/g/ - girl talk

>>199878
she’s so hot to me idk why

The character, of course, not the actor.

>>199931
I want her to kiss me on the forehead and tell me how proud she is of the trifle I've made

>>199931
Wow you too? I remember posting her ages ago. Love her attitude.

>>199929
i think she's stunning. i don't get why some people and /tv/cels think she's ugly.

>>199772
>>199781
I wouldn't call myself a febfem because I do interact with men sexually (it's so much easier to find men for casual stuff than women), but the thought of dating one is uncomfortable. I think it can be hard to find other bi women with a strong same sex preference both irl and online, the common experience seems to be dating a man and then coming out or experimenting and it makes me feel disconnected from my identity. I'm the same as you second anon, it's the romance aspect of interacting with men that feels off to me.

No, my family isn't religious.

>>199772
Nta but life is probably simpler that way, being with the same sex can have social/legal complications especially depending on where you live

Even with that in mind I wonder if at least some don t ever consider women viable options or serious ones cause of internalized homophobia

Also slightly unpopular opinion:
While I would rather have this people call themselves Bi, I wouldn't blame a bi woman calling herself straight or lesbian if her attractions skews heavily towards one sex and there only willing to date one sex over the other. I don't like it muddles the term straight ( let alone lesbian who still have to tell penis havers to bugger off) but I still understand why/ the convenience of why.

>>199926
but then that bisexual women who's been calling herself a lesbian goes on and eventually marries a man, lol.

>>199797
Yes, it's all about your attitude. Being mentally strong and confident and knowing what you want. You don't have to be the she-hulk.

>>199797
>>199805
There's no hope because you can't think for yourself.

>>199797
Md/lb is incredibly weird and off putting imo just like dd/lg, but to each their own, pegging’s just a sex act, it doesnt make or break a femdom relationship. Its not like you have to be physically stronger than someone to dom them, you and your sub are willingly entering the relationship together, he’s choosing to subordinate himself to you at leas sexually (if you arent insane, but rp can be fun). If you feel like you need an extra measure of control in the form of physical power then maybe its not the best relationship, but even then, learn how to tie someone up, bring a knife, you need to be very careful with it but some people find that hot

Also not all subs are looking for big milf or amazon, you can find plenty of porn with a short dom and a big sub, its a whole thing

Does anyone have any more dominant audios, or know where I can find more? A few anons have posted whole masterlists and they're my favorite, I really like listening to them

>>199917
Do you mean audios with submissive men? I posted the otome DLsite masterlist earlier. You can also try gone wild audio on Reddit, there is great stuff but also a lot of disgusting shit. Try searching for M4F msub plus keywords you're interested in.

>>199908
He's like a million years old, can you seriously envision yourself fucking a white haired old man? Maybe he was hot 30 years ago but…

>>199908
anderson cooper is max headroom but albino

>>199908
God yes
>>199911
The hair is half the appeal

>>199908
yessss it’s the blue eyes and sharp jaw that do it for me. he looks like old superman

>>199908
I think he is, but I'm going to say "wrong thread" just because of his age and also every person working for CNN deserves to get shot.

My bf told me he doesn’t love me like he used to and that he doesn’t want to get married anymore, and it’s crushed me. Deep down I always felt like he was settling for me but I didn’t want to admit it to myself. I tried my best but I knew I was never his real type. What sucks is we connect s good on an emotional and mental level but he admitted the physical passion just isn’t there. Like the anon aboves gf, I am deeply in love with him and view him as my ideal in every possible way, but he doesn’t feel the same way about me. I was upset that he tried to friendzone me a while ago and had suspicions he was seeing someone else, but it turned out there was no one else and he genuinely just wanted to be single rather than with me. For some reason, this hurts even more. I’m so sad. I can’t make him love me, I was thinking about married life with him and he doesn’t even wanna date. I don’t know what to do.

>>199832
Connect so good*

Also I was his first gf, and he isn’t objectively very attractive, but he believes that he will do better. I don’t mean to sound arrogant but I really don’t think he can do better or that he will find a woman who appreciates him more than I did, and he’s making a big mistake in thinking the grass was greener. What’s ironic is at the start he said he always wanted to feel loved and desired by a girl and did not think it was possible for an average guy like him, I fell literally head over heels and like a typical moid, he got something so he doesn’t want it anymore. Sometimes I feel like the only girls with lasting relationships are the girls who are really offhand towards their bfs. For me, I just tried too hard to make him happy.

>>199814
>a bit of a perfectionist
oh anon perfectionism doesn't excuse or justify abusive behaviour. Be okay.

>>199814
I don’t get where he comes from, at all. Why is he treating you like dog shit? Why are you letting this worthless moid treat you this way? Your love is getting in the way of your health, your mind, and your life.

>>199832
So he knows he wants to break up with you but won't for some reason? Let's be real, physical passion will burn out eventually in every relationship. Every single one I guarantee it. I kinda blame media and the way it portrays romance and love for people thinking otherwise.
I know the pain you feel right now and I'm really sorry.
>I feel like the only girls with lasting relationships are the girls who are really offhand towards their bfs
It sure looks like it but it's a bias. Don't become the kind of person who hurts others to get what you want.

>Met online, 17 and 18
>1 month of chatting becomes official dating
>We decide that I move in with him, in a foreign country
>Become 18, am big girl
>Within a year of talking I leave my country and move in with him.
>Parents couldn't care less, told them beforehand, not a single thought in their bran came that I could have been murdered or become human trafficked.
>Mediocre and stressful living with him. He loves gathering attention online, the only thing that makes him feel alive. So pathetic. Neglects me during the weekends, that's his only free time.
>2 years in, verbal, physical abuse, lots of arguments have developed. Had enough and become abusive the same. Not to mention the shitty mind games all through out.
>Chats and games for hours, still the same pos. I had enough and return to my country.
>I have learned a lot but gained nothing in life for that amount of time spent. Wasted my energy, trust and care. I'm behind two major things essential to adulthood. I'm mad at my parents, him and everyone else who treated me like shit.
>I'm working on one goal at a time. It's tough being in a place where emotional abuse is rampant and still on-going despite what happened. No one cares.
>Have more anger issues, most likely cpstd, distrust in everyone including my family. Hate everything. No more tears just pure anger.
>To this day, almost a year of the leave, he is still playing that stupid pathetic game he wastes money for.
Fuck everything

my first boyfriend was pretty much the center of our friend group and was such a narcissist he would sperg out whenever he felt as if he wasnt the leader or center of attention. anyway, when we started dating i was underage, he was 18 and really over sexual with me and being uncomfortable i vented to my best friend about it but when we fell out he told all this to a friend of his who told people and it went back to my ex. then he broke up with me because i told people and turned our friend group against me and created a narrative that i was a manipulative evil whore. so that was fun

>>191052
kek, turns out he had a secret girlfriend for the past 10 months and has been cheating on her with me for their entire relationship.
my friends told her, and she was gonna break up with him, but she decided not to and theyre still together. i cant imagine WHAT he told her to convince her to stay.
now they're moving cities alone together. he was planning on telling me the day that he moved, like a fucking coward and a sociopath. probably just to avoid the potential emotional repercussions while he was still in town, under the guise of trying to protect my feelings. i feel really bad for her, honestly, and him, too. i hope she has a thick skin, because he gets seriously fucking mean and takes all of his feelings out on whoevers around him.
we would literally start to fuck and have to stop because i would start crying because i was so sad about us not being together. this happened multiple times. he would literally lie to my face and say shit like "i havent kissed anybody since we broke up." he had every opportunity to think about what he was doing to both of us and kept doing it anyway.
is this just what i get for not cutting him off sooner, and letting him just string me along? he kept telling me that we could get back together some day, and we'd still fantasize about our future together. i just feel like shit. hes been my best friend for almost 10 years now and he blocked me like it was nothing.

>>199350
I'd call it light brown too but then people have different cut off points on when they think one color flips into being the next.

>>199361
Lol, I didn't know that. Fair enough. People can be weird about red hair too IME.

>>199361
>People get weird about gatekeeping what blonde is
This is absolutely true. I grew up with an unusual shade of light brown/blonde hair and I was relentlessly teased by other girls for having 'grey' hair. It made me want to lighten my hair to a 'proper' shade of blonde, and I was only 7 or 8 years old.
Nowadays, blonde people tend to say I have brown hair whilst everybody else considers me blonde. It's very strange.

So I have Bettie Page bangs, is it possible to get a perm on them? My bangs stick out if I don't style them and it's so annoying lol

>>199376
I have auburn hair and everyone calls it red except for redheads who call it brown lol.
I don't know why it matters so much.

>>199659
> I will never understand why people try to make themselves look dark and orange, just be the shade that you are
Nta but I'm from a "Cloudy country" and all my life I've been told or asked shit like "Did you spend all summer inside?" "You should get a tan on the beach" "You look so pale, are you okay?". I'm papersheet white and people won't let me pale in peace. I 100000% get why women selftan.

>>199658
Thanks and nope, but I think I am going to have to use some sort of white mixer. I have a cool undertone btw, forgot to mention that. Most pale foundations are quite pink ime.

>>199666
Uncharitable reading, but thanks for the recs. Imo it is ridiculous for them to pretend to be some sort of pOrcElaIn pRiNceSs (they are cringy like that) when they're fully aware they're darker than 80% of the population. I see black bloggers do it too re much needed dark skin foundations, it's annoying tis all. It's clickbait, that's what I meant.

>>199659
It's a regional phenomenon in the UK, my area isn't obsessed with tanning at all, but the orange faces are still fairly prevalent because mainstream stores just don't cater to the average woman's skin tone, it's frustrating. Young British girls in particular tend to have hilariously bad foundation cos all they can afford to buy is the cheapest drug store foundation available. Some girls I went to school with who had skin issues began fake tanning their bodies just to get their face to match and not look ridiculous anymore, I am not joking.

Also here to recommend Mizon snail bb cream to pale anons. It's been my staple for six years.

>>199634
Literally any cushion foundation or Korean bb cream is what you are looking for

Got this concealer to replace my maybelline fit me which is running out.
That one is very nice, I just wanna see how this one will work since a friend recommended it to me. Any one have any experience with Armani products?

>>199787
No it's not repressed homosexuality you just want to post your fave when you already have every other corner of lolcow for this shit. Cute girls >>>/m/6325

>>199795
This is a 50 year old woman she wouldn't fit in there and I have no idea why you are triggered
>>199791
Not a botched nose nona she's a natural beauty

>>199787
Florence is such a goddess

>>199800
Ntayrt but finding a woman beautiful is not the same as repressed homosexuality, which you are fully aware. Did you not stop to think how demeaning that might sound? In a lesbian thread? And the cute girls thread isn't for literal girls. We are not 4chan.

>>199865
>its offensive ubuhfuh
Shut up sped
I'm not gonna post a 50 year old mother in the fucking cute girls thread or change my wording i meant as a joke because it registered as offensive in your autist brain
how do you start a fucking argument about a picture how is one that mentally retarded
Now seethe

Posted the same text in the vent thread, just wanted some more opinions on this since I don't really know what to do about it.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months and not even once in that period of time has he complimented me on my physical looks. He has not even once told me that I look good or pretty or beautiful at any occasion. It sound really embarassing typing that out but I just want to feel pretty once in my life. My parents were abusive , humiliated me, always put me down, called me names and fatshamed me even though I was BMI 19 and made me develop an ED. I am and will never me enough for anybody despite my best efforts. No matter how much I starve or exercise or how much makeup and effort I put into looking good nobody will ever acknowlegde that. I asked him today if he found me pretty to which he replied with ''Yeah, of course you are!!'' and started trying to list features and things he likes about me and began with my hair only to have an awkward fucking 10 second pause trying to list more features of me that he likes while I was laying in his fucking arms. After the 10 fucking second break he awkwardly continued with the moles on my body and one other thing that I don't remember but I think I have never in my life felt so defeated, disappointed and embarassed upon hearing something like that.

When I later on asked my boyfriend on facetime if he finds me pretty he replied with the typical answer being ''Yeah, of course you are!!'' but upon asking why he never says it out outloud he confused me because he ''couldnt explain it''. For him complimenting someone sounds ungenuine, makes him uncomfortable, doesnt feel right to say and sounds weird in ''in his head'', in addition to that he is confused about when and how to say it because ''its just for the moment'' (???).
Why and how does it even make you uncomfortable and makes you feel weird to compliment me (especially on a special occasion like a date) when you keep asking me to suck your dick or do other things with you? He basically confirmed with his statement that he finds me ugly as fuck. I constantly compliment him in regards of his looks and personality, saying how handsome, pretty, adorable, caring and loving he is while he can't even do the same for me? I truly think that he is lying to me and just thinks that I am ugly but doesnt want to admit it because everytime we kiss he constantly closes his Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>199869
You already got the one and only good piece of advice you'll ever receive: dump him. Stop fishing for advice that lets you stay with him and feel loved at the same time, it's not gonna happen.

>>199869
You should write a movie. That story line was pretty vague but decently entertaining. Needs more detail to pull the reader in, maybe post a pic of the love interest to get the attention of the ADHD retards that browse this site

>>199773

Anon, when you meet someone that you really click with, you'll instinctively want to "break your solitary habits" or give up some of your time to them, and you won't resent them for it. It will happen naturally. Relationships don't have to be so all or nothing. You don't have to spend an entire weekend with anyone. Maybe you'll meet someone who also has a lot of hobbies or likes their space!

If you end up with a mature, adjusted, and open person, you'll be able to talk with them (if it's even needed) about retaining a healthy balance of you time/stuff vs couple time. Partners can and do recognize and respect another's need for alone time or distance.

Relax!

With love from your 40 yo Auntie Nonna.

>>199869
not worth it. I dated someone like that (well, he said a few nice things in the beginning, but just stopped a few months in) and it'll never stop feeling like shit. Now, my bf of a year won't shut up about how pretty he finds me, and it has honestly helped so much with my confidence. I get how delusional I was previously with my self loathing and nitpicking, I look perfectly fine and loveable.

inb4 "have you tried to communicate with him?? maybe you should tell him it's important that he compliments you???" lol, contrary to popular reddit opinion, genuine compliments should not and cannot be asked for. If he is never moved to say something sweet upon seeing your face, he just doesn't feel that way about you.