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No. 108748[Reply]

I have a question regarding IUDs. I've been on the pill since early 2017 and I get pretty bad side effects. My breasts swell up (they become REALLY painful) and I get extremely nauseous. I haven't been off the pill since 2017 and the symptoms haven't disappeared. I'm honestly sick of it and decided to get an IUD. Have any of you had experiences with IUDs? I am not sure whether to get the hormonal or non-hormonal one. I absolutely hate and almost can't stand the side effects of hormonal birth control, but I get very painful periods and I heard that the copper IUD makes them 10x worse. ;-;
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No. 145463

>>145450
Alright, thank you!

No. 145826

>>145388
for anyone who cares, I found a study claiming that increasing calcium levels decrease PMS symptoms
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5313351/

No. 146334

Ive been on the pill for over 6 years and i want to go off of it but i originally started taking it bc i had serious painful hormonal acne. Has anyone found a way to go off it and not break out? I should mention i also take a spearmint supplement every day bc the pill still isnt enough to stop the acne

No. 146342

>>145423
Same here.
Never felt the strings and my partner never got his dick pocked by them..

No. 148511

Has any of you ever heard of someone getting pregnant with a IUD?
My doc said in 20 years of medical career only happened to see it once.
Since I got my IUD 4 years ago my period became super punctual, rarely being late just a few more days compared to previous month.
This month, in theory it should have happened between this week and next week.
If next week I'll still have no period, should I panic or should I just pee on a stick and find out if I am so wretched to get pregnant with a IUD past 35 yrs old of age?



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No. 147911[Reply]

I want to fill out a dating profile that'll attract the kind of misogynists that frequent /lit/ (I fucked my prof once and developed a fetish). Any tips?(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
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No. 148150

>>148034
the accuracy of this is astounding and it's funny that in the end this much effort could instead be put into self-improvement. also, these types of men view women as incapable of comprehending philosophical ideas anyways so he'll likely end up gatekeeping no matter how much you try to prove that you like Nietzsche or some shit

No. 148224

>>148034
this unironically describes me

No. 148225

>>148034

fucking thank you anon, you da real MVP

I'll report back soon, here's hoping I get my heart crushed and daddy issues furthered

No. 148229

anon if you fucked your prof… tell me how to I’ve always been interested in that kind of thing

No. 148236

>>148229

I kinda misrepresented the story

We met and started dating when he was my TA. It was easy because we had crazy chemistry since day one. He was always calling on me during conference, like he'd single me out and ask me what I thought of this and that. He'd strike up convos with me before class or if he saw me around on campus. While I was taking the midterm he actually came up to me and asked me how I'm doing which my stupid ass thought was so romantic at the time lmfao

My friends from class were really encouraging and all omg he's crushing on you so it was easy to work up my courage and start seeing him during office hours under the guise of being so interested in the subject and wanting to explore it in depth (related to his PHD). So we just sort of started dating organically.

We had an on/off relationship because he was dating some other woman and let's be real, he was probably fucking other students, too. About a year after that he was finally teaching his own class on top of TAing, I was in my second year and still had electives I could take so ofc I signed up for his class. I knew he'd make it super interesting and also I thought it would be really hot.

I tried fucking other profs after him but the furthest I got was them just sort of staring at me and like smiling a lot? No one else was as forward as him and I chickened out so I think the #1 thing is finding enough of a sleazebag lol

Plus, he was only 10 years older while the other profs I very pathetically tried to date could've been my grandpa and it's like what does a 20 something year old talk about with a 60 year old anyway?



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No. 109507[Reply]

The last thread of this is a year old, SO, NEW THREAD! Post your room inspos/ideas/decor

Selfposting welcome
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Anyone have ideas for their dream bathrooms? The bathroom is like a sanctuary for me. Personally, I would love a dark atmosphere with lots of mosaic tiles and a big bath.

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>>146549
Yessssss

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>>147147
I haven't thought too much on the design but I'd love a big wet room style shower. I like sitting in the shower so having all that space and maybe a built in bench would be awesome. I also like how seamless and spacious they make the bathroom look. I also wall tiling that doesn't look like normal tiles, eg fake wood, fake brick.

Too bad I'll never be able to afford it kek I'm planning a bathroom reno eventually and even with the plainest, cheapest materials it'll still cost me like 10-15k.

No. 147151

>>147149
I know the feeling, it's something that eventually I want to work up to. Tiles alone are expensive, even if you DIY the whole thing it's still an excessive amount omg. For a shower, my dream would be Dornbracht's Aquamoon. I saw a demo of it one and looked so decadent, thought that was at a commercial show lol.

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No. 55352[Reply]

>>Developing a huge crush on a relatively popular fitness YouTuber
>>not something insane I'm-going-to-send-a-bomb type of thing, but it's still something pathetic
>>Super lonely since breakup in April
>>Know we probably won't ever meet because he's becoming more and more popular, and I'm just a sad potato in a different country
>>Daydream about him as if he was someone achievable; feel jealous and shit over him

He seems genuinely sweet and we seem so much alike. I know, maybe it's just a persona, but still.
I've thought of sending a gift, but I worry that might
make me even more helpess in case he opens his gifts on camera again :(

Anyone out there with a similar story? Tell me I'm not totally crazy, pls. I'm pretty sure it will go away, at least a bit, once i meet someone new, but yeah…

Making this in /sty/ because I'm not sure it is /ot/ material and I'm sure this topic has been brought up before.

/Ryoga best character
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No. 146545

>>146493
Not irl, please have some self-respect anon.

No. 146998

> be an artist on instagram with a decent following (4 digits)
> one of my followers is a cute normie girl who just silently likes my art
>occasionally visit her insta to see her selfies as she goes about her daily life
>have never posted pics of myself so I know she couldn't possibly be attracted to me the way I'm attracted to her (not to mention the fact I'm plain af)

At this point even a followback seems a little creepy because it's not like she posts anything some rando IG artist would be interested in. I can only hope one day she comments something nice on one of my posts so I can reply "thank you!" and then just… cherish that forever kek.

No. 147045

>>146998
eh, just follow her anon. Who even cares at this point. It's social media everyone likes attention when it's not overtly creepy. Especially from an artist you already like.

No. 147075

>>146998
She'd probably be thrilled an artist that she likes is following her, I say go for it anon

No. 147076

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No. 146198[Reply]

Have you ever had a guy or a girl pretend to like you? I just found out a guy I've been talking to for a while now only pretended to like me because they were insecure and I gave them attention and validation. I feel so pathetic and humiliated right now.
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No. 146500

>tfw I've been going through this too
Been talking to a guy for a few months now and he seems pretty interested but I always wonder if it's not me, but just that I'm a female who actually gives him attention.

He has his shit together and isn't an incel which is even weirder

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I always tend to get people going full retard and telling me everything and anything that has ever happened in their life, they just want attention, and I usually give them a few crumbles here and there, but I don’t really get involved in their lives as they want me to.

I guess some people just attract those attention seekers more than others, I’ve had at least three weirdos telling me about their last breakup, their suicidal tendencies or that one person they really really like.

I particularly feel extremely uncomfortable when they start talking to me for a few hours and then they go:

>hey! I like this person a lot and I wish they paid attention to me!!1!1!


Like, why? Specially after flirting with me, it’s weird af and a huge turn off, I usually give them some love advice even though I’m single and then just let the whole thing die.

No. 146538

>>146509
Omg the same thing happens to me, i think i might just be to nice, people irl and on the internet will tell me the story of their life and use me as their therapist.

I know i just should tell them to fuck off but i want to be liked so badly.

No. 146551

>>146538
This is why I don't bother with e-friendships anymore. Does it happen to you in private messages? Guys get too attached it's ridiculous.

No. 146555

>>146372
Ugh, it depends. My partner knows a shitload of people and keeps internet contact with many, I'd be jealous if he kept some of these hidden from me, but I do not hide the fact that this guy was DMing me, he even was in the same room with me several times during these chats.
When he asked me about it I told him the guy was initially trying to hit on me.
My partner could access my fb account anytime and read all the chats no problem, I never gave the guy any hope nor talked inappropriate stuff (we mostly speak about everything and anything, often about his problems with girls and with getting laid).
I don't expect it to become an actual friendship and it is not proper flirtation either.
I don't think it will go on much longer anyway, the only reason it did until now is because 90% of the times it's him starting a new conversation and me just being glad to respond.

>>146440
I know, the strangest thing is that none of us knows much about the other, because none of us is using real name for the account nor pictures of ourselves. There is no chance in hell I am ever showing him a picture of me, and I am not interested in his looks either.
Paradoxically, "attracting" him without looks or personal details being involved is what fascinated me the most about the random chats.



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No. 146204[Reply]

Size chart for the underwear at Hollister(Gilly Hicks). My waist is 28 inches but my hips are 33. What size do I fucking get, the XXS or the medium?

No. 146207

>>146204

I’d probably go with the XXS, but consider the cut of the underwear. Most undies these days are very low rise and will sit well below the waist, so you want it to fit most snugly around your butt.

If it is high rise underwear then I wouldn’t get anything from them because their sizing doesn’t seem suitable for your body type.

No. 146208

>>146207
It's this: https://www.hollisterco.com/shop/us/p/lace-trim-cotton-boyshort-40266823?categoryId=6943192&seq=06&faceout=prod1
Actually I remember I bought underwear from here a while ago, it was a size S and was somehow very small, I could barely get it on and it rode up horribly. Which doesn't make sense because you said XXS would be best for me(and it was kind of low cut).

I guess this is underwear general now? it's hard trying to find underwear that fits and looks cute and isn't horribly expensive.

No. 146215

>>146208
It's got 7% elastaine in it so it should stretch plenty.

No. 146258

>>146208
Hrm sorry then anon, seems their sizing is kinda weird and unreliable overall. You could definitely give the medium a shot then.

Have you ever tried Aerie underwear? I can’t say they have the most consistent sizing either, but they’re pretty cute overall and the stuff I’ve got from them holds up well enough. I’d wait until one of their 10 for $25 sales because I think they’re overpriced otherwise.

No. 146328

>>146258
Thanks, I've been looking at them too. There's actually a 10 for 35 sale rn… so close yet so far. How often do they do 10 for 25 sales?



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No. 115141[Reply]

last thread: >>87606
No shame no gain
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No. 146781

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My most recent awful sexual fantasy has been being fucked by a guy and then right after he finishes, him shooting me in the head. Preferavle in special forces uniform

No. 147275

I love fantasizing about repressed bisexual, straight-presenting guys. I don't even like yaoi/bl very much, but the idea of a loving, committed guy with a girlfriend/wife getting seduced by a handsome taller man who wants to top him is so hot to me. I've kinda just accepted I have a cuckqueaning fetish at this point, and love imagining an mmf threesome with the guy doing vaginal penetration and taking anal penetration at the same time.

No. 148335

I like the entire idea of having sex in a mental hospital it makes me so fucking ashamed. I also don't know if it haves a specific name so if any anons know where I can find written stuff about this please let me know

No. 149826

I want to fuck a horse

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>>149826
this you?



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No. 145649[Reply]

Post anything related to styles that are not typically associated with traditional femininity.
Anything considered boyish, masculine, androginous etc.

>Have you always dressed like a tomboy?

>What is your experience with it?
>Post a picture of the kind of clothes you like
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No. 145774

>>145767
That's a nice waist/hip ratio. I guess some waist emphasis would be nice.

No. 145807

>>145767
Our torso proportions aren't similar but I'm a fellow short hourglass so maybe I can help out! waist emphasis is good (as well as high-waisted bottoms) but in the end you will always look very feminine and will fill out the clothes so you'll never have an androgynous illusion if that is what you're after. It just will never, not ever, happen for us. Sorry to say but it just be like that.

As for what I do, I almost exclusively wear cropped denim (sometimes rolled to show ankles) that fits tight at the thighs and hips and loosens at the bottom but not too loose. Overall I keep the silhouette on the fitted side with slight looseness at the most. If I want to wear a loose shirt, I will wear a button-down thing that is rather big and flowy and underneath I will wear a very form-fitting tank top that I tuck under my denim. That way people can see I'm not fat but I still get to have a loose top. Definitely very fond of tucking tops in for that waist emphasis, I always do it. For fabrics I go for things that aren't too stiff. Stiff fabrics look blocky and the softness to my body clashes with it's structure so the fat effect happens.

Shorts look insanely femme on me as well and I hate them. I do wear them if it's simply too hot but if I'm gonna look that femme I'll throw on a dress and be even comfier tbh.

Overall I had to just accept that my shape is feminine and I can't look as androgynous as I want but I've found a way to mix casual pieces with cuts that flatter my shape. Imo looking at inspo pics of beanpole girls that have several inches of inseam length on you is a bad call and unfortunately those women are the main audience for tomboy fashion. But there are ways to make it work albeit in a "softer" way.

>>145769
I don't think a baggy top that conceals her waist is a good idea because that is a big no-no for short women but hard to say without hearing her actual cm/inch measurements.

No. 145868

Any suggestions for belts to pair with white Air Force ones? Ever since growing my hair out I’ve felt more comfortable dressing more tomboyish while not looking like a teenager, so I wear a lot of baggy pants. I used to only wear doc martens so I would just wear black braided belts, like guys wear with business casual looks but I don’t know what to pair with white shoes that’s not girly, all I can think of is the white egirl grommet type belt and I hate that look. Sorry if this isn’t the right thread but I want to put this here rather than fashion general cause I don’t know if I’ll get the results I want!

No. 145875

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>>145868
maybe these?

No. 146072

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>Have you always dressed like a tomboy?
Yes. I outright take clothes from the mens section of the store. I generally don't like womens clothes since, if not fashion, the space around the chest and thighs come off weird. I'm taller than some men so finding a fit isn't a major issue.

>What is your experience with it?

I got called a lesbian a few times in middle and high school or assumed to be trans. (I'm neither, but one time I was asked for my pronouns.) I've gotten negative comments about my dress style before or how I'm picking clothes from the men's section, but in every case I haven't given a fuck.

>Post a picture of the kind of clothes you like

It's almost always going to be something plain or not very showy, but the texture and quality of the clothes is aesthetic. Sir Integra's awesome, not in a sense I'd try to emulate her style as I'm nowhere near being blond, anime-tall, and Protestant enough.



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No. 72269[Reply]

General discussion for everything fashion:Styles,Brands,favorite influences, favorite icons etc.

Post outfit coordination for critique and advice. :)

Posting one I came up with for starters, not sure what to call my personal style.
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No. 145968

Is there a way I can avoid having camel toes in dress pants?

No. 145983

What bras have cute straps that I can show under a tank top and where can I find them? Or soft comfortable bandeau style bras?

No. 146005

>>145983
Lace bralettes for sure, I have a white one to wear under tank tops/see through white shirts that I have to wear a bra with. You can find them at pretty much any store, mine actually has underwire (got it at target) but I’ve seen similar ones without underwire at free people, francesca’s, aerie, etc.

No. 146009

Please take it to the new fashion thread anons >>124317



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No. 145271[Reply]

Did you use to wear Jfashion but don't do it anymore? Did you try to look like your favorite celeb/idol but then changed your style completely? Did you use to look like an alternative girl but now look like a normie? This is the thread for you!

Discuss how your style changed, how you dress nowadays, if you still like certain elements or incorporate some into your wardrove, what made you want to change, did you keep your friendships etc.
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No. 145608

>>145593
>This service is not available
in your region.

aw man

No. 145821

When I entered high school, with the limited resources available to me, I was wearing tight black clothing, heavy winged eyeliner, and gave myself a choppy emo haircut. I transitioned into a normie phase shortly after largely because of the influence of school friends.

Towards the end of high school I regained an interest in weirding out, shaved off some of my hair, experimented with men's shirts and trousers paired with '80s punk style makeup and flamboyant piercing jewelry. I started going to a lot of punk shows at this time and incorporated some staples into my wardrobe like a studded collar, patchwork jacket and combat boots.

As I developed a more active lifestyle I became more comfortable with early '90s streetwear styles. A couple of years into the '90s revivalism I was getting quite bored with my wardrobe and leaning into normie trends until I started collecting vintage clothing. Its been a few years now and I dress almost exclusively in vintage clothing from the 1930s-70s. It makes me happy, I have never had a wardrobe so diverse in colours, prints, fabrics and silhouettes. I love feminine, flamboyant, one of a kind pieces and the quality of vintage clothing. Kind of annoying niche thing to be into, but whatever. It's what I feel confident wearing.

No. 145829

I had a brief emo phase when I was 13-14, emo was already on its death bed back then but it was still fairly present. My fashion sense was horrible though and I hated makeup so it probably didn't read much like emo to others.
When I was 14-15 I had a phase where I all I would wear was cargo pants that I got from the army surplus shop with tank tops (I wanted to be a video game action girl I guess, despite being as unathletic as they come).
After that came the ultra feminine vintage flowy dress phase where I'd look for purples and pastels and lots of lace detailing. This phase kind of transitioned into an interest in classic lolita.

Fast forward to now and I 90% of what I wear is black, be it gothic lolita or other styles of goth.

No. 145872

I worked in the restaurant industry for a decade wearing whatever I wanted, and often would dye my hair a crazy color, shave off half either undershaving or on the side. I have recently gotten into a conservative career field, where during the interview process I had to quickly do my natural hair color and start accumulating 'normal' clothes. I basically tried to dress like Olivia Benson from Law and Order SVU.
My boyfriend is trying to get me to 'mature' my look on my off days too. I tend to dress in t-shirts and jeans on my days off, and at work I have to wear a polo and office pants. I don't really care about maturing my outside of work look though, I'm pretty out of shape and my off days are the only days I feel like myself. So I guess I'm not really NOT alternative anymore…just part time, I guess.

No. 145907

>>145821
Ot but you sound fucking delightful anon



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