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No. 363824[Reply]

The follow-up thread to >>199512

A place where black women can rant about the good, the bad and the ugly in the community. This is also a good thread for the women who are curious about the black community and the black female experience.
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No. 378405

What do you mean by this? What does this imply?

No. 378406

But that’s my problem? I’m not a normal person. Everything I do is counterintuitive. I always seems to take the wrong step or wrong perspective. That’s why I seek outside advice.

No. 378407

Wrong. And you can kill people without guns.

No. 378412

This response makes no sense, did you reply to the wrong post? I'm not a divestors, I don't even like divestors. I think you just don't understand the terms you're using

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Previous thread: >>>/g/278561

This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like your weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Reminder that we're all human and we all have our ups and downs. Don't blame yourself for failing and don't get fixated on small missteps. This is a marathon, not a race. Self-sabotage will only make things worse. Try to stay positive and think of the positive steps you've made to get here and keep moving forward!

Don't get fixated on numbers and give yourself adequate rest days and rewards to keep yourself motivated.

No ana, please.
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No. 377973

It think it's hard to say that the symptoms you experience are definitely due to weight gain. The progression of diseases like that seem to be complex and still not fully understood, it's probably a cascade of events so it's difficult to pin it on just weight gain on an individual basis. But generally speaking there seems to be a correlation between too much body fat and increased inflammation, which in turn increases your risk of other diseases including auto-immune ones. I have some achy joints (not rheumatoid) and I find my symptoms improve from doing time-restricted eating and limiting my number of meals in a day. My rosacea also improves. It seems this type of lifestyle could possibly decrease inflammation and improve the gut microbiome, although there is not that much conclusive evidence in humans yet. It can also lead to weight loss, although that's not my main objective. It's not guaranteed to help you out, but losing some of the weight could be worth a try because too much fat puts you at risk for a lot of other health issues anyway. Of course see a doctor if you haven't yet.

No. 377978

Sorry if this is a retarded question, I don’t really exercise much other than walking my dog and yoga twice a week. I’m thinking of taking up spin, my goal is to go three or four times a week and hopefully lose like 15 pounds by my birthday in June. I do worry about my legs tho. I already have like really big like soft thighs and hopefully they’ll slim down as I lose weight but I read spin can make you build up a lot of muscle in your thighs . Would my thighs slim down if I was to do spin class like 4 times a week at a deficit of like 500 lower than my TDEE or would they get bulky? Also adding that I probably won’t go that often consistently, I just wanna lose weight fast before summer. Once it’s done I’ll probably just go like once or twice a week.

No. 377979

>lose weight fast
Anon, that's not how it works, if you were to lose weight quickly you would either end up yoyoing horribly or you have cancer and it's killing you slowly.
Still though, it's not a crazy goal to lose almost 7 kilos in 6 months, but, you need to focus on your sizes and not your weight, because you could even gain weight by working out and building muscle mass which is honestly the goal that most people tend to have since muscles are the ones that protect the bones and other internal organs.
I say, you should take it slowly and see what you actually enjoy, try spinning classes, maybe yoga, plates or anything else, but you also don't need to workout daily, just working out 3 times a week should be enough as long as you accompany thay exercise routine with a nice alimentation.

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No. 377996

Gaining visible muscle is actually kinda hard, you definitely won't get "bulky" in 4 months. People take steroids for a reason, it's not that easy to bulk. If you're in a deficit you will shrink. Gaining significant muscle from spinning a few times a week would take way longer. If you have 15 lbs to lose you could benefit from gaining some muscle anyway, it will burn more calories at rest and make your figure better. I say this as someone who gets muscular legs fairly easily: they don't get bigger that fast lol

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Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc

I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 356010

Also not saying that women are as bad as men, nearly all the most horrific crimes are always men. But there are definitely female abusers, pedos, bullies etc out there and it shouldn’t be ignored if a woman wants to share her experience about it.

No. 356011

That’s terrifying nona I’m so sorry

No. 377879

I was making out with a guy at a house party two years ago, in the morning while everyone was asleep, we went to another room.
He wanted to have sex, i didn't so i gave him a blow job hoping he stopped (i regret this). He kept asking, we didn't have condoms either and i told him "no" several times, he finally forced himself into me.
I was frozen but then I managed to push him away, i told him "no" one last time and after a few minutes and the initial shock i went out of the room and woke up everybody ("my friends").
We all went for breakfast but i felt super numb, i was really confused. I ended making up an excuse and went to urgent care i was so afraid and disgusted, i couldn't stop crying and shaking. At the clinic i asked for some PEP saying i was afraid of STDs and that i just have had unprotected sex the doctor that saw me told me several times if i wanted to make a report to the police, she clearly understood that i was just not afraid of contracting HIV, anyways it was really confused and i didnt know how to take care of that situation i told "my friends" but this person was part of my then friend group and they kept hanging out with this man and some of them even called me a liar (not to my face, they are cowards like that) i later understood these people were never my friends, i know the man that did this to me tells everyone that "i abused him too" because we were both kind of tipsy but i don't care anymore i know that what he did

im currently in therapy and no longer talk to these people, is hard and sometimes i find myself doubouting my own story or minimizing it because it was not like "violent" abuse,is crazy but i'm getting better

No. 378520

Sometimes it’s better to be alone than to have friends like this, I’m so sorry Nonna, I’m glad you’re getting the help to move forward.
Did he do anything else to anyone that you know of??

No. 378522

This literally is similar to what happened to me as a teen; except it was when I was skipping school and took a short cut through these apartments, this guy saw me and was like “give me a hug” I didn’t want to be rude, and just like you, I was an outcast also and had a lot of anxiety and drama at home, he fucking grabbed me and did that same thing to me! I’m still so confused and mad about it, he tore my pants, and when I finally pushed him away I was panicked and that night I went out with my friends (in the same clothes) I got laughed at for having holes in the crotch part of my fucking pants.

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No. 288268[Reply]

Welcome to to the divination thread. Here we discuss our experiences with tarot or any other form of divination, be on the giving or recieving end. You can also use this thread to practice reads and ask questions to readers.

>Info for people seeking a reading

If you want to get a reading, please leave a post here with your query and general details about it. It's optional but you can include your age, sex, sign, a picture, a song, or any other info you might feel is relevant, anything that might help the reader pick up your energy better. Some readers may ask for distinct requirement according to their reading style. Although you may post your query here, it is not guaranteed that your post will be picked up by a reader quickly, but it may still eventually happen.

>Info for readers

You can come here and offer readings for anons, how many spots you offer and how many questions you'll answer is up to you. You may also pick up any query from this thread and answer it. Remember to disclose what your requirements for a reading are (age, sex, sign, lenght of the question, etc) and what method of divination you're using. If there's certain questions you won't awnser (death and sickness related for example) be sure to disclose it as well.

>Info for people seeking a trade

As a reader, you may come here and ask to trade a reading, meaning you leave your own question and then wait until another reader picks it up. If that reader answers your question, be sure to reply back as soon as possible. Always disclose what method of divination you're using. Try to match the lenght of the other anon's response, don't leave them hanging or reply with a shorter text than theirs.

>Info for people learning any divination method including tarot

Feel free to come here to practice your skills. You can ask for advice, tips, and feedback. Even if you're not actively learning and are just curious about it, please don't shy away from posting in this thread.

Have fun!
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No. 376180

can I please get a reading on a new romantic relationship? I’m a leo sun and she’s a sag sun

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If any nonna is available to do a reading, i'm 25+ y/o libra. Don't know my birth time, would like to know about my career and love life if possible!

No. 376195

Not a reader unfortunately but any readers might also need your moon and rising signs. Could you approximate or leave your birth time blank and see what your moon and rising (also called ascendant) signs are?

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Will I pass this semester's exams? I'm starting the exam season in a couple of days and I keep forgetting all the information I just read. I don't care about high grades, just to pass.
Taurus sun, Libra rising

No. 377828

22F aquarius sun/moon cancer rising
i just quit smoking weed cold turkey today and i want to reset my life and become the woman i want to be. i want to be driven, ambitious, and motivated again. i need some advice or to ask if my future looks bright ahead and if i am on the right track. thanks!

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No. 350481[Reply]

Please keep posts focused on women and female homosexuality! If you want to talk about attraction toward males it probably belongs in the bisexuality thread or questioning thread (check the catalog, they're usually not on the front page but I promise they exist!). Please ignore obvious bihet/troon/tradthot/fujo/etc rage bait as well. Remember that when we take the bait and infight the trannies win! If you suspect a poster is XY pls report and ignore instead of shitting up the entire thread with accusations. Newfags pls lurk and read the site rules before posting, and be careful to stay safe and anonymous (use a VPN, incognito mode, be wary of external links/discords, and be very cautious about the personal details you include in your posts).

Topics of discussion may include but are not limited to:
>first crush?
>what’s your local lesbian scene like?
>cute stories about your gf
>favourite lesbian media? lesbian media you hate?
>coming out stories
>are there any cows you’d uhaul with?
>bitch about being lonely
>tips for coping with being lonely
>butch? femme? how do you feel about labels?
>top? bottom? how do you feel about those labels?
>what's your type?
>when did you know you were gay?
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No. 377425

Reading this little story and imagining it made me smile. I hope you're doing well, nona.

No. 377475

nonnies i think i have a crush on a girl in my class. she's so beautiful, a really cool mix of elegant yet down to earth. she wears jeans and a t-shirt and somehow make it look so gorgeous in a natural way. she is so so pretty it's almost hard to look her in the eye, i get nervous. she cut her hair short recently and when i complimented her she smiled such a cute smile and thanked me. she complimented my jeans and it made me want to wear them every day. we hung out with some other friends tonight and sat next to each other on the couch, her leg was pressed against mine and it made me feel butterflies. something about her is very gentle, she's soft-spoken with this lovely accent, i could just listen to her talk all day. sigh nonnies, the butterflies feel so nice. i hope this doesn't sound creepy or anything, I just really like her.

No. 377547

I didn't watch it the day I was born

No. 377549

Psychology majors are studying that thing to fill their own internal void very often.

No. 377551

This sounds very cute. Are you planning to make a move?

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No. 180491[Reply]

A thread for anons who sew. Feel free to discuss anything related to sewing, ask for help and advice or show off your projects!
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No. 376653

Time to get a serger. I started sewing so much more once I got the convenience of a serger even though I knew how to finish edges without it.

No. 376670

Absolutely worth it. You can get one for ~$250 new and even less if you want to comb through Craigslist or FB.

No. 376959

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Made another plushie this month. This was the first female character I made, happy that she turned out cute. The clothes gave me a lot of trouble, I'm truly a masochist for making doll clothes with slippery silk kek

No. 376962

Whoa is that Beniyuri from the Psychedelica series? The embroidery is really impressive, she looks great!

No. 376965

Glad to meet a woman of culture, yes she is beniyuri! And thank you nona, I'm also pretty happy with how the embroidery turned out, this is the neatest I've managed to do so far.

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No. 58349[Reply]

What medicine are you on farmers? Is it for mental health? physical health? How are you dealing with the side effects?

I just got put on bupropion, it's been really helpful for both my depression and body dysmorphia, but I've been getting horrid headaches.
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No. 376876

Seroquil was the AP I was on before and it gave me horrendous zombie syndrome too, like I'd taken one too many klonos or was barred out on xans. I haven't taken any APs since out of fear. I talked to a psychiatrist friend who's not my doc and she said lithium is very tricky and will likely make me gain, so I guess that's a no no. Haven't had any rash or weirdness since last night. I forgot to call doc today

I read sore throat, mouth problems, flu like symptoms and small "rashes" can happen between dosage without it being SJS or the rash, but I'm gonna consult with doctor nonetheless if we should down the dosage or go off completely. The "rash" I developed has thus far just been pustule dots and redness that fades but I don't want to take the chance. Real shame, it was working for my mood. This dosage sans side effects made me feel so damn relaxed and contented the first few days. Ruin a good thing.

No. 376904

I take cbd oil for my anxiety which has manifested into physical symptoms. However I also take supplements (vitamins) from time to time, would taking NAC get rid of the cbd oil in my system? I know it helps cleanse the liver so I wonder if I should not take my oil if I'm taking NAC that day?

No. 376941

I take pregabalin for chronic pain in my vulva, out of all places kek. It's ok, I'm still in pain every day but at least it reduced it by a lot. It used to be so bad that I wanted to kill myself. Now I'm still limited because sometimes it gets really bad again, it isn't consistent relief, but at least I can mostly function. But still, I can't have a partner or active social life for as long as I'm in pain. I can't maintain relationships.
Idk if they could be giving me something better, I don't know much about pain medications. There probably could but I don't think I'll get it, since doctors are paranoid about people "becoming addicted". I heard it's really bad in the US and doctors regularly get thrown in prison for helping people who live in pain.
One side effect of pregabalin I hate is weight gain. I gained almost 10 kg, now I'm working to lose them.

No. 376957

Swelling on your face is bad and you definitely shouldn't take it any more before consulting your doctor, I have a vague memory that where I live it might even be considered an emergency that warrants immediate medical consultation but it has been a few years since I last read the instructions.

No. 376968

AYRT. Found out my doctor is closed on Fridays. I'll call her Monday. Thanks for further input

I read somewhere that swelling can also be sign of a blood disorder and I am a former self harmer so it's always sat at the back of my mind that I'm more sensitive to meds now because I've let a lot of blood in the past 2 years. My levels only said my HG was a little high the last time they took my blood though

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No. 201715[Reply]

Didn't see a thread like this except a 4 year old one with an anime pic so I decided to make a new one.

A thread to discuss what kind of hygiene products we like (body wash/soap/deodorant) and other things relating to it.
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No. 375846

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I have super dry and sensitive skin and Olay is my favorite. I feel clean and hydrated.

No. 375854

I love Dove Bar Soaps. And also a humidifier in your room if the air is dry. Or just suffer if you’re in a winter climate cause nothing helps me in the winter to get moisture, I just am dry until summer where I’m soft but oily kek

No. 375888

I really like the cerave soap bars.

No. 376942

I use Dove's lavender scented body wash and it's gentle enough to not trigger my ezcema. Or maybe you can dilute your current bodywash like 1:4 parts water.
For dry and irritated skin, I've been applying a mix of Cetaphil's moisturizing lotion and Nivea's Creme 1:1 at night and it's been a game-changer for me.

No. 376952

Dove makes a really nice hydrating cream wash, I like the coconut one but there’s lots of good scents that aren’t too overpowering. If you don’t already, try putting lotion on in the shower right after and without fully drying off. I’ve found it keeps my skin from drying in winter better. Olay and Dove like the other nonnas said are also good options, with a wide range to choose from of products and scents.

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No. 368759[Reply]

>What is this thread
By popular demand, we have created the retarded shitpost thread which talks about husbandos and/or horny shit about fictional men in general.
>Why was this made / what is the difference
The difference is that here you can be retarded about your fictional 3D (as in characters from live action movies or shows) and 2D crushes so you don't clog /ot/. Post memes, be frisky, whatever. Be as mild or as spicy as you feel like.
>But why
Farmers are some horny bitches
>Examples of posts that go here
-I want the Jojos to gangbang me raw
-I love me some man tiddies
-I want to cuddle Reigen
>Examples of posts that DO NOT go here
-actual real life men hornyposting
-Your husbando is trash/ugly/cringe/moid-tier etc
-He's gay/belongs with me/other character instead
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No. 376637

Same game but no, Kiryu's death is pretty much inevitable at this point sadly so I expect that. But there's another guy I unexpectedly fell for recently who apparently dies in such a lame way.

No. 376660

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Sage for blogposting.
I thought I let go of having crushes on anime characters and a husbando overall and turned into a normie of sorts. Heck, it's been years since I kept up with anime that feature my crushes and anime in general even, but mamma mia, I read this thread last night and it made me feel things I thought I will never feel again - and that is feeling any form of fuzziness and romanticism.
Today I was smiling like someone who just got a lobotomy thinking about the Dazaiposting done here. Am I falling in love? Probably? Am I mad about it? Not at all.
Thank you anonitas for your service. I am so grateful for this place and not avoiding this thread.
Picrel is one of my childhood crushes i wanna cuddle with this suave gentleman and maybe make out aggressively too

No. 376661

looks familiar. is he from yu yu hakusho or a similar anime? i remember thinking he was cool when i was a kid

No. 376664

Yes, that's Kurama from Yu Yu Hakusho

No. 376707

Lol, yeah! But seriously, im starting to feel him around me in parking lots.
I guess free space can be "He's pure sex" because that's sorta the point of the thread, isn't it?

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No. 143575[Reply]

Discuss everything related to weddings! Post your what your dream wedding would be, plans for your upcoming wedding, rings, dresses, wedding inspo etc etc…
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No. 366298

As if anyone here is getting married Heh

No. 366304

I got married in September

No. 366493

As if anyone other than this anonymous person (congratz) is getting married heh

No. 376568

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I know I'm getting proposed to soon so probably time for me to make a wedding pinterest board kek. I have vague ideas of what I want so far-
>only immediate family and closest friends
>in a cathedral with stained glass, gothic architecture
>ceremony then reception dinner at nice restaurant, and/or huge house party with all our friends
>some flowers or something idk
I've always wanted to get married in a huge BTSSB wedding dresses if I can ever get my hands on one, if not I'm still definitely getting married in lolita even if it's a little cringe. Will probably get something more manageable like a gunne sax dress for the reception.
I have no idea what a realistic budget would be yet tbh. If any married anons want to drop some tips on how you went through planning, budgeting, etc it would help me a lot because I'm totally lost kek. My ultimate goal is to save where I can on the actual wedding so we have more funds for a nice honeymoon

No. 376573

Congrats on the upcoming proposal! Firstly make a list of everything and quadruple check it afterwards. I also Read a while back that you NEVER mention the word wedding when booking things. Things Like food/bands/venue companies will upcharge you when they hear wedding. If you want to do tastings just order the foods or flavors normally and try them with your partner. Also for keeping flowers fresh and pretty I’ve heard you refrigerate them the night before.

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