>>322920I used to be the same way, I think the mental block makes it more painful and worse even with all the lube in the world.
Do you feel comfortable in your body?
Is the person you are having sex with someone you actually like?
In time it gets better, but like other anon said, you have to be vocal about what works for you. Let him know that you need time to get past the few first painful thrusts and to go slowly and maybe spend more time in foreplay.
Penetrative sex can be good with the right mindset, person and position. If not, it can be painful.
I enjoy positioning from the side and he enters from behind slowly. Along with lots of foreplay before. Find what’s right for you and tell him, I’m sure he will be understanding if you are upfront about it.
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