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No. 532581[Reply]

Post men who are unconventionally attractive, gross, unattractive, average, ugly, creepy/weird, or shameful for their reputation.

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No. 584044

>>584031
You know he’s not kinky at all, right? And he hates animals

No. 584046

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>>584044
>not kinky at all
Perfect for me, we can engage in modest missionary.
>hates animals
He's a cat person though, picrel. All he needs to like is cats for me to fuck.

No. 584101

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Anon made me go down a Richard Ayoade rabbit hole. He has no right to be this cute.

No. 584106

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>>532581
he has a receding hairline and looks kinda sickly but he's so cute to me

No. 584123

>>584101
He is absolutely adorable, and the stupid voice he puts on just makes him cuter.


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No. 264598[Reply]

A thread to write about the things you're grateful for, no matter how small it is. Don't be shy to post daily!

"One of the early research studies on gratitude journals by Emmons & McCullough found that "counting one's blessings" in a journal led to improved psychological and physical functioning. Participants who recorded weekly journals, each consisting of five things they were grateful for, were more optimistic towards the upcoming week and life as a whole, spent more time exercising, and had fewer symptoms of physical illness. Participants who kept daily gratitude journals reported increased overall gratitude, positive affect, enthusiasm, determination, and alertness. They were also more likely to help others and make progress towards their personal goals, compared to those who did not keep gratitude journals."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gratitude_journal

We used to have a thread like this, but it died on /ot/ and I think it could find a better home here on /g/.
Please keep cynicism and sardonic comments to a minimum.
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No. 535469

I'm grateful that I got to know what love is, abs to experience love, however false, fleeting, or currently absent

No. 583874

I'm grateful for this walk back home (and for getting home in the first place), the weather in to my liking with a crispy cold breeze, I was listening to great music, picked some nice leaves and also passed by the laundromat that smelled amazing, like fresh clean soap. I also got gifted some salted caramel chocolate today!

No. 583976

I’m grateful for each member of my family, for how generous, friendly, and patient they try to be.

No. 583984

I believed I had lost one of my earrings on the bus. I've had them almost 15 years now, so I was pretty surprised that they could leave so easily after so many years. Fortunately, I found the missing earring hooked onto the neckline of my undershirt while getting ready for bed later that day. Feels real nice.

No. 584102

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I'm grateful that I still have the ability and the capacity to try and be better. I'm grateful that all of you exist. I hope you all come to a peaceful point in life, if youre not there yet. Favorite activity, favorite food, warm meal, your pet or your special someone, friend, or family. And of course, yourself. I wish you true happiness from the bottom of my heart, and I'm grateful that I'm able to type this message, read it, and be able to feel for other people.


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No. 413813[Reply]

Post your favorite examples of men who have aged like milk or ‘hit the wall’.

Discuss the “men age like wine, women age like milk” cope meme, common amongst undesirable men

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No. 583995

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David Paich of Toto

No. 584000

>>583543
Me too, anon I had such a crush on him. She moggs him and he got fat.

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>>583995

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>>583543
British men should be required by law to stay under a certain weight and and maintain their looks or be required to pay a hefty(kek) "ugly license" fee calculated as a percentage from their total income if they disobey, hitting rock stars and celebrities the hardest. It's only fair. Make England Fit Again, this is feminism at work

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>>580581
We have the same brain nona kek
>>581053
Tale old as time nonny. Even as a child, older men have always creeped me out. Never relax around moids, especially the older ones


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No. 536154[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about EGL & EGA fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your Lolita friendships. Ex Lolitas and newbies are welcomed too.
Old thread >>>/g/208345
Ita Thread >>>/g/466899
Favorite coords thread: >>>/g/528205

For drama, check out the tread on /w/
most recent: >>>/w/338177
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No. 584048

>>584030
transcript for the latecomers but I used AI because I couldn't stand listening to it again so sorry if there's errors

>-to original objects anymore. We are referring to references. And now that I'm, like, doing some very deep research into lolita, I have come to the conclusion that the name lolita, where it come from, y- like, the controversial subject that everybody, like, doesn't like talking about… I think that my conclusion is that in Japan, when lolita was forming and shaping and people are were starting to call it lolita, nobody was referring to the book, but rather the pop cultural phenomenon of lolita that was already idealized in the West. It was already romanticized in the West. And, of course, it flew over to Japan and was idealized even more. And, like, Google literally didn't exist. So unless you were, like, a 16 year old in Harajuku, that really fucking liked reading and, like, most of these kids were fucking rebels - I'm not saying they didn't read, but, like, a lot of kids didn't fucking read and especially not that book because, yeah, it is a cult classic pop cultural phenomenon in the West NOW, but was it that big back then without the Internet? Was it that big without the Internet in Japan? It was big in literature, but also, like, everything that from, like, things that were easily digestible in Japanese pop culture were, like, things like, Brigitte Bardot's, um, Lolita song. It was just, like, cute tongue in cheek, like, Marilyn Monroe's references to Lolita, um, other, like, very easily digestible aesthetic things that just weren't that deep. So everything just referred to the reference. And that is my fucking take that, like, the name that our subculture got is very postmodern because it strictly refers to a reference that's been fully stripped of the contents of the source. That's the tea.

>Like, I don't think anybody, like, you know, because also, like, lolita is often linked with, like, idealized French culture, blah de blah de blah. It sounds cute. Like, I immediately think about, like, Bridgette Bardot and, like, her… little song that was just cutesy. What can I say, like? Like so, yeah, that's the tea. Clock it. Clock it. But we'll see. We'll see what we we'll say. Is this too controversial? Oh my god. I can't believe I'm usPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 584054

>>584048
Thank you so much, God bless you.
>and it it shouldn't be used especially in this, like, subculture. Girl, I'm sorry, but, like, if you're straight, this I don't think this subculture was, like, specifically designed for you. Like, if you're so fucking homophobic and straight, this was not designed for you. This was literally bi queer and rebellion. Like, these fucking vicious, the things that they say to me, say it in face, say it in his face when they're in fetish wear, high heels and their slutty ties showing. Did you hear that? Oh my god. Anyway anyway, yeah. That's the tea, clock it clock it, lolita fashion is for me, in fact. I've been doing it for years now. So, bitches get stitches, and these bitches, I hope they never get their dream dress. No, honestly, I hope for worse because you're literally homophobic. You're literally being, like, homophobic. Like, I hope for worse.
Kekkk why are vapid lolita faghags so predictable. Ohh you're wearing frilly girly fashion but you repeat gay woman-hating edgy words, you're soooo subversive gurl. You see one of them and it's like you know them all. It's not even about experimentation. They want everyone to notice they're doing something different, and then we should change our opinion of what lolita is to accomodate their super special, crazy "bratty" "cunty" selves. It's so boring. It's not even deranged enough to be interesting, they're garden variety attention seekers who just learned what a post-modern queer is.

No. 584065

>>584040
Have you tried washing it nona? I hope you can fix it.

No. 584097

>>583579
So we're all doing 11-03-30s thinking about our dream dresses kek
cheering for you all as well, may we be graced with a listing soon

No. 584098

>>584048
These retards know that lolicon is a japanese term right?


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No. 57290[Reply]

Can we have a thread for depressed NEETs who use their bed as a sanctuary?

Do you spend most of your time in bed? Does anything work for you? Does exercise change your outlook? Have any changes helped?

Any contribution is appreciated. We all need a hand sometimes.
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No. 313624

>>313453
Get fuzzy socks and a bathrobe keep them right by your bedside. Right, when you get up, put on the socks and the bathrobe and you will warm up to start the day.

No. 489665

Something that helped me a lot to get out of bed was removing apps from my phone and limiting what I browse on the net.
My phone is alsmot a dumbphone at this point, and I moved my computer to the living.

But I can't stop my love from being in bed. At night I'm so eager to have dinner early so I can have more bed time.
I'm fighting my demons and today I was out of bed by 10:10am, yay me?

No. 489720

I did this way too much so I bought a floor mattress that must be rolled up during the day so I wouldn't be tempted to lay down and rot in bed all day. Has worked quite well for me personally.

No. 582097

I have been in a rut lately. I am unemployed and the search has been fruitless. I sleep in till around 3pm. I just do not feel like I have a future. I wasted my 20s & now I am gonna turn 29 with nothing to show for it. No savings, a deadend career, and no experiences. I dread my life now.

No. 584087

This rings so true to me. I work a full time 9-5 job, but the moment I finish work and come home, I basically don't leave my bed. I feel like such a boring person because my co-workers are often meeting friends, going out after work and I do nothing but lay in bed on my laptop or phone every night.

The weekends are worse because I have no reason to get up. It doesn't help that my bed is so soft and cosy and relaxing, and I am always so tired after work that sometimes I just go straight to sleep.

I fantasize about quitting my job and going on a career break, but reality is if I do that I would probably just become a full time NEET


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No. 584075

>>584070
I got this all the time growing up from family and friends. I just take it for what it is. IMO it's better to have something about myself that I know looks good to myself and to others than to have nothing.

No. 584081

>>584075
Right? It's worst because it's easier to fix your body by getting fit etc than it is almost impossible to fix a bad face

No. 584084

>>584070
Yes, me too. My body is nice but I literally have an ogre face. I almost wish my body at least matched the ogre aesthetic because I feel like it looks way goofier to be a petite thin hourglass with a jump scare face. I have had men start to catcall me and then stop and laugh when they see my face.

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>>584084
I will end them for you, nonna. We stick together. We protect our own.

No. 584128

>>584084
christ that happened to me once and pops back up all the time when I'm feeling good. I'm so sorry nona, men suck.


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No. 452130[Reply]

For anything skincare related.

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No. 583735

>>583725
Around 4 months. I keep it inside the fridge, in its packaging.

No. 583763

Does anyone have any SPF spray recommendations? I just want something that'll make re-applying to my body easier and is at least SPF 30. I've heard they're popular in Japan but idk what to buy,

No. 584035

I have no idea how but I will break out everytime I use stuff high in hyaluronic acid, and niaciamide will actually burn my cheeks and hurt so I've sought out stuff without either. Hyaluronic acid is more me breaking out and getting tiny bumps all over, weird because don't we produce that on our own anyways? ANYWAYS, wanted to come inform nonas how I just realised snail mucin essence has also been giving me some sort of bumps, or clogging me up despite exfoliating. I ran out and for a few weeks I've been wondering how I am this smooth, bitch it's the lack of snail.

No. 584042

>>583376
>>583384
The coquette threads have been a disaster on this website.

No. 584082

>>584035
Snail mucin, hyaluronic acid, and niacinimide are such meme ingredients it's not even funny. You also only can really benefit from hyaluronic acid if you live in a humid environment, because if you live in a dry environment it does absolutely nothing due to how the chemical reaction wrt moisturizing and hydration works (pulls water from the air basically).
What are you even looking for? All those ingredients seem to offer different benefits.


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No. 581389[Reply]

This thread is for women who chose not to date "real men" (aka 3DPD) and instead have chosen to devote themselves completely to their husbandos. Talk about your daily life with your husbando, and discuss why you chose this lifestyle. Lesbians/Bi women into waifus are welcomed too.

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No. 583941

>>583870
It does I think. The idea is it's a fictional character you're in love with. And we had anons in the previous thread who said they also have OC waifus/husbandos.

No. 583948

>>583870
this is the pygmalion way

No. 584064

Hey, so I am kind of new to this. Not really, but hear me out.
I can't fit in with all these new yumes online because I feel like the feelings that I got for this character within the last year are really serious. It is not just a thing that I will move on from in the next few months/years when some new media comes along.

A lot of the yumes I see online are 'shipping' themselves with multiple characters, shipping the characters with other guys, dating irl moids or just moving on and self shipping with another character the next month. I don't have an issue with that, do whatever you want I don't care. But I feel, idk not a part of that community?

I developed a really serious bond with this character and only this character, it went from a crush to being fully in love with him, and while I did have fictional crushes before, so I understood it, this time it feels different for me. I have never felt it this intensely before. Never thought about spending time with him and doing casual every day things with him all the time, spending our lives together etc.

I only want to be with him, and for me it feels like a serious relationship. I can never date someone because they would never be him and it feels like cheating.

I don't know what I am getting at here, I want to know if there are others here who feel the same way as me, I guess?
This is the first time I experienced the feeling of being in love with a character this intensely

No. 584073

>>584064
this is just called being based. my feelings towards my own husbando are exactly like yours btw, down to every last word. he is also the first character I have become this pants-on-head retarded about. my other obsessions look like baby shit compared to him. I don't look at online yume communities besides the husbando threads because my feelings are very intense and I don't want other people to interfere with it

No. 584076

Maybe it’s just because my husbando is niche but I’m fully convinced that nobody else in the WORLD loves him or understands him as much as I do. They’re remaking the game he’s in and I’m honestly really dreading it, I don’t want other people to turn him into a fandom and bastardize him. I feel like we have this beautiful hidden passion and other people will just misunderstand everything about him. It will mean fanart at least. I’m secretly hoping the game sucks or makes a really shitty portrayal of him, so that nobody likes him kek.


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No. 434936[Reply]

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No. 583759

>>583756
Thank you for the advice mednona, do you know the name of the medicine in the cream? I assume I’ll have to get it prescribed.

No. 583773

>>583759
You are welcome nonna. If it’s BV you need to do an urinoculture and then get antibiotics, you will need a prescription yes. But if it’s an east infection then you’ll just need clotrimazole, you don’t need prescription for that.

No. 583785

Have you guys ever had pimples on your labia majora? I thought I had an ingrown hair (I compulsively rip out my pubes) until I developed another pimple on the other lip. I suffered some pretty severe emotional trauma recently and I've been stressed to death and my diet has gone to shit, but I've never had pimples there before and this isn't the first time I've been stressed. They aren't clusters of sores and they're only on the majora so I don't think it's herpes, but I see anything remotely resembling herpes and I'm like OH MY GOD I HAVE HERPES. I've had sex twice in the last 6 years so there's a slim but nonzero possibility and I get paranoid.

No. 583911

>>583785
Yeah it's happened to me on occasion. It's annoying but they go away after a few days

No. 584062

>>583785
I've had blackheads before and I found it so odd at first. But then I remember, any part with pores on our body is prone to having pimples of any matter. The whiteheads hurt like a bitch. Just take probiotics and wash with lukewarm water only when you shower.


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No. 572532[Reply]

idk, for the ancient girlies:

- Adapting styles & beauty to suit your adult phase in life (aka full time job, serious dating, kids, aging family, ect.)

- Mature style icons in J-fashion

- Translating sub styles for everyday/casual wear

- Making friends in the culture that are over 30

- Events, meetups, concerts & occasions to dress up for

- Anime/dramas ect. depicting life after 30

- Motivation & inspiration on keeping your hobbies
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No. 574422

>>573677
i think the reality is most people become busy in their 30s and succumb to life's stressors. stressful job, marriage, having children, gaining weight and not being as active. they take less care of themselves.

most people aren't as beautiful as fanny rosie in the first place lol.

No. 583001

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Late 30s Dandy kei. I wore ouji in highschool and after, but transitioned into a more cohesive, subtle look. I haven't owned brand, instead opting to make or modify thrifted items paired with relevant basics and accessories. If I like a brand item, I might seek out a similar base to edit to my tastes. Its a fine line between looking Ouji/Dandy and looking like a waiter I'll tell you that.

>Mature style icons in J-fashion
Enjoying this thread. I enjoy watching Lolita fashion shows and watching some youtubers who live elegantly. She isn't Lolita, but I love https://youtube.com/@anzukitty
>Translating sub styles for everyday/casual wear
For work formal events, some outings and work "costume" events. I work in an office and can wear what I want for the most part but opt for comfort. Dressing well, in good silhouettes with an interesting or ornate accessory can accomplish this look if done right.
>Motivation & inspiration on keeping your hobbies
My main relevant hobbies are drawing and jewelry making. I love jewelry and gaudy, sparkling items. Trying to keep up with hobbies as an adult is difficult. My main advice is make time for it.. Easier said than done. Watching old VK videos with my wife, looking at GLB or reading old forum posts are nice walks down memory lane. I still like anime but nothing new, and I enjoy video games. It's a bit lonely but I won't buy that I'm old, because I'm not.
>Vent about aging in world catered to being forever 21
The topic of age and oldness is this regard is depressing. Old is 70, 80, 90 and even then, does it matter?.. Health and enjoyment of life matter. More relevantly, I wish every and anything wasn't called Lolita, and I wish that the kids acted a bit more hinged. I see less genuine interest from some and a lot of attention seeking. This has always been the case, but it flourishes today, especially with each access to poorly made clothes. As an aside, I always thought that while dressing it was almost like putting on another part of your persona. Classy, darker, cuter, aristocratic, whatever that might be. So, seeing people act up whether in brand or just faux style is disappointing. I feel like the magicaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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>>583001
>I always thought that while dressing it was almost like putting on another part of your persona.
I miss this aspect of the fashion a lot, and while it is still here among us older women who've been in it a while, the younger cohort lacks it entirely. I remember on lj and tumblr we'd share tidbits of info we had encountered in etiquette books, and even the GLB would often publish such information (picrel is GLB 41, but I know such info is in other volumes as well). There was a lot of focus on how one behaved while wearing lolita and making sure that the behavior was appropriate for such beautiful clothes. I suspect a lot of that ties into how "lifestyle lolita" used to be a thing. Nowadays, people are more embracing of juxtapositions, such as those "how I dress vs how I act" memes, and I think this also extends to the whole "I may be wearing a super frilly dress but I'm actually a man" mindset. There's more a focus on subverting expectations.

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Fashionable family

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>>573383
I've seen people in their 30s call themselves grandmas because majority of the local comm members are in their early 20s. And like >>573508 said, I feel they definitely are trust fund babies, a lot of them complain about stuff that really only mattered when you don't have many responsibilities. I was kinda shocked seeing how the median age over the years has shifted to being younger. I remember back then it being mostly people in their 30s-40s, me being in my 30s now, it feels more comfortable for me, financially, to commit to the interest.

>Adopting styles
Honestly not an issue for me. There's tons of styles that are mature in its nature, the elegant side of lolita, mori kei, cpk. Even like pic related, long sleeves and colors that aren't piercing to the eyes are fit for anyone even as a fun coord.


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