the fittest of my life, but at the time I couldn't really enjoy the superficially physical aspects (I could enjoy the new found strength and flexibility but not how I looked, I still saw the 50 lb+ version of my self). I didn't gain all the weight back, but I wanna get that fit again and not be so mentally fucked up.

No. 381649

take photos of yourself at regular intervals and look back at them. works for me.

No. 381670

The biggest treatment for my BDD has been socializing and spending time with good friends. I still have episodes but it no longer controls my mind 24/7 like when I was lonelier. I even feel hot sometimes.
Otherwise, after being fat it just takes time to adjust. A really long time, and it may never leave forever. There are still social situations where I feel 60 lbs heavier and I accept that.
Wishing you the best, nona.

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No. 369903[Reply]

A thread for discussing hair care, hair problems, hair styles, and hair product recommendations.

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No. 381625

No problem! I hope you find a style that fits you. Try googling images of pixie haircuts to see the different styling options.

No. 381626

Maybe let it grow out a bit and then get more of a textured cut and it might be easier to style. I dont have straight hair so I’m sorry if that’s something that doesn’t work kek
I have wavy hair and if I don’t get a textured cut, it just lays flat and lifeless. Getting it textured makes it easier to have that “effortless” style.

No. 381629

Got the same cut and am also masc most of the time. My hair at this length is also straight.
I just scrunch some curl gel in while it's specifically halfway dry and it gives it more body. Smells good too. Scrunching in mousse later when it's almost or fully dry I find gives it even more fluffiness. The label says to do it wet but this works for me.

No. 381632

I was thinking of extra texture or layers, good call.
That answers my question excellently, thank you. Do you comb it when blow-drying? I need to do that for my fringe anyway because of a cowlick.

No. 381720

I've been growing out my hair for 6 years and it's down to my hips, besides my bangs. I don't think it looks good because my hair isn't thick, but I also am worried about getting it cut and hating the result. I'm not sure what I could do to make it look better besides hair extensions for volume. I've tried layered cuts in the past but it's not great for my hair type since it's so fine and straight it kind of just makes my hair look damaged.

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for anyone dealing with sexual problems that may or may not stem from sexual trauma. no active thread specifically for this topic. a place to vent and/or discuss, to feel less alone in these struggles.
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No. 380899

What the fuck? I'm so sorry. I would feel so violated. I hope you're okay and begin to heal. I think I would get banned if I said what I think about that disgusting creep. I hope he gets what's coming to him. God I hate men so much.

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At many points in my life I tried to have sex but I realized I can't and the reason being is I cannot stop myself from seeing my own body as the body of the child I once was. I'm in my mid 20's but I look in the mirror and the face staring back at me is 5, 10, 14 all at once. I've had what I can only describe as a consensual sexual encounter with someone I was relatively attracted to and it drove me insane and made my want to skin myself alive with grief. I feel like I have this child inside of me and I am hurting her. When men are attracted to me I feel like they want to hurt her. I cannot ever see myself as a sexual object, I cannot see myself as having sex. My libido is almost non-existent and I do not feel the need for a relationship, but I feel I will forever be broken and stuck in place because of this.

No. 380922

what you have sounds freudian in a way. it sounds like something you were exposed to when you were young caused this conflict in your mind subconsciously, maybe a fear of vulnerability (subjected to being the woman/ pursued seems like it causes a reaction in you), maybe there is something offputting about the animalistic side of sex. kind of reminds me of food, how some people place restrictions around it, while others are able to enjoy it easily. sounds like intimacy issues which could stem from how you see yourself or something else you observed when you were young. you may not even be able to associate this with a particular memory. if you have perfectionist tendencies that could be related aswell. i'm sorry you're dealing with such an intense mental hangup anon, i would recommend researching psychoanalysis, it could helpful for you.

No. 380927

thank you anon for your thoughtful response. i really appreciate it.
there is no conscious memory that explains this but i can identify both aspects you point to. you bring up freud which resonates unfortunately (lol), i suspect an aspect of it is my parent's relationship which was poor for a variety of reasons and my mother who was a very miserable and unkind woman, and yet my father put up with her very meekly and always seemingly desiring (and failing) to meet her approval. i think i probably got ideas about what male/female relationships mean from observing my parents' relationship, that now create this immediate feeling of disgust for men desiring women. (freud would be proud to hear me analyzing my parents lmao) &there is probably also more instinctive stuff regarding sex dynamics between male and female and whatnot (for whatever reason it may be, i can tell consciously that i have a very intense need for sexual domination - and that is just simply easier when you have a penis, no psychoanalysis needed for that)
i will look more into what you mentioned, my last hope really is that if i can understand it deep enough i can fix it. again thank you sincerely for a compassionate reply.

No. 381623

Thanks. Yeah later that day I thought I really should have just immediately punched him in the face. It might have felt good for a moment, but although he is a relatively thin guy I am considerably thinner and I don't think I would have caused him much pain. Perhaps I could have kicked his balls, but I agree it's probably good I held back as a physical assault would also have shown him how he affected me, not to mention it could have put me in trouble.
I also wish I would tell everyone about what he did and how gross he is (for example, his family and friends who all probably only know his nice and charming side), but for some reason I feel I don't have the courage to expose myself that way to others. I feel VERY ashamed to have been so invaded and violated by his filth, even though it's obviously not my fault. So I have to deal with these mixed feelings. From my understanding this can be common for sexual abuse victims, not that my case is equally bad as more direct sexual violence.
Violated is extremely fitting for how I felt that moment and still feel to this day.
Many, many men are disgusting creeps and predators and this ordeal has opened my eyes towards the need for us girls to always be on the lookout for such people, in order to protect ourselves and the women and girls close to us. I certainly will always hide my personal objects and hygiene products whenever I feel there's a risk a man might have access to them and feel lewd about them.
I am aware there are decent, nice and family men out there, but until I know I can trust one I'll always be careful around every man, no exceptions. Thank you for your input.

Here's something that goes completely against my character (I am a curious girl and usually prefer to know stuff rather than to have the bliss of ignorance): sometimes I wish he had never told me about this. It would still be equally gross but at least I feel I would be able to move on with my life. But then I wouldn't know to be wary of seemingly educated and nice dudes. Also, knowing about it makes me definitely not look up to him at all anymore, so it seems fair that he does not get the good energy feelings from me anymore.
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Discuss family planning, birth, pregnancy, conception, fertility, and any other baby-related topic in this thread.
Refrain from posting if you dislike children or are childfree.
Old threads
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No. 381076

Honestly? I just got mine from AliExpress like 10 for 20 bucks included the liners. They worked just as good if not better than homemade ones

No. 381448

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Does anyone know why the huckleberry app shows two different numbers for total amount of milk/formula consumed, depending on where you check in the app?

Baby is bottle fed exclusively

No. 381512

Fuck you, you evil piece of shit. I hope God spares your innocent son from whatever abuse you intend to subject him with.(calm down)

No. 381614

You arent worried about the lead in the dye?

No. 381787

if you're worried you can get your baby tested for lead or use the lead test strips. My baby had her lead levels tested when food recalls happened and she had zero lead in her system

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A thread for all nonas of Middle Eastern, Arab or North African ethnicity to discuss topics pertaining to being a MENA woman. A place to chat, vent, share, ask and give advice or discuss problems pertaining to being a MENA woman. All religions and nationalities welcome to post, as long as you are of MENA ethnicity.
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No. 381587

Ntayrt but this is so straight and if you ever actually wondered about it then you would go to the questioning thread to see all the responses to anons who made posts exactly like yours and see that you are a bog-standard heterosexual whose perception of sexuality got skewed by media depictions of hookup culture. Needing an emotional connection before catching feelings is normal and doesn't indicate anything about sexual orientation.

No. 381592

thanks although I've caught romantic feelings towards like close female friends does that mean anything? but I wonder if I'm asexual as well because while I might get feelings towards certain ppl or crushes i would not actually rly wanna date them or do anything sexual? but id fantasize about things though

No. 381593

forgot to mention that while i wouldnt wanna date anyone who im not close friends with, like i see romantic relationships basically as close friendships but with extra steps because while i would not date anyone who i wouldnt enjoy a friendship with im also scared that if i confess my feelings for someone it would also destroy the relationship because relationships are more likely to fail than friendships and it would be sad if a connection i valued so much failed just coz of a crush and i would never get to speak to them ever again

No. 381602

I'm originally from a north african country too, but I have managed to leave not long ago. I lived through the exact same thing (and still kinda am) back when I lived there. I once gathered the courage to download tinder and got a warning that said my location was dangerous to homosexuals so I noped out kek.
Ironically, what complicates it in my case is that I have genuinely good parents but they are religious. They would probably never try to hurt me but it would be a shock big enough to physically hurt them. (One of them has heart issues related to shock). I decided leaving was the only option, I only have to keep up the facade when I call or visit, for now. It'll get harder if I'm dating a woman and they visit me, but I'd rather not think about that for now, since I'm single.
The hardest part by far is the isolation, which was bad enough in my home country, but in my rush to leave I didn't think about how lonely being an immigrant is, let alone a lesbian one. I'm different from people who grew up here, I'm different because I'm gay, and even if I try reaching out to the "community", it's full of gender crap which is the same fanatical ideological BS I lived through with islam just with a rainbow coat. Sometimes it feels likes there's no place for us in the world.
Sorry for the depressing blog post, I am hopeful that things will get better one day. I also hope you manage to find a way to leave! The student route is the easiest, everyone I know left this way so you should look into it. You can even "cheat" by borrowing money to get the visa, then get a student job here. No need to have the full sum they ask

No. 381609

Sometimes I feel lucky that I feel no connection towards my parents because they're terrible people. Coming out to parents that you actually love and care about is way harder than coming out to parents that are abusive and you feel no connection with because you're concerned with upsetting them. I thought about getting married to a girl while abroad and sending my mom pics of me kissing my wife at my wedding because she always told me "no man will ever want you".

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second thread is finally due to be locked, so here's the new one to discuss bisexuality.
thread #1 >>56468
thread #2 >>199767

if you're still extremely unsure if you're bisexual, the questioning thread is likely a better fit. talk about your gender preferences, how you discovered you were bi, what's your type in men and women, how you feel in the community, any struggles you've had with bisexuality, etc.
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No. 381539

See, I straight up respect this. I'd prefer it if women who are "technically bisexual by definition I guess" all called themselves straight so when I'm dating, I don't need to add a million disclaimers and say "yeah I'm bisexual but not THAT kind of bisexual, I swear." Go get that straight girl pussy.

No. 381549

There should be a term for bis like that. Fuckbi maybe, like fuckboy.

No. 381566

I feel so hopeless about finding a gf. i know maybe this sounds shallow, but I honestly could not be with someone who subscribes to trans shit, and pretty much everyone where I live does, especially the gay/bi people. Plus I have about a million other problems. I just wish I had a woman to love but I think realistically I will be alone forever, I'm 25 now and still never has any romantic experiences whatsoever. I feel so alone.

No. 381574

Are they not just kinsey 1 bi women? There seem to be way more who lean towards men than other women. I'm kind of the opposite, I love getting male attention and will have sex with them but in terms of a long term relationship I want it to be with a woman.

No. 381603

Maybe dont make it into too big of a deal? Like I also wouldnt date a some vocal trans right activist but if she uses trannies preferred pronouns whatever. Most of the time you wont even interact with trans stuff so the issue wouldnt come up?

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No. 314525[Reply]

Share tips, vent, advice, similar experiences, how to get out of such a rut, what can be changed, what helped you personally, where to meet women you can relate to.

This thread is for:
-those of us who spent our formative years on 4chan/other male dominated spaces and got internet poisoning from it
-those of us who realised men aren't your friends but are now alone
-gender dysphoric women especially socially dysphoric
-ex-TIFs who have come to terms with being female but are now adrift
-those of us who are gender non-conforming in personality, not only appearance
-assorted spergs/speds who have difficulty understanding social norms, unwritten rules, tone of voice, and reading between the lines
-low-empathy or low EQ women
-general loners and NEETs

This thread is NOT for humblebragging about how cool and rational and edgy you are. Please.

For example, I find it difficult to tell lies, even white lies. When I lie it's so obvious it makes it worse. All my friendships with men ended for obvious reasons. I would genuinely like to make female friends so hopefully we can help each other.
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No. 381550

It's so annoying. They have everything other site on earth to post about their moids and their kids but now they're taking over one of the only sites for weirdo women. I hate normalfags so much. I feel like I don't belong here anymore.

No. 381584

you can come to cc nonas

No. 381617

What's the difference with LCF? Also isn't it filled with troons and moids?

No. 381849

the posters there are more on the "weird" side
trannies and moids get banned

No. 381930

NTA, the last time I've been there the site was bombarded with CP and trannies. And the admin disappeared for months.
>I hate normalfags so much.
Same nonnie, normalfags begone

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No. 381437

Why do you even know that? You following her?

No. 381500

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tbh all of them

No. 381510

ugly bastard trope but flipped around. ugly woman forcing herself on a prettyboy

No. 381544

I wish I could find content of this, me too.

No. 381554

Ugh same. I especially love when ugly bastards (in BL, but this would work so well with a woman) act adoring and loving towards their object of affection at the beginning of sex. Caressing his body, kissing him, performing oral, sniffing him, gushing about how perfect he is. Except the ugly bastard is so creepy it takes on a different meaning. The cute guy isn't relishing in getting his dick sucked, he's not pleased with the praise he's hearing for his 'performance' because he's incredibly disturbed by the woman doing it.

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Having some relationship issues or questions and need to vent or get advice? Come here and talk with fellow farmers for another point of view.

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No. 381557

>I feel anxious any time I do anything that could hurt him or upset him.
That's a really good reason to break up with someone. Do not stay with him. That is not a feeling you should tolerate. That is an instant "I'm out" situation. Don't wait for it to get worse from here because it does get worse.
>Should I just break up with him?

No. 381571

That's a major consideration of mine. It's really important to me to be independent financially, and I'm applying to a lot of graduate jobs to hopefully start once I graduate.

Thanks nonna. It's my first real relationship, so I'm not accustomed to what is supposed to be ideal. I think the reason I stay so long is because I've based a lot of my self worth on having a bf(incredibly toxic), and am waiting to graduate so I can girlboss(kek). Idk if it's a delusion to tell myself 'oh it's good for the college phase of my life'.

No. 381621

Over the last week or so, he went from finishing quickly to not being able to cum at all. We werent having much sex at all at first.
Like one day he finished within about 20 seconds during missionary. Then a day later he wants it from behind, is being less cautious with me. Also way more hornier since that day and will flirt with me but put off sex. His SD cards and usb stick was out this morning.

No. 381741

I had a 4 hour long conversation with my boyfriend last night. I feel like there's huge miscommunication issues with us because he's getting the notion I want him to drop everything he's doing right then and there. This is since January of him coming home being warn out where whenever we see each other, he can barely think because he's so overworked, when we're out with friends he's glaring into the distance, a bunch of sighing and saying he's depressed and then telling me how much the line of work he does sucks, but it's necessary for him to do so he can pay bills and rent and not sell his soul out and not do weekends. I don't know what else to do when he says all this work he does eventually goes nowhere and it's unstable, on top of seeing how he can barely function when he's out of work and him saying how the field he works in is so corrupt and broken and doesn't appreciate the education he went through and pays like shit, other than to tell him, "Babe, maybe you should consider doing something else in the meantime." And he views it as me telling him he's at fault for continuing to work in his field and he needs to drop everything right now. He'll repeat to me that I wouldn't truly understand unless I was in his shoes. I certainly wouldn't want to be in his shoes because I've been in a similar enough position before where I would dread hearing my phone ringing, I couldn't have a social life, I would escape this living hell as soon as I could and that's what I did. I'm not trying to say that he's at fault at all and that he's not trying to better his life, but I honestly don't know what else to say. And I tried to ask him how could I be saying it better, but he said he has no idea. It's like his work is this bad, I can't hold a conversation of my concern with him. I eventually got it to him by saying how I used to take him saying how everything is expensive and I misunderstood it as him saying I don't want us to spend money on anything at all and he seemed to be able to understand where I was coming from. Like obviously I'm not going to try to say "Wow baby that sucks, maybe you should suck it up and pull yourselves up by the bootstraps, people are dying all over the world, you should be grateful that you at least have work" it sounds so insensitive and completely dismissive to his feelings. I don't know. I apologized for not being able to communicate in a way he wouldn't take offense at my own words, but now I question how he'll take my own words in thPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 381793

How is having a shitty bf that threatens to kill himself of you spend time with friends good for the college experience?

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