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No. 394660[Reply]

Discuss family planning, birth, pregnancy, conception, fertility, and any other baby-related topic in this thread.
Refrain from posting if you dislike children or are childfree.
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No. 589721

>>589713
i really don’t want to invalidate what you’ve been through anon, but people with this opinion tend to generalize this experience with kids— as if it’ll be true for everyone who plans on raising any. being a parent is definitely strenuous but this really does not apply to every single parent

No. 589722

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No. 589759

>>589717
You don't start forming memories until you are 5. You have no idea how annoying you were as a toddler.

>>589721
Yes it is, but nobody tells you the truth because nobody wants to admit it because people judge moms hardcore for not enjoying being a mom. The people who don't experience this don't because they have lots of help and don't have to spend all day around their children.

No. 589790

>>589713
Maybe your kids are autistic? Your husband sounds broken too.

No. 589795

>>589713
I think your husband is the problem… I can empathize with kids being up in your business 24/7 but I usually get some me-time in while he naps and after he goes to bed, then in the morning after he wakes up my husband takes him for a couple hours until I wake up. Is your husband not watching your kid any? Also your husband is a complete douche if he'd stop paying attention to you just because of some mom belly.


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No. 582933[Reply]

Not everyone can be beautiful, and for some, even "average" is out of reach. If that sounds like you, how are you coping in this looks-obsessed world?

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No. 589567

>>589560
How does it sound? Thats too vague to mean anything. Only anachans sperg about underweight BMIs not being that skinny.

No. 589605

When you're an ugly woman the only way you'll be loved by an attractive male is by giving birth to one or having one as your dad. I emphasise with ugly boymoms and see the human in them.

No. 589641

>>589459
I feel terrible but every time I look at her acromegaly face I just think about how she looks like Stephen Fry.
>>589605
boymoms don't empathise back so what's the point?

No. 589693

>>589605
Incest isn't the answer though. You might as well get hooked on AI chatbots if you're so desperate to be loved by an "attractive male" because real moids will disappoint you every time.

No. 589697

>>589605
the traits that make women ugly are usually celebrated in men, so ugly women usually make decent looking sons.


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No. 513787[Reply]

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No. 589541

>>589504
It doesn't matter that the excuse he uses is adhd, he is still an asshole and would be one without adhd too.

No. 589683

>>589504
I have ADHD and some of my friends and family do too, and wow, none of us have ever acted like your scrote! Including my male relatives who are all from an era where acting like this was normal! It's almost like he's just a piece of shit.
You hate him, he hates you. I know you care about him but he's got his own shit to sort out and he isn't sorting it. Personally I know that ADHD comes with a lot of issues around taking things too personally and procrastination and some difficulty communicating, but he's just not putting in the work. If he was, he'd find a way to meet you halfway, even if he had to use a sticker chart to keep on top of his chores or figuring out how to keep his temper in check. He's comfortable with you as his live in punching bag and sex slave and maid, he's not going to change.
When you get frustrated with him and want to talk it out, get an inanimate object and talk to it instead. You'll get the same results and feel better about it because he's not screeching at you. Write down why you want him to change. If all the reasons boil down to 'I want him to treat me like a human that matters in some capacity' that's a great indication that you should leave.
You're upset because you thought he was a good person and now he's shown his true colors. You invested emotionally into a future with a loser scrote and now you're sad that it's not panning out. That's normal, don't feel bad about it. You want to get back what you thought you had. You're not going to. Even if he 'changed' would you still trust him? If he treats you like shit then suddenly he's doing dishes and listening to you, will you forget how he acted when he thought you'd never leave? Come on nonna, get some self respect.
When you leave him, just go. Ghost the fucker and see how long it takes for him to notice. He'll only blow up your phone when there's nobody there to fuck him and serve his meals.

No. 589689

>>589504
This sounds spookily like my ex. Its not ADHD I think this is just a genre of moid. Dump him and go full no contact, youll miss him for like a week but then its a huge relief. Youll think you're insane for having stayed as long as you did. In a way these kind of relationships are a gift cause they make you realize how being single isnt actually that bad, and is actually a huge improvement to before, and youll approach dating with a better mindset where anyone you date needs to be better to be with than being single, which is a kind of high bar.

No. 589692

>>589504
I feel like I've read a near identical post here about a shitty ADHD moid.
Don't allow him to be an asshole because of his disorder and trauma. One of my best female friends has diagnosed ADHD and is traumatized AS FUCK and she's one of the sweetest people I'll ever meet. She struggles with listening sometimes but I know she tries her best and she'll never be cruel about it. Saying "sorry I got distracted can you please repeat?" instead of "I wasn't listening" for someone you claim to love is not an actual challenge. She also gets basic survival shit done, just in a very atypical way sometimes.
Love yourself and don't be lax with him being a mean and neglectful piece of shit just because he's a man.

Also this is coming from an anon with a saviour complex dating a Schizophrenic man, so I understand tolerance of disorders and attachment. But emotional abuse should be the line.
>>589683
Agree with this anon and her ideas.

No. 589699

>>589504
A lot of ADHD moids I've met have NPD, some disguise it as bpd but it's always excuses with them. "I couldn't do x because of my ADHD" but strangely enough at the start they were doing it perfectly fine… because they wanted to. Once they get bored of you, they drop the act but use their illness as an excuse. There are plenty of us with afflictions that aren't mean and abusive, it's no excuse. If he actually cared, he'd try to fix his routine, take meds and go to a therapist but even with therapist, these moids just use them to get better at manipulating people


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No. 289276[Reply]

previous thread >>>/g/193846

the anticipated second containment thread for the irl husbandofags is here! sperg freely about your trash men here and don't forget to have fun
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No. 589357

So I guess this is the right thread now:
Take a moment to imagine your 3D husbando kissing you.
And how would it be?

No. 589576

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Ah… I don't know why he was so inspired (?) during this Colorado show 3 days ago, but him commenting on the fan signs, singing Happy Birthday in the middle of the concert for a 10 year old fan and then following with Eat Your Young lmao and getting emotional about a baby in the crowd, vidrel. Watching these videos yesterday almost made my heart explode. Fuck me.

No. 589611

Anyone else kinda skinwalk their husbando?
At this point of my obsession I feel like the attraction I have towards my husbando is not because he's hot or anything (although obviously he is in my eyes). But that he's just cool and someone I'd like to look up to.
I always happen to be attracted to people I admire and am similar to. Eventually the crush transforms into an admiration of the actual person behind the good looks. I feel like my husbando is the person I would most like to be like "when I grow up". DAE feel this way?

No. 589632

>>589611
I kinda do this too. I see a fair share of celebrities as reasonably attractive but I seldom see ones with traits I appreciate or that are similar to my own. The thought that he is an interesting person snowballs into me wanting to have some of those traits I admire and applying them to myself, which I think is reasonable.

No. 589686

>>589611
I mean, "skinwalk" is maybe too strong of a word, but yeah, I get it! I get "inspired" would be a better way to describe it.
If I see some clothes he's wearing that I like for example, I will try to find something similar, but then again that goes for anyone, but we used to have a similar fashion sense.
I've once stumbled upon a list of recommended books by him and there were some that I had already read, and I decided to pick up one of the ones I hadn't - But I feel that if I had no morsel of interest on the book at all, I wouldn't bother in the first place.
He inspires me to try and write more as well, or learn an instrument better, too I'm completely shit at it and maybe I'm hopeless kek.
But those are all activities that I already do/have done somehow in the past. I guess what I am getting at is that although he motivates and inspires me, I wouldn't do something completely out of the blue just because of him. I know that I do posses some abilities that he doesn't, and I take pride in those as well. If I were ever to meet him, I think that could lead to some fun exchanges.
Sorry if I just stated the obvious kek


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No. 203749[Reply]

A thread to discuss jewelry, including necklaces, rings, bracelets etc

>what gemstones do you find yourself gravitating towards, if any?
>what motifs/themes do you tend to like?
>what metals do you prefer? Do you care about undertones when selecting metals?
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No. 589656

>>589650
For the majority of people, it is just a status thing. Personally, I don't hate lab grown diamonds, it's just that they feel much more artificial. I'd rather have a stone that formed naturally in the earth over billions of years than one manufactured in a factory over a few weeks, especially when it comes to something as meaningful and symbolic as an engagment ring. I much prefer other gemstones over diamonds anyway though, but if I had to choose a diamond, then I'd prefer natural for this reason. I also just choose natural materials whenever I can in general, jewellery aside.

No. 589661

>>589650
Yeah it’s marketing as >>589651 said, using empty romanticism like in >>589656:
>feel artificial
>formed naturally vs “manufactured”
>vague positives while ignoring concrete negatives.
>appeal to greater meaning
Lab diamonds are objectively superior. Evil, lazy moneygrubbing businesses don’t want to lose out (even though they could afford to just change), so they push for it to be seen as worse. They’re formed in the exact same way and can be made both more flawless or uniquely beautiful. The companies want customers to focus on some anonymous mystical billions of years rather than the reality that an enslaved, poisoned and abused child extracted it for you. I find labs specifically better for symbolism and meaning since you can decide what they’re made of. Being able to make a diamond of any style or colouring using a loved ones ashes, you and your partner’s genetic material, your favourite flowers, anything, is far more symbolic and personal. They’re all natural and you can still use substances formed over billions of years if you can gather them yourself (fossils of a specific animal/region can even be bought online). Even materialistically, is it not more impressive to spend a lot of money on making a more existentially perfect gem for whatever use?
Exploitation diamonds are simply more ubiquitous and accessible but it’s crazy when people shopping for individual stones can afford lab grown and choose otherwise. Then they’re lazily going for the less romantic option.

No. 589675

>>589650
Aren't diamonds like the biggest jewelry psyop? They're kind of ugly if they're too big anyway, lab grown diamonds should just be industry standard if the industry cared about the blood diamond issue, but of course retards will want a "natural" tacky stone instead of the identical lab grown tacky stone even if that money is being directly funneled into the shitty war torn country's big "orphanage bomb" manufacturing industry.

No. 589677

>>589656
Natural and labgrown diamonds are at wordt identical, but if the feelings are that important, you'd think you wouldn't want your marriage symbolized by a stone mined by child slaves.

No. 589726

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>>589650
Both are chemically identical so im not sure if inhumane child labour is worth the price jack up tbh. For diamonds (or any gemstones) it's better to look at the type of cut and colour. The type of scintillation and fire is largely determined by how its cut. Picrel is jannpaul, the most brilliant diamond cut afaik.


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No. 516186[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive women you'd want to fuck and have no shame admitting

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No. 589666

>>589648
Nona she looks absolutely nothing like her

No. 589669

>>589666
A hallmark of autism is faceblindedness

No. 589674

>>589647
I love this vintage doll obsessed, male beating, tranny hating psycho. She has the demonic autist sorority girl personality where her special interest is being a huge queen bitch and it's sexy. Evan Peter's couldn't handle her sexy Stacy soul.
>>588985
God she's so fucking hot.

No. 589691

>>589647
Beating moids honestly makes her hotter

No. 589724

>>589674
Her being this skinny evil rich bitch character is amazing. I love it when they cast her like that


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No. 402287[Reply]

Discuss plastic surgery and your plastic surgery goals here. This is not a thread to brigade on regarding your dislike of plastic surgery - please create a plastic surgery hate thread to talk about that.

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No. 589457

>>587760
Most of the Love Island girls are probably doing what every reality TV contestant has been doing since the genre's conception: trying to use it to become famous kek. I'm sure some of them believe they'll have a fairytale romance with a moid who looks like a spraytanned fridge, but most people who go on these types of shows are ambitious and willing to make a fool of themselves (or throw everyone else under the bus) for the potential long-term benefit.

No. 589573

Did anyone here get laser for their varicose veins? I'm only 25 but I have a big vein on my calf for years now and I hate wearing shorts because of it, it looks geriatric. I saw they offer in office laser but the side effects could be a clot. Any nonas have some experience or am I the only loser with veins here?

No. 589588

>>589573
I stopped wearing shorts when I was 13 because of them. I have a lot so it's pointless to try but I had a friend who used makeup to cover hers and it was fine. Another friend I know had the laser and her legs were covered with them, it did help with with some of them but there's a lot that are still visible. I guess it's hit or miss. If it really bothers you and you have the money you should go for it, I don't think clot is too common or they wouldn't offer it. I have no idea what I'm talking about though.

No. 589640

>>589455
Yeah but removing your ribs is not safe. It doesn’t matter what plastic surgeons say about it, all they want is your money. The same thing with jaw shaving. Your face won’t be fitted properly and will sag without it’s structure. (Also the way your facial expression will look uncanny near the jaw area.) Imagine what that would be like for your ribs that are meant to protect your organs

No. 589643

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>>584129
This is a reverse Donna Briggs except she isn’t a man. The first time I saw her I thought she was a white woman with really black features


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No. 406216[Reply]

Chartposters, this is your new home. Post your charts and let's see if anyone cares.
Best resources for creating and interpreting your birth chart:
General/Various Systems: https://www.astro-seek.com/
Vedic: https://www.astrosage.com/freechart/
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No. 585716

>>508594
WOW this is dead on accurate!! especially when it comes to my personality and career; i am currently majoring in social work! its so fascinating how much this resonates with me, your perspective on my future reassures me lot too since that is something that brings me a lot of anxiety. thank you for the reading, i appreciate you very much!!

No. 585718

>>572732
I got a funny feeling when reading your chart, not sure why. I can't tell if im reading it correctly so if another astrology nona wants to put their two cents in, please do. You’re in a weird in-between space right now, and it’s probably frustrating as hell. You’re carrying a lot emotionally, even stuff that’s not yours moon in Pisces, and it’s making everything feel heavier. You’ve probably had a tough time getting into a routine or feeling like you’re on top of your shit chiron in the 6th, saturn in the 2nd, and that’s not because you’re lazy, it’s because you’re learning how to work in a way that actually fits you, not just what everyone expects. Career wise, you’re not meant to play it safe. You’ve got a Midheaven in Sagittarius, which means long term, you’ll do best in something that feels free, impactful, or even a little unconventional such as teaching, creating, working with people etc. Whatever lets you move and speak your truth. Right now, it’s not about having the perfect plan, it’s about taking one clear step at a time and not second guessing every move just because the end goal isn’t fully mapped out.

No. 588363

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Libra sun, Sagittarius moon, Leo rising. How fucked am I

No. 588391

How do you even read these things? I've reread mine over and over, but I can't make any sense of it. It all seems vague and generic too.

No. 589593

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Any insight on compatibility between my work crush and I? He has the exact personality type I like that I thought I'd never find a moid with (quiet, patient, intelligent, clean, polite, competent, hardworking, capable of both taking charge himself and deferring to you without arguing, etc etc). But I'm unsure about pursuing it because he's five years younger than me and still in college.


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No. 442232[Reply]

post here if you have a passion for fashion

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No. 589558

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I bought a romper since I think they’re very cute. Well, I’m tall. That thing digs into my coochie like it’s looking for gold and over half of my ass hangs out the back.

No. 589562

>>589558
I feel this so hard. I love rompers but they all seem to be made for girls that are 5'2".

No. 589563

>>589511
no such thing. free will

No. 589570

>>589511
Kawaii jfashion was never socially acceptable at any age.

No. 589582

>>589511
There are no restrictions but a younger looking person is obviously going to look different in it than an 80 year old but that shouldn't stop anyone. You shouldn't throw your wardrobe away just because your digits change


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No. 408483[Reply]

Welcome to to the divination thread. Here we discuss our experiences with tarot or any other form of divination, be on the giving or receiving end. You can also use this thread to practice reads and ask questions to readers. General discussion pertaining to the topic is also allowed.

>Info for people seeking a reading
If you want to get a reading, please leave a post here with your query and general details about it. It's optional but you can include your age, sex, sign, a picture, a song, or any other info you might feel is relevant, anything that might help the reader pick up your energy better. Some readers may ask for distinct requirement according to their reading style. Although you may post your query here, it is not guaranteed that your post will be picked up by a reader quickly, but it may still eventually happen.

>Info for readers
You can come here and offer readings for anons, how many spots you offer and how many questions you'll answer is up to you. You may also pick up any query from this thread and answer it. Remember to disclose what your requirements for a reading are (age, sex, sign, length of the question, etc) and what method of divination you're using. If there's certain questions you won't answer (death and sickness related for example) be sure to disclose it as well.

>Info for people seeking a trade
As a reader, you may come here and ask to trade a reading, meaning you leave your own question and then wait until another reader picks it up. If that reader answers your question, be sure to reply back as soon as possible. Always disclose what method of divination you're using. Try to match the length of the other anon's response, don't leave them hanging or reply with a shorter text than theirs.

>Info for people learning any divination method including tarot
Feel free to come here to practice your skills. You can ask for advice, tips, and feedback. Even if you're not actively learning and are just curious about it, please don't shy away from posting in this thread.

Have fun!
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No. 588650

>>587511
I am the job nona, thanks for answering my question! I am cooked then kek but you are so accurate in your readings

No. 588655

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>>585879
Libra Sun, Pisces Moon, & Cancer Ascendant.
I've been feeling pulled in a couple different directions recently, and the uncertainty of living what was (previously) a very comfortable and familiar future is starting to take its toll. Will the sweet and dear, but unlikely dream be worth trying for, or does it make more sense to shore up what I have in the here and now? More specifically - will my husband be successful finding a job overseas? Thank you nonniiiiiiieeeeeeee. ;_;

No. 589518

>>587566
or anyone lol i just want a reading

No. 589545

I am having a feeling that things will go shit for me in the next weeks, so can I have a reading on that please?

No. 589546

Will my finances improve?


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