/g/ - girl talk

>>312528
>>312589
As if that "I'm special" eyeglasses shouldn't have been a big warning sign.

>>312589
Problem glasses alert

Yves Saint-Laurent

I just love 80's nerds posing next to computers..

him

you have to be an adult to post here

>>314424
Is that young bryan cranston? I used to love him and the only reason I began to watch that show the middle was because of him.

>>312475
I relate to everything you said except that I only like feminine 2D men while 3D men and masculine 2D men are just so ugly to me.
>I'm supposed to date these ugly ass apes?? I'm really tired of scrolling the internet and seeing nothing but ugly moids and nothing but beautiful women
It's so unfair. All a woman has to do is shower regularly and she is beautiful while a man can have styling team in the size of and army and he is still ugly. I don't know what it is about men but they are all so ugly I'm tired that we are expected to date them. It's also so stupid that the beauty standard for women is so insanely high when women already are beautiful to begin with. I'm convinced that men invented the beauty industry as a cope because they know that they will never be not-ugly so why not destroy women's self esteem but I digress.
Men refuse to date a woman that doesn't look like a porn actress and yet I'm expected to give any man a chance regardless of how he looks?

>>314425
yeah he was so hot and he got married at 21
you'll never see a feminine pretty man get into a committed relationship in his 20s, let alone get married so early. Pretty feminine men start to think about committed relationships when they're in their 30s and they start considering marriage when they're in their 40s

>>314433
Recognised him instantly because of his mole kek.
>Pretty feminine men start to think about committed relationships when they're in their 30s and they start considering marriage when they're in their 40s
So right, they are either too busy to date or are serial daters which is such turn off.

i feel your pain. my nigel oneitis is trying to be more 'masculine', i guess. cut his hair short, and i wish he didn't. he has the most beautiful big eyes, a gentle face, and looks like a confused kitten. sigh. he's still pretty, even with short hair.
anyway if you like 2D, i recommend vinland saga. picrel was an instant cartoon crush.

>>310071
I've tried this, and I wasn't taken seriously. I had one professional just suggest that maybe I'll get horny if just force myself to have sex with someone (???). I went through a spell of having no libido for years straight due to physical and mental health issues, and I slowly regained it via exploring my body and building confidence in my appearance.

>>310147
>I always feel bad when people say that you're a porn addict if you can't get off with your thoughts alone
I feel like those people are projecting because using artwork or fanfics isn't nearly as damaging as live-action porn (where you don't even know if it was consensually filmed or spread). I'm currently in a period where my libido is "neutral" but erotica and fantasies that cater to my tastes do it for me, but that's likely because I'm single.

>>308115
I relate to this. I guess I can't say I'm asexual because I find men and some women physically attractive, but the idea of actually having sex is unappealing to me. I've had sex before when I was younger, and I've even used to enjoy it. I just don't enjoy it anymore, and haven't for the past couple of years. The idea of doing it just seems uncomfortable and awkward. I'm not on the pill or anything. I'm overweight though and I'm pretty sure my hormones are messed up.

>>308073
I will give this thread a chance from me, even though I don’t use the term anymore. I remember discovering it years ago, I was 14, felt it describes me because I was never interested in sex (the idea of it even repulses me), want a sexless life and felt it is my true nature. There was a time in my life when I pondered finding some asexual boyfriend for the future but then I realized it’s not really a wish I have, more a result of society’s conditioning.
During the years I also dropped the term “asexual” because I disliked a lot how the community changed. I saw it being infested with trannies, people thinking not desiring sex 24/7 makes them asexual, people making weird posts making me uncomfortable, openly speaking of kinks, etc. It was all nonsense. I also never regarded asexuality as something that needs to be a part of LGBTQ or LGB. Perhaps due to that and my personality, I fell out with my former besties (knew them for four years) because they became genderspecials, also shaming me for being a “prude” when they started to explore their sexuality more, even to the point of behavior which was rude or off-putting to me.
I still know a few smart people who use the term but not in a way that queers rendered it… So there is a hope.
I also like that this thread doesn’t have the flag I dislike (as the CC thread has), although there could be a better pic choice. But I’ll stick with it.
For me this state is good. I see no struggles. However, I wonder how it will be like much later, when my family could start wondering why I’m still single. At least I am also grateful for having a family which is quite relaxed on this topic, I was never “forced” to be interested in dating, etc. As a young woman I just want to focus on my hobbies, pursue a career, live my life.
I’m curious nonas, how do you feel about asexuality “symbols”? Back when I identified more with that term I liked them, now they’re like a bitter memory to me. I like the color purple that’s in the flag, the card symbols remind me of one of my interests but after I changed my stance on the modern take on asexuality I feel symbols are not needed. Maybe because I know they’re associated with trends I started to dislike as soon as I saw their real form (such as the cursed “trans rights”). Sometimes I also feel personally attacked in a way, I remember some fraction of asexuals on TumblrPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>311127
>I’m curious nonas, how do you feel about asexuality “symbols”?
I'm "allosexual" (I hate that word but) someone who believes that asexual isn't LGB, but I still don't have a problem with there being a symbol or flag of it. Gay people don't have a monopoly on that kind of thing. I think the issue is when people make a million flags for the made-up subcategories like "asexual but wants sex once a year" or something, it gets postmodernist. I find the jokes that dragons or cake is "ace culture" annoying, but it's just a meme.

>>311164
I think I’m either neutral toward the symbols or bitter because of what I described above. I guess that making flags become a trend there (but I still see it’s pointless with multiple microlabels as you mentioned). Maybe I dislike the “ace culture” jokes because I don’t like strong identification with a group or I dislike if they mention something I relate to, while not relating to the people using that term who promote the woke take on it.
I guess on some level, beside bad memories, is that if someone woke-leaning would learn I’m asexual, the reaction would be like “so you must also support trans rights, queers, microlabels and tons of other idiotic stuff”.
>>308108
>It's also scary how a lot of the woke asexual community promotes unhealthy relationships. I understand that wanting a relationship without sex is difficult, since most people want that, but saying it's fine to make yourself have sex to please your partner would be considered coercion in any other context.
This is something that bothered me since teenage years, when I heard of asexuals accepting that. Not all of course, but still in some cases. After all, it’s decision of the person whether they want to engage in sex with partner but… Feels wrong, knowing in all other circumstances that person wouldn’t be interested in doing that. I always considered that to be something against the nature of asexuality and a subtle way to exploit others. Or, if that person is totally fine with it, why use the term “asexual” then?
I remember finding one space where a few years later I could openly speak about it (why people normalize asexuals having sex for their partner), found people supporting my stance that it sounds negative but at the end of the day I found there were some cursed people in that space too. (Asexuality off-top but basically there came a 15-year old girl whose posting history revealed childhood rape, she was also a transmasc TIF, when I asked her about being trans and tried to tell her how it’s connected to trauma I got banned from the community. Of course, that’s Reddit for you, what should I expect.)

>>189175
When I was 18/19, I realised that I'm not going to grow any taller and agoinsed over it. Started doing stretichng exercises to induce any last-minute growth spurt etc.. It went away after a year and I never thought about it ever since.

>>314246
i sympathize with your trauma but you need serious medical help if you are jealous of little girls for being more '''''desirable''' than you.

>>314373
Nta but being pedophilic and thinking children are ideal beauty has nothing to do with trauma. Anon is an anachan and anachans are known to idolize girl childrens looks and think little girls are the ideal when in reality most men don't prefer flat asses and chests, blocky waists, stupidly innocent personalities unless the men in question are literal pedophiles. Anorexics believe that by starving themselves, they'll forever have the innocence and beauty of youth while in reality, most look much older and some even look like decomposing corpses.

>>314246
This is a lot but I just want you to know that yes, you were abused. Children do not have the ability to consent, especially pre-pubescent kids who don’t even have sexual desires or comprehend what sex is. Deprogram yourself and take everything you’ve read that suggests pedophilia is okay and know that it’s all bullshit. It’s never ever ever justified.

>>314378
i’m not an anachan, i’m barely even underweight
i’m not stupid enough to think that a teenage girl with developed hip bones could look like a child if she starved herself
i eat three meals a day
quit tinfoiling you absolute poop
also, i realize that it’s irrational to see children as the most beautiful… that’s why i’m posting in the body DYSMORPHIA thread.

>>301802
we had pretty similar teenage years by the sound of it. being the weird unapproachable girl in school made me very self conscious for a long time, but i have to say, watching the girls i grew up with in school go on to be single mums, emotional, physical, sexual abuse victims etc. at the hands of the local populous of men has made me very grateful for my experience as 'the weird girl'.
>I have to say though that the hardest part of being alone is the cost of living
i live alone too, and i'm not sure where you are in the world, but in the UK just having a diagnosis of autism auto-entitles you to certain government help with heating costs etc if you play your cards right. it's worth looking into for sure. also construction jobs pay very well (and often in cash, if taxable income is of concern to you), so if you can tolerate being around horrifically misogynist moids for the majority of the working day then it's an excellent choice. i quite like the routine and monotony of it, plus once the scrotes on site figure out you are, in fact, completely uninterested, they tend to ease off. best of luck!

>>302322
Similar feels. I learned some months ago a certain girl I knew at high school is now a single mom and possible another one as well, this feels depressing. Even though they screwed me up in some ways (not as bad as others though), I wish they could move on with they could. But it feels sad to know a child is being raised by someone who won’t be much responsible in life. As for those who just had various relationship, I’m glad I get to avoid that drama and possible bad experiences. For some people it’s like a rollercoaster, my classmate married some man at 18, then she divorced him within a year and found another husband.

I’m not having sex again until 2024

>>282476
>one in five American men have bought sex from a prostitute
Horrifying. Does the stat include camwhores though?

>>282476
Where did you read that? Upon googling I can't find anything that extreme, I can only find a study that says 1 in 50 men have had sex with a prostitute, are you sure you didn't misread?

>>307532
I used to LOVE this shit as a teenager. Maybe because it was so accessible and easy. Every single time i bought clothes from such brands, 9/10 i would either return them or they sat in my closet unworn and i would end up selling them. It's a very ugly aesthetic. Anyone trying to dress goth are 100% just buying normie clothes in the thrift store and being a little creative.

>>307581
>assume the person is annoying or an OnlyFans whore
I think the exact same thing lmao. Admittedly, i see dollskill as one of the better altwhore stores since they still sell stuff that isn't too offence and can be worn everyday. Killstar has managed to get even uglier and release the most repugnant looking clothes ever in recent times. All of their dresses always had the most unflattering fits, not even the models could make it cute. And for $80 dollars a piece. No thank you.

>>307581
Same, it’s a shame that this aesthetic has become so tainted by onlyfans. It looks cheap.

I miss 80's girlboss fashion.

Does anyone remember picrel Aksinya Air? She was a fashion blogger from Ukraine and popular on lookbook, I think around 2012ish? Everything was comfier, cuter and wasn't about trying to be retro/something from by-gone days. Also I prefer the top-heavy silhouette.

>>310335
we're both gymfags and bulk together

i can go on and on and on about my love, but this is the most recent amazing thing he did.
>in LDR
>makes me go to the dentist for tooth pain, turns out i need to have a wisdom tooth extraction
>im insured but it barely covers the visit, let alone the surgery
>freaks out and cries to bf wondering how i can afford it
>bf says that he will pay for it
>he just wants to make sure i'm safe and alright.
>comes out to my town, day of surgery.
>gets a hotel room, buys me the food i can eat after surgery
>takes care of me after surgery
>im just in awe at this man, ask him why
>"Anon, you're my future wife. I want to take care of you and always have you be healthy and happy"

I'm about to cry. No one has ever treated me this kindly before. I am going to repay him back, somehow, but I just…I love him so much.

for some background info, my nigel is very effeminate to the point where most people assume he is gay when they first talk w him. i know its not everyones cup of tea but i think it has made him connect w women more.
just a couple stuff i like about him that arent the usual stuff like "he is a good listener". i like reading cliche stuff about u guys' bfs though, its cute to see how much anons love their partners.

>gives me drawings of my cat, me etc on random days.
>i know i cant make anons believe this but actually a feminist. believes women's precaution w men is justified and isnt offended by it. because he understands that most women have a reason to fear men.
>actual terf, says shit like "transwomen are an imitation of what the average guy thinks a woman is" and all the other cliche terf shit.
>genuinely believes im the smartest person he knows.
>puts up w my extreme moodiness from high-stress major/work, saying i put up w his clingy ass so me being moody and distant isnt a big deal for him. doesnt know i love his clingy ass.
>i never orgasmed from anything other than humping my pillow (cant even finish from masturbating by rubbing clit etc.). but sex with him is fun because he tries so hard each time. i literally never ask him for oral, he initiates it.
>always stops at sex when he "senses" im not having fun. even when i tell him its ok to continue until he finishes. he just stops and cuddles me and says he doesnt have to orgasm, it was fun either way.

My nigel is dumb and might have undiagnosed autism with the way he acts sometimes, but he’s the nicest guy I’ve met.
>Has cute nicknames for me, he enjoys when I call him some too.
>Massage therapist, gives me lots of massages.
>Enjoys cooking and cleaning for me, I offer to help but he insists on it.
>Spoils me with lots of gifts when the occasion for it arises. He tries to go all out.
>Hates hook-up culture and isn’t a man hoe. He didn’t sleep around before we met.
>Hates rape scenes in movies/shows and will go out of his way to avoid them.
>Will do anything to look nice for me, he has offered to wax for me for example.
>Very attractive, has the most stunning eyes. He does need to lose a little weight but he knows that and has been dieting and exercising. I don’t mind because his face is cute.
>Doesn’t have any female friends and has agreed not to make any. I think a guy having a lot of female friends is a red flag so this is ideal for me.
>Loves me unconditionally. He loves me for my personality and values. He’s said if I ever gained weight or anything, he wouldn’t stop loving me. No offense, he had some pretty ugly exes, so I believe him.
My first ex was pornsick to the point where he couldn’t ejaculate normally. He had to be rough to do so and it was very annoying how long it took. It put a damper on my confidence. My ex also trooned out and skinwalked me, so that tells you how broken he was. I’m so grateful that I have a healthy man now.
>Doesn’t watch porn, believes it rots your brain. I wish there was more reason behind it, but I’ll take what I can get.
>Doesn’t force sex and waits for me to initiate. I appreciate this because I hate sex pests and it’s such a turnoff being expected to do it. He doesn’t get offended if I change my mind or decline later. Consent is important.
>Gets hard just from a kiss, dirty talk, or seeing me in a nice dress. This is very different for me and I like it.
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i am avery delusional and anxious girl at times. my nigel has a way of not engaging with my anxiety and delusional thoughts, but rather waiting calmly and showing me physical love until i calm down. i appreciate his patience a lot. i like that he lets me figure things out on my own. i sometimes find that talking with others can make my problems worse, and by him just doing things to distract me or calm me down, he helps me by not letting me spiral into verbal vomit. it's so nice to be reminded you're loved while being helped into a more stable and mature mindset

>>313587
Post yourself on all fours or gtfo

>>313587
>>313598
stop bumping the old thread retards

>>313587
>>313598
Get out of here tranny

>>313603
Just ignore and report.

>>313603
No the clit part was made up. I'm a normal human, but had to wrote what would made me hard if a girl wrote it. You gals are cute tho. Would definitely destroy your bottoms.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

Sacrificing alcohol for lent. Not sure if any nonnas are religious or not, not judging otherwise, just sharing my piece.
I've always struggled deeply with drugs. Will try to give up alcohol for the 40 days of lent. Enjoying my last 2 beers before it begins. Bless all nonnas. Justice will be served.

>>313727
same nonita. It's gonna be 40 days of well needed break for my liver. I'm allowing myself to have a non alcoholic beer for social occasions by BYOB since that's what I've done to stave off alcohol out of my life (and still failing sometimes) but still hang out with friends. Praying for both of us + other nonnas going through the same during lent

Been sober for about 2 months and I feel good mentally, with waay less anxiety and depressive episodes. I've developed this insane craving for sweet food though and am worried I'll get fat soon kek. Trying not to eat more than one sweet snack a day, but then again I remember I was drinking waay more calories most days than a slice of cake. Anyway, here's a podcast on all of the shitty effects of alcohol if any nonnies are needing some motivation. Its so much worse than I thought, especially the cancer statistics.

I just tried to use an anonymous chatbox for alcoholism support and had a scrote in his 50s ask me about my masturbation habits and then start talking about his daughter who's the same age as me. Why are moids so fucking disgusting. I just wanted some advice and to be able to talk openly about my situation god damn it.

I've posted on here 2 months ago and I'm happy to update that I'm currently celebrating 1 month sober! I hit rock bottom after going on a 3 day alcohol and coke binge. The day after I went out to eat with friends and could barely hold my spoon to my mouth without shaking and spilling miso soup all over. It's crazy to think that was a month ago. Currently I feel so much better, making better decisions, my depression is gone and I'm starting to lose the weight I put on from drinking. I'm excited to continue this streak and see how much of a difference I notice in the months to come. I hope this can be inspo for anyone else in this thread and would like to offer help if possible!