Ugh, it depends. My partner knows a shitload of people and keeps internet contact with many, I'd be jealous if he kept some of these hidden from me, but I do not hide the fact that this guy was DMing me, he even was in the same room with me several times during these chats.
When he asked me about it I told him the guy was initially trying to hit on me.
My partner could access my fb account anytime and read all the chats no problem, I never gave the guy any hope nor talked inappropriate stuff (we mostly speak about everything and anything, often about his problems with girls and with getting laid).
I don't expect it to become an actual friendship and it is not proper flirtation either.
I don't think it will go on much longer anyway, the only reason it did until now is because 90% of the times it's him starting a new conversation and me just being glad to respond. >>146440
I know, the strangest thing is that none of us knows much about the other, because none of us is using real name for the account nor pictures of ourselves. There is no chance in hell I am ever showing him a picture of me, and I am not interested in his looks either.
Paradoxically, "attracting" him without looks or personal details being involved is what fascinated me the most about the random chats.